Podcast appearances and mentions of William Porter

In this episode of the Way Out Podcast, host Charlie LeVoir speaks with Barney Whiter, who shares his journey of sobriety and recovery from alcohol addiction. They discuss the cultural implications of alcohol, the importance of living in the present moment, and the process of recovery as a journey of discovery. Barney reflects on his health scares that prompted him to quit drinking and the role of disconnection in addiction. The conversation emphasizes that any motivation to seek recovery is valid and highlights the significance of sharing personal experiences to support the recovery community. In this conversation, Barney From The Escape Artist shares his journey from a high-stress corporate finance job to achieving financial independence and recovery from alcohol dependency. He discusses the impact of corporate life on health, the importance of confidence in making life changes, and the costs associated with chasing financial success. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-awareness and the courage to break free from self-imposed limitations.Takeaways:Barney has been sober since August 20, 2022, counting his days of sobriety.Recovery is often about taking it one day at a time.Living in the present moment is crucial for recovery.Alcohol was a significant part of Barney's life for 35 years.Barney serves the recovery community by sharing his journey and experiences.Recovery is a process of discovery rather than just a return to baseline.Disconnection from oneself can lead to serious health issues.Health scares can serve as a wake-up call to change one's life.Any reason to seek recovery is a valid reason.Barney identifies as sober but does not define his entire identity around it. Barney quit his corporate job at 43 due to health issues.He used alcohol as a coping mechanism for stress.The FIRE model helped him achieve financial independence.Health and emotional wellness were key factors in his decision to leave corporate life.He emphasizes the importance of confidence in making life changes.Barney helps others escape their self-imposed prisons through financial coaching.Money can provide freedom, but confidence is essential to escape toxic situations.The cost of success can be detrimental to health and relationships.Self-awareness is crucial in recognizing when to make a change.Recovery can lead to unexpected opportunities and fulfillment.Reach out to Barney Whiter | Creator of the Escape ArtistBlog | Financial Coach | Person in long Recovery:https://theescapeartist.me/ Recovery Literature (Quit-Lit) Recommendations: The Biology of Desire: Why Addiction Is Not a Disease byMarc Lewis PhD - https://a.co/d/iMH3jwfAlcohol Explained by William Porter - https://a.co/d/7zXSpoM Best piece of Recovery advice: Your ability to endureaddiction will allow you to thrive in Recovery. Song that symbolizes Recovery to Barney: Hold On by Wilson Phillips - https://youtu.be/uIbXvaE39wM?si=UXYlBbfUgM3EShnE (c) 2015 - 2025 The Way Out Podcast | All Rights Reserved.Theme Music: “all clear” (⁠⁠⁠https://ketsa.uk/browse-music/)byKetsa (https://ketsa.uk⁠⁠⁠) licensed underCCBY-NC-ND4.0(https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc-nd)

What really happens when you stop sedating yourself with alcohol?In this powerful and thought-provoking episode of The Alcohol ReThink Podcast, Patrick is joined once again by the brilliant William Porter, author of the bestselling Alcohol Explained series and Nicotine Explained. Together, they unpack the subtle but significant ways alcohol sedates our bodies and minds, and why that sedation comes at a steep cost to our health, energy, emotional resilience, and enjoyment of life.They explore what alcohol is really doing when it feels like it's helping, how it impacts sleep, mood, and motivation, and why many people feel flat or bored when they stop drinking. William also breaks down the craving cycle, social beliefs about alcohol, and what it takes to start feeling truly alive again.Whether you're just starting to rethink your drinking or deep into your sober journey, this episode will challenge your assumptions and give you a fresh perspective on what alcohol really takes away, and what you stand to gain by leaving it behind.Some of the awesome takeaways from this episode:Why alcohol's relaxing effect is a short-term illusion and how it actually sedates your energy and emotionsThe truth about anhedonia (the flat, joyless feeling) in early sobrietyHow cravings are really thought loops, not random urgesWhy TV, socialising, or hobbies may feel “less fun” after quitting, and what to do about itHow alcohol subtly hijacks your life, from your evenings to your identityThe surprising truth about social anxiety, placebo effects, and what alcohol doesn't really doHow to replace sedation with true coping tools and emotional regulationAs ever, Patrick & William will leave you thinking and understanding the reasons you drink in a whole new way. ..Ready to Stop Drinking? Start Here:The Alcohol ReThink Podcast Guide: - A simple guide featuring the top 3 podcast episodes, each with exercises to help you rethink alcohol for good.

Thank you for coming to our event!We're collaborating with Sober AF Dating and Helen was one of my guests helping us navigate relationships sober. Janey chatted to Sam Delaney about his latest book Stop Sh**ting yourself, and William Porter went back to basics from Alcohol Explained and reminded us how the brain works and how we can work with cravings and fading affect biasThanks to Club Soda for their wonderful venue, alcohol free tasting bar and shop in London  New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host ofcontent on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regularzoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work goto www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegraceThank you for listening! Please share, rate and reviewIf you're struggling, always reach out, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coach training,Our next course starts end April 25, email Janey for a chat to see if its right for you – janey at janeyleegrace.com Supplements for recoveryThe BEST Magnesium blend ever is the blend from Clive – if you use this ⁠⁠link for everything you buy, a bit goes into ourSober Club giveback fund If you can afford it, also get Vit D3, Amino Acids and Iodine (if you're menopausal) Use this link for everything: ⁠?https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489?⁠ Check out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…& TheWoo WorksFollow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace You can get a copy of FromWham to Woo - A Life on the mic ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ or message meif you'd like a signed copy and I will add P * P

Janey shares some thoughts on being 3000 days sober! EVENTSSober Spring – Live Alcohol Free Life podcast Recording and meet upTues 18 March at Club Soda London with special guest William Porter, Sam Delaney and Helen from Sober AF datingIrs fine to come alone!  Tickets HERE   https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/ New to Sobriety? Sober Curious?Check out The Sober Club, for low cost support, accountability, inspiration, connection and a whole host ofcontent on holistic living. Membership includes and online course Get the Buzz without the Booze, our private non judgemental community online and regularzoom meetings, plus a whole library of exclusive wellbeing contentIf you want to support the work go to www.buymeacoffee.com/janeyleegraceThank you for listening! Pleaseshare, rate and review If you're struggling, always reachout, tell someone you're doing this! @janeyleegrace Ditched the Booze and want to inspire others? Janey offers holistic sober coachtraining, our next course starts end April 25, email Janey for a chat tosee if its right for you – janey at janeyleegrace.com Supplements for recoveryThe BEST Magnesium blend ever is theblend from Clive – if you use this ⁠⁠link ⁠⁠for everything you buy, a bit goes into our Sober Club giveback fund If you can afford it, also get Vit D3, Amino Acids and Iodine (if you're menopausal) Use this link for everything: ⁠?https://clivedecarle.ositracker.com/315625/11489?⁠ Check out my new Substack, you can be a free subscriber or paid for some juicy extras Sobriety Rocks…& TheWoo Works Follow Janey on social media@janeyleegrace You can get a copy of From Wham to Woo - A Life on the mic ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ or message me. if you'd like a signed copy and I will add P * P

Is alcohol really relaxing you—or trapping you?Today, I sit down with William Porter, author of Alcohol Explained, ex-paratrooper, and solicitor, to uncover the truth about addiction. William has completely redefined how we understand alcohol, smoking, and vaping—stripping away the myths that keep us hooked.In this episode, William shares his rock bottom moment, the shocking science behind alcohol dependency, and why we've been misled about booze for years. We break down:The hidden role of stress hormones—and why alcohol creates anxiety, not relieves it.The dangerous cycle of "hair of the dog"—and why "just one more" keeps you trapped. Nicotine and vaping—why quitting is so hard, and how to finally break freeSynthetic alcohol, legalisation, and addiction psychology—are we replacing one problem with another?How to quit smoking if you still drink—and why it's harder than you think.This isn't just about stopping drinking or smoking—it's about reclaiming control over your life. Whether you're struggling with addiction or just questioning your relationship with alcohol, this episode could change everything.Thank you to Gavin Sisters for sponsoring this episode! Visit -www.gavinsisters.co.uk and use promo code SCHOOLOFROCKBOTTOM for 10% off!Podcasting is an expensive passion. To help me keep going, I'd really appreciate it if you could buy me a coffee, thank you!https://buymeacoffee.com/olivermason1Or via PayPal - https://www.paypal.me/olivermason1paypalTopics -0:00 Intro3:40 William's rock bottom 6:10 Binge drinking 7:40 Why hair of the dog is so dangerous 10:55 Alcohol causes stress and tolerance? 12:25 Any positives to alcohol?14:25 1 in 8 Americans addicted to alcohol?16:50 0% booze?!18:40 What about alco-synth & socialising?25:25 Overcoming social anxiety without booze 28:10 CBD drinks?29:30 Therapy for alcohol addiction?34:10 Why nicotine/smoking/vaping is addictive 40:40 Is cigarettes or vaping better for you?45:40 What is the best way to quit smoking 48:10 How do you stop smoking when you like to drink?!53:40 Why every cigarette is a hair of the dog!55:10 The phenomenan of craving 58:10 Should all drugs be legal?Follow William https://www.alcoholexplained.comFollow OliverInstagram - https://tinyurl.com/2vt29sjvFacebook - https://tinyurl.com/34cwz59rTikTok - https://tinyurl.com/ujw4vxn9LinkedIn - https://tinyurl.com/yuemhnd7Threads - https://tinyurl.com/yk7vdeahX - https://tinyurl.com/3u5mnpdsPlease subscribe, follow, like, leave a review and comment! YouTube - https://tinyurl.com/yxkh2enySpotify - https://tinyurl.com/bdfj6568Apple - https://apple.co/3PajZvQ#AlcoholExplained #QuitSmoking#AddictionRecovery

Episode Summary:In this episode, host Molly Watts revisits a key discussion from 2022, exploring the challenge of changing your relationship with alcohol when you genuinely enjoy drinking. Molly shares insights on how to shift your habits without guilt, deprivation, or an all-or-nothing mindset. She discusses four key strategies for breaking the cycle of daily drinking while still being able to enjoy alcohol in moderation.Molly also reflects on the launch of Step One, a foundational program that is now an integral part of Making Peace with Alcohol. She recounts her own journey of overcoming a long-standing daily drinking habit and provides actionable tips for listeners who want to redefine their drinking patterns.Whether you're struggling with the idea of drinking less or simply looking for ways to be more intentional about your alcohol consumption, this episode is packed with science-backed strategies and real-life wisdom to help you on your journey.Key Topics Covered:✔️ The mindset shift required to change your drinking without feeling deprived ✔️ Why the "I just love to drink" thought keeps you stuck ✔️ How to reframe your beliefs about alcohol without relying on fear-based messaging ✔️ Understanding the science behind habit formation and alcohol consumption ✔️ Four key actions you can take to create a more peaceful relationship with alcoholMentioned in This Episode:

This week we're celebrating our 250th podcast by taking you through our top 10 podcasts. The episodes that have had the most downloads since we started the podcast back in 2020. So coming in at number 10 with 2,500 downloads is Sobriety Coach Lori Massicot. Lori is the host of a podcast called 50 and Beyond and like me she's convinced that ditching the booze is one of the very best things we can do for ourselves as we get older. Her episode is called Why We Need to Ditch the Drink in Midlife, and we released that one in December 2021. Here's a clip. I did a second episode with Laurie when we listed the 15 signs that you need to take a break from the booze. Signs that Laurie and I ignored for far too long. That one was released on January the 27th 2024 Coming in at number 9 is Dr. Loretta Breuning, who helped me to unpack the cause of my own early sobriety blues. Have a listen to the first interview I did with her, which was in August 2021. Here's a clip Loretta also did an interview with me very recently to talk about her new book, which is called Why You're Unhappy – that one was released on 20th January last year Since we last ranked our top ten which was in February last year we've had 2 new entries One of those entries has come in at number 8 with 2756 downloads its called:- Alcohol and your Body Fat with James Swanwick James had some great advice around Alcohol's Effects on Sleep and Weightgain He explained how Alcohol consumption can compromise sleep quality, metabolism, and overall health.  It can also disrupt the body's natural processes, leading to weight gain, reduced productivity, and increased cravings for unhealthy foods. Heres a clip Our other new entry along with James came in at number 7 with 2800 downloads and is called RECOVERY IT'S A BRAIN THING – which is the name of the book by my two guests – David & Susan Kenney They run a program to train Recovery Coaches and one of our Tribe members Darren was so impressed by their approach he signed up for their course. Darren is now a qualified Recovery Coach so if you'd like to book in for a free consultation you can go to his website which is pauserecovery.com – Coming in at number 6 is Stanford Psychiatrist Dr Anna Lembke with 2851 listens Anna has written a top selling book called Dopamine Nation. It's an awesome book, which I highly recommend if you're interested in the science of addiction. Her explanation of the pain pleasure balance is superb. That episode is called, Why We Get Addicted, and it came out in November, 2023. Here's a clip. At number 5 we have Neuroscientist Staci Danford with 2890 downloads Stacy taught us about our lizard brain and how we need to manage it before it manages us. She even recommended that we give it a name. She calls hers Ernie. My interview with Stacy came out in August 2021. Here's a clip Next up at number 4 is a firm favourite with Tribe Sober – Ken Middleton who had 2,906 downloads for his “How Drinking Limits our Potential” episode He's the author of Bamboozled, which has the clever subtitle of How Alcohol Makes Fools of Us All,  Do grab a copy if you haven't yet read it. Such a brilliant description of how we've been manipulated by big alcohol for decades. I often quote Ken, who says, "even if alcohol doesn't destroy us, it will limit our potential".  His Tribe Sober episode is called How Alcohol Limits Your Potential - released in April 2023 here is a clip. Ken was also one of our guests back in November 2020 when he shared his own story and explained the science behind alcohol dependence. And why drinking regularly for 20 years means you're very likely to develop a problem Next up at number 3 is me, with our very first podcast episode, which was released in May 2020 to celebrate my fifth soberversary. – that got 3,135 downloads At number 2 we have the brilliant William Porter with 3,675 downloads William is a lawyer with a passion for the science behind alcohol dependence, and he's written two books, Alcohol Explained and Alcohol Explained 2. They're both essential reading, and I think the more we understand the damage that alcohol does to our bodies and brains, the less likely we are to want to drink it. His episode is called, Managing Cravings, and came out in December 2023. Here's a clip Finally, hogging the number one slot with an incredible 3, 877 downloads is Australian sobriety coach, Catherine Elliott. It's called "How to Stop Binge Drinking" and came out in June 2022. Here's a clip Like me, Catherine's had breast cancer, which prompted us to do an episode together recently. Because neither of us had realized that our heavy drinking was putting us at risk of breast cancer, so we celebrated Breast Cancer Awareness Month by having a conversation about it, spreading the word to other women that more than three glasses of wine a week increases your risk of breast cancer. We called it "Drink Less for Your Breasts" and it was released in October 2023. So that's our top 10. I'd like to say a big thank you to all our listeners. Thanks to you, the Tribe Sober podcast has had nearly  400, 000 downloads, which keeps its global ranking in the top 2 percent of all podcasts. More importantly, nearly 20 percent of our members found their way to us via the podcast. So don't forget to make a playlist of our Top Ten and you might want to check out our Top 100 Playlist  So if you want to join our tribe and connect with others on this path, just hit Join Our Tribe  More Info We're including a free Masterclass, Membership and Coaching session to the next few people who book into the Tribe Sober Retreat in Bali in October Talking of payment we have a 3-part payment plan – first payment reserves your spot then second and third payments are later in the year. Check out the Bali Retreat info via this link and then email me on janet@tribesober.com and we'll get you started on this life changing journey Episode Sponsor This episode is sponsored by the Tribe Sober Membership Program.  If you want to change your relationship with alcohol then sign up today Read more about our program and subscribe HERE Help us to Spread the Word! We made this podcast so that we can reach more people who need our help.  Please subscribe and share. 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JOIN THE DRY JANUARY 40-DAY FAST HERE.  Six weeks of coaching and community to kick-start your 2025 alcohol-free! Today we are joined by bestselling author William Porter, creator of Alcohol Explained, to break down the 8 Hurdles of Stopping Drinking. Drawing from his extensive research and personal experience, Porter offers invaluable advice for navigating the often-challenging path to sobriety. In this episode, we explore critical hurdles such as: Understanding and overcoming cravings Navigating social events without alcohol Developing effective coping mechanisms Finding joy and motivation through movement Recognizing the impact of alcohol on ambition The discussion also touches on the psychological barriers to sobriety, including the idolization of alcohol, the concept of fading effect bias (where memories of drinking are romanticized over time), and how to reframe your mindset through gratitude and a realistic understanding of alcohol's effects. Porter emphasizes the importance of confidence and resilience as the final and often most significant hurdle, equipping listeners with strategies to build a sustainable, alcohol-free life. This episode is packed with practical advice, powerful truths, and hope for anyone striving to break free from alcohol's grip. Whether you're just beginning your journey or are further along the path, Porter's insights provide encouragement and clarity for overcoming these hurdles. JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE!   Order Christy's book now available! Love Life Sober, A 40 Day Alcohol Fast To Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health and Renew Your Mind    Learn More about Coaching with Christy  Learn More about Coaching with Meade   Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy @butjesusdrankwine   You can find this episode on YouTube HERE   The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.  

Today's episode is a Christmas special with the wonderful William Porter, author of Alcohol Explained 1 & 2. It's full of tips and ideas of how to navigate the festive season if you're trying to take it easy with the booze or you've already stopped drinking. If you thinking of doing Dry January and need extra support, you can head over to my website https://www.soberdave.co.uk/ where there are various different types of resources available to help you.You can also look at Williams website here https://alcoholexplained.com/Thanks for all your support throughout the year, and I want to wish you a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.Dave If you want to connect with me via Instagram, you can find me on the instahandle @Soberdave https://www.instagram.com/soberdave/or via my website https://davidwilsoncoaching.com/Provided below are links for services offering additional help and advice.www.drinkaware.co.uk/advice/alcohol-support-serviceshttps://nacoa.org.uk/Show producer- Daniella Attanasio-MartinezInstagram - @TheDaniellaMartinezhttps://www.instagram.com/thedaniellamartinez/www.instagram.com/grownuphustle Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

William Porter @alcoholexplained is the bestselling author of Alcohol Explained and a leading voice in the alcohol-free movement. With a unique blend of scientific insight and personal experience, he unpacks the psychological and physical effects of alcohol, helping us understand why we drink and how to give it up. William's uncomplicated perspective has inspired countless people to rethink their relationship with alcohol and embrace a healthier, happier lifestyle. William has an extensive knowledge on all things alcohol and his book is a must read. Enjoy ☺️Today's episode is kindly sponsored by Drink Nolo. Drink Nolo is an Irish company based in County Cork selling a beautiful range of luxurious and premium non alcohol drink options. Order some gorgeous drinkies here:An exquisite selection of non-alcoholic drinks in Ireland – DrinkNolo.ieFor more information on Alcohol Free Living,Follow Olivia on Instagram @greyareadrinker Visit Olivia's website www.greyareadrinker.ie

William Porter, author of Alcohol Explained, explores the mental and physical impact of alcohol, focusing on addiction and recovery. His work combines personal experience with research to offer practical advice for understanding and breaking free from alcohol dependency.

Celebrating our 102nd episode, we (that's Meg and Bella!)  reflect on our favourite podcast episodes and the conversations that we have had the honour of recording of the last two years. Join us as we share stories from our favourite episodes featuring inspiring guests like William Porter, Professor Selena Bartlett, Annie Grace, Emma Bardwell, Sophie Scott and Jolene Park, who have enriched our understanding of how alcohol impacts our health, including menopause, anxiety, depression, joy and relationships. The transformative power of living without alcohol (or less of it!) has been the centrepiece of our podcast but the underlying issues are what make our interviews thought provoking and inspiring. Navigating life without alcohol as our safety blanket has brought newfound self-trust and stability in our relationships, and we are eager to support others on their journeys by sharing our stories and those of our guests. Our message: you are not alone and you can do this too! Tune in for a conversation that celebrates personal growth, the power of community, and the profound shift that comes with embracing an alcohol-free or alcohol-minimal lifestyle. MEGMegan Webb: https://glassfulfilled.com.auInstagram: @glassfulfilledUnwined Bookclub: https://www.alcoholfreedom.com.au/unwinedbookclubFacebook UpsideAF: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1168716054214678 BELLAIsabella Ferguson: https://isabellaferguson.com.auInstagram: @alcoholandstresswithisabellaNovember 6-Week Small Group Challenge: Learn more: https://resources.isabellaferguson.com.au/alcoholfreedomchallengeFree Healthy Holiday Helper Email Series: https://resources.isabellaferguson.com.au/offers/L4fXEtCb/checkout

Why do you crave alcohol and why is it so easy to go from drinking casually to habitually?  Why is it hard to moderate your drinking? How does alcohol affect your sleep and why do you wake up at 3am after drinking? Why does alcohol make you feel relaxed and then more anxious the next morning? How does alcohol affect your brain, body, mood and stress hormones?   Is it true that alcohol can be good for you in small doses? What are the symptoms of alcohol withdrawal? If you have questions about alcohol, William Porter, author of Alcohol Explained and Alcohol Explained 2: Tools for a Stronger Sobriety has the answers.  As William writes, "Alcohol is a deceptive drug. It creates the illusion of pleasure and relaxation while causing the very anxiety and discomfort it purports to relieve."  In today's episode, William Porter breaks down these questions and more. He provides a clear, scientific explanation of what happens to your body and mind when you consume alcohol. 4 Ways I Can Support You In Drinking Less + Living More Join The Sobriety Starter Kit, the only sober coaching course designed specifically for busy women. My proven, step-by-step sober coaching program will teach you exactly how to stop drinking — and how to make it the best decision of your life. Save your seat in my FREE MASTERCLASS, 5 Secrets To Successfully Take a Break From Drinking  Grab the Free 30-Day Guide To Quitting Drinking, 30 Tips For Your First Month Alcohol-Free. Connect with me for free sober coaching tips, updates + videos on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest and TikTok @hellosomedaysober. Connect with Casey McGuire Davidson To find out more about Casey and her coaching programs, head over to www.hellosomedaycoaching.com

Actor Rupert Hill was a very high functioning and pleasant drinker who could hide his alcoholism behind a successful career as an actor and publican which also helped fuel the denial. Over decades, Rupert's drinking became more and more unstainable - he found himself wanting a drink before going on stage and even in the middle of the night. Rupert decided to announce that he was sober on social media and has had the word "FREE" tatooed on the wrist of his drinking hand as a reminder to never go back. Rupert explains his slow decline into alcoholism and how and why he got sober - finding solace outside 12 step fellowship, self-help & gaining knowledge. Huge thanks Rupert for being so candid to help others! More on Rupert - Studied drama and theatre at Middlesex. Acting credits include TV shows like Holby City, Casualty and Coronation Street (Jamie Baldwin). Recent work includes Hollyoaks, Four Lives and Whitstable Pearl. He appeared in over 15 stage productions including Lady Chatterley's Lover and Wuthering Heights & directed the national tour of The Full Monty. Film credits include Awaiting and Entity &  features in 25+ radio plays. Rupert writes & directs his own films including; Molehills, Roll With The Punches and The Lookalike & recently wrote, co-directed, and starred in Operation Magpie, winning 'Best Actor' at Manchester Lift Off Festival. Debut play HUSK will stage at Hope Mill Theatre, Manchester, in September, focusing on alcohol addiction and he directs The Arden Drama School showreels and showcase. Rupert co-owns The Castle Hotel and Gullivers pubs in Manchester's Northern Quarter & recently took over The Lloyds in Chorlton. 0:00 Intro 3:15 Rupert's rock bottom 5:15 The beginning of Rupert's acting career 10:15 'Hair of the dog' turns to addiction 18:10 Drinking in the middle of the night & hiding it 21:55 Alcohol causing mental health problems? 25:40 The power of 'being present' 29:15 Sobriety & close relationships 33:15 Drinking turns unstainable & recovery 39:05 Being a sober publican! 42:35 Rupert's new play HUSK 46:15 How Rupert maintains his recovery For anyone struggling with these topics Rupert suggests reading Alcohol Explained by William Porter. This Podcast is not for profit but my goal is to break even. To help me make more please donate here. Thank you! https://bit.ly/3kSucAs Follow Rupert Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/rupertsinclairhill Twitter/X - https://x.com/RupertHill Go see his new play! https://hopemilltheatre.co.uk/event/husk Follow Oliver Instagram - https://bit.ly/3IemHLY Facebook - http://bit.ly/3w8S1Gx TikTok - https://bit.ly/3YGLsYm LinkedIn - http://bit.ly/3kp4ymC Threads - https://bit.ly/3svw7yL X - http://bit.ly/3GQYj2l Listen or watch on: (please subscribe/follow & rate/review) Spotify - https://bit.ly/3zqqR2J YouTube - https://bit.ly/45UHYWv Apple - https://apple.co/3PajZvQ #functioningalcoholic #recovery

This is the period of the utilitarian liberal, not of the democrat, it's 1850 and in the Cape, a newly ninted constitution had been drafted by the attorney general, William Porter. This was based on a nonracial qualified franchise - all adult males who had occupied property worth at least twenty five pounds for a year were eligible to vote. Porter had toiled on the draft of this document for the also newly minted Governor, Sir Harry Smith, who sent it to London. Porter later in 1850 had a complete change of heart as utilitarian liberals tend to do, he denounced the option of univesal suffrage — at least for men of all colours — as threatening to the colony with its in his words, “communism, socialisms, and red republicanism which had caused so much mischief in France….” There had been an attempted major communist revolution in France in 1848, which spilled over into other parts of western Europe including the land that would become known as Germany. This horrified utilitarians everywhere, no less so in the Cape Colony. As the ship bearing Smith's new constitution headed north, another was heading south and crossed each other somewhere out there on the wild untamed ocean. It was a dispatch from Colonial Secretary Earl Grey who proposed sending Irish convicts to the Cape. Smith announced this proposal to the horrified residents of Cape Town and immediately aroused a storm of agitation against the Governor. The settlers had been considering representative government for some time and this suggestion of Irish convicts arriving backfired — driving many more of the moderate thinkers into the arms of those who were agitating for some form of independent governance. The colonists regarded the Irish as a threat to their respectability and citizens used the concept as a weapon to attaack the oligarchy that ran the Cape at the time. It was a legislative council, nominated by Governors not elected by the people so it had been tainted constantly by allegations of corruption, nepotism, and a host of other maladies associated with power wielded too long by men who were mostly too greedy. The convicts duly arrived on a ship called Neptune, but they were refused entry to Cape Town, and the men sat in chains in Simon's Bay for five months. Eventually in 1850 the ship was ordered to sail away. One of the main antagonists in this crazy story was a man called John Montagu. He had been alarmed by how the Irish convict idea had radicalised even his mild-mannered friends, and so he demanded that Smith reimpose some kind of authority and stop this movement towards representative government. Montagu argued that the whole idea was anti-English, not what the British should be supporting, so Smith delayed the implementation. But what was going on was very very interesting. The hullabaloo had revealed two very distinct political movements inside the Cape. One was conservative, pro-English and pro-British government, led by Montagu, joined by the big merchants of Cape Town. They were also joined by the Eastern Cape settlers led by their flag bearer, Grahamstown Journal Editor and land speculator Robert Godlonton. Another powerful figure joined this conservative echelon, and that was the newly arrived Anglican Bishop, Robert Gray. A newspaper called the Cape Monitor was launched in October 1850 by these conservatives. The second political movement were the radicals, both British and Afrikaner, led by John Fairbairn, Christoffel Brand, Francis William Reitz and Andries Stockenstrom. They regarded the conservatives as a corrupt bunch of nepotists, an oligarchy, but they were divided by what to do about frontier policy. Fairbairn used his newspaper the South African Advertiser to defend the rights of blacks, while Brand preferred to defend the rights of the Dutch descendents against the oppression of old-English money elites. Stockenstrom had his own varied approach to both.

Celebrated author William Porter joins Sarah Connelly in this powerful and eye-opening episode on the facts about alcohol. Anyone seeking tools and knowledge to support quitting drinking should not miss this episode. Website - https://alcoholexplained.com/ Please visit the website for access to the first five chapters of Alcohol Explained. Download my FREE guide: The Alcohol Freedom Formula For Over 30s Entrepreneurs & High Performers: https://social.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/podcast  ★ - Learn more about Project 90: www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/Project90 ★ - (Accountability & Support) Speak verbally to a certified Alcohol-Free Lifestyle coach to see if, or how, we could support you having a better relationship with alcohol: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/schedule 

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Today, we have the honor of speaking with William Porter, the insightful author of "Alcohol Explained." William spent years in the throes of his own drinking career, unknowingly gathering the research and experiences that would later form the foundation of his life-changing book. In this episode William is  generous in his  knowledge and wisdom.  William offers a profound perspective on alcohol that has the power to transform lives. Let's dive into his journey and discover the truths he's uncovered.Williams website: https://alcoholexplained.com/the-author/ MEGMegan Webb: https://glassfulfilled.com.auInstagram: @glassfulfilledBookclub: https://www.alcoholfreedom.com.au/unwinedbookclubBELLAIsabella Ferguson: https://isabellaferguson.com.auInstagram: @alcoholandstresswithisabellaAlcohol Freedom Small Group Challenge - Register here: https://resources.isabellaferguson.com.au/alcoholfreedomchallengeThe Alcohol Revolution 6-Week Program (Online or Podcast): https://resources.isabellaferguson.com.au/thealcoholrevolution

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How To Be Happy Without Alcohol In Your Life... Is It Even Possible?Imagine, no more hangovers! Find out how and get a free copy of my bestselling book:Free quit drinking webinar - Sunday at 11am: https://www.stopdrinkingexpert.com/webinar/Not a replacement for professional medical advice.#sober #stopdrinking #soberlife #alcoholfree #quitdrinkingSupport the Show.

Quit Drinking Or Cut Back On Drinking... THAT Is The QuestionImagine, no more hangovers! Find out how and get a free copy of my bestselling book:Free quit drinking webinar - Sunday at 11am: https://www.stopdrinkingexpert.com/webinar/Not a replacement for professional medical advice.#sober #stopdrinking #soberlife #alcoholfree #quitdrinkingSupport the Show.

Dutch Courage: Does Alcohol Really Make You Brave And Fearless?Plus, how do you survive a boys drinking holiday and stay sober?Imagine, no more hangovers! Find out how and get a free copy of my bestselling book:Free quit drinking webinar - Sunday at 11am: https://www.stopdrinkingexpert.com/webinar/Not a replacement for professional medical advice.#sober #stopdrinking #soberlife #alcoholfree #quitdrinkingSupport the Show.

Help I Can't Stay Sober For More Than 4 or 5 Days - Alcohol Is Killing Me!Imagine, no more hangovers! Find out how and get a free copy of my bestselling book:Free quit drinking webinar - Sunday at 11am: https://www.stopdrinkingexpert.com/webinar/Not a replacement for professional medical advice.#sober #stopdrinking #soberlife #alcoholfree #quitdrinkingSupport the show

Mike Waite is working to improve brain health awareness via behavior, nature, and immersive technologies. He teaches about brain health through his podcast which is called the Brain Shaman Mike is American but lives in Japan – he has a pretty wild drinking story about how he ended up in Japan so you won't want to miss this one! In this episode:- Mike shared his mindblowing story of relocating to Japan while under the influence of alcohol! Sometimes it can be liberating to close down our rational brain and go where alcohol takes us but as Mike emphasised we are playing Russian Roulette and it can be disastrous In fact many people are in prison because alcohol took them to a dark place and they committed a crime in a blackout! We discussed the importance of dismantling the limiting beliefs that we hold about alcohol  We need to educate ourselves about the effects of alcohol on the brain and body, including both short-term and long-term consequences. We are both fans of William Porter so if you want to understand the science behind alcohol dependence then his book Alcohol Explained is a great place to start because.. The more we understand about the damage alcohol can do the less inclined we'll be to drink it! We are “groomed” by the Liquor Industry to want alcohol from a very tender age.. As an example Mike explained that he used to watch movies like American Pie and The Hangover at the age of 12 or 13 – these movies built a strong belief that he would need lots of alcohol to party and have fun Of course the influence of alcohol advertising is even stronger on the teenage brain which is still developing Recognising marketing for the BS that it is takes away the power – I shared my tactic for timing how long we get into a movie before the alcohol comes out We agreed that envisioning a group of cynical marketing executives rubbing their hands together as their sales increase will help us to recognise the manipulation that is taking place on a continual basis We have to use our imagination to redefine associations with alcohol so that when we see it on the shelf we realise its poison We have to cultivate self-awareness and mindfulness to recognize and address underlying reasons for using alcohol, such as stress, anxiety, or social pressure. We agreed on the value of supportive communities and networks, like Tribe Sober, where individuals can connect, share, and support each other in their journey towards sobriety and improved brain health. Mike is experiencing the value of a sober community himself as he goes through our 66 day sober challenge. Mike encourages holistic approaches to well-being that prioritize mental and physical health, emphasizing the importance of sleep, nutrition, exercise, and other lifestyle factors in maintaining brain health and overall wellness. He took us through some alternative coping strategies and activities for relaxation, stress relief, and socializing that don't involve alcohol and emphasized their benefits We have to recognize the social pressure and rebel against it – we need to learn to be a rebel not a sheep – after all its easy to drink – being alcohol free takes confidence and courage! We need to remember the power of fading affect bias: we mustn't forget the dark places our drinking took us to Tribe Sober has 2 tools to avoid FAB Create a blacklist of negative drinking experiences Write a goodbye letter to alcohol, symbolizing the end of the relationship When we quit drinking we have to channel our energy into positive activities  We need to recognize alcohol's role in wasting our time and energy We also need to consider long-term health consequences, including nerve damage and neurodegeneration We discussed the fact that more and more celebrities are sober these days Ironically Bradley Cooper who dazzled the 12 year old Mike with his drunken antics in the Hangover has been sober for 20 years! You can follow Mikes podcast which is called Brain Shaman on Spotify and Apple Podcasts. More Info Episode Sponsor This episode is sponsored by the Tribe Sober Membership Program.  If you want to change your relationship with alcohol then sign up today Read more about our program and subscribe HERE Help us to Spread the Word! We made this podcast so that we can reach more people who need our help.  Please subscribe and share. If you enjoyed the podcast, then please leave us a 5-star review on Apple podcasts. Take a screenshot of your review, and DM it to Tribe Sober's Instagram page – see PS below for instructions. We'll send you something special to say thank you! We release a podcast episode every Saturday morning. You can follow Tribe Sober on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. You can join our private Facebook group HERE.    

Why Do I Get Diarrhea After Drinking Alcohol?Does alcohol cause IBS?Imagine, no more hangovers! Find out how and get a free copy of my bestselling book:Free quit drinking webinar - Sunday at 11am: https://www.stopdrinkingexpert.com/webinar/Not a replacement for professional medical advice.#sober #stopdrinking #soberlife #alcoholfree #quitdrinkingSupport the show

Kelly's drinking habit developed when she was in the Navy, and it took a rough turn when she transitioned to being a stay at home mom. With no community to help her through those early mom years, Kelly increasingly leaned on alcohol as a means to get by. She knew as early as 2015 that she had a problem, but the hamster wheel of moderation kept her stuck. Shame eventually led her to hiding her drinking, to the point that she even began to avoid drinking around her husband.  Alcohol Explained by William Porter and Quit Like a Woman by Holly Whitaker were instrumental in opening Kelly's eyes to realize the truth: She wasn't the problem. Alcohol was the problem.  After a few stops and starts, in March of 2023 she quit for good! She has found the community she craved in The Sober Mom Life Cafe and she leans on podcasts and self care in order to stay sober. It has felt like a hard road, and she is so proud of herself for what she has accomplished!  Join us in the The Sober Mom Life Cafe! For just $25/month, you get access to 8 weekly peer support meetings, the exclusive Cafe social feed (like Facebook, but better!), our monthly book club, the monthly Q+A, the ability to join the retreat, and the chance to share your story on The Real Sober Moms, and merch discounts!  We also have The Sober Mom Life Community for just $5.95/month - In the Community, you'll receive access to the exclusive Community social feed (like Facebook, but better!), the exclusive community chat, our monthly book club, and one free weekly meeting.  My mocktail recipe book, ‘No Ethanol Needed' is finally here! Grab your copy here: https://mykindofsweet.com/2024/01/the-no-ethanol-needed-mocktail-ebook-is-here/ Click here to follow The Sober Mom Life on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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How To Quit Drinking Alcohol Without Hitting Rock Bottom FirstReady to quit drinking? Imagine, no more hangovers! Find out how and get a free copy of my bestselling book:Free quit drinking webinar - Sunday at 11am: https://www.stopdrinkingexpert.com/webinar/Not a replacement for professional medical advice.#sober #stopdrinking #soberlife #alcoholfree #quitdrinkingSupport the show

Why Me? Why Do I Have A Drinking Problem And Other People Don't?Ready to quit drinking? Imagine, no more hangovers! Find out how and get a free copy of my bestselling book:Free quit drinking webinar - https://www.stopdrinkingexpert.com/Not a replacement for professional medical advice. Please consult a medical professional before making any health decisions.#sober #stopdrinking #soberlife #alcoholfree #quitdrinkingSupport the show

Help! I Can't Quit Drinking Alcohol No Matter What I TryReady to quit drinking? Imagine, no more hangovers! Find out how and get a free copy of my bestselling book:Free quit drinking webinar - https://www.stopdrinkingexpert.com/Not a replacement for professional medical advice. Please consult a medical professional before making any health decisions.#sober #stopdrinking #soberlife #alcoholfree #quitdrinkingSupport the show

Have you ever reached for a glass of wine to wash away the blues, only to find the weight of the world heavier on your shoulders? It's a story many of us know all too well. In our latest chat, Meg unravels the intricate ties between alcohol and depression, making sense of how this coping mechanism can backfire and deepen our struggles with mental health. We don't just skim the surface; our conversation dives into the physiological disruptions caused by alcohol, how it shifts the body's equilibrium, and the way it can foster an insidious cycle of dependency and sadness. Drawing on the compelling insights from William Porter's "Alcohol Explained" and our own life lessons, we share a picture that is both informative and deeply personal.Transitioning from awareness to action, we pivot to talk about the transformative journey towards sobriety.  We discuss the profound impact that a solid support system and the guiding hand of a coach can have for those seeking a life free from alcohol's grip. Whether you're just considering a break from the bottle or are in the midst of your sobriety journey, our conversation offers a beacon of hope and practical resources. Join us, not just as voices in your headphones, but as allies ready to walk with you towards a brighter, healthier future.Books:  William Porter "Alcohol Explained"                  Annie Grace.    "This Naked Mind" MEG & BELLAMegan Webb: https://glassfulfilled.com.auInstagram: @glassfulfilledIsabella Ferguson: https://isabellaferguson.com.auInstagram: @alcoholandstresswithisabellaInstagram: @kidsandalcohol

If We All Know Alcohol Is Bad For Us Why Do People Drink And Get Addicted?Ready to quit drinking? Imagine, no more hangovers! Find out how and get a free copy of my bestselling book:Free quit drinking webinar - Sunday at 11am: https://www.stopdrinkingexpert.com/webinar/Not a replacement for professional medical advice.#sober #stopdrinking #soberlife #alcoholfree #quitdrinkingSupport the show

Listen Up! Do Not Quit Drinking Alcohol Until You Hear This MessageImagine, no more hangovers! Find out how and get a free copy of my bestselling book:Free quit drinking webinar - Sunday at 11am: https://www.stopdrinkingexpert.com/webinar/Not a replacement for professional medical advice.#sober #stopdrinking #soberlife #alcoholfree #quitdrinkingSupport the show

How To Tell When Alcohol Is Lying To You - Quitting Drinking Got Easy!Imagine, no more hangovers! Find out how and get a free copy of my bestselling book:Free quit drinking webinar - Sunday at 11am: https://www.stopdrinkingexpert.com/webinar/Not a replacement for professional medical advice.#sober #stopdrinking #soberlife #alcoholfree #quitdrinkingSupport the show

SummaryIn this conversation, Andy Ramage and William Porter discuss their personal journeys to sobriety and the impact of alcohol on mental health and sleep. They highlight the misconception that alcohol is a relaxant when, in fact, it disrupts sleep and causes anxiety. They emphasize the lack of awareness and cultural blind spot surrounding the negative effects of alcohol. The conversation also touches on the classification of alcohol as a human carcinogen. Overall, the discussion aims to raise awareness and promote a shift in societal perspectives on alcohol. The conversation explores the marketing tactics and misinformation surrounding alcohol, highlighting the confusion created by the alcohol industry. It emphasizes that alcohol, with its carcinogenic properties, can never be good for health. The conversation also discusses the positive changes in the alcohol-free space and the shift in mindset towards questioning the benefits of alcohol consumption.TakeawaysAlcohol disrupts sleep and causes anxiety, despite the misconception that it is a relaxant.There is a lack of awareness and cultural blind spot surrounding the negative effects of alcohol.Alcohol is classified as a human carcinogen, alongside substances like asbestos and cigarette smoking.Societal perspectives on alcohol need to shift to promote awareness and informed decision-making. Alcohol is a carcinogen and can never be good for health.The alcohol industry uses marketing tactics and confusion to maintain consumption.Misinformation and lack of awareness contribute to the continued belief in the benefits of alcohol.The alcohol-free movement is growing, with a focus on questioning the role of alcohol in our lives.William Porter's Social Links:https://alcoholexplained.com/https://www.instagram.com/alcoholexplained/

Well done if you've made it to the end of Dry January, hopefully you've seen some benefits and you're keeping going!  Keep on focusing only on what you're gaining, and the many benefits that will be coming your way. Janey shares more tips and there is a chance to hear part of the Setting your intentions session with William Porter, author of Alcohol Explained, on how our brain works, and how we can work with our unconscious mind to ensure that we stick to what we have decided we want! If you've thought of becoming a Sober Coach or you'd like to do the training for your own personal transformation, join us for a free webinar on Wed 21 Feb What does it mean to be a sober coach ?   Register here Our next Training is April 26-27 starting with 2 days in Herts, but can also be done online. If you want to deep dive into changing your limiting beliefs join us for Family Constellations in York on Sunday 25 Feb - all details here Another Champneys retreat, and one day retreats TBC 

Are you ready to have some of your false beliefs about alcohol blown out of the water? Then you have to tune into this week's episode of The Alcohol ReThink podcast where Patrick is joined by stop-drinking expert and author of the highly successful quit-lit books Alcohol Explained 1&2, William Porter. William knows his shit when it comes to the impact of alcohol on the human body. In this episode, Patrick and William go to work on busting some false beliefs about alcohol, backed up by science and data. They explore the importance of sleep, how we are designed to fall asleep and the cognitive dissonance we experience when using alcohol to induce sleep. They look at the impact of alcohol on your heart, the benefits you experience when stopping and how to continue building on your progress beyond Dry January. This is one cracker of an episode. Listen now. Some of the cool things they covers during this episode: - Going from ‘I want to stop' to ‘I have to stop!' - The difference between sleep and alcohol induced unconsciousness - How your sleep returns to it's normal rhythm after 3-5 days - Using data to disprove your belief systems around alcohol and it's function - The impact of alcohol on your heart - Running off a hangover is actually more damaging for your heart than good - The reason why people believe alcohol gives you energy - The importance of creating or reigniting new habits and hobbies - Look for the changes in stopping drinking - Why you might feel worse before you get better and why that is normal - How alcohol affects your muscles, injuries and recovery time - Being single-minded and choosing your own path Resources Mentioned: Why we sleep - Matt Walker Dry January 10k with Ollie Ollerton - Sunday 28th January Connect with William: Website: ⁠https://www.alcoholexplained.com/⁠ (You can read the first 5 chapters of his book for free

In this episode we catch up with friend of the podcast William Porter, the author of Alcohol Explained! William talks us through what happens to your body and brain when you decide to remove alcohol... And the reasons why it doesn't feel very good at first. He talks us through the science (both physiological and psychological) to give us an understanding of why we feel rubbish at first, but then also talks to us about how you start to feel better - and why. If you're doing Dry January and feeling like you might want to pack it in... This episode is absolutely for you! If you've already started on your sobriety adventure, this chat is a great reminder about the important reasons for staying on track. If you'd like to find out more about William and his book, go to alcoholexplained.com! --- Get In Touch: Of course, you can always get in touch with us (publicly or privately) on our socials - @alcoholfreepod on Instagram, or search for "Over The Influence" on Facebook. We'd love to hear your story - please get in touch with us directly at otihq@overtheinfluence.co.uk or go to our website, www.overtheinfluence.co.uk --- The Premium Podcast: If you love OTI and you'd like to hear behind the curtain, subscribe to the OTI Premium Podcast now! --- Links: For links to alcohol-related support services, please visit our website. --- Disclaimer: All views expressed in this podcast are of the participants themselves, and not necessarily those of Over The Influence (OTI) Ltd. The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this podcast is done at your own risk. We are not medical professionals but normal people giving their own experiences of removing alcohol from their lives, and as such this podcast should not be considered professional advice. If you are dependent on alcohol, or think you may be, we strongly recommend that you seek professional medical advice. --- Helpful Hashtags: We found hashtags and sober social media accounts really helpful in our early days alcohol free, as following them can help to reinforce that you are not alone! These are some of the hashtags we've followed: #alcoholfree #stopdrinking #healthandwellnessjourney #zeroalcohol #idontdrink #sobercurious #healthydrinking #alcoholfreelife #soberaf #alcoholfreeliving #sobermotivation #podcast #healthpodcast #noalcohol #nobooze #sober #sobercurious #soberlofe #soberliving #sobercommunity #afcommunity #soberwomen #sobermom #sobermomtribe #sobersisters #sobriety #soberuk #soberjourney #sobrietyrocks #overtheinfluence #oti

It's day 4 of the Dry Jan like a Sober Rebel series and today we're looking at how to challenge your beliefs about alcohol because it isn't enough to simply not pick up a drink, you want to be in a position of enjoying your sober time.This series has been written and created to support you in your first month of sobriety, whatever the time of year. There will be one episode released every day covering key topics in sobriety but also other areas of mental health using Louisa's knowledge as a Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapist.Head to Amazon and Audible for Louisa's audiobook 'Becoming a Sober Rebel' if you would like to find out more about her pathway to sobriety and to learn the tools and techniques she teaches her clients.Head to www.louisaevans.com to find out more about Louisa's story, her work as a therapist and you'll also find links and self hypnosis downloads on all subjects including ones to help you in your sobriety journey. Use code SOBERREBEL to buy one get one free on all hypnosis recordings as a sober rebel listener.As mentioned in the episode William Porter's books can be found here.

Its Christmas so we WILL be overeating.....probably ....but we can take a more balanced approach with a few basic tips.  William Porter of Alcohol Explained and Diet and Fitness Explained shares some knowledge of how the brain works, and how we can curb our cravings, especially helpful if the sugar monster is descending! William is also recording a special guest slot on how the brain works for our 'intention setting' 2 hour workshop on Sun Jan 7. There is a small ticket price donating to the Sober Club Giveback fund. Sign up here https://www.thesoberclub.com/setting-your-intentions-for-2024/ Don't forget we have a Christmas Eve meet up on 24 Dec at 7.30 - 8.30 hosted by one of our Sober Coaches, and watch this space for a special gift from our Sober Coaches with tips for Dry January Keep your eye on our Find a Sober Coach directory https://www.thesoberclub.com/find-a-sober-coach/ If you're thinking of training to be a Sober Coach email me for info, our next training after end Jan will be April 27-28 in Herts Email janey   at janeyleegrace.com Want connection, support, accountability? Join us www.thesoberclub.com for events including online events and Family Constellations in York https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/ Follow Janey on social media @janeyleegrace 

My guest today is William Porter William is the author of a book called Alcohol Explained and hosts a FB page of the same name. He's a lawyer and previously served in Iraq as a member of the Parachute Regiment.  In this episode:- William started drinking and smoking back at the tender age of just 14 and it evolved over the years He became curious about alcohol dependency and started delving into the science and discovering just how harmful it is. Like many of us the more he learned about how harmful it was the less he wanted to drink it! He explained how we end up with hangxiety after drinking. Hangxiety is the term for a hangover with a good dose of anxiety mixed in, caused by chemical changes in our brain which becomes oversensitized after a drinking session. If we drink a bottle of wine every evening, we'll develop a tolerance.  So that when we have our first glass of wine, our brain will be registering that the rest of the bottle will be following soon. And that's why it's so hard for us to stop at one glass, and why so many of us say we just don't have an off switch. William talks about cravings, which can be intense, but actually it's a matter of fantasy. You have a thought of a drink, and then you start fantasizing about how it would be, how it would look, how it would taste. And that's why quitting altogether, and not even entertaining these thoughts, is so much easier.  He explained that it can take quite a few years to become dependent, but the problem starts when you learn. Either consciously or subconsciously, we learn that after a drink we feel a bit low and then we need another drink to feel better. And by the time we've got to that stage, it becomes very difficult to moderate. Because every drink is giving you a desire for the next one. And once we've realised that another drink will quell the anxiety caused by the previous drink, then we will struggle to moderate. William explained the fascinating concept of FAB. Fading Effect Bias. That tends to happen when we're a few months sober, and we start thinking back fondly to those good old drinking days.  We actually forget how bad we were, and how things went horribly wrong sometimes. We just focuse on the good times instead. FAB is really dangerous, because that's when we start having those thoughts Oh I wasn't that bad. Maybe I could just have one glass now and again. Because we feel that we've now proved we're not an alcoholic,. But the trouble with restarting due to fab is that we'll just go back to the previous problematic drinking levels that we were at before. Maybe we can manage to moderate for two or three weeks, but then inevitably we'll get back to over drinking. William suggested that rather than asking ourselves are we an alcoholic, we should consider whether alcohol is taking away more than it is giving to us. And he came up with a great analogy which described alcohol as a bit of a loan shark. We discussed sober socialising, which we agreed is tough at first, but William reminded me that feeling awkward is normal. Just think of children's parties, where the kids are hiding in their mom's dresses at the beginning and then tearing around the room screaming a couple of hours later. We decided it was a matter of feeling the awkward and doing it anyway. Socializing also becomes easier if we get curious and observe those drinkers. Be an anthropologist. Watch how animated the drinkers are during their first hour of drinking. And then they start talking too loud, standing too close, and of course repeating those stories.  Another bonus of being an anthropologist is that we realise that we don't actually want to be like this, so it can be a valuable building block in the wall of our sobriety. We talked about sleep, William's a bit of an expert on this topic and his books cover it in great detail. He explained about how alcohol damages the quality of our sleep. It reduces seven cycles of our valuable REM sleep  down to  about two.  He talked about REM rebound, which is fascinating and explains all those drinking dreams that we get in early sobriety. It's such a myth that alcohol helps you sleep, because in fact it's such poor quality sleep. When you quit drinking, you may well struggle to get to sleep at first, but eventually you will sleep and you'll sleep so much better, and you'll wake up feeling great, which rarely happens in your drinking days. William's advice to anyone struggling to get started was to write a list of all the reasons they want to keep drinking. And then when you analyze those, you'll find that they're actually false beliefs, and you can reverse them. We cover mindset and how you can deal with these kind of limiting beliefs in our Masterclass  The easiest and gentlest way to make a start on changing your drinking habits is to become Sober Curious. Learn as much as you can. The more you learn about the toxin that is alcohol, the less you will want to drink it.  Read William's books which are available from his website alcoholexplained.com Joining Tribe Sober is another great way to start your sober curious journey - for an affordable monthly subscription you can learn how to ditch the drink and then go on to thrive in your alcohol free life. More Info Subscription membership – you can join up HERE. To access our website, click HERE. If you would like a free copy of our “Annual Tracker” or our e-book 66 Days to Sobriety, please email janet@tribesober.com. If you would like to come to our Saturday afternoon Zoom Cafe as a guest and meet our community, just email janet@tribesober.com.   Episode Sponsor This episode is sponsored by the Tribe Sober Membership Program.  If you want to change your relationship with alcohol then sign up today Read more about our program and subscribe HERE Help us to Spread the Word! 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This week on "The Sober Experiment® Podcast by Bee Sober," Lisa and Alex engage in a relaxed conversation with William Porter, author of "Alcohol Explained." They delve into the effects of caffeine, share light-hearted anecdotes such as why William found himself standing naked in a hotel room, and discuss their mutual reluctance to venture into space. This episode offers a refreshing and candid exploration of various topics, making it a must-listen. Tune in for an enlightening and entertaining discussion. Find William here: https://alcoholexplained.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alcoholexplained Visit our website: www.beesoberofficial.com You can also check out the following link to find out more of what we are up to, you can sign up to our newsletter, join as a member, join our Facebook group and subscribe to our YouTube channel - linktr.ee/beesober Have a go at The Sober Experiment® in our Bee Sober app by taking advantage of our free 30-day trial (our free gift to you here: https://beesober.gcph.tv Additional links: Donate to Bee Sober: https://www.beesoberofficial.com/support-us/

In this weeks retrospective we have a chat with William Porter about how alcohol effects your sleep. You can listen to the full episode here - https://open.spotify.com/episode/6sNNmi3G4YMhukmfXW7A9C?si=d69425b7de99443a Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this weeks retrospective we talk to William Porter about the drinking fantasy. You can listen to the full episode here -https://open.spotify.com/episode/6sNNmi3G4YMhukmfXW7A9C?si=409f7ee2514a4b80 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

 I am passionate about summits. Summits offer a unique opportunity to learn from many different experts all at once. Since  2018, when I discovered This Naked Mind through a summit, I have signed up and attended many summits; some about business, some about health and wellness and some just for fun! But, until this year, there hasn't been one about becoming and living an alcohol-free life. Meet Maggie Klassens, the founder and presenter of The Sober Summit. I am so excited that someone is offering a summit that brings together many of the amazing voices in the AF and sober community. The first Sober Summit was in April of this year (2023), and now Maggie is bringing us The Sober Summit: Holiday Edition. And, just in time to help all of us thrive through the holiday season! I met Maggie in Portland, Maine in September and I knew I had to have her on the podcast to share this amazing resource. Listen in as Maggie shares some of the topics and the incredible speakers that are in the lineup. William Porter, Andy Ramage, Victoria English, Chris Marshall and more will share everything from pairing NA beverages with your holiday meals to looking for glimmers, to understanding boundaries and staying active during the holidays. The best part is that the series is free. You can listen each day at no cost and there is even a bonus replay weekend to enjoy anything you might miss during the summit. The speakers have incredible resources they will be sharing with those who attend the summit and you can purchase the recordings for a low one-time cost if you choose. The doors to the summit open today (link below) and I encourage each of you to take advantage of this resource and to support Maggie's mission to further the conversation about living and thriving in the sober world! I think you will be impressed by the lineup Maggie has in store for you and by Maggie herself, who decided to take her passion for living AF and share it with all of us! What will you do with your ‘sober edge'?   The Sober Summit: Holiday Edition FREE Ticket Show Notes HERE

In this episode, William Porter, author of Alcohol Explained, tackles the common myths and misconceptions about alcohol that many of us hold.  William, a former addict turned lawyer and veteran, brings a unique perspective grounded in both personal experience and a rational, objective analysis of alcohol. His approach isn't about promoting absolute abstinence or vilifying drinkers but rather providing you with straightforward facts to help you understand and reassess your relationship with alcohol. Throughout the conversation, William methodically deconstructs the falsehoods often believed about alcohol - that it aids sleep, serves as a crucial social lubricant, or offers relaxation after a stressful day. With a candid and no-nonsense approach, this episode illuminates the actual effects of alcohol on our bodies and minds, equipping you with valuable information to navigate your drinking habits consciously and mindfully.  Whether you are considering moderation, quitting, or merely reflecting on your drinking, this episode offers essential insights for everyone. Host: Brent Franson, Founder & CEO, Most Days Guest: William Porter Music: Patrick Lee Producer: Patrick Godino  

On the latest jam of "But Jesus Drank Wine," we're hanging out with the amazing William Porter - the genius behind 'Alcohol Explained' (and its sequel). William has a serious gift for taking all of the sciencey jargon about alcohol and making it relatable and easy to understand.  We're diving deep into the nitty-gritty of how booze messes with our minds and bodies. Have you ever wondered why you're so zonked out after a night of drinking, even though you slept for 10 hours? William's got the scoop on how alcohol loves to party crash our REM sleep. And for all of us who've thought about giving alcohol the boot, we chat about how long it takes for our sleep to get back on track. For anyone who's ever said, "But I actually LOVE the taste of wine!” we're breaking down how our tastebuds work and how, over time, we become conditioned to the taste.  We also tackle how the "spiral of craving" makes our lives less enjoyable. To wrap things up, we touch upon the evolving landscape of sobriety and the booming 'sober curious' movement. William champions the idea that anyone can explore an alcohol-free lifestyle, regardless of how much they're drinking. Join us for this illuminating conversation and gain a new perspective on alcohol's role in our lives. To get your copy of Alcohol Explained and Alcohol Explained and learn more about William's work, click here. Connect with Meade and Christy HERE.    Learn More about Coaching with Christy  Learn More about Coaching with Meade   Connect with us on Instagram! @imnotsoberimfree @lovelifesoberwithchristy   #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind  #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected  #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery #alcoholexplained   The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. 

Happy 4th Birthday to The Sober Club, and its the 250th episode of this pod! Join us! https://www.thesoberclub.com/ This is the first ever live podcast recording to celebrate the 250th episode of the Alcohol Free Life podcast from The Sober Club Please forgive the sound quality, but we were live at Club Soda alcohol free bar in London. Janey chats to the first ever podcast guests. Laura Willoughby, founder of Club Soda, and authors and sober heroes William Porter and Clare Pooley.  All three were instrumental in her journey to sobriety. Clares first book was instrumental in my journey!  Buy it here William Porter - Alcohol Explained https://amzn.to/3P1XlEo The theme of the event was Connection, in the words of Johann Hari ‘Connection is the opposite of Addiction' and I've made the most amazing connections since ditching the booze!  Events  Join us for the LAST Sober by the Sea at our sea view venue, Sun Sept 24 We create a vision board, 1-1 lazer coaching is included and a chance to focus on your future.  Sat Oct 14 – Mastermind / Attracting Clients day for coaches and therapists Sun Oct 15 – Family Constellations workshop in Herts with leading trauma expert Rafe Nauen Nov 4-5 Selfcare in Sobriety Champneys retreat Herts TBA Dec 5 Live podcast recoding / xmas meet up  All events https://www.thesoberclub.com/events/

Next week is the 250th episode! There will be a chance to hear our live recording with William Porter, Clare Pooley and Laura Willoughby. Janey shares info about upcoming events including Sober by the Sea Sept 24th A coaches mastermind day October 14 and Family Constellations Sun Oct 24 in Herts Also Champneys Tring Nov 4th All events  SAVE THE DATE, the next live podcast and meet up will be an early Xmas do, with special guests TBA - 5th Dec in London Ahead of that if you can get to Manchester don't miss the AFter Party social event, Janey is speaking there, on Sun 29th Oct Janeys guest this week Andy Blackman shares his story and talks about the event, and the importance of connection Follow Andy @af.ter_party on insta. Buy tickets here Andy is one of the 'sober guys' who host online events, who are part of Janey's Sober 360 Coaching family (If you're interested in Sober Coach training email Janey @janeyleegrace.com) If you're early days, always reach out, support is there, Join us in The Sober Club for accountability, connection and inspiration www.thesoberclub.com Tell someone! You can message Janey @janeyleegrace  Contribute to this work by going to www.buymeacoffee/janeyleegrace 

Episode 249    Hello, friend! I'm honored to share my guest with you today.  Donna is a fellow listener of To 50 and Beyond who reached out to me to share her story with you to let you know you are not alone and give you a boost of "alcohol-free" inspiration and encouragement.  Donna is a wonderful woman, who I now consider a friend, and I think you will too.  Today, you will hear Donna's Story from the beginning of her drinking and how her drinking escalated in her 30s and 40s, and the signs she received which made her question her relationship with alcohol and stop drinking.  Donna is 55 years old and celebrated 3 years alcohol-free on 12 April 2023. Previously identifying as a party girl, Donna never considered stopping drinking prior to her “Easter epiphany” in 2020. Donna lives with her husband Shane and elderly rescue dog Zac near Wollongong, New South Wales, Australia. She works as a paralegal in Abuse Law but would love to study counseling and maybe start a sober podcast with her husband Shane. Enjoy the conversation, and thank you for listening, you ROCK!    Resources mentioned in this episode:  Alcohol Explained by William Porter  The Daybreak app   Please click here if you would like to share your story on the podcast. I would be honored to meet you!    Episodes to listen to next:  Going Alcohol-Free Later in Life You Don't Have to Skip to the Good Part of Sobriety 10 Ways to Get in the Habit of Living Alcohol-Free   Let's stay in touch! Join Lori's email community to receive inspiration and tips on how to find joy + confidence in living alcohol-free later in life. Click here to join the mailing list.   Private Coaching Are you interested in working closely to quit drinking for good?   Schedule a complimentary discovery session to learn more about how private sobriety coaching can help you find joy and confidence in sobriety.   Click here to schedule your session.