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Ashley Holt is passionate about bringing women's voices and leadership into the world! After facing divorce and becoming a single parent, Ashley reinvented her life and turned her pain into her power and purpose! She is the author of Goddess, Wake up! Through all of her books, Ashley's mission is to empower others to claim their power, recognize their highest potential and live their best life! We begin our conversation by jumping in to discuss Ashley's journey through her divorce and how being introduced to positive affirmations changed her life! For Ashley, this was a “mind-blowing” transformation. Growing up, Ashley didn't have a lot of confidence and felt very insecure. When she started using positive affirmations, it took her a while to get comfortable speaking those words into existence. What Ashely found was that they started to work! It was then that she started researching how these affirmations help to rewire the brain. She then began to listen to these affirmations while she slept. She then asked herself, why was she just learning this information? It was then that she started teaching these affirmations to her children. She then started to incorporate these affirmations into children's books so other children including her own would be exposed to these affirmations as well. Ashley started to share her stories at schools and libraries. As her children grew up she ventured into writing books for teens. Through her talks with teen girls, the mom's would reach out and say that even they needed these messages and that's how she eventually wrote books for adults. Ashely then goes on the explain that during this time she realized that what she needed to do was to share how she got through her pain and begin sharing how she started to lie a life based on her potential instead of the pain. This became the seven steps to the goddess mindset transformation! The commitment to this transformation is that it takes five minutes per day. That's not very long! We then dive into the contents of her book. The 28- day goddess mindset transformation is based on the word G.O.D.D.E.S.S Each letter is an affirmation and teaching. G- Get outside your comfort zone O-Overcome negative self-talk D-Dare to dream big D- Declare your desires to the universe E-Expect Miracles S-Stand In your truth S-Surrender to self-love Ashley shares that towards the end of the 28 days, you will have gotten outside of your comfort zone and allowed yourself to see what is possible. You are beginning to not just dream but dream BIGGER! When you think of a goddess, she stands in honor of her superpower and you can not take that away from her because it is her very essence. Ashley feels that we are all here with one special gift and we are supposed to shine into the world. We need to stop hiding that goddess within us because the world is waiting for it! What is your goddess superpower and how do you find it? Ashley encourages us to stop playing small and unleash her inner goddess! Resources Connect with Ashley Holt Connect with Deborah Voll Take The Midlife Quiz Passion and Purpose Digital Workbook
: Episode 1882 - On this Saturday show, Ashley Penkal and Vinnie Tortorich talk setting goals and getting stronger, adding weight, and more, and Vinnie talks Ashley through some exercises that will improve her strength. Https://www.vinnietortorich.com/2021/07/setting-goals-getting-stronger-episode-1882 PLEASE SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS GETTING STRONGER Ashley has been on the show Many found her inspirational, and she's back! Now, she's working on building core strength. Currently, she's up to SIX chinups. She started from ZERO in January! She'll continue working her way up to ten, then she'll start adding weight. Vinnie would suggest she wait until she can do several sets of 20 to add weight. When people add weight, that's when they get hurt. For Ashley, setting the goal was really important. FAT DOC 2 IS AVAILABLE ON iTUNES and AMAZON Please also share it with family and friends! Buy it and watch it now on iTunes to get it to the top of the charts. We need it to get big for people to see it. Here's the (BLUERAY, DVD, PRIME) (MAY NOT BE AVAILABLE YET ACROSS THE POND). And the And the https://amzn.to/3rxHuB9 [the_ad id="17480"] PLEASE DON'T FORGET TO REVIEW the film AFTER YOU WATCH! FAT DOC 1 IS ALSO OUT Go watch it now! We need people to buy and review for it to stay at the top of iTunes pages. Available for both rental and purchase. You can also buy hardcopy or watch online at Amazon. YOU CAN NOW STREAM FOR FREE ON AMAZON PRIME IF YOU HAVE IT! RESOURCES Https://www.vinnietortorich.com Https://www.purevitaminclub.com Https://www.purevitaminclub.co.uk Https://www.purecoffeeclub.com Https://www.nsngfoods.com Https://www.bit.ly/fatdocumentary https://vinnietortorich.com/2021/04/learning-the-lifestyle-episode-1817/
Have you ever thought about working with your husband or significant other? For many couples that I know, that would not be a pleasant thought. For Ashley and Hakim Gonzalez of Beautyliscious it's been a welcome change. Not only does this amazing couple work together, but Ashley also taught her husband Hakim (a 10-year experienced barber)how to do lashes last year. The two now run Beautyliscious in Oxnard, California, and are quite the power lash couple. We sit down with this duo and get to hear their story about how they got to where they are now. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode and we think it would be good for you to have your significant other listen in with you. Maybe you'll be in inspired in 2021 to make some big family changes in your business. Contact Info: https://www.beautyliscious.net/ IG: @beautyliscious_ox ANNOUNCEMENTS: LINK TO OUR LASH ALLERGY WEBINAR: http://bit.ly/3gzDR7w LINK TO BUY A LASHCONFERENCE T-SHIRT: http://bit.ly/3pylzIf LINK TO APPLY TO BE A SPEAKER AT THE LASHCONFERENCE 2021 https://forms.gle/TjthxSqCGEytqyyD9 LINK TO APPLY TO OUR FOCUS GROUP: If you are interested please click on this link and fill out the application: http://bit.ly/3nRr3NK GUEST ANNOUNCER LASCAST OPENING SCRIPT Here is our script that you can use to record the opening to our show: "Hi I’m (name) and I work at (name of biz) in (city, state) and I’m today’s guest announcer. You can find me on Instagram at (IG handle)! Cue the music… In an industry where most of us spend the majority of our time working alone in a room, this podcast was created so you can learn, be encouraged, and find a connection with other lash and beauty professionals. This is the LashCast Podcast and here’s your host, Paul Luebbers." PLEASE FOLLOW US! IG: @lashcastpodcast @thelashconference.con Facebook: www.facebook.com/groups/lashcastpodcast/ Contact Paul Luebbers: paul@lashcastpodcast.com
Hello-ho-ho, everyone! Welcome to the most wonderful time of the year -- Sagittarius Season! It's also the time that many a film is set, designed to illicit "cheer" and "goodwill" and "Jesus". For this reason, we have decided to add a new mini series to our docket where we watch not just any holiday movie, but movies we have, embarrassingly, just never got around to watching. For Ashley, one of those films is this one -- National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation. We watched this live on Twitch and encountered a mini Q&A with children. We looked up the Treaty of Versailles. It was a hoot. Maybe you'll want to watch the upcoming ones live, too? Follow us on Instagram to learn more about our upcoming watch parties! Instagram: babylambspodcast Twitch: http://twitch.tv/babylambspodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/baby-lambs-podcast/support
For Ashley's birthday the girls discuss the tragic history of icon Judy Garland. From The Wizard of Oz to the Renee Zellweger biopic, they go through Judy's life from start to finish. Also, Kelsey didn't hate Meet Me in St. Louis. This is big news.
We focus on our relationships with TRAVEL. | For travel professionals Erick Prince and Ashley Renne, their relationships with travel evolved over time. For Ashley, it morphed into a purpose for environmentalism, sustainability and a plant-based lifestyle. For Erick (aka Minority Nomad), it’s led to him wanting to be the first African-American man to travel all over the world, with 95 countries currently under his belt. | We hope this episode gets you thinking about how traveling can impact your growth.
Veteran news booker and producer Ashley Bernardi founded Nardi Media in 2015, which quickly became a leading media relations agency with an expertise in broadcast, print, and online press. With a strategic focus on media relations, Ashley never misses an opportunity to develop relationships with reporters and producers, proactively generate media coverage and integrate her clients into the news of the day. Ashley has over a decade of booking and producing experience in national television broadcasting. More important than her lengthy list of accolades - including her tenure as a top booker at national news networks like Bloomberg and CBS News and booking producer for The Washington Post - is her passion for publicity. Her deep expertise extends to radio and television satellite media tours, booking guests for breaking news, media strategy and managing production logistics for live shots, television shoots, and more. Ashley has helped clients grow from zero exposure to household names on the New York Times Bestsellers list. Additionally, she has helped heads of state, lawmakers, celebrities, best-selling authors, non-profit organizations and national brands increase their exposure, credibility and awareness through strategic media placements, which include placing clients in top-tier publications and media outlets such as The Washington Post, The New York Times, TODAY, Good Morning America, CBS This Morning, NPR, Fortune, Business Insider, USA TODAY, PEOPLE, TIME, CNBC, Bloomberg, Women's World, Family Circle, FIRST For Women, and hundreds more. She is a sought-after speaker and regularly featured expert in the media, including WJLA-TV and WTTG-TV in Washington, D.C. Ashley shares about her wake up call with Lymes disease and how she learned one of the biggest lessons of her life; letting go of the doing, perfectionism and need to put her self care first. After 30 doctors with no diagnosis, it wasn't until her last visit with the 31st doctor who finally diagnosed her Lyme's. It took Ashley over 8 weeks to be able to get out of bed and start moving again. She sees this health crisis as one of her biggest gifts and has learned to re-prioritize her entire life around healing and honoring her body, mind and spirit. Ashley shares some of her healing practices that she incorporates daily to stay well and have good energy. Surrender everything, let go and let what's meant to flow and heal come in. Make time for stillness. For Ashley this was meditation and prayer. Do intuitive journaling and sacred writing. This is where you get out your pen and write whatever comes to mind, doodle or draw until you start to get more insight or flow to your thoughts. Gentle yoga and time in nature helped to lower her cortisol levels (which were dangerously high from her stressful job and lifestyle). Repeat the mantra 'this is temporary' as often as needed. This helped Ashley stay grounded! Be an overcomer, not an overachiever! Find what you loved to do as a child and start incorporating that in your day; for her it was dancing, singing, reading and writing. We also talked about the lessons of the pandemic and how this can be a time for real change and deep reflection on what's really important. This is a time to come home to yourself and connect more to spirit (or whatever you call that divine connection) and your true self. Connect with Ashley Bernardi Website: https://nardimedia.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nardimedia Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nardi_media/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashley-bernardi Twitter: https://twitter.com/bookerbernardi Enjoying the show? For iTunes listeners, get automatic downloads and share the love by subscribing, rating & reviewing here! *Share what you are struggling with or looking to transform with Julie at podcast@juliereisler.com. 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There’s a lot of debate these days around the topic of masks…no, I’m not talking about Covid masks right now, I’m talking about the proverbial masks that a lot of us put on. Maybe we are putting on a mask that says that we think we’re perfect or our life hasn’t been hard, or maybe we’re hiding things in our past. Those masks can be so dangerous, but when we begin to remove those masks to reveal the deep layers of truth within us, that’s when we really come alive. My guest this week is Ashley Abercrombie, a writer, speaker, and author of the book Rise of the Truth Teller: Own Your Story, Tell It Like It Is, and Live with Holy Gumption. She’s also the cohost of the hilarious and helpful podcast, Why, Tho? and can be found basically wherever there is a coffee or a cheese board. She lives in Los Angeles with her husband and two sons. I had the absolute best conversation with Ashley. When I met her, I knew she was my kind of person. With no further ado, join me to hear more about Ashley and her mission. 6:00 – The Ashley Abercrombie 101 Ashley is an author, speaker, and podcaster. When she was 21, she moved from the small town of Eden, North Carolina to Los Angeles where she met her husband and they had their first baby. Four years ago, they moved to Manhattan and had their second baby. Not long after, they realized how much they missed their home in California and decided it was time to move back to their beloved community there. Ashley has been writing since she was her little girl. Her best-selling author and chart-topping podcast were not overnight successes. Ashley has been writing since she was a little girl; hers has been a journey of 20 + years spent writing on lunch breaks, early in the morning, and late at night because she simply loves expressing herself through the written word. Writing has been a way for Ashley to process her own pain and serve the community around her. In her early 20s she became distracted from that calling and experienced a lot of pain, but was able to process it, recover, find her voice, and pursue writing and speaking full time. It took a long time for Ashley to understand how to put on her own oxygen mask first but take off her “performance” and “strong” mask to realize she couldn’t be strong all the time, every day. Especially in the Christian sphere, we can act like we need to show up with everything clean and tidy and that we can’t have messy stories, which is obviously a lie from the pit of hell. 11:36 – A Deep Wound, A Lifeline Growing up, Ashley and her brother spent a lot of time with their grandparents and great aunt while their parents worked. Ashley went to church with her great aunt every Sunday morning and brought flowers for the alter and opened the library for the pastor and church members. For Ashley, it represented a place where she could find respite and quiet from the noise of school and the hustle and bustle of trying to figure out everyday family life. When she was 16, Ashley decided to walk away from the faith community because as a teenager, she was struggling to relate to an older church crowd. At 21, while living in Los Angeles, Ashley came back to the church in one of her most broken moments. She found a community where she was loved and not judged. So many people grow up in the church but walk away from it at a young age, wrestling with their faith and what church looks like as an adult. We can absolutely be constantly wrestling with God and asking hard questions. There is so much shame around difficult conversations. Often the church makes judgements or avoids these conversations all together. The silence of shame became unbearable for Ashley and becoming more an more isolated worry what people would think about her but knowing she couldn’t tackle her struggles on her own. She started asking God where He was. One day she took a drive around Raleigh, NC and it started to storm. She started shouting at God and as she did, she felt flooded by the love the Holy Spirit had for her. She’d never experienced anything like it before, especially since she thought she had to have everything right before she could be loved by God. It was the first time she admitted to herself that she couldn’t hold things together, and certainly not on her own. It’s when she started to take the mask off and stopped caring what people thought about her. 21:30 – Leading with Story Recover communities lead with stories. The first thing you hear when you go to a meeting is other people’s stories. They also helped Ashley realize the things from her childhood that affected her as an adult. Ashley leads with stories in her book, the way she learned in recovery. It’s connective and teaches us that we’re not perfect. We don’t have to wear masks all the time, performing for each other. For the first time in her life, Ashley started to read the Bible and listen to sermons. She realized in the church she was fed a “victory narrative,” but when she took time to examine the lives of people in the Bible, she realized their lives were very hard and began to identify with the imperfection she was finally learning about. The Bible makes room for ALL people from all walks on life on all different journeys. Ashley realized she could finally stop trying to be perfect all the time because victories never came from easy times in the Bible. God uses imperfect, flawed people with imperfect, flawed stories. These biblical stories were literally the foundation of our faith and God’s plan! The more we own the dark parts of the story, the more healing it is for others who have parts of their stories they feel shame over. It’s easy for our shame to creep back in even in the midst of owning our stories in their entirety. God doesn’t lead us with shame or guilt or holding our past over our heads. We may have to reconcile our pasts, but you can identify that shame is not from God. It is not how we would speak to ourselves or anyone we love. We’re often expected in our cultures and societies to stay inside certain boundaries and stay in our little boxes. If we branch out from this, we’re told to get back in line. This is especially true for women in our culture. The reality of integrity is a deep commitment to being who we are, even when we’re working toward improving our lives. 32:47 – Consequences We can made mistakes and find freedom in forgiveness and repentance, but there may still be consequences to our actions. Even when David repents and has been forgiven, God tells him he will still have to face the consequences of what he did. When we’re brave enough to take off our masks and make mistakes and try again and do our best and be honest with our story, we give others the courage to do the same. We are supposed to value people as made in the image of God. It creates community here on earth as God designed it when we drop our performance narratives and allow our real stories to come through. 37:30 – Faith and Justice Ashley is passionate about social justice, fighting human-trafficking, and initiatives against mass incarceration. There’s a huge relationship between faith and justice and for many people in the world right now, they are waking up to it for the first time. Justice is the heart of God and goes hand to hand with righteousness in scripture. There is never a way we can hate our neighbor but say we love God. We can’t divorce our love of God from love of neighbor. When Ashley really started listening to people’s stories, she finally started to understand how unjust our systems are. God invites us to learn His ways in a relationship with Him that includes humanity. We must hold people and systems accountable to right damages and injustice that they create, which includes letting them feel the consequences of those actions. God has a lot to say about injustice, over 300 scriptures as a matter of fact. We are to create righteous communities and connections, valuing all people in God’s image. 51:06 – A Prayer As we navigate the rest of the 2020, Ashley’s prayer for the world and for herself is that this would be a time for us to lean into what the Spirit says. 54:00 - Getting to Know Our Guest Find out what Ashley’s professional athlete hype song would be, how she’d prove she’s from the future if she could time travel, what she thinks we’ll be nostalgic for in 40 years, and a few of her guilty pleasures. Be sure to stay tuned to find out what it means to Ashley to run a business with purpose. (So Many) Memorable Quotes 10:26 “I believe that I have a voice and that it’s important that I use it. I believe that about every person, no matter our sphere of influence. I believe that God has created us so uniquely to speak and that we live in this very wild world that is looking for hope and looking for grace and looking for more nuance than our news narratives and social media narratives allow us to have.” 10:59 “I didn’t know how to let people in I didn’t know how to say, ‘I have needs too,’ and I just thought I could always be the fixer or the advisor, the one people came to, the strong one…you realize that falls apart at some point. I’m not strong all the time.” 11:19 “I had to go on a real journey of taking off my mask and getting real and stop pretending and performing and learn how to be in real relationship with people. We can be loved even though we’re broken.” 14:58 - “I’m still unlearning some of the things [in the church] that are cultural and not biblical. Even though I’ve been hurt in the church, and I think if you’re human you have and the church is not perfect (it has imperfect people in it), overall I really do love that gathering and the corporate worship, and being together.” 15:27 - “For me in some ways the church has been a deep wound, but it’s also been a lifeline.” 22:27 – “I have come to a place where I value so much more, integrity over image.” 23:32 “I really began to identify, and I began to allow myself to be imperfect because that is all I saw in the scripture … imperfection.” “The bible is so diverse and rich. It makes room for people. It makes room for people of all colors, all shapes, all sizes, all backgrounds, and I just began to cultivate a life that did that too.” 35:59 – “When you meet a free person, you feel free to speak…when you see a brave person stand up against injustice, it makes you feel brave. It makes you feel like there’s a normal person doing the right thing, so I can be a normal person doing the right thing instead of pretending this thing doesn’t exist.” “Our courage gives others courage. Our vulnerability allows space for vulnerability for others. Our love for humanity cultivates diversity, equity, opportunities for people to be together and I think that’s really what we’re here for.” 39:23 – “Justice is just not a trend. It’s the very heart of God. Justice and righteousness are present together in scripture.” About Ashley Abercrombie: Ashley is a speaker and writer, whose work has been featured in various magazines and digital outlets, including Darling, OprahMag.com, Relevant, and Grit and Virtue. She is the author of Rise of the Truth Teller: Own Your Story, Tell it Like it is, and Live with Holy Gumption, and her YouVersion devotional, Finding God in the Hard Places, has been completed by over 250,000 people. Ashley is the co-host, alongside Tiffany Bluhm, of the hilarious and helpful podcast — Why Tho. For more than 15 years, she has worked in non-profit spaces, leading faith-based initiatives, serving as a prison chaplain and pastor, and speaking at conferences, churches, and events. Ashley has an unrelenting passion for justice, particularly anti-human trafficking and mass incarceration initiatives, and serves as the Executive Board Chair of Treasures, a non-profit that reaches and supports women in the sex industry, and victims of sexual exploitation. Ashley and her husband, Cody officiate a lot of weddings, leading couples through premarital counseling, and are developing a curriculum and course to help people prepare for marriage. Born and raised in the Southeast of America, Ashley has called Los Angeles and Manhattan home, so she’s got a little southern, east coast, west coast twang. Ashley currently resides in Los Angeles, raising two boys by the pool, with her husband and beloved Nespresso machine. Connect with Ashley: https://www.ashabercrombie.org/ https://www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie/ https://www.facebook.com/ashleyabercrombienyc https://twitter.com/AshAbercrombie https://www.pinterest.com/ashabercrombie/ Thank you to our partners of the show: Ammas Umma Did you know I have an ethical brand directory? That's what Chelsea used to start finding products for her boutique almost four years ago! Now, Amma's Umma carries over 50 intentionally sourced brands and is the perfect one stop shop for all your gift giving needs. As a thank you to the Still Being Molly community, she is offering 20% off with code SHOPWITHMOLLY for the month of August. Head to shopwithmolly.com for all the details. GOEX At GOEX, we believe in the power of purchase. We use a simple t-shirt to connect our customers with their apparel makers. GOEX customers sustain fair wage jobs that liberate workers from poverty and empower them in their families and communities. 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The pandemic has caused some unusual things. Social distancing? Conspiracy theorists? The uptick in “uncoupling”? We’ve found ourselves on different pages in two major parts of our lives. With the extra time, we each invested it in different ways. For Billy, it has been his career. For Ashley, it has been parenthood. Investing time in these areas has also left the other behind - hence, we are on different pages. Listen in as we replay the first conversation we had about this and how we are already working through this. What we talked about in this episode: What the extra time during the pandemic has looked like for us How Ashley brought up this conversation This method is NOT recommended! The areas of our life we are on the same page Why being on different pages doesn’t have to be an area of conflict How we plan to work through this and tips for you in your relationship
Part of the magic of college is that you get to learn a bunch of new stuff, not just from your professors, but also all the weird stuff that you get introduced to from a jumble of friends, friends of friends, and friends of friends of friends that you meet. A visit to someone’s trashed out apartment can introduce you to something that could change the course of your life. For Ashley that something was David Cross and Bob Odenkirk’s MR. SHOW, which aired on HBO from 1995-1998. This influential comedy sketch show is a must watch for anyone who enjoys comedy. Can Dave and Ashley manage to talk about a sketch show without just summarizing the sketches? Find out on this week’s episode of Shut Up and Watch this. Terra-da-loo! Subscribe in iTunes, Android, or Spotify. Follow us on Facebook and Instagram. Visit our site: shutupwatchthis.wordpress.com Send your feedback to shutupwatchthis@gmail.com Please consider leaving a review or a star rating on iTunes, so other folks can find us. © 2020 Ashley Carr & Dave Wilson
What's up??? We are back with episode two! On this episode, we discuss how now that we are adults and also mothers... are frienships have shifted into a complete ghetto, chaotic, and misunderstood mess. For Ashley, it starts with her learning to communicate more efficently and be more empathetic to sustain those meaningful friendships. Whereas for Tiffany she discusses how adding more "mom friends" in her life, helped and established more stable friendships for her overall. Tiff and Ash also dive deep into a blog article shared on recently various social media platforms and listed below; where a young writer discusses her "ugly truth" about friendships, and what she is doing to combat it. http://www.blackgirlswhitecoats.com/2020/02/13/the-ugly-truth-about-adult-friendships/ We also discuss a possible new segment that we need help naming... its currently called: "let me tell ya something"... but we would love for some more spicier names suggestions!!! SO sit back and enjoy the show! Follow us on IG: @confessionsofmillennialmilfs Ashley's Instagram: @ashleywhite_ Tiffany's Instagram: @_sunshine9210 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/millennialmilfs/message
What criteria defines a classic film? An advancement in film technology? A technically flawless script? A unique blend of genre? For Ashley the criteria has to include some expression of humanity. The depth of humanity on display in Guillermo del Toro’s dark fantasy, PAN’S LABYRINTH (2006) made it an instant classic in Ashley’s mind. Dave started watching years ago, but he never saw the whole film. A hard watch in parts, the rewards of this masterful blend of fantasy and cruel reality are well worth braving some momentary discomfort. Subscribe in iTunes, Android, or Spotify. Follow us on Facebook and Instagram. Visit our site: shutupwatchthis.wordpress.com Send your feedback to shutupwatchthis@gmail.com Please consider leaving a review or a star rating on iTunes, so other folks can find us. © 2019 Ashley Carr & Dave Wilson
For Ashley's bday episode, the girls dive into something that has been a point of contention their entire friendship-- old movies. Ashley assigns Kelsey two Cary Grant films to analyze and things go differently than planned
“I think the temptation when we are feeling a lot is to either be lead by those feelings or to completely shut them down...” We are each on a journey toward becoming emotionally whole. For Ashley that journey began through a battle with chronic illness and it has evolved through the different stages of her life. Her heart burns to not only have emotional health for herself, but also to help others become the healthiest version of themselves as well . She is always willing to go beneath the surface and talk about the real and hard things if it means that you will find breakthrough. Join us as Christelle interviews Ashley and they talk about what it means to be emotionally healthy. They discuss the connection between spirit, soul and body, what it looks like to properly handle our feelings and more. In this episode Ashley shares what she has learned through years of diving into this topic. You’ll want to hear this one! Tune in! Follow this link for your FREE Ebook, Becoming the Best Version of You: http://bit.ly/becomingthebestversionofyouebook Contact: podcast@shescapable.com She’s Capable Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/Shes-Capable-2784726978209098/?ref=content_filter She’s Capable Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shescapable/
Say hello to Oregon native Ashley Brehm aka @ashleyinwanderland. Ashley is a photographer and Sony Alpha collective member known for here moody PNW portraits. For Ashley, her art is her escape from reality, it's what saved here during some of her darkest times. Ashley pours her heart and soul into art and in this episode, she gives the AOV Community a glimpse into her world. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Today's guest is Ashley Copeland. Ashley is a blogger, podcaster and YouTuber who focuses on investing and growing your money — specifically how you can make your money work for you, and grow it passively. Ashley has a podcast and a YouTube channel called Stacks and the City, which is all about how to get money, save money, and be financially savvy while still living a very urban, millennial lifestyle. She has a six-figure net worth and built it through real estate and investments. Ashley's journey goes all the back to her childhood. She was raised by a single, working mom and lived below the poverty line even with her mom working multiple jobs. She knew that she never wanted to feel like that in adulthood, so as a teenager, she started reading investment books and figuring out the best way to bolster her income for the long-term. For Ashley, there was no other choice but to save money on things like shopping and eating out, so she could focus on building her investments and provide a foundation for her future. That line of thinking is what lead her to teaching others about money and the power of investing. In this episode, we discuss making money as a freelancer, how you can increase your income, and how to manage a team. Everything we talk about is centered around increasing your income, so when you're making the big bucks you don't just have that money sitting in a bank account. “I think that some of the money issues that our peers have are because they feel like they need to keep up with the Jones's or keep up on Instagram.” In this episode Ashley talks about: Her personal background and inspiration for her wealth management. The best way that you can start building wealth today and how to make it last into the future. The biggest mistakes she sees millennials making with their money. Main Takeaways Fear and lack of knowledge is the main thing keeping people from getting into the investment game. You need to take a leap of faith. Reduce your debt and understand that wealth building takes a life time. Pick your niche and stick with it. It's the best way to build wealth. Friends and peer pressure pushing you to spend too much money is a huge problem with millennials and their relationship with money. Purchasing real estate and getting a roommate for said real estate is one of the best ways to grow your wealth early on. Links Stacks and the City Ashley on Instagram Ashley on YouTube Stacks and the City Podcast Stay in touch Get The Client Magnet Roadmap Follow Avani on Twitter Follow Avani on Instagram Follow Avani on LinkedIn
Turn-down. Brush off. Nix. No matter how you say it, rejection is never a fun thing to experience. Sometimes you can control it and other times you cannot. In this episode, we share some of our first experiences with rejection, some recent ones and our ways to try and overcome it. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: Our early experiences with rejection For Billy, being rejected from his top choice college For Ashley, it was being rejected (and rejecting) new classmates after moving More recent rejections Our first proposal under our business Bashley Collaborative Difficulty reaching out to a sibling due to fear of rejection Job and board applications Tips for overcoming rejection Let yourself feel those initial emotions (anger, sadness, etc,), but recognize that you have to pull yourself out of it Remember that some situations you can control and others you cannot Don't let the fear of rejection paralyze you from taking action
Ego is a dirty little word and we are dedicating an entire episode to it. We recently noticed others disguising their self-serving actions as the acts of a servant leader. We then challenged ourselves to look inward and determine how our egos affect us. In this episode, we discuss the dirty side of our egos, what our ugly egos look like, the ways it affects our relationship, and how it impacts others and our leadership. Plus for some reason, Billy snorts in the middle of this episode. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: Examples of ego and self-serving leadership The ways ego interferes with our relationship For Billy, its putting himself into every situation and giving advice or a coaching session when Ashley shares a struggle or issue For Ashley, it's an inability to apologize when in the wrong out of fear of looking like the lesser person Why Billy snorts in the middle of a podcast episode How ego disables us as leaders Our shared “my way or the highway” mentality that possible stems from an egotistical view of being the smartest person in the room Reminding ourselves why we are doing what we do For Ashley, is it for praise? For Billy, is it for power? What reality star reminds Ashley of Billy Hint: They have a massive ego
We talk a lot about goals, action, and achievement on this podcast. But we are human. There are things that hold us back from being our best selves. Rather than pointing the finger at external obstacles, we are looking inwards and sharing the ways we hold ourselves back. There is lots of vulnerability in this episode. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: Looking at external factors that gold you back is easy, but it’s hard to look internally The biggest obstacle to every goal is yourself The ways we hold ourselves back For Billy, it is thinking too far in the past He overanalyzes his past actions and their impact on the present For Ashley, it is being too concerned with what others perceive There is an interesting balance of managing credibility and maintaining humility For or us together, it is being too comfortable with one another We fall into our roles and do not challenge ourselves
Ashley Micciche is the CEO of True North Retirement Advisors, an independent financial advisory firm managing $230 million in client assets, and located just outside of Portland, Oregon. It’s a family business, that she owns with her father. Ashley specializes in helping small business owners exit their business & retire with financial security by crafting and implementing a custom-designed exit plan. She is on a mission to transition 300 small business owners successfully into retirement in the next 10 years. Key Takeaways: [0:18] Today’s episode of Franchise Euphoria is brought to you by IndyFranchiseLaw.com, a leading resource in the franchise space. Head over to IndyFranchiseLaw.com learn more! [1:00] Josh introduces today’s guest, Ashley Micciche the CEO of Truth North Retirement Advisors located near Portland, OR. True North specializes in helping small businesses exit their business and retire with financial security. [1:52] Josh welcomes Ashley to Franchise Euphoria. [2:32] Ashley gives an overview of her background and what led her to launch her own firm. [4:55] For Ashley, launching her firm wouldn’t have been possible without the support of her family. [6:35] Josh reflects on starting his own firm and shares how it feels once you get to the other side of the initial challenges. [7:38] An analogy Ashley shares is that starting your own business is like a runaway train; you find a way to get the train out of the station but then you don’t know how to get off the train. [9:24] Ashley offers a way to look at retirement planning in the sense that it is working on the business rather than in the business. [11:10] With technology, it has become much simpler to get an accurate value for your business without having to pay an exorbitant amount of money and time. [13:51] If you plan to sell your business to a third-party, keep in mind that while you should get a valuation for your business, your business is actually worth what someone will pay for it, which is oftentimes much more its true value. [14:44] True North offers a 5-step exit path plan, the first of which is valuing your business. [16:22] Ashley started off her career in the 401K consulting world, but she realized that many businesses she was working with didn’t have a retirement plan in place and even experienced some unexpected situations that totally ruined her clients’ financial stability. [18:09] True North sets itself apart by way of their exit planning focus and also by being registered investment advisors. [20:07] Ashley hosts a daily podcast called the One Minute Retirement Tip which is on Alexa, YouTube, iTunes, and more. [21:51] Although True North is based in Portland, Oregon, they work with clients all over the country. [23:44] If you want to use True North’s free valuation tool, you can head to truenorthretirementadvisors.com/valuemybusiness. [24:48] Thanks for listening, and please, reach out to Josh anytime through email at josh@franchiseeuphoria.com. If you enjoyed this interview, please leave us a review on iTunes. Mentioned in This Episode: josh@franchiseeuphoria.com www.franchiseeuphoria.com www.indyfranchiselaw.com Free Checklist & Unlimited Access To Our Business Valuation Tool True North Retirement Advisors Blog
In this conversation, Ashley Proctor and I we talk about the difference between the coworking industry and the coworking movement. There are a number of things that stood out for me in this episode. Build something for community larger than you. Build something for people. Ashley points out that she is driven to build things for people. Essentially, that is the difference between coworking the industry and coworking the movement. The industry focuses on the Real Estate play while the movement focus on the people. For the movement, it is not about the space, it about the people. What drives Ashley is building something bigger than herself and building something for people. Building something for a larger community. Work towards dismantling loneliness, accelerating serendipity, and making meaningful human connections. For Ashley, Coworking firstly a verb. It is a shared office space for people who work independently or remotely. It is about having the freedom to choose where and when you working. Ashley gets a lot of meaning from her work because its not about subdividing space, it is about people. Focus on the mission or purpose of what you are doing, and it will help you build great things. She things of building spaces like planting a flag where people can meet connect and build the future. Surround yourself with people who care about you have your success in mind. At the heart of building coworking spaces is building a community where you surround yourself with people want you do well, people want you to be the best, they want you to be strong. Instead of saying no, show people what you are building. I asked Ashley about how they say no, when curating communities. Ashley pointed out that sometimes you do not need to say no. Let people self-select. Show them the space, explain what you are trying to build and if it works for them, they will opt-in. You build big things one tiny step at a time. When you are trying to build something that people think is impossible you do it one step at time. Focus on putting one tiny piece after another and rally more people together. Bring people together to build the future with you. When bad things happen to you separate what happened from your identity. An event or misfortune does not thing does not define you. I found this to be a very profound reminder and I have seen many people struggle to not let bad things define them. It is a very privileged things to say but it is important that we not let misfortune consume us and define who we are. You can reach Ashley and learn more about all of her projects (including COHIP and GCUC Canada) by visiting her website www.CreativeBlueprint.caYou can learn more about the 312 Main project by visiting www.312Main.ca
In this conversation, Ashley Proctor and I we talk about the difference between the coworking industry and the coworking movement. There are a number of things that stood out for me in this episode. Build something for community larger than you. Build something for people. Ashley points out that she is driven to build things for people. Essentially, that is the difference between coworking the industry and coworking the movement. The industry focuses on the Real Estate play while the movement focus on the people. For the movement, it is not about the space, it about the people. What drives Ashley is building something bigger than herself and building something for people. Building something for a larger community. Work towards dismantling loneliness, accelerating serendipity, and making meaningful human connections. For Ashley, Coworking firstly a verb. It is a shared office space for people who work independently or remotely. It is about having the freedom to choose where and when you working. Ashley gets a lot of meaning from her work because its not about subdividing space, it is about people. Focus on the mission or purpose of what you are doing, and it will help you build great things. She things of building spaces like planting a flag where people can meet connect and build the future. Surround yourself with people who care about you have your success in mind. At the heart of building coworking spaces is building a community where you surround yourself with people want you do well, people want you to be the best, they want you to be strong. Instead of saying no, show people what you are building. I asked Ashley about how they say no, when curating communities. Ashley pointed out that sometimes you do not need to say no. Let people self-select. Show them the space, explain what you are trying to build and if it works for them, they will opt-in. You build big things one tiny step at a time. When you are trying to build something that people think is impossible you do it one step at time. Focus on putting one tiny piece after another and rally more people together. Bring people together to build the future with you. When bad things happen to you separate what happened from your identity. An event or misfortune does not thing does not define you. I found this to be a very profound reminder and I have seen many people struggle to not let bad things define them. It is a very privileged things to say but it is important that we not let misfortune consume us and define who we are. You can reach Ashley and learn more about all of her projects (including COHIP and GCUC Canada) by visiting her website www.CreativeBlueprint.caYou can learn more about the 312 Main project by visiting www.312Main.ca
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We’ve spent the last three episodes talking about our goal setting process and now it’s time to get to the most important part -- ACTION. We’ve given each other permission to hold us accountable to our goals. But to make sure this doesn’t turn into nagging, we have built some structure around how we will hold ourselves & each other accountable to our 2019 goals. We share more about our Action + Accountability plan, our regular check-ins, and structured work sessions. You can grab your own copy of our Action + Accountability Plan at bashleymoyer.com/action. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: The key document we created to hold ourselves accountable to our goals In a spreadsheet, we track our goals, start/end dates, who is responsible, and important notes Grab yours at bashleymoyer.com/action How goals and action go hand in hand Action is what makes goals different than resolutions The importance of giving your partner permission to hold you accountable to your goals This isn’t permission to nag! Our two methods for getting stuff done - regular check ins & scheduled work sessions What we talk about in our regular check ins Daily - where we discuss immediate needs & actions, allows us to make sure we working on our goals every single day Weekly - scheduled on calendar, a time to regroup & revisit our Action + Accountability plan (link) and figure out who is working on what for the next week Monthly- where we get a bit more strategical, determine what tweaks (or pivot) we need Quarterly- more of a retreat like (link) check in, a time to hit the reset button Each check-in we zoom out a bit more and take a look at the big picture Giving you all permission to hold us accountable to our goals Once a quarter, we will come back on the podcast and give you all an update on our progress to our goals Some of our personal tactics to hold ourselves accountable as individuals For Billy, this is a habit tracker or 1-31 tracking list For Ashley, this is worksheets that are personally designed with key questions and reminders
Another year come and gone! Last week (EP #24) we reflected back on 2018, the highs and lows. In this week’s episode, we are focusing on the goals we are setting for ourselves in 2019. We’re sharing what we plan to do in our 9-5s, our work together, individually and even some other goals we have together. Let us know how we can help you with all your goals for the new year! Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked about in this Episode: The thing we are most looking forward to in 2019 For Ashley, this is her sister’s wedding For Billy, it's all of the travel we have scheduled for 2019 including… a bachelorette/bachelor party for Ashley’s sister and future husband Ashley’s goal to work more efficiently especially, turning off the TV when working from home Our individual goals to be a better spouse to one another For Billy, this is getting more vulnerable and opening up about his feelings For Ashley, this is being a better listener and speaking to Billy in his love language How learning is always a goal of ours Billy is challenging himself to read a book a week, Ashley is a book a month Ashley constantly listening to podcasts, but Billy’s goal is to listen to at least one a week Our desire to attend conferences in areas we can still learn in Billy’s desire to take a finance course and Ashley's want to journal more Our work goals How we are prioritizing our involvement in the community Embracing the learning opportunities and the opportunities to mentor others Being the board member our commitments need and deserve The relationships Billy is working on repairing and the one he is letting go Our desire to keep improving our health and wellness Our financial goals How we plan to go all in on our online community Our goal to build an online course How we want to connect with more couples working together Our desire to write a book together How we plan to deliver constant and consistent content to you every week Our process for setting annual goals together
2018 quite literally started off with a bang. And not in a good way. In this episode, we discuss our best moments in 2018 and those not so great moments. Rather than just giving the Instagram highlight reel, we dig a bit deeper and share the lessons we learned throughout the year. We’ve had so many great and challenging experiences this year and are so grateful for each one for everything we have learned. Stay tuned for Part II, where we will Look Forward to 2019. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked about in this Episode: Carrying too many distractions into 2018 and the result managing a car accident at a terrible time resetting financial goals Our accomplishments in the community For Billy, this was serving as the Chair of a board of directors For Ashley, this was a special recognition she received Our travels and our favorite trip of the year -- Rome! Ashley’s first intercontinental trip Experiencing a different culture Our health journey What caused it How we kick-started healthier eating habits The need for more of a challenge Ashley operated in cruise control throughout most of the year Procrastinating on several committees out of familiarity How our work together has satisfied our need for a challenge Facilitated programs & hosting corporate workshops We learned so much about each other and ourselves We’ve learned to meet each other where we are
As Gandhi once said “The best way to lose yourself is in service to others.” Service & community involvement was a way we initially connected in our relationship and continues to be a value we share together. In this episode, we share where our passion for service comes from, what issues we care most about, and how we continue to lean in to leadership roles in our community. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked about in this Episode: Where our passion for service comes from For Ashley, volunteer and philanthropy weren't words that were used regularly by her parents but everything was about gratitude Thank you cards for the holidays were written on Christmas Day Her parents helped her understand that there are people who are less fortunate Excess wasn’t a thing, toys & games that were still very loved would be donated In high school, volunteering was a way to get out of the house but she slowly learned in importance For Billy, service was important at an early age came from his mother’s work as a social worker He would work at senior centers with her or deliver Meals on Wheels with parents His Catholic education plays a role in this because the faith is rooted in social justice What issues we are most passionate about We don’t volunteer to just volunteer, we want to make an impact Education & learning is at the center of many of our commitments We love seeing others grow and develop into leaders How service continues to be a way we come together How service initially brought us together How we know when the other person’s skill set is more needed for each of our commitments Our desire to serve on a board together How you should always gain something some service You should be gaining a new relationship, a new perspective, or a positive feeling How we have learned to lean in to leadership roles The key for both of us has been to identifying gaps and filling them Simply showing up shows commitment Being out in the community and understanding other people’s problems
Coming together in our marriage meant a shift in priorities. We became more intentional with how we spent our time and WHO we spend our time with. It isn’t fun, but many friendships shifted or even ended. In this episode, we talk about the different types of friendships that changed as we came together in our relationship and the reminder we give ourselves when we notice our friends’ shifting priorities. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked about in this Episode: The conversation that inspired this episode Ashley’s intern sought advice for managing current friendships that she feels will not last after college What type of friend’s we are in friendships Ashley is the instant BFF - makes good friends quickly, but fizzles Billy struggles to know the difference between friend and acquaintance, but keeps friends for a long period of time Friendships that changed as our relationship together grew The friend out of convenience - For Billy this was the single buddy. Once they met their significant others, the relationship came to a natural end The toxic friend - For Ashley, this was a close friend that was always difficult to manage. the time and energy was no longer worth it when also balancing a relationship The longtime friend - For Billy, this was his childhood best friend. Values were so far off after nearly 25 years that it just became difficult. The book that provided clarity on some of these friendships How conflict in friendships comes down to unclear expectations The reminder we give ourselves when we notice friends shifting priorities
In this episode we openly discuss the mental health battles that we have overcame personally while in a relationship. For Cortney, depression set in once she graduated from college and stepped into the work force for the first time. For Ashley, health issues as a child and open heart surgery as a young adult introduced her to anxiety. Transparency is key with healing so we appreciate the ears for this therapeutic episode. This episode is sponsored by Jazmah Bell, Owner Operator of Avis-Budget Group. Mention HoodxHolistic to receive 10-25% off your next rental! Located at, 29010 Tomball Pkwy, Tomball, Tx, 77375. Call (281)255-3215 today to reserve your car. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hoodxholistic/support
In this episode we openly discuss the mental health battles that we have overcame personally while in a relationship. For Cortney, depression set in once she graduated from college and stepped into the work force for the first time. For Ashley, health issues as a child and open heart surgery as a young adult introduced her to anxiety. Transparency is key with healing so we appreciate the ears for this therapeutic episode. This episode is sponsored by Jazmah Bell, Owner Operator of Avis-Budget Group. Mention HoodxHolistic to receive 10-25% off your next rental! Located at, 29010 Tomball Pkwy, Tomball, Tx, 77375. Call (281)255-3215 today to reserve your car.
In this episode of I Do, We Do, we discuss lifelong learning. Learning didn’t stop for us when we walked across the stage for our high school diplomas, bachelor’s degree, or master’s degree. Learning is a key value of ours as a couple. To grow together, we constantly challenge ourselves, to grow more, and to learn more. It takes an investment in time and financial resources. In this episode, we discuss our favorite ways to learn including conferences, seminars, books, podcast, blogs, coaches, mentors, and self-reflection. Music “Sunny” by Bensound.com. What We Talked About in this Episode: We discuss our shared value for lifelong learning Learning doesn't end with formal education (like school) Lifelong learning can look like: formal education courses, conferences, seminars books, podcasts, blogs coaches, mentors, self-reflection Billy’s best learning has come from the things he has chosen to learn, not from things he was told he needed to learn We discuss how you can learn from books Every year, Billy sets a goal to read a book a week (only achieves some years) Billy believes in reading things that make you more of an expert, for him that is leadership development books Billy repeats some books because “repetition is the motor of learning” Some of those books are As a Man Thinketh, James Allen Five Dysfunctions of a Team, Patrick Lencioni Mindset, Carol Dweck We discuss how you can learn from other people “You’ll be successful because of the books your read and the people you meet.” Billy’s greatest mentor and coach has been his Dad You can learn about people through observations Billy has learned a lot through Ashley as well, in particular, empathy We’re better together because we teach other how to be better through the things we are individually passionate about We discuss our experiences learning through conferences & trainings In our most recent trip to Boston, we were in a training for facilitators of the New Politics Answering the Call We learned new thoughts on facilitating We are excited to learn more through the participants Billy recently attending the National Speakers Association Conference Billy learned best practices from other speakers Billy was inspired by the other 2,000 attendees Ashley is attending a conference this week Ashley walks away with entire notebooks of notes Ashley learns from the presenters, and alongside the other attendees and Ashley is excited to present this year! We discuss how learning is a commitment Every organization should invest in their people, because that is how the organization grows If your organization isn’t investing you, that doesn't mean you cannot invest in yourself you should always be investing in yourself It is the only invest in your life that you are guaranteed a return Ashley earned her MBA as an employee of the school, but continued to make the financial investment when she changed jobs even without her employer’s support We discuss how Ashley chooses to learn through podcasts Ashley plays podcast at her office nearly all day Ashley has learned alot from Jenna Kutcher’s Goal Digger podcast It’s a great way to get more intimate with the content Can learn in a more passive way to learn than reading You can learn from people who may never be able to meet and it is affordable!! We discuss how you can learn through reflection Reflection is taking the time to think back on past experiences and past activities If you didn’t learn in the moment, you can Ashley uses her bullet journal for reflection Journal prompts can be immensely helpful for guiding this Billy encourages clients to ask: What is right in my life? What is wrong in my life? What is missing in my life Reflection needs to be done in a quiet time We discuss our favorite ways to learn For Ashley it is conferences, podcasts, and reflection For Billy it is conferences, coaching, and books
It hasn't been easy for Ashley Fryer to let go of her faith. For thirty years, she dedicated her life to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. She grew up attending church multiple times a week, and dutifully studied her scriptures. Over the years, she found inconsistencies in church doctrine, and would pile these up on what she calls ‘the shelf'. She'd pile it higher and higher, thinking, “well, I'll deal with it later.”For Ashley, her shelf broke on November 5, 2015. On that day, a new LDS church policy leaked. This policy said, among other things, that children of gay parents could not be baptized unless they were eighteen years old, living on their own, and had renounced same sex marriage. It was a controversial policy that members of the church came out for and against. This ran counter to Ashley's personal beliefs, and she didn't believe the leadership of the church spoke for God. So she put down her beloved scriptures, unsure what to do with relics of a religion she no longer believed in.Since then, Ashley has been on a journey of spiritual discovery. She started exploring Wiccan practices, paganism, and her Norse heritage. She found that Hel, the Norse goddess of the underworld, resonated with her. Half beautiful maiden, half rotting corpse, Hel is the keeper of dead things. To Ashley, Hel represents a spirit of radical self acceptance, and new beginnings rising from the ashes. Ashley realized that she knew what to do with her LDS scriptures.This episode was produced and edited by Ashley's little sister, Bethany Denton. Additional editing help from Jeff Emtman and Nick White.Music: The Black Spot
It hasn’t been easy for Ashley Fryer to let go of her faith. For thirty years, she dedicated her life to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. She grew up attending church multiple times a week, and dutifully studied her scriptures. Over the years, she found inconsistencies in church doctrine, and would pile these up on what she calls ‘the shelf’. She’d pile it higher and higher, thinking, “well, I’ll deal with it later.”For Ashley, her shelf broke on November 5, 2015. On that day, a new LDS church policy leaked. This policy said, among other things, that children of gay parents could not be baptized unless they were eighteen years old, living on their own, and had renounced same sex marriage. It was a controversial policy that members of the church came out for and against. This ran counter to Ashley’s personal beliefs, and she didn’t believe the leadership of the church spoke for God. So she put down her beloved scriptures, unsure what to do with relics of a religion she no longer believed in.Since then, Ashley has been on a journey of spiritual discovery. She started exploring Wiccan practices, paganism, and her Norse heritage. She found that Hel, the Norse goddess of the underworld, resonated with her. Half beautiful maiden, half rotting corpse, Hel is the keeper of dead things. To Ashley, Hel represents a spirit of radical self acceptance, and new beginnings rising from the ashes. Ashley realized that she knew what to do with her LDS scriptures.This episode was produced and edited by Ashley’s little sister, Bethany Denton. Additional editing help from Jeff Emtman and Nick White.Music: The Black Spot
Inevitably, life is filled to the brim with victorious highs and disappointing lows. Whether we lack the will to throw aside our covers in the morning or feel tempted to skip a daily gym session, each of us must summon the motivation and courage to press forward. Of course, this challenge is particularly difficult for those who want to build success from scratch. Join in as Michael speaks with Dr. Ashley Joves about her in-the-works dental practice, SMILE & CO. From worrisome health complications to inspiring community efforts, Ashley's revolutionary journey is sure to inspire the entrepreneur and warrior in all of us.Time-Stamped Show Notes [2:50] ��� Michael emphasizes the challenges that come with starting something from scratch and recaps events from episode 1. [03:51] ��� Ashley tells us about her meeting with Taryn Grows from the Folsom Chamber of Commerce in a local coffee shop. Taryn has helped her connect with the Folsom community and network with other small business-owners. [6:40] ��� When asked how she views Chambers of Commerce, Ashley responds with, ���As a startup, I think it's a little too early to close doors on potential clients.�� [9:16] ��� The trenching and framing of SMILE & CO. has been completed! Now Ashley and her team are deciding where to place electrical outlets and other amenities. Her walls will be built from frosted glass for an open feel without sacrificing privacy. [11:25] ��� In order to preserve a beautiful open buttress and high ceilings, Ashley will most likely use scrim to reinforce her building and hold insulation in place. Her contractor recommends the sturdy material for a wide range of projects. [12:45] ��� Ashley receives an impromptu call from her contractor, Dave. Listen in on their conversation! [14:03] ��� Michael reminds us about the members of Ashley's team. [17:03] ��� More about Ashley's awesome team��_ [24:45] ��� Ashley and her team were blown away by the look of the exposed ceiling. Unfortunately, hiding wires and piping when the walls are built with glass is both challenging and massively expensive. [26:54] ��� Unbeknownst to her, Ashley's team removed one of the glass walls and replaced it with a regular wall. Although they have yet to complete the incorrect well, Ashley is upset about the change. [30:00] ��� Ashley hopes to install cabinets from IKEA instead of a custom company. That way, she can both save money and enjoy a modern design. [30:42] ��� A truss system is an ���arrangement of wooden or steel support beams configured in a triangle-shape.�� The design is strong, simple, inexpensive, and easy to construct. [32:00] ��� If Ashley had known how awesome and cool-looking truss systems are, in addition to the industrial theme she later decided to focus on, she wouldn't have installed recessive/can lights. [34:02] ��� ���I have been struggling health-wise,�� Ashley admits. Her journey has been exhausting and has taken a major tole on her mental and physical health. Her ���health nut�� brother has convinced her to take a few steps away from her project and focus more carefully on her health. [36:32] ��� According to com, personal health is the fifth-most important factor in building a successful practice. ���Your business can't run without you,�� Michael insists. [37:19] ��� When pursuing a goal or starting a business, make sure to set aside time for friends and family. Maintaining healthy relationships outside of work will help you nurture a healthy perspective and keep you energized. [37:35] ��� ���I cared too much everyone else's opinions,�� Ashley says. In the end, she decided instead to form decisions based on her happiness and the success of her practice. [38:35] ��� #AdviceAlert: ���Prioritize,�� Ashley says. ���If you have a lot of stuff you have to do, you really have to organize and write them down, and check things off as you go along.�� [39:40] ��� Ashley used to follow a morning ritual before diving into work, but now she skips that routine and checks her phone and media feeds constantly. [40:30] ��� #Help-A-Dentist: If you have any application recommendations or general tips to increase positivity, let Ashley know!3 Main Ideas Never be afraid to reach out to your community. One of the main focuses of SMILE & CO. is community outreach and supporting local business. Check out your local chamber of commerce and discover new opportunities in your area. Ashley is gaining a wider audience, connecting with local businesses, and receiving services that she would have never found if she never reached out. Sometimes our workloads can overwhelm us and cause us to deviate from health and personal discipline. Ashley, for example, has given up her morning routine in exchange for checking her emails and messages. No matter how busy you are, make some time for yourself. After all, your practice cannot succeed without you in the correct state of mind and physical wellbeing. Also, utilize apps and strategies that will help you stay productive and motivated���anything to keep you inspired and conscious of your health. Balancing family and work can be a challenge. For Ashley, this has been the toughest and most emotional facet of building her dental practice. As a women, spending time away from her two boys has been especially rough, considering the stigmas that surround working mothers. Make sure you have a strong support system around you and never forget to follow your aspirations, no matter how tough they may seem.Help-A-DentistAshley used to begin her days with a morning ritual before diving into work. Unfortunately, the scope of her project has caused her to deviate from that routine and check her phone before peeling back the sheets. Do you know about any apps that can help with planning or organization? Is there a morning routine you swear by, or a strategy that helps with productivity? Message her on Facebook and let her know!Resource Of The WeekAshley recommends the podcast S TOWN, created by the producers of Serial and This American Life. In order to slow herself down from the stresses of her practice, Ashley wanted to listen to a podcast. S TOWN did a fantastic job putting her at ease!Find Out More Follow Michael Arias on Instagram or Facebook and improve your dental practice every day! Listen to more podcasts and learn more about The Dental Marketer on his website. Remember that Ashley's revolutionary dental practice is being built in real time. Follow along her incredible journey and send a message to her Facebook account if you have any questions!Follow, Like, and Share The Making of SMILE & CO. on Facebook, Ashley Joves's Personal Facebook, and Instagram.
Dr. Ashley Joves is building her own dental practice, SMILE & CO., from scratch. For weeks she has been recording and publicly broadcasting her experience all over the internet. The journey has been difficult, rewarding, and revolutionary all at once. Although the path has been tough so far, she is determined to create the startup of her dreams. Join Dr. Ashley Joves and Michael Arias as they document the whole entire process of creating a dental practice, the areas to watch out for, and the emotional connotations of being a female entrepreneur.Time-Stamped Show Notes [0:40] ��� Michael reminds us about Ashley Joves and her departure from working as an associate to creating her dream practice from scratch. [01:43] ��� Ashley describes what has happened since episode 58. Her permits were accepted while she was attending a dental convention in Vegas. [3:25] ��� Ashley discusses Dave Olsen, her wonderful contractor, in addition to how she found a contractor and how she began the processes of building her own practice. [4:10] ��� The life of a contractor: With information found on chron.com, Michael explains how contractors bid for jobs. The process involves investigating the project, pricing out materials, comparing the project with past work, working out licensing and other factors, and presenting the resulting estimate to the potential client. [06:50] ��� Check out markupandprofit.com to calculate how much you should pay for a contractor. Michael suggests that you shouldn't go cheap or choose contractors based on price. [8:33] ��� Ashley describes her building and some pricing factors involved in building her practice. [10:32] ��� ���Every day,�� Ashley responded when asked whether she questions the scope of what she's doing. [12:30] ��� ���A lot of the time, you don't what kind of patient base you're getting.�� There's definitely a lot of risk involved in startups. [13:10] ��� Learn about how Ashley found her dream building! [15:00] ��� #DoYourResearch: Cole Sweatt, Ashley's real estate broker from tricommercial, has fantastic experience and skills. His client list and affiliations are also impressive. Always research before you hire! [16:52] ��� Ashley and Michael discuss what happens between hiring a contractor and demolition day. [18:00] ��� Te average debt for dental school students is $350,00+. An NYU graduate, Ashley is trying to accrue as much of her debt as possible with the help of State Farm. [19:05] ��� Michael emphasizes the importance of due diligence, or, he puts it, ���The stuff you don't think about.�� [20:00] ��� Ashley cancelled her escrow because she wanted to invest more in her escrow account. Learn about her experience with soft deadlines and negotiating with a frustrated agent. [24:00] ��� With her S Corporation, Ashley is officially the president of her company. [25:00] ��� Ashley spent around $15,000 just for due diligence. [26:04] ��� Ashley describes her experience finding and working with her designer, Tami Teel, who is a regular contributor to HGTV. [28:00] ��� Don't forget about IT work! Tim VanDermyden will be working with Ashley on her practice. [29:29] ��� You can teach yourself how to do anything on YouTube! Ashley created her own Wordpress site and figured out more just by using the internet. [30:20] ��� Now that we're all caught up, Ashley describes the ���trenching�� process that was happening at the time of the podcast interview. [31:55] ��� ���If you are thinking about doing a startup, this is a must,�� Ashley promises as she discusses breakaway seminars and saving money during the process. [33:55] ��� ���You have to find a balance between what you want, what you need, and efficiency.�� [36:15] ��� Ashley discusses using IKEA products in dental practices. There are definitely pros and cons. [38:04] ��� Stressor Of The Week: Ashley's beloved WINEBAR concept is built around the experience of being comfortable and casual. Unfortunately, there is a federal patent and trademark on SMILEBAR dental and Ashley lost the name. [40:55] ��� Ashley strongly recommends using a Trademark Electronic Search System (TESS) to see if a given concept or name has any patents or trademarks. [41:50] ��� ���Use your resources,�� Ashley pleads. If you have any attorney friends, ask them for help or advice. [42:15] ��� SMILE & CO. is Ashley's new practice name. She still hopes to work with small businesses and entrepreneurs in the area. Furthermore, she still wants to use the concept of creating an atmosphere that strays from the dreadful dentistry feel. [43:20] ��� Finding the balance between family time and business time is extremely difficult for startups. Ashley's husband and boys are immensely supportive, but it is still a huge battle for her. ���It's a balancing act and there are sacrifices involved,�� she says. [47:08] ��� Ashley explains the importance of patience in starting a business. [48:20] ��� Michael emphasizes that although setbacks are expected, having a solid support and resource base is crucial. [49:15] ��� Social media is an extremely important tool in marketing [49:40] ��� ���Stick to your vision,�� Ashley says to those who want to start business. [50:00] ��� Ashley describes what is soon to come for her practice. [51:30] ��� Help Ashley! : What do you think Ashley should do to build her website? Should she watch YouTube videos and teach herself how to code, or should she outsource? Should it be dental specific? Send us an email at michael@thedentalmarketer.site if you have any helpful advice.3 Main Ideas Do your research! One of the most helpful aspects of Ashley's journey has been the team she has surrounded herself by. She attended meetings, took to the internet, and assembled a group of people who will help her create the dental practice she has always dreamed of. Learn about events in your area, check out reviews, and figure out what you need to move forward both now and in the future. You can teach yourself how to do anything through resources such as YouTube. Heck; Ashley might even learn how to code her own website. If you ever feel intimidated by a challenge with several multifaceted steps, remember that you can always figure it out yourself. Balancing family and work can be a challenge. For Ashley, this has been the toughest and most emotional facet of building her dental practice. As a women, spending time away from her two boys has been especially rough, considering the stigmas that surround working mothers. Make sure you have a strong support system around you and never forget to follow your aspirations.Help Ashley!No matter how intelligent or motivated we are, we will always have questions and issues when starting a new business. Ashley, for example, is struggling to decide how to build her website and what it should consist of. How do you think Ashley should build her website? Should she watch YouTube videos and teach herself how to code, or should she outsource? Should it be dental specific? Send her a Facebook message if you have any helpful advice, or even better email us at michael@thedentalmarketer.site for answers!Resource Of The WeekAshley strongly recommends looking up, working with, and just talking to Dr. Anissa Holmes. She is a lifesaver and the most experienced (as we know of) when it comes to marketing on Facebook successfully! One of her major courses, FB MASTERY, will not only help you understand what to do on Facebook but, Dr. Anissa Holmes is very interactive and responsive when it comes to you and your dental practice.p.s. Here is a link for $200.00 OFF the FB MASTERY Course... your welcome!Find Out More Follow Michael Arias on Instagram or Facebook and improve your dental practice every day! Listen to more podcasts and learn more about The Dental Marketer on his website. Remember that Ashley's revolutionary dental practice is being built in real time! Follow along her incredible journey and send a message to her Facebook account if you have any questions!Follow, Like, and Share The Making of SMILE & CO. on Facebook, Ashley Joves's Personal Facebook, and Instagram.
Ashley Drummonds is the founder of ABS Protein Pancakes. She has been featured on Shark Tank, the Home Shopping Network, Forbes.com, and much more. In over two years she has sold more than $500,000 worth of pancake mix. Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll learn: [1:00] Jeremy’s introduction to today’s episode. [1:40] Ashley talks about what sets her company apart. [9:00] What software does Ashley use? [12:00] What happened after Shark Tank? [13:40] What advice did Ashley get from Daymond? [14:40] The highest and lowest moment for Ashley. In this episode… Can you really build success off of social media engagement? Is your business just a few hashtags away from unlocking it’s potential? Jeremy’s guest, Ashley Drummonds found success with her product ABS Pancakes by leveraging social media engagement before she learned all the tricks and tips of online marketing. Ashley applied common sense to her strategy and it paid off! She used the same carefully selected hashtags and constantly posted about her product on the same platforms at the same time each day. Soon she saw her product gain a following. Ashley has since grown that following and has seen her company take off with exponential growth. Learn more about Ashley’s experience on this episode of Inspired Insider! What are the ingredients necessary for success? What tools do successful business leaders use on a regular basis? Ashley Drummonds launched her brand in a very public setting with her appearance on Shark Tank. Since that launch and the subsequent success, Ashley has had to find tools and resources to help her keep up with the momentum that she gained. On this episode of Inspired Insider, Ashley shares what tools she uses to stay on top of her personal and professional brand promotion. Don’t miss these tools and other lessons from Ashley’s success! What is one of the most important things to remember when you rise to the top? It’s a kind of unspoken rule in our society - don’t forget where you came from. Help out the little guy. It’s one of those cultural values that we like to think that we can hold celebrities and successful business leaders to. The truth of the matter is, no one can hold anyone to that ideal. It has to be something that the successful individual values for themselves. Ashley Drummonds learned this crucial lesson from her experience on Shark Tank. She makes every effort to encourage and support entrepreneurs who align with the values of her company. To hear more about Ashley’s story, make sure to catch this episode of Inspired Insider! At one point in her journey, Ashley Drummonds had to move out to California for her business. She describes this as being one of the most difficult moments she has faced. She went out there with nothing. No support, no family, she was alone. Ashley talks about this time being very influential for her. This was the moment where she had a HUGE gut check and decided if she really had what it took to start a business and be successful. For Ashley, it worked out. Her hard work paid off. What lessons can you learn from her story? Find out on this episode of Inspired Insider! Resources Mentioned on this episode Ashley’s website: ashleydrummonds.com Ashley’s Facebook page: facebook.com/ashleydrummondsabs Ashley’s Twitter page: twitter.com/AshleyDrummonds ABS Pancakes’ website: abspancakes.com Shark Tank Shopify Aweber MailChimp ClickFunnels Hootsuite Wordpress HSN Zulily Sponsor for this episode Rise25 is where entrepreneurs of 6,7, and 8 figure businesses come together live and in person every few months to solve their biggest business challenges through this high-level Mastermind group. Each member leaves each week with lifelong friendships and actionable steps to take their business to the next level. Check out Rise25.com - a group run by myself and cofounder John Corcoran. Rise 25 is application only.
Today we get kinda serious on our podcast field trip, but in the best way, as we visit The Broad Experience! It's "the show about women and the workplace," as host Ashley Milne-Tyte often says, and is relevant not just to every woman, but to every man who has a mother, a significant other, a female coworker, or a daughter in his life. First, a quick note about the Ninja Parenting Community: I've had a technical glitch hold up the opening for a few weeks, which is a bummer. However, it can work out really well for you because, as compensation, I'm offering more one-to-one support to those who become part of my email group and join the community in its very first week! (Hopefully in late July.) Becoming part of the email group now means: – a weekly email about what's happening on We Turned Out Okay – the chance to join the Ninja Parenting Community at the best pricing that there will ever be, period. – a one-to-one parent coaching call every three months for all the time you're continuously in the community! – I'm offering this as compensation for the time we are all stuck waiting as I figure out the technical glitch, so you definitely want to jump into my email group! Become part of the email group by clicking this link or going to weturnedoutokay.com/ninja-parenting-community-login and signing up to get notified about when the Ninja Parenting Community opens. Last summer I had the pleasure of interviewing Ashley, and I loved our conversation so much that I featured it again this spring! To hear our conversation, go to weturnedoutokay.com/069. For links to the specific Broad Experience episodes I talk about in today's We Turned Out Okay – and also for the link to my friend Geoff Woods's podcast, called The Mentee (and whom I speak about today because he and his wife gave me a lovely endorsement for my book, Positive Discipline Ninja Tactics) – go to weturnedoutokay.com/091. Key Links: Get on the bus and come to this week's Podcast Field Trip! – For Ashley's conversation about work and intimacy with guest Evelyn Resh, click: here – thebroadexperience.com/listen/2016/6/17/episode-86-work-and-intimacy-part-1 – for part one; here – thebroadexperience.com/listen/2016/6/24/episode-87-work-and-intimacy-part-2 – for part two; and here – thebroadexperience.com/listen/2013/5/24/episode-19-women-work-and-sex.html – for Ashley and Evelyn's first conversation back in 2013 Find out more about Geoff and his journey from employee to entrepreneur by going to menteepodcast.com.