Podcasts about gestures

Hammer, Nigel, and some listeners talk about their big romantic gestures that turned into fails- all in the name of love! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's a Valentine's Day edition of Cinco De Luncho, and the gloves are off. The guys count down the top five most useless Valentine's Day gestures, from sending nudes and buying chocolates to flowers that die, corny Instagram posts, and overpriced prix fixe dinners that rush you out the door. Along the way, the list completely derails into classic show chaos with real relationship confessions, unsolicited advice, and stories that probably should not have been told on the air. Equal parts comedy, honesty, and bad ideas you should absolutely avoid.

Head to our PATREON to hear the full episode! Well, Bros, its that time of year -- STEPH DAY! (AKA Valentines Day) And we're celebrating by discussing the swooniest, theee most hothothot, the MOST romantic gestures in film. From grand declarations to small but sweet efforts to LITERAL life-or-death leaps, the movies bring the romance, and we're squeeing about them allllll! What's YOUR favorite romantic movie gesture?

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Dr. Lucy Donkin's Standing on Holy Ground in the Middle Ages (Cornell University Press, 2022) illuminates how the floor surface shaped the ways in which people in Medieval Western Europe and beyond experienced sacred spaces. The ground beneath our feet plays a crucial, yet often overlooked, role in our relationship with the environments we inhabit and the spaces with which we interact. “The ground beneath our feet goes unnoticed for the most part. Yet it guides our steps and shapes our identity in many ways. We obey or disregard markings that indicate where to cross the road, stand back from the edge of the platform, or position ourselves on a sports pitch…Differencing convention in homes and places of worship remind us that our own treatment of the surface is culturally constructed." Dr. Donkin argues that “In the Middle Ages too, the surface of the ground conveyed information to those who stood on it, prompted physical and imaginative responses, and marked out individual and groups in accordance with the values and concerns of the time. Indeed, in some respects, it played a greater role today in articulating space and identity, especially within ecclesiastical settings…. This book focuses on Medieval interaction with holy ground, within and beyond the church interior, asking how these shaped both place and people.” By focusing on this surface as a point of encounter, Dr. Donkin positions it within a series of vertically stacked layers—the earth itself, permanent and temporary floor coverings, and the bodies of the living above ground and the dead beneath—providing new perspectives on how sacred space was defined and decorated, including the veneration of holy footprints, consecration ceremonies, and the demarcation of certain places for particular activities. Using a wide array of visual and textual sources, Standing on Holy Ground in the Middle Ages also details ways in which interaction with this surface shaped people's identities, whether as individuals, office holders, or members of religious communities. Gestures such as trampling and prostration, the repeated employment of specific locations, and burial beneath particular people or actions used the surface to express likeness and difference. From pilgrimage sites in the Holy Land to cathedrals, abbeys, and local parish churches across the Latin West, Dr. Donkin frames the ground as a shared surface, both a feature of diverse, distant places and subject to a variety of uses over time—while also offering a model for understanding spatial relationships in other periods, regions, and contexts. This interview was conducted by Dr. Miranda Melcher whose doctoral work focused on post-conflict military integration, understanding treaty negotiation and implementation in civil war contexts, with qualitative analysis of the Angolan and Mozambican civil wars. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/new-books-network

Dr. Lucy Donkin's Standing on Holy Ground in the Middle Ages (Cornell University Press, 2022) illuminates how the floor surface shaped the ways in which people in Medieval Western Europe and beyond experienced sacred spaces. The ground beneath our feet plays a crucial, yet often overlooked, role in our relationship with the environments we inhabit and the spaces with which we interact. “The ground beneath our feet goes unnoticed for the most part. Yet it guides our steps and shapes our identity in many ways. We obey or disregard markings that indicate where to cross the road, stand back from the edge of the platform, or position ourselves on a sports pitch…Differencing convention in homes and places of worship remind us that our own treatment of the surface is culturally constructed." Dr. Donkin argues that “In the Middle Ages too, the surface of the ground conveyed information to those who stood on it, prompted physical and imaginative responses, and marked out individual and groups in accordance with the values and concerns of the time. Indeed, in some respects, it played a greater role today in articulating space and identity, especially within ecclesiastical settings…. This book focuses on Medieval interaction with holy ground, within and beyond the church interior, asking how these shaped both place and people.” By focusing on this surface as a point of encounter, Dr. Donkin positions it within a series of vertically stacked layers—the earth itself, permanent and temporary floor coverings, and the bodies of the living above ground and the dead beneath—providing new perspectives on how sacred space was defined and decorated, including the veneration of holy footprints, consecration ceremonies, and the demarcation of certain places for particular activities. Using a wide array of visual and textual sources, Standing on Holy Ground in the Middle Ages also details ways in which interaction with this surface shaped people's identities, whether as individuals, office holders, or members of religious communities. Gestures such as trampling and prostration, the repeated employment of specific locations, and burial beneath particular people or actions used the surface to express likeness and difference. From pilgrimage sites in the Holy Land to cathedrals, abbeys, and local parish churches across the Latin West, Dr. Donkin frames the ground as a shared surface, both a feature of diverse, distant places and subject to a variety of uses over time—while also offering a model for understanding spatial relationships in other periods, regions, and contexts. This interview was conducted by Dr. Miranda Melcher whose doctoral work focused on post-conflict military integration, understanding treaty negotiation and implementation in civil war contexts, with qualitative analysis of the Angolan and Mozambican civil wars. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/art

Dr. Lucy Donkin's Standing on Holy Ground in the Middle Ages (Cornell University Press, 2022) illuminates how the floor surface shaped the ways in which people in Medieval Western Europe and beyond experienced sacred spaces. The ground beneath our feet plays a crucial, yet often overlooked, role in our relationship with the environments we inhabit and the spaces with which we interact. “The ground beneath our feet goes unnoticed for the most part. Yet it guides our steps and shapes our identity in many ways. We obey or disregard markings that indicate where to cross the road, stand back from the edge of the platform, or position ourselves on a sports pitch…Differencing convention in homes and places of worship remind us that our own treatment of the surface is culturally constructed." Dr. Donkin argues that “In the Middle Ages too, the surface of the ground conveyed information to those who stood on it, prompted physical and imaginative responses, and marked out individual and groups in accordance with the values and concerns of the time. Indeed, in some respects, it played a greater role today in articulating space and identity, especially within ecclesiastical settings…. This book focuses on Medieval interaction with holy ground, within and beyond the church interior, asking how these shaped both place and people.” By focusing on this surface as a point of encounter, Dr. Donkin positions it within a series of vertically stacked layers—the earth itself, permanent and temporary floor coverings, and the bodies of the living above ground and the dead beneath—providing new perspectives on how sacred space was defined and decorated, including the veneration of holy footprints, consecration ceremonies, and the demarcation of certain places for particular activities. Using a wide array of visual and textual sources, Standing on Holy Ground in the Middle Ages also details ways in which interaction with this surface shaped people's identities, whether as individuals, office holders, or members of religious communities. Gestures such as trampling and prostration, the repeated employment of specific locations, and burial beneath particular people or actions used the surface to express likeness and difference. From pilgrimage sites in the Holy Land to cathedrals, abbeys, and local parish churches across the Latin West, Dr. Donkin frames the ground as a shared surface, both a feature of diverse, distant places and subject to a variety of uses over time—while also offering a model for understanding spatial relationships in other periods, regions, and contexts. This interview was conducted by Dr. Miranda Melcher whose doctoral work focused on post-conflict military integration, understanding treaty negotiation and implementation in civil war contexts, with qualitative analysis of the Angolan and Mozambican civil wars. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Lucy Donkin's Standing on Holy Ground in the Middle Ages (Cornell University Press, 2022) illuminates how the floor surface shaped the ways in which people in Medieval Western Europe and beyond experienced sacred spaces. The ground beneath our feet plays a crucial, yet often overlooked, role in our relationship with the environments we inhabit and the spaces with which we interact. “The ground beneath our feet goes unnoticed for the most part. Yet it guides our steps and shapes our identity in many ways. We obey or disregard markings that indicate where to cross the road, stand back from the edge of the platform, or position ourselves on a sports pitch…Differencing convention in homes and places of worship remind us that our own treatment of the surface is culturally constructed." Dr. Donkin argues that “In the Middle Ages too, the surface of the ground conveyed information to those who stood on it, prompted physical and imaginative responses, and marked out individual and groups in accordance with the values and concerns of the time. Indeed, in some respects, it played a greater role today in articulating space and identity, especially within ecclesiastical settings…. This book focuses on Medieval interaction with holy ground, within and beyond the church interior, asking how these shaped both place and people.” By focusing on this surface as a point of encounter, Dr. Donkin positions it within a series of vertically stacked layers—the earth itself, permanent and temporary floor coverings, and the bodies of the living above ground and the dead beneath—providing new perspectives on how sacred space was defined and decorated, including the veneration of holy footprints, consecration ceremonies, and the demarcation of certain places for particular activities. Using a wide array of visual and textual sources, Standing on Holy Ground in the Middle Ages also details ways in which interaction with this surface shaped people's identities, whether as individuals, office holders, or members of religious communities. Gestures such as trampling and prostration, the repeated employment of specific locations, and burial beneath particular people or actions used the surface to express likeness and difference. From pilgrimage sites in the Holy Land to cathedrals, abbeys, and local parish churches across the Latin West, Dr. Donkin frames the ground as a shared surface, both a feature of diverse, distant places and subject to a variety of uses over time—while also offering a model for understanding spatial relationships in other periods, regions, and contexts. This interview was conducted by Dr. Miranda Melcher whose doctoral work focused on post-conflict military integration, understanding treaty negotiation and implementation in civil war contexts, with qualitative analysis of the Angolan and Mozambican civil wars. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Lucy Donkin's Standing on Holy Ground in the Middle Ages (Cornell University Press, 2022) illuminates how the floor surface shaped the ways in which people in Medieval Western Europe and beyond experienced sacred spaces. The ground beneath our feet plays a crucial, yet often overlooked, role in our relationship with the environments we inhabit and the spaces with which we interact. “The ground beneath our feet goes unnoticed for the most part. Yet it guides our steps and shapes our identity in many ways. We obey or disregard markings that indicate where to cross the road, stand back from the edge of the platform, or position ourselves on a sports pitch…Differencing convention in homes and places of worship remind us that our own treatment of the surface is culturally constructed." Dr. Donkin argues that “In the Middle Ages too, the surface of the ground conveyed information to those who stood on it, prompted physical and imaginative responses, and marked out individual and groups in accordance with the values and concerns of the time. Indeed, in some respects, it played a greater role today in articulating space and identity, especially within ecclesiastical settings…. This book focuses on Medieval interaction with holy ground, within and beyond the church interior, asking how these shaped both place and people.” By focusing on this surface as a point of encounter, Dr. Donkin positions it within a series of vertically stacked layers—the earth itself, permanent and temporary floor coverings, and the bodies of the living above ground and the dead beneath—providing new perspectives on how sacred space was defined and decorated, including the veneration of holy footprints, consecration ceremonies, and the demarcation of certain places for particular activities. Using a wide array of visual and textual sources, Standing on Holy Ground in the Middle Ages also details ways in which interaction with this surface shaped people's identities, whether as individuals, office holders, or members of religious communities. Gestures such as trampling and prostration, the repeated employment of specific locations, and burial beneath particular people or actions used the surface to express likeness and difference. From pilgrimage sites in the Holy Land to cathedrals, abbeys, and local parish churches across the Latin West, Dr. Donkin frames the ground as a shared surface, both a feature of diverse, distant places and subject to a variety of uses over time—while also offering a model for understanding spatial relationships in other periods, regions, and contexts. This interview was conducted by Dr. Miranda Melcher whose doctoral work focused on post-conflict military integration, understanding treaty negotiation and implementation in civil war contexts, with qualitative analysis of the Angolan and Mozambican civil wars. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/christian-studies

Most talks are totally forgettable because they never land emotionally and logically. If you want real impact — the kind that people remember, repeat, and act on — you need to stop "delivering content" and start designing attention through voice, pacing, phrasing, and purposeful movement.  Why are most presentations forgettable, even when the content is "good"? Because information doesn't stick — impact does. Most presentations are heavy on data and light on connection, so audiences can't remember the speaker, the topic, or both, even a day later. In a post-pandemic, mobile-first attention economy (think 2020s Zoom fatigue plus constant notifications), your audience can disappear in seconds — two or three taps and they're in "distraction heaven". The irony is that many speakers feel impressive at the front of the room, but the audience experiences monotone delivery as a kind of "presenter white noise". Compare it to business: a strategy deck in a shared drive is rarely "scintillating", but a skilled leader can bring the same content alive through delivery. In Japan, Australia, the US, or Europe, the mechanism is the same: if the audience isn't touched (emotion + logic), the message doesn't travel. Do now (answer card): Impact = emotional + logical resonance. Design for attention, not just accuracy. How do you use word emphasis to make your message land? Emphasising key words changes meaning and makes ideas memorable. When every word is delivered with the same weight, your message flattens out — and audiences tune out. The fix is simple: stress the words that carry the intention. Take the phrase "This makes a tremendous difference." Hit different words and you get different implications: THIS(contrast), MAKES (causation), TREMENDOUS (scale), DIFFERENCE (outcome).  This works across contexts: whether you're a SaaS founder pitching in Singapore, a multinational leader briefing in Tokyo, or a sales director presenting to a procurement team in the US, emphasis helps listeners hear the headline inside the sentence. It's also an executive credibility tool: it signals certainty and prioritisation, not verbal mush. Do now (answer card): Pick 3–5 "load-bearing" words per section and punch them. Make your audience hear your priorities. Why do pauses increase attention (and stop people scrolling)? Pauses are a pattern interrupt that drags attention back to you. When you stop speaking, the contrast is so sharp that people who were mentally wandering snap back. That's why a well-timed pause creates anticipation — it makes the next sentence feel important. In live rooms it works because silence is social pressure; on video calls it works because silence is unusual and therefore noticeable. Most presenters under-use pauses because they fear awkwardness. But doubling the length of your current pauses — even in just two moments — increases impact because it forces processing time. It also reduces "verbal clutter" and improves perceived authority, especially for leaders and subject-matter experts who want to sound decisive rather than frantic. Do now (answer card): Add two deliberate pauses: one before your key point, one after it. Let the room absorb the idea.   How do pacing and modulation stop you sounding monotone? Variety in speed and strength keeps listeners engaged from start to finish. Pacing is your emphasis dial: slow down to spotlight meaning, speed up briefly for contrast, then return to normal. The goal isn't "fast talking" — it's controlled variation. A steady pace with no contrast becomes hypnotic in the wrong way. Modulation matters even more if your default delivery is flat. The article notes that Japanese is often described as a monotone language, which means speakers may need to inject extra variety through speed and strength to create highs and lows.   Think of a classical orchestra: if it only played crescendos or only soft lulls, it would be unbearable. Your voice needs both. Do now (answer card): Mark your script: SLOW (key line), FAST (brief energy burst), LOW (serious), HIGH (optimistic). Build contrast on purpose.   What makes phrasing memorable — and how do you create "sticky" lines? Memorable phrasing uses patterns the brain likes: alliteration, rhyme, and contrast. Great presenters don't just explain; they package. A simple shift like "hero to zero" sticks because it's rhythmic, punchy, and easy to repeat — which is the whole point.   When people repeat your phrase, your message travels without you. This is useful across roles: salespeople need repeatable value statements, executives need quotable strategy, and team leaders need language that anchors culture. In Japan vs. the US, the style may change (more subtle in Japan, more direct in the US), but the mechanics are universal: make it short, make it patterned, make it tied to an outcome. Do now (answer card): Create 2 "sticky lines" for your talk: a contrast pair (X to Y) and a rhythmic three-part phrase. How should you use movement and gestures without distracting people? Movement should have a purpose — otherwise it steals attention from your message. Gestures are powerful when they match what you're saying, because they add strength and clarity. But there's a rule: hold a gesture for a maximum of about 15 seconds; after that, its power drops and it becomes visual noise.  The bigger danger is pacing up and down like a caged tiger — it distracts audiences and looks like nervous energy, not leadership. In boardrooms, conference stages, and hybrid setups, the principle is the same: move to signal something (transition, emphasis, audience inclusion), then stop. Stillness can be as impactful as motion when it's intentional. Do now (answer card): Plan your movement: "I step forward for the key point, I step sideways for contrast, I stop for the close." No random wandering. Conclusion Communicating with greater impact isn't about being louder or more dramatic — it's about being more deliberate. When you combine word emphasis, pauses, pacing, modulation, memorable phrasing, and purposeful movement, you stop sounding like everyone else. And that's the real advantage: most speakers stay stuck in the same groove, losing their audience. You become the person who holds attention, lands the message, and strengthens your professional brand.  Author credentials Dr. Greg Story, Ph.D. in Japanese Decision-Making, is President of Dale Carnegie Tokyo Training and Adjunct Professor at Griffith University. He is a two-time winner of the Dale Carnegie "One Carnegie Award" (2018, 2021) and recipient of the Griffith University Business School Outstanding Alumnus Award (2012). As a Dale Carnegie Master Trainer, Greg is certified to deliver globally across leadership, communication, sales, and presentation programs, including Leadership Training for Results.  He has written several books, including three best-sellers — Japan Business Mastery, Japan Sales Mastery, and Japan Presentations Mastery — along with Japan Leadership Mastery and How to Stop Wasting Money on Training. His works have been translated into Japanese, including Za Eigyō (ザ営業) and Purezen no Tatsujin (プレゼンの達人).  Greg also publishes daily business insights on LinkedIn, Facebook, and Twitter, and hosts six weekly podcasts. On YouTube, he produces The Cutting Edge Japan Business Show, Japan Business Mastery, and Japan's Top Business Interviews, followed by executives seeking success strategies in Japan. 

Your iPad can do a lot more than you think. Full Screen, Windowed, or Stage Manager—which multitasking style actually fits your workflow? Mikah Sargent breaks down the pros and cons so you can finally decide which iPad experience wins. How to customize multitasking modes on your iPad Using gestures for multitasking and productivity Four/five-finger gestures: switch apps, go home, open app switcher Three-finger gestures: undo, redo, copy, paste, quick notes, screenshots Windowed apps explained: resizing, moving, multi-window setup Stage Manager basics and how it differs from other modes Host: Mikah Sargent Download or subscribe to Hands-On Apple at https://twit.tv/shows/hands-on-apple Want access to the ad-free audio and video and exclusive features? Become a member of Club TWiT today! https://twit.tv/clubtwit Club TWiT members can discuss this episode and leave feedback in the Club TWiT Discord.

Your iPad can do a lot more than you think. Full Screen, Windowed, or Stage Manager—which multitasking style actually fits your workflow? Mikah Sargent breaks down the pros and cons so you can finally decide which iPad experience wins. How to customize multitasking modes on your iPad Using gestures for multitasking and productivity Four/five-finger gestures: switch apps, go home, open app switcher Three-finger gestures: undo, redo, copy, paste, quick notes, screenshots Windowed apps explained: resizing, moving, multi-window setup Stage Manager basics and how it differs from other modes Host: Mikah Sargent Download or subscribe to Hands-On Apple at https://twit.tv/shows/hands-on-apple Want access to the ad-free audio and video and exclusive features? Become a member of Club TWiT today! https://twit.tv/clubtwit Club TWiT members can discuss this episode and leave feedback in the Club TWiT Discord.

Learning assistive technology isn't just about memorizing shortcuts—it's about building skills that open doors to school, work, and everyday life. In this episode, Cheryl McIntosh and Sree Roy share how mastering screen readers like JAWS, NVDA, and VoiceOver can turn frustration into confidence. They break down why fundamentals matter, how learning why something works makes skills transferable, and why patience and practice are the real superpowers. From sending that first text message to managing spreadsheets for scholarships or work, these tools connect students to the world in real ways. The conversation also highlights free and low-cost resources like BITS, iBUG Today, libraries, and training programs that help students learn alongside supportive communities. If you're in high school, heading to college, or just starting your tech journey, this episode shows how assistive technology isn't limiting—it's empowering, practical, and absolutely worth exploring.   Useful links from this episode: Cheryl on the Blind Abilities podcast: From Screen Readers to Self-Reliance: Cheryl's Journey to Becoming a Certified Assistive Technology Instructional Specialist   Sree Roy on the Blind Abilities podcast: Taking on Blindness, Stepping Back and Stepping Up – Meet Sree Roy: Assistive Volunteer Extraordinaire   BITS - Blind Information Technology Solutions BITS on the Blind Abilities Podcast: BITS Has the Solutions: Empowering Blind Tech Users Through Community, Training, and Opportunity   iBUG  Today - i Blind Users Group iBUG Today on the Blind Abilities podcast: iBUG – the iBlind Users Group for Beginners and Proficient Assistive Tech Users. Join iBUGToday – it's Abuzz!   WSB - World Services for the blind Career Training Programs DC Public Library - Martin Luther King Jr. Center for Accessibility JAWS Screen Reader Software NVDA - Non Visual Desktop Access Screen Reader software Apple's VoiceOver Screen Reader Support   Full Transcript Thanks for listening!

Your iPad can do a lot more than you think. Full Screen, Windowed, or Stage Manager—which multitasking style actually fits your workflow? Mikah Sargent breaks down the pros and cons so you can finally decide which iPad experience wins. How to customize multitasking modes on your iPad Using gestures for multitasking and productivity Four/five-finger gestures: switch apps, go home, open app switcher Three-finger gestures: undo, redo, copy, paste, quick notes, screenshots Windowed apps explained: resizing, moving, multi-window setup Stage Manager basics and how it differs from other modes Host: Mikah Sargent Download or subscribe to Hands-On Apple at https://twit.tv/shows/hands-on-apple Want access to the ad-free audio and video and exclusive features? Become a member of Club TWiT today! https://twit.tv/clubtwit Club TWiT members can discuss this episode and leave feedback in the Club TWiT Discord.

Your iPad can do a lot more than you think. Full Screen, Windowed, or Stage Manager—which multitasking style actually fits your workflow? Mikah Sargent breaks down the pros and cons so you can finally decide which iPad experience wins. How to customize multitasking modes on your iPad Using gestures for multitasking and productivity Four/five-finger gestures: switch apps, go home, open app switcher Three-finger gestures: undo, redo, copy, paste, quick notes, screenshots Windowed apps explained: resizing, moving, multi-window setup Stage Manager basics and how it differs from other modes Host: Mikah Sargent Download or subscribe to Hands-On Apple at https://twit.tv/shows/hands-on-apple Want access to the ad-free audio and video and exclusive features? Become a member of Club TWiT today! https://twit.tv/clubtwit Club TWiT members can discuss this episode and leave feedback in the Club TWiT Discord.

Your iPad can do a lot more than you think. Full Screen, Windowed, or Stage Manager—which multitasking style actually fits your workflow? Mikah Sargent breaks down the pros and cons so you can finally decide which iPad experience wins. How to customize multitasking modes on your iPad Using gestures for multitasking and productivity Four/five-finger gestures: switch apps, go home, open app switcher Three-finger gestures: undo, redo, copy, paste, quick notes, screenshots Windowed apps explained: resizing, moving, multi-window setup Stage Manager basics and how it differs from other modes Host: Mikah Sargent Download or subscribe to Hands-On Apple at https://twit.tv/shows/hands-on-apple Want access to the ad-free audio and video and exclusive features? Become a member of Club TWiT today! https://twit.tv/clubtwit Club TWiT members can discuss this episode and leave feedback in the Club TWiT Discord.

In this Valentine's-season episode of the Sustainable Parenting Podcast, I share simple positive parenting strategies that help children truly feel loved while strengthening connection and cooperation. We explore how small, intentional gestures can meet kids' emotional needs and support calm confident parenting—without lectures, yelling, or power struggles.You'll learn:how positive character feedback helps with raising confident kids and raising resilient kids,a powerful daily practice called the Rule of 6 that builds connection in just minutes,and how meeting your child's need for significance and belonging can help stop power struggles with kids and improve listening.Through real stories from my own family and client work, I show how gentle discipline and kind and firm parenting can feel realistic and sustainable.If you're looking for practical ways to reconnect and learn how to get kids to listen while staying loving and grounded, this episode is for you.✨Want more? ✨NEW✨ pdfs and short video lessons on Respect, Bedtimes, Power Struggles and More: ON ETSY!✨ Get my 3 KEYS to Calm, Confident Parenting (30 min. FREE webinar) - https://view.flodesk.com/pages/63640a05c74edb4b6bdce1f3✨ Buy a 3 session Coaching Bundle (saving you $100) - for THREE 30-min sessions 1:1 with ME, where we get right to the heart of your challenges, and give you small, powerful shifts that make a huge difference fast. OR ✨Schedule a FREE 20 min clarity call with Sustainable Parenting, so we can answer any questions you may have about working with Flora.

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Consider this a “political” episode but instead of rehashing the news, we'll offer ways to get involved plus we'll answer a question we received: can you have a power exchange with someone you disagree... The post Let's Talk About *Gestures Broadly at the World* appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Physical danger stemming from another's hostility announces itself through their #BodyLanguage.To enhance your safety, be aware of the following 7 #BodyLanguageGestures foretelling pending aggression. Remember, “You're always negotiating!”   For more free tips on how you can become a better negotiator while reading body language, go to https://TheMasterNegotiator.com/blog     #TheMasterNegotiator #DrGregWilliams #negotiation #CsuiteNetwork #HarvardBusinessReview #NegotiationTraining #NegotiationSkills #GlobalGurus #100Coaches #NegotiationPodcast #AskTheExperts #LeadersHum #MasterNegotiator #Thinkers50 #BodyLanguage #entrepreneurship #sales #AlwaysBeClosing #NegotiationTips #dealmaking #NegotiationStragegies #ConflictResolution #StrategicInfluence #B2BSales #LeadershipCommunication #BusinessPsychology #CXO #BusinessOwner #SeniorManagement #Coaching #ProfessionalTraining #BusinessConsulting   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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On this episode of Kirk and Marianne we talk about cringy things people did for love. Tune in to hear Kirk and Marianne try not to cringe at the romantic gestures people made in the name of love. What did love make us do? Hit play and find out!

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Mark Towhey joins Jerry today at the party table. Jerry discusses “spy vehicles,” in relation to Premier Ford saying Chinese-made electric ‘spy’ vehicles will listen in on Canadians’ phone calls, Dan Riskin returns from his vacation to talk about the latest science stories, and Jerry ends the show to discuss workplace gestures and what he loves about where he works.

Adam Hurrey is joined on the Adjudication Panel by David Walker and Nick Miller. On the agenda: the unifying absurdity that was the Africa Cup of Nations final, whether Spurs vs West Ham's "El Dissatisfactico" is the worst of its genre yet, an unexpected Premier League striker's name in a ghost story, the least satisfying FA Cup draw combinations, one Arsene Wenger tweak to the laws of football that might have some appeal, and footballing body language at bus stops. Meanwhile, the panel ponder the quickest and easiest way a mere civilian could win a foul in a Premier League match. Sign up for Dreamland, the members-only Football Clichés experience, to access our exclusive new show and much more: https://dreamland.footballcliches.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Most people think self-doubt is the enemy. Dr. Shadé Zahrai knows better — it's actually a signal. After spending years researching the neuroscience of confidence and studying thousands of high performers, this Harvard-trained leadership expert has cracked the code on why self-doubt never fully disappears and what top performers do differently when it shows up. In this raw conversation, Dr. Shadé breaks down the exact four drivers of self-doubt that hold people back, why waiting to feel confident is the wrong goal completely (confidence comes after action, not before), how expectation bias creates the reality you experience, and why the opposite of self-doubt isn't confidence at all — it's self-trust. But this isn't theory — it's applied neuroscience. We get into the five elements that increase your perceived confidence (posture, eye contact, gestures, vocal tone, and walking speed), why smiling doesn't equal weakness, how to use the CUT method to handle manipulators, and why writing things down by hand increases recall by activating different parts of your brain. If you've ever felt like self-doubt is holding you back, or if you're tired of waiting to feel ready before you take action, this episode will rewire how you think about confidence, competence, and what it actually takes to trust yourself. Check out Dr. Shadé Zahrai's new book Big Trust: Rewire Self-Doubt, Find Your Confidence, Fuel Success — out January 20th. Pre-order now: https://www.shadezahrai.com/bigtrust Download Dr. Shadé's free Morning Clarity Reset tool: https://bit.ly/morningclarityritual Keep up with Dr. Shadé Zahrai Website: https://www.shadezahrai.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/shadezahraiLinkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shadezahrai/YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/@Dr.ShadeZahraiTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shadezahrai I say it all the time: building real wealth doesn't require a flashy startup — it just takes one boring, cash-flowing business. Join me at Main Street Millionaire Live to get my exact playbook for finding, buying, and scaling a business. Stop wondering how ownership could change your life, and come find out: https://contrarianthinking.biz/MSML26_BDYT ___________ 00:00:00 Introduction 00:01:28 The Scar Study: How Your Beliefs Create Your Reality 00:03:43 The Four Drivers of Self-Doubt 00:08:18 You Are Not Your Doubts: The Ping-Pong Ball Analogy 00:11:20 Affective Labeling: Name Your Emotions to Tame Them 00:14:21 The Opposite of Self-Doubt is Not Confidence, It's Self-Trust 00:16:57 Manifestation Done Right: The Michael Phelps Pre-Mortem Strategy 00:23:41 The Five Elements of Charisma: Posture, Gestures, Eyes, Voice, and Walk 00:43:52 How to Win Any Room: The Five-to-One Question Rule 00:47:42 The CUT Method: How to Handle Manipulative Behavior 01:01:15 Imposter Syndrome and the Citibank Napkin Story 01:07:18 The Top Five Regrets of the Dying 01:22:51 Morning Clarity Reset: The One Daily Ritual That Changes Everything ___________ MORE FROM BIGDEAL

A toy many of us grew up with is reflecting more kids’ real lives.  Mattel is expanding its Barbie lineup with a new doll designed to represent autism.  Holly and Greg explain how the doll is designed and discuss how this type of representation helps more kids see themselves in the toys they love.

In this week’s episode, Jennifer celebrates a major milestone as she marks her 200th episode. Jennifer is a political strategist, attorney, and founder of the Pocketbook Project, an organization dedicated to supporting women who run for office and empowering conservative women to have their voices heard. With over three decades of experience in politics, Jennifer has frequently appeared on television and radio and is known for her unfiltered take on current events, her advocacy for Republican women in blue states, and her commitment to honest political conversations. Reflecting on the genesis of Political Contessa, Jennifer shares how the show was born out of her desire to tackle issues important to women in politics, especially conservative voices often marginalized in liberal states. In this episode, she delivers a passionate, unvarnished recounting of the most impactful political and cultural events from 2021 to 2026, including the pandemic, controversial mandates, the overturning of Roe v. Wade, January 6th, political violence, and shifts in global leadership. She addresses hot-button topics such as vaccine mandates, partisan media bias, assaults on free speech, and the effects of AI on the job market. Jennifer also pays tribute to guests and episodes that have made a lasting impression and makes pointed, controversial observations on the state of American politics, the Democratic Party, and how debate and civility have been eroded in recent years. “I don't have to take it. You know how I don't take it? I have my own podcast. So there you go.” ~Jennifer Nassour This week on Political Contessa: Celebrating 200 episodes and the origins of Political Contessa Why Jennifer started the show to empower Republican women in blue states A recounting of political and social upheavals from 2021 to 2026 The impact of pandemic mandates and school vaccination policies Contentious moments in American politics, including January 6th, BLM riots, and Supreme Court decisions Critique of media bias and challenges of speaking as a conservative woman in liberal environments Reflections on political violence, including high-profile assassinations and attacks The influence and potential dangers of AI on the work landscape for new graduates Awaken Your Inner Political Contessa Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Political Contessa. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Spotify I Stitcher I Apple Podcasts I iHeart Radio I TuneIn I Google Podcasts Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media. And if you’ve ever considered running for office, or know a woman who should – head over to politicalcontessa.com to grab my quick guide, Secrets from the Campaign Trail. It will show you five signs to tell you you’re ready to enter the political arena. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

ON THIS EPISODE: Interrogating 'the white possessive.' And according to Indigenous scholar Aileen Moreton-Robinson, countries like Canada, Australia and the U.S. are best understood as 'white possessions'—possessions which take a great deal of work and resources to maintain, a relentless reproduction of "the nation-state's ownership, control and domination" over stolen Indigenous lands and waters. But, of course, the machinations of white possessiveness can also be less overt. Secure in their belief in a colonial status quo, states now promote Indigenous 'inclusion' within socioeconomic systems predicated on their dispossession and disappearance. Gestures at 'collaboration' that are more confabulation, a 'reconciliation' that's really about recuperation. The kind of contradictions discussed extensively at "Sovereignty First: Tackling the White Possessive in an Era of 'Collaboration'"—an October 2024 panel inspired by Moreton-Robinson's insights into whiteness, race and the state—a series of presentations we'll reflect on over the next few episodes. Sitting with host/producer Rick Harp, MI regulars Kim TallBear, Professor of American Indian Studies at University of Minnesota–Twin Cities, and Candis Callison, Professor in the Institute for Critical Indigenous Studies and School for Public Policy and Global Affairs at the University of British Columbia. CREDITS: Our intro/extro theme is 'nesting' by birocratic; 'Magnetic' by 1000 Handz (CC BY).

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Fluent Fiction - Norwegian: A Snow Globe Christmas: Finding Joy in Small Gestures Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/no/episode/2025-12-04-23-34-02-no Story Transcript:No: Snøen falt stille utenfor, og vinduene i sykehuset var dekket av frost.En: The snow fell quietly outside, and the windows in the sykehus were covered with frost.No: Det var jul, og overalt hang det julelys og glitter.En: It was Christmas, and everywhere there were Christmas lights and glitter hanging.No: På sykehusets ganger gikk sykepleiere og leger, travle, men vennlige.En: In the hospital corridors, nurses and doctors walked, busy but friendly.No: Besøkende kom og gikk, alle med gaver til sine kjære.En: Visitors came and went, all with gifts for their loved ones.No: Lars gikk inn gjennom dørene, kledd i en varm jakke og skjerf.En: Lars entered through the doors, dressed in a warm jacket and scarf.No: Han tenkte på Ingrid, som lå på avdelingen etter en operasjon.En: He thought about Ingrid, who was lying in the ward after an operation.No: Han ville gi henne noe som kunne få henne til å smile.En: He wanted to give her something that could make her smile.No: Lars hadde hørt om sykehusets gaveshop, og han håpet å finne akkurat den rette gaven der.En: Lars had heard about the hospital's gift shop, and he hoped to find just the right gift there.No: Da han kom inn i butikken, ble han møtt av halvfulle hyller.En: When he entered the store, he was greeted by half-full shelves.No: Hyppige julebesøk hadde tømt butikken for mange av de beste gavene.En: Frequent Christmas visitors had emptied the store of many of the best gifts.No: "Hva skal jeg gjøre?En: "What am I going to do?"No: " tenkte Lars.En: Lars thought.No: Gaveshopens eier, en hyggelig eldre dame ved navn Solveig, sa, "Vi har vært veldig travle de siste dagene.En: The gift shop's owner, a kind elderly lady named Solveig, said, "We have been very busy the last few days.No: Jeg skulle ønske jeg hadde mer å tilby.En: I wish I had more to offer."No: "Lars bestemte seg for å se etter noe spesielt.En: Lars decided to look for something special.No: Han plukket opp en liten bok med morsomme historier, et par varme votter, og en fin sjokoladeeske.En: He picked up a small book with funny stories, a pair of warm mittens, and a nice box of chocolates.No: "Disse tingene kan lage en hyggelig gave," tenkte han.En: "These things can make a pleasant gift," he thought.No: Da han skulle gå til kassen, så han et lite hjørne i butikken han nesten hadde oversett.En: When he was about to go to the checkout, he saw a little corner in the store he had almost overlooked.No: Det var der, nederst på hyllen, sto en vakker snøklode.En: It was there, at the bottom of the shelf, stood a beautiful snow globe.No: Lars gjenkjente den med en gang.En: Lars recognized it immediately.No: Ingrid hadde alltid beundret den typen snøkloder med små hus innvendig og sakte snøfall når man ristet på dem.En: Ingrid had always admired that type of snow globe with small houses inside and slow snowfall when you shook them.No: Han smilte bredt og visste at dette var den perfekte gaven.En: He smiled broadly and knew that this was the perfect gift.No: Da han kom til Ingrid, lyste ansiktet hennes opp.En: When he came to Ingrid, her face lit up.No: "God jul, Ingrid," sa han, mens han rakte henne snøkloden.En: "Merry Christmas, Ingrid," he said, as he handed her the snow globe.No: Ingrid tok den forsiktig og ristet den lett, mens små hvite flak snurret rundt inni kloden.En: Ingrid took it gently and shook it lightly, as small white flakes swirled inside the globe.No: "Åh, Lars, denne er perfekt.En: "Oh, Lars, this is perfect.No: Du vet alltid hva som gjør meg glad," sa hun og smilte.En: You always know what makes me happy," she said, smiling.No: Lars følte en varm glede i hjertet sitt.En: Lars felt a warm joy in his heart.No: Han hadde lært noe viktig denne julen – at kjærlighet ikke alltid er de store tingene, men i de små gestene som viser at man bryr seg.En: He had learned something important this Christmas – that love is not always the big things, but in the small gestures that show you care.No: Med Ingrid smilende ved sin side skjønte han at det mest verdifulle ved julen var å dele omtanke og glede med dem man er glad i.En: With Ingrid smiling by his side, he realized that the most valuable part of Christmas was sharing care and joy with those you love.No: Snøen fortsatte å falle mykt utenfor, mens lydene fra sykehuset ble dempet og fredelige.En: The snow continued to fall softly outside, while the sounds from the sykehus became muted and peaceful. 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Welcome to 30 Tips in 30 Days! Over the entire month of November, I will be releasing a short, bite sized episode of Fearless Presentations every morning covering things that are absolutely essential to being a better presenter. Whether you've been speaking professionally for years and years or are looking to just start your public speaking journey, applying just these 30 tips I cover here will instantly and easily make you improve as a speaker. Speeches are only partially about the words that you're saying. Even a great speech delivered limply at a podium with zero movement or awareness of what your body is doing will fail every single time. Use your hands, legs, head, full body, everything to emphasize your points, physically convey words you're saying, and just all around be more engaging to watch on stage and you'll instantly find people enjoying your speeches more and more. Show Notes: 101 Public Speaking Tips For Delivering Your Best Speech(https://www.fearlesspresentations.com/101-public-speaking-tips-for-delivering-your-best-speech/)

Study and apply Matthew 26:10 with Pastor Vetta and be motivated to offer God bold gestures of gratitude.

Shea and Stacy kick of Disney Channel Original Movie Month (DCOM Month) with queer canon CADET KELLY (2002)

It is definietly Halloween at Emily's house! Last night her and her family decided that they wanted to carve pumpkins again so they got everything they needed and went to work. It was posted on her Instagram and we broke it all downThor had to get some blood work over the weekend and it was during that whole process when he realized how people aren't able to function in society... from walking in a line to listening for your name to be called, everyone in that building was doomed and he rants about it during Thor's Midweek MeltdownMany of us have performed some sort of romantic gesture in our time: walking around the neighborhood in hopes of running into our crush, flying across the country to get back with someone and so much more. Well, we found a list of romantic gesturses that seem good as an idea but women actually find pretty creepy

It is definietly Halloween at Emily's house! Last night her and her family decided that they wanted to carve pumpkins again so they got everything they needed and went to work. It was posted on her Instagram and we broke it all downThor had to get some blood work over the weekend and it was during that whole process when he realized how people aren't able to function in society... from walking in a line to listening for your name to be called, everyone in that building was doomed and he rants about it during Thor's Midweek MeltdownMany of us have performed some sort of romantic gesture in our time: walking around the neighborhood in hopes of running into our crush, flying across the country to get back with someone and so much more. Well, we found a list of romantic gesturses that seem good as an idea but women actually find pretty creepy

In today's episode (Part 3 of the series), Rick Mayo and Matt Helland continue their conversation on the importance of genuine care in building client loyalty and business success.They discuss how Alloy's focus on small, personalized touches, such as surprising clients with thoughtful gifts and sending post-workout texts, creates a strong emotional bond. These small actions are key to retention and long-term success.Rick and Matt explain why a structured system of care, embedded in Alloy's processes, ensures that clients feel seen and valued at every stage.Gestures such as a follow-up text after a workout or a surprise gift based on a personal conversation go a long way in making clients feel supported and appreciated.True business growth is about consistent everyday acts of care that set your brand apart.If you haven't yet, be sure to check out Part 1 and Part 2 of the series, where Rick and Matt explore the foundational ideas behind Alloy's client-first approach.Key TakeawaysIntro (00:00)The psychology of random gifts (02:54)Power of text messaging (10:38)Director's role in follow-up and accountability (16:58)Impact of small, consistent actions (19:54)The role of systems and processes (20:40)The role of personal connection (21:08)Additional Resources:- Alloy Personal Training- Learn About The Alloy Franchise Opportunity---------You can find the podcast on Apple, Google, Spotify, Stitcher, or wherever you listen to podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!

TRADCAST EXPRESS - Episode 216 Topics covered: Leo XIV weighs in on 'Cardinal' Cupich's lifetime achievement award for a pro-abortion and pro-LGBT 'Catholic' senator. Leo XIV's message to an interreligious conference in Bangladesh. Leo XIV's message to a an interreligious conference in Astana, Kazakhstan. In video message to people of Lampedusa, Leo XIV claims "enemies do not exist." Leo XIV presides over ceremony honoring ecumenical 'martyrs', omits line in Creed. Leo XIV releases Apostolic Letter Dilexi Te on love for the poor. Links: Video: "Pope Leo XIV comments on Cupich's plan to bestow award on Senator Durbin", EWTN News (Sep. 30, 2025) "USA: Pro-abortion politician declines Cardinal Cupich award: Pope Leo intervenes and Archbishop of Chicago issues this statement", Zenit (Oct. 1, 2025) Leo XIV, Message to Participants in the Interreligious Meeting in Bangladesh, Vatican.va (Aug. 28, 2025) Leo XIV, Message to Participants in the 8th Congress of the Leaders of World and Traditional Religions in Astana, Kazakhstan, Vatican.va (Sep. 14, 2025) "Leo XIV Backs 1986 Assisi Prayer Meeting, Abu Dhabi Declaration in Message to Interreligious Conference", Novus Ordo Wire (Sep. 17, 2025) "Francis to Interreligious Youth in Mozambique: 'Our Differences are Necessary'", Novus Ordo Wire (Sep. 7, 2019) Leo XIV, Video message on the occasion of the presentation of the candidacy of the ‘Gestures of Welcome' project to the UNESCO Intangible Cultural Heritage list in Lampedusa, Italy, Vatican.va (Sep. 12, 2025) John XXIII, Address Gaudet Mater Ecclesia (Oct. 11, 1962) Pope St. Pius X, Encyclical Pascendi Dominici Gregis (Sep. 8, 1907) Pope Pius XI, Encyclical Divini Redemptoris (Mar. 19, 1937) Book: Henri Fesquet, The Drama of Vatican II (New York, NY: Random House, 1967). See page 813. "Commemoration of the Martyrs and Witnesses of the Faith of the 21st century", Vatican.va (Sep. 14, 2025); booklet for ceremony HERE Video: "Commemoration New Martyrs and Witnesses to the Faith - 21st Century 14 September 2025 Pope Leo XIV", Vatican News (Sep. 14, 2025) Cindy Wooden, "Modern Christian martyrs show power of love in face of hatred, pope says", OSV News (not dated) Video: "Leo XIV and the Omission of the 'Filioque' from the Creed", Novus Ordo Watch (Sep. 17, 2025) "Knowing When to Swallow: Leo XIV Omits Controversial Line in Common Recitation of ‘Ecumenical' Creed", Novus Ordo Wire (Sep. 23, 2025) Pope Leo XIII, Apostolic Letter Testem Benevolentiae (Jan. 22, 1899) "Non-Catholic ‘Martyrs': Francis adds 21 murdered Copts as ‘Saints' to Roman Martyrology", Novus Ordo Wire (May 17, 2023) Leo XIV, Apostolic Exhortation Dilexi Te (Oct. 4, 2025) Sign up to be notified of new episode releases automatically at tradcast.org. Produced by NOVUSORDOWATCH.org Support us by making a tax-deductible contribution at NovusOrdoWatch.org/donate/

Your body knows before your mind can explain. We sat down with Jen to unpack how simple, intentional gestures can translate hard-to-name emotions into clear signals you can act on, turning anxious contraction into grounded expansion without forcing, fixing, or faking it. Her journey—from feeling “not smart” in test-driven classrooms to discovering kinesthetic and emotional intelligence—led to a somatic method that has helped thousands reclaim presence, confidence, and self-trust.Jen walks us through the Power of Gesture, a research-informed practice born on Zoom during the pandemic, where hands became a precise instrument for nervous system regulation and emotional clarity. You'll hear why bodyset complements mindset, how 40,000+ nerve endings in your hands act like a truth-telling interface, and what changes when we treat emotions as teachers rather than problems. We explore leadership as an embodied skill—vital for parents, educators, coaches, and executives—rooted in noticing contraction, honoring it, and choosing expansion on purpose.You'll also learn the GIFT framework: Ground to settle your system, Imagine the scene to access sensation, Feel through a fitting gesture, and Transform by linking that first state to an expansive second one. We dig into self-hop—the idea that you're not broken and don't need fixing—and what makes Your Body Is Speaking a different kind of mind-body book for somatic healing, emotional resilience, intuitive living, and women's leadership. If you've been carrying unprocessed grief, post-pandemic stress, or recurring self-doubt, this conversation offers practical tools you can use today.If this resonates, tap follow, share with someone who needs it, and leave a quick review so more listeners can find these tools. Your body is speaking—ready to listen?BioJen Aks journey to leadership and embodiment work began as a self-conscious student, sitting in traditional classrooms where she felt invisible. She failed to fit into the education system's narrow definition of intelligence and dealt with crippling self-doubt because of it. Through decades of dance education and gaining a deeper understanding of diverse intelligences, Kinesthetic and Emotional, she rediscovered her body's wisdom and reclaimed her identity. It's her life's work to bring that same gift to you, so that you can live the radically honest and empowered life you deserve.  Jen is a Transformational Coach, Speaker, and Author of her new bestseller "Your Body Is Speaking"WebsiteSocial Media FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTokLinkedInWe hope you have enjoyed this episode. Please like, comment, subscribe, and share the podcast.To find out more about Lynnis and what is going on in the V.I.B.E. Living World please go to https://link.tr.ee/LynnisJoin the V.I.B.E. Wellness Woman Network, where active participation fuels the collective journey toward health and vitality. Subscribe, engage, and embark on this adventure toward proactive well-being together. Go to https://www.vibewellnesswomannetwork.com to join. We have wonderful events, courses, challenges, guides, blogs and more all designed for the midlife woman who wants to keep her V.I.B.E. and remain Vibrant, Intuitive, Beautiful, and Empowered after 40+. Interested in an AI platform that meets all your needs? Click here

In this episode (#299), Mark and Steve respond to a betrayed partner's story of exhaustion after five years of broken promises from her addict spouse. Despite his grand gestures—weekly check-ins, new hobbies, and podcast listening—he repeatedly relapses and becomes defensive when confronted. This cycle leaves her hyper-vigilant, carrying the weight of the household, and feeling unseen and dismissed. The hosts emphasize that her pain and misery are valid and reflect the natural toll of betrayal trauma.From the addict perspective, they explore why big gestures rarely last: they are usually attempts at damage control rather than authentic recovery. Addicts often react with defensiveness and irritability, avoiding accountability because of shame, fear, and resistance to change. This defensiveness poisons intimacy, keeping the relationship stuck in a pattern of false starts and inevitable disappointment.The path forward lies not in more monitoring or empty promises, but in authentic change. For partners, that means setting clear boundaries that reclaim agency and stop enabling the cycle. For addicts, it requires leaving behind reactivity and committing to proactive, consistent recovery practices. Healing is possible, but only when both partners step out of the destructive cycle and choose honesty, vulnerability, and daily integrity over grand but fleeting gestures.For a full transcript of this podcast in article format, go to:   Big Gestures, Broken Trust—Living in the Cycle of Empty CommitmentsLearn more about Mark and Steve's revolutionary online porn/sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing program at—daretoconnectnow.comFind out more about Steve Moore at:  Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at:  Reclaim Counseling Services

It's the thought that counts... because the actions add up. In our interpersonal relationships, small habits can make the difference between peace and parting ways. In this episode, we dive into the psychology behind the tiny actions and daily rituals that shape how we connect, love, and trust. From gestures that quietly build closeness to the subtle habits that erode bonds over time, we explore why we notice patterns more than grand gestures and how that can transform friendships, romance, and family dynamics over time.

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(Gestures at a circle) You know, for kids! Mike Mitchell and Nick Wiger of the Doughboys join us for a freewheeling, gut-busting episode about the time Joel Silver gave the Coens a bunch of money to make a “commercial film” and then it ended up being 1994's The Hudsucker Proxy. A sampling of topics discussed: Paul Newman being hot up until the day he died (and possibly after), whether or not this movie has a Sturges protagonist in a Capra film or vice versa, whether or not the previous question even matters, the fact that Griffin has never seen The Wire yet has watched every episode of Greg the Bunny, the amount of baby wipes David has to buy in a month, the extent to which the style of humor in Hudsucker overlaps with that of The Simpsons, and a whole bunch of Yaddle talk for some reason. Read Caity Weaver's Mozzarella Sticks piece from 2014 Sign up for Check Book, the Blank Check newsletter featuring even more “real nerdy shit” to feed your  pop culture obsession. Dossier excerpts, film biz AND burger reports, and even more exclusive content you won't want to miss out on. Join our Patreon for franchise commentaries and bonus episodes. Follow us @blankcheckpod on Twitter, Instagram, Threads and Facebook!  Buy some real nerdy merch Connect with other Blankies on our Reddit or Discord For anything else, check out BlankCheckPod.com  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices