Trying To Figure It Out

I'm launching Season 4 with a solo BIRTHDAY episode. Today it's just you and me - and I am officially 27. We are no longer rounding down, I am in my late 20s and I can sit here and say that I've finally figured some things out. But first, life updates. I'll let you know where the f I've been for the last 10 months. I've missed you guys. Also in this episode, we'll talk about the absurd life timeline I set for myself when I was younger, and how I have met absolutely zero of these “milestones.” STORYTIME! The Clarins Icons Event was my first brand event in a long time, and I can actually report that we had a blast. We'll talk managing friendships, finding your confidence, and, of course, I'll offer a gentle reminder to be fucking nice to yourself. ENJOY! Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Executive Producer: Annie Gottlieb Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett Additional Support: Jillian Himmelwright

We're back this week with a solo episode! Get cozy with me and dive into the mid-twenties scaries. I've had some time to reflect since the last solo episode and I share with you how I've been feeling recently about my childhood home selling. What do you do when your home is no longer your home? With the house being gone, I've had to tackle the challenge of changing my address on EVERYTHING – IDs, credit cards, bills, you name it. Life has been coming at me fast lately now that I'm 26 and apparently it's all thanks to my frontal lobe maturing. Welcome to my fully-formed brain. Enjoy! Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett Additional Support: Jillian Himmelwright

Lily Rosenthal joins me on Trying To Figure It Out this week for SUCH a fun episode. Lily is the queen of the LA food scene and she dishes out recommendations that would make any foodie drool. Lily and I take a trip back to her childhood and she shares what it was like growing up on the set of Everybody Loves Raymond. Lily's dad, Phil Rosenthal, was the creator, writer, and executive producer of the show, and Lily gets real about the influence her dad has had on her and her career path. You'll hear all about her family's infamous Sunday movie nights where actors, writers, and directors across Hollywood join the Rosenthals at their home for homemade pizza and a movie. And Lily also tells the story of her and her boyfriend's amazing meet cute; he's a chef, of course. We finish with a rapidfire segment of some of Lily's top recommendations throughout Los Angeles. You'll learn which restaurant has the best smashburger, what her absolute favorite bagel is, where to celebrate your next birthday, and what her Erewhon hot take is. Get excited, I know you're going to love this one. Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett and Tristan Pelletier Additional Support: Jillian Himmelwright

Addie McCracken joins Trying To Figure It Out this week for her very first public interview. Opening up like never before, Addie shares some of the challenges she faced in high school and what went through her head when she found out she was pregnant with Rustyn at 19 years old. Brady and Rustyn join us as well and Rustyn is as chatty and adorable as ever. You'll learn all about Addie and Brady's parenting style and how Rustyn became so talkative at such a young age. Addie shares how social media has changed her family's life for the better and we get a sneak peek at Addie and Brady's upcoming wedding plans! I loved getting to meet the whole family – Addie, Brady, and Rustyn bring so much joy with them and I know you'll feel that through this episode too. Enjoy! Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett and Tristan Pelletier Research: Jillian Himmelwright

This week's episode is a Disneyland vlog! Check it out on the Trying To Figure It Out with Ally Petitti YouTube channel. Tune in for all my insider tips, can't-miss rides, and where you have to eat. Enjoy! Watch here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KSUmrSWFfbo Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock

Kristi Howard, the Queen of Getting Banned, joins me this week on Trying To Figure It Out for an incredible conversation. Kristi gets real about her anxiety and explains how she's working on saying “yes” to more social outings, even though she might rather stay at home in bed. Kristi also opens up like never before about the loss of her older sister to addiction. Kristi shares what it was like watching her sister succumb to the disease all because of one decision she made at 14 years old. We have a very raw and candid conversation about addiction and I am so grateful to Kristi for being so open with me. This episode discusses adult subject matter, including descriptions of drug abuse and addiction, and is intended for adult consumption only. Listener discretion is advised. If you or someone you know is struggling, free, confidential support is available 24/7 through SAMHSA at 800.662.4357 and online at samhsa.gov. Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett and Tristan Pelletier Research: Jillian Himmelwright

Real-life Gossip Girl Kristi Cook joins TTFIO this week. It's been six months since Kristi revealed that she is the woman behind the ultra-popular celebrity news account Spill Sesh. For the past five years, Kristi has been running Spill Sesh on YouTube and bringing fans all the celebrity gossip they could need. After we hash out all our thoughts on the Met Gala, Kristi shares what went into her decision to start her account anonymously and how her content has changed since she revealed her identity. We talk about how to deal with internet hate and the pressure that comes with posting online. As usual, we wrap up with Al P's Three and Kristi has some true bops to add to the playlist. Enjoy! Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Out now on all podcast platforms. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Follow Kristi/Spill Sesh on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SpillSesh Follow Kristi/Spill Sesh on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spillsesh_yt?lang=en Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett and Anshul Shankhdhar Research: Jillian Himmelwright

This week on Trying To Figure It Out we are diving into all things polyamory. Poly therapist and expert Dr. Manijeh Badiee is here to answer all your questions and share her own experiences in polyamorous relationships. Dr. Badiee lays out all the basics of what polyamory is, and then explains what configurations polyamory can take and what you need to consider before entering a poly relationship. How do you deal with feelings of jealousy? What's the difference between non-monogamy, polyamory, and an open relationship? What boundaries or rules should you set in a poly relationship? Dr. Badiee shares what has worked for her and her two life partners over the years and also brings her wisdom as a therapist working with poly individuals and couples. There is so much to learn. Have you always been curious about polyamory? This episode is for you. Enjoy! Additional resources: Dr. Badiee's website: https://www.polytherapist.com/ RADAR worksheet: https://www.multiamory.com/radar Polyamory Devotional: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/122758252-a-polyamory-devotional Polysecure and Polywise: https://www.jessicafern.com/books Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett and Tristan Pelletier Research: Jillian Himmelwright

Ana Wolfermann joins Ally on Trying To Figure It Out this week and opens up about things she's never shared publicly before. The pair discuss how difficult it was for Ana when her family immigrated to the United States from Venezuela and how her entire worldview is tied to her identity as an immigrant. Then, for the very first time, Ana opens up about her college relationship. Ally asks all the questions you want to know…How did he really feel about being in her TikTok videos? Why did they break up? Does Ana miss him? Ana responds very candidly and then shares what dating in New York has been like over the past year. Finally, Ana talks about her decision to quit full-time influencing and why she wanted to get a corporate 9-5 job. She reveals what her new job is and what it's been like balancing the role with creating content. Thought you knew everything about Ana Wolfermann? Think again. Enjoy! Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett and Tristan Pelletier Research and Additional Supportt: Jillian Himmelwright

Get ready to make some comfort food because I'm taking you into my kitchen for this week's solo episode. I walk you through how to make my grandma's famous eggplant parm while I get real with you about how I've been doing lately. My childhood home is for sale, which has unleashed so many realizations for me about getting older and growing up. Does anyone really know what they're doing in their mid-twenties? To put the cherry on top, my twenty-sixth birthday is coming up and I don't feel like celebrating at all. All that more this week on Trying To Figure It Out. Enjoy your eggplant parm! Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett and Tristan Pelletier Additional Support: Jillian Himmelwright

Mind your manners! This week on TTFIO we are talking all about etiquette. Sara Jane Ho is a Harvard Business School grad, a Netflix star, a manners expert, and an etiquette institute founder. She joins me to talk all about how she is redefining etiquette in the modern world. It's not all about sticking your pinky out when you hold a glass or being able to balance a book on top of your head; Sara Jane shares how etiquette can be a playbook for helping you navigate social situations with ease. You'll get tips on what to do on a first date, how to approach an argument with your partner, how to make friends in a new city, and whether you should look someone in the eyes when you're making a toast. Check out Sara Jane Ho's new book, Mind Your Manners: How to Be Your Best Self in Any Situation. Available now! Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett and Tristan Pelletier Research: Jillian Himmelwright

Celebrity facial plastic surgeon Dr. Jason Diamond joins me this week on TTFIO to talk all about botox, facelifts, facial sculpting, and more. Dr. Diamond has worked with celebrities like the Kardashians, Chrissy Teigen, and Katy Perry to help them look and feel their best. Today he is here to talk all about how he grew into one of the most highly sought-after plastic surgeons and the care that he provides. I ask him all your burning questions about facial plastic surgery: What procedures do celebrities ask for? What exactly is Ozempic face? Should celebrities disclose when they've had work done? All that and more! You'll definitely want to tune in. Check out Dr. Diamond's skincare line, Metacine, which is inspired by Dr. Diamond's practices and procedures: https://drdiamondsmetacine.com/ Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett and Tristan Pelletier Research: Jillian Himmelwright

TTFIO is BACK. In this solo episode I start off with some life updates; you'll hear all about my trip to the Super Bowl and my newest hobby that has also helped me save so much money. Next I get real with you and dive into my people-pleasing tendencies. I've been a people pleaser my whole life and today I talk about how it's continued to affect my friendships and social anxiety in my twenties. I'm just trying to figure it out! The episode ends with a deep dive into the trunk of my car…it's a place where things go and are never seen again. Until today! There's a lot of weird sh*t in there, so tune in and see what we find. Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett

Brian Austin Green of Beverly Hills, 90210 joins me on Trying To Figure It Out this week. He tells the story of how he got started in the television industry at nine years old and what it was like to be on one of the most successful shows by age seventeen. Brian opens up about his marriage to Megan Fox and how much more difficult it became once fame and paparazzi got involved. Brian and Megan have three kids together and he shares how they've navigated co-parenting and dating new people post-divorce. The past few years have been difficult for Brian, and he talks about the health condition that was wreaking havoc on his body. Be sure to tune in! You can listen to more from Brian on his podcast, Oldish. Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Research and support: Jillian Himmelwright and Kayla Cunningham Camera/Audio: Ilja Maran and Nathan Sacharow

Paul Johansson of One Tree Hill joins me this week on Trying To Figure It Out. We discuss how Paul went from playing professional basketball to joining the cast of One Tree Hill and which character he originally wanted to audition for. Paul played the infamous villain of One Tree Hill, Dan Scott, and he talks about the toll that the character took on his mental health. You'll learn some of Paul's stage secrets about how he approached Dan's character and some of the motivations behind Dan's actions. We talk about *that episode* and Paul reveals how difficult it was for him to kill off one of his best friends on the show, Craig Sheffer. Paul shares how leaving the show helped manage his depression and alcoholism, and he discusses all of the things he's been up to now that his mental health is in a better place. If you're a One Tree Hill fan, you'll love this episode and the previous episode with Craig Sheffer (May 23, 2023). Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Research and Support: Jillian Himmelwright and Kayla Cunningham Camera/Audio: Ilja Maran and Nathan Sacharow

I'm back with podcast-adjacent Beau this week and we have moved into my kitchen for an Erewhon mukbang. We try all my Erewhon favorites, as well as some new items that neither of us have ever had before. From Emma Chamberlain's smoothie to the sushi sandwich, you'll get our rankings of all the products. This is a fun one and I hope you enjoy! Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Out now on all podcast platforms. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Ilja Maran and Nathan Sacharow Additional Support: Jillian Himmelwright and Kayla Cunningham

CEO and child protection advocate Sarah Gardner joins me this week to talk all about safety online. Sarah leads the Heat Initiative, a company built to pressure Apple to remove child sexual abuse material from all of its platforms. This is definitely an intense episode, but Sarah explains the issue in a very accessible way and I learned so much from her. We discuss exactly what child sexual abuse material entails and how many children it affects, as well as the exact moment Sarah knew she needed to do something about this problem. Sarah explains how both children's safety and users' privacy can be maintained through the detection of imagery in iCloud and we talk about why it has been so difficult to convince Apple to implement this feature. We end with a conversation about the ethics of family vloggers and what it means to share your kids online for the whole world to see. Content warning: Today's episode focuses on issues around child sexual abuse. If you are comfortable and able to listen, you will learn so much from Sarah this episode. However, if this topic isn't for you, feel free to skip this one. The Heat Initiative: https://heatinitiative.org/ Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Research: Jillian Himmelwright Additional Support: Kayla Cunningham Camera/Audio: Ilja Maran and Nathan Sacharow

Internationally-renowned DJ Samantha Michelle joins Trying To Figure It Out this week from New York City. Music has always been my passion, so I am so excited to bring you today's episode. Samantha tells the story of how she wound up on aux one night at a club and which song she played that eventually led to the start of her music career. Samantha has since opened for Duran Duran, Mark Ronson, and Miley Cyrus, and she shares what it's like performing with such legends. We discuss common assumptions about DJing and talk about drug use in the space, sexism that Samantha's experienced while working, and what she'll tell you if you request Wu-Tang Clan when she's playing a disco set. This is an inspiring conversation about stepping into your creativity, finding your voice, and feeling empowered to lead the life that you want to live. Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Ilja Maran and Nathan Sacharow Research: Jillian Himmelwright Additional Support: Kayla Cunningham

TTFIO is back this week with badass businesswoman Lily Geiger. Lily is the founder of Figlia, a non-alcoholic aperitivo brand born from Lily's personal experience with alcoholism within her family. Lily's father passed away from alcoholism when she was twenty and we discuss what it was like growing up in that environment. Her life had so many extra challenges because of what her father was going through, but she also expresses deep empathy for his struggle. With so much change and pressure, deciding how you want to engage with alcohol in your twenties can be difficult. Lily and I talk about transitioning from college drinking culture to adulthood and how we now choose how much to drink. Whether you're sober or not, Figlia is a delicious option that you should absolutely check out! With far less investment-backing than her competitors, Lily has brought the brand to over 500 locations and has landed features in publications such as Vogue, Forbes, and CBS. Shop Figlia: https://drinkfiglia.com/ Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Research: Jillian Himmelwright Camera/Audio: Ilja Maran and Nathan Sacharow

This week on TTFIO, Bravo star Jordan Emanuel joins me to talk about how she wound up on Summer House and her experience on the show. We get a BTS look behind the Bravo show and hear how meaningful it was for Jordan to join the all-Black cast. Jordan was Playboy's 2019 Playmate of the Year and we discuss how she found sexual liberation through modeling. Jordan has continued to feel empowered in her body through celibacy and we chat about what celibate dating has looked like for her. From her mental health journey to her relationship with her parents to whether she wants to have kids of her own one day, we really cover it all in this episode. Be sure to tune in! You can also watch Jordan on Winter House, airing now on Tuesday nights. Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Research: Jillian Himmelwright Camera/Audio: Ilja Maran and Nathan Sacharow

Happy Season 3 Premiere and happy Halloween! Here to celebrate with me is none other than Beau Stone, our favorite podcast-adjacent guest. On today's episode we are back painting pumpkins while catching up on some big life updates; I tell the spooky story of what made me move out of my house in less than a day and Beau shares some of his escapades from his Euro trip this summer. I'm so excited for you all to see what's in store this season. There's so much to figure out. Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Research: Jillian Himmelwright Camera/Audio: Ilja Maran and Jared Payzant

Figuring it Out with Keni Silva: Divorce as an Opportunity Keni Silva joins TTFIO this week to talk all about divorce as an opportunity. After an international modeling career, Keni married her (now ex) husband at the age of 23 and they built a picture-perfect life together. But Keni realized she still wasn't happy despite checking off all the boxes that she had thought she wanted. In today's episode, Keni shares how she decided to change her life and get divorced after thirteen years of marriage. She talks about the ups and downs she went through with her mental health during that time and how she eventually got to the other side. Now she sees divorce as an opportunity and wants to share what she's learned with other women. As a child of divorce, I love having conversations with women who have gone through it themselves; Keni explains how she's navigating the whole process with her two children and I loved hearing from her perspective. Enjoy! Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Research: Jillian Himmelwright Camera/Audio: Ilja Maran and Nathan Sacharow

Our favorite recurring guest is back on TTFIO this week for his first appearance of Season 2. Beau Stone joins me to give us all of his life updates; he talks about his recent move and how he's been finding a better work-life balance. He spills all the details on his trip to Las Vegas from pool parties to Nobu to casinos to shopping to strip clubs. We talk about the missing submersible that's been on everyone's mind this past week and share our thoughts on The Weeknd's new show, The Idol. We test how well we know each other and then wrap up with Al P's Three as always. Enjoy! Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Ilja Maran and Nathan Sacharow

Summer is here! And on this week's solo episode, I'm talking about all the difficulties that can come with the sun. Social media becomes even more challenging to navigate and it feels like there are endless opportunities to compare ourselves to what other people are doing, how they look, and how much fun they're having. I am here to tell you that these are just three months out of the year and you are ALREADY beautiful exactly the way you are. Every body is a summer body and you are perfectly ready for the beach, a thirst trap, the pool, or wherever you find yourself this summer. Today I share my own challenges with disordered eating and some of the ups and downs I've gone through with my body image. For anyone who has dealt with similar struggles, I hope this can make you feel less alone; we're all just trying to figure it out. You deserve to shine in the sun this summer in whatever outfit you want to wear. You are beautiful and this summer is yours to claim. Content warning: Today's episode discusses body image, body dysmorphia, disordered eating, binge eating disorder, and other topics that may be triggering. Please skip this episode if these topics aren't helpful to you. We'll be back next week. Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Ilja Maran and Nathan Sacharow

Happy Pride! Joining me this week is Lennon Torres, a former Candy Apple dancer on Dance Moms. We take a deep dive into Lennon's experience on the show and discuss how she became a Candy Apple, what the cast was like when the cameras stopped rolling, and how filming affected her childhood and personal growth. Lennon is a trans woman and, after discussing the role that gender plays in the dance industry, she shares how it's felt the past few years after publicly coming out. We talk about her experience dating as a trans woman and how fulfilling, and confusing, it can be. This episode is a special one; I hope you enjoy! Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Research: Jillian Himmelwright Camera/Audio: Ilja Maran and Nathan Sacharow

A few weeks ago, I hosted a mindfulness event at my house in Los Angeles. On this week's episode of TTFIO, I talk with the co-founders of Mindful Weekends about the goal of their business and how it can be difficult to pause our busy lives and just disconnect for a day. You'll also hear from several of the vendors at the event, who share what led them to start their businesses and how their companies fit into the mental health and wellness space. We talk about daily habits that can help us take care of our mental health, and I hope some of my guests' tips can be helpful to you too. It was inspiring to hear from so many women who feel empowered to start their own companies that are grounded in wellness and creativity. Enjoy! Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Featured businesses: @mindfulweekends @rhinoandlucy @amla_esthetics @avraveda @lro.art @templetwelveohnine Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Ilja Maran and Nathan Sacharow

One Tree Hill actor Craig Sheffer joins me this week on Trying To Figure It Out. You may know him better as Uncle Keith, the character that tragically died in season 3; we talk all about One Tree Hill and the culture behind the scenes. Craig shares what it was like working with director Mark Schwahn and the control that Schwahn tried to maintain over the cast. We also discuss what Craig has been up to since the show and he reveals some of his own mental health challenges and how he managed a long depressive period. We wrap up with Al P's Three as always and pick three songs that remind us of One Tree Hill. Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Research: Jillian Himmelwright Camera/Audio: Ilja Maran and Nathan Sacharow

There is tons of bonus content this week on Trying To Figure It Out! I have a solo mini episode for you here on all podcast platforms and if you head over to the YouTube page, you can watch Sofia Fehn teach me how to make spaghetti and meatballs while we chat late into the night. Here on the solo pod, you'll hear about my recent Lexapro hiatus and some reflections now that I'm back on it. I also discuss some important current events like Bed Bath & Beyond's closure and the Vanderpump Rules season finale. I hope you enjoy and if you want more, then head over to the TTFIO YouTube Page! Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock

Actress and TikTok star Ana Sofia Fehn has been doing amazing things ever since I met her. This week on Trying To Figure It Out, Sofia and I reflect on the culture shock we experienced freshman year at USC and the toll that Greek life had on our mental health. Sofia moved from Cleveland, Ohio, to Los Angeles and jumped right into the modeling and entertainment industries; she shares the anxiety and depression that followed and how the culture at USC contributed to an eating disorder as well. Sofia is now in recovery and cooks amazing meals on TikTok nearly every day. We talk about how comments on social media often focus on her appearance and what happened when a video went viral on the dark side of Twitter. This conversation was so fun and Sofia is such a joy, I know you'll love this episode. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Research: Jillian Himmelwright

Climate change is one of the biggest challenges of our time. This week on Trying To Figure It Out, Max Moinian, co-founder of Future Earth, joins us to talk all about climate activism and sustainability. Future Earth is a community and online platform that shares crucial information about climate changes and seeks to engage followers beyond their phone screens. Max and I talk about how anxiety around climate change can affect our mental health and how to maintain hope for the future. Climate change can be tough to talk about for fear of saying the wrong thing, and Max explains how everyone still has a role in the fight and the importance of staying active while you're still learning. (Spoiler alert: she's still learning too!) We wrap up with three recent climate wins and some tips on where to shop sustainably. Enjoy! Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27M... Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Research: Jillian Himmelwright

World-renowned OB-GYN Dr. Thaïs Aliabadi joins me this week on TTFIO to talk all about women's health. Dr. Aliabadi has delivered babies for royal families and celebrities like the Kardashians, Halsey, and Chrissy Teigen, and she also specializes in PCOS and endometriosis. Today she is here to teach us all about what these conditions are, what their symptoms are like, and how they're typically treated. We also discuss the continual dismissal of women's health and the importance of having women in positions of power to help effect change. From growing up during the Iranian Revolution, to starting out at Cedars Sinai, to adopting one of her patients' daughters, to beating breast cancer, Dr. A shares her own story throughout the episode; trust me, you'll want to tune in. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Research: Jillian Himmelwright

Jax Taylor joins Trying To Figure It Out this week to discuss all things Vanderpump Rules. The show has been everywhere lately after the news broke that Tom Sandoval had an affair with Raquel Leviss; Jax shares his perspective on Scandoval and what his relationship is like with Tom right now. You'll also hear about Jax's time on the show and how his life has changed in the past two years. Tune in to find out if he's coming back to VPR next season. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27M... Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Research: Jillian Himmelwright

TTFIO is back!! I'm so ready to kick off Season 2 and I have so many exciting things in store for you. In this solo episode, you'll hear all about what I've been up to recently and how I've been beating the winter blues (spoiler alert: lots of Disney trips). I take a deep dive into the black hole that is my bag and together we discover all of the things that have been lost to its depths. At the end, we flip the script and I take the hot seat to answer 23 questions for 2023. You'll learn everything from my favorite restaurants in New York and LA to my celebrity crush to my ultimate all-time Al P's Three. Welcome back. This is only the beginning. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Research: Kayla Cunningham

All season on TTFIO, I have been repeatedly amazed by my guests; I can't express how grateful I am for their transparency and willingness to share their stories. Over the past nine months, I have shared pieces of my own story and now, inspired by my guests, I am ready to really open up. On today's episode, I reflect on where I was at this time last year and I tell the story of how I got to that point. A year ago I was at the absolute rock bottom of my mental health because of the employment situation I was in. I share what/the abuse that I experienced and how this past year has been a rollercoaster of healing for me. I wrap up the episode looking ahead to 2023 and how I hope to continue to show myself love and patience. Thank you to everyone who tuned in at any point during this first season of Trying To Figure It Out, and special thanks to my guests throughout these first 27 episodes. We are only just getting started and I can't wait to continue to learn and grow with you all. Content warning: This episode discusses my experience with sexual, physical, mental, and emotional abuse. Abuse of any nature is a sensitive subject, and I want to give my listeners the opportunity to decide whether this is something they can, and want, to listen to. Healing is a personal journey, and while I share my story in an attempt to help others, I understand that it ma not be the right time for everyone to listen. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1

This week on TTFIO I sit down with my dog-walker-turned-little sister, Georgia Goodman. Georgia is a 16-year-old bursting with energy and we met under very random circumstances, which we get into and reflect on how much our friendship has grown since then. Georgia and I always find ourselves talking about conspiracy theories, so on today's episode we go over some of our favorites. Is Avril Lavigne still alive? Do The Simpsons predict the future? Does Chuck E. Cheese recycle and repackage uneaten pizza? Tune in and let us know what you think! Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Georgia's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/georgia.goodman/ Georgia's Club, Teen Awareness of Dementia and Alzheimer's: https://www.instagram.com/thetadaclub7/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1

On this week's episode of TTFIO, Thomas Pham joins me to talk about the success he has found at only 19 years old, growing up in an immigrant family, his mental health journey, and more. Thomas is a co-host of “Teenager Therapy,” a podcast that explores the struggles of teenage life from a lens that only a group of teenage friends can provide. They have interviewed guests like TikTok star James Wright, the CEO of Instagram, and even Prince Harry and Meghan, the duke & duchess of Sussex–which, believe me, I made sure to get all the details on. Thomas opens up about what it's like hosting a show with his ex and how he's navigated exactly what he's comfortable sharing on a podcast with over 255,000 followers on TikTok. As always, we wrap up the episode with another edition of Al P's Three and you'll get to hear what college students at USC are listening to these days at parties; I think you'll be surprised at what a throwback he picks. Enjoy! Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Thomas' Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thomaspham/?hl=en Listen to Teenager Therapy: https://open.spotify.com/show/1xxFg2YQAByj5YbwPkG2rP Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1

This week I'm joined by a very close friend of mine for one of my favorite conversations on TTFIO so far. From his childhood as a queer kid in LA raised by devout Catholics to his life now as a venture capitalist with a *very* active sex life, we really cover it all in this episode. He opens up and shares the experience of losing his mom as he was on the cusp of coming out and how much his life has changed since that time. He has so many amazing stories and his energy is amazing, so I hope you enjoy! Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1

This week on TTFIO I am celebrating spooky season with none other than my best friend Beau. We talk all things Halloween while having a bit of a pumpkin painting contest; you'll hear about the costumes we wore this year and I recap my night at Halloween Horror Nights. Beau then shares the details of his solo trip to Paris and how he's been feeling since the release of his last episode on TTFIO when he talked about a falling out he had with a friend. After a Halloween-themed Al P's Three we reveal our completed pumpkins. Whose pumpkin do you think is better? Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Beau's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beaustonehair/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1

This week we are wrapping up TTFIO's Divorce miniseries with an expert on the topic. After going through her own divorce and feeling frustrated with the lack of resources to help her move forward, Wendy Sterling became a divorce coach and now offers her 5-Step Divorce REHAB Program to women figuring out this new chapter of their lives. She teaches that divorce can be an empowering experience and helps women reconnect with their values and themselves. On this episode we also talk about how children experience divorce and how parents can co-parent in the best interest of their kids. Enjoy this episode and I hope you learned something during this miniseries! Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Wendy's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcerehabwithwendy/ Wendy's website: https://wendysterling.net/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1

TTFIO's Divorce Miniseries continues this week with an incredible guest who has gone through two divorces. Jacqueline Dadanian is a very successful entrepreneur, a devoted mother to four children, and she has managed to rebuild her life twice after both her marriages ended under traumatic circumstances. On today's episode, she walks us through the two relationships – from an arranged marriage that ended in abuse to a speedy Vegas wedding that ended in deceit, you'll hear how she has survived and even thrived after leaving with nothing but her children. How does she feel about dating now and what is her advice for someone going through a divorce? You'll have to listen to find out! Content warning: This episode deals with topics including physically and emotionally abusive relationships. To seek help and further sources on this subject, visit thehotline.org or loveisrespect.org. Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Jacqueline's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jacquelinedadanian/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1

Welcome to our Divorce Miniseries here on TTFIO! Over the next few episodes I will be exploring how divorce affects the couple involved, as well as the people close to them. I'll have guests on who have been touched by divorce in different ways, but I'm starting the series off with a solo episode to dive deeper into my experience as a child of divorce. I expand on what I've previously shared on TTFIO and tell a story about the period in my childhood when I refused to spend any time at my dad's house. I've grown so much since my parents divorced and I can't wait to learn even more over this miniseries. Enjoy! Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1

Beau is back on TTFIO this week! As always, he brings the best energy and we chat about his half-birthday celebration, how we got the inside scoop on Halloween Horror Nights this year, and the mystery of a stolen pet from one of the most famous furniture stores in Los Angeles. We then revisit Toxic Friendship Awareness Month and Beau opens up about some recent personal experiences. He shares the lessons he's learned from a close friend's betrayal and where he's traveling to take some time for himself. Beau is the best, so enjoy! Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Beau's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beaustonehair/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1

This week on TTFIO we bring on registered dietitian and nutrition therapist Stefanie Boone to answer alllll your questions on nutrition. Stefanie shares her own relationship with food and her journey to heal it through intuitive eating. We get into what makes it so hard to listen to our hunger cues and how social media feeds into the harmful diet culture – spoiler alert: Not even Candy Crush is immune. Tune in to learn all about intuitive eating and to debunk some common food myths. Enjoy! Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Stefanie's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stefanieboonenutritionist/ Stefanie's website: http://stefanieboonerd.com/ Learn more about intuitive eating: https://www.intuitiveeating.org/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1

How many first dates have you been on? Fifteen? Thirty? Maybe fifty? Today's guest on TTFIO has been on over 100 first dates and he is joining me to give us all his tips on how to nail a first date. Matt Wurnig of 50 Dates 50 States talks all about his experience going on 50 states in 50 states (twice!!) and takes the heat when I ask him the hard questions too. Is he looking for love? Does he have a type? What are his red flags? And most importantly…which state has the best pizza? Enjoy!

Summer is officially over and this week on TTFIO I recap my last few months before diving into how to get back into healthy routines after summer and how to actually stick to the goals you set for yourself. My life coach/trauma coach Charles Cook joins me for the second half of the episode to share his expertise on staying grounded, finding routine, and holding yourself accountable while being kind and gentle to yourself at the same time. Enjoy!

The party continues in Houston this week on TTFIO with another episode featuring cast members of The Ultimatum. Colby and Madlyn Kissinger and April Marie join me to break down their experience both on the show and after. You'll hear how April and Madlyn became friends even after April spent half the show sleeping next to Colby and you'll learn April go-to drink while filming. The cast shares how they feel about how they were portrayed on the show and if they would go on the show again knowing what they know now. I test how well the trio really knows each other before an Al P's Three where we dive into Colby's wild playlist. Enjoy!

TTFIO hits the road this week to meet with two of the biggest stars from The Ultimatum, Colby and Madlyn Kissinger. Colby is a Texas man through and through, and we discuss what's kept him here his whole life as well as his best tips for a trip to Houston. Nothing is more important to Colby than family, and he opens up about how his mental health took a toll when his family went through some difficult changes. We dive into how Colby and his then-girlfriend wound up on one of Netflix's biggest reality shows and what it was like watching the show back afterwards with his wife and co-star, Madlyn. Madlyn joins us to discuss what they've been up to since the show and what life has been like as new parents. We wrap up with a relationship Q&A to really get to know the happy couple – who's always on their phone and who changes more diapers? You'll have to listen to find out! And stay tuned for next week, when we'll bring on another surprise guest from The Ultimatum!

After a week off, I am back on the pod bringing you a solo episode with all my life updates. A lot has changed in my life recently, and today I cover why I took last week off from the podcast, how I quit my job, and a bit about what's next for me and Trying To Figure It Out. The TTFIO team went on the road for the first time this past weekend, so today you also get a tease about what our trip to Houston was like and who we interviewed. I hope you enjoy and for more Houston content, head over to the Trying To Figure It Out YouTube page for my weekend vlog.

This week, Goodboy Noah joins TTFIO to chat about his rise to TikTok fame. Despite childhood dreams to hoop in the NBA, Noah has recently found himself more often in the recording studio than on the court. With strong R&B influences, Noah and his sidekick, Cheetah, are all over TikTok singing and cooking together. We also dive into Noah's childhood and realize that, like me, Noah began to experience more mental health challenges in the wake of his parents divorce. He talks about how he learned to manage his OCD and shares advice for other men who may be struggling with their mental health. Noah is a true comedian, so I hope you enjoy! Disclaimer: In this episode, Noah and I discuss OCD and mental health struggles that we both experience. We have found humor to be helpful at times to cope with the challenges we face; however, this is not meant to make light of the matter in any way and we both take mental health very seriously, as everyone should. For more resources on OCD, check out iocdf.org.

Beau is back on TTFIO this week to help me wrap up Toxic Friendship Awareness Month. Beau is the furthest thing from a toxic friend, and this episode we share more of our adventures together. You'll hear about the highlights and struggles from a sushi dinner date, my alter ego that comes out at Universal Studios Halloween Horror Nights, and Beau's botched attempt at remembering the characters in Stranger Things. There was no better way to wrap up this mini-series on friendship than with my best friend, so I hope you enjoy!

Toxic Friendship Awareness Month continues this week with a friend group that can teach us a thing or two about healthy friendships. TTFIO welcomes Miles, Jutes, Julian, and Anthony, a friend group that spans countries and ages but is one of the most close-knit groups I've ever seen. This episode they spill stories about each other, like how Anthony used to spend Jutes' sound checks throwing up and how Miles is always blowing up the group chat. They also dig deeper and speak on what they appreciate most in one another. I love spending time with this group and I think you'll understand why. Enjoy!