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WGTD's The Morning Show with Greg Berg
5/11/25 Motherless Mothers

WGTD's The Morning Show with Greg Berg

Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2025 51:18


Happy Mother's Day. From the archives: Hope Edelman, author of "Motherless Mothers: How Losing a Mother Shapes the Parent You Become." (from 2007)

The Self-Loved Woman Way®️
How to Cope with Grief and Loss

The Self-Loved Woman Way®️

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2024 39:48


Experiencing grief and loss in our culture is often tough because no one really talks about it so few really know how to cope with it or even how to talk to the grieving.  ADHD adds a layer of challenge to this. In this episode, we explore the unique ways ADHD impacts the grief process as well as how to cope with grief and loss. Without this work, grief and loss builds up over the years and can come out in unexpected ways - both emotionally and physically. You'll walk away from this episode with compassion for your grief journey as well as clarity on how to grieve well to be able to start to string together more and more moments of joy after loss. If you know someone who is grieving, please share this episode with them for support. Here are some books I found helpful, thought please read at your own discretion as not all books helpful for me will be aligned or helpful for you: “Understanding Your Grief” by Alan Wolfelt “The Afterlife of Billy Fingers:  How My Bad-Boy Brother Proved to Me There's Life After Death” by Annie Kagan “You Cannot Die” by Ian Currie (a bit dry at first, considers life after death including reincarnation) “Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of Loss” by Hope Edelman (while primarily written for childhood loss of a mother, this was still useful) “It's OK That You're Not OK:  Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn't Understand” by Megan Devine (recommended by my grief group leader and I eventually read it later in 2019)   As always, thanks for listening!  I'd love it if you would leave a review. I have created two (pretty low quality - LOL) tutorials on how to leave a review on Apple podcast or Spotify in case you would like assistance.   And, if you enjoyed this episode be sure to follow if you aren't already and share with others with whom you think it will resonate. Connect with me on social media! Instagram:  @i_am_jen_barnes Youtube: @Jenbarnes Learn more about how we can work together:  www.jenbarnes.org DISCLAIMER:  This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered legal health or medical advice.  We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast. This podcast is not intended to replace professional medical advice or psychotherapy.   If you are experiencing a medical or mental health emergency please contact emergency services in your area.  If you are in the USA, dial 988 for the Suicide and Crisis line or 911 for a medical emergency.  

As Told To
Episode 70: Hope Edelman

As Told To

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2024 75:49


Hope Edelman is an author, ghostwriter, essayist, writing instructor and life coach. The through-line connecting much of her work, from the collaborations she's helped to write to her own best-selling memoirs, is the theme of parent-loss. “Navigating motherhood without your mom is like assembling a complex puzzle without the picture on the box,” she writes in a blog post on her website. She's been writing about the grief and loss in her own life since her best-selling 1994 memoir Motherless Daughters—a book she began as a graduate student at the University of Iowa, when she realized she was being called to write about her mother's death more than a decade earlier.  It's a calling that connects Hope to her ghostwriting clients as well. Her first collaboration, a dual memoir written with actors Martin Sheen and Emilio Estevez—Along the Way: The Journey of a Father and Son—is informed by the death of Sheen's mother, when the actor was just 11 years old, while her current project, written with Owen Elliot-Kugell, the daughter of the late Cass Elliot—My Mama, Cass—finds its narrative drive in the sudden death of the author's mother, who died in her sleep in a London apartment nearly ten years after she shot to fame as a member of The Mamas & The Papas. The recipient of a Pushcart Prize for Creative Nonfiction, Hope has taught writing at the Iowa Summer Writing Festival, the Provincetown Fine Arts Work Center, the University of Iowa, and Antioch University-Los Angeles.  Join us for a compelling conversation on what it means to find a way to heal as you find your voice as a writer.    Learn more about Hope Edelman: Website Facebook Instagram Please support the sponsors who support our show: Ritani Jewelers Chelsea Devantez's I Shouldn't Be Telling You This Daniel Paisner's Balloon Dog  Daniel Paisner's SHOW: The Making and Unmaking of a Network Television Pilot Unforgiving: Lessons from the Fall by Lindsey Jacobellis Film Movement Plus (PODCAST) | 30% discount Libro.fm (ASTOLDTO) | 2 audiobooks for the price of 1 when you start your membership Film Freaks Forever! podcast, hosted by Mark Jordan Legan and Phoef Sutton Everyday Shakespeare podcast A Mighty Blaze podcast The Writer's Bone Podcast Network Misfits Market (WRITERSBONE) | $15 off your first order  Film Movement Plus (PODCAST) | 30% discount Wizard Pins (WRITERSBONE) | 20% discount

Nobody Told Me!
Hope Edelman: ...that grieving your mother is a lifelong process

Nobody Told Me!

Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2024 31:48


This week, we've been focusing on mother-daughter relationships.  One of the toughest things that can be faced by a girl or a woman of any age is the loss of her mother. Our guest, Hope Edelman, is an expert in the field of early mother loss and mother-daughter relationships. She's written extensively on those topics and is the author of "Motherless Daughters" and "Motherless Mothers", among others.   You can learn more about Hope on her website: http://hopeedelman.com.   Shopify is the all-in-one commerce platform that makes it simple for anyone to start, run and grow your own successful business. With Shopify, you'll create an online store, discover new customers, and grow the following that keeps them coming back. Shopify makes getting paid simple, by instantly accepting every type of payment. With Shopify's single dashboard, you can manage orders, shipping and payments from anywhere. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at Shopify.com/nobody.

How To Deal With Grief and Trauma
72 Hope Edelman | Motherless Daughters, Motherless Mothers

How To Deal With Grief and Trauma

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2024 49:49


HOW TO DEAL WITH GRIEF AND TRAUMA is completely self-funded, produced, and edited by me, Nathalie Himmelrich. Consider making a small donation to support the Podcast: bit.ly/SupportGTPodcast. Thank you! For more information, please visit Nathalie's website, join the podcast's Instagram page, and subscribe to the newsletter to receive updates on future episodes here.About this week's episodeMany motherless daughters or motherless mothers will have heard of Hope Edelman, who has written books to support bereaved women worldwide for many, many years. Her book Motherless Daughters was written almost 30 years ago and to this day it is being recommended to women, young or old, who are dealing with the loss of their mothers. More than that, I had the chance to meet Hope through mutual connections more than a year ago, and I've been touched by her gentleness and the passion with which she serves her community of bereaved women. 12 1/2 years ago I lost both my mother and my daughter in the time of 4 1/2 months. So, this upcoming conversation is very dear to my heart. About this week's guest Hope Edelman is the author of eight nonfiction books, including the bestsellers Motherless Daughters and Motherless Mothers, and The AfterGrief: Finding Your Way Along the Long Arc of Loss. Her books have been published in 17 countries and 11 languages and have sold over 1 million copies. Hope speaks at venues and conferences worldwide and has taught nonfiction writing for more than 25 years. Her articles and essays have been published widely, including in The New York Times, The Washington Post, Psychology Today, Parade, Real Simple, and CNN.com. She is a certified life coach with additional training in narrative therapy and trauma support services. In 2020 she was the recipient of the prestigious ADEC Community Educator award. As the founder and CEO of MotherlessDaughters.com, she creates and leads online support groups, in-person retreats, webinars, and Mother's Day programs that reach thousands of women each year.Website: www.hopeedelman.comIG: @hope_edelmanFB: www.facebook.com/hopeedelmanauthor Resources mentioned in this episode:Hope's book: Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of LossMother's Day Luncheon and Conference – Check info on Hope's website Support the showSupport the show: Become a supporter of the show! Starting at $3/month Join Facebook Group - Grief and Trauma Support Network Download the FREE grief resource eBook Book a Discovery Call Leave a review Follow on socials: Instagram Facebook Website

Open to Hope
Hope Edelman: Challenges in Your Grief Journey?

Open to Hope

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2024 22:15


Facing challenges in your grief journey? Join Drs. Gloria and Heidi Horsley, accompanied by guest Hope Edelman, for an insightful exploration of the enduring grieving process. Hope, a bestselling author […] The post Hope Edelman: Challenges in Your Grief Journey? appeared first on Open to Hope.

Moms Don’t Have Time to Read Books
Meghan Riordan Jarvis and Hope Edelman at Zibby's Bookshop

Moms Don’t Have Time to Read Books

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2024 34:01


In this special episode (a live event at Zibby's Bookshop in Santa Monica!), New York Times bestselling author, writing instructor, and grief and loss coach Hope Edelman chats with renowned psychotherapist and Zibby Books author Meghan Riordan Jarvis about END OF THE HOUR, Meghan's poignant and beautifully written memoir. Meghan delves into the origins of the book—writing was a therapeutic tool during her own treatment for trauma, which she experienced after the deaths of her parents. She and Hope explore the concept of trauma, the process of writing about traumatic experiences, therapeutic techniques, self-care, and healing.Purchase on Bookshop:End of the Hour: bit.ly/3QXNouaThe AfterGrief: https://bit.ly/4bKgzsSShare, rate, & review the podcast, and follow Zibby on Instagram @zibbyowens! Now there's more! Subscribe to Moms Don't Have Time to Read Books on Acast+ and get ad-free episodes. https://plus.acast.com/s/moms-dont-have-time-to-read-books. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

WGTD's The Morning Show with Greg Berg
5/14/23 Motherless Mothers

WGTD's The Morning Show with Greg Berg

Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2023 50:45


From 2007 - Hope Edelman, author of "Motherless Mothers: How Losing a Mother Shapes the Parent You Become."

Nobody Told Me!
Hope Edelman: ...that grieving your mother is a lifelong process

Nobody Told Me!

Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2023 31:43


In the days leading up to Mother's Day, we've been focusing on mother-daughter relationships.  One of the toughest things that can be faced by a girl or a woman of any age is the loss of her mother. Our guest, Hope Edelman, is an expert in the field of early mother loss and mother-daughter relationships. She's written extensively on those topics and is the author of "Motherless Daughters" and "Motherless Mothers", among others.   You can learn more about Hope on her website: http://hopeedelman.com.   We're excited to tell you about another great product from our sponsor, Ritual.  It's called Synbiotic+ and it's a daily 3-in-1 clinically-studied prebiotic, probiotic, and postbiotic designed to help support a balanced gut microbiome.  Ritual's Synbiotic+ provides two of the world's most clinically studied probiotic strains to support the relief of mild and occasional digestive discomforts, like bloating, gas, and diarrhea.  Synbiotic+ and Ritual are here to celebrate, not hide, your insides. It's time to listen to your gut!  Ritual is offering our Nobody Told Me! listeners 10% off during your first 3 months.  Visit ritual.com/NTM to start Ritual or add Synbiotic+ to your subscription today.

Authentic Parenting
The Power of Deep Listening with Judith Rabinor, PHD

Authentic Parenting

Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2023 59:57


Judith Ruskay Rabinor, PhD, is a clinician, author, writing coach, speaker, and workshop leader retunrs to the podcast for the 4th time.  During her first interview we talked about her memoir The Girl in The Boots: Making Peace with My Mother. She specializes in eating disorders and the mother daughter relationship.  Today's conversation is a wide ranging one. We focused on the transformative power of deep listening, as well as went into other interesting areas such as:  The importance of taking personal responsibility in relationships, particularly in the parent child relationship How we all have a need to be listened to, and healing happens once someone truly witnesses our experiences and chooses to listen to us deeply. How we unconsciously repeat harmful patterns and what it takes to break those cycles  Why therapists care so much about the past How we build resilience  And so much more Judy says that deep listening is an act of generosity. OTHER EPISODES JUDITH HAS BEEN ON 307: How Mother Loss Shapes Who We Become with Hope Edelman and Judith Rabinor  310: The Healing Power of Storytelling 290: The Complicated Mother-Daughter Relationship  SUPPORT THE SHOW, SHOW YOUR LOVE Become a patron on Patreon.com and join exisiting memebers who contribute towards our monthly goal of $500.  Make a one-time donation in any amount to say “Thank you!” Rate or write a review FULL SHOW NOTES www.authenticparenting.com/podcast HOW TO WORK WITH ANNA I would be thrilled to support you in your parenting journey! All listeners get 10% off on my services. Private Coaching Online courses and classes GET IN TOUCH Comments, questions, feedback, and love notes  USA listeners call 732-763-2576 and leave a voicemail. International listeners use the FREE Speak Pipe tool on my website Email: info@authenticparenting.com STAY CONNECTED Instagram Facebook Group-Authentic Parenting Community Thank you for listening!  With gratitude, Anna Seewald Parent Educator, Keynote Speaker, Author www.authenticparenting.com

Grief Awakening Podcast
Ep. 23 Growing up with grief, sign stories, and Instagram's grief community w/ Girl_Meets_Grief: Julia Morin

Grief Awakening Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2023 59:34


Julia Morin is a writer, a Certified Grief & Loss Provider, Certified Grief Educator and Grief Support Specialist, and the face behind the Instagram community @girl_meets_grief, which she launched over Mother's Day weekend in 2021. Julia is a childhood grief survivor who lost her mother suddenly and tragically 27 years ago when she was eight years old — less than one week after Mother's Day — and has experienced a number of other losses in her life. She is fiercely passionate about normalizing conversations and ending the stigma around grief, as she continues to navigate the various manifestations of this significant early loss in her own life. She is especially passionate about work around mother loss and childhood loss, as a result of her lived experiences. Her approach to grief support is rooted in the belief that grief, like love, lasts forever — and while we never “get over” it or “move on,” we can learn to move forward with it, live alongside it, and integrate it into our lives. Connect with Julia: Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/girl_meets_grief/ Linktree: linktr.ee/girl_meets_grief NY Times article: https://www.nytimes.com/2022/03/18/health/prolonged-grief-disorder.html Megan Divine:  https://www.instagram.com/refugeingrief/ Hope Edelman:  https://www.instagram.com/hope_edelman/ Thanks for tuning in to this weeks episode! I'd love to hear from you! Reach out via socials and let me know what you took away from this episode! Don't forget to hit the follow➕ button to never miss another episode!  If you are an energy worker, grief expert, or someone who has a deep spiritual connection with your loved ones in spirit and would like to tell your story, I'd love to hear from you! Please send me an email (below) and let me know you would like to be a future guest! Download for FREE the Reignite Your Connection Meditation here: https://www.intuitivelyalyse.com/products/p/reignite-your-connection-meditation Let's Connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/intuitively_alyse/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/IntuitivelyAlyse Email:  IntuitivelyAlyse@gmail.com Website:  https://www.intuitivelyalyse.com Book a Coaching or energy work session!: https://app.squarespacescheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=25029542

Open to Hope
Parent Loss Panel Hope Edelman Moderator: Meghan Riordan Jarvis, Claire Bidwell Smith, Denna Babul

Open to Hope

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2023 26:43


https://youtu.be/LtoavLn8Kzg The International Day of Hope and Healing After Loss Conference, brought you you by the Open to Hope Foundation, helping people find hope after loss.

Authentic Parenting
2022: A Year in Review, the Top 10 Episodes, Your Voicemails and My Wish

Authentic Parenting

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 28, 2022 46:52


Welcome to the final episode of 2022! What a year! In the 7 years of podcasting I think the year 2022 is my FAVORITE.  An incredible array of guests, often difficult subjects, shared vulnerability, laughter and tears, heartfelt stories, sweet and warm moments, virtual hugs, insights and wisdom, truths…  I will be forever changed by the many wonderful conversations and carry the many valuable lessons that I learnt with me through life.  Heartfelt gratitude to all of our wonderful guests!!!  And special thanks to you, my dear listener! It is because of you that I'm still here and going strong.  In this episode:  Rapid-fire Best show/movie I watched  Best book I read  Songs I enjoyed  Best meal I had Place I visited  Best purchase I made  22 Powerful Questions to Reflect on 2022 What inspired you this year? This year my biggest challenge was: This year my biggest accomplishment was:  Which relationships remained rock-solid?  Describe one moment when people you were with made all the difference. How did you feel? What was the most gratifying use of your time this year? What would you like to spend less time on next year? What would you like to spend more time on next year?  Was there a moment when you overcame fear or did something outside of your comfort zone?  What enabled you to overcome this fear? What made you feel alive this year? What is the most important lesson you learned this year?  What did you enjoy the most?  What was your favorite moment?  How did you have fun? What are you most proud of this year?  What did you learn about yourself? What got in the way of your success?  What did you do for your physical and mental health?   What did you leave unfinished?  What advice would you give your last-year self?  What has been hard to admit to yourself?  Listener voicemails Ranela  Zara  Mathu  Lauren Jen Arijana  Top 15 Episodes of 2022!  15. 317: The Anatomy of Anxiety with Ellen Vora, MD 14. 310: The Healing Power of Storytelling 13. 313: Becoming Your Authentic Self with Dr. Thema Bryant 12. 314: The 6 Critical Needs of Children with Anna Seewald 11. 306: The Invisible Epidemic of Trauma with Paul Conti, MD __________________________________________ 10. 312: Unwinding Anxiety with Dr. Jud Brewer 9. 309: Why Your Happiness Matters with Ericka Souter 8. 304: How to Be an Adult with Julie Lyfcott-Heims 7. 307: How Mother Loss Shapes Who We Become with Hope Edelman and Judith Rabinor  6. 310: Why You Can't Pay Attention and How To Think Deeply Again with Johann Hari 5. 303: How to Rock Your Parenting in 2022 with Anna Seewald 4. 305: Breathing and Your Health with Patrick Mckeown 3. 308: How to Ask For What You Need in a Relationship with Yvette Erasmus 2. 336: Trauma and Healing in a Toxic Culture with Dr. Gabor Maté 1. 315: How to Help Kids with Emotional Self-regulation with Mona Delahooke   Intentions and goals for 2023+word of the year.    SUPPORT THE SHOW, SHOW YOUR LOVE Become a patron on Patreon.com and join 210exisiting memebers who contribute towards our monthly goal of $500.  Make a one-time donation in any amount to say “Thank you!” Rate or write a review FULL SHOW NOTES www.authenticparenting.com/podcast HOW TO WORK WITH ANNA I would be thrilled to support you in your parenting journey! All listeners get 10% off on my services. Private Coaching Online courses and classes GET IN TOUCH Comments, questions, feedback, and love notes  USA listeners call 732-763-2576 and leave a voicemail. International listeners use the FREE Speak Pipe tool on my website Email: info@authenticparenting.com STAY CONNECTED Instagram Facebook Group-Authentic Parenting Community Thank you for listening!  With gratitude, Anna Seewald Parent Educator, Keynote Speaker, Author www.authenticparenting.com  

All Things Narrative
Narrative Panel #2 The Power of Language

All Things Narrative

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2022 59:14


We're back with another exciting panel featuring some of my fellow colleagues in the field of Narrative Practices. This all-star line-up includes Narrative Therapist Emily Bostrom, Narrative Social Worker Sarah Houston, and writer and Narrative Practitioner Andrea Wilson. Together, we discuss the power of language in our lives, and how to give that power back to the people we work with. Emily Bostrom loves people and their stories. She lives in western Canada surrounded by forest, rivers and lakes. Her website is www.innergravity.ca Sarah Houston lives with her partner and two sons in Calgary, Alberta, Canada.  The traditional custodians of this beautiful land were the nations that make up the Blackfoot Confederacy.  She is a registered Social Worker and current student in the Masters of Narrative Therapy and Community Work program. She is interested in opportunities to make space for voices with lived experience and the power of collective documents.   In summer 2022, Andrea Wilson was the narrative therapist in residence for TendHer, a program of mental resilience for 1000+ women across Iowa. She recently taught an Iowa Writers' House workshop on Narrative therapy and memoir writing with famed memoirist, Hope Edelman. If you've been enjoying this podcast, please consider rating and reviewing us on Apple Podcasts. All Things Narrative is a personal development company that empowers people through storytelling. Want to learn how to tell your story in ways that inspire you and others to live more meaningfully? Visit allthingsnarrative.com to book a personal development workshop for your group or get a FREE consultation for our coaching program. You can also reach Derrick personally at: derrick@allthingsnarrative.com.  Like us on Facebook Follow us on Instagram Read my Film Diary (including reviews and rankings) on Letterboxd

Daughters Without Moms
Episode 30: Rachel's Story

Daughters Without Moms

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2022 64:23


Rachel was 8-years-old when she came home from church and was told her mom died in a car accident the night before. That day, her dad called her his brave little girl, and she lived up to that expectation. No one would see her cry until her dad's death. Rachel says that hearing about the passing of her mother is what made her human. It shaped her entire world view. Rachel highly recommends the books Motherless Daughters and The Aftergrief by Hope Edelman. Rachel's Take-Away: It's way harder to be 32-years-old without parents than it was as a child. Check on adult children. I didn't think about how hard it would be for the rest of my life. Forever is a very-long time. Adults think that grieving is step-by-step. Kids grieve differently. They may not cry. They may show it in other ways and little changes. You can learn a lot of things from kids when you pay attention to how they grieve. All of our stories are important! If you have a story to share, please send an email to daughterswithoutmoms@gmail.com. You don't have to be a DWOM to share your story. All are welcome! Would you like to talk about your grief journey? Sign up for a complimentary Connection Call by sending an email to daughterswithoutmoms@gmail.com For more information on my thoughts on grief, please visit my website, www.yourgriefjourney.com

Daughters Without Moms
Episode 29: Sadye's Story

Daughters Without Moms

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2022 44:35


Sadye's mom fought metastatic breast cancer for 6 years, and then she lost her mom when she was 12. Next she lost her dad when she was 23 to a heart attack. She's the youngest of 4 children, and even now, at 30, her grief and loss affect her significantly. Sadye recommends these resources for parent loss as a young adult: The Dinner Party (www.thedinnerparty.org), Motherless Daughters Group (www.motherlessdaughters.com/support-groups) and Hope Edelman's book, Motherless Daughters (hopeedelman.com/books/motherless-daughters) Sadye's Take-Away: Don't hide your emotions. Feel them and accept them. Grief is everlasting and unexpected. It's like the ocean, and the waves of grief can come and go. All of our stories are important! If you have a story to share, please send an email to daughterswithoutmoms@gmail.com. You don't have to be a DWOM to share your story. All are welcome! Would you like to talk about your grief journey? Sign up for a complimentary Connection Call here: https://calendly.com/daughterswithoutmoms/30-minute-connection-call For more information on my thoughts on grief, please visit my website, www.yourgriefjourney.com

Mother of Reinvention
Motherless Midlife With Hope Edelman (Plus a Special Chat With Meagan’s Sister Kathreen!)

Mother of Reinvention

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2022 49:14


Losing your mom at any age is hard, but when you begin to approach the age your mom was when she died, it has special significance. In this episode I'm joined by Hope Edelman, bestselling author and creator of the Motherless Daughters community, to talk about her work with women who have lost their mothers and why midlife can be a particularly fraught time for motherless women. Later in the show I'm joined by my sister Kathreen, who is about to turn 55 - the same age our mother was when she died - to talk about our experience losing our mom young, and how it has colored our view of motherhood, aging, and more. Sponsor Highlight Elevate your shoe game with cute styles + amazing comfort. Check out the Clarita Wedge , Meagan's go-to date night shoe. Try it on yourself with Vionic's 30 Day Wear Test – return any purchase within 30 days for a full refund, even if it's been worn outside. Get free shipping when you use code MOR at vionicshoes.com About Hope Edelman Hope Edelman is an internationally bestselling author who has been working in the bereavement field for more than 25 years. She has written eight books, including Motherless Daughters, Motherless Mothers, and her most recent, The AfterGrief: Finding Your Way Along the Long Arc of Loss. She offers in-person retreats, virtual support groups for women who lost mothers at any age, and online writing courses throughout the year, and has lectured and led workshops all over the U.S. as well as in Canada, the U.K., Australia, and Dubai. She lives in Los Angeles and Iowa City, Iowa. For more information, go to www.motherlessdaughters.com.  Episode Links: Interested in joining a private Mother of Reinvention community? Take this survey to tell us what you'd most like to see there! Instagram- (@hope_edelman) Facebook- Motherless Daughters | Facebook Facebook Group-  Motherless Daughters Support Group | Facebook Website- Motherless Daughters Other Resources- Rituals | The AfterGrief Episode 21 Featuring Meagan's Sister Kathreen: Thriving After Health Trauma With Kathreen Francis (Meagan's Sister!) - Mother of Reinvention (meaganfrancis.com)

Nobody Told Me!
Hope Edelman: ...that grieving your mother is a lifelong process

Nobody Told Me!

Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2022 31:46


One of the toughest things that can be faced by a girl or a woman of any age is the loss of her mother. Our guest, Hope Edelman, knows all about that. In fact, she knows more about it than most of us. Hope is an expert in the field of early mother loss and mother-daughter relationships. She's written extensively on those topics and is the author of "Motherless Daughters" and "Motherless Mothers", among others.   You can learn more about Hope on her website: http://hopeedelman.com. Thanks to our sponsor of this episode! --> AirMedCare Network: AirMedCare Network provides air ambulance services in the event of an emergency. If you're a member, you'll pay no out of pocket costs for the flight when transported by an AMCN provider. Were you aware that health insurance doesn't always cover the full cost of emergency air transport? AMCN Membership is financial protection for your entire household at an affordable price. Right now, AMCN is offering our listeners the chance to win 10,000 dollars and backyard prizes like a Blackstone griddle, a Solo Yukon firepit, an outdoor theater kit, and 100 dollar Costco gift card with their Summer Sizzle Sweepstakes. No purchase necessary to enter– but if you do decide to purchase a membership during this special promotion, all AMCN members will receive up to 200 bonus entries for their chances to win great prizes. Head to airmedcarenetwork.com before May 13 and enter your information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Grief Is My Side Hustle
Ep. 55. Hope Edelman: Motherless Daughters

Grief Is My Side Hustle

Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2022 63:10


Hope Edelman has been writing, speaking, and leading workshops and retreats in the bereavement field for more than 25 years. She was 17 when she lost her mother to breast cancer and 40 when her father died, events that inspired her to offer grief education and support to those who cannot otherwise receive it Hope's first book, Motherless Daughters, was a #1 New York Times bestseller and appeared on multiple bestseller lists worldwide. Hope's most recent book, The AfterGrief, offers an innovative new language for discussing the long arc of loss. She has published six additional books, including Motherless Mothers and the memoir, The Possibility of Everything. Her work has been translated into 14 languages and published in 11 countries. Hope has also published articles and essays in numerous publications and anthologies, including The New York Times, The Los Angeles Times, The Washington Post, Real Simple, Parade, and CNN.com. She holds a bachelor's degree in journalism from Northwestern University and a master's degree in nonfiction writing from the University of Iowa.  She is a certified Martha Beck Life Coach and has also done certificate training in narrative therapy

Authentic Parenting
What Comes After Grief? with Hope Edelman

Authentic Parenting

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2022 54:30


Unexpressed grief from the past may be one of the most overlooked public crises of our time. Says my guest, Hope Edelman today-who is a strong voice and influential figure in the bereavement field and her books have helped countless people, especially women, as she wrote about mother loss. And mother loss, doesn't necessarily mean loss by death. There is abandonment, separation, neglect… Her new book is one of the most important books I've encountered one the topic. It's called The AfterGrief: Finding Your Way Along the Long Arc of Loss. As the title suggests, adjusting to loss is a lifelong process but as you'll learn from this conversation-it doesn't have to be a lifelong struggle. The AfterGrief is where we learn to live with a central paradox of bereavement: that a loss can recede in time and yet remain so exquisitely present.  MENTIONED IN THIS EPSIODE Ep. 307: How Mother Loss Shapes Who We Become Ep. 290. The Complicated Mother-Daughter Relationship SUPPORT THE SHOW, SHOW YOUR LOVE Become a patron on Patreon.com and join 18 exisiting memebers who contribute $92 towards our monthly goal of $500.  Make a one-time donation in any amount to say “Thank you!” Rate or write a review   FULL SHOW NOTES www.authenticparenting.com/podcast    WORK WITH ME I would be thrilled to support you in your parenting journey! All listeners get 10% off on my services. Private Coaching Online courses and classes    GET IN TOUCH Comments, questions, feedback, and love notes  USA listeners call 732-763-2576 and leave a voicemail. International listeners use the FREE Speak Pipe tool on my website Email: info@authenticparenting.com   STAY CONNECTED Instagram Facebook Group-Authentic Parenting Community   Thank you for listening!  With gratitude, Anna Seewald Parent Educator, Keynote Speaker, Author www.authenticparenting.com

Authentic Parenting
The Healing Power of Storytelling

Authentic Parenting

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2022 67:45


We all have a story. Your life story defines who you are. And only you can tell your own story.  By sharing it you not only release painful feelings, make sense of what happened to you, gain a new perspective, form a new meaning, but you access a possibility of transforming your life. Whether you share your story orally or in a written form, it has healing power. Do you have an untold story inside that is itching to be shared? Kristy Lauricella and Judy Rabinor on the healing power of writing and sharing your stroy.  By revisiting and revising our stories and the meaning we attach to them is how our stories become one of growth as well as hardship.    “Meaning is not something we stumble upon. It's something we make. “ Hope Edelman   Past Episodes with Kristy and Judith  Ep. 307: How Mother Loss Shapes Who we Become with Judith Rabinor and Hope Edelman Ep. 300: The Big 300th with Kristy Lauricella Ep. 290: The Complicated Mother-Daguther Realtionship with Judith Rabinor  Ep. 195: Why We Need to Connect More with Kristy Lauricella Ep. 273: Coping with Loss with Kristy Lauricella   SUPPORT THE SHOW Become a patron on Patreon.com Make a one-time donation in any amount to say “Thank you!” Rate or write a review   FULL SHOW NOTES www.authenticparenting.com/podcast   OUT SPONSOR  Athletic Greens is offering my listeners a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D and 5 free travel packs with your first purchase. Simply visit athleticgreens.com/authenticparenting   WORK WITH ME I would be thrilled to support you in your parenting journey! All listeners get 10% off on my services. Private Coaching Online courses and classes    GET IN TOUCH Comments, questions, feedback, and love notes  USA listeners call 732-763-2576 and leave a voicemail. International listeners use the FREE Speak Pipe tool on my website Email: info@authenticparenting.com   STAY CONNECTED Instagram Facebook Group-Authentic Parenting Community   Thanks for listening!   With gratitude, Anna Seewald Parent Educator, Keynote Speaker, Author www.authenticparenting.com

Pieces of You
Guest Hope Edelman

Pieces of You

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2022 58:57


In Season 2, Episode 1, we welcome our very special first guest - author, speaker, coach, and facilitator, Hope Edelman! We invite Hope to share her story and her journey as an author of two extremely influential books, Motherless Daughters and The AfterGrief. We discuss the healing and connecting power of sharing our stories, ask Hope questions related to her life, her loss, and her books, and close with an offer of gratitude for each other and our listeners. Resources: Hope Edelman, Instagram: @hope_edelman Hope Edelman, Facebook: @hopeedelmanauthor Hope Edelman websites: hopeedelman.com & motherlessdaughters.com Books by Hope Edelman: Motherless Daughters The AfterGrief Connect with us: You can email the podcast at connect@piecesofyoupodcast.com. Visit www.piecesofyoupodcast.com for links to everything we mention on the show. Follow us on Instagram and Facebook @PiecesofYouPodcast. Partners: Theme song by: https://www.thegemnize.com/ Graphics Designer (logo): https://marilarsen.com/ Podcast Production company: https://micme.com/

Authentic Parenting
How Mother Loss Shapes Who We Become

Authentic Parenting

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2022 69:23


Warning: This episode contains mature themes and sensitive topics.  While I think the conversation is deep, important and rich, it could be triggering for some. Please use your best judgment and assess whether you are in the right state of mind to be exposed to such content at this point in time. Hope Edelman and Dr. Judith Rabinor on how mother loss shapes our identity and impact the way we parent.  Losing a parent as a child is always traumatic. And its impact is long-term. Two short sentences but they say a lot. Especially for those of us who have become bereaved by a parental death before the age of 18.  SOME KEY POINTS Why we don't like talking about grief How there is no getting over it when it comes to grief  How not all loss is traumatic Hitting important life milestones and transitions as a motherless mother such as: Approaching, just turned or passing the age of your mom when she died and your child turning the age you were when your mother died MENTIONED LINKS AND RESOURCES  Hope Edelman's website Judith Rabinor's webiste Ep. 290 : The Complicated Mother-Daughter Relationship with Judith Rabinor, Ph.D GET THE BOOKS  Motherles Daughthers  Motherless Mothers The AfterGrief The Girl in The RedBoots: Making Peace with My Mother OTHER EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE 194: The Dark Side of Motherhood 104: Overcoming Childhood Trauma  67: Not Like My Mother: Breaking Free from the Past 77: Loss, Grief and the Mysterious Meanings of Your Dreams  98: Healing from Trauma 99: Should We Forgive Our Parents?  OUR SPONSOR  Athletic Greens is offering my listeners a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D and 5 free travel packs with your first purchase. Simply visit www.athleticgreens.com/authenticparenting BECOME A SUPPORTER OF THE SHOW 1. With your support we can continue the production of the podcast uninterruptedly. You can choose a level of support on Patreon.com by becoming a patron. 2. One time donations are also deeply appreciated. Give from the heart now.   FULL SHOW NOTES www.authenticparenting.com/podcast    OUT SPONSOR  Athletic Greens is offering my listeners a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D and 5 free travel packs with your first purchase. Simply visit athleticgreens.com/authenticparenting   ABOUT ME I help overwhelmed, frustrated parents who want to parent differently than their parents, make sense of their early childhood experiences, connect to their authentic self and their children on a deeper level, reduce stress, bring more ease, calm and joy into their lives by yelling less, and practicing non-punitive discipline.   WORK WITH ME Listeners of the podcast get 10% on my coaching services.  I would be thrilled to support you in your parenting journey! Click here to get started with my Introductory (3 Sessions) Package or REAL Change Package - 6 Private Coaching Sessions Court-Ordered Parenting Classes (in person NJ, NY,and PA residents only)    YOUR FEEDBACK IS VALUABLE! Do you have a comment, question, or a takeaway about this episode or the podcast in general?   USA listeners call 732-763-2576 right now and leave a voicemail. International listeners use the FREE Speak Pipe tool on my website. Add your voice. It matters! Email: info@authenticparenting.com   SUBMIT YOUR PARENTING QUESTIONS TO BE ANSWERED IN THE SHOW: Voicemail: 732-763-2576 Speak Pipe for sending audio messages Email: info@authenticparenting.com   CONNECT WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA Authentic Parenting on Facebook Instagram   NEED PARENTING SUPPORT? Join the Authentic Parenting FREE online community Thanks for listening!   With gratitude, Anna Seewald Parent Educator, Keynote Speaker, Author www.authenticparenting.com

If You Knew Me
The Silent Threshold

If You Knew Me

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2022 53:56


Jamie Yuenger interviews bestselling author and grief advocate Hope Edelman about her writing and work with motherless daughters. Hope speaks about universal themes of loss. Hope was 17 when she lost her mom to breast cancer and 40, when her father died. These events inspired her to offer grief education and support to those who couldn't otherwise receive it. Hope's first book Motherless Daughters was a number one New York Times bestseller and appeared on multiple bestseller lists worldwide. Hope's most recent book The AfterGrief offers an innovative new language for discussing the long arc of loss.Full Moon Women episodes are designed as couplets. The first episode each month is a long form story from a woman's inner life. The second is an interview with someone who can bring a wider context to the storytelling woman's story. In this episode, Hope reflects on Brinda van den Berg's experience of losing her mom when she was two. (See Episode 01, “Motherless Mother.”)Hope has published six books, including Motherless Mothers and her memoir The Possibility of Everything. Her work has been translated into 14 languages and published in 11 countries. She also hosts weekly calls for the Motherless Daughters Community. Hope has been published in The New York Times, the Los Angeles Times and The Washington Post. She got her bachelor's degree in journalism from Northwestern University and a master's in nonfiction writing from the University of Iowa. She is also a certified Martha Beck life coach and has done certificate training in narrative therapy.www.hopeedelman.comJOIN US: Official members enjoy exclusive content and receive regular gifts and resources. Plus, you'll be helping us produce this show. Membership starts at $3/month. Join here.NEWSLETTER: Never miss a juicy episode! Sign upVOICE MEMO: If you want to share your experience or have a question for a guest (or us) click here to record your message REVIEW US: Leave us 5 stars and a written review on iTunes to help more listeners find us. TALK TO US: If you have a topic or guest idea you would like us to consider, send us a message. Or, connect with us on Instagram and Facebook. Visit our website https://ifyouknewme.showThis episode was produced by Jamie Yuenger and Piet Hurkmans. Music in this episode by Blue Dot Sessions. Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If You Knew Me
Motherless Mother

If You Knew Me

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2022 37:00


Welcome to our very first episode of Full Moon Women! We are so glad you're here. We publish episodes bi-monthly as couplets. The first episode of each month is a personal story from a woman's inner life. The follow-up episode is a conversation with someone who brings greater context – and hopefully greater appreciation – for the storytelling woman's story. Our first episode is titled "Motherless Mother" and it's the story of Brinda van den Berg. The next episode is with Hope Edelman, the author of the NYTimes #1 bestseller, “Motherless Daughters” and the new book “The Aftergrief.”Brinda lost her mother when she was only two-years old. Originally from India, she now lives in the Netherlands. Brinda shares her journey of becoming a mom without a proper role model and finding her way through grief.WATCH BRINDA'S CHAI VIDEO on PatreonJOIN US: Official members enjoy exclusive content and receive regular gifts and resources. Plus, you'll be helping us produce this show. Membership starts at $3/month. Join here.*Join us at $5/month before May 1, 2022 and you'll receive 8 original wallpaper designs for your phone or tablet. GET THE NEWSLETTER: You won't want to miss this…get our bi-monthly newsletter with ART for the soul, POETRY and new episode announcments. LEAVE A VOICE MEMO: If you want to share your experience or have a question for the guest, or for us, we would love to hear from you! Click here to record your message WRITE A REVIEW: Leave us a rating and a written review on iTunes so more listeners can find us. TALK TO US: If you have a topic or guest idea you would like us to consider, send us an email at fullmoonwomenpodcast@gmail.com. Or, connect with us on Instagram and Facebook. Tag #fullmoonwomenpodcast and #lessalone to start the conversation. www.fullmoonwomen.com/podcastSign up for Our Newsletter.This episode was produced by Jamie Yuenger and Piet Hurkmans.Music in this episode by Blue Dot Sessions.Tags: grief, healing, motherless daughers, motherless mothers, motherhood, ex-pat, The Netherlands, grief journey, bereavement, loss, mother loss Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

situation / story
DON'T GO CRAZY WITHOUT ME w/Deborah A. Lott

situation / story

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2021 56:57


About the Book:Deborah A. Lott grew up in a Los Angeles suburb in the 1950s, under the sway of her outrageously eccentric father. A lay rabbi who enjoyed dressing up like Little Lord Fauntleroy, he taught her how to have fun. But he also taught her to fear germs, other children, and contamination from the world at large. Deborah was so deeply bonded to her father and his peculiar worldview that when he plunged from neurotic to full-blown psychotic, she nearly followed him.Sanity is not always a choice, but for sixteen-year-old Deborah, lines had to be drawn between reality and her own “overactive imagination.” She saved herself through an unconventional reading of Moby Dick, a deeply awkward sexual awakening, and entry into the world of political activism as a volunteer in Robert F. Kennedy's Presidential campaign.After attending Kennedy's last stop at the Ambassador Hotel the night of his assassination, Deborah would come to a new reckoning with loss. Ultimately, she would find her own path, and her own way of turning grief into love.About Deborah:Deborah A. Lott is a writer, editor, and college instructor. Her creative nonfiction has been published widely. Her work has been thrice named as Notable Essays of the Year in Best American Essays, and thrice nominated for a Pushcart Prize.Her book, Don't Go Crazy Without Me has been acclaimed by writers Mark Doty, Abigail Thomas, Paul Lisicky, Karen E. Bender, Hope Edelman, among others. She is also the author of the book In Session: the Bond between Women and Their Therapists, which was widely praised for its unprecedented look at boundary and transference dilemmas in psychotherapy. Lott surveyed and interviewed several hundred women in gathering the research for that work. The book continues to be used to train psychotherapists nationwide and appears on multiple consumer websites as one of the top books ever written about the psychotherapy relationship.Lott serves as a faculty member at Antioch University, Los Angeles, where she teaches creative writing and literature courses, and serves as Editor to Two Hawks Quarterly. Among other courses, she has developed The Trauma Memoir, Lolita and Her Literary Sisters, and Representations of Childhood in Literature.As an independent editor, Lott has worked with a number of published authors developing articles, web content, books, academic monographs, and other materialFollow Deborah:Twitter: @deborahlott8FacebookWebsiteFollow TSatS:Twitter: @SituationStoryIG: @situationandstoryFacebook--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationandstory/support Get full access to situation / story at situationstory.substack.com/subscribe

Grief Book Roundup
E9: The Aftergrief by Hope Edelman

Grief Book Roundup

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2021 8:20


Buy The Aftergrief on Bookshop: https://bit.ly/3mWRRwJ Buy The Aftergrief on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3j8leLk Get personalized text-based grief support from Grief Coach: https://grief.coach/shelbyforsythia/ **This description contains affiliate links. Thank you for supporting me and other grief authors by purchasing your next great grief read on Bookshop or Amazon. Support Grief Book Roundup on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia Find additional grief support at: https://www.shelbyforsythia.com/

Grief Is My Superpower By Mark Lemon

For this episode Mark Lemon speaks with author, speaker and grief & loss coach, Hope Edelman. Hope Edelman speaks with Mark Lemon about the ways in which we can navigate grief and how her own experiences have shaped her outlook on life.  You can find Hope on Instagram and Twitter as @hope_edelman Order Hope's book, The AfterGrief, at https://www.waterstones.com/book/the-aftergrief/hope-edelman//9780241492895?awc=3787_1631703938_8958d57704e009d0e0c999823e8c6e07&utm_source=259955&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=Genie+Shopping+CSS Please don't forget to subscribe, rate and review wherever you're listening to this podcast. By doing this it will help us to reach more people in need of support at a tough time. This podcast is in support of children's bereavement charity www.winstonswish.org You can contact the Winston's Wish helpline at 08088 020 021 Follow Mark Lemon on Instagram @marklemonofficial and Twitter @lemondropbooks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Grief Out Loud
Titrating Grief

Grief Out Loud

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2021 36:20


When Jonna's mom, Anita, died just a few days after Jonna's 26th birthday, she prepared herself to completely fall apart. She imagined not getting out of bed for days, never laughing again, and for life to come to a standstill. When grief didn't look like that, it was confusing and left her worried she was doing something wrong. Jonna talks about her mom, their relationship, what it's like for grief to show up over time, and reckoning with how grief is changing her hopes and goals. If you or someone you know is struggling with feeling hopeless, please reach out for help. You can call the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at 1-800-273-8255 or text Hello to 741-741.  This episode references The AfterGrief by Hope Edelman. 

Just Ask Your Mom
When You Can't Ask Your Mom: How Mother Loss Affects Our Parenting

Just Ask Your Mom

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2021 54:58


According to author Hope Edelman, when new mothers are grieving their own mothers, the physical and psychological stress can be overwhelming: You're suddenly in the role of the person you need most—who's no longer there. If you become a mother after your own mother dies, you're mourning what might have been. On this episode, we talk with Danielle Cunningham and co-host Bonnie Blaylock, who both lost their mothers before they had children of their own, and how that changed the way they parent.

New Books in Psychology
Hope Edelman, "The AfterGrief: Finding Your Way Along the Long Arc of Loss" (Ballantine Books, 2020)

New Books in Psychology

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2021 45:58


Grief is a long-misunderstood experience that many people believe proceeds according to predictable steps ending in ‘closure.' According to Hope Edelman, however, grief is a long-term process that can actually enhance rather than constrict our lives. She debunks many myths about grief and loss in her new book, The AfterGrief: Finding Your Way Along the Long Arc of Loss (Ballantine Books, 2020). In our candid interview, she opens up about how the loss of her mother 40 years ago still teaches her lessons today, and she explains how we all might benefit from rethinking the way we grieve and heal from loss. This episode will be timely and relevant for anyone who feels ‘stuck' following a loss and is searching for a new way to move forward. Hope Edelman is the author of eight nonfiction books, including bestsellers Motherless Daughters and Motherless Mothers and the memoir The Possibility of Everything. Her original essays have appeared in many anthologies, including The Bitch in the House, Behind the Bedroom Door, and Goodbye to All That. Motherless Daughters was named a New York Times Notable Book of the year, and Edelman's work has also won her a Pushcart Prize for creative nonfiction. The recipient of the 2020 Community Educator Award from the Association for Death Education and Counseling, she is a certified Martha Beck Life Coach and facilitates Motherless Daughters retreats and workshops all over the world. She lives and works in Los Angeles and Iowa City. Eugenio Duarte, Ph.D. is a psychologist and psychoanalyst practicing in Miami. He treats individuals and couples, with specialties in gender and sexuality, eating and body image problems, and relationship issues. He is a graduate and faculty of William Alanson White Institute in Psychiatry, Psychoanalysis, and Psychology in New York City and former chair of their LGBTQ Study Group; and faculty at Florida Psychoanalytic Institute in Miami. He is also a contributing author to the book Introduction to Contemporary Psychoanalysis: Defining Terms and Building Bridges (2018, Routledge) and has published on issues of gender, sexuality, and sexual abuse. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/psychology

New Books in Spiritual Practice and Mindfulness
Hope Edelman, "The AfterGrief: Finding Your Way Along the Long Arc of Loss" (Ballantine Books, 2020)

New Books in Spiritual Practice and Mindfulness

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2021 45:58


Grief is a long-misunderstood experience that many people believe proceeds according to predictable steps ending in ‘closure.' According to Hope Edelman, however, grief is a long-term process that can actually enhance rather than constrict our lives. She debunks many myths about grief and loss in her new book, The AfterGrief: Finding Your Way Along the Long Arc of Loss (Ballantine Books, 2020). In our candid interview, she opens up about how the loss of her mother 40 years ago still teaches her lessons today, and she explains how we all might benefit from rethinking the way we grieve and heal from loss. This episode will be timely and relevant for anyone who feels ‘stuck' following a loss and is searching for a new way to move forward. Hope Edelman is the author of eight nonfiction books, including bestsellers Motherless Daughters and Motherless Mothers and the memoir The Possibility of Everything. Her original essays have appeared in many anthologies, including The Bitch in the House, Behind the Bedroom Door, and Goodbye to All That. Motherless Daughters was named a New York Times Notable Book of the year, and Edelman's work has also won her a Pushcart Prize for creative nonfiction. The recipient of the 2020 Community Educator Award from the Association for Death Education and Counseling, she is a certified Martha Beck Life Coach and facilitates Motherless Daughters retreats and workshops all over the world. She lives and works in Los Angeles and Iowa City. Eugenio Duarte, Ph.D. is a psychologist and psychoanalyst practicing in Miami. He treats individuals and couples, with specialties in gender and sexuality, eating and body image problems, and relationship issues. He is a graduate and faculty of William Alanson White Institute in Psychiatry, Psychoanalysis, and Psychology in New York City and former chair of their LGBTQ Study Group; and faculty at Florida Psychoanalytic Institute in Miami. He is also a contributing author to the book Introduction to Contemporary Psychoanalysis: Defining Terms and Building Bridges (2018, Routledge) and has published on issues of gender, sexuality, and sexual abuse. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/spiritual-practice-and-mindfulness

New Books Network
Hope Edelman, "The AfterGrief: Finding Your Way Along the Long Arc of Loss" (Ballantine Books, 2020)

New Books Network

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2021 45:58


Grief is a long-misunderstood experience that many people believe proceeds according to predictable steps ending in ‘closure.' According to Hope Edelman, however, grief is a long-term process that can actually enhance rather than constrict our lives. She debunks many myths about grief and loss in her new book, The AfterGrief: Finding Your Way Along the Long Arc of Loss (Ballantine Books, 2020). In our candid interview, she opens up about how the loss of her mother 40 years ago still teaches her lessons today, and she explains how we all might benefit from rethinking the way we grieve and heal from loss. This episode will be timely and relevant for anyone who feels ‘stuck' following a loss and is searching for a new way to move forward. Hope Edelman is the author of eight nonfiction books, including bestsellers Motherless Daughters and Motherless Mothers and the memoir The Possibility of Everything. Her original essays have appeared in many anthologies, including The Bitch in the House, Behind the Bedroom Door, and Goodbye to All That. Motherless Daughters was named a New York Times Notable Book of the year, and Edelman's work has also won her a Pushcart Prize for creative nonfiction. The recipient of the 2020 Community Educator Award from the Association for Death Education and Counseling, she is a certified Martha Beck Life Coach and facilitates Motherless Daughters retreats and workshops all over the world. She lives and works in Los Angeles and Iowa City. Eugenio Duarte, Ph.D. is a psychologist and psychoanalyst practicing in Miami. He treats individuals and couples, with specialties in gender and sexuality, eating and body image problems, and relationship issues. He is a graduate and faculty of William Alanson White Institute in Psychiatry, Psychoanalysis, and Psychology in New York City and former chair of their LGBTQ Study Group; and faculty at Florida Psychoanalytic Institute in Miami. He is also a contributing author to the book Introduction to Contemporary Psychoanalysis: Defining Terms and Building Bridges (2018, Routledge) and has published on issues of gender, sexuality, and sexual abuse. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/new-books-network

The Hoffman Podcast
S3E12: Hope Edelman – More Vulnerable, More Fierce

The Hoffman Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2021 39:31


Hope Edelman, a 2015 graduate, credits the Hoffman Process with changing the course of her life. She's traversed much heartache and loss in her life and she's been a guiding light to many others who have traversed the same. As Hope shares the tale of her life journey, you can't help but see the throughline of her life. When Hope was seventeen her mother passed away. After that day, Hope had always sensed that part of her was stuck back at that point. During a transformational moment at the Process, she took the hand of her seventeen-year-old self and walked her into the future so she could be an integrated adult. One of the beautiful statements Hope makes about her life is her shift from wanting to be exceptional to wanting to be helpful. In guiding others through the landscape of loss, Hope has greatly expanded the reach of her love's everyday radius. As Hope shares what she's up to now, she shares with us the power of the liminal* space. When we are between what has ended and what has yet to begin, between what we knew and what we are yet to know, we are more our essential selves than any other time. Rather than fear these times, we can come to see how alive and vital we are in them. MORE ABOUT HOPE EDELMAN Hope Edelman has been writing, speaking, and leading retreats and workshops in the bereavement field for more than 25 years. She was 17 when she lost her mother to breast cancer and 40 when her father died, an event that inspired her to offer grief education and support to those who need it now and especially those who did not receive it in the past. Hope's first book, Motherless Daughters, became a #1 New York Times Bestseller. Her newest book, The AfterGrief, offers an innovative new way to talk about the long arc of loss. She has written six additional books, including Motherless Mothers and the memoir, The Possibility of Everything. Hope holds a bachelor's degree in journalism from Northwestern University and a graduate degree in nonfiction writing from The University of Iowa. She is a certified Martha Beck Life Coach who helps clients revisit and revise their life stories. As mentioned in this episode *Liminal/Liminality Discover if the Process is right for you. Subscribe on Apple/iTunes

Good Mourning
The ‘AfterGrief' with Hope Edelman

Good Mourning

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2021 50:51


We are joined by New York Times bestselling author and founder of the Motherless Daughters movement, Hope Edelman, to discuss her latest book, The AfterGrief: Finding Your Way Along the Long Arc of Loss and why grief isn't something to get over, get past, or move beyond.We discuss how grief can ebb and flow but this doesn't mean that we're 'doing it wrong' and why grieving may be a lifelong process, it doesn't have to be a struggle.We also dive into Hope's own personal experience of becoming a mum after losing her mum when she was 17, how her grief has evolved over time, and how we can reframe the experience of mothering without a mother.Whether you are curious to know how to navigate grief as the years stretch by, or are perhaps interested in hearing her perspective as a motherless daughter and mum, this conversation will educate and inspire you.Come say hello to us on Instagram @goodmourningpodcast.www.goodmourning.com.auLinksBuy Hope's latest book, The AfterGrief: Finding Your Way Along the Long Arc of LossAnd some of her other books we'd recommend are...Motherless Daughters by Hope EdelmanMotherless Mothers by Hope Edelmanhttps://www.motherlessdaughters.com/ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Grateful Goddesses
Hope Edelman: The Grief Journey Of Losing A Mother

Grateful Goddesses

Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2021 92:26


Everyone’s grief is a very individual process. There is no one-size-fits-all. But when we lose someone who is dear to us, our life is changed forever. In this episode, join Karen Pulver in a conversation with three incredible women, Goddesses Lara, Vanessa, and Michelle, who have lost their mothers at various ages in their lives. She then sits down with Hope Edelman, the author of Motherless Daughters and The AfterGrief. Learn the beautiful memories they share, their grief journey, and how they have grown through the loss of their mothers to be mothers themselves. Hope then dives deep into the ways individuals cope and continue to have their arc of grief. As she states, “finding others that can understand our loss is the social support needed for bereavement.” Join us as we support each other through this journey of loss and learn how to come out on the other side with hope, courage, bravery, and love. Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share!Here’s How »Join the Grateful Goddesses Community today:gratefulgoddesses.comTwitterInstagramFacebookYouTube

Open to Hope
Hope Edelman: After Grief are You Over it?

Open to Hope

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2021 20:33


Hope Edelman is the author of eight nonfiction books, including the bestsellers Motherless Daughters and Motherless Mothers. She has been a sought-after speaker and workshop leader in the bereavement field […] The post Hope Edelman: After Grief are You Over it? appeared first on Open to Hope.

Calmer You Podcast: Anxiety & Confidence
Ep. 145 Grief with Hope Edelman

Calmer You Podcast: Anxiety & Confidence

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2021 28:39


Don't forget to grab your FREE confidence affirmations at https://www.calmer-you.com/confidence and you'll also be the first to hear about the latest news, freebies and podcasts.Hope Edelman joins me on the Calmer You podcast for a deep dive into the experience of grief. Hope has been writing, speaking, and leading workshops and retreats in the bereavement field for more than 25 years. She was 17 when she lost her mother to breast cancer. And 40 when her father died. Events that inspired her to offer grief education and support to those who cannot otherwise receive it.We discuss:The pressure on us to be grieving 'properly'?What advice do you have for people who are fearful about loved ones dying?How can we support someone else in grief?Hope shares her perspective on 5 stages of grief - and why many of us have gotten this wrongWhy we're communally grieving after the year we've hadFor the full episode search for 'The Calmer you Podcast' in the podcast app in iTunes or on Spotify or come on over to https://calmer-you.com/blog See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Real Ballers Read
2. How Motherless Daughters Defined My Life with Nina Collins

Real Ballers Read

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2021 52:40


In this episode we talk about Motherless Daughters by Hope Edelman, aging, how to think about death, our views on religion, and why our best traits can sometimes be our worst. Follow us at Real Ballers Read on Instagram! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/realballersread/support

Grief Out Loud
Living With Loss Over A Lifetime - Hope Edelman & The AfterGrief

Grief Out Loud

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2021 39:31


How do we live with grief over the course of our lives? Hope Edelman, author of the groundbreaking book, Motherless Daughters, joins us again to talk about her newest book, The AfterGrief: Finding Your Way Along the Long Arc of Loss. The AfterGrief is what happens as we move out of the initial acute distress when someone dies and into a lifetime of learning to live with what that loss means for us.  Hope's website. The AfterGrief. The AfterGrief Facebook Group Motherless Daughters Facebook Group. 

Of Course I'm Not OK: The Podcast
32. Pandemic Grief & the COVID Anniversary (with writer Hope Edelman)

Of Course I'm Not OK: The Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2021 45:17


Has anyone else been feeling a bit low lately? If so, the reason may surprise you. According to writer and grief expert Hope Edelman, many people experience a "dip in functioning" around the one-year anniversary of a trauma or loss. This week marks one year since COVID descended on the U.S., and in today's episode, Karen & Katie chat with Hope about the concept of Pandemic Grief.  The conversation is fascinating; Hope covers how culture in the U.S. over the last 150 years has changed around grief and how the one-year anniversary may be impacting us in different ways than any other trauma in our lives. Huge bonus: She also offers advice on how listeners can deal with and process their grief.  Resources from today's episode:  - Hope's op-ed on pandemic grief in The Washington Post (A MUST READ) - https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2021/02/26/pandemic-grief-could-become-its-own-health-crisis/?arc404=true - Connect with Hope on:  Her website: https://hopeedelman.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hope_edelman/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/hope_edelman Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3497675726911131/ - Check out her community for Motherless Daughters: https://www.motherlessdaughters.com/ (and the upcoming Mother's Day event - free for all and scheduled for the day before Mother's Day this year)

Life, Interrupted with Simon Thomas

At the age of 17, Hope Edelman lost her Mom to breast cancer. After she lost her Dad later in life, she turned her pain into inspiration, as she began a journey to better understand the confusing world of grief. Her first book, "Motherless Daughters" was a number one New York Times best-seller, and now her latest book, "The After Grief", gives a brilliant insight into how we not only process grief, but how loss isn't something we just get over. The BBC Radio Five Live presenter Tony Livesey, who lost his Mum suddenly, when he was just 13 said about Hope's book, that if he'd had a roadmap like this for dealing with grief, it would have changed his childhood. So whether you're someone who's been recently bereaved, or is still struggling with loss from many years ago, or just want to understand grief a little more, than I know that Hope's story, insight and wisdom will help. This interview gives all of us a little more undserstanding about a difficult and confusing aspect of life that one day, we are all going to face. If you have been through life events similar to those described in this episode and you need someone to talk to, please contact the samaritans, free any time, from any phone, on 116 123 And if you'd like to share your thoughts with Simon, he'd love to hear from you: Twitter @SimonThomasSky

The Mental Mile
Episode 15: The Anniversary of Pandemic Parenting + The 5 Skills We Need for 2021

The Mental Mile

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2021 30:08


Listen to hear how we are doing a year into pandemic parenting, and our thoughts about grief during this time. We chat about COVID trends + fads, distance + hybrid learning, the skills we need in 2021, and two of our favorite self-care practices. Mentioned in this Episode: "The AfterGrief: Finding Your Way Along the Long Arc of Loss" by Hope Edelman, The Anniversary Effect blog, Greater Good Magazine + The Science of Happiness podcast Shop Our Wellness Books: Kjersti's book Running for Mental Health + Kristi's book Self-Care Inspiration for Busy Parents Connect on Instagram: @thementalmile + @parentselfcare + @kjersti_running_therapy

The Tightrope with Dan Smolen
Can Grief Influence Career Choices?

The Tightrope with Dan Smolen

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2021 33:13


As we leave 2020 behind, we ask: can grief influence career choices? Meet New York Times best-selling author Hope Edelman. Through a series of books starting with Motherless Daughters, Hope helps people turn grief into a healing and meaningful experience. Now, her latest book, The AfterGrief, gets grieving people to a place a positivity and purpose: "There really are only two stages of grief that people care about: there's the stage where you feel really bad and then there's the stage where you feel better ... [That's what] the aftergrief is." In a wide ranging podcast episode, Hope: Describes being a 17-year-old who lost her mom to cancer and the grief journey that led her to write Motherless Daughters. Starts at 2:23 Defines The AfterGrief. Starts at 7:09 Explains how the Covid pandemic changed bereavement. Starts at 14:32 Takes us through the "gendered" way we discuss grief at work. Starts at 20:08 Provides insight on how grief can influence career choices that lead to meaningful work. Starts at 27:41 On the recognition of grief at work, Hope says: "It's really important for hiring managers to be grief-literate, to know what to expect and to support their employees who are going through a period of grief." Above all else, grieving is tough. But it can influence career choices that lead people to meaningful work opportunities. About our guest: Hope Edelman is the world renowned thought-leader on grief and bereavement: the author of several books; a noted speaker, and; a certified life coach. She earned a Bachelor of Science from the Medill School of Journalism at Northwestern University and a Masters of Arts in Nonfiction Writing from the University of Iowa. Hope lives and works in Southern California. EPISODE DATE: February 12, 2021 Social media: - Facebook - Instagram - Twitter - HopeEdeman.com Website - Motherless Daughters - The AfterGrief - Coaching Please Subscribe to The Dan Smolen Podcast on: – Apple Podcast – Android – Google Podcasts – Pandora – Spotify – Stitcher – TuneIn …or wherever you get your podcasts. You may also click HERE to receive our podcast episodes by email. Image credits: Memorial candle, Dan Smolen; Hope Edelman portrait, Brooke Fraser Bohm; Podcast button, J. Brandt Studio for The Dan Smolen Experience.

Inside Mental Health: A Psych Central Podcast
Is Grieving a Lifelong Process?

Inside Mental Health: A Psych Central Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2021 24:58


When Hope Edelman was 17, her mother died. Like many families in the 1980s, Hope's family grieved her mother's death in silence. This climate of silence around death made her feel shame around the topic and disconnected from her mother. In this episode, Hope answers the question “Is grieving a lifelong process?” and helps us understand the importance of openly discussing death. Learn more about NYTimes bestselling author Hope Edelman at HopeEdelman.com.

Dying of Laughter
The Long Arc of Loss with NYT Best Selling Author Hope Edelman

Dying of Laughter

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2021 82:04


Hope Edelman has been in the bereavement field for 25+ years. She was 17 when she lost her mom to breast cancer & 40 when her father died, which inspired her to offer grief education and support. Hope’s first book, Motherless Daughters, was a #1 New York Times bestseller and appeared on multiple bestseller lists worldwide. Her most recent book, The AfterGrief, offers an innovative new language for discussing the long arc of loss. Hope has also published articles in The New York Times, The Los Angeles Times, The Washington Post, Real Simple, Parade, and CNN.com.

As I Live and Grieve
The AfterGrief, with Hope Edelman

As I Live and Grieve

Play Episode Play 56 sec Highlight Listen Later Jan 26, 2021 34:27


Bestselling author Hope Edelman discusses her latest book, The AfterGrief, Finding Your Way Along the Long Arc of Loss (pub. Oct. 2020) so we might better understand how grief impacts our lives even years beyond the death of a loved one.Episode Notes:We are becoming more accepting now that grief could feasibly last for the rest of our lives. Hope Edelman offers insight how our grief might change as time passes and how occasional upsurges can occur.HOPE EDELMAN has been writing, speaking, and leading workshops and retreats in the bereavement field for more than 25 years. She was 17 when she lost her mother to breast cancer and 40 when her father died, events that inspired her to offer grief education and support to those who cannot otherwise receive it.Her first book, Motherless Daughters, was a #1 New York Times bestseller and appeared on multiple bestseller lists worldwide. Her work has been translated into 14 languages and published in 11 countries. Hope is the author of seven additional nonfiction books, including Motherless Mothers and the memoir The Possibility of Everything. She was the recipient of the 2020 Community Educator Award from the Association for Death Education and Counseling and has won a Pushcart Prize for her creative nonfiction.In addition to writing and speaking, she is a certified Martha Beck Life Coach and also leads nonfiction workshops to help writers tell, revisit, and revise their stories of loss. Hope lives and works in Los Angeles and Iowa City.Contact Info:www.asiliveandgrieve.com info@asiliveandgrieve.com Facebook:  As I Live and Grieve Instagram:  @asiliveandgrieve To Contact Hope:www.hopeedelman.comwww.motherlessdaughters.com info@hopeedelman.com

Dead Parents Society
Episode 22: Hope Edelman on The AfterGrief

Dead Parents Society

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2020 71:36


This episode is the audio recording from a virtual event held at the Kelly Writers House on November 18, 2020, featuring Hope Edelman, author of the new book The AfterGrief, as well as the widely successful and impactful book Motherless Daughters, and seven other nonfiction books. Hope and Jamie-Lee discuss Hope's process in writing and structuring The AfterGrief, how the book encourages those who've experienced loss to think critically about their own stories over time, and the way the Covid-19 pandemic impacted Hope and the book as she completed it. This event was sponsored by Penn's Creative Writing Program.

Here & Now
Understand Grieving As A Lifelong Process; Why Species Are Dying Out

Here & Now

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2020 44:24


Nearly 320,000 Americans have died of COVID-19, leaving 10 times as many grieving. "The After Grief" author Hope Edelman joins us to talk about grieving. And, the International Union for Conservation of Nature has updated its list of extinct and endangered species. Jon Paul Rodriguez of the IUCN's Species Survival Commission explains why some certain species are dying out.

Nobody Told Me!
Hope Edelman: ...how to deal with grief, the pandemic, and the holidays

Nobody Told Me!

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2020 35:57


This year, more than any other in the lives of most of us, has been a year of pain and loss.  We’ve watched helplessly as family, friends, and even strangers on television describe losing people they care about to the pandemic.  How do we process these losses?    Our guest on this episode, Hope Edelman, is an internationally recognized expert in the field of grief.  Hope was a teenager when her mother passed away and she says the death of a loved one isn’t something we get over, get past, put down or move beyond.  She’s written extensively on the topic and is the author of the books, Motherless Daughters and Motherless Mothers, among others.  Her newest book is called, The AfterGrief:  Finding Your Way Along the Long Arc of Grief. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Death By Design
Hope Edelman, Author

Death By Design

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2020 40:30


HOPE EDELMAN has been writing, speaking, and leading workshops and retreats in the bereavement field for more than 25 years. She was 17 when she lost her mother to breast cancer and 40 when her father died, events that inspired her to offer grief education and support to those who cannot otherwise receive it.Her first book, Motherless Daughters, was a #1 New York Times bestseller and appeared on multiple bestseller lists worldwide. Her work has been translated into 14 languages and published in 11 countries. Hope is the author of seven additional nonfiction books, including Motherless Mothers and the memoir The Possibility of Everything. She was the recipient of the 2020 Community Educator Award from the Association for Death Education and Counseling and has won a Puschcart Prize for her creative nonfiction.In addition to writing and speaking, she is a certified Martha Beck Life Coach and also leads nonfiction workshops to help writers tell, revisit, and revise their stories of loss. Hope lives and works in Los Angeles and Iowa City.The AfterGrief OverviewDrawing on her own encounters with the ripple effects of early loss, as well as on interviews with dozens of researchers, therapists, and regular people who’ve been bereaved, New York Times bestselling author Hope Edelman offers profound advice for reassessing loss and adjusting the stories we tell ourselves about its impact on our identities.With guidance for reframing a story of loss, finding equilibrium within it, and even experiencing renewed growth and purpose in its wake, she demonstrates that though grief is a lifelong process, it doesn’t have to be a lifelong struggle.https://hopeedelman.com/books/the-aftergrief/We don’t ever ‘get over’ the death of a loved one.But we do eventually ‘get on‘ with living in a world without this essential person by our side.It takes time to learn how to live in this new world. It takes time.”— HOPE EDELMANSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/death-by-design. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Moms Don’t Have Time to Read Books
Hope Edelman, THE AFTERGRIEF

Moms Don’t Have Time to Read Books

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2020 40:09


Hope Edelman talked about her research process for this poignant book, what her term AfterGrief means, bereavement leave, and confiding in others. Her moving advice resonated with Zibby: release yourself from the idea of an end point for mourning and consider grief as ebbs and flow of intensity rather than an end point. 

The Widowed Parent Podcast
Hope Edelman on the long arc of loss [WPP086]

The Widowed Parent Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2020 60:30


I had such a great discussion with Hope Edelman for this episode. You may be familiar with Hope's work, as she wrote the groudbreaking book “Motherless Daughters” back in the 1990s, and has been writing, speaking, and leading workshops on grief ever since. She has a brand-new book out, and it's called “The AfterGrief: Finding Your Way Along the Long Arc of Loss.” It's for all grieving people—not just those who experienced early mother loss—and it dives deep on the impact of grief across the lifespan. I learned so much from reading The AfterGrief. In fact, I'll probably read it again, to let it sink in a bit more. I hope you'll check it out, too. Some topics Hope and I discuss include: Her desire to debunk the myth that one should be “over” their grief if it occurred many years ago; What she learned by interviewing 80+ people on their long-term experiences with grief; How long-term bereavement different is from the grief that people experience immediately after a death; The "Grief Trinity" -- New Grief, Old Grief, and New Old Grief; Hope's Three Rings of Grief; What is complicated grief, and how it is different from AfterGrief; The Dual Process Model of bereavement; How sometimes we reframe our stories of loss many years later; and Resources and events that Hope has available on her website. I hope you enjoy my discussion with Hope Edelman. -=-=-=-=- Thank you sponsors & partners: Audible - Get a FREE audiobook and 30-day free trial: www.audibletrial.com/widowedparent BetterHelp - Talk with a licensed, professional therapist online. Get 10% off your first month: betterhelp.com/widowedparent Blue Apron - Special offers for listeners of the podcast: jennylisk.com/blueapron Support the show: Patreon, Merch, and More -=-=-=-=-

Let's Talk Death! ... a HealGrief® program
Let's Talk Death with Hope Edelman

Let's Talk Death! ... a HealGrief® program

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2020 23:34


In this episode, Hope shares her story about her grief after her mother lost her battle to cancer and how the "dark ages" of grief left her with no support. Now decades later, she writes the AfterGrief: Finding Your Way Along the Long Arc of Loss.Hope Edelman is the author of eight nonfiction books, including the bestsellers Motherless Daughters and Motherless Mothers, and the memoir The Possibility of Everything. Her essays have appeared in many anthologies, including The Bitch in the House, Behind the Bedroom Door, and Goodbye to All That. Her work has received a New York Times notable book of the year designation and a Pushcart Prize for creative nonfiction.Her newest book, AfterGrief: Finding Your Way Along the Long Arc of Loss, offers a new way of looking at grief, utilizing anecdotal data from one of the only studies ever to look at the effect of loss over a long period of time. The book explains how grief is an unaddressed public health crisis and points to how history, gender, and cultural norms influence how we grieve today. Edelman also shares how we can reframe grief and begin to address it in new ways —because while grief is a lifelong process, it doesn't have to be a lifelong struggle.The recipient of the 2020 Community Educator Award from the Association for Death Education and Counseling, she facilitates Motherless Daughters retreats and workshops all over the world. She lives and works in Los Angeles and Iowa City.Support the show (https://healgrief.org/donations/)

The Tasty Talks Spiritual Podcast
How I grieve my mother’s passing this year.

The Tasty Talks Spiritual Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2020 30:08


My mom passed away October 4, 2001. This year, I decided to honor her by reading some of her poetry. I also decided that I want to publish her work. This podcast episode’s audio is from a recorded Zoom call. I was live on Zoom, Facebook, and Instagram. I greatly appreciate all of those who listened live. SPECIAL THANKS TO

Single Mom Tribe
Transitioning: Life After Loss with Angela of Accomplished Self

Single Mom Tribe

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2020 55:33


This week on the Single Mom Tribe podcast, we get to know Angela of Accomplished Self, a Transitional Strategist, helping to guide others through life after loss and what that might look like...Having lost her mother in a tragic accident just six days after being accepted into college, her 'worst case scenario' takes a sudden shift and she is met with an unbearable grief. Although she pushes on to pursues her degree, she uses her studies as a way to distract her from the pain. After seeking therapy and reemerging from this period of mourning, she begins to focus on what life could look like after such a sudden loss.Seeing as her focus in psychology was directly tied to her relationship with her mother, Angela decided to take on a double major in sociology - creating a new path that was specific to her personal interest in the functioning of human society. Distancing herself just enough from a degree that felt deeply rooted in her mother, and opening herself up to redefining her WHY for attending college in the first place.Angela's why shifted from something that was rooted in a relationship outside of herself to one that she valued on a soul-level. And while, we are often conditioned to believe that focusing solely on yourself is selfish, Angela believes that restructuring your WHY to encompass your personal morals, values, vision and purpose will be the driving force to accomplishing your goals.Beyond overcoming limiting beliefs and self-identifiers that are holding you back from redefining your future, Angela dives into codependency and how we as single parents can implement strategies self-regulating techniques to empower our children to take control over their actions and emotions. Being intentional with the seeds that we plant in our child's mind can reinforce your child's confidence in their ability to things on their own, with you there to support and guide them should they need it.This episode is filled with so much insight on grief and healing, major life changes that can really throw us off the path we once knew, permitting yourself to once again seek a fulfilling life after loss, the importance of consideration and curiosity, because there will always be other possibilities available to you, just believe.Growth can be scary, even painful, but what's worse? Being open and putting in the work to see what is possible, or never giving yourself the opportunity to live the life that you truly deserve, the choice is yours, you decide!To connect with Angela and the strategies that she shares about transitioning through life's greatest changes - Follow her on Instagram & Facebook: @accomplishedselfResources - Books Mentioned During this Episode:>> Broken Open by Elizabeth Lesser>> Motherless Daughters by Hope Edelman

Nobody Told Me!
Hope Edelman: ...that grieving your mother is a lifelong process

Nobody Told Me!

Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2020 32:19


One of the toughest things that can be faced by a girl or a woman of any age is the loss of her mother. Our guest, Hope Edelman, knows all about that. In fact, she knows more about it than most of us. Hope is an expert in the field of early mother loss and mother-daughter relationships. She's written extensively on those topics and is the author of "Motherless Daughters" and "Motherless Mothers", among others. You can learn more about Hope on her website: http://hopeedelman.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

WGTD's The Morning Show with Greg Berg
The Morning Show- 5/10/20 "Motherless Mothers"

WGTD's The Morning Show with Greg Berg

Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2020 50:45


From 2008 comes this interview with Hope Edelman, author of "Motherless Mothers: How Losing a Mother Shapes the Parent You Become." This book is an endlessly fascinating exploration of what it means to be a loving mother - and how the losses experienced in one's life can often be a powerful force for growth.

Frederick Faith Debate
Faith Debate Book Reviews 3/8

Frederick Faith Debate

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2020 23:57


Last year Troy Skinner read 52 books in 52 weeks.  Last week, this week, and next week the shows feature Troy’s reviews of each book.  Note:  There’s a book mentioned within the show that Troy didn’t provide the book title of author name.  That book is “Motherless Daughters by Hope Edelman. The panel: Troy Skinner.  Faith Debate host and Pastor of Living Faith Ministries in Hagerstown, Maryland.

Tuesday People
Episode 17 - "When Your Mother Leaves Too Soon" With Special Guest: Author, Hope Edelman

Tuesday People

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2020 53:55


On today's episode of the Tuesday People Podcast, Mitch Albom is joined by special guest, Hope Edelman, NY Times No. 1 Author of Motherless Daughters. Hope shares her wisdom and groundbreaking insight into the loss of a mother at a young age, and how that impacts children left behind. Through clips recorded during Mitch's interviews with Morrie, we hear - in Morrie's words - how losing his mother when he was 8-years-old affected his life, even during his later years. For more information on Hope Edelman, her books, and retreats, visit www.hopeedelman.com and www.motherlessdaughters.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Raging Gracefully
Motherless Daughters

Raging Gracefully

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2020 28:58


In the first episode of season 3, Nina and Hillary talk with Hope Edelman, author of Motherless Daughters about grief, growth, and the way loss can shape our lives. 

Write-minded Podcast
Creating and Sustaining a Movement Around Your Writing, featuring Hope Edelman

Write-minded Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2019 34:50


Publishers love authors who generate bigger conversations, which sometimes grow into movements. While many authors will stumble into movements, others are consciously creating, or at least dreaming, into the possibility of a movement they might create. Join Brooke and Grant this week as they talk to guest Hope Edelman about starting a movement, having cohesion across your books, and being the kind of author that publishers have a hard time saying no to.

Coming Back: Conversations on life after loss
E93: Motherless Daughters with Hope Edelman

Coming Back: Conversations on life after loss

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2019 67:11


"Soldier on" was Hope Edelman's coping method for the sudden death of her mother until seven years later, a broken engagement brought her mother's death roaring to the surface. Hope started writing her New York Times Bestseller Motherless Daughters as a way to comprehend her loss and connect with other motherless daughters. Today we're talking about how death makes us crave truth and clarity, why it's so important to "add the middle" to our stories, and what other cultures have to teach us about grief and loss. Also this week, I'm reminding you that permission to grieve is a practice and reading an excerpt from my new book Permission to Grieve. Hope Edelman's book, coaching, and Motherelss Daughter retreats: https://hopeedelman.com/ Purchase a copy of my latest book, Permission to Grieve! http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/permission-to-grieve Become a part of my insiders community! Support Coming Back on Patreon to unlock weekly grief journaling prompts, LIVE grief guidance calls with me, and fun podcast swag: https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia Set sail on the 2020 Bereavement Cruise: http://comingbackcruise.com Apply for private grief guidance with me: http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/grief-guidance Subscribe to Coming Back: Apple Podcasts https://apple.co/2CMqhhE Spotify http://spoti.fi/2CMr16k Stitcher http://bit.ly/2m08eJr YouTube http://bit.ly/2m1JWil Google Podcasts https://tinyurl.com/y8elxq9t TuneIn http://bit.ly/2F469Fl Continue the conversation on grief and loss in my private Facebook group, The Grief Growers' Garden: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thegriefgrowersgarden/ To ask a question or leave a comment for a future show, email shelby@shelbyforsythia.com. Because even through grief, we are growing. http://www.shelbyforsythia.com/

Life After Losing Mom
Coping With Perinatal Depression After Losing Your Mom With Amanda Ingram

Life After Losing Mom

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2019 61:27


Welcome to Life After Losing Mom With Kat Bonner. In this episode, we’re joined by Amanda Ingram. Amanda is the admin for The Motherless Mothers of New England and shares her grief journey and specifically how she’s managed her battle with postpartum depression without her mom. What To Listen For Amanda’s recollection of losing her mom to a staph infection at the age of 12. Amanda’s feelings of anxiety surrounding her mom’s premenopausal diagnoses and how this might be something in Amanda’s future. How Amanda views her mom as a “big fighter” (she fought cancer for three and a half years) and the light in the room. How Amanda dealt with the fact that her Dad didn’t take responsibility for her after her mom passed. Amanda’s experience of moving in with her grandmother and then losing her only three years after her mom. “Essentially I've lost two mothers.” Amanda’s struggle with perinatal depression. How motherless women have a significantly higher risk of developing mental health problems when starting a family. How to process the trauma that happened in the past. How motherless women tend to fall on a spectrum of wanting children or not wanting children depending on how they process their grief. Amanda’s experience with perinatal depression and how it made her feel like she was having an “out of body experience.” How Amanda got help from postpartum.net Grief’s cyclicality and how unprocessed grief can show back up in your life ...even when you’re pregnant. Amanda’s recommendation to read Motherless Daughters by Hope Edelman. Tips for managing misdirected anger as a result of losing your mom. How one must talk about their grief in order to process it. Info on Amanda’s group Motherless Daughters of New England. Amanda is very open about her struggles with perinatal depression and coping with losing her mother and her grandmother at a very young age. Through the connection with others and opening up, she is managing her grief the best she can and hopes others can do the same. She wants to impart the message that you are not alone and that connecting with others is key to managing grief. Resources From This Episode: Postpartum.net Motherless Mothers of New England Facebook Group Motherless Daughters by Hope Edelman Follow Kat: Visit The Website Subscribe to the Podcast Join The Life After Losing Mom Facebook Community Like On Facebook Follow On Instagram

Grief Out Loud
Ep. 109: Motherless Daughters, 25 Years Later - Hope Edelman & Brennan Wood

Grief Out Loud

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2019 36:50


Back before you could ask Google anything from, “What’s the best way to clean shower grout?” to “How do I grieve my parent?” when it came to answering these kinds of questions, we turned to bookstores and libraries to search for answers. In the late 1980’s and early 1990’s, even if you did go looking for information about grief, you’d be more likely to find a dense, clinical textbook than something that could help you understand what you were going through. Then in 1994, Hope Edelman published her groundbreaking book, Motherless Daughters. A book that spoke to thousands of women grieving their mothers. Brennan Wood, Executive Director of The Dougy Center, was one of those readers. Soon after the release of Motherless Daughters, Hope and Brennan met for the first time on the Leeza Gibbons daytime talk show. Twenty-five years later they’re together again for a conversation about being motherless daughters who grew up to be motherless mothers.  Learn more about Hope's writing and work. 

that's what she said
hope edelman

that's what she said

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2019 62:54


new york times best selling author hope edelman (motherless daughters) visits the twss bed to discuss the intersection of love & grief, cultivating faith in love and most importantly, how to win a bar fight.

Nobody Told Me!
100th episode: some of our favorite 'nobody told me' lessons

Nobody Told Me!

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2018 34:08


This is the 100th episode of the show and we wanted to look back at some of the more memorable ‘nobody told me’ lessons our guests have shared with us.  We’ve truly been honored to speak with each of our guests and they’ve given us so many wonderful anecdotes and pieces of advice that it’s tough to select highlights.  All of them have been open and honest and the stories they’ve related are ones we can all identify with.  In this episode, you’ll hear from: • Mitch Albom, bestselling author of “Tuesdays with Morrie”, who talks about passing on wisdom to the next generation • Hope Edelman, author of “Motherless Daughters”, who says that grieving the loss of a loved one is a lifelong process, but it doesn’t have to be a lifelong struggle • Dr. Guy Winch, whose TED talk “Why We All Need to Practice Emotional First Aid” is ranked as one of the top five inspiring TED talks of all times, and says that to recover from any emotional blow, you need to manage your recovery proactively • Kidnapping victim Elizabeth Smart who explains why it’s your decisions, not your situation, that define you • Olympic gold medalist gymnast Nastia Liukin who talks about the importance of kindness • One of the world’s leading experts on happiness, Shawn Achor, who learned that success doesn’t equate to happiness • Todd Rose, a high school dropout turned Harvard researcher, who has studied countless people who have excelled by taking the road less traveled • Chris Voss, a former FBI International Hostage Negotiator, who talks about the importance of listening • Dr. Harriet Lerner, author of “Why Won’t You Apologize?”, who explains the importance of a heartfelt apology • Communication expert Carmine Gallo who says that we have more control over our mental state than we think we do, which means that we can choose how to respond to anything •  Chris Guillebeau, New York Times bestselling author of The $100 Startup, who says that there is always another way, even if you don’t see it at the time • Amy Morin, international bestselling author of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do, who says that building mental muscle is similar to building physical muscle: you have to work hard to become strong • Drew Dudley, a leadership expert who tells us that the biggest impact on the world had nothing to do with his plans • Astronaut Mike Mullane says that nobody told him he was better than he thought he was • Psychology professor and author of “Popular” Mitch Prinstein who says that the kind of popularity he seeked out so badly in adolescence ultimately wouldn’t matter • Psychologist and compulsive shopping expert Dr. April Benson who explains that you can never get enough of what you don’t really need • Mark Rufenacht, founder and president of Dogs4Diabetics, who says that it’s okay to be different • Legendary radio talk show host Ronn Owens who tells us that every struggle has an end Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Waking from the American Dream
135: Kelly Sits with Hope

Waking from the American Dream

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2018 69:55


Kelly sits with Hope Edelman, author of Motherless Daughters, and they dive into mother loss, what it takes to heal from grief, and the broader subject of how women untangle themselves from their family dynamics, aka daughterhood, to step out of their own way and into their deepening lives.

The Writing University Podcast
Episode 111: The Life-Altering Magic of Revision - How Revisiting, Reassessing, and Reframing a Story Just Might Change Your Life - Hope Edelman

The Writing University Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2018 45:46


Getting a story onto the page is a necessary first step. Then the heavy lifting, both outer and inner, can begin. While the facts of a real-life or fictional event may remain static from draft to draft, the author's interpretation of those events is likely to change with each iteration. That's where the real magic comes in. The workshop setting with its directed questioning is an ideal site for new insights to emerge. This Eleventh Hour combines literary craft and narrative therapy to explain how re-vision can promote lasting artistic and personal benefits.

Nobody Told Me!
Hope Edelman: ...grieving the loss of a close loved one is a lifelong process, but it doesn't have to be a lifelong struggle

Nobody Told Me!

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2018 32:19


One of the toughest things that can be faced by a girl or a woman of any age is the loss of her mother.  Our guest, Hope Edelman, knows all about that.  In fact, she knows more about it than most of us.  Hope is an expert in the field of early mother loss and mother-daughter relationships.  She's written extensively on those topics and is the author of "Motherless Daughters" and "Motherless Mothers", among others. You can learn more about Hope on her website: http://hopeedelman.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dead Parents Society
Episode 5: Jamie-Lee Josselyn and Kristen Martin on Hope Edelman's "Motherless Daughters"

Dead Parents Society

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2018 49:48


Jamie-Lee Josselyn (@jljosselyn) and Kristen Martin (@kwistent) discuss Hope Edelman's 1994 book Motherless Daughters, which has remained successful in the more than 2 decades since its release. Jamie-Lee and Kristen, whose mothers died from suicide and cancer respectively, discuss the book's form, its longevity, how it enables readers to both connect through their own experience and learn about losses much different from their own, and other topics. For more on Hope Edelman, visit: http://hopeedelman.com/ or follow her on Twitter: @hope_edelman.

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Dead Parents Society
Episode 5: Jamie-Lee Josselyn and Kristen Martin on Hope Edelman's "Motherless Daughters"

Dead Parents Society

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2018 49:48


Jamie-Lee Josselyn (@jljosselyn) and Kristen Martin (@kwistent) discuss Hope Edelman's 1994 book Motherless Daughters, which has remained successful in the more than 2 decades since its release. Jamie-Lee and Kristen, whose mothers died from suicide and cancer respectively, discuss the book's form, its longevity, how it enables readers to both connect through their own experience and learn about losses much different from their own, and other topics. For more on Hope Edelman, visit: http://hopeedelman.com/ or follow her on Twitter: @hope_edelman.

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The Writing University Podcast
Episode 72: Hope Edelman and Naomi Jackson—Writing Family and Grief

The Writing University Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2015 60:00


In this Eleventh Hour, authors Hope Edelman and Naomi Jackson will engage in an informal conversation about the joys and challenges of writing about family relationships. With many years of experience between them writing about family in both fiction and nonfiction, the Hope and Naomi will address the landmines that many writers face, or attempt to avoid, when writing about family and loss. They will explore the sticky issues of truth and responsibility germane to writing about real people in nonfiction and contrast it against writing fiction inspired by real-life events. This conversation will help writers navigate the rocky terrain of using family content—including ethical concerns—and move you toward completion of your own family-related writing project.

The Writing University Podcast
Episode 55: Hope Edelman -- The Story Behind Your Story

The Writing University Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2014 55:42


When we write narrative, both sides of our brains ideally work together: the left brain controls linear thinking, logic, and language skills, and the right brain creates context and inserts emotion. This Eleventh Hour Lecture will emphasize the importance of using both sides of the brain when writing fiction and nonfiction, to push beyond an episodic recounting of events into territory that reveals your story's deeper truths. Nonfiction author Hope Edelman will give you with tips for identifying universal themes and archetypes in your stories, and methods for articulating them to readers.

The Women's Eye with Stacey Gualandi and Catherine Anaya | Women Leaders, Entrepreneurs, Authors and Global Changemakers

 discusses the irreplaceable bond between mother and daughter that she has written about in her book, : The Legacy of Loss, and shares what life has taught her as a writer, a daughter, and most importantly as a mom. She also talks about her most recent book, , her journey to ultimate faith. About The Women's Eye Radio: with host Stacey Gualandi, is a show from , an Online Magazine which features news and interviews with women who want to make the world a better place. From newsmakers, changemakers, entrepreneurs, best-selling authors, cancer survivors, adventurers, and experts on leadership, stress and health, to kids helping kids, global grandmothers improving children's lives, and women who fight for equal rights,"It's the world as we see it." The Women's Eye Radio Show broadcasts on in Phoenix, live-streams on 1480KPHX.com, and is available as on-demand talk radio on iTunes and at . Learn more about The Women's Eye at