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Welcome to Hot Topics! In this episode, we delve into the complex question of what it means to be a man in today's society. Join us as our guest, David Pisarra, a family law attorney and men's advocate, shares his valuable insights and experiences on this topic.Throughout the discussion, David explores the evolving definition of masculinity and the challenges men face in navigating societal expectations. Discover the confusion many men experience when expressing their emotions and conforming to traditional ideals of masculinity.David sheds light on the disadvantages men encounter in family court, where biases often favor women. Learn about his advocacy for equal custody and support rights, promoting a more balanced and just approach to these matters.The gender wage gap is another complex issue discussed. David argues that it often results from comparing different job types rather than a lack of equal pay for equal work. Gain insight into the role of women's career and family choices in this disparity.Explore an intriguing perspective on same-sex male couples and their potential for optimal outcomes in parenting. Discover how these couples, having deeply considered parenthood, may offer a unique perspective compared to same-sex female couples.To address the challenges faced by men in today's society, David advises gaining clarity on personal desires and emotions. He also encourages clearer communication in relationships to foster better understanding and connection.Join us for this fascinating conversation on the nuanced and sometimes contradictory gender dynamics in modern society. Don't miss out on the valuable insights shared by David Pisarra on "Hot Topics!" Who is David Pisarra?Over the past 24 years, he has helped thousands of dads in family court as they faced loss of time with their children. David is a multi-media content creator. His TikTok following exceeds 48,000 followers. The Men's Family Law podcast on iTunes has over 70 episodes and has been listened to by thousands of dads. On YouTube, the DADs Law School channel, David has many videos that help fathers with their questions and concerns about the child custody process. The "A Man's Guide..." series of books covers Child Custody Divorce and Domestic Violence. He has appeared on dozens of podcasts, in movies, on television and is a professional international speaker.You can find David:On the web: https://www.unionofdads.com/On Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090420320824On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dadslawschoolOn Threads: https://www.threads.net/@dadslawschoolOn YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dadslawschoolOn TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dadslawschoolOn Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/DadsLawSchoolOn LinkedIn (personal): https://www.linkedin.com/in/davidpisarra?trk=public_post_feed-actor-nameOn LinkedIn (business): https://www.linkedin.com/company/dadslawschool?trk=public_post_feed-actor-nameDavid has a podcast called "DADS Law School." Listen and subscribe here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dads-law-school/id1713034641David also has a podcast called "Men's Family Law." Listen and subscribe here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mens-family-law-podcast/id796760052Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtube.com/live/6Z585DyNFO4Rate this episode on IMDB: https://m.imdb.com/title/tt33269215/?ref_=ext_shr_lnk********************************************Follow Gabrielle Crichlow:On Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gabrielle.crichlow On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabrielle.crichlowFollow A Step Ahead Tutoring Services:On Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/astepaheadtutoringservicesOn Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/astepaheadtutoringservicesOn X: https://www.x.com/ASATS2013On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astepaheadtutoringservicesOn TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asats2013On Eventbrite: https://astepaheadtutoringservices.eventbrite.comVisit us on the web: https://www.astepaheadtutoringservices.comSign up for our email list: https://squareup.com/outreach/a41DaE/subscribeSign up for our text list: https://eztxt.s3.amazonaws.com/534571/widgets/61fc686d8d6665.90336120.htmlCheck out our entire "Hot Topics!" podcast: https://www.astepaheadtutoringservices.com/hottopicspodcastSupport us:Cash App: https://cash.app/$ASATS2013PayPal: https://paypal.me/ASATS2013Venmo: https://venmo.com/u/ASATS2013Zelle: success@astepaheadtutoringservices.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/hot-topics--5600971/support Original date of episode: July 15, 2024

Welcome to Hot Topics! In this episode, host Gabrielle Crichlow explores an important and often overlooked subject - the challenges fathers face in the family court system and how they can navigate the process with the help of family law attorney David Pisarra. Mothers often have an advantage in custody cases as the "default" parent, which is why fathers need to be proactive in asserting their rights and role as parents. David emphasizes the importance of fathers presenting comprehensive evidence to the court, showcasing their engagement, knowledge of the child, and ability to provide care. This is often in contrast to mothers who are often better prepared.The family court system can be adversarial, with lawyers sometimes prolonging cases for financial gain. David advises fathers to have realistic expectations and to focus on presenting the key evidence needed to demonstrate their fitness as parents.To assist fathers in effectively advocating for their parental rights in court, David provides training through his "Dad's Law School." This training equips fathers with the necessary legal procedures and strategies, including guidance on gathering relevant documentation and presenting it persuasively.Overall, this discussion sheds light on the need for fathers to be informed, organized, and persistent in order to overcome biases and secure meaningful involvement in their children's lives through the family court process. Join Gabrielle and David as they provide practical advice, debunk common misconceptions, and share valuable resources to empower fathers in their journey to build and maintain meaningful relationships with their children. Tune in to this episode for insights that will help fathers navigate the legal system and prove their worth as great dads.Who is David Pisarra?Over the past 24 years, he has helped thousands of dads in family court as they faced loss of time with their children. David is a multi-media content creator. His TikTok following exceeds 48,000 followers. The Men's Family Law podcast on iTunes has over 70 episodes and has been listened to by thousands of dads. On YouTube, the DADs Law School channel, David has many videos that help fathers with their questions and concerns about the child custody process. The "A Man's Guide..." series of books covers Child Custody Divorce and Domestic Violence. He has appeared on dozens of podcasts, in movies, on television and is a professional international speaker.You can find David:On the web: https://www.unionofdads.com/On Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090420320824On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dadslawschoolOn Threads: https://www.threads.net/@dadslawschoolOn YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dadslawschoolOn TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dadslawschoolOn Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/DadsLawSchoolOn LinkedIn (personal): https://www.linkedin.com/in/davidpisarra?trk=public_post_feed-actor-nameOn LinkedIn (business): https://www.linkedin.com/company/dadslawschool?trk=public_post_feed-actor-nameDavid has a podcast called "DADS Law School." Listen and subscribe here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dads-law-school/id1713034641David also has a podcast called "Men's Family Law." Listen and subscribe here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mens-family-law-podcast/id796760052Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtube.com/live/AqcA6CA7RBMRate this episode on IMDB: https://m.imdb.com/title/tt33269173/?ref_=ext_shr_lnk********************************************Follow Gabrielle Crichlow:On Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gabrielle.crichlow On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabrielle.crichlowFollow A Step Ahead Tutoring Services:On Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/astepaheadtutoringservicesOn Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/astepaheadtutoringservicesOn X: https://www.x.com/ASATS2013On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astepaheadtutoringservicesOn TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asats2013On Eventbrite: https://astepaheadtutoringservices.eventbrite.comVisit us on the web: https://www.astepaheadtutoringservices.comSign up for our email list: https://squareup.com/outreach/a41DaE/subscribeSign up for our text list: https://eztxt.s3.amazonaws.com/534571/widgets/61fc686d8d6665.90336120.htmlCheck out our entire "Hot Topics!" podcast: https://www.astepaheadtutoringservices.com/hottopicspodcastSupport us:Cash App: https://cash.app/$ASATS2013PayPal: https://paypal.me/ASATS2013Venmo: https://venmo.com/u/ASATS2013Zelle: success@astepaheadtutoringservices.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/hot-topics--5600971/support Original date of episode: June 21, 2024

Are you a dad caught in the whirlwind of family court and need strategies to advocate effectively for your custody rights? Navigating the complexities of family law can be daunting for fathers, particularly when facing custody battles and court biases. This episode speaks directly to those challenges, offering insights and practical advice for dads aiming to maintain a strong relationship with their children and secure their custodial rights. 3 Key Takeaways: Learn how to prepare and present compelling evidence in court to strengthen your custodial case. Discover methods to combat isolation and rebuild your social network to support your mental well-being. Gain access to expert advice on balancing child support responsibilities and asserting your parental rights. Dive into this episode of The Dad Central Show with David Pisarra to empower yourself with knowledge and practical steps for navigating the family court system as a proactive and involved father. Dad Central: A Parenting Podcast To Reduce Stress & Build Confidence In Fatherhood Are you stressed and overwhelmed by the responsibilities of fatherhood? This show helps overwhelmed dads conquer stress, build confidence, and become the father their family brags about. Listen to discover: Effective strategies to reduce parenting stress and manage emotions for a calm parenting approach = happy children. Practical advice on building strong parent-child relationships through improved communication and parenting skills, even when co-parenting with ex-partners. Expert insights on navigating custody issues and instilling positive parenting values to develop disciplined and resilient kids. Since 2019 Co-hosts Drew and Ed have impacted over 400,000 dads through their work with Dad Central. Every Monday, join them for real-life examples and practical, time-tested strategies on how to win at being a dad. Once a month, hear from expert guests or mentor dads sharing their top tips to enjoy and thrive in fatherhood.   To instantly learn top secret hacks to calm parenting and become the dad your family brags about, download our free guide to stop yelling. FREE 7 STEP GUIDE TO STOP YELLING: Our guide is based on extensive research and experience working with parents just like you. We'll guide you through each step, offering practical tips, strategies, and exercises to help you understand your triggers, improve your communication skills, and foster a stronger relationship with your children, ultimately becoming a more confident and effective dad: https://dadcentral.ca/7-step-guide-to-stop-yelling/  "Dad Central is a podcast that supports fathers in navigating fatherhood, reducing stress, building confidence, managing parenting stress, and improving parenting skills, including discipline, co-parenting, custody issues, calm parenting, and effective communication with children, to foster happy children and strong parent-child relationships."  

In this episode of 'Doing Divorce Different, Lesa interviews David Pisarra, an attorney, founder of Dad's Law School, and podcast host. David shares his unique journey into family law and provides crucial insights for dads navigating the family court system. He emphasizes the importance of preparation, documentation, and mindset for fathers fighting for custody. The discussion also touches on the significant role dads play in their children's lives and the common mistakes they make in court. Lisa and David conclude by highlighting resources available through Dad's Law School to help dads present their best case in court.00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:23 David Pizarra's Background and Journey03:45 Challenges Dads Face in Family Court08:23 Mindset and Preparation for Dads13:38 Common Mistakes Dads Make19:02 Final Thoughts and ResourcesFind David atghil@dadslawschool.comAnd Lesa @saddleuplive

In this episode of The Secure Dad Podcast, Andy discusses proactive safety measures for protecting yourself and your family with guest David Pisarra, founder of Dad's Law School. The conversation centers on navigating family court to protect parental rights, the importance of proper documentation, and realistic expectations during custody disputes. Pisarra shares advice on preparing for court, addressing false accusations, and the impact of domestic abuse.   For more from David Pisarra: www.dadslawschool.com  Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD.  Defend your home with FlipLok. Listeners get 20% off when using discount code SECUREDAD at checkout. See how Troomi Wireless is making smartphones safe for kids. Use code THESECUREDAD at checkout for $50 off a phone. 00:00 Introduction to The Secure Dad Podcast 01:00 Data Breaches and Digital Privacy 03:15 David Pisarra: Protecting Parental Rights 04:27 Understanding Family Law and Custody 17:16 Domestic Violence and Legal Protections 27:24 Maintaining Healthy Relationships 30:32 Conclusion    The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.

Shane Thrapp, Operations Director of the Men's ADHD Support Group, is joined by David Pisarra Esq., chief evangelist at Dad's Law School. In this episode we discuss the challenges and strategies for men, particularly those with ADHD, facing divorce and custody battles. David shares his extensive experience in family law and offers practical advice on navigating the legal system, the importance of therapy, and how to document parenting efforts. In this episode we work to emphasize the need for men to educate themselves, seek support, and improve their emotional regulation to achieve better outcomes for their families through these trying times that we may face.Talking Parents App - https://talkingparents.com/homeOur Family Wizard App - https://www.ourfamilywizard.com/00:00 Introduction to the Men's ADHD Support Group Podcast00:09 Meet David Pisarra: Advocate for Fathers in Family Court01:40 Challenges Men Face in Family Court04:34 David's Mission: Educating and Supporting Fathers06:21 Practical Advice for Fathers in Custody Battles07:58 The Importance of Evidence and Documentation17:23 Navigating Legal Rights and Custody Information26:50 The Role of Therapy and Emotional Support27:38 Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder28:39 Impact of Childhood Trauma on Relationships30:39 Differentiating ADHD and Borderline Personality Disorder32:26 Therapy's Role in Family Dynamics33:33 Personal Experience with Therapy35:28 Co-Parenting Strategies38:50 Deciding Between Staying in a Marriage or Divorce42:36 Emotional vs. Physical Abuse45:23 Men's Emotional Abuse and ADHD49:34 The Importance of Therapy for Men with ADHD50:55 Introduction to Dad's Law School53:23 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Check out our website for great blogs, information, and upcoming events! Men's ADHD Support Group Website If you identify as male and have ADHD Join our Facebook Group!And follow us on all of our other social media! Our Facebook Page Our Instagram Our Youtube: Our Twitter Our TikTok Our LinkedIn

In today's episode, we're diving into a topic that touches the lives of many: the challenges fathers face in divorce and custody battles. We're joined by David Pisarra, the founder of Union of Dads, a community built to support and equip dads during some of their toughest times. We'll explore how fathers can shift their approach from an emotional battle to a strategic one, treating the court process as a business transaction for the sake of their children's future. David brings 25 years of observation in family court to the table, shedding light on how societal biases and personal reluctance can skew the scales against men in these situations. We'll hear a powerful story of a father unjustly burdened by the system, an example of the very challenges Union of Dads seeks to address. David also shares his insights on the importance of mindset, gathering evidence, and the need to shift from partner to coparent thinking. Listeners, don't forget—the Union of Dads is here to support you through courses, live meetups, and daily interactions. With special access provided to our audience, you can join at unionofdads.com using promo code "Hero One" for a 20% discount. So, if you're a dad facing this uphill battle, or you know someone who is, tune in as we delve into these pressing issues with David, and let's empower dads together. Remember to check out Heroes Media Group for more content and contact information after the show. It's time to make a decision. So let's not waste another minute—join us   Follow David:   linkedin.com/in/davidpisarra   https://www.unionofdads.com/

Mark Reel Jr. and Southern California Dad Attorney David Pisarra discuss Domestic Violence and the implications that outlandish accusations can have on fathers and family court cases.

In this episode David Pisarra is joined by Dr. Joe Kort, author and sex therapist about how to reinvent a dormant sex life in a long term relelationship.  Dr. Joe is host of the Smart Sex, Smart Love podcast on iTunes. He is author of Erotic Orientation, available on Amazon and offers regular insights through his TikTok channel.

Southern California Family Law Attorney and Host Mark Reel Jr brings on fellow California Attorney David Pissara of Men's Family Law. They talk California Law and discuss the uphill battle for most men in the family courts when it comes to shared custody and the financial hardship they are thrown into. You can find more out about Mark on his website: www.ReelFathersRights.com or on Social Media at The Fathers Rights Attorney on Facebook, Instagram, and Youtube.

Southern California Family Law Attorney and Host Mark Reel Jr brings on fellow California Attorney David Pissara of Men's Family Law. They talk California Law and discuss the up hill battle for most men in the family courts when it come to shared custody and the financial hardship they are thrown into. You can find more out about Mark on his website: www.ReelFathersRights.com or on Social Media at The Fathers Rights Attorney on Facebook, Instagram, and Youtube. You can find David at his website: www.MensFamilyLaw.com    To find David's course Action Pack  for fathers who are fighting for child custody.   

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When it comes to dealing with divorce, men want the QUICK and EASY way forward. But it often leads them ROBBED of everything they worked hard for. Sometimes, it can also leave them mentally and emotionally BATTERED. David Pisarra joins Mark in today's episode to talk about how an EMPOWERED man should prepare for divorce and not come out empty-handed. They tackle all the legal concerns that need careful attention before proceeding to the court, how to SHELTER your ASSETS, how to present yourself on paper, and all the important details to EQUIP and EMPOWER you in your legal battle.  “Men just want to come in and bulldoze everything, they don't wanna face the pain. But the key thing in divorce is long term strategy.” - Mark Santiago In This Episode: - Do you want to know how an empowered man deals with divorce? Simple, he doesn't deal! Learn the STRATEGIC ACTIONS you need to take to proceed slowly but SURELY.  - The “locker room talk” is no longer accepted in the greater public eye and can lead to traps set by your Ex's legal team; the fact is, men simply don't know their rights. Hear from David how you can PROTECT yourself before it happens and when it happens. - There are tell-tale signs you NEED to watch out for that tell you you're about to get divorced. Spot those alarming signs and SAVE yourself from trouble - financially and figuratively!  - “Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity” and a truly empowered man knows this by heart. But how can you PREPARE when you still haven't come to terms with reality? Find out how to shake a man past the DENIAL phase of a divorce.   Resources: - https://mensfamilylawcenter.com/actionpack (DAD Action Pac)k: Get a 30% discount when you use the code EMPOWERED Connect with David Pisarra: - Website:https://www.facebook.com/mark.santiago.35977 ( )https://mensfamilylaw.com/ (https://mensfamilylaw.com/) - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/davidpisarra (https://www.linkedin.com/in/davidpisarra) Join the Thrive Program: -Website: https://training.empoweredman.co/application/ (https://training.empoweredman.co/application/) Take the Empowered Man 30 Day Challenge: - Website: https://www.empoweredman.co/challenge?el=podcast (https://www.empoweredman.co/challenge?el=podcast) How to Connect with The Empowered Man: - Call to Book: https://go.oncehub.com/EmpoweredMan (https://go.oncehub.com/EmpoweredMan) - Get In The Free Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/empoweredbusinessmen (https://www.facebook.com/groups/empoweredbusinessmen) - Watch This: https://youtu.be/8phE5WtaY6U (https://youtu.be/8phE5WtaY6U) - Website:https://empoweredman.co/ ( https://empoweredman.co/) Connect with Mark Santiago: - Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/mark.santiago.35977 ( https://www.facebook.com/mark.santiago.35977) - Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/markwsantiago/ ( https://www.instagram.com/markwsantiago/) - LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/mark-santiago-854a68a/ ( https://www.linkedin.com/in/mark-santiago-854a68a/)

Happy Valentine's Day! This is Entrepreneurs of Faith, a Sunday episode of Monetization Nation. I'm Nathan Gwilliam, your host.  Creating and running businesses isn't easy. However, being the spouse of an entrepreneur or CEO isn't easy either. One of the primary reasons we are creating our businesses is so we can have the time and resources for the people and things that matter most. This especially includes our spouse, the person who should matter most to us. We need to be sure we don't let the stress and business at work be an excuse for not sharing our love and being there with our loved one this Valentine's Day and the rest of the year. There is nothing we're working on at work that is more important than the people we love. But, unfortunately, approximately 50% of marriages end in divorce. So, in today's episode, we're going to discuss some of the most successful strategies entrepreneurs and CEOs use to destroy their marriages and some alternative strategies for those of us who are trying to nurture more loving and connected marriages. Strategy 1 - Don't invest time to re-connect daily.  “Every successful marriage is the result of two people working diligently and skillfully to cultivate their love.” - Henry Beecher, Minister Sometimes entrepreneurs and CEOs don't prioritize daily connection with their spouse. Instead of making this mistake, maybe we can schedule opportunities for daily connection. Some ideas might be a regular date night, regular walks together, or lunch dates together. If we're traveling or away from home we can schedule reminders to send regular texts or to make regular video calls. Marriage is a daily decision that we must invest in every day. Sometimes couples quit dating each other. Don't ever quit dating. Dating and regular connection are probably how you and your spouse fell in love initially, and something we need to keep doing to continue nurturing a loving marriage.  One of the business tectonic shifts we talk about a lot at Monetization Nation is “Connecting through Passion.” This doesn't just work in business, but it can also be very effective in our relationships. We should try to identify our spouse's level-10 passions and strive to connect with our spouse through what he or she is crazy-passionate about.  As an example, a study found that couples who watch romantic movies and discussed the relationships in them afterward had a 50% lower divorce rate. Sorry guys. Just watch the romantic movies with her. Strategy 2 - “Outsource” sacred parts of the marriage.  As entrepreneurs, we often learn the importance of outsourcing in order to get everything done. However, some of us make the mistake of outsourcing parts of our marriage. Sometimes couples outsource sacred elements of the marriage, such as emotional connection, companionship, and sometimes even sex, to people other than their spouse. Sometimes people outsource to porn and romance novels. When this happens, the spouse is escaping and finding fulfillment with other people and things.  A study at the University of Oklahoma found that the chances of divorce double when pornography is viewed (Source: Marripedia). Dr. John Gottman, a world-renowned therapist who has 40 years of experience studying relationships, explains in an open and honest letter that pornography should never be viewed because of the unrealistic expectations it creates. Men and women who find fulfillment through explicit images and videos almost always find they have trouble finding fulfillment with an actual partner. Dr. Gottman states that “even non-compulsive use of [pornographic] images can damage a committed relationship.”  In a similar manner, romance novels can have a similar effect. These books are full of unrealistic people, relationships, and sexual experiences. When a spouse gets too caught up in romance novels, they begin to believe that their partner should be more like the character in their novel. They can also begin to turn to these novels for feelings of romance, love, and desire instead of to their spouse, which decreases their connection.  We should be committed to nurturing those sacred parts of our marriages only with our spouse. This commitment will help ensure that we keep our marriages strong and our intimate, sacred moments special and wonderful.  Strategy 3 -  Focus on digital devices and entertainment instead of your spouse.  When was the last time we checked our phone while our spouses were trying to talk to us? A recent study found that mobile phones can have a negative impact on closeness, connection, and quality of conversation in human relationships (Source: University of Essex). Do we neglect our spouse because we spend too much time glued to digital entertainment, such as TV, social media, or video games? I recently spoke with a church leader who told me video game addiction is one of the top reasons couples in his congregation are getting divorced.  Instead, maybe we commit to ourselves to put our phones away when we're having meals with or talking to our spouse. If the phone rings or we receive a text, and our spouse encourages us to take the call or check the text, maybe we can say, “I'm sure it's not as important as you.” Instead of watching too much TV or playing too many video games, maybe we make a commitment to ourselves that we only consume digital entertainment after we have made a meaningful connection that day with our spouse. This habit might help us to put first things first, as Steven Covey taught. Strategy 4 - Don't be responsible with money.  Fights about money are the second leading cause of divorce, right behind infidelity (Source: Ramsey Solutions). Many couples don't have a budget or don't stick to it if they do. My wife is so much better at this than I am. Some couples buy the biggest house the bank will let them buy and drive the nicest cars they can. One study from researchers at Brigham Young University found that married individuals with higher levels of materialism had less satisfying marriages. Some couples keep their finances separate and don't communicate with their spouses about financial issues. Money issues are cited as a cause of 36% of divorces.  If you haven't before, I would highly recommend taking a financial course with your spouse. My wife and I took the Dave Ramsey course and it helped a lot. A good financial course forces spouses to talk through and come to a consensus on important financial decisions. For example, do you and your spouse both know what your next big purchase will be and how fast you're saving to earn it? What do you picture for your future retirement and how much money do you need to be putting away now to achieve that? Are you both comfortable with how much money is being spent every month versus how much is being put away for future plans? Having these discussions and learning about financials together can help avoid money problems and create open and honest communication about our financials.  Strategy 5 - Don't make intimacy a priority.  “When couples stop having sex, their relationships become vulnerable to anger, detachment, infidelity and, ultimately, divorce.” - Dr. Ian Kerner, Counselor Sometimes spouses don't make regular sex and intimacy a priority. Sometimes touch is eliminated outside of sex. Regular sex and other intimacy can be a powerful glue that binds together spouses with a stronger connection. For many people, touch is their primary love language. For most couples, touch and sex can be a powerful way to reconnect and communicate love.  Relationship expert Dr. Lurve believes that one of the most essential ingredients to any long-lasting marriage is daily hugs. She prescribes a 10-second hug every day to her clients who are struggling to reconnect with their spouses. This daily hug releases oxytocin, promotes sexual desire, helps us resolve issues more quickly, and can alleviate stress (Source: Body and Soul).  Strategy 6 - Have Intimate, opposite-sex friendships.  “Happy is the man who finds a true friend, and far happier is he who finds that true friend in his wife.” - Franz Schubert, Composer Sometimes we don't recognize that emotional relationships with someone of the opposite sex can be deadly to our marriages. These relationships often start innocently, as just lunch, advice, or lending a listening ear. These relationships can sometimes lead to emotional intimacy. Our spouses should be the first person to which we turn to share our joys and our sorrows.  When we have our own safeguards in place and don't make justifications to break them, we're much less likely to find ourselves in inappropriate relationships. Keep in mind that most affairs don't begin because someone wanted to cheat. Actually, 80% of affairs began as “just friends” (Source: Shirley Glass). "The new infidelity is between people who unwittingly form deep, passionate connections before realizing that they've crossed the line from platonic friendship into romantic love," explains Shirley Glass, Author of Not “Just Friends.” Strategy 7 - Don't help out.  Marriage is not just spiritual communion, it is also remembering to take out the trash. – Joyce Brothers, Psychologist and Author Our spouses are probably carrying heavy loads, and so are most entrepreneurs. It's very common for us to focus on our own heavy loads we are carrying and to be resentful or put out when our spouse asks us to help. Doesn't our spouse realize how busy we are?  Instead, maybe we identify a job that our spouse most dislikes doing. Maybe it's cleaning toilets, doing dishes, or cleaning up dog poop. If we don't know which tasks our spouse dislikes the most, ask. Then, maybe we proactively start doing that task every day without being asked or saying anything about it.  Early in my marriage, a counselor taught me that when my wife asks me to do something, I should look at it as a gift because she is telling me what she needs. This way I know what I can best do to help her.  Strategy 8 - Point out all your spouse's weaknesses.  “Instead of nagging about your spouse, try bragging about your spouse.” - Dave Willis, Pastor and Author When you were dating, how often did you point out the faults in the person you were dating? How often do you do it now? Maybe, instead of focusing on his or her faults, we should strive to find everything we love about our spouse and everything we're grateful for, and strive to build him or her up with love and gratitude every day. It's especially important that we don't speak badly about our spouses to others. Media is filled with spouses making jokes about each other such as: “I have four kids. Three, if you don't count my husband.” TV shows and movies can make these lines seem innocent enough but in reality, speaking about our spouses in any kind of derogatory manner will only hurt our marriages.  Just as we're aware of our own weaknesses, our spouses are aware of theirs. We're not here to point them out, or even worse shout them out to our friends and family. We're there to love and support them as they strive to change for the better, just as we'll be doing. Leslie Vernick, a well-known author and speaker shared that “regularly thinking negatively about your [spouse] increases your dissatisfaction with [them] and your marriage.” The more we focus on the things we love about our spouses, the more in love we'll be with them and our marriage.  Strategy 9 - Make other people a priority over your spouse.  Often parents prioritize their children above their spouse. A relationship expert named David Pisarra said, “... the most frequent issue I hear from men I represent is that the focus of the wife turned to the child, and never returned to the relationship with the man.”   Sometimes we allow parents, friends, or a boss to be a higher priority. Instead, maybe we need to listen when our spouse says he or she is having issues with our parents and set better boundaries. Maybe we need to plan scheduled alone time each day, a scheduled date night each week, and quarterly getaways with only our spouse.  Maybe we commit that whenever our spouse calls or texts we do everything we can to immediately take the call or respond to the text so that our spouse can feel they are our priority.  We need to make sure that our spouse always comes first.  Strategy 10 - Be harsh or abusive to your spouse.   “Family is supposed to be our safe haven. Very often, it's the place where we find the deepest heartache.” - Iyanla Vanzant It doesn't matter how bad of a day we're having. There is never an excuse for being harsh with or yelling at our spouse, calling him or her names, or abusing our spouse in any way that can take a long time to heal. Abusing our spouse is never ok. Yelling at our spouse is never ok (unless maybe the house is on fire). Calling our spouse names is never ok.  Our spouse should know without a doubt that we will be loyal and never speak badly about them in front of another person. Jonathan Bennett, a relationship expert said, “If you're having a fight or [are] annoyed by your partner, the appropriate course of action is to address it directly. By airing your dirty laundry for everyone to see, you're showing a lack of respect for your partner and the relationship.” Strategy 11 - Threaten divorce.  “In every marriage more than a week old, there are grounds for divorce. The trick is to find and continue to find grounds for marriage.” - Robert Anderson, Playwright Some people threaten divorce to get leverage so that their spouse will make the desired change. However, this threat can often have the opposite effect and create long-lasting rifts and disconnection in the marriage. When we threaten divorce that could be the nuclear bomb that destroys everything else around it.  In 1519, a Spanish conquistador named Hernán Cortés arrived in the new world with six hundred men. Soon after arrival, he burned all his ships, sending the message to his men that there would be no turning back. Within two years he had conquered the Aztec empire. I realize there are situations, such as serious abuse, where divorce may be the right decision. However, if we are not in one of those situations, we should probably burn our ships, commit to improving the marriage, and not threaten divorce as the backup. We should let our spouse know that this may be a really hard situation, but we love them so much that we're committed to doing everything we can to work through this. Join Entrepreneurs of Faith If this episode of Entrepreneurs of Faith resonated with you, please subscribe for FREE to Monetization Nation so you can receive an episode of Entrepreneurs of Faith each Sunday. Subscribe to the Monetization eMagazine. Subscribe to the Monetization Nation YouTube channel. Subscribe to the Monetization Nation podcast on Apple Podcast, Google Podcasts, Spotify, or Stitcher.  Connect with Nathan on Linkedin.  Follow Monetization Nation on Instagram or Twitter. Share Your Story  What do you feel are the most common things entrepreneurs and CEOs do to destroy their marriages, and what are the solutions? Please join our private Monetization Nation Facebook group and share your insights with other digital monetizers. 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What does a recovering lawyer do when he recognizes the trials and tribulation his fellow lawyers endure? David Pisarra joins me on MentalShift. His insight and depth of thought for his fellow lawyers and improving their efficiency as businesses. Are you a lawyer experiencing burnout or know one who is? Connect with David. www.TheLEGALMastermind.com Thank you for listening. Please like and subscribe. If you haven't read or listened to my introduction, I am an Award winning International TEDx Speaker, Speaker Coach, Communications Trainer, 2x Author and host of the podcast, MentalShift. I have a habit of breaking into song, mostly R&B or Broadway... don't worry, I'm pretty good. Look me up on IMDB. I happen have a few speaking parts in a few SyFy movies. Thank you for joining my world. Hope you decide to stick around. www.MichelleMras.com www.Anchor.fm/MentalShift

David Pisarra is a California attorney who specializes in Father’s Rights. For 17 years he has been fighting to save and improve men’s relationships with their children. As an author he has written three books for men: A Man’s Guide To Child Custody, A Man’s Guide To Divorce Strategy and A Man’s Guide To Domestic Violence. His books are available in hard copy on Amazon and as ebooks on the MensFamilyLaw.com website. He is a regular columnist for the Santa Monica Daily Press, and has been contributing weekly for the past 16 years with his What’s The Point? Column. As an expert on family law, he has been quoted in the Wall Street Journal, Men’s Health, Out Magazine. His articles on Ezine.com are regularly sought after sources of legal information. He is regularly consulted by HollywoodLife.com to comment on current celebrity divorces, child custody and domestic violence battles. As host of the Men’s Family Law podcast, available on iTunes and his website, he educates, empowers and entertains men on their rights and opportunities to have a better life. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/CreditMatters/message

In this episode, we discuss divorce from a man's point of view and our guest is David Pisarra, Esq., the founder and president of the Santa Monica, CA-based law office Pisarra and Grist as well as Men’s Family Law and www.MensFamilyLaw.com established specifically for men to receive expert legal representation in divorce and custody proceedings while providing support programs and counseling designed to address their particular needs. Topics in the program include: 4-Steps to protect yourself during your divorce Domestic violence accusations How to improve your chance of receiving equal custody of your children Dealing with anger and moving on with your life And much more.

In this episode David Pisarra tells the tale of a case of the Lyin' Diva, and how he proved she was committing perjury which led to a termination of his client's having to pay alimony to her.  He goes over the California Family Code Section 4320 factors that used by courts to determine what spousal support should be, for how long and how to end it. 

According to the U.S. Census Bureau (2017) there is a father absence crisis in America and 19.7 million children, more than 1 in 4, live without a father in the home. Consequently, there is a father factor in nearly all social ills facing America today. This Thursday November 29, 2018 at 9:00 pm, Dr. Pitts begins to dig into the importance of father involvement, Join this powerful and passionate discussion as she and her guest David Pisarra, Esq. are going to engage in a robust discussion on empowering fathers to strengthen their involvement in the lives of their childfren.  

Today we toast to all of the intrepid restaurateurs who are willing to work long hours and have a lifestyle like nobody else! Although our guest, David Pisarra, doesn’t run a restaurant, he does have a unique lifestyle... and he wears a LOT of hats: he is a columnist, author, speaker, filmmaker, podcaster, mentor, dog lover, and father’s rights lawyer.   This episode is sponsored by Ora Organic, my favorite supplement company because they use only organic and sustainable ingredients in ALL of their supplements, the products forking work, and who doesn’t love sexy packaging, right? I am so excited for you all to experience Ora Organic for yourselves with a SWEET discount! Go ahead and please enjoy a 15% discount off your ENTIRE order, always! Not just one and then done! At Checkout use JustForkingAround for your code and happily receive your 15% discount, forking awesome! (I have been using and am obsessed with the Trust Your Gut Probiotic Powder and the Omega 3 Spray called Nothing Fishy Here. The Organic Greens Powder, Easy Being Green, is also a crowd pleaser). ENJOY! Check out Ora Organic Here       I adore David’s column in the Santa Monica Daily Press. His articles are not always about food – it fluctuates between politics, local life, and an ongoing search for the most comfortable comfort food – but food is always important in these pieces because David sees it as the great equalizer. Everybody comes together over food. We also discuss: David’s approach to writing about restaurants & food How loving dogs influences every other part of your life (like, say, writing a book that combines your family law practice with pet ownership issues during breakups and divorces) The Santa Monica vibe Why pie is better than cake The power of podcasting as a tool to educate & empower David’s upcoming project: Podcasting for Professionals How you can get more comfortable with public speaking (hint: join Toastmasters) Giving speeches about food – pie and chocolate, specifically Changing the conversation with The Good Men Project Resources: Learn more at davidpisarra.com Connect with David: Twitter | Facebook Read David’s column: smdp.com/author/dpisarra Find a Toastmasters Club near you: toastmasters.org/find-a-club TheGoodMenProject.com

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This week David Pisarra is speaking with Hal Rogness from Cryo Choice a private sperm bank on why men should bank some sperm, what it costs and how the process works. It's one part of a two step process to a worry free sex life, the second part is coming up next week!  We've arranged for a discount code of $50 per sample if you use the PROMO code PODCAST at Cryo Choice. 

Please join us on The Contact Talk radio Network @ 8:00am Pacific, as I will be joined by David Pisarra! Host of The Mens Family Law Podcast - focusing on self-empowerment, and self improvement, especially in helping people put their lives back together after a huge life-changing event such as divorce, break-up, and so forth. Treat yourselves and find out more about David and his journey as an internationally sought after speaker, author, columnist, and podcaster! #grateful #radio #itunes #podcasts Http://lisamcdonaldauthor.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode David Pisarra speaks with Chris Anderson from MaleSurvivor.org about the "Hot for Teacher" experience of young boys who are raped by their teachers. What are the long term effects and what can be done to help them recover? WWW.MaleSurvivor.org for more information for parents and survivors.

Father's rights attorney David Pisarra speaks with Thomas Fidler, who founded the Father's Rights Movement about the movement and Florida's Equal Parenting Bill that was just vetoed by Florida Governor Rick Scott. Feminists, Domestic Violence and what's in it for the children are the topics of this podcast.   WWW.FATHERSRIGHTSMOVEMENT.US

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra discusses his new film that is in development about men who are experiencing domestic abuse from the other side - women who abuse men. He gives an update on the Indiegogo campaign and what's next for the movie What About The Men? www.whataboutthemen.com  The interview today is with Jared Easley of Starve the Doubts podcast and co-founder of Podcast Movement - the largest conference in the world for podcasters. In this episode we discuss the new book by Jared and his co-host Kimanzi Constable "Stop Chasing Influencers" and their Kickstarter campaign. The book is a motivational handbook for anyone that wants to make changes in their life. www.stopchasinginfluencers.com/ks www.podcastmovement.com  

Tough Talk Christian Radio with Host Tony Gambone and his guest David Pisarra and Lawrence Elliott: David Pisarra - is filming a documentary on men who are victims of domestic violence called What About The Men? Exploring the Hidden Side of Domestic Violence. He is an author of 5 books, an attorney who specializes in Father's Rights and host of the Men's Family Law podcast. Filmmaker / attorney / Public Speaker - They all wrap back on each other around the topic of family law and father's rights. Lawrence Elliott was born and raised in the Bahamas. He is married to a lovely lady named Deborah. They have five children. His passion is to teach the laws of life in a practical way. His career path was a salesman in various hardware and industrial stores until his wife became blind. Presently, he stays at home with her to ensure that she is well taken cared for. Mr. Elliott taught Sunday school at a previous church that he attended. He was honored for his long service and dedication for his participation in the Sunday school program. He was also honored by the Real Men Ministry of his current church, Bahamas faith Ministries, receiving the “Distinguished Fatherhood Award”. He was given this award primarily for taking good care of his wife, as well as being a good father.

Take Action Get Profits Radio with Host Mischele Scism and her guest Kathy Fettke and David Pisarra: Kathy Fettke, CEO and Founder of Real Wealth Network based in Walnut Creek, CA, an organization dedicated to helping members get the most current and cutting edge education and information they need to succeed as real estate investors. Kathy is a licensed Realtor, former mortgage broker, and an active real estate investor She was selected as one of America's "100 Most Intriguing Entrepreneurs" by Goldman Sachs at the 1st annual and now 2nd Annual Builders and Innovator's Summit. David Pisarra is filming a documentary on men who are victims of domestic violence called What About The Men? Exploring the Hidden Side of Domestic Violence.I'm an attorney who specializes in Father's rights and family law. I found that men need vocal advocates in court and there no other lawyers who wanted to stick their necks out for the men and specialize. I am an author of 5 books, an attorney who specializes in Father's Rights and host of the Men's Family Law podcast.

Q & A Night - You'll suggest the themes for tonight's show, which will involve any topic from the world of public safety, violence prevention, and child abuse and trauma. Special co-host Dr. Debra Warner, Psy.D., a Los Angeles based Forensic Psychologist will lead the discussion, joined tonight by her colleague, attorney David Pisarra, who's is in town and wants to join us. David's long history of dealing with issues close to NAASCA's mission have been expressed as a columnist, podcaster and public speaker. An outspoken gay man, he practices family law, specializing in men's and father's rights issues. Among other things, David's been litigating domestic violence cases, and represented men and women against abusive partners. He's written a "What's The Point?" Column in the Santa Monica Daily Press for the past 13 years, along with countless articles for bar journals, websites, magazines and newspapers. He has written three books for men in his 'A Man's Guide to….' series on Child Custody, Divorce Strategy and Domestic Violence. ~~ Dr Debra Warner will be our regular special co-host on Tuesday night question-and-answer style community participation shows. An educator and violence prevention expert, Debra's understanding of the issues of child abuse and trauma spring not only from a professional perspective, but also from a personal one. Multiple members of her own family have been victims of predators. She'll share how she's participated in their struggle with surviving and thriving. ~~ Everyone's invited to engage on tonight's show .. on the phone or in SCAN's ever-present community chat room. ~~ Please visit our website: www.NAASCA.org

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra discusses parental alienation, what it is, the causes and how to deal with it in court.   I interview Dr. Amy J.L. Baker this week about the topic and we discuss her new novel that is entered into a writing competition on KindleScout.   Amy is an expert on Parental Alienation regularly speaks across the country and is available for coaching if you are having alienation happening in your life with your children.   Find out more about her here: www.amyjlbaker.com she is availble for phone consultation across the country.   Her latest book, the novel The Misery Checklist is in a KindleScout competition and you can read the first 2 1/2 chapters here: https://kindlescout.amazon.com/p/2JHN5LHNVK9SU   Please go read her book and nominate it by 5/27/15.

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra discusses his new film that is in development about men who are experiencing domestic abuse from the other side - women who abuse men.   The interview today is with Ram Goetz, producer of the movie BLAME from Elementum Entertainment on what drew him to the movie, how domestic violence affects relationships and develops, and a funny on set story about what actors go through to get ready for a role.   View the BLAME trailer at www.elementument.com 

Men's Family Law - This week David Pisarra explains how sex, no fault divorce, and the bible all factor in to your divorce or child custody case.  Then it's all about polyamory, swinging and rebuilding your sex life after a divorce.   The interview this week is Cooper Beckett from Life On The Swingset podcast and author of My Life On The Swingset, soon to be an audiobook.   Today we discuss polyamory, open relationships, swinging and how to have fun and enjoy your sexual relationships more.    Cooper reads a chapter from his book on what divorce means to him and how it was a positive life change for his family.    http://www.lifeontheswingset.com

Men's Family Law - The show this week has information on a do it yourself divorce course offered by David Pisarra on YOUTUBE.COM   Today's interview is with Michael Volpe who is the author of  BULLIED TO DEATH - THE CHRIS MACKNEY STORY. A tale involving a decades old murder, lawyers, a celebrity jewelry designer named Dina Mackney and has a weird connection to Woody Harrelson's deceased father.    Chris was put through the wringer by his ex-wife, the judicial system and in this super high conflict divorce, he had little chance of coming out of it with any shred of his former life.

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra explains how to get a Domestic Violence Restraining Order (DVRO) and the basic forms needed.    In today's show, we speak with John Hamel, Editor of Partner Abuse Journal on how often men are targets of abuse, and what it does to the children to live in an abusive home, and how it effects men. We bag on bad lawyers and judges, and talk about what you need to know to protect yourself.   Check out this website for more great information: http://www.domesticviolenceresearch.org   Can a DVRO help me? http://www.courts.ca.gov/documents/dv500info.pdf   Request for DVRO: http://www.courts.ca.gov/documents/dv100.pdf   Description of Abuse: http://www.courts.ca.gov/documents/dv101.pdf   Request for Custody and Visitation orders:  http://www.courts.ca.gov/documents/dv105.pdf   Request for No Travel:  http://www.courts.ca.gov/documents/dv108.pdf   Notice of Court Hearing: http://www.courts.ca.gov/documents/dv109.pdf   Temporary Restraining Order: http://www.courts.ca.gov/documents/dv110.pdf   Proof of Service: http://www.courts.ca.gov/documents/dv200.pdf  

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra explains physical and psychological abuse so that men can understand and recognize it more accurately. Taking definitions straight from the CDC's National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey of 2010 he explains what psychological abuse is, and gives concrete examples.   The report is available here: NATIONAL INTIMATE PARTNER REPORT   Today's interview is with Philip W. Cook, author of Abused Men - The Hidden Side of Domestic Violence, and When Women Sexually Abuse Men.

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra talks with Chris Anderson of the website MaleSurvivor.org about how men who have been abused, sexually or traumatized, can identify themselves and then seek help.    This is a far ranging conversation dealing with sex and sexuality, with how humans have historically handled sexual exploration  and what we as a society are doing to develop a healthy sexuality while avoiding traumatizing behaviors.   We talk about how likely is a victim to become an abuser and the "Vampire Myth" of abuse as it pertains to men.   Today's conversation may be uncomfortable some people who have been abused or traumatized. 

Men's Family Law -  This episode talks about Domestic Abuse and how men don't recognize that they are victims or targets as often as they should.   The article "HOW THE WELL MEANING SUPERBOWL COMMERCIALS FUMBLED DOMESTIC VIOLENCE" was written by David Pisarra and published on GoodMenProject.com. David reads this article for you today, it's a 750 word essay that discusses what men need to know about domestic violence.   Daniel Crespo was the mayor of Bell Gardens  when on September 30, 2014 the eve of the National Domestic Violence awareness month, his wife, Lyvette Crespo put three bullets in close proximity to each other in his chest. She claims he was an abusive cheater and it was self-defense. Which is odd considering he was fighting with their 19 year old son. Attorney James Deavitt, of www.domesticviolenceatty.com is representing Daniel Crespo's mother and brother in a wrongful death lawsuit against Lyvette Crespo.   

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra explains the most important things fathers need to know about  talking to the judge about your Child Custody and the best strategy for  getting the most time with their child.   In this episode, David explains how telling the judge your WHY impacts your ability to get what you want from a judge, and the biggest mistake most men make in asking for more time with their children.    We talk with Pat Williams from the Orlando Magic about his experiences as a leader in his family of 19 children, and in building teams throughout his career in professional sports.

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra explains the three most important things fathers need to know about Child Custody and the strategy for getting the most time with their child.   This week I explain what forms are needed to get a hearing for a child custody plan, what you should put in your declaration to make the judge want to give you the time you need with your children. I give tips on  how to fill out the fl-150 the income and expense declaration and create a Profit and Loss statement if you're self-employed.   I speak with Dr. Carol Hirshfield about the difference between Parental Alienation Syndrome and Parental Alienation. We talk about what Reunification Therapy is and why she thinks it should be called Famiy Therapy. We explore why some kids might be more attached to one parent than the other, and why that is not a bad thing always.

Today's show will make you Educated, Empowered and Entertained - and that's our goal with every show.     In this episode David Pisarra talks about how being honest with your lawyer is crucial to setting yourself up for success in a divorce or child custody case.   In this week's interview DIAMOND DALLAS PAGE comes on to talk about his experiences with the USO in Iraq and Afghanistan, how he developed his DDP YOGA and why it is crucial for men to get honest with themselves in order to get healthier.   We discuss Arthur, one of the greatest turnaroundstories of health and fitness in American history. If you haven't seen the video of Arthur's transformation thanks to DDP Yoga, you can watch it here: www.ddpyoga.com.

A guy with stage 4 cancer needs to know if his submissive will be swallowing his chemotherapy drugs along with his jizz (see link below), advice on toning down your dominant side when it's too much for your partner, and tips on how to swallow a big load at the end of a blowjob without gagging. JV was recently a guest on the Men's Family Law Podcast with awesome host attorney David Pisarra to talk about the impact of sex on a healthy relationship and a bunch of other fun topics. JV and Shara are confirmed for Swingset Takes Desire this November. WOOHOO! Looking forward to a week of fun in the sun and sexy new friends! Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT provide your email if you prefer. Show Links: Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Audience Demographic Survey (Please take a moment to respond) MD Anderson Chemo Brochure (See top of page 4) Men's Family Law Podcast Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra talks about how important sex is to a marriage and if you're not getting it, it may be time to get out and get a divorce.   Irreconcilable differences is a catch all phrase for why to get a divorce and it's explained in this episode.   THIS IS AN EXPLICIT CONVERSATION FOR ADULTS. IT'S RAUNCHY IN PLACES AND NOT FOR THE FAINT OF HEART.   Today's guest is JV Altharas from Ending the Sexual Dark Age Podcast. We chat about all the stuff you want to know, and more. We talk about being sex positive in society and why we're not. Slut shaming and who's really doing it.  How to save a relationship with a positive sexual attitude and how to make a woman want to give you anything you ask for. www.sexualdarkage.com

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra explains the most recent ruling the Jason Patric Paternity battle and why it's important for all fathers who want custody.   David shares the editorial comments he made on TMZLive with Harvey Levin that lay out his beliefs about why the Jason Patric ruling is  so important and what society should be doing to honor fathers and respect children.   In today's interview, David speaks with NFL World Championship Quarterback Joe Theismann about how hard it is for men to be fathers and get custody and why a winning strategy is necessary. He tells Joe that MensFamilyLaw.com is not about bashing women, it's about empowering men and giving them the tools and the inspiration and the hope they need to secure their relationship with their children.

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra talks about what a stay at home dad can expect legally in terms of support, custody and how to prove your role when it's questioned. He interviews Lisa Hickey today the Publisher of GoodMenProject.com about having the conversations that men are having today about what it means to be a good man in the 21st Century. They're talking about the things guys don't normally talk about. By creating a safe space for men to open up and be vulnerable they're finding that men are growing into better men. The conversational shift of stay at home dads from "loser" to a coveted role is causing a shift in the emotions from anger, to pride and engagement as fathers.    http://www.goodmenproject.com

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra explains the most important thing fathers need to know about Child Custody and the strategy of getting the most time with their child - how your mindset determines your outcome in family court.  Today he interviews retired Navy Seal Mark Divine who is the founder of Seal Fit Training in San Diego. They discuss the first premise that to win you must gain control of your mind and win there first. Coming from a background of martial arts training, Mark discusses the value of meditation as the way to creating the success a man needs in this world. He teaches Box Breathing and explains what the UnbeatableMind.com and SealFit.com training programs are like.  Mark Divine can be reached at:  www.unbeatablemind.com www.sealfit.com Or by email at info@sealfit.com or call him at 760-634-1833

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra explains why it's LEGAL to start dating whenever you're ready to, but you need to think about the timing for STRATEGY purposes in a divorce.  He talks about when to introduce the new love to the children and why you probably want to hold off on that. In this week's interview, David interviews Mark Manson, author, dating coach and digital nomad about how men can get their swing back when they've been out of the dating pool for a while. Mark is the author of MODELS a book to help men find themselves and regain their confidence and composure to be authentic and real in their next relationship. For more information and coaching programs go to www.MarkManson.net

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra explains what a Minor's Counsel is, when they get appointed, what they do, and the pitfalls of having them. Plus they can be expensive.    In this episode he talks with Christine Gille, Esq, a divorce and child custody attorney in Pasadena California who has represented hundreds of children as a Minor's Counsel, on her experiences, what are good ways for a parent to present themselves to a Minor's Counsel and work with them for the best result for the children.  

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra explains the three types of evidence, Physical, Documentary and Testamentary. In this podcast he covers, briefly, the Hearsay Rule, the difference between meaningful evidence to you and relevant evidence to a judge. The types of documents that you'll need to prepare and compile for a child custody battle are discussed. In this week's interview, David interviews Eric Dearman the author of Evidence Strategies for Child Custody. His website is www.CustodySimplified.com. The interview covers how Eric got involved with this subject as a result of his own case, and why he's carrying the message to other fathers about how to prepare their documents in a format that works to get them more effective counsel and for those precious few moments in front of a judge.

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra explains the most important things fathers need to know about Child Custody and the strategy of getting the most time with their child. In this episode the "standard dad custody" schedule is covered. What is it? and how to get more time with your kids. Is 4 days a month really enough to be a dad?  Kalani Vale, a single dad with twins talks about his experiences and the book he wrote, "Super Hero, Single Dad" and why it matters to fathers.  You can get the book at his website, www.superherosingledad.com If you're trying to figure out how to get back on the dating scene after a long time, maybe dance lessons are the ticket. The Dance Doctor John Cassese chats with David Pisarra about why dance lessons are a good form of exercise and a great way to meet women when you're still feeling the sting of that last breakup. His website is www.dancedoctor.com

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra explains the basics of what is Legal Custody and Physical custody in this episode. In Segment 2, David chats with a single dad who has Sole Legal and Sole Physical custody of his son. He shares how he does it, how hard it can be, and what amazing benefits the relationship with his son has had, on his relationship with his father.   As an example of the new Fatherhood Initiative, this single dad will give you hope and inspiration.

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra discusses some of the hiccups in a family court case and why it can take so long and be so expensive to have a hearing or get a divorce. The delaying effects of the Domestic Violence Restraining Order process is covered and then in Segment Two - Jim Reape provides a possible solution.Next up he has a conversation with Attorney amd Private Arbitrator Jim Reape of the Reape/Rickett Law firm about how private mediations and arbitrations are not only cheaper, but more effective for divorcing couples.

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra discusses substance abuse and how it will effect a child custody case, how hard it is to prove and what you can do to protect yourself. In Segment 2 Dan Reynolds from BookYourCare.com is interviewed discussing how his website reviews rehabs and what makes a good one.Next week Attorney/Private Judge James Reape is interviewed on ways to save money in a divorce or child custody case.

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra explains Parental Alienation - What it is, how to deal with it, and gives you great resources to learn more about it, and deal with effects of being a targeted parent.Mike Jeffries is the targeted parent and author of A Family's Heartbreak - A Parent's Introduction to Parental Alienation he's interiewed on this episode about his experiences, what made him write the book and how it can help others who are facing being the targeted parent in a parental alienation situaion. Resources in this episode: A Family's Heartbreak - A Parent's Introduction to Parental Alienation by  Mike Jeffries Adult Children of Parental Alienation Syndrome - Dr. Amy J. L. Baker ISNAF.NET - International Support Network of Alienated Families KeepingFamiliesConnected.org

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra explains what an Ex Parte Hearing is, how you get one, and why they usually are denied.Summer is almost here, and if you want a summer vacation with you child, start planning now for that summer visitation schedule.Child Support Arrearages are covered in the Mail Sack and next week the topic is Parental Alienation.

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra explains what a child custody evaluation is, how they work and what a man needs to know if he is faced with one. The role of a Minor's Counsel is explained and the question of do you need a lawyer to change custody and support is addressed.

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra explains what alimony is, who can get it, how you can limit it, and most importantly how to end it. The rabbit hole of family court is discussed in light of Fast and Furious actor Tyrese Gibson's child custody battles.

Men's Family Law - Nationally recognized Father's Rights expert David Pisarra explains the three most important things fathers need to know about Child Custody and the strategy of getting the most time with their child. Proximity - What does this mean and why is it important? Paperwork - Here's a strategy to help you protect your parenting time. Persistence - How to stick it out.

On this episode of Single Again! Now What? Joanie and Steve feature attorney and author David Pisarra to discuss Co-Parenting a Pet. Using his own life story as a backdrop, David T. Pisarra, shares his experience of sharing a dog in What About Wally? and how it helped bring closure and healed the hurt of a broken heart. Breaking up is difficult, and when you share a dog, (or cat for that matter), with another person, how your ex treats the dog is a major concern. Our dogs become like our children, and we want "the ex" to treat them with the same love, respect and care that we do. Combining the life experiences of a divorce lawyer and a pet expert, David teaches the vital principles of co-parenting, mutual respect and the value of a clear parenting plan. Other topics include: Joanie's Cancer Retreat Parental Alination Personal Protection & Restraining Orders How Divorce Ramps Up Anger  For more on David Pisarra and his new book What About Wally, visit: www.WhatAboutWally.com. For more programs on divorce and life after divorce, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.  For more on Joanie, visit: www.FreshStartAfterDivorce.com.

Some statistics show that as many as 50% of Domestic Violence victims are men, attacked by women.  Is this possible?  Find out the inside story, why men hesitate to report it, and more.   Guests include attorney David T. Pisarra of Men's Family Law (author, A Man's Guide to Domestic Violence); San Francisco psychotherapist John Hamel (author, Intimate Partner and Family Abuse); Elva "Precious Love" Thompson (author, Battered Secrets: Men of Domestic Violence); family therapist Chelsea Madsen, therapist and domestic violence perpetrator trainer Maria Marinakis; and former victim Gregory Whitfield.

Parents become alienated from their child in a divorce for reasons anywhere from a passing negative remark by one partner about the other — to a deliberate full-out campaign of vengeance waged to permanently poison a child's opinion of the ex.  Guests include Rosalind Sedacca, CCT (author How Do I Tell The Kids About The Divorce?), attorney David T. Pisarra of Men's Family Law (authorMan's Guide to Child Custody); therapist Dr. Karen Ruskin (author, The 9 Key Techniques and Dr. Karen's Marriage Manual); attorney Caron Graff of Graff & Associates, therapist Leslie Petruk ofStepping Stones Counseling.