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Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com    Why am I here? Who am I supposed to be? What is the point of life? These are great questions and I am sure we have all wrestled with them at some point, but they all come down to one main question… and that question is???? Thats where we are going today.    The question that answers every question…    Matt. 6:33 31 “Therefore do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?' or ‘What shall we drink?' or ‘What shall we wear?' 32 For after all these things the Gentiles seek. For your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. 33 But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you. 34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.   Seek the kingdom of God… right up front Jesus is saying change your perspective. Look eternally…      No purpose Fall into petty fears, worries, troubles, poor choices, self pity,  Which leads to weakness Which leads to sins Which leads to a flat and void existence full of failure, unhappiness, and questions of doubt.   You can have energy, you can have brains, you can have God, you can have money, you can have friends, you can have good looks, you can have titles… but if you have no purpose it feels even more meaningless.    What happens when you have a purpose?  Goals start to align. Systems start to form. People start to show up. Steps start to be taken. Resources start to flow, new ideas start to grow… a purpose is the dirt inwich you grow everything else. I can grow anything, anywhere just about anytime if I have dirt… but without dirt it aint going to happen.    How do you find your purpose… Ok, we know our overall purpose is to seek the Kingdom of God (that is doing things Gods way, with his heart and his commands… reach the world for Christ)  Great Garth, but can you be a little more practical… I will tell you what works for many…  Combine your passions, your gifting and your highs and ask yourself what people group does this line up with up best.  My passion is winning people to Christ My gifting is speaking, leading and equipping My high comes from seeing other people win. When I see someone that I spoke into, taught, equipped, loved on, poured into… when I see them succeed in their purpose… it fires me up!  And finally All of this is best suited for men. So… again.  Passion winning people to Christ Gifting speaking, leading equipping My high seeing other succeed Who is my audience? Im drawn specifically to men

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com        Here are the key themes and teachings: 1. God's Impartiality as a Model: The Bible frequently states that God shows no favoritism or partiality. This is a foundational aspect of His character and justice. Deuteronomy 10:17: "For the Lord your God is God of gods and Lord of lords, the great, the mighty, and the awesome God, who shows no partiality and accepts no bribes." Romans 2:11: "For God does not show favoritism." Acts 10:34-35: Peter, recognizing a significant theological truth, declared, "Truly I understand that God shows no partiality, but in every nation anyone who fears him and does what is right is acceptable to him." Because God is impartial, His judgment is fair and applies to everyone equally, regardless of their background, status, or identity. 2. Condemnation of Favoritism and Partiality: The Bible explicitly condemns showing partiality, particularly based on wealth, social status, or outward appearance. James 2:1-4: This passage is a strong rebuke against favoritism within the church, illustrating the sin of giving preferential treatment to the rich over the poor. It states, "My brothers, as you hold out your faith in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ, do not show favoritism. For if a man wearing a gold ring and fine clothing comes into your assembly, and a poor man in shabby clothing also comes in, and if you pay attention to the one who wears the fine clothing and say, 'You sit here in a good place,' while you say to the poor man, 'You stand over there,' or, 'Sit down at my feet,' have you not discriminated among yourselves and become judges with evil thoughts?" James 2:9: "But if you show favoritism, you sin and are convicted by the law as lawbreakers." This verse elevates favoritism to the level of sin. Leviticus 19:15: "You shall do no injustice in court. You shall not be partial to the poor or defer to the great, but in righteousness shall you judge your neighbor." This Old Testament law highlights the importance of fairness in judgment. Proverbs 24:23: "These also are sayings of the wise: To show partiality in judgment is not good." 3. Call to Impartiality and Love for All: Believers are called to emulate God's impartiality in all their dealings. 1 Timothy 5:21: Paul charges Timothy, a church leader, "I solemnly charge you before God and Christ Jesus and the elect angels to maintain these principles without bias, doing nothing out of partiality." Galatians 3:28: "There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus." This verse emphasizes the unity and equality of all believers in Christ, transcending social and cultural distinctions. Matthew 7:1-3: While not using the word "bias" directly, Jesus warns against being a critic "full of bias toward others," emphasizing that we will be judged by the same standard we use for others. Love your neighbor: The "royal law" (James 2:8) to "love your neighbor as yourself" implicitly demands impartiality, as it means treating others with the same care and respect you desire for yourself, regardless of who they are. In essence, the Bible views bias, partiality, and favoritism as contrary to God's righteous character and a hinderance to justice, love, and unity among people. It calls believers to strive for impartiality, treating all individuals with fairness, dignity, and love, reflecting the nature of God.     mind like water-when you drop a pebble, stone or a boulder into a lake lt always responds appropriately.

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com  Fear is not hard Happiness is kind of hard (the fear of the unkown… when will it end) But what is really fearful is not knowing at all - the not knowing is what gets you.    My hardest test was not cancer… it was the waiting on the tests to see a. If I had cancer and then b. If had spread, and c. Is it stage I. II.  III or IV.    The mind, however finds it much harder to accept uncertainty.   I have no problem fearing what I know… get into a cage to fight or under a huge amount of weight… I know what is coming. But to get into a cage to fight and I don't know who it is… or getting under a bar and I don't know how much weight there is… that seems unfair. The mind fears change loss and death, but not when it knows it is certain - it is when it is uncertain that drives you crazy.  This resistance, the body translates into stress. By imposing mental resistance, you create a threat your body had to cope with.   Deepak Chopra explained it this way… Some people riding a roller coaster are screaming from excitement, others from terror.  The ride is the same but the ones who hold back and tense their bodies, generating a flood of stress hormones, experience terror.   The ones who let go and allow themselves to be carried by the ride experience exhilaration.  Ageless Body, Timeless Mind, Deepak Chopra p. 174   All through out the Bible we see people who were tested and had trials and even life and death moments… Stephen was the first martyr and died literally with a smile on his face.  Saul died in agony Paul looked forward to death Judas hung himself Peter asked to die upside down because he was not worthy to die the way his Messiah did Samson chose his death Look there are dozens of examples… the difference was some had complete faith in God and were able to let go and enjoy the ride. Others did not have that confidence in who God was. We speak a lot about how much faith a person has and how to use it… healing, giving, speaking out etc… but I believe the real mark of faith is your day to day reactions or response to what happens to you. If your faith and trust in God is great… the unknown is just the unknown… but if you lack that trust then the unknown is a daily minefield and battle.  So today choose to know God for who he is and not for insight into what is coming your way… trust me.. the not knowing can be extremely exciting when you know the one who dose in fact know. When your knower knows its all good. 

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com    Acts 12 6 The night before Peter was to be placed on trial, he was asleep, fastened with two chains between two soldiers. Others stood guard at the prison gate. 7 Suddenly, there was a bright light in the cell, and an angel of the Lord stood before Peter. The angel struck him on the side to awaken him and said, “Quick! Get up!” And the chains fell off his wrists. 8 Then the angel told him, “Get dressed and put on your sandals.” And he did. “Now put on your coat and follow me,” the angel ordered. 9 So Peter left the cell, following the angel. But all the time he thought it was a vision. He didn't realize it was actually happening. 10 They passed the first and second guard posts and came to the iron gate leading to the city, and this opened for them all by itself. So they passed through and started walking down the street, and then the angel suddenly left him. 11 Peter finally came to his senses. “It's really true!” he said. “The Lord has sent his angel and saved me from Herod and from what the Jewish leaders had planned to do to me!” 12 When he realized this, he went to the home of Mary, the mother of John Mark, where many were gathered for prayer. 13 He knocked at the door in the gate, and a servant girl named Rhoda came to open it. 14 When she recognized Peter's voice, she was so overjoyed that, instead of opening the door, she ran back inside and told everyone, “Peter is standing at the door!” 15 “You're out of your mind!” they said. When she insisted, they decided, “It must be his angel.” 16 Meanwhile, Peter continued knocking. When they finally opened the door and saw him, they were amazed. 17 He motioned for them to quiet down and told them how the Lord had led him out of prison. “Tell James and the other brothers what happened,” he said. And then he went to another place. 18 At dawn there was a great commotion among the soldiers about what had happened to Peter. 19 Herod Agrippa ordered a thorough search for him. When he couldn't be found, Herod interrogated the guards and sentenced them to death. Afterward Herod left Judea to stay in Caesarea for a while.   Gods ways are not our ways…   Peter is out cold waiting to be executed…   It took a group of people praying… how is your church at that? How are your friends at that?   God broke the law by breaking Peter out of Jail.   Rhoda was so awestruck that she left Peter in the dark.   Peter though freed was wise enough to tell everyone to be quiet…    He was free, but also smart enough to get out of town.   God's plan does not seem fair or make much sense and even might seem cruel. Herod had the guards all executed for their role in this… fair, unfair.. its up to God to decide… we just follow orders of the Holy Spirit.    Did you ever think that maybe we limit God moving in our life because we want answers that are supernatural, but safe and in order?  God is not like that.

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com    True story… my mom and Dad at walgreens, she drops her check card on the floor a young man grabs it and runs out the door… The clerk shouted at my mom- don't pursue him, just call the cops and cancel the card…        Today I will be posting my Birthday numbers… Squat over 600, deadlift over 600 and Bench over 600…. Just kidding… Maybe 350…? Maybe But look for me on my social media accounts…      Episode 1529… yes that is correct.. with over 130K listeners just that I can track and on over 10 different radio stations   Forgive our enemies is not natural… it has to be supernatural.  LOVE our Enemies is Transformational!    GOD PURSUED NINEVEH  AND… JONAH  He never quits pursuing us - but don't forget by pursuing us he is using it in the big picture to pursue others…. See once you completely surrender to Gods plan… then thousands of others will also be caused to surrender   The art of pursuing.    A young man steals a purse… the woman's husband runs after him… miles… he was a long distance runner… in fact an olympian.  God will run you down.        A young Christian… Tim, came to meet with me and was complaining about people in our church who were smoking during our break… he was being harsh… but the problem was he was talking to me with Chew stuck in his teeth.      You push my buttons. No one ever says “I have buttons” God take away my buttons. Jonah could not see he had buttons. Pastor Paul from Calvary Chapel Ontario JONAH DIDN'T PRAY - GOD SOFTEN MY HEART FOR THE PEOPLE… HE WHINED AGAINST GOD. 

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com    Tomorrow I will be posting my Birthday numbers… Squat over 600, deadlift over 600 and Bench over 600…. Just kidding… Maybe 350…? Maybe But look for me on my social media accounts…      Episode 1528… yes that is correct.. with over 130K listeners just that I can track and on over 10 different radio stations and heard in USA, United Kingdom, Canada, Poland, United Arabe Emirtes, Czech Republic, Denmark, Indonesia, Iraq, Netherlands, Russia, XK, Australia…    A lot of people have reached out and wanted me to give my take on the War in Israel with Iran… as far as hard and fast details that are not tainted by the US media go to Tipping Point USA with Jimmy Evans and also Amir Tsarfati on Telegram…and make sure it is the official one and not a fake account… BUT here is my take - We understand that from here on out Israel will not lose another war until the battle of Armageddon when the whole world comes against Israel… Israel will cry out to God and Jesus will return on a white horse and crush the enemy…   But what I do know more than ever is we should be praying for the salvation of all those involved… yes praying for the salvation of the jewish nation and all Jews around the world but also praying for people and countries. Including Iran, Iraq and all of the middle east. Praying for Muslims that they might come to the full knowledge  and understanding  of who Christ is. That is what is most important. Thats my take.   But with that… it reminds me of Jonah. You know the story… (tell story)   When Jonah does return he does not preach the full extent of scripture…. He only tells them they are doomed for their sin. The city of Nineveh figures it out themselves… they repent. But here is the kicker… Jonah's actions did not match his heart. In chapter 4 Jonah laments that his worst fear actually happened…  Chapter 4:1 This change of plans greatly upset Jonah, and he became very angry. 2 So he complained to the Lord about it: “Didn't I say before I left home that you would do this, Lord? That is why I ran away to Tarshish! I knew that you are a merciful and compassionate God, slow to get angry and filled with unfailing love. You are eager to turn back from destroying people. 3 Just kill me now, Lord! I'd rather be dead than alive if what I predicted will not happen.”   Jonah understood Gods Holiness, he understood the price of sin, he understood Gods mercy and grace… What he didn't understand was the cost and ramification of his own sin.    Forgive our enemies is not natural… it has to be supernatural.  LOVE our Enemies is Transformational! 

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com    Final thought… The lions den By the time Daniel got to the lions den, his life had been so cemented on who God is, the lions are almost circumstance… “The King said worship no one else but me… Oh I know where this is going”. Daniel ended up in the lions den… of course he did- we are talking about out Daniel - are we not?     Chapter 6:24 Then the king gave orders to arrest the men who had maliciously accused Daniel. He had them thrown into the lions' den, along with their wives and children. The lions leaped on them and tore them apart before they even hit the floor of the den.   The biblical account in the book of Daniel mentions different categories of these advisors, including:  Magicians - potentially interpreters of dreams Enchanters - possibly involved in incantations or conjuring Sorcerers - individuals practicing witchcraft or magic Chaldeans - a learned group, perhaps functioning as a class of "wise men" or astrologers Satraps - chief representatives or governors over regions Prefects - officials with authority over specific areas or functions Governors - regional leaders managing provincial affairs Treasurers - responsible for managing financial resources Judges - tasked with administering justice and resolving disputes Magistrates - local officials with judicial and administrative authority Counselors - including lawyers or guardians of the law    So even if half of these and their families were thrown into the lions den….    If they were eaten before they even hit the floor, and lions can only eat 75 pounds of meat at once…   This means that there were anywhere from 500-700 lions… AND IN THE FACE OF THAT DANILE WAS LIKE… NOPE I AINT WORSHIPING ANYBODY BUT GOD!    Rom. 12:19"Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, 'Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord   But he never wavered… he took God at his word.  Do we really live as Christians? Is there any compromise…

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com    A lot of stories in the book of Daniel… food, lions, fires, beheading, Idols, end times… But if you have to title the book of Daniel… as in pick a theme or a title… it would be easy for me…. It would be called 73 seconds.    73 seconds…    The Space shuttle had a 99.9999 perfection in its running parts. NEAR TOTAL PERFECTION. But in just 73 seconds due to the compromise of an O ring .0001 it imploded and millions watched 7 people die.   Daniel is about NO COMPROMISE.  NO COMPROMISE. Sermon, how did they overcome? They overcame by no compromise in any area for any reason and for anyone! As soon as you compromise even slightly, you have already lost for the slide slowly, but the end is destruction.   HOW? Daniel 1:8  But Daniel purposed in his heart that he would not defile himself with the portion of the king's delicacies, nor with the wine which he drank; HE WAS 15 WHEN HE SAID THIS!!!!!   WHAT DOES DEFILE ACTUALLY MEAN - simply live according to the culture. It was completely acceptable for everyone to live that way in Babylon.      One of my favorite quotes: if you want to be really successful, true successful… study people, watch them, at work at home, at church, at the mall… AND THEN DO THE OPPOSITE!      HE PURPOSED/RESOLVED IN HIS HEART AT 15… Remember Joash just 2 weeks ago… served God until his Father figure priest died and then he fell a part. BUT NOT DANIEL.      Purposed = Set aside… appoint as to bring notice to! NOT ONLY WILL I MAKE A DECISION TO FOLLOW GOD - I WILL MAKE IT STAND OUT… IT WILL BE FOR RELIGIOUS PURPOSES!  *If I might add as one of the biggest problems in todays Christians is they do not live any differently than the world. Sex, selfishness, jealousy, bitterness, excuses, work ethic, self centeredness… Christians don't stand out much any more. 

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com      3 Then the king instructed Ashpenaz, the master of his eunuchs, to bring some of the children of Israel and some of the king's descendants and some of the nobles, 4 young men in whom there was no blemish, but good-looking, gifted in all wisdom, possessing knowledge and quick to understand, who had ability to serve in the king's palace, and whom they might teach the language and literature of the Chaldeans.   NOTE…  They took the best of the best… not dummies. THATS WHY I WOULD BE SAFE… THATS A JOKE They would entertain them, feed them the best, meet their every need and put them with others who were also captured… take the best and the brightest, give them elite instructors, privileged education, New network and friends, New authorities over them, re-naming them… wearing them down. Many probably thought… … I deserve this …everyone is doing it … God has forgotten me … I will go back to God later … This is so much better than my previous life NOW IN A CULTURE THAT SERVED BAAL AND ASHERAH.   THE GOD OF MONEY and POWER AND SEX   - THEY ARE TEENAGERS!!!!   This sounds a lot like our universities.. take the best and the brightest, give them elite instructors, privileged education, New network and friends, New authorities over them, re-naming them…    V. 6 But even out of the best of Judah, only 4 boys are mentioned. Only four stood the test.    Remember… 3 Then the king instructed Ashpenaz, the master of his eunuchs, to bring some of the children of Israel and some of the king's descendants and some of the nobles, 4 young men in whom there was no blemish, but good-looking, gifted in all wisdom, possessing knowledge and quick to understand, who had ability to serve in the king's palace, and whom they might teach the language and literature of the Chaldeans.   The others must have caved. V.6 Now from among those of the sons of Judah were Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah who stood out   Train them for 3 years. Give them a royal role for service.   NOTE: The Assyrian nation dominated by fear and intimidation. They would skin their enemies alive and wall paper their houses with their skin…   BUT THE BABYLONIANS… They were far more subtle… Change your surroundings Change your diet - the best to eat Change your friends Change your role - you are important Change your name - identity Change your education - mindset FEED THE FLESHLY DESIRES FOR  3 YEARS   Be careful for the enemy prowls…. Seeking whom he may devour…. Prowling is sneaky… and then WHAM. You are dinner. Are you allowing satan to pull your strings subtly? 

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com    What do twirling a baton, turning handsprings, eating with chopsticks, spinning plates, playing the violin and Marriage all have in common?   Want to have a great life? Be more like Jesus… and have problems that make you want to pull your hair out? Get married. As they say…. Marriage isn't for a good time.. its for a long time.   But lets look beyond just marriage…  Relationships wether BF/GF Besties, Marriage, engagement Boss/employee Pastor/attender Neighbor… It does not matter - all relationships have one thing in common, one purpose. To cause you to grow. Bluntly - to push your buttons so God can reprogram you. Right, thats what you do in testing coding… you write it, you test it, you find the flaws and you rewrite it. Relationships push our buttons, that tests us, we see where we are lacking…where the bugs are in our software/brain and attitude and then ask God to rewire us… or transform our minds.    And if thats really the case… and it is  - why do we not look forward to it? My marriage many times in my own life was a draaaaaag. I hated it. It drained me… I have had friendships like that as well…  But why? Well because I thought that relationships were about what I got and rather than who I become. The single greatest factor in spiritual growth is tied to relationships and how we handle them. Imagine you want to get stronger in the gym but you don't want to lift weights… ain't gonna happen captain.  As someone said “we are designed to grind” or better yet Opposites attract, then attack, then hopefully act like Christ.    MARRIAGE EIGHT STAGES OF CHRISTIAN GROWTH -- Philip A. Captain (p 165) For example, in a marriage, we seem to assume that just because two people get married they must love each other. In reality, people do not get married because of love but in order to learn how to love. To have love in a marriage requires that the couple have intimacy and to have intimacy the two people must psychologically and spiritually grow up and quit being children. Most couples getting married today are doing so while still in states of emotional dependency, which means the marriage is based on neurotic need and not love. To have love and intimacy in a marriage requires that both people first must become adults.   Ahhh yes that whole become an adult thing… its hard adulting. But its even harder adulting as a follower of Christ… or maybe we should coin a new phrase “Christing… its tough Christing!” You've probably seen t shirts that say “not adulting today” if many were honest they would wear shirts that say Not Christing today… or most days.    So rather than complain about relationships… ask God what is THAT YOU need to learn in that grind?    Probably to me the most important thing I see in the counseling I do… and I don't do much any more.. is that most don't see relationships with a Growth Mindset (within relationships): This refers to the belief that relationships are not fixed entities but rather something that can be developed, morphed, evolve, shift and improved through effort and learning. Instead of viewing challenges as insurmountable obstacles, individuals with a growth mindset see them as opportunities for growth, understanding, and adaptation. They are willing to work through difficulties, learn from mistakes, and invest in developing communication skills, conflict resolution strategies, and mutual understanding. This contrasts with a "fixed mindset" where people might give up easily when faced with relationship issues, believing that compatibility is predetermined.

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com          ESTHER - SHE'S GOT THE LOOKS THAT KILL *Even your good looks are for Gods purpose. Don't hesitate to understand that your looks are God given and maybe not so much for your social media following, or landing the right husband, but for Gods purpose.  Supermodel Cameron Russel said she won the genetic lottery…  I believe there was a greater draw TO ESTHER beyond her beauty and virginity… there was a innocence to her.. the virgins from Persia were hardened by the lifestyle…They had a different mindset… Esther was not.  HOW DO YOU STAND OUT FROM HUNDREDS OF BEAUTIFUL WOMEN?  -  Esthers beauty went beyond just looks. There was a purity an innocence that is by far more attractive than just looks.  HER VIRGINITY YES BUT ALSO No bitterness  No fear   No mixed motives No World influence  No pride/arrogance   But how do you stand out if you are obese, deformed, or in your words “the wrong skin color”. Well very much the same way… A beautiful woman more than once has thought “I am not going to let my good looks get in the way of what I really want and deserve”. I want this because I am qualified, and not because I am a genetic freak. I am going to believe what I believe about myself because of who I am in Christ and not who I am in the mirror… you can tweet that. I BELIEVE WHAT I BELIEVE ABOUT MYSELF BECAUSE OF WHO I AM IN CHRIST, NOT WHO I AM IN THE MIRROR.    If you were obese and I called you a fat pig… you would get mad. If others heard me they would scold me, they would reprimand me and think I was a person full of hate… but the truth is that obese person gets up every morning and speaks those things over their life… and no one cares, no one gets upset… and why -simply because they say them in their head… but still because of what they see. Get your head in the Bible and out of the mirror. 

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com    Have you ever trusted someone, only to have that person turn in to someone you don't trust to someone you actually hate… so much so you even call them wicked… even wishing them to go to hell? Thats where were going today.    Matthew 25:24 “Then the servant with the one bag of silver came and said, ‘Master, I knew you were a harsh man, harvesting crops you didn't plant and gathering crops you didn't cultivate. 25 I was afraid I would lose your money, so I hid it in the earth. Look, here is your money back.' 26 “But the master replied, ‘You wicked and lazy servant! If you knew I harvested crops I didn't plant and gathered crops I didn't cultivate, 27 why didn't you deposit my money in the bank? At least I could have gotten some interest on it.' GK: Sklay Ros A Harsh man… A stubborn man who expects above and beyond without apology!  It can even be emphasized to mean “violently expects things to happen”.  But lets take a step back and look at this master… why was he so mad? Just because the servant didn't invest? I think it goes deeper than that. The Master gave the talents according to each servants ability.  V. 15 He gave five bags of silver to one, two bags of silver to another, and one bag of silver to the last—dividing it in proportion to their abilities. He then left on his trip. He would not have given this wicked servant talents if he had not known that he could yield a return. He is mad not just because he did nothing, he is mad because he (the servant) in doing nothing is calling the master a liar. The master believed in him… enough to give him not just talents… but the Master gave him HIS TALENTS. Can this thought shake you for a second.. the talents you have are not your talents. They have been given to you by God - they are actually his talents.  Now here is where I think it gets interesting.. he says to the servant “you could have at least put them in the bank”. What does this mean to us in todays world. God is saying… yes you could have used them with my gifting entwined with your work and the talents I gave you… but even if you didn't use those talents for me, you could have at least used them in the worlds system… but you didn't even do that. You didn't use them for God, you didn't use them for the world… YOU DID NOTHING! IT WASN'T JUST A SWING AND A MISS… NO IT WAS YOU NOT EVEN SWINGING AT ALL. That is a wicked servant.  But it also tells me that God talents that he gave us are just as powerful in the world as in the church. Lets not waste them.  GOD BELIEVES IN YOU. DO YOU BELIVE IN YOU? TRY HIM OUT FOR SIZE AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS. 

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com      Ever have a moment when you don't see it and then you see it? The classic picture of an old women or a young beautiful woman depending on what you see?    Here's a more detailed look at the reasons:    1. Lack of Historical Evidence: Missing Persian References: . Some scholars questioned the book's historical accuracy, pointing to the lack of mention of the characters and events described in Esther within Persian historical records.  Not Found at Qumran: . The Dead Sea Scrolls, a collection of Jewish texts dating back to the period when the Book of Esther was thought to have been written, did not include the Book of Esther, further fueling skepticism about its authenticity.  2. Theological Concerns: Absence of God's Name: . The most significant theological issue was the complete absence of God's name in the Book of Esther. This was seen as unusual compared to other books in the Old Testament.  Interpretations of Divine Providence: . While some argued that the book implicitly suggests divine providence through the actions of the characters, others felt the lack of explicit mention of God undermined its theological purpose.  3. Jewish Canon Formation: Delayed Inclusion: The Book of Esther was not included in the earliest forms of the Jewish canon, and it was debated whether it should even be included at all.  Nationalistic Pride: Some suggest that the book's inclusion in the Jewish canon was influenced by a desire to celebrate the Jewish people's triumph over Haman and to provide a sense of national identity.  4. Christian Canon Formation: Deuterocanonical Status: The Book of Esther was not universally accepted by Christians from the beginning. Some Christians, like Jerome, considered it canonical, while others, like Athanasius, classified it with the Apocrypha, a collection of books considered useful but not part of the official canon.  Influence of Jewish Canon: Ultimately, Christians largely adopted the Jewish canon, which included the Book of Esther, leading to its inclusion in Christian Bibles as well. 5. Additions to the Septuagint: Greek Version: An alternate version of the Book of Esther in Greek, which included references to God and additional passages, was also debated. The Eastern Orthodox Church uses the Septuagint version of Esther, while the Roman Catholic Church preserves the Greek additions as "Additions to Esther"   God is not mentioned in Esther ANYWHERE… SO WHERE IS HE? HE IS EVERYWHERE!     - Queen Vashti won't give it up From Vashti's defiance to Mordecai's sleepless night, seemingly random occurrences contribute to the ultimate deliverance of the Jews.     - Esthers beauty over 25 million women   - Jew chosen to be queen   - Mordecai hears about a plot   - King can't sleep and they read Mordecai's story   - Haman used like a puppet in Gods hand   - 2 parties to set up Haman's demise   - Haman's advance on queen Esther   - The Pole set up for Mordecai used for Haman   - The Jews enemies are identified and then killed due to the timing and they get the take of those they kill

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com      Years and years of bodybuilding and now look at you? What happened… more importantly how fast did it happen?    No matter how healthy you are… and BTW Bodybuilders are some of the most unhealthy people in the world. What they eat in nutrition is destroyed by the amount of drugs they put in their system…. Don't get me wrong, you can do steroids and other enhancers and still maintain a safe healthy physique if you are willing to cycle on and off with enough time in between - but most don't. Anyway…. You can be in the best health possible… eat, exercise, drink plenty of water, take supplements, cardio etc… and in only 2 short months lose it all and be extremely unhealthy… I have seen it happen… You have probably seen it happen.    Have you ever heard the saying…  “what have you done for me lately”  We usually use it in a negative way… like Man I have done so much for that guy the past 10 years… but it does not matter, its always what have you done for me lately….    BUT it is actually a biblical concept.   Your past will not make up for your present.    A good beginning is not a guarantee of good ending.    Ez. 18:23, 24 23 “Do you think that I like to see wicked people die? says the Sovereign Lord. Of course not! I want them to turn from their wicked ways and live. 24 However, if righteous people turn from their righteous behavior and start doing sinful things and act like other sinners, should they be allowed to live? No, of course not! All their righteous acts will be forgotten, and they will die for their sins. You do have a personal responsibility!  Your past will not make up for your present.    Its not about Loyalty or brownie points… or God owing you… it is about Holiness.    First lets get one thing straight… God only owes us one thing… judgement and death for being a sinner. We only get what we get because of what God did, not because of what we did.  Hebrews 6:4-6 and 10:26-27 speak of what have you done for me lately…  My point today is this… We see the weakened and sinful in scripture turning around from the disciples to the apostle Paul… they all had diverse sinful backgrounds… but were all marked by getting older and bolder and not older and colder.  What was their prescription for such a faith as this? Very simple, in fact John G Lake spoke of it often. 4 things: Constantly prayed Read Gods word Shared the gospel Prayed in tongues and prophesied over their own lives.    Listen I know we all are thankful for Gods grace and his mercy… I know I need it. But I don't want to casually assume a life based on that for entrance into heaven. I want to walk in Gods power over sin and evil. I want his grace to empower my life so that I can live above sin. 2 Cor. 12:9 God tells Paul his grace is sufficient to overcome his weakness and his suffering. That phrase there actually means more than enough. And we often forget that last sentence in that verse….  - Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.   What have I done today for Christ? I have rested in his power over my weakness. 

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com    Im gonna bring the Jesus Hammer! Garth Heckman Ryan     What do you put your stock in? Look if I knew back in 1983 that for every $1000 in Microsoft would end up being 3 million dollars… I would have put stock into Microsoft… but who would have believed in that years ago… I think I learned a lesson and I did put a chunk into Bitcoin and it is doing extremely well… but here is the point -  Some people put more stock in peoples rejection then in the affirmation of God in their life. That doesn't even make sense… but we do it. WE GIVE MORE CREDIT TO PEOPLES OPINIONS AND REJECTIONS THAT WE DO IN WHAT GOD SAYS IN HIS WORD. You know what that really is right? Its calling God a liar. You are saying… I don't believe you God, but I do believe the media, the work place, the current of peer pressure…      Faith comes by hearing so you if you fill your head with medical science or witch craft of whatever, then that is what you have faith in. Todays major obstacle is that we have non stop input from a thousand voices every day… every day… every day. Truly when I was a kid I had the voices of my teachers, my sisters, my parents and about 8 close friends… those were the only people I put some stock in… and not a lot of stock in my teachers as I got older. On my phone everyone is an expert… literally by education, resume, popularity - however you qualify it… experts everywhere buy the thousands.  I officiated a wedding 10 years ago… very wealthy couple… they had one reception for adults, with a live band that played at the Dakota club here in Twin Cities… amazing food, and beautiful decor…  But they had another whole reception for kids. Candy bar, ice cream bar, hot dogs, cheese burgers, Fries, chicken nuggets… milk shakes, rooter fountain… And basically no supervision. Just a band for kids… it was mayhem.  Thats what social media is like today… no supervision and nothing but crap.    Romans 10:17 faith cometh by hearing and by hearing the word of God… What is the key word in this verse? Faith? Word of God? Hearing? NOPE… its cometh… meaning it is a process over time. It doesn't just happen when you hear… you feed your mind again and again what ever you feed it… will surely come.    Every choice you make is making you! But way before that choice there was a voice. Be careful who you listen too… for it surely will cometh! 

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com    How do you get good at anything? You practice… that seems obvious. But how do you get really good at something… like expert level. Well you practice but you practice under duress.    Doctors who came back from war were far better at their jobs having practiced under war time conditions. The Benefits of Military Medical Experience include….  Trauma and Emergency Care Expertise: Military doctors, especially those who have served in combat zones, gain unparalleled experience in managing severe trauma, critical injuries, and mass casualty events under high-pressure, resource-limited conditions. This experience can be invaluable in civilian trauma centers and emergency departments. Adaptability and Resourcefulness: Military physicians are often trained to work in diverse and sometimes austere environments, using whatever resources are available. This fosters a high degree of adaptability, problem-solving skills, and the ability to remain calm in chaotic situations. Leadership and Teamwork: Military medicine emphasizes strong leadership, teamwork, and a clear chain of command. These skills are highly transferable to civilian healthcare settings, particularly in managing teams and coordinating care. Exposure to Diverse Patient Populations: Military physicians often change stations frequently and may be exposed to a wide variety of patient populations globally, broadening their clinical perspective. Focus on Pure Medicine (less administrative burden): In some military settings, doctors can focus more on patient care without the same concerns about insurance or billing that civilian doctors often face, allowing them to hone their clinical skills. Innovation: Many medical innovations and practices, such as triage systems and specialized surgical teams, have originated or been refined in military settings and have had a significant impact on civilian healthcare.     When you don't let anyone in your emotions, your faith or your mind… you build your Spiritual strength or should I say your spiritual armor.    Wether it is a person or a circumstance or even a physical health issue - these aren't just proving grounds, they are paving grounds for your life. You are learning to pave your walk in life in a straight and narrow.  When emotions, doubt, anger, bitterness… when these emotions attack you it can cause an uphill and uneven walk… with pitfalls and roadblocks… but they are of your making because you don't choose to the right response.    Silence is your Protection Scripture is your weapon Faith is your push back into the darkness   Silence protects you a few ways… You do not give your adversary any more ammo to pull your strings or trigger you. You keep them guessing You ultimately make them give up You create a sense that you know something they don't and it makes them feel vulnerable, more likely to expose their motives and their faults.   Scripture is your weapon. I just had a conversation with a young man who said he does not believe in speaking in tongues and the HS gifts for today… I said show me in scripture where it says that. He started to say “well I think… I cut him off immediately and told him he was either incredibly stupid, naive or arrogant or he was God. Because no one who serves God should care what another man thinks if it does not line up with scripture. My life is lived according to scripture… not my circumstances, not my upbringing, not what others think… even if they seem smarter than me… My life and how I view my life is totally based on scripture. If the rest of my life I pray for people to be healed and they are not… Im still believing God heals for today because that is what Gods word says.    My aikido sense was John Barr- I have talked about him a few times on my podcast. He was the best, well known, on magazine covers, fought with Steven Seagal… his wife tells a story of when they went to a restaurant that had a bar…. (Story)  No change in emotion, no anger, no change of demeanor… just a calm statement of faith.  John knew what he knew, he believed what he knew and he knew it was true. THATS FAITH. When you pray a prayer of faith or live a life of faith… you don't have to pray loud, live brash, but if you just know what you know, believe what scripture says, and live the truth. Thats faith.    Authority self esteem, self control, inner strength… self respect… its a muscle. And as they say… use it or lose it! 

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com    [Verse 1] What have I gotta do to make you love me? What have I gotta do to make you care? What do I do when lightning strikes me And I wake to find that you're not there? [Verse 2] What do I do to make you want me? What have I gotta do to be heard? What do I say when it's all over? And sorry seems to be the hardest word [Chorus] It's sad (So sad), so sad It's a sad, sad situation And it's gettin' more and more absurd It's sad (So sad), so sad Why can't we talk it over? Oh, it seems to me That sorry seems to be the hardest word     The life of Allan The life of Mitch The life of Bill The life of Lief The life of Connor The life of Londa The life of Dane The life of Shane The life of Chris And finally the life of Joash in 2 Chron. 22-24   He was the king of crash and burn… started out right but ran off the tracks in a hurry… Let me catch you up to speed.    Two kingdoms.  Judah   and             Israel Jehoshaphat Ahab and Jezebel Jehoram (reigned 8 yr) Marries Athaliah  Ahaziah - Murdered @ 1 yr Athaliah kills her grandsons and takes the throne   Joash is saved by Jehosheba (Ahaziah's sister) Wife of the priest Jehoiadah    Ahab and Jezebel had a daughter Athaliah She marries Jehoshappaht. Jehoshaphat dies and his son (Jehoram) becomes king (Athaliahs son) Jehoram gets killed So his mother kills all her grandsons and assumes the throne. BUT… one of the grandsons is spared - Joash!       2 Chronicles 24:Joash was seven years old when he became king, and he reigned in Jerusalem forty years. His mother was Zibiah from Beersheba. 2 Joash did what was pleasing in the Lord's sight throughout the lifetime of Jehoiada the priest.     17 But after Jehoiada's death, the leaders of Judah came and bowed before King Joash and persuaded him to listen to their advice   PERSAUDED HB Shaw-Maw Using the persons appetites and weaknesses they gave him consent to do what would be easiest and best for him.    A young girl or boy has appetites to be liked, to be loved, to be accepted… if you just go with the crowd, if you just give in to sexual urges or peer pressure to do what will make you liked… If you are told your parents don't understand… YOU CAN BE PERSUADED.  All of us have physical appetites/fleshly appetites Lust, sex, greed, apathy, laziness, anger, Gluttony    We have emotional appetites To be needed, feel wanted, accepted, loved, cared for. We also have emotional needs to want to hate, strike back, hurt those who hurt us, to distrust, to be and stay bitter.   There will always be people who will persuade or feed those desires… And if you listen you will cut short your blessings and maybe even your future in heaven.    2 Chron. 24: 20 Then the Spirit of God came upon Zechariah son of Jehoiada the priest. He stood before the people and said, “This is what God says: Why do you disobey the Lord's commands and keep yourselves from prospering? You have abandoned the Lord, and now he has abandoned you!”

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com    Medevil times had a torture where they tied each limb of a person to a horse. So there were four horses and each one had a rope tied from the horse to one of the arms or legs. Then they would command the horses to all run as fast as they could all in opposite directions. It was truly barbaric as arms and legs were ripped off.  What was the name of the torture called? It was called distraction.      Which distractions in your life have become disguised as priorities?   When was the last time you sat down next to someone or talking to someone at a party and asked them what they did and they said “Im a professional Bull rider”. I have never had it happen…. Now maybe if I lived in Texas, but still it would be rare!  Being a man of God is as about as rare today as being a professional bull rider.   Why? I believe the main reason is because of distraction. Sin isn't any more or less than any other time in todays world… Men didn't just recently start noticing beautiful women. Drugs have always been around. There are no new sins… Satan has always been around… but distractions are at an all time high.      The biggest danger in distractions is you don't see them as distractions.   Let me ask you a very simple question. If you took all the time you have spent on your phone in the past 2 years… and simply practiced the piano - how good would you be? I asked AI this and here is what they said.  You would likely reach an intermediate level much faster than 3-5 years, potentially within 6 months to a year, assuming quality, focused practice. In 3 to 3.5 years you would be an advanced pianist.    How long would it take to read the whole bible. If you read at an average pace or listened to it on an app… In summary: Non-stop reading: 2-3 days Daily reading (typical pace): 1 year Daily reading (fast pace): 3 months (90 days) Daily listening: 2 months Let me break it down into a realistic day to day… you would read 3.3 chapters a day.    So why are you not the man of God you want to be? Its not sin… its really not. Its distractions.    Being a man of God is as about as rare today as being a professional bull rider. Ride the Bull! Daily! 

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com    Mawage, that bwessed awangment, that dweam wifin a dweam … And wuv, tru wuv, will fowow you foweva … So tweasure your wuv.   God loves everyone…  True. However. Gods unconditional love is not Gods unconditional approval. So lets look at some scriptures that seem counterintuitive    John 3:16 for God so loved the world that he gave his only son…. Romans 2:6 God will judge the world 2 Peter 3:10 God will destroy the earth and its inhabitants    The problem lies within our twisted world/self centered view of what love is. Love is a feeling, it is something that always makes us happy, it always feels good and it is always in line with what we want. NO and DOUBLE NO!  Love is discipline, love is honesty when we don't want to hear what is right. Love is correction. Love is punishment. Love is not letting us get our own way. And thank God love is not a feeling or none of us would still have parents… im sure they would have all walked away at some point.    My parents loved me better than I could have ever expected.. but they did not always approve of what I did. When I wore 8 inch kiss boots to church… my Dad was none to happy, made me sit in the front row of Church… it was kind of embarrassing… did not feel loving at all - but it was.    Gods love will be responsible for all types of action on the earth… its not our job to try to figure it out or ask why. It is simply our job to trust him. There were a lot of things I did not understand as a kid that my parents did… but I understand now. What we need to understand in todays world is God is love. But love is not God. Do not worship love at the cost of watering down scripture, making excuses for going against his word or for excusing your behavior simply because …well… God loves us!    Division brings weakness. Separation brings power.    What do I mean. Well we think Love as a feeling (defined by what we want) is all inclusive. But it is actually divisive. Ever get a group of people together and tell them they all can have what ever they want? Its anarchy! It weakens humanity and our natural bond as people.  However if I understand that sometimes love seemingly separates us from what we want… but it is God keeping us from what is evil, bad, destructive… it is actually Gods power at its best. Again Division brings weakness… we are most divided when we all thing we can all get whatever we want.  Do not get fooled as to which is which… it will ruin your life in no time. 

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com    Talking to a young man lately who plays guitar and he plays on a worship team. I told him I was going to be teaching a short 2 hour class to the guitar players at our church… he interrupted me and said “I am a good guitar player… And they he said it again as if I did not believe him. I kindly nodded. Now he can play guitar and he can play some rock songs… but who knows if someone is good or not right? But when he asked me what exactly I was going to be teaching my guitar players on my worship team - the first thing I said was “Diatonic harmony”… which believe it or not if you are in fact a good guitar player you would know what that is. He stared at me blankly and asked what it was. I kindly assured him he was not in fact a good guitar player. Now I have told this young man as I tell many people - You may not like what I say to you, but I will never lie to you! EVER. I will try to say it nice… most of the time - but who else will be honest with you. And today what if you can't be honest with yourself because… well you just can't. Have you ever heard of the   The Dunning-Kruger Effect and the Blindness of the Incompetent Wheeler's lemon juice story inspired researchers David Dunning and Justin Kruger to study this phenomenon in greater detait. The research-ers were intrigued by the obvious difference in people's actual abilities and how they perceive these abilities. Dunning and Kruger hypothesized that incompetent people suffer from two types of problems · Due to their incompetence, they make flawed decisions (such as robbing a bank while covered in lemon juice). · They are unable to realize the fact that they make Flawed decisions. (Not even the video footage convinced wheeler of hjs inability to be invisible he claimed that it was faked ) The researchers tested the validity of these hypotheses on a sample of participants. First they laid out a test measuring their abilities in a certain domain (logical reasoning, grammar, and humor). Then, the par- ticipants were asked to assess how good their abilities were. The research- ers discovered two interesting findings The least competent people (labeled incompetent in the research) had a tendency to significantly overestimate their abilities. In fact, the less competent they were, the more they overestimated themselves. For example, the more painfully unfunny an individual was, the funnier they thought they were. this eftect was elegantly described by Charles Darwin years ago ignorance more frequently begets confidence than does knowledge' The second interesting finding was that the most competent participants had a tendency to underestimate their abilities. Their under- rated results can be explained by the fact that if a task seems easy to them, they will have the feeling that the task is easy even for other people. In another part of the experiment, participants had the possibility to review the test results of other people. They were subsequently asked to conduct a self assessment again. Competent participants realized that they were better off than they had thought. Thus, they modified their self assessments and began to evaluate themselves more objectively.     So where am I going with this… David says something profound in Psalm 139:23-24 KJV. Search me, O God, and know my heart: Try me, and know my thoughts: And see if there be any wicked way in me, And lead me in the way everlasting. David is not saying this as a type of challenge to God… ok, God see if you can find anything wrong in me. NO NO NO he is saying it as one who realizes he can't see everything in his life clearly.  He knows that he is blind to many of the sins, flaws, inconsistencies and choices he makes that are not Godly. WHAT A POWERFUL INSIGHT TO KNOW YOU DONT HAVE INSIGHT. RIGHT?  Meaning, how powerful it is to know that you don't know everything -especially about you. 

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Garth Heckman The David Alliance  TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com    James 3 Neither bitter water and sweet water should come out of your mouth as a believer.   More frequently, "πικρός" is employed metaphorically to describe a state of emotional or spiritual bitterness. This can refer to feelings of resentment, anger, or harshness that can take root in a person's heart. The New Testament warns against allowing such bitterness to grow, as it can lead to division and strife within the community of believers.         How do we deal with Bitterness?     - 1 Get rid of it. Eph. 4:32 31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior. 32 Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.   Get rid of GK - to raise up your voice to deal with it.    YOU HAVE THE POWER OF YOUR OWN VOICE.  SPEAK IT OUT!       - 2 GO TO THE PERSON: Aaron stood before Moses. Peter Stood before Jesus.       - 3 Immediately deal with the root   Heb. 12:15  Deal with the root   This verse goes back to Deut. 29:18 which speaks of roots growing and causing a coldness of heart toward God.        - 4 Finally Don't react - Respond David Rostad - Bulls - overreacting, yelling or pushing the bulls would only cause greater injury to yourself.    The hound of heaven - Blue Heeler dog "Hound of Heaven" comes from the famous poem of the same name by Francis Thompson, published in 1893.       Harboring resentment, bitterness, anger, unforgiveness steals the joy of our salvation…  HOW?  Holding on to these is unbelief in what God has done for you -      -   forgive as God has forgiven you!       -  And what he can do through you, He can forgive through you.      -  He has the power to forgive anything!      Helmut Thelike - don't let misplaced resentment misplace you.  In a bitter cold winter nothing can grow A bitter cold heart is the same! 

Garth Heckman The David Alliance  TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com    Have you ever felt so bad over something you did that it affects even your appetite? You can't even enjoy your favorite food or activity or people? And why… who was responsible for this?    Based on the information available from the search results regarding Chase Hughes's views, here are some basic traits and indicators he suggests looking for when trying to spot deception: Changes in Behavior: A key principle is to establish a person's baseline behavior when they are likely telling the truth (e.g., answering simple, non-threatening questions) and then look for changes in their behavior when the topic shifts to something they might be lying about. These changes can include deviations in how they answer questions, their eye movements, hand gestures, and breathing patterns. Stress and Fear Indicators: Deception is often linked to increased stress and fear. Physical signs associated with this can include an increased breathing rate, increased blink rate, and facial touching. "Closed" Behavior: Actions that suggest fear or a need to protect oneself, such as crossing arms or bringing fingers together, can be indicators. Increased Need for Control: As someone engages in deception, their need to control the situation and their presentation may increase. Difficulty with Reverse Chronology: When asked to recount events in reverse order, a person who has fabricated a story in forward chronology may struggle significantly compared to someone recalling actual events. Reactions to "Bait" Questions: Vague, hypothetical questions designed to see if a person shows a reaction even if they don't know if evidence exists (e.g., "Is there any reason someone might have seen you at a certain place?") can elicit a nervous response from someone being deceptive. Cluster of Unusual Mannerisms: While a single behavior is rarely a definitive sign of lying, observing a cluster of unusual mannerisms that deviate from the established baseline can be a warning sign. Chase Hughes emphasizes that there is no single, universal body language signal for lying. Instead, the focus is on identifying deviations from a person's normal behavior and looking for clusters of indicators, particularly those related to stress and attempts to gain control. Raising the stakes of the conversation can also make deceptive behaviors more apparent.     Luke 22:62 Peter denies Jesus and goes out and weeps bitterly.    Bitter: GK Violently felt grief that leaves the soul and spirit tasting bitter.      Peter felt shame denying Christ… but shame is only the RED CARPET leading to bitterness.      Lets clear something up.  THIS IS A POWERFUL INSIGHT Peter did not weep bitterly because of what Christ had said or done…  Why was Peter bitter?  HE WAS BITTER Because he did not respond correctly.  We want to blame our bitterness, unforgiveness, hard heartedness on what others did - but it is actually because OF WHAT WE DID NOT DO!        We typically become bitter not because of what someone did to us but rather because of how we responded and we know it was not Christ like.    Peter denied Christ and wept bitterly? Why bitterness? What did Peter do that made him bitter? *He did not represent Jesus AND He did not love the way Jesus would have loved… and he became bitter because of what he had done.  WE THINK AND SAY: I am so bitter because of what they did. BUT THE TRUTH IS MORE ACCURATE: I am so bitter because of WHAT I DID - Because of the way I responded.      **The right response heals not only us but the other person. Armando- wrapping my arms around him and telling him I loved him and want Gods best for him. He calls me later that night and falls apart.

Garth Heckman The David Alliance  TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com    Have you ever felt so bad over something you did that it affects even your appetite? You can't even enjoy your favorite food or activity or people? And why… who was responsible for this?    Based on the information available from the search results regarding Chase Hughes's views, here are some basic traits and indicators he suggests looking for when trying to spot deception: Changes in Behavior: A key principle is to establish a person's baseline behavior when they are likely telling the truth (e.g., answering simple, non-threatening questions) and then look for changes in their behavior when the topic shifts to something they might be lying about. These changes can include deviations in how they answer questions, their eye movements, hand gestures, and breathing patterns. Stress and Fear Indicators: Deception is often linked to increased stress and fear. Physical signs associated with this can include an increased breathing rate, increased blink rate, and facial touching. "Closed" Behavior: Actions that suggest fear or a need to protect oneself, such as crossing arms or bringing fingers together, can be indicators. Increased Need for Control: As someone engages in deception, their need to control the situation and their presentation may increase. Difficulty with Reverse Chronology: When asked to recount events in reverse order, a person who has fabricated a story in forward chronology may struggle significantly compared to someone recalling actual events. Reactions to "Bait" Questions: Vague, hypothetical questions designed to see if a person shows a reaction even if they don't know if evidence exists (e.g., "Is there any reason someone might have seen you at a certain place?") can elicit a nervous response from someone being deceptive. Cluster of Unusual Mannerisms: While a single behavior is rarely a definitive sign of lying, observing a cluster of unusual mannerisms that deviate from the established baseline can be a warning sign. Chase Hughes emphasizes that there is no single, universal body language signal for lying. Instead, the focus is on identifying deviations from a person's normal behavior and looking for clusters of indicators, particularly those related to stress and attempts to gain control. Raising the stakes of the conversation can also make deceptive behaviors more apparent.     Luke 22:62 Peter denies Jesus and goes out and weeps bitterly.    Bitter: GK Violently felt grief that leaves the soul and spirit tasting bitter.      Peter felt shame denying Christ… but shame is only the RED CARPET leading to bitterness.      Lets clear something up.  THIS IS A POWERFUL INSIGHT Peter did not weep bitterly because of what Christ had said or done…  Why was Peter bitter?  HE WAS BITTER Because he did not respond correctly.  We want to blame our bitterness, unforgiveness, hard heartedness on what others did - but it is actually because OF WHAT WE DID NOT DO!        We typically become bitter not because of what someone did to us but rather because of how we responded and we know it was not Christ like.    Peter denied Christ and wept bitterly? Why bitterness? What did Peter do that made him bitter? *He did not represent Jesus AND He did not love the way Jesus would have loved… and he became bitter because of what he had done.  WE THINK AND SAY: I am so bitter because of what they did. BUT THE TRUTH IS MORE ACCURATE: I am so bitter because of WHAT I DID - Because of the way I responded.      **The right response heals not only us but the other person. Armando- wrapping my arms around him and telling him I loved him and want Gods best for him. He calls me later that night and falls apart.

Garth Heckman The David Alliance  TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com    Numbers 12 - someone gets offended. 12 Miriam and Aaron spoke against Moses because of the Cushite woman whom he had married, for he had married a Cushite woman; 2 and they said, “Has the Lord indeed spoken only through Moses? Has he not spoken through us also?” And the Lord heard it. 3 Now the man Moses was very meek, more than all men that were on the face of the earth. 4 And suddenly the Lord said to Moses and to Aaron and Miriam, “Come out, you three, to the tent of meeting.” And the three of them came out. 5 And the Lord came down in a pillar of cloud, and stood at the door of the tent, and called Aaron and Miriam; and they both came forward. 6 And he said, “Hear my words: If there is a prophet among you, I the Lord make myself known to him in a vision, I speak with him in a dream. 7 Not so with my servant Moses; he is entrusted with all my house. 8 With him I speak mouth to mouth, clearly, and not in dark speech; and he beholds the form of the Lord. Why then were you not afraid to speak against my servant Moses?” 9 And the anger of the Lord was kindled against them, and he departed; 10 and when the cloud removed from over the tent, behold, Miriam was leprous, as white as snow. And Aaron turned towards Miriam, and behold, she was leprous.   I want you to notice something here. Miriam is the culprit… she pushes Aarons buttons. “Has not God spoken through US also?”     -  Nope        -  and the offense is over another woman  WHO OR WHAT IS PUSHING YOU TO BE OFFENDED?  SUCH A GREAT LEADER MANIPULATED BY HIS WIFE! Who might be manipulating you?  What else do we see here?                          Jealousy and Envy: Miriam and Aaron's discontent arose from envy and a desire to usurp Moses's          -  leadership,    -  they questioned his authority  -  Him hearing God   -  His decisions    -  and challenged his position.    But none of that was the real issue… the real issue was Moses pick of a wife… but it was then the cause to every other attack by Aaron and Miriam. *This begins to stir up a seed of bitterness in them  **Don't be fooled by one of satans oldest tricks in the book Miriam got Aaron to speak up…. But who was really offended?     SO WHO GOT PUNISHED?  YOU MAY NOT HARBOR BITTERNESS - BUT IF YOU SPEAK IT ON BEHALF OF OTHERS…???   *When you speak words from God it has the same power as God speaking!     ** ** ** When you speak words from satan…. It is the same power as satan speaking. 

Garth Heckman The David Alliance  TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com  Five ways to tame a lion… you heard that right. Five ways to tame a lion… yep, I have been lion taming for quite sometime now and I am going to give you some insight over the next 7 minutes!    *When you wake up in the morning you are probably not thinking through the cautionary steps of dealing with 10,000 volts of electricity   -  being splattered with infectious blood   -  coming in contact with a huge anaconda   - Deactivating a bomb   - or worse yet, dealing with harboring bitterness.   All of those things can become dangerously habitual.    * Gunther Gabel Williams - BE THERE.    - YOU MEAN DON'T SHOW UP LATE FOR WORK??? DONT SKIP WORK?  After 10,000 performances you can tend to not be there in the cage with wild animals.    1 PETER 5:7Cast all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you. 8Be sober-minded and alert. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.…   When does a lion prowl looking for those whom he may devour? It's typically on Tuesday mornings, the reason is due to the weather patterns in the Svengali desert plains… you see the wind comes up form the south On Sunday and by Monday afternoon leading into the next day the lion… ARE YOU BELIEVING A WORD I SAY? Hey dumb dumb…lions are seeking whom they may devour EVERY DAY 24/7!    Every day the enemy prowls like a roaring lion seeking whom he may devour. IT IS YOUR JOB TO BE THERE! BE AWARE! EVERY DAY… EVERY DAY EVERY DAY       Key Verses: • Matthew 13:22 (BSB): "The seed sown among the thorns is the one who hears the word, but the worries of this life and the deceitfulness of wealth choke the word, and it becomes unfruitful." Here, μέριμνα is depicted as a force that can stifle spiritual growth. • Luke 21:34 (BSB): "But watch yourselves, or your hearts will be weighed down by dissipation, drunkenness, and the worries of life, and that day will spring upon you suddenly like a trap." This verse warns against being overwhelmed by life's anxieties, which can distract from spiritual vigilance. • 1 Peter 5:7 (BSB): "Cast all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you." This passage encourages believers to entrust their worries to God, emphasizing His care and provision. THERE ARE ACTION STEPS IN THE VERSES…  -1 BE WATCHFUL for the little things - seeds   - 2 Watch yourself. Its your responsibility to know what triggers you and to look for it.  -3 DO NOT BE OVERWHELMED KNOW THAT THEY ARE COMING.    - 4 AND CAST YOUR WORRIES ON GOD -     - 5 YOU GIVE THEM TO GOD BECAUSE YOU KNOW AND CAN TRUST THAT HE CARES FOR YOU. He wants to take your worries, troubles and anxieties.  • Theological Implications: The concept of μέριμνα underscores the biblical teaching that excessive worry can detract from faith and reliance on God. Believers are encouraged to seek first the kingdom of God and trust in His provision, rather than being consumed by temporal concerns. • Practical Application: Christians are called to live with a focus on eternal values, casting their cares upon God and finding peace in His sovereignty. This involves a conscious effort to prioritize spiritual growth over worldly anxieties.  

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com    If I could put time in a bottle Time is on my side Good times bad times you know Ive had my share     Late is late. 30 seconds is late 30 minutes, 5 minutes, 1 minute, 30 seconds is late. Better late than never… NOPE Late is Late. So what is early? It is respect, it is character it is integrity.    Time might be the greatest currency to spend in order to show someone just how much you care. Not money, not your talent, not your intelligence but simply hard time.    Matthew 26:36 Then Jesus came with them to a place called Gethsemane, and said to the disciples, “Sit here while I go and pray over there.” 37 And He took with Him Peter and the two sons of Zebedee, and He began to be sorrowful and deeply distressed. 38 Then He said to them, “My soul is exceedingly sorrowful, even to death. Stay here and watch with Me.” 39 He went a little farther and fell on His face, and prayed, saying, “O My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from Me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as You will.” 40 Then He came to the disciples and found them sleeping, and said to Peter, “What! Could you not watch with Me one hour? 41 Watch and pray, lest you enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.”   He didn't ask the disciples to stand and fight. He did not ask them to give him advice or to prepare for life without him at this moment. He simply asked them for prayer… but not just prayer, but an hour of prayer. The disciples are hand fed for 3 1/2 years insight and miracles and the miraculous and more… and in turn Christ asks for one hour… not one month, not one day but one hour. AND at the most crucial time of his life… or should we say just before his death.  Look if you really want to impress someone, your spouse, your kids, your pastor your boss your neighbors… Your parents… it does not matter - if you really want to impress them. Give them time! 

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com    What is one of the biggest perks to hearing Gods voice?  Your circle begins to trust you implicitly. Completely. You earn the right to do what others might think are crazy simply because your track record proves that you hear from God.    Christmas offering… 1st service and second service then home… Kim says: Who is it?      POINT ONE: if you want to step into leadership successfully in any form you better be able to hear from God. OR IF YOU ARE GOING TO FOLLOW SOMEONE… THEY BETTER HEAR FROM GOD.    You don't need to hear from God for the vision or mission (get to Canaan) you need to hear from God as to how.   Josh. 1;1-9 Josh. 3:7 - 4:1-8 - 5:2 - 6:2-5 - 7:10-15. - 8:12. -  10:8. - 13:4   POINT TWO: You better be battle tested. God recognized Joshua as a warrior before he was recognized as a leader.    Joshua was first mentioned in Exodus chapter 17 when he went to war against the Amalakites.     Godly warriors follow instructions. They fight to save lives. IMAGINE ONLY WANTING TO SAVE A FEW IN A WAR….    I know men who have fought in battle - real battle. Life and Death… but they are intimidated and fearful quite when it comes to sharing Christ.       Joshua was proven by battle before ever being appointed as a leader.    He was proven to have the spirit of God in him. Numbers 27:18-23

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com    When was the last time you were intimidated… you literally felt your heart shrink, your soul grow cold and you just felt embarrassed and humiliated because you just couldn't step up??? It is so hard to even confess such a thing… but it happens.          **You can tell a lot about a person simply by studying their intimidation quotient      Milgram Experiment (1963): Authority and Obedience: Administering electric shocks to people by the instructions given by an instructor.    Who intimidates you? When are you intimidated?   I KNOW MEN WHO WERE IN ACTUAL BATTLE. They had live fire, bombs men die at their feet… and while I thank them for their service… they fold like a wet blanket when given the opportunity to share Christ. Their intimidation quotient was actually pretty low when it came to actually being a Christ follower.    Joshua was not intimidated: he was one of the 12 says… what was that conversation like walking back to see Moses with the report…  As you read the conversation between Joshua, Caleb and Moses. 

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@gmail.com  Joshua born in slavery in Egypt. Raised as a slave under Moses reign and exodus.  He was Moses assistant/understudy  He was the spy that testified YES He and Calebs family was spared Gods wrath due to their belief and faith in God. They still wandered 40 years.  It was Joshua NOT Moses that led Israel into the promise land.    Moses was known for a few things… God reassured him of his mission God Parted the Red Sea God appeared to him as a heavenly messenger God had him remove his sandals at the burning bush in his presence.   GOD DID THE SAME WITH JOSHUA.    Joshua was also with Moses at Mount Sinai when Moses was receiving the 10 Commandments. Joshua was also at Moses side after he spoke to God face-to-face. God was obviously preparing Joshua for future leadership. Joshua was one of the 12 men sent as spies into Canaan.   Joshua followed in Moses footsteps first God appeared to Joshua after Moses died to reassure him of his mission and his promise. Secondly God part of the waters of the Jordan for Joshua as he part of the waters of the Red Sea for Moses  and third the Lord appeared to Joshua through a heavenly messenger. God instructed Joshua to remove his sandals, just as he had instructed Moses at the burning bush.

  Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com      Who is the greatest in NBA? NFL? NHL? MLB? And of course powerlifting?        ALI: He talks a great deal and brags indeed-y of a muscular punch that's incredibly speedy. The fistic world was dull and weary. With a champ like Liston, things had to be dreary.   ALI: Then someone with color - someone with dash - brought fight fans running with cash.   ALI: This brash, young boxer is something to see. And the heavyweight championship is his destiny. This kid fights great. He's got speed and endurance. But if you sign to fight him, increase your insurance.   ALI: This kid's got a left. This kid's got a right. If he hits you once, you're asleep for the night   ALI: And as you lie on the floor while the ref counts 10, you pray that you won't have to fight me again   ALI: For I am the man this poem is about, the next champ of the world, there isn't a doubt. If Cassius says a cow can lay an egg, don't ask how. Grease that skillet.   ALI: He is the greatest. When I say two, there's never a third. Betting against me is completely absurd. When Cassius says a mouse can outrun a horse, don't ask how. Put your money where your mouse is.   ALI: I am the greatest.   SIEGEL: Those were excerpts from Muhammad Ali's poem, "I Am The Greatest," recorded in 1963   Who Is the Greatest? Luke 9 46 Then a dispute arose among them as to which of them would be greatest. 47 And Jesus, perceiving the thought of their heart, took a little child and set him by Him, 48 and said to them, “Whoever receives this little child in My name receives Me; and whoever receives Me receives Him who sent Me. For he who is least among you all will be great.”     Why do my sins bother me so much? The closer I get to Jesus the more I see how much I need him. In the little things and in the big things. 

Garth Heckman TDAgiantslayer@Gmail.com  The David Alliance   The life and times of Remus Reid   Check the source Check the money trail Check the background Check the history Check the    Someone trying to manipulate you might display a range of traits aimed at gaining control or influencing your decisions and feelings. Here are some common ones: Emotional Tactics:  * Playing the Victim: They portray themselves as helpless or wronged to evoke your sympathy and make you feel obligated to help them.  * Guilt-Tripping: They make you feel responsible for their problems or emotions, leading you to do things you wouldn't normally do.  * Love Bombing: They overwhelm you with excessive attention, affection, and praise early on to create a strong emotional bond and make you more susceptible to their influence.  * Playing on Your Insecurities: They identify your weaknesses and use them against you to undermine your confidence and make you dependent on them.  * Emotional Blackmail: They threaten to harm themselves or others, or to withdraw affection if you don't comply with their demands.  * Gaslighting: They distort or deny your reality, making you doubt your memory, perception, and sanity.  * Using Charm and Flattery: They can be excessively nice and complimentary to disarm you and make you more agreeable.  * Creating Chaos and Drama: They thrive on instability and may create conflicts to distract you or make you rely on them to resolve the issues.  * Inconsistent Behavior: Their moods and actions can change unpredictably, keeping you off balance and making you try harder to please them. Communication Tactics:  * Lying and Deception: They may outright lie or omit information to control the narrative and achieve their goals.  * Exaggeration and Generalization: They might exaggerate their own achievements or misfortunes and use sweeping statements to influence your opinion.  * Blame Shifting: They avoid taking responsibility for their actions and instead blame others, including you.  * Changing the Subject: They abruptly switch topics to avoid uncomfortable conversations or deflect scrutiny.  * Vagueness and Indirect Communication: They may not clearly state their needs or intentions, making it easier to manipulate the situation later.  * Using Confusion: They might use complex language or illogical arguments to confuse you and make you doubt your understanding.  * Withholding Information: They strategically omit details to give you an incomplete picture and steer you in their desired direction. Behavioral Tactics:  * Boundary Violations: They disregard your personal boundaries and push your limits to see what they can get away with.  * Controlling Behavior: They try to control aspects of your life, such as your time, money, or relationships.  * Isolation: They may try to isolate you from your friends and family to increase your dependence on them.  * Triangulation: They involve a third party to manipulate the situation, often by creating jealousy or using the third person to relay messages.  * Pressuring You: They create a sense of urgency to make you act quickly without thinking.  * Ignoring or Dismissing Your Needs: They prioritize their own needs and disregard your feelings and desires.  * Playing the Martyr: They act as if they are making huge sacrifices for you to make you feel indebted to them. It's important to remember that these traits can appear individually or in combination. Recognizing these patterns is the first step in protecting yourself from manipulation. Trust your instincts if something feels "off" in a relationship.           What does the Bible say about deception… well it actually comes down to one simple - not so simple thing: Words! Your mouth gives away your heart… but they are tied to your actions… meaning if I use the words “I love you… sounds good, but my words might be true OR they might be manipulative. So words are only as powerful as the actions behind them.  Again… think on this: If I say one thing and it is true - it proves my heart and my words back it up. If I say one thing and it is not true according to my actions- then it is just as powerful in that it reveals my deception.      Focus on Deception and Falsehood:  * Speaking Lies and Deceit: The Bible frequently warns against lying and those who speak falsehoods. Manipulators often rely on deception to achieve their goals.    * "Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, but those who act faithfully are his delight." (Proverbs 12:22)    * "Whoever speaks the truth gives honest evidence, but a false witness speaks deceitfully." (Proverbs 12:17)  * Having a Double Heart: This refers to those who say one thing but mean another, or who act with ulterior motives.    * "They speak falsehood to one another; with flattering lips and a double heart they speak." (Psalm 12:2) Emphasis on Selfishness and Pride:  * Seeking Their Own Interests: Manipulators are often driven by their own selfish desires and disregard the needs of others.    * "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others." (Philippians 2:3-4) This verse highlights the contrast between selfless love and self-centeredness.  * Boasting and Arrogance: Manipulators may inflate their own importance and achievements to impress and control others.    * "The Lord detests all the proud of heart. Be sure of this: They will not go unpunished." (Proverbs 16:5) Warning Against Flattery and Smooth Talk:  * Using Flattering Words: Manipulators often use excessive praise and charm to disarm and influence their targets.    * "A man who flatters his neighbor spreads a net for his feet." (Proverbs 29:5)    * "For there is no truth in their mouth; their inmost self is destruction; their throat is an open grave; they flatter with their tongue." (Psalm 5:9) Importance of Discernment and Wisdom:  * Testing the Spirits: The Bible encourages believers to be discerning and not believe everything they hear.    * "Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world." (1 John 4:1) This principle can be applied to discerning the motives behind people's words and actions.  * Seeking Wisdom: Wisdom allows you to see beyond surface appearances and understand people's true intentions.    * "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him." (James 1:5) Focus on Actions and Fruits:  * Judging by Their Fruits: Jesus taught that we can recognize people by the results of their actions. Manipulative individuals often leave a trail of broken relationships, hurt feelings, and negative consequences.    * "You will recognize them by their fruits. Are grapes gathered from thornbushes, or figs from thistles? So also, every healthy tree bears good fruit, but the diseased tree bears bad fruit." (Matthew 7:16-17) The Contrast with Genuine Love and Humility:  * True Love is Selfless: Biblical love (agape) is characterized by selflessness, patience, kindness, and a focus on the well-being of others – the opposite of manipulation.    * "Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)  * Humility Values Others: Genuine humility leads to valuing others above oneself, which stands in stark contrast to the manipulator's self-centeredness. In summary, while the Bible doesn't provide a checklist of "manipulator traits," it equips us with principles to discern those who operate in deceit, selfishness, and pride. By focusing on truth, humility, genuine love, and the fruits of their actions, we can gain wisdom in recognizing and protecting ourselves from manipulative individuals.

Garth Heckman TDAgiantslayer@Gmail.com  The David Alliance   Jesus punishment is equal for all who have sinned UNLESS does not punish some people more than others… Lk. 20:47

The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@gmail.com Garth Heckman Jesus the Contronym    Here are some more examples of contronyms:      OFF - turned off, turned on. The light went off, the alarm went off.  Sanction: To approve or to punish. Fast: Moving quickly or fixed in place. Buckle: To fasten or to break. Clip: To attach or to cut. Consult: To seek advice or to provide it. Oversight: Supervision or a failure to notice. Apology: A statement of regret or a defense. Bound: Going to a destination or restrained. Left: Departed or remaining.     JESUS WAS A CONTRONYM    Jesus does not shame people Luke 13:16,17    UNLESS   Jesus would never be snarky and belligerent - UNLESS you question his authority MK. 11: 29 tell me whom Johns Baptism is from?      Jesus does not get angry UNLESS…  He gets mad at those in the temple and makes a whip and drives people out, turning tables… HE DOES IT TWICE!    Jesus would never punish some people more than others.  Jesus would never call you out in public UNLESS… Lk. 20:47   Jesus would only choose the best to be his disciples UNLESS… They stole, argued, lied, doubted, self righteous, pious, presumptuous    Jesus would never be hyper critical  of people, especially those in political and religious leadership. UNLESS Lk 11:37-46   Jesus would never condemn anyone… UNLESS you were leading people into hell. MT. 12:34 you snakes   Jesus rewards everyone equal. UNLESS…. Your works are burned up and you only get eternal life. 1 Cor. 3:12-13 UNLESS… you are persecuted more, live for God more openly and serve him more fully than others… MT. 5:11, 12 MT. 6:1-6   You will never enter and you will never enter the kingdom of God unless you are born again… But it also says in John 3 you will never see the kingdom of God unless you are born again.  The word Again in the greek is a beautiful word that means  Again? Who you were now marked by who you used to be.    AT BDubs - Kevin lost all that weight… his passed now marks his present.     Mk. 15:38 the veil was ripped from top to bottom. (Same word/ “again”) Complete and now new picture of who God is!  Jesus did some crazy stuff… and its hard to see and understand unless you are born again…  Jesus is from a different Kingdom… and they do stuff different there… and unless you are born again and can see the Kingdom and how it works you will forever be frustrated and confused. Seek to be born again… continual, never ending. 

Garth Heckman TDAgiantSlayer@gmail.com  The David Alliance   While it's impossible to definitively rank arguments against Christianity in a universally agreed-upon "top 10," here are some of the most common and significant criticisms raised against it, categorized for clarity:   I. Issues of Reason and Evidence:  * Lack of Empirical Evidence: Critics argue that many core tenets of Christianity, such as the existence of God, miracles, the resurrection of Jesus, and the efficacy of prayer, lack sufficient empirical or scientific evidence to support them. They contend that faith-based belief is not a reliable path to truth.    * Example: The claim that Jesus walked on water contradicts known laws of physics and lacks verifiable evidence.  * Internal Inconsistencies and Contradictions in the Bible: Skeptics point to numerous passages in the Bible that appear to contradict each other or present conflicting accounts of events, raising questions about its divine inspiration and reliability.    * Example: Different accounts of the same historical event in the Old Testament or variations in the Gospels' narratives of Jesus' life.  * Unfulfilled Prophecies: Some argue that specific prophecies within the Old Testament and New Testament have not come to pass, undermining the claim that the Bible is divinely inspired or accurately predicts the future.    * Example: Specific Old Testament prophecies regarding the Messiah that some argue were not fulfilled by Jesus.   II. Philosophical and Ethical Challenges:  * The Problem of Evil: The existence of suffering, injustice, and natural disasters in the world is a significant challenge to the concept of an omnipotent, omniscient, and omnibenevolent God. Critics question how such a God could allow widespread suffering.    * Example: The suffering of innocent children or the devastation caused by natural disasters.  * Divine Hiddenness: The apparent lack of clear and unambiguous evidence for God's existence leads some to argue that if God truly wanted humanity to believe, God would make their existence more obvious.  * Moral Issues in the Bible and Christian History: Critics point to instances of violence, genocide, oppression, and intolerance within the Old Testament and throughout Christian history as evidence of moral failings, questioning the claim that Christianity is a source of absolute morality.    * Example: The conquest of Canaan in the Old Testament or the historical persecution of heretics and non-believers.  * The Concept of Hell and Eternal Damnation: The idea that individuals who do not accept Jesus as their savior will face eternal torment is seen by some as unjust and incompatible with a loving and merciful God.   III. Social and Cultural Criticisms:  * Historical and Contemporary Social Issues: Christianity has been criticized for its historical role in issues such as the suppression of scientific inquiry, the justification of slavery, and the oppression of women. Contemporary criticisms often focus on issues like homophobia, transphobia, and resistance to social progress.  * Exclusivity and Intolerance: The Christian claim that salvation is exclusively through Jesus Christ is seen by some as arrogant and intolerant of other faiths and belief systems.  * Negative Impact on Individual Autonomy and Critical Thinking: Some argue that the emphasis on faith and obedience in Christianity can discourage critical thinking, independent inquiry, and the development of individual autonomy. It's important to note that these are just some of the arguments raised against Christianity, and each argument has been the subject of extensive debate and counter-arguments from theologians and apologists. Understanding these criticisms is crucial for a comprehensive understanding of different perspectives on Christianity.

Garth Heckman TDAgiantSlayer@gmail.com  The David Alliance   Demon possessed or demonized?  If you are a non Christian you can be demon possessed. If you are a Christian you can be demonized… both are dangerous and horrible to be under.  But for today lets talk about being a Christian who is demonized? What does that mean? You have demonic spirits attached to your mindset, habits, personality, thoughts and even your body. They can manifest in addictions, sickness, pet sins, demonic dreams… and that is just touching the surface.    We have a deliverance ministry here at our church and what I have seen and now understand makes me completely convinced that every Christian should go through a deliverance process… connect with me if you want more information.     * Unconfessed and Unrepented Sin: Many Christian traditions teach that sin creates a barrier between God and humanity. Persistent, unconfessed, and unrepented sin can be seen as providing an "opening" or foothold for negative spiritual influences. This isn't necessarily seen as demonic possession in all cases, but rather as creating vulnerability to temptation, oppression, or spiritual attacks. Examples might include ongoing patterns of lying, stealing, bitterness, unforgiveness, or sexual immorality.    * Involvement in Occult Practices: Practices explicitly condemned in the Bible, such as divination, witchcraft, seeking guidance from mediums, astrology, and other forms of occult engagement, are often seen as directly inviting demonic influence. But did you know music, movies, video, porn are all a part of this occult practice. The rationale is that these practices bypass God and seek power, fulfillment or knowledge from sources considered to be opposed to Him.    * Holding onto Strongholds of Negative Beliefs and Emotions: Deep-seated patterns of negative thinking, such as persistent bitterness, resentment, fear, or unbelief, can create "strongholds" in the mind. Some interpretations suggest that these strongholds can become entry points for negative spiritual influences that align with those destructive thought patterns and emotions.   Look we can get sick physically - yes Jesus bore stripes on his back for our healing, but we still live in a fallen sin filled world with sickness, disease, germs etc… and it can make us sick. In the same way we live in a world where we can pick up strongholds that make us sick…. Bitterness is a big one but not the only one. You hang on to this and it will invite demonic strongholds into your life.     * Exposure to Demonic Influence Through Others or Environments:  You gotta be prayed up when you go to a secular concert, go to an environment where there is a heavy LGBTQ presence, or to a cultic religion center… now if it is your practice to be around such people and places on a regular basis check to see if this is Gods will.  **You may say well God hung with sinners…yes he did, with 12 other believers. There is strength in numbers.       * Spiritual Neglect and Lack of Spiritual Armor: A lack of consistent engagement in spiritual disciplines such as prayer, Bible study, fellowship with other believers, and living according to Christian principles is sometimes seen as weakening one's spiritual defenses. This neglect can leave a person more susceptible to temptation and negative spiritual influences, not necessarily as a direct invitation but as a lack of protection… but over time it can manifest in demonization.    Now listen I know people will think that I have the opinion that I blame everything on demons… no, not quite… but more than ever I see the demonic playing out itself in people who claim to be followers of Christ. And as someone who has been a follower of Christ for more than 50 years and still have demonic influences in my life… im telling you you need to be careful and also you need to check out some spiritual deliverance ministries. 

Garth Heckman TDAgiantSlayer@gmail.com  The David Alliance   The Journey Away: Understanding Why Individuals Leave the Christian Faith Understanding the Journey Away from Faith Faith deconstruction, within the context of Christianity, refers to a process where individuals critically examine and potentially reject the religious beliefs they once held as true…. I don't believe it is a critically examined decision. I think 100% of the time it is emotional.  Remember what Fatigue makes cowards out of all of us. Vince Lombardi… I feel it is the same way when we walk away. We become fatigued in our walk. We let the struggles of life beat us up and drain us. We want a quick fix, we want a “feel good moment”, we have dissapointments… but they are all based on our feelings.    Seeds of Doubt and Disillusionment start out as feelings from things that did not go our way.  One significant factor involves negative experiences with the church itself.  The role of parental influence and the strength of religious reinforcement during childhood also play a critical part in the development and retention of faith.  If Mom and Dad do not have an active vibrant and powerful walk with God… you are more prone to walk away or at least never dive in deep.    Moreover, higher education and exposure to diverse perspectives can introduce substantial challenges to established religious beliefs. The experience of being challenged with new ideas and concepts that contradict religious teachings, often encountered in college or university settings, is a significant factor in the rejection of religious beliefs.  deconversion process.  The Weight of Experience: How Personal Struggles Can Erode Faith Personal experiences, especially those involving suffering and disappointment, can significantly erode an individual's faith. Trauma, loss, and the perception of unanswered prayers often prompt individuals to question their relationship with God and the tenets of their Christian belief.  Similarly, the experience of perceived unanswered prayers can lead to feelings of doubt and abandonment, or question the efficacy of prayer itself and the nature of God's involvement in the world.  Intellectual Challenges to Christian Beliefs Intellectual challenges pose a significant hurdle for some individuals in maintaining their Christian faith.  Conflicts between religious dogma and scientific understanding, particularly concerning the origins of the universe and life (e.g., evolution versus creationism, the age of the earth) , also contribute to a shift away from faith.  Furthermore, the intellectual struggle with the problem of evil –  The Social Landscape: Influence of Community and Culture on Faith Social and cultural factors wield considerable influence on an individual's faith journey and can significantly contribute to the decision to walk away from Christianity. Interactions with people holding different beliefs can challenge the exclusivity claims often made by Christianity.  Emotional and Psychological Aspects of Faith Deconstruction The process of faith deconstruction is often accompanied by a complex array of emotional and psychological experiences.Feelings of guilt may arise from questioning or doubting long-held beliefs, often deeply ingrained by religious teachings that emphasize unwavering faith. This internalized pressure can lead to significant anxiety and the fear of divine punishment or social ostracism.     Phases of Transition: Understanding the Stages of Moving Away from Faith Individuals moving away from their Christian faith often go through a series of stages or phases. The process typically begins with initial questioning and doubt, often triggered by specific events, intellectual challenges, or personal struggles.This initial phase can be marked by cognitive dissonance and a struggle to reconcile emerging uncertainties with existing beliefs.    Following this, individuals may enter a stage of exploration, actively seeking out alternative perspectives and critically evaluating religious doctrines. This involves intellectual engagement with viewpoints that differ from their religious upbringing and a willingness to examine the foundational tenets of Christian belief.    Some would say that the process of walking away from God is a multi faceted process with many limbs and tentacles and can happen in many many ways… I think it is more simplistic than that…. I believe it truly comes down to The Impact of Isolation from other believers.  We see people all the time who become separated and secluded from others and that is the first step to walking from their faith.  I don't just mean alone, but alone with the wrong people. Isolation causes inflammation of ones of ones information. Meaning when we see only one side of life, problems, religions, and we isolate ourselves form solid Christian relationships - these things become inflamed and infected in our psyche and soul and spirit. Slowly killing us.  Why is scripture so strategic in continuing to meet as believers and that we are a body… because God in his infinite wisdom knows that isolation kills us.  Stay plugged in, stay in church, stay in your bible study, stay in your Xn friends lives. 

The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@gmail.com  Garth Heckman Five Ways the Bible Talks About Being a High Performer 1. Introduction: Defining "High Performance" Biblically The concept of "high performance" in contemporary society often centers on exceptional achievements, maximizing productivity, and gaining recognition within one's field. To understand how the Bible addresses this concept, it is necessary to consider its unique perspective, which frequently prioritizes underlying motivations, foundational principles, and a measure of success rooted in a divine worldview. The biblical perspective on high performance is likely more comprehensive than a purely outcome-driven secular viewpoint. It appears to integrate aspects of moral character and spiritual development alongside tangible achievements. The user's query and the related research areas touch upon ethical and spiritual dimensions such as integrity, worship, and service, in addition to practical considerations like diligence and skill. This suggests that the Bible presents a multifaceted understanding of what it means to perform at a high level. Furthermore, grasping the biblical concept of high performance necessitates an examination of not only the nature of the work itself but also the underlying reasons for undertaking it and the manner in which it is executed. The inclusion of "worship or service to God" and "stewardship" in the research areas directly indicates the significance of motivation and the quality of performance within the Bible's framework of achievement. 2. Diligence and Wholehearted Effort: The Foundation of Biblical Achievement A recurring theme throughout the Bible is the significance of diligence, hard work, and the avoidance of laziness in all endeavors. This emphasis is particularly evident in the wisdom literature of the Old Testament, such as the book of Proverbs, and is consistently reinforced in the teachings and exhortations found in the New Testament epistles. Proverbs offers practical insights into various facets of life, including the intrinsic value of hard work in attaining prosperity and preventing destitution. Verses like, "A slack hand causes poverty, but the hand of the diligent makes rich" (Proverbs 10:4) and "The soul of the sluggard craves and gets nothing, while the soul of the diligent is richly supplied" (Proverbs 13:4) provide a stark contrast between the outcomes of a diligent and a slothful approach to life. The well-known analogy of the ant in Proverbs 6:6-11 serves as a compelling illustration of the wisdom inherent in proactive and persistent labor, highlighting the importance of preparing for the future without needing constant supervision. Even James says faith without works is dead… works is a central theme. And works as in hard work or diligent work is a solid theme in scripture. A central passage in this regard is Colossians 3:23-24 , which urges believers to "work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men," thereby transforming even the most ordinary tasks into acts of worship. Similarly, 1 Thessalonians 4:11-12 encourages followers of Christ to lead quiet lives, attend to their responsibilities, and engage in manual labor to achieve self-sufficiency and earn the respect of those outside the faith. The principle articulated in 2 Thessalonians 3:10-12 , stating that "If anyone is not willing to work, let him not eat," underscores the fundamental necessity of work for one's provision. Furthermore, Ephesians 4:28 advocates for honest labor as a means not only of self-support but also of enabling generosity towards those in need. Ecclesiastes 9:10 advises individuals to pursue their tasks with utmost vigor, recognizing the cessation of earthly activities in the afterlife. The very example of God, who worked in creation (Genesis 2:15 ) and continues to work (John 5:17 ), sets a divine precedent for the importance of labor.    Diligence honors God.    3. Wisdom, Skill, and Continuous Learning: Cultivating God-Given Talents The Bible underscores the significance of wisdom, skill, and the ongoing acquisition of knowledge as they relate to one's vocation or calling. The book of Proverbs, in particular, frequently extols the virtues of wisdom and understanding.Proverbs 2:6 explicitly states that "the LORD gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding," establishing God as the ultimate source of these invaluable qualities. Furthermore, Proverbs 4:7 advises, "The beginning of wisdom is this: Get wisdom. Though it cost all you have, get understanding," highlighting the necessity of actively pursuing these attributes. Proverbs 22:29 recognizes the inherent value of skill ("skillful in his work") and its potential to elevate individuals to positions of influence.      Skills and talents, as demonstrated in the Bible, are frequently presented as divine gifts, intended to be acknowledged and utilized for God's purposes.  4. Integrity and Excellence as Worship: Reflecting God's Character in Work The Bible places immense importance on integrity, honesty, and ethical behavior in all facets of life, including one's professional endeavors. Proverbs 11:3 affirms that "The integrity of the upright guides them," underscoring the directive nature of moral uprightness. Proverbs 28:6 further emphasizes this by stating, "Better the poor whose walk is blameless than the rich whose ways are perverse," thus valuing integrity above material wealth.  When work is performed with unwavering integrity and to the absolute best of one's abilities, it transcends mere task completion and can be rightly viewed as an act of worship and dedicated service to God. 1 Corinthians 10:31 provides the overarching directive: "So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God." This principle inherently extends to all forms of labor and professional conduct.    5. Service and Contribution: Measuring Performance Through Love for Others A central tenet of biblical teaching is the profound importance of serving others as a tangible demonstration of love and a fundamental aspect of following the example set by Jesus himself. Matthew 23:11 clearly states, "The greatest among you will be your servant," directly inverting the world's typical understanding of power and hierarchical status. Mark 10:45 articulates Jesus' core mission: "For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many."  6. Faithfulness and Perseverance: The Enduring Qualities of a High Performer The Apostle Paul, in 2 Timothy 4:7 , reflects on his own life, stating that he had "fought the good fight," "finished the race," and "kept the faith," thereby emphasizing the paramount importance of enduring to the very end of one's calling. Hebrews 12:1-2 further exhorts believers to run the metaphorical race of faith with unwavering endurance, maintaining a steadfast focus on Jesus Christ. The Bible itself presents God's own faithfulness as the ultimate and unwavering example for believers to emulate, and as the very source of strength that enables them to persevere.    7. Conclusion: Integrating Biblical Principles for a Life of High Performance In synthesizing the various ways the Bible addresses the concept of high performance, five key interconnected principles emerge: diligence and wholehearted effort, the cultivation of wisdom and skill, the pursuit of integrity and excellence as acts of worship, a commitment to serving others, and the enduring qualities of faithfulness and perseverance. Ultimately, biblical high performance is not about accumulating wealth or gaining worldly recognition but about living a life that is deeply pleasing to God, pleasing to his church and has a lasting, positive impact on His kingdom for eternity. Are you a high performer? Simply ask yourself daily: am I living a life that is pleasing God, pleasing his church and has an eternal impact. If yes… then you are in fact a high performer! 

THE DAVID ALLIANCE TDAgiantslayer@Gmail.com  Garth Heckman Ever shoot a roll of film and not have film in the camera… I know this world in 2025 probably most of you have no idea what that was like, but it happened a few times to me….   I sent some boys out in a car to take pictures of street names that would tell a story… 30 plus miles all over the city of Madison… it took them a good 4 hours… they came back and had no film in the camera… BUMMER.    Its not the subject, or the film or even the skill level that makes a great shot…    If you take a camera and smudge the lens If you keep the cap on it If you choose not to focus it If you shoot it in the dark without light If you take pictures of just one color or one object up close… Upon his retirement as CEO of the Coca-cola Company Donald R. Keough spoke to the graduating class of Emory (1993). To those young men and women who would soon be facing a very tough and critical world, he said, "I have an architect friend who says, 'I can take the newest building, built by the finest builders anywhere in the world, and if you give me a camera and the ability to focus various lenses, I can make that building look like it's about to fall down because I will find five or six minor imperfections, focus on them and convince you that the entire structure is about to topple.'"   The point is clear… whatever you focus on is what you will see and what you will find.  Now in photography focus has two thoughts. One the camera itself needs to be in focus, but also the subject matter that you choose to focus on to take a picture of is critical.    Phil. 4:7-9 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. 8 Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. 9 Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.   Isn't it interesting that twice in this passage it says if you want to have peace in your life, it all depends on what you focus on. Focus on what is true… well thats hard in todays world… Are cold plunge baths good or bad… Are eggs good or bad Is Carnivore good or bad… But beyond this… focus on what is true according to scripture, focus on what is lovely, admirable excellent praiseworthy… THINK on these things and you will have Gods peace.    What you focus on is what you will focus on… and it will either bring unrest or peace. 

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAGiantSlayer@gmail.com  How many questions do children ask a day, some say over 1200 questions a day… They learn best by play. They have a natural tendency to laugh. They can grow rapidly… literally an inch over night. They can learn multiple languages 10 times faster than adults. Every kid feels like they are an artist and creative….  How honest are kids? Brutally honest. Based on key passages in the Bible, particularly the teachings of Jesus and Paul, here are three ways believers are encouraged to be like children: In Humility: Jesus explicitly links becoming like a child to humility and greatness in God's kingdom. Children in that culture had very low social status and were dependent, not seeking power or position. Scripture: Matthew 18:3-4 (NIV): "And he said: 'Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever takes the lowly position of this child 1 [or humbles themselves like this child] is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.'"   1. www.worldvision.org www.worldvision.org Meaning: Believers should abandon pride, self-importance, and the quest for status, instead adopting a humble dependence on God, recognizing their need for Him just as a child depends on a parent. In Trust and Receptivity: Jesus taught that the Kingdom of God must be received with the simple, trusting faith of a child. Children often trust readily and accept gifts freely without feeling they need to earn them or fully understand them. Scripture: Mark 10:15 (NIV): "Truly I tell you, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it." (Parallel in Luke 18:17) Meaning: Believers should approach God and His offer of salvation with simple, open-hearted trust, accepting His grace as a gift without relying on their own merits or overly complex reasoning. It implies a dependence on God's goodness and provision. In Innocence Regarding Evil: The Apostle Paul distinguishes between mature thinking and child-like innocence concerning malice and evil intentions. While believers should be mature in understanding, they should retain a child's lack of guile and ill will. Scripture: 1 Corinthians 14:20 (NIV): "Brothers and sisters, stop thinking like children. In regard to malice be infants, but in your thinking be adults." Meaning: Believers should strive to be innocent of plotting evil, holding grudges, or engaging in malicious behavior, much like an infant who is incapable of such things. It calls for purity of heart and intention.

  Garth Heckman  The David Alliance TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com     My media channels all go to Garth Heckman    Who can you trust more than anyone? I have to say I can trust my Father and Mother more than anyone else in the world… more than my wife, kids, best friend… why? They have the longest track record with me… They have impeccable trust with me for almost 59 years and 10 months.. by the way, thats how old I am.      Who can you trust more than anyone else in the world… some might say themselves… but thats not true because if you say you believe in Christ… and you don't always follow him, then you can't trust yourself… but what happens when you don't live a life of trust and integrity? ITS A FALL OUT!    Gen. 27  15 Then she took Esau's favorite clothes, which were there in the house, and gave them to her younger son, Jacob. 16 She covered his arms and the smooth part of his neck with the skin of the young goats. 17 Then she gave Jacob the delicious meal, including freshly baked bread.   We see right now every person in this story right now is revealed as a deception… none of them trusted one another and worse they did not trust God!    The Gucci's - The Joneses, The Smiths,    *If you don't trust God to lead your family you are telling them not to trust you as the Father or Mother.     Remember the quote I use all the time when I was racing my kids. If you tell the truth all the time I will trust you all the time… If you tell me the truth just some of the time I can only trust you….. NEVER.   Hey whoever you are out there. If your inner circle wether its your wife, husband, kids, co-workers or just your close friends… if they see you truly trying to hear God and trust him and do his will they will immense trust in you and immense respect for you.- even if you fail a few times at hearing his voice.   Isaac does not trust God… and it rubs off on his wife. Now Rebekah does not trust God… and it rubs off on her boys… so now Esau and Jacob don't trust God… but what is worse is becasue of that - none of them trust God. What a terrible family to live in… a family where no one trusts each other or God. 

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Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantslayer@Gmail.com 

  The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@gmail.com  Garth Heckman There is no chance, favor, haphazardness, specialness, calling, blessing, or deserving of a Godly life. What do I mean. When you look at someone who is Godly, has a solid marriage, financially secure, Godly kids and grandkids, They have Godly character, integrity and values… they ooze the presence of the Holy Spirit… no matter what hits them they just handle it like a boss, like an unmovable mountain of faith… they stay focused and locked in no matter what.. This doesn't just happen… you don't earn it, you are not born with it, you are not favored any more than anyone else.    So how does one become a great guitar player… wait what?  Or how about a great investor? Or how does one become a great writer? How does one become a master carpenter? You have a simple formula…   Time, training, Test… TIME  You have to spend time in that field… You don't just become a great artist because you choose to do it and that day… boom its you. Or guitar player or writer, or investor or MAN OF GOD. You have to put in the time. What does "10,000-hour rule," popularized by Malcolm Gladwell in his book Outliers, suggests that 10,000 hours of practice are needed to achieve mastery in any field.   Training is fundamental. If you spend 10,000 hours learning under bad training or teaching it don't matter… you will still not achieve your best. I want to become a great preacher, speaker, communicator. So I write pages every week. I study great speakers and orators. I study great comedians and their delivery. I study the etymology behind my words. I train, I study, I work. I grade my talks, sermons, speeches etc… I hope I am harder on me than anyone else. And I ask others to rate my level of training.   Finally I know you have to be tested. Now here is the kicker.. you have to find ways to test yourself. You have to put yourself in areas where you are pushed. If you are a writer, you hadn't in your material to publishers, you have people read it, you have other authors critique it. If you are an investor you put your own money in the market after your time and training. If you are an artist you see what your work will sell for? There are always opportunities to test your abilities.    So back to becoming a man of God…  Time, training and testing…  How much time are you in the word of God, at church involved in ministries, in prayer, in small groups, in accountability groups.   How much training teaching and learning are you doing. Is it quality training and teaching. Is it from a qualified instructor, pastor, teacher. Are you going to a church that challenges you to learn and not just tickle your ears. Sometimes we don't put ourselves around those who will push us, expect more from us.   And finally test. Test your faith by sharing your faith. Sharing your opinions from a biblical perspective. Evangelism, prayer for the lost in the open market, on the street etc… Making the right decision when its tough, confessing your sins when its uncomfortable, being the head of the household and a godly husband, tithing and even giving above and beyond when you don't feel like you have it. 

Garth Heckman TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com The David Alliance      What are the marks of a man in history?      Across the globe, various cultures have developed unique and often intense rituals to mark a young male's transition into manhood. These rites of passage serve to test physical and mental fortitude, impart cultural knowledge, and solidify the individual's place within the community. Here are a few examples: Amazonian Tribes (e.g., Sateré-Mawé): A particularly grueling ritual involves the "bullet ant glove." Young men must wear gloves filled with hundreds of highly venomous bullet ants, enduring excruciating pain to demonstrate their strength and resilience. Ethiopian Tribes (e.g., Hamar): The "bull-jumping" ceremony requires young men to leap across the backs of several cattle, proving their agility and courage. Pacific Islands (e.g., Vanuatu): "Land diving" involves young men jumping from tall wooden towers with vines tied to their ankles, a dangerous feat that tests their bravery. Australian Aboriginal Cultures: "Walkabout" is a traditional journey where young men venture into the wilderness for extended periods, learning survival skills and cultural knowledge. Various African Cultures: Circumcision rituals are common, symbolizing the transition from boyhood to manhood. There are also many cultures that have rituals that include periods of isolation, where the young men are taught the traditional laws, and history of their people. Jewish Culture: The Bar Mitzvah, at age 13, marks a young man's religious coming-of-age, signifying his responsibility to observe Jewish law. These rituals often involve: Physical endurance: Tests of strength, pain tolerance, and survival skills. Spiritual or ceremonial elements: Rituals that connect the individual to their cultural heritage and beliefs. Community recognition: Public ceremonies that acknowledge the young man's new status within the group. Instruction and knowledge transfer: Older men imparting essential skills and cultural wisdom to the initiates. It's important to approach these cultural practices with respect and understanding, recognizing their significance within their respective communities.   What are my three marks of a man in todays world? Here are the three I think are relevant for your society.   Save your virginity until marriage   Serve others as a lifestyle    Evangelize the lost - tell others about Jesus   Why these three? They do three things…    Evangelism: It challenges you to learn. You must learn scripture, learn how to read people. Learn how to share the gospel with differing people, belief systems and environments. Learn how to answer questions that have a biblical backing, loving in nature and make God look good. And how to hear the voice of the Holy Spirit.    Servanthood. It challenges you to live outside your world and the worlds view (its all about me - its all about what my eyes want, my soul wants, my appetites want, what my pride wants… servanthood crushes that) One should monthly - and honestly more than once a month… but you should be serving in a capacity where you help others less fortunate than you. There are dozens of areas… food pantry, boys club, Prison ministry, Tutor kids, babysit for single parents,  visit a nursing home, Go hand out sandwiches to the homeless, help your church in some serving role, houses for humanity, work at a pet shelter… And part of serving is giving your money and not just your time.      They challenge you to learn discipline and reliance on the Holy Spirit to tame your most powerful, lustful and fleshly desires. If you can't tame your sex drive you will never fully be able to serve God with all your heart. It is the proving ground of truly wanting to be a man of God - more than evangelism and servanthood. If a girl/woman wants to marry a Christian man and he cannot handle is sex drive than he is simply confessing through his actions that his fleshly desires are more important than God and his word.

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantslayer@Gmail.com 

  Navigating friendships can be complex, and sometimes, it becomes clear that a particular friendship isn't sustainable. Here are five warning signs that a friendship might not work out: Consistent One-Sidedness: If you consistently feel like you're the one putting in all the effort—initiating contact, planning activities, or providing emotional support—it's a red flag. Healthy friendships involve reciprocity. Lack of Mutual Respect: Disrespect can manifest in various ways, such as belittling your opinions, dismissing your feelings, or disregarding your boundaries. If you feel consistently undervalued or disrespected, the friendship is likely to be damaging. Frequent Drama or Toxicity: While occasional disagreements are normal, constant drama, negativity, or toxic behavior can drain your energy and well-being. If the friendship consistently creates more stress than joy, it's a significant warning sign. Erosion of Trust: Trust is fundamental to any strong friendship. If your trust has been repeatedly broken through lies, betrayals, or breaches of confidence, it's difficult to maintain a healthy connection. Feeling Worse After Interactions: Ideally, spending time with friends should leave you feeling uplifted or supported. If you consistently feel drained, anxious, or negative after interacting with this person, it's a sign that the friendship is having a detrimental impact on your emotional health.   My three closest Best friends… and I believe you can really only have 1 best friend… but that is debatable- however I don't think you can have more than three from what I see in scripture… anywhoooo   Here are three common denominators in these relationships We don't have to talk all the time… we may go weeks, but we can easily pick up from where we left off. The trust and the friendship is long and trusted so much so that nobody ever panics… did I do something wrong… he hasn't texted or talked to me in weeks…. However we rarely go weeks without communicating.  2nd We are brutally honest… and it does not affect our friendships whatsoever - in the least.     Bike trip… what you said was right, how you said it made you look like a butthole…    3rd and I truly believe this is a huge one. We all have the same sense of humor… yes ours is twisted, and would probably offend some…maybe quite a few, but that is a bond that is unbreakable… and it gets us through the tough times with each other. When I am ready to punch babies in the face they will crack me up many times at my own expense and I love it. It keeps me grounded. If you saw our texts you would think we were in Junior high… 

Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com    19) A. The Three Visitors: Three men appear to Abraham near the oaks of Mamre. They announce that Sarah will have a son. Sarah laughs at the announcement. NOT MUCH IS SAID OF SARAHS FAITH… SHE ACTUALLY HAS NO FAITH OF HER OWN!    B. Isaac's Birth: Sarah conceives and bears Isaac. Abraham is 100 years old.   She is a woman full of doubt… BUT GOD HONORS HIS WORD   SARAH She is a woman full of doubt.     GOD CAN MOVE ANYWAY!  Faith feeds the invisible (so does fear) Hebrews 11:11 By faith even Sarah herself received ability to conceive, even beyond the proper time of life, since she considered Him faithful who had promised.   v. 11 A dative of accompaniment  She received faith… i.e. by faith of Abraham she received the gift of a son. It was not Sarahs faith it was Abrahams faith that got her pregnant.  You don't have to believe… I will believe for you!  YOUR SPOUSE DOES NOT HAVE TO BELIEVE YOUR PARENTS,  YOUR KIDS,  YOUR PASTOR YOUR BOSS   -  IT DOES NOT MATTER IF YOU BELIEVE! 

Garth Heckman The David Alliance  TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com  Abe is the father of our faith Galatians 3:6 In the same way, “Abraham believed God, and God counted him as righteous because of his faith.” 7 The real children of Abraham, then, are those who put their faith in God. 8 What's more, the Scriptures looked forward to this time when God would make the Gentiles right in his sight because of their faith. God proclaimed this good news to Abraham long ago when he said, “All nations will be blessed through you.” 9 So all who put their faith in Christ share the same blessing Abraham received because of his faith.     Detailed outline of Abraham's life as described in the Bible, primarily in the Book of Genesis: I. Early Life and Call (Genesis 11:26-12:9) C. The Divine Call: God commands Abram to leave his country, His family, and father's house.   *God must have shown up in a major way for Abraham to just leave.  He was the father of our Faith. He practiced great faith with no history or foundation in who God was.   7 promises give to Abraham by God  -1 I will make your descendants/nation a great nation AND HE PROMISES HIM TO BE A GREAT NATION… NATIONS ARE DEFINED BY A PEOPLE WHO SHARE A HISTORY, HAVE TERRITORIAL BOUNDARIES, and led by one government.     -2 I will bless you  -3 I will make your name great  -4 I will make you a blessing to others  -5 I will bless those that bless you  -6 I will curse those who curse you  -7 Through you people from every nation on the earth will be blessed.      Abrahams father died in Haran…. And now… D. Journey to Canaan: Abram, Sarai, and Lot depart from Haran. Abram is 75 years old. They travel to Shechem in Canaan. God appears to Abram, promising the land to his offspring. Abram builds an altar to the Lord. Abram moves to Bethel and then continues to the Negev. II. Sojourn in Egypt and Return (Genesis 12:10-13:18)