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Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com Have you ever trusted someone, only to have that person turn in to someone you don't trust to someone you actually hate… so much so you even call them wicked… even wishing them to go to hell? Thats where were going today. Matthew 25:24 “Then the servant with the one bag of silver came and said, ‘Master, I knew you were a harsh man, harvesting crops you didn't plant and gathering crops you didn't cultivate. 25 I was afraid I would lose your money, so I hid it in the earth. Look, here is your money back.' 26 “But the master replied, ‘You wicked and lazy servant! If you knew I harvested crops I didn't plant and gathered crops I didn't cultivate, 27 why didn't you deposit my money in the bank? At least I could have gotten some interest on it.' GK: Sklay Ros A Harsh man… A stubborn man who expects above and beyond without apology! It can even be emphasized to mean “violently expects things to happen”. But lets take a step back and look at this master… why was he so mad? Just because the servant didn't invest? I think it goes deeper than that. The Master gave the talents according to each servants ability. V. 15 He gave five bags of silver to one, two bags of silver to another, and one bag of silver to the last—dividing it in proportion to their abilities. He then left on his trip. He would not have given this wicked servant talents if he had not known that he could yield a return. He is mad not just because he did nothing, he is mad because he (the servant) in doing nothing is calling the master a liar. The master believed in him… enough to give him not just talents… but the Master gave him HIS TALENTS. Can this thought shake you for a second.. the talents you have are not your talents. They have been given to you by God - they are actually his talents. Now here is where I think it gets interesting.. he says to the servant “you could have at least put them in the bank”. What does this mean to us in todays world. God is saying… yes you could have used them with my gifting entwined with your work and the talents I gave you… but even if you didn't use those talents for me, you could have at least used them in the worlds system… but you didn't even do that. You didn't use them for God, you didn't use them for the world… YOU DID NOTHING! IT WASN'T JUST A SWING AND A MISS… NO IT WAS YOU NOT EVEN SWINGING AT ALL. That is a wicked servant. But it also tells me that God talents that he gave us are just as powerful in the world as in the church. Lets not waste them. GOD BELIEVES IN YOU. DO YOU BELIVE IN YOU? TRY HIM OUT FOR SIZE AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS.
Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com Ever have a moment when you don't see it and then you see it? The classic picture of an old women or a young beautiful woman depending on what you see? Here's a more detailed look at the reasons: 1. Lack of Historical Evidence: Missing Persian References: . Some scholars questioned the book's historical accuracy, pointing to the lack of mention of the characters and events described in Esther within Persian historical records. Not Found at Qumran: . The Dead Sea Scrolls, a collection of Jewish texts dating back to the period when the Book of Esther was thought to have been written, did not include the Book of Esther, further fueling skepticism about its authenticity. 2. Theological Concerns: Absence of God's Name: . The most significant theological issue was the complete absence of God's name in the Book of Esther. This was seen as unusual compared to other books in the Old Testament. Interpretations of Divine Providence: . While some argued that the book implicitly suggests divine providence through the actions of the characters, others felt the lack of explicit mention of God undermined its theological purpose. 3. Jewish Canon Formation: Delayed Inclusion: The Book of Esther was not included in the earliest forms of the Jewish canon, and it was debated whether it should even be included at all. Nationalistic Pride: Some suggest that the book's inclusion in the Jewish canon was influenced by a desire to celebrate the Jewish people's triumph over Haman and to provide a sense of national identity. 4. Christian Canon Formation: Deuterocanonical Status: The Book of Esther was not universally accepted by Christians from the beginning. Some Christians, like Jerome, considered it canonical, while others, like Athanasius, classified it with the Apocrypha, a collection of books considered useful but not part of the official canon. Influence of Jewish Canon: Ultimately, Christians largely adopted the Jewish canon, which included the Book of Esther, leading to its inclusion in Christian Bibles as well. 5. Additions to the Septuagint: Greek Version: An alternate version of the Book of Esther in Greek, which included references to God and additional passages, was also debated. The Eastern Orthodox Church uses the Septuagint version of Esther, while the Roman Catholic Church preserves the Greek additions as "Additions to Esther" God is not mentioned in Esther ANYWHERE… SO WHERE IS HE? HE IS EVERYWHERE! - Queen Vashti won't give it up From Vashti's defiance to Mordecai's sleepless night, seemingly random occurrences contribute to the ultimate deliverance of the Jews. - Esthers beauty over 25 million women - Jew chosen to be queen - Mordecai hears about a plot - King can't sleep and they read Mordecai's story - Haman used like a puppet in Gods hand - 2 parties to set up Haman's demise - Haman's advance on queen Esther - The Pole set up for Mordecai used for Haman - The Jews enemies are identified and then killed due to the timing and they get the take of those they kill
Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com Years and years of bodybuilding and now look at you? What happened… more importantly how fast did it happen? No matter how healthy you are… and BTW Bodybuilders are some of the most unhealthy people in the world. What they eat in nutrition is destroyed by the amount of drugs they put in their system…. Don't get me wrong, you can do steroids and other enhancers and still maintain a safe healthy physique if you are willing to cycle on and off with enough time in between - but most don't. Anyway…. You can be in the best health possible… eat, exercise, drink plenty of water, take supplements, cardio etc… and in only 2 short months lose it all and be extremely unhealthy… I have seen it happen… You have probably seen it happen. Have you ever heard the saying… “what have you done for me lately” We usually use it in a negative way… like Man I have done so much for that guy the past 10 years… but it does not matter, its always what have you done for me lately…. BUT it is actually a biblical concept. Your past will not make up for your present. A good beginning is not a guarantee of good ending. Ez. 18:23, 24 23 “Do you think that I like to see wicked people die? says the Sovereign Lord. Of course not! I want them to turn from their wicked ways and live. 24 However, if righteous people turn from their righteous behavior and start doing sinful things and act like other sinners, should they be allowed to live? No, of course not! All their righteous acts will be forgotten, and they will die for their sins. You do have a personal responsibility! Your past will not make up for your present. Its not about Loyalty or brownie points… or God owing you… it is about Holiness. First lets get one thing straight… God only owes us one thing… judgement and death for being a sinner. We only get what we get because of what God did, not because of what we did. Hebrews 6:4-6 and 10:26-27 speak of what have you done for me lately… My point today is this… We see the weakened and sinful in scripture turning around from the disciples to the apostle Paul… they all had diverse sinful backgrounds… but were all marked by getting older and bolder and not older and colder. What was their prescription for such a faith as this? Very simple, in fact John G Lake spoke of it often. 4 things: Constantly prayed Read Gods word Shared the gospel Prayed in tongues and prophesied over their own lives. Listen I know we all are thankful for Gods grace and his mercy… I know I need it. But I don't want to casually assume a life based on that for entrance into heaven. I want to walk in Gods power over sin and evil. I want his grace to empower my life so that I can live above sin. 2 Cor. 12:9 God tells Paul his grace is sufficient to overcome his weakness and his suffering. That phrase there actually means more than enough. And we often forget that last sentence in that verse…. - Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. What have I done today for Christ? I have rested in his power over my weakness.
Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com Im gonna bring the Jesus Hammer! Garth Heckman Ryan What do you put your stock in? Look if I knew back in 1983 that for every $1000 in Microsoft would end up being 3 million dollars… I would have put stock into Microsoft… but who would have believed in that years ago… I think I learned a lesson and I did put a chunk into Bitcoin and it is doing extremely well… but here is the point - Some people put more stock in peoples rejection then in the affirmation of God in their life. That doesn't even make sense… but we do it. WE GIVE MORE CREDIT TO PEOPLES OPINIONS AND REJECTIONS THAT WE DO IN WHAT GOD SAYS IN HIS WORD. You know what that really is right? Its calling God a liar. You are saying… I don't believe you God, but I do believe the media, the work place, the current of peer pressure… Faith comes by hearing so you if you fill your head with medical science or witch craft of whatever, then that is what you have faith in. Todays major obstacle is that we have non stop input from a thousand voices every day… every day… every day. Truly when I was a kid I had the voices of my teachers, my sisters, my parents and about 8 close friends… those were the only people I put some stock in… and not a lot of stock in my teachers as I got older. On my phone everyone is an expert… literally by education, resume, popularity - however you qualify it… experts everywhere buy the thousands. I officiated a wedding 10 years ago… very wealthy couple… they had one reception for adults, with a live band that played at the Dakota club here in Twin Cities… amazing food, and beautiful decor… But they had another whole reception for kids. Candy bar, ice cream bar, hot dogs, cheese burgers, Fries, chicken nuggets… milk shakes, rooter fountain… And basically no supervision. Just a band for kids… it was mayhem. Thats what social media is like today… no supervision and nothing but crap. Romans 10:17 faith cometh by hearing and by hearing the word of God… What is the key word in this verse? Faith? Word of God? Hearing? NOPE… its cometh… meaning it is a process over time. It doesn't just happen when you hear… you feed your mind again and again what ever you feed it… will surely come. Every choice you make is making you! But way before that choice there was a voice. Be careful who you listen too… for it surely will cometh!
Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com How do you get good at anything? You practice… that seems obvious. But how do you get really good at something… like expert level. Well you practice but you practice under duress. Doctors who came back from war were far better at their jobs having practiced under war time conditions. The Benefits of Military Medical Experience include…. Trauma and Emergency Care Expertise: Military doctors, especially those who have served in combat zones, gain unparalleled experience in managing severe trauma, critical injuries, and mass casualty events under high-pressure, resource-limited conditions. This experience can be invaluable in civilian trauma centers and emergency departments. Adaptability and Resourcefulness: Military physicians are often trained to work in diverse and sometimes austere environments, using whatever resources are available. This fosters a high degree of adaptability, problem-solving skills, and the ability to remain calm in chaotic situations. Leadership and Teamwork: Military medicine emphasizes strong leadership, teamwork, and a clear chain of command. These skills are highly transferable to civilian healthcare settings, particularly in managing teams and coordinating care. Exposure to Diverse Patient Populations: Military physicians often change stations frequently and may be exposed to a wide variety of patient populations globally, broadening their clinical perspective. Focus on Pure Medicine (less administrative burden): In some military settings, doctors can focus more on patient care without the same concerns about insurance or billing that civilian doctors often face, allowing them to hone their clinical skills. Innovation: Many medical innovations and practices, such as triage systems and specialized surgical teams, have originated or been refined in military settings and have had a significant impact on civilian healthcare. When you don't let anyone in your emotions, your faith or your mind… you build your Spiritual strength or should I say your spiritual armor. Wether it is a person or a circumstance or even a physical health issue - these aren't just proving grounds, they are paving grounds for your life. You are learning to pave your walk in life in a straight and narrow. When emotions, doubt, anger, bitterness… when these emotions attack you it can cause an uphill and uneven walk… with pitfalls and roadblocks… but they are of your making because you don't choose to the right response. Silence is your Protection Scripture is your weapon Faith is your push back into the darkness Silence protects you a few ways… You do not give your adversary any more ammo to pull your strings or trigger you. You keep them guessing You ultimately make them give up You create a sense that you know something they don't and it makes them feel vulnerable, more likely to expose their motives and their faults. Scripture is your weapon. I just had a conversation with a young man who said he does not believe in speaking in tongues and the HS gifts for today… I said show me in scripture where it says that. He started to say “well I think… I cut him off immediately and told him he was either incredibly stupid, naive or arrogant or he was God. Because no one who serves God should care what another man thinks if it does not line up with scripture. My life is lived according to scripture… not my circumstances, not my upbringing, not what others think… even if they seem smarter than me… My life and how I view my life is totally based on scripture. If the rest of my life I pray for people to be healed and they are not… Im still believing God heals for today because that is what Gods word says. My aikido sense was John Barr- I have talked about him a few times on my podcast. He was the best, well known, on magazine covers, fought with Steven Seagal… his wife tells a story of when they went to a restaurant that had a bar…. (Story) No change in emotion, no anger, no change of demeanor… just a calm statement of faith. John knew what he knew, he believed what he knew and he knew it was true. THATS FAITH. When you pray a prayer of faith or live a life of faith… you don't have to pray loud, live brash, but if you just know what you know, believe what scripture says, and live the truth. Thats faith. Authority self esteem, self control, inner strength… self respect… its a muscle. And as they say… use it or lose it!
Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com [Verse 1] What have I gotta do to make you love me? What have I gotta do to make you care? What do I do when lightning strikes me And I wake to find that you're not there? [Verse 2] What do I do to make you want me? What have I gotta do to be heard? What do I say when it's all over? And sorry seems to be the hardest word [Chorus] It's sad (So sad), so sad It's a sad, sad situation And it's gettin' more and more absurd It's sad (So sad), so sad Why can't we talk it over? Oh, it seems to me That sorry seems to be the hardest word The life of Allan The life of Mitch The life of Bill The life of Lief The life of Connor The life of Londa The life of Dane The life of Shane The life of Chris And finally the life of Joash in 2 Chron. 22-24 He was the king of crash and burn… started out right but ran off the tracks in a hurry… Let me catch you up to speed. Two kingdoms. Judah and Israel Jehoshaphat Ahab and Jezebel Jehoram (reigned 8 yr) Marries Athaliah Ahaziah - Murdered @ 1 yr Athaliah kills her grandsons and takes the throne Joash is saved by Jehosheba (Ahaziah's sister) Wife of the priest Jehoiadah Ahab and Jezebel had a daughter Athaliah She marries Jehoshappaht. Jehoshaphat dies and his son (Jehoram) becomes king (Athaliahs son) Jehoram gets killed So his mother kills all her grandsons and assumes the throne. BUT… one of the grandsons is spared - Joash! 2 Chronicles 24:Joash was seven years old when he became king, and he reigned in Jerusalem forty years. His mother was Zibiah from Beersheba. 2 Joash did what was pleasing in the Lord's sight throughout the lifetime of Jehoiada the priest. 17 But after Jehoiada's death, the leaders of Judah came and bowed before King Joash and persuaded him to listen to their advice PERSAUDED HB Shaw-Maw Using the persons appetites and weaknesses they gave him consent to do what would be easiest and best for him. A young girl or boy has appetites to be liked, to be loved, to be accepted… if you just go with the crowd, if you just give in to sexual urges or peer pressure to do what will make you liked… If you are told your parents don't understand… YOU CAN BE PERSUADED. All of us have physical appetites/fleshly appetites Lust, sex, greed, apathy, laziness, anger, Gluttony We have emotional appetites To be needed, feel wanted, accepted, loved, cared for. We also have emotional needs to want to hate, strike back, hurt those who hurt us, to distrust, to be and stay bitter. There will always be people who will persuade or feed those desires… And if you listen you will cut short your blessings and maybe even your future in heaven. 2 Chron. 24: 20 Then the Spirit of God came upon Zechariah son of Jehoiada the priest. He stood before the people and said, “This is what God says: Why do you disobey the Lord's commands and keep yourselves from prospering? You have abandoned the Lord, and now he has abandoned you!”
Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com Medevil times had a torture where they tied each limb of a person to a horse. So there were four horses and each one had a rope tied from the horse to one of the arms or legs. Then they would command the horses to all run as fast as they could all in opposite directions. It was truly barbaric as arms and legs were ripped off. What was the name of the torture called? It was called distraction. Which distractions in your life have become disguised as priorities? When was the last time you sat down next to someone or talking to someone at a party and asked them what they did and they said “Im a professional Bull rider”. I have never had it happen…. Now maybe if I lived in Texas, but still it would be rare! Being a man of God is as about as rare today as being a professional bull rider. Why? I believe the main reason is because of distraction. Sin isn't any more or less than any other time in todays world… Men didn't just recently start noticing beautiful women. Drugs have always been around. There are no new sins… Satan has always been around… but distractions are at an all time high. The biggest danger in distractions is you don't see them as distractions. Let me ask you a very simple question. If you took all the time you have spent on your phone in the past 2 years… and simply practiced the piano - how good would you be? I asked AI this and here is what they said. You would likely reach an intermediate level much faster than 3-5 years, potentially within 6 months to a year, assuming quality, focused practice. In 3 to 3.5 years you would be an advanced pianist. How long would it take to read the whole bible. If you read at an average pace or listened to it on an app… In summary: Non-stop reading: 2-3 days Daily reading (typical pace): 1 year Daily reading (fast pace): 3 months (90 days) Daily listening: 2 months Let me break it down into a realistic day to day… you would read 3.3 chapters a day. So why are you not the man of God you want to be? Its not sin… its really not. Its distractions. Being a man of God is as about as rare today as being a professional bull rider. Ride the Bull! Daily!
Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com Mawage, that bwessed awangment, that dweam wifin a dweam … And wuv, tru wuv, will fowow you foweva … So tweasure your wuv. God loves everyone… True. However. Gods unconditional love is not Gods unconditional approval. So lets look at some scriptures that seem counterintuitive John 3:16 for God so loved the world that he gave his only son…. Romans 2:6 God will judge the world 2 Peter 3:10 God will destroy the earth and its inhabitants The problem lies within our twisted world/self centered view of what love is. Love is a feeling, it is something that always makes us happy, it always feels good and it is always in line with what we want. NO and DOUBLE NO! Love is discipline, love is honesty when we don't want to hear what is right. Love is correction. Love is punishment. Love is not letting us get our own way. And thank God love is not a feeling or none of us would still have parents… im sure they would have all walked away at some point. My parents loved me better than I could have ever expected.. but they did not always approve of what I did. When I wore 8 inch kiss boots to church… my Dad was none to happy, made me sit in the front row of Church… it was kind of embarrassing… did not feel loving at all - but it was. Gods love will be responsible for all types of action on the earth… its not our job to try to figure it out or ask why. It is simply our job to trust him. There were a lot of things I did not understand as a kid that my parents did… but I understand now. What we need to understand in todays world is God is love. But love is not God. Do not worship love at the cost of watering down scripture, making excuses for going against his word or for excusing your behavior simply because …well… God loves us! Division brings weakness. Separation brings power. What do I mean. Well we think Love as a feeling (defined by what we want) is all inclusive. But it is actually divisive. Ever get a group of people together and tell them they all can have what ever they want? Its anarchy! It weakens humanity and our natural bond as people. However if I understand that sometimes love seemingly separates us from what we want… but it is God keeping us from what is evil, bad, destructive… it is actually Gods power at its best. Again Division brings weakness… we are most divided when we all thing we can all get whatever we want. Do not get fooled as to which is which… it will ruin your life in no time.
Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com Talking to a young man lately who plays guitar and he plays on a worship team. I told him I was going to be teaching a short 2 hour class to the guitar players at our church… he interrupted me and said “I am a good guitar player… And they he said it again as if I did not believe him. I kindly nodded. Now he can play guitar and he can play some rock songs… but who knows if someone is good or not right? But when he asked me what exactly I was going to be teaching my guitar players on my worship team - the first thing I said was “Diatonic harmony”… which believe it or not if you are in fact a good guitar player you would know what that is. He stared at me blankly and asked what it was. I kindly assured him he was not in fact a good guitar player. Now I have told this young man as I tell many people - You may not like what I say to you, but I will never lie to you! EVER. I will try to say it nice… most of the time - but who else will be honest with you. And today what if you can't be honest with yourself because… well you just can't. Have you ever heard of the The Dunning-Kruger Effect and the Blindness of the Incompetent Wheeler's lemon juice story inspired researchers David Dunning and Justin Kruger to study this phenomenon in greater detait. The research-ers were intrigued by the obvious difference in people's actual abilities and how they perceive these abilities. Dunning and Kruger hypothesized that incompetent people suffer from two types of problems · Due to their incompetence, they make flawed decisions (such as robbing a bank while covered in lemon juice). · They are unable to realize the fact that they make Flawed decisions. (Not even the video footage convinced wheeler of hjs inability to be invisible he claimed that it was faked ) The researchers tested the validity of these hypotheses on a sample of participants. First they laid out a test measuring their abilities in a certain domain (logical reasoning, grammar, and humor). Then, the par- ticipants were asked to assess how good their abilities were. The research- ers discovered two interesting findings The least competent people (labeled incompetent in the research) had a tendency to significantly overestimate their abilities. In fact, the less competent they were, the more they overestimated themselves. For example, the more painfully unfunny an individual was, the funnier they thought they were. this eftect was elegantly described by Charles Darwin years ago ignorance more frequently begets confidence than does knowledge' The second interesting finding was that the most competent participants had a tendency to underestimate their abilities. Their under- rated results can be explained by the fact that if a task seems easy to them, they will have the feeling that the task is easy even for other people. In another part of the experiment, participants had the possibility to review the test results of other people. They were subsequently asked to conduct a self assessment again. Competent participants realized that they were better off than they had thought. Thus, they modified their self assessments and began to evaluate themselves more objectively. So where am I going with this… David says something profound in Psalm 139:23-24 KJV. Search me, O God, and know my heart: Try me, and know my thoughts: And see if there be any wicked way in me, And lead me in the way everlasting. David is not saying this as a type of challenge to God… ok, God see if you can find anything wrong in me. NO NO NO he is saying it as one who realizes he can't see everything in his life clearly. He knows that he is blind to many of the sins, flaws, inconsistencies and choices he makes that are not Godly. WHAT A POWERFUL INSIGHT TO KNOW YOU DONT HAVE INSIGHT. RIGHT? Meaning, how powerful it is to know that you don't know everything -especially about you.
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Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com James 3 Neither bitter water and sweet water should come out of your mouth as a believer. More frequently, "πικρός" is employed metaphorically to describe a state of emotional or spiritual bitterness. This can refer to feelings of resentment, anger, or harshness that can take root in a person's heart. The New Testament warns against allowing such bitterness to grow, as it can lead to division and strife within the community of believers. How do we deal with Bitterness? - 1 Get rid of it. Eph. 4:32 31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior. 32 Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you. Get rid of GK - to raise up your voice to deal with it. YOU HAVE THE POWER OF YOUR OWN VOICE. SPEAK IT OUT! - 2 GO TO THE PERSON: Aaron stood before Moses. Peter Stood before Jesus. - 3 Immediately deal with the root Heb. 12:15 Deal with the root This verse goes back to Deut. 29:18 which speaks of roots growing and causing a coldness of heart toward God. - 4 Finally Don't react - Respond David Rostad - Bulls - overreacting, yelling or pushing the bulls would only cause greater injury to yourself. The hound of heaven - Blue Heeler dog "Hound of Heaven" comes from the famous poem of the same name by Francis Thompson, published in 1893. Harboring resentment, bitterness, anger, unforgiveness steals the joy of our salvation… HOW? Holding on to these is unbelief in what God has done for you - - forgive as God has forgiven you! - And what he can do through you, He can forgive through you. - He has the power to forgive anything! Helmut Thelike - don't let misplaced resentment misplace you. In a bitter cold winter nothing can grow A bitter cold heart is the same!
Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com Have you ever felt so bad over something you did that it affects even your appetite? You can't even enjoy your favorite food or activity or people? And why… who was responsible for this? Based on the information available from the search results regarding Chase Hughes's views, here are some basic traits and indicators he suggests looking for when trying to spot deception: Changes in Behavior: A key principle is to establish a person's baseline behavior when they are likely telling the truth (e.g., answering simple, non-threatening questions) and then look for changes in their behavior when the topic shifts to something they might be lying about. These changes can include deviations in how they answer questions, their eye movements, hand gestures, and breathing patterns. Stress and Fear Indicators: Deception is often linked to increased stress and fear. Physical signs associated with this can include an increased breathing rate, increased blink rate, and facial touching. "Closed" Behavior: Actions that suggest fear or a need to protect oneself, such as crossing arms or bringing fingers together, can be indicators. Increased Need for Control: As someone engages in deception, their need to control the situation and their presentation may increase. Difficulty with Reverse Chronology: When asked to recount events in reverse order, a person who has fabricated a story in forward chronology may struggle significantly compared to someone recalling actual events. Reactions to "Bait" Questions: Vague, hypothetical questions designed to see if a person shows a reaction even if they don't know if evidence exists (e.g., "Is there any reason someone might have seen you at a certain place?") can elicit a nervous response from someone being deceptive. Cluster of Unusual Mannerisms: While a single behavior is rarely a definitive sign of lying, observing a cluster of unusual mannerisms that deviate from the established baseline can be a warning sign. Chase Hughes emphasizes that there is no single, universal body language signal for lying. Instead, the focus is on identifying deviations from a person's normal behavior and looking for clusters of indicators, particularly those related to stress and attempts to gain control. Raising the stakes of the conversation can also make deceptive behaviors more apparent. Luke 22:62 Peter denies Jesus and goes out and weeps bitterly. Bitter: GK Violently felt grief that leaves the soul and spirit tasting bitter. Peter felt shame denying Christ… but shame is only the RED CARPET leading to bitterness. Lets clear something up. THIS IS A POWERFUL INSIGHT Peter did not weep bitterly because of what Christ had said or done… Why was Peter bitter? HE WAS BITTER Because he did not respond correctly. We want to blame our bitterness, unforgiveness, hard heartedness on what others did - but it is actually because OF WHAT WE DID NOT DO! We typically become bitter not because of what someone did to us but rather because of how we responded and we know it was not Christ like. Peter denied Christ and wept bitterly? Why bitterness? What did Peter do that made him bitter? *He did not represent Jesus AND He did not love the way Jesus would have loved… and he became bitter because of what he had done. WE THINK AND SAY: I am so bitter because of what they did. BUT THE TRUTH IS MORE ACCURATE: I am so bitter because of WHAT I DID - Because of the way I responded. **The right response heals not only us but the other person. Armando- wrapping my arms around him and telling him I loved him and want Gods best for him. He calls me later that night and falls apart.
Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com Have you ever felt so bad over something you did that it affects even your appetite? You can't even enjoy your favorite food or activity or people? And why… who was responsible for this? Based on the information available from the search results regarding Chase Hughes's views, here are some basic traits and indicators he suggests looking for when trying to spot deception: Changes in Behavior: A key principle is to establish a person's baseline behavior when they are likely telling the truth (e.g., answering simple, non-threatening questions) and then look for changes in their behavior when the topic shifts to something they might be lying about. These changes can include deviations in how they answer questions, their eye movements, hand gestures, and breathing patterns. Stress and Fear Indicators: Deception is often linked to increased stress and fear. Physical signs associated with this can include an increased breathing rate, increased blink rate, and facial touching. "Closed" Behavior: Actions that suggest fear or a need to protect oneself, such as crossing arms or bringing fingers together, can be indicators. Increased Need for Control: As someone engages in deception, their need to control the situation and their presentation may increase. Difficulty with Reverse Chronology: When asked to recount events in reverse order, a person who has fabricated a story in forward chronology may struggle significantly compared to someone recalling actual events. Reactions to "Bait" Questions: Vague, hypothetical questions designed to see if a person shows a reaction even if they don't know if evidence exists (e.g., "Is there any reason someone might have seen you at a certain place?") can elicit a nervous response from someone being deceptive. Cluster of Unusual Mannerisms: While a single behavior is rarely a definitive sign of lying, observing a cluster of unusual mannerisms that deviate from the established baseline can be a warning sign. Chase Hughes emphasizes that there is no single, universal body language signal for lying. Instead, the focus is on identifying deviations from a person's normal behavior and looking for clusters of indicators, particularly those related to stress and attempts to gain control. Raising the stakes of the conversation can also make deceptive behaviors more apparent. Luke 22:62 Peter denies Jesus and goes out and weeps bitterly. Bitter: GK Violently felt grief that leaves the soul and spirit tasting bitter. Peter felt shame denying Christ… but shame is only the RED CARPET leading to bitterness. Lets clear something up. THIS IS A POWERFUL INSIGHT Peter did not weep bitterly because of what Christ had said or done… Why was Peter bitter? HE WAS BITTER Because he did not respond correctly. We want to blame our bitterness, unforgiveness, hard heartedness on what others did - but it is actually because OF WHAT WE DID NOT DO! We typically become bitter not because of what someone did to us but rather because of how we responded and we know it was not Christ like. Peter denied Christ and wept bitterly? Why bitterness? What did Peter do that made him bitter? *He did not represent Jesus AND He did not love the way Jesus would have loved… and he became bitter because of what he had done. WE THINK AND SAY: I am so bitter because of what they did. BUT THE TRUTH IS MORE ACCURATE: I am so bitter because of WHAT I DID - Because of the way I responded. **The right response heals not only us but the other person. Armando- wrapping my arms around him and telling him I loved him and want Gods best for him. He calls me later that night and falls apart.
Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com Numbers 12 - someone gets offended. 12 Miriam and Aaron spoke against Moses because of the Cushite woman whom he had married, for he had married a Cushite woman; 2 and they said, “Has the Lord indeed spoken only through Moses? Has he not spoken through us also?” And the Lord heard it. 3 Now the man Moses was very meek, more than all men that were on the face of the earth. 4 And suddenly the Lord said to Moses and to Aaron and Miriam, “Come out, you three, to the tent of meeting.” And the three of them came out. 5 And the Lord came down in a pillar of cloud, and stood at the door of the tent, and called Aaron and Miriam; and they both came forward. 6 And he said, “Hear my words: If there is a prophet among you, I the Lord make myself known to him in a vision, I speak with him in a dream. 7 Not so with my servant Moses; he is entrusted with all my house. 8 With him I speak mouth to mouth, clearly, and not in dark speech; and he beholds the form of the Lord. Why then were you not afraid to speak against my servant Moses?” 9 And the anger of the Lord was kindled against them, and he departed; 10 and when the cloud removed from over the tent, behold, Miriam was leprous, as white as snow. And Aaron turned towards Miriam, and behold, she was leprous. I want you to notice something here. Miriam is the culprit… she pushes Aarons buttons. “Has not God spoken through US also?” - Nope - and the offense is over another woman WHO OR WHAT IS PUSHING YOU TO BE OFFENDED? SUCH A GREAT LEADER MANIPULATED BY HIS WIFE! Who might be manipulating you? What else do we see here? Jealousy and Envy: Miriam and Aaron's discontent arose from envy and a desire to usurp Moses's - leadership, - they questioned his authority - Him hearing God - His decisions - and challenged his position. But none of that was the real issue… the real issue was Moses pick of a wife… but it was then the cause to every other attack by Aaron and Miriam. *This begins to stir up a seed of bitterness in them **Don't be fooled by one of satans oldest tricks in the book Miriam got Aaron to speak up…. But who was really offended? SO WHO GOT PUNISHED? YOU MAY NOT HARBOR BITTERNESS - BUT IF YOU SPEAK IT ON BEHALF OF OTHERS…??? *When you speak words from God it has the same power as God speaking! ** ** ** When you speak words from satan…. It is the same power as satan speaking.
Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com Five ways to tame a lion… you heard that right. Five ways to tame a lion… yep, I have been lion taming for quite sometime now and I am going to give you some insight over the next 7 minutes! *When you wake up in the morning you are probably not thinking through the cautionary steps of dealing with 10,000 volts of electricity - being splattered with infectious blood - coming in contact with a huge anaconda - Deactivating a bomb - or worse yet, dealing with harboring bitterness. All of those things can become dangerously habitual. * Gunther Gabel Williams - BE THERE. - YOU MEAN DON'T SHOW UP LATE FOR WORK??? DONT SKIP WORK? After 10,000 performances you can tend to not be there in the cage with wild animals. 1 PETER 5:7Cast all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you. 8Be sober-minded and alert. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.… When does a lion prowl looking for those whom he may devour? It's typically on Tuesday mornings, the reason is due to the weather patterns in the Svengali desert plains… you see the wind comes up form the south On Sunday and by Monday afternoon leading into the next day the lion… ARE YOU BELIEVING A WORD I SAY? Hey dumb dumb…lions are seeking whom they may devour EVERY DAY 24/7! Every day the enemy prowls like a roaring lion seeking whom he may devour. IT IS YOUR JOB TO BE THERE! BE AWARE! EVERY DAY… EVERY DAY EVERY DAY Key Verses: • Matthew 13:22 (BSB): "The seed sown among the thorns is the one who hears the word, but the worries of this life and the deceitfulness of wealth choke the word, and it becomes unfruitful." Here, μέριμνα is depicted as a force that can stifle spiritual growth. • Luke 21:34 (BSB): "But watch yourselves, or your hearts will be weighed down by dissipation, drunkenness, and the worries of life, and that day will spring upon you suddenly like a trap." This verse warns against being overwhelmed by life's anxieties, which can distract from spiritual vigilance. • 1 Peter 5:7 (BSB): "Cast all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you." This passage encourages believers to entrust their worries to God, emphasizing His care and provision. THERE ARE ACTION STEPS IN THE VERSES… -1 BE WATCHFUL for the little things - seeds - 2 Watch yourself. Its your responsibility to know what triggers you and to look for it. -3 DO NOT BE OVERWHELMED KNOW THAT THEY ARE COMING. - 4 AND CAST YOUR WORRIES ON GOD - - 5 YOU GIVE THEM TO GOD BECAUSE YOU KNOW AND CAN TRUST THAT HE CARES FOR YOU. He wants to take your worries, troubles and anxieties. • Theological Implications: The concept of μέριμνα underscores the biblical teaching that excessive worry can detract from faith and reliance on God. Believers are encouraged to seek first the kingdom of God and trust in His provision, rather than being consumed by temporal concerns. • Practical Application: Christians are called to live with a focus on eternal values, casting their cares upon God and finding peace in His sovereignty. This involves a conscious effort to prioritize spiritual growth over worldly anxieties.
Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com If I could put time in a bottle Time is on my side Good times bad times you know Ive had my share Late is late. 30 seconds is late 30 minutes, 5 minutes, 1 minute, 30 seconds is late. Better late than never… NOPE Late is Late. So what is early? It is respect, it is character it is integrity. Time might be the greatest currency to spend in order to show someone just how much you care. Not money, not your talent, not your intelligence but simply hard time. Matthew 26:36 Then Jesus came with them to a place called Gethsemane, and said to the disciples, “Sit here while I go and pray over there.” 37 And He took with Him Peter and the two sons of Zebedee, and He began to be sorrowful and deeply distressed. 38 Then He said to them, “My soul is exceedingly sorrowful, even to death. Stay here and watch with Me.” 39 He went a little farther and fell on His face, and prayed, saying, “O My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from Me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as You will.” 40 Then He came to the disciples and found them sleeping, and said to Peter, “What! Could you not watch with Me one hour? 41 Watch and pray, lest you enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.” He didn't ask the disciples to stand and fight. He did not ask them to give him advice or to prepare for life without him at this moment. He simply asked them for prayer… but not just prayer, but an hour of prayer. The disciples are hand fed for 3 1/2 years insight and miracles and the miraculous and more… and in turn Christ asks for one hour… not one month, not one day but one hour. AND at the most crucial time of his life… or should we say just before his death. Look if you really want to impress someone, your spouse, your kids, your pastor your boss your neighbors… Your parents… it does not matter - if you really want to impress them. Give them time!
Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com What is one of the biggest perks to hearing Gods voice? Your circle begins to trust you implicitly. Completely. You earn the right to do what others might think are crazy simply because your track record proves that you hear from God. Christmas offering… 1st service and second service then home… Kim says: Who is it? POINT ONE: if you want to step into leadership successfully in any form you better be able to hear from God. OR IF YOU ARE GOING TO FOLLOW SOMEONE… THEY BETTER HEAR FROM GOD. You don't need to hear from God for the vision or mission (get to Canaan) you need to hear from God as to how. Josh. 1;1-9 Josh. 3:7 - 4:1-8 - 5:2 - 6:2-5 - 7:10-15. - 8:12. - 10:8. - 13:4 POINT TWO: You better be battle tested. God recognized Joshua as a warrior before he was recognized as a leader. Joshua was first mentioned in Exodus chapter 17 when he went to war against the Amalakites. Godly warriors follow instructions. They fight to save lives. IMAGINE ONLY WANTING TO SAVE A FEW IN A WAR…. I know men who have fought in battle - real battle. Life and Death… but they are intimidated and fearful quite when it comes to sharing Christ. Joshua was proven by battle before ever being appointed as a leader. He was proven to have the spirit of God in him. Numbers 27:18-23
Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com When was the last time you were intimidated… you literally felt your heart shrink, your soul grow cold and you just felt embarrassed and humiliated because you just couldn't step up??? It is so hard to even confess such a thing… but it happens. **You can tell a lot about a person simply by studying their intimidation quotient Milgram Experiment (1963): Authority and Obedience: Administering electric shocks to people by the instructions given by an instructor. Who intimidates you? When are you intimidated? I KNOW MEN WHO WERE IN ACTUAL BATTLE. They had live fire, bombs men die at their feet… and while I thank them for their service… they fold like a wet blanket when given the opportunity to share Christ. Their intimidation quotient was actually pretty low when it came to actually being a Christ follower. Joshua was not intimidated: he was one of the 12 says… what was that conversation like walking back to see Moses with the report… As you read the conversation between Joshua, Caleb and Moses.
Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@gmail.com Joshua born in slavery in Egypt. Raised as a slave under Moses reign and exodus. He was Moses assistant/understudy He was the spy that testified YES He and Calebs family was spared Gods wrath due to their belief and faith in God. They still wandered 40 years. It was Joshua NOT Moses that led Israel into the promise land. Moses was known for a few things… God reassured him of his mission God Parted the Red Sea God appeared to him as a heavenly messenger God had him remove his sandals at the burning bush in his presence. GOD DID THE SAME WITH JOSHUA. Joshua was also with Moses at Mount Sinai when Moses was receiving the 10 Commandments. Joshua was also at Moses side after he spoke to God face-to-face. God was obviously preparing Joshua for future leadership. Joshua was one of the 12 men sent as spies into Canaan. Joshua followed in Moses footsteps first God appeared to Joshua after Moses died to reassure him of his mission and his promise. Secondly God part of the waters of the Jordan for Joshua as he part of the waters of the Red Sea for Moses and third the Lord appeared to Joshua through a heavenly messenger. God instructed Joshua to remove his sandals, just as he had instructed Moses at the burning bush.
Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com Who is the greatest in NBA? NFL? NHL? MLB? And of course powerlifting? ALI: He talks a great deal and brags indeed-y of a muscular punch that's incredibly speedy. The fistic world was dull and weary. With a champ like Liston, things had to be dreary. ALI: Then someone with color - someone with dash - brought fight fans running with cash. ALI: This brash, young boxer is something to see. And the heavyweight championship is his destiny. This kid fights great. He's got speed and endurance. But if you sign to fight him, increase your insurance. ALI: This kid's got a left. This kid's got a right. If he hits you once, you're asleep for the night ALI: And as you lie on the floor while the ref counts 10, you pray that you won't have to fight me again ALI: For I am the man this poem is about, the next champ of the world, there isn't a doubt. If Cassius says a cow can lay an egg, don't ask how. Grease that skillet. ALI: He is the greatest. When I say two, there's never a third. Betting against me is completely absurd. When Cassius says a mouse can outrun a horse, don't ask how. Put your money where your mouse is. ALI: I am the greatest. SIEGEL: Those were excerpts from Muhammad Ali's poem, "I Am The Greatest," recorded in 1963 Who Is the Greatest? Luke 9 46 Then a dispute arose among them as to which of them would be greatest. 47 And Jesus, perceiving the thought of their heart, took a little child and set him by Him, 48 and said to them, “Whoever receives this little child in My name receives Me; and whoever receives Me receives Him who sent Me. For he who is least among you all will be great.” Why do my sins bother me so much? The closer I get to Jesus the more I see how much I need him. In the little things and in the big things.
Garth Heckman TDAgiantslayer@Gmail.com The David Alliance The life and times of Remus Reid Check the source Check the money trail Check the background Check the history Check the Someone trying to manipulate you might display a range of traits aimed at gaining control or influencing your decisions and feelings. Here are some common ones: Emotional Tactics: * Playing the Victim: They portray themselves as helpless or wronged to evoke your sympathy and make you feel obligated to help them. * Guilt-Tripping: They make you feel responsible for their problems or emotions, leading you to do things you wouldn't normally do. * Love Bombing: They overwhelm you with excessive attention, affection, and praise early on to create a strong emotional bond and make you more susceptible to their influence. * Playing on Your Insecurities: They identify your weaknesses and use them against you to undermine your confidence and make you dependent on them. * Emotional Blackmail: They threaten to harm themselves or others, or to withdraw affection if you don't comply with their demands. * Gaslighting: They distort or deny your reality, making you doubt your memory, perception, and sanity. * Using Charm and Flattery: They can be excessively nice and complimentary to disarm you and make you more agreeable. * Creating Chaos and Drama: They thrive on instability and may create conflicts to distract you or make you rely on them to resolve the issues. * Inconsistent Behavior: Their moods and actions can change unpredictably, keeping you off balance and making you try harder to please them. Communication Tactics: * Lying and Deception: They may outright lie or omit information to control the narrative and achieve their goals. * Exaggeration and Generalization: They might exaggerate their own achievements or misfortunes and use sweeping statements to influence your opinion. * Blame Shifting: They avoid taking responsibility for their actions and instead blame others, including you. * Changing the Subject: They abruptly switch topics to avoid uncomfortable conversations or deflect scrutiny. * Vagueness and Indirect Communication: They may not clearly state their needs or intentions, making it easier to manipulate the situation later. * Using Confusion: They might use complex language or illogical arguments to confuse you and make you doubt your understanding. * Withholding Information: They strategically omit details to give you an incomplete picture and steer you in their desired direction. Behavioral Tactics: * Boundary Violations: They disregard your personal boundaries and push your limits to see what they can get away with. * Controlling Behavior: They try to control aspects of your life, such as your time, money, or relationships. * Isolation: They may try to isolate you from your friends and family to increase your dependence on them. * Triangulation: They involve a third party to manipulate the situation, often by creating jealousy or using the third person to relay messages. * Pressuring You: They create a sense of urgency to make you act quickly without thinking. * Ignoring or Dismissing Your Needs: They prioritize their own needs and disregard your feelings and desires. * Playing the Martyr: They act as if they are making huge sacrifices for you to make you feel indebted to them. It's important to remember that these traits can appear individually or in combination. Recognizing these patterns is the first step in protecting yourself from manipulation. Trust your instincts if something feels "off" in a relationship. What does the Bible say about deception… well it actually comes down to one simple - not so simple thing: Words! Your mouth gives away your heart… but they are tied to your actions… meaning if I use the words “I love you… sounds good, but my words might be true OR they might be manipulative. So words are only as powerful as the actions behind them. Again… think on this: If I say one thing and it is true - it proves my heart and my words back it up. If I say one thing and it is not true according to my actions- then it is just as powerful in that it reveals my deception. Focus on Deception and Falsehood: * Speaking Lies and Deceit: The Bible frequently warns against lying and those who speak falsehoods. Manipulators often rely on deception to achieve their goals. * "Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, but those who act faithfully are his delight." (Proverbs 12:22) * "Whoever speaks the truth gives honest evidence, but a false witness speaks deceitfully." (Proverbs 12:17) * Having a Double Heart: This refers to those who say one thing but mean another, or who act with ulterior motives. * "They speak falsehood to one another; with flattering lips and a double heart they speak." (Psalm 12:2) Emphasis on Selfishness and Pride: * Seeking Their Own Interests: Manipulators are often driven by their own selfish desires and disregard the needs of others. * "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others." (Philippians 2:3-4) This verse highlights the contrast between selfless love and self-centeredness. * Boasting and Arrogance: Manipulators may inflate their own importance and achievements to impress and control others. * "The Lord detests all the proud of heart. Be sure of this: They will not go unpunished." (Proverbs 16:5) Warning Against Flattery and Smooth Talk: * Using Flattering Words: Manipulators often use excessive praise and charm to disarm and influence their targets. * "A man who flatters his neighbor spreads a net for his feet." (Proverbs 29:5) * "For there is no truth in their mouth; their inmost self is destruction; their throat is an open grave; they flatter with their tongue." (Psalm 5:9) Importance of Discernment and Wisdom: * Testing the Spirits: The Bible encourages believers to be discerning and not believe everything they hear. * "Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world." (1 John 4:1) This principle can be applied to discerning the motives behind people's words and actions. * Seeking Wisdom: Wisdom allows you to see beyond surface appearances and understand people's true intentions. * "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him." (James 1:5) Focus on Actions and Fruits: * Judging by Their Fruits: Jesus taught that we can recognize people by the results of their actions. Manipulative individuals often leave a trail of broken relationships, hurt feelings, and negative consequences. * "You will recognize them by their fruits. Are grapes gathered from thornbushes, or figs from thistles? So also, every healthy tree bears good fruit, but the diseased tree bears bad fruit." (Matthew 7:16-17) The Contrast with Genuine Love and Humility: * True Love is Selfless: Biblical love (agape) is characterized by selflessness, patience, kindness, and a focus on the well-being of others – the opposite of manipulation. * "Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." (1 Corinthians 13:4-7) * Humility Values Others: Genuine humility leads to valuing others above oneself, which stands in stark contrast to the manipulator's self-centeredness. In summary, while the Bible doesn't provide a checklist of "manipulator traits," it equips us with principles to discern those who operate in deceit, selfishness, and pride. By focusing on truth, humility, genuine love, and the fruits of their actions, we can gain wisdom in recognizing and protecting ourselves from manipulative individuals.
Garth Heckman TDAgiantslayer@Gmail.com The David Alliance Jesus punishment is equal for all who have sinned UNLESS does not punish some people more than others… Lk. 20:47
The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@gmail.com Garth Heckman Jesus the Contronym Here are some more examples of contronyms: OFF - turned off, turned on. The light went off, the alarm went off. Sanction: To approve or to punish. Fast: Moving quickly or fixed in place. Buckle: To fasten or to break. Clip: To attach or to cut. Consult: To seek advice or to provide it. Oversight: Supervision or a failure to notice. Apology: A statement of regret or a defense. Bound: Going to a destination or restrained. Left: Departed or remaining. JESUS WAS A CONTRONYM Jesus does not shame people Luke 13:16,17 UNLESS Jesus would never be snarky and belligerent - UNLESS you question his authority MK. 11: 29 tell me whom Johns Baptism is from? Jesus does not get angry UNLESS… He gets mad at those in the temple and makes a whip and drives people out, turning tables… HE DOES IT TWICE! Jesus would never punish some people more than others. Jesus would never call you out in public UNLESS… Lk. 20:47 Jesus would only choose the best to be his disciples UNLESS… They stole, argued, lied, doubted, self righteous, pious, presumptuous Jesus would never be hyper critical of people, especially those in political and religious leadership. UNLESS Lk 11:37-46 Jesus would never condemn anyone… UNLESS you were leading people into hell. MT. 12:34 you snakes Jesus rewards everyone equal. UNLESS…. Your works are burned up and you only get eternal life. 1 Cor. 3:12-13 UNLESS… you are persecuted more, live for God more openly and serve him more fully than others… MT. 5:11, 12 MT. 6:1-6 You will never enter and you will never enter the kingdom of God unless you are born again… But it also says in John 3 you will never see the kingdom of God unless you are born again. The word Again in the greek is a beautiful word that means Again? Who you were now marked by who you used to be. AT BDubs - Kevin lost all that weight… his passed now marks his present. Mk. 15:38 the veil was ripped from top to bottom. (Same word/ “again”) Complete and now new picture of who God is! Jesus did some crazy stuff… and its hard to see and understand unless you are born again… Jesus is from a different Kingdom… and they do stuff different there… and unless you are born again and can see the Kingdom and how it works you will forever be frustrated and confused. Seek to be born again… continual, never ending.
Garth Heckman TDAgiantSlayer@gmail.com The David Alliance While it's impossible to definitively rank arguments against Christianity in a universally agreed-upon "top 10," here are some of the most common and significant criticisms raised against it, categorized for clarity: I. Issues of Reason and Evidence: * Lack of Empirical Evidence: Critics argue that many core tenets of Christianity, such as the existence of God, miracles, the resurrection of Jesus, and the efficacy of prayer, lack sufficient empirical or scientific evidence to support them. They contend that faith-based belief is not a reliable path to truth. * Example: The claim that Jesus walked on water contradicts known laws of physics and lacks verifiable evidence. * Internal Inconsistencies and Contradictions in the Bible: Skeptics point to numerous passages in the Bible that appear to contradict each other or present conflicting accounts of events, raising questions about its divine inspiration and reliability. * Example: Different accounts of the same historical event in the Old Testament or variations in the Gospels' narratives of Jesus' life. * Unfulfilled Prophecies: Some argue that specific prophecies within the Old Testament and New Testament have not come to pass, undermining the claim that the Bible is divinely inspired or accurately predicts the future. * Example: Specific Old Testament prophecies regarding the Messiah that some argue were not fulfilled by Jesus. II. Philosophical and Ethical Challenges: * The Problem of Evil: The existence of suffering, injustice, and natural disasters in the world is a significant challenge to the concept of an omnipotent, omniscient, and omnibenevolent God. Critics question how such a God could allow widespread suffering. * Example: The suffering of innocent children or the devastation caused by natural disasters. * Divine Hiddenness: The apparent lack of clear and unambiguous evidence for God's existence leads some to argue that if God truly wanted humanity to believe, God would make their existence more obvious. * Moral Issues in the Bible and Christian History: Critics point to instances of violence, genocide, oppression, and intolerance within the Old Testament and throughout Christian history as evidence of moral failings, questioning the claim that Christianity is a source of absolute morality. * Example: The conquest of Canaan in the Old Testament or the historical persecution of heretics and non-believers. * The Concept of Hell and Eternal Damnation: The idea that individuals who do not accept Jesus as their savior will face eternal torment is seen by some as unjust and incompatible with a loving and merciful God. III. Social and Cultural Criticisms: * Historical and Contemporary Social Issues: Christianity has been criticized for its historical role in issues such as the suppression of scientific inquiry, the justification of slavery, and the oppression of women. Contemporary criticisms often focus on issues like homophobia, transphobia, and resistance to social progress. * Exclusivity and Intolerance: The Christian claim that salvation is exclusively through Jesus Christ is seen by some as arrogant and intolerant of other faiths and belief systems. * Negative Impact on Individual Autonomy and Critical Thinking: Some argue that the emphasis on faith and obedience in Christianity can discourage critical thinking, independent inquiry, and the development of individual autonomy. It's important to note that these are just some of the arguments raised against Christianity, and each argument has been the subject of extensive debate and counter-arguments from theologians and apologists. Understanding these criticisms is crucial for a comprehensive understanding of different perspectives on Christianity.
Garth Heckman TDAgiantSlayer@gmail.com The David Alliance Demon possessed or demonized? If you are a non Christian you can be demon possessed. If you are a Christian you can be demonized… both are dangerous and horrible to be under. But for today lets talk about being a Christian who is demonized? What does that mean? You have demonic spirits attached to your mindset, habits, personality, thoughts and even your body. They can manifest in addictions, sickness, pet sins, demonic dreams… and that is just touching the surface. We have a deliverance ministry here at our church and what I have seen and now understand makes me completely convinced that every Christian should go through a deliverance process… connect with me if you want more information. * Unconfessed and Unrepented Sin: Many Christian traditions teach that sin creates a barrier between God and humanity. Persistent, unconfessed, and unrepented sin can be seen as providing an "opening" or foothold for negative spiritual influences. This isn't necessarily seen as demonic possession in all cases, but rather as creating vulnerability to temptation, oppression, or spiritual attacks. Examples might include ongoing patterns of lying, stealing, bitterness, unforgiveness, or sexual immorality. * Involvement in Occult Practices: Practices explicitly condemned in the Bible, such as divination, witchcraft, seeking guidance from mediums, astrology, and other forms of occult engagement, are often seen as directly inviting demonic influence. But did you know music, movies, video, porn are all a part of this occult practice. The rationale is that these practices bypass God and seek power, fulfillment or knowledge from sources considered to be opposed to Him. * Holding onto Strongholds of Negative Beliefs and Emotions: Deep-seated patterns of negative thinking, such as persistent bitterness, resentment, fear, or unbelief, can create "strongholds" in the mind. Some interpretations suggest that these strongholds can become entry points for negative spiritual influences that align with those destructive thought patterns and emotions. Look we can get sick physically - yes Jesus bore stripes on his back for our healing, but we still live in a fallen sin filled world with sickness, disease, germs etc… and it can make us sick. In the same way we live in a world where we can pick up strongholds that make us sick…. Bitterness is a big one but not the only one. You hang on to this and it will invite demonic strongholds into your life. * Exposure to Demonic Influence Through Others or Environments: You gotta be prayed up when you go to a secular concert, go to an environment where there is a heavy LGBTQ presence, or to a cultic religion center… now if it is your practice to be around such people and places on a regular basis check to see if this is Gods will. **You may say well God hung with sinners…yes he did, with 12 other believers. There is strength in numbers. * Spiritual Neglect and Lack of Spiritual Armor: A lack of consistent engagement in spiritual disciplines such as prayer, Bible study, fellowship with other believers, and living according to Christian principles is sometimes seen as weakening one's spiritual defenses. This neglect can leave a person more susceptible to temptation and negative spiritual influences, not necessarily as a direct invitation but as a lack of protection… but over time it can manifest in demonization. Now listen I know people will think that I have the opinion that I blame everything on demons… no, not quite… but more than ever I see the demonic playing out itself in people who claim to be followers of Christ. And as someone who has been a follower of Christ for more than 50 years and still have demonic influences in my life… im telling you you need to be careful and also you need to check out some spiritual deliverance ministries.
Garth Heckman TDAgiantSlayer@gmail.com The David Alliance The Journey Away: Understanding Why Individuals Leave the Christian Faith Understanding the Journey Away from Faith Faith deconstruction, within the context of Christianity, refers to a process where individuals critically examine and potentially reject the religious beliefs they once held as true…. I don't believe it is a critically examined decision. I think 100% of the time it is emotional. Remember what Fatigue makes cowards out of all of us. Vince Lombardi… I feel it is the same way when we walk away. We become fatigued in our walk. We let the struggles of life beat us up and drain us. We want a quick fix, we want a “feel good moment”, we have dissapointments… but they are all based on our feelings. Seeds of Doubt and Disillusionment start out as feelings from things that did not go our way. One significant factor involves negative experiences with the church itself. The role of parental influence and the strength of religious reinforcement during childhood also play a critical part in the development and retention of faith. If Mom and Dad do not have an active vibrant and powerful walk with God… you are more prone to walk away or at least never dive in deep. Moreover, higher education and exposure to diverse perspectives can introduce substantial challenges to established religious beliefs. The experience of being challenged with new ideas and concepts that contradict religious teachings, often encountered in college or university settings, is a significant factor in the rejection of religious beliefs. deconversion process. The Weight of Experience: How Personal Struggles Can Erode Faith Personal experiences, especially those involving suffering and disappointment, can significantly erode an individual's faith. Trauma, loss, and the perception of unanswered prayers often prompt individuals to question their relationship with God and the tenets of their Christian belief. Similarly, the experience of perceived unanswered prayers can lead to feelings of doubt and abandonment, or question the efficacy of prayer itself and the nature of God's involvement in the world. Intellectual Challenges to Christian Beliefs Intellectual challenges pose a significant hurdle for some individuals in maintaining their Christian faith. Conflicts between religious dogma and scientific understanding, particularly concerning the origins of the universe and life (e.g., evolution versus creationism, the age of the earth) , also contribute to a shift away from faith. Furthermore, the intellectual struggle with the problem of evil – The Social Landscape: Influence of Community and Culture on Faith Social and cultural factors wield considerable influence on an individual's faith journey and can significantly contribute to the decision to walk away from Christianity. Interactions with people holding different beliefs can challenge the exclusivity claims often made by Christianity. Emotional and Psychological Aspects of Faith Deconstruction The process of faith deconstruction is often accompanied by a complex array of emotional and psychological experiences.Feelings of guilt may arise from questioning or doubting long-held beliefs, often deeply ingrained by religious teachings that emphasize unwavering faith. This internalized pressure can lead to significant anxiety and the fear of divine punishment or social ostracism. Phases of Transition: Understanding the Stages of Moving Away from Faith Individuals moving away from their Christian faith often go through a series of stages or phases. The process typically begins with initial questioning and doubt, often triggered by specific events, intellectual challenges, or personal struggles.This initial phase can be marked by cognitive dissonance and a struggle to reconcile emerging uncertainties with existing beliefs. Following this, individuals may enter a stage of exploration, actively seeking out alternative perspectives and critically evaluating religious doctrines. This involves intellectual engagement with viewpoints that differ from their religious upbringing and a willingness to examine the foundational tenets of Christian belief. Some would say that the process of walking away from God is a multi faceted process with many limbs and tentacles and can happen in many many ways… I think it is more simplistic than that…. I believe it truly comes down to The Impact of Isolation from other believers. We see people all the time who become separated and secluded from others and that is the first step to walking from their faith. I don't just mean alone, but alone with the wrong people. Isolation causes inflammation of ones of ones information. Meaning when we see only one side of life, problems, religions, and we isolate ourselves form solid Christian relationships - these things become inflamed and infected in our psyche and soul and spirit. Slowly killing us. Why is scripture so strategic in continuing to meet as believers and that we are a body… because God in his infinite wisdom knows that isolation kills us. Stay plugged in, stay in church, stay in your bible study, stay in your Xn friends lives.
The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@gmail.com Garth Heckman Five Ways the Bible Talks About Being a High Performer 1. Introduction: Defining "High Performance" Biblically The concept of "high performance" in contemporary society often centers on exceptional achievements, maximizing productivity, and gaining recognition within one's field. To understand how the Bible addresses this concept, it is necessary to consider its unique perspective, which frequently prioritizes underlying motivations, foundational principles, and a measure of success rooted in a divine worldview. The biblical perspective on high performance is likely more comprehensive than a purely outcome-driven secular viewpoint. It appears to integrate aspects of moral character and spiritual development alongside tangible achievements. The user's query and the related research areas touch upon ethical and spiritual dimensions such as integrity, worship, and service, in addition to practical considerations like diligence and skill. This suggests that the Bible presents a multifaceted understanding of what it means to perform at a high level. Furthermore, grasping the biblical concept of high performance necessitates an examination of not only the nature of the work itself but also the underlying reasons for undertaking it and the manner in which it is executed. The inclusion of "worship or service to God" and "stewardship" in the research areas directly indicates the significance of motivation and the quality of performance within the Bible's framework of achievement. 2. Diligence and Wholehearted Effort: The Foundation of Biblical Achievement A recurring theme throughout the Bible is the significance of diligence, hard work, and the avoidance of laziness in all endeavors. This emphasis is particularly evident in the wisdom literature of the Old Testament, such as the book of Proverbs, and is consistently reinforced in the teachings and exhortations found in the New Testament epistles. Proverbs offers practical insights into various facets of life, including the intrinsic value of hard work in attaining prosperity and preventing destitution. Verses like, "A slack hand causes poverty, but the hand of the diligent makes rich" (Proverbs 10:4) and "The soul of the sluggard craves and gets nothing, while the soul of the diligent is richly supplied" (Proverbs 13:4) provide a stark contrast between the outcomes of a diligent and a slothful approach to life. The well-known analogy of the ant in Proverbs 6:6-11 serves as a compelling illustration of the wisdom inherent in proactive and persistent labor, highlighting the importance of preparing for the future without needing constant supervision. Even James says faith without works is dead… works is a central theme. And works as in hard work or diligent work is a solid theme in scripture. A central passage in this regard is Colossians 3:23-24 , which urges believers to "work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men," thereby transforming even the most ordinary tasks into acts of worship. Similarly, 1 Thessalonians 4:11-12 encourages followers of Christ to lead quiet lives, attend to their responsibilities, and engage in manual labor to achieve self-sufficiency and earn the respect of those outside the faith. The principle articulated in 2 Thessalonians 3:10-12 , stating that "If anyone is not willing to work, let him not eat," underscores the fundamental necessity of work for one's provision. Furthermore, Ephesians 4:28 advocates for honest labor as a means not only of self-support but also of enabling generosity towards those in need. Ecclesiastes 9:10 advises individuals to pursue their tasks with utmost vigor, recognizing the cessation of earthly activities in the afterlife. The very example of God, who worked in creation (Genesis 2:15 ) and continues to work (John 5:17 ), sets a divine precedent for the importance of labor. Diligence honors God. 3. Wisdom, Skill, and Continuous Learning: Cultivating God-Given Talents The Bible underscores the significance of wisdom, skill, and the ongoing acquisition of knowledge as they relate to one's vocation or calling. The book of Proverbs, in particular, frequently extols the virtues of wisdom and understanding.Proverbs 2:6 explicitly states that "the LORD gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding," establishing God as the ultimate source of these invaluable qualities. Furthermore, Proverbs 4:7 advises, "The beginning of wisdom is this: Get wisdom. Though it cost all you have, get understanding," highlighting the necessity of actively pursuing these attributes. Proverbs 22:29 recognizes the inherent value of skill ("skillful in his work") and its potential to elevate individuals to positions of influence. Skills and talents, as demonstrated in the Bible, are frequently presented as divine gifts, intended to be acknowledged and utilized for God's purposes. 4. Integrity and Excellence as Worship: Reflecting God's Character in Work The Bible places immense importance on integrity, honesty, and ethical behavior in all facets of life, including one's professional endeavors. Proverbs 11:3 affirms that "The integrity of the upright guides them," underscoring the directive nature of moral uprightness. Proverbs 28:6 further emphasizes this by stating, "Better the poor whose walk is blameless than the rich whose ways are perverse," thus valuing integrity above material wealth. When work is performed with unwavering integrity and to the absolute best of one's abilities, it transcends mere task completion and can be rightly viewed as an act of worship and dedicated service to God. 1 Corinthians 10:31 provides the overarching directive: "So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God." This principle inherently extends to all forms of labor and professional conduct. 5. Service and Contribution: Measuring Performance Through Love for Others A central tenet of biblical teaching is the profound importance of serving others as a tangible demonstration of love and a fundamental aspect of following the example set by Jesus himself. Matthew 23:11 clearly states, "The greatest among you will be your servant," directly inverting the world's typical understanding of power and hierarchical status. Mark 10:45 articulates Jesus' core mission: "For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many." 6. Faithfulness and Perseverance: The Enduring Qualities of a High Performer The Apostle Paul, in 2 Timothy 4:7 , reflects on his own life, stating that he had "fought the good fight," "finished the race," and "kept the faith," thereby emphasizing the paramount importance of enduring to the very end of one's calling. Hebrews 12:1-2 further exhorts believers to run the metaphorical race of faith with unwavering endurance, maintaining a steadfast focus on Jesus Christ. The Bible itself presents God's own faithfulness as the ultimate and unwavering example for believers to emulate, and as the very source of strength that enables them to persevere. 7. Conclusion: Integrating Biblical Principles for a Life of High Performance In synthesizing the various ways the Bible addresses the concept of high performance, five key interconnected principles emerge: diligence and wholehearted effort, the cultivation of wisdom and skill, the pursuit of integrity and excellence as acts of worship, a commitment to serving others, and the enduring qualities of faithfulness and perseverance. Ultimately, biblical high performance is not about accumulating wealth or gaining worldly recognition but about living a life that is deeply pleasing to God, pleasing to his church and has a lasting, positive impact on His kingdom for eternity. Are you a high performer? Simply ask yourself daily: am I living a life that is pleasing God, pleasing his church and has an eternal impact. If yes… then you are in fact a high performer!
THE DAVID ALLIANCE TDAgiantslayer@Gmail.com Garth Heckman Ever shoot a roll of film and not have film in the camera… I know this world in 2025 probably most of you have no idea what that was like, but it happened a few times to me…. I sent some boys out in a car to take pictures of street names that would tell a story… 30 plus miles all over the city of Madison… it took them a good 4 hours… they came back and had no film in the camera… BUMMER. Its not the subject, or the film or even the skill level that makes a great shot… If you take a camera and smudge the lens If you keep the cap on it If you choose not to focus it If you shoot it in the dark without light If you take pictures of just one color or one object up close… Upon his retirement as CEO of the Coca-cola Company Donald R. Keough spoke to the graduating class of Emory (1993). To those young men and women who would soon be facing a very tough and critical world, he said, "I have an architect friend who says, 'I can take the newest building, built by the finest builders anywhere in the world, and if you give me a camera and the ability to focus various lenses, I can make that building look like it's about to fall down because I will find five or six minor imperfections, focus on them and convince you that the entire structure is about to topple.'" The point is clear… whatever you focus on is what you will see and what you will find. Now in photography focus has two thoughts. One the camera itself needs to be in focus, but also the subject matter that you choose to focus on to take a picture of is critical. Phil. 4:7-9 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. 8 Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. 9 Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you. Isn't it interesting that twice in this passage it says if you want to have peace in your life, it all depends on what you focus on. Focus on what is true… well thats hard in todays world… Are cold plunge baths good or bad… Are eggs good or bad Is Carnivore good or bad… But beyond this… focus on what is true according to scripture, focus on what is lovely, admirable excellent praiseworthy… THINK on these things and you will have Gods peace. What you focus on is what you will focus on… and it will either bring unrest or peace.
Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAGiantSlayer@gmail.com How many questions do children ask a day, some say over 1200 questions a day… They learn best by play. They have a natural tendency to laugh. They can grow rapidly… literally an inch over night. They can learn multiple languages 10 times faster than adults. Every kid feels like they are an artist and creative…. How honest are kids? Brutally honest. Based on key passages in the Bible, particularly the teachings of Jesus and Paul, here are three ways believers are encouraged to be like children: In Humility: Jesus explicitly links becoming like a child to humility and greatness in God's kingdom. Children in that culture had very low social status and were dependent, not seeking power or position. Scripture: Matthew 18:3-4 (NIV): "And he said: 'Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever takes the lowly position of this child 1 [or humbles themselves like this child] is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.'" 1. www.worldvision.org www.worldvision.org Meaning: Believers should abandon pride, self-importance, and the quest for status, instead adopting a humble dependence on God, recognizing their need for Him just as a child depends on a parent. In Trust and Receptivity: Jesus taught that the Kingdom of God must be received with the simple, trusting faith of a child. Children often trust readily and accept gifts freely without feeling they need to earn them or fully understand them. Scripture: Mark 10:15 (NIV): "Truly I tell you, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it." (Parallel in Luke 18:17) Meaning: Believers should approach God and His offer of salvation with simple, open-hearted trust, accepting His grace as a gift without relying on their own merits or overly complex reasoning. It implies a dependence on God's goodness and provision. In Innocence Regarding Evil: The Apostle Paul distinguishes between mature thinking and child-like innocence concerning malice and evil intentions. While believers should be mature in understanding, they should retain a child's lack of guile and ill will. Scripture: 1 Corinthians 14:20 (NIV): "Brothers and sisters, stop thinking like children. In regard to malice be infants, but in your thinking be adults." Meaning: Believers should strive to be innocent of plotting evil, holding grudges, or engaging in malicious behavior, much like an infant who is incapable of such things. It calls for purity of heart and intention.
Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com My media channels all go to Garth Heckman Who can you trust more than anyone? I have to say I can trust my Father and Mother more than anyone else in the world… more than my wife, kids, best friend… why? They have the longest track record with me… They have impeccable trust with me for almost 59 years and 10 months.. by the way, thats how old I am. Who can you trust more than anyone else in the world… some might say themselves… but thats not true because if you say you believe in Christ… and you don't always follow him, then you can't trust yourself… but what happens when you don't live a life of trust and integrity? ITS A FALL OUT! Gen. 27 15 Then she took Esau's favorite clothes, which were there in the house, and gave them to her younger son, Jacob. 16 She covered his arms and the smooth part of his neck with the skin of the young goats. 17 Then she gave Jacob the delicious meal, including freshly baked bread. We see right now every person in this story right now is revealed as a deception… none of them trusted one another and worse they did not trust God! The Gucci's - The Joneses, The Smiths, *If you don't trust God to lead your family you are telling them not to trust you as the Father or Mother. Remember the quote I use all the time when I was racing my kids. If you tell the truth all the time I will trust you all the time… If you tell me the truth just some of the time I can only trust you….. NEVER. Hey whoever you are out there. If your inner circle wether its your wife, husband, kids, co-workers or just your close friends… if they see you truly trying to hear God and trust him and do his will they will immense trust in you and immense respect for you.- even if you fail a few times at hearing his voice. Isaac does not trust God… and it rubs off on his wife. Now Rebekah does not trust God… and it rubs off on her boys… so now Esau and Jacob don't trust God… but what is worse is becasue of that - none of them trust God. What a terrible family to live in… a family where no one trusts each other or God.
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The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@gmail.com Garth Heckman There is no chance, favor, haphazardness, specialness, calling, blessing, or deserving of a Godly life. What do I mean. When you look at someone who is Godly, has a solid marriage, financially secure, Godly kids and grandkids, They have Godly character, integrity and values… they ooze the presence of the Holy Spirit… no matter what hits them they just handle it like a boss, like an unmovable mountain of faith… they stay focused and locked in no matter what.. This doesn't just happen… you don't earn it, you are not born with it, you are not favored any more than anyone else. So how does one become a great guitar player… wait what? Or how about a great investor? Or how does one become a great writer? How does one become a master carpenter? You have a simple formula… Time, training, Test… TIME You have to spend time in that field… You don't just become a great artist because you choose to do it and that day… boom its you. Or guitar player or writer, or investor or MAN OF GOD. You have to put in the time. What does "10,000-hour rule," popularized by Malcolm Gladwell in his book Outliers, suggests that 10,000 hours of practice are needed to achieve mastery in any field. Training is fundamental. If you spend 10,000 hours learning under bad training or teaching it don't matter… you will still not achieve your best. I want to become a great preacher, speaker, communicator. So I write pages every week. I study great speakers and orators. I study great comedians and their delivery. I study the etymology behind my words. I train, I study, I work. I grade my talks, sermons, speeches etc… I hope I am harder on me than anyone else. And I ask others to rate my level of training. Finally I know you have to be tested. Now here is the kicker.. you have to find ways to test yourself. You have to put yourself in areas where you are pushed. If you are a writer, you hadn't in your material to publishers, you have people read it, you have other authors critique it. If you are an investor you put your own money in the market after your time and training. If you are an artist you see what your work will sell for? There are always opportunities to test your abilities. So back to becoming a man of God… Time, training and testing… How much time are you in the word of God, at church involved in ministries, in prayer, in small groups, in accountability groups. How much training teaching and learning are you doing. Is it quality training and teaching. Is it from a qualified instructor, pastor, teacher. Are you going to a church that challenges you to learn and not just tickle your ears. Sometimes we don't put ourselves around those who will push us, expect more from us. And finally test. Test your faith by sharing your faith. Sharing your opinions from a biblical perspective. Evangelism, prayer for the lost in the open market, on the street etc… Making the right decision when its tough, confessing your sins when its uncomfortable, being the head of the household and a godly husband, tithing and even giving above and beyond when you don't feel like you have it.
Garth Heckman TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com The David Alliance What are the marks of a man in history? Across the globe, various cultures have developed unique and often intense rituals to mark a young male's transition into manhood. These rites of passage serve to test physical and mental fortitude, impart cultural knowledge, and solidify the individual's place within the community. Here are a few examples: Amazonian Tribes (e.g., Sateré-Mawé): A particularly grueling ritual involves the "bullet ant glove." Young men must wear gloves filled with hundreds of highly venomous bullet ants, enduring excruciating pain to demonstrate their strength and resilience. Ethiopian Tribes (e.g., Hamar): The "bull-jumping" ceremony requires young men to leap across the backs of several cattle, proving their agility and courage. Pacific Islands (e.g., Vanuatu): "Land diving" involves young men jumping from tall wooden towers with vines tied to their ankles, a dangerous feat that tests their bravery. Australian Aboriginal Cultures: "Walkabout" is a traditional journey where young men venture into the wilderness for extended periods, learning survival skills and cultural knowledge. Various African Cultures: Circumcision rituals are common, symbolizing the transition from boyhood to manhood. There are also many cultures that have rituals that include periods of isolation, where the young men are taught the traditional laws, and history of their people. Jewish Culture: The Bar Mitzvah, at age 13, marks a young man's religious coming-of-age, signifying his responsibility to observe Jewish law. These rituals often involve: Physical endurance: Tests of strength, pain tolerance, and survival skills. Spiritual or ceremonial elements: Rituals that connect the individual to their cultural heritage and beliefs. Community recognition: Public ceremonies that acknowledge the young man's new status within the group. Instruction and knowledge transfer: Older men imparting essential skills and cultural wisdom to the initiates. It's important to approach these cultural practices with respect and understanding, recognizing their significance within their respective communities. What are my three marks of a man in todays world? Here are the three I think are relevant for your society. Save your virginity until marriage Serve others as a lifestyle Evangelize the lost - tell others about Jesus Why these three? They do three things… Evangelism: It challenges you to learn. You must learn scripture, learn how to read people. Learn how to share the gospel with differing people, belief systems and environments. Learn how to answer questions that have a biblical backing, loving in nature and make God look good. And how to hear the voice of the Holy Spirit. Servanthood. It challenges you to live outside your world and the worlds view (its all about me - its all about what my eyes want, my soul wants, my appetites want, what my pride wants… servanthood crushes that) One should monthly - and honestly more than once a month… but you should be serving in a capacity where you help others less fortunate than you. There are dozens of areas… food pantry, boys club, Prison ministry, Tutor kids, babysit for single parents, visit a nursing home, Go hand out sandwiches to the homeless, help your church in some serving role, houses for humanity, work at a pet shelter… And part of serving is giving your money and not just your time. They challenge you to learn discipline and reliance on the Holy Spirit to tame your most powerful, lustful and fleshly desires. If you can't tame your sex drive you will never fully be able to serve God with all your heart. It is the proving ground of truly wanting to be a man of God - more than evangelism and servanthood. If a girl/woman wants to marry a Christian man and he cannot handle is sex drive than he is simply confessing through his actions that his fleshly desires are more important than God and his word.
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Navigating friendships can be complex, and sometimes, it becomes clear that a particular friendship isn't sustainable. Here are five warning signs that a friendship might not work out: Consistent One-Sidedness: If you consistently feel like you're the one putting in all the effort—initiating contact, planning activities, or providing emotional support—it's a red flag. Healthy friendships involve reciprocity. Lack of Mutual Respect: Disrespect can manifest in various ways, such as belittling your opinions, dismissing your feelings, or disregarding your boundaries. If you feel consistently undervalued or disrespected, the friendship is likely to be damaging. Frequent Drama or Toxicity: While occasional disagreements are normal, constant drama, negativity, or toxic behavior can drain your energy and well-being. If the friendship consistently creates more stress than joy, it's a significant warning sign. Erosion of Trust: Trust is fundamental to any strong friendship. If your trust has been repeatedly broken through lies, betrayals, or breaches of confidence, it's difficult to maintain a healthy connection. Feeling Worse After Interactions: Ideally, spending time with friends should leave you feeling uplifted or supported. If you consistently feel drained, anxious, or negative after interacting with this person, it's a sign that the friendship is having a detrimental impact on your emotional health. My three closest Best friends… and I believe you can really only have 1 best friend… but that is debatable- however I don't think you can have more than three from what I see in scripture… anywhoooo Here are three common denominators in these relationships We don't have to talk all the time… we may go weeks, but we can easily pick up from where we left off. The trust and the friendship is long and trusted so much so that nobody ever panics… did I do something wrong… he hasn't texted or talked to me in weeks…. However we rarely go weeks without communicating. 2nd We are brutally honest… and it does not affect our friendships whatsoever - in the least. Bike trip… what you said was right, how you said it made you look like a butthole… 3rd and I truly believe this is a huge one. We all have the same sense of humor… yes ours is twisted, and would probably offend some…maybe quite a few, but that is a bond that is unbreakable… and it gets us through the tough times with each other. When I am ready to punch babies in the face they will crack me up many times at my own expense and I love it. It keeps me grounded. If you saw our texts you would think we were in Junior high…
Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com 19) A. The Three Visitors: Three men appear to Abraham near the oaks of Mamre. They announce that Sarah will have a son. Sarah laughs at the announcement. NOT MUCH IS SAID OF SARAHS FAITH… SHE ACTUALLY HAS NO FAITH OF HER OWN! B. Isaac's Birth: Sarah conceives and bears Isaac. Abraham is 100 years old. She is a woman full of doubt… BUT GOD HONORS HIS WORD SARAH She is a woman full of doubt. GOD CAN MOVE ANYWAY! Faith feeds the invisible (so does fear) Hebrews 11:11 By faith even Sarah herself received ability to conceive, even beyond the proper time of life, since she considered Him faithful who had promised. v. 11 A dative of accompaniment She received faith… i.e. by faith of Abraham she received the gift of a son. It was not Sarahs faith it was Abrahams faith that got her pregnant. You don't have to believe… I will believe for you! YOUR SPOUSE DOES NOT HAVE TO BELIEVE YOUR PARENTS, YOUR KIDS, YOUR PASTOR YOUR BOSS - IT DOES NOT MATTER IF YOU BELIEVE!
Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com Abe is the father of our faith Galatians 3:6 In the same way, “Abraham believed God, and God counted him as righteous because of his faith.” 7 The real children of Abraham, then, are those who put their faith in God. 8 What's more, the Scriptures looked forward to this time when God would make the Gentiles right in his sight because of their faith. God proclaimed this good news to Abraham long ago when he said, “All nations will be blessed through you.” 9 So all who put their faith in Christ share the same blessing Abraham received because of his faith. Detailed outline of Abraham's life as described in the Bible, primarily in the Book of Genesis: I. Early Life and Call (Genesis 11:26-12:9) C. The Divine Call: God commands Abram to leave his country, His family, and father's house. *God must have shown up in a major way for Abraham to just leave. He was the father of our Faith. He practiced great faith with no history or foundation in who God was. 7 promises give to Abraham by God -1 I will make your descendants/nation a great nation AND HE PROMISES HIM TO BE A GREAT NATION… NATIONS ARE DEFINED BY A PEOPLE WHO SHARE A HISTORY, HAVE TERRITORIAL BOUNDARIES, and led by one government. -2 I will bless you -3 I will make your name great -4 I will make you a blessing to others -5 I will bless those that bless you -6 I will curse those who curse you -7 Through you people from every nation on the earth will be blessed. Abrahams father died in Haran…. And now… D. Journey to Canaan: Abram, Sarai, and Lot depart from Haran. Abram is 75 years old. They travel to Shechem in Canaan. God appears to Abram, promising the land to his offspring. Abram builds an altar to the Lord. Abram moves to Bethel and then continues to the Negev. II. Sojourn in Egypt and Return (Genesis 12:10-13:18)
Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@gmail.com II. Sojourn in Egypt and Return (Genesis 12:10-13:18) A. Famine in Canaan: A famine forces Abram to go to Egypt. B. Sarai's Deception: Abram fears the Egyptians will kill him for Sarai, who is beautiful. They agree that Sarai will say she is Abram's sister…. SHE TECHNICALLY IS HIS HALF SISTER… SAME FATHER. Pharaoh takes Sarai into his house. God plagues Pharaoh's house. Pharaoh discovers the deception and sends Abram away with Sarai. C. Return to Canaan: Abram returns to Bethel with Lot. Abram is now very wealthy.
TDA The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com Garth Heckman Title: Created to Be You: Embracing God's Design Introduction: Begin by acknowledging that in today's world, there's a lot of pressure to conform, to fit into certain molds. But what does God's Word say about our individuality? Ask the group: "Have you ever felt pressure to be someone you're not? Where does that pressure come from?" Scripture Readings: Psalm 139:13-16: "For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place, when I was woven together in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be." Discussion points: What does it mean to be "fearfully and wonderfully made"? How does this passage emphasize God's intentionality in creating each of us? How does the fact that God saw your "unformed body" and ordained your days, indicate his personal involvement in our lives? Genesis 1:27: "So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them." I have learned early on if I am singing a song that I wrote… don't worry about how my voice lines up to anyone else's… Do you think Bob Dylan, Tom Petty, Kim Carnes, Ronnie James Dio, Louis Armstrong, Tom Waits, Stephen Pearcy… I could go on and on… do you think they wished they sounded like Adelle? NOT a chance, they would not be famous right now… they are themselves and famous because of it. If I preach a sermon… I have many times wished I could preach like other pastors and communicators… their set up, their delivery, their insight, their knowledge beyond scripture… WOW… but I have learned I am always at my best when I am just me. Discussion points: What does it mean to be created "in God's image”? IT TRULY MEANS TO BE WHO HE CREATED YOU TO BE. How does this verse establish our inherent worth and dignity? How does this verse indicate that all humans have value, and are created uniquely? 1 Corinthians 12:12-27: This passage speaks of the body of Christ, with each member having a unique and vital function. Discussion points: How does this analogy illustrate the importance of our individual gifts and contributions? How does this passage encourage us to value our differences and recognize our interdependence? How does this apply to our individual personalities, and giftings? Romans 12:2: "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will." Discussion points: What does it mean to "not conform to the pattern of this world"? How does the renewing of our minds help us embrace our true selves? How does knowing God's will relate to being our authentic selves? Key Takeaways: God's intentional design: God created each of us with unique gifts, talents, and personalities. Value in individuality: Our differences are not flaws but essential parts of God's plan. Freedom from conformity: We are called to live authentically, not to imitate the world's standards. God's image: Each person bears the image of God, therefore each person has great value. The body of Christ: Our individual uniqueness is vital to the body of Christ. Application: Encourage participants to reflect on their own unique qualities and how they can use them to serve God and others. Discuss practical ways to resist the pressure to conform and embrace their true selves. Pray for the group, that they may find the strength to be whom God created them to be. Closing: Remind everyone that God loves them unconditionally and celebrates their individuality. Encourage them to walk in confidence, knowing that they are fearfully and wonderfully made
The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com Garth Heckman - When God wants to do something new, Certain things seem to happen: * We are ready but we still have to wait - 7 days on the ark with no rain, after God shut them in. * People we love do not go with us on our journey A spouse loses weight and starts to work out… but their significant other does not want to… You become completely sold out on Christ… but your friends, your spouse, your kids don't want to come along. ** many times everything has to go… even seemingly good things. God can use destruction, loss and death (as confusing as it is) to bring you new life, new direction and a new understanding of who he is. Nature will use fires to destroy a few thousand acres of forest… but it ultimately brings greater growth. *We may not understand the the process (build a boat… whats a boat?), the answer (fill it with animals) or the outcome… but trust God anyway. - When they started all over Noah and his family had the same set up as Adam… and yet man still fell into darkness and messed up… fresh starts do not mean a different out come without the cross of Jesus Christ.
The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com Garth Heckman We judge others… it is natural, it is sometimes needed, but in a SINFUL WORLD may we have the eyes and heart of Noah. He saw where people were at… What if you had glasses you could put on and you put them on after making a judgement call. OVER A BILLION PEOPLE DIED… ALL LIFE ON EARTH DIED… NOAH WAS HEART BROKEN. - Noah was in a evil wicked sinful world. Debauchery, sexual deviancy, witchcraft… and yet he was a preacher of righteousness. 2 Peter 2:5 MY PHONE CALL THIS WEEK: on a scale of one to ten, 1 you are going to hell. 10 you are going to heaven… where are you? We judge others… it is natural, it is sometimes needed, but in a SINFUL WORLD may we have the eyes and heart of Noah. He saw where people were at… What if you had glasses you could put on and you put them on after making a judgement call. OVER A BILLION PEOPLE DIED… ALL LIFE ON EARTH DIED… NOAH WAS HEART BROKEN.
The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com Garth Heckman What was your hardest goodbye? Chpt. 7 come into the Ark. * God is there…. And Noah doesn't want to see people perish… God must call him in and God must shut the door. **God knows who has rejected him, who will not come to him… God judges, God shuts the door. It is not up to us to shut the door. Gary Palermo - Night of a revival… says to family “tonight is the last night you will have to accept Jesus”. That night they were in a horrific car accident and all died.
TDA The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com Garth Heckman Commercial #1 for Garth consideration If you believe that the only hope for God's world is a Great Awakening could you please check out our website Collective Prayer Network (.org). As God puts it on your heart, can you pray for a Great Awakening. It could be a couple of minutes a day, a week, or He may ask you to skip a meal and pray. Pray the rosary. Whatever God tells you, can you obey? Thank you and together can we as God's children Bless God. (Boston Accent 23 seconds) There are two types of people in this world… those who love authority and those who love having authority over them… and those who love authority that can be manipulated… and those who manipulate authority to look like they don't have authority… and wait… what? What is the most authority you have ever been given? As a Valet in Dallas I was asked once to not park cars (we had a pretty big crew) and rather than park cars… I ran security at the door for the club we were at… it was definitely a test in integrity. No one gets in… unless they have a C note, no one gets in unless they are bigger than you and are intimidating, no one gets in unless she and her friends are absolutely dropped gorgeous…. Adam was given the order to Reign… he was the bouncer of the garden of eden. He was over creation… naming it, running it, multiplying it… he was the authority… But When he sinned he covered himself up with that which he was supposed to be over. Gen. 3 Adam goes from having all power and authority over all of creation to covering himself up with that which he was supposed to be over. Adam and Eve and cover themselves… they cover up their identity/power… and they hide under the trees… they submit to the worlds power… we are under the worlds power, covered in the worlds authority not ours. How many people Xn and non Xn cover themselves up with creation… they hide under cars, houses, makeup, push up bras, hobbies, money, Worldly causes, jobs, positions, trophies, accolades, popularity, clothes, muscles…etc… And their authority is set under who the world says they are. You are BLM supporter, you are democrat, you are a republican, a tree hugger, you are an anti Vaxer, you are a pro gun nut… right or wrong, good or bad… you choose to follow the worlds power and authority then to choose to be over it… meaning, I first go by what the Bible says and not media or my flesh or my emotions. You are called to be the authority in this world through Christ. He has given you his power and authority BUT>>> you choose to lay it down and submit to the worlds power and authority? Which Adam has dominion over your life? The sinful nature passed on through the first, or the new life offered by the last?
TDA The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com Garth Heckman If you believe that the only hope for God's world is a Great Awakening could you please check out our website Collective Prayer Network (.org). As God puts it on your heart, can you pray for a Great Awakening. It could be a couple of minutes a day, a week, or He may ask you to skip a meal and pray. Pray the rosary. Whatever God tells you, can you obey? Thank you and together can we as God's children Bless God. I always used to ask this trivia question to teenagers as a youth pastor… Did Adam have a bellybutton? But guess what… it's not funny anymore becasue I no longer have a bellybutton… true story… What was his job? Rule Ever name your child? - thats fun… My name was to be “DANAE” By naming the animals he was using his authority and his dominion and understanding of Gods creation. Adam's role in naming the animals is part of his identity and purpose. He was fulfilling his role as a man in right standing with God. By naming the animals, Adam exercises authority, reflecting the order God established in creation. Naming the animal was giving the job description. So satan does what?…. Sermon on Adam Adam was given the task of naming things and being over them but what happened he started to listen to Satan naming him and naming Eve. Satan said no this is who you are. This is who God says you are. This is what will happen. Once he allows Satan to name him, he fell into sin and deception. And then hid himself under creation rather than being over it.
TDA The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com Garth Heckman If you believe that the only hope for God's world is a Great Awakening could you please check out our website Collective Prayer Network (.org). As God puts it on your heart, can you pray for a Great Awakening. It could be a couple of minutes a day, a week, or He may ask you to skip a meal and pray. Pray the rosary. Whatever God tells you, can you obey? Thank you and together can we as God's children Bless God. (Boston Accent 23 seconds) When God made the earth and everything in it - it is described specifically that We made Adam in OUR image. Father, Son and Holy Spirit. SO IN THE GARDEN- * Adam knew God as his creator… like a baby knows its mother… this was my creator. ** Adam knew Jesus in the sense that his body was the same body that Jesus had. God did not send his son down looking like Adam, Adam was created to look like Jesus in human form. So Adam knew Jesus in that this is how God would look if living on the earth. ** ** And finally Adam knew God because the spirit of Life (the Holy Spirit) was breathed into him. Adam embodied the Father, son and Holy Spirit in the Garden of eden. Then Sin entered the world and he was separated from God in all three ways. ** Adam was separated from God the father due to sin (blood was shed to clothe them- first sacrifice) ** ** He was separated from Jesus Body… sin would now cause decay, death and disease. ** - **He was separated from the Spirit of God living in him… not until pentecost do we see this again. What does this tell us about Adam - He was created in perfect union with Father Son and HS. - Sin entered the world But Christ came to provide that union again. AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN - God is proving that he wants to have an intimate relationship with you.
The David Alliance TDAGiantSlayer@Gmail.com Garth Heckman How bad did you want a relationship with your spouse? I eyed her up during the whole service. I invited her to Youth group. I ran out to the parking lot to ask her on a date… I lied - THEN I broke up with my GF I would drive 45 mn to pick her up… I would go weeks with just 2-3 hours of sleep a night I spent 1400 on her for our first Christmas …I was all in - I had to have this woman as my wife! God wanted to have a relationship with us so bad, - he created us to do it. - Then once we blew it, he sent his son to die so that it could be restored! - on top of that he provided a way so that we could be with him FOREVER. Gods intent, work and provision is amazing - There is no doubt, he wants to know us!
TDA The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com Garth Heckman Romans 5 1 Therefore, since we have been made right in God's sight by faith, we have peace with God (so things should be good now… we got peace - Right?) because of what Jesus Christ our Lord has done for us. 2 Because of our faith, Christ has brought us into this place of undeserved privilege where we now stand, and we confidently and joyfully look forward to sharing God's glory. 3 We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. 4 And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation. 5 And this hope will not lead to disappointment. For we know how dearly God loves us, because he has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with his love. In 1983, Australia hosted its ultramarathon, a 573.7 mile foot race from Sydney to Melbourne. This is a race that takes days to run, and professionals from all over the world came to participate. Shortly before the race began, a 61-year-old farmer named Cliff Young, wearing overalls and goulashes over his boots, walked up to the registration table and requested a number to enter the race. The people at the registration table thought it was a joke—that somebody was setting them up—so they laughed. But Cliff Young said, "No, I'd really like to run." So they gave him a number and pinned it on his old overalls. Cliff Young walked over to the start of the race. All the other professional runners, who were decked out in all their running regalia, looked at him like he was crazy. The crowd snickered. They laughed even more when the gun went off and the race began, because all those professional runners had sculpted bodies and beautiful strides, but not Cliff Young. He didn't even run like a runner. Cliff Young ran with an awkward, goofy-looking shuffle. All through the crowd people were laughing, and finally, someone called out, "Get that old fool off the track!" Five days, 14 hours, and four minutes later, at 1:25 in the morning, Cliff Young shuffled across the finish line of the 573.7 mile ultramarathon. He had won the race. And he didn't win by a matter of minutes or even an hour or two. The second place runner was nine hours and 56 minutes behind him. Cliff Young had set a new world record for the ultramarathon. The press mobbed him wondering what kind of special running shoes he must have had, and they rummaged through his backpack wondering what he'd survived on—he'd lived primarily on pumpkin seeds and water—and then they discovered the secret to his success: - HE NEVER STOPPED RUNNING! Cliff Young had shuffled his way to victory without ever sleeping. The other runners would run for 18 hours straight, and then stop and sleep for three or four hours. He endured running five days, 14 hours, and four minutes at the age of 61. Perseverance "And the perpetual impulse forward always falls back again to gather new strength. The fall is brutal, but we set out again." Albert Camus 1954 Query successful Try again without extensions Here are some verses about perseverance in the Bible: Matthew 10:22 (NIV): "You will be hated by everyone because of my name, but the one who perseveres to the end will be saved.” They will ask: WHY WOULD YOU PERSEVERE FOR CHRIST? - THEY WILL BE MAD, ASHAMED, CONVICTED 2 Corinthians 12:10 (NIV): "Therefore, I am content with weaknesses, with insults, with hardships, with persecutions, and with difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” PAUL STATES THESE HARDSHIPS BRING WEAKNESS AND THEN GOD TAKES OVER… LIFEGUARD WAITING TILL THE GUY GOES UNDER A 3RD TIME - JUST WAITING FOR THE FIGHT TO GET OUT OF HIM. Hebrews 12:11 (NIV): "No discipline is enjoyable while it is happening—it's always painful. But afterward, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace.” HARVEST - Perseverance while going through it seems like a lot of manure… the harvest is worth it. James 1:2-4 (NIV): "Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of various kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything." TRIALS OF VARIOUS KINDS - GK GREATLY DIVERSE GROWING IN INTENSITY. I.E. HOW MUCH GREATER IS YOUR MARRIAGE GOING THROUGH THE TRIALS IN TODAYS WORLD THEN IN 1920?
TDA The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com Garth Heckman Romans 5 1 Therefore, since we have been made right in God's sight by faith, we have peace with God (so things should be good now… we got peace - Right?) because of what Jesus Christ our Lord has done for us. 2 Because of our faith, Christ has brought us into this place of undeserved privilege where we now stand, and we confidently and joyfully look forward to sharing God's glory. 3 We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. 4 And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation. 5 And this hope will not lead to disappointment. For we know how dearly God loves us, because he has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with his love. Patience/Perseverance = "In the 1976 Olympics in Montreal, a Japanese gymnast, Shun Fujimoro, was competing in the team competition. Somehow. during the floor exercises, he broke his right knee. His mindset was not that I came to compete, nor was it that I came to win… it was I came to complete or what I would add persevere until I am done. I came to prove myself… NO SLEEPING - STAY AWAKE - RUN FOR THE PRIZE 2 Tim. 2:3 Endure suffering along with me, as a good soldier of Christ Jesus. 4 Soldiers don't get tied up in the affairs of civilian life, for then they cannot please the officer who enlisted them. 5 And athletes cannot win the prize unless they follow the rules. 6 And hardworking farmers should be the first to enjoy the fruit of their labor. Paul uses 3 individuals in regards to serving God… but ask yourself what do they have to persevere against? Farmer has to persevere elements of the world Warrior persevere over others Athlete must persevere over himself