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Visit the website and join our community by signing up on our email list. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriageCash App $a114johnsonSummaryIn this episode of the 313 Men, Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson explores the concept of relationship mentorship for women. He discusses the urgency for women to seek guidance in navigating relationships, especially in light of declining marriage rates and changing family structures. Johnson emphasizes the importance of balancing career and relationships, addressing self-worth issues, and understanding the differing perspectives of men and women in relationships. He advocates for the role of a relationship mentor in providing emotional and instrumental support, helping women make informed decisions about their relationships. The episode concludes with a reflection on the podcast's future and the need for a break to improve the show's quality.TakeawaysWomen face increasing urgency in relationship decisions.Declining marriage rates impact family structures.A relationship mentor can guide women in partner selection.Balancing career and relationships is challenging but essential.Self-worth issues can affect dating success.Healthy communication is crucial in relationships.Men and women prioritize different qualities in partners.Not all women need a mentor, but some can benefit.Mentorship can provide valuable insights into relationships.The podcast will evolve to enhance listener experience.Do Women Need Relationship Mentors?Navigating Relationships: The Role of Mentorship"Do women need a relationship mentor?""Striking a balance is critical.""Some women need a relationship mentor."Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Relationship Mentorship01:51 The Urgency for Women in Relationships03:32 The Role of a Relationship Mentor06:34 Balancing Career and Relationships10:13 Self-Worth and Self-Esteem in Relationships12:38 Understanding Relationship Dynamics15:30 The Importance of Mentorship18:53 Navigating Relationship Advice20:17 Conclusion and Future of the Podcast

Visit the website to join our email listwww.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriageIf you want to make a donation to the show Cash App $a114johnsonSummaryIn this episode of the 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson engages with domestic violence advocate Leslie Kline, who shares her personal journey as a survivor of domestic violence. The conversation delves into the definitions and types of domestic violence, the complexities of leaving abusive relationships, and the long-term effects on survivors. Leslie discusses her healing process, the importance of recognizing red flags in relationships, and the societal factors that contribute to domestic violence. The episode emphasizes the need for education and prevention strategies to break the cycle of abuse and promote healthy relationships.TakeawaysDomestic violence is a pattern of abusive behavior used to gain power and control.One in three women and one in four men experience physical violence by an intimate partner.Survivors often question how they ended up in abusive situations.Recognizing red flags is crucial in preventing future abuse.Manipulation and emotional ties can make leaving an abuser difficult.Long-term effects of abuse can include physical and mental health issues.Healing is a personal journey that requires time and effort.Choosing to abstain from relationships can be a part of the healing process.Education and awareness are key to breaking the cycle of domestic violence.Generational patterns of abuse can be addressed through proactive measures."How did I get here?""It was like a roller coaster.""I pray for those abusers.""It's not just women, it's men."Chapters00:00 Understanding Domestic Violence: Definitions and Types03:11 Leslie Kline's Survivor Story: A Journey Through Abuse05:54 Recognizing Red Flags: Lessons from Past Relationships09:03 The Complexity of Leaving: Manipulation and Guilt11:53 Long-Term Effects of Domestic Violence: Healing and Recovery15:09 Navigating New Relationships: Healing Before Moving On18:01 Societal Factors Contributing to Domestic Violence21:04 Breaking the Cycle: Education and Prevention Strategies

Join our community by subscribing to our email listwww.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriageIf you want to make a donation to the show Cash app $a114johnsonSummaryIn this episode of the 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson discusses the behaviors and characteristics that men look for in potential marriage partners. He emphasizes the importance of presentation, emotional stability, personal hygiene, and character traits over mere physical attraction. The conversation also touches on financial considerations and the evaluation process that men undergo when determining long-term compatibility with a partner. Johnson concludes by reiterating that men marry based on behavior and the overall impression a woman makes on them and their families.TakeawaysMen marry based on how women present themselves.Emotional stability is a key factor for men.Personal hygiene is crucial in relationships.Character traits often outweigh physical beauty.Men know within a year if a woman is marriage material.Financial stability and management are important to men.Men look for life goals and aspirations in partners.Trust and respect are foundational in relationships.Men want to feel valued and appreciated by their partners.Intense physical attraction does not guarantee marriage.SoundbitesMen's Marriage Preferences UnveiledThe Role of Behavior in Marriage"Men want emotional stability.""Beauty fades; character lasts.""Men will marry behavior."Chapters00:00 Introduction and Podcast Updates01:42 Understanding Men's Marriage Preferences06:06 The Importance of Presentation and Behavior10:20 Character Traits and Personal Qualities14:46 Financial Considerations in Relationships19:20 Evaluating Long-Term Compatibility23:30 The Role of Physical Attraction and Behavior

Disclaimer: The information on this show is for entertainment purposes, Do your own research into these topics, or seek advice from a financial services professional. SummaryIn this episode of the 313 Men, Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson and Greg's Take discus strategies for investing during turbulent economic times. He emphasizes the importance of dollar cost averaging, staying informed without succumbing to anxiety, and the historical context of market fluctuations. Guest Greg shares insights from his banking experience during the 2008 financial crisis and offers advice on managing investments and expenses during downturns. The conversation highlights the need for a disciplined approach to investing, the value of personal finance education, and the importance of maintaining a long-term perspective.TakeawaysInvesting during turbulent times is crucial.One personal finance class has a lifetime benefit of $100,000.Dollar cost averaging can mitigate losses during downturns.Historical data shows that staying invested often leads to recovery.Dividend-paying stocks can provide stability during market fluctuations.Limiting exposure to mainstream news can reduce anxiety.Focus on long-term goals rather than short-term market movements.Real estate can be a tangible investment but requires caution.Reevaluating investment strategies is essential during market corrections.Sound Bites:Managing living expenses is critical in uncertain economic times.Investing Wisely in Uncertain TimesThe Importance of Dollar Cost Averaging"You can't control the stock market.""Stay busy and focus on your family.""Don't jump to the next hottest thing."Chapters 00:00Navigating Turbulent Times in Investing05:20 Market Insights and Historical Context10:09 Managing Anxiety During Market Downturns14:46 Real Estate vs. Stock Market Strategies20:12 Evaluating Investment Strategies24:15 Reflections on the 2008 Financial Crisis27:17 Strategies for Recent Retirees in a Downturn

Visit the website to get on the email listwww.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriageIf you want to make a donation to the show, Cash app $a114johnsonSummaryIn this episode of the 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson explores the downsides of dating one's type. He discusses how personal preferences can limit dating opportunities, the influence of family and social media on our expectations, and the importance of being flexible in relationships. Johnson emphasizes the need to recognize red flags and the potential for personal growth when dating outside of one's usual type. He concludes by addressing the dangers of having unrealistic expectations in relationships and the importance of self-awareness in the dating process.TakeawaysPhysical attraction is a major factor in dating decisions.Expectations can be shaped by family and past relationships.Being too rigid about your type can limit your dating pool.Flexibility in preferences can lead to better relationship outcomes.Ignoring red flags can lead to unhealthy relationships.Dating outside your type can foster personal growth.Unrealistic expectations can prevent finding a compatible partner.The dating landscape is influenced by social media.Self-awareness is crucial in the dating process.Father time affects physical appearance, so focus on deeper qualities.The Downsides of Dating Your TypeWhy Your Type Might Keep You Single"Our types sometimes will keep us single.""Don't ignore the red flags.""Father time is undefeated."Chapters 00:00 Understanding Your Type in Dating03:10 The Consequences of Having a Type08:14 The Impact of Expectations and Influences12:34 Red Flags and Personal Growth16:52 Unrealistic Expectations in Relationships

This episode has some explicit language, be advisedVisit the website and join our community, subscribe to our email list. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriageTo Make a donation to the show Cash App $a114johnsonSummaryIn this episode of the 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson and guests John X, Robert Brooks, and Grant Lancaster delve into the complexities of child support and co-parenting. They share personal experiences, discuss the emotional and financial implications of child support, and explore the challenges of navigating the legal system. The conversation highlights the disparities in child support arrangements, the importance of maintaining relationships with children, and the often-overlooked emotional toll on parents. This conversation delves into the complexities of co-parenting, particularly focusing on the experiences of fathers navigating child support, emotional intelligence, and the challenges of being a primary caregiver. The speakers share personal stories that highlight the importance of time spent with children over financial contributions, the misconceptions surrounding the involvement of Black fathers, and the long-term effects of family dynamics on parenting. The discussion emphasizes the need for emotional intelligence in parenting and the ongoing challenges faced by parents even after children reach adulthood.TakeawaysCustodial mothers are more likely to have child support orders than fathers.Many custodial parents do not receive the full amount of child support.Child support can lead to significant emotional stress for parents.Court experiences can vary greatly depending on the judge and circumstances.Co-parenting without court involvement can be beneficial but challenging.The financial burden of child support can impact a parent's ability to provide for their children.Time spent with children is irreplaceable compared to financial support.Open communication between co-parents can prevent legal disputes.Judges may not consider informal support arrangements in court.The child support system can disproportionately affect fathers, especially in minority communities. Co-parenting requires a focus on the child's best interests.Time spent with children is more valuable than financial support.Black fathers are often more involved than stereotypes suggest.Family dynamics can complicate co-parenting relationships.Emotional intelligence is crucial in parenting, especially for fathers.Navigating different household rules can be challenging for children.The impact of parental relationships extends into adulthood.Maintaining a united front is important for effective co-parenting.It's essential to avoid speaking negatively about the other parent in front of children.Parenting is a lifelong commitment, regardless of living arrangements.Navigating the Child Support MazeReal Stories of Child Support StrugglesThe Emotional Impact of Child SupportCo-Parenting: Balancing Act Without CourtsSound Bites"I want to see my kids.""I never went to court.""You don't get back time.""I was very involved, dad.""You gotta be really strong.""It's not fair to the guy.""It's by design.""We don't give up, we don't stop."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Child Support Dynamics03:10 John X's Personal Child Support Journey09:22 Grant's Experience with Child Support12:52 Navigating Co-Parenting Challenges17:42 The Emotional Toll of Child Support20:07 Co-Parenting Without Court Involvement21:16 Navigating Co-Parenting Challenges23:06 The Importance of Time Over Money25:18 Misconceptions About Involvement of Black Fathers26:12 The Impact of Family Dynamics on Parenting29:18 Challenges of Being a Primary Caregiver32:06 Emotional Intelligence in Parenting38:01 Long-Term Effects of Co-Parenting Dynamics

Visit the website for more show informationwww.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriageTo make a donation to the show Cash App $a114johnsonSummaryIn this episode of the 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson explores what men truly value in relationships and marriages. He discusses the complexity of men's needs, emphasizing that they are not one-dimensional and require respect, trust, appreciation, and open communication. The conversation delves into the importance of personal space, physical intimacy, reliability, mutual interests, and loyalty, providing insights into how men and women can better understand each other in romantic partnerships.TakeawaysMen have complex needs in relationships, not just physical attraction.Respect is fundamental for men; without it, relationships struggle.Trust is the foundation of any relationship and is easily broken.Men desire appreciation for their hard work and contributions.Open communication is essential for resolving conflicts in relationships.Men need personal space to recharge and maintain their well-being.Physical intimacy is important for creating a strong emotional bond.Reliability and consistency in partners are crucial for men.Mutual interests strengthen the bond between partners.Loyalty is essential for men, who value commitment in relationships.TitlesWhat Do Men Really Want in Relationships?Understanding Men's Complex Needs in Love"What do men truly want in a relationship?""Men need personal space to recharge.""Physical intimacy creates a strong bond."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Men's Values in Relationships03:06 Understanding Men's Communication Styles05:51 Key Values Men Seek in Relationships08:39 The Importance of Respect and Trust11:41 Appreciation and Communication in Relationships14:34 The Need for Personal Space17:33 Physical Intimacy and Consistency20:01 Mutual Interests and Intellectual Compatibility 23:13 Loyalty and Commitment in Relationships

Website: www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriageIf you want to make a donation to the show Cash App $a114johnsonWe had some technical difficulties recording this episode. My apologies in advance, however after a few hours of editing, this was the best that I could do.SummaryIn this episode of the 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson and guest Wayman Daniels explore the multifaceted concept of masculinity. They discuss the influences of family dynamics, societal expectations, and personal experiences on the development of a man. Wayman shares his transformative life story, emphasizing the importance of mentorship, vulnerability, and emotional intelligence in shaping a strong man. The conversation also addresses the evolution of masculinity over time and the need for men to challenge toxic masculinity in their lives.TakeawaysMasculinity is shaped by social conditions and family dynamics.Mentorship and role models are crucial for healthy masculinity.Vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness.Choosing the right partner is essential for family dynamics.Trauma can perpetuate cycles of negative behavior.Men must continue to learn and evolve throughout their lives.Emotional intelligence is key to personal development.Society often excludes men from positive narratives.Challenging toxic masculinity requires self-reflection and discipline.Building a man is a lifelong process of growth and learning. Soundbites:The Making of a Man: A Journey of GrowthMasculinity Unpacked: Insights from Wayman Daniels"The power of love is so powerful.""Trauma attracts trauma.""I must understand who I am."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Masculinity: Built Not Born02:00 Wayman Daniels: A Personal Journey04:38Family Dynamics and Masculinity06:55 The Evolution of Masculinity10:12 Defining a Built Man13:54 Challenging Toxic Masculinity17:16 Society's Role in Supporting Men19:21 Vulnerability as Strength21:48 Promoting Emotional Intelligence

Webpage: www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriageCash App $a114johnsonSummaryIn this episode of the 313 Men, Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson discusses the evolving landscape of employment, particularly focusing on the importance of full-time work for men. He explores how historical shifts in the job market have affected family dynamics, the significance of financial stability, and the role of employment in shaping identity and community. The conversation also addresses the challenges men face in securing full-time employment and the broader economic implications of workforce participation.TakeawaysThe traditional role of men as breadwinners has evolved significantly.Full-time employment is crucial for financial stability and family support.Men's employment impacts their self-esteem and sense of purpose.Women now make up a significant portion of the workforce, changing family dynamics.Employment can reduce recidivism rates among former offenders.Social security benefits are directly tied to full-time employment history.Routine work helps maintain stability and reduces risky behaviors.Relationships formed in the workplace can lead to new opportunities.The overall economy benefits from higher employment rates.Challenges in finding full-time work can be daunting, especially in competitive markets.Beyond the Paycheck: The Importance of Full-Time EmploymentThe Changing Landscape of Men's Employment"Financial stability is very important for a man.""Fulfillment through employment is very critical.""Routine of work keeps men stable and at home."Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Modern Employment Dynamics01:39 Historical Context of Employment Changes03:38 The Shift to Service-Based Economy06:24 Importance of Full-Time Employment for Men11:17 Financial Stability and Long-Term Goals14:20 Social Security and Retirement Planning16:11 Identity and Fulfillment Through Work19:59 Community Impact of Full-Time Employment22:04 Challenges in Securing Full-Time Employment

Website: www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriageCash App $a114johnsonSummaryIn this episode of the 313 Men, Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson and returning guest Greg discuss the phenomenon of 'pretend success' where individuals project an image of wealth and success while struggling financially. They explore the societal pressures that drive this behavior, the implications of living beyond one's means, and the impact of social media on perceptions of wealth. The conversation emphasizes the importance of authenticity, financial literacy, and the consequences of maintaining a facade of success.Takeaways60% of Americans cannot afford a $1,000 repair.Many people pretend to be successful while being broke.Financial security brings peace of mind.Consumer culture pressures individuals to keep up appearances.Social media often portrays an unrealistic image of wealth.Living beyond one's means can lead to financial ruin.The pressure to impress others can lead to illegal activities.Authenticity is more valuable than material possessions.Understanding the true cost of success is crucial.Learning from failures can lead to personal growth.The Illusion of Wealth: Pretend Success UnveiledBehind the Facade: The Truth About Financial Insecurity"60% cannot afford a $1,000 repair.""Money can be amazing when used with wisdom.""Living a lie upon a lie never ends well."Chapters0000:00 Introduction to Pretend Success02:52 Understanding Financial Insecurity05:56 The Pressure of Consumer Culture08:51 Social Media and the Illusion of Wealth11:47 The Consequences of Pretending Success14:54 Lessons Learned from Financial Failure

Website: www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriageCash App: $a114johnsonSummaryIn this episode of the 313 Men, Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson and guest Judy Winbush explore the dynamics of relationships where women are more successful than men. They discuss how societal expectations and personal insecurities can affect men's self-esteem and masculinity, and how couples can navigate these challenges through open communication and mutual support. The conversation emphasizes the importance of confidence, acceptance, and shared goals in fostering healthy relationships.Takeaways74 million women are currently in the workforce, making up 47% of it.Men may feel their masculinity is challenged by their partner's success.It's not about income disparity, but rather confidence in oneself.Social conditioning influences how men perceive success in relationships.Support and understanding are crucial for couples with differing income levels.Women should not downplay their success when dating.Relationships thrive on acceptance, regardless of who earns more.Communication about roles and expectations is vital before marriage.Discomfort regarding income often stems from deeper self-esteem issues.Celebrating each other's successes strengthens relationships.Are Men Intimidated by Successful Women?Navigating Gender Dynamics in Modern Relationships"Are men intimidated by successful women?""Men can experience a decrease in self-esteem.""Establish goals and support one another."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Gender Dynamics in Relationships03:06 Men's Self-Esteem and Success in Relationships06:05. Navigating Relationships with Successful Women08:43. The Role of Confidence in Relationships11:31 Social Conditioning and Relationship Dynamics14:23 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Traits17:14 Dating and Career Success20:31 Supporting Each Other's Success

Webpage: www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriageCash App $a114johnsonSummaryIn this episode of the 313 Men Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson delves into the complexities of six figure dating, exploring the expectations women have for high-earning men, the statistics surrounding six figure earners, and the challenges faced in modern dating. The discussion covers where to meet these men, the importance of financial literacy, and the expectations that come with dating someone in a high income bracket. Johnson emphasizes the need for women to evaluate their own qualifications and compatibility with these men, highlighting that dating high earners is a different ballgame altogether.Takeaways Women often have unrealistic expectations about dating high earners. Only 16% of male workers in the U.S. earn six figures or more. Geographic location plays a significant role in meeting high earners. High earners often have busy schedules that can affect relationships. Financial literacy is crucial when dating high income men. Women need to evaluate their own strengths and accomplishments. Dating etiquette is important in high-income relationships. The competition for high earners is fierce due to their options. Women must be prepared for the challenges of dating high earners. It's essential to be in the right social circles to meet these men. Navigating the World of Six Figure Dating The Reality of High-Income Relationships "Are you financially literate?" "What do you qualify for?" "You have to be where they're at." "They're evaluating you."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Six Figure Dating 03:08 Understanding the Statistics of Six Figure Earners06:00 Where to Meet Six Figure Men08:50 Challenges of Dating High Earners12:12 Expectations and Etiquette in High-Income Dating15:07 Financial Compatibility and Literacy17:58 Evaluating Strengths and Accomplishments20:54 Conclusion and Wrap-Up

Website www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriageCash App $a114johnsonSummaryIn this episode of the 313 Men, Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson delves into the concept of transactional dating, exploring its definition, statistics, types, risks, and emotional impacts. He discusses how economic factors influence these relationships and the challenges individuals face when transitioning back to traditional dating. The conversation also touches on societal norms and the potential long-term implications of normalizing transactional dating behaviors.Takeaways Transactional dating is defined by an exchange of benefits. 70% of individuals engage in transactional dating for basic needs. Emotional connections are often lacking in transactional relationships. There are various types of transactional dating, including sugar dating. Long-term engagement in transactional dating can affect mental health. Economic instability drives people towards transactional dating. Transitioning from transactional to emotional relationships is challenging. Societal norms are shifting towards accepting transactional dating. Women may become dependent on transactional relationships for financial support. The normalization of transactional dating poses risks for future generations. Understanding Transactional Dating The Rise of Transactional Relationships "70% of people do it for basic needs." "It's emotionally taxing in the long-term." "This behavior is becoming normalized."Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Transactional Dating01:15 Defining Transactional Dating02:49 Statistics and Trends in Transactional Dating04:15 Types and Risks of Transactional Dating08:13 Emotional Impacts of Transactional Relationships11:54 Financial Stability and Dating Choices15:06 Navigating Emotional Connections19:02 Societal Norms and Future Implications

Website:www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriageCash App $a114johnsonSummaryIn this episode of the 313 Men Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson and guest Min. Bernard Marrow discuss the declining presence of men in church, exploring the reasons behind this trend and the changing perceptions of church among men. They emphasize the importance of community outreach, the role of masculinity in spirituality, and the need for sermons to be relevant to modern men. The conversation highlights strategies for engaging more men in church and fostering a sense of belonging within the community.Takeaways61% of churchgoers are women, highlighting a gender gap.Men often feel unnecessary in church without leadership roles.Personal relationships with God are crucial for men in church.Community outreach can help connect with men outside the church.Men need safe spaces to discuss their feelings and experiences.Sermons should be relevant to the challenges faced by modern men.Tradition can limit spiritual growth; innovation is needed.Both men and women should have their spiritual needs addressed.Men can serve as mentors and role models in the church.Engaging men requires understanding their unique needs and perspectives.Where Are the Men in Church?The Changing Face of Church Attendance"Where are the men in church?""God wants a relationship, not religion.""We need men to lead as well."Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Church Attendance Crisis03:04 Changing Perceptions of Church Among Men05:39 Aligning Traditional Practices with Modern Generations08:35 Personal Experiences and the Importance of Male Presence11:40 Community Outreach and Its Role in Church Engagement14:23 Masculinity and Spirituality in the Church17:02 Balancing Focus Between Men and Women in Church19:56 Relevance of Sermons for Today's Men22:32 Strategies to Increase Male Involvement in Church

Webpage: www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Cash app $a114johnson Summary In this episode of the 313 Men Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson discusses the importance of understanding relationship options and the dynamics of dating. He emphasizes the significance of self-awareness, communication, and the impact of social media on dating choices. The conversation explores the challenges of dating outside one's zone, the types of relationships people engage in, and the emotional complexities of jealousy and envy. Johnson concludes by highlighting the benefits of dating within one's zone for a more fulfilling and less stressful relationship experience. Takeaways Understanding your relationship options is crucial. Self-awareness is key for relationship success. Dating outside your zone can lead to failure. Communicate your intentions early in relationships. Social media can cloud judgment in dating. Jealousy indicates feelings of inadequacy. Avoid comparing your relationship to others. Dating within your zone leads to greater fulfillment. Less stress is associated with dating in your zone. Know where you belong in relationships. Navigating Relationship Options: A Guide Understanding Your Dating Zone "Know your relationship options." "Communicate what you want early on." "Know where you belong in relationships." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Relationship Options 01:45 Understanding Your Dating Zone 08:15 Types of Relationships and Their Dynamics 12:16 The Importance of Communication in Relationships 15:14 The Impact of Social Media on Dating 19:34 Jealousy, Envy, and Relationship Comparisons 21:07 Benefits of Dating Within Your Zone

Website: www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Cash App $a114johnson Instagram the313menmoneymarriage This episode Bernard Marrow Interviewed me about The 3 13 Men Money and Marriage Podcast. We talked about some issues Men go through. The importance of Marriage for a Man, how it can extend your life, and how becoming financially literate. If you can ignore some of the background noise from Podfest, I thought it was good content. Bernard and I reflect on our time at Podfest 2025 and our plans to collaborate in the future on each other's podcast.

Website: www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Cash App $a114johnson Summary In this episode of the 313 Men, Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson and guest Greg Take discuss the importance of investing for everyone, not just the wealthy. They share inspiring stories of ordinary individuals who built significant wealth through smart investing practices. The conversation covers essential topics such as getting started with investing, the significance of asset allocation, the power of compound interest, and the lack of financial education in communities. They emphasize the importance of discipline, goal setting, and the long-term nature of wealth building. Takeaways Investing is accessible to everyone, not just the wealthy. Real-life stories show that ordinary people can build wealth. Starting early and consistently investing is crucial. Asset allocation helps mitigate risk in investments. Compound interest can significantly grow your wealth over time. Financial education is lacking in many communities. Discipline and consistency are key to successful investing. Dollar cost averaging is a smart investment strategy. Understanding inflation is essential for financial planning. Setting clear goals can guide your investment journey. Investing for Everyone: Breaking the Wealth Barrier Real Stories of Wealth: Ordinary Investors "You can learn how to invest." "It's about time in the market." "Investing is not sexy." Chapters 0:00 Introduction to Investing for Everyone 05:15 Real-Life Stories of Ordinary Investors 11:34 Getting Started with Investing 14:30 The Importance of Asset Allocation 16:57 Understanding Compound Interest 21:57 The Lack of Financial Education 26:07 Goal Setting in Your Investment Journey

Website: www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Cash App $a114johnson While spending time at Podfest Expo I had the opportunity to use the Ecamm Live studio set up. I interviewed a gentlemen named Bernard Marrow, who I met at the convention. This is an interview I did with him, and we talked about his podcast By Faith We Good, and his life as a minister. There was a lot of background noise in the episode. There were several people doing interviews at the same time.

Website podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage If you want to donate to the show Cash app $a114johnson Summary In this episode, Andrew Johnson discusses the concept of poor mate choices, exploring the reasons behind these decisions, the psychological factors that influence them, and the importance of self-awareness. He identifies red flags in relationships and outlines the long-term consequences of making poor mate choices. The conversation emphasizes the need for emotional intelligence and understanding one's own needs and wants to foster healthier relationships. Takeaways Poor mate choices often stem from biological and emotional factors. The longer one stays in a poor relationship, the harder it is to break the pattern. Unhealthy family backgrounds can lead to repeating poor mate choices. Past relationship trauma can hinder future relationship success. Self-awareness is crucial for making better mate choices. Identifying red flags early can prevent future heartache. Controlling behavior and jealousy are significant red flags. Love bombing is a manipulation tactic to watch out for. The consequences of poor mate choices can last for years. Prevention and self-reflection are key to avoiding poor mate choices. Understanding Poor Mate Choices The Psychology Behind Relationship Decisions "Why do we make poor mate choices?" "Controlling behavior is a red flag." "Jealousy can be a dangerous emotion." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Poor Mate Choices 06:55 Psychological Factors Influencing Mate Selection 12:48 The Importance of Self-Awareness in Relationships 21:22 Consequences of Poor Mate Choices

Website: www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Cash App $a114johnson Summary In this episode of the 313 Men Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson and guest Judy discuss the complexities of finding Mr. Right in today's dating landscape. They explore the challenges women face, the importance of compatibility over chemistry, and the need for self-awareness and confidence in relationships. The conversation also touches on the benefits of dating outside traditional norms and the unrealistic expectations that can arise from social media influences. Takeaways Women often have unrealistic expectations in dating. Compatibility is more important than chemistry in relationships. Self-awareness is crucial for understanding relationship dynamics. Preferences can keep individuals single for longer periods. Dating outside traditional norms can lead to better outcomes. Women need to understand the responsibilities of being a partner. The dating market is not limited, just filled with picky individuals. Social media influences can distort relationship expectations. Confidence should be rooted in self-awareness and personal growth. It's essential to focus on what you can offer in a relationship. Navigating the Modern Dating Landscape Finding Mr. Right: Challenges and Solutions "Finding Mr. Right is challenging today." "Women often have unrealistic expectations." "Don't let preferences keep you single." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Finding Mr. Right 02:04 Challenges in the Current Dating Market 05:54 Expectations vs. Reality in Dating 09:54 Exploring Beyond Traditional Dating Norms 13:17 The Importance of Compatibility Over Chemistry 17:23 Self-Awareness and Confidence in Relationships 21:14 Future Outlook for Women Seeking Mr. Right

Website: the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Cash App $a114johnson Summary In this episode, Andrew Johnson reflects on the significant changes and growth of the 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast throughout 2024. He discusses the transition to primarily video content, the increase in audience engagement, and the demographic shifts in listeners. Looking ahead, he shares plans for 2025, including goals for further growth and new content initiatives. Takeaways The podcast transitioned to 90-95% video content in 2024. Listener growth was attributed to video content, with a 36% increase in listeners. The most popular episode in 2024 focused on disrespect in relationships. The audience demographic shifted to a 50/50 male-female split on Spotify. The podcast reached listeners in over 20 countries. The show ranked in the top 15% of all video podcasts on Spotify. Plans for 2025 include aiming for the top 10% of Spotify video podcasts. The Angels Among Us podcast is currently on pause due to personal circumstances of the co-host. Future content will include pre-show and post-show discussions for email subscribers. The host expresses gratitude for the audience's support and wishes them well for the new year. Reflecting on a Year of Growth The Power of Video in Podcasting "We are about 90 to 95 % video." "We got 36 % more listeners this year." "I hope you had a very blessed Christmas." Chapters 00:00 Year in Review: Reflecting on 2024 04:28 Growth Through Video Content1 0:37 Audience Insights and Demographics 15:48 Expanding Platforms and Future Plans 20:32 Looking Ahead to 2025

Visit the website and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Cash App $a114johnson Summary In this episode of the 313 Men Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson delves into the reasons why marriages fail, supported by statistics and insights from various studies. He emphasizes the importance of effective communication, financial transparency, and understanding the impact of childhood trauma on relationships. The conversation also touches on the influence of social media and cultural expectations on dating and marriage, as well as the necessity of having a strong support system. Johnson concludes with practical solutions to prevent divorce, highlighting the significance of date nights and open discussions about finances. Takeaways Marriages often fail due to lack of communication. Financial problems are a leading cause of divorce. Childhood trauma can impact adult relationships. Premarital counseling is crucial for understanding each other. Effective communication is more than just talking. Social media influences unrealistic dating expectations. Support systems can help navigate marital challenges. Transparency about finances is essential before marriage. Date nights are important for maintaining intimacy. Understanding cultural differences is key in diverse relationships. Why Do Marriages Fail? Understanding Divorce: Key Statistics "Why do marriages fail?" "Support systems are critical in marriage." "Date nights help keep the flame alive." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Marital Challenges 07:01 The Impact of Childhood Trauma 12:40 Social Media's Influence on Relationships 19:23 Solutions to Prevent Divorce

Visit the website www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Youtube Channel The Men Money and Marriage Hour Cash App $a114johnson Summary In this episode of the 313 Men Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson and guest Greg's Take discuss the significant costs of ignoring personal finances. They explore the emotional and economic implications of financial neglect, the impact on relationships, and the importance of financial literacy. The conversation emphasizes the need for individuals to take control of their finances through consistent habits and informed decision-making. Takeaways Ignoring finances often stems from fear and avoidance. Facing financial issues is crucial to prevent worsening situations. Emotions play a significant role in how we handle finances. A lower credit score can lead to higher costs in various aspects of life. Financial neglect can strain relationships and marriages. Financial literacy is more accessible than ever, yet often ignored. Taking control of finances requires consistent habits and discipline. Using tools like budgeting can help manage finances effectively. Employers may check credit scores as part of the hiring process. Knowledge about finances can empower individuals to make better decisions. The Cost of Ignoring Finances Facing Financial Fears "Emotions are caused by thinking." "Don't be the person people avoid." "Credit is a tool, use it wisely." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Financial Ignorance 02:54 The Emotional Toll of Ignoring Finances 05:40 Economic Consequences of Financial Neglect 08:46 Impact on Relationships and Marriage 11:41 The Role of Financial Literacy 14:11 Taking Control of Your Finances

Webpage www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Cash App $a114johnson Summary In this episode, Andrew Johnson discusses the wealth gap affecting African Americans, exploring the underlying causes, statistics, and the importance of financial literacy. He emphasizes the need for education on wealth creation, the challenges faced in accessing capital, and the significance of retirement savings. The conversation highlights the disparities in income, homeownership, and inheritance, while advocating for solutions through increased financial education within the community. Takeaways The wealth gap is a significant issue for African Americans. Many individuals are uneducated about wealth creation. A large percentage of Americans read at a low comprehension level. Black households have lower median incomes compared to white households. Emergency savings are crucial, yet many black households lack sufficient funds. Access to capital is a major barrier for black entrepreneurs. Retirement savings are often inadequate for black families. Financial literacy is essential for improving economic outcomes. Racial discrimination impacts job opportunities and income levels. Inheriting wealth is rare for black families, hindering generational wealth. Bridging the Wealth Gap: A Conversation on Financial Literacy Understanding the Economic Disparities in African American Communities "We don't have as much time on this planet." "We need financial literacy in our communities." "Only 8% of black families inherit wealth." Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Personal Reflections 05:11 Statistics on Wealth Disparities 10:40 The Importance of Retirement Savings 18:18 Financial Literacy and Its Impact 25:24 Solutions Through Education and Resources

Website www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Cash App $a114johnson Instagram the313menmoneymarriage Summary In this episode, Andrew Johnson reflects on recent personal challenges, including the loss of loved ones, and shares updates about the podcast's new release schedule and focus on factual discussions. He emphasizes the importance of literacy and the show's mission to help those in need of information and support. Andrew expresses gratitude for his family and friends, and outlines plans for future content and audience engagement. Takeaways The podcast will now release episodes on Wednesdays. Over 50% of Americans read at a sixth-grade level. The show aims to provide factual information to help listeners. Personal relationships are crucial for personal growth. Andrew expresses gratitude for family and friends during tough times. The importance of literacy is a key focus moving forward. Andrew is recovering from recent personal losses. Future episodes will include more live content. The podcast aims to engage with its audience more effectively. Andrew is thankful for the support received during difficult times. Navigating Change: A New Direction for the Podcast The Power of Facts in Today's World "It's hard to lie with numbers." "I plan to be back to my usual self." "Please like and subscribe for that." Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Thanksgiving Reflections 06:42 Personal Reflections and Gratitude 11:21 Looking Ahead: Future Episodes and Content

Website www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage If you want to make a donation to the show Cash App $a114johnson Summary: In this episode, after having a rough week, I admit that I need a break. I'll discuss what brought this on, and what direction the show will go in the future.

Webpage www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Instagram the313menmoneymarriage Cash App a114johnson Summary In this episode of the 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson explores the complexities of love and relationships, focusing on how to discern genuine affection from mixed signals. He discusses the importance of understanding a partner's actions, investing in each other's growth, and maintaining open communication. The episode highlights key signs that indicate a woman truly loves her partner, emphasizing the significance of respect, vulnerability, and support in a healthy relationship. Takeaways Mixed signals can indicate uncertainty or insecurity. Genuine love is shown through actions, not just words. Investing in a partner's growth is a sign of love. A loving partner respects personal space and freedom. Vulnerability in a relationship signifies trust and love. Belief in the relationship is crucial for its success. Respecting differences can strengthen a relationship. Support for dreams and passions shows genuine affection. Open communication is essential for a healthy relationship. A loving partner will demonstrate their feelings through consistent actions. Does She Really Love Me? Understanding Mixed Signals in Relationships "Does she really love me?" "Actions speak louder than words." "She believes in the relationship." Chapters 00:00Introduction to Love and Relationships 07:52Actions Speak Louder Than Words 15:59Belief in the Relationship 21:24The Importance of Open Communication

Webpage: www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage If you want to make a donation to the show Cash App $a114johnson Summary In this episode of the 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson and guests discuss the evolving dynamics of gender roles in relationships, particularly focusing on situations where women earn more than men. The conversation explores statistics on earnings in marriages, the impact of education on black women, the role of blue-collar workers, family dynamics, and the challenges faced by African-American women in dating. The discussion also delves into the male ego, the concept of provision beyond financial contributions, and community perspectives on gender roles and earnings. Takeaways The landscape of marriage and earnings has shifted significantly over the years. Women are increasingly becoming the primary earners in households. Education plays a crucial role in the earning potential of black women. Blue-collar workers can also earn substantial incomes, challenging stereotypes. Family dynamics greatly influence a man's earning potential and behavior. African-American women face unique challenges in dating due to economic disparities. The male ego can be affected when women earn more, impacting relationships. Provision in a relationship encompasses more than just financial support. Time and emotional support are critical components of provision. Community perceptions can influence individual relationships and choices. Navigating Gender Roles in Modern Relationships The Evolving Dynamics of Earnings in Marriage "It's hard out there for them." "Money never fazed me, love did." "The male ego can be bruised." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Earnings Dynamics in Relationships 02:58 Statistics on Gender Earnings in Marriage 05:58 The Impact of Education on Black Women's Earnings 08:57 The Role of Blue Collar Workers in Relationships 11:56 Family Dynamics and Their Influence on Adult Behavior 16:53 Challenges for African-American Women in Relationships 20:46 The Role of Male Ego in Earnings Dynamics 24:40 Understanding Gender Dynamics in Relationships 29:32 The Impact of Financial Roles on Relationships 34:11 Navigating Gender Roles in Parenting 39:10 Community Perspectives on Financial Contributions 44:02 Redefining Provision Beyond Financial Means

Website www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Instagram page the313menmoneymarriage Cash App $a114johnson Summary In this episode of the 313 Men Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson discusses personal finance principles, emphasizing the importance of financial literacy and sharing his own journey from significant debt to financial stability. He highlights the alarming statistics regarding financial knowledge among different generations and offers practical advice on investing and reading to enhance financial understanding. Andrew encourages listeners to take control of their finances through education and consistent investment practices, ultimately leading to greater financial security.takeaways 47% of US adults rate their financial knowledge as C or lower. 57% of Gen Z believe savings accounts are the best investment. 85% of college students would take a personal finance course. Andrew started with over $8,000 in credit card debt. Investing can begin with as little as $50 a month. Reading 10 investment books increased Andrew's financial knowledge significantly. Investing during market downturns can lead to greater returns. Two recommended books are 'John Bogle on Mutual Funds' and 'A Random Walk Down Wall Street.' The average American reads only one book a year, which limits financial knowledge. Continuous reading and learning are essential for financial success. Mastering Personal Finance: Andrew's Journey Financial Literacy: Bridging the Knowledge Gap "85% of college students want personal finance courses." "I started with over $8,000 in credit card debt." "$50 a month was how I got started investing." "Investing is about buying more when prices drop." "The average American reads one book a year." Chapters 00:00Introduction to Personal Finance Principles 02:09 The Importance of Financial Literacy 06:08 Andrew's Personal Financial Journey 11:51 Investing Basics and Strategies 17:59 Recommended Reading for Financial Knowledge 24:06 Conclusion and Future Directions

website the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Cash App $a114johnson Summary: In this episode of the 313 Men, Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson delves into the topic of mate poaching, defining it as the act of attempting to attract someone who is already in a romantic relationship. He discusses statistics surrounding mate poaching, psychological and sociological factors that contribute to this behavior, the risks involved, and how individuals can protect their relationships from potential poachers. The conversation emphasizes the complexities of relationships and the importance of communication and boundaries. Takeaways Mate poaching is common, with 10-20% of new relationships starting this way. 75% of people report being targeted for mate poaching. Men often engage in mate poaching to maximize reproductive success. Narcissism is a common trait among mate poachers. Mate poaching can lead to feelings of guilt and humiliation. The risks of mate poaching can affect stable relationships. Social media plays a significant role in facilitating mate poaching. Open communication is essential in protecting relationships. Setting boundaries can help prevent mate poaching. It's crucial to address poaching attempts early to avoid escalation. The Consequences of Mate Poaching The Psychology Behind Mate Poaching "Mate poaching is the act of attracting someone else's partner." "10 to 20% of new relationships begin via mate poaching." "Men want to maximize their reproductive success." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Mate Poaching 01:11 Understanding Mate Poaching: Definition and Statistics 03:27 Psychological and Sociological Factors Behind Mate Poaching 06:59The Risks and Consequences of Mate Poaching 12:09 Protecting Relationships from Mate Poachers

Website: www.podpage,com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Cash App $a114johnson Summary In this episode of the 313 Men, Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson explores the intersection of dating, relationships, marriage, and mathematics. He discusses how numbers play a crucial role in partner selection, the current dating market statistics, and the challenges individuals face in finding their ideal partners. The conversation delves into the expectations people have regarding relationships, the implications of the 37% rule, and the reality of settling in relationships. Additionally, cultural influences on partner selection are examined, providing listeners with insights into navigating the complexities of modern dating.takeaways People often choose partners based on quantifiable traits. Statistics show a high interest in committed relationships. Men and women have differing expectations in the dating market. The 37% rule suggests rejecting initial options to find better matches. Settling is a common reality in relationships. Cultural factors influence partner selection significantly. Higher standards can lead to missed opportunities. Understanding the dating market can help in making informed choices. Mathematics can provide clarity in relationship expectations. It's essential to be open to different types of partners. The 37% Rule Explained Dating in the Age of Numbers "Numbers are logical. They cannot lie." "The interest in finding a committed partner remains high." "It's a supply and demand issue." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Dating and Mathematics 04:00The Current Dating Landscape 09:56 Understanding Relationship Expectations 15:38 The 37% Rule in Dating 19:41 Settling in Relationships 24:18 Race and Partner Selection 27:05 Conclusion and Future Directions

website www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Cash App $a114johnson Instagram: the313menmoneymarriage Keywords: Failed relationships, childhood trauma, self-sabotage, dating advice, relationship patterns, emotional health, personal growth, accountability, red flags, relationship dynamicssummaryIn this episode, Summary: Andrew Johnson discusses the complexities of failed relationships, exploring themes such as the fantasy of dating, the impact of childhood trauma, self-sabotage, and the importance of taking responsibility for one's role in relationship failures. He emphasizes the need to recognize red flags, avoid carrying excess baggage into new relationships, and understand that personal growth is essential for healthier future connections. Takeaways Most of us have had failed relationships. We often date out of our league, chasing fantasies. Childhood trauma significantly impacts adult relationships. Self-sabotage can be unconscious and detrimental. We must take responsibility for our role in relationship failures. Ignoring red flags can lead to repeated mistakes. Self-doubt can prevent us from pursuing healthy relationships. We don't have endless options in dating. Carrying excess baggage can harm new relationships. Flexibility in boundaries is crucial for relationship success. The Hidden Costs of Dating Out of Your League Letting Go of Baggage: Starting Fresh in Love "A resume of failed relationships." "The prettiest girl is not always the best girl." "You're dating her childhood." Titles Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Failed Relationships 01:12Understanding the Fantasy of Dating 05:21The Impact of Childhood Trauma 11:29Self-Sabotage in Relationships 17:34Taking Responsibility for Relationship Failures 22:02Avoiding Excess Baggage in New Relationships

Visit the website to join the email list, and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage keywords: wealth classes, financial literacy, economic status, income levels, financial education, wealth accumulation, personal finance, socio-economic classes, financial habits, wealth mindset Summary: In this episode of The 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson and guest Greg Stake delve into the five classes of wealth, exploring the characteristics, challenges, and opportunities associated with each class. They discuss the lower class, working class, middle class, upper class, and wealthy individuals, emphasizing the importance of financial literacy, mindset, and the impact of socio-economic status on personal finance. The conversation highlights the need for education, saving habits, and the influence of networking in wealth accumulation.takeaways Understanding wealth classes helps individuals identify their financial status. The lower class faces systemic challenges but can improve their situation with knowledge. Working class individuals often struggle with consumerism and lifestyle inflation. Middle class households can live paycheck to paycheck despite higher incomes. Education and financial discipline are crucial for moving up the wealth ladder. Networking plays a significant role in wealth accumulation for the upper class. Wealthy individuals have more influence over economic and political decisions. Time is the most valuable asset one can possess. Consistency in saving and investing is key to financial success. Financial literacy is essential for all classes to improve their economic standing. Navigating the Wealth Ladder Understanding Your Financial Class "I always call cap, because the numbers don't line up." "These are individuals in this particular have incomes below the poverty line." "Working class has been called the backbone of America." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Wealth Classes 02:18 Understanding the Lower Class 07:32Exploring the Working Class 12:32The Middle Class Dynamics 18:12Insights on the Upper Class 25:16Defining the Wealthy Class 30:14Wealth Accumulation Strategies Instagram The313menmoneymarriage Youtube Channel: The Men Money and Marriage Hour

In this episode my guest Waymon Daniels and I talk about how the the role of Stepfathers has evolved over the years. Different Eras and Cultures, and how Black families are more accepting to step-parenting. The challenges faced by Stepfathers, establishing authority and bonding. The rewards of being a step-parent. The guest gives real life examples of being a step-parent. Lastly, how in modern times men are being labeled a Simp for being a Stepfather. Visit the website and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Instagram the313menmoneymarriage Cash App: $a114johnson

Visit the website and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage If you want to make a donation to the show Cash App $a114johnson Summary In this episode of the 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson delves into the concept of the 'Unicorn Partner Myth,' exploring the unrealistic expectations many have in modern dating. He discusses statistics on relationships, the impact of social media on dating perceptions, and the importance of self-reflection and compromise in relationships. The conversation emphasizes that while the perfect partner may be a myth, a good partner is attainable and preferable to remaining single. Takeaways 55% of people feel most loved when their partner acknowledges their emotions. The demand for ideal partners often outweighs the supply. Social media contributes to unrealistic dating expectations. Self-reflection is crucial in understanding relationship expectations. Compromise is essential for a healthy relationship. Many people are not 'datable' due to life circumstances. Expectations should be realistic to find a suitable partner. The dating pool narrows as preferences increase with age. People often compare new partners to exes, which is detrimental. A good partner is better than no partner at all. Titles Realistic Expectations in Love The Truth About Ideal Partners Sound Bites "We're never gonna find the perfect partner." "Are you the perfect partner for the one that you want?" "The demand is far outweighing the supply." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Unicorn Partner Myth 02:04 Statistics on Relationships and Dating 05:01 Defining the Unicorn Partner 08:11 The Impact of Social Media on Dating 11:54 Self-Reflection and Realistic Expectations 21:10 The Importance of Compromise in Relationships 24:55 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Visit the website and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Instagram page the313menmoneyandmarriage Summary In this episode of the 313 Men Money and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson discusses the concept of the African American consumption class, exploring the spending habits, historical context, and the impact of self-concept on financial behavior. He emphasizes the need for financial literacy and education, particularly for the younger generation, and highlights the importance of marriage in achieving financial stability. The conversation delves into the challenges posed by systemic racism and economic disparities, while also offering strategies for improving financial health and breaking the cycle of overconsumption. Takeaways African Americans spend significantly on luxury items despite lower average incomes. Systemic racism influences consumption patterns and financial behavior. Self-concept plays a crucial role in financial decision-making. Overcompensation through material items can lead to financial instability. Financial literacy is essential for breaking generational cycles of poverty. Marriage is linked to higher income and better financial health. Teaching children about money management is vital for future success. Reading and continuous learning contribute to financial growth. The average car payment is a significant burden on consumers. Understanding the value of saving early can lead to greater wealth accumulation. Breaking the Cycle of Overconsumption Teaching the Next Generation about Money "We are six times more likely to buy a Mercedes Benz." "This is a situation where we just simply have our priorities misplaced." "Racism is a system to keep one group down." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Consumption Class 03:04 Statistics on African American Spending 06:07 Historical Context of Consumption Patterns 08:55 Self-Concept and Financial Behavior 12:12 The Impact of Consumption on Relationships 15:12 Strategies for Financial Improvement 17:59 Generational Financial Education 21:00 The Importance of Marriage and Financial Stability 24:10 Conclusion and Future Directions

This is a replay episode, as I am recovering from vacation. The episode will talk about is there really a shortage of these types of men. Are women's expectations surrounding a man's income too high. What salary numbers give women the best chances of getting married. Lastly what can be done to achieve better marriage outcomes, based on salary expectations, with guest Desmond Douglas, financial advisor. Visit the website to leave a review and get on the email list. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Instagram the313menmoneymarriage

Visit the website and leave review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Instagram the313menmoneymarriage Summary In this episode, Andrew Johnson discusses the topic of high standards in dating. He compares dating standards from 20 years ago to the present day, highlighting the dramatic changes in expectations. Johnson explains the difference between standards and preferences, emphasizing that standards are non-negotiable while preferences are flexible. He explores the advantages and disadvantages of having high standards, including how they can protect individuals and weed out incompatible partners, but also how they can limit the dating pool and lead to unrealistic expectations. Johnson advises listeners to find a balance between their standards and preferences, and to focus on internal qualities rather than external factors when seeking a long-term relationship. keywords high standards, dating, preferences, relationships, expectations, dating pool, self-reflection, internal qualities takeaways Dating standards have dramatically changed in the past 20 years, with both men and women having higher expectations. High standards can protect individuals and weed out incompatible partners, but they can also limit the dating pool and lead to unrealistic expectations. Finding a balance between standards and preferences is important, as well as focusing on internal qualities rather than external factors. Self-reflection and self-awareness are crucial in evaluating one's own standards and being open to change. Understanding the difference between standards and preferences can help in navigating the dating scene. titles The Dramatic Changes in Dating Standards The Difference Between Standards and Preferences Sound Bites "Men aren't even considering dating the women, meaning that they've just checked out for the most part because they don't feel that they meet the standards of the modern day woman who has standards now." "Standards are non-negotiable. Preferences are negotiable." "High standards are literally keeping people single." Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Clarification 02:11 The Dramatic Changes in Dating Standards 04:38 The Difference Between Standards and Preferences 06:31 The Advantages and Disadvantages of High Standards 09:42 Finding a Balance: Self-Reflection and Flexibility 18:42 Focusing on Internal Qualities for Long-Term Relationships

Visit the website and leave a review or get on the email list. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Summary In this episode of the 313 Men, Money, and Marriage podcast, host Andrew Johnson and guest Robert Prasch the host of the Creating Greatness Podcast, discuss the topic of marriage chemistry. They explore how to keep the chemistry alive in a marriage, handle adversity and conflict, and recognize if you have found your soul mate. They also discuss the role of God in their relationship and the importance of shared values and goals. The conversation touches on the belief in soulmates and the difference between making your spouse happy and adding value to their life. They also address the impact of finances on marriage and the dynamics of parenting. takeaways Marriage chemistry is about having a strong connection with your spouse and being able to understand and support each other. Finding your soul mate can happen through online dating or other unconventional methods, and it's important to be open to different possibilities. Having a shared belief in God and working together to grow spiritually can strengthen a marriage. Happiness in a marriage comes from within, and both partners should focus on adding value to each other's lives. Open communication and joint financial planning can help prevent financial issues from causing problems in a marriage. Parenting should involve both parents working together, with one taking on a disciplinary role and the other providing support and understanding. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Definition of Marriage Chemistry 03:11 Meeting and Knowing Your Soul Mate 07:48 The Role of God in the Relationship 11:36 Belief in Soulmates 15:40 Making Your Spouse Happy vs. Adding Value 20:13 Handling Finances in Marriage 26:51 Family Dynamics and Parenting 32:19 Conclusion and Podcast Promotion

This weeks guest. Ellen Sudderth of ESP Presents, April Thomas, and Wendy Arsad. Visit the website and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Summary The podcast discusses the movie 'Divorce in the Black' and its portrayal of divorce in the African-American community. The first scene and the coffin scene are highlighted as particularly impactful. The conversation then moves on to the alignment of the movie's portrayal of divorce with the reality in the community, with a focus on economic factors. The decision to divorce and the role of financial difficulties are explored. The panelists also discuss why women may end up marrying someone like the character Dallas, with factors such as fixing and building a man, familiarity, and religious upbringing being mentioned. The conversation explores the themes of healing after divorce, generational views on divorce in the Black community, and the process of rebuilding after a divorce. The guests discuss the importance of addressing trauma and brokenness before entering into a new relationship. They also touch on the changing attitudes towards divorce in different generations and the impact of children on the decision to leave a marriage. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the movie. Keywords Divorce in the Black, African-American community, portrayal, movie, first scene, coffin scene, alignment, reality, economic factors, decision, financial difficulties, marrying someone like Dallas, fixing, building a man, familiarity, religious upbringing, healing, divorce, generational views, rebuilding, trauma, brokenness, Black community. takeaways The first scene and the coffin scene in 'Divorce in the Black' are impactful and thought-provoking. The movie's portrayal of divorce aligns with the reality of divorce in the African-American community, but some aspects could have been explored further. Economic factors play a role in the decision to divorce, and financial difficulties can strain a marriage. Women may end up marrying someone like Dallas due to a desire to fix and build a man, familiarity, and religious upbringing. Men who are broken may require the help of another man to be fixed, but women can provide valuable support once the man is on a better path. Healing after divorce is an individual process that requires acknowledging and addressing one's own brokenness and trauma. Generational views on divorce have shifted, with younger generations being more likely to leave a marriage when it becomes uncomfortable. Rebuilding after divorce involves changing one's perspective and rebuilding trust in oneself and others. The movie 'A Fall from Grace' sparked mixed reactions within the Black community, with some appreciating its portrayal of trauma and others expecting a different type of story. titles Why Women May Marry Someone Like Dallas Impactful Scenes in 'Divorce in the Black' Changing Generational Views on Divorce The Process of Rebuilding After Divorce Sound Bites "That first scene was a doozy." "I thought it was a bit far-fetched." "Confess that you are broken. You're not well enough for a relationship right now." "Nobody wants to settle for anybody and nobody wants average." "Rebuilding is changing your perception, how you see things, and what is really important to you." Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview 01:06 Discussing the Movie 'Divorce in the Black' 02:24 Analyzing the First Scene 03:24 Opinions on the Coffin Scene 07:25 Portrayal of Divorce in the African-American Community 09:34 Economic Factors in Divorce Decisions 11:26 The Role of Faith and Family in Divorce 15:33 Why Women May Marry Someone Like Dallas 19:27 The Importance of Support in Fixing Broken Men 20:37 Healing and Addressing Brokenness After Divorce 24:56 Changing Generational Views on Divorce 30:34 The Process of Rebuilding After Divorce 36:16 The Impact of Children on the Decision to Leave a Marriage 38:56 Mixed Reactions to the Movie 'A Fall from Grace'

Visit the website to get on the email list or leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Instagram page the313menmoneymarriage Summary: In this episode, the host discusses workplace romances with his guests, LaKeisha and Natalie from the Life Cracks Us Up podcast. They share their personal experiences and talk about the challenges and benefits of dating someone at work. The statistics on workplace romances are also mentioned, including the high percentage of adults who have been involved in one. The main challenges discussed include favoritism, distractions, and decreased productivity. The benefits mentioned include shared interests and goals, improved morale, and job satisfaction. keywords: workplace romances, challenges, benefits, statistics, favoritism, distractions, productivity, shared interests, goals, morale, job satisfaction Takeaways Workplace romances are common, with a high percentage of adults having been involved in one. Challenges of workplace romances include favoritism, distractions, and decreased productivity. Benefits of workplace romances can include shared interests and goals, improved morale, and job satisfaction. Maintaining professionalism and keeping the relationship a secret can be important in workplace romances. Disclosing the relationship to HR may be necessary depending on company policies and potential conflicts of interest. Navigating the Challenges and Benefits of Workplace Romances The Juicy Statistics and Real-Life Experiences of Workplace Romances "75% of employees have had an office romance" "Workplace romances can be a mess and a handful" "Laugh to keep from crying" Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Statistics on Workplace Romances 02:04 Introducing the Guests and Their Podcast 03:20 Personal Experiences with Workplace Romances 07:38 Challenges of Workplace Romances 10:11 Maintaining Professionalism in Workplace Relationships 15:38 Disclosing Workplace Romances to HR 20:24 Signs of Problematic Workplace Romances 22:40Benefits of Finding Love at Work 27:29Wrap-up and Closing Remarks

In this episode we will talk about the ready made man. We will a definition of the term, the chances of women marrying a ready made Man. Why women tend to be attracted to men who have established careers. Why women, in their 30's place a higher value on a ready made Man? We will compare established vs growing and building. The importance of partner compatibility. Lastly, some of the risk to being with a ready made Man. Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage instagram page the313menmoneymarriage Cash app $a114johnson

Visit the website and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Make a donation to the show Cash app $a114johnson Instagram the313menmoneymarriage Summary In this episode, Andrew Johnson discusses the 'soft guy era' and its impact on dating and relationships. He defines the soft guy era as a TikTok trend that encourages men to stop being the sole financial provider in relationships. Johnson explores the issues with this trend, including the changing dynamics and expectations in modern dating. He also discusses the influence of cultural factors and the imbalance in the dating pool, where women are looking for men who earn at least as much as they do. Johnson highlights the need for self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and communication to navigate these challenges. Keywords Soft guy era, dating, relationships, TikTok trend, financial provider, modern dating, cultural influences, dating pool, imbalance, self-awareness, emotional intelligence, communication Takeaways The soft guy era is a TikTok trend that encourages men to stop being the sole financial provider in relationships. Modern dating has been influenced by cultural factors and has led to changing dynamics and expectations. There is an imbalance in the dating pool, with women looking for men who earn at least as much as they do. Navigating the challenges of the soft guy era requires self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and effective communication. Titles The Imbalance in the Dating Pool Navigating the Challenges of the Soft Guy Era Sound Bites "The soft guy era is a TikTok trend that encourages men to stop being the sole financial provider in relationships." "Cultural influences have significantly changed and influenced modern dating, altering dynamics and expectations." "Women tend to like to date men who are earning at least what they're earning." Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 02:12 Defining the Soft Guy Era 04:42 Cultural Influences on Modern Dating 11:32 Reactions and Expectations 16:23 Redefining Masculinity 19:09 Navigating the Challenges 23:17 Conclusion and Call to Action

Visit the website and leave a review www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Leave a donation to the show Cash app $a114johnson Summary In this episode, Andrew Johnson and Greg discuss good systems of financial security. They cover topics such as budgeting, savings, managing debt, investments, insurance, and financial literacy. They emphasize the importance of living within your means, starting early with saving and investing, and forming good financial habits. They also discuss the role of financial education in achieving financial security and stress the need for individuals to take responsibility for their own financial well-being. Keywords Financial  security, budgeting, savings, debt management, investments, insurance, financial literacy, living within means, starting early, forming good habits, financial education Takeaways Living within your means is crucial for financial security. Starting early with saving and investing can have a significant impact on your financial future. Forming good financial habits, such as budgeting and conscious spending, is essential. Financial education plays a vital role in achieving financial security and should be taught from an early age. Titles Forming Good Financial Habits The Importance of Living Within Your Means Sound Bites "Living within our means is just normal. Energy in, energy out." "If you start while you're in your 20s, at the end of this journey, it makes a tremendous difference." "How do you feel about money? Does it make you feel yucky? Is it heavy?" Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview 02:08 Why People Struggle with Financial Security 05:57 The Importance of Starting Early 08:55 Assessing Your Financial Health 11:07 Strategies for a Tight Budget 13:56 Protecting Financial Assets 17:48 Preparing for Unexpected Events 21:23 The Role of Financial Education 24:00 Personal Stories and Examples 27:00 Conclusion and Closing Remarks

In this episode we are discussing blended families with my two guests Wesley and Tamara Davis. We will give a definition of a blended family, What some of the statistics are pertaining to blended families. How to handle the initial transition of combining two families together. The importance of a strong stable marriage, How to discipline children in a blended family. Lastly, what are some tips we can give to a new blended family just starting out. If you want to make a donation to the show send us a Cash App $a114johnson Visit the website and leave a review. www.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriage Instagram page the313menmoneymarriage