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Join us this week as we dive into a powerful conversation with Maggie Albrow, a special education teacher who brings a unique perspective to autism. Diagnosed herself and raising two children on the spectrum, she shares practical parenting strategies that anyone can use to better understand their child's needs, whether or not they have autism. We'll explore how her ISTJ personality shapes her approach and dive into her son's ISTP traits, showing how personality and autism intersect to create unique parenting paths. Plus, we'll break down the differences between high-functioning autism and a naturally withdrawn personality, offering valuable insights for parents looking to support and connect with their kids on a deeper level." My son Nathan demonstrated some symptoms when he was younger but as an adult he graduated magna cum laude with a pre med degree and he is about to take the MCAT exam to get into med school. Here are some of those symptoms: Highly repetitive behaviors, such as hand-flapping, rocking, or repeating specific phrases. Unusual responses to sensory input, such as covering ears in noisy environments or fascination with particular textures. Limited eye contact or unusual speech patterns (e.g., very literal or highly scripted language). Difficulty with reciprocal social interactions, like sharing enjoyment or showing empathy in conventional ways. Many people on the autism spectrum tend to score as introverts (I types) on MBTI. Introversion doesn't cause or correlate with autism directly, but the inclination toward internal processing can align with certain experiences of autistic individuals, who may feel overstimulated by social interactions or need time alone to recharge. Social and Communication Challenges: People with autism may find it difficult to interpret social cues, understand nonverbal communication, or initiate and maintain conversations. Fe in backseat, especially INTPs. Repetitive Behaviors and Routines: Many individuals engage in repetitive behaviors, have strong preferences for routines, and may experience distress if these routines are disrupted. Si SJ Sensory Sensitivities: Many experience sensory sensitivities, reacting strongly to sights, sounds, textures, or smells that others may not notice or be affected by. Si, Se How often do sensory issues show up in autism and how do you handle these sensitivities? Intense Interests or Focused Hobbies: People with autism often develop deep interests in specific subjects or activities, sometimes with an exceptional level of detail or knowledge. NT Type 5 Set up a FREE Chat: https://wendygossett.as.me/ChatwithWendy Take my FREE child temperament test: https://wendygossett.com/child-inner-drive-assessment-product/ Request a FREE Adult Temperament/Enneagram/Instincts Test: https://wendygossett.com/ Website: Wendy Gossett.com Get FREE resources on my website: https://wendygossett.com/ or email me at WendyGossett.com Facebook Podcast Page: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61565445936367 Book: Your Child's Inner Drive:Parenting by Personality from Toddlers to Teens on Amazon or https://wendygossett.com/product/your-childs-inner-drive-parenting-by-personality-for-toddlers-to-teens/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaaOCjoDyOk4_gS1KCncLvQ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wendy.gossett/?next=%2F Linked In: www.linkedin.com/in/wendygossett Wendy Gossett helps parents understand their children by using temperament psychology and neuroscience. She has over 10,000 hours of experience in education, both in the classroom and corporate sector. Even though she holds a Master's degree in education, she struggled to understand her neurodivergent and oppositional kids. Inspired by her experience using Myers Briggs and the Enneagram with business teams, she spent over a decade researching temperament pattens to help family teams. She is a best-selling author and host of the Not So Normal Parenting podcast. Her podcast is entitled Not So Normal Parenting because not only are she and her kids neurodivergent but some of her life experiences, such as driving off a cliff her wedding night and going viral for embarrassing her seventeen-year old son by dancing on a snowy and jammed interstate, fall into that category. In addition to being talked about by Hoda Kotb, the BackStreet Boys, and Princess Kate, even U2 singer Bono mentioned the incident in his autobiography. Because Wendy herself has struggled as a helicopter parent, a cranky parent and an embarrassing parent, she wants to help other parents struggle……..a little bit less!
听前提醒：本期含有一定量的阴阴的~情~绪，因为在聊人生中我们不得不面对的一些“阴暗面”。这些阴暗面不在我们的社交中经常被提及，但是我们却每个人都能感受到，一些隐隐的，不舒服的人、物、事，总会让我们非常不舒服。该如何克服这些不舒服？如何克服被别人羡慕、嫉妒，甚至背叛？如何真的变成强大，自信，不在乎他人的看法？今天和大家聊聊我一直很想聊的这本书“被讨厌的勇气”。一直都很期待录，因为觉得每个女孩子成长路上不在乎“被人讨厌”的勇气真的太重要了！我会聊聊我的成长路上的一些体会，一些观点，以及聊聊我对“被讨厌既是获得自由”该怎么理解。拥抱你。不要怕。我真的希望你们听完会觉得有帮助。本期主要涵盖观点:·复盘做博主路上受到的恶评：道德审判、身材攻击和侮辱，我如何克服“被人讨厌”·任何观点在任何语境下都是正确的，学着接纳也是一种成长的方式。·经常表达负面观点的人，其实不认可他自己。·贬低他人，是脆弱的人的心理防御机制。·阿德勒心理学里面所讲的平等关系和纵向关系之间的区别： 建立“共同体”究竟是什么意思？·接受观点不代表放弃自由意志。本期精彩唠点03:30 我做播客的初衷07:26被讨厌的勇气究竟在讲什么？不仅仅获得身体的自由，更是心灵的自由。12:24 复盘做博主路上受到的恶评：道德审判、身材攻击和侮辱15:40 吵架都是相互的，矛盾和冲突不代表正误，仅代表两个人都在坚持各执己见15:50 他人的不喜欢，仅仅代表不认可你的说话方式，不要上升到私人层面。另外感受是流动的，喜欢不代表喜欢，讨厌也不代表讨厌。16:30 想要成为真正强大的人，从接受当面的指责开始。18:50 讨厌别人是很正常的事情，像我们也会讨厌他人一样。每个人都有双标的一面。24:10 其实我们不需要每个人都喜欢我们。26:30 一起思考：如果要被讨厌，你更希望别人背后吐槽你还是当面告诉你？27:39 只有跳出受害者框架，才会收获真正的自由和开心33:30 说出讨厌你的人，不是要伤害你。不要认真揣度“恶意”，只会造成更大的伤害。35:10 经常表达负面观点的人，其实不认可他自己。36:20 贬低他人，是脆弱的人的心理防御机制。请从攻击中走出来。38:55 任何观点在任何语境下都是正确的，学着接纳也是一种成长的方式44:50 复盘和P哥的恋爱，前期我们花了大部分时间在吵架/辩论。（ENFP vs ISTJ)44:00 观点的碰撞，不代表不能成为夫妻、同事、朋友。46:20 阿德勒心理学里面所讲的平等关系和纵向关系之间的区别。“跳脱小的集体感，思考更大的共同体。”51:50 接受观点，并不代表你需要放弃自己的自由意志。54:44 感到平等即是横向关系。58:05 打开人际关系的密码从来都不是回避冲突。谢谢大家收听，最后希望我们一起成长。一起变得更强，更自信，更喜欢自己！————本期提及书籍：《被讨厌的勇气》 - 购买途径：9(XwyE314Tadp):// MF3135提及概念: "建立社会共同体”、“客体分离”。Rainie是谁？�Rainie，身处加拿大多伦多，刚刚进入30岁的全职自媒体人，是百万粉丝美妆博主，也是滑雪教练+马拉松爱好者。已婚未育，经营一段11年的爱情。希望借助播客这个平台，和大家共同探讨个人成长、婚姻关系、人际关系的话题；探索女性30+的人生如何"既要、又要、还要" ，订阅一下Rainie，给她一点支持吧️→哪儿还可以找到她？ (虽然她大部分时刻都不在）Youtube: Rainie Tian微博/b站/小红书：Rainie田Thread/Instagram: Raintianie商务合作: contact@rainietian.ca 注明来意听友群1️ 请加微信：rainietian 注明“播客听友”。目前已建群1。大家在群内互相唠嗑/陪伴/聊天。不友善和发广告会被我踢群，退群的也会被我删好友。谢谢支持！大家有什么还想听我唠的主题欢迎留言哦，爱你们~
In this powerful second installment, Victoria peels back more layers of the Myers Briggs personality framework. This episode takes us to the next level with Myers Briggs. With humour, heart, and honesty, Victoria and Heather also reveal their own results (spoiler alert: one of them is among the rarest types in the world) and explore how their personality insights influence how they show up in work and life. Whether you're a coach, a team leader, or someone seeking more self-awareness, this episode offers both relatable stories and practical frameworks.Timestamps00:00 – How are we feeling?03:00 – DISC personalities as fictional TV moms05:00 – Myers Briggs recap: what the 4-letter codes mean06:30 – Breakdown of the 4 MBTI groups: Analysts, Diplomats, Sentinels, Explorers07:10 – Deep dive into “Commanders” (ENTJ): bold leaders, Gordon Ramsay energy08:30 – Deep dive into “Advocates” (INFJ): rare visionaries, empathetic justice-seekers10:00 – Deep dive into “Logisticians” (ISTJ): structured, dependable, Hermione types11:50 – Deep dive into “Entrepreneurs” (ESTP): rule-breakers, action-takers13:00 – Heather and Victoria reveal their own types: ISTJ and INFJ16:30 – How personality shows up in stress, reliability, and empathy20:00 – Emotional insight: balancing structure with compassion22:00 – How knowing your type helps with leadership, boundaries, and burnout23:00 – Free resource: Find your type at 16personalities.com24:00 – Closing thoughts + how to work with VictoriaNotable Quotes"I don't consider myself great at anything, but I do consider myself reliable, trustworthy, and dependable." – Heather"Sometimes I feel like you're hard on yourself… but your unwavering commitment is your superpower." – Victoria"If I see a situation where someone is unfairly judged, it really wears on me. That sense of justice is wired in me." – Victoria"We're growing as people." – Both hosts, in unison ❤️Resources & TakeawaysTake the Test: 16Personalities.com – Discover your Myers-Briggs typeReflection Prompt: What part of your personality shows up strongest under stress?If you're interested in learning more about team building, coaching, strategic hiring and onboarding, let's connect!discoverwhatworks@gmail.comhttps://pod.link/1614071253https://discoverwhatworks.org/https://www.facebook.com/VictoriaDISChttps://www.instagram.com/discoverwhatworks/https://www.linkedin.com/in/discoverwhatworks
In this episode of the Personality Hacker podcast, Joel and Antonia talk about the personality fixations that impact INFJ, INTJ, ISFJ, and ISTJ relationships. https://personalityhacker.com
In this episode, I sit down with Amanda Luxon. Amanda is a former teacher, Myers-Briggs coach, lifelong learner – and yes, the ‘First Lady’ of New Zealand. Our conversation isn’t about politics (though it inevitably comes up), but about difference, understanding, and friendship – because even though in many ways we’re chalk and cheese, we’ve been friends for years. We first connected over our shared passion for fighting human trafficking, but on a long summer walk earlier this year, we found language for just how differently we see the world – and how fascinating and enriching that can be. Amanda shares her deep love of the Myers-Briggs personality typing framework, which has helped her understand her own strengths as an ISTJ, and helped her see me, an ENFP, with more clarity and appreciation. There’s humour, honesty, and a whole lot of heart in this kōrero as we explore how personality differences play out in parenting, partnership, and even public life – and how making space for our differences can bring us closer. Song credit: Korimako, Performed by Aro, Written by Emily Looker and Charles Looker and published by Songbroker.Support the show: https://greyareas.nz/support
Are you looking for a steady, dependable friend who always remembers birthdays, follows through on commitments, and shows up when it counts? Then you need an SJ friend! In this episode, we explore the Guardian temperament (SJ types: ESFJ, ISFJ, ESTJ, ISTJ)—the friends who hold everything together with their structure, loyalty, and strong sense of responsibility. But just like every type, SJs have friendship strengths and struggles. While they're incredibly reliable and thoughtful, they can also be overly rigid, controlling, or struggle with emotional connection and encouragement. Join me as we break down the SJ friend using the TRUE friendship framework: ✅ True – Their unmatched loyalty and dependability—but also their struggles with control and holding grudges. ✅ Respect – How SJs show up for others but sometimes struggle with boundaries or taking on too much responsibility. ✅ Understanding – The difference between emotionally attuned SFJs and logical, solution-focused STJs (and how that impacts listening and empathy). ✅ Encouragement – Why SJs show support through actions rather than words—and why SFJs may need reassurance but struggle to ask for it. Whether you're an SJ, have an SJ friend, or just want to deepen your understanding of different friendship dynamics, this episode is packed with insights, humor, and practical takeaways. Tune in now! Set up a FREE Chat: https://wendygossett.as.me/ChatwithWendy Take my FREE child temperament test: https://wendygossett.com/child-inner-drive-assessment-product/ Request a FREE Adult Temperament/Enneagram/Instincts Test: https://wendygossett.com/ Website: Wendy Gossett.com Get FREE resources on my website: https://wendygossett.com/ or email me at WendyGossett.com Facebook Podcast Page: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61565445936367 Book: Your Child's Inner Drive:Parenting by Personality from Toddlers to Teens on Amazon or https://wendygossett.com/product/your-childs-inner-drive-parenting-by-personality-for-toddlers-to-teens/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaaOCjoDyOk4_gS1KCncLvQ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wendy.gossett/?next=%2F Linked In: www.linkedin.com/in/wendygossett Wendy Gossett helps parents understand their children by using temperament psychology and neuroscience. She has over 10,000 hours of experience in education, both in the classroom and corporate sector. Even though she holds a Master's degree in education, she struggled to understand her neurodivergent and oppositional kids. Inspired by her experience using Myers Briggs and the Enneagram with business teams, she spent over a decade researching temperament pattens to help family teams. She is a best-selling author and host of the Not So Normal Parenting podcast. Her podcast is entitled Not So Normal Parenting because not only are she and her kids neurodivergent but some of her life experiences, such as driving off a cliff her wedding night and going viral for embarrassing her seventeen-year old son by dancing on a snowy and jammed interstate, fall into that category. In addition to being talked about by Hoda Kotb, the BackStreet Boys, and Princess Kate, even U2 singer Bono mentioned the incident in his autobiography. Because Wendy herself has struggled as a helicopter parent, a cranky parent and an embarrassing parent, she wants to help other parents struggle……..a little bit less!
After a long delay in production … Brian hosts Scott Fischbuch, a Jungian Typology expert, for an in-depth conversation on personality types and his methods. Scott explains his approach to personality typing, which involves analyzing preferences in conversation, turns of phrase, and behavioral mannerisms. Brian shares his journey into podcasting and reflects on how his personality type has evolved. Scott identifies Brian's personality type as ISTJ and explains the significance of introverted sensing and extraverted intuition. They discuss the impact of cultural influences on personality and the importance of effort and team dynamics in professional and personal settings. The episode touches on the nuances of effective communication and the role of empathy and sympathy in understanding others. Scott's site: ToolsWithScott.com Brian O'Leary – BrianDOLeary.com @BrianDOLeary on
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Dr. Dario Nardi talks about the 4 brain-based subtypes of the ISTJ personality type. ☆Check out what I'm up to!☆ Hi there! I'm Joyce, a certified MBTI® Master Practitioner, Enneagram Coach, Jungian Typology Expert, Master NLP Practitioner, and Gallup® CliftonStrengths Coach. WONDERING WHICH ONE OF THE 16 PERSONALITY TYPES YOU ARE? Book a session to get my take on your type. I'd love to help guide you on your type-discovery journey! Here is my scheduling link to arrange a time with me: https://calendly.com/joycemengcoaching I charge $85 for a typing session. Another colleague of mine certified by Personality Hacker will work alongside me and we will give you our independent assessments of you. Want to go deeper? For $97, you can purchase a typing session with 1 hour of additional coaching with me. Or maybe you know your personality type already and are seeking some type-based coaching? As a trained coach, I can help you apply type concepts to all areas of your life for lasting change. The coaching session rate is $75 per hour for a bundle of 3. :) By purchasing a session, you will help support the Type Talks channel and gain personalized mentorship and guidance from an experienced industry expert with over 12 years of experience. If you'd like to get in touch, you can email me at joycemeng22@gmail.com For those of you who are interested, I am also launching a website and releasing a typology book next year! Here's a link to my coaching website if you'd like to learn more about me and the services I offer: https://www.joycemengcoaching.com/ Connect with me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoyceMeng22 Like the show? Buy me a coffee! (it means the world to me): https://ko-fi.com/joycemeng Show your support by becoming a monthly patron! https://ko-fi.com/joycemeng/tiers Want to know when the next Type Talks video is premiering? Join our Discord community for the latest updates! (Inactive now, looking for moderators) https://discord.gg/ksHb7fmMcm ☆Check out Dario Nardi!☆ Decode Your Personality: Go Beyond Myers-Briggs With 64 Brain-Based Subtypes: https://www.amazon.ca/Decode-Your-Personality-Myers-Briggs-Brain-Based/dp/B0CMJ5W5DX/ref=sr_1_1?crid=28Z0X3NUWUI0C&keywords=go+beyond+dario&qid=1704488749&sprefix=go+beyond+dario%2Caps%2C90&sr=8-1 Radiance House: https://radiancehouse.sellfy.store/ ☆Check out the videos that were mentioned!☆ Dario on Analytic & Holistic Functions (Yin and Yang): https://youtu.be/Vv6Xv1pxKW0 Linda Berens Playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL-945qwbNZwABwmsEYxEgItIynPPTtCml Dario Nardi 4 Subtypes (Dominant Creative Normalizing Harmonizing) Interview: https://youtu.be/qOSUE_Ga9xU #ISTJ #INTJ #16Types #DarioNardi #neuroscience #16personalities #MBTI
Hi呀 小宇宙的朋友 抱歉这个月因为一直做直播 太忙了 所以来晚了！今天更新一期2月和P哥在车里录好的车内聊天吧~这是第一次和P哥一起录，我俩还比较青涩（本人在初期试着尝试采访嘉宾ing， 希望能越来越好吧！） 希望大家多多包容！我们聊了聊焦虑、同辈竞争，和比较心。P哥分享了一下自己是如何应对焦虑的，作为一位34岁的ISTJ男士的心态。我其实觉得有很多可以借鉴的地方。也希望对大家有帮助！【本期精彩唠点】05:00 - 开头请感受下e人逼迫i人的尴尬！06:00 - 简单介绍下P哥的爱好和过往经历~06:55 -为什么P哥不更新了？（他有个油管账户！09:55 - 在兴奋时进入工作的”心流“状态12:00 - 在工作中感到欲求不得怎么办…12:50 聊聊学生时期 & 工作期间不同的迷茫14:15 Peer Pressure: 同辈竞争，觉得同学的玩具总比我的好？19:00 P哥观点：似乎标准化可以去除比较心。22:00 21名记恨20名： 感觉对方比我好，是无法抑制的情绪25:40 每个人其实都差不多，不要对自己失望26:30 尽量减少个体差异带来的失望27: 40 不要拿自己的一个面与别人的很多面相比，需要知道自己有很多面29:25 接受一切自己的特质31:40 Rainie: 分清羡慕和嫉妒，是不一样的情绪。36:00 Rainie坦白自己的嫉妒，P哥：每个人都好看。36:50 嫉妒心不会伤害他人，但一定会吞噬自己！41:40 说出嫉妒，可能会让自己好很多43:30 相信自己，能做成想做的事情 （找回自信）45:30 达到比迟到好。52:00 回到爱好，找回自我这是第一次和P一起录，如果大家觉得我俩唠的还不错的话欢迎多多给我们留言，我们争取以后多给大家录~~~感谢大家收听！下回再见啦~�————这是一期成长型播客，愿我们共同成长！Rainie是谁？�Rainie，身处加拿大多伦多，刚刚进入30岁的全职自媒体人。已婚未育，经营一段11年的爱情。希望借助播客这个平台，和大家共同探讨个人成长、婚姻关系、人际关系的话题；探索女性30+的人生如何"既要、又要、还要" ，订阅一下Rainie，给她一点支持吧️→哪儿还可以找到她？ (虽然她大部分时刻都不在）Youtube: Rainie Tian微博/b站/小红书：Rainie田Thread/Instagram: Raintianie商务合作: contact@rainietian.ca 注明来意听友群️ 请加我私人微信：rainietian 注明“播客听友”我平时比较忙 不能经常回私信 想聊天的不要加我！目前已建立群1。大家在群内互相唠嗑/陪伴/聊天。不友善和发广告会被我踢群，自己主动退群的也会被我删好友。谢谢支持！大家有什么还想听我唠的主题欢迎留言哦，爱你们~
大家好呀~ 本人又来更新啦！最近一直在忙直播的事儿，差点没赶上本周的更新� 好在熬夜剪完了~ yeah~祝大家清明节假期快乐，希望大家平安、清心。今天这一期是第一次和大家更新两件我生活中的大事儿：准备跑马拉松了+ 决定进军直播界了！yesss！最近可真是生活太忙了，每天选品、试样、开会、拍摄、剪辑，写文案，运营社交平台.... 我还能写出100件！但是说实话，好像挺为自己最近的状态感到高兴的。因为每天跑步，感觉精力也明显提升了。所以其实做很多事儿都觉得很有力量，并不觉得累！今天就是跟大家聊聊近期的这两个“大事儿” 和 几段之前征集到的听友来信�①有一位听友和我倾诉了自己考公面试失利的挫折，感到很迷茫，不知道何去何从....②一位听友咨询我，作为ISTJ的她，总觉得自己十分冷漠，不知道如何变成一个柔和/有爱一些的人...③一位听友提问，如何能大方自信的讲英语，如何在新环境交到朋友？我根据自己的人生经验，浅聊了几句。不敢保证都对（毕竟每个人的人生都是自己的，我仅能代表自己~） 但还是希望能为他们排忧解难，若对收音机对面的你们也能有些启发~ �我就很满足了！ps. 在此还是谢谢愿意给我们投稿的听友啊，谢谢你们愿意公开你们的“小迷茫”、“小烦恼”，也谢谢你们对本聊天室的信任️【本期精彩唠点】03:30 人应该多多自满！感到骄傲是维护自尊的行为。04:10 自从学会了给自己洗脑之后，我学会了“自我赋能”，哈哈05:55 宣布两个人生新的大变化：准备跑马+ 决定进军直播界了！08:00 为啥要直播？我的思考和时间管理。09:00 直播行业中学习到的一些见闻和领悟。13:50 接触新事物越多，越感觉到自己的愚蠢！15:00 直播背后是咋样的？我被飞速运转的直播间惊呆了！24:40 一段儿听友来信: 考公面试排末位了，好迷茫，怎么办？30:00 我们要学会把事实和想法分开来。31:00 接受自己的纠结和迷茫，没有人拥有绝对理智。35:30 拿掉思想包袱和大山！不要自己创造压力。36:30 大目标拆解成小目标，一切变清晰。39:00 管理大脑，不增加思想“垃圾”40:00 85分的你不见得比80分的你更高兴。42:00 阿德勒心理学，强调“目的论” 而不是“原因论”44:00 本身认为自己不够好，才会一直强调自己”失败“47:30 第二段来信：来自intj的困惑，如何变得不冷漠呢？53:00 学会给自己上好标签儿，不强调自己不喜欢的标签！57:30 TJ人如何处理好人际关系？答：人际关系不是问题，不需要解决！1:00:20 这个世界上没有绝对的正确。1:06:00 最近交了好多新朋友，我是如何做到的？1:09:00 别抱着“交友”的目的去交友，一切就会自然而然啦！很感谢大家的收听！下回再见哦️（kissss x 10000)————这是一期成长型播客，愿我们共同成长！Rainie是谁？�Rainie，身处加拿大多伦多，刚刚进入30岁的全职自媒体人。已婚未育，经营一段11年的爱情。希望借助播客这个平台，和大家共同探讨个人成长、婚姻关系、人际关系的话题；探索女性30+的人生如何"既要、又要、还要" ，订阅一下Rainie，给她一点支持吧️→哪儿还可以找到她？ (虽然她大部分时刻都不在）Youtube: Rainie Tian微博/b站/小红书：Rainie田Thread/Instagram: Raintianie商务合作: contact@rainietian.ca 注明来意听友群️ 请加我私人微信：rainietian 注明“播客听友”目前已建立群1。大家在群内互相唠嗑/陪伴/聊天。不友善和发广告会被我踢群。谢谢支持！大家有什么还想听我唠的主题欢迎留言哦，爱你们~
Greg Hudnall - Hope Squad: Working to Spread Hope and Prevent Suicide. This is episode 706 of Teaching Learning Leading K12, an audio podcast. Greg Hudnall is the current Chief Executive Officer of Hope Squad, Inc. He has a dual Bachelor of Science in Applied Statistics and a Bachelor of Arts in Spanish from BYU. He received his MBA from Indiana University and now currently resides in Cincinnati, OH. He spent a decade in corporate America at The Kroger Co. and Johnson & Johnson in process improvement, marketing, and sales roles. Greg firmly believes that good personal mental health habits, active listening, and reaching out to trusted peers have the ability to save lives. His personality type is ISTJ or logistician. His 5 StrengthsFinder results are Deliberative, Input, Restorative, Learner, and Discipline. When he's not at work he enjoys hiking, exercise, and reading. Fun facts: he's climbed 14 of Colorado's 58 fourteeners. He's been to 5 continents and lived in 4 different countries. His next bucket list item is Mount Kilimanjaro. Our focus is Hope Squad. Awesome program! Great talk! Before you go... You could help support this podcast by Buying Me A Coffee. Not really buying me something to drink but clicking on the link on my home page at https://stevenmiletto.com for Buy Me a Coffee or by going to this link Buy Me a Coffee. This would allow you to donate to help the show address the costs associated with producing the podcast from upgrading gear to the fees associated with producing the show. That would be cool. Thanks for thinking about it. Hey, I've got another favor...could you share the podcast with one of your friends, colleagues, and family members? Hmmm? What do you think? Thank you! You are AWESOME! Thanks so much! Connect & Learn More: https://hopesquad.com/ https://twitter.com/HopeSquads https://instagram.com/hopesquad https://www.facebook.com/339861456463343 https://www.linkedin.com/in/greghudnall/ https://tiktok.com/@hopesquad gregjr@hopesquad.com Length - 31:46
Carol Shumate and I discuss the ESFP/ESTP relationship dynamic with ISTJ. ☆Check out what I'm up to!☆ Hi there! I'm Joyce, a certified MBTI® Master Practitioner, Enneagram Coach, Jungian Typology Expert, Master NLP Practitioner, and Gallup® CliftonStrengths Coach. WONDERING WHICH ONE OF THE 16 PERSONALITY TYPES YOU ARE? Book a session to get my take on your type. I'd love to help guide you on your type-discovery journey! Here is my scheduling link to arrange a time with me: https://calendly.com/joycemengcoaching I charge $85 for a typing session. Another colleague of mine certified by Personality Hacker will work alongside me and we will give you our independent assessments of you. Want to go deeper? For $97, you can purchase a typing session with 1 hour of additional coaching with me. Or maybe you know your personality type already and are seeking some type-based coaching? As a trained coach, I can help you apply type concepts to all areas of your life for lasting change. The coaching session rate is $75 per hour for a bundle of 3. :) By purchasing a session, you will help support the Type Talks channel and gain personalized mentorship and guidance from an experienced industry expert with over 12 years of experience. If you'd like to get in touch, you can email me at joycemeng22@gmail.com For those of you who are interested, I am also launching a website and releasing a typology book next year! Here's a link to my coaching website if you'd like to learn more about me and the services I offer: https://www.joycemengcoaching.com/ Connect with me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoyceMeng22 Like the show? Buy me a coffee! (it means the world to me): https://ko-fi.com/joycemeng Show your support by becoming a monthly patron! https://ko-fi.com/joycemeng/tiers Want to know when the next Type Talks video is premiering? Join our Discord community for the latest updates! (Inactive now, looking for moderators) https://discord.gg/ksHb7fmMcm ☆Check out Carol Shumate!☆ https://www.amazon.com/Projection-Personality-Development-Eight-Function-Model/dp/0367341387 #ENFP #16Types #Carolshumate #16personalities #MBTI
Decades ago, I went to a college retreat where everyone was talking about a personality test. “I’m an ISTJ!” one said. “I’m an ENFP,” another chirped. I was mystified. “I’m an ABCXYZ,” I joked. Since then, I’ve learned a lot about that test (the Myers-Briggs) and others such as the DiSC. I find them fascinating, because they can help us understand ourselves and others in helpful, revealing ways—shedding light on our preferences, strengths, and weaknesses. Provided we don’t overuse them, they can be a useful tool God uses to help us grow. Scripture doesn’t offer us personality tests. But it does affirm each person’s uniqueness in God’s eyes (see Psalm 139:14-16; Jeremiah 1:5), and it shows us how God equips all of us with a unique personality and unique gifts to serve others in His kingdom. In Romans 12:6, Paul unpacks this idea, writing, “We have different gifts, according to the grace given each of us.” Those gifts, Paul explains, are not for us alone, but for the purpose of serving God’s people, Christ’s body (v. 5). They’re an expression of His grace and goodness, working in and through all of us. They invite each of us to be a unique vessel in God’s service.
Since this entire podcast is based on the Myers-Briggs system as well as the Enneagram, I highly recommend you listen to episode 2 and 3 at some point. For a quick review the Ox is a stable rule follower… think Ox living in a stable, the Lion is brave and craves freedom, the Eagle is independent, curious and proud, and the Human is emotional and relational. Lions and Eagles are challengers and difficult to parent! You will also hear me referring to “Types 1-9” and this comes from Episode 3 which is an introduction to an amazing system for growing human potential called the Enneagram. Today's episode applies to every human being on the planet! The perceiving and judging functions J and P in the Myers-Briggs system, determine how we live our lives. The P types are driving a convertible through life with the wind in their hair an no particular destination in mind. The J types are driving a sedan on a highway with a GPS. They are more serious, intentional, and structured. But what happens when you mix the two up and put them all under one roof? Opposites attract so there is a chance you could be a J married to a P. I will give a quick test in this episode so you can get an idea which one you are. We live in a J society but the Ps in our life make things fun. I was doing a seminar and one of the Lion dads was cracking a joke, and I made the mistake of saying your Pness is showing. I will never live that one down and will never do that again! Stay tuned to the end for five amazing tips for working with your P child. Perceiving and Judging, P or J, Free Spirit or Rule Follower Judgers live their lives by following the rules, checking things off the box, making lists, and sticking to time frames. Perceivers live their lives much more spontaneously, forging their own path and leaving their options open. The P or Perceiving and J or Judging preferences are most likely impacting your household in the biggest way since these preferences determine how we live our life on a day-to-day, minute-to-minute basis. Perceivers crave freedom and a top-down, wind-in-your-hair, convertible way of living life. Judgers crave structure and a more top-up, neatly coiffed, sedan existence. A true Perceiver is driving a convertible, without a GPS, on an off-the-beaten path, curvy road. A true Judger is in a sedan with a GPS on a straight, well-traveled highway. Many people bristle at the term Judger because people automatically associate it with being judgmental. However, Judging functions help us make decisions and limit our possibilities. Everyone has two Judging functions and two Perceiving functions that make up their personality. If there were no Judging functions, we would all be sitting around like useless blobs, unable to decide when to eat, sleep, or do anything else. Since all children tend to be somewhat free-spirited, these preferences can be harder to detect when they are younger. Perceivers hate being inhibited with too many boundaries, so it is possible that you will notice an extreme reaction when you stand in the way of their freedom. They prefer the unconventional way of doing things and tend to have difficulty finishing what they started. They also frequently struggle to be on time, follow directions, or stick to a plan. Judging children like to learn the “right way” to do something and are willing to follow conventional parenting styles. They like finishing what they start and knowing what to expect. It might sound like a Judging child is every parent's dream. For the most part, they are a bit easier to understand, but I get plenty of calls about Judging types that are too controlling. I worked with an amazing adoptive mom of four kids. I want to give a shout out to all my adoptive parents because you are some of the most amazing parents on the planet! Please share this podcast if you are friends with an adoptive parent. Sometimes these parents don't get to know these children as babies. It is the same way with the step parents I work with. This mom told me she had a voice inside her head that was always wondering if her kids were happy in their new home. One of her daughters, in particular, seemed quiet and reserved. No matter what this mom did to connect with this daughter, it didn't seem to register. She thought this daughter may have had some kind of attachment issue. Once we worked together, she realized that they were brain opposites. This mother's natural way of parenting was to be energetic, positive, full of surprises and spontaneity. She is an ENFP, extroverted feeling Human, a type seven, on the Enneagram. Her daughter was a reserved, structured and serious ISTJ introverted sensing thinking Ox type. We laughed as I suggested the mom do something completely counterintuitive. She should offer to do a puzzle with her daughter. This mom had never done a puzzle in her life! The daughter absolutely loved it! She loved just hanging out side-by-side with no pressure to talk, while doing a quiet activity. This mom, April Fallon, who is now host of the ADOPTION NOW podcast shared this quote with me. “Roadmap is what I say to people when I tell them about you. You gave us the map for our family and how we all function together. From the moment we met with you our whole lives changed. Learning who is an introvert and extrovert and helping my husband understand my son has transformed their relationship. His understanding of me changed too and now he is nicer to me too! The realization that one of my daughters is exactly the same as him was an eye-opener. I learned how to love them better and help them feel understood. I call them the koala bears. They love to achieve but only because they want the people they love close to them. They are the snuggly people. Three of us are team creative, however one of us is introverted and needs time away in her room. We designed her room to have a happy place that she has learned to adore. And finally, my Type 9 peacemaker, reserved daughter (the one I do puzzles with) notices everything and takes it in. Recently we found out she has auditory processing disorder and that was because we could pull apart what was personality versus what was a real issue. Once we found out, we could support her in the way she needs. She loves one on one time, verbal praise, and outdoor activities like hiking. I never ever ever wonder how or if she loves us or is happy anymore. I know her love runs deep and giving her a space to show it in her own way has been so healing.” If you would like to get the road map for understanding your family and having more peace in your home, go to WendyGossett.com and sign up for my Understanding Your Family 101 Session. You can also purchase my book on Amazon. Your Childs Inner Drive Parenting by Personality from Toddlers to Teens. I worked with a mom, who is the only J or structured one in a family of P freedom seekers. She has often felt like she was paddling upstream, forcing her will upon everyone. She would schedule practice hours for her boys to do sports and keep close tabs on them. All her expectations weren't adding up. Everyone in her family needed freedom, which was the opposite of her parenting style. I had to ask her what was more important; the correction or the connection. I've had to ask this question to many parents when they are fighting battles over a clean room or how to load the dishwasher. Ask yourself what is more important; correction or connection? Over and over again, I have seen a huge change occur when the parents shift their focus to connection rather than correction. Her boys are both lion P types that had to learn from life and find their own way. It was difficult for her, an extroverted, thinking Ox, type one on the Enneagram, but she realized she had to let them fail. And failure is not as scary as you may think. Some people learn from failing. Whenever a baby is learning to walk, they have to fall over and over again. Pushing themselves up off the floor helps them get stronger. The most successful business people actually try to fail. They make a goal to fail five times in a month because failing means they are trying new things which leads to confidence and success. And it just so happens that P types who explore and try possibilities without thinking of the consequences are some of the most successful entrepreneurs in the world. I'm getting these statistics from Myers Briggs. Sometimes Lion P types don't enjoy school. What comes naturally to them is being free to use their body in physical, practical pursuits. They like to learn from the school of hard knocks. Some J types use perfectionism as an excuse to not try. Often I have seen perfectionism as a mask for fear. so if you are a structured J parent pulling your hair out because your P child is not falling into line, chances are if you make connection your priority, they may not fall in line but they will land on their feet. The T Thinking or Prickly and F Feeling or pleasing preferences I talk about in episode 6, play a significant role in how our child Judges or Perceives. If your child is a Thinker and a Judger or TJ, they will be very determined, rigid, and unyielding, which can make them very difficult to parent! If your child is a Feeler and a Perceiver or FP, pleasing you will be ALMOST as important to them as having the freedom to do things their way. They may still have meltdowns that seem to materialize out of nowhere, but for the most part, they are relaxed, go-with-the-flow children. If your child is a Thinker and a Perceiver or TP, get ready for a topsy-turvy time! One minute, they might be playful and relaxed, and the next minute, determined and unyielding. If your child is a Feeler and a Judger or FJ, sit back, make yourself a cup of tea, and relax. This child wants to please, desires structure, and thrives with conventional parenting. Parents with Feeling/Judging children as their firstborn often end up with a false sense of pride in their parenting ability. They can unintentionally make other parents feel inferior, causing them to question their parenting capabilities. Sadly, I was one of those parents. I painted my entire kitchen while my twelve-month-old son was perfectly content simply being in the same room with me, playing in his bouncy chair. My husband, Greg, and I were completely humbled when our Thinking/Perceiving daughter was born. We soon realized why bookstores are filled with so many parenting books! She was, and still is, an uncontained free spirit who plays by her own rules. If you are a Judging parent with a Perceiving child, take heart. Since we live in a Judging society that runs by rules, time frames, and deadlines, Perceivers tend to look more like Judgers as they mature and are “nurtured” by parents, teachers, and societal norms. In fact, this is one of the most common testing mistypes. Mature Perceivers who have learned to play efficiently by societal rules think they are Judgers. I was collaborating with a talented young programmer who had taken my test. Prior to our first meeting, I received his test result, which identified him as one of the most cautious and conservative J types. The minute I met him, I noticed he had an entire sleeve of brightly colored tattoos. Later, he informed me that the tattoos were the entire story of Dante's Inferno, and he was going to have the other arm done in black and white. I was pretty sure he had mis-tested himself. I don't want to fall into stereotyping, but I have seen thousands of patterns that usually fall into predictable outcomes. I am sure there are rare exceptions of extreme conservative J types with two complete tattoo sleeves, but there aren't many! Not only that, but a person's occupation also gives a great indication of their type. This programmer was very out of the box and creative, which are all traits of another type that has all the same letters, except for that oh-so-critical, free-spirited P. An ISTP and an ISTJ are very different, indeed! Email me at wendy@wendygossett.com to receive a an illustrated chart that shows these patterns. You will also find the quick test to determine who is J or P in your family. You will either be a P for Perceiving or a J for Judging. Keep in mind that 50ish% of the world are Perceivers and 50ish% are Judgers, although as adults, many Perceivers mis-test as Judgers since they have learned how to fit in with a Judging society. [1] Perceiver Judger freedom structure spontaneous planned flexible procedures solid procedures change routine out of the box within the lines experience it control it relaxed hurried start it finish it P J If you found it hard to pick one and felt tied on both you are most likely an introvert. I use the analogy of Js being sedans and Ps being convertibles, but introverts are hybrids, meaning they are a little bit of both. If they are a J type, it means they are driving a sedan or in other words they like structure in the way they live their life, but their brain is Open and less decisive, just perceiving the world and taking it in. It's like they are driving a sedan on a road with no map. If you are an introverted P type. It's like you are driving a convertible but your brain is on a highway with a GPS. This type is concerned about their identity and can be stubborn when they set their mind to something. I worked with two introverted sensing Ox parents. They were about as structured and by the book as you could get. They had an introverted feeling Lion son, since he was a feeler Lion, he was very relational, compliant and easy-going throughout elementary school and junior high. When he got to high school, however he went off the rails. He had been following his parents rules his entire life, and because he was so relaxed it worked for him, but when he got to high school and could see his adult life looming before him, he realized he had to discover who he was. He had to discover what he stood for. His relaxed, convertible way of living, switched over to his decisive identity seeking brain. He went on a vision quest up in the mountains to become a ski instructor rather than going straight to college like his parents had always planned. Again, these parents had to decide what was more important. Their connection with their son or their expectations. Here is an opposite story. An extroverted sensing thinking Lion child hated school. He just wanted to have fun and do sports. By the way, sports are the guard rails that will keep your Lions on track with their grades. They love sports and they love being competitive so this can be the motivation to help them get through school. By the time he was a senior, he still had no direction and had no idea what he wanted to do. His parents had a friend who worked as a sports medicine doctor. They let their son shadow him. Lions learn from watching and doing much more than learning from a textbook or hearing a lecture. His tactile extroverted sensory intelligence combined with his analytical introverted, thinking brain realized he could do exactly what this sports medicine doctor was doing. All of a sudden, he was the most determined Lion you ever saw. He went to school and studied from six in the morning to eight at night and became a surgeon making up for all his playing throughout school. If you have a story to share from your family, I would love to feature it on the podcast! Just email me at WendyGossett.com. Here are some tips for parenting, the P types in your household. 1.Your child is not wired for structured schedules. If they are doing well in school, be grateful because what comes naturally to them is to do their own thing in their own time. Luckily, they are competitive, which might motivate them to work hard in school. When they are home, they want to settle into their comfort zone and have more freedom to play and explore. Whenever you can make things fun or a game. Try making a morning routine playlist with a song for each task on the list. Rehearse the routine to make sure each song is the right length. If they can finish each task by the time the song ends and get down to breakfast, they can get a special treat they picked out. Music also works to make chores more fun. Research has shown that music makes anyone more cooperative. Have a tidy up the house dance party. Quick, in the moment rewards work best for P children. Speaking of fun, board games are more of a J thing. You can make game time more fun by adding an action element or a silly element. Games like Throw Throw Burrito where you get to run around our favorites of P children. 2.As a J Parent who likes plans, plan a time each day to be unplanned. A J parent with a P child needs to plan to be unplanned. All kids need structure, but P children need freedom just as much. 3.Don't lecture! Have clear rules and consequences for serious crimes. The consequence speak for themselves. Ps need freedom so let them negotiate when it is a misdemeanor and not a crime. There's more to this, but that is the quick version. 4.Ps believe there is more than just one way to do things. if you are a perfectionist, you may need to have Elsa‘s anthem playing on repeat in your head. “Let it go”. Tell them the end goal you would like and let them pick the order or timeframe it's completed in. 5.. P Children often have ADHD. My daughter and son were both diagnosed. My daughter is a P and my son is a hybrid introverted J with that P brain…haha he just completed the MCAT but he has a P brain which is on a country road with no map. You can listen to episodes 11 and 12 where I interview both of them to hear more about this. All P types want the quick fix to life's problems because they want to get on with the fun. She wanted us to put her on ADHD medication. We hesitated with this decision for many months, but finally we came up with the idea to put her on a placebo and see if her performance would improve if she thought she was on the medication. We didn't let the teacher know but positive progress reports started coming home. Because my daughter is a sensor and very aware of her body as well as details and her environment she soon figured out the pill was a fake. She begged us to put her on the real medication. Once she was on it, she absolutely hated it because she felt like she was in a box. She couldn't be her normal, silly self and have the freedom in her spirit that she craved as a Lion. Life taught her that hard work was better than a pill. If you have P children in your home, I would also suggest you listen to episode seven and eight which are interviews with extroverted P types. All extroverted P types are driving a convertible through life and they are on a country road with no map! They are 100% perceiver! Lion perceivers are different from Eagle and human perceivers. One is sensory and the other is intuitive and it makes a big difference in the behavior. Check out episode 13 on sensing and intuition. My closing thought for today is from Abraham Lincoln. “In the end it's not the years in your life that count it's the life in your years. P types are playful and help us to enjoy life.” But for my J types out there which I am one and by the way, I am a sedan on a highway with the GPS so I am 100% a J! But because I am intuitive I am a little more P like. I also have a quote keeping the J types in mind. Here is a quote from Pele one of the worlds, most famous soccer players. Success is no accident. It is hard work, perseverance, learning, studying sacrifice, and most of all love of what you do. Email me at Wendy@WendyGossett.com for the other chart I mentioned in the episode. Website: Get FREE resources at Wendygossett.com Get a FREE Child Temperament Test when you join my Not So Normal Parenting Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/notsonormalparenting or on my podcast page. Book: Your Child's Inner Drive:Parenting by Personality from Toddlers to Teens on Amazon or https://wendygossett.com/product/your-childs-inner-drive-parenting-by-personality-for-toddlers-to-teens/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaaOCjoDyOk4_gS1KCncLvQ Instagram is Wendy.Gossett
Nothing stirs the pot in the kitchen like different personalities. Kate dives into the kitchen with an insightful look at how our Myers-Briggs personality types shape our culinary styles. From her own spontaneous and often haphazard adventures in cooking as an ESFP, contrasted with her daughter's similar ESTP approach, to the meticulous ISTJ and innovative ENTJ methods of her friends, Kate explores the joys and mishaps of cooking through the lens of personality. She shares anecdotes that reveal each type's unique approach to recipes, improvisation, and kitchen disasters, ultimately celebrating the diversity of cooking experiences and encouraging a non-judgmental appreciation for everyone's culinary quirks. Listen For: 1:55 Contrasting Cooking Styles: Sensing vs. Intuition 2:47 The Butterless Blunder 06:48 ESTP and ESFP in the Kitchen: A Tale of Spontaneity 17:19 ISTJ in the Kitchen: A Methodical Approach Leave a rating/review for this podcast with one click Contact Kate: Email | Website | Kate's Book on Amazon | LinkedIn | Facebook | XSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
On this episode of the Personality Hacker podcast, Joel and Antonia dive into how ISTJs can use personality know-how to embrace and love who they are. The conversation also touches on what the other 15 personality types can learn from ISTJs about self-love. https://personalityhacker.com
INFJ? ISTJ? What does that all mean? Find out more when you join the PodSquad in a deeper discussion on personalities in this week's episode of Note to Self! __PRESENT
Enneagram type 1 INFJ ENFJ ENTJ ESTJ and ISTJ (Jonathan, Diane, Chuck, Amy and Samuel) have a conversation about all things typology. ☆Check out this study I created correlating MBTI and Enneagram!☆ Fill it out here and help the future of type: https://forms.gle/KggReAxn8jMEXpY37 A Link To My Upcoming Course with Katherine Fauvre, Creator of Tritype, "Personality Matrix: Introduction to Correlation of 16 Personality Types with 27 Tritypes®": https://www.katherinefauvre.com/products/16-personality-types-with-the-27-tritype-archetypes ☆Check out what I'm up to!☆ Hi there! I'm Joyce, a certified MBTI® Master Practitioner, Enneagram Coach, Jungian Typology Expert, Master NLP Practitioner, and Gallup® CliftonStrengths Coach. WONDERING WHICH ONE OF THE 16 PERSONALITY TYPES YOU ARE? Book a session to get my take on your type. I'd love to help guide you on your type-discovery journey! Here is my scheduling link to arrange a time with me: https://calendly.com/joycemengcoaching I charge $85 for a typing session. Another colleague of mine certified by Personality Hacker will work alongside me and we will give you our independent assessments of you. Want to go deeper? For $97, you can purchase a typing session with 1 hour of additional coaching with me. Or maybe you know your personality type already and are seeking some type-based coaching? As a trained coach, I can help you apply type concepts to all areas of your life for lasting change. :) By purchasing a session, you will help support the Type Talks channel and gain personalized mentorship and guidance from an experienced industry expert with over 12 years of experience. If you'd like to get in touch, you can email me at joycemeng22@gmail.com For those of you who are interested, I am also launching a website and releasing a typology book next year! Here's a link to my coaching website if you'd like to learn more about me and the services I offer: https://www.joycemengcoaching.com/ Connect with me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoyceMeng22 Like the show? Buy me a coffee! (it means the world to me): https://ko-fi.com/joycemeng Show your support by becoming a monthly patron! https://ko-fi.com/joycemeng/tiers Want to know when the next Type Talks video is premiering? Join our Discord community for the latest updates! https://discord.gg/ksHb7fmMcm #INFJ #16types #Enneagram #enneagram1 #enneagram2 #enneagram3 #enneagram4 #enneagram5 #enneagram6 #enneagram7 #enneagram8 #enneagram9 #enneagramtypes #mbti
We are back with another installment of Myers Briggs meet astrology! There are 16 Myers Briggs personality types, broken up into four categories, and this episode is all about the Sentinels category. The 4 personality types that make up the Diplomats are ISTJ, ISFJ, ESTJ, and ESFJ. This is the most common personality group! Sentinels are very self-motivated, focused on productivity, and invested in their relationships and hard work. Are you part of the this Myers Briggs personality type? What's your sign? Have a listen and let us know! ........#tsmmdi #thestarsmademedoit #thestarsmademepodcast #smmdi #astrologypodcast #astrologersofig #astrologerofig #patreon #exclusiveepisodes #astroramble #firestorm #patreonpodcast #patreoncreator #podcastshow #podcasting #cosmicpodcast #podcastcommunity #womanrunwomanowned #astrologyreadings #astroologylover #astrologyfacts #myersbriggs #sentinels #ISTJ #ISFJ #ESTJ #ESFJ #myersbriggsastrology --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thestarsmademedoit/support
Hey Everyone! On this week’s episode, we have a really interesting conversation based on a suggestion by listener Michelle Kenyon about the Myers-Briggs personality type system. We first explain the background and purpose of Myers-Briggs for those who are unfamiliar. We had both previously taken the test for ourselves and discovered that: AJ is an INTP, while Tara’s type has changed from ISFJ to INFP. We discuss the characteristics of our respective types and how they relate to our own personalities. Then we take the test for Eve, and based on our answers, we find that Eve’s personality type is ISTJ, also known as the Logistician. ISTJs are practical, fact-minded individuals who value stability and predictability. But what we found most interesting is one of the suggested careers for ISTJs is: Law enforcement! It was a really great conversation and I think you’ll enjoy listening to it!
Who am I? We've all wondered at some point. The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, a personality test based on Carl Jung's psychological types, has offered many an answer. This hour, we delve into the history of the MBTI and contemporary applications of this test and explore its scientific validity. Plus, a look at a dating app that uses the 16 personality types to help people find love. GUESTS: Jessica Alderson: Founder of So Syncd, a 16 personalities-based dating app Alexander Swan: Associate professor of psychology at Eureka College and host of the CinemaPsych podcast Paul Tieger: A prolific author on the MBTI; his books include Do What You Are and Just Your Type This show was produced by Carol Chen. The Colin McEnroe Show is available as a podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, TuneIn, Listen Notes, or wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribe and never miss an episode! Subscribe to The Noseletter, an email compendium of merriment, secrets, and ancient wisdom brought to you by The Colin McEnroe Show. Join the conversation on Facebook and Twitter. Colin McEnroe, Jonathan McNicol, and Catie Talarski contributed to this show, which originally aired August 3, 2023.Support the show: http://www.wnpr.org/donateSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Are you a strategic INTJ, a charismatic ENFP, or the practical ISTJ? This bonus episode of "Leadership" dives deep into the fascinating world of MBTI personality types and their impact on leadership styles. Join us as we explore:Understanding your MBTI profile: Learn how your unique personality traits influence your strengths, challenges, and preferred leadership approach.Harnessing your natural leadership potential: Discover how to leverage your MBTI strengths to inspire, motivate, and build high-performing teams.Bridging the gap between types: Uncover strategies for effective communication and collaboration across diverse personality landscapes.Case studies: Leaders in the wild: We'll analyze real-life examples of successful leaders and their MBTI-driven leadership styles.From self-awareness to impactful action: Gain actionable insights to empower your leadership journey based on your unique personality code.Whether you're a seasoned leader or just starting out, this episode is your key to unlocking your true leadership potential through the lens of MBTI. Subscribe and unlock your inner leader!Support the show
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On this week's episode, I have author, Joshua Fields Millburn of “The Minimalists”. Tune in as we talk about how he left corporate America and why he chose to live “The Minimalists” lifestyle.Show NotesJoshua Fields Millburn Website: https://joshuafieldsmillburn.com/Joshua Fields Millburn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshuafieldsmillburn/Joshua Fields Millburn on IMDB: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm6576362/Michael's Online Screenwriting Course - https://michaeljamin.com/courseFree Screenwriting Lesson - https://michaeljamin.com/freeJoin My Newsletter - https://michaeljamin.com/newsletterAutogenerated TranscriptJoshua Fields Millburn:What happens is, oh, I'm going to leave and I'm just going to be a writer. And I had one boss that I had at the time said, look, if anyone could just quit their job and become a writer, then everyone would do it. And I looked at him and I said, well, I don't think everyone wants to do that first off, but second off, you're acting like I'm the first person in the history of the world who's decided to becomeMichael Jamin:A writer. You're listening to, what the hell is Michael Jamin talking about? I'll tell you what I'm talking about. I'm talking about creativity, I'm talking about writing, and I'm talking about reinventing yourself through the arts.Michael Jamin:Hey everyone, it's Michael Jamin. I got a very special guest today. So today, this guy, I've been a fan of his work for a long time, and I discovered him a couple of years ago. It's Joshua Fields, Millburn, he's half of the minimalist. And these guys did a documentary, I'm going to give 'em a nice proper introduction. They did a documentary that I discovered which, and the message was so important. It's on minimalism and it's basically how you can live with more by having less, how you were richer by having less. And I just found that not only did I find the message so important, but I found their journey that these two guys put them on, put themselves on to be so inspiring. Just to give you a little bit of backstory before I finally let this guy get a word in edgewise, is that, so Joshua grew up, poor parents suffer, struggled with alcoholism. He decided, I'm speaking for him now, but this is what I picked up from the documentary, that he didn't want to be poor when he was an adult. I'm not going through that. So he managed to get jobs in management where he is actually making a good living, he's making money. And then at some point he realized, wait, this is not making me happy. And then he did a complete about face and reinvented himself. So Joshua, thank you so much for joining me. Let's, let's hear you talk now.Joshua Fields Millburn:Oh, Michael, thanks so much for having me. Yeah, it's funny, I did grow up really poor and I thought the reason we were so unhappy when I was growing up is we didn't have money and not knowing that all these other things that were actually chaotic in my life, some of the things you mentioned, alcohol abuse, drug abuse, physical abuse and violence in the home, and extreme poverty was a part of it, right? It was a part of that milieu of discontent. And I just hyper-focused on that one component. So when I turned 18, I went out and I got that entry level corporate job, and I spent the next dozen years sort of climbing the corporate ladder. And by age 30, I had achieved everything I ever wanted, the six figure salary, luxury cars, big house in the suburbs with more toilets than people.I really had all the stuff right? And all the stuff that you would consider to be the American dream, more closets full of designer clothes and all the nicest furniture and the status and the job title. And yet, as you mentioned, it wasn't making me happy. In fact, the closer I got to the pinnacle of success, it seemed to further away from happiness I got, which didn't make a whole lot of sense to me. And then two things happened to me. My mother died, my marriage ended both in the same month. And we talked about those in the last documentary on Netflix. And really those two events forced me to look around and start to question everything in my life, not just the stuff, but the career and the relationships and all of these other types of clutter that I began to uncover.Michael Jamin:But it seems to me though, when you reinvented yourself, and we'll get to that part, you were kind of at bottom. You had, like you said, you lost your marriage, you lost your mom. Is it easier to reinvent? Where do you get the balls to do this? Is it easier to do that when you're at the bottom than as opposed if you were, I don't know, happy enough in life?Joshua Fields Millburn:In a weird way, I think it's simultaneously easier and more difficult. And I'll try to explain that. I think it's easier in the sense that if you've lost a lot of the comfort and the certainty that you have in life, now all of a sudden you are willing to make a change because you're experiencing enough pain that leads to a change. The outverse of that was my successful corporate life. It was never 10 out of 10, awesome. It was constantly between a four and a five on a one to 10 scale. It was just comfortable enough to not make a change, but not comfortable enough or not uncomfortable enough maybe to have any sort of meaningful experiences. And so there was a weird level of perpetual anxiety and discomfort that undergirded all of it, but at the same time, it wasn't enough pain to make a significant change. So why was it easier? Well, because once you have enough pain, you start questioning everything. Why have I been so discontented? Why have I given so much material meaning to all these material possessions? Who's the person I want to become because I don't like the person I have become so far? And how am I going to redefine success? Because this level of success, the so-called success that I've achieved, if I'm miserable, is it really success? Well, success with misery, that seems like failure to me.Michael Jamin:But what was the final moment that you said, screw it, I'm quitting my job and I'm trying something else. Now,Joshua Fields Millburn:When I got closer and closer to the executives I wanted to be like, I had this whole career mapped out that by age 32, I'm going to be a vice president by age 35, I'm going to be a senior VP by age 40, I'm going to be a C-level executive, ideally ACOO of this corporation that I'd worked for since I was 18. And I'd climbed the corporate ladder. I was the youngest director in my company's 140 year history. I was responsible for 150 retail stores, which I know with the whole minimalism thing is really ironic. But I climbed the ladder and I got closer to these guys who I really aspired to be like. And I realized, well, wait a minute. As I got closer to them, the illusion, the mirage began to sort of dissipate. And I saw them for what they were. They weren't evil or bad guys.But I had one boss who was on his third divorce and second heart attack, and he was 50 years old. I'm 42 now. And I realized like, well, wait a minute. If I work really hard for the next 20 years, I can be just as miserable as these guys that I aspire to be like. But of course, what do we tell ourselves? We say, I'm going to be different. How am I going to be different if I follow the same exact recipe that all of these other guys are? And by the way, I've been following their recipe. If I continue to follow that recipe, I'm going to bake the same cake. And it became easy when I realized the fear of staying was actually more crippling than the fear of walking away. ButMichael Jamin:Did you bounce this off at anybody? Hey, listen, I'm going to quit my job and to do, what was your plan?Joshua Fields Millburn:Right? I was just going to write. I mean, my honest plan at the time was we had started the minimalist.com. I was making no money from it whatsoever. I was going to work. I paired down my bills to literally next to nothing. I mean, when I walked away from the corporate world, eventually in 2011, I made $23,000 that first year. So I took a 90% pay cut. Strangely, I was more financially free that year than I had been the last decade. It was the least amount of money I made in my entire adult life, but I was more free that year because I got rid of all of those expenses. I used to tell myself I need these things, or the truth is there were things I wanted. But you know what? I wanted more than that. I wanted freedom. So you asked, did I talk to other people about it?Heck yeah. I did it first. I learned what a mistake that was. Really? Yeah, because what happens is, oh, I'm going to leave and I'm just going to be a writer. And I had one boss that I had at the time said, well, if anyone could just quit their job, become a writer, then everyone would do it. And I looked at him and I said, well, I don't think everyone wants to do that first off, but second off, you're acting like I'm the first person in the history of the world who's decided to become a writer. And my plan was, I'm going to work in this coffee shop in my local neighborhood, make enough just to pay my rent. I was living in Dayton, Ohio. My expenses were really, really low. I spent two years paying off all of my debt because I knew as long as I was tethered to debt, I was going to be tethered to this job, which means I was tethered to this lifestyle. And in a weird way, I was financing a car that would take me to work so I could pay the car payment for the car that would take me to work. I needed to get rid of all of those things that I wanted but weren't serving my freedom. I had to let go of those things so I could embrace the life I actually wanted to live.Michael Jamin:But was there any moment where you're even saying to yourself, I don't know, I think I'm kidding myself. You had to have been checking yourself with doubt even while you were convinced, I'm going for it, right?Joshua Fields Millburn:Yeah. Now maybe I have an irrational confidence in a way. I never thought all the things that happened would happen, and we took a rather circuitous route. I didn't know have a 10 year plan or anything like that. My confidence was like, man, I think I can make enough money to pay my rent working at a coffee shop, and then I can just write in my other hours. And that's all I wanted. I found out what enough was for me because all those other things, they weren't doing it for me anymore. I thought, if I just get the Lexus, then I'll be happy I got the Lexus. Well, maybe the second Lexus will make me happy. That didn't do it. Well, maybe the Range Rover will make me happy. That didn't do it either. Okay. And by the way, I didn't own any of those things.I didn't own the big house. I had these things were all finance. I made really good money, but I spent even more money. So I had tremendous amounts of debt, about half a million dollars worth of debt, and I had to get rid of all of it in order to untether from that. And I realized those things never got me to enough. Enough is not about getting more and our society, it's actually about subtracting. And I knew I needed to subtract the things to get me down to enough. I already had enough peace, enough happiness, enough joy. Those things were simply covered up by all these external pursuits.Michael Jamin:I can understand Alexis not making you happy, but a Range Rover that surprises me Now, what kind of writing were you trying to do or were you doing that?Joshua Fields Millburn:Yeah, it was just fiction. I was really into fiction at the time. I thought that's all I was going to do. The minimalist was this side project. My best friend Ryan, he and I, we grew up together. We grew up really poor. We've known each other since we were fat little fifth graders. And we climbed the corporate ladder together as well. And he actually came to me about eight months into my letting go, my simplifying. We were still both working in the corporate world together. And he came to me one day and he said, why the hell are you so happy? And I didn't even go around saying, look at me. I'm a minimalist now. I got rid of my stuff. I didn't say anything to anyone. I just started letting go of extra clothes that were in my closet or things that were getting in the way that weren't serving me junk, that was non-essential and clutter basically.And I noticed that those material possessions were, and I didn't know this at the time, but they were at this physical manifestation of what was going on inside of me. And as I started letting go of this external clutter, I started clearing out some of this internal clutter, the relationship clutter, the mental clutter, the psychological clutter, the emotional clutter, the calendar clutter in my life. There was all these other types of clutter that I was not prepared for, didn't even know that I was clinging onto. And then when Ryan comes to me and says, why the hell are you so happy? It opened up this door for me to talk about this simplifying I had been doing. And so he started simplifying as well, and he's way more type A than I. And he's like, that's great. You've spent almost a year doing this. I need to do this right now.And so we came up with this crazy idea called a packing party, which we made a film version of for our last film, less Is Now. And ultimately, that was the beginning of the minimalist.com. We were just going to write about that 21 day journey, and it was going to be a place for me to publish a few essays that I wanted to write about, but I just wanted to write fiction. And then what I realized is like, oh, wait a minute. A lot of people were finding value in these words. I remember the very first month we started the minimalist.com, 52 people, they visited the website, which sounds really unremarkable now, but at the time, I was so impressed by it. You got to think, throughout my twenties, I wrote fiction, and the only people who were reading my stuff were agents and publishers who were sending me rejection letters.I had an inch thick stack of rejection letters of people telling me, no. Now, unbeknownst to me, a lot of the stuff was actually kind of garbage at the time. That's any writer that realizes that the stuff that seems so precious and gold, everything that comes off of my quill must be perfect. No, it was nonsense. But it made me the writer that I am today. And so I started writing@theminimalist.com, and I realized once 52 people turned into 500 people, and then it turned into four or 5 million people over the years, what I realized was that, oh, when someone gets value from something, they tend to share it with their friends and their family and their loved ones. Adding value, sharing value is a basic human instinct. And this was before the TikTok and Instagram and all these great ways to share these different things. People were actually forwarding our blog to their sister or their aunt or their uncle, or whomever it might be in their family, just sending off to 'em an email or a text message. And it just really began to spread word of mouth. I said, oh, maybe we actually have something here. Let's keep trying this out.Michael Jamin:Right? It's so interesting because people often complain today, it's so hard to go viral. You went viral before there was viral. It's like, well, because you had interesting things to say, and that gets shared. It's like, stop. People say it's so hard. Well, yeah, it's even harder when there's no such thing as viral.Joshua Fields Millburn:Yeah. And in fact, I don't even know that we ever had anything until our Netflix film came out, which the first one is now on YouTube, and that thing has even taken off. It's gotten a third life now. We did a theatrical release around it, and I could give you some really impressive stats around that. We had the number one documentary in 2016 in theaters, which sounds really impressive to you realize when in the hell have I seen a documentary in a theater. No one goes to theaters to see documentaries. So maybe 50,000 people saw it in a theater, but now 50,000 people see it in an hour or whatever. But before that, we never really had anything. And even now, we rarely have things that go viral. I think about when someone's playing baseball, the much more impressive players on a long enough trajectory aren't the people that are hitting grand slams and home runs occasionally.Those are the viral moments. But we constantly had these singles or doubles. We were getting on base all the time. We were resonating with this core group of people, and there weren't things that many, many tens of millions, hundreds of millions of people were seeing. But it was like, oh, wow, a hundred thousand people read that article. Oh, wow. 23,000 people shared this one thing, whatever it might be. And it built from there. We didn't have anything that was just like, here's this huge viral moment. It was just these repeated things over and over. Oh, this resonated. Let me send this to my sister because I think it'll resonate with her too. ButMichael Jamin:How did you go from the moment? How did you literally go from a very popular blog to getting a documentary on Netflix? What was that step?Joshua Fields Millburn:Yeah. Over the years, I became what I call vehicle agnostic. I remember when we first started the blog, Ryan came to me with the idea, we didn't even have the name for it. He was like, Hey, do want to, we didn't even know it was called a blog at the time. Do you want to start a website so we can share some of this story with other people? And I said, sure, we'll write a few things and we'll get that out there. It'd be great. It'd be a nice way for me to try my writing chops online. I've never done that before because all I really wanted to do was write books, specifically novels. I just wanted to write fiction, and I was rather married to that formula, that genre, that format, that vehicle to communicate my writing. And then I started realizing like, oh, that's one way to do it.But some people find value in the blog, and then other people find value in a tweet and other people find value in. Well, eventually we started the podcast, which has now been our main vehicle for communicating things. It's even eclipsed what we've done with the blog in terms of listenership and then other people, they might get value from a YouTube video, and some people will get value from a long form documentary or a book. And so I've become vehicle agnostic. It's meeting people where they are as opposed to dragging them toward, Nope, if you want to read about this, you have to read a 300 page book between bound covers. No, it's meeting them where they are. We actually do a lot more audio books than we do print books now, because that is one way that people prefer to consume those materials. I prefer reading a physical book personally, but I'm not going to prescribe that to anyone else.Michael Jamin:Okay. So how did you wind up selling it to Netflix, though?Joshua Fields Millburn:Yeah, great question. So we were in 2014, our second book came out in January 1st, 2014. It was called Everything That Remains. Ryan and I moved to this cabin in the middle of nowhere. Literally in middle of nowhere, there was one traffic light in 3,400 square miles. And it's sort of that romantic vision. You think we're in Montana, right? It's like, oh, wow. I say romantic, not like sexual romance, but romance in the sense like, oh, this little writer moves to the cabin. And man, when you're in Montana in winter and it's negative 26 degrees and it's in October, you realize all you really have to do is quite literally chop wood for the fireplace. That kept us warm and and we wrote the second book called Everything That Remains. It was the story of these two suit and tie corporate guys who walk away from the corporate world become minimalist. It was our journey. We went on book tour that year with it. Now again, that sounds like a really romantic vision. Book tour for us was like, we set up the book tour ourselves, and we did a hundred cities in eight countries, 119 events, 10 months of our lives.Michael Jamin:I have to interrupt. So much good stuff here. Yeah. You said this was, your book was traditionally published, or was it indie published?Joshua Fields Millburn:It was independently published, but we started, it's a long story. We started our own publishing company. We had a handful of employees there as well, and then it was traditionally published overseas. So we did a sort of hybrid model of it. Not self-published, but independently published and then picked up by other publishers.Michael Jamin:Right. Okay. So then you set up this book tour. You were side all this work. I have to point this out. Some people think, oh, you see the publisher made it happen. No, no, no. No one made any of this happen except you two guys, because you wanted it to happen. So tell me, so then, how did this book tour come about?Joshua Fields Millburn:Well, thankfully, we had some experience in the business world. We knew how to run a business. We started our own business with a third person named Colin Wright, who's a prolific author by age 30, I think. He had written 32 books and independently published quite a few of them and gone the traditional route with some other things and had some things optioned by Hollywood. And we realized we had come up with this formula, oh, what is possible to do independent publishing, which is different from a big traditional publisher, and it's also different from Vanity Publishing or self-publishing. I kind of liken it to indie music. You have big acts who are huge mega stars, the Taylor Swifts and the Miley Cyrus of the world, and they thrive in that giant recording industry system. And then you have people who just are garage bands and they have fun jamming in their garage.That's sort of self-publishing. But there's, in music, there's this whole other world of independent publishing or independent music, independent artists, especially now with the things we've gotten so easy. But even since the eighties and nineties, you've had independent artists who don't fall into the big label system, but aren't just garage bands aren't just jamming. They actually make a living. And we said, what if we model ourselves after independent musicians, people who are able to fill a 200 cap room, they can't fill up an arena or whatever. What if we did that? But we did it with book publishing, and eventually with that publishing company, we ended up signing nine different authors and showed them how to fail with us and took some of them out on tours. We did our own version of independent publishing for those authors, poets and fiction writers, all of that.And we learned a lot along the way. So when we booked our own tour, it was literally us and a few employees and interns that we had there in Montana. We eventually moved our operations to the big city of Missoula, Montana, 70,000 people there. It was a writing school there at the University of Montana. In fact, our office was at the university. They had a startup incubator there. And so we decided, Hey, we're going to go on this book tour. We had been on a few before, smaller ones, but we want to do it right. We really believed in this book. We believed in this message. So what we did is we set up a hundred different cities, 119 events, and the message really began spreading. We did 400 media interviews that year, traditional media and non-traditional media, but everything from, we'd be on the morning news at 5:20 AM in Albuquerque now, I don't know, maybe 14 people are watching that.But it allowed us really to develop our interviewing chops, and it allowed us to see what resonates with different people while we go out on these tour stops. Now, it wasn't sexy. Our business plan that year was, if we sell enough books tonight, we can stay in a hotel. If we don't, we're going to sleep in Ryan's Toyota Corolla. And then occasionally, sometimes listeners or they weren't listeners at the time, they were audience members, viewers, readers. They would let us stay at their spare bedroom or in their guest house, or sometimes we'd just sleep on the floor, we'd sleep at rest stops, whatever made sense. And it was quite literally living in the moment. We're going tonight, we're going to be in Des Moines, and then we have a tour stop tomorrow in Omaha, and eventually we'll work our way around to Halifax, Canada. And we're just driving around in Ryan's Toyota Corolla making that happen. And what I realized is that, yeah, early on, eight people would show up at a tour stop, but as the message began to continue, it really, it increased exponentially. By the end of that tour, thousands of people were showing up at tour stops, and we would have,Michael Jamin:Tell me about these tour stops though. Are you at indie bookstores or are you booking venues for yourself?Joshua Fields Millburn:Yeah, initially we booked indie bookstores. In fact, all hundred cities. We did indie book shops except for two or three cities that just don't have an indie bookstore at all anymore, which is really sad. Las Vegas was a good example of that. I think Dallas didn't have an indie bookshop at the time. That's actually been fixed recently. But what we did is we'd book these with indie bookstores, and then when the crowds became too large for those bookstores, then they would find a local theater or a local public yoga studio or some open space that we could have these tour stops. We partner with these indie bookstores, and then they would help us with the space and these tour stops. SoMichael Jamin:Who's paying for the space though? Or you guysJoshua Fields Millburn:Usually the bookstore would, they'd have some sort of arrangement with a local, they'd have a theater across the street. I remember we showed up in Indianapolis and 80 people R RSVP'd for that event, which you never know, because they're free events. Sometimes 80 people, r rss, VP and maybe 40 people actually show up because it's free. We had 80 people, RSVP, and we knew the bookstore only held about 60 people. You could maybe cram an extra 20 in there, but we had 400 people show up at the Indianapolis Book tour stop. And that's when I kind of knew like, oh, this is bigger than I thought it was ever going to be. And they had to find, they had a local theater across the street that was abandoned, but had recently been acquired by a friend of theirs, and they just let us use it. I mean, we had no plan. We were just kind of showing up and figuring out what would happen, holding court in the theater with no microphones, no electricity. We just found a way to make it happen. And it wasn't always pretty, but man, I think if we were trying to wait for everything to be perfect, we'd still be waiting.Michael Jamin:That's exactly right, because this is what I'm always yelling at people, stop asking for permission, put the energy in and then see you make it happen. That's what I find so inspiring. By what I mean, Jesus. I mean, you've literally reinvented yourself and none of it was easy, but you did it anyway. And now, do you still go back on tour?Joshua Fields Millburn:Yeah, we've done 10 tours in the last 12 years, and they're appreciably different. The reason I brought that up is because while we were on the road, we didn't have any extra money to film a documentary, but we had our friend, Matt Vela, who is huge now, has a huge YouTube channel, huge following. But at the time, he was just a young filmmaker who was looking to do something meaningful, and he had reached out to us and we started talking, and he was doing commercials at the time. In fact, he filmed the book trailer for that book I talked about. I was like, well, we don't have a ton of money, but I can pay you. We're going to be doing a media event in New York. Why don't you come out film that and do a book trailer for everything that remains? And so we paid him to do that, and we said, Hey, do you want to come on the road with us for a few weeks during this long tour that we're doing, and we'll set up some interviews along the way, and that way we don't have to fly to all these different cities.And so part of that tour, about six to eight weeks of that tour was just Matt in the back of the Corolla with all his gear and lighting set up. And while we go to a city, we say, oh, there are these great people we want to interview in San Francisco, or there's someone in Los Angeles you want to interview, or, oh, we're going to be doing a tour stop in Salt Lake City. I know we want to talk to these two people while we're in Salt Lake City, or we're going to be in Austin, Texas. Make sure we interview these people while we're there. We're going to be in Philadelphia. I know there's someone we want to talk to there. And so we just went around while we were in the city, we'd make time with any downtime. We had to film some interviews.And at the end of it, Michael, I got to tell you, we had a thousand hours of footage. We didn't know what the hell we were doing. We had a thousand hours of footage. Now the first documentary is 79 minutes long. And I remember at the end of that tour, we just looked at Matt and said, okay, good luck with all the footage. Now, a lot of the interviews we didn't use, a lot of it was road footage and other things, and he pieced together something really special. We went through nine different iterations of that film, and eventually we pitched it to Netflix and they were like, not for us. And they were really the only streaming game at town at the time. This is back in 2015 when we were finishing up the film. There were a few other smaller services then that don't even exist anymore.But Netflix was pretty much the only game in town, but I've always been the, all right, that's fine. You don't want it. We'll put it out on our own. Let's do a theatrical release, which I would never, ever do again. It's crazy. And we submitted the film festivals. We did a theatrical release, 400 theaters, us, Canada, Australia, and didn't get anyone's permission. We just figured out a way to do it. We found a distributor who was willing to work with us to get it into select theaters around the country. And so it was wildly successful in theaters for a documentary. And so we went back to Netflix and we were like, Hey, look how great it did. And they're like, yeah, still not for us. Sorry. Okay, no problem. Let's go ahead and put this online on our own transactional video, on demand, get it up on iTunes and Amazon and Vimeo. And we did that. And because we had already cultivated this audience through our blog and eventually through the podcast, which we had just started to help promote the film, ironically, the film ended up promoting the podcast way more than we anticipated, but we had built this audience. They sent it to number one on iTunes, and now Netflix came back to us and they were like, Hey, you know that film that you came to us with?Michael Jamin:See, I just had a long talk about this a couple days ago when people are begging to get into Hollywood, I go, if you want Hollywood to want, you got to smell like money, which is what you guys did. You stunk of money, which is because you had created this thing which people wanted. Now, Netflix, that's how you sell something. Netflix comes to you.Joshua Fields Millburn:Yeah, and they did. And what they did is, ironically, they paid us less than we made from any other platform, so we made less money from Netflix. But they did something really great for us. They got us into so many more homes. They got us into, in fact, they only did the US rights initially or the English rights, but then it did so well for them on the platform. They licensed the worldwide rights for a three year period, and they re-upped those rights for another three years. So we spent about seven years on Netflix with that first film, and eventually just this year, we got the rights back and we put it up on YouTube on our own, and millions of other people that have seen it on YouTube now. But Netflix got us in front of about 80 million people. And so that changed everything.It brought a lot of people into the podcast, and it also made them want to work with us on a second film. So they worked with us on our second film, less Is Now, and it became a Netflix, which ended up getting nominated for an Emmy, which I thought was a joke. When I got the email, I had to check the, I was like, oh, this must be some sort of spam nonsense. And what I realized is I wasn't pursuing any of these things specifically. It was just like these things were a great byproduct. Let's just sit down and create something that we really want to create, and hopefully everything else works out.Michael Jamin:Tell me about, so your friend, Matt, because I have so many questions here. When he came along on the ride with you, was he getting paid or was he doing this just to hustle himself to make his own projects happen?Joshua Fields Millburn:Yeah, more of the latter. We just said, Hey, man, we want to make sure we give you a disproportionately generous portion of this film because I don't have money to pay you for this right now. And so you are also an owner of the film as the director. He was also the editor. That's actually his true talent. I mean, he's a phenomenal director, but he is a savant of an editor. So he just came on the road with us and owns a major chunk of the film as a result. Had we just paid him, I mean, sure he would own less, but what I like about this is making sure that we always take money off the table with any of these things. Anyone who works with the minimalists now, it's like, okay, I'm probably not going to make you a millionaire, but what I'm going to do is provide a atmosphere for creative work that you'll enjoy and find meaning in.And also make sure you're compensated well enough for it, that you're not worried about money. And so, hey, this is a project we're going to work on together. We didn't know if anything was going to happen. Honestly, I didn't even know if it was going to be turned when you have a thousand hours worth of footage. I don't even know if you can turn that into a documentary, but if so, great. I mean, there's so many other projects we've started. That's the problem with the iceberg. You see only what's above the water. But we've worked on other films, we've worked on other books, we've worked on blog posts, podcast episodes, whatever, that never see the light of day. But that's just the way things, a lot of things hit the cutting room floor that aren't meant to be shown to the public.Michael Jamin:Are you worried about running out of things to say, because your message is simple, it's the less you have, the less fewer problems you have, but are you worried about, okay, what do I say now?Joshua Fields Millburn:Yeah, what a thoughtful question. I think that's an important question too, because it's not about just continuing to regurgitate the 16 rules for living with less or whatever. Those things are helpful for people, but they're out there already. What I've learned is as I've uncovered that external clutter, I really found all of these other forms of clutter. So recently we've been talking a lot more about these other types of clutter that are creating dread or anxiety in our lives. Calendar clutter is a big one that comes up a lot. I didn't even realize how much calendar clutter I had because I was saying yes to all of these things. It sounded good opportunities on their own. But when I say yes to this, and I say yes to this, I say yes to this inadvertently after saying a thousand yeses, now I'm saying no to the things that are actually most important to me.Everyone else's emergency is now becoming urgent for me. But just because something is urgent for you doesn't mean I have to take it on or I have to say yes to it. And what I realized is that calendar clutter is a type of consumerism. It's thinking that if I just say yes to all the right things, then my life will be complete. But it ends up stressing us out, and it's become culturally acceptable. In fact, it's become praised, right? Oh, what are you up to lately? I'm just so busy. Look how important I am. I'm so busy. Right, right.Michael Jamin:Please, I didn't interrupt you. Well,Joshua Fields Millburn:Busy is just a four letter word. It just means my life's out of control whenever I go around saying I'm busy, I'm busy, I'm busy. It means I don't have control of my own life.Michael Jamin:So what's interesting is you made this step, which is to forsake all these trappings to become minimalist. And as you became more successful, the trappings somehow find a way to encroach back in. Absolutely. And you have to keep checking thatJoshua Fields Millburn:Consumerism takes many forms, and for me, it was the material because I thought that was going to make me happy or whole or complete, but then you replace that with other things. I remember when we first became unquote famous, people started recognizing us in public. It wasn't about like, is this enough? It's like, how do I get more of this? Right? But then you realize really quickly, it took me about six months, so maybe it wasn't that quick. It took me about six months to realize like, oh, this isn't why you're doing this, man. If you're chasing happiness, you're never going to find it. You were chasing it over here with the Range Rover or the big house or whatever. You didn't get it there. You're not going to get it from applause or veneration either. And what I realized over time is what enough for me is zero.I don't need the applause. I don't need the praise. Those things are nice, and I'm not allergic to them, and I'm not shunning them either. Anthony Dello talks about as soon as you denounce a thing, you're forever tethered it to it. And I find that to be true. I'm not denouncing material possessions. I own stuff. I'm talking to you in a microphone. I'm wearing a shirt. I'm wearing pants. I'm wearing shoes, whatever it is, I own some stuff. I don't denounce things, but I also don't need things to be hold or complete. I am complete in an empty room, and I don't need material possessions. I don't need your praise. I don't need a specific relationship in order to make me happy. I can have those things. I can enjoy those things, but as soon as I need them, that's the type of prism.Michael Jamin:Yeah, it's just so interesting because you've created the success for yourself, and yet it still has a way of sneaking back in, and you have to constantly check it. So it's a journey now. You're never there.Joshua Fields Millburn:Yeah. Yeah. I would say success doesn't exist because it's almost like it's a mirage, right? You see the successful person. I do this at some of our tour stops or live events sometimes, and I was asked the crowd, shout out one thing that you associate with a successful person. If I show you a picture of a successful person, what does that person look like? And it's almost always like an ad from a magazine almost. It's like it's a guy wearing a suit, so it's an expensive suit. There's some sort of expensive jewelry or watch if it's a woman, she has a nice dress and a nice handbag, and it's always the accoutrements of success, but it's never about the person's interstate. It's never like, oh, yeah, they're really at peace, or they don't really need for much. Now you can redefine what success is, but culturally, when we talk about success, there's a portrait of success that we're identifying. And now it's so absurd. It's like it's not just the nice suit. It has to be the Louis Vuitton shoes, or it has to be the Gucci wallet, or it has to be the Balenciaga, whatever. And these become the markers of success, but they're just trinkets. And even those things I'm not against necessarily, but they're not going to make you happy.Michael Jamin:Do you find yourself slipping into judgment though of people who have it?Joshua Fields Millburn:I used to, yeah, because I would pathologize needing those things, but now I don't judge. I identify because that's just me, man. Yes, I want to be accepted, or at least I wanted to be accepted. And I thought that those things were a shortcut. And so if anything, I have empathy for my former self who thought that was going to make people. And here's the perverse thing about it. Let's say that buying the right car or the right wallet or the right belt or the right shoes or whatever, does get you acceptance from a particular peer group. Well, man, you're being accepted for things that aren't even you. So are they accepting you or are they accepting the status symbols? ButMichael Jamin:Let me get your help on something. I wrote a story about this in my book where it's like when I walk by, my wife and I go by, we take walks in these very expensive neighborhoods. It's pleasant to walk around in, and you look at a big house and a big, and you go, man, and my instinct is, yeah, but they're miserable. And she goes, you don't know that. I hope what they have to be do they have to be? Can't they be happy and have a big house and all that stuff?Joshua Fields Millburn:Tell me. Yeah, absolutely. It's unlikely. It'sMichael Jamin:Unlikely. Go on.Joshua Fields Millburn:Yeah, it's unlikely because the constant need for more does not stop when you get the big house. What do you want? I mean, I live up in Ojai, California, and a lot of people live there in their third home. Their third home is in, I used to live in Missoula, Montana, and man, a lot of people have their second or third home in Missoula, and I'm not against that even, right? But when is it enough? What amount of square footage is enough? Here's a question. We never were stopped to ask how much money is enough?Because more always sounds like it's better, which fine if someone comes in here and hands me bags of money, I'm not going to object to that, but that's not how capitalism works. What happens with capitalism? I'm not against capitalism either, but the ugly side of capitalism is now you're tethered to something. Someone shows up with a bag full of a million dollars. It's not no strings attached. There are definitely strings attached, and those strings are attached. It's taken away from my freedom. There's this essay that was in the New York Times a few years ago called Power. No, thanks, I'm good. And in that essay, they posit that the least free person in America is the president in the United States, the most powerful person in America as the least free person. Well, why is that? It's because to have dominion over everyone comes with a whole lot of strings. You're tethered to obligations, and by untethering from obligations, you may not be able to have the big house, but you might have something that you want a whole lot more, some tranquility, some peace, some equanimity,Michael Jamin:Right? I just wonder, does that take convincing of your stick? Do you have to convince yourself of that, or you just go, no, I'm in. I'm in.Joshua Fields Millburn:No, I think you just have to see it. You have to see it. Yeah, because I don't think any level of convincing ever works. I think it was Dale Carnegie who said, A man convinced against his will is of the same opinion. Still.I love that because yeah, you can convince me that Michael Jordan's the greatest basketball player of all time, but if I don't actually believe that, I'm going to go back to my defaults. Kapil Gupta says, everyone defaults to their defaults. And so, yeah, you can convince me for a period of time, but unless I actually see it, and that's what happened when I walked away from the corporate world, I actually saw it. It wasn't just this hypothetical or cerebral exercise. It was feeling it viscerally. And then you don't need any convincing, no level of convincing is required. That's what love is, by the way. To love someone is to see them for who they are without trying to convince them of your love, without trying to manipulate them or coerce them, actually seeing them. And I think that's true with our material possessions, with our calendar, with that big house that you see in Beverly Hills or wherever. You know what, yes, you see it for what it is. You see the tethers that are attached to it, and if you want those tethers fine, but if you don't want what is attached to those tethers, realize that you don't actually want the house either.Michael Jamin:Hey, it's Michael Jamin. If you like my content, and I know you do because you're listening to me, I will email it to you for free. Just join my watch list. Every Friday I send out my top three videos of the week. These are for writers, actors, creative types, people like you can unsubscribe whenever you want. I'm not going to spam you, and the price is free. You got no excuse to join. Go to michaeljamin.com. And now back to, what the hell is Michael Jamin talking about?Michael Jamin:See, to me, what you're saying is you literally, I don't know, you took a leap. You took a leap of faith. I believe that this is not going to make me happy, and I believe this will make me happy. And you're someone who continues to make leaps. This is a little bit of a segue here, but you took a leap from being management into a writer, into a performer. Now you're on stage. Where do you get the balls to say that I'm a performer now? You know what I'm saying? It's a leap.Joshua Fields Millburn:Yeah. I don't ever think of it that way. I guess I just started doing these events because was happy that I remember once we did a tour stop in Knoxville in 2011. It was our first book, which is called Minimalism, and no one showed up, and we were at this little bookstore slash cafe. So Ryan and I are just there. It's a random Thursday night and we're drinking coffee, waiting on it. Is anyone going to show up? Oh man, no one showed up. And it's like, we'll give it 10 more minutes. We start walking out, it's half hour into the event, and we're walking out, and as we're walking out, there's this guy who and his girlfriend who are walking in, they say, Hey, you're the minimalists. And I'm like, yes, yes, we are. And they're like, we don'tMichael Jamin:Even have an audience. That's how minimal you're yes.Joshua Fields Millburn:And they're like, we're here to see you. I'm like, that's great. You're the only people who showed up and well, so let's sit down, pull up a chair. Let's have a conversation. So we had a tour stop with two people, show up, and to me, that was one of the most meaningful experiences we've had. I didn't look at it as a performer. I've kind of been like, water. We just fit the vessel that we're in, and if two people show up, we'll have a great two person conversation,Michael Jamin:But surelyJoshua Fields Millburn:Thousand people show up. We'll have a different conversation.Michael Jamin:But you must have some kind of pressure to feel like I have to entertain here. Not just educate, but entertain. No,Joshua Fields Millburn:I enjoy entertaining. I don't know that I have to. That would also feel like a prison, but I enjoy entertainment. I like shows that are actually shows, right? Conversations are cool, but I really like when people put the effort and get really obsessed about something, whether it's set design or it is audio, or it is the way the words look on a page in the type setting, whatever it is. I really appreciate the obsession. And yeah, I do like entertainment. I don't know. That's the point of doing what I do, but I don't think that it hurts. I mean, it's to be entertaining in a way is to be courteous to an audience. No one goes to the beach with a calculus textbook and says like, oh, I'm really looking forward to diving because there's no entertainment there at all. It's not delightful. And so I do enjoy delighting an audience, and I think it makes it what we're talking about a lot more compelling.Michael Jamin:But was there a moment there had to be of imposter syndrome. Who am I to be standing here? Who am I to be writing this book? Who am I to be? Was there ever that,Joshua Fields Millburn:Yeah, yeah. I guess that I never felt like an imposter. I just always felt like I was exploring. You're exploring. Yeah, because I'm not prescribing anything to anyone. Anytime I do, then I'll start to feel like an imposter isn't. Here are the three things that you should do to be happy. In fact, happiness doesn't even work like that. There's nothing you can do to be happy. Happiness can't be acquired. It can't be attained. It is already there. It's preexisting. We never go to a baby and say, well, here are three things you should do to be happy. You just see 'em smile and coup and laugh, and it's like, oh, well, why can't I do that? Well, I've covered it up with all the damn prescriptions, right? So I'm not prescribing anything. Anytime I do, then yeah, I start to feel like an imposter because who knows what. But people often call into our podcast and they'll say, do you have any advice about this? And the first thing I always say is, I don't have any advice, but I have some observations because I can't tell you what to do, but I can tell you what I see.Michael Jamin:So it's really just about you maintaining your authenticity and speaking what your truth is and take it or leave it. It's whatever someone else's truth is, that's for them to decide.Joshua Fields Millburn:Yeah, if I see a truth, I can observe it. I can put it out there on the table, and whether or not someone else picks it up, that's up to them. By the way, my beliefs don't really matter at all anyway. My beliefs don't matter. The listener's beliefs don't matter. The truth is the only thing that does matter. I was just talking to someone earlier today about this. If I told you I believe the earth is flat, does that matter? Does it change anything? No, but I think the adverse of that also doesn't change it. What do I tell you? I believe the earth is round. Well, so what? Congratulations. Right? The earth is round regardless of whether or not I believe it, and no amount of belief or clinging to a belief or changing a belief or convincing someone else that my belief is right is going to change what the truth isMichael Jamin:Right now. I'm jumping a little bit, but I feel like part of what your journey was, I wonder was it made a lot easier because you went on it with your best friend. It seems to me like I'm not sure if I could do this alone.Joshua Fields Millburn:In some ways it was easier, but a lot of times it was way harder. I are so different people. I mean, we're exact opposites in many ways. I'm super introverted. He's super extrovert. He's the most extroverted person I know. I'm the most introverted person I know. So if you look at us on a Myers-Briggs personality test, I am an ISTJ, he's an ENFP. We're literally exact opposite person. Excuse me, exact opposite personalities. But when we interact with each other, we're both mentors and mentees to each other. And I found that was really helpful to have someone there to help maybe keep me accountable. But other times it was, oh, man, it's hard to not want to change this person to pick up my beliefs. And then what happens is we start battering each other with our own beliefs or our own opinions, and we've moralized everything, right? Oh, you like cappuccinos more than lattes? Clearly you're wrong. I have a preference. And so it was harder, but it also allowed me to let go of a lot of that belief clutter that I was holding ontoMichael Jamin:Belief clutter. Interesting. Yeah. I mean, that's what I picked up from your last special. It's not just about letting go of stuff. It's about letting go of preconceived notions. It's about letting go of. Yeah. I mean, that's what I found so inspiring by what you guys are doing, but I don't know, it seems to me, because you still have a business here, you have a creative business, you've reinvented themselves as creative people, and you're going on, I don't know, at the end of the day, you still got to pay the bills. You're taking a big risk. So to me, it feels like, does having that partner there put you at ease a little bit?Joshua Fields Millburn:Yeah. I mean, the weird thing is I still make less money than I did in the corporate world, and in fact, they even took a pay cut this year to make sure that everyone is being paid well, and I'm totally fine with that. There are a lot of things I could do that I don't want to do.Michael Jamin:You mean opportunities don'tJoshua Fields Millburn:Do ads? On our podcast, for example,Michael Jamin:You don't do ads on your podcast?Joshua Fields Millburn:No, I don't like 'em. I like going to museums, and I can only imagine if I went to the LACMA and I went to the Picasso room and all of a sudden they were painting McDonald's arches onto his paintings. I wouldn't feel as good about the art.Michael Jamin:It's funny. I don't monetize either, but to me it's about something. What's the end goal then? What's the monetization process? Promote your other projects.Joshua Fields Millburn:Yeah, I mean, that's part of it. I just enjoy doing it. We didn't monetize the podcast at all for years, and now we just supported on Patreon. So we do a private version of the podcast for patrons who want to support us, but frankly, that's a very small sliver of the audience. Everything else we do for free, completely ad free. We don't monetize our YouTube channel. I just don't like advertisers, and that's not a moral stance, and it's not a judgment on anyone else. It's just a personal preference to me. There's some people who just really don't like cilantro, and I'm not going to convince them that they should like cilantro or that, oh, you're morally wrong because you dislike cilantro. It's kind of gross to them. And advertisements on my podcast are just kind of gross to me. IMichael Jamin:Understand that. But it seems to me it almost like you're bi minimalism and then someone puts an ad to buy sneakers that you don't eat or whatever. I could see the disconnect, but also, you're entitled to have a business and you're entitled to make a living. And what you offer has value. I mean,Joshua Fields Millburn:I don't think I'm entitled to anything, but I can do any of those. There are no shoulds. There are endless possibilities. Endless coulds so I could do ads. There are a bunch of things I could do, but I just choose not to because rather not. And to me, I would rather just go work at a coffee shop than put ads on. I'll do the podcast for free and just go work at a coffee shop than put ads on. We have enough listeners that I could make seven figures a year from putting ads on the thing. So put my preferences where my mouth is, and again, it is not a moral stance and it's not me standing on a pedestal. I just simply dislike ads and I'm not willing to say yes to something that grosses me out.Michael Jamin:Yeah. Well, good for you. Who can't respect that, but what is it then that gives you joy? What is it that you're working towards? What are your other ambitions with the minimalist? What do you want to do?Joshua Fields Millburn:Yeah, I don't look at success if I do look at success at all. I don't look at it as the big accomplishments. Those things can be fun as a byproduct, whether it's being a bestselling author or being nominated for an Emmy or whatever it might be. I don't shoot for those things. I try to map out my life to see what I want to do on a random Wednesday. What do you want your average Wednesday to look like?Michael Jamin:Okay. What do you want your average Wednesday to look like?Joshua Fields Millburn:Yeah, yeah. Usually I want to get up, I want to exercise, I want to read. I want to write those three things I do first thing in the morning. I really enjoy those things. I'll get some sun. I'll go for a hike. I'll do some grounding. I might have a conversation like this or two, I limit the conversations that I have just because I don't want to keep saying yes to a bunch of things, because if I'm saying yes to this, I want to be present with you. This is a hell yes for me. We're having this conversation right now. Why distract myself with something else I have going on this afternoon or tomorrow or whatever? My point is that if you solve for Wednesday, there's nothing grandiose. I don't want, what do you want your average Wednesday to look like? Oh, well, I want to win an Oscar and I want to become a number one New York Times bestselling author, whatever it is. Those things can happen, but that's not going to happen. Your average Wednesday, what if I'm taking my daughter to, she doesn't go to, we homeschool her, but we take her to this, and so what if I spend an hour reading to my daughter? What do I want my average Wednesday to look like? Is appreciably different from the giant peaks that we often see on the success roadmap?Michael Jamin:I mean, you're so grounded. You use the word yourself, grounding exercise, and yeah, I just have so much. First of all, I'm honored that I get this conversation because I don't know. I just think it's so interesting to hear you're a very successful, I think you can be measured as a successful person in many different ways, but obviously the most important one is your happiness quotient and what gives you peace and joy.Joshua Fields Millburn:And if I find myself chasing it, then I know that I'm, I've been misled or I've misled myself. Really, the happiness is out there. The joy is not out there. Everything else that we seek is alreadyMichael Jamin:Here. It's almost like a spiritual journey you put yourself on.Joshua Fields Millburn:Oh, absolutely. Yeah. Yeah. It's really just identifying what enough is and letting go of anything that gets in the way of enough.Michael Jamin:Yeah. Yeah. That's so interesting. Now, do you also though, now that you have a child, I don't know, do you also worry about that? Do you worry for her?Joshua Fields Millburn:No. No. I mean, because I know that she's going to go, just last week, this is timely, but her boyfriend, I mean, the boy she holds hands with occasionally, she's 10 years old, okay. And he called to break up with her, and he asked her, can we just be friends? This is her first boyfriend. I mean, I didn't want to correct her and be like, Hey, Ella, you know what? You were just friends. YouMichael Jamin:Were just friends.Joshua Fields Millburn:I have a big problem if you weren't just friends at age 10. But anyway, and so she's going through all this heartache and instead of pathologizing it and saying, don't cry, yeah, I felt the heartache for her as well, but real joy, real peace makes room for that. I could still be at peace at it and experience those. So-called negative emotions. I can feel the sadness for her. And she looks up at me and she says, I'm so sad, and I don't even know why I'm sad. Why am I sad? And oh, my heart was just broken. And then instead of me preaching to her, she asked a question, and that opened up the door for conversation. And I was able to explain to her, well, we get sad or we get upset. We get angry, we get frustrated whenever our expectations of the world, our worldview doesn't map onto reality. And right now you want things to be one way and they are another way, and being sad isn't wrong or bad, you're going to experience this. And by the way, by her experiencing it, that's how she moves on from it. And she moved on so much quicker than I would have. And that's what the beautiful thing about kids. When you have a kid, you learn so much about letting go. She has far less to learn from me than I had to learn from her.Michael Jamin:But I sound very obviously very zen and very at balance. But when you were starting this minimalism journey to get the word out there to do these shows and book tours and all, there must've been disappointments along the way and would frustrated the hell out of you, or no,Joshua Fields Millburn:All the disappointments happened later way after the success. What Really? Absolutely, man, it was all just a beautiful accident early on. I remember the first time we had an amazing tour stop where it was 2012, December, 2012. This was our second tour. Yeah, we call it the Holiday Happiness Tour. We did 10 cities over the course of maybe three weeks, and us and Canada, just 10 major markets. And we had people actually show up to these. I remember we had 70 people show up in San Francisco, and we had maybe 25 people show up in Washington, DC and 40 people in Boston. And all of a sudden we had people who were actually showing up to these things. And then we had this event in Toronto. It was at this co-working space that we had. Someone found it for us. They let us use it for free, and we show up.And it was the first time I absolutely knew that, oh, our lives are going to be different after this. We showed up and there was another event going on. It totally blocked off our event. And this other event that was going on, there was all these people waiting to get in. I'm like, oh, they're totally going to screw up the small event that we have planned. And so I look at the organizer, her name was Melissa. I said, Melissa, what event are they here for? And she looked at me and she said, they're for you, dummy. And it was like a thousand people who showed up at this event.Michael Jamin:And this space was big enough to accommodateJoshua Fields Millburn:It? No, not at all. And they actually let us use the basement. And even then there were people, it was like sardines at a rock concert or something, and it was all gravy, man, I would've been just as thrilled if 15 people showed up that night, and it's easy to say as a Monday morning quarterback, but what happened is that started to build up these expectations in the future. Oh yeah, yeah. Now we need 2000 people to show up, whatever it is. And it's like, well, no. In fact, recently we just started doing these smaller events here in Los Angeles. We did five of them over the course of, I dunno, six months or so. We called them Sunday symposiums, and we made them intentionally small where only 200 people could show up. It was 200 seat theater downtown, and that was it. If you showed up for that, great. And every single one of 'em sold out. Let's do something intentionally small, and I'd love to do some events with 12 people, because to me, having the expectation totally ruins the thing. Whoever shows up shows up. If I need them to start showing up,Michael Jamin:Oh man,Joshua Fields Millburn:What's going to happen?Michael Jamin:So it was, once you hit that success, like you're saying, that's when you have disappointment, more expectations. So were there others? Man, this is just so interesting to me. So what do you do then, other than keep yourself in check? Because your natural inclination is to get more success, more followers, more fans and all that?Joshua Fields Millburn:Yeah, yeah. I mean, for me, it was about identifying what enough is. But yeah, there'll be some disappointments along the way. There was this film series that were working on. Netflix actually encouraged it. And so I go to pitch them on it. I do all my own pitching. I don't have an agent do it. I just show up and I'll have them book the appointment, and it's just me in a room with whatever executives, and that's how it's worked. And then I show up and best pitch of my life. It went amazing. It was this
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CS Joseph discusses how Templar types (ESTJ, ISTJ, ENFP, INFP) can be abusers of those around them. Discover your personality type free: https://www.udja.app/ Check out our other Channel: / @egohackers Learn to overcome your fears and unlock your potential: https://egohackingyourfear.com/ Join our Subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/CSJosephOffi... Learn to type others by text: https://egohackingbytext.com/ Was this video impactful for you? Buy me a coffee! https://ko-fi.com/csjoseph Test, Blog, YouTube, Coaching, Member, and Discord links: https://linktr.ee/csjoseph Psychoanalyzing and video games collide: https://www.twitch.tv/csj0s3ph Get the solution to bad psychology when it comes to sales and marketing here: https://ultimatemessagingformula.com Intro: Prismo (Stronger) NoCopyright Sound https://ncs.io/Stronger --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/csjoseph/support
Hope decodes the “7 DREAM Production : Stranger Seven” short film, connects NCT DREAM's latest video story developments to the larger “SMCU” storyline, and reviews ISTJ track by track! Catch up on past artist-specific episodes of the show below! https://17caratkpop.substack.com/p/content-sorted-by-artist?sd=pf And view a full episode directory here!https://17caratkpop.substack.com/p/the-complete-17-carat-k-pop-episode?r=4ajn9&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&utm_source= --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hope-jacobson/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hope-jacobson/support
We've got news for you... you're going to love these July comebacks a little. Or, preferably, a lot! From our favorites Monsta X, NewJeans, NCT, and BTS's Jungkook to some new faces to the mix like Junny, Kiss of Life, and Treasure, there's a genre for everyone to love with this July comeback recap! Segments: (00:56) - Kiss Of Life "Shhh" (09:10) - NewJeans "Cool With You" (21:48) - Junny "Invitation" (26:16) - Jungkook "Seven" (34:30) - Treasure "Bona Bona" (50:12) - NCT Dream "ISTJ" (01:02:37) - Shownu x Hyungwon "Love Me A Little"
Who am I? We've all wondered at some point. The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, a personality test based on Carl Jung's psychological types, has offered many an answer. This hour, we delve into the history of the MBTI and contemporary applications of this test and explore its scientific validity. Plus, a look at a dating app that uses the 16 personality types to help people find love. GUESTS: Paul Tieger: A prolific author on MBTI; his books include Do What You Are, Nurture by Nature, and Just Your Type Alexander Swan: Associate professor of psychology at Eureka College and host of the CinemaPsychpodcast Jessica Alderson: Founder of So Syncd, a 16 Personalities-based dating app The Colin McEnroe Show is available as a podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, TuneIn, Listen Notes, or wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribe and never miss an episode! Subscribe to The Noseletter, an email compendium of merriment, secrets, and ancient wisdom brought to you by The Colin McEnroe Show. Join the conversation on Facebook and Twitter. Colin McEnroe, Carol Chen, Jonathan McNicol, and Catie Talarski contributed to this show.Support the show: http://www.wnpr.org/donateSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Personality types affect your family dynamics. The ISTJ is typically the dutiful parent offering their kids consistency, routine, and organization. But the ESTP parent is usually more adaptable and able to go with the flow. Understanding not just your own personality type but your partner's and those of your children is important to keeping the home harmonious. Guest: Sandra Etherington On Instagram Website https://familypersonalities.com/ Contact: thepersonalitycoach@gmail.com Kate's website Kate's book on Amazon Kate on LinkedInKate on FacebookKate on TwitterSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Discover your personality type free: https://www.udja.app/ CS Joseph continues Season 35 (god functions) with the Soul Temple (ISTJ, ENFP, INFJ, ESTP). Learn to type others by text: https://egohackingbytext.com/ Was this video impactful for you? Buy me a coffee! https://ko-fi.com/csjoseph Test, Blog, YouTube, Coaching, Member, and Discord links: https://linktr.ee/csjoseph Psychoanalyzing and video games collide: https://www.twitch.tv/csj0s3ph Get the solution to bad psychology when it comes to sales and marketing here: https://ultimatemessagingformula.com Intro: Prismo (Stronger) NoCopyright Sound https://ncs.io/Stronger --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/csjoseph/support
This chain quest looks into the neurology that comes about related to the cognitive functions. This video 8/8 is on Introverted Sensing dominants, ISTJ and ISFJ.Introverted Sensing is often thought of as a storage facility or database filled with real memories and experiences. When you use Introverted Sensing, you recall the memories with vivid details. People describe the experiences coming back like movie clips or photos.An Introverted Sensing dominant, ISTJ and ISFJ, relies heavily on the details from the past to inform the present. This then is used to guide decisions and encourage the Si type to maintain a reliable structure that can extend into the future. ESTJs and ESFJs do this too, but Introverted Sensing is their auxiliary function, so it's not necessarily the main viewpoint that they rely on. But still, all four of these types prefer Si as their primary way of perceiving and learning about the world.They compare what's happening now, or how something tangibly is, with their personal experiences. All of their experiences combine to make an ideal representation of something — how it is at its best. The ideal version of an apple, for example, is based on all other apples experienced. Through taking in all the tangible details, we learn what color, texture, shine, weight, firmness, and taste an apple should be at its purest form.A behavior that often comes from preferring Introverted Sensing is to stick with what works. Si naturally likes things to be predictable. The easiest way to maintain stability is to not deviateThe polar opposite of Introverted Sensing is Extroverted iNtuition. This is a preference to skip over the fine details and abstractly explore every possibility available. Ne naturally works against and avoids routine. So, you can imagine that Si types generally keep their life orderly.INFPs have introverted Sensing in their tertiary position. It's generally not well developed, so I'll give you an example of what it's like at a… lower... functioning level. I often eat the same food, prefer a specific coffee, and have a rigid morning routine. I don't want to "risk" eating something when I'm sure I already like the Italian Cheese-in-Hamburg - so why do it?At a healthy, dominant level, Si allows the user to focus on what is important to uphold traditions and the foundation for human survival. They keep us safe through recognizing what realistically needs to happen.In RPG terms, Introverted Sensing types are like warriors spec'd into a tanking, guardian role. They are determined to hold more than their share of a burden in order to get something done correctly.Main brain regions used:Fp2 – “process manager” or "curious explorer"T5 – “sensitive mediator” or "sensitive adjuster"T6 – “purposeful futurist” or "insightful futurist"01 – “visual engineer”02 – “abstract impressionist”If this interests you, go to www.darionardi.com and buy his book(s). Neuroscience of Personality: Brain Savvy Insights For All Types of People by Dario Nardi ***Connect and Support Geek Psychology #geekpsychology ***Socials, courses, and 1-on-1 coaching services: geekpsychology.com INFP only community and safe place and INFP MasterclassGeeky Myers Briggs Personality Type MerchSupport on PatreonSupport the showBuy my book: Personal Transformation Journaling: End the Cycle of Self-Sabotage and Create Lasting Positive Change Through Writing, Reflection and the Parts Work
Diminutivsuffix, en förminskningsform som gör betydelsen av ord mindre, finns i många språk men saknas i svenskan. Hör om vad vi gör vi istället och varför -is inte kan räknas som diminutiv. Flera europeiska språk har suffix som går att lägga i slutet av ord för att skapa mindre varianter av ursprungsordet. Tyskan har till exempel -chen och -lein och italienskan -ino och -etto med flera. Men i svenska språket finns inget diminutivsuffix. Men att svenskan saknar diminutiv håller jag inte med om, vi har prefix som vi använder som diminutiver, som till exempel pytte, mini, mikro och de uttrycker också diminutiv, säger Henrik Rosenkvist professor i nordiska språk.Språkfrågor om diminutivHur definieras diminutiv?Saknar svenskan diminutiv?Hur skapas diminutiv i olika språk?Är det en form av diminutiv att säga prateliprata eller köpeliköpa, eller vad är det för fenomen?Är -is, som i bebis, föris, hemlis och grattis ett diminutivsuffix?Har det funnits diminutivsuffix i svenskan förr?Vad finns det för personnamn som är diminutiver?Läs och lyssna mer om diminutiv och -isTjänis, knäppis och brallis; om suffixet -is i modern svenska uppsats av Gunlög Josefsson, professor vid språk och litteraturcentrum Lunds universitet från 2002. Lista från Wikipedia på hur olika språk skapar diminutivLista från Svenska akademien om namns ursprung och betydelse där det går att söka efter namn som är diminutiverKrönika Formen som gör allt gulligt av Sara Lövestam, Språktidningen. (från 2019)Språkkrönika: Mammis undrar var bebis nappis är av Karin Skagerberg, Dagens-Nyheter. (från 3 oktober 2021) Språkvetare Henrik Rosenkvist, professor i nordiska språk vid Göteborgs universitet. Programledare Emmy Rasper.
My former client Kara is one of those women who was good at doing what she was “supposed” to do. She went to college, studied engineering (just like her dad), and became an engineer. She also got married and had kids, all while progressing in a very demanding field. But eventually, as life tend to do when it isn't built on the sturdiest, most authentic foundation, things started to fall apart. Kara went through a divorce, became a single working mom, and was faced with a whole new reality. She'd spent 20 years checking a lot of boxes, only to realize that she wasn't satisfied and desperately needed a change (and a break). In this month's interview with a normal person, Kara and I talk about what it's like to leave a career after so long and start something entirely new. Listen in as we talk about… How she realized it was time to move on Her advice for women who are in more traditional, heavily-masculine-energy-type fields like engineering Taking an 8-month sabbatical from working, and what she did with all of her free time Processing her fears around moving in an entirely new career direction Come leave a comment after you've listened to share how Kara's journey resonated with you! MORE ABOUT KARA HEASLEY Kara is an ISTJ, a Thriver, and an Enneagram Type 9. She's also a civil engineer, a single mom of two, and an amateur gardener, chef, and chicken collector who left her full-time job as an engineering manager almost two years ago to embark on an 8-month sabbatical and rediscover her purpose. She discovered her passion for financial coaching after going through her own journey to pay off debt, and helping several friends get their own finances in order. She's now on a mission to help women build healthy money habits so they can eliminate debt, build wealth, and start living The Good Life – whatever that may mean for them! The Good Life Financial Coaching LinkedIn Instagram LISTEN TO THESE EPISODES NEXT Creating your own Eat, Pray, Love journey with Samantha Lenkic (February 2022) Taking a year-long sabbatical from work with Francine Mends (January 2022) How to work less, live more, & make great money with Katie Mongelli (July 2018) LINKS Leave us a comment on this episode Take the Passion Profile Quiz Submit your question for a future episode of Dear Krachel Check out our YouTube channel
In this episode of the Personality Hacker podcast, Joel and Antonia explore the 4 work styles that influence ISTJ careers. https://personalityhacker.com
What a treat it was to sit down with a sweet friend, Hanna Chang, as she reflected over her adventurous life and inspiring accomplishments. Hanna grew up in Korea, Ghana, and Texas and has been residing in California for the past 9 years. Hanna leads business strategy for a startup during the day and creates trading card related content when she can find time apart from being a mom of two young kids. Her family is currently in transition to Asia long term to do faith-based work, so listen to hear how you can also follow and support their journey. I had so much fun listening to my pioneer friend drop wisdom on her early days climbing the corporate ladder, reflect on how she changed the trajectory of financial insecurity for her family and future generations to come (YASS), and how she and Jacob reshifted priorities to use their God given talents to serve overseas. Oh and also which sports card we're all sleeping on! Tune into an organic conversation with one my funniest, realest, grittiest, and most successful friends. I'll add stubborn to balance it out haha. Hanna is the real freaking deal, and I hope you guys....Eunjoy~~~~~ Hanna (Sea) Chang: Enneagram 3, ISTJ @harukazoku @shecollectscards Subscribe to their Japan Journey on Youtube! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/kollercommentary/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kollercommentary/support
It can be incredibly difficult to find your #enneagram type, and roughly 60% of people mistype themselves the first time. So since #myersbriggs is so popular, and far easier to find your type, I thought it would be helpful to give folks a starting point based on some surface level similarities between each Myers-Briggs type and one Enneagram type that best corresponds to their personality traits. And before you say it (looking at you my snarky 5s and bullish 8s), I fully understand and agree that the enneagram is an incredibly different tool with a far different purpose than Myers-Briggs AND there is no direct correlation between your Enneagram ego and your Myers-Briggs personality, so please spare me the comments ;) This is just a playful (potentially helpful) comparison. ▶ A Complete Guide to Every Enneagram Type: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLm1xoeY8KrF6EV2rrDfJykCe_hyC_kJOR ▶ DONATE: Support YGAT's effort to create high-quality, free enneagram content by donating on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/youvegotatype ▶ Subscribe to YGAT: https://www.youtube.com/c/youvegotatype ▶ Timeline: 0:00 Introduction 1:53 INFJ 3:02 ISTJ 4:18 ISFJ 5:26 ESFJ 6:29 ENFJ 7:33 ENFP Part I 8:35 ENFP Part II 9:46 INFP Part I 10:57 INFP Part II 12:01 INTP 13:03 INTJ 14:05 ISTP 15:09 ENTP 16:16 ESFP 17:21 ESTP 18:24 ENTJ 19:26 ESTJ 20:32 ISFP 21:38 Conclusion: LIKE & SUBSCRIBE! #enneagram #selfawareness #spirituality #selfhelp #motivation #selflove #wisdom #spiritualgrowth #enneagram9 #enneagram8 #enneagram7 #enneagram6 #enneagram5 #enneagram4 #enneagram3 #enneagram2 #enneagram1 #reformer #helper #achiever #individualist #investigator #loyalist #enthusiast #challenger #peacemaker #personalitytypes #personality #enneagramtypes #isfp #estj #entj #estp #ESFP #ENTP #ISTP #INTJ #INTP #INFP #ENFP #ENFJ #ESFJ #ISFJ #ISTJ #INFJ #16personalities #mbti #mbtipersonality #introverts #extroverts #education --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/youvegotatype/support
Discover your personality type free: https://www.udja.app/ Help your ISTJ out! CS Joseph Responds to the Acolyte question how can you help an ISTJ stop procrastinating? Was this video impactful for you? Buy me a coffee! https://ko-fi.com/csjoseph Test, Blog, YouTube, Coaching, Member, and Discord links: https://linktr.ee/csjoseph Psychoanalyzing and video games collide: https://www.twitch.tv/csj0s3ph Get the solution to bad psychology when it comes to sales and marketing here: https://ultimatemessagingformula.com Intro: Prismo (Stronger) NoCopyright Sound https://ncs.io/Stronger --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/csjoseph/support
Welcome back to Enneagram IRL, the weekly podcast where we go beyond Enneagram theory and dive into practical understanding, new clarity, and fresh insight. We're talking about how each type is in REAL LIFE so you can remember – you're more than just a number.On this week's episode of Enneagram IRL, we meet with Leslie McDaniel, a coach, personality consultant, and podcast host for creative and ambitious problem solvers who want to rediscover who they are and what matters most through the lens of personality type so they can live each day with purpose and intention. She can help you take your Myers-Briggs® or Enneagram personality type from a casual curiosity to a life-changing path for growth.We discuss Myers-Briggs® Typology while touching on some basic and advanced theory. Leslie answers MBTI questions from the Nine Types Co. community and shares her passion for working with individuals using this personality system. Follow Leslie on Instagram: @heyhihellopersonalityListen to Leslie's Podcast: The Hello Personality PodcastOr connect with her online: https://hellopersonality.com/Here are the key takeaways:Trends and patterns between MBTI Types & Enneagram TypesIntro to the cognitive functions and using MBTI for growthBreaking down the specific type of INFJ What are practical differences between Sensing and Intuition? ISTJ vs. ISFJCan your type change throughout your life?How can you connect with Leslie?Resources mentioned in this episode:Free MBTI & Enneagram Typing Guide by Leslie McDanielPersonality Hacker: Harness the Power of Your Personality Type to Transform Your Work, Relationships, and Life by Antonia Dodge and Joel Mark WittFour Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals by Oliver BurkemanAtlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience by Brené BrownWant to keep the conversation going? Join me on Instagram @ninetypesco to keep learning and chatting about how our types show up in REAL LIFE! Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/ninetypesco/?hl=enLearn more about subtypes! Download my free subtypes guide here.Want to stay up to date with all things Nine Types Co? Join my email-list and receive Enneagram reflections, thoughts about growth and personal development. Plus, you'll get priority access to new offers and courses! Sign up here.Not sure about your type? Get my free self-typing guide and a series of six emails to walk you through the whole process. Sign up here: https://ninetypes.co/selftyping-guide
Diane and I list 5 signs you are NOT the TJ personality type (INTJ, ISTJ, ESTJ, ENTJ).
I get asked about which Myers-Briggs (MBTI) type is compatible with which type all the time and while there are some natural benefits from basing relationships on MBTI type pairings like INFP and ENFJ or ISTJ and ESTP, there are problems that come with that goal of finding the perfect person to date based on personality type.I hope it helps!Original video: https://youtu.be/75cdmUwSOP8 ***Connect and Support Geek Psychology #geekpsychology ***Socials, courses, and 1-on-1 coaching services: geekpsychology.com INFP only community and safe place and INFP MasterclassGeeky Myers Briggs Personality Type MerchSupport on Patreon
Have you ever felt a touch of guilt because you think you might be getting too successful or that you are selfish for wanting a more significant life? Do you think you'd be a better mom if you didn't work or if you had a more straightforward career with less responsibility? Do you ever feel others judge you for your success or for your desire to be more successful? If so, this episode is for you! Do you want to know when my executive coaching program opens to take in new clients next? Subscribe to the "Rise and Shine" Newsletter, curated for introverted executives (and introverted women who want to rise to executive leadership); when my program opens - you'll be the first to know. If you have questions or want to connect with me, email me at tami.north@genuinedrivenwomen.com or call me at (724) 374-8362 and leave a voice message. Click here to leave a review! If you LOVE what you are hearing, the best way you can help me spread the word about this podcast is by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts or sharing an episode you LOVE with a friend. It would mean the world to me if you would take a couple of minutes to write an Apple Podcast review.
Sandra & Em welcome the podcast back after the summer break with some emotional news and some Why Do They Do That's:-Em reveals a scary health diagnosis and talks about leaning on her ISTJ husband and others during this time-Sandra's shares updates including a new puppy and a new school for her kids-Does Resonant Feeling (Introverted Feeling) have a lot to do with Sandra's daughter's name change?-Is Sandra's discomfort around her kids attending a private school personality type related or just privilege based?-Em's ISFJ daughter kills it at her morning routine and thinks Em's family needs to DO BETTERFind pictures of Sandra's new puppy in the show notes!Links and references:Find Your Child's Myers-Briggs TypeMyers-Briggs BasicsCognitive Function Cheat SheetDonate!@Sandraeth on VenmoCheck out my podcast page for episodes broken down by topic.Enlist Sandra's services to create a more peaceful dynamic in your family!Email us at familypersonalitiespod@gmail.comFollow us on Instagram @FamilyPersonalitiesFollow us on Facebook @FamilyPersonalitiesLeave us a review on iTunes/Apple PodcastsRate, Review, Subscribe, Share
Diane and I list 5 signs you are NOT the IJ personality type (ISTJ, INTJ, INFJ, ISFJ).
Diane and I list 5 signs of the IJ personality type (ISTJ, INTJ, INFJ, ISFJ).
Today we have on BRITT of A Little Britt Of Fun. Essayist and opinionist, Britt is one of the internet's true treasures. Those who follow her are engrossed in her stories and live for her always-updated Patreon. In this episode we keep it fun and casual, talking Myers Briggs (Britt is an ISTJ), life in Austin, unpopular opinions, and more. If you ever wanted to hear more about Britt as a person- this episode is a good one! If you want to follow her on IG, head to @ALittleBrittOfFun and her patreon is here.
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