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Busy Philipps is a New York Times best-selling author, actor, activist, writer, and host of the new series, "Busy This Week", which she executive produces with Caissie St. Onge and Michael Gleason.Philipps is best known from her series of iconic television roles such as Kim Kelly on the beloved series "Freaks and Geeks" from Judd Apatow and Paul Feig; Audrey Liddell on "Dawson's Creek"; and Dr. Hope Bobeck on "ER". Philipps spent six seasons starring opposite Courteney Cox on the hit comedy "Cougar Town" for which she won the Critics' Choice Award for Best Supporting Actress in a Comedy Series. Philipps can most recently be seen on the critically acclaimed Netflix comedy series "Girls5Eva", executive produced by Tina Fey and starring opposite Sara Bareilles, Renée Elise Goldsberry and Paula Pell.Philipps recently returned as a late-night talk show host on the new series "Busy This Week". Season 1 premiered in May of 2024 on QVC+. Season 2 premiered on May 21. The show features celebrity guest interviews and laugh-out-loud moments, in addition to personal stories and Philipps' favorite curated shopping finds. The show has been picked up for a second season. This marks her return to late-night following her previous series, "Busy Tonight", which ran on E! from 2018-2019, and was executive produced by Philipps with Tina Fey, and Caissie St. Onge.In 2018, Philipps released a collection of humorous autobiographical essays in her book "This Will Only Hurt A Little" which was a New York Times best seller in its first week. The book offers unfiltered and candid stories and was published by Simon and Schuster's Touchstone division.In 2020, Philipps launched a podcast called "Busy Philipps is Doing Her Best", with her creative partner, Caissie St. Onge. The show features conversations between the duo and their guests, who reflect on times in their lives when a setback led to better opportunities.On the big screen, Philipps was most recently seen in Paramount's feature adaptation of the Broadway hit "Mean Girls: The Musical", in the iconic role of "Mrs. George", alongside Renee Rapp, Tina Fey and Jenna Fischer. She can be seen in the STX romantic comedy, "I Feel Pretty", opposite Amy Schumer and Michelle Williams, and directed by Abby Kohn and Marc Silverstein. She appeared in Joel Edgerton's thriller "The Gift", alongside Jason Bateman and Rebecca Hall. Additional film credits include: Kat Coiro's "A Case of You" opposite Justin Long, Peter Dinklage and Sam Rockwell; Douglas McGrath's, "I Don't Know How She Does It" alongside Sarah Jessica Parker; Ken Kwapis's "He's Just Not That Into You"; Paul Weiland's "Made of Honor" with Patrick Dempsey and Michelle Monaghan and the cult classic "White Chicks" with the Wayans Brothers.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/arroe-collins-unplugged-totally-uncut--994165/support.

Busy Philipps is a New York Times best-selling author, actor, activist, writer, and host of the new series, "Busy This Week", which she executive produces with Caissie St. Onge and Michael Gleason.Philipps is best known from her series of iconic television roles such as Kim Kelly on the beloved series "Freaks and Geeks" from Judd Apatow and Paul Feig; Audrey Liddell on "Dawson's Creek"; and Dr. Hope Bobeck on "ER". Philipps spent six seasons starring opposite Courteney Cox on the hit comedy "Cougar Town" for which she won the Critics' Choice Award for Best Supporting Actress in a Comedy Series. Philipps can most recently be seen on the critically acclaimed Netflix comedy series "Girls5Eva", executive produced by Tina Fey and starring opposite Sara Bareilles, Renée Elise Goldsberry and Paula Pell.Philipps recently returned as a late-night talk show host on the new series "Busy This Week". Season 1 premiered in May of 2024 on QVC+. Season 2 premiered on May 21. The show features celebrity guest interviews and laugh-out-loud moments, in addition to personal stories and Philipps' favorite curated shopping finds. The show has been picked up for a second season. This marks her return to late-night following her previous series, "Busy Tonight", which ran on E! from 2018-2019, and was executive produced by Philipps with Tina Fey, and Caissie St. Onge.In 2018, Philipps released a collection of humorous autobiographical essays in her book "This Will Only Hurt A Little" which was a New York Times best seller in its first week. The book offers unfiltered and candid stories and was published by Simon and Schuster's Touchstone division.In 2020, Philipps launched a podcast called "Busy Philipps is Doing Her Best", with her creative partner, Caissie St. Onge. The show features conversations between the duo and their guests, who reflect on times in their lives when a setback led to better opportunities.On the big screen, Philipps was most recently seen in Paramount's feature adaptation of the Broadway hit "Mean Girls: The Musical", in the iconic role of "Mrs. George", alongside Renee Rapp, Tina Fey and Jenna Fischer. She can be seen in the STX romantic comedy, "I Feel Pretty", opposite Amy Schumer and Michelle Williams, and directed by Abby Kohn and Marc Silverstein. She appeared in Joel Edgerton's thriller "The Gift", alongside Jason Bateman and Rebecca Hall. Additional film credits include: Kat Coiro's "A Case of You" opposite Justin Long, Peter Dinklage and Sam Rockwell; Douglas McGrath's, "I Don't Know How She Does It" alongside Sarah Jessica Parker; Ken Kwapis's "He's Just Not That Into You"; Paul Weiland's "Made of Honor" with Patrick Dempsey and Michelle Monaghan and the cult classic "White Chicks" with the Wayans Brothers.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/arroe-collins-like-it-s-live--4113802/support.

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This week, Lauren Bravo joins us to discuss the self-help book turned star-studded romcom 'He's Just Not That Into You'. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A Happy (early) Valentine's Day!To celebrate the holiday of LOVE we are releasing a very special analysis episode of "He's Just Not That Into You."What is Gigi's sign? Does Conor only have Cancer placements? Why can't Mimí remember Bradley Cooper's character's name? Listen to find out!

Fan Mail Me BrrrruuuuunnndenWhy does the world insist on renaming "ghosting" to "avoidant discard," and who exactly is in charge of these baffling rebrandings? Join Casey and me as we unravel the absurdity behind such labels and the blame games they often ignite. With humor and wit, we tackle how the internet can sometimes bombard us with information that distorts reality, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and personal responsibility in today's relationship landscape. Drawing inspiration from the no-nonsense advice of "He's Just Not That Into You," we stress that common sense is a crucial compass in navigating modern life.Shifting gears, we journey into the heart of the food industry, dissecting the role of lobbyists and economic motivations that have transformed what we eat. As we compare past and present food products, Mexican Coca-Cola takes the stage as a nostalgic yet healthier alternative, free from the burdens of excessive preservatives. Our conversation touches on the intricate ties between food additives, health implications, and the vast economic systems at play, painting a vivid picture of how consumer products impact our well-being. Wrapping up, we extend a heartfelt invitation for listeners to share their thoughts, helping us craft a better experience as we look forward to an exciting third season.Support the showCome back every Tuesday for a new episode each week. You won't be dissappointed, I'll tell you that for free. Subscribe and like us over at sockeytome.com as we begin the best part of our journey into podcasting yet, interacting with all of you. Give us your email as we begin to have more promotions and contests along with my personal favorite, trivia. Thanks everyone and as always, be good.

Chris Saxman is the Executive Director of Virginia FREE a non-partisan, non-profit established in 1988 that informs the business community in order to advance free enterprise and responsible, pro-business government. Delegate Saxman served in the Virginia House of Delegates from 2002 to 2010. 2024 - We're Just Not That Into You. Success lies in the simplicity, failure in the sophistication. Bottom Line on the 2024 Election

Podcaster and content creator Hannah Townsend joins Fionnuala to talk about the film adaptation of He's Just Not That Into You.Listen to Talk of The Townsends wherever you get your podcasts!Follow Hannah on Instagram and TikTok!Support the podcast on Patreon - patreon.com/flopcultureVote for Flop Culture in the Irish Pod Awards!Editing: Adam Shanahan Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Wellington and Savon discuss Week 1 of the NFL, the Lions' win over the Rams, Cowboys-Browns, and Dak's new contract along with Kendrick Lamar being the next Super Bowl halftime performer. They also discuss the 49ers still being an NFC giant, Michigan's blowout loss to Texas, Colorado's loss to Nebraska and much more. Next up, they discuss Doechii's new album Alligator Bites Never Heal, Amelia Moore's He's Just Not That Into You and Hailey Knox's For The Best; along with discussing Jason Kelce and Travis Kelce's new podcast deal, Sabrina Carpenter and Travis Scott's album sales battle and more. 

Gabe is hustling to...workout. A listener wonders if it's fair to share feelings for a friend after turning her down years earlier. Greg Behredt then joins the chat to discuss his rise and fall from fame following his hit book, He's Just Not That Into You. What happens when you lose control of your career and image? (Nothing good!) And finally, microfeminism. What is it and why does it matter? Check out all of our content on Patreon, Ad Free! Watch the full episodes of TLDRI, listen to the full episodes of The Variety Show, watch the International Question and Topix videos, join us for a monthly livestream, PLUS MORE:https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenusThis has been a Gallison ProductionProduced by Melisa D. Monts and Diamond MPrint ProductionsPost-Production by Coco LlorensProduction Assistance by Melanie D. WatsonOur Sponsors:* Check out Rosetta Stone and use my code TODAY for a great deal: www.rosettastone.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/just-between-us/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Who could have guessed the movie we would most often quote in reference to real estate would be “He's Just Not That Into You”? As it turns out dating behavior parallels quite nicely to the situations we come across as agents.  The romantic comedy “He's Just Not That Into You” gives a hilarious glimpse into the complexities of relationships. This dynamic can surprisingly mirror the interactions between real estate agents and their clients. The world of real estate is filled with mixed signals, searching for signs, waiting for the phone to ring and the desperate need for honest communication. Join us for a fun chat about the movie that got Alissa through a break-up back in the day and continues to provide wisdom for our real estate businesses now.    Leave us a review at ratethispodcast.com/hustlehumbly Get your FREE Database Template  Email Templates 101: emailtemplates101.com Build Your Own Business 101: hustlehumblypodcast.com/byob Agent Systems 101: agentsystems101.com All Resources: hustlehumblypodcast.com Submit your topic ideas and toasts to team@hustlehumblypodcast.com.  

As part of our Pride at Google Speaker Series, actor and activist Wilson Cruz visits Google to discuss his involvement with LGBT advocacy throughout his career. It all began in 1995, when he starred in a groundbreaking drama, My So-Called Life. He also has appeared in Grey's Anatomy, He's Just Not That Into You, Noah's Arc, The West Wing, RENT, Party of Five and Ally McBeal. Wilson currently serves as a full-time GLAAD staff member and national spokesperson. Originally published in June of 2014. Visit http://youtube.com/TalksAtGoogle/ to watch the video.

Did rom-coms ruin how we view relationships? This new series, Rom Com vs. Real Life, featuring my fiance and fellow film nerd Johnny, examines that question. In this episode, we're looking at the film He's Just Not That Into You and what it's teaching viewers about dating, relationships and how it all works. This move is packed with rules, exceptions and marriage-obsessed women. What is this movie teaching us about dating and relationships? Is it helping or hurting the way we perceive long term partnership? What's realistic, and what's not? We get into it all in this first episode. Let us know what you think! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the SCBWI Podcast, we are joined by Tracy van Straaten!TRACY VAN STRAATEN, Founder and PresidentFounded in 2019, TvS Media Group LLC  is an award-winning boutique public relations and consulting firm specializing in book publishing, entertainment, and brand management, with particular expertise in children's and young adult media. Founder and President Tracy van Straaten has more than 30 years of publicity, communications, and marketing experience, and she has created hundreds of campaigns for bestselling, award-winning, and debut authors, as well as beloved characters, celebrities, and brands.Over the course of her career, she has directed media campaigns and strategy for more than 200 New York Times bestsellers, including Suzanne Collins's bestselling The Hunger Games series; He's Just Not That Into You by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo; Olivia by Ian Falconer; and the re-launch of the Eloise series by Kay Thompson and Hilary Knight, for which van Straaten received a Literary Marketplace (LMP) Award for publicity campaign. Her longstanding media and industry relationships and vast network of national contacts across all media platforms have resulted in an impressive track record of high-profile placements. In 2023, TvS Media Group was awarded a Public Relations Society of America (PRSA) Chicago Skyline Award of Excellence and a Publicity Club of Chicago Golden Trumpet Award for the media campaign for the 30th Anniversary of Goosebumps by R.L. Stine.Tracy van Straaten has held publicity and marketing positions at Little, Brown and Company, HarperCollins, William Morrow, Simon & Schuster, and, from 2006-2019, Vice President of Communications, Publicity, and Educational Marketing for the Scholastic Trade publishing division. She served on the board of the Children's Book Council, holds a B.A. in English and Art History from Hamilton College, and earned a master's degree in Children's Literature from Simmons University in Boston. In 2017, she received the Simmons University Alumni Achievement Award for Excellence in Children's Literature. She currently serves on the board of The Carol Shields Prize for Fiction.Check out their services here: https://www.tvsmediagroup.com/servicesSupport the Show.

Natasha Leggero (Let's Be Cops, He's Just Not That Into You, Another Period, Drunk History) joins SOMETHIN' CRUNCHY to discuss her tour, The Endless Honeymoon Podcast with her husband Moshe Kasher, flashing the crowd at LA Improv, the dumbest shows on TLC, sexuality in the tech age, threesomes & open marriages, and more! 2024 Tour Schedule & Tickets Tempe Improv on May 10th & 11th

Greg Behrendt is a comedian and author. His work as a script consultant to the HBO sitcom Sex and the City paved the way for co-authoring of the New York Times bestseller He's Just Not That Into You, which was later adapted into a film by the same name.In this episode of the podcast, Greg discuss his new tell-all book, See You on the Way Down… Catch You on the Way Back Up! which chronicles his battles with cancer, struggles with addiction, and the various ups and downs of his career.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Comedian and writer Greg Behrendt joins Andy Richter to discuss the 90's alt-comedy scene, co-writing "He's Just Not That Into You,” the X-rated writer's room question that led to his consulting job on on “Sex and the City,” his life-changing appearance on “Oprah,” taking his dog's medication, his battles with addiction and cancer, and his new book on the Everand platform.Hey there! Do you want to talk to Andy live on SiriusXM's Conan O'Brien Radio? Leave a voicemail at 855-266-2604 or fill out this Google Form!

Exception vs. the rule! Love triangles! Jenn and Priscilla dissect the ensemble rom-com, He's Just Not That Into You, and play "Hear Me Out."

Robbie traveled to LA to sit down with actor and comedian, John Ross Bowie. Bowie has over 100 credits in TV and film, including: “The Big Bang Theory,” (11 seasons as Barry Kripke) “Speechless,” (3 seasons as Jimmy Dimeo) “Fresh off the Boat,” “Episodes,” “Brooklyn 99,” “House of Lies,” “Heroes," multiple "CSIs,"  Jumanji: The Next Level, He's Just Not That Into You, and What the Bleep do we Know? He is also an incredibly talented improv comedian, as you will see. In 2022, he published No Job For A Man, his memoir titled after a quote from his father about making money from the arts. He has been performing at Upright Citizens Brigade theater since 1998, and can often be seen in SUPERMARRIED, the two person improv show with his wife, Jamie Denbo. Bowie also quit drinking and that was fun to discuss as well. 

We talk about how to pronounce Bowie, the love of Monty Python, Elvis Costello, growing up in New York, the Ramones. John's new play, Brushstroke, my love of John's wife, Jamie Denbo, John's possible love of Jay's wife if he ever meets her, John Cleese, John's dad who wanted to be an actor but never did it but then turned John on to great movies, the freedom of giving up on expectations, and how they should be friends but weren't… yet.Bio:John Ross Bowie is an actor and writer originally from New York City. TV: “The Big Bang Theory,” “Speechless,” “Curb Your Enthusiasm,” two “CSIs,” “Feel Good” (Netflix), “Brooklyn 99,” “Generation,” “Reno911,” and others. FILM: Jumanji: The Next Level, The Heat, He's Just Not That Into You, and What the Bleep Do We Know? THEATER: Inherit the Wind (Pasadena Playhouse) Life Sucks (Interact Theatre Company) Laughter on the 23rd Floor (Garry Marshall Theater), Bad Person (Riot Act) John's memoir No Job for a Man was published in 2022 by Pegasus Books. If you must: @johnrossbowie on Instagram.

Pappy, Josh, special guest Allie and Stevie review the rom-com classic: He's Just Not That Into You! https://www.patreon.com/spoilerspodcast Baltimore-based friends and lovers, all in their 20s and 30s, try to navigate their way through the complexities of modern relationships. Beth (Jennifer Aniston) wants commitment from Neil (Ben Affleck), who sees nothing wrong with the status quo. Gigi (Ginnifer Goodwin) is tired of waiting by the phone, while Mary (Drew Barrymore) has a slew of supportive male friends, none of whom are straight. Meanwhile, Janine has trust issues with her husband, who can't trust himself around Anna. Release date: February 6, 2009 (USA) Director: Ken Kwapis Distributed by: New Line Cinema, Warner Bros. Pictures Adapted from: He's Just Not That Into You Box office: $178.9 million Music by: Cliff Eidelman

Greg Behrendt (@itsgreggers) joins the ladies to talk about his new book, He's Just Not That Into You and his Sex and the City days. They also talk about working on cruise ships, they play This or That and answer two lady problems about a sister's super negative boyfriend and what to name a baby!Have a lady problem that needs answering? Send the ladies an email at: ladytoladycomedy@gmail.com or, better yet, leave us a voicemail at (323) 6BUTT30!Join us over at Patreon.com/LadytoLady to get access to ad-free episodes, exclusive merch, and more!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Greg Behrendt (@itsgreggers) joins the ladies to talk about his new book, He's Just Not That Into You and his Sex and the City days. They also talk about working on cruise ships, they play This or That and answer two lady problems about a sister's super negative boyfriend and what to name a baby! Have a lady problem that needs answering? Send the ladies an email at: ladytoladycomedy@gmail.com or, better yet, leave us a voicemail at (323) 6BUTT30! Join us over at Patreon.com/LadytoLady to get access to ad-free episodes, exclusive merch, and more!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is truly all over the place. We start off with a bang, talking about my most recent experience with my queerness and exploring what it means to me, and why labels feel relatively daunting. Then, we talk about Jennifer Aniston's scene from “He's Just Not That Into You,” where the person she's been partnered with for years refuses to marry her, and we dive into all the facets of life that are quite literally just made up by humans– the government, money, and time. We talk about the nuances of these institutions and how they affect our lives. As both Lauren and I just finished watching our favorite reality TV love shows, Couple to Throuple and Love is Blind, respectively, we touch on the power of knowledge and permission (also, did you know Lauren was on a reality TV show??). Then, at the end of the episode, I tacked on a short 15 minute clip that we filmed last week after a chaotic day of filming.  Love always!!! H Resources: Patrick Hardwig, Videographer & Photographer Click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It's all up to you.  Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator. Looking to expand your own sexuality education? Check out our monthly membership program, HEMLOCK. At only $10 a month you'll have access to the tools you need to begin to reclaim your sexuality for yourself!⁠ (for femme-presenting people only at this time)

This week your hosts Emily Fleming and Jordan Morris are bringing you the classic mid-aughts romantic comedy He's Just Not That Into You, starring some of Hollywood's most beautiful people like Drew Barrymore, Bradley Cooper, Ben Affleck, and E from Entourage.Please pre-order "Youth Group" on Booksoup and get a signed and personalized message from Jordan Morris! Please keep it PG-13 but feel free to make it weird! DIRECTIONS: When you are purchasing it on Booksoup, at the end of the shopping cart page you can write what you want Jordan to say in the section that says “Use this area for special instructions or questions regarding your order."

She's not like a regular mom, she's a cool mom! This week, Busy Phillips joins Jonathan to talk all things Mean Girls and what it takes to be a cool mom on screen - and in real life. From bringing Mrs. George into 2024, parenting her own kids, and advocating for the LGBTQIA+ community, Busy totally makes fetch happen! Busy Phillips is a New York Times Best-Selling author, actor, activist, and writer. She's known for her television roles on Freaks and Geeks and Dawson's Creek. She's also appeared in films like White Chicks, Made of Honor, and He's Just Not That Into You. She currently stars in the Peacock/Netflix original series Girls5eva, and is in the new Mean Girls film, inspired by the 2004 original and Tony nominated Broadway show which released in theaters on  January 12th. She and her creative partner Caissie St. Onge also co-host the podcast Busy Phillips Is Doing Her Best. You can follow Busy on Instagram @busyphillips. You can listen to Busy Phillips Is Doing Her Best wherever you get your podcasts. Follow us on Instagram @CuriousWithJVN to join the conversation. Jonathan is on Instagram @JVN. Transcripts for each episode are available at JonathanVanNess.com. Find books from Getting Curious guests at bookshop.org/shop/curiouswithjvn. Our senior producers are Chris McClure and Julia Melfi. Our associate producer is Allison Weiss. Our engineer is Nathanael McClure. Production support from Julie Carrillo, Anne Currie, and Chad Hall. Our theme music is “Freak” by QUIÑ; for more, head to TheQuinCat.com. Curious about bringing your brand to life on the show? Email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mo and Christina take on their 178th film, 2009's He's Just Not That Into You. Join them as they discuss bread crumbing, their love for Justin Long, and hypothesize character/Taylor Swift song pairings.                     Our Patreon is LIVE! https://www.patreon.com/moviesthatraisedus We are thrilled to launch our Patreon with exciting perks such as a listener picked bonus movie episode, exclusive Discord, being added to our Close Friends, and a personalized thank you note!   Our merch shop is live! Check out our Raymond the Lifeguard design and so much more!! https://tinyurl.com/vxpbczup    Follow us on instagram @moviesthatraisedus   Follow us on tiktok @moviesthatraiseduspod  Follow us on twitter @mtru_pod     Do you have a movie you want us to cover next? Fill out our form! https://forms.gle/fU5vRfTk8K5Gb7cD8

Shani Silver, TikToker, author of a Single Revolution, and the podcast A Single Serving, is a unique  voice of support, shedding the societal shame around singlehood. With Sarah and Tracy, she gives a snarky take down of dating culture, the misogyny of "He's Just Not That Into You," and the cringiest thing anyone has ever said to her about being single. She also reacts to the FW of the Week -- an ex-boyfriend who demanded last year's Christmas present back.

The siblings talk Celine Song's PAST LIVES aka She's Just Not That Into You, Bruh. Did you try to hate the characters but ultimately love them? Did you blubber in the end like Iris? Or feel the feels when Charlie/Arthur says all the things like Wes? Do you want a relationship IRLWOWM? In real life with Or Whatever Movies? Check out the discussion at www.orwhatevermovies.com. Contains spoilers. Thank you for listening! 818-835-0473 orwhatevermovies@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Greg Behrendt is the #1 New York Times best-selling co-author of He's Just Not That Into You and It's Called A Breakup Because It's Broken. He's appeared on every TV show known to man, including Oprah, The Tonight Show and The Today Show, is a life long standup comedian and co-hosts the relationship podcast Don't Take Bullshit From Fuckers.He's also a life and writing coach, who can walk you through exactly how to write a book like his—as well as how to survive any adversity that comes your way (he's in recovery from addiction and has beaten cancer twice).In this episode, we talk about what happens when the publishing dream that wasn't even your publishing dream comes true, how to handle being categorized as "that guy" after runaway success and how becoming Oprah's obsession for a brief time doesn't mean you're set for life.FOR MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST AND OTHER STUFF, GO TO WWW.ONGOODAUTHORITYPOD.COM.

Ever wondered how a director can weave an intricate story with a star-studded cast, yet make you deeply invested in each character? That's the genius of Paul Thomas Anderson, and we talk all about it in this week's episode. Starting off with Anderson's debut feature film, Hard Eight, and moving on to the popular Boogie Nights, we break down the compelling performances and share our personal experiences of discovering Anderson's world.How can a movie over three hours long keep you engaged? Anderson achieves this with Magnolia, another masterpiece that we dissect, focusing on the heart-warming love story between John C. Riley and Melora Walters. We draw parallels to modern rom-coms like Valentine's Day and He's Just Not That Into You while appreciating Anderson's knack for creating a complex, interconnected narrative. Finally, we delve into Anderson's romantic comedy Punch Drunk Love, and scrutinize the duality of Adam Sandler's career, and his other cinematic gems like There Will Be Blood, The Master, and Inherent Vice. We discuss the brilliant performances by the likes of Daniel Day-Lewis and Joaquin Phoenix, and the unique visual language that Anderson employs. Join us for this scintillating journey through the works of one of Hollywood's most influential contemporary directors.Support the showPlease subscribe, rate, and review! Thank you for listening! Hope you enjoy!Website: https://moviestheyreprettygood.comInstagram: http://instagram.com/moviestheyreprettygoodFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100087938154530Twitter: https://twitter.com/moviesgoodpodYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8iGT7riyJ_K2DFLwfbTemg

This episode! A haunted Harbor Place is floated and “He’s Just Not That Into You” backlash in the form of an article in the Banner is discussed. Spooky video games, “Stag Knight,” “Slotherhouse,” and other spooky topics populate the second half of the show. QUAKE WITH FEAR!! Join our Discord! (https://discord.gg/ntcQjmWJZW)

Startup founders aren't always building their companies with equity in mind… On this week's pod, Hebba sits down with Desiree Morton, a DEI practitioner and tech founder, to discuss the importance of building companies with equity in mind from the beginning. From managing expectations to prioritizing equity initiatives, Desiree shares valuable insights and advice for creating a more inclusive and equitable workplace.  Bonus: Hebba and Desiree chat about why manipulation isn't always a bad thing when it comes to equity, why it's okay to admit your baby's ugly (because, let's face it, not everyone thinks it's cute), and how “He's Just Not That Into You” is applicable to just about everything. Plus, everyone's got baggage—so how can we approach difficult situations (and er… people) using a more empathetic framework?    00:01:24 - The Influence of DEI in Operations 00:03:30 - Building a Company with Equity 00:14:19 - Addressing Equity Problems in HR 00:15:59 - Building Strong Employee Resource Groups 00:18:22 - Challenges of Building with Equity 00:24:47 - Prioritizing Equity Initiatives in Business 00:29:36 - How to Juggle Business and HR Priorities 00:36:09 - Creating an Equitable Environment for Employees 00:39:41 - Equity Issues: Advice for First-Time Founders 00:44:49 - Innovate, Not Rely on Tech for HR Equity 00:50:15 - Building Equity and Exit Strategies   And if you love HR Therapy, sign up to I Hate it Here, the newsletter for jaded, overworked, and emotionally burnt-out HR/People Operations professionals needing a little inspiration. https://workweek.com/discover-newsletters/i-hate-it-here-newsletter/   For even more exclusive insider content, don't forget to check out my YouTube page.    Follow Desiree: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/desireekmorton/ Website: https://www.aginci.com/   Follow Hebba:  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ihateit-here/videos LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/hebba-youssef Twitter: https://twitter.com/hebbamyoussef 15Five is the performance management platform that drives business results and gives HR teams a complete solution to deliver high employee performance, engagement, and retention while improving manager effectiveness.  Find out more about 15Five here. And if you'd like to keep learning, Hootsuite's new 2023 Social Media Career Report is loaded with insights about social marketers' pay, promotions, job satisfaction, challenges, gender pay equity, mental health, and more—to help you attract, hire, and retain the best social marketers. Uncover the state (and state of mind) of the social media marketer in the full report!

It's the final episode of Below Deck Down Under Season 2, She's Just Not That Into You!!We bring this episode to you from our holiday location of Rainbow Beach, on the Sunshine Coast of Queensland, Australia.... from the back of a ute!!! Thank you so much for your support this season, we can't wait to bring you Below Deck Med very soon!!!!  Support the showClick the link above to head over to Patreon where you can join our community & access ad-free, early release episodes from $2 per month (USD) or for $5 USD per month enjoy all the above perks AND our weekly bonus episode 'The Wrap Up' for Patreon subscribers only! You can also support us by clicking the link below to purchase a 'virtual coffee'! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/theaftdeckpodAs an entirely independent podcast, we appreciate ALL of your support!!! Ask us questions, give us your thoughts on the show or tell us what you'd like us to cover in future episodes at theaftdeckpod@gmail.com or DM us @theaftdeck.podMusic by: AudioCoffee (Denys Kyshchuk)

On this episode of Bravo Bravo Effing Bravo, we break down Episode 10 of The Real Housewives of New York City Season 14, 'Naughty-ical by Nature' and Episode 18 of Below Deck Down Under Season 2, 'She's Just Not That Into You.'  Join Nathan and Mariana as they offer a blunt Aussie perspective of our favourite people in our favourite world of Bravoland. You can also follow us on Instagram and Twitter @effingbravo for podcast updates, tea, and Bravo news.  On this episode of RHONY: Erin catches Brynn up on the newest tension between Sai and Jessel; during the group's picture-perfect boat day, Jessel clashes with Erin and Sai, while Brynn and Jenna grow closer than ever. On this episode of Below Deck Down Under: Captain Jason gets involved when Chef Tzarina refuses to fulfil a guest request; Luka feels like a stew might be interested in him; the final night of the charter season leads to arguing, crying and relationships in shambles. Follow Bravo Bravo Effing Bravo: @effingbravo on Instagram and Twitter Follow Nathan: @nathanbrown90 on Instagram and Twitter

This week on Don't Take Bullsh*t From F*ckers with Greg Behrendt and Kane Holloway, it's clip show number ten. As always, these are never heard before outtakes, behind the scenes, and cutting room floor clips. No intro, just straight into "Thrown From A Rooftop Downtown" by Greg's band, The Reigning Monarchs, and on with the show! We start with a round of titles, who does Greg share a birthday with?, a guy wants Greg and Kane's autographed pictures, He's Just Not That Into You is still big in pop culture, Reddit Remix options, who has a melon baller?, another round of titles, Kane is Stedman, Kane's stepmom's sister has some inappropriate advice for him, the guys talk Black Widow, no one likes Kane's newly shaven face, Greg is mentioned on the podcast Threedom, more titles, the guys talk about the bad films of David Ayer, reading the comments with Ashley Hesseltine from Girls Gotta Eat, talking FBOY Island with Ashley, silent retreats, and sometimes Greg has nothing to say. Join the DTBFF Discord here You can find video versions of the podcast, bonus episodes, and much more at our Patreon!  Get your DTBFF, Always Be Blocking, Popsicle Pat, and Thirst Trap shirts, notebooks, masks, pillows, mugs, stickers, magnets, and pins on RedBubble  Leave a voicemail for the show at 323-379-5544 Email the show with your questions and comments at dtbffpodcast@gmail.com Follow the show, Greg, Kane, and Pat on Instagram at dtbffpodcast, itsgreggers, kaneholloway and dtbffproducerpat Get a free meditation and info on coaching from Greg at Gregorybehrendt.com Find this podcast and many amazing others at allthingscomedy.com

He's Just Not That Into You's star-studded cast did not live up to expectations. The offensive way women and their relationships with others are portrayed immediately had us saying we are just not that into this movie! Having said that, there were a couple laugh out loud scenes and the fashion and hair is maybe the most realistic we have seen in a rom com. Paired with a He's Just Not That Into You cocktail, listen up as we discuss cringe moments and unlikeable characters in our newest episode! Rate! Review! Follow! Email us thoughts and suggestions at toasttoromcoms@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @toastyromcoms Check out our website toasttoromcoms.com

Join Every Rom Com as we wrap up our Self-Help series with a look at the powerhouse ensemble rom com “Think Like A Man.” We’ll discuss some of the talented black cast and crew, including director Tim Story and actress Regina Hall. We’ll share our thoughts on the dating and relationship dilemmas encountered by the film’s characters. And we’ll give our opinions on the best-selling Steve Harvey dating advice book that inspired the movie: “Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man.” We’re joined this week by Natasha Alvar, a Rotten Tomatoes approved critic, who is also the film editor at culturedvultures.com! 0:00-16:48 Introducing Natasha Alvar from culturedvultures.com Natasha Alvar is a Rotten Tomatoes approved film critic, a film editor at Cultured Vultures, a book lover, and an English Literature teacher! Find Natasha’s Work Here: https://culturedvultures.com/author/natasha-alvar/ Follow Natasha Here: https://twitter.com/litmysoul Natasha Has Also Makes Guest Appearances Here: https://www.hallmarkiespodcast.com/ DONATE to Every Rom Com Here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/everyromcom 16:48-23:50 TRAILER, Basic Info, Interesting Facts More Info On “Think Like A Man”: https://www.bet.com/photo-gallery/yfbzum/20-reasons-why-we-love-think-like-a-man/2l4uad https://www.dga.org/Craft/DGAQ/All-Articles/1402-Spring-2014/Tim-Story.aspx To hear our thoughts on related movie “He’s Just Not That Into You”, check out Every Rom Com episode 56: https://www.everyromcom.com/podcast-1/episode/4e5eec46/every-rom-com-56-hes-just-not-that-into-you 23:50-29:43 General Opinion 29:43-51:33 Cast & Crew In-Depth More On Tim Story: https://www.dga.org/Craft/DGAQ/All-Articles/1402-Spring-2014/Tim-Story.aspx

Flashback Episode of The Father Time Podcast with Jamie KalerOne of the best things about doing this podcast is reaching out to some of my favorite comics/dads to come chat. And this week's one. Greg Behrendt is most notable for being a best selling author of the national phenomenon, "She's Just Not That Into You" which became a movie of the same name. He was a consultant on "Sex and the City" and "Committed", and he's done stand up on almost every late night show including The Tonight Show, Conan, and The Colbert Report. He even had his own talk show called, you guessed it, "The Greg Behrendt Show" . When I first moved to Los Angeles, he was one of the crushers that you would see around town at Largo, UnCabaret and all the other packed shows where the best comics in town would just destroy. I LOVED his act. He would kill. So glad he brought his brand of humor to Father Time. He's a great dad and really funny. Hope you enjoy!You can catch more of Greg Behrendt at: https://stevetrevino.com/On Instagram at:https://www.instagram.com/itsgreggers/https://gregorybehrendt.com/You can catch The Parent's Lounge live every Tuesday Night 10pm EST/7pm PST at:https://www.facebook.com/theparentslounge#theparentslounge #gregbehrendt #hesjustnotthatintoyou #comedycentral #parentingpodcast #jamiekaler #jasongowin #katemulligan #comedians #parentingadvice #funnyparents #hilarious #cohosts #Itscalledabreakupbecauseitsbroken #tiktokcomedy #marriageadvice #dadlife #standupcomedy #parentinghumorJamie Kaler's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jamiekaler/Jason Gowin's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jasongowin/Kate Mulligan's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/katestmomever/The Parent's Lounge TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@theparentsloungeshowTags: The Parent's LoungeDadpocalypseThe DadlandsFather Time

This week on Every Rom Com, we go deeper into the self-help movie genre, with a look at an ensemble rom com based on one of the most successful dating advice books of the 2000’s. We’ll explore an all-star cast, including Ginnifer Goodwin and Justin Long. We’ll talk about the movie and book’s relationship advice and whether it holds up in 2023. And we’ll rank the storylines from worst to best as we discuss the 2009 hit movie, “He’s Just Not That Into You.” This episode features returning guest Jason Kleeberg of the Force Five Podcast! 0:00-13:42 - Introduction, Dating & Relationship Self-Help Books, What’s New At Force Five Podcast Check Out Force Five Podcast Here: https://www.forcefivepodcast.com/ Follow Force FIve Here: Twitter @forcefivepod Instagram @forcefivepodcast 13:42-23:56 TRAILER, Basic Info, Interesting Facts https://ew.com/movies/2019/02/06/hes-just-not-that-into-you-10th-anniversary-secrets/ https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/features/just-not-that-into-you#:~:text=This%20new%20catchphrase%20actually%20started,but%20declined%20an%20invitation%20inside. https://www.oklahoman.com/story/entertainment/books/2009/02/08/phrase-alters-life-of-author-of-hes-just-not-that-into-you/61466992007/ https://www.baltimoresun.com/entertainment/bal-al.justnot01feb01-story.html Additional Information From DVD Special Features 23:56-26:55 General Opinion 26:55-36:07 Cast & Crew In-Depth More On Ginnifer Goodwin: https://www.eonline.com/news/305344/ginnifer-goodwin-and-josh-dallas-big-love-from-just-friends-to-a-fairy-tale-romance For more information on Scarlet Johansson, check out Episode 13 on “Lost in Translation: https://www.everyromcom.com/podcast-1/episode/5dbd0d79/every-rom-com-13-lost-in-translation For more information on Ben Affleck, check out episode 34 on “Chasing Amy”:

If you take a shot every time a famous person surprisingly shows up in the 2009 (but feels like 1998) movie, “He's Just Not That Into You,” you'll be as drunk as Kevin and Jon are by the end of this thing. Several separate but interlocking stories make this sort of like, what if “Love, Actually” wasn't about love? And it all came from an episode of Sex and the City! The episode was 6.4, “Pick-A-Little, Talk-A-Little,” and it spawned a phrase, a book, and this movie. It's a supersized episode, so make it last, Cidiots! We love and miss you. To get more movies & TV podcasts from Kevin and Jon during Sex and the City offseason, join the party on Patreon at patreon.com/kevinandjon. Instagram: @sexandthecidiots @kevinmccaff @jackperday

Happy birthday to Lesley! Join in her birthday celebration as she shares the things that have helped shaped her and continues to support her as she works to show up as her ideal self. We know there are some gems that will give you permission to dream and begin to create the life you want in the upcoming year.If you have any questions about this episode or want to get some of the resources we mentioned, head over to LesleyLogan.co/podcast. If you have any comments or questions about the Be It pod shoot us a message at beit@lesleylogan.co . And as always, if you're enjoying the show please share it with someone who you think would enjoy it as well. It is your continued support that will help us continue to help others. Thank you so much! Never miss another show by subscribing at LesleyLogan.co/subscribe.In this episode you will learn about:10 things learned by 40 10 things that shaped Lesley 10 things that support Lesley throughout the year 10 things manifested for the next year Change the perspective to "How is this happening for me?"rephrase your perspective and ask a new questionIdeas want to be bornYou have more time than you think. Use it.  Episode References/Links:Sauna Space AffiliateReach out! Beitpod@bloompodcast.net If you enjoyed this episode, make sure and give us a five star rating and leave us a review on iTunes, Podcast Addict, Podchaser or Castbox.Be It Till You See It Podcast SurveyUse this link to get your Toe Sox!ResourcesWatch the Be It Till You See It podcast on YouTube!Lesley Logan websiteBe It Till You See It PodcastOnline Pilates Classes by Lesley LoganOnline Pilates Classes by Lesley Logan on YouTubeProfitable PilatesSocial MediaInstagramFacebookLinkedInEpisode Transcript:Lesley Logan  Welcome to the Be It Till You See It podcast where we talk about taking messy action, knowing that perfect is boring. I'm Lesley Logan, Pilates instructor and fitness business coach. I've trained thousands of people around the world and the number one thing I see stopping people from achieving anything is self doubt. My friends, action brings clarity and it's the antidote to fear. Each week, my guests will bring Bold, Executable, Intrinsic and Targeted steps that you can use to put yourself first and Be It Till You See It. It's a practice, not a perfect. Let's get started.Hello! Hi! how are you? Happy birthday to me. It's not actually my actual birthday today, but it's my birthday month and I am 100% one of those people who celebrates it. No, I don't care if you think that's a terrible idea. If you think, "Oh my God, you're so indulgent." Yes, I am. And, and I, I think that's okay. And if you hate that, that's also okay. You don't have to celebrate your birthday for a month. And it's not that I make everybody say it's my birthday every single day or anything like that. I don't, I do like some sort of big extravaganza everyday or even daily lunches. I just love my birthday month. I just do. And so thank you for listening today. I thought it'd be fun to sort of figure out like, what do I want to talk about 40 things you should know about me, 40 things I've learned. And I just kind of like, I share so much about what I've learned. I wanted to break it up a little bit. Also, because in case you're new to the show, and you don't want to go all the way back to the beginning, which you can, I'm doing that with another podcast I'm I'm listening to. You can maybe get a little gist of like, who I am, what I'm about. And maybe some of you know me for a long time, you might not have heard these things, or they've always wondered.So what we're gonna do today, for this solo episode of somehow getting 40 things in about myself, without it being like all about me, cuz I definitely want you to take something out of this. That's what the point of this podcast is. I want you to be able to be it till you see it, and act as if you are the person you want to be today instead of waiting for that to happen. So I'm hopeful that these things I share with you can give you either permission to feel the way you feel, permission to be who you want to be, permission to dream, permission to want and you know, have a good time doing it. So I'm going to do 10 things I have learned. And I don't know that this is like the top 10. It's just the 10 that I think about a lot and I reflect on a lot. 10 things I'm glad I went through. So these are going to be things that are like, lessons I've learned definitely. But some things that people might think are a little rock bottom, and I've definitely had people say, I'm sorry, went through that. And at this point in my life, I'm not sorry. So I think it's really important to share those things. 10 things that support me. So these are a lot of my favorite things, but also things that just support me in showing up each and every day. And some days is easier than others. Some days I really lean into these things. And then lastly, 10 things I want in the next year or so. And this is just like a manifestation thing. It's kind of like a podcast version of a visualization board. And so hopefully we can check back in throughout the year as you listen to episodes and hear which of these things I got. I have I have made reality. So here without further ado, the 10 things I have learned. And in no particular order.First of all, you hear me say it all the time in every podcast. Perfect is boring. It's so boring. Oh my gosh. And I catch myself, I catch myself getting into perfection mode. Something doesn't go the way I want. I don't like how that feels. And then I like get a little ... And then I'm like, "Oh, are we trying to be perfect here?" Yeah. So what can we do for the future so that that doesn't happen again. So, I'm so glad I learned that because being a perfectionist really held me back in my life. There's a lot of things I think I could have done sooner if I wasn't trying to be so perfect. So I'm so glad I've learned that. Two, I mean, they're numbered, but that doesn't mean it's number two. And the importance of these things. Bad things are happening for you. Oh, yeah, we get to the next section, you'll hear more of that. Because I know you can think, "Lesley, like, easy for you to say. You're not going through I'm going through." You're correct. I am not. But I also think that we forget that the things that we're going through help us, learn a lesson, gain a muscle or a skill set that we're going to need for the future. The future you, the person that you're wanting to be in this planet has to have experience and things. Not just you can be empathetic, not just so that you can have those what comes with that lifestyle, or that job or that dream or that relationship or that friendship, but also like to be that person, you have to have gone through things. I always think about this ... I had heard this story when I was in the fifth or sixth grade. And I've never forgotten it. And this little kid, he had this like magic string. And whenever he like got a little bit bored or something bad was going on, he would pull on the string. And he'd pull on the string and it would fast forward his life. And he'd be an older version of himself. And then he played around in that age and then he pulled the string in. He'd be an older version of self and he just kept pulling the string whenever things weren't going the way he wanted. And then before he knew he pulled on the string, and he was at the end of his life. And so I say that story because I think we want to avoid the bad things, but they are really the things that have happened, they are happening for you when you're in it. Look, you're in a bad car accident, someone died. So there's tragic shit that happens. I am not downplaying that in any case, or any way. I can only say, feel your feelings, make sure you get support, make sure you get therapy around it, time away from your life to to actually handle that and deal with that. Don't bury and go, "Oh, it's gonna be happening for me?" No, but like, actually, actually go through it, and go all the way through it. And then I promise you, in a year, 10 years, you'll look back and go, "Wow." I mean, there are some things that happen in 2020. I was like, "Fuck." Like, we just canceled our entire income for the whole year. And I know that happened for a lot of people. And it sucks. And you know what, two weeks in, I was already seen a glimmer of light because I refuse to feel like this was happening to me. And I was like, "It's gotta be happening for me. This must be setting me up for something." And so I'm going really long on that. But I just really hope that you can, just keep that in your mind's eye when you start to go, "Why is this happening to me?" I think that you should first go, stop, pause, "How is this happening for me?" And maybe you don't have an answer that day, you maybe don't have an answer that week. But maybe in a month or a year, you'll be like, "Ah, that's how." Okay. Three, when you have to redo something, the second version is the best version and when that was the one that was supposed to be born. So I remember years ago, hearing a podcast episode where this woman she's like, like a life coach. And she mentioned having to redo something. And she men... she was talking about a time where she like, recorded something. And it took a long time to record and it disappeared. And she spent hours trying to find it, and like put it back together and it was just corrupted, it just wasn't gonna work. And the amount of time she spent trying to make the original version become the version was three times the amount of time it took her to record the first version. And so she ended up recording the second version, which took her a shorter amount of time, and it was more concise, more precise, more exactly what she was hoping it would be. And I remember like, replaying that episode, because at the time I was blogging weekly. And twice, I had blogs disappear. And twice I was like, crying at my computer. And Brad was like, "What is going on?" I was drawn. And I was just like, "I have to, I lost it. I spent an hour doing it." You know what, when I actually heard that, and I went and rewrote one of them. It took me half the time it took me to write the first one. And it was way better. Like I got my thoughts out faster. So now, when the issue hits the fan and I lose the verse version, I just immediately start going into the second version. I've had a rerecord many OPC workout. Oh, the first times I cried, I'm not gonna lie, I cried. And then this after I like got this mantra in my head. Got this idea in my head. I just was like, "Alright, set the camera up. Let's go." And oh, I wasn't happy. No, it wasn't like jumping for joy. Yes, I get to redo this but by not fighting having to redo something. a) I wasted less time and b) that version ended up getting out there and I got so much feedback. So that was positive. So always know if you have to redo something try to try to let that that just try to let yourself get into the space to to redo it without fighting it and being frustrated. Like I just wasted all that time. You didn't that was like a rep. Okay, that was that was happening for you. So you can have a better second version? How can we tie those two things together, and ditch that perfection because you're gonna make mistakes, you're going to actually delete some, you're gonna have to do it again. Number four, ideas want to be born. So the book Big Magic is a must read if you haven't read it. I can't tell you how many times I've heard I've done something. I've heard people say like, oh, I had that idea. And I never did it. And same like not that I'm the only person that has ideas. I have also seen people do something. I was going to do that. So here's the deal. Ideas are like little seeds of energy and they go out. And they they plant themselves in someone. And if you keep that like pushing it back and pushing it back and not acting on it, it's gonna go to someone else. And Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert really explains this in the best way. So I'll let you read her words. There's a great story in there that I like think about anytime, I don't act on something. I'm not saying that you act on every single idea right now. But what I am saying what I hope you get out of this is if you see someone do something that you had the idea of doing it and you've had on your ideas parking lot for 10 years. Don't be mad at yourself and don't be frustrated about the fact that they did it. You just have to ask yourself like why did I keep postponing it if I really wanted to do it. What was holding you back? act, something tells me has to do with perfection.So, so just keep that in mind. And I do have an idea as parking lot is placed where I put things that I cannot act on right now. And I review it consistently. And sometimes I don't remember what the idea is. And that's why the parking lot is so great, because then I'm not just like, shiny object syndrome. And sometimes I'm like, "Okay, I freaking I'm gonna fight to make this happen, because it's been on here too long, and I don't want someone else to birth it. I want to be it." So, so that's a great thing I've learned. Okay, number five. We have more time than we think, oh, you know, I've talked to you about the big leap. There's a whole thing about Einstein time and Newton time. And I just have to tell you, like, it's kind of amazing how much time we actually have when we stop fighting, how much time we think we don't have. So please give yourself permission to take time. And when you find yourself saying, "I don't have any time, I'm too busy. I don't have any time." I want you to first of all, make sure that you are giving yourself time. And then see how when you give yourself time aka prioritizing yourself first, you have more energy to do things. Second, I actually wants you to look at the things that drain your energy because they take too much time. Anytime you're doing anything that is not a strength of yours. It's going to take you way too much time. Trust me, trust me, me trying to log in and change things on a website or a Canva thing like, oh, nothing is worse for me. So while I can do it, it does not bring me joy. And so it takes me more time than someone else doing it. So give yourself permission to believe you have more time we think because I have learned that and has been amazing. Number six, ask for help. Holy frickin moly. You have more time than you think. No, seriously, this goes back to that perfect is boring. We think we're the only ones who can do it right. And you know what, even if someone does it 80% as good as you that is better than you trying to do everything. It's also way more fun. It's more fun to have people participate with you. And it's so hard for me to ask for help. Some people have no problems. Brad has asked for help. Probably, "Oh, let's ask him. Oh, let's ask him." And I like I have to give myself a pep talk, that I'm not burning people that people want to help me. But so I get it if you are someone who's like, "Oh my God, I can't believe she said that." I have learned that the more I ask for help, the more fun things are, the better things become. And the more more impact I can make. And the more I can be it till I see it today. Trying to learn how to do the thing to be the person I want to be. Can happen faster if I just ask people who know how to do the thing I need to do. So ask for help. Seven, you can change your mind. Oh yeah, that's hard. That was a hard lesson to learn. But I'm glad I learned it. I still have to remind myself every once in a while that you can change your mind. You know, sometimes changing your mind cost you money. And that's true, but you can do it. And so if you find yourself in a position where you feel like you are not in alignment with what you said yes to then give like weigh the pros and the cons of changing your mind. And the sooner you change your mind, the better it is for those people that changing your mind effects. But people don't want you showing up for things that you don't want to be at. They don't want to like you can tell people who are at those parties, those weddings, those meetings and they don't want to be there still like oh my goodness, want to be so and you're like, "Gosh, I wish that person just didn't come." Yeah, it wouldn't have been so nice if someone had told them you can change your mind. So that one was a great lesson to have learned and I have sometimes just played the game of changing my mind so many years ago, Brad had told me that I could quit Profitable Pilates and so that's like changing your mind on something because I was like you know really like going full steam ahead making this thing happen. And he said we can just quit like I could just change my mind and not do that anymore. And giving myself permission to just picture what that would look like made me realize how much I was gonna fight for Profitable Pilates and I'm so glad I did. So but if I hadn't taken that moment to give myself that permission I don't know that I would have grown it to what it is. I think I probably would have said like you know mellon conley moving it along. Alright, eight, 'no' is a complete sentence. It is. 'No' it's a complete sentence. I think I think we just need that reminder. I think we've all heard why that is complete sentence. And I think as I know most of our listeners here are women. Please stop people pleasing yourself to a yes, no is complete sentence and I and we can if you need more support on that, let me know I'll get a guest in here, but check out some of our podcasts on confidence. You, like Elle Russ. Well, like, like, definitely get you into, into admitting that no is a complete sentence. Nine, what others say about you is none of your business. Oh, God, this one is hard. But this one, I'm so glad I learned. Thank you, Brené Brown. And it's something I remind myself of when I know people are talking some shit. And it's okay, you know, they, they want to spend their time talking about me, that's their thing, I don't actually need to know what that is. It's not my business, because it's coming from a place of whatever their pain is. And I'm never going to change their mind. That is one thing, I'm so grateful that I learned when I was on the debate team in college, you don't look at the opposing side and try to convince them. You look at the judge, the person whose opinion of the whole thing matters, because the other person's side is to not agree with you ever. And so when I like understood that, then I like really took that into my life when Brené Brown said that, like other people's opinions of you and what they say about you is none of your business. It really was like, oh, yeah, because it's not my job to convince them to like me, my life, me if I was run around and try to make every person like me, holy crap, does that sound like exhausting? And you know, we said this all the time on the podcast, I'm not a taco, so not everyone's gonna like me. And so that is a great lesson I have learned. And number 10, just because you can doesn't mean you should. And one of my coaches from BBG, he always says like, it just makes you a shithead. Right. So so anyways, write that down, just because you can doesn't mean you should. I'm so glad I learned that. And I remind myself that all the time, because I find myself wanting to do things and I'm like, I can do this. And this goes back up to like, we have more time than we think I have more time because I don't do the things I should do or can do I do the things that are aligned with what my job position is as a person. I'm being today till you know. So anyways, hope that all makes sense. Those are the 10 things that I have learned.Now 10 things I'm glad I went through. I'm gonna go through these a little quickly. I'll maybe dive in a little deeper to some of the ones I don't know that you have heard before but also just DM me like, "Lesley, number three I want to know more about that." And we'll I'll do a whole solo episode on it. How's that sound? So number I'll get no particular order. 10 things I'm glad I went through. My first Pilates class y'all know, I thought Pilates was BS. I'm so glad that girl dragged me into that class. And then because it changed my frickin life. Number two, and number three are actually are all together. They're all combined. And I'm really excited by this. Number two is my 2013 breakup, y'all I sat on a couch that I did not pick out, trust me, I would never pick out a leather of those like man cave couches, no offense to men cave, man caves. But like it's not you've seen my style, not my style. On this 80 inch screen TV and I was watching He's Just Not That Into You, reading the Strength Finders 2.0 book. And I had this beautiful view of this house that like was not decorated by me. And I was like, "I don't think he's that into me. I wonder if he knows that." And I, and so so that led into number three, which is my 2013 summer where I just spent the whole summer couchsurfing, I was homeless. I never had to that particular that's my third time being homeless. And that third time, I did not have to like sleep in my car. But I slept on people's couches and I bounced around and I also totaled my car. And then the studio that I rented space from a shutdown and I had to move a place that I made money at and then I was tra... my other job transfer me across town. And so that whole summer was just like, like Saturn returned, just removing everything from me. And also, so many amazing things came out of that I spent the summer with a friend, the only friend I had who I just met, and she is one who introduced me to Brad. She also like got me out into my own city even though I've been living there for almost seven years. So I could see the place and it really helped me truly get to know myself in ways I never thought was possible. I also wrote a dating blog that year with my friend Clare. She's been on the show, so that oh my gosh, those two things were like the freakin best things to go through. Not not easy. Trust me, scary as fuck. I didn't really know what I was doing. I was like, "Okay, here we go. Jesus take the wheel." And then I drove straight into another car. But that's another story. And and it really it the every time something bad happened, I was just like, Okay, what else do you want to take? Take it all now because I don't want to I don't want to pack it if it's not come with me. Number four, being asked to quit. So this is a really cool thing that happened to me it was really uncomfortable. I'm still friends with this person. She was my mentor for a time. And they suppose asked to quit. And I was like, "Oh, thank you for doing the thing that I couldn't do for myself." And so sometimes we like with jobs when we're, you know, things aren't going the way we want. And we're just like, "Why can't it go this way?" We're kind of trying like I was on like, my WOO basement, right? I was like, am I Winning Others Over based on like, I can do it all. I going back to things I learned, I can't do it all. And I shouldn't. Just because I can, I just doesn't mean I should. So, so glad I was asked to quit because it really helped, like, helped me make the leap that I was too scared to make. And the net did appear big. And I also got to see what I was made of. So when 2020 happen, and frickin net disappeared again. I was like, Oh, I've done this before. I've had to make a leap before. I've had to have like no runway before. So so again, that's why things are happening for us. It was such a great, like that moment, I've been asked to quit with such a great practice run for what was happening in the future. Number five, my husband choosing in our honeymoon. Trust me, y'all like I never had Japan and Cambodia, or even Thailand on my list of honeymoon things. I definitely saw beach on my honeymoon. You know, but I don't know, maybe I was thinking like Fiji or Belize or something like that. So he planned it, he chose it. And and I I'm just glad because it took me to a part of the world. I don't know that I would have experienced that time and also get to experience as much as I do. And I'm just, I freaking love it. And I can't wait to go back and I can't wait to try out new places with it. So thank you, Babe. Number six, I know that that like in the things I'm glad I went through I preface it with like, these could be bad things. But obviously number one and number six were pretty fucking awesome. Right? So so they're just things I'm glad I went through. They're not like the all bad things. Number six, that I was a model for a brief moment. So you may not know this about me. But like, LA is a funny world, y'all eventually. Somehow you get an agent. So I got an agent for modeling, I had an agent for commercials. The two did not agree for commercial. For my modeling agent, I was never skinny enough for my commercial agent, I was getting too skinny. And I so that was complicated. But I did book a couple ads. And that was a lot of fun, because I got to really experience what that was like. And that changed the trajectory of how YouTube worked for me, how like me being comfortable with filming classes, and also being on Pilates Anytime, if I hadn't gone through commercial acting, I don't know that I would have had that skill set as quickly as I did. So if you are someone who is wanting to get better, at looking on the camera, like I'm doing right now, if you're watching this on YouTube, commercial acting classes can be really, really great. Go out to LA, sign up for one and have a good time. I'm sure they have in other places. But that one was a really great thing. While I didn't do a lot of good for like I had to like learn how to like build up self esteem to combat that you're not skinny enough, even though like you all the time I was I was 20 pounds lighter than I am today. So and I was way, like way too skinny, not attractive. For me, like it just was, it was a lot. But that's where our society was, at the time when it comes to body images and what people should look like, and I'm, I'm glad I went through that so that I could so that I can actually fight for myself. And so I could actually fight against what that was. And I could hear them say that and go. No, no, I actually like who I am and I am not going to lose more weight for you. And on the flip side, the good shit that came from it is so I got involved with Carbon 38. Just how I met Kirsten Holliday who introduced me to Laurie Harder. Laurie Harder introduced me into my first coaching program, which then led me to my next coach and my next coach and my business wouldn't be what it is today had I not had this moment, there's one year where I was I had a modeling agent because I needed those women at that time. And so everything happens when it's supposed to. And that really did happen. That was a that was a good thing that came out of that. So that's why I choose to focus on. Number seven that I'm glad I went through was opening and closing my own studio. So one I'm so glad I opened it because it gave me the opportunity to really step into what I wanted OPC to be and it allowed me to have an experience of opening a studio, which I had not done. I'd open studios for other people but I'd never actually done it for myself with all the investments and all of that stuff. And then closing it was a really hard thing to do and so as I coach people who are going through that decision of like, oh my gosh, I'm gonna close this I, it sucks. That is a feeling of pure, it can be there's, it's actually complicated. I had so many emotions around it. I was so freakin excited to move to Las Vegas, and I was so sad to never see these people again in person. Some of the people I've been teaching for 12 years. So it was a humongous investment. It was an inte... it was a great experience. And it was a motion that I, I would never wish on anybody, but I'm so glad I experienced because I do understand when I'm coaching people and, and helping them see the opportunities of opening a space and closing a space of like what they're truly up for, in a way that was different than me doing that for the companies, I did it for what it was their money. So, so that was a beautiful experience. And I will always love that studio so so much because it is, especially in my heart. And also, it really has helped me show people that like you don't need a big space to have a studio that makes a lot of money. My studio was 600 square feet, and that included the bathroom, and a waiting room. And I had one of everything. And it made over six figures. So and I didn't have to work seven days a week to do that. So I'm really, really proud about that. Number eight is the 2020 pivot. Yeah, that was scary. That was hard. And I think a lot of you listening to this had a 2020 pivot, and maybe your 2021 pivot and maybe three pivots. And I hope you give yourself permission to look back at what you learned about yourself and what you saw about yourself. And what that led you to, because I bet you it gave you this, this skill sets and opportunities to see parts of you that you never knew before. And it's what led us to being here in Las Vegas and having the friends that we have and being able to provide this podcast, I promise you this podcast will not exist if we were still in LA. And there'd been no pandemic. That just not not I was not an option back then. Number nine, glad I went through. I'm glad I got rid of my car. So yeah, that was great. It's so great. I miss, you all I promise you I'll be talking about a car in a second. But like that having no car allowed me to have more time, I saved a ton of money on parking tickets. And it really allowed me to assess like, what do I really want to do because things I was willing to get an Uber for, or find a bus for or ride my bike for. I was like, "I must really want to do this." And things I was like, "Oh, I don't have a car." I was like ... it's an excuse I'm using because I clearly don't want to go. So um, y'all if you can take a moment to not have a car for a while. Give it a try. I know my New Yorkers are like, "We do this all the time." But like truly like get rid of your your that mode of transportation that is convenient to see what you're willing to fight for, what you miss, even for a couple of weeks. Just like don't let yourself like what makes someone borrow the car or like Turo that car, I think it's called Turo where you like rent the car out for a bit. Just to like, just to see what you're using that car for. And if it's a distraction for you. And number 10, my wedding venue having to move, so you may not know this, but five weeks of for our wedding, it was six weeks for our wedding, but I think it was five. We lost our wedding venue, we had to like move the wedding. And I'm so glad that happened. I'm so glad that happened because I love our wedding so much.Okay. 10 things that support me. So these are things that I love. You may have heard these things before, so I'll be running through them. If any of these things you want a deeper dive on in a solo episode, I want to hear from you. So hit up the beitpod@gmail.com or on Instagram, at the @be_it_pod. Number one, my morning routine. This supports me, oh my gosh, if anyone interrupts my my morning routine, even if it's the condensed version of my morning routine, it really changes my day. I have to find I have to actually rely on more reinforcements to support me. So my morning routine is a non negotiable. Even if I'm on the road for tours, I have a version of my morning routine that I do so that I can support myself on that drive. And my mind doesn't wander to all these negative things that could be going on. Number two, my schedule, I live and die by this thing. My assistant is also there to help protect it. But I, we'll have a free webinar on how I create my schedule so that you can use that. And I really do change it almost at least every six months, but sometimes quarterly. So that it is all it's supporting me. And I say that like it is it is a living breathing existence of a beam because as I change as I be it be it till I see it more and more my schedule has to support that. And in your schedule, it will reflect who you are and what you do and what your priorities. Period, end of story. So my schedule has to prioritize who I want to be in this planet now. So the future me now so that I can't be the person who might if I if my schedule doesn't allow for me to be the person I want to be in the future now. I'm not going to it's not going to magically happen. Okay, so your schedule has to reflect the person you want to be today. The person you want to be in the future today. So my schedule is a big support for me. Number three, my Pilates practices are non negotiable. Even if I'm traveling I do something, even if it's like I've been doing I've done a Mat class in the bed, on the van while it's going. It's not easy but wohoo have that core strength. My red light, my sauna space red light, you know, you've heard it, we have a, we have an affiliate link for you. So make sure you use it. But grab that baby, set it up. Oh, I do it. It's so so good. There's a lot of a lot of information about what it can do for you. It is a mood booster for me for sure. It also just makes me sit down for a moment and like take a beat, which leads me into number five, which is my PEMF mat. I love this thing, I find I you know, this goes back to like learning to have more time than we think. I was like, "What am I gonna have time to go on this every single day?" Let me just tell you, you will make time for the things that you want to do. And I pulled that baby out. And I got it, I get on at least five days a week when I'm at home for 20 to 45 minutes even. Because I just love I love just laying still for just a moment. You'd be surprised like the ideas that come to you and so it supports me and all the things that I want to bring for you and support you with. Okay, number six, my lashes, my facials, my hair first and then my trainers. So as my Pilates teachers, so like my support team. In case you didn't know these are these I was not blessed with these lashes. I will be honest with you about that I have very short very blonde lashes. And I really don't like to do my own makeup that much. So so I make sure that my hair is up to date, all the time and so are my lashes. So I can do is put on some moisturizer, and some lipstick, but my facialist you heard her on here, she's Megan Linney from the Layer Lounge. I can go there at least once a month and really have that moment in time where someone can take care of me. This is the point of having a team everyone isn't even about the lashes. It's about the hour that I lay there and someone takes care of me. So for you, it might be like a chef or it might be a pedicure or it might be a manicure or it might be a massage. Like who is your team that supports you, and pours back into you. And then my trainer who I get to, I get to work out with her with my husband and my father and a bunch of amazing people. And those things help because I don't have to like pick my own workout. Someone's doing it for me so that I can do what I do best which is help people with their workouts. Number seven, my besties. Oh my gosh, if I name anybody, I'm afraid I'm going to forget them. I like whenever I watch his award shows. I'm like, "Oh my god, don't forget your wife. Don't forget your wife. Don't forget your husband." So I'm just gonna say my besties ladies you know who you are on this planet. And I just absolutely love and adore that we can we can support each other from afar, we can we can we also make so much time for each other at least a trip to see each other in person. We make excuses to work together in a different city just so we can like hang out. So thank you ladies, for being you and for for just being incredible women who inspire the fuck out of me. Number eight, my husband, honestly super amazing person who really does everything on every single day to support me and my ideas and bringing the things that we want to bring to you each and every day. So thank you, love bug. I don't even call him love bug. I just call him, Babe. But thanks Babe. Number nine, sleep. That's the thing that supports me like freakin crazy. And I'm a cranky bitch. If I don't get my sleep the way I want it. Like if my aura ring tells I don't even look at the score because I'm afraid it's going to tell me that I'm bad day, but I'm gonna have I know, I know if I get my sleep interrupted. It's not gonna be a good day. So my alarm clock which is amazing sunrise, sunset alarm clock is key for helping me go to sleep and wake up. And finally number 10, is breathwork. Breathwork truly helps support me when I'm feeling anxious, when I'm feeling like I don't know where I'm going next. I can do it for a minute. I can do it for 10 minutes. I just love it so much.All right, so now we're on the final 10. So this is that manifestation thing. I hope you do this for yourself every single year. What are the things you want? It is okay to want things in this world. And that you need to know what you want so that you can celebrate when you get it. And you're not like oh, here's another thing, right? Like just recording. So, 10 things I want and the next year or so. A G Wagon it's happening guys. I already picked the color I want this China blue color. It's kind of a tilly blue. It's like a Barbie blue really is what I would call it. I frickin love it. It just it's I'm already picturing myself driving. I know I said I'm grateful I don't have a car but I promise you like I'll be going places in that thing. Number two by the time you hear this, I may have got it for Christmas. So who knows? But I'm gonna have an espresso machine because I've just been really wanting lattes every day and not my coffee. And I'm trying to make my coffee a latte and it just saddens me sometimes and so I used to be a barista. So I'm so excited to go back to that skill set and make myself a lovely latte every single day. Number three, another girls weekend I'm already in the planning of this. I'm trying to make these things happen multiple times a year. So going back to my besties, who support me, a girls weekend is truly a massive support for me. I just getting out of the routine, and hanging out with women who who are like just truly inspirations and who they are and what they do. Cannot wait for that. Number four, I want to host more retreats again in real life. So obviously, you know, I'm doing a Cambodia retreat. But I do have another business idea retreat. I have the eLevate alumni retreat I want to do. And then I want to do a retreat in a different place. For those of you who have been on my Cambodia retreat to come to, Number five, I want to get back to Australia, New Zealand, again, don't worry, Europe, I've got things already have you on the books, I can't wait to announce it. It's not available for me to announce yet. But there's two countries in Europe, I'm heading up in the next year. But I do want to get back to Australia, New Zealand again in the next year or so. Number six, a West Coast tour, I've heard two people, trust me, it's on the list, I fucking want to do it too. But I'm like, well have to make it happen. I want to go from when I go down to Arizona, through San Diego, up the California coast into Oregon and Seattle, and then Vancouver. So I want to do the whole thing. So it's I want it, it's just I'm letting you know, I want it and it's gonna happen. Number seven, a tiny house in the back. I want to actually move the guest bedroom into the Pilates studio that we have right now. Make this the guest room that I'm in. My full time office and not like part time office, part time guest bedroom. And I want to put the tiny house on the back so that I can have all the Pilates equipment in one amazing space to film and I know that it's just going to be amazing. And I and it's on our list, we have some plans drawn up that I'm excited to to see how we could do that. So I cannot wait for you to know when that comes to fruition. Number eight, this podcast and the top 1%. Y'all, I need your help for that that actually comes down to you. So not only your reviews, which by the way, if you leave a review on Spotify or Apple, you screenshot that and you send it to the beitpod@gmail.com. Do get my habits course for free. But also, the more you share, the more people who listened to it, the quicker we get to the top 1%, we're in the top 2%. We've been there for a year, I want to get the top 1%. And I need you for that. Number nine, I want my flashcards in stores, in bricks and mortar. So I'm talking like the big guys. I want to see them in the Bloomingdale's and the Saks and like but Nordstroms and you know, some Target stuff, I want to see them in stores. And number 10, I want to triple the OPC membership if not more, but especially in the next year, I want to triple it and I want to have an app for you guys, I definitely want an app for you. It is complicated. We have to build it from scratch. And so I need more members to do that. But you guys bring me life and I am so excited for what we have to do together.Okay, so that's 40 things. I hope that this was fun, I hope that maybe gave you some ideas for what you can want in this world. Or some things that could support you or some things that you can glean from, to learn from and use in your own life. And if you have questions about any of these things, feel free to let me know which section it was, which number it was. And I will make a whole solo episode on a deep dive on that if you would like that I truly will do that for you because you are amazing people and I could not do the show without you. And happy birthday to me, to my fellow Aquarians and this might come out with the caps are still around. So happy birthday caps and happy unbirthday. And you know what? We all can play the Lizzo song. This day is your birthday because it is your birthday. And I would do the little clap, clap, clap. It's a great song. Thank you. Thank you so much and until next time, Be It Till You See It.That's all I got for this episode of the Be It Till You See It podcast. One thing that would help both myself and future listeners is for you to rate the show and leave a review. And follow or subscribe for free wherever you listen to your podcasts. 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