Podcasts about gayborhood

Philly is seeing something of a boom in boutique hotels as we brace for what's expected to be a massive tourism year in 2026. After the city started regulating and placing restrictions on Airbnbs and other short-term rentals, a crop of new, small – and Instagramable – hotels have popped up around town. Five opened last year alone. To see what's going on with the boutique hotel scene, we visited the Gas Lamp Hotel in Old City and hung out with co-owners Scott Yesner and Wendell Holland. Other boutique hotels in the city include Yowie and Society Hill Hotel in Queen Village, The Dwight D Hotel and The Franklin in Rittenhouse, Hotel Anna & Bel in Fishtown, Riversuites on the Delaware River, Guild House Hotel in the Gayborhood, Morris House Hotel by Washington Square Park and Akwaaba Bed & Breakfast Inns in University City. Where should our visitors be staying? Call or text us: 215-259-8170 Get Philly news & events in your inbox with our newsletter: Hey Philly We're also on Instagram: @citycastphilly Learn more about the sponsors of this May 6th episode: Aura Frames - Get $35-off plus free shipping on the Carver Mat frame with Promo Code CITYCAST Fitler Club Art Star Cozy Earth - Use code COZYPHILLY for 40% off best-selling sheets, towels, pajamas, and more. Advertise on the podcast or in the newsletter: citycast.fm/advertise Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Isaac and Tyler explore discuss the history and significance of LGBTQ+ neighborhoods. From the origins in post-WWII America to vibrant communities like Seattle's Capitol Hill and budding areas like White Center, they delve into why these spaces are crucial for cultural expression and community support. They also discuss their own experiences navigating these neighborhoods, share a funny holiday party mishap, and catch up with Ariel.Join us on all major socials @nogaysinmontana for exclusive content!

 In this episode of Queerly Beloved, I'm joined by the multi-faceted Shelby Clark, a visionary entrepreneur, investor, embodiment facilitator, and founder of The Jungle Gayborhood, an LGBTQ+ focused retreat located center in the beautiful jungles of Costa Rica. You may remember me talking about the Gayborhood in my episode Healing the Father wound where I share about my magical time there attending a conscious kink retreat. Now you get to hear about it from the founder and director himself. In this interview we get to hear the story of how Shelby went from being a tech entrepreneur and founder of the groundbreaking billion-dollar car-sharing company Turo, to founding a queer retreat center in the jungle. And all the twists and turns on the way. Shelby vulnerably shares how, as a queer kid, he struggled to fully accept himself and found refuge in overachievement. Together, we unpack this familiar queer narrative of overcompensating to mask internalized shame, and explore how so many queer people, link their identity to achievement and people-pleasing, often at the cost of their own authentic selves.We then learn about all the influences for the Gayborhood including Esalen, Burning Man and radical fairy sanctuaries and then We explore why dedicated queer spaces like The Jungle Gayborhood offer uniquely medicine and create environments where radical authenticity can flourish free from societal expectations or limitations.Together, we unpack the transformative potential of psychedelics for queer healing, and I share some personal stories about my journey with that then Shelby shares insights from groundbreaking research recently facilitated at the Gayborhood. Enjoy this convo covering hese topics and many more!Check out the Jungle Gayborhood here-https://junglegayborhood.com/Use code: 'awakenedhearts100' for listeners $100 off any retreat.

We meet artist Michelle Angela Ortiz. Michelle's mural in honor of LGBTQ+ and worker's rights icon Gloria Casarez in Philadelphia's Gayborhood was destroyed by developers. We hear the story of Michelle's efforts to create a new memorial to Casarez and we tour South Philly's 9th Street Market in September of 2024 to learn about her “Our Market” project.

Sustainability is not always easy to commit to when you're running a restaurant, but Wyatt Piazza and his team at Kiddo are making it a priority. He tells Eli and Marisa about the restaurant's efforts to create an adaptable, seasonal menu that sources local ingredients, from regional produce to guinea fowl from a nearby farm. The result is a menu is full of colorful dishes that inspire childlike wonder.  (00:00) More and more late night happy hours are popping up, and Marisa's into it (05:06) Wyatt Piazza hit the one-year milestone with Kiddo, which has been a wild adventure, both challenging and rewarding. Located in Philly's Gayborhood at 12th and Pine, they're already racking up accolades for their vegetable-forward dishes (the menu is 85% veggies!) (09:05) Wyatt's wife, Elizabeth, plays a major role in the restaurant's operations, drawing on her background in sustainability. In addition to serving great food, Kiddo takes the time and care to manage waste and reduce gas use (17:09) The restaurant's name, Kiddo, was inspired by wholesome moment in a garden that Wyatt managed California (23:25) Whatcha Been Eatin': Marisa shouts out the catering team at Freedom Mortgage Pavilion in Camden, Wyatt's experience at Pietramala, Eli returns to Kalaya for new menu items and shouts out a New York slice shop (37:22) Marisa's mishap at MMRBQ - she almost didn't make it out of the festival! (43:33) Food News: chef moves, a crab fry lawsuit, night markets and disco omakase And of course, we could not do this without our amazing partners who are as passionate about food and drink as we are: For the most tasty, healthy, and satisfying salads and noodle dishes in Philly, click here to order Honeygrow If your restaurant or company wants to be in the headlines for all the right reasons, click here to discover how Peter Breslow Consulting and PR can take your business to the next level Social media and digital content are two of the most important things you can create for your brand. Check out Breakdown Media, a one stop shop for all of your marketing needs.   Connect with us on Instagram and, of course, share your eating adventures with us, as well as tag us in your posts so we can talk about them on air!

In this episode, we are discussing Theodore Greene's latest book, Not in my Gayborhood! Gay neighborhoods and the rise of the vicarious citizen, published by Columbia University Press in July 2024. This book is a lively and generous study of gay neighborhoods in Washington DC, highlighting the evolving dynamics of LGBTQ spaces in urban settings.

Summer is for tomatoes, picnics, and happy hours. This episode is full of insider tips on new spots and classic faves, and we're giving you all the delicious details. Plus: Wit Wez returns with a gripe from Dave- let us know on Instagram if you agree… Now let's dive in! (00:00) Marisa's on vaca this time, but she'll be back next week! In the meantime we've got Sara in studio (03:30) Whatcha Been Eatin': Dave's got a new spot for crunchy, crispy Korean wings (06:20) Dave tried a new buffet in South Philly, and we get into pro tips for getting the most out of your buffet experience (12:20) Eli talks pies, Thai, and a prime pizza spot in Center City (19:36) How to tell the difference between real and ripoff KEWPIE mayo (20:19) Sara shouts out a Gayborhood happy hour, and we celebrate the dawn of pumpkin season (26:46) Wit Wez: why restaurants need to retire the QR code menu in favor of printed menus (35:52) Restaurant News: Philadelphia chefs helping the community, Fork's new menu, a pizza and cheesesteak spot that's baking their own rolls, and more that's happening in the Philly food scene And of course, we could not do this without our amazing partners who are as passionate about food and drink as we are: For the most tasty, healthy, and satisfying salads and noodle dishes in Philly, click here to order Honeygrow If your restaurant or company wants to be in the headlines for all the right reasons, click here to discover how Peter Breslow Consulting and PR can take your business to the next level Social media and digital content are two of the most important things you can create for your brand. Check out Breakdown Media, a one stop shop for all of your marketing needs. Connect with us on Instagram and, of course, share your eating adventures with us, as well as tagging us in your posts so we can talk about them on air!

In today's challenging real estate market, aspiring home buyers grapple with rising prices, limited inventory, and intense competition, making the pursuit of homeownership more difficult than ever. To add a layer of complexity, gay home buyers may encounter challenges such as discrimination, limited representation, and concerns about acceptance in certain neighborhoods, highlighting the ongoing need for a more inclusive and affirming real estate environment.In this episode, Ryan Windt, a Philadelphia-based real estate agent, joins us to share key factors that LGBTQ+ people should be mindful of when house hunting, along with homebuying tips and myths.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 24. Gay Villages: Won't You Be My Gaybor? Listen to Episode 106. Long Live Queer Nightlife (with Amin Ghaziani) Additional Resources:Send Ryan Your Real Estate InquiriesFollow Ryan on InstagramWhy You Should Let a Gay Realtor Help You Find Your Next Home!Why Gayborhoods Matter: The Street Empirics of Urban SexualitiesOnce a Crucial Refuge, ‘Gayborhoods' Lose L.G.B.T.Q. Residents in Major CitiesSupport the Show.Get Your Merch

SummaryNancy Schneider, a Philadelphia retiree shares her experience of retiring in the city. Philadelphia is located on the East Coast of Pennsylvania, with easy access to New York City, Washington DC, and the Jersey coast. The city has a temperate climate and offers a variety of quick getaways, including New York, the Jersey Shore, and nearby gay towns like New Hope and Rehoboth. Philadelphia has a vibrant LGBTQ neighborhood known as the Gayborhood, but being gay is accepted throughout the city. The city has a rich arts and culture scene, with attractions like the Kimmel Center, Walnut Street Theater, Museum of Art, Barnes Museum, and more. The cost of living in Philadelphia varies depending on the neighborhood, but there are affordable options available. The city is walkable and offers convenient public transportation options. Philadelphia's food scene is exceptional and offers a wide variety of cuisines, including Italian, Vietnamese, Chinese, African, and more. The city is known for its sports culture, with basketball, football, and baseball being popular. Crime is a factor to consider, but the new mayor is taking action to address it. Philadelphia has excellent healthcare options, with renowned hospitals and a high number of doctors. The city has an urban lifestyle with walkability and access to arts, culture, and entertainment. Philadelphia offers easy access to travel, including an international airport. Pennsylvania offers tax benefits for retirees, including tax exemptions for retirement income, 401K withdrawals, IRAs, pensions, and social security. The state has the lowest flat tax rate in the country and provides property tax and rent rebate programs. The cost of living in Pennsylvania is slightly below the national average, and the average sales tax rate is 6.17%. Transportation savings include discounts on auto insurance for drivers aged 55+, free bus, subway, and trolley rides for seniors over 65, $1 regional rail rides during off-peak hours, and discounted bridge tolls for drivers aged 65+ with a New Jersey EZPass.Overall, Philadelphia is considered a hidden gem in the Northeast. Check out this link and video about LGBTQ+ healthcare at Cooper at Cooper University HealthCare in South New Jersey. (3.7 miles and 14 minutes from Philadelphia) https://www.cooperhealth.org/services/cooper-proud-lgbtq-health?utm_source=pgn&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=PGN

SummaryNancy Schneider, a Philadelphia retiree shares her experience of retiring in the city. Philadelphia is located on the East Coast of Pennsylvania, with easy access to New York City, Washington DC, and the Jersey coast. The city has a temperate climate and offers a variety of quick getaways, including New York, the Jersey Shore, and nearby gay towns like New Hope and Rehoboth. Philadelphia has a vibrant LGBTQ neighborhood known as the Gayborhood, but being gay is accepted throughout the city. The city has a rich arts and culture scene, with attractions like the Kimmel Center, Walnut Street Theater, Museum of Art, Barnes Museum, and more. The cost of living in Philadelphia varies depending on the neighborhood, but there are affordable options available. The city is walkable and offers convenient public transportation options. Philadelphia's food scene is exceptional and offers a wide variety of cuisines, including Italian, Vietnamese, Chinese, African, and more. The city is known for its sports culture, with basketball, football, and baseball being popular. Crime is a factor to consider, but the new mayor is taking action to address it. Philadelphia has excellent healthcare options, with renowned hospitals and a high number of doctors. The city has an urban lifestyle with walkability and access to arts, culture, and entertainment. Philadelphia offers easy access to travel, including an international airport. Pennsylvania offers tax benefits for retirees, including tax exemptions for retirement income, 401K withdrawals, IRAs, pensions, and social security. The state has the lowest flat tax rate in the country and provides property tax and rent rebate programs. The cost of living in Pennsylvania is slightly below the national average, and the average sales tax rate is 6.17%. Transportation savings include discounts on auto insurance for drivers aged 55+, free bus, subway, and trolley rides for seniors over 65, $1 regional rail rides during off-peak hours, and discounted bridge tolls for drivers aged 65+ with a New Jersey EZPass.Overall, Philadelphia is considered a hidden gem in the Northeast. Check out this link and video about LGBTQ+ healthcare at Cooper at Cooper University HealthCare in South New Jersey. (3.7 miles and 14 minutes from Philadelphia) https://www.cooperhealth.org/services/cooper-proud-lgbtq-health?utm_source=pgn&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=PGN

Here are this week's good vibes:Happier Employees = Lower Turnover at IKEAThailand Approves Marriage EqualityRecord Employment for People With DisabilitiesDoris Burke Calls NBA FinalsMiss Maryland USA Breaks BarriersCall to Action:Too hot out there? Stay cool inside and check out these movies by and about trans people to watch this Pride monthRead the stories:  https://www.theequalityinstitute.com/equality-insights-blog/5-things-gayborhoodConnect with Kit Lim (she/her), DEI leader and coach. Join thousands of readers by subscribing to the 5 Things newsletter. Enjoy some good vibes in DEI every Saturday morning. https://5thingsdei.com/

We're back with another midweek news roundup! Host Trenae Nuri is joined by Abby Fritz, City Cast Philly producer, and Asha Prihar, Hey Philly newsletter editor, for an epic news quiz that covers the latest in politics, transportation, and local business news. Our news roundups are powered by great local journalism (spoilers ahead, if you're following along with the news quiz):  SEPTA's overhauled bus routes approved after 2 years of public hearings and revisions Wissahickon Valley Park restoration project to limit access to Forbidden Drive for six months City Council may subpoena Mayor Parker over Fairmount addiction center President Biden will launch a coalition to shore up support with Black voters on Wednesday Cooperative Grocery Launches Germantown Store D.C.'s Little Gay Pub becomes a little bigger with a new location in Philly Click here for an interactive map of road closures and detours at Wissahickon Valley Park. We're doing our annual survey to learn more about our listeners. We'd be grateful if you took the survey at citycast.fm/survey—it's only 7 minutes long. You'll be doing us a big favor. Plus, anyone who takes the survey will be eligible to win a $250 Visa gift card–and City Cast Philly swag. Want some more Philly news? Then make sure to sign up for our morning newsletter Hey Philly. We're also on Twitter and Instagram! Follow us @citycastphilly. Have a question or just want to share some thoughts with the team? Leave us a voicemail at 215-259-8170.  Interested in advertising with City Cast? Find more info here.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Daniel and Garet are joined by psychotherapist Brian Spitulnik to explore the complex interplay between identity, sex, and the influence of porn in the LGBTQ community. Brian, known for his authentic and relatable advice on Instagram and TikTok, shares his expertise on how being gay can shape personal choices and relationships. Together, they dive into the core issues of shame, the importance of chosen families, and the challenges of forming authentic connections in a digital age. Key Topics Discussed:Common Challenges Faced by Gay Men: The pervasive sense of shame and its specific manifestations. How shame influences behaviors like addiction, body dysmorphia, and relationship dynamics.The Role of Chosen Families: Importance of finding true and honest relationships within the LGBTQ community. Brian's perspective on the adolescent phase gay men go through upon coming out.Navigating Romantic and Platonic Relationships: The complexities of building intimate and platonic relationships in the gay community. Balancing personal identity with societal and community expectations.Impact of Porn on Real-Life Intimacy: Discussion on how porn consumption affects emotional engagement in real-life relationships. Strategies to find a healthy balance between porn and personal connections.Listener Questions (Only Whispers Segment): Addressing Rex from Sydney's concern about balancing porn with real-life intimacy. Advice for Thomas from Boston on finding dates outside of dating apps.Practical Tips for Building Authentic Connections: Checking the facts to avoid miscommunication. Reflective listening to ensure understanding and clarity. Evaluating personal feelings towards others to foster genuine connections. Notable Quotes:"True love is holding another's spiritual evolution as equal to your own." – bell hooks"Everything changes. Nothing remains the same. To think that you're always going to want the same thing is not being in reality." – Brian Spitulnik About Brian:Brian Spitulnik, LMSW, is a psychotherapist in private practice and co-founder of Artists Reimagining Therapy & Systems (A.R.T.S.), a fully-funded program offering free group and individual therapy to artists and arts workers. Brian is committed to working with his clients to come fully into relationship with their environment and themselves while providing practical tools for behavioral change and emotional growth. Ongoing professional development and advanced training experiences are a critical component of Brian's practice, ensuring a transformative impact on the individuals and communities he serves. Brian has earned degrees from The University of Michigan, Columbia University, and The Silberman School of Social Work at Hunter College. Before becoming a mental health practitioner, Brian performed on Broadway for over 15 years, wrote for Global Citizen, The Daily Beast, McSweeney's, and Dance Magazine, and co-founded 85th Street Productions. Brian's Links:https://www.instagram.com/spitulnik/https://www.tiktok.com/@spitulnikhttps://www.brianspitulnik.com ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

In this lively and intimate episode of "Modern Gays," hosts Daniel and Garet delve into the complexities of dating across significant age differences within the LGBTQIA+ community. They discuss everything from the cultural concepts of "daddies" to the emotional and social dynamics that come with large age gaps in relationships.Episode Highlights:Topic of age differences in relationships, setting the stage for a discussion filled with personal insights and broader cultural reflections.Play "Top, Bottom, Flip," selecting celebrities to humorously discuss their preferences in a playful reimagination of the classic game.Daniel and Garet share their personal experiences with age gaps, both in their own relationship and with previous partners, revealing insights about perceptions and realities of dating across age lines.Defining a "daddy" in the community, focusing on attributes like maturity, mentorship, and emotional intelligence beyond mere physical age.Advantages and challenges they've faced due to their age gap, from emotional growth and mentorship to concerns about health and energy levels.Discussion on the social stigma sometimes associated with age differences and share how they've navigated these challenges within their relationship and in public perception. ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

Explore the nuances of LGBTQ+ travel with Stefan Arestis from Nomadic Boys, who along with his partner Sebastien Chaneac, has turned their passion for travel into a powerful platform for advocacy and visibility. This episode covers everything from the safest places for gay travelers, navigating cultural challenges, to the power of supporting local LGBTQ+ communities in conservative countries.In-Depth Overview of Topics Discussed:The Journey of Nomadic Boys: Stefan shares the origin story of their blog and book, detailing how personal experiences shaped their journey into global gay travel experts.Travel Challenges and Triumphs: Insight into the unique challenges faced by LGBTQ+ travelers, including anecdotes from Stefan's experiences in less tolerant countries.Celebrating Safe Spaces: Stefan highlights some of the most welcoming LGBTQ+ destinations around the world and what makes them special.Advocacy Through Travel: Discussion on how traveling as an openly gay couple can serve as an act of visibility and advocacy, influencing perceptions and policies in various cultures.Supporting Local LGBTQ+ Communities: The importance of choosing where to spend money during travels to support and strengthen local LGBTQ+ businesses and communities.Safety and Authenticity in Travel: Stefan discusses how to balance authenticity with safety, sharing practical tips for navigating different cultural landscapes as a gay traveler. Connect with the Nomadic Boys on their website and Instagram.Buy 'Out in the World: The Gay Guide to Travelling with Pride' by Stefan Arestis and Sebastien Chaneac here.  ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

Get into the nuanced world of modern dating and relationships in this eye-opening episode of Modern Gays. Daniel and Garet chat about the intricacies of flirting, the importance of setting healthy boundaries, and the crucial role of self-worth in forming meaningful connections. Whether discussing the controversial takes of RuPaul on monogamy or the timeless dilemma of revealing too much too soon, this episode is packed with candid insights and laughter. What You'll Learn:Flirting Techniques and Styles: Discover diverse flirting styles—from eye contact to playful touches—and how they can signify interest and build attraction.Setting Boundaries: Understand the significance of clear communication and consent in dating, highlighting how asking for permission can be both respectful and sexy.Embracing Self-Worth: Learn why knowing and valuing oneself is essential in navigating the dating world and how it can influence the types of relationships you attract.The Power of Mystery: Find out how holding back certain details can enhance intrigue and foster a gradual, more meaningful exploration of potential partners.Self-Cheating in Relationships: Reflect on how personal decisions and fear can lead to self-sabotage in relationships and personal growth. Episode Highlights:A discussion on the controversial views of RuPaul on monogamy and self-cheating.Insights into how various flirting styles can indicate different emotional needs and expressions.The balance between being too forward and too reserved and how to navigate this in social and romantic encounters. ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

Heads up, Delicious City fam: due to some technical difficulties, this episode may sound a bit different. We'll be back to normal next time, and no, we do not have drunken lisps in real life. Head to our Instagram @deliciouscitypodcast for videos from the studio (that all sound normal!). Speaking of Instagram, one of Philadelphia's original foodie influencers @josheatsphilly is here to talk about social media, brunch spots you can actually score a reso at, and Cinco de Mayo plans.  00:00 Marisa had to bail at the last minute, so producer Sara is joining in on the conversation 03:38 We discuss our favorite cheeses 06:05 Josh Eats Philly tells us his origins story, and he and Dave bond over the Pine Barrens and the Jersey Devil 12:03 When Josh got involved in the food scene in our city, and how “Instagram influencer culture” has evolved since then 17:40 Dave and Josh reveal the unspoken “rules” of foodie influencers, and discuss the importance of putting your mental health above algorithm attachment  31:40 Dave's Best Bite involves an oyster farm tour of Sweet Amalia in New Jersey for Earth Day 36:38 Eli had a phenomenal eating week, and he describes an outstanding dinner with his son at River Twice, his love for creamy rice, and the sushi omakase experience that's flying under the radar right now (his advice: go there now before the price skyrockets!) 45:00 Josh's Best Bite was at Sofi Corner Cafe in the Gayborhood - they just started doing dinner service there  47:20 Cinco de Mayo is coming up! Eli, Dave and Josh try to pick from a TON of events that are happening around Philly on May 5th. Josh brought us tacos from Si Taqueria on Federal Street, and Dave names his favorite tacos South Jersey. Plus: we find out what a “drunken piñata” is  54:07 The gang runs down their plans for Mother's Day, including where you might still be able to score a reservation for brunch, where the best breakfast buffet is at, and Josh's pick for a sweet treat for Mom 59:34 In It to Win It: This week, Delicious City is giving you a chance to win a $100 gift card to Rosey's Banh Mi in Ambler. Listen for the secret word from Dave, and DM us at @deliciouscitypodcast to enter!  01:06:04 Eli dishes out food news and upcoming events, and Sara handles the Pop-Up Run-Down And of course, we could not do this without our amazing partners who are as passionate about food and drink as we are: For the most tasty, healthy, and satisfying salads and noodle dishes in Philly, click here to order Honeygrow We are so excited for our newest partner, Dewey Beer. Check them out to see all the incredible flavors that they are brewing right here in the mid-Atlantic region! If your restaurant or company wants to be in the headlines for all the right reasons, click here to discover how Peter Breslow Consulting and PR can take your business to the next level Balancing a busy life and eating healthy is a challenge for anyone. Make your life easier and more delicious with Performance Meal Prep Social media and digital content are two of the most important things you can create for your brand. Check out Breakdown Media, a one stop shop for all of your marketing needs.

This episode of #LocationWeekly features Walmart offering Luminate platform linking media networks with ad performance, HERE location APIs now available on AWS marketplace, Grindr app updates with “Gayborhood” to connect local businesses & Glass Media launches “KrowdSense” a wireless occupancy scanner. Make sure to tune in!

How do vibrational frequencies influence our lives, relationships, and personal growth? We discuss everything from the scientific underpinnings of vibrations to personal anecdotes about outgrowing friends and aligning with energies that uplift and inspire. Join us as we explore how to tune into your own frequency and make meaningful connections that resonate with your true self.Key Topics:Vibrational Frequency Basics: Understanding the science behind how everything around us—including ourselves—vibrates at certain frequencies.Cultural Interpretations: A look at how different cultures understand and utilize energy, featuring concepts like Chi, Prana, and Chakras.Personal Vibration Management: Tips on how to manage your own vibrational state to attract the life you want, including how to handle low energy days and enhance your personal environment.Navigating Relationships: Strategies for recognizing when you've outgrown friendships and how to seek out new relationships that are in tune with your current vibrational state.Inspirational Insights: Inspirational thoughts from well-known figures like Oprah and RuPaul on maintaining high vibrational states. ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

Unpack how the evolving role of artificial intelligence in shaping our social interactions and personal perceptions. From AI enhancements on dating platforms like Grindr to the cultural implications of AI-generated images, this episode explores how new technologies are redefining norms within the queer community. The discussion also touches on the implications for privacy, the potential for perpetuating stereotypes, and the exciting yet sometimes intimidating prospects that AI technologies might hold for our future. Key Moments/Highlights:[01:00] Discussing the challenges and pressures of gym culture within the gay community.[06:00] Grindr's introduction of AI to facilitate communication, and the broader implications for social interaction.[14:30] Debating the potential benefits and drawbacks of AI in everyday life, from work to personal tasks.[22:00] The influence of AI-generated images on societal norms and personal expectations.[26:00] Reflecting on the rapid pace of technological change and its impact on our lives and culture. Related Links:Grindr's Official Blog - Details on their latest features and AI integration. ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

The art of fostering deeper connections in queer relationships is asking better questions. From first-date stories to a candid discussion on love languages and the dynamics of friendships with exes, this episode dives into how to cultivate intimacy, understand one another on a profound level, and navigate the complexities of  love and relationships.Highlights:First-Date Insights: Enjoy relatable anecdotes and laughter as the hosts recount their own first date, offering listeners a glimpse into their personal lives and the foundation of their connection.Queer Dating Dynamics: Discover how astrological signs might influence dating preferences and relationship dynamics in the queer community.Innovative Love Languages: Be inspired by Daniel and Garrett's discussion on creating new, bespoke love languages that reflect the unique needs and desires of queer relationships.The Ex-Factor: Navigate the complex emotions and logistics of remaining friends with exes, including shared pet custody and intertwined social circles.Life Skills Through Queer Lenses: From moving houses to managing day-to-day challenges, the hosts share their perspectives on practical life skills with a queer twist.Vulnerability & Trust: Engage with discussions on vulnerability, trust, and the significance of sharing personal moments and memories as a means to foster genuine connections. ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

In this special one-year anniversary episode of Modern Gays, Daniel and Garet return to the heart of the podcast—discussing the intricacies of love and relationships. They dive into the evolving dating landscape of 2024, decoding the fresh lingo and trends that define modern love. From "Canon-Bailing" to "VBD" (Vision Board Dating), they break down the terms you need to know. Plus, a detour into their recent escapades, including their thoughts on Beyoncé's latest album and the virtues of a relaxing getaway. Join them as they explore what these developments mean for seeking connection and understanding in today's fast-paced world. Show Notes:Welcome and Anniversary Celebrations: Daniel and Garet kick off the episode celebrating the first anniversary of Modern Gaze, expressing gratitude to their listeners and setting the stage for today's focus on love and relationships.Musical Digressions: A quick dive into their current musical obsessions, with a particular nod to Beyoncé's "Cowboy Carter." The duo shares how music has been a backdrop to their recent life events, including a memorable road trip.The Essence of Love and Relationships: Reflecting on how the essence of Modern Gays is to explore the dynamics of love and relationships, they highlight how new dating terminologies and trends are reshaping the way we connect.Decoding the Dating Lexicon:Canon-Bailing: Discussing the concept of leaving a relationship to focus on personal growth and how it's becoming a common trend.VBD (Vision Board Dating): Exploring the strategy of positioning oneself in a future location through dating apps to manifest relocation or new beginnings.Thera-Posing: Cautioning against the misuse of therapeutic terms in dating contexts.Premature Intimacy: The pitfalls of oversharing or rushing emotional/physical intimacy in new relationships.Personal Reflections: Sharing personal experiences and opinions on these trends, Daniel and Garrett navigate the complex landscape of modern dating, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and honest communication.Looking Ahead: Speculations on the future of dating, including the potential impact of AI and the importance of loyalty, respect, open-mindedness, and self-care in future relationships. ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

From awkward encounters with exes and former friends to fleeting connections on social media, they explore the emotional landscape of recognizing and interacting with people from our past. Through personal anecdotes and reflective insights, Daniel and Garet discuss the importance of treating these encounters with respect, understanding, and perhaps a simple head nod. Join them as they unpack the nuances of LGBTQIA+ relationships and the journey towards inclusivity, respect, and a united community. In This Episode, You'll Learn About:The various types of past connections and how they impact usStrategies for acknowledging or not acknowledging someone from our pastThe importance of maintaining dignity and respect in post-connection encountersBalancing the energy we receive from and give to our interactionsFostering a supportive and inclusive LGBTQIA+ community through our actions Key Quotes:"Everything doesn't have to be a distant memory. We can honor what it was and not be bitter towards it.""We're all human, we all want love, validation, and connection." Resources Mentioned:Ariana Grande's album "Eternal Sunshine" for the emotional backdrop of today's topic"Radical Optimism" episode for further insights into maintaining a positive outlook Call to Action:Have you ever had an awkward encounter with someone from your past? How did you handle it, and what did you learn? Share your stories with us on Instagram or send us an email. Your experience might just help someone else navigate their journey with grace and confidence. ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

Hosts Daniel and Garet kick off the episode by diving into the concept of Radical Optimism, inspired by Dua Lipa's new album of the same name. They explore what it means to maintain a hopeful and positive outlook as a queer individual in today's world. The conversation covers the importance of happiness, storytelling, and the narratives that shape our experiences within the LGBTQ+ community. Key Topics:1. The Power of Radical Optimism:Discussion on how radical optimism can empower the LGBTQ+ community to navigate challenges with grace and positivity. Highlighting the history and impact of the Gay Liberation Front post-Stonewall Riots as an example of radical optimism in action. 2. Radical Optimism vs. Realism:A deep dive into the philosophy behind radical optimism and how it differs from mere positivity or toxic positivity.The hosts reflect on their personal journeys towards embracing a radically optimistic outlook in the face of societal challenges and personal struggles. 3. Strategies for Embracing Radical Optimism:Acknowledging current realities without dwelling on negativity.Cultivating gratitude and focusing on joyous aspects of life.Seeking out positive narratives and surrounding oneself with stories of success, resilience, and joy.The importance of self-care, mental and emotional growth, and personal development.Visualizing a positive future and the role of techniques like quantum leaping in achieving a hopeful outlook. Interactive Quiz: Are You a Radical Optimist or a Realist?A fun and engaging quiz where Daniel and Garet explore whether they lean more towards radical optimism or realism, inviting listeners to participate and share their results. ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

Let's get into the heart of authentic queer storytelling with our special guest, Jason Caceres. Known for his breakout role in the series "Open To It," Jason shares his journey as an out and proud actor, his experiences on set, and the importance of nuanced queer representation in media. In This Episode:Jason's Path to "Open To It": Discover how Jason's varied career and his commitment to authentic queer representation led him to star in "Open To It," a series that explores modern queer relationships and the complexities of love and sexual exploration.Behind the Scenes with Jason: Get a glimpse into the fun, challenges, and the unexpected turns of filming "Open To It," including working with superstar drag queens like Manila Luzon and Laganja Estranja.Throuple Dynamics Explored: Jason dives into the dynamics of throuples, as portrayed in "Open To It," and shares personal insights on communication, vulnerability, and the evolving landscape of queer relationships.Authenticity on Screen and Beyond: Learn about the importance of portraying real, relatable queer experiences on screen and how Jason navigates his personal and professional life with authenticity.Future Projects and Dreams: Jason talks about his future aspirations, upcoming projects, and his hope to continue pushing boundaries and celebrating queer stories. Watch "Open To It": Streaming now on OutTV, "Open To It" is a must-watch for anyone looking for a light-hearted yet profound exploration of queer relationships and identity. More about Jason Caceres:Jason Caceres is a Cuban American actor/model originally from Miami, Florida. Most recent credits include Criminal Minds, Insatiable, Kidding, Pam & Tommy, Days of Our Lives and Jimmy Kimmel Live! Jason will play Chayce in new series “Boy Culture: Generation X,” a reboot of the original film by the same name.Jason has made a name for himself in the indie LGBTQ+ film scene starring in films like “All American Boys” opposite Wilson Cruz, “Demonhuntr” on Amazon featuring Darryl Stephens, “Tina Town,” as well as “Open To It” costarring Laganja Estranja, Manila Luzon, Pandora Boxx, and Honey Davenport. He enjoys being incredibly active occupying his free time with physical activities like hiking, swimming and has taken up a passion for recreational pole dancing!”Theatrical Reel / Comedy Reel / Commercial Reel / Modeling Portfolio ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

Join us as we unravel the mysteries of Peter Pan Syndrome—a journey that many gay men find themselves navigating, caught between the allure of eternal youth and the inevitable call to grow up. But what if growing up didn't mean letting go of the wonder?Episode Highlights:Hosts Daniel and Garet open up about personal encounters with adulthood and the allure of eternal youth, setting the stage for a deeper dive into overcoming Peter Pan Syndrome.Special guest, Angel Serrata, founder of Uplift Fitness, shares his inspiring journey from battling personal demons and societal expectations to empowering others within the gay community through fitness and mental resilience.The trio discusses the nuances of Peter Pan Syndrome, including delayed adolescence, the craving for acceptance, and the cyclical patterns of seeking validation through less constructive means.Angel provides actionable insights on breaking free from negative patterns, valuing oneself, and the critical role of physical and mental fitness in forging a fulfilling life.The conversation highlights the importance of love, community, and vision in crafting a vibrant life that honors one's authentic self.Key Takeaways:Overcoming Peter Pan Syndrome involves recognizing its roots in delayed adolescence and societal pressures, with a strong emphasis on personal growth and self-love.Fitness and mental health are pivotal in breaking the cycle of seeking temporary validation and embracing a journey towards self-improvement.Building a supportive community and finding validation in healthy, empowering activities are essential steps towards achieving a sense of belonging and purpose.Connect with Angel Serrata of Uplift Fitness:InstagramTikTokYoutube ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

Daniel and Garet dive into the essence of living authentically in a world where the concept of authenticity is often overused yet misunderstood. They explore what it means to be fluent in your true self, share personal anecdotes about their journeys, and discuss how everyone's authenticity is uniquely defined. Join us as we unpack the layers of being authentically you, with insights from our lives and listeners' questions that touch on everything from communication styles to dealing with daily challenges in staying true to oneself. Topics Discussed:Introduction: Daniel and Garet kick off the episode with a lively discussion on what fluency in authenticity means to them, sharing personal insights and setting the stage for a deep dive into authenticity.What Are You Fluent In? A light-hearted conversation about the different languages of authenticity, from dance to reading a room, and an invitation for listeners to reflect on their own fluencies.Living Authentically in Today's World: The hosts discuss the evolution of authenticity from historical roles to modern individuality, referencing philosophical views and how these apply within the LGBTQIA+ community.The Authentic Personality: An exploration of what defines an authentic person today, emphasizing self-awareness, unbiased self-reflection, and living in alignment with one's true self.Challenges to Authenticity: Daniel and Garet touch on personal and societal barriers to living authentically, including fear of judgment and the importance of finding safe spaces.Authenticity as a Feeling of Fluency: A shift from traditional views of authenticity towards experiencing authenticity as a feeling that aligns with one's true self.Maintaining Authenticity: Tips on staying authentic in various aspects of life, from relationships to personal challenges, and the balance between being true to oneself and adapting to the world around us.Six Ways to Live Your Authentic Life: Practical advice for embracing and expressing your authentic self, including embracing silence, being self-aware, seeking therapy, learning to be vulnerable, being intentional, and asking questions. ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

Let's talk about kinks. From discussing the historical perspective and societal shifts around kinks to diving deep into the non-sexual perks of being or dating a kinkster, this episode is all about demystifying and celebrating the kink community. Plus, the "Only Whispers" segment addresses real listener questions, providing thoughtful insights into navigating kinks in relationships.Highlights:Taylor Swift's Melbourne Takeover: A brief but lively discussion on the impact of Taylor Swift's concert in Melbourne and its connection to embracing one's true self.Kink 101: An exploration of what kinks are, their possible genetic links, and the shift from being considered a mental illness to a recognized aspect of human sexuality.Non-Sexual Perks of Dating a Kinkster: A rundown on why dating a kinkster can be an enriching experience beyond the bedroom, emphasizing openness, trust, and a zest for life.ONLY WHISPERS Listener Questions: Daniel and Garet tackle real listener queries, offering advice on vegan kink compromises, age honesty in dating, and interpreting signals from a gym crush.Navigating Kinks in Relationships: Insights into the importance of communication, setting boundaries, and being authentic with your partner about your desires.Featured Listener Questions:Vegan Dilemma: How to reconcile a partner's leather BDSM kink with a new vegan lifestyle.Age Authenticity in Dating: The importance of honesty about one's age on dating apps and combating ageism.Gym Crush Confusion: Deciphering mixed signals from a gym crush and the potential for heteroflexibility.Closing Thoughts:The episode wraps up with an empowering message on the importance of owning your authentic self and your kinks. Daniel and Garet encourage listeners to communicate openly about their desires, whether in a new encounter, a hookup, or a long-term relationship, highlighting that understanding and acceptance are key to fulfilling connections. ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

Do you wish the intoxicating world of the honeymoon phase in relationships would last longer? This episode explores the science behind why we feel so head over heels during those early days, whether this euphoric feeling lasts forever, and practical tips on keeping the love alive. Featuring personal anecdotes, a playful game of "For Love or Money," and insightful advice on maintaining communication, this episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to understand or extend their relationship's honeymoon phase. Key Takeaways:The honeymoon phase is a unique period of euphoria and intense attraction in a relationship.Communication and continuous effort are crucial in transitioning smoothly from the honeymoon phase to deeper stages of a relationship.Strategies like revisiting memorable locations, maintaining routines, and planning intimacy can help keep the spark alive.It's natural for the honeymoon phase to evolve into deeper, more meaningful stages of love and connection.Featured Game: For Love or MoneyA fun segment where we guess each other's choices in hypothetical scenarios, exploring the dynamic between love and financial decisions. ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

Black Rock City is a temporary metropolis of  80,000 people who inhabit 1,600 theme camps and support camps. That means nine out of 10 participants' plans are coordinated by the Placement team — a handful of dedicated staff who decide which camps go where, and why. This year-round process is an art and a science that takes many factors into consideration — from city dynamics, to campers' Radical Self-expressions.As Burning Man Project's Associate Director of City Planning, Bryant Tan manages the Placement team, and oversees the city's annual planning and placement process. Naturally, questions about Burning Man lead to more questions.How do we place like-minded folks together for harmony, not monotony?How are resources shared between camps in this new era?Can you tell me how to get to Center Camp Plaza?What rules cultivate a spirit of lawlessness?Is bigger actually better?Let's go behind the scenes, under the clipboard, and beyond the map, exploring opportunities and obligations to iterate in this experimental city. It's a unique test case for urban planners and any humans who live in semi-civilized situations.“We don't want this just to be an Instagrammable bucket list thing. It's an experiment in community. We want people to show up a certain way, and so I try to just have reasonable conversations with people to help them learn what Burning Man is, and learn how to distribute leadership and responsibility, how to empower people to be their most creative selves.”BurningMan.org: Placement Team: LevelBurningMan.org: Placement ProcessHUBS: Humans Uniting for Better SustainabilityPEERS: Placement's Exploration and Engagement Research Squad LIVE.BURNINGMAN.ORG

We have a heart-to-heart with Nigel Battle, a standout personality from OutTV's hit series 'For the Love of DILFs.' Nigel, known for his vibrant energy and openness, shares his journey of self-discovery, love, and the complexities of navigating identity within the LGBTQIA+ community. Our hosts, Daniel and Garet, engage Nigel in a candid discussion that covers everything from the nuances of gay dating to the challenges and triumphs of finding genuine connections, both on and off the reality show. We also delve into Nigel's multifaceted life as a content creator and medical professional, uncovering the layers that make up his charismatic persona. This episode not only offers an insider's look at 'For the Love of DILFs' Season 2 but also touches on broader themes of self-acceptance, the pursuit of love in the modern world, and the evolving landscape of queer representation in media. "For the Love of Dilfs" is pioneering LGBTQIA+ representation in reality dating shows, moving beyond tokenism to genuine, diverse stories. Join us for an enlightening and entertaining journey that celebrates the richness of the LGBTQIA+ experience through the eyes of one of its most engaging figures. Episode Highlights:Nigel's Transformation: From struggling with self-love to becoming a confident, multifaceted creator and artist.Love's Many Faces: The hosts and Nigel discuss the challenges and triumphs of being true to oneself in the quest for love.The Reality of Reality TV: Nigel opens up about his experience on "For the Love of Dilfs," balancing authenticity with entertainment and finding love amidst the cameras.The Himbos and Daddies Dynamics: A candid conversation about labels, representation, and breaking stereotypes in the LGBTQIA+ community.Listener Q&A: Nigel offers advice on communication challenges and setting relationship boundaries.  Deep Dives:Being Yourself in Love: Nigel shares his insight on the importance of authenticity in relationships and how the gay dating scene can sometimes challenge this.The Pursuit of Love on TV: Unveiling the real emotions, challenges, and excitement behind participating in a reality dating show.Cultural Shifts: Discussing the evolution of LGBTQIA+ representation in reality TV and the significance of shows like "For the Love of Dilfs."Only Whispers: We tackle tough questions from listeners, providing raw, unfiltered advice on navigating the complexities of modern relationships. Connect with Nigel:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@nigelbattlePodcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/nigel-battle Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nigelbattleofficial/Merch: https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheNigelBattleShop?ref=seller-platform-mcnavTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nigelbattleofficial ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

Explore the fascinating realm of pheromones as Daniel and Garet discuss how these chemical signals shape sexual attraction and personal preferences. They explore everything from the role of body odors in arousal to the significance of scent in determining compatibility. The conversation also touches on personal hygiene preferences, exploring the divide between attraction to natural scents and the appeal of cleanliness. Additionally, the hosts answer listener questions in their "Only Whispers" segment, addressing topics ranging from balancing casual sex with seeking serious relationships, to fun hypotheticals about relationship superpowers, and advice on booty care.Key Topics:Introduction to Pheromones and Attraction (00:00:00): An engaging start discussing the role of pheromones in attraction, setting the tone for a deep dive into this complex topic. Read the Ivanka Savic study here.Exploring Scent Preferences (00:05:45): Delving into the varying preferences for natural scents versus artificial fragrances and the science behind these attractions.'Only Whispers' Listener Segment (00:14:00): Addressing listener queries on navigating casual sex versus serious relationships, imaginative relationship superpowers, and body care advice.Fetishes and Sensory Attractions (00:18:30): A candid discussion on personal fetishes, including a focus on armpit attraction and the sensory experience of ASMR.Wrapping Up: The Diversity of Attraction (00:19:45): Concluding thoughts on the unique and diverse ways we experience attraction, emphasizing the complexity of human relationships and desires. ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

Let's get into the nuances of being "openly gay" and how language shapes LGBTQ+ identity. Host's Daniel and Garet dissect the term's implications, weigh its historical context, and its evolving significance in 2024. The episode also features the popular segment "Only Whispers," addressing listener queries on deepening first-date conversations, navigating dating apps, and a lively discussion on RuPaul's Drag Race Season 16 series. This episode not only questions the language we use in the LGBTQ+ community but also celebrates the progress and representation achieved so far. Key Discussions:The Openly Gay Debate: Delving into the cultural and linguistic implications of the term "openly gay," this discussion offers a fresh perspective on identity within the LGBTQ+ community.Media's Role in LGBTQ+ Language: An insightful examination of how media representation shapes public perception and the language surrounding LGBTQ+ identities.Navigating First Dates: Practical advice on weaving deeper, more authentic connections into first-date conversations, moving beyond the superficial to genuine engagement.The Digital Dating Dilemma: Exploring the complexities of forming real connections in the era of dating apps, highlighting the unique challenges faced by the LGBTQ+ community.RuPaul's Drag Race Season 16 Review: A fun and spirited discussion, rating the contestants of RuPaul's Drag Race Season 16, showcasing diverse talents and personalities.Global LGBTQ+ Perspectives: Comparing LGBTQ+ experiences across different cultures and countries, highlighting the varied challenges and triumphs globally. Chapters:[00:00]: Openly Gay Debate (00:00:00)[08:45]: Global Perspectives and Media Influence (00:08:45)[14:45]: Only Whispers: Listener Questions (00:14:45)[19:00]: RuPaul's Season 16 Series Rate A Queen (00:19:00)  ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

Explore the intricate dynamics of rumors and outside noise through the lens of 'Real Housewives of Salt Lake City' and Ariana Grande's latest hit "yes, and?". The episode dissects how public perception and unsolicited opinions can affect personal and professional lives, especially within the LGBTQ+ community. The discussion includes an in-depth analysis of 'Yes, And?', listener questions on relationship dynamics and financial management, and strategies for embracing authenticity and resilience. Key Topics:Reality TV and Public PerceptionEmpowerment and Self-Advocacy in MusicNavigating Personal RelationshipsFinancial Harmony in RelationshipsAuthenticity and Resilience in the LGBTQ+ Community Chapters:[00:00] Insightful breakdown of 'Real Housewives' finale and its implications[14:30] In-depth lyric analysis of Ariana Grande's 'Yes, And?' [21:00] Alex's question on first-date strategies[23:30] Sam's exploration of new bedroom dynamics [26:00] Amanda's challenge in merging finances with her partner ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

Writer and filmmaker Sara Mossman grew up in Baltimore in the midst of a family dynamic that consisted of "a lot of dysfunction, a lot of chaos, a lot of people in the mix" (Sara is one of SIX children!). All of this led to her becoming emancipated from her family just before she turned fourteen...riiiiiight on the heels of also figuring out that she was gay. Suffice to say that Sara did not have an easy adolescence, but the saving grace came when she was accepted into a predominantly-female, VERY queer arts school for her high school years! Sara shares how generational trauma has shaped her journey, but hasn't prevented her from having a great deal of empathy for her mother (whose own mother was a child bride from the Philippines). Also, the wild tale of how Sara was assisted in her hardest coming out by none other than Mister Rogers! Talk about "It's a beautiful day in the GAYborhood!!!" (Sorry; I had to.) Check out Sara's website (saramossman.com) and YouTube channel (youtube.com/c/underaneonsky), and follow her on Twitter at @SMossman. You can also purchase her novel, "The Tree of Life," at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BGX5HGPL, and check out her BFF's charity that she mentioned at unmatchedathlete.org!

Deep dive into the complexities and subtleties of interpersonal interactions. Hosts Daniel and Garet share their personal experiences and insights, tackling the challenges of miscommunication, the detrimental effects of playing the blame game, and the crucial balance of maintaining individuality while fostering a thriving sexual and emotional bond in a relationship. They discuss the impact of multilingual abilities on understanding, the role of family and childhood experiences in shaping communication styles, and provide practical strategies for breaking negative patterns. The episode also features a listener engagement segment, 'Only Whispers,' addressing real-life queries about relationship dynamics.This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to enhance their communication skills, deepen their relationships, and navigate the intricate dance of intimacy and individuality in the modern LGBTQIA+ context. Key Topics:The Art of Communication: Multilingual abilities and their role in understanding. The impact of tone, inflection, and empathy in communication.The Blame Game: Real-life scenarios illustrating the difference between blame and accountability. Insights from certified sex therapist Todd Barats on the power dynamics in blaming.Maintaining Individuality in Relationships: Balancing personal needs with those of your partner. The importance of not losing oneself in a relationship.Navigating Sexual Intimacy: Open discussions about sexual expectations. The concept of negotiating intimacy and physical affection.Family Influences and Childhood Experiences: How upbringing shapes communication and relationship patterns. Recognizing and breaking repetitive negative patterns.Listener Segment - Only Whispers: Addressing listener queries on diverse relationship issues. Chapters:[00:00] Communication in Relationships[05:00] Blame vs. Accountability inspired by Todd Barats' insights.[10:00] Maintaining Self in a Relationship[15:00] Sexual Intimacy and Negotiation[20:00] Only Whispers Listener Segment  ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

We explore the Ins and Outs of 2024, share our personal resolutions and introduce a new segment that we'll feature in every episode in Season 2 of Modern Gays for 2024. Our unique blend of humor, insight, and audience engagement makes this episode a must-listen for those interested in LGBTQ+ culture, lifestyle, and relationships. Daniel and Garet share their personal growth goals and resolutions, reflecting on the lessons from 2023 and setting an optimistic tone for the new year. The episode also dives into community trends for 2024, featuring insights from "Out Magazine." Don't miss our new weekly segment, "Only Whispers", which adds a dynamic and interactive element, addressing your burning questions on dating, relationships, and lifestyle choices! Key Moments:Introduction to the new season's energy and reflections on 2023Out Magazine's list of what's not to bring into 2024, including a humorous take on George Santos and Elon Musk's TwitterLGBTQ+ representation in media and the call for longer series durationsPersonal outtakes like brown rice, alcohol-centric gatherings, and late-night phone scrollingIntroduction of the "Only Whispers" segment, where we answer hot topics and provocative questions Chapters:[00:00]: 2023 Reflections[05:30]: New Year Resolutions and Personal 'Ins' for 2024[12:00]: Community Trends and 'Out Magazine's' List[20:00]: Only Whispers – Your Burning Questions Answered ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

We're Daniel and Garet, your hosts of Modern Gays. We lead conversations on LGBTQ+ culture, lifestyle, sex, and relationships. We're your knowledgeable gay besties, leading the way through our vibrant world together. From spotlighting influential figures in our community, engaging in expert interviews, to keeping you informed about the latest in media and advocacy – we approach each episode with charisma, uniqueness, nerve, and talent. We're here to explore, educate, and entertain. Whether untangling complex issues or spilling some juicy gossip, we go in deep. Our special segment, "Only Whispers,"  turns your questions into rich, engaging dialogues, making you a part of our show.We're not just hosts; we're advocates, storytellers, and allies in building the vibrant life you want by being your most authentic self.  Listen to new episodes of Modern Gays every Tuesday. Come along as we explore, celebrate, and empower not just our community but each and every one of you! ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

In this episode, we're diving into the vibrant and imaginative world of Gag City, inspired by Nicki Minaj's "Pink Friday 2" album. We discuss how Gag City has become a symbol of inclusivity and LGBTQ+ pride, igniting a resurgence on platforms like Twitter. We also tackle the shift in digital spaces, examining the decline of Gay Twitter and how Threads is emerging as a new haven for community building. This episode is a mix of pop culture deep dive, digital community analysis, and reflections on the future of online interaction. Whether you're a Barb, a tech enthusiast, or someone passionate about LGBTQ+ issues, this episode has something for everyone. Key Discussion Points:Nicki Minaj's Pink Friday 2 album and the creation of Gag City.The rise and fall of gay Twitter and its cultural impact.The emergence of Threads as a new platform for the LGBTQ+ community.The significance of language and AI in shaping digital communities.Personal reflections on social media and the importance of safe spaces online. Timestamped Highlights:[00:00:30] Introduction to Gag City and its significance.[00:10:00] The impact of Nicki Minaj's album cover on gay Twitter.[00:14:30] The decline of gay Twitter with the rise of X (formerly Twitter).[00:21:30] Exploring Threads as a potential new home for the LGBTQ+ community.[00:26:00] The role of AI and evolving language in digital community building.[00:27:00] Wrapping up Season 1 and looking forward to Season 2. Quotes and Key Takeaways:"Gag City represents a utopian society of inclusivity and LGBTQ+ pride.""The evolution of digital platforms reflects the changing needs of communities.""Embracing change and technology is key to staying relevant and connected." ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

Join us as we navigate the often misunderstood and under-explored territory of heteroflexibility. In a society increasingly embracing the fluid spectrum of sexuality, this episode offers a deep dive into the heart of what it means to identify outside traditional labels. We bring personal anecdotes, cultural insights, and a touch of humor to demystify and celebrate the complexities of sexual identity. Whether you're well-versed in LGBTQ+ topics or new to the conversation, this episode provides a fresh perspective on the evolving landscape of human sexuality. Key Discussion Points:Defining Heteroflexibility: How it differs from bisexuality and bicuriosity.Personal experiences and observations of heteroflexibility.The controversy and criticism surrounding heteroflexibility.Comparing heteroflexibility and homoflexibility.The evolving nature of sexual identity labels in 2024.Celebrity influences on perceptions of sexual fluidity.The importance of open discussions about sexual identity. Timestamped Highlights:[00:15] Introduction to Heteroflexibility[09:30] Sexual identity labels and their implications[15:15] Controversies around the concept[22:00] Embracing self-discovery in sexual identity ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

HI! We are FINALLY back to talk about Isaac and Sahar being the number one gossip gremlins, Mr. Ajayi and Mr. Farouk making the vending machines blush, exploring the Gayborhood, Tara's surprise birthday party, and Nick coming out to a room full of peers! Join us in screaming about season two, episode six. "Truth/Dare!" (Or, the one where we all get emotional whiplash..) Join our Patreon: tinyurl.com/WhyAreWePatreon If you are enjoying the pod, please consider rating and reviewing on your preferred platform! We would greatly appreciate it! Follow us online: Insta: tinyurl.com/WhyareweInsta Tiktok: tinyurl.com/WhyareweTok Discord: discord.gg/xg5dpEyfgX A special thanks to the following Producers. We appreciate you so much! Josh H. Michael B. Kelly Amalie Lori Maja Cassie Erika --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whyarewecast/message

Thank you for being a part of our journey. We only have two more episodes planned for this year, and are releasing  lots of exciting episodes in Season 2 launching January 2nd!  Timestamps:[02:00]: The Evolution of "Modern Gays"[03:15]: Top Episodes and Why They Resonated[13:15]: Highlighting Memorable Interviews [16:00]: Answering Listener Questions:[19:00]: Most Fun Moments of 2023 Featured Episodes:"Am I the Drama? Am I the Villain?""Unapologetically Standing Tall""Pride Unveiled""Finding Home: Queer Insights on Home Design and Numerology""Booty Care 101""We Got Ghosted""Your Era and You""Exes and Ohs!" ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

We chat about the significance of being honest, owning it, and the art of moving on. Explore these themes through personal anecdotes, reflections on family dynamics, and parallels drawn from "The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills." The conversation underscores the importance of honesty in personal growth and relationships, especially within the LGBTQIA+ community. Topics Discussed:The balance between honesty and empathy in relationships.How family upbringing influences one's approach to honesty.The contrast between characters like Erika Jane and Sutton on Real Housewives of Beverly Hills in handling honesty.The role of authenticity in LGBTQIA+ experiences.Strategies for owning one's truth and the impact on self-confidence.The psychological and emotional benefits of resolving conflicts and moving on. Chapters:[00:15] Importance of honesty in personal relationships[02:30] Challenges and rewards of being authentic[03:00] The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills as a metaphor for conflict resolution[10:30] Empathy and honesty in various aspects of life[15:30] Comparing different approaches to conflict resolution[17:00] Practical tips on owning your truth[20:45] Moving on and resolution under challenging conversations[26:00] Embracing authenticity for personal fulfilment ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

Hosts Daniel and Garet, along with special guest Love Daddy Trev, dive deep into the complexities of sparks, chemistry, and building lasting connections. They explore the nature of the "spark" in relationships, the evolution of attraction, and the significance of maintaining individuality and communication within a partnership. Join Mod Squad for exclusive content, episode deep dives and more resources. Subscribe for free or support the show with a paid membership. Visit our website at moderngays.co for more info! ––– Topics Discussed: Understanding the Spark: What is the spark in a relationship, and is it necessary for a lasting connection? The discussion sheds light on how sparks and chemistry play a role in the initial stages of a relationship and their evolution over time.Physical Attraction vs. Emotional Connection: Insights into the balance between physical attraction and deep emotional bonds. The importance of shared values, respect, and mutual interests as foundations for a healthy relationship.Maintaining Individuality: The critical role of preserving one's identity and individuality within a relationship, and how this contributes to a stronger, more meaningful bond.Communication and Connection: The significance of open communication, especially in discussing desires and expectations, and how it fuels the relationship's growth.Dealing with Changes in a Relationship: How changes in physical appearance, identity, or life circumstances test and potentially strengthen a partnership.Advice for Singles: For those navigating the dating world, understanding the importance of giving chances, and not being hindered by high expectations or fear of change. ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

In this heartening episode of Modern Gays, we delve deep into the emotional and practical aspects of IVF and surrogacy for LGBTQ+ families. Joined by our insightful guests, Richard Westoby and Julio Gaggia of IVF Daddies, we explore the highs and lows of creating a family, discussing everything from choosing the right IVF clinic and surrogacy agency to the legal intricacies involved. This episode is not just a guide; it's a beacon of hope and understanding for anyone on or considering this path. Join Mod Squad for exclusive content, episode deep dives and more resources. Subscribe for free or support the show with a paid membership. Visit our website at moderngays.co for more info!––– Topics Discussed: Choosing the Right Clinic and Agency: The importance of 'checking the vibe' and ensuring you feel comfortable and supported by your medical team.Understanding the Process: A detailed look at the IVF cycle, the role of egg donors, and the significance of genetic screening.Legal Considerations: Navigating the complex legal landscape, including differences in laws between countries and states, and the importance of having a will and legal documents in place.Emotional Resilience: Tips for managing the emotional rollercoaster of IVF and surrogacy, including building a strong support system and maintaining open communication with professionals.Building a Connection: The unique relationships between egg donors and surrogates, including open and known donor arrangements.Parenting and Identity: Embracing the identity of being a parent, irrespective of the journey to get there.Health and Lifestyle Tips: Insights into how lifestyle choices, like diet and clothing, can impact sperm quality. Links: IVF Daddies Podcast and InstagramDr Sandy Chuan @ San Diego Fertility Center ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

Today's episode dives into the intricate dance of introducing your partner to your family and friends, a pivotal moment for many in the LGBTQ+ community. We explore the nuances of making a good first impression, handling potential conflicts, and the importance of post-meeting reflections. Meeting the family or friends of your partner can be a mix of anxiety and excitement, but it's a journey worth navigating for the growth and depth it adds to a relationship. Join Mod Squad for exclusive content, episode deep dives and more resources. Subscribe for free or support the show with a paid membership. Visit our website at moderngays.co for more info! Key Points Discussed: Prep Talk: The significance of a 'prep talk' before meeting the family, setting expectations, and understanding cultural nuances.First Encounters: Strategies for smooth conversations and showing respect for family culture and traditions.Meeting Friends and Chosen Family: Understanding the protective nature of friends and the dynamics of chosen family.Holiday Gatherings: The challenges and expectations of introducing partners during holiday events like Thanksgiving. And... alternative celebrations for those who may not spend holidays with their biological family, such as Friendsgiving or gaycations.Debriefing: The crucial role of debriefing post-meeting, discussing feelings, and addressing any uncomfortable moments. Ensuring open, honest communication to strengthen trust and understanding within the relationship. ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

In this spooktacular episode, Daniel and Garet dive into the transformative energy of Scorpio season and its impact on the LGBTQ+ community. They also explore why Halloween is often referred to as "Gay Christmas." Plus, celebrity astrologer Kyle Thomas shares his insights on what to expect this Scorpio season. Listen to the full Scorpio Season clip by Kyle Thomas on our Modern Gays website here. Join Mod Squad for exclusive content, episode deep dives and more resources. Subscribe for free or support the show with a paid membership. Visit our website at moderngays.co for more info! Highlights:The transformative energy of Scorpio season and its impact on the LGBTQ+ community.Why Halloween is often referred to as "Gay Christmas."Special horoscope updates for each Zodiac sign.A conversation with celebrity astrologer Kyle Thomas.Personal stories and reflections on Halloween parties and costumes. What You'll Learn:How Scorpio season affects your emotional and mental state.The history and significance of Halloween in the LGBTQ+ community.How to navigate Scorpio season with intention and authenticity.What the stars have in store for you this Scorpio season. Links & Resources:Kyle Thomas Astrology: Website | Patreon | InstagramFollow us on Instagram and Twitter: @moderngaysVisit our website. ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

Join Daniel and Garet as they decode the viral sensation of "gay math," a playful yet thought-provoking lens on LGBTQIA+ culture, relationships, and stereotypes. From navigating relationship red flags to the ethics of Pride merch, this episode is a whirlwind of chuckles and enlightenment. This episode promises a rollercoaster of laughter, a-ha moments, and soul-searching reflections. So, grab your calculators and your sense of humor, because we're about to crunch some numbers and shatter some stereotypes, all while celebrating the fabulous diversity of the LGBTQIA+ community.  Join Mod Squad for exclusive content, episode deep dives and more resources. Subscribe for free or support the show with a paid membership. Visit our website at moderngays.co for more info! Key Topics Discussed:The birth and impact of "gay math"How humor can illuminate taboo topics within the LGBTQIA+ communityMaking ethical choices during Pride seasonThe role of iconic pop albums in shaping our sense of time and self Segments:[10:30] The Genesis of "Gay Math"[15:30] The Algebra of Red Flags in Relationships[17:30] The Price Tag of Pride: Merch and Morality[20:15] The Soundtrack of Our Lives: Pop Albums as Time Capsules[23:30] The Art of Authenticity: Being True to You Links & Resources:Search #gaymath across social mediaElevate LGBTQIA+ artists and nonprofits this Pride seasonModern Gays WebsiteFollow us on Instagram and Twitter @moderngays ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

Daniel and Garet explore the intricate dynamics of giving and receiving in relationships. From friendships to dating and even in the bedroom, they delve into how the balance—or imbalance—of giving and receiving can shape our connections and emotional well-being.  Join Mod Squad for exclusive content, episode deep dives and more resources. Subscribe for free or support the show with a paid membership. Visit our website at moderngays.co for more info! Topics Discussed:Strangers: A simple smile or nod can make a big difference.Friendships: The balance of giving and receiving should be closer to 50/50.Dating: Early stages may involve financial giving, but emotional investment is key.Sex: The best experiences involve both partners giving and receiving.Long-term Relationships: Multiple facets of giving and taking can make things complex but also rewarding.The Attraction of Pure Giving: Authenticity in giving can be magnetic.The Stigma of Receiving: Receiving is not a sign of selfishness; it's a sign of openness.Finding Balance: Analyzing your giving and receiving can lead to healthier relationships. Chapters:[00:00] Introduction: The Giver vs. The Receiver[02:15] Celebrating our 30th Episode[02:45] Strangers: The Art of Small Gestures[07:00] Friendships: The Balance of Expectations[12:00] Dating: Financial and Emotional Investments[15:15] Sex: Giving Pleasure, Receiving Connection[17:15] Love and Long-term Relationships: Multifaceted Angles[20:00] The Attraction of Pure Giving[21:30] The Stigma of Receiving[24:00] Analyzing the Balance in Relationships[26:00] Dropping Labels and Finding Balance[27:45] Listener Call to Action: Leave a Review ___LINKS:Follow us on Instagram, TikTok and X.Join the Gayborhood free newsletter or paid membership for bonus episode content.Read more about every episode on our website.___SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:Modern Gays is published every week. If you love the show and can support us, please subscribe and write a review wherever you get your podcasts! Thanks for listening! xx Daniel and Garet

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