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A round-up of the main headlines in Sweden on June 16th, 2025. You can hear more reports on our homepage www.radiosweden.se, or in the app Sveriges Radio Play. Presenter: Dave Russell, Producer: Kris Boswell
How to Properly De-Escalate Issues on a TransactionIn this episode, Scott & Renee share proper dialogues and techniques to use when fires arise in a transaction in order to save deals and close more sales.
Uzair talks to Dr. Sahar Khan about her key takeaways from the recent India-Pakistan war and why this conflict was an inflection point. We also talked about the role of international diplomacy, particularly the United States. Finally, the conversation also looked at what could happen in the next crisis, and the ways in which better engagement could avert total disaster. Dr. Sahar Khan is an independent analyst and an expert on South Asian regional dynamics and strategic stability. She is based in Washington, DC. Chapters: 0:00 Introduction 1:50 Key takeaways from the war 27:50 Role of diplomacy and the US 37:30 What happens in the next crisis? 51:45 Reading recommendations You can access Dr. Khan's recent commentary here: - https://inkstickmedia.com/the-myths-that-keep-india-and-pakistan-at-war/ - https://theworld.org/segments/2025/05/22/surge-in-popularity-for-pakistani-military - https://www.scmp.com/opinion/asia-opinion/article/3310688/rapid-escalation-india-pakistan-clashes-warning-new-tech-dangers
Curious Worldview Newsletter - https://curiousworldview.beehiiv.com/subscribeArne Anderson, Three Tours In Afghanistan For The Swedish Military #46Swedens Elite Police Unit, Piketen #146Christopher Neijd Police Lieutenant in Södertälje & Southern Stockholm #165 -----Because of my old mate, Arne Andersson - I've been incredibly lucky to have gotten to know several of his old military buddies. There are those listed above...And then there is my guest for this episode today, courtesy to the serendipity proximate to Arne…Peter, whose full name will remain redacted - is the head of the isolation ward at Kumla prison, which is the largest maximum security prison in Sweden. We recorded this about 6 months ago, so I am very late to publish, but I hope you'll agree that the contents are evergreen. Not tied down to any particular time and news, and therefore as useful now as it would have been then as it will be in 5 years time. Pete and I sat down together to record this one in Stockholm last late Autumn, it's as many ins and outs of the prison system that I could think to ask Peter. This is an exhaustive list, but it includes inmate demographics, the impact of overpopulation, the complexities of rehabilitation, the psychological effects of prison on both inmates and staff. the crucial differences between the Swedish prison system other countries, and how it's portrayed in the media, particularly regarding sentencing and the rehabilitation processes. the challenges of institutionalisation, the dynamics of inmate behaviour. Leadership and de-escalation techniques in managing inmate interactions, as well as the influence of gangs and ethnic divides within the prison system. Informal power dynamics among inmates, the prevalence of violence, self-harm, and the challenges faced by prison officers. The changing attitudes of younger inmates towards authority, the psychological impact of incarceration, and the ongoing issues of contraband and drug addiction. The discussion also touches on the responsibility of prison staff to understand and support inmates, the metrics used to evaluate prison conditions, and the societal perceptions of crime and punishment.In between all that there is as well Peter's good humour and the natural tangents much of that may draw you down…00:00 - Who Is Peter & Intro03:02 Demographics and Overpopulation in Kumla Prison05:51 Crime Types and Inmate Behaviour09:00 Rehabilitation and Sentencing in Sweden11:59 Isolation Units and Mental Health14:48 Challenges of Overpopulation and Violence18:05 Administrative Costs and Efficiency20:56 Psychological Impact of Isolation23:53 Interactions with Inmates27:04 Handling Manipulation and Trust30:00 Sympathy for Inmates and Their Stories32:48 Mental Health and Rehabilitation Challenges35:56 Conclusion and Reflections on the Prison System45:09 The Nature of Work in Prison51:49 Rehabilitation vs. Punishment in Nordic Prisons56:08 Institutionalization and Its Effects01:01:22 De-escalation Techniques in High-Stress Environments01:08:15 Leadership in Correctional Facilities01:16:55 Gang Dynamics in Swedish Prisons01:26:13 Understanding Power Dynamics in Prisons01:29:07 The Reality of Violence in Prisons01:31:34 Addressing Self-Harm and Mental Health Issues01:34:19 The Challenge of Knowing Inmates01:36:34 Evaluating Prison Metrics and Crime Hierarchies01:38:52 Religious Practices and Beliefs in Prisons01:41:01 Changing Dyn
On a pivotal day for Wall Street, Julian Emanuel of Evercore ISI joins to break down what he's buying as the market rallies on trade talk optimism with China. Marko Papic, Chief Strategist at BCA Research, weighs in the geopolitical environment, followed by NEC Director Kevin Hassett on how negotiations are going with China and other countries, as well as budget talks and President Trump's executive order on pharma.Steve Sosnick, Chief Strategist at Interactive Brokers, analyzes the afternoon rally.
Mike Block reacts to the latest tariff news and discusses where the market can go from here. “How quickly will companies have the confidence…to put money in their business” right now? He wonders, adding that President Trump has a “recency bias” that means he could flip on a dime. He's interested in industrials and agriculture right now, including Deere (DE) and Illinois Tool Works (ITW). He also looks at ways to diversify and find potential policy beneficiaries.======== Schwab Network ========Empowering every investor and trader, every market day.Subscribe to the Market Minute newsletter - https://schwabnetwork.com/subscribeDownload the iOS app - https://apps.apple.com/us/app/schwab-network/id1460719185Download the Amazon Fire Tv App - https://www.amazon.com/TD-Ameritrade-Network/dp/B07KRD76C7Watch on Sling - https://watch.sling.com/1/asset/191928615bd8d47686f94682aefaa007/watchWatch on Vizio - https://www.vizio.com/en/watchfreeplus-exploreWatch on DistroTV - https://www.distro.tv/live/schwab-network/Follow us on X – https://twitter.com/schwabnetworkFollow us on Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/schwabnetworkFollow us on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/schwab-network/About Schwab Network - https://schwabnetwork.com/about
In this episode, Simon Goode explores how we can "digest" conflict experiences by using practical self-regulation techniques in the moment, immediately after, and over the long term. He shares tools like mindful breathing, multisensory walks, journaling, and gratitude exercises to help restore balance and process stressful encounters. Simon emphasizes that everyone's needs are different, encouraging listeners to experiment with various strategies to find what works best for them.--------------- TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Mind-Body Self-Regulation Transformation04:32 Digesting Conflict: Strategies and Tools06:25 Navigating Advice Sensitively11:00 "Understanding Sensory and Internal Perception"15:33 Post-Conflict Reset Strategies18:19 The 20 Sigh Method21:04 Simple Mindfulness Techniques23:24 "Emotional Impact of Childhood Sounds"29:32 Mindfulness Habits: Overcoming Doubts32:01 "Benefits of Pen-and-Paper Journaling"36:05 Gratitude: A Path to Positivity39:10 "Staying Calm: Practical Strategies"41:50 Podcast Farewell MessageClick here to send me a quick message via FanMailSupport the showwebsite: simongoode.com email: podcast@simongoode.com
How do ordinary people become dangerous extremists? Former FBI agent Scott Payne infiltrated America's most violent hate groups and reveals their playbook. What We Discuss with Scott Payne: Scott Payne worked as an undercover FBI agent infiltrating various extremist organizations, including white supremacists like the KKK and accelerationists such as The Base, which aimed to trigger societal collapse and establish a white ethnostate. Accelerationist groups differ from traditional white supremacist organizations in that they don't believe in political solutions, but train for violence and "Boogaloo" (race war), preparing with tactical gear and weapons while planning attacks on infrastructure and targeted individuals. During his undercover work, Scott encountered disturbing rituals and behaviors, including a goat sacrifice during which members drank blood and took LSD as part of a neo-pagan ceremony associated with white supremacist ideology. White supremacist recruitment often targets vulnerable individuals from broken homes who are seeking belonging and connection, with online platforms like Telegram and Gab serving as recruitment grounds where extremist content can radicalize disaffected youth. Deescalation and communication skills proved to be Scott's most valuable tools throughout his career. His experience shows that even in hostile environments, the ability to talk through situations and remain calm under pressure is often more effective than physical confrontation — a skill anyone can develop and apply to their own difficult interactions. And much more... Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/1132 And if you're still game to support us, please leave a review here — even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally! This Episode Is Brought To You By Our Fine Sponsors: jordanharbinger.com/deals Sign up for Six-Minute Networking — our free networking and relationship development mini course — at jordanharbinger.com/course! Subscribe to our once-a-week Wee Bit Wiser newsletter today and start filling your Wednesdays with wisdom! Do you even Reddit, bro? Join us at r/JordanHarbinger!
Jim tells Mike about some of the emergencies he has faced on the ground. We discuss when to call 911, what to tell them, and what first aid Jim applied as well as whether he got sued for helping someone. Did he thwart a murder plot in a hot air balloon? What exactly is degloving? Tune in and find out. Find us on social media (Facebook/Twitter/Instagram/YouTube) @TacTangents. You can join the conversation in our Facebook Discussion Group. Find all of our episodes, articles, some reading list ideas, and more on our website www.tacticaltangents.com Like what we're doing? Head over to Patreon and give us a buck for each new episode. You can also make a one-time contribution at GoFundMe. Intro music credit Bensound.com
Are you curious if you have any stored emotions or trauma that might be causing your illness, preventing you from achieving your or even just showing up as the best, authentic version of yourself? I invite you to take my FREE Stored Emotions and Trauma Quiz.In this episode, you'll learn how to use connection and gratitude to calm your mind in stressful moments, how to quickly diffuse tension using simple tools, and a breathing exercise that can help both adults and children find peace. You'll also discover how these strategies can improve your emotional responses in everyday situations.Timestamps:[00:00] Introduction[01:20] Why emotions affect your behaviour[03:10] Reacting poorly in stressful situations[04:55] Using gratitude and connection to calm down[06:40] How to shift your physiology during stress[08:00] The power of connection to diffuse tension[09:40] Importance of remembering your bond with others[10:30] How to shift from stressed to calm[12:00] The role of gratitude in changing your state[13:10] Practical exercises for tapping into gratitude[14:25] How gratitude helps shift you away from negative emotions[15:10] Colour breathing technique for relaxation[17:00] Using colour breathing with children[18:10] How to practice colour breathing in difficult situations[19:00] Why colour breathing is a simple but effective tool[20:10] How colour breathing impacts emotional regulation[21:00] How to use colour breathing in everyday lifeFind More From Dr. Stephanie Davis:Thrive Mama Tribe | WebsiteThrive Mama Tribe | InstagramThrive Mama Tribe | Skool
Happy New Year, we welcome you back to Light ‘Em Up!This is our 2nd installation of our brand-new 6th season! A double dip this month.Who's listening to us in Mozambique? We're actively being downloaded in 117 countries, globally!On this no holds barred, explosive, investigative, educational episode — we once again, shine the antiseptic light of the truth as we deliver this in-depth investigation that is focused on de-escalation of aggression as it relates to law enforcement activities.We ask rhetorically, “Who will police the police”? Oversight of law enforcement is necessary in the 21st century.In Latin this phrase translates to “Quis custodiet Ipsos custodes”. Literally, it means “Who shall guard the guards?We hear the term “de-escalation of aggression” so often now-a-days.What does it really mean?In theory, de-escalation training has been widely implemented by U.S. law enforcement agencies in the wake of adverse public reaction to a rash of recent controversial police use of force (UoF) incidents.George Floyd, Michael Brown, Breonna Taylor, Philando Castille, Eric Garner, just to name a few.How is it effectively put into practice on a daily basis, or is it really being employed or implemented regularly, at all?The essence of de-escalation involves:— Engaging the person with empathy and reserving judgement— Maintaining a calming presence and— Setting limits, but picking your battlesOur learning concepts for this episode include:Educating you about the essentials of the de-escalation process that can aide you at:— work— home (in your interpersonal relationships) and— in the mean streets— We take a close up look at: Graham v. Connor | 490 U.S. 386 (1989) as it applies overall to the de-escalation process.And:Examine the origins of “officer induced jeopardy” and the ground-breaking ICAT training (Integrating Communication Assessment & Tactics) for the purposes of de-escalating a situation.And:The “comply or die” mentality that often plagues these high stress encounters with the public – especially and disproportionately encounters with individuals of color.“Officer induced jeopardy” is often the culprit in many violent encounters with the public. An officer can't pick a fight — end it with bullets and then claim self-defense — but they do this with regularity.This is the essence of officer induced jeopardy.We'll examine the Miami Beach, Florida Police Department's body worn camera (bwc) video footage of the recent arrest of U.S. Olympic sprinter and bronze medalist in the Summer Paris Games, Fred Kerley, and the high profile, rough arrest of Miami Dolphins star wide receiver, Tyreek Hill.And examine the Akron, Ohio Police Department's shooting of Jazmir Tucker, a 15-year-old high school freshman — with a high-powered assault rifle.You'll hear the exclusive audio of these high-profile arrests as we share the fact pattern in these cases as our case studies.Tune in to hear all of the explosive details.Follow our sponsors: Newsly, Feedspot. We want to hear from you!
In June 2020, Indian and Chinese forces engaged in a deadly clash along their disputed border in the Ladakh region. It was the deadliest confrontation since the 1962 war. Subsequently, bilateral ties between India and China deteriorated to their lowest level in decades. In recent months, however, China-India ties have begun to thaw.Last October, India and China struck a border patrol deal. Indian Prime Minister Modi and China's leader Xi Jinping subsequently met at the BRICS summit in Kazan—their first meeting in five years. That was followed by a round of talks by their top officials just a few weeks ago.To discuss the status and trajectory of India-China relations, including how the second Trump presidency and other geopolitical developments are likely to influence that relationship, host Bonnie Glaser is joined by Dr. Tanvi Madan. Tanvi is a senior fellow in the Center for Asia Policy Studies in the Foreign Policy program at the Brookings Institution. She is author of the book “Fateful Triangle: How China Shaped U.S.-India Relations During the Cold War.” Timestamps[00:00] Start[01:45] October 2024 Border Patrol Deal[06:40] Impetus for Stabilizing the Sino-Indian Relations[10:50] Assessment of Wang Yi-Ajit Doval Meeting [15:26] Reviving Confident-Building Measures (CBMs)[20:30] Overstating the Thaw in Sino-Indian Relations[25:54] Bilateral Trade Volume and Economic Relations[31:58] India-China Relations Moving Forward
Most leadership and management training has a top-down approach, but real human interaction involves influence in all directions - especially during a negotiation or confrontation. Mike and Jim discuss how to recognize when the other party is trying to influence or manipulate you, and how to lead your way through a tense situation. This is the essence of de-escalation and conflict management. Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman - https://amzn.to/4gLj8Na Goleman's 5 Elements of EQ - https://www.accipio.com/eleadership/personal-effectiveness/golemans-5-elements-of-eq/ Find us on social media (Facebook/Twitter/Instagram/YouTube) @TacTangents. You can join the conversation in our Facebook Discussion Group. Find all of our episodes, articles, some reading list ideas, and more on our website www.tacticaltangents.com Like what we're doing? Head over to Patreon and give us a buck for each new episode. You can also make a one-time contribution at GoFundMe. Intro music credit Bensound.com Photo credit: DVIDS
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Mike & Jim explore what the law enforcement use of force continuum is and what it means. They also talk about how to apply lessons from policing toward personal defense and even the military. Conflict Management, De-Escalation, and Reasonableness are universal. Find us on social media (Facebook/Twitter/Instagram/YouTube) @TacTangents. You can join the conversation in our Facebook Discussion Group. Find all of our episodes, articles, some reading list ideas, and more on our website www.tacticaltangents.com Like what we're doing? Head over to Patreon and give us a buck for each new episode. You can also make a one-time contribution at GoFundMe. Intro music credit Bensound.com
" When there is a need for the emotions to come into the room, when we should talk about our feelings, we need to do that in an intentional and probably structured way."Karen & Paul tackle the importance of acknowledging emotions in decision-making, especially when groups are stuck. Links and items mentioned in this episode:The Cooperative Culture Handbook, Exercise 12.1
What if the key to managing conflicts in corrections is as simple as mastering the art of listening? Join us as we examine the evolution of de-escalation techniques, starting from the era of "verbal judo" to contemporary methods centered on active listening and emotional regulation. You'll learn why truly hearing and understanding the other person can be transformative, not just in corrections but also in law enforcement, nursing, and dispatch roles. We underscore the critical role of listening in managing tensions and preventing conflicts.Have you ever wondered if less-lethal and non-lethal tools like Pepperball can be effective forms of de-escalation? Sometimes the mere presence of a non-lethal system or the professional appearance of a respected correctional officer is all that is needed. This episode weighs the effectiveness of traditional force versus modern de-escalation tactics, emphasizing the importance of attempting de-escalation first to mitigate injuries and liabilities. Discover how strategic, less confrontational approaches can be game-changers in handling disruptive inmates. PepperBallFrom crowd control to cell extractions, the PepperBall system is the safe, non-lethal option.OMNIOMNI is cutting-edge software designed to track inmates and assets within your prison or jail. Command PresenceBringing prisons and jails the training they deserve!Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the showContact us: mike@theprisonofficer.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePrisonOfficerTake care of each other and Be Safe behind those walls and fences!
Send us a textlove doves and walrus willows, Crouched in the Barbarian Lair on a Paddleday eve delivering a fresh Zany Audio Tidbit, dishing some shout-outs (because friends are the best), plus thoughts on utilizing mediation techniques, body language and heart math to assist in de-escalating situations and providing security for oneself and one's loved ones. A maxim that just keeps getting truer every sun cycle: if you want something done decently, may as well do it your damn self. And it's all about coming to the table in good faith. To skip the ramblin' plugs and get right at the meat and potatoes, your timestamp is: 26:18.un amor,little raven kerkawww*Heartfelt appreciation to the adults in the room keeping back-channel negotiations going right now. I don't take any moment for granted these days.*TRACKLISTHulk Hogan - Real American (FAIR USE: Verbed & Slowed)Hulk Hogan Ichiban - Axe Bomber (FAIR USE: Verbed & Slowed)12 Time All Star (& childhood hero of mine) Hakeem Olajuwon speaks about dominating NBA even while fasting during RamadansteveNspace - Walter Sobchak Greatest Moments (Big Lebowski YouTubes) Scene from Pulp Fiction: Samuel L. Jackson - Ezekiel 25:17Afro Lofi - ELEVATE YOUR MIND (smooth lofi to ascend/vibe to)Hanumankind ft. Kalmi - Big Dawgs (FAIR USE: Slowed & Verbed)SUPPORT FRIEND MONA AND ME ON YOUTUBES!Can Haz Subscribes? mew purr mew? Mona: https://www.youtube.com/@intothefloo1505Barbarian: https://www.youtube.com/@barbarian.noeticsExcellent Supps and Health Advice thru Christian Yordanov: Web: https://christianyordanov.com/Book: How to Actually Live Longer, Vol.1: https://amzn.to/3OnZJGlSupport the showSupport My Sponsor:Magic Mind Adaptogenic & Nootropic Elixir 20% off at Checkout! Support Link here | Use Code: BARBARIANNOETICS20Tip me in Solana (crypto):Address: 9XPHpqH7GawTGtPgZAzfXFU6oPWTpSua1QXwRYAWVh9y If you dig the pod, check out the adjacent video & livestream show Barbarian Yak Fest on Rokfin: https://rokfin.com/BarbarianYakFestFind me on IG: barbarian_noetics Become a Patron: patreon.com/noetics (unlock bonus content plus win a Dream Interpretation)Direct Donate on PayPal @barbarian.noetics@proton.me Cash App@ $BarbarianRavenbuymeacoffee.com/noetics.Spread the word and tell a friend. Remember to set the BNP on Auto Download after you subscribe. I appreciate you all. Section 107 of the Copyright Act of 1976 allows for “fair use” for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, education and rese...
In this episode of Main Street Matters, Elaine and Jordan interview Phillip Toppino, founder of WOFT, a self-defense training center. They discuss the importance of scenario safety, de-escalation techniques, and how to prepare families and children for real-life situations. Phillip shares insights on addressing safety concerns in communities, the significance of training in corporate settings, and the costs associated with such training. The conversation emphasizes the need for proactive safety measures and the value of personalized training experiences. Main Street Matters is part of the Salem Podcast Network. For more visit JobCreatorsNetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The waters, as well as the rocks, reefs and submerged shoals of the South China Sea are a major source of friction in East Asia. In recent months, tensions have flared between two of the claimants – China and the Philippines – over Second Thomas Shoal, a submerged feature in the Spratly Islands, which the Chinese call Ren Ai Jiao. In 1999, the Philippines intentionally grounded a Philippine Navy transport vessel called the Sierra Madre on the reef and since then the outpost has been manned by a small contingent of marines.In 2016, an arbitral tribunal established under the UN Convention on the Law of the Sea ruled that Second Thomas Shoal is a low-tide elevation located within the exclusive economic zone of the Philippines and therefore sovereignty belongs to the Philippines. No other country can legitimately claim sovereignty over the feature or the waters around it. Beijing doesn't recognize the ruling, even though it was legally binding on both China and the Philippines.Late last year, Chinese Coast Guard and maritime militia vessels began aggressively interfering with the Philippines' routine missions to deliver supplies to the Filipino forces on the Sierra Madre. On several occasions, Chinese ships have used high-pressure water cannons and rammed Filipino boats. The most serious confrontation took place in mid-June, when the Chinese used axes and knives to damage multiple Philippine vessels. A Filipino navy sailor lost his thumb in the skirmish. Negotiations between Beijing and Manila in early July produced a provisional arrangement, and the Philippines subsequently successfully conducted a resupply operation. It is uncertain whether the understanding will hold, however, since Beijing and Manila publicly disagree about what has been agreed upon.To discuss the situation at Second Thomas Shoal and China's approach to the South China Sea, host Bonnie Glaser is joined by Zhang Feng, a visiting scholar at Yale Law School's Paul Tsai China Center. His research focuses on Chinese foreign policy, international relations theory, and international relations in East Asia. Timestamps[00:00] Start[02:31] Why is the South China Sea so important to China? [05:30] Has China overstepped in the South China Sea? [08:54] Reasons for Deepening Sino-Filipino Confrontation[12:05] Beijing's Reaction to a Reinforced Second Thomas Shoal[13:30] Beijing's Perception of the US-Philippines Mutual Defense Treaty[16:44] Miscalculating American Willingness to Intervene[21:32] Beijing-Manila Provisional Agreement [25:00] Chinese Deadline for the Philippines vis-à-vis the Second Thomas Shoal[27:38] Gauging the Risk of Escalation or Conflict[30:25] Stabilizing and Resolving the Second Thomas Shoal Issue
Doug Noll, an award-winning author, speaker, and trainer, shares his journey from being a trial lawyer to becoming a peacemaker and mediator. He discusses how his practice of Tai Chi and the realization of the limitations of the legal system led him to make the decision to leave his law practice and pursue a career in conflict resolution. Doug also explains the concept of affect labeling, a three-step process that involves ignoring the words, reading the emotions, and reflecting back the speaker's emotions using U statements. In this conversation, Doug Noll discusses the power of affect labeling and its ability to de-escalate conflicts and build rapport. He explains how affect labeling can be used in various contexts, such as parenting, coaching, and sales. Noll emphasizes the importance of emotional mastery and the role of emotions in effective communication. He also challenges the notion of competition and highlights the value of serving others and creating a more peaceful world. Noll provides resources for further exploration of affect labeling and offers workshops, coaching, and training.Connect with Doug via his website www.dougnoll.comTakeawaysPutting your mind to something can lead to amazing accomplishments over time.Transitioning from one career to another may require personal growth and patience.Success can be redefined to prioritize service to others.Being open to opportunities can lead to unexpected and impactful projects.Affect labeling is a powerful technique for deescalating conflicts by reflecting back the speaker's emotions. Affect labeling is a powerful tool for de-escalating conflicts and building rapport.Affect labeling can be used in various contexts, including parenting, coaching, and sales.Emotional mastery is essential for effective communication and understanding others.Competition has its place, but it should not define our lives.Serving others and creating a more peaceful world should be the focus of our actions.Sign up for the monthly newsletter with Steve and Career Competitor by providing your details here - Request to become part of our communityAlso be sure to give him and the show a follow on Instagram @careercompetitorpodcast
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Dr. Holmes discusses key points to de-escalation with Jonas Cooper, MSW. De-escalating challenging behaviors or big emotions is a critical skill for both the student/child and adults! Becoming confident and regulated with these skills is helpful.
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Welcome back in this episode we have a question on how to change ones own gaslighting behavior, whether to end a friendship when that will cause collateral damage in other relationships, and whether having a super soft speaking voice is something that can be addressed in therapy. Deescalation skills: https://hub.tmlt.org/tmlt-blog/de-escalation-techniques-and-resourcesIf you are an Apple user please rate us!If you are a Spotify user, please rate us! Submit a question to the show!Help us reach #1 on Goodpods!Listen ad-free, get the show a day early and enjoy the pre-show hang out on the same app you're using RIGHT NOW at www.Patreon.com/Therapy where you can also access our vast library of deep dives, interviews, skill shares, reviews and rants as well as our live discord chat!Interested in Nick's mental health approach to fitness? Check out www.MentalFitPersonalTraining.comCheck out Dr. Jim's book "Dadvice: 50 Fatherly Life Lessons" at www.DadviceBook.comGrab some swag at our store, www.PodTherapyBaitShop.comPlay Jim's Neurotic Bingo at home while you listen to the show, or don't, I'm not your supervisor.Submit questions to:www.PodTherapy.netPodTherapyGuys@gmail.comFollow us on Social Media:FacebookInstagramTwitterResources:Suicide Prevention Lifeline - 1-800-273-8255.Veterans Crisis Line - 1-800-273-8255.Substance Abuse & Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) National Helpline - (1-800-662-HELP (4357)OK2Talk Helpline Teen Helpline - 1 (800) 273-TALKU.S. Mental Health Resources Hotline - 211
It's Whitney's one year anniversary! This week we have questions on how therapists are supervised, whether to break up with a therapist after two years, and how to handle mini emotional breakdowns.Deescalation skills: https://hub.tmlt.org/tmlt-blog/de-escalation-techniques-and-resourcesIf you are an Apple user please rate us!If you are a Spotify user, please rate us! Submit a question to the show!Help us reach #1 on Goodpods!Listen ad-free, get the show a day early and enjoy the pre-show hang out on the same app you're using RIGHT NOW at www.Patreon.com/Therapy where you can also access our vast library of deep dives, interviews, skill shares, reviews and rants as well as our live discord chat!Interested in Nick's mental health approach to fitness? Check out www.MentalFitPersonalTraining.comCheck out Dr. Jim's book "Dadvice: 50 Fatherly Life Lessons" at www.DadviceBook.comGrab some swag at our store, www.PodTherapyBaitShop.comPlay Jim's Neurotic Bingo at home while you listen to the show, or don't, I'm not your supervisor.Submit questions to:www.PodTherapy.netPodTherapyGuys@gmail.comFollow us on Social Media:FacebookInstagramTwitterResources:Suicide Prevention Lifeline - 1-800-273-8255.Veterans Crisis Line - 1-800-273-8255.Substance Abuse & Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) National Helpline - (1-800-662-HELP (4357)OK2Talk Helpline Teen Helpline - 1 (800) 273-TALKU.S. Mental Health Resources Hotline - 211
Learn Healthy Strategies to Deal with a Person with Anger IssuesAre you overwhelmed by the political climate, difficult people in healthcare, or even the person riding your bumper on the roadway? We take a look at WWII to learn why you can't appease an aggressor, but also explore techniques to better navigate situations with someone who has anger issues.In this Episode:00:00 – Our Sponsor: Tree of Life Memorials and Digital & Stone00:20 – Intro02:24 – Nazi Concentration Camps on British Soil07:56 – History: Why You Can't Appease an Aggressor18:32 – Strategies to Navigate an Aggressive Situation27:36 – OutroFollow us on Facebook | Instagram | Email us at mail@every1dies.orgClick on this link to Rate and Review our podcast!
Welcome to this bonus episode of the Cops and Writers Podcast. A little while ago, my good friend Kathleen Donnelley approached me asking if I would give a presentation to the Rocky Mountain Mystery Writers Association regarding Verbal Judo. How can I turn down a good friend and a chance to talk? One minor hitch. I'm not an instructor of Verbal Judo or some kind of Verbal Judo guru. After some self-reflection, I recalled the thousands of times myself or other cops on the street used Verbal Judo (or whatever they are calling it today) and I thought I could talk about that. Here are some of the talking points.-Flashbacks to being in the academy in 1995 and receiving Verbal Judo training. -Props to Dr. George J. Thompson who literally wrote the book, Verbal Judo, Updated Edition: The Gentle Art of Persuasion. -Attending an eight-hour class given by Dr. Thompson.-Sometimes you can say things the right way and say the right things, and the incident can go sideways in the blink of an eye. -People would rather be asked than be told.-People prefer options over threats. -The history of law enforcement and de-escalation. -Some quick and easy ways to avoid fights or confrontations. Check out Field Training (Brew City Blues Book 1)!!Enjoy the Cops and Writers book series.Please visit the Cops and Writers website. Only for Cops and Writers Podcast listeners! Get 50% off the audiobook version of the F.B.I. K-9 thriller, Avenging Adam by Jodi Burnett. Use code, https://jodi-burnett.com/copsandwriters/Support the show
AP correspondent Karen Chammas reports on Mideast Tensions Militias
Biden sanctions violent Israeli settlers in occupied West Bank, uncertain if tactic can curb vigilantism compromising peace prospects, as humanitarian crisis escalates in Gaza under Israeli blockade.
Yemen's Houthi rebels threaten strong retaliation against the US after naval clashes. Secretary Blinken tries easing Israeli-Iran regional tensions but conflicts persist. Israel fights genocide allegations in the Hague over Gaza air strikes. Grieving mothers recount Hamas's horrific attack on a civilian bomb shelter. Antisemitism surges as Middle East conflicts continue escalating with global impact.
Radicle Narrative is Rebroadcasting Episode 138 of Southpaw. Here are the details, "On this episode of Southpaw, Sam is joined by activists Emma Taylor and Mylan Tootoosis for an anti-colonial discussion on de-escalation and community care. "The Cunning of the Adult Supremacist": https:// www.colbytootoosis.com/writings/adult-supremacy Radicle Narrative: https://linktr.ee/radiclenarrative Listen to Fighter's Brew: https://www.patreon.com/posts/76751767 Sign up for Liberation Martial Arts Online: https://www.patreon.com/posts/ liberation-arts-72505630 We can't continue to produce important episodes like this one without your solidarity. There is no Southpaw network without your financial support. In return, not only do you help produce our shows but you also get access to more great content. It's mutual aid. Find our Patreon, swag, and other ways to support us at: https://www.southpawpod.com You can find Southpaw on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram: @SouthpawPod You can find Radicle Narrative on Instagram and Facebook: @RadicleNarrative www.RadicleNarrative.com Music by Boss of Three: https://www.facebook.com/BossofThree/
There's polarization, and then there's toxic polarization. We all know what that feels like, especially at this moment around Israel and Palestine. For many of us, the temperature of the rhetoric is so incendiary that even though we might have deep and nuanced feelings, let alone education, experience, or personal ties to the issue, the thought of wading into what seems like a totally polarized conversation feels frightening and pointless. But, we still want to be able to engage in our world, and maybe even dip our toe into conversation with people we believe to be well-intentioned, even if their views might seem extreme or uninformed to us. But how can we do that without turning up the temperature and the volume by adding our voice? Thankfully, Rabbi Rachel Schmelkin is here to help. Rabbi Schmelkin specializes in navigating toxic polarization and crossing divides. In this episode, she helps us understand what's happening to people–including ourselves–when we encounter or engage in polarized or potentially polarizing topics, and reminds us that we have choices in how–and if–we engage.TERMS: Havdalah: Hebrew for “separation”, the Havdalah service marks the end of Shabbat and the return to the "normal" week.Rabbinate: The office or function of being a rabbiMotive misattribution: Assuming that the motivations of others are negative in a situation where we would accept our own motives as perfectly reasonable. This is related to motive asymmetry, where people assume the motives of those on the other side of a conflict are diametrically opposed to ours, creating an intractable conflict.Musar (or Mussar): A movement to use Jewish ethics, as opposed to rules, to guide behavior and character. Mussar facilitators use these principles to guide challenging conversations. Sacred Value: A value that is impervious to material incentives to change.Backfire effect: Digging in on an existing belief in response to information that disproves it.4-7-8 breathing: a breathing technique to reduce anxiety where one inhales for a count of four, holds the breath for a count of seven, and exhales for a count of eight.Beginner's Mind: A mindset that releases any previously existing knowledge or conceptions to allow for maximum curiosity and openness, approaching like a total beginner on the topic.b'tzelem Elohim: Hebrew for “in the image of God”, it refers to all humans being created in the image of God and therefore being of equal value.ken y'hi ratzon: Translated as “let it be so”, it literally means “let it be God's will”MORE: One America Movement: https://oneamericamovement.org/ *Quick disclosure: The One America movement is a catalyst partner of Stand Together, which is my employer in my day job. They have no involvement in this podcast, which does not represent them or their interests in any way. Over Zero: https://www.projectoverzero.org/ Beyond Conflict: https://beyondconflictint.org/ Support the showLike the show? Support it! Or don't, that's cool too. Just glad you're here! https://www.buzzsprout.com/2196108/supporters/new
On this episode John & Eric sit down and discuss a buzz word that is often used amongst elected politicians & their appointed police Managers and that word is #deescalation. Although it is used often today it has yet to be defined by those in Public Safety, so #TheFinestUnfiltered defined it for them. To learn more about us please visit us at: Website: www.TheFinestUnfiltered.com Youtube: https://youtube.com/@TheFinestUnfiltered?si=Y5ZcHqdgVLunTYx9X: RetiredNYFinest Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheFinestUnfiltered Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/c-5157835 X: https://twitter.com/RetiredNYFinest/ If you are interested in purchasing a Finest Unfiltered T-Shirt please visit https://meyersuniforms.com/265-unfiltered-podcast-tee/ For any financial or investment advice please contact LaidLaw Blue at 888-901-2583 (Blue) or visit them online at https://laidlawwealthmanagement.com/laidlaw-blue/ tell them your friends at #TheFinestUnfiltered sent you.
Amanda Ripley is a New York Times bestselling author, journalist, and co-founder of Good Conflict, a media and training company that helps people reimagine conflict. As the violence abroad and at home escalates, Ripley and Patel discuss “high conflict” – what it is, how it impacts individuals and society, and ways to resolve high-conflict situations.GUEST BIO: Amanda has spent her career trying to make sense of complicated human mysteries by following survivors of all kinds. Her most recent book is High Conflict: Why We Get Trapped and How We Get Out, winner of a 2022 Christopher Award. Her previous books include The Unthinkable: Who Survives When Disaster Strikes—and Why, which was published in 15 countries and turned into a PBS documentary, and The Smartest Kids in the World—and How They Got That Way, a New York Times bestseller which was also turned into a documentary film. Her work has also appeared in the New York Times, the Atlantic, the Wall Street Journal, Slate, The Guardian, the Harvard Business Review, and the Times of London. Her stories helped Time win two National Magazine Awards. Previously, she served as an Emerson Collective Senior Fellow and the host of the weekly Slate podcast How To!You can tune in to all episodes on our website, Apple, Spotify, and wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. New episodes drop every Tuesday at 5 a.m. CST.
Two weeks after a terror attack by Hamas, and two weeks into a devastating retaliatory bombing campaign by Israel, thousands of lives are gone, and the world wonders how and when the horror might stop. There are calls for a humanitarian pause. A ceasefire. Deescalation. It seems impossible in the moment, but then, it usually does.So today, a brief history of ceasefires, peace deals, and other quests for a pause in a deadly conflict—and an explanation from a longtime observer of how they come together...or don't. How far away might a ceasefire be now? What needs to happen? Who brings what to the table? How can Israel possibly back down now?GUEST: Dr. Randa Slim, Director of the Conflict Resolution and Track II Dialogues Program at the Middle East Institute
Primary & Secondary ModCastThe panel discusses the concepts behind police de-escalation. misunderstandings, and their actual application.Host: Matt LandfairPanel:Chuck HaggardAsa KeefeWarren WilsonEpisode sponsors:Big Tex Ordnance - https://www.bigtexordnance.com/Overwatch Precision - https://www.overwatchprecision.comPhlster - https://www.phlsterholsters.com/Primary Arms - https://www.primaryarms.com/Walther Arms - https://www.waltherarms.com/Our Patreon can be found here:https://www.patreon.com/PrimaryandSecondaryPrimary & Secondary:YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/PrimarySecondaryNetworkWebsite: https://primaryandsecondary.com/Facebook: https://facebook.com/primaryandsecondary/Forum: https://primaryandsecondary.com/forumComplete Audio Podcasts: https://spreaker.com/show/primary-secondary-podcast
With thousands of policing agencies scrambling in recent years to change use of force policies and provide 'deescalation' training to their officers and millions if not billions of dollars being spent to provide this training, do we know if it is even making a difference to impact officer performance on the street? Interestingly, despite widespread promotion and proliferation of deescalation training, no research has empirically demonstrated that this training is reducing use of force frequency or severity in the field. In addition, it is unknown if these policy reactions and unproven deescalation training programs are having unintended negative consequences that may increase injuries to officers or citizens. In this fascinating and instructive interview, we speak with Dr. Robin Engel who led a research project with the Louisville Metropolitan Police Department (LMPD) to evaluate the impact of their agency's deescalation program. This study, 'Assessing the Impact of Deescalation Training on Police Behavior: Reducing Police Use of Force in the Louisville Metro Police Department' (published in Criminology & Public Policy) determined that the LMPD deescalation program significantly reduced the frequency of use of force incidents as well as led to reductions in citizen and officer injury rates and severity. This interview contains very important policy and training implications for agencies implementing deescalation or seeking to evaluate the effectiveness of their existing deescalation program. Dr. Engel serves as Senior Vice President at the National Policing Institute, following over 25 years in academic positions within higher education institutions. As an award-winning researcher, she has partnered with dozens of police agencies in the U.S. and internationally, served as Principal Investigator for over a hundred research studies and projects, and ranked among the top academics nationally in criminal justice/criminology. From 2015 – 2019, she served as Vice President for Safety and Reform at the University of Cincinnati, where her executive duties included oversight of daily operations and successful implementation of comprehensive police reforms in the aftermath of a fatal police shooting of an unarmed motorist. As a top scholar and trusted leading authority in police science, Dr. Engel oversees the Institute's vast scientific investments designed to translate and integrate research into practice.
This is the second in a 3 part series on De-Escalation Training – Managing Conflict. It is based on the Police Executive Research Forum (PERF) document “Guiding Principles of Use of Force” March 2016. The document has 30 guiding principles. It is meant to guide criminal justice in how to deal with situations that involve mental health, substance abuse or other infirmities, not involving a firearm. Part 1 was about a Tactical Pause. This one about a Duty to Intervene. Police responses are examined but the bible is full of places, intersections of intervention. And the bible gives us plenty of examples where we can intervene. We have a duty to intervene, because if we don’t intervene, Satan will!
This is the second in a 3 part series on De-Escalation Training – Managing Conflict. It is based on the Police Executive Research Forum (PERF) document “Guiding Principles of Use of Force” March 2016. The document has 30 guiding principles. It is meant to guide criminal justice in how to deal with situations that involve mental health, substance abuse or other infirmities, not involving a firearm. Part 1 was about a Tactical Pause. This one about a Duty to Intervene. Police responses are examined but the bible is full of places, intersections of intervention. And the bible gives us plenty of examples where we can intervene. We have a duty to intervene, because if we don’t intervene, Satan will!
Have you ever heard of De-escalation? It is a term used routinely in mental health and policing. The premise is that situations that are full of emotion and even danger where people are experiencing a crisis moment, can be managed through de-escalation techniques. These crisis moments can be caused by drugs, alcohol or mental illness or emotional disorders. De-escalation techniques can help handle these situations. It is also used when people in these situations have a weapon other than a firearm. Crisis moments, emotional situations, anger are things that we all deal with, either with those we love, ourselves or those around us. The bible has some techniques to deal with these moments and how Christians should react.
Have you ever heard of De-escalation? It is a term used routinely in mental health and policing. The premise is that situations that are full of emotion and even danger where people are experiencing a crisis moment, can be managed through de-escalation techniques. These crisis moments can be caused by drugs, alcohol or mental illness or emotional disorders. De-escalation techniques can help handle these situations. It is also used when people in these situations have a weapon other than a firearm. Crisis moments, emotional situations, anger are things that we all deal with, either with those we love, ourselves or those around us. The bible has some techniques to deal with these moments and how Christians should react.
Have you ever heard of De-escalation? It is a term used routinely in mental health and policing. The premise is that situations that are full of emotion and even danger where people are experiencing a crisis moment, can be managed through de-escalation techniques. These crisis moments can be caused by drugs, alcohol or mental illness or emotional disorders. De-escalation techniques can help handle these situations. It is also used when people in these situations have a weapon other than a firearm. Crisis moments, emotional situations, anger are things that we all deal with, either with those we love, ourselves or those around us. The bible has some techniques to deal with these moments and how Christians should react.
Have you ever heard of De-escalation? It is a term used routinely in mental health and policing. The premise is that situations that are full of emotion and even danger where people are experiencing a crisis moment, can be managed through de-escalation techniques. These crisis moments can be caused by drugs, alcohol or mental illness or emotional disorders. De-escalation techniques can help handle these situations. It is also used when people in these situations have a weapon other than a firearm. Crisis moments, emotional situations, anger are things that we all deal with, either with those we love, ourselves or those around us. The bible has some techniques to deal with these moments and how Christians should react.
Join host Sebastian Rusk as he interviews seasoned security consultant and author Simon Osamoh on Beyond The Story podcast. In this episode, Sebastian and Simon delve into Simon's journey as a detective in England, his transition to the US security industry and his experiences as an entrepreneur. The conversation covers Simon's involvement in various podcasts, his views on entrepreneurship and success, the importance of de-escalation in difficult situations, and the significance of perseverance in business and podcasting. This thought-provoking episode also emphasizes the need to stay vigilant and aware of potential dangers in our day-to-day lives. Tune in today to gain new perspectives and insights. Don't forget to subscribe and share your valuable feedback with us!Timestamps[00:00:05] Introducing Simon: From Detective to Counter-terrorism Expert[00:03:16] From Detective to Chief Problem Solver[00:06:29] Business benefits of podcasting[00:09:48] De-escalation and Entrepreneurship Strategies[00:13:00] Perseverance in Business and Podcasting[00:15:51] Safety and GratitudeBest Quotes[00:00:29] I followed some of your stuff for quite a while. So it's an honor and privilege to be with you today[00:01:22] My primary sort of business is security consulting, so we help organizations stay safe and secure schools, small businesses, houses of worship[00:03:49] As a police officer, all you were doing was solving people's problems And as an entrepreneur as a business owner, you are really rewarded by how many problems you can solve for people[00:08:25] Having a podcast allows people to get to know you to hear your voice, to resonate with you, find that connection with youAll Quotes[00:10:55] The world needs a little bit of that these days. I think we always have[00:01:22] My primary sort of business is security consulting, so we help organizations stay safe and secure schools, small businesses, houses of worship[00:08:25] Having a podcast allows people to get to know you to hear your voice, to resonate with you, find that connection with you[00:14:09] You gotta keep persevering[00:03:07] Chief problem solver and entrepreneur. Isn't that what an entrepreneur is? Is this a problem solver? Exactly. Yeah. Yeah[00:08:54] But his connection was so strong. He felt like he knew me[00:00:29] I followed some of your stuff for quite a while. So it's an honor and privilege to be with you today[00:09:57] De-escalation is finding the strategies or the abilities to help someone through a crisis or a very highly agitated situation[00:08:05] I think the single purpose is the authority building that it brings and also that no like and trust[00:09:15] So I think every business should have a podcast for that lens to build authority, but also to build that no like and trust[Unknown] So having a bit of strategy in what you do, you know, again, that really helps been an entrepreneur[Unknown] Being flexible is a huge underrated task and tool to have in the world of business and entrepreneurship[00:00:58] I'm a hard person to categorize as well because I did many different things. So I think people find me fascinating[00:05:14] Helping organizations stay safe and secure. A lot of sort of active shooter training[Unknown] But there's always an idea. There's always something to chase. And I think that is 1 of the hardest things is to know where to go[00:02:45] I guess, all my roles really have been in a sort of very stressful, very stressful positions, but it all sort of stems back from me being a police officer within the UK[00:04:06] So I think it's a unique skill to be able to see the end result. Without seeing the obstacles that stand in their way[00:03:49] As a police officer, all you were doing was solving people's problems And as an entrepreneur as a business owner, you are really rewarded by how many problems you can solve for people[00:05:56] Being on a podcast interview with him for an hour, where else do you meet a billionaire who's been there, done it and got the t-shirts?[00:12:40] I believe 1 of the strengths of an entrepreneur is finishing the journeyBlog PostArticle 1: Simon Osamoh - A Journey from Organized Crime and Terrorism to EntrepreneurshipOn this episode of Beyond the Story hosted by Sebastian Rusk, Simon Osamoh shared his incredible journey from being a police officer specializing in organized crime and terrorism in the UK to becoming an entrepreneur in the US. Despite being a hard person to categorize, he has managed to make a name for himself in various fields.Here are three tips we can learn from Simon's journey:1. Embrace change - Simon's journey has been full of change. Moving from the UK to the US and switching from law enforcement to entrepreneurship, he has had to adapt to various situations. But through it all, he has taken advantage of the opportunities that come with change.2. Focus - Simon's roles have all been very stressful, but he has managed to thrive in them by focusing on the task at hand. Whether it was in law enforcement or as an entrepreneur, he puts his all into everything he does.3. Be curious - Simon's fascination with people's backstories is what drew him to podcasting. By being curious about the lives of others, he has been able to uncover inspiring stories of resilience and success.In Simon's own words, “What I really believe in is innovation and compassion and just doing things that are different.” If you're looking for inspiration on how to make the most of change and carve your own path, make sure to listen to this episode.Article 2: Staying Safe and Secure in Today's World with Simon OsamohThe world can be a dangerous place, but Simon Osamoh is doing his part to make it safer. As a security consultant and author, he has made it his mission to help organizations stay safe and secure.In this episode of Beyond the Story hosted by Sebastian Rusk, Simon discussed his background in law enforcement in the UK and how it led him to his current role as a security consultant in the US. He also shared tips on how individuals and organizations can protect themselves in today's world.Here are three takeaways from the episode:1. Don't take security for granted - It's easy to think that bad things won't happen to us, but the reality is that everyone is vulnerable. Simon encourages individuals and organizations to take security seriously and be proactive in protecting themselves.2. Be aware of your surroundings - One of the simplest things you can do to stay safe is to be aware of what's going on around you. Simon emphasized the importance of situational awareness and knowing what to look for in potential threats.3. Stay informed - With new threats emerging all the time, it's essential to stay informed about the latest security trends and best practices. Simon recommended following reputable news sources and consulting with security experts.As Simon said, “We live in a constantly evolving landscape of emerging threats and hazards.” By taking his advice and being proactive about security, we can all help make the world a safer place to live. Make sure to listen to the full episode for more insights on how to stay safe and secure.Social Post1.
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All of our relationships include some conflict, the big question is how skillfully we handle that conflict when it appears. Dr. Rick Hanson joins Forrest to walk us through some effective ways to deal with common forms of interpersonal conflict. They explore the four common disagreements, the subtle ways power shows up in our relationships, separating content from process, and how to stand your ground.The material from this episode comes in part from Rick's new book Making Great Relationships: Simple Practices for Solving Conflicts, Building Connection, and Fostering Love. You can find it wherever books are sold.Watch the Episode: Prefer watching video? You can watch this episode on YouTube.Key Topics:0:00: Introduction and Rick's new book1:25: Common conflicts Rick has seen in couples counseling3:40: The importance of the way something is said8:10: Disentangling tone from content9:45: Distinguishing intent from impact12:10: The unconscious functions of conflict17:50: Navigating differences in temperament, and cultivating enthusiasm25:05: Power tripping, control, and misinterpretation29:50: Primate politics, escalation, and identifying what's really happening35:45: Trust39:15: How much are we willing to tolerate?41:10: Dealing with entitlement, and when to push back43:40: Peoples' capacity to change, balancing harmony and truth46:10: Focus on communicating for yourself49:05: Recap Support the Podcast: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link.Sponsors:This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp, and you can join over a million people using the world's largest online counseling platform. Visit betterhelp.com/beingwell for 10% off your first month!Want to sleep better? Try the Calm app! Visit calm.com/beingwell for 40% off a premium subscription.Connect with the show:Subscribe on iTunesFollow Forrest on YouTubeFollow us on InstagramFollow Forrest on InstagramFollow Rick on FacebookFollow Forrest on FacebookVisit Forrest's website
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