The Human Side of Money

The most common mistake advisors make with prospects? They deliver a logically-driven pitch showcasing all the ways they can help. But, prospects make decisions with the emotional part of the brain. And, that's why logical pitches fall on deaf ears. Stacy Havener, Founder and CEO at Havener Capital Partners, has raised billions for boutique asset managers, and she did it with words, not numbers. Her story-driven method taps into something most pitches miss: emotion. If you want to connect with prospects, you need to master the art of storytelling. In this conversation, she unpacks why logic-based pitches fail, how to structure a first meeting to connect at a human level, and the neuroscience behind compelling narratives that convert. You'll learn:  How you can set the tone for a vulnerable and authentic conversation How to turn a good story into a compelling offer that moves clients to action Structuring prospect meetings to build an emotional connection and trust from the start The science behind storytelling and how it triggers buying decisions at a subconscious level Tips for creating powerful “backstories” and using emotional cues that resonate with your audience *To sign up for Brendan's newsletter packed with resources to master the human side of advice → Click Here Resources: The Courage to Be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga  Connect with Brendan Frazier:  RFG Advisory LinkedIn: Brendan Frazier Connect with Stacy Havener:  LinkedIn: Stacy Havener Website: Havener Capital Partners About our Guest:  Stacy Havener is the Founder/CEO at Havener Capital Partners, a sales and marketing agency that helps boutique asset managers build, launch and grow funds. Havener Capital is on a mission to level the playing field in asset management by raising $100B for boutiques over the next decade. Stacy holds her Series 6, 7, 24, 63, 66, and 79 licenses and is a registered representative of Compass Securities Corporation. She received her Bachelor of Arts in English Literature from Western Connecticut State University, graduating summa cum laude in 1998. That same year, Stacy was named to both the NCAA and the GTE/CoSida Academic All-American teams for Division III Women's Soccer and subsequently nominated for NCAA Woman of the Year. Based in Newport, RI, Stacy often spends her mornings walking the beach, sipping a Dunkin' coffee, and listening to 90's hip hop – Content here is for illustrative purposes and general information only. It is not legal, tax, or individualized financial advice; nor is it a recommendation to buy, sell, or hold any specific security, or engage in any specific trading strategy. Information here may be provided, in part, by third-party sources. These sources are generally deemed to be reliable; however, neither our guest nor RFG Advisory guarantee the accuracy of third-party sources. The views expressed here are those of our guest. They do not necessarily represent those of RFG Advisory, its employees, or its clients. This commentary should not be regarded as a description of advisory services provided by RFG Advisory, or performance returns of any client. The views reflected in the commentary are subject to change at any time without notice. Securities offered by Registered Representatives of Private Client Services. Member FINRA / SIPC. Advisory services offered by Investment Advisory Representatives of RFG Advisory, LLC (“RFG Advisory or “RFG”), a registered investment advisor. Private Client Services and RFG Advisory are unaffiliated entities. Advisory services are only offered to clients or prospective clients where RFG Advisory and its representatives are properly licensed or exempt from licensure. No advisory services may be rendered by RFG Advisory unless a client agreement is in place. RFG Advisory is an SEC-registered investment adviser. SEC registration does not constitute an endorsement of...

What if retirement planning wasn't just about saving but about learning how to spend? In Part 2 of The Human Side of Retirement,  Brendan Frazier continues his conversation with Dan Haylett to explore the emotional and psychological aspects of decumulation. They dig into the behavioral side of this transition, why a "save, save, save" mindset can hold clients back, and how to reframe retirement as a time to pursue fulfillment. And they offer practical strategies advisors can use to guide clients through this transition so retirement becomes not just a financial milestone, but a fulfilling new chapter. You'll Learn:  Mastering the skill of spending money in retirement  Creating intentional spending habits to smooth the transition  Reframing the success rates of financial plans  The significance of the 50 to 70 "sweet spot" years for optimal life experiences  *To sign up for Brendan's newsletter packed with resources to master the human side of advice → Click Here Connect with Brendan Frazier:  RFG Advisory LinkedIn: Brendan Frazier Connect with Dan Haylett:  Humans vs Retirement LinkedIn: Dan Haylett TFP Financial Planning About Our Guest:  Dan Haylett is the director, Head of Growth, and financial Planner at TFP Financial Planning. As a co-director of TFP, Dan's “pull back the duvet every morning” purpose is helping our clients spend their time and money on what's truly important. His passion for understanding and learning about the emotional, behavioural and financial challenges of life after work makes him a true specialist in helping clients have the freedom and confidence to take advantage of their ‘window of spending opportunity' and live their best life. – Content here is for illustrative purposes and general information only. It is not legal, tax, or individualized financial advice; nor is it a recommendation to buy, sell, or hold any specific security, or engage in any specific trading strategy. Information here may be provided, in part, by third-party sources. These sources are generally deemed to be reliable; however, neither our guest nor RFG Advisory guarantee the accuracy of third-party sources. The views expressed here are those of our guest. They do not necessarily represent those of RFG Advisory, its employees, or its clients. This commentary should not be regarded as a description of advisory services provided by RFG Advisory, or performance returns of any client. The views reflected in the commentary are subject to change at any time without notice. Securities offered by Registered Representatives of Private Client Services. Member FINRA / SIPC. Advisory services offered by Investment Advisory Representatives of RFG Advisory, LLC (“RFG Advisory or “RFG”), a registered investment advisor. Private Client Services and RFG Advisory are unaffiliated entities. Advisory services are only offered to clients or prospective clients where RFG Advisory and its representatives are properly licensed or exempt from licensure. No advisory services may be rendered by RFG Advisory unless a client agreement is in place. RFG Advisory is an SEC-registered investment adviser. SEC registration does not constitute an endorsement of RFG by the Commission, nor does it indicate that RFG or any associated investment advisory representative has attained a particular level of skill or ability.

Retirement isn't just about reaching a number - it's a deeply personal transition that requires more than financial planning. By understanding what truly matters beyond the numbers, you can better support clients in creating meaningful and fulfilling retirements. In Part One of this episode, Dan Haylett emphasizes the importance of shifting the focus from financial figures to human connection, purpose, and lasting memories. And he walks through the Retirement Planning Workbook he uses with clients to help them live with purpose, joy and meaning in retirement You'll Learn:  The importance of understanding the emotional aspects of retirement and his own experiences helping clients navigate this transition The revolutionary "Retirement Planning Workbook" he developed to address the human side of retirement How to help clients spend their savings meaningfully to create lasting memories *To sign up for Brendan's newsletter packed with resources to master the human side of advice → Click Here Connect with Brendan Frazier:  RFG Advisory LinkedIn: Brendan Frazier Connect with Dan Haylett:  Humans vs Retirement LinkedIn: Dan Haylett TFP Financial Planning About Our Guest:  Dan Haylett is the director, Head of Growth, and financial Planner at TFP Financial Planning. As a co-director of TFP, Dan's “pull back the duvet every morning” purpose is helping our clients spend their time and money on what's truly important. His passion for understanding and learning about the emotional, behavioural and financial challenges of life after work makes him a true specialist in helping clients have the freedom and confidence to take advantage of their ‘window of spending opportunity' and live their best life. – Content here is for illustrative purposes and general information only. It is not legal, tax, or individualized financial advice; nor is it a recommendation to buy, sell, or hold any specific security, or engage in any specific trading strategy. Information here may be provided, in part, by third-party sources. These sources are generally deemed to be reliable; however, neither our guest nor RFG Advisory guarantee the accuracy of third-party sources. The views expressed here are those of our guest. They do not necessarily represent those of RFG Advisory, its employees, or its clients. This commentary should not be regarded as a description of advisory services provided by RFG Advisory, or performance returns of any client. The views reflected in the commentary are subject to change at any time without notice. Securities offered by Registered Representatives of Private Client Services. Member FINRA / SIPC. Advisory services offered by Investment Advisory Representatives of RFG Advisory, LLC (“RFG Advisory or “RFG”), a registered investment advisor. Private Client Services and RFG Advisory are unaffiliated entities. Advisory services are only offered to clients or prospective clients where RFG Advisory and its representatives are properly licensed or exempt from licensure. No advisory services may be rendered by RFG Advisory unless a client agreement is in place. RFG Advisory is an SEC-registered investment adviser. SEC registration does not constitute an endorsement of RFG by the Commission, nor does it indicate that RFG or any associated investment advisory representative has attained a particular level of skill or ability.

Financial planning is a service-based business. You're selling the invisible. It can't be seen, touched or experienced before buying. Prospects are forced to search for other ways to evaluate the value of working with you (most of which are NOT great options to inform such an important decision!). Fortunately, Michael Lecours, a financial advisor and co-founder of fpPathfinder, joined the show to explain the challenges of communicating the value of an intangible service and share specific ideas to make the financial planning experience more tangible. You'll Learn: How a dentist office made their service more tangible The invisible influences that drive a prospect's decision Using a client journey map to enhance client experiences What Airbnb can teach us about marketing the real value of an advisor *To sign up for Brendan's newsletter packed with resources to master the human side of advice → Click Here   Resources: Harvard Business Review: Know Your Customers' “Jobs to Be Done” fpPathfinder: Popular Checklists & Flowcharts “Alchemy: The Dark Art and Curious Science of Creating Magic in Brands, Business, and Life” by Rory Sutherland  “The Checklist Manifesto: How to Get Things Right” by Atul Gawande Connect with Brendan Frazier:  RFG Advisory LinkedIn: Brendan Frazier Connect with Mike Lecours:  fpPathfinder LinkedIn: Michael Lecours About Our Guest:  Michael Lecours, CFP® is a Co-Founder of fpPathfinder. He is also a financial advisor and planner at the Wealth Strategies Team. Michael began his career in advertising where he worked to develop marketing strategies for insurance companies, banks, credit unions, RIAs and hedge funds. Now, he leverages his background in advertising to distill complex financial planning concepts into straightforward strategies, apply behavioral finance concepts to the planning process and injects a disciplined approach to all facets of the client experience. – Content here is for illustrative purposes and general information only. It is not legal, tax, or individualized financial advice; nor is it a recommendation to buy, sell, or hold any specific security, or engage in any specific trading strategy. Information here may be provided, in part, by third-party sources. These sources are generally deemed to be reliable; however, neither our guest nor RFG Advisory guarantee the accuracy of third-party sources. The views expressed here are those of our guest. They do not necessarily represent those of RFG Advisory, its employees, or its clients. This commentary should not be regarded as a description of advisory services provided by RFG Advisory, or performance returns of any client. The views reflected in the commentary are subject to change at any time without notice. Securities offered by Registered Representatives of Private Client Services. Member FINRA / SIPC. Advisory services offered by Investment Advisory Representatives of RFG Advisory, LLC (“RFG Advisory or “RFG”), a registered investment advisor. Private Client Services and RFG Advisory are unaffiliated entities. Advisory services are only offered to clients or prospective clients where RFG Advisory and its representatives are properly licensed or exempt from licensure. No advisory services may be rendered by RFG Advisory unless a client agreement is in place. RFG Advisory is an SEC-registered investment adviser. SEC registration does not constitute an endorsement of RFG by the Commission, nor does it indicate that RFG or any associated investment advisory representative has attained a particular level of skill or ability.

The conversations you have with clients during uncertain markets are the most important you'll ever have. Helping them safely and confidently navigate times like these is likely the single most important thing you'll ever do… If you know how to do it! In this episode, Brendan walks through a 4-step framework to equip you with everything you need to confidently guide your clients through uncertain markets You'll Learn: The critical mindset shift you must make before these conversations What goes on inside the mind of your clients when they call Why your charts and graphs are a waste of time (unless used correctly) *To sign up for Brendan's newsletter packed with resources to master the human side of advice → Click Here Connect with Brendan Frazier:  RFG Advisory LinkedIn: Brendan Frazier Content here is for illustrative purposes and general information only. It is not legal, tax, or individualized financial advice; nor is it a recommendation to buy, sell, or hold any specific security, or engage in any specific trading strategy. Information here may be provided, in part, by third-party sources. These sources are generally deemed to be reliable; however, neither our guest nor RFG Advisory guarantee the accuracy of third-party sources. The views expressed here are those of our guest. They do not necessarily represent those of RFG Advisory, its employees, or its clients. This commentary should not be regarded as a description of advisory services provided by RFG Advisory, or performance returns of any client. The views reflected in the commentary are subject to change at any time without notice. Securities offered by Registered Representatives of Private Client Services. Member FINRA / SIPC. Advisory services offered by Investment Advisory Representatives of RFG Advisory, LLC (“RFG Advisory or “RFG”), a registered investment advisor. Private Client Services and RFG Advisory are unaffiliated entities. Advisory services are only offered to clients or prospective clients where RFG Advisory and its representatives are properly licensed or exempt from licensure. No advisory services may be rendered by RFG Advisory unless a client agreement is in place. RFG Advisory is an SEC-registered investment adviser. SEC registration does not constitute an endorsement of RFG by the Commission, nor does it indicate that RFG or any associated investment advisory representative has attained a particular level of skill or ability.

Most advisors know they need to integrate the human element into their practice. But, it's hard to decide WHAT to do and HOW to do it. Fortunately, Danielle Howard has successfully studied, tested and integrated the human element into her practice for over 30 years. And, through those years of learning and testing, she built the “Journey of Financial Health” process. In this conversation, Danielle reveals the steps of this process and how it helps her uncover client's mindsets, beliefs, and identities around money. You'll Learn: The role of identity in financial decisions The “Journey of Financial Health” Client Process The surveys she uses to facilitate deeper conversations A question to help clients focus on their financial “wins” How to run group workshops and hands-on client experiences *To sign up for Brendan's newsletter packed with resources to master the human side of advice → Click Here Resources: “The Soul of Money” by Lynne Twist “Atomic Habits” by James Clear “The Body of Money” by Gayle Colman Connect with Brendan Frazier:  RFG Advisory LinkedIn: Brendan Frazier Connect with Danielle Howard:  Website: Danielle Howard CFP® LinkedIn: Danielle Howard, CFP® CKA® danielle@wbd4u.com 970-927-3909 About Our Guest:  As a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™ author, speaker and founder of Wealth By Design, LLC and Danielle Howard, CFP®, she is a catalyst for change around the financial tools, techniques and temperaments that construct a person's financial life. She is a blogger, podcaster and outspoken advocate for people heading into their fall season of life. Bridging the gap between Wall Street and Main Street, she brings complex financial topics and concepts down to earth. She opens the door to new conversations around money. Her engaging workshop - "Financial Fingerprints to Footprints™" provides an opportunity for people to look at their mindsets around money and learn how to build on the wins or rewrite the scripts. With on-line tutorial opportunities and in person educational events, she brings a fresh perspective to the pecuniary world. – Content here is for illustrative purposes and general information only. It is not legal, tax, or individualized financial advice; nor is it a recommendation to buy, sell, or hold any specific security, or engage in any specific trading strategy. Information here may be provided, in part, by third-party sources. These sources are generally deemed to be reliable; however, neither our guest nor RFG Advisory guarantee the accuracy of third-party sources. The views expressed here are those of our guest. They do not necessarily represent those of RFG Advisory, its employees, or its clients. This commentary should not be regarded as a description of advisory services provided by RFG Advisory, or performance returns of any client. The views reflected in the commentary are subject to change at any time without notice. Securities offered by Registered Representatives of Private Client Services. Member FINRA / SIPC. Advisory services offered by Investment Advisory Representatives of RFG Advisory, LLC (“RFG Advisory or “RFG”), a registered investment advisor. Private Client Services and RFG Advisory are unaffiliated entities. Advisory services are only offered to clients or prospective clients where RFG Advisory and its representatives are properly licensed or exempt from licensure. No advisory services may be rendered by RFG Advisory unless a client agreement is in place. RFG Advisory is an SEC-registered investment adviser. SEC registration does not constitute an endorsement of RFG by the Commission, nor does it indicate that RFG or any associated investment advisory representative has attained a particular level of skill or ability.

The conversations you have with clients during uncertain markets are the most important you'll ever have. Helping them safely and confidently navigate times like these is likely the single most important thing you'll ever do… If you know how to do it! In this episode, Brendan walks through a 4-step framework to equip you with everything you need to confidently guide your clients through uncertain markets You'll Learn: The critical mindset shift you must make before these conversations What goes on inside the mind of your clients when they call Why your charts and graphs are a waste of time (unless used correctly) *To sign up for Brendan's newsletter packed with resources to master the human side of advice → Click Here Connect with Brendan Frazier:  RFG Advisory LinkedIn: Brendan Frazier Content here is for illustrative purposes and general information only. It is not legal, tax, or individualized financial advice; nor is it a recommendation to buy, sell, or hold any specific security, or engage in any specific trading strategy. Information here may be provided, in part, by third-party sources. These sources are generally deemed to be reliable; however, neither our guest nor RFG Advisory guarantee the accuracy of third-party sources. The views expressed here are those of our guest. They do not necessarily represent those of RFG Advisory, its employees, or its clients. This commentary should not be regarded as a description of advisory services provided by RFG Advisory, or performance returns of any client. The views reflected in the commentary are subject to change at any time without notice. Securities offered by Registered Representatives of Private Client Services. Member FINRA / SIPC. Advisory services offered by Investment Advisory Representatives of RFG Advisory, LLC (“RFG Advisory or “RFG”), a registered investment advisor. Private Client Services and RFG Advisory are unaffiliated entities. Advisory services are only offered to clients or prospective clients where RFG Advisory and its representatives are properly licensed or exempt from licensure. No advisory services may be rendered by RFG Advisory unless a client agreement is in place. RFG Advisory is an SEC-registered investment adviser. SEC registration does not constitute an endorsement of RFG by the Commission, nor does it indicate that RFG or any associated investment advisory representative has attained a particular level of skill or ability.

Talking about money remains one of the most challenging topics for many, often shrouded in silence and taboo.  Why do we hesitate to engage in money conversations, and how can financial advisors help break this cycle? Join Brendan Frazier as he chats with Kathleen Burns Kingsbury, the mastermind behind KBK Wealth Connection and author of "Breaking Money Silence."  Together, they delve into why we're so reluctant to talk about money and offer actionable steps to conquer these barriers. You'll Learn:  The generational silence around money and how it's perpetuated. Real-life stories of breaking money silence and their impact. Risks of avoiding money conversations and unrecognized consequences. Tactical steps for advisors to build trust and facilitate meaningful financial discussions. *To sign up for Brendan's newsletter packed with resources to master the human side of advice → Click Here Connect with Brendan Frazier:  RFG Advisory LinkedIn: Brendan Frazier Connect with Kathleen Burns Kingsbury:  KBK Wealth Connection LinkedIn: Kathleen Burns Kingsbury About Our Guest:  Kathleen Burns Kingsbury isn't your average money mindset coach; she's a pioneering force in the realm of women and money, setting her apart from conventional counterparts. With over 18 years of specialized experience, she's dedicated herself to empowering women across finance, business, and entrepreneurship. As a mentor to female entrepreneurs, Kathleen offers invaluable guidance, drawing from her extensive background in wealth psychology and client communication. Her expertise extends to working with financial advisors, helping them navigate the complexities of wealth management while fostering stronger client relationships. Her signature program, “Unleash Your True Value™: How to Shift Your Negotiation Mindset, Boost Your Confidence, and Close More Sales,” is the culmination of her expertise, honed through years of helping women executives, financial advisors, and entrepreneurs break free from money silence. A graduate of Harvard Law School's Program On Negotiation, Kathleen served as an adjunct faculty member at the McCallum Graduate School at Bentley University from 2009 to 2019, where she taught the Psychology of Financial Planning in the CFP® program. She currently teaches Strategic Negotiations in the Business and Management School at Champlain College. She is certified Co-Active Coach with a Masters Degree in Psychology and Bachelors Degree in Finance. – Content here is for illustrative purposes and general information only. It is not legal, tax, or individualized financial advice; nor is it a recommendation to buy, sell, or hold any specific security, or engage in any specific trading strategy. Information here may be provided, in part, by third-party sources. These sources are generally deemed to be reliable; however, neither our guest nor RFG Advisory guarantee the accuracy of third-party sources. The views expressed here are those of our guest. They do not necessarily represent those of RFG Advisory, its employees, or its clients. This commentary should not be regarded as a description of advisory services provided by RFG Advisory, or performance returns of any client. The views reflected in the commentary are subject to change at any time without notice. Securities offered by Registered Representatives of Private Client Services. Member FINRA / SIPC. Advisory services offered by Investment Advisory Representatives of RFG Advisory, LLC (“RFG Advisory or “RFG”), a registered investment advisor. Private Client Services and RFG Advisory are unaffiliated entities. Advisory services are only offered to clients or prospective clients where RFG Advisory and its representatives are properly licensed or exempt from licensure. No advisory services may be rendered by RFG Advisory unless a client agreement is in place. RFG Advisory is an SEC-registered investment adviser.

Financial advice is no longer just about offering services—it's about creating real, meaningful experiences for clients.  Because an experience unlike any other is the difference between a one-time sale and a lifelong client. You want to create experiences so exceptional that your clients aren't even interested in hearing about an alternative.  And, they can't wait to tell their friends and family about it. Fortunately, Dennis Moseley-Williams is a client experience guru and explains how to elevate your client experience to create raving fans and grow your business. You'll Learn: Why efficiency is the executioner of experience Why all advisors need a secret belief to share with clients The important distinction between service and experience Lessons about the client experience from The Ritz-Carlton A social media experiment to enhance the client experience *To sign up for Brendan's newsletter packed with resources to master the human side of advice → Click Here Connect with Brendan Frazier:  RFG Advisory LinkedIn: Brendan Frazier Connect with Dennis Moseley-Williams: Serious Shift | Inner Circle by DMW Strategic Consulting Dennis Moseley-Williams Strategic Consulting LinkedIn: Dennis Moseley-Williams About Our Guest:  Dennis is the founder of Dennis Moseley-Williams Strategic Consulting, a practice management company that helps organizations secure and build sustainable relationships by creating experience-driven solutions that deliver results, increase revenues, and build enthusiastic referral-generating communities. A certified expert in the Experience Economy, Dennis helps organizations understand that customer experience is the predominant economic offering in the world today and demonstrates ways in which experiences can be crafted and staged so that they entice, educate, satisfy and transform – Content here is for illustrative purposes and general information only. It is not legal, tax, or individualized financial advice; nor is it a recommendation to buy, sell, or hold any specific security, or engage in any specific trading strategy. Information here may be provided, in part, by third-party sources. These sources are generally deemed to be reliable; however, neither our guest nor RFG Advisory guarantee the accuracy of third-party sources. The views expressed here are those of our guest. They do not necessarily represent those of RFG Advisory, its employees, or its clients. This commentary should not be regarded as a description of advisory services provided by RFG Advisory, or performance returns of any client. The views reflected in the commentary are subject to change at any time without notice. Securities offered by Registered Representatives of Private Client Services. Member FINRA / SIPC. Advisory services offered by Investment Advisory Representatives of RFG Advisory, LLC (“RFG Advisory or “RFG”), a registered investment advisor. Private Client Services and RFG Advisory are unaffiliated entities. Advisory services are only offered to clients or prospective clients where RFG Advisory and its representatives are properly licensed or exempt from licensure. No advisory services may be rendered by RFG Advisory unless a client agreement is in place. RFG Advisory is an SEC-registered investment adviser. SEC registration does not constitute an endorsement of RFG by the Commission, nor does it indicate that RFG or any associated investment advisory representative has attained a particular level of skill or ability.

If you want to grow your advisory business by bringing on new clients, you have to get three things right: Your marketing, messaging and meetings. Marketing: You have to attract the right prospects and repel the wrong ones. Messaging: You have to connect with the prospect. Meetings: You have to create an experience that infuses trust and clarity. Most advisors execute one or two of these at a high level. But those excelling at all three are growing the fastest.  David Armstrong, President and Co-founder of Monument Wealth Management, shares how they have married all three to propel the firm's growth. You'll Learn:  Why SEO might be dying as a marketing strategy The “Monument Blueprint Process” to go from prospect to client The 'Peanut Butter and Jelly' fit strategy for ideal client relationships The future of search and the importance of content in AI-driven results How they use whiteboards for a collaborative and visual discovery meeting *To sign up for Brendan's newsletter packed with resources to master the human side of advice → Click Here Resources: Perplexity AI Turo Carsharing Company Financial Advisor Magazine 125: Building A Screening Process To Identify Perfect-Fit Prospects Ready To Act with Dr. Meghaan Lurtz Your Money and Your Brain by Jason Zweig Reminiscences of a Stock Operator by Edwin Lefèvre Zero To One by Peter Thiel and Blake Masters Connect with Brendan Frazier:  RFG Advisory LinkedIn: Brendan Frazier Connect with David Armstrong:  Linkendln: David B Armstrong Monument Wealth Management Instagram: @monumentwealth Moments in Leadership About Our Guest:  David Armstrong is the president and co-founder of Monument Wealth Management, an RIA based in the DC area, recognized as one of America's top RIAs by Financial Advisor Magazine. Monument Wealth Management is dedicated to providing unfiltered opinions and straightforward advice, which sets them apart from the typical industry offerings. David also hosts the "Moments in Leadership" podcast, where he shares his expertise on leadership and wealth management. The firm's approach focuses on delivering practical, no-nonsense advice to clients in an often crowded market. To learn more about Monument Wealth Management and their unique approach to financial advisory, visit their website at www.monumentwealthmanagement.com. — Content here is for illustrative purposes and general information only. It is not legal, tax, or individualized financial advice; nor is it a recommendation to buy, sell, or hold any specific security, or engage in any specific trading strategy. Information here may be provided, in part, by third-party sources. These sources are generally deemed to be reliable; however, neither our guest nor RFG Advisory guarantee the accuracy of third-party sources. The views expressed here are those of our guest. They do not necessarily represent those of RFG Advisory, its employees, or its clients. This commentary should not be regarded as a description of advisory services provided by RFG Advisory, or performance returns of any client. The views reflected in the commentary are subject to change at any time without notice. Securities offered by Registered Representatives of Private Client Services. Member FINRA / SIPC. Advisory services offered by Investment Advisory Representatives of RFG Advisory, LLC (“RFG Advisory or “RFG”), a registered investment advisor. Private Client Services and RFG Advisory are unaffiliated entities. Advisory services are only offered to clients or prospective clients where RFG Advisory and its representatives are properly licensed or exempt from licensure. No advisory services may be rendered by RFG Advisory unless a client agreement is in place. RFG Advisory is an SEC-registered investment adviser. SEC registration does not constitute an endorsement of RFG by the Commission,

We all have an idea of what retirement will be like. But what happens when reality doesn't match your expectations? For many, the transition from a structured career to unstructured free time isn't as easy as it seems. That's exactly what happened to Tom Pendergast. Tom is a retired professional who found himself facing an unexpected challenge: boredom In this episode, Tom reveals his personal journey through the human side of retirement—the identity shifts, the search for purpose, and the unexpected struggles that come with it. You'll Learn:  Why Tom's initial idea of retirement didn't match the reality The challenges of shedding a career identity and finding a new purpose Experiments Tom tried to create a more meaningful retirement The role a financial advisor can play in easing the transition *To sign up for Brendan's newsletter packed with resources to master the human side of advice → Click Here Resources: 45: Designing A Discovery Process To Maximize Return On Life with Mitch Anthony 120: The Three Cornerstones of a Happy And Fulfilling Retirement with Michael Finke Connect with Brendan Frazier:  RFG Advisory LinkedIn: Brendan Frazier Connect with Tom Pendergast:  Substack: Tom Pendergast LinkedIn: Tom Pendergast About Our Guest:  Tom Pendergast is a writer and editor with eclectic interests, including cars, birds, outdoor exploration, baking, cybersecurity, and privacy. He often jokes that he's no longer fit for corporate work, but his career has included serving as the Chief Learning Officer at MediaPRO, a cybersecurity and privacy education company. Before that, he founded and ran Full Circle Editorial, a book packaging company, with his wife, Sara. During that time, he authored and edited two dozen books and countless articles. He also served on the local school board and remains interested in local politics. He lives in Snohomish, Washington, with his wife, artist Sara Pendergast. They have two grown children and a close-knit circle of friends. Together, they enjoy hiking, racing cars, drinking beer, gardening, watching birds, and making the most of life. – Content here is for illustrative purposes and general information only. It is not legal, tax, or individualized financial advice; nor is it a recommendation to buy, sell, or hold any specific security, or engage in any specific trading strategy. Information here may be provided, in part, by third-party sources. These sources are generally deemed to be reliable; however, neither our guest nor RFG Advisory guarantee the accuracy of third-party sources. The views expressed here are those of our guest. They do not necessarily represent those of RFG Advisory, its employees, or its clients. This commentary should not be regarded as a description of advisory services provided by RFG Advisory, or performance returns of any client. The views reflected in the commentary are subject to change at any time without notice. Securities offered by Registered Representatives of Private Client Services. Member FINRA / SIPC. Advisory services offered by Investment Advisory Representatives of RFG Advisory, LLC (“RFG Advisory or “RFG”), a registered investment advisor. Private Client Services and RFG Advisory are unaffiliated entities. Advisory services are only offered to clients or prospective clients where RFG Advisory and its representatives are properly licensed or exempt from licensure. No advisory services may be rendered by RFG Advisory unless a client agreement is in place. RFG Advisory is an SEC-registered investment adviser. SEC registration does not constitute an endorsement of RFG by the Commission, nor does it indicate that RFG or any associated investment advisory representative has attained a particular level of skill or ability.

We all know that true wealth goes far beyond money. Yet, we all act as though money is the ultimate end game. Like when your client says, “Once I get to $_____, then I'll be ready.” But money is simply a tool to fund the life you want to live. And once you know how to use it, it's a powerful tool for enhancing your happiness, meaning and fulfillment. But what are the ways that money can buy happiness? How can you use money to feel more fulfilled? Fortunately, Dr. Daniel Crosby is a leading expert in behavioral finance and the author of “Soul of Wealth: 50 Reflections on Money and Meaning.”  And, in this episode he'll share specific ways you can use money to fund the life you want to live. What You'll Learn: How and why you should use your money to buy time A simple gratitude idea that instantly boosts your happiness Ideas to help clients cope with the discomfort of market uncertainty An exercise to determine whether your spending aligns with your values A personal story that shook him to realize that true wealth is more than money *To sign up for Brendan's newsletter packed with resources to master the human side of advice → Click Here Resources: “The Soul of Wealth: 50 Reflections on Money and Meaning” by Daniel Crosby “Standard Deviations” Podcast by Dr. Daniel Crosby Connect with Brendan Frazier:  RFG Advisory LinkedIn: Brendan Frazier Connect with Dr. Daniel Crosby:  LinkedIn: Dr. Daniel Crosby, Ph.D X: @danielcrosby About Our Guest:  Dr. Daniel Crosby is a psychologist and behavioral finance expert who helps organizations understand the intersection of mind and markets. Dr. Crosby's first book, Personal Benchmark: Integrating Behavioral Finance and Investment Management, was a New York Times bestseller. His second book, The Laws of Wealth, was named the best investment book of 2017 by the Axiom Business Book Awards and has been translated into 12 languages. His third book, The Behavioral Investor, was Axiom's best investment book of 2019 and is a comprehensive look at the neurology, physiology and psychology of sound financial decision-making. When he's not decoding market psychology, Daniel is a husband and father of 3, a fanatical follower of the St. Louis Cardinals, an explorer of the American South, and an amateur hot sauce chef. – Content here is for illustrative purposes and general information only. It is not legal, tax, or individualized financial advice; nor is it a recommendation to buy, sell, or hold any specific security, or engage in any specific trading strategy. Information here may be provided, in part, by third-party sources. These sources are generally deemed to be reliable; however, neither our guest nor RFG Advisory guarantee the accuracy of third-party sources. The views expressed here are those of our guest. They do not necessarily represent those of RFG Advisory, its employees, or its clients. This commentary should not be regarded as a description of advisory services provided by RFG Advisory, or performance returns of any client. The views reflected in the commentary are subject to change at any time without notice. Securities offered by Registered Representatives of Private Client Services. Member FINRA / SIPC. Advisory services offered by Investment Advisory Representatives of RFG Advisory, LLC (“RFG Advisory or “RFG”), a registered investment advisor. Private Client Services and RFG Advisory are unaffiliated entities. Advisory services are only offered to clients or prospective clients where RFG Advisory and its representatives are properly licensed or exempt from licensure. No advisory services may be rendered by RFG Advisory unless a client agreement is in place. RFG Advisory is an SEC-registered investment adviser. SEC registration does not constitute an endorsement of RFG by the Commission, nor does it indicate that RFG or any associated investment advisory representative has attained ...

As Betterment's Director of Behavioral Science, Dan Egan knows that understanding human behavior is key to your client's financial success. But knowing that's true and knowing what to do about it are two different things. There are a lot of opinions thrown around in the behavioral finance space on what works and what doesn't. And you probably don't want to “test” some of these ideas on clients you hope to work with for 10-30 years. For years, Dan has been testing behavioral finance interventions to figure out what actually works (and what is a waste of time). In this episode, he reveals proven ideas you can implement to enhance your client's outcomes without having to go through your own trial-and-error process. What You'll Learn: How to frame taxes to prevent impulsive decisions How visualizing goals makes saving more consistent Why you should NOT engage clients during a market downturn How robo-advisors actually enhance the value of human advisors The two types of clients most likely to panic during market volatility *To sign up for Brendan's newsletter packed with resources to master the human side of advice → Click Here Resources: "Siddhartha" by Hermann Hesse "Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance" by Robert M. Pirsig "Atomic Habits" by James Clear 30 Lessons for Living by Karl Pillemer, Ph. D. Research by Dilip Soman Research by Eric Johnson Research by Abby Sussman Michael Kitces Connect with Brendan Frazier:  RFG Advisory LinkedIn: Brendan Frazier Connect with Daniel P. Egan: LinkedIn: Daniel P. Egan Betterment Advisor Solutions About Our Guest:  Dan Egan is a behavioral finance professional and the Director of Behavioral Science at Betterment. With years of experience applying behavioral principles to financial technology, Dan focuses on improving client outcomes by helping people make better decisions, especially during stressful times. His work highlights the powerful intersection of psychology and technology in shaping the future of financial advice. – Content here is for illustrative purposes and general information only. It is not legal, tax, or individualized financial advice; nor is it a recommendation to buy, sell, or hold any specific security, or engage in any specific trading strategy. Information here may be provided, in part, by third-party sources. These sources are generally deemed to be reliable; however, neither our guest nor RFG Advisory guarantee the accuracy of third-party sources. The views expressed here are those of our guest. They do not necessarily represent those of RFG Advisory, its employees, or its clients. This commentary should not be regarded as a description of advisory services provided by RFG Advisory, or performance returns of any client. The views reflected in the commentary are subject to change at any time without notice. Securities offered by Registered Representatives of Private Client Services. Member FINRA / SIPC. Advisory services offered by Investment Advisory Representatives of RFG Advisory, LLC (“RFG Advisory or “RFG”), a registered investment advisor. Private Client Services and RFG Advisory are unaffiliated entities. Advisory services are only offered to clients or prospective clients where RFG Advisory and its representatives are properly licensed or exempt from licensure. No advisory services may be rendered by RFG Advisory unless a client agreement is in place. RFG Advisory is an SEC-registered investment adviser. SEC registration does not constitute an endorsement of RFG by the Commission, nor does it indicate that RFG or any associated investment advisory representative has attained a particular level of skill or ability.

The Human Side of Money in 2024: Released 24 episodes Delivered 1,933 minutes of content on the human side of advice Inside those 24 episodes and 1,933 minutes lie countless ideas, insights, and nuggets that will do two things: Enhance and enrich your clients' lives and forever change the trajectory of your business and career. … Read More Read More

“If you're not relevant, you're ignored. If you're not compelling, you're forgotten.” Bill Cates, the “OG” of relationship marketing, knows that genuine connections are the heart of a thriving and growing practice. But with technology constantly reshaping how we connect, how do you still leverage a human connection? For decades, Bill has mastered the art … Read More Read More

Meir Statman, a trailblazer in behavioral finance, says: “Financial well-being underlies life well-being.” Advisors know their clients want to feel happy and fulfilled and make decisions aligned with their values.  But weaving that into financial advice? That's the challenge. And, that's the next frontier for behavioral finance. Meir has witnessed every generation of behavioral finance … Read More Read More

Does money talk strengthen your relationship—or strain it? Doug and Heather Boneparth, a dynamic husband-wife team and experienced financial advisors, share the inside scoop on what makes relationships tick—financially and emotionally. Drawing from personal experience, they reveal practical ways for couples to redefine financial responsibilities, appreciate non-monetary contributions, and set shared goals for the future. … Read More Read More

Here's a question for you: On a scale of 1-10, how confident are you that your screening process will yield conversations with prospects who are a good fit AND ready to take action? If you answered anything less than an 8, you're in good company. Most advisors spend way too much time meeting with prospects … Read More Read More

Here's the outline for most review meetings with long-time clients: How is life? How is the family? Any major changes or updates? Here's your situation. Everything looks good. See you next year. And, that's not bad. But there's a better way. It's called a “Re-Discovery” meeting. And, not only, does it keep your clients engaged … Read More Read More

Financial advisors are on the front lines of bad news. Your entire business is filled with clients who have either experienced grief or will experience grief at some point in their lives. When that time comes, you'll often be one of the first people they talk to. And, unfortunately, we aren't naturally “grief-literate.” We feel … Read More Read More

Are your clients drifting aimlessly or swimming purposefully towards their financial goals? The default for clients is to pick goals on autopilot. Goals that have been determined by society, friends, and their upbringing. In this episode, Isaac Presley shares how he creates the time and space for his clients to create more intentional goals using … Read More Read More

When you want to learn something about financial planning and advice, the ultimate source is Michael Kitces. Most people know Michael is a spreadsheet-loving, technical wizard. What most people don't know is that he also fully believes in the human side. In this episode, Michael explains the skills and processes advisors need to know on … Read More Read More

Michael Finke's research shows that the trifecta of a happy and fulfilling retirement incorporates: Money Health Social Connection Most financial advisors know the money part. But how can you incorporate the other health and social connection parts into a financial plan to help your clients live a happy and fulfilling retirement? Fortunately, Michael Finke is … Read More Read More

*This is a continuation of the conversation that started in the previous episode (Episode 118). We highly recommend listening to that episode first! A statement of financial purpose serves as the mission statement for your client's financial life. It acts as the north star for making financial decisions that are in alignment with the things … Read More Read More

A Statement of Financial Purpose serves as the mission statement for your client's financial life. It acts as the north star or lens for making financial decisions to ensure they are aligned with what's truly most important. Most advisors love the idea, but they don't know how to do it. Fortunately, Andy Baxley created an … Read More Read More

The growth of your business hinges on your ability to build and establish trust with prospective clients. In this episode, Kerry Johnson, "America's Business Psychologist" reveals psychological insights on how to master the art of trust-based selling. You'll Learn: Signs that a prospect is interested (or not!) The anatomy of an elevator speech that actually works Why prospects forget 90% of what you say within 3 days Why it's crucial to "calibrate" at the beginning of every interaction with a client How to conduct a "trust check" to know if you can move the conversation forward   The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial goals. *For more resources discussed in this episode --> Go Here. *Follow Brendan for insights on mastering the human side of advice: Twitter LinkedIn

The growth of your business hinges on your ability to build and establish trust with prospective clients. In this episode, Kerry Johnson, “America's Business Psychologist” reveals psychological insights on how to master the art of trust-based selling. You'll Learn: Signs that a prospect is interested (or not!) The anatomy of an elevator speech that actually … Read More Read More

Love and money are two emotional subjects on their own. And one HIGHLY emotional subject when combined together. Next time you meet with a couple, think about these numbers: 70% have disagreed about their financial situation 73% say finances are a source of tension in their relationship 47% say this tension has impacted the intimacy with their partner Money is an emotionally-charged topic that you simply can't avoid in a relationship. In this episode, Dr. Sonya Lutter provides a guide for everything advisors need to know when it comes to working with couples. You'll Learn: Why most financial arguments boil down to a discrepancy in values Why uncovering money scripts can transform finances in the relationship The surprising connection between joint accounts and relationship satisfaction Why clients who work with a financial advisor are 3x happier than those who don't Eye-opening research on the influence of financial arguments and relationship satisfaction   The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial goals. *For more resources discussed in this episode --> Go Here. *Follow Brendan for insights on mastering the human side of advice: Twitter LinkedIn

Love and money are two emotional subjects on their own. And one HIGHLY emotional subject when combined together. Next time you meet with a couple, think about these numbers: 70% have disagreed about their financial situation 73% say finances are a source of tension in their relationship 47% say this tension has impacted the intimacy … Read More Read More

The intro meeting is the lifeblood of an advisory business. It's either the single most expensive or the single most profitable activity that you'll ever engage in. Yet, almost everything you've been taught about how to conduct these meetings is backwards. It contradicts everything psychology research tells us that a prospect needs. In this episode, … Read More Read More

The intro meeting is the lifeblood of an advisory business. It's either the single most expensive or the single most profitable activity that you'll ever engage in. Yet, almost everything you've been taught about how to conduct these meetings is backwards. It contradicts everything psychology research tells us that a prospect needs. In this episode, we'll look at five things you've never been taught but HAVE to know to conduct the ultimate intro meeting: Navigating The Trust Zone Inside The Prospect's Mind The Two-Question Framework The Platinum Rule of Prospecting Prepping The Prospect For Success   *The Ultimate Intro Meeting Course --> Go Here The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial goals. *For more resources discussed in this episode --> Go Here *Follow Brendan for insights on mastering the human side of advice: Twitter LinkedIn

The combination of financial psychology and technology has a multiplier effect on client outcomes. Advisors who effectively integrate both into their practice see significantly higher levels of: Satisfaction Loyalty Referrals Trust But, before you get these outcomes, you have to know how to effectively combine the two. Fortunately, Emily Koochel pioneered this research and provides … Read More Read More

The combination of financial psychology and technology has a multiplier effect on client outcomes. Advisors who effectively integrate both into their practice see significantly higher levels of: Satisfaction Loyalty Referrarls Trust But, before you get these outcomes, you have to know how to effectively combine the two. Fortunately, Emily Koochel pioneered this research and provides a roadmap for advisors to combine financial psychology with technology on the path to transforming their client outcomes. You'll Learn: Using technology to create a "feel good" moment How to work with couples that have financial secrets Why 6 of 10 clients say their advice isn't personalized The technology features that lead to higher client engagement The 5 financial psychology actions that create better client outcomes   The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial goals. *For more resources discussed in this episode --> Go Here. *To receive the monthly "Wisdom Round-Up" newsletter full of practical ways to apply the human side of advice --> Go Here. *Follow Brendan for insights on mastering the human side of advice: Twitter LinkedIn

More important than what questions you ask is how you ask them. In this episode, shares 8 proven ways to ask better questions that lead to better answers, conversations, and relationships. The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial … Read More Read More

More important than what questions you ask is how you ask them. In this episode, shares 8 proven ways to ask better questions that lead to better answers, conversations, and relationships. The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial goals.= *To receive the monthly "Wisdom Round-Up" newsletter full of practical ways to apply the human side of advice --> Go Here. *Follow Brendan for insights on mastering the human side of advice: Twitter LinkedIn

Three important questions every advisor should answer: Do you think you provide a valuable and life-changing service? Do you think your clients are better off with you than without you, even after they pay? Do you find that even though they're better off with you, they still need a little nudge to make the decision … Read More Read More

Three important questions every advisor should answer: Do you think you provide a valuable and life-changing service? Do you think your clients are better off with you than without you, even after they pay? Do you find that even though they're better off with you, they still need a little nudge to make the decision to work with you? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then here's the harsh truth you need to hear: Getting prospects to become clients requires more than expertise. It requires persuasion. And if you can learn to persuade more effectively, then your life-changing impact will be greater and more widespread.  In the popular book Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion, Robert Cialdini presents research on six psychological principles to persuade prospects to become buyers. Fortunately, Evan Beach took the research from the book and created a version specifically for financial advisors. In this episode, he'll reveal how financial advisors can use influence techniques to persuade more prospects to become clients. You'll Learn: The sales mindset every advisor should have How and why to implement a waitlist for prospects The psychological reason not to charge for financial plans The "freemium" model he uses for his prospecting process Why advisors are scared to embrace effective sales techniques   The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial goals. *For more resources discussed in this episode --> Go Here. *To receive the monthly "Wisdom Round-Up" newsletter full of practical ways to apply the human side of advice --> Go Here. *Follow Brendan for insights on mastering the human side of advice: Twitter LinkedIn

There is one skill that will impact your success and your client's success more than anything else. The ability to listen. More specifically, the ability to listen with empathy and curiosity. In this episode, we'll look at: The neuroscience and benefits of listening 3 ideas to instantly improve your listening skills An advisor testimonial on the power of listening   The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial goals. *For more resources discussed in this episode --> Go Here *To receive the monthly "Wisdom Round-Up" newsletter full of practical ways to apply the human side of advice --> Go Here. *Follow Brendan for insights on mastering the human side of advice: Twitter LinkedIn

There is one skill that will impact your success and your client's success more than anything else. The ability to listen. More specifically, the ability to listen with empathy and curiosity. In this episode, we'll look at: The neuroscience and benefits of listening 3 ideas to instantly improve your listening skills An advisor testimonial on … Read More Read More

The greatest barrier for every client isn't lack of information. It's their own mindset and behavior. Whether it's someone who over-spends, someone who under-spends, someone who wants to sell out at the worst possible time, or even the person who never sends in the data you need... The key to changing their behavior starts with understanding their money mindset. Sarah Newcomb, Director of Behavioral Science at Morningstar, joined the show to discuss how to better understand a client's money mindset. We discuss: The framework she and her team developed to assess a client's money mindset The important distinction between financial and emotional well-being The #1 predictor of savings behavior and how to help clients with it Using a "What-If Journey" to help clients overcome their fears How role models can play a powerful role in changing behavior and overall well-being   The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial goals. *For more resources discussed in this episode --> Go Here. *To receive the monthly "Wisdom Round-Up" newsletter full of practical ways to apply the human side of advice --> Go Here. *Follow Brendan for insights on mastering the human side of advice: Twitter LinkedIn

Research consistently shows that >90% of clients are satisfied. At first glance, it sounds like a good thing. But, if over 90% of clients are satisfied, then client satisfaction ceases to be a differentiator. It's now tablestakes. Which then prompts the question: “Should we be aiming for something more than satisfaction?” Julie Littlechild suggests we … Read More Read More

Research consistently shows that >90% of clients are satisfied. At first glance, it sounds like a good thing. But, if over 90% of clients are satisfied, then client satisfaction ceases to be a differentiator. It's now tablestakes. Which then prompts the question: "Should we be aiming for something more than satisfaction?" Julie Littlechild suggests we move the bar from "satisfied" to "engaged." Satisfied clients are happy but passive. Engaged clients are happy and tell the world about what you do. In this episode, Julie explains everything you need to know to turn satisfied clients into engaged clients. You'll Learn: The 4 drivers that create engaged clients The curse of the agenda and how to use it effectively The #1 thing clients say they want but aren't getting from advisors The top mistakes advisors make when gathering feedback and input What clients say about discussing non-financial goals with an advisor   The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial goals. *For more resources discussed in this episode --> Go Here. *To receive the monthly "Wisdom Round-Up" newsletter full of practical ways to apply the human side of advice --> Go Here. *Follow Brendan for insights on mastering the human side of advice: Twitter LinkedIn

If you want your clients to actually follow-through on the advice you give, you have to shift your approach. You have to shift from "Advisor-Driven" to "Client-Inspired" advice. Client-inspired advice provides the client with: 1) Control 2) Confidence 3) Autonomy And, when you can provide these three things, it paves the way to behavior change and implementation of advice. In this episode, we'll look at: The psychology and research of giving advice The three essential elements of client-inspired advice Questions and scripts on how to deliver client-inspired advice   The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial goals. *For more resources discussed in this episode --> Go Here *To receive the monthly "Wisdom Round-Up" newsletter full of practical ways to apply the human side of advice --> Go Here. *Follow Brendan for insights on mastering the human side of advice: Twitter LinkedIn

If you want your clients to actually follow-through on the advice you give, you have to shift your approach. You have to shift from “Advisor-Driven” to “Client-Inspired” advice. Client-inspired advice provides the client with: 1) Control 2) Confidence 3) Autonomy And, when you can provide these three things, it paves the way to behavior change … Read More Read More

Your success in this profession and the quality of your relationships are directly correlated with your communication skills. Think about the communication you have with clients and prospects. It's almost always "spontaneous communication." It's not planned, prepared or scripted. For example, you're meeting with a prospective client and they say, "These fees seem high." That comment wasn't on the agenda, yet here you are needing to think on your feet. And, how you respond in these spontaneous situations will oftentimes dictate the outcome of the entire interaction. Fortunately, Matt Abrahams is the foremost authority on how to be more confident and eloquent in the moment. And, in this episode, he reveals the secrets to communicating with confidence in any situation. Things You'll Learn: Why small talk is important and the mistakes to avoid Why you (ironically) have to prepare to be spontaneous Two ways to buy yourself time on the spot before responding The "Pace, Space, and Grace" framework to be a better listener The "What-So What-Now What" structure to use in almost any situation   The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial goals. *For more resources discussed in this episode --> Go Here. *To receive the monthly "Wisdom Round-Up" newsletter full of practical ways to apply the human side of advice --> Go Here. *Follow Brendan for insights on mastering the human side of advice: Twitter LinkedIn

Your success in this profession and the quality of your relationships are directly correlated with your communication skills. Think about the communication you have with clients and prospects. It's almost always “spontaneous communication.” It's not planned, prepared or scripted. For example, you're meeting with a prospective client and they say, “These fees seem high.” That comment wasn't … Read More Read More

Most financial advisors' meetings are underwhelming. They typically include a mix of small talk, dialogue, fact-finding and a less-than-riveting display of numbers and charts. It's the main reason why prospects leave your office and don't respond for months (if ever), despite the fact that they need help. And you knew you could help them. It's also the main reason that you won't find clients excited and eager to come to their review meetings. Sten Morgan felt this in his meetings and decided there had to be a better way. He wanted to do two things: Create authority and help prospective clients clearly understand the value of working with him Create urgency by highlighting big problems that actually inspire clients and prospects to act In this episode, Sten shares how he's leveraged the power of communication to create a meeting experience where clients leave saying: "That's different than any meeting I've ever had." Things You'll Learn: The "Quantify and Multiply" approach to create urgency A formula to answer "What do you do?" in a compelling way The meeting-altering power of whiteboarding (and how to do it) The average things most advisors do that lead to boring meetings Why the "trust gap" is the main thing keeping prospects from moving forward   The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial goals. *For more resources discussed in this episode --> Go Here. *To receive the monthly "Wisdom Round-Up" newsletter full of practical ways to apply the human side of advice --> Go Here. *Follow Brendan for insights on mastering the human side of advice: Twitter LinkedIn

Most financial advisors' meetings are underwhelming. They typically include a mix of small talk, dialogue, fact-finding and a less-than-riveting display of numbers and charts. It's the main reason why prospects leave your office and don't respond for months (if ever), despite the fact that they need help. And you knew you could help them. It's … Read More Read More

Trust is the foundation of success in financial advice. You need trust to get prospects to become clients. And you need trust to get clients to follow-through and do the things you ask them to do. Without trust, you have no business. But, if you know how to consistently build trust with both prospects and clients, it will take your relationships AND your business to places very few things can. There's only one problem. Everybody knows how important trust is. But, very few people know how the secrets to consistently building high-trust relationships. Fortunately, Herman Brodie does. Consider this episode the ultimate guide for everything you need to know about trust. Things You'll Learn: The 3 different types of trust How to continue building trust with long-term clients The only type of trust that serves as a competitive advantage The intangible factors that lead investors to choose asset managers The non-obvious benefits trust has on your clients and your business The "Trust Game:" The role of similarity when it comes to building trust   The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial goals. *For more resources discussed in this episode --> Go Here. *To receive the monthly "Wisdom Round-Up" newsletter full of practical ways to apply the human side of advice --> Go Here. *Follow Brendan for insights on mastering the human side of advice: Twitter LinkedIn

Trust is the foundation of success in financial advice. You need trust to get prospects to become clients and you need trust to get clients to follow-through and do the things you ask them to do. Without trust, you have no business. But, if you know how to consistently build trust with both prospects and … Read More Read More

The perfect plan is rendered useless in the absence of execution. Or, as Dr. Moira Somers says: "What's the point of technically proficient advice if the client won't act on it?" You would think that providing someone a step-by-step plan to accomplish their goals would be all that's needed to spur someone into action. But, anyone that works with people and their money knows that simply isn't the case. Dr. Moira Somers author of the book Advice That Sticks, provides a blueprint for improving the "stickiness" of your advice to help create better outcomes for clients. Things you'll learn: The most common reason clients fail to follow through on your advice What medical research can teach us about the challenges of implementation A proven method to help get through the friction of the data gathering process How much responsibility falls on the advice-giver when advice isn't implemented How improving follow-through benefits your clients, your business, AND your well-being *This episode originally aired in January 2021. The featured partner for this episode is Knudge, an automated system to help clients actually follow through on their tasks and reach their financial goals. *For more resources discussed in this episode --> Go Here. *To receive our monthly newsletter full of practical ways to apply the human side of advice --> Go Here. *Follow Brendan for insights on mastering the human side of advice: Twitter LinkedIn