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The Dark Side of the MBTI, Part 2. The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator almost always discusses how wonderful people are. And they are! But what about horrible behavior? Dishonesty? Theft? Vandalism? Pointless criticism? Beating people up? Why do people do awful things? Dr. Eve Delunas & Dr. David Keirsey (who wrote "Please Understand Me") have answers. Last week, I discussed the Blues (ENFP, INFP, ENFJ, INFJ) and the Greens (ENTP, INTP, ENTJ, and INTJ). This week, I discuss the Oranges (ESFP, ISFP, ESTP, & ISTP) and the Golds (ESFJ, ISFJ, ESTJ, & ISTJ). Enjoy!
If you've taken the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator--and over 100,000,000 Americans have, not to mention millions more people from around the world--you may have noticed its very cheerful tone: It believes every type of person is wonderful. I believe this, too--but what about crime? Lying? Stealing? Assault? People cheating on their spouses? According to the MBTI, why do people do these things?Dr. Eve Delunas & Dr. David Keirsey (who wrote "Please Understand Me") have answers. And they are deeply insightful, regarding both the origin--and the solution--for these devastating crimes and sins that can cause so much misery.Today, I discuss primarily the Blues (ENFP, INFP, ENFJ, INFJ) and the Greens (ENTP, INTP, ENTJ, and INTJ). Next week, I'll discuss the Oranges (ESFP, ISFP, ESTP, & ISTP) and the Golds (ESFJ, ISFJ, ESTJ, & ISTJ).
Es ist Sonntag, der 08. Juni - und das ist der politische Wochenrückblick mit folgenden Themen: Der Regierungsrat beschliesst mehr Lohn für Mitarbeitende des Kantons, der Grosse Rat entscheidet sich gegen ein Hallenbad im Musical Theater und der Regierungsrat nimmt Stellung zur Expansion der Art Basel.
In this episode of the Personality Hacker podcast, Joel and Antonia talk about the personality fixations that impact INFP, INTP, ISFP, and ISTP relationships. https://personalityhacker.com
FREE BONUS: Want to go deeper? Grab our 5-day INFP Personality Type Tutorial! → http://inowfeelpositive.comAre you an INFP feeling lost, overwhelmed, or stuck? This video reveals the powerful question that can realign your entire life's direction. We're diving deep into: Why INFPs struggle with finding purpose The single question that cuts through external noise How to authentically express your soul's true calling Breaking free from emotional stagnation Practical steps to rediscover your inner compassAs an INFP (4-5% of the population), your unique perspective is a gift. But gifts need cultivation. This video is your roadmap to understanding yourself on a deeper level. Key Insights:Unearth your core valuesCombat inactionPromote genuine self-expressionCreate meaningful momentum in your life00:00 Introduction: Navigating the Noise00:40 The Key Question for INFPs01:22 Embracing Your True Self02:29 Understanding Core Values04:08 Expressing Your Inner Self07:18 Promoting Self-Discovery08:20 Taking Action and Making an Impact10:35 Conclusion: The Journey of Self-Expression12:12 Additional Resources for INFPs
Do you have a friend who craves deep, meaningful conversations, champions your dreams, and feels emotions with unmatched intensity? If so, you might have an NF (Intuitive Feeler) friend! Known for their depth, passion, and emotional intelligence, NFs (ENFJ, INFJ, ENFP, INFP) are the visionaries, dreamers, and counselors of the friendship world. But with their high expectations, sensitivity, and desire for novelty, friendships with NFs can be both deeply rewarding and occasionally challenging. In this episode, we break down the NF friend using the TRUE framework (Trust, Respect, Understanding, Encouragement) to explore: ✅ Why NFs form soul-level connections but can struggle with feeling unseen or lonely. ✅ How their idealism and deep emotions impact friendships—for better or worse. ✅ Their love for novelty and growth—and how boredom can create restlessness. ✅ How to be a great friend to an NF—and what they need in return. If you're an NF, this episode will help you understand your friendship patterns and challenges. If you have an NF in your life, you'll gain insight into what makes them such inspiring and devoted friends. Set up a FREE Chat: https://wendygossett.as.me/ChatwithWendy Take my FREE child temperament test: https://wendygossett.com/child-inner-drive-assessment-product/ Request a FREE Adult Temperament/Enneagram/Instincts Test: https://wendygossett.com/ Website: Wendy Gossett.com Get FREE resources on my website: https://wendygossett.com/ or email me at WendyGossett.com Facebook Podcast Page: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61565445936367 Book: Your Child's Inner Drive:Parenting by Personality from Toddlers to Teens on Amazon or https://wendygossett.com/product/your-childs-inner-drive-parenting-by-personality-for-toddlers-to-teens/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaaOCjoDyOk4_gS1KCncLvQ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wendy.gossett/?next=%2F Linked In: www.linkedin.com/in/wendygossett Wendy Gossett helps parents understand their children by using temperament psychology and neuroscience. She has over 10,000 hours of experience in education, both in the classroom and corporate sector. Even though she holds a Master's degree in education, she struggled to understand her neurodivergent and oppositional kids. Inspired by her experience using Myers Briggs and the Enneagram with business teams, she spent over a decade researching temperament pattens to help family teams. She is a best-selling author and host of the Not So Normal Parenting podcast. Her podcast is entitled Not So Normal Parenting because not only are she and her kids neurodivergent but some of her life experiences, such as driving off a cliff her wedding night and going viral for embarrassing her seventeen-year old son by dancing on a snowy and jammed interstate, fall into that category. In addition to being talked about by Hoda Kotb, the BackStreet Boys, and Princess Kate, even U2 singer Bono mentioned the incident in his autobiography. Because Wendy herself has struggled as a helicopter parent, a cranky parent and an embarrassing parent, she wants to help other parents struggle……..a little bit less!
Nick and Jon try their hand at pop psychology and apply some Myers Briggs personality types (MBTI) to some of the biggest X-Men. Between articles about ESTJ and INFP and everything in between, let's figure out Professor X's personality. What about Cyclops? Storm? Beast? Do you agree? What are you letters? Write in a tell us!
Feeling lost as an INFP? You're not alone! Join me, Sherman, on a journey to self-discovery tailored for INFPs. Whether you're in your 20s, 30s, or beyond, this video dives into the unique challenges and hidden strengths of being an INFP. From battling self-doubt to celebrating curiosity, we'll explore how truly understanding your personality can transform your life.Key takeaways include:Embracing the feeling of being lost as a sign of growth.Appreciating your intrinsic sensitivity and depth.Learning from failures and turning them into successes.Uncovering the power of self-discovery and personal growth.Like, subscribe, and comment below to join our vibrant community. Share with fellow INFPs and let's grow together! Relevant Links:FREE 5-Day INFP Personality Type Tutorial course: http://inowfeelpositive.comOriginal Video: here.
重温三年前的播客《13 INFP太难了》，我被自己的声音吓到了──那个充满焦虑、内耗和不确定的我，连说话都透着一股不自信。而近半年，当越来越多人说我「状态不错」时，我才发现，原来成长早已发生，那个曾经emo到不行的小孩，好像快要成为一个内核稳定的大人了呢！想一想这份变化的来源，三年来看过的50+本心理书帮了我很多。今天，精挑细选了其中5本，想和同样在成长路上有过迷茫的你分享
INFP Personality Type Explained Path of Heroes Academy: Holistic self-development through personality type and RPG character creation http://poha.geekpsychology.com FREE 5-Day INFP Personality Type Tutorial http://INowFeelPositive.com FREE 5-Day INFJ Personality Type Tutorial http://geekpsychology.com/infj
Discover 10 proven INFP-specific time management strategies that work WITH your personality type, not against it! Perfect for creative, intuitive souls who struggle with traditional productivity methods. FREE RESOURCE: Access to the slides and my FREE 15-Minute INFP Productivity Habits guide: https://infp-time-management-gswf40h....⏰ TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 - Introduction 1:00 - Understanding Extraverted Intuiting 2:00 - Mind Mapping for INFPs 3:00 - Aligning Tasks with Values 4:00 - The Pomodoro Technique 5:00 - Setting Boundaries 7:00 - Daily Reflection 8:00 - Sticky Note System 9:00 - INFP Community Support 10:00 - Digital Detox 13:00 - Gratitude Practice 16:00 - Mindfulness Tips 18:00 - The GLOWER Framework KEY POINTS:Mind mapping for INFP brain patternsValue-aligned productivity techniquesPomodoro method for Ne energy burstsPractical boundary-setting strategiesDigital detox for better focusThe GLOWER goal-setting framework RESOURCES: I Now Feel Positive Masterclass: http://infp.geekpsychology.com Path of Heroes Academy: http://poha.geekpsychology.com Self-Development with AI Course: http://selfdevelopmentwithai.com 1-on-1 Coaching: http://coaching.geekpsychology.com CONNECT WITH ME: Instagram: / geekpsychology Twitter: / geekpsychology YouTube: / geekpsychology ️ Podcast: http://podcast.geekpsychology.com Facebook: / geekpsychology #INFP #TimeManagement #Productivity #PersonalityType #MBTI #SelfDevelopment #Organization
Everyone thinks INFPs are just soft-spoken dreamers who can't handle conflict. But as an INFP who's been through plenty of battles (both real and imagined), let me show you how our emotional depth can create some of the most fascinating characters at your table... The Soul Tender• Creates literal empathetic bonds• Shares damage with allies• Perfect for: Clerics, Divine Soul Sorcerers• Think: "Your pain is my pain... literally" The Pain Artisan• Transforms curses into power• Converts enemy debuffs into party buffs• Perfect for: Bards, Aberrant Mind Sorcerers• Think: "Every scar tells a story I can rewrite" The Dreamwalker• Blurs reality with imagination• Manifests tactical possibilities• Perfect for: Illusion Wizards, Archfey Warlocks• Think: "Reality is just one of infinite possibilities"Pro Tip: Don't fall into the "passive INFP" trap. Use your emotional intelligence proactively. Your party doesn't just need another healer - they need someone who can rewrite the rules of what's possible.Which archetype would you play? Or have you created your own INFP-inspired character?#DnD #INFP #TTRPG #GeekPsychology00:00 Introduction to INFPs in RPGs00:47 Understanding the INFP Personality02:34 Character Archetypes: Soul Tender03:53 Character Archetypes: Pain Artisan and Dreamwalker06:59 Tips for Playing INFP Characters
Ever wondered why your INFP partner seems lost in thought, or why they take their time with big decisions? In this deeply personal video, I'm pulling back the curtain on what INFPs truly wish their partners understood about loving them.
STOP struggling with emotional overwhelm.In this video, you'll discover:Why emotions aren't your enemyThe state-shifting technique that actually worksHow to build unshakeable emotional strengthThe morning routine that changes everythingNo more drowning in feelings. No more being controlled by emotions. Just real mastery of your INFP gifts.#geekpsychology #INFP #emotionalintelligence #personalitytypes #INFPgrowth #emotionalmaturity #personaldevelopment #INFPlife #mbti #selfawareness
Navigating a career as an INFP can be challenging due to our unique personality type. In this video, I talk about how INFPs can find meaningful and fulfilling careers by leveraging their Introverted Feeling and Extraverted Intuiting. I share 10 suitable career paths and explain why these careers align well with INFPs. I also go into the challenges INFPs face, such as financial stability, and stresses the importance of maintaining creativity and personal values in work and life.00:00 Introduction to INFP Careers00:22 Personal Journey and Career Impact01:39 Top 10 Career Paths for INFPs03:08 Why These Careers Work for INFPs04:36 Financial Realities and Challenges06:25 Embracing Change and Multi-Passionate Pursuits08:25 Balancing Passion and Practicality10:19 Conclusion and Further Resources
As an INFP, you've probably been told you're "too sensitive," "too idealistic," or "too quiet." Today, I'm showing you how these supposed weaknesses are actually your hidden superpowers - and how to leverage them for success.In this video, you'll discover: • Why sensitivity is actually emotional intelligence in disguise • How your "fantasy world" drives innovation • The power behind your careful decision-making • Why your idealism is exactly what the world needs • How your quiet nature creates strategic impactWant to embrace your INFP strengths? Get started with my FREE 5-Day INFP Personality Type Tutorial course: http://inowfeelpositive.comReady to transform your life? Join our Evolve community where INFPs (and friends!) support each other and create lasting positive change: http://evolve.geekpsychology.com#INFP #PersonalityType #GeekPsychology #INFPStrengths #PersonalGrowth #MBTI #INFPPersonality #SelfDevelopment #Psychology #INFPPowers00:00 Introduction: Common Criticisms of INFPs00:14 Understanding INFP Strengths00:32 Reframing Criticisms: Sensitivity06:00 Reframing Criticisms: Fantasy World08:15 Reframing Criticisms: Decision Making10:38 Reframing Criticisms: Realism13:57 Reframing Criticisms: Quietness and Passivity17:54 Conclusion and Resources
If you're an INFP desperately trying to create the "perfect" system, only to feel suffocated by it later - this video explains why. I discovered something insightful about our relationship with stability, and it's not what you think.Ready to transform your approach to structure and finally feel aligned? This isn't another "get organized" video - it's about understanding the deeper truth behind your INFP nature. IN THE VIDEO: • Why traditional stability advice fails INFPs • The real reason behind your resistance to structure • How to align systems with your authentic self • The secret to sustainable INFP motivation FREE RESOURCES:→ FREE 5-Day INFP Soul Journey course:http://inowfeelpositive.com→ Path of Heroes Academy:http://poha.geekpsychology.com→ I Now Feel Positive Masterclass:http://infp.geekpsychology.com→ Podcast:http://podcast.geekpsychology.com→ Instagram: / geekpsychology Share this with an INFP who needs to hear this message! Join our INFP community and transform your relationship with structure. http://inowfeelpositive.com#INFP #PersonalGrowth #INFPPersonality #SelfDiscovery #MBTIPersonality #PersonalityType #INFPLife #geekpsychology
Unlock the mystery of dating an INFP! Whether you're an INFP or dating one, this guide reveals the unique patterns and challenges in INFP relationships. FREE RESOURCE: Get your 5-Day INFP Soul Journey Course: → inowfeelpositive.com⭐ KEY TOPICS COVERED:Understanding INFP idealization in relationshipsDealing with passive-aggressive tendenciesNavigating INFP's relationship with clutterImproving communication with your INFP partnerReal-life examples and practical solutions00:00 Introduction to INFP Dating Challenges00:47 Idealization in Relationships03:19 Passive Aggressive Behaviors06:56 Clutter and Mental State10:48 Expressing Desires Directly13:05 Conclusion and Next Steps RESOURCES: I Now Feel Positive Masterclass for INFPs: http://infp.geekpsychology.com Path of Heroes Academy: http://poha.geekpsychology.com Self-Development with AI Course: http://selfdevelopmentwithai.com 1-on-1 Coaching: http://coaching.geekpsychology.com CONNECT WITH ME: Instagram: / geekpsychology Twitter: / geekpsychology YouTube: / geekpsychology ️ Podcast: http://podcast.geekpsychology.com Facebook: / geekpsychology #INFP #PersonalityTypes #Relationships #Dating #MBTI #PersonalGrowth
Your depth isn't a puzzle to solve - it's a garden to tend.As an INFP, I know the pressure to figure everything out RIGHT NOW. After working with so many INFPs, I've discovered something game-changing: the secret isn't in understanding everything - it's in trusting the journey.Cliche? Maybe! But it's true.In this video, I'll show you: • The 15-minute daily practice that transforms confusion into clarity • Why rushing self-discovery actually slows your growth • How to build genuine connections through patient self-exploration • The simple journaling method that builds lasting self-trustThis isn't about quick fixes - it's about transforming your relationship with your own depth. FREE Resources for INFPs: FREE 5-Day INFP Soul Journey course: http://inowfeelpositive.com Path of Heroes Academy: http://poha.geekpsychology.com I Now Feel Positive Masterclass for INFPs: http://infp.geekpsychology.com Podcast: http://podcast.geekpsychology.com Instagram: / geekpsychology
Ever felt like your mind is an ocean of thoughts but explaining them feels impossible? As an INFP, that's totally normal! Let's explore why we struggle to translate our rich inner world into words - and what to do about it.In this video, you'll learn:• Why INFPs experience "depth-to-surface translation loss"• How Fi-Ne creates our unique way of processing information• Practical techniques for expressing our complex thoughts• Why this "limitation" is actually a hidden strength⏰ TIMESTAMPS:0:00 The INFP Communication Struggle1:00 Understanding Introverted Feeling (Fi)2:00 The 4D Experience Metaphor3:00 Working With Your Type4:00 The Fi-Ne Connection5:00 Bridging the Communication Gap6:00 Practical Expression Techniques7:00 Permission to Be Partial8:00 Community Discussion
Ever felt like someone was reading your mind? As an INFP myself, I'm taking you on a journey through our unique cognitive landscape.In this video, I break down the fascinating world of INFP cognitive functions using real experiences and insights from Dr. Dario Nardi's research. Here's an affiliate link to his book, Decode Your Personality (https://amzn.to/3Wi4xAU -- not sponsored)You'll discover:• Why our internal world is so rich (and sometimes overwhelming) • How our values shape everything we do • The truth about our "selfish" side • Why we get stuck in deep introspection • How to harness our unique strengthsWhether you're an INFP trying to understand yourself better or someone trying to understand an INFP in your life, this video offers authentic insights into our complex inner world. Join our community! http://evolve.geekpsychology.com#GeekPsychology #INFP #PersonalityTypes #MBTI #INFPPersonality #CognitiveFunctions #PersonalDevelopment #TypePsychology #INFPLife #PersonalGrowth00:00 Introduction to INFPs00:58 Exploring Internal Focus04:53 Understanding INFP Values07:08 Navigating Group Dynamics13:18 The Power of Curiosity15:36 Trusting Intuition17:41 Helping Others Discover Value22:24 The Importance of Self-Trust24:56 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Discover the one emotional habit holding INFPs back from success and learn the proven 5-step process to transform your sensitivity into your greatest strength. FREE RESOURCE:Get your 5-Day INFP Soul Journey Course:→ inowfeelpositive.com⭐ WATCH NEXT:How to Survive in the Dating World as an INFPWhy INFPs Feel Like Outcasts INFP Emotions | Why INFPs Don't Share Their EmotionsSuccess Tips Every INFP Should Know! INFP Productivity Tips to Achieve Goals (ISFP too!)How INFPs Sabotage Love VIDEO SUMMARY:This video reveals how INFPs can develop "Emotional Calisthenics" without losing their authentic sensitivity. Learn practical techniques to navigate emotional states while maintaining progress toward your goals.Key points covered:Understanding the INFP emotional patternThe three elements of state managementPractical implementation stepsReal-world success examplesBuilding sustainable emotional habits⏰ TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Identifying the INFP Habit01:54 Understanding Emotional Calisthenics03:28 Steps to Reclaim Your Emotional State08:12 Practical Applications and Personal Experience09:51 Empowering INFPs to Take Action RESOURCES:I Now Feel Positive Masterclass for INFPs: http://infp.geekpsychology.comPath of Heroes Academy: http://poha.geekpsychology.comSelf-Development with AI Course: http://selfdevelopmentwithai.com1-on-1 Coaching: http://coaching.geekpsychology.com CONNECT WITH ME: Instagram: / geekpsychology Twitter: / geekpsychology YouTube: / geekpsychology ️ Podcast: http://podcast.geekpsychology.com Facebook: / geekpsychology
In today's video, I'm diving into the complex relationship between Extraverted Intuition (Ne) and Introverted Intuition (Ni), especially as it relates to INFPs and INTPs. I'll share my personal insights on how these cognitive functions interact and create tension. By exploring the nuances of Ne and Ni, you'll learn how to manage this tension effectively. Key takeaways include recognizing when Ni becomes a critical voice in your life, utilizing visualization techniques to ease that pressure, and fostering a harmonious relationship between these two intuitive functions. Whether you feel like you're stuck in a mental tractor beam or dealing with overwhelming emotions, this video is for you!If you found value in this video, please hit the like button and subscribe for more insights! Share your experiences in the comments below—how do you navigate the clash between Ne and Ni in your life?Also, don't forget to check out these valuable resources:FREE 5-Day INFP Soul Journey course: http://inowfeelpositive.comPath of Heroes Academy: http://poha.geekpsychology.comI Now Feel Positive Masterclass for INFPs: http://infp.geekpsychology.comPodcast: http://podcast.geekpsychology.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/geekpsychology/Feel free to share this video with your friends or on social media!#geekpsychology #INFP #INTP #Intuition #SelfImprovement #EmotionalHealth #CognitiveFunctions #PersonalGrowth00:00 Introduction to NE and NI for INFPs and INTPs00:18 Understanding NI as a Critic00:48 The Experience of NI's Constriction01:50 The Role of NE for INPs03:57 The Clash Between NE and NI06:24 Techniques to Manage Conflicting States08:53 Steps to Visualize and Transform Sensations11:58 Conclusion and Further Resources
Many property management business owners out there struggle with having a bad brand, bad pricing, cheapo clients, a lack of confidence, and more. In today's episode of the #DoorGrowShow, property management growth experts Jason and Sarah Hull sit down in-person with property manager and DoorGrow client, Kelly Rafuse, to talk about her journey with property management. You'll Learn [04:53] How to Be Picky with the Clients You Bring on [10:59] Overcoming the “Hustler” Mindset [15:04] Choosing an Effective Brand [21:07] Cheapos, Normals, and Premium Buyers Tweetables ”As you live and you grow in this business, you learn what makes money and what doesn't.” “ The more confident you are, the more some of these… difficult personality types will kind of abdicate and allow you to lead them.” “ It's better to be at the top than to be competing with the garbage at the bottom.” “ Need is scarcity, need is starving, and need is survival.” Resources DoorGrow and Scale Mastermind DoorGrow Academy DoorGrow on YouTube DoorGrowClub DoorGrowLive TalkRoute Referral Link Transcript [00:00:00] Kelly: You know, as you live and you grow in this business, you learn what makes money and what doesn't. And I learned how to manage property the hard way. [00:00:07] Jason: But you learned it. [00:00:08] Kelly: Yes. [00:00:10] Jason: Welcome DoorGrow property managers to the DoorGrow show. If you are a property management entrepreneur that wants to add doors, make a difference, increase revenue, help others, impact lives. And you're interested in growing in business and life. And you're open to doing things a bit differently, then you are a DoorGrow property manager DoorGrow property managers love the opportunities, daily variety, unique challenges and freedom that property management brings. Many in real estate think you're crazy for doing it. [00:00:37] You think they're crazy for not because you realize that property management is the ultimate high trust gateway to real estate deals, relationships and residual income. At DoorGrow, we are on a mission to transform property management business owners and their businesses. We want to transform the industry, eliminate the BS, build awareness, change perception, expand the market, and help the best property management entrepreneurs win. We're your hosts, property management growth experts, Jason Hull, founder and CEO of DoorGrow, and Sarah Hull, the co owner and COO of DoorGrow. And now let's get into the show. [00:01:13] So our guest today, we're hanging out with Kelly. Kelly, introduce yourself. [00:01:17] Kelly: Hi there, my name is Kelly Rafuse with Crimson Cape Property Management in Wilkes Barre, Pennsylvania. [00:01:22] Jason: And you have a really nice logo. Where'd you get that really nice logo? [00:01:25] Kelly: It's this little mastermind I joined called DoorGrow helped me with that. [00:01:29] Jason: And it's, I was saying, I think it's cool because it's like you are flying right there. [00:01:33] It's like, it like reminds me of you. [00:01:37] Kelly: Well, yeah. I had this Marvel Comics stud fetish, so. [00:01:41] Jason: Yes. Okay. You're the Marvel comic gal. All right. So really excited to be hanging out. We're actually in Pennsylvania because this is kind of the neck of the woods Sarah grew up in and managed properties nearby and you manage properties in a neighboring market and so. [00:01:59] The same market. The same market. She, yeah. Exact same market. [00:02:02] Sarah: I left and she has the market. [00:02:05] Kelly: While you were here, I was just managing my own portfolio. [00:02:08] Jason: Oh, okay. [00:02:09] Kelly: And people were coming to me to manage theirs, and that's how I got into this mess. [00:02:15] Jason: Yeah. Well, give us a little more background on you, Kelly. [00:02:18] How'd you get into property management? [00:02:20] Kelly: Oh, well, I started off as a real estate investor. You know, buying homes out here in Northeast PA. It's a very good place to invest in property. Cash flow is, I mean, I think cap rates were like 12 percent when I got in. So, I mean, it was huge, and honestly, I was trying to replace my income because I'd gotten as far as I could go in my former career, you know, hit a huge glass ceiling, and realized that, you know, real estate was probably my ticket to freedom. [00:02:45] Jason: What was your former career? [00:02:47] Kelly: I was on the radio. [00:02:48] Jason: Yeah, okay, you've got a great voice for it, so. [00:02:51] Thank you very much. [00:02:53] Yeah, so you were doing the radio. [00:02:54] Kelly: Yeah, so I actually got into this market, and I liked it here. I actually, I did my two years and then moved to a bigger market. I was in Hartford, Connecticut for a while. [00:03:03] And then an opportunity to come back presented itself. And I came back because I genuinely like the area. And you know, the inexpensive real estate was an attraction. And then My husband and I got into investing in properties. We built up quite a portfolio. We had 25 units of our own at one point. [00:03:20] We're down to 14 now. We sold a few off that, you know, really weren't moneymakers for us. But, you know, as you live and you grow in this business, you learn what makes money and what doesn't. And I learned how to manage property the hard way. [00:03:33] Jason: But you learned it. [00:03:34] Kelly: Yes. I made all the mistakes. [00:03:37] Jason: Yeah. And that's sometimes learning through mistakes and pain. [00:03:41] I sometimes joke that DoorGrow was built on thousands of mistakes. [00:03:45] Kelly: You're telling me. And I will introduce My biggest pain point in just a second here. So what caused me to join DoorGrow is my husband's a real estate broker. And so people were banging on his door. "Can you manage my property? Can you manage my property?" It's like, "well, I don't do that, but my wife does." [00:04:03] Jason: Yeah. [00:04:04] Kelly: And I'm like, well, I can't manage their property. I don't have a real estate license. And so it was a whole year of, "come on! Just get the license. Just do it! Just do it. Come on!" So I got the license. And I took on one of his investor clients, and I joined DoorGrow, like all in the same day. [00:04:23] And what I found out when I joined DoorGrow was I never should have taken on that client. [00:04:27] Jason: That was the price of tuition. It's one of the key lessons that defines you in business, which is you learn those lessons and not take on bad clients. Well, I mean, for us, it's been really inspiring and exciting to see your journey as an entrepreneur and see you kind of get all this ready and get things developed and start to grow. [00:04:46] And so, we were talking about it, like, what should we talk about on the podcast today with Kelly? And you had mentioned. [00:04:53] Sarah: Yeah, I had said, I think for me, one of the biggest shifts that I've seen in Kelly again and again and again is shifts in mindset because it was just even a few weeks ago where maybe a month ago or something, was relatively recent, where you were saying like, "oh, I read this book and it changed my life I'm waking up at like 4:30 in the morning and structuring my day different" and it was just again and again. But you've had these little shifts that end up leading to these huge changes for you and how you run things and how you structure your day and like just even your, your energy levels seem to be more protected now. [00:05:32] Kelly: Yeah, I'm not getting up at 4:30 in the morning anymore. Although I just learned yesterday I might have to start again because my daughter wants to join the swim team. Oh. And they practice it. 5 a. m. sometimes, but yeah, I mean, it's, it's been a struggle because I'm not only a real estate entrepreneur. [00:05:48] I am also, you know, a wife of a whirlwind. I mean, my husband is a broker. He's into wholesaling. He's into flipping. And I go to manage him. [00:05:58] Jason: The whirlwind broker. [00:06:00] Kelly: Yeah, and, [00:06:02] Jason: yeah. [00:06:02] Kelly: No, we'll say no more about that. [00:06:04] Sarah: There's a lot going on. [00:06:05] Lots of moving pieces. [00:06:06] Kelly: He's a genius. He's like a Bill Gates level genius. [00:06:09] I'm just waiting for the ship to come in. Yeah, nice. It's been 30 years, but it's coming. [00:06:13] Jason: So what do you feel like maybe was the first mindset thing that you noticed in Kelly, kind of overcoming? Or what do you feel like was your first? [00:06:22] Sarah: I don't know if I can think of a first, but I know that there's been several that I'd like to highlight. [00:06:27] Jason: Okay. [00:06:27] Sarah: So I think one of the things is being much more picky with what clients you take on and what properties you take on and how you kind of screen and vet people. [00:06:41] Jason: Maybe that first client helped you learn that lesson. [00:06:44] Sarah: Yes. [00:06:45] Jason: Yeah. So what, what was the lesson there? Like, what did you figure out? [00:06:48] Kelly: Oh, wow. You know, the, the first thing is I have to see if our philosophies match. [00:06:53] Jason: You and the client. [00:06:54] Kelly: Yes. And when I got into real estate investing, I admit I'm a bit of an idealist. I know you're into personality types. [00:07:01] Jason: Yeah. [00:07:01] Kelly: And I test as an INFP. [00:07:03] Jason: Okay. [00:07:03] Kelly: So I probably have no business being in any business at all, but yet here I am. But I'm a dreamer. I'm a visionary. And so my first company was, and still is called Good People, Good Homes, LLC. [00:07:15] And I own property in that LLC. I'm not really doing business in it. It just holds property for me. But when I started it, it was supposed to be the company and it was: you buy these distressed properties in these neighborhoods and you fix them up and you put great people in them and it brings up the whole neighborhood and then everybody loves you and we hold hands and sing Kumbaya and that didn't really happen. [00:07:36] Jason: Yeah. [00:07:36] Kelly: But I did improve a lot of properties. [00:07:39] Jason: Okay. [00:07:39] Kelly: Right. Yeah. [00:07:41] Sarah: I think arguably in this market, you are outdoing anything that I've ever seen because the befores and afters are just wild. And the rent rates before and after are wild. And this area, yes, you can absolutely get a great deal, a great bargain on real estate, and that doesn't come without its challenges and its problems. [00:08:06] But one of the things that I think is just so great in this area that you do is you take these distressed properties and you make them beautiful and livable and safe. And you provide a wonderful home now on something before that was dilapidated. [00:08:25] Kelly: And the market's full of C class properties. You know, I hear a lot of property managers say, "Why are you even bothering with those?" [00:08:31] Well, honestly, there isn't anything else. Yeah, that's what we hear. You work with what you got. And I probably wouldn't be a real estate investor if the market wasn't like this. Because that's how I got in. I didn't make a ton of money in radio. I didn't. But I made enough to get in, you know, with a C class property. [00:08:48] And now those C class properties are paying for my life, and my daughter's life, and it's beautiful. The property management company? That's just icing on the cake, but I think it might even eclipse what I've been able to do with my rentals. [00:09:00] Jason: Oh, I'm sure. [00:09:01] Kelly: And there's a need for it. [00:09:02] Jason: Yeah. Big need. [00:09:04] Kelly: Yeah. So the biggest thing I learned, back to your question about how to vet clients, does their philosophy match mine? Do they believe their C class property could be turned into a desirable place to live? And yes, you will be charging market rent for that, which is a lot more than maybe you thought you could charge. And you'll get a better class tenant that way. Or are they just happy not doing anything to the property, just letting it be what it is and getting whoever they can get into it and, you know, getting whatever money they can for it. I don't really want to work with those people. [00:09:38] Jason: Do you find part of this though is just selling? [00:09:41] It's like convincing them to align with your vision? Because it sounds like you have a better vision than a lot of the people that might come to you. [00:09:48] Kelly: Sometimes when I show them the spreadsheet, of, you know, what I've done for some of my other clients, including the first one that I told you about. I mean, I really turned some of his properties around. [00:09:59] And I've tried to fire him twice. Yeah. [00:10:01] He won't go and, you know, he's also a third of my income, so I'm going to keep him on. And, but the thing is, he's kind of listening to me now. Kind of. [00:10:11] Sarah: He's open. Well, I think. It's like a walnut shell. We've just cracked it open. Maybe some of the good ideas are seeping through. [00:10:18] Jason: I've talked about this before, but I think also part of it is, as we've seen, you come into your own in more confidence in what you're doing and the more confident you are, the more some of these A personality types or these difficult personality types will kind of abdicate and allow you to lead them. [00:10:36] And I talk about metaphorically punching people in the face sometimes. So you probably maybe punched them in the face metaphorically a couple of times since then. And so setting those healthier boundaries. Is something we naturally do when we start to believe in ourselves more. And so what other shifts do you feel like you've noticed in Kelly? [00:10:55] Or what are some of the things that DoorGrow's helped you with? Are you making changes too? [00:10:59] Kelly: Well, like Sarah said, a lot of the mindset stuff, I mean, a big revelation came to me when I was at DoorGrow live. [00:11:05] Jason: Yeah, what was that? [00:11:07] Kelly: Well, first of all, getting to DoorGrow Live was a challenge because I was in the midst of my survival mode. [00:11:13] I'm a solopreneur still. I do everything myself. My husband's my broker of record, but, like, he's off doing his thing. Sure. So. [00:11:21] Jason: You were doing everything, you're really busy, and you're like, how do I take a break to even just go to DoorGrow Live? [00:11:26] Kelly: Yeah, and, you know, then I've got this mindset that, you know, how can I afford it? [00:11:30] But the thing is, I did have the money to go. That's another thing. I've got a poverty mindset I need to get past. And when I went to DoorGrow Live, that was really thrown in my face. Because I was talking about the challenges of being a solopreneur. And one of the pieces of advice that I was given by one of the speakers is, "What's your time worth?" [00:11:49] You know, you can't be doing all of these things when you pay somebody. Yeah, and I thought, well, what's my time worth? And then this little voice in the back of my head said, well, not a whole heck of a lot. [00:12:00] Jason: You told everybody that. You said, "not a whole heck of a lot." [00:12:04] Kelly: Yeah. [00:12:04] Jason: And we're like, "oh, okay." [00:12:06] Kelly: Yeah. [00:12:07] Jason: Yeah. [00:12:07] Kelly: Well, I mean, that comes from, you know, my background. I grew up without a lot. [00:12:11] Jason: Yeah. You know, [00:12:12] Kelly: I saw my parents struggle. They're working class people. You know, I got into an industry that was on its, you know, downslide when I, I started on the radio in you know, the early nineties, you know, probably right after it started to slide down and, you know, there've been multiple layoffs and, you know, voice tracking and automation and, you know, I survived, but I think one of the reasons I survived was I was willing to work really hard for not a whole lot of compensation. [00:12:40] Jason: Sure. [00:12:40] Kelly: You know, as people were let go and reductions in force, I was given more duties, but not more money. [00:12:47] Jason: Sure. [00:12:48] Kelly: And, you know, you do that long enough, you start getting the message that, oh, well, your time really isn't worth a whole heck of a lot. [00:12:54] Jason: Yeah. [00:12:55] Kelly: Yeah. [00:12:56] Jason: Who decides what your time's worth? [00:12:57] Kelly: I do. [00:12:58] Jason: Yeah. I do. [00:12:59] Yes. [00:12:59] Kelly: I do. [00:13:00] Yeah! [00:13:01] And, you know, that's... [00:13:02] you do now. Yes. [00:13:03] Jason: How has that shifted for you then? What's your perception of your time and the value of it? of your time now? [00:13:09] Kelly: My perception of my time is, you know, first of all, I don't need to be tied to the Henry Ford 40 hour work week or even the 50-60-70-80 hour work week that I hear people say you "should" do when you're running a business because, you know, it's impractical. [00:13:24] I have a daughter. She's a teenager. She's just started high school this year. She's a field hockey athlete and now she wants to be on the swim team and she's got needs. Mhm. Right? I've got a husband who does not have a cushy job I can fall back on while I do my entrepreneurial thing. [00:13:40] Jason: Right. Right. [00:13:41] Kelly: He's also an entrepreneur. [00:13:43] We are living off self employment income. So it is a constant, you know, point of stress. So, you know, I need to find out my key productivity time, and that's when I work. And sometimes I get four or five hours a day, and that's it, of key productivity time. But then I find myself, you know, when I'm walking the dog, having all these great ideas. [00:14:06] You know, I do things like I listen to your podcast you know, some great audio books that have been recommended to me. I devoured The One Thing by Gary Keller, the Profit First book. And I'm starting to implement these ideas. And it's just sort of like they're ladder steps. [00:14:23] Jason: So basically, little by little, you've been investing in yourself by leveraging reading, getting coaching, doing this stuff. [00:14:31] And that's translated into you valuing yourself a little bit more. [00:14:35] Yeah. [00:14:35] Awesome. [00:14:36] Kelly: Absolutely. And I've learned to turn things over, like maintenance, you know, I hired one of the vendors that you recommended, Vendoroo and they're, you know, the tenants still text me with maintenance issues. [00:14:47] Sure. And I text back, "put it in the portal." Right. "If you can't put it in the portal, call this number and they'll teach you how to put it in the portal." [00:14:55] Jason: But yeah, probably less willing to take phone calls than you were before. [00:14:58] Kelly: Yeah, I've never really taken phone calls. [00:15:00] Jason: That's good, that's good. [00:15:02] Kelly: Thanks me. Get it all in writing. [00:15:04] Jason: So you went through our whole rapid revamp process as well, like with the branding and like getting everything kind of dialed in, pricing. You've implemented a lot of things. And so, has that impacted your confidence level as well? [00:15:20] Kelly: Oh, absolutely. I really feel like, you know, I'm marketing a real brand now with Crimson Cape. [00:15:25] Jason: Yeah. What, what was it before that? [00:15:26] Kelly: GPGH Management Company. [00:15:29] Jason: Oh, the acronym. [00:15:30] Kelly: Yep. Good People, Good Homes. [00:15:32] Jason: Yeah. [00:15:32] Kelly: You know, just to take off of that and, you know, everything was GPGH. My husband was GPGH Realty. [00:15:38] Jason: It sounds like some sort of drug or something. What do you take in GPGH? [00:15:42] Kelly: Well, it's the right market. [00:15:44] Jason: Okay. Well, then there's that GLP 1 joke too that you could put in there. GLP 1. Yeah. But my husband actually reprinted his real estate company because of, you know, he was inspired by what I did. [00:15:54] Yeah. Yeah. Okay. What's his brand? [00:15:56] Kelly: He's Gorilla Real Estate. That's the little stuffed gorilla you saw on the way in. [00:16:00] Jason: Okay, yeah. Yeah, and they're different, which is nice. They're not like, you know, kind of mixed together. [00:16:06] Kelly: Right, right. And I don't want, you know, people to really associate us together, even though we do share an office. [00:16:11] Jason: Yeah. [00:16:12] For now. [00:16:13] So you've gone through the branding, your pricing is different than anyone else in the market. [00:16:19] Kelly: Yeah. It's higher than anyone else in the market too. And that keeps a lot of the riffraff away. [00:16:24] Jason: Yeah. It's better to be at the top than to be competing with the garbage at the bottom. For sure. Yeah. Especially in a difficult or lower end market. Yeah. Yeah. So awesome. What other changes? [00:16:36] Sarah: I think, well, how many, we've gone through the rapid revamp a couple of times, so she's done the mindset piece a few times, and I think every time you go through it, you kind of get, like, an extra layer out of it, like almost like the next, like we're stacking like, levels and levels and levels of different like mindset tips and tricks, and then the perception piece, which once we're done with the little pieces on the website, we can get that launched for you. [00:17:04] I think that will make a huge difference. And recently. I mean, for the whole entirety of the time that you were in our program, you had always said "there is no way I can add more units. There is no way I can do more work. There is no way I can even focus on growth." And you are now adding new doors. [00:17:24] Kelly: Yep, I added three last week. I added another two Sunday night from a current client. I didn't know she had another double block. You know how I got those doors? She called me from you know, her poor husband is at the Cleveland Clinic. So she called me from Cleveland and she's like "I got a no heat call from this one building that you're not managing And I can't deal with it. Can you please take these units?" [00:17:47] Jason: Nice. [00:17:48] Kelly: So I just got two more doors. [00:17:49] Jason: Okay. [00:17:50] Kelly: And I'm hopefully closing on another five by the end of the week. [00:17:53] Yes! [00:17:55] Jason: So doors are just starting to flow and you're able to dedicate time now towards growth which before you're kind of [00:18:01] Kelly: yeah [00:18:01] Jason: Chicken with head cut off running around and dealing with stuff. [00:18:04] Kelly: It's going to get a little iffy again now that I've added these doors, you know, okay. Now I have to onboard all these tenants. And there's a couple that come with the vacant units that they want me to rent in January? [00:18:16] Jason: Yeah. [00:18:17] Sarah: The best time of year here. [00:18:21] Jason: Right. Lots of activity. [00:18:23] Sarah: Speaking of vacant units, You have none now in the portfolio that you're Managing? [00:18:28] My current portfolio, I filled them all. [00:18:31] Yeah, and how many did you have? Because I feel like all throughout the year I was getting updates and it was like 20 something and down a little bit, down a little bit, and now you're at zero. [00:18:41] Kelly: Yeah, I filled I think 17 units over the course of the last year. [00:18:45] Amazing. [00:18:46] 10 of them were filled between September and now. [00:18:50] Jason: Nice. Wow. [00:18:50] Kelly: And I've got a few that are coming up. I've got, you know, two of my tenants are moving into senior housing. So, you know, that means I'm probably going to have to redo their apartments because they've been living there since like 1965 or whatever. [00:19:04] I'm sure they're going to need to be some updates. [00:19:07] Jason: So in getting this business started, if you hadn't heard about DoorGrow, or say, DoorGrow didn't exist. Where would you be you think right now? [00:19:15] Kelly: Oh my gosh. [00:19:16] Jason: What'd be going on? [00:19:17] Kelly: I'm not sure I'd still be doing it. [00:19:19] Jason: You think you would have quit? [00:19:20] Kelly: With this client that I took on from the beginning, if I didn't know any better, I would think this is what property management is. [00:19:27] Jason: And you'd be like, yeah, right, so talking with us saying you should probably fire this client was probably enough to go, "okay, this may not be everybody." [00:19:35] Kelly: Right. [00:19:36] Jason: Okay. [00:19:36] Kelly: Right, right. And you know, and you also helped me work with this client. So he's still my client, and he could be a very good client now that his buildings are cash flowing. But that remains to be seen because I got a little pushback on a repair last night that I wasn't real happy with, but we'll see. [00:19:53] Jason: You're going to set some strong boundaries with this guy. [00:19:56] Kelly: I might have to punch him in the face a third time. [00:19:58] Jason: Metaphorically. Right, right. Metaphorically, we're not advocating violence. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Okay. All right. Well anything else that we should chat about or cover? I mean, it's really been, like I said at the beginning, it's been inspiring and exciting to see you grow. [00:20:13] We're really excited to see where you take this and we've seen just it and that's why we do what we do. It's great to see clients just grow like you've come so far. Your whole energy is just different. Just how you are from when we saw you at DoorGrow live and you're like, well, what's your time worth? [00:20:29] And you're, you've spouted off, "well, not very much," you know, or whatever you've come a long way. And I'm really excited to see where you go with this because this could be a really great residual income business. I think absolutely it will overshadow what you're making off your rental properties, but then it also feed you some more real estate deals in the future. [00:20:47] For sure as you, as you work this. And so, yeah, I think it'll be interesting. And how does the, the king of Gorilla Real Estate feel about everything that you're doing? [00:20:56] Kelly: Oh, he's incredibly supportive. Yeah. I think he misses when I used to just, you know, clean up his bookkeeping for him. We now have to hire someone to do that. [00:21:05] Jason: Mm-hmm. Yes. Those wealthy problems. Yeah. [00:21:07] Kelly: And yeah, and that's another mindset thing I need to get over. And you cover this in the rapid revamp when you're talking about, you know, the three types of clients you got, your, your normals, which you're, you're aiming for. [00:21:18] Jason: Yeah. [00:21:18] Kelly: But then you've got, you know, your cheapos and your premiums. [00:21:21] Sure. [00:21:21] Jason: Yeah. [00:21:21] Kelly: And and, and one of the things you talked about, the cheapos is. Are you a cheapo? [00:21:27] Jason: Oh. Yeah. [00:21:27] Kelly: And I realize that, yeah, I kind of am a cheapo. [00:21:30] Jason: You get what you attract. Huh. And so, yeah, we're blind, we have a blind spot towards which category we are showing up as, and so stretching yourself to not be a cheapo. [00:21:41] Kelly: I grew up with nothing. You know, I grew up with nothing, so, yeah, that's why I'm a cheapo. [00:21:47] Sarah: Yeah. And I get it, because I too was in that mindset, especially when I lived here. [00:21:52] This area is in that mindset. [00:21:54] Yes, the whole area is very, and when you find someone who kind of breaks through that bubble, It's odd here, right? [00:22:03] And it's different. And it's weird. And it's like, what are they doing? What is this all about? This is just weird. Like, why are you not, you know, normal like us? And when that was something that I had struggled with for a very, very long time, too, because back when I had lived here, I thought, "okay, well, I want to make more money. And like, I need to make more money. And the only way I can do that is I can either work more hours and maybe get some overtime or maybe I can find a job that's going to pay me more and or ask for a raise, or and this is my go to strategy, was let's just work two jobs, three jobs, four jobs." I was working four jobs at a time. [00:22:44] I was working seven days a week and I did that for years and years and years just because, well, this job I maxed out on and I can't get any more money out of here, but I need more money, so, oh, let me just add on another job. Yeah, so I understand that completely and it was just, it was with time that that started to just crack and shift a little bit. [00:23:02] Jason: Kind of the trap of time for dollars. As if that's the only way. [00:23:07] Sarah: Absolutely. Absolutely. [00:23:09] Jason: So yeah, so being exposed just to other people that are not of that mindset probably is cracks that glass ceiling you spoke of a little bit before maybe. [00:23:19] Kelly: Right. Yeah. And what I'm noticing is that I'm attracting people, local people, that have a similar mindset and they exist. [00:23:28] You know, there's a lot of entrepreneurs in this area. Chris Jones started Pepper Jam, and he decided to keep his company here. [00:23:34] Sarah: Oh, wow. [00:23:34] Kelly: Yeah, I mean, there's, there's a few. Tech company, you might have heard of them. But yeah, there's, there's a few. [00:23:39] Jason: So, you are no longer a cheapo. [00:23:42] Kelly: No. I, well, I'm working on it. [00:23:45] I'm working on it. I catch myself. [00:23:46] Jason: You say... [00:23:47] Kelly: I am no longer a cheapo. [00:23:49] Jason: I am more normal. [00:23:51] Kelly: I am more normal. [00:23:52] Jason: Graduating towards premium. [00:23:53] Kelly: And I'm graduating towards premium. [00:23:55] Jason: It's good to be premium. We get to decide this, right? We get to decide this. [00:24:00] And so as you stretch yourself into more premium experience and recognizing, like, money is not the painful thing to be focused on, there's, and there's better things to be focused on that are more valuable and more important, like your time. And as you put a greater and greater premium on your time, you shift out of that currency of cash being the, you know, the God of your life controlling you and then you can start to be grateful. [00:24:26] And I think one of the key things for everybody listening is when we start to celebrate all of the things that we used to complain about related to money, I think this is how we shift out of that poverty mindset is, oh, we got to pay this bill. Thank you God that I have lights and power that I'm able to afford to do this. [00:24:44] Or thank you that I'm able to do this. And when we start to be grateful instead of projecting pain every time we see or hear money, And we start to project gratitude, then we start to attract more money. Like we start to be open to that. And as we shift into normal, yeah, we attract more normals. As we shift into premium, we attract more premium clients. [00:25:05] And they recognize you. It's like, there's a knowing between you and them, like, yeah, this is how it works. You come to us and we take care of everything and we take care of you and you get a premium service and product and they're like, "yeah, that's what I want." because premium buyers, when they see people that are cheapos. [00:25:20] They can like kind of smell it on you, right? So then they're like, "I don't want to work with this person. They're not going to take care of my property the way that I would want or do things or take care of me the way that I want." And so investing in ourselves. Sometimes for me, one of my coaches said, "go get a massage, you know, go do things to invest or take care of yourself to where you feel like..." you know, anything where we say, I think the poverty mindset is we hear this voice that says, " I don't need that nicer car. You don't need to go get a massage. Why do you need that?" Normal and premium is about shifting beyond need, right? Need is scarcity, need is starving, and need is survival, and so, and then what happens is we have to create drama or problems in our life in order to justify taking time off, so we have to get sick, or we have to justify it. [00:26:09] Doing something and so when we shift out of that then we shift into a healthier state where we can decide I am going to take a vacation or I am going to take time off. I'm going to go to DoorGrow live. You should all go to DoorGrow live, so. [00:26:20] Sarah: I highly recommend coming up in May! [00:26:23] Jason: It's coming up in May. Go to doorgrowlive.Com. So, all right anything else we should touch on? [00:26:28] Sarah: One thing and I don't know if I've ever said this on the coach a call where you've been on but for me, it was actually Roya Mattis. She, at the time, was in Mary Kay like, and I was in cosmetic sales for Mary Kay, and It was very early in my Mary Kay career and I was kind of learning how to be entrepreneur ish, right? [00:26:53] Like, "Oh, I can write these things off and I can do things differently" and, "Oh, this is an expense, but it's a good expense." And it was a lot of new things for me. And one of the things that she had said is and I'll never forget because it just stuck with me and I went, "Oh, okay." Yeah, I need to stop thinking like that right now. [00:27:11] Is " come tax time, there are people who can't wait for tax time because they're waiting. They're depending on that refund and they're like, 'Oh, thank God I get this refund.' Right?" [00:27:21] A lot of rent gets caught up in it. [00:27:23] It sure does. Yeah. Funny. All of a sudden they have money. So. Once you start really making money, though, you don't get refunds anymore. [00:27:33] What ends up happening is you pay money. And not only do you pay money into it, but you now are, like, quarterly paying money. But you don't have to do that if you're, like, barely scraping by, if you're not making money. So, what she said to me is, " when you're, like, rich and you're making money You're excited to pay this money because you're making so much money that now, not only are not going to get a refund, but you don't, you don't worry about the refund, you're making money and now you're paying the taxes and you are going to hit a point where you want to be paying taxes more often than just once a year because that means you've reached a certain level and now you're making a certain amount of money and your goal at that point is then going to be, 'well, how can I increase this?'" [00:28:24] And that for me, it just stuck in my head forever. And I went, "Oh. Oh, geez. I didn't even realize that." And at that time I was, I was. Like, "well, I'm going to get a couple thousand dollars back, like on my tax refund." I haven't gotten a refund in years. And it's true though. It's just a different way of thinking about things. [00:28:40] It's like, well, you know, if you make this tiny little bit of money and then I can get, you know, a couple thousand dollars back at the end of the year, or I can make a whole lot more money. And then, yes, I have to make some quarterly tax payments. Man, I'd rather make a lot more money and I'll just give the government some of it. [00:28:54] And then what you have to do is just figure out how can we reduce that as much as possible. [00:28:59] Jason: I would love to see taxes just be reduced dramatically. So, we'll see. [00:29:04] Kelly: But, who knows what they're going to do. [00:29:05] Jason: I don't get super excited about paying taxes, but I do get excited. I would rather, like, see more income on my tax return. [00:29:13] You know taxes every time so. [00:29:14] Sarah: Would you rather make the big amount of money so that you have to pay the taxes in or would you make a really small amount of money so that you get a refund? [00:29:22] Kelly: Yeah, just a really good accountant that can help you zig when the government zags [00:29:26] Sarah: So that that was something that she said to me and I went oh, okay, that is a very different way of thinking about it. [00:29:33] And it just, just stuck with me. [00:29:35] Jason: Yeah. Always looking through the lens of 'why is this positive?' it's a healthy mindset for sure. Yeah. Why are taxes positive? All right. Everybody listening is like, "they're not." [00:29:45] Sarah: I know. Right. Cool. My brother wants a shout out. So shout out to Jason. [00:29:50] Jason: What's up, Jason? [00:29:51] Sarah: He's like, "you never shout me out!" Here, here you are. The three of us are waving to you now. So, what's up, Jason? [00:29:58] Jason: No, he's got the same name as me. Everybody's like, what's that all about? [00:30:01] He's dating a Sarah. [00:30:03] Kelly: Oh! [00:30:04] Jason: Which is funny. And you have a stepsister, that's Sarah, so he's got two, three Sarahs in his life right now. [00:30:13] Three Sarahs, two Jasons, and a partridge in a pear tree. All right. Cool. Well, Kelly, it's been great coming to hang out in your office and to meet you in person like here in Pennsylvania. Thanks for hosting the DoorGrow show and having us hang out with you and we're excited to see where you go and how you progress in the program and all the things you're going to do as you add doors. [00:30:36] And I think the future is really bright for Crimson Property Management, Crimson Cape. Hey, I missed the Cape. It's like superhero stuff here. Yes. I am. I love it. All right. 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Why do INFPs struggle to move on? In this video, I dive deep into the unique emotional processing of INFPs, exploring why it often takes time to understand and move past emotional situations. I'll share how our dominant function, Introverted Feeling, plays a crucial role in our decision-making and emotional processing. Discover why your way of handling emotions is valid and how it can lead to profound self-discovery and growth. Learn practical tips like journaling and creative expression to navigate your feelings and better understand yourself. Ready to embrace your INFP journey? Subscribe and join us for a transformative experience! For more resources, check out: FREE 5-Day INFP Soul Journey course: http://inowfeelpositive.comPath of Heroes Academy: http://poha.geekpsychology.comI Now Feel Positive Masterclass for INFPs: http://infp.geekpsychology.comPodcast: http://podcast.geekpsychology.comInstagram: / geekpsychology Don't forget to like, comment, and share this video with your fellow INFPs! 00:00 Understanding INFP Emotional Processing00:57 The Role of Introverted Feeling01:35 Navigating Complex Emotions02:00 Personal Experiences and Reflections03:22 Coping Strategies for INFPs04:30 The Power of Self-Discovery06:19 Conclusion and Resources
Clare discusses his journey from thinking he was ENFJ, ENFP, and INFJ to landing on INFP being his best-fit type. ☆Check out what I'm up to!☆ Hi there! I'm Joyce, a certified MBTI® Master Practitioner, Enneagram Coach, Jungian Typology Expert, Master NLP Practitioner, and Gallup® CliftonStrengths Coach. WONDERING WHICH ONE OF THE 16 PERSONALITY TYPES YOU ARE? Book a session to get my take on your type. I'd love to help guide you on your type-discovery journey! Here is my scheduling link to arrange a time with me: https://calendly.com/joycemengcoaching I charge $85 for a typing session. Another colleague of mine certified by Personality Hacker will work alongside me and we will give you our independent assessments of you. Want to go deeper? For $97, you can purchase a typing session with 1 hour of additional coaching with me. Or maybe you know your personality type already and are seeking some type-based coaching? As a trained coach, I can help you apply type concepts to all areas of your life for lasting change. The coaching session rate is $75 per hour for a bundle of 3. :) By purchasing a session, you will help support the Type Talks channel and gain personalized mentorship and guidance from an experienced industry expert with over 12 years of experience. If you'd like to get in touch, you can email me at joycemeng22@gmail.com For those of you who are interested, I am also launching a website and releasing a typology book next year! Here's a link to my coaching website if you'd like to learn more about me and the services I offer: https://www.joycemengcoaching.com/ Connect with me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoyceMeng22 Like the show? Buy me a coffee! (it means the world to me): https://ko-fi.com/joycemeng Show your support by becoming a monthly patron! https://ko-fi.com/joycemeng/tiers Want to know when the next Type Talks video is premiering? Join our Discord community for the latest updates! (Inactive now, looking for moderators) https://discord.gg/ksHb7fmMcm #INFP #INFJ #ENFJ #ENFP #16Types #16personalities #MBTI
Ever felt like your mind is an ocean of thoughts but explaining them feels impossible? As an INFP, that's totally normal! Let's explore why we struggle to translate our rich inner world into words - and what to do about it.In this video, you'll learn:• Why INFPs experience "depth-to-surface translation loss"• How Fi-Ne creates our unique way of processing information• Practical techniques for expressing our complex thoughts• Why this "limitation" is actually a hidden strength Special segment: The Video Game Metaphor - Understanding 4D vs 2D communication Featured concept: Working WITH your personality type instead of against it️ Actionable strategies for authentic INFP expression⏰ TIMESTAMPS:0:00 The INFP Communication Struggle1:00 Understanding Introverted Feeling (Fi)2:00 The 4D Experience Metaphor3:00 Working With Your Type4:00 The Fi-Ne Connection5:00 Bridging the Communication Gap6:00 Practical Expression Techniques7:00 Permission to Be Partial8:00 Community Discussion
If you're an INFP desperately trying to create the "perfect" system, only to feel suffocated by it later - this video explains why. I discovered something insightful about our relationship with stability, and it's not what you think.Ready to transform your approach to structure and finally feel aligned? This isn't another "get organized" video - it's about understanding the deeper truth behind your INFP nature. IN THE EPISODE: • Why traditional stability advice fails INFPs • The real reason behind your resistance to structure • How to align systems with your authentic self • The secret to sustainable INFP motivation FREE RESOURCES:→ FREE 5-Day INFP Soul Journey course:http://inowfeelpositive.com→ Path of Heroes Academy:http://poha.geekpsychology.com→ I Now Feel Positive Masterclass:http://infp.geekpsychology.com→ Podcast:http://podcast.geekpsychology.com→ Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/geekpsychology/ Share this with an INFP who needs to hear this message! Join our INFP community and transform your relationship with structure. http://inowfeelpositive.com#INFP #PersonalGrowth #INFPPersonality #SelfDiscovery #MBTIPersonality #PersonalityType #INFPLife #geekpsychology
Discover 10 proven INFP-specific time management strategies that work WITH your personality type, not against it! Perfect for creative, intuitive souls who struggle with traditional productivity methods. FREE RESOURCES:Get your 5-Day INFP Soul Journey Course: → http://inowfeelpositive.comGet a FREE 15-minute INFP Productivity Habits PDF and you can purchase GLOWER on the confirmation page: → https://geekpsychology.com/infp-productivity-habits⏰ TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 - Introduction 1:00 - Understanding Extraverted Intuiting 2:00 - Mind Mapping for INFPs 3:00 - Aligning Tasks with Values 4:00 - The Pomodoro Technique 5:00 - Setting Boundaries 7:00 - Daily Reflection 8:00 - Sticky Note System 9:00 - INFP Community Support 10:00 - Digital Detox 13:00 - Gratitude Practice 16:00 - Mindfulness Tips 18:00 - The GLOWER Framework KEY POINTS:- Mind mapping for INFP brain patterns- Value-aligned productivity techniques- Pomodoro method for Ne energy bursts- Practical boundary-setting strategies- Digital detox for better focus- The GLOWER goal-setting framework RESOURCES: - I Now Feel Positive Masterclass: http://infp.geekpsychology.com - Path of Heroes Academy: http://poha.geekpsychology.com - Self-Development with AI Course: http://selfdevelopmentwithai.com - 1-on-1 Coaching: http://coaching.geekpsychology.com CONNECT WITH ME: Instagram: https://instagram.com/geekpsychology Twitter: https://twitter.com/geekpsychology YouTube: https://youtube.com/geekpsychology ️ Podcast: http://podcast.geekpsychology.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/geekpsychology#INFP #TimeManagement #Productivity #PersonalityType #MBTI #SelfDevelopment #Organization
STOP struggling with emotional overwhelm.In this video, you'll discover:- Why emotions aren't your enemy- The state-shifting technique that actually works- How to build unshakeable emotional strength- The morning routine that changes everythingNo more drowning in feelings. No more being controlled by emotions. Just real mastery of your INFP gifts.#geekpsychology #INFP #emotionalintelligence #personalitytypes #INFPgrowth #emotionalmaturity #personaldevelopment #INFPlife #mbti #selfawareness
Your depth isn't a puzzle to solve - it's a garden to tend.As an INFP, I know the pressure to figure everything out RIGHT NOW. After working with hundreds of INFPs, I've discovered something game-changing: the secret isn't in understanding everything - it's in trusting the journey.In this video, I'll show you: • The 15-minute daily practice that transforms confusion into clarity • Why rushing self-discovery actually slows your growth • How to build genuine connections through patient self-exploration • The simple journaling method that builds lasting self-trustThis isn't about quick fixes - it's about transforming your relationship with your own depth. FREE Resources for INFPs: FREE 5-Day INFP Soul Journey course: http://inowfeelpositive.com Path of Heroes Academy: http://poha.geekpsychology.comI Now Feel Positive Masterclass for INFPs: http://infp.geekpsychology.com Podcast: http://podcast.geekpsychology.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/geekpsychology/ Join our community of growth-minded INFPs! Subscribe and hit the notification bell to never miss new insights on your INFP journey.#geekpsychology #INFP #personalitytypes #selfdiscovery #INFPgrowth #INFPpersonality #personaldevelopment #emotionalhealth #INFPadvice #mindfulness
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In this reflection I try to understand my personality in intimate spaces. Supporting themes: Trauma; Sex; Gender; Work; Friendship; Masculinity and Femininity. Typology: INTJ; INFP; INTP; Enneagram Types 8,5,3, 2 and 1.
If you're new to Geek Psychology, my name is Matt Sherman. People call me Sherman. I'm a personality type expert, life coach, hypnotist, author, podcaster, and course creator. I help mainly INFPs embrace their unique strengths and navigate life's challenges. Through practical strategies and deep insights, I aim to help people like you live a more fulfilling and authentic live where you can wake up and feel good about who you are and your impact on the world.After talking to so many people of the INFP personality type (my own inner dialog included!), I wanted to give advice and help clarify one of the biggest issues with turning your INFP dreams into achievable INFP goals.I hope it helps!Original video: https://youtu.be/1Y8IAiJrfYE?si=xkZ5ZA4KZUeICzkG****Connect and Support Geek Psychology #geekpsychology ****Support the Show. Links:FREE 5-Day INFP Personality Type Tutorial: http://inowfeelpositive.comFREE 5-Day INFJ Personality Type Tutorial: http://geekpsychology.com/infjPath of Heroes Academy: http://poha.geekpsychology.comI Now Feel Positive Masterclass for INFPs: http://infp.geekpsychology.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/geekpsychology/Want to be coached by me? - Book a FREE Strategy Call: schedule.geekpsychology.comBuy my book and journal here:- Personal Transformation Journaling: End the Cycle of Self-Sabotage and Create Lasting Positive Change Through Writing, Reflection and the Parts Work Technique- Mission: Control: The gamified journal
—> INFP Owners Manual In this episode Joel and Antonia respond to a listener's question about INFPs balancing creativity with specialization. Ask A Question: https://PersonalityHacker.com/Questions More about the INFP Personality: —> INFP Personality Type Advice | Podcast 0055 —> INFP Careers - 4 Work Styles Of The Personality Type | Podcast 0484
Joyce's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCarmrOHgveKHsaV6QejAZVw Book a Typing Session with Joyce: https://www.joycemengcoaching.com/ ⌛ T I M E S T A M P S : 5:40 What motivates you to keep producing MBTI content? 11:42 What are the xNFJ values? 14:38 How would you describe yourself? 15:18 Why do INFJs seem to “hold back” their true selves in conversation? 16:24 What can INFJs learn from Fi users? 17:02 This is the best word to describe an INFJ. 19:19 How do you define yourself? Does that shape your identity? We discuss INFJ insight and foresight, which then leads into a conversation about how trauma shapes us. 30:23 How does an INFJ experience their Ni as opposed to an INTJ? 33:44 A distinction between Fi and Fe 34:59 Can you give us an example of using your Introverted Intuition (Ni) on a day-to-day basis? 38:58 Realising that people aren't as deep as you think they are. 40:06 Were you ever confused as to whether you were an INFP or INFJ? If so, how did you realise you were an INFJ? 43:39 Is it insolence if I tell people what their MBTI type is even if they get bothered by it? 45:40 Do you think we can consciously develop our 5th to 8th functions? 52:46 Do very easy tasks stress you out? 53:17 What's something you dislike admitting to be wrong about? 53:34 Which types do you tend to best get along with? 55:17 What don't you understand about ESFPs? 58:40 What are some INFJ stereotypes that you relate to and are there some that you've never personally experienced? 1:01:34 Do you like being the unpaid therapist? 1:03:18 How do you deal with being overstimulated by sensory experiences? 1:05:01 Can an INFJ become like an ESTP? 1:07:50 Why do INFJs have a martyr complex? 1:08:28 What types are you the most attracted to romantically and why? 1:12:14 Why do INFJs have poor Se in terms of body/action, but good Se in terms of style? 1:14:48 Ni doms don't seem to experience anxiety issues. Is there a reason? 1:16:14 What's the easiest tell between an INFJ and an ISFJ? 1:19:12 Be honest, do you have a superiority complex? 1:20:54 What is something about MBTI that you think a lot of people gloss over? 1:23:39 Could you tell us a little bit about the book you're writing? 1:25:33 What is one thing you've learned about yourself in writing this book? 1:26:34 What is your pitch for Enneagram? Is it worth looking into for people who haven't? 1:30:15 If you could choose one thing to tell the MBTI community about INFJs, what would it be?
Free INFJ EPIC LIFE Formula Poster: https://infjformula.gr8.com/ Get the INFJ Audio GUIDE TODAY!!! https://wenzes.thinkific.com/courses/epic-life-audiocourse Join INFJ Bootcamp Waiting List https://bootcampwaitinglist.wenzes.com/ INFJ EPIC LIFE LESSON: Discovering if you are an INFJ or INFP can be tricky. Let's explore five ways to help you differentiate between the two personality types. While test results may not always be definitive, watching videos and reading descriptions can offer valuable insights. As someone who has navigated the differences with a close friend for almost two decades, I'm here to share additional tips on distinguishing INFJs from INFPs. Join me as we delve into this fascinating journey of self-discovery and understanding. All INFJ EPIC LIFE Programs: https://programs.wenzes.com/collections Free Resources: https://wenzes.com/INFJ-Free-Resource/ Website: http://www.wenzes.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wenzes_ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachWenzes #INFJ #INFJLIFECOACH #LIFECOACHING
Send me a textHi, I'm Sherman, and today we're diving into how INFPs and ISFPs can navigate their relationships better. You'll discover:- Core similarities and differences between INFPs and ISFPs- How to navigate conflicts and enhance communication- Unique strengths and dynamics of INFP and ISFP partnershipsWe'll explore cognitive functions in the context of life domains - Logic, Ideas, Feelings, and Experiences. By the end of this video, you'll have practical insights to enhance your relationships through better understanding and communication.00:00 Introduction to Relationship Challenges02:00 Understanding Cognitive Functions11:00 Navigating Miscommunication17:00 Practical Applications for Reducing Stress25:00 Strengths and Unique DynamicsIf you found this episode helpful, please subscribe to my channel, like this episode, and leave a comment sharing your thoughts.Original video: https://youtu.be/y1BMrf6Ejk0?si=25ZkrhTxgmyCVtA-****Connect and Support Geek Psychology #geekpsychology ****FREE 8 Hero Personality Assessment: https://geekpsychology.com/ Support the Show.
Send me a textIf you're new to Geek Psychology, my name is Matt Sherman. People call me Sherman. I'm a personality type expert, life coach, hypnotist, author, podcaster, and course creator. I help mainly INFPs embrace their unique strengths and navigate life's challenges. Through practical strategies and deep insights, I aim to help people like you live a more fulfilling and authentic live where you can wake up and feel good about who you are and your impact on the world. Just another day of being an INFP - rewriting messages until the emotional tone is just right ✨#infp #infpsOriginal video: https://youtube.com/shorts/XO4ROoL4A2c?si=2wiOuLr6F7GSHqcESupport the Show.
Send me a textIf you're new to Geek Psychology, my name is Matt Sherman. People call me Sherman. I'm a personality type expert, life coach, hypnotist, author, podcaster, and course creator. I help mainly INFPs embrace their unique strengths and navigate life's challenges. Through practical strategies and deep insights, I aim to help people like you live a more fulfilling and authentic live where you can wake up and feel good about who you are and your impact on the world. I saw that someone asked if INFP depression and anxiety was inevitable in a prominent forum and I felt compelled to answer it honestly. Life can be hard, and ALL personality types have issues like we have our own INFP struggles.It's not just about the INFP Fi Si loop - there's more to it.I hope it helps!Original video: https://youtu.be/CksHU2QhC24?si=Q8na4MW5VJYqB89Q****Connect and Support Geek Psychology #geekpsychology ****FREE 8 Hero Personality Assessment: https://geekpsychology.com/ Support the Show.
Send me a textIf you're new to Geek Psychology, my name is Matt Sherman. People call me Sherman. I'm a personality type expert, life coach, hypnotist, author, podcaster, and course creator. I help mainly INFPs embrace their unique strengths and navigate life's challenges. Through practical strategies and deep insights, I aim to help people like you live a more fulfilling and authentic live where you can wake up and feel good about who you are and your impact on the world. It can be hard to figure out the feeling functions. Hopefully this video discussing them will help you gain more clarity between Extraverted Feeling vs Introverted Feeling. My wife uses Extraverted Feeling as an ENFJ and I use Introverted Feeling as an INFP.I hope it helps!Original video: https://youtu.be/Fxys3rIYFa4?si=Ja4WgSVy92XK31nI****Connect and Support Geek Psychology #geekpsychology ****FREE 8 Hero Personality Assessment: https://geekpsychology.com/ Support the Show.
Send me a textIf you're new to Geek Psychology, my name is Matt Sherman. People call me Sherman. I'm a personality type expert, life coach, hypnotist, author, podcaster, and course creator. I help mainly INFPs embrace their unique strengths and navigate life's challenges. Through practical strategies and deep insights, I aim to help people like you live a more fulfilling and authentic live where you can wake up and feel good about who you are and your impact on the world. INFP + ENFJ Cognitive Function Clashes No matter how aligned our goals are, there's always an element of conflict between how INFP and ENFJ do feelings and ideas. And that's ok! Watch the longer video for more how how to deal with these issues.Original video: https://youtube.com/shorts/iOtdUbvtzR8?si=eHDfvfbfkw4Pm717Support the Show.
Send me a textIn this video, I delve into Dario Nardi's book, 'Decode Your Personality,' to discuss the two distinct versions of Extraverted Sensing (Se): Analytic/Yang and Holistic/Yin. As an INFP, I share how Se operates within us, including my personal stories and experiences while debunking stereotypes and presuppositions about Se. I provide insights into the practical applications and characteristics of both Se types and encourage viewers to share their experiences.00:00 Introduction00:46 Understanding Extraverted Sensing (Se)02:36 The Mover: Analytic/Yang Se03:56 Personal Stories and Examples of Yang Se08:17 The Sensate: Holistic/Yin Se10:48 Personal Reflections on Yin Se14:08 Comparing Yang and Yin Se18:19 Conclusion and Viewer EngagementOriginal video: https://youtu.be/I6tYqSQC6ng?si=jS3RAvcopx-xNcWm****Connect and Support Geek Psychology #geekpsychology ****FREE 8 Hero Personality Assessment: https://geekpsychology.com/ Support the Show.
Send me a textIf you're new to Geek Psychology, my name is Matt Sherman. People call me Sherman. I'm a personality type expert, life coach, hypnotist, author, podcaster, and course creator. I help mainly INFPs embrace their unique strengths and navigate life's challenges. Through practical strategies and deep insights, I aim to help people like you live a more fulfilling and authentic live where you can wake up and feel good about who you are and your impact on the world. I'm riddled with bodily pains and have been for a long time. Despite getting better overall, I finally got hit with a knee injury and I blame my lack of "skill" in introverted Sensing - my weak Si and my desire to go towards extraverted iNtuition when it supports an easier path.Original video: https://youtu.be/ysER7g36Q1Q?si=AfkkwCnILARSMMGO****Connect and Support Geek Psychology #geekpsychology ****FREE 8 Hero Personality Assessment: https://geekpsychology.com/ Support the Show.
The Importance of Self-Regulation, Self-Compassion and Connection Patricia discusses her feelings of annoyance and disappointment when her scheduled recording with Jen is cancelled. The conversation highlights the complexities of managing emotions and maintaining healthy boundaries in relationships. She also discusses her experience of transitioning from an expansive state to a contractive state and the challenges that come with it. She talks about managing dysregulation, the impact of trauma work and OCD, and the importance of self-compassion. HIGHLIGHTS Summary Patricia explores her attachment style, OCD, and preoccupation with Jen, as well as her efforts to regulate her nervous system. Patricia also reflects on the challenges that arise from the different ways she and Jen navigate time and commitments. She emphasizes the importance of self-regulation and the need for connection in her relationship with Jen. Overall, Takeaways · Different individuals have different attachment styles and ways of navigating time and commitments. · Self-regulation is important for managing emotions and maintaining healthy boundaries in relationships. · Open communication and understanding can help navigate challenges in relationships. · Recognizing and challenging OCD lies can prevent spiraling into negative thought patterns. · Transitioning between expansive and contractive states is a normal part of being human. · Managing dysregulation and finding ways to self-soothe are important during contractive states. · Trauma work and OCD can add additional challenges to the process. · Self-compassion and acceptance of all emotions and experiences are crucial. · Validation and support from others can help navigate difficult times. · Fears and anxieties as a parent are valid and should be acknowledged and addressed. Sound Bites "I'm annoyed and I'm disappointed." "I have a need to be, feel like we've got autonomy over things." "Timeliness, making commitments about things often are more challenging for her." "I noticed probably about a week ago, I went into what I call an expansive state." "I know that I do not maintain this expansive state and that at some point I will drop back into a contractive state." "It felt nice to go into this very expansive space and I could feel myself kind of dropping down out of it." Chapters Navigating Attachment Styles and Time Management Uncertainty and Preoccupation in Relationships Challenging OCD Lies and Managing Emotions Communication and Understanding in Relationships Navigating the Expansive and Contractive States Managing Dysregulation and Self-Soothing Challenges of Trauma Work and OCD The Power of Self-Compassion Validating Fears and Anxieties Finding Support and Acceptance PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller. Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion. She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges. Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you LINKS Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/ Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6 Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4 To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review” Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com
Dr. Dario Nardi talks about the 4 brain-based subtypes of the INFP personality type. ☆Check out the videos that were mentioned!☆ Dario on Analytic & Holistic Functions (Yin and Yang): https://youtu.be/Vv6Xv1pxKW0 Linda Berens Playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL-945qwbNZwABwmsEYxEgItIynPPTtCml Dario Nardi 4 Subtypes (Dominant Creative Normalizing Harmonizing) Interview: https://youtu.be/qOSUE_Ga9xU Roger Pearman Interview: https://youtu.be/2c7McpX8KKE ☆Check out what I'm up to!☆ Hi there! I'm Joyce, a certified MBTI® Master Practitioner, Enneagram Coach, Jungian Typology Expert, Master NLP Practitioner, and Gallup® CliftonStrengths Coach. WONDERING WHICH ONE OF THE 16 PERSONALITY TYPES YOU ARE? Book a session to get my take on your type. I'd love to help guide you on your type-discovery journey! Here is my scheduling link to arrange a time with me: https://calendly.com/joycemengcoaching I charge $85 for a typing session. Another colleague of mine certified by Personality Hacker will work alongside me and we will give you our independent assessments of you. Want to go deeper? For $97, you can purchase a typing session with 1 hour of additional coaching with me. Or maybe you know your personality type already and are seeking some type-based coaching? As a trained coach, I can help you apply type concepts to all areas of your life for lasting change. The coaching session rate is $75 per hour for a bundle of 3. :) By purchasing a session, you will help support the Type Talks channel and gain personalized mentorship and guidance from an experienced industry expert with over 12 years of experience. If you'd like to get in touch, you can email me at joycemeng22@gmail.com For those of you who are interested, I am also launching a website and releasing a typology book next year! Here's a link to my coaching website if you'd like to learn more about me and the services I offer: https://www.joycemengcoaching.com/ Connect with me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoyceMeng22 Like the show? Buy me a coffee! (it means the world to me): https://ko-fi.com/joycemeng Show your support by becoming a monthly patron! https://ko-fi.com/joycemeng/tiers Want to know when the next Type Talks video is premiering? Join our Discord community for the latest updates! (Inactive now, looking for moderators) https://discord.gg/ksHb7fmMcm ☆Check out Dario Nardi!☆ Decode Your Personality: Go Beyond Myers-Briggs With 64 Brain-Based Subtypes: https://www.amazon.ca/Decode-Your-Personality-Myers-Briggs-Brain-Based/dp/B0CMJ5W5DX/ref=sr_1_1?crid=28Z0X3NUWUI0C&keywords=go+beyond+dario&qid=1704488749&sprefix=go+beyond+dario%2Caps%2C90&sr=8-1 Radiance House: https://radiancehouse.sellfy.store/ #INFP #16Types #DarioNardi #neuroscience #16personalities #MBTI
Suyeon and Tyler describe their experiences being blind and NFPs. ☆Check out what I'm up to!☆ Hi there! I'm Joyce, a certified MBTI® Master Practitioner, Enneagram Coach, Jungian Typology Expert, Master NLP Practitioner, and Gallup® CliftonStrengths Coach. WONDERING WHICH ONE OF THE 16 PERSONALITY TYPES YOU ARE? Book a session to get my take on your type. I'd love to help guide you on your type-discovery journey! Here is my scheduling link to arrange a time with me: https://calendly.com/joycemengcoaching I charge $85 for a typing session. Another colleague of mine certified by Personality Hacker will work alongside me and we will give you our independent assessments of you. Want to go deeper? For $97, you can purchase a typing session with 1 hour of additional coaching with me. Or maybe you know your personality type already and are seeking some type-based coaching? As a trained coach, I can help you apply type concepts to all areas of your life for lasting change. The coaching session rate is $75 per hour for a bundle of 3. :) By purchasing a session, you will help support the Type Talks channel and gain personalized mentorship and guidance from an experienced industry expert with over 12 years of experience. If you'd like to get in touch, you can email me at joycemeng22@gmail.com For those of you who are interested, I am also launching a website and releasing a typology book next year! Here's a link to my coaching website if you'd like to learn more about me and the services I offer: https://www.joycemengcoaching.com/ Connect with me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoyceMeng22 Like the show? Buy me a coffee! (it means the world to me): https://ko-fi.com/joycemeng Show your support by becoming a monthly patron! https://ko-fi.com/joycemeng/tiers Want to know when the next Type Talks video is premiering? Join our Discord community for the latest updates! (Inactive now, looking for moderators) https://discord.gg/ksHb7fmMcm ☆Check out Suyeon and Tyler!☆ https://www.youtube.com/@suyeonkim7371 #ENFP #INFP #16Types #16personalities #MBTI #blind #blindartist
On this episode of the Personality Hacker podcast, Joel and Antonia dive into how INFPs can use personality know-how to embrace and love who they are. The conversation also touches on what the other 15 personality types can learn from INFPs about self-love. https://personalityhacker.com
Being “Too Much” is a Narrative that needs to be Re-examined Summary Patricia discusses the wound of too much and how it can impact relationships. Too much is about BOTH people and the capacity of the other person. This is a narrative that needs to be reexamined, and the context of both people needs to be addressed. She explores the intersection of neurodivergence, trauma, and socialization. Patricia also explores the concept of rules, and how through an autistic lens, this can create some challenges. HIGHLIGHTS Takeaways The wound of feeling like you're too much can stem from trauma and socialization of neurotypical norms. Understanding and respecting one's own capacity and the capacity of others is crucial in communication. Navigating relationships as a neurodivergent individual requires open and honest conversations. Embracing sensitivity and accepting oneself is essential for personal well-being. Chapters (please adjust for the addition of the introduction) Points made in this episode: Exploring the concept of the "wound of too much" in relationships and self-perception. Addressing the impact of past traumas and relationship experiences on feeling "too much." Discussing the importance of understanding and respecting personal and others' capacities. Emphasizing the need for setting healthy boundaries to overcome the "wound of too much." Highlighting the dynamics of communication and capacity in relationships. Encouraging empathy and consideration for others' limits in interactions. Recognizing the interconnectedness of personal wounds of "too much" and "not enough." Offering strategies for balancing enthusiasm and respecting others' capacities. Challenging the narrative that focuses solely on one person being "too much." Advocating for a shift towards understanding and honoring both individuals' capacities. Discussing the challenges faced in relationships between neurodivergent and neurotypical individuals. Providing insights on communication, boundaries, and self-awareness in relationships. Emphasizing the importance of mutual understanding and communication in addressing capacity issues. Exploring the nuances of being perceived as "too much" and the impact on self-esteem. Encouraging self-acceptance, setting boundaries, and fostering healthy connections. 00:00 Introduction and Setting the Topic 01:36 The Wound of Too Much 06:21 PDA Profile and Autonomy 07:52 Socialization and Autistic Females 10:16 Stimming and Accommodations 11:34 Navigating Communication and Social Cues 13:17 The Fear of Being Too Much 14:07 The Influence of Others' Opinions 18:22 Shifting the Narrative: Capacity of Both Parties 20:11 Navigating Relationships with Limited Insight 21:10 Personal Examples and Communication 23:35 Finding Balance in Showing Interest 24:05 Conclusion and Encouragement PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it's like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller. Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion. She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren't alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges. Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you LINKS Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/ Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6 Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4 To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review” Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com
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