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Welcome to the KSL Greenhouse show! Join hosts Maria Shilaos and Taun Beddes as they talk about all things plants, tackle your toughest gardening questions, and offer tips that can help you maintain a beautiful yard. Listen on Saturdays from 8am to 11am at 102.7 FM, 1160 AM, kslnewsradio.com, or on the KSL NewsRadio app. Follow us on Facebook and Instagram at @kslgreenhouse. Happy planting! #KSLGreenhouse    9:05  Feature: Growing Vegetables in Containers  9:20  How much can I prune my overgrown rose bushes without killing them? When should I plant my blackberry bushes? When’s the best time to spray Florel on my apple tree to stop producing?  9:35  What do I need to know about planting milkweed to be successful? When and how can I prune my peach and nectarine trees? When should I prune my Concord grapes? Is the care of calla lilies like that of dahlia bulbs? What do I need to do to prevent cane borers on my raspberries? Can I graft another apple onto my Gala apple and a peach onto my nectarine tree?  9:50  What’s the best way to prevent peach borers? What’s the difference between growing plants in hydroponic towers and in aeroponic towers? Should I put some cover on my garlic starts? Can we expect fire blight in the Tooele area? Is there a way to sterilize my cherry tree so that it doesn’t produce cherries every year? 

fWotD Episode 2857: Beverly White Welcome to Featured Wiki of the Day, your daily dose of knowledge from Wikipedia’s finest articles.The featured article for Saturday, 1 March 2025 is Beverly White.Beverly Jean White (née Larson; September 2, 1928 – May 24, 2021) was an American politician who served in the Utah House of Representatives for the 57th, 64th, or 21st districts from 1971 to 1991, as a member of the Democratic Party. The longest-serving consecutive female member of the Utah State Legislature as of her death, White held multiple positions in the Democratic Party at the local, state, and national levels and attended many state and national conventions.Born in Salt Lake City and raised in Tooele, Utah, White was educated at Tooele High School. She entered politics with her involvement in the Tooele County Democratic Ladies Club and later became active in the Tooele County Democratic Party. White served as vice-chair of the Tooele County Democratic Party, secretary of the Utah Democratic Party for sixteen years, and on the Rules Committee of the Democratic National Committee. She was a delegate to multiple state conventions of the Utah Democratic Party and was a delegate to every Democratic National Convention from 1964 to 2004, with the exception of 1976 when she was an alternate delegate.Governor Cal Rampton appointed White to the Utah Board of Pardons in 1965, her first public office. She was on the board until 1971, when she was appointed to fill a vacancy in the state house created by Representative F. Chileon Halladay's death. During her tenure in the state house she served as assistant whip while in the majority and minority and was at times the only female chair of a committee. She failed to be reelected in 1990 to Republican nominee Merrill Nelson. White also served on a hospital board, wrote a book about female legislators, and aided in the creation of a satellite campus for Utah State University.This recording reflects the Wikipedia text as of 00:48 UTC on Saturday, 1 March 2025.For the full current version of the article, see Beverly White on Wikipedia.This podcast uses content from Wikipedia under the Creative Commons Attribution-ShareAlike License.Visit our archives at wikioftheday.com and subscribe to stay updated on new episodes.Follow us on Mastodon at @wikioftheday@masto.ai.Also check out Curmudgeon's Corner, a current events podcast.Until next time, I'm standard Joanna.

In this episode of the Journey of My Mother's Son podcast, I talk with Joe Engler. Joe played for our organization back in 2003.  He was on our Atlantic Collegiate Baseball League (ACBL) team between his sophomore and junior seasons at Minot State University in North Dakota.  I refer to him as one of my old players, but he never actually played a game for me, he just played in our organization.  He was one of the players who I really connected with while he was with us. Joe and I talk about the life lessons that the game of baseball taught him and how he is using them today in both his work and personal life.  Joe is now an Associate Professor and Director of School Psychology at Gonzaga University. Dr. Engler received his BA in psychology at Minot State University in Minot, ND and his Ph.D. in school psychology at The University of South Dakota in Vermillion, SD. Dr. Engler began his professional career as a school psychologist in Tooele, UT and remains active in the profession through advocacy and leadership at the local, state, and national level. Dr. Engler holds the Nationally Certified School Psychologist credential through the National Association of School Psychologists and is a diplomate in school neuropsychology through the American Board of School Neuropsychology. His research interests include preschool assessment, critical evaluation of psychometric tests, and parental involvement. Joe recently co-authored his second book titled, “Essentials of Addressing Infants, Toddlers, and Pre-schoolers.”  It will be released in early April of 2025. We wrap the conversation up by talking about Joe's recent love for playing music.  He, his wife, and a group of friends recently started the cover band, Close Enough, in which Joe plays lead guitar. Joe was also inducted into the Minot State University Hall of Fame in September of 2024. If you're ever in the Spokane area and want to see the band play somewhere, check them out on social media on either Instagram or Facebook.

“Getting that VBAC meant everything to me. It helped so much with the trauma of it all.”At 36 weeks along with her first, Ashley started to have intense carpal tunnel pain. At 38 weeks, it was unbearable. Her provider said that delivery would be the only way to find relief and recommended a 39-week induction. Ashley had a difficult labor and pushing experience. Her provider recommended a C-section due to a cervical lip and no progress after just an hour and a half. Ashley consented and felt defeated. She started her VBAC prep the day she got home from the hospital. At 29 weeks with her second, Ashley had plans for a beautiful trip to Saint Thomas with her husband and toddler. She began contracting the night before her flight but didn't think much of it and made it to their gate– while still contracting. As the plane was boarding, she passed a blood clot in the airport. She knew she needed to go to the hospital. In spite of many interventions trying to stop labor, Ashley birthed her baby via VBAC just hours later. She later learned that she had a possible placental abruption that wasn't detected until her doctor examined her placenta after delivery. Though Ashley's postpartum experience was tough balancing life with a newborn in the NICU for 8 weeks while having a toddler at home, the victory of having a VBAC carried her through. The power of a positive birth experience is real and worth fighting for!Pregnancy-Related Carpal Tunnel ArticleHow to VBAC: The Ultimate Prep Course for ParentsFull Transcript under Episode Details Meagan: Hello, Women of Strength. It is Meagan with my friend, Ashley. Hello, Ashley. Ashley: Hi. Meagan: How are you today? Ashley: I am good. How are you doing?Meagan: I am doing great. I'm loving all of the stories we are recording and so excited to hear yours. You have a more unique VBAC in the sense that it was a very premature VBAC. Ashley: Mhmm, yep. Meagan: Yes. We are going to talk a little bit more about that. You're going to share information for NICU moms because your baby did go to the NICU. You are a mom of two and a children's therapist. Can you tell us a little bit more about what you do for work? Ashley: Yeah. I work with kids ages 4-18. Right now, I'm Telehealth only. I actually work in Tooele, Utah, but I live in North Carolina. Everything is Telehealth. It happened with COVID. I was out there during COVID. We moved and continued to do Telehealth since I've moved. I really only see 10 and up at this point. Yeah. I see a lot of teenagers all through Telehealth and it's really wonderful that I get to keep that up. Meagan: That's so awesome. That's awesome that you got to keep doing it, and that you are serving our children. I'm sure that you have lots to say about our children and their mental health that is going on out there, but there is a lot. It is a lot of these kiddos of ours. Ashley: Absolutely, yeah. It's hard and challenging, but it's also really wonderful and rewarding. I love that I get to do it. Meagan: Yeah. Well, thank you so much for all of your hard work out there. Ashley: Yeah, absolutely. Meagan: We do have a Review of the Week, so I want to get into that, then I really want to turn the time over to share both of these journeys. This review is from Sienna. It says, “After having a very hard conversation with my OB where I learned she was in fact not VBAC tolerant or friendly, I texted my best friend through tears pouring down my face and she immediately sent me a text back with The VBAC Link Podcast. Ever since, I have been listening to every episode of the podcast. It is so beyond helpful and inspiring for anyone preparing for a VBAC. I'm due at the September, and have made the goal to listen to every single episode before then. I can't say enough for what Meagan and Julie are doing for women like me. I can't wait to rock my VBAC.” Oh, I love that review. Thank you so much, Sienna, and I can't wait for you to have an incredible VBAC. Way to go for realizing that your provider may not be the right provider for you. I think there are so many people who walk through the VBAC journey who think they may have a supportive provider, then at the very last minute, they are having those conversations and realizing, “Oh, shoot. I may not be in the right place.” It is okay to switch and keep interviewing and discussing with your provider. If your provider doesn't feel like talking to you about your VBAC or says, “You've got months to go. We don't need to talk about that right now,” those might be red flags and things you might want to reconsider. Thank you, Sienna, for your review. If you haven't yet, please leave a review. You can Google us at “The VBAC Link” or you can leave it on the podcast platform that you are listening to us on.  Okay, Ashley. Thank you again so much for being here with us. Ashley: Yeah, absolutely. I'm so happy to be here. I never thought I would be. When I was preparing for my VBAC, I was listening every single day during my walks and I just thought, “Oh, if I get a VBAC, that would be wonderful,” but I never thought I would ever be on the show. It's crazy and wild to be here. Meagan: I love it. The more and more that we record, we learn that it goes full circle. We're in your ear all pregnancy with all these Women of Strength sharing their stories, inspiring you, building you up, and now, here you are inspiring and building others up as well. Ashley: Yeah. Yeah. It's cool to be here. Do you want me to talk about my first?Meagan: Yeah. Yeah. Every VBAC starts with a C-section, so let's start with your C-section story. Ashley: Yeah, for sure. For my first birth with my son, it was a pretty easy pregnancy for the most part. There were a couple of hiccups here and there. I had morning sickness in the beginning in the first trimester, but everything else was pretty smooth. At 13 weeks, I had a spell where I had a lot of bleeding. That was terrifying. I thought I was miscarrying. I called my provider and panicked. That was just the worst 4 hours of my life because I continuously bleed. They finally got me in for an ultrasound. They checked me and he was just really active and bouncing. They never knew why it happened, but I was fine. Meagan: Did they ever say anything about a subchorionic hematoma or anything like that?Ashley: That kind of sounds familiar, so that could have been it for sure, but I don't remember. But it stopped. After my ultrasound, the bleeding was done, and everything was fine. It was the weirdest thing, but definitely so scary. Yeah, it was terrifying. That was bad, and after that, after the first trimester, my morning sickness went away and everything was good for the most part. What happened though, I took birth classes. I took breastfeeding classes. I didn't do a ton of research. I just took my little birth class, and I thought that was enough. I actually think I skipped the C-section part. I was like, “I'm not going to need that.” I don't know why I was so weirdly confident that I was going to be able to have a vaginal birth, but it literally was something that I'm like, “I'm good,” and I didn't put much thought into it. I don't know why I did that. Meagan: A lot of people do. It's not what we want. It's not what we think is going to happen, so we just push it aside. Ashley: Yeah. Yeah. I didn't do any research at all, so I didn't need to know about that. I didn't want it obviously, so yeah. Everything was good until about 36 weeks I would say. I started to get carpal tunnel and it just got progressively worse and worse. It was bad. The last month of my pregnancy, it was unbearable. My fingers and wrists were numb 24/7. It was waking me up at night how painful my hands and fingers were. I couldn't do little things. I couldn't put a necklace on anymore. I couldn't put my earrings in because I couldn't use my fingers. It was so bad, and it was something I didn't know happened. It was pregnancy-induced carpal tunnel. I had so much swelling in my body. That's what they said it was. My midwife who I had found and really loved, she referred me to PT. I did that. I did wrist braces every night, and nothing helped. I kind of knew that was going to happen just doing some research. They say the only thing that gets rid of it is delivering your baby basically. Meagan: Do they know why it really starts? Is it something within the blood flow? Do we know? We don't know. Ashley: I don't know. My midwife just chalked it up to the swelling. My carpal tunnel was being squeezed by the swelling. I'm pretty petite as is, and then I was carrying so much water and so much weight that I think for me, my body just didn't respond well. I had the carpal tunnel. That was at 36 weeks when it started getting pretty bad. There wasn't a lot we could do about it. I really didn't want to have an induction. I didn't know much about it either. I didn't do a ton of research, but I knew I didn't want it. I just knew I wanted it to all go as naturally as possible and for my baby to come on his own timeline. By 38 weeks, I was miserable. I was like, “I don't think I can do this.” I was pretty big and uncomfortable, but that wasn't the part that was killing me. It was the carpal tunnel. It was bad. My provider said that we could do the membrane sweep each week. We did it at 38 weeks. We did it at 39 weeks, and we decided that if nothing happened after my second sweep, we would think about an induction. I was ready. I had to stop working a week before I even wanted to because I couldn't type anymore. It hurt to type, and I do a lot of assessments with my job where I am typing all of the time, using my mouse and keyboard. It was just awful. We did the membrane sweep at 39 weeks and nothing happened. I was curb walking. I was eating the dates. I was doing the things and drinking the tea. Nothing. So at 39+5, I got admitted for my induction at 8:00 PM. They did a Foley bulb, then they did the Cervadil I believe. That was all fine. I think they also gave me morphine. I think that's when they did that to manage pain. I looked at my notes, but it's kind of hard. Some things aren't super clear. But either way, I got a really bad rash. At the time, they thought it was PUPPS, but looking back, they thought it was a reaction to the morphine. Meagan: Oh shoot. Ashley: Yeah. I was so horribly itchy. Meagan: Yeah, that's miserable. You're in pain and itchy. Ashley: Yeah, and the carpal tunnel was still active. That was still happening. I don't remember it being super uncomfortable with the Foley bulb. I was more scared of it. I was more scared than it actually was painful. I was okay. I handled it okay. So then my water broke at 2:00 AM I believe. The Foley bulb came out and they started the Pitocin by 8:00 AM I believe because I wasn't moving enough. I wasn't dilating enough. My water broke at 2:00 AM. It was in at 8:00 AM. I started an epidural, I think, at 5:00 AM before the Pitocin because I was just in a lot of pain. That epidural, though, was done by a resident which I didn't know at the time. That was one thing I really didn't want. It wasn't placed correctly, and I had a ton of breakthrough pain. It was horrible. They actually ended up rethreading that at, I don't know, 4 hours later. They had to rethread the epidural, remove it, and put it back in by someone else. It was so bad. Meagan: You just had all of the things coming at you. Ashley: Yeah. I just say everything was botched from the start. It was during COVID. There wasn't a lot of staff. I felt ignored. There were hours when I didn't see anybody. The Pitocin wasn't managed very well either. I feel like they never really increased it. Like I said, after they started Pitocin, I didn't see anybody for 4 hours. It was absolutely horrible. Meagan: Wow. So they were just outside watching your strip, and you were doing okay so they were like, “All right, we'll just leave her.” Ashley: I think so. There were no providers. There was barely anybody on staff. I shouldn't say nobody was on staff. I should say that every single room was booked. They were at capacity, and they were low-staffed. It was just not great. I started Pitocin. I finally got to 8 centimeters. I had really, really bad back pain still, and then that was when the epidural was rethreaded or redone. So then it was just waiting for me to progress, but I couldn't feel anything at that point. I think I was just maxed out on pain stuff on the epidural being rethreaded. I had no control over my body whatsoever. I couldn't feel my legs. I couldn't get up and move. It was so awful. I couldn't feel contractions. I could see it on the monitor, and they would tell me I was having a contraction, but I couldn't feel anything. By 5:00 PM, they told me, “Okay, it's time to push.” I had no urges to push because I couldn't feel anything. I started pushing. I remember just being really out of it because of the epidural. That, and I'm sure there was morphine still. I was just out of it. I did not feel good or in control of my body. I just remember they told me to push. I was pushing for an hour and a half. Every time, they'd be like, “Okay, it's time to push.” I would try to push, but I felt like nothing was happening. I couldn't feel anything. Meagan: Yeah.Ashley: Yeah. I think that was probably the biggest reason why I had a C-section. I blame it on the no feeling and no control of my body. They had me push for an hour and a half, then they said that it wasn't happening enough. I was at 9.5 centimeters. They could see his head, but they said there was a cervical lip. They told me I wasn't getting past it is kind of what they said. They said, “You're not going to be able to get past it.” So after an hour and a half, they told me– well, my midwife, and she wasn't my midwife. She was whoever was on staff. She said, “I think we should talk about different options.” C-section came into it. She didn't think I was going to get past the cervical lip. I stalled, so they had an OB come in and talk to me. They said, “Let's bring him in and get his opinion.” He said the same thing, “I just don't think you're getting past this lip, and I think a C-section is the best course.” Looking back, I'm like, “I pushed for an hour and a half and they never tried to move me.” Given I couldn't feel my body, they never tried to reposition me. Now, I know that if that had happened, give me some pressure. Help me sit up. Maybe I could put some pressure on it. I know it's swollen, so putting pressure could have made it worse, but I just think there could have been so much more done that wasn't done. Meagan: Yeah, and sometimes those cervical lips are baby's head positioning. We've been pushing and aggravating the cervix, so rotating and getting the pressure off of the wrong spot and equalizing the pressure, or getting it over can help. Or sometimes that's what it needs. It's not the swelling, the cervix is just there, and it hasn't progressed all the way, so pushing, and pushing, and pushing against that is what causes that swelling. Then movement, time, or rest– there are so many things. There are things like Benadryl or things like that and things to help swelling, but that's unfortunate. They were understaffed, so I bet they were like, “We just have to have this baby.” Ashley: I think that's a lot to do with it. I felt a lot of pressure to just get the C-section. No other interventions were offered. Nobody talked about moving. Nobody talked about letting me rest. Now I know, afterward, when I was prepping with my second birth, I was like, “Yeah, I should rest. Yeah, I should let my body move. Yes, there are things I should do.” I didn't want an epidural, or I didn't want one that strong. That was a huge mistake in my eyes. I had an epidural with my second and it was great, but with my first, they just overdosed me. They gave me way too much. I went to the OR. I had my baby via C-section. I was so out of it. They gave me more pain meds back there because they were going to cut me open, then I couldn't feel my arms when I pulled my son out. They kept trying to hand him to me, and I could not move my arms. I was like, “Please stop.” It was so traumatic because I couldn't hold him, and they kept trying to give him to me. Everything was a blur for a while. I woke up in the recovery room. I didn't get to hold my baby for 2 hours after he was born just because I was so out of it. Then I got to hold him eventually. We were back in my room. I was there for a couple of days. Yeah. Recovering from that emotionally and physically was so hard. I didn't prep for it. I didn't expect it, and looking back, I was angry that it went the way it went. I feel like it didn't have to. He ended up being 9lbs, 1oz. His head was in the 97th percentile. He had a massive head, and he was a big baby, but I do think things could have gone a lot differently. Meagan: Did he have any swelling on any part of his head that would have indicated things like asyncliticism or a bruise or anything on his head from pushing?Ashley: No, but he had a cone head. He had a very– Meagan: Okay, so he was coning and getting caput. Okay. Ashley: That's it, yeah. Meagan: Okay. I was just wondering if there was anything specific to a positional thing, but it might have just been that your cervix wasn't fully progressed before you started pushing. Ashley: Yeah, I think that had a lot to do with it. When you think about it, I was admitted at 8:00 PM. He was born at 8:00 PM. It was 24 hours and I was on my back the whole time. I was not being moved. I was not being repositioned. Like I said, there was not a lot of staff around. I was ignored. I didn't know any better. I didn't know what I should or should not be doing. I didn't know that I should be moving. I think that had a lot to do with it, a lack of moving around and I was just on my back. Meagan: Yeah. Yeah. So had him and did you immediately know you wanted a different experience or were you just such in shock with everything that you couldn't even process that? Ashley: I knew I wanted a different experience. I remember being in my bed the day we brought my day home in the bassinet, and I remember being on Instagram just looking up C-section groups and support. That's when VBAC came to mind. I was like, okay. I can have a VBAC. I can do it differently next time. We only wanted two kids, so I knew that was my chance. For my second pregnancy, I really had to dedicate myself to how my body would allow, but that was so important to me right away, to have a VBAC. Meagan: Yeah. Did you immediately find a lot of resources? Ashley: I did. I believe that's when I started following The VBAC Link. I believe that's when it happened. There were some other C-section mama groups and stuff that I followed. That was really helpful. I would read people's comments and it brought me so much relief to know other people had experiences like mine and the way I was feeling was normal. That was super helpful. Meagan: Yeah. There's something about having that community behind you, validating you, helping you feel like you're not alone in this world going through this, you're not alone in this world wanting something different. A lot of people will say, “Why can't you just be grateful? Why are you trying to figure out a new pregnancy and birth when you're not even pregnant? You just got this beautiful newborn.” It's not that I don't love my newborn, and I don't want this time with my newborn, but I'm starting my journey now to have a different experience. It's okay that I didn't like my experience. I still love my baby. Ashley: Yeah. That was what I heard a lot. I heard, “At least your baby is here and they're healthy.” I know that was just well-intentioned, but yeah. That was really traumatic. My baby is here. My baby was healthy, and it was wonderful that he was born happy and healthy, but I didn't feel right about it. I felt like I didn't have control. I felt like I didn't have a choice. I felt really pressured, and I didn't have the birth that I expected to have. That was just really, really difficult. Meagan: Yeah. You also went through a lot between the reaction, but then also with carpal tunnel. You were restricted to even move your fingers, then in your birth, you couldn't even move your arms. It went heavier. My spinal also went higher with my second up into my lungs and into my arms. I remember feeling that panicked feeling just laying there. Everyone was doing their thing and I was like, “Oh, is this going to stop? How am I going to hold my baby?” and all of those feelings. Ashley: Yeah. Meagan: Well, okay. So you had this precious baby. You decided you wanted a different experience and how did that experience start? Ashley: Yeah. The second time around, I should say with my first that it took us a while to get pregnant. It took us 13 months. I was thinking– I don't know why it took so long. We were really trying. I was thinking that maybe that would happen again. I was mentally preparing for that. We had been trying for a couple of months. We moved. Right when we started trying was when we moved another state to North Carolina. I needed to find a provider. After getting settled for a couple months and had been trying for a couple of months, I found a provider who had really great reviews. I thought, this is great. I got in with her. That was really just to first get checked up, and then second, to have a plan for if we can't get pregnant in the next couple of months, what should we do? I was thinking about that one medication you can take that releases more eggs. I wanted to ask about that because almost 35 and I wanted to be on top of it. I met with her. She was really nice, but immediately, she didn't read my chart. She didn't know about my first birth. I had to tell her about it and give her that information. After I explained what happened, she basically said that it sounded like it was an anatomy thing for me. One, it was anatomy. I said right away, “I want a VBAC. This is my goal, absolutely.” After I told her my story, she said, “Well, that sounds like anatomy. When it's that, you're more likely to have a repeat C-section.” She was like, “I'll let you try, but the odds are that you're probably going to have a C-section.” I felt so defeated when I left that appointment. I kind of just accepted it and thought, okay. That's probably what's going to happen. She's the expert. She's got great reviews. She must know. I left that appointment and again, did some research, and I started seeing that it was not really true. You still can have a VBAC. What she was telling me was not true. I needed to find a different provider. That's what that meant. I just left it at that and waited. The next month, we got pregnant which was amazing. It only took us 5 months that time which I wasn't expecting. It was super exciting. I did research for VBAC-friendly providers. I found the most wonderful doctor. Her practice is pretty much all women doctors and midwives. They're all VBAC-supportive. When I met with my doctor, she said, “That's what I prefer. 100%, I prefer to do a VBAC. I think it's safer. I would much rather do that than a repeat C-section.” She was very gung-ho and it was great. As soon as we met, she already knew my chart. She read my previous birth. That was super refreshing. I didn't have to tell her anything and she had a plan for me. She said, “If you want a VBAC, this is going to be the plan. We're going to do everything we can to avoid any type of induction and intervention. That's what we want to do.” About the carpal tunnel, it was likely to come back because it was about my body, and it was more my body and my anatomy, and how I handle swelling. The carpal tunnel was likely to happen again, but the problem was the first time around, I got induced because of carpal tunnel. If this comes back, what are we going to do? She started me on a baby aspirin right away. That was more because I ended up having preeclampsia after I gave birth. Meagan: Postpartum-eclampsia. Ashley: Yes, yep. That didn't didn't affect me that much, but yeah. She said, “We want to prevent that, so at 10 weeks, I want you taking baby aspirin.” She said, “If carpal tunnel comes back, I think we should do steroid shots and that should be able to help with the pain. It will help you manage the pain, so we can get to birth without induction or interventions.” Right there, I felt so much relief because that was the reason induction happened the first time around, but I also was a little angry because I was like, why didn't my first midwife ever talk about that? It was never brought up. It was only PT. I don't know why that way, but again if I would have had that, I think I could have had a much better pregnancy the first time around. Meagan: Yeah, and gone through a lot less pain. Ashley: More manageable. Yeah, so I left that appointment feeling really good. I found this wonderful provider, and things were going to go differently this time around. I asked about this time if my baby was bigger, and she said, “No, it's not about weight. It's not about how big your baby is. It's about the way the head is positioned and the way the head is coming out. Big babies can be delivered vaginally.” She just said all of the right things. Meagan: Yes. Yes. When you were first telling me the story from the other provider who you met, I was shaking my head. With this one, I'm throwing my hands up like yes, yes, yes. Ashley: Yeah, that's how I felt. She was wonderful. That was such a relief. It was everything for me. I left that and right away started prep for a VBAC. I already exercised lightly every day, but I started exercising. I made that a priority. I did my 2-mile walk every day. I was drinking the red raspberry leaf tea. I was meeting with the chiropractor. I met with a doula and interviewed a doula. I got that set up. Yeah, everything was pretty smooth. I had horrible morning sickness. This was worse this time around with my second pregnancy. I got horrible pregnancy acne. I had never had acne in my life, and then during my pregnancy, it was just horrible. That's the worst. Everything else was smooth sailing. Meagan: Interesting. I wonder why. Ashley: I don't know. I thought for sure I was having a girl because I never had it with my first pregnancy, so I was like, maybe I'm having a girl this time around. And my morning sickness was worse, so with my pregnancy being so different this time around, I thought it must be a girl, but it wasn't. It was another boy. Meagan: It was?Ashley: Yeah, yeah. Meagan: Maybe the testosterone. I sometimes get testosterone acne. Maybe it was the testosterone. Maybe this baby had extra testosterone creating acne or something. Ashley: Yep, perhaps. I was just so convinced that I did everything. I bought baby girl clothes and all of that.Meagan: You were convinced. Ashley: Yeah, when I found out it was a boy, I was shocked. Everything was good though for the most part. There were no big issues once we got through the first trimester. What kind of happened was, I had never truly felt contractions before because with my first, I already had an epidural when I started to have contractions. I didn't know what they would feel like. I was exactly 28 weeks. I went to the bathroom and there was mucus. I didn't know. It was a lot. I ended up looking it up a lot and it looked like my mucus plug from what I saw. I had a doctor appointment the next day and after reading a bunch of things online, people didn't seem to think it was a big deal. They grow back and sometimes that happens, so I wasn't freaking out at all about that. I saw my doctor the next day, and she said that it was okay. It probably was just part of my mucus plug. She didn't seem very concerned. The next week, I was leaving for St. Thomas on our last vacation as a family of three. It was very important to me. I wanted to go to the beach with my toddler and have uninterrupted time with him before my baby came. This was in March. My baby was coming at the end of May, so I was going to be 29 weeks. It's a good time to travel I thought. We would get this great beach vacation with my toddler. I was cleared to travel. Everything was fine, and then the Monday when I was 28 weeks and 6 days, that night was horrible. I had so much pressure and I was tossing and turning all night. I just kept thinking I had to pee. I kept getting up, trying to go to the bathroom, and coming back to bed, but there was a lot of pressure. I didn't think much of it, and I just knew I didn't get good sleep. The next day was a Tuesday. All day long, I was having tightening on my stomach and pressure, but it wasn't consistent. I feel like it was every 20 minutes to every 40 minutes. I would feel a little bit of pain. It wasn't really bad though. I wouldn't even call it pain. I would call it discomfort. I looked it up online. I was exactly 29 weeks at that point. I saw Braxton Hicks, and I was like, “That's it. I'm just having Braxton Hicks.” It didn't happen with my first, so I didn't even know the difference. I was fine. I just went about my day. We were packing for vacation. We were leaving the next day. That night, that Tuesday night, we went to bed by 11:00 PM. We had to wake up at 5:00 AM for the airport. That night was excruciating. I could not sleep. I was in pain. I was having contractions every 10 or so minutes and tossing and turning. There was lots of pressure. I woke my husband up at 2:00 AM and we started talking about, “Should I go to the hospital?” I was like, “No, I think it's Braxton Hicks. I think it will go away,” which is crazy now that I look back. It was really painful, and I was really trying to–Meagan: Talk it down to Braxton Hicks, and you're early. You don't want to think about it. Ashley: Yeah, I was 29 weeks. There was no way. Again, it did not cross my mind that it was actually real contractions because I was so early. Yeah, then there was a huge degree of denial going on. There was gigantic denial because I just wanted that vacation so badly. Not that I wanted a vacation, but I wanted that time with my son on the beach. We had been talking about it, so I just wanted to make it happen. At 2:00 AM, I woke him up. We talked about it. I was just like, “Okay. I'm going to get a heating pad and put it on my belly. I'll just lay here and hopefully that will kill the pain.” I took some Tylenol as well, and it didn't do anything. By 4:00 AM, I was like, “I'm getting in that hot bathtub, and I'm just hoping that stops this.” I was in the bathtub, which again, should have been my sign that you should leave for the hospital if you have to get into the bathtub and use the heating pad. If all of this stuff was happening, I should have gone in. By 5:00 AM, I was up. We were loading the car, and we were off to the airport. The whole time I was walking into the airport, I was stopping myself in my tracks to have a contraction. Meagan: Oh my goodness. Ashley: I was walking through the airport stopping, catching my breath, then I'd keep walking. It is absolutely wild that I got that far. It was a far walk to our gate. I was doing that a lot, and finally, we got to the gate. We were waiting to board. We were 5 minutes from boarding. People are actively boarding the plane. We are waiting to board last. I was like, “I'm just waiting to go to bathroom.” I go to the bathroom, and that's when I passed a quarter-sized blood clot. I had light bleeding on top of that. I came back, and I looked at my husband and said, “I can't get on that plane. I have to go to the hospital,” but I said, “You guys get on the plane, you and our son. Get on the airplane, and I will drive myself.” We had our car there. I was like, “I'm going to go to the hospital, and I'll just rebook my flight for tomorrow. I'll come out and meet you guys in St. Thomas.” Meagan: Oh my gosh. Ashley: We debated that. My husband went back and forth for a couple of minutes. He was like, “I don't think that's a good idea.” I was like, “No, it's fine. They're going to check me out and release me. I'll meet you guys tomorrow.” Thank God he was like, “No. Let's not do that.” Meagan: Yeah, seriously. Ashley: I still just thought everything was fine. I really thought that. I wanted to go so badly. We ended up that they had to get all of our baggage off of the plane. The crew was really annoyed with us, but so be it. Meagan: Whatever. Ashley: Yeah. We held up the flight a little bit for sure, and then I couldn't even at that point walk back to the car. We called a wheelchair. Someone came and wheeled me out to our car. The hospital was only 20 minutes from the airport which was great. We got to the valet and we couldn't bring my son in, so while my husband talked to the front desk, I waited in the car with my son. They said that my son couldn't come into triage, so me and my husband obviously couldn't leave him in the car. I just walked myself into the hospital. I got seen by triage, and right away, they took me back to the room. I said I was having contractions. They were monitoring me, and they were like, “It doesn't really look like contractions.” I was like, “Okay, well something is happening. I'm in a lot of pain.” They put the monitor on me and didn't see anything. Then they admitted me to one of the rooms in triage. They really wanted to check me, but I was not having that. I did not want to be checked. They really wanted me to go home. They ended up giving me an ultrasound, and everything came back normal with baby which was great, but they were like, “We don't understand why you're in so much pain,” because they still weren't seeing contractions. They ended up seeing them on the monitor, and the doctor said, “I have to check you.” At this point, it was 11:00 AM. Meagan: I have to check you. Ashley: Yeah. She said, “We have to. We don't know what's going on with your body. You're in a lot of pain, so we won't know unless we check you.” She was really kind about it. I didn't feel pressured because I had already turned it down. They had asked me and asked me, but they were like, “We don't know what's happening. We have to know where you're at.” She checked me and when she was done, she looked at me and said, “You're at 3.5 centimeters.” I just burst into tears because at that point, I knew that it was not good. I was too far dilated for 29 weeks.She said, “You're not going to leave tonight. You're not leaving until you deliver basically because you're dilated. We have to keep you until your due date.” My due date was 11 weeks away.That was the hardest part because I knew I wouldn't see my toddler until I gave birth. That was horrible. That's what I cared about at that point. Obviously, I cared that my baby was healthy, but it was excruciating to think about that. Meagan: Mhmm. Ashley: They admitted me right away. They took me to Labor and Delivery. I told my husband because he took my toddler home. I told him, “They're keeping me.” He came back to the hospital. At that point, the plan was just to stall labor as much as possible. Let's get as far to your due date as possible. They did the magnesium drip immediately. They gave me steroid shots to help strengthen my baby's lungs. They gave me one oral medication. I can't remember what it was called, but it was supposed to help stall labor. That was all started and up and running by 1:00 PM. By 4:00, my water broke. With all of the interventions, my water still broke at 4:00 PM, and baby was coming. My water broke by 4:30, and then I was pretty much having contractions from that point on. They were pretty consistent and pretty painful. At 3:00 AM, they really started to ramp up. They were 3-5 minutes apart. They were really painful. At that point, I asked for an epidural. I was really clear that I needed it to be the lightest possible epidural. I talked about my past experience and how awful it was. I was going to try to not do an epidural, but the contractions were so intense that I was like, “I don't think I'm going to be able to push because I'm in so much pain. I can't imagine pushing through these contractions.” I had a great anesthesiologist who came in. He listened to me. He was absolutely wonderful, and he knew his stuff. He gave me the lowest possible dose just so I would be able to take the edge off of pushing. I could feel everything. That was in place by 4:20. I was complete before they did the epidural. I said that I would sit really still but to please give me the epidural. They did. I pushed for a couple of times, and he was born at 5:00 AM. I got to hold him. My husband got to cut his umbilical cord, and then I got to hold him for 30 seconds, then they had to take him up to the NICU. Meagan: Wow. Wow, wow, wow. What a change of plans dramatically, so dramatically. So once baby came out and went to the NICU, what were the next steps for you and baby? You got your amazing VBAC, but also, if I could ask, did VBAC matter at that point? Were you happy that you got a VBAC but your gears changed again to my baby is in the NICU? Tell us about that quick shift of events and what it entailed mentally. Ashley: Yeah. That relief of getting my VBAC was still so important to me. I did not want to have a C-section. I still didn't. That was still top on my mind. I was really scared when I started pushing. I kept having that fear that he was not coming out and they were going to make me have a C-section. The fact that he came out when he did, I felt relieved. That feeling of being able to actually give birth vaginally was such a great relief. It was amazing. Meagan: Yes. Ashley: But yes. I was very, very happy about that. The recovery was so much easier. He was born at 5:00 AM. By 8:00 AM, I was standing and using the bathroom. I was fine. I felt wonderful. Even with him going to the NICU, he was healthy. I knew that right away. That helped a ton, but I feel like the trauma was lessened because I got my VBAC. I can't even imagine what hell it would have been for me if I had a C-section. Meagan: Good. Ashley: He was perfectly healthy, other than being a premature baby. They didn't have any concerns at all at the beginning. He just needed oxygen basically, and he needed to be in the NICU under supervision and watched. He was 3,3 when he was born, so he was pretty tiny. Meagan: Teeny tiny. Ashley: Yeah. Even with that, it's surprising how painful that was. I thought because he was a smaller baby, it would not be as painful, but it was very painful. It was still worth it and amazing. The pain was all worth it. Yeah. Getting that VBAC meant everything to me. It helped so much with the trauma of it all. It was one thing I got to control in a situation where I couldn't. There was so much out of my control. Meagan: Yeah. It was the one thing that you had planned, prepped for, and saw happening when everything else– you should have been on the beach hanging out with your family. All of those things that you saw happening didn't happen, so to have that one thing happen, I'm sure felt amazing. Ashley: Mhmm, yeah. For sure. On that note, every single doctor we saw and nurse who came into our room was like, “Thank God you didn't get on that plane.” Everybody knew that story knew that we were supposed to literally be boarding a plane when I was actually at the hospital. I almost did. I almost did. It's wild. Yeah. Meagan: It is wild. Was there any indicator why you were having the blood clot in the airport and why you were having the bleeding? Ashley: So not until I delivered my baby and then I delivered the placenta, and the neonatal surgeon took my placenta and looked at it, and at that point, he said it looked like placental abruption. He found a 2.5-inch blood clot in my placenta, so he thinks that's why I went into preterm labor. After I learned that, I looked it up and realized that it can be deadly to my baby. It can be deadly to the mother as well. That helped with the trauma of it all to wrap my head around it and to think that if I had gone longer, something so drastic like that could have happened to myself or my baby. At that point, I was definitely thankful that I had a preterm labor because that's what brought me a healthy baby.Meagan: Yeah, wow. They didn't even discover it until after. Ashley: Yeah. They had no idea. I don't know if you typically see it in an ultrasound. I had a normal ultrasound at 20 weeks, and then they had one when I got triaged. They didn't see anything, but the surgeon who looked at my placenta said that's what it was. Meagan: Wow. Ashley: I'm so thankful. I really am. Being able to have that information helped me process it all and feel better about what happened. Meagan: I'm sure it offered some validation and took out a little bit of the why. Why did this happen? Why am I 11 weeks early? Ashley: Yeah. They sent the placenta off for, what's the word? Meagan: Testing? Ashley: Yeah, they sent it off for an autopsy. It came back inconclusive and the doctor said that can happen with placenta abruption too so that was inconclusive, but again, the surgeon said that's what he thought it was, so I'm going to accept that and be so thankful that my baby is here. When I think about what could have happened if I would have waited or if my pregnancy would have continued to progress, I really feel so lucky that it actually happened. That helped. Meagan: You know what? It just confirms to me how amazing our bodies are. When something happens outside of the norm, it responds. It's like, “Okay. This is happening. Now my job is to get this baby out.” How incredible is that? It's just crazy. Ashley: Yeah. With all of the interventions, he was coming. I just say that he's a smart guy. He knew he needed to get out. He knew he needed to vacate, and he did. I'm just so happy for that. Meagan: Good. I'm so glad too. So then, having a NICU baby, how long did he stay in the NICU?Ashley: They anticipated 11 weeks which would have been his due date. He ended up getting out at 8. He was there for 8 weeks. He was 37 weeks when he was released which was surprising. He did wonderfully, so that was just so great that he got out when he did a couple of weeks early. But yeah, 8 weeks in the NICU. It was a long time. Meagan: That's a very, very long time. Do you have any tips for parents who may have a NICU baby in the future or anything like that? Ashley: Yeah. I think the biggest thing for me, the first couple of weeks, we went every single day, but we didn't put a ton of pressure on ourselves to stay for too long. At that point, he really just needed his rest, and he didn't need to be stimulated by us at all. They didn't want him to be stimulated. They gave us a couple of hours which was great, but I really let go of the guilt of being there 24/7. There were parents I saw who were there 24/7, and I would compare myself and feel guilty that I wasn't doing the same. I also had a toddler at home. That was a big thing. In the beginning, he didn't really need me to be there. He needed his rest. That's one thing. Give yourself a lot of grace, and do what you need to do. Your baby is getting taken care of under the best supervision. We had the best doctors and nurses. We didn't need to feel guilty about that. The other thing I didn't know until a couple of weeks before I was discharged is that we could request a lead nurse. That made a huge difference too because every day, we had a different nurse, a night nurse, a different daytime nurse, and different weekend nurses. We found out from another parent that if we liked a nurse, we could request a nurse to be with our baby every single shift they had. Meagan: That's awesome. Ashley: Yeah. When we learned that, we got to request nurses that we loved, and it was night and day. They obviously only worked three shifts a week, both of the nurses we requested, but I knew the days that they worked, and I felt so much relief because I knew that they knew my baby, and I knew how they took care of my baby. Meagan: Yeah. That actually sounds like it would be so amazing because you do. You can be cycling through quite a few people in those 8 weeks, so to have that familiar face and that relationship that you can get established, I'm sure meant amazing things for you guys. Ashley: Mhmm, yeah. Absolutely. That's a tip I wish I would have known sooner. I really think it helped him progress too. I think people had said that having that consistent provider would be really helpful for the baby, and I really think it was. So there's that, but I think I read a lot of support groups. Again, I was in them and reading different comments. Again, I think just relying on other people. We had a friend whose baby was in the NICU, and she was wonderful. They were wonderful. Again, I think it's just finding support, and everybody said it feels horrible in the moment, but it's going to be a blip in this story. It's just going to be a blip. It was so hard to actually believe that, but now, it's like, yeah. It went by so quickly. Now he's here. He's perfect. Yeah. Meagan: It was all worth it. Ashley: It was all worth it, and I got my VBAC. It was not exactly how I wanted it, but I got it. Meagan: Yeah. You know, we've talked about it on this show where even when we get a VBAC, sometimes it's not the ideal birth or the ideal scenario or situation or even experience that we wanted. In the end, sometimes people are like, “I actually don't know if I would have chosen the VBAC,” but most of the time people are like, “It was definitely not what I expected, but I'm still happy with the outcome.” Ashley: Mhmm, absolutely. It made me want to have another baby. I've heard that on this podcast. In order to have another VBAC or to have that vaginal delivery, it was just wonderful. Meagan: Yeah, it's funny because I had my VBAC, and it was a really long labor. I'm like, “Okay. I want to do that again, but faster.” Ashley: Yeah. Meagan: Yeah. Maybe someday I'll have another one. I think we're done, but yes. Such great info that you've shared and such a beautiful story. I'm so glad that he is okay, and that you did not get on that plane and all is well. I was thinking about inflammation during pregnancy and how sometimes people can react differently. I wanted to learn more. I just looked it up really quickly about carpal tunnel affecting during pregnancy. I was shocked. This is quick research, so I don't know the deep, deep depths of studies around this, but it says that it occurs when the median nerve in the wrist is compressed causing pain, numbness, and tingling in the hand, and it's actually common during pregnancy. I didn't think it was as common, but it says it affect about 60% of women during pregnancy. Ashley: That's wild because I've only met a handful, not even a handful– I know other people. I was pregnant at the same time as a long of friends, and only two people that I know who I had talked to had experienced that. I had never met anybody else who said they had carpal tunnel. I'm sure to degrees, sure. Probably maybe mild carpal tunnel is 60% and maybe that severe is not as common. Meagan: Yeah. I'm not digging deep in because I wanted to see what it is affecting. It does say that the hormones can cause you to retain fluid, which can soften the ligaments and forms the roof of the tunnel and inflammation which also brought me down to Omega-3s. I don't know if anyone ever talked to you about Omega-3s, but Omega-3s can help because fatty acids can reduce inflammation. I struggle with inflammation just from daily activities in my joints with working out and lifting and these things. I take Needed's Omega-3's. I thought that was interesting, too. I wonder if you've struggled with some form or severity of carpal tunnel and inflammation and things like that or things swelling around the joints causing pressure and pain if Omega-3's can help. It's worth asking your provider, right? Ashley: Yeah, for sure. Meagan: I know. It just seems so crazy and like such a high number. But obviously, it happens. There are things that you can do. Sometimes it just gets so severe like in your case that you just needed to have a baby to be done with that. Well, thank you so much again for sharing your stories with us today, and congrats on your VBAC. Ashley: Thank you so much. I am so appreciative of this podcast. Literally, everything I learned about what to avoid and what to do, I got it all from The VBAC Link, so I appreciate it so much. I really think it's the driving force in me getting to have a VBAC. Meagan: Oh, that makes me so happy. Listen, Women of Strength, if you are still listening and you have recorded your story, listen to just how impactful your stories have been and the things that we share because each of these stories has nuggets of information and education along the way in addition to what we share within the podcast and the blog and on our social media. And here you are. You are just going to help someone else out there get the information and the motivation to go out and do it. Also, a reminder to not get on the plane if we are having symptoms like that. Ashley: Yeah. Meagan: Don't even consider it, and don't send your husband and your son. Ashley: Yes, thank God. Meagan: Okay, thank you so much. Ashley: Thank you. ClosingWould you like to be a guest on the podcast? Tell us about your experience at thevbaclink.com/share. For more information on all things VBAC including online and in-person VBAC classes, The VBAC Link blog, and Meagan's bio, head over to thevbaclink.com. Congratulations on starting your journey of learning and discovery with The VBAC Link.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-vbac-link/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

In 2019, President Russell M. Nelson announced that there would be a new temple built in the Tooele area. Members of the LDS church were excited and speculated as to where it would be located. The temple site was announced and the renderings of the new temple made available in April of 2020. It was to be built in the small town of Erda, UT with only 3,000 residents and a completely rural environment.But that wasn't all... It was soon announced that there would be a 167-acre pedestrian-oriented community right next to the temple. With 446 units ranging from single-family homes on half acre lots to townhouses and 54 senior housing units.Residents of Erda were excited for a temple, but not the accompanying housing development. Could they have one without the other? Can you guess what the LDS church said?***How to DONATE to Mormonish Podcast: If you would like to help financially support our podcast, you can DONATE to support Mormonish Podcast here: Mormonish Podcast is a 501(c) (3) https://donorbox.org/mormonish-podcast ****WE HAVE MERCH! **** If you'd like to purchase Mormonish Merch, you can visit our Merch store here: https://www.etsy.com/shop/mormonishmerch We appreciate our Mormonish viewers and listeners so much! Don't forget to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE to Mormonish Podcast! Contact Mormonish Podcast: mormonishpodcast@gmail.com #mormonish #lds #mormon #exmormon #postmormon #religion #news, #ldschurch #comeuntochrist #churchofjesuschrist #churchofjesuschristoflatterdaysaints #byu #byui #josephsmith #comefollowme #polygamy #bookofmormon #becauseofhim #hearhim #ldstempleFAIR USE DISCLAIMER All Media in this video (including the thumbnail) is used for the purpose of review and critique. The images in the thumbnail are used as the primary means of visually identifying the subject matter of the video.

In this episode of The Halloween Podcast, join host Lyle Perez as he explores Utah's spine-chilling paranormal past. From haunted theaters to ghost towns, Utah is a state where spirits seem to linger, leaving eerie echoes of the past. Prepare yourself as Lyle guides us through ten of the state's most haunted spots in Episode 44 of the Haunted America series. Featured Locations: Union Station 2501 Wall Ave, Ogden, UT 84401 Once a bustling transportation hub, Union Station is now a museum known for its spectral visitors, including the ghost of a woman in a red dress who wanders the halls, her footsteps still echoing late at night. Fort Douglas 32 Potter St, Salt Lake City, UT 84113 Established in 1862, Fort Douglas is home to ghostly soldiers, most notably a Civil War-era spirit seen pacing the cemetery. The fort, now a museum, offers visitors a glimpse into its haunted military history. Asylum 49 (Old Tooele Hospital) 140 E 200 S, Tooele, UT 84074 This former hospital, now a haunted attraction, is notorious for paranormal activity, with sightings of a nurse in white and the ghost of a young girl who tugs on visitors' clothes, seeking attention. The Rio Grande Depot 300 S Rio Grande St, Salt Lake City, UT 84101 Haunted by the spirit of the Purple Lady, who met a tragic end on the train tracks, the Rio Grande Depot holds a mysterious and eerie ambiance, with her apparition appearing frequently in the station's grand lobby. Kay's Cross 1580 E Hwy 193, Kaysville, UT 84037 This ominous stone cross hidden in Kaysville's woods has become a hotspot for ghost hunters. Paranormal enthusiasts often report sightings of a hooded figure, strange whispers, and the distant echo of footsteps. Mountain Meadows Massacre Site Mountain Meadows Rd, Veyo, UT 84782 This historical landmark marks the site of a tragic 1857 massacre. Today, visitors report hearing children's cries and seeing shadowy figures wandering the fields, remnants of the sorrowful past. Mercur Cemetery Mercur Canyon, Tooele County, UT 84071 In this cemetery nestled within a ghost town, visitors report hearing faint mining sounds and disembodied voices among the headstones, where shadowy figures appear and vanish without a trace. Ben Lomond Hotel 2510 Washington Blvd, Ogden, UT 84401 Built in the 1920s, this hotel is known for the ghostly presence of a woman in 1920s attire and the spirit of a man in a vintage suit near the ballroom. The Ben Lomond Hotel still operates today, welcoming guests and their ghostly counterparts. Old Deseret Village 2601 Sunnyside Ave S, Salt Lake City, UT 84108 A living history museum, Old Deseret Village is haunted by figures from Utah's pioneer past. Pale apparitions dressed in period attire are frequently seen roaming the village's schoolhouse and tavern. Grafton Ghost Town Rockville, UT 84763 This abandoned settlement, with its cemetery and old church, is one of Utah's best-preserved ghost towns. Visitors often encounter the ghost of a young girl near the schoolhouse and hear hymns echoing from the vacant church. Like Our Facebook page for more Halloween fun: www.Facebook.com/TheHalloweenPodcast ORDER PODCAST MERCH! Website: www.TheHalloweenPodcast.com Email: TheHalloweenPodcast@gmail.com X: @TheHalloweenPod Support the Show: www.patreon.com/TheHalloweenPod Get bonus Halloween content and more! Just for Patreon supporters! Check out my other show! Find it on iTunes - Amazing Advertising http://amazingadvertising.podomatic.com/ Keywords and Tags: Haunted Utah, Ghosts of the Beehive State, Haunted America, Paranormal, Haunted Locations, Utah Ghost Stories, Halloween Podcast, Haunted History

On Friday the 13th, Andy & Steve will review The Killer’s Game an action-packed movie that will have you on the edge of your seat! Speak No Evil will have you guessing what will happen next. The guys will also review The Faith of Angels which is based on a true story of a boy from Kearns who went missing in a mine out in Tooele.   In Streaming: Uglies(N) Will & Harper(N) How to Die Alone(H) The Old Man(FX/H) Lego Star Wars: Rebuild the Galaxy(D+)     Listen to The Movie Show with Andy Farnsworth and Steve Salles on Fridays from 11 am to 1 pm on 102.7 FM & 1160 AM, kslnewsradio.com, or on the KSL NewsRadio App. Follow the show on Facebook at @TheMovieShow and join The Movie Show Club for exclusive perks! Text "Movie" to 57500. (Message and data rates may apply; Text STOP to cancel; Message frequency varies) The Movie Show podcast is sponsored by Megaplex Theatres, Utah's premiere movie entertainment company. 

Hosts: Taylor Morgan and Leah Murray Two counties in Utah — Tooele and Washington — discovered ballot processing errors in the recount in the 2nd Congressional District. With such a narrow difference in votes between Celeste Maloy and Colby Jenkins, every vote must be counted accurately. KSL at Night hosts Taylor Morgan and Leah Murray discuss the errors and how it’s probably not a sign of larger issues.

Hosts: Taylor Morgan and Leah Murray Some delays in the ballot recount in Utah’s 2nd Congressional DistrictTwo counties in Utah — Tooele and Washington — discovered ballot processing errors in the recount in the 2nd Congressional District. With such a narrow difference in votes between Celeste Maloy and Colby Jenkins, every vote must be counted accurately. KSL at Night hosts Taylor Morgan and Leah Murray discuss the errors and how it’s probably not a sign of larger issues. Are today’s stock market slumps indications of an impending recession?Stock markets around the world saw some major decreases today, prompting renewed concerns of an impending recession. Are the slumps big enough to say we’re in a “bear market?” Robert Spendlove, Senior Economist at Zions Bank & Utah House Representative joins KSL at Night to answer our hosts’ questions about the market and whether we’re heading into a recession or not. Listen to also hear a silver lining from today’s drops. Kamala Harris prepares to announce her running mateDemocratic presidential nominee Kamala Harris is set to announce her running mate any day now. In the meantime, other politicians like Bernie Sanders have been pushing her to adopt a more progressive platform. We take a moment to give updates on the Harris campaign, and discuss why she appears to still be riding a high in polling, two weeks after President Biden dropped out. Reports: Illegal border crossings down in 2024One of the hottest topics of this election cycle — arguably more than ever before — is immigration. Illegal migration at the southern border has been on the rise, but a new report from the Wall Street Journal claims that illegal migration is actually down in 2024. The KSL at Night hosts share some of the numbers and discuss the trend as it relates to the presidential election this year. Ogden Diversity Commission changes because of HB261A major focus of House Bill 261 has been on removing DEI offices and groups from places of higher education. But its effects reach farther than that; the bill applies to all public entities. The City of Ogden’s Diversity Commission looks to be affected by the legislation. We break down the changes coming on KSL at Night. Examining the effects of the Department of Justice suit against TikTokThe U.S. Department of Justice is suing TikTok, claiming the social media company inappropriately handles information provided by minors, specifically those under 13 years of age. Several states have already filed similar lawsuits themselves, including Utah. Hosts Leah and Taylor discuss the lawsuit and its potential impacts. They also connect the lawsuits to recently-passed legislation like the Kids Online Safety Act. Impacts of posting on social media … without thinkingWho hasn’t posted something on social media without thinking first? Chances are that you’ve done it a time or two too. A new editorial discusses the effects of posting on social media without knowing the whole story; the hosts examine the argument. Host Leah Murray also shares a personal experience about posting on Threads without thinking, angering nearly 100 random Australians. Shorts in the office? Say it isn’t so!There’s a growing trend among office workers, especially during heat waves: wearing shorts to work. The COVID pandemic eased a lot of dress codes when people began working remotely, and those kinds of changes have made their way into the in-person work world. KSL at Night hosts Leah Murray and Taylor Morgan finish the program with a light conversation on what’s appropriate to wear to work.  

Celeste Maloy is the winner in the Republican Primary race for Congressional District 2. This result doesn't come after several delays, one coming from Tooele County where there was an error on 55 adjudicated ballots that needed further oversight. Dave and Debbie speak with Tracy Shaw, Tooele County Clerk, about how Tooele caught this discrepancy and how they handled it. Also joining the show, the Director of Utah Elections, Ryan Cowley, talks more broadly about the recount process and delays that other counties encountered in the recount process.

Soon we will know the final recount results for the primary election in congressional district 2 between Celeste Maloy and Colby Jenkins, but will the recount results move the needle? KSL Newsradio Reporter Adam Small joins D2 to discuss the error message that Washington and Tooele counties got when conducting their recount. Dave and Debbie also talk with KSL at Night Hosts Adam Gardiner and Taylor Morgan about the history of recounts in Utah and what the error messages mean for Tooele and Washington Counties.

This is episode 175 - and we're back in the Cape circa 1849 and thereabouts. Before we dive into the latest incidents and events, let's take a look at what was going on globally as everything is connected. In France, citizens are able to use postage stamps for the very first time, a series called Ceres, which is also a place in the Western Cape. The Austrian Army invades Hungary entering the countries two capitals, which back in 1849 were called Buda and Pest. Next door, Romanian paramilitaries laid into Hungarian civilians, killing 600 in what we'd call ethnic cleansing. The second Anglo-Sikh war was on the go in India, and the British suffered a defeat at the Battle of Tooele, while across the ocean in Canada, the Colony of Vancouver Island was established. This is important because that's where one of my ancestors eloped later in the 19th Century for the metropolis that was Beaufort West. Elizabeth Blackwell was awarded her M.D, thus becoming the first women doctor in the United States, and the Corn Laws were officially repealed by the UK Parliament. These were tariffs and trade resctrictions on imported food — including all grains like Barley, wheat and oats. I mention this because the repeal spelled the death knell to British mercantilism — skewing the value of land in the UK, raised food prices there artificially, and hampered the growth of manufacturing. The Great Famine of Ireland between 1845 and 1852 had also revealed a real need to produce alternative food supplies through imports. It was this change that led to free trade finally being ushered into Britain — and of course this created opportunities for Southern African farmers. It's also the year the first Kennedy arrives in America, a refugee of the Irish Famine. More prosaic perhaps, in New York on a cold February day, President James Knox Polk became the first president to have his photograph taken, while Minnesota became a formal US territory and the settlement of Fort Worth in Texas is founded. In July, a slave revolt at the Charleston Workhouse breaks out led by Nicholas Kelly, but plantation owners manage to suppress the revolt and hang 3 of the leaders including Kelly. Later in September, African-American abolitionist and hero Harriet Tubman escaped from slavery. And importantly for our story, Sir Benjamin D'Urban, after whom Durban in KZN is named and one of the Governors of the Cape, died in Montreal, Canada. Back to the Cape, because the anger at Harry Smith's new policies were curing, nay, ripening, stewing, brewing amongst the amaXhosa. Arriving in the Eastern Cape, Harry was committed to reinstating the D'Urban system with which he had been associated - and which Lord Glenelg back in the colonial office has rejected. But now Earl Grey was in the colonial hot seat back home and he gave the thumbs up. Smith set to work sorting out the administration, appointing members of the settler elite to official positions including Richard Southey as his personal secretary. AS a close colleague of Grahamstown Journal Editor and rabid anti-Xhosa Robert Godlonton, he was chosen for his anti-black bias. If you remember how Smith had arrived, placing his foot on amaXhosa chief Maqoma's neck, and his new edicts including the creation of British Caffraria — the previously known ceded territory —you can imagine how he was regarded further east. What is not common knowledge these days is that there was great demand for children under the age of ten to work in the Western Cape. Of course, this was not a proper labour environment, and the shift meant that these young boys and girls, and their mothers and fathers, were being turned into indentured labourers. This was a free market situation of the amaXhosa being able to hawk their labour for a fair price. Many were told they would be paid a wage, only to find that the terms of contract were vague, they were now receiving unspecified promises and the fabric of rural life based on marriage and female

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KSL's Top Story: An online group of private citizens made believe they were an 11-year old girl.  Now Police in West Bountiful have arrested a man for enticing a minor…. 

Startling revelations have surfaced regarding the death of a Tooele man, shedding light on a tragic incident that led to the arrest of his own 9-year-old son. A search warrant obtained by Scripps News Salt Lake City has disclosed critical information regarding the circumstances surrounding the demise of the victim, whose identity remains undisclosed due to the suspect's age. According to the warrant, the investigation into the death, which occurred last month on February 16, indicates a deeply distressing sequence of events. Authorities were initially summoned to the Tooele residence under the suspicion of a suicide attempt. However, upon arrival, they discovered a 32-year-old man, unconscious and bleeding from head injuries. Despite efforts to save him, the victim succumbed to his wounds later at the hospital. The search warrant exposes that eight individuals, including the victim, his 9-year-old son, two adult roommates, and their four young children, were present in the household at the time of the incident. Shockingly, it is revealed that the victim and his son shared a room, purportedly due to the child's behavioral issues. Further investigation has unveiled grim details surrounding the victim's injuries. The Tooele man suffered a fatal gunshot wound to the back of his head, along with multiple lacerations to his head, face, hands, and arms, indicative of defensive wounds. Among the chilling discoveries at the scene was a handgun with a missing bullet and a blood-covered "tomahawk-style hatchet." Remarkably, the warrant suggests a potential link between the child's exposure to violent content and the gruesome nature of the assault. The 9-year-old is reported to have spent extensive time on a smartphone and tablet, engaging in activities deemed unsuitable for his age, including playing video games such as Modern Warfare: Warzone. The game reportedly features weapons akin to those found at the scene. Detectives are grappling with the incongruity of such heinous acts being perpetrated by a child. The search warrant describes the tomahawk strikes inflicted after the fatal gunshot as "particularly gruesome" and "violent," a stark contrast to the suspect's tender age. Authorities underscore the sensitivity of the situation, refraining from disclosing the identities of both the victim and the 9-year-old suspect. The case has raised profound questions about the influence of media content on young minds and the complexities of juvenile involvement in violent crimes. As the investigation unfolds, the community grapples with the tragic loss of life and the unsettling circumstances surrounding it. With a child at the center of the inquiry, authorities are navigating delicate legal and psychological terrain, seeking to comprehend the unfathomable and deliver justice in a case that defies conventional understanding. Want to listen to ALL of our podcasts AD-FREE? Subscribe through APPLE PODCASTS, and try it for three days free: https://tinyurl.com/ycw626tj Follow Our Other Cases: https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com The latest on Catching the Long Island Serial Killer, Awaiting Admission: BTK's Unconfessed Crimes, Delphi Murders: Inside the Crime, Chad & Lori Daybell, The Murder of Ana Walshe, Alex Murdaugh, Bryan Kohberger, Lucy Letby, Kouri Richins, Malevolent Mormon Mommys, Justice for Harmony Montgomery, The Murder of Stephen Smith, The Murder of Madeline Kingsbury, and much more! Listen at https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com 

Startling revelations have surfaced regarding the death of a Tooele man, shedding light on a tragic incident that led to the arrest of his own 9-year-old son. A search warrant obtained by Scripps News Salt Lake City has disclosed critical information regarding the circumstances surrounding the demise of the victim, whose identity remains undisclosed due to the suspect's age. According to the warrant, the investigation into the death, which occurred last month on February 16, indicates a deeply distressing sequence of events. Authorities were initially summoned to the Tooele residence under the suspicion of a suicide attempt. However, upon arrival, they discovered a 32-year-old man, unconscious and bleeding from head injuries. Despite efforts to save him, the victim succumbed to his wounds later at the hospital. The search warrant exposes that eight individuals, including the victim, his 9-year-old son, two adult roommates, and their four young children, were present in the household at the time of the incident. Shockingly, it is revealed that the victim and his son shared a room, purportedly due to the child's behavioral issues. Further investigation has unveiled grim details surrounding the victim's injuries. The Tooele man suffered a fatal gunshot wound to the back of his head, along with multiple lacerations to his head, face, hands, and arms, indicative of defensive wounds. Among the chilling discoveries at the scene was a handgun with a missing bullet and a blood-covered "tomahawk-style hatchet." Remarkably, the warrant suggests a potential link between the child's exposure to violent content and the gruesome nature of the assault. The 9-year-old is reported to have spent extensive time on a smartphone and tablet, engaging in activities deemed unsuitable for his age, including playing video games such as Modern Warfare: Warzone. The game reportedly features weapons akin to those found at the scene. Detectives are grappling with the incongruity of such heinous acts being perpetrated by a child. The search warrant describes the tomahawk strikes inflicted after the fatal gunshot as "particularly gruesome" and "violent," a stark contrast to the suspect's tender age. Authorities underscore the sensitivity of the situation, refraining from disclosing the identities of both the victim and the 9-year-old suspect. The case has raised profound questions about the influence of media content on young minds and the complexities of juvenile involvement in violent crimes. As the investigation unfolds, the community grapples with the tragic loss of life and the unsettling circumstances surrounding it. With a child at the center of the inquiry, authorities are navigating delicate legal and psychological terrain, seeking to comprehend the unfathomable and deliver justice in a case that defies conventional understanding. Want to listen to ALL of our podcasts AD-FREE? Subscribe through APPLE PODCASTS, and try it for three days free: https://tinyurl.com/ycw626tj Follow Our Other Cases: https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com The latest on Catching the Long Island Serial Killer, Awaiting Admission: BTK's Unconfessed Crimes, Delphi Murders: Inside the Crime, Chad & Lori Daybell, The Murder of Ana Walshe, Alex Murdaugh, Bryan Kohberger, Lucy Letby, Kouri Richins, Malevolent Mormon Mommys, Justice for Harmony Montgomery, The Murder of Stephen Smith, The Murder of Madeline Kingsbury, and much more! Listen at https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com 

Startling revelations have surfaced regarding the death of a Tooele man, shedding light on a tragic incident that led to the arrest of his own 9-year-old son. A search warrant obtained by Scripps News Salt Lake City has disclosed critical information regarding the circumstances surrounding the demise of the victim, whose identity remains undisclosed due to the suspect's age. According to the warrant, the investigation into the death, which occurred last month on February 16, indicates a deeply distressing sequence of events. Authorities were initially summoned to the Tooele residence under the suspicion of a suicide attempt. However, upon arrival, they discovered a 32-year-old man, unconscious and bleeding from head injuries. Despite efforts to save him, the victim succumbed to his wounds later at the hospital. The search warrant exposes that eight individuals, including the victim, his 9-year-old son, two adult roommates, and their four young children, were present in the household at the time of the incident. Shockingly, it is revealed that the victim and his son shared a room, purportedly due to the child's behavioral issues. Further investigation has unveiled grim details surrounding the victim's injuries. The Tooele man suffered a fatal gunshot wound to the back of his head, along with multiple lacerations to his head, face, hands, and arms, indicative of defensive wounds. Among the chilling discoveries at the scene was a handgun with a missing bullet and a blood-covered "tomahawk-style hatchet." Remarkably, the warrant suggests a potential link between the child's exposure to violent content and the gruesome nature of the assault. The 9-year-old is reported to have spent extensive time on a smartphone and tablet, engaging in activities deemed unsuitable for his age, including playing video games such as Modern Warfare: Warzone. The game reportedly features weapons akin to those found at the scene. Detectives are grappling with the incongruity of such heinous acts being perpetrated by a child. The search warrant describes the tomahawk strikes inflicted after the fatal gunshot as "particularly gruesome" and "violent," a stark contrast to the suspect's tender age. Authorities underscore the sensitivity of the situation, refraining from disclosing the identities of both the victim and the 9-year-old suspect. The case has raised profound questions about the influence of media content on young minds and the complexities of juvenile involvement in violent crimes. As the investigation unfolds, the community grapples with the tragic loss of life and the unsettling circumstances surrounding it. With a child at the center of the inquiry, authorities are navigating delicate legal and psychological terrain, seeking to comprehend the unfathomable and deliver justice in a case that defies conventional understanding. Want to listen to ALL of our podcasts AD-FREE? Subscribe through APPLE PODCASTS, and try it for three days free: https://tinyurl.com/ycw626tj Follow Our Other Cases: https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com The latest on Catching the Long Island Serial Killer, Awaiting Admission: BTK's Unconfessed Crimes, Delphi Murders: Inside the Crime, Chad & Lori Daybell, The Murder of Ana Walshe, Alex Murdaugh, Bryan Kohberger, Lucy Letby, Kouri Richins, Malevolent Mormon Mommys, Justice for Harmony Montgomery, The Murder of Stephen Smith, The Murder of Madeline Kingsbury, and much more! Listen at https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com 

Counterfeit car seats are becoming more common. The Tooele Heath Department is warning that using these fake car seats could put your child at risk.

Superintendent Mark Ernst (Tooele County School District) and Charlie Roberts (Assistant Coach for Tooele High School) join Utah's First Lady, Abby Cox to talk about many of the challenges that teachers face nowadays, how social media has impacted the classroom, and the impact that Unified Sports has had on the schools throughout Tooele County. Then Superintendent Ernst talks about the inclusion that has come with the introduction of Unified Sports, bridging the differences between regular and special ed experiences in the classroom, and the lifelong friendships that are built through Unified Sports. Related Links Special Olympics Utah: https://sout.org/

Don't trust YouTube moms, missing in Spain, a bulldog heist, and a Super Bowl shooting update. Subscribe to Tenderfoot+ for daily ad-free listening - https://tenderfoot.tv/plus/ Follow This Day in Crime on Social X: @tenderfootTV, @thisdayincrime_ IG: @tenderfoot.tv, @thisdayincrime Episode Sources: 9 Shocking Moments from Ruby Franke's Sentencing for Child Abuse, YouTube Former Parenting Youtuber Ruby Franke and Ex-Business Partner Sentenced to Prison for Child Abuse, People Ruby Franke and Jodi Hildebrandt sentenced to up to 30 years in prison in child abuse case, CBS News Florida woman missing from Spain 'taken against her will' after man spray-painted security cameras: friend, Yahoo Fla. Woman Vanishes in Spain Shortly After Man with Covered Face Spray Paints Cameras at Her Building, People Thieves steal dozen French bulldogs worth $37,000 from South Carolina home, Independent Thieves make off with one dozen puppies in North Charleston heist, Post and Courier 2 men are charged with murder in the deadly shooting at Kansas City's Super Bowl celebration, AP Body of Missing Texas 11-Year-Old Audrii Cunningham Found in Trinity River, People 9-year-old arrested in shooting death of Tooele man, Fox 13 To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

A 9-year-old has been arrested in Tooele. Police are telling us that the child shot and killed an adult family member... but that's about all we know.

KSL's Top Story: A 9-year-old has been arrested in Tooele. Police say the child shot and killed an adult family member. 

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A man is was shot in the head in Tooele on Friday night and, after police arrived at the home and got him to the hospital, he died. How old is old enough to qualify to be tried as an adult? Nine years old certainly seems too young, but we still don't know a lot about the details of this incident. Dave and Debbie revisit their discussion with KSL Legal Analyst Greg Skordas on the possibly outcomes from this

A man is was shot in Tooele on Friday night. Police arrived at the home and got him to the hospital where he died shortly after -- a 9 year old was arrested by police in connection with that shooting. Greg Skordas/KSL Legal Analyst joins the show to explain what it means for a 9 year old to be in police custody and what could come next.

February 21st, 2024 

Dave and Debbie discuss the latest information regarding a 9 year old who shot a family member. It is reported the 9 year old is now in custody. Adam Small, KSL Newsradio Reporter joins the show live from Tooele with the latest info.  

The trouble with UTA: What's behind Trax and Frontrunner delays? The lack of support behind ranked choice voting The political impact of Trump's legal woes and hefty fines Live from outside the courtroom of Ruby Franke and Jodi Hildebrandt's sentencing 9 year old Tooele child arrested after shooting and killing family member

We found it fitting to go back to our roots for this episode, April and Katie are back in the car and on the road! (well, parking lot) In this episode, April tells us the heartbreaking story of Ruby Franke's son escaping from Jodie Hildebrandt's home to save himself and his sister. The children were abused and malnourished by the hands of Jodie Hildebrandt under the guise of therapeutic treatment. When at home with their mother, Ruby Franke, the children saw similar abusive treatment. Now Franke and Hildebrandt have been charged and are on their way to sentencing! Katie then tells us the history and hauntings of the Ritz theater in Tooele, UT that was owned by the same owners for 8 decades until recently. But the theater continues to be haunted by it's guests awaiting the next show! Buckle and listen up, We have loved creating this podcast even with its slow growth, panic writing notes, and technical difficulties. It's been an outlet for us for the past 2.5 years but it's time for us to move onto the next adventure. We hope you enjoyed listening! Until next time, MMKAY BYE! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hauntandcold/support

The podcast makes another trip to Tooele County. UIAAA Connection #159 – Cody Valdez, Director of Athletics at Tooele High School is now available. Cody is the first recipient of a UIAAA scholarship to appear on the podcast as an athletic administrator. He has also been added to the list of current ADs that work at the high school they graduated from. A Utah State graduate, Cody began his career at Logan High School before moving back to Tooele.  An Athletic Director of five months, his best quote is “Don't be afraid to ask for help.” Please Listen, Learn and Share! You can subscribe to UIAAA TV on YouTube! This podcast is also available on Amazon Music, Apple Podcast, Breaker, Castbox, Google Podcast, iHeartradio, Overcast, Pocket Casts, RadioPublic, Spotify, Sticher and YouTube.

KSL's Top Story:  Salt Lake City may soon have a permanent homeless campground… but it could cost millions. 

Controversy brewing in Tooele ... If you don't carry a badge -- not a cop -- not an animal control officer -- you are banned from bringing an unwanted pet -- or a stray to the city animal shelter. The city posting to FB that it's getting out of the pet rescue and pet adoption business effective yesterday. The comments are on fire! Dave and Debbie discuss the issue and take listener calls.

The Tooele Animal shelter has announced that it will no longer accept animals from the public and will only take in animals from police or animal country. Lt. Jeremy Hansen with the Tooele City Police Department joins the show to discuss this decision.

Representative Blake Moore speaks on President Biden's House's Impeachment Inquiry Tesla is recalling more than 2 million vehicles Videos show neighbor harassing a family in Midvale Opinion: How this one change might affect politics at the Utah Legislature

In this episode Marissa chats with admissions specialist Mike Booth to learn more about USU Tooele! Swag Drawing Code: PIE Enter USU Swag Drawing: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://usu.co1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_eQmAkd09YpaE4TQ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about USU Tooele: ⁠ https://statewide.usu.edu/tooele/

Let's call it.. midday chaos on Main Street.  In Tooele... 11 people were injured ... in 3 or maybe 4 crashes involving multiple cars and a runaway semi-truck.  Plus there was a resulting fire at an auto dealership. 

Considered to be the UFO capital of the world, Hudson Valley New York has had over 5,000 reports of UFO activity since the 1980s. In this episode, Ghosty and Beaker talk about some of the numerous sightings that are stilling occurring to this day. They also share abduction stories from some of the local residents. Enjoy, listen, and subscribe. Have an interesting story to share? Please tell us about it, email: evp.pod@gmail.com Follow us on social media (@evp.pod) and check out all the ways to listen and watch the podcast:  https://linktr.ee/evp.pod Looking for the best shop to find paranormal investigating equipment, check out Ghost Stop:  https://ghoststop.com/?rfsn=6873776.882712 We are hosting an investigation at the Ritz Theater in Tooele on Saturday, September 30th. Only 12 tickets will be avialbe, so get yours before they sell out. https://www.eventbrite.com/e/ritz-theater-paranormal-investigation-tickets-692615460487

Dave and Debbie speak with Tooele County Realtor Chris Sloan about the latest developments on growth and the housing market in Tooele. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As Dave and Debbie broadcast live from Tooele as Country Fan Fest takes place, they dive into a discussion of heat.  Mitch McKay is a certified athletic trainer with Intermountain Health and D2 speaks with him about advice for people attending the festival but also how kids can stay safe as school sports kick back up. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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We are back B-oo's Crew! Well, sort of...prepare yourself for some less than great audio. This week we head to Utah and visit the The Old Tooele Hospital, also known as Asylum 49. set in the beautiful Utah mountains, the hospital is unique today in the way that it is a senior care facility on one side, and, a haunted "full contact" attraction on the other. But what makes the hospital so hauhted. could it be the many lives that have come to an end inside the building, or, could it be that early on the underfunded establishment had no place to keep the bodies of the recently deceased. They would stack the bodies in an unrefridgerated room until the death certificates could be signed. Did we mention it also sits directly adjacent to the cemetery? Get ready B-oo's Crew, this one is a strange tale. Do you have a story you'd like read or played on the show? Are you part of an investigation team that would like to come on and tell your story and experiences? Maybe you have a show suggestion! Email us at fortheboos12@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter @fortheboos And on Instagram @forthboos-podcast Follow us Tik Tok @fortheboos_podcast You can also find us on Facebook at For The Boos And on YouTube at For The Boos Remember to Follow, Subscribe, and Rate the show...it really does help! For The B-oo's uses strong language and may not be suitable for all audiences, listener discretion is advised!https://linktr.ee/fortheboos All music and sound effects courtesy of www.pixabay.com and freesound.org Are you a fan of all things spooky and true crime? Ever wondered if there's a subscription box for you? Go check out Creepy Crate for all things horror and true crime in an awesome bundle that comes straight to your home with items that fans of the macabre will love. For being a part of the B-oo's Crew they want to offer you a discount on your first order!!! Just use promo code: boos5 at checkout for $5 off your first order, and let us know what you get in your Creepy Crate! #paranormal #ghost #haunted #ghosts #paranormalactivity #horror #creepy #paranormalinvestigation #scary #spooky #ghosthunting #spiritual #supernatural #ufo #halloween #spirit #spirits #ghosthunters #podcast #paranormalinvestigator #terror #ghoststories #hauntedhouse #aliens #haunting #alien #supranatural #pengasihan #ghosthunter #ghostadventures

Utah's already had three hundred fires this year with more than half of them caused by humans. North Tooele Fire Department spokesman Jon Smith tells KSL the numbers are actually much better than the past few years. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jason Degraw is the founder of a nonprofit organization called Addicts Fighting Back (AFB). While he was in treatment in 2019, he had the idea of creating a social organization for individuals struggling with substance use. When he got out, he recognized some of the struggle people have when transitioning back to regular life and wanted to help fill that need. Jason is now four years sober and loving his life in recovery. Addicts give back through life-changing experiences to find recovery—a non-profit organization. AFB focuses on service work, community connections, and group activities. Addicts Fighting Back has three weekly ALL Pathways to Recovery Meetings—one in Utah County, one in Salt Lake County, and one in Tooele. AFB is a social organization that gives individuals an opportunity to have fun in a safe environment while building connections with each other and growing their support network.

Steve and I are enjoying Memorial Day today, so enjoy this episode of Adventurous Ghosts, one of our Patreon podcasts that's released to patrons every month! (Original Patreon description): The boys head to...to-well-o? ...t-t-talulla? ...tool...tool...tool-ele? A small town in Utah with a former poor house turned hospital, turned half retirement home, half horror maze attraction. We also discuss the controversial video released last week by Nick Groff, where he "tells all" to his Twitter followers and claims that working on Ghost Adventures was a hostile work environment due to "one particular host" and that the same person has been blocking him from getting new shows on the Travel Channel and any affiliated networks since 2014.

Join the Putas as they review Ghost Adventures Season 5, Episode 8 "Tooele Hospital" where its not just an abandoned hospital but its a haunted attraction/ retirement home?! The fun times roll at Tooele and you don't miss it!

Big Budah has been making us smile for years in Utah. You know him from his time as a DJ on the radio, and his time on the AM News, as a feature reporter. Budah felt this was his calling bringing happiness to us his viewers. Then COVID-19 hit, and things got real. It was during this time that things began to unravel with his mental health. When it started, he felt it was harder and harder to bring himself out of the darkness he felt. Inside he knew everyone was against him, but that was just what his mind was telling him. One night he borrowed a gun, and took a drive on I-80 West to Wendover, NV. Somewhere along the way he pulled to the side of the road and he decided it was over. Hear Budah tell his experience, and the reason he is here telling you this story rather than reading it as a headline. Budah has joined with LWLF, and is taking part on our 7th Annual 100 Mile Walk to Wendover this month. Come join us on this life changing event. Register at Walk to Wendover or just come for the after party at the Peppermill Concert Hall for a Linda Ronstadt Tribute Concert with a special guest appearance by current Voice contestant EJ Michels. Together they will give you a night you won't soon forget. Get your tickets at Peppermill Concert Hall

We are bringing you extra episodes all month long in honor of Cesarean Awareness Month! Meagan and Julie kick off the conversation with a passionate discussion about the realities of birthing in a hospital setting. Doulas are birth workers who uniquely experience births in all settings. Meagan and Julie share what they have seen and how it has formed the strong opinions they have now. Additional LinksJulie's WebsiteHow to VBAC: The Ultimate Prep Course for ParentsThe VBAC Link Facebook CommunityFull Transcript under Episode DetailsJulie: Welcome, welcome. You are listening to The VBAC Link podcast. This is your cohost for the day, Julie Francom. I've missed you guys so much. It's so fun to be back here but I am also here with Meagan Heaton, the cofounder with me of The VBAC Link. We are so excited to be on a really special episode with you today. We were actually having lunch together the other day and talking about life, birth, and everything. We just decided that it would be better if we recorded the conversation so that's what we're going to do today. We're going to record our conversations about birth, VBAC, and everything in between. Review of the WeekBefore we get into it though, Meagan has a review for us. Meagan: Yay, yes I do. It's always so fun to have you on Julie. I am excited to have our conversation that we were having the other day only recording it because it is definitely a great conversation to be had and to be heard. If you guys didn't know, April is Cesarean Awareness Month. This month, we're going to be kicking off with some extra episodes in addition to our stories. Here is number one for you. As Julie said, I do have a review of the week. This is from mathletic and it says, “Empowering and Addicting.” It says, “This may be my second time leaving a review, but it is because I am preparing for my second VBAC and felt that it was necessary. I first found this podcast as I prepped for my VBAC in 2019. I religiously listened to a new episode on the way to and from work daily and am always excited for Wednesday morning's new episode.” Julie, that is crazy to me that people have been listening since 2019. Julie: Forever. Meagan: It is 2023. It says, “This podcast has given me so much education and strength that I took going into my TOLAC and achieving my successful VBAC in May 2019. I am now preparing for my VBAC as I am 36 weeks pregnant and due in early June.” This was in 2022 by the way so last year.“Although I have now had a VBAC, I knew starting my mornings off with this podcast again with this pregnancy would be something that would help me get into the right headspace. I sometimes feel like Meagan and Julie are now my new friends.”We are. We are friends with all of you. Julie: We are your friends. Meagan: Yes. “As we commute to work together–” We've been commuting to work with her, Julie. Julie: Yeah. Meagan: “I am very bummed to learn that there was a break, but I am so pumped when I found out that they were returning this May.” So yeah, seriously, this was a long time ago, you guys. We returned in 2022. “Thank you for all that you are doing in helping us mamas feel educated and strong as we go into our next births. I recommend this podcast to all my friends even the first-time mom friends as it's been such a great wealth of knowledge going into any birth.” I could not agree more. This podcast is going to teach you so much and not only how to have a VBAC but how to avoid a Cesarean in the first place. As we know, Julie and I were talking about this, Cesareans are through the roof. It is above 32% here in 2023. It is sad. It's scary and it's concerning. It is concerning. Why are we having so many Cesareans? We are going to take one moment and then we are going to get going into this wonderful new episode. Cesarean Awareness MonthMeagan: Okay, Julie. Hi. I miss you. I love you. I just saw you last week. Julie: It was so great to have lunch with you and just jibber-jabbering away about life, the birth work, getting old, and my salty attitude about birth. We're going to talk about it.Meagan: Your salty attitude. You guys, she has become a little salty and sassy. Julie: I am. I've always been that way, but I feel like I was pretty good at toning it down and being diplomatic, especially doing The VBAC Link and things like that. I definitely have opinions as we all do. I was just making sure that we were including everybody and that everybody has a safe space here. We certainly want to do that on this episode as well, but I will hit 100 births this year. Meagan, you are probably at 600. Meagan: No. Julie: But either as a doula or a birth photographer and you know what? One thing that I wish people could understand a little bit more or take more seriously is that doulas and birth photographers probably have the most unique perspective on childbirth because we see births in the hospital, out of the hospital, at birth centers, with hospital OB/GYNS, hospital midwives, out of hospital midwives, and unassisted births. We have seen a few of those. We have such a unique perspective and we see how things unfold in each environment with each intervention and with each provider. I wish that somebody would hone into that and try and work to collect those experiences and perspectives because if you ever want to hear about the state of childbirth in the United States and probably even in the world because a lot of countries are not too different from ours, talk to a freaking birth worker that does hospital and home births because that is where you're going to find these priceless gems and perspectives that you're really going to learn from. Yeah. I just wish that people could see that. Meagan: It's hard because we have clients hire us as their doula or their birth photographer and we talked about this at lunch the other day how we come in and one of the mean things as a birth worker that we are going to do is talk about what birthing experience that person wants. It is important to us as birth workers and as your friends to help you get the best experience that you can get and help you get a lot of those things that you desire. Am I wrong there? That is one of the biggest things. Julie: No, I think that's right. Meagan: That's one of the biggest things of what being a doula is. It's one of the most important things is helping these clients and helping our parents get these births that they want. We come in and we ask things like, “What would you like for your birth? How do you envision your birth? What kind of things do you desire to happen or not happen in your birth?” It's more often than not a very similar answer. It's usually things like, “I would like to labor at home as long as possible. I would like to go unmedicated. If not, as long as possible before getting an epidural. I would like to have a vaginal birth and avoid unnecessary interventions.” Julie: Don't want to be induced. Meagan: “Don't want to be induced. I want to go into spontaneous labor,” is just what I was going to say so they don't want to be induced. “I want to avoid a Cesarean.”Julie: “I want my water to break on its own.” Meagan: Yep. “I want to avoid a Cesarean. I want to push as my body and myself direct.” Julie: “I don't want to push on my back.” Meagan; “I don't want to push on my back.” Things like this. If you're listening to this episode, I'm assuming you're shaking your head, “Yep. That's what I want too. That's what I want too.” It's not a bad thing that we want these things. It's not a bad thing. Julie: It's a good thing. It's natural. It's instinctual. It's primal. Meagan: Yes. These things are things that we want for a reason. What I hear when I hear these things is, “I want to birth the way my body is going to birth and was made to birth.” Right? Julie: Yep. Meagan: But as birth workers as Julie was talking about, we have this interesting perspective because we've seen things. I'm not going to sit and say that I've seen all of the scenarios and all the things in birth. I'm not. Again, no I have not been to 600 births but I have been to a lot. I'm still learning as I go but there are so many situations where I can see things unfolding. So we have this client and these people that are wanting this type of birth and then what Julie? 37, 38, 39 weeks. Julie: “Oh, we'd better do an ultrasound to see if your baby's measuring big or check your fluids My gosh, I hear you complaining so much about being pregnant. Let's just induce at 39 weeks. You can pick your baby's birthday. You can do this.” Or all of a sudden, maybe your blood pressure is maybe a little bit high so maybe you have preeclampsia so you have to test that. What does that do? It stresses you out so it makes your blood pressure high even more. Everyone starts to get a little anxious because the due date is approaching. Mom, dad, and parents are getting anxious. Providers are like, “Okay, well we don't want you to go past this date” Especially with VBAC. Oh my gosh, it's not safe to go after 40 weeks because that increases your chance of uterine rupture. Not true, by the way. Meagan: Or we've got a big baby. Julie: “Or we've got a big baby and your last baby was 8.5 pounds so we want to make sure.” All of these are non-evidence-based reasons because people treat 40 weeks like an expiration date rather than an average. That's when, in a hospital system, things start to happen that decrease your chances of all of those beautiful, perfect, wonderful things that you want in your birth. Meagan: Yes. Julie: Sorry, go ahead. Meagan: No, you're fine. You're fine. I was just going to say that this is what we see happen so often. We meet with our clients at 24-34 weeks pregnant and these are their desires. This is what their hearts and their souls are saying. Based on a lot of the time, what they have learned too. They know the evidence-based information so they are like, “Based on that, I don't want to do these things.” But then 37, 38, 39, 40 weeks come and we have these new introductions and new seeds being planted.For some reason, those things leave. They leave our minds. Julie: Well, you're tired. You're very pregnant. You're easily influenced and yes you want to be done. Yes, it sounds nice to be done sooner. Oh no, you don't want to have a complication or preeclampsia, or a big baby. That sounds scary. Shoulder dystocia sounds really complicated. In some instances, it is for sure, but when you start planting those little seeds, then they grow into self-doubt. It's easy to confuse our worries and our fears with intuition. Meagan: They're lost. Yes. Yes. That is the hardest part. We are getting these seeds planted and then they're being watered. The seeds are growing and the roots are pushing out what our intuition was saying from the beginning. Then we make choices and decisions. We are human beings that have the opportunity to make these choices and decisions, but sometimes we are backed into these corners because our seeds are being poured on. We are being flooded with overwhelming, scary feelings. As a birth worker, it can be frustrating. I'm going to be super honest. Julie must be spitting the salt at me. I don't know what she's doing here. It's so infuriating to see and heartbreaking to see someone we know and loves go into this space that we know is not where they wanted to go and then see the cascade happen when it didn't need to. The other day, everyone at Zupas was probably like, “Whoa. These two broads are crazy.” We are very animated. Julie: We weren't very quiet. Meagan: We're not quiet people first of all and we are animated. I feel like in the past, Julie has been a little bit toned down with her bluntness. She'll be blunt but I'm over the top and she's like, “Oh my gosh, Meagan stop.”Julie: Now I'm just like, “Heck yeah, girl.” Meagan: So us together, we're at Zupas saying these things. One of my questions is, and I wish I had the power, knowledge, and time to produce this huge study because I really want to know what happens if we do nothing. What happens? What happens? Julie started adding to that. Do you want to talk about what you added to that?Julie: Yeah. Meagan: Do you remember? Julie: Yes. Okay, sorry. My mind is going on 17 different paths right now like it usually does. I think if you really, really, really want to get a good perspective about birth, really sit down and talk to a doula. One that you haven't hired because I know when my clients hire me, they hire me for my knowledge and my experiences and to support them. I'm not going to say my full, unbiased opinion to a client because I don't want them to feel like I'm not supportive of them. I am supportive of them. Meagan: Or jading them. We don't want to jade. Julie: I don't want them to get doubts about their birth plan going into it because everybody else is planting doubts so I don't want doubts to come from the doula. But really, sit down and talk to a birth worker because I'll tell you what. I see way smoother births at home. I see way less need for induction at home. I see more love and support in the birth space at home or a birth center. I see more mother-led pushing, way more mother-led pushing at home. I never ever see anyone birth on their back at home ever. I see more partner involvement. I see kids involved. I see whoever you want at your birth involvement. I see mothers who are satisfied with their birth experiences at home. I see babies healthier and more skin-to-skin time and happier families and happier outcomes at home hands down. Yes. Are there a few here and there where it is hard and they need more help or there is a hospital transfer every now and then? Sure, but I guarantee that you are more likely to have problems and your baby is more likely to have problems in a hospital because it is set up to control things and it's not set up to trust the mother-baby unit, to trust the parent-baby unit, the birthing person, whatever pronouns you choose to use, insert them here. It's not set up like that. It's not your provider's fault. It's not your nurse's fault. It's not anybody's fault. It's the system and the way that it's integrated and taught to these health providers that birth has to look xyz and has to be done by xyz. The baby should be this size. The mother's xyz has to look like this. It is all set up to facilitate a system that does not trust the parent-baby unit. It does not trust it. At home, it is very well-trusted. It just is. It just is. I don't want to sugarcoat it. This is maybe where my saltiness comes in but you are way more likely to have that birth experience at home. Yes, it can be done safely. Yes, there are still providers at home that will keep an eye on you and transfer you as soon as you might need any medical assistance because it does save lives. It has. We've seen it. We know it, but most of the time, you are— yeah. I'm just going to pause that here for a second and go into where you were trying to lead me here, Meagan. Meagan: You're just fine. Julie: Sorry. I just have so many opinions clearly. Meagan: It's passion, Julie. It's passion. You are passionate because you are seeing things. I am too. I'm seeing things that are unnecessary. They are unnecessary. We will circle back to where I was going, but we will start where you were at. There are so many unnecessary things that are happening in the system that is so frustrating as a birth worker to see because we also have seen the other side. We have seen. Yes, Julie and I personally have experienced the other side. She was at home. I was at a birth center. We have seen it and experience it. The passion that is coming to you through this episode is because we believe. We know as we've experienced it ourselves as people who have given birth in a system that is “off” the straight and narrow path as a lot of people will say. When people were hearing that I was going to VBAC after two Cesareans out of the hospital because I kept it quiet from most people. But you know what happened when it happened online. People were attacking me, “How dare you?”Julie: People are going to throw salt at us now for this episode. Message me on Instagram @juliefrancombirth. I will engage with you. Meagan: But no. This is passion coming from you. This is your passion in saying, “I have seen other things. I've seen other opportunities.” Julie: I've seen the other side. Meagan: We know. We know, women of strength. We know that it is not always suitable, comfortable, or appropriate for you to birth outside of the hospital. We know that. We do. We definitely just have seen things outside of the hospital that are incredible. Julie: Way better. They're way better. They are. Hold on. Let me interject here for just a second. People might say, “Oh, well you've only been to a hundred births. Providers do a hundred births a week in a hospital.” Not a hundred births a week. That would be a lot. But significantly more. I am not going to argue that at all. I've only been a doula for 8 years, 100 births. That's 10-12 a year besides having babies in between then as well. Last year, I did almost 30 which was super great. But here's the thing. When you're in a hospital, you're only seeing hospital births. You are only seeing hospital births. You are only seeing, I don't even know statistics for this, maybe 90-95% of people have an epidural in a hospital? I don't know. Maybe 70%? I don't know. I should probably rescind that number. But a lot. And if you don't have an epidural, guess what you have? You're hooked up to an IV. You have continuous fetal monitoring. You are in the very system that we're trying to break away from right now. That is what you see. You don't see hands-off birth. You don't see the normal, physiological process that happens when you do nothing. Yes, at home you have intermittent monitoring every 30 minutes. You do the lab work and stuff like that. The routine tests and everything like that is done at home prenatally and during the birth, but what happens? You don't get to witness that if you work in a hospital in the labor and delivery unit. You don't get to see that. Meagan: Just a quick search by the way, it's 65-80% of people receive epidurals and stuff. Julie: Huh, there you go. Meagan: But yeah. They don't. Their opinions is tainted a little bit. This is why I kind of wish that I had the power to do this study. If there is one and you are listening and you are aware of this study, please let us know. But the study of what happens if we do nothing? We know the ARRIVE trial. We know that if we induce people at 39 weeks, we sort of know what happens. Julie; Do we induce them at 39 or do we induce them at 40 and 5? Meagan: This is the thing. Really, this hasn't really been done for a long time. We know that ACOG says 42 weeks is the cutoff. We've got an increased risk of things like stillbirth and things like that. But okay, so at 42 weeks, we assess. But what happens if, at 38, 39, 40, and 41, we do nothing? What happens if we don't strip our membranes? What happens if we don't even perform a cervical exam until 42 weeks? Julie: What happens if we don't talk about induction? We don't even talk about it. Meagan: Yes. Don't talk about induction. So what happens if we do nothing? What does our Cesarean rate do then? I'm really curious. Do we go down? Do we go up? Do we start having more issues? I don't know. Julie: What does maternal and fetal mortality look like? Because right now, it is a disaster. Meagan: Yes. It just makes me wonder. Cesarean Awareness Month is something that is near and dear to our hearts. We want to bring awareness to it. Cesarean is 32.1% right now. Julie: Yeah. It went up. 2020 and 2021 preliminary data, the Cesarean rates went up. Surprise, because of COVID. Meagan: As a birth worker, what do we know that happened during that time? What did we see? I'll tell you what I saw. Induction, induction, induction. Julie: People's support system's being taken away. They wouldn't even allow partners there. Guess what else happened? Everybody put masks on. Who feels secure? Some people had to push their baby out wearing a mask. Birth, being a very instinctual and intuitive process, anything that creates that feeling of unsafety or difference or fear will interrupt that process. It will make it less efficient. So when you were taking away people's partners from the birth room, when you're making everyone wear a mask in the birth space, when you had a positive COVID test, or if you did not want to do a COVID test, people would come in wearing hazmat suits. Meagan: Even the fear of testing positive and then the threat of everybody being taken away including the baby. Julie: Yeah. All of these things interrupt that process and then yes, people with COVID. I can't even imagine what it was like in the healthcare system. I cannot even imagine what it was like to be a healthcare worker during COVID and having to deal with all of that also. But then needing to also predict and schedule births to control the number of patients coming in and out of a hospital created this “need” for induction and for causing things to be a little more predictable for everybody. I can understand that to a degree but also, but it introduces the need for other interventions to get the baby here including a Cesarean. Meagan: Right. We're seeing this stuff happen and it is just so hard because if you've been with us for a really long time, you know. You know what we're for. We're here to educate on birth after Cesarean. We're here to educate you on your options for birth. That doesn't mean you have to have a VBAC either. Right before this call, Julie and I had another call. We were talking about not necessarily advocating for a Cesarean, but we're also not saying you're bad for having a Cesarean, right? We're not pro-Cesarean people. We're not advocating for unnecessary Cesareans, but at the same time, we're not shaming anyone or wanting to make you feel bad for choosing that route.Julie: Yeah, absolutely. I think it's important to say that. Our intention is not to shame anybody but also there's a certain point where you've got to stop sugarcoating everything. I tell this to my clients too. I'm not going to bounce around the issues with you. I'm going to tell you things. I'm never going to lie to you. I'm never going to say xyz. I'm not going to tell you, “You're wrong for choosing this,” or whatever because I don't think anyone is wrong for choosing this but I feel like it's so easy to get coerced into doing something we normally wouldn't have done. I feel like it's so easy to feel safer in a hospital because that's how we were raised. I feel like some of these things are ingrained so deeply in us that it's hard to break away from them, but I also am not going to pretend that people's choices are conducive to their birth preferences. There are just some things that don't go together. Natural birth in a hospital does not go together very well. It just doesn't. Not natural, but unmedicated, hands-off birth does not happen well in a hospital. It's a lot harder and it's much more of a fight to get that in a hospital versus out of a hospital. Meagan: Yeah. Well and I think too it's important to talk about creating that space and that environment. If it's in the hospital, okay. But let's talk about how to set that up, how to set that space up. We just recently posted about creating a more homey, comfortable environment. We'll make sure to drop all of it if you guys are interested in checking out these awesome things like getting into your own birthing gown. Going to a hospital, taking off your clothing, and Julie you just talked about this and in a second I want you to bring up what you were talking about with me, but naturally, showing up to a new location with new, strange faces. It's maybe a little cold. It's maybe a little foreign. It's maybe a little staged-looking. Everything is folded up on the bed. Then take off your clothing. What does that do to our body and to our mind? It puts us in an uncomfortable feeling.Julie: A little bit of a fight or flight mode. Meagan: We talked about putting on this thing that is open in the back so our butts are showing. So getting into your own gown, into your own soft, cozy, comfortable gown can bring you some comfort even though you are still changing once you're getting there or maybe you go there in that. Maybe you prepare and you get in that before and you go. Or maybe you don't like IVs and the bottom of an IV looks yucky. There are IV covers to take it away and make it feel less hospitalized because you are in a hospital. But Julie, talk about what you were saying earlier. I was like, “Huh. I've actually never thought of that.”Julie: I saw this on Instagram a few days ago. I'd seen it circulating around before. I wish I knew what account it was so I could tell you to go look at it, but I don't remember. Maybe I saved it. I'll have to look it up while I'm talking. But it basically said, “What would happen if we conceived babies in the same manner that we deliver them?” In order to get pregnant, okay. We need to preface this with sometimes how people need interventions to get pregnant and sometimes you have to have IVF or other things in order to have a baby. But for most people, what if in order to conceive a baby, instead of being in the comfort of your own home with your partner, or I guess wherever you decide to conceive in a car or a forest or wherever, a movie theater. Anyways, whatever your choice, not my business. What if instead of that, you first went to a hospital, changed into their gown, got your blood pressure taken, got hooked up to an IV just in case you need to have some kind of medication–Meagan: Have monitors placed on your belly. Julie: Have monitors placed on your belly, have nurses come in and out and tell you that you can't get started until the doctor comes in– Meagan: Asking you lots of questions. Julie: Asking you about your insurance, your cycle, when your last period was, and all of these things. I don't think you're going to make a baby in that situation. You bring your partner and be like, “Okay, partner. Go get changed now.” Your partner gets changed and everybody's watching you. Everybody's watching you. Meagan: You're on the monitor outside. Julie: I mean, when babies are born, everyone's watching. Freaking hands are in the vagina and freaking everything. What happens if we conceived babies that way? How would that work? How would that work? Let's flip this around. Let's flip this around. What happens if we birth our babies in the same manner that we conceived them?We get in our house, movie theater, car, forest, whatever. We go into our home. We turn the lights down. We run a hot bath. We snuggle with our partners. You probably don't want to have your kids or mother-in-law in your space, but what happens if we created that same environment to increase the flow of our natural hormones, to safeguard and protect that process and make it as intimate as it was when we conceived our babies? Meagan: Yeah. It's a big question. Julie: It's way better and I can say that it's way better because I've had my own, but also, I've seen over a hundred almost births and I see the contrast. I see the contrast and it's a beautiful situation when it's allowed to unfold naturally. Every once in a while, I'll get a nice unicorn birth that has a nice, unmedicated, parent-led birth in a hospital but it's very rare. Meagan: I want to talk about that because, with Cesarean Awareness Month, that's what we do during Cesarean Awareness Month. We talk about things. We do see preventable Cesareans and preventable interventions. Talking about advocating for birth after Cesrean and advocating for yourself, here we are. We go into this space, into the hospital, and we are vulnerable. What do we do? We feel vulnerable because I didn't go to school for 4+ years. I didn't study this. I went to the forest and conceived a baby. Julie: Or a movie theater. Meagan: I went in. I have this. I've learned. I've learned, but now I'm in this space and I'm vulnerable. It's bright. Like Julie said, it's this less-ideal space to give birth. We would never conceive there, so why would we give birth there? But if you're in this space, what do you do? What can you do to create a better space? A better environment? We just had a mama. She wasn't a VBAC but her video went viral. Julie: Katelyn!Meagan: Yep, Katelyn. Maybe actually she might not have been– actually, her episode hasn't even aired yet but you guys definitely need to check out the video on our social media because it is so incredible. Chills all the way from head to toe. It went viral because she advocated for herself. She had nurses. Bless their heart, we love nurses. By the way, if you're a nurse, we love nurses. I don't want to say we hate nurses. But she had nurses following their protocol–Julie: Trying to get her on the bed. Getting baby's blood pressure. Meagan: Trying to get blood pressure. Trying to monitor baby. They tried to get her on the bed and tried to give her a cervical exam, because how would it be if she was 4 centimeters and her midwife was called to come? These things are being told to her. She is pushing out a baby as she's being questioned for all of this stuff. She's literally pushing a baby out of her vagina and standing up in this hospital room. That scenario and that story is few and far between because it is hard. It is so hard. You guys, I was a mom in a birthing room the other day at the veterinarian. I had my puppy. We're sitting there and this doctor is like, “We have to do this. We have to do this. We have to do this.” You guys, I'm a doula. I know how to advocate. Do you want to know what happened? This is a real thing. This really happened. Julie: You have a puppy?Meagan: He's like a puppy. He's five but he's like a puppy. My pup. So we're there and he's telling me all of these things we have to do. Not only is he telling me what we are having to do, but he's also doing things to my dog in front of me, then telling the nurse what he's doing and charging me for these things that I did not ask for. I did not consent to them. I left and I literally paused and thought, “Holy blippity bleep, blah blah blah, bleep.” That is what happens in the birth room way too often. Julie: Yep. Meagan: Women of strength, we do not want this to happen to you. Julie has spit her salt all over and it's all over me too. We're feeling it. Julie: Oh, I'm not done. Meagan: We're feeling it. We're feeling it. Don't let these things happen to you. It's okay to stand up for yourself. It is okay to say, “No, thank you.” It is okay to say, “I hear you. I respect you. I feel differently. I don't want to do that.” Or maybe at a later date. Or maybe at a later time. Julie: Or just cancel your prenatal appointments. I'm not advocating for that, but I've had clients be like, “You know what? I know when I go for my 37-week visit that they're going to push for this and this so I canceled. I'm not concerned. Everything's healthy.” Meagan: Yeah, you just don't have to do anything. I think one of the biggest things and one of the biggest places we can start at avoiding these unnecessary Cesareans– Julie: Is by staying home!Meagan: It's by staying home and advocating. You guys, y'all can tell where Julie is. She's feeling it here at home birth. Julie: I just see it. Go ahead. You go then I'll go. Meagan: I'm just saying that it's okay to stay strong. It's okay to stand strong and try your hardest not to let your vulnerability because it's there. You're so vulnerable in the end. You're tired. You're miserable. You're vulnerable. We just want this baby in our arms. We just want this VBAC more than anything. Don't let people break your vulnerability, sneak in there, and take advantage of you because there is no need. Obviously, if there is a medical, true medical reason, we understand that. Right? They happen. Like Julie said earlier, we're grateful. We're grateful.Julie: There's no shame in that. You should have mercy on yourself if you got railroaded either by the system or by an unexpected emergency. Have mercy on yourself. Give yourself grace because it happens. It's not okay that it happens if the system is the cause of that, but it doesn't make you a bad mom. It doesn't make you a bad human. It doesn't make you a bad anything. It's just what happens sometimes. Meagan: Most Cesareans are unplanned because we had no idea what was happening, but a lot of the time these Cesareans are happening because they are sneaking in, these little sneakers. I don't even know what. I was going to call them weasels. They are weaseling their way in and tapping into our vulnerabilities. I was not the vulnerable one with my second C-section. My husband was and my provider saw it. He snatched it and turned him against me. What did I do? I walked down for a second, unnecessary Cesarean. We don't want these things to happen to you. We want to bring awareness and maybe you're like, “Wow. These chicks are coming in strong.” But you guys, we are passionate. We love you. Julie: We want you to have the birth you want. That's why. Nothing hurts me more than loving someone, knowing what they want, and seeing them get railroaded in a hospital setting. We see it a lot. Meagan: That's what we see most of these times. Julie: A lot. Especially more as a birth photographer. As a doula, I was more involved in the prenatal prep. Sometimes I show up to births as a birth photographer and I've never met the people. They fill out my questionnaire. They hired me. I come in and I'm like, “Hey, I'm Julie. You're in labor. It's nice to meet you.” Those are the hardest ones. I'm never going to watch someone suffer. If you're suffering, I'm going to put my camera down and I'm going to help you. But for first-time parents that didn't feel the need to do any type of childbirth education or learn anything about the process, you just sit there and watch them get railroaded by the hospital setting. You're watching trauma unfold and you're just like, “How is this happening?” But you know how it's happening because you've been watching it for years. I'm talking about myself in the third person or second, or whatever person. But here's the thing. It breaks our hearts. We see it all the time. We see it in The VBAC Link Community all of the time. So many times, people are like, “My water broke so I went into the hospital. I'm only 0 centimeters dilated. They started Pitocin. It's at a 10 and I don't know what to do. I'm not dilating and contractions aren't coming. Help me.” This could have been stopped if you knew that it's okay for your water to break without labor starting and to wait at home for 12-24 hours for labor to start on its own and rest, hydrate, and watch for fever or chills or anything like that then go to the hospital. It's a simple thing to learn but people don't think that because they trust their system. They're going to the hospital and getting railroaded. So many times we see that. All of a sudden, you're water has been broken for however many arbitrary hours your hospital decides is important, and then you get a C-section because all of these things happened. If you would have just known that it's okay to stay home, and there is evidence of staying home. We're not just making this up. There is evidence to support this and just takes a little bit of time to learn. But anyways, that's why I'm sounding really salty today is because I see people get railroaded by the system all of the time. All of the time and it breaks my heart. It breaks my heart. I can leave birth and not be super affected by it anymore usually, but these birth experiences are yours. They're going to affect you for the rest of your life. We don't only know that. We don't want you to be railroaded by the system. We want you to know and follow your heart and follow your intuition. If your intuition is telling you, “Unmedicated birth, not pushing on your back, not getting induced, not wanting cervical checks,” then you probably want to birth at home because as soon as you walk out of the door when you are in labor to go to the hospital, your chances of having that birth go down a lot.Meagan: Yeah. I mean, studies show that people are much more likely to have interventions in labor and birth as soon as they are admitted in labor, especially in early labor. If we rush to the hospital, but in your mind, you're like, “I don't want to do this. I don't want to do that. I don't want to be induced. I don't want interventions,” but the second we start contractions, if we run and go in, our chances of interventions are sky high and the chances of Cesarean are high because we're pushing these things that are leading to Cesareans. Don't shame yourself and offer yourself grace if you've experienced an unexpected, undesired Cesarean. You are not alone. You are not alone. But know that you have options. Sometimes I want to say to open your mind a little bit. Whether you come back to that openness or not, you come back to that original idea or birthing location, open your mind a little bit and learn the stats. See the stats. Hear the stories. Hear what it can be like.I don't want to take away from anyone who has birthed in the hospital and had a beautiful experience because they can happen and they do happen. They do. But yes. There are a lot of other things that can happen in the home or outside of the hospital that may not lead to interventions and things like that because we're at home and we're doing those things. We're doing more of nothing. We're not doing a lot of anything. We're doing nothing. We're watching. We're trusting. We're having faith. It's so important to understand that your body is capable of doing this. I've had some consults lately that broke my heart because people have literally told them they can't. They won't. They shouldn't. Those three words. They can't have a vaginal birth. They will never have a vaginal birth. I was told that. Right here, I was told that I would not get a baby out of my pelvis. Hello, okay. They shouldn't and they can't. Don't believe that. If you are listening to this podcast, whether you be a first-time mom, a second-time mom, a VBAC, a CBAC, a HBAC, breech. Julie: A breech BAC. Meagan: Whatever your history is, whatever you're coming from, know that you are capable. You are capable of making these choices. You are capable of doing this. It is totally possible. Totally possible. Yes, we might sound salty today. We might sound aggressive. Julie: We're passionate. We're seeing women get hurt by the system. Meagan: It's really hard, but sometimes, we have to have these hard, raw conversations. Julie: Direct. Meagan: Direct conversations to say, don't let the system get you. Don't let it get you. Don't let it bite you in the butt. It doesn't have to be like that. It doesn't have to be like that. I hate that it even has a label as “the system”. You guys, this is a system. It's unfortunate that it has come to this. It is unfortunate. I wish that we could all just go back to the farm. Let's have the farm everywhere. Ina May's farm. Let's bring back the farm and just give birth like that. Don't you think, Julie? Wouldn't that be lovely?Julie: That would be beautiful. I think it's a double-edged sword because up until the 1940s, 1950s, maybe a little bit earlier than that, probably the 1920s or 30s, most people gave birth at home. You only went to the hospital if there was an emergency or if you were at higher risk. Meagan: And there were some downfalls about birthing back then too. Julie: Right. That's what I'm getting at because there's a reason why people transfer to the hospital. In the advent of the 50s, 60s, and the 70s, mostly the 70s, all of these new technological advancements and things like that provided ways that we could save lives that otherwise would have been lost. For that, we are incredibly grateful. We are so grateful. Like we talked about a little bit earlier in the hospital, with that, it has evolved into a system that tries to control the birth process so it's a trade-off. I feel like an ideal situation would be where everybody births without intervention unless there are true emergencies. We're not talking about emergencies like, “Oh, I was induced at 39 weeks and my body wasn't progressing past a 4 and it's been 48 hours. My baby's heart rate is starting to go down so now I have to have a Cesarean.” That is a hospital-created, emergent Cesarean. That is a system-created circumstance where a Cesarean became necessary. That happens so much. It happens so much. We have been raised to go to the hospital and have babies. We get induced. My mother-in-law was induced on her due date every single time. She had her babies every time on her due date. She had five kids. Everything went perfectly well. She has no trauma. Who really knows? It's been a while since those things but she speaks very fondly of her births and that's okay. That's good. But now, we are a generation of traumatized women from our birth experiences. You go into a room with four people that have had babies, I guarantee that two of them had a really rough experience. That's another number I'm just making up. You're not going to be able to find any resources for this. Meagan: What do they say? Two out of five people have unexpected Cesareans or something like that. Say at a restaurant and have everybody raise their hand that had a Cesarean. That's the question. Have you ever had a Cesarean? A lot of arms are going to go up. How many of those Cesareans were planned? There are going to be some. Julie: Less than half I would say. Meagan: There are going to be some that stay up, but most of them were unplanned. Julie: I have a cousin that had four Cesareans. The first one was unplanned, the three other ones were scheduled. She says, “It's the best way to have a baby. You go to the hospital, go to sleep” because she would go under general “then you wake up and have a baby.” She loves it. She speaks very fondly of it. That's the way that she likes to birth and that's okay. I don't want to come off as romanticizing home birth because birthing at home is hard. Sometimes your baby is in a wonky position or sometimes your body might be not quite ready. It's going to be a longer and harder process. Sometimes emergencies happen and you have to transfer to the hospital. Things like that happen. I don't want to make it sound like that never happens because it does. I think there are three major home birth studies now that show it's just the mortality rates for mothers and babies are similar in the hospital and at home, so there is not enough difference to say that one is better than the other, but also, at home, guess what is less? Less postpartum hemorrhage. Less chance of the baby needing resuscitation. Less chances of severe tearing. Less chance that baby is going to the NICU at home. It's worth considering. It's worth exploring and my gosh, if you are a 100% hospital birther, I think Meagan touched on this a little bit earlier, we encourage you to check out home birth resources in your area. Just check them out. Just go and talk to a home birth midwife. Ask her what she does in the case of an emergency, what would risk you out of birthing at home, and just talk to them. You don't have to hire them, but talk to them and see what else is available. See if your intuition jives with that. If your partner is on board with a home birth because it's going to freak them out, and you feel like it's something that you want to explore more, it's time to sit down and have a serious talk with that partner. Do not let your partner or your provider take away the chance of having the birth that you want because they feel uncomfortable about it. Meagan: Yeah, that's a hard one. That's a whole other–Julie: I know it is because it's important. You should respect each other's opinions. You should. You should respect each other's opinions. You should respect your partner. You should understand where your partner is coming from. You should take their point of view into consideration. You should be able to come to a compromise, but if your partner is not willing to do that for you, then that's a problem. Meagan: I want to just quickly before we end, plug in some numbers. Look, you guys. Are you so proud of me? Julie, you should be proud of me for talking about numbers. Julie: I am proud of you. Meagan: This is what you usually do. Julie: Before we get into that, I want to say one more thing. I understand that some of the things that we've said are probably going to be pretty emotional for some people. Maybe some people have gotten triggered. Maybe some people just hate us now and they've already unfollowed us on Instagram, who knows? I say us but probably me too. Probably a lot of VBAC Link people follow me on Instagram as well. Let me try and figure out how I'm going to circle back around and say this. If you have been triggered by this episode, I really, really encourage you to lean into that trigger. Don't run away from it. Don't slash The VBAC Link. Don't unfollow us. Don't unsubscribe. Don't trash talk to your midwife buddy about us. I guess you can do all of those things. It's really your choice. But I encourage you to really lean into that trigger because I wish that we were a society of owning our triggers instead of blaming other people for our triggers. Triggers are our own emotional responses caused by some sort of unresolved trauma or issue in our life. If you lean into that trigger and explore it and figure out why it's happening and where it's coming from, you're going to be able to heal emotionally and become a better human. It's going to affect your future pregnancies, your future births, and your future interactions with other people. How would it be to not ever feel triggered like that? It would be really cool. I wish that I was never triggered but I also know that when I get triggered, instead of running away from it, I have learned to really lean into it, explore it, figure it out, and resolve that. I encourage you that if something we said has triggered you, then lean into it. Maybe leaning into it is unfollowing The VBAC Link. Who really knows? But I bet you that there is a deeper issue there. I wish or I hope that you would take some of the things that we have said here and consider them. Maybe lean into that too and explore a little bit more some of the things that we are talking about and why we are feeling this way. I also encourage you to talk to a local doula or a birth photographer and ask about their experiences observing home birth and hospital birth. That's my little parting piece. Meagan: Great, you're right. A quick plug-in before we talk about these numbers, if you are not aware, The VBAC Link has VBAC-certified doulas all over the world. I'm serious, all over the world. So if you are looking for a VBAC Link doula or if you are looking for someone that's really educated and knows their stuff about VBAC, knows how to support you, and also to help find a really solid provider and location and help you determine where is best for you, check out our directory at thevbaclink.com/findadoula. Search your area because seriously, these doulas are incredible. Julie and I a long time ago, back in 2018, started–Julie: 2018, 5 years coming up. Oh my gosh, in a couple of more months. Meagan: Yeah, back when we got together and started this company, our goal was to help change the VBAC world. We cannot do this alone as individuals, so we have all of these incredible doulas helping us out there. So if you are looking for a VBAC doula, I have to gloat about them because they are amazing. Julie: Really amazing. Meagan: But let's talk really quickly before you go about success rates. There's a study that has been done. It was published in 2015 but I believe that it was from 2004-2009 which makes me even wonder now after COVID what it would be because home birth and HBAC have skyrocketed since COVID because a lot of people were, just like we were talking about in the beginning, having their people stripped from them, having to wear a mask, having to deal with the fear of losing their baby if they tested positive and all of these things. But this was a while ago. The success rate was examined. It's a lower number like 1050 or something like that but the rate of successful HBACs was 87%. Julie: That is pretty amazing. Do you know what I love? That's higher than APA because APA says that 60-80% of people who attempt a VBAC will be successful. Meagan: Just in general, a VBAC, yes. Julie: That's general. Hospital, home birth, movie theater birth, whatever. 60-80%. But this at home, did you hear that? 87%. Meagan: At home, 87%. Now, I want to talk about transfer rates. They had an average of 18% transfer rate. Julie: That's kind of high. Meagan: It is kind of high but I want to talk about that because a lot of people might think of an 18% transfer rate and they automatically go to Joe Rogan's page and hear, “Oh, what they are saying is so true. All of these terrible things are happening.” You guys, no. Yeah. Did you see it? Julie: No, send me a link.Meagan: There's a video. You'll have to check it out with Joe Rogan and this lady. I don't even want to get into it. It was so annoying. I just rolled my eyes the whole time. Anyway, the majority of these people that were transferred, I want to preface. It was not because there was a crazy emergency. It was most common for failure to progress. Failure to progress we know has a lot of things. We know that sometimes failure to progress can be due to cervical scarring or maybe we've had really long prodromal labor and things like that. There are a whole bunch of different reasons why but failure to progress and they needed to go to the hospital to then benefit from some of the things that the hospital offers like Pitocin or something like that? But still, only 18% which I know sounds high but still, 87% had a successful VBAC at home, so an HBAC. Julie: Okay, so I also want to say two things. First of all, the study might have had certain protocols to follow for a transfer. That might have caused the transfer before it was necessary. I don't know. I haven't seen this study. But also, the second thing is that I heard somewhere, and it might be different with study protocols, but I heard somewhere and I feel like my circumstances support that most hospital transfers are due to maternal exhaustion. They are so tired. They have labored for so long but I don't have a number to back that up. But that's interesting that that study shows that. That's really cool. Meagan: Yeah. There are things. We know that women at home can sometimes lack resources, but you can also talk to your provider if you're birthing at home and talk about, “Hey if I'm not progressing, what kind of things can we do to help progress?” Sometimes that's processing and sometimes that's nipple stimulation. Sometimes that's getting everyone out of a room, turning off the lights, and taking a nap. There are so many things that go into it but it's a pretty small study relatively. But still, wow. It does represent something. It represents something and we can't ignore it. But anyway, we are pro-choice. We are pro everybody making the best choice for them but we do. Julie: We're also pro-not watching the system railroad people. Meagan: I was going to say that we do see so many things that are so avoidable. I've had clients in the past years. One client probably two years ago, she was 38 and 5 I want to say. I'd have to go back and look at my notes and the provider was like, “I don't know. You look big. It looks like this baby is measuring big. It could be anywhere from 8-10 pounds. We should probably induce. I will totally support this VBAC but let's induce.” The cervix wasn't doing much. It just wasn't an ideal spot to be walking in for an induction and they required breaking water. They wouldn't put Pitocin in. When the water was broken, they needed Pitocin after that which is interesting. She got up to a 1 and started Pitocin, had an IUPC placed, an FSC placed, and all of these things. Boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, and it was just so hard because you guys, I adore this person. I adore this person but it was so hard to see these things and see the path that it was going down knowing that the end result was likely coming to a repeat Cesarean when that's not what she was wanting. It was so hard texting my doula community, my resource group that we all have as birth workers saying, “You guys, pray. Pray. Pray that this is just one of those miracles because it's one of those situations that we see too often.” It did. It ended in a repeat Cesarean. It was healing. It wasn't an emergency. She did heal from it, but it didn't need to happen. I can't say that for a guarantee. I can't say something wasn't going to happen, but it didn't need to happen that way. So women of strength, here we are. We love you. We know that you are in a hard situation. We've been there. We've been there. Julie's been told by providers in the hospital that she would rupture. I was told that I would rupture. No. You were told that your baby would die. Julie: Me and my baby would die. Meagan: Yes. We were told these really scary things. Do we hate the hospital? No. Do we hate it? No. Do we hate what we see in it? Yes. Julie: Yeah, a lot of time. Meagan: We hate it. We hate what we see. I mean, not always. I can't say that we always hate what we say but so many times we hate seeing things that are just avoidable. So here we are. Know that we're here. We've got our course. We've got the blog. We've got this podcast. We've got our private Facebook community. We have Instagram. We have so many resources filled with evidence-based information. If you are wanting to up your VBAC game and learn the history of VBAC, learn about Cesarean, the history of Cesarean, learn about VBAC, learn how to find the right provider, learn how to tap into where you want to birth, and really tune into that, this course is going to help you walk through that path. Whether or not you choose a Cesarean, you choose a VBAC, you choose an induction, you choose home birth, hospital birth, midwife, OB, unmedicated, medicated, whatever it may be, we are here to support you but it is so important to us that you find that information that you are filled with the evidence-based information ready to take on the birth and have the birth experience. So if you want to learn more about all of these resources, check the show notes. They are all going to be listed. Go to thevbaclink.com and click around you guys. You're going to get lost in there because there is a lot. There is a lot of incredible information. But yeah. Julie, anything you want to add before we let the listeners go? Julie: I do. I do have something we want to add. Listen. Me and Meagan want to do a birth together, a VBAC. Maybe at home, maybe at a hospital but if you are in Utah, Salt Lake or Utah County, Weber, Davis, Tooele, Park City, and any of those areas, reach out because we have a special bundle discount that we will give to you if you hire Meagan as your doula and me as your birth photographer. Meagan: Yes. We've done a birth together as doulas switching up. We've never done a birth as a birth photographer and a doula. Julie really wants us to work together. Julie: I do. We will be a package deal. We will take some money off of our services for you so that we can have that experience and then you get both of us at your birth which is a total win. Meagan: That would be really fun. It would be really, really fun. Okay, listeners, we love you. We love you so much. Happy Cesarean Awareness Month. It's April. We're going to be posting those stats and all of the things this month so stay tuned. If you have not followed us on Instagram or Facebook, check us out at @thevbaclink. You can find us anywhere and we are so grateful that you are here. Hopefully, after today's episode, you're not unfollowing us on all of this. We love you. We just have to say that. Julie: And you can follow me @juliefrancombirth.Meagan: Yes. You can follow Julie at @juliefrancombirth.Julie: Bye! ClosingWould you like to be a guest on the podcast? Tell us about your experience at thevbaclink.com/share. 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