Podcasts about Lane Smith

In Episode 56 of Sippin' On Country, we catch up with rising country artist Lane Smith—virtually from Canada while he's out on tour! Lane opens up about his musical journey, balancing life on the road, and what fans can expect from his highly anticipated new album ‘Austin', dropping Friday, April 11th.Although we refer to the album as Good Thing Goin' during the podcast, Lane surprises us with the official title change and talks about what inspired it. From honest lyrics to stories behind the songs, Lane brings authenticity and heart to this conversation, and it's clear he's just getting started.If you're a fan of modern country with soul, Lane Smith is one to watch. Tune in for an episode full of real talk, tour life insights, and exciting new music.

In this episode, Adam Lane Smith, the Attachment Specialist, navigates the challenges of a toxic marriage. Through raw and honest conversations, Adam uncovers the root causes of their struggles and offers practical guidance to rebuild trust, communication, and emotional connection. Whether you're facing similar issues or just want to strengthen your relationship, this episode is packed with insights and advice that can make a real difference. Topics Covered:

In this episode, Adam Lane Smith and Shallon Lester expose the hidden red flags of avoidant attachment and why trusting words alone can lead to heartbreak. They break down the toxic dating patterns that leave women feeling unworthy, discuss why men rarely change without consequences, and share practical strategies to build secure, lasting relationships. Topics Covered:

Alyssa shares how growing up in an environment that discouraged emotional expression led to survival-mode thinking. She describes the intense stress it placed on her nervous system and the difficulty of accessing emotional regulation. ✨  Main Topics Covered ✨ 

Lane Smith joins the Amateur Activist to talk about their book, 78 Acts of Liberation: Tarot to Transform our World. Lane and Isabela discuss a brief history of Tarot, Lane's changing relationship with it, and how it can be a useful tool of activism, advocacy & personal reflection in these spaces.As always, we are so grateful for everyone who listens and shares. When you get a moment, we'd be so grateful if you left a review on Apple Podcasts, rated us on Spotify, or tagged us in your stories on Instagram, @amateuractivistpodConnect with me on Instagram, @belagiirrllConnect with Lane at their website or on BlueSkyA big thank you to David Andrew for producing the music for this season. Follow him ⁠here

Why do avoidant men run from intimacy, and how can you get them to bond without chasing? In this powerful conversation, Adam Lane Smith breaks down the core fears driving avoidant attachment styles and shares actionable tips to flip the script — so he starts chasing you. We talk about the emotional triggers that make men commit, the biggest mistakes women make when dating avoidants, and how to create deep, lasting bonds (without sacrificing your self-worth).

This week on Domestic Pints ONLY, Tom and John sample some more beers from Calgary—with a selection from DANDY BREWING COMPANY. We discuss a bit about the brewery before hitting the lineup. First is the T-Rex named (Dandy) in the Underworld oyster stout; second is the sweet by strong "The Julia" peach cobbler sour ale; we wrap with the refreshing HASTE PAYS lager. A couple of John's cans were damaged in transit and were a bit flat, so take his scores with a grain of salt! Along the way we also chatted about: Lane Smith illustrations; John's random encounter with the host of his favourite podcast; university Shakespeare class; Stop Making Sense; HVAC tips; and we end the episode with some extended NFL talk (mainly on the future at QB for the Steelers).We will return next with some more Unibroue beers!Timestamps:06:38 Beer#1 (DANDY IN THE UNDERWORLD)23:42 Beer#2 (THE JULIA)35:53 Beer#3 (HASTE PAYS)00:55:47 Wrap up, final scores, and conclusionCredits:https://thedandybrewingcompany.com/Vienna - Billy JoelIntro and closing song: "Drink Beer (Till the Day That I Die)" by Dazie Mae (www.daziemae.com)Artwork: IG @nartsattack (www.natalierivet.com)

Adam Lane Smith is a renowned Attachment Specialist with over 15 years of experience in psychology and relationships. Formerly a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, he has dedicated his career to helping individuals and couples overcome attachment issues and build secure, meaningful connections. Adam has worked with a diverse clientele, including death row inmates and Fortune 500 executives. Adam has his own podcast and youtube channel with over 100k subscribers, though which he aims to educate as many people as possible about the art and science of attachment. Today we discuss:Some of his more recent Tweets about the limits of self-love, the importance of health aggression and the danger of repeating unconcious childhood patterns in adulthood. Common attachment patterns and their fascinating underlying biology. The right and wrong reasons to pursue content creation, and how to ethically pursue content creation to augment your business. Interviewed by Dr. Alex Curmi. Dr. Alex is a consultant psychiatrist and a UKCP registered psychotherapist in-training.If you would like to invite Alex to speak at your organisation please email alexcurmitherapy@gmail.com with "Speaking Enquiry" in the subject line.Alex is not currently taking on new psychotherapy clients, if you are interested in working with Alex for focused behaviour change coaching , you can email - alexcurmitherapy@gmail.com with "Coaching" in the subject line. Give feedback here - thinkingmindpodcast@gmail.com - Follow us here: Twitter @thinkingmindpod Instagram @thinkingmindpodcast

Maybe you've heard the term but don't really know what Attachment Theory is. Well, this episode is your introductory masterclass into all things attachment. Joining me on the podcast today is Adam Lane Smith, licensed marriage and family therapist and relationship coach, to dive into everything attachment: we discuss the different attachment styles, how they are shaped, how they impact conflict, what healing looks like through an attachment lens, and how our styles impact our attachment to God. Thanks for joining us in this geeked-out conversation about attachment theory and practice.   Chapters 00:00 Understanding Attachment Theory 07:20 Breaking Down the Attachment Styles 20:45 Practical Relationship Advice 26:00 Steps Towards Secure Attachment 34:55 Attachment to God 44:18 Conflict Resolution in Different Attachment Styles   Adam Lane Smith's website: https://adamlanesmith.com   Not sure how to start a conversation with a someone you find attractive? Download my free Dating Toolkit at www.drmariosacasa.com/dating-toolkit   See the links below to offer financial assistance: Diocese of Charlotte Catholic Charities Hurricane Helen Donations Page: https://giving.classy.org/campaign/624511/donate   Diocese of St. Petersburg Hurricane Relief Fund: https://www.givecentral.org/appeals-form-registration/acp5f44220f014e0/user/guest   To catch up on previous audio-only episodes click on the links below: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/always-hope/id1437447070 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1EfQGHAQLHkQcmHeWjlCJF?si=6e6199090a0b4f0c   Follow me on the socials: Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/drmariosacasa Facebook: www.facebook.com/drmariosacasa   Full Courses: Dating Well: www.drmariosacasa/datingwell Overcoming Stress and Anxiety: www.goodcatholic.com/product/overcoming-stress-and-anxiety/   The content of Always Hope is for purely educational reasons and is not meant as a substitute for proper diagnosis and/or professional counseling. If you need psychological or counseling services, please contact a trusted therapist for assistance.

2-1-25 A Chat With 'The Attachment Specialist' Adam Lane Smith - How To Overcome Our Attachment Issues! Find Adam Lane Smith here: linktr.ee/AdamLaneSmithgo to patreon.com/daveneal for more bonus content!

Today we're exploring attachment styles with Adam Lane Smith. He breaks down secure, anxious, and avoidant attachments and their impact on our relationships and faith.  Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest  Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library  Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast  Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you're in a relationship with someone who is avoidantly attached, or if you have this attachment style, this episode is for you. I got to talk to Adam Lane Smith, an attachment specialist, about the difference between manipulative and ethical avoidant attachment, signs someone is avoidant, and how to navigate a relationship with someone who is avoidant. You'll hear about how Adam helps clients heal their avoidant attachment and so much more. At the end, Adam shares how to bring up the topic of attachment styles with a partner who is avoidantly attached. Let me know your thoughts in the comments! Follow Adam on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  Submit a dating dilemma: https://forms.gle/xCmAWvDPGJdr3rFz9  Slide into my DMs on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dating.intentionally/ Follow on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dating.intentionally Get my free dating FAQ guide: https://datingintentionally.myflodesk.com/free-guides Read more on the blog: https://intentionally.dating/blog-posts/  Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Dating.Intentionally Rate on Apple: https://t.ly/JJgpP  About Adam: With an unwavering belief in the transformative power of secure attachment to help right many social ills facing the modern world, Adam has amassed a dedicated following of over 550,000 on social media. Together, they're rewriting the belief about how human connection is supposed to function. Adam teaches honesty, direct communication, clear boundaries, measurable levels of trust, and other means of building secure and healthy relationships. Drawing from his wealth of clinical experience and personal insight, Adam offers a unique perspective on the essential role of attachment in our lives. His engaging podcast episodes on the I Wish You Knew podcast and his online presentations during livestreams and recorded video media have inspired individuals, couples, and families around the world to embrace the journey of repairing their relationships and fostering secure attachments. Visit Adam's website: https://adamlanesmith.com/  Connect with Adam on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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   The attachment specialist Adam joins me to talk young men's dating, what masculinity is, service to others, protection and provision, why not follow Andrew Tate's dating advice, role models, spiritual holding, the connection between fathers and spirituality, being into attachment before it was cool, EMDR, red flags for attachment disorders, boundaries, why feelings don't really matter, the politics of psychology, and why we need corporations out of therapy. A hugely important one for all of us.     Find out more about Adam here: https://adamlanesmith.com/  -----------------------------------------------------------------    With an unwavering belief in the transformative power of secure attachment to help right many social ills facing the modern world, Adam has amassed a dedicated following of over 550,000 on social media. Together, they're rewriting the belief about how human connection is supposed to function. Adam teaches honesty, direct communication, clear boundaries, measurable levels of trust, and other means of building secure and healthy relationships.    Drawing from his wealth of clinical experience and personal insight, Adam offers a unique perspective on the essential role of attachment in our lives. His engaging podcast episodes on the "I Wish You Knew" podcast and his online presentations during livestreams and recorded video media have inspired individuals, couples, and families around the world to embrace the journey of repairing their relationships and fostering secure attachments. -----------------------------------------------------------------     Get a free copy of Mark's latest eBook for coaches (12 tools) at this link: https://embodimentunlimited.com/coachingpodcast     Join Mark for in-person workshops – https://embodimentunlimited.com/events-calendar/?utm_source=TEP&utm_medium=Description&utm_campaign=Events    Join free coaching demos sessions with Mark – https://embodimentunlimited.com/free-coaching-with-mark/?utm_source=TEP&utm_medium=Description&utm_campaign=Demo    Find Mark Walsh on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/warkmalsh/

Welcome to the Daniele Hage Podcast, where we dive deep into relationships, personal growth, and everything in between. In this episode, Daniele sits down with Adam Lane Smith, a psychotherapist and renowned attachment specialist. They explore the fascinating world of attachment styles, offering insights into how they shape our relationships, influence behaviors, and even affect long-term happiness.   Daniele and Adam unpack essential questions, like how to identify someone's attachment style while dating, whether opposite styles are attracted to each other, and—most importantly—whether anxious, avoidant, or disorganized attachment styles can be healed. With his rich background working with at-risk families, death-row inmates, and individuals struggling with attachment issues, Adam shares practical tools for achieving healthier relationships and a more secure attachment.   Whether you're curious about your own attachment style or eager to understand a loved one better, this episode is filled with actionable wisdom to improve emotional bonds and communication in any relationship.   Don't miss out! Hit subscribe, share with friends, and tune in for an enlightening conversation that could transform the way you approach your relationships.    

"Bubba didn't do it!" No...but Henrique and David have done it as they continue the Halloween Horrors line up with a TV movie that is still standing tall 43 years later! This week we're traveling to Piru, CA for a slice of Southern Fried Horror ripe with October vibes. In a small Southern town, four vigilantes wrongfully execute a mentally-challenged man, but after the court sets them free mysterious "accidents" begin to kill them off one by one in 1981s "Dark Night of the Scarecrow"!Directed by Frank De Felitta and starring Charles Durning, Lane Smith, and Larry Drake. Hear your hosts talk about the nostalgia of early made for TV movies, why Charles Durning as an antagonist works so well, the most memorable serving of preserves ever on film, plus Henrique & David discuss their scary fun trip to the Brimstone Haunt, and a tease for a title in the November line up?Visit our website: DoYouEvenMovie.com Email us: doyouevenmoviepod@gmail.com LIKE us on Facebook: Do You Even Movie? - PodcastFollow Us on Instagram: @DoYouEvenMoviePod Twitter: https://x.com/dyempodWatch "Dark Night of the Scarecrow" on Tubi:https://tubitv.com/movies/664045/dark-night-of-the-scarecrow

Biz Book Broadcast regular Ron Tester is back in the studio today to help me unpack the important issues around the Big Bad Wolf from Three Little Pigs Fame. Our text is The True Story of the Three Little Pigs by John Scieszka which retells the story from the wolf's point of view.  With lovely illustrations from Lane Smith, this books gives us the other side of the fairy story. Which gives us as good a reason as any to talk about branding – for once, it's not much of a stretch. So much to dig into. Look for more shows in this Classics strand where we take well-known stories + for no good reason discuss them as business books.  Book discussed in this episode: The True Story of the Three Little Pigs by John Scieszka And do check out Ron's Website – www.rontestercoaching.com ==== And don't forget to get your reading list of the 10 essential reads for every successful biz owner - these are the books Liz recommends almost on the daily to her strategy + Mastermind clients. This isn't your usual list of biz books, these answer the challenges you've actually got coming up right now. Helpful, quick to read and very timely. Click here lizscully.com/reading to get your book list

Explore how attachment theory shapes our relationships with Adam Lane Smith, a specialist in human connection. Adam breaks down the avoidant attachment style, shedding light on how it influences emotional distance in both romantic and interpersonal dynamics. This insightful conversation offers actionable tools for navigating attachment issues, fostering intimacy, and transforming how we approach love and partnership. From understanding the psychology behind avoidant tendencies to building trust and collaboration in relationships, Adam provides a clear path toward healing and deeper connection. Adam Lane Smith believes in the transformative power of secure attachment to address many social challenges. With over 550,000 social media followers, he helps redefine human connection by teaching honesty, direct communication, boundaries, and trust-building techniques. Drawing from clinical experience and personal insight, Adam shares his unique perspective on attachment through his podcast, I Wish You Knew, as well as his livestreams and video presentations, inspiring individuals, couples, and families globally to repair relationships and foster secure, healthy connections. —Adam's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam  —Adam's Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ —Adam's Youtube:  www.youtube.com/@AttachmentAdam  —Adam's Twitter: twitter.com/adamlanesmith   —Adam's TikTok:   tiktok.com/@attachmentbro  — Adam's Course: How to Love An Avoidant Man Course: https://attachment.adamlanesmith.com/affiliate_users/sign_up  (use code CREATETHELOVE for 50% off) *NOTE: The Four Levels of Trust Level 1: Consistent and Self-Policing With A Specific Code of Honor Level 2: Long Term Life Goal Level 3: Mutual Acceptance Level 4: Mutual Fulfillment If you want to dive deeper into Mark's content, search through every episode, find specific topics we've covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Avoidant Attachment, Attachment Styles, Relationship Advice, Avoidant Personality, Intimacy Issues, Emotional Distance, Adam Lane Smith, Understanding Avoidant Men, Overcoming Avoidant Attachment, Relationship Healing, Co-regulation in Relationships, Attachment Theory Explained, Building Emotional Trust, Avoidant Attachment Strategies, How to Love an Avoidant Man, Relational Growth, Emotional Connection, Healthy Relationships, Mark Groves Podcast, Personal Growth in Relationships This episode is sponsored by: —BON CHARGE: Use code MARKGROVES to save 15% at http://boncharge.com/MARKGROVES —Qualia Life: Use code MARKGROVES to save 15% at https://qualialife.com/markgroves  Contact us at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

www.missingwitches.com/ep-237-mabon-2024-making-tarot-mean-more-with-lane-smith-and-maria-minnis FIND LANE ON THEIR WEBSITE AND FOLLOW LEFTLANESMITH ON INSTAGRAMBUY 78 ACTS OF LIBERATION FIND MARIA ON HER WEBSITE AND FOLLOW FEMINNIS ON INSTAGRAM BUY TAROT FOR THE HARD WORK  About Missing WitchesAmy Torok and Risa Dickens produce the Missing Witches Podcast. We do every aspect from research to recording, it is a DIY labour of love and craft. Missing Witches is entirely member-supported, and getting to know the members of our Coven has been the most fun, electrifying, unexpectedly radical part of the project. These days the Missing Witches Coven gathers in our private, online coven circle to offer each other collaborative courses in ritual, weaving, divination, and more; we organize writing groups and witchy book clubs; and we gather on the Full and New Moon from all over the world. Our coven includes solitary practitioners, community leaders, techno pagans, crones, baby witches, neuroqueers, and folks who hug trees and have just been looking for their people. Our coven is trans-inclusive, anti-racist, feminist, pro-science, anti-ableist, and full of love. If that sounds like your people, come find out more. Please know that we've been missing YOU. https://www.missingwitches.com/join-the-coven/

How can we shift the focus of tarot to community and justice centered action in the world? What would that look like? Tarot reader and activist Lane Smith has some ideas and joined me to talk about their new book 78 Acts of Liberation. We also touch on Lane's publishing journey and the importance of knowing and acknowledging the history of our practices. 78 Acts of Liberation is available wherever you buy books or direct from Sounds True publishing. You can follow Lane on Instagram and find out more about events and other work from their website. Please support Black, indigenous, queer, trans, and women-owned, local, independent bookstores and occult shops. Transcripts of all episodes are available at witchlitpod.com Support WitchLit by using our affiliate link to purchase books from Bookshop.org or buy us a coffee on Ko-fi  Death in the Dry River a crime novella set in 1930s colonial Trinidad by Lisa Allen-Agostini is out now and available to order wherever you buy books or direct from 1000Volt Press. The award-winning books Changing Paths by Yvonne Aburrow and Conjuring the Commonplace by Laine Fuller & Cory Thomas Hutcheson are both available from 1000Volt Press or to order wherever you buy books. My book, Verona Green, is available in all the usual places.Autographed copies are also available from 1000Volt Press.

Dr. Lane Smith is a critical care medicine specialist at Atrium Health Carolinas Medical Center located in Charlotte, North Carolina and serving as the Charlotte academic branch of Wake Forest […]

M. Night Shyamalan has made some pretty interesting films.  Most are at the beginning of his career with a few at the end also.  This one, sadly, isn't inline with his best, but certainly not his worst either.  Josh Hartnett is absolutely wonderful as the unhinged Cooper.  He makes the price of admission with it.   0:12:40 - Box Office and upcoming releases. 0:38:45 *** What's Streaming  *** DISNEY+ THE MIGHTY DUCKS, Dir. Stephen Herek - Emilio Estevez, Joss Ackland, Lane Smith, Josef Sommer, Joshua Jackson, M.C. Gainey, 1992. FROZEN II, Dir. Chris Buck / Jennifer Lee - Kristen Bell, Idina Menzel, Josh Gad, Jonathan Goff, Sterling k. Brown, Even Rachel Wood, Alfred Molina, Jason Ritter, Ciaran Hinds, Alan Tudyk, 2019. 0:46:30 - Trailers:  THE SILENT HOUR - Joel Kinnaman, Mark Strong, Mekhi Pfizer, Feature. CONCLAVE - Ralph Fiennes, Stanley Tucci, John Lithgow, Isabela Rosselini, Feature.   0:50:50 - TRAP, Dir. M. Night Shyamalan  ( Grayson 5 / Roger 5 )   Hosted, produced and mixed by Grayson Maxwell and Roger Stillion.  Also hosted by Christopher Boughan.  Music by Chad Wall. Quality Assurance by Anthony Emmett. Visit the new Youtube channel, "For the Love of Cinema" to follow and support our short video discussions.  Please give a like and subscribe if you enjoy it.   Follow the show on Twitter @lovecinemapod and check out the Facebook page for updates.  Rate, subscribe and leave a comment or two.  Every Little bit helps.  Send us an email to fortheloveofcinemapodcast@gmail.com

For this episode of Creator's Corner I had a personally transformative conversation with Lane Smith, author of "78 Acts of Liberation: Tarot to Transform Our World" . This book by Lane was unexpectedly impactful as I read it and then even moreso in sitting down with Lane and gaining deeper understanding directly from them about things. Especially in how to take my own practice from the singular 'fool's journey' to a more community aligned 'tarot sphere' where we're interacting fluidly with the cards at any given moment. This conversation is one I've been returning to over and over the past few days and chewing on things discussed in the book and with Lane. It's stayed with me in good ways that have influenced me to change and shift things in my own personal practice and perspective. You can follow Lane on Instagram or find more resources from them on their website. You can pre-order their book here!

Adam Lane Smith, licensed psychotherapist and Attachment Specialist, transforms relationships from blue-collar families to CEOs. With his Attachment Bootcamp and personalized coaching, he guides clients on a transformative journey to authentic connections and fulfilling relationships. In this episode Adam and Sathiya discuss: [01:02] Attachment through a neurobiological lens [07:57] The impact of dopamine and addiction [09:42] Oxytocin addiction and its social component [12:17] The importance of security and psychological safety [14:57] Challenges in modeling healthy relationships [16:46] The Smell of Family [17:41] Anxious Attachment [18:28] Rising Loneliness [19:27] Men's Loneliness [20:18] Impact of Upbringing [21:51] Vasopressin Bonding [23:09] Teaching and Bonding [24:00] Male Solution Network [26:22] Balancing Bonding [27:15] Renewing Bonds [30:33] Addressing Affairs [32:55] Fighting Dopamine Dependency [33:21] The porn issue [34:12] Effects of porn addiction [35:05] Erectile dysfunction and porn addiction [36:45] Building healthy relationships [38:17] Vasopressin and oxytocin in relationships [40:39] Micro cheating and its impact [44:45] Roots of attachment theory interest [48:44] Instilling secure attachment in children Check out the Bootcamp Course of Adam Follow Adam Lane Smith on Instagram and also on Youtube Book A Call With Sathiya's Team For more Free Resources, check this out Follow Sathiya on Instagram

In episode 259 of The Super Human Life, host Frank Rich interviews Attachment Specialist, Adam Lane Smith. The conversation explores the concepts of anxious and avoidant attachment styles and how they impact relationships. Adam emphasizes the importance of personal sovereignty and emotional regulation for achieving secure attachment. He also discusses the role of faith and spirituality in finding purpose and meaning in life. The conversation provides practical steps for individuals with anxious and avoidant attachment styles to move towards secure attachment.   Attachment theory explains why people are losing the ability to connect with others. It is based on the idea that our early experiences with caregivers shape our attachment style. Secure attachment is characterized by collaboration and trust, while insecure attachment can be avoidant or anxious. The rise of insecure attachment is attributed to factors such as the breakdown of the nuclear family, the impact of war, and societal changes. The Red Pill community promotes a toxic view of relationships, treating women as objects and perpetuating juvenile masculinity.    Takeaways Attachment theory explains how early experiences shape our ability to connect with others.   Insecure attachment is becoming more prevalent, with avoidant and anxious attachment styles on the rise.   Factors such as the breakdown of the nuclear family and societal changes contribute to the increase in insecure attachment.   The Red Pill community promotes toxic views of relationships and perpetuates juvenile masculinity. Personal sovereignty and emotional regulation are essential for achieving secure attachment.   Faith and spirituality can provide a sense of purpose and meaning in life.   Anxious attachment can be addressed by learning to regulate emotions and defining and living by a personal code of conduct.   Avoidant attachment can be addressed by recognizing that there is a different way to live and learning the four levels of trust.   Building secure attachment requires forming meaningful and authentic relationships.  

Unlock the secrets to transforming your relationships! In this episode of Unlock Your Potential, I sit down with Adam Lane Smith, a renowned psychotherapist and attachment specialist, to explore the profound impact of attachment styles on personal and business relationships. Adam delves into the core concepts of attachment theory, including secure, anxious, and avoidant attachment styles, and explains how these patterns develop and can be transformed. This episode is packed with practical advice and transformative tips to help you overcome attachment issues, build trust, and improve your mental health. In this episode, we explore:

Wellness + Wisdom | Episode 650 How does every moment provide you with an option to either choose fear or to choose love? Adam Lane Smith + Andrey Korikov join Josh Trent on the Wellness + Wisdom Podcast, episode 650, to discuss why pain is the strongest motivational force, how guilt comes from fear, what happens when you don't know who you truly are, and why pity is detrimental to men. "We have to have pain, it's fundamental. We form this idea that pain is bad. It's scary and it hurts, but we believe that all pain is going to kill us and that's wrong. Pain can make you grow." - Adam Lane Smith

Do you know what attachment style you are? Whether you are secure, anxious, avoidant or a bit of a mix – your attachment style developed in childhood as a result of your relationships with your parents and primary caregivers, which then likely shapes what type of relationships you have for the rest of your life. That is, unless you can become aware of an insecure attachment style, and work to heal it. My guest is an attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith. In this episode you will learn about the different attachment styles - particularly the anxious and avoidant types, their impact on romantic relationships and why the 'anxious-avoidant trap' can be a blessing if you are willing to do the work, the scientific aspects of bonding and relationships, the roles of vasopressin and oxytocin in creating a sense intimacy as well as practical tips for improving emotional intimacy. ** My book Champion Thinking: How To Find Success Without Losing Yourself draws on some of my favourite interviews over the last six years. In it, I seek to challenge our ideas about 'success', and where peace, joy and fulfilment are truly to be found. 'This book captures the magic of being in flow . . . Highly recommend' RONNIE O'SULLIVAN 'Entertaining and enlightening' MATTHEW SYED 'This book will challenge your thinking on what success truly is and will give you tools to "succeed" in life in the truest sense of the world. This is definitely not just another book about sport and those who happen to be good at it' -- GOLDIE SAYERS 'The intention behind this book is beautiful, and I highly recommend it' RUPERT SPIRA 'The best guide we have to what it means to be human' AMOL RAJAN Order here: https://www.simonmundie.com/book Amazon: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Champion-Thinking-Success-Without-Yourself/dp/1526626497/ Website: simonmundie.com YouTube: https://tinyurl.com/YouTubeSimonMundie Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/simonmundie/ Substack Newsletter: https://simonmundie.substack.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What is attachment theory and why should I care? (2:02) The six chemicals of the brain and how they affect your attachment. (7:48) #1 – Cortisol. (7:56) #2 – Oxytocin. (8:53) #3 – Gaba. (9:45) #4 – Vasopressin. (10:06) #5 – Serotonin. (10:37) #6 – Dopamine. (11:06) Why avoidant behavior is a lone wolf mentality. (12:33) How do I connect with my kids better? (16:34) Practices to improve your avoidant attachment. (19:05) Common challenges with women with avoidant men. (27:43) Breaking down the 7 attachment styles we need to understand. (31:27) How to identify which attachment style you are. (38:42) Signs you need to address your attachment issues. (39:54) Percentage numbers of attachment issues. (41:18) Common mistakes good-willing parents make that could lead to issues. (43:43) What's missing in modern parenting/families? (45:01) Your kids are watching. (51:43) An exercise in how attachment can form in a child. (55:03) How to build secure attachment. (57:35) The goal of building peace mode. (1:02:18) Practices that can indirectly help your attachment style. (1:06:53) Why EVERYONE needs to be open to new relationships. (1:09:42) How to help ensure success. (1:13:55) What services does Adam offer? (1:16:42) Related Links/Products Mentioned Visit Adam Lane Smith's website for exclusive offers for Mind Pump listeners! ** MIND - Bootcamp 50% OFF | MIND30 - Avoidant Man 30% OFF | MIND20 - Coaching 20% OFF ** Visit Xero Shoes for an exclusive offer for Mind Pump listeners! ** Enter to win one of FIVE FREE pairs of Xero Shoes! ** May Promotion: MAPS Strong | MAPS Powerlift 50% off! ** Code MAY50 at checkout ** Mind Pump #2092: How To Cultivate Amazing Relationships With Adam Lane Smith Mind Pump #2185: Reclaiming Self-Love & Respect With Adam Lane Smith Mind Pump #2195: How To Make & Nurture Amazing Friendships With Adam Lane Smith Mind Pump #2205: Why Dating Sucks & How To Fix It With Adam Lane Smith Mind Pump #2215: Simple Hacks To Improve Any Marriage With Adam Lane Smith Mind Pump #2225: How To Be A Great Parent & Raise Successful Children With Adam Lane Smith Mind Pump Podcast – YouTube Mind Pump Free Resources Featured Guest/People Mentioned Adam | Relationship Psychology (@attachmentadam) Instagram Podcast Adam Lane Smith – YouTube Email: support@adamlanesmith.com C. Sue Carter - Kinsey Institute Dr. Glover  

Jamie Becker shares research and her insight into how self-censorship is currently impacting our school libraries.   I would like to thank composer Nazar Rybak at Hooksounds.com for the music you've heard today.   Capstone *use UNITED for $20 off $100 or more on print and ebooks Editable PD Certificate FAQ's and ISO (In search of…) Online Doctoral Programs APA format for citing a podcast/podcast app SLU Playlists Search by title, guest and location! Have YOUR Say!!! Share your ideas on the next episode! THAT Librarian apparel and flair! Pre-order signed copy of Amanda Jones' book “That Librarian” Our next book club pick: Just Read It by Jarred Amato  Instructions and 14 Questions for our next book club episode Jamie Becker X: @librarianofnote E17 Self-Censorship is Real (Jan 2019!) E126 Juggling Our MANY Roles Presentation: MASL April 2024 Lane Smith's It's a Book SLJ: The Cover-Up: Andrew Bauld (May 1, 2024)   

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On this week's OSL, we're back from the road and reviewing a couple new ones, like the latest from horror heavyweights, Radio Silence, Abigail, along with Luca Guadagnino's sex & tennis drama, Challengers. We're also giving our first reactions to the trailer for M. Night Shyamalan's new thriller, Trap, going over the weekend box office, forgetting that Lane Smith's been dead for twenty years, and more! Don't miss the WHM Texas Two-Step! This May we're doing two nights in the Lone Star state, starting in Houston on 5/14, talking Robocop 2 at the Houston Improv! Then on 5/15, night two is happening in Austin, where we'll be talking about one of our faves, From Dusk Till Dawn, at Cap City Comedy! Click through here for all ticketing information! And be sure to scope out our new NIGHT VISION and TOO OLD FOR THIS SHIT merch designs in our Tee Public shop! On-Screen Live airs Mondays @ noon/EST on our YouTube and Twitch channels, so subscribe to the show on both!

Sensitive Content Warning: This episode contains discussions on sensitive topics including mental health, historical events, and personal and societal challenges related to attachment theory. Some content may be emotionally impactful as it addresses complex issues such as relationship dynamics, mental health struggles, and societal changes. Listener discretion is advised, especially for those who may find topics of mental health distressing. The views expressed by the guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of The Blueprint Podcast or its hosts. In this insightful episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith engages in a deep dive with guest Adam Lane Smith, an expert in attachment theory. Adam shares his personal journey from grappling with attachment issues in a challenging environment to choosing a career in therapy to help others overcome similar struggles. He emphasizes the critical importance of attachment theory in understanding and addressing broader social problems. Adam elaborates on the prevailing misconceptions within the academic sphere regarding attachment theory, underscoring its foundational role in building healthier societal structures. He discusses his encounters with leading experts and integrates cutting-edge research into his practice, reinforcing attachment theory's relevance across various interpersonal connections. The conversation also explores the dire state of attachment in today's youth, with Adam highlighting alarming statistics about the prevalence of insecure attachments. He stresses the urgency of addressing these issues to prevent further societal deterioration. Adam's narrative is rich with historical context, connecting past societal shifts to current attachment challenges. He discusses the impacts of significant events like World Wars and the Industrial Revolution on family dynamics and societal health, offering a comprehensive perspective on the developmental origins of current attachment styles. This episode not only illuminates the critical implications of attachment theory but also serves as a call to action for listeners to reflect on and improve their own relational dynamics. Adam's deep expertise and passionate advocacy for understanding and addressing attachment issues make this a compelling and educational listen. Youtube: www.youtube.com/@AttachmentAdam Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/about/ Instagram: instagram.com/attachmentadam Twitter: twitter.com/adamlanesmith Email: support@adamlanesmith.com TikTok: tiktok.com/@attachmentbro Disclaimer: The training is intended for informational and educational purposes, it is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Please consult your medical professional before making changes to your diet, exercise routine, medical regimen, lifestyle, and/or mental health care. Your background, education, experience, and work ethic may differ. There is no guarantee of success. Individuals do not track the typicality of its student's experiences. Your results may vary.

Avoidant attachment created the Girlboss movement, daycare fostered a radioactive culture, and over 50% of Americans have an unhealthy attachment style - but it doesn't have to stay that way! Attachment Specialist Adam Lane Smith addresses how to heal a broken attachment style and his concerns for Gen Alpha's lack of secure attachments. Learn why the four attachment styles develop and how they affect your personal, work, and romantic relationships.Sign up for the Attachment Bootcamp Course and take 50% OFF with code Alex50https://adam-smith.mykajabi.com/a/2147518127/todYsYXwWebsite: AdamLaneSmith.comTwitter: @AdamLaneSmithYoutube: @AttachmentAdamInstagram: @AttachmentAdamTikTok: @AttachmentBro. Secure your spot at Turning Point USA's Young Women's Leadership Summit using code ALEX for 25% at www.ywls.com.Support American farms and shop GOOD RANCHERS for FREE HAM with code CLARK. https://www.goodranchers.com/ Ditch artificial fragrances for your family by switching to ALEAVIA organic prebiotic body wash and use code: ALEX15 for 15% off. https://www.aleavia.com/Elevate your skincare routine with NIMI SKINCARE! Go to https://www.nimiskincare.com/ and use promo code ALEXCLARK to get 10% off your order..Looking for like-minded friends? Join the Cuteservative Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1234544066933796/ Listen at 9 PM PST/ MIDNIGHT EASTERN every Thursday by subscribing to ‘The Spillover' on Apple Podcasts and Spotify ☕️✨Support the show

“We're playing pool with Captain Heart Attack here…” - Eric on this movie's police captain On this week's episode, we're kicking off the 2024 Listener Request Month with a dirty-ass 1970's-feeling cop movie that came out in 1989, Night Game! Why is Roy Scheider's character making such a big deal out of this gifted television set? Can that future mother-in-law just take it down a notch or two? Why is that police chief character looking like he's about to have a heart attack in every scene? Why does this movie focus so much on Roy Scheider's upcoming wedding? And is this actually a slasher movie? PLUS: Hilarious fuck-ups from famous serial killers!  Night Game stars Roy Scheider, Karen Young, Richard Bradford, Paul Gleason, Carlin Glynn, Anthony Palmer, Alex Morris, Rex Linn, and Lane Smith as Witty; directed by Peter Masterson.  This week's episode is brought to you in part by Bespoke Post! Get a free Mystery Gift with your first monthly shipment when you sign up at Box of Awesome DOT COM and enter the code WHM at checkout. That's Box of Awesome DOT COM, code WHM for a free Mystery Gift with your first monthly shipment. Box of Awesome DOT COM, code WHM! Be sure to catch us on tour this spring, gang! We'll be hitting Atlanta, Houston and Austin and we wanna see you come out! Head over to our tour page and get them tix! In Atlanta we're talking about Gerard Butler in Gamer, Houston is a W❤️M on Robocop 2, and in Austin we're doing another W❤️M celebrating the great Robert Rodriguez movie, From Dusk Till Dawn! Make the WHM Merch Store your one-stop shop for all your We Hate Movies merch-related needs! Including new Time Runner, Polish Decoy, ‘Jack Kirby', and Forrest the Universal Soldier designs!

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Embark on a transformative expedition with me and engage in a compelling conversation with attachment specialist Adam Lane. Together, we strip away the layers of dependent attachment in men, revealing how early childhood experiences seed a lifelong struggle for validation. Our heartfelt dialogue exposes the pitfalls of people-pleasing and the deep-seated fear of abandonment, often masked by a veneer of success. We shed light on the journey towards self-awareness and the courage to forge healthier, more fulfilling relationships, offering a beacon of hope for those ready to break the cycle.Venture further into the heart of masculinity as we reflect on the shifting sands of male roles throughout history, from the Lost Generation to the current crisis facing men. We stitch together a narrative of redemption, redefining the meaning of strength and leadership in an age where purpose and values take center stage. Listen as we examine the transformative power of vulnerability in the sacred domains of marriage and fatherhood, where true leadership embodies both openness and decisiveness. It's a clarion call for men to stand tall, reimagining traditional roles with integrity and leading with a compass of character.In a world often fixated on superficial measures of success, we challenge the stereotype of the 'high-value man,' opting instead to celebrate the essence of masculinity grounded in self-mastery and the commitment to uplift others. Our insightful exchange underscores the urgent need for brotherhood amidst the loneliness epidemic plaguing young men, and the pivotal role that genuine male camaraderie plays in building resilient communities. Tune in for an episode that not only reawakens the foundational principles of masculinity but also ignites a flame of inspiration for the pursuit of a more authentic, connected life.Introducing the 60 Day Deal Finder!Visit: www.MartinREIMastery.comUse the Coupon Code: WEALTHYAFfor 20% off! This episode is brought to you by Skilled Property Finders - Home of the 21 Day Close!We will close on your property in 21 days or less OR we'll pay an additional $5,000. Visit www.skilledpropertyfinders.com to find out more.Support the show

Wellness + Wisdom | Episode 610 How can you and your partner become a team and make your differences complement each other? Adam Lane Smith, Attachment Specialist, joins Josh Trent on the Wellness + Wisdom Podcast, episode 610, to share how attachment styles are formed in your early childhood, why men and women are designed to work as a team, and how love transforms your life. "Male and female brains are designed to work together as a system. They must or everything falls apart. They're not meant to work individually. Men go forward and build and expand. Women follow afterward and they fill the space that men have built. They're the ones that make the structures that men create so much richer and better, but they rely upon men to build those structures in the first place to build safety and prioritize that as men push outward." - Adam Lane Smith Live Life Well from Sunrise to Sunset Save 20% with code "WELLNESSFORCE" on everyone's favorite Superfoods brand, ORGANIFI, including their Sunrise to Sunset Bundle and their Women's Power Stack that includes HARMONY + GLOW for true hormonal balance and great health radiating through your beautiful skin. Click HERE to order your Organifi today. Are You Stressed Out Lately? Take a deep breath with the M21™ wellness guide: a simple yet powerful 21 minute morning system that melts stress and gives you more energy through 6 science-backed practices and breathwork. Click HERE to download for free. 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This course will show you how to: • Address attachment issues at their core • Overcome your fears of rejection, abandonment, and vulnerability • Learn to respect yourself • Repel toxic people • Attract loving friends and partners • Create trusting bonds with your loved ones • Build relationships based on mutual fulfillment • Stop worrying about what others think of you 50% off with code "JOSH" This is your chance to build trust in yourself, overcome loneliness, bond with others, improve your dating game, find peace in marriage, and build a lasting love. If you want to end your fear cycles and take control of your relationships with simple steps, this course will teach you how. In This Episode, Adam Lane Smith Uncovers: [01:30] Men Are Problem Solvers Adam Lane Smith The Attachment Bootcamp Course - 50% off with code "JOSH" Mind Pump Media The Map of Consciousness Explained: A Proven Energy Scale to Actualize Your Ultimate Potential by David Hawkins Why people living in the middle of California suffer with a lot of depression and family problems. What motivated Adam to help people. Men's brain works differently than women's brain. Why men always search for solutions. [07:05] Men VS Women 512 Alison Armstrong: Unconscious Emasculation, What Women Don't Understand About Men + How To Get The Love You Want Why men build and expand, while women improve the structures. Male and female brains are designed to work together. 533 SOLOCAST | Feminism Unwrapped: How The PSYOP of a Century Brainwashed Modern Women (and Men) 543 Kelly Brogan MD | How to Love ALL Your Parts + Be Self-Sovereign The psychology behind hate against different groups. Why men and women see each other as a threat. [11:10] Attachment Theory How Adam teaches his clients about the attachment theory. People judge based on their own fears. Why men seek sex to get approval. 50% of American adults have an attachment issue. Why we need to make our children feel loved and seen. How parents' behavior towards their children makes the children create transactional relationships with others. [19:20] Love Transforms Your Life If you've never felt love, your life will be more fearful than it should be. How romantic relationships change your life. The absence of love makes it harder for people to believe in God. How Adam helps people find out what's missing in their lives. The importance of having models to see what is possible and how to achieve it. Finding experiences that will prove your childhood beliefs are not true. [25:30] Feelings Are Information Stopping one behavior doesn't create a transformation unless you replace it with a new behavior. B. F. Skinner Pain is only information. How you can use your feelings as data for healing. Feelings are not always right. [32:00] Women + Relationships How feelings guide women. Why we need to remember that we are a team as a man and woman. How men shut off the value women bring to the relationship. Why relationships and resources define female status. Healthy women form family structures that create intimacy. [37:35] The Truth About Venting 435 Dr. John Gray | Wellness In Relationships: Testosterone, Estrogen, Semen Retention & Sexual Polarity The problem with complaining about your partner. How solution-problem venting can help your relationship. 595 Relationship Death + Rebirth: How to Let Love Lead Again + Let Go of The Anxious-Avoidant Dance (Margo Running + Carrie Michelle) Johnny Blackburn 538 John Wineland | A New Masculine Paradigm: Leading With Love, Living Your Truth + Healing The World The importance of understanding how the two sides of the brain work. Why men can't solve all problems on their own. [45:30] The Roots of Racism + Men's Search for Affection Racism is learned in early childhood. How emotional reactions are perceived by children. Why some people get angry at Adam's social media posts. How some men think Adam is not the right man who can provide relationship advice based on his appearance. Why many men are searching for affection but don't know how to get it. [52:35] The Dysfunction of The Tough Guy Andrew Tate David Goggins Why warrior cultures have an avoidant attachment style. A study proved that oxytocin increases a father's affection towards his children. How low oxytocin makes men more tough and less affectionate. Why anger is more powerful than despair. [55:45] The Warrior Gene + Rebirth of Masculinity Be Useful: Seven Tools for Life by Arnold Schwarzenegger The warrior gene (MAO-A) blocks re-uptake of dopamine when you're angry, causing anger to make you feel better. How the Vikings spread the MAO-A gene throughout Europe. Why masculinity nearly died off in the West and women took over. Why men need to master total personal sovereignty and responsibility to reconnect with their masculine energy. 293 Dr. Jade Teta: How To Be A Next Level Human Why masculinity needs to serve a purpose to have a meaning. [01:04:55] Porn Addiction Josh's journey of porn addiction. Your Brain on Porn by Gary Wilson Porn addiction is only a symptom. The role of hormones in attachment. Why hormones are not released properly if you have an attachment issue. How porn replaces dopamine that you should get from human interaction. [01:11:30] Attachment Styles How Josh's children and partner are teaching him what love is. People who have anxious attachment were withdrawn love and believe something is wrong with them. Why avoidant attachment didn't receive enough love and often try to manipulate people into loving them. How can one person switch between anxious and avoidant attachment. [01:17:40] Secure Attachment in Relationships Attachment style is not a sentence, it can be changed. Only 35% of people have a secure attachment style. Why Adam chooses to talk with his children instead of yelling and controlling them. What secure attachment looks like in relationships. [01:20:30] Healing Attachment During Conflict How to know if a person is right for us. Learning to navigate conflict in order to heal your attachment together with your partner. The importance of collaboration during conflict. No case is hopeless if you are willing to do the work. Why humans need to collectively solve problems. Leave Wellness + Wisdom a Review on Apple Podcasts Power Quotes From The Show Vasopressin Hormone "One of the biggest indicators of a long-term, healthy, stable marriage is vasopressin. Vasopressin is a hormone released when we solve and overcome problems together and work as a team. Women detect that through feelings. They intuitively safeguard their relationships. That is why wives crave to be listened to, trusted, and have their feelings mean something to their husband." - Adam Lane Smith Men's Brain Works Differently Than Women's Brain "When a man is in a conversation with a woman and she's sharing her feelings, he's observing and then he jumps to a solution to fix her problems. He's shutting her up. The message she's getting is: I don't care. I don't want to listen." - Adam Lane Smith Love Is Everything "Love is everything. When you discover what real love is and you experience it with one human being, whether that's a friend or a partner, it changes everything because the world has 10 new colors in it, 10 new smells, 10 new realities. Everything opens up in a way that never existed before and suddenly things start to make sense and there is suddenly joy and hope." - Adam Lane Smith Links From Today's Show  Adam Lane Smith The Attachment Bootcamp Course - 50% off with code "JOSH" Mind Pump Media The Map of Consciousness Explained: A Proven Energy Scale to Actualize Your Ultimate Potential by David Hawkins 512 Alison Armstrong: Unconscious Emasculation, What Women Don't Understand About Men + How To Get The Love You Want 533 SOLOCAST | Feminism Unwrapped: How The PSYOP of a Century Brainwashed Modern Women (and Men) 543 Kelly Brogan MD | How to Love ALL Your Parts + Be Self-Sovereign B. F. 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Adam Lane Smith, licensed psychotherapist and Attachment Specialist, transforms relationships from blue-collar families to CEOs. With his Attachment Bootcamp and personalized coaching, he guides clients on a transformative journey to authentic connections and fulfilling relationships. In this episode Adam and Sathiya discuss: [01:02] Attachment through a neurobiological lens [07:57] The impact of dopamine and addiction [09:42] Oxytocin addiction and its social component [12:17] The importance of security and psychological safety [14:57] Challenges in modeling healthy relationships [16:46] The Smell of Family [17:41] Anxious Attachment [18:28] Rising Loneliness [19:27] Men's Loneliness [20:18] Impact of Upbringing [21:51] Vasopressin Bonding [23:09] Teaching and Bonding [24:00] Male Solution Network [26:22] Balancing Bonding [27:15] Renewing Bonds [30:33] Addressing Affairs [32:55] Fighting Dopamine Dependency [33:21] The porn issue [34:12] Effects of porn addiction [35:05] Erectile dysfunction and porn addiction [36:45] Building healthy relationships [38:17] Vasopressin and oxytocin in relationships [40:39] Micro cheating and its impact [44:45] Roots of attachment theory interest [48:44] Instilling secure attachment in children Check out the Bootcamp Course of AdamFollow Adam Lane Smith on Instagram and also on YoutubeBook A Call With Sathiya's TeamFor more Free Resources, check this outFollow Sathiya on Instagram

Adam Lane Smith, licensed psychotherapist and Attachment Specialist, transforms relationships from blue-collar families to CEOs. With his Attachment Bootcamp and personalized coaching, he guides clients on a transformative journey to authentic connections and fulfilling relationships.In this episode Adam and Sathiya discuss:[03:50] Oxytocin and Attachment[04:27] Brain Chemicals and Attachment[08:33] Impact of Dopamine[11:05] Oxytocin Addiction[12:21] Psychological Safety and Attachment[16:10] Impact of Family Dynamics[16:46] The impact of early adoption trauma[18:27] The epidemic of loneliness among men[20:17] The crisis of masculinity and male bonding[23:08] The power of teaching and vasopressin bonding[30:33] The impact of dopamine and the challenge of fidelity[33:21] The porn issue and its impact[34:12] Physiological aspects of attachment and pornography[35:05] Erectile dysfunction and attachment issues[36:44] Improving attachment through foreplay[38:16] Vasopressin and oxytocin in relationships[40:38] Micro cheating and its consequences[44:45] Adam Lane Smith's journey into attachment theory[48:44] Recommendations for instilling secure attachment in children[50:00] Introducing the Podcast[50:23] Connecting with Other Podcast Hosts[51:01] Discussing Potential Podcast Guests Check out the Bootcamp Course of AdamFollow Adam Lane Smith on Instagram and also on YoutubeBook A Call With Sathiya's TeamFor more Free Resources, check this outFollow Sathiya on Instagram

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I've spent a lot of time over the past 18 months looking into the various attachment styles of men – anxious, avoidant, and secure. I think we all intuitively know that “secure” is the best place to be, but the question is, “How do we get there?” It's especially difficult considering our engrained attachment style drives so much of our decision-making process – much of which is subconscious. My guest today is licensed psychotherapist and attachment specialist, Adam Lane Smith. Today, Adam and I discuss building secure, sustainable relationships, why responsibility breeds security and why we subconsciously avoid it, how the chemicals, Oxytocin and Vasopressin, drive our emotional and problem-solving connections, and why every man needs to work on building his “male solution network.”   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Building secure and sustainable relationships Why responsibility breeds security, and why we subconsciously avoid it How the chemicals oxytocin and vasopressin drive our emotional and problem solving connections Why ever man needs to work on building his male solution network The different attachment styles seen in men Modern day dating The 5 clusters that are relied on to create healthy and secure attachment Modern femininity versus masculinity Building emotional intimacy   JOIN the Iron Council brotherhood.   Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel   Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Adam Lane Smith is a transformative force in the field of personal development and relationships. He's Leveraged years of professional experience as a licensed psychotherapist into becoming a highly sought-after Attachment Specialist and personal coach. His clients includeregular families hoping to mend marital troubles. high-power executives striving for harmony in parenting, millionaire CEOs navigating the intricate world of dating and more.  Today on the show we discuss in depth 7 relationship lessons that most people learn too late and much more. Connect with Adam: Instagram Website Podcast ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you've consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org.  SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Installment #4: How to be a great parent and raise successful children. (1:24) Topics covered in this segment. (2:03) Why modern parenting is SO hard. (3:37) How people view parenting today. (10:55) How attachment issues poison parents. (18:08) How kids get wrecked. (20:37) Fixing your attachment is going to help. (23:55) The model of apprentice adults. (25:32) Building a self-correcting family system. (26:11) The 10-minute daily approach. (32:50) Raise adults so that you can be friends with them in adulthood. (35:16) Tactics for successful co-parenting. (38:34) How to raise kids who succeed in this world. (45:19) Taking an assessment. (53:52) Previewing installment #6: An unfiltered conversation with Sara Dawn Moore on all the things people are afraid to ask an attachment specialist. (54:45) Related Links/Products Mentioned Visit The Attachment Bootcamp for an exclusive offer for Mind Pump listeners! **Promo code MIND at checkout for 50% off** Limited time offer exclusively for Mind Pump Listeners get a FREE at-home Vitamin D Test (just pay shipping & handling) + Health Coaching Call – Reserve yours today here December Promotion: MAPS Old Time Strength | MAPS OCR 50% off! ** Code DECEMBER50 at checkout ** Mind Pump #2185: Reclaiming Self-Love & Respect With Adam Lane Smith Mind Pump #2195: How To Make & Nurture Amazing Friendships With Adam Lane Smith Mind Pump #2205: Why Dating Sucks & How To Fix It With Adam Lane Smith Mind Pump #2215: Simple Hacks To Improve Any Marriage With Adam Lane Smith “You have spent 90% of your time with your children when they turn 18 years old” Millennials aren't having kids. Here's why. - The Washington Post Suicide and Homicide Death Rates Among Youth and Young Adults Aged 10–24: United States, 2001–2021 Mind Pump Podcast – YouTube Mind Pump Free Resources Featured Host/People Mentioned Adam | Relationship Psychology (@attachmentadam) Instagram Website Adam Lane Smith - YouTube Email: support@adamlanesmith.com Sarah Dawn Moore (@sarahdawnmoore) Instagram

Installment #4: How to make marriage work in this complicated world. (1:30) Topics covered in this segment. (2:01) Staggering statistics on divorce. (5:02) Is there a reason to get married? (8:25) How people view marriage today. (11:36) Why do people cheat? (16:47) How attachment issues poison marriages over time. (21:36) The kid complication factor. (25:12) Any marriage can be fixed, as long as both partners are willing to do the work to fix it. (30:12) Treating marriage like a business. (35:57) The State of the Union meeting to check in on your marriage. (42:15) The four-step method to share with your wife to boost her emotional sex drive. (47:04) How women can get men to vasopressin bond with them. (58:38) Creating the oxytocin/vasopressin bond for a healthy marriage and sex life. (1:02:17) Previewing installment #5: Parenting with good attachment. (1:10:00) Related Links/Products Mentioned BLACK FRIDAY SPECIAL: ALL MAPS Fitness Products & Bundles 60% off!  **Promo code BLACKFRIDAY at checkout** (Code expires Sunday Nov. 26th) Visit The Attachment Bootcamp for an exclusive offer for Mind Pump listeners! **Promo code MIND at checkout for 50% off** Visit PRx Performance for an exclusive offer for Mind Pump listeners! Exhausted Wives, Bewildered Husbands: Why your marriage is hurting, and how to blossom as a couple – Book by Adam Lane Smith Mind Pump #2185: Reclaiming Self-Love & Respect With Adam Lane Smith Mind Pump #2195: How To Make & Nurture Amazing Friendships With Adam Lane Smith Mind Pump #2205: Why Dating Sucks & How To Fix It With Adam Lane Smith Marriage & Divorce - Research and data from Pew Research Center Infidelity Rates by Country 2023 - World Population Review Breastfeeding and Mental Health: What's The Link? Adam Lane Smith - YouTube Steve Harvey's Wife CHEATS ON HIM , And Now Wants $200 MILL !? The Science of Love and Attachment | Psychology Today Mind Pump Podcast – YouTube Mind Pump Free Resources Featured Host Adam | Relationship Psychology (@attachmentadam) Instagram Website

Adam Lane Smith is “The Attachment Specialist”, helping people heal, connect, and build relationships. Leveraging years of professional experience as a licensed psychotherapist, he has honed his craft as a highly sought-after Attachment Specialist and personal coach. He has helped people from a variety of lifestyles, from blue collar families with marital troubles to millionaire CEOs looking for dating help, or anyone looking to fix their dating life, marriage, or overall health of all relationships.  In this episode, Larry Hagner and guest Adam Lane Smith discuss the topic of attachment and its impact on relationships and marriages. They delve into their personal backgrounds and how their upbringing shaped their attachment styles. They also highlight the prevalence of attachment issues in today's society, with research showing that a significant majority of adults in America struggle with attachment. Attachment shapes our relationships in profound ways. It is the way we connect with other human beings, giving and receiving love. Our attachment style is learned from our caregivers, primarily our parents, and it forms the foundation for how we relate to others throughout our lives. Adam Lane Smith further explains that attachment issues can stem from various factors, including neglect, abuse, absent parents, or inconsistent caregiving. When children experience these adverse circumstances, their brains often internalize the belief that something is wrong with them or with others. This belief shapes their attachment style and influences how they connect with others. Recognizing and understanding our attachment style is crucial for personal growth and building healthier relationships. Therapy and self-reflection can help individuals address and heal from attachment wounds. By gaining insight into our attachment patterns, we can work towards developing more secure and fulfilling connections with others. www.thedadedge.com/450 www.thedadedge.com/alliance  www.adamlanesmith.com/courses  

Installment #3: Why dating is so complicated in the modern world and how your attachment style is impacting your dating life. (1:51) Topics covered in this segment. (2:22) Why does modern dating suck so bad? (3:37) Why dating apps are bad. (13:11) Build your social life because it does 15 things for your dating life. (21:27) The art of matchmaking. (26:50) How to find people on apps and filter more carefully. (29:21) Four steps to a better dating app experience. (32:28) The 3-date method for filtering your potential partner. (39:07) Courting vs. dating. (48:38) The purpose of the first year of being in a committed relationship. (50:30) Previewing installment #4: How to build an incredible marriage that can last all through your lifetime. (57:22) Related Links/Products Mentioned Visit The Attachment Bootcamp for an exclusive offer for Mind Pump listeners! **Promo code MIND at checkout for 50% off** http://mpadamsmith.com/   For a limited time only, Mind Pump listeners get a free LMNT Sample Pack with any purchase: Visit DrinkLMNT.com/MindPump   November Promotion: MAPS Resistance | MAPS Prime Pro 50% off! **Code NOVEMBER50 at checkout** http://mapsfitnessproducts.com/   Mind Pump #2185: Reclaiming Self-Love & Respect With Adam Lane Smith https://mindpumppodcast.com/2185-reclaiming-self-love-respect-with-adam-lane-smith/   Mind Pump #2195: How To Make & Nurture Amazing Friendships With Adam Lane Smith https://mindpumppodcast.com/2195-how-to-make-nurture-amazing-friendships-with-adam-lane-smith/   Dating Apps Statistics: User Demographics, Trends, Success Rates https://techreport.com/statistics/dating-apps-statistics/   Mind Pump Podcast – YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCq0hKkwnW5Cw1wQqu455WrA   Mind Pump Free Resources http://www.mindpumpfree.com/ Featured Host Adam | Relationship Psychology (@attachmentadam) Instagram   Website https://adamlanesmith.com/  

This is the second installment with attachment specialist, Adam Lane Smith.

In this episode, licensed psychotherapist and highly sought-after Attachment Specialist, Adam Lane Smith, provides actionable insight on how to reclaim respect and care for yourself to improve your life and your relationships.