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SHOW NOTES People pleasing often starts as a strategy for getting love and staying connected. If I'm easy enough, helpful enough, agreeable enough — they'll love me. But it never actually works. Because the love you earn through performance never feels like the love you were looking for. In today's episode, Celeste explains why people pleasing and genuine love are fundamentally incompatible — and what it actually takes to feel truly loved. Today's shift: Identify one relationship where you've been performing for love instead of receiving it — and get honest about how that's been working for you. Events Store Follow Celeste podcast page on tick tock , facebook and instagram Follow STWYT Wellness center on tick tock , facebook and instagram
Paul asks, “What can separate us from the Love of God?” Nothing! It is not about feeling God's love. God loves us no matter what and nothing will ever change that!
Why are so many of us are unknowingly blocking ourselves from feeling loved whilst desperately trying to chase it? Harry Reis is a renowned social psychologist and Professor at the University of Rochester who has spent decades researching love, intimacy, vulnerability, and what actually makes humans feel connected. He recently co-authored the book 'How to Feel More Loved' with Sonja Lyubomirsky, who is one of the world’s leading happiness researchers. Ripper collab right there, huh! We spoke about online dating checklists, social media validation, the weird performance of modern identity, AI relationships, conflict, growth, and the fear most of us carry that if people really knew us… they’d leave. Harry also dropped one idea worth pondering... that love isn’t just romance. It’s belonging... it's being seen, understood, valued, and safe enough to be fully human around other people. There’s also a lot in this one about the tension between comfort and growth too. Why relationships that never challenge us don’t actually deepen us. Why rupture and repair matters. Why conflict isn’t failure. And why the things that shape us most are usually the hard conversations, awkward truths, and moments where we stop hiding behind the polished version of ourselves. Also… we somehow ended up talking about robot partners, Star Trek, and whether AI could ever replace human love. So, there’s that... SPONSORED BY TESTART FAMILY LAWYERS Website: testartfamilylawyers.com.au HARRY REIS Website: howtofeelloved.com/ TIFFANEE COOK Linktree: linktr.ee/rollwiththepunches Website: tiffcook.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Why is it that so many of us are loved... and yet don't actually feel loved?Dr. Sonja Lyubomirsky is a Professor of Psychology at UC Riverside and one of the world's leading researchers on happiness. Her newest book, How to Feel Loved, co-authored with relationship scientist Harry Reis, lands at a strange moment: a time when more people than ever say they are connected, and more people than ever say they don't actually feel it. In this conversation with Dr. Michael Gervais, Sonja offers a quietly radical reframe. After 36 years of studying what makes a life happy, she has come to believe the answer lies in this: Feeling loved.And here is where it gets interesting. Sonja's research is showing that feeling loved is not something we have to wait for. It's something we can help create. Most of us, when we sense the absence, default to one of two strategies. We try to be more lovable. Or we try to change the person on the other side. Sonja argues that neither one actually works. What changes a relationship is changing the conversation.She walks Mike through the five mindsets at the heart of the book: the sharing mindset, listening to learn, radical curiosity, open heart, and multiplicity. Along the way, they explore why most of us are listening to respond instead of listening to learn, the three words people actually want to hear (hint: it's not I love you), and why ‘tell me more' might be one of the most loving phrases in the English language. Sonja shares her foggy glass metaphor for why being known is the prerequisite to being loved, the Michelangelo effect, and a striking line the Dalai Lama once said to her about how we hold each other.The conversation also gets honest about the harder edges. Bridging political divides at the dinner table. Staying curious about a partner of 30 years. Navigating the modern questions around AI companions, monogamy, and what it means to really go deep with another human. And the research on what tiny acts of kindness, including the impact a 10-second compliment can have.If you've ever been surrounded by people who love you and still felt unseen, this conversation is a gentle invitation back in. The good news is that feeling loved is under your control, more than you think. Sonja's research will show you exactly where to start.Most of us are waiting to feel loved. Sonja shows us how to create the conditions for it... starting today._____________________________________________________Links & ResourcesThis episode is brought to you in part by our partner Sunlighten, the company that has pioneered infrared sauna technology. Go to https://findingmastery.com/sunlighten to see how you can save up to $2,200 on their mPulse Intelligent Sauna.Subscribe to our YouTube Channel for more conversations at the intersection of high performance, leadership, and wellbeing: https://www.youtube.com/c/FindingMastery Get exclusive discounts and support our amazing sponsors!Go to: https://findingmastery.com/sponsors/ Subscribe to the Finding Mastery newsletter for weekly high performance insights: https://www.findingmastery.com/newsletter Download Dr. Mike's Morning Mindset Routine: findingmastery.com/morningmindsetFollow on YouTube, Instagram, LinkedIn, and XBook: How to Feel Loved by Dr. Sonja Lyubomirsky and Harry Reis. Learn more and take the mindset quiz at howtofeellove.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
You've heard that God loves you—so why don't you feel it? Kyle gets honest about the gap between knowing God's love and actually feeling it, unpacking the psychology behind why the brain rejects love, why knowing the right Bible verses doesn't always change that—and what actually does.
What if the issue isn't whether people love you, but whether you actually feel it? In this episode, Sonja Lyubomirsky joins us to explore the gap between being loved and feeling loved, and why that disconnect happens. Drawing from her book How to Feel Loved, we talk about the psychology behind connection, challenge common myths like love languages, and dig into how curiosity, vulnerability, and better conversations can help you build more meaningful relationships. Topics [0:00] Intro and Speed Round with Sonja Lyubomirsky [11:08] Being Loved vs. Feeling Loved [14:14] Why Love Doesn't Always “Land” [19:42] Deep Conversations vs. Small Talk [23:47] Vulnerability: The Key to Real Connection [32:01] What Are Love Mindsets? [37:24] Psychological Barriers to Feeling Loved [44:53] The #1 Happiness Tip [50:51] Are Love Languages Real? [53:23] Music, Focus, and Flow [56:21] Grooving Session: Letting Love In ©2026 Behavioral Grooves Links Groove vs Grind Survey About Sonja How to Feel Loved by Sonja Lyubomirsky and Harry Reis Join us on Substack! Join the Behavioral Grooves community Subscribe to Behavioral Grooves on YouTube Support Behavioral Grooves Musical Links Tina Turner - What's Love Got To Do With It The Lumineers - Stubborn Love
Dr. Sonja Lyubomirsky is one of the world's leading researchers on happiness, human flourishing, and what actually helps people feel connected. A Professor of Psychology at UC Riverside, she is the bestselling author of The How of Happiness and The Myths of Happiness, published in 39 countries. Her latest book, written with Harry Reis, is How to Feel Loved. Sonja's work has shaped the modern science of happiness and earned major honors, including recognition as a Fellow of the American Association for the Advancement of Science, an Honorary Doctorate from the University of Basel, and several leading awards in personality and positive psychology. She also writes a popular newsletter on the science of happiness, and her research has been featured widely in media, documentaries, podcasts, and public conversations around the world. On the show, we cover: Self-help culture and happiness The happiness trap: doing what we think will make us happy that can backfire The counterfactual gratitude practice The "masking effect": seeking admiration and its impact on connection The vulnerability paradox Being loved vs. feeling loved Curiosity as a way of making other people feel seen Challenging the Five Love Languages Why small daily moments of connection matter so much On AI: the rise of AI companions and simulated connection The multiplicity mindset: why people are more than one trait or action For show notes and more, visit larryweeks.com
Are you giving so much… but still not feeling truly loved or appreciated? In this episode, Brandy shares a powerful insight from a recent session with a beautiful volunteer named Noelle, a CNA and caregiver navigating breast cancer, who uncovered a pattern so many people carry without even realizing it. The insight? When people are always giving, always helping, and always trying to fix—even with loving intentions—it can quietly sabotage the very connection, love, and healing they're seeking. Brandy breaks down why this pattern is so common, why it backfires, and what it looks like to shift from needing to be needed… to being wonderfully wanted. If you've ever felt like you give so much to others and still end up feeling unloved or unappreciated, this episode can provide powerful new insights for you! → Continue Your Self-Healing Journey Listen to the Full Volunteer Self-Healing Session Click here to access today's self-healing session as Brandy Gillmore works directly with Noelle Free Mind-Body Healing Training If you'd like a deeper understanding of mind-body healing and how self-healing works: Click here to join the FREE training. Brandy Gillmore's Mind-Body Healing: Scientific Research If you'd like scientific research on mind-body healing, you can view Brandy Gillmore's work published in a Medical Journal. Personal Empowerment and Self-Healing Courses If you're ready to heal yourself and change your life: Click here to explore our GIFT Mind-Body Healing™ and the GIFT Method™ Courses and GIFT Workshops. Connect With Brandy Follow Brandy on Facebook Follow Brandy on Instagram Questions? Discover more at https://brandygillmore.com or email support@BrandyGillmore.com Disclaimer, Safety & Protecting Our Work and Volunteers This content is provided for personal inspiration and self-healing support only. It is not medical advice and is not intended to diagnose, treat, prevent, or cure any condition. Do not change or discontinue any medical or mental health treatment without consulting your doctor(s). This content is for personal use only. In order to help protect our community, volunteers, and the integrity of the work, this content may not be recorded, copied, altered, redistributed, taught, impersonated, or used to create derivative works, including use with artificial intelligence (AI/ML) or similar technologies. By engaging with this content, you acknowledge and agree to these terms. (Click here to read the full disclaimer)
How to communicate for deeper connection—and greater happiness.Happiness isn't just a feeling—it's something you can actively shape through how you think, connect, and communicate.Sonja Lyubomirsky, a distinguished professor of psychology at the University of California, Riverside and co-author of How to Feel Loved: The Five Mindsets That Get You More of What Matters Most, defines happiness as two key components: “being happy in your life and being happy with your life.” And while many people separate happiness from meaning or purpose, she explains that “they almost always go together.” Her research shows how the small habits we practice—like gratitude—can have a powerful effect, helping to “neutralize negative emotions” and shift how we see our lives. In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Lyubomirsky and host Matt Abrahams explore the science of wellbeing and the habits that help us feel more fulfilled. From gratitude practices to breaking free from the comparison trap, they share practical strategies for boosting happiness and explain why connection isn't just about being loved, but truly “feeling loved.”Episode Reference Links:Sonja LyubomirskySonja's Book: How To Feel Loved179. Finding Positive in Negative Emotions: Communication, Happiness & Wellbeing180. Unlocking Your Future Self: Communication, Happiness & Well…181. Why Happiness is a Direction, Not a Destination: Communicat…182. Stop Chasing Time and Start Owning It: Communication, Happiness & Wellbeing Connect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedInChapters:(00:00) - Introduction (04:50) - Defining Happiness (07:02) - Gratitude in Practice (07:45) - Acting Extroverted (09:42) - The Comparison Trap (11:40) - Reflection vs. Rumination (12:27) - Best Self Exercise (13:51) - Building Positive Psychology (15:16) - Happiness Drives Success (16:44) - Relationships as a Seesaw (19:04) - Being Known vs. Impressive (21:45) - The Final Three Questions (26:18) - Conclusion ********Thank you to our sponsors. These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.This episode is brought to you by Babbel. Think Fast Talk Smart listeners can get started on your language learning journey today- visit Babbel.com/Thinkfast and get up to 55% off your Babbel subscription.Join our Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community and become the communicator you want to be.
Dr. Vitz gives us a question to ask our romantic partner at the end of a day. (Originally aired 07-30-2024)
Just in time for Valentine's Day but not the discussion about love that you may expect! Dr. Juan Xi discusses new research that investigates rewards of everyday loving behavior and its correlation with flourishing. Want to know more? The full article: Feeling Loved, Showing Love, and Flourishing: Implications of Survey Findings for the Practice of Leadership Across All SectorsIf you want to study sociology: https://www.uakron.edu/sociology/
What's the secret to happiness? Chad discusses a new survey that says feeling loved by others is the secret. Do you agree or have another secret? Right and wrong answers both encouraged.
Communication is essential in marriage, but knowing how to deepen it is where many couples struggle.One simple and powerful exercise we've used in our own marriage is asking each other intentional questions. Some are light and fun. Others invite us to reflect on our past, our experiences, and even the deeper questions of life. Each one opens the door to meaningful conversation and connection.Questions create space for honesty, laughter, vulnerability, and intimacy. Over time, they help strengthen the bond between spouses and draw hearts closer together.We've benefited immensely from this practice and have recommended it to many couples over the years.In this episode, we model what this exercise looks like in real time. It's simple, fun, and easy to try in your own relationship.Try it with your spouse or partner (if you're in a relationship) and let us know how it goes. And if you already use questions to stay connected in your marriage, share in the comments how it's impacted your relationship.00:00 Introduction to Call to Marriage00:04 The Connection Call Conversation02:03 Ground Rules for Deep Conversations02:35 Handling Sensitive Topics02:52 Family Interruptions and Realities03:12 Indirect Questions for Better Communication04:47 Starting the Q&A Session05:22 Reflecting on Our Relationship08:51 Strengthening Our Bond11:16 Feeling Loved and Appreciated16:20 Expectations in Marriage21:03 The Importance of Communication in Marriage22:26 Forgiveness and Managing Expectations26:00 Handling Conflicts with Transparency and Vulnerability29:57 Resilience and Levity in Conflict Resolution34:04 Receiving and Giving Constructive Feedback36:58 Maintaining Oneness in Marriage40:40 Final Thoughts and Community Engagement
Sacrificial Faith…For God's Glory? In this episode of Centering, hosts Yulee Lee and Daniel Lee discuss the concept of sacrificial faith, critiquing the unhealthy pressure to sacrifice personal well-being for ministry. They emphasize the importance of discerning genuine spiritual practices, recognizing God's presence in all aspects of life, and living with integrity. Join the conversation to rethink what true, life-giving sacrifice means in the context of healthy spiritual leadership. 00:00 Introduction to Toxic Ministry 01:11 Personal Stories of Sacrifice 03:02 Theological Insights on Sacrifice 06:14 Equating Church with God 12:20 Toxic Leadership and Manipulation 19:04 Living Sacrifices in Scripture 22:05 Understanding True Obedience to God 23:03 The Importance of Feeling Loved by God 23:49 Challenges of Growing Up in Church 24:46 Finding Joy in Serving God 25:42 Integrating God into Everyday Life 27:39 The Danger of Spiritual Disciplines Becoming Idols 35:16 Jesus' Invitation to Rest 40:04 Practical Ways to Live Out Faith 43:01 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Khora Collective https://khoracollective.com/ If you appreciate the work we do at the Asian American Center at Fuller Seminary, please consider supporting us! Your monetary support sustains our vital work and expands Asian American research, leadership development, and pastoral formation for the Church in the year ahead. Donate here: fuller.edu/giveaac
For the final episode of this series, Louis travels to Manchester to sit down with Marina Abramovic, the self-proclaimed “grandmother of performance art”. Marina tells Louis the stories behind some of her most famous artworks, as well as the relationship between performance and pain, never feeling loved in her childhood, and being caught in the middle of an online conspiracy. Warnings: Strong language and adult themes. Links/Attachments: Balkan Erotic Epic, Marina Abramovic (2025) https://www.theguardian.com/artanddesign/2025/may/22/manchester-to-host-world-premiere-of-marina-abramovics-balkan-erotic-epic The Artist is Present, Marina Abramovic (2010) https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2073029/ Lips of Thomas, Marina Abramovic (1975) https://www.guggenheim.org/artwork/5176 Rhythm 0, Marina Abramovic (1974) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xTBkbseXfOQ&list=PL0bCt-VbCH4N3823Lj7uNAFLiYDjSnbTp&index=1 Cut Piece, Yoko Ono (1964) https://www.moma.org/audio/playlist/15/373 Cut Piece, Yoko Ono (2005): https://www.theguardian.com/world/2003/sep/16/arts.france Bob Wilson's Life and Death of Marina Abramovic, (2012) https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2177497/ Book: When Marina Abramovic Dies, James Westcott (2014) https://mitpress.mit.edu/9780262526814/when-marina-abramovic-dies/ Light – Dark, Ulay & Marina Abramovic (1978) https://www.stedelijk.nl/en/collection/13991-ulay-light-dark Seedbed, Vito Acconci (1972) https://www.metmuseum.org/art/collection/search/266876 Seven Easy Pieces, Marina Abramovic (2005) http://pastexhibitions.guggenheim.org/abramovic/ The Great Wall Walk, Marina Abramovic (1988) https://www.theguardian.com/travel/2020/apr/25/marina-abramovic-ulay-walk-the-great-wall-of-china Book: Walk Through Walls: A Memoir, Marina Abramovic (2016) https://www.waterstones.com/book/walk-through-walls/marina-abramovic/9780241974520 Balkan Baroque, Marina Abramovic (1997) https://www.singulart.com/blog/en/2024/06/03/balkan-baroque-by-marina-abramovic/?srsltid=AfmBOopPyXzjOP800ERQMaHvbiNNps0oMBOCmOKjWOhdpNt6X6kEvu2k https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UQigTZuTmv0 BBC Maestro, Marina Abramovic: https://www.bbcmaestro.com/courses/marina-abramovic/the-art-of-being-present Article: ‘Marina Abramovic Just Wants Conspiracy Theorists to Let Her Be', New York Times, 2020 https://www.nytimes.com/2020/04/21/arts/design/marina-abramovic-satanist-conspiracy-theory.html The Seven Deaths of Maria Callas (2022) https://www.harrisonparrott.com/news/2022-11-04/marina-abramovic-brings-the-seven-deaths-of-maria-callas-to-royal The Truth Vs Alex Jones (2024) https://tv.apple.com/gb/show/the-truth-vs-alex-jones/umc.cmc.1azsv881ew8mcjozutufy51vf Credits: Producer: Millie Chu Assistant Producer: Maan al-Yasiri Production Manager: Francesca Bassett Music: Miguel D'Oliveira Audio Mixer: Tom Guest Video Mixer: Scott Edwards Shownotes compiled by Elly Young Executive Producer: Arron Fellows A Mindhouse Production for Spotify www.mindhouse.co.uk Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Dr. Vitz gives us a question to ask our romantic partner at the end of a day. (Originally aired 07-30-2024)
Thoughts on Record: Podcast of the Ottawa Institute of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy
Comments or feedback? Send us a text! In this episode, Dr. Claire Sira and Tom Hudock join me to discuss their new book Feeling Loved with Adult ADHD. We explore how ADHD can quietly undermine even the strongest relationships—and how partners can move from shame and blame to empathy and trust.Together we cover:Emotion dysregulation and its impact on intimacyADHD as a “third partner” in relationshipsMoving from criticism to curiosityThe “Trust Account” metaphor for building connectionNavigating over-functioning vs. under-functioning rolesShame spirals, defensiveness, and timing in conflictPractical tools like boundaries, and empathy skillsHow worksheets and reflective exercises support real changeSigns of hope for couples who feel stuck or disconnectedIf you're living with ADHD, partnered with someone who is, or working clinically with these dynamics, this conversation offers both compassion and practical strategies.Dr. Claire Sira Dr. Sira earned her PhD in Clinical Psychology with a specialization in Neuropsychology from UVic in 2007. After working as a Neuropsychologist at Victoria General Hospital for five years, she transitioned to full-time private practice in 2014. In 2019, she expanded her focus to include assessing and treating ADHD in adults and youth, recognizing the similarity between executive function impairments in adult ADHD and those resulting from acquired brain injuries. As a co-founder of ADHD For Life, Dr. Sira has developed an efficient ADHD assessment process for psychologists and physicians. Additionally, she and her co-founder offer online coaching programs and books for adults with ADHD. Dr. Sira frequently presents on ADHD to healthcare professionals and provides supervision and training to therapists looking to enhance their skills in ADHD assessment and treatment. She also consults with clinics and specialized teams to integrate mental and behavioral healthcare into their services. Lastly, Dr. Sira is a past president of the British Columbia Psychological Association Board of Directors and is currently serving a three-year term as a Director at Large on the Canadian Psychological Association Board of Directors.
Today, John and Sam are excited to announce a new host to our show, Devin Schadt. He will be joining us weekly to answer the tough questions that men face and add to the depth of knowledge and discussion. This week we talk about warning signs that your wife is not feeling loved. We open up about what we have each learned about truly loving our wives and the many ways that we have failed. We then go into the importance of this topic and how by understanding the nature of women, we can be the husbands they need and the husband God is calling us to be. Finally, each week we are going to answer one of your questions during the podcast. This week we have a question from a father about how to be present to his kids after a long and exhausting day at work. If you have any questions, please, record yourself on your phone and send us the audio clip to podcast@catholicgentleman.com. Or just send us your question and we will read it on air. Warning Signs - https://catholicgentleman.com/2023/01/your-wife-doesnt-feel-loved-8-warning-signs Watch all 1h 40mins of episode 130 on Catholic Gentleman Plus: https://catholicgentlemanplus.com
Flat words kill connection. In this episode, I break down a game-changing insight most men overlook: how your tone, delivery, and emotional presence transform your words from “meh” to magnetic. You might be saying all the right things, but she's not feeling them.✅ Tone Is Everything: Saying "you look great" doesn't hit the same as "you look beautiful"—especially when said with eye contact and a warm tone.✅ Romanticize What You Already Say: Learn how to take your go-to compliments and upgrade them to create more intimacy and desire.✅ Lead the Connection: If you want her to feel more loved, you have to speak in a way that shows it—consistently, intentionally, and with ownership.Ready to improve your sex life? Apply to work with me: https://www.stephanieganowski.com/coaching-application-video/
Bible Reading: Ephesians 3:14-21As she sat working on her homework alone, Star didn't feel very loved. It was a holiday weekend, and all her friends had plans. Megan's parents were taking her to a waterpark. Emma was practicing tennis all weekend with her dad. Mila and her siblings were having fun playing on their new trampoline.Star's mom was working in her home office. She didn't have a dad around or any siblings to spend time with. All she had was homework she had saved for the weekend, just to give herself something to do.Star frowned at the paper in front her. Why had her teacher assigned her the word love to write about? She didn't know anything about love.She picked up her phone and called Mila. She had to convince her friend to take a break from the trampoline so they could talk. "How am I supposed to write about love?" she asked. "No one loves me."Mila snorted. "No one? What about me? And Emma and Megan?""That's…different." Star hadn't thought of her friends as she was considering the topic."What about your mom?" Mila asked. "She loves you."Star glanced toward her mom's office. "She doesn't spend time with me.""Because she's busy," Mila said. "She's busy because she loves you and needs to work to take care of you." She sighed. "What about God, Star? Aren't you forgetting that He loves you?"Star twisted her hair around her finger. Maybe she had forgotten God. "Sometimes it doesn't feel like it.""Maybe not," Mila said. "But He really does, Star. Like we learned at church, His love is bigger than any human love. Jesus died on the cross so you could live with Him forever. What love is bigger than that?"Star nodded slowly. "You're right.""You don't need to go on a trip or get amazing gifts in order to be loved," Mila said. "But, Star? I really am loving the new trampoline and I would like to get back to it. Since your mom is working, want me to ask my mom to give you a ride over so you can try it out?"Star's eyes widened. "Really?" "Really," Mila said. "Because I love you." She laughed. "Don't forget how much God loves you too, Star." –Emily Acker How About You?Have you had times when you felt like you were not loved at all by anyone? God's love is greater than the love of any human--He loves you so much that He sent His Son to save you so you could spend eternity with Him, and He promises to always love you and take care of you. If you think about all the people He's put in your life, you'll probably realize you're loved by many others too. Today's Key Verse:As the Father loved Me, I also have loved you; abide in My love. (NKJV) (John 15:9)Today's Key Thought:God has great love for you!
Elaine FollisHear more from Elaine on this episode of Sentinel Watch.Submit your inspiration for The Christian Science Daily Lift. We'd love to hear from you!
Elaine Follis wondered if she needed to find someone to love to feel complete. When she turned to God in a moment of loneliness, she learned something about God, divine Love, that was much more fulfilling.
Thriving Adoptees - Inspiration For Adoptive Parents & Adoptees
Born without arms in Romania and unwanted, George went straight from the hospital to an orphanage where he stayed until being adopted at 18 months. Relentlessly bullied at school he felt ashamed, full of resentment, mad at the world and God. Listen in as he shares his insights on the journey to thriving. An incredibly powerful interview. You're going to love this.Find out more:@ThatArmlessGuyWww.thatarmlessguy.com“UndeFEETed” Guests and the host are not (unless mentioned) licensed pscyho-therapists and speak from their own opinion only. Seek qualified advice if you need help.
If you're a human, congratulations! God loves you! It's no mystery that you are made in His image, and you are loved big by a big God. As we experience the highs and lows of life, it can be hard to wrap our minds around the fact that God loves us no matter what. Here are 3 tips for feeling loved based on the disciple John from the Bible. CLICK FOR FULL SHOW NOTES + BLOG Links from the Show: Brooke Collier Instagram Busy Christian Mom Etsy Shop Identity Crisis Mini Series
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Dr. Vitz gives us a question to ask our romantic partner at the end of a day.
If you don't feel your partner loving you, or sometimes your partner's supposed love isn't matched by his actions, this episode is for you.Women often share with me that this is a common experience for them, and they are hurting because of it. And without some insight into what is really going on in these instances, their relationship just feels worse and worse over time. I don't want that for you!So listen in to hear what is likely going on for you, and for your spouse, when this happens. Why is it that, although he tells you he loves you and cares about you, he doesn't always show it with kisses, doing special things for you, or listening to try to understand??Take a moment and try to really understand, instead of making it into something it isn't. Instead of falling prey to the belief that it's because he doesn't love you enough or that you aren't somehow lovable enough to him.Because that's very rarely what is actually happening. You are, almost certainly, VERY loved. And when you can understand what is really going on, you will be able to FEEL so much more loved, and be best positioned to help your partner show you that love in the ways you like receiving it! So dig in.SHOW NOTES:NEW!! For the Summer and fall of 2024: Join Hannah for 4 months of private 1:1 Coaching.Take the QUIZ: What's Your Best Next Step To Improve Your Marriage?ENJOYING THE SHOW? Don't miss an episode! Subscribe via Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or Stitcher. Leave a review in Apple Podcasts--we are SO grateful!Get the Podcast Map by becoming a Podcast Supporter, so you can quickly identify the episodes most helpful for your unique relationship, by supporting the podcast (for as little as $3) HERE.
This episode examines some of the realities and respect to a person being isolated, lonely, and feeling unloved. One of the most difficult situations in life is to find someone that can reciprocate your sentiments. However, we must look at some of the things that may determine the way a person reacts to you emotionally and physically. In this episode we're going to take a look at these things and take a deep dive into what makes us feel this way. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/romantictruth/support
I'm taken aback and overwhelmed by a certain feeling… It's by doing something that makes me nervous. But it's also a secret benefit of becoming a coach, one you won't want to miss. Listen now so you can feel loved as a wildly successful coach too!
The Jesus Empowered Maiden: Female Identity, Authority and Freedom in Christ
Yearning to feel loved by God is one thing - believing that He does can be a whole different challenge. Especially if you're just getting to know the real, biblical God. The truth is, though, that God is showing His love to you on a daily basis - you just need some help to see it! Join me as I guide you through a very simple, practical method for training yourself to recognize God's love. In a general sense, as well as in the specific ways He wants to love you based on the amazing, unique person that you are! P.S. Need help determining your love language? Visit https://5lovelanguages.com/learn. -------------------- Join the Online Community: https://www.relateescape.com/online-community Be the first to hear about new podcast episodes and special offers! https://relate-escape.ck.page/godsloveforwomeninsider Shop the Store: https://www.relateescape.com/store Follow on Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/relateescape
Episode 137 of "Ask Yourself Why Not with Shaye and Jayla" is here, and it's a heart-to-heart you don't want to miss. In this episode, we dive deep into a topic that touches all of us at some point—feeling alone, especially when we're not at our best. It's a gentle reminder that even in our lowest moments, we are enveloped in love, seen and unseen. We also explore the empowering journey of trusting our own opinions. Making decisions can be daunting, but we discuss why stepping back from constantly seeking others' opinions is a crucial step towards growing our intuition. It's all about finding confidence in our inner voice and why sometimes, asking yourself "why not?" is the best approach. And hold onto your hats because we've got some exciting news to share about the upcoming Spring Event on May 4th! We're spilling some details that you definitely want to hear, and trust us, it's shaping up to be something truly special. So, grab your favorite cozy blanket, pour yourself a comforting drink, and join us for a conversation that promises to be as enlightening as it is comforting. Remember, you're not alone, and sometimes, the most powerful growth comes from looking within and asking yourself, "Why not?" With all the love, Shaye and Jayla
Episode 137 of "Ask Yourself Why Not with Shaye and Jayla" is here, and it's a heart-to-heart you don't want to miss. In this episode, we dive deep into a topic that touches all of us at some point—feeling alone, especially when we're not at our best. It's a gentle reminder that even in our lowest moments, we are enveloped in love, seen and unseen. We also explore the empowering journey of trusting our own opinions. Making decisions can be daunting, but we discuss why stepping back from constantly seeking others' opinions is a crucial step towards growing our intuition. It's all about finding confidence in our inner voice and why sometimes, asking yourself "why not?" is the best approach. And hold onto your hats because we've got some exciting news to share about the upcoming Spring Event on May 4th! We're spilling some details that you definitely want to hear, and trust us, it's shaping up to be something truly special. So, grab your favorite cozy blanket, pour yourself a comforting drink, and join us for a conversation that promises to be as enlightening as it is comforting. Remember, you're not alone, and sometimes, the most powerful growth comes from looking within and asking yourself, "Why not?" With all the love, Shaye and Jayla
Each week on the podcast we'll spend a few minutes introducing a question, let you in on how we've processed it and invite you to go and do the same. Typically we'll take a few minutes to set you up with a question for your date night but in this episode we want to discuss “What have I done recently that made you feel loved?”
This episode explores the dynamics of parenting, including understanding children's emotions and fostering strong family relationships. In this episode, Jenna Jones, a stay-at-home mom, shares her experiences of juggling parenting, work, and household responsibilities. Listen in as the conversation covers themes of love, parenting challenges, and finding balance amidst life changes. Stay tuned as Jenna discusses practical strategies, like creating special moments with her kids and emphasizes the importance of play. TIMESTAMPS• [8:08] Parenting tip: “Let kids get dirty, it's okay to take a bath.” • [13:34] DJ and Jenna discuss the common misconception that the "terrible twos" are inherently terrible, and instead, they explore the reasons behind toddlers' temper tantrums, such as communication barriers and overstimulation.• [17:28] DJ and Jenna agree that providing a supportive environment and encouraging children to explore and try new things can help build confidence and resilience.• [22:07] Jenna and DJ share personal anecdotes and insights on how playtime can be a way for fathers to show love and affection, even as children grow older.For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Connect with Us!DJ Stutz -Website: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/littleheartsacademy/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleheartsacademy/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQRumble: https://rumble.com/v449rkoDJ Stutz Booking Link: https://bookme.name/ImperfectheroespodcastONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundle
Hi friend! *This is Part 2 of a 2-part episode series.* There are times wherein life just happens...maybe a new job comes into the picture, a new child is added to the family, a move to a new location or relocation occurs and it now begins to feel as though love is starting to dissipate or disappear in marriage and a different kind of feeling emerges...resulting in feeling unloved. This is why in this episode, we will be talking about loving our spouses through difficult seasons of life or challenging times in marriage by choosing to love courageously in marriage...even if you're not feeling loved. ............................................................................................................. For questions/inquiries/coaching: Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com The Happy Married Family Online Shop: https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/
Judith Hardy Olson, CSB, from Westport, Connecticut, USAYou can read Judy's article in the Christian Science Sentinel.
Hi friend! *This is Part 1 of a 2-part episode series.* There are times wherein life just happens...maybe a new job comes into the picture, a new child is added to the family, a move to a new location or relocation occurs and it now begins to feel as though love is starting to dissipate or disappear in marriage and a different kind of feeling emerges...resulting in feeling unloved. This is why in this episode, we will be talking about loving our spouses through difficult seasons of life or challenging times in marriage by choosing to love courageously in marriage...even if you're not feeling loved. ............................................................................................................. For questions/inquiries/coaching: Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com The Happy Married Family Online Shop: https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/
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Today we welcome our outstanding tutor and Coach, Marissa Rothermel, to the podcast. Riss excels at providing behavior coaching to parents, and in this episode, she and I dive into what coaching looks like, behavior, support, parenting, ideas, and so, so much more! Riss has an energy that is contagious and uplifting, perfect for a busy holiday week!Show Notes:In this episode, host Ashley Barlow talks with guest Marissa Rothermel who works as a tutor and behavior consultant. Marissa provides insights regarding the effects of recent world events on children's behavior and coping mechanisms. They discuss the rise in problematic behavioral patterns, mainly stemming from sensory overload and the lack of healthy coping mechanisms post-pandemic. They also emphasize the importance of starting conversations with children, forming structures at home, and creating a safe environment where children feel loved and valued. Marissa shares tips for parents regarding teaching children about calmness and redirection.00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:45 Meet Marissa Rothermel: Special Education and Behavior Enthusiast01:27 Understanding the Role of a Behavior Consultant02:20 The Importance of Collaboration in Special Education02:50 Marissa's Professional Background and Experience04:29 The Business Aspect of Special Education06:22 The Importance of Understanding Student Behavior06:48 The Initial Steps in Addressing Behavioral Issues08:15 The Role of Sensory Integration in Classroom Behavior10:48 The Importance of Building Trust and Relationships11:10 The Concept of 'Be the Cookie': Building Bonds with Students15:39 The Importance of Feeling Loved and Safe in School17:29 Understanding the Purpose Behind Every Behavior19:15 Discussing Client Strategies19:50 Personal Anecdotes and Reflections20:20 Coping Skills and Sensory Processing21:17 Parenting Challenges and Humorous Moments22:52 Impact of Trauma on Behavior23:41 Effects of Screen Time and Lack of Resilience24:21 Teaching Social Skills and Coping Mechanisms28:37 Impact of Pandemic on Education and Development30:09 Practical Tips for Parents35:44 Closing Remarks and Contact InformationTranscript: https://share.descript.com/view/hLIzqQPswm3Connect with Riss:Marissa "Riss" Rothermel, MS. Ed. was raised and educated in New York State (Albany area) and currently holds several special education licenses and certifications in states across the US. She is passionate about helping students get their needs met and growing as individuals, while encouraging and supporting family involvement. Riss has been a special educator for over 15 years and specializes in behavior support, as well as supports for nonverbal learners. Her special interest areas also include virtual education, music in education, and sensory support. In conjunction with ABCo., Riss offers Behavior Foundations consultation - working with families to support behavior needs in the school and home setting, developing plans and support documents, and meeting with teams to discuss behavior intervention strategy. When dealing with challenging, surprising, or confusing behaviors, let Riss help you navigate your approach!
Today, John and Sam are excited to announce a new host to our show, Devin Schadt. He will be joining us weekly to answer the tough questions that men face and add to the depth of knowledge and discussion. This week we talk about warning signs that your wife is not feeling loved. We open up about what we have each learned about truly loving our wives and the many ways that we have failed. We then go into the importance of this topic and how by understanding the nature of women, we can be the husbands they need and the husband God is calling us to be. Finally, each week we are going to answer one of your questions during the podcast. This week we have a question from a father about how to be present to his kids after a long and exhausting day at work. If you have any questions, please, record yourself on your phone and send us the audio clip to podcast@catholicgentleman.com. Or just send us your question and we will read it on air. Warning Signs - https://catholicgentleman.com/2023/01/your-wife-doesnt-feel-loved-8-warning-signs Sam Guzman's GoFundMe - https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-me-launch-my-private-therapy-practice Watch all 1h 40mins of episode 130 on Catholic Gentleman Plus: https://catholicgentlemanplus.com
When Is It Really Love? The WISDOM podcast Season 4 Episode 7 The seventh of eight episodes in a series on 'The Power of Love'. "Love is grace. Love is kindness and the actions of love are felt deeply as the soul level ~ even when at times one is giving more than receiving." ~ dorothy zennuriye juno
On this episode, the guys shared their favorite movie genres (14:51). Next, they spoke on the last time they've felt loved (42:02) AND MORE!!! Follow/Like our socials! Facebook!: https://www.facebook.com/OuttaDaHatPodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/outtadahatpod/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@outtadahatpodTwitter: https://twitter.com/OuttaDaHatPod
Your mind is actually your friend and we're going to talk about how to understand it and welcome it in so you aren't run over by your thoughts. Our minds have 4 major functions in it's role in our lives. Two of these are safety features and two of them are super powers. Here's what changes when you get on the same page as your mind:- More clarity- More energy- Feeling Loved (your mind seriously loves you!)- Direction and forward stepsand of course....A CALM MIND. Seriously, when your mind feels heard and understood, it doesn't have much reason to chatter on. I believe in you. You got this. Let's go. Have questions you want answered or comments? Send them to hello@janicebrown.caLearn more about energy, intuition and how you can work with me, visit https://www.janicebrown.caFollow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/flowandknowFor my signature course, SoulTuition, visit https://www.janicebrown.ca/soultuition If you would like to donate and support me, I always appreciate it. Please do so here: https://donate.stripe.com/cN2eWhf5l7lU4SsaET
The reason we don't feel loved and valued is always on us! It's time to go deeper… This is a tough world to live in - there are so many influences from society, from the media, and our families to have our lives look a certain way
Are you like one of the thousands of women having trouble feeling loved in general or in their marriage? It may not simply be the case that your husband isn't speaking your love language. There could also be another factor at work here. Let's explore what could be causing the block of you receiving love from your husband, God or anyone else. I pray this episode blesses you! Wait!!! Before you go! Are you new around here and want to know more about me? Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community! The Community... Join me in The Grace Fueled Wives Club on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/GraceFueledWifeCommunity/ Become an Insider! I have a gift for you. Go check out! gracefueledwifesteps.gr8.com I want to hear all the things. Hit me up on IG or FB and let me know. Reach out to me directly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegracefueledwife Work with me: 1:1 Coaching call https://calendly.com/beatrizvargas/45-min-coaching-call
DO YOU FEEL LOVED AND RESPECTED IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP? On this episode we are joined by Darrell and Veronica Williams. Darrell and Veronica have been married for over two decades and use their experience to support and coach others. We discuss: Knowing and leveraging your strengths in marriage The importance of holding yourself accountable Setting goals for your relationship For places to listen, places to connect on social media, to be a guest, collaborate with or sponsor DTE visit: https://linktr.ee/DisruptTheEveryday Darrell & Veronica's website: https://www.allianceseminars.org/ About Darrell Darrell brings his extensive experience as a master certified life coach and a member of the Federal Coaching Network. He is a keynote speaker and workshop facilitator who provides clients with expertise in the realm of leadership, relationships, and purpose. He has been involved in life coaching for many years and helps clients discern ways to restore and enrich personal and professional relationships. His extensive research in the field includes Dr. Emerson Eggerichs, Dr. Gary Chapman, and Dr. Paul White, some of the most famous relationship specialists. He has been married for over 20 years and cheerfully shares time-tested principles to strengthen relationships. His leadership background includes 30 years of federal service highlighted by his selection as a White House Communications Agency All-Star and Senior Manager of the Year. Additionally, he is a Defense Information Systems Agency Outstanding Mentor and Human Resources Team Lead of the Year. His leadership coaching is based on a stellar 20-year military career, where he traveled as an Operations and Vice Presidential Communications Officer, leading over 500 White House missions. Following the tragedies of September 11, 2001, Darrell was selected as 1 of 5 key leaders, from 30 senior managers, to direct emergency action communications for the Vice President of the United States, to include duties as an Air Force Two Command Representative. In addition to being a master certified life coach, he is a certified facilitator who trained senior managers at the White House Communications Agency Training Academy to travel as Vice Presidential Team Leads, serving as the primary contact for the traveling White House Staff, while simultaneously training mid-level managers to travel as Presidential Operations Team Leads. He received numerous professional awards to include the Presidential Service Badge, Lacey B. Ivory Service Award, Roy Wilkins Renown Service Award, the National Louis University Reach Award, and the Strayer University Outstanding Alumni Award for his dedicated leadership in the community and Department of Defense. Darrell holds a Bachelor of Science in Management from National Louis University and an MBA from Strayer University. He is also a member of the White House Communications Agency Hall of Fame. About Veronica Veronica brings her extensive experience as a master certified life coach, keynote speaker, and certified facilitator by providing clients with expertise in the areas of relationships, empowerment, and purpose. She has been involved in life coaching for many years and her experience has influenced women and strengthened couples throughout the Washington D.C. Metropolitan Area. She is a licensed minister and has been a part of community leadership and relationship building the greater part of her life. She utilizes her gifts, talents, and knowledge to encourage individuals where ever they are in their journey. She also coaches military wives as the spouse of a veteran, helping women maneuver through the challenges that come with a military lifestyle. This led to her selection as a Fort George G. Meade Volunteer of the Year. She has learned from National Marriage Conferences such as “I Still Do” and is certified to facilitate Family Life seminars, "The Art of Marriage," "The Art of Parenting,” as well as the "5 Languages of Appreciation at Work." She leads a relationship coaching program and facilitated a weekly community couples life study for 7 years. She has researched and taught time-tested marital principles from relationship experts such as Dr. Gary Chapman, Dr. Willard Harley, and Dr. Emerson Eggerichs just to name a few. Her commitment to couples has been so impactful, she received permission from national marriage experts to utilize their materials and lead Train-The-Trainer relationship workshops through Alliance Seminars Coaching. She has lived her life in such a way that her marriage is an example, as to what can happen when a foundation is at the center of a relationship. Veronica and her husband have been enjoying their "healthy hook-up" for over 23 years and together, they form a dynamic team.