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How fast is fast enough?In a world where athletes chase personal bests, the real question isn't just how hard they train — it's how smartly they measure progress.Welcome to Oak Performance Radio, the show that helps athletes, coaches, and parents understand what it takes to build strong, durable performers who thrive under pressure. Each episode explores smarter ways to train, recover, and stay in the game for the long haul.Episode HighlightsIn this episode, Adam Lane sits down with Brock Dale, Director of Customer Success at Universal Speed Rating (USR), to talk about how data is reshaping athletic performance. From consistent testing to proper rest, Brock explains how the right metrics can guide smarter training decisions and elevate results.Episode OutlineThe importance of consistent testing to track performance accurately.Why rest and recovery are essential to speed development.How data-driven decisions help coaches refine athlete programs.Common mistakes in balancing conditioning and speed training.The role of USR's 500,000+ data points in improving national performance benchmarks.How technology is shaping the future of athletic development and coaching.Supporting Informationhttps://www.facebook.com/universalspeedrating/https://www.instagram.com/universalspeedratingIf you found this episode helpful, share it with a teammate or coach who believes in training smarter. Every share helps grow a community focused on better, data-backed performance.Thanks for tuning in to Oak Performance Radio. Keep training hard, rest well, and always aim to move better.
When should kids start focusing on one sport?It's a question many parents and young athletes face, but getting it wrong can do more harm than good.Welcome to Happy Healthy Strong, the show that explores what it really takes to feel your best, physically, mentally, and emotionally. Hosted by Adam Lane, each episode shares real conversations and practical wisdom to help you live with balance, purpose, and strength.Episode HighlightsAdam Lane sits down with Dr. Geoff Van Thiel, an orthopedic surgeon specializing in sports medicine, to talk about the rise of overuse injuries in youth sports and how early specialization affects long-term performance. They discuss how parents and coaches can encourage kids to stay active while reducing burnout and injury risk. Dr. Van Thiel also opens up about his own health habits, including flexibility and nutrition, as well as managing screen time and balancing family time.Key TakeawaysEarly sport specialization can increase the risk of overuse injuries and burnout.Sampling multiple sports helps kids develop better body awareness, coordination, and neuromuscular control.Neuromuscular training is key for injury prevention, especially among female athletes.Flexibility, diet, and sleep play a crucial role in sustaining long-term physical health.Reducing screen time and engaging in family workouts promotes stronger connections and healthier routines.Parents should guide and support their kids' interests without pushing them too early toward a single sport.Episode Chapters00:00 Intro02:51 Discussion on Youth Sports and Overuse Injuries09:11 Parental Challenges and Decision-Making in Youth Sports 14:53 Balancing Stress and Health in Daily Life29:55 Youth Performance and Injury Prevention33:40 The Role of Specialization and Sampling in Sports36:55 Parental Guidance and Support in Youth Sports38:45 Balancing Technology and Family LifeCall to ActionFollow Happy Healthy Strong for more conversations that help build a healthier, stronger lifestyle, inside and out. Share this episode with a parent, coach, or athlete who could benefit from these insights.Supporting InformationFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/oakstrengthInstagram: @oakstrengthLearn more about Dr. Geoffrey Van Thiel's work and resources on orthopedics and sports medicine:www.vanthielmd.comFacebook: Dr. Geoffrey Van ThielInstagram: @vanthielmdThanks for tuning in to Happy Healthy Strong. Stay active, stay balanced, and keep building the life that makes you feel your best.
What's really holding you back from the family life you dream of?It's not your schedule, your income, or your intentions. It's the quiet belief that it simply isn't possible. Relationship expert Adam Lane Smith returns to the show to help us understand where we are falling short and how to close those gaps with practical, learnable skills. He shares how to make your time with your kids truly count, how to teach them to ask for what they need, and how to build the emotional security they will carry into adulthood. This episode is your blueprint for a thriving home life.Adam's channel: https://www.youtube.com/@AttachmentAdam/Adam's website: https://bundle.adamlanesmith.com/ (use code LILAROSE10 for 10% off any courses)Join our new Patreon community! https://patreon.com/lilaroseshow - We'll have BTS footage, ad-free episodes, and early access to our upcoming guests.A big thanks to our partner, EWTN, the world's leading Catholic network! Discover news, entertainment and more at https://www.ewtn.com/ Check out our Sponsors:-Hallow: https://www.hallow.com/lila Enter into prayer more deeply this season with the Hallow App, get 3 months free by using this link to sign up! -Presidio Healthcare: Healthcare and doctors who share your values. If you're in TEXAS visit: https://www.presidiocare.com/ If you're not in Texas, visit: https://www.prolifeproviders.com/-Angel Studios: https://angel.com/lila Join the Guild to vote on future blockbuster films, access all of Angel's films and shows, and even get free tickets to upcoming releases. -Good Ranchers: https://go.goodranchers.com/lila Purchase your American Meat Delivered subscription today and get a free add-on of beef, chicken, or salmon! Use code LILA for $40 off!
What happens when toxic attachment feels like love? Maggie opens up about an 11-year relationship marked by addiction and emotional chaos, uncovering how her father's betrayal shaped her patterns and need to rescue others. ✨ Topics Covered ✨
What happens when toxic attachment feels like love? Maggie opens up about an 11-year relationship marked by addiction and emotional chaos, uncovering how her father's betrayal shaped her patterns and need to rescue others. ✨ Topics Covered ✨
If you can crush it at work but feel lost at home, this episode is your blueprint to restore emotional safety in marriage—fast.Attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith joins host Greg Denning to decode why so many driven men struggle with intimacy, connection, and calm at home. You'll learn how early attachment patterns wire your nervous system for constant cortisol and how to retrain it so your wife and kids finally feel safe with you. Adam lays out the four levels of safety every husband must provide (physical, resource, emotional, bonding) and the four levels of peace a wife can return (calm, gentle speech, loyal partnership, executive co-leadership). You'll discover practical, science-backed tools—co-regulation, oxytocin/vasopressin bonding, and negotiation frameworks—that turn conflict into teamwork and stress into stability.Whether you're an entrepreneur or a busy professional, you'll walk away with step-by-step tactics to regulate your nervous system, communicate like a CEO/COO team with your spouse, and build a legacy your kids will carry for generations. If “being present,” “bonding,” and “feeling close” have felt vague or unreachable, this conversation makes them actionable.Key Takeaways✅ Attachment styles significantly influence how we connect with others.✅ Men often struggle with emotional safety due to their upbringing.✅ Emotional safety is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships.✅ Men must provide four levels of safety for their partners.✅ Women need to feel safe to express their emotions and concerns.✅ Building a legacy starts with creating a secure family environment.✅ Personal sovereignty is essential for mature masculinity.✅ Nervous system regulation is key to emotional health.✅ Healthy relationships require effort and intentionality from both partners.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Attachment Theory02:24 Understanding Attachment Styles06:02 The Importance of Emotional Connection09:15 Actionable Steps for Men10:52 Four Levels of Safety for Relationships21:48 The Role of Women in Emotional Safety29:42 Navigating Chaos Together30:12 The Power of Physical Connection32:16 The Four Levels of Peace in Relationships35:40 The Role of Fathers in Building Trust37:20 Executive Partnership in Marriage39:54 The Legacy of Family Dynamics42:39 The Importance of Healthy Family Structures44:33 The Reality of Big Families48:49 The Path to Personal Sovereignty58:09 Mature Masculinity and Legacy BuildingResources for Adam:Use Code: BETHEMAN10 for 10% off!Homepage: https://adamlanesmith.com/?utm_source=betheman&utm_____medium=affiliate&utm_medium=affiliateCourses:https://adamlanesmith.com/product/the-attachment-bootcamp/?utm%20source=betheman&utm%20_%20_%20medium=affiliatehttps://adamlanesmith.com/product/how-to-love-an-avoidant-man/?utm%20source=betheman&utm%20_%20_%20medium=affiliatehttps://adamlanesmith.com/product/how-to-build-a-secure-marriage/?utm%20source=betheman&utm%20_%20_%20medium=affiliateCoaching:https://adamlanesmith.com/private-coaching/?utm%20source=betheman&utm%20_%20_%20medium=affiliatehttps://adamlanesmith.com/attachment-repair/?utm%20source=betheman&utm%20_%20_%20medium=affiliatehttps://adamlanesmith.com/group-coaching/?utm%20source=betheman&utm%20_%20_%20medium=affiliateRESOURCES FOR GREG:Let me help you in your journey to becoming a more Purpose Driven Leader:Free course! Adventuring With Your ChildrenFree! Greg's Recommended Reading List for Parents & YouthGet Greg's NEW Formidable Family Man BOOK!Join Greg's 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Podcast: The Formidable Family Man PodcastCheck out this podcast for families Extraordinary Family Life PodcastJoin the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeFollow me on Instagram:@greg.denningFollow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/greghdenning Gather with us at the World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort in Portugal
Mental health doesn't just live in the mind — it shows up in the body too. From fatigue to brain fog, stress often reveals itself in ways that go far beyond emotions.This is Happy Healthy Strong, where we talk about what it really takes to feel your best—physically, mentally, and emotionally. Hosted by Adam Lane, this podcast shares real conversations that help you build strength, balance, and a better sense of well-being.Episode Highlightsn this episode, Adam Lane and Stacey Caler unpack the connection between mental and physical health. They explore how stress, anxiety, and depression can manifest in the body and why understanding this link is essential for long-term wellness. From recognizing early signs to making small, consistent lifestyle changes, this episode emphasizes the importance of taking care of both mind and body.Key TakeawaysMental health challenges often show up as physical symptoms such as fatigue, muscle tension, and hormonal imbalance.Stress from work, relationships, and media exposure can affect eating habits and sleep patterns.Processed foods can contribute to poor mental health by increasing inflammation and disrupting hormone balance.Seeking help through therapy, exercise, and connection with loved ones plays a vital role in recovery.Finding joy and balance in small, healthy routines—like a morning coffee or time outdoors—can make a lasting difference.Episode Chapters00:00 Intro01:28 Introduction of Stacey Keller and Mental Health Series03:31 Impact of Mental Health on Physical Health16:38 Strategies for Managing Mental Health16:55 The Role of Food and Physical Activity in Mental Health 19:35 Balancing Enjoyment and HealthCall to ActionFollow Happy Healthy Strong for more honest discussions about health, mindset, and performance. Share this episode with someone who might need a reminder that taking care of the mind is just as important as taking care of the body.Supporting InformationFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/oakstrengthInstagram: @oakstrength
What happens when Quiet Disorganized Attachment makes love feel unsafe but loneliness unbearable? Adam reveals how this hidden attachment style forms, why it's so misunderstood, and how healing begins. Topics Covered:
Attachment Theory Expert Adam Lane Smith joins Gabby Reese to dive deep into Anxious & Avoidant Attachment and the neuroscience of secure relationships. Learn how to heal your nervous system and unlock true monogamy through co-solving life's challenges. Adam Lane Smith reveals the hidden science that governs our bonds, explaining how our nervous systems are "fried" by modern life and how attachment science is the future of human connection. Discover the chemical keys to lasting partnership, including the vital role of vasopressin, the hormone released when couples overcome stress and solve problems as a team.Gabby and Adam discuss: How to understand and shift your personal attachment style (Anxious, Avoidant, Disorganized) to secure. The difference between oxytocin and vasopressin and how to naturally increase your bonding hormones. Gabby's personal story of almost divorcing Laird Hamilton and the pivotal shift that transformed her marriage through honest, brave communication. The biological imperative of a "safe perimeter" and the dynamic of healthy masculinity and femininity. Why the greatest form of resilience for a child is a secure family they can always return to. How relationships can become your "medicine" and your greatest tool for a regulated nervous system and a resilient life. Connect with Adam Lane Smith:https://adamlanesmith.com/https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam For more on Gabby Instagram @GabbyReece: https://www.instagram.com/gabbyreece/ TikTok @GabbyReeceOfficial https://www.tiktok.com/@gabbyreeceofficial The Gabby Reece Show Podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GabbyReece The Gabby Reece Show podcast is produced by Rainbow Creative (https://www.rainbowcreative.co/) Thank You to Our Sponsors The Reecet - Join Gabby Reece for a transformative women's retreat designed to simplify and reframe what it means to be healthy. Learn more at https://amphora.la/thereecet Laird Superfood - High-quality ingredients paired with incredible taste. Use the code GABBY20 for 20% off your purchase at http://lairdsuperfood.com CHAPTERS 00:00 Intro: Fried Nervous Systems & Attachment 03:55 The Monogamy Hormone: Vasopressin 07:14 Gabby's Story: Almost Divorcing 14:19 Secure Parenting: Safe Perimeter 19:30 The 4 Layers of Male Safety 30:00 Re-Parenting & Going Secure 36:10 Masculine and Feminine Roles 45:10 Adam Lane Smith's Path 53:20 Effeminate Men vs. Feminine 59:15 The Cost of Non-Commitment 08:45 How to Heal Anxious Men 01:13:50 Conflict Builds Strong Bonds 01:21:10 Anxious Attachment Needs Solving 01:32:00 3 Steps to Secure Attachment Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Squatting every day for a month — can it actually make you stronger, healthier, and more resilient?Welcome to Happy Healthy Strong, the podcast that cuts through the noise to give real, honest conversations about what it takes to feel good and live strong.Episode HighlightsIn this episode, Adam Lane sits down with coach Sam Libby to talk about Squat Tober — a month-long program dedicated to building lower body and core strength through daily squat variations. From recovery and nutrition to staying consistent without burning out, this episode explores how squatting can benefit everyone, no matter their age or experience level.Key TakeawaysWhat Squat Tober is and why it's more than just a fitness trend.How to balance daily squats with recovery to avoid injury.Nutrition advice for fueling workouts and recovery, including protein and carbs timing.The role of sleep in strength and recovery, with supplement suggestions like magnesium.Why consistency matters more than chasing heavy numbers.How squatting benefits all ages—from younger athletes to older adults like Sam's mom, Penny.Episode Chapters00:00 Intro01:16 Overview of Squat Tober 01:51 Importance of Focus and Consistency09:17 Nutrition and Recovery Tips 09:38 Advice for Different Age Groups11:18 Balancing Workouts and RestCall to Action (CTA)If you enjoyed this conversation, follow Happy Healthy Strong so you don't miss future episodes. Share this with a friend who might want to take on Squat Tober with you.Thanks for tuning in! Stay consistent, take care of your body, and keep working toward feeling happy, healthy, and strong.
What does it take to shift from avoidant attachment to secure, engaged connection in just eight weeks? In this episode, Adam talks with a client who shares her powerful story of breaking free from lifelong avoidance and building safety in love. Topics Covered:
Adam Lane Smith has coached clients through his Attachment Method for years. He's helped clients with a variety of backgrounds, from regular families with marital troubles to millionaire CEOs looking for dating help. Anyone looking to fix their dating life, marriage, or overall relationship health. Today on the show we discuss: why passion always dies and how to rebuild it, the difference between being “nice” and “kind,” why chasing validation destroys relationships, why the spark is often a curse, how to communicate effectively in relationships, why conflict is the key to bonding and building trust and much more. ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you've consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Low energy, poor sleep, and lack of motivation aren't always “just aging”—sometimes, it's a sign of something deeper.Welcome to Happy Healthy Strong, the podcast that cuts through the noise to give real, honest conversations about what it takes to feel good and live strong.Episode HighlightsIn this episode, Adam Lane sits down with Nick McKeown of EliTest Health, a physician assistant specializing in men's health and testosterone management. Together, they unpack what declining testosterone really means, how lifestyle plays a role, and what to know before considering testosterone replacement therapy (TRT).Key InsightsWhy testosterone levels often decline in men starting in their 30s and 40s.How sleep, diet, stress, and resistance training directly impact hormones.What lab tests reveal about testosterone and overall health.The process of TRT—dosage, side effects, and ongoing monitoring.Natural ways to support testosterone levels without medication.Pros and cons of different TRT methods (injections, creams, pellets, pills)Episode Chapters00:00 Intro01:17 Testosterone Levels and Environmental Factors05:43 estosterone Testing and Initial Consultation13:48 Managing Testosterone Levels and Side Effects23:25 Natural Ways to Boost Testosterone25:14 Different Methods of Testosterone ReplacementCall to ActionIf this episode resonated, share it with someone who could benefit from understanding men's health on a deeper level. Let's keep the conversation going around living happy, healthy, and strong.Supporting Information
What if the missing link to strength, energy, and recovery isn't another workout—but what's happening inside your body?Welcome to Happy Healthy Strong, the podcast that cuts through the noise to give real, honest conversations about what it takes to feel good and live strong.Episode HighlightsIn this episode, Adam Lane sits down with Colby Wartman of Origin Performance to explore how athletes and adults alike can build lasting strength, optimize recovery, and take control of their health. Colby shares his four-pillar approach to performance, why blood work is non-negotiable, and how simple lifestyle changes can make a powerful impact.Key InsightsWhy regular blood work is the foundation for real progress.The “118 Protocol” for strength, energy, and recovery (protein, hydration, sleep).Colby's journey from low testosterone to thriving health and how he did it.How peptides can support healing and performance (with medical guidance).The four-pillar training model: lift heavy, sprint fast, jump high, throw hard.The domino effect of lifestyle habits on long-term well-being.Episode Chapter00:00 Intro00:05 Colby Wartman's Background and Origin Performance.03:40 Importance of Regular Blood Work and Nutrition25:06 Optimizing Blood Work and Lifestyle Habits25:17 Personal Experiences and Practical AdviceCall to ActionTune in and share this episode with someone who cares about strength, health, and living at their best.Supporting InformationFollow Colby and Origin Performance:Instagram: @originperformance_Instagram: @coach_wartmanStay connected with Adam Lane and the Happy Healthy Strong community for more episodes on training, nutrition, and living strong.Thanks for listening to another episode of Happy Healthy Strong. Take what you learned today, apply it, and keep building the strong, healthy life you deserve. See you in the next episode.
Training two athletes the same way can be the quickest path to injury. Here's why tailoring every program matters.Welcome to Oak Performance Radio, where we're all about optimizing performance and minimizing injury for athletes, coaches, and parents who want to do things right and go the distance.Episode HighlightsIn this episode, Adam Lane takes the mic at Northern Illinois University's kinesiology class to break down the concept of leading indicators in athletic performance. Drawing from his years of coaching and his experience founding Oak Strength, Adam explains why individualized training is non-negotiable. From cutting-edge force plate technology to real-life athlete stories, this talk uncovers how understanding each athlete's unique profile can prevent injury and elevate performance.Key InsightsHow force plates and Hawk Dynamics identify an athlete's unique force signature.Why individualized programs outperform one-size-fits-all training.The link between mental stress and measurable performance drops.How to adapt training over time using data and observation.Real examples of athletes who thrived through tailored training.Episode Chapters00:00 Intro01:25 Adam's Background and Experience02:16 Don Meyer's Philosophy and Impact05:20 Force Plate Technology and Its Applications18:11 Challenges and Solutions in Athletic Training25:49 The Role of Mental Health in Athletic PerformanceCall to ActionTune in, take notes, and share this episode with a coach, athlete, or parent who cares about long-term success over quick fixes.Friendly ClosingThanks for being part of the Oak Performance community. Keep training smart, stay healthy, and we'll see you in the next episode.
Why do some mothers struggle to bond with their babies and slip into depression? What can you do when the romance has faded and your significant other withdraws every time you try to express your needs or connect? And why does premarital sex often sabotage long-term love?Surprisingly, these issues share the same root and the same solution. Enter Adam Lane Smith, former therapist, relationship coach, and pioneer in applying attachment theory to everyday relationships. His mission is to help one billion people become securely attached, starting with you.Adam explains why so many people have trouble forming deep, lasting bonds. He breaks down the biochemical forces that drive connection, with oxytocin and vasopressin as the key players, and shows you how to work with them for stronger relationships. He also helps you develop compassion for those whose childhood wounds make intimacy difficult and gives practical steps to rekindle passion and trust. Watch this episode for eye-opening insights that will take all your relationships to the next level.Adam's website: https://adamlanesmith.com/?utm_source=lilarose&utm_medium=affiliate **Get 10% off his courses with code LILAROSE10NEW: Join our exclusive Rose Report community! https://lilaroseshow.supercast.com - We'll have BTS footage, ad-free episodes, monthly AMA, and early access to our upcoming guests.A big thanks to our partner, EWTN, the world's leading Catholic network! Discover news, entertainment and more at https://www.ewtn.com/ Check out our Sponsors:-Seven Weeks Coffee: https://www.sevenweekscoffee.com Buy your pro-life coffee with code LILA and get up to 25% off!-Covenant Eyes: http://covenanteyes.sjv.io/Kjngb9 Sign up to grow in purity and gain traction over sexual addiction: use code “LILA” for a free month!-ProLife Providers: Discover doctors who share and respect your values at https://www.prolifeproviders.com/
Why can't women just understand men? Why can't men just understand women? The short answer is, “we're not supposed to.” If we were, we wouldn't really have any need for each other, would we? My guest today, Adam Lane Smith, has made it his life's work to get closer to helping men understand women and help us understand our own natural tendencies in relationships. Today, Adam and I talk about emotional starvation, the concept of CEO/COO between men and women, the ‘red flags' that your marriage is struggling, what men and women do to cause each other pain, and how men can lead in their relationships much more effectively. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Finding Purpose and Chasing It 00:59 – Building a 200-Year Family System 02:51 – Two Worlds: Secure vs Insecure Attachment 05:55 – Teaching People Safety vs Creating Secure Attachment 07:27 – Maslow's Hierarchy and Emotional Safety 10:46 – Safety for Men as Peace 14:19 – Security Starts Outside the Relationship 17:38 – Rebuilding a Marriage After Decades 20:53 – Invalidation and Dismissal in Relationships 22:23 – Venting vs Bringing Concerns 27:18 – The Purpose of Female Feelings as Data 29:36 – Men and Women's Brains Are Meant to Interlink 32:05 – The Ancient Fear of Not Being Believed 37:25 – Emotional Starvation in Relationships 40:38 – Signs She's Thriving or Starving Emotionally 45:13 – Four Levels of Safety Women Need 48:24 – Level 1: Physical Safety 50:07 – Level 2: Resource Safety 52:00 – Choosing the Right Woman for Your Circle 55:08 – Defining Masculine and Feminine Roles 58:32 – How Men Decide and Women Refine 01:02:05 – Level 3: Emotional Safety 01:04:29 – Level 4: Bonding Safety Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
Supplements aren't shortcuts, so why are they treated like magic pills?Welcome to Happy Healthy Strong Podcast, the podcast that cuts through the noise to give real, honest conversations about what it takes to feel good and live strong.Episode HighlightsIn this episode, Adam Lane sits down with nurse practitioner and founder of Wellness Refinery, Stacey Caler, to talk about what most people get wrong about supplements. From avoiding the hype to understanding lab testing and clean ingredients, this conversation breaks down how to approach supplements with intention not impulse. Key InsightsSupplements should complement a healthy lifestyle, not replace one.Avoid proprietary blends and mega-doses that lack transparency.Personalized supplement plans are more effective than trends.Look for clean, third-party tested products with minimal ingredients.Start with foundational supplements: vitamin D3, K2, magnesium glycinate, omega-3s, and methylated B-complex.Always follow up with lab work to assess impact and adjust accordingly.Episode Chapters00:00 Intro00:53 Discussion on Supplements: Snake Oil or Essential?10:48 Challenges and Misconceptions in Supplementation11:00 Practical Advice on Supplement Selection18:05 Common Misconceptions and Pitfalls in Supplement Use23:59 Personalized Approach to SupplementationCTAIf this episode brought clarity to your supplement questions, share it with someone who's been staring at the vitamin shelf not knowing where to start. Let's keep learning and growing together.Supporting Links
What if carrying a backpack could change lives, yours and someone else's?Welcome to Happy, Healthy, Strong, where we focus on the simple, sustainable habits that build a healthier, stronger life. Hosted by Adam Lane, this podcast explores daily movement, nutrition, mindset, and strength without the fluff—just the real stuff that works.Episode Highlights:In this episode, Adam sits down with Tim Gilbertson, founder of the Warrior Foundation, to talk about the power of rucking, the mission to support local families facing childhood cancer, and how the upcoming Crucible event blends purpose with physical challenge. From personal stories to volunteer opportunities, this episode is a reminder that movement can serve more than just one purpose—it can serve a community.Key Insights:The Warrior Foundation offers support for families with children battling cancer, covering needs like travel and car repairs.Rucking is a low-impact, accessible exercise that builds strength and cardiovascular health.Starting with light weight and proper gear is key for injury prevention.The Crucible is a 24-hour endurance event with multiple components: a 10-mile ruck, a 5K run/walk, and a team fitness challenge.Volunteer support is critical to the success of the event and community engagement.Rucking isn't just a workout—it's a mindset that builds resilience.The emotional impact of community-driven events helps families feel seen and supported.Episode Chapters:00:00 Intro01:37 Overview of the Warrior Foundation03:37 Discussion on Rucking and Its Benefits04:24 Practical Tips for Starting Rucking04:51 Advanced Rucking Techniques and Challenges24:12 The Warrior Foundation's Crucible Event33:13 Details of the Warrior Basic Team Challenge47:14 Volunteer Opportunities and Event Registration50:22 Personal Stories and Motivation.Call to Action:Join the movement—literally. Whether you sign up, volunteer, or share this episode, it all makes a difference. Let's support local families and build strength together.Supporting Links:Learn more or register for the Crucible event: https://warriorfoundationnfp.orgClosing:Thanks for tuning in to Happy, Healthy, Strong. We're grateful to have you here. If this episode inspired you, let someone know, or better yet, lace up those shoes and ruck with purpose. Stay strong, stay grounded, and we'll see you in the next one.
Adam Lane Smith is a psychotherapist and an author. Are men the problem? In a time when blame is easily assigned, it's worth asking whether men need to re-examine how they show up in the world, including their values, behavior, & accountability. In doing so, they might uncover surprising ways to help heal much of what's broken. Expect to learn why so many high performing men have avoidant attachment styles, why choosing the wrong women is one of the most important decisions you can make in your life, what the biggest issues with modern dating are, why validation might be more important than love in a relationship, how to break out of the friendzone, why we need to stop comforting men to death, and much more… Sponsors: See me on tour in America: https://chriswilliamson.live See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: https://chriswillx.com/deals Get 5 Free Travel Packs, Free Liquid Vitamin D, and more from AG1 at https://ag1.info/modernwisdom Get the best bloodwork analysis in America at https://functionhealth.com/modernwisdom Get up to $50 off the RP Hypertrophy App at https://rpstrength.com/modernwisdom Timestamps: (0:00) - What Choosing the Wrong Woman Looks Like (7:25) - What is Happening with Oxytocin in Modern Men? (11:16) - Why Successful Men are Failing in Relationships (17:05) - How Masculinity is Changing (30:40) - Why Validation Makes Men Feel Shame (40:23) - Masculine Role Models are a Double-Edged Sword (46:27) - Why Do Women Choose Jerks Over Nice Guys? (52:18) - Men are Trying to Protect Knowledge on Masculinity (01:01:34) - Why are Men Running From Themselves? (01:09:25) - Why Marriages Need a Purpose (01:15:03) - We Need to Be More Serious and Earnest (01:21:44) - Find Out More About Adam Extra Stuff: Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: https://chriswillx.com/books Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom Episodes You Might Enjoy: #577 - David Goggins - This Is How To Master Your Life: https://tinyurl.com/43hv6y59 #712 - Dr Jordan Peterson - How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs: https://tinyurl.com/2rtz7avf #700 - Dr Andrew Huberman - The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain: https://tinyurl.com/3ccn5vkp - Get In Touch: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Stressed out, eating on the go, and running low on sleep? It's not just burnout it's your body asking for a reset.Welcome to Happy Healthy Strong, the show that cuts through the noise on fitness, nutrition, health, and wellness. Hosted by Adam Lane, this podcast brings you real conversations and practical advice to help you feel stronger in every area of life.Episode HighlightsIn this episode, Adam Lane sits down with Stacey Caler, a nurse practitioner and founder of Wellness Refinery. They talk about the real reasons behind burnout, low energy, and chronic stress—and why going back to the basics might be the most effective solution. Stacey shares her approach to functional-based care and how building small, sustainable habits in nutrition, movement, and sleep can create lasting change. Key InsightsWhy increasing protein and reducing processed foods makes a real difference.How daily movement can be simple, joyful, and effective.The role of stress and how it affects cortisol and overall health.Sleep isn't a luxury—it's a pillar of recovery and energy.Building healthy habits early helps shape long-term wellness.How Community and Support Systems Can Influence Outcomes.Tips for making better food choices for the next generation.What functional-based care looks like in real lifeEpisode Chapters00:00 Intro01:37 Stacy Keller's Approach to Health 03:10 Optimizing Health Across Age Groups06:54 Nutrition and Food Quality13:33 Exercise and Movement27:38 Stress Management and Mindfulness34:34 Building Healthy Habits for Future GenerationsCall to ActionKnow someone who needs a push toward better health? Share this episode with them or send a quick text of support. Sometimes, the right encouragement is all someone needs to start making small changes that matter.Supporting Links
Chronic pain, migraines, and stress — most people live with them longer than they need to. What if the answer isn't more medication, but something your body's been asking for all along?Welcome to Happy Healthy Strong, the podcast that helps you build a lifestyle rooted in strength, energy, and intention. Hosted by Adam Lane, each episode explores nutrition, movement, mindset, and longevity through candid conversations with experts who embody these principles.Episode Highlights:In this episode, Adam sits down with licensed massage therapist Jamie Fanara to explore how therapeutic massage goes far beyond relaxation. Jamie shares how her clinic treats chronic pain and autoimmune conditions, how she built a successful massage therapy program at Rock Valley College, and why bodywork is a key part of long-term health, not just a luxury.Key Insights:The overlooked connection between chronic pain, posture, and emotional stress.Why massage therapy is often the missing link after failed chiropractic or PT sessions.How Jamie's team collaborates with other health professionals to create whole-body solutions.The evolution of massage therapy post-COVID and the growing need for mental and physical recovery.Inside look at the massage education program Jamie developed—plus what students really learn beyond technique.The surprising ways massage can help manage migraines, arthritis, and even scar tissue.Jamie's take on self-care and how to keep your body healthy through every life stage.Episode Chapters:00:00 Intro00:39 Introduction of Jamie Fanara02:24 Jamie's Role and Typical Clients05:24 Challenges and Benefits of Massage Therapy22:31 Impact of COVID-19 and Evolution of the Industry22:45 Jamie's Journey and the Rock Valley College Program30:55 Jamie's Personal and Professional LifeIf this episode made you rethink what massage therapy can do, share it with someone who could use a better path to healing. Follow Happy Healthy Strong for more stories and tools that support real, lasting wellness.Supporting Information:
In this episode of I Wish You Knew, Adam Lane Smith sits down with Chad and Brittany to explore why love alone isn't enough to sustain a relationship. Whether you're in a struggling relationship or trying to understand your partner better, this conversation will challenge the way you see emotional safety, communication, and connection. Topics Covered:
Recruitment isn't a straight path—it's full of pivots, pressure, and personal growth.Welcome to Oak Performance Radio, where we're passionate about optimizing performance and minimizing injury. This show is built for athletes, parents, and coaches navigating the world of sports and performance.Episode HighlightsIn this episode, Dan Lichthardt joins Adam Lane to share a parent's perspective on the realities of college recruitment. From his daughter Grace's initial commitment to her transfer to Augustana College, Dan opens up about the emotional side of the journey, the challenges of balancing expectations, and what it really means to support your athlete through it all.Key InsightsDifferences between Division I and Division III volleyball recruitment.How roster size and playing time shape an athlete's college experience.The value of transferring and finding a better fit.Why multi-sport participation helps long-term development.How parents can best support their athletes—mentally and emotionally.The pressure of social media on athletes and families.The importance of resilience and open communication throughout the processEpisode Chapters00:00 Intro01:05 Discussion on Recruitment Journey02:27 Challenges and Realities of College Recruitment36:24 Grace's Transfer to Augustana College43:19 Advice for Parents and Athletes43:34 Final Thoughts and ReflectionsCall to ActionIf this episode resonates, consider sharing it with another parent, coach, or athlete. Conversations like these help build a stronger and more informed sports community.Supporting InformationFollow Dan Lichthardt on Instagram: @danlichthardtConnect with Dan on Facebook: Dan LichthardtExplore more episodes and training content at Oak StrengthFollow us on Instagram: @oakstrengthFriendly ClosingThanks for tuning in to Oak Performance Radio. We appreciate you being part of this community and hope you'll join us again as we continue to support athletes and families on and off the field.
In this conversation, Adam welcomes Margarita Nazarenko, a viral voice of tough love on relationships, for a deep, honest dialogue about anxious attachment, emotional patterns, and why so many women end up chasing emotionally unavailable men. Margarita offers clarity, accountability, and practical wisdom to break the cycle of toxic relationships and build something truly healthy. Topics Covered:
Intensity doesn't always mean going harder—it's about knowing when to push and when to pull back.Welcome to the Happy Healthy Strong Podcast, where we talk all things fitness, nutrition, health, and wellness. Every episode offers genuine conversations and thoughtful insights to help you build a stronger, healthier lifestyle.Episode HighlightsCoach Kyle joins Adam Lane to break down one of the most misunderstood aspects of training: intensity. They unpack what it really means, why constantly pushing to the max can backfire, and how to train smarter—not just harder. From form tips to conditioning methods, this conversation explores how to make long-term progress without burnout or injury.Key InsightsWhy intensity doesn't always equal high effort.The dangers of constantly chasing heavy lifts or extreme conditioning.How to apply seasonal intensity changes like pro athletes.Tips for knowing when form is breaking down—and what to do about it.Safer conditioning alternatives that still get results.Why consistency beats max effort for long-term health.How gym culture can pressure people into doing too much.Effective ways to mix recovery and high-intensity training.Episode Chapters00:00 Intro00:04 Understanding Intensity in Workouts03:03 Balancing Intensity and Recovery03:31 The Role of Form in Intensity07:13 Conditioning Intensity and Safety08:34 Mixing Intensity and Recovery08:49 The Impact of Gym Culture on Intensity 10:01 Safe and Effective Conditioning Methods17:45 The Role of Technique in Intensity18:30 Balancing Intensity and Long-Term GoalsCall to ActionIf this episode helped shift your perspective on intensity, share it with a friend who's stuck in the “go hard or go home” mindset. And make sure to follow the show so you never miss an honest take on health and strength.Supporting InformationFollow us on Instagram: @happyhealthystrongpodcast / @kyle_lusmannSubscribe for weekly episodes with new guests.Friendly ClosingThanks for tuning in! Every conversation is a chance to train a little smarter and live a little stronger. Catch you next time on the Happy Healthy Strong Podcast.
In this powerful episode, attachment expert Jessica Baum joins Adam Lane Smith to unpack one of the most essential yet misunderstood pillars of a healthy relationship: emotional safety. Together, they explore why safety isn't just a “nice to have” in love, but a biological and psychological necessity that shapes the way we connect, heal, and grow. Whether you've struggled with abandonment wounds, anxious or avoidant patterns, or felt unseen in your relationships, this conversation offers deep clarity and actionable insights. Topics Covered:
In this episode, Andrey and Adam dive deep into the foundations of trust-based communication in both professional and personal relationships. They unpack the dangers of transactional thinking, explore how poor communication sabotages connection, and offer practical insight into building relationships rooted in mutual respect rather than leverage. Topics Covered:
Send us a textIn this powerful and eye-opening Part 2 episode, Andrea sits down with attachment specialist and relationship coach Adam Lane Smith to explore the deep-rooted patterns that shape the way we love. Together, they unpack the complexities of attachment theory—diving into anxious, avoidant, and disorganized styles—and how these patterns can quietly sabotage or strengthen our relationships.Adam shares his personal journey with attachment theory and challenges the traditional idea of "healing" attachment styles, instead offering a path toward repairing behaviors and building trust. From infidelity to coercive soothing and parentification, this episode goes far beyond surface-level dating advice, touching on the emotional undercurrents that define modern love.They also discuss the impact of online dating, the revival of personal matchmaking, and how masculine and feminine energies play into relational dynamics. Whether you're navigating new love, recovering from heartbreak, or simply trying to understand yourself better, this episode delivers insightful, actionable strategies to help you foster secure attachment and create healthier, more fulfilling relationships.How can you tell if your attachment style is sabotaging your relationships—and what can you do about it?Is it possible to change your attachment style, or are you stuck with it for life?What does "coercive soothing" really mean, and how might it be quietly ruining your emotional connection with others?And so much more...Instagram: @attachmentAdamTikTok: @attachmentbroYouTube: @attachmentAdamFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/AdamLaneSmith/Support the showInstagram: @from.mrs.2.msTikTok:@from.mrs.2.msWebsite: www.frommrs2ms.comEmail: Andrea@FromMrs2Ms.comYouTube: @FromMrs2Ms
Don't wait until the pain becomes a problem. Early treatment could be the key to long-term recovery.Welcome to the Happy, Healthy, Strong Podcast, where we explore all things fitness, nutrition, health, and wellness. Hosted by Adam Lane, this show helps you live better through movement, mindset, and strength—one episode at a time.Episode HighlightIn this episode, Adam Lane sits down with Dan McGirk, physical therapist and part-owner of ORS Physical Therapy, to talk about the importance of personalized care, early treatment, and creating an environment that feels more like a training gym than a sterile clinic. Dan shares how ORS Physical Therapy stands out in the world of rehab and what makes their treatment approach different from large healthcare systems.Key InsightsWhy early treatment (within 4–6 weeks) can prevent long-term issuesHow ORS team specializes in spine, shoulder, knee rehab, TMJ, and vertigoThe benefits of a gym-like, non-sterile therapy environment.How functional assessments help pinpoint imbalances and speed up recoveryCash pay and insurance options that make care more accessibleThe role of continued education in improving treatment outcomesWhat makes ORS Physical Therapy stand out from national chainsEpisode Chapters00:00 Intro00:05 Introduction of Dan McGirk02:42 Differences Between ORS Physical Therapy and Other Physical Therapy Clinics.03:55 Specialties and Environment at ORS. 05:55 Treatment Approaches and Patient Experiences10:11 Insurance and Cash Pay Options16:56 Continuing Education and Specialization21:05 Functional Assessments and Muscle ImbalancesCall to ActionIf someone's been putting off treatment, this episode is worth sharing. Spread the word, follow the show, and keep the conversation going—your community might thank you for it.Supporting Information
In this episode, Kelly Chase from Love Is Blind (Season 1) opens up about her journey from heartbreak and self-abandonment to healing, boundaries, and self-love. She shares what led her to go on the show, what she learned from the experience, and what she's looking for now in love, life, and relationships. ✨ Topics Covered:
Send us a textIn Part One of this episode, Andrea chats with attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith about how our attachment styles shape the way we love, communicate, and sometimes sabotage relationships. From anxious and avoidant tendencies to the emotional fallout of infidelity and parentification, they cover it all—with personal stories, practical advice, and a refreshing take on healing (hint: it's more about repair than perfection). They also dive into modern dating challenges, masculine/feminine energy, and why matchmaking might be making a comeback. Expect real talk, relatable insights, and tips to help you build healthier, more secure connections. What if cheating isn't about lust—but about unmet emotional needs rooted in your attachment style?Can you really rewire your attachment style and build a secure relationship—even if your past says otherwise?Are your dating struggles actually just anxious or avoidant patterns playing out on repeat?And so much more...Instagram: @attachmentAdamTikTok: @attachmentbroYouTube: @attachmentAdamFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/AdamLaneSmith/Support the showInstagram: @from.mrs.2.msTikTok:@from.mrs.2.msWebsite: www.frommrs2ms.comEmail: Andrea@FromMrs2Ms.comYouTube: @FromMrs2Ms
In this profound conversation, Dr. Anthony Balduzzi welcomes attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith to unpack how our early childhood experiences wire our nervous systems—and how that wiring can shape everything from our health to our marriages. Adam explains the science and psychology of attachment theory, revealing why so many high-achieving parents silently suffer from emotional disconnection, loneliness, and self-sabotaging health behaviors.Listeners will learn about the three main insecure attachment styles—avoidant, anxious, and mixed—and how they show up in relationships, parenting, and health choices. Adam provides a visceral, relatable description of how these patterns develop, the havoc they can wreak, and how they can be completely healed through conscious effort, safe relationships, and nervous system regulation.But this episode isn't just theoretical. Dr. Balduzzi and Adam dive deep into the practical side: how women can build secure attachment through small, consistent steps, how fitness plays a critical role in rewiring the brain for connection, and how parents can start creating transformational moments with their kids—without needing to be perfect.This episode will resonate with anyone who's ever felt disconnected despite doing everything “right.” It's a wake-up call for high performers, a roadmap for parents, and a love letter to those willing to do the inner work. Don't miss the insights that could quite literally transform your relationships—and your life.Key Takeaways:Early trauma wires nervous system dysfunctionAvoidant = survival mode, overwork, disconnectedAnxious = approval seeking, learned helplessnessSecure = calm, connected, honest communicationAttachment issues crush hormone balanceMost divorces = anxious woman + avoidant manHigh performers often hide deep lonelinessNervous system dysregulation blocks oxytocinHealing begins with awareness and self-reflectionFixing attachment transforms your physiologyParents must become self-correcting, not perfectFitness supports nervous system healingKids model what they see, not what you sayTransparency + feedback = secure relationshipsYour health habits are also love habitsLearn More about Adam Lane Smith:Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbggX: https://x.com/adamlanesmithTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/AdamLaneSmith/Podcast: I Wish You Knew Podcast https://iwishyouknew.show/Threads: https://www.threads.com/@attachmentadamBiographical Information on Adam Lane Smith:Adam Lane Smith, MA Psych, is recognized globally for his groundbreaking work in applied attachment psychology. Over the past 15 years, he has guided more than 1,600 private clients (including top executives, Hollywood A-listers, and management professionals) towards building resilient and effective relationships, both at
In this profound conversation, Dr. Anthony Balduzzi welcomes attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith to unpack how our early childhood experiences wire our nervous systems—and how that wiring can shape everything from our health to our marriages. Adam explains the science and psychology of attachment theory, revealing why so many high-achieving parents silently suffer from emotional disconnection, loneliness, and self-sabotaging health behaviors.Listeners will learn about the three main insecure attachment styles—avoidant, anxious, and mixed—and how they show up in relationships, parenting, and health choices. Adam provides a visceral, relatable description of how these patterns develop, the havoc they can wreak, and how they can be completely healed through conscious effort, safe relationships, and nervous system regulation.But this episode isn't just theoretical. Dr. Balduzzi and Adam dive deep into the practical side: how men can build secure attachment through small, consistent steps, how fitness plays a critical role in rewiring the brain for connection, and how parents can start creating transformational moments with their kids—without needing to be perfect.This episode will resonate with anyone who's ever felt disconnected despite doing everything “right.” It's a wake-up call for high performers, a roadmap for parents, and a love letter to those willing to do the inner work. Don't miss the insights that could quite literally transform your relationships—and your life.Key Takeaways:Early trauma wires nervous system dysfunctionAvoidant = survival mode, overwork, disconnectedAnxious = approval seeking, learned helplessnessSecure = calm, connected, honest communicationAttachment issues crush hormone balanceMost divorces = anxious woman + avoidant manHigh performers often hide deep lonelinessNervous system dysregulation blocks oxytocinHealing begins with awareness and self-reflectionFixing attachment transforms your physiologyParents must become self-correcting, not perfectFitness supports nervous system healingKids model what they see, not what you sayTransparency + feedback = secure relationshipsYour health habits are also love habitsLearn More about Adam Lane Smith:Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbggX: https://x.com/adamlanesmithTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/AdamLaneSmith/Podcast: I Wish You Knew Podcast https://iwishyouknew.show/Threads: https://www.threads.com/@attachmentadamBiographical Information on Adam Lane Smith:Adam Lane Smith, MA Psych, is recognized globally for his groundbreaking work in applied attachment psychology. Over the past 15 years, he has guided more than 1,600 private clients (including top executives, Hollywood A-listers, and management professionals) towards building resilient and effective relationships, both at...
In this episode, Aurora Culpo returns with a candid and emotionally honest update about her personal life. She opens up about the complexity of dating after heartbreak, the internal battles of self-worth, and how she's navigating a new relationship under the scrutiny of public attention. From emotional triggers and attachment patterns to navigating jealousy and miscommunication, Aurora invites listeners into the real, often messy, human experience of love and healing. Whether you're single, dating, or rebuilding after pain, her vulnerability offers comfort, wisdom, and perspective. ✨ Key Topics Covered:
When the workout becomes the risk—how do you know it's time to shift gears?Welcome to the Happy Healthy Strong podcast—where we talk everything fitness, nutrition, health, and wellness. Each episode is here to help build a life that feels aligned, energized, and strong—inside and out.Episode HighlightsAdam Lane and Coach Kyle unpack the heated topic of CrossFit—what works, what doesn't, and why it's not a one-size-fits-all approach to fitness. From barbell breakthroughs to burnout and injury, they break down the real conversation behind the workouts, the culture, and the long-term results.Key InsightsWhy CrossFit's community can be both motivating and misleading.The impact of introducing barbell work to general populationsWhere high intensity becomes a liabilityHow large class sizes affect safety and formWhy randomized programming may stall long-term progressThe role of individualized coaching in sustainable fitnessUnderstanding when competition harms more than it helpsEpisode Chapters00:00 Intro00:25 Introduction to the Episode and Guest03:09 Pros of CrossFit: Community and Barbell Work05:46 Pros of CrossFit: Defined Fitness and Variety08:36 Cons of CrossFit: Scaling and Safety Concerns44:04 Cons of CrossFit: Intensity and Injury Risk44:16 Cons of CrossFit: Competition and Personalization44:40 Cons of CrossFit: Programming and Long-Term EffectsCall to ActionKnow someone who's considering CrossFit or navigating injury from group workouts? Share this episode with them. Let's keep the conversation going—because fitness should feel strong, not scary.Supporting InformationFollow Coach Kyle on Instagram: @kyle_lusmannStay connected with Adam Lane on Instagram: @coachadamlaneThanks for tuning in to Happy Healthy Strong. Grateful to have you in the community—catch you next time for more real talk on training, health, and the stuff that actually works. Subscribe and leave a review if this helped shift your perspective.
In this deep and vulnerable conversation, Kyle Cease opens up about his personal journey—from using comedy as a defense mechanism to confronting childhood trauma and stepping into authentic healing. He explores how false identities are formed through pain and how real transformation happens when we face the hidden parts of ourselves. With insights on attachment, inner work, spirituality, and the power of humor, this episode is both heart-opening and thought-provoking. Topics Covered:
What does it take to stay focused, stay driven, and still love the game after nearly a decade of training?Welcome to Oak Performance Radio—where performance is optimized and injury is minimized. Hosted by Adam Lane, this podcast shares conversations with athletes, coaches, and leaders who live at the intersection of hard work, recovery, and long-term success.Episode HighlightsIn this episode, Adam sits down with senior volleyball players Devynn Schulze and Julia Laidig, who share what it's been like to grow up in the sport. From early training days to senior-year commitments, they open up about balancing academics, recruitment, and club life. The episode explores how they've built resilience, handled pressure, and leaned on their support systems—both on and off the court.Key InsightsThe importance of staying grounded and committed across multiple years of trainingHow to navigate the mental and emotional toll of recruitmentThe role of coaches and teammates in long-term developmentWhy comparing progress with others can hold athletes backBalancing high-level competition with high school responsibilitiesLooking ahead to the shift from club volleyball to college athleticsEpisode Chapters00:00 Intro01:17 Guests' Volleyball Journey and Positions02:44 Challenges and Words of Wisdom03:39 Positive and Negative Comparisons39:32 Leadership and Influence39:46 Balancing Commitments and Personal Growth40:05 Reflecting on the Volleyball Experience Call to ActionLove hearing athlete stories like these? Share this episode with a teammate or coach who needs to hear it. And keep an eye out—we'll be checking back with Devynn and Julia in college to hear how the next chapter unfolds.Supporting InformationJulia Laidig is a standout volleyball player from Woodstock, Illinois, and a member of the Class of 2025. She plays as a libero and defensive specialist for VC United Volleyball Club, based in Loves Park, Illinois.Devynn Schulze is a dynamic 5'6” libero and defensive specialist from Wonder Lake, Illinois, and a key member of VC United Volleyball Club's 181 Elite team based in Loves Park. A senior at Woodstock North High School (Class of 2025), Schulze has demonstrated exceptional versatility and leadership throughout her high school career.Follow the journey:@wearevcunited@julia_laidig_@devynn.schulze
In this insightful episode, Dr. Alexandra Solomon, a renowned psychologist and expert on relationships and intimacy, joins attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith to answer one of the hardest questions couples face: Can a relationship ever truly recover after an affair? Whether you've experienced betrayal or fear it might happen, this episode offers honest answers and real hope. Topics Covered
Consider this a masterclass on attachment theory and how by learning what my guest shares today, you will be able to enter into a relationship or dating with a new way of relating. Today's conversation will help you understand the importance of attachment theory and how this influences the outcome in our relationships. Within this conversation you will learn what these attachment styles are and how each one uniquely influences how we react in a relationship. My guest provides practical advice for individuals looking to navigate the dating scene successfully, highlighting the need for self-awareness and clear intentions. Then how can we learn a new way of attaching and moving into secure attachment. He is an author, speaker and media personality, Adam Lane Smith is a recognized global expert in Attachment Theory. Formerly a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Adam has left his practice to help the world learn the power of secure attachment. He is on a mission to turn 1 billion people's attachment secure. To that end, Adam runs a digital coaching practice, leads a growing team of certified specialists, offers hundreds of hours of free online education. With a 99.8% success rate transforming thousands of relationships worldwide, Adam is proving that secure love isn't about luck – it's about understanding patterns most never see. In this episode we talk about: Understanding attachment theory Breakdowns in Modern Relationships Effective Use of Dating Apps How to shift into secure attachment Learning to self regulate Holding healthy boundaries Common breakdowns in relationships Greatest tool to strengthen a relationship For full show notes and episode resources head to: https://ericalippy.com/adam-lane-smith/ Find our guest at: Adam Lane Smith | Website , Instagram , Facebook Watch Adam Lane Smith in YouTube Attchment Bootcamp Follow me on Social Media: Your Host: @ericalippy Podcast: @passionlovepursuit YouTube PASSION LOVE PURSUIT PODCASTS: https://ericalippy.com/the-podcast/
Not every workout model is built with longevity in mind—but what if it could be? This episode challenges the idea that variety equals progress and instead makes a case for consistency, structure, and foundational movement.Welcome to Happy Healthy Strong—where we talk all things fitness, nutrition, health, and wellness. Hosted by Adam Lane, this show explores how to train smarter, eat better, and stay mentally strong.Episode HighlightsBrandon Cullen of MADabolic joins Adam to share how his background in hockey and CrossFit led to the creation of MADabolic—a strength-driven fitness franchise built for high performers aged 25 to 50. They discuss why consistent, structured training matters more than variety, how MADabolic stands apart from traditional CrossFit, and why fundamental movements should remain the core of any training program. This episode also touches on how to adapt training for different age groups, the role of community in progress, and how tech is shaping the future of fitness.Key InsightsWhy MADabolic's structure is designed for long-term performanceThe difference between timed strength training and traditional interval modelsHow to build fitness programs that scale across different ages and experience levelsThe case for keeping workouts simple, fundamental, and repeatableHow community and competition can coexist in a supportive fitness environmentBrandon's take on technology's role in making fitness more personalEpisode Chapters:00:00 Intro00:05 Introduction and Guest Introduction49:50 Brandon Cullen's Background and Metabolic's Origin50:05 Transition from CrossFit to Metabolic50:27 The Concept of Timed Strength Training50:46 Adam Lane's Perspective and Personal Experience51:04 The Role of Community and Support in Fitness51:26 The Importance of Fundamental Movements51:43 Adapting Fitness Programs for Different Age Groups51:54 The Role of Technology in FitnessCall to ActionFollow the conversation by connecting with Brandon Cullen of MADabolic or listening to his show Playing Guilty. If this episode got you thinking differently about training, share it with someone who could use a better fitness framework.Supporting LinksMADabolic WebsiteInstagram: @madabolic | @plyngltyConnect with Brandon Cullen of MADabolic on LinkedInListen to the Playing Guilty podcastThanks for tuning in to Happy Healthy Strong. We're here to support smarter movement, better nutrition, and a healthier mindset—one episode at a time. Don't forget to subscribe and join us for more conversations that challenge the status quo in health and wellness.
In this episode, Andrey and Adam unpack the deep connection between attachment styles and personality disorders. Together, they explore how childhood trauma, neurological stress, and emotional dysregulation contribute to avoidant, anxious, and disorganized attachment—and how these patterns can evolve into more severe conditions like borderline personality disorder, bipolar disorder, and even schizophrenia. Adam challenges the medical model, offering hopeful insights on healing, brain health, and the possibility of recovery without relying solely on medication. ✨ Topics Covered ✨
Fueling strong bodies starts with consistent, daily choices—not just game-day decisions.Welcome to Oak Strength Performance, where the focus is on optimizing performance and minimizing injury. This show is for athletes, parents, and coaches who want to build strong, resilient athletes through smart training, smart recovery, and real-life strategies that actually work.Episode HighlightsIn this episode, Adam Lane and Coach Kyle break down high-performance nutrition—what it really looks like day-to-day, and how small, sustainable habits around food, hydration, and rest can lead to better athletic results and overall well-being.Key InsightsWhy protein intake matters and how much athletes really needThe hydration formula that helps support performance and recoveryThe link between sleep, mental health, and injury riskMeal prepping strategies that make fueling easierHow processed foods affect energy and long-term healthTips for managing caffeine and sleep patterns around trainingThe importance of breakfast and simple snack prep ideasEpisode Chapters:00:00 Intro02:02 Importance of Nutrition and Recovery06:35 Hydration and Protein Intake11:13 Food Quality and Food Groups16:03 Breakfast, Lunch, and Dinner Recommendations23:44 Hydration and Sleep Tips26:02 Q&A Session and Personal Experiences48:58 Final Thoughts and RecommendationsCall to ActionIf this episode helped refocus your approach to nutrition and rest, share it with a teammate, coach, or parent who could use the same boost. Be part of the Oak Strength community by applying one new habit this week — small steps counts.Thanks for tuning in to Oak Strength Performance. Whether you're an athlete, parent, or coach, we appreciate you showing up to keep learning and leveling up. See you in the next one!
In this episode, Evan Marc Katz joins Adam Lane Smith for a fiery and thought-provoking debate on one of the most challenging questions in relationships: Can we truly change our partner—or is it all about accepting them as they are? From practical dating strategies to deeper emotional dynamics, this conversation dives into the complexities of modern love and long-term compatibility. ✨ Key Topics Covered:
Overtraining can hold athletes back just as much as undertraining. How can athletes strike the right balance between performance gains and injury prevention?Welcome to Oak Performance Radio, the podcast dedicated to optimizing performance and minimizing injury. Hosted by Adam Lane, this show brings expert insights to help athletes, parents, and coaches make informed training decisions for long-term success.Episode Overview:In this episode, Tommy Hansen, founder of Perform 4 Life, shares his expertise in training athletes of all levels. From managing training volume to balancing gym work with sport-specific skills, Tommy offers key insights into improving strength, athleticism, and overall performance while reducing injury risks.Key Insights:How to balance court time and gym training for volleyball playersThe role of strength and conditioning in improving athletic performanceWhy managing fatigue is critical during high-stress periods like college recruitingStrategies for developing a well-rounded training program for athletesThe impact of physical development on skill progressionEpisode Chapters: 00:00 Intro00:48 Tommy's Training Philosophy and Approach09:52 Challenges of Training in the Club Volleyball Environment20:50 The Importance of General Fitness and Conditioning32:57 Balancing Training and Game Performance54:54 The Role of Mental and Physical Stress in Training55:06 The Impact of Physical Development on Skill Development Supporting Information:Website: [Perform 4 Life](https://www.perform4lifetrainingsystems.com/about-me)Social Media: [@freestyle_jump_guy](https://www.instagram.com/freestyle_jump_guy)Call to Action:If you found this episode insightful, share it with an athlete, parent, or coach who could benefit. Follow Oak Performance Radio for more expert discussions on training and performance.
Every athlete faces setbacks, but how do you turn challenges into fuel for success?In this episode of Oak Performance Radio, professional volleyball player Stevie Hall shares her journey from small-town high school volleyball to competing on the international stage.Welcome to Oak Performance Radio the podcast dedicated to optimizing performance and minimizing injury. Hosted by Adam Lane, we bring you insights from top athletes, coaches, and experts to help you elevate your game.What You'll Learn in This Episode:- How Stevie Hall transitioned from high school volleyball to playing professionally overseas.- The mental and physical adjustments required to compete at the highest level.- How nutrition and recovery strategies impact an athlete's performance.- The role of faith, family, and balance in a professional sports career.- Stevie's experience playing volleyball while pregnant and how she adapted her training.Episode Highlights:- The importance of perseverance through setbacks and how to develop resilience.- Why nutrition, especially protein intake, is crucial to an athlete's success.- Sleep and recovery are as vital as training for long-term performance.- The mindset shift needed to thrive in different environments, from college to international leagues.- Advice young athletes on staying focused, enjoying the process, and handling social media pressure.Episode Chapters:00:00 Intro01:22 Early Volleyball Journey and High School Experience07:33 Recruiting and College Experience10:53 Professional Volleyball Career and Overseas Experience15:08 Nutrition and Recovery28:12 Sleep and Rest36:09 Faith and Balancing Volleyball with Personal Life40:22 Pregnancy and Continuing to Play Volleyball42:52 Advice for Young AthletesConnect with Stevie Hall and LOVB Madison:@__steviee___ @lovbmad@lovb@wearevcunitedLearn more about Stevie's career:(https://www.lovb.com/teams/lovb-madison-volleyball/athletes/anna-stevenson-hall)Stevie's journey is a testament to resilience, adaptability, and the power of trusting the process—both in sports and in life.Enjoying the Podcast?Thanks for tuning in to Oak Performance Radio! If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe and share it with fellow athletes and coaches. Stay connected for more insights on training, performance, and success in sports. See you in the next episode!
Why do avoidant men run from intimacy, and how can you get them to bond without chasing? In this powerful conversation, Adam Lane Smith breaks down the core fears driving avoidant attachment styles and shares actionable tips to flip the script — so he starts chasing you. We talk about the emotional triggers that make men commit, the biggest mistakes women make when dating avoidants, and how to create deep, lasting bonds (without sacrificing your self-worth).
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