The Motherhood Podcast with Michelle Grosser

You're ambitious. You're organized. You've got the planner, the calendar app, and the color-coded to-do list.So why do you still feel overwhelmed, behind, and exhausted by 2pm?Here's the truth:It's not your calendar that's the problem.It's your nervous system.Because when your body is stuck in survival mode, no time-blocking strategy in the world will stick.In this episode, we're flipping the script on productivity and revealing the 3 nervous system patterns that are quietly sabotaging your performance:Chronic overwhelm – Why you're always “on” but never feel donePeople-pleasing – Why you say yes when your body says noConstant urgency – Why slowing down feels unsafe (even when you're desperate for rest)

If you ever feel like a completely different version of yourself when you're under stress—snappy, shut down, or just plain tapped out—you're not alone. Stress doesn't just impact how you feel in your body. It can totally hijack how you show up in your relationships… especially your marriage.In this episode, I'm joined by licensed marriage and family therapist Elizabeth Earnshaw, and we're unpacking how unprocessed stress silently fuels miscommunication, emotional disconnection, resentment, and repeated blow-ups in partnership—even when you love each other deeply.You'll learn how stress physically rewires the way you interact, and why you keep reacting in ways that don't reflect who you really are.We're diving into: ✔️ The two types of stress that show up in marriage—and how to tell the difference ✔️ Why your brain shuts down communication and turns conflict into a battlefield ✔️ How to recognize when you're about to "pop" and how to stop the spiralIf you've ever walked away from a conversation thinking, “Why did I say that?” or “Why do we keep having the same fight?”—this episode is a must-listen.

You set the boundary. And then… you broke it. Again. You knew what to say. You meant it when you said it. So why did it feel so hard to actually hold the line?In today's episode, we're unpacking why boundaries often don't stick—and spoiler: it's not a willpower problem. It's a nervous system problem.Whether it's a boss who steamrolls your calendar or a loved one who doesn't get your “no,” boundary pushback triggers your body's survival response. And when your system's dysregulated? You'll abandon yourself every time just to feel safe.This episode is your invitation to stop shaming yourself—and start building boundaries that actually hold.You'll learn: ✔️ Why breaking boundaries is a nervous system response, not a personal failure ✔️ How to shift from reactive (unsustainable) boundaries to regulated ones ✔️ The 6 tools that make boundaries stick—including the BEAT framework and micro-boundariesWe're getting real about shame spirals, people-pleasing, fawning, and how to protect the highest version of you—even when it's uncomfortable.

If your morning routine feels more like a crash course in chaos than calm… this episode is for you.You don't need another 17-step overhaul. You need a few small shifts that actually stick.In this episode, we're talking about why most morning routines don't work for high-achieving women—and what neuroscience says to do instead. Think less hustle, more strategy. Less pressure, more alignment.You'll learn: ✔️ Why your brain resists big changes (and how to work with it, not against it) ✔️ The 3-step process to create real, lasting habit change ✔️ 4 high-impact morning habits that actually support your nervous systemWe're unpacking the micro-habits that prime your brain for a better day. No overwhelm. Just tiny wins that compound into a more focused, grounded, and regulated you.

You're wiped, but wired. Exhausted, but your brain won't quit.You want to rest—but your body says, not yet.That buzzing, edgy, can't-sit-still feeling? It's not a mindset problem. It's a nervous system stuck in survival mode.In this episode, we're unpacking the real science behind the tired but wired paradox—and why slowing down might feel anything but restful when you're dysregulated.You'll learn: ✔️ What “tired but wired” actually means in your nervous system ✔️ Why high-functioning women struggle to rest (and why it's not your fault) ✔️ 4 somatic tools to help you finally feel calm, grounded, and safe againWe'll cover the role of the vagus nerve, how mixed states hijack your energy, and why stillness can feel like a threat when your system's braced for danger. Plus: high-ROI practices you can use right now to start rewiring rest into your body—without needing a week-long retreat or a silent house.Related Links:Previous EpisodeTired of Being Tired? Top Causes of Chronic Fatigue and Powerful Energy-Boosting HabitsTired, Anxious, and Overwhelmed? The Step-by-Step Process to Heal Burnout and Regulate Your Nervous SystemFeeling Overwhelmed with Work-Life Balance? 3 Mindset Shifts for Working MomsUnlocking Calm Powerful Somatic Practices to Shift out of Fight, Flight or Freeze 3 Body-Based Tools to Shift Out of Fight-or-Flight (Fast)— >>>

If you've ever felt guilty for struggling because “you should be grateful,” this one's for you.Because real mental wellness isn't about pretending everything's fine.It's about having science-backed tools that help you navigate the real stuff—burnout, anxiety, parenting stress, and all the emotions in between.In this episode, I'm joined by Marc Fussell, founder of Take 2 Minutes—a nonprofit using tech and positive psychology to make nervous system regulation doable (and actually effective).We're diving into: ✔️ What positive psychology actually is (and how it helps rewire your brain for joy) ✔️ Why your gratitude practice might not be working (and how to fix it in 2 weeks) ✔️ A simple grounding tool to help calm your nervous system in real time ✔️ How to model emotional regulation for your kids—even on the messy Marc's approach is science-backed, simple, and surprisingly doable—even in a busy season.If you've ever felt like you're trying to be grateful but it's not landing—or like you've lost touch with joy—you're going to love this one. It's hopeful, honest, and full of tangible takeaways.

If your body feels like it's stuck in overdrive—wired, tired, inflamed, and just plain off—it might not be just stress. It could be high cortisol.In this first episode of Alive & Well, we're pulling back the curtain on your body's main stress hormone. Because if you've been walking around feeling anxious, foggy, overstimulated, or exhausted by 2 p.m., there's a good chance your cortisol levels are out of whack—and your nervous system is sounding the alarm.In this episode, you'll learn:Why common symptoms like fatigue, weight gain, and brain fog could all be traced back to high cortisolHow chronic stress disrupts your energy, sleep, focus, and moodThe science behind your stress response (no jargon—just what you actually need to know)4 simple, science-backed ways to calm your nervous system and bring your body back into balanceThe best part? You don't need to overhaul your whole life. Just a few small shifts to help your body feel safe again.

If you wake up already anxious, overstimulated, or feeling behind—you're not imagining it. Mornings can be brutal when your nervous system is stuck in survival mode. And no amount of coffee, planners, or morning routine hacks will fix what's really happening in your body.In this episode, we're unpacking what's actually going on when mornings feel hard—and how to shift it with nervous system-based tools that work in real life (not just on someone's aesthetic IG grid).We're diving into: ✔️ What a dysregulated nervous system looks like first thing in the morning ✔️ The sneaky habits making AM anxiety worse (even when they feel “normal”) ✔️ Simple, body-based shifts to start your day feeling grounded—not reactiveIf you've been telling yourself you're just “not a morning person,” it might be time to look deeper. Your body is asking for safety. Let's help it find it.

You're crushing it on paper—but inside? You're feeling fried.If your standards are sky-high, your to-do list never ends, and your nervous system feels like it's hanging on by a thread, this episode is your wake-up call.In today's episode, we're breaking down what happens when perfectionism becomes a nervous system survival strategy—and why it's one of the earliest (and sneakiest) signs of burnout.We're diving into: ✔️ The real root of perfectionism (hint: it's not just about high standards) ✔️ 5 subtle but powerful signs you're burning out—and might not know it ✔️ How to rewire the pressure to “get it right” and build nervous system safety insteadIf you've been wondering why you can't relax… why nothing ever feels good enough… or why success feels so exhausting—this one's for you.

If you're raising girls, this episode is a must-listen.Because the world they're growing up in? It's not the one we were raised in.In this powerful conversation with therapist, parenting coach, and Restoring Our Girls author Cathy Cassani Adams, we unpack what girls are really asking for—and why so many parents miss it.Cathy brings decades of experience (and her perspective as a mom of three daughters) to shed light on how we can parent with emotional attunement, clarity, and deep connection—even through the messiness of adolescence.You'll learn: ✨ What girls actually wish we'd stop doing (it's not what you think) ✨ Why “well-meaning” labels like “the smart one” or “the shy one” can cause harm ✨ How to foster critical thinking, confidence, and emotional safety with your daughterIf you want your daughter to know she's safe to be fully herself—with you and with the world—this is the episode you've been waiting for.

If you're waking up tired, snapping at everyone by noon, forgetting basic things, or constantly overstimulated… it might not be your schedule, your supplements, or your mindset.It might be your nervous system.You're not just “off.”Your body is trying to tell you something.In this episode, we're unpacking what nervous system dysregulation actually is—and how it silently hijacks your focus, energy, mood, digestion, hormones, and more.If you've ever asked yourself: 

If you feel like you've been stuck in a fog—too tired to move, too overwhelmed to start, or too numb to care—this episode is for you.You're probably not lazy. You're not a procrastinator. You're not failing. You might just be in a nervous system freeze response—the most misunderstood nervous system state.It's what happens after months (or years) of running on fumes. And it's why so many high-achieving women feel exhausted, disconnected, and stuck—no matter how hard they're trying.In this episode, we break down: ✔️ What the freeze response really is (and why it's not about being lazy) ✔️ 7 sneaky signs you're in a freeze state ✔️ Simple, body-based tools to gently start thawing out ✔️ How to support your nervous system without pushing yourself harder

You're doing your best to take care of yourself—maybe even trying to keep up with the wellness trends you've been seeing everywhere. But if you still feel anxious, wired, or totally drained… there might be more going on under the surface.In today's episode, we're calling it out: Not all wellness trends are good for your nervous system.

Today's tech is not the same as the Saturday morning cartoons we grew up with. It's faster, stickier, and designed to hijack attention, delay development, and disrupt regulation. And most of us are just trying to keep up—while feeling totally overwhelmed.In this conversation, I'm joined by The Screentime Consultant herself, Emily Cherkin, a former middle school teacher turned national advocate for tech-intentional parenting.With humor, deep empathy, and zero judgment, she's helping us rethink the role of screens in our kids' lives—and our own.If you've ever felt overwhelmed by how much your kids (or you!) are on screens—this one is a must-listen.We're not anti-tech. But we are pro-child. And that means learning how to use tech in a way that honors real developmental needs, protects relationships, and puts the nervous system first.In today's episode, we cover:Why today's tech is rewiring kids' brains (and what you can do about it)The hidden harms of educational technology (yes, even at school)How to start conversations with your kids and their teachers about screen useIf you've ever wondered, “Is this too much?” or “How do I set better boundaries without losing my mind?”—this conversation is for you.Your intuition is spot on. And today's episode? It's the guidance you've been craving.Press play and let's get clear on what's actually best for our kids—and how to lead the way with calm, courage, and intention.Connect with EmilyThe Screentime SolutionEmily on IGThe Screentime Consultant websiteRelated Links:Previous EpisodeWhy You Need a Family Mission Statement and 5 Steps to Writing YoursHow to Talk to Your Kids about Hard Things While Protecting Your Family's Peace"Calm in the Chaos: 3 Strategies to Navigate Triggering Family Dynamics "Raising Strong-Willed Kids Without Losing Your Mind— >>>

Ever walked away from a conversation thinking “Why did I just say that?” “Why did I freeze?” “Why can't I bring this up without freaking out?”It's not that you're bad at communicating.

Let's be real: spa days are great, but they're not going to rewire your nervous system.You need self-care that actually works. The kind that helps your brain slow down, your body feel safe, and your energy come back online.In this episode, we're redefining self-care for high-achieving women—and talking about 7 surprisingly powerful (and wildly underrated) ways to support your nervous system daily.We're breaking down: Why multitasking is frying your prefrontal cortexHow hydration and circadian rhythm impact your emotional regulation7 daily self-care habits that actually move the needle on your healingIf you've ever rolled your eyes at “more self-care” while drowning in responsibilities—this one's for you.

You won't always feel the moment you leave survival mode.Healing your nervous system won't always look like a big breakthrough. Sometimes, it's quiet. Subtle. Easy to miss if you don't know what to look for.In this episode, we're unpacking 4 signs your nervous system is healing—even if you're not “there yet.” These shifts are easy to overlook, but they're proof your system is rewiring in powerful ways.We're diving into: ✔️ Why feeling less reactive is a huge win for your brain✔️ How that moment of compassion is actually nervous system proof✔️ What it means when urgency starts to fade and presence returns✔️ Why joy is one of the strongest signals of regulationIf you've ever thought, “Is this even working?”—this one's for you.

You can look like you have it all together… and still be starving inside.In this raw, deeply honest conversation, I'm joined by Real Housewives of New Jersey star, former attorney, and author Jackie Goldschneider—who opens up about her 20-year battle with anorexia and what it really took to heal.We talk about the hidden layers of disordered eating, the illusion of control, and how shame keeps so many women trapped in silence. Jackie shares how her relationship with food—and with herself—became a secret prison, how recovery cracked her open, and why she's now using her story to set others free.We also dive into motherhood: how to raise kids who feel safe in their bodies, how to model self-acceptance in a culture obsessed with thinness, and what to stop saying about food and weight—especially in front of our daughtersIf you've ever felt trapped in a cycle of food, shame, and control—or you're raising kids in a culture obsessed with body image—this episode is for you.Things You'll Learn in This Episode:What recovery from an eating disorder really looks like (and how to know when you're ready)How to talk to your kids about food, weight, and body image without passing on shameHow healing your relationship with your body transforms everything

High-functioning anxiety looks like you're killing it.You're answering the texts, running the meetings, managing all the moving pieces, smiling and saying “I'm good”... ...all the while your nervous system is stuck in overdrive.It doesn't “look” like anxiety. But it might feel like:Overthinking every decisionTrouble sleeping, even when you're dead tiredAlways rushing, never restingTight jaw, tense shoulders, shallow breathHere's what no one tells you

Ever feel like your mind & body are stuck in overdrive?It's not just “anxiety.”It's your nervous system trapped in fight-or-flight.And you can't think your way to feeling better.In today's episode, we're diving into 3 powerful somatic tools that calm your stress response—fast.Think: science-backed, zero-fluff techniques that get your body back online in minutes.We're talking about:✔️ Why you can't just “think your way calm” when your body feels unsafe✔️ The science behind my favorite somatic tools✔️ How to interrupt the stress loop in real time and regulate on the spotFeeling better doesn't have to be complicated.You just need the right tools—and a body that remembers how to feel safe again.Hit play and learn how to shift out of fight-or-flight, starting right now.⚡️ P.S. Registration for BRB closes TONIGHT!This is your last chance to join the Spring Corhort for 12 weeks of step-by-step nervous system healing.Head to michellegrosser.com/BRB to grab your spot.— >>>

If you've tried everything—therapy, time-blocking, supplements, mindset work—but still wake up tired, wired, and stuck in survival mode… this episode is your turning point.I'm walking you through the exact 7-step framework I teach inside The Burnout Recovery Blueprint to help high-achieving women regulate their nervous system and actually feel better.No more patchwork self-care plans. No more chasing quick fixes. This is root-cause healing.Inside this episode: ✔️ Why your nervous system—not your schedule—is the root of burnout✔️ The 7 science-backed steps that shift you from overdrive to calm, present, and powerful✔️ What makes BRB different from anything else you've tried - and how to know if it's right for youIf you're done operating from exhaustion and ready to feel like yourself again, this is the episode to hit play on. 

Tired all the time? Mood all over the place? Period wrecking your week?But every time you get your labs done, it's the same thing: “Everything looks normal.”

If you're waking up tired, dragging through your day, and barely making it to bedtime without snapping or crashing…You might not have a time management issue or even a sleep issue.

Ever feel like your mind and body just can't chill—no matter how much lavender oil, deep breathing, or “self-care” you try?You might be missing the real MVP of nervous system regulation: your vagus nerve.It's not just some wellness buzzword.  The vagus nerve is your nervous system's on switch for calm—and if it's not firing well, neither are you.In this episode, we're breaking down why your system won't stop buzzing, even when you're doing all the “right” things (deep breathing, journaling, nightly tea… anyone?).And more importantly?Exactly how to reset your system in a way that's simple, science-backed, and actually doable in real life.You'll learn:What the vagus nerve actually is (and why you should care)The difference between high vs. low vagal tone—and how it impacts your stress, digestion, sleep, and mood7 science-backed, ways to naturally tone your vagus nerve starting todayNo expensive gadgets. No hour-long routines. Just real tools for real life.

You love your kids. But lately? You feel irritated, overstimulated, and straight-up overwhelmed. This isn't just “normal mom stress.”You're likely parenting from survival mode—with a nervous system stuck in overdrive.In today's episode, I'm breaking down the 5 signs that you're parenting in fight-or-flight—and what to do when the chaos feels constant and your patience is MIA.We're talking about: The nervous system patterns behind overstimulation, urgency, and disconnectionWhy you feel guilty for resting (and how to rewire that belief)Small, doable shifts to get out of fight-or-flight (even when your kids are climbing the walls)Because it's not just about getting through the day.It's about feeling grounded, present, and actually liking the life you're building.You and your kiddos deserve that.

You know something's off—your energy is tanked, your moods are all over the place, and your body feels like it's waving a red flag.But every time you get your labs done? “Everything looks normal.”

If you've been trying to balance your hormones, fix your fatigue, or finally regulate your nervous system—but still feel like a burnt-out zombie in yoga pants—it might not be what you are doing…It might be what you need to stop.In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on 5 sneaky habits I cut out that made a massive difference in how I feel—physically, emotionally, mentally, hormonally (hi, cortisol).And no, this isn't about a 17-step morning routine or becoming someone who cold plunges at 5 a.m.This is about doing less, but doing it more intentionally.We're diving into: Why your “healthy habits” might actually be stressing out your nervous systemThe 5 habits I quit that gave me my energy, patience, and sanity backHow to get your cortisol to chill—without quitting your life and becoming a hermitIf you're tired of being tired, anxious for no reason, or just running on vibes and caffeine—this one's for you.

Ever wake up and feel like your brain is already going a mile a minute—kids, work, schedules, the endless to-do list? This guided meditation invites you to start your morning differently—to wake up grounded, grateful, and energized.In just a few minutes, you'll:Anchor into a deep sense of calm and presenceCultivate gratitude to shift your mindset before the day even beginsBoost your energy with a simple, intentional practice that supports your nervous systemYou can listen before you even get out of bed, while sipping your coffee, as you get ready, or on your morning commute. Wherever you fit it in, let this be a moment of calm before the day picks up speed.

You know that sinking feeling when you're about to start something important—but instead, you scroll, organize a drawer, or suddenly need to deep-clean your entire kitchen?Or when you say yes to something you definitely don't want to do, just to avoid disappointing someone?Or when you rewrite an email seven times before sending it, making sure there's no room for anyone to judge you?But here's the truth: These aren't personality traits. They're actually stress responses.Perfectionism, people-pleasing, and procrastination aren't random habits—they're deeply wired patterns your nervous system created to keep you safe. At some point, your brain learned that being perfect, avoiding failure, or making everyone happy helped you avoid rejection, criticism, or disappointment. And now? These patterns are running on autopilot.But here's the good news: You can rewire them.In this episode, we're breaking down: ✔️ Why these patterns feel impossible to shake (spoiler: it's not a willpower issue) ✔️ How your nervous system keeps you stuck in stress loops—and what to do about it ✔️ The first steps to rewiring these patterns so you can move through life with more ease, confidence, and peaceBecause you're not stuck this way. And the sooner you stop seeing these patterns as your personality and start seeing them as something you can rewire, the sooner you'll finally feel free.Let's get into it.

Ever catch yourself reacting to your kids in a way that shocks you? Maybe you hear your own mother's voice coming out of your mouth, or you feel like you're constantly walking the tightrope between patience and losing it.You're not crazy. You're not failing. And you're definitely not alone.The truth is, unresolved experiences from your past don't just disappear—they live in your body, shaping the way you respond to stress, relationships, and, yes, parenting. And until you recognize what's happening under the surface, you'll keep repeating the same patterns, no matter how much you “know better.”That's why I'm sitting down with Dr. Chinwé Williams, a trauma therapist, EMDR specialist, and bestselling author, to unpack how past experiences influence our nervous system, emotions, and the way we show up as parents.If you've ever felt like you're carrying invisible weight, or you find yourself snapping, shutting down, or over-controlling (even when you don't want to), this conversation is going to be a game-changerWe unpack what trauma really is, how it manifests in our bodies, and how it influences the way we show up as mothers, partners, and professionals. 3 Things You'll Learn in This Episode:What Trauma Really Is – It's not just the “big” stuff. Chronic stress, emotional neglect, or even parents' high expectations can shape your nervous system.How Your Past Shows Up in Parenting – Unresolved trauma can resurface in emotional triggers, parenting patterns, and unexpected reactions to your child's behavior.Ways to Regulate Your Nervous System – Learn simple, effective strategies to calm your body and model emotional resilience for your children.You can break the cycle. You can rewrite the script. And it starts here.Hit play, and let's talk about it.

Do you ever feel like you're constantly busy but never truly productive? Your to-do list is endless, you're always running from one task to the next, and yet, at the end of the day, it feels like you haven't really moved the needle on what actually matters. If that sounds familiar, you're not alone.In today's episode, we're breaking down why busyness isn't the same as productivity—and why understanding this is crucial to creating a stress-free, fulfilling life. The truth is, constantly being in “go mode” keeps your nervous system stuck in a state of reactivity, making it harder to focus, prioritize, and accomplish meaningful work. If you've ever felt like you're doing more but achieving less, it's time to shift from just checking boxes to true, intentional productivity.Listen in to learn:Why stress hijacks your brain and keeps you trapped in the cycle of busynessThe difference between reactive busyness and true, fulfilling productivityHow regulating your nervous system can help you work smarter—not harder—so you can finally feel calm, focused, and in control of your time.Related Links:Previous EpisodeCure Your Busy Brain: The Protocol to Calm an Anxious MindUnlock Inner Peace: 5 Strategies for Busy MomsBreaking Busy: 5 Reasons Why You Might Struggle with RestTime with God as Busy Mom: How Prioritizing a Spiritual Practice Helps Calm the ChaosGet Organized! How Busy Moms Reduce Clutter & Manage Their Time>>> REGISTER FOR THE CALM & COLLECTED WORKSHOP >

You love your kids more than life itself… so why does everything they do feel like nails on a chalkboard lately?Why are you so exhausted before the day even starts?Why does it feel like you're carrying the entire weight of your family's existence while no one else seems to notice?If that sounds familiar, you're not just tired—you might be in mom burnout. It's full-blown nervous system dysregulation—your brain and body stuck in overdrive, running on stress hormones, and leaving you physically, mentally, and emotionally fried.But here's the good news: burnout isn't permanent. And you don't have to “push through” or wait for some magical day when life slows down. You can start healing now.Listen in to learn:✅ The 3 biggest signs of mom burnout (that you might be brushing off as “normal”)✅ How chronic stress is rewiring your nervous system—and what that means for your patience, energy, and memory✅ Small, realistic steps you can take today to start healing and regulating your nervous systemIf you've been telling yourself, “This is just my life now,” I promise you—it doesn't have to be this way forever. Let's dive in and start making real changes.Related Links:Previous EpisodeGet Organized! How Busy Moms Reduce Clutter & Manage Their TimeSober Curious? Sneaky Ways Mommy Wine Culture is Impacting Your Nervous SystemWorking Mom's Survival Guide: 8 Lessons for Work-Life BalancePut Your Lists Away! Effective Time Management, Organization and Productivity for MomsRecognizing Burnout: 6 Critical Symptoms You Might Be Overlooking>>> ROCKSTAR MOM VIRTUAL SUMMIT (free) - REGISTER HERE! >

Do you wear perfectionism like a badge of honor?Maybe you tell yourself that it's the reason you're successful—the thing that keeps you disciplined, polished, and ahead of the game. That being meticulous is what sets you apart.But let's be real—what has perfectionism also given you? Overthinking? Anxiety? A chronic sense that no matter what you accomplish, it's never quite enough?Perfectionism isn't actually a flex—it's a stress response. And if you've been wearing it like a badge of honor, it might be the very thing keeping you stuck.In this episode, we'll break down:

For us high-achievers, we often think of resilience as pushing through, powering on, and handling it all. But what if true resilience isn't about white-knuckling your way through hardship—but about allowing yourself to soften, heal, and bounce forward instead of just back?In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Neeta Bhushan, author of That Sucked, Now What?, to talk about what it really takes to move through life's hardest moments. Dr. Neeta's story is one of profound loss—losing her mother, father, and brother before she turned 19—and the journey she took to rebuild herself while navigating perfectionism, high-achiever pressure, and cultural expectations.But this isn't just about survival. It's about rewriting the way we think about resilience, breaking generational cycles, and learning how to meet life's challenges without burning ourselves out in the process. We talk about redefining strength, breaking generational patterns, and the tension between raising resilient kids while also protecting them from pain.

Are you addicted to stress?Ever feel like you're powered by adrenaline until you hit a wall—drained, anxious, and totally off? It might be more than just a busy day. Your body can actually get addicted to stress. Cortisol, the hormone fueling your fight-or-flight response, can keep you stuck in overdrive, even when you're juggling a million things.In today's episode, I'm uncovering 4 signs you might be addicted to cortisol and sharing simple, actionable shifts to help reset your nervous system. If you're ready to break free from that chronic stress cycle and reclaim your energy, hit play now!Listen in to learn:✅ Why high cortisol feels productive but leads to burnout✅ 4 everyday habits that signal cortisol addiction✅ How to reset your stress response and reclaim your energyI break down why cortisol addiction happens, and share powerful tips to support your circadian rhythm, fuel your body right, and set the boundaries your nervous system needs to shift out of fight-or-flight mode.Ready to stop running on stress and start thriving with real, lasting energy? Let's get into it!>>>

Do your evenings look anything like this? Finally get the kids to bed and then…

Have you ever told yourself “just calm down” knowing full well that saying it isn't going to do much to help?Newsflash: Anxiety isn't a mind game—it's a full-body takeover. If you've tried to outsmart it with logic, you already know that simply “thinking” your way out of anxiety never works. Your nervous system craves real, body-based signals of safety.In today's episode, I'm serving up 3 powerful somatic practices that kick anxiety to the curb—fast. No marathon meditation sessions here, just quick, effective moves that work with your body, not against it.Listen in to learn:✅ Why anxiety lives in your body (and why mindset shifts alone don't cut it)✅ 3 simple somatic practices to shift the state of your nervous system in real time✅ How to use movement, breath, and tapping to signal safety and reduce anxiety in real-timeReady to turn your anxious moments into opportunities for calm? Hit play and let's do this!>>>

Parents—if you're tired of watching your child battle red, itchy, painful eczema with temporary fixes that never really work, this episode is for you!Today, I'm joined by Audra McHugh, host of the Eczema Kids podcast and a powerhouse mom of four who turned her family's eczema struggles into a mission. Frustrated by endless treatments and conflicting advice, Audra took matters into her own hands—and she's here to share her natural, science-backed solutions that actually work.In this episode, you'll discover:How simple tweaks in diet and stress management can transform your child's skin.Organic skincare rituals designed specifically for eczema-prone, sensitive skin.Powerful strategies to confidently advocate for your child's health and build lifelong wellness.Listen today to learn how to break the cycle of inflammation and help your child heal—naturally.Connect with Andra:Andra's WebsiteAndra's Instagram>>>

We all have ways we deal with stress—some helpful, some… less so. But what if the habits you thought were helping you stay on top of things are actually reinforcing stress loops and keeping you stuck? In this episode, we're unpacking four common coping strategies high-achieving women rely on—and how they might be preventing you from building real resilience.The truth is, these strategies aren't bad. They likely served a purpose at some point in your life. But when they become rigid, they stop being supportive and start being a crutch. Let's explore how to shift these habits so they actually help you feel calmer, more adaptable, and truly in control.Three things you'll learn in this episode:How a jam-packed schedule, rigid routines, and background noise might be fueling stress instead of relieving it.Why high-intensity exercise can be helpful—but might be keeping your nervous system stuck in survival mode.Simple, science-backed tweaks to shift these habits so they actually build stress resilience instead of reinforcing dysregulation.If you're ready to stop letting outdated stress habits hold you back and start living with more balance, energy, and calm, hit play now. It's time to turn your stress into strength—one smart shift at a time!>>>

You already know the classic signs of stress: racing thoughts, feeling constantly on edge, or never being able to relax.  But what about the sneaky signs—like a clenched jaw you barely notice, stubborn digestive issues, or that second wind you get right before bedtime? In this episode, we're diving into five oddly specific ways your body might be waving the red flag of nervous system dysregulation—and how to start listening and responding with simple, supportive steps.Three things you'll learn in this episode:Five subtle signs your nervous system is dysregulatedWhat somatic cues are and why they're a vital part of nervous system regulation.Small, actionable shifts you can make to support your body before burnout hits.Listen in to learn how to decode your body's hidden stress signals and take small steps toward nervous system balance and resilience.>>>

Ever feel like your strong-willed child came into this world with a law degree and a mission to challenge everything you say?

Ever snap at your kids or feel your heart race the second your boss says, “We need to talk,” even though you logically know it's not a life-or-death situation? You're not just “overreacting.” Chances are your nervous system is stuck replaying an outdated survival script—one that sounds the alarm at the smallest hint of stress.In today's episode, we're calling out 3 reasons your body refuses to let go of fight-or-flight, even when life is actually fine.Turns out, “calm down” isn't a magic wand for a system convinced it's under siege. You'll learn why your past experiences keep hitting the panic button, and how to show your body it's safe instead of just telling it.Three things you'll learn in this episode:How your nervous system's “database of past experiences” keeps hitting the panic button.Why telling yourself “everything's fine” doesn't override your body's survival response.Real-world steps to build capacity and gradually teach your body it's safe.Tune in to discover how to rewrite that worn-out “everything's a threat” story and finally let your body experience true safety—even when your boss calls an impromptu meeting or your kids decide to have a meltdown at 8 a.m.!>>>

Does it feel like you've spent hours in talk therapy, dissecting your thoughts and revisiting the past, but still feel stuck in anxiety or burnout? You're not alone. No shade on talk therapy—it can be life-changing for many.But if you've been hashing out your past for awhile now and still can't shake that anxious, burned-out feeling, there's a good chance you're overlooking the root of the problem because trauma, stress, and dysregulation aren't just stored in your mind—they live in your nervous system.In this episode, we're unpacking 3 main reasons why traditional talk therapy might not be working for you and exploring how a body-based approach can help you finally move forward.Think of this as your permission slip to explore body-based healing that actually helps you feel better, not just understand why you're struggling.Three things you'll learn in this episode:Why your trauma isn't all in your head—it's literally stored in your nervous system, and words alone won't solve that.How talking about painful events can be re-triggering if you're not simultaneously creating a felt sense of safety.What “understanding” can't fix—logic doesn't calm a nervous system, so you can't outthink anxiety or burnout.If talk therapy is working for you, amazing—keep going. But if it's not, it's time to step off that hamster wheel of frustration. You're not broken; you just need a different approach that speaks the body's language. Tune in to learn practical, nervous system–focused tools that go beyond just talking about the problem, so you can finally start feeling real change in your day-to-day life.P.S. If you want to start healing from the neck down, download my Nervous System Reset Guide (linked below). It's packed with somatic insights and simple practices to help you find lasting relief from anxiety and burnout. No more feeling stuck—let's do this!>>>

Think healing anxiety & burnout is all about bubble baths and “good vibes only” affirmations? Here's the truth: real, lasting transformation starts when you disrupt the very patterns that got you stuck in the first place. It's about ditching the hustle-and-crash cycle, the perfectionism, and the frantic pace that's been draining you for way too long.In this episode, I'm revealing four non-negotiables if you've been craving authentic nervous system healing.They're essential building blocks for anyone serious about breaking free from anxiety and burnout—no quick fixes or overnight miracles here. Think small, intentional actions that compound into big, life-changing results.These aren't just affirmations or quick fixes. They're actionable, mindset-shifting commitments to help you navigate life differently—with more intention, grace, and ease. Whether you're part of BRB or just looking for practical ways to start your healing journey, this episode will guide you toward lasting change.Three things you'll learn in this episode:How to replace the “go big or go home” mentality with tiny, impactful steps that actually stick.The importance of slowing down and focusing on one thing at a time to reduce overwhelm.How to handle the inevitable obstacles (yep, they're coming) in a way that strengthens your resilience instead of sending you into overwhelm.So, if you're tired of feeling like you're running on fumes or stuck in survival mode, this episode is your chance to explore a new path—one that aligns with your body's need for restoration and your mind's longing for peace. It's time to rewrite the story of how you show up for yourself, one small, consistent step at a time.>>>

Ever feel like you're too wired to rest but too tired to function? Welcome to the struggle so many high-achieving women know all too well. Sleep is the real MVP when it comes to health, performance, and mood, yet it's often the first thing we sacrifice. But what if getting solid, restorative sleep didn't have to be a pipe dream?In today's episode, I'm joined by Morgan Adams, a holistic sleep coach on a mission to help women reclaim their nights without relying on meds. After battling a decade of insomnia and prescription sleep aids—and surviving breast cancer twice—Morgan's perspective on sleep is as powerful as it is practical.She's all about giving you the tools to sleep better naturally, from morning routines to middle-of-the-night wake-ups, so you can wake up feeling like the boss you are.Three things we dive into:The surprising causes of middle-of-the-night wake-ups—and what you can do about them.Why your morning rituals (yes, morning!) matter just as much as your evening wind-down.Morgan's top strategies to help you fall asleep, stay asleep, and wake up feeling your best.If you're fed up with dragging yourself through the day on fumes, tune in to learn how to finally prioritize the rest your body and mind deserve.Connect with Morgan:Morgan's WebsiteMorgan's Instagram Profile“Awake Again at 3AM” Free Guide>>>

You've tried the breathing exercises, the meditations, the journaling—but your nervous system still feels like it's stuck on high alert. Sound familiar? In this episode, we're diving into the real reasons your nervous system isn't calming down (hint: it's not your fault) and what you can do to shift into a state of lasting regulationWe'll explore the sneaky ways modern life keeps us locked in stress, why traditional “top-down” strategies often fall short, and how to work with your nervous system in a way that actually creates calm, peace, and resilience.Finally, I'll give you a behind-the-scenes look at the Burnout Recovery Blueprint, my 12-week program designed to help you turn fight-or-flight into peace and presence. I'll walk you through the week-by-week structure and share how it can help you create the sustainable, grounded calm you've been craving.Three things you'll learn in this episode:Why your body doesn't respond to “just calm down” and the limitations of top-down strategies.How unprocessed emotions can keep your nervous system dysregulated.The foundational habits that create a truly regulated and resilient nervous system.Listen in to learn why your nervous system struggles to calm down—and how to create resilience and regulate for good.P.S. If you've been thinking about joining The Burnout Recovery Blueprint, this is your sign! Registration clos

When's the last time you truly felt calm—not just in your mind, but in your whole body?If you feel stuck in overdrive or your to-do list has you so wired that even your “relaxation time” feels like another obligation, your nervous system is begging for a breather. In this episode, we're getting straight to the good stuff—simple, science-backed tools to shift your nervous system out of fight-or-flight mode and into a state of safety and calm. No band-aid fixes here. These are practices that actually work to calm that constant hum of stress so you can feel better in your body and your life.Here's what you'll learn:What's really happening in your body when your nervous system is stuck on high alert (hint: it's not just “in your head”).The primal stress-release movement technique that lets your body complete the stress cycle (and why shaking it out is your new superpower).How breathing the right way can help you stop spiraling and ground yourself in just minutes.Why calming your nervous system isn't about “chilling out” but rewiring your baseline for more peace and presence.You'll walk away with actionable tools to:Release built-up tension and stress—fast.Calm an overactive nervous system without forcing yourself to “just relax.”Build a toolkit of practices that help you handle anxiety, overwhelm, and those moments where life feels like too much.Don't miss this one—it's part 1 of a 2-part series designed to help you find your chill and reclaim your energy.P.S. Want to take it a step further? Inside The Burnout Recovery Blueprint, I teach you how to fully regulate your nervous system and create a life that feels peaceful and grounded, no matter how hectic your schedule gets. Doors are open now—check out the link below for all the details!

Tired of feeling tired? You're not alone. As high-achieving moms, we're often running on coffee and willpower, crashing hard in the afternoon, and praying for just one night of uninterrupted sleep. But here's the kicker: you can't out-hustle bad sleep. And if your nervous system is stuck in overdrive, no amount of melatonin is going to fix it.In today's episode, we're talking about three powerful, science-backed tools that will help you regulate your nervous system and unlock truly restorative sleep. If you've been waking up exhausted or lying awake replaying your to-do list for the 87th time, this episode is for you.You'll walk away with actionable tools to:Fall asleep faster, stay asleep longer, and wake up feeling like a human (not a zombie).Reclaim your energy so you can handle the demands of your day with more ease and focus.Strengthen your resilience and nervous system health—one restful night at a time.P.S. Doors to The Burnout Recovery Blueprint officially open this week! If you're ready to heal your nervous system and say goodbye to exhaustion for good, this is your chance to join a transformative 12-week journey.

Turns out, self-compassion is a science-backed superpower for rewiring your brain and creating lasting change.In this episode, I'm joined by Liz Kelly, psychotherapist, clinical social worker, and author, to explore the transformative impact of self-compassion on your brain's neuroplasticity—the ability to grow, adapt, and heal. If you've ever felt stuck in cycles of stress or overwhelmed by life's demands, Liz's insights will help you understand why empathy toward yourself isn't just self-care—it's the foundation for real progress.Whether you're navigating life's transitions or simply trying to keep up with the demands of modern life, this conversation will give you tools to move forward with intention and clarity.Three Things You'll Learn:Why self-compassion is key to unlocking your brain's capacity for growth and change.The difference between numbing out and true restoration—and why it matters for your mental health.How “internet brain” rewires your mind in ways that keep you stuck—and steps to break the cycle.This episode is packed with honest, practical advice that will inspire you to move beyond quick fixes and create habits that truly nourish your mind and body. Tune in to discover how embracing self-compassion can reshape your brain, restore your energy, and help you show up for yourself with intention and clarity.Connect with Liz:Liz's WebsiteFind Liz on IGBuy This Book is Cheaper Than Therapy

The holidays are here, and while this season is supposed to be filled with joy and connection, let's be real—sometimes it feels more like a marathon of to-do lists, social obligations, and a whole lot of pressure to make everything perfect.If you're feeling more frazzled than festive, you're not alone. In this episode, we're diving into 5 common symptoms of holiday burnout and, most importantly, simple ways to take back your calm without adding more to your plate.Here's what you'll learn:The sneaky signs of holiday burnout you might be overlooking.How your nervous system reacts to holiday stress—and what you can do about it.Practical, no-pressure tools to help you feel grounded, balanced, and present this season.From perfectionism to social overwhelm, we're tackling the holiday stressors that creep up on high-achieving women and offering easy, effective ways to reset your nervous system. So, whether you're juggling back-to-back parties or just trying to survive a family dinner, this episode is packed with insights to help you reclaim your peace and actually enjoy the holidays.