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What if being a good parent isn't about doing more, but simply being present? In this week's episode of The Science of Motherhood, Dr. Renee White sits down with award-winning filmmaker Hailey Bartholomew to explore what it really means to show up for our kids and ourselves.Hailey's latest documentary, Seen, is a heartfelt reflection on parenting, presence and the stories we carry from our own childhoods. With powerful insights from voices like Maggie Dent, Lael Stone, Nathan Wallis, Vanessa Lapointe, Selena Bartlett and Billy Garvey, the film invites us to rethink how we connect with our children and what they actually need from us.Together, Renee and Hailey dive into the creative process behind the film, the guilt and grace of parenting, and why sometimes the most transformative thing we can offer is our full attention.You'll hear about:Why emotional presence matters more than performanceThe imprints that shape us and how they show up in motherhoodWhat inspired Hailey to create Seen and the ripple effect of its messageHow creativity can help us process, reflect and reconnectWhere to find local screenings or host one in your communityThis episode is a tender, honest invitation to pause, reflect and remember that being present, even imperfectly, is more than enough.Resources and Links:Want to chat more about this? Connect with Renee on Instagram: @fillyourcup_Want to learn more about Dr Renee White and explore Fill Your Cup Doula servicesIf you want to gobble up our famous Chocolate + Goji lactation cookies , look no further!
Are you parenting the way you think you should—or the way that actually works best for your child? Parenting is one of the most rewarding yet challenging journeys, but many parents unknowingly follow outdated or ineffective methods. Dr. Vanessa Lapointe shares how she unlearned conventional parenting advice and embraced a connection-based approach that changed everything. Listen to this episode to learn: The surprising truth about why traditional parenting techniques often fall short. A powerful mindset shift that can help you build deeper connections with your children. Actionable steps to parent with confidence, clarity, and compassion. Discover a fresh perspective on parenting that prioritizes connection over control—tune in now to transform the way you guide your children!
For this episode I am joined by Dr Vanessa LaPointe who is an incredibly successful and widely celebrated psychologist specialising in parenting. We talk about behaviourist parenting - the way most of us were likely parented - and the impact that would have on us when it comes to anxiety later on. We focus heavily on the experience of parenting a highly anxious child (which is my personal experience at the moment) and look at precisely what three steps to take to move a child out of an acute anxiety phase as well as what to say to an anxious kid. Whether you're a parent of an anxious kid or were an anxious kid yourself, this will be a must listen. You can support this podcast by sharing it with a friend or signing up to my Substack. Read my personal essays on Substack here with a 20% (lifetime) listener discount.Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/owningittheanxietypodcast. Own your anxiety as and when it happens with Owning It: Real Time. The situation specific series of audio guides that helps you move through your most anxious moments. Available now on Acast+ https://plus.acast.com/s/owningittheanxietypodcast. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Do you ever feel confused about what "attachment parenting" or "gentle parenting" are? Do you ever feel like you're getting it all wrong, despite learning *all the things* from parenting experts online? You're not alone! This week Rachael welcomes Dr. Vanessa Lapointe- mom, parenting educator, best-selling author, international speaker- to shed light on the misconceptions around this style of parenting and why it can feel so hard sometimes. Inside this informative episode we hear from Dr. Vanessa all about parenting the child in front of us- keeping the relationship at the forefront. She discusses how we as parents can do the work on ourselves to cultivate what we want out of our children- without trying to change them! Also discussed: Holding boundaries and teaching respect Healing inner wounds as parents and "reparenting" ourselves The importance of Self-regulation and compassion The misconception of "well behaved" children Getting partners on board with this style of parenting Navigating parenting info and trusting your inner wisdom Dr. Vanessa Lapointe is a mom, parenting educator, best-selling author, international speaker, and a regularly invited media guest. She holds a doctoral degree in psychology, and practiced as a psychologist for nearly 20 years, before devoting her full-time energy to connecting with parents and other “big people” around the globe in 2023. Founder of The North Star Developmental Clinic, Dr. Vanessa has long been supporting families and children in her developmental clinic alongside her team and has previous experience in community mental health and the school system. Her passion is in walking alongside parents, teachers, care providers, and other big people to see the world through the child's eyes. She believes that if we can do this, we are beautifully positioned to grow up our children in the best possible way. Mentioned in this Episode: Dr Vanessa Membership Discipline Without Damage Course Navigating Anxiety in Childhood and Adolescence: The Online Course Rachael is a mom of 3, founder of Hey, Sleepy Baby, and the host of this podcast. Find Rachael: Instagram | Tiktok | Website ✨For gentle + responsive sleep support and parenting resources, visit heysleepybaby.com and follow @heysleepybaby on Instagram!
I'm joined by Dr. Vanessa Lapointe to discuss effective discipline strategies and how to approach those tough parenting moments with warmth, compassion, and understanding - for yourself and your child. In this episode, we dive into: - The profound impact of coregulation and why it's a crucial first step we don't want to skip if we want the discipline and lessons we're trying to teach our kids to stick. - How to navigate those “bad behavior” moments by rethinking the entire framework of discipline (Spoiler Alert: It starts with a mindset shift to help you understand how there is actually no such thing as “bad" behaviors.) - The up-side of having a more sensitive, reactive, or explosive kid - and how to nurture their more sensitive side to bring out their best qualities and help them manage their big emotions so they are more in control of their behaviors. - The powerful role of connection in discipline, including how to create a safe space where your child can learn and grow, even in the midst of challenging behaviors. - Strategies for parents struggling to keep their cool, working through feelings of guilt or shame, and understanding that it's never too late to implement new parenting approaches. If you've ever felt overwhelmed by traditional discipline methods or wondered how to discipline your child in a way that strengthens your bond, this episode is for you! LEARN MORE ABOUT DR. VANESSA LAPOINTE: https://drvanessalapointe.com/ READ DR. VANESSA'S BOOKS:
I'm proud to announce that our first-ever guest on this podcast is Dr Vanessa Lapointe! She really needs no introduction; her work spans the globe. Dr Vanessa is full of heart, kindness and compassion for parents, yet gives us a kick up the butt when we need. In this episode, we talked about what kids REALLY need from us, how to transition out of the old parenting paradigm, and even touched on the differences between discipline and punishment. Such a great conversation!***If this resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you. Email us at hello@stephaniepinto.com and send me your thoughts, feedback or questions!Have you joined my Facebook Group for parents? There are 100,000+ parents in the community!
WE ARE BACK and to kick off the return of Unstoppable, we have a very special guest returning... Dr. Vanessa Lapointe! Vanessa is a registered psychologist, parenting educator, best-selling author, international speaker, incredible mum, and all-round amazing human. As the Founder and Director of The Wishing Star Lapointe Developmental Clinic, she has been supporting families and children across the globe for almost 20 years. She joins me in the studio to talk about doing the inner work to set your children up for a lifetime of happiness and fulfillment. Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction to Dr. Vanessa Lapointe 3:40 - Helping your child starts with fixing yourself 11:12 - Why smacking doesn't work and the long-term consequences 27:32 - Raising kids that know how to love themselves 34:20 - Deep connection is the key to healthy independence 41:31 - Why children self-harm 45:00 - Diagnosing children vs their environment 58:17 - What it means to be a conscious parent 1:05:08 - Advice for co-parents 1:18:50 - How to do your inner work Find out more about Dr. Vanessa Lapointe and her work here: https://drvanessalapointe.com/ www.linkedin.com/in/dr-vanessa-lapointe-905ba637 www.instagram.com/dr.vanessalapointe/ www.tiktok.com/@drvanessalapointe SUBSCRIBE to my channel: ➡ https://www.youtube.com/c/KerwinRaeSy... __ Kerwin Rae is Australia's leading business strategist and high performance specialist helping over 100,000 businesses, in 154 different industries, throughout 11 countries world-wide, with his revolutionary, no bulls** approach to business growth and personal transformation. The entrepreneur has reached millions of people across the globe with his extensive social media following of well over a million people, and compelling content which covers business, mindset psychology, high performance, health, parenting and relationships. __ #KerwinRae Follow me on: WEBSITE: https://www.kerwinrae.com/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/kerwinrae/ FACEBOOK https://www.facebook.com/kerwinrae/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/kerwinrae LINKEDIN: https://au.linkedin.com/in/kerwinrae TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@kerwinrae PODCAST: https://www.kerwinrae.com/podcast/uns... COURSES: https://kerwinrae.mykajabi.com/store
How well is Ottawa handling its carbon tax policies after latest freeze? Guest: Kathryn Harrison, a professor of political science at the University of British Columbia How old is too old to trick or treat and does it matter? Guest: Dr. Vanessa Lapointe, child psychologist and parenting educator Canadian teen takes skateboarding gold at the Pan Am Games Guest: Fay De Fazio Ebert, skateboarding gold medalist, Pan Am Games Buffy Sainte-Marie's claims to Indigenous ancestry called into question Guest: Kim TallBear, professor, Faculty of Native Studies, University of Alberta Canada Research Chair in Indigenous Peoples, Technoscience, and Society How the female body drove 200 Million years of human evolution Guest: Cat Bohannon, author of Eve: How the Female Body Drove 200 Million Years of Human Evolution
In this episode we welcome back Dr Vanessa Lapointe who shares her parenting wisdom on understanding how to create an emotionally healthy and safe home for our children. We explore the unique role fathers play and how this impacts a child's ability to feel safe, express their emotions and depend on their dad. She also delves into emotional triggers as parents and how we can become curious with our own emotions to avoid projecting it onto our kids. As Vanessa says "When you are raising a child, it will bring you to your knees, the degree to which it will stir emotions from childhood and beyond..." We are excited to share this podcast with you!
In this thought-provoking episode, Vanessa Lapointe explores the concept of conscious parenting, emphasizing the transformative power of meeting children's developmental needs. Through kindness and firmness, conscious parents create a nurturing environment where children can thrive. Dr. Lapointe highlights the importance of establishing routines and boundaries while being generous with children, responding to their emotions with empathy and love. She unravels the fear many parents have of "messing up" their children, emphasizing the need for love as a life force and the healing potential of conscious parenting. By nurturing children's developmental needs, we foster true independence and embark on a journey of personal growth and meaningful connections. Though it may not be the easiest path in a predominantly behaviorist world, conscious parenting offers a roadmap to profound growth and meaningful connections with our children. Key Topics: ● The importance of being generous with children while establishing routines and boundaries to create a safe and nurturing environment. ● Understanding Developmental Needs. ● Making space for children's emotions and allowing them to feel fully seen and heard, even during challenging moments like temper tantrums. ● Healing Unconscious Parenting Moments. ● The journey of becoming conscious parents. Bio: Vanessa Lapointe, is a mom, parenting educator, best-selling author, international speaker, and regularly invited media guest. Her passion is in walking alongside parents, teachers, care providers, and other big people to really see the world through the child's eyes. She believes that if we can do this, we are beautifully positioned to raise our children in the best possible way. Her books are Discipline Without Damage and Parenting Right From The Start - both can be found on Amazon and in most bookshops. Her passion is in walking alongside parents, teachers, care providers, and other big people to really see the world through the child's eyes. She believes that if we can do this, we are beautifully positioned to raise our children in the best possible way. Where To Find Vanessa Lapointe: https://drvanessalapointe.com/ IG : https://www.instagram.com/dr.vanessalapointe/ FB : https://www.facebook.com/drvanessalapointe/ How to connect to Lorne Brown online and in person (Vancouver, BC) Acubalance.ca book virtual or in person conscious work sessions with Dr. Lorne Brown Lornebrown.com - videos & more offerings Conscious hacks and tools to optimize your fertility by Dr. Lorne Brown: https://acubalance.ca/conscious-work/ Download a free copy of the Acubalance Fertility Diet & Recipes and a copy of the ebook 5 Ways to Maximize Your Chances of Getting Pregnant from Acubalance.ca Connect with Lorne and the podcast on Instagram: @acubalancewellnesscentre @conscious_fertility_podcast @lorne_brown_official DISCLAIMER: By listening to this podcast, you agree not to use it as medical advice to treat any medical condition in either yourself or others. This podcast offers information to help the listener cooperate with physicians, mental health professionals or other healthcare providers in a mutual quest for optimal well-being. We advise listeners to carefully review and understand the ideas presented, and to consult your own physician for any medical issues that you may be having. Under no circumstances shall Acubalance, any guests or contributors to the Conscious Fertility podcast, or any employees, associates, or affiliates of Acubalance be responsible for damages arising from the use of the podcast.
Many moms struggle with body image and a lack of self-esteem—and we don't want to pass those things on to our children. But understanding how to raise confident kids isn't easy. How do we break patterns fueled by diet culture, people-pleasing, and generational cycles? Today, I'm joined by parenting educator and author Dr. Vanessa Lapointe to discuss how to raise confident kids. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/3P3QISj Book a Free 15 min Consult with a mom therapist: momwell.com Follow Momwell on Instagram: instagram.com/momwell Sign up for our weekly VIP Newsletter: momwell.com/newsletter Register for one of our popular workshops and courses: momwell.com/shop Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Welcome Mamas, to our next MATRESCENCE MOMENTS RETROSPECTIVE EPISODE.Dr Vanessa Lapointe has an interesting take on the purpose of parenting. Sure, having children is about expanding your family and experiencing unconditional love, but at the core of it, she believes that parenting is here to challenge us - to challenge us to grow, to look at our old belief patterns, and to push us to expand and grow. Looking back, it's obvious that's what parenting is all about. We have a false belief that becoming a mama will be the happiest time in our lives - and hard truth: it's actually one of the least happiest. At least, that's what the research Dr Lapointe shares in this podcast says. However, despite the struggles and challenges, the same research also shows us that it is the most fulfilling time of our lives. So how do we navigate all the deep challenges of raising another human being? In this inspiring episode, Dr Lapointe walks us through an understanding of how our brains work, and how we can be kind towards ourselves as we grow along side our children. -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------FIND MORE FROM VANESSA HERE:https://www.instagram.com/dr.vanessalapointe/https://www.facebook.com/drvanessalapointe/https://twitter.com/DrVlapointe-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------Please visit my website: https://www.amytaylorkabbaz.com and: https://mamarising.net/ to submit questions for Mama Q, our new Q&A podcast session, where we answer your questions regarding Matrescence and motherhood.------------------------------------------------------------------------------------WOULD YOU LIKE TO KNOW...-How motherhood changes your core identity-What the 'Inner Split' is, and how to come to terms with this change within you-How to stop being torn between all the roles you have to play-How to see yourself, your body, and all your relationships differently-How to stop being so hard on yourself and, in turn, stop being so resentful towards your loved onesThen register for a set of live coaching calls with me, Amy Taylor Kabbaz.HAVE THE UNIQUE OPPORTUNITY TO JOIN AMY AND HUNDREDS OF OTHERS TO ASK QUESTIONS, LISTEN, HEAL AND RISE TOGETHER.CLICK the LINK to find out more:https://www.amytaylorkabbaz.com/tboy/-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Within these conversations, we change the way mothers are valued and seen in our society and spread the whispers of Matrescence together.------------------------------------------------------------------------------------[Time Stamps][00:00] - Acknowledgements[00:40] - Intro[02:04] - The REal Purpose of Parenting[04:22] - The Inner-Me-Mama[05:44] - Consciousness is Central[06:47] - The Iceberg[08:13] - Springing Through the Flowers[09:28] - A Little Naivete[09:44] - The Magic Wand[11:55] - We Choose Every Feeling[12:58] - The Holocaust in Her[14:07] - Outro
EPISODE 18: Ever wished you could go back and talk to your younger self and tell them everything you wish you'd known?Well, in this week's podcast, we're going to do just that.In it, we asked 21 parenting experts the same question: What message do you have for parents who are struggling, who are where you were at the start of your journey?Because parenting is hard. And sometimes, it can feel like we can barely keep our head above water. These experts are here to offer you a life raft so you can go from barely surviving the storm to thriving. Listen in to learn more.Key Takeaways:Intro (00:00)The magic of letting go with Amanda Diekman (03:17)You're not failing with Alyssa Blask Campbell (04:58)Understanding the executive function with Seth Perler (06:13)The five core principles with Aliza Pressman (08:32)Know less with Cathy Cassani Adams (10:25)What is our role as parents with Penny Williams (12:45)Behavior as a cue or glue with Robyn Gobbel (14:40)Embrace the temporariness with Vanessa Kroll Bennett (16:42)Don't get mad. Get Curious with Sarah R. Moore (17:42)“How do I be when...” with Dr. Vanessa Lapointe (18:49)What is self-compassion with Mona Delahooke (19:47)You are enough with Debbie Reber (20:30)Be empathetic with JoAnn Crohn (21:17)The world of mindfulness with Hunter Clarke-Fields (22:44)Drop the what-ifs with Amanda Morin (23:40)Be compassionate with Sarah Rosensweet (24:34)Disability is not an emergency with Meghan Ashburn (25:36)You're not alone with Heidi Mavir (27:12)Comfort can be quiet with Katie Hurley (28:56)Be a coach and mentor to your kids with Debbie Steinberg Kuntz (29:52)You can with Colleen Kessler (32:02)Additional resources:
If you want to go deep into conscious parenting, heal from your childhood traumas, and learn tools to create a new path as a parent for your children filled with understanding, forgiveness, and love then this is definitely the episode for you! Today's guest is a mom, Parent Counselor, International Speaker, and Best-Selling Author. Dr Vanessa Lapointe is the Parent Whisperer and she's been supporting families and children for almost 20 years. Dr. Vanessa is known for bringing a sense of nurturing understanding and humanity to all of her work. Her passion is in walking alongside parents, teachers, care providers, and other big people to really see the world through the child's eyes. She believes that if we can do this, we are beautifully positioned to grow up our children in the best possible wayhttps://drvanessalapointe.comIG: @dr.vanessalapointehttps://www.facebook.com/drvanessalapointe/Buy Vanessa's Books: https://www.amazon.ca/Books-Dr-Vanessa-Lapointe/s?rh=n%3A916520%2Cp_27%3ADr.+Vanessa+Lapointe
Shouting? Time outs? Shaming? You don't have to do any of this to effectively discipline your child. So how do you teach your kids right from wrong? We're revisiting one of our most popular episodes. Vanessa Lapointe, the author of Discipline Without Damage, joins Maggie Dent to share the best way to discipline your child without punishing them, how to teach them to make good choices, and why discipline is a long game. The advice provided in this podcast is general in nature and does not take into account your personal situation. If you require further advice specific to your needs please consult a professional. Host: Maggie Dent Producer: Kim Lester Consulting Producer: Carmen Myler Executive Producer: Justine Kelly Sound design: Isabella Tropiano / Ann-Marie Debettencor Field recordings: Anne-Marie Middlemast
Shouting? Time outs? Shaming? You don't have to do any of this to effectively discipline your child. So how do you teach your kids right from wrong? We're revisiting one of our most popular episodes. Vanessa Lapointe, the author of Discipline Without Damage, joins Maggie Dent to share the best way to discipline your child without punishing them, how to teach them to make good choices, and why discipline is a long game. The advice provided in this podcast is general in nature and does not take into account your personal situation. If you require further advice specific to your needs please consult a professional. Host: Maggie Dent Producer: Kim Lester Consulting Producer: Carmen Myler Executive Producer: Justine Kelly Sound design: Isabella Tropiano / Ann-Marie Debettencor Field recordings: Anne-Marie Middlemast
Welcome to The Dad Central Show, where we are honored to host the incredible Dr. Vanessa Lapointe, renowned parenting expert and author of the best-selling book, "Discipline Without Damage." As a mom, counsellor, and international speaker with almost 20 years of experience, Dr. Vanessa has touched the lives of countless families through her nurturing understanding and compassionate approach. In this enlightening episode, Dr. Vanessa shares her personal journey, reflecting on her own upbringing and the profound influence of her relationship with her father. Drawing from her extensive expertise, she provides invaluable guidance specifically tailored for dads. With a focus on avoiding harmful consequences, Dr. Vanessa empowers fathers to confidently navigate the challenges of parenting, ensuring they don't unintentionally create damage in their children's lives. Prepare to be captivated by this thought-provoking discussion as Dr. Vanessa unveils practical strategies, insights, and heartfelt advice. With her wisdom and relatability, she equips dads with the tools needed to forge deep connections with their children while fostering healthy growth and development. Tune in as we embark on a journey of understanding, growth, and transformation, arming dads with the knowledge and confidence to raise resilient, well-rounded children. About Dr Lapointe Dr. Vanessa Lapointe is a mom, counsellor, parenting educator, best-selling author, international speaker, and a regularly invited media guest. Founder of The Wishing Star Lapointe Developmental Clinic, she has been supporting families and children for almost 20 years, and has previous experience in community mental health and the school system. Dr. Vanessa is known for bringing a sense of nurturing understanding and humanity to all of her work. Her passion is in walking alongside parents, teachers, care providers, and other big people to really see the world through the child's eyes. She believes that if we can do this, we are beautifully positioned to grow up our children in the best possible way. Links: Website: https://drvanessalapointe.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/DrVlapointe Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drvanessalapointe/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.vanessalapointe/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-vanessa-lapointe-r-psych-905ba637 About The Dad Central Show: Dads love to see their kids grow into confident and successful adults. The problem is most dads feel unsure how to get there and have nowhere to turn for help. The Dad Central Show coaches you to be your best, while bringing out the best in your family. Links for Dad Central: Website: https://dadcentral.ca The Dad Central Show: https://dadcentral.ca/podcast/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/dadcentral Twitter: https://twitter.com/dadcentral_ont Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dadcentralontario LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/dadcentral/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCs2HyxB9nOLxyHvBMSo4TQQ Contact us at podcast@dadcentral.ca The Dad Central Show is sponsored by Dove Men+Care. Dove Men+Care believes care is the best of a man, because when men care for themselves and others, there is a positive impact.
Dr. Vanessa Lapointe, R.Psych #1856, is a mom, registered psychologist, parenting educator, best-selling author, international speaker, and a regularly invited media guest. Founder and director of The Wishing Star Lapointe Developmental Clinic, she has been supporting families and children for almost 20 years, and has previous experience in community mental health and the school system. Dr. Vanessa is known for bringing a sense of nurturing understanding and humanity to all of her work. Her passion is in walking alongside parents, teachers, care providers, and other big people to really see the world through the child's eyes. She believes that if we can do this, we are beautifully positioned to grow up our children in the best possible way. Find out more about Dr. Vanessa Lapointe at https://drvanessalapointe.com.See omny.fm/listener for privacy information.
Psychologist Dr Vanessa Lapointe discusses the recent stats on the negative effects of social media on our youth's mental health. We also discuss the film “The Cost Of Beauty” - a 3 minute heart-wrencher of a documentary about a mother and daughter ‘s journey of how social media created a deadly eating disorder. Dr Lapointe discusses Dove's Self Esteem Project and their latest project to encourage parents to petition for changes to the Kids Online Safety Act to put youth mental health ahead of profits. You can find the movie, The Cost of Beauty, and the petition form, youth mental health hubs here: https://www.dove.com/ca/en/stories/campaigns/kids-online-safety.htmlDownload the confidence kit here: https://www.dove.com/ca/en/dove-self-esteem-project/help-for-parents.htmlMore about Dr Vanessa LaPointe here: https://drvanessalapointe.comIf you like my podcast Parenting The Adlerian Way – please like, share and write a review! Also, check out The Daily Adler e-newsletter and podcast so you can get inspirational personal development in your inbox daily! https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/daily-adler/id1671211692https://dailyadler.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
As Feed Play Love rolls to a close after 8 years of production, we're bringing back some of our favourite interviews - enjoy! Discipline can mean different things to different people. To that cranky man in the supermarket - it's a short cuff around the ear. To your partner it might be 'time out' or a stern talking to. But psychologist Vanessa Lapointe says that discipline is about punishment, and that it's possible to apply the principles of discipline without yelling at or hurting our kids. Vanessa has written a book called Discipline without DamageShe takes us through her philosophy and how it works.not.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
So many of my conversations during the pandemic have steered toward mental health, especially when talking about parenting. So, I thought who better to talk about it than Registered Child Psychologist, Dr Vanessa Lapointe? Episode 92 with Dr Vanessa on parenting is one of our most popular episodes, so I know you will get so much out of this interview as we talk about: Types of mental health issues facing our children today How to effectively start conversations with our kids Serious issues like self harm / cutting and much more. If you would like to pick up some gems on how to parent in today's world you have come to the right place! Show notes: www.elaineskitchentable.com/132 Connect with Dr. Vanessa Lapointe: Website: https://drvanessalapointe.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.vanessalapointe/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drvanessalapointe Connect with Elaine: Website: https://elaineskitchentable.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elainetancomeau LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elainetancomeau/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ElainesKitchenTable Twitter: https://twitter.com/chatwithelaine Get a free chapter from Elaine's book, Sell Your Passion: https://elaineskitchentable.com/book/ Episode Sponsor: Episode Sponsor: UPS, visit ups.com/beunstoppable/ca to save more than 50% on your shipping!
This interview is back by popular demand Children are all born with their own personalities, and when that personality is completely different to yours it can be challenging. How do you help support a child who is naturally introverted when your modus operandi is loud and proud? Dr Vanessa Lapointe is a psychologist, author and parenting educator. She shows us how to see the world from our introvert's eyes, and what they need most to thrive. Find out more about Vanessa at her website: https://drvanessalapointe.com/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Join our mail list here for exclusive content here. Sign up for our Coaching here; https://abty.co.uk/coaching On episode 201 I welcome back one of my favourite guests of all time, Dr. Vanessa Lapointe. Dr. Vanessa is the author of two parenting books, Parenting Right From the Start and Discipline Without Damage. Dr. Vanessa's mantra is to See It, Feel It, Be It and wants you to feel like there isn't an expert in the world that could possibly know better than you what your child needs, or what you need as a parent. In this episode you will hear: 03:30 Parenting right from the start 07:00 before we became fathers we were first sons 10:30 see it, feel it, be it 13:30 our most sacred role as a parent 18:00 all children will suffer their greatest wounds at the hands of their parent 20:00 your children have been gifted to you 24:00 firm is kind 29:00 let them foray into the stretch zone 31:00 independence isn't a behaviour it's an experience 36:00 in our house we parent through connection 43:00 faith it til you make it 45:30 the pull away from the home 47:00 parenting Prince Louis 50:00 question from David - connection with teens 55:00 question from Clare(s) - the techno tantrum 01:01:00 Dr V's Heartprint 01:03:30 A Good Father is… 01:05:00 it is time to awaken the village I hope this interview inspires your heart-centred parenting. Please do subscribe, leave a little review, and share it with a parent you wish to inspire too. Always love Ryan Connect with Dr. Vanessa Lapointe Website: https://drvanessalapointe.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.vanessalapointe/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-vanessa-lapointe-r-psych-905ba637 FB: https://www.facebook.com/drvanessalapointe/ Connect with Always Better than Yesterday Website: https://abty.co.uk/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alwaysbetterthanyesterdayuk/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@abty_uk LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/abty/ Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/weareabty Thank you to our friends at Elevate OM, proud supporters of the Always Better than Yesterday Interview Sessions. Head to https://www.elevateom.com/ for Online Marketing & Web Design services that are affordable, bespoke & awesome. Please email your questions and comments to podcast@abty.co.uk
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Timestamps01:21 What is discipline?03:11 How to step away from punishment04:17 Put yourself inside their experience04:45 Children are normal in the way they present themselves05:20 Parents struggle to see their children neutrally 06:27 Our children invite us to grow ourselves up so that we can grow them up07:43 Central developmental realities08:43 Emergent phase 09:51 QTIP - Quit Taking It Personally12:00 Adaptive12:41 Adaptive = vulnerable 13:10 Point of connection creates context to parent14:30 Firm & kind14:45 The Parenting Mountain18:40 Working on ourselves19:30 Connection21:23 Toddlers who bite21:55 Flag drop23:45 Do we need to deal with the problem immediately?28:45 Techniques 29:05 We cannot control a child who has lost control of themselves31:05 Give in & come alongside 32:25 Children are human beings33:20 Do children understand their emotions?36:14 What do parents do with themselves?36:51 We have to be self full in order to be selfless 39:45 Self care is not about going and getting a massage40:50 Psychological distance42:26 We were never meant to go this alone44:30 Take home message - The bottom line is relationshipDr. Vanessa LaPointe Dr. Vanessa LaPointe is a mom, registered psychologist, parenting educator, best-selling author, international speaker, and a regularly invited media guest. Founder and director of The Wishing Star Lapointe Developmental Clinic, she has been supporting families and children for almost 20 years, and has previous experience in community mental health and the school system.Dr. Vanessa is known for bringing a sense of nurturing understanding and humanity to all of her work. Her passion is in walking alongside parents, teachers, care providers, and other big people to really see the world through the child's eyes. She believes that if we can do this, we are beautifully positioned to grow up our children in the best possible way.Discipline without Damage When your child is threatening a meltdown in the grocery aisle, is it really possible to keep your cool, correct the behaviour, and reinforce healthy development, all at the same time? In this easy-to-read, science-based book, parents, caregivers, and big people of all kinds will discover how discipline affects children's development, why intervention should reinforce connection, not separation, and why the disciplinary strategies that may have been used on us as children are not the ones that children really need.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Children are all born with their own personalities, and when that personality is completely different to yours it can be challenging. How do you help support a child who is naturally introverted when your modus operandi is loud and proud? Dr Vanessa Lapointe is a psychologist, author and parenting educator. She shows us how to see the world from our introvert's eyes, and what they need most to thrive. Find out more about Vanessa at her website: https://drvanessalapointe.com/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Psychologist Dr. Vanessa Lapointe talks how to stop being angry mommy, how fear creates separation and the reason children need to leave the nest to grow.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In today's episode Dr. Vanessa Lapointe, registered psychologist, joins us to discuss aggressive behavior in children and how to mediate it. We discuss how to be curious about your child's behavior – zooming out can be informative about why your child is being aggressive. Dr. Lapointe answers important questions like: How do parents play a part in their child's aggressive behavior? Should you feel guilty when your child acts out? How can aggressive play be beneficial to your child's development?Dr. Lapointe explains that how we were parented as children influences how we parent our own children. She talks about how parenting couples need to embody both firmness and kindness to maintain balance within the home. We also touch on the idea of the “good enough parent” and what that could look like. Lastly, we chat about how screentime and friend groups can play into aggressiveness and how to draw your children back to you while still letting them experience life. Join Dr. Lapointe on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.vanessalapointe/ or on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drvanessalapointe Visit her website: https://drvanessalapointe.com/ Check out her books: HEREHold on to your kids: HEREThank you to our supporter the Tanenbaum Open Science Institute at The Neuro. The Neuro is the first health sciences institution in the world to commit to Open Science, an approach to research that ensures scientific knowledge is shared widely and transparently.Please leave a rating for our podcast on iTunes!Join our community:Instagram: @curious_neuronWebsite: www.curiousneuron.comPodcast website: www.curiousneuron.com/curiousneuronpodcastThe Science PawdcastThe Science Pawdcast breaks down the latest science happening in the human world AND...Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify
If you're find yourself asking, am I doing this parenting thing right. This podcast is 100% for you.... hint you're likely only getting it right about 30% of the time... double hint, so is everyone else. Meet Dr Vanessa Lapointe, a registered psychologist, speaker, author, and mom to two growing boys. Dr. Vanessa I has devoted her work-life to better understanding how we (the parents) can best serve our children as we navigate this incredible adventure called child development. Meet Guest: Dr. Vanessa Lapointe This Podcast is brought to you by our sponsors: kiwico.com - Code: TLC - Get 30% off your first month plus FREE shipping on ANY crate line vionicshoes.com Enjoy FREE SHIPPING with promo code: LAUGH Nuuly.com -Code LAUGH10 - Get $10 off your first month Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Do your kids ever make you want to pull your hair out with their wacky antics? Do you stress out when your children do unsafe things due to their self-perception of invincibility? Maybe most importantly, do you worry that you have no idea how to parent your “invincible” kids? Well, this episode is for you, because the things I'm gonna lay down are going to allow you to take so much pressure off your shoulders about doing the right thing when it comes to parenting. We put so much pressure on ourselves to parent “the right way” — whatever that means! HA! I have to constantly remind myself that I'm not as big and powerful as my ego wants me to think that I am, especially when raising kids. Continuing what we talked about last week in episode 155, I'm going to talk about that theme. We aren't powerful enough to mess up whatever destiny holds in store for our kids. We can lay groundwork for their success, and we can do everything “right” according to our limited vision, and they will still do some things (or maybe many things) very differently from what we imagined for them. Kids do wonky stuff! I know I did, and we're going to share our crazy wonky “I was the invincible kid” stories I asked you for on Facebook. But remember, when your kids are doing wonky stuff, that you did equally crazy things. This is a growth experience. That is part of their soul contract, agreed upon between them and God, or the Universe, however you look at it, before they were born. On the other side of the coin, we're not powerful enough that we can make what our children do mean something about us, try as we might to externalize our value and worthiness to them. All that does is make YOU upset. A child's wrongdoing or right-doing does not affect your worthiness or enough-ness for good or ill, so stop making “how your children behave” a criterion for feeling worthy or fulfilled. Dr. Vanessa Lapointe has some valuable tips about this, and the link to that video (https://fb.watch/dgRDqUolZS/) will be on my blog and in my newsletter. As you practice having grace and compassion for your kids through their “invincibility” learning experiences, giving them an abundance of love and affection, and allowing them to be what their destiny intends for them to be, I promise you will see good things in your life! Remember: you've got this! Subscribe on Apple! Subscribe on Android! Join my FREE parenting bootcamp! Let's Connect! Here's where you can find me: Learn more at https://www.coachingkelly.com. Find me on Instagram! Find me on Facebook!
Am I being too tough? Am I being too soft? Am I doing any of this right? We all ask these questions of ourselves, wondering if we could be doing better. Dr. Vanessa Lapointe, registered psychologist, parenting educator, founder and director of The Wishing Star Lapointe Developmental Clinic, and author of Discipline Without Damage, is here to help us find balance, with some guidance on how to be a firm and kind parent. *New!* Watch video clips from this episode on the Mindful Mama Youtube channel! If you enjoyed this episode, and it inspired you in some way, I'd love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @mindfulmamamentor. Have you left a review yet? All you have to do is go to Apple Podcasts or Stitcher (or wherever you listen), and thanks for your support of the show! Takeaways: Respectful parenting is finding a balance between being both firm and kind In safe parent-child relationships, a child instinctively leans into the parent's guidance and care It's never too late to turn it around, but expect some resistance at first Dr. Vanessa Lapointe is a mom, registered psychologist, parenting educator, best-selling author, international speaker, and mom to two growing boys. Founder and director of The Wishing Star Lapointe Developmental Clinic, she has been supporting families and children for almost 20 years and has previous experience in community mental health and the school system. Her passion is in walking alongside parents, teachers, care providers, and other big people to really see the world through the child's eyes. She believes that if we can do this, we are beautifully positioned to grow up our children in the best possible way. Get Hunter's book, Raising Good Humans now! Click here to order and get book bonuses! ABOUT HUNTER CLARKE-FIELDS: Hunter Clarke-Fields is a mindful mama mentor. She coaches smart, thoughtful parents on how to create calm and cooperation in their daily lives. Hunter has over 20 years of experience in mindfulness practices. She has taught thousands worldwide. Be a part of the tribe—we're over 25 thousand strong! Join the Mindful Parenting membership. Take your learning further! Get my Top 2 Best Tools to Stop Yelling AND the Mindful Parenting Roadmap for FREE at: mindfulmamamentor.com/stopyelling/ Want to teach Mindful Parenting? Learn more about the Mindful Parenting Teacher Training program here: mindfulparentingcourse.com/teach/ Find more podcasts, blog posts, free resources, and how to work with Hunter at MindfulMamaMentor.com. Be sure to check out this deal from this week's sponsor: Go to GreenChef.com/hunter130 and use code hunter130 to get $130 off, plus free shipping!
There is a lot of advice out there on how to deal with bullies. But when you're confronted with the experience in real life it can feel incredibly nuanced and even awkward. Dr Vanessa Lapointe is a psychologist and author who leads from the heart. In this interview she gives us some excellent advice on how to identify if you child is being bullied, how to respond appropriately, and what to do if your child is the bully. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Dr. Vanessa is a registered psychologist, speaker, author, parenting educator, and a mom to two growing boys.She's been preaching her work and messages for over 20 years now and "Discippline without Damage" is still the no.1 requested topic and in this podcast, you'll see why!We chat about certain topics & tips in the book such as:What happened when her 3 half yr old son punched her in the nose at a a play centre in front of a line up of other mums and how she handled itHow to escape the discipline vortex. How important connection between big people and children is and what that looks likeWhy and how stop using the disconnect as a disciplinary techniqueHow toddlers can only hold 1 significant idea in their mind at a time and what this meansDiscipline is not something you do, as it something you be (See it, feel it, be it ) Intuitive boundaries …How to set one and how to know when to let a boundary go ? Dropping a flag and why this might just be the best tool you can use How to actually creating TRULY independent children What she thinks about the common phrase “sharing is caring”How to deal with mum guilt and trying to be the perfect parentGo to https://drvanessalapointe.com/ or follow her @dr.vanessalapointe on instagram to connect with her and her many offerings!
While separation can be painful the best evidence says that if you can put your kids first in a separation, they will be okay. But what happens when your ex-partner is more concerned with 'getting even' or exploring their new single life than they are being their for their kids? Dr Vanessa Lapointe is a psychologist, author and mum of two who has been through separation. She explains why it only takes one parent to show up for their kids, and how you can do it well. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
If you've ever heard a child cry out "but it's not faaaaair" you will be interested in this interview. Psychologist and author Dr Vanessa Lapointe explains why your children might constantly fight over who is in the front seat, or even over something as mundane as a favourite cup. Vanessa also has some great practical tips on how to manage the situation after you hear that first cry of "but it's not faaaair!!" See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
"Children need connection, relationship and attachment more than they need anything else" Dr Vanessa Lapointe Learn how to have a positive influence on children's wellbeing during times of transition. In this fascinating episode, Meg chats to acclaimed psychologist Dr Vanessa Lapointe about the impact of the Covid pandemic on our young people. Learn about the effects of remote learning and the feelings and behaviours that could arise going back to school. Episode 20 show notes Connect Dr Vanessa Lapointe - Website | Instagram | Facebook Meg Durham - Website | Instagram | LinkedIn
Today's episode is a compilation episode. I have put together short clips from some of your favorite conversations to remind you of what's important in parenting, to give you a boost of inspiration and positivity. in the new year. I created this compilation episode so that you can start the new year with renewed energy and intention, a sense of hope and possibility, unshakable confidence that you are a good parent, courage to look within, a fresh perspective to keep your eyes on the big picture, a trust to be guided with your heart, a commitment to become comfortable with your own discomfort and befriend your emotions, willingness to examine your own patterns and shortcomings and of course a strong practice of self- compassion. You'll hear from Melisa Bernstein, Ned Johnson, Bill Stixrud, Ellen Gottlied, Bridgett Miller, Vanessa Lapointe, Howard Glasser, Laura Froyen and Laney- a thirteen year old girl. I really enjoyed putting this episode together. I hope you enjoy listening! 286: How To Talk to Kids with Bill Stixrud and Ned Johnson 279 Awakening Greatness in Kids with Howard Glasser 284 The Hard Truth about Parenting the Conscious Way with Ellen Gottlieb 208 How to Be a Confident Parent with Vanessa LaPointe 275 Don't Fix Yourself, Accept Yourself with Melisa Bernstein 226 Practicing Conscious Parenting with Bridgett Miller 238 The Secret to Getting Kids to Listen and Cooperate with Laura Froyen and Anna Seewald 298 How to Build Closeness with Your Kids BECOME A SUPPORTER OF THE SHOW 1. With your support we can continue the production of the podcast uninterruptedly. You can choose a level of support on Patreon.com by becoming a patron. 2. One time donations are also deeply appreciated. Give from the heart now. FULL SHOW NOTES www.authenticparenting.com/podcast ABOUT ME I help overwhelmed, frustrated parents who want to parent differently than their parents, make sense of their early childhood experiences, connect to their authentic self and their children on a deeper level, reduce stress, bring more ease, calm and joy into their lives by yelling less, and practicing non-punitive discipline. WORK WITH ME Listeners of the podcast get 10% on my coaching services. I would be thrilled to support you in your parenting journey! Click here to get started with my Introductory (3 Sessions) Package or REAL Change Package - 6 Private Coaching Sessions-worldwide! :) Court-Ordered Parenting Classes (in person NJ, NY,and PA residents only) YOUR FEEDBACK IS VALUABLE! Do you have a comment, question, or a takeaway about this episode or the podcast in general? USA listeners call 732-763-2576 right now and leave a voicemail. International listeners use the FREE Speak Pipe tool on my website. Add your voice. It matters! Email: info@authenticparenting.com SUBMIT YOUR PARENTING QUESTIONS TO BE ANSWERED IN THE SHOW: Voicemail: 732-763-2576 Speak Pipe for sending audio messages Email: info@authenticparenting.com CONNECT WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA Authentic Parenting on Facebook Instagram NEED PARENTING SUPPORT? Join the Authentic Parenting FREE online community Thanks for listening! With gratitude, Anna Seewald, M.Ed, M.Psy Parent Educator, Keynote Speaker, Author www.authenticparenting.com
Leslie Roberts, filling in for Evan Solomon, speaks with CTV medical analyst Dr. Mitch Shulman on what parents need to know as children become eligible to book COVID-19 vaccine appointments. On today's show: Dr. Mitch Shulman, CTV medical analyst, on parents now being able to book COVID-19 vaccine appointments for their children. Ari Goldkind, CTV legal analyst and criminal defence lawyer, on whether the bus driver convicted in the Humboldt Broncos crash should be deported. Dr. Vanessa Lapointe, a registered psychologist and parenting educator on Little Tikes making a Peloton-like bike for kids. Anthony Koch, a former campaign surrogate for Erin O'Toole on the future of the Conservative Party. Documentary filmmaker Michael Toledano who has been released after being arrested while covering pipeline protests on Wet'suwet'en territory. Philippe Fournier, polling analyst, on Canadians' satisfaction with how governments are handling COVID-19.
In her newest book, Parenting Right From The Start, Dr. Vanessa writes, “to believe that your thoughts are your concrete reality is probably one of the most torturous misconceptions humans experience.” In this episode, Vanessa describes how the practice of ‘thinking about our thinking' allows us to select narratives that will best serve ourselves and our children.
If you're a parent, planning to be a parent or have ever had a parent then this episode is going to float your boat. I have dubbed Dr Vanessa Lapointe 'The Parent Whisperer'. Dr Vanessa is one of the world's most respected voices in child psychology. She is also child, a mother, a wife, a best selling author, a world renowned speaker and someone I am incredibly proud to be introducing you to today if you've never stumbled across her before. I pick Dr Vanessa's brains on early childhood development and how the environment and relationship with the parents influence this. We talk about the crucial necessity for boredom, schooling and education, developmental disorders and nurturing an abused child. Oh, and of course how child psychology almost always reveals the parents 'hurt buttons'. I know you're going to LOVE Vanessa! EPISODE SPONSOR | PTERRAQUA HEALING & COACHING www.naturaltherapypages.com.au/connect/amanda_johnson/service/67668 DR VANESSA LAPOINTE Website: https://drvanessalapointe.com TIFFANEE COOK Linktree: https://linktr.ee/rollwiththepunches Website: www.rollwiththepunches.com.au LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/tiffaneecook/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/rollwiththepunchespodcast Instagram: www.instagram.com/rollwiththepunches_podcast Instagram: www.instagram.com/tiffaneeandco --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/roll-withthepunches/message
Every moment of every day our subconscious mind runs stories that perpetuate our perspectives and practices that affect our parenting. We all do this! In this episode, the insightful and vivacious Dr. Vanessa Lapointe shares from her newest book, Parenting Right From The Start, exploring the implications of the stories we tell ourselves, and how "Conscious Parenting" is about bringing those stories to the surface so that we become consciously aware of our narratives that serve us or no longer serve us, and how we are showing up for our children.
So many of my conversations during the pandemic have steered toward mental health, especially when talking about parenting. So, I thought who better to talk about it than Registered Child Psychologist, Dr Vanessa Lapointe? Episode 92 with Dr Vanessa on parenting is one of our most popular episodes, so I know you will get so much out of this interview as we talk about: Types of mental health issues facing our children today How to effectively start conversations with our kids Serious issues like self harm / cutting and much more. If you would like to pick up some gems on how to parent in today's world you have come to the right place! Show notes: www.elaineskitchentable.com/132 Connect with Dr. Vanessa Lapointe: Website: https://drvanessalapointe.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.vanessalapointe/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drvanessalapointe Connect with Elaine: Website: https://elaineskitchentable.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elainetancomeau LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elainetancomeau/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ElainesKitchenTable Twitter: https://twitter.com/chatwithelaine Get a free chapter from Elaine's book, Sell Your Passion: https://elaineskitchentable.com/book/ Episode Sponsor: Easy Daysies - help your family have easier days!
Today on Time Out with Tinseltown Mom, I'm replaying episode #6 where I speak with Dr. Vanessa Lapointe about sibling rivalry and discipline strategies, and Dr. Lapointe will offer tips on how to navigate these areas successfully. Dr. Lapointe is a mother of two, published author, parenting expert, registered psychologist and sought-after media guest who regularly speaks on a wide range of topics related to childrearing, child development, mental health, and school success. For more on Dr. Lapointe please visit her at https://drvanessalapointe.com Follow Tinseltown Mom! TinseltownMom Blog Instagram Facebook Twitter Pinterest The post *Replay Episode* Sibling Rivalry and Discipline without Damage – Dr. Vanessa Lapointe Gives Insight appeared first on Tinseltown Mom.
A thoroughly engaging chat with Dr Vanessa Lapointe, which challenges us to think about the way we discipline our children and the importance of creating a safe connection with them. Through out the podcast, Vanessa poses perspectives that we as adults may not have considered. She challenges us to re-consider how we react to our children when they misbehave and prompts us to remember not to project what's going on in our world, onto them, through discipline.
Dr. Vanessa Lapointe is a Parenting Expert, Author, Researcher and Child Psychologist. Or as I call her, Kid-Ologist. Raising, guiding, empowering, teaching and understanding children, is her thing. The science (art?) of raising happy, healthy, functional kids (how to be a great parent) is her passion, research and career. This conversation covered a vast amount of territory and as a non-parent, I found her thoughts, ideas, stories and insights, fascinating. We spoke about brain stuff, mind stuff, nurture vs. nature, genetic stuff, programming, the education system and her son the orchid and her other son, the dandelion (it will make sense when you listen). You'll love it.
Most parents today know that smacking your kids is not a good idea, and now new research out of Harvard University in the United States has shown that it actually changes your child's brain. Dr Vanessa Lapointe is a psychologist and author of Discipline Without Damage. Vanessa explains the impact smacking can have on your child's behaviour and better ways to discipline your child.
Learn how to discipline your child without damaging them from leading child psychologist Dr Vanessa Lapointe and get a greater understanding on how a child brain develops.Check out Dr Vanessa Lapointe's amazing new book, Discipline Without Damage - How To Get Your Kids To Behave Without Messing Them Up. --------------------James Laughlin is a former World champion musician and now Success coach to CEO's, leaders and multi-millionaires.Check out James on IG: https://www.instagram.com/jameslaughlinofficialJames' Life on Purpose Website: https://www.jjlaughlin.comFree eBook: https://www.jjlaughlin.comThe Life on Purpose Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/jameslaughlin
In this episode Canadian Parenting Expert, Author, Mom, Registered Psychologist Dr. Vanessa Lapointe shares some amazing insights into becoming a healthier, happier parent and human being, both for ourselves and our children.
In this interview, Sarah Moore of Dandelion Seeds Positive Living shares her story as a worldschooler and a playful parent. Her credentials include publications and speaking engagements all over the globe, undergraduate and graduate degrees from the University of Wisconsin-Madison, certificates in Child Honouring Course from the Raffi Foundation for Child Honouring and completing the Parenting 2.0 course from Dr. Vanessa Lapointe. She also spent a year observing Teacher Tom, who's one of the world's leading practitioners of ‘democratic play-based' education. She also works with worldwide bestselling gentle parenting author, Elizabeth Pantley. Sarah has worked with hundreds of children in the classroom setting in addition to worldschooling her own child and currently offering courses to parents and teachers to help them along their peaceful parenting journey. With Sarah's improvisational comedy training, she is a credible source of creative strategies on cultivating play as adults, fostering cooperation and connection with children and getting them to be actively and happily engaged in academic learning. Are you ready to be a playful parent/homeschooler? Learn the key tips from Sarah Moore's story! Key Takeaways: 2:47 - Sarah's Journey as a Parent 12:48 - Worldschooling her Child 18:22 - Daily Routines 25:20 - Examples of play time in Sarah's home 23:44 - How to cultivate play as adults/parents 34:21 - Learning through experience 39:03 - Finding the right type of schooling for her child 43:53 - Tips for parents who are busy but want to provide the same type of learning environment for their kids 51:49 - Preparation vs Mindset 56:49 - Metaphor for the difference between traditional homeschooling to alternative schooling 01:00:46- Advice for parents on Government Regulation for homeschooling/worldschooling Quotes: "They are more receptive to learning if they had a chance to connect with their big person, with their teacher, they will learn much better if they are feeling connected." "Take what is real, take what is happening, and simply build on to it. So that there is nobody talking out of their feelings, there's nobody talking out of their reality." "See things from a child's perspective and simply building upon the story that they have in their mind versus trying to encourage a transition that they are not ready for the moment." "It is easy to fill the 'academic bucket' just by simply living life." "School doesn't start and stop at a certain time." "Our kids are natural-born learners." "Kids learn because they are ready to learn." "The very best curriculum I ever bought was a dry-erase whiteboard." Links: https://dandelion-seeds.com/ https://dandelion-seeds.com/services-2/ https://www.facebook.com/DandelionSeedsPositiveParenting https://www.instagram.com/dandelionseedspositiveliving/ https://www.pinterest.com/dandelionseeds5/
All of us are struggling in unique ways during this pandemic. In order to support families during this time, I have created a support group on Facebook. I will be inviting various guests into the group to share their expertise for parents and kids. Please feel free to join the group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/buildingstrongkids/ In this episode, Dr. Vanessa Lapointe joins me to talk about how parents can support, comfort, and connect with their children in the wake of the Coronavirus pandemic. You can watch the video of this interview here: https://youtu.be/DJCSilhMvJQ - we had some technical difficulties, but we made the most of it! Don't forget to check out our mini (but powerful) on-demand course that can help your child develop resilience (worksheets & parent tips included): www.innerchampion.me/p/resilience Did you know that my Sun Visualization for Kids was the Staff Pick twice in a week on Insight Timer? Insight Timer has 12 million users and has been around for 10 years. Use this powerful guided visualization with your child by clicking here: http://insig.ht/gm_106525
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For this episode we speak to child psychologist Dr. Vanessa LaPointe. Vanessa is the author of two books, including her latest Parenting Right From the Start: Laying a Healthy Foundation in the Baby and Toddler Years. But this episode is not about the baby and toddler years. It's about the investigation into ourselves that Dr. LaPointe argues is so necessary in order to parent the way we want to. She explains how we can work through issues from the past that inevitably have an effect on how we respond to the challenges and demands of raising our own kids. Show Notes Love our work? Please check out our Patreon Campaign! Become a patron of the show for as little as $1 per month
Motivating Employees (0:00:00) Whether you're the president of a large company or leading a small team of coworkers, it can be a huge struggle to motivate the people that you're working with. But studies show that money isn't enough to get people motivated to work. So what is? We're joined by Laura Prisc, a leadership coach and the author of “Conscious Leadership: Are Your Leaders Wide Awake?” to find out what we can do better. Starting a Podcast (0:15:16) People love podcasts; they're convenient and entertaining. Wefind it fascinating that we can expand our minds while we're driving, exercising, and even cleaning. Maybe from all the podcasts you've listened to, you've started thinking you really want to give it a whirl behind the mic yourself!It can't be that hard,right? With technology these days, pretty much anyone can start their own podcast, but the question is, where do you begin? Monica Packer, host of About Progress, knows exactly how to start a podcast and loves helping others go from a show idea to a full-blown podcast. She joins us today to give her best podcasting tips for beginners. Letting Go of Grudges (0:35:18) Is there a grudge you're holding onto, an offense made against you long ago, that you can remember with impeccable clarity? You know, that one girl who dumped pudding on your head in the school lunchroom or that guy who insulted your favorite pair of sneakers? We've all held grudges at one time or another. But, these grudges could actually be harming our health. Dr. Frederic Luskin is the founder and director of the Stanford Forgiveness Projects. He joins us today to talk about how to let go of our grudges and the freedom and health benefits that forgiveness brings. Marrying the Right Person (0:50:38) No one wants to be single forever—right? Isn't it the hope of everyone to find true love? But while this is the hope, happily ever after doesn't always follow the marriage party. It happens every day—people marry the wrong person. So before getting down on one knee, what are some things we should be considering? How can we know if we're going to marry the right person? Here to share his perspective on the subject is couple's therapist Dr. Gary Brown. Writers Get Noticed (1:05:26) What is the best way to get your stories out into the world? Publishing books can be difficult, and promoting those books can be even harder. There are more books than ever before in the world and the competition is getting fiercer and fiercer, so how can you get noticed or even make a mark in a world swimming with writers? Today we are going to talk about how writers can unlock the skills they need to draw readers. We have motivational coach and veteran writer Colleen Story, author of “Writer Get Noticed!” to talk with us. Mindful Parenting (1:20:36) Growing up, you probably thought your parents knew everything about raising children. But little did you know, even they had to learnover time. Raising children is a lifelong process so wouldn't it be great if you could start off on the right track? Dr. Vanessa Lapointe is a psychologist and the author of "PARENTING RIGHT FROM THE START: Laying a Healthy Foundation in the Baby and Toddler Years." She's with us to tell us how being conscious and mindful parents can influence our children's growth early on.
Laura Prisc gives tips for motivating employees, Monica Packer teaches how to start podcasting, Fred Luskin explains how to let go of grudges, Gary Brown talks about marrying the right person, Colleen Story discusses how to get noticed for writing, Vanessa Lapointe explains mindful parenting
Threats, bribes, shouting, and time-outs can work in the heat of the moment but when it comes to teaching your children to listen, do as they're told and make good choices, discipline is a long game. So how do you do it right? Maggie Dent talks to the author of Discipline Without Damage, Vanessa Lapointe, about the best way to discipline your child.
Anger in older children can be difficult to understand. They're not tantruming toddlers anymore, so what's happening when they lose their shiz? Dr Vanessa LaPointe is a psychologist and author of Discipline Without Damage, she explains what's going on in your child's brain when they see red, and how you can help them through it.
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