Podcast appearances and mentions of michelle renee

In this episode, Michelle and Coach Alex Ray debrief their recent intimate experiment, exploring themes of vulnerability, friendship, and sexual orientation. They discuss the emotional highs and lows of their experience, the importance of communication in navigating intimacy, and the complexities of arousal and connection. Through laughter and tears, they reflect on the significance of their bond and the lessons learned about themselves and each other. In this conversation, Michelle and Coach Alex explore the complexities of asexuality, communication in intimate relationships, and the importance of understanding individual preferences in sexual experiences. They discuss the significance of pleasure beyond orgasms, the challenges of arousal and desire, and the need for comprehensive sexual education. The dialogue emphasizes the diversity of bodies and the importance of vulnerability and communication in fostering deeper connections.Alex Ray (he/she/they) is an internationally certified sex and relationship coach with eight years of experience. Whether guiding singles toward their dream partner, bringing couples closer together, or supporting an amicable separation, Alex specializes in helping people speak up for their needs and desires with confidence.Passionate about sex education and open conversations, Alex is launching Kink Curious, a new podcast premiering in May, where they explore the why behind what turns people on. They're also building an employee-owned sex education company to bring shame-free learning to more people.Connect with Alex online ⁠@heyalexgay on⁠ ⁠Instagram⁠ and ⁠TikTok⁠ or ⁠coachalexray.com⁠ Michelle Renee (she/her) is a San Diego-based Human Connection Coach and Cuddle Therapist. Michelle's websites are⁠ ⁠https://meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠⁠ and⁠ ⁠https://humanconnectioncoach.com⁠⁠ and she can be found on social media at⁠ ⁠https://instagram.com/meetmichellerenee⁠⁠. If you'd like to ask a question for Michelle to answer on an episode, ⁠https://www.meetmichellerenee.com/podcast⁠

In this engaging conversation, Michelle Renee and Coach Alex Ray explore themes of confidence, self-esteem, and the intricacies of sexual identity and kink. They share their origin story, discuss working with social anxiety in social settings, and delve into the importance of communication in intimate relationships. The dialogue also touches on asexuality, the concept of pegging, and the significance of education in understanding kink. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize the value of curiosity and openness in sexual exploration, redefining what success looks like in intimate experiences. In this engaging conversation, Michelle and Alex explore themes of intimacy, authenticity, and vulnerability in relationships. They discuss navigating social spaces, creating safe environments for self-expression, and the importance of honest communication in attraction. The dialogue delves into the complexities of sexual experiences, the significance of presence, and the role of compliments in fostering connection. They also touch on body positivity, the difference between performance and genuine intimacy, and the idea that pleasure can exist beyond traditional notions of orgasm. Throughout, they emphasize the value of curiosity, consent, and mutual exploration in building meaningful relationships.Alex Ray (he/she/they) is an internationally certified sex and relationship coach with eight years of experience. Whether guiding singles toward their dream partner, bringing couples closer together, or supporting an amicable separation, Alex specializes in helping people speak up for their needs and desires with confidence.Passionate about sex education and open conversations, Alex is launching Kink Curious, a new podcast premiering in April, where they explore the why behind what turns people on. They're also building an employee-owned sex education company to bring shame-free learning to more people.Connect with Alex online @heyalexgay on Instagram and TikTok or coachalexray.comMichelle Renee (she/her) is a San Diego-based Human Connection Coach and Cuddle Therapist. Michelle's websites are ⁠https://meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠ and ⁠https://humanconnectioncoach.com⁠ and she can be found on social media at ⁠https://instagram.com/meetmichellerenee⁠.If you'd like to ask a question for Michelle to answer on an episode, https://www.meetmichellerenee.com/podcastTo grab your own set of We're Not Really Strangers https://amzn.to/47XJjvmBecome a Cuddlist Certified Touch Practitioner and save 10%: https://cuddlist.podia.com/cuddlist-certification/6dnxo?coupon=REFERRAL

In this episode of the Intimacy Lab podcast, Michelle Renee welcomes Dr. Holly Wood to discuss various themes surrounding intimacy, therapy, and personal growth. They reflect on the importance of vulnerability in therapy and the intersection of sex and trauma. The conversation also touches on personal experiences with tattoos, parenting reflections, and the significance of apologies in relationships. Additionally, they explore the launch of Dr. Holly's YouTube channel, The Hollywood Sexologist, and the impact of GLP-1 medications on sexual desire.Dr Holly Wood, MS., PhD, LMFT, CST is a sex therapist based in San Clemente, California. You can learn more at https://www.thehollywoodsexologist.com/ and on social media at https://www.instagram.com/thehollywoodsexologist/Michelle Renee (she/her) is a San Diego-based Human Connection Coach and Cuddle Therapist. Michelle's websites are⁠⁠https://meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠⁠ and⁠⁠https://humanconnectioncoach.com⁠⁠ and she can be found on social media at⁠⁠https://instagram.com/meetmichellerenee⁠⁠.If you'd like to ask a question for Michelle to answer on an episode, ⁠https://www.meetmichellerenee.com/podcast⁠Join us for the Aftershow at IntimacyLabPodcast.comTo grab your own set of We're Not Really Strangers https://amzn.to/47XJjvmBecome a Cuddlist Certified Touch Practitioner and save 10%: https://cuddlist.podia.com/cuddlist-certification/6dnxo?coupon=REFERRAL

Michelle and I explore Cuddle and Surrogate Partner therapy in today's episode! Timestamps by PodSqueezeIntroduction to Memory Reconsolidation (00:00:02) Discussion on memory reconsolidation and questioning childhood beliefs about touch. Welcome to the Podcast (00:00:29) Jennifer introduces the episode's focus on surrogate partner therapy and professional cuddling with Michelle Renee. Michelle's Background (00:01:09) Michelle shares her role as a surrogate partner and professional cuddler, emphasizing her supportive approach. Community Building in Intimacy (00:01:24) Michelle discusses her involvement in community building within the intimacy sector and her initiative, Soft Cock Week. Professional Cuddling Explained (00:01:45) Jennifer inquires about professional cuddling, highlighting the need for more touch and connection in people's lives. Cuddles Training Overview (00:02:23) Michelle explains the training and code of conduct for professional cuddlers, emphasizing client-led sessions. Client Autonomy in Cuddling (00:03:21) Discussion about the importance of clients articulating their needs and maintaining boundaries during sessions. Finding a Professional Cuddler (00:04:23) Michelle advises on reputable organizations for finding professional cuddlers and the challenges of the industry. Qualities of an Ideal Cuddler (00:05:54) Michelle describes the ideal qualities for professional cuddlers, focusing on passion for helping others. Cuddle Session Dynamics (00:09:25) Overview of what a typical cuddle session looks like, emphasizing client comfort and choice. Exploring Client Preferences (00:11:09) Jennifer and Michelle discuss how clients express their needs and preferences during cuddle sessions. Vetting Clients (00:12:03) Michelle explains her process for vetting clients to ensure a comfortable and safe environment. Addressing Client Concerns (00:13:59) Discussion on handling natural physical responses during cuddle sessions and ensuring client comfort. Navigating Client Needs (00:16:44) Michelle shares insights on clients' struggles with touch and how she helps them explore their needs. Stories from Cuddle Sessions (00:17:49) Michelle recounts memorable cuddle sessions, illustrating the emotional and therapeutic aspects of her work. Introduction to Surrogate Partner Therapy (00:19:19) Michelle introduces the concept of surrogate partner therapy and its historical context in addressing intimacy issues. Introduction to Surrogate Partner Therapy (00:20:08) Discussion on the evolution of surrogate partner therapy and its portrayal in media. Building Relational Skills (00:21:08) Exploration of how surrogate partner therapy aids clients in developing relational skills. Platonic Surrogate Partner Therapy (00:22:41) Transition from erotic to platonic surrogate partner therapy for deeper emotional support. Cuddle Sessions Explained (00:24:00) Description of cuddle sessions and the balance between nurturing and challenging clients. Client Experience and Healing (00:25:09) Sharing a client's journey of healing through cuddling and emotional safety. Collaborative Therapy Approach (00:27:56) Insights on the collaborative relationship between the surrogate partner, client, and therapist. Soft Cock Appreciation Week (00:35:41) Introduction of a week dedicated to celebrating soft penises and normalizing discussions around erectile issues. Anti-Oppression Rate System (00:41:40) Michelle discusses her experiment with clients choosing their own rates based on a self-assessment of privileges. Follow Michelle: https://www.instagram.com/meetmichellerenee/ Follow Jen: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/

Our guest today is Michelle Renee Hiatt, Executive Show Director at the American Quilter's Society. Michelle story is a remarkable blend of professional achievements and creative passion. Raised in South Jersey by her single mom and grandmother, Michelle is one of five siblings. After earning her bachelor's degree in accounting and marketing, followed by a master's in technology from Rutgers, she became a Six Sigma Master Black Belt and built a stellar 30-year career managing operations and process improvement for major organizations like Trump Casinos, Reed Elsevier, Dow Jones, and Moody's, as well as consulting for technology firms and NYU.Quilting entered her life as a side passion, but her talent for designing and teaching quilting quickly gained traction. She created her own pattern line and taught at shows, retreats, and guilds across the U.S. In 2023, Michelle embraced a new chapter as Executive Show Director at AQS, where she works to inspire quilters of all generations.Key Moments in the Episode:(2:20) How Michelle's grandmother inspired her love of sewing.(3:46) The first thing Michelle ever made.(4:23) Growing up with the unique influence of her mom and grandmother.(5:57) Highlights from Michelle's corporate career, including leading a critical COVID project at NYU.(12:46) Balancing a full-time career, frequent relocations, and building her quilting legacy.(19:24) Becoming Executive Show Director at AQS—Michelle shares the journey.(22:09) The scale and impact of her role at AQS.(24:25) Michelle's initiatives to engage the next generation of quilters.(27:04) Surprises during her first months at AQS: “As fabulous as I expected it to be!”(28:33) Exciting changes and innovations under Michelle's leadership.(32:17) Involvement with Sew on the Go and Studio 180, and what they represent.(35:25) Twice a year, Michelle hosts a Mystery Quilt series—an event you don't want to miss!(38:03) Learn more about Michelle's mystery quilts at sewonthego.net.(38:33) What's next for Michelle, and her ultimate dream.(39:22) Michelle's parting message: “I'm a quilter first and foremost, just like the community I serve.”(40:28) To connect with Michelle, visit AmericanQuilter.com or sewonthego.net. Be sure to subscribe to, review and rate this podcast on your favorite platform…and visit our website sewandsopodcast.com for more information about today's and all of our Guests.

Welcome to the REPLAY of episode 15. I've chosen this episode as one of my favorites from season 2. The reason for the replay is to launch the new Intimacy Lab After Show! Listen to the replay and take some notes. What do you have questions about? How did this episode land on you? What were your favorite moments? Then go to IntimacyLabPodcast.com and register for our After Show on January 26, 2025. Judy Corasaniti, an integration specialist, will be my co-host for this live Zoom event, where we all can share our takeaways and ask our questions. I look forward to seeing you there! ~ Michelle Renee In this episode of the Intimacy Lab, Michelle Renee and Nat delve into the complexities of intimacy, coercion, and personal growth within relationships. They explore the impact of social media on sexual awareness, the nuances of desire and arousal, and the importance of communication and consent. Through personal anecdotes and shared experiences, they highlight the journey towards understanding one's own sexual autonomy and the challenges faced in navigating intimate relationships. In this conversation, Michelle and Nat delve into the complexities of emotional abuse, healing, and the journey towards self-worth and empowerment. They discuss the importance of consent and communication in relationships, the challenges of navigating difficult conversations, and the significance of personal growth and finding one's calling. Through their experiences, they highlight the need for self-awareness and the courage to prioritize one's own needs and boundaries. Nat started on Tiktok and has turned her life experience into a platform with the start of the hashtag #maritalcoercion. Her IG profile reads, "Writer, lover, mother, awakening to higher love after abuse and talking about it way too much." I love that about Nat! She is drawing attention to a hot topic that needs more conversation! You can learn more at https://alwaysmending.com. Michelle Renee (she/her) is a San Diego-based Platonic Intimacy Guide and Surrogate Partner. Michelle's websites are ⁠⁠https://meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠https://humanconnectioncoach.com⁠⁠ and she can be found on social media at ⁠⁠https://instagram.com/meetmichellerenee⁠⁠. If you'd like to pose a question for Michelle to answer on an episode: ⁠https://www.meetmichellerenee.com/episode⁠ Links from today's show: https://⁠mendingme.substack.com⁠ The Cost of Duty Sex: ⁠https://youtu.be/7pWGTzhtS24?si=HXjzXHsq8uXS_VHw⁠ Rebecca's inner child moment on Ted Lasso: ⁠https://youtu.be/-Zo4NWUxhf0?si=2GrI3UhOmVu5HpBu⁠ To grab your own set of We're Not Really Strangers ⁠https://amzn.to/47XJjvm⁠ A transcript is available at https://meetmichellerenee.com/episode/15

In this episode of the Intimacy Lab, Michelle Renee and Carrie engage in a deep conversation about personal experiences, professional insights, and the complexities of relationships. They explore themes of legacy, the importance of education in non-monogamy, the impact of attachment theory, and the surprising realizations that come with personal growth. The discussion also touches on health journeys and the unexpected outcomes that can arise from significant life changes. In this engaging conversation, Michelle and Carrie explore various themes surrounding attraction, intimacy, and personal experiences. Carrie Ancel (they/she) is a mental health counselor and sex therapist in the Seattle, Washington area. Find Carrie at https://www.branchingoutwellbeing.com/ and https://www.facebook.com/nonmonogamyacademy/ Michelle Renee (she/her) is a San Diego-based Human Connection Coach and Cuddle Therapist. Michelle's websites are ⁠https://meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠ and ⁠https://humanconnectioncoach.com⁠ and she can be found on social media at ⁠https://instagram.com/meetmichellerenee⁠. If you'd like to ask a question, for Michelle to answer on an episode, https://www.meetmichellerenee.com/podcast Links from today's show: What Fresh Hell Is This?: Perimenopause, Menopause, Other Indignities, and You by Heather Corinna: https://amzn.to/3BKQ5KM Polysecure and Polywise both by Jessica Fern: https://amzn.to/4fx1dsy Wheel of Consent: https://schoolofconsent.org To grab your own set of We're Not Really Strangers https://amzn.to/47XJjvm

In this engaging conversation, Michelle Renee and Darren Cyrus explore the intricate world of intimacy, touch work, and sexual healing. They discuss the nuances of navigating boundaries in touch therapy, the importance of consent, and the differences between sexual healing touch and sexological bodywork. Through personal anecdotes and reflections, they highlight the significance of comfort, vulnerability, and the shared experiences of touching different bodies. The dialogue also touches on the role of pausing and listening in intimate connections, as well as the social aspects of sharing food and experiences. Ultimately, they reflect on life transitions and the realization of one's own limitations. They discuss body image, vulnerability, and the journey of self-acceptance, particularly in the context of nudity and intimacy. The conversation also explores the supportive community of intimacy professionals and the exploration of sexuality within relationships, emphasizing the importance of curiosity and self-discovery. In this conversation, Michelle and Darren delve into the complexities of trust, relationship dynamics, and the spectrum of sexual attraction. They explore the nuances of monogamy and polyamory, discussing how open communication and consent shape their relationships. The discussion also touches on the role of kink and BDSM in personal healing and the importance of curiosity in exploring one's sexuality. Ultimately, they emphasize the significance of integrating these experiences into their professional lives, fostering a deeper understanding of intimacy and connection. Darren Cyrus (he/him) is a Licensed Massage Therapist, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, and owner of Bear Soul Wellness in Old Town Manassas, Virginia. Learn more at https://BearSoulWellness.com. He can be found on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/bearsoulwellness and https://www.instagram.com/the_darren_experience Michelle Renee (she/her) is a San Diego-based Human Connection Coach and Cuddle Therapist. Michelle's websites are ⁠https://meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠ and ⁠https://humanconnectioncoach.com⁠ and she can be found on social media at ⁠https://instagram.com/meetmichellerenee⁠. If you'd like to ask a question, for Michelle to answer on an episode, https://www.meetmichellerenee.com/podcast Links from today's show: A video of the walk down to Black's Beach in San Diego: https://youtu.be/vXrKvKG41hM?si=jNPTMJwVJnVGZnUX Spending Time Naked With Strangers Can Improve Body Image by Justin J. Lehmiller Ph.D.: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-myths-of-sex/202102/spending-time-naked-with-strangers-can-improve-body-image To grab your own set of We're Not Really Strangers https://amzn.to/47XJjvm

In this engaging conversation, Michelle Renee and Michael Guichet explore themes of vulnerability, connection, and the complexities of personal and professional boundaries. They discuss the use of card games as tools for deeper conversations, the challenges of surrogate partner therapy, and the importance of self-care and support systems. The dialogue also touches on the struggles of adulting, the need for help in logistics, and the reflections on social energy and introversion. In this engaging conversation, Michael Guichet and Michelle Renee explore the dynamics of relationships, the importance of asking for help, and the intersection of personal and professional identities. They discuss the challenges of being an introvert married to an extrovert, the role of mentorship in personal growth, and the complexities of emotional processing in intimate settings. The conversation also delves into social interactions, boundaries in therapeutic relationships, and the significance of understanding one's internal critic. Michael Guichet, LMFT, is a sex therapist in Santa Cruz and Monterey, California. You can find him at ⁠https://michaelguichetsextherapy.com/⁠ Michelle Renee (she/her) is a San Diego-based Human Connection Coach and Cuddle Therapist. Michelle's websites are⁠ ⁠https://meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠⁠ and⁠ ⁠https://humanconnectioncoach.com⁠⁠ and she can be found on social media at⁠ ⁠https://instagram.com/meetmichellerenee⁠⁠. If you'd like to ask a question, for Michelle to answer on an episode, ⁠https://www.meetmichellerenee.com/podcast⁠. *Note, I'm cutting back on the amount of resources I share as it takes a lot of time to pull them and I'm finding myself not putting out new episodes due to the time requirement. My compromise to myself is to put in less time. Thanks for understanding that is a hard area to cut as someone who prides herself as a "resource maven". I trust you can google and find what you need. To grab your own set of We're Not Really Strangers ⁠https://amzn.to/47XJjvm⁠

In this episode of the Intimacy Lab, Michelle Renee and Nat delve into the complexities of intimacy, coercion, and personal growth within relationships. They explore the impact of social media on sexual awareness, the nuances of desire and arousal, and the importance of communication and consent. Through personal anecdotes and shared experiences, they highlight the journey towards understanding one's own sexual autonomy and the challenges faced in navigating intimate relationships. In this conversation, Michelle and Nat delve into the complexities of emotional abuse, healing, and the journey towards self-worth and empowerment. They discuss the importance of consent and communication in relationships, the challenges of navigating difficult conversations, and the significance of personal growth and finding one's calling. Through their experiences, they highlight the need for self-awareness and the courage to prioritize one's own needs and boundaries. Nat started on Tiktok and has turned her life experience into a platform with the start of the hashtag #maritalcoercion. Her IG profile reads, "Writer, lover, mother, awakening to higher love after abuse and talking about it way too much." I love that about Nat! She is drawing attention to a hot topic that needs more conversation! You can learn more at https://alwaysmending.com. Michelle Renee (she/her) is a San Diego-based Platonic Intimacy Guide and Surrogate Partner. Michelle's websites are ⁠https://meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠ and ⁠https://humanconnectioncoach.com⁠ and she can be found on social media at ⁠https://instagram.com/meetmichellerenee⁠. If you'd like to ask a question for Michelle to answer on an episode: https://www.meetmichellerenee.com/episode Links from today's show: https://mendingme.substack.com The Cost of Duty Sex: https://youtu.be/7pWGTzhtS24?si=HXjzXHsq8uXS_VHw Rebecca's inner child moment on Ted Lasso: https://youtu.be/-Zo4NWUxhf0?si=2GrI3UhOmVu5HpBu To grab your own set of We're Not Really Strangers https://amzn.to/47XJjvm A transcript is available at https://meetmichellerenee.com/episode/15

In November 2000, bank manager and single mother Michelle Renee was in her Vista, California, home with her seven-year-old daughter Breea, when three masked gunmen broke into the house. The gunmen held them captive overnight, and in the morning strapped dynamite onto their backs. Breea was shoved into a closet, while Michelle was ordered to rob the bank where she worked. She obeyed, and the next morning she cleaned out the bank vault and gave the gunmen a duffel bag containing $360,000. Police and FBI investigation soon apprehended four suspects: Christopher Butler, Lisa Ramirez, Christopher Huggins, and Robert Ortiz. “48 Hours" correspondent Susan Spencer reports. This classic "48 Hours" episode last aired on 7/23/2010. Watch all-new episodes of “48 Hours” on Saturdays, and stream on demand on Paramount+.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We're giving you a break from whatever stressful stuff is going on this week to bring you some of the more...interesting calls we've collected.  A man's girlfriend wants to try saline injections on her breasts for a "24 hour boob job." The question is, can he safely do the injecting?  A woman's cat is grieving the loss of her longtime companion, a small dog. Now the kinky feline is demanding unspeakable rough treatment and her "owner" is neither G, G, nor G and does NOT consent.  Happy Soft Cock Week to all who celebrate! Our guest is "professional cuddler" Michelle Renee who is helping to launch a worldwide celebration of the penis in repose. She offers a kind and loving perspective on a topic that really needn't cause so much anxiety.  On the Magnum, Dan chats with Paul Rosenberg- founder and manager of Rain City Jacks, a private, non-profit jack-off club in Seattle. As we speak, men are gathering to masturbate together. Dan and Paul talk about the 20 year history of the club, how a whopping 10% of the patrons are straight, and how communal masturbation brings people together in the best way. Also, what happens to all the jiz?  And, in the darker corners of Salt Lake City, there are kinky parties going on with bizarre contraptions meant to deliver a world of forbidden pleasure. Unfortunately, it just made the caller puke her guts out.  You ok SLC? Q@Savage.Love       206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. Right now, Helix is offering 25% off all mattress orders + 2 FREE Dream Pillows! Go to HelixSleep.com/Savage. With Helix, better sleep starts now.  This episode is brought to you by Talkspace- online therapy that makes it easy to get extra mental health support. For $80 off your first month, go to Talkspace.com/Savage, and use the offer code Space80. This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase.

In this conversation, Michelle Renee and Leela Sinha discuss the concepts of intensives and expansives. They explore how intensives are passionate, risk-tolerant, and make unexpected connections, while expansives are steady, reliable, and prefer predictable environments. They also discuss the importance of understanding and appreciating both types of personalities. Overall, the conversation highlights the value of self-awareness and finding balance between intensity and steadiness. Leela Sinha is a coach and author. Leela created The Intensive Institute and wrote the book You're Not Too Much. You can find Leela and the book at https://IntensiveInstitute.com. Michelle Renee (she/her) is a San Diego-based Platonic Intimacy Guide and Surrogate Partner. Michelle's websites are https://meetmichellerenee.com⁠ and https://humanconnectioncoach.com and she can be found on social media at https://instagram.com/meetmichellerenee. If you'd like to ask a question, for Michelle to answer on an episode, https://www.meetmichellerenee.com/podcast Links from today's show: *Note, I'm cutting back on the amount of resources I share as it takes a lot of time to pull them and I'm finding myself not putting out new episodes due to the time requirement. My compromise to myself is to put in less time. Thanks for understanding that is a hard area to cut as someone who prides herself as a "resource maven". I trust you can google and find what you need. To grab your own set of We're Not Really Strangers https://amzn.to/47XJjvm You're Not Too Much by Leela Sinha https://amzn.to/3YsPm9T

All orgasms are different. All experiences are different. For NatIonal Orgasm Day three former podcast guests join us to share their juiciest orgasms! Alicia, Michelle, and Dr. Alexandra share their personal stories and lessons about orgasms, the power of orgasms, and improving sexual pleasure over time. You can find Alicia Davon on Instagram @DavonMethod. You can find Michelle Renee on Instagram @MeetMichelleRenee. You can find Dr. Alexandra Stockwell on Instagram @Intimate.Marriage.Podcast. Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more HERE. Follow Jordan D'Nelle on Facebook and Instagram @jordandnelle and @TheVVVPodcast Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast! Join the Patreon community: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews help this podcast impact more lives! Subscribe to Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators on iTunes if you haven't already! *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. jordandnelle.com DavonMethod.com MeetMichelleRenee.com TheIntimateMarriage.com Michelle Renee Podcast: The Intimacy Lab Dr. Alexandra Stockwell Podcast: The Intimate Marriage --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jordan-dnelle/support

In this episode, Michelle Renee talks with her client, Judy. Judy discusses how her work with her therapist and Michelle has helped her feel safer in certain situations and has allowed her to challenge her beliefs about herself. She also talks about the importance of leaning into difficult emotions with curiosity and the process of relearning self-worth and self-care. In this final part of the conversation, Judy and Michelle Renee discuss the power of being raw and vulnerable with another person. They explore the idea of rewriting personal narratives and reframing past experiences. They also discuss the importance of physical touch and the role of surrogate partner therapy and cuddle therapy in healing relational wounds. Judy shares her journey of self-discovery and self-love, and expresses deep gratitude for the transformative work she has done with Michelle Renee and her therapist. Takeaways Asking for help is a brave and important step in healing and personal growth. Setting boundaries is essential for prioritizing mental health and self-care. Childhood experiences, even those that may seem small, can have a significant impact on adult life. Therapeutic love and support can be transformative in the healing process. Rewriting stories and reframing past experiences can lead to personal growth and healing. The triadic model, involving collaboration between therapist, client, and support system, can be highly effective in therapy. Recognizing triggers and understanding the symptoms of PTSD can help shift one's perspective on certain situations. Working with a therapist and a supportive touch professional can help create a sense of safety and challenge negative beliefs about oneself. Leaning into difficult emotions with curiosity can lead to healing and growth. Learning self-worth and self-care is a process that takes time and patience. Rewriting personal narratives and reframing past experiences can be transformative. Physical touch, such as in surrogate partner therapy and cuddle therapy, can play a crucial role in healing relational wounds. Self-discovery and self-love are essential for living a fulfilling life. Michelle Renee (she/her) is a San Diego-based Intimacy Guide and Surrogate Partner. Michelle's website is ⁠https://meetmichellerenee.com⁠ and can be found on social media at @meetmichellerenee. If you'd like to ask a question, for Michelle to answer on an episode, https://www.meetmichellerenee.com/podcast To grab your own set of We're Not Really Strangers https://amzn.to/47XJjvm Links shared in today's episode: We're Not Really Strangers Healing Edition https://www.werenotreallystrangers.com/collections/shop-all/products/healing-edition The_emdr_coach on IG https://www.instagram.com/reel/C7TvzAyMtP2/?igsh=Z2JyMWlna3FtM21t The Power of Journaling blog post https://www.meetmichellerenee.com/blog/journaling Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE) test https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2015/03/02/387007941/take-the-ace-quiz-and-learn-what-it-does-and-doesnt-mean Polar bear shaking off trauma https://youtu.be/xDlR-wl7iFI?si=QffFsOYMTTTG7b2R The myth of self regulation https://youtu.be/91tUxJq12gc?si=6mTBE9PQAw5_-fIy Setting Boundaries that Stick by Julianne Taylor Shore https://amzn.to/459NdkW Complex PTSD from Surviving to Thriving by Pete Walker https://amzn.to/4e1QfeW Pitsburg Action Against Rape https://paar.net/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/intimacylab/message

In this conversation, Michelle Renee and her Michigan wife discuss their friendship and the changes they have experienced. They talk about their history, including how they met and their journey through polyamory. They also discuss the importance of communication and adjusting expectations in relationships. The conversation then shifts to their personal journeys with weight loss and body image, as well as the societal pressure around body count. They share their experiences with weight loss surgery and the impact it has had on their confidence and physical well-being. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of self-acceptance and finding joy in personal growth.  Takeaways The importance of open and honest communication in relationships The need to adjust expectations and labels in relationships to maintain a strong connection The impact of weight loss surgery on confidence and physical well-being The societal pressure and judgment around body count and the importance of self-acceptance Bariatric surgery can be a life-changing experience, but it is important to have proper follow-up care and support. Weight loss medication can be a helpful tool in the weight loss journey, providing a feeling of fullness and reducing food noise. Weight loss is not always within one's control, and it is important to have empathy and support for those on their weight loss journey. The journey to weight loss involves both physical and mental changes, and it is important to prioritize mental health and self-care. Understanding and accepting that weight loss is a lifelong journey can help in setting realistic expectations and maintaining long-term success. It is important to be mentally prepared for surgery and to have a good support system. Do what is best for you and don't shame yourself for considering weight loss surgery. Feeling comfortable and free in your body is a significant positive change. Having supportive and trusting friendships is invaluable. DIY projects can bring joy and a sense of accomplishment. Expressing love and appreciation for others strengthens relationships. Living together with close friends can be a fulfilling and complementary experience. Michelle Renee (she/her) is a San Diego-based Platonic Intimacy Guide and Surrogate Partner. Michelle's website is ⁠https://meetmichellerenee.com⁠ and can be found on social media at @meetmichellerenee. If you'd like to ask a question, for Michelle to answer on an episode, click here. To grab your own set of We're Not Really Strangers, click here. The video version of this episode is available on Spotify and on Youtube. Links from today's episode: Friendship edition of We're Not Really Strangers: https://amzn.to/3ywpy1E Kids editions of We're Not Really Strangers: https://amzn.to/4avj4O0 Shrill on Hulu or https://amzn.to/4dNJ0qN First time rock climbing video: https://youtu.be/YPa4af-DMgQ?si=EA-kChLkPA5x3z10 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/intimacylab/message

November år 2000. Michelle Renee har nyss kommit hem efter en lång arbetsdag. Hon är hemma tillsammans med sin sjuåriga dotter när tre män plötsligt sparkar in dörren och tar sig in. Snart ligger hon och dottern på golvet med pistoler riktade mot sig. Hon får veta att männen har bevakat henne under en period och att de kommer att döda henne och hennes dotter om hon nu inte gör som de säger. De vill att Michelle ska råna en bank.I det sista avsnittet för säsongen så gästas Spöktimmen av amerikanen Michelle Renee, som berättar om när hon blev kidnappad.[REKLAM] Länk Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/spoktimmenMichelles böcker: https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B001IXMV7S KontaktInstagram: @spoktimmen@linnek@jennyborg91 Facebook: Spöktimmen Mail: spoktimmenpodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Summary In this conversation, Michelle Renee and Janie Michael discuss their experiences as professional cuddlers and the importance of community in their work. They also play a card game called We're Not Really Strangers, which prompts them to share personal stories and memories. Janie shares her journey as a cuddler in different locations, including Oregon, Seattle, and Germany. Michelle reflects on the changes in her practice and the impact of COVID-19. They both discuss their earliest memories of happiness and the healing process in their relationships with their parents. In this conversation, Michelle and Janie discuss their personal experiences with healing and growth, particularly in relation to their relationships with their parents. They explore the importance of communication, vulnerability, and taking responsibility for one's emotional maturity. They also touch on the power of sexuality and the role it can play in healing and self-discovery. The conversation highlights the need to trust oneself, listen to one's body, and engage in ongoing self-reflection and self-care. Takeaways Professional cuddling provides opportunities for deep connection and communication through touch. Building a supportive community is important for professional cuddlers, as it allows for networking and sharing experiences. COVID-19 has changed the landscape of professional cuddling, leading to shifts in practice and a greater variety of clients. Early memories of happiness can shape our understanding of joy and playfulness in adulthood. Healing and reconciliation in parent-child relationships can bring a sense of wholeness and closure. Effective communication and expressing one's needs is essential for personal growth and healing. Taking responsibility for one's emotional maturity and acknowledging past mistakes is important for building healthier relationships. Sexuality can be a powerful tool for healing and self-discovery. Trusting oneself, listening to one's body, and engaging in ongoing self-reflection and self-care are key to personal growth and well-being. Janie Michael is a facilitator for personal transformation and a restorative touch and connection provider. She supports people in transforming emotional baggage and undesirable patterns into sensual aliveness, connection, joy, and empowerment. Additionally, she offers coaching for making intimacy, sex, and relating conscious, fulfilling, and evolutionary. She can be found at: https://intimacycoachjanie.com or email at janie@intimacycoachjanie.com Michelle Renee (she/her) is a San Diego-based Intimacy Guide and Surrogate Partner. Michelle's website is ⁠https://meetmichellerenee.com⁠ and can be found on social media at @meetmichellerenee. If you'd like to ask a question, for Michelle to answer on an episode, click here. To grab your own set of We're Not Really Strangers, click here. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/intimacylab/message

Join us today as Michelle Renee tells us her inspiring journey of resilience and transformation in this powerful YouTube video. As a certified trauma coach and author, Michelle shares her deeply personal story of overcoming adversity with mindful and compassionate action. From a tumultuous childhood marked by violence to navigating abusive relationships, Michelle's story is one of empowerment and motivation. Through therapy, self-reflection, and a transformative road trip, she found healing and forgiveness, choosing to focus on what she gained rather than what she lost. Join us as Michelle spreads a message of compassion, love, and self-awareness, inspiring viewers to embrace their own journey towards healing and empowerment.TOPICS WE COVEREDMichelle Renee, a certified trauma coach and author, shares her story of overcoming adversity, including a challenging childhood marked by violence and control.Raised in a household with a father plagued by rage, Michelle learned to people-please and navigate a volatile environment.Despite difficult teenage years, including abusive relationships, Michelle found success in banking, driven by a desire to prove herself and seek approval from her parents.Following a traumatic incident where she and her daughter were targeted by stalkers, Michelle embarked on a journey of healing, including therapy, self-reflection, and a transformative road trip.Through forgiveness and understanding, Michelle found empowerment, choosing to focus on what she gained rather than what she lost, and now shares her story to inspire others to embrace compassion, love, and self-awareness in overcoming trauma.FOLLOW MICHELLEInstagram: _michellerenee_Books:  amazonFOLLOW ME

In this conversation, Michelle Renee and Nikita Fernandes discuss their connection in the therapy world and their passion for sexual healing. They explore the importance of platonic intimacy, body image work, and the power of touch. They also share their go-to outfits for a booty call and the things they love to receive but have a hard time asking for. The conversation ends with a discussion about the hottest things someone has said in bed. In this conversation, Michelle and Nikita discuss various topics related to sexuality and sexual health. They talk about the importance of communication and making noise during sexual encounters, as well as the significance of self-pleasure and self-care. They also touch on the stigma surrounding herpes and the need for education and support for individuals with STIs. Nikita shares her upcoming projects, including becoming a licensed therapist and speaking at a conference on sexual health and mental health. Michelle discusses Soft Cock Week and her upcoming TV appearance. They emphasize the importance of body positivity and acceptance in sexual relationships. Takeaways Platonic intimacy is essential for rekindling sexual intimacy in relationships. Body image work and exploring non-genital zones can be incredibly erotic. It's important to communicate and ask for what you want in bed. Vocalization and affirmative consent can enhance sexual experiences. Being naked in public can help overcome body image issues. Touching and exploring different pleasure points can build anticipation and desire. Communication and making noise during sexual encounters can enhance pleasure and indicate enjoyment. Self-pleasure and self-care are important aspects of sexual well-being. There is a need for education and support for individuals with STIs, particularly in reducing the stigma surrounding herpes. The conference on sexual health and mental health provides a platform for discussing the impact of STIs on mental well-being and promoting education and awareness. Body positivity and acceptance are crucial in fostering healthy sexual relationships. Nikita Fernandes (she/her) a Mental Health Therapist-LP and Sex Therapist based in New York City. She can be found at ⁠https://healingwithnikita.com⁠ or email at nikita@texgibson.com. Michelle Renee (she/her) is a San Diego-based Intimacy Guide and Surrogate Partner. Michelle's website is⁠ ⁠https://meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠ and can be found on social media at @meetmichellerenee. If you'd like to ask a question, for Michelle to answer on an episode, ⁠click here⁠. To grab your own set of We're Not Really Strangers, ⁠click here⁠. Links from today's episode: ⁠https://AASECT.org⁠ ⁠ https://www.briangibney.org/⁠ ⁠ https://www.surrogatepartnercollective.org/⁠ ⁠https://embracespt.org⁠ ⁠https://humanconnectioncoach.com/resources⁠ Asexuality episode: ⁠https://www.meetmichellerenee.com/episode/7⁠ Spoon Theory: ⁠https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spoon_theory⁠ We're Not Really Strangers XXX Adult Edition: ⁠https://amzn.to/44e7XXY⁠ Naked with Strangers Article: ⁠https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-myths-sex/202102/spending-time-naked-strangers-can-improve-body-image⁠ Something Positive for Positive People: ⁠https://www.spfpp.org/⁠ Something Positive for Positive People Safe Sex Expo: ⁠https://www.spfpp.org/offerings/p/safe-sex-expo⁠ STI Risk Chart: ⁠https://www.sfcityclinic.org/patient-education-resources/std-risk-chart⁠ ⁠https://softcockweek.com⁠ Sex Sells on FuseTV, Season 3 - Episode 5: ⁠https://amzn.to/3JA8Twt⁠ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/intimacylab/message

This is a continuation of episode #338 Soft Cock Play and Why We Love Them (which is also our top viewed video on YouTube!). You asked, so we are answering by responding to the following questions: why are “you” women able to talk about soft cocks and penis owners' bodies in general? Why is reframing sex so important when it comes to soft cocks? What are the techniques that encourage blood flow AND increase pleasure and fun? What do I do when my partner is in a downward spiral regarding their own soft cock? What do I do if my partner doesn't want to be part of the problem solving for my soft cock? And what about soft cocks as a symptom of prostate issues/cancer/diabetes? About our guests: Erica Leroye, M.Ed (she/her/they) is the Founder and "Chief Erotic Officer" of Creative Body Release, a philosophy and methodology that is built upon 30+ years of body/mind training and educational expertise across the lifespan. Erica is a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Human Development Specialist, Healing Arts professional, and Erotic Artist/Educator. After the sudden death of her fiancee to undiagnosed diabetes, her life's mission became “De-Mystifying the International Erectile Epidemic” using research-based best practices from multiple disciplines, common sense, and a knowing splash of women's intuition. Erica's unique method for working with arousal and erectile issues (in all gender identities) is founded on a deep understanding of the developmental trajectory of the sensory-motor system and the body/mind challenges of "going with the flow" when it comes to moving through stressful life realities. To learn more go to https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com Michelle Renee (she/her) based in San Diego, is dedicated to helping clients live their most authentic life. From her personal journey, Michelle knows that love heals. Michelle has combined her 8+ years of experience as both a cuddle therapist and a surrogate partner to create a hybrid offering called Foundations of Human Connection. She affectionately welcomes clients into her Human Connection Lab, where she supports them in relational healing through experiential touch, unconditional positive regard, celebrated agency, and authentic connection.  She is also the founder of SoftCockWeek.com, co-founder of Embrace Surrogate Partner Resource Group, host of The Intimacy Lab podcast, and Director of Training for Cuddlist.com.  You can find Michelle on social media at @meetmichellerenee or check out her sites HumanConnectionCoach.com and MeetMichelleRenee.com Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 50% off our favorite delicious, healthy pre-made meals with code chipndip50 at http://factormeals.com/chipndip50 Get 20% off (and free shipping on) the best performance enhancers with code SHAMELESS at http://usejoymode.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% off Shameless Sex Fav's with code SHAMELESSLOVE24 or 15% off all other sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

In this episode, Gwyn interviews Jennifer Rahner, a certified body sex facilitator and sex educator. Jenn shares her journey from working in IT to pursuing her passion for sexual education. She explains the Body Sex experience, as founded by Betty Dodson, which involves a group of vulva owners coming together to explore their bodies, share their experiences, and learn techniques for achieving orgasm. They discuss the power of body sex in creating a sense of sisterhood and acceptance, and how it can be a transformative experience. She also talks about her plans to expand body sex to include all genders and the importance of inclusive sexual education, as well as facilitating Body Sex online. About the Guest(s):Jennifer Rahner is a certified body sex facilitator and sex educator. She offers virtual and in-person classes focused on anatomy, pleasure, and body acceptance. A professional writer for more than two decades, she is passionate about helping people experience more pleasure in their lives - sexual and otherwise. You can learn more at JenniferRahner.com or find her as @geekysexlove Notable Quotes: "When somebody gets up the nerve to come and learn from me, it's a wonderful thing. That first step is the hardest one." - Jennifer Rahner "Body sex feels like getting back to our roots and sharing information that is our birthright." - Jennifer Rahner "Education is the key to reducing unwanted pregnancies, STI transmission, and sexual assault. We need to normalize conversations about sexuality and provide comprehensive sexual education." - Jennifer Rahner Resources:JenniferRahner.com Bodysex.com More about Soft Cock Week and Michelle Renee https://earthlydesire.com/podcast/episode-45-michelle-renee-intimacy-guide/ WhatExcitesUs.com

Emotionally immature upbringing impacts adult relationships, hindering self-care and connection. Michelle Renee joins us to discuss surrogate partner therapy and cuddling as a way to address intimacy and relationship issues. In surrogate partner therapy, the surrogate partner acts as a practice partner for the client to work on interpersonal skills and overcoming barriers to intimacy in a safe environment. You can find Michelle Renee on Instagram @meetmichellerenee. Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more HERE. Follow Jordan D'Nelle on Facebook and Instagram @jordandnelle. Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast! Join the Patreon community: patreon.JordanDnelle.com Leave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews help this podcast impact more lives! Subscribe to Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators on iTunes if you haven't already! *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. jordandnelle.com meetmichellerenee.com

Summary In this teaser episode, Michelle Renee provides an update on the restructuring of the podcast for Season 2. She shares her personal healing journey and compares it to peeling layers of an onion. Michelle discusses the cycle of woundedness to healing and the continuous process of self-development. She gives a preview of the upcoming episodes for Season 2 and emphasizes the importance of taking time to ensure the podcast brings her joy. Michelle encourages listeners to engage by submitting questions or comments. Takeaways The healing journey is a continuous process of growth and self-discovery. Embracing self-development can be a fulfilling and transformative experience. The cycle of woundedness to healing involves going back and forth between healing and facing new challenges. Engaging with listeners and incorporating their questions and comments adds value to the podcast. To send a comment or ask a question, go to IntimacyLabPodcast.com Follow Michelle on social media @MeetMichelleRenee The video version of this podcast is available on Spotify and Youtube Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Season Update 01:53 The Healing Journey 03:03 The Process of Healing 03:21 The Cycle of Woundedness to Healing 04:20 Embracing Self-Development 04:57 Season Two Preview 06:24 Restructuring the Podcast 06:54 Engaging with Listeners

In this conversation, Michelle Renee and David Khalili, MA, LMFT, discuss various topics related to connection, communication, and personal growth. They explore the importance of asking for help and setting boundaries, as well as the impact of goal-focused sex on relationships. They also discuss the role of journaling in emotional processing and the benefits of expanding the definition of sex. The conversation highlights the need for healthy endings and the value of working triadically to provide comprehensive support. Overall, the conversation emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, communication, and building strong connections. In this conversation, David Khalili discusses his favorite parts of the book on ⁠Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving by Pete Walker⁠. He highlights the concepts of reparenting and the inner critic. The discussion then moves on to understanding the inner critic and outer critic and the toxic relationship between the two. David emphasizes the importance of playing a different game in life and finding alternative ways of succeeding. The conversation also explores the topics of verbal ventilation, permission for tears, and the significance of grief and mourning. The impact of nurturing and the broad scope of complex PTSD are discussed. Finally, David shares information about Rouse Relational Wellness and the therapy services they offer. David Khalili (he/him) is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, a board-certified sexologist, and the founder of Rouse Relational Wellness in San Fransisco. He can be found on social media at ⁠@rousetherapy⁠ and at ⁠https://www.rousetherapy.com⁠ Michelle Renee (she/her) is a San Diego-based Intimacy Guide and Surrogate Partner. Michelle's website is ⁠⁠https://meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠ and can be found on social media at ⁠@meetmichellerenee⁠. If you'd like to ask a question, for Michelle to answer on an episode, ⁠click here⁠. To grab your own set of We're Not Really Strangers, ⁠click here⁠. Other Links from this episode: ⁠David Khalili on Get Nake with Dr Kate⁠ ⁠Reid's Formula for Difficult Conversations⁠ ⁠Sex Geek Summer Camp⁠ ⁠Reid on Bawdy Storytelling telling a Betty Dodson story⁠ Takeaways Asking for help and setting boundaries are essential for personal growth and healthy relationships. Goal-focused sex can lead to desperation and a lack of connection with partners. Journaling can be a powerful tool for emotional processing and self-reflection. Expanding the definition of sex can lead to more fulfilling and diverse sexual experiences. Healthy endings and working triadically can provide comprehensive support and promote personal growth. Reparenting and addressing the inner critic are important aspects of healing from Complex PTSD. Judging others and oneself is often a result of the toxic relationship between the inner critic and outer critic. Playing a different game in life and finding alternative ways of succeeding can help break free from constant self-criticism. Verbal ventilation and permission for tears are essential for emotional release and healing. Grief and mourning are necessary processes that should be acknowledged and supported. Complex PTSD can result from a lack of nurturing and emotional support. Taking breaks and engaging in comedy can be a helpful form of auto-regulation. The power of Golden Girls and other forms of comedy in improving mood and well-being. Rouse Relational Wellness offers a variety of therapy services focused on couples and sex therapy.

In this conversation, Michelle Renee and Grace Heer discuss the power of vulnerability and deep connection. They share personal experiences and insights on the importance of being authentic and open in relationships. They also explore the use of cards to deepen connections and create meaningful conversations. The conversation highlights the impact of vulnerability at events and the power of asking yourself what you need. They also discuss advice for mental health and self-care, as well as the process of figuring out what you want in life and listening to your body when making decisions. In this conversation, Michelle and Grace discuss the importance of exploring personal desires, taking care of mental health, recognizing the need for rest, listening to your body's signals, the importance of boredom and rest, balancing work and self-care, processing childhood experiences, and finding joy and self-care. Grace Heer is a professional cuddler, cuddle event facilitator, life coach, and end-of-life doula in Orange, CA. You can learn more about her at GracefulCuddles.com or on Facebook and Instagram at Grace Heer, Coaching and Cuddling. Links are on her website. Michelle Renee (she/her) is a San Diego-based Intimacy Guide and Surrogate Partner. Michelle's website is ⁠https://meetmichellerenee.com⁠ and can be found on social media at @meetmichellerenee. Takeaways Take the time to explore your personal desires and what you truly want in the moment. Prioritize your mental health and find small ways to make up for neglecting it. Recognize the signs of needing rest and create white space in your schedule. Listen to your body's signals and pay attention to what it needs. Embrace boredom and rest as essential for rejuvenation and creativity. Find a balance between work and self-care to avoid burnout. Take the time to process and heal from childhood experiences. Find joy in simple activities and prioritize self-care. Remember to prioritize your own needs and take breaks when necessary. If you'd like to ask a question, for Michelle to answer on an episode, ⁠click here⁠. To grab your own set of We're Not Really Strangers, ⁠click here⁠. Links of note from today's episode: Michelle's Facebook 36 Questions to Fall in Love Kassandra Brown's Radical Listening Terry Real's book Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship

In this episode, Michelle and Adelina discuss the concept of earning vulnerability and the importance of feeling safe and supported in order to open up. They also explore the different levels of vulnerability and how trust is built over time. The conversation shifts to building friendships with colleagues in the sex-positive community and the unique connections that can be formed. They share personal stories of meeting influential figures in the field, such as Lucy Fielding and Dan Savage, and the impact these encounters had on their lives. In this part of the conversation, Michelle and Adelina discuss Michelle's experience with Dan Savage, the fear of rejection, the unpublished episode, self-reflection and validation, and the mystery behind it. They also talk about embracing their inner dork, the success of Soft Cock Week, the podcast journey, favorite takeaways from interviews, quotable moments, the challenges of recording, the Soft Cock Week events, the glitch and the help, the underlying message of Soft Cock Week, the beauty of free-form conversations, and the Intimacy Lab experiment. Takeaways Vulnerability is earned through feeling safe and supported. Different levels of vulnerability exist, from sharing personal experiences to entrusting someone with your care and life. Building friendships with colleagues in the sex-positive community can be a source of connection and understanding. Meaningful encounters with influential figures in the field can have a profound impact on personal and professional growth. Adelina Adler is a sex coach and sex educator based in Wilmington, NC. You can find Adelina on Instagram at ⁠@askaddyadler⁠. She is the host of ⁠Sexplorations! with Adelina Adler⁠ on Spotify. Michelle Renee (she/her) is a San Diego-based Intimacy Guide and Surrogate Partner. Michelle's website is⁠ ⁠https://meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠ and can be found on social media at @meetmichellerenee. Have questions you'd like answered by Michelle or her guests? Leave them at IntimacyLabPodcast.com. Notes from today's show: Cuddlist Training Discount Soft Cock Week Podcast Interview with Paul on Queer Relationships, Queer Joy Joli Hamilton, polyamory coach We're Not Really Strangers How Cuddlist changed my life, podcast episode 3 Episode 4 where I answer the love question with Vanessa Brian Gibney, episode 2 Sara, episode 1 The Intimacy Professionals - more can be found here Psychnetworker Lucie Fielding's Trans Sex Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski Esther Perel's Mating in Captivity Get Naked with Dr Kate Episode with David Khalili David Khalili's books: Mental Health Workbook for Men and Sex Worriers Michelle's Newsletter Sign Up

In this episode, Michelle Renee is joined by Aubri Lancaster, an asexuality and aromanticism educator. They discuss the concepts of asexuality and aromanticism, providing a comprehensive understanding of these orientations. Michelle shares her personal journey and how she discovered her own asexuality. They also explore the connection between aphantasia and asexuality. The conversation highlights the importance of differentiating between sexual attraction and desire. In this conversation, Aubri Lancaster and Michelle Renee discuss personal desire and attraction, exploring intimacy beyond sex, different pathways to asexuality, navigating sexual attraction and desire, expanding the definition of intimacy, challenges in sex education and advocacy, the importance of language and understanding, and decentering sex in relationships. The conversation explores the topic of solo sex within committed relationships and the importance of communication and negotiation in maintaining a healthy sexual dynamic. It challenges the societal expectation that sex should only occur within a partnership and highlights the need for individuals to prioritize their own sexual satisfaction. The conversation emphasizes the significance of open dialogue and mutual understanding in navigating differences in sexual preferences. Overall, it encourages a shift towards more inclusive and personalized relationship agreements. Aubri Lancaster is an AASECT certified sexuality educator with a focus on asexuality and aromantisism. She can be found at ⁠AceSexEducation.com⁠ or @acesexeducation on social media. Check out Aubri's upcoming webinar "Am I Ace Enough?" Michelle Renee (she/her) is a San Diego-based Intimacy Guide and Surrogate Partner. Michelle's website is⁠ ⁠https://meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠ and can be found on social media at @meetmichellerenee. Takeaways Understanding personal desire and attraction is a complex and individual experience. Intimacy can be experienced in various forms, including platonic, intellectual, and touch-based connections. Asexuality encompasses different pathways and experiences, and it is important to recognize and respect these diverse perspectives. Sexual attraction and desire can be separate from emotional and romantic connections. There are many ways to connect and experience pleasure beyond sexual activity. Sex education and advocacy face challenges in terms of societal norms and limited support. Language and understanding play a crucial role in exploring and accepting diverse sexual orientations and experiences. Relationships can prioritize different forms of connection and intimacy, and sex does not have to be the central focus. It is acceptable to prioritize solo sex even in committed partnerships. Lack of communication and understanding can lead to issues in sexual dynamics. Negotiating relationship agreements is crucial for establishing mutual satisfaction and avoiding societal expectations. Open dialogue and self-awareness are essential in navigating differences in sexual preferences. If you'd like to ask a question for Michelle to answer on an upcoming episode, click here. To grab your own set of We're Not Really Strangers, click here. Links from today's episode: Aubri's Episode of The Bonding Hour Michelle's Episode of The Bonding Hour

In this episode, Michelle Renee interviews the Embrace Surrogate Partner Therapy Resource Group team about their mission to spread education and support for surrogate partner therapy. They discuss the upcoming training program called Hidden Treasures Touch Interventions from the Surrogate Partner Toolkit, which aims to provide professionals in the field with a comprehensive understanding of the therapy. The team emphasizes the importance of experiential learning and embodiment in this work and highlights the need for a standardized training program. They also discuss future offerings and the ongoing development of the field. Takeaways Surrogate partner therapy is a modality that combines touch-based somatic exercises with talk therapy to help clients explore emotional and physical intimacy in a safe and therapeutic environment. The Hidden Treasures Touch Interventions training program offers professionals in the field an opportunity to learn and practice a range of exercises and techniques used in surrogate partner therapy. Experiential learning and embodiment are key components of the training, allowing participants to gain a deeper understanding of the work and its impact on clients. The training program aims to bridge the gap between touch-based practitioners and talk therapists, providing a comprehensive toolkit for professionals working in the field of intimacy and relationships. Meet the Embrace SPT team (full bios are available here): Lou Hanson - Washington, DC Brian Gibney - Charlottesville, VA Jeannie Miller - Washington, DC Michelle Renee - San Diego, CA For more information about Embrace and their upcoming class, please go to EmbraceSPT.org and they can be found on social media @EmbraceSPT. Meet the host: Michelle Renee (she/her) is a San Diego-based Intimacy Guide and Surrogate Partner. Michelle's website is⁠⁠ MeetMichelleRenee.com⁠⁠⁠ and can be found on social media at @meetmichellerenee. Have questions you'd like answered by Michelle or her guests? Leave them at ⁠IntimacyLabPodcast.com⁠.

Watch the replay of the 2023 Soft Cock-Tail Mixer, the final event of the 2023 Soft Cock Week, recorded on Saturday, Nov 11, 2023. This was a live event with the SCW founder, Michelle Renee, and some of the contributors from the week, including Phoenix Mandel, John Ellsworth, Erica Leroy, Mish Middelmann, Lee Jagger, Amy Weissfeld, and Peace Buffalo. There was a live audience that could comment and post questions in the chat. Learn more about the week's events at https://SoftCockWeek.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/softcockweek/message

In this episode, Michelle Renee and Vanessa Cushing discuss their experience working together in the triadic model of therapy, specifically surrogate partner therapy. They explore the meaning of saying 'I love you' and the nuances of expressing love authentically. They also discuss the importance of digging deeper in therapy and using conversation cards to spark meaningful conversations. They highlight the evolution of surrogate partner therapy and its impact on clients' lives. The episode concludes with a discussion on the experience of feeling loved in therapy. This conversation explores the goal and benefits of surrogate partner therapy, the importance of therapist involvement, and the challenges and rewards of working in a triadic model. It emphasizes the value of community and the role of supervision in supporting the therapist and client. The conversation also highlights the need for clear boundaries and the impact of personal experiences on the therapeutic relationship. It concludes with a discussion on the satisfaction and positive outcomes of surrogate partner therapy, as well as the importance of expanding the definition of this approach. In this final part of the conversation, Michelle and Vanessa express their appreciation for each other and their friendship. They discuss the possibility of working together again in the future and express their excitement about meeting in person. They conclude the conversation with a warm exchange of gratitude and well wishes. Takeaways Expressing love authentically is more important than saying 'I love you' out of obligation. Digging deeper in therapy can lead to transformative experiences and personal growth. Surrogate partner therapy can provide unique support and opportunities for growth in areas of emotional and physical intimacy. The triadic model of therapy allows for collaboration and a holistic approach to addressing clients' needs. Feeling loved and cared for in therapy can have a profound impact on clients' self-worth and well-being. Surrogate partner therapy aims to help clients learn and generalize skills outside of the therapy setting. Therapist involvement in surrogate partner therapy provides additional support and guidance for clients. Working in a triadic model allows for checks and balances and helps ensure the client's progress and growth. The therapist's personal experiences and boundaries play a significant role in the therapeutic relationship. Surrogate partner therapy can lead to positive outcomes and significant personal growth for both the client and therapist. Expressing gratitude and appreciation for colleagues and friends is important. Building and maintaining professional relationships can lead to future collaborations. Meeting in person can strengthen connections and create a sense of familiarity. Closing a conversation with gratitude and well wishes leaves a positive impression. Vanessa Cushing (she/her) is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Miami, licensed in both Florida and Virginia. Her specialty is in sexual trauma. You can find out more about Vanessa at https://www.cushingcounseling.com and follow her at https://instagram.com/cushingcounseling. Michelle Renee (she/her) is a San Diego-based Intimacy Guide and Surrogate Partner. Michelle's website is ⁠https://meetmichellerenee.com⁠ and can be found on social media at @meetmichellerenee. Notes from this episode: Soft Cock Week Podcast Nathan Young 36 Questions to Fall in Love Andrew Heartman Psychnetworker Cuddlist Training Find a Cuddlist Andrew's Heartman's Class Collaborating with Surrogate Partners in Triadic Model through SurrogatePartnerCollective.org Akilah Riley Richardson Brian Gibney Somatic Sexuality Professionals Tamara Pincus Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving by Pete Walker B68vtB4SG0Ar0i2Z4tIl

In this episode, Michelle Renee talks with Dr Joe Kort, a sex therapist based in Detroit, Michigan, about shame in sex. They also talk about expanding our definitions of sex, the term "side", and erotic orientation. Psychotherapist Joe Kort, PhD, LMSW, is the clinical director and founder of The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health in Royal Oak, Michigan. He is a board-certified clinical sexologist, author of four books, lecturer and facilitator of therapeutic workshops, and the host of Smart Sex Smart Love podcast. You can learn more at JoeKort.com and find him on social media at @drjoekort. On tiktok at https://www.tiktok.com/@drjoekort The host, Michelle Renee, is a surrogate partner, intimacy guide, and professional cuddler located in San Diego, CA. You can learn more at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. For more information about Soft Cock Week, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SoftCockWeek.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, which includes resources, events, and even soft cock love notes. Notes from this show: Rekindling Desire with Barry McCarthy on Joe's podcast Smart Sex Smart Love Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski (learn about responsive desire) Also a great Ted Talk with her about sustaining sexual connection The Great Sex Rescue RecoveringMan.net Brian Gibney Lee Phillips' Sex and Chronic Illness podcast episode with Michelle Renee Guys We Fucked episode with Michelle Renee Ruby Ryder and PeggingParadise.com Movemeber The Intimacy Lab Podcast My favorite tshirts: Side Tshirt Butthole Whisperer Tshirt Sexual Intellectual Tshirt Whores are Healers Tshirt p46r1LxG5dyTWb3LuVin --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/softcockweek/message

In this episode, Michelle Renee talks with Adelina Adler, sex coach and sexuality educator, about the definition of sex and how reframing that definition can open up a world of sex possibilities! Adelina Adler is a sex coach and sex educator based in Wilmington, NC. You can find Adelina on instagram at @askaddyadler. She is the host of Sexplorations! with Adelina Adler on Spotify, ⁠The Naked Booth on Youtube⁠, and the host of an online event called Sex Talk Saturdays. The host, Michelle Renee, is a surrogate partner, intimacy guide, and professional cuddler located in San Diego, CA. You can learn more at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. For more information about Soft Cock Week, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SoftCockWeek.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, which includes resources, events, and even soft cock love notes. Notes from this show: Sex Geekdom Sex Geek Some Camp Arousal non-concordance OMG Yes This is Life with Lisa Ling on CNN episode on Surrogate Partner Therapy with Mirror Exercise can be seen on the front page (scroll down) on HumanConnectionCoach.com JoJo Bear Porn Yoga Erica Leroy Episode on Soft Cock Week Podcast Mish Middelmann Episode on Soft Cock Week Podcast Joan Price and Jessica Drake's Guide to Wicked Sex The Intimacy Lab Podcast Come As You Are --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/softcockweek/message

In this episode, Michelle Renee talks with Erica Leroye, the founder of Creative Body Release, which is a multidisciplinary method, helping adult experiential learners become empowered advocates for their sexual health and their overall well-being. In this episode, we talk about the mechanics of the cock and how masturbation coaching can be a helpful tool for cock owners. Erica also shares her personal connection to Soft Cock Week. To contact Erica, email erica@creativebodyrelease.com. The host, Michelle Renee, is a surrogate partner, intimacy guide, and professional cuddler located in San Diego, CA. You can learn more at ⁠⁠⁠⁠meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠⁠⁠. For more information about Soft Cock Week, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠SoftCockWeek.com⁠⁠⁠⁠, which includes resources, events, and even soft cock love notes. Notes from this show: ⁠Momentum Condoms and Lube --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/softcockweek/message

In this episode, Michelle Renee joins Mish Middelmann of RecoveringMan.net, a website focused on rediscovering life and manhood after prostate cancer, including contributor blogs and an online support community. Mish Middelmann was diagnosed with prostate cancer in 2019 at the age of 61. Through his own journey, he saw a need for men to share their stories in an effort to get the support that the medical world was not able to provide which is now RecoveringMan.net. The host, Michelle Renee, is a surrogate partner, intimacy guide, and professional cuddler located in San Diego, CA. You can learn more at ⁠⁠meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠. For more information about Soft Cock Week, go to ⁠⁠SoftCockWeek.com⁠⁠, which includes resources, events, and even soft cock love notes. Notes from this show: Mish's interview with Cam Fraser Ruby Ryder Dr Jo Milios - "A watched cock never comes" Brene Brown TED Talk on Vulnerability Literotica The Intimacy Lab Episode 1 about Michelle's journey with orgasm --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/softcockweek/message

Join Michelle Renee as she talks with her colleague, Kyle Hoffman, about his personal connection to Soft Cock Week. Kyle helps people create social lives full of deep, fulfilling connections.  He offers hands-on intimacy coaching, touch and cuddle therapy, and life coaching.  He serves people of all genders, shapes, and orientations.  He also offers group workshops on cuddling and emotional and physical intimacy.  Some are a safe clothing optional space, and some are for only men, only women, or for all genders.Kyle works with people remotely and in person.  He's based in Philadelphia and travels to clients.  Contact him and sign up to receive workshop invites at www.cuddlingandcoaching.com The host, Michelle Renee, is a surrogate partner, intimacy guide, and professional cuddler located in San Diego, CA. You can learn more at ⁠⁠meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠. For more information about Soft Cock Week, go to ⁠⁠SoftCockWeek.com⁠⁠, which includes resources, events, and even soft cock love notes. Notes from this show: Demisexuality is a sexual orientation in which a person feels sexually attracted to someone only after they've developed a close emotional bond with them. Forming a bond doesn't guarantee a person will feel a sexual attraction, but the bond is needed before sexual activity is even possible. Per Cleveland Clinic Come as You Are⁠ by Emily Nagoski 3-Minute Game Demo Barry McCarthy on Smart Sex, Smart Love with Joe Kort Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin and Robyn Dalzen CuddleParty.org MEN'S CUDDLING GROUP: HOW IT WORKS IN REDEFINING MASCULINITY Some of Michelle's Favorite resources for sex ed: Scarleteen Come As You Are (linked above) Girl Sex 101 Sex for One Netflix's The Principles of Pleasure --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/softcockweek/message

In this episode, Michelle Renee talks with Lee Jagger about pleasure and how learning to give erotic massage can be a gateway to better communication, for all genders. Lee Jagger is the CEO of Rock The Bedroom and has helped thousands of women feel more confident in the bedroom using her signature erotic massage techniques. She has made it her mission to normalize conversations around sexuality, deliver sex education in a professional & classy format, and help women have an amazing sex life even if intercourse is impossible. She's had hands-on experience with over 2,000 male clients to gain the knowledge that she now shares with women. You can learn more at RocktheBedroom.com. You can find Lee on socials at @rockthebedroom. The host, Michelle Renee, is a surrogate partner, intimacy guide, and professional cuddler located in San Diego, CA. You can learn more at ⁠meetmichellerenee.com⁠. For more information about Soft Cock Week, go to ⁠SoftCockWeek.com⁠, which includes resources, events, and even soft cock love notes. Notes from this show: Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/softcockweek/message

On this episode of The Soft Cock Week Podcast, we talk with Dr Susie Gronski, a pelvic floor physical therapist from Ashville, NC. While we talk mainly about rehabilitation after prostate cancer, this episode has great content for all penis owners experiencing erectile disappointment. We even talk about penis pumps and how to use them. If you can catch this episode on video, we do have some anatomy displays and penis pump instruction that is best with the video version. Either way, we think you'll learn a lot in this episode. Thank you, Dr Susie for being part of Soft Cock Week 2023! Specializing in men's pelvic and sexual health for over a decade, Dr Susie Gronski is a Licensed Doctor of Physical Therapy, Certified Pelvic Rehabilitation Practitioner, AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator, University of Michigan trained sexuality counselor, an international teacher and author of Pelvic Pain the Ultimate Cock Block. You can learn more at drsusieg.com. Susie is on Instagram at https://instagram.com/dr.susieg and on Youtube at https://www.youtube.com/@DrSusieGronski/. The host, Michelle Renee, is a surrogate partner, intimacy guide, and professional cuddler located in San Diego, CA. You can learn more at meetmichellerenee.com. For more information about Soft Cock Week, go to SoftCockWeek.com, which includes resources, events, and even soft cock love notes. Notes from this show: Mish Middelmann and RecoveringMan.net --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/softcockweek/message

“Rob the bank, or she blows up” November 20th 2000, 7 year old Breea Renee notices something strange: “mom, there's someone outside the window”. A day later, 3 masked men break into her house and hold them at gunpoint before strapping Breea with dynamite. Michelle is given an unimaginable mission: rob the bank, or your daughter will be blown up - she sets off to Bank of America for the dangerous heist.

Scotty and author Michelle Renee Lane discuss her 2019 Stoker-nominated novel "Invisible Chains," as well as her short fiction and her more recent "The Courtship of Nora Fagan," which is the first of a five-part "erotic paranormal romance" series. They talk about their own personal definitions of horror, the sometimes tricky balance between horror and romance, the idea of "flirting with death" in fiction, approaches to writing sex scenes, and the often troubling messages found in the "Twilight" series. They also spend a few moments on Alfred Hitchcock's problematic classic "Marnie" (1964), and explore how it encompasses both Hitch's filmmaking genius and some of his...er...darker impulses as a storyteller. You can find Michelle online at https://michellerlane.com To purchase "Invisible Chains," go to https://haverhillhouse.com/product/invisible-chains-by-michelle-renee-lane/ To purchase "The Courtship of Nora Fagan, go to https://www.amazon.com/Courtship-Nora-Fagan-Marriage-Made-ebook/dp/B0BK2P1FHR/ To read the essay "Am I Really a Horror Writer," check out "Writers Workshop of Horror 2" at https://www.amazon.com/Writers-Workshop-Horror-Michael-Knost-ebook/dp/B096QYTLSJ/ To read the short story "Josephine," check out "The One That Got Away: Women of Horror Anthology Volume 3" at https://kandishapress.com/2021/02/06/the-one-that-got-away-kandisha-press-vol-3-interview-with-catherine-mccarthy/ To read the short story "Thus Do We Reach to the Stars," check out "The Monstrous Feminine: Dark Tales of Dangerous Women" at https://www.amazon.com/Monstrous-Feminine-Tales-Dangerous-Women-ebook/dp/B07ZQTJQ44/ This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

In this, Michelle's first solo podcast episode, she shares about what got her to her life's calling: intimacy. She was always comfortable talking about sex, but safe emotional and physical intimacy has been a struggle in her history. Learn who Michelle 1.0 was and how the journey to the current operating system (Michelle 4.0 or 5.0 - she's lost count) is due in large part to her getting into pro cuddling when she did. Also, a lovely tribute to the healing power of relationship. Takeaways Touch workers play a vital role in supporting and guiding their clients on their journey. Self-care is crucial for healers to maintain their well-being and effectiveness. Building trust with clients is essential for a successful healing relationship. Being a touch worker is a privilege and a rewarding experience. Michelle Renee (she/her) is a San Diego-based Intimacy Guide and Surrogate Partner. Michelle's website is ⁠https://meetmichellerenee.com⁠ and can be found on social media at @meetmichellerenee. Links from today's episode (some are affiliate links): We're Not Really Strangers: https://amzn.to/46MIIfD Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C Gibson: https://amzn.to/3tvGJ0Q Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving by Pete Walker: https://amzn.to/45JYTtn Watch our Wedding Vows: https://www.meetmichellerenee.com/blog/wedding Join my bi-weekly newsletter: https://bit.ly/mmrnewsletter Check out the Cuddlist Basic Training and get 10% with this link: https://cuddlist.podia.com/cuddle-therapy-basic-training/6dnxo?coupon=REFERRAL

In this conversation, Michelle Renee and Brian Gibney discuss various aspects of dating and relationships. They explore the concept of nature's order versus culture's order, highlighting the importance of safety and communication in building intimate connections. They share their personal experiences with dating and navigating hookup culture. The conversation also delves into the significance of managing expectations, renegotiating relationships, and embracing adaptability. They emphasize the need for open and honest communication, as well as the importance of defining relationships based on individual needs and desires. In this conversation, Michelle and Brian discuss the principles and practices of dating and relationships. They emphasize the importance of being authentic and transparent in relationships, allowing for self-selection and compatibility. They also explore the idea of embracing all aspects of ourselves and finding partners who accept us fully. Creating intimacy and connection, choosing close relationships, maintaining boundaries and autonomy, and living the work outside of work are also discussed. Takeaways Safety and communication are crucial in building intimate connections. Managing expectations and renegotiating relationships are essential for personal growth and satisfaction. Labels and definitions in relationships can vary and should be based on individual needs and desires. Adaptability and open communication are key characteristics to look for in a partner. Be authentic and transparent in relationships, allowing for self-selection and compatibility. Embrace all aspects of yourself and find partners who accept you fully. Create intimacy and connection by showing up fully and allowing others to hold space for you. Maintain boundaries and autonomy, only getting involved when it personally affects you. Brian Gibney (he/him) is a reformed scientist, forever geek, and ex-circus performer. Now he's helping others as a surrogate partner, intimacy coach, educator, and advocate. He can be found on Instagram at https://instagram.com/brian_gibney_intimacy and at https://BrianGibney.org. Michelle Renee (she/her) is a San Diego-based Intimacy Guide and Surrogate Partner. Michelle's website is ⁠https://meetmichellerenee.com⁠ and can be found on social media at @meetmichellerenee. Links from today's episode: The video that inspired Michelle's poster in her office: https://vimeo.com/468113082/c8711f0dd6?fbclid=IwAR0K51Z1UeleQx8Bc1FdoWscqTcXMvBcDfUx1lL0m4G6ymuPETBRcV7heDA https://Fetlife.com https://cuddlist.com/michelle Wheel of Consent: https://www.schoolofconsent.org/ Polysecure by Jessica Fern: https://amzn.to/45btqQs Thanks for joining us! If you loved what you heard and want to leave us 5 stars, I invite you to leave a review on your favorite podcast app. If you'd like to ask a question, please use the form at IntimacyLabPodcast.com.

The Music We Make: Unlocking Creativity and Making Sense of HumanityThis episode of the "Unlocking Your World of Creativity" podcast features host Mark Stinson interviewing author Michelle Rene DeBellis about her award-winning novel, The Music We Make. Michelle shares her unique approach to creativity, using storytelling to make sense of our humanity. The book, nominated for a Pulitzer Prize, centers around a young man struggling with addiction and grief after losing his mother. As he hits rock bottom, he receives inspiration from his mother to write a song that will help him find solace. The story delves into the power of relationships and explores the importance of growth as creative individuals.Michelle emphasizes the significance of literature in fostering empathy and understanding among people from different backgrounds. She believes that stories have the ability to bridge divides and allow us to connect with unfamiliar human experiences. Writing The Music We Make was a testament to her commitment to personal growth as a writer and a creative person. She mentions the importance of surrendering to the creative process and finding a balance between focused writing sessions and allowing her imagination to roam freely.Quotes from Michelle DeBellis:"I think literature is so incredibly powerful... It helps us to empathize with human experiences that we don't understand.""Growth as creative people is paramount. It is the goal, it is the important thing.""The music we make is really a metaphor for the connections that we make and for the relationships that we make."Michelle highlights the collaborative experience of making music within the story and its reflection on the interconnectedness of human relationships. The novel aims to entertain readers while also delivering a powerful message about the human experience.Overall, this podcast episode offers insights into the creative process, the significance of literature in understanding humanity, and the transformative power of storytelling. The pull-out quotes from Michelle highlight the importance of empathy, growth, and the metaphorical significance of music in the book.Michelle Rene 's Website @Michellerenedebellis on Instagram Copyright 2023 Mark Stinson

Wiggly, firm, soft, rigid - peens are shape shifters. Why does that matter? Well, somebody you know might have one, and they might have feelings about that, what with the cultural pressures brought to bear on them. Guest expert Michelle Renee started Soft Cock Week, we talk with her about why she did that, what it's for, what's in it for you, and lots more about finding pleasure in life. Go to SoftCockWeek.com for resources, upcoming events, opportunities to participate and contribute. Are you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.com Interested in working with Joli directly? Click here to apply for individual coaching.

What are some of the reasons why soft cocks happen (in other words, why do they sometimes have difficulty getting hard)? When it comes to soft cocks, or sex in general, why is it important to expand our definition of sex? What are some of the ways and techniques for both self and partnered sex and pleasure with a soft cock? Michelle Renee, creator of Soft Cock Week discusses all this and more. Hurray for soft cocks! About our guest: Michelle Renee (she/her), is an intimacy guide based in San Diego, California, offering human connection ranging from platonic nurturing touch (as a professional cuddler) to surrogate partner therapy. She's been connecting with clients since 2015. Michelle is a co-founder of Embrace, a professional resource group for surrogate partners and collaborating clinicians. In 2022 she launched Soft Cock Week, a week of education, normalization, and celebration of the flaccid phallus. Her passion is working with clients with a history of trauma and supporting them in establishing safety in themselves and others. She's also focused on bringing touch and talk professionals together so that we can learn from each other and elevate our industries. Learn more about Michelle at MeetMichelleRenee.com Get big discounts on sex toys and free online workshops by donating to our favorite cause, the Embrace Surrogate Partner Therapy Group. Donate now here: embracespt.org/gifts Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! We only have one spot left so sigh up ASAP here Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at www.calm.com/shameless Get the pleasure and heath benefits from pumping up your bits at aprilamy.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

A new memoir, “NINE DAYS: Living With My Soul Wide Open After Violent Trauma.”   After a life-altering home invasion and bank robbery leave their lives shattered, a single mother and her dog embark on a terrifying 4,200-mile road trip into the Alaskan wilderness to return to her daughter. Support the show: https://www.steveharveyfm.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Michelle Renee was a teen runaway who escaped a violent, traumatic childhood, Michelle beat the odds when she rose up from being a part-time bank teller to a respected Regional Sales Manager, Vice President and Branch Manager in her 13-year career. A violent home invasion kidnapping, hostage, and bank robbery crime carried out against Michelle and her daughter ended her career.

Brandi starts us off with a gut-wrenching story. On the evening of November 3, 1998, all eight-year-old Maddie Clifton wanted to do was go outside and play. Her mother gave her permission to go outside for a few minutes, so Maddie went next door to the home of 14-year-old Josh Phillips to ask if he'd like to play baseball. He did. Later, when Maddie didn't come home, her parents panicked. Police and volunteers searched for Maddie for days before she was finally discovered by Josh's mother. Then Kristin tells us about an elaborate triple kidnapping. Michelle Renee was at home with her seven-year-old daughter, Breea, when, seemingly out of nowhere, three men burst through the home's locked back door. The men wore ski masks. They brandished guns. They'd even brought spears. They told Michelle that they knew she worked for a local Bank of America. They said that if she wanted to survive, she'd have to go into work the next morning and clear out the vault. And now for a note about our process. For each episode, Kristin reads a bunch of articles, then spits them back out in her very limited vocabulary. Brandi copies and pastes from the best sources on the web. And sometimes Wikipedia. (No shade, Wikipedia. We love you.) We owe a huge debt of gratitude to the real experts who covered these cases. In this episode, Kristin pulled from: 48 Hours episode, “The Kidnapping of Michelle and Breea Renee” “A mother was forced to rob a bank to save her daughter's life after they were kidnapped and threatened with dynamite,” by Gayane Keshishyan Mendez for cbsnews.com “California mother who was kidnapped and forced to rob a bank falsely painted as a criminal in court: “100% felt like I was on trial”” by Tracy Smith for cbsnews.com “Hostage no more: Michelle Renee tells true story of kidnapping of daughter and self,” by Ruth Marvin Webster for The San Diego Union-Tribune “Suspected bank robber nabbed,” North County Times “Man convicted of kidnapping, robbery,” North County Times “People v. Butler,” casetext.com “Attorney: Bank chief plotted own kidnapping,” North County Times “Superior Court trial starts in bank robbery, kidnapping,” by Scott Marshall for the North County Times In this episode, Brandi pulled from: “Maddie Clifton” chillingcrimes.com “Why Did Josh Kill Maddie Clifton?” By Malinda Fusco, Medium “19 years later, the narrative behind Maddie Clifton's demise gets even worse” by Eileen Kelley, The Florida Times Union “Life sentence upheld for Joshua Phillips, teen killer of Maddie Clifton” by Andrew Pantazi, The Florida Times Union “Wednesday marks 23 years since murder of Maddie Clifton” by Colette DuChanois, News 4 Jax “Josh Phillips” wikipedia.org YOU'RE STILL READING? My, my, my, you skeezy scunch! You must be hungry for more! We'd offer you some sausage brunch, but that gets messy. So how about you head over to our Patreon instead? (patreon.com/lgtcpodcast). At the $5 level, you'll get 45+ full length bonus episodes, plus access to our 90's style chat room!  

On this week's episode, hosts Corinne and Krystyna help a listener who's put in an awkward position after confronting her friend's partner about his infidelity, and Corinne shares a Dylan update. Today's Guys We Fcked guests are surrogate partners and intimacy coaches, MICHELLE RENEE and BRIAN GIBNEY. The group discusses the definition of sexual intimacy and integrity, how one can go about hiring a professional cuddler (yes, they exist!!), managing a very busy polyamorous lifestyle, and what exactly goes down in a sex surrogacy session. Commentary by amateur snuggler Mike Coscarelli.    SEE CORINNE & KRYSTYNA LIVE AT A THEATER NEAR YOU:   ATLANTA - SAT SEPT 10 - CENTER STAGE THEATER https://www.centerstage-atlanta.com/events/guys-we-fcked/   NORWALK, CT - SAT SEPT 24 - WALL STREET THEATER https://wallstreettheater.com/event/guys-we-fcked/   CORINNE SOLO DATES: CLEVELAND - FRI AUG 26 & SAT AUG 27 - HILARITIES DETROIT - FRI SEPT 16 - HOUSE OF COMEDY (MOTOR CITY COMEDY FESTIVAL) all tickets: https://www.corinnefisher.com/calendar/   WATCH THE GWF COMEDY SPECIAL -- "OUR SPECIAL DAY" -- FOR FREE: https://www.youtube.com/guyswefcked   Donate To An Abortion Fund  https://www.thecut.com/article/donate-abortion-fund-roe-v-wade-how-to-help.html   Follow Guys We Fucked on IG/Twitter/TikTok: @guyswefcked   Follow Corinne Fisher on Twitter/IG: @PhilanthropyGal (And follow Corinne's store on IG @PerfectlyCenteredStore) www.corinnefisher.com    Follow Krystyna Hutchinson on Twitter/IG: @KrystynaHutch www.krystynahutchinson.com    Follow Mike Coscarelli on Twitter/IG: @MikeCoscarelli    THIS WEEK'S FEATURED MUSIC: Elle Baez Song 1- MY Type Song 2- Everyone Else https://open.spotify.com/artist/6my64u4SYBvDcURMWurbfs?si=6HOfQeZURYaxSIV6xWkKmQSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.