Podcast appearances and mentions of Brendon Burchard

Follow up does not annoy prospects. Bad follow up does. In this episode Ray digs into why "just checking in" is the laziest, most ineffective message you can send, and gives you the two word mindset shift that fixes it for good: be busy. Ray explains that if you are not actually busy living a full life, building your business, spending time with your kids, growing in your faith, then it is time to get busy, because your schedule is dictating the speed of your success. Ray shares his tried and true script for reconnecting with someone you have not talked to in a long time, along with his three step follow up for cold market prospects who have gone quiet, a method he has personally taught for over a decade that gets over half of ghosters to respond. He also gives you his favorite line for warm market, friends and family who leave you on read, and explains exactly why it works almost every time. Most importantly, Ray reminds you that a response is not the goal. Moving someone closer to solving their problem is the goal, and that starts with knowing what that problem actually is better than you know your own product.

Every person in your life is telling you the truth about themselves right now, just not with their mouth. That is the filter I open this weekend mashup with, and it is why I brought together some of the sharpest minds I know on reading people, building real confidence and telling the difference between someone who loves you and someone who is just good at saying it. Dr. Marisa Franco is breaking down the actual research on why some friendships take root and others fade. Brendon Burchard and I get into the two small promises I started keeping to myself and how the habit of keeping tiny commitments directly relates to whether you can trust a person or not. Then you hear the raw truth from a man who finished Navy SEAL training, Army Ranger School and Air Force tech school in one lifetime, David Goggins, describing the 19 hours that broke him down and rebuilt him at the same time. What he says about the people from his old life who still want to pull him back will stick with you. Here's what you'll walk away with: Filter test: the exact shift in how you watch people that tells you instantly who is real. Friendship science: why the group you show up to again and again matters more than how the first meeting felt. Confidence rebuild: the two tiny promises that pulled me out of my lowest point. The cookie jar: how to reach for proof of your own toughness when your body wants to quit. The lens flip: one question that will change how every person in your life experiences you. I have spent the past few years listening less and watching more, and every relationship in my life is better for it. Watch the people around you this week instead of just listening to them, and you will already understand more about your life than you did yesterday.  

"If I'm here 20 years from now doing this exact same thing, is that okay? And I said, absolutely not." — Dr. Ken Keis Dr. Ken Keis is back — and if you caught his first conversation with Nicky, you already know this is someone who has built a life's work out of helping people find theirs. This time, the conversation goes deeper: into how a dairy farm kid who nearly failed high school and was told he'd never amount to anything became one of the world's leading voices on leadership, purpose, and human potential. Keis has logged over 3,000 paid presentations, written multiple bestselling books, built 12 proprietary assessments, and led Consulting Resource Group through close to five decades of growth. He's also someone who hired a coach in 1989 — when coaching wasn't a thing — drove five hours round-trip to do it, and has never stopped investing in his own development since. What makes this conversation worth your time is the specificity. Keis doesn't deal in vague inspiration. He talks about the exact question he asked himself at 5:30 in the morning that made him leave the farm. He describes why he went from B student to PhD candidate and what changed. He draws a clear line between people who have opinions and people who have wisdom — and why most of us are still asking the wrong ones for advice. There's also a practical gift in here: Keis is offering a free e-copy of his book The Quest for Purpose to TTLR listeners — a step-by-step process for getting clear on who you are and what you're built for. Learn more & connect: Dr. Ken Keis — https://www.kenkeis.com Free e-copy of The Quest for Purpose (TTLR exclusive) — https://www.kenkeis.com/ecircle Consulting Resource Group — https://www.crgleader.com Resources mentioned: The Quest for Purpose by Dr. Ken Keis — https://www.kenkeis.com/ecircle The Greatest Salesman in the World by Og Mandino (widely available) Brain Energy by Dr. Christopher Palmer — https://www.brainenergybook.com High Performance Habits by Brendon Burchard — https://www.brendon.com Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill (widely available) Visit https://www.eCircleAcademy.com and book a success call with Nicky to take your practice to the next level.

You can protect your image or grow your income. Rarely both. Ray pulls no punches in this episode, calling out one of the biggest silent killers of sales success: the need for approval. If you're holding back from reaching out, posting content, or making the ask because you're worried about what people think, that fear is costing you real money. Ray shares from his own journey — including the real estate folks who laughed at him when he moved into direct sales, and then later asked if he was hiring. This episode is a gut check on fixed versus growth mindset, and why the path to mastery has nothing to do with natural talent. Ray admits he was terrible at public speaking, video, and sales when he started. He kept going anyway. Now people call him a natural. The truth is, nobody sees the reps behind the results. Whether it's closing, networking, or marketing, you can get better at all of it — but only if you stop letting people who have nothing to do with paying your bills determine how far you go. Show up, do the work, and stop waiting for the applause that may never come.

Most people say they want growth — right up until it requires change. In this episode, Ray gets real about why so many talented, driven people never actually hit the level they're capable of. He starts with a simple but convicting exercise: think of someone who should be further along, and someone who blew past every expectation. The gap between those two people? That gap might be telling you everything about where you're stuck. Ray breaks down the four reasons most people plateau: chasing acceptance and approval from others, confusing potential with actual output, staying down too long after a punch, and looking for fulfillment in things that can never deliver it. That last one hits different. Ray shares the moment at the end of 2019 when he had the money, the stages, the sold-out events — and still felt something missing. He connects it to a 60 Minutes interview with Tom Brady, a three-time Super Bowl champion who admitted he still wondered if that was all there was. The answer Ray found? Serving. Using the gifts God gave you to genuinely help people — that's where real fulfillment lives. And the good news is, if you do it right, the income follows too.

Hosts Ryan Greigg and Jacqueline Smith explore the vital role of energy management in personal and professional success. They delve into the 15 Point Plan, a framework for enhancing daily habits to boost energy and mood. Highlighting insights from high-performance coach Brendon Burchard, they discuss overcoming self-focus and the ego's impact on growth. The episode emphasizes lifelong learning, curiosity, and recognizing early signs of fatigue. Practical tips, like staying hydrated and practicing gratitude, offer listeners tangible ways to enhance energy and achieve life balance. ---------- Connect with the 15 Point Plan: 15 Point Plan: https://WinMakeGive.com/15-point-plan/ Win Make Give Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/WinMakeGive Learn more about the co-hosts: Jacqueline Smith: https://www.instagram.com/jacquelinerae_smith/ Ryan Greigg: https://www.instagram.com/ryanparkgreigg/ Book one of our co-hosts for your next event: https://WinMakeGive.com/speakers/ Part of the Win Make Give Podcast Network

The problem with high-performance coaching for high-achieving women? They're already high performers. That's exactly the problem.This episode kicks off something new: a multi-week series Laurie's calling Back to School (of Midlife) — not the pencils-and-Trapper-Keeper kind of back to school, the adult kind. Every week for the next several weeks, she's walking through the frameworks she's built over the years, where they came from, and how she actually uses them with clients.Today's episode is the origin story. Before there was a BEST LIFE™ framework, before Learn/Earn/Yearn, before Curiosity → Clarity → Courage → Confidence, there was a certification — an elite one, one of only 1,100 in the world — and a realization that cracked everything else open.Laurie walks through exactly what that certification taught her (and still uses in every session), and exactly how "she's already a high performer" turns out to be the whole problem, not a strength to lean on harder. She also gets into two decades of living this pattern herself — first in law, then in commercial real estate — before she ever became a coach.What we cover:Why Laurie is kicking off a new podcast series, and why she's leaning all the way into the back-to-school metaphorThe "adulting playbook" — school, job, marriage, kids, promotion, retirement — and the homework she gives you about itWhy she chose Certified High Performance Coaching, and the Brendon Burchard connection that led her thereWhat the CHPC curriculum actually taught her — and why she still uses those skills in every session todayWhy "busyness" is often an avoidance technique, including her own real example of over-boarding on volunteer work and marathon training to avoid being homeThe most important piece her clients kept missing: checking in with themselvesWhy it wasn't a gap in the curriculum — it was just more of the sameThe two decades she spent living this exact pattern herself, in law and then commercial real estateWhat Personal Leadership Development actually means, and why it's not life coaching or executive coaching — it's the umbrella above bothA preview of the entire Back to School series: BEST LIFE™, Learn/Earn/Yearn, Curiosity/Clarity/Courage/Confidence, and an honest look at what's happening with the MastermindThe adult "back to school supply list" — a new notebook, a hall pass, an elective, and office hoursWhy "I just need to work harder" is almost never actually about working harderQuotable moments"You have one life. You need to bring all of those pieces of your life instead of compartmentalizing them.""That feeling of having to become someone different depending on which room you walked into — that's not just a career problem. That's the whole thing I coach on now.""The problem with high performance coaching for high-achieving women is they're already high performers... they're missing the most important piece, which is checking in with themselves.""It wasn't so much a gap in the coaching curriculum. It was just more of the same.""Probably 95% of the time, the statement 'I just need to work harder' usually means I haven't asked myself what I actually want.""We use a busy schedule as an avoidance technique.""It's not the work that's leaving you burned out. It's the requirement to show up as a different person in every different role you're asked to fill."Resources + links mentionedEpisode 183 — "Did You Actually Choose This Life? Or Did You Just Do What Was Expected?"Best Life Planner JOIN MY MAILING LISTCONNECT WITH LAURIE

Ray pays tribute to one of the books that kicked off his own entrepreneur journey back in 2004 — Robert Kiyosaki's Rich Dad Poor Dad. Before digging into the sales lessons, Ray shares the behind-the-scenes story of how that book almost never made it: rejected by publishers, self-printed in car washes, and saved by a 200,000-copy invoice from Amway legend Dexter Yager. That hustle story alone is worth the listen. From there, Ray pulls out the real gold — the sales principles woven throughout Kiyosaki's teachings that most people skip right past. Whether you're an entrepreneur, employee, or investor, you are always selling. Fear of rejection keeps people poor. And passive income dreams mean nothing if your active income skills aren't sharp first. Ray makes it plain: no matter what industry you're in, you're in the sales and marketing business. Master that, and everything else opens up.

Most people lose sales because they won't stop talking. Ray breaks down why the best closers aren't the ones with the most polished pitch — they're the ones asking the right questions. From handling "let me think about it" without flinching to understanding why your prospect's problem is actually getting worse over time, this episode is a masterclass in sales that actually works. Ray walks through real-world examples, including the classic "sell me this pen" scenario, and shows you exactly what to say when a conversation stalls. The goal isn't to impress — it's to uncover the pain your prospect is sitting with and help them see the cost of doing nothing. When you learn to expand the problem, the close takes care of itself. And Ray keeps it grounded: this skill only works ethically if you genuinely believe in what you're selling. Learn the questions, believe in your product, and watch everything change.

Most salespeople think they lost the deal because the prospect didn't have the money, wasn't ready, or found something cheaper. Ray Higdon says that's almost never the real reason. In this solo episode, Ray draws on decades of reviewing thousands of sales conversations to expose the one thing that kills more deals than anything else: failing to expand the prospect's problem. Here's the truth Ray lays out. Most people come to you with a "it'd be nice" problem. It'd be nice to make more money. It'd be nice to quit their job. And people with "it'd be nice" problems don't buy. Your job isn't to pitch harder or follow up more aggressively. Your job is to ask the right questions and help them feel the weight of what staying stuck is actually costing them. Ray shares the story of a client who owed $70,000 to the IRS and refused to invest another dime, right up until Ray helped him see that scraping and saving wasn't going to solve a big problem. That client hired Ray for $30,000, launched a six-figure campaign, paid off the debt, and kept going. That's what expanding the problem looks like in real life. If you want to close more sales without being pushy or salesy, this one is worth your full attention.

What if confidence isn't something you're born with, but something you build one promise at a time? In this mashup episode, I bring together four incredible conversations that completely changed the way I think about confidence, purpose, and creating a life you're proud of. The truth is, most people spend their lives waiting to feel confident before they take action. But confidence isn't something you discover. It's something you earn. It's built every time you keep a promise to yourself, trust your instincts when everyone else says you're wrong, and choose courage over comfort. If you've been battling self doubt or questioning whether you're capable of more, this episode is exactly what you need. Brendon Burchard and I dive deep into what self confidence really is, and why it's not about external validation or achieving a certain result. We talk about building trust with yourself by keeping your commitments, creating momentum through small daily wins, and why your intentions matter just as much as your abilities. I also share the mindset shifts that have helped me overcome self doubt throughout my own life, because I've struggled with confidence just like so many of you. Jamie Kern Lima reminds us what happens when you refuse to let rejection define your future. After hearing "no" for years, she stayed true to her vision, trusted her intuition, and ultimately built one of the most successful beauty brands in the world. Ryan Serhant shares how confidence isn't something reserved for a lucky few. It's an energy you choose to embody before anyone else believes in you. And Tom Papa offers one of the most refreshing perspectives you'll ever hear about purpose, fulfillment, and embracing the life you're meant to live instead of comparing yourself to everyone else. Each conversation reinforces the same powerful truth. Your confidence grows every time you choose to believe in yourself before the world gives you permission. I truly believe your life changes the moment you stop waiting to feel ready. You don't need more talent. You don't need everyone else's approval. You need to start trusting yourself enough to take the next step. Confidence isn't built overnight. It's built daily through discipline, faith, intention, and the willingness to keep showing up. My hope is this episode reminds you that everything you've been looking for is already inside you. Now it's time to start acting like it. Key Takeaways: Why self confidence is built by keeping the promises you make to yourself Brendon Burchard's framework for creating lasting confidence through daily habits Jamie Kern Lima's inspiring lesson on trusting your intuition even after years of rejection Ryan Serhant's concept of building the energy that attracts opportunities and success Why your intentions create confidence even before your results do Tom Papa's perspective on choosing a meaningful life instead of chasing someone else's version of success How to silence self doubt by building trust with yourself one decision at a time Why your greatest breakthrough often begins the moment you stop waiting for permission You were never meant to live a life controlled by fear or self doubt. You were created to trust yourself, step boldly into your purpose, and become the person you're capable of being. Confidence isn't waiting for you. It's waiting to be built.

You can have all the goals in the world. Write them down every morning. Vision board them on your wall. But if you're not becoming the person those goals actually require, nothing is going to change. In this solo episode, Ray Higdon cuts straight to the truth: most people don't fail because they lack goals. They fail because they won't do the personal becoming that the goal demands. And he's not just talking theory here. Ray walks you through a powerful exercise to expose the gap between what you want and who you currently are, then backs it up with real stories. A guy named Eric who skipped his mortgage payment to fly to Malaysia on a hunch and built a team of 20,000 people a month. A plumber named Roger who started filming himself unclog toilets, got laughed at for a year, and ended up with a $2 million sponsorship deal. These weren't lucky breaks. They were leaps of faith made by people who chose to become someone new. Ray ties it all back to scripture too, reminding us that Abraham, Joseph, Peter, and every other person God used greatly had to walk through discomfort to get to the fruit. The question isn't whether you have bold enough goals. The question is whether you're bold enough to become the person capable of reaching them.

If you've ever told yourself you just need to be more consistent, Ray Higdon has something to say about that — and it might shift everything. In this solo episode, Ray breaks down why consistency isn't actually your problem. After two decades of coaching thousands of people, he keeps seeing the same root cause underneath the struggle, and it has nothing to do with habits, routines, or discipline. It's a belief problem. Ray gets personal here. He shares a powerful story about a panic attack backstage at Funnel Hacking Live in Nashville, in front of 5,000 people, and how that moment cracked open a deep belief he had carried since third grade — that trusting people leads to betrayal. That one belief quietly shaped how he showed up in relationships for years without him even knowing it. The same thing is happening with consistency. If part of you believes success means losing money, becoming someone you despise, getting cut off from family, or being hit up for cash, your subconscious will do the most efficient thing possible: keep you from being consistent. You can read every habits book ever written and nothing will stick until you ask yourself what you actually believe success will do to your life. That's where the real work begins.

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Your need for approval might be the very thing standing between you and the income you know you're capable of. In this solo episode, Ray Higdon gets straight to it: most struggling entrepreneurs don't have a sales problem, they have an approval problem. They need acceptance from strangers, friends, family members, anyone, and that need is quietly killing their results. Ray shares how every major career pivot he made was met with doubt, and how he learned to use that doubt as fuel instead of a reason to stop. Ray also flips the script on imposter syndrome. It's not about posting content before you have success. It's about saying you want to change the world but refusing to get uncomfortable. He closes with three practical mindset shifts for sales: your prospects don't need you to be nice, they need you to be clear and certain. Backing off when you feel resistance isn't kindness, it's fear. And the people you didn't close? You didn't help them. If you know someone who's hanging on by a thread trying to make this work, this one's for them.

If your prospecting isn't producing results, chances are you're making at least one of these five critical mistakes. In this episode, Ray Higdon lays out the exact prospecting errors that silently drain sales from network marketers and direct sellers every single day, and gives you the practical fixes to start turning things around immediately. Ray walks through each mistake with the clarity and directness he's known for. Not talking to enough people is the foundation. If last week's outreach numbers were in the single digits, your income will reflect that. Not following up persistently means leaving money on the table. Ray shares the story of a prospect who said no seven times before eventually joining, building a six-figure income, and going full-time since 2011. Judging who to prospect before even asking them lets your assumptions steal your pipeline. Making the prospect the prize by chasing, begging, and coming across as desperate flips the power dynamic in the wrong direction. And the deepest mistake of all is focusing more on your solution than on the problem the prospect has actually stated. That approach comes across as pushy every time. The real game-changer Ray unpacks is the difference between persuasion and manipulation, and how asking the right questions to expand a prospect's problem is what moves people to action. He illustrates this with a real conversation that took a prospect from "it'd be nice to make more money" to "I have to do something about this" in just a few focused questions. If you want to close more sales, this episode will show you exactly where to start. —

Your prospects don't hate your offer. They feel your desperation. And that's what's killing your sales. In this episode, Ray Higdon gets brutally honest about one of the most overlooked killers of conversion: the energy you bring into every sales conversation. Whether you call it eagerness, pushiness, or commission breath, prospects sense it and it sends them running, even when they actually want what you're selling. Ray breaks down three concrete steps to eliminate desperate energy from your prospecting for good. Step one: talk to more people. When you only have two prospects in your pipeline, desperation is almost unavoidable. When you're consistently reaching out to 30, 40, or 50 people a week, you stop fixating on any single outcome. Step two: stop focusing on your solution and start focusing on the problem your prospect has actually told you about. If you don't know what they're struggling with, it's likely because you've never asked. Step three: develop posture. Posture is the ability to manage the energy of a conversation without chasing, guilting, or pressuring. Ray shares the exact mindset he carried when reaching out to his warm market as he became the number one income earner in his company: "I'm going to do this with or without you." This episode is a masterclass in sales psychology for network marketers, direct sellers, and anyone who's ever felt like they were trying too hard. If you're ready to close more sales by caring less about any one outcome, this is the episode you've been waiting for. —

Most people say they want financial breakthrough, but very few are actually walking in the faith it takes to get there. In this episode, Ray Higdon delivers a powerful and challenging message for anyone who feels stuck financially. The problem, Ray says, isn't strategy or timing. It's who you're being every single day, and whether you're truly walking in faith or just claiming to be. Ray draws on scripture, personal stories, and hard-won business experience to unpack what walking in faith actually looks like in practice. He shares the moment his company faced a $1.1 million hotel bill for a major event, how he was led to bring in John Maxwell as a speaker despite the enormous financial pressure, and why that obedience, not logic, produced the breakthrough. He also unpacks the parable of the talents, Abraham's willingness to sacrifice Isaac, and David's posture before Goliath to illustrate what genuine faith-driven decision-making looks like when the numbers don't make sense. This episode will challenge you to stop holding on so tightly to the money you have that you miss the investment God is calling you toward. If every opportunity looks like a cost instead of a door, this message is for you. Ray's raw honesty and faith-based perspective make this one of the most compelling episodes for entrepreneurs and network marketers who want God-led financial growth, not just hustle. —

12:47 AM   Your prospects don't hate your offer. They feel your desperation. And that's what's killing your sales. In this episode, Ray Higdon gets brutally honest about one of the most overlooked killers of conversion: the energy you bring into every sales conversation. Whether you call it eagerness, pushiness, or commission breath, prospects sense it and it sends them running, even when they actually want what you're selling. Ray breaks down three concrete steps to eliminate desperate energy from your prospecting for good. Step one: talk to more people. When you only have two prospects in your pipeline, desperation is almost unavoidable. When you're consistently reaching out to 30, 40, or 50 people a week, you stop fixating on any single outcome. Step two: stop focusing on your solution and start focusing on the problem your prospect has actually told you about. If you don't know what they're struggling with, it's likely because you've never asked. Step three: develop posture. Posture is the ability to manage the energy of a conversation without chasing, guilting, or pressuring. Ray shares the exact mindset he carried when reaching out to his warm market as he became the number one income earner in his company: "I'm going to do this with or without you." This episode is a masterclass in sales psychology for network marketers, direct sellers, and anyone who's ever felt like they were trying too hard. If you're ready to close more sales by caring less about any one outcome, this is the episode you've been waiting for. —

If your sales are slow and your effort isn't producing results, this episode is exactly what you need. Ray Higdon breaks down the 10 specific reasons why people aren't buying from you — and these aren't the generic tips you've heard before. From not talking to enough people, to focusing on your solution instead of your prospect's problem, to the often-overlooked mistake of sending a video that's completely incongruent with your invite, Ray exposes the real friction points that are quietly killing conversions for network marketers and salespeople at every level. Ray also goes deep on the belief barriers that most sales trainers never address: what to do when you secretly don't believe your product will work, when you're unsure of its value, or when you don't feel like you deserve the income you're chasing. He covers the critical role of posture, why sloppy follow-up is costing you more sales than any objection ever could, and how a mismatched social media bio can send prospects running before you even get to your pitch — sharing a real client example of Christie Morgan, who generated $100,000 in personal commissions in under 60 days once her outreach and bio aligned. The episode closes with one of the most powerful — and most ignored — sales principles: mental rehearsal. Ray challenges you to stop rehearsing failure and start visualizing the win, connecting this mindset shift to both elite athletic performance and a foundational scripture from Mark 11:24. If you're in a product or service you believe in, this episode is your reminder that getting better at selling isn't optional — it's your responsibility. —

Most salespeople and network marketers believe their closing problem is a leads problem. In this episode, Ray Higdon dismantles that excuse and reveals the two root causes behind why talented, motivated people consistently fail to close — even when they're generating leads every day. Ray shares a real, unscripted example from back-to-back major podcast appearances that perfectly exposes the single most costly mistake in sales: pitching your solution before you've ever diagnosed your prospect's real problem. Whether you're selling health and wellness products, coaching services, or business opportunities, this episode will immediately change how you approach every sales conversation. Ray breaks down why surface-level answers like "lose weight" or "make money" are not the prospect's real problem — and why stopping there is quietly costing you 30% of the sales and lives you could be impacting. You'll hear exactly what a problem-first discovery conversation sounds like, how to expand a prospect's pain before ever introducing your solution, and why the best closers in the world lead with curiosity, not a pitch deck. This is the training most sales coaches never give you, and it works whether you're in cold market outreach, warm market conversations, or anywhere in between. If you're serious about closing more sales, building a stronger team, and creating real impact with your product, service, or opportunity — this episode is the mindset and skill shift you've been waiting for. Ray's message is direct, practical, and grounded in real-world experience: the leads are not your problem. Your approach is. And that means it's completely within your power to fix it today. —

You already have 300+ leads sitting in your social media connections right now — Ray Higdon is here to show you exactly why you're not reaching them, and the one skill that changes everything. In this episode, Ray breaks down the power of cold market messaging: what it is, why most salespeople avoid it out of fear or uncertainty, and how mastering it means you will literally never run out of people to prospect for the rest of your life. This isn't a trick or a loophole — it's a proven outreach skill grounded in psychology, intentional language, and consistent action. Ray shares his three favorite cold market approaches — Location, Occupation, and Intelligent Comment — and walks through how he's actively using them right now to prospect for a business and faith-based program he recently joined. You'll hear how one woman in Ray's challenge had never gotten a lead as far into the process as she did after applying these frameworks, simply because she learned how to say the right things in a more powerful way. Ray makes it clear: cold market never runs out, and when you combine skill with volume, sales are inevitable. If you've been sitting on hundreds of connections you've never messaged, this episode is your wake-up call. Ray lays out the two variables that determine your results — the quality of your messaging skills and the number of messages you're willing to send — and reminds you that the compound effect of consistent outreach typically produces its biggest results in the first 14 to 30 days. Show up, do the work, and start treating your social media connections as the goldmine they already are. —

Leave an Amazon Rating or Review for my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy! Check out the full episode: https://greatness.lnk.to/1926DM Brendon Burchard makes a claim that sounds controversial until you think about it: high performers don't just tolerate responsibility, they crave it. They can't wait to see how they show up when they're 30 points down. The mindset shift is specific. When you're underperforming and reactive, every obligation feels like a threat. When you've done the inner work, that same pressure feels like a stage. Lewis puts it in concrete terms. The people who thrive in a crisis aren't the ones scrambling to get ready. They're the ones who never stopped preparing. Stay ready so you don't have to get ready. That's not a motivational slogan. It's a strategy. Sign up for the Greatness newsletter: http://www.greatness.com/newsletter Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Warm market works — but it's one of the least duplicatable strategies in network marketing. In this episode, Ray Higdon breaks down why building your team around warm market alone leaves 70–80% of your potential results on the table. Not everyone joining your team has strong relationships or influence with friends and family, and if that's the only tool you hand them, you're setting them up to fail. Ray makes the case for cold market prospecting as the most duplicatable approach in direct sales — because it's an even playing field. Every person on your team has more people they don't know than people they do. Cold market requires no funnels, no branding kits, no complex systems — just the right scripts and word tracks. Ray shares real proof: Christina Danielle became the number one recruiter in her entire company — for four to five consecutive years — using cold market messaging scripts while her company actively discouraged it. And Christie Morgan generated $100,000 in personal commissions last quarter through 100% cold market outreach, proving this method works for high-ticket offers too. If you're leading a sales team and want results that actually multiply across your organization, this episode will challenge how you think about duplication — and give you a smarter, scalable alternative. —

Most people don't realize they have a ceiling on their success. Not a skill ceiling. A preference ceiling. Brendon Burchard calls it the complexity ceiling, and it's the invisible line where your comfort wins over your vision. The highest performers in the world share one non-negotiable: their preferences never outrank their aspirational self. They don't wait to feel ready. They generate the feeling they need and act from that place. Brendon introduces his FREE framework (Feeling, Responsibility, Expression, Expansion), a four-part system for creating your internal state on purpose, every day, regardless of what's hitting you from the outside. It's the methodology he breaks down fully in High Performance Habits. Lewis and Brendon also go deep on what happens when you succeed beyond what you believed was possible, and why that moment can trigger imposter syndrome or total emptiness if your belief never caught up to your achievement. This one is about becoming the person your future self already is. It starts with one question: does your preference win today, or does your vision? Join ULTRA now: https://lewishowes.com/ultra Brendon's books: The Millionaire Messenger: Make a Difference and a Fortune Sharing Your Advice The Charge: Activating the 10 Human Drives That Make You Feel Alive The Motivation Manifesto: 9 Declarations to Claim Your Personal Power Life's Golden Ticket: A Story About Second Chances High Performance Habits: How Extraordinary People Become That Way The High Performance Planner In this episode you will: Learn Brendon's FREE framework (Feeling, Responsibility, Expression, Expansion) for clarifying exactly what you want to feel, do, and become Discover the "complexity ceiling" and why your preferences, not your circumstances, are the real limit on your success Understand why succeeding beyond your belief system leads to imposter syndrome and how to close that gap before it derails you Shift from being stuck in stimulus-response mode to actively generating the energy and focus high performance requires Build a dialogue with your future self that turns long-term vision into decisions you can act on today Topics: high performance habits, complexity ceiling, FREE framework, imposter syndrome, future self visualization, mindset, personal development, Brendon Burchard For more information go to https://lewishowes.com/1926 For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960 Follow The Daily Motivation for essential highlights from The School of Greatness More SOG episodes we think you'll love: Lewis Howes Solo - Become Addicted To MANIFESTING Myron Golden Vivian Tu TOPICS Brendon Burchard, High Performance Habits, FREE framework, complexity ceiling, fulfillment vs achievement, aspirational self, preferences vs priorities, high performance coaching, Growth Day, personal development Get more from Lewis! Get my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!Get The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Most people don't have a motivation problem — they have a comfort zone problem. In this episode, Ray Higdon delivers a no-filter breakdown of the single biggest reason your results haven't changed: you're waiting to feel like taking action before you actually take it. And according to neuroscience, that feeling will never come. Your comfort zone isn't just a mindset issue — it's a chemical addiction wired into your brain, and it's producing your current results with stunning precision. Ray walks through the science behind why motivation always follows action and never precedes it. Drawing on how the neocortex and limbic brain interact to create the chemicals of emotion, he explains why you'll never crave going to the gym, prospecting, or building your business until you've already started doing it. More importantly, he gives you a clear, practical framework: stop waiting, start with small actions that break your pattern, and let inertia do the heavy lifting — because after 21 days of consistent movement, you'll be neurologically rewired. You'll also learn the second critical mistake most people make after getting inspired — going too hard, burning out in three days, and quitting entirely. Ray unpacks how to use inertia correctly: stop at a coffee shop instead of going straight home, commit to just showing up at the gym without a workout plan, and give yourself permission to start small. Two focused hours a day done consistently beats four burned-out hours every single time. If you're serious about getting different results, this episode is where the shift begins. —

If debt is draining your finances, your relationships, and your peace of mind, this episode is for you. Ray Higdon sits down with debt relief expert Josh Valentine — a 14-year consumer finance veteran who has helped over 30,000 people resolve more than $1 billion in debt — for a no-fluff conversation about unsecured debt, why the banking system is designed to keep you in bondage, and what you can actually do about it. From credit card debt spiraling out of control to the compounding trap of minimum payments, Josh breaks down the biblical, financial, and practical dimensions of debt that most people never hear. In this session, Josh and Ray walk through how everyday people can legally reduce their monthly payments by $300–$800 or more, get a portion of their debt forgiven, and stop hemorrhaging money to interest — while protecting their credit score in the process. You'll hear a real client story from Jack, who lowered his monthly payment below what he was originally paying before enrolling in the program. Ray and Josh also cover the 1099 tax question, what debt settlement actually does to your credit, how to handle creditor calls, and why doing it yourself is rarely the smartest move. Whether you're $10,000 in or six figures under water, this episode opens the blinds on a system designed to keep you paying — and shows you there's a clear, structured path out. If you want to find out what you qualify for, book a free 10-minute call at HigdonGroup.com/ReduceNow. —

Most network marketers have been taught that building relationships before pitching is the golden rule of sales — but what if that advice is actually costing you recruits, commissions, and credibility? In this episode, Ray Higdon delivers an unpopular but powerful truth: when it comes to reaching out to strangers on social media, "build relationships first" is not just ineffective — it's dishonest. Ray breaks down why people universally prefer you get straight to the point, why problem-solving is the real engine behind every sale, and exactly what two things you must communicate when reaching out to cold market prospects online. He also shares how this approach helped one client become the #1 recruiter in her company and helped another generate $100,000 in personal commissions in under 90 days. If you're waiting for your attraction marketing to kick in while your pipeline sits dry, this episode is your wake-up call. Ray gives you a clear, actionable framework — including the three targeting methods of occupation, location, and intelligent comment — so you can stop beating around the bush and start converting cold market conversations into real income. —

======================== OUTPUT B: PODCAST DESCRIPTION How to Get More Leads and Sales with Instagram Reels ft. Dr. Kimberly Olson If you've been posting on Instagram but not seeing consistent leads or sales, this episode is your turning point. Ray Higdon sits down with Dr. Kimberly Olson — award-winning Instagram strategist, seven-figure entrepreneur, and creator of the bestselling #Instagram course — to break down exactly how network marketers and direct sellers can leverage Instagram Reels to grow their audience, fill their DMs with qualified prospects, and close sales with confidence. Kimberly shares her personal journey from six figures of debt to generating consistent seven-figure annual revenue, and how stepping into radical authenticity — including sharing her faith, her values, and her real story — was the catalyst that changed everything. In this power-packed training, Dr. Kimberly Olson walks you through her proven "Reel Domination" playbook, covering the five essential reel types every entrepreneur needs to be posting: educational, inspirational, social proof, high-value lead generation, and entertaining/controversial content. You'll learn how to stop the scroll with magnetic hooks, how to turn reel comments into DM conversations, and how to convert those conversations into sales using a simple one-conversation close. Whether you have zero followers or you're looking to 10x an existing audience, Kimberly's system has been proven with thousands of students — including people who went from two jobs to full-time network marketing income within a single year. You'll also get a behind-the-scenes look at Kimberly's complete #Instagram course, a 7-module mega-program with over 60 video lessons, step-by-step reel and story templates, a Trello-based content planning system, and lifetime access with ongoing updates — all designed to help you build, brand, and monetize your Instagram presence from the ground up. If you're ready to stop spinning your wheels and start getting paid consistently for the content you create, this episode — and Kimberly's training — is exactly what you need. —

======================== OUTPUT B: PODCAST DESCRIPTION How to Recruit Professionals Into Network Marketing (Without Begging, Chasing, or Sounding Like a Pitch Artist) | Todd Falcone Industry legend Todd Falcone — 36 years in network marketing, 17 of them building in the field — sits down with Ray Higdon to break down one of the most powerful and underutilized recruiting strategies in the profession: targeting high-caliber professionals. Todd shares why commission-based professionals like realtors, insurance agents, and financial planners are a natural fit for network marketing — they already prospect, sell, handle rejection, and take risks for a living. The result? Higher-quality conversations, faster decisions, and teammates who actually show up and produce. Ray and Todd walk through exactly how Todd developed his signature "peak interest question," why he ditched purchasing business opportunity seeker leads in favor of cold outreach to professionals, and the mindset shift that separates distributors who stay stuck talking to unqualified prospects from those who build with momentum. They also tackle the #1 reason most network marketers never take this approach — fear of judgment — and why that fear is completely unfounded when you're approaching people who are already wired for business. Todd also previews his free training at HigdonGroup.com/Professionals, a step-by-step deep dive into recruiting professionals word for word, without begging, chasing, or sounding like a pitch artist. Whether you're brand new or a seasoned builder frustrated with low-quality conversations, this episode will change how you look at every for-sale sign, insurance office, and real estate listing in your area. —

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If you've ever felt like you need more confidence before you start selling, this episode will completely shift your perspective. In this powerful training, Ray Higdon breaks down why waiting to feel confident is actually the very thing holding you back in sales. Instead of chasing confidence, he reveals the truth that confidence is built through action, repetition, and real-world experience, not overthinking or perfectionism.   Ray dives into one of the biggest mistakes sales professionals and entrepreneurs make, spending too much time trying to "get it right" before ever having enough conversations. He emphasizes that success in sales is not about talent, but about repetitions. Through compelling examples and real stories, including someone who faced hundreds of rejections before succeeding, he shows how consistent outreach, prospecting, and conversations are the real drivers of confidence and results. If you want to improve your sales skills, close more deals, and build unshakable confidence in your sales conversations, this episode gives you a simple but powerful strategy. Stop waiting, start doing. The more people you talk to, the more confident and successful you'll become. ⸻ —

What should you say after a prospect has already seen your presentation? In this episode,   reveals the single most powerful question elite closers use to dramatically increase their closing rates. Instead of overwhelming prospects with multiple questions or jumping straight into pitching, Ray breaks down why asking "What did you like best?" is the key to uncovering real buying intent and guiding the conversation toward a sale. You'll discover why prospects who watch your presentation are already signaling interest, and how to leverage that position without becoming pushy, desperate, or salesy. Ray also explains how to handle both positive and negative responses, showing you how to stay in control of the conversation, build posture, and uncover the real problems your prospect is trying to solve. If you want to improve your sales conversations, handle objections more effectively, and close more deals with confidence, this episode gives you a practical, step-by-step sales script you can apply immediately. Learn how to expand your prospect's problem, connect it to your solution, and confidently move them toward a decision without chasing or convincing. —

Mitch Matthews is a success coach, keynote speaker, and creator of the top 1% podcast DREAM THINK DO. Through his coaching and content, Mitch helps high-achieving leaders and entrepreneurs dream bigger, think better, and pursue meaningful work aligned with their purpose.Over the past two decades, Mitch has worked with organizations like NIKE, NASA, Disney, and United Airlines, helping leaders clarify direction and lead with impact. He has interviewed world-class performers—including Brendon Burchard, Michael Hyatt, Jamie Kern Lima, elite athletes, and Oscar winners—bringing powerful insights to his global audience. Mitch is also the creator of The Authority Bridge™, a coaching experience designed to help seasoned professionals build purpose-driven, legacy-worthy businesses.SHOW SUMMARYIn this episode of the Selling from the Heart Podcast, Larry Levine and Darrell Amy are joined by Mitch Matthews to explore a refreshing approach to modern selling: Filter, Coach, Commit. Mitch explains that selling from the heart is about connecting the right people with the right solutions at the right time—even if that solution isn't yours.The conversation emphasizes the importance of intentional branding to attract ideal clients and repel poor-fit opportunities, as well as the power of saying “no” to build trust and long-term credibility. Mitch reframes sales conversations as coaching conversations—focused on listening deeply, clarifying needs, and guiding people toward meaningful action.This episode highlights the shift from transactional selling to relationship-driven coaching, where authenticity, alignment, and long-term thinking create lasting success.KEY TAKEAWAYSFocus on connecting the right people with the right solutions at the right time.The Filter, Coach, Commit framework helps attract, guide, and serve ideal clients.Saying “no” creates clarity, builds trust, and strengthens your brand.Approach sales conversations as coaching conversations—not pitches.HIGHLIGHT QUOTESWhen you can describe someone's problem better than they can, they assume you have the solution.A good brand attracts the right people and repels the wrong people.Coaching starts with listening and meeting people where they are.If you're ever in danger of being considered a commodity, relationships set you apart.ADDITIONAL RESOURCESMitch is offering Selling from the Heart listeners free access to the Next Chapter workshop! Use codes HEART or LOVE  at checkout: https://members.matthewstraininginternational.com/next-chapterExplore the secrets of heart-centered leadership and thriving workplace cultures with Culture from the Heart Podcast! Nominate a visionary CEO at www.culturefromtheheart.com!Listen to Larry Levine's Bestselling Book: Selling in a Post-Trust World! Now available on Audible! Transform your sales approach with insights that matter.  Subscribe to The Selling from the Heart Podcast Youtube Channel! Stay updated with the latest episodes and leadership tips: Selling from the Heart YouTubeGet Your Daily Dose of Inspiration:Click Here for Your Daily Dose

In this episode,  Ray Higdon breaks down one of the biggest challenges in sales: handling money objections. Instead of defending your price or feeling pressured to justify your offer, Ray teaches a powerful mindset shift that top closers use. They don't argue about cost, they anchor value. When you deeply understand your prospect's pain and clearly connect your solution to that problem, price becomes far less of an issue and closing becomes far more natural.   Ray dives into practical sales strategies to overcome common objections like "it's too expensive," "I can get it cheaper," and "I don't have the money." He reveals how to pre-frame conversations by shaping your prospect's identity, how to confidently respond when objections arise, and why belief in your product is non-negotiable for success. He also shares a step-by-step approach to uncover whether "no money" is a real objection or just a smokescreen, helping you recover sales that most people lose.   If you're in network marketing, sales, or entrepreneurship and want to increase your close rate without sounding pushy or desperate, this episode gives you real scripts and practical techniques you can apply immediately. Learn how to guide prospects to see the true value of your offer, handle objections with confidence, and ultimately help more people say yes.   —  

In this powerful episode, Ray Higdon breaks down one of the biggest missed opportunities in sales: getting prospects on the phone. If you've ever felt like people are avoiding your calls or not responding to your messages, this episode reveals the real reason why. The truth is, prospects are not avoiding calls, they are avoiding pressure. When your messaging feels pushy or uncomfortable, prospects naturally pull away. But when you remove that pressure, you dramatically increase your chances of meaningful conversations and ultimately, more sales.   Ray walks you through practical sales strategies to help you confidently move prospects from conversation to call without resistance. You will learn when to invite someone to a call, how to position it naturally, and why timing matters, especially after they've been exposed to a presentation. He also explains the difference between reaching out to prospects versus responding to inbound leads, and how your approach should shift depending on the situation.   Most importantly, this episode gives you exact language and scripts you can use to create urgency, reduce friction, and increase your close rate. From simple phrases like "hop on a quick call" to more advanced positioning that creates scarcity and fear of missing out, Ray shows you how to guide prospects toward a decision without being pushy. If you want to close more sales, build stronger connections, and stop losing opportunities, this episode gives you the practical tools to make it happen.   —

Most sales professionals struggle with outreach because they unknowingly use scripts that actually train prospects to ignore them. In this episode, Ray Higdon breaks down a powerful mindset shift in sales communication, showing why understanding psychology and persuasion is critical when reaching out. Instead of assuming interest, Ray teaches you to treat every prospect as "position zero," meaning you must first qualify and discover if there is any real desire, problem, or need before presenting your offer. You'll learn how to approach both warm market and cold market prospects without sounding spammy, pushy, or desperate. Ray reveals why overhyping your offer repels people, how to ask better questions that uncover real opportunities, and why focusing on benefits instead of features dramatically improves response rates. He also shares practical, simple outreach scripts that help you start conversations the right way, whether you're messaging a friend, reconnecting after a long time, or reaching out to complete strangers. If you want to increase your response rates, build authentic connections, and close more sales without burning out your relationships, this episode gives you a clear, actionable framework. Mastering these outreach strategies will help you identify the right prospects faster, communicate with confidence, and ultimately grow your business by having more effective conversations.   —

What if the real reason you're not winning yet isn't a lack of talent… but a refusal to raise your standard? In this mashup, I'm bringing you some of the most powerful voices in personal development to confront a question most people avoid asking themselves. Am I really doing everything it takes to reach my dreams, or am I just staying comfortable? I sit down with Tom Bilyeu, Jesse Itzler, Eric Thomas, and Brendon Burchard to break down what actually separates people who talk about success from those who live it. One of the biggest truths we uncover is that success is not about who you are today. It's about who you are willing to become. I share openly how I had to rebuild my confidence from nothing by keeping small promises to myself and stacking wins day by day. Brendon Burchard breaks down why accountability is the missing link for most people and how fear of judgment keeps you stuck playing small. And Eric Thomas brings the fire with a message most people need to hear. Either raise your standards or lower your expectations, but stop lying to yourself about the gap. You're also going to hear something that could completely change how you view your life. From Jesse Itzler, we talk about stepping into rooms you are not prepared for and figuring it out later. That willingness to act before you feel ready is what creates opportunity. Too many people sit on the sidelines waiting to feel confident first, when in reality confidence is built through action, not before it. And then there's the truth that might hit you the hardest. You already know what you're not doing. There is something in your life right now that you know would change everything if you leaned into it. The problem is not awareness. The problem is action. I break down why your life is a direct reflection of your standards, not your goals, and why doing one more is the habit that changes everything. This episode is a wake up call. Not to inspire you for a moment, but to challenge you to raise the level you are operating at every single day. Because the difference between average and extraordinary is not talent. It is the willingness to do what others will not do consistently. Key Takeaways: Why your standards determine your life more than your goals How keeping small promises to yourself builds real confidence The hidden reason people avoid accountability and stay stuck Why stepping into rooms unprepared is the fastest way to grow Eric Thomas' truth about raising your game or lowering your expectations The power of doing “one more” and how it compounds over time Why awareness without action is the trap keeping most people average I want you to walk away from this episode with one question in your mind. Not what you want out of life, but what you are willing to do to earn it. Because once your standards change, everything else in your life will follow.

Why do some sales conversations feel effortless while others feel like a struggle to close? In this episode, Ray Higdon explains why closing sales becomes easier when you stop needing the outcome. Many sales professionals believe confidence comes after success or financial security, but Ray shares how he learned powerful sales posture during one of the most difficult seasons of his life. Even when facing foreclosure and financial pressure, he discovered that desperation and "commission breath" actually push prospects away rather than draw them in. Ray breaks down the mindset shift that changes everything in sales: detaching from the need to close and focusing instead on serving the prospect. When you stop chasing, begging, and pushing your product, your conversations naturally improve. Instead of trying to convince someone your solution is amazing, the real key is asking better questions and helping prospects fully understand their own problems, pain points, and desires. If you're in network marketing, sales, or entrepreneurship, this episode will challenge how you approach closing. Ray shares the two powerful strategies that dramatically increase your close rate: strong sales posture and expanding the prospect's problem. When you focus more on the human being in front of you than the product you're selling, you'll build trust, improve conversations, and ultimately close far more deals. —

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In this episode, Ray Higdon breaks down a common mistake many sales professionals make: chasing prospects instead of closing them. When sales reps chase, they often overwhelm prospects with long explanations, constant messages, and pressure. The result is predictable. Prospects pull away, conversations stall, and deals never move forward. Ray explains that the key to effective sales conversations is shifting from talking more to asking better questions. Instead of trying to convince someone, great closers dig deeper into a prospect's goals, challenges, and motivations. Simple questions like "Why is that important to you?" or "What are you hoping to accomplish?" help uncover the real problem the prospect wants to solve. When you expand their pain and clearly understand their needs, you dramatically increase your chances of closing the sale. This episode also highlights the mindset shift required to become a stronger closer. Ray encourages sales leaders and entrepreneurs to stop relying on pressure or persuasion and instead develop the discipline to ask thoughtful questions, listen closely, and step into a higher level of professionalism in their sales process. If you want to stop chasing prospects and start closing more consistently, this conversation will give you a practical framework you can use immediately. —

In this episode, Ray Higdon reveals a powerful shift that can dramatically improve your ability to close sales without sounding pushy or desperate. Many sales professionals feel the urge to convince prospects when they sense a sale is close. But according to Ray, the moment you feel the need to convince someone, the sale may already be slipping away. Instead of applying pressure, the key is learning how to lead the conversation through strategic questions that uncover and expand the prospect's real problem. Ray explains why amateurs tend to push their solution when they feel urgency and how that behavior unintentionally reveals desperation or commission-chasing. He breaks down a simple framework for redirecting that impulse. Rather than selling harder, you should ask better questions that either deepen the prospect's awareness of their problem or uncover the real reason they reached out in the first place. —

If sales feels draining, frustrating, or emotionally exhausting, the real problem may not be the work—it may be a hidden mindset mistake.   In this episode, Ray Higdon reveals the subtle mental shift that turns sales into a heavy burden for many reps and entrepreneurs. When salespeople attach their emotional state to outcomes—whether someone buys, responds, or joins—they create constant pressure that makes selling feel overwhelming. Ray explains why the healthiest sales mindset is detachment from outcomes and commitment to activity. Instead of chasing results, top performers focus on conversations, service, and identifying who is truly open to change. This shift removes emotional burnout and allows sales to feel lighter, more sustainable, and far more effective. —

In this bold and controversial episode, Ray Higdon explains why being "nice" can hurt both your income and the people you are trying to serve. While many salespeople believe kindness alone is enough, Ray argues that excessive niceness often masks avoidance, weak posture, and a refusal to develop real sales skills. You will learn why caring about prospects sometimes requires courage instead of comfort, why authenticity without skill can limit impact, and how improving your sales ability actually helps more people transform their lives. Ray also breaks down the difference between being pushy and being bold—and why mastering scripts and frameworks is essential if you want consistent results. —  

If sales feels exhausting, draining, or emotionally heavy, the problem may not be your workload—it may be your approach. In this episode, Ray Higdon explains why sales should not feel this exhausting and reveals the two core shifts that immediately reduce burnout: posture and lead flow. Most salespeople feel tired because they are chasing prospects, forcing conversations, and operating from desperation instead of confidence. Ray breaks down why posture—the ability to manage the energy of a conversation—is the opposite of chasing and how learning it instantly removes emotional friction from selling. He also explains why building lead generation alongside prospecting is essential for long-term sustainability and why relying on one without the other limits income. —  

Brendon Burchard reminds us that the breakthrough we're searching for doesn't come from outside — it comes from directing ourselves again. In this powerful talk, he explains why life improves when you stop reacting and start activating the best of who you are. This is a call to reclaim presence, intention, and personal leadership.Source: This Is Why You're Stuck… And Don't Even Know It Hosted by Sean CroxtonFollow me on InstagramSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Brendon Burchard shares a powerful truth most high performers miss: creating significant life changes is more dependent on an understanding of sociology than psychology.While personal discipline and habits matter, the real breakthroughs happen when you surround yourself with people who see possibilities in you that you don't yet see in yourself. You're likely stuck not because something is wrong with you, but because you're an A player performing on a B field.The path forward isn't about working harder or gaining more information. It's about investing in the right rooms, whether that's a mastermind, a volunteer group, or a team that elevates your thinking and challenges your timeline for what's possible.The Greatness Playbook: The Network is Net Worth EditionBrendon's books:The Millionaire Messenger: Make a Difference and a Fortune Sharing Your AdviceThe Charge: Activating the 10 Human Drives That Make You Feel AliveThe Motivation Manifesto: 9 Declarations to Claim Your Personal PowerLife's Golden Ticket: A Story About Second ChancesHigh Performance Habits: How Extraordinary People Become That WayThe High Performance PlannerIn this episode you will:Unlock the proximity audit framework to identify which relationships expand you and which ones drain your potentialDiscover why sociology is more powerful than psychology when creating breakthrough moments in your business and lifeTransform from showing up as your minimal self to consistently embodying your aspirational self in every areaBreak through the plateau that comes from relying solely on personal discipline and self-improvement tacticsMaster the art of making strategic bets on yourself by investing in rooms where excellence is the standardFor more information go to https://lewishowes.com/1887For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960More SOG episodes we think you'll love:Lewis Howes [SOLO]Brené BrownTony Robbins Get more from Lewis! Get my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!Get The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.