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In this episode of Tactical Living, we delve into the critical skill of de-escalation (Amazon Associate) for first responders. Effectively managing high-tension situations not only ensures the safety of all involved but also fosters trust within the community. We explore five practical de-escalation techniques, providing real-world examples to illustrate their application. For a comprehensive guide on de-escalation techniques, consider reading De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less by Douglas E. Noll. This book offers practical strategies grounded in neuroscience to effectively manage and defuse tense situations. Active Listening: Explanation: Demonstrating genuine attention to the individual's concerns can defuse tension. Example: An officer responds to a domestic dispute and allows each party to express their grievances without interruption, acknowledging their feelings and summarizing their points to show understanding. Empathy and Validation: Explanation: Recognizing and affirming the individual's emotions can reduce hostility. Example: During a protest, an officer approaches a distressed demonstrator, saying, I see you're upset about the situation; it's important to have your voice heard. Calm and Non-Threatening Demeanor: Explanation: Maintaining a composed and approachable presence can prevent escalation. Example: In a heated argument at a public event, an officer keeps a relaxed posture, speaks softly, and avoids aggressive body language, helping to soothe the agitated individuals. Clear and Respectful Communication: Explanation: Using simple, respectful language ensures clarity and reduces misunderstandings. Example: When directing a non-compliant individual, an officer calmly states, Sir, for everyone's safety, please step back onto the sidewalk. Offering Choices and Alternatives: Explanation: Providing options empowers individuals and can lead to voluntary compliance. Example: Facing a trespasser refusing to leave, an officer offers, You can exit through the front door, or I can escort you out through the side—it's your choice. Mastering de-escalation techniques is essential for first responders aiming to resolve conflicts peacefully and maintain public trust. By actively listening, showing empathy, maintaining a calm demeanor, communicating clearly, and offering choices, officers can effectively manage volatile situations. Implementing these strategies not only enhances safety but also strengthens community relations.   Secure your firearm with my buy one get one free affiliate code from STOPBOX http://stopboxusa.com/LEOWARRIORS All viewpoints discussed in this episode are for entertainment purposes only and are simply our opinions based off of our own experience, background and education. Want to be a guest on Tactical Living? Send Ashlie Walton a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/1594754484675x841981803913560400 #policepodcast #policeofficer #leowarriors #thinbluelineusa #firstresponder #lawenforcementpodcast #LawEnforcement #LEOWarriors #training   ⩥ PLEASE SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL ⩤ https://geni.us/wAtlvPu     CLICK HERE for Amazon's Today's Deals on TACTICAL GEAR: https://geni.us/KmvaOVM (Affiliate Link) (Ad) Some product links are affiliate links which means if you buy something by clicking on one of our links, we'll receive a small commission.   CLICK HERE to join our free Police, Fire, Military and Families Facebook Group: https://geni.us/YM5tsB   Check out our website and learn more about how you can work with LEO Warriors by going to: https://www.leowarriors.com/   Like what you hear? We are honored. Drop a review and subscribe to our show.    The Tactical Living Podcast is owned by LEO Warriors, LLC. None of the content presented may be copied, repurposed or used without the owner's prior consent.   For PR, speaking requests and other networking opportunities, contact LEO Warriors: EMAIL: ashliewalton555@gmail.com. ADDRESS: P.O. Box 400115 Hesperia, Ca. 92340 ASHLIE'S FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/police.fire.lawenforcement   ➤➤➤➤➤➤➤➤➤➤➤➤➤➤➤➤➤➤ This episode is NOT sponsored.   

In this episode, Doug Noll and I discuss the pain he endured as a child having been born with several disabilities and how he struggled through school until a teacher discovered he could barely see… Doug's life story is one of overcoming, not succumbing to challenges he was faced with… sharing his experience with emotional wounding and deep grief. Doug has taken his experiences and molded them with his purpose for peace. Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become a peacemaker. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. He is an award-winning author, teacher, trainer, and a highly experienced mediator. Doug's work carries him from international work to helping people resolve deep interpersonal and ideological conflicts to training life inmates to be peacemakers and mediators in maximum-security prisons. His fourth book, De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less, was published by Beyond Word Publishing in September of 2017. De-Escalate is now in four languages and its second printing. He is the co-founder of Prison of Peace, and creator of the Noll Affect Labeling System. In 2012, Doug was honored by California Lawyer Magazine as California Attorney of the Year.   I am your host, Marci Nettles. I have had a lifetime of opportunities where I had the choice to Breakdown or Breakthrough. It is my hope this Podcast may become your light in the darkness, as you listen to the stories of people I consider “heroes.” Each one had a point where they too had to choose to either Breakdown or Breakthrough! Working from home, with my husband/business partner, helping people around the world find new levels of success in their health and wellness, is part of what makes me tick! If you are open to opportunity, let's connect!    Thank you for listening! Please connect with Doug: DougNoll.com Purchase Doug's Book here: MarciNettles.com/books   Find Marci at marcinettles(.)com Don't forget to claim your FREEBIE from Doug by going to Marcinettles.com/freebies  

Do you dread your teen's emotional outbursts? Is it difficult to calm them down once they get riled up? Do you want to end the exhausting fights and power struggles? Then this episode is for you. In this episode, Dr. Cam is joined by Lawyer-Turned-Peacemaker, Douglas E. Noll. Doug is the co-founder of Prison of Peace, author of several books including De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less, and the creator of the Noll Affect Labeling System. He currently trains inmates in maximum-security prisons to be peacemakers and mediators.  Douglas is going to teach us how to use his method with our teenagers so we can have some peace at home once and for all.    Resources Mentioned in This Episode FREE eBOOK: How to Listen Others Into Existence  FREE Guide: Dr. Cam's 10 Pro Tips for Raising Teens   Thanks for Listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others would appreciate the guidance and encouragement, please take a quick moment to rate and review. Reviews from my listeners are extremely valuable and greatly appreciated. Review on iTunes.   Subscribe to the Podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on iTunes, YouTube, Google, Spotify. You can also subscribe from the podcast app on your mobile device or listen LIVE in my Private Facebook Group.

In this episode we are speaking with Lawyer-Turned-Peacemaker, Author, Speaker, Trainer, Visionary, Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA.  Doug left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become a peacemaker. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. He is an award-winning author, teacher, trainer, and a highly experienced mediator. Doug's work carries him from international work to helping people resolve deep interpersonal and ideological conflicts to training life inmates to be peacemakers and mediators in maximum-security prisons. In this episode we discuss: 1) Doug is the epitome of the purpose of this show and he shares his story of overcoming many challenges in his life including being born nearly deaf, nearly blind, crippled with two club feet and left handed. At an early age he decided to overcome and not let these disabilities define him. Doug is a lawyer-turned-peacemaker, best-selling author of four books, speaker, visionary, and teacher. He is the co-founder of Prison of Peace (www.prisonofpeace.org), training murderers in maximum security prisons how to be peacemakers and mediators in their prison communities. 2) Doug teaches people how to use their emotions as part of their hidden genius. One of the ways Doug does this is by teaching people how to listen to others.  In this episode you will learn a super power, how to listen others into existence, which will transform their lives and their businesses. Connect with Doug Email: doug@dougnoll.comWebsite: https://dougnoll.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DouglasNoll LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dougnoll/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/douglasenoll/ Twitter:  https://twitter.com/dougnollDN YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtAHXdBT1Y0Pl7SGrM_HcFw EC YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLMgSgzfVqHdriHEN3MiIKA Pinterest:  www.pinterest.com/b990204361f85f4a8ac1a25a9a0920. Here is a link to Doug's site as well as access to some of his resources, https://dougnoll.co/marshavanw This will be a page for your audience that gives them a free e-book on the skills we will talk about, a link to my book, and links to some of my online courses. Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, Author, Speaker, Podcaster Marsha is the 6-time Bestselling Author of “When She Stopped Asking Why”.  She shares her lessons as a parent who dealt with teen substance abuse far past the level of normal experimentation. Through her programs, coaching and live events for women, Marsha is on a mission to teach you how to “Own Your Choices” in your own life.  She teaches women how to own their stories, lead themselves and pay it forward to others by creating businesses that serve, support and impact others

Douglas E. Noll is an award-winning lawyer-mediator who has mediated thousands of conflicts. His calling is to serve humanity by focusing on helping people resolve deep interpersonal and ideological conflicts. He is an award-winning author of three books, a teacher, speaker, and a trainer. His fourth book De-Escalate was published by Beyond Word's Publishing in September of 2017. De-Escalate is now in four languages and in its second printing. He is the co-founder of Prison of Peace, and creator of the Noll Affect Labeling System. In 2012, he was honored by California Lawyer Magazine as California Attorney of the Year. Learn more about Doug below: https://dougnoll.co/dylan Want to learn more about Dylan or book a session, check out his website: www.dylansessler.com ____________________________________________ Socials: Email: invictus.dev.grp@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dylan_sessler/ Tik Tok: https://tiktok.com/@dylan_sessler Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dylansessler LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dylan-sessler-69a29b19a/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/Dylan_J_Sessler --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

In this episode, Doug Noll, lawyer turned peacemaker, talks about his story going from being a lawyer to a peacemaker. He also discusses the Prison of Peace Project and the concept of "listening others into existence". Additionally, he goes into detail on the teachings of his book De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less. Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA is an award-winning author, speaker, and trainer. After 22 years as a trial lawyer, he became a peacemaker and mediator. Today, he helps people solve deep and intractable conflicts and teaches others to do what he does. Mr. Noll is an adjunct professor of law at the Pepperdine School of Law Straus Institute where he teaches Decision Making Under Uncertainty Conflict and is also the co-founder of the award-winning Prison of Peace Project, in which he teaches murderers in maximum security prisons to be peacemakers and mediators. He has trained mediators and leaders in Europe, the Middle East, and Asia in his innovative peacemaking and mediation processes. He has personally mediated over 1,500 disputes, including sexual abuse cases in the Catholic Church and criminal victim-offender cases. On a personal note, he is a jazz violinist, aircraft and helicopter pilot, ski instructor, 2nd degree black belt, tai chi master, and whitewater rafter. He lives with his wife Aleya Dao in the foothills of the central Sierra Nevada south of Yosemite National Park. Find Doug: Website: dougnoll.com LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/dougnoll/ Facebook: facebook.com/DouglasNoll Youtube: youtube.com/channel/UCtAHXdBT1Y0Pl7SGrM_HcFw

In this episode DJ sat down with previous trial lawyer, now peacemaker and award-winning author, Doug Noll to discuss raising emotionally healthy and competent kids. Listen in as they discuss how human beings are more emotional than rational, that keeping your own emotions in check will help your child feel safe and secure and how you can be a successful emotional coach for your child.Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become a peacemaker. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. He is an award-winning author, teacher, trainer, and a highly experienced mediator. Doug's work carries him from international work to helping people resolve deep interpersonal and ideological conflicts to training life inmates to be peacemakers and mediators in maximum-security prisons. TIMESTAMPS• [6:01] Doug talks about one of his passions is getting parents to stop invalidating their children's emotions, which in his view, is the most insidious and pervasive form of emotional abuse that exists.  • [10:36] “Most of us were brought up to believe that human beings, what separates us from other animals is rationality or ability to reason. That is simply not true. It's a myth.”  • [17:45] “They got there because the parents have the correct skills to teach them emotional competency, by reflecting back their emotions, and by modeling in the adult relationship.”  • [24:51] Doug shares that you have a choice to raise emotionally healthy kids or you can raise emotionally unhealthy kids… It's a simple choice and is a skill you can master in four to six weeks. For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Connect with Us!DJ Stutz - DJ Stutz: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/littleheartsacademy/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleheartsacademy/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQDoug Noll - Website: https://dougnoll.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/doug.noll.52/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLMgSgzfVqHdriHEN3MiIKALinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dougnoll/Special website for Imperfect Heroes podcast listeners: https://www.dougnoll.co/imperfect-heroes

Douglas E. Noll, Esq is an award-winning lawyer-mediator who has mediated thousands of conflicts. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. He is an award-winning author of three books, a teacher, speaker, and a trainer. His fourth book De-Escalate was published by Beyond Word's Publishing in September of […]

Douglas E. Noll, Esq is an award-winning lawyer-mediator who has mediated thousands of conflicts. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. He is an award-winning author of three books, a teacher, speaker, and a trainer. His fourth book De-Escalate was published by Beyond Word's Publishing in September of […] The post Author and Speaker Douglas Noll appeared first on Business RadioX ®.

Ever heard of 'ethic labeling' during a conflict? How do you deescalate a conflict situation in 90 seconds?Douglas E. Noll, J.D., M.A. is a full-time peacemaker and mediator who specializes in difficult and complex conflicts. He speaks about and teaches people how to solve difficult, intractable, and highly emotional problems. He  was a business and commercial trial lawyer for 22 years before turning to leadership development, problem-solving, and peacemaking. Doug is many things to many people. He is a lawyer-turned-peacemaker, mediator, best-selling author, trainer, coach, and speaker. He has worked in places as diverse as maximum security prisons and the U.S. Congressional Budget Office. He is dedicated to helping people de-scalate intense confrontations and teaching others to do what he does.Doug and his team continue to help prisons around the world with conflict resolution through the "Prison of Peace" project, which has stopped violence in those environments. Listen as he shares the strategies for de-escalating a conflict situation within 90 seconds. In addition, you can start applying these strategies daily in order to spread peace around the world.Doug is the author of many books, including his latest bestseller, "Deescalate". In this book, he uses his practical experience of a master mediator and grounded in the latest findings in neuroscience. Doug offers his proven process—to empower you to successfully and efficiently de-escalate an angry person or volatile situation in 90 seconds or less—and how to apply this skill in all areas of life.We live in a more socially polarized time nationally and globally than ever before, as arguments easily flare up, aggression and bullying rises, and lines are drawn over politics, religion, and ideology. De-Escalate provides a new set of social listening and communication skills that solve the problem of what to do with angry, emotional people.The quick and effective techniques detailed in De-Escalate will help anyone dealing with this increase in anger from outside sources or anger in themselves. With simple, easy-to-understand steps, De-Escalate walks you through real-life examples and scenario-based conversations in order to create resolutions, build emotional intelligence, and cultivate empathy and healing. You will learn the tools to master becoming a peacemaker, cultivating ways to co-exist and co-respect others in an increasingly hostile world.Connect with Doug:Website: https://dougnoll.com/podcast/roberta-ndlelaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dougnoll/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/douglasenoll/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DouglasNoll/Twitter: https://twitter.com/dougnollListen to Speaking and Communications Podcast:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/162LHD0FjvU8gKKAQg7lAfApple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-resolve-conflict-in-90-seconds-w-doug-noll/id1614151066?i=1000578809533Additional Resources:"De-escalate" by Douglas E. Noll"Effective Conflict Resolution Techniques And Strategies" w/ Kristine ScottFeel free to reach out on:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/eloquentspeakersclubEmail: roberta4sk@gmail.com

Ever heard of 'ethic labeling'?Douglas E. Noll, J.D., M.A. is a full-time peacemaker and mediator who specializes in difficult and complex conflicts. He speaks about and teaches people how to solve difficult, intractable, and highly emotional problems. He  was a business and commercial trial lawyer for 22 years before turning to leadership development, problem-solving, and peacemaking. Doug and his team continue to help prisons around the world with conflict resolution through the "Prisoners for Peace" project, which has stopped violence in those environments. Listen as he shares the strategies for de-escalating a conflict situation within 90 seconds. In addition, you can start applying these strategies daily in order to spread peace around the world.Connect with Doug:Website: https://dougnoll.com/podcast/roberta-ndlelaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dougnoll/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/douglasenoll/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DouglasNoll/Twitter: https://twitter.com/dougnollYouTube: https://youtu.be/puutfKmDJWkDon't forget to subscribe, give a rating and a review.Feel free to reach out on:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/roberta.ndlelaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachandspeaker/Email: roberta4sk@gmail.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_GzEL5dlnfWw6MTdjYsE7Q/videos

Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become a peacemaker. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. He is an award-winning author, teacher, trainer, and a highly experienced mediator.  Doug's work carries him from international work to helping people resolve deep interpersonal and ideological conflicts to training life inmates to be peacemakers and mediators in maximum-security prisons.  In this episode, we discuss: - Getting bogged down by obligations and taking on too much at one time. - Shifting practicing law from fight-mode into problem-solving into peacemaking. - A broader perspective in peacemaking leads to understanding the human condition than the traditional transactional relationship of the lawyer and client. - Working within the prison systems to find key factors in developing peacemaking programs. Please let me know your thoughts!  Connect with Doug Noll: Website: https://dougnoll.com/  Connect with Cindy Watson: Wesbite: https://watsonlabourlaw.com/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/womenonpurposecommunity/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/WomenOnPurpose1  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/womenonpurposecoaching/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCHOGOsk0bkijtwq8aRrtdA?view_as=subscriber  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Learn more about Doug's basic and advanced Emotional Competency course, the De-Escalate video course, and his book De-Escalate by going to DougNoll.co/biohacks. That link saves you $800 of his Emotional Competency courses.    Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become a peacemaker. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. He is an award-winning author, teacher, trainer, and a highly experienced mediator. Doug's work carries him from international work to helping people resolve deep interpersonal and ideological conflicts to training life inmates to be peacemakers and mediators in maximum-security prisons.Learn more about Doug's basic and advanced Emotional Competency course, the De-Escalate video course, and his book De-Escalate by going to DougNoll.co/biohacks. That link saves you $800 of his Emotional Competency courses.    - Learn more about our one-on-one Biohacker Coaching program www.BiohackerCoaching.com   - Grab your free copy of The Biohacker's Guide to Upgraded Energy and Focus (just help with s/h) https://biohackersguide.com/free-guide   - Subscribe to our free email newsletter www.biohackersguide.com/energycrash    - Subscribe to The Biohacking Secrets Show podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-biohacking-secrets-show/id1139825099   Join Our Uncensored Telegram Channel for VIP Biohacking Content You Can't Get On Social

Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become a peacemaker. An award-winning author, teacher, trainer, and a highly experienced mediator, his calling is to serve humanity through conflict resolution and the understanding of human communication.   In this episode Doug shares effective strategies for recognizing and labeling emotions and using those insights to make the people you interact with feel heard and appreciated.   Talking Points:   How Doug overcame an en extremely difficult childhood including being born nearly blind The vocation of peacemaker and what it entails How our emotional regulation affects our wellbeing The difference between emotional intelligence and emotional competence How to read the emotions of others     Quotes:   “When you learn how to serve others in a meaningful way, that's when your life really changes and becomes happy.” “You can teach people to become emotionally aware faster, by teaching them how to read other people's emotions.” “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but they will never forget how you made them feel.”   Find out more about Doug Noll at: https://dougnoll.co/ng

Thank you, Doug Noll, for being such an inspirational leader and for creating such impact and positive change in the lives of many!  It was an honour to connect with you and learn from you. I am excited about all the future people who have still yet to meet and help!Doug speaks to us about giving, and he teaches us three simple yet effective proven steps to de-escalate any situation in under 90 seconds.  Through his Prison for Peace program, he is changing the lives of life inmates, teaching them to be leaders and bettering the correctional system.  Doug reminds us of the power of listening to emotions and not just words.Meet Doug!Douglas E. Noll, Esq is an award-winning lawyer-mediator who has mediated thousands of conflicts. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. He is an award-winning author of three books, a teacher, a speaker, and a trainer. His fourth book De-Escalate was published by Beyond Word's Publishing in September of 2017. De-Escalate is now in four languages and in its second printing.Doug's work carries him from international work to helping people resolve deep interpersonal and ideological conflicts. He is the co-founder of Prison of Peace and creator of the Noll Affect Labeling System. In 2012, Doug was honoured by California Lawyer Magazine as California Attorney of the Year.Learn more here: https://dougnoll.com.Freebie: http://dougnoll.co/neliaLearn more about your host, Nelia at https://neliahutt.comJoin the Free 5 Day Discover Your Passion Challenge athttps://neliahutt.com/https://www.travellivegive.com. Helping you Discover Inner Peace through Giving!Email your comments, show ideas or connect at hello@neliahutt.comSubscribe to the Podcast YouTube Channel to  watch the videos of the episodes

This week's guest is Douglas E. Noll, lawyer turned peacemaker. Doug was raised in California and left the state to go to Dartmouth where he earned an undergraduate degree in English. In 1974 he returned to California entered law school, eventually graduating with honors.Doug spent 22 years working as a civil trial lawyer, trying over 250 cases during that time! He realized in that time that though the work was interesting, his heart wasn't in it.Concurrently, Doug started studying martial arts and earned a 2nd degree blackbelt in one discipline before moving to Tai Chi at the advice of his teacher. As he explains, it was the teachings of Tai Chi that led him to the epiphany that he needed to do something else…something that would make an impact.You'll hear more in the episode but at nearly 50 years old, Doug quit his job and started a Master's program in Peacemaking and Conflict Studies offered at Fresno Pacific University which he completed. He also became a certified energy healer (panic healing) and arhatic yoga practitioner.Along with Laurel Kaufer, he founded Prison of Peace, a wonderful organisation bringing conflict resolution to the incarcerated as well as others. Hear about it in the episode. Additionally, he is a mediator for private conflicts. Note from Rabiah (Host): I've been really lucky to find guests who exemplify what this podcast is really about. Doug is definitely one of those. I really loved the synchronicity that took place in Doug's story with him asking a question and then receiving an answer that created a whole new path. I won't say more. I'll let Doug do the talking. Enjoy! +++++ Find DougWebsite: https://dougnoll.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dougnoll/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DouglasNoll Twitter: https://twitter.com/dougnoll YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtAHXdBT1Y0Pl7SGrM_HcFw Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/b990204361f85f4a8ac1a25a9a0920 +++++ Mentioned in this episode:Fresno Pacific University: https://www.fresno.edu/graduate/program/peacemaking-and-conflict-studies-ma Pranic Healing: https://www.worldpranichealing.com/John Allman (Caltech): https://www.bbe.caltech.edu/people/john-m-allmanMatthew Lieberman (UCLA): https://www.psych.ucla.edu/faculty-page/lieber/Laurel Kaufer: http://www.kaufermediation.com/ ACEs Study: https://acestoohigh.com/Falling Upward by Richard Rohr: https://amzn.to/3srdZ68

Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become a peacemaker. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. He is an award-winning author, teacher, and trainer. He is a highly experienced mediator. Doug's work carries him from international work to helping people resolve deep interpersonal and ideological conflicts.In today's episode, Doug discusses his work as a mediator and peacemaker, forcing him to confront human emotion straight on. After all, conflict is all about emotion. He discovered how to listen to others into existence. This led him to training inmates serving life sentences on how to be peacemakers in maximum security prisons who then teach his skills to other inmates.Episode Transcripthttps://www.gainthepassion.com/doug-noll-the-transformation-of-inmates-serving-life-sentences-into-peacemakers-mediators-and-trainers/#transcriptFind out more about Doughttps://dougnoll.com/Learn more about Prison of Peacehttps://www.prisonofpeace.org/Purchase Doug's Book "De-Escalate: How to Calm An Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less"https://www.deescalate.dougnoll.com/order-1584980818236966Access the Resources mention in this episodehttps://dougnoll.com/podcast/success-coaching/Find out more about GAIN THE PASSION Coachinghttps://www.gainthepassion.comAccess past episodes and more of the GAIN THE PASSION Podcasthttps://www.gainthepassionpodcast.com

Dr. Nathan Regier welcomes Douglas E. Noll to today's episode. Doug has stumbled upon a communication strategy that is changing lives around the world, from boardrooms to prisons. Doug is a business and commercial trial lawyer who teaches people to bring compassion even to the most difficult places.  For his innovative work, Doug Noll has been voted as one of the Best Lawyers in America since 2005, by US News & World Report and has been recognized since 2006 as a Northern California Super Lawyer. He is listed in the Who's Who of International Commercial Mediators. He has been honored as Lawyer of the Year in 2014 by Best Lawyers in America. In 2014, Doug was honored as a Purpose Prize Fellow by Encore.org. In 2018, Doug was named the Distinguished Neutral of the Year by The National Academy of Distinguished Neutrals. Along with his colleague Laurel Kaufer, Doug Noll was named California Attorney of the Year in 2012 for their pro bono Prison of Peace project. Doug Noll is the author of the book De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less, which was the winner of the Book Excellence Award for 2017. Today, Doug is sharing the methodology outlined in his book called Listening Others into Existence, a counterintuitive method that is backed by science and proven to be effective in deescalating even the most charged situations.  Key Takeaways: [2:21] Doug shares his journey from being a lawyer to becoming a peacemaker.  [6:00] Doug talks about his experience when conflict infects workplaces. [8:03] We learn conflict patterns at a very young age. [9:09] Doug gives an overview on how he discovered his deescalating method. [10:55] Doug talks about how he found the bases of his methodology in neuroscience. [12:21] Doug realized he needed to help people start “listening to the emotions”. [13:55] Doug explains why his method works based on what happens on the brain when you level someone's emotions. [17:22] Doug dives deep into where emotions come from.  [19:58] How does “Listening others into existence” work? [22:18] We have been lied about our human nature, we believed humans are distinguished because of their rationality, but in fact humans are 98% emotional and only 2% rational. [24:31] There is not such thing about rationality, it is a complete myth. [25:33] Doug describes the three step process of his technique. [26:00] Nate and Doug try the technique while Nate shares a personal experience. [27:58] Listening is no conversation. [28:54] Nate and Doug try the technique with a negative experience he recently had. [33:13] Doug talks about the work he has been doing in prison. [38:49] Nate shares his three top takeaways from a powerful conversation with Doug Noll.      Mentioned in this episode: The Compassion Mindset Visit Doug Noll's Website and access amazing resources.

It doesn't matter how you start the race. What matters is how you finish it! Doug Noll is a perfect example of this... Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA was born nearly blind, nearly deaf, with two club feet, and left-handed. But Doug had a mind and would teach himself to learn. He would also develop quite the sense of adventure despite his various disabilities. Today, Doug Noll is a lawyer turned peacemaker who is using his knowledge and life's experience to make a positive difference in the world. Using a technique of listening people into existance Doug is making a lasting impact in people's lives from maximum security prisons to the Congressional Budget Office and beyond. LINKS FOR DOUG NOLLhttps://dougnoll.com/ (WEBSITE) https://www.linkedin.com/in/dougnoll/ (LinkedIn) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtAHXdBT1Y0Pl7SGrM_HcFw (YOUTUBE) https://twitter.com/dougnoll (TWITTER) LINKS FOR THE PODCASThttps://www.thelowedownwithkevinlowe.com (WEBSITE) https://facebook.com/thelowedownwithkevinlowe (FACEBOOK) https://instagram.com/thelowedownwithkevinlowe (INSTAGRAM) TODAY'S SPONSORFreedom Nutrition Coachinghttps://freedomnutritioncoach.com/ (CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE) Mentioned in this episode: null null

Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become a peacemaker. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. He is an award-winning author, teacher, trainer, and a highly experienced mediator. Doug's work carries him from international work to helping people resolve deep interpersonal and ideological conflicts to training life inmates to be peacemakers and mediators in maximum-security prisons. His website is https://dougnoll.com.

This week I am speaking with Douglas Noll, author of the book *De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less* which was the winner of the Book Excellence Award for 2017. Douglas E. Noll. is a full time peacemaker and mediator, specializing in difficult, complex, and intractable conflicts. He has a Masters Degree in Peacemaking and Conflict Studies. Doug tells me all about the Prison of Peace Project which aims to help inmates develop peacemaking skills to reduce violence and promote peace within their prison community. We also dive into anger, emotional validation, and reading emotional data fields. More resources from Doug https://dougnoll.co/hereweare Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week I am speaking with Douglas Noll, author of the book *De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less* which was the winner of the Book Excellence Award for 2017. Douglas E. Noll. is a full time peacemaker and mediator, specializing in difficult, complex, and intractable conflicts. He has a Masters Degree in Peacemaking and Conflict Studies. Doug tells me all about the Prison of Peace Project which aims to help inmates develop peacemaking skills to reduce violence and promote peace within their prison community. We also dive into anger, emotional validation, and reading emotional data fields. More resources from Doug https://dougnoll.co/hereweare Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In Episode #180, I am talking with Doug Noll  Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become a peacemaker. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. He is an award-winning author, teacher, trainer, and highly experienced mediator. Doug's work carries him from international work to helping people resolve deep interpersonal and ideological conflicts to training life inmates to be peacemakers and mediators in maximum-security prisons.    Today, Doug Noll is sharing with us some of his insights on How to Have a Calm Conversation with the Politically Polarized    We talked about:    Why he says that we are 98% emotional and only 2% rational.  Emotional invalidation and why he calls it the first deadly sin.  How you can really have a calm conversation with the politically polarize.  The difference between emotional intelligence and emotional competence and why the difference is crucial.  Some of attributes of an emotionally competent person.  Why emotional competency isn't taught to us.  The Prison of Peace project.    He can be found on:  https://www.facebook.com/DouglasNoll  https://dougnoll.com      * * * * *  Victoria Gallagher is a worldwide leader in Hypnotherapy, a #1 Best Selling Author, International Speaker, Life Success Coach, and Renowned Authority on the Law of Attraction. She has dedicated her life to empowering people all over the world to successfully live a life of liberty, aligned with their dreams through her effective meditative recordings and online courses.  With the new HypnoCloud iOS app, you can achieve the wealth you desire, be healthy and fit, have the career you want, live the lifestyle of which you dream, and reach spiritual fulfillment.  Download HypnoCloud from the App Store now: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/hypnocloud-relax-and-let-go/id1450270910  Get it on Google Play  For our listeners who found us on Power of Your Mind Podcast, go to Hyptalk.com and sign up for your Free Self-Hypnosis Video Training Course. Also First Time Customers get 35% off Your First Order of Hypnosis Downloads when you use the code "PODCAST" in your shopping cart at: Hyptalk.com  Learn more about Victoria Gallagher and her new book Practical Law of Attraction at: VictoriaMGallagher.com  If you enjoyed today's episode, please leave us a review!  https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/power-your-mind-hypnosis-law-attraction-meditation/id1161784063?mt=2 

Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA, left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become apeacemaker. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. He is an award-winning author, teacher, trainer, and a highly experienced mediator. Doug'swork carries him from international work to helping people resolve deep interpersonal andideological conflicts to training life inmates to be peacemakers and mediators in maximum-security prisons.He was born nearly deaf, nearly blind, crippled with two club feet, and left-handed. Despitethis, he learned how to learn and ultimately became a lawyer-turned-peacemaker, best-selling author of four books, speaker, visionary, and teacher. He is the co-founder of Prisonof Peace ( www.prisonofpeace.org ), training murderers in maximum security prisons how tobe peacemakers and mediators in their prison communities.He teaches thought leaders and business leaders how to use their emotions as part oftheir hidden genius. One of the ways he does this is by teaching people how to listen toothers into existence. “The best way to communicate with others is with emotions.”Episode Summary -Your emotions primarily drive your actions.And the most challenging emotion that is difficult to control within ourselves and of othersis anger. How many times have you taken decisions out of anger which you have regretted later?How many times have you reacted when your clients, team members, or family membersare angry?What do you do to make the other person calm down?Decisions and actions taken with anger don't lead anywhere.In this episode, Douglas talks about how you can transform your life by listening eachother to existence.Snapshot of the key points discussed from the episode:[02:24] Douglas shares his journey of becoming a Peacemaker from a successful TrialLawyer.[20:53] Douglas shares the three steps of de-escalating an angry person. [28:35] Douglas talks about how our brain makes decisions and how we can control them.[32:25] Douglas shares some stories of how people have transformed their lives by beingemotionally competent.[36:58] Douglas talks about “the listening each other to existence” - How it helps transformrelationships both personally and professionally.[38:03] What does work from your happy place mean to Douglas?[38:52] Douglas's advice on finding peace within to live a successful and meaningful life?How to Connect Douglas:Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/doug.noll.52LinkedIn -  https://www.linkedin.com/in/dougnoll/Douglas's special offer for our listeners -  dougnoll.co/happyplace  About the Host -Belinda Ellsworth is a Speaker, Trainer, Best-Selling Author, and PodcasterShe has been a professional speaker, mover, and shaker for more than 25 years. Havingbuilt three successful companies, she has helped thousands of entrepreneurs make betterdecisions, create successful systems, and build business strategies using her "Four Pillarsof Success" system.Belinda has always had a passion and zest for life with the skill for turning dreams intoreality. Over the last 20 years, she has been expertly building her speaking and consultingbusiness, Step Into Success. How to Connect with Belinda:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stepintosuccessLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/belindaellsworthInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/stepintosuccess/Website - www.workfromyourhappyplace.com

Today's Guest Expert: Doug Noll Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become a peacemaker. Doug was born partially deaf, nearly blind, crippled, and super smart. (All buzzkills for the girls in his early years.) However, he went on to graduate from Dartmouth College, earned his law degree, and […] The post De-escalating Anger with Doug Noll appeared first on Jake A Carlson.

In this HCI Podcast episode, Dr. Jonathan H. Westover (https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonathanhwestover/) talks with Douglas E. Noll about the difference between emotional intelligence and emotional competence and the attributes of an emotionally competent person. See the video here: https://youtu.be/1IMo9n-lD-k. Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA (https://www.linkedin.com/in/dougnoll/) left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become a peacemaker. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. He is an award-winning author, teacher, trainer, and a highly experienced mediator. Doug's work carries him from international work to helping people resolve deep interpersonal and ideological conflicts to training life inmates to be peacemakers and mediators in maximum-security prisons. Check out Dr. Westover's new book, 'Bluer than Indigo' Leadership, here: https://www.innovativehumancapital.com/bluerthanindigo. Check out Dr. Westover's book, The Alchemy of Truly Remarkable Leadership, here: https://www.innovativehumancapital.com/leadershipalchemy. Check out the latest issue of the Human Capital Leadership magazine, here: https://www.innovativehumancapital.com/hci-magazine. Ranked #6 Performance Management Podcast: https://blog.feedspot.com/performance_management_podcasts/  Ranked #6 Workplace Podcast: https://blog.feedspot.com/workplace_podcasts/  Ranked #7 HR Podcast: https://blog.feedspot.com/hr_podcasts/  Ranked #12 Talent Management Podcast: https://blog.feedspot.com/talent_management_podcasts/  Ranked in the Top 20 Personal Development and Self-Improvement Podcasts: https://blog.feedspot.com/personal_development_podcasts/  Ranked in the Top 30 Leadership Podcasts: https://blog.feedspot.com/leadership_podcasts/

Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become a peacemaker. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. He is an award-winning author, teacher, trainer, and a highly experienced mediator. Doug's mission carries him from international work to helping people resolve deep interpersonal and ideological conflicts to training life inmates to be peacemakers and mediators in maximum-security prisons. Top 3 Takeaways Conflict is brain science—our response to emotion has a biological basis, and understanding this is key to resolving conflict in the workplace. Stop shouting—We yell when we feel that we're not being heard. We can de-escalate others and ourselves when we stop the yelling and start listening to and conveying emotions. Prioritize leadership development—learning “soft” skills like mediation will serve you well as you progress in your leadership journey and advance in your career. From the Source “When people get under stress—when they're in a situation they can't handle—there are emotional centers in the brain that activate. They're going to revert right back to the last stage of their emotional development.“ “Deescalation works because we start listening to emotions rather than words. It's done in three steps: Ignore the words, read the emotions, reflect back the emotions with a simple statement.” “What I teach is to address the emotions before you address the words. Deescalate before you problem solve.” “We yell at each other and argue and fight because we're not being heard. So yelling is simply an indication of not being heard. And all you have to do is listen to the emotions and the yelling stops. Because now people feel heard, they feel validated.“ “The time that you invest in building your skills and becoming an effective leader is far more valuable than increasing your technical proficiency.” Connect with Doug Website: http://dougnoll.co/leadthepeople LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dougnoll/

What makes for a successful person? A common trait among successful people is the ability to handle conflict well. This means having:1.   A willingness to enter into highly emotionally charged conversations (they don't shy away from conflict), 2.   The ability to remain calm themselves,3.   The ability to calm others down so that 4.   Workable solutions are discovered. But what if we are talking about dealing with the situation between Israelis and Palestinians? Or Republicans and Democrats (lately)? Or your assh*le narcissistic boss?  Or, what if we are talking about dealing with murderers?  Well, hold onto your hats, true believers, because this episode has it all – THE way to de-escalate anger in others AS PROVEN by 12 years of work done in maximum security prisons with murderers and, of course, neuroscience.  Dr. John's Guest:Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become a peacemaker. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. He is an award-winning author, teacher, trainer, and a highly experienced mediator. Doug's work carries him from international work to helping people resolve deep interpersonal and ideological conflicts to training life inmates to be peacemakers and mediators in maximum-security prisons. His website is DougNoll.com. His email is Doug@DougNoll.com.  Resources referenced:De-escalate by Doug NollThe Major Political Writings of Jean-Jacques RosseauBorn To Be Good by Dacher Keltner Ph.D.How Emotions Are Made by Lisa Feldman Barrett Ph.D.Emotions Revealed by Paul EkmanLeviathan by Thomas HobbesPlease like, review, rate and share!If you like what you've heard at The Evolved Caveman podcast, support us by subscribing, leaving reviews on Apple podcasts. Every review helps to get the message out! Please share the podcast with friends and colleagues.Follow Dr. John Schinnerer on| Instagram | Instagram.com/@TheEvolvedCaveman| Facebook | Facebook.com/Anger.Management.Expert| Twitter | Twitter.com/@JohnSchin| LinkedIn | Linkedin.com/in/DrJohnSchinnererOr join the email list by visiting: GuideToSelf.comPlease visit our YouTube channel and remember to Like & Subscribe!https://www.youtube.com/user/jschinnererEditing/Mixing/Mastering by: Brian Donat of B/Line Studios www.BLineStudios.comMusic by: Zak Gay http://otonamimusic.com/ 

On today's episode we'll talk to Doug Noll, author of “De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less” and an accomplished speaker and teacher around how to solve difficult, intractable, and highly emotional problems.Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become a peacemaker. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. He is an award-winning author, teacher, and trainer as well as a highly experienced mediator. Doug's work carries him from international work to helping people resolve deep interpersonal and ideological conflicts. Show notes:Learn more about Doug at https://dougnoll.comGet the book! De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less Improve your emotional competency: Unleash The Power of Your Hidden Genius: How To Be A Person Of Influence, Power And Authority And...Handle Any Situation With Utter Confidence1. Emotional Competence is: Emotional Self-AwarenessEmotional Self-regulationsCognitive & affective empathy2. Emotional Invalidation is:Emotional invalidation is when a person's thoughts and feelings are rejected, ignored, or judged.The most pervasive and insidious form of abuse that exists, and most of us do it unintentionally.Dysfunctional form of anxiety self-soothing.3. How do you improve your emotional competence?Understand what emotions are and recognize our own, and how we turn affect into words - self awarenessLearn how to read emotional data fields. We can develop this skill to become cognitively more aware by presenting a “you statement” with affect labeling - Derived from reading another person's emotional data fields. “You are angry”Mirroring - repeating back what the person said, verbatim to confirm instructionsParaphrasing - reflecting your own understanding of the speaker's words with your own wordsThe “I” statements you've heard about are bullshit - I use I statements to talk about me, I'll use a “you” statement to talk about someone else's feeling. (Not “I hear that you're feeling xyz”)Core messaging - look for the meaning under the words and give it back to them in the form of a metaphorAffect labeling - ignore words, read emotional data fields, reflect back speaker's words with a you statement - Neuroscience shows this type of skill helps de-escalate and develops your emotional awareness skill_________________________________Learn more about Doug at https://dougnoll.comGet the book! De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less Improve your emotional competency: Unleash The Power of Your Hidden Genius: How To Be A Person Of Influence, Power And Authority And...Handle Any Situation With Utter Confidence

Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become a peacemaker. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. He is an award-winning author, teacher, and trainer. He is a highly experienced mediator. Doug’s work carries him from international work to helping people resolve deep interpersonal and ideological conflicts.Who is Doug Noll? People often wonder how Doug went from being a trial lawyer to a peacemaker. After trying over 200 cases in court, Doug decided to go back to school and get his Masters degree in Peacemaking and Conflict Studies, which awakened him to the possibility of helping people resolve conflict without litigation. He walked away from his very lucrative practice to open up a mediation and peacemaking practice.10 years later Doug recalls the story of a difficult conflict involving a divorced couple where he had the insight that people need to listen to emotions more than the words we use. A study in neuroscience three years ago explained the underlying principle that Doug had realized and led to Doug starting the Prison in Peace Project with his colleague. They now teach some of the most violent prison populations in the world how to be peacemakers and listen to emotions. This grew into a best selling book, teaching online courses and workshops, and more. Leaders that understand this process and how to use these skills create loyal and dedicated followers.Links:Deescalatedougnoll.com

Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA is an award-winning author, speaker, and trainer. After 22 years as a trial lawyer, Mr. Noll became a peacemaker and mediator. Today, he helps people solve deep and intractable conflicts and teaches others to do what he does. Mr. Noll is an adjunct professor of law at the Pepperdine School of Law Straus Institute where he teaches Decision Making Under Uncertainty Conflict.Mr. Noll is the co-founder of the award-winning Prison of Peace Project, in which he teaches murderers in maximum security prisons to be peacemakers and mediators.Mr. Noll has trained mediators and leaders in Europe, the Middle East, and Asia in his innovative peacemaking and mediation processes. He has personally mediated over 1,500 disputes, including sexual abuse cases in the Catholic Church and criminal victim-offender cases.Mr. Noll has written four books, his latest released on September 12, 2017, entitled De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less (Atria/Beyond Words). He is the creator of online video courses in legal negotiation and emotional de-escalation and has conducted dozens of webinars. His video offerings on YouTube have garnered over 87,000 views.https://dougnoll.com

Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become a peacemaker. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. He is an award-winning author, teacher, and trainer. He is a highly experienced mediator. Doug’s work carries him from international work to helping people resolve deep interpersonal and ideological conflicts.In today’s episode, Doug talks to Monique about his work as a mediator and peacemaker, forcing him to confront human emotion straight on. After all, conflict is all about emotion. He discovered how to listen to others into existence. That led him to training inmates serving life sentences how to be peacemakers in maximum security prisons and then teaching his skills at the highest levels of government in Washington, D.C.HOT TOPICS OF THE EPISODE[2:02] - Monique introduces her guest, Doug Noll.[2:33] - How do we know that a person is actually a narcissist? They don't have a clue.We all are narcissists. We can't be healthy without a certain amount of narcissism.[3:06] - 2 types of narcissist:Overt and maladaptive narcissist.[12:47] - Doug talks about how he started as a peacemaker.[23:17] - Doug talks about law enforcement.[32:28] - Monique and Doug talk about the differences of Police brutality in the U.S and Germany.[46:47] - Doug explains the big deal of beliefs.[47:29] - Monique and Doug talk about flat earth society.[56:12] - How we can talk to politically polarized people?The number one rule and listening and talking to or being with a politically polarized person is you're not going to talk, you got to listen.[1:03:15] - Doug talks about how to get people who have these entrenched beliefs.[1:09:38] - What does efficiency mean to you?Efficiency is generally using the least amount of energy to get the most done. [1:10:16] - If someone is in the middle of a huge conflict, and they want to make peace, what's the three things that you would give them on the way?Bring in a professional, you find a professional Peacemaker mediator to come in and help.Recognize that all conflicts are highly emotional.Hold as much compassion as you can, for the people you're in conflict with.AWESOME RESOURCES THAT WE TALKED ABOUT IN THIS EPISODEBook: https://www.deescalate.dougnoll.com/order-1584980818236966IMPACTFUL QUOTES OF THIS EPISODE“Try to hold as much compassion as you can, for the people you're in conflict with.” - Doug Noll.“Efficiency is generally using the least amount of energy to get the most done.” - Doug Noll.FIND MORE ABOUT DOUG NOLL HERE.Website: https://dougnoll.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/doug.noll.52/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dougnoll/ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

We are 98% emotional and only 2% rational. Yet we spend 98% of our time learning to be rational and less than 2% of our time learning to be emotionally competent. In today's episode we discover how to successfully and efficiently calm an angry person or diffuse a volatile situation in ninety seconds or less with this proven and accessible peacekeeping method by self-described “lawyer turned peacemaker” Douglas E. Noll, Author of De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less. Tested on prison inmates, De-Escalate offers a new set of social listening and communication skills, based on the latest findings in neuroscience and meditation.  Connect with Doug at https://dougnoll.com/ Connect with Agnes at https://leveluptribes.com/

Is it possible to cultivate harmonious relationships in the middle of chaos? Discover how to successfully and efficiently calm an angry person or diffuse a volatile situation in ninety seconds or less with this proven and accessible peacekeeping method by self-described “lawyer turned peacemaker” Douglas E. Noll.Tune in for #MomentswithMarianne show with special guest Douglas Noll, JD, MA, as we discuss his #book De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less.Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA left a successful career as a trial lawyer to become a peacemaker. He is an award-winning author, teacher, trainer, and a highly experienced mediator. Doug’s professional work has led him to helping others resolve deep interpersonal and ideological conflicts. As a co-founder of Prison of Peace in 2010—a nonprofit dedicated to reducing violence and promoting peaceful conflict resolution among prison inmates—Doug has worked with thousands of individuals and groups on the importance of listening and successfully communicating.http://dougnoll.com

Dear Listeners, Consider what it would be like trying to have a productive conversation with an angry inmate serving a life sentence at a maximum-security prison. Life-threatening at worst; unpleasant at best. But Douglas E. Noll has been in exactly that situation, as well as many more high-tension confrontations, and has deduced precisely how to bring that conversation back in line respectfully and productively in under two minutes. https://selfdiscoverymedia.com/2017/08/30/c-17-37a-de-escalate-your-life-with-douglas-noll/

Today we explore our kids’ FREEDOM TO FEEL! This is the Q&A wrap-up to our weekly episode where we dive deep into our kids’ (and our!) struggles with big feelings. We explore how tantrums are a gift-- an opportunity to nurture our nervous systems, build emotional intelligence skills and maintain our connection through it all. The big question is HOW can we sensitively support our kids’ big feelings when we ourselves can hardly keep it together? Dig in with us for a deeper understanding of why meltdowns happen, what we can do to support ourselves as well as our kids, and why it’s so critical that we attempt this. We’ll be exploring ways we can align our day-today struggles during kids' big feelings with our true goals for their future and ideals for our best selves, too. We laugh, we cry, we lean in. Join us! Mental Mantras we explore: - Feelings are information - Gotta self-reg to co-reg, baby - There's a need beneath the feeling - It’s not an emergency - Gotta find my happy place - I need to make this better, not worse - They just need my support - This will pass Relevant Links + resources that informed this episode: - Upbringing’s Freedoms Model - Upbringing’s RESIST Approach - Interbrain- Self-Reg: How to Help Your Child (and You) Break The Stress Cycle and Successfully Engage With Life by Stuart Shanker - Self-regulation / Co-regulation - Burnout by Emily & Amelia Nagoski - The Body Keeps The Score by by Bessel van der Kolk - Simplicity Parenting by Kim John Payne - Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child by John Gottman - Raising Humans by Ross Greene - De-Escalate by Douglas E. Noll - Now Say This by Julie Wright and Heather Sturgeon - Hold Onto Your Kids: Why Parents Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld - The Whole-Brain Child- Dan Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson - The Good News About Bad Behavior by Katherine Reynolds-Lewis - Non-Violent Communication: A Language of Life by Marshall B Rosenburg - Amber Okamura, Upbringing’s Artist - Mary Schroeder, Upbringing’s Letterer - Alex Olavarria, our producer, conductor, editor + husband/brother in law Today’s episode is supported by A Kid’s Book About- a collection of beautifully designed books that kickstart challenging and empowering conversations between kids and their grownups. Visit our website, www.upbringing.co to learn more about us and sign up for our newsletter! We want to hear your thoughts. We care deeply about what you think and how you’re doin’, so get in touch -- we’re better together. Email us: info@upbringing.co Follow Upbringing on: Instagram: @up_bringing Facebook: @jointheupbringing Join us to explore topics such as: parenting, motherhood, discipline, resistance, RIE parenting, feminist parenting, toddlers, tantrums, potty training, mindful parenting, conscious parenting, evidence-based parenting, positive parenting, respectful parenting, simplicity parenting and positive discipline.

Today we’re back as we explore our kids’ FREEDOM TO FEEL! Does your kid struggle with big feelings? Do YOU struggle with their big feelings, not to mention your own? This week we explore how BIG FEELINGS are a gift-- an opportunity to nurture our nervous systems, build emotional intelligence and maintain our connection through it all. How can we sensitively support our kids’ big feelings when we ourselves can hardly keep it together? Dig in with us for a deeper understanding of why meltdowns happen, what we can do to support ourselves as well as our kids, and why it’s so critical that we attempt this. This episode is about WHY and HOW we can be responding to our kids big feelings instead of reacting to them. It’s about taking a HUGE shitty long list of work off our plate and swapping it for two things: bravery and effort. We’ll be exploring ways we can align our day-today struggles during kids big feelings with our true goals for their future and ideals for our best selves, too. We’ll look at how big feelings are a chance for us BOTH to build skills, stay connected, and grow as people and family. And as we confront our conditioning, set goals to break harmful cycles and HEAL we will be, in moments of big feelings, putting our energy where it should be - in loving ourselves and our kids. We laugh, we cry, we lean in. Join us! Mental Mantras we explore: - Feelings are information - Gotta self-reg to co-reg, baby - There's a need beneath the feeling - It’s not an emergency - Gotta find my happy place - I need to make this better, not worse - They just need my support - This will pass Relevant Links + resources that informed this episode: - Upbringing’s Freedoms Model - Upbringing’s RESIST Approach - Upbringing's Empowerment Episode: We Welcome All Emotions - Introvert Definition - Eckart Tolle / The Power of Now - Byron Katie / Past, Present & Future - Self-regulation / Co-regulation - Grounding strategies - The Mindy Project - 30 Rock - Spirited kids - Sensitive kids - Brene Brown / vulnerability, shame, belonging - Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child by John Gottman - Raising Humans by Ross Greene - De-Escalate by Douglas E. Noll - Burnout by Emily & Amelia Nagoski - Now Say This by Julie Wright and Heather Sturgeon - Hold Onto Your Kids: Why Parents Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld - The Whole-Brain Child- Dan Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson - Self-Reg: How to Help Your Child (and You) Break The Stress Cycle and Successfully Engage With Life by Stuart Shanker - The Good News About Bad Behavior by Katherine Reynolds-Lewis - Non-Violent Communication: A Language of Life by Marshall B Rosenburg - Amber Okamura, Upbringing’s Artist - Mary Schroeder, Upbringing’s Letterer - Alex Olavarria, our producer, conductor, editor + husband/brother in law Today’s episode is supported by A Kid’s Book About- a collection of beautifully designed books that kickstart challenging and empowering conversations between kids and their grownups. Visit our website, www.upbringing.co to learn more about us and sign up for our newsletter! We want to hear your thoughts. We care deeply about what you think and how you’re doin’, so get in touch -- we’re better together. Email us: info@upbringing.co Follow Upbringing on: Instagram: @up_bringing Facebook: @jointheupbringing

Douglas E. Noll explains his method for de-escalating any tense situation in less than 2 minutes.

Douglas E. Noll is a lawyer turned peacemaker. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. Doug’s work carries him into many dark places. Using pragmatic and practical skills of peace, he helps people resolve deep interpersonal and ideological conflicts. He is an award-winning author of three books, a teacher, speaker, and a trainer. His forth book De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less was published by Beyond Words/Simon & Schuster in September 2017. Join us as Doug returns to Last First Date Radio to teach you how to de-escalate anger in only three seconds!

In his book De-escalate, the "peacemaker" Douglas E Noll devised a method to defuse most any situation.

In his book De-escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less, Douglas E. Noll writes about a method to calm the most tense situation in less than 2 minutes. This peacemaker uses it in the prison system. Imagine how you might be able to use it in your own life!

Discover how to successfully and efficiently calm an angry person or diffuse a volatile situation in ninety seconds or less with this proven and accessible peacekeeping method by self-described “lawyer turned peacemaker” Douglas E. Noll. We live in an increasingly divided world and most of us have encountered our fair share of aggressive people and difficult confrontations. Fortunately, we now have the tools to become peacemakers and transform emotionally volatile situations and hurt feelings to calm, non-aggressive ones. Tested on prison inmates, De-Escalate offers a new set of social listening and communication skills, based on the latest findings in neuroscience and meditation. Along with practical exercises and scenario-based examples, each chapter focuses on specific themes, such as dealing with emotionally charged teenagers and frustrated coworkers. Additionally, Noll shares practical tips on how to be civil in an uncivil society.

Discover how to successfully and efficiently calm an angry person or diffuse a volatile situation in ninety seconds or less with this proven and accessible peacekeeping method by self-described “lawyer turned peacemaker” Douglas E. Noll. We live in an increasingly divided world and most of us have encountered our fair share of aggressive people and difficult confrontations. Fortunately, we now have the tools to become peacemakers and transform emotionally volatile situations and hurt feelings to calm, non-aggressive ones. Tested on prison inmates, De-Escalate offers a new set of social listening and communication skills, based on the latest findings in neuroscience and meditation. Along with practical exercises and scenario-based examples, each chapter focuses on specific themes, such as dealing with emotionally charged teenagers and frustrated coworkers. Additionally, Noll shares practical tips on how to be civil in an uncivil society.

Today on the BCP Show we talk with Doug Noll.  If you're in business, then you know that sometimes conflict is unavoidable. But whether that conflict is with an employee or a customer, it doesn't have to spiral out of control. You have more power to de-escalate than you might realize. Jerry Isenhour|061|CVC Coaching  Get the BCP Show app for FREE on your iPhone or Android if you haven't yet - and don't forget to leave a review of the podcast and the app! Blue Collar Proud: Ten Principles for Building a Kickass Business You Love is available on Amazon. If you haven't read it yet, so grab it - and as always, reviews are welcome! From the Front Lines Tim Reed|086|Fireside Home Solutions Reach out to Tim on Instagram @firesidetim Check-In With Reality Starting from scratch Never Eat Alone Ellen Rohr|002|016|036 Douglas E. Noll Dr. Matthew Lieberman on Affect Labeling De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less Visit dougnoll.com, scroll down to the "Exclusive Offer" book banner, and click the "Get Your Free Copy Here" button. Simply pay the shipping and you'll get the book for FREE! Reach out to Doug at doug@dougnoll.com Connect with us Facebook|Twitter|Instagram

Douglas E. Noll is a lawyer turned peacemaker. His calling is to serve humanity, and he executes his calling at many levels. Doug’s work carries him into many dark places. Using pragmatic and practical skills of peace, he helps people resolve deep interpersonal and ideological conflicts. He is an award-winning author of three books, a teacher, speaker, and a trainer. His forth book De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less will be released by Beyond Words/Simon & Schuster in September 2017. Join us as Doug helps us learn how to calm an angry person with lightening speed.

Have you ever encountered an angry person and felt helpless? Douglas Noll, Attorney turned peace maker, joins Teri to share his mission and passion for helping humanity De-escalate anger in 90 seconds or less on this edition of Soulful Living on Empower Radio.

Douglas E. Noll De-Escalate how to calm any person in 30 seconds is the new book ready for the masses. Doug's book is a must for managers and those working in the public arena.

Consider what it would be like trying to have a productive conversation with an angry inmate serving a life sentence at a maximum-security prison. Life-threatening at worst; unpleasant at best. But today's special guest Douglas E. Noll has been in exactly that situation, as well as many more high-tension confrontations, and has deduced precisely how to bring that conversation back in line respectfully and productively in under two minutes. If he can do it with prison inmates, imagine how well this might work with upset spouses, unresponsive teenagers, unhappy clients, or even road-raging drivers?  In Noll's book, De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less, he shares how to defuse conflicts quickly by focusing on the emotions of the angry person rather than the words being said (or screamed). In this way, habitual responses of anger and frustration are circumvented and cooler heads will likely prevail. Noll, who holds both a JD and an MA, left a successful career as a lawyer to become a peacemaker. He is an award-winning author, teacher, trainer, highly experienced mediator, and co-founder of the Prison of Peace project. This has been the most profound peace training Douglas has conducted thus far in his career. Inmates who have gone through his program have learned and applied deep, empathic listening skills, leadership skills, and problem-solving skills to reduce violence in their prison communities. To learn more about Douglas, visit www.DouglasNoll.com.

In this episode of Dreams Unzipped I talk with peacemaker, Douglas E. Noll. He is the founder of Prison of Peace--meaning he goes into maximum security prisons and teaches the angriest people on the planet how to be calm and "Listen people into existence." He shares his brilliant 3-Step process...that if I can do it, you can do it to. How can we possibly live a dreamy life if we don't have an action plan for our own anger, and the not-so-pleasant emotions of others?

Douglas E. Noll                 The Leader’s #1 Skill – Be a Peacemaker  Have you ever been so angry that having a level-headed conversation simply wasn’t possible? When you are out-of-control with anger, the last thing you want to do is calm down. You want to be heard! As a manager and leader, likely you’ve encountered members of the team who have been equally emotional and you had no resolution but to allow time to pass so they could calm down. The #1 skill for handling that situation is to be a peacemaker, and it is critical to learn the skills of de-escalation that allow you to manage many types of circumstances, highly charged being one of them. Doug Noll left the law profession to pursue the valuable work of peacemaking, and has since taken this skill into prisons, experiencing great success with some of the most difficult life-time inmates. Your circumstances may not be as tense, yet you can achieve the same success by adopting the de-escalate skills he discusses in this podcast.   Learn more about Doug Noll's newest book, De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less and receive it free for only the cost of shipping & handling.  You can also connect with Doug by clicking here.   Click here to check out our newest leadership development tool – LEAD – Leadership Education and Development               Steve Caldwell is an executive mentor and coach to managers and leaders who desire to excel in their career and become the leader others want to follow. Steve is a leadership expert, host of the Manager Mojo podcast and author of the book Manager Mojo – Be the Leader Others Want to Follow. (www.ManagerMojo.com) Steve also coaches his followers not only on how to become great leaders, but how to effectively coach and lead their employees to find satisfaction and fulfillment from their jobs and life. Having started his work career at the savvy age of 13, Steve is also currently CEO of Predictive People Analytics based in San Francisco, CA, a firm specializing in helping leaders increase sales, reduce turnover, and attract key talent. (www.PredictivePeopleAnalytics.com)    

De-Escalate with Douglas Noll Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA, is a full time internationally recognized mediator and peacemaker, specializing in difficult, complex, and intractable conflicts. He is a Fellow of the International Academy of Mediators, on the American Arbitration Association panel of mediators and arbitrators, and is certified under international standards established by the International Mediation Institute. He is the author of the award-winning book Elusive Peace: How Modern Diplomatic Strategies Could Better Resolve World Conflicts published by Prometheus Books. Doug has been listed as one of the Best Lawyers in America since 2005 by US News & World Report, is a Northern California Super Lawyer and is one of 193 mediators word wide selected for inclusion in the International Who’s Who of Commercial Mediators. He was honored as California Lawyer Magazine Attorney of the Year in 2012 and is a Purpose Prize Fellow. http://dougnoll.com

Douglas E. Noll, JD, MA, is a full time internationally recognized mediator and peacemaker, specializing in difficult, complex, and intractable conflicts. He is a Fellow of the International Academy of Mediators, on the American Arbitration Association panel of mediators and arbitrators, and is certified under international standards established by the International Mediation Institute. He is the author of the award-winning book Elusive Peace: How Modern Diplomatic Strategies Could Better Resolve World Conflicts published by Prometheus Books. Doug has been listed as one of the Best Lawyers in America since 2005 by US News & World Report, is a Northern California Super Lawyer and is one of 193 mediators word wide selected for inclusion in the International Who’s Who of Commercial Mediators. He was honored as California Lawyer Magazine Attorney of the Year in 2012 and is a Purpose Prize Fellow.

Douglas E. Noll, J.D., M.A. is an award-winning author, teacher, peacemaker, and mediator, specializing in difficult, complex, and intractable conflicts. He has been honored as Lawyer of the Year by Best Lawyers in America and California Attorney of the Year by California Lawyer Magazine. For the past 4 years, Doug has been working pro bono in maximum security prisons, teaching murderers to be peacemakers. With his colleague, Laurel Kaufer, he has trained more than 200 men and women inmates to be peacemakers and mediators within their prison communities. The results have been astounding. Violence has been reduced, lives have been transformed, and inmates have regained their humanity. So many inmates have told Doug “If I had just learned these skills and this knowledge 20 years ago, I would not be in prison today,” that Doug decided to reach out to the free world. He has written a simple e-Book, called “How to Live a Centered Life,” and has created Negotiate a Centered Life, an on-line life skills and re-lationship course. In addition, he reaches out to middle schools and high schools to teach young people the essential life skills that will guarantee centered lives and strong relationships. As Doug says, “If I can teach murderers to be peacemakers, imagine what I can do for everyone else.” Doug hosts his own radio show and has appeared as a guest on hundreds of local and national radio and television shows. http://negotiateacenteredlife.com/

California Attorney of the Year and Lawyer to Peacemaker Douglas E. Noll talks about Prison of Peace, a project in which women serving life sentences in the largest most violent women's prison in the world are taught how to be peacemakers and mediators. This interview was originally broadcast on Empower Radio.

Douglas E. Noll, Esq. is a full time peacemaker and mediator, specializing in difficult, complex, and intractable conflicts. He is an adjunct professor of law and has a Masters Degree in Peacemaking and Conflict Studies. Mr. Noll was a business and commercial trial lawyer for 22 years before turning to peacemaking. He is a Fellow of the International Academy of Mediators, a Fellow of the American College of Civil Trial Mediators, on the American Arbitration Association panel of mediators and arbitrators, and was one of the first mediators certified under international standards established by the International Mediation Institute. He is an author of the books Elusive Peace: How Modern Diplomatic Strategies Could Better Resolve World Conflicts; co-author of Sex, Politics & Religion at the Office: The New Competitive Advantage; and Peacemaking: Practicing at the Intersection of Law and Human Conflict and numerous articles on peacemaking, restorative justice, conflict resolution and mediation Mr. Noll is also a skilled and experienced facilitator and trainer. Mr. Noll has been listed as one of the Best Lawyers in America since 2005 by best-lawyers.com and is a Northern California SuperLawyer. www.thedougnollshow.com