Podcasts about Womxn

Hey lady! Have you ever considered where your beliefs come from and, more importantly, why you hold on to them so dearly? If you're not aware it is not a coincidence that you have certain thoughts programmed into you. In fact, there are studies that certain patterns of belief and trauma can be passed through the generations. Epigenetics, the study of how behaviors and your environment can affect genes, is an area where medical professionals are starting to experience breakthroughs. They're discovering that coupling this study with the study of neuroplasticity, the phenomenon of the brain reorganizing itself to form new neural pathways and adapting to new experiences, is a powerful path to healing.Enter Daria Burke. Daria is a powerhouse of a woman who's career has spanned from award-winning business leader to author. She joins Dr. Dom and Terri this week to discuss her new book, part memoir, part methodology Of My Own Making to share her journey through healing from a rough childhood and traumatic car accident to finding her unique voice and sharing it with others. Daria offers perspective on how using the wisdom from epigenetics and the tools that neuroplasticity offer as roadmap to a healing plan that is authentic to you. Tap in for the tools but also let Daria's story serve as inspiration that life is what you make it! Go ahead and get your beautiful life, sis!Quote of the Day:"We are not defined by our origin stories. We choose who we become."– Daria Burke  One of our sponsors for this week is Feeld (like field, but with two E's). Tired of dates that feel like interviews? Same. In 2025, we're showing up as our full, unfiltered selves, and Feeld makes space for that. Whether you're into open relationships, cuddling, just moved to a new city and wanna find your people, or you're traveling and hoping to connect, this is the app for it.  Feeld is where curious, open-minded, and playful folks come to connect.  No ads. No pressure. Just vibes.  Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play. We'll see you in there, lady!  Where to find Daria Burke:Website: Daria BurkeBook: Of My Own MakingInstagram: @dariaburkeLinkedIn: Daria Burke  Goal Map Like a Pro WorkbookCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

Hey lady! It's strange times filled with a lot of uncertainty but one thing we know for sure is that we will get through all of this with strong community. This week Dr. Dom and Terri discuss some of the factors that got us to reckon with the fact that there is an uprising of people reporting feelings of loneliness and being alone. While those are natural feelings from time to time you can mitigate them long-term with a strong diverse community. We're not talking about people you can post on Instagram, although that can be a part of it, we're talking about the relationships that you intentionally cultivate that fit perfectly with your life. Are you a budding yogi and find it a central part of your self-care practice? There is someone out there with the same interest. Do you crave differing perspectives and rigorous debate about ideology? There's a community out there waiting for you to join them.The truth is while loneliness may be on the rise, there are people out there for you. And, as the world continues to reel from massive changes finding people that get you and care about you will be all the more necessary. Do yourself a favor a tune in to today's episode for practical tools on building your community. Some of these may stretch you or push you or feel edgy, but that is the work. It's putting your authentic self out there so that your people can find you. If you're ready to dig deeper you won't want to miss the opportunity to get Dr. Dom and Terri's precise questions to help you dream up and call in the relationships that will fulfill you. They are in our Patreon. Are you a member yet? Girl, if you aren't you are missing out! We connect as an online community with not only exclusive content, but access to members only resources and first dibs on community events. Join us! We're cultivating a space for us while building them in our real lives! We love you, sis! Seven Ways to Build or Deepen Community 1. Join something you genuinely love Real talk: The easiest way to find aligned people is to go where your joy lives.  2. Reconnect with someone from your past  Real talk: Some of the most beautiful friendships are waiting for a simple “hey, I miss you.”  3. Try something new—even if it feels awkward  Real talk: The most aligned people are often waiting just outside your comfort zone.  4. Start something small—but intentional  Real talk: Community doesn't have to be a big production. Start where you are.  5. Be the person who reaches out first Real talk: Waiting on someone to invite you might mean missing out on the connection you need.  6. Build connection into your rhythm  Real talk: If you want community, you have to make room for it.  7. Don't underestimate the power of one  Real talk: You don't need a huge friend group. You need one aligned connection to start your community.  Quote of the Day:"Community is much more than belonging to something. It's about doing something together that makes belonging matter."– Unknown  One of our sponsors for this week is Feeld (like field, but with two E's). Tired of dates that feel like interviews? Same. In 2025, we're showing up as our full, unfiltered selves, and Feeld makes space for that. Whether you're into open relationships, cuddling, just moved to a new city and wanna find your people, or you're traveling and hoping to connect, this is the app for it.   Feeld is where curious, open-minded, and playful folks come to connect.  No ads. No pressure. Just vibes.  Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play. We'll see you in there, lady!  Goal Map Like a Pro WorkbookCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology Today Therapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

Hey lady! Do you believe you can have a real platonic, relationship with a person of the opposite sex? This week, Terri and Dr. Dom offer their unique perspectives about why they value their friendships with the men in their lives but have learned through living how to build relationships based on the type of intimacy that is born from genuine intentions, clear communication, and healthy boundaries.Do you have areas in your life where it is gray? Are you having trouble sorting out where your relationship needs to land for you to feel happy and fulfilled? Dr. Dom and Terri shed some light on scenarios that have come up in their personal lives that have allowed them to create healthy conversations with themselves so that they can be authentic with their male friends. Tips to Maintain a Healthy Platonic Friendship 1. Impulse Control2. Open Communication3. Internal Boundary-Setting4. Clear External Boundaries5. Respecting Relationship Statuses6. Mutual Agreement on the Friendship Terms7. Check Yourself  Quote of the Day:"Having a soulmate is not always about love. You can find a soulmate in a friendship, too"– Unknown  One of our sponsors for this week is Feeld (like field, but with two E's). Tired of dates that feel like interviews? Same. In 2025, we're showing up as our full, unfiltered selves, and Feeld makes space for that. Whether you're into open relationships, cuddling, just moved to a new city and wanna find your people, or you're traveling and hoping to connect, this is the app for it.Feeld is where curious, open-minded, and playful folks come to connect. No ads. No pressure. Just vibes. Download Feeld on the App Store or Google Play. We'll see you in there, lady!    Goal Map Like a Pro WorkbookCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

Hey lady! As you continue to think deeply about how you want your life to look and feel, have you considered how much intimacy plays a part in your relationships? This week, Dr. Dom and Terri expound on the ways intimacy serves as the bedrock for fulfilling relationships of all stripes. Whether it's platonic, familial, or romantic; intimacy can serve as the thread that brings depth and realness to your relationships. And, we're not talking just talking about sex – Terri and Dr. Dom don't just put the tip in with their insights, they go all the way to make sure you have an arsenal of tools to get you the relationship you desire.Finding a level of interdependence, defined as partners recognizing and valuing the importance of the emotional bond they share while maintaining a solid sense of self within the relationship dynamic, may seem counterintuitive to building a healthy unit but it is in fact what keeps the spice in the relationship and the sense of self that resides in you. Tap into the Aftershow for more tips and real-life examples of how to make your relationships thrive. Consent and healthy boundaries are a recipe for intimacy that will knock your socks off in more ways than one! How to Build an Interdependent Relationship 1. Knowing what you like and what matters to you2. Not being afraid to ask for what you want3. Spend time with friends and family4. Continue pursuing your personal goals5. Be mindful of your values6. Make time for hobbies and interests7. Don't be afraid to say "no"8. Don't keep yourself small or hidden to please others  Quote of the Day:“If you love a flower, don't pick it up. Because if you pick it up, it dies and it ceases to be what you love. So if you love a flower, let it be. Love is not about possession. Love is about appreciation.”  — Osho  Goal Map Like a Pro WorkbookCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

Hey lady! Are you ready to step up in your love life and own your experience? If so, this episode is for you. This week Terri and Dr. Dom offer tips to help you stay in control of your romantic encounters and avoid settling altogether.Dating like a boss often involves significant perspective shifts. If you feel like some of your previous experiences haven't been up to par, it's all good. There's a lot of unlearning that comes along with partnership. Use this episode to help set up internal boundaries. Or, if you've had amazing experiences but now your needs and desires have evolved and you're finding yourself open to new experiences. Let this episode guide you to fulfilling possibilities for fun and pleasure.Whatever you do, lady, remember that this life is about you. How you treat you, how you view you, and how you respect yourself are all in your control. Dating like a boss is easy when you know without a doubt that YOU are the prize. Tap in for more ways to keep your romantic self-esteem on the up and up! Dating Like a Boss: 5 Ways to Stay in Control and Never Settle 1. Always Put Yourself First2. Make People Prove Why They Deserve Your Time and Energy3. Take Notes & End Things Swiftly When Someone Shows You Who They Are4. What's in It for You? What Do You Want?5. Learn to Be Unattached to OutcomesQuote of the Day:"You are healthier in relationships when you are taking care of yourself." – Dr. Thema  Goal Map Like a Pro WorkbookCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

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Hey lady! This week Dr. Dom and Terri up the conversation around wellness with a friendly reminder that you are ALWAYS your best investment. The ladies offer up smart advice about utilizing your paid time off, also known as PTO, to help boost your wellness for whatever you may need.Even if you don't have a formal PTO employment situation, Terri and Dr. Dom have practical tips on how thorough planning and thinking ahead can help stave off burnout and lead you to the life of your dreams.There are many emotions and misperceptions about taking time off from work and life obligations. And, those factors can cloud your judgment with what you feel you may need. After all, when you've been conditioned to be Superwoman it's easy to accept nothing less from yourself. But, when the goal is not for you to realize you need time off when your body starts to tell you…or worse starts breaking down from neglect. The goal is to bake in all of the time you need along the way so that you can live your healthiest and most fulfilled life. Tune in this week for a roadmap to making sure that you are running on a full tank and offering the best of you to…YOU. Lady, we love you and want you to know that you are worthy of divine rest. It's ok to take a break. You deserve it! Quote of the Day:Taking PTO is not a luxury; it is a necessity. Taking care of yourself is not slacking; it's strategy. – Patrice Harrell-Carter  Goal Map Like a Pro WorkbookCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

Hey lady! We know things are looking pretty wild and perhaps a little unstable, which is why you are in the right place this week. You know we got you, right? This week, Terri and Dr. Dom welcome Tamara McLemore, PMP owner and founder of Tamara McLemore Enterprises and the creator of a project management course that will not only assist you in successfully passing the exam, but also teach you the fundamentals of being an effective project management professional so you can weather any economic condition and thrive in any labor market.Tamara has extensive experience navigating and eventually climbing the corporate ranks. She shares some of the tough lessons she's learned along the way so that you don't have to and offers a roadmap that makes you nimble and resilient in a tough job market. Refreshing your resume is more than listing your latest accomplishments. Acquiring the right skills and gaining the latest credentials (often by way of certification) that can make you stand out in the crowd. Tamara has pointers on how to help set yourself up to be the total package.Lady, are you taking stock of the current political landscape and having real conversations about what it's going to take for you to be stable no matter what? Well, if you are then you definitely want to tune in. Tamara offers concrete steps to identify the actual value you bring to your work so that you can articulate your impact, attract the necessary resources you need to perform at a high level, and negotiate yourself into prosperity.Sis, you know we only operate out of abundance – never lack – over here at Cultivating H.E.R. Space, so tap in and map out your “no matter what I'm going to be GOOD” gameplan and let's make moves! Quote of the Day:"Life is too short to work a job you hate." – Tamara McLemore  Goal Map Like a Pro WorkbookCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Where to find Tamara McLemore:Website: Tamara McLemore, PMPInstagram: @tamarajoyX: @TamaraJoyfulLinkedIn: Tamara McLemore  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

Hey lady! This week friend of the show, Camila Rodriguez, joins Dr. Dom and Terri to have an honest conversation about how to open a conversation with the youth in our lives about sex. Cami, is the co-founder of Empowered Caretakers: Navigating Sex Education with Kids and Teens. She is on a mission to help all the people in a child's village empower them to make healthy decisions around their sexuality. In today's climate, we cannot rely on public education to inform and empower students to advocate for themselves. Cami makes a point to expand the conversation from parents to caretakers because not every family looks or operates the same, but the importance of having the conversation and having it early remains consistent across the board.Cami's course aims to arm caretakers with the information to explain with love and in an age-appropriate manner how children and teens can feel empowered to know their bodies, honor their boundaries, own their pleasure, and advocate for themselves if they find themselves in dangerous circumstances. Lady, we all know that knowledge is power and when you create a supportive environment with a foundation of respect, honesty, love and care you have a greater chance for a strong relationship with your loved one. Tune into today's episode for tips on how to cultivate safety and trust during challenging conversations with the young people in your life. Quote of the Day:"The conversation starts with you." – Camila Rodriguez  Goal Map Like a Pro WorkbookCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Where to find Camila Rodriguez:Website: Empowered Caretakers  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

Hey lady! Can you feel the transformation in the air? The feeling that change is around us is undeniable. Sometimes that change is within your relationships. Do you know when it's time to cut ties with someone you've been romantically linked to? Terri and Dr. Dom offer their perspectives, based on their unique experiences, to shed some light on when it may be time to ditch your relationship.There are many excuses for staying in a relationship. Maybe you've been in it for years and fear starting over, maybe you share children and don't want to disrupt their lives. Maybe the dizzle is just too bomb. It's understandable to feel like those are acceptable reasons to remain in a relationship but the truth is if the relationship is no longer serving your highest good then lady, it's time to give it the boot. Lady, in 2025 we are not settling.This episode may push a few buttons but healing doesn't always feel pleasant. Your growth edge may lie in having a good look in the mirror about who you choose to share your energy with. So, get comfy and get your journal as Dr. Dom and Terri help you into a deeper understanding of how you take your relationships to the next level. And, don't forget to check out the Aftershow where the ladies share more tea about their love lives. Quote of the Day:"The hardest part of ending a bad relationship is convincing yourself that you deserve better." – Unknown  Goal Map Like a Pro WorkbookCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources: Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

Hey lady! How has cuffing season been treating you? Are you boo'd up and keeping cozy, or is your bed cold and it has you feeling a way? This week, Terri and Dr. Dom dive into the difference between being alone and loneliness and why the feelings of the latter may cause us to operate from a place of lack and find ourselves in less than desirable circumstances.While it may be hard to go through life when you yearn for a relationship, there's good reason to find the abundance around you so that desperation doesn't rear its ugly head and you wind up with someone you normally wouldn't give a second look. This means looking at who is in your life and why, and then listening to your internal voice to get an accurate assessment of if it's the right relationship for you. Taking stock of your relationships isn't about keeping your heart in a safehouse far away from the possibility of being hurt. Instead, it empowers you to be honest about where you are in life and see if who you are dealing with aligns or not. When you operate from a place of loneliness it is entirely possible for you to settle for less than what you deserve, which is why you arm yourself with a gameplan to keep the blues away. Want more tips for your toolkit? Head to the Aftershow where Dr. Dom and Terri offer seven tips to help you move from a point of loneliness to a place of personal power. Quote of the Day:"Until you get comfortable being alone, you'll never know if you're choosing someone out of love or loneliness." – Mandy Hale  Goal Map Like a Pro WorkbookCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

Hey lady! You're in for a treat this week so we won't delay. Dr. Thema Bryant, psychologist, author, professor, sacred artist, and minister joins Dr. Dom and Terri to bring a much-needed balm to our spirits with her wisdom, insight and soothing energy. Whenever Dr. Thema speaks it's hard not to feel that everything is going to be alright!Dr. Thema is host of the popular The Homecoming Podcast and is no stranger to the podcast airwaves or the Cultivating H.E.R. Space podcast. Check out S3E12 and S8E12 to hear some of the timeless gems she shares. This week, Terri and Dr. Dom welcome Dr. Thema back to discuss how her new book Matters of the Heart can help everyone who is in need of healing in their relationships.Often when people discuss relationships the focus is on romantic relationships. Dr. Thema posits that healing our relationship with relating to others in all facets of our life will help us build the level of community needed to lead a healthy and fulfilled life. There are mindsets that one can adopt to help add clarity to her or his personal approach to their circle. Maybe you don't need to cut that person off…you just need boundaries. Or, perhaps the relationship feels difficult because its run its course…and that's ok. What can seem easy to understand in theory can often be difficult in practice, which is why Dr. Thema explains that she structured her book to be both a chapter book that can be read in order, but also a reference book that you can call upon for specific scenarios and situations. In short, it's a true tool to aide in the healing of all your relationships. Lady, if it's not evident yet, we're going to need each other to get through this new phase of life. Healing and strengthening the relationships in your life not only provide peace, comfort and love but also serve as a powerful act of resistance against oppression and harm. Let's love each other through this next chapter, lady! Want to find out how? Tune in. Quote of the Day:"I am worthy of giving and receiving love." – Dr. Thema  Goal Map Like a Pro WorkbookCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Where to find Dr. Thema Bryant:Website: Dr. Thema BryantBook: Matters of the HeartPodcast: The Homecoming PodcastPodcast: The Homecoming PodcastInstagram: @dr.themaTwitter: @drthemaFacebook: Thema Bryant DavisTikTok: @drthema  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

Hey lady! This year is your year to take your pleasure to new heights. This is the year you take what makes you feel good and let it inform all the ways it makes your life beautiful and delicious. But, before you bloom like the beautiful rose you are, we need to get down to the root of what may be keeping you from experiencing the pleasure you so richly deserve. Remember, flowers bloom best in good soil.Dr. Janet Williams is a licensed physician and surgeon practicing in Los Angeles, where she is a board certified specialist in obstetrics and gynecology. Dr. Janet, as her patients affectionately call her, is also the author of Why Don't I Like Sex Anymore?: The Grown Woman's Guide to Getting Your Groove Back and Claiming Your Truth and the owner of Good Groove Coach, an bespoke intimacy coaching service that includes one-on-one coaching, hypnotherapy and access to Dr. Janet's Confident Pleasure Program.She joins Dr. Dom and Terri to discuss the myriad factors that can impact Black women's access to healthy, thrilling, memorable sexual encounters. These factors go deeper than lingerie or even body issues. Black women face an inordinate amount of pressures that come from socio-economic, class, and race. Those pressures cause stress and stress can often lead to illness. We know the statistics when it comes to heart disease and blood pressure with Black women but we don't talk about the emotional and mental tolls that they take on Black women. Couple that with changing hormones, and shifting cycles that eventually lead to perimenopause and menopause and you have a recipe for intimacy confusion. That's why Dr. Janet is on a mission to arm women with the information they need to really get their groove back. As we head into challenging political times we're going to need each other and our joy more than ever! Find your community and find your way to your best orgasm in this week's episode. Lady, holler at us on Patreon and let us know how you plan on getting your groove back in 2025! Quote of the Day:"My body and an inner knowing have always told me sex could be great, but for some reason, almost everything and everyone else has told me otherwise." – Dr. Janet Williams  Goal Map Like a Pro WorkbookCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Where to find Dr. Janet Williams:Website: Good Groove CoachBook: Why Don't I Like Sex Anymore?: The Grown Woman's Guide to Getting Your Groove Back and Claiming Your TruthInstagram: @goodgroovecoFacebook: Good Groove Company  Altadena Seventh Day Adventist ChurchResources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

Lady! Are you ready to expand your horizons and tap into your spiritual side? Well, then come closer because we have the perfect guest to excite your imagination with tales of spiritual lore.Anita Kopacz is a lifelong storyteller. She's made a career bringing fun and interesting stories to life as the former Editor-in-Chief of Heart & Soul magazine and now she is the author of The Wind on Her Tongue. Anita welcomes the audience into a world where spirituality intersects with real world scenarios to create a compelling narrative you won't want to put down.In her page-turning book, Anita introduces her audience to the Orishas, spiritual deities that are most recognized in the African Traditional Religions (ATRs) of Ifa, Voudoo, and Hoodoo. Anita offers context about the ATRs and their importance in the African diasporic experience. She dispels some of the common myths and misconceptions regarding the ATRs and offers perspective on how some of the wisdom from the Orishas and the ATRs can provide insight into your life. Lady, whether you've promised yourself that you'll read more this year or you're asking yourself the big questions about the meaning of life and where our help comes from, we promise this is the episode for you. Let Anita's calm energy transport you to the deeper well that resides within you. And, you'll want to tune into the Aftershow this week. Dr. Dom and Terri offer a more in-depth peek into their creative process that can help spark your own. Dream big, lady! Quote of the Day:"No one is supposed to understand your calling. It wasn't a conference call." – Unknown  Goal Map Like a Pro WorkbookCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Where to find Anita KopaczWebsite: Anita KopaczBook: The Wind on Her TongueInstagram: @anitakopaczFacebook: Anita KopaczTikTok: @anitakopacz2  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! How are you doing with your New Year's resolutions? Are you still on track with your health and wellness goals? If you started the year revved up and ready to go and already find yourself slouching back towards bad habits we want to help take some of the pressure off with a helpful reframe that will help sharpen your focus on your goals.This week, Alishia McCullough, a licensed clinical mental health therapist and founder of Black and Embodied Counseling and Consulting PLLC, stops by Cultivating H.E.R. Space to discuss her new book Reclaiming the Black Body: Nourishing the Home Within to discuss how Black women and femmes can unlearn the harmful narratives about our Black bodies. These stories have been passed down generationally and have been detrimental to how we view ourselves and our place in this world.Alishia offers new frameworks on how to view the Black body and divorce it from the way it's been traditionally viewed by discussing our relationship with nourishing food, deep respect for our ancestral lineages, and combatting the images we see in the media. Lady, wherever you are in your health journey always remember that your mindset is the first part of you to conquer. Once you master how you view YOU, trust us, you will be unstoppable! Quote of the Day:"Food is a spiritual practice. Eating is a spiritual practice. Cooking is a spiritual practice. Farming is a spiritual practice. Gardening is a spiritual practice. Do you see how important food is to us a diaspora?" – Lyvonne Briggs  Goal Map Like a Pro WorkbookCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Where to find Alishia McCullough:Website: Black and EmbodidedBook: Reclaiming the Black Body: Nourishing the Home WithinInstagram: @blackandembodiedPatreon: Black and EmbodiedFacebook: Black and Embodied  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! Last week, Dr. Dom and Terri introduced strategies for strengthening your discernment and creating a pathway to thriving in your relationships. This week they take it up a notch by diving deeper into tactics that will help you recognize manipulative behaviors quickly so that you remain in integrity and joyful in your life.Over the years, Dr. Dom and Terri have offered unique perspectives on keeping yourself safe from those who wish to use or harm you. They've discussed issues regarding narcissism, manipulation, and self-trust throughout the years so after you listen to this week's episode be sure to scroll through the archives for more support in these areas. Tap in! 7 Tips to Build Discernment and Stop Letting Manipulators Into Your Life:1. Develop Self-Awareness2. Set and Maintain Boundaries 3. Vet People Before Letting Them In4. Educate Yourself About Manipulative Tactics5. Strengthen Emotional Resilience6. Cultivate a Support System7. Practice Discernment Daily  Quote of the Day:"Discernment is the ability to see things for what they REALLY are and not what we WANT them to be." – Unknown  Goal Map Like a Pro WorkbookCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! Welcome to 2025! This is the year you take all of your power back and stand in your light! That's why this week Dr. Dom and Terri waste no time in helping you remember the strength you carry within by outlining an actionable plan to keep manipulators and those who don't wish you well as far away from you as possible. You know we love radical accountability at Cultivating H.E.R. Space podcast, which is why this episode is going to be the tough love to help you chart a path that works best for your life!We all know about narcissists, opportunists, and general manipulators but do you know that you have a built-in guidance system to help loosen their grip on you or deter them from approaching all together? That's right, you have the power of your discernment and like with everything in this life, it is a muscle that can be strengthened and sharpened. It is your responsibility to take care yourself in a way that you greet life with your heart full and open and your eyes wide awake and aware. And, by growing your toolkit you'll be armed with strategies to help you walk with your head high. With some practice and discipline you can place yourself in the driver's seat of your life so that you are not afraid to live with your light dimmed, rather with the joy that is your birthright.This episode is an active one, lady. Grab your tea or cozy beverage and get your journal out because Terri and Dr. Dom have some impactful questions for you to consider as you create an action plan to help you grow your self-awareness and bolster your discernment. If you need a journal head over to the Cultivating H.E.R. Space shop (link below) and you'll find all of the tools you need to help make this journey home to yourself one full of ease, compassion, and joy!Cheers to 2025 being your best year yet!7 Tips to build discernment and stop letting manipulators into your life:Develop self-awarenessSet and maintain boundaries Vet people before letting them in Educate yourself about manipulative tactics Strengthen emotional resilience Cultivate a support system Practice discernment daily  Quote of the Day:"Discernment is the ability to see things for what they REALLY are and not what we WANT them to be."– Unknown  Goal Map Like a Pro WorkbookCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! You made it! We're at the end of the year and, hopefully, by now you've gotten some rest and can review your year and take stock of the good and the bad to discover where you've wound up. If this year went swimmingly, congratulations! If this year left much to be desired, it's okay! Regardless of how the year settled for you the good news is that next year is brand new and ripe with opportunity and potential. That's why this episode, Terri and Dr. Dom offer a glimpse into the highs and lows of their year and some perspective on how they will goal map and plan for a fruitful 2025.Do you have big goals and dreams and feel like you need some help to stop spinning your wheels and make some traction? Are you moving forward but need focused and strategic thinking to propel you to the next level? Or is it all going smoothly on the surface, but you notice something underneath that is keeping you from living your absolute best life? Whatever the reason you have a unique opportunity to build a life that you love through intention and imagination. Let this episode be the spark that lights the fire under your butt to make it one to remember.Don't forget, if you're looking for therapy to heal wounds or to help uncover your limiting beliefs and outdated programming, Dr. Dom has a therapy practice that might be right for you. And, if you're ready to go from surviving to thriving, Terri is available to coach you through the steps that leads you to authenticity, integrity, and success in all facets of your life. Check out the links below for their individual offerings and head to Patreon for more juicy tips on how to make 2025 a year to remember! Cheers to a prosperous year, lady!7 tips for Making the Next Year Your Best Year:Set Purposeful GoalsPrioritize Well-BeingCultivate a Growth MindsetBuild a Supportive NetworkEmbrace FlexibilityFocus on ProgressCreate Space for Reflection & RestQuote of the Day:“Don't live the same year 75 times and call it a life.”— Robin Sharma  Goal Map Like a Pro Workbook  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! It's the most wonderful time of the year! A time when, hopefully, life is slowing down, and you can spend time reflecting on your year and your life. This time is a great opportunity to take stock of where you've been, how you've grown, and dream up where you're going. And, the beautiful thing about life is that as adults we have the power of choice to determine our futures. Chances are that if you're listening to this podcast you are an adult or advancing into adulthood and have real world obligations and responsibilities. That's why this week, Terri and Dr. Dom spend some time breaking down what established adulthood is and how you can make the most of every single day!Established adulthood is a concept popularized by Dr. Clare Mehta and it describes the intersection of multiple significant responsibilities like marriage, parenting, and caregiving for aging parents while advancing in one's career. These are the markers of life that can define what life is and how you operate in it. Dr. Dom and Terri explore what that really means when you don't quite always feel like that adult and what it means when you know, for sure, that you are that adult.This fun episode offers perspective on how to embrace your adulthood and how to shift those good vibes into positive action for an even brighter, more fulfilling future as we head into 2025.Head to our Patreon so you can tap into the Aftershow for more insightful questions and tips on cultivating a life that lights you up!Tips for Navigating Established AdulthoodEmbrace Personal Growth and Identity Shifts Set Intentional Boundaries Develop a Flexible Relationship with Goals Invest in Health and Well-Being Make Space for Community and Connection Approach Failure as Part of Growth Live your best lifeQuote of the Day:“Adulthood is not about growing up but about growing into yourself.”– Unknown  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology Today Therapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! This week, Dr. Dom and Terri welcome Dr. Maisha Standifer, Director of Population Health, The Satcher Health Leadership Institute at Morehouse School of Medicine to offer fresh information about HIV, AIDS, the trends she's seeing in sexually transmitted disease infection rates and what Black women need to know about keeping themselves safe and healthy.Dr. Standifer is a powerhouse of a woman and offers grounded perspective on the real issues that the Black community face in regards to HIV transmission and AIDS. The truth of the matter is that despite HIV/AIDS being known in the community for more than 40 years the stigma has transferred from white gay men to Black women and so much of that is because of a lack of information.In fact, 50 percent of new HIV cases are Black women. Dr. Standifer doesn't sugarcoat the facts about the fact if you are sexually active you are HIV possible. Armed with that knowledge, she offers solutions for prevention, resources for care should you contract the infection, and hope for a future where HIV and AIDS is eradicated from the community.Tune into a powerful conversation chock full of valuable information. This is your one precious life, lady, treat it with the best care! Quote of the Day:“Understand others and their experiences as you talk and interact with them.” - Unknown  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Where to find Satcher Health:Website: Morehouse School of MedicineWebsite: Satcher Health Leadership InsituteInstagram: @satcherhealthFacebook: Satcher HealthLinkedIn: Satcher Health Leadership Institute  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! Are you sliding headfirst into the holidays completely exhausted by work demands, life obligations, and the oppressive beatdown that was the 2024 election season, and compounding worldwide strife? That short list doesn't even include some of the pop quizzes that life springs on you – you know the kind; the ones that require the remainder of your energy reserves leaving you spent? Hopefully you can get some rest soon as the country begins to ease into holiday cheer. We want to help turn down the volume of life this week so we have a very special guest to help usher in moments of calm and respite.Jasmine Marie is a breathwork practitioner and founder of Black Girls Breathing, an online platform and community that features resources to help you regulate and heal your nervous system surrounded by like-hearted Black women providing support and encouragement in the journey. She's also the author of Black Girls Breathing: Heal From Trauma, Combat Chronic Stress, and Find Your Freedom and she joins Dr. Dom and Terri for a beautiful conversation about all of the ways we've learned to keep it together and how some of them may be used to our detriment.The work to not only unlearn and heal, but grow resiliency so that you can thrive is not easy but if you have a solid toolkit you can make it fun. Jasmine Marie offers practical wisdom on why building a strong, resilient nervous system is essential to living a healthy life as a Black woman and gives tangible practices, including a sample breathwork session, that you incorporate into your daily life. Listen to the end for an extra special offer for our listeners!Quote of the Day:"I am worthy of giving my heart, mind, and body the attention it deserves."– Jasmine Marie  Hey lady! Try Black Girls Breathing for 50% off for the first three months of your membership with the code HERPODCAST at checkout!Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Where to find Jasmine Marie:Website: Black Girls BreathingWebsite: Sunday BalmBook with Bonus: Black Girls Breathing: Heal From Trauma, Combat Chronic Stress, and Find Your FreedomBook: Black Girls Breathing: Heal From Trauma, Combat Chronic Stress, and Find Your Freedom IInstagram: @blackgirlsbreathingInstagram: @thatgirl_jmarieTwitter: @blackgirls_bgbFacebook: Black Girls Breathing  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com 

Lady! Have you ever been called the good girl? Are you perceived as dependable, reliable, and relatively harmless? Do people expect perfection from you and when you fall short from those expectations do, they make you feel shame and guilt? And, what happens to your good girl image once you decide to stick up for yourself or say no? Is the backlash swift and painful? If anything mentioned sounds familiar, then this week's episode is for you. Terri and Dr. Dom share their experiences with being the good girl and why those perceptions and thereby responsibilities can be harmful as we mature into adulthood. Whether you are the oldest child, or you came from a strict family, or you had to figure out your upbringing on your own; we've all experienced the societal burden of being the good girl. The good news is now that we're grown women we have the power of choice and can choose to untangle the deleterious programming we've been surrounded by through family, media, and society. Dr. Dom and Terri outline some of the harmful effects of the good girl mindset this episode. Don't be surprised if some of the impacts are so subversive that they touch a tender spot in you. But, you know how we do. Check into the Aftershow for tips on how to heal and improve your life now that you know that you can be amazing, badass, and awesome without the low mantle of being good.Lady, this internal work can tough but it is necessary for growth and self-actualization. Check out our Cultivating H.E.R. Space shop for journals, pillows, latte mugs, and apparel to ease some of the awakenings you're having while listening. They also make for great gifts this holiday season!Quote of the Day:"Being unapologetic means that I will be all of me. I will no longer shrink or compromise myself by playing small so others will not feel insecure in my presence.”– Lisa Nichols  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy Practice Branding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

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Hey lady! Can you believe that we are already at holiday time? This time of year, can be sweet and full of joy or rife with anxiety, tension, and heavy emotions. And, let's be real, the current times we're in can add in an additional layer of complex feelings that can trip up even the most internally sturdy among us.That's why, this week, Terri and Dr. Dom offer strategies and tips on how to navigate an often energetically charged time of the year. Have you thought through how you're going to enjoy this holiday season? Whether it's optimizing technology to get the feast organized or discerning the appropriate boundaries when dealing with family members, you have options to make this season as comfortable for you as possible.You also have the power to decide to acknowledge any pain the holidays may bring and start a new tradition special to you and your loved ones.Lady, we wish you comfort, rest, and peace however you choose to spend this season. And, remember, we love our community and we're here for you in the archives and on our Patreon! Quote of the Day:“Life is short, and it's up to you to make it sweet.” – Sadie Delany  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! *Cue Beyonce* All my single ladies! Well, you know the rest. This week, Dr. Dom and Terri dive into all of the reasons why being single gets a bad rap and why it's actually something that can be celebrated.In today's modern dating climate women are finding themselves with autonomy and choice, which is a delicious and beautiful feeling. Even with all of that personal power, let's not pretend that society doesn't still place a stigma on singleness; especially if you are a woman. But, there are so many reasons why being single is the bomb and Terri and Dr. Dom want you to know all about them.Whether you have closed up shop and are totally invested in the happiness of you and your community, or you still long for love but know that life is what you make it – there are plenty of reasons to feel excited about a life of freedom. Terri and Dr. Dom explore the nuance that comes with being a woman who is free of bitterness because she's accepted and embraced the gift of time she has to build a life of purpose and meaning so that she can leave a legacy of her choosing.Did you notice the key word in this episode? Happiness is a choice and we hope this episode inspires you to choose only the best for yourself because lady – you're worth it! Holla at us on Instagram and tell us how you maximize your fly ass single life. And, tune into the Aftershow where the dynamic duo let their hair down in the realest of ways.Quote of the Day:"Single? No, I'm just in a relationship with freedom."  – Unknown   Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! It's Fall, which means the temperature is dropping and there is an invitation to turn inward to reflect, recharge, and restore. The frenetic energy of the past few months is now slowing down and we can collectively use this time to check-in with ourselves and ask, “hey girl, how are you doing?”This week, Dr. Dom and Terri tap into their higher selves and offer some of the strategies that they use to replenish and nourish themselves during the beautiful quiet of the Fall and Winter months. Whether it be planning a luxurious spa day or setting boundaries around your cozy reading time it matters how...you do you.As with everything, take what you need and leave the rest as you grow your self-care toolkits. Hit us up on IG and let us know how you plan on tending to yourself during the cozy, cold months? Fall into Wellness: 7 Ways to Rest and Recharge Before the New Year1. Nature Walks and Hikes2. Digital Detox3. Cozy Reading Sessions4. Mindful Journaling5. Practice Self-Care Rituals6. Indulge in Nostalgia7. Practice GratitudeQuote of the Day:“Every season is one of becoming, but not always one of blooming. Be gracious with your ever-evolving self.” – B. Oakman  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! It's Fall and for many, it's officially homecoming season; the season when they'll reunite with old classmates to reminisce on the fun times of their youth, but this week Terri and Dr. Dom want to focus on a more personal homecoming, one that is universally more accessible to all.Dr. Thema Bryant, a friend of the show and two-time previous guest, discusses the power of finding a path home to yourself on her podcast The Homecoming Podcast. She offers wisdom on all of the various ways we lose ourselves as we journey through life and provides strategies on how to cultivate the tools needed to journey through life with wholeness. Dr. Dom and Terri draw inspiration from her podcast and dive deep into the elements that make a personal homecoming something you can delve into at your own pace.Bittersweet undertones run through homecomings because they often come from tough lessons, but the glory and self-respect that you can generate from making the decision to return to yourself is often the greatest reward. Dr. Dom and Terri offer tips to help you usher in your personal homecoming. Whether it's your first self-awakening or the latest chapter in an incredible story you have the tools to write the most beautiful scenes yet. 8 Ways You Can Come Home to Yourself1. Engage in Self-Reflection: Take time for introspection through journaling or meditation. Reflecting on your thoughts and experiences helps clarify your values and desires, fostering a deeper connection with your authentic self. Research shows that expressive writing can significantly enhance self-awareness and emotional health.2. Practice Mindfulness: Incorporate mindfulness techniques into your daily routine to cultivate presence and self-awareness. Mindfulness meditation can reduce anxiety and increase acceptance of your thoughts and feelings, promoting self-compassion.3. Set Healthy Boundaries: Learn to say no and prioritize your own needs. Establishing boundaries is crucial for self-care and maintaining your sense of self in various relationships.4. Nurture Your Inner Child: Engage in activities that bring you joy and creativity, reminiscent of your childhood. This process can heal past wounds and foster a sense of freedom and authenticity, allowing you to reconnect with who you truly are.5. Build a Supportive Community: Surround yourself with people who uplift and support you. Having a network of like-minded individuals can reinforce your self-worth and provide encouragement on your journey of self-discovery.6. Prioritize Self-Care: Make time for activities that promote your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Regular self-care practices can lead to increased self-love and help you reconnect with your desires and needs.7. Pursue Your Passions: Identify and engage in hobbies or interests that ignite your passion. Pursuing what you love enhances your self-identity and fulfillment, allowing you to express your true self.8. Embrace Change and Growth: Recognize that personal growth often requires stepping out of your comfort zone. Embracing change fosters resilience and helps you adapt to new aspects of yourself, ultimately leading to a stronger sense of self.Quote of the Day:“Homecoming is a return to authentic living that is based on truth, self-acceptance, and an aligning of action with values and purpose.” –Dr. Thema Bryant-Davis, Homecoming: Overcome Fear and Trauma to Reclaim Your Whole, Authentic Self  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! You know that we love grown woman conversations here at Cultivating H.E.R. Space podcast, which is why this week Terri and Dr. Dom are delighted to welcome Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons, a leading expert in sex research and the author of Good Sex: Stories, Science, and Strategies for Sexual Liberation, to discuss why good sex can lead to a healthier nation.What does she mean by that? You'll just have to tune in to find out not only that, but also why putting some thought into your sexual “wishlist” and your “absolutely not” list are worthwhile endeavors for any sexually vibrant woman. Dr. Hargons offers perspective on what good sex is and why deeply meeting yourself can increase intimacy and communication with your partner or help you feel comfort and ease as you slow down your sexual activity. Whatever the reason you have for your sex life always remember that the best sex is the kind where you feel valued and respected – even if that means loving on your body is a solo activity. So, tap in ladies and cheers to good, ahem…vibes! Quote of the Day:"My book is giving nerdy Black girl sex researcher with a ratchet brilliant mind and oldest daughter becomes therapist vibes."– Dr. Candice Nicole  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Where to find Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons:Website: Dr. Candice Nicole HargonsBook: Good Sex: Stories, Science, and Strategies for Sexual LiberationInstagram: @dr.candicenicole  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcast Facebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! The Fall is often a time to self-reflect and take stock of your life and choices. When doing that life review and assessment, how do you feel about yourself? As a human it's guaranteed that you will make a mistake in life, but grown women know that mistakes are not what define you – how you handle them is what defines you.This week Terri and Dr. Dom welcome world renowned athlete Marion Jones to Cultivating H.E.R. Space to discuss her unique life path and the lessons learned from the challenges that arose from her time both in the public eye and in prison. Marion shares her powerful testimony about how the experience of facing public scrutiny based on her choices and paying her debt to society allowed her to find the deeper meaning that can help others.Marion offers one important lesson – your mistakes do not define you and only you are in control of your narrative. Tune in to find out the other gems she shares to help you lift the veil of shame that is keeping you from owning your victory!Quote of the Day:“Your comeback is bigger than your setback.”– Marion Jones Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary Where to find Marion Jones:Website: Marion JonesInstagram: @themarionjones Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! How are you taking care of you these days? Are you ready to elevate your wellness and give your nervous system the support it needs?This week, Emily Butts, owner of InnerGreat Lymphatic Care Practice, stops by to share how incorporating holistic healing into her self-care practice changed her entire life and redefined her purpose. Emily explains why modalities like lymphatic drainage, Pulse Electromagnetic Therapy (PEMF), neurofeedback and other techniques can help reduce inflammation, fatigue and improve the overall quality of your life. While these healing modalities may seem radical they are proving to be important remedies of dealing with the challenges that modern living offer. The question is, how can we make them more accessible to our communities? Tune in because Emily has insights that you won't want to miss.We all know by now that it is up to us to make the daily changes to our lifestyle to keep us upright and well. Lady, find us on Instagram and let us know what healing techniques you employ to keep you healthy and strong. Quote of the Day:“Rarely, if ever, are any of us healed in isolation. Healing is an act of communion,” – bell hooks  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Where to find Emily Butts:Website: InnerGreat Lymphatic Care PracticeInstagram: @innergreat_lymphatics  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us: Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Send us a textWith a single call to "the big dogs," Sasha Jane Lowerson set in motion a revolution for equality in competitive surfing. Despite her success in numerous competitions under her former identity of Ryan Egan, Sasha feared competing as a transgender surfer. Instead of letting fear take over, she embraced her true self and championed groundbreaking inclusion policies for surfers of diverse genders.Join us for this episode as we peel back the layers of "bullshit" and explore what it means to live authentically. Sasha and I discuss the challenges within a predominantly cisgender, white, male-dominated surf industry and the cultural differences between the Australian and Californian surf scenes. We'll also delve into Sasha's evolution as a surfboard designer and shaper, as well as her future plans for advocacy and continued work on diversity and inclusion in the surfing community and so much more!Main Themes:Advocating for Inclusion in Surfing: "I think I just want to let you know I'm here and I'm me and I'm scared to surf, but if I can say something and do you think we can put something in place to, like, make it safe for, like, 3% of the population? There's going to be more than me. I had looked up soccer Australia and I'd seen that they'd had a policy, I'd looked up a whole bunch of other sporting organizations that had gender identity inclusion and surfing just hadn't done it. And it was I started to believe that, like, I was like, Well, are we ran by the old dinosaurs still, or are we going to move forward?"Navigating Competitive Events: "You got to really choose your events. Some girls who are like, some of the best loggers in the world are like, "Yeah, we just don't go to that event because such and such, They go to that one and we go to this one"Breaking Barriers in the Surfing Industry: " I think that old saying, time heals all wounds. And I think that's, I'd love to be able to wave a wand and, and say 50% of the industry around all now we've got half the jobs in the industry are for all us girls, too."Resources:Try a membership at The Surf Société with 7 days free.Shop Dip and get 15% OFF with the code "confessionsofasurflady" at checkout at Dipalready.comFollow Sasha: @sasha_jane_lowersonFollow us your host Laura Day: @confessionsofasurfladyFollow The Surf Société: @surfsociete for surf lady tips from #thesurflab inside the membershipConfessions of a Surf Lady is supported by our amazing partners and listeners like you. This means we may earn a commission at no extra cost to you when you make a purchase through the links provided. Thank you for being a part of our community and supporting the podcast.Support the showConfessions of a Surf Lady is supported by The Surf Société, our unique digital women's surfing platform where we come together to Learn More. Surf Better. Live Happy. Learn more at Surfsociete.com

Hey lady! We love you, for real. There's so much going on in the world right now. Everything from the election to multiple genocides on Black and Brown people to the high price on groceries. On top of that it can feel like Black women are being mistreated across the board and disrespected at levels that are often disappointing. What was it that Malcolm X. said about the most disrespected, unprotected, and neglected person in America? Yep, it's us. But, that is not the entirety of our story – in fact it barely scratches the surface of the wonderous, beautiful, and amazing experience of being a Black woman.This week Terri and Dr. Dom pour into each other and you with a love letter to Black women. This heart affirming, soul understanding episode is meant for the ladies who need a quick reminder that girl, you are the shit and don't let nobody tell you different! Dr. Dom and Terri share some of their experiences being loved on, supported, and uplifted by Black women in the hopes that if ever there is a low moment in your journey to reflect on the ways that you've been supported by your community of Black women. Save this episode and tap in on Instagram. What's one of your favorite memories of your sister circle? Quote of the Day:“Embrace what makes you unique, even if it makes others uncomfortable. – Janelle Monáe  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! It's officially Fall and the temperature is starting to cool. All of you Autumn girlies are ready for your pumpkin spice and chunky sweaters, but is your home ready for cozy time? This week Terri and Dr. Dom uncover all of the elements that make their homes a place of sanctuary, rest and rejuvenation. Whether it's placing a decorative faux plant or throw blankets soft as pillows, how you accentuate your home tells the tale of not only your personal style and vibe, but also your mental health and vibration.By sharing their favorites the two have been able to elevate their home space so that they can carry their unique energy into the world. We want to hear from you, lady. What does your comfy home checklist include? Tune in to the Aftershow for more styling and décor tips for your most inviting home experience! Quote of the Day:"Your home should tell a story of who you are and be a collection of the things you love." – Michelle and Steph, the founders of Blk and Home  Learn more about our advertiser, BiOptimizers, by visiting the link below. Use promo code herspace at checkout to enjoy 10% off your purchase!  URL: bioptimizers.com/herspace  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

The temperature is cooling down and it's time to get cozy. Aside from the stack of books you've been meaning to read, the new soup recipes you're excited to try, and the movies and shows you're planning to watch, how else do you plan on finding comfort this Fall?If turning up the…ahem…heat is on your list of things to do this Autumn, then Terri and Dr. Dom have the essential list for you to plan a safe, fun cuffing season. Whether you are looking for a winter boo or the start of a long-term relationship, every gal in the know has a set of agreed upon boundaries that can keep every situation on the up and up until the temperature thaws. Hit us up on Instagram and holla at us about how you plan to keep it hot while it's cold outside. Quote of the Day:"It's cuffin' season and now we got a reason..." – Sza  Learn more about our advertiser, BiOptimizers, by visiting the link below. Use promo code herspace at checkout to enjoy 10% off your purchase!  URL: bioptimizers.com/herspace  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! Have you ever found yourself in a tense predicament where you and another person are at odds and have differing perspectives on how to find a solution? These everyday occurrences, also known as conflicts, are natural parts of life and when handled skillfully can increase your ability to relate to others and improve your self-respect.Conflicts can range from things as simple as asking a neighbor to stop blocking your parking space to much larger issues such as how to parent a child you share. There is no right way to handle conflict, but there are ways to improve your chances of finding a peaceful resolution. This week Dr. Dom and Terri have a framework to add to your toolkit when disagreements and troubling situations arise. Head to Patreon to grab your downloadable copy of the framework so you can review it and adapt it to your personal style. Once you understand how you can navigate conflict with this framework you'll be in the driver's seat of your experience and more able to meet life as it is. Quote of the Day:“The quality of our lives depends not on whether or not we have conflicts, but on how we respond to them.” – Thomas Crum  Learn more about our advertiser, BiOptimizers, by visiting the link below. Use promo code herspace at checkout to enjoy 10% off your purchase!  URL: bioptimizers.com/herspace    Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! Dr. Dom and Terri welcome Bianca Ordoñez to Cultivating H.E.R. Space to discuss a topic that affects one out of every 54 Black women in their lifetime. Bianca is a HIV awareness advocate and uses her light to discuss how contracting and living with the infection has shaped her life and allowed her to write her own narrative.Bianca's journey is a harrowing series of events that began with inconceivable family shame that led to her escaping sex trafficking and being diagnosed with HIV at the age of 23. She shares her unique insight on how to build a life one can be proud of despite significant challenges. While today's topic is serious, Bianca offers both a sobering perspective on finding your worth and hope for those who may feel that their life choices, predicated by events that may have been out of their control, do not have to define their destiny. This is a can't miss episode and a reminder about the importance of health in every facet of your life. Be sure to take care of yourself through it. We love you, lady! Quote of the Day:"The pain of healing today is worth the peace and freedom you'll feel tomorrow.” – Bianca Ordonez  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Where to find Bianca Ordoñez:YouTube: Bianca OrdoñezInstagram: @bianca.ordonez_TikTok: @bianca.ordonez_Facebook: Bianca Ordoñez  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Calling all of the foxy cowgirls to the floor! If Beyonce' got you excited with Cowboy Carter let Cultivating H.E.R. Space keep the good times rolling by introducing you to the dynamic trio making waves in country music. Chapel Hart is a Nashville-based country group with roots in Mississippi taking the genre by storm.The two sisters, Danica and Devyn Hart, and their cousin Trea Swindle join Terri and Dr. Dom for a lively, spunky, real conversation about the ups and downs breaking into a traditionally white, male genre. They talk about how getting their start in church gave them a solid foundation to not only keep themselves motivated, but also to keep their eyes on their own paper and run their race. This advice has taken the group far as a self-funded indie group letting their voices be heard on the America's Got Talent stage (leading to them making it to the finals in 2022) and on the Grand Old Opry stage (where they received four standing ovations).They drop gems about what it means to own your dreams and not let anything deter you from being as successful as you want to be. Tune in for a fun and inspiring episode! Quote of the Day:"Don't you try to please no one except the one inside." – Chapel Hart  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Where to find Chapel Hart:Website: Chapel HartApple Music: Chapel HartAmazon Music: Chapel HartYouTube: Chapel HartInstagram: @chapelhartbandTwitter: @ChapelHartBandFacebook: Chapel Hart  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! Checking in here to ask you one important question – how's your self-talk these days? We know how hard it can be to keep yourself uplifted during these turbulent, unprecedented times. The truth of the matter is that the only way to get through the day is by staying true to yourself and doing YOU! How? Dr. Dom and Terri offer practical tips for increasing your self-regard, self-compassion, and authenticity. Listen to this episode when you need a boost or incorporate it into your daily affirmation playlist and allow yourself to believe in your greatness. Let Dr. Dom take you to church as she reminds you that your worth is not dependent on external validation even when it may seem as though your livelihood depends on it. Head to Patreon for more tips on how to create a lifestyle of positive self-image that will keep you anchored during the storms of life.Quote of the Day:“The best thing I can do for myself, my loved ones, and my community is to heal myself, love myself, and be true to myself.” – Terri Lomax  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! This week, Dr. Dom and Terri welcome a truly inspiring guest who will bring a bright smile to your face. Dr. Trudy-Ann Frazer is a pediatric dentist, wellness expert, and social media influencer.She stops by Cultivating H.E.R. Space to drop words of wisdom and wise practices for dental hygiene. Dr. Trudy-Ann shares her inspiring story of how staying true to herself opened doors that allowed her to grow into a successful pediatrician and wellness practitioner. Dr. Trudy-Ann shares why she believes finding your sister tribe – the group of women who can walk with you as you strut into your best self – should be a high priority. And, she offers some of the health and wellness gems she shares with guests of her I Am Worthy retreat. She also shares pro tips on how to develop healthy dental hygiene habits for yourself and your little ones. Trust us, if you're ready to elevate your oral care you won't want to miss these tips! Quote of the Day:"Invest in yourself like you're the most valuable asset" – Dr. Trudy-Ann Frazer  Where to find Dr. Trudy-Ann Frazer:Website: I Am Worthy RetreatInstagram: @drtudyann  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! We know you know you're a baddie, but do you really know the power you hold? Pretty privilege is often discussed on social media as an ideal, but it's an actual concept with real consequences – good or bad.Pretty privilege is the notion that society favors people based on if and how they are perceived as conventionally attractive. Often, it can result in extra favors or treats because of your beauty, but sometimes the implication of extra favor for attractiveness can make for uncomfortable situations. After all, we want to be valued for our worthiness and merit over beauty, but being appreciated for having that je ne sais quoi doesn't hurt either.Terri and Dr. Dom sit down and talk about when they first realized they were beautiful, ways that they've experienced pretty privilege, and how they've maintained control in their experience of it. They offer some reflection questions for you to dive deep into your own experience of it so that you can anchor why your level of hotness is top tier no matter what anyone says!Remember lady, true beauty does, indeed, start within. So, hold your head up high and strut through life like the Goddess you are! Quote of the Day:"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! Are you ready to step in the future? Well, even if you are not the future is here.Artificial Intelligence, once only imagined in sci-fi movies, is now a part of daily life. Whether it's speaking into Siri for basic information or prompting ChatGPT to write your emails and official communications, AI is here and it looks like it is here to stay.So, is this a good thing? Dr. Dom and Terri explore their apprehensions about the technology and offer a few perspectives on the evolution of technology from the analog days until now where technology drives innovation. Still, questions linger about job security, privacy concerns, and keeping the use of data ethical. Lady, this is going to be an ongoing conversation and we want to hear from you about your stance on AI! Find us on Instagram and let us know are you ready for the technological revolution or does the idea of AI make you feel uneasy? Quote of the Day:"AI is not about man versus machine, but rather man with machine, complementing our strengths and compensating for our weaknesses." -ChatGPT  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! Are you ready to expand your perspective? This week Terri and Dr. Dom welcome Esther Ikoro and Darren Calhoun, hosts of the podcast Second Sunday, an Ambie-nominated podcast about Black queer people finding, keeping, and sometimes losing faith in the Black church. The hosts gather to dive deep into all of the issues that Queer folk have as they navigate their relationship with faith, religion, and building community. Esther and Darren tackle nuanced conversations with depth and skill while also managing to keep it fun and sexy. Not sure what we mean by that? You'll have to wait until the OhYouBlatchet! segment to find out.The two hosts offer strategies for overcoming church hurt, insight as to why finding community in church is as important an issue as ever, and possible solutions on how churches can energize their offerings to attract a younger crowd. Can we get an Amen? Tap in and find out how you can grow your faith community or support someone who is looking to find more like-hearted people with whom to fellowship! Quote of the Day:"The saints ain't ready for this...but we're still gonna talk about it." – Second Sunday  Where to find Second Sunday:Podcast: Second SundayInstagram: @secondsundaypodInstagram: @estheralreadyInstagram: @heydarren  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! Have you ever been gaslit and traumatized by a toxic, narcissistic so-and-so who abused your trust, violated your boundaries, and caused you to doubt yourself? Does that sentence trigger you? Well, if it does then tune in to this week's episode so Dr. Dom and Terri can help take the sting out of those words and give you the context around what certain terms mean so you can accurately assess and process events in your life.The Internet is a wonderful tool, but certain words and phrases can catch on and become buzzy and slowly their meaning can become distorted. This week, Terri and Dr. Dom identify terms that are trendy and provide accurate definitions and examples so that you don't confuse lovebombing with something more benign. And, if you want to dive deeper into some of these concepts check out these previous episodes: ✓ S10E2: Is Your Partner a Narcissist? Diving into Dr. Ramani Durvasula's Narcissism Quiz✓ S10E3: How to Finally Leave Your Narcissistic Partner with Dr. Ramani Durvasula✓ S11E1: Getting Back to Dating After a Toxic Relationship✓ S17E3: What Gaslighting, Red Flags, and, Manipulation Sound Like✓ S17E4: How to Stand Your Ground and Hold Gaslighters Accountable✓ S23E1: Trauma Bonding: Protecting Yourself From Unhealthy RelationshipsWords to Use Instead:1. Gaslighting→ Manipulating, lying2. Toxic→ Unhealthy, difficult3. Traumatized→ Upset, embarrassed4. Triggered→ Activated, reminded5. Narcissist→ Selfish, self-centered6. Boundaries → Limit, rule, guidelineQuote of the Day:“Language is the road map of a culture. It tells you where its people come from and where they are going.” – Rita Mae Brown  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! Doesn't it seem like 2024 took off in a full sprint? This year has moved rather quickly, which is why this week Terri and Dr. Dom invite Ashley Menzies Babatunde, host of the No Straight Path podcast, to discuss the power of the pause, and why honoring the moments when life slows you down can be your biggest asset and opportunity to find and strengthen your authentic self. Ashley shares her inspirational story of advocating for herself after a major life event showed her the beauty in her present, albeit difficult, circumstance so that she could create a life rich with meaning. Her decision to embrace where her life took her next with curiosity and wonder opened possibilities that were better than she could have imagined. Join Dr. Dom and Terri for a motivating conversation about finding the blessings and beauty in your life stage.Quote of the Day:"The pauses in life taught me how to live." – Ashley Menzies Babatunde  Where to find Ashley Menzies Babatunde:Website: ashleymenzies.comPodcast: No Straight PathInstagram: @ms_menziesInstagram: @no_straight_pathLinkedIn: Ashley Menzies  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with Terri Melanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us: Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! This week, Dr. Dom and Terri step in their bag and talk about the tender topic of trauma bonding and why it can cause serious harm to you if you let it go unchecked. What is trauma bonding? Social media has a way of amplifying new trends and concepts, but sometimes those new concepts are buzzy but inaccurate. Dr. Dom and Terri delve into what trauma bonding actually is so that you have a framework of how to navigate situations where the potential for harm is high. Break out your Cultivating H.E.R. Space journal, located in the Cultivating H.E.R. Space shop, and create a safe space for you to identify the areas where you can heal so that those who aim to trauma bond with you have nowhere to hook into you. And, remember take care and go at a pace that feels supportive while you listen – we love you, lady!Quote of the Day:"Our virtues are wrapped inside of our limitations. It is only when we are in close proximity to others that we begin to intimately explore the boundaries of our virtues by slamming into our limitations."– Resmaa Menakem  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy Practice Branding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! Have you ever heard the saying you are who you say you are? Well, this week Terri and Dr. Dom dive deep into the power of our thoughts and what we say and why having a healthy relationship with both is the key to living the life of your wildest dreams. Dr. Dom and Terri have tips on how to get to the root of what's blocking you from living your most fulfilled life. Rewiring your brain through positive self-talk is a major undertaking, but the reward is a clear vision of who you are authentically and worth the work involved. Grab your Cultivating H.E.R. Space journal and join in this interactive episode. Tap in with us on Instagram and let us know how you're doing the work to manifest your best life!Techniques to Change Beliefs 1. Cognitive restructuring: Identifying negative thoughts, challenging their validity, and replacing them with positive, realistic thoughts.2. Affirmations and positive self-talk: Affirmations are powerful in reprogramming the subconscious mind and provide examples of effective affirmations.3. Visualization and mental rehearsal: Visualizing desired outcomes can reinforce new beliefs and increase motivation.Practical Tips and Exercises: Daily practices to reinforce new, empowering beliefs 1. Start each day with positive affirmations.2. Keep a gratitude journal to focus on positive aspects of life. 3. Surround yourself with supportive and positive influences.4. Practice patience and be persistent as changing deeply held beliefs takes time and effort.Quote of the Day:“Life is about the management of energy, where you place your attention, is where you place your energy." – Dr. Joe Dispenza  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental Health Therapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! This week it's game time! That's right, this week Dr. Dom and Terri play the classic game “Never Have I Ever” as a way to discuss their decision-making processes and how they keep a growth mindset in their self-development toolbelt. Life is full of lessons and can be a beautiful adventure if you allow yourself to apply them. So, how are you adding dimension and color to your story? And, how can you expand your point-of-view in a way that removes judgment and expands your capacity to have a psychologically rich experience?Terri and Dr. Dom offer powerful insights for increasing your ability to make solid decisions, but they spill hot tea in the Aftershow about where some of those decisions have taken them. Check them out on Patreon! 1. Embrace New Experiences     "Never have I ever" moments often highlight things we've never tried. Step out of your comfort zones and try new activities. Lesson: Life is enriched by new experiences. Don't be afraid to try something new, even if it seems daunting at first.2. Learn from Missed Opportunities Reflect on things you haven't done and consider why. Was it fear, lack of opportunity, or something else?    Lesson: Understanding the reasons behind your "never" moments can provide insight and help you overcome barriers in the future.3. Value of Shared Experiences     Sharing “Never Have I Ever” stories can foster connections and understanding. It can be surprising to see how much you have in common with others. Lesson: Shared experiences, even those you haven't had yet, can bring people together and create a sense of community.4. Growth Through Challenges Identify times when trying something new led to personal growth or overcoming a challenge. Lesson: Challenging yourself to try new things, even if they're outside your comfort zone, can lead to significant personal growth.5. Appreciate Individual Journeys Everyone's list of "Never Have I Ever" will be different. Appreciate and respect each person's unique journey.     Lesson: Everyone's life path is unique, and that's what makes our stories rich and diverse.6. Reflect on the Past, Plan for the Future Reflect on things you've never done and consider making a list of things you'd like to try in the future.    Lesson: Reflecting on the past can help set meaningful goals for the future.Quote of the Day:"I don't have to be perfect. All I have to do is show up and enjoy the messy, imperfect, and beautiful journey of my life." — Kerry Washington  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! Do you know what your love language is? You know, the behaviors and actions that make you feel heard, seen, and understood? This week, Terri and Dr. Dom delve into the popular book by Gary Chapman to discuss how they express love and receive love; and what these concepts mean in modern-day relationships.The dynamic duo explore their quiz results and compares those results to when they initially took the quiz to measure their growth as people. They also reflect on how knowing their love languages and any changes over time help them navigate their relationships. Understanding your love language can be useful in how you show up for others and most importantly how you show up for yourself. In this episode, Dr. Dom and Terri share their insights on the nuances that can help you amplify how you love your partner, your friendships, and your most important relationship – the one with yourself! They also offer strategies to help you communicate how you feel loved to those most important to you. Tap in!Quote of the Day:"Love makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place"— Zora Neale Hurston  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Lady! This week Dr. Dom and Terri shine some light on an important topic that impacts our society. Byron Dean Tolson is a former NBA player with an inspiring story of overcoming odds and never giving up on your dreams. Dean shares his journey of leaving the only career he knew with a significant deficit. At the age of 32-years-old, he still could not read.  Illiteracy is a nationwide problem that handicaps the quality of life for the nearly 1 in 4 Americans who live with the condition. This timely episode explores the importance of literacy, how you can increase your desire to become more literate, and how you can help the young people in your life develop a lifelong love of learning! Tune in for some impactful tips to help you become more informed and think critically about the world you live in. Knowledge is power so tune in today's episode!  Quote of the Day:"You only fail if you quit and give up." – Dean Tolson  Where to find Dean Tolson:Website: Dean TolsonBook: Power ForwardInstagram: @dean_tolsonTwitter: @dean_tolsonFacebook: Dean Tolson  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com

Hey lady! This week, Dr. Dom and Terri take you on a journey with their guest, lauded journalist Tiffany D. Cross, as she explores the richness of Black women's relationships with each other across generations. In her new podcast ACross Generations with Tiffany Cross, the host gathers women older and younger than her to discuss their life experiences and find the thread that ties us all together.  Cross uses her storytelling skills and keen insight to offer gems for women to hold onto as they navigate their journeys. In this episode, though, Cross gives game on how women need to show up and move to make meaningful and impactful connections that can take them far in life. It doesn't matter where you perceive yourself in your life, we could all use some straight talk from a straight shooter sometimes.  So, girlfriend, tune in and find out some of the major keys Tiffany shares to tighten up your professional image and go out there and do the damn thing! You got this!  Quote of the Day:"The journey to womanhood is precious and the beauty of the bruises shapes us and our choices make us." – Tiffany D. Cross  Where to find Tiffany D. Cross:Website: Tiffany D. CrossPodcast: ACross Generations with Tiffany CrossInstagram: @tiffanydcrossTwitter: @TiffanydcrossFacebook: Tiffany D. CrossLinkedIn: Tiffany D. Cross  Wisdom Wednesdays with TerriCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom's Therapy Practice Branding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com