Podcasts about strong willed kids

Ever find yourself losing your cool when your kid melts down, or scratching your head as they refuse to clean up their room (again)? Turns out, there's a surprising science behind keeping calm amid the chaos of parenthood. We're joined by Kirk Martin, founder of Celebrate Calm and host of the immensely popular Calm Parenting podcast. Kirk is the proud dad of one grown son, Casey, and “America's Calm Coach” to thousands of families around the world. Kirk shares his journey from career military upbringings to a unique problem-solving approach that's helped countless parents reframe their reactions and connect deeply with their kids. Whether you're raising a strong-willed, high energy kid, or just want to inspire more harmony at home, Kirk's insights offer practical, uplifting wisdom for every dad (and mom!)Topics Include:• Navigating meltdowns and emotional outbursts in kids and understanding what's really going on beneath the surface.• Shifting parenting habits from authoritarian styles to problem-solving and connection-based approaches.• The importance of parents regulating their own emotions to positively impact children's behavior.• Recognizing and working with individual differences in children, even among siblings and twins.• Practical strategies for tackling persistent challenges like messy rooms, homework battles, and resistance.• The significance of affirming and bonding with children, especially in moments of weakness or conflict.• Normalizing triggers for both parents and kids, and using tools like a “trigger board” to foster open communication.• And more!LINKSCelebrate Calm (website)Calm Parenting PodcastCalm Parenting (Instagram)Calm Parenting (Facebook)Caspar BabypantsSpencer AlbeeModern Dadhood (website)AdamFlaherty.tvStuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music)MD (Instagram)MD (Facebook)MD (YouTube)MD (TikTok) #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast

Wendy Snyder is a Mum of two, certified parenting educator & family life coach, who inspires parents to learn & grow through connection based positive parenting strategies. Wendy helps parents ditch the threats, yelling & harsh punishments so they can live life as a joyful & confident parent (with kids that listen & cooperate great!).I am so glad to share this conversation, after connecting with Wendy in a Facebook group connected to the work of Kate Northrup. To hear about parenting approaches in a different country (the USA) was really interesting.Do listen and share if you can!*TRIGGER WARNINGS 1: from 17 minutes 25 seconds to 21 minutes 43 seconds we talk about suicide in adults and children. And from 35 minutes to 45 minutes we speak about birth trauma and baby loss.CONTENT WARNING: From 32 minutes 15 seconds to 33 minutes 20 seconds AND in my poem at the end I talk about Father Christmas so beware if you're listening around little ones!In this episode we speak about:a bit about the work Wendy does to help reduce suffering in families and moreparenting for the queer community, why systemic change is desperately needed for all of the family to benefitthe types of parenting; 'autocratic'/authoritarian, permissive and democraticthe power and magnetism in humilitysuicide awareness*applying both education and instinct in parenting (and more!) birth trauma and baby loss*adjusting and growing through matrescencehow true self-love came from parenting I get Wendy's fabulous response to a vulnerable question about parentingThemes: parenting, solo parenting, child advocacy, motherhood, matrescence, birth trauma, baby loss, healingWe mention Kate Northrup and Ruth Perry.To learn more about Wendy see here on her website FreshStartFamilyOnline.com. And to connect with Wendy on Instagram click here. Do check out her podcast called 'The Fresh Start Family Show'.At the end, I read a poem written by me.Did you enjoy this episode? If so, I would really appreciate it if you could please leave a review on the platform that you listen. For more insights and to contact me you can find me on Instagram, and/or on my website: www.lucywyldecoaching.com.

Tired of constant arguments, pushback, or defiance from your strong-willed child? You're not alone—and the usual discipline tactics may be making things worse.Your child isn't a curse—they're a leader in the making. In this episode of Enlightening Motherhood, Emily Hamblin talks with parenting coach Wendy Snyder about how to shift your mindset and your strategies when raising a strong-willed, neurodivergent child. Learn why yelling and punishments backfire—and what to do instead. You'll get practical tools to reduce power struggles, build true cooperation, and start seeing your child's strong will as a strength, not a problem.

Strong-willed, stubborn, defiant, opinionated, headstrong - that's how I like to think of myself for recording a podcast during a heatwave! But it could also be some of the words you use to describe your child. If so, this episode is for you.I know what it's like when your child is naturally headstrong. They can be a force of nature, and some days parenting them feels impossible... especially if they inherited these character traits from you! In this 30-minute episode, I'm sharing my 7 go-to strategies to help you overcome those daily challenges we all face.What I'll share with you:How I've learned to reframe those impossible situationsMy favorite ways to empower kids through meaningful choicesWhy I discovered that strong-willed children learn differently (and how to work with their nature)Communication techniques that actually work in my homeHow we established family values that stickWhy I believe being quick to apologize changes everythingThis episode is perfect if you're dealing with:Daily power struggles and defiant behaviorA child who seems impossible to parent some daysThe challenge of parenting a mini-me who inherited your headstrong traitsFeeling like you're parenting in a "war zone"Whether you're in the thick of it right now or just need some fresh strategies for your force-of-nature child, I'm here to offer hope and practical solutions that have worked for me and countless other parents.So find a comfy seat, pour yourself a cuppa, and enjoy the conversation…Highlights from this episode:00:00 - Podcasting in a heatwave00:56 - Parenting in a war zone05:48 - Common traits of headstrong children08:36 - How to reframe a situation13:45 - How to empower by giving our kids choices17:12 - Strong-willed children learn from experience18:54 - Communicate regularly21:19 - Family values23:30 - Be quick to apologise

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Do you have a strong-willed child? How do you know you have one? Are you approaching their behavior in a positive way? I have recorded a solo episode about strong-willed children and power struggles and I always enjoy it when I can chat with fellow parenting coaches about it.  I welcome back Zack Kasabo who is a certified school counselor and parent coach. He was on the show before talking about how to encourage positive behaviors in kids without enabling them.  We discuss:  Misconceptions about strong-willed children and parenting strong-willed children The power of “mutual submission" The number one rule when addressing strong-willed children  To connect with Zack Kasabo follow him on Instagram @coachkasabo, check out all his resources at https://coachkasabo.info/ We'd like to know who is listening! Please fill out our Listener Survey to help us improve the show and learn about you! 00:00 – Modeling Cooperation00:22 – Intro: Parenting Strong-Willed Kids00:50 – Meet Zack Kasabo02:28 – What Makes a Child Strong-Willed?05:00 – Reframing Strong-Willed as a Strength06:45 – The Problem with Labels08:18 – Parenting Starts with You09:44 – Breaking Generational Patterns12:11 – Power Struggle Example: Clean Your Room14:10 – Why Lectures Don't Work17:27 – Teaching Through Experience20:21 – Start Before Grade School22:02 – Don't Ignore “Normal” Behavior23:05 – Final Tips & Where to Find Zac24:11 – Encouragement for Parents Our podcasts are also now on YouTube. If you prefer a video podcast with closed captioning, check us out there and subscribe to PedsDocTalk. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on the PedsDocTalk Podcast Sponsorships page of the website.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Do you have a strong-willed child? How do you know you have one? Are you approaching their behavior in a positive way? I have recorded a solo episode about strong-willed children and power struggles and I always enjoy it when I can chat with fellow parenting coaches about it.  I welcome back Zack Kasabo who is a certified school counselor and parent coach. He was on the show before talking about how to encourage positive behaviors in kids without enabling them.  We discuss:  Misconceptions about strong-willed children and parenting strong-willed children The power of “mutual submission" The number one rule when addressing strong-willed children  To connect with Zack Kasabo follow him on Instagram @coachkasabo, check out all his resources at https://coachkasabo.info/ We'd like to know who is listening! Please fill out our Listener Survey to help us improve the show and learn about you! 00:00 – Modeling Cooperation00:22 – Intro: Parenting Strong-Willed Kids00:50 – Meet Zack Kasabo02:28 – What Makes a Child Strong-Willed?05:00 – Reframing Strong-Willed as a Strength06:45 – The Problem with Labels08:18 – Parenting Starts with You09:44 – Breaking Generational Patterns12:11 – Power Struggle Example: Clean Your Room14:10 – Why Lectures Don't Work17:27 – Teaching Through Experience20:21 – Start Before Grade School22:02 – Don't Ignore “Normal” Behavior23:05 – Final Tips & Where to Find Zac24:11 – Encouragement for Parents Our podcasts are also now on YouTube. If you prefer a video podcast with closed captioning, check us out there and subscribe to PedsDocTalk. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on the PedsDocTalk Podcast Sponsorships page of the website.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today our favorite counselors, David Thomas and Sissy Goff, are back to talk about their new project- children's books! So much has happened over the last few years and they are beginning to see the onset of anxiety drop to age 6 from 8 years old previously. They created these books to give kids the words and emotional tools to do hard things and decrease anxiety, including a golden retriever feelings chart. As usual, they pack so much advice into every moment, here are some things we cover: Escape and Avoidance vs. Support and Challenge in parenting  Connect over correction- we lose connections when we try to control the environment Kids are becoming less resilient-  they learn they are capable by experience How to help an introverted child with friendships How to be a good loser- turn it into something constructive How to understand your strong-willed child Why teen boys are not taking risks  Connect with David Thomas and Sissy Goff:  Website:  Raising Boys and Girls Facebook: Raising Boys and Girls Instagram:  Raising Boys and Girls (@raisingboysandgirls) Links Mentioned:   Owen Learns He Has What It Takes: By David Thomas Lucy Learns to Be Brave: By Sissy Goff Braver, Stronger, Smarter: By Sissy Goff Strong and Smart: By David Thomas Quiet Power: By Susan Cain Related Episodes: Helping Our Kids Foster Friendships :: David Thomas and Sissy Goff [Ep 338] Getting Brave About Anxiety :: Sissy Goff [Ep 311] The Worry-Free Parent :: Sissy Goff [Ep 421] Raising Worry-Free Girls :: Sissy Goff [Bonus] Helping Socially Anxious Boys :: David Thomas [Ep 451] Raising Emotionally Strong Boys :: David Thomas [Ep 368] A Lil Help with Boys and Screens :: David Thomas [Bonus] Understanding Boys Better :: David Thomas [Ep 315] Featured Sponsors:  Thrive Market: Skip the junk without overspending. Head over to thrivemarket.com/DMA to get 30% off your first order and a FREE $60 gift.  Function Health:  I highly recommend Function. Learn more and join using my link. The first 1000 get a $100 credit toward their membership. Visit www.functionhealth.com/DMA to own your health. Thrive Causemetics: Try your new trusty favorites with an exclusive set for our listeners. New customers can get the Liquid Lash Extensions Mascara and a mini-sized Brilliant Eye Brightener at a special set price with free shipping available at thrivecausemetics.com/DMA. Find links to this week's sponsors and unique promo codes at dontmomalone.com/sponsors. 

“F*ck Around and Find Out” parenting—what even is that?! This week, Dr. Becky dives into the rise of the FAFO parenting trend. Why is this approach gaining traction in the age of gentle parenting? Is it a pushback against gentle or intensive parenting? A response to the burnout many millennial parents are feeling? Or has it always been around, just under a different name? Dr. Becky explores what makes this trend so compelling and what it might reveal about us as parents today.Sometimes FAFO parenting comes up when our kids are in a bad place with bad behavior. If you can relate, then you won't want to miss "Why Is Everything a Battle?" Dr. Becky's Live Workshop on Power Struggles, Defiance, and Strong-Willed Kids happening on Thursday, Apr 17 from 01:30 PM - 02:45 PM EDT. RSVP here: https://bit.ly/3RqW7nU.Get the Good Inside App by Dr. Becky: https://bit.ly/4fSxbzkFollow Dr. Becky on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbeckyatgoodinsideSign up for our weekly email, Good Insider: https://www.goodinside.com/newsletterFor a full transcript of the episode, go to goodinside.com/podcast.Today's episode is brought to you by Ritual. You know that feeling when you're going a million miles an hour, jumping from one thing to the next? You're trying to finish an email when you remember the laundry's still in the washer, your kid is shouting about needing poster board for a project due tomorrow, your pone won't stop buzzing, and—oh, great—you forgot that tonight is parent-teacher conferences. Sometimes, life is just… a lot.Stress doesn't have an off-switch. And we can support our body's natural response to it. That's why I love Ritual's Stress Relief, featuring BioSeries technology. It's designed to work with your body to help manage everyday stress.If you feel like daily stress is taking a toll on your body and mind, you might want to give them a try. Get Ritual Stress Relief and save 25% on your first month at ritual.com/goodinside.Today's episode is brought to you by Airbnb. Recently, I've been on the road spreading the word about my new children's book, That's My Truck: A Good Inside Story About Hitting!. I'm so grateful and excited to be on this book tour, connecting with our community in person. And it's also true that being away from home can feel hard. That's why I love Airbnb–I can find and book a place that feels just a little bit more like home away from home, somewhere I can come back to at the end of the day and recharge. Something else I love about Airbnb is that you can become a host while you're away by offering your home to someone traveling to your town!  Your home might be worth more than you think. Find out how much at airbnb.com/host.

Today, on the Celebrate Kids Podcast in the daily segment Facing the Dark, Dr. Kathy considers a report out of Georgia that identifies why a number of kids don't conform in school. The report highlights that some kids aren't impacted by peer or social pressure and there are reasonings they provide. More than that, Dr. Kathy gives insights on how we can parent kids who are strong-willed to live into the good gift of being strong willed while directing kids to find purpose and competence in Christ.

What happens when a naturally peaceful parent is raising a naturally intense child?In this episode, Matt and Erin unpack the real challenges phlegmatic parents face when raising choleric children. You'll discover why your child's pushback isn't personal, how to set healthy processes instead of rigid boundaries, and what mindset shifts help transform power struggles into moments of growth.You'll discover:Why phlegmatic parents often misread conflict as failureHow to reframe your child's “fighting” as convictionThe #1 mindset shift that restores your peaceA simple process to create calm, consistent structureHow to redirect your child's strong will toward virtueLearn how to leverage your phlegmatic superpowers, empathy, consistency, calm, and bring out the best in your child's God-given leadership drive.Plus:Get your FREE Parenting by Temperaments Quick GuideTake the Temperament Assessment (for YOU and your child!)Want to grow in mindset mastery as a Catholic parent? Join The Academy for a 7-day free trial and start coaching with us today!Don't forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE with a parent who needs this truth today. We're lighting the path to deeper connection, one temperament at a time.Send us a textSupport the show____________________ ► Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Metanoia Catholic YouTube Channel!► Find out your temperament: Take the Free Quiz► Take the Quiz: WHAT TYPE OF COACH ARE YOU?► GET THE DAILY SEVEN JOURNAL!This interactive journal will help you transform your life from the inside out by teaching you how to grow in gratitude, set healthy goals, and gain mastery over your thoughts.► JOIN THE ACADEMY!Your online resource of classes, tools, and community to ramp up your growth and really change your life. Learn from the Metanoia Catholic coaches in webinars, live coaching calls, Lectio Divina, and more with your monthly membership.____________________ ► SUBSCRIBE TO THE CATHOLIC COACHING PODCASTApple PodcastsSpotifyYouTubeAmazon MusicCastboxStitcher____________________ ...

Join Dr. Becky and acclaimed journalist and fellow author Tamron Hall for a special live conversation from New York City to celebrate the launch of Dr. Becky's debut children's book, That's My Truck!: A Good Inside Story About Hitting.Dr. Becky shares why she chose to focus on the challenging moment of hitting, the importance of separating a kid's behavior from their identity, and how the core principles of the Good Inside approach are brought to life in this powerful and compassionate story.Do you have a kid who's going through a phase of acting out—but isn't fazed by punishments or yelling? A kid who pushes every limit and has even made you wonder, “Is my kid a sociopath?” Then you won't want to miss "Why Is Everything a Battle?", Dr. Becky's Live Workshop on Power Struggles, Defiance, and Strong-Willed Kids happening on Thursday, Apr 17 from 01:30 PM – 02:45 PM EDT. RSVP here: https://bit.ly/3RqW7nU.Get the Good Inside App by Dr. Becky: https://bit.ly/3XRaci7Follow Dr. Becky on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbeckyatgoodinsideSign up for our weekly email, Good Insider: https://www.goodinside.com/newsletterFor a full transcript of the episode, go to goodinside.com/podcast.Today's episode is brought to you by Ritual. You know that feeling when you're going a million miles an hour, jumping from one thing to the next? You're trying to finish an email when you remember the laundry's still in the washer, your kid is shouting about needing poster board for a project due tomorrow, your pone won't stop buzzing, and—oh, great—you forgot that tonight is parent-teacher conferences. Sometimes, life is just… a lot.Stress doesn't have an off-switch. And we can support our body's natural response to it. That's why I love Ritual's Stress Relief, featuring BioSeries technology. It's designed to work with your body to help manage everyday stress.If you feel like daily stress is taking a toll on your body and mind, you might want to give them a try. Get Ritual Stress Relief and save 25% on your first month at ritual.com/goodinside.Today's episode is brought to you by Airbnb. Traveling during spring break can feel tricky because we can't necessarily take time off work when our kids are off from school. And trying to join a Zoom meeting from your hotel room or your in-laws' kitchen doesn't always feel great. This is why I love Airbnb when we travel–I can find a place with plenty of room to spread out, including a desk or table for dedicated work time, making it easier to have dedicated connection time with my kids. And, if you're thinking of traveling for spring break, consider hosting your home on Airbnb, too! It's a great way to help offset the cost of booking one yourself while opening up your space for another family also traveling! Your home might be worth more than you think. Find out how much at airbnb.com/host.

In this episode, Dr. Becky shares a vulnerable moment at home when her son confesses his schoolyard transgressions—just as she prepares for his parent-teacher conference. She walks us through a play-by-play of what happens next, offering valuable insights into how to navigate these conversations with our kids and their teachers.Do you also have a kid who is 0% people pleasing? Then you won't want to miss "Why Is Everything a Battle?" Dr. Becky's Live Workshop on Power Struggles, Defiance, and Strong-Willed Kids happening on Thursday, Apr 17 from 01:30 PM - 02:45 PM EDT. RSVP here: https://bit.ly/3RqW7nUGet the Good Inside App by Dr. Becky: https://bit.ly/4fSxbzkFollow Dr. Becky on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbeckyatgoodinsideSign up for our weekly email, Good Insider: https://www.goodinside.com/newsletterOrder Dr. Becky's book, Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be, at goodinside.com/book or wherever you get your books. Plus, check out her new children's book, That's My Truck!: A Good Inside Story About Hitting.For a full transcript of the episode, go to goodinside.com/podcast.Today's episode is brought to you by Ritual. You know that feeling when you're going a million miles an hour, jumping from one thing to the next? You're trying to finish an email when you remember the laundry's still in the washer, your kid is shouting about needing poster board for a project due tomorrow, your pone won't stop buzzing, and—oh, great—you forgot that tonight is parent-teacher conferences. Sometimes, life is just… a lot.Stress doesn't have an off-switch. And we can support our body's natural response to it. That's why I love Ritual's Stress Relief, featuring BioSeries technology. It's designed to work with your body to help manage everyday stress.If you feel like daily stress is taking a toll on your body and mind, you might want to give them a try. Get Ritual Stress Relief and save 25% on your first month at ritual.com/goodinside.This episode is brought to you by Airbnb. Recently, I've been on the road spreading the word about my new children's book, That's My Truck: A Good Inside Story About Hitting!. I'm so grateful and excited to be on this book tour, connecting with our community in person. And it's also true that being away from home can feel hard. That's why I love Airbnb–I can find and book a place that feels just a little bit more like home away from home, somewhere I can come back to at the end of the day and recharge. Something else I love about Airbnb is that you can become a host while you're away by offering your home to someone traveling to your town!  Your home might be worth more than you think. Find out how much at airbnb.com/host.

Ever feel like no matter what you do, your child refuses to listen? If every request turns into a battle of wills, you're not alone. Strong-willed kids are wired differently, and traditional discipline often backfires—leading to even more resistance, frustration, and exhaustion. In this episode, parenting expert Kirk Martin, founder of Celebrate Calm and host of the Calm Parenting Podcast, shares five powerful strategies to help you end power struggles and create a more peaceful home. With years of experience coaching thousands of families, Kirk offers practical, real-life techniques that shift the way you approach discipline—so your child feels understood, and you get the cooperation you've been craving. If you've ever wondered how to stay calm when your child pushes every button, how to get your partner on board with a new approach, or how to parent without yelling, this episode is packed with the insights you need. Tune in for simple, effective ways to build a stronger connection with your child—without losing your sanity in the process! Resources We Shared: Get our Stop Doing Checklist absolutely FREE, so you can start taking tasks off your plate today! Lost your temper and regret it? Repair your relationship with your child in less than 17 seconds with our FREE 3 Actions To Take After You Say Something To Your Kids You Regret Learn more about Kirk here! Listen to the Calm Parenting Podcast with Kirk Join our FREE No Guilt Mom Podcast group Visit No Guilt Mom Follow us on Instagram! Rate & Review the No Guilt Mom Podcast on Apple here. We'd love to hear your thoughts on the podcast! Listen on Spotify? You can rate us there too! Check out our favorite deals and discounts from our amazing sponsors here! #parentingpodcast #parentingtips #selfcare #mentalload #kids #teenager #toddler #preschooler #baby #strongwilled, #calmparenting, #parentingstrategies, #discipline, #parentingtechniques, #KirkMartin Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Parenting isn't for the faint of heart—especially when raising strong-willed kids! In this episode, Lisa Fischer sits down with Celebrate Calm founder Kirk Martin to unpack the challenges of parenting independent-minded children. They explore why curiosity beats control, how modeling values shapes character, and why letting kids develop their own beliefs is essential. Plus, they dive into emotional awareness, the impact of social media, and the power of service and connection in raising resilient, thoughtful kids. Tune in for practical insights and fresh perspectives on navigating the parenting journey!     WEBSITE:  https://celebratecalm.com/     FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/CelebrateCalm     PODCAST: https://celebratecalm.com/podcast-directory/     EPISODE SPONSOR:  https://www.akelscarpetone.com/     EPISODE SPONSOR:  https://marlsgate.com       LISA'S LINKS:     Lisa Fischer Said Academy:  https://lisafischersaid.com/academy/     Website:  lisafischersaid.com     For more information on group intermittent fasting  coaching with Lisa, email fasting@lisafischersaid.com     For more information on one-on-one or group health coaching with Lisa, email healthcoaching@lisafischersaid.com     Podcast produced by clantoncreative.com

Hi Mamas, We're wrapping up our incredible 3-part series with Calm Parenting Podcast host Kirk Martin, and today we're tackling the big challenges… chores, messy rooms, and why strong-willed kids seem immune to consequences. If you've ever wondered how to get your kids to pitch in around the house without constant battles, this episode is for you. Kirk shares why nagging doesn't work, how strong-willed kids will always find a loophole, and why their messy rooms don't predict their future success. We also dive into how to stop feeling like the “bad guy” in parenting and shift your mindset so you can guide your kids instead of battling them. The truth is, strong-willed kids are built to lead and create… they just want to do it on their terms. So take a deep breath… your child is going to be just fine. If you missed part 1 and 2, make sure to check out those first!:

Hi Mamas, In Part 2 of 3 of my conversation with Kirk Martin, parenting expert, speaker, and host of the Calm Parenting Podcast, we cover why eye contact can make things worse, how to get kids to open up naturally, and why curiosity works better than correction (hint: "I know you know that was wrong..."). Plus, we're tackling parental anxiety and how to stop spiraling over your child's future. If you missed part 1, make sure to check that one out first!:

Hi Mamas, This month, we're talking about relationships and how they affect the balance in your life… and this week we are focusing on one of the most important relationships… the one we have with our kids! With us this week is Kirk Martin, parenting expert, speaker, and host of the Calm Parenting Podcast. He's helped over 1,000,000 parents transform their parenting approach and we have a 3-part series to help you learn how to better navigate parenting strong willed kids! Highlights from This Episode (Part 1 of 3) ✅ Why traditional discipline doesn't work for strong-willed kids ✅ How your own emotions play a huge role in managing your child's behavior ✅ Strong-willed kids value independence over consequences—so how do we guide them effectively? ✅ The #1 game-changing strategy to stop power struggles before they start ✅ Why modeling behavior is more effective than nagging or lecturing Here's where you can find Kirk… Check out his website at com Listen to the: Calm Parenting Podcast for more of Kirk's insights Follow him on Instagram: @CalmParentingPodcast Need help setting those boundaries: Grab my Boundaries Made Simple guide here!! Want to connect with other amazing moms?  Let's keep this conversation going! Head on over to our Facebook community Work-Life Balance For Working Moms and tell us what your biggest time waster is! Looking for Time-Saving FREEBIES? I've Got You Covered! ☀️ Makeover Your Mornings – Transform chaotic mornings with my Mornings Made Simple: From Chaos to Calm for Busy Moms guide!

Did you know that the parenting tools you learn on this podcast also work with other strong-willed creatures? I'm chatting with Avery “favorite daughter” Rubenstein this time about pack leadership and what she has learned from “Ben, the strong-willed horse”. I think it's incredibly helpful to practice the tools you are learning here by applying them to other areas of your life…your work, your adult relationships and even your relationships with animals. You see, pack leadership is about becoming and remembering the person you were meant to be…the kind of person who shows up again and again with curiosity and badassery. I think you're going to love our banter on this episode as well as Avery's insights about using MMP tools with animals and understanding her equine therapy clients…many of which are on the Autism spectrum. As always, thanks for listening. Head over to Facebook, where you can join my free group Mastermind Parenting Community. We post tips and tools and do pop-up Live conversations where I do extra teaching and coaching to support you in helping your strong-willed children so that they can FEEL better and DO better. If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it!Get all the links, resources, and transcripts here: https://mastermindparenting.com/podcast-315About Randi RubensteinRandi Rubenstein coaches parents raising strong-willed kids. Randi searched endlessly to find the magical resource that would help her own highly sensitive, strong-willed child. (He's now 26, healthy and happy-ish:). She's been passionate about helping other “cycle-breaker” parents like herself for almost two decades.Randi's Web and Social LinksWebsite: https://mastermindparenting.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mastermindparentingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mastermind_parenting/Resources Discussed/LinksOur 12-week Basics Bootcamp program is now available as a 100% online self-study course! https://mastermindparenting.com/minimasters/Live assessment: https://mastermindparenting.com/live-assessment/

Strong-willed kids aren't “difficult”—they have intense emotions, a strong sense of control, and deep sensitivity that require understanding, not fixing. Common parenting struggles include emotional outbursts, rigidity, and feeling like your child acts differently at home versus in public. Supporting strong-willed children involves creating accommodations, teaching emotional regulation, and shifting the perspective from defiance to emotional depth. Understanding neurodivergence can help both parents and children thrive by embracing different brain wirings rather than viewing them as obstacles. Find Danielle Bettmann www.parentingwholeheartedly.com www.Instagram.com/parent_wholeheartedly www.facebook.com/wholeheartedlyomaha Failing Motherhood Podcast: www.failingmotherhood.com FREE Masterclass: www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/confident More from Lauren Pace FIND MY FREE WORKSHOP AND MORE AT Parenting the Child You Have Without Squashing Their Spirit website: rising-motherhood.com instagram: www.Instagram.com/rising.motherhood

Ever feel like your toddler's strong will turns mealtime into a battle zone? You're not alone! In today's episode, I'm diving into the temperaments of picky eaters, especially those stubborn, independent, and determined little ones. I'll share my own experience raising a strong-willed child, the mindset shift that changed everything, and why traditional picky eating advice doesn't […] The post Strong-Willed Kids & Picky Eating: How to Work With Their Personality Instead of Against It appeared first on Nutrition for Littles.

Ever feel like your strong-willed child came into this world with a law degree and a mission to challenge everything you say?

In this transformative episode of The 1000 Hours Outside Podcast, Ginny Yurich sits down with Kirk Martin, host of the #1 parenting podcast in the nation, Calm Parenting Podcast. Together, they explore the joys and challenges of raising strong-willed children, offering practical strategies to reduce power struggles, cultivate autonomy, and embrace the unique traits of these dynamic kids. From morning routines to managing meltdowns and fostering internal motivation, Kirk shares his signature blend of wisdom and humor, reminding parents that the goal is to raise confident, independent adults—not just compliant kids. Packed with insights and actionable tips, this episode will leave you inspired, encouraged, and ready to reframe parenting as a journey of mutual growth. Kirk dives deep into the mindset shifts needed to parent strong-willed children, emphasizing the importance of stepping back to let kids take ownership of their choices while maintaining clear boundaries. He shares relatable, often humorous anecdotes about his own parenting journey, including how his son's strong will led to life-changing experiences like tackling 23-mile hikes and embracing outdoor adventures. This episode is packed with creative solutions—from letting kids forage for their breakfast to using heavy work to regulate emotions—all designed to help parents connect with their children in meaningful ways while fostering responsibility and independence. If you've ever wondered how to parent without yelling, power struggles, or constant battles, this conversation is a game-changer. ** Learn more about Kirk and all he has to offer (including his top-ranked parenting podcast) here ** Download your free 1000 Hours Outside tracker here >> https://www.1000hoursoutside.com/trackers Find everything you need to kick off your 1000 Hours Outside Journey here >> https://www.1000hoursoutside.com/blog/allthethings Order of copy of Ginny's newest book, Until the Streetlights Come On here >> https://amzn.to/3RXjBlN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In celebration of the year ending, we are reviewing our top five most listened podcast episodes of 2024. And our most popular episode of the year was Confidently Parenting Strong Willed Kids with Stefani Hart.   Ever wondered why some parenting tactics just don't work with your kids? 'Gentle parenting' might be failing, rather than helping, you. This week, we have the pleasure of hosting Stefani Hart, a clinically trained child life specialist and parent coach. Stefani is revolutionizing the way we understand and approach parenting, particularly when dealing with strong-willed children. Stefani dives deep into her practice, explaining how she helps families navigate difficult behaviors and trauma through structured support and coping mechanisms. You'll learn about the impact of a strong-willed child, the pitfalls of gentle parenting as it's often portrayed on social media, and practical strategies for setting boundaries and limits that foster both child and parent confidence. Tune in for many invaluable insights into effective parenting while keeping your own central nervous system in check.   Today we cover: Stefani's background as a parent coach and child life specialist Understanding whether your child reacts with fight, flight, or freeze (or even fawn) during stressful situations so you can ailor your approach for better outcomes The perception vs. reality of gentle parenting and the importance of structure and firm limits Strategies for handling strong-willed children with examples of what it can look like in multiple scenarios How to implement confidence in your parenting, including setting core family values and boundaries   Connect with Stefani Hart: @harttoheartfamilysupport Ditch the Drama Masterclass: https://stan.store/harttoheartfamilysupport/p/ditch-the-drama-live-virtual-parenting-class   Connect with Whitney & Stephanie: captureyourconfidencepodcast@gmail.com Stephanie IG: @_stephanie_hanna_ The Other 85: https://theother85.net/ Whitney IG: @whitneyabraham

If you are a regular listener to The Peaceful Parenting Podcast you know that at the end of every Guest Expert interview, I ask them if they could go back in time and give advice to their younger parent self, what advice would they give themselves? There are so many gems of wisdom that come from that question that I thought it would be fun to end 2024 with a mashup of all of the advice from our guests of 2024. We talk about: 3:00 Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) with Casey Ehrlich 4:13 Understanding and Loving Spicy Kids with Mary Van Geffen 5:23 Find Your Unicorn Space with Eve Rodsky 5:54 From Strict Disciplinarian to Peaceful Parenting Dad and Coach with Kyle Wester 8:32 Raising Emotionally Intelligent Kids with Stephanie Pinto 13:17 When Your Child is Different with Sonali Vongchusiri 15:21 Neurodivergent Insights with Dr. Megan Anna Neff 17:31 Parenting Middle Schoolers with Phyllis Fagell 21:00 Conscious Parenting with Destini Davis 22:01 Ruth Whippman Raising Emotionally Healthy Boys- BoyMom: Reimagining Boyhood 24:05 ADHD and Feeding/Eating Challenges with Dr. Roberto Olivardia 24:42 How to Help Kids Manage Stress and Difficulty with Ned Johnson 30:08 Greg Santucci on Sensory Processing 33:10 Kristen Day Play Based Learning: Or Why You Don't Need to Get Your Child Ready For Kindergarten 36:33 Why Is Parenting So Hard with Yolanda Williams 38:28 Sexism and Sensibility: Raising Empowered, Resilient Girls in the Modern World with Jo Ann Finkelstein 40:19 School Avoidance and Anxiety with Lynn Lyons 44:32 Strong-Willed Kids with Vivek Patel 46:32 Disordered Eating and Body Image Issues with Luciana Rosu-Sieza and Alexis Sauls Ramos 48:51 How to Help Our Little Ones Sleep with Kim Hawley 52:49 When Achievement Culture Becomes Toxic with Jennifer Wallace   Download the episode transcript HERE    Resources mentioned in this episode: Casey Ehrlich https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/episode139/  Mary Van Geffen https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/episode138/  Eve Rodsky https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/episode30/ and Eve's book Find Your Unicorn Space Kyle Wester https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/episode141/  Stephanie Pinto https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/episode-144-raising-emotionally-intelligent-kids/ and Stephanie's Book- From Chaos to Connection  Sonali Vongchusiri https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/episode-146-when-your-child-is-different-with-sonali-vongchusiri/  Dr. Megan Anna Neff https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/neurodivergent-insights-with-dr-megan-anna-neff-episode-147/ and Dr. Neff's book Dr. Megan Anna Neff's book Self-Care for Autistic People: 100+ Ways to Recharge, De-Stress, and Unmask!  Phyllis Fagell https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/parenting-middle-schoolers-with-phyllis-fagell-episode-151/ and Phyllis' books Middle School Matters and Middle School Superpowers Destini Davis https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/conscious-parenting-with-destini-ann-episode-153/ and Destini's book Very Intentional Parenting: Awakening the Empowered Parent Within   Ruth Whippman https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/raising-emotionally-healthy-boys-boymom-reimagining-boyhood-episode-155/ and Ruth's book BoyMom: Reimagining Boyhood in the Age of Impossible Masculinity Ned Johnson https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/how-to-help-kids-manage-stress-and-difficulty-with-ned-johnson-episode-156/ and Ned's books What Do You Say with Ned Johnson and William Stixrud  and Self-Driven Child by William Stixrud (PhD) and Ned Johnson  Dr. Roberto Olivardia https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/adhd-and-feeding-eating-challenges-with-dr-roberto-olivardia-episode-149/  and Dr. Olivardia's book The Adonis Complex: How to Identify, Treat and Prevent Body Obsession in Men and Boys by Dr. Roberto Olivardia Greg Santucci https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/greg-santucci-on-sensory-processing-and-live-qa-with-my-membership-community-episode-157/  Kristen Day https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/play-based-learning-or-why-you-dont-need-to-get-your-child-ready-for-kindergarten-episode-159/  Yoland Williams https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/why-is-parenting-so-hard-with-yolanda-williams-episode-160/  Jo Ann Finkelstein https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/sexism-and-sensibility-raising-empowered-resilient-girls-in-the-modern-world-with-jo-ann-finkelstein-episode-164/  and Jo Ann's book Sexism & Sensibility Raising Empowered, Resilient Girls In The Modern World Lynn Lyons https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/school-avoidance-and-anxiety-with-lynn-lyons-episode-166/ and Lynn's book Anxious Kids Anxious Parents by Lynn Lyons Vivek Patel https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/strong-willed-kids-with-vivek-patel-and-qa-with-membership-episode-168/  Luciana Rosu-Sieza and Alexis Sauls Ramos https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/disordered-eating-and-body-image-issues-with-luciana-rosu-sieza-and-alexis-sauls-ramos-episode-170/  Kim Hawley https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/how-to-help-our-little-ones-sleep-with-kim-hawley-episode-172/  Jennifer Wallace https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/when-achievement-culture-becomes-toxic-with-jennifer-wallace-episode-173/ and Jennifer's book Never Enough: When Achievement Culture Becomes Toxic- and What We Can Do About It Connect with Sarah Rosensweet:   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahrosensweet/  Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/peacefulparentingfreegroup YouTube: Peaceful Parenting with Sarah Rosensweet @peacefulparentingwithsarah4194  Website: https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com   Join us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/peacefulparenting  Newsletter: https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/newsletter  Book a short consult or coaching session call: https://book-with-sarah-rosensweet.as.me/schedule.php 

No couple goes into parenting as a perfectly united front. Every parent runs out of steam, hits a wall, and loses it from time to time. Good parents ask good questions like “How can I help my partner when things are going off the rails without stepping on their toes?”Before you hop in the car and start parenting extra challenging behaviors in front of extended family this holiday season, have this important conversation with your partner to set you both up for much more success. IN THIS EPISODE I SHARED:The ONE question to ask your partnerWhy you're actually not failing, and what failing really looks likePractical strategies to inspire you to put a new plan in placeDON'T MISS:A better story to tell yourself that gives you permission to tag in/out in the first place // MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE //Other recommended Failing Motherhood episodes:Ep. 53 from 11/23/21 - Parenting Around FamilyEp. 61 from 3/8/22 - How to Get on the Same PageEp. 123 from 9/26/23 - Good Cop/ Bad Cop: The Broken Record RelationshipEp. 129 from 11/7/23 - Best BOOKS for Strong-Willed KidsEp. 131 from 11/21/23 - Best GIFTS for Strong-Willed Kids (unconventional, practical and long-lasting ideas that are still fun to open!)Ep. 133 from 12/5/23 - Boundaries with Parents with Jamie Cooper // CONNECT WITH DANIELLE //Website: parentingwholeheartedly.comIG: @‌parent_wholeheartedlyAPPLY: parentingwholeheartedly.com/applySend us Fan Mail over Text.Support the showSTART HERE:CALM + CONFIDENT: THE MASTERCLASS Master the KIND + FIRM Approach your Strong-Willed Child Needs WITHOUT Crushing their Spirit OR Walking on Eggshells *FREE* - www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/confident

In today's solo minisode I'm talking all about strong-willed kids. I've been talking a lot about this in my emails and on my social media lately because I know it's a topic that many parents struggle with. Strong-willed kids are the ones that I like to call fair fighters - they're always keeping score and want to make sure everything is right in their world. But this can cause them to easily spiral out of control the second things don't go their way. I want to share three key points that come up over and over again in one-on-one and group coaching in regards to strong willed kids.If this episode resonates with you, consider signing up for my group coaching program all about raising strong willed kids and emotional regulation for kids and parents starting November 21! The link to register is in the Resources. Does Your Kid Value Approval or Power? We set up an expectation and kids usually comply.Strong-willed kids don't seek or value approval from authority or parents. It's not important enough for them.Instead they value power but they don't have the capacity to hold all of it. They try to find out how much power they can have until they start to lose control.Strong-willed kids will then look for an anchor to keep them in a safe state when they start to lose control.Explanations Don't Work We try to give kids the tools and the choices to understand why things are happening. Explanations don't deter a strong-willed kid from their actions.An explanation gives information but they are not lacking information. It may be a bigger issue of impulse control, tolerating frustration, sensory overload, or something else.If there is a lack of information, the next time they face something similar the outcome will be different. Get to the root of what skills they need to develop to reduce the behavior you don't want to see. Self Regulate YourselfIt's incredibly triggering for parents when a strong-willed kid is emotionally out of control. It's important for the parent to self regulate themselves when the child is unable to.They are looking for someone to be calm in the storm.We have to create a really consistent, predictable structure through boundaries. This structuring takes time and will take a while to set the expectations and make changes where needed. Teaching them how to regulate their emotions is an important step to help your child foster their inner free spirit and communicate their needs and emotions.Resources: Sign up for my Group Coaching Program starting November 21: stan.store/theparentingreframe/p/group-coaching-raising-strong-willed-kids-51n42Joe Newman podcast episode: https://theparentingreframe.com/podcast-episodes/episode-49-a-raising-lions-q-a-with-joe-newman/ Sign up for a FREE 20 minute discovery call: https://stan.store/theparentingreframe/p/free-discovery-call-ck6qfBe sure to sign up for my Substack newsletter for longer and more specialized parenting content: https://albiona.substack.com/ I hope you found this episode helpful; for more parenting tips, check out my website and blog for more information. https://theparentingreframe.com/Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theparentingreframe/Follow me on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@theparentingreframe 

Tiny humans can have big feelings! If you're feeling like you're juggling a million things—especially your child's feelings—you're not alone! I had a great conversation with parenting expert Rachel Bailey, where we explore how to understand and manage those overwhelming emotions, navigate meltdowns, and set effective boundaries. Rachel also shares powerful tips on fostering resilience in kids and strategies for parents to stay calm and consistent. If you're a mom balancing home and work, this episode is packed with invaluable strategies that you don't want to miss!Today we cover:Instead of simply trying to stop meltdowns, focus on understanding what's truly causing these big reactionsWhy consistent and predictable boundaries help children regulate emotions better and feel more secure The importance of our own reactions - regulating ourselves first is key to helping our kids feel safe and manage their “yuck”The importance of teaching your child the skills to manage their emotions themselves and how it leads to better mental health and resilience over timeCONNECT WITH RACHEL:Website: www.Rachel-Bailey.comInstagram: @RachelBaileyParentingFree resources: https://rachel-bailey.com/yuck-curvehttps://rachel-bailey.com/longgameCONNECT WITH HOLLY:• ASK ME ANYTHING: www.hollymariehaynes.com/chat• WATCH THE EPISODE AND BONUS CONTENT ON YOUTUBE: www.youtube.com/@hollymariehaynes• JOIN THE CLUB! USE CODE "CEOBONUS" AT CHECKOUT: https://www.hollymariehaynes.com/club• WORK WITH HOLLY: www.hollymariehaynes.com/workwithme

Join me as I chat with Wendy Snyder all about those extra spicy, extra tricky kids that we often call “strong-willed” and learn through her story, and mine, how to support your own strong-willed child better. Wendy is a mom of two, certified parenting educator & family life coach, who inspires parents to learn & grow through connection-based positive parenting strategies. In this episode: Wendy's story of her young daughter throwing her for a loop, and how it called into a new way of parentingWendy's growth and healing through parenting, and how she fosters her daughter's independence, without losing her mindFirm and compassionate ways to care for our little ones (and bigger ones)Connect with Wendy: Website HEREPodcast show: HEREInstagram: HEREYoutube: HEREFacebook: HEREConnect with Crystal: Join the next round of The Shame-Free Parenting Movement: HEREGet started with teaching your child emotions, free feelings wheel HEREFind your parenting personality (and get tips specific to it) by taking the quiz HERECheck out all my fun parenting courses and programs here: www.coachcrystal.caGet tips, insights and support daily through IG right HERE

This week on The Peaceful Parenting Podcast you get a sneak peek inside my Peaceful Parenting Membership. Listen in to our Q &A with Vivek Patel about non-coercive parenting and strong-willed kids. Vivek is a true champion of children and is one of the speakers this year in the upcoming  Flourish with Your Complex Child Summit. If you would like to hear more from Vivek as well as 25+ additional speakers, register for FREE today! We talk about: 7:30 What is coercion? 10:50 Rewiring our own patterns 12:14 Non coercive collaborative parenting- what we don't do and what we do  15:20 Problems with “transitional parenting philosophies” 28:08 Member Question- how to apply these ideas to feeding challenges 38:00 Member Question- how to help a kid respect their brother's boundaries 47:00 A radical humanity approach to children hitting   Download the episode transcript HERE    Resources mentioned in this episode:   REGISTRATION IS NOW OPEN! Flourish with Your Complex Child Summit 2024 https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/summit Vivek Patel https://www.meaningfulideas.com/    Connect with Sarah Rosensweet:   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahrosensweet/  Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/peacefulparentingfreegroup Website: https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com   Join us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/peacefulparenting  Newsletter: https://reimaginepeacefulparenting.com/newsletter  Book a short consult or coaching session call: https://book-with-sarah-rosensweet.as.me/schedule.php   

If you've noticed that the standard responses of many teachers and parents to the strong-willed and neurodivergent kids in their care only creates more problems - for everyone, then you really want to tune into this conversation with Kirk Martin. Kirk is a master at providing deeply effective and easily implemented strategies that actually make life better for everyone - - - in the classroom and at home. I can confidently assure you that this conversation will exceed your highest expectations for providing wise and practical solutions. Please fill out the poll that coincides with this episode and/or send in your question for Kirk to address in the next conversation he and I share.

Do you have a strong-willed, independent child you're struggling with? In this episode, Wendy Snyder from ⁠⁠⁠Fresh Start Family⁠⁠⁠ joins me to continue the conversation about the characteristics and challenges of parenting strong-willed children. We define what strong-willed means and emphasize the importance of nurturing, mentoring, and building healthy relationships based on respect and trust. Missed Part 1 of this conversation? ⁠Check it out now!⁠ Wendy is a certified Positive Parenting Educator, Family Life Coach, and co-host of the Fresh Family Start Podcast. Be sure to check out Fresh Family Start ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠! Feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, and in survival mode? Determined to be calm and connected to help your child thrive? Book your ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠complimentary connection⁠⁠ ⁠⁠call⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠to see how we can transform the toddler years together with my 1:1 coaching. September 12, 2024 Episode 176 Raising Strong Willed Kids with Integrity with Wendy Snyder - Part 2 About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed is mom to three girls, a Vermont based Early Childhood Educator and the founder of Core4Parenting. She is the passionate mastermind behind the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™, a birth-to-five, soul and science based framework that empowers toddler parents and educators  to turn tantrums into teachable moments. Through keynotes, teacher training, and her top-ranking podcast, Transforming the Toddler Years, she's teaching the 5 Executive Functioning Skills kids need to navigate our ever-changing world. Ready to raise world-ready kids who change the world? Visit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.caratyrrell.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠to begin your Collaborative Parenting journey!

On this week's episode of the Thrive Like a Parent podcast, I dive into the challenges and rewards of raising strong-willed children, especially when it comes to their sensory and emotional regulation. Storing willed kiddos often struggle with societal expectations, like sitting still or staying organized, because they're trying to navigate their own unique needs.   I want to reassure you that while raising strong-willed children can be exhausting and sometimes overwhelming, it's so important to trust your parenting instincts. Understanding the root of their behavior—whether it's driven by sensory needs or emotional intensity—can make a big difference in guiding them effectively. I promise you can support your strong-willed child while still maintaining your own sanity.   I keep it real, the tough moments and the frustration that can come with them is 10000% there. But I also want to offer you hope and encouragement, reminding you that these traits often point to brilliance and resilience in your child. The key is finding the right balance between supporting their development and creating a harmonious household where everyone thrives.   #ParentingTips #StrongWilledChild #ThriveLikeAParent #ParentingChallenges #RaisingKids #ChildDevelopment #ParentingAdvice #MindfulParenting #SensoryAwareness #EmotionalRegulation #MomLife #ParentingPodcast

Do you have a strong-willed, independent child you're struggling with? In this episode, Wendy Snyder from ⁠Fresh Start Family⁠ joins me to talk about the characteristics and challenges of parenting strong-willed children. We define what strong-willed means and emphasize the importance of nurturing, mentoring, and building healthy relationships based on respect and trust. Wendy is a certified Positive Parenting Educator, Family Life Coach, and co-host of the Fresh Family Start Podcast. Be sure to check out Fresh Family Start ⁠here⁠! Feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, and in survival mode? Determined to be calm and connected to help your child thrive? Book your ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠complimentary connection ⁠⁠call⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠to see how we can transform the toddler years together with my 1:1 coaching. Is your little one struggling at daycare or kindergarten? Wondering how to prepare them for pre-school? Check out my ⁠School Readiness Mini Course⁠ to learn The 5 Essential Executive Functioning Skills for Your Child's Success in School and Life (Hint: it doesn't include the ABC's or 123's!). Learn all about it⁠ here⁠! August 29, 2024 Episode 172 Raising Strong Willed Kids with Integrity with Wendy Snyder - Part 1 About Your Host: Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed is mom to three girls, a Vermont based Early Childhood Educator and the founder of Core4Parenting. She is the passionate mastermind behind the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™, a birth-to-five, soul and science based framework that empowers toddler parents and educators  to turn tantrums into teachable moments. Through keynotes, teacher training, and her top-ranking podcast, Transforming the Toddler Years, she's teaching the 5 Executive Functioning Skills kids need to navigate our ever-changing world. Ready to raise world-ready kids who change the world? Visit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.caratyrrell.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠to begin your Collaborative Parenting journey!

On this episode of The Fresh Start Family Show, Wendy chats with the funny and insightful Kirk Martin, founder of Celebrate Calm and host of the Calm Parenting podcast.  They explore 3 tools we can use to help de-escalate situations with our strong-willed kids when they're upset that are effective and actually create closeness when parenting a strong-willed kiddo: Self-Regulation: We must control our own emotions first before we address the child. The quickest way to change your child's behavior is to first control your own. Movement: Motion changes emotion. Sometimes talking makes kids more upset. Use movement to help calm an upset child. Connection: Relationships change behavior. Staying connected, especially during discipline creates trust & safety, which kids NEED in order to learn effective self-regulation.  Strong-willed kids are incredible, AND they can often be misunderstood. This episode gives us a fresh and empowered perspective on these kiddos and how to support their big feelings. For links & more info about everything discussed in this episode, head to www.freshstartfamilyonline.com/238. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever wondered why some parenting tactics just don't work with your kids? 'Gentle parenting' might be failing, rather than helping, you. This week, we have the pleasure of hosting Stefani Hart, a clinically trained child life specialist and parent coach. Stefani is revolutionizing the way we understand and approach parenting, particularly when dealing with strong-willed children. Stefani dives deep into her practice, explaining how she helps families navigate difficult behaviors and trauma through structured support and coping mechanisms. You'll learn about the impact of a strong-willed child, the pitfalls of gentle parenting as it's often portrayed on social media, and practical strategies for setting boundaries and limits that foster both child and parent confidence. Tune in for many invaluable insights into effective parenting while keeping your own central nervous system in check.   Today we cover: Stefani's background as a parent coach and child life specialist Understanding whether your child reacts with fight, flight, or freeze (or even fawn) during stressful situations so you can ailor your approach for better outcomes The perception vs. reality of gentle parenting and the importance of structure and firm limits Strategies for handling strong-willed children with examples of what it can look like in multiple scenarios How to implement confidence in your parenting, including setting core family values and boundaries   State of Women 2024 Sponsorship Inquiries: whitney@whitneyabraham.com Learn more about State of Women 2024   Connect with Stefani Hart: @harttoheartfamilysupport Ditch the Drama Masterclass: https://stan.store/harttoheartfamilysupport/p/ditch-the-drama-live-virtual-parenting-class   Connect with Whitney & Stephanie: captureyourconfidencepodcast@gmail.com Stephanie IG: @_stephanie_hanna_ The Other 85: https://theother85.net/ Whitney IG: @whitneyabraham

Today, we're excited to feature Bethany_Gettis, a former weight loss and health nurse turned certified holistic Nutritional Consultant and founder of Nutritious and Delicious.In this episode, we tackle common questions about food pickiness, mealtime battles, and the importance of prioritizing your own needs to better care for your family.Join us for an insightful conversation packed with practical advice and personal stories from Bethany's journey through motherhood and holistic nutrition and together let's transform your family's health dynamics!Jennifer's Takeaways:Intro (00:00)Holistic Nutrition (00:30)Controlling Food Intake In Children (06:22)Eating Habits & Emotional Well-Being (10:30)How Food And Nutrition Affect Mental Health (13:52)Managing Children's Energy & Mood Through Diet & Lifestyle Changes (17:30)Snacks And Meals For Better Focus And Behavior (18:47)Setting Aside Devices To Promote Bonding & Gratitude (23:56)Tips For Parents To Encourage Healthy Eating Habits In Children (29:02)About Bethany GettisBethany Gettis is a highly dynamic Internationally known Certified Holistic Nutritional Consultant™ and REAL Food Advocate. Bethany is focused on guiding busy, health-conscious parents to their optimum healthy lifestyle, through nutrition while creating a holistic balance. After all, she created her business Nutritious & Delicious because she believes a healthy family starts with a healthy parent.  Connect with Bethany GettisWebsite: https://ndelish.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bethany-gettis-a081a1113/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bethany.wisdom.1Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nutritiousanddeliciouseating/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nutritiousanddeliciousmom/Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

I love Kirk's realistic approach to parenting. He understands what your home dynamics are like. And gives practical tips. After listening to today's episode you will have at least three different “tricks” to apply. Most of all, I'm thankful for the new perspective he has given me. Kirk helped me recognize how emotionally invested I was in my boys' behavior and freed me from the need to regulate their behavior for them. The last couple days I've enjoyed the boys more. I'm also less tense and frustrated when we are out in public. In fact, I may need to go back and listen to this episode more than once, so it sticks! This episode originally aired in May of 2015 Kirk came back on the show multiple times. Check out additional episodes here. What we chat about: Kirk's realization that he needed to focus on his own behavior and stop trying to fix his son's strong-willed behavior. The switch he made from training 1500 kids in his home to training parents to calm themselves. The one thing you can do today to de-escalate a tense situation in your home. How to calmly handle your child's meltdown I can only control one person in life, and that's me. How motion changes emotion–helping little ones calm down b/c they don't know how to “think” their way out. What to do in the middle of Target aisle 3 when your child freaks out Handling a tantruming child when his siblings are fighting and another needs help with homework and dinner is cooking (Heather's daily 5 pm reality). If you don't care enough about yourself, to take care of yourself physically, emotionally, spiritually. . .why would anyone else care? How sometimes parents want good behavior so badly, they are too invested in it and give children too much control. How to be an impartial giver of wisdom. Write down your emotional triggers & do the opposite of what you normally do. Connect with Kirk: Site :: Twitter :: Facebook :: Podcast Links Mentioned: CDs/DVDs 888-506-1871–Toll Free Number for Frustrated Parents Summer of Mentorship Discussion Questions:  Discuss Kirk's realization that he needed to focus on his own behavior and stop trying to fix his son's strong-willed behavior. If you struggle to stay calm when your kids are out of control, what are some of your triggers?  Which of Kirk's ideas to de-escalate a situation is most realistic for you? Thinking about how motion changes emotion. How did you react to Kirk's idea of being an “impartial giver of wisdom” instead of being so invested in how your kids behave?  Spend some time working through a part of your day that is most challenging or a situation with a particular child and brainstorm ways you could respond differently. Share with others in the group and get their ideas if you are willing.  Featured Sponsors:  Thrive Market: Save time and money and shop Thrive Market today. Go to ThriveMarket.com/DMA for 30% off your first order, plus a FREE $60 gift!  Better Help: This episode is sponsored by Better Help.  Stop comparing and start focusing, with BetterHelp. Visit BetterHelp.com/dma today to get 10% off your first month. Greenlight: This episode is sponsored by Greenlight. Sign up for Greenlight today and get your first month free when you go to Greenlight.com/dma. 

On today's episode of The Fresh Start Family Show, Wendy welcomes Becky Dean, a dedicated Fresh Start Family member, to discuss her transformative parenting journey. Discover how Becky navigated the challenges of raising a strong-willed child through mindset shifts, firm boundary-setting, and self-compassion. Hear about Becky's personal growth, from reducing household stress to fostering self-worth, and the impact of these changes on her family dynamics. Becky also touches on sibling rivalry, detachment from children's big emotions, and community support. If you're a parent looking for actionable insights and heartfelt stories of growth, this episode is for you. For links & more info about everything discussed in this episode, head to www.freshstartfamilyonline.com/231. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

 3 Shocking Thoughts Strong-Willed Kids Want to Share With YouIf your strong-willed child could verbalize what they are feeling, this is what they would tell you. I hope you find this insight helpful in understanding a child who often feels misunderstood—which leads to anger, defiance and power struggles. We can change this. Let your child listen--they will feel validated and it may prompt helpful discussions.Our Summer Sale continues this week. Visit https://celebratecalm.com/products to purchase the Get Everything Package at the lowest prices of the year.The Calm Parenting Podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. Take a moment. Visit https://BetterHelp.comcom/CALM today to get 10% off your first month.Visit https://drinkAG1.com/calm for a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase.AirDoctor comes with a 30-day money back guarantee so if you don't love it, just send it back for a refund, minus shipping! Head to https://airdoctorpro.com/ and use promo code CALM and you'll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers!Today my listeners receive 20% OFF any AquaTru purifier! Just go to https://AquaTru.com and enter code “CALM “ at checkout.Go to https://HelloFresh.com/calmapps for FREE appetizers for life! One appetizer item per box while subscription is active. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

 3 Shocking Thoughts Strong-Willed Kids Want to Share With You If your strong-willed child could verbalize what they are feeling, this is what they would tell you. I hope you find this insight helpful in understanding a child who often feels misunderstood—which leads to anger, defiance and power struggles. We can change this. Let your child listen--they will feel validated and it may prompt helpful discussions. Our Summer Sale continues this week. Visit https://celebratecalm.com/products to purchase the Get Everything Package at the lowest prices of the year. The Calm Parenting Podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. Take a moment. Visit https://BetterHelp.comcom/CALM today to get 10% off your first month. Visit https://drinkAG1.com/calm for a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase. AirDoctor comes with a 30-day money back guarantee so if you don't love it, just send it back for a refund, minus shipping! Head to https://airdoctorpro.com/ and use promo code CALM and you'll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! Today my listeners receive 20% OFF any AquaTru purifier! Just go to https://AquaTru.com and enter code “CALM “ at checkout. Go to https://HelloFresh.com/calmapps for FREE appetizers for life! One appetizer item per box while subscription is active. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

And... There are a lot of strict Disney parents...who parent in fear. King Triton. Moana's Dad. Belle's dad. We all know these strong-willed characters and their strict parents...and we can learn from them! Go deeper with Sean at www.SaveMyFamily.us  

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Power. Control. Parenting.Which of these three doesn't belong?My guest today is Wendy Snyder, a positive parenting educator who reminds us, “Control is not the goal of parenting.”Obviously, there is a balance of power in a parent-child relationship, but taking the power or fighting over who has power isn't the right game to play.Wendy will teach you:Why yelling is sometimes what parents do when they feel powerLESSWhy it's so difficult to parent “cactus kids” - aka those who want to be in powerSteps to reduce your reliance on fear, force, bribery, rewards & nagging to influence your kidsPowerful positive strategies that not only help you self-calm, but also work to decrease pushback from your kiddosHow to get to the root of your child's power-seeking misbehavior so you can effectively redirect them toward better behaviorIf you're struggling with a powerful child or wishing you had a roadmap to calmer parenting, this one is for you!Wendy is a camp leader for #LifeSkillsNow Summer Camp this June! Sign up for free here!Resources We Mention for Raising Strong-Willed KidsWendy's free power struggles master classFind Wendy onlineIs your child highly sensitive?Get more practical tips for picky eaters hereFollow her on social media: Facebook, Instagram, Youtube The Fresh Start Family Show podcastWendy's free guide to raising strong-willed kids Kitchen Stewardship Kids Cook Real Food Register for #LifeSkillsNow Season 3 Virtual Summer Camp! follow Katie on Instagram follow Kids Cook Real Food on Facebook Subscribe to the newsletter to get weekly updates Find the Healthy Parenting Handbook at kidscookrealfood.com/podcast Affiliate links used here. Thanks for supporting the Healthy Parenting Handbook!

Eaton Financial Group's motto is to live well, work hard and give generously. The firm specializes in helping women who handle household financial planning by acting in a fiduciary capacity – meaning your best interests are their first priority. For a relaxed and no-obligation cup of coffee and transparent information about creating a financial portfolio – live or virtually – visit eatonfinancialgroup.com to set an appointment. Tell them The Motherhood Village sent you.  Learn more about joining The Motherhood Village community as a member! Brief summary of show: In this episode of the Motherhood Village podcast, I speak with special guest Coach Zach Kasabo, a certified school counselor and parent coach with extensive experience working with children from kindergarten to 12th grade.  Coach Zach discusses his mission to assist parents in confidently managing their children's challenging behaviors and offers valuable insights into modern parenting techniques. Topics covered include the importance of balancing empathy and limits, the impact of technology and social media on children's behavior, and practical strategies for effective communication and setting boundaries. Coach Zach emphasizes the need for parents to trust their instincts and model cooperation and responsibility for their children. The conversation also touches on the societal shifts in parenting styles, the potential downsides of over-empathizing, and the importance of both structure and understanding in raising resilient, securely attached children. We talk about: 0:00 Introduction and Guest Background 01:02 Book recommendation 02:23 How he became a certified counselor and parent coach 04:46 Did he feel prepared to become a dad? 07:16 Why it's so important to talk about challenging behaviors 10:19 Some of the challenging behaviors he's seeing and misconceptions about these behaviors 12:16 Instant gratification and the correlation to electronics & screen time 14:19 Noticing these behavior signs and addressing them 18:54 Modeling behavior for children 20:55 Strong-willed kids 29:25 How society enables this behavior 33:53 Kids need to learn they will hear no, having anxiety and anxious attachment styles 39:18 Effective communication 45:22 Final thoughts Resources The Stranger by Albert Camus Boundaries by John Townsend and Henry Cloud Connect with Coach Kasabo Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090084296053&mibextid=V3Yony Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachkasabo/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@coachkasabo https://www.coachkasabo.com/ Connect with Nicole  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.motherhood.village1/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The.Motherhood.Village1 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicolegcumberbatch/ https://www.themotherhoodvillage.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNzy4b2WHCxvP1k8lL0dvIA

Which one are you?  Which one is your partner?Not only does the second half of your parenting life begin when you understand you're parenting a strong-willed child, but your self awareness sky rockets when you realize you're a Worrying Warrior.Your next step is to evaluate whether you're parenting with a "Just tell me what to do" parent or an "It is what it is" parent.In this episode, I break down each of these three parenting approaches, the motives behind their actions, and wedge of divide that grows between parents that feel they need to overcompensate for the other.IN THIS EPISODE, I SHARED...How to identify your parenting styleThe long term ramifications of you + your partner parenting from opposite ends of the spectrumThe foundation to build from and move forward withDON'T MISS:How Chelsy and Matt found common ground // CONNECT WITH DANIELLE //Website: parentingwholeheartedly.comIG: @parent_wholeheartedlyAPPLY: parentingwholeheartedly.com/applySupport the show*FREE* MASTERCLASS: Learn how to CONFIDENTLY parent your strong-willed child WITHOUT threats, bribes or giving in altogether so you can BREAK FREE of power struggles + guilt www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/unapologeticwww.parentingwholeheartedly.com

Have you found using timers at your house to be HIT or MISS?Either it helps tremendously or meltdowns ensue?  What gives?I'm breaking it all down on today's episode- both the DO's and DON'T's so you understand exactly what's needed to make your use of timers as effective as possible.Not only do I share key insight into reducing whining, clinging, and complaining, but visual timers are your friend, and it's all about semantics so your child sees the "what's in it for me" factor!IN THIS EPISODE, I SHARED...My go-to recommendation for keeping kids at the dinner table longerWays to make transitions to bedtime or leaving the park so much easierHow to leverage a timer during play / quality timeDON'T MISS:Whether or not you should be making "deals" with your child//MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE//7.5 inch Timer3 inch TimerTime Timer Apps// CONNECT WITH DANIELLE //Website: parentingwholeheartedly.comIG: @parent_wholeheartedlyAPPLY: parentingwholeheartedly.com/applySupport the show*FREE* MASTERCLASS: Learn how to CONFIDENTLY parent your strong-willed child WITHOUT threats, bribes or giving in altogether so you can BREAK FREE of power struggles + guilt www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/unapologeticwww.parentingwholeheartedly.com

What if it's not what you think it is? Two weeks ago I listed the 11 most common fears/challenges experienced by parents of strong-willed kids.  In this episode I address each one.The work is in NOT letting these fears take hold of the way you parent, but rather gain awareness and understanding while you get to the bottom of what's really going on.Listen to that episode first, then circle back here for the freedom to zoom out and let some fears go entirely.IN THIS EPISODE, I SHARED...Why conflict should be embraced, not fearedA reason to relax if you're the *least* preferred parent currentlyInsight that will help let new perspective inDON'T MISS:An illustration to help you imagine how your child might feel at the end of everyday// MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE//Part 1 - Ep. 138 - The 11 Most Common Challenges of Parenting a Strong-Willed Child Ep. 108 - Break the Cycle // CONNECT WITH DANIELLE //Website: parentingwholeheartedly.comIG: @parent_wholeheartedlyAPPLY: parentingwholeheartedly.com/applySupport the show*FREE* MASTERCLASS: Learn how to CONFIDENTLY parent your strong-willed child WITHOUT threats, bribes or giving in altogether so you can BREAK FREE of power struggles + guilt www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/unapologeticwww.parentingwholeheartedly.com