Thoughts of a Dreamer w/ Terri Nikki

Send us a textIn this first episode of Thoughts of a Dreamer: Out My Mind, I'm unpacking what it means to shrink yourself mentally, emotionally, and energetically. If you've ever second-guessed your light, quieted your voice, or made yourself smaller to fit in… this one's for you.This episode is real, raw, and mindset-first. We're talking self-sabotage, overthinking, emotional shrinking, and the moment I finally decided to reclaim my space.✨ Listen in if you're ready to:– Shift your mindset– Break out of mental loops– Reclaim your voice– Stop apologizing for taking up spaceBecause you weren't born to be a whisper. You were born to echo.

Send us a textI FINALLY DID IT! I ADDED A VIDEO TO THE PODCAST! Whew. Took long enough. Not exactly what I wanted, but it couldn't wait. I had to get this out. Wanna see me? Click the link below to the pod and subscribe!!!https://youtu.be/02DZc6p-Mq4Welcome to Season 2 of Thoughts of a Dreamer — Out My Mind.After over 100 episodes and a long-awaited visual relaunch, I'm back with stories that cut deep, insights that heal, and words that push you toward the version of yourself you've been too afraid to meet.This season, we're not just talking about the journey—we're living it, face to face. Welcome to Thoughts of a Dreamer: Out My Mind. This is where we untangle the chaos, break through the noise, and discover the freedom that's been within us all along.  I'm peeling back the layers—talking identity, transformation, growth, and those quiet thoughts that keep you up at night. If you're ready to step into your power, let go of doubt, and feel seen, you're in the right place! Until next time! xoxo,Terri

Send us a textit's been forever, but I need some help. Tell me what you think. 

Thank y'all for the fun. Follow me on my NEW podcast - Thoughts of a Creative Its be real. Be yourself. 

Surprise surprise... :D Am I back? nah... but I'm here. I am transitioning and still getting used to this new new and I need time to adjust. However, I wanted to get this oldie out!When creating part time, those juices are flowing! No pressure. All passion. When creating full time, you have to wrangle your ever allusive, ambiguous creativity on a deadline. Its completely different... and I didn't know. Creativity ebbs and flows... work with it or you'll be in a world of hurt. Love y'all in real life. 

You have a special creative in your life... they're screaming that you don't support them... what do they mean? They probably don't know either... so... just listen. :) If you're dating an entrepreneur, creative, or dreamer... you need to hear this. We are DIFFERENT... hopefully you'll understand. Much love! T

Confidence... you gotta have it. I'm sorry. All these low vibration... low confidence decisions??? bad for your health. :D not really, but really... It's time to be delusional. Say it until you believe it. Eff what they say. Delulu. Feed into those delusions... safely. 

I might be afraid of the big rooms... I think I may be skeptical.  Whenever we get new opportunities, most of us look like…

I hate feeling like I can't do something, but it's easy for me to feel better about my decision NOT to do it. Howsoever... are you being HONEST with you? or... are you just following your internal script? Are you used to saying you can't do something so you pull from your "can't" bag?Well, whenever you feel you can't... take a listen! :) 

Man... stop. If I had kept goin... I'd be in a different space. thats it. thats the description. 

Dream big, they say... Just do it, they say... PUH-LEEEZE! How do I get these dreams out my head?!? I wanna see them in real life, but their soooo big my head and not so big in reality. What ta dooooo???I'm Afraid To Dream Big - Mel Robbins 

I promise this was crazy how this happened.  I can't make this up!! Just listen.  I'm learning about this self sabotage thing... The Mountain is You - Briana Wiest 

its been months. why leave something you enjoy doing? two words. self sabotage. I've been reading The Mountain is You by Briana Weist and I had to take a hard reset. This book has been everything for me and the kickstart back into this podcast. Y'all had some self sabatoge too? well, come on in... the water is nice. :Dhttps://positivepsychology.com/self-sabotage/https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-everyday-unconscious/202303/the-real-reason-we-self-sabotage-and-how-to-stop

Ok. I'm emotional. like... SUPER emotional. It gets a little difficult to regulate these emotions, but I HAVE to find a way to funnel these emotions into my creativity. sheesh. Need a great life coach? Business coach? Check out the coach who help kickstart this podcast and all my other business ventures - Mr. Bricesin Scott. Tell him Terri Nikki sent you! :) Journals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There are only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! LRATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerEmail me tofadreamer@gmail.com

Opinions are like... well... you know the rest. Everybody has one. I went on a work trip to Orlando and had 3 people express their opinions and recommendations for my life. Here is what I feel about their vantage point  and what it has done for my life... for my dreams. *side eye* Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! Changes are A'BREWIN! ! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followers on my Facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) #courage #opinion #pointofview #vantagepoint #focus #dreamer #creator   #mentalhealth #creatives #visions #lawofattraction #ambiguity #crazy #greyarea #goals #newideas #airports, #travel Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

ok. It's here. opportunity. you've thought about it. you've analyzed it. you really wanna do it, but you don't know why you're on pause. take a listen. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! Changes are A'BREWIN! ! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followers on my Facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) #courage #firstsstep #babysets #where to start #mentalhealth #creatives #visions #lawofattraction #ambiguity #crazy #greyarea #goals #newideasFacebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

I love award shows! ...no, I don't. well, I might hate them... but I love them? :) Idk. But, what I do know is... I feel all the FEELS! Award shows are a way to see others vulnerabilities... you see how they FEEL about their craft. You see how they feel VALID! I think it's time we talk validation for creators... How much validation do you need?? #validation #grammys #socialmedia #mindset #trustyourself #awardshowsWanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! Changes are A'BREWIN! ! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followers on my Facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) #mentalhealth #creatives #visions #lawofattraction #ambiguity #crazy #greyarea #goals #newideasFacebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

Terri, where have you been? What's been going on? I'm here y'all. I'm still here. it's been a lot. Here's my story. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! Changes are A'BREWIN! ! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followers on my Facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) #mentalhealth #creatives #visions #lawofattraction #ambiguity #crazy #greyarea #goals #newideasFacebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

Man... funemployment taught me a whole lot about myself... I just talk. I'm gonna do this... I'm gonna do that... I just create a whole scenario in my mind of a goal and tell people what I'm gonna do with the whole cocky assumption that I'm ACTUALLY gonna do it. tsk tsk tsk... I've NEVER done this before but I'm gonna do it now. yeah... no. Instead of talking about it, be about it. START the thing you said you'd do and SEE if you even like it... see if it's something you COULD do. Don't set yourself up to fail before giving yourself a fair and ACCURATE shot at actually doing it! Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! Changes are A'BREWIN! ! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followers on my Facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

I quit my job. I decided to take a leap of faith and just go for it! I pushed all my chips in and... "lost." Here's my dream chasing story. Take a listen. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! Changes are A'BREWIN! ! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followers on my Facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

Ego. Identity of self. Perception of self. How do you see yourself? Well, I see myself and I'm like... wait... THIS is what has been stopping me?!?! I have an announcement. Things are changing. Change with me. I'm gonna be TRANSPARENT. Take a listen. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! Changes are A'BREWIN! ! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followers on my Facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

Do you wanna go viral? Yes! Let's do this thing! ...but first.. a few questions... Take a listen. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! Changes are A'BREWIN! ! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followers on my Facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

I'm down today. :( I need to rest up a bit so I will post this rewind because it's one of my FAVORITES! I'm getting hit with a lot of inner critic voices lately and needed a re-up. If you have "the voices" (and I know you do...) take a listen! :) See y'all next week! FROM EPISODE #63: We all have an inner critic. We all have the voices that tell us we CAN'T and SHOULDN'T do. Those are judgments from our inner critc. If we aren't careful, those thoughts can keep us PARALYZED. Lets discuss what that inner critc does to a dream... Need a great life coach? Business coach? Check out the coach who help kickstart this podcast and all my other business ventures - Mr. Bricesin Scott. Tell him Terri Nikki sent you! :) Mindfulness Journal Magazine is such a great resource to understand your mind. They provide great tips to keep you grounded and minimize anxiety and stress by addressing mindfulness practices. See it for yourself! **Also sold in major retailers!** **UPDATE** NEW EPISODES are moving to WEDNESDAY! Hump day episodes! Journals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There are only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! Love day is coming... thinking of something pink, red, and DELISH! :D STRAWBERRY BROWNIES!! RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerEmail me tofadreamer@gmail.com Website: https://thoughtsofadreamer.buzzsprout.com 

Imagine a time with no internet... No cell phones... No caller ID... No social media... Yes, it seems like FOREVER ago, but most of us were THERE when it all started. SLOWLY but surely, we've become ZOMBIES and allowed this internet thing deteriorate our brains! (Just in time for halloween...) :D Long story short, you're not being productive. You're not sure why. Well, distractions have become STANDARD, ROUTINE and ENGRAINED in your daily movements. Let's unpack! Listen, I ran up on this article and book that was SUPER interesting! Check it out! Remedies for the Distracted Mind - Adam Gazzaley & Larry Rosen The Distracted Mind: Ancient Brains in a High Tech World - Adam Gazzaley & Larry Rosen Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! OMG. I'm ALMOST finished with my website! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! Pineapple Upside Down Cake? yes. YES!  RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followers on my Facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

You've worked. You've been grinding. You hit the wall. You're tired. You now have the option to PUSH thru or say EFF it... What do you choose? We want to dream chase, you gotta have mental toughness, endurance and strength. Lets GO! The Science of Developing Mental Toughness in Health, Work and Life by James Clear Atomic Habits - James Clear 

I love when I'm in the zone! There's nothing like feeling like you are knocking it out and being productive and the SMALLEST thing happens - THEN BOOM! Focus & momentum is GONE. GONE! Lost without a trace. Well, I'm realizing I gotta get this focus ALL the way together! Take a listen.Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! OMG. I'm ALMOST finished with my website! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! Pineapple Upside Down Cake? yes. YES!  RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followers on my Facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

You know what you feel, but you know what you need to do.  Now, you feel like you have to fight between what you feel vs what you HAVE to do. Intuition and necessity goes hand in hand to me. I mean... we ignore our intuition. We ignore the small voice. We focus on what needs to be done now instead of trusting and leaning on what we intuitively feel.  We sacrifice momentary happiness for long-term happiness (in theory)... when honestly, we get used to feeling average with spikes of happiness and feel that is just life. I refuse to live MY life that way.... but... you do you. :) respectfully. This message is not for everyone. This is coming from the unicorn that is me. Just wanted to shake your thinking a bit... I dare you to think differently... Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! OMG. I'm ALMOST finished with my website! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! Pineapple Upside Down Cake? yes. YES!  RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followers on my Facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

Welcome new listeners! :D yay! Little do y'all know, you've struck GOLD! Yes, GOLD! No, you will not get a check from me, but you will (hopefully) change your mind! Think about what you wanna do. Think about a goal. Think about a dream. Now, think of what it takes to do it... what do you FEEL?!?! Probably a lot of stuff. You may throw out an excuse. You may have convinced yourself you can't for WHATEVER reason... but, that's only because that thought has DIED within the ABYSS or grey area between your thought and your actions. Think about it. Be open. Let's change your mind. Take control. Amanda Crowell - 3 Reasons You Aren't Doing What You Say You Will Do Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! OMG. I'm ALMOST finished with my website! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! Pineapple Upside Down Cake? yes. YES!  RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followers on my Facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

*spooky* I'm so scurred of what's coming up! So... I'm just gonna stop right here. Nope. Can't make me move. Scared. Afraid. I like it where I am. not really, but... what's the alternative? Take a listen! https://www.healthline.com/health/understanding-and-overcoming-fear-of-the-unknownhttps://www.choosingtherapy.com/fear-of-the-unknown/Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! OMG. I'm ALMOST finished with my website! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! Pineapple Upside Down Cake? yes. YES!  RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followers on my Facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

Why am I going through this? I didn't expect this? Why is this happening to me? I'm sure you've all asked these questions ESPECIALLY during times of turmoil! It can seem like the sky is falling #hennypenny. I want this vision. I see this new life and THIS is happening?!? WTF, bro?!?! Welp, welcome. Welcome to the level up. Welcome to the new phase and stage in life. In hindsight, you'll see just why you needed to weather this storm. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! OMG. I'm ALMOST finished with my website! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! Think I wanna do a lemon cake next... idk... feeling a little fall-ish. RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followers on my Facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

Listen... it's been a whole journey. I wish life didn't diminish and shift us from what makes us feel the most alive! Life has a tendency to drown out that small voice that tells us what WE need. Instead, we focus on what everyone else is doing and follow suit.  Eventually, your soul will CRAVE what it needs. You won't be able to ignore it. What will you do then? You don't need ANYTHING to be what you need for success. You already have it in you... it's just not evolved yet. Take a listen. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! OMG. I'm ALMOST finished with my website! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! WEBSITE COMING SUPER SOON! :D RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followers on my Facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

There are so many questions surrounding purpose, passions, gifts and talents. How to I find my purpose? What is my purpose? Is my passion my purpose? Why can't I find my purpose? Man! There is so much information regarding purpose. SO MUCH! ... nothing makes is less confusing. If you still question purpose, take a listen. ...I can talk about this all damn day. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! OMG. I'm ALMOST finished with my website! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! WEBSITE COMING SUPER SOON! :D RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followers on my Facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

Maybe later, I'll do [fill in the blank]. Look at you... procrastinating your little heart out. We gotta stop this. Your feelings won't change later. You'll still feel the feels of resistance now or later... why not do it now?  Procrastination has its perks, but not too many... Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! OMG. I'm ALMOST finished with my website! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! WEBSITE COMING SUPER SOON! :D RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followers on my Facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

You read that right. If you know you're a procrastinator, have you ever asked the questions as to how or why? Do you know what you can do to kill or minimize procrastination? Well, take a listen! https://youtu.be/arj7oStGLkUTim Urban - Inside the Mind of a Procrastinator - GREAT SPEECH!! :D 

Whew! Pivital moments have shifted me to look at time. Time is fleeting, so why are we so comfortable in thinking we have it? We don't know what kind of time we have. We have dreams and goals, but if we're always putting it off and procrastinating... we'll NEVER accomplish them. Just a discussion. Just something to make you think. https://markooo.com/negative-effects-of-procrastination/https://www.productplan.com/glossary/4-ds-of-time-management/Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! OMG. I'm ALMOST finished with my website! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! WEBSITE COMING SUPER SOON! :D RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followers on my Facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

STRETCH those muscles! Loosen up! We need this business to work, so we have to take this vision that we're SOOOO stubborn with and make it a business. However, you have to be FLEXIBLE enough to allow the vision to change. You have to find the SWEET SPOT! We need our creations to take care of us financially... https://www.notsalmon.com/2019/07/05/reasons-stubborn-good-trait-helpful-business/https://steverosephd.com/how-to-be-more-flexible-in-life/https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/how-to-gracefully-accept-change/Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! OMG. I'm ALMOST finished with my website! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! WEBSITE COMING SUPER SOON! :D RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followers on my Facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

Indecisiveness leads to missed opportunities, loss of income, loss of TIME. You have to make a decision. Well, how do I do that? ... take a listen. https://www.wellandgood.com/how-to-be-more-decisive/amp/ Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! OMG. I'm ALMOST finished with my website! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! WEBSITE COMING SUPER SOON! :D RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followers on my Facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

Ugh. Just make a damn decision already. HURRY UP! (insert: Angry face emoji) Don't yall get tired of people asking you to make a decision and you have a SLEW of emotions that you go through? You just CANT make a decision OR you're not too comfortable in your decision. Why is that? Well, let's talk about it. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/counseling-keys/201707/uncovering-hidden-causes-indecisionWanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! OMG. I'm ALMOST finished with my website! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! WEBSITE COMING SUPER SOON! :D RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followers on my Facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

Fear. We all have and experience some level of fear or anxiety.  Well, if you're afraid to make mistakes, check out THIS episode. Lets work on this... https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/brainsnacks/201203/the-only-5-fears-we-all-share?amphttps://hbr.org/2020/06/how-to-overcome-your-fear-of-making-mistakesWanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! OMG. I'm ALMOST finished with my website! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! WEBSITE COMING SUPER SOON! :D RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followers on my Facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

I wanna be FREEEEEEE! Live off my CRE AY TIV UH TEEEEEE! So, I guess I'm an entrepreneur (in some sense...) but thing is... this mindset is WHEW! I know I can do it. You know you can do it.. until you don't feel you can. Then what? Let's talk about this self-efficacy and the entrepreneurial mindset. We're transitioning to the ENTREPRENEURIAL MINDSET series! We have to change our minds to be successful. Success starts here. Join me! https://positivepsychology.com/self-efficacy/by Courtney E. Ackerman, MA.Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There is only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! OMG. I'm ALMOST finished with my website! :) I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! WEBSITE COMING SUPER SOON! :D RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followers on my Facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

You have it. You have the thing or creation that will financially liberate you. You've researched. You've tested. You've asked the questions. You've started the paper work. You FINALLY take the plunge and then... YOUR MIND IS NOT READY!?!!? Omg. What do I do? WHAT TF DO I DO?!?! I wasn't sure this was a thing... but now I know. We're transitioning to the ENTREPRENURIAL MINDSET series! We have to change our minds to be successful. Success starts here. Join me! Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There are only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followes on my facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

When you break down the walls of excuses, it's BLARINGLY clear the limitations were because of ME. Now, it's me vs. me. My mind vs my actions. I will win. Living life intentionally. Living life on purpose. No more elephant graveyards. No more electric fences. No more barbed wire. Time to remove those limitations... and I bet it starts with YOU! :)  Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There are only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followes on my facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

Ugh. Options. The right to choose. I mean... ugh. If you stay in that head with that dream, nothing happens. If you choose not to do anything, nothing FURTHER happens. If you choose to put actions on this dream or business, you're gonna be weighing options until you get where you wanna go! Roadblocks on this journey will TEST your vulnerability. It'll put you in your feels. But hey, gotta love options... right? Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There are only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followes on my facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

We all lose motivation. EVERY SINGLE ONE OF US. Just take a listen. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There are only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followes on my facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com 

Let's think about this thing... how many of us will look at something and say... Nah. Nope. Not gone do it. Not wasting my time... Well, you're ACTUALLY not protecting yourself from rejection, you're self rejecting. Keep on saying no. Keep on! (I'm being sarcastic.) You get in this habit of saying no then you'll NEVER progress. You'll look up and see everyone else "doing better" than you and you have no idea why. Well... YOU KEEP SAYING NO! Stop it. Right now. Betta check yourself before you wreck yourself. :D (Yes, I'm old and corny...)Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There are only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followes on my facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerFor Business Inquiries:  tofadreamer@gmail.com Tags: rejection, fear, protect yourself, perfectionism, mindset, goals, self reject, no, resume, KPI, HR, content creator, comedy, jazz, singer, opinionReferences:  https://thehappyarkansan.com/blog/self-rejection/ - Savanna Pruitt https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/from-surviving-to-thriving-overcoming-self-rejection-0824184 - Johannes Kieding, LCSWhttps://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/temptation-of-self-rejection-promise-of-self-acceptance-0918175 - Maury Joseph, PsyD https://www.huffpost.com/entry/self-rejection_b_2597926 - Margret Paul, PhD

This is kind of a two-fer.  I wanted to only talk about one thing but... yeah... that didn't happen. I had a pivotal moment. It caused emotional damage. Things weren't the same. Now I see why I wasn't progressing. I was moving in a space of desperation. Maybe this has happened to you...  take a listen. I'm all over the place. Trying somthing new. Join me on this journeyyyy!!! Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There are only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followes on my facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerEmail me tofadreamer@gmail.com

*clutches pearls* I can't BELIEVE they have the audacity... well, honestly... you need it.  You need an audacious spirit if you want to move forward in your journey. Take the next step. Be bold. You don't need to be ready. You need to give yourself permission. You just HAVE to have audacity.  PERIOD! Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There are only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followes on my facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerEmail me tofadreamer@gmail.com

:) Yes. Back from a break. I explain why. But first... Plato's Allegory of a Cave. Take a listen. Wanna show me some love? :) NO PRESSURE! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tofadreamerJournals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There are only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! STARTING MORE SOON!!! I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followes on my facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerEmail me tofadreamer@gmail.com

We've all been there... what will you choose? Listen... Need a great life coach? Business coach? Check out the coach who help kickstart this podcast and all my other business ventures - Mr. Bricesin Scott. Tell him Terri Nikki sent you! :) Mindfulness Journal Magazine is such a great resource to understand your mind. They provide great tips to keep you grounded and minimize anxiety and stress by addressing mindfulness practices. See it for yourself! **Also sold in major retailers!** **UPDATE** NEW EPISODES are moving to WEDNESDAY! Hump day episodes!  Be patient with me guys... going thru a NECESSARY transition. Keep your notifications ON! Journals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There are only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followes on my facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerEmail me tofadreamer@gmail.com

...yeah... that was clickbait. Sorry not sorry. Honestly, a lot of creatives feel their identity, their fortune, their happiness comes from their creativity. So, what happens when you don't feel creative? What happens when you can't focus? How do  you get your mojo back? Should you just give up? Take a listen! Need a great life coach? Business coach? Check out the coach who help kickstart this podcast and all my other business ventures - Mr. Bricesin Scott. Tell him Terri Nikki sent you! :) Mindfulness Journal Magazine is such a great resource to understand your mind. They provide great tips to keep you grounded and minimize anxiety and stress by addressing mindfulness practices. See it for yourself! **Also sold in major retailers!** **UPDATE** NEW EPISODES are moving to WEDNESDAY! Hump day episodes!  Be patient with me guys... going thru a NECESSARY transition. Keep your notifications ON! Journals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There are only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followes on my facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerEmail me tofadreamer@gmail.com

Say what you want about this man. One thing you can't say, he lacks confidence. In watching the Jeen-Yuhs documentary, I am so happy that we get to see the JOURNEY of success. It's one thing to hear it, but another to see it. Kanye's consistency is admirable. Kanye's vulnerablity is respectible. Kayne's consistency is unmatched. These were my 3 keys to finding that success you crave... Regardless of what you think of the person, I still suggest you watch this as a creative, visionary or dreamer... Perspective. Now is your time! Get your vision OUT! Need a great life coach? Business coach? Check out the coach who help kickstart this podcast and all my other business ventures - Mr. Bricesin Scott. Tell him Terri Nikki sent you! :) Mindfulness Journal Magazine is such a great resource to understand your mind. They provide great tips to keep you grounded and minimize anxiety and stress by addressing mindfulness practices. See it for yourself! **Also sold in major retailers!** **UPDATE** NEW EPISODES are moving to WEDNESDAY! Hump day episodes! Journals/notebooks are for sale on Amazon! There are only a handful, but there are more to come! Check out the link for my amazon shop! I know it may be random, but if you need some great recipes FROM SCRATCH... check out my YouTube page for my bakery Southern Drizzle! Be sure to subscribe! RATE the PODCAST! SUBSCRIBE!! Leave comments! I'd LOVE to hear from you! Thank you to all the new followes on my facebook page! Yall are awesome! :) Facebook: @toadreamerTwitter: @toa_dreamerIG: @toa_dreamer tiktok: @tofa_dreamerEmail me tofadreamer@gmail.com