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Best podcasts about wired for love

Latest podcast episodes about wired for love

The Tom Barnard Show
Tom Barnard Show: Hour 2 - Dr. Stan Tatkin is wired for love and Sona Akale is wired to fight

The Tom Barnard Show

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2023 62:11


Things are lively in the studio today with a show that is packed to the brim with guests! In the first hour, SKOR North's Judd Zulgad talks about Kevin O'Connell's decision to name Josh Dobbs as their starting QB for Sunday's game against the Raiders, KSTP's Chris Egert talks about how Old Country Buffets went out of business, and informs about a apartment complex that was on fire this morning in Minneapolis. Hour #2 has Dr. Stan Tatkin join the show with advice on relationships, marriage, love, intimacy, and mental well-being. You can check out Dr. Tatkin's advice in his books "In Each Other's Care" and "Wired for Love" or in his TEDx talk! Plus boxer and musical artist Sona Akale joins on to talk about his upcoming match against Trey Martin on December 9th at Elemental Boxing in St. Paul! In hour #3 we're joined by Amy Seeman promoting 12 Moms of Christmas, which gifts vehicles and other supplies to single low-income mothers who have no means of transportation. If you're interested in donating or learning more about 12 Moms of Christmas you can email Amy at mamaseeman@gmail.com. Kristyn Burtt aspires to make Tevin's list of Squid Game shoutouts. On the Family, we finally put the whole "talking over one another" debate to rest. Just kidding, it'll remain unsettled forever. Just like how unsettled we are when we look up pro athlete salaries. They may be a short trip to a host of medical issues, but when you have 50 million dollars, you can just buy a new ACL. Probably. I'm sure they sell those somewhere. Stream the show LIVE on the Tom Barnard Show app M-F from 8-12PM or get the show on-demand on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In Session with Dr. Farid Holakouee
March 13, 2023 Discussion on the book "Wired for Love," Healing Time, No Guts No Glory in Love

In Session with Dr. Farid Holakouee

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2023 44:33


March 13, 2023 Discussion on the book "Wired for Love," Healing Time, No Guts No Glory in Love by Dr. Farid Holakouee

Wellness Force Radio
Q + A: Attachment Styles | Are You An Anchor, Wave or Island?

Wellness Force Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2023 19:34


Hey, what's up everybody it's your host Josh Trent. I'm here to answer ALL your questions about anything ⬟ mental, physical, emotional, spiritual, and financial wellness. Today we'll explore relationship attachment styles and all of my answers are based on the wellness and the wisdom I have cultivated since I started my spiritual awakening, well really, my path of awareness in 2003... 20+ years ago when I quit my job as an auto technician and sold everything I owned to move to Hawaii and find myself, fitness, wellness, spirituality and essentially find God. Get Higher Naturally! Save 15% on HigherDOSE 's #1 Selling Sauna Blanket, Infrared PEMF Mat, and Red Light Face Mask ONLY at joshtrent.com/higherdose with code "JOSH15" (link + code must be used together for discount) Are You Stressed Out Lately? Take a deep breath with the M21™ wellness guide: a simple yet powerful 21 minute morning system that melts stress and gives you more energy through 6 science-backed practices and breathwork. Click HERE to download for free. Is Your Energy Low? Looking for a cleaner brain fuel? Just one daily serving of Ketone-IQ™️ will help you feel sharper, more focused, and ready to take on the day. Click HERE to try HVMN's Ketone-IQ™ + Save 20% with the code "JOSH" *Review The WF Podcast & WIN $150 in wellness prizes! *Join The Facebook Group Ok, I digress... listen to some other podcasts to hear my own personal story, but when it comes to your personal story right here right now... here's the truth: you and I are loved, we are supported, and we are on the right path. So if you are looking for a longer form guest interview, click on any of our Tuesday shows and check out our shows on Thursday as well where I take one concept that might be complicated and I break it down simplistically with actionable steps you can take in your life. Make sure that you are following me at @joshtrentofficial on Instagram so you get notified when a Q+A is coming up so you can post your questions. This Q+A is really special because someone asked a question that is going to take 10 minutes of strong wisdom and experience to explain so today we are going deep into this question from audience member "PressentMV" who asks:   "I'm healing my childhood trauma... I already feel like I've healed so much until I get into a relationship and I'm back at the beginning. Why are romantic relationships so triggering?"   Romantic relationships can be both fulfilling and challenging. While they can bring us joy, love, and companionship, they can also trigger deep emotional wounds and insecurities. So why are romantic relationships so triggering? Let's explore some of the reasons. Firstly, romantic relationships always involve vulnerability. We open ourselves up to another person, share our deepest fears and desires, and allow them to see us in a way that we may not show others. This vulnerability can be scary because it means that we are risking rejection or judgment. When our partner responds in a negative way or doesn't reciprocate our feelings, it can trigger feelings of shame, worthlessness, and fear. Secondly, romantic relationships often involve attachment styles that stem from childhood experiences. Our early life experiences with caregivers shape how we view ourselves and the world around us. If we had secure attachments with caregivers who were responsive to our needs as children, we are more likely to develop healthy attachment styles in adulthood. However, if we experienced neglect or abuse as children, we may develop insecure attachment styles that lead us to have difficulties trusting others or forming close relationships. A great example of this, and a big guest on an upcoming podcast is Dr. Stan Tatkin, the author of "Wired For Love." So make sure you subscribe at JoshTrent.com/Podcast on your favorite player or the player you were listening to right now!   4 Attachment Styles In Relationships Dr. Stan Tatkin is a clinical psychologist and author who has developed the theory of attachment styles in adults. His work focuses on how our early experiences with caregivers shape our adult relationships. There are four attachment styles that Dr. Tatkin identifies: secure, anxious-ambivalent, avoidant, and disorganized. Each style is characterized by different patterns of thoughts, emotions, and behaviors in relationships: Secure attachment is characterized by a positive view of self and others, trust, and the ability to be emotionally intimate. Anxious-ambivalent attachment is characterized by insecurity, clinginess, and anxiety about abandonment. Avoidant attachment is characterized by a negative view of self and others, distrust, and the inability to be emotionally intimate. Disorganized attachment is characterized by an incoherent or contradictory view of self and others, fearfulness, and chaotic or unpredictable behavior in relationships. (OCD)   Tatkin's work has shown that our attachment style can have a profound impact on the quality of our adult relationships. His theory can help us to understand why we behave the way we do in our relationships and how we can change our patterns to create healthier, more fulfilling connections with others.   Island Attachment Style Individuals with an island attachment style typically prefer solitude and independence. They may have difficulty trusting others or forming close relationships because they fear being hurt or abandoned. Islands often value self-sufficiency and may withdraw emotionally when they feel vulnerable.   Wave Attachment Style Those with a wave attachment style tend to be emotionally volatile and crave intimacy in their relationships. They may experience intense highs and lows in their emotions, seeking closeness one moment and pushing their partner away the next. Waves often struggle with feelings of insecurity and may need frequent reassurance from their partners.   Anchor Attachment Style The anchor attachment style is characterized by stability, security, and trustworthiness. Anchors are reliable partners who value commitment and loyalty in their relationships. They have a positive view of themselves and others, which allows them to form healthy attachments without fear or anxiety. Tatkin's expanded attachment styles theory acknowledges that individuals can exhibit different attachment styles depending on the situation or relationship they are in. For example, someone who is typically an anchor may become a wave when they feel threatened or insecure in a particular relationship.   Why You Need To Understand Your Partner's Attachment Style Understanding your own attachment style can help you navigate your relationships more effectively. It can also help you recognize patterns of behavior that may be holding you back from forming deeper connections with others. By identifying your own needs and communicating them clearly to your partner, you can build stronger, healthier bonds that last a lifetime. Thirdly, romantic relationships can trigger past traumas or unresolved issues. We may have experienced painful breakups or betrayals in past relationships that still impact us today. We may also have unresolved issues from childhood that resurface when triggered by certain behaviors or situations in a current relationship. Lastly, romantic relationships often involve expectations and unmet needs. We may have certain expectations about what a relationship should look like or how our partner should behave. When these expectations are not met, it can cause frustration and disappointment. Additionally, if our basic needs for love, validation, or affection are not being met in the relationship, it can trigger feelings of insecurity and inadequacy. So what can we do about these triggers in romantic relationships? BREATHE. Use the code "PODCAST33" for 33% off. It's important to recognize our own patterns of behavior and communication styles that may be contributing to the triggers. It's also important to communicate openly with our partners about our needs and expectations so that they are aware of them. Additionally, seeking therapy can provide a safe space to explore past traumas and attachment issues that may be impacting current relationships. Therapy can help individuals develop healthier coping mechanisms for dealing with triggers as well as provide tools for better communication and conflict resolution. In conclusion, while romantic relationships can bring great joy into our lives they also have the potential to trigger deep emotional wounds and insecurities within us. By recognizing these triggers and seeking support when needed through therapy or other resources such as self-help books on healthy boundaries one can learn how to navigate these challenges effectively leading towards happier healthier connections overall. Be patient with yourself and celebrate your successes along the way - healing takes time, but it is possible. So, where will you start? 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Let's Talk Love | A Real Love Ready Podcast
Dr. Stan Tatkin - Rewire Your Brain For Love

Let's Talk Love | A Real Love Ready Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2022 55:05 Transcription Available


In this episode of Let's Talk Love, We are joined by Dr. Stan Tatkin. Stan is a prolific author and researcher. He is a professor at UCLA and maintains a private therapy practice in Southern California. We discuss Stan's book, Wired For Love, which is a guide to understanding your partner's brain and presents tools that can help improve any relationship—especially intimate partnerships.Stan teaches people to adopt what he calls “secure functioning” principles of behavior, based on a fusion of neuroscience, attachment theory, and his many years of clinical experience as a therapist.Stan also has a terrific sense of humor. I hope you enjoy and learn from our conversation!We want to hear from you! Send us your anonymous questions for the Podcast as well as our weekly IGTV Live Ask The Experts Q&A. https://realloveready.com/submitaquestionJoin our community for FREE at realloveready.com. By becoming a member you get access to exclusive workshops and upcoming events from Real Love Ready.Learn more with Stan:Books: https://www.thepactinstitute.com/booksWired for Love Online Retreats: https://www.thepactinstitute.com/retreats"How to Fight Well” Email Series (free): https://www.thepactinstitute.com/7-days-to-better-fights CONNECT WITH STAN ON SOCIALS: https://www.facebook.com/PactTrainingInstitutehttps://twitter.com/DrStanTatkinhttps://www.instagram.com/drstantatkin/https://www.youtube.com/user/stanleytatCONNECT WITH RLR ON SOCIALS: https://www.facebook.com/RealLoveReady/https://www.instagram.com/realloveready/https://twitter.com/reallovereadyWatch the podcast on YouTube: youtube.com/reallovereadyCredits: the Let's Talk Love Podcast is hosted by Robin Ducharme, recorded and edited by Maia Anstey, and transcribed by Otter.ai. Watch the podcast on YouTube: youtube.com/realloveready Credits: the Let's Talk Love Podcast is hosted by Robin Ducharme, recorded and edited by Maia Anstey, and transcribed by Otter.ai.

WBZ Book Club
Wired for Love, by Stephanie Cacioppo

WBZ Book Club

Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2022 1:16


A Neuroscientist's Journey Through Romance, Loss, and the Essence of Human Connection.

Relationship Doctor
Wired for Love: How Love Literally Reshapes Our Brains

Relationship Doctor

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2022 22:33


This week, we're sharing an excerpt from the new book Wired for Love by neuroscientist Stephanie Cacioppo. Cacioppo is one of the world's foremost neuroscientists studying romantic love. In Wired for Love, she tells the story of how she met the foremost scientist of loneliness, how they fell in love, and the tragic story of his death seven years later. Woven in to her personal story are revelatory insights into how and why we fall in love, what makes love last, and how we process love lost—all grounded in cutting-edge findings in brain chemistry and behavioral science.Buy Wired for Love:AmazonAudibleBookshop.orgCheck out all the Quick and Dirty Tips shows.Subscribe to the Relationship Doctor podcast. Join the conversation on Facebook and Twitter.Links:https://www.quickanddirtytips.com/https://www.quickanddirtytips.com/podcastshttps://www.quickanddirtytips.com/subscribehttps://www.facebook.com/quickdirtytipshttps://twitter.com/quickdirtytips

Ungraduated Living & Learning
We are Wired for Love

Ungraduated Living & Learning

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2022 7:58


"I am persuaded, you see, that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor the present, nor the future, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature will be able to separate us fro the love of God in King Jesus our Lord." - Romans 8:38-39 We are wired for love and we are designed to act and reflect that love in all we do. Love is a part of the over-arching "God consciousness" through which we are connected to. It is the underlying program that we run under. When we fall out of alignment with this perspective is when we can be led astray and out of sync with life. My website: https://ungraduated.com  

Ungraduated Living & Learning
We are all Wired for Love

Ungraduated Living & Learning

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2022 6:34


Choice is a very important aspect of Love - how are you choosing to see those around you? With spite and jealousy or perhaps through celebration, appreciation, and love? It isn't always easy to show love to all in life - but for the most part, it is possible. You will benefit far more from this way of life. Today's daily message comes from the following Bible verse: "The one who does not love has not known God, because God is love." - 1 John 4:8

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Dr. Caroline Leaf Podcast
Podcast 310: How to create a personalized & powerful mental health insurance policy with your thoughts + What it means to be “wired for love”

Dr. Caroline Leaf Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2021 33:55


Get my new book Cleaning up Your Mental Mess here: https://www.cleaningupyourmentalmess.com Download my new and improved brain detox app here: https://neurocycle.app Sign up to join my free text program and receive mental health care tips. Just text DRLEAF to 1 (833) 285 3747 Get your tickets to my 2021 Mental Health Retreat: https://www.drleafconference.com SHOW DESCRIPTION: Recalling happy memories is good for your health in general. As I discuss in this podcast, thinking about good times is like a physical insurance policy in the brain, which, when times get tough, helps support your mental and physical health. Read the show blog here: https://drleaf.com/blogs/news/good-memories-as-an-insurance-policy OFFERS FROM OUR SPONSORS: -Boll & Branch (the best mattresses!): You can try them worry-free for 30 nights, with free shipping and returns. And my listeners get an exclusive 15% off your first set of sheets with promo code DRLEAF at bollandbranch.com -LMNT, my favorite electrolyte drink mixes: Claim a free LMNT Sample Pack! For more information and to claim your free offer visit: http://drinklmnt.com/Leaf. -NOOM: For more info visit: noom.com/DRLEAF. PODCAST HIGHLIGHTS: 1:31 What it means to have a mental “insurance policy” for challenging times 3:30 The relationship between thoughts & experiences 4:20 How toxic memories can affect us 6:45, 11:00 How good memories are a mental “insurance policy” 7:10 What it means to be “wired for love” 8:10 How healthy, happy memories can increase our cognitive resilience 9:00, 21:00 The healing power of gratitude 13:20, 17:00 How happy memories can improve our relationships & mental health 14:00 The relationship between recalling good memories & making wise decisions 24:50 Why we all need a possibilities mindset “insurance policy” ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: -Visit my website at https://drleaf.com for more free resources Follow me on social media for daily mental health tips & strategies: -Instagram: @drcarolineleaf: https://www.instagram.com/drcarolineleaf/- -Facebook: Dr. Caroline Leaf: https://www.facebook.com/drleaf -Twitter: @drcarolineleaf: https://twitter.com/DrCarolineLeaf -Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/drcarolineleaf If you enjoyed this episode please leave a 5 review on iTunes, Google Play, or wherever you are listening! And don't forget to subscribe and share this podcast with friends and family! I love seeing your posts on social media! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Tell Me Your Story
Stan Tatkinn - Wired For Love

Tell Me Your Story

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2021 57:35


Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT is a teacher, clinician, researcher, and developer of the Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy® (PACT). Beloved by colleagues and clients alike, Stan is an expert on human behavior and couple relationships. He speaks and teaches around the world on secure-functioning relationships – how to understand them, create them, and support them. Stan has written dozens of academic articles and six bestselling books – now translated into Spanish, Chinese, Turkish, and Romanian. More than 1.1 million people have tuned in to Stan's TEDx talk. A Therapist's Therapist Stan and his wife, Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin, PhD, created the PACT Institute in 2010 to train mental health professionals to successfully integrate a psychobiological approach in their clinical practices. Through the PACT Institute, Stan has trained thousands of therapists in Austin, Berkeley, Boulder, Los Angeles, New York, Santa Fe, Seattle, Canada, England, Norway, Turkey, Australia, and Spain. They appreciate his depth of understanding – of both the scientific research and the human condition – and how he integrates that wisdom to form the foundation of the comprehensive principles and methodologies he teaches. The American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists CA honored Stan with the Educator of the Year award in 2014. Go-To Source for Couples Stan helps couples create healthy attachments and secure-functioning relationships based on fairness, justice, and sensitivity. Throughout each year, Stan and Tracey travel coast to coast, leading couples through Wired For Love Couple Retreats with other PACT faculty. Stan has devoted his life to working with couples and individuals who wish to be in relationships, and he maintains a robust clinical practice in Calabasas, California. Scholar, Advancing Psychotherapy Stan is an assistant clinical professor at the UCLA David Geffen School of Medicine, Department of Family Medicine. He is on the board of directors of Lifespan Learning Institute and serves as a founding member on Relationships First, a nonprofit organization founded by Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt. A former president of the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists, Ventura County chapter, Stan is a veteran member of Allan N. Schore's study group. He's trained in the Adult Attachment, Facial Action Coding System, and Strange Situation. He was also trained in Self and Object Relations for working with personality disorders through the Masterson Institute. As clinician, he has also specialized in treating adolescents and adults with personality disorders and drug and alcohol addiction. Stan is an experienced facilitator in Vipassana, having trained with Shinzen Young, PhD, in Vipassana meditation. He also trained with David Reynolds, PhD, in two Japanese forms of psychotherapy, Morita and Naikan.

UNDISTRACTED with Laura Bennett
Caroline Leaf: "The mind is our life-force and it's wired for love."

UNDISTRACTED with Laura Bennett

Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2021 49:07


Are your thoughts a distraction, or are they fuelling your focus? Dr. Caroline Leaf is a is a neuroscientist specialising in cognitive and metacognitive neuropsychology. Since the early 1980s, she has researched the mind-brain connection, the nature of mental health, and the formation of memory. She was one of the first in her field to study how the brain can change (neuroplasticity) with directed mind input. Her new book, 'Cleaning up Your Mental Mess' gives us the skills we need to address our mental clutter, and deal with the anxiety and depression that can sometimes hold us back. The NeuroCycle app: https://drleaf.com/products/neurocycle-app See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Awaken Life Church Podcast
Joy Willett – Wired For Love

Awaken Life Church Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2021 39:56


Understanding how God made you, and receiving His amazing love!

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María Trusa
Wired for love- Stan Talkin A book recommendation

María Trusa

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2021 3:00


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The D.R.I.P. PODCAST
EP 109 - Thriving Together and Wired For Love

The D.R.I.P. PODCAST

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2020 53:13


Tune is as the team talks about the state and temperature of our nation and communities. We talk about our relationships, how to make relationships with self, family, friends and spouses THRIVE! At the end of the day we're all Wired for Love!!Follow us on:IG @the drippodcast19Facebook @thedrippcast19Twitter: thedrip_nmIf you'd like to make a donation, please visit our website at www.noizradionetwork.org. Every donation helps us keep the mics on!

Post Traumatic Glitter Disorder
Wired For Love with Orit Krug Ep. 34

Post Traumatic Glitter Disorder

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2020 60:52


Orit Krug joins the podcast this week to inform the Glitter Gang about a revolutionary form of therapy to treat PTSD! If you've tried talk therapy and still find yourself repeating the same mistakes over and over again maybe it's wired into your nervous system! Does talk therapy seem too intense for you? Maybe, you should start with Dance/Movement Therapy instead! Orit has a Master's Degree in Dance/Movement therapy with over a decade of experience! On this week's episode she is breaking down her methodology for your Glitter Girls and keeping it real by telling her own trauma story. To take the free course offered by Orit click here: http://www.wiredforlovetherapy.com/To connect with Orit, check out her webpage: https://oritkrug.com/Checkout this cool video about how your childhood trauma can influence your current relationships: https://youtu.be/WS4OUFvCY-0

Heaven & El with El Edwards, Youier

At the end of last week, Romans 13:8 reminded us, “the only obligation you have is to love one another” and in today's episode, I come with a challenge and a reminder. The latter is a reminder of how God has wired your brain to help make loving more doable, one action at a time. Think of this as an ... Read More --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/youier/message

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Heaven & El with El Edwards, Youier

At the end of last week, Romans 13:8 reminded us, “the only obligation you have is to love one another” and in today's episode, I come with a challenge and a reminder. The latter is a reminder of how God has wired your brain to help make loving more doable, one action at a time. Think of this as an ... Read More The post Wired for love appeared first on Youier!.

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One Broken Mom
For Better or For Worse with Dr. Stan Tatkin

One Broken Mom

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2020 71:51


Marriage vows are being tested worldwide as we are in the midst of a global pandemic that has forced billions of people to stay home. In addition, in the US, we are at 30 million people, unemployed and millions of children trying to school from home by parents emotionally unequipped to take on a burden while they themselves are trying to make sense of their own worlds, fears and concerns. Right now – many people are seeing perhaps where their greatest strengths are in their partners as well as their weaknesses. People are probably questioning their choices and wondering what to do next once the world re-opens. The traditional marriage vows we are all familiar with date back to the Book of Common Prayer, originally printed in 1549 which say "to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, till death us depart." But how would we know if this person your are dating or married to is really the one, for example, you can be locked up in a house with for two to three months during a pandemic? That’s why Ameé has back on today Dr. Stan Tatkin – couples expert and author of many books including Wired For Love and Wired for Dating to talk about his book We Do: Saying Yes to a Relationship of Depth, True Connection, and Enduring Love. In this episode, you will hear: How our unseen fears may be impacting our relationshipHow attachment affects our style of relating to one anotherHow to “Sherlock” any potential candidatesWhy a “mission statement” is important for a couple or a person Resources:Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a SecureWired for Dating: How Understanding Neurobiology and Attachment Style Can Help You Find Your Ideal MateWe Do: Saying Yes to a Relationship of Depth, True Connection, and Enduring Love Dr. Stan Tatkin’s Website

Friends Church Calgary Weekly Message
The Art of Pleasing and Soothing

Friends Church Calgary Weekly Message

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2020 52:12


Speaker: Jeff Jarvis Have you ever had someone in your life who was so attuned to you that they knew exactly what to say or do when you were upset, afraid or excited? In one conversation they could take you from being so angry to calming your nerves, or lifting your spirits or getting you laughing. It’s like they had become an expert on regulating your energy and moods. If you've experienced this, you know what a gift this kind of relationship can be. This week, our final week of the "Trouble with Love" series, we’re turning our attention away from us as individuals, to the critical role we can play in soothing and pleasing our partner or those we are closest to. There are few things more beautiful than couples who know how to do the right things for each other...and do them. Invite some friends to check out the live stream of our VIRTUAL Spiritual Gym - this Sunday at 10:30am. To donate to this podcast and support the making of more of these please visit www.friendschurch.ca/podcast Resources: Cheat Sheet: http://media.friendschurch.ca/mp3/CheatSheet.docx Recommended Resources from the "Trouble With Love" series: Wired For Love by Dr. Stan Tatkin https://www.amazon.ca/Wired-Love-Understanding-Attachment-Relationship/dp/1608820580 Your Brain on Love (audiobook) by Dr. Stan Tatkin https://www.audible.ca/pd/Your-Brain-on-Love-Audiobook/B0719C1PQQ Love Sense by Dr. Sue Johnson https://www.amazon.ca/Love-Sense-Revolutionary-Romantic-Relationships/dp/0316133760

American Sex Podcast
Coronavirus: Sex, Connection & Mental Health w/ Kate Loree - Ep 123

American Sex Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2020 78:32


Does COVID-19 have you spiraling? Then DROP EVERYTHING. You need to listen to episode 123 of American Sex Podcast STAT. Kate Loree, LMFT dishes out practical advice for dealing with Coronavirus anxiety and gives tips for soothing distressed loved ones. Many of us are experiencing PTSD reactions from pandemic panic plus it's affecting the mental health of those in alt-sex/relationship communities like BDSM, non-monogamy, LGBTQ+ and sex workers who are losing their livelihoods. Coronavirus is impacting our access to sexuality and physical connection too--which is something many of us need for comfort, especially during trying times. Kate also answers the burning question, “Why are we buying so much damn toilet paper?” and the answer might surprise you. This conversation is jam-packed with workable solutions and free/low-cost resources for the mental turmoil we’re all going through right now. With hope, all of this social distancing will actually bring us closer together as a community.   Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 123 Links Kate Loree Facebook https://www.facebook.com/KateLoreeLMFT/ Kate Loree Twitter https://twitter.com/KateLoree Kate Loree Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQ Kate Loree Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kate.loree/ Kate Loree Website http://kateloree.com/ Supporting Creators, Entertainers & Gig Workers During The Era Coronavirus http://sunnymegatron.com/support-during-coronavirus/ Down Dog App (Free until 4/1/20) https://markets.businessinsider.com/news/stocks/down-dog-offers-free-access-to-its-yoga-and-fitness-apps-until-april-1-2020-1028993657 Breath Work https://www.breathworkhealings.com/ 4x4 breathing technique https://youtu.be/treM-7QN1-Q Pineapple Support (sliding scale/free mental health resources for sex workers) https://pineapplesupport.org/ Get your first week of online/tech-based therapy with Talkspace FREE by using code SUNNY at http://talkspace.com Steven Colbert’s Thursday 3/12/20 audience-free boozy, surreal, apocalyptic, monoluge https://youtu.be/aKhPbVN_Rbw The Body Keeps The Score https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Score-Transformation-Trauma/dp/0141978619/ref=sr_1_2 Wired For Love https://www.amazon.com/dp/1608820580/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_U_x_GuRBEb1KWNV6R Getting The Love You Want https://www.amazon.com/dp/1250310539/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_U_x_gvRBEbKE3K49J SWOP USA https://swopusa.org/ Scarlett Alliance http://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ Desire Alliance http://desireealliance.org/ American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Wednesday night free American Sex podcast live stream, Long Distance Sexy Time (aka Germ-Free Fun), 3/18 8pm PST http://bit.ly/sunnygetvokl Episode 123 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info  10% off + free shipping from Überlube with code SUNNY at UberLube.com 30 day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY http://dipseastories.com/sunny YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY

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Untangle
Valentines Week Love Fest - Encore - Wired for Love: The Neuroscience of Sex, Affection, and Love

Untangle

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2020 42:20


Dr. Helen Fisher is a PhD Biological Anthropologist, a Senior Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute, and Chief Scientific Advisor for Match.com. In this episode we go inside her head to learn about the neuroscience of sex, lust, affection, and love. Find out what's behind the passion, how to nurture it--and make it last!

GraceLife
Wired For Love And Relationships - Ettienne Willemse (Tygerberg)

GraceLife

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2019 48:23


Wired For Love And Relationships - Ettienne Willemse (Tygerberg) by GraceLife Podcast

The Power Couple Podcast
Attachment + Pacing: Come Here, Go Away, I Don't Know

The Power Couple Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2019 64:08


This month we're exploring the very trendy and hot topic of attachment styles. You know the patterns you unconsciously have related to the way you bond emotionally within romantic relationships. A lot of dating and relating stresses can be connected to our attachment system going haywire and not having the tools and understanding to WORK WITH this part of ourselves. Here's the thing, your attachment wiring isn't going anywhere. You can't will it away. You can't hide it. You can't out run it. But you can create intimacy with it. Doing so helps you feel much more grounded in dating, aligned within yourself and connected to make the best relational (and attachment) choice possible. **In this episode we cover: ** • The basics of the four attachment styles in our signature comedic style. • How each style is instictively pulled to pace in the dating phase. • Why the Fantasy Bond is fucking up your dating, pacing and vetting and how to reign that sabotour in. • Taking inventory on ourselves in the most HONEST way- discerning the way you WANT to act vs the way you ACTUALLY act when it comes to your dating life. • Why humility and truth telling on yourself soothes and nourishes your attachment systems needs AND sets you up to date more congruently. • Our NEW PODCAST AFTERPARTY POSSE ANNOUNCEMENT • This week's MOVIE CLUB/STORY TIME: Runaway Bride **Mentioned in this episode: ** To take the best attachment quiz (in our humble opinion) click HERE Ready to join the FREE Legendary Love Club? aka our Podcast Afterparty Hangout group? We'll be doing weekly movie clubs to go along with the "Story Time" movie in each weekly episode + exclusive discussions about the monthly episodes + regular community Q/A's, opportunities to make connections with fellow poddies, AKA make aligned friends, meet amazing humans who not only are listening to this work too but VALUE growth and healthy relationships.... ;) and so much more...all for FREE. Read to join the community? Get in on that goodness HERE

One Broken Mom
How We Are Wired for Love with Dr. Stan Tatkin

One Broken Mom

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2019 50:26


On this week’s episode, Ameé talks with renowned couples expert and author, Dr. Stan Tatkin. Stan Tatkin, is a clinician, teacher, and developer of A Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy® (PACT). He has a clinical practice in Calabasas, CA, where he has specialized for the last 20 years in working with couples and individuals who wish to be in relationships. And he is the author of many books on the topic of relationships including Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner’s Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship, published by New Harbinger. In this episode, you will hear:Why is a romantic partner even necessary? What are the benefits of being tethered to another person? What is Attachment Theory and how does our attachment style affect us as adults? What is attraction and why do we go for certain types of people, even if they are “wrong” for us?How do you become an expert in your partner? Ultimately, how do we know this other person is worth the effort? What are our cues? Books by Dr. Tatkin include:We Do: Saying Yes to a Relationship of Depth, True Connection, and Enduring Love, published by Sounds TrueRelationship Rx: Insights and Practices to Overcome Chronic Fighting and Return to Love, published by Sounds TrueWired for Dating: How Understanding Neurobiology and Attachment Style Can Help You Find Your Ideal Mate, published by New Harbinger.Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner’s Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship, published by New Harbinger.Your Brain on Love: The Neurobiology of Healthy Relationships, published by Sounds True.Love and War in Intimate Relationships: Connection, Disconnection, and Mutual Regulation in Couple Therapy, with coauthor Marion Solomon, available through W. W. Norton’s Interpersonal Neurobiology Series. Website: https://thepactinstitute.com/Facebook the PACT Institute: https://www.facebook.com/PactTrainingInstituteFacebook for Dr. Stan Tatkin: https://www.facebook.com/drstantatkin/

Untangle
Dr. Helen Fisher - Wired for Love: The Neuroscience of Sex, Lust, Affection, and Lasting Love

Untangle

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2019 42:40


Dr. Helen Fisher is a PhD Biological Anthropologist, a Senior Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute, and Chief Scientific Advisor for Match.com. In this episode we go inside her head to learn about the neuroscience of sex, lust, affection, and love. Find out what's behind the passion, how to nurture it--and make it last!

Work Bae
Episode 5: Independent Women

Work Bae

Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2019 56:00


This week on Work Bae with Naana and Obie, we’re doing it for all the women who are independent, throw your hands up at me! Obie seems to fall in the camp of men who think “independent woman” is a 4-letter word and Naana tries to explain that women claiming their independence has far more to do with the appreciation of self than man bashing. You don’t want to miss this episode! Cheat Sheet: (26:00) "11 Reasons Why Independent Women Often Feel They Aren’t Wired For Love" by Brianna Wiest

Inspire Nation Show with Michael Sandler
HOW TO BUILD A COUPLE BUBBLE!!! + Guided Meditation! Dr. Stan Tatkin

Inspire Nation Show with Michael Sandler

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2019 96:17


How To Build A Couple Bubble For Love and Happiness!!! If you've ever struggled with love, particularly in your relationship or marriage, then do we have the couple-building show for you! Today I'll be talking with Stan Tatkin, clinican, researcher, teacher, and developer of the psychobiological approach to couple therapy. He's also the author of four books including his latest, my new favorite couples book, Wired For Love. Today we'll be talking about building, protecting, and not-popping the couple bubble so you can defuse conflict and build a secure relationship. That plus we'll talk about the emote me game, the power of the insula, the orbitofrontal cortex, early birds and night owls, and why it's okay to be annoying, just not threatening! Topics Include: How'd Stan get into teaching vipassana? How he worked with John Bradshaw How'd he get into meditation What a sensory deprivation tank had to do with anything How he got interested in child and brain development while working with John Bradshaw How he got interested in preventing personality disorders How Jessica got interested in mindful pregnancy What is one of the most important premises in healthy child development? How do you support a mother raising her child What Thich Nhat Hanh says about caregivers and raising a child. What is a couple bubble? What chemistry takes place when we start dating. Why we make mistakes in relationships because our brains are relying on shortcuts What is normal in relationships Why a couple bubble has to do with secure functioning What's the dumb vagus? What's the insula What are the primitives? How do we bring in the ambassadors to prevent war? What does presence and attention have to do with preventing fights? What do islands, waves, and anchors have to do with anything? What are pleasing and soothing 101? What's the importance of knowing your partner? How to prevent things from being long-term problems? What are morning and nighttime rituals, and early birds and night owls? Why most problems in relationships have to do with separations and reunions Why you want to wish your partner well dead or alive before going to bed How do we fight? How do we come up with a win/win situation? What's it mean to wave the flag of friendliness? Why our brains are constantly filling in the blanks and why you shouldn't leave things blank What are the perils of digital fighting? Why hugging with your bellies together is so important Do we all need touch? Words of wisdom for parents Shambhala Mountain Center Sept. 15th to 18th Wired for Love Couple's event Go to stantatkin.com and for counselor training www.Thepactinstitute.com Also see Wired for Love and Wired for Dating And for free meditations, weekly tips, stories and similar shows visit: www.InspireNationShow.com

LifeHouse Church Podcast
Wired For Love - Grant Morgan

LifeHouse Church Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2018 30:44


Are wired for something, are we wired for input? Are we wired for God, are we wired for experience? What will we discover in years to come that are things we crave without defining them, and what benefits do those things bring... Grant takes us through the leading research on being wired for love.

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Inspire Nation Show with Michael Sandler
HOW TO BUILD YOUR COUPLE BUBBLE!!! + Guided Meditation! Dr. Stan Tatkin | Health | Inspiration | Spiritual | Self-Help | Inspire

Inspire Nation Show with Michael Sandler

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2018 95:46


How To Build A Couple Bubble For Love and Happiness!!! If you've ever struggled with love, particularly in your relationship or marriage, then do we have the couple-building show for you! Today I'll be talking with Stan Tatkin, clinican, researcher, teacher, and developer of the psychobiological approach to couple therapy. He's also the author of four books including his latest, my new favorite couples book, Wired For Love. Today we'll be talking about building, protecting, and not-popping the couple bubble so you can defuse conflict and build a secure relationship. That plus we'll talk about the emote me game, the power of the insula, the orbitofrontal cortex, early birds and night owls, and why it's okay to be annoying, just not threatening! Self-Improvement and Self-Help Wired for Love Topics Include How'd Stan get into teaching vipassana? How he worked with John Bradshaw How'd he get into meditation What a sensory deprivation tank had to do with anything How he got interested in child and brain development while working with John Bradshaw How he got interested in preventing personality disorders How Jessica got interested in mindful pregnancy What is one of the most important premises in healthy child development? How do you support a mother raising her child What Thich Nhat Hanh says about caregivers and raising a child. What is a couple bubble? What chemistry takes place when we start dating. Why we make mistakes in relationships because our brains are relying on shortcuts What is normal in relationships Why a couple bubble has to do with secure functioning What's the dumb vagus? What's the insula What are the primitives? How do we bring in the ambassadors to prevent war? What does presence and attention have to do with preventing fights? What do islands, waves, and anchors have to do with anything? What are pleasing and soothing 101? What's the importance of knowing your partner? How to prevent things from being long-term problems? What are morning and nighttime rituals, and early birds and night owls? Why most problems in relationships have to do with separations and reunions Why you want to wish your partner well dead or alive before going to bed How do we fight? How do we come up with a win/win situation? What's it mean to wave the flag of friendliness? Why our brains are constantly filling in the blanks and why you shouldn't leave things blank What are the perils of digital fighting? Why hugging with your bellies together is so important Do we all need touch? Words of wisdom for parents Shambhala Mountain Center Sept. 15th to 18th Wired for Love Couple's event Go to stantatkin.com and for counselor training www.Thepactinstitute.com Also see Wired for Love and Wired for Dating Dr Stan Tatkin Shares Secrets to Improving & Protecting Your Romance & Relationship! Marriage | Mindfulness | Inspirational | Motivational | Spiritual | Spirituality | Guided Meditation | Sex | Self-Improvement | Happiness | Motivation | Self-Help For More Info Visit: www.InspireNationShow.com

Chris Grosso The Indie Spiritualist
Ep. 67 - Wired for Love with Stan Tatkin

Chris Grosso The Indie Spiritualist

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2017 57:17


Stan Tatkin, author of Wired for Love, joins Chris for a conversation about developing secure functioning relationships and navigating conflict with compassion and mindfulness.

Honest Mamas Podcast
Ep 17 Wired For Love-Cultivating Healthy Partnerships

Honest Mamas Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2017 50:24


Welcome to episode seventeen of the Honest Mamas Podcast. Today, our guest is Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, who is a clinician, researcher, teacher, and developer of A Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy® (PACT). He has a clinical practice in Calabasas, CA, where he has specialized for the last 15 years in working with couples and individuals who wish to be in relationships. He and his wife, Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin, developed the PACT Institute for the purpose of training other psychotherapists to use this method in their clinical practice. In addition, Dr. Tatkin teaches and supervises first- through third-year family medicine residents at Kaiser Permanente, Woodland Hills, CA, and is an assistant clinical professor at the UCLA David Geffen School of Medicine, Department of Family Medicine. He is on the board of directors of Lifespan Learning Institute and serves as a core member on Relationships First, a nonprofit organization founded by Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt. What you’ll hear in this episode   How Stan became an expert working with couples The three attachment styles in the PACT approach—the wave, anchor and island The way in which these attachment styles show up Working with our partners to crate safe and secure attachments How to deal with these issues as children come into the relationship Practical tips on how to manage conflict within a relationship Why you shouldn’t stay in an unhappy relationship just for the kids Resources https://stantatkin.com http://thepackardinstitute.com Ted Talk - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2xKXLPuju8U

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Empowerment Radio with Dr. Friedemann
Wired for Love - How to Understand Your Partners Brain and Attachment Style

Empowerment Radio with Dr. Friedemann

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2017


"What the heck is my partner thinking?" is a common refrain in romantic relationships, and with good reason. Every person is wired for love differently, with different habits, needs, and reactions to conflict. The good news is that most people's minds work in predictable ways and respond well to security, attachment, and rituals, making it possible to actually neurologically prime the brain for greater love and fewer conflicts. Dr. Friedemann Schaub's guest this week is Dr. Stan Tatkin, author of Wired for Love, a complete insiders guide to understanding your partners brain and enjoying a romantic relationship built on love and trust. Tune into Empowerment Radio and learn how how to create a secure-functioning relationship, how to have a good fight with your partner, why you need more than love to make a relationship work and much more.

Dr. Friedemann Schaub
Wired for Love - How to Understand Your Partners Brain and Attachment Style

Dr. Friedemann Schaub

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2017


"What the heck is my partner thinking?" is a common refrain in romantic relationships, and with good reason. Every person is wired for love differently, with different habits, needs, and reactions to conflict. The good news is that most people's minds work in predictable ways and respond well to security, attachment, and rituals, making it possible to actually neurologically prime the brain for greater love and fewer conflicts. Dr. Friedemann Schaub's guest this week is Dr. Stan Tatkin, author of Wired for Love, a complete insiders guide to understanding your partners brain and enjoying a romantic relationship built on love and trust. Tune into Empowerment Radio and learn how how to create a secure-functioning relationship, how to have a good fight with your partner, why you need more than love to make a relationship work and much more.

Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And Guide
ERP 107: How To Prioritize Relationship With Stan Tatkin

Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And Guide

Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2017 44:43


GUEST STAN TATKIN: Dr. Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a couple therapist known for his pioneering work in helping partners form happy, secure, and long-lasting relationships. His method—called PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy®)—draws on principles of neuroscience and teaches partners to become what he terms “secure-functioning.” Together with his wife, Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin, PhD, Dr. Tatkin founded the PACT Institute to train psychotherapists and other professionals how to incorporate his method into their practices with couples. Therapists from all over the world are being trained in this breakthrough approach. Dr. Tatkin has a private practice in Calabasas, CA, and is an assistant professor at the UCLA David Geffen School of Medicine, Department of Family Medicine. He is the author of several books, including the bestselling WIRED FOR LOVE and WIRED FOR DATING published by New Harbinger. (Please listen to the podcast episode or read the transcript to hear more explanations, stories and examples.) STAN TATKIN TALKED ABOUT: “Secure Functioning” is being in a relationship that is fully collaborative, fully mutual, and based on justice, fairness, and sensitivity. How a couple protects each other and how they handle stress together. Environmental threats may bring stress to the individuals and the couple, and helping couples regulate the stress through connection and relationship. Family culture – is relationship a priority? If relationship is not important and prioritized, than children often develop some level of insecure attachment. Cultural messages can be misleading and confusing (i.e. “Love yourself before you can love another.”) Couples often lack purpose in their union…why they are together? What is their partnership all about? What are their shared values, agreements, and principles that keep them committed? People with insecure attachment styles tend to behave in ways that are good for the self, but are not good for the relationship. How our neurobiology impacts our perception and memory, which in turn impacts the way we perceive and experience our partners in relationship. Naturally, we tend to have a negativity bias. Prioritizing emotional attunement in relationship. The importance of having loyalty to the couple system that provides a foundation of security, safety, and sustenance for the couple to thrive. ***UPCOMING PODCAST TOPICS*** I would love your input! Please let me know what topics interest you the most by filling out this very easy survey. Also, feel free to include other topics that you would like to hear episodes on. Thank you!!!!! I appreciate you!!!!! MENTIONED: Stan Tatkin (website) PACT Institute (website) Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner’s Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship Wired for Dating: How Understanding Neurobiology and Attachment Style Can Help You Find Your Ideal Mate Relationships Are Hard, But Why? Stan Tatkin (Ted Talk) TRANSCRIPT: Click on this link to access the transcript for this episode: ERP 107: How To Prioritize Relationship With Stan Tatkin [Transcript] If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here. Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship. Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here. Thank you!  If you are interested in developing new skills to overcome relationship challenges, please consider taking the Empowered Relationship Course or doing relationship coaching work with me.

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Inspire Nation Show with Michael Sandler
HOW TO BUILD A COUPLE BUBBLE!!! + Guided Meditation! Dr. Stan Tatkin | Health | Inspiration | Spiritual | Self-Help | Inspire

Inspire Nation Show with Michael Sandler

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2017 94:28


How To Build A Couple Bubble For Love and Happiness!!! If you've ever struggled with love, particularly in your relationship or marriage, then do we have the couple-building show for you! Today I'll be talking with Stan Tatkin, clinican, researcher, teacher, and developer of the psychobiological approach to couple therapy. He's also the author of four books including his latest, my new favorite couples book, Wired For Love. Today we'll be talking about building, protecting, and not-popping the couple bubble so you can defuse conflict and build a secure relationship. That plus we'll talk about the emote me game, the power of the insula, the orbitofrontal cortex, early birds and night owls, and why it's okay to be annoying, just not threatening! Self-Improvement and Self-Help Wired for Love Topics Include How'd Stan get into teaching vipassana? How he worked with John Bradshaw How'd he get into meditation What a sensory deprivation tank had to do with anything How he got interested in child and brain development while working with John Bradshaw How he got interested in preventing personality disorders How Jessica got interested in mindful pregnancy What is one of the most important premises in healthy child development? How do you support a mother raising her child What Thich Nhat Hanh says about caregivers and raising a child. What is a couple bubble? What chemistry takes place when we start dating. Why we make mistakes in relationships because our brains are relying on shortcuts What is normal in relationships Why a couple bubble has to do with secure functioning What's the dumb vagus? What's the insula What are the primitives? How do we bring in the ambassadors to prevent war? What does presence and attention have to do with preventing fights? What do islands, waves, and anchors have to do with anything? What are pleasing and soothing 101? What's the importance of knowing your partner? How to prevent things from being long-term problems? What are morning and nighttime rituals, and early birds and night owls? Why most problems in relationships have to do with separations and reunions Why you want to wish your partner well dead or alive before going to bed How do we fight? How do we come up with a win/win situation? What's it mean to wave the flag of friendliness? Why our brains are constantly filling in the blanks and why you shouldn't leave things blank What are the perils of digital fighting? Why hugging with your bellies together is so important Do we all need touch? Words of wisdom for parents Shambhala Mountain Center Sept. 15th to 18th Wired for Love Couple's event Go to stantatkin.com and for counselor training www.Thepactinstitute.com Also see Wired for Love and Wired for Dating Dr Stan Tatkin Shares Secrets to Improving & Protecting Your Romance & Relationship! Marriage | Mindfulness | Inspirational | Motivational | Spiritual | Spirituality | Guided Meditation | Sex | Self-Improvement | Happiness | Motivation | Self-Help For More Info Visit: www.InspireNationShow.com

Restoration Church of Northwest Arkansas
Love Shift - Wired for Love

Restoration Church of Northwest Arkansas

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2016 57:57


Pastor Todd Kitchen continues the sermon series entitled "Love Shift"

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Inspire Nation Show with Michael Sandler
HOW TO SPICE UP YOUR RELATIONSHIP! + COUPLES MEDITATION! Dr Stan Tatkin | Inspiration | Spiritual | Self-Help | Inspire

Inspire Nation Show with Michael Sandler

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2016 93:33


How To Build A Couple Bubble For Love and Happiness!!! If you've ever struggled with love, particularly in your relationship or marriage, then do we have the couple-building show for you! Today I'll be talking with Stan Tatkin, clinican, researcher, teacher, and developer of the psychobiological approach to couple therapy. He's also the author of four books including his latest, my new favorite couples book, Wired For Love. Today we'll be talking about building, protecting, and not-popping the couple bubble so you can defuse conflict and build a secure relationship. That plus we'll talk about the emote me game, the power of the insula, the orbitofrontal cortex, early birds and night owls, and why it's okay to be annoying, just not threatening! Self-Improvement and Self-Help Wired for Love Topics Include How'd Stan get into teaching vipassana? How he worked with John Bradshaw How'd he get into meditation What a sensory deprivation tank had to do with anything How he got interested in child and brain development while working with John Bradshaw How he got interested in preventing personality disorders How Jessica got interested in mindful pregnancy What is one of the most important premises in healthy child development? How do you support a mother raising her child What Thich Nhat Hanh says about caregivers and raising a child. What is a couple bubble? What chemistry takes place when we start dating. Why we make mistakes in relationships because our brains are relying on shortcuts What is normal in relationships Why a couple bubble has to do with secure functioning What's the dumb vagus? What's the insula What are the primitives? How do we bring in the ambassadors to prevent war? What does presence and attention have to do with preventing fights? What do islands, waves, and anchors have to do with anything? What are pleasing and soothing 101? What's the importance of knowing your partner? How to prevent things from being long-term problems? What are morning and nighttime rituals, and early birds and night owls? Why most problems in relationships have to do with separations and reunions Why you want to wish your partner well dead or alive before going to bed How do we fight? How do we come up with a win/win situation? What's it mean to wave the flag of friendliness? Why our brains are constantly filling in the blanks and why you shouldn't leave things blank What are the perils of digital fighting? Why hugging with your bellies together is so important Do we all need touch? Words of wisdom for parents Shambhala Mountain Center Sept. 15th to 18th Wired for Love Couple's event Go to stantatkin.com and for counselor training www.Thepactinstitute.com Also see Wired for Love and Wired for Dating Dr Stan Tatkin Shares Secrets to Improving & Protecting Your Romance & Relationship! Marriage | Mindfulness | Inspirational | Motivational | Spiritual | Spirituality | Guided Meditation | Sex | Self-Improvement | Happiness | Motivation | Self-Help For More Info Visit: www.InspireNationShow.com

Caught Between Generations – Merle Griff, PhD
Caught Between Generations – Stan Tatkin – Wired for Love

Caught Between Generations – Merle Griff, PhD

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2015 25:35


Author of Wired for Love Dr. Tatkin discusses the importance of couples being in a “couple bubble”. How do you put your relationship first when you are sitting in the proverbial foxhole? Learn how to use morning and evening rituals and other easy to implement techniques that will help you feel connected and make your life as a caregiver for … Read more about this episode...

Believer's Voice of Victory Audio Podcast
BVOV - Aug2715 - Wired for Love, Not Fear

Believer's Voice of Victory Audio Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2015 22:13


Believers Voice of Victory Audio Broadcast for Thursday 08/27/2015 God’s communication is always meant to inform and to build you up with the truth.  Join Kenneth and Gloria Copeland today as they welcome, Doctor Caroline Leaf, a world renowned neuroscientist.    

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Believer's Voice of Victory Video Podcast
BVOV - Aug2715 - Wired for Love, Not Fear

Believer's Voice of Victory Video Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2015 22:16


Believers Voice of Victory Video Broadcast for Thursday 08/27/2015 God’s communication is always meant to inform and to build you up with the truth.  Join Kenneth and Gloria Copeland today as they welcome, Doctor Caroline Leaf, a world renowned neuroscientist.  

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Scott Anderson's Warrior Academy
Wired For Love with author Stan Tatkin

Scott Anderson's Warrior Academy

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2015 57:32


On this episode, Scott Anderson and Jeff Suskin interview relationship rockstar Stan Tatkin, author of Wired for Love, Your Brain on Love, and the upcoming Wired for Dating.

Forest Grove Community Church

Sermons from Harry Strauss on November 16, 2014

Abundant Life Fellowship
The 300 - Wired for Love & War

Abundant Life Fellowship

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 13, 2014 64:42


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Abundant Life Fellowship
Helmet of Salvation - Wired for Love #7

Abundant Life Fellowship

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2014 54:47


Abundant Life Fellowship
Helmet of Salvation - Wired for Love #6

Abundant Life Fellowship

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2014 57:56


Abundant Life Fellowship
Helmet of Salvation - Wired for Love #5

Abundant Life Fellowship

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2014 61:33


Abundant Life Fellowship
Helmet of Salvation - Wired for Love #4

Abundant Life Fellowship

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2014 42:21


Abundant Life Fellowship
Helmet of Salvation - Wired for Love #3

Abundant Life Fellowship

Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2014 73:21


Abundant Life Fellowship
Helmet of Salvation - Wired for Love #2- cont

Abundant Life Fellowship

Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2014 64:23


Abundant Life Fellowship
Helmet of Salvation - Wired for Love #2

Abundant Life Fellowship

Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2014 51:51


Dr Judy WTF
Are we Wired for Love?

Dr Judy WTF

Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2014 55:00


Dr Judy WTF
Are we Wired for Love?

Dr Judy WTF

Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2014 57:29


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Abundant Life Fellowship
Helmet of Salvation - Wired for Love

Abundant Life Fellowship

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2014 49:07


Relationships 2.0 With Dr. Michelle Skeen
Guest: Stan Tatkin, author of Wired for Love

Relationships 2.0 With Dr. Michelle Skeen

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2012 44:40


Is it possible to maintain or re-ignite an exciting sexual relationship with your long-term partner? My guest this week is Stan Tatkin. Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a clinician, researcher, teacher, and developer of A Psychobiological Approach To Couples Therapy® (PACT) which integrates neuroscience, infant attachment, arousal regulation, and therapeutic enactment applied to adult primary attachment relationships. He maintains a practice in Calabasas, California, and runs a bi-weekly clinical study group for medical and mental health professionals and training programs in Los Angeles, San Francisco, Boulder, Seattle, Austin, and New Jersey.

Relationships 2.0 With Dr. Michelle Skeen
Guest: Stan Tatkin author of Wired for Love

Relationships 2.0 With Dr. Michelle Skeen

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2012 42:45


I’m excited to announce that Dr. Stan Tatkin will be joining me to discuss his book Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner’s Brain Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Spark Intimacy.

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