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Hey Besties! Let's Talk About When You Love Your Friend... But Not Their Kid.On this episode , we are getting into it—the total awkwardness of navigating mom life when your parenting styles clash, or when (dare we say it?) you just aren't a huge fan of each other's kids. It's messy, it's unspoken, and we're breaking it down.Which part of this dynamic should we dive into first—dealing with the totally different discipline styles, or how to handle a kid that just pushes your buttons? If you'd like to be featured anonymously on our "I need a bestie" segment please email us at fromblendedtobesties@gmail.com

Hey Besties, Boozers and Shakers! We're kicking off the new year with our ParaPods pals Taylar and Morgan of Creeps & Crimes! They're bringing us Jack Frost cocktails aka a Christmas bruise in a cup and stories that may have gotten lost in our inbox but were thankfully sent to C&C as well. Join us this week for some beautifully emotional, festively creepy and borderline disturbing stories from our shared listeners. We love y'all! Shout out to all Kentucky mamaws... and that's why we drink! Announcement: We've gone fishin' (figuratively)! After eight years we're finally starting to build in some time off this year, starting this week Sunday, January 4th. Instead of releasing a regular episode we'll be giving ourselves some FLTs (fun little treats) and giving our staff some extremely well deserved down time. Thank you for understanding! If you think you or someone you know might be struggling with OCD, please don't wait to get help—go to https://learn.nocd.com/ATTWD and book a free call with their team to learn more. Visit https://quince.com/drink for free shipping and 365-day returns. Get 50% off Unlimited premium wireless this January—plans start at $15/month at https://mintmobile.com/ATWWD Get $10 off your first month's subscription and free shipping at https://nutrafol.com with promo code DRINK.Save 20% off Honeylove by going to https://honeylove.com/DRINK! #honeylovepod #ad Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Hey Besties listeners. This is a special, one-off feed drop of Plante's new show, Post Games. We hope you enjoy it! We will return to the regular Besties cadence this Friday with our episode on Herdling!Welcome to Post Games!Listen to the show on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite podcast app. Get full episode notes at www.patreon.com/postgames and www.post.gamesVideo game adaptations threaten to replace superhero movies as Hollywood's favorite fad. How did Mario and friends evolve from box office poison into some of the most valuable IPS in movie history? Today on Post Games: an extended interview with filmmaker and video essayist Patrick H. Willems, in which we make sense of 30 years and five distinct eras of video game adaptations.Act 1: The Doomed DecadesAct 2: The Hollywood HitsA Patreon bonus: The Future of Video Game Movies. Patrick sticks around to speculate on the future of video game adaptations – including no fewer than 46 movies in active developmentAct 3: The News of the WeekYou can now watch Post Games shorts on Instagram, YouTube, and TikTok. Listen to the show on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, or your favorite podcast app.  Get the full list of games (and other stuff) discussed at www.besties.fan. Want more episodes? Join us at patreon.com/thebesties for three bonus episodes each month!

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Send us a text"In this episode of the Besties and the Books podcast, Liz and Ashley excitedly kick off their first nonfiction memoir feature by diving into Fahrenheit 182 by Mark Hoppus of Blink-182. Longtime fans of the band and deeply connected to the early 2000s pop-punk scene, they reflect on how the book transported them back to their youth, sharing nostalgic stories, personal connections, and even a shared ex-boyfriend who dedicated the same Blink-182 song to both of them. They praise the memoir's conversational, chronological format, Mark's engaging narration in the audiobook, and the emotional resonance of the band's journey—especially their performance of “One More Time.” Both hosts award rate the book highly and recommend it to fans of Blink-182, memoir lovers, or anyone who grew up during the TRL-era of pop culture. With lots of laughs, punk rock vibes, and heartfelt moments, this episode sets the tone for their new nonfiction series."Hey Besties! We DO actually read non fiction and we're here to cover our very first memoir with none other than Mark Hoppus's brand new book Fahrenheit-182! And O-M-G, did it deliver. If you've been following us for any amount of time then you know we grew up (and continue to be) pop punk girlies obsessed with that late 90's / early 2000's vibe. We're here for the nostalgia and Fahrenheit-182 chronicled every best part of our experience growing up in that SoCal skate scene a la desert tumbleweeds… only an hour away from where Mark grew up! Talk about relatable. We discuss whether Mark had enough to say to write an entire book about his life, if it made us like him more (or less?), if it felt genuine, and how it helped us reflect on our own time on this earth. Did we learn new Blink lore? Was it written well? Do we wish he told us more? We had a blast with this one and we hope you join us on the rollercoaster back in time to when concert tickets were thirty bucks and middle school boyfriends dedicated Blink songs to us. And of course we bring you a Blink fave and fail and smash or pass… because we know you'd ask anyway.

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Hey Besties! Today, Priscilla and Lauren are joined by Cindy Ambuehl, a former actress turned luxury real estate powerhouse with over $2 billion in career sales (yup, you read that right!). From her 20-year career in Hollywood to becoming one of LA's top-producing agents, Cindy shares how she reinvented herself, created a standout personal brand, and built a thriving business rooted in trust and authenticity. In this episode, Cindy dives into 8 actionable tips for building better relationships and earning trust in both businesses. She shares the habits, mindset shifts, and strategies that helped her succeed in two competitive industries. From mastering over-communication with clients to embracing the power of preparation and confidence, prepare to learn exactly how you can stand out and grow your career. It's time to bet on yourself and get ready to make your next big move. Tune in!   Links Follow Us On Instagram: @forwardfemale @hernextbigmove Check Us Out Online: Forward Female Website Join Community: https://theforwardfemale.mn.co/ Join Accountability Club: https://theforwardfemale.mn.co/ Schedule A Consultation: https://calendly.com/the-forward-female/discovery-call Email Us: hello@forwardfemale.com    Guest Links Cindy Ambuehl Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/cindyambuehl/?hl=en  Cindy Ambuehl Website: https://cindyambuehl.com/ 

Hey Besties, today's episode is an absolute masterclass in entrepreneurship with the one and only Russell Brunson!

Ever wonder how special you must think you are to believe you're the victim in every story you tell? To assume that when you fall, all eyes are on you, and when you fail, everyone is laughing? Seriously, how special do you have to feel to believe that little old you is not just the center of your own world, but the focus of everyone else's universe too?Are you Hey Besties!

"That was the first time I connected with my inner child and it was just amazing."Hey Besties!! I've got another success story for you today!In this episode, I had a chat with one of my most inspiring clients, Sylvia, who is a mother, elementary school teacher, runner and mental health advocate. Sylvia went from being in a toxic relationship to empowering herself to heal generational trauma towards a now blissful relationship with the father of her daughter - and she did it in just 14 WEEKS using our Soulmate Program!!! Amazing, right?We also talked about how her daughter became part of her own healing as a parent, the influence of her culture on her childhood, breaking cycles, and so much more! EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:How Sylvia's childhood and culture influenced her dating and relationship choicesSylvia's healing journey using our Soulmate Program, navigating healing as a parent, and how she turned things around in just 14 weeksCall to Action: Book A Free Breakthrough Call:  Learn to see if the Soulmate program is right for you by booking a free call here.______________________________________MENTIONED IN PODCAST:Book A Free Breakthrough Call:  Learn to see if the Soulmate program is right for you by booking a free call here.________________________________________OTHER RESOURCES:Follow for daily inspo on @bygloriazhang!Order my book: "A Woman's Guide to Inner Child Healing"Join the waitlist for the revolutionary 6-week inner child healing BETA:https://bygloriazhang.com/beta_____________________________________WAS THIS HELPFUL?I'd be so grateful if you could take a moment to follow, leave a 5-star rating, and download a few more episodes. As a gift of gratitude, we'll send you my Inner Child Starter Kit if you leave a 5-star review and share what you love about the show. 

"It's not about fixing yourself, because you're not broken. It's about understanding why you react the way you do and learning to respond differently."What is Disorganized Attachment Style and how do you heal from it?Hey Besties!! Today's episode is a much requested deep dive into disorganized attachment, otherwise known as fearful avoidant. I used to be wired this way, and I want to help our fellow besties to get some clarity and finally heal this pattern so you can be just like me - Happily engaged, in a healthy and secure relationship at last!But it wasn't easy. And that's why I developed some helpful and effective strategies over the years so you won't have to go through what I did. Listen in as we explore the signs of this attachment style, why it happens, some very interesting historical facts and how to heal these toxic patterns using our Feel, Heal, Attract System. Put your headphones on and enjoy this value-packed episode!______________________________________EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:What Disorganized Attachment Style is, and how the Attachment Theory came aboutMy own journey in healing it and how you can use our Feel, Heal, Attract System to heal from it tooCall to Action: Get your FREE Attachment Style Assessment & Personalized Healing Plan by booking your one-to-one breakthrough call with my coaching team here______________________________________MENTIONED IN PODCAST:Listen to Episode 71: "WTF Are Anxious & Avoidant Attachment Styles?!"Get your FREE Attachment Style Assessment & Personalized Healing Plan by booking your one-to-one breakthrough call with my coaching team hereJoin our Facebook Community for live Q&A sessions and community support________________________________________OTHER RESOURCES:Follow for daily inspo on @bygloriazhang!Order my book: "A Woman's Guide to Inner Child Healing"_____________________________________WAS THIS HELPFUL?I'd be so grateful if you could take a moment to follow, leave a 5-star rating, and download a few more episodes. As a gift of gratitude, we'll send you my Inner Child Starter Kit if you leave a 5-star review and share what you love about the show. 

CONTENT WARNING: this episode could be disturbing to some listeners, please listen to the trigger warnings before the case begins. HEY BESTIES!! Happy Thursday and Happy last case of season 4!! (next two weeks will be creepy accounts so send those in to creepsandcrimes.ca@gmail.com) and Taylar took her job just a tad bit to serious, because Holy hell.. this is a rough on. Today, Taylar tells us the case of "The Dating Game Killer" or the serial killer Rodney Alcala whose killing spree spanned states and over a decade, leaving his victim count to be estimated at over 130.... Please listen with care. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Limited Spots: Apply to 1-1 coaching with Gloria, for successful High-Achievers, Entrepreneurs, and Leaders who deeply desire to heal their inner child:  https://bygloriazhang.com/privatecoaching Inspired by Dr. Iris' story? Get a free consultation to learn about the Soulmate group program: https://bygloriazhang.com/soulmateJoin the waitlist for the revolutionary 6-week inner child healing BETA:https://bygloriazhang.com/beta"Once we connect to our inner child, our soul, we connect to that divine part within us."Hey Besties! I've got another success story for you guys today! I'm super stoked to share this episode with an inspiring client of mine, Dr. Iris Yousaf, a Virologist-Author-Poet, who went from being anxiously attached to now finally being in a happy and healthy relationship, while reconnecting with her re-awakened spirituality. Dr. Iris did all of this with the help of our Soulmate Program, using the tools and strategies needed to craft her own inner child healing journey. And you can do the same for your own dream life too!Curious to know how she healed her inner child and started manifesting good things into her life? Put your headphones on, press play and I hope you enjoy this very inspiring episode as much as we did! ✨______________________________________EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:How the Soulmate program helped Dr. Iris go from being anxiously attached to finding her "soulmate"Unlocking the connection between inner child healing and spiritual awakeningBook A Free 1-1 Breakthrough Consult:  Learn to see if the Soulmate program is right for you by booking a free call here.______________________________________MENTIONED IN PODCAST:Buy Dr. Iris' poetry book, “Evolution” on AmazonBook A Free Love Strategy Consult:  Learn to see if the Soulmate program is right for you by booking a free call here.Apply to Private Coaching with Gloria: For successful high-achievers, entrepreneurs, and leaders who desire to heal their inner child. Apply here.________________________________________OTHER RESOURCES:Follow for daily inspo on @bygloriazhang!Order my book: "A Woman's Guide to Inner Child Healing"_____________________________________WAS THIS HELPFUL?I'd be so grateful if you could take a moment to follow, leave a 5-star rating, and download a few more episodes. As a gift of gratitude, we'll send you my Inner Child Starter Kit if you leave a 5-star review and share what you love about the show. 

"We accept the love we think we deserve, including the love that we give ourselves."Hey Besties! I'm back again with another *Love Success Story* from one of the most inspiring people I know, Dr. Tristan Buzzini! Tristan is a a highly sought out clinician who is a Gender Affirmative Care Specialist and an LGBTQ+ Activist who is revolutionizing hospital and correctional settings. In this powerful and heartfelt episode, I reconnect with Tristan, a former client and proud alumni of the Soulmate Program as he talks about his transformative journey from "rock bottom" after a divorce, to using our 3-step method to attracting an AMAZING loving new relationship!We also chat about why high-achievers resist getting help because it's hard to let down "the walls of being professional"... and how it's all BS!______________________________________MENTIONED IN PODCAST:Book A Free Love Strategy Consult:  Learn to see if the Soulmate program is right for you by booking a free call here.Check out Dr. Tristan's work here________________________________________OTHER RESOURCES:Follow for daily inspo on @bygloriazhang!Order my book: "A Woman's Guide to Inner Child Healing"_____________________________________WAS THIS HELPFUL?I'd be so grateful if you could take a moment to follow, leave a 5-star rating, and download a few more episodes. As a gift of gratitude, we'll send you my Inner Child Starter Kit if you leave a 5-star review and share what you love about the show. 

Hey Besties! Today, we're diving into some of Violetta's favourite attraction principles from the ultimate dating bible - Why Men Love Bitches!Ever wondered if there was any truth to men knowing right off the bat if they want to date you or just sleep with you? well guess what, there is! Today we uncover all the truths men DON'T want you to know, including the two categories men put women into and how you can navigate these to not only snag your dream man but also transform into that irresistible dream girl.In this episode, we break down:The two categories of women in men's mindsKey attraction principles you need to knowHow to become his dream girl and get your dream manWhat men don't want women to knowTwo things women does to make a man madly in love with herHow long should you wait before having s*xhow to snag your dream manSometimes A Man Deliberately Won't Call Just To See How You RespondAct Like a Price and You'll Turn Him Into a Believerand so much more!!!Tune in and transform your love life!Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review! ✨Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties (and New Besties)! We will be returning next week with new episodes. Enjoy this trip down memory lane when Nikki and Brian were at the Super Bowl! Be sure to rate and review the podcast and subscribe to our YouTube channel! -- It's part two of our pre-Super Bowl podcasts from the iHeart and NFL stage. Things take a turn as both Nikki and Brian are recognized by their guests. Brian's shirt brings about a 'Jerry Maguire' moment with Rodney Thomas' agent, and Chris Long learns that the new sports broadcaster he thought looked like Nikki Glaser IS Nikki Glaser! Brian makes a move to catch Tyreek Hill. In the Final Thought, Nikki and Brian synthesize their experience while pinching themselves to make sure it's real. *Besties, you won't need to love sports to love this episode! xoxo. Subscribe to Big Money Players Diamond on Apple Podcasts to get this episode ad-free, and get exclusive bonus content: https://apple.co/nikkiglaserpodcast  Watch this episode on our YouTube channel: The Nikki Glaser Podcast Follow the pod on Instagram for bonus content: @NikkiGlaserPod Leave us your voicemail: Click Here To Record Nikki's Tour Dates: nikkiglaser.com/tour Brian's Animations: youtube.com/@BrianFrange More Nikki: IG More Brian: IG More producer Noa: IGSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hey Besties! Today, we're diving into the full length of the second half of Violetta's eye-opening interview with Mark Groves. Get ready for more insights and surprises!Are you more invested in your partner's life than your own Netflix queue? Do you find yourself constantly adjusting your mood thermostat based on someone else's emotional weather? Buckle up as Violetta and Mark dissect what it means to be codependent, from obsessing over how others perceive us online to partnering up with someone who wouldn't cheer if you won the lottery. They will uncover the roots of codependency, explore the masquerade ball of personality masks—from the Perfectionist to the Damsel in Distress—and discuss why your life's quality is basically the guest list of your personal relationship party. Tune in, and get entangled in the hilarious truths behind our relational binds! If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get TWO extra episodes every week on Wednesday and Saturday!Today's Sponsors:Lulus - Visit https://www.lulus.com/ and use code ADULTING at checkout for 20% off your first purchase.CBDistillery - Visit www.cbdistillery.com and use code ADULTING for 20% off.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:38 Is codependency a common challenge in many relationships?05:15 We are overly invested in the outcomes of other people09:38 How to identify codependency11:55 We aren't built to handle people's perception of us online15:56 Being in a relationship with a person who doesn't celebrate you22:35 What is the root cause of codependency?28:03 The Perfectionist mask32:09 The Savior mask33:59 The Performer mask36:32 The Playboy/Playgirl mask38:52 The Good Guy/Good Girl mask41:31 The Damsel in Distress mask44:54 The Spiritual mask47:11 The quality of your life is determined by the quality of your relationships51:21 Where can you find Mark? Connect with Mark on:https://www.instagram.com/createthelove/ https://twitter.com/createthelove https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv https://createthelove.com/ Liberated Love: Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You DesireGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta welcomes Adrienne Everheart, a certified dating and relationship coach & feminine energy therapist who specializes in connecting women to their authentic self and creating the loving relationship they desire.In this sizzling session, Adrienne reveals the mystique of feminine allure and provides insightful strategies designed to empower women, whether they are healing from past heartaches or aiming to rekindle an old flame. Her advice is not just about attracting a partner—it's about igniting a deeper passion within yourself and radiating confidence. Whether you're mending a broken heart or setting the stage to lure back an ex with newfound allure, Adrienne equips you with the tools to confidently navigate the complexities of love and relationships. Join Violet and Adrienne for a transformative experience that will leave you inspired, informed, and invigorated to pursue your romantic endeavors with zest and wisdom.If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get TWO extra episodes every week on Wednesday and Saturday!Today's Sponsors:NOCD - To learn more about therapy with NOCD, go to https://www.treatmyocd.com/ and schedule a free 15-minute call with their teamEpisode Highlights:00:00 Intro01:49 How do I get my ex back?02:27 Biggest misconception about dating today05:44 Let the other person miss you07:10 The 4 irresistible qualities men crave15:05 What is love-starved?19:06 Words that men love to hear25:26 When should you say ‘Thank you'29:23 The ‘easy to be around energy'33:22 What does it mean to tap into your feminine energy36:07 Women get preferences confused by boundaries39:56 How do you express your expectation on the first date44:00 The difference between soft and dark feminine energy46:17 What does it mean to be in your dark feminine energy?48:32 Is your soft feminine energy intimidating men?49:42 Tap into your masculine energy51:08 Then there is a third energy - neutral55:05 How to drive men using your goddess feminine energy?58:35 Healing from a breakup01:02:12 You're attracted to what you already have01:05:45 How do you make him miss you after a breakup?01:08:25 How do you get him back?01:12:59 The ABCs to get him back01:15:28 Putting your inner boy to work01:17:37 A real story about a long distance relationship that worked long-term01:21:14 How to get a man to chase you like he used to01:27:23 “I am irresistible to men”01:30:54 Show that you're bored01:32:52 How to make him keep loving you01:34:52 How to protect your heart and not fall too fast01:36:58 How do you love yourself?Connect with Adrienne on:https://everheartcoaching.com/ https://www.instagram.com/adrienne_everheart_ https://www.facebook.com/EverheartCoaching/ https://www.youtube.com/@AdrienneEverheart https://www.tiktok.com/@adrienneeverheart This Podcast is for Women: Relationship Advice & Feminine Energy with Adrienne EverheartGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! This episode is all about the highs, the lows, and the hilariously unexpected. Violet opens up about feeling a bit down and explores why sometimes, despite everything, it just seems like things won't get better. She discusses the simple joys of being happy and the importance of being present in those moments. But it's not all about the downs; there's an up when she talks about getting sponsored to go to Stagecoach—and yes, she's going solo! Tune in for an episode filled with humor, vulnerability, and the kind of honest chat you'd only share with your closest friends!If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get TWO extra episodes every week on Wednesday and Saturday!Today's Sponsors:Skims - Shop the SKIMS T-Shirt at https://skims.com/. Now available in sizes XXS - 4X.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:20 Maybe I was feeling a little low05:12 The most basic necessities we often forget06:45 Why it feels like it will never get better09:02 When I'm happy, I just take it in11:49 I took edibles before watching Dune16:43 I saw a Reddit post about me not going to Coachella 23:24 Getting sponsored to attend Stagecoach29:07 I'm going to Stagecoach by myself! Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, let's try something a little different. Violetta challenges AI to give intriguing insights it might offer on our everyday dilemmas. From practical tips on mustering the courage to reach out and effective breathing exercises to manage anxiety to quick mood-boosting activities, discovering happiness, and the best life advice ChatGPT can offer. Whether you're searching for a laugh, a cry, or a moment of inspiration, this episode promises to be as enlightening as it is entertaining.If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get TWO extra episodes every week on Wednesday and Saturday!Today's Sponsors:Nutrafol - Find out why over 4,000 healthcare professionals recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Visit https://nutrafol.com/ and use promo code ADULTINGShopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at www.shopify.com/adulting, all lowercaseNOCD - To learn more about therapy with NOCD, go to https://www.treatmyocd.com/ and schedule a free 15-minute call with their teamWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:19 Do you believe in God?03:32 Why am I crying for no reason?04:19 Getting advice from ChatGPT09:18 How do you get the courage to ask for help?12:13 Good breathing exercises when you're anxious18:09 Quick and simple activities to improve your mood23:22 What do you do when you're feeling down?26:07 What to do when you feel stuck and exhausted28:05 The best advice about life30:52 How important is human connection? 33:32 Best advice about finding happinessGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Welcome to Benson Book Club! Today, Violetta will be reading from Robert Greene's The 48 Laws of Power - Law #9: Win Through Your Actions, Never Through Arguments. Discover why winning through your actions rather than arguments can lead to more meaningful victories and why saying less can actually get you more. Whether you're going through tricky social situations or just trying to get ahead in life, this episode is packed with wisdom to help you master the art of keeping it cool and collected. Tune in for less talk, more action!If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get TWO extra episodes every week on Wednesday and Saturday!Today's Sponsors:Talkspace - - As a listener to this podcast, you'll get $80 off of your first month with Talkspace when you go to https://www.talkspace.com/.Prose - Go to https://prose.com/adulting for your free consultation and 50% off your one-of-a-kind formulasWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:44 Win through your actions, not through arguments14:42 Always say less than necessaryGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today is another Benson Book Club Tuesday! Let's take another look at 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author's most beloved pieces of writing. Ever catch yourself thinking, "I don't know what I'm doing with my life"? You're not alone! In this episode, we dive into 20 signs that you're actually doing better than you think. We'll explore what it truly means to lead a good life, challenging societal metrics and embracing the idea that a great life is made up of a series of small, meaningful moments.If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today's Sponsors:Truly - To find Truly Hard Seltzer near you, go to www.trulyhardseltzer.com/locationsEpisode Highlights:00:00 Intro01:28 “I don't know what I'm doing with my life.”04:32 20 signs you're doing better that you think you are11:32 How do we measure a good life?17:14 A great life a series of small moments put togetherGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, let's listen to some life lessons about what success truly means and unravel the paradox between failure and success, all with a dash of Violetta's flair. Discover actionable tips to halt self-sabotage and uncover traits common among successful people. We'll explore the synergy of passion and perseverance, why willpower isn't your only ally, the transformation from a fixed to a growth mindset, and how to ignite your motivation for success. Plus, don't miss our top tips for attracting success in your life!If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today's Sponsors:Skims - Shop SKIMS Bras at https://skims.com/. Now available in 62 sizes. Plus, get free shipping on orders over $75!Episode Highlights:00:00 Intro02:00 What does success mean to you?03:28 The failure and success paradox07:53 Tips to stop self sabotaging10:14 Quantum physics15:57 What do most successful people have in common?20:16 Passion and perseverance24:20 Don't rely too much on willpower28:08 Switching from fixed mindset to a growth mindset30:30 Tips to get motivated to become successful32:56 Top tips to attract successGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, for another reading session of Benson Book Club, we will take a peek into How to Win Friends & Influence People written by Dale Carnegie - a book about ways to make people like you, how to win people to your way of thinking, and how to change people without arousing resentment.Together with Violetta, we get to hear practical tips on winning people over instantly, incredible stories of people who mastered the art of being likable, and how to arm yourself with six foolproof strategies to make a lasting impression and cultivate meaningful connections. If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:26 How to make people like you instantly?07:36 The story of Hall Caine 11:37 “This is our dream house.”14:56 The judge who loves dogs16:29 Famous people still crave a little recognition22:33 Six ways to make people like youGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! We're diving headfirst into the complexities of self-sabotage. Why do we often self-sabotage? How do we snap out of the self-defeat funk? Embrace the beauty of failure, kick negative thinking to the curb, and discover 18 tips to boost your spirits. It's all about flipping the script, surrounding yourself with positive vibes, and quitting the blame game. Get ready to transform your perspective and sprinkle some fab into your life! If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today's Sponsors:CBDistillery - Visit www.cbdistillery.com and use code ADULTING for 20% off.Glamsquad - For a limited time, Glamsquad is giving our listeners $20 odd any service. It's valid whether or not you've booked with them before. Visit https://glamsquad.com/ or the Glamsquad app and use code ADULTING at checkout.Nuuly - Nuuly is a great value at $98 a month for any 6 styles, but right now you can get $20 off your first month of Nuuly when you sign up with the code ADULTING20. Just go to https://www.nuuly.com/What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:20 Why do we self sabotage?04:02 How to stop this cycle of self defeat?07:05 Sometimes, failure is good11:39 When we sink into negative thinking our brain seeks to confirm it14:23 How do you stay motivated during hard times?19:48 How to change your perspective24:20 18 quick advice to cheer you up28:18 Surround yourself with positivity31:08 We often blame our circumstances Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Welcome to Benson Book Club! Today, Violetta will be reading a part of Chapter 19: When To Have Sex from the book Men Don't Love Women Like You! by G.L Lambert, and will be sharing her thoughts on when to take things to the bedroom, decoding men's real dating agendas, and identifying the tell-tale signs of true romantic victory. Ever regretted going too far, too fast? We're breaking it all down and guiding you to date on your own terms. Let's get real about romance, empowerment, and finding what truly clicks for you in the world of love!If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today's Sponsors:Factor - Head to factormeals.com/ADULTING50 and use code ADULTING50 to get 50% off.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:53 Chapter 19: When To Have Sex 03:28 “I wish I never had s*x with him.”06:44 Why do men date?09:58 What has he shown you?13:14 Signs you've genuinely won a man over16:33 Can you enjoy each others company without s*x?19:19 Focus on what works for you Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Welcome to episode TWO of Dating University available ONLY on the PREMIUM podcast.Violetta is going to get real about everything from pimple patches to our 'pick me' girl pasts. It's all about embracing your fabulous self, finding that rock-solid confidence, and saying goodbye to people and habits that just don't spark joy anymore. And let's chat about relationships - why it's crucial to know what you want and how not to fall for those oh-so-tempting but totally empty flatteries. Remember, comparison is the thief of joy, especially when it comes to other women. So, let's believe in our own allure and walk this journey of self-love and empowerment together. This series lives EXCLUSIVELY on my premium channel, so to listen to the FULL episode, make sure to subscribe and catch it here - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, we get to listen to the second half of Violetta's conversation with Sarah Baldwin. Sarah is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and Trauma-informed Life Coach dedicated to supporting individuals in understanding their reactions, feelings, and patterns, emphasizing that these are not indicative of anything wrong, but rather everything being right with the person. Violetta and Sarah will dig deep into what it means to have an anxious or avoidant attachment style, how to overcome it, and how it can potentially affect your current and future relationships. Discover how your nervous system is the puppeteer of your relationships, unravel the mysteries of anxious and avoidant attachments, and get the lowdown on why opposites attract but might not always stick. Learn the golden rules of relationship arguments, decode the dynamic dance between different attachment styles, and embrace the bravest steps towards love. Whether you're anxiously engaged or coolly detached, it's time to understand, set boundaries, and find out why, in the game of love, we're all wonderfully complex.If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today's Sponsors:Nutrafol - Find out why over 4,000 healthcare professionals recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Visit https://nutrafol.com/ and use promo code ADULTINGEpisode Highlights:00:00 Intro00:24 How does your nervous system affect your relationships?02:04 How does Anxious Attachment style develop?03:47 How does Avoidant Attachment style develop?05:18 What should you do if you have avoidant attachment?10:39 What should you do if you have anxious attachment? 12:39 Anxious and avoidant attachment attract each other17:22 The golden rule: Two dysregulated people can't solve an argument20:41 Most common dynamic between anxious and avoidant people21:37 We can be both avoidant and anxious24:03 Why both avoidantly and anxiously attached people are often misunderstood 28:14 We need to learn to understand each other30:04 A lot of us feel we're so f*cked up35:46 What is the bravest thing an avoidant person can do in a relationship?37:26 Can an avoidant and anxiously attached person have a relationship?40:56 Fear and excitement have the same somatic sensory response44:32 The people we need to set boundaries will resist those boundaries the most48:12 When to know that the other person is not yet safe for you to be in a relationship with55:16 We all make sense and there's nothing wrong with usConnect with Sarah on:https://www.sarahbaldwincoaching.com/ https://www.facebook.com/Sarahbaldwincoaching/ https://www.instagram.com/sarahbcoaching/ Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Welcome to another Benson Book Club Tuesday! It's been a favorite so we will discuss another chapter of Men Don't Love Women Like You! by G.L. Lambert - a manual on how to stop manipulation, command attention, and be seen as a must have by any man. Violetta dives into a heartfelt exploration of the transient nature of relationships, where we ponder the journey from being strangers to becoming lovers, and sometimes, strangers once again. This podcast delves into the gratitude we owe to those who've departed from our lives, the insights gained from lost love, and the realization that every encounter has its purpose, often serving as a lesson in our personal growth. Through stories and reflections, we uncover the essence of our connections, learning to appreciate every moment and person as part of our life's evolving narrative.If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today's Sponsors:Truly - To find Truly Hard Seltzer near you, go to www.trulyhardseltzer.com/locationsShopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at www.shopify.com/adultingSkims - Shop SKIMS Bras at https://skims.com/. Now available in 62 sizes. Plus, get free shipping on orders over $75!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:47 How we go from lovers to strangers04:50 We all start as strangers05:59 Why should we be thankful for the people who left?10:48 What do people who have lost love know?19:16 The purpose of our relationships is…22:49 One day, you'll realize that they were just a lesson Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Let's welcome Alex Bennett and Jordyn Woodruff, the duo behind the Mean Girl podcast. In the show, these two come together for honest conversations about sex, friendship, mental health, and living in the big city as outsiders.Violetta, Alex, and Jordyn didn't hold back as they talked about what makes friendships last, setting boundaries (because, hello, we need space!), and why growing apart might just mean you're growing up. Ever wonder how to navigate friendships when life stages change or how to detox from toxic pals? We've got you covered! Plus, get the scoop on making friends in your fabulous late 20s. Because, let's face it, friends are the family we choose, and it's never too late to add to your tribe!If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today's Sponsors:Talkspace - As a listener to this podcast, you'll get $80 off of your first month with Talkspace when you go to https://www.talkspace.com/.Glamsquad - For a limited time, Glamsquad is giving our listeners $20 odd any service. It's valid whether or not you've booked with them before. Visit https://glamsquad.com/ or the Glamsquad app and use code ADULTING at checkout.Episode Highlights:00:00 Intro01:36 How's LA?03:59 Do you make friends easily?04:21 How has making friends changed over the years?07:44 People who are able to maintain lasting friendships are green flags09:51 Does it matter how long you've been friends?15:31 How do you define a good friend?18:07 Scared to rely on friends too much21:29 Create boundaries with your friends23:24 Friendships growing apart as you mature32:36 If you're not growing apart, you're not growing up35:20 Do you stay friends with your married friends?39:42 Have you experienced a toxic friendship?43:06 Choose your friends who will say your name in a room full of opportunities44:28 Gossiping is false friendship bonding48:46 If you constantly talk about other people and nothing else54:51 How did you realize it was toxic?59:30 She's my BFF but she stole my ex01:05:06 What did you learn from a toxic friendship?01:07:31 How to heal from a friendship breakup01:15:11 How to make new friends in your late 20s01:16:43 You will continue to make friends your entire lifeConnect with Mean Girl on:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVGd0eUpf67iwp7K84wTJnQ https://www.instagram.com/meangirlpod https://twitter.com/meangirlpod Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! In today's Benson Book Club, Violetta will take inspiration from Men Don't Love Women Like You! by G.L. Lambert - a manual on how to stop manipulation, command attention, and be seen as a must have by any man. Let's take a look into men's true intentions in romance, separating truths from "D*ck Lies," understanding sexual significance, and uncovering why men pursue new conquests. Learn why you might be unknowingly auditioning for a role you didn't choose in the complexity of love and desire.If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today's Sponsors:Nuuly - Nuuly is a great value at $98 a month for any 6 styles, but right now you can get $20 off your first month of Nuuly when you sign up with the code ADULTING20. Just go to https://www.nuuly.com/What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:49 Chapter 3: Dick Lies 05:52 How will he know if you're a fling or not08:05 S*x is everything and nothing09:02 What does s*x mean to a man?11:45 Why men chase after new p*ssies15:00 Men claiming it's not about s*x21:17 Men don't always pressure you to have s*x25:17 Most women don't realize the role they are playing26:54 S*xual chemistry doesn't disappear because you're only talking27:44 You're being groomed for a placeholder positionGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, we welcome Sarah Baldwin. Sarah is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and Trauma-informed Life Coach dedicated to supporting individuals in understanding their reactions, feelings, and patterns, emphasizing that these are not indicative of anything wrong, but rather everything being right with the person. She focuses on showing individuals that they are safe and can get unstuck, which leads to thriving and living the life they're meant to live. Violetta and Sarah will unpack everything from why your nervous system might be more tangled than your headphone cords, to the truth behind why we sometimes mix up safety with danger. Ever wondered why your relationships feel like a soap opera? We've got the lowdown on that too. And for those moments when you're feeling more 'meh' than magical, we'll guide you through the maze of moods to find your way back to fabulous. So, buckle up and prepare to confront the uncomfortable with a heap of insight - because understanding your inner workings should never be boring!If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today's Sponsors:Penrose Hill - Firstleaf. Go to www.tryfirstleaf.com/ADULTING to get your first box.Nuuly - Nuuly is a great value at $98 a month for any 6 styles, but right now you can get $20 off your first month of Nuuly when you sign up with the code ADULTING20. Just go to https://www.nuuly.com/ Episode Highlights:00:00 Intro02:00 How to tell if someone is emotionally regulated / dysregulated?03:57 What is the nervous system & what does it have to do with emotional regulation?10:25 Why is having a dysregulated nervous system so common?12:05 The reason why we sometimes perceive safety as danger17:04 What does dysregulation look like in relationships?20:37 Can I always feel "good"?21:51 The four primary states we go through29:43 Is our nervous system attached to our childhood experiences32:05 You're not your dysregulated reactions, and that's okay35:50 Taking tolerable steps towards the things that scare us36:04 How to confront the uncomfortable39:25 You're in the right track if you find it difficult to do43:23 How to pull yourself out of unhappiness through regulation46:39 Learning how to have safe confrontations50:04 How to create a list that makes you feel alive53:26 What are the best somatic practices to regulate our nervous system?Connect with Sarah on:https://www.sarahbaldwincoaching.com/ https://www.facebook.com/Sarahbaldwincoaching/ https://www.instagram.com/sarahbcoaching/ Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex by John Gray. The book provides a practical and proven way for men and women to improve their communication and relationships by acknowledging the differences between them. Today, Violetta will talk about the dynamics of motivation and love as she unpacks the secrets to motivating the opposite sex and explores the balance between love, responsibility, and boundaries. From understanding the importance of making a positive difference in someone's life to recognizing the fine line between need and neediness, Violetta dishes out her signature blend of wisdom and wit. So get ready to uncover the keys to fostering meaningful connections and navigating the ups and downs of modern romance. If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month! Today's Sponsor:Thrive Market - Join in on the savings with Thrive Market today and get 30% off your first order, plus a FREE $60 gift. Go to https://thrivemarket.com//adulting Glamsquad - For a limited time, Glamsquad is giving our listeners $20 odd any service. It's valid whether or not you've booked with them before. Visit https://glamsquad.com/ or the Glamsquad app and use code ADULTING at checkoutWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:34 How to motivate the opposite s*x09:54 When a man is in love, he's motivated more11:27 When a man doesn't feel he's making a positive difference in someone's life15:22 Many women today want time off, a time for themselves21:51 A woman needs to recognize her boundaries22:55 Step 1 - Motivation23:56 Step 2 - Taking Responsibility24:45 Step 3 - Practice26:03 As man experiences limits, he is motivated to do more28:38 The difference between needing and neediness31:16 A man appears most caring when he is afraidGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! For another Benson Book Club session, we're going to dive deep into Why We Hold On Tightest on the Things That Aren't Meant for Us from Brianna Wiest's 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think. Violet shares her candid insights on navigating the complexities of relationships - from moving on from unrequited love and why we often find ourselves drawn to those who can't reciprocate our feelings to invaluable advice on finding peace and self-love amidst the chaos of modern romance. It's time to empower yourself and begin your journey to emotional freedom.Today's Sponsors:Factor - Head to factormeals.com/ADULTING50 and use code ADULTING50 to get 50% off.Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at www.shopify.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro05:07 How to let go of the things that's killing you inside?10:22 You can't convince someone to love you if they don't19:21 How do you fall out of love with the idea of someone?24:13 Why do we keep choosing people who can't love us back? Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, Vanderpump Rules cast Scheana Shay joins Violetta for an exciting and at the same time heart-tugging conversation. Throughout her time on "Vanderpump Rules," Scheana became known for her outgoing personality, dramatic relationships, and candid portrayal of her personal life on the show. In addition to her work on reality television, she has pursued acting and music endeavors. She has appeared in several television shows and films, as well as releasing her own music singles.Violetta and talk about the complexities of childcare, the challenges of maintaining friendships, and a potential sneak peek of Vanderpump Season 11. Plus the duo spills the tea on lost friendships, potential redemption arcs, and the behind-the-scenes drama you won't hear anywhere else. On a serious note, bravely shares her experiences with postpartum OCD, the healing power of EMDR therapy, and the heartbreaking reality of pregnancy loss. It's a raw and vulnerable exploration of mental health, friendship dynamics, and the bittersweet journey of self-discovery. If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:27 What's one thing people misunderstood about you in the show?02:30 How did motherhood change you? 04:13 What's your biggest fear around getting help with babysitting your child?07:06 Have you had support from other new moms?07:45 What's a question someone has never asked you?08:30 “I'm never the favorite of this show.” 12:18 Hopes for Season 1113:17 Losing a friendship of 15 years17:09 Is the new season setting the stage for Sandoval's redemption arc?19:16 Are you the friend that flip-flops?20:38 Figuring out a way to not breakdown in front of your child22:24 Friendship pact with Katie 24:37 What can people look forward to this season?26:05 Is Billie Lee in love with Tom Sandoval?33:31 Postpartum OCD39:39 EMDR Therapy 43:35 Pregnancy loss and traumatic labor45:13 Severe intrusive thoughts47:07 Signs of OCD before pregnancy50:54 Thinking of death everydayConnect with Scheana on:https://www.instagram.com/createthelove/ https://twitter.com/createthelove https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv https://createthelove.com/ Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta welcomes television host and producer Kamie Crawford. Kamie also hosts her successful podcast, Relationsh*t and MTV's long-running reality-based documentary series “Catfish: The TV Show”.Get ready to dive into all things fun and fabulous with Violet and Kamie. They chat about everything from what's currently keeping them busy to the importance of staying hydrated (because, let's face it, we need to keep those vibes flowing!). Plus, we'll dish on some seriously spicy topics, like the Stanley cup's wild ride through a car fire and the sinful indulgence of beignets. Oh, and don't worry, Bestie, we'll let you in on some secrets too—like debunking those silly misconceptions about their social media persona and sharing the biggest lessons learned last year. If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today's Sponsors:CBDistillery - Visit www.cbdistillery.com and use code ADULTING for 20% off.Penrose Hill - Try something new this year with Firstleaf. Go to www.tryfirstleaf.com/ADULTING to sign up and you'll get your first SIX hand-curated bottles for just $44.95.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro04:04 What are you currently working on?05:48 The importance of staying hydrated all day06:40 The Stanley cup that withstood a car fire09:18 Unhealthy food choices11:48 Have you had a beignet?15:06 What's something most people don't know about you?20:05 What's the most common misconception about you?25:26 How are you when someone gets on your bad side?28:57 What are you currently working to improve?35:24 What's the hardest lesson you learned last year?37:37 Does your mom have a very thick accent?40:27 What past experience that still resonates with you today?48:15 What's the worst thing that can happen?54:41 What's something you don't want to repeat this year? 01:00:53 My social media is like my house…Connect with Kamie on:https://www.kamiecrawford.com/https://twitter.com/KamieCrawford https://www.tiktok.com/@kamiecrawford https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChpYYY1gnYb-4zbkK9xhpNA https://www.linkedin.com/in/kamiecrawford/ https://www.instagram.com/kamiecrawford https://www.facebook.com/KamieCrawford/ Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta will give us a quick recap of Love is Blind Season 6. Is Matthew just your average guy, or could he be hiding a dark secret? From navigating the rules of marriage with AD and Clay to exploring the dynamics of religious love with Brittany and Kenneth, we'll delve into the highs and lows of partnership. Buckle up as we dissect the correlation between love and lust with Jimmy and Jessica, and uncover the telltale signs of trouble in relationships. Whether it's recognizing red flags or learning to prioritize self-growth, this episode is packed with insights to navigate the rollercoaster of love and emotions. If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today's Sponsors:Skims - Believe the hype - SKIMS has over 100,000 five star reviews for a reason. Visit www.skims.com/ Express VPN - Stop missing out on great TV and get thousands of new shows with Express VPN - we got them to give you guys three extra months free when you use our special link www.expressvpn.com/ADULTING.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:38 Is Matthew a serial killer?07:55 AD and Clay - rules of marriage09:59 Brittany and Kenneth - the religious couple11:06 Jimmy and Jessica - correlating love with lust14:55 When someone rejects you, leave18:30 Jimmy's red flags24:16 Crying over the consequences of your actions26:44 Chelsea, work on yourself and stop seeking validation from your partner28:19 Who will walk down the aisle?Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! The man behind the Create the Love is back! Mark Groves is a human connection specialist, speaker, writer, motivator, creator, connector and collaborator. As a bridge between the academic and the human, Mark invites people to explore the good, bad, downright ugly, and beautiful sides of connection.What does it truly mean to find liberation in love? How do we reclaim our worth after it's been taken from us? Today, Violetta and Mark explore these questions and more, delving into topics like building self-trust, healing codependency, and navigating the emotional complexities of heartbreak. From learning to communicate our deepest emotions to embracing closure and letting go, each chapter of this episode offers profound insights and empowering strategies for navigating the highs and lows of love. If you're looking for answers, this one's for you!If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:43 Liberated Love 06:36 You've forgotten yourself in the relationship09:46 They took your worth with them when they left13:36 How do you build a high level of self trust?17:42 How do you heal codependency?19:46 The great disconnect28:04 Learning self-regulation through co-regulation35:14 Creating a space for you and your partner's pain38:47 The analogy of the burning house42:57 Closing ceremony for an ended relationship51:19 Communicate how to feel 56:16 Emotional triggers actually never go away01:02:21 Does your partner get you?01:04:27 The right person can't come if you won't let go of the wrong one01:06:39 What does it mean when love is not enough?01:10:52 Using the ides of love to bypass the pain01:16:03 How do you get your ex back?Connect with Mark on:https://www.instagram.com/createthelove/ https://twitter.com/createthelove https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv https://createthelove.com/ Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Ready to take a deep dive into the world of love and self-discovery? Today, for another episode of Benson Book Club, Violetta will read and ponder on the 16 Reasons Why You Still Don't Have The Love That You Want from Brianna Wiest's 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think. Whether you're relying on others to do the work for you or expecting love to change your life, we've got the insights to help you navigate the twists and turns of the heart. Discover how honoring your inner child, embracing kindness, and aligning your heart and mind can lead to deeper connections and self-fulfillment. Don't miss out on this enlightening journey to finding love within yourself and beyond! If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today's Sponsors:Truly - To find Truly Hard Seltzer near you, go to https://trulyhardseltzer.com/locations What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:54 16 reasons why you still don't have the love that you want14:25 The most meaningful relationships are the ones in which we are reflective back to ourselves16:47 Every relationship you have is with yourself19:38 Be your own person and do what you can on your own time Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! It's time for another eye-opening episode with Violetta! We're diving into the complexities of relationships and decoding the male mind. Find out why even when a man takes you for granted, he still craves reassurance from you. Discover the power of non-verbal communication in teaching a man how to treat you right, and why the sexiest thing about you should be your ability to swiftly leave him alone when necessary! Get ready for laughs, insights, and a whole lot of girl talk—Violetta style! If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today's Sponsors:Talkspace - As a listener to this podcast, you'll get $80 off of your first month with Talkspace when you go to https://www.talkspace.com/.Nutrafol - Find out why over 4,000 healthcare professionals recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Visit https://nutrafol.com/ and use promo code ADULTING Penrose Hill - Try something new this year with Firstleaf. Go to www.tryfirstleaf.com/ADULTING to sign up and you'll get your first SIX hand-curated bottles for just $44.95.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:00 What do you do when your man is acting out?05:26 When a man takes a woman for granted he still needs reassurance from you09:13 Words are not needed to teach a man how to treat you right12:14 When you first met him, you didn't nag14:30 The sexiest thing about you should be how quickly you leave him alone17:53 What type of nagger are you?22:18 Use a man's ego to motivate him26:40 Men know when they take you for granted Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta dives into Chapter 5: Jumping Through Hoops Like a Circus Poodle from “Why Men Love B*tches” by Sherry Argov. Ever wondered why most women crave something from a man that they need to give themselves or where the key is keeping your rhythm intact to avoid creating a void in your life? Learn why lowering yourself to fit his criteria lowers the relationship value and why being the "nice girl" might not always be in your best interest. If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today's Sponsors:Express VPN - Stop missing out on great TV and get thousands of new shows with Express VPN - we got them to give you guys three extra months free when you use our special link www.expressvpn.com/ADULTING.Thrive Market - Join in on the savings with Thrive Market today and get 30% off your first order, plus FREE $60 gift! Go to www.thrivemarket.com/ADULTING. IQBAR - Now, our special podcast listeners get 20% off all IQBAR products, plus get FREE shipping. To get your 20% off, just text ADULTING to 64000.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:40 Chapter 5: Jumping Through Hoops Like a Circus Poodle05:40 Attraction Principle #3: If you allow your rhythm to be interrupted, you'll create a void07:08 Attraction Principle #44: Most women are starving to receive something from a man that they need to give to themselves08:20 Attraction Principle #45: A woman looks more secure for a man when he can't pull her away from her life09:11 Attraction Principle #46: Once she lowers herself to fit his criteria, she has lowered the standard of that relationship 15:50 Attraction Principle #48: You have to keep from being sucked down into a quicksand18:34 Attraction Principle #50: The nice girl gives herself away too much to please the man19:41 Attraction Principle #51: The relationship might not be right for you if your jumping through hoopsGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, we welcome author, psychologist, and speaker Guy Winch. Guy specializes in the field of emotional health and well-being. He has gained recognition for his work in advocating for the importance of addressing emotional pain and mental health. He has given popular TED Talks on subjects such as "Why We All Need to Practice Emotional First Aid" and has authored books, including "Emotional First Aid: Healing Rejection, Guilt, Failure, and Other Everyday Hurts."Discover how to handle rejection without becoming your own worst critic and get inspired by Guy's own journey through fourteen years of rejection. From trust issues to self-criticism, we got your back with some real talk on navigating those tough moments. Learn the art of nurturing a supportive inner voice, practicing healthy self-reflection, and building emotional resilience. Plus, explore the fascinating world of emotional hygiene and the tools you need for a more resilient emotional well-being.If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:52 What are the most common emotions we experience when going through rejection? 02:58 Why do we stop trusting ourselves after a rejection?04:33 Don't become self critical when you experience rejection06:11 How do you personally handle rejection and failure?07:40 Getting through fourteen years of rejection09:12 Having enough encouragement to keep you going10:49 How do you nurture a more supportive inner voice?15:42 What is healthy self-reflection?18:17 It's about falling down, it's about getting back up21:17 What is emotional hygiene?24:46 What happens when you don't practice emotional hygiene?26:44 The tools you need to build emotional resilience28:56 Is self-compassion a game changer when it comes to dealing with failure?31:22 How do emotional wounds show up physically?34:37 Why do people get stuck in loneliness?39:28 Mindbloom: ketamine therapy for anxiety and depression45:05 Common misconceptions of psychedelics47:37 What are people most curious about psychedelics?49:16 Change your approach to emotional well-being50:00 The duration of ketamine treatment51:10 Is ketamine treatment right for you?53:26 What we don't understand about heartbreaks56:17 Heartbreak is a grief process01:00:00 If you're not feeling great, it's not the best time to go online01:04:14 Real connection requires slight emotional vulnerability01:05:57 How can you make yourself happier?01:09:34 The difference between being alone and chronic loneliness01:11:12 Our emotional health requires effort01:15:08 Check-in with yourself periodicallyConnect with Guy on:https://www.guywinch.com/ https://twitter.com/GuyWinch https://www.instagram.com/guywinch https://www.ted.com/speakers/guy_winch https://www.facebook.com/guywinchauthor/ Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! For another Benson Book CLub session, we are unpacking the fifteen expectations to let go of from the book, 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author's most beloved pieces of writing. Some of these pieces have never been seen; others have been read by millions of people around the world. This week, we're shedding the weight of unrealistic expectations and embracing the beauty of imperfection. From the myth of being meant for extraordinary things to the revelation that faults can be forgivable and attributes exceptional, Violetta breaks down the barriers that hold us back. Learn why the right person doesn't always come at the right time and why postponing your happiness is a recipe for dissatisfaction. It's time to let go, embrace the now, and set goals that truly align with your happiness! If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month! Today's Sponsor:Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at www.shopify.com/adultingWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:40 Fifteen expectation to let go of to live a good life02:14 #1: You are mean to be extraordinary03:11 #2: Your faults are more forgivable and your attributes are more exceptional 03:54 #3: You can outsmart pain04:15 #4: You must let go of the expectation that love is something other people give you04:57 #5: Feeling something deeply means that it's meant to be06:01 #6: If you work on yourself enough then you will not struggle anymore06:13 #7: The idea that you can control what people think of you07:56 #8: Hard work guarantees success08:23 #9: The idea that your thoughts will change themselves when your circumstances change09:03 #10: The belief that other people are responsible for your feelings 10:00 #11: Emotional intelligence is infallible composure10:44 #12: The idea that the right person will come at the right time11:21 #13: The idea that you can postpone your happiness or save it up11:59 #14: Anxiety and negative thinking are just pesky irritants that you have to learn to avoid12:33 #15: Focusing slowly on your own needs will make you the happiest13:20 Good goals to set to enjoy what you have than chase what you don't haveGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta spills the secrets to empowering your love life as she unveils how praise is the key to getting your man to treat you like the queen you are. Get ready to make friends with his ego, tapping into his need to feel essential. It's all about setting the tone from the beginning and letting him feel the power of protecting you. Don't waste time and learn the art of giving a man power, making him irresistibly drawn to safeguarding you. By mastering the art of convincing him he's in control while subtly steering the ship, you become the dream girl! If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:15 How to convince him that he's in control04:57 Praise is an effective tool in getting your man to treat you right07:05 Make friends with his ego, make him feel needed16:20 The beginning sets the tone of how you want to be treated19:00 Men control the world but women control the men22:19 Give the man power and he'll want to protect you27:22 Don't tell him how shitty your ex treated you29:54 If he's interested in you, he'll make it obviousGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Ever dealt with a guy who thinks he's a dating maestro, juggling messages with multiple girls at once? Ugh, the worst! Can't we have one guy who's actually committed to making a girl feel special?In today's episode, Violetta gets real with Brooke Schofield, co-host of Cancelled with Tana Mongeau. They spill the tea on Matt Rife's questionable dating tactics (seriously, bro?), but the conversation takes a deep turn as Brooke opens up about her challenging childhood with two drug-addicted parents. Brooke shares her journey dealing with borderline personality disorder, revealing the power of self-healing and finding stability through medication. It's a rollercoaster of real talk and genuine connection—tune in, Besties! If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today's Sponsors:CBDistillery - Visit www.cbdistillery.com and use code ADULTING for 20% off.Nutrafol - Nutrafol - Find out why over 4,000 healthcare professionals recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Visit https://nutrafol.com/ and use promo code ADULTINGEveryPlate - EveryPlate - Get started with EveryPlate for just $1.49 per meal by going to https://www.everyplate.com and enter the code 49ADULTING What to Listen For:00:00 Intro00:51 What's your hidden talent that no one knows about?02:53 Did you go to college?05:12 What piece of advice have you recently heard?06:19 Why do you want to manifest a healthy relationship?12:26 Is Matt Rife the one that got away?13:38 What would be your star rating for Matt Rife?17:16 I never see the red flags19:15 What did you learn so far that you want in a partner?22:07 What's the most pivotal moment in your life that shaped you today?23:58 What made 2022 a terribly low year?26:30 A horrible breakup packed with deceit and lying29:43 I was so miserable, I needed help30:48 What is borderline personality disorder?33:53 Did you feel a sense of relief when you were on medication?35:42 How do you slowly get out of a dark place?42:56 What do people assume when you have borderline personality disorder?45:00 What advice do you have for those who aren't taking medication?49:30 Why do I struggle with therapy?53:02 Growing up in family with two drug addict parents56:34 I stayed with my grandparents and never got picked up59:40 My mom helped me get through the toughest time01:02:11 How do you deal with guilt?01:04:12 Our parents are just like us when they were our age01:06:53 Upcoming tour with Tana and Brooke Connect with Brooke on:https://www.tiktok.com/@brookeschofield1 https://twitter.com/broookeamber https://www.youtube.com/@BrookeSchofield1 Cancelled with Tana Mongeau podcastGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Ever wondered how to turn your life around when you're feeling rock bottom? Need a boost when it all seems bleak? Well, it's Benson Book Club time, and today, we're delving into Robert Greene's "The 48 Laws of Power," specifically Law #25 – Recreate Yourself. Violetta kicks off by reading the juicy core of the chapter, then dives into why it's perfectly okay to hit the reset button when everything feels stuck. Spoiler alert: You're totally allowed to shake things up, start anew, and recreate yourself for a better, more badass version of you! Tune in for the inspiration you didn't know you needed.If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What's more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!Today's Sponsors:Truly - To find Truly Hard Seltzer ner ou, go to www.trulyhardseltzer.com/locations IQBAR - Now, our special podcast listeners get 20% off all IQBAR products, plus get FREE shipping. To get your 20% off, just text ADULTING to 64000.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:41 The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene02:37 Law #25: Recreate Yourself15:25 You are allowed to start over if you feel like it18:19 Recreating yourself at the lowest moments is usually the most pivotal momentGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.