The Single Greatest Choice is a podcast about singleness, fertility, motherhood, and choice. This is a show for women who are grappling with what to do when life doesn't follow the love-marriage-baby carriage trajectory. It's about exploring the options when things don't seem to be turning out as we'd always planned. Most of all, is a place for women give and receive support as they grapple with these big topics - because what we decide to do with these years could be the single greatest choice we'll ever make - and we don't have to make it alone.
The Single Greatest Choice podcast is a must-listen for anyone considering becoming a single mom by choice or intention. This podcast has helped me feel less alone in my journey and provided me with valuable knowledge and inspiration along the way.
One of the best aspects of this podcast is how it covers both paths to single motherhood, providing a comprehensive view of the different options available. The host, Katie, is analytical and skilled at explaining concepts related to thoughtwork and mental health. She interviews a variety of people who have taken different paths to becoming single mothers, offering diverse perspectives and experiences.
Katie's wealth of knowledge, both personal and researched, is remarkable. As someone navigating the world of fertility, I appreciate her organization and ability to present information clearly. Even if you're not on the path to single motherhood, the stories shared on this podcast are inspiring and applicable to various aspects of life. The women featured on this podcast are relatable and make you feel like you want to be friends with them.
However, one potential downside of this podcast is that it may not appeal to everyone. If you're not interested in or considering becoming a single mother by choice, the content may not resonate with you as strongly. Additionally, some episodes could benefit from more structured organization or clarity in terms of direction.
In conclusion, The Single Greatest Choice podcast is an amazing resource for anyone considering or already on the path to becoming a single mom by choice. It offers relatable stories, valuable information, and a sense of community for those embarking on this journey. Katie's passion and dedication shine through in each episode, making it a worthwhile listen for anyone interested in this topic.
Solo parenting one child is a big job. Add a second baby to the mix, and do it all without a co-parent, and everything shifts.In this episode, I'm joined by Randi Maves, a solo mom by choice to two boys, four years apart. Randi wouldn't trade this life for anything, but she's honest about how intense it can be juggling two different stages of parenting on her own.From navigating daycare drop-offs and picky eaters to handling preschooler meltdowns while sleep-training a newborn, Randi gets honest about what the daily juggle really looks like. She talks about the tools and support systems that are saving her sanity right now, including her decision to hire an au pair, and the emotional process of adjusting to life as a solo mom of two.We're also diving into Randi's fertility journey with IVF at 40+, including the heartbreak of getting no viable embryos, the decision to transfer her one mosaic embryo, and the deep trust it took to move forward.If you're thinking about having a second child as an SMBC, already in the thick of solo motherhood, or just wondering what this path can look like, Randi's story is a beautiful mix of honesty, resilience, and real-life logistics.In this episode on solo parenting two kids after 40, we talk about:How her mom's diagnosis sparked her decision to become a momWhat it was like to move across the country with a baby in towWhat shifted her perspective on having a second child soloThe highs and lows of IVF as a single woman in her 40sWhat it's really like to solo parent two kids in different phases of lifeHer approach to building a support team, including daycare and live-in helpThe emotional weight of parenting without a partner, and why acknowledgment mattersHer mindset around letting “future Randi” handle “future problems”Resources mentioned in this episode:HBO Documentary First Comes Love (2013)Facebook group ‘My Perfect Mosaic Embryo'
The desire to share life with a partner doesn't just disappear when we choose to start our families on our own. And it doesn't have to. Today's new episode is a beautiful reminder that both things can be true: you can want motherhood and partnership, and you don't have to give up one to have the other.At 35, Erin Russell was faced with the hard realization that her family line would end with her if she didn't pursue parenthood soon, so she started seriously considering solo motherhood. But right as she was preparing to begin fertility treatments, life threw her a curveball — she met someone.Erin was clear about what she wanted and gave the relationship space to grow. But when it became obvious they weren't aligned on having kids, she made the powerful decision to walk away. She ordered donor sperm the very next day.Becoming a mom didn't erase Erin's hope of sharing life with a partner. Just two months after her son was born, she started dating again — not out of pressure or urgency, but as a way to reconnect with herself, enjoy adult time, and stay open to love.Now that her son is two and she's happily in a relationship that feels like the right fit, Erin reflects on what it's been like to still want partnership as a solo mom by choice, and how she's navigating love, parenting, and a changing sense of identity all at once.In this episode, we talk about:How Erin knew it was time to pursue solo motherhoodThe challenges of navigating IUI, IVF, and insurance hurdlesWhy "just surviving" the newborn stage isn't enough, and how building a support system made all the differenceThe guilt and reality of sending your baby to daycare as a solo momDating as a solo mom: why Erin started early, how she set her own pace, and what she looked for in a partnerHow she's weaving her new relationship into her solo mom lifeAnd why the grief of doing it alone doesn't just disappear once your baby arrivesWhether you're considering solo motherhood, already parenting, or wondering if dating might fit into your life someday, Erin's story is full of honesty, hope, and real-world encouragement for wherever you are on the path.Want to connect with Erin Russell?Follow Erin on InstagramCheck out Erin's writingRead Erin's article on SMBCs (featuring me as an interviewee!)
Expanding your family as a single mother by choice isn't always easy — but many solo moms desire more than one child, and today's conversation is a beautiful example of how it can unfold.Lauren — a returning guest and seasoned SMBC — shares her journey from welcoming her first daughter to expanding her family with twins, all in just a few years. Along the way, she navigated fertility treatments, postpartum health challenges, and the daily demands of solo parenting... while never losing sight of her dream to grow her family despite her fertility challenges.As you might know, I've been thinking a lot lately about whether to have a second child as a solo mom — so it was such a gift to sit down with Lauren and talk through all the emotional, logistical, and real-life factors that come into play when making a decision like this.Whether you're actively considering another child or just curious about what life looks like with multiple little ones as a solo mom, Lauren's story is a powerful reminder that you can create the family you dream of.Inside the episode, we talk about:How Lauren managed a twin pregnancy while caring for a young babyThe emotional and practical shifts that come with expanding your family soloBuilding a village: how childcare, therapy, and trusted support made it possibleHandling outside reactions to being a solo mom of multiple childrenTalking to young kids about being donor-conceived and having donor siblingsFinding moments of joy and recharging amid the chaosWhat factors to consider when thinking about adding to your family as a solo momAnd more!Listen to Lauren & Jess on Season 1, Episode 16 of The SGC PodcastConnect with Lauren on Instagram
I recently wrapped up one of the most unpredictable SMBC retreats I've ever hosted, and I'm still unpacking all the lessons it had to teach me. This solo episode is a behind-the-scenes look at what happens when things go completely off-script, and how self-compassion, surrender, and unexpected moments of connection carried me through.This isn't your typical retreat recap. It's a story about what happens when you let go of the plan and lean into trust, even when things go sideways. As someone who talks a lot about self-compassion and mindset, this experience gave me a real-time opportunity to practice what I preach.If you've ever wondered what it's like to attend a retreat with SGC—or you've found yourself navigating curveballs on your SMBC journey—this one's for you.I'm sharing:The story of a retreat that went wildly off course (and what happened next)How curveballs became invitations for growth, trust, and connectionThe power of self-compassion when things don't go as plannedThe surprising kindness of strangersWhat this experience taught me as a solo mom, solopreneur, and human beingAnd the quiet magic that happens when we stop trying to control it all.
You always imagined becoming a mom someday, but what if someday doesn't look the way you expected? Maybe you're considering solo motherhood, wondering if having a baby on your own is really possible. Maybe you know you want to be a mom, but the clock is ticking, you're single and aren't sure what to do next. Perhaps you're already on the path: researching sperm donors, weighing IVF or adoption, or navigating pregnancy without a partner. Wherever you are in your journey, The Single Greatest Choice is here to support you.Hosted by Katie Bryan, a single mother by choice turned SMBC coach and community facilitator, this podcast is a space for women exploring what it means to choose parenthood on their own terms. You'll hear real stories from solo moms who've been where you are: women who have faced the fears, made the choices, and built beautiful, fulfilling lives as single mothers by choice. You can expect conversations around:> Fertility for single women in their 30s and 40s;> Considering solo motherhood & becoming a single mother by choice (SMBC)> IVF, adoption, sperm donors, and egg freezing for single women> Having a baby on your own> Choosing to parent alone> Dating and relationships as SMBCs> Building community as a solo mom by choice> And much more.If you're single in your 30s or 40s and wondering, Can I do this?, you're not alone. The path to becoming a single mother by choice isn't always easy, but you don't have to figure it out on your own. This is your place to find confidence, connection, and community as you explore whether solo motherhood might be your single greatest choice.Subscribe to the show so you don't miss an episode, and visit www.singlegreatestchoice.com to learn more about our membership, coaching, community groups, and retreats.
Refamulating is a podcast that celebrates different ways to make a familyThe nuclear family - a heterosexual couple in their first marriage with 2+ kids - is no longer the dominant family structure. In fact, there is no one dominant family structure.Nowadays many couples rely on science, surrogates, egg donors and sperm donors to have biological children. Some folks are having children on their own and others are having no children at all.In the last generation we've completely reformulated what a modern family looks like. We've been refamulating, yet family structures that veer from the nuclear narrative can still feel taboo.The Refamulating Podcast tells real stories of people creating family- whatever that means to them.Refamulating on Instagramhttps://www.refamulating.com/
In this episode about Eboni's journey to becoming a SMBC, we discuss:Why Eboni initially froze her eggs “with zero intention of using them”;The realization at 38 that made her decide she wanted to be a mom;How she chose a donor and why she felt this was a critical factor;Her decision to go straight to IVF due to age-related statistics;The role of a doula and how having one ensures the mother's needs are prioritized;The medical crisis around Black maternal health and why it's critical to advocate for yourself;Encouraging women to trust their abilities and make informed decisions about motherhood;Why Eboni doesn't romanticize solo motherhood even though it's beautiful and everything she wanted;The importance of considering life decades ahead when making parenting decisions;How choosing solo motherhood gave Eboni more dating options.Connect with Eboni K. WilliamsWebsite | Instagram | Podcast | People Magazine
Richelle's story starts with the emotional process of choosing the SMBC path and takes us through egg freezing, IVF, and ultimately the practicalities of adopting a child as a single mother based overseas. Her journey highlights the importance of prioritizing our own dreams and health while remaining open to the many ways a family can be formed.In this episode, we discuss:Richelle's realization that waiting for the “perfect” partner to start her family was holding her back;The decision to freeze her eggs at 42 and later pursue IVF at 46;Why she wasn't attached to the idea of biological parenthood and how she transitioned to adoption;The process of adopting as a single woman, including the role of an adoption consultant;How matching baby and adoptive parent works;Common concerns women face when considering adoption, such as bonding with their child;Talking to our kids about their origin story;How prioritizing personal health helps us show up as better parents;The consideration of having a second child as a single mother by choice;The empowering realization that solo moms can do “big things” and do them well;And more!Want to check out some of Richelle's incredible work and content as a broadcaster and SMBC advocate? You can find her on her WEBSITE, INSTAGRAM, and TikTok.
In this episode, we discuss:The lack of visible role models for women who consciously choose a childfree life;The struggle of making the life-defining decision of becoming a parent or not which feels deeply personal, yet often misunderstood;How societal expectations lead people to feel entitled to ask personal questions about choices like childfree living or solo motherhood;How Keltie supports women making the right decision for themselves around parenthood;How the decision whether or not to have kids isn't always a binary choice;The emotional process of holding space for grief around a life that isn't what you imagined it would be, and making it beautiful nonetheless;And more!
In this episode, we discuss:The pressures women often feel to fit men into their lives to fulfill societal expectationJamela's decision to pursue solo motherhood after her divorce at 37;How her mom played an active role in her decision to become a solo mom by choice;The emotional journey of mourning both her marriage and the traditional family dream;The challenges and rewards of being a single mother in African American culture;Her fierce advocacy for herself in the fertility process and how important it is to ask questions;How she leaned into her faith and her community when the path was challenging;The importance of prioritizing your self care and your own happiness, even as a mom of newborn twins;The biggest benefit of being a solo mom according to Jamela;And more!Connect with Jamela on Instagram
Born and raised in a close-knit Michigan community, Whitney always knew she wanted to be a mom. But after years of dating and only one long-term relationship in her 20s, she found herself single at 34. Instead of waiting for the "perfect" time or partner, she took control of her fertility and started her journey to solo motherhood. Through IVF, multiple rounds of retrievals and transfers, and unwavering determination, Whitney welcomed her son into the world.In this episode, Whitney opens up about the emotional and physical challenges of her fertility journey, how Instagram helped her connect with other women going through similar experiences, and how she's embraced life as a solo mom. She also sheds light on how she's continued to follow her own professional dreams and passions, even as she's parenting solo.Whitney's story is a powerful reminder that when it comes to following your dreams—especially the dream of motherhood, sometimes the time is now. If you've ever found yourself wondering, “What am I waiting for?” this episode will resonate deeply with you.In this episode, Whitney shares:Why she decided to pursue motherhood on her own and what led to her 'aha' moment;The reactions from her family and how they supported her decision to be a solo mom;Her IVF journey: the reality of four retrievals and three transfers before achieving a successful pregnancy;The role social media played in connecting her with other solo moms and women navigating fertility;How she handled the societal responses to her pregnancy as a single woman;The joy and fulfillment she experiences now as a mom to a 1.5-year-old son;Her transition into motherhood and postpartum life;How she launched her company iWellness Center as founder and CEO.You can connect with Whitney on Instagram @wjfoley and check out her business at www.iwellnesscenter.org.
In this episode, Virginia shares:How a surprise pregnancy and subsequent miscarriage reignited her desire to have another child, this time as a single mom by choice;The reactions she received from family and friends when she chose to pursue motherhood on her own;Why she traveled from Canada to the USA for her fertility process and the factors that influenced her choice of a donor;Her experience with IUI and the challenges she faced during her pregnancy, from intense morning sickness to balancing running a business and pregnancy;The importance of creating a nurturing space as a solo parent and how she applies Feng Shui principles to her own home;The experience of connecting with other families who used the same donor and what this could mean for her child in the future.Resources mentioned in this episode:Ellis Kelly Interior Alchemy (Ginny's business, alongside her sister Natalie)October 7 Nursery Design Workshop with Virginia Drader & The Single Greatest Choice
Valerie Bauman, is an investigative reporter for Newsweek, solo mother by choice, and author of one of my favorite memoirs in the solo moms space, Inconceivable:Super Sperm Donors, Off-the-Grid Insemination, and Unconventional Family Planning. I devoured Valerie's book during a 30-hour airport layover, and by the time I finished, I felt like I had spent the day with her, getting to know her as a friend.We dive deep into Valerie's journey, from her experience considering sperm banks or a close friend to ultimately finding a known donor on Facebook. She openly discusses the emotional challenges of navigating this path, including a heartbreaking miscarriage, before welcoming her now 3.5-month-old baby boy. Valerie's story is a testament to the resilience and strength of women who, as she puts it, "intentionally build what they want."Our conversation also touches on important topics such as the bioethics of the sperm donation industry, the anxiety that often accompanies pregnancy, and making empowered choices as a mother. If you've ever felt torn between the life you want and societal expectations, this episode will resonate deeply.In this episode, we discuss:Valerie's decision to become a mom during the pandemic and what sparked her journey;Navigating the sperm donor process and finding a donor on Facebook;The shift from considering traditional sperm banks to seeking a known donor;Her miscarriage and the emotional toll of almost accepting life without motherhood;Anxiety during pregnancy and the struggle of waiting for the other shoe to drop;The power of creating the life you want as a woman—regardless of societal norms;Bioethics in the sperm donation industry and the need for better regulation;And more!
In this episode on the mating gap and egg freezing, we discuss:The challenges created by the shortage of eligible, educated men.How the education gap between men and women affects dating dynamics.How societal expectations and outdated gender norms are contributing to this issue.Why considering partners from diverse educational backgrounds can be beneficial.The psychological benefits of egg freezing for single women.How women are making empowered choices about their reproductive futures.Marcia's insights reveal the unique struggles women face today and offer a fresh perspective on how assisted reproductive technologies are changing the landscape of motherhood. Tune in to hear more about her study, the concept of the "mating gap," and why so many women are rethinking what it means to have it all.For full show notes, visit www.singlegreatestchoice.com/podcast-feed/s7-ep1-marcia-inhorn-motherhood-on-ice More info about coaching, community groups, and retreats at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/
My final guest of this season is Ashley Coates, a longtime Instagram friend and solo mom by choice living in Portland, Oregon. When Ashley decided to pursue solo motherhood, she decided to ask a close friend to be her known donor. What happened next feels almost too good to be true. Tune in as Ashley shares her experience of navigating conception, pregnancy and birth with a known donor and the unexpected joy of extending her family from coast to coast. More info about coaching, community groups, and retreats at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/
We discuss more about…..The transition from corporate life to focusing on solo motherhood.The joys and challenges of parenting during a global pandemic.Her mother's health crisis and its impact on her responsibilities.The process of writing her book featuring stories of 20 Australian SMBCs.Strategies for achieving a better work/life balance.Prioritizing experiences over material luxuries.Tips and wisdom for other women considering the solo motherhood path.This episode is a must-listen for anyone considering or already on the path to becoming a solo mom by choice. And if you missed her previous episodes on the SGC Podcast, make sure you tune into those by using the links below!Connect with Alisha!Follow her on social media! Website | Podcast | @solomumsociety | @noneedforprincecharmingLearn more and check out her latest book HERE Mentioned ResourcesS1, Ep 14: No Need for Prince Charming with Alisha BurnsS4, Ep 3: Books For Your Child's BookshelfYour Dream Life Starts Here by Kristina Karlsson More info about coaching, community groups, and retreats at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/
We discuss more about…..Elizabeth's journey to fostering and adoption.Balancing professional life with motherhood.The emotional and logistical challenges of fostering.dating and introducing our children to a future partner.Building and relying on a support system.Insights and advice for those considering fostering or adoption.Connect with Elizabeth!Website | Instagram | Instant Mom PodcastCheck out the Central General Store!Website | InstagramLearn more about the SGC Childbirth 101 Class for solo moms! More info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching
We discuss more about…..Emily's initial adoption research and the steps involved in the process.The emotional journey and uncertainties of getting matched.The costs and logistical aspects of adopting in the U.S.Adjusting to motherhood and balancing work with childcare.The importance of support and strong friendships in solo motherhood. More info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching
We discuss more about…..Celine's transition into embracing single motherhood.The challenges and emotional journey of egg retrieval and embryo transfer.Moving from the Netherlands to Sedona, and eventually to New York City.The vital role of community and support for SMBCs.Balancing business and motherhood, and the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive influences.Celine's birth and postpartum experience. Connect with Celine!Follow her on social media! Instagram | Website | Media More info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching
We discuss more about…..What the fertility process looks like in ColombiaThe raw emotions while undergoing IVDeciding whether or not to have a second childSupport and expectations during pregnancy and postpartum More info about 1:1 coaching, group coaching and community groups with The Single Greatest Choice at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/
When Danielle and Paige were ready to grow their family, they knew the route of a traditional sperm bank wasn't right for them. They went to great lengths to find a known donor by tapping into their own network and doing a TON of legwork. After walking that path themselves, they decided to create The Seed Scout to help other families who were looking for options beyond the big, impersonal and deeply flawed major cryobanks.We discuss more about…..The journey of exploring alternative paths to parenthood beyond traditional sperm banks.The significance of building trusting relationships with potential donors.Establishing The Seed Scout as a business.The need for ethical and transparent practices in the donor conception industry.Acknowledging donors as individuals and fostering a supportive environment.Connect with The Seed Scout!Follow them on social media! Website | Instagram | TikTok More info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching
If you've been going back and forth about whether or not to have a second child as a SMBC, you're not alone! I frequently get asked about this topic, and it's one that's on my mind a lot these days. From making decisions about egg and embryo freezing to deciding on spacing between children to weighing the pros and cons of being “one and done”...there's a lot to think about! In this episode, I'm opening the conversation and asking SMBCs with one or more kids to share their thoughts about growing their families. What drives their desire to add more, or conversely, what factors help them decide their family is complete as it is? These audio clips provide a range of perspectives and bring up lots of important considerations. As always, the goal of this podcast is to help women like you and me feel less alone, and I hope these reflections help to do that in some small way no matter where you are in your motherhood journey! More info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching
For years, Meredith and her gay best friend had a running joke that if they were both still single without kids by a certain point, they'd have a child together. Recently, Meredith decided it was time to take that joke seriously. In our conversation, she'll explain more about her decision, the arrangements she's making with her known donor, and how she's prepping for her future life as a single mom. We discuss more about…..ICI/IUI vs IVFPrioritizing community as a single momFinding a doctor that's right for youPractical considerations when working with a known donorLiving with her supportive momCheck out The Backup Plan Podcast!Website | Instagram | TikTok | YoutubeMentioned ResourcesCosmo article with Lala Kent More info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching
Carla shares her experience from exploring surrogacy options to the complex matching process and the major impact of spiritual faith on her decision-making. She also reflects on the important trust and connection required in the surrogate relationship, and the joys and challenges of pregnancy through the lens of surrogacy. Join us as Carla's story inspires and illuminates the possibilities of motherhood that go beyond conventional norms, embracing the transformative power of love as a single mom by choice.We discuss more about…..Carla's infertility journey and Adenomyosis diagnosis.Navigating the gestational surrogacy process.The physical, mental, and spiritual toll of being fully present for the surrogate mother.The intersection of faith and fertility.Mentioned Resourceshttps://www.familymatchconsulting.com/More info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching
New episodes coming every other Wednesday, starting March 20! Get more info and sign up for Guest Expert Workshops, Community Groups, and the SGC Directory at www.singlegreatestchoice.com.
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Connect with Keina!Website | Instagram | Facebook | Podcast Mentioned ResourcesMoney Files - 96 | From Finances to Motherhood: Let's Talk Money Coaching Check out the SGC Directory!Email Katie for the password: katie@singlegreatestchoice.comJoin us in El Cuyo, Mexico March 10-15, 2024!www.singlegreatestchoice.com/el-cuyo-2024More info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching
In this episode, we discuss more about…..Advocating for regulations and safety within the sperm donation industry.The dangers of excessively large sibling groups.Practical advice for prospective parents seeking donors.How to support donor-conceived children.Legislative initiatives such as the HR451 fertility fraud legislation.Connect with Laura!Follow her on social media! Instagram | Website | TikTok | Podcast Watch Laura's TikTok video rating sperm banks Check out the SGC Directory!Email Katie for the password: katie@singlegreatestchoice.comMore info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coachingJoin us in El Cuyo, Mexico March 10-15, 2024!www.singlegreatestchoice.com/el-cuyo-2024
In this episode, we discuss more about…..Lack of regulation in the sperm donation industry.Dylan's personal journey, navigating the emotional complexities of moving from being an unknown to known donor.Ethical considerations and best practices for parents and donors.The shifts in attitudes among donor-conceived children as social norms and parenting practices are changing.The complexities of navigating roles and relationships with each of Dylan's recipient families individually.Dylan's advocacy work and writing project focused on bringing more awareness to what needs to change with donor conception.Connect with Dylan!Follow him on social media! Website | Instagram | TikTokCheck out these organizations in the donor conception space! U.S. Donor Conceived Council: www.usdcc.orgDonor Conceived Community: donorconceivedcommunity.orgMentioned ResourcesWe Are Donor Conceived 2020 Survey Report More info about coaching and retreats www.singlegreatestchoice.com/
We discuss more about…..Rose's transition from corporate law to fertility law.Sperm banks vs known donors: legal insights.Finding a reproductive attorney and questions to ask.Legal complexities of egg and embryo donations.Challenges in the world of fertility law.Connect with Rose!Follow her on social media! Instagram | Website More info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching
In our conversation, Julie takes us through the hurdles of healing from past traumas, addressing fertility challenges, and how she first became a mom. She is extremely passionate about parents teaching their children how to become a part of their lives and encourages moms to take that vacation, kids in tow! She provides incredible tips on traveling with kids as a single parent that you will not want to miss. Trust me, she's the expert, so get ready to take some notes!We discuss more about…..Fitting our children into our lives, not the other way around.Adoption and healing from past trauma.Fertility challenges and the decision to be a single mom.The legal aspects of her parenting arrangement.Julie's best travel tips as a single parent.Connect with Julie!Follow her on social media! Instagram | Website |Podcast – Launching Nov 2023 – Sign up to receive updatesMentioned Resources - Check out these resorts with baby clubs & childcare options! All can be booked with Julie's agency – www.influencedtravelagency.comFranklyn D. ResortMelia and Paradisus HotelsPalladium Hotel GroupCoconut Bay - St LuciaClub MedMore info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coachingJoin us in Sedona December 29 - January 2! www.singlegreatestchoice.com/retreats-sedona-2024
In this episode, we discuss more about…..Becky's decision to be a single mom by choice.Fertility issues and the importance of finding a doctor you can trust.Seeking support through online communities.Dating as a single mom by choice.How Becky unexpectedly found love.Growing a blended family. More info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coachingJoin us in Sedona December 29 - January 2! www.singlegreatestchoice.com/retreats-sedona-2024
Throughout our discussion, Sara opens up about the series of events that led to the birth of her son, Micah, as well as her deliberate (sort of) decision to embrace single motherhood. We explore the advantages and challenges of co-parenting, examine the various choices available for expanding one's family with a second child, and gain insights into her journey within the coaching realm.We discuss more about…..Defying norms and “choosing” an unconventional family structure.Co-parenting arrangements.Pursuing new relationships as a single mom.Knowing how/when to have a second child.The significant role of connection between loved ones.Connect with Sara!Follow her on social media! Instagram | Website | Podcast Mentioned ResourcesLunchbreak Journaling For Moms: https://www.saragraybeal.com/lunch-break-journaling-for-momsSupercharge Your Creativity: https://www.saragraybeal.com/superchargeyourcreativity More info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coachingJoin us in Sedona December 29 - January 2!www.singlegreatestchoice.com/retreats-sedona-2024
In this episode, we discuss more about…..What led Rachel to desire to become a single mom by choice.The unexpected turns in the search for a donor.How she's changed since becoming a mom.Navigating pregnancy and postpartum while doing it solo.Launching her Instagram account and handling the critics. Connect with Rachel!Follow her on social media! Instagram | Facebook Mentioned ResourcesInstagram Reel on the psychological damage of not having a dad.We Are Family by Susan Golombok: https://www.amazon.com/We-Are-Family-Transformation-Children/dp/1541758641 More info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coachingJoin us in Sedona December 29 - January 2!www.singlegreatestchoice.com/retreats-sedona-2024
Elizabeth wears multiple hats as a postpartum doula, lactation counselor (soon-to-be consultant), infant massage instructor, and infant sleep consultant. After years of dedicated work, she took a courageous step towards single parenthood and welcomed her son in the midst of the pandemic. Join us as we delve into her fascinating journey, exploring her roles as a supportive professional and a mother who embraces the beauty of non-traditional family structures. We discuss more about…..Elizabeth's journey to becoming a single parent.Her unique experience of selecting a donor.How she's preparing for baby #2.Navigating career paths and growing her skills.Balancing professional and personal life as an entrepreneur. Handling life's transitions while maintaining her empowering roles. Connect with Elizabeth!www.empoweringmama.comFollow her on social media! Instagram | Facebook | TiktokEnroll now for The Thriving Postpartum Course!Mentioned ResourcesBig Brother Learns All About Babies by Itty Bitty Newborn More info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coachingJoin us in Sedona December 29 - January 2!www.singlegreatestchoice.com/retreats-sedona-2024
Through her work as an author and speaker, Kiara has been on a transformative path connecting with donor-conceived children and prospective parents, opening the door to a world often overlooked in mainstream narratives. In our conversation, she describes more about her journey of self-discovery, meeting her donor siblings, and the beauty of creating her own family on her terms.We discuss more about…..Writing Chosen Family and connecting with donor-conceived children.The power of honesty and representation in shaping Kiara's positive story.Redefining family and embracing the concept of chosen family.Building strong bonds with donor siblings and fostering connections.Embracing solo parenthood and reframing perspectives on motherhood.Connect with Kiara!www.kiararaeschuh.comFollow her on IG: @kiararaeschuhChosen Family is available now on Amazon!More info about SGC coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching
In this episode, Katie interviews another yet another smart, creative, soulful and wise SMBC in the making (seriously...I am so blown away by the women who are making this choice. It never gets old!). Chekwube is a 31 year old Black queer femme novelist, poet, artist, and professor living and working in Los Angeles. Her warmth and intentionality shine through, as well as her desire for motherhood. I hope you enjoy meeting her as much as I did! You can connect with Chekwube and learn more about her work through her website: https://codanladi.com/ More info about coaching and community groups at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching
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I dare you to listen to this episode and NOT be inspired! Halima is a woman who is living life to it's fullest. A few years back, she began the process of shedding every part of life that didn't feel like the truest version of herself - and I am not talking about cleaning out her closet. We are talking about the big things...her job, her marriage, her home - Halima let it all go in order to pursue her deepest desire for motherhood. I am so excited for you to meet my friend and share in her absolute joy at the idea of becoming a solo parent. Halima is one of those people who makes me so very thankful to be on this solo parenting path, and I can't wait to share her story with you. If you want to connect with her, she's @halimaanderson on IG. Enjoy!
Meghann shares her incredible story of overcoming loss and serious health complications while on her path to solo motherhood. Listen to hear how she beat the odds and stopped at nothing to create her beautiful family as a solo mom to two beautiful donor-embryo conceived kids. Meghann is a trauma surgeon, a pregnancy loss survivor and an amputee. She's had many opportunities to allow circumstances to drag her down, but she's risen above them all to create a beautiful life for herself and her two children. You can connect with Meg on the Quora platfrom @Meghann Kaiser. For more information about The Single Greatest Choice Yoga & Coaching Retreat, visit www.singlegreatestchoice.com/retreats. To enroll in upcoming group coaching, visit www.singlegreatestchoice.com/group-coaching
In this episode, Katie talks to friend and former coaching client Anna. Anna worked with Katie back in early 2021 as she pursued her own solo mom journey in the midst of the covid-19 pandemic. After a significant breakup and a move back to her hometown, Anna decided to continue dating while she waited for the covid-19 vaccine to become widely available before she began trying to conceive with a donor. This episode tells Anna's story - one that didn't turn out the way she planned! For more information about coaching, community groups, and the Single Greatest Choice Yoga + Coaching Retreat, visit www.singlegreatestchoice.com
In this episode, Katie mentions @giftearlybird, an investing app where you can save for your child's future. If you create an account and use the code gifteb.co/3FZc2ob, you'll automatically get $15 deposited in your child's account. The app is super cool and customer service is excellent. I highly recommend this method of creating a little nest egg for your little one's future!
Christina Bernhard is a SMBC in Austin, Texas who Katie feels lucky to call a friend. Katie and Christina connected first on Instagram, then in real life. They share a passion for thought work and self-coaching, and both have used these tools to create a life they truly love as single mothers by choice. You'll love getting to know Christina, and I hope you'll go follow her and meet her gorgeous baby girl Aria over on Instagram @mschristinab. As always, you can find more info about the Single Greatest Choice Coaching & Community Groups over at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching
Katie had a night off from parenting, and instead of drinking wine and reading an amazing novel (The Arc by Tory Hoen - you should definitely check it out!), she ended up recording this unscripted podcast about why she's hosting the Single Greatest Choice Retreat in El Cuyo, Mexico June 28-July 2 and why you might consider joining. Learn more at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/retreats and schedule a call with Katie if you think you might be interested. It's the trip of a lifetime!
In this episode, Katie chats with her friend and coaching client, Anne. Anne found the Single Greatest Choice community just as she was beginning her journey to conceive her baby girl. In this episode, Anne divulges what it's like to move forward with solo motherhood while still holding a deep desire for both partnership and travel. Anne is someone who will inspire you to go after it all! You can find her on instagram @alyneis424. Find out more about SGC coaching and community group opportunities at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching
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In this episode, Katie talks with friend and former coaching client, Liz. While exploring the idea of solo motherhood by choice, Liz came across The Single Greatest Choice podcast and became one of Katie's early one-on-one coaching clients. You'll hear us discuss our shared apprehensions about conceiving via donor sperm and raising donor-conceived children. Spoiler alert: Liz worked through her concerns and is now a solo mama to the most adorable baby girl, Mira! Her process is a familiar one: research, research, research, then jump off the cliff! I am sure so many of you will relate to Liz's journey. You can find out more about SGC coaching opportunities at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching
Welcome to a new season of the podcast! In this episode, Katie chats with her friend and coaching client, Lindsay. Lindsay first found Katie through the Single Greatest Choice podcast, then chose to participate in both Group Coaching and the first ever Single Greatest Choice Community Group. Lindsay shares her journey to solo motherhood and some of the resources that have helped her along the way. You can find out more about SGC coaching opportunities at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching
Catch up with Katie after a long break from the podcast. Hear answers to your questions about solo motherhood, the latest on coaching and retreats, and find out Katie's favorite parts of life with a 20 month old toddler!
Join Katie in focusing on personal goals through a lens of self compassion and curiosity in the final quarter of 2022, so that you can start 2023 a better version of yourself. More info on Instagram - follow @single_greatest_choice to play along!
In this episode, Katie shares her favorite coaching tools by applying them to the sometimes emotional experience of choosing a donor as a solo parent. To learn more about these top 3 tools, visit:The Life Coach School Podcast by Brooke Castillo, Master Coach InstructorSelf Compassion by Kristin Neff, PhDThe Work of Byron KatieYou'll also learn about some upcoming ways to work with Katie, including very limited availability for one-on-one coaching, an upcoming discussion group in Oct-Nov, group coaching in Dec 2022, and the first ever Single Greatest Choice yoga and coaching retreat in Summer 2023! Find out more at www.singlegreatestchoice.com/coaching