Podcasts about Bobby Lewis

Staying up late, eating junk food, and hanging out with friends. Sleepovers are the source of so many good memories for many people. But they aren't danger-free. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to ask if sleepovers are good for kids, if the upsides outweigh the risks, and what dads need to know about overnight stays.Why This MattersToday's parents are thinking about sleepover safety more than ever. Dads are considering supervision, peer influence, pornography exposure, and emotional readiness before automatically saying yes to sleepovers.Key Takeaways• Just because sleepovers are common doesn't mean they are automatically wise for every family. • Sleepover can be fun, but also offer prime environments for sexual assault, pornography exposure, and pressure to use drugs or alcohol.• There are healthy alternatives to traditional sleepovers, like “late overs” instead of overnight stays.Practical Tips for Dads1.    Ask intentional questions before sending your child to a sleepover.Ask the host family about supervision, the presence of older siblings, phone access, house rules, and whether you have common values. 2.    Prepare your kids ahead of time.Talk openly about unsafe situations, pornography exposure, inappropriate behavior, and create a code word or phrase they can use if they want to come home immediately.3.    If you host sleepovers, set clear boundaries.Keep kids in common areas, establish a smartphone curfew, secure firearms, and check in throughout the night.Important Episode Timestamps [00:00] Are Sleepovers Good for Kids? Ted frames a conversation about approaching sleepovers not from fear but from wisdom, helping dads make intentional decisions for their own families.[00:51] Sleepover Stories From the Guys — From Innocent to Eye-OpeningThe dads share their own childhood sleepover memories, ranging from sleeping bags at the Jersey Shore to an unexpected discovery in an older brother's room.[03:44] Sleepover Regrets Ted reflects honestly on how his own middle school sleepovers introduced him to alcohol, pornography, and tobacco.[07:28] Real Benefits of Sleepovers That Make Them Worth Considering The dads walk through the genuine upsides of sleepovers — deeper friendships, independence, shared memories, unstructured fun, and the social inclusion kids naturally crave — and why most parents still view them positively.[10:32] Why More Parents Are Starting to Question Sleepovers Bobby shares YouGov research showing a growing shift in parental concern over sleepovers, with worries about lack of supervision, bullying, gun access, and exposure to drugs and alcohol driving a more cautious approach.[11:24] Sobering Statistics Every Dad Should Know Before Saying Yes Research shows that 90% of child sexual abuse is committed by someone the child already knows, and that a significant portion of abuse involving children is actually carried out by other juveniles. The dads discuss sleepover safety concerns.[15:47] The Most Important Thing To Do Before Letting Your Kid Sleep Over BJ makes the case that preparation matters more than prohibition. Dads should have ongoing, honest conversations with their kids about what's appropriate, what to do if they feel unsafe, and what they might be exposed to.[19:22] The Code Word Strategy That Gives Kids a Safe Exit Without Losing Face Bobby and Ted explain the code word system they both use with their kids.[22:00] Smart Alternatives to Traditional Sleepovers and Tips for Hosting Safely Bobby walks through practical alternatives like the "late-over" or "sleep-under" concept and shares specific child sleepover safety guidelines.[26:04] This Week's Pro MoveMake a pros and cons list for your family about sleepovers and create clear rules for any future overnight stays.Sponsor:The All Pro Dad Podcast is proudly brought to you by Family First, a nonprofit dedicated to equipping parents with resources to strengthen their families. Learn more at FamilyFirst.net.All Pro Dad Resources:7 Ways to Host an Awesome SleepoveriMOM: The Pros and Cons of Sleepovers. Should You Say Yes?For a mom's perspective on this topic, check out Episode 76 of the iMOM Podcast: Sleepovers: Yes or No?We love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us:Ted Lowe on LinkedInBobby Lewis on LinkedInBJ Foster on LinkedInSubscribe on Apple PodcastsGet All Pro Dad merch!EXTRAS:Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

“There's a big exam on Friday. Will I get invited to the party? Will I even get into college?” There are so many things bouncing around our teens' heads. No wonder anxiety is at an all-time high. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to discuss why anxiety and depression are affecting so many teens today.Why This MattersTeens today are carrying enormous emotional pressure, often silently. Dads play a critical role in helping teens feel safe, understood, and supported as they navigate anxiety, stress, and emotional struggles.Key TakeawaysTeen girls often feel intense pressure around appearance, relationships, and perfection.Teen boys frequently hide anxiety because they fear looking weak or vulnerable.Doomscrolling and nonstop exposure to negative content can increase anxiety and emotional stress.Emotional struggles are not always obvious, especially in quiet or high-performing kids.Dads need to prioritize listening, empathy, and emotional safety over simply “fixing” problems.Practical Tips for Dads1.    Listen and empathize first.Don't minimize your teen's feelings, even if their worries seem small to you. Their experiences are real to them.2.    Create emotional safety.Let your kids know they can talk honestly without fear of judgment or shame.3.    Teach that stress is normal.Help teens understand that challenges, pressure, and setbacks are part of life and can build resilience.4.    Avoid rescuing too quickly.Support your kids through struggles without solving every problem for them.5.    Pay attention to hidden anxiety.Quiet kids and boys especially may hide emotional struggles behind silence, anger, or withdrawal.6.    Limit unhealthy influences.Monitor social media, doomscrolling, and comparison-heavy content that increases emotional pressure.7.    Teach healthy coping mechanisms.Encourage exercise, sleep, deep breathing, positive thinking, outdoor activity, and face-to-face relationships.8.    Reinforce value outside performance.Help your teens know they are loved for who they are, not just what they achieve.Important Episode Timestamps  [00:00] Why Are So Many Teens Struggling with Anxiety and Depression? Ted introduces the episode's central question and sets up a practical conversation for any dad raising an anxious child. [00:40] Did You Struggle with Anxiety Growing Up?BJ, Bobby, and Ted share their own middle and high school anxiety stories.[02:54] What the Research Says About Anxiety in Teen Boys vs. GirlsPew Research found that anxiety and depression rank as the top struggle for both boys and girls, making it vital dads learn how to help kids with anxiety.[04:22] Girls and Boys Experience Anxiety Differently Girls face unique pressures around appearance, comparison, and performance, while boys deal with anxiety in other areas.[08:19] Why Dads Must Create a Safe Space for Sons to Talk About Anxiety Ted shares how he discovered his son's anxiety through a family friend and makes the case that dads must know how to help sons with anxiety.[09:28] Social Pressure, Bullying, and the Peer Comparison Trap BJ and Bobby break down how fitting in, physical and social bullying, and the pressure to keep up with peers quietly fuel anxiety.[11:25] How Doomscrolling Is Making Teen Anxiety WorseBJ explains why Harvard Health research shows girls are hit harder by doomscrolling than boys.[13:17] The Chemical Reality: Why Teen Girls Can Become Anxious About Being Anxious Bobby shares research from the Child Mind Institute explaining how puberty and emotional sensitivity can cause girls' anxiety to compound while boys' tend to bottle things up.[15:03] Listen, Empathize, and Normalize Anxiety Instead of Trying to Fix It The dads walk through what it actually looks like to show up for an anxious kid.[19:22] The Pro MoveAsk your teen, “What gives you the most anxiety right now, and how do you usually deal with it?” Then listen carefully, empathize honestly, and resist the urge to immediately fix the problem.Sponsor:The All Pro Dad Podcast is proudly brought to you by Family First, a nonprofit dedicated to equipping parents with resources to strengthen their families. Learn more at FamilyFirst.net.All Pro Dad Resources:Episode 2 – How Can I Help My Anxious Kid?Episode 111 – What Should I Do When My Kids Are Scared?5 Ways Parents Cause Their Teens AnxietyWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us:Ted Lowe on LinkedInBobby Lewis on LinkedInBJ Foster on LinkedInSubscribe on Apple PodcastsGet All Pro Dad merch!EXTRAS:Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

We've all been there. You hear your kid use a four-letter word for the first time. Or belittle someone else. Do your kids understand the power of their words? In this episode of the All Pro Dad podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about how often our kids use words without thinking about the consequences and what dads can do to shape kids' language. Why This MattersThe words we use shape relationships, build trust, and influence how kids see themselves and others.Key TakeawaysKids learn the power of language primarily by listening to the adults around them.Compliments and encouragement often have a longer-lasting impact than we realize.A child's language often reveals deeper heart issues, influences, or emotional struggles.Parents should pay attention to the influences shaping their kids' communication, including friends, music, movies, and online content.Practical Tips for Dads1.    Model the language you want your kids to use.Praise your spouse, encourage others openly, and speak respectfully even when frustrated.2.    Practice “reverse gossip.”Speak highly of people behind their backs and let your kids hear it regularly.3.    Build gratitude into family rhythms.Use moments like dinner conversations to encourage thankfulness and affirmation.4.    Address hurtful language quickly.Teach kids the difference between joking around and attacking someone's dignity.5.    Talk about the “why” behind words.Ask questions that uncover the heart posture behind the language your kids use.6.    Monitor influences carefully.Pay attention to the friends, media, music, and online content shaping your child's communication habits.7.    Teach honesty as a core family value.Help kids understand that trust is built through consistent truthfulness.Important Episode Timestamps[00:00] How Can We Teach Our Kids the Power of Language? Ted frames a conversation about how the words dads model at home shape the way their kids speak for years to come.[00:49] The Words We Wish We Could Take Back: Honest Stories From the Guys BJ, Ted, and Bobby share cringe-worthy moments when their words caused unintended harm.[04:12] The Surprising Power of the Right Word at the Right MomentThe dads reflect on times a well-timed compliment or word of affirmation made a lasting impact on someone.[06:01] Why Kids Already Know 42 Taboo Words by Age Five Ted shares unsettling research about how early children absorb harsh language.[07:23] How to Model the Power of Language at Home Every Day The dads discuss practical ways dads can demonstrate uplifting language in action.[10:17] Reverse Gossip, Doug Compliments, and Other Ways to Build People UpBobby introduces the concept of reverse gossip, Ted shares the Doug Compliment tradition, and BJ explains why passing along praise is one of the most powerful things a dad can do.[13:11] How Careless Words at Home Become Bullying Behavior Everywhere Else Ted and BJ connect the dots between the language kids use with siblings at home and the bullying behavior that shows up at school.[14:48] Cursing, Tone, and What Really Tears People Down BJ offers a nuanced take on cursing, arguing that tone, posture, and dehumanizing language do far more damage than any particular word.[19:01] Why Lying Is the Most Damaging Language of AllThe dads explain why dishonesty is the most common way to destroys trust, and why creating a home where kids feel safe to tell the truth is one of the most important things a dad can do.[21:30] This Week's Pro Move: Ask your kids why they think some kids use curse words. Talk about where language comes from, how words affect others, and what kind of people your family wants to be through the way you speak.Sponsor:The All Pro Dad Podcast is proudly brought to you by Family First, a nonprofit dedicated to equipping parents with resources to strengthen their families. Learn more at FamilyFirst.net.All Pro Dad ResourcesMark Merrill on CBS News: What To Do When Your Kid Starts SwearingEpisode 3 – What Are The Words My Kids Long to Hear?Episode 8 – What Are 7 Things A Son Needs From His Dad?Episode 9 – What Are 7 Things A Daughter Needs From Her Dad?Episode 118 – What Do Dads Need to Stop Saying to Their Kids?We love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us:Ted Lowe on LinkedInBobby Lewis on LinkedInBJ Foster on LinkedInSubscribe on Apple PodcastsGet All Pro Dad merch!EXTRAS:Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

All dads are a work in progress. We've yelled when we shouldn't have. We've been impatient and overreacted. If you could go back and tell your younger self something, what would it be? In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about most dad wisdom comes through experience and giving yourself grace is a must. Why This MattersMany dads carry pressure they were never meant to carry. We think we have to get everything right, fix every problem, and shape every detail of our kids' futures. But parenting is less about control and more about presence, consistency, and connection. Looking back on fatherhood helps dads identify what truly mattered—and what didn't—so they can parent with more peace, wisdom, and intentionality today.Key Takeaways·       Parenting gets healthier when dads learn to respond instead of react.·       Kids do not need constant entertainment or problem-solving from parents in order to grow.·       Empathy helps children process emotions without removing accountability.·       Dads often underestimate how quickly childhood passes.·       Consistency, humility, and apologizing to your kids build trust and security.·       Bringing kids into your world creates lasting memories and deeper relationships.·       Kids are born with unique temperaments that dads are meant to nurture, not completely reshape.·       Choosing family over work and distractions pays lifelong dividends.Practical Steps for Dads1.    Pause before reacting when your kids frustrate you. Create space for wisdom instead of responding emotionally.2.    Let your kids experience boredom and manageable problems instead of rescuing them immediately.3.    Practice empathy by helping your kids identify and process emotions calmly.4.    Be intentional about enjoying the current season of parenting instead of rushing toward the next stage.5.    Apologize when you fail. Humility strengthens your relationship with your children.6.    Prioritize your family over unnecessary work, distractions, and commitments.7.    Create one-on-one experiences with your kids by bringing them into your world whenever possible.8.    Focus on nurturing your child's personality instead of trying to force them into someone they are not.Important Episode Timestamps[00:00] What Would You Go Back and Tell Younger You as a Dad?[00:37] Relax and Stop Rushing to the Next Season of Parenting[05:15] It's Okay for Your Kids to Be Bored — and You Don't Have to Solve All Their Problems[06:52] Pause Before Responding and Lead With Empathy[08:24] Kids Come Out a Way — Stop Trying to Completely Reshape Them[10:10] Keep Being Real and Keep Being Fun — Your Kids Need Both[13:35] Keep Apologizing When You Fail — It Models More Than You Know [15:06] Embrace Failure — Good Dads Fail Their Way Into Wisdom[17:47] Embrace the Hard — Raising Kids Is the Most Important Thing You'll Ever Do [18:14] This Week's Pro Move: Write a Letter to Your Younger Dad SelfTake five minutes this week and write down what you would tell your younger self as a dad—both wisdom and encouragement—and keep it somewhere you will see regularly.All Pro Dad Resources:Episode 22 – What Do I Wish I Had Know Sooner as a Dad?Dan Orlovsky: 4 Things I'd Tell My Younger Self About Being a DadTony Dungy: What Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self?5 Things I Wish I Knew in My 30s and 40sWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us:Ted Lowe on LinkedInBobby Lewis on LinkedInBJ Foster on LinkedInSubscribe on Apple PodcastsGet All Pro Dad merch!EXTRAS:Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

Hunting lions. Camping outdoors alone. Whatever happened to rites of passage? In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about why creating milestone moments matters for kids as they mature into adulthood. Why This MattersModern kids may be missing out on meaningful transitions into adulthood.Key Takeaways• Rites of passage help kids develop identity, courage, responsibility, and belonging.• Modern milestones often happen passively, but meaningful growth usually requires challenge and intentionality.• Kids build confidence when they overcome hard things and are recognized for their growth and maturity.Practical Tips for Dads1.    Ask yourself what kind of adult you want your child to become when they leave your home.2.    Create intentional experiences, challenges, or ceremonies that help shape courage, resilience, and responsibility.3.    Celebrate growth and maturity when your child overcomes something difficult or reaches a new stage of life.Important Episode Timestamps [00:00] Should Dads Be Intentional About Rites of Passage for Their Kids?[00:38] The Most Extreme Rites of Passage Around the World[07:47] Why American Kids Have Lost Their Rites of Passage[08:05] What a Real Rite of Passage Looks Like — and Why It Has to Be Personal[11:43] The Emotional Cost of Never Being Told You've Become a Man[15:46] What a Navy SEAL Taught Us About Why Rites of Passage[19:45] Ushering Kids Into Adulthood: Doing It With Them vs. For Them[21:40] The 3 Things Every Meaningful Rite of Passage Should Include[25:39] How to Start Building a Rite of Passage for Your Kid Right Now[26:20] This Week's Pro Move:Think about a rite of passage you can create for your child and take a step toward making it happen. Sponsor:The All Pro Dad Podcast is proudly brought to you by Family First, a nonprofit dedicated to equipping parents with resources to strengthen their families. Learn more at FamilyFirst.net.All Pro Dad Resources:Crafting a Rite of Passage For Your SonSusan Merrill: Sons' Rites of Passage Mark Merrill: The BlessingWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us:Ted Lowe on LinkedInBobby Lewis on LinkedInBJ Foster on LinkedInSubscribe on Apple PodcastsGet All Pro Dad merch!EXTRAS:Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

 Posting photos of your kids feels harmless—but what if there's more at stake than we realize? In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about “sharenting,” why we do it, and how to know if we've gone too far.Why This MattersHow dads share their kids' lives online shapes their children's privacy, identity, and future relationship with social media.Key Takeaways• “Sharenting” is common—most parents do it—but few stop to consider their true motivation.• Sharing can build connection and preserve memories, but it can also risk privacy, safety, and future embarrassment.• Kids are watching how we post, and our habits will shape how they use social media someday.Practical Tips for Dads1.    Pause before posting and ask: “Why am I sharing this—and who is it really for?”2.    Protect your child's privacy by limiting identifiable details like location, school, or routines.3.    Involve your kids in conversations about what should and shouldn't be shared online.Important Episode Timestamps[00:00] What Is Sharenting and Are You Doing It? [00:48] How Much Do Dads Actually Share About Their Kids Online? [06:21] What Is Sharenting? The Origin of the Term and Why It Matters [09:11] Why Parents Share Their Kids Online — and When the Reasons Are Good [11:23] The 5 Reasons Parents Overshare About Their Kids on Social Media[13:06] The Privacy Problem: What Happens When Everything About Your Kid Is Public? [15:47] The Real Privacy Risks of Posting Your Kids Online [19:58] Are Your Kids Your Content? Questions Every Dad Should Ask Before Posting [25:35] How to Share More Safely: Practical Tips for Protecting Your Kids Online [30:58] This Week's Pro Move: Have a conversation with your kids about sharing information online—then decide together who you want your family to be online.All Pro Dad Resources:Episode 95 – What Challenges is Generation Alpha Facing?Episode 110 – Should Kids Be Social Media Influencer?Episode 119 – We love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us:Ted Lowe on LinkedInBobby Lewis on LinkedInBJ Foster on LinkedInSubscribe on Apple PodcastsGet All Pro Dad merch!EXTRAS:Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

Are we raising resilient kids—or accidentally making life harder for them later? In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about whether today's parenting trends are helping kids thrive or quietly coddling them.Why This MattersDads play a critical role in preparing kids to handle real-world challenges with confidence, resilience, and independence.Key Takeaways• Kids today experience connection, independence, and challenges very differently than previous generations.• Overprotecting and over-helping can unintentionally weaken a child's ability to handle adversity.• Building resilience requires letting kids face discomfort, failure, and responsibility.Practical Tips for Dads1.    Create space for independence—let your kids solve problems, make decisions, and even fail.2.    Resist the urge to step in too quickly—coach instead of control.3.    Introduce responsibility early and consistently hold your kids accountable.Important Episode Timestamps[00:00] Are We Coddling Our Kids? What Dads Need to Know About Raising Resilient Children [00:38] How Kids Today Experience Childhood Differently Than Their Dads Did [04:01] What Social Psychologist Jonathan Haidt Says About Coddling[05:30] When Labels Like "Triggers" and "Trauma" Help and Hurt Kids[09:17] What the Dead Poets Society Reaction Reveals About Generation Z [11:39] How to Spot Coddling in Your Own Home [16:42] The 4 Ways Dads Coddle Without Realizing It [20:31] How to Coach Your Kids Up and Then Let Them Go [23:59] Why Free Play and Boredom Are Actually Good for Kids[27:19] This Week's Pro Move"Give your child at least one responsibility this week that they can fully own—then step back and let them handle it.Quotable:"If they can do it, let them do it, and they can probably do more than we think that they could." - TedAll Pro Dad Resources:Episode 98 – How to Build Resilient Children4 Ways to Raise Resilient KidsDan Orlovsky: 5 Ways to Teach a DaughWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us:Ted Lowe on LinkedInBobby Lewis on LinkedInBJ Foster on LinkedInSubscribe on Apple PodcastsGet All Pro Dad merch!EXTRAS:Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

IM (9/2/1925 – 28/4/2020) – Bobby Lewis is Dood maar niet vergeten. De Amerikaanse R&B-zanger overleed vandaag in 2020 op 95-jarige leeftijd aan een longontsteking. Overigens werd zijn dood pas in juni van dat jaar bevestigd…Continue Reading "Bobby Lewis’ one track mind"

Most dads focus on what they say—but what if the real impact comes from how they respond? In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to explore what AI surprisingly gets right about responding—and how dads can use those insights to build stronger, more connected relationships at home.Why This MattersThe way a dad responds in everyday moments sets the tone for connection, trust, and emotional safety in his home.Key Takeaways• Slowing down your response communicates value and builds stronger relationships.• Not taking things personally helps you stay steady and keeps the door open with your kids.• Small shifts—like staying present, not escalating, and adjusting over time—can transform connection. 5 Dad Habits That Hurt Connection1.    We rush.2.    We take things personally.3.    We hijack the moment.4.    We escalate.5.    We don't adjust. Practical Tips for Dads1.    Pause before responding: Even a few seconds can shift you from reacting to connecting.2.    Stay in their moment: Resist the urge to fix, teach, or redirect too quickly.3.    Adjust as they grow: Stay curious about who your child is today, not who they used to be.Important Episode Timestamps[00:00] How to Respond Better to Your Kids Every Day [00:48] What AI Gets Right About Responding That Dads Often Get Wrong [01:38] Poor Habit #1: We Rush [05:14] Poor Habit #2: We Take Things Personally [06:17] Poor Habit #3: We Hijack the Moment[12:53] Poor Habit #4: We Escalate[16:11] Why Staying Steady as a Dad Is a Skill[17:38] Poor Habit #5: We Don't Adjust[20:31] This Week's Pro MoveBefore you respond this week, silently ask: “Is this building connection—or just proving a point?”All Pro Dad Resources:Episode 87 – How Can I Connect With My Kids?How To Be A Better Listener to Your Kids5 Thing To Do When You're Struggling to Connect With Your KidWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us:Ted Lowe on LinkedInBobby Lewis on LinkedInBJ Foster on LinkedInSubscribe on Apple PodcastsGet All Pro Dad merch!EXTRAS:Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

There's nothing wrong with wanting to fit in but chasing popularity can cause social anxiety in children. How can dads guide their kids toward true belonging without losing who they are? In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to unpack what's really going on beneath a child's desire to be popular.Why This MattersWhen dads misunderstand popularity, they miss the deeper need for belonging—and risk disconnecting from their kids in moments that matter most.Key Takeaways• Popularity isn't about ego—it's about belonging and emotional safety.• Kids experience social pressure deeply, and minimizing it increases their sense of isolation.• Dads can guide their kids best by using a simple framework: See. Steady. Shape.Practical Tips for Dads1.   See first: Acknowledge your child's feelings before trying to fix anything.2.   Stay steady: Your calm presence helps regulate their emotions in stressful social moments.3.   Shape over time: Don't rush the lesson—help them build perspective gradually.Important Episode Timestamps [00:00] How to Help Your Kids Navigate Social Pressure Without Losing Who They Are [00:52] What Did You Do to Be Popular Growing Up? [04:19] Why Popularity Is Really About Safety and Belonging, Not Being Liked [06:42] How Kids Use Popularity to Answer the Question "Do I Belong and Do I Have Value?" [09:27] Why Dads Should Comfort First and Fix Later When Kids Feel Left Out [11:20] 3 Types of Kids Struggling With Popularity and How to Spot Them[13:58] "I Don't Care About Being Popular" — Why That's Never Really True [16:33] Why Dads Want to Fix Social Pain and Why That Instinct Backfires[17:59] The See, Steady, Shape Framework: A Dad's Guide to Helping Hurting Kids [19:04] This Week's Pro Move: Ask your kid, “What does it mean to be a popular kid?”—and listen longer than feels natural.All Pro Dad Resources5 Ways to Vet Your Kids' Friends10 Ways To Help Your Kids Stand Up To Peer Pressure3 Things To Do When YoWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us:Ted Lowe on LinkedInBobby Lewis on LinkedInBJ Foster on LinkedInSubscribe on Apple PodcastsGet All Pro Dad merch!EXTRAS:Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

Anger shows up fast. For a lot of dads, it feels justified in the moment but regrettable right after. It's the emotion we tend to express most. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to unpack what's behind our emotions and how to respond so we build connection instead of creating distance.Why This MattersHow a dad handles his emotions shapes how his kids experience him and how they learn to handle emotions themselves.Key Takeaways• Anger is “acceptable”: Most dads are not trying to be angry—they are trying to feel in control.• There's more to you than anger: Anger is often the only emotion men were trained to express, masking deeper feelings underneath.Practical Tips for Dads1.    Name it: Identify what you're actually feeling beneath the anger (hurt, stress, embarrassment, exhaustion).2.    Frame it: Challenge the story you're telling yourself and replace it with a more accurate, helpful perspective.3.    Aim it: Choose a response that builds connection with your child.Important Episode Timestamps[00:00] How Dads Can Handle Anger Without Hurting Their Kids[00:44] 5 Types of Angry Dads: Which One Are You?[03:11] Which Anger Style Do You Identify With Most?[05:37] Why Dads Feel So Confused and Guilty About Their Anger[06:17] Real Stories: Times We Lost Our Temper as Dads[09:00] What Happens to Your Kids When You Don't Manage Your Anger[10:39] Why Anger Is Usually Not the Real Problem for Men[14:44] The Name, Frame, Aim Framework for Managing Dad Anger[17:58] How to Apply Name, Frame, Aim to Your Anger StyleAPD Pro Move:When anger rises this week, walk through Name. Frame. Aim. because your kids don't need a perfect dad, they need a present one who is learning.All Pro Dad Resources:The Wisdom in Dealing with Anger3 Deadly Reactions Dads Must StopHow to Be a Calm, Cool, and Collected ParentWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us:Ted Lowe on LinkedInBobby Lewis on LinkedInBJ Foster on LinkedInSubscribe on Apple PodcastsGet All Pro Dad merch!EXTRAS:Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

We're always teaching our kids values. The question is, are we being intentional about it? In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to reflect on the lessons they were taught and offer four practical ways parents can pass on solid principles to their kids.Why This MattersThe values we intentionally teach and model become the compass that guides our kids' character, decisions, and relationships for the rest of their lives.Key Takeaways·      Kids watch us constantly: Harvard research shows children learn social behaviors primarily through observing and imitating adults, especially parents.·      Being specific matters: General praise doesn't accomplish as much as specific praise, which, when tied to values, increases repetitive behaviors. Actions Steps for Dads1: Think through the values you want to teach.2: Talk about values with your kids.3: Model your values.4: Affirm your kids when they live out your values.Important Episode Timestamps 00:00:21 – Childhood Values That Shape Who You Become00:01:59 – When You Don't Live Up to Your Values00:04:07 – You're Always Teaching Values (On Purpose or Not)00:04:58 – Why Kids Need Values to Navigate Life00:06:43 – The Two Values That Matter Most: Character and Relationships00:07:38 – Step 1: Decide What Your Family Stands For00:10:57 – Real-Life Family Values That Actually Work00:12:28 – Step 2: Talk About Your Values With Your Kids00:13:08 – Teaching Perseverance: “Don't Quit”00:14:04 – Step 3: Model the Values You Want to See00:18:18 – Step 4: Affirm and Reinforce Good Behavior APD Pro Move:Write out your family values together as a group. Put them on paper and hang them somewhere in your house where you can see them, memorize them, and hold each other to them.All Pro Dad Resources:4 Ways to Teach Your Kids to Be More Than a Good PersonDon't Raise Perfect Kids—Raise Good Ones5 Ways to Help Your Kids StanWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us:Ted Lowe on LinkedInBobby Lewis on LinkedInBJ Foster on LinkedInSubscribe on Apple PodcastsGet All Pro Dad merch!EXTRAS:Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

As kids grow, schedules fill up, friendships expand, and the hours we spend together begin to shrink. Dads can't waste time. We must intentionally raise them. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about how dads can make the most of the limited time they have with their children.Why This MattersWe only get a short window of opportunity to shape our kids' character, strengthen our relationship, and influence who they become.Key Takeaways·      Time equals influence: There is no substitute for spending time with your child. Dads spend about 59 minutes per day with their kids, up from 16 in 1965. (Per UC Irvine.)·      Kids prefer connection over lessons: Do the things that draw you closer.·      Small moments add up: Create opportunities to make memories and build trust with your child. Action Steps for Dads1: Don't get discouraged by the clock.2: Look for teachable moments.3: Don't pull back, push in. 4: Schedule 1-on-1 time.5: Embrace your traditions.Important Episode Timestamps  00:02:13 – Time Starts Flying Right Away00:03:30 – The Shocking Math of Time With Your Kids00:05:04 – Are You Raising Your Kids or Just Around Them?00:05:39 – Dads Are More Involved Than Ever00:07:43 – Why Kids Turn to Mom First00:08:26 – Modeling Matters More Than Lecturing00:10:38 – Don't Panic About the Clock00:12:42 – Be Present Instead of Living in the Past00:15:14 – Use Teachable Moments00:17:53 – Push In, Don't Pull Back as Kids Get Older00:19:50 – Be the Steady Anchor in Emotional Storms00:23:13 – Schedule One-on-One Time With Your Kids00:24:09 – Small Moments Create Lasting Memories00:25:21 – Build Traditions Your Kids Will Remember00:27:33 – Enjoy the MomentAPD Pro Move:Build a calendar, or get a shared calendar on your phones, and schedule time together with your kids this week. All Pro Dad Resources:One-on-One Time for Kids With Dad4 Small Decisions Your Kids Will LoveWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us:Ted Lowe on LinkedInBobby Lewis on LinkedInBJ Foster on LinkedInSubscribe on Apple PodcastsGet All Pro Dad merch!EXTRAS:Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

Ask a teacher if his or her job is getting harder. Most will tell you student behavior is their biggest professional hurdle. Can dads play a role in fixing things at school? In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about how bad student behavior has gotten and how the solution starts at home. Why This MattersIf we want our kids to excel in the classroom, we should focus on promoting good behavior. Key Takeaways·      Mental health impacts behavior: Increased anxiety, stress, and frustration make it hard for kids to focus.·      COVID still lingers: The impact is still felt socially and academically.·      Screens have changed kids' brains: Constant visual stimulation makes paper and books "boring."Practical Tips to Help Improve Student Behavior1. Stop Passenger Parenting (see Episode 106). 2. Deal With Anxiety. 3. Relieve Stress Away From School. 4. Start an All Pro Dad Chapter. Important Episode Timestamps00:02:07 – 00:03:42 | Are Student Behavior Problems Getting Worse?00:03:42 – 00:05:18 | What's Driving the Spike in Classroom Issues00:05:18 – 00:07:06 | The Self-Regulation Crisis in Kids00:07:06 – 00:09:11 | Screen Time, Dopamine & Attention Problems00:09:11 – 00:11:04 | The Disappearing Authority of Teachers00:11:04 – 00:13:02 | Parents vs. Schools: Who Owns Behavior?00:13:02 – 00:15:14 | Why Kids Struggle With Boundaries Today00:15:14 – 00:17:26 | Emotional Regulation Starts at Home00:17:26 – 00:19:41 | Supporting Teachers Instead of Undermining Them00:19:41 – 00:22:58 | Raising Kids Who Can Function in the Real WorldAPD Pro Move:Do one of these things: ·      Talk to your kids about anxiety and work on coping mechanisms·      Do something fun and crazy this week to reduce stress·      Check out an All Pro Dad ChapterAll Pro Dad Resources:Episode 106 – What is a Passenger Parent and Am I One?Episode 95 – What Challenges Is Gen Alpha Facing?We love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

Remember when you were a kid and there was Breaking News on TV? The avalanche of images. The wave of emotions. The same thing happens today, every time we start doomscrolling. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about the dangers of doomscrolling, how it impacts us, and how dads can help their kids stop the cycle. Why This MattersDoomscrolling reportedly leads to worse mental health outcomes, more anxiety, and higher rates of suicide.Doomscrolling is looking through an endless feed of negative content.Can Dads Stop the Cycle?1. Talk to your kids about doomscrolling2. Teach kids to think of good things3. Fuel their optimismImportant Episode Timestamps 00:02:20 – 00:04:46 | What Is Doomscrolling and Why It's So Addictive00:04:46 – 00:06:11 | Doomscrolling at Work and Before Bed00:06:11 – 00:08:01 | The Brain Science Behind Phone Addiction00:08:01 – 00:10:26 | How Doomscrolling Fuels Pessimism and Anxiety00:10:26 – 00:12:14 | Negativity Bias: Why Bad News Sticks00:12:14 – 00:14:09 | Teen Mental Health, Suicide Risk & Screen Time00:14:09 – 00:17:22 | 24/7 Breaking News in Your Child's Pocket00:17:22 – 00:20:19 | How Dads Can Talk to Kids About Doomscrolling00:20:19 – 00:24:41 | Fighting Doomscrolling With Optimism and Good NewsAPD Pro Move:Have your kids tell you something good.  Find a positive or funny story to share with your kids every day. If your kids are teenagers, ask them to find a good story to share with you.All Pro Dad Resources:Episode 93 – How Do I Make the Social Media Algorithm Work For Me?Episode 109 – Should I Let My Kid Be An Online Influencer?Study on optimism during COVID pandemicWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

A father's words can build his kids up or tear them down. They are powerful, and can stick with kids for the rest of their lives. That's why we have to watch what we say. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about how often we (even accidentally) say the wrong thing and what uplifting things we should be saying instead.Why This MattersThe words we use with our kids can build up or tear down. We must choose them wisely.Things to Stop Saying to Sons1. “You can't do it.”2. “You're not strong enough.” Or “Don't be a wimp.” 3. “I'm disappointed in you.”4. “I'm working on something important. You'll have to wait.”Things to Stop Saying to Daughters1. “Have you gained/lost weight?”2. “Stop being so dramatic.”3. “You're just like your mother.”4. “Oh, but you're so pretty.”5. “If you had done ______, you could have done even better.” Things to START Saying Instead1. “I love you.”2. “I'm grateful to be your dad.”3. “I believe in you.”Important Episode Timestamps00:00:48 – 02:41 | Why Your Anger Isn't Really About Your Kids02:41 – 05:12 | The Hidden Triggers Behind Dad Reactions05:12 – 07:36 | The Difference Between Discipline and Control07:36 – 10:18 | Parenting From Pressure vs. Parenting From Purpose10:18 – 12:44 | How Stress Leaks Into Your Tone and Body Language12:44 – 15:03 | The 5-Second Pause That Changes Everything15:03 – 17:29 | Repairing After You Lose Your Cool17:29 – 19:58 | Teaching Kids Emotional Regulation by Modeling It19:58 – 22:11 | Breaking the Generational Pattern of Anger22:11 – End | The Dad Challenge: Lead Yourself First APD Pro Move:Give your kids a new affirmation every day this week.All Pro Dad Resources: Episode 8 – What Are 7 Things A Son Needs From His Dad?Episode 9 – What Are 7 Things A Daughter Needs From Her Dad?Episode 87 – How Can I Connect With My Kids?We love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

What do kids fear most? Research shows they're terrified of bullies. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about why kids bully, how it impacts them, and what to say if your kid becomes the bully.Why This MattersBullying hurts kids and dads need to know how to console them when it happens.Why Do Kids Bully?1. They're seeking power and control.2. They want attention.3. They show a learned behavior.  4. They have emotional problems. 5. They lack social skills and empathy. Common Types of Bullying1. Verbal – This is common with, but not exclusive to, younger age groups. 2. Physical – This should not be tolerated. Alert teachers or coaches if this is happening to your child.3. Emotional – The impacts of bullying on mental health can be devastating. Action Steps for Dads1: Be a support person for your child.Create a safe space for them to talk and share their pain, struggles, and failures. Say things like, “I will help you stay positive when things are hard.”2: Talk about bullying and what it looks like. Kids are more likely to talk about bullying if you ask them questions about others, like “how do the people at school treat each other?” Eventually, move the conversation to them. 3: Model empathy. Show your kids how to treat people with kindness, care, and empathy.  Important Episode Timestamps00:01:05 – 03:04 | Could Your Kid Be the Bully? 03:04 – 05:16 | Why We Assume Bullying Is Always Someone Else's Kid05:16 – 09:00 | Why Do Kids Bully?09:00 – 11:22 | The Difference Between Teasing and Bullying11:22 – 13:58 | How Parents Accidentally Enable Bullying13:58 – 16:14 | Teaching Empathy Instead of Just Punishment16:14 – 18:41 | How To Handle a Bully18:41 – 21:03 | Taking Responsibility and Making It Right21:03 – End | Raising Kids Who Use Strength the Right WayAPD Pro Move:Ask your kids about how people treat one another at their school. Have a conversation about bullying this week and see what you can uncover about their world. All Pro Dad ResourcesEpisode 102 – We love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

This week on The Show, we're joined by team roping standout Joseph Harrison. Over the course of his career, Joseph has competed on some of rodeo's biggest stages, including six NFR qualifications and a win at The American Rodeo. He has built a reputation for skill, consistency, and a deep respect for the sport. More recently, he's turned his focus to the futurity world, developing young rope horses and shaping the next generation of competitors.In this episode, Joseph shares how he first got started in roping, what it was like spending a decade working for Bobby Lewis, and the lessons that shaped both his riding and his approach to horses. He also reflects on the evolution of the team roping industry and offers insight into life on the rodeo road versus life training futurity horses—from long miles in the truck to long hours in the arena.The conversation also touches on the similarities and differences between the roping and reining industries, giving listeners a behind-the-scenes perspective on what it takes to succeed in both arenas.With plenty of laughs, honest stories, and practical insight, this episode offers a thoughtful look at what it takes to build a lasting career in the rope horse world.Thanks for joining us, Joseph! We really appreciate you sharing your story.

Caribbean vacations are great, but that's not where our marriages get strengthened. It's the everyday affections and moments of connection that keep our relationships strong. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about ways to show our wives we love them every day.Why This MattersHusbands should aim to make their wives feel loved every day.Key Takeaways·      Love is a basic human need.·      Everyday affection beats infrequent, grand gestures·      Connection is built in small, consistent moments. Practical Tips for Husbands1. Handle conflict with kindness.2. Respond to her bids for connection.3. Celebrate her wins.4. Laugh together.5. Show love through non-sexual touch.Important Episode Timestamps00:03:11 – 04:10 | Why Small Acts Matter More Than Big Gestures04:10 – 05:09 | Radical Selflessness Builds Strong Marriages05:57 – 06:47 | How You Start Conflict Predicts Marriage Health06:47 – 07:41 | Handling Conflict With Gentleness Instead of Negativity11:48 – 12:11 | Responding to Your Wife's Bids for Connection12:11 – 12:59 | The “Stop and Drop” Rule for Husbands14:09 – 15:21 | Celebrating Your Wife's Wins Builds Intimacy18:00 – 19:04 | Why Non-Sexual Touch Is So Important in Marriage19:04 – 19:39 | The Power of a 20-Second Hug21:37 – End | Choosing Daily Connection Over AutopilotAPD Pro Move:This week, choose to do one of the five actions steps with your wife. All Pro Dad ResourcesEpisode 91 – Is There a Secret to Balancing Marriage and Fatherhood?Episode 101 – How Does Having Kids Change Your Marriage?Episode 105 – How Do I Keep Fighting For My Marriage?How 4 Minutes 4 Times a Day Can Protect Your MarriageWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

National pizza day. Entertainment from 1997. 1st federal drug law, Volleyball invented, Electiona of 1825, fastest yodeler with a cigerette in his mouth. Todays birthdays - William Henry Harrison, Carmin Miranda, Ernest Tubb, Bobby Lewis, Carol King, Joe Pesci, Judith Light, Holly Johnson, Travis Tritt, Michael B. Jordan. Bill Haley died.Intro - God did good - Dianna Corcoran  Dianna on SpotifyPizza party - The Royal HoundsUnbreak my heart - Toni BraxtonIt's a little to late - Mark ChestnutBirthdays - In da club - 50 Cent      http://50cent.com/Chicka Chicka Boom - Carmin MirandaWalking the floor over you - Ernest TubbTossin & Turnin - Bobby LewisIt's too late - Carol KingRelax - Frankie goes to HollywoodHere's a quarter - Travis TrittRock around the clock - Bill Haley & the Cometscountryundergroundradio.comHistory & Factoids about today webpagecooolmedia.com

Is your kid afraid to go an aisle away at the grocery store? Perform on stage in front of peers? Get their driver's license? When do we push them to do things that are good for them? In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about encouraging growth in kids by pushing them out of their comfort zones.Why This MattersWhen kids stay in their comfort zones, they delay growth.Key Takeaways·      Kids crave comfort: For a lot of kids, it's easier to stick with what is familiar than embrace what is new and unknown.·      Watch your approach: Pushing kids must be done in love. Encourage more than you challenge.Practical Tips for Dads1. Push kids only in manageable areas.2. Remind them that failure is acceptable. 3. Always encourage before, during, and after a push. 4. Push then debrief. Important Episode Timestamps00:02:42 – 04:10 | When Parents Are Too Involved in Their Kids' Lives04:10 – 05:55 | Why Employers Don't Want Parents Involved05:55 – 06:35 | Feeling Incompetent Is Part of Growing Up06:35 – 07:28 | Freedom Requires Responsibility and Risk07:28 – 08:26 | Helping Kids Face Fear After Failure10:33 – 11:55 | How Parents Gradually Get Out of the Way15:35 – 16:44 | Asking Kids What They Want Out of Life16:44 – 18:35 | Teaching Teens How to Be Uncomfortable Without Phones18:59 – 19:18 | Rewarding Kids for Facing Discomfort21:02 – End | When Pushing Too Hard Can BackfireAPD Pro Move:Ask your kid, “What is your biggest challenge right now?” Then help them make a plan to overcome that challenge.All Pro Dad ResourcesEpisode 59 – How Do We Inspire Motivation in Our Kids?Episode 86 – Kathleen Edelman: Learn and Leverage Your Kids' Natural WiringMark Merrill: How To Be Your Child's Biggest FanDan Orlovsky: 3 Inspiring Ways to Motivate Your KidsWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

Do you put pressure on yourself to be perfect? Not only is that impossible, but it's a dangerous goal for dads. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about the myth of perfection, navigating our flaws, and being our best for our family.  Why This MattersYou don't have to be perfect to be the perfect dad for your kids. What Do Dads Struggle With The Most? Wanting their kids to have a good lifeAiming to overcome mistakesRecognizing that being a dad is a serious jobWho Feels The Pressure?In 2018, the American Psychological Association found that “Perfectionism among (college students) significantly increased since the 1980s.” Nearly a decade later, those students are now adults and likely parents. This was 8 years ago… which means those same young people who craved perfection in 2018 are likely now parents. Are they striving to be perfect parents, too?What Makes a Perfect Father?Someone who is active, present, and cares about his kidsSomeone who understands being “perfect” adds incredible pressure. Someone committed to doing their best for his kids. Important Episode Timestamps00:00 – 03:24 | Why Dads Feel Pressure to Be Perfect03:24 – 05:31 | What Our Own Dads Modeled for Us05:31 – 07:19 | Perfectionism Is Increasing—And Parents Are Feeling It07:19 – 09:50 | Social Media Makes Dads Feel Like Failures09:50 – 11:36 | Every Dad Brings Something Different to the Table11:36 – 13:53 | How Dad Pressure Becomes Kid Pressure.13:53 – 15:31 | Your Kids Don't Want Perfect—They Want Present15:31 – 17:20 | Why Perfectionism Makes Dads Defensive17:20 – 23:51 | The Emotional Cost of Perfectionism in Parenting23:51 – End | Consistency Beats Perfection Every TimeAPD Pro Move:Make a list of the times you've failed as a dad. Give yourself grace for those moments and stop putting so much pressure on yourself as a dad.All Pro Dad ResourcesEpisode 107 – What Do I Do When I've Messed Up As A Dad?13 Ps All Dads Must BeWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

Today's speaker is Dr. Bobby Lewis, Senior Pastor of Grace Baptist Church in Knoxville, TN. Speaking from Matthew 14:22-33, Pastor Lewis shares that in times of fear and uncertainty, we can rest in God's power and presence.

Today's speaker is Dr. Bobby Lewis, Senior Pastor of Grace Baptist Church in Knoxville, TN. Pastor Lewis encourages us to be obedient to God, regardless of our level of understanding. Time spent in God's Word and prayer will steer us toward full surrender to Him. Pastor Lewis' text is Genesis 12:1-20.

Child grooming is a serious issue and much more common than most dads realize. About 90% of victims are groomed by someone they know. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about how to protect your kids from child grooming. Why This MattersGrooming can feel like an “it will never happen to me” thing, but it's much more common than most dads know. Key Takeaways·      Grooming happens primarily online: According to the Child Crime Prevention and Safety Center, there are an estimated 500,000 predators online every day.·      Groomers play the long game: Predators often invest years in grooming victims.·      Groomers use tools: The most common are online anonymity, establishing trust, pushing isolation, and finding leverage. They then attempt to push physical boundaries.Signs of Grooming Dads Should Know1. LOOK FOR when your child receives a lot of attention from a person.2. LOOK FOR when your child becomes isolated.3. LOOK FOR when your child exhibits unusual behavior.4. LOOK FOR when your child becomes more desensitized to crude humor and content.5. LOOK FOR when your child has an aversion to a certain person.Important Episode Timestamps00:00 – 01:09 | What Is Grooming? A Clear Definition for Parents01:09 – 02:46 | The Larry Nassar Case and Why It Still Matters to Dads02:46 – 05:08 | Grooming Doesn't Look Like a Stranger in a Van05:08 – 10:39 | Online Grooming and the Danger of Anonymity10:39 – 12:21 | To Catch a Predator Was Just the Beginning12:21 – 15:14 | Real-Life Grooming Stories from Trusted Adults15:14 – 16:36 | Isolation Is the Biggest Red Flag16:36 – 17:57 | Behavioral Changes That Signal Possible Grooming17:57 – End | Teaching Kids Boundaries, Consent, and Trusting Their InstinctsAPD Pro Move:Talk to your kids about these tactics so they know what's appropriate and what's not.All Pro Dad ResourcesEpisode 66 – How To Talk To Your Kids About Sex5 Lies Teen Boys Believe About SexWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

Kids' fears grow up with them. Babies fear loud noises and separation, young kids battle monsters in the dark, and older kids worry about fitting in at school. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about our kids' fears and how dads can help guide them through it all.  Why This MattersWhen kids are afraid, they need help processing their feelings.Key Takeaways·      Fear and worry are different: Fear is a present problem while worry is a future problem. ·      Bullying is #1: Pew Research conducted between 2020–25 showed virtually all kids fear being bullied.·      Failure is terrifying: As kids age, the idea they won't succeed becomes a major fear for many kids.Practical Tips for DadsWhen your kids are fearful, try these action steps:1. Acknowledge Their Fear.2. Ask Why This Scares Them.3. Consider Your Words.Important Episode Timestamps00:00 – 02:33 | Childhood Fears That Stick With Us02:33 – 05:36 | Fear of Losing Parents as a Kid05:36 – 07:11 | Common Fears Kids Have Today07:11 – 09:01 | When Childhood Fear Turns Serious09:01 – 11:54 | Fear vs. Courage: What Dads Should Teach Kids11:54 – 13:36 | How Fear of Failure Starts Early13:36 – 15:32 | How to Talk to Kids About Fear15:32 – 17:20 | How Parents Accidentally Create Anxiety17:20 – 21:22 | Why Overprotecting Kids Backfires21:22 – End | Helping Kids Build Courage and ResilienceAPD Pro Move:The next time your kids say they're afraid, tell them about a time you were afraid. Tell them how you showed bravery in the moment and encourage them to do the same.All Pro Dad ResourcesEpisode 2: How Can I Help My Anxious Kid?4 Responses That Turn Scared Kids Into Brave Kids5 Ways to Raise A Son Who'll Overcome His Fears5 Fears We Pass On To Our KidsThe 9 Most Common Childhood Fears ExplainedWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

Finances. Job performance. Relationship strife. All of those things impact your stress. Do you know how to handle it? In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about the plague of dad stress and how vital it is for men to manage it well. Why This MattersWhen you're stressed out, you're not at your best for your kids.Key Takeaways·      There's no single culprit: Finances, their jobs, and relationships are consistently listed as the top three stressors for men.·      There are 3 kinds of stress: Acute, episodic, and chronic. All three impact dads differently. ·      There are ways to deal with it: Methods like slow breathing and pausing help men manage their stress. ·      Short-term stress can be good: It helps your immune system fight. Stress Relief for Dads: Simple Mental Health Tips That Actually Work1. When you're stressed, breathe.2. Name your stress.3. Talk about it.4. Pour into yourselfImportant Episode Timestamps00:00 – 02:40 | Stressed-Out Dads and Teenage Reactions02:40 – 05:42 | “I'm More Stressed Than I Realize”05:42 – 07:03 | What Stress Really Is07:03 – 10:10 | The Top 3 Stressors for Men10:10 – 11:38 | The Work–Life Balance Spiral11:38 – 14:11 | When Your Stress Spills Onto Your Family14:11 – 16:48 | Kids Know When Dad Is Stressed—Even If He Doesn't16:48 – 20:26 | You're Modeling Stress Management20:26 – 23:50 | Real, Scientific Breathing23:50 – End | Becoming a Calmer DadAPD Pro Move:1) Practice breathing. Inhale twice and exhale slowly. 2) Find a trusted person you can lean on to talk about your stress.All Pro Dad Resources:Episode 31 – Tony Dungy: Is Work-Life Balance Even Possible?5 Things You Don't Need to Stress About as a DadHow to Reduce the Stress Level in Your LifeiMOM Feel WheelWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

Kids are living online, so it makes sense they want to get in on the fun. In a 2023 poll by Morning Consult, more than half of kids said they wanted to be social media influencers. As a dad, would you support that dream? In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about the dangers that come with being social media influencers. Why This MattersKids want to be liked, so they tend to imitate the people who seem to be the most liked. What Are the Dangers of Becoming an Influencer?1. SafetyThe Wall Street Journal reported in 2024 that the followers of one particular pre-teen girl influencer was 92% adult men.2. PressureThe pressure to produce daily content, look perfect, and maintain an audience is not something kids are equipped to deal with, nor should they.3. ExploitationOnce kids start making money it's going to be hard for parents to pull the plug. The Netflix documentary Bad Influence is a perfect example.4. Negative FeedbackKids don't usually have the experience, perspective, or identity to handle negative criticism from strangers.  5. Social Media ImpactInfluencing takes place primarily on social media, which invites kids to pursue the unattainable, namely being perfect. Important Episode Timestamps00:00 – 00:36 | Childhood Dreams and Aspirations00:36 – 02:17 | The Kids Want to Be YouTubers02:17 – 03:38 | The Seven-Year-Old With 1,000 Views03:38 – 06:22 | The First Red Flag: Who's Watching Your Kids?06:22 – 07:42 | Kids Are Still Developing Identity and Belonging07:42 – 10:39 | The Hidden Weight of Early Fame10:39 – 12:25 | Disturbing Stats About Pre-Teen Influencers12:25 – 17:01 | The Exploitation Trap — When Money Clouds Judgment17:01 – 18:12 | No Laws Protect Kids Online18:12 – End | How to Respond When Your Kid Wants to Be an InfluencerAPD Pro Move:Talk with your kids about influencers. Ask them who they follow on social media, watch online, and what they think life is like for influencers.Resources: Episode 46 – How Do I Parent in a Social Media World?We love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

Modern dads are around their kids much more than men were a generation or two ago. We see their struggles more and have opportunities to fix them, but should we? In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about supporting our kids without fighting all their battles. Why This MattersOne of the best ways we can support our kids is to stand beside them as they fight their own battles. Key Takeaways·      Modern dads are more involved: Research shows dads now spend 3–4x more time with our kids than men did in the 1970s. ·      But more involved can become “too” involved: More time gave rise to helicopter, lawn mower, bulldozer, and drone parents. ·      Kids will always need support: It will change during every stage, but dads will always play a role in their kids' lives. Action Steps for Dads1. Know When To Step In2. Step In vs. Step Back3. Really Listen. 4. Helping Them Process.5. Be Their Biggest Fan.6. Letting Them Struggle.Important Episode Timestamps00:00 – 00:43 | Parenting Has Changed Drastically00:43 – 02:12 | Helicopter, Lawnmower & Bulldozer Parents02:12 – 03:38 | The Dawn of the “Drone Parent”03:38 – 07:03 | Tracking, Tech, and Emotional Helicoptering07:03 – 09:12 | Fixing vs. Helping: When Parents Do Too Much09:12 – 12:27 | The Big Question: Support or Interfere?12:27 – 16:40 | Knowing When to Step In: Safety, Severity & Seasons16:40 – 23:03 | Helping Kids Process Challenges Without Taking Over23:03 – 28:32 | Pro Move of the WeekThis week, when you are tempted to jump in, pause and see if your kid can do it on their own. More Resources:Episode 88 – Could Your Son Be Struggling in Silence?Episode 95 – What Challenges is Generation Alpha Facing? 3 Reasons Your Child Needs to Struggle5 Areas Where Your Teen Needs to StruggleWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

Have you ever messed up as a dad? Of course you have. We all have, and dad guilt is real. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about how to handle our parenting mistakes in a way that keeps us close to our kids. Why This MattersHow we respond after making a mistake shapes our relationship with our kids.Types of Dad Mess Ups1. Accidental Fails: These are NOT heart issues; these are just mistakes. 2. Emotional Mess Ups: These dismiss how your kids are feeling3. Social Mess Ups: Things that embarrass your kids. 4. Guidance Mess Ups: Giving bad advice to you're your kids. 5. Presence Mess Ups: Simply, not being there for your kids.  What is dad guilt?Dad guilty is typically defined as the feeling men have when they think they have fallen short of their desires or expectations as a parent.   How To Get Over Dad Guilt?Action Step 1: Have awareness.Action Step 2: Own your mess up.Action Step 3: Apologize.Action Step 4: Forgive yourself.Action Step 5: Plan for next time.Important Episode Timestamps 00:00 – 03:53 | The Broken Wrist Vacation Fail03:53 – 05:12 | When Kids Hide Their Pain to “Be Easy”05:12 – 06:33 | The Garage Door Face-Plant Story06:33 – 09:22 | When Your Mistake Becomes a 4,000-Pound Reminder09:22 – 11:25 | The Big Question: What Do I Do When I Mess Up as a Dad?11:25 – 13:49 | Embarrassing Kids in Public: Social Fails13:49 – 16:20 | Presence Fails: When You're There but Not Really There16:20 – 20:33 | Action Step #1: Show Awareness and Identify the Mess-Up20:33 – 25:23 | Action Step #2: Own It and Apologize Well25:23 – End | Action Step #3: Plan for Next Time and Don't Repeat the PatternAPD Pro Move:When you mess up this week, say you're sorry. Tell your child they did not deserve it and remind them that you love them. All Pro Dad Resources: Episode 106 – What Is A Passenger Parent and Am I One?We love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

We are honored to welcome Kevin Tighe, the actor who brought Roy DeSoto to life on the groundbreaking series Emergency! and whose career has spanned stage, screen, and service.Kevin takes us back to his beginnings at the Pasadena Playhouse, where he first stepped into the world of acting at just 10 years old. From there, he trained with legendary teachers Stella Adler and Bobby Lewis, absorbing the craft that would later shape his most memorable roles.He reflects on his early film work, including Yours, Mine and Ours, and shares a warm, behind-the-scenes moment with Lucille Ball. Kevin then recounts the unexpected and nerve-wracking audition process that led to Emergency! and how a chance encounter with actor David Janssen calmed his nerves and helped him nail the screen test that changed his life.Kevin discusses the legacy of Emergency! notable for the realism brought by on-set medical advisors. The show inspired a surge of interest in first responder careers, and it raised awareness of lifesaving pre-hospitalization, EMS opportunities that inspired paramedic programs throughout the country.Kevin talks candidly about the challenges he faced following Emergency!, including his struggle with fame and his move to Washington State. There, he dedicated himself to community work and played a key role in establishing Hospice of the Northwest.After decades of appearances on big and small screens with memorable roles in Roadhouse, Newsies, Law And Order SUV, Freaks and Geeks, and the list goes on, you can now see Kevin in the new Paul Thomas Anderson movie, One Battle After Another, and he shares a touching moment between himself and P.T. Anderson which allowed Kevin to create a menacing screen moment that will live in infamy. Kevin also looks back on earning his master's degree at USC and the students he taught who went on to thrive in their field. And IMDB Roulette this week is full of close calls, career achievements and reflections on the early promise of today's biggest stars. All that PLUS, Emergency! Guest Star Roulette!Also, filmmaker Susie Singer Carter is with us to discuss her movie, No Country For Old People, streaming on Amazon Prime.In current media-- Fritz: The book Injustice by Carol Leonnig and Aaron DavisWeezy: The documentary Paul Anka: His Way on HBO MaxPath Points of Interest:Kevin Tighe on WikipediaOne Battle After AnotherKevin Tighe on IMDBHospice of the North WestNo Country for Old PeopleInjustice  by Carol Leonnig and Aaron DavisPaul Anka: His Way

Are you a passenger parent? Yes, that's a real thing. If you're deferring to mom all the time or around your kids but not really engaged with them, you could be a passenger parent—just along for the ride. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about how to avoid falling into this trap and staying fully engaged with our family. Why This MattersOur kids need us to be fully engaged dads, not part-time parents. What causes passenger parenting? Research says...1.    Lack of Confidence2.    Fear of Criticism3.    Cultural Conditioning4.    Overwhelm and Distraction5.    No Shared Game PlanAction Steps for Dads1: Step in without being asked.Take initiative on tasks like meals, bedtime, or school runs.2: Take full responsibility for some things.Own a specific area, like sports schedules or bath time, from start to finish.3: Learn the details.Know your kids' routines, needs, and important dates so you can act without reminders.4: Stay engaged. Put away distractions, focus on your kids and what's happening in the moment.5: Plan together.Have regular check-ins with your wife to divide responsibilities and make adjustments.Important Episode Timestamps00:00 – 02:21 | The Viral Mime Video and Dad Judgment02:21 – 03:12 | What is Passenger Parenting?03:12 – 04:01 | Five Signs You Might Be a Passenger Parent04:01 – 05:21 | When Dad Checks Out Without Realizing It05:21 – 07:17 | Why Moms Often Know More07:17 – 08:20 | Solo Parenting Reveals the Gaps08:20 – 09:14 | Three Questions Every Dad Should Ask Himself09:14 – 13:07 | Don't Wait Until Your Wife Hits a Breaking Point13:07 – End | Developing Shared Leadership at HomeAPD Pro Move:Schedule a conversation with your wife and ask, “Do you see me as a passenger parent?”All Pro Dad Resources:Episode 92 – What's the Best Part About Raising Boys?Episode 97 – What's the Best Part About Being a Girl Dad?We love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

Very few Hoosiers are aware of the Avenue's important rock and roll history. This week on Echoes of Indiana Avenue, we'll pay tribute to the early rock and roll heroes of Naptown, including music from Roosevelt Johnson, Toni Cavanaugh, Lois Blaine, Thurston Harris, Tiny Brown, Bobby Lewis and more.

Is my child too spoiled? If you're even asking, that means you're spending a good amount of money on your kids. We get it. Youth sports, music lessons, and all those extracurriculars add up, but does that equal a spoiled kid? In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about how much we're spending on our children and if that's even a bad thing. Why This MattersStewarding our money well is one way we love our families. Potential Problems of Overspending on Our Kids1. Kids may get used to receiving all the time.2. It demonstrates a lack of self-control by Dad. 3. It contributes to kids' anxious feelings. 4. Parents may feel financial strain. 5. The line between need and want gets blurred. What Can Dads Do?Action Step 1: Take a hard look at your spending habits around your child. Is it excessive? Action Step 2: Take a hard look at what your spending habits around your kids is doing to you. Are you overextended and stressed out about money? Important Episode Timestamps00:00 – 01:19 | How Much Are We Really Spending on Our Kids?01:19 – 03:51 | Am I Overspending or Just Feeding Them?03:51 – 05:35 | Theme Parks, Passes, and Pricey Memories05:35 – 09:03 | Did Our Parents Overspend? Not Even Close09:03 – 10:37 | The Gas-Money Jar Strategy10:37 – 13:48 | “This Isn't Fair!” and the Car Lesson That Stuck13:48 – 17:53 | Overspending Sets an Example—Good or Bad17:53 – 21:20 | Needs vs. Wants: The Hockey Equipment Breakdown21:20 – 25:57 | Am I Buying This for Them… or for Me?25:57 – End | Pro Move: Identify 2-3 significant items or experiences you've provided for your child, and ask yourself: What lesson is it teaching them about money, patience, and value? If the answer isn't clear, or feels negative, hit the brakes and reconsider. All Pro Dad Resources Episode 56: Dale Alexander: How Do We Teach Our Kids About Money?Episode 57: Dale Alexander: What Should Ever Dad Know About Managing Money?3 Ways to Think Differently About YourWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

“She's the most beautiful girl in town. That makes her the best, and don't I deserve the best?” Remember that line from Gaston in Beauty and the Beast? It probably doesn't register as disrespectful with kids, but it certainly is. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about how to raise sons to respect women.Why This Matters·       Boys have mothers and sisters, who are worthy of respect.·       Boys will date girls, who are worthy of respect.·       Boys may one day have wives, who will be worthy of respect.If you're wondering what do to teach your sons about respecting women, you're not alone. Start here:1. Point out problematic phrases directed at women:Objectifying, controlling, and sexualized language is not respectful.  2. Listen to girls/women:  When a girl says “____,” respect her wishes. No means no.3. Set a standard:Model respect with the women you interact with. Show respect with your words, actions, and entertainment decisions. Your sons will see that. 4. Follow the standard, not the crowd:Remind kids that they don't have to go along with what other boys accept, popularize, or glamorize about women.   Important Episode Timestamps 00:00 – 01:20 | Hidden Messages Are Everywhere01:20 – 02:43 | Teaching Kids to See Value Beyond Looks02:43 – 04:42 | Reducing People to Appearances04:42 – 08:09 | Respect Starts at Home08:09 – 09:47 | A Friend's Dating Frustration09:47 – 12:18 | Boys, Teasing, and Early Lessons in Respect12:18 – 15:25 | Is Respect Instinctive or Taught?15:25 – 17:33 | Setting Boundaries for Sons17:33 – 20:21 | Listen When Women Speak20:21 – End | Raising Sons Who Honor Future WivesAPD Pro Move:Challenge your son(s) to talk to a girl he knows and ask her if she feels respected by boys. Encourage him to listen and respond kindly.Listen Again:Episode 99 – Should Dads Be Worried About the Manosphere?4 Boy Stereotypes to Dispel For Your Son5 Ways toWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

Indiana Avenue played an important role in the development of rock and roll. Artists like Chuck Berry, Little Richard and Fats Domino played their first Indiana concerts on the Avenue, and Naptown artists like the Ink Spots, and Leroy Carr influenced the development of rock and roll. But very few Hoosiers are aware of the Avenue's important rock and roll history. This week on Echoes of Indiana Avenue, we'll pay tribute to the early rock and roll heroes of Naptown, including music from Roosevelt Johnson, Toni Cavanaugh, Lois Blaine, Thurston Harris, Tiny Brown, Bobby Lewis and more.

We've all been there. Your kids are fighting AGAIN—this time over something even more frustrating than earlier today. The noise and sour feelings leave you wondering if there will ever be peace in your home. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about the understandable reasons kids fail to get along and pitch ideas to fix it.Why This MattersKids who get along now are more likely to stay friends as adults. Kids Don't Get Along Because…·      They both want the same thing·      They think it's not fair·      They have different personalities·      They're at different ages·      They haven't learned how to share or solve problemsPractical Tips for Dads1: Get proactive.Model how to act during conflict, celebrate their strengths, make sure everyone gets “dad time,” talk about how to get along during calm moments, compliment them when they are getting along, and beware of how life events can impact behavior. 2: Get involved.Inject yourself when you need to, but stay calm, take breaks to avoid saying things you don't mean, attack them problem (not them), and find solutions together. 3: Know when it is time to seek help.Sometimes, constant conflict requires professional help. Seek counsel if there is physical abuse in your home. Important Episode Timestamps 00:00 – 01:13 | Why Sibling Relationships Matter So Much01:13 – 02:35 | When “Horseplay” Crosses the Line02:35 – 03:09 | Every Family Deals With It03:09 – 05:04 | Why Kids Don't Get Along05:04 – 07:15 | The Age Gap Struggle07:15 – 08:46 | Rejection Hurts Most at Home08:46 – 10:06 | Step 1: Model Healthy Conflict10:06 – 12:04 | Step 2: Create “Me and Dad” Time12:04 – 16:10 | Step 3: Teach Through Calm Moments16:10 – End | Step 4: Know When to Get HelpAPD Pro Move:Create a family rule or motto for how you plan to treat each other.All Pro Dad Resources10 Ways to Curb Sibling RivalryHow to Stop Backseat BickeringWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

Ever tried to have a quiet conversation with your wife while a toddler was around? Good luck. We love kids, but they sure can get in the way sometimes. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about the threats parenting presents to marriage. Why This MattersMarriages change after you have kids. Men must prioritize their relationship with their wives in order to weather the challenges that parenting presents. Common Threats to Marriage After Becoming a Dad·      Exhaustion: Kids wear us out physically, emotionally, and mentally. That impacts your marriage. ·      New areas of conflict: Arguments can get us thinking “me” not “we.”·      Losing sight of each other: Don't live like roommates. Set aside intentional time to connect with your wife. ·      Mis-ordered priorities: Our wives' needs should always come before kids'. ·      Forgetting you're a team: Work together with your wife to raise kids well. Important Episode Timestamps00:00 – 02:03 | Anniversary Plans Gone Wrong02:03 – 05:15 | When Kids Interrupt Everything05:15 – 07:02 | Life Before and After Kids07:02 – 09:20 | The Big Question: What Threats Do Kids Bring to Marriage?09:20 – 13:31 | Threat #1: Exhaustion13:31 – 17:12 | The Power of Prioritizing Date Night17:12 – 22:13 | Threat #2: New Arenas for Conflict22:13 – 26:33 | Threat #3: Living Like Roommates26:33 – 33:15 | Threat #4: Misordered Priorities33:15 – End | Pro Move of the Week: Put your wife first this week. Plan a date. Schedule quiet time together. Remind her that she is your top priority.All Pro Dad Resources:Episode 70 – What Do Happily Married Couples Think About?Episode 48 – How Do I Overcome Challenges in My Marriage?5 Threats Parenting Presents to Marriage5 Barriers to Fun in Your Marriage9 Ways to We love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

“Money doesn't grow on trees! Pull my finger!” Some dad phrases are goofy. But others? They can be quite hurtful, even if we don't mean for them to be. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about common phrases we need to cut out.Why This MattersWords aren't neutral with our kids. They are either helpful or hurtful.Phrases That Make Kids Feel Small and Unheard1. "Stop crying or I'll give you something to cry about." Instead, try: "It's okay to feel sad/frustrated/scared. Tell me what's going on." 2. “What's wrong with you?”Instead, try: "That choice wasn't like you. Help me understand what happened. Phrases That Can Hurt Our Connection With Our Kids3. "When I was your age…" Instead, try: "You are growing up in a different world than I did.  Explain it to me like I'm a martian. 4. “You are making me crazy.”Instead, try: "I'm feeling really frustrated right now. I need a minute, and then we can talk about.” Phrases That Can Mess Up How Our Kids See Authority and Even God5. "Because I said so." Instead, try: "Focus on natural consequences and clear boundaries: "If you don't pick up your toys, they'll be put away for a week."6. “I'm disappointed in you.”Instead, try: "I'm disappointed with that choice you made, and I know you can do better."Important Episode Timestamps 00:00 – 02:36 | Dad Phrases We All Say02:36 – 04:09 | Southern Sayings and Dad Humor04:09 – 05:08 | The Big Question: What Should Dads Stop Saying?05:08 – 08:52 | “Stop Crying or I'll Give You Something to Cry About”08:52 – 10:00 | “What's Wrong with You?” and “What Were You Thinking?”10:00 – 13:05 | “When I Was Your Age” and “You're Making Me Crazy”13:05 – 17:52 | “Because I Said So” and the Problem with Authority17:52 – End | “I'm Disappointed in You” and the Weight of WordsAPD Pro Move:This week, before you correct, question, or even joke with your child, pause for just one second and ask yourself, 'Is what I'm about to say hurtful or helpful for my kid?All Pro Dad Resources:Episode 61 – What ProbWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

If your son has a TikTok or Instagram account, he's likely aware of the manosphere. Even if he's off social media, his friends probably aren't. The world of hyper masculine, misogynistic, anti-feminist content is becoming increasingly popular with young men, but why? In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about the dangerous content of the manosphere and how it's resonating with boys and young men.Why This MattersThere's nothing beneficial about the manosphere, so we should learn how to help our family avoid its poison. What Do Most Boys Want?Kids, especially boys, are asking themselves these questions:1. “Who am I?”Boys are looking for identity.2. “Where do I belong?”Boys want to fit in.3. “How do I influence the world?”Boys are looking to leave their mark. Important Episode Timestamps00:00 – 02:03 | What Is the Manosphere?The hosts define key terms and unpack how online communities shape men's beliefs about masculinity.02:03 – 04:11 | The Good, the Bad, and the ConfusingThe dads tackle the mixed messages the manosphere sends.04:11 – 06:32 | When Men Feel UnseenMany men turn to the manosphere when they feel misunderstood by culture.06:32 – 09:15 | Influencers and Echo ChambersCertain voices online gain power by amplifying anger and oversimplifying manhood.09:15 – 12:05 | Real Strength vs. Online PosturingAuthentic masculinity is marked by service and humility.12:05 – 15:12 | Why Young Men Are VulnerableLoneliness, fatherlessness, and social media pull teens into toxic content.15:12 – 18:37 | Calling Dads to EngageFathers must teach boys what real manhood looks like.18:37 – 22:43 | Modeling Healthy MasculinityThe dads share stories and practical ways to show strength through gentleness and integrity.22:43 – End | Pro Move: “Ask your son who he is following on social media. Ask him if he's heard of the manosphere, incels, and “red pills” and find out what he thinks about it.”All Pro Dad Resources5 Ways We Want Our Sons to Rethink Manhood5 Destructive Messages We Send Our SonsWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

Search “songs about daughters” on Spotify. There's no shortage of lyrics about a dads' love for his little girls. That bond is worth singing about! In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about the responsibility of being a girl dad and all the fun, challenges, and joys that come with it.Why This MattersThrough their behavior and intention, dads demonstrate to daughters how they should be treated, valued, and loved. Key Takeaways·      National Institute for Health: “Girls report higher levels of self-esteem when they perceive their dads as active and helpful.”·      Institute for Family Studies: “Well-fathered daughters are less likely to get pregnant as teenagers.”Truths about Dads and Daughters1. Girls will see Dad as the male standard2. Girls tend to be sweeter than boys 3. They open up a new world4. Being the protector and comforter 5. Girls make you a better man6. It's fun to be their cheerleaderImportant Episode Timestamps00:00 – 00:43 | Butterfly Kisses and Dad Emotions00:43 – 02:21 | Music, Memories, and Growing Up02:21 – 04:44 | Little Moments That Hit Hard04:44 – 06:20 | Daddy-Daughter Dance Memories06:20 – 09:11 | Our Daughters' First Love09:11 – 11:42 | Setting the Standard for Relationships11:42 – 13:49 | Protector and Comforter13:49 – 16:24 | Sensitivity and Emotional Intelligence16:24 – 19:05 | Daughters Change Dads19:05 – End | Pro Move of the Week:Set aside 1-on-1 time this week with each of your daughters. Let them set the agenda and just enjoy being with your girl.Sponsor:The All Pro Dad Podcast is proudly brought to you by Family First, a nonprofit dedicated to equipping parents with resources to strengthen their families. Learn more at FamilyFirst.net.All Pro Dad Resources:How to Have An Adventure With Your Daughter7 Father–Daughter Bonding ActivitiesDaddy–DWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

Sunday Night Worship Service - October 5th, 2025 Pastor Bobby Lewis If Only The Wounded Are Left Jeremiah 37

We've all heard the old saying, “Silence is golden.” And sometimes, it absolutely is. But when Dad doesn't know what to say or do, how does that impact his kids? In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about dads being distracted, dumbfounded, and disengaged. Why This MattersSilent dads are distant dads, and kids don't need distance. They thrive on connection. 3 Kinds of Dad Silence1. Distracted Dad This happens when dads are physically present but mentally absent. 2. Dumbfounded Dad This happens when dads get totally stumped or confused by something their kid does. 3. Disengaged DadThis dad might take care of the essentials, but he's usually not invested in his kids' daily life. Action Steps for Each DadIf you're prone to silence, follow these steps:For the Distracted Dad:1.    Put down the device2.    Make eye contact3.    Repeat back what they said4.    Schedule "connection time"For the Dumbfounded Dad:1.    Embrace "I don't know"For the Disengaged Dad:1.    Acknowledge your state2.    Ask open-ended questions3.    Use "I" statements for feelingsImportant Episode Timestamps00:19 – 02:26 | Was Your Dad Talkative or Quiet?02:26 – 03:21 | The Problem of Dad Silence03:21 – 04:59 | Everyday Distractions05:00 – 06:36 | The Distracted Dad06:36 – 08:07 | The Fallout of Distraction08:07 – 13:25 | The Dumbfounded Dad13:25 – 16:12 | The Power of Saying ‘I Don't Know'16:12 – 17:30 | The Disengaged Dad17:50 – 22:41 | Action Steps for Each Dad Type23:00 – End | Pro Move of the WeekAll Pro Dad Resources:7 Ways to Instantly Improve Your Relationship With Your Kids 5 Dangers of Distracted ParentingThe Secret Wish of Every Teenager3 Reasons You Need to Be the Calmest Person in the RoomWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

Kids these days, right? Each new generation is presented with challenges. Generation Alpha is facing some big ones, and dads need to understand them all. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about how we can support our kids and grandkids through all their battles. Why This MattersThe better we understand this generation, the better we can love them. Who Is Generation Alpha? ·      These kids were born between 2010 and 2024·      They are largely the children of millennials·      They are the most diverse generation in U.S. history·      One of the biggest differences between Gen Z and Gen Alpha is the emergence of AI as an everyday factor of life·      58% of Generation Alpha gets a smartphone before age 10Issues Gen Alpha is Facing1. Lack of Coping Skills2. Rise of Subjective Truth3. An Increasingly Complex World4. Isolation5. Negative Effects of ScreensAction Steps for Dads1. Give more freedom where appropriate.2. Teach your kids that we cannot trust our own hearts.3. Take inventory of what information they ingest.4. Encourage face-to-face interaction.5. Set boundaries around screen time.Important Episode Timestamps00:00 – 02:25 | Meet Gen Alpha02:25 – 02:51 | Big Question of the Day07:24 – 09:04 | Teaching Truth in a Confusing World12:14 – 13:43 | The Dating Homework Assignment14:31 – 16:36 | Growing Up on Screens17:40 – 19:25 | The Pocket Knife Lesson21:37 – 22:10 | “Follow Your Heart” Isn't Enough23:12 – 25:40 | Setting Boundaries Around Screens26:00 – End | Pro Move: Pick one person in your kids' life and set up an in-person hang out with them.  All Pro Dad Resources:Episode 44 – How is Your Phone Use Affecting Your Kid?Episode 39 – Is My Kid Addicted to Screen Time?5 Challenges We Need to Help Generation Alpha Face4 Warning Bells as AI Continues to Influence the WorldWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com

Bobby Lewis, CS, from Buena Vista, Colorado, USAYou can read Bobby's article in The Christian Science Monitor.

“I would encourage you, as I do if you're an actor, to know your own equipment, know your own psychology, and use the great teachers that are synthesized in my favorite teacher's book, Moss, who I studied with later. There is a book called Intent to Live that distills down Uta Hagen, Stella Adler, Bobby Lewis, and Stanislavski. The great teachers at the Group Theatre believed that the method needed to be altered to be constructive rather than destructive to artists.David Milch's mind is so singular because he uses language in a way that defines character. That's what all good writers do: use language to get to the heart of something. He would use malapropisms to make up words, and Milch loved playing with that. As someone who played the love interest of such a unique character as Andy Sipowicz, I found it fascinating.Through Sylvia and David Milch's understanding, his wife humanized him. Sipowicz was portrayed as an addict, a very flawed human who had many addictions. David Milch is now suffering from Alzheimer's, so we won't get his words again. However, the words that he has to offer are timeless because he studied Robert Penn Warren and had many mentors throughout his vast literary education. That is key. I love speaking Noël Coward's words. As a bon vivant, he wrote musically, to charm us and amuse us. So going and reading Noël Coward is important for actors to learn those cadences and the musicality of a certain era. Of course, Shakespeare comes to mind. I also think of the female playwrights who delight me now, whether it's Caryl Churchill. She has that singular mind and plays with gender so well, challenging gender norms. Seeing ‘Cloud Nine' when I was in college blew my mind open because men were playing women and women were playing men. Of course, Shakespeare was doing it too, but her work felt more intimate; it was in a small theater. That's another thing I encourage actors and audiences to do: go see things in small theaters. See it up close because that will excite you and help you learn the craft.”Sharon Lawrence is an acclaimed actress best known for her Emmy-nominated, SAG Award-winning role as ADA Sylvia Costas on NYPD Blue. She has delivered memorable performances in Desperate Housewives, Monk, Law & Order: SVU, Criminal Minds, Shameless, and Queen Sugar. On stage, she's earned praise for roles in The Shot (a one-woman play about the owner/publisher of the Washington Post, Katharine Graham), Orson's Shadow, and A Song at Twilight. Shestarred in Broadway revivals of Cabaret, Chicago, and Fiddler on the Roof. Her recent work includes the neo-Western series Joe Pickett, opposite Michael Dorman, and the films Solace with Anthony Hopkins and The Bridge Partner. Lawrence is also a dedicated advocate, serving on the boards of the SAG-AFTRA Foundation, WeForShe, and Heal the Bay, and is a former Chair of the Women In Film Foundation.Episode Websitewww.creativeprocess.info/podInstagram@sharonelawrence@creativeprocesspodcast

“I would encourage you, as I do if you're an actor, to know your own equipment, know your own psychology, and use the great teachers that are synthesized in my favorite teacher's book, Moss, who I studied with later. There is a book called Intent to Live that distills down Uta Hagen, Stella Adler, Bobby Lewis, and Stanislavski. The great teachers at the Group Theatre believed that the method needed to be altered to be constructive rather than destructive to artists.David Milch's mind is so singular because he uses language in a way that defines character. That's what all good writers do: use language to get to the heart of something. He would use malapropisms to make up words, and Milch loved playing with that. As someone who played the love interest of such a unique character as Andy Sipowicz, I found it fascinating.Through Sylvia and David Milch's understanding, his wife humanized him. Sipowicz was portrayed as an addict, a very flawed human who had many addictions. David Milch is now suffering from Alzheimer's, so we won't get his words again. However, the words that he has to offer are timeless because he studied Robert Penn Warren and had many mentors throughout his vast literary education. That is key. I love speaking Noël Coward's words. As a bon vivant, he wrote musically, to charm us and amuse us. So going and reading Noël Coward is important for actors to learn those cadences and the musicality of a certain era. Of course, Shakespeare comes to mind. I also think of the female playwrights who delight me now, whether it's Caryl Churchill. She has that singular mind and plays with gender so well, challenging gender norms. Seeing ‘Cloud Nine' when I was in college blew my mind open because men were playing women and women were playing men. Of course, Shakespeare was doing it too, but her work felt more intimate; it was in a small theater. That's another thing I encourage actors and audiences to do: go see things in small theaters. See it up close because that will excite you and help you learn the craft.”Sharon Lawrence is an acclaimed actress best known for her Emmy-nominated, SAG Award-winning role as ADA Sylvia Costas on NYPD Blue. She has delivered memorable performances in Desperate Housewives, Monk, Law & Order: SVU, Criminal Minds, Shameless, and Queen Sugar. On stage, she's earned praise for roles in The Shot (a one-woman play about the owner/publisher of the Washington Post, Katharine Graham), Orson's Shadow, and A Song at Twilight. Shestarred in Broadway revivals of Cabaret, Chicago, and Fiddler on the Roof. Her recent work includes the neo-Western series Joe Pickett, opposite Michael Dorman, and the films Solace with Anthony Hopkins and The Bridge Partner. Lawrence is also a dedicated advocate, serving on the boards of the SAG-AFTRA Foundation, WeForShe, and Heal the Bay, and is a former Chair of the Women In Film Foundation.Episode Websitewww.creativeprocess.info/podInstagram@sharonelawrence@creativeprocesspodcast

“That transformation was key to my next step as an artist, to knowing that's what acting is. It isn't just posing; it isn't just being a version of yourself in a way that was free. Performing wasn't just performing; it was transforming. I think that artists find that in many different ways, and as actors, there are many ways into that.I would encourage you, as I do if you're an actor, to know your own equipment, know your own psychology, and use the great teachers that are synthesized in my favorite teacher's book, Moss, who I studied with later. There is a book called Intent to Live that distills down Uta Hagen, Stella Adler, Bobby Lewis, and Stanislavski. The great teachers at the Group Theatre believed that the method needed to be altered to be constructive rather than destructive to artists.David Milch's mind is so singular because he uses language in a way that defines character. That's what all good writers do: use language to get to the heart of something. He would use malapropisms to make up words, and Milch loved playing with that. As someone who played the love interest of such a unique character as Andy Sipowicz, I found it fascinating.Through Sylvia and David Milch's understanding, his wife humanized him. Sipowicz was portrayed as an addict, a very flawed human who had many addictions. David Milch is now suffering from Alzheimer's, so we won't get his words again. However, the words that he has to offer are timeless because he studied Robert Penn Warren and had many mentors throughout his vast literary education. That is key. I love speaking Noël Coward's words. As a bon vivant, he wrote musically, to charm us and amuse us. So going and reading Noël Coward is important for actors to learn those cadences and the musicality of a certain era. Of course, Shakespeare comes to mind. I also think of the female playwrights who delight me now, whether it's Caryl Churchill. She has that singular mind and plays with gender so well, challenging gender norms. Seeing ‘Cloud Nine' when I was in college blew my mind open because men were playing women and women were playing men. Of course, Shakespeare was doing it too, but her work felt more intimate; it was in a small theater. That's another thing I encourage actors and audiences to do: go see things in small theaters. See it up close because that will excite you and help you learn the craft.”Sharon Lawrence is an acclaimed actress best known for her Emmy-nominated, SAG Award-winning role as ADA Sylvia Costas on NYPD Blue. She has delivered memorable performances in Desperate Housewives, Monk, Law & Order: SVU, Criminal Minds, Shameless, and Queen Sugar. On stage, she's earned praise for roles in The Shot (a one-woman play about the owner/publisher of the Washington Post, Katharine Graham), Orson's Shadow, and A Song at Twilight. Shestarred in Broadway revivals of Cabaret, Chicago, and Fiddler on the Roof. Her recent work includes the neo-Western series Joe Pickett, opposite Michael Dorman, and the films Solace with Anthony Hopkins and The Bridge Partner. Lawrence is also a dedicated advocate, serving on the boards of the SAG-AFTRA Foundation, WeForShe, and Heal the Bay, and is a former Chair of the Women In Film Foundation.Episode Websitewww.creativeprocess.info/podInstagram@sharonelawrence@creativeprocesspodcast

Bobby Lewis, CS, from Buena Vista, Colorado, USAHear more from Bobby on this week's episode of Sentinel Watch.

Bobby Lewis, CS, from Buena Vista, Colorado, USAYou can read Bobby's article in The Christian Science Monitor.Listen to the Christian Science Monitor podcast, Why We Wrote This, as well as a wide range of other audio content, at christianscience.com/audio.