Podcasts about stepfamilies

ResourcesEpisode 210. Is Your Child Pulling Away?  Here's How to Respond with Wisdom and Love Episode 207. 4 Big Myths About Parenting When an Ex Has Different Rules and How to Build ConsistencySuggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts, too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

What can we learn from biblical blended families? Author and speaker Laura Petherbridge brings her years of study of biblical step-families to our conversation. There's a lot of dysfunction there, but also many examples of how God cares for the blended family. If you're going through struggles in your blended family, don't miss the biblical encouragement on Chris Fabry Live. Featured resource:Stepfamilies of the Bible: Timeless Wisdom for Blended Families For more information about the work of Care Net, click here. Chris Fabry Live is listener-supported. To support the program, click here.Become a Back Fence Partner: https://moodyradio.org/donateto/chrisfabrylive/partnersSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This one hits close to home for us. In this episode, we're opening up about a painful season in our parenting journey when Kim's daughter began pulling away from our home and requesting to spend more time at her dad's. We know how confusing, heartbreaking, and disorienting this can be, especially for blended families with limited time together. That's why we're sharing 3 essential tips that can help you manage yourself in a tough parenting moment, retain connection with your child, and respond in a healthy, constructive way.   You're not alone—and there is a path forward.You'll Discover:The emotional impact of watching a child distance themselves from you - and how to manage your emotions and reactions.How to ask powerful, curious questions that open the door to connection and uncover what's under the surface.Why validation can change the tone of any tough parenting conversation.A practical way to co-create one new action step with your child, without caving in to their requests.The truth about whether kids “get to choose” where they live at a certain age.Resources from this Episode:Episode 184. The Heart of Motherhood:  Navigating Messy Moments with Empathy and Love (emotional regulation)Episode 168. Actionable Steps For Helping Kids Navigate Through Difficult Emotions and Problem SolveEpisode 33.  How to Cope with a Difficult Ex and Protect Your Kids  Ready for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesessionSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! Are you ready to join the Blending Together Community? Click this link: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogether

In this deeply personal episode of the Blended Kingdom Teens podcast, Sidney and Jerzi open up about the powerful moments when God became real, relevant, and alive in their lives. Through raw, authentic stories, they share how brokenness, divorce, and pain became turning points that led them to a real relationship with Jesus. If you've ever wondered how faith becomes more than just a concept, and instead becomes a life-changing truth, this episode is for you. Whether you're struggling with belief, looking for hope, or just need encouragement for blended family life, we pray these testimonies speak directly to your heart.  What You'll Hear in This Episode:- Real testimonies from Christian teens and young adults- How brokenness and trauma led us to faith- What it means when God shows up personally- Encouragement for anyone struggling to believe- Why your story matters—no matter how messy 

Welcome back to another episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast! In today's show, Lori and David dive into a challenge faced by many blended families: What happens when one partner feels that their stepchild is being disrespectful, and the biological parent doesn't step in? Kicking things off with a listener's heartfelt question, Lori and David unpack the complexities of stepkids shouting or insulting their stepparent and stepsibling, as well as the tension that arises when boundaries and respect are on the line. Throughout the episode, they discuss practical strategies for handling disrespect without overstepping boundaries, the importance of focusing on your own responses, and how to talk to your partner about these challenging issues without stirring up more conflict. The hosts also highlight why sibling (and step-sibling) rivalry can sometimes be just as much about building bonds as it is about butting heads, and why letting kids work out their differences can lead to healthier relationships in the long run. Whether you're a parent, stepparent, or somewhere in between, today's episode offers real-life insights and actionable advice on navigating respect and boundaries in a blended family. Grab your headphones and get ready to "nacho" your way to a happier home! In this episode, we discuss: Nacho Parenting Philosophy in Conflict Scenarios Responding to Disrespect from Stepchildren Perceptions of Respect and Boundaries Stepparent vs. Biological Parent Discipline Dynamics Navigating Sibling and Stepsibling Relationships Nacho Kids Academy Success Stories: "Nacho Kids Academy saved my sanity and my marriage. It took a little while because my husband wasn't happy with me Nachoing. He didn't understand it. But once he saw the positive changes from my Nachoing, he couldn't deny that Nachoing was changing things for the better.” ~ Ellison - Happy stepmom in TX  

ResourcesEpisode 129. What does it take to build and maintain trust in your relationship?Episode 119. 6 Tips to Grow Empathy and Create More Connection in Your MarriageEpisode 203. How to Make Better Decisions and Solve Problems as a United TeamEpisode 108. 3 Unity Breakers that are Detrimental to Your Connection and How You Can Avoid ThemEpisode 206. Avoid These 5 Common Pitfalls to Ensure a Successful PartnershipEpisode 192. A Simple Process to Navigate Sensitive Conversations About Each Other's KidsEpisode 154. What practical and emotional shifts can you expect as you blend your family?Episode 107. 3 Disheartening Realities That No Couple Wants To Go Through - But We all Have ToEpisode 187. Basics for Blending:  How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress (Part 1 of 2)Episode 160. A 4-Part Framework for Achievable Expectations and How to Live Them OutSuggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you to do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! 

Blending families is not easy—but hope and guidance can be found in scripture. Tuesday on Mornings with Eric and Brigitte author of Stepfamilies of the Bible, Laura Petherbridge will offer practical insights and solutions for navigating the complex emotions, relationships, and challenges of today’s blended families. The Smart Stepmom Why Step Families are Different.pdfDonate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshow/wrmbSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Your Life Simplified, host Whitney Reagan, senior wealth advisor, and Christina Lynn, director, wealth strategist, dive into the different approaches to blended family finances. They discuss how to navigate conversations around combining finances or keeping things separate, managing child expenses and setting up a long-term plan that is right for your family dynamic.

If you've ever wrestled with second-guessing yourself, feeling stuck in past mistakes, or wondering if you can truly trust yourself again, you're not alone. In this episode, we open up about the very real struggles with self-doubt that we've faced personally and that we often see in the blended couples we coach.Together, we're exploring five powerful habits that can help you break free from the cycle of self-doubt and start building real, lasting confidence. We'll share practical mindset shifts and simple steps you can take today to start building more self-trust. We hope that you'll walk away feeling seen, encouraged, and ready to believe in yourself again — because real healing, growth, and breakthrough are possible.You'll Discover:5 essential habits to break free from self-doubt and trust in yourselfReplace self-criticism with self-compassion. Conquer fear, guilt, and worry. Embrace a growth mindset. Speak up with confidence. Let go of perfectionism by adjusting your expectations.Why your daily habits matter more than your genetics or past experiences when it comes to self-confidence.Simple tools to overcome self-sabotaging habits and learn to trust yourself.Resources from this Episode:Check out our supportive community, Blending TogetherSoundtracks by Jon AcuffThe Beginner's Guide to Self-Compassion by Nick WignallEpisode 99. 3 Tips to Help You Move Beyond Painful Guilt and RegretEpisode 180. Break free from Guilt and Blend with Authenticity and SecurityEpisode 179. Conquer Fear and Embrace Your Blend with Confidence and Clarity Episode 165. How important is your mindset when it comes to blended family life?Episode 50. How to Openly Communicate What You Really Want (Assertive Communication)What Causes Perfectionism and How to Get Over It by Nick WignallEpisode 14. 3 Helpful Steps to Overcome Your "Perfectionist" Ideals and DisappointmentsEpisode 187. Basics for Blending:  How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress (Part 1 of 2)Ready for some extra support?We're here to help!  Schedule your free coaching call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesessionLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsWe would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts .  Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you!

Welcome back to the Nacho Kids Podcast! In this heartfelt and relatable episode, hosts David and Lori dive into the annual struggle of graduation ticket allocations. With only a handful of coveted seats for high school and college ceremonies, blended and extended families are often left negotiating who gets a spot in the audience—and who doesn't. Through personal stories and a bit of humor, David and Lori explore the emotional minefield that limited tickets can create for parents, step-parents, grandparents, and, most importantly, the graduates themselves. They emphasize the importance of keeping the celebration focused on the students and share creative ideas for making everyone feel included, even if they can't physically be at the ceremony. Whether it's planning an after-party or tuning in to a livestream, they remind listeners that graduation is about honoring the kids without piling on extra stress. Join them as they navigate one of the tricky realities of modern family life. In this episode, we discuss: Graduation Ticket Challenges Emotional Impact on Graduates and Families Solutions When Tickets are Limited Nacho Kids Academy Success Stories: "Before finding Nacho Kids Academy, I was on the verge of leaving my marriage. I loved my husband, but the constant tension with his kids and the drama with the ex was tearing me apart. I felt like I was walking on eggshells in my own home, trying to parent kids who didn't want me there. Joining Nacho Kids Academy was a game-changer. I learned how to step back without stepping away, how to Nacho the things that weren't my responsibility and focus on my relationship with my husband and myself. The coaching calls, the community, the step-by-step layers, it all gave me tools I didn't even know I needed. Now, my home feels peaceful again. I can show up as a loving partner without feeling like I'm constantly battling for space or respect. And the best part? My relationship with my stepkids has actually improved because I'm no longer forcing something that wasn't working. If you're a stepparent feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or ready to give up, please, do yourself a favor and join Nacho Kids Academy. It saved my marriage and my sanity." - Sarah M., Stepmom of 2  

Additional ResourcesEpisode 178. Suriving the Turbulent Teen Years:  Expert Insight and Strategies for Today's Parent [with Dr. Michael Bradley]Episode 124. How to Effectively Parent Through Each Stage of Development - and Reduce Painful Interactions (Part 1)Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts, too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you. We really appreciate your feedback!

In this enlightening episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, we explore the fascinating world of stepfamilies in American history with our special guest, Lisa Wilson, the esteemed author of "A History of Stepfamilies in Early America." Lisa shares her journey of uncovering the untold stories and patterns of stepfamilies, reflecting on her personal experiences as a member of such a family. Delving into historical dynamics, Lisa discusses how the perception and roles within stepfamilies have evolved over centuries, from the challenges of integrating into what was once an emotionally-focused family model to combating age-old prejudices against stepmothers. Lori and David, our hosts, invite listeners to a thoughtful conversation about the societal shifts that have affected family structures, highlighting the continuity of certain challenges stepfamilies face today, reminiscent of those from the 18th century. They touch on topics like the legal rights of step-parents, the economic considerations of remarriage, and even the portrayal of stepparents in popular culture. Join us as we navigate this intriguing historical landscape, uncovering insights that resonate with modern stepfamilies and fostering a greater understanding of how these blended households have always been a fundamental part of the American family fabric. In this episode, we discuss: Historical context of stepfamilies Stepparents' challenges and shifts in family dynamics Societal perceptions and misconceptions Modern Community and family structures Nacho Kids Academy Success Stories: “I thought I had tried everything. Books, blogs, even therapy, but nothing helped me feel less like an outsider in my own home. Then I found Nacho Kids Academy. Within weeks, the stress in our home dropped dramatically. I finally understood that I didn't have to fix everything or be the 'bonus mom of the year.' I learned how to support my partner without losing myself. The daily tension? Gone. The constant guilt? Lifted. The relationship with my stepkids isn't perfect, but for the first time, it's not painful. Nacho Kids gave me my peace and my power back.”- Sarah M., Stepmom of 3 and Proud Nacho'er  

What does it really take to thrive as a blended family for over 14 years? In this episode, we share hard-earned lessons, honest stories, and the intentional practices that helped us navigate challenges and strengthen our bond. Tune in for practical advice on communication, connection, and creating unity in your blended family journey.   Key takeaways to listen for The value of effective communication in a blended family's success How to build trust and relationships with your children Challenges and approaches to integrating external family dynamics Why you need to establish family rituals to strengthen bonds Emotional process and impact of adopting his stepchildren   Connect with UsTo learn more about us, visit our website at www.18summers.com or email us at info@18summers.com. To get a copy of our book “The Family Board Meeting”, click here. Subscribe to 18 Summers Podcast and leave a rating and written review!   Social Media Channels Facebook Group: 18 Summers LinkedIn: Jimmy Sheils Instagram: @18summerstribe

In this episode, we share a practical and powerful strategy to help step-parents confidently navigate solo time with their stepchildren. Whether you're a biological parent or a step-parent, this episode is for you!  You'll discover how preparation, communication, and teamwork can transform tension into opportunities for connection. The key? A simple but often overlooked strategy called the Transfer of Power. You don't want to 'wing it' when flying solo with step-kids — instead, be smart and plan for success.You'll Discover:Why solo time can trigger anxiety, fear, or dread for step-parentsHow the "Transfer of Power" can set the step-parent up for success - and the critical role of the bio-parentSteps to prepare beforehand: Anticipate tension, plan for fun, and discuss expectationsHow to manage yourself and the kids during solo time — without power strugglesSimple strategies to stay calm and set kind, clear boundariesHow to reflect as a couple and make improvements for next timeResources from this Episode:Episode 192.  A Simple Process to Navigate Sensitive Conversations About Each Other's KidsEpisode 204. 4 Facets of Stepparenting:  Defining Appropriate Roles and Responsibilities (Part 1 of 2)Episode 187. Basics for Blending:  How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress (Part 1 of 2)Episode 158.  An Effective Stepparenting Approach Focused on What Works - and What Doesn'tEpisode 159. How to Stay Hopeful as a Stepparent When You're Continually Rejected and Hurt Episode 85. How to Uniquely Build More Love and Connection in Your Blended Family [with Ron Deal]Episode 37. Why do kids struggle to accept their stepparent? Episode 39. How to Create Strong Bonds with Resistant Stepkids Ready for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsWe would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts, too. Your review will help others find our podcast. :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review”. Thank you. We really appreciate your feedback!

Welcome to this episode of the NK Podcast, where hosts Lori and David dive into the intricacies of celebrating Easter within stepfamilies. The holiday season can be a delightful time, but it also brings unique challenges when navigating custody schedules and traditions in blended families. In this episode, Lori and David share personal anecdotes and practical advice on how to manage these situations, offering creative solutions for celebrating Easter, even if it's not on the traditional date. They'll also discuss the importance of setting and respecting court-ordered holiday arrangements and the concept of life not always being 'fair' – a valuable lesson for kids in stepfamilies. Whether it's creating new family traditions or creatively handling gift-giving, Lori and David provide insightful tips for a harmonious holiday experience. So, grab a cup of coffee, sit back, and let's explore how to navigate Easter in a stepfamily with grace and flexibility.

Parenting in a blended family can be tough — especially when your ex has completely different rules and expectations. Today, we're tackling a common source of frustration: navigating household differences.  We'll uncover the four biggest myths that keep blended couples stuck and reveal the counteractive truths that bring clarity, confidence, and collaboration. Plus, we'll share our Four A's strategy for communicating with your ex to build more consistency between homes.You'll Discover:The four myths about parenting across different households—and what you can do to move beyond delusion, confusion, and frustration.How to establish healthy boundaries in your home without trying to control the other home.Why "Our home is our zone" should be your mantra.How to avoid fear-based parenting and hold firm to your values—even when they don't align with the other home.A simple four-step communication framework to foster better co-parenting collaboration and create more consistency for your kids.Resources from this Episode:All Episodes on Parenting and DisciplineAll Episodes on Co-Parenting Ready for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesessionSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you. We really appreciate your feedback!Join us on April 5th for Blended & Blessed! Click here: https://www.blendedandblessed.com/

ResourcesEpisode 135. How to Set Appropriate Boundaries and Negotiate Well with your Ex-SpouseEpisode 188. Basics for Blending:  How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and DistressEpisode 153. How to Empower Organization, Improve Communication and Create Peace Between Your Kids Two HomesEpisode 112. 3 Dangerous Dynamics That Can Destroy Co-Parenting - And Hurt the KidsEpisode 113. How to Respond When Being Disregarded, Devalued, or Dismissed by Your Former SpouseEpisode 67. The Best Co-Parenting Strategy That You Already KnowEpisode 31. Unexpected Ways to Improve How You Cope with You ExEpisode 33. How to Cope with a Difficult Ex and Protect Your KidsSuggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts, too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you. We really appreciate your feedback!

Hey, Nacho Parents! In this episode, we dive into the whirlwind story of a step couple who faced some major challenges blending their families. They've got a history that goes way back, but things got complicated when their relationship rekindled as an affair. Now, they're dealing with the fallout, especially with one of the kids knowing about the affair. The catch? This kid has no idea that her mom actually cheated first, causing a whole lot of tension and misunderstandings. Join us as we break down how this couple is managing to mend relationships, navigate the truths and misconceptions, and work towards a harmonious future together. You won't want to miss this one! In this episode, we discuss: Lies cause damage Disagreements on household rules and enforcement Consequences of affairs on family dynamics Do you set the record straight? Should you tell your kid the truth about your ex - their bio parent? Nacho Kids Academy Success Stories: “I Was Ready to Walk Away—Now We're Stronger Than Ever” "Before I found Nacho Kids, I was on the verge of leaving my marriage. The resentment, the constant fights over parenting, and feeling like an outsider in my own home had worn me down. I thought I had to be a ‘parent' to my stepkids, but all it did was create conflict and push me further from my husband. Learning to Nacho gave me permission to step back, focus on my marriage, and let go of what wasn't mine to fix. Now, instead of fighting over stepfamily issues, my husband and I are a team again. This method didn't just save my marriage—it saved my sanity.” ~ Emily S. - USA  

Navigating Blended Families with Dr. Patricia Papernow Blending families can be both rewarding and challenging. In this insightful episode, we welcome Dr. Patricia Papernow, one of the world's foremost experts on blended families, to discuss the unique dynamics and strategies for success in stepfamily relationships. Dr. Papernow is the author of several books on the topic and has received Distinguished Contribution awards from both the American Family Therapy Academy and the American Psychological Association.Together, we explore four key reasons why understanding stepfamilies is crucial:Stepfamilies are everywhere.The challenges are intense.What works is not intuitive.We know what works.Dr. Papernow emphasizes that stepfamilies operate differently from first-time families. In biological families, parents and children share a natural attachment and cultural expectations. In stepfamilies, however, step-parents and step-children do not have this hardwired bond, leading to five major challenges:Stuck Outsiders & Stuck Insiders:The biological parent-child bond remains the secure base, often leaving step-parents feeling ignored, invisible, or rejected.Parents may feel torn between their partner and their child.Solution: Recognize this dynamic as normal, allow time for adjustment, and ensure both children and partners receive one-on-one time.Kids Face Loss & Loyalty Binds:Research shows blending families can be harder on children than divorce.Children may struggle with numerous changes and conflicting loyalties between their parents and step-parents.Solution: Ease the transition by spending undivided quality time with children and respecting their emotions.Parenting vs. Step-Parenting:Parents should take on the disciplinary role, not step-parents.Step-parents often seek more structure, while biological parents lean towards nurturing.Solution: Step-parents should focus on connection before correction and adopt an "authoritative" parenting style that leads with warmth rather than control.Building a New Family Culture:Stepfamilies must integrate at least two existing family cultures.Mistakes are part of the learning process.Solution: Be open to negotiation, respect individual preferences, and embrace the process of "learning by goofing."Navigating Relationships with an Ex-Spouse:High parental conflict is toxic to children.Avoid fighting with or speaking negatively about an ex in front of the kids.Solution: Support your child's relationship with your ex for their well-being.For more invaluable insights, check out Dr. Papernow's books and visit her website at stepfamilyrelationships.com.Tune in to this episode for expert guidance on creating a thriving blended family!Thank you for supporting Linda's Corner! Please take a moment to share this episode, subscribe to the podcast, and leave a rating and review. Visit the Linda's Corner website at lindascornerpodcast.com, and follow us on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, and Pinterest @lindascornerpodcast.Hope for Healing website: hopeforhealingfoundation.org.For a transformative experience in deep inner healing, visit healingbreathworkdetox.com—a digital platform offering life-changing results.

What precisely is the work that mothers do to raise children? Has the nature of mothers, motherhood, and the work mothers do changed over time? Nora Doyle, an Associate Professor of History at Western Carolina University, has combed through the historical record to find answers to these questions. Specifically, she's sought to better understand the lived and imagined experiences of mothers and motherhood between the 1750s and 1850s. Nora's Webpage | Book  Show Notes: https://www.benfranklinsworld.com/237   RECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODES

Does it ever feel like you are miles apart as a couple when it comes to leading your blended family?In this episode, we dive into the most common partnership pitfalls that couples face. From feeling unheard and untrusted to navigating misaligned parenting expectations, we unpack the challenges that often create disconnection, stress and conflict. We also share practical tools to shift from frustration to deeper connection, trust, and teamwork.You'll Discover:How assumptions about each other's motives can fuel conflictThe impact of feeling unheard or untrusted in a blended family dynamicPractical strategies to stay connected and solve problems togetherHow to build resiliency and effective communication in your relationshipResources from this Episode:Episode 204. 4 Facets of Stepparenting:  Defining Appropriate Roles and Responsibilities (Part 1)Episode 205.  4 Facets of Parenting:  What Bio-Parents Need to Know to Achieve Best Outcomes (Part 2)Episode 154. What practical and emotional shifts can you expect as you blend your family?Episode 134.  How to Make Good Decisions in Tough Situations and Stay Connected as a CoupleEpisode 59. Why are you stuck in a Parent-Child Allegiance? Episode 160. A 4-Part Framework for Achievable Expectations and How to Live Them OutEpisode 167. Achievable Strategies to Make Your Marriage the Foundation of Your Blended Family Episode 202. How to Break Free from Painful Cycles and Enjoy Deeper Levels of Intimacy [with Ron & Nan Deal]Episode 187. Basics for Blending:  How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and DistressEpisode 192. A Simple Process to Navigate Sensitive Conversations About Each Other's KidsEpisode 147. Do sensitive conversations end up creating conflict in your relationship?Episode 203. How to Make Better Decisions and Solve Problems as a United TeamEpisode 79. 4 Conflict Communication Patterns That are Hurtful and Toxic to Your RelationshipEpisode 172. 2 Key Elements to Resolve Your Parenting Style Differences - And Get UnitedEpisode 139. The Most Common, Challenging Pain Point Every Blended Couple Experiences (The Trapped Teammate / Stranded Stranger Dynamic)Ready for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a FREE coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesessionJoin us on April 5th for Blended & Blessed! Click here: https://www.blendedandblessed.com/

Martin Luther once said, “There is no more lovely, friendly, and charming relationship, communion, or company than a good marriage.”A strong marriage is a blessing but requires intentional effort, especially in a blended family. Today, Ron Deal and Greg Pettys join the show to discuss a valuable resource for second marriages.Ron Deal is a bestselling author, licensed marriage & family therapist, podcaster, and popular conference speaker who specializes in marriage enrichment and stepfamily education and is the co-author of The Smart Stepfamily Guide to Financial Planning: Money Management Before and After You Blend a Family. Greg Pettys, CLU, ChFC, CFP, has thirty-four years of specialized experience in securities and life insurance sales and services. He is the co-author of The Smart Stepfamily Guide to Financial Planning: Money Management Before and After You Blend a Family.Understanding the Financial Challenges of Blended FamiliesWhen two people enter a marriage with previous financial histories, children, and life experiences, their financial situation becomes more complex than that of a first-time marriage. They may bring:Separate bank accounts and investmentsExisting debts and financial obligationsDifferent parenting and financial philosophiesThe need to provide for children from previous relationshipsConcerns over inheritance and estate planningMerging finances in a blended family isn't just about money—it's about trust, provision, and love. Without clear communication and planning, financial disagreements can create tension, causing stress in the relationship.What Is a Togetherness Agreement?A Togetherness Agreement is a structured approach for blended couples to clarify their financial decisions, ensuring transparency and unity. More than just a financial plan, it is a tool for fostering trust and eliminating fear. It's not just about bank accounts and investments—it's about love, respect, and providing well for one another. It brings clarity to emotionally charged financial topics, ensuring that both partners are aligned in their vision for the future.Why Is a Togetherness Agreement Important?1. It Provides Financial TransparencyMany couples enter marriage with financial baggage—whether it's debt, differing views on money management, or past experiences that have led to distrust. A Togetherness Agreement creates a safe space for full financial disclosure.2. It Helps Prevent Conflict Over MoneyMoney is one of the top stressors in any marriage, but in blended families, the stakes are even higher. The agreement ensures both spouses are on the same page regarding financial expectations and responsibilities.3. It Protects Children and Future GenerationsWithout a clear plan, assets and inheritance can unintentionally drift away from children from previous marriages. The agreement helps ensure that financial resources are distributed according to the couple's wishes, not just default legal systems.4. It Strengthens Marital Trust and UnityA Togetherness Agreement fosters open communication, allowing couples to plan their future confidently rather than fearfully. It shifts financial discussions from potential sources of conflict to proactive, loving conversations.What Should a Togetherness Agreement Include?A Togetherness Agreement can be as formal or informal as a couple chooses. While some opt for a legally binding contract, even a simple written plan can be valuable. Key components may include:Bank Account Structure—Should finances be merged, kept separate, or a combination of both?Debt and Credit Considerations—How will existing debts be managed, and how will future credit decisions be made?Business Ownership—If one spouse owns a business, what will happen to it in the event of death or divorce?Financial Responsibilities—Who is responsible for household expenses, savings, and long-term care for aging parents?Inheritance and Estate Planning—How will assets be distributed to biological and stepchildren?Contingency Plans—What provisions are in place for special needs children, elderly parents, or unexpected life changes?When Should Couples Create a Togetherness Agreement?Ideally, discussions about financial planning should begin before marriage. However, it's never too late to start if you're already married and haven't had these conversations.If you're dating, start the conversation now. If you're already married, don't wait—begin today. The Smart Step Family Guide to Financial Planning provides a step-by-step guide to help you navigate these important discussions.A Togetherness Agreement is an essential tool for blended families to navigate finances with wisdom, clarity, and love. By fostering open communication and financial unity, couples can build a secure foundation for their marriage and their future.If you're in a blended family, consider creating your own Togetherness Agreement today—it might be the most valuable financial decision you ever make.For more insights, pick up a copy of The Smart Step Family Guide to Financial Planning and start building a financial roadmap that aligns with your family's unique needs.On Today's Program, Rob Answers Listener Questions:My question has two parts. First, what is the best way to protect myself from identity theft? And second, our home is paid off - what's the best way to protect ourselves so someone can't come in and put a mortgage or lien on our house without us knowing about it?I'm calling regarding my estate planning. I remember somewhere in the Bible saying we are required or should leave something for our children and grandchildren. How much should we leave for our grandchildren?Resources Mentioned:Faithful Steward: FaithFi's New Quarterly MagazineThe Smart Stepfamily Guide to Financial Planning: Money Management Before and After You Blend a Family by Ron L. Deal, Greg S. Pettys, and David O. EdwardsSplitting Heirs: Giving Your Money and Things to Your Children Without Ruining Their Lives by Ron BlueWisdom Over Wealth: 12 Lessons from Ecclesiastes on Money (Pre-Order)Look At The Sparrows: A 21-Day Devotional on Financial Fear and AnxietyRich Toward God: A Study on the Parable of the Rich FoolFind a Certified Kingdom Advisor (CKA) or Certified Christian Financial Counselor (CertCFC)FaithFi App Remember, you can call in to ask your questions most days at (800) 525-7000. Faith & Finance is also available on the Moody Radio Network and American Family Radio. Visit our website at FaithFi.com where you can join the FaithFi Community and give as we expand our outreach.

ResourcesEpisode 74. How to Develop Appropriate and Effective Consequences that Empower ResponsibilitySuggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you to do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

 Navigating Bonus Families: Love, Acceptance, and Conflict Resolution with Dr. Jann BlackstoneIn this insightful episode of Linda's Corner: Inspiration for a Better Life, we sit down with Dr. Jann Blackstone, a behavioral scientist, author of The Bonus Family Handbook, and the founder and director of the Bonus Families non-profit organization, a 501 c3 non-profit organization dedicated to peaceful coexistence between divorced or separated parents and their combined families. Dr. Blackstone shares her expertise on transforming the traditional concept of stepfamilies into a more positive and inclusive “bonus family” approach.With more bonus families existing today than traditional families, Dr. Blackstone explains how this dynamic provides a unique opportunity to expand love and support in a child's life. She introduces the C.A.R.E. model—Communication, Acceptance, Respect, and Empathy—as a powerful framework for fostering harmony within blended families.We also explore the importance of co-parenting with a present mindset, rather than focusing on past conflicts, and how to prioritize a child's emotional well-being. Dr. Blackstone offers a four-step conflict resolution guide to navigate challenges effectively:Identify the problemBring a possible solutionNegotiateCompromiseListeners will learn why using terms like “bonus mom” or “bonus child” creates a sense of belonging, how to ensure children feel safe and loved after a divorce, and why acceptance is the key to making bonus families thrive.Join us for an empowering conversation that will transform the way you view blended family dynamics and help create a more loving and supportive environment for everyone involved.Connect with Dr. Jann Blackstone:Website: https://bonusfamilies.com Thank you for supporting Linda's Corner! Please take a moment to share this episode, subscribe to the podcast, and leave a rating and review. Visit the Linda's Corner website at lindascornerpodcast.com, and follow us on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, and Pinterest @lindascornerpodcast.Discover free resources to increase happiness, build confidence, improve relationships, manage stress, and calm feelings of depression and anxiety at the Hope for Healing website: hopeforhealingfoundation.org.For a transformative experience in deep inner healing, visit healingbreathworkdetox.com—a digital platform offering life-changing results.Become the champion of your own story as you overcome life's challenges and unlock your full potential! 

In today's episode we speak to Esther Kuku about Stepparenting. Esther is a bio mum and Stepmum, and has been married for 12 years. She is passionate about step families and compassionate leadership. Stepping Up, her devotional for stepfamilies will be released in June 2026. Links: Send us your questions and stories at parentingforfaith.org/podcast or email us at parentingforfaith@brf.org.uk Preorder Esther's book, Stepping Up https://www.amazon.co.uk/Stepping-Up-Esther-Kuku/dp/1800394241 Book one of The Forge gatherings for children's, youth and family leaders https://www.parentingforfaith.brf.org.uk/theforge/ Thank you for listening today. If you are able to contribute to the cost of producing this podcast, please click here to give a one-off or regular gift: www.brf.org.uk/get-involved/give/ Parenting for Faith is part of the charity, BRF. We are reliant on donations from individuals and churches to make our resources available to as many people as possible. We are grateful for all donations, big or small. They make a real difference. Thank you so much for partnering with us.

We know firsthand that parenting in a blended family isn't the same as parenting in a first family. A biological parent's role is crucial in helping kids adjust to change, supporting step-relationships, and keeping things running smoothly.But here's the challenge—many bio parents either hold too tightly to their old parenting patterns or step back too quickly and expect their spouse to fill in. Both can create major tension.In this episode, we're breaking down the four key facets of parenting and defining the roles and responsibilities of the bio-parent: Meeting practical needs while avoiding unnecessary frictionProviding support while managing shifting priorities Teaching important life lessons  - and overcoming parental blind spotsDelivering discipline in a way that strengthens relationships rather than tearing them apartIf you've ever felt stuck between your kids and your spouse—or if you've struggled with guilt, fear, or parental paralysis—this episode is for you. You'll Discover:The most common 'easy wrong turns' that bio parents make when trying to “blend” the familyHow to avoid creating unnecessary frustration, and resentment in your homeWhy bio parents need to lead in discipline—and how to set step relationships up for successHow to provide boundaries and emotional support for your kids without letting guilt or fear take overStrategies for building an effective parenting partnership — even when you see things differentlyResources from this Episode:Episode 204. 4 Facets of Parenting:  Clarifying the Roles and Responsibilities (Part 1) Episode 163. How Intentionality Helped One Couple to Accomplish a Successful Blend [with Sean & Staci] Episode 81. How a Missing Bio-Parent Impacts Kids in the Delicate Blending Process (Part 1 of 2)Episode 132. How do loss and grief impact blended family integration?Episode 108. 3 Unity Breakers that are Detrimental to Your Connection and How You Can Avoid ThemEpisode 139. The Most Common, Challenging Pain Point Every Blended Couple Experiences (Trapped Teammate / Stranded Stranger Dynamic)Episode 168. Actionable Steps For Helping Kids Navigate Through Difficult Emotions and Problem SolveEpisode 49. Should your highest priority be your marriage - or your kids?Episode 25. How to Survive Time Alone with Your Step-Kids (Transfer of Power Strategy) Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child by John GottmanReady for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession

Emily Bouchard combines her academic learning, professional experience, and personal awareness to serve blended families. We talk about reframing stepfamilies to blended families, ex-partners to former partners, and bonus parents – examples of the importance of careful language and intentional communication to enable families to thrive. And we hear a taste of Emily's work with humans connecting with horses in transformational retreats.Emily mentions her book, Beginner's Guide to Purposeful Prenups. You can learn more about that and her work here: https://emilybouchard.com/Her recent article about the challenge of gray divorce can be found here: https://www.craincurrency.com/family-office-management/gray-divorce-and-remarriage-can-make-things-complicated-family-officeDo you have comments or suggestions about a topic or guest? An idea or question about conflict management or conflict resolution? Let me know at jb@dovetailresolutions.com! And you can learn more about me and my work as a mediator and a Certified CINERGY® Conflict Coach at www.dovetailresolutions.com and https://www.linkedin.com/in/janebeddall/.Enjoy the show for free on your favorite podcast app or on the podcast website: https://craftingsolutionstoconflict.com/  

ResourcesEpisode 136. How to Intentionally Create Positive Family Time and Reduce Relational TensionEpisode 149. How to "Blend" Holiday Traditions and Create Meaningful Connection This SeasonEpisode 85. How to Uniquely Build More Love and Connection in Your Blended Family [with Ron Deal]Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you to do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

Hey there, JOY SEEKER! Welcome back for more Jenn Juice. I'm Jenn Zingmark, your LDS life and divorce coach, here to help you navigate the challenges of divorce with faith, grace, and resilience. Today, we're tackling an important topic—how to build a good relationship with your stepfamily. Whether you're navigating this as a new stepparent, a stepchild, or even a biological parent helping to merge two families, it can be an emotional and complex journey. Recently, I had a conversation with a young adult named Anthony, who is preparing for a big transition when his father gets remarried—gaining a stepmother and step-siblings. His situation is unique, just like every stepfamily dynamic is, but the principles of building a strong and positive relationship remain the same. IIf you're in a similar situation or know someone who is, I want to share some key takeaways from my conversation with Anthony that can help you approach a new family dynamic with empathy, patience, and clarity. If you're stepping into a blended family dynamic, just know this—you are not alone in this experience. Every stepfamily has challenges, but with patience, understanding, and a willingness to take things one step at a time, strong and meaningful relationships can develop. So, if you're feeling unsure about your role, take a deep breath and remind yourself that this is a journey. Relationships are built over time through small moments of trust, kindness, and shared experiences. To Anthony—and anyone else navigating this process—I want to say: Give yourself and your stepfamily grace. It won't always be easy, but with a little effort and a lot of patience, you can build a stepfamily dynamic that feels like home. Thanks for tuning in today! If you found this episode helpful, share it with someone who might benefit from it. Feel free to reach out if you have any experiences or questions about stepfamily relationships. I'd love to hear from you. Joy Seekers, you are stronger than you think. You are not alone. And you are capable of rebuilding a beautiful, faith-filled life after divorce. You have more power than you think; your future is yours to create. Until next time, take care and keep building relationships that matter. Until next time, keep seeking joy, holding onto your faith, and moving forward confidently! Bye, Yall! • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program Faith Filled Divorce HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I'm honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I'd love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

Stepparenting raises many questions: What's my role? How involved should I be? What if my stepkids don't accept me? It's easy to make wrong turns without even realizing it.In this episode, we're delving into four key facets of parenting: meeting practical needs, providing support, teaching life lessons, and delivering discipline. We'll uncover the unique roles and responsibilities of a stepparent regarding each facet and define what's appropriate and inappropriate.If you're feeling frustrated, disconnected, or unsure how to navigate parenting in your blended family, this conversation is for you! We'll share best practices, real-life examples (yes, including our own!), and strategies to help you stay in your lane while building healthy bonds with your stepkids and strengthening your parenting partnership.You'll Discover:Why stepparents should focus on connection before correction How to support your stepkids and meet practical needs without overstepping or experiencing resentment The best approach for building genuine connection, trust, and respect with your stepkids Why delivering discipline too soon can backfire—and what to do insteadA simple but powerful strategy to create a strong parenting partnership with your spouse and reduce tension in your homeResources from this Episode:Episode 47. How to Like Your Stepchild Even When You're Feeling Frustrated and AnnoyedEpisode 39. How to Create Strong Bonds with Resistant StepkidsEpisode 9. A Surprisingly Simple Strategy for Bonding with Step-KidsEpisode 29. What is a Loyalty Bind and What Can You Do About It?Episode 102. 4 Revealing Myths About 1 on 1 Time Between Parents and their Bio-Kids (Part 1 of 2)Episode 192. A Simple Process to Navigate Sensitive Conversations About Each Other's KidsEpisode 25. How to Survive Time Alone with Your Step-Kids (Transfer of Power Strategy)Building Love Together in Blended Families by Ron Deal & Gary ChapmanStepparenting: Keeping it Sane by Charles Fay, Ph.D.In Their Shoes by Lauren ReitsemaPreparing to Blend by Ron DealReady for some extra support?Connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession

In today's episode, we're tackling a big one—happiness. More specifically, how YOUR happiness is an inside job, even when stepfamily stress is trying to bulldoze its way into your peace. If you've ever felt like your emotions are at the mercy of the ex, your stepkids, or the never-ending co-parenting drama, this episode is for you.Alicia breaks down:⁃ How stepmoms unknowingly give away their power and happiness⁃ Three practical ways to take back control (without the guilt)⁃ Why boundaries, mindset shifts, and self-care aren't selfish—they're survival⁃ How to stop letting external stress dictate your mood⁃ Why community and support make all the differenceIf you're ready to stop letting stepfamily chaos control your emotions and reclaim your peace, hit play now. And if you need support? The Stepmom Side Community is where you belong. Let's do this together!

Being a parent within the blended family dynamic is incredible! When things are hitting on all cylinders and we recognize traces of a ripple effect that we can trace back to our efforts, there's hardly a more satisfying feeling. There may also be moments when we ask, "what did I get myself into?" It's in these moments that we can begin to question whether we would have made the same decisions and taken that same path had we known what lay ahead. Listen in on this episode as I get real honest about the times that I've asked myself this same question, and I'll share a recent revelation that has completely changed my perspective! 

Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you to do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!Ready to join the Blending Together Community? Click this link: Blending Together Community — Blended Family Breakthrough

Get the Couples Therapy 101 course: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/ Join the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new Join The Couples Therapist Couch Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/295562197518469/ In this episode, Shane talks with Karen Bonnell about co-parenting. Karen is the Author of The Co-Parenting Handbook and The Stepfamily Handbook, and has culled her knowledge and skills from 40 years as a psychotherapist & psychiatric nurse practitioner to inform her guidance for parents and families in transition. Hear how to do what's best for the kids, how to cooperate with your co-parent, how to navigate bringing a new partner into the mix, why there's no such thing as perfect parents, and how to focus on connection before correction.  To learn more about Karen Bonnell and check out The Co-Parenting Handbook and The Stepfamily Handbook, visit: KarenSBonnell.com KarenSBonnell.com/Karens-Books   You can also listen to Karen on Episode 36 & Episode 73 of The Couples Therapist Couch

Stepfamily Life From A Son's Perspective This week's guest isn't a stepmom. But he does have an interesting take on stepfamily life. Judge and author Anthony J. Mohr grew up with a father who had been a well-known radio actor who descended to the Hollywood B-list with the advent of television, and a stepfather who was a wealthy and successful businessman. In his award-winning book, Every Other Weekend: Coming of Age With Two Different Dads, Anthony discusses how he found his place between the two contrasting worlds while coming of age during a time when divorce was rare and often viewed as shocking. About Anthony: Anthony J. Mohr served for 26 years as a judge on the Superior Court of California, County of Los Angeles. He also sat as a judge pro tem on the California Court of Appeal. In January 2021, he became a fellow at the Advanced Leadership Initiative at Harvard University and is now a senior editor of the Harvard ALI Social Impact Review. His stories and essays have received six Pushcart Prize nominations. He has worked on the staffs of Evening Street Review, Fifth Wednesday Journal, Hippocampus Magazine, and Under the Sun. You Can Find Anthony: anthonyjmohr.com Want Your Question Answered On The Podcast? Got a question for me or something you're struggling with in your stepfamily life? Submit a question to be answered on a future podcast episode HERE If you're looking for some help with stepfamily communication, make sure you grab Smooth Talking: 10 Essential Stepmom Scripts - it will give you the exact words to use when you're trying to talk about some of the tricky stepfamily topics that come up on the regular. Are you enjoying The Stepmom Diaries? If so, please consider rating and reviewing the show. It will help me reach more stepmoms just like you so they can get MORE out of stepmom life! It's super easy – all you have to do is click HERE and scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “write a review.” Then just let me know what you like best! And the best part about leaving a review? If you send me a screenshot of your review, I'll send YOU my 20-minute Stepmom Self-Care Blueprint. For FREE. It's normally $49 and it's a great tool to quickly set up a self-care plan you'll actually use. Just head HERE to send me your screenshot and grab your blueprint!

 In this episode, we're delving into a common challenge for blended family couples: decision-making and problem-solving. Whether managing kids' expectations, negotiating with an ex, or facing the pain of being a “trapped teammate” or “stranded stranger,” disagreement and differing perspectives can create tension and keep you stuck.We've been there ourselves, and we share relatable stories, including a meltdown at the mall over a swimsuit and how it almost derailed our unity. Plus, we unpack practical strategies that have been game-changers for us and the couples we coach. We believe every blended couple needs a strategy for decision-making and problem-solving that helps them stay united and avoid confusion, pain, and disconnection.  Grab a coffee, sit back, and let's tackle this together.You'll DiscoverHow to avoid falling into the "trapped teammate" or "stranded stranger" dynamic.Three key “DON'TS” that will safeguard your relationship from unnecessary conflict.A powerful brainstorming hack to make decisions and solve problems as a united team.How to manage decision-making pressures from kids and ex-spouses.Practical tips to stay connected and strengthen teamwork in tough moments.Resources from this EpisodeEpisode 202. How to Break Free from Painful Cycles and Enjoy Deeper Levels of Intimacy [with Ron and Nan Deal]Episode 21:  What is the Stranded Stranger & Trapped Teammate ExperienceEpisode 22:  One Simple - and Romantic - Way to Combat Being Stranded or Trapped Episode 23:  How to Move From Feeling Stranded to Being ConnectedEpisode 24:  What if You Could Relieve the Trapped Teammate Pressure?Episode 95:  Do You Dread Negotiating Schedule Changes with your Ex - Try These 5 Practical TipsEpisode 13:  How to Parent as a Team in Your Blended FamilyEpisode 83:  4 Everyday Favoritism Traps that Dishearten Kids in a Blended FamilyReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesessionLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part Ready to join the Blending Together Community? Click this link: Blending Together Community — Blended Family Breakthrough Ready to join the Blending Together Community? Click this link: Blending Together Community — Blended Family Breakthrough

ResourcesEpisode 202. How to Break Free from Painful Cycles and Enjoy Deeper Levels of Intimacy [with Ron & Nan Deal]Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

Welcome to the Nacho Kids Podcast. In this episode, Lori sits down with our guest to delve into the intricate dynamics of blended families. Our guest shares poignant experiences from her life, starting with her father's remarriage and extending to her journey as a stepmother. We explore the early stages of blending families, the delicate process of introducing her two children to her new husband, and the joys and challenges of family traditions. The guest opens up about the emotional turmoil and boundaries set with her stepdaughter and the tension caused by the stepdaughter's biological mother. We'll also hear reflections on parenting after loss, navigating financial entanglements, and the significance of maintaining boundaries for personal growth. Tune in as we unpack the complexities of family, love, and resilience in this intimate discussion about building a cohesive family unit amidst life's ever-changing landscapes. Let's dive right in! In this episode, we discuss: Emotional Turmoil Managing Social Media and Family Privacy Emotional and Logistical Complexities Parental Alienation Nacho Kids testimonial: Transforming Our Family "The Nacho Kids Method completely changed our blended family. By stepping back and letting my partner parent, I found peace and clarity. Our home is calmer, and I've built stronger relationships without the constant stress. It truly saved us!" - Sarah T.

The step-sibling relationship can be tough to navigate. At times you hear about the kids getting along as if they've been reunited with a long lost sibling. In other cases, it doesn't seem as if they can even stand being in the same room together. At the end of the day, the kids have likely experienced more than their fair share of pain. This makes it especially difficult for them to accept the significant changes that comes with blending a family. During this episode we acknowlege the experience of our kids and what may cause strain in their relationship as well as how we as parents can promote peace and loving connection with our efforts and example.  Give proper attention to your mental wealth in 2025 by taking advantage of the Magic Mind 24 hour pack! Through the month of January the focus and sleep shots are bundled together at 45% off!  Just use my link this month get the deal - https://www.magicmind.com/BLENDEDJAN #magicmind #mentalwealth #mentalperformance

No one enjoys being in conflict with their spouse.  But the reality for every couple is that conflict is unavoidable.We all experience disagreement that leads to conflict.  But there's a big difference between doing conflict well versus spiraling into unproductive patterns where we say and do things that at best aren't helpful and at worst erode love and trust in  our relationship.You can probably relate.  Your spouse does something that triggers a painful emotion and you react.  You might blame, shame yourself, take control, or try to avoid the whole situation.  It's natural and normal for all of us to react these ways, but you don't have to stay stuck in unproductive, damaging patterns.  You can learn to do conflict well,  just like we have!In this episode, our friends Ron and Nan Deal share their personal journey.  After hitting rock bottom in their marriage, finding restoration, and discovering the tools that transformed their relationship, they've written an amazing book called The Mindful Marriage.  Their new book breaks down powerful concepts into relatable, practical steps for couples everywhere.Ron and Nan are popular speakers who specialize in restoration therapy, blended families, and supporting grieving parents. Ron, a bestselling author, licensed marriage and family therapist, and podcaster, also serves as a senior director at FamilyLife. Nan, a retired teacher, now champions her community through Live Thankfully.From navigating destructive cycles of conflict and emotional pain to increasing love, trust, and intimacy in your relationship — today's conversation is full of hope, encouragement, and actionable wisdom!What You'll Learn:Identifying and breaking free from pain cycles in your relationship.Practical steps to create a “peace cycle” that strengthens love and trust.Insights into how family history impacts marriage dynamics.Why emotional regulation is a game-changer for blended families.The importance of “usness” in building a thriving relationship.Resources Mentioned:The Mindful Marriage by Ron and Nan DealRestoration Therapy model by Dr. Terry HargraveBonus materials are available at RonDeal.orgReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesessionLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

Welcome to NK Podcast Shared, Episode 294. In this episode, Lori sits down with our guest to delve into the intricate dynamics of blended families. Our guest shares poignant experiences from her life, starting with her father's remarriage and extending to her journey as a stepmother. We explore the early stages of blending families, the delicate process of introducing her children to her new husband, and the joys and challenges of family traditions. The guest opens up about the emotional turmoil and boundaries set with her stepdaughter and the tension caused by the stepdaughter's biological mother. We'll also hear reflections on parenting after loss, navigating financial entanglements, and the significance of maintaining boundaries for personal growth. Tune in as we unpack the complexities of family, love, and resilience in this intimate discussion about building a cohesive family unit amidst life's ever-changing landscapes. Let's dive right in! In this episode, we discuss: Emotional Turmoil and Stepdaughter's Relationship Progression Managing Social Media and Family Privacy Emotional and Logistical Complexities Parental Alienation Nacho Kids testimonial: Transforming Our Family "The Nacho Kids Method completely changed our blended family. By stepping back and letting my partner parent, I found peace and clarity. Our home is calmer, and I've built stronger relationships without the constant stress. It truly saved us!" – Sarah T.

Send us a textTune in to the Modern Arizona Podcast where we chat with Brittney Phillips, founder of Blending Bravely. Brittney shares her personal journey through the challenges of blending families, discussing the difficulties step-parents and kids often face, and offering tips on improving family dynamics. She covers everything from handling kids' loyalty conflicts to setting up a home where everyone feels safe and respected.Want more insights or need some guidance?Check out Brittney's website:www.blendingbravely.comEmail her: contact@blendingbravely.comFollow her journey:Facebook: www.facebook.com/blendingbravelyHit that like button, subscribe for more discussions, and drop your thoughts in the comments!

ResourcesEpisode 139:  The Most Common, Challenging Pain Point Every Blended Couple ExperiencesSuggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

Considering everything that a child experiences within the blended family, it makes sense that their happiness is would be such a high priority. For other parents, it's also very difficult to take emphasis away from the development of their character and skills because those areas aren't getting enough attention. Which parent are you?? Doing right by our children and raising them with their best interest in mind is no easy task. This is not an outcome that we'll ever achieve if we remain on autopiolot! We have to be intentional about the outcomes that we want for our children and how we'll go about achieving them.  Give proper attention to your mental wealth in 2025 by taking advantage of the Magic Mind 24 hour pack! Through the month of January the focus and sleep shots are bundled together at 45% off!  Just use my link this month get the deal - https://www.magicmind.com/BLENDEDJAN #magicmind #mentalwealth #mentalperformance

How serious are you about creating enjoyment and fun in your relationship (and in your home)?You probably started off your relationship experiencing lots of enjoyment as you were getting to know each other and falling in love.  But as the busyness and stress of blended family life set in, maybe your enjoyment started to wane a bit. The truth is, if you want to increase enjoyment and safeguard your relationship, then you've got to take FUN seriously!Our friends Rich and Christa blended their family 13 years ago.  Although they've had their share of ups and downs, they've managed to make fun a top priority……and they've reaped the benefits of deep connection, laughter, and genuine enjoyment in their relationship (and in their home).Rich and Christa are on a mission to strengthen marriages and families in a culture that's losing hope.  They want to help couples avoid the tragedy of divorce and enjoy a thriving marriage full of joy, friendship, and fun.Join us for a raucous conversation as Rich and Christa share practical — and serious — ways they've discovered to increase fun and how you can do the same.What You'll LearnWhy fun is a safeguard for your marriage and how it deepens connection.How to create a family culture of fun, even in challenging stepfamily dynamics.The importance of “micro-moves of fun” and small intentional gestures.Practical ways to align your schedule and priorities to boost enjoyable couple time.How to balance personal expectations with the realities of blended family life.Resources MentionedEpisode 200.  A Heart-to-Heart Conversation Exploring the Secrets to Lasting Love Click here to connect with Rich and ChristaBook by John Gottman:  7 Principles for Making Marriage WorkBook by Sam Jolman:  The Sex Talk You Never GotClick here to learn more about Weekend to Remember marriage eventsTo learn more about our Relate Strong program, CLICK HERE to schedule your FREE coaching callEpisode 136. How to Intentionally Create Positive Family Time and Reduce Relational TensionEpisode 146. Friendship and Connection or Friction and Distance - what's the state of your relationship?Actionable TakeawaysDefine Your Fun: Identify activities you and your spouse enjoy and prioritize them in your schedule.Celebrate Small Wins: Whether it's playful traditions like funny birthday cake messages or silly rituals, embrace the small moments.Move at Your Child's Pace: Honor your stepchild's readiness for connection without pushing. Small cracks in the door can lead to big breakthroughs over time.Model Connection: Let your kids see you laughing and enjoying each other—it's a powerful way to teach them about healthy relationships.Invest in Growth: Attend retreats, read books together, or explore coaching prAre you ready to join the Blending Together Community? Click this link: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogether

ResourcesEpisode 151. What has the potential to steal your joy and how can you hold onto it?  (Part 1 of 2)Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed to or following the podcast yet? If not, we encourage you to do so today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

ResourcesEpisode 200.  A Heart-to-Heart Conversation Exploring the Secrets to Lasting LoveEpisode 165. How important is your mindset when it comes to blended family life?Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

Can you believe it? We've made it to our 200th episode!

ResourcesArticle by Big Life Journey:  7 Effective Ways to Help Children Overcome Social AnxietyEpisode 136. How to Intentionally Create Positive Family Time and Reduce Relational TensionSuggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!Are you ready to join the Blending Together Community? Click this link: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogether