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This episode of The Rumors Are True Podcast welcomes Dan Koch, known for his work in Sherwood, Havana Swim Club, and as the host of multiple thoughtful podcasts including You Have Permission and Pretty Good Vibrations. Dan shares stories from his journey in the music world, from his time as guitarist and songwriter in Sherwood to his newer creative explorations in electronic music and production with Havana Swim Club. Along the way, he reflects on how his experiences in the industry have shaped his perspective as both a musician and a creator of meaningful conversations.Beyond the music, the episode dives into Dan's passion for podcasts and the unique space he's built through shows like You Have Permission and Pretty Good Vibrations. Listeners will get a deeper look at how he bridges creativity, curiosity, and connection across mediums—whether through a catchy melody, a textured beat, or an engaging discussion. It's an inspiring conversation that highlights Dan's versatility and his commitment to exploring both art and ideas.Produced by Wesley Hill @thebigwesArtwork by Jared Chase Bowser @jaredchasebowserMusic by Brian Jerin R.I.P.

I'm joined by David Zahl, returning YHP guest and editor-in-chief of Mockingbird's online magazine. David is also a massive Beach Boys/Brian Wilson fan like myself, so I knew he would be perfect to talk with about what we know about Brian Wilson's personal faith and spirituality. We also celebrate what his music has meant to us personally, playing a lot of song clips along the way. This is a dual-feed episode on both the You Have Permission and Pretty Good Vibrations feeds because the content feels like it fits in both places. Brian Wilson passed away on June 11th. Although my attempt to have a strong line between the first half of the episode (more focused on his faith) and the second (mostly just focused on the music), things got a little blended up. Nonetheless, if you'd like to skip most of the faith/theology stuff, a good place to start listening is around the 60 min mark. ⁠David's piece on Brian ⁠ ⁠Playlist for today's episode⁠ ⁠Beach Boys Mega Tournament PGV episode Part 1⁠ ___________________________ Email Dan: prettygoodvibrationspodcast@gmail.com IG: www.instagram.com/prettygoodvibespod/ Artwork: https://www.nickryanluevano.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode Highlights[00:00] Define the Lifestyle You Want Ryan and Brook explore how lifestyle preferences directly shape your business model—with a story about a misaligned business partner whose “no Mondays or Fridays” rule clashed with growth goals.[07:03] How Many Clients Do You Actually Want? Your ideal number of clients determines everything—from your schedule to your business model to your pricing. Ryan and Brook explain how to align this with your mission, energy, and season of life.[14:06] How Much Revenue Feels Right (for You)? Brook introduces a values-based money framework—Survival, Stability, Success, Significance—and shares how redefining your financial targets around lifestyle and season can bring clarity and peace.[21:53] Finding the Right Price Point Reverse-engineering your pricing based on hours, income goals, and delivery style leads to aligned offers. Ryan and Brook also discuss why ROI-based offers often support higher price points—and why emotional integrity still matters most.[32:37] Do You Want a Team or Just More Time? Not everyone wants to manage people—and that's okay. Ryan and Brook unpack what it really takes to lead a team, why some people change their minds, and how to know if building a company is right for you.[49:18] You Have Permission to Rebuild If your current business doesn't align with what you truly want, don't be afraid to break it. Ryan shares why smart reinvention beats staying stuck—and how to begin that process with intention.

Hey, it's Amy Newmark with your Chicken Soup for the Soul. Today I'm going to share with you my most popular piece on Medium. If you don't know what Medium is, it's a place where writers can get their short pieces published, either by themselves, or in someone else's publication. I started getting published on Medium in April, mostly on two publications which feature interesting stories and great writing. One of my most popular stories appeared in a publication called The Narrative Arc, and it's called “You Have Permission to Remove Toxic People from Your Life” which is something I talk about pretty often because it took me so long to figure it out! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

"Spirituality is like nuclear fission—it has the power to illuminate and energize but also to destroy when mishandled." — Dan Koch"Thriving isn't about a perfect life; it's about alignment between our deepest values and our lived reality." — Dan KochOn our path to spiritual health, we need to keep our eyes open to the ways religion and spirituality have been exploited to coerce, control, and create chaos. Focusing on the intersection of religion and psychology, licensed therapist, researcher, and podcaster Dan Koch is creating a public conversation about spiritual harm and abuse, helping victims learn how to deal with spiritual trauma, and offering insight and guidance toward healthy religious and spiritual experiences.From his own personal journey of religious trauma to his extensive research on spiritual abuse, Dan shares insights on how faith communities can both wound and restore. The conversation covers the psychological impact of religious trauma, the complexities of self-diagnosis, and practical strategies for self-knowledge and healing for anyone who has wrestled with faith, struggled with past church experiences, or have lost their religion.In this conversation with Dan Koch, we discuss:The psychological study of spiritual abuse and harm, including conceptual definitions and the many factors that come along with them.The symptoms and most recognizable patterns that point to spiritual abuseThe impact of abuse and trauma on psychological and spiritual healthHow to reappraise and challenge harmful core beliefsAnd how to find healing, joy, and transcendence as we deal with past trauma.Spirituality: Pro-Social Benefits, with a Shadow Side of Harm, Exploitation, and ViolenceThrough With & For, as well as the broader work of The Thrive Center, we regularly explore the expansive benefits and positives that emerge from our inherent spirituality as human beings, and how that relates to our individual and collective thriving.Religion and spirituality can be an immense force for good, offering countless pro-social benefits to the world, helping us our innate spiritual capacities is an essential factor in what it means to thrive.But we have to acknowledge the harm and vice and corruption—the violence— that has been perpetrated through religious and spiritual contexts. Spiritual abuse is a serious matter and there's no way we can cultivate a full understanding or integrated experience of healthy spirituality without coming to terms with its prevalence and effects.Dan Koch's attention to spiritual harm and abuse is about clearing the way toward a healthier spirituality grounded in care and healing. By exposing and exploring past traumas in the context of heathy and respectful relationships, we can grow into a more joyful faith and transcendent spiritual life.About Dan KochDan Koch is a licensed therapist supporting patients working through the trauma of spiritual abuse; and his work and insight in this domain emerges from his empirical research. He's also host of the You Have Permission podcast. With a background in philosophy and theology, he explores questions of faith, doubt, and spiritual well-being. His research focuses on the psychological effects of religious trauma and how individuals can heal from spiritual abuse.Find more of his work at dankochwords.com.You can find his podcast, You Have Permission wherever you listen to podcasts and find exclusive episodes at patreon.com/dankoch.Helpful Links and ResourcesDan Koch's WebsiteJoin Dan Koch's PatreonYou Have Permission PodcastDan Koch's Research on Spiritual AbuseThe Spiritual Harm and Abuse Scale Clinical ScreenerDevelopment of the Spiritual Harm and Abuse Scale (Article, May 2022)Quotable"I would just distinguish between self-knowledge and self-diagnosis—one leads to growth, the other can lead to unnecessary fear.""Avoidance is both a symptom of trauma and a cause of it—it keeps the rest of the symptoms around.""Spirituality is like nuclear fission—it has the power to illuminate and energize but also to destroy when mishandled.""You can't worship a villain—when spiritual abuse distorts your image of God, it becomes almost impossible to stay in faith.""Thriving isn't about a perfect life; it's about alignment between our deepest values and our lived reality."Show NotesDan Koch on spiritual abuse, religious trauma, and healingHow beliefs about God shape emotional well-beingPractical self-knowledge exercises to promote healingThe impact of fear-based religious teachings on mental healthStrategies for deconstructing harmful religious experiencesUnderstanding Spiritual Abuse and Religious TraumaDefinition and key elements of spiritual abuseDifference between spiritual harm and abuseThe role of power, control, and coercion in religious settingsHow religious trauma manifests in daily lifeConnection between religious trauma and PTSDThe Psychological and Emotional Impact of Religious TraumaThe interplay between faith, fear, and mental healthThe long-term effects of toxic religious teachingsHow avoidance perpetuates trauma symptomsSelf-diagnosis vs. self-awareness in spiritual healingThe importance of challenging harmful core beliefsPractical Strategies for Self-Knowledge and HealingDan Koch's guided self-knowledge exerciseHow breath work can regulate anxiety from spiritual traumaRecognizing and reframing harmful core beliefsThe power of contemplative practices in spiritual healingUsing evidence-based approaches to reconstruct faithHow Churches and Communities Can Foster Spiritual HealthHow leadership can avoid coercive controlCreating spaces for questioning and spiritual growthThe importance of transparency in religious institutionsEncouraging self-agency in spiritual communitiesRedefining authority and spiritual guidance in a healthy wayPam King's Key TakeawaysSpirituality is like nuclear fission: its incredible power can be harnessed for abundant good that is essential to thriving, but when it is exploited or used irresponsibly, the fallout is catastrophic for human well-being.Thriving is an integrative process that can be better understood and better lived when we draw from psychological, philosophical, and theological sources.Sometimes our core beliefs are the source of spiritual harm and trauma, and these can be reframed, reappraised, and challenged—aligning us with self-respect, truth, and love. About the Thrive CenterLearn more at thethrivecenter.org.Follow us on Instagram @thrivecenterFollow us on X @thrivecenterFollow us on LinkedIn @thethrivecenter About Dr. Pam KingDr. Pam King is Executive Director the Thrive Center and is Peter L. Benson Professor of Applied Developmental Science at Fuller School of Psychology & Marriage and Family Therapy. Follow her @drpamking. About With & ForHost: Pam KingSenior Director and Producer: Jill WestbrookOperations Manager: Lauren KimSocial Media Graphic Designer: Wren JuergensenConsulting Producer: Evan RosaSpecial thanks to the team at Fuller Studio and the Fuller School of Psychology & Marriage and Family Therapy.

You Have Permission to Enjoy Your Life, Without Denying Your Pain - Weekly Women's Class: This class was presented on Tuesday, 18 Adar, 5785, March 18, 2025, Parshas Vayakhel, at Bais Medrash Ohr Chaim in Monsey, NY.View Source Sheets: https://portal.theyeshiva.net/api/source-sheets/9629

Pam King joins licensed therapist Dan Koch on his podcast, You Have Permission, for a discussion of the six facets of spiritual health.Announcement! With & For Season 2 is dropping on January 5, 2025! And until then, every Monday from September to December, we're sharing some shorter clips, practical features, and other talks or interviews featuring Dr. Pam King, to offer insight into what it means to thrive and pursue spiritual health.Show NotesWith & For Season 2 is dropping on January 5, 2024!Subscribe to Dan Koch's podcast, You Have Permission and his Patreon at patreon.com/dankochPam's research interests: positive developmental psychology and theologyHow do psychologists perceive religion, spirituality, and theology?How does spirituality and religion factor in human development?William Damon (Stanford University) on moral development in the wake of the Columbine shooting“My work has really focused on how do we offer people insight into the psychological benefits available in spirituality and religion at their best.”Youth group“What's the question I could ask that would get her thinking about the potentially harmful theology?”Purity culture at youth groupThe Thrive Center's rubric of Six Facets of Spiritual HealthWhat are the six facets of spiritual health?Transcendence and spirituality. Habits and rhythms. Relationships and community. Identity and narrative. Vocation and purpose. Ethics and virtues.“This model comes from is comes from existing research that highlights potential resources available through religious participation or being a spiritual person that can promote our well being.”How religion and spirituality buffer against mental illnessPsychological benefits of spirituality“Mechanisms of change”Benefits mediated through relationships with other people“Young people need relationships.”What is the nature of healthy spiritual community?“But increasingly, with the fragmentation of our society and our very transient and digital affiliations, we don't have the richness and the thick connections that we once did.”Polarization and culture wars and Robert Putnam's “Bowling Alone”Transcendence: ”something beyond the self”Spirituality: “experiencing and responding to transcendence”Habits and rhythms.Creativity and music“The reality is, as humans, we often find freedom with some structure.”Atomic HabitsContemplative neuroscienceFight, flight, freezeBuilt in rhythms of work and restSabbathAncient rhythms and practical wisdom that give us permission to restListen to Pam and Dan discuss facets of “Relationships and community” and “Identity and narrative” in the Patron-only second half of the conversation, available via patreon.com/dankochVocation and purpose.Teleology and Telos (end, goal, purpose)Reciprocating relationshipsPursuing purpose as an “enduring goal that is actionable”Mary Helen Immordino Yang (USC) and the default networkMeaning making“The moment that I was able to admit that I was a theological liberal was when I felt through contemplative practice directly accepted by God.”“If God exists, then I'm God's kid.”“And if there is God, and if these spiritual experiences actually correlate to something, then the clearest thing I know is I'm good. I'm loved. I'm accepted.”Ultimate transcendence and connection to divine love“Ultimately spiritual health involves an identity in which we are the beloved.”Contemplative practicesHow to make changing diapers a spiritual practice: “Oh, we got a pooper!”Directionality to narrativeEthics and virtues.Ethics as “real-world application to moral thinking.”Virtues as “building up certain regular capacities in ourselves such that we will naturally make good ethical choices.”Intercessory prayer and loving-kindness meditationHow youth approach morality in the context of community and family About the Thrive CenterLearn more at thethrivecenter.org.Follow us on Instagram @thrivecenterFollow us on X @thrivecenterFollow us on LinkedIn @thethrivecenter About Dr. Pam KingDr. Pam King is Executive Director the Thrive Center and is Peter L. Benson Professor of Applied Developmental Science at Fuller School of Psychology & Marriage and Family Therapy. Follow her @drpamking. About With & ForHost: Pam KingSenior Director and Producer: Jill WestbrookOperations Manager: Lauren KimSocial Media Graphic Designer: Wren JuergensenConsulting Producer: Evan RosaSpecial thanks to the team at Fuller Studio and the Fuller School of Psychology & Marriage and Family Therapy.

Hey, it's Amy Newmark with your Chicken Soup for the Soul. Today I'm going to share with you my most popular piece on Medium. If you don't know what Medium is, it's a place where writers can get their short pieces published, either by themselves, or in someone else's publication. I started getting published on Medium in April, mostly on two publications which feature interesting stories and great writing. One of my most popular stories appeared in a publication called The Narrative Arc, and it's called “You Have Permission to Remove Toxic People from Your Life” which is something I talk about pretty often because it took me so long to figure it out! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In today's episode, Rob and Vinnie are joined by DT's Danny Hall and licensed trauma expert Dan Koch to discuss spiritual abuse in the church. In particular, the conversation centers on how End Times theology has contributed to trauma among some Christians.    To learn more about Dan and his work you can follow his podcast "You Have Permission" on Itunes, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.  Please "follow" this podcast and give a review on iTunes, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. Your review will go a long way toward helping others find this podcast. Then share it with others so that we can get the word of the Gospel of the Kingdom to more people!   Also, our goal is to keep these episodes free of charge. I do not intend to ever hide them behind a paywall. I can only do this if those of you who have been blessed by them and can afford to give ($5, $10, $25, or more/month) do so. You can give a tax-deductible contribution by following this link.    

Joining me for today's fascinating episode is Dan Koch, podcaster and spiritual abuse researcher. Dan has created an incredible tool called the Spiritual Harm & Abuse Scale, and he breaks it down for us as we talk about spiritual abuse and the heavy impact it has on people's lives. Read the show notes and/or ask Natalie a question hereRelated Resources:Check out Dan's Spiritual Harm & Abuse Scale. Also mentioned in today's podcast episode was Dr. Keller's Spiritual Abuse Questionnaire. Connect with Dan on his website as well as Instagram. Listen to Dan's podcast, You Have Permission, and especially Episodes 10 and 123. Grab your copy of one of my favorite books, Faith Beyond Doubt. My newest book, All the Scary Little Gods, is a spiritual memoir about healing from religious trauma and toxic programming. Are you wondering what is happening inside your own painful and confusing marriage? I wrote another book just for you called Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage: A Christian Woman's Guide to Hidden Emotional and Spiritual Abuse. Flying Free is my online membership program designed for Christian women in emotionally abusive marriages. Whether you want to stay in your marriage or leave, we want to equip and support you through this program.Flying Higher is my online membership program for divorced Christian women. Come rebuild your life after divorce with women just like you. Support the Flying Free podcast AND get in on monthly deep-dive discussions with podcast guests by joining the Flying Free Podcast Club for a $5 monthly donation HERE. (Members of Flying Free and Flying Higher can join these discussions FREE. Just reach out to me, natalie@flyingfreenow.com, and we'll get you set up!) Dan Koch is a licensed therapist in the state of Washington, the host of the You Have Permission Podcast and a spiritual abuse researcher who has developed the Spiritual Harm & Abuse Scale, currently in use by religious trauma clinicians around the world.

There's a fair amount of research to support the notion that spirituality and religion can be awfully good for people (and for their kids). But organized religion doesn't exactly have a spotless track record - no matter what faith you're talking about. Plus Matt and Max both grew up pretty much full-on heathen, so even if they do buy into the benefits, is religion really something that they could genuinely incorporate into their families' lives? The Boys welcome the refreshingly open-minded Dan Koch to the program to hash it out. Dan hosts the brilliant podcast You Have Permission. He was raised Evangelical, left it behind, and became a therapist and researcher (with a focus on spiritual trauma) - all while remaining a person of deep faith. Dan has spent much of his life thinking about the babies and bathwaters of spirituality and religion - and as a father, he spends a lot of time trying to figure out what that looks like for families and kids. How do we give our children access and exposure to the innate human drives for meaning, transcendence, and connection to something bigger than ourselves… without shoving a bunch of mumbo-jumbo down their throats? Let's go!Listen to Max and Matt on Dan Koch's Podcast You Have Permission:On Apple PodcastsOn Spotify PodcastsDan Koch's LinktreeBuy Violet Archer on Amazon Here

Melissa Kruger has journeyed with me [Michelle] through motherhood, and right on time -- just two weeks after my oldest became a teenager -- she released a new book on raising teens for Christ. In this episode, we dive deep into God's heart for parenting our teens, including: the risks of defaulting to parent out of motivations other than hope laying the foundation for the teen years in childhood years biggest challenges + opportunities in raising teens today the reminder that it's never too late to parent (or grandparent!) out of hope Follow Melissa on Instagram. Buy the book. Sisters, You Have Permission to Live An Ordinary Life

You Have Permission to Spend! with Tom Wall What does it mean to be financially independent? How do you know that you have enough to retire so that you can enjoy today? Is it really okay to take that vacation? In this episode of Get Your FILL, Financial Independence & Long LIfe, Tom Wall - who coaches financial advisors - answers these questions and more. Learn more: www.permissiontospend.com

This is one of my favorite episodes of the year – I am sharing the top business lessons I learned in 2023. Although this is the fourth time I've recorded this type of episode, this year is the first time I've released it in the New Year, after I've gone through my goal setting process and what I want to achieve in this next quarter. In the past, I've put pressure on myself to release this type of episode before the year ends, but in 2023 I decided to let go of that pressure, focus on the launch of my new course, and schedule this episode as the first of the New Year – and it has been such a welcomed change! So, listen for my greatest lessons learned and takeaways from last year.Highlights:00:03:41 - Your Capacity Is Greater Than You Think00:05:39 - How to Grow Your Capacity in 202400:07:23 - What Inspired Me in 202300:10:01 - A Vulnerable Lesson to Admit00:11:43 - The Upper Limit Problem00:13:26 - Evolving Your Relationship with Goals00:14:26 - My Word for 202400:15:17 - You Have Permission to ChangeListen to Episode 87: Behind the Scenes Insights on Creating the Goal Setting Success CourseLearn More About or Enroll in the Goal Setting Success CourseThe Friday RitualMid-Year Goal Check-InConnect with KristinInstagramLinkedInWebsiteBreakout Plan

Become a Friend of the Show! – join our Patreon communityWe're inviting you to an honest, deep conversation about our experiences and beliefs around faith and not having faith.Mentioned on the show:Life Below ZeroA Beautiful Mess podcast: Elsie's Evangelical Upbringing Story and Emma's Evangelical Upbringing StoryThe Most Good You Can DoJen HatmakerGlennon DoyleCarlos WhittakerLamb: The Gospel According to Biff, Christ's Childhood PalThe Book of LongingsBlue Like JazzTraveling MerciesShauna NiequistSarah BesseyErin MoonMeredith MillerYou Have Permission podcastWiser Than Me podcastSmitten Kitchen Keepers cookbook Become a Friend of the Show! – join our Patreon communityConnect with us on Instagram: @higirlsnextdoorSee show notes on our website: girlnextdoorpodcast.comWe love to get your emails: higirlsnextdoor@gmail.comYour reviews on Apple Podcasts really help the show - thank you! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dan Koch is the host of You Have Permission podcast. He is working towards his doctorate in counseling psychology at Northwest University in Kirkland, WA. He focuses specifically on spiritual abuse. His Spiritual Harm & Abuse Scale was published in May 2022 in the Journal for the Scientific Study of Religion. Dan is most interested in overlapping questions and interactions between psychology and religion/spirituality. Email: dancoke@gmail.comInstagram: @dancokeTwitter: @dankoch​ In this conversation, we explore Dan's spiritual and philosophical background as well as his honest thoughts on religion today.

We examine the phenomena of spiritual abuse with the help of Dan Koch, researcher, therapist, and host of the podcast, You Have Permission. Both Curtis and Dan share how their own lives have been affected by spiritual abuse, and then together address questions such as, “Why can it be difficult to spot? What kind of impact does it leave? What makes spiritual abuse distinct from other kinds of abuse?” The conversation connects important theological insights - including the nature of institutional sin and redemption - with practical advice for victims, their loved ones, and current leaders of Christian organizations.   Dan Koch's Spiritual Harm and Abuse Scale Clinical Screener   Dan's You Have Permission Podcast   Escaping the Maze of Spiritual Abuse: Creating Healthy Christian Cultures by Dr. Lisa Oakley   Further resources on spiritual abuse from The Allender Center at the Seattle School  

In this very special episode, Dan Koch of "You Have Permission" joins Joshua and TJ to discuss how we define Church unity and what that implies with our understanding of the words "Church", "unity", "God", "salvation", and "good". Is the Church more than a building? Is it more than just those who call themselves "Christian"? If unity does not just mean we all agree with each other, what is unity? How is unity different from uniformity? Who is God? How do we know God is real? What is Salvation and what does Salvation have to do with being a part of the Church? If the Church is the people of God or people who identify as Christians, how do we know if we are doing "good" in the world? What is "good"? Is "good" the hardest word to define in the English language? How does Joshua and TJ's beliefs compare to Dan Koch's? How do we come together in mission with such different views about God, the Church, and even salvation at times? oin in our conversations on our Discord Server and Facebook group!.Check out all shows on the AMP Network:https://anazao-ministries.captivate.fm.Check out our online store:thewholechurchpodcast.com .Please consider sponsoring our show on Patreon, here, for access to our extra content like our "Too Long; Didn't Listen" series, our "Pet Peeves" series, and our "Whole Church News" episodes!.Make a one-time donation, here..Subscribe to our show, here..Rate us & leave a review, here.

Today on our show, we bring you a story by Sari Botton. Sari's story is a great example of how to tell a story that encompasses your whole life. It is also a great example of how to end a story while you are still living with a situation.Sari has been featured before on WCR. Check out Episode 80: You Have Permission to Write or Not Write. Sari Botton (sounds like Larry Cotton) is the author of the memoir in essays, And You May Find Yourself…Confessions of a Late-Blooming Gen-X Weirdo. A different version of the story you're about to hear appears in that book. Sari publishes Oldster Magazine, Memoir Monday (now Memoir Land), and Adventures in Journalism. Writing Class Radio is hosted by Allison Langer and Andrea Askowitz. Audio production by Matt Cundill, Evan Surminski, and Aiden Glassey at the Sound Off Media Company. Theme music is by Marnino Toussaint.There's more writing class on our website including stories we study, editing resources, video classes, writing retreats, and live online classes. Join our writing community by following us on Patreon. If you want to write with us every week, you can join our First Draft weekly writers groups. You have the option to join me on Tuesdays 12-1 ET and/or Thursdays with Eduardo Winck 8-9pm ET. You'll write to a prompt and share what you wrote. If you're a business owner, community activist, group that needs healing, entrepreneur and you want to help your team write better, check out all the classes we offer on our website, writingclassradio.com.A Transcript of the episode is available here. Join the community that comes together for instruction, an excuse to write, and most importantly, the support from other writers. To learn more, go to www.Patreon.com/writingclassradio. Or sign up HERE for First Draft for a FREE Zoom link.Join the community that comes together for instruction, an excuse to write, and most importantly, the support from other writers. A new episode will drop every other WEDNESDAY. There's no better way to understand ourselves and each other, than by writing and sharing our stories. Everyone has a story. What's yours?See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

*This episode is not about trauma-focused music therapy, but rather the language festival-goers use around trauma and healing* In today's dual-feed release (also on my You Have Permission feed), ethnomusicologist and author Nathan Myrick (Ph.D., Baylor University) joins me to discuss his research project studying the community surrounding Furnace Fest, a faith-adjacent heavy music festival held in Alabama. Nathan's work focuses on "understanding humanity through the music they make, engage, and participate in." In a surprisingly emotional conversation for me, we cover the lasting effects the Christian punk/hardcore scene has had on so many people. Nathan's Website: nathanmyrick.com Dan's music licensing library: https://dankoch.net/library Email Dan: prettygoodvibrationspodcast@gmail.com Follow Dan on IG: www.instagram.com/dancoke/ Or Twitter: twitter.com/DanKoch Dan's podcasting site: dankochwords.com Artwork: https://www.nickryanluevano.com/ Photo: https://jennydjames.com/

Ben and Joe Bishop, father and son, walk me through the albums Ben most associates with his childhood. We hear how Joe came to be a fan of these records and artists as well as the memories and time periods they call to mind for Ben. Before hitting some of biggest albums of the 60s, 70s, and 80s, we briefly hear clips and talk about 70s Christian albums from Keith Green and Randy Stonehill. Joe's You Have Permission episode on "Baby Boomer Deconstruction": https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-have-permission/id1448000113?i=1000568871042 Ben's You Have Permission episode ("Why I'm Still a Christian")": https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-have-permission/id1448000113?i=1000471323009  Spotify playlist for today's episode: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/64LMe7fsz8IU0MlJIjcciK?si=7c1b755087b14db5 Dan's music licensing library: https://dankoch.net/library Email Dan: prettygoodvibrationspodcast@gmail.com Follow Dan on IG: www.instagram.com/dancoke/ Or Twitter: twitter.com/DanKoch Dan's podcasting site: dankochwords.com Artwork: https://www.nickryanluevano.com/ Photo: https://jennydjames.com/

Today we are discussing two new IPs, "Light and Magic" and "Severance"! To take on this monumental task, host Will Rose is joined by a very special guest - Sarey Martin Concepción! Sarey has worked on many exciting production projects, including some work with Rob Zombie! Now she is a part of the "You Have Permission" podcast! Sarey and Will sit down to talk about "Severance" on Apple TV and how hard a work-life balance can be! What is a work-life balance? How important is a real balance in your life? Should we keep our work lives and personal lives separate? How does each part of our lives add to how we understand our own identity? What is Lumon Industries? Who is Devon in Severance? How good is Britt Lower in this series? How did George Lucas change the industry and what we can imagine can be done? What are the real limitations of us all? Let us know what you think about these two series on our website: systematicgeekology.org

Calvin Moore and  Kent Straith sit down with Dan Koch, the host of the You Have Permission podcast, to discuss spiritual abuse and his ongoing work and research around the matter. Dan Koch Website: www.dankochwords.com Spiritual Abuse Screener: https://www.dankochwords.com/spiritual-abuse-screener.html You Have Permission podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-have-permission/id1448000113?mt=2 Check out our website: www.progressivechristianreview.com  

Happy 200th Episode, Win Nation! Join Adam and Producer Mark as they reminisce on some of their favorite moments and favorite guests of the last couple of years!Adam's Top 3 Favorites: Ep. 183 Excuses are the Killers of Leaders with Don Yaeger Ep. 163 Life is Not a Spectator Sport with General Martin E. Dempsey Ep. 129 The Journey to Self-Awareness with Dr. Tasha Eurich Producer Mark's Top 3 Favorites: Ep. 165 Transform Overthinking From a Super Problem to a Superpower with Jon Acuff Ep. 114 Real Talk and Thankfulness with Adam and Kelly Contos Ep. 111 Prioritizing the Process Over the Prize with Apolo Ohno Honorable Mentions: Ep. 155 How to Lead Your Team During Uncertainty with Seth Mattison Ep. 146 You Have Permission to Dream Big with Bob Goff Ep. 180 Developing Habits to Achieve Your Dreams with Colonel Chris Hadfield Ep. 182 Leveling Up with Vernice “FlyGirl” Armour Ep. 197 How Technology is Driving the Future of Franchising with Dave Liniger Episode Links:Download Adam's free guide: 3 Key Leadership Secrets to Leading Your Business Like the CEO of a Multimillion-Dollar CorporationConnect with Adam:https://www.startwithawin.com/https://www.facebook.com/AdamContosCEOhttps://twitter.com/AdamContosCEOhttps://www.instagram.com/adamcontosceo/Listen, rate, and subscribe!Apple Podcasts Spotify Google PodcastsToday's episode was brought to you by RE/MAX, nobody in the world sells more real estate than RE/MAX. For more information head over to www.REMAX.com

This month of July we are highlighting our Young Adult voices of Fearless! Listen in to this week's episode with Jesslyann Rodriguez, "You Have Permission to Heal."

From the podcast "You Have Permission", Dan Koch stops by the VCW hall to share his Evangelical story and talk about the Southern Baptist (Guidepost Solutions) Abuse report that was released a few weeks ago. Also, we discuss spiritual abuse both defining the term and giving information on how to identify if this has happened to you. Connect with Dan Koch: You can listen to "You Have Permission" podcast hosted by Dan Koch right here: https://www.dankochwords.com/yhp.html Twitter: @DanKoch Mentioned on the Podcast: -Russell Moore on the Southern Baptist sexual abuse scandal: https://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2022/may-web-only/southern-baptist-abuse-apocalypse-russell-moore.html -Peter Wehner on the damage done to Evangelical Christianity: https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2022/05/southern-baptist-convention-abuse-report/630173/ Twitter: @vcwpod Zach- @muzach Dave- @Davejlester Podcast music by Zach Malm Logo by Zach Malm

This is part 2 of a special 2-part series on Ron's faith journey. It's a journey that started in November 2016 with the election of a certain sexist, egotistical, lying, hypocritical bigot as POTUS, and the evangelical church's support of said man. Ron was one of the millions of people whose faith was thrown topsy-turvy as he struggled with how to process what it means to no longer believe how (or what) you used to believe. In this special episode, you'll hear from three Christian podcasters, a Christian hip-hop music video director, and a Lutheran Pastor about how their respective faith journeys led them to where they are now. If you're a person who has dealt with the deconstruction of your Christian faith, this podcast is a love letter to you. Email your thoughts to podcast@dungeonsndurags.com. The Guests Dan Koch of You Have Permission. Here's Dan's deconstruction resource guide SoYoureDeconstructing.com Roxy Stone and Katelyn Beaty of Saved by the City Isaac Deitz Caitlin Trussell. Check out her sermon about Thomas (cued to 33:55) Follow the hosts on social Ron on Twitter - twitter.com/BladeRonner Ron on IG - instagram.com/BlerdRonner JD on Twitter - twitter.com/thatJDCochran Yolanda on Twitter - twitter.com/rat_in_a_wheel Copyrights & Credits Music for the show was licensed from Artlist and curated from FreeMusicArchive.org. Creative commons songs included in this episode (in order of appearance): “Reunion” by Jahzzar (CC BY-SA) “NirvanaVEVO” by Chris Zabriskie (CC BY) Statement of Fair Use As an audio documentary series, we sometimes use news, movie, video, and music clips under Fair Use. We take artists' work and copyrights very seriously. As such, we adhere closely to the law, transforming the work and/or minimizing the use of clips for purposes of explanation, critique, education, or satire. Copyrighted music used to enhance the episode is purchased, or licensed under creative commons. Any inclusion of popular or copyrighted music not so licensed, is used sparingly under the guidelines of good fair use practices. For more information, we highly recommend “The Documentary Filmmaker's Best Practices of Fair Use.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dear Black Girl Creative, You Have Permission to Rest and Rest Your Land. much love and joy, Alecia Join The Black Girl Creative Collective: https://aleciarenece.me/bgccollective Black Girl Manifesto: A Love Letter to Black Women Creators, Dreamers and Makers: https://mailchi.mp/3654233b84c2/black-girl-creative-manifesto Support it on Blurb: https://www.blurb.com/b/10518685-black-girl-creative-manifesto Support it on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08TG29VYD/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_F1E6DB4K9PGXSNH0GGDS?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 ----------------------------------------- Follow Me On Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/aleciarenece Join Our Free Black Girl Creative Membership: https://black-girl-creative-collective.mn.co/ My Gift To You: 7 Day Love Letter and Encouragement Here: https://mailchi.mp/8fe163cbcd28/black-girl-creative-podcast-love-letter Let's Be Friends: Send Me a Voice Mail: ‪(240) 343-5735‬ https://www.aleciarenece.com IG: Alecia Renece Email: alecia.renece@gmail.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/AleciaRenece Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/AleciaRenece --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefreeblackwoman/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thefreeblackwoman/support

What does Hebrews 13:20-21 mean when it says, "May God...equip you with everything good that you may do his will"? This week Candace and Myra discuss our identity as equipped by God- both what he has already done and what he continues to do- and they delve into that tricky topic of knowing God's will for our lives! Book reference: In His Image: 10 Ways God Calls Us to Reflect His Character by Jen Wilkin Article reference: “Sisters, You Have Permission to Lead an Ordinary Life” by Melissa Kruger

This week, Michelle is joined by Melissa Kruger, the director of women's initiatives for The Gospel Coalition. They talk about her role and the mission of TGC, some of Michelle's favorite takeaways from Melissa's writing ministry, and discuss some practical ways of dealing with the pressure of being a working woman as a Christ-follower. You're probably going to want to grab a way to take notes because she makes some points you'll want to reflect on after you listen. If you take away nothing else, remember this: you have permission to lead an ordinary life. Connect with Melissa by following her on Instagram at @melissabryankruger. Resources Mentioned this Episode: Walking with God in the Season of Motherhood by Melissa Kruger: https://www.amazon.com/Walking-God-Season-Motherhood-Eleven-Week/dp/160142650X/ref=sr_1_1?crid=13JSBH72QOPAW&keywords=walking+with+god+in+the+season+of+motherhood&qid=1646329088&sprefix=walking+with+god+in+the+se%2Caps%2C145&sr=8-1 Sisters, You Have Permission to Lead an Ordinary Life by Melissa Kruger:  https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/permission-lead-ordinary-life/ Reset by David Murray: https://www.amazon.com/Reset-Living-Grace-Paced-Burnout-Culture/dp/1433555182/ref=sr_1_2?crid=2T8Y19V0XY5FA&keywords=reset+and+refresh+books&qid=1646329204&sprefix=reset+and+refresh+books%2Caps%2C93&sr=8-2 Refresh by Shona and David Murray: https://www.amazon.com/Refresh-Embracing-Grace-Paced-Endless-Demands/dp/1433555220/ref=sr_1_4?crid=2T8Y19V0XY5FA&keywords=reset+and+refresh+books&qid=1646329265&sprefix=reset+and+refresh+books%2Caps%2C93&sr=8-4 Leading on Empty by Wayne Cordeiro: https://www.amazon.com/Leading-Empty-Refilling-Renewing-Passion/dp/0764207598/ref=sr_1_2?crid=212R9YI55NAFV&keywords=leading+on+empty+by+wayne+cordeiro&qid=1646329613&sprefix=leading+on+empty%2Caps%2C116&sr=8-2

The first of 4 Gospel Series episodes that will be done with Dan Koch (and guests). In this episode about Matthew we discuss evangelism, weakness, doubt, inner-turmoil, God-centered thought and God-honoring life. Can't wait to make more! You Have Permission: https://www.dankochwords.com/yhp.html Dan's Twitter: https://twitter.com/dankoch TRSPTB Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/transregretsnoopy Mercifully Edited and Produced by: https://twitter.com/ASHNERVE

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In this episode of Anchored, Jeremy and special co-host Katie are joined by Dan Koch, the host of the You Have Permission podcast. Dan discusses the reasons behind why it has become increasingly difficult for people to be open-minded, and how Catholicism helped him begin to operate from a viewpoint in which his own thinking could be challenged. The central theme of this episode surrounds having the ability to check our own thinking so that we can engage in open dialogue with people of various backgrounds, and political views. Dan and Jeremy also discuss how Catholicism has shaped their worldview, whether universities are compromised, and the redefinition of  liberalism. 

You Have Permission is one of the most freeing, potent manifesting magical phrases. It oozes with freedom. It nudges you to take action. Above all, it tells you that you're both ready and allowed to go for whatever you're after. Come feel this magical gateway phrase and sink into the feelings of having complete and utter permission to live the life YOU want to live. Discover more at www.flowdreaming.com.

Attending a church planting conference is fun, but it can also leave you feeling like you don't measure up. In this episode, Loren and Carrie talk about how you can manage your expectations and still cheer for and celebrate the church down the street. They discuss the tricky task of finding the sweet spot between working hard, desiring to see God move in huge ways, and being content with the results. It's not an easy task. Article: Sisters, You Have Permission to Lead an Ordinary Life by Melissa KrugerFollow us on Instagram @churchplantingtogethercontact us at churchplantingtogether@gmail.com

This week we're taking a look at Good Will Hunting, and we're joined in our virtual pod studio by none other than Dan Koch! Dan hosts the You Have Permission podcast and he is a doctoral student in counseling psychology, so (in a stunning departure from our formula) we've actually got a real expert on our hands.Take a listen to Dan on You Have Permission here:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-have-permission/id1448000113?mt=2Listen to new episodes of Two Chunks And A Hunk every Monday and Tuesday, wherever you get your podcasts! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/two-chunks-and-a-hunk/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

The Nature of Spiritual Abuse. Today we sit down with friend of the show, Dan Koch to discuss the nature of spiritual abuse within the church. Dan is a podcaster (You Have Permission, Depolarize! & Reconstruct), musician, composer and is currently working on a doctorate in Counseling Psychology. Dan brings us the data and statistics he's gathered in his studies to discuss spiritual abuse in the church, in its many forms, and the ramifications that it has had. What are the most prevalent forms? How do the varied versions effect our communities? How can the culture be changed? You can learn more about Dan on his WEBSITE and social media: Twitter & Instagram. Our previous conversation with Dan can be heard on Episode 86 As always, we encourage and would love discussion as we pursue. Always feel free to email in questions to hello@voxpodcast.com, and to engage the conversation on here and Instagram. Learn more about the VOXOLOGY Podcast: Voxologypodcast.com Subscribe on iTunes Support the VOX Podcast on Patreon Follow us on Instagram: @voxologypodcast Like us on Facebook Music in this episode by Timothy John Stafford Instagram & Twitter: @GoneTimothy

Jack Huber - Becoming CatholicOur topic this week on Voices in My Head is becoming Catholic. My guest this week is my new friend, Jack Huber. Jack lives in Seattle, Washington. He's a father and a husband. By trade he's a social scientist who has worked in the public education and now healthcare industries helping people use data to make better decisions. Jack loves movies, cooking, wine, whiskey and is an avid road cyclist. He also loves reading and listening to podcasts (especially You Have Permission with host Dan Koch, the podcast where I first discovered him.) Jack has had a lifelong Christian journey and is a convert to the Catholic faith and is actively involved at his local Parish. He's always eager to share his faith and learn from others and he's here today to share some of his story with us. Upcoming ReleaseRick Lee JamesYou Are My Salvation - New Music ReleaseJun 25th, 2021 More Info Here Thank you for listening to Voices In My Head!Blessings,Rick Lee JamesWant some exclusives like early music videos, singles, and private podcast episodes?Become a paid subscriber on Substack:Subscribe nowListen to Rick Lee James MusicOne of the best ways to support independent artists during Covid-19 is to stream our music on platforms like Spotify, Apple Music and Pandora. Click below to find out all the ways you can listen.Music From RICK LEE JAMEShttps://linktr.ee/rickleejamesSpotify: Link to Rick Lee JamesAlso Find Rick Lee James Music on Bandcamp: Rick on Bandcampor on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3abA3po About Your Host: Rick Lee JamesSubscribe on Substack: https://rickleejames.substack.com/Web Site www.rickleejames.com,TwitterFacebook.Voices In My Head Podcast www.voicesinmyheadpodcast.com,Mister Rogers Quotes on Twitter at @MisterRogersSay.“Welcome To The Neighborhood: A Mister Rogers Tribute Podcast”:HERE. Rick Lee James Radio Special:https://westarchristianmedia.com/rick-lee-james-30-minute-radio-special Get Rick Lee James Latest Album: https://rickleejames.bandcamp.com/In partnership with CRW Radio Promotions, singer, songwriter and worship leader Rick Lee James debuts a brand new radio special. The “Thunder Radio Special” can be heard exclusively on James' official YouTube channel or his website. It was also recently added to Spotify and Apple Music. Radio stations interested in airing the “Thunder Radio Special” can contact Kathryn Ambrose at CRW Radio Promotions at kathryn@westarmediagroup.com.----more----For Rick Lee James Booking Inquiries: www.RickLeeJames.comBy Email: Rick@RickLeeJames.com This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit rickleejames.substack.com/subscribe

Jack Huber - Becoming CatholicOur topic this week on Voices in My Head is becoming Catholic. My guest this week is my new friend, Jack Huber. Jack lives in Seattle, Washington. He's a father and a husband. By trade he's a social scientist who has worked in the public education and now healthcare industries helping people use data to make better decisions. Jack loves movies, cooking, wine, whiskey and is an avid road cyclist. He also loves reading and listening to podcasts (especially You Have Permission with host Dan Koch, the podcast where I first discovered him.) Jack has had a lifelong Christian journey and is a convert to the Catholic faith and is actively involved at his local Parish. He's always eager to share his faith and learn from others and he's here today to share some of his story with us.Upcoming ReleaseRick Lee JamesYou Are My Salvation - New Music ReleaseJun 25th, 2021More Info HereThank you for listening to Voices In My Head!Blessings,Rick Lee JamesWant some exclusives like early music videos, singles, and private podcast episodes?Become a paid subscriber on Substack:Subscribe nowListen to Rick Lee James MusicOne of the best ways to support independent artists during Covid-19 is to stream our music on platforms like Spotify, Apple Music and Pandora. Click below to find out all the ways you can listen.Music From RICK LEE JAMEShttps://linktr.ee/rickleejamesSpotify: Link to Rick Lee JamesAlso Find Rick Lee James Music on Bandcamp: Rick on Bandcampor on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3abA3poAbout Your Host: Rick Lee JamesSubscribe on Substack: https://rickleejames.substack.com/Web Site www.rickleejames.com,TwitterFacebook.Voices In My Head Podcast www.voicesinmyheadpodcast.com,Mister Rogers Quotes on Twitter at @MisterRogersSay.“Welcome To The Neighborhood: A Mister Rogers Tribute Podcast”:HERE.Rick Lee James Radio Special:https://westarchristianmedia.com/rick-lee-james-30-minute-radio-specialGet Rick Lee James Latest Album: https://rickleejames.bandcamp.com/In partnership with CRW Radio Promotions, singer, songwriter and worship leader Rick Lee James debuts a brand new radio special. The “Thunder Radio Special” can be heard exclusively on James' official YouTube channel or his website. It was also recently added to Spotify and Apple Music. Radio stations interested in airing the “Thunder Radio Special” can contact Kathryn Ambrose at CRW Radio Promotions at kathryn@westarmediagroup.com.----more----For Rick Lee James Booking Inquiries: www.RickLeeJames.comBy Email: Rick@RickLeeJames.com This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit rickleejames.substack.com/subscribe

It feels like a blink since the original post “lessons from one year of writing full-time”. But it is with ENORMOUS pride, a slight maniacal cackle and a deep sigh of caffeine-fuelled relief that I get to say this is 5 lessons from two years of writing full-time.   5 Lessons from Two Years of Writing Full-Time    Lesson 1: The Income Update In my first year, my only goal was to survive. I was desperate not to go back to the corporate hellmare that was my old day job.  I did that, yay me. But I also ended year one feeling like I was rudderless and hadn't pushed myself sufficiently on the income front—which, funnily enough, I hadn't because I was so consumed by just surviving. Year two was a financial shifting year. While I wanted to beat my old day job income, it was more important to me to reduce the freelance in order to focus on my business and create the financial and life freedom I really wanted. But I'm also a competitive bitch, and STILL wanted to increase my overall income, a tall order given I was starting from a lower baseline after giving up a lot of the freelance gigs. Thanks to a frankly terrifying amount of caffeine, a little hysteria and a few gins, I managed it. Turnover was up 22% and net profit up 67%.  But the really exciting development is the change in breakdown of income. In year one, 75% of my income came from freelance work, 17% from book sales and 8% from everything else like affiliate income, speaking fees etc. But in year two, what changed dramatically. I'm genuinely surprised, shocked and delighted to see the shift. It shows how much of a lie time is, the last year has felt endless and so, so fast all at the same time.  But the summary is that I halved the income from freelance which sat at just 37% of turnover and increased sales income to the point where it's now my biggest income stream at 44% of turnover. This makes me crazy happy and hungry to continue decreasing the freelance income and continue boosting my other streams. Interestingly, my “everything else” bucket more than doubled in year two and that's thanks in part to the podcast, sponsorships, and patreon but also to course sales and a variety of other income streams. A takeaway here for me is that while I doubled the array of “everything else” income streams, it still only accounted for 19% AND in order to generate that, it took as much effort if not more than everything else. Realistically, it's the books that shifted the income percentages and so this coming year, I must focus my energies on getting more books written. In my second year, my main income streams included: book sales, freelance work, patreon, merchandise, affiliate income, sponsorship, course sales, consulting and speaking.  Year two assets include: 8 nonfiction books and 3 nonfiction box sets and 2 fiction books. In year three, my goal is to continue growing turnover and profit, continue reducing the % freelance work accounts for and increase my wide book sales income. In addition, I want to add audiobooks and more courses to my asset portfolio. I still haven't beaten my old day job income so that goal is burning hard now! Takeaway 1: Annual analysis is really important to help give you perspective. I've been flailing a bit recently with the direction I should be going and this has helped to solidify that.   Lesson 2: Self-Belief is Everything It's only now that I look back at the end of my second year of business that I realise just quite how much of my first year was spent in crippling fear. My sphincter was constantly quivering at the thought of having to go back to a job I hated and the prospect of being flung back into that depressive “no way out” mindset. I spoke earlier about how I didn't care about anything other than surviving and making sure I didn't go back and that was all consuming in the first year.  It's taken me two years to get rid of that fear. I still fidget a little, itchy sphincter hasn't totally gone, but I have self-belief in a way that I never had before. I know without a doubt that I won't go back to a day job. This career, hell, any career working for myself is for life. Even if I end up doing something else as a business, this life of working for myself is not something I can or will ever give up. I was not made to work for other people but accepting that or more, being comfortable and confident enough to accept that has taken time. Indies are especially good at wanting things now, now, now. I'm like it too. I think it's because our businesses are in our control, therefore we want results now, to publish yesterday, the covers last week and the income ALL DAY LONG BABY.  But there is something intangible that “time” can give you. Growth doesn't happen instantly. You don't just quit your job and have the self-belief that you can do this, or the income appear instantly. Shit is rocky for a while, business is hard, and it is a rollercoaster of wobbling belief, income and learning. But fuck me is it the most glorious rollercoaster out there. This second year, despite it being in extremely difficult global times, has allowed me to blossom and grow in confidence and self-belief and the security that I can do this for the long haul and things are going to be okay. Takeaway 2: no matter how quick or amazing your income balloons, there is something that only time can give you, a kind of security blanket of confidence and assurance that you've got this. It's a hard pill to swallow when you're drowning in a society of “nowness” but embrace it, buckle up baby and grip hard, this is a rocky rollercoaster ride.   Lesson 3: The Honeymoon Period Ends Alright, yes, this job is fucking amazing. I will never say otherwise. However, every job no matter the business or industry you're in, has a grind. And this year the honeymoon period well and truly ended for me. Perhaps it was made worse and brought forward because of Covid and the absolute devastation it caused on my time and sanity. But the honeymoon period of working for myself is definitely over. Does that mean I regret leaving my day job? Abso-fuckin-lutely not. This is the best job in the world. However, managing a family, a school kid, a wife a house and a business is A LOT. Because I have work “flexibility” nine times out of ten the “can you dos” fall to me. The ad hoc life shit will fall on my plate and I ended up doing 95% of the homeschooling. Which at six hours a day did not leave much time or energy for business. The grind of having to do admin and emails and deal with everything else life throws at me as well as work a number of evenings is tough. Without having had a proper holiday in the last 18 months I'm feeling worn if I'm honest. There's a kind of viral exhaustion I can't get rid of because staycations are never real breaks when you work for yourself. What this means is that I need to keep things fresh. I need to do projects that I both enjoy and that bring me income. Finding the balance is key to retaining my enthusiasm. Takeaway 3: Holidays away from the house and my office are essential to get real rejuvenation time. Reducing or outsourcing “grind” tasks over the next year to ensure I stick with what only I can do is essential. I also need to find a way to work less evenings it's having a severe impact on my energy and enthusiasm.    Lesson 4: Input and Strengths In my first year I was so concerned with just surviving that I didn't put much thought into learning, growth or development. But as I neared the last third of my second year, I felt a gaping emptiness and my ability to write was being affected. It's in large part thanks to Becca Syme and her Better Faster Academy that I've been able to learn more about my strengths and make them work smarter for me. Case in point, I've upped my reading input from 60-70 books a year to 130-140ish. The result? In the first month alone I output 30% more words. Whether I like it or not, I have a high need for input. I'd assumed it was just visual stimuli I needed but apparently binge watching Netflix isn't cutting it for my brain, it wants to eat books and so I will deliver as a humble servant. I think the other lesson is that by being aware of my strengths, intentionally learning and trying to develop them, I can have real tangible results. But I do need to give myself the time and headspace to reflect and learn and input. Something I find difficult from the outset because it doesn't feel like work. If it helps me develop, work better or smarter, then clearly I need to do it. Takeaway 4: Sometimes the things that create the biggest effect on your bottom line don't feel like work, but that doesn't mean it isn't or that it's not important. Far from it. You have to do those things. Those are the things that allow you to grow.   Lesson 5: You Have Permission This is going to sound bonkers from the mother of villains and queen of rebels. BUT, it's very easy to institutionalise yourself. When you live day in day out with how your business is and doing things “because they work” it's easy to forget you can pivot or change or adapt. When it comes to someone else telling me what to do, I'll always rebel or find a way to break the rule, but I'm often left floundering when it comes to myself. I tend to be reluctant to give myself permission, or I let doubt creep in and prevent me from doing the thing I know I should be doing. That's why I have Post-its reminding me “YOU HAVE PERMISSION”. This is the life I created and the one I want to live, taking the time to write the book I want to write IS OKAY, SACHA. Take this post, I had to force myself to sit down and do it even though I knew it would be helpful. Expectation is a slippery fucker, whether it's from external sources or yourself, it's weighty and meaty and it can stop you doing things you either want to do or know would be good for your business. No more.  Takeaway 5: There are a couple of BIG game changing things I need to do this year and I need to stop holding myself back. No more fucking about Sacha, you have lofty goals and you're not going to apologise for them. I have permission. I just need to get on with it.   One Last Thought: No matter what happens, this is better This was one of the lessons from my first year full-time. No matter what happens this life is better. I stand by that, if anything I believe it even more firmly this year than last. I keep two sentimental photos from this journey. The first is the Post-it I signed and dated saying I'd be writing full-time in 2020. I left in 2019, and every time I look back at the Post-it I smile. The other photo is the photo of me on one of my worst days in my old job. I'm broken and in so much pain that it's genuinely uncomfortable even now for me to look at. I keep it because it's also a short, sharp annual reminder not to get lazy, not to take this life for granted and to appreciate every second I'm lucky enough to do this as a job. Yes, running an author business is hard, yes the honeymoon period is over, yes it's grueling, but it's also the best fucking thing I could have done and I'd die before I gave it up.  

In this episode Jonathan and Travis Hayes have a conversation about something affecting Christian culture currently, deconstruction and doubt. We have an honest conversation about what it is, our own personal experiences and encouragement for moving forward. We hope you will lean in on this and utilize some of the resources Travis pointed us to. Book recommendation: Faith After Doubt by Brian McLaren: https://www.amazon.com/Faith-After-Doubt-Beliefs-Stopped/dp/1250262771 Podcast recommendation: You Have Permission: https://www.dankochwords.com/yhp.html The Bible For Normal People: https://peteenns.com/podcast/ Websites: https://www.soyouredeconstructing.com https://www.ravenfoundation.org Song: Fireside Chat by Ruslan --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Dan Koch, host of the You Have Permission podcast, joins Jill and Paula for a follow-up conversation about the Ravi Zacharias scandal. Dan and Paula began this discussion on his podcast a few weeks ago, and wanted to continue the conversation here to focus on the impact of the scandal on the followers of Ravi Zacharias. Side roads include discussion of gatekeeping practices for pastors and therapists, the dangers of a capitalistic approach to Christianity, and how much we can separate the message from the messenger. Link to the Ravi "You Have Permission" episode Dan's Twitter @dankoch Dan's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dancoke/ We are grateful for our roadie listeners and the opportunity to be on this journey together! We would love to hear from you: your hopes and dreams for future episode topics, questions, Sacred intersections in your life, and anything else you'd like to share with us. You can interact with us in lots of ways: Our website: www.sacredintersectionspodcast.com Email: sacredintersectionspodcast@gmail.com Social Media: @sacredintersectionspodcast on Facebook and Instagram and @sacredpod on Twitter Also, we have merch! http://tee.pub/lic/sacredintersections --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Hey Roadies! No new full episode this week, but as Paula explains in this quick update, Paula was a guest on Dan Koch's "You Have Permission" podcast last week where they discussed the report on Christian Apologist Ravi Zacharias' sexual misconduct through the lens of Religious Abuse. We encourage you to listen to that episode this week, because in a few weeks, Jill and Paula will welcome Dan to come to "Sacred Intersections" for a follow-up conversation, focusing specifically on the impact to Ravi Zacharias' followers. Link to the Ravi "You Have Permission" episode We are grateful for our roadie listeners and the opportunity to be on this journey together! We would love to hear from you: your hopes and dreams for future episode topics, questions, Sacred intersections in your life and anything else you'd like to share with us. You can interact with us in lots of ways: Our website: www.sacredintersectionspodcast.com Email: sacredintersectionspodcast@gmail.com Social Media: @sacredintersectionspodcast on Facebook and Instagram and @sacredpod on Twitter Also, we have merch! http://tee.pub/lic/sacredintersections

This is one wild and crazy episode with three friends. Sarey and Dan (You Have Permission Podcast) join me and Mason (a People's Theology Podcast) to launch a spectacular resource for those going through a faith transition - So You're Deconstructing. You will definitely want to check out the site and book mark it to share with friends when the time comes. PS. This episode is not normal and definitely not safe for work or kids. If you don't like very inappropriate humor about religion, purity culture, youth group, and other elements of evangelical culture don't listen. You can go participate in the launch of So You're Deconstructing in a very serious way on You Have Permission where we tell serious stories of faith. If you want super nerdy goodness go check out Mason and I discussing all things process on a People's Theology. Just don't listen to this and tell me I used potty words, made religious sex jokes, and was too flippant with serious things. Remember I made The Road to Edmond and had a character have heart felt break through while smoking a joint rolled in a page from the Bible. #PuffPuffPassLeviticus Follow the podcast, drop a review, send feedback/questions or become a member of the HBC Community. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Dan Koch Is Giving You Permission - Episode 371 Dan Koch is the host of the popular podcast You Have Permission, which deals with theology, science, prayer, psychology, and related topics. His listeners range from moderate Evangelicals to Progressive/Liberal Christians, with a few non-religious folks sprinkled in. Recently, Dan conducted 20 interviews around the topic of End Times theology and its relationship to mental health issues as part of his doctoral dissertation in psychology. He has turned those 20 conversations into a 4-part highly-produced series, currently airing now on the You Have Permission podcast feed. The stories include self-proclaimed prophetesses, doomsday prepping, praying the Rapture would keep a young man from having to live out a gay lifestyle, and more. Dan also deals with topics on his show like Universal Salvation, Trump & Evangelicals, his own faith story of anxiety and control vs. awe and wonder, Old Testament violence, Purity Culture, and LGBT Affirmation. Dan's Website: http://dankoch.net/ You Have Permission Podcast Web Site:https://www.dankochwords.com/yhp.html     ----more--------more----Looking for some more music during your time at home?Also Find Rick Lee James Music on Bandcamp: www.RickLeeJames.Bandcamp.comor on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3abA3po  ----more----  Become A Patron of this Podcast at the Rick Lee James PATREON PAGE: https://www.patreon.com/RickLeeJames ----more----As Always...Thank You For Listening To Voices In My Head  About Your Host: Rick Lee JamesFor more information on Rick Lee James, visit www.rickleejames.com, or follow him on Twitter and Facebook. Listen to his official podcast at www.voicesinmyheadpodcast.com, and get a daily dose of wisdom from Mister Rogers at @MisterRogersSay.“Welcome To The Neighborhood: A Mister Rogers Tribute Podcast” podcast can be heard HERE.Request the “Thunder Radio Special” at www.crwradiopromotions.com. Official Web Site: www.RickLeeJames.comGet Rick Lee James Latest Album: https://fanlink.to/RLJThunderIn partnership with CRW Radio Promotions, singer, songwriter and worship leader Rick Lee James debuts a brand new radio special. The “Thunder Radio Special” can be heard exclusively on James' official YouTube channel or his website. It was also recently added to Spotify and Apple Music. Radio stations interested in airing the “Thunder Radio Special” can contact Kathryn Ambrose at CRW Radio Promotions at kathryn@westarmediagroup.com.----more----For Booking Inquiries  Click Hereor contact Gary StriplingBy Phone: 904.745.9151By Email: gary@themanagementagency.comManagement General Office Hours:Monday – 11Am – 5PMTuesday – 11Am – 5PMWednesday – Office closedThursday – 11Am – 5PMFriday – 11AM – 5PMSaturday – 11AM – 5PM This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit rickleejames.substack.com/subscribe

Nathan Gilmour talks with Dan Koch of the You Have Permission podcast about his recent project "End Times Anxiety."

Do you identify as an ex-evangelical or as a post-evangelical? What is the difference between the two terms, and why should it matter?   This week's episode features a conversation with Dan Koch, self-identified progressive Christian and host of the You Have Permission podcast. Dan's aim with his show is literally to "give permission" to people within Christianity who might be questioning various aspects of their faith.   Believe it or not, one has the freedom to explore possibilities and options outside of what they may have been taught in their particular church or tradition. In this conversation we'll model what it's like to have a respectful and mutually-beneficial dialogue between two people who, as it turns out, have far more in agreement than disagreement!   Support Independent Media like MindShift Podcast on Patreon!   Contact Information Follow Dan on Twitter @DanKoch Follow me on Twitter @MindShift2018

On today's episode I am interviewing Karla Bennett! She's a full time mom and lives in the Dallas area with her husband and two littles, ages 6 and 3. In her spare time she runs a small, handcrafted lip balm business and a gift giving business. We're going to talk more about that in the episode! I loved everything she had to say: from a very funny (and terrible) poop story to the time where enough was enough and her counselor told her, “YOU HAVE PERMISSION”, which was a total shift in thinking for her. You're going to love her! Enjoy my conversation with Karla.

My friend and fellow podcast nerd, Dan Koch, is back on the podcast.  Dan is here so I can tell you all about his brand new podcast - YOU HAVE PERMISSION. You Have Permission (hosted by Dan Koch -- Depolarize! Podcast, Reconstruct) is a podcast for anyone asking those deep and timeless questions that humans can't seem to stop asking.  So many of us have been given bad answers to these good questions, often by people with pure intentions. What this podcasts claims is that you have permission to take both Christianity and the modern world very seriously.  The series launched January 14th with 4 full length episodes on Christian Inclusivism, Theistic Evolution, Extraterrestrial Theology, and Predestination. Dan is also the co-host the Depolarize! and Reconstruct podcasts, plays guitar in Sherwood, and lives in Seattle.We have a large amount of fun talking to each other. Personally I love saying things I know he will disagree with, in just a snarky enough way, to get him going. As you will hear that happens. Plus I pitch Dan a vision of Christianity as a Wisdom tradition at the end. Although Dan is not as cool as Josh Patterson... he is still pretty cool and I was happy to have him on. Follow the podcast, drop a review, send feedback/questions or become a member of the HBC Community. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices