Podcasts about Garet

Garet Mclendon joins PAIN's Jason LaChance and Julian Carvajal as he shares his powerful journey of redemption from addiction to fatherhood. Hear his story of overcoming challenges and finding hope in sobriety while balancing the responsibilities of being a dad. To make a tax-deductible donation to PAIN's Veterans In Need visit: https://gofund.me/c4b23093 For more on Garet McLendon: https://www.instagram.com/garetmclendon Garet, Jason, and Juliann discuss the following and more. Intro 00:00 What was childhood like for Garet, and how did it set the stage for addiction and incarceration? 01:40 How did Garet fall into being involved in gangs? 08:00 When did Garet start using substances to escape his reality? 11:04 Why was shifting his mindset vital to Garet's sobriety? 17:39 Why is it that the streets became a safer place for Garet in his teens and early twenties? 24:56 When did Garet finally get to the point of turning his life around and his sobriety journey finally stuck? 33:19 Why does Garet value being a sober and present father more than anything else? 45:53

Without ever having a driver's license, Garet gathered 168 traffic tickets. He was in the revolving door of prison and had no idea how to stop using and drinking. In this story of recovery, you'll hear about the game changing hug that gave Garet just enough hope to do the necessary work.  Sobriety Date: 3/17/2013Quotes “I get to be in that one place that I never was—and that was this moment.”  “I just love participating in the AA way of life.”Referred by: KeepComingBack.net listener InstagramFacebook

Welcome back folks it's been yet another freaky weeky but don't worry because Garet & Katie have been putting their brains to work to figure out a way to help build community joy with our little anklet gang here - and it's going to start with a new segment we're going to be adding called Don't Learn It From A Trad Wife - where K&G teach you how to do things like homesteading, raising chickens, growing vegetables, making bread from scratch, making your own butter, and other helpful skills that we think a certain sect of society shouldn't be the sole keepers of. And if you're not already, support your local union and back workers' rights groups! Hold the line, we are here with you and we're not going anywhere. If you want to support us directly you can do that by going to www.patreon.com/thebarisanklehigh and for just $5 a month you can help Katie & Garet continue to fight against fascism and bring joy in our small little ADHD corner of the world.  Make sure you're following us on Instagram, Bluesky, Threads, Facebook, and YouTube @thebarisanklehigh and on Tiktok @anklehighpod. You can get some merch at bit.ly/anklehighmerch and make sure you're remembering to subscribe and leave us a 5-star review anywhere you see our podcast because that really does make a difference! See you next week - because the bar is ankle high!

Adam brings Wack and Garet together to politic about doing time and how to survive. ----- Promote Your Music with No Jumper - https://nojumper.com/pages/promo CHECK OUT OUR ONLINE STORE!!! https://nojumper.com NO JUMPER PATREON   / nojumper   CHECK OUT OUR NEW SPOTIFY PLAYLIST https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5te... Follow us on SNAPCHAT   / 4874336901   Follow us on SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/4z4yCTj... iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/n... Follow us on Social Media:   / 4874336901     / nojumper     / nojumper     / nojumper     / nojumper   JOIN THE DISCORD:   / discord   Follow Adam22:   / adam22     / adam22     / adam22   adam22bro on Snapchat Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Garet Mclendon took on a life on the streets and started selling drugs at an early age. He stopped going to high school in the 9th grade and eventually found himself involved in gangs. He spent the next 15 years in and out of prison and caught in a vicious cycle of addiction and crime. Garet arrived at a treatment center on March 17, 2013 and has been sober ever since.  Follow Garrett: Instagram @garetmclendon Join “The Victory Circle”, our FREE Sober Guy Mens Community at https://www.thatsoberguy.com/offers/SvjjuEQ2/checkout Tired of Drinking? Try Our 30 Day Quit Drinking Dude Challenge!  Work with Shane 1 on 1 Coaching - https://www.thatsoberguy.com/coaching Invite Shane to Speak - https://www.thatsoberguy.com/speaking For More Resources go to http://www.ThatSoberGuy.com Follow us on X @ThatSoberGuyPod Follow us on Instagram @ThatSoberGuyPodcast Music - Going Late courtesy of Humans & Haven Sounds Inc. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline - 1-800-273-TALK (8255)

We know this is a really terrible week for everyone - even the folks who are currently celebrating. At the time we recorded this week's episode, the new president had not yet been sworn in, but you can hear in our voices we expected a lot of things to happen - some of which already have. But we're here, and we're glad you are, too. So this week, Katie surprised Garet with a guest host - Jami - the Neurodivergent Nurse - to help us find the happiness in the mundane. We talk about how spaghetti and video games mix, haunted wheelchairs, and using AI for things that are actually helpful! You can follow Jami on all platforms @theneurodivergentnurse and follow us on all platforms - especially BlueSky and YouTube @thebarisanklehigh. If you haven't already - leave us a 5 star review and subscribe to our show everywhere you find us!

Welcome back for another exhilarating peek into the life and times of Katie & Garet and...we're hanging on for dear life, folks. But don't worry, after reviewing how we're managing burnout in our personal lives and some developments on the Farm for Patreon, we dive into a recap of the Curious Case of Natalia Grace - the final chapter! We talk about what the final season of this series showed us about the people who are continuing to take advantage of Natalia, the people who are trying to help her and getting frustrated, and how trauma can rewire your brain and make you susceptible to SIGNIFICANT mental health hurdles. Support our show by following us on all social medias - we're on Instagram, Threads and Bluesky @thebarisanklehigh, we're on TikTok and RedNote @anklehighpod and we're also looking into joining Loops and Pixelfed - so stay tuned to our socials for those account handles as they become available. Support us directly by joining our Patreon for just $5 per month by going to www.patreon.com/thebarisanklehigh and make sure you're sharing us with everyone you know and leaving us a 5-star review wherever you find our show! Don't forget - we're also on Youtube!

Garet Mclendon shares his story as an ex-Peckerwood gang member, revealing his life of crime and survival in California prisons. He discusses gang culture, the challenges of prison life, and his experiences navigating the criminal justice system. This episode provides insight into the realities of California's prison system and gang dynamics. #PeckerwoodGang #LifeOfCrime #CaliforniaPrisons #PrisonSurvival #GangStories #TrueCrime #PrisonLife #InsideCaliforniaPrisons Connect with Garet Mclendon: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/garetmclendon/?hl=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/garet.mclendon/ Hosted, Executive Produced & Edited By Ian Bick: https://www.instagram.com/ian_bick/?hl=en https://ianbick.com/ Presented by Tyson 2.0 & Wooooo Energy: https://tyson20.com/ https://woooooenergy.com/ Buy Merch: https://www.ianbick.com/shop Use code lockedin at checkout to get 20% off your order Timestamps: 00:00:00 First Impressions of New York City 00:04:52 Living with My Mom: A Tale of Struggles and Family Choices 00:09:59 Struggles with Education and Early Hustling 00:15:06 Childhood Bullying and Violence 00:20:15 Life in a Peckerwood Gang 00:25:35 Early Troubles and Youth Authority 00:30:42 The Cycle of Violations and Incarceration 00:35:44 Struggles with Addiction and Family Relationships 00:41:07 Experiences in Lancaster County Jail 00:46:21 Navigating Prison Life and Brotherhood 00:51:19 The Role of Tattoo Artists in Prison 00:56:24 Transformation and Life After Prison 01:01:32 Turning Point: Choosing Recovery Over Prison 01:06:52 From the Streets to Times Square: A Personal Transformation 01:11:33 Overcoming a Troubled Past and Losing Friends 01:18:18 Overcoming Business Challenges with a Felony Record Powered by: Just Media House : https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Creative direction, design, assets, support by FWRD: https://www.fwrd.co Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Katie & Garet dive into Katie's current hyperfixation - the 90 Day Fiance franchise and how lately, Katie's favorite Girl Rot activity is watching "Before the 90 Days" for the first time, starting with season 1. We discuss the health - or not so healthy - aspects of reality TV in general and dating shows in particular - including some dives into Sister Wives, Seeking Sister Wife, and of course, Seeking Brother Husband. What's your favorite Girl Rot show to unwind and shut your brain off when life gets hectic?  Don't forget to follow us on IG and Threads @thebarisanklehigh, on Tiktok @anklehighpod, and to check out our merch at bit.ly/anklehighmerch. Of course, if you don't like ads, you can support our podcast directly by joining our Patreon for just $5 per month to get access to ad free, extended, and video episodes every single week. Sign up now by heading to www.patreon.com/thebarisanklehigh 

TDC Podcast topics - another big Lions win, Mike got out of the house to go see Larry David live, little dude Noah gets a guitar, 60 minutes features stories on a new University in Austin TX and people bitching in Kenya that American tech giants are taking advantage of them…sorry we had to cut things a bit short here but Garet's computer completely seized up (my guess is gay porn searches left him with a computer virus, like computer AIDS), and more.

In this Halloween-themed episode, Daniel and Garet dive into the season of spookiness and villains, exploring the idea of embracing your inner “villain” as a way of living authentically. With the season of costumes and haunted houses setting the tone, they ask: Why do we sometimes feel like villains for simply being ourselves? As they discuss everything from favorite Halloween characters to how villains in pop culture own their power, the conversation shifts to something deeper—how embracing confidence and setting boundaries can be perceived as “villainous” by others. They explore the balance between empathy and self-assurance, discussing their own experiences of when they've been perceived as villains for putting themselves first. Ultimately, this episode is about owning your choices and celebrating your authentic self, villain era and all! Key Episode Highlights:Halloween Vibes: Daniel and Garet reminisce about Halloween traditions and their favorite villains.Villain Energy: A discussion on why being confident, assertive, and authentic can sometimes make you feel like a “villain” in others' eyes.Setting Boundaries: Insights into how people-pleasing and being overly empathetic can hold you back from living your truth.Balancing Empathy and Self-Confidence: Garet shares his journey of learning to stop disarming others and instead embracing his own power.Pop Culture Villains: From Maleficent to House of Villains, Daniel and Garet discuss why we love watching villains thrive and how that energy can inspire our real lives. ___SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREONJoin our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!What's included:Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenesCommunity chats with Daniel and GaretExclusive voting power on episode topics/guestsDaniel and Garet's personal journal updates___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and GaretCo-Hosts of Modern Gayshttps://www.moderngays.co

In this episode of Modern Gays, Daniel and Garet open up about insecurities, plastic surgery, and how unsolicited advice can derail our self-confidence. From Garet's experience with a recent surgical procedure to Daniel's vulnerability about thinning hair, they explore the weight of personal insecurities and the judgment we often feel from others. Why do we care so much about what people think? They dive deep into the ways technology and social media amplify this pressure, while also challenging the instinct to offer advice when it's not asked for. Can we truly walk in someone else's shoes, or is it time we all learned to trust ourselves more? Listen in for laughs, raw truths, and some hard-earned wisdom. Key HighlightsPlastic Surgery Stories: Garet shares his recent experience getting surgery and how it affected his self-image.The Unsolicited Advice Club: The hosts discuss the pitfalls of giving advice when it's not wanted, particularly in LGBTQ+ spaces.Social Media Pressure: They examine how public routines and online life invite judgment and curiosity, even when nothing's changed.Empathy vs. Relatability: A conversation about when sharing your own story doesn't help someone going through their own experience. ___SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREONJoin our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!What's included:Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenesCommunity chats with Daniel and GaretExclusive voting power on episode topics/guestsDaniel and Garet's personal journal updates___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and GaretCo-Hosts of Modern Gayshttps://www.moderngays.co

Garet talks about doing time, g*ngs, rock bottom, getting his life on track, and more. ----- Promote Your Music with No Jumper - https://nojumper.com/pages/promo CHECK OUT OUR ONLINE STORE!!! https://nojumper.com NO JUMPER PATREON   / nojumper   CHECK OUT OUR NEW SPOTIFY PLAYLIST https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5te... Follow us on SNAPCHAT   / 4874336901   Follow us on SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/4z4yCTj... iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/n... Follow us on Social Media:   / 4874336901     / nojumper     / nojumper     / nojumper     / nojumper   JOIN THE DISCORD:   / discord   Follow Adam22:   / adam22     / adam22     / adam22   adam22bro on Snapchat Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this heartfelt episode of Modern Gays, hosts Daniel and Garet chat with Joey Guzman Kuffel, a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in LGBTQ+ fertility and mental health. Joey dives into his personal and professional journey, exploring the unique challenges and emotions queer people face when building families, particularly through surrogacy and IVF. The conversation covers vital topics such as the initial steps in family planning, the decision-making processes involved in egg donation and surrogacy, managing anxiety during IVF, and dealing with societal and familial judgment. They also discuss the significance of mental health support and therapy in navigating the rollercoaster of emotions that come with building a family in the LGBTQ+ community. This episode is packed with invaluable advice for those considering parenthood, seeking connection, and fostering love within their relationships.Key Highlights:LGBTQ+ Family Planning: Joey discusses the key factors to consider when starting a family, including choosing egg donors, surrogates, and the emotional preparation needed for this life-changing journey.Mental Health Support: The importance of consulting a mental health professional early in the family-building process, providing a safe space to explore options and prepare for challenges.Managing Expectations: Joey emphasizes that every path to parenthood is unique; comparing your journey to others' experiences can lead to unnecessary stress and anxiety.Coping with Judgment: Strategies for setting boundaries and coping with judgment from society, family, and even self-imposed doubts during the process of surrogacy or IVF.Navigating Relationship Dynamics: The episode explores the impact of family building on relationships, stressing the importance of communication, shared responsibilities, and maintaining connection as a couple. Connect with Joey:Joey Guzman-Kuffel, LMFT is a licensed marriage and family therapist and the founder of Counseling With Joey & Associates. Inspired by his own journey to fatherhood through surrogacy and egg donation, Joey specializes in fertility, IVF, and surrogacy counseling for LGBTQ+ individuals and couples. His practice provides culturally competent, empathetic care for those navigating the emotional complexities of third-party reproduction. The team offers consultations, psychological evaluations, and traditional therapy services. Website: Counseling With Joey & AssociatesBook an Appointment: Schedule HereSocial Media: Facebook | InstagramPhone (USA): +1 (619) 363-5677  ___SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREONJoin our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!What's included:Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenesCommunity chats with Daniel and GaretExclusive voting power on episode topics/guestsDaniel and Garet's personal journal updates___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and GaretCo-Hosts of Modern Gayshttps://www.moderngays.co

Dive into the curious world of “gooning,” a term that's swept both the queer subculture and mainstream conversations. Daniel and Garet break down its roots as a kink-focused term used to describe a trance-like euphoric state, and discuss how it's now become a playful way to express intense excitement. From pop icon obsession to reality TV indulgence, the hosts unpack why gooning isn't just for sexual exploration anymore—it's become part of everyday language, humor, and pop culture. What does it say about queer subcultures when their unique terms break into the mainstream? And should we be cautious about overusing and trivializing these identities, or is this just another step in the evolution of modern LGBTQ+ language? Tune in to find out, laugh, and maybe even discover your own goon face! Key Highlights:Gooning Origins: A deep dive into the history of “gooning” as a sexual practice within queer communities.Pop Culture Crossovers: How gooning has evolved from a kinky term to a mainstream word embraced by pop culture.Housewives and Pop Stars: The latest buzz from the world of pop icons like Tate McRae, Normani, and reality TV favorites.Language Evolution: A discussion on how queer slang like “gagged,” “gooped,” and “gooning” enters everyday language.Queer Subculture Insights: Exploring how niche sexual subcultures influence and shape larger societal trends. ___SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREONJoin our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!What's included:Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenesCommunity chats with Daniel and GaretExclusive voting power on episode topics/guestsDaniel and Garet's personal journal updates___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and GaretCo-Hosts of Modern Gayshttps://www.moderngays.co

Prepare to have your mind blown as we dive into "Unbelievable Prison Survival Tactics You Never Knew" with Garet McLendon on the Digital Social Hour!

In this insightful episode, Daniel and Garet sit down with Dan Harry, star of I Kissed a Boy and a powerful voice in HIV and sexual health advocacy. Dan opens up about his experience on the UK's first gay dating show, shedding light on the pressures of on-screen dating and the vulnerability that comes with reality TV. Beyond the entertainment world, Dan is making a significant impact in the LGBTQ+ community by participating in an HIV vaccine trial and hosting the BBC documentary HIV, PrEP & Me. Together, they explore the evolving conversations around HIV prevention, the importance of breaking down stigma, and how the gay community can prioritize sexual health. Dan's candidness about his personal struggles in dating, public perception, and advocacy work makes this a must-listen for anyone interested in both love and community activism. Key Highlights:Dan's Reality TV Experience: Dan talks about his unexpected journey on I Kissed a Boy and how joining later in the show impacted his confidence and connections.HIV Advocacy and PrEP: Dan discusses his role in an HIV vaccine trial and his BBC documentary, highlighting the importance of PrEP and HIV prevention education.Breaking Stigma: The conversation dives deep into how HIV stigma still exists and why it's essential to dismantle it, especially in the LGBTQ+ dating world.Dating in the Spotlight: Dan shares how being on reality TV has changed his dating life and the toxic traits he's working to overcome.Words of Wisdom: Dan reflects on how what may be seen as weaknesses can be our greatest strengths, offering empowering advice for those navigating the dating world. ___SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREONJoin our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!What's included:Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenesCommunity chats with Daniel and GaretExclusive voting power on episode topics/guestsDaniel and Garet's personal journal updates___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and GaretCo-Hosts of Modern Gayshttps://www.moderngays.co

In this episode, Daniel and Garet unpack the complex role of the messenger, using Selling Sunset's latest drama as a case study. From holding onto secrets to dealing with backlash, the hosts explore the fine line between being helpful and being perceived as stirring the pot. Is it ever okay to share private information if you think you're protecting a friend? Or does the blame always fall on the one delivering bad news? Reflecting on both the show and their own experiences, the duo offers listeners relatable insights on trust, communication, and managing drama in their own relationships. Tune in as they dissect the fine art of being the vault, the ally, or the unfortunate bearer of bad news.Key Highlights:The Messenger's Dilemma: Is delivering sensitive information an act of kindness or meddling?Selling Sunset Drama: The blurred lines between reality TV and real-life relationships.Trust vs. Intention: How your role as a messenger impacts the trust others place in you.Reality TV's Influence on Friendship: How shows like Selling Sunset mirror real-life dynamics.Navigating Gossip: Balancing empathy and honesty when delivering uncomfortable truths. ___SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREONJoin our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!What's included:Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenesCommunity chats with Daniel and GaretExclusive voting power on episode topics/guestsDaniel and Garet's personal journal updates___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and GaretCo-Hosts of Modern Gayshttps://www.moderngays.co

In this heartfelt episode, Daniel and Garet sit down with Jake and Sean from DaddiestoThree to explore the dynamic and sometimes unpredictable world of gay parenthood. From their initial desire to start a family to the unexpected news of triplets, Jake and Sean share the intimate details of their surrogacy journey, including the emotional impact of miscarriage and the joy of finally welcoming three healthy babies. As they navigate the complexities of IVF, surrogacy, and being visible gay parents, Jake and Sean open up about the importance of representation, the power of community, and the reality of daily life with three toddlers. This conversation is filled with moments of laughter, vulnerability, and inspiration, offering a unique glimpse into what it means to create a family on your own terms. Key HighlightsFrom Surrogacy to Triplets: Jake and Sean recount their journey from finding a surrogate to the surprise of having triplets, highlighting the rollercoaster of emotions involved in gay parenthood.Overcoming Challenges: The couple opens up about their experience with miscarriage and how they found the strength to continue their journey toward parenthood.Importance of Visibility: Jake and Sean discuss the significance of sharing their story online, aiming to provide hope and representation for other LGBTQ+ individuals and couples.Support Systems: The episode dives into the crucial role of community and family support, especially during the highs and lows of their surrogacy process.Balancing Authenticity and Advocacy: They talk about balancing personal life with their advocacy work, especially in the current political climate, and how they use their platform to support other queer families. ___SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREONJoin our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!What's included:Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenesCommunity chats with Daniel and GaretExclusive voting power on episode topics/guestsDaniel and Garet's personal journal updates___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and GaretCo-Hosts of Modern Gayshttps://www.moderngays.co

Daniel and Garet dive into the concept of “short and sweet,” discussing how brevity can enhance various aspects of life, from storytelling to relationships. They explore the balance between keeping things concise while still conveying depth and meaning, touching on personal anecdotes and larger cultural phenomena like the upcoming Gay Games in Melbourne. The hosts challenge the notion that longer is always better, proposing that sometimes the most impactful moments are those that are brief but memorable. How do we determine when to keep things short and when to dive deep? And what can the LGBTQ+ community learn from the practice of mindful brevity in both personal and public spheres?Key Highlights:Understanding “Short and Sweet”: The hosts discuss the value of brevity in storytelling and daily interactions, and how this approach can often lead to more meaningful connections.The Gay Games 2030: A conversation about Melbourne's bid to host the Gay Games, exploring its history, inclusivity, and the importance of representation in sports.Navigating Relationships: Insights on embracing short-term relationships, focusing on the lessons and growth they offer rather than their duration.Effective Communication: How to say more with less—developing the skill of impactful communication through mindful listening and concise expression.Cultural Reflections: Daniel and Garrett reflect on the importance of valuing experiences for what they are, without the pressure of longevity, and how this perspective can enrich both personal growth and community dynamics. ___SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREONJoin our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!What's included:Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenesEarly access to Modern Gays podcast episodesCommunity chats with Daniel and GaretExclusive voting power on episode topics/guestsDaniel and Garet's personal journal updatesVibe Tribe community chat and much more!___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and GaretCo-Hosts of Modern Gayshttps://www.moderngays.co

Daniel and Garet are joined by the legendary acting coach Margie Haber, who has helped shaped the careers of Hollywood stars like Halle Berry and Brad Pitt. Inspired by Margie's book F*ck Your Comfort Zone, the trio dives deep into the paralyzing grip of fear and how to break free from it. Margie shares her journey of self-discovery and the importance of embracing discomfort to grow, offering powerful insights that go beyond acting. Whether you're looking to change careers, come out, or simply live more authentically, this episode is packed with wisdom to help you say “f**k it” to your fears and start living the life you deserve. Key HighlightsOvercoming Fear: Margie discusses how fear can either motivate or paralyze, and offers tools to harness it for personal growth.Comfort Zones as Traps: Insight into how comfort zones act as self-imposed prisons and why breaking out is crucial.The Power of Saying Yes: Margie shares how saying “yes” to opportunities, even when they're scary, can lead to transformative experiences.Balancing Multiple Selves: Exploring the concept of embracing all parts of yourself, from the nurturing parent to the playful child.The Circle of Life: Understanding that life's ups and downs are natural, and how to keep moving forward despite setbacks. ___SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREONJoin our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!What's included:Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenesEarly access to Modern Gays podcast episodesCommunity chats with Daniel and GaretExclusive voting power on episode topics/guestsDaniel and Garet's personal journal updatesVibe Tribe community chat and much more!___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and GaretCo-Hosts of Modern Gayshttps://www.moderngays.co

From the timeless romance of Sarah Paulson and Holland Taylor to the unique dynamic between RuPaul and George LeBar, these couples teach us that love is not one-size-fits-all. The discussion spans across monogamous, open, and polyamorous relationships, highlighting the importance of mutual respect, admiration, and staying true to your authentic self. How do these relationships thrive despite societal pressures and personal challenges? And what can we learn from their journeys to apply in our own lives? Tune in for a conversation that celebrates love in all its forms. Key Highlights:Monogamy, Open, and Everything In-Between: Insights into how different celebrity couples navigate various relationship dynamics.Sarah Paulson & Holland Taylor: A deep dive into their 32-year age gap and their mutual admiration that keeps their love strong.RuPaul & George LeBar: Exploring the balance of independence and togetherness in a 30-year open relationship.Tom Daley & Dustin Lance Black: The role of family and shared values in sustaining their monogamous marriage.Redefining Love: How these couples break societal norms and create their unique love stories. ___SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREONJoin our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!What's included:Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenesEarly access to Modern Gays podcast episodesCommunity chats with Daniel and GaretExclusive voting power on episode topics/guestsDaniel and Garet's personal journal updatesVibe Tribe community chat and much more!___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and GaretCo-Hosts of Modern Gayshttps://www.moderngays.co

In this episode of Modern Gays, Daniel and Garet delve into the ever-evolving landscape of modern dating, exploring new trends that are shaping how we connect and build relationships in 2024. They discuss the phenomenon of “beard fishing,” where profile pictures with misleading beard lengths cause confusion and disappointment in real-life encounters. The hosts also share insights on the rise of “soft starts” and “low-pressure dates” (LPDs), emphasizing the importance of a more measured and relaxed approach to dating. As they reflect on their own dating experiences and those of their friends, Daniel and Garet offer valuable advice for navigating the dating scene with authenticity and confidence. Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship, this episode provides a thoughtful and entertaining look at the current trends in LGBTQ+ dating. Key HighlightsBeard Fishing: Discover the new dating trend where misleading beard lengths in profile pictures cause real-life surprises.Soft Starts: Learn about the trend of beginning relationships with low-key, non-committal interactions.Low-Pressure Dates (LPDs): Understand the significance of casual, stress-free dating activities for building genuine connections.Dating App Insights: Explore how platforms like Hinge are influencing LGBTQ+ dating with data-driven trends and practices.Personal Stories: Hear Daniel and Garet's own experiences and reflections on navigating the modern dating world. ___SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREONJoin our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!What's included:Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenesEarly access to Modern Gays podcast episodesCommunity chats with Daniel and GaretExclusive voting power on episode topics/guestsDaniel and Garet's personal journal updatesVibe Tribe community chat and much more!___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and GaretCo-Hosts of Modern Gayshttps://www.moderngays.co

In this episode of Modern Gays, Daniel and Garet dive deep into the intriguing world of Instagram's Close Friends feature, discussing how it reshapes online intimacy and the dynamics within the gay community. From personal anecdotes about provocative posts to the broader implications of creating micro-communities, they explore the various ways people use (and sometimes misuse) this green-circled space. They also touch on current events, including the Paris Olympics and its impact on gay culture, along with the recent Grindr restrictions within the Olympic village. Tune in to uncover how Close Friends can be a platform for authenticity, a space for provacative moments, or just another way to share the mundane moments of life with a selected few. Key HighlightsClose Friends Feature: Understanding the purpose and personal experiences with Instagram's Close Friends.Olympic Highlights: Discussing the Paris Olympics, including drag queen performances and Grindr restrictions.Privacy Concerns: Exploring the impact of privacy settings and the importance of intentional sharing.Community Building: How Close Friends can create micro-communities and safe spaces for self-expression.Content Strategies: Tips on effectively using Close Friends for personal and engaging content sharing. ___SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREONJoin our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!What's included:Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenesEarly access to Modern Gays podcast episodesCommunity chats with Daniel and GaretExclusive voting power on episode topics/guestsDaniel and Garet's personal journal updatesVibe Tribe community chat and much more!___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and GaretCo-Hosts of Modern Gayshttps://www.moderngays.co

Mostly Motorsports Ep. 322 Ayrton Gennetten, Garet Williamson Scott Traylor and Kirk Elliott have been the host of "Track Talk" with the RacinBoys on Sports Radio 810 WHB in Kansas City for 24 years. Traylor spent the past 13 years on the road as anchor and producer of the Lucas Oil ASCS National Tour broadcasts. He had many years of experience and success driving and owning race cars before embarking on a broadcasting career covering motorsports

In this episode of Modern Gays, Daniel and Garet dive deep into the realities of facing hate and criticism as members of the LGBTQ+ community. Inspired by a recent episode of RuPaul's Drag Race Canada vs. the World, they discuss the pervasive issue of haters, both online and offline, and the unique challenges queer individuals face in today's political climate. The conversation touches on personal experiences, the intersection of social media and public perception, and the importance of resilience and support within the community. They also explore the nuances of hate versus criticism and offer strategies for dealing with negativity in a constructive way. Tune in for an insightful discussion that balances heavy topics with moments of humor and hope.Key HighlightsHaters and Social Media: The impact of negative comments and how they altered Daniel and Garet's social media approach.RuPaul's Drag Race Inspiration: How a performance on the show sparked a deeper conversation about intra-community judgment.Political Climate: The hosts' thoughts on the U.S. election and its broader implications for the LGBTQ+ community.Coping Strategies: Tips for distinguishing between hate and constructive criticism and how to handle each.Community Support: The importance of uplifting one another and fostering a supportive environment within the LGBTQ+ community. ___SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREONJoin our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!What's included:Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenesEarly access to Modern Gays podcast episodesCommunity chats with Daniel and GaretExclusive voting power on episode topics/guestsDaniel and Garet's personal journal updatesVibe Tribe community chat and much more!___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and GaretCo-Hosts of Modern Gayshttps://www.moderngays.co

From recounting personal stories of sweaty encounters to debating whether socks should stay on or come off during sex, Daniel and Garet provide a humorous yet insightful look at what constitutes good manners in intimate situations. They also explore the rules and excitement of cruising, the rise of Sniffies as a mainstream hookup app, and the essential etiquette tips everyone should know to ensure enjoyable and respectful experiences. Tune in for laughs, valuable insights, and a candid discussion that goes beyond the bedroom.Key HighlightsSweaty Encounters: Daniel's hilarious story of a steamy, sweat-filled hookup.Socks Debate: The hosts weigh in on whether socks should stay on or come off during sex.Cruising 101: Unpacking the unspoken rules of cruising and the appeal of spontaneous encounters.Sniffies App: The rise of Sniffies as the new go-to for quick, anonymous hookups.Hookup Etiquette: Essential tips for clean and respectful sexual experiences. ___SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREONJoin our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!What's included:Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenesEarly access to Modern Gays podcast episodesCommunity chats with Daniel and GaretExclusive voting power on episode topics/guestsDaniel and Garet's personal journal updatesVibe Tribe community chat and much more!___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and GaretCo-Hosts of Modern Gayshttps://www.moderngays.co

Today's episode is all about Tweaker Madness...Garret McClendon has done multiple prison terms and spent years of his life manufacturing methamphetamine. Garet has now been sober for over eleven years and credits his success in recovery to his willingness to finally just try what was suggested by his counselors. Garret replaced transmissions in the middle of the night, saw tree people on the cameras in his makeshift meth labs and wore a blue Fedora hat when he was on a sick one. ;) This episode has all the hilarious tweaker capers and meth madness your heart could desire, plus a healthy dose of recovery and hope. Thank you for listening, please let me know what you think! Connect with Garret on Instagram Connect with Jeannine on Instagram Connect with the show on Instagram Connect with Jeannine on TikTok

Can you believe it?! It is our 100th episode and we are FINALLY getting our ADHD assessed! Not really - but this week Katie and Garet give each other made up ADHD assessments by asking questions that really get to the heart of living with ADHD as grown ass adult women who have bills and families and jobs. Will you be just as surprised as we were at our results? Tune in to find out.  MOST IMPORTANTLY -- we have a huge announcement -- we are changing our podcast format to a seasonal format!!! We are taking a seasonal break starting THIS WEEK and will be back at the end of 2024.  HOWEVER - our patreon subscribers will still be getting monthly bonus episodes even in the off-season. So join our Patreon now for just $5 per month at www.patreon.com/thebarisanklehigh . This new podcast format will allow us to do better and more in depth research and keep us from getting burned out and overwhelmed. With Garet returning to full time employment with a full time baby that still requires attention almost all of the time, and Katie's life getting busier and busier, and our unpaid intern still working full time as our editor PLUS he has an actual job that pays him real human dollars to do - we all thought this was the best way to ensure we continue to give you all the best content in the most consistent manner. We love you all and don't ever want to let you down so we hope you'll continue to support us! The other great way to support us is by leaving us a 5-star review anywhere you find us and making sure you're following us on Instagram and Threads @thebarisanklehigh and on TikTok @anklehighpod.  The second-best way to support us is to support our ad sponsors: Calm Strips: https://calmstrips.com/ Promo Code: LIMBO20 Wild Deodorant: https://zen.ai/dHUTZ7FL8hTa9viX9ft0Jw Promo Code: anklehigh Zencastr: https://zen.ai/hbxFmHWJjfjA7r-Jy12hoA

Hosts Daniel and Garet delve into the concept of playersexuality in video games. They share nostalgic gaming experiences and discuss how modern games like The Sims have evolved to include diverse sexual identities. The conversation highlights the importance of inclusive representation in gaming, particularly for the LGBTQ+ community. The hosts analyze both the positive and negative aspects of 'playersexual' characters, emphasizing the need for deeper, more authentic character development. They also touch on the societal implications of gaming, how it fosters community and the growing trend of identifying as 'gaymers'. The episode concludes with a light-hearted discussion about potential future developments in LGBTQ+ gaming.Key Highlights:Nostalgic gaming experiences with classics like The Sims and Grand Theft Auto.Discussion on the evolution of games to include diverse sexual identities.Examination of the concept of playersexuality and its implications.Pros of playersexual characters: inclusivity, freedom, and positive representation.Cons of playersexual characters: superficiality, tokenism, and lack of depth.The significance of community and connection in gaming.The need for more authentic and rich LGBTQ+ character stories in video games. ___SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREONJoin our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!What's included:Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenesEarly access to Modern Gays podcast episodesCommunity chats with Daniel and GaretExclusive voting power on episode topics/guestsDaniel and Garet's personal journal updatesVibe Tribe community chat and much more!___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and GaretCo-Hosts of Modern Gayshttps://www.moderngays.co

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This week Garet talks to us about over-stimulation. We've discussed sensory processing disorder but what happens to your brain when you're just overwhelmed by the texture of the chair you're sitting on or how hot you are or how many people are talking at the same time? Well, this week we discuss that and how some super aggressive monkeys near Puerto Rico stopped throwing poop at everyone when they got too hot. And if that's not relatable, what is? Overstimulation has physical and emotional implications and we dive into those aspects of it and we discuss ways to combat overstimulation without medication!    You can check out our brand new merch at bit.ly/anklehighmerch and support us by joining our Patreon for just $5 per month at www.patreon.com/thebarisanklehigh where you'll get access to extended cut ad free audio and video episodes plus bonus episodes, be added to our close friends list on Instagram, and get an on-air shout out and goodies from us in the mail! Make sure you're following us on Instagram @thebarisanklehigh to join in on the weekly episode title contest for your chance to win a free podcast logo sticker! We're also on TikTok where Katie posts a whole bunch of episode clips but also fun ADHD tidbits - so go follow us there at @anklehighpod Finally, the best way to support us is to leave us a 5-star review anywhere you find us and share us to your IG stories to make sure all your friends know why you're laughing so much at work!! The second-best way to support us is to support our ad sponsors: Calm Strips: https://calmstrips.com/ Promo Code: LIMBO20 Wild Deodorant: https://zen.ai/dHUTZ7FL8hTa9viX9ft0Jw Promo Code: anklehigh Zencastr: https://zen.ai/hbxFmHWJjfjA7r-Jy12hoA

Join Daniel and Garet as they explore the concept of "sadfishing," where individuals post overly emotional content online to seek validation. They delve into the reasons behind this behavior and its impact on relationships and social media interactions. Moving away from the digital realm, they highlight the growing trend of matchmaking, sharing personal anecdotes and the value of human connection in finding love. The episode covers the advantages of matchmaking over traditional dating apps, emphasizing the desire for meaningful connections and the challenges posed by superficial interactions online. They also provide tips on navigating these evolving dating landscapes with empathy and authenticity.Key Highlights:Explanation of sad fishing and its implications on social media.Personal stories about attraction, dating, and the difference between seeking attention and genuine vulnerability.Discussion on the revival of matchmaking and its benefits over modern dating apps.Insights into matchmaking experiences and the importance of personality and core values in successful matches.Comparison between digital and traditional dating methods, including the impact of gamification and the desire for deeper connections.Encouragement for listeners to be authentic and empathetic in their dating endeavors. ___SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREONJoin our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!What's included:Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenesEarly access to Modern Gays podcast episodesCommunity chats with Daniel and GaretExclusive voting power on episode topics/guestsDaniel and Garet's personal journal updatesVibe Tribe community chat and much more!___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and GaretCo-Hosts of Modern Gayshttps://www.moderngays.co

This week Garet teaches us all about aphantasia and hyperphantasia - words used to describe whether or not you are able to picture something in your mind's eye and to what extent you can picture something. It turns out - not everyone has a TV show running in their brains like Lizzie McGuire and that can make a difference when you're trying to remember important moments in your life - from happy memories like the birth of your child to really terrifying memories that are associated with PTSD. Garet explains this phenomenon to us and we discuss possible connections to increased rates of PTSD, dementia, and Alzheimer's. Head over to our Instagram post for today's episode and tell us where you fall on this Fantasia Barino spectrum! You can check out our brand new merch at bit.ly/anklehighmerch and support us by joining our Patreon for just $5 per month at www.patreon.com/thebarisanklehigh where you'll get access to extended cut ad free audio and video episodes plus bonus episodes, be added to our close friends list on Instagram, and get an on-air shout out and goodies from us in the mail! Make sure you're following us on Instagram @thebarisanklehigh to join in on the weekly episode title contest for your chance to win a free podcast logo sticker! We're also on TikTok where Katie posts a whole bunch of episode clips but also fun ADHD tidbits - so go follow us there at @anklehighpod Finally, the best way to support us is to leave us a 5-star review anywhere you find us and share us to your IG stories to make sure all your friends know why you're laughing so much at work!! The second-best way to support us is to support our ad sponsors: Calm Strips: https://calmstrips.com/ Promo Code: LIMBO20 Zencastr: https://zen.ai/hbxFmHWJjfjA7r-Jy12hoA  

In this episode of Modern Gays, we sit down with TheeAlexanderJ, a dynamic influencer known for his vibrant fashion and confident demeanor. We delve into his background, discussing the origins of his confidence and the motivation behind his viral content. Alexander shares experiences growing up, highlighting the challenges and triumphs that shaped his journey. He emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance, breaking free from societal norms, and finding joy in one's uniqueness. The conversation also covers strategies for maintaining confidence in public spaces, dealing with negativity, and using social media as a platform for positivity. TheeAlexandeJ's insights on daily practices for confidence, manifestation, and the power of starting are invaluable for anyone looking to boost their self-esteem and live authentically.Key Highlights:The journey from insecurity to confidence, and the role of self-acceptance.Strategies for staying confident in public and dealing with negative feedback.The significance of breaking societal norms and embracing individuality.Daily practices for building and maintaining confidence.The impact of confidence on personal relationships and attracting supportive people.The power of manifestation and the importance of starting your journey.Connect with TheeAlexanderJ:TikTokInstagramListen to "King Sh*t" by TheeAlexanderJ ___SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREONJoin our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!What's included:Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenesEarly access to Modern Gays podcast episodesCommunity chats with Daniel and GaretExclusive voting power on episode topics/guestsDaniel and Garet's personal journal updatesVibe Tribe community chat and much more!___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and GaretCo-Hosts of Modern Gayshttps://www.moderngays.co

Let's talk about "Delulu," a term that started as a playful social media jab but has evolved into a powerful mindset for achieving your wildest dreams. Daniel and Garet discuss how embracing a bit of delusion can lead to setting and achieving audacious goals. Through personal anecdotes, celebrity examples, and practical tips, they explore the transformative power of believing in your dreams, visualizing success, and overcoming mental barriers. Join the conversation and learn how to harness your inner "Delulu" to create the life you desire.Overview:Personal Stories of DelusionThe Power of Delusion in Goal SettingVisualization techniquesOvercoming mental barriersDelulu or Not: A Fun GameHosts and listeners play a game to identify delusional versus realistic goalsCelebrity Examples of Delusional SuccessAriana Grande, Sabrina Carpenter, Megan Thee Stallion, Walt DisneyPractical Tips for Embracing DeluluBelief, Visualization, and Breaking ThroughSetting big, scary goalsTechniques for maintaining focus and overcoming negativity ___SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREONJoin our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!What's included:Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenesEarly access to Modern Gays podcast episodesCommunity chats with Daniel and GaretExclusive voting power on episode topics/guestsDaniel and Garet's personal journal updatesVibe Tribe community chat and much more!___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and GaretCo-Hosts of Modern Gayshttps://www.moderngays.co

Daniel and Garet are joined by love and relationship expert Trevor Kuhn from Love Daddy Trev. Together, they address common questions facing single gay men, such as why they might still be single, how to find the right partner, and navigating the complexities of dating in close-knit gay communities. The discussion also touches on the impact of Pride events on finding love, the competitive nature of dating among gay men, and the importance of self-love and authenticity in relationships. Trevor shares practical advice for dating, from engaging meaningfully with others to managing expectations on dating apps. The episode concludes with encouragement to prioritize self-love and genuine connections during Pride and beyond. Chapters:00:26 Friends vs. Dating in Close-Knit Communities01:28 The Impact of Pride on Finding Love03:09 Navigating Gay Social Settings05:20 The Competitive Nature of Gay Dating08:12 The Role of Attraction in Friendships and Dating16:13 Tips for Using Dating Apps Effectively ___SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREONJoin our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!What's included:Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenesEarly access to Modern Gays podcast episodesCommunity chats with Daniel and GaretExclusive voting power on episode topics/guestsDaniel and Garet's personal journal updatesVibe Tribe community chat and much more!___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and GaretCo-Hosts of Modern Gayshttps://www.moderngays.co

We're back with another episode of ADHD Would You Rather! Katie & Garet discuss various scenarios, such as cleaning out a closet vs. rebuilding a wardrobe, drinking coffee with missing elements vs. having perpetual coffee breath, waking up sweaty vs. waking up freezing cold, and being misunderstood vs. unable to explain oneself. They also touch on topics like sticky lip gloss vs. chapped lips and the band Phish. The conversation is light-hearted and humorous, with both Katie and Garet sharing their preferences and personal experiences. In this conversation, Garet and Katie discuss various topics, including plastic surgery, jaw reconstruction and it's impact on facial changes as demonstrated by our tweeny hearthrob, Zac Efron. No matter which of these you choose, remember to be kind to yourself, because the bar is ankle high! You can check out our brand new merch at bit.ly/anklehighmerch and support us by joining our Patreon for just $5 per month at www.patreon.com/thebarisanklehigh where you'll get access to extended cut ad free audio and video episodes plus bonus episodes, be added to our close friends list on Instagram, and get an on-air shout out and goodies from us in the mail! Make sure you're following us on Instagram @thebarisanklehigh to join in on the weekly episode title contest for your chance to win a free podcast logo sticker! We're also on TikTok where Katie posts a whole bunch of episode clips but also fun ADHD tidbits - so go follow us there at @anklehighpod Finally, the best way to support us is to leave us a 5-star review anywhere you find us and share us to your IG stories to make sure all your friends know why you're laughing so much at work!! The second-best way to support us is to support our ad sponsors: Calm Strips: https://calmstrips.com/ Promo Code: LIMBO20 Zencastr: https://zen.ai/hbxFmHWJjfjA7r-Jy12hoA

TDC Podcast topics - We take a look and drive in the Hummer EV and Garet admits it's pretty cool, more health issues to deal with!  Chris Cuomo debates Dave Smith about everything Covid related, Fauci blames the CDC for 6 feet socially distancing, Happy Pride Month, BMW, Mercedes, Cisco and others update their logos to fit the LGBTQ agenda...except were it matters, and email

In this Pride edition of Modern Gays, Daniel and Garet delve into the deeper meaning of pride beyond the celebrations. They discuss how truly owning and expressing your gay pride every day can lead to incredible personal and societal transformations. From the importance of visibility and acceptance to the ongoing fight for equality and the resilience needed to face challenges, this episode is a heartfelt and empowering exploration of what it means to live with pride. The hosts share personal stories, practical tips, and inspirational insights to help listeners embrace their identities and take action for a more inclusive world.Key Highlights:The Importance of Visibility: Exploring how being openly gay impacts personal life and society.Acceptance: Personal journeys of acceptance and the importance of being accepted by others.Equality: The ongoing fight for LGBTQ+ rights and the importance of solidarity.Resilience: Overcoming challenges and thriving despite adversity.Taking Action: Practical steps to support LGBTQ+ rights and foster inclusivity. ___SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREONJoin our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!What's included:Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenesEarly access to Modern Gays podcast episodesCommunity chats with Daniel and GaretExclusive voting power on episode topics/guestsDaniel and Garet's personal journal updatesVibe Tribe community chat and much more!___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and GaretCo-Hosts of Modern Gayshttps://www.moderngays.co

Remember a few weeks ago when Garet was talking about Hypermobility Spectrum Disorder and mentioned something about the use of dopamine to regulate pain levels? Well, that fun fact stuck in Katie's head in a big way so this week Katie teaches us about the connection between dopamine and pain perception - and can you believe it? It's different for folks who were assigned male at birth than it is for folks assigned female a birth! If ONLY we had seen this in every other study we've ever looked into...wait...oh yeah. We also discuss the effects that chronic pain has on the brain and dopamine production and reception and then discuss that gem of a commencement speech by Harrison Butker - because the bar is ankle high. You can check out our brand new merch at bit.ly/anklehighmerch and support us by joining our Patreon for just $5 per month at www.patreon.com/thebarisanklehigh where you'll get access to extended cut ad free audio and video episodes plus bonus episodes, be added to our close friends list on Instagram, and get an on-air shout out and goodies from us in the mail! Make sure you're following us on Instagram @thebarisanklehigh to join in on the weekly episode title contest for your chance to win a free podcast logo sticker! We're also on TikTok where Katie posts a whole bunch of episode clips but also fun ADHD tidbits - so go follow us there at @anklehighpod Finally, the best way to support us is to leave us a 5-star review anywhere you find us and share us to your IG stories to make sure all your friends know why you're laughing so much at work!! The second-best way to support us is to support our ad sponsors: Calm Strips: https://calmstrips.com/ Promo Code: LIMBO20 Zencastr: https://zen.ai/hbxFmHWJjfjA7r-Jy12hoA

Kevin Kasir, a gay mindset coach, shares his journey into self-development, emphasizing the importance of a positive mindset and self-love. The conversation covers recognizing negative thought patterns, the significance of taking small actionable steps towards self-improvement, and the impact of deep, supportive friendships. Kevin offers practical advice on overcoming laziness, the role of friendships in mental health, and how to make and maintain meaningful connections. The trio delves into the unique dynamics of LGBTQIA+ friendships, highlighting how deep, supportive connections can significantly enhance mental health. Kevin provides insightful tips on making new friends, maintaining meaningful relationships, and the importance of clear intentions. He also shares creative ideas for nurturing these bonds through consistent, heartfelt communication.Addressing the common issues of jealousy and judgment in friendships, Kevin explains the impact of insecurity and the need for fostering healthy relationships. He emphasizes living authentically as a means to attract quality connections, sharing his personal strategies for cultivating confidence and self-trust. Connect with Kevin Kasir:WebsiteInstagram ___SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREONJoin our Patreon! Get access to deeper dives and juicier content around every episode! Move into the Modern Gayborhood for only $5 USD/month and help us produce Modern Gays. Your support pays for our hosting, audio production and episode research. Please check it out and sign up here!What's included:Exclusive content, stories and behind-the-scenesEarly access to Modern Gays podcast episodesCommunity chats with Daniel and GaretExclusive voting power on episode topics/guestsDaniel and Garet's personal journal updatesVibe Tribe community chat and much more!___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! Daniel and GaretCo-Hosts of Modern Gayshttps://www.moderngays.co

Daniel and Garet are joined by psychotherapist Brian Spitulnik to explore the complex interplay between identity, sex, and the influence of porn in the LGBTQ community. Brian, known for his authentic and relatable advice on Instagram and TikTok, shares his expertise on how being gay can shape personal choices and relationships. Together, they dive into the core issues of shame, the importance of chosen families, and the challenges of forming authentic connections in a digital age. Key Topics Discussed:Common Challenges Faced by Gay Men: The pervasive sense of shame and its specific manifestations. How shame influences behaviors like addiction, body dysmorphia, and relationship dynamics.The Role of Chosen Families: Importance of finding true and honest relationships within the LGBTQ community. Brian's perspective on the adolescent phase gay men go through upon coming out.Navigating Romantic and Platonic Relationships: The complexities of building intimate and platonic relationships in the gay community. Balancing personal identity with societal and community expectations.Impact of Porn on Real-Life Intimacy: Discussion on how porn consumption affects emotional engagement in real-life relationships. Strategies to find a healthy balance between porn and personal connections.Listener Questions (Only Whispers Segment): Addressing Rex from Sydney's concern about balancing porn with real-life intimacy. Advice for Thomas from Boston on finding dates outside of dating apps.Practical Tips for Building Authentic Connections: Checking the facts to avoid miscommunication. Reflective listening to ensure understanding and clarity. Evaluating personal feelings towards others to foster genuine connections. Notable Quotes:"True love is holding another's spiritual evolution as equal to your own." – bell hooks"Everything changes. Nothing remains the same. To think that you're always going to want the same thing is not being in reality." – Brian Spitulnik About Brian:Brian Spitulnik, LMSW, is a psychotherapist in private practice and co-founder of Artists Reimagining Therapy & Systems (A.R.T.S.), a fully-funded program offering free group and individual therapy to artists and arts workers. Brian is committed to working with his clients to come fully into relationship with their environment and themselves while providing practical tools for behavioral change and emotional growth. Ongoing professional development and advanced training experiences are a critical component of Brian's practice, ensuring a transformative impact on the individuals and communities he serves. Brian has earned degrees from The University of Michigan, Columbia University, and The Silberman School of Social Work at Hunter College. Before becoming a mental health practitioner, Brian performed on Broadway for over 15 years, wrote for Global Citizen, The Daily Beast, McSweeney's, and Dance Magazine, and co-founded 85th Street Productions. Brian's Links:https://www.instagram.com/spitulnik/https://www.tiktok.com/@spitulnikhttps://www.brianspitulnik.com ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

In this lively and intimate episode of "Modern Gays," hosts Daniel and Garet delve into the complexities of dating across significant age differences within the LGBTQIA+ community. They discuss everything from the cultural concepts of "daddies" to the emotional and social dynamics that come with large age gaps in relationships.Episode Highlights:Topic of age differences in relationships, setting the stage for a discussion filled with personal insights and broader cultural reflections.Play "Top, Bottom, Flip," selecting celebrities to humorously discuss their preferences in a playful reimagination of the classic game.Daniel and Garet share their personal experiences with age gaps, both in their own relationship and with previous partners, revealing insights about perceptions and realities of dating across age lines.Defining a "daddy" in the community, focusing on attributes like maturity, mentorship, and emotional intelligence beyond mere physical age.Advantages and challenges they've faced due to their age gap, from emotional growth and mentorship to concerns about health and energy levels.Discussion on the social stigma sometimes associated with age differences and share how they've navigated these challenges within their relationship and in public perception. ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

Explore the nuances of LGBTQ+ travel with Stefan Arestis from Nomadic Boys, who along with his partner Sebastien Chaneac, has turned their passion for travel into a powerful platform for advocacy and visibility. This episode covers everything from the safest places for gay travelers, navigating cultural challenges, to the power of supporting local LGBTQ+ communities in conservative countries.In-Depth Overview of Topics Discussed:The Journey of Nomadic Boys: Stefan shares the origin story of their blog and book, detailing how personal experiences shaped their journey into global gay travel experts.Travel Challenges and Triumphs: Insight into the unique challenges faced by LGBTQ+ travelers, including anecdotes from Stefan's experiences in less tolerant countries.Celebrating Safe Spaces: Stefan highlights some of the most welcoming LGBTQ+ destinations around the world and what makes them special.Advocacy Through Travel: Discussion on how traveling as an openly gay couple can serve as an act of visibility and advocacy, influencing perceptions and policies in various cultures.Supporting Local LGBTQ+ Communities: The importance of choosing where to spend money during travels to support and strengthen local LGBTQ+ businesses and communities.Safety and Authenticity in Travel: Stefan discusses how to balance authenticity with safety, sharing practical tips for navigating different cultural landscapes as a gay traveler. Connect with the Nomadic Boys on their website and Instagram.Buy 'Out in the World: The Gay Guide to Travelling with Pride' by Stefan Arestis and Sebastien Chaneac here.  ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

Get into the nuanced world of modern dating and relationships in this eye-opening episode of Modern Gays. Daniel and Garet chat about the intricacies of flirting, the importance of setting healthy boundaries, and the crucial role of self-worth in forming meaningful connections. Whether discussing the controversial takes of RuPaul on monogamy or the timeless dilemma of revealing too much too soon, this episode is packed with candid insights and laughter. What You'll Learn:Flirting Techniques and Styles: Discover diverse flirting styles—from eye contact to playful touches—and how they can signify interest and build attraction.Setting Boundaries: Understand the significance of clear communication and consent in dating, highlighting how asking for permission can be both respectful and sexy.Embracing Self-Worth: Learn why knowing and valuing oneself is essential in navigating the dating world and how it can influence the types of relationships you attract.The Power of Mystery: Find out how holding back certain details can enhance intrigue and foster a gradual, more meaningful exploration of potential partners.Self-Cheating in Relationships: Reflect on how personal decisions and fear can lead to self-sabotage in relationships and personal growth. Episode Highlights:A discussion on the controversial views of RuPaul on monogamy and self-cheating.Insights into how various flirting styles can indicate different emotional needs and expressions.The balance between being too forward and too reserved and how to navigate this in social and romantic encounters. ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

How do vibrational frequencies influence our lives, relationships, and personal growth? We discuss everything from the scientific underpinnings of vibrations to personal anecdotes about outgrowing friends and aligning with energies that uplift and inspire. Join us as we explore how to tune into your own frequency and make meaningful connections that resonate with your true self.Key Topics:Vibrational Frequency Basics: Understanding the science behind how everything around us—including ourselves—vibrates at certain frequencies.Cultural Interpretations: A look at how different cultures understand and utilize energy, featuring concepts like Chi, Prana, and Chakras.Personal Vibration Management: Tips on how to manage your own vibrational state to attract the life you want, including how to handle low energy days and enhance your personal environment.Navigating Relationships: Strategies for recognizing when you've outgrown friendships and how to seek out new relationships that are in tune with your current vibrational state.Inspirational Insights: Inspirational thoughts from well-known figures like Oprah and RuPaul on maintaining high vibrational states. ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

NYU Tisch graduate Garet Wierdsma joins up this week on IDP.  Founder of Garet&Co, she speaks on the importance of making your own work, fostering a community both in and out of the studio, and how she built her dance company from the ground up. SOCIALS:Garet - @garetwierdsmaGaret&Co - @garet.coUs! - insidedancepodcastAlexandra - @alexyonkTaylor  - @tbradchoreoSupport the show

Garet McLendon shares his story of going from addiction and prison gangs to sobriety and recovery. Step into Summer fun activities with Vessi. Visit vessi.com/connect for an automatic 15% off your first purchase at checkout! Garet grew up in Palmdale CA. At a young age he was exposed to the drugs that were rampant in his community. He quickly found himself not only addicted to drugs, but selling them to support his habit. This life led him to spending time in and out of some of America's most dangerous prisons. While in prison he joined gangs and even became a shot caller. Garet is here to share his stories of not just surviving maximum security prison, but his path to sobriety and recovery and how he's helping others get off drugs and avoid the mistakes and lifestyle choices he made as a young man. Go Support Garet and contact him if you need help with addiction recovery! IG: https://www.instagram.com/garetmclendon/ Join The Patreon For Bonus Content! https://www.patreon.com/theconnectshow Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6mc4qAxpztC6D20wzeS91C Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices