Podcasts about Jazz club

Programa on el Jazz actual és la clau, amb novetats d'editorials de casa nostra com Fresh Sound New Talent, Quadrant Records i Temps Record, pel que fa al Jazz d'autor. Amb Miquel Tuset. podcast recorded with enacast.com

El millor jazz de l'actualitat i de tots els temps, amb Miquel Tuset. Dimecres, de 22 a 00 h (repetició els diumenges) podcast recorded with enacast.com

rWotD Episode 2972: Tommy Tour Welcome to Random Wiki of the Day, your journey through Wikipedia's vast and varied content, one random article at a time.The random article for Monday, 23 June 2025, is Tommy Tour.The Tommy Tour was a concert tour by the English rock band the Who. It was in support of their fourth album, the rock opera Tommy (1969), and consisted of concerts split between North America and Europe. Following a press reception gig, the tour officially began on 9 May 1969 and ended on 20 December 1970. The set list featured the majority of the songs from Tommy, as well as originals and covers.After multiple rehearsals and warm-up gigs, the band played a private show at Ronnie Scott's Jazz Club, London in early May 1969 intended to preview Tommy to the press. Subsequently, the band toured North America playing the new album, which was well received by audiences. Following a UK tour, the band played the Tanglewood Music Shed and the Woodstock festival. After Woodstock, the band headlined the second Isle of Wight festival and played Tommy at the Concertgebouw in Amsterdam, one of the world's forefront opera houses. The band continued to tour North America, emphasized by eight shows done over the course of six days at the Fillmore East in New York City. The Who ended 1969 with tour of Europe that continued into 1970, including a show at the London Coliseum on 14 December, which was filmed for a possible future Tommy film.The group began 1970 by bringing Tommy to various European opera houses. During their tour, the critically acclaimed live album Live at Leeds was recorded during a show at the University of Leeds Refectory, Leeds. After the European tour wrapped up, the band returned to the United States for a tour, starting with two shows at the Metropolitan Opera House, New York City in June. Following the tour, the band played several concerts in Europe, including a headlining appearance at the third Isle of Wight festival in August. The band ended the Tommy Tour with a benefit concert at the Roundhouse in London.This recording reflects the Wikipedia text as of 00:18 UTC on Monday, 23 June 2025.For the full current version of the article, see Tommy Tour on Wikipedia.This podcast uses content from Wikipedia under the Creative Commons Attribution-ShareAlike License.Visit our archives at wikioftheday.com and subscribe to stay updated on new episodes.Follow us on Mastodon at @wikioftheday@masto.ai.Also check out Curmudgeon's Corner, a current events podcast.Until next time, I'm standard Raveena.

James Jozee On The Capital Jazz Club by Capital FM

Programa on el Jazz actual és la clau, amb novetats d'editorials de casa nostra com Fresh Sound New Talent, Quadrant Records i Temps Record, pel que fa al Jazz d'autor. Amb Miquel Tuset. podcast recorded with enacast.com

Programa on el Jazz actual és la clau, amb novetats d'editorials de casa nostra com Fresh Sound New Talent, Quadrant Records i Temps Record, pel que fa al Jazz d'autor. Amb Miquel Tuset. podcast recorded with enacast.com

El millor jazz de l'actualitat i de tots els temps, amb Miquel Tuset. Dimecres, de 22 a 00 h (repetició els diumenges) podcast recorded with enacast.com

Programa on el Jazz actual és la clau, amb novetats d'editorials de casa nostra com Fresh Sound New Talent, Quadrant Records i Temps Record, pel que fa al Jazz d'autor. Amb Miquel Tuset. podcast recorded with enacast.com

El millor jazz de l'actualitat i de tots els temps, amb Miquel Tuset. Dimecres, de 22 a 00 h (repetició els diumenges) podcast recorded with enacast.com

‘Jazz Club' és el programa d'actualitat jazzística que dona veu a tots els agents del sector. Aquesta producció de Ràdio Municipal de Terrassa vol ajudar a popularitzar el jazz entre tots els públics. Músics, directors de festivals, associacions, fotògrafs, crítics musicals i clubs de jazz, tots tenen veu cada setmana a ‘Jazz Club', el programa que explica tota l'actualitat jazzística que genera el país i que està dirigit i presentat per Susanna Carmona. podcast recorded with enacast.com

Revista d'actualitat jazzística que pretén donar veu als diferents agents del sector com músics, directors de festivals i associacions, fotògrafs, crítics musicals, responsables discogràfics i de clubs de jazz, amb l'objectiu de difondre el jazz a un públic divers. podcast recorded with enacast.com

Programa on el Jazz actual és la clau, amb novetats d'editorials de casa nostra com Fresh Sound New Talent, Quadrant Records i Temps Record, pel que fa al Jazz d'autor. Amb Miquel Tuset podcast recorded with enacast.com

Programa on el Jazz actual és la clau, amb novetats d'editorials de casa nostra com Fresh Sound New Talent, Quadrant Records i Temps Record, pel que fa al Jazz d'autor. Amb Miquel Tuset. podcast recorded with enacast.com

Programa on el Jazz actual és la clau, amb novetats d'editorials de casa nostra com Fresh Sound New Talent, Quadrant Records i Temps Record, pel que fa al Jazz d'autor. Amb Miquel Tuset. podcast recorded with enacast.com

‘Jazz Club' és el programa d'actualitat jazzística que dona veu a tots els agents del sector. Aquesta producció de Ràdio Municipal de Terrassa vol ajudar a popularitzar el jazz entre tots els públics. Músics, directors de festivals, associacions, fotògrafs, crítics musicals i clubs de jazz, tots tenen veu cada setmana a ‘Jazz Club', el programa que explica tota l'actualitat jazzística que genera el país i que està dirigit i presentat per Susanna Carmona. podcast recorded with enacast.com

Programa on el Jazz actual és la clau, amb novetats d'editorials de casa nostra com Fresh Sound New Talent, Quadrant Records i Temps Record, pel que fa al Jazz d'autor. Amb Miquel Tuset podcast recorded with enacast.com

Revista d'actualitat jazzística que pretén donar veu als diferents agents del sector com músics, directors de festivals i associacions, fotògrafs, crítics musicals, responsables discogràfics i de clubs de jazz, amb l'objectiu de difondre el jazz a un públic divers. podcast recorded with enacast.com

Felix Fromm Sextett | Hessischer Rundfunk, Hörfunkstudio II, Frankfurt, Februar 2025 | Der "Jazzclub in Studio II" bietet Mitgliedern der hr-Bigband die Möglichkeit, mit Kolleg*innen und befreundeten Musiker*innen neue Konzepte und Ideen zu verwirklichen. Er bietet eine Spielwiese für die kreativen Köpfe der Band und das Umfeld, in neuen Konstellationen neue Musik auszuprobieren. Nicht selten sind auf diese Art schon Projekte entstanden, die in der Folge noch lange Bestand haben sollten. (Sendung vom 4.5.)

Singer Elaine Dame joins Rick Kogan to discuss her third album, ‘Reminiscing,’ and her upcoming performance at the Winter’s Jazz Club on May 16th.

Programa on el Jazz actual és la clau, amb novetats d'editorials de casa nostra com Fresh Sound New Talent, Quadrant Records i Temps Record, pel que fa al Jazz d'autor. Amb Miquel Tuset. podcast recorded with enacast.com

El millor jazz de l'actualitat i de tots els temps, amb Miquel Tuset. Dimecres, de 22 a 00 h (repetició els diumenges) podcast recorded with enacast.com

WGN Radio’s Rick Kogan is joined by Libby York, who is performing ‘Songs That Turn Up the Heat’ at Winter's Jazz Club on Thursday, May 1st. Libby talks about her adventures in music and the changing audience.

"The composition is made samples cut from the original field recording, with a little additions, looped and rearranged. It finishes with a nod to a Paris Jazz great." Jazz show at Le Baiser Salé, Paris reimagined by Simon Woods. 

Programa on el Jazz actual és la clau, amb novetats d'editorials de casa nostra com Fresh Sound New Talent, Quadrant Records i Temps Record, pel que fa al Jazz d'autor. Amb Miquel Tuset. podcast recorded with enacast.com

El millor jazz de l'actualitat i de tots els temps, amb Miquel Tuset. Dimecres, de 22 a 00 h (repetició els diumenges) podcast recorded with enacast.com

‘Jazz Club' és el programa d'actualitat jazzística que dona veu a tots els agents del sector. Aquesta producció de Ràdio Municipal de Terrassa vol ajudar a popularitzar el jazz entre tots els públics. Músics, directors de festivals, associacions, fotògrafs, crítics musicals i clubs de jazz, tots tenen veu cada setmana a ‘Jazz Club', el programa que explica tota l'actualitat jazzística que genera el país i que està dirigit i presentat per Susanna Carmona. podcast recorded with enacast.com

Programa on el Jazz actual és la clau, amb novetats d'editorials de casa nostra com Fresh Sound New Talent, Quadrant Records i Temps Record, pel que fa al Jazz d'autor. Amb Miquel Tuset podcast recorded with enacast.com

Revista d'actualitat jazzística que pretén donar veu als diferents agents del sector com músics, directors de festivals i associacions, fotògrafs, crítics musicals, responsables discogràfics i de clubs de jazz, amb l'objectiu de difondre el jazz a un públic divers. podcast recorded with enacast.com

Programa on el Jazz actual és la clau, amb novetats d'editorials de casa nostra com Fresh Sound New Talent, Quadrant Records i Temps Record, pel que fa al Jazz d'autor. Amb Miquel Tuset. podcast recorded with enacast.com

Programa on el Jazz actual és la clau, amb novetats d'editorials de casa nostra com Fresh Sound New Talent, Quadrant Records i Temps Record, pel que fa al Jazz d'autor. Amb Miquel Tuset. podcast recorded with enacast.com

El millor jazz de l'actualitat i de tots els temps, amb Miquel Tuset. Dimecres, de 22 a 00 h (repetició els diumenges) podcast recorded with enacast.com

Keechero Reloaded | Hessischer Rundfunk, Hörfunkstudio II, Frankfurt, Februar 2025 | Der "Jazzclub in Studio II" bietet Mitgliedern der hr-Bigband die Möglichkeit, mit Kolleg*innen und befreundeten Musiker*innen neue Konzepte und Ideen zu verwirklichen. Er bietet eine Spielwiese für die kreativen Köpfe der Band und das Umfeld, in neuen Konstellationen neue Musik auszuprobieren. Nicht selten sind auf diese Art schon Projekte entstanden, die in der Folge noch lange Bestand haben sollten. (Sendung vom 27.4.)

In this episode of Life Along the Streetcar, we sit down with Arthur Vint, drummer, visionary, and the creative force behind the Century Room, Tucson's very own slice of New York's jazz scene. Nestled inside Hotel Congress with its own discreet entrance off Congress & 5th, the Century Room blends NYC basement-club charm with a warm Sonoran welcome. Arthur shares how his years performing and working at the iconic Village Vanguard inspired the design, sound, and soul of this Downtown gem.

NIC & DESI: Broadway to Hollywood! @ Catalina Jazz Club – 8.5 out of 10! Great Show! LA Theatre Bites Recommended! April 10, 2025. www.latheatrebites.com

In this episode, Kelsey chats with Mary Ellen from the Wonderland on Points podcast and @familytravel4thewin on Instagram to hear all about her family of 5's 4-night getaway to the Grand Hyatt Baha Mar in the Bahamas. Traveling in January 2025, Mary Ellen shares how she booked both flights and hotel entirely on points, plus her tips for saving on food while still enjoying the best the resort has to offer. From daily fun at the Baha Bay waterpark (included in your stay!) to choosing budget-friendly dining options and navigating the resort with kids of all ages, this episode is packed with helpful insights for families dreaming of a warm-weather escape.Mentioned in this episode:- LINK to $25 travel toddler cot: https://amzlink.to/az01SvOlw8T3Z- LINK to big-kid inflatable (with foot) sleeping mat: https://amzlink.to/az0wCGVzlVgpS- LINK to flat-packed sand toys: https://urlgeni.us/amzn/qhZqz- Baha Mar Resort Hotels: Rosewood, SLS, Grand Hyatt- Baha Bay Waterpark- Hyatt Guest of Honor Reward and Hyatt Globalist Status- Kraven App- John Batiste's Jazz Club at Baha Mar- FlightConnections.com- Mary Ellen's Facebook Group: Traveling on PointsBUY ME A COFFEE to show your support for the Trip Tales podcast! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/kelseygravesFOLLOW: Kelsey on Instagram & TikTokSHOP: Kelsey's Travel Favorites from her Amazon storefront.SHARE: About your trip on the Trip Tales podcast: triptalespodcast@gmail.com PARTNER DISCOUNT CODESCOZY EARTH - 40% off Bamboo Sheets that feel like hotel luxury with code: CE-KELSEYGRAVES BLING2O - 10% OFF Bling2o kids ski or swim goggles with code: KELSEYSPANX.COM - Use code KGRAVESXSPANX for 15% OFF full-price items and FREE SHIPPING. My current fav travel outfit is the Air Essentials Jumpsuit. CHASE SAPPHIRE CREDIT CARD - My preferred points earning credit card and a great card for newbies entering the points & miles space to get started. Ope...

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A viral video online shows a woman being asked to leave the Chatterbox Jazz Club on Mass Avenue for being a Trump supporter. This year's men's March Madness will feature only one school from Indiana. The Federal Election Commission recently fined a U.S. Representative from Indiana's Fourth Congressional District for a campaign finance violation. Former State Senator Karen Tallian is the new chair of the Indiana Democratic Party. Want to go deeper on the stories you hear on WFYI News Now? Visit wfyi.org/news and follow us on social media to get comprehensive analysis and local news daily. Subscribe to WFYI News Now wherever you get your podcasts. WFYI News Now is produced by Drew Daudelin, Zach Bundy and Abriana Herron, with support from News Director Sarah Neal-Estes.

Welcome to the Group Dentistry Now Show, the voice of the DSO industry! We welcome special guests Dr. Tony Molina, partner at Guardian Dentistry Partners, and Bob Edwards, National Accounts Director for Jazz Imaging. Join us as we dive into the evolution of imaging in dentistry, the challenges and successes faced by DSOs, and how Guardian Dentistry Partners is revolutionizing support for dental practices. Dr. Molina shares his journey from private practice to Guardian Dentistry Partners, a DSO with 170 offices across 12 states, while Bob discusses Jazz Imaging's innovative subscription model, the Jazz Club, which is transforming how dental practices manage their imaging needs. In this episode, you'll learn about: The importance of imaging in modern dentistry The challenges of integrating different imaging systems across multiple practices How Jazz Imaging is addressing common pain points with their unique sensor solutions Insights into the future of the DSO industry and the digital transformation of dental practices Whether you're a dental professional, a DSO leader, or simply interested in the future of dentistry, this episode is packed with valuable insights and practical advice. Don't forget to subscribe to our channel for more episodes and visit groupdentistrynow.com for the latest DSO news and updates! To learn more about Jazz Imaging visit - https://www.jazzimaging.com/ or email Bob Edwards - bob@jazzimaging.com To learn more about Guardian Dentistry Partners visit - https://www.guardiandentistry.com/ Guests: Dr. Tony Molina, Guardian Dentistry Partners & Bob Edwards, Jazz Imaging

The entire Montreal-based band Bellbird sits down for our only 5-person episode ever! Reedists Claire Devlin and Allison Burik join Eli Davidovici and Mili Hong, who were influential on the Vancouver scene while they were based here and previously appeared on Will Chernoff's edition of the podcast as a duo. The members variously played four Infidels Jazz shows last week, including Jazz at the Bolt, the New Thing series, Frankie's After Dark (in my own band), and Knockouts at All-City Athletics. They continue with Hermann's Jazz Club in Victoria tomorrow night. Mili also plays in Gordy Li's Smurf 4 at the Painted Ship for Infidels Jazz tonight.Become a member for free today at rhythmchanges.ca. You'll get the free weekly email with upcoming events from the gig list, plus artists, events, or recordings for you to enjoy and share. Sent every Tuesday morning at 6:00 AM Pacific Time.Hosted by Chris Fraser. Edited and mixed by Will Chernoff. A Chernoff Music podcast. Theme music: "Lutin" by William Chernoff.

Wally's Cafe Jazz Club has been owned and operated by the same family since it opened in 1947.Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy

Seit Jahrzehnten ist der Jazzclub Unterfahrt München für sein ambitioniertes wie renommiertes Live-Musikprogramm über die Stadt- und Landesgrenzen bekannt. Das New Yorker Down-Beat-Magazine listet den Club, der seit 1998 in der Einsteinstrasse in Haidhausen beheimatet ist, unter seinen besten 100 Jazzveranstaltungsorten weltweit. Ulrich Möller-Arnsberg hat eines der aktuellen Konzerte besucht und zeichnet ein Porträt des Jazzclubs Unterfahrt.

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Ian drugs Tessa and Jordan drugs Sharon – Happy New Year!; Kyle and Claire stay the night; Party and The Jazz Club; Best and Worst Dressed NYE attire; and Looking back at our 2024 Predictions! Hey everybody! Why not pick up a bonus Y&R Chat episode at: http://www.GenoaCitySoap.com I love hearing from YOU! Please feel […]

RLM: AJ (Epi: 37) In this episode, I reflect on the whirlwind of the past three months and share a powerful story of connection and resilience from a chance meeting at Ronnie Scott's Jazz Club in London. Join me as I explore the shared challenges of middle-aged female physicians around the world, the courage it takes to move forward in life, and the importance of finding joy, purpose, and love, even in the midst of change

Academy schools were one of the issues that listeners raised during, and since, Woman's Hour's special programme investigating the SEND system for children with special education needs and disabilities. We hear the voices of two mums who say their children were let down by their Academy schools for allegedly failing to support their children's SEND needs and Anita Rani discusses SEND support in Academies with Leora Cruddas, CEO of the Confederation of School Trusts which represents more than ¾ of all Academies.Choreographer and intimacy director Lucy Hind has worked on major productions including Girl From the North Country, Oliver, My Fair Lady, Secret Life of Bees and more recently Groundhog Day. Her latest project Spend Spend Spend has just opened at the Royal Exchange theatre in Manchester and is the story of the infamous Viv Nicholson who in the 1960's won today's equivalent of a few million pounds and went on to spend it all on very public lavish spending-sprees. Lucy explains to Anita why being an intimacy director is an integral part of being a choreographer.Kim Cypher is a saxophonist, composer, vocalist and a regular performer on the London and UK jazz circuit including sold our performances on the main stage at Ronnie Scott's Jazz Club. She's just launched her third album Catching Moments and Kim and her band join Anita in the Woman's Hour studio.Presenter: Anita Rani Producer: Laura Northedge

In episode 195, Dean and Deron talk about recent plays (Confusing Lands, Dumb Ways to Die Sudden Death, & Middle Ages). They also share games they are jazzed about in the MeepleTown Jazz Club. If you enjoy our podcast, please consider rating us and giving us a review. If you like our YouTube channel, please consider subscribing. If you have questions you would like us to answer on the podcast, please email us at meepletownmail@gmail.com. To support us further, check out www.patreon.com/meepletown or www.buymeacoffee.com/meepletown9. 00:00     Intro 03:44     Confusing Lands 09:46     Dumb Ways to Die Sudden Death 14:10     Middle Ages 19:49     MeepleTown Jazz Club MeepleTown Jazz Club music by audionautix.com Thanks for coming down to MeepleTown!

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Paul goes behind the curtain with the multi-talented jazz artist Bryan Eng. Bryan grew up on the east coast but found his musical grounding at Northwestern University and Chicago where he worked as a street musician, performer at Marriot Lincolnshire, Lookingglass Theatre, and Drury Lane and went on to the great venues of Kennedy Center, Lincoln Center, Birdland Jazz […]

Today, the Spotlight shines On Paul Stache, co-owner (with his wife and partner Molly Sparrow Johnson) of Smoke Jazz Club, one of New York City's premier live music venues. Smoke is celebrating its 25th anniversary throughout 2024 and Paul joined us to talk about the storied venue's past, present, and future.In addition to the club's 25th Anniversary Celebration plans, we hit on topics like how their business has navigated the transition to a digital world, insight into managing an independent venue, as well as many of the amazing artists who have graced their stage over the years. Enjoy.–Dig DeeperVisit Smoke Jazz Club online at smokejazz.comFollow Smoke Jazz Club on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTubeVisit Smoke Sessions Records at smokesessionsrecords.com or on BandcampSmoke Rises: A Jazz Room Returns on the Upper West SideSmoke Jazz & Supper Club reopens (video)Harold Mabern “The Iron Man: Live at Smoke” (video)Smoke Jazz Club NYC: Talking with Co-owner Paul Stache–• Did you enjoy this episode? Please share it with a friend! You can also rate Spotlight On ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ and leave a review on Apple Podcasts.• Subscribe! Be the first to check out each new episode of Spotlight On in your podcast app of choice.• Looking for more? Visit spotlightonpodcast.com for bonus content, web-only interviews + features, and the Spotlight On email newsletter. You can also follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Mastodon. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hello Wonderful Readers,I'm struggling to write to you right now. I was on a bender until 3 am this morning, and last night was filled with so many juicy details that it will take me at least a couple of weeks to tell you all about it.Of course, a new guy has entered my life, and I'm nervous to write about him because he reads my work and is supportive of me. As you know, in the recent months of writing Misseducated, I've been burned by my own work much more than I hoped, and it has hurt. Yet, somehow, I have to believe that my work matters enough to keep going. And that leads me to the first part of this story I've got for you here. It's the part of last night that sticks out to me the most.Last night, I woke up from a power nap at about 8:30 pm. I had plans to meet up with Arturo (yes, the new man) at a Jazz Club later in the evening. He's kind of a night owl, so I was thrilled when I woke up bursting with energy. I was ready to take on whatever the night had in store.All you need to know about Arturo is that he's 35, divorced, and from Los Bosques, an upper-class suburb of Mexico City. He also lives in Polanco and works at Google Mexico City office in Las Lomas. We met on Raya and have had a couple of dates together which have gone quite well. So well that, last night, he invited me to meet him at the Jazz Club, Casa Franca, in Roma Norte after he finished a late dinner with his coworkers.Yesterday, we had been texting in Spanish:Arturo, 5:57 pm: See you at Casa Franca? I'll let you know when to get there.Tash, 6:01 pm: Sounds good. See you there and enjoy your dinner!As 9 pm rolled around, I was flailing around my apartment, desperate to make myself look as hot as humanly possible. I know I'm not supposed to get myself glammed up for a night out solely for the pursuit of a man (thank you, Cindy Gallop), but just like any bad feminist, I was embracing the fact that rules exist to be broken. Luckily, I had lined up drinks with a female friend to keep myself distracted from Arturo until the moment we were to meet.I messaged him on the way to the cocktail bar to meet my female friend,Tash, 9:48 pm: Hey, Arturo! What time should I meet you at Casa Franca?And then I emotionally sat on my hands. And I waited.My female friend and I ran into some other friends at the cocktail bar. Then we went out for pizza. Then we went to yet another bar. While I was sitting there, I admit I was being a terrible friend. I was only half-paying-attention to what they were all saying. It's early October. It's cuffing season. I am wrestling with myself inside because I know that I need to lock a man down (only metaphorically, of course) before the winter sets in. However shall I make it through these upcoming cold months alone? However shall I procreate and create a plethora of healthy, rosy-cheeked children? My body is barking at me. In this economy? Not even my logical business-school-educated brain can argue with my urge to get knocked the f**k up. This is biology at its best; at its strongest.I checked my phone at 11:26 pm. Not a word from Arturo. Not a peep. It had been a whole hour and a half. As I sipped on my passion-fruit-laced kombucha with a salt rim, I wondered: Was Arturo going to message me back? He had seemed nice until now. Maybe he got too drunk at dinner? Maybe he'd picked up another hotter girl at Casa Franca already? Maybe he didn't want me to come after all?You know, I've been single for a while. And that's because, well, I don't know. There's got to be something wrong with me. I shouldn't have sent him that very forward message asking him when he'd be at Casa Franca. I'm too needy and desperate, and men can smell it.I started to get upset. I turned to my friends for consolation.“Treat him like a candidate for a job interview,” one of my friends advised me. “If you were interviewing a candidate for a job, and they showed up super later or didn't show up at all, would you stand for that? No! You'd never hire them.”We laughed it off, and something else very exciting happened that I will tell you about next week. But as time went on, I got more and more anxious. Clearly, Arturo didn't want to see me. Why couldn't he have just told the truth in the first place instead of pretending? I couldn't bring myself to check my phone again, just to be trodden down further that Arturo hadn't messaged me. I would bring all of this up with my therapist in our next session. If this guy wasn't going to meet my needs, well, then I was ready to give up on us getting to know each other. To numb the pain of it all, I got another round of drinks with my friends.It was 12:09 am before I checked my phone again.Arturo, 11:46 pm: We've been here a while. Are you coming to Casa Franca?My hands shook as I read the message. I accidentally dropped my phone smack on the table. The ice in our cocktail glasses wobbled. Arturo had messaged me. And I had been so busy wallowing in my story of him not being interested, or of him finding someone better than me, or not caring about me, that I hadn't done the damn simple task of checking in with him on my phone.As soon as I saw his message, I rejoiced with my friends. Arturo wasn't a complete a*****e after all. And maybe, well, I had been being a bit dramatic. I would leave my deep-seated worries about my self-worth for another time because he had requested my presence.I hurried my friends through the end of their conversation. We quickly got the bill. They walked me over to Casa Franca, and after a couple of trips through the various rooms (which I will also tell you about another time because I ran into one of my exes from On Dating Mexican Men), I finally found Arturo and his coworkers.It was sometime past 12:30 am when we finally hugged each other hello. Then Arturo turned to me, and he said,“I'm so glad you came. I was beginning to think it was too late. I was worried you had already gone to sleep and weren't going to make it. It's so good to see you. I'm so glad you came.”His words took me aback. They struck a chord. I puzzled to myself in that moment, again distracted as we caught up with each other about how our day had been.After all the anxiety and the trips through the realms of self-worth that I had dipped into in my own mind, here was this perfectly nice, if not also imperfect, guy standing in front of me. Somewhere along the way, between the hundreds of hours of Instagram reels I had consumed and the narratives about the opposite sex that I had bombarded myself with, I forgot that on the other end of the phone was also another living human person. And that if I wanted to get to know this person, I would have to meet them where they were. Maybe that meant compromising. Maybe that meant being patient. But without a doubt, it meant that I needed to ground myself in my reality and not fall into old, unhealthy stories of how I was treated in the past. It meant not having silly, made-up expectations of a man or any human and how they should show up for me in any given situation.And yet, in my experience of entrenched loneliness and questioning my own worthiness of connection, I had accidentally left him hanging. And I had even transferred that instability and potential for disconnection onto him. My limited story of myself had almost become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Wading through the trash of my information diet and obsessing over my own emotions and ability to connect with others had left me isolated. To the point where I could hardly afford a tiny inch in the corner of my brain to consider the experience of another person, much less a person seeking a deeper connection with me. We had almost passed each other like ships in the night.It reminds me of a fascinating TED Talk I watched a couple of years ago with psychologist Dr. Guy Winch. In the story, Winch shares that he always calls his twin brother on their birthday. That is, until one year, when his birthday rolled around, his twin brother didn't call. During his talk, Winch says,“That night was one of the saddest and longest nights of my life.”That night, he makes up all kinds of stories about how he doesn't matter to his brother anymore and how they've grown apart irreparably. The next day, Winch wakes up and realizes that he had accidentally kicked the phone off the hook the night before. When he realizes this, he puts it back on the ringer, and his brother calls him immediately. His brother had been calling and calling him the whole time, panicking for over a day.“It was the longest and saddest night of his life as well.”Disconnection. That's what our questioning of our self-worth and loneliness can bring us to. Meeting Arturo at the Jazz Club made it clear to me just how much our own perceptions of lovability and our narratives of ourselves create or deny connection in our lives. In ignoring my phone and trapping myself in my narrative of loneliness of not receiving a message from him, I accidentally recreated that experience for Arturo and left him hanging on the other end of his phone, on the verge of disconnection and loneliness also.You know, the tech bros in San Francisco promised us that new apps and AI would make our lives easier. But the longer I have a smartphone, the more I'm convinced that by making things easier, these apps can also make our lives more complex. Now, instead of having a face-to-face conversation, there are two phones, data plans, and wifi signals between us. While, in some ways, that makes it easier for us to communicate, it has also made it easier for us to get lost in our own biased narratives about our lives and how unlovable we might think we are at times. These narratives and perceptions are what shape our reality.I apologized to Arturo. We danced at Casa Franca and had quite a dramatic night for other reasons, which I will tell you about in a couple of weeks. I learned that technology has made communication easier in our lives. But it has made miscommunication easier in our lives also.Much love to you out there, wherever you are in the ether.Stay tuned as I'll be back with a spicier story of who I met at the cocktail bar with my friends next week!Love,Tash