Podcast appearances and mentions of jamie rea

Jamie Rea is a Spiritual Transformation Teacher, Award-Winning Screenwriter, Filmmaker, Storyteller, Comedian and Comedy Writer. Jamie created his own healing modality “The Divine Energetics Method,” which he developed while going through his life-altering spiritual initiation, and now uses this process of “Energetic Mapping” in the body to help clients step into their body's innate divine capacity and power. Jamie has helped men and women all across the world to embody their God Frequency and break karmic ancestral patterns to step into their greatest embodied divine power and spiritual gifts. Jamie regularly lends his comedy talents to his teaching, combining a space of play, humor and lightness with the sacred healing work he does with his clients. Key topics include:  ⭐️ Choosing a Partner Who is Already Spiritual  ⭐️ What Is a Real and Deep Spiritual Practice ⭐️ Discerning Between Inner Knowing and Pain and Trauma  ⭐️ Trauma Bonding and Twin Flames ⭐️ Growing Out of an Attachment Style and Learning How to Love ⭐️ Holding on to the Relationship Out of Self-Preservation  ⭐️ Moving Into a Sovereign Space And Finding A Partner on That Level  ⭐️ Sacred Anger and Why It's Important for Our Sovereignty  ⭐️ Alchemizing  the Inner Grief and Clearing the Way for True Self-Worth ⭐️ The Effects from Integrating Anger   Connect With David - The Authentic Man:   Interested In Joining My Men's Community? Fill this in: https://forms.gle/AD83rgWTPzz1KQB77  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net  Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe Connect With Jamie Rea:    Website: jamienrea.com Facebook: facebook.com/jamienrea  Instagram: instagram.com/jamie.n.rea   

A Feminine Oracle is both freedom + radiance. She's a woman who has integrated + embodied her ancient gifts – a Spiritual Warrior who has dispelled the fear + terror in her body through initiation. So how do you get there? Listen as guest, Jamie Rea and I chat about becoming the Feminine Oracle, the importance of freedom + the role of the divine masculine in healing the collective feminine wound. You'll also hear:why men access their divine masculine through "dying in the feminine"understanding the difference of a divine masculinespace vs connection in relationships + how to get the balance rightwhat you can do to increase your capacity for exposure + vulnerabilityhow to journey all the way to sacred unionAccess my FREE 2-part audio DROP THE PRESSURE here. Connect with me @_nikkivoxx_ on Instagram here.

Jamie Rea, a spiritual teacher, teaches us about the journey to divine union and the transformation happening in relationships. Jamie shared insights on the importance of moving through karma, ancestral healing, and embodying the God frequency. We discussed the shift towards sacred union and the challenges of letting go of attachments in relationships. Jamie emphasized the need to protect one's timeline, declare desires for a sacred union, and trust in the process of surrendering to higher consciousness. The episode highlighted the significance of somatic practices, facing attachment trauma, and orienting towards the higher self to support the nervous system in releasing deep attachments. Overall, the conversation provided valuable insights into navigating the path towards divine union and embracing a new paradigm of relationships based on love, trust, and alignment with higher frequencies. Golden Nuggets From This Episode: ✨ "Sacred union, divine union is essentially two people individually who have found inner divine union with themselves, who've been spiritually initiated, meaning being punched in the pussy, punched in the dick by fucking God, on their path." ✨"Sacred union, divine union, I believe it's a closed container between two people." ✨"People that were able to take the big collective timeline jump, their own internal timeline jump, to move through enough karma, past life, ancestral, or own lifetime, to move into this divine frequency, this God-like energy, where higher chakras meets lower chakras, where earth meets sky, where heaven meets earth." ✨"You need to protect your timeline by Who really amplifies my rate, my frequency and my vibration and really know where you're going." ✨"You have to declare what you want. This timeline, relationally, is all about declaring absolutely every single fucking inch of your desires." ✨"Fear about shining others is how will other people respond? When, you know, maybe I have this incredible fucking relationship where we ravish each other, then you're around couples who, you know, have shit relationships or shit polarity." ✨"You have to make other people fucking uncomfortable with your power. Our power is polarizing." ✨"Attachment trauma is all in the eye-to-eye contact when we were an infant, looking for markers of safety in the expression of the face, right?" Connect More with : IG: @jamie.n.rea Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jamienrea More Lexy from Heart Snuggles: Holding Heartache Masterclass Sign Up: https://prosperous.alivetoenjoy.com/public/form/view/657833820e43ca003a7f3749 Email: heartsnuggles@alivetoenjoy.com Dating + Relationship Coaching - https://www.alivetoenjoy.com/work-with-me Instagram: Alivetoenjoy & Heart Snuggles Donations to help spread the heart snuggles: https://www.alivetoenjoy.com/heartsnuggles Timestamps from episode: 01:07 - Guest Introduction and Spiritual Teaching 02:45 - Random Act of Kindness 04:19 - Shameful Memory Around Love 05:52 - Discussion on Sexuality and Relationships 06:54 - Lingerie Tea Party and Cultural Differences 08:00 - Journey to Divine Union 10:31 - Navigating Karmic Relationships: 11:04 - Transition to Sacred Union 24:38 - Holding Heartache Ad 26:45 - Discussion on Open Relationships 26:57 - Shift in Relationship Dynamics Post-Pandemic 40:38 - Embodying God Frequency 42:48 - Practical Steps to Letting Go

This week Ash reconnects with Jamie Rea, a spiritual teacher known for his work in relationship dynamics and personal transformation.  Jamie and Ash dive deep into life transitions, the energetic shift amid the change, and the concept of 'home' and how it changes over time. Jamie opens up about how to prepare for and build a sacred union in a romantic relationship. This episode is here if you are ready to build a deeper love in partnership or prepare yourself for a new relationship in the future filled with love and depth. From ancestral trauma to twin flames and navigating karma…this episode is packed with answers to all your relationship dynamic questions. Don't miss it! In This Episode, You'll Learn: Navigating life transitions and shifts in energy. What happens when someone has leaky sexual energy? How to create strong, energetic boundaries.  Releasing and breaking free from karma and ancestral trauma. The role your ego plays in a relationship. The Reality of polarity in a relationship. Connect with Jamie Rea: https://www.instagram.com/jamie.n.rea/?hl=en Connect with Ash: https://www.instagram.com/ashleystahl/ Take a FREE Quiz to Discover Your Most Authentic Career Path: https://www.ashleystahl.com/freequiz/

Access my FREE 2-part audio series BlockBuster Bliss here. Your 8 minute, game-changing, gift of peace, that dissolves mental blocks and frees up energy for a clearer, more focused mind.Ever felt caught in a toxic struggle for power with your partner? Single + wanting to call in a real man that will ravish you like the Queen that you are? Today I chat with spiritual transformation teacher Jamie Rea as we dive into the realm of divine energetics, divine embodiment and divine union. Listen as he shares valuable insights to help you embody your own divine pathway + step into the God frequency.Access early-bird pricing for Jamie's RAVISHED program hereYou'll also hear:- how to be CLAIMED as a woman in your feminine source essence - what a Sacred Union is + how to release your protective barriers - how to access the 'God Frequency' within your relationship- why your ability to surrender + submit is your potent pathway to faster manifestation... and so much more!Connect with Jamie Rea here:IG - @jamie.n.reaConnect with me on Instagram @_nikkivoxx_ for more insights, inspiration and intentional updates. 

In this week's episode, Sophie dives into a magnetic dialogue with Spiritual Transformation Teacher and advocate for Divine Masculine, Jamie Rea. In this conversation, Jamie takes us on an enlightening journey where he shares how we he navigated through pain, awakening, and transformation. He talked about the energy dynamics between the masculine and the feminine, their unique spiritual paths, the testing nature of love, and discovering godliness in seemingly ungodly experiences. Brace yourself for a conversation that is as inspiring as it is polarizing, as enlightening as it is daring. Don't miss out—listen in!  02:25 Jamie's Spiritual Journey and Awakening 04:11 The Role of Pain in Spiritual Growth 08:21 Understanding the Divine Masculine and Feminine 17:40 The Challenges of Embracing Divine Masculine Energy 21:12 Perceptions of Masculine Energy and Its Impact 23:13 The Role of Feminine Energy in a Man's Life 27:43 Understanding the Relationship Between Masculine Energy and Anger 32:15 How to Inspire a Man to Embody Masculine Energy Jamie Rea is a Spiritual Transformation Teacher, Award-Winning Screenwriter, Filmmaker, Storyteller, Comedian and Comedy Writer. Jamie works in the realm of Divine Energetics, Divine Embodiment, and Divine Union, and helps people embody their own inner Divine Union to step into their own God Frequency within themselves. Jamie has helped men and women all across the world to embody their God Frequency and break karmic ancestral patterns to step into their own divine holy power. Jamie regularly lends his comedy talents to his teaching, combining a space of play, humor and lightness with the sacred healing work he does with his clients.  If you want to learn more about divine energetics, embodiment, and union, you can checkout his Instagram @jamie.n.rea, check out his website at www.jamienrea.com, or stay connect with him on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/jamienrea For more on Sophie Josephina, check out her work on instagram @sophie.josephina or www.sophiejosephina.com

Ready to explore your masculine side? Jamie Rea is here to share the process of amplifying your polarity, facing your anger, and becoming the man you've always wanted to be.    Join Kirsten and Jamie for a conversation on how to move energy so that you can become a better lover. This is a great episode to listen to if you are feeling stuck in your emotions or are looking for ways to connect more with your masculinity. Whether you are curious about polarity in relationships or are in need of guidance on having deeper orgasms, Jamie has insight and actionable tools for you to do right now.  Key Topics: Polarity in relationships and within yourself. Accessing anger to amplify your intimacy. The #1 way to open yourself up for full-body orgasms.   Connect with Jamie Rea https://www.instagram.com/jamie.n.rea/ Visit his website: jamie.n.rea.com   Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide.     This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes.    Connect with Kirsten Trammell www.thenakedconnection.com https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/   Boost your next naked moment!  Visit thenakedconnection.com/foria and try the Awaken Arousal Oil with CBD to intensify your woman arousal and pleasure.    

In this episode, Safa and Jamie Rea explore the power of shadow work and how it can help you step into your light. Shadow work is a deeply transformative process that involves facing and integrating the parts of yourself that you've been hiding or suppressing. By doing so, you can access your full potential and live a more authentic, fulfilling life. Safa and Jamie share their own experiences with shadow work and provide practical tips for anyone interested in exploring this process. They discuss the importance of self-awareness, discipline and delayed gratification, gratitude and acceptance how it can lead to greater self-love and inner peace. Check out Jamie's instagram @jamie.n.rea ---- Take your Shadow Work to the next level in my online Masterclass here Listen to: How the unintegrated shadow affects your body and energy field How to connect to your unconscious shadow parts The shadow of 'i don't know'

In today's episode I spoke with Jamie Rea a Relationship & Transformation Coach, Award-Winning Screenwriter, Filmmaker, Storyteller, Comedian and Comedy Writer. Jamie combines a deeply somatic and energetic approach to his coaching and healing work that helps move clients into deeper levels of integration and release inside the body, helping clients to unlock their power, claim their voice and connect deeply to their greatest soul potential. We dive into: · what it takes for a man to be in that space and to claim a woman · What holds men back from fully committing to themselves · Transformative and healing sex · what a masculine man looks for in a woman · Emasculation ⇢Jamie's Website: www.jamienrea.com ⇢Jamie's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jamienrea ⇢ Jamie's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamie.n.rea/ ⇢ Join the Men and Money Bundle: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/men-and-money-bundle/ ⇢ Follow the FAF instagram: https://www.instagram.com/feminineasfuck_/ ⇢ Read the blog: https://monicayates.com.au/226-talking-transformative-healing-sex-with-jamie-rea-what-masculine-men-need-what-it-takes-for-a-man-to-commit-and-what-emasculation-feels-like/ ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/

In this episode I chat with transformation coach & intuitive healer, Jamie Rea @jamie.n.rea on Instagram. We go deep into masculinity: both healthy and ‘toxic', and define what these mean, as well as how a man heals & shows up better for his woman. We also chat about how in relationship, safety is key, especially when it comes to healing. This episode is just full of gems relating to polarity, sacred sexuality, divine masculinity, and healing.

Jamie Rea is a transformational relationship, life and soul coach, a certified craniosacral therapist, energy worker, bodyworker, award-winning screenwriter, filmmaker, storyteller, and comedy writer, creator, and comedian. Jamie combines a deeply somatic and energetic approach to his coaching and healing work that helps move clients into deeper levels of integration and release inside the body, helping clients to unlock their power, claim their voice and connect deeply to their greatest soul potential. Jamie regularly lends his comedy talents to his teaching, combining a space of play, humor, and lightness with the sacred healing work he does with his clients. He is the creator and founder of The Deep & Dirty Collective, which combines Jamie's teachings with a playful, humorous, and dirty twist. In addition, Jamie regularly writes movies and TV shows for the film industry and writes, directs, and performs his own video content online that satirizes the spiritual and personal growth industries. Follow him on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamie.n.rea To learn more about his coaching and get in touch directly, click here: http://bit.ly/2MvO4sb _________________________________________ If you're interested in joining my monthly membership group, Team Never Giver Upper, with a workshop, group text, and live expert chat each month, click here for all the details: https://longdistancelovebombs.mykajabi.com/TEAM _________________________________________ Follow me on Instagram @LongDistanceLoveBombs: https://www.instagram.com/longdistancelovebombs Sign up for my weekly newsletter! Each week, I share a personal story and my favorite books, tunes, articles, and ideas. Click here: http://eepurl.com/T0l91. It's easy and takes five seconds. Check out a list of my favorite books here, including many my guests have written and recommend reading: https://www.amazon.com/shop/longdistancelovebombs --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/longdistancelovebombs/message

Jamie Rea is a transformational relationship and life coach, soul guide, and teacher. He is also an award-winning screenwriter, storyteller, and filmmaker, comedy writer, and creator. Jamie has written about relationships professionally for various digital publications across Canada, the US, and the UK for nearly a decade. Jamie has worked with both male and female clients all over the world to help them unlock their deepest soul potential, own their voice, and step into their power to create truly soul-satisfying love relationships.   Jamie regularly lends his comedy talents to his teaching, combining a space of play, humor, and lightness with the sacred healing work he does with his clients. In addition, Jamie is a performer, screenwriter, filmmaker, and comedian, and is regularly writing movies and TV shows for the film industry as well as writing, directing, and performing his own video content for the online space that satires the spiritual and growth industry.     Key topics discussed in this episode: Relationship dynamics Healthy masculine and feminine How to drop more into our hearts and bodies Somatics and energetics Codependency Reclaiming your voice and stepping into your full essence   Quotes:   “It's about finding that inner child before those ruptures took place, harnessing that little boy or little girl in our heart and soul and living with them and living for them. It really speaks to freedom. And we're after that freedom before we were told that we couldn't be free or that it wasn't safe to be free.”   Want to connect with Jamie? IG: @jamie.n.rea https://jamienrea.com/   -----------------------------------------   You can join Awaken Your Divine Feminine ANYTIME! Get ready to reclaim your erotic Goddess, come home to your body's wisdom, and soften into your power. Feel called to join? CLICK HERE!   FREEBIES: Knowing where to start can be overwhelming. Here you'll find a FREE GUIDE to support yourself in every area of Julianne's founded Goddess Approach™ Methodology… » Pump Up The Pleasure (How To Get Started Feeling Confident x Sexy With Self Pleasure) » Gut Guide (3 holistic gut healing hacks for amazing digestion, clear skin, & a happy mind) » Seed Cycling 101 (The top holistic strategy for regulating your cycle & kicking PMS symptoms) » Sweet x Salty Chocolate Coconut Cups (A healthy & super easy recipe to satisfy that sweet tooth) Click here to grab them all!     To learn more about Julianne's proven 5 Phase Methodology, the Goddess Approach™ -- CLICK HERE! There's more than one way to start your reclamation process

Jamie Rea is a Transformational Relationship & Life Coach, Soul Guide & Teacher, Award-Winning Screenwriter, Storyteller & Filmmaker, and Comedy Writer & Creator. He has written about relationships professionally for various digital publications across Canada, the U.S., and the U.K for nearly a decade. Jamie has worked with both male and female clients all over the world to help them unlock their deepest soul potential, own their voice and story, and create truly soul satisfying love relationships. Jamie regularly lends his comedy talents to his teaching, combining a space of play, humor and lightness with the sacred healing work he does with his clients. In addition, Jamie is also a Performer, Screenwriter, Filmmaker and Comedian, and is regularly writing movies and TV shows for the film industry, as well as writing, directing and performing his own video content for the online space that satirizes the spiritual and growth industries. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamie.n.rea/

Jamie Rea guides us from an under-functioning sensitive, shy kid into an award-winning filmmaker, writer, and actor.  How claiming personas can both support expression but risk getting lost in the identity. Marrying together the parts of ourselves we discover throughout our lives. The long journey through a dark time requires blazing a path, not finding it. Be willing to feel lost, feel uncertain, and feel lost in the dark times of life. Harnessing the uninhibited part of ourselves. The fear of coming into integrity requires the death of the part of us that fears being seen. We can't reach flow unless we're willing to meet the abyss. The healing of body connection in relation to shadow integration. The history and healing of over-functioners and under-functioners. The magnetic force between the opposing functions. The root cause being shame and how to heal/transcend it. Disembodiment from the neck up makes you numb. The power of working with where you are at and meeting ourselves tenderly and honestly with that. The admittance of flaws and ownership of power both being key elements in leading and teaching from embodiment. Meeting our grief so we can find our joy. Jamie Rea is a Transformational Relationship & Life Coach, Soul Guide & Teacher, Award-Winning Screenwriter, Storyteller, Filmmaker, and Comedy Writer & Creator. He has written about relationships professionally for various digital publications across Canada, the U.S., and the U.K for nearly a decade. Jamie works primarily with co-dependent under-functioning men and women all over the world to help them unlock their deepest soul potential, own their voice and step into their power, and create truly soul-satisfying love relationships. Jamie regularly lends his comedy talents to his teaching, combining a space of play, humor, and lightness with the sacred healing work he does with his clients. He is the Creator and Founder of The Deep & Dirty Collective, which combines Jamie's teachings with a playful, humorous, and dirty twist. In addition, Jamie is also a Performer, Screenwriter, Filmmaker and Comedian, and is regularly writing movies and TV shows for the film industry, as well as writing, directing, and performing his own video content for the online space that satirizes the spiritual and growth industries.

Wanting more of the Power Couple Podcast until Season 2 drops? Join the Legendary Love Academy HERE for weekly dating and relationship content exclusive to our community.Ready to meet and hang with other Legendary Lovers? Join our podcast afterparty club HEREJoin Kelsey's next drop in class: The Overfunctioners Guide to Optimal Functioning HERE **Be sure to use the promo code: PCP for $5 off registration!**

Wanting more of the Power Couple Podcast until Season 2 drops? Join the Legendary Love Academy HERE for weekly dating and relationship content exclusive to our community.Ready to meet and hang with other Legendary Lovers? Join our podcast afterparty club HEREJoin Kelsey's next drop in class: Rebuilding Relational Trust After It's Been Busted HERE

To connect with Ryan:Website: The Intimate LifestyleSexual and Emotional Mastery for Men program: HEREThe Noble Lover program: HERE Ready for more relational education?Join the Legendary Love Academy HERE for weekly dating and relationship content exclusive to our community.Ready to meet and hang with other Legendary Lovers? Join our podcast afterparty club HERE

Within every relationship, there comes a point (when we're out of the honeymoon phase) where we settle into a more automated track of relating with one another. In this more emotionally bonded place, the sex life of a couple can and often does shift a little. This normal experience, is understood as abnormal because we compare the relationship now to the honeymoon phase and we compare our reality to what we see in movies, tv, social media or assumptions we make about other friends who are in relationships...can really mess with the flow of a connection and disconnect you from the unique truth of how much sex is normal for you as a couple. In this episode we cover: • Where the idea of "what is normal" comes from• Why we compare our relationship reality to a constructed fantasy• Your ideal sex life has everything to do with knowing yourself deeply and intimately on an EMOTIONAL level• Why it is NORMAL for your sex life to change and vary and how to discuss this without shaming yourself or your partner• Why couples get into obligatory sex and why that is damaging to the connection and a huge act of self-abandon• Using sex as the gateway to deeper emotional intimacy vs as a way to celebrate the emotional intimacy already present•  The importance of having sex from a connected INTERNAL place as a way to set the most honest agreements and practices around intimacy.Ready for more relational education?Join the Legendary Love Academy HERE for weekly dating and relationship content exclusive to our community.Ready to meet and hang with other Legendary Lovers? Join our podcast afterparty club HERE

In this Power-Couple pre-game we're going there, we're talking about the healthy role masturbation plays when it comes to properly vetting someone in the dating phase. We share personal stories about how we've both individually cultivated a more shame-free relationship to our own sexuality and how to generate a devotional "self-love" practice on the regular ;) In this episode we cover: • The timeline of sex and dating is a completely personal one and how to decide what is truly aligned for you• The difference between compulsively masturbating to AVOID reality and intentionally masturbating to CONNECT deeper and more devotionally to yourself, your body, your desires and your reality.• Why masturbating is a good addition to your vetting process and how it helps to reveal more information about alignment, respect, connection and trust.• Why being super horny might be working against you when it comes to solid relational decisions.• The direct correlation between intentional masturbation and romance in the dating and relating spaces. Resources cited in this episode: Your sexual blueprint quiz: HEREYour erotic menu (aka what to do with your blueprint + how to bring it forward with a partner): HEREReady for more relational education? Join the Legendary Love Academy HERE for weekly dating and relationship content exclusive to our community. Ready to meet and hang with other Legendary Lovers? Join our podcast afterparty club HERE

What an absolute honour to close out this decade with another Power Couple Double Date episode with our dear friends Kendra and Jeremy. Both Jamie and I were present upon the inception of their love story last year and it was a true delight to sit down with them and hear the full unfolding of their story, the edges they have both had to meet in their union and how their unique pairing has allowed for deep healing and exploration of old material in new and more effective and integrated ways. We loved every bit of this playful, silly, deep and inspiring conversation and we know you'll absolutely adore it too! •In this episode •• The infamous Instagram DM slide that started it all.• The willingness to lean in and explore without being super duper attached to a specific outcome and how that shaped their relational unfolding.• An unconventional conversation about poop real early in that set the tone of honesty, transparency and connection right away.• Real examples of why you don't have to have it all together, be totally happy or completely healed to call in and keep great love worth having. • Honest stories of triggering moments and how they have worked with those triggers to create more intimacy and a unified collaborative union. • The balance between influencing your partner in a proactive way and allowing for their free will choice to be who they are. To stay up to date with these two love nuggets: Follow them on Instagram: Kendra Adachi: HEREDr. Jeremy Goldberg: HERETo get in on all their upcoming goodness: Kendra's Coaching Program: HERESparta Retreat: HERE

As we have seen, woundmates are a doozy. They hook us in all sorts of unrelenting ways right on down to the end. The back and forth. The on again off again. The hot breakup sex. The unclear boundaries. The deep desire to keep the energetic "hit" going even as the relationship crumbles. Yup. Thats a woundmate breakup. In this episode we explore: • Why woundmates are so hard to break up with• Why woundmate breakups are highly dysfunctional, volatile and do a number on your system• What is actually behind the intense impulse to stay friends with an ex• What conditions make it appropriate to stay friends with an ex• How heartmate breakups look and feel and the process they willingly walk when it comes to healing and resetting• If you're going to be legit friends with a ex, an effective breakup-friends protocol to follow• If you're going through a woundmate breakup, the protocol to assist your healing and move you towards heartmate territory in the future. Are you in our Legendary Love Club?!? It's the after show hangout for all ya'll to meet, connect, jam about the episodes, get access to our movie club (think movies meets relational education training...ya it's a super funzie mashup, and it's FREE). The more the merrier!! To get into the group you have to answer the 2 questions (don't worry we don't share these) as a way to make sure all the peeps in the love club are there for similar and aligned reasons. Get into the FREE Love Club HERE

In this episode we dive more deeply into the complex nature of woundmating and trauma bonding. It can be scary to think we're stuck as a woundmate once we've had one or two woundmatey experiences. But good news, it's not a fixed identity, and the degree of woundmating or heartmating that comes through a unique relational pairing has loads to do with how two people's energies, stories, histories and personalities jive. ***In this episode we cover: • Why the labels of woundmate and heartmate are actually more fluid than you may think.• Having woundmate relationships doesn't doom you for your relational future and some proactive aspects to have on your radar to heal and integrate from these woundmate dynamics• Common characteristics that make woundmating appealing to have on your radar. • When we heartmate- what that looks like and common characteristics to have on your radar. • Our "Anti-Woundmate Diet" + Heartmate Manifesto***Mentioned in this episode: To download the FREE Anti-Woundmate Diet + Heartmate Manifesto click HEREIf you're not already over kicking it with us and all the other amazing love legends in our Podcast After Show Party Facebook Group, come join us!Every week we do a movie club which includes a LIVE session with Kelsey, plus other relational and podcast discussions!When you request access you'll be prompted with two questions to answer. We only accept requests from those who have answered them. These answers aren't shared anywhere in the group, but act as the door person to ensure the community remains energetically aligned, clear and a safe relational space for all the best kinda weirdo's ;)Get in on it HERE

Welcome to the absolute funniest dating episodes to date. In this show Jamie reads our communities real life dating stories, while providing his signature comedic flair, commentary and insights guaranteed to make you LOL (or legit pee your pants with deep belly laughter). From stories about a 69 tinder date/car hijacking, to a Target lover date gone real wrong, to a date with a virtual reality adult entertainer, to the forbidden teenage love car chase... all of these stories are beyond wild, hilarious and legit WTF moments. If you need a genuine laugh or want to hear other stories that make you feel less alone with some of your dating nightmares give this a listen.  Want more of Jamie and his brilliance? - Apply to work with Jamie HERE- Join the email list HERE (Early access to the Love Legends Membership will be shared exclusively to our newsletter posse).- Get in on the after-show Facebook group HERE (be sure to answer the preliminary questions when prompted to receive access to the love club) 

We're thrilled to bring our friend Silvy to the show today to grace all of you Love Legends with her incredible wisdom, insight and knowledge on all things attachment theory. Silvy is a relationship coach who specializes in attachment theory work and boundaries. FRIENDS....she's THE BEST. We love her so much and were so honoured to have this time to showcase her brilliance, expertise and give you all a backstage pass to one of our favourite relationship educators, coaches and expert in this relational field.*Some of our favourite moments from this interview: • When your attachment system is stressed how that can play out and impact your relationship and relating experiences• Attachment flair ups can trick us into pre-maturely leaving a good relationship (and how to work with this so you don't)• How to deal if you or your partner's attachment styles activates an unconscious desire to threaten the relationship • The connection old childhood wounds/memories play in our attachment bonds in relationships• Tracking your common denominator patterns• Our attachment wounds are a result of relationship and so they are healed in the container of relationship (friendship counts too)• There is only a certain degree of self-awareness we can cultivate on our own and when in the container of relationship we get the opportunity to integrate and expand that awarenessSilvy Khoucasian earned her Master's Degree in Psychology from the MFT program at Phillips Graduate Institute, and her bachelor's degree in Sociology from the University of California, Santa Barbara. She has coached hundreds of people through Self-Discovery, Transformational, and Leadership programs. Her approach leaves her coaching clients feeling empowered, accountable, and ready to create meaningful changes in their lives.Connect with Silvy: Her website HERE Instagram HEREFacebook HEREReady to join our Legendary Love Club...aka our aftershow community hangout? Yes? Yes! Get into the group HERE

Every relationship pairing will bring forward different aspects of our attachment wiring, and we're setting you up to explore each unique relational attachment pairing and work with it effectively. In this episode: • Attachment wiring is fluid and each new pairing will activate different aspects of your attachment style. • In a poor attachment pairing we see both people's wiring combining in a way where it is difficult to advocate for their personal needs and boundaries. • We share our histories with different past partners and how it influenced our attachment activations. • We explore our personal relationship and the primary attachment wiring we experience with one another. • We out our secondary attachment wiring that comes out in times of extreme stress and what triggers our attachment flare ups. • How to understand your partners attachment needs in a way that is relationally supporting AND creates space for your attachment needs to be tended to as well. • Creating an attachment needs gameplan as a couple. • This week's MOVIE CLUB/STORY TIME: Forgetting Sarah Marshall Ready to join the FREE Legendary Love Club? aka our Podcast Afterparty Hangout group? We'll be doing weekly movie clubs to go along with the "Story Time" movie in each weekly episode + exclusive discussions about the monthly episodes + regular community Q/A's, opportunities to make connections with fellow poddies, AKA make aligned friends, meet amazing humans who not only are listening to this work too but VALUE growth and healthy relationships.... ;) and so much more...all for FREE. Read to join the community? Get in on that goodness HERE

This month we're exploring the very trendy and hot topic of attachment styles. You know the patterns you unconsciously have related to the way you bond emotionally within romantic relationships. A lot of dating and relating stresses can be connected to our attachment system going haywire and not having the tools and understanding to WORK WITH this part of ourselves. Here's the thing, your attachment wiring isn't going anywhere. You can't will it away. You can't hide it. You can't out run it. But you can create intimacy with it. Doing so helps you feel much more grounded in dating, aligned within yourself and connected to make the best relational (and attachment) choice possible. **In this episode we cover: ** • The basics of the four attachment styles in our signature comedic style. • How each style is instictively pulled to pace in the dating phase. • Why the Fantasy Bond is fucking up your dating, pacing and vetting and how to reign that sabotour in. • Taking inventory on ourselves in the most HONEST way- discerning the way you WANT to act vs the way you ACTUALLY act when it comes to your dating life. • Why humility and truth telling on yourself soothes and nourishes your attachment systems needs AND sets you up to date more congruently. • Our NEW PODCAST AFTERPARTY POSSE ANNOUNCEMENT • This week's MOVIE CLUB/STORY TIME: Runaway Bride **Mentioned in this episode: ** To take the best attachment quiz (in our humble opinion) click HERE Ready to join the FREE Legendary Love Club? aka our Podcast Afterparty Hangout group? We'll be doing weekly movie clubs to go along with the "Story Time" movie in each weekly episode + exclusive discussions about the monthly episodes + regular community Q/A's, opportunities to make connections with fellow poddies, AKA make aligned friends, meet amazing humans who not only are listening to this work too but VALUE growth and healthy relationships.... ;) and so much more...all for FREE. Read to join the community? Get in on that goodness HERE

Breakups obviously are never fun to navigate, but what if there was a HUGE piece of preventative relational medicine that so many people miss? Well good news, there is. It's called owning how you co-create your relational shit goggles. In this very open and vulnerable episode we "out" our shadow material and share with you the core negative images we hold about one another and how that gasp actually creates more rapport and closeness. Not a clue what we're on about? Well tune in for these nuggets: • The core negative image you hold of your partner, becomes the thing you're combating most. • When we exaggerate the negative aspects of a partner it's a way to create psychological and emotional distance (usually because we could use some sprucing up of our boundaries). • If we can't own up to the ways in which we're difficult, the ways we're difficult will own us (and sabotage our relationship). • The top ways Jamie is difficult. • The top ways Kelsey is difficult. • Jamie's core negative image of Kelsey • Kelsey's core negative image of Jamie. • How knowing and outing these pieces has and does impact our relationship. • How reparenting helps to calm down the core negative image, take responsibility for our annoying and difficult aspects, and ground into a much more emotionally intimate space within the relationship container. If you're currently struggling with a breakup, and need guided support through the process, you can access our Heal Your Heartbreak course HERE To make sure you're staying up to date on all things relational education that we don't cover on the podcast be sure to hop on our Legendary Love email list HERE P.s. The CNI concept was created by Terry Real, we're a big fan, you can check him out HERE P.s.s. The "how we're difficult" is a process used by Stan Tatkin, also huge fans, you can find him HERE

Overfunctioning is the other half of the dysfunctional dance so many couple's find themselves in. In this week's Powercouple Game Time episode we're exploring the in's and outs of overfunctioning. As a recovering overfunctioner, Kelsey is in the hot seat this week. Being interviewed by Jamie, she generously gives the audience access into the experience of the overfunctioner as well as some solid action steps to begin healing this pattern if you're (or someone you know) is overfunctioning and has the desire to become more optimal functioning in their life AND in their relationship. In this episode • What is an overfunctioner, and what is the relational and psychological definition? • Where the roots of overfunctioning often begin. • The internal anxieties that come with overfunctioning and the unconscious coping behaviours to minimize and numb the feelings we can't be with. • Overfunctioners while high performers have traded being loved for being needed. • The disjointed relationship to needs, boundaries and emotional regulation that overfunctioners experience. • The overfunctioners hidden need for control hides a very deep vulnerability. • The covert manipulations that go on underneath the conscious awareness of an overfunctioner and the impact this has on relationship safety, intimacy and fulfillment. • Overfunctioners over reliance on the inner masculine and the rejection of minimization of the inner feminine. • Reclaiming surrender, emotional safety and interal autonomy as the pathway to healing. Ready to join our academy and receive your weekly dose of relational education ONLY available to academy members? Ya of course you do! Get in on that goodness HERE

So many dating disasters can often be boiled down to a lack of reparenting on both people's parts. Without learning to reparent ourselves, we'll continue to dump our unresolved debris on every new love story we walk into- so one might say this is mighty important. **In this week's episode we break it down: ** • What reparenting is. • Why reparenting is essential regurdless of your age, experience or how much "work" you've done. • Whatever was missed in early childhood healthy development is your demon childs biggest power play AND your key to liberation from your toddler tyrants tyranny. • Why reparenting is a challenge and the normalcy of resisting this work. • The revelation of our biggest areas of reparenting individually and how this impacts our relationship. • The drama in dating and it's direct links to a lack of reparenting. • Our top 10 tips to begin your reparenting journey. If you want even more love and relationship education be sure to join our school! Each week we send out exclusive newsletters, content, exercises and offerings to our inner circle community at The Legendary Love Academy. Join the community HERE

You can't begin a healthy relationship until you know how to end a relationship with grace, honour and respect. So many people simply don't know how to end a relationship from a place of love. But here is the deal, if you loved each other at the start, to truly honour the essence of love, it is important we bring love into the ending. Even when it hurts, even when you're in pain, we have the choice to act with honour and love. But this is a skill, one that is rarely modeled. In this week's episode we give you the step by step to creating a breakup plan TOGETHER and the importance of ending relationships with more respect, consideration and kindness. Show Notes • Why breakup plans are important and why many people avoid operating at this level of intentionality and practicality. • How a breakup plan contributes to more integrity, intentionality and safety for the entirety of your relationship. • The play by play of our breakup plan that we co-created at the start of our relationship and what it entails. • The 10 Steps to support your breakup agreement co-creation. ** If you want to receive more weekly relational education nuggets, exclusive challenges and practices and first access to any new programs, retreats, events and announcements, join our relational education academy, Legendary Love Academy HERE If you're going through heartbreak right now and want support in healing and repairing your broken heart, you can grab our Heal Your Heartbreak self-study program HERE

The Power Couple Threesome episode with Raphel Cano is not one to be missed. Not only is Raphel and incredibly talented artist, who graces this world with his love infused advocacy, but his brilliant light shines through in this fun, playful and gigglefilled episode. Show Notes • How regular body movement is directly correlated with confidence in dating. • What dating from a place of mind, body and soul alignment looks like. • When you have filtering googles of sexy authenticity on, how it expands positive dating experiences. • When you live in a culture that prioritizes physical attractiveness as the main vetting filter, how to let the soul take the wheel to experience more fulfillment and success. • How to support men in getting out of their heads and into their body and experience embodiment more often. • How clarity of intentions in dating shifts depending on where you live, culturally and where you are in your journey. • The differences between dating in ee centred dating vs me centered dating experiences. • How to dial back desire for a specific outcome and dial up the allowance for space to enjoy the experience of healthy human connection. • What's behind forcing misaligned connections and how we can allow more aligned connections space to thrive. • The difference between needy dating and committed based dating. Raphael's Bio: Raphael Cano is a Vibrant Love & Soul Divine Shine Activist with the intention of spreading love around the world through many different mediums. His work comes alive through his actions of painting love murals, gifting love stickers, love letters, love conversations via his podcast ‘Love Is Our Truth', and a self love & healing book coming out within the year. He began his journey with #loveisourtruth murals and has quickly become one of our favorite soul shine humans that is planting seeds of vibrant love around the world. His Self awakening, healing, and empowerment through divine shine is really helping people remind them of their divine shine and our collective ability to elevate both our consciousness as well as our communities! His smile says it all. Connect with Raphael: WEBSITE INSTAGRAM

There is a big difference between understanding the theory of repair and actually practicing it in real time. While most people understand the value of relational repair and conflict resolution, many are also ill equipped to navigate these challenging pockets when they come. In this week's episode we share with you a recent challenge we encountered as a couple, the breakdown that ensued, how our tyrant toddlers attempted to take over, how we soothed those inner demon children so we could come back to a place of repair, understanding and moving powerfully through a conflict that was deeply triggering for both of us. Show Notes • Our 8 step process from breakdown to repair. • Why taking time outs is healthy and how to do that without rupturing connection even when you're pissed at each other. • How to own your triggers, unpack them and bring them to the repair conversation from a place of accountability and commitment to do better in the future. • Why the quickest way to implode your relationship and delay/destroy repair is to fight over text. • How to communicate your needs and boundaries around repairing and restoring connection. • The importance of face-to-face communication, the use of "I" statements and the revelation of vulnerability and appreciation, during repair. • The future game-plan is the indicator the repair conversation is complete. Stay up to date with all the magic we're up to including our upcoming Relational Repair webinar by joining the email list at our school: www.legendaryloveacademy.com

In this week's episode we're rocking a Power Couple Podcast Threesome with our amazing friend, colleague and all around bad-ass Amy Young. Show Notes • The importance of taking ownership over our dating and love lives. • Navigating the discomfort of coming into full bodied alignment with what it is you're looking for in another person. • Accountability and sex appeal. • Giving up our dating victimhood mentalities and showing up more fully for ourselves first. • Why follow through boosts the healthy relationship you have with you. • Our love of Will Smith's wisdom and how it plays into high quality dating. • The link between intimacy and imperfection. When we're obsessed with perfection in relationships and dating there is no room for true intimacy. • Why "seeing the good ones" has everything to do with what you're actually intent on seeing. • The difference between discernment and picky judgment. • Just because someone is a good human doesn't make them a good partner for you. Pay attention to the full picture. • Attention isn't love. How to move from needy to honoring our needs. Looking for more Amy? Find her on instagram HERE More on her work HERE More love and relationship goodness can be found at our academy: www.legendaryloveacademy.com

This week's episode Power Couple Game Time (all about relationships) explores the inner workings of healthy relationships and the high quality character required to make them run smooth. Show Notes • The signs of low quality character to be on the look out for (in yourself and in others). • What happens when your toddler tyrant hijacks your relationship and how to regain control of the relational steering wheel. • The top signs of high quality character to strive to embody within your relationship. • Why mismanaging threats to your relationship is a sign of low quality character and how to protect the health of your dynamic duo. • The physical and relational benefits of developing high quality character. • A real life look into our relationship and how we navigate those times when we've been triggered and we co-regulate back to a state of alignment. • Why having guiding principals and agreements you co-create is critical to have a container of mutual growth, healthy connection and emotional attunement. • The inside scoop on your inner child and how to develop a special couple "code" to keep your connection vibrant, safe and protected. HERE is the link to download the FREE guide book to

Jamie Rea is an energetic whirlwind of genius and hilarity. Aside from being a breath of fresh air spewing profane philosophy designed to help you live your best life, he's an award-winning screenwriter, actor, and comedian, and he's also a brilliant relationship coach who works with people one-on-one and via his new online relationship school, the Legendary Love Academy, that he founded with his partner, Kelsey Grant (@radicalselflove, my guest on this podcast in Episode #2). You can find him online here, and you can follow him on Instagram here (@jamie.n.rea). Oh, and if you're interested in hiring him as a coach, click here. Strap your seat-belt on for this one! __________________________________________________ Follow me on Instagram @LongDistanceLoveBombs: https://www.instagram.com/longdistancelovebombs Sign up for my weekly newsletter! Each week, I share a personal story as well as my favorite books, tunes, articles, and ideas. Click here: http://eepurl.com/T0l91. It's easy and takes five seconds. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/longdistancelovebombs/message

Breakups are tough, and they are especially difficult when it comes to staying in alignment with ourselves. Show Notes: • Why when in heartbreak the rejection we experience can trigger deeper self-rejection- which only amplifies the pain and heartache we feel. • How to stop the self-abandonment and self-rejection in heartbreak. • How you can honor your hurt, honor your pain without losing yourself in it. • What alignment in a breakup really means. • Kicking the glamorization of the relationship and connecting to the reality of the situation. • How to continue to act congruently with the love dream in your heart. Keeping it together in our compassionate self-alignment when you're falling apart is an art that true love asks of us, and we're here to show you how it's done. To download the journaling questions HERE Need some support in navigating your heartbreak? Want to heal your heart properly and process the ending in a way that keeps you on the path to true love? Our Heal Your Heartbreak course is your access through. Get it HERE For more love support head on over to the Legendary Love Academy HERE Work With Jamie HERE Work With Kelsey HERE

In this first Power-Couple Double date we have our dear friends, and real-life power couple Kylie McBeath and Mark Groves on to have a dinner table chat about alignment, true love, what it takes to make partnership work and an inside look into the heart of their relationship. Show Notes • Is true love recognition of yourself in another? • The importance of co-creation in healthy partnership. • The link between freedom and true love...it's not what you might think. • The importance of alignment when co-creating a true love partnership. • Real life relationship boundaries, the cues partners are tuned into, connection to self-care routines that keep love thriving. • The import role sisterhood/brotherhood plays in breaking though relational upperlimits. • What creates emotional safety and security within both people. • Low negativity threshold/dealing with conflict as a gateway to deeper relational expansion. • Power couples depend and rely on one another, while still staying in their respective lanes. • True love and the revelation of imperfections. Low negativity threshold/dealing with conflict as a gateway to deeper relational expansion. • Power couples depend and rely on one another, while still staying in their respective lanes. • True love and the revelation of imperfections. • Re-parenting in partnership. • The unique gifts they have given to one another within the container of their partnership. More of Kylie's magic can be found HERE Kylie's Instagram: @beingisbeautiful More of Mark's magic can be found HERE Mark's Instagram: @createthelove

We hear this all the time "where are the good guys at?" "where are the good women at? "where are the good PEOPLE at?" And we get you, it can be a gnarly crapshoot out in the world of dating these days. So, we're here to help you cut through the crap so you can enter into the VIP dating space where ALL the GOOD ONES are hanging out, ready to create something EPIC with someone EPIC! In the show we cover: • What living in alignment actually means. • Creating a life that feels good to YOU to be in first • Generating alignment in dating • Ditching the negativity and finding value in every date you go on • How to build the BEST Dating Filter • The importance of pre-date rituals Confident Dating Program Registration: HERE Build-a-Bae Virtual Workshop Registration: HERE

Episode Breakdown: • The initial boundaries you need post breakup • How to ensure your friends and family don't unintentionally make your healing process harder. • Navigating social media after a breakup • Why boundaries are harder after a breakup and how to make that process a little easier on your aching heart. • The 10 Breakup Boundary Commandments all healing hearts need to heal properly and stay open to the dream of love in their hearts. • How to source out additional support for your emotional healing. To download your copy of the 10 Breakup Boundary Commandments click HERE For additional support in healing your heartbreak properly, our Heal Your Heartbreak Program can be found HERE

In this week's debut we dive into the fundamentals of: • What are boundaries and how to have clear and powerful boundaries with yourself. • The 5 essential boundaries you need to have when dating (if you are dating for the long-term/partnership). • How to strengthen your dating boundaries. • Better boundaries with yourself 101. • How to practice your boundaries on your friends. • Your practical implementation exercises for better personal and dating boundaries. Access to our upcoming Confident Dating 6 Week Virtual Group Coaching Program kicks off with our free dating challenge. For more details email us at @rsl@kelseygrant.com

Simon Smith and guests talk about the work that goes on behind the scenes of secret filming and the safeguards that need to be in place before filming even starts. With Su Pennington, head of editorial policy for BBC Factual programming, Jamie Rea, executive producer of Mark and Sam's Big Friday Wind Up for CBBC, Jo Vaughan-Jones, series producer of Watchdog and Rogue Traders and Paul Kenyon, reporter of Kenyon Confronts and Panorama.