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Some women are tall; some are short. Some have blue eyes, and some brown. Some women excel at art and music while others make medical breakthroughs that save lives and change the world. But, none of this defines a woman. A woman isn't even defined by long hair, or pronounced hips. A woman is a life-giver and a life-sustainer. Not just anyone can be a woman, or do the things a woman can do - only a woman can.In this episode, that covers womanhood from all angles, Ciara and Jessi explore the controversy that has erupted over what should be a fairly straightforward question, with an uncomplicated answer. But, in a world that hates God, and all He has designed, even the most obvious and plain things need explaining. While women each have many things unique and special in common with each other, how that commonality is expressed will look different for each of us. And to this point, Ciara and Jessi get a bit personal about future plans for their homes, their lives, and this podcast.We hope you'll join us for this episode!Show Notes:Ep 39: Raising Girls https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/9555919-ep-39-raising-girlsEp 38: Raising Boys https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/9516739-ep-38-raising-boysElisabeth Elliot: Let Me Be A Woman https://www.ligonier.org/learn/articles/let-me-be-womanWield the Sword: Biblical Manhood and Womanhood https://youtu.be/fAkyogF1VskDesiring God: The Science of Male and Female https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/the-science-of-male-and-female

A Christian pastor set off a firestorm last week when he suggested believing women had no good reason to post immodest photos on the internet. It's no surprise the secular world went into a tailspin over such a thought, but to see Christian women link arms with the God-reviling culture was not as expected - or appropriate.In this episode - the season 3 finale - Ciara and Jessi explain why they planned to take on this topic even before "Dear Brian" became a trending topic on Twitter, where clothing came from, who designed it, for what purpose, how we should view it and wear it, and why Christian woman should be celebrating how precious and sacred their bodies are, so much so, that they should be kept for our husband's eyes only.Show Notes:Christian Modesty and the Public Undressing of America by Jeff Pollard https://www.amazon.com/Christian-Modesty-Public-Undressing-America/dp/1929241348The Closing of the American Mind: How Higher Education Has Failed Democracy and Impoverished the Souls of Today's Students  https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B003719GL8/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tkin_p1_i0Desiring God: Modesty Misunderstood https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/modesty-misunderstoodBrian Sauve and Eric Conn: Why Should Christians Care About Modesty? https://ericconn.com/podcast/why-should-christians-care-about-modesty/Follow crosswise on:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crosswisepodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/crosswisepodcast/

At the request of a young listener looking for information to refute the claims of a high school science teacher, Ciara and Jessi explore the truth behind dominate theories including evolution and the Big Bang with special guest, and creation enthusiast, Ben Bridges.Ben answers questions from how science and the Bible aren't incompatible, but work together to inform our understanding of life, how advancing science actually disproves long-standing theories about how life and the universe began, why the idea that the Earth is billions of years old should be rejected by Christians, and so many more.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Well, not really. That may sound like a nice thing to say, and it may even be an attempt to remain neutral or inoffensive when someone mislabels something objectively ugly as beautiful. But what ends up happening is an ushering in of the truly offensive because the world has defined the act of discriminating what is true, beautiful, and good as being hateful.Despite what the world says, we can know what is objectively beautiful, and what isn't, because the God who made all of creation is beauty Himself and has set forth what defines it. Ciara and Jessi explore the degradation of beauty, and the uplifting of the ugly in an episode that is sure to get you reconsidering if our observations about the world -and the art, music, and literature we enjoy - are really as subjective as we think they are. Show Notes:Why Beauty Matters (documentary film) https://vimeo.com/128428182Evan Sayet: How Modern Liberals Think https://youtu.be/eaE98w1KZ-cLigonier | The Triune God: Good, Beautiful, and True https://www.ligonier.org/learn/articles/triune-god-good-beautiful-and-truePraguer U: Why is Modern Art So Bad? https://youtu.be/lNI07egoefc

If your dog and a perfect stranger were drowning in a lake, side by side, who would you try to save? Would it surprise you to learn that nearly 2/3 of American adults would choose their dog? This disregard for our fellow man, in favor of animals is permeating society to a degree that many married couples are choosing to have pets instead of having children, and many animal species have greater legal protections than unborn babies. As Christians, we ought to be aware of how our attitudes about animals and their relative value to human beings can mimic that of the secular world, and this is exactly the consideration - and many more - that Ciara and Jessi look at in this episode.Show Notes:Chewy.com Christmas commercial: https://youtu.be/iIavnj8qGa0PragerU: Are Humans More Valuable Than Animals? https://youtu.be/7JATJv8HlV8Episode 15: Is God A Wo(Man)? https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8151370-ep-15-god-is-a-wo-manA Rate is a Pig is a Dog is a Boy: The Human Cost of the Animal Rights Movement https://www.amazon.com/Rat-Pig-Dog-Boy-Movement/dp/1594033463The New England Journal of Medicine: The Groningen Protocol https://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/nejmp058026"Euthanizing Children" by Wesley J. Smith https://www.firstthings.com/web-exclusives/2016/10/euthanizing-childrenCDC 2020 Birth Rates https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/vsrr/vsrr012-508.pdfPopulation Trends in the Middle East and North Africa https://www.prb.org/resources/population-trends-and-challenges-in-the-middle-east-and-north-africa/Why Muslims Are The Fastest Growing Religious Group https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2017/04/06/why-muslims-are-the-worlds-fastest-growing-religious-group/Voddie Baucham: The Centrality of the Home in the Evangelism and Discipleship of the Next Generation https://www.sermonaudio.com/solo/gracefamilybaptist/sermons/5209234630/Follow crosswise on:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crosswisepodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/crosswisepodcast/

You know those times when you're really struggling and could use some solid encouragement, but then, someone tries to sum up God's provision like its a bumper sticker? Yeah. Cringe, right? The problem here is that these catchy little phrases take hold because rarely do we stop and consider what they mean, if they hold up against scripture, and what the implications are when saying this stuff?Well, in this episode Ciara and Jessi take on all the cringe - well, not all of it, but some of it - and look at three common phrases you may have heard believers use, or maybe you have even used yourself, and discern their way through what they all really mean.Try not to cringe too hard. Show Notes:The Holiness of God by RC Sproul https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B007V698MW/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tkin_p1_i0Chosen by God by RC Sproul https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004OEIODS/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tkin_p1_i2Ligonier: State of Theology https://www.ligonier.org/posts/state-theology-cosmic-treasonSinners in the Hands of an Angry God https://digitalcommons.unl.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1053&context=etasThe Meaning of Holiness, RC Sproul https://youtu.be/K96e1tK7eN4God's Love and God's Hatred https://www.ligonier.org/learn/devotionals/gods-love-and-gods-hatredEpisode 33: Sola Feelz https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/9077953-ep-33-sola-feelzTodd Friel and the Tearful Woman https://youtu.be/mACbV4xweHE

They are the stuff of sci-fi horror films and mystery documentaries - extraterrestrial life, just waiting to be discovered. Some have speculated we've already made contact, while others theorize they could be the source of our own existence. But what should the Christian believe about life beyond our planet?Ciara and Jessi take a trip into the cosmos to explore the possibility that life exists into the reaches of our universe, using scripture as the guide.  Is it always a battle between science and faith, or is it possible they aren't as mutually exclusive as they seem?Show Notes:UFO Gallup Poll https://news.gallup.com/poll/266441/americans-skeptical-ufos-say-government-knows.aspxRolling Stone: Demi Lovato and aliens https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-news/demi-lovato-becky-g-aliens-1256457/Rolling Stone: Tom Delonge's UFO research https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-news/tom-delonge-ufo-research-931845/Wall Street Journal: Eric Metaxas article on the odds of life on other planets https://www.wsj.com/articles/eric-metaxas-science-increasingly-makes-the-case-for-god-1419544568PragerU: Does Science Argue For or Against God? https://youtu.be/UjGPHF5A6PoSETI: Drake Equation https://www.seti.org/drake-equation-index

It seems there are a million reasons Christians could find to boycott any number of businesses. But which reasons actually qualify as valid? Which reasons should compel us to take our business elsewhere or even encourage others to do so? And if we have valid reasons for boycotting the ungodly actions of others, doesn't that make us no better than the woke mob which has sparked the controversial "cancel culture" that has destroyed countless lives and businesses?Ciara and Jessi kick off the new year by examining these questions, considering them against scripture, and sharing their own struggles when deciding who gets the ax from our list of approved vendors and suppliers. Spoiler alert: it turns out agreement on that list was hard to come by. Show Notes:1689 Chapter 21: Christians Liberty and Liberty of Conscience https://founders.org/library/1689-confession/chapter-21-christian-liberty-and-liberty-of-conscience/Jon Harris: What was Cracker Barrel Thinking? https://youtu.be/Q-VMwj_Fn8MThe Tyranny of the Weaker Brother, RC Sproul https://youtu.be/_hX-ifma5-kGregory Koukl's response to The Salvation Army https://www.facebook.com/greg.koukl/posts/4475055825893602WSJ: Wokeness Infiltrates the Salvation Army https://www.wsj.com/articles/wokeness-infiltrates-the-salvation-army-discussion-guide-racism-diversity-and-incusion-christian-11639690409

During the holiday break, Ciara and Jessi decided to revisit their most popular episode yet - a look into the false gospel promoted and taught by celebrity pastor Steven Furtick. His popularity is growing, which increases the need for discernment and biblical literacy so that well-meaning Christians can avoid the wolves in sheep's clothing. Enjoy this flashback episode as we head into a new year!

Ciara and Jessi get together for a quick hello before re-releasing the second episode of crosswise, where we give all the reasons Christians should take a hard pass on Santa Claus and his little helper, the Elf on the Shelf.Enjoy this early episode, and our tales of getting ready for Christmas this year (oh, and a little surprise for one loyal listener).

After doing an entire show on the evils of abortion and the flawed logic and bad science used to defend the practice last week, Ciara and Jessi noticed an interesting trend. Despite all the interest and timeliness of the topic, the show got suspiciously little traction and all their related social media posts had a noticeably reduced reach.So, this week, they decided not to talk about abortion. Not even a little. Not one word. Nope. Not at all.P.S. Dr. Fauci should be given sainthood and Joe Biden has no diminished mental capacities at all. Oh, and get vaccinated and wear a mask!Show Notes:Episode 42 | Brushing Up on Beating Down Pro-Abortion Distortions https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/9676894-ep-42-brushing-up-on-beating-down-pro-abortion-distortionsWhoopi Goldberg's rant https://twitter.com/TheView/status/1466491958516490245?ref_src=twsrc%5EtfwTone Deaf Planned Parenthood Ad https://youtu.be/8Q4hO7o3AFcDobbs v. Jackson Women's Health Organization Oral Arguments https://www.supremecourt.gov/oral_arguments/argument_transcripts/2021/19-1392_gfbi.pdf

In light of the biggest abortion case to be heard by the Supreme Court in years, and all of the really illogical, anti-scientific, and outright immoral arguments defending the practice that have been circulating social media in recent days, Ciara and Jessi decided to spend this episode breaking down some of the most common arguments made by abortion advocates. From "my body, my choice," to "personally pro-life," this conversation tackles them all. The aim is to arm listeners with the science, medicine, biology, and of course scripture that all make the truth of the pro-life position irrefutable.Show Notes:Texas Fetal Heartbeat Bill https://www.texastribune.org/2021/05/03/texas-house-abortion-heartbeat/ NPR: Heartbeat Bill https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2021/09/02/1033727679/fetal-heartbeat-isnt-a-medical-term-but-its-still-used-in-laws-on-abortionJackson Women's Health Fee Schedule https://jacksonwomenshealth.com/fee-schedule/Human Life International: Abortion Safer than Childbirth? https://www.hli.org/resources/abortion-really-safer-childbirth/Texas Right to Life: Abortion Myths (back alley abortions) https://texasrighttolife.com/abortion-myths/Washington Examiner: Better Dead than Adopted https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/opinion/better-dead-than-adopted-argues-new-york-times-opinion-writerAbort73: The Case Against Abortion https://abort73.com/abortion/Abort73: Prenatal Development https://abort73.com/abortion/prenatal_development/Why Prolife? Resources http://www.whyprolife.com/resources/

This week, Ciara and Jessi took a break to spend Thanksgiving with family, but still lined up a fun episode featuring a few of their favorite mistakes and bloopers from past episodes.We hope you enjoy these funny moments as much as we did.

A chant of frustration, turned otherwise meaningless euphemism, turned cultural phenomenon, "let's go, Brandon" has become the slogan of choice for millions who are wishing to express displeasure with President Biden, and mock the mainstream media for their complacency in distorting the reality which the rest of the world can plainly see.Prominent Christians have been seen wearing shirts and hats with the slogan, members of Congress have used it on social media and inside the nation's capitol, and self-proclaimed Christian musicians have produced chart-topping songs using the phrase as a means of avoiding the overtly vulgar language it's meant to replace.So it's worth asking, what place does "let's go, Brandon" have in the language of the Christian? Ciara and Jessi answer that question, and many more, in this episode that serves more as a way for discerning through complicated social trends than it does as a condemnation of those who come to a different conclusion. Regardless of your position on Christian use of "let's go, Brandon," the episode has something for you.Show Notes:Episode 18 | Beyond Cussing: Saying More Than We Realize https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8279696-ep-18-beyond-cussing-saying-more-than-we-realizeGod, Government, and Granted Authority https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8105365-ep-14-god-government-and-granted-authority

"Who run the world?" Girls. But then why do we keep telling them it's so hard for them to make it in a man's world? Why is the rate of young girls "transitioning" and rejecting biological realities about themselves at an historic high? Why do girls always want to be "one of the boys"? All of these messages, not to mention the sexual pressure put on young women to embrace promiscuity because "men get to," are destroying young women and girls and progressivism is to blame.Sadly, there is nothing progressive about disregarding the uniqueness of womanhood and femininity. In this follow up episode to "Raising Boys," Ciara and Jessi take on the dangerous influences the culture is having on girls, how they view their place in the world as women, and how the sexual revolution has caused irreparable damage to our impressionable and fragile daughters.*Parental discretion is advised, as this episode contains adult themes that may not be suitable for younger listeners.Show Notes:Episode 38: Raising Boys https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/9516739-ep-38-raising-boysEpisode 19: Sex, Submission, and Standing Up to Sin https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8539917-ep-19-sex-submission-and-standing-up-to-sinEpisode 21: Husbands, Hierarchy, and Headship in the Home https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8622240-ep-21-husbands-hierarchy-and-headship-in-the-homeThe Federalist- Women and STEM https://thefederalist.com/2018/04/12/science-male-female-brains-helps-explain-women-dont-choose-tech-careers/The Guardian: Smashing the Patriarchy https://www.theguardian.com/books/2019/nov/02/smashing-the-patriarchy-why-theres-nothing-natural-about-male-supremacyIrreversible Damage https://www.amazon.com/Irreversible-Damage-Transgender-Seducing-Daughters/dp/1684510317The Flipside of Feminism https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1935071270/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i5Where's Mom? The High Calling of Wife and Mother in Biblical Perspective https://www.amazon.com/Wheres-Calling-Mother-Biblical-Perspective/dp/0997588624Guttmacher- Abortion Rates Demographics https://www.guttmacher.org/sites/default/files/report_downloads/us-abortion-patients-table1.pdfHome Comforts: The Art and Science of Keeping House https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001D1SRXW/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tkin_p1_i0Find us here:Crosswise on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/crosswisepodcast/Crosswise on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crosswisepodcastCrosswise on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/crosswise/id1544007646

Is it really true that "boys will be boys"? And if it is, shouldn't we put a stop to that? Isn't all that unbridled "toxic masculinity" bad for the world? Maybe what our boys need is to be more like girls.Or maybe, God made boys to be rough, physical, and rambunctious for good reason. Maybe we ought to be embracing the amazing attributes of our sons, appreciating them for how they're made, and encouraging God-fearing men to father our boys, raising them to harness their energy for good. That's the argument Ciara and Jessi make in this episode, with a look at how the culture is trying to rob the boyishness from our boys and shame them into being something they just aren't meant to be, and how Christian parents should view the "war on boys" and push back.Show Notes:Episode 10 | Forbidden Series: Female Pastors https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/7755187-ep-10-forbidden-series-part-2-female-pastorsEpisode 15 | God is a (Wo)Man? https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8151370-ep-15-god-is-a-wo-manEpisode 19 | Sex, Submission, and Standing Up to Sin https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8539917-ep-19-sex-submission-and-standing-up-to-sin Episode 21 | Husbands, Hierarchy, and Headship in the Home https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8622240-ep-21-husbands-hierarchy-and-headship-in-the-homeWar on Boys | Christina Hoff Sommers https://youtu.be/OFpYj0E-yb4APA Guidelines for Practice with Men and Boys https://www.apa.org/monitor/2019/01/ce-cornerNew York Times | What is Toxic Masculinity? https://www.nytimes.com/2019/01/22/us/toxic-masculinity.htmlUniversity Missouri Study https://munewsarchives.missouri.edu/news-releases/2011/0822-males-believe-discussing-problems-is-a-waste-of-time-mu-study-shows/It's Good to Be a Man | Biblical Manhood in an Effeminate Age https://itsgoodtobeaman.buzzsprout.com/266333/1293271-biblical-manhood-in-an-effeminate-ageThe Male Brain | Louann Brizendine https://www.amazon.com/Male-Brain-Breakthrough-Understanding-Think/dp/0767927540The Washington Post | Too Many Men https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/2018/world/too-many-men/Tim Challies | Christian Men and Their Godly Moms Series https://www.challies.com/series/christian-men-and-their-godly-moms/

It's not just another way to celebrate Halloween, and it isn't just a day to remember those who have died. Dia de los Muertos - the Day of the Dead - is a tradition of reuniting with loved ones and building altars in their honor. The practices should concern professing Christians and Ciara and Jessi and here to break down all the reasons why in the season 3 premier of crosswise.Not all cultures are equal, and in a time when we aren't supposed to say that, it's even more important to say. Strap in for a fun, but deadly serious conversation about this Mexican holiday and how American culture is joining in with enough sugar skulls to go around. Show Notes:Episode 9: Forbidden Series, Part 1: Communing with the Deadhttps://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/7630543-ep-9-forbidden-series-part-1-communing-with-the-deadSesame Street Promotes Dia de los Muertoshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PczY27gDjpkGotQuestions.org: What is the difference between veneration and worship?https://www.gotquestions.org/veneration.htmlBAR Party: Should Christians Celebrate Halloween?https://youtu.be/fPi39nm7lc0Mike Winger: 7 Sides of Halloweenhttps://youtu.be/ALY9aLKm9YIHalloween's Improbable Origin and Meaning for Christianshttps://americanvision.org/9630/halloweens-improbable-origin-and-meaning-for-christians/

In the final episode of the season, Ciara and Jessi answer listener questions regarding salvation, the second commandment, baptism and more. Be sure to check out this conversation as Season 2 comes to a close.Show Notes:Episode 16: Inadvertent Idolatry Part I https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8193123-ep-16-inadvertent-idolatry-part-1Banner of Truth: The Child's Story Bible by Catherine Vos https://banneroftruth.org/us/store/christian-childrens-books/the-childs-story-bible/Reformation Heritage Books https://www.heritagebooks.org/Search.html#/Search.html?search=children+bibleCharles Spurgeon: The Holy Spirit's Intercession (Transcript) https://www.spurgeon.org/resource-library/sermons/the-holy-spirits-intercession/#flipbook/Charles Spurgeon: The Holy Spirit's Intercession (Audio) https://youtu.be/TJjoQ2aBCfEThankful Homemaker: 10 Books on Prayer https://thankfulhomemaker.com/10-great-books-on-prayer/Thankful Homemaker: Spiritual Disciplines, Prayer https://thankfulhomemaker.com/podcast-ep-56-prayer-spiritual-disciplines-series/Dr. Josh Buice, Why Women Should Not Teach the Bible to Men https://g3min.org/why-women-should-not-teach-the-bible-to-men/Michelle Lesley, Women Teaching Men Questions https://michellelesley.com/2015/12/18/rock-your-role-faqs/Michelle Lesley, Priscilla Didn't Teach Men https://michellelesley.com/2015/11/13/rock-your-role-oh-no-she-di-int-priscilla-didnt-preach-deborah-didnt-dominate-and-esther-wasnt-an-egalitarian/John Piper, Is There A Place For Female Professors at Seminary? https://www.desiringgod.org/interviews/is-there-a-place-for-female-professors-at-seminary

"And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works... encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near." (Hebrews 10:24-25)Ciara and Jessi talk sanctification, worldly desires, sinful passions of the heart, temptations of envy and sloth, and how by the power of the Holy Spirt, they are working to put those things away and live a life that seeks to glorify God and live for him.Christians are still sinners while in this world, but because of faith in Jesus, and by the means of being "stirred up" and encouraged by others, we are able to mortify those sins, praying and working each day to see progression toward holiness.Things get a little personal in this conversation, but for all the right reasons.Show Notes:Episode 7: Putting the “You” in Worship Music https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/7376572Mortification and Vivification by AW Pink https://www.monergism.com/mortification-and-vivificationTransforming Grace by Jerry Bridges https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B06XKYJS5Y/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i4Ciara's instagram post: https://www.instagram.com/p/CNprL0TM2Aj/Jessi's instagram post: https://www.instagram.com/p/CP8b_L0BhRY/

People seem to have this perpetual need to find a way to tell others who they are through the use of personality labels. Almost like there needs to be this universally understood and accepted language that when when spoken, it tells others all they need to know - and all we need to know - about who we are and what makes us tick.For decades it has been astrological signs. "What's your sign?"Then it became the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. "What's your type?"And now, growing in popularity and influence, it's the Enneagram. "What's your number?"These questions, but especially that last one, have become such common questions that they don't even need any context or explaining. But what most Christians don't know is that the Enneagram has some dark and dangerous roots and some questionable proponents, which should give believers more than a moments pause when considering whether the Enneagram is worth taking.In this episode, Ciara and Jessi examine the rise of the Enneagram, where it came from, how it found its way into Evangelical Churches, and what we should do about it. Show Notes:CANA: The Enneagram GPS (Gnostic Path to Self) http://www.christiananswersforthenewage.org/Articles_Enneagram.aspxMarcia Montenegro: The Origins of the Enneagram https://youtu.be/k9Jo90cl7IoThe Sword and The Trowel: The Enneagram and the Christian Life https://youtu.be/0UySM_Q9t-QTent Making Christianity: What's Wrong With the Enneagram? https://tentmakingchristianity.com/whats-wrong-with-the-enneagram/Center for Action and Contemplation (Richard Rohr): The Enneagram: An Introduction https://cac.org/the-enneagram-an-introduction/Why Christians Should Avoid the Enneagram https://fb.watch/7JY0JEctE_/The Enneagram: A Developmental Study (In depth history of origin) https://runningfather.wordpress.com/2013/03/25/enneagram-a-developmental-study-james-moore/

We all know the feeling of feeling all the feels. You know, that feeling when something doesn't feel quite right. Those feelings have a place and purpose, but does that place and purpose involve how respond to the gospel?Well, the doctrine of Sola Feelz, adopted by the modern church of the perpetually offended, says, "if it doesn't feel right, it's not right." But Sola Scriptura (and all the other Solas for that matter), say something else entirely.In this episode, Ciara and Jessi explore how to manage our feelings when responding to the gospel and that how we share it with others can make all the difference in, and for, the world.Show Notes:The Babylon Bee: Progressive Evangelical Leaders Meet to Affirm Doctrine of "Sola Feels" https://babylonbee.com/news/progressive-evangelical-leaders-meet-affirm-doctrine-sola-feels/Wretched Video: "Tearful Woman Confronts Open Air Preacher" https://youtu.be/mACbV4xweHE

Now, like no other time in history, Christians are faced with deciding whether to follow their conscience or follow the trends.  Between viral YouTube videos and "must-see TV," social media influencers and binge-worthy movie series, our screens have growing control over how we  spend our time. But, both the content found on these platforms, and the amount of time spent consuming media should give believers pause. Is it appropriate for us to intentionally witness sinful behavior? Is it possible for us to come to a consensus on what kind of media should be avoided by professing Christians? How much time is too much time to spend enjoying the entertainment we do decide to consume?Ciara and Jessi take on these questions, and so many more in an episode that really comes down learning to overcome the fear of missing out in order to better live out our faithfulness in Christ. Show Notes:Christian, What Are You Watching?  by Craig Cabaniss https://www.crossway.org/articles/christian-what-are-you-watching/Is It Sinful to Watch Sin on a Screen? John Piper https://www.desiringgod.org/interviews/is-it-sinful-to-watch-sin-on-a-screen1689 London Baptist Confession, Section 21, Christian Liberty and Liberty of Conscience https://founders.org/library/1689-confession/chapter-21-christian-liberty-and-liberty-of-conscience/"Why I Won't Read Fifty Shades of Gray"- Blog post by Jessi http://thisjessibridges.blogspot.com/2012/05/why-i-wont-be-reading-50-shades-of-grey.htmlEpisode 6: Soul Searching (Our Review of Pixar's SouL) https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/7260562-ep-6-soul-searchingEpisode 16: Inadvertent Idolatry https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8193123-ep-16-inadvertent-idolatry-part-1Episode 31: Garden of Deception: Examining the Growth of Bad Theology on Social Media with Dr. Jen Russum https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8998891-ep-31-garden-of-deception-examining-the-growth-of-bad-theology-on-social-media-with-dr-jen-russum

You've heard the phrase, "the road to Hell is paved with good intentions." This idea proves truer now that we consume so much information on social media, and from influencers who claim to have nothing but good intentions and positive motivations behind the theology they promote. But, as Dr. Jen Russum explains in this episode, those intentions, more often than not, are leading Christians - especially Christian women - down a road that sounds less and less like they are able to defend a Biblical worldview and instead have bought into the same lies that fooled Eve in Eden not all that long ago. Show Notes:Dr. Robb Brunansky: What is Spiritual Discernment? (sermon series) https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLCzSPA9pRHThwsXaBmYPWKvdk7S1302o8Alisa Childers and Mike Winger: Answering Progressive Christian Memes https://youtu.be/wVLLuyN-EzoScripture References:Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. I Peter 5:8See to it that no one takes you captive by philosophy and empty deceit, according to human tradition, according to the elemental spirits of the world, and not according to Christ. Colossians 2:8

The Bible has plenty of warnings about false teachers and how to identify them. Because of its rejection of Scripture, the essence of God, the divinity of Jesus, and so much more, Progressive Christianity can fairly be called a counterfeit version of true Christianity.But, with all it rejects about the good news of Jesus Christ, what does the movement teach is the gospel? That question, and so many more, are answered in this episode, as Ciara and Jessi wrap up their look at a theology that puts man and his feelings at the center of his worship instead of God and His word. Show Notes:The Christian Post: Michael Gungor Fully Embrace Atheism for a Year, Wife Lisa Says  https://www.christianpost.com/news/gungor-i-dont-believe-in-god-anymore.htmlMichael Gungor tweet https://twitter.com/michaelgungor/status/1418657203116986372Michael Gungor IG live video https://www.instagram.com/tv/CRuUNhjgvau/"Ex-New Age Guru Steven Bancarz Debunks the Universal Christ" https://youtu.be/1AIwGpaNX4QPhil Johnson, Social Justice vs. Authentic Biblical Justice https://youtu.be/i-5CkaqCHkUTim Challies, What's the Purpose of the Church? https://www.challies.com/articles/whats-the-purpose-of-the-church/ContendGlobal.com on Jonathan Edwards https://www.contendglobal.com/blog/revival-of-holiness-day-24Michael Kruger, The Ten Commandments of Progressive Christianity https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0821X99RM/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i1Apologetics Resources:Canon Fodder, Michael Kruger (resources of the origins of the New Testament canon) https://www.michaeljkruger.com/And book by Michael Kruger https://www.amazon.com/Michael-J-Kruger/e/B001JRX244?ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_4&qid=1628054952&sr=8-4Voddie Baucham, Why You Can Believe the Bible https://youtu.be/G1XJ7DeR5fcVoddie Baucham, Expository Apologetics https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B016WOAICW/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i1Natasha Crain (great for both kids and adults) https://natashacrain.com/resources/The Truth Project (Focus on the Family) https://www.focusonthefamily.com/faith/the-truth-project/Dr. James White, New Testament Reliability Part 1 https://youtu.be/pL0P6sH0cJMDr. James White and Michael Kruger on the Biblical Canon, G3 Conference https://youtu.be/LVVRfu1eLSU

In this episode, Ciara and Jessi breakdown the history, the redefinition of biblical terms, and the denials of scripture that all make up the growing ideology of Progressive Christianity. As Postmodern thought was beginning to take hold in American culture, a concern started rising within Evangelical churches that the message of the bible was being lost. In response, self-proclaimed Christians began "deconstructing" their faith and have since arrived at a new religion that looks and sounds nothing like Biblical Christianity.In this first part, of a two part look at Progressive Christianity, you'll hear a lot that sounds familiar, and maybe even some beliefs that you hold, without actually knowing how much they depart from orthodox Christianity.Show Notes:Episode 26: Mormonism https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8816710-ep-26-counterfeit-christianity-series-part-1-mormonismEpisode 27: Jehovah's Witnesses https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8853258-ep-27-counterfeit-christianity-series-part-2-jehovah-s-witnessesEpisode 28: Catholicism https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8888443-ep-28-counterfeit-christianity-series-part-3-catholicismFrom Christianity to Progressive Christianity and Back Again, Alisa Childers and Josh Morris https://youtu.be/mg8nWHXbwyo5 Counterfeit Truths of Progressive Christianity https://www.biblestudytools.com/bible-study/topical-studies/counterfeit-truths-of-progressive-christianity.html?fbclid=iwar38nd5ry9ahub4y2zrqtydvrw33bmpsw-xm5jedo-tn38_odyl3rvtn5poPhilip Gulley, If the Church Were Christian https://www.amazon.com/If-Church-Were-Christian-Rediscovering/dp/0061698776Deconstructing Faith https://www.premierchristianity.com/home/deconstructing-faith-meet-the-evangelicals-who-are-questioning-everything/267.articleJoel Osteen on Larry King https://youtu.be/YVvvEDSZuZwAlistair Begg, Is the Exclusivity of Christ Unjust? https://youtu.be/xTHGbGCeYjULigonier, Penal Substitution https://www.ligonier.org/learn/devotionals/penal-substitution/History Resources:J. Gresham Machen, Christianity and Liberalism https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08KXK15L8/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_taft_p1_i1What Sets Progressive Christianity Apart from Historic Christianity https://youtu.be/1R4zPAoY9ywMark Driscoll, A Pastoral Perspective On The Emergent Church https://criswell.files.wordpress.com/2006/03/3,2%20APastoralPerspectiveontheEmergentChurch[Driscoll].PDF

Is it possible that the largest religious organization in the world is teaching doctrines that are diametrically opposed to the doctrines found in the religious text it teaches from? Is it possible that more than 1.1 billion people have been deceived into believing something about Jesus Christ, and themselves, that could actually call their salvation into question despite the fact that they hold many historically Christians beliefs? Ciara and Jessi argue yes - not only is it possible, but that is in fact what has happened as a result of the false gospel preached by the Roman Catholic Church. This might possibly be one of the most controversial topics discussed to date, but love for the gospel and our Catholic family and friends requires a thorough look at the mistranslation of fundamental Christian truths found within Catholic theology. Show Notes:Episode 25: The False Teachings of Steven Furtick https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8778704-ep-25-the-false-teachings-of-steven-furtickEpisode 19: Sex, Submission, and Standing Up to Sin https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8539917-ep-19-sex-submission-and-standing-up-to-sinEpisode 14: God, Government, and Granted Authority https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8105365-ep-14-god-government-and-granted-authorityRon Rhodes: Reasoning from the Scriptures with Catholics https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001TOCXP6/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_taft_p1_i6Reformation21: Always Reforming? https://www.reformation21.org/blogs/always-reforming.phpReformation Bible College: The Five Solas https://reformationbiblecollege.org/blog/the-five-solasTrial and Triumph https://canonpress.com/products/trial-and-triumph/Echoes of the Reformation https://www.christianbook.com/echoes-the-reformation-bible-study-book/brandon-smith/9781430055327/pd/055327Dr. James White: The Dividing Line on Catholicism https://youtu.be/yI2QWHlT4f0?t=1949Dr. James White: The Roman Catholic Church and the Gospel https://youtu.be/wYs9ItAS0ZERC Sproul: Roman Catholic View of Justification (Part 1) https://youtu.be/O0zU6EXtb0IRC Sproul: Roman Catholic View of Justification (Part 2): Luther and the Reformation https://youtu.be/N4R5fSfRgQAJeff Durbin: Why We Believe- Justification by Faith Alone (Part 1) https://youtu.be/8Xr6OAGlC2sJeff Durbin: Why We Believe- Justification by Faith Alone (Part 2)  https://youtu.be/eQryf9SnwVcJohn Piper: Where the Gospel of Roman Catholicism Fails https://youtu.be/XGabP7okMkgJohn Piper: Does James Contradict Paul? https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/does-james-contradict-paulJohn Piper sermon: Soli Deo Gloria https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/soli-deo-gloria

Ciara and Jessi continue their look into other religious teaching that claim to be Christian in nature but are really promoting a false gospel based on a false understanding of Jesus and the saving grace of God.For this episode, the beliefs of the Jehovah's Witness Church are examined against the Bible. Is it possible for Jesus to be the archangel Michael? Did Jesus rise from the dead in a spiritual way, leaving his body behind? What does salvation look like according to the Jehovah's Witness and does scripture affirm that teaching? Is it really fair to call Jehovah's Witnesses a "cult"? Check out this discussion for answers to these questions, and so many more.Show Notes:Episode 25: The False Teachings of Steven Furtick https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8778704-ep-25-the-false-teachings-of-steven-furtickEpisode 15: Is God a (Wo)Man? https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8151370-ep-15-god-is-a-wo-manRon Rhodes: Reasoning from the Scriptures with the Jehovah's Witnesses https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B005WWN5Q2/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_taft_p1_i8 ESV Preface https://www.esv.org/resources/esv-global-study-bible/preface-to-the-english-standard-version/Mike Winger: 2 Hours on Jehovah's Witnesses https://youtu.be/tJAZfVcAo1YMike Winger: Jehovah's Witnesses' Beliefs, Practices, and Errors https://youtu.be/lE5KQHf8fX0Dr. James White: The Forgotten Trinity https://www.amazon.com/Forgotten-Trinity-James-R-White/dp/1556617259 Effectively Sharing the Deity of Christ with Jehovah's Witnesses https://www.equip.org/article/effectively-sharing-the-deity-of-christ-with-jehovahs-witnesses/How to Use the Back of a Napkin to Prove to a Jehovah's Witness that Jesus is God: https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/justin-taylor/how-to-use-the-back-of-a-napkin-to-prove-to-a-jehovahs-witness-that-jesus-is-god/CARM: Four Requirements for Salvation in the Watchtower Organization https://carm.org/jehovahs-witnesses/four-requirements-for-salvation-in-the-watchtower-organization/Voddie Baucham: Getting the Gospel Right https://youtu.be/tkd0lQhAYYcPrecept Austin: The Resurrection of Christ https://www.preceptaustin.org/the_resurrection_of_christ

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints - They believe in Jesus and that he died on a cross. They even named their church after him, so they must be just another denomination of Protestant Christianity, right? Unfortunately, no, because the Jesus they teach about, the God they worship, and the salvation they believe in is completely antithetical to everything we read about these things in Scripture. Ciara and Jessi kick off a new series, Counterfeit Christianity, which exposes the false gospels and the dangerous teachings of some of the biggest churches in the world today, all who have deceived millions of people into following a teaching that denies fundamental truths about God and His Word. These false teachings of the LDS Church are discussed and corrected in this episode which leave little room for misunderstanding.We know it can be hard to tell someone they are being lied to. It can be even harder to be on the receiving end of that message. But love rejoices in the truth, so it is the truth we preach. And the truth is, followers of the LDS church must repent and come to know the Jesus of the Bible to have any hope for saving grace. Show Notes:Ron Rhodes: Reasoning from the Scriptures with the Mormons https://www.amazon.com/Reasoning-Scriptures-Mormons-Ron-Rhodes/dp/1565073282/ref=sr_1_12?dchild=1&keywords=ron+rhodes&qid=1625548460&sr=8-12Gospel Principles https://abn.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/gospel-principles?lang=engJoseph Fielding Smith: Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith http://www.boap.org/LDS/Joseph-Smith/Teachings/T6.htmlMichael Horton: The Indicative and the Imperative https://www.monergism.com/indicative-and-imperative-reformation-view-sanctificationMichael Horton: What is the Gospel? https://youtu.be/caMVMayR690CARM: The Gospel According to Mormonism https://carm.org/mormonism/the-gospel-according-to-mormonism/ John Piper: What Happens When You Die? https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/what-happens-when-you-die-all-appear-before-the-judgment-seat-of-christJeff Durbin- street interaction with a Mormon https://youtu.be/d-xjSJKZbPQAdditional Resources:Mormonism's Impossible Gospel https://vimeo.com/41845136100 Verses  for Witnessing to Mormons https://www.aomin.org/aoblog/mormonism/100-verses-for-witnessing-to-mormons/Mike Winger: Mormonism- Contending for the Faith Conference https://youtu.be/A0Pkt9BCcxkScripture References:Ephesians 3:21John 4:24Hosea 11:9Romans 1:22-23Psalm 90:2Isaiah 57:15Deuteronomy 33:27Malachi 3:6James 1:17Deuteronomy 6:4Isaiah 43:10-11Isaiah 44:6John 10:30John 14:11John 1:1, 14Romans 10:9Colossians 1:16Luke 1:31-35Genesis 1:1John 1:12 Romans 8:15Ephesians 1:5 Galatians 4:5Galatians 1:6-8Matthew 19:24-25Matthew 13:491 Corinthians 3:8Ephesians 6:8Ephesians 2:8-9

One of the most frequent warnings we get throughout the books of the New Testament is about false teachers. In fact, Paul included warnings to be on the look out for "wolves" within the church body in almost all of his letters to churches and church leaders in the first century. Heresy was a problem in the early church, and it is still a problem today. In this episode, Ciara and Jessi do the unimaginable in a culture that says "thou shalt not judge," and get specific about the problems with the preaching of Steven Furtick. From outright heresy to drawing crowds in with the appealing Prosperity Gospel, Furtick is guilty of all sorts of biblical distortions and discerning Christians ought to beware. Show Notes:Episode 15: Is God A (Wo)Man? https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8151370-ep-15-god-is-a-wo-manShai Linne: False Teachers https://youtu.be/KJmcEAwazD0Steven Furtick: Ghosted https://youtu.be/Tk12DsbkB8ASteven Furtick: Focus on the Fruit https://youtu.be/QED4Oqd202cRob Bell on Oprah's Super Soul Sunday https://youtu.be/EstIjZP0U1cSteven Furtick: God Promised You the VIctory https://youtu.be/53Kr-_nAmioThe Elephant Room https://youtu.be/JOKceYR4lyEYoung Man Analyzes 10 Hours of Furtick Sermons https://youtu.be/2WQlX_j0wQoMike Winger: Identifying False Teachers https://youtu.be/e2jpwEoo8aYScripture References:Acts 20:28-32Romans 16:17-182 Corinthians 1112-15Galatians 1:8-9Colossians 2:8, 18-211 Timothy 6:3-52 Timothy 4:3-5Titus 1:10-11, 3:10Hebrews 13:92 Peter 2:1-3, 3:171 John 4:1-62 John 7-11JudeMatthew 7:1, 15Hebrews 13:8James 1:22-25Romans 5:1John 1:1Romans 6:1-2

We have all done it - looked up our zodiac sign to better understand ourselves. Some have even gotten so enamored with astrology and horoscopes, they use it as a guide for decision making and to prepare for what the future may hold. But, the Bible calls this form of idol worship "divination" and commands we avoid it. So why do as many as one in four Christians still, even innocently, dabble in the study of astrology? In this continuation of their look at the New Age, Ciara and Jessi reveal what God has said about astrology and shed light on the clear distinction between Biblical stargazing and sinful worship of celestial bodies.Show Notes:Episode 1: The Influence of Instagram https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/6738559-ep-1-the-influence-of-instagramEpisode 13: Forbidden Series- Fear Not https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8056996-ep-13-forbidden-series-part-5-fear-notMike Winger: Why Did Pastor Chuck Predict the Rapture? https://youtu.be/5w9vkMfZudIMike Winger: If Jesus is God, Why Didn't He Know Everything? https://youtu.be/Elaup9NKyXg?t=3208J. Alec Motyer The Prophecy of Isaiah https://www.amazon.com/Prophecy-Isaiah-Introduction-Commentary/dp/0830815937Voddie Baucham: Why You Can Believe the Bible https://youtu.be/G1XJ7DeR5fcRay Bentley: Time To Wake Up https://www.maranathachapel.org/podcast/matthew-251-13-time-to-wake-upScripture References:Isaiah 47:12-14Daniel 2:2, 4:7Exodus 7:11Deuteronomy 4:19Deuteronomy 18:9-12Leviticus 19:26Genesis 1:14-17Genesis 15:5Matthew 2:1-2Daniel 4:35Mark 13:32Matthew 24:36-51Ephesians 5:8-131 Thess 5:21-22

Human history is replete with stories of how mankind has been on, what seems like, a never-ending journey to find happiness and healing. Some methods have certainly achieved greater popularity than others, and unfortunately, even for Christians, the New Age has offered what sounds like an appealing solution to overcome life's challenges. In this episode, Ciara and Jessi explore the teachings of the New Age regarding internal and external energy, how to cleanse it, and what the pages of Scripture have to say about our futile attempts to wage spiritual warfare on God's behalf.Show Notes:John Piper "Running With Witnesses" https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/running-with-the-witnessesRobb Brunansky "What is Spiritual Discernment?" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FXH9TtOcmqcAllie Beth Stuckey "The Rise of Millennial Witches" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ddFtOf6KyQk&t=1783sSteven Bancarz "Crystals: A Christian Perspective" https://youtu.be/iPJJq2JzbAMPew Research: "New Age Beliefs Common Among Both Religious and Nonreligious" https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2018/10/01/new-age-beliefs-common-among-both-religious-and-nonreligious-americans/ Chakra 101: An Introduction to the 7 Chakras https://www.yogiapproved.com/om/chakra-system-introduction/Episode 17 "Inadvertent Idolatry Part 2" https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8236990-ep-17-inadvertent-idolatry-part-2Episode 9 "Forbidden: Communing With the Dead" https://www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/7630543-ep-9-forbidden-series-part-1-communing-with-the-deadTravis Peterson "The Armor of God" https://soundcloud.com/user-302480361/the-armor-of-god-ephesians-610-18Scripture References:Isaiah 43:25Isaiah 44:221 John 1:7Psalm 6:2-4Ephesians 6:10-182 Thessalonians 3:3Psalm 4:8Deuteronomy 18:10-12Galatians 5:19-21Romans 14:141 Peter 5:6-7

"Barefoot and pregnant." It's a pejorative phrase used to demean the work stay-at-home mothers do. The world has evolved in such a way that two working parents isn't just approved of, it's expected. But how should Christian women approach this pressure to send their kids to daycare while they chase their dreams? In this episode, Ciara and Jessi talking with The Thankful Homemaker host Marci Ferrell about what it means to be a homemaker and whether the Bible encourages women to focus on family life or corporate life.  Show Notes:The Ever-Loving Truth & Expository Apologetics by Voddie BauchamThe Gospel Primer by Milton VincentWho Am I by Jerry BridgesPaul Washer Proverbs Season One: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLtWJcEn1BoILQaYjTxOyuWVz1HzbmeezlPaul Washer Proverbs Season Two: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLtWJcEn1BoII8muCxwJPWe8_7ubBqGqCGVoddie Baucham "Why I Believe the Bible": https://youtu.be/G1XJ7DeR5fcScripture References:Home as Foundational:Genesis 2:18Genesis 2:20Titus 2:5Glass ceiling question & the call of Titus 2:Titus 2:3-5, 1, 10Proverbs 31Work in Our Home Meaningful:Colossians 3:23-241 Peter 2:91 Peter 2:12Colossians 3:1-4Feminism References:1 Timothy 5:10, Titus 2:3-5Ephesians 5:21-331 Timothy 2:121 Corinthians 12Genesis 1:27Galatians 3:28-29John 14:6Psalm 139Worldly Concepts:Deuteronomy 6:6-91 Peter 3:15Picture of Gospel: Mark 8:34Galatians 2:20Philippians 3:8-111 John 3:16

Continuing the discussion about the Biblical structure for families and the roles within them, Ciara and Jessi, with special guest Pastor Travis Peterson, explore the always controversial topic of appropriate and necessary leadership of husbands in the home. The discussion dives into what headship does and doesn't look like, why God appointed men has heads of households, and how proper execution of the patriarchy is good for women, children, and society as a whole. Will feminists hate this? Probably. But the Lord loves faithful servants. So, ladies, grab your man and enjoy the ride as we walk you both through the Scripture's call for Godly marriage.Show notes:John Piper: Husbands Who Love Like Christ and the Wives Who Submit to Them https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/husbands-who-love-like-christ-and-the-wives-who-submit-to-themThe Rise and Triumph of the Modern Self by Carl Trueman https://www.amazon.com/Rise-Triumph-Modern-Self-Individualism/dp/1433556332Episode 19: Sex, Submission, and Standing up to Sin https://pdcn.co/e/www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8539917-ep-19-sex-submission-and-standing-up-to-sin.mp3?download=trueEpisode 20: Fictional Families https://pdcn.co/e/www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8583144-ep-20-fictional-families.mp3?download=trueWhere to find Pastor Travis Peterson: Blog https://pastortravislv.com/about-me/Twitter https://twitter.com/pastortravislvProvidence Reformed Church YouTube https://youtube.com/channel/UCciOsqa1rQxv6SFqaZgmnAA

We have watched as the culture has attempted to redefine nearly every aspect of God's created order and the nature of the very things He brought into being. But try as it might, society doesn't get to make the rules or the definition for what doesn't belong to it, and this includes marriage and family. In this episode, Ciara and Jessi explore all things related to God's design for marriage and the family, the ways in which we have seen a redefinition of these important institutions, how the enemy uses the culture to attack what is good and right in order to bring about his ends, and what Christian families can do both in the the culture war, and the spiritual war, that rages on.No topic is off limits - from divorce, remarriage, gay marriage, adoption, and even three men with a baby, we explore it all. Scripture referenced in this episode:Matthew 19:9Genesis 1:26-28Genesis 2:21-24Genesis 15-17, 21John 3:31 John 5:1Romans 11:11-24Romans 1:18-32Proverbs 22:6Romans 8:71 Corinthians 2:141 Thessalonians 5:212 Corinthians 10:5Links mentioned in this episode:GotQuestions, Remarriage After Divorce: https://www.gotquestions.org/remarriage-adultery.htmlJohn Piper Episode on Divorce and Remarriage: https://www.desiringgod.org/interviews/divorce-remarriage-and-honoring-godLove Thy Body by Nancy Pearcey https://www.amazon.com/Love-Thy-Body-Answering-Questions/dp/0801075971/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=love+thy+body&qid=1621924276&sr=8-1Voddie Baucham, Gay is Not the New Black, article: https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/gay-is-not-the-new-black/sermon: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZkL3lT95vOUCambridge Massachusettes Recognizes Polyamorous Partnerships: https://reason.com/2021/03/10/cambridge-will-recognize-polyamorous-partnerships-and-other-domestic-arrangements-with-more-than-2-adults/Gay Poly Throuple Father Baby: https://nypost.com/2021/03/01/poly-throuple-makes-history-3-dads-on-a-birth-certificate/NV Bill Allows for 3 or More Adults to Adopt a Child: https://www.leg.state.nv.us/App/NELIS/REL/81st2021/ExhibitDocument/OpenExhibitDocument?exhibitId=52230&fileDownloadName=AB%20115_Opposition%20Statement_Emily%20Mimnaugh_Pacific%20Justice%20Institute_Center%20for%20Public%20Policy.pdfPsychology Today, "Chosen Family" https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/being-unlonely/201906/finding-connection-through-chosen-familyEvan Sayet Heritage Foundation talk: https://youtu.be/Xkyn3JaLrcw

In this episode, kicking off season 2, Ciara and Jessi, examine the role women play in husband's sins, what biblical submission looks like, and who is responsible for sin inside marriage. This issue always stirs up emotions, and as you'll hear, some serious misunderstandings about Christian teaching.Scripture we referenced:Ephesians 5:22-24 https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ephesians%205%3A22-24&version=ESV Genesis 3:9-19 https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=genesis+3%3A9-19&version=ESVMatthew 18:15-17 https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+18%3A15-17&version=ESV1 Corinthians 7:2-5 https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+corinthians+7%3A2-5&version=ESVEpisode notes:Episode 10 "Forbidden: Female Pastors" https://pdcn.co/e/www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/7755187-forbidden-series-part-2-female-pastors.mp3?download=trueEpisode 14 "God, Government, and Granted Authority" https://pdcn.co/e/www.buzzsprout.com/1538023/8105365-god-government-and-granted-authority.mp3?download=trueRachael Denhollander's tweet thread: https://twitter.com/R_Denhollander/status/1390390172009762820Founder's Ministry "Biblical Manhood and Womanhood" https://youtu.be/fAkyogF1VskMichelle Lesley "6 Steps SBC Churches Can Take to Prevent Abuse" https://michellelesley.com/2021/05/12/throwback-thursday-preventative-measures-6-steps-sbc-churches-can-take-to-prevent-sexual-abuse/John Piper "Six Things Submission is Not" https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/six-things-submission-is-not"The Excellent Wife" by Martha Peace https://www.amazon.com/Excellent-Wife-Biblical-Perspective/dp/1885904088/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=the+excellent+wife&qid=1621117132&sr=8-1WWUTT "Does the Bible Say a Wife Must Submit to Her Husband?" https://youtu.be/Ax9oU-ogYAE

In the final episode of Season 1 of crosswise, Ciara and Jessi dive into the acceptance of curse words (or is it cuss words?) and why Christians should feel empowered to reject the use of profane and perverse language. Scripture talks a lot about how important the kinds of language we use is and how that language offers a window into our hearts. If you're full of anger, the words you use reflect that. But, God calls us to set our hearts and our minds on the things of heaven. How does the world know that's where we're focused? By the words we choose to use. Oprah article mentioned in episode: The Hidden Benefits of Anger, Cursing, and Negativity https://www.oprah.com/health/the-hidden-benefits-of-cursing-negativity-and-gossip/allLigonier article on Colossians 3:7-8 https://www.ligonier.org/learn/devotionals/life-christ/

In this episode, Ciara and Jessi wrap up their discussion on idol worship and how Christians accidentally fall into violations of the second commandment. Even when we know better, it's hard to resist the temptation to make our material possessions the center of our worlds. Worse yet, the culture has turned loving ourselves into an even more appealing form of idolatry, that's sometimes too subtle to even recognize. Paul warns believers not to become lovers of self or of money, and yet, we've all stumbled into this sin. But, praise God, He gives us a way out. Alistair Begg on Idolatry: https://www.truthforlife.org/resources/sermon/acceptable-worship-part-3/Ligonier, Idolatry Defined: https://www.ligonier.org/learn/devotionals/idolatry-defined/"When God is Not Enough" by Scotty Smith: https://www.ligonier.org/learn/articles/when-god-not-enough/

It may seem simple and straightforward: Don't make or worship idols. But our idea of what constitutes an idol may just be the tip of the iceberg when reading deeper into the second commandment and what God is really trying to communicate. For the Lord, worship - right worship - of Him is a big deal. In this episode of crosswise, Ciara and Jessi discuss ways Christians are accidentally stepping over the line into what is actually prohibited in the second commandment even in their attempts to avoid idolatry and worship the true God rightly. You may hear "idol" and think "golden calf," but don't be deceived into thinking that's all there is to it. G3 Conference on Worship: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL4k0RewlNCcCXvyurlTdKJ_CYbkND-UHw"Make No Graven Image" from Ligonier: https://www.ligonier.org/learn/devotionals/make-no-graven-image/Thomas Watson on the Second Commandment: https://ccel.org/ccel/watson/commandments.iv.ii.htmlHeidelberg Catechism on the Second Commandment: http://www.heidelberg-catechism.com/en/lords-days/35.htmlInterview with John Piper - Ask Pastor John - "Does the Bible Forbid My Nativity Set?"https://www.desiringgod.org/interviews/does-the-bible-forbid-my-nativity-set

The topic of gender and gender identity has taken centerstage in the postmodern cultural revolution we find ourselves in today. Christians are being forced to contend with the allegation that God's creation of male and female is somehow more nuanced and complex than just either/or. Not surprisingly, this manufactured complexity, which rests in fighting back against anything appearing "oppressive," has led to the same debate over the gender of God himself. Today, Ciara and Jessi dissect the questions that have only recently come up around God's gender and answer them using Biblical truth and just a touch of patriarchy.Answers in Genesis: Does God Have a Gender? https://answersingenesis.org/who-is-god/does-god-have-gender/Dennis Prager: Why God is a He https://www.prageru.com/video/why-god-is-a-he/Got Questions: Is God Male or Female? https://www.gotquestions.org/God-male-female.htmlCatechism for Young Children https://gracebaptistcarlisle.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/childrens_catechism_esv.pdf1689 London Baptist Confession, Article 2 https://www.1689.com/confession.html#Ch.%202RC Sproul: Ontological and Economic Trinity https://www.ligonier.org/blog/whats-difference-between-ontological-and-economic-trinity/The Puritans on the Hypostatic Union https://www.reformation21.org/blog/themes-in-puritan-theology-christology

There are a lot of questions Christians should consider when it comes to submission and authority. But none more important than "where does authority come from?" This question and its answer are becoming increasingly important as Christians in the West are facing considerations to push back against government authority in a way we have rarely seen in this part of the world. In this episode of crosswise, Ciara and Jessi piece together relevant Biblical passages and stories to better understand where authority comes from and if it is ever appropriate to disobey certain authority.Survey on hate speech - https://www.nationalreview.com/2017/10/college-students-speech-can-be-violence/Peel Health COVID-19 Guidelines - https://twitter.com/WillioHydro/status/1367164967917678595/photo/1Pastor Robb Brunansky "Government Authority and the Church" - https://youtu.be/rXjEytPcgScPastor James Coates "Directing Government to its Duty" - https://youtu.be/Dh6nXD4Rtg0Pastor Doug WIlson "God & Government" - https://youtu.be/TbUifD5w9vQPastor Doug Wilson "Resistance, Revolution, Reformation and Romans (13 that is)" -A biblical overview, from Old to New Testament of government - https://youtu.be/RLIIP32tSGELetter from John Rogers to his children - https://www.sacred-texts.com/chr/nep/nep22.htmTorchlighters: Heroes of the Faith videos (I have found many of these at the library) - http://ondemand.torchlighters.org/Trial and Triumph, Stories from Church History - https://www.christianbook.com/trial-triumph-stories-from-church-history/richard-hannula/9781885767547/pd/67544John MacArthur: Christ, not Caesar, Is Head of the Church, A Biblical Case for the Church's Duty to Remain Open - https://www.gracechurch.org/news/posts/1988

Scripture is full of directives from the Lord to avoid specific behaviors and even certain thoughts. But did you know that the most common thing Jesus tells us not to do involves a feeling? That can be incredibly tough for us to not only wrap our minds around but actually put into practice. Feelings come so naturally and sometimes without warning or justification, which makes controlling them seem impossible. In the final episode of the Forbidden Series, Ciara and Jessi explain how we can avoid allowing ourselves to fall into the sin of fear and why this sin is taken so seriously by God. R.C. Sproul - How to Deal With Anxiety - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=voO_V17rPgo&t=103sHeidelberg Catechism - https://www.crcna.org/welcome/beliefs/confessions/heidelberg-catechism

How do you talk about other people? Have you ever been slanderous, assumed the worst in someone, been a gossip or misrepresented someone's position? Of course you have, we all have. But did you know that scripture actually commands us to avoid such talk? In this special episode of crosswise, Jessi flies solo while Ciara recovers in the hospital from pregnancy complications, and takes a deep dive into the Ninth Commandment, which is so much richer than what we all know as "thou shalt not lie."This is a must listen if you have ever wondered how to handle misrepresentations against you or others, how to take on conspiracy theories on the internet, and how social media can be a compelling place to fall into the sin of bearing false witness against others.Westminster Larger Catechism, Questions 143-154 https://reformedforum.org/podcasts/larger-catechism-questions-141-150/Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn "Live Not By Lies" https://www.orthodoxytoday.org/articles/SolhenitsynLies.phpPastor James Coates - Sermon on Romans 13https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dh6nXD4Rtg0

Few, if any, sins are as applauded, celebrated, and accepted as same-sex relationships. But, the Bible is clear - homosexuality is a sin. Ciara and Jessi explain how we know this is true, and more importantly, why is isn't unloving to say so. In fact, telling someone they are in sin is the most loving thing we can do for our neighbor. The controversial conversation continues in this week's episode of crosswise.Disclaimer: While, there is no explicit conversation or material in this episode, please be aware of the sensitive and adult subject matter and use discretion while listening with children.RESOURCES:Love The Body by Nancy Pearcey: https://www.amazon.com/Love-Thy-Body-Answering-Questions/dp/0801075726/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=love+thy+body&qid=1613279310&sr=8-1Same Sex Controversy by James White and Jeffrey Niell: https://www.amazon.com/Same-Sex-Controversy-Clarifying-Homosexuality/dp/0764225243/ref=sr_1_1?crid=BB9PMQB9F24R&dchild=1&keywords=same+sex+controversy&qid=1613279267&sprefix=same+sex+contro%2Caps%2C205&sr=8-1Max Lucado Contoversy:https://www.dailywire.com/news/dangerous-theology-national-cathedral-faces-blowback-for-allowing-guest-preacher-who-opposes-homosexualityhttps://www.dailywire.com/news/max-lucado-apologizes-for-hurting-lgbt-community-amid-outrage-following-sermon-at-national-cathedralResources from James White:The Revisionist History of Homosexuality in the Bible Debunked: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Y-zDJPg9Vc&t=2883sJames White Responds to Matthew Vines: https://www.monergism.com/response-matthew-vines-40-questions"Gay Christianity" Refuted: https://www.aomin.org/aoblog/the-dividing-line/gay-christianity-refuted/Voddie Baucham Addresses Arguments by Christians for Homosexuality: https://youtu.be/loSWMYTd9B8RC Sproul sermon on Romans 7 mentioned in the episode: https://www.ligonier.org/learn/sermons/sins-advantage-law/Interview with Jen Hatmaker: https://religionnews.com/2016/10/25/the-politics-of-jen-hatmaker-trump-black-lives-matter-gay-marriage-and-more/

The world says that for women to be equal to men, we must be able to do all the things, and have all the same roles, as men can. But is that what God has said about women? Is it possible that His role for women in His church is complete and perfect even though it isn't the same as men? Ciara and Jessi say "Yes!" and walk through all the reasons we can know we are meant for different callings in the church body, why that is the case, and they debunk many common egalitarian arguments that try to say otherwise. Prepare to have your feathers ruffled, but walk away equipped to defend the complementarian position just as Paul has done. 

In the first episode of a series discussing practices explicitly prohibited in scripture, Ciara and Jessi review the dangers of trying to talk to the dead, explain what kinds of practices count as communicating with those who have passed, and call out the teachings of so-called "Christian" churches or denominations that are in clear violation of God's warning of seeking guidance from those who have died. You may be surprised to learn how seemingly harmless activity can quickly become sinful attempts to turn away from the promises of Christ.

VeggieTales has been a staple in Christian homes and Evangelical churches for decades. The storytelling is endearing and the lessons are great for our kids to hear, but have Bob and Larry been missing the mark this whole time? In this episode, Ciara and Jessi dissect the moralism, "me-ology," and missed opportunities in VeggieTales, and explore how this actually provides parents with a great chance to point our children to the One who it's really all about. Links and resources mentioned in this episode:Three-fold Use of the Law: https://www.ligonier.org/blog/threefold-use-law/American Gospel film: https://youtu.be/ocHm18wUAGUMatt Chandler sermon "God is for God": https://youtu.be/9yqQuTT1S40"Only Jesus" by Shai Linne: https://youtu.be/umNoOvMOnIw

Contemporary Christian Music has crept its way in mainstream radio so much so that many of the biggest names in the industry are well known by even those who don't call themselves believers. But is that a good thing? Why is their music so popular outside Christian circles and should that give us concern when we hear catchy songs in our churches. Ciara and Jessi take a look at some of the most well-known and successful CCM artists and songs over the last few years and hold the lyrics up to scripture, which should be our final authority, not Billboard. 

Disney/Pixar attempt a search for the answers to "life's most important questions." Did they find the answers, what does scripture have to say about those answers, and how should we walk our kids through finding those answers. In this episode, Ciara and Jessi examine the concept of worldview and how to ensure that as Christians, we are preparing our kids for the onslaught of secular teaching and the Godless culture they are growing up in. 

The New Year is a great time to examine ways in which we can make meaningful improvements in our life. We should also remain prayerful and vigilant when considering which resolutions we will take on. In this episode, Ciara and Jessi examine the process of making New Year's resolutions in general, and then examine some popular trends that Christian women may be thinking about making a part of their 2021. 

In this episode, Ciara and Jessi wrap up their discussion about how crosswise came together, getting personal with their testimonies and sharing how they each misunderstood what the gospel and being saved really meant - But God stepped in. 

In this episode, Ciara and Jessi give you a look inside their friendship, how this podcast came to life, and share a bit of their backstories that led them to come to know the Lord and become so passionate about wanting to share the gospel.