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Are you and your spouse constantly disagreeing about HOW to best parent your children?Are you wondering if one (or both) of your parenting styles is hurting your child's emotional growth?And if so, what do you do about it, especially when you disagree so adamantly?In this episode, we unpack the subtle but powerful effects that parenting styles have on children's development—especially when it comes to raising resilient, well-adjusted kids. Many parents unknowingly adopt habits that hold their families back from true emotional health and connection.Parenting is a daily practice of small choices, and understanding which styles promote emotional intelligence, confidence, and independence can transform your family life.Join us as we share the key things we NEVER do as parents of 7 children, and how those ‘never-dos' have shaped a positive, loving family culture where kids learn to thrive.You'll hear practical advice on:How authoritative parenting builds self-worthWhy harsh or inconsistent discipline backfiresThe dangers of sarcasm and negative languageCreating open, honest communication at every ageBalancing boundaries with empathy and loveIf you want to upgrade your parenting approach and create a nurturing environment where your kids feel safe to grow emotionally, this episode is for you.Key Takeaways:✅ Different parenting styles have lasting effects on your child's emotional and social development✅ Authoritative parenting fosters resilience and healthy boundaries✅ Avoid sarcasm, harshness, and inconsistent discipline to build trust✅ Emotional intelligence starts with authentic, open communication✅ Small ‘never-dos' can prevent big problems down the roadChapters:00:00 Parenting from the Same Page06:41 The Importance of Communication in Parenting13:12 Navigating Parenting Styles24:08 Understanding Parenting Approaches31:13 The Four Parenting Philosophies43:16 The Pitfalls of Authoritarian Parenting46:00 Understanding Permissive Parenting51:39 The Consequences of Neglectful Parenting58:31 The Gold Standard: Authoritative Parenting01:11:03 Getting on the Same Page as Parents01:25:51 The Journey of Personal Development in ParentingMemorable Quotes:

Do your kids struggle with tantrums, power struggles, or emotional meltdowns—and you're not sure how to stop the cycle without yelling or harsh discipline?After posting on Instagram about how we raised our 7 kids without yelling, punishments, or power struggles, we received so much interest and questions from parents wanting to know—is it really possible?Yes, it is—and in this episode, we share exactly how we did it.Raising emotionally healthy, well-adjusted kids starts with creating a strong foundation of love, trust, and connection. In this conversation, we unpack the specific things we never do as parents, and why avoiding them has helped our children become confident, competent, and emotionally resilient.From mockery and sarcasm to yelling, punishments, and ignoring big feelings—these parenting pitfalls actually increase misbehavior, power struggles, and emotional shutdown.We also share personal stories—including a controversial ocean swim encounter—that demonstrate how pushing limits (safely and intentionally) builds competence, confidence, and calm under pressure—for kids and adults.Whether you're parenting toddlers or teens, these insights will help you shift your mindset and methods to raise kids who thrive without tantrums, yelling, or power struggles.Key Takeaways:✅ Strong attachment = strong self-worth✅ Small emotional habits shape your child's future✅ Sarcasm erodes trust—kindness builds connection✅ Harshness leads to fragility and misbehavior✅ Family culture and personal growth go hand in hand✅ Confidence comes from challenge, not comfortChapters:00:00 Raising Well-Adjusted Kids on the Move10:39 Understanding Tantrums and Yelling15:45 Prioritizing Connection Over Correction27:41 Investing Time for Long-Term Benefits29:25 The Importance of Connection Over Correction31:15 Understanding the Desire for Connection33:03 The Impact of Parental Engagement35:27 Recognizing Attachment Issues37:10 Daily Intentional Connection39:04 Behavior as a Symptom, Not the Problem41:24 Going to the Root Cause of Behavior43:41 The Investment in Parenting Knowledge47:37 Clarifying Expectations in Parenting50:27 Engaging in Clear Communication53:40 Encouraging Dialogue for Clarity01:00:08 Natural Consequences and Child Empowerment01:06:14 Establishing Family Systems for Smooth Parenting01:12:53 Emotional Co-Regulation in Parenting01:21:33 Building Resilience Through Connection and ChallengeMemorable Quotes:

Are you tired of second-guessing yourself and playing small in life? Self-confidence isn't something you're born with—it's something you build. And in this powerful episode, we're joined by entrepreneur and mindset coach Adam Allred, who shares the truth about what it really takes to develop unshakable self-confidence—even when everything feels stacked against you.Whether you're a parent, business owner, or just trying to level up your personal life, you'll walk away from this conversation with a blueprint for how to own your worth, silence self-doubt, and take bold, consistent action toward your goals.Adam opens up about the mindset shifts that helped him rise from setbacks and forge a strong internal identity. We dive into how to face failure without losing momentum, how to break toxic self-talk, and how confidence isn't arrogance—it's self-trust in action.You'll learn:Why self confidence is a daily habit, not a destinationHow persistence fuels confidence—and how confidence fuels persistenceThe role of discipline, clarity, and courage in creating the life you wantIf you've ever struggled with feeling “not enough,” this episode will help you reframe your story, reclaim your power, and step into the confident version of yourself you were meant to be.Key Takeaways:Success is built on resilience and not quitting.The importance of self-respect in relationships.Men need to be accountable for their actions.Suffering can be a catalyst for growth.Building a strong community is essential for men.Healthy relationships require both partners to be strong.Character development is crucial for personal success.The way we treat ourselves sets the tone for others.Life happens for you, not to you.Progress equals fulfillment.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Background04:15 The Journey into Door-to-Door Sales07:08 Transformative Experiences in Sales10:13 The Importance of Male Community13:00 The Role of Men in Society16:14 Personal Growth and Purpose19:07 Lessons from the First Summer in Sales26:10 The Power of Persistence30:10 Building Self-Confidence Through Commitment33:57 Time and Energy: The True Currencies of Life38:07 Learning Through Failure43:09 Creating Lasting Memories with Family49:32 The Face of God in Humanity52:19 Lessons from Regret and Accountability56:03 Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth01:04:40 The Power of Self-Respect and Leadership01:11:09 Finding Meaning in Suffering and AdversityRecourses for Adam:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adamallredofficial/?hl=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/alphamale9X: https://x.com/allredadam RESOURCES:Let me help you in your journey to becoming a more Purpose Driven Leader:Free course! Adventuring With Your ChildrenJoin Greg's  90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Podcast: The Formidable Family Man PodcastCheck out this podcast for families Extraordinary Family Life PodcastFree! Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and Tribe⁠⁠Join Greg's 7-Day ChallengeFollow me on Instagram:⁠@greg.denning⁠Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/greghdenning Learn more about the upcoming 'Asset Training' in Portugal Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in PortugalSee my Reviews

Have you ever worried about whether your parenting methods are building real emotional connection—or unintentionally causing harm?We received a thoughtful question from a listener who shared a heartbreaking personal story: while her mom intended to foster attachment, her methods—like forced "holding time"—ended up destroying trust and psychological safety instead.In this episode, we dive deep into what we do and do not mean when we talk about attachment, emotional safety, and parenting strategies.Attachment parenting is about honoring a child's free will—not demanding submission. True psychological safety is built through respect, patience, and emotional connection—not control or coercion.We'll clarify why even good parenting philosophies can be twisted if they aren't grounded in emotional intelligence and healthy boundaries.And we'll share practical ways you can foster true psychological safety in your home while supporting your child's natural emotional development.If you want to raise resilient, emotionally healthy kids who trust you deeply, don't miss this important episode.Become a Founding Member of our Extraordinary Parent Mentoring MethodKey Takeaways:Psychological safety is about trust, not forced compliance.Attachment parenting must honor a child's autonomy and free will.Even good parenting methods can be distorted by emotional wounds.Emotional resilience grows when children feel seen, heard, and safe.Creating emotional safety at home starts with self-awareness as a parent.Chapters:Chapters00:00 Introduction to Attachment Parenting01:32 Clarifying Misunderstandings in Parenting04:23 The Importance of Parenting Skills07:46 Defining Success in Parenting10:41 Understanding Attachment Parenting13:25 The Dangers of Misapplied Parenting Techniques16:38 The Impact of Adoption on Attachment19:21 The Consequences of Control in Parenting22:41 The Role of Freedom in Child Development25:39 The Misconception of Holding Time29:11 The Impact of Sleep Training on Children32:46 Respecting Free Will in Parenting35:54 The Concept of Holding Time40:41 Understanding Boundaries and Safety45:08 Preparing Children for Adulthood49:35 The Lifelong Mentor-Mentee Relationship54:55 Building a Legacy of Good ParentingRESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.Become a Founding Member of our Extraordinary Parent Mentoring MethodRachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for MomsJoin the Family Life Coaching Workshop Series for busy momsJoin Greg's 7-Day Challenge JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeGather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in PortugalRead our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/

What if being human meant showing up in the mess, not hiding from it? In this powerful and honest episode, we're joined by best-selling author, speaker, and hope dealer Carlos Whitaker—a man on a mission to bring people together through empathy, vulnerability, and healing conversations.Carlos opens up about what it really means to be human in a divided world, and how we can bridge gaps between people who think, look, or live differently than we do. He shares how his journey through anxiety, identity, and reconciliation has shaped his life's purpose—and why being fully human requires courage, curiosity, and compassion.We dive deep into the stories behind his viral moments, his intentional parenting philosophy, and the practice of showing up with love even when it's hard. Whether you're leading a family, a business, or just trying to lead yourself well, Carlos offers profound wisdom on how to live with more humanity and less hustle.This episode will inspire you to live a more open-hearted, others-focused life—and to be the kind of person who helps heal rather than divide.Don't miss this one. Carlos Whitaker brings the kind of hope we all need right now.Key Takeaways:Carlos emphasizes the importance of slowing down to reconnect with our humanity.The impact of technology on our lives and relationships is profound.Healing often requires addressing wounds from our past.Building relationships requires empathy and understanding of differing viewpoints.Writing daily helps maintain creativity and clarity of thought.Curiosity can lead to deeper understanding and change in relationships.Chapters00:00 The Journey of Carlos: From Worship Leader to Author07:47 Discovering True Calling: Teaching and Communicating14:05 The Essence of Being Human: Slowing Down19:14 The Impact of Technology on Humanity25:23 Family First: Healing Through Connection31:19 Practical Strategies for Reducing Screen Time38:58 The Importance of Face-to-Face Interaction40:02 Insights from the Amish: Curiosity and Knowledge41:58 The Power of Reading and Slowing Down44:00 Healing: Addressing Inner Wounds48:12 The Role of Therapy in Personal Growth52:24 Balancing Work and Family Life01:00:08 Launching Human School: Rediscovering Humanity01:02:13 Walking with People: A New Perspective on Division01:09:50 FFM Long outro .mp4RESOURCES For Carlos: https://www.carloswhittaker.com https://www.instagram.com/loswhithttps://www.carloswhittaker.com/podcast RESOURCES:Let me help you in your journey to becoming a more Purpose Driven Leader:Free course! Adventuring With Your ChildrenJoin Greg's  90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Podcast: The Formidable Family Man PodcastCheck out this podcast for families Extraordinary Family Life PodcastFree! Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and Tribe⁠⁠Join Greg's 7-Day ChallengeFollow me on Instagram:⁠@greg.denning⁠Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/greghdenning Learn more about the upcoming 'Asset Training' in Portugal Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in PortugalSee my Reviews

Are you struggling with constant meltdowns, defiance, rebellion, or other 'bad' behavior from your child—whether they're 3 or 23?Do you feel disconnected from them and like they won't listen, share, confide, or trust you?Here's the truth: “bad” behavior is almost never the real issue. It's a signal—a symptom of something deeper going on beneath the surface… usually a broken or weakened emotional connection with you, their parent.In this episode, we dive into the root cause of most behavioral challenges—and it's not what most parents think. Whether you're dealing with a sassy teen, a withdrawn preteen or tween, or a tantrum-prone toddler, the answer isn't more discipline. It's more connection.We unpack what emotional disconnection looks like in everyday parenting—and how to rebuild the bond in ways that transform your child's behavior from the inside out. You'll learn practical ways to:Rebuild emotional safety, even after years of strainAvoid the common parenting habits that sabotage connectionCreate small, intentional moments that build trust and attachmentRecognize when your child is asking for love — through misbehavior —without creating bad habitsThe tools we share can help you reconnect with your child at any age and create a family culture where trust, closeness, and cooperation naturally flourish.

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Are you overwhelmed by your child's clinginess, emotional meltdowns, tantrums, or constant need for attention?Do you want to be a calm, connected parent—but feel touched out, maxed out, and unsure how to respond without creating 'bad habits' in your children?In this episode, we respond to a heartfelt question from a listener who asked: “How do I support my children when they're being emotionally needy—but I'm running on empty myself? My husband says I'm forming bad habits in my kids and wearing myself out.”She's a devoted mom trying to show up with love—but when her child is falling apart, crying, throwing tantrums, or needing constant reassurance, she feels like she's emotionally drowning. Her natural response is to set more boundaries for her children to protect herself from burnout -- but is the best approach when YOU are the person who's the adult?If you've ever felt stuck between your own limits and your child's emotional needs, this conversation is for you.We explore how attachment parenting principles can help you stay emotionally grounded while building secure bonds—especially during challenging moments and phases. You'll learn how your child's clingy or intense behavior is actually a normal response to unmet emotional needs, and how to use those moments to deepen trust and connection instead of breaking your parent/child bond.We share practical ways to support your child's emotional growth without sacrificing your own well-being. From real-life parenting tools to nervous system regulation strategies, this episode will help you build a peaceful, connected home—even when parenting feels messy.Whether you're raising toddlers, preschoolers, or school-aged kids, these attachment parenting insights will empower you to create a strong foundation of safety, love, better behavior, and mental and emotional health now and into adulthood.✅ Your child's desire for closeness is a sign of healthy attachment—not weakness or 'bad habits'.✅ Emotional meltdowns and tantrums are signs of unmet attachment needs, not power struggles.✅ When you regulate yourself, you help your child develop emotionally through co-regulation. Children can't self-regulate.✅ Attachment parenting leads to long-term confidence, independence, and resilience.✅ You can meet your child's needs and protect your peace.Chapters00:00 The Key to Great Parenting10:02 The Importance of Truth in Parenting10:25 Navigating Parenting Challenges18:08 Understanding Attachment and Its Impact24:17 Building Strong Attachments for Better Outcomes31:20 Increasing Capacity as Parents36:45 The Complexity of Parenting39:31 Understanding Children's Emotional Needs42:48 The Importance of Self-Care for Parents45:39 Nutrition's Role in Parenting Effectiveness49:48 Prioritizing Childhood Development54:35 The Balance of Family Commitments59:15 Building Lasting Relationships with Children01:02:07 Strategies for Rebuilding Attachment01:06:48 Managing Parental Stress and Emotions

Want to transform your health and well-being? It all starts with one thing: self awareness. In this episode, health coach and visionary, Victor Robledo, reveals how understanding yourself deeply is the first step toward achieving lasting health. Whether you're looking to boost your fitness or unlock personal growth, this conversation offers insights that will change the way you approach your life and health.Victor isn't just about physical transformation—he's all about the mindset and emotional clarity that set the foundation for a healthy, purpose-driven life. Join us as we discuss how to overcome personal limitations, the importance of aligning your life vision with your health goals, and how small, mindful changes can lead to massive health shifts.In this episode, you'll learn:How self-awareness plays a key role in long-term healthThe power of understanding your own limitations and strengthsPractical steps for building a balanced, healthy lifeHow aligning your vision and expectations can supercharge your health journeyIf you're ready to get real about your health and discover the powerful role self-awareness plays, this episode is for you. Tune in to hear Victor Robledo's actionable strategies for a healthier, more fulfilling life.Listen now and start your transformation with a deeper understanding of yourself!Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Journey01:14 Victor's Background and Immigrant Roots02:26 Challenges of Growing Up03:11 Facing Trauma and Scarcity Mindset04:04 Transitioning to Full-Time Travel07:18 Identity and Work-Life Balance09:22 Enduring Personal Struggles11:32 Creating a Different Life for Children14:18 The Power of Travel and Adventure17:20 Lessons from Children and Adaptability19:21 Supporting Each Other's Dreams22:17 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies24:29 Facing Inner Turmoil and Growth27:49 Overcoming Limiting Beliefs29:36 Living a Vibrant Life30:35 Thriving Through Intentional Living36:16 Mind-Body Connection and Awareness42:31 Navigating Complacency and Expectations49:42 Healing and Processing Emotional Wounds55:48 Maintaining Connection in Marriage01:00:11 FFM Long outro .mp4https://www.instagram.com/coach_victor_robledo/https://www.nomadswithapurpose.comhttps://www.instagram.com/nomadswithapurpose/https://www.youtube.com/@nomadswithapurposehttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZTztAgEdFcDaSeorp1QWmA/playlistsRESOURCES:Let me help you in your journey to becoming a more Purpose Driven Leader:Free course! Adventuring With Your ChildrenJoin Greg's  90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Podcast: The Formidable Family Man PodcastCheck out this podcast for families Extraordinary Family Life PodcastFree! Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and Tribe⁠⁠Join Greg's 7-Day ChallengeFollow me on Instagram:⁠@greg.denning⁠Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/greghdenning Learn more about the upcoming 'Asset Training' in Portugal Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in PortugalSee my ReviewsSend me a voice message

Are you feeling overwhelmed by the idea of providing an exceptional education for your children? Do you want to foster a love of learning while preparing them for a future filled with curiosity and independence?In this second part of a two-part episode, we address a question from a listener—a successful businesswoman and mom of four—who is struggling to balance her career, homeschooling aspirations, and being the most present mom she can be. She's driven and accomplished, but overwhelmed, seeking a way to provide her children with an extraordinary education while maintaining her own well-being and their social development.In this episode, we dive deep into the key principles that must be a part of your educational approach if you want your kids to experience a truly extraordinary education. We discuss the power of self-directed learning and how it can unlock your children's potential to take charge of their own educational journey.Education is not just about textbooks and tests—it's about developing a mindset that allows children to thrive, learn how to think for themselves, and pursue knowledge passionately. In this conversation, we share the practical strategies that we have implemented in our own family to cultivate a love for learning, from embracing meaningful conversations to giving children the tools to explore their interests and goals.We also explore the importance of creating an environment where children feel free to explore their passions without the pressure of traditional schooling systems. If you want to raise kids who are motivated, self-disciplined, and truly excited to learn, this episode is for you.Key Takeaways:✅ Self-directed learning empowers kids to take ownership of their education.✅ A flexible, interest-driven approach promotes intrinsic motivation and curiosity.✅ Early emotional development plays a crucial role in academic success. ✅ Creating an environment for deep, meaningful conversations builds confidence. ✅ The key to a balanced education is cultivating a love for learning, not just mastery of facts. ✅ Intentional family dynamics and lifestyle habits impact children's long-term success.If you haven't watched part of of this two-part episode, watch it here:  ⁠https://yt.openinapp.co/EFL306⁠ Chapters00:00 Welcome to Extraordinary Family Life02:53 Embracing Challenges in Family Life05:28 The Ready, Fire, Aim Approach08:27 The Importance of Intentional Living11:04 Exploring Homeschooling Options13:51 The Role of Parents in Education16:38 Extraordinary Education Through World Schooling19:38 The Limitations of Public Schooling22:28 The Need for Self-Directed Learning25:21 Experiential Learning and Travel27:59 The Impact of Environment on Learning31:00 Navigating Social Experiences for Kids33:46 Conclusion About 'Real' Socialization39:54 The Transformative Power of Modern Education45:17 Leveraging Online Resources for Homeschooling48:18 Balancing Personal Time and Homeschooling52:32 Quality Time vs. Quantity Time in Education57:12 Redefining Social Skills Beyond School01:01:55 Overcoming Personal Limitations as a Parent01:06:50 Embracing the Journey through Deschooling01:13:10 The Importance of Following Interests in LearningRESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for MomsJoin the Family Life Coaching Workshop Series for busy momsJoin Greg's 7-Day Challenge JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeGather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in PortugalRead our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/ 

Are you struggling to balance your business/career while being a present mom at the same time? (We had multiple technical issues with this episode. Please forgive the sudden ending).Achieving work-life balance as a mompreneur can feel impossible, but the small decisions you make every day can either help you manage overwhelm or contribute to burnout.In this episode, we dive deep into how to create a work-life balance without sacrificing your well-being, ambitions, or the time you spend with your children. We discuss the challenges of being both a businesswoman and a present mom and explore how to find a delicate balance between family life and career goals.A listener co-owns a real estate brokerage with her husband, feels conflicted about slowing down to be a better mom. She feels the pressure to create something extraordinary in both her career and personal life, wanting to provide her kids with a quality education, social experiences, and a well-rounded upbringing. She worries about burnout, being pulled in multiple directions, and her current efforts to control outcomes are pushing her kids away.We share strategies for navigating these pressures, setting boundaries, and prioritizing your values. We emphasize that balance doesn't mean perfection—it means creating systems that allow you to manage both your career and family life with ease. From setting clear goals to modeling healthy boundaries and promoting self-directed learning, we offer practical advice to help you stay grounded, avoid guilt, and thrive as both a mom and an entrepreneur.If you're ready to stop burnout and create more harmony between your career, homeschooling, and family life, tune in for actionable tips that will help you succeed in both your business and motherhood journey.✅ It's possible to balance your business and family life without feeling overwhelmed.✅ Set healthy boundaries and 'chunk time' to avoid burnout and create space for 'being present'.✅ Holding high standards can be done without pushing your kids away.✅ Prioritize a vision for your family to stay focused on what truly matters.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Extraordinary Family Life01:13 Listener Question03:34 The Desire for Homeschooling04:56 Vision and Clarity in Parenting09:38 Facing Obstacles in Family Life12:52 Quality vs. Quantity in Parenting16:25 Setting Boundaries as a Parent20:27 Strategic Time Management for Family Engagement21:44 Navigating Chaos with Calmness24:04 The Dangers of Control in Parenting27:26 The Irony of Control and Surrender30:13 Self-Awareness as a Catalyst for Change33:05 Learning Parenting as a Skill34:31 Balancing Control and Freedom36:54 Establishing Boundaries with Flexibility40:33 Teaching Independence through RoutinesMemorable Quotes:

Ready to unlock the secrets of authentic masculinity? In this powerful episode, we dive deep into the true essence of manhood with special guest Byron Rodgers. Known for his strength, wisdom, and fearless leadership, Byron brings a wealth of knowledge on what it truly means to embrace masculinity in today's world. From overcoming personal struggles to becoming a protector, provider, and leader, Byron shares his unique journey of transformation and growth.In this inspiring conversation, Byron reveals the importance of respect, faith, and preparedness in navigating life's challenges. Whether you're a father, husband, or individual seeking to level up, this episode is packed with valuable insights on building confidence, mental toughness, and emotional intelligence. Byron teaches us that masculinity isn't about perfection, but about progress, resilience, and embracing our purpose.Tune in to discover how to become the man you're called to be, how to lead with integrity, and how to face the most daunting challenges with courage. If you're ready to take ownership of your masculinity and grow into the best version of yourself, this podcast is a must-listen!https://www.instagram.com/byronrodgers_actual/ RESOURCES:Let me help you in your journey to becoming a more Purpose Driven Leader:Free course! Adventuring With Your ChildrenJoin Greg's  90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Podcast: The Formidable Family Man PodcastCheck out this podcast for families Extraordinary Family Life PodcastFree! Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and Tribe⁠⁠Join Greg's 7-Day ChallengeFollow me on Instagram:⁠@greg.denning⁠Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/greghdenning Learn more about the upcoming 'Asset Training' in Portugal Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in PortugalSee my ReviewsSend me a voice message

Are you struggling with finding the balance between 'guiding' your kids' choices and empowering them with real (but frightening) agency? In this episode, we answer a listener's thoughtful question about how to support their kids in developing individual agency while still fostering a strong, supportive parental attachment and safe environment that protects from real risk without being overly controlling and 'helicoptering'.This listener wonders if their parenting approach might be leaning more toward “managed choices” rather than allowing their children the space to make truly independent decisions. We explore the critical difference between agency and managed choices, which approach works best for which ages/maturity levels, and why it's so important for children to experience true agency as early as possible. We also discuss how parents can equip their kids with the skills and confidence they need to make their own decisions—without feeling controlled. This candid discussion provides insights and practical strategies to help parents foster a healthy balance of love, connection, and independence in their kids' lives.If you're wondering how to give your children the agency they need to confidently navigate life on their own while keeping a strong bond with you, their parent, then this episode is for you.Key Takeaways: ✅ Discover the key differences between agency and managed choices.✅ Learn how to empower your kids to make their own decisions.✅ Discover the mistake that many parents make of being too authoritarian.✅ Understand why it's crucial for children to experience true agency over their lives.✅ Agency is a fundamental human right that should be nurtured in children.✅ Teaching decision-making skills is crucial for children's independence.✅ Obedience can be detrimental; children should learn to think for themselves.**Memorable Quotes:**

First responders face some of the toughest challenges, often carrying the weight of trauma in silence. In this episode Greg Denning, with guest Jeffery Denning, shed light on how these unsung heroes, along with anyone struggling with mental health, can find healing through compassion, connection, and simple daily habits. Jeff and Greg explore the profound impact of trauma, especially on first responders and military personnel, and how self-care, journaling, and expressing love can transform emotional well-being. With actionable advice on how to nurture your mind, body, spirit, and relationships, this conversation offers hope to those in need of emotional support and growth.Through deeply personal stories and insights, they dive into how love and community support can foster resilience and healing, especially after life's most challenging moments. Whether you're struggling with grief, loss, or trauma, this episode provides the inspiration to help you build healthy habits and find the strength to overcome adversity.Tune in to discover how first responders and others can start their journey toward mental wellness, resilience, and inner peace.Resources for Jeff:https://jeffreydenning.com/ RESOURCES:Let me help you in your journey to becoming a more Purpose Driven Leader:Free course! Adventuring With Your ChildrenJoin Greg's  90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Podcast: The Formidable Family Man PodcastCheck out this podcast for families Extraordinary Family Life PodcastFree! Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and Tribe⁠⁠Join Greg's 7-Day ChallengeFollow me on Instagram:⁠@greg.denning⁠Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/greghdenning Learn more about the upcoming 'Asset Training' in Portugal Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in PortugalSee my ReviewsSend me a voice messagelinktr.ee/greg.denning30 Day ChallengeExtraordinary Parent Mentoring 

Are you struggling with how to handle your child's tough emotions or challenging behaviors?Did you know that it's the small, everyday habits that are sabotaging your family's happiness and contributing to misbehavior?In this episode, we dive into the things we NEVER do as parents of 7 children to ensure a positive, nurturing family culture that helps our children grow into well-adjusted, confident, and emotionally resilient individuals.Raising kids is no easy task, but cultivating a loving and supportive environment where they can develop emotional maturity and healthy coping mechanisms is key. In this candid discussion, we reveal the strategies that have worked for our family to promote resilience and prevent common pitfalls like mocking, sarcasm, and unresolved anger.We discuss the importance of honesty and emotional authenticity, the value of constructive feedback, and how to address small issues before they grow into bigger problems. From avoiding the pitfalls of negative language to fostering open communication, this episode is packed with practical tips that help build a strong family dynamic.If you're ready to take your parenting to the next level, tune in to discover how focusing on the 'never-dos' can help you raise children who are equipped to handle life's challenges with resilience and confidence. Whether you're parenting toddlers or teenagers, the principles discussed in this episode will help you create a thriving, emotionally healthy family.Key Takeaways:✅ Small, intentional changes create a thriving family culture.✅ Sarcasm and teasing erode trust—kindness builds connection.✅ Strong parent-child attachments are the foundation of self-worth.✅ Harsh discipline creates emotional distance—love is more effective.✅. Technology should serve your family, not steal from it.✅ Saying "no" to distractions unlocks productivity and fulfillment.Chapters00:00 The Importance of Small Changes in Family Dynamics02:51 Creating a Positive Family Culture05:57 The Impact of Sarcasm and Teasing12:08 Building Strong Attachments Through Love17:47 The Dangers of Harsh Parenting24:03 The Role of Technology in Family Interactions34:05 Intentional Living and Productivity36:03 The Impact of Video Games on Success38:58 Media Consumption: Radio and TV42:14 The Power of Saying No44:06 Healthy Lifestyle Choices45:57 Communication and Emotional Authenticity49:05 Addressing Problems Early01:00:49 Creating a Positive Family CultureMemorable Quotes:

In this episode of the Formidable Family Man Podcast, Greg Denning interviews Tom Telford, an accomplished entrepreneur, mental wellness advocate, and family man, to explore the principles that fuel resilience in both business and life. Tom dives deep into his personal journey and the key practices that have helped him become a successful entrepreneur while maintaining a strong, supportive family life. They discuss the importance of the "Five S's"—sleep, sun, sweat, serve, and stoke—as the foundation of mental wellness, leadership, and personal growth. Tom also shares powerful insights on how building resilience through daily habits like goal-setting, connection, and self-care can transform your career, mental health, and leadership skills. Whether you're an entrepreneur looking to boost productivity, a man striving to lead with purpose, or someone eager to build mental toughness, this episode provides practical strategies to thrive both in your career and family life.Check out Tom's awesome work here:https://levomind.com/support-staff/https://www.brainstoke.com/RESOURCES:Let me help you in your journey to becoming a more Purpose Driven Leader:Free course! Adventuring With Your ChildrenJoin Greg's  90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Podcast: The Formidable Family Man PodcastCheck out this podcast for families Extraordinary Family Life PodcastFree! Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and Tribe⁠⁠Join Greg's 7-Day ChallengeFollow me on Instagram:⁠@greg.denning⁠Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/greghdenning Learn more about the upcoming 'Asset Training' in Portugal Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in PortugalSee my ReviewsSend me a voice message

Does having children or being married make you more unhappy than single or childless individuals? Many people (rightly) say 'Yes'! That's why more and more people are choosing to remain single, to avoid long-term commitments, and to vow to never have children at all. Because it IS hard and often makes you 'unhappy'.But what if happiness is not the point of life? What if the challenges of marriage and parenting aren't something to avoid, but the very things that make life meaningful? In this episode, we dive into a conversation inspired by a Facebook post that sparked a debate on whether the struggles of raising children and maintaining a marriage are worth it. The Dennings explore the idea that, far from being reasons to quit, these challenges are paths to personal growth, fulfillment, and a more rewarding, meaningful (even if sometimes unhappy), life.They also challenge the modern trend of avoiding discomfort for the sake of comfort and convenience, instead suggesting that leaning into the struggles—whether it's raising kids or nurturing a relationship—is what leads to lasting satisfaction. In fact, just like any skill, marriage, and parenting require knowledge, practice, and the right tools to truly thrive.Not everyone should necessarily pursue marriage or parenthood, but if you choose that path, it's important to do it well. Developing the skills needed to navigate the challenges of family life is essential for creating a fulfilling and meaningful experience.If you've ever felt overwhelmed by the chaos of family life, or if you're on the fence about whether marriage and family are right for you, this episode offers insights and encouragement to help you not just survive but thrive. And if you're ready to develop those skills, we can help you with the tools you need to create the Extraordinary Family Life of your dreams.RESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for MomsRachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeJoin Greg's 7-Day Challenge Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in PortugalRead our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/voicemail/

What does it mean to be a father in today's world? How can men embrace both strength and vulnerability to raise emotionally healthy sons? In this thought-provoking conversation, Dan Doty and Greg Denning explore these critical questions and more, diving deep into the complexities of masculinity, fatherhood and rites of passage.In this conversation, Dan Doty shares his journey from wilderness therapy to becoming a leader in men's work, emphasizing the importance of emotional strength and connection in fatherhood. He discusses the missing elements in male development, the significance of rites of passage for boys, and practical steps fathers can take to improve their relationships with their children. The dialogue highlights the need for men to engage in inner work while balancing it with action, ultimately fostering a deeper understanding of strength and vulnerability in parenting. In this conversation, Greg Denning and Dan Doty explore the complexities of masculinity, emotional intelligence, and the essential elements of raising boys in today's world. They discuss the importance of vulnerability, mentorship, and creating safe spaces for boys to express their emotions. The conversation emphasizes the need for intentional challenges and the role of fathers in shaping their sons' understanding of healthy masculinity. Ultimately, they highlight the legacy fathers leave behind and the impact of their actions on future generations.Resources for Dan Doty:  https://dandoty.com/fathers-fire https://www.fatherhoodunlocked.com/  https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodunlocked/ RESOURCES:Let me help you in your journey to becoming a more Purpose Driven Leader: Free course! Adventuring With Your Children Join Greg's  90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE!  Podcast: The Formidable Family Man Podcast Check out this podcast for families Extraordinary Family Life Podcast Free! Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and Tribe⁠⁠ Join Greg's 7-Day Challenge Follow me on Instagram:⁠@greg.denning⁠ Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/greghdenning  Learn more about the upcoming 'Asset Training' in Portugal  Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal See my Reviews Send me a ⁠voice message⁠

Are you feeling confused, frustrated, or angry about the noise of politics and social media? Constantly caught between opposing views, trying to figure out what's true? In this episode, we explore the idea that true change begins with YOU. Instead of getting caught up in the endless political cycle, we focus on self development and taking control of your own life.As the world seems more divided than ever, the only way forward is to navigate through the chaos with a balanced perspective—just like walking the labyrinth of life. In this thought-provoking conversation, we dive into why you can't just settle on one side of the issue and call it truth. Truth is dynamic—it's about developing all parts of yourself and understanding both sides. It's about evolving, continuing the journey, and embracing the complexity of life.From the importance of family to the role of personal health and relationships in creating a strong foundation for societal change, we challenge the notion of trying to fix the world before fixing what's within. This is a call to get your house in order, not only for yourself but for your family and community.It's time to stop chasing after and getting emotionally caught up in politics, world events, or external fixes and focus on the inner work that leads to real transformation. Tune in and start taking control of what you can control —YOU and YOUR family!Episode⁠ #297 Is It a 'Sin' That We Are So CERTAIN About What We Preach on This Podcast? RESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in PortugalGet Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for MomsJoin Greg's 7-Day Challenge JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeRead our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/voicemail/

In this powerful episode, Greg Denning and Jonathan Rios dive deep into why every man needs a tribe—a brotherhood of like-minded men who challenge, support, and elevate him. Men often face the pressure of going it alone, but Jonathan and Greg argue that true strength and growth are found in unity and shared purpose. They discuss the essential role that a brotherhood plays in holding men accountable to their values and standards, helping them rise above mediocrity and pursue lives of purpose and integrity.Drawing from their own experiences, they explore how men can maintain high standards while offering grace, how to live authentically, and the importance of meaningful, supportive relationships. The conversation highlights the need for men to be surrounded by others who will push them to be better, whether it's in business, marriage, or personal growth. It's not just about self-improvement—it's about serving others, and how a strong brotherhood creates a ripple effect of positive change.Jonathan shares practical insights on what it means to live with purpose, hold yourself to unwavering standards, and surround yourself with men who elevate you. This episode is a call to action for men who are ready to stop walking their journey alone—get inspired to build a tribe that helps you thrive in every area of life.If you're ready to lead with integrity, challenge yourself, and make a lasting impact, this conversation is for you.Connect with Jonathan Rios:Website: https://thriiv.co/primal-menEmail: HELLO@THRIIV.COInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/primalvirtuesRESOURCES:Let me help you in your journey to becoming a more Purpose Driven Leader:Free course! Adventuring With Your ChildrenJoin Greg's  90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Podcast: The Formidable Family Man PodcastCheck out this podcast for families Extraordinary Family Life PodcastFree! Greg's⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and Tribe⁠⁠Join Greg's 7-Day ChallengeFollow me on Instagram:⁠@greg.denning⁠Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/greghdenning Learn more about the upcoming 'Asset Training' in Portugal Gather with us at the⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in PortugalSee my ReviewsSend me a voice message

"What are some practical steps to change our emotional state? How do we change the energy that we radiate? You guys emphasize that it's a choice, we can choose... but why does that feel so difficult and strange? How do you do it so that it is genuine and not a mask?"In this episode, Greg and Rachel explore the powerful impact of emotional awareness and emotional intelligence on family life -- especially on your ability to parent well. They dive into these thoughtful questions, explaining why emotional shifts can feel challenging and how to make those changes feel authentic.The Dennings break down how cultivating emotional awareness helps us recognize the root causes of our feelings, fostering healthier relationships and stronger family dynamics with our children. They share practical strategies like practicing gratitude, becoming aware of our thoughts, and using physical actions (such as exercise) to shift our emotional states.By the end of this episode, you'll gain practical, actionable tools to begin transforming your emotional landscape -- especially your daily interactions with your children. Whether you're struggling to break negative patterns or simply want to bring more positivity into your family life, this episode will guide you on how to cultivate emotional intelligence that is not only effective but also genuine. Tune in to learn how small shifts in emotional awareness can create big changes in your relationships and overall family harmony.RESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE!  Get Rachel's⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ + FREE Majesty of Calmness ⁠Greg's⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and Tribe Join Greg's 7-Day Challenge  Follow us on Instagram:⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal Read our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/voicemail/

In this thought-provoking episode, Greg Denning and Gary Arnell dive deep into the importance of personal responsibility, family values, and the moral obligation to become assets in our communities. They explore the shifting role of government and the dangers of centralized power, urging listeners to take ownership of their lives, families, and society.The conversation highlights the concept of virtue, inspired by ancient philosophers like Aristotle, and its relevance in today's world. Greg and Gary challenge listeners to go beyond individual success, emphasizing the need for well-rounded, capable people who lead by example and become forces for good. They discuss the importance of preparation, personal development, and taking action to fill the gaps left by societal institutions.From the growing burden of unfunded liabilities to the quiet theft of inflation, the episode touches on the consequences of a disconnected populace. The duo offers a hopeful message that change is possible—through a commitment to self-improvement, wisdom, and collective responsibility. Together, they invite listeners to stop waiting for others to solve the problems and instead step up to be part of the solution, starting with themselves and their families.This episode is a call to action for those looking to make a real difference in their own lives and the world around them. It's an inspiring conversation about reclaiming power, rebuilding communities, and moving toward a more virtuous, responsible society.RESOURCES:Let me help you in your journey to becoming a more Purpose Driven Leader: Free course! Adventuring With Your Children Join Greg's  90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE!  Podcast: The Formidable Family Man Podcast Check out this podcast for families Extraordinary Family Life Podcast Free! Greg's⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and Tribe⁠⁠ Join Greg's 7-Day Challenge Follow me on Instagram:⁠@greg.denning⁠ Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/greghdenning  Learn more about the upcoming 'Asset Training' in Portugal  Gather with us at the⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal See my Reviews Send me a voice message

In this powerful episode, we delve into the concept of EXTREME Gratitude — a mindset that can shift the way we experience life's challenges and blessings. Join us as we reflect on the fragility of life and howtragedy can serve as a stark reminder to cherish every precious moment with our children. From personal stories of heartache and near-loss to practical advice for cultivating a deeper sense of appreciation, this episode encourages parents to embrace gratitude over frustration. Learn how you can correct your child's behavior with love, not irritation, and how focusing on what truly matters can transform the way you parent. This sobering, yet hopeful message will inspire you to embrace life with greater intention and show your children how much they are truly cherished.More videos on challenging situations that caused us to focus on what truly matters:RESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey:JOIN GREG'S ⁠90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE⁠! Get Rachel's⁠⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠⁠Join the⁠ ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠⁠ for MomsRachel's ⁠⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠⁠⁠Greg's⁠⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠⁠Join the ⁠Formidable Family Man Masterclass and Tribe⁠Join Greg's ⁠7-Day Challenge ⁠Follow us on Instagram:⁠⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠⁠ or⁠⁠@greg.denning⁠⁠Gather with us at the⁠⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠⁠ in PortugalRead our reviews here: ⁠https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/review⁠--- Send in a voice message: ⁠https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/voicemail/

In this powerful episode, Greg Denning and guest Carlos Mendez dive deep into the importance of taking responsibility in every area of life, particularly in family and leadership. Carlos shares his experiences from both his time in the military and his personal life, offering invaluable insights on how embracing ownership can transform your relationships, mindset, and approach to challenges. He reveals how taking responsibility, even in the toughest moments, can lead to growth, healing, and powerful change — not just for yourself, but for those around you.They discuss the role of fathers and husbands as leaders in the home, how prioritizing relationships over tasks can create lasting influence, and the responsibility that comes with being the head of the household. With inspiring real-life examples and wisdom from both personal and professional journeys, this conversation is packed with practical advice and encouragement to help you lead with purpose, take control of your actions, and ultimately create a more fulfilling and empowered life.Whether you're looking to strengthen your leadership skills, improve your relationships, or better navigate life's challenges, this episode is a must-listen for anyone committed to growth, ownership, and leadership at home and beyond.Carlos Mendez onInstagram RESOURCES:Let me help you in your journey to becoming a more Purpose Driven Leader:Free course!Adventuring With Your ChildrenJoin Greg's 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Podcast:The Formidable Family Man PodcastCheck out this podcast for familiesExtraordinary Family Life PodcastFree! Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Join theFormidable Family Man Masterclass and Tribe⁠⁠Join Greg's7-Day ChallengeFollow me on Instagram:⁠@greg.denning⁠Follow me on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/greghdenning Learn more about the upcoming 'Asset Training' in Portugal Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in PortugalSee myReviewsSend me avoice message

"Is there room for doubt? Or are you always certain (in this podcast, etc) that your decisions/choices about how to navigate this life are the way everyone should also do things? Because if you are certain, that leaves no room for tolerance or unity, which isn't necessarily a good thing." In this episode, we discuss certainty and the role it plays in the choices we make and the lives we live. We are VERY CERTAIN about many things we talk about on this podcast, but is that always a good thing? A listener recently shared a thought-provoking perspective inspired by the movie The Conclave, where a cardinal gives a powerful speech on the dangers of certainty. Then, after watching our episode #276, they wondered if our confidence in our choices—whether in parenting, relationships, or personal development—leaves room for doubt or growth. They asked: “Is there room for ‘doubt,' or are you always ‘certain' that your way is the best for everyone?” Greg and Rachel Denning reflect on this powerful question in today's conversation. They explore the tension between certainty and doubt, how certainty can sometimes cause division (especially in religious contexts), and the importance of staying open-minded, even when you've found clarity in your own path. This episode is a candid discussion about balancing conviction with curiosity, and how we can learn from each other's experiences while still standing firm in our beliefs. The Denning's share how they navigate the challenges of life, understanding that certainty doesn't always have to mean rigid, and that doubt can be a healthy part of growth. Tune in as we explore how to live with confidence in your decisions while remaining humble enough to question and grow—ultimately shaping an extraordinary life for you and your family. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE!  Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and Tribe Join Greg's 7-Day Challenge  Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal Read our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message  #ExtraordinaryFamilyLifePodcast #WorldschoolFamily #RachelDenning #FormidableFamilyMen #FamilySuccess #ParentingTips #Extraordinary #BecomeABetterYou #MarriageAdvice #MarriageGoals #RaisingKids #SelfHelp #PersonalDevelopment #GrowthMindset

In this episode, hosts Greg and Rachel Denning dive into the vital concept of taking control of family life and prioritizing family values over societal norms. They encourage listeners to refuse to participate in the pressure to conform to mainstream expectations and instead focus on building a life centered around personal and family growth, self-and-family improvement, and family connection. Greg and Rachel discuss how fostering a strong, purposeful family unit starts with the individual's commitment to growth and alignment with their core values. Throughout the episode, the Dennings explore the challenges of living authentically in a world that often rewards conformity over individuality. They share candid insights from their own journey of overcoming obstacles and creating a family culture that aligns with their beliefs. The conversation touches on the importance of embracing nonconformity, finding deeper meaning in everyday life, and overcoming societal pressures that can undermine family cohesion. Whether you're facing the pressures of modern life or simply seeking ways to create a more intentional, extraordinary family experience, this episode offers valuable perspectives and practical advice. Greg and Rachel's message is clear: taking ownership of your family's path, prioritizing what truly matters, and pursuing personal development can lead to a life that is not only successful but deeply fulfilling. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE!  Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and Tribe Join Greg's 7-Day Challenge  Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal Read our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message  #ExtraordinaryFamilyLifePodcast #WorldschoolFamily #RachelDenning #FormidableFamilyMen #FamilySuccess #ParentingTips #Extraordinary #BecomeABetterYou #MarriageAdvice #MarriageGoals #RaisingKids #SelfHelp #PersonalDevelopment #GrowthMindset

On today's Friday Q&A show we discuss: 1:35 Should I just pay for a second citizenship and get it done with? 7:44 How do I provide financial coaching for a 70-year-old widow? 24:50 How do I get on the same page re: asset allocation with my husband? 47:51 What can I do to save money on my 2024 taxes? 55:08 I'm going to church for the first time...what should I expect? 1:06:34 I live tax-free in Bermuda. How can I invest tax-free too? Enjoy! Join me on next week's Q&A show: www.patreon.com/radicalpersonalfinance  Get my Recommended Reading List here: www.radicalbooklist.com  Make 2025 your best year ever: www.RPFacademy.com 

In this episode of the Extraordinary Family Life podcast, Greg and Rachel Denning share powerful new year motivation for parents seeking to inspire and guide their children. They discuss the importance of setting goals, embracing discomfort, and preparing kids to face life's challenges with resilience. By modeling adaptability and growth, parents can foster a supportive environment where their children learn to thrive, not just listen. The Dennings emphasize that identity transformation—shifting from a fixed mindset to one that embraces change—is critical for achieving success in both parenting and personal development. Greg and Rachel also explore how parents can improve communication, lead by example, and instill a sense of responsibility in their kids. They believe that teaching children to embrace failure as a learning opportunity builds resilience and independence. This episode offers practical insights on how to balance guidance with freedom, ensuring children not only listen but grow into capable, confident individuals who are prepared for the future. Whether you're looking to strengthen your family dynamic, improve communication, or teach your kids how to navigate challenges, this episode is packed with actionable advice. Tune in to discover how to harness the power of new year motivation to help your children thrive in 2025 and beyond, and build a family life grounded in resilience, responsibility, and growth. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE!  Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and Tribe Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal Read our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message #ExtraordinaryFamilyLifePodcast #WorldschoolFamily #RachelDenning #FormidableFamilyMen #FamilySuccess #ParentingTips #Extraordinary #BecomeABetterYou #MarriageAdvice #MarriageGoals #RaisingKids #SelfHelp #PersonalDevelopment #GrowthMindset 

In this episode of the Extraordinary Family Life podcast, hosts Greg and Rachel Denning explore the complexities of marriage dynamics, offering valuable insights on how communication, understanding, and mutual growth are essential for a thriving partnership. They dive into the challenges couples face, such as betrayal and rejection, and provide practical advice on how to navigate these issues with empathy and reassurance. Rather than focusing solely on traditional counseling, the Dennings encourage couples to consider working with a life coach to help them strengthen their relationship and reach their fullest potential. Greg and Rachel highlight the importance of seeking proactive, forward-thinking support, such as life coaching, to help couples gain clarity, set goals, and develop healthy communication strategies. They also emphasize the power of shared resources—both emotional and practical—in strengthening a marriage. Whether you're just beginning your relationship or have been married for years, this episode is packed with actionable tips and inspiring stories to help you enhance your marriage dynamics, build trust, and create a supportive, loving family environment. Tune in and discover how to nurture and grow your relationship with the guidance of a life coach, fostering a deeper connection and lasting happiness. The topics discussed in our episodes are intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. They should not be considered medical advice. Always consult a qualified professional for any medical concerns or questions. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE!  Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching and Tribe Download the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠ Take the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal Read our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message  #ExtraordinaryFamilyLifePodcast #WorldschoolFamily #RachelDenning #FormidableFamilyMen #FamilySuccess #ParentingTips #Extraordinary #BecomeABetterYou #MarriageAdvice #MarriageGoals #RaisingKids #SelfHelp #PersonalDevelopment #GrowthMindset

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In this thought-provoking episode of the Extraordinary Family Life podcast, hosts Greg and Rachel Denning explore the profound impact of societal systems on parenting and family life. They delve into the concept of “the matrix” — the conventional structures that shape education, success, and personal identity — and how these systems can keep families stuck in unproductive patterns, preventing them from creating an extraordinary, significant life. They emphasize the importance of fostering a strong foundation for children, focusing not just on academic success but on mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being. They argue that success should not be confined to grades and jobs but redefined to prioritize happiness, autonomy, and resilience. Drawing on real-life examples, the Dennings highlight the critical role of habits, accountability, and a supportive environment in shaping a child's future. The conversation also critiques the flaws in the traditional educational system and underscores the value of preparing children for their unique life missions. By teaching kids to navigate failure, embrace challenges, and develop self-initiative, parents can cultivate a future generation ready to thrive beyond societal expectations. This episode offers invaluable insights for parents seeking to break free from outdated systems and create an extraordinary, significant life for themselves and their children. Tune in now to learn how to empower your family to thrive in a changing world! The topics discussed in our episodes are intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. They should not be considered medical advice. Always consult a qualified professional for any medical concerns or questions. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE!  Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching and Tribe Download the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠ Take the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal Read our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message  #ExtraordinaryFamilyLifePodcast #WorldschoolFamily #RachelDenning #FormidableFamilyMen #FamilySuccess #ParentingTips #Extraordinary #BecomeABetterYou #MarriageAdvice #MarriageGoals #RaisingKids #SelfHelp #PersonalDevelopment #GrowthMindset

In this episode of the Extraordinary Family Life podcast, hosts Greg and Rachel Denning dive into practical strategies for managing resistant children and helping them develop positive routines and habits. If your child struggles with resistance or has difficulty adjusting to structure, this episode is for you. Greg and Rachel explore how small changes in family dynamics—like improving self-awareness, fostering emotional connections, and creating flexible routines—can make a significant difference in your child's behavior and happiness. They discuss the importance of balance between work and play, how understanding a child's emotional needs influences their actions, and why a parent's demeanor and attitude are crucial to creating a nurturing environment. They emphasize the value of sleep, nutrition, and play in a child's overall well-being, and how these factors can help even the most resistant children become more cooperative and content. Tune in for actionable tips on transforming resistance into resilience, and learn how to nurture independence, responsibility, and emotional growth in your children—so they're happy most of the time. The topics discussed in our episodes are intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. They should not be considered medical advice. Always consult a qualified professional for any medical concerns or questions. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE!  Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching and Tribe Download the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠ Take the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal Read our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message  #ExtraordinaryFamilyLifePodcast #WorldschoolFamily #RachelDenning #FormidableFamilyMen #FamilySuccess #ParentingTips #Extraordinary #BecomeABetterYou #MarriageAdvice #MarriageGoals #RaisingKids #SelfHelp #PersonalDevelopment #GrowthMindset

In this episode of the Extraordinary Family Life podcast, hosts Greg and Rachel Denning explore the challenges parents face when encouraging their children to practice musical instruments, emphasizing the role of music in promoting lifelong learning and brain development. They tackle the common struggle of balancing practice with enjoyment, and share strategies to foster a love for music while building skills.  One participant from their 28-Day Challenge asks, “How do you address problems with kids that don't want to practice musical instruments? I feel like it's so important for their education to have this skill, but I'm so tired of trying to get them to practice. It's always a struggle. They say they love playing but hate to practice. I seriously feel like a crazy person going between wanting them to play and telling them we are going to cancel lessons because it's pointless to pay for them if they don't practice.” Greg and Rachel dive into this question, offering practical advice for parents on how to motivate kids without the constant tension.  They share insights on how to make practice more enjoyable, set realistic goals, and keep music a fun and integral part of family life. Tune in for actionable strategies to help your children thrive in their musical journey, turning challenges into opportunities for growth. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE!  Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching and Tribe Download the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠ Take the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal Read our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message  #ExtraordinaryFamilyLifePodcast #WorldschoolFamily #RachelDenning #FormidableFamilyMen #FamilySuccess #ParentingTips #Extraordinary #BecomeABetterYou #MarriageAdvice #MarriageGoals #RaisingKids #SelfHelp #PersonalDevelopment #GrowthMindset 

In this episode of the Extraordinary Family Life podcast, hosts Greg and Rachel Denning delve into the complexities of the parenting journey, emphasizing the critical nuances that can shape vastly different outcomes for children. They explore the delicate balance between control and freedom, advocating for a parenting style that allows children to make their own decisions within a safe, supportive environment. The Dennings share invaluable insights on teaching decision-making skills, the importance of learning through experience, and how respecting children's autonomy fosters growth. While it might seem counterintuitive, they emphasize that loosening control can lead to better long-term outcomes for children. They further elaborate on the principles of effective parenting, underscoring the role of authority, mutual respect, and understanding the natural behavior of children. They highlight how excessive control can fuel rebellion and unhappiness, urging parents to adopt a parenting style that encourages healthy habits and empowers children to make their own choices. The discussion also touches on creating a safe space for children, reevaluating traditional mealtime structures, and fostering healthier relationships with food. Ultimately, this episode offers parents a fresh perspective on how to navigate the parenting journey, guiding their children without resorting to control, and fostering a harmonious, respectful family dynamic. The topics discussed in our episodes are intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. They should not be considered medical advice. Always consult a qualified professional for any medical concerns or questions. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE!  Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching and Tribe Download the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠ Take the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal Read our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message  #ExtraordinaryFamilyLifePodcast #WorldschoolFamily #RachelDenning #FormidableFamilyMen #FamilySuccess #ParentingTips #Extraordinary #BecomeABetterYou #MarriageAdvice #MarriageGoals #RaisingKids #SelfHelp #PersonalDevelopment #GrowthMindset

In this episode of the Extraordinary Family Life podcast, hosts Greg and Rachel Denning reflect on the wildly successful Toujours Prêts training event and dive into the importance of lifelong learning as a key to becoming an asset to your family and community. Held at the beautiful World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort in Portugal, this event empowered participants to develop the skills, confidence, and mindset necessary to face life's unexpected challenges. The Dennings stress that hope is not a strategy—preparation is crucial, and lifelong learning is the foundation of readiness and becoming an asset. Through real-life scenarios, they highlight the importance of training, physical fitness, and the power of community support. Shifting from a mindset of fear to one of freedom is another key takeaway, one that can transform your life and help you thrive in difficult circumstances. If you missed the event, don't worry! Greg and Rachel encourage you to join them next time at the World School Family Resort in Portugal, where you'll experience a transformative week of learning, growth, and connection. Whether you're looking to enhance your preparedness, strengthen your relationships, or invest in personal development, this episode will inspire you to embrace lifelong learning as a tool for becoming an asset for your family and community. Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal The topics discussed in our episodes are intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. They should not be considered medical advice. Always consult a qualified professional for any medical concerns or questions. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE!  Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching and Tribe Download the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠ Take the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal Read our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message 

Are you willing to sacrifice greatly in order to attain highly and achieve your biggest goals? We received this great question from one of our viewers: ““He who would accomplish little must sacrifice little; he who would achieve much must sacrifice much; he who would attain highly must sacrifice greatly.” – James Allen. In line with this powerful quote, how have Greg and Rachel Denning sacrificed greatly to build the extraordinary life they have today? How did they overcome the fear of losing comfort, security, or even social expectations to pursue their dreams? Then as a follow up question: what advice would you give to people in order to overcome the fear of loss or sacrifice for something better?” In this episode of The Extraordinary Family Life Podcast, Greg and Rachel open up about their personal journey, including how they have sacrificed greatly in order to attain highly — sacrifices like comfort, leisure, and even time with family and friends. They also share valuable advice on how to overcome the fear of loss when making sacrifices for something greater. If you're struggling to take the leap toward something bigger in your life, don't miss this episode! Tune in to learn how embracing sacrifice can help you live the extraordinary life you've always dreamed of. Ready to sacrifice greatly in order to attain highly? Share your thoughts and experiences with us --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message  The topics discussed in our episodes are intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. They should not be considered medical advice. Always consult a qualified professional for any medical concerns or questions. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE!  Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching and Tribe Download the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠ Take the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal Read our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message #ExtraordinaryFamilyLifePodcast #WorldschoolFamily #RachelDenning #FormidableFamilyMen #Extraordinary #BecomeABetterYou #MarriageAdvice #MarriageGoals #RaisingKids #SelfHelp #PersonalDevelopment #GrowthMindset #JamesAllen #SacrificeGreatly #SelfImprovements

In this episode of the Extraordinary Family Life podcast, hosts Greg and Rachel Denning share powerful insights on Proactive Parenting, revealing how to raise kids who develop into responsible, confident teens—teens you not only want to spend time with, but who genuinely want to be with you as well. For the first time ever, Greg and Rachel are joined by special guests Brian and Sam, two seasoned parents who offer fresh perspectives and practical advice on navigating the parenting journey. Together, they dive into the importance of building strong emotional connections with your children and maintaining a long-term vision for your parenting approach. They explore the concept of the “emotional bank account,” where positive interactions create lasting trust and open communication. The conversation also touches on the essential role of physical touch and emotional support in fostering a strong family bond. Greg, Rachel, Brian, and Sam discuss how creativity and proactive thinking are key to overcoming parenting challenges, and how persuasion—not control—is the most effective way to encourage children to take responsibility. Whether you're in the trenches with young children or preparing for the teen years, this episode provides actionable strategies for creating a nurturing, supportive home environment. Tune in for these valuable proactive parenting tips and discover how to cultivate a family dynamic where your kids grow, thrive, and maintain a strong, loving connection with you—now and throughout their teenage years. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE!  Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching and Tribe Download the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠ Take the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal Read our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message #ExtraordinaryFamilyLifePodcast #WorldschoolFamily #RachelDenning #FormidableFamilyMen #FamilySuccess #ParentingTips #Extraordinary #BecomeABetterYou #MarriageAdvice #MarriageGoals #RaisingKids #SelfHelp #PersonalDevelopment #GrowthMindset

Are you struggling with building family culture? Emotional intelligence plays a crucial role in fostering a healthy environment where everyone thrives. This episode of The Extraordinary Family Life Podcast is a recorded live session of the 28-Day Challenge course ( https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/bundles/extraordinary-family-life-bundle ) where Greg and Rachel Denning share their insights on the importance of emotional awareness in building family culture. They highlight common issues, such as how neglecting emotional processing can lead to misunderstandings and conflict. For example, many families might ignore negative emotions, thinking they'll just go away, but this often leads to bigger problems down the line. By creating a safe space for emotional expression, you can encourage open communication and emotional growth. Greg and Rachel discuss practical tools for processing emotions that can transform your family culture. Discover how individual emotional states influence family dynamics and why naming emotions is essential for understanding one another. Watch until the end to learn effective strategies that will help you build a thriving family culture grounded in emotional intelligence. How would your family life change if everyone felt understood and valued? Join us to find out! The topics discussed in our episodes are intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. They should not be considered medical advice. Always consult a qualified professional for any medical concerns or questions. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE!  Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching and Tribe Download the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠ Take the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal Read our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message  #ExtraordinaryFamilyLifePodcast #WorldschoolFamily #RachelDenning #FormidableFamilyMen #FamilySuccess #ParentingTips #Extraordinary #BecomeABetterYou #MarriageAdvice #MarriageGoals #RaisingKids #SelfHelp #PersonalDevelopment #GrowthMindset 

Join hosts Greg and Rachel Denning in this enlightening episode, where they delve into the vital themes of healthy eating and overall health self-improvement amidst today's societal challenges of unhealthy processed food options (including during the holidays). Discover the concept of obligation eating and the social expectations of consuming foods that aren't good for you. How do you say no? One key is to fully understand the hidden dangers of processed foods, and the importance of healthy eating practices that nourish both body and mind over a lifetime. Tune in to learn how mindful food choices can positively impact your family's well-being and strengthen your connections now and in the future. The Dennings emphasize the importance of maintaining personal health standards and how effective communication about food contributes to overall family health. They explore practical strategies for setting healthy boundaries with food to support your family's health and well-being. With insights drawn from their personal experiences, this episode equips listeners with actionable tips to navigate social pressures and make informed choices that promote a sustainable, healthy lifestyle. Tune in for inspiration and guidance to enhance your family's health and create a thriving food environment for everyone! RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching and Tribe Download the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠ Take the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal Read our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message #ExtraordinaryFamilyLifePodcast #WorldschoolFamily #RachelDenning #FormidableFamilyMen #FamilySuccess #ParentingTips #Extraordinary #BecomeABetterYou #MarriageAdvice #RaisingKids #SelfHelp #PersonalDevelopment #GrowthMindset #HealthyEating #HealthAndWellness

In this episode of the Extraordinary Family Life podcast, Greg and Rachel Denning share a real-life experience happening to them now to illustrate the journey of pursuing goals which is often filled with unexpected twists and challenges. They reveal how pursuing big goals often leads through a series of obstacles, each one becoming an opportunity for growth and learning. Join them as they share their highs and lows, and explore how embracing these challenges shapes your journey in profound ways. Greg and Rachel discuss the significance of recognizing patterns in the challenges we face and how problem-solving skills play a crucial role in overcoming them. They emphasize that the journey itself, rather than just the destination, shapes who we become. Through their personal story, they illustrate that every obstacle is a stepping stone towards achieving our dreams. Tune in to discover how facing obstacles with a growth mindset can lead to unexpected blessings and a deeper appreciation of the journey. Embrace the adventure and let every challenge be a guide towards your dreams! RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching and Tribe Download the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠ Take the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal Read our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message  #ExtraordinaryFamilyLife #RachelDenning #FormidableFamilyMen #selfhelp #dreams #liveyourbestlife #liveyourlifetothefullest #success #motivational #personaldevelopment #growth

Welcome to this episode, where hosts Greg and Rachel Denning dive into a crucial and timely discussion: Why are so many people leaving the church? They tackle the often-taboo topic of questioning religious beliefs and practices, emphasizing the importance of examining and challenging these aspects to foster genuine transformation and growth within faith communities. With a keen eye on both the potential for positive change and the shortcomings that sometimes plague churches, the Dennings advocate for a faith journey that prioritizes truth-seeking, open dialogue, and the need to challenge sacred cows. Join Greg and Rachel as they explore how questioning and examining existing religious institutions can lead to meaningful improvements and personal growth. They shed light on the dangers of bureaucratic stagnation, the need for grassroots movements, and the incorporation of diverse ideas into religious practice. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that encourages listeners to challenge 'sacred cows', embrace doubt, and strive for a more vibrant and impactful faith experience. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching and Tribe Download the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠ Take the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal Read our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message  #ExtraordinaryFamilyLife #RachelDenning #GregDenning #Growth #ReligiousBeliefs #QuestioningBeliefs #FaithJourneys #ChurchTrends #SpiritualGrowthJourney 

In this compelling episode, hosts Greg and Rachel Denning dive deep into making sense of current events and the societal trends that are causing increasing concern for many parents. They explore the chilling effects of speaking out against emerging issues, the fear of being labeled, and the deliberate erosion of traditional values. The conversation spans the infiltration of left-leaning ideologies into education, government, and big businesses, and examines the dangers of extremism on both ends of the political spectrum. Greg and Rachel address the impact of an undefined identity on mental health and consider the potential consequences of these trends, including the looming threat of a societal tipping point. They stress the urgent need for the silent majority to find their voice and take action to safeguard our values and culture. Throughout the episode, they emphasize the importance of educating ourselves and our children about these destructive ideologies and staying vigilant against their influence, particularly in relation to immigration and the targeting of younger generations. Listen now to be proactive in defending our way of life and to understand the critical issues facing our society today. Download our FREE Must Read Book List for Preparedness & Understanding Current Events RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching and Tribe Download the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠ Take the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal Read our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message  #ExtraordinaryFamilyLifePodcast #RachelDenning #GregDenning WorldEvents #SocialTrends #TheWorldToday #SpeakingOut #TraditionalValues #SocietyIssues #Awareness #Labeling #SocietalChange #SilentMajority

Feeling lost and overwhelmed by all the advice and strategies out there about how to change your life? In this thought-provoking episode, hosts Rachel and Greg Denning—successful business owners, avid world travelers, and parents to seven—dive deep into how to tackle the daunting process of making life changes. They respond to this question from one of their listeners: “So if someone wants to change their life, what is step one? I'm overwhelmed and don't know where to start. I've just been listening to so many books and podcasts, and I feel like with all the information, my brain is like scrambled eggs. There are so many different methods, and I understand that not everyone's size fits all, but I don't know where to begin.” Rachel and Greg break down these feelings of confusion and overwhelm into three key elements: not knowing where to start, the massive list of potential changes, and the sheer weight of it all. They offer practical advice on finding clarity and breaking down your goals into manageable steps. They share actionable tips for overcoming the feeling of being stuck, including identifying your pain points and focusing on one area at a time, setting clear directions and outcomes to guide your efforts, and developing strategies and systems that simplify the change process. They also discuss the importance of eliminating resistance and excuses to boost motivation and make daily progress. If you've been feeling like your brain is scrambled eggs from all the information out there, this episode is for you. Rachel and Greg will help you ask the right questions, make daily progress, and tap into your own capabilities to achieve meaningful results. Tune in and discover how to transform your overwhelm into focused, effective action. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching and Tribe Download the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠ Take the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal Read our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message  #ExtraordinaryFamilyLife #overwhelmed #anxiety #mentalhealth #success #motivational #personaldevelopment #growth

In this compelling episode, Greg and Rachel Denning reveal a crucial insight: being a good person does not automatically make you a good parent. They argue that effective parenting requires a specific set of skills that can be learned and developed. Join them as they delve into how mastering these parenting skills will help you be a better parent and can drastically reduce discipline problems and create a more harmonious home environment. Greg and Rachel discuss the importance of shifting focus from merely fixing problems to proactively fostering a positive and nurturing environment which PREVENTS problems. They highlight the significance of building a foundation of trust with your child and making emotional deposits into your relationship, rather than depleting it through constant corrections and disciplinary actions. Learn why allowing children to make their own choices and understand the consequences is crucial for their development and how meeting their emotional needs can strengthen your relationship. The Dennings stress the value of effective persuasion and influence over authoritarian control, offering practical strategies to guide your children thoughtfully rather than through rigid enforcement. Tune in to discover how refining these parenting skills can transform your approach to raising children, making the journey not only more enjoyable but also more fulfilling. Whether you're dealing with discipline issues or looking to deepen your connection with your child, this episode provides valuable insights and actionable advice to help you become the best parent you can be. #ExtraordinaryFamilyLifePodcast #HowToBeABetterMom #BeABetterParent #ParentingTips #ParentingAdvice #FamilySuccess #GentleParenting #PersonalDevelopment #ParentingSkills #ParentingHacks #ParentingWithPurpose RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. Keep an eye out for the NEW Extraordinary Parenting Method launching SOON! Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching and Tribe Download the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠ Take the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal Read our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message

In this follow-up episode to #268 I'm Tired of Being a Lonely “Roommate With Benefits” For My Husband, Greg and Rachel Denning talk to their male listeners about how to enhance their sexless life. They make a compelling case for focusing on self-improvement as a crucial step. They tackle the complexities of physical intimacy in relationships, exploring the barriers and challenges that often arise. They address why some women may experience a lack of interest in sex and emphasize the necessity of understanding and meeting each other's needs to maintain a healthy relationship. The Denning duo explores the impact of sexual fulfillment on relationship dynamics, discussing how imbalances can lead to frustration and the importance of open communication. They offer insights into maintaining attraction, emotional openness, and trust within a sexual relationship. The conversation includes practical tips on how to navigate hormonal changes, the significance of creating a positive environment, and the value of paying attention to small details that can enhance both intimacy and personal development. Tune in to discover how personal development can lead to a more fulfilling and balanced marriage, and learn strategies to address common challenges in a sexless marriage. Whether you're seeking self-help advice or aiming to improve your relationship, this episode provides valuable insights and actionable advice.  Ladies & Gentlemen! Make sure to check out the Denning's other episodes on sex & intimacy: ⁠#148 What Wives Need to Know About Husbands' (Sex Drive) and What Men Need to Understand About Themselves⁠ ⁠#150 The Sex-quel. Follow Up Sex Episode With Rachel Denning⁠ ⁠#151 What Husbands NEED to Know About Their Wives (sex & intimacy)⁠ ⁠#174 Marriage Q&A: Intellectual Conversations, Over-Helping, & Why This Famous Sexpert is WRONG⁠ ⁠#215 A Message to Husbands: How to Actually Listen to Your Wife⁠ ⁠#224 How (& WHY) to Have Sex 3-6 Times a Week EVEN with Kids, Businesses, Homeschool, Jobs, Activities, and More RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching & Tribe⁠⁠ Download the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠ Take the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal Read our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message  #Intimacy #HealthyRelationship #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #SexlessMarriage #SelfHelp #ExtraordinaryFamilyLife 

In this enriching episode, Greg and Rachel delve into invaluable strategies for supporting your spouse's personal growth and enhancing your relationship. What strategies do Greg and Rachel recommend for supporting your spouse's personal growth within a marriage?: They begin by offering insightful marriage advice, emphasizing the importance of actively helping your partner improve within the context of your shared journey They underscore the importance of implementing "pattern interrupters" — strategies to break out of negative cycles and habits that may hinder personal growth. They highlight the significance of trying new approaches to foster fresh perspectives and promote constructive change, even if they involve doing the opposite of what hasn't been working. They also recommend the principle of reciprocity in relationships. They stress the need for both partners to engage in behaviors that the other appreciates and values actively. This intentional effort strengthens the bond between spouses and enhances mutual understanding and appreciation. They also share how trust evolves through consistent actions and honest communication. They address the role of testing in relationships, emphasizing that challenges can serve as opportunities for growth and deeper connection when approached with empathy and understanding. Rachel and Greg advocate for personal growth and self-improvement as essential components of a thriving marriage. They encourage listeners to strive to be the kind of person they want their spouse to be, promoting a cycle of positive influence and mutual support. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching & Tribe⁠⁠ Download the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠ Take the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal

Welcome to "Raising Teens Today," where Greg and Rachel Denning challenge the norms of parenting teens in today's world. The Denning's share personal anecdotes that unravel the joy and unexpected friendship that can blossom during the teenage phase. They emphasize the profound impact of early emotional connections, and underscore the critical roles of sleep, nutrition, and lifestyle choices in shaping teenagers' behaviors and mental health. Delving into contemporary challenges, Greg and Rachel dissect the influence of social media and video games on teenagers, advocating for minimizing these distractions to foster healthier development. Their approach to discipline revolves around natural consequences and practical life lessons, emphasizing responsibility and earning privileges through tangible contributions. Practical strategies are unveiled for handling defiance and motivational hurdles in teenagers, emphasizing clear expectations and constructive family dynamics. Ultimately, they illuminate the path to earning respect from teenagers while nurturing a positive, productive environment at home during these formative years. Tune in to gain invaluable insights and rethink your approach to parenting teenagers with Greg and Rachel Denning. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching & Tribe⁠⁠ Download the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠ Take the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message

If you're feeling lonely in your marriage, like a roommate ‘with benefits' instead of partners, best friends, and lovers, then you'll want to listen to this episode! We received this great question from one of our podcast listeners:  “I've been listening for a long time.  Thank you for your podcasts, and for championing greatness in personal and family living. Because of your podcasts and recommended reading I've realized that my husband needs physical intimacy more than I do, and I've tried to step up and make sure that his needs are met. When he's home, he's not home - he's on the computer playing games. When we are on a date, he's not on the date - he's looking at his phone. When we go on vacation together, he's not with me - he's on the iPad.  I've expressed my need for his attention, but I don't feel heard. Habits are deeply rooted (on both sides) and we fall into our same patterns of interaction. I have become more autonomous (which he hasn't liked because I'm less available). I've gone back to school (online), I go to the temple alone, I find my own projects to work on.  We recently went on trek (camping) where there was no cell phone or internet coverage. I had his undivided attention for one night before everyone else arrived, and it was wonderful - we talked like we did when we were dating and I didn't feel like an afterthought.  You asked for a list of things that bother your listeners about their marriages. This is at the top of my list. I don't want to be roommates with benefits (he gets sex, I am a financially well-kept woman). I want to be partners.”   Join Greg and Rachel as they explore the essential elements of a thriving marriage. They discuss the importance of identifying areas for improvement and making proactive changes rather than settling. The conversation touches on navigating feelings of being like roommates, leveraging technology responsibly for deeper connection, and the significance of emotional honesty and vulnerability. Greg and Rachel emphasize the necessity of clear communication and mutual understanding in relationships. They provide practical advice on prioritizing each other's needs and desires, promoting a culture of openness and sincerity to strengthen marital bonds. Whether you're looking to enhance your partnership or address challenges, this episode offers valuable insights into fostering a resilient and fulfilling marriage. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching & Tribe⁠⁠ Download the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠ Take the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message

If you're NOT a new parent, you still want to listen to this episode -- because it may help you to understand WHY you have the current relationship you do with your children and/or your spouse because of things that happened or did NOT happen during the baby and child-rearing phases! But this episode came in response to this question which we received: "My husband and I have been married for a little over two years and we are expecting our first baby in the Fall. We've both listened to and loved your podcast even before we were married. Now that we are about to become parents, we are relistening to your podcasts since they've taken on a decidedly new meaning and depth. Understandably, your podcasts talk a lot about older children, teenagers, and your adult children launching into successful lives. What I (wife) was wondering is if you could answer some questions about what it was like to become parents for the first time. I've listened to prominent speakers like Jordan Peterson talk about how wives are essentially "gone" from their husbands for up to six months after the birth of a baby due to the intense vulnerability and helplessness of the new infant as well as the healing mom needs to go through after giving birth. And, while the husband acts as protector of the mother's energy and sanity during these first crucial months, he will just have to be patient as he "waits for his wife to come back to him."First off, what does "gone from him" even mean? How did Rachel overcome the need to be the on-demand mom for so long without neglecting Greg? If she struggled, what did you do about it? My husband says he is not terribly worried about it and has told me to just take the birth and first few months as it comes — that I have his full permission to be there for the baby. However, the worried side of me won't seem to shut off because I don't want to be just the mother of his children, I want to be his wife first and foremost. Maybe six months doesn't sound like a long time to veterans, but it certainly sounds like a long time to essentially "clock out" of wifey duties.  In this episode, Greg and Rachel, parents of 7 children, discuss the challenges and dynamics of becoming new parents, particularly as it relates to intimacy between spouses. They emphasize the importance of understanding the physical and emotional changes that occur during pregnancy and the postpartum period. They also highlight the significance of this time meeting the needs of babies for their mental, emotional, and psychological development. Greg and Rachel stress the importance of support and communication between partners during this time and offer insights on creating a balance between parenting and maintaining a strong marital relationship. The conversation explores the challenges and strategies for maintaining intimacy and connection in a marriage after having a baby. They emphasizes the importance of intentional self-care for the wife and leveling up for the husband. The couple discusses the need for physical and emotional healing after childbirth and the gradual process of getting back into a sexual relationship. They highlight the importance of communication, routines, and meeting each other's needs. The conversation also touches on the impact of parenthood on personal growth and the significance of sex in a committed relationship. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching & Tribe⁠⁠ Download the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠ Take the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message

"I have a follow-up question to podcast 264. Greg talked about kids being more autonomous, but that you don't want your spouse to be autonomous. This is a new concept to me. What I've heard (from [well-known life coach]) is that since you can't control circumstances that you need to change the way you think about them so that you are OK with your circumstances instead of being discouraged or saddened by them. So, I have, in some ways, done this with my husband, so that I won't be bothered by things he does or doesn't do. I'm wondering now if that was a mistake. I just don't want to be one of those wives that is constantly getting after her husband and being critical of him because I know that criticism from a spouse is hard and can hurt. I'd rather my husband feel like I'm his cheerleader. I know for myself when people see the good in me I am encouraged to do better, and when people are critical of me it can feel discouraging." In this episode, Greg and Rachel answer this question and discuss the importance of being interdependent with your spouse instead of independent. They emphasize that being interdependent is key to creating an extraordinary marriage and adds layers of vulnerability, intimacy, and connection. They criticize the half-truths taught by some coaches and experts, stating that while it may produce short-term results, it doesn't address the underlying issues. They stress the need to understand the real underlying problems in a marriage and to have open and honest dialogue with your spouse. They also discuss the differences between men and women in terms of emotions and the significance of stability and constancy in a relationship. In this conversation, Greg and Rachel discuss the importance of addressing underlying sources of frustration in a marriage and finding the balance between being critical/providing feedback and being a cheerleader for your spouse. They emphasize the need for constructive criticism and setting firm boundaries when necessary. They also highlight the significance of interdependence and the vulnerability that comes with needing each other in a marriage. They caution against becoming too autonomous and seeking emotional support or validation from sources outside of the marriage. Overall, they stress the importance of open communication and working together to create an extraordinary marriage. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠ for Moms Rachel's ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ ⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching & Tribe⁠⁠ Download the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠ Take the ⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message