Sex and Bacon

What if the person you trusted most turned out to be living a double life? In this gripping, raw, and deeply courageous episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, Sarah sits down with Amanda Quick—author of The Sex Trafficker's Wife—to unravel the unthinkable: what happens when the man you married, the father of your children, is arrested for trying to purchase underage girls. Amanda shares her story with jaw-dropping honesty, walking us through the emotional rollercoaster of betrayal, trauma bonding, courtroom battles, and reclaiming her voice after years of manipulation and gaslighting. This isn't just true crime—it's a masterclass in resilience, motherhood, and choosing yourself when the world expects you to stay quiet.

Is reading smut mental cheating? Or is it the secret weapon to a more empowered, pleasure-filled life? In this juicy, no-holds-barred episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, Sarah sits down with erotica author and podcaster Ruan Willow to explore the world of erotic romance, female desire, and why stories that turn women on are about so much more than sex. From reclaiming "dirty" words to using fiction as foreplay, Ruan breaks down how smut, sensual stories, and sex-positive conversations can actually heal shame, unlock confidence, and transform relationships. Whether you're new to erotic lit or a longtime lover of open-door romance, this episode is a spicy invitation to rethink what turns you on—and why that's more powerful than you've been told.

Most men think they've got sex all figured out… but what if that confidence is exactly what's keeping them from mind-blowing connection? In this candid and wildly eye-opening episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, Sarah is joined by Dallas Bluth, founder of Black Box Dating, to explore why so many men misunderstand what truly turns women on—and how they can flip the script for good. From porn culture and rushed foreplay to emotional unavailability and outdated masculinity myths, this convo dives into the core of male sexuality, desire, and how to create actual intimacy (that leads to the hottest sex of your life).

In this episode of Sex & Bacon, I sit down with the always unfiltered Darby for a rollercoaster ride through dating disasters, sexual awakenings, and the spiritual side of swearing off men—temporarily. We talk throuples, field apps, hat-fishing, giant dicks (that miss the G-spot), and the kind of kissing that makes you question if you even like the person. And then—curveball—Sarah shares her very real journey of trying celibacy… for six months. Kind of. Maybe. We'll check back in 30 days. Get ready for big laughs, bigger truths, and the kind of late-night convo you'd only have with your best friend and a half-empty glass of wine.

In this episode of Sex & Bacon, I'm joined by the vibrant and soulfully wise Shay Moore—a licensed marriage and family therapist with a love for all things messy, magical, and real when it comes to relationships. Together, we dive deep into the labyrinth of modern love, friendships, dating dilemmas, and the wild ride of being a woman who's trying to figure it all out without losing herself in the process. Shay brings raw honesty and therapeutic insight as we unpack the complexities of love, the importance of female friendships, and why your girlfriends really are your soulmates (even if they cook you dinner instead of sending flowers).

In this episode of Sex&Bacon, I'm joined by the incredibly brave Katey Rickert for a raw, unfiltered conversation about healing after sexual assault, reclaiming power, and the long, winding road of recovery. Katey opens up about her personal story—one that is heart-wrenching, courageous, and deeply human. Together, we unpack the dark aftermath of trauma, the complexities of consent, and how writing, movement, and connection helped her return home to herself.

In this episode of Sex and Bacon, Sarah Davis joins me for a no-holds-barred conversation about dating today—from navigating the wild world of dating apps to uncovering what we truly want in a partner. We get real about expectations, self-sabotage, and why so many of us keep attracting the same type of relationships.

In this episode of Sex and Bacon, Sarah sits down with executive coach and self-sabotage expert Minh-Thu Lam from Higher Alignment Consulting to uncover the sneaky ways we sabotage our own happiness—especially in relationships. From unspoken needs and toxic patterns to the role of the nervous system in love, this deep and raw conversation reveals why we keep making the same mistakes and, more importantly, how to break free.

In this episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, we're kicking off a brand-new series—The Dating Circle! Host Sarah introduces us to two incredible women, Jess and Tina, as they embark on their dating journeys, sharing all the juicy details, awkward encounters, and hard-earned lessons along the way. From navigating dating apps and ghosting to defining what they're really looking for in a partner, this candid conversation is filled with laughs, surprises, and some hard truths about modern dating.

In this episode of the Sex & Bacon podcast, I'm joined by Corey Ossum, an addiction recovery coach, emcee, and construction professional, who shares his journey of transformation.  Corey opens up about his struggles with addiction, the pivotal moments that inspired change, and how he's now helping others navigate their recovery paths. From the importance of redefining one's legacy to finding joy and purpose after addiction, Corey's story is both raw and inspiring.

Have you ever wondered how a change in persona could reignite the spark in your relationship? In this episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, I'm joined by  Katie Runyan, founder of Faithful Fling and a roleplay sex expert.  Katie shares her journey into roleplay, starting with a bold experiment in her own marriage that evolved into a successful venture helping couples reignite their connection through creative roleplay scenarios. Katie explains how roleplay can break monotonous routines, enhance intimacy, and keep monogamy exciting while providing listeners with tips and resources to explore their own fantasies safely within their relationships. We get into:  00:00 Introduction 00:04 Meet Katie Runyan: Roleplay Expert 01:29 The Birth of Faithful Fling 05:00 Exploring Roleplay Scenarios 07:19 Overcoming Vulnerability and Rejection 09:34 Starting Your Roleplay Journey 19:15 Popular Roleplay Scenarios 30:52 Transform Your Room with Minimalistic Art 31:36 Roleplay Date Essentials: Tips and Tricks 33:50 Keeping Monogamy Hot with Roleplay 35:43 Workshops and Webinars for Overcoming Insecurities 39:13 The Importance of Emotional Security in Roleplay 40:04 Creating a Sensual Atmosphere 41:07 Personal Consultations and Future Goals 42:16 The Power of Roleplay in Relationships 50:28 Embracing Sensuality and Confidence 57:37 Final Thoughts and Contact Information Connect with Katie Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/faithfulfling/  https://www.faithfulfling.com/    Connect with me Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sexandbacon1065  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In this episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, Andrew Daniel joins me to talk about sexual polarity, holistic sex, and emotional vulnerability from a man's perspective. Andrew helps us navigate important issues on men's perceptions of masculinity, societal expectations of gender roles, and the influence of these elements on personal relationships. He highlights the significance of emotional maturity and self-awareness as key to creating genuine intimacy and having a fulfilling sex life. Andrew suggests that by embracing vulnerability, men can enhance every facet of their life, from relationships to professional success. Andrew Daniel is an award-winning and international bestselling author and director at the Center for Cinesomatic Development. His Cinesomatics® workshops are held internationally from New York to London, Tuscany to Switzerland—helping professionals see the elusive patterns that hold them back. This methodology leads the world in cinematic movement diagnostics and advanced intuition development integrating approaches from embodiment, shadow work, therapy, and spirituality. His book, Awaken to Your True Self, is a gold Nautilus Book Awards recipient and #1 Amazon bestseller in the US & UK. In his early career, Andrew coded a particle and physics engine by the age of 18⁠, used by top Fortune 100 companies over the 7 years of his software business. His first teaching work, Holistic Sex (Mindvalley, 2014), provided the world with a new paradigm that bridged the divide between sexuality, spirituality, and the sexes. Andrew is also an advisor for the Alan Watts Organization. We get into:  [0:00] Intro [2:48] Why men comes to him for help [7:32] Why men do not feel supported in embracing the masculine and feminine [16:21] Intimacy is more than just sex [21:53] Battle of the sexes [24:19] Making someone's pleasure your pleasure [28:12] Revisiting our north american views on sex and intimacy vs. other countries [36:51] When your body is at odds with your brain [38:50] Developing self awareness [45:46] What is sexual polarity [52:21] Control and safety [56:59] Tips for men to start being introspective with themselves and their experiences Connect with Andrew https://andrewdaniel.org     Connect with me Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com   

In this episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, we talk all about the taboo subject of talking about money in relationships. My guest, Marci Grossman, highlights how financial stress is a significant contributor to a couple's sex life disruption. Marci discusses the importance of being financially literate to avoid money-related issues in relationships.  The conversation also focuses on the impact of financial responsibility in relationships, addressing key factors like communication about earnings, debt, retirement, and savings. We also talk about the importance of having open conversations about financial expectations and circumstances when dating or entering a relationship, and how to manage finances responsibly whenever there's a major shift in life (like losing a job).  Marci Grossman is a CPA with over 30 years of experience helping individuals and businesses with financial matters. She has worked in public, private, and non-profit accounting. Her passion is helping people to improve their relationship with money.  We get into:  [0:00] Intro [2:43] My own experience in my marriage surrounding money [6:15] The conversations about money that need to be had before marriage, and Marci's experience in her own marriage [10:20] Should we put money together or keep it separate? [12:40] Why do people avoid conversations about money while dating [14:20] Are there money deal breakers in a relationship? [18:35] The problems that finances can cause [20:05] Mental health struggles with financial burdens [25:50] Tips for couples to start to look at their finances and set themselves up to be in a better position [27:15] How much to save for an emergency and retirement [33:10] The generational differences between our parents and us Connect with Marci Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/money.marci/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MoneyMarci/  Links: https://www.moneymarci.com/links  www.moneymarci.com    Connect with me Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com   

In this episode, we return from a brief break and introduce Ava, a Tantric expert, who was previously on the podcast, and who I've been working with over the last six months.  We talk all about the various types of female orgasms including clitoral, G-spot, cervical, U-spot, A-spot, P-spot, and anal orgasms. We also talk about how expecting a specific outcome, such as a particular type of orgasm, can limit one's ability to fully experience pleasure, emphasizing that tantric practices are more about healing and self-exploration than only focusing on achieving orgasms. The episode highlights the importance of effective communication, understanding one's emotions, and establishing safety and connection on a physical and emotional level during sex. We also touch on societal misconceptions about pleasure, trauma, and our intricate connections to sexuality. Ava is a Transformational Therapist and Tantra Healer certified by the only government accredited institute of tantra in the entire world - The Institute of Authentic Tantra! She has over 1,700+ hours of training in the field of tantra, as well as psychological, emotional, and spiritual healing modalities. Ava believes that healing shouldn't take years, and primarily guides men, women, and couples through a unique and holistic approach to healing and sexual fulfillment.  We get into:  [0:00] Intro [1:25] Why we're talking about orgasms [2:30] What does it really mean to orgasm  [5:50] The emotional side of an orgasm [10:00] Is there a rank of which orgasm is the best? [15:05] G-spot orgasms  [25:45] GSpot crystal wand, stimulation, squirting [30:30] U-Spot Orgasm [35:35] Cervical orgasm [40:50] A spot orgasm [42:55] Finding these spots for yourself [58:55] Anal orgasms [1:07:00] Sexual trauma and the resistance people might feel when they first start this work Connect with Ava Instagram: https://www.flamewithintantra.com/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100087647945726&mibextid=ZbWKwL    Connect with me Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com   

In this episode, we explore the profound impact of relationship trauma on Alyssen's journey and how it has shaped her work. Join us as she candidly shares personal stories, shedding light on the transformative power of addressing past wounds to create healthier relationships.   Continuing the conversation, we delve into the fascinating realm of hormonal fluctuations and the effects of birth control on our sex drives. Uncovering the scientific and psychological aspects, we examine how birth control can influence our intimate lives. Additionally, we talk about the importance of anticipation and scheduling intimacy, sharing practical tools to create deeper connections. We get into:  [0:00] Intro [1:45] The relationship trauma that brought Alyssen into this work [4:35] The impact of birth control on our hormones and sex drives [9:40] Anticipating and scheduling intimacy [13:30] The expectations of how many times you should have sex per day or week [16:40] Why people don't like talking about sex [18:40] Needing to do the inner work when it comes to dating [24:45] Tools to help you do that work [28:00] Being alone vs. filling a void [31:40] Knowing your boundaries and what you will and won't put up with [39:55] Do men attract the same women over and over?   Connect with Alyssen Instagram: https://instagram.com/Elevated.aspects_ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100087647945726&mibextid=ZbWKwL    Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com   

In this episode, we explore the world of women's health and fibroids with LaToya Dwight. Through her personal journey and experiences, LaToya shares valuable insights on topics such as the impact of diet, advocating for oneself, managing intimacy, and addressing bias in the medical industry, while also shedding light on her non-profit organization dedicated to supporting women affected by fibroids.   Discover the challenges women face when dealing with fibroids and gain a deeper understanding of the symptoms that lead to questioning one's health. Explore practical solutions and alternative approaches for those who prefer non-medical routes, all while being inspired by LaToya's passion for empowering women and her unwavering commitment to raising awareness and providing support in the realm of fibroids.   As a wife, mother, sister, daughter, and loyal friend, LaToya Dwight embarked on a fibroid healing journey after learning about the dis-ease of uterine fibroids by happenstance, when going to her OB/GYN to have an IUD replacement. Leaving the doctors office with little to no guidance, LaToya felt compelled to take her health into her own hands. Participating in various coaching programs, doing yoga, qi gong, meditation, deep breathing exercises, eating for her blood type, and even going vegan, all led LaToya down a lonely 4 year long journey.    After having a successful, minimally invasive procedure, LaToya felt compelled to tell her story in an effort to help someone else. This birthed The Fibroid Pandemic! It's mission is to provide resources to humans with a uterus who are seeking to overcome fibroids through education, support, and tools in order to best advocate for oneself.    We get into:  [0:00] Intro [1:35] How LaToya got into this work [4:10] Finding out she had fibroids [6:15] Did her IUD cause fibroids? [8:15] How diet impacts fibroids [10:30] The symptoms that made her question her health [15:55] Advocating for yourself and getting second opinions [18:35] Was sex painful with fibroids? [20:20] Could she orgasm [22:45] How her flare ups happen [26:50] The bias in the medical industry [30:20] About her non-profit organization [32:50] Safe products women can use during their cycles [37:35] The biggest struggle women face when it comes to fibroids [42:20] What to do if you don't want to go the medical route   Connect with Latoya Instagram: https://instagram.com/thefibroidpandemic Website: www.thefibroidpandemic.com     Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com   

In this episode, Kerin shares her inspiring background and triumph over eating disorders, challenging deeply ingrained belief systems formed at a young age.  Explore the power of nourishing your body with foods that make you feel good and delve into the impact of weight on your dating life. Discover the mindset of a confident woman who knows her worth and unravel the toxic patterns that hinder meaningful connections. Gain insights into cultivating a balanced approach to working out, eating, and lifestyle choices, embracing both feminine and masculine energies. Reflect on the significance of setting boundaries around health, wellness, food, and dating, and get ready to gain clarity on your desires within relationships.  Kerin is an Executive Life Coach with a mission to redefine standards in health, body, mind and spirit to truly live in a happy body and lead a successful life. Specializing in the development of emotional balance, confidence, mindset management, and intuitive weight loss, Kerin specializes in the release of trauma from the cellular body and the repatterning of the thoughts and emotions that hold us back from showing up as the person we desire to be.  Join us for an empowering conversation that will ignite personal growth, inspire transformation, and lead to fulfilling connections.   We get into:  [0:00] Intro [1:00] Kerin's background and experience with eating disorders [5:10] The belief system people develop at a young age [8:00] Eating foods that make you feel good [10:45] How weight affects your dating life [12:10] Being a woman who knows her worth [16:00] Toxic dating patterns [17:50] Unraveling your mindset around working out, eating and lifestyle choices [19:45] The balance between feminine and masculine energetics [23:30] Do you need to sleep with someone to know if you like them or not? [25:30] Boundaries around health, wellness, food and dating [32:55] Getting clear about what you desire in a relationship   Connect with Kerin Instagram: https://instagram.com/kerin.eilis Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/789941495857983/?ref=share_group_link  Freebie: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/62750363ec93244248595fa6    Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com   

In this episode, Melissa and I dive into handjobs, casual sex and deep desire that pushes boundaries. We share our fave techniques that will leave you and your partner craving more.   We also challenge preconceptions about casual sex and embrace the freedom and liberation that comes with exploring desires beyond the conventional.    We get into:  [0:00] Intro [0:45] Should handjobs make a comeback? [1:30] The art of giving a great handjob [7:25] Where handjobs feel best for men [11:00] Never do fast and jerky strokes [11:45] Have guys ever told you how they like being jerked off? [13:25] Handjobs as foreplay for amazing sex [14:55] Having multiple orgasms in one session [17:15] Can you have casual sex without feelings? [19:55] Is sex once a week enough? [22:15] How to not grow attachment to a casual partner [26:00] Why you can't change a man's mind about relationships [29:35] Why men's sex drives are really the problem [34:05] Having sex on your period [36:05] Sarah's anal sex obsession   Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In this episode, Noah Evan joins me to talk candidly about sex, the gay sex scene, and everything in between.    Noah is a queer podcaster of the "Severely Personal" podcast, who loves to discuss all things intimate through comedy and stories. He loves to find connections and community and is always looking to learn.   We get into:  [0:00] Intro [0:50] Noah's podcast, Severely Personal [2:40] Bringing humor to hard conversations [5:00] The prep work that goes into anal [10:30] Is it hard dating and finding good partners? [12:30] Keeping up with different terms and ways people identify  [16:10] The differences in judgment and stigma for men and women when it comes to sex [17:30] Are gay men hornier than straight men [18:10] How many times you should have sex a week [19:25] Can you heal through casual sex? [20:05] What the sex scene is like in Florida [23:40] Noah's best and most memorable sex experience [33:10] ​​Speaking up and saying what you want in bed [38:10] Why bad sex experiences can ruin sex in the future    Connect with Noah Instagram: www.instagram.com/severelypersonal Twitter: www.twitter.com/severelypersonal   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/severelypersonal  Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/0o1hDWwNMlnLGVOlgO4twk?si=LmuG7ycJQhKSkwN99_D49A&dd=1    Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com   

In this episode, Mangala Holland joins me to explore the transformative power of unleashing your orgasms, diving into the importance of sexual liberation and self-discovery.  We also tackle the concept of toxic masculinity and its effects on relationships, shedding light on the connection between toxic chemistry and a dysregulated nervous system.  Join us as we discuss the awakening experienced by women in their 40s and 50s, delving into the challenges and opportunities this phase brings. Additionally, we examine the barriers that block our pleasure and orgasms, including the fear of shame and judgment. We talk about cervical orgasms, demystifying their nature and providing guidance on how to experience them. We also get into the role of the body and nervous system in pleasure, highlighting their crucial role in unlocking sensual fulfillment.  Finally, we emphasize the importance of finding a supportive community that nurtures and uplifts you on your sexual exploration. Mangala is a Sexual Confidence coach, and facilitator of global group programs. She's on a mission to help women and pussy-owners become empowered through loving themselves fiercely, celebrating their sexuality, and overcoming the fear, guilt and shame that keeps them playing small. Having over a decade's experience in the industry, her super power is helping women and vulva owners become deeply connected to their body, pleasure and orgasmic confidence, which is the natural birthright of everyone.  She has a special talent in helping women in midlife access way more pleasure than they ever thought possible and believes that midlife is an opportunity for powerful, positive transformation. She's currently training the next generation of Embodied Female Pleasure facilitators and places a strong emphasis on self-love, embodiment and empowerment in her work, teaching in a no-bullshit, fluff-free, grounded, dogma-free style.    We get into:  [0:00] Intro [3:00] The power of unleashing your orgasms [5:10] Toxic dick [7:55] Toxic chemistry and its correlation to a dysregulated nervous system [11:40] The awakening happening in women who are in their 40s and 50s [15:15] What blocks our pleasure and orgasms [16:15] Fear of shame and being judged [20:40] How to start creating changes in your sexuality [24:55] What are cervical orgasms [29:35] How to have cervical orgasms [32:35] The role of the body and nervous system in pleasure [34:25] Having orgasmic confidence [45:55] Finding a community that supports you   Connect with Mangala Instagram: www.instagram.com/mangalaholland  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mangalatantrika  https://mangalaholland.com/  Free 3 part video series, From Shut Down to Sensual Satisfaction https://mangalaholland.com/sss/    Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com   

In this episode, Kat Zammuto joins me again on the podcast to talk about our fave sex toys, how to start using them, and which ones you need to add to your collection.   Kat Zammuto started working in the entertainment and modeling industries at the early age of four (her dad was a TV and video producer). This lifelong experience with video and photography makes her super comfortable in front of the camera, and clients and brands love the natural, organic approach of her work.   Her podcast, Kat on the Loose - Sex, Dating & Relationships, is growing a big and loyal following with over 65k downloads per episode.   We get into:  [0:00] Intro [1:10] Why sex and masturbation are still such taboo topics  [2:30] Being on a 'dick high'  [4:50] Which sex toys to buy first if you're just starting out [7:30] Why people die of embarrassment when it comes to self pleasure  [9:45] How to bring up using sex toys with your partner  [13:55] The 'cherry'  [16:20] 'Bullet' sex toy if you're feeling extra naughty [18:05] Foreplay before you start having sex  [20:40] What to do when it's hard to get in the mood [21:20] Why men are shy when it comes to dirty talk nowadays  [26:05] Having G-Spot orgasms  [28:55] Things you can do to turn yourself on  [32:20] How sex toys add to your sex life, not take away or add [33:35] Lipstick vibrator  [40:45] How to use a butt plug if you never have [46:35] Do you wear sexy lingerie?   Connect with Kat Instagram: www.instagram.com/katzammuto  Twitter: www.twitter.com/katontheloose  https://bio.site/katzammuto   Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com   

In this episode, we dive deep into the world of relationships, pleasure, and intimacy with renowned Love Educator & Relationship Coach, Railey Molinario.   From overcoming abandonment at birth to becoming a six-figure boss, Railey shares her inspiring journey of transforming pain into a mission of empowering individuals to break free from generational trauma and ignorance. Her teachings on relationship intelligence have been featured on esteemed platforms like the BBC, Medium, and Brainz magazine.   Join us as Railey delves into the nuances of building thriving relationships and lives, providing invaluable tools and techniques for personal growth.   We get into:  [0:00] Intro [1:40] How Railey's pain and trauma turned into her mission [4:40] How to boost your libido [7:25] The difference between spontaneous and responsive desire [10:50] Women's pleasure, erotica and stories  [13:50] Why we need better and more thoughtful foreplay [16:10] Why it's so hard for couples to talk about sex, what turns them on, and desire [19:20] Making time for sexual intimacy  [24:40] How mainstream porn limits our ability to understand and explore amazing sex [28:00] What happens when the connection is missing  [30:40] The misbeliefs that women have about sex [33:20] Why men need to learn about the female body in order to experience deeper pleasure  [36:25] Closing the orgasm gap [44:25] What feeling safe in a relationship can do [48:00] Power couple secrets to have a thriving sex life [54:30] What BDSM and fetishes can to do your relationship   Connect with Tara Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/raileymolinario/    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/raileymolinarioloveeducator, https://www.facebook.com/groups/224806782933794  Website: https://www.raileymolinario.com/     Free Ultimate Guide To A Thriving Relationship https://www.raileymolinario.com/cheatsheet    Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com   

In this episode, Tara Galeano joins me to talk about psychedelic orgasms and reclaiming your sexuality.   She talks about her journey into the space of sexuality, and emphasizes the importance of exploring sexuality and embracing freedom, despite the shame that still surrounds sex and pleasure in society.    Tara further dives into the concept of psychedelic orgasms and how they are experienced, shedding light on the link between desire and arousal. She talks about the issue of shaming one's own sexuality and emphasizes the importance of overcoming societal conditioning and embracing a healthy attitude towards sexual expression.    Author Tara Galeano is a certified sex therapist who has worked with women and couples for over two decades to get their sexy back. She knows that there is pleasure in the body, beyond our wildest dreams, and everyone can access it. In her book "Rediscovering My Body" Tara teaches us how to show up for pleasure.    Through reconnecting with her body, Tara was able to understand what was right and pleasurable for her, how best to proceed from this wisdom, and most importantly, how to teach these valuable lessons to others so that they too can transform their lives and reclaim their sensuality. Tara offers unique couple's retreats, and ceremonial, sensual journeys that open doors to new experiences and communication with oneself and partners.   We get into:  [0:00] Intro [1:00] How Tara got into this space [3:55] Why having women approach her about sex and sexuality was surprising  [5:45] Exploring sexuality and wanting freedom [7:40] The shame that still comes with sex and pleasure [10:10] The power of an open mind and curiosity [11:00] Sex when you're sick or have a debilitating diagnosis  [18:45] The biggest issue women have when it comes to accepting their bodies [26:00] Reclaiming your sexuality  [32:40] What a psychedelic orgasm is [35:40] How psychedelic orgasms happen [42:40] The link between desire and arousal  [46:35] Shaming our own sexuality [50:30] One key thing to take from this episode   Connect with Tara Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tara.galeano/  Twitter: https:/www.twitter.com/BoulderSexThera  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TaraGaleano  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/taragaleano/  YouTube: https://youtube.com/user/BoulderSexTherapy  Website: https://rediscoveringmybody.com/  Body Wisdom Journal: https://rediscoveringmybody.mykajabi.com/body-wisdom-journal Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

Get ready to uncover the secrets of female desire and pleasure with Danielle Savory.   In this episode, we explore the psychology behind the shame that women often feel when it comes to casual sex, and the healing work required to connect with our bodies.    Danielle dishes out some serious insights on how to create an erotic vessel and how to be your own pleasure advocate. We also delve into the burden of emotional responsibility, communication struggles, and the power of working with Danielle as your coach.   Danielle Savory is a master certified coach, podcast host, and expert in the fields of neuropsychology, mindfulness, sexual pleasure and intimacy.  Danielle brings a unique perspective to coaching, helping clients understand the ways in which the brain and body are interconnected and how this connection can be harnessed to experience the sensual pleasure the body is wired for.   As the host of the popular podcast "It's My Pleasure," Danielle has explored a wide range of topics related to sexuality, relationships, and personal growth - empowering women to embrace their sexuality and prioritize their pleasure. Danielle is a master certified coach with over 10 years of experience coaching hundreds of women with her proven process of increasing desire and expanding orgasmic capacity.   Come join us for a juicy conversation on full-body orgasms, mental and physical stimulation, and tantalizing tips to get back in tune with your body.   We get into:  [0:00] Intro [1:10] How Danielle got into this space [3:30] The psychology behind the shame of wanting casual sex as women [10:40] The difference between 'desire' when it comes to men and women [12:30] The healing women have to do in order to connect to our bodies [15:20] Desire for connection [18:30] The brain and sex [23:10] How to create the most erotic vessel [27:50] Learning how to be your own pleasure advocate [30:05] Why guys are afraid of intimacy [31:45] Why communication is a struggle when it comes to pleasure [34:00] Figuring out the kind of connection you want to have [35:00] The burden of emotional responsibility and keeping men happy  [35:55] Three tips for getting back in tune with your body [43:10] Receiving pleasure through pleasuring someone else [50:20] The psychology behind having full-body orgasms  [57:25] The mental and physical stimulation women need [59:30] The power that comes through working with Danielle   Connect with Danielle Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepracticeofpleasure/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/daniellesavorycoaching/ Website: https://www.daniellesavory.com/ Join Danielle's email list: https://www.daniellesavory.com/subscribe Podcast: https://www.daniellesavory.com/podcast Free Course: https://www.daniellesavory.com/join-fresh   Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In a world where sexual trauma and a lack of education on our desires are all too common, my guest Katie Rudland shares her insights on sexual liberation and healing.    From location-based stigmas to utilizing human design for transformation, she emphasizes the importance of cultivating a relationship with oneself, learning to communicate needs, and healing without being in a relationship. Join her on the journey of sexual transformation and liberation, where healing and true alignment with oneself are possible.   Katie is someone who is always looking to learn and teach. She is passionate about having the freedom to be herself and live authentically. She aims to inspire others to do the same without being dependent on outside authorities.   She is passionate about helping people find emotional freedom within themselves, and she creates and embodies emotional freedom within herself and supports emotional intimacy in others, triggering their healing to birth them onto their own paths and journeys.   Katie guides others to reconnect, heal, and transform, opening them up to transparent intimacy, supporting and empowering them to find freedom of spirit, living in true alignment and union connected to their higher self and infinite wisdom. She is here to help others write their own story, with themselves as the main character.   We get into:  [0:00] Intro [2:10] Katie's take on sexual trauma [6:40] The lack of education around what we truly want from and during sexual experiences [7:55] What sexual liberation means [11:40] Location and culture-based stigmas around sex [15:25] Sexual liberation and trauma healing without being in a relationship [18:15] Human design's role in sexuality [22:20] Utilizing human design for sexual transformation and healing [26:20] The journey of sexual transformation and sexual liberation [30:20] How crucial it is to learn to communicate your needs [35:10] Cultivating a relationship with yourself first   Connect with Katie www.instagram.com/bespoke_journey  https://www.facebook.com/yourbespokejourney https://www.bespokejourney.co.uk/    Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com   

Have you ever considered a non-monogamous relationship? Are you curious about the difference between this and cheating? How do you get your spouse on board? And is it truly what you want in your life and relationship?   This is what we're talking about in this episode with Jess Lynn.   Jess is a licensed therapist and ethical non-monogamy relationship coach. After opening her previously monogamous relationship of six years, Jess quickly learned just how little information there was out there from professionals on how to navigate non-monogamy.   Jess is passionate about helping others in taking steps to design and embrace their relationship(S) dreams! She shares her knowledge and personal stories through the lens of a trained clinician, in hopes that others can reach relationship success.   We get into:  [0:00] Intro [4:50] Is non-monogamy an excuse to cheat? [7:05] How she brought up ethical non-monogamy to her husband [12:05] How she explained her desires to her husband [16:25] The biggest challenges once they opened up their relationship [19:30] How to handle the jealousy that may come up [23:45] The difference between rules and agreements [27:50] Do people end up separating through non-monogamy? [34:20] Why people are so judgmental towards it [37:30] Non-monogamy vs. cheating [39:25] How to become more open-minded   Connect with Jess https://www.facebook.com/groups/nonmonogamousnewbies/ www.instagram.com/nonmonogamous_newbies  www.bothandcoaching.com    Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

What are the juicy details behind Tantra? Are you looking to explore your sexuality even deeper? Or maybe you're curious about the world of Tantra and how it can benefit you? Well, look no further because in this episode, we dive deep into the fascinating world of Tantra and sexuality with Ava Pikul. Ava is a Transformational Therapist and Tantra Healer certified by the only government accredited institute of tantra in the entire world - The Institute of Authentic Tantra! She has over 1,700+ hours of training in the field of tantra, as well as psychological, emotional, and spiritual healing modalities. Ava believes that healing shouldn't take years, and primarily guides men, women, and couples through a unique and holistic approach to healing and sexual fulfillment.  From exploring the different types of orgasms women can experience to understanding the psychological side of things, we cover it all. So whether you're a seasoned practitioner or a curious newbie, there's something here for everyone. In the first few minutes, Ava shares her personal journey and how she got into this work. We then go on to discuss what Tantra is, the difference between Lineage-based Tantra and Neo Tantra, and whether it's something you can do solo or if it's couple-based. But it's not just about the physical aspects of Tantra. We also explore the psychological and spiritual benefits of the practice and how it can be a tool for holistic healing. And if you're wondering how long it takes to see results, Ava shares her insights on that too. We also tackle some of the misconceptions about Tantra, using it as a healing modality, and what most women are missing in their sexual experiences. And if you're curious about the impact of porn on Tantra, we delve into that as well. From semen retention to the difference between women and men's sexuality, we cover a lot of ground in this episode. So if you're ready to unlock the power of Tantra and explore your sexuality, tune in and join the conversation.   We get into:  [0:30] How Ava got into this work [3:30] Communicating and exploring our own sexuality  [7:40] What is Tantra, Lineage-based Tantra and Neo Tantra [9:55] Can you do Tantra solo or is it couple-based? [12:45] Not rejecting our human conditioning [14:10] Tantra as a lifestyle [15:20] Starting with the psychological side of things [16:30] Tantra as a tool for holistic healing [18:30] How long this journey takes [21:10] The sexual aspect of Lineage-based Tantra [25:10] Developing trust and vulnerability [26:50] Misconceptions about Tantra [31:00] Using Tantra as a healing modality [32:30] What most women are missing in their sexual experiences [38:05] Why we turn to porn to get stimulated quickly [43:20] Porn and its impact on Tantra [46:40] Why we treat the symptom instead of going to that deeper level [48:05] Semen retention [54:05] The difference between women and men's sexuality [58:25] The science and energetic components of orgasms [59:40] The different types of orgasms women can experience [1:10:00] The power in slowing down and exploring yourself   Connect with Ava Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ava.ashe https://www.flamewithintantra.com/    Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com   

In this episode, I sit down with Tristan West, a gay adult entertainment star who has been in the industry for about 9 months. Tristan shares his experiences working with various studios such as Cocky Boys, Naked Sword, Falcon, Next Door Studios, Kink Men, Blacks on Boys, and Creamy Bros. He also talks about presenting awards at the GayVN's and the incredible experiences he's had so far in the industry.    We talk about every juicy topic, including how he got into the industry, the nerves he had on his first-ever shoot, having sex on camera for pleasure and not just money, natural chemistry vs. forced chemistry, working with straight men in gay porn, and whether being a bottom or top affects his dating life.    Tristan also shares how he set himself up for success in the industry, how often he goes into the studio to film, his worst experience so far, whether he has ever taken these relationships outside of the studio, and whether it is more intimidating to work with straight men.    How does he warm up and stretch for the set? And how did he decide what his preferences are? We talk about that too!   Tristan shares his thoughts on electro-stimulation, how porn has opened up his own sexuality, and whether he would ever do a sex scene with a girl. Tune in to learn more about the world of gay adult entertainment from Tristan's perspective.   We get into:  [1:05] How he got into the industry [4:25] The nerves he had on his first-ever shoot [5:25] Having sex on camera for pleasure and not just money [6:55] Having natural chemistry vs. forced chemistry [7:40] What it's like working with straight men in gay porn [9:55] Is Tristan a bottom or a top [10:55] Does it affect his dating life? [12:05] Did he tell his friends and family? [12:40] Setting himself up for success in this industry [14:05] How often he goes into studio to film [17:30] The worst experience he has had so far [19:10] Has he ever taken these relationships outside of the studio? [20:00] Is it more intimidating to work with straight men? [21:05] How to warm up and stretch for set [24:30] How he decided what his preferences are  [26:40] What he's most excited about in the industry [28:25] Where you can watch his content [29:20] Fave production companies to work with [31:30] Electro stimulation  [32:10] How porn has opened up his own sexuality  [36:40] Would he ever do a sex scene with a girl?   Connect with Tristan Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xtristanxwestx Twitter: https://mobile.twitter.com/tristanwestxxx https://linktr.ee/tristanwestxxx    Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In this episode, Favour Obasi-ike joins me to talk about life before, during and after being in an open relationship and in the lifestyle.   Favour Obasi-ike is a self-driven entrepreneur, business owner, self-taught drummer, and musical artist who has blended entertainment business from a professional and creative angle to navigate through my career in an innovative & disruptive way.   He is the Founder of Work & PLAY Entertainment where the primary goal is to inspire, entertain, and educate the boundless value of problem-solving solutions with innovative products using marketing & advertising implementation strategies with applied SEO (Search Engine Optimization).    He also hosts the “We Don't PLAY” podcast, which is available on over 14 podcast platforms with over tens of thousands of downloads and 300+ episodes.    We talk about the world of open relationships and the swinging lifestyle. He shares his experiences of performance anxiety, being watched by his partner, and playing with other couples outside of clubs. Favour emphasizes the importance of knowing love languages and communicating effectively, as well as having conversations about sex before entering a relationship.   He also addresses the stigma society has around the lifestyle and the misconception that it desensitizes people to traditional sexual relationships. Favour shares what he learned about himself the most through these experiences.   We get into:  [0:55] How Favour's business and interests come into play [3:46] Getting introduced to the lifestyle and into an open relationship [6:40] Having performance anxiety for the first time ever [8:55] His first experience being watched by his partner [9:30] Was he ever jealous seeing his partner with someone else? [12:00] Why knowing love languages and communicating properly is so important [13:25] Did they ever play outside the clubs? [16:25] How he reacted after that relationship ended [17:45] Cross-playing with the other sex [20:30] Are conversations about sex important to have before getting in a relationship? [24:55] Does being in the lifestyle desensitize people to enjoying sexual relationships in a traditional way [26:50] What he learned about himself the most through these experiences [28:55] How many people he has fucked in one night [31:00] The stigma society has around it [34:10] How being in the lifestyle is like having exercise    Connect with Favour All-in-one link: https://zaap.bio/flaevbeatz  Website: https://playinc.online  SEO Marketing Masterclass: https://quiet-morning-907.myflodesk.com    Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In this episode, we sit down with Jeremy, a male stripper and owner of Klub Kave, who shares with us the ins and outs of his profession. He shares how he got into the industry and what his experience has been like. We then dive into why women prefer to watch men strip on the weekends and whether the rules are the same in a male and female strip club.   Jeremy also talks about how they prep for their shows. He addresses the question of whether it's hard to retain male strippers and whether you can make a solid living in this profession.   We then talk about the social stigma and judgment towards male strippers compared to females, as well as the issue of 'business transactions' and permission to sleep with other men's wives. Jeremy also talks about what his dating life looks like right now.   This episode provides a unique and candid look into the world of male stripping, giving you insights and perspectives that you won't find anywhere else. Whether you're curious about the profession or just want to hear a fascinating story, this episode is sure to entertain.   We get into:  [1:30] How he became a male stripper [3:15] Why women prefer to watch men strip on the weekends [4:45] Are the rules the same in a male and female stripclub? [8:20] Why strippers wear cock rings [10:10] How guys prep for their shows  [12:00] Is it hard to retain male strippers? [15:50] Can you make a solid living as a stripper? [17:45] Is there social stigma and judgment towards male strippers compared to females? [22:00] 'Business transactions' and permission to sleep with other mens' wives [22:45] What his dating life looks like right now [27:50] Does Jeremy want out of this industry? [31:20] How to stay clean and sober in this industry [35:50] Where to find Jeremy  [38:45] The money in bachelorette parties    Connect with Jeremy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/klubkaveofficial Website: https://klubkave.com/   Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com   

Are you curious about what's missing from sex education and how to change the conversation around the shame and stigma around STIs?   In this podcast, we talk to Rae Szereszewski, who is a certified sex educator and Options for Sexual Health SHEC graduate, and has a Bachelor of Design in Fashion and Apparel Design from Ryerson University.  In addition to her experience as a latex designer, she spent 8 years creating sex positive events at Oasis Aqualounge, a lifestyle club, and has worked in a variety of roles in event planning, community building, mentorship, and project coordination.   Rae is currently running Sexual Education workshops, coaching clients, and making art.   We get into:  [2:15] The biggest thing missing from sex education [4:55] Why people consider having an STI as 'dirty' [7:05] How to ask people if they have an STI or not [9:40] The shame and stigma around having an STI [15:45] Having boundaries when it comes to sex [17:10] What teaching sex ed is like [19:50] Letting young people have sexual agency [24:30] Learning how to say no in a clear way [31:30] What is Shibari  [33:30] Emotional and physical safety as important boundaries when it comes to sex [37:10] The impact of casual sex  [41:30] Not having to date everyone you fall in love with [42:40] The types of kink most people ask for [46:00] The importance of communication when it comes to BDSM + dom kinks   Connect with Rae Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wifebaerae/ Podcast: https://www.sharewithrae.com/podcast OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/raezorlatex Twitter: https://twitter.com/wifebaerae Website: https://www.sharewithrae.com/about   Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

Welcome to this week's episode of our podcast, where we sit down with Simon Marini, a former professional fighter turned stripper and porn star. Simon shares his journey with us, from the struggles of performance anxiety as a fighter, to hitting rock bottom with depression and attempting suicide. He also discusses how stripping helped him cope with his anxiety and how it affected his dating life.   Simon then shares his story of transitioning into the porn industry, including his initial reservations and questioning his sexuality as a straight male working in gay porn. He also gets candid about the technical aspects of the industry, such as fake cum shots and the differences between gay and straight porn.   As the conversation progresses, Simon talks about his experiences dating women while working in gay porn, as well as the STI scares he's had to navigate over the years. We also touch on the important topic of condom use in porn.   Finally, Simon shares with us how he eventually stepped back into the fighter scene and how his family reacted to his work in the porn industry. Join us as we explore Simon's unique journey and gain a deeper understanding of the realities of the adult film industry.     We get into:  [2:55] Becoming a professional fighter + the performance anxiety that came with it [4:10] Losing his identity, hitting a low depression and attempting suicide  [5:55] How stripping helped with his performance anxiety  [9:25] What dating was like while he was a stripper [11:30] Making the switch into porn [13:50] Was there a moment of questioning his sexuality as a straight male pornstar working in gay porn? [16:45] Does Simon get any pleasure from getting his dick sucked by other men? [21:10] How you do a fake cum shot [27:55] The differences between gay porn and straight porn [29:05] Switching to ‘bottom' in sex scenes [31:50] Dating women while doing gay porn  [37:05] STI scares over the years [38:15] Should you use condoms in porn? [43:40] Stepping back into the fighter scene [46:30] How his family reacted to being in gay porn   Connect with Simon Instagram: www.instagram.com/marini.coaching  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100087431080467&mibextid=ZbWKwL OnlyFans: Http://OnlyFans.com/iammkage    Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com   

Well, it happened…Sarah got catfished.   Or so we think! Sarah is still in denial about it,    In this episode, Sarah spills the tea on her experience of getting catfished. Can you believe it? She even had a 2-hour phone call with her catfish that turned sexual, and they planned many dates and video chats that never actually happened. But eventually, she had a lightbulb moment and realized what was happening.   We talk about why catfishes don't come clean, and whether or not Darby could ever fall for a catfishing trap. Speaking of which, Darby shares her friend's crazy catfish story that you don't want to miss.   But here's the thing, Sarah learned that has a tendency to connect with men who aren't actually available. I know this can sound familiar for a lot of women out there, so we talk about the reasons why and how it's affected her.   We briefly get into the Don't Fuck With Cats documentary (have you seen it?) and how messed up the world of online dating can be. We wrap up the episode by sharing our own crazy online dating matches since this whole catfishing fiasco.    Trust us, you won't want to miss this conversation about the complexities of online relationships.   We get into:  [1:05] How Sarah got catfished  [4:50] The lightbulb moment where Sarah realized what was happening [8:25] Having a 2 hour phone call that turned sexual and other ways they connected deeply [17:05] Why catfishes don't come clean [23:40] Could Darby ever fall for catfishing? [25:00] Darby's friend's catfish story [28:05] The connection Sarah has to men who aren't actually available [32:50] Don't Fuck With Cats documentary  [38:50] The crazy online dating matches we have had since   Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In this episode, Mizz.Honey Temper joins me to uncover the world of Femdom and Financial Domination. We talk about what it is, what it isn't and hear some of the most wild experiences she has encountered in her work so far.   Mizz.Honey Temper is a Canadian Fetish Content Creator, FetDungeon Event Hostess and Destroyer of men.   We get into:  [1:15] How Mizz.Honey Temper got into the lifestyle [5:10] What Femdom is [9:00] The kind of Femdom work Mizz.Honey Temper does [10:30] What financial domination is [14:30] Is dating more challenging when you're a femdom? [17:40] How to establish boundaries as a femdom [23:30] The most common fetishes and kinks people have [27:35] Why people get off on cuckolding  [31:15] Being open minded as a couple or individually [41:10] The stigma and judgment around this industry [43:45] Some of the craziest things Mizz.Honey Temper has been asked to do    Connect with Mizz.Honey Temper Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mizzhoneytemper/ https://linktr.ee/mizzhoneytemper https://www.fetdungeon.com/   Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com

What does consent really look like when it comes to sex and intimacy? How do you ask your partner to try new things without crossing a boundary? How do we make sure everyone feels comfortable when we're being intimate?   We're answering all of these questions on the podcast this week with Dr. Dr. Avgi Saketopoulou.   Dr. Avgi is an immigrant Cypriot and Greek psychoanalyst, living and working in NYC. She is on faculty at the NYU Postdoctoral Program, where she also trained, and teaches nationally in several psychoanalytic institutes. Her published work has received numerous prizes, including the annual JAPA Essay Prize and the Ralph Roughton Award.    She is the 2022 recipient of the Scholarship Award from the division of psychoanalysis of the American Psychological Association (Div. 39) and, with Ann Pellegrini, the recipient of the first Tiresias Essay Prize, from the International Psychoanalytic Associations' committee on sexual and gender diversity.    Her interview on relational psychoanalysis is part of the permanent collection of the Freud Museum in Vienna and in 2021 she co-chaired the first US-based conference dedicated to the work of Jean Laplanche. Her book, Sexuality Beyond Consent: Risk, Race, Traumatophilia, is forthcoming in February 2023 from the Sexual Cultures series, NYU Press. When she is not working, she rides her motorcycle, hoping for good weather.   We get into:  [2:00] What 'slave play' is [16:45] ​​Consent when it comes to fetishes and BDSM [21:25] Sexual play organized around trauma [25:20] Violations when it comes to consent [27:40] Urination for erotic pleasure [29:35] Boundaries that get crossed in the bedroom [30:50] Pushing outside of your comfort zone when it comes to pleasure [37:50] The lack of connection and intimacy around sexual acts [40:40] Why people feel the need to cross lines and boundaries [45:10] ​​What to do if your partner isn't into the same thing as you [48:20] How to know what you're into [53:20] About Avgi's book   Connect with Dr. Avgi Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/avgolis98/  Book: https://www.avgisaketopoulou.com/copy-of-published-works https://www.avgisaketopoulou.com/    Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In this episode, Elliott Finn joins me to talk about his experience in the gay porn industry as a fully straight male.    Elliott started his career in the porn industry after going through a divorce and needing the money. As you'll hear in this episode, he tried working in the straight male porn industry and was always redirected to the gay male niche.   Since, he has grown a presence online and creates content on Only Fans.    We get into:  [1:05] Elliott's background in the gay male porn industry as a straight male [2:10] How he got into gay porn vs. straight porn [5:50] Is it mostly straight men in gay porn? [7:05] Why Elliott primarily did 'bottom' [9:35] Are numbing creams really effective? [11:30] How well the industry pays [14:15] The stigma around the porn industry itself [18:05] How his friendships changed when they found out [18:45] The challenges with dating and getting into relationships [21:20] Starting up an Only Fans with his fiance  [23:45] Is the adult industry hard to get out of? [26:20] The number one judgment people make about the adult entertainment industry [30:30] His worst experience in the industry [33:45] ​​The best experience he's had in the industry [36:05] Separating business and pleasure [41:10] The rules around getting tested   Connect with Elliott Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theelliotfinn YouTube: ​​https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBom2kzQiGlx_JW8wca9P0w TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theelliotfinn?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/theelliotfinn https://linktr.ee/elliotfinn   Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In this episode, Kari and Casey join me to talk about sex, why we talk about it, why we don't, and opening up a long-term relationship into new sexual frontiers.   Do you have fantasies that you want to explore and aren't sure how to talk to your partner about them?    How do you get the fulfilling sex life you really want with your partner?   Kari and Casey are leaders in this conversation, and share with us how they've transformed the narrative around sex, open relationships, and pleasure.   We get into:  [1:30] How they both got into this space [4:00] Starting to open up sexually to their friend group [7:10] Why people struggle opening up about their sexuality [16:00] Three C's of a successful sex life [26:20] Opening up their own marriage and advice for other couples [37:00] The biggest gaps for couples who can't get on the same page [43:20] Why men cheat   Connect with Kari and Casey Instagram: www.instagram.com/cumwithkc  Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2018368   Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In this episode, we're talking about why and how sex work is real work – even though many people think it isn't.    Joining me for this conversation is Mona from an organization called ‘Answers'.    Mona worked on the streets in the late 1970s/early 80s until the new laws came out in 1985.  A short time after, most of the larger centers in Alberta, including Edmonton, created licensing for the adult entertainment field and she became a licensed escort. Much of Mona's own advocacy is spelled out in Sex Work Activism in Canada - you can find the chapter here https://www.answersociety.org/buy-the-book    We get into:  [1:05] What 'Answers' is [6:35] Why sex work is in fact a 'real' job [8:15] The kind of support 'Answers' provides [15:15] The biggest changes in how society views sex workers today [17:50] Why Mona got into sex work [31:15] Is the sex work industry a dying industry?  [38:45] What Mona likes about being a sex worker [41:30] Where to connect with the organization    Connect with Answers Society  www.answersociety.org  Sign up for the Sex Work is Work Bias Prevention Training offered bi-monthly. They accept small donations. Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In this episode, we're talking about porn, squirting, and so many other things when it comes to sex.   What would we love to try from watching porn? How do you become a squirter? Do we like facials (or not)? Everything is on the table in this conversation.    We get into:  [1:00] Can porn desensitize you in your sex life? [2:00] How porn can be healthy for your relationship [6:15] Porn from a parent's perspective  [10:35] What we think about watching porn  [12:50] What we think about squirting  [24:40] Things we've seen watching porn that we want to try in real life   Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In this episode, Katherine Zammuto joins me on the podcast to talk about how to have the most fulfilling sex life.   We also talk about why we should be more demanding when it comes to having incredible sex, the benefits, and why using toys can be a good thing.   Kat Zammuto started working in the entertainment and modeling industries at the early age of four (her dad was a TV and video producer). This lifelong experience with video and photography makes her super comfortable in front of the camera, and clients and brands love the natural, organic approach of her work.   Her podcast, Kat on the Loose - Sex, Dating & Relationships, is growing a big and loyal following with over 65k downloads per episode.   We get into:  [1:00] How Kat got into podcasting [2:05] What's changed the most in the dating world [3:00] Being in a sexless marriage [4:15] Discovering her sexuality and what she loved about sex [13:20] Removing the stigma around sex  [19:15] Is bigger really better? [23:05] Why men should learn how to use their hands in bed [25:15] How to have the most fulfilling sex life [27:40] Kat's fantasies she wants fulfilled    Connect with Kat Instagram: www.instagram.com/katzammuto  Twitter: www.twitter.com/katontheloose  https://bio.site/katzammuto   Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In this episode, we're doing our very first sex toy review, and we share what we like and what we don't.   You can get all of the toys we talk about in this episode by going to  https://adultatltoyz.square.site/.   We get into:  [4:00] Our first toy review  [5:40] Would you rather be stuck with a below average dick or a vibrator that always died? [12:05] Toys that hit the G-spot [13:50] Sending videos to your partner [15:25] Calling a guy the wrong name during sex [19:20] Toys to make you squirt  [24:35] Why it's so important to know what to do with your fingers   Resources in this episode: Get the toys we mentioned here: https://adultatltoyz.square.site/ Get 15% off with any code you use Instagram: www.instagram.com/Adultatltoyz3    Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In this episode, we're talking about strip clubs and sex clubs.    We went out to a few of them near where we live to see what they're like nowadays, and we're sharing our review of each.   We get into:  [3:10] Our first strip club experience of the night [5:10] How the strip club environment has changed [9:40] Exhibitionist and Voyeurism night [16:00] Double dipping in the lifestyle [19:40] Checking out the bathhouse [30:20] What goes on in swingers clubs [38:20] Our final review   Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In this episode, we're talking about online dating and our worst online dating stories.    Why is it slim pickings out there? Is there really anyone left to date? What kind of people do you really find on dating apps?   We're sharing our stories and also what we love (honestly, don't love) about online dating.   We get into:  [1:20] Why men don't always cheat with “easier” [5:40] Sarah's worst online dating experience  [11:15] Why the online dating scene is so bad [20:30] Are the better men in the states? [27:25] Why we need guys with depth   Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com

In this episode, we're talking about using cannabis and CBD products to deepen our sexual connection and chemistry.   Joining me is Christina Michael, Cannabis & Holistic Health Professional.   Have you ever used these kinds of products in your sex life? Why or why not? We would love to hear from you!     We get into:  [1:00] Why Christina is passionate about CBD and Cannabis  [3:30] The products that are best for women and supporting women  [7:40] Do these products have lingering effects when taking them? [16:30] Bringing more presence into your sexual experiences [22:10] Paranoia and cannabis use [29:20] The impact of alcohol and sex Resources mentioned in this episode: Forty Acre Blends Topicals  Madge and Mercer https://www.madgeandmercer.com  Prairie Grass https://prairiegrass.com  CANN Social Tonics https://drinkcann.com  Aurora Live Resin Gummies https://www.auroramedical.com/products/new-sour-cherry-live-resin-gummies  Blunt Botanicals https://bluntbotanicals.com  Stewart Farms Bath Bombs https://www.stewartfarms.life/infused-bath-bombs    Connect with Christina Instagram: @_christina.michael or @theentourageco www.theentourageco.com    Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

This week, we're talking about Sarah's experience with orgasmic meditation.   Have you heard of it before? It's a meditation practice between you and your partner, where the goal is to breathe and fall into a meditative state while your partner pleasures you without the intention of getting you off.   Have you tried it? Would you like to? Listen in to learn more!   We get into:  [1:20] What orgasmic meditation is [4:20] How to do it [5:35] Sarah's experience with orgasmic meditation  [13:15] Using toys vs. your fingers to get off [24:40] Is it harder to eat a woman out or give a guy a blowjob? [33:45] Would Sarah recommend orgasmic meditation? Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

This week, we're talking about our worst, best and most memorable sex experiences.    We ALL have them, and honestly, we have some really juicy stories to share with you. Want to share yours with us too? Email us sexandbacon1@yahoo.com and we may feature it on an upcoming episode!   We get into:  [2:20] How many good and bad partners we've had  [4:55] One of Sarah's worst sexual experiences  [9:55] Darby being choked until she passed out  [11:30] Darby's most memorable sexual experience  [11:45] Sarah's most memorable sexual experience  [25:50] We want to hear your bad sex stories Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

This week's topic is a bit controversial. We talk about why everyone has, in our opinion, bought and paid for sex.   Whether you're married, in a relationship, situationship or single, at one point or another, you have had an energetic exchange of some kind, when it comes to sex.   We get into:  [1:15] The history of prostitution  [4:35] Paying for sex even while you're married or in a relationship [7:00] Using sex to get what you want [10:40] Depriving each other of sex [15:55] What is sodomy? [18:15] A look into being a sugar baby [24:55] Passionless marriages, cheating and divorce Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

A few months ago I visited The Hive in Arizona to get the scoop of what goes on inside the only social sex club in America.   This episode is a mash up of my interviews with different couples who frequent The Hive with their partners.   The full interviews can be found on my YouTube channel.     We get into:  [1:25] What Pompoir is [1:00] Heather and Max [4:55] Enedina and Denny [10:00] Michael and Diane [13:30] David and Nancy [16:50] John and Jane [19:20] Sean and Priscilla [24:10] Andrea and Jeremie  [27:15] Deb [29:30] Russel and Tristan  [32:20] Christine  [36:20] Mike and Mike [38:00] Patricia and Heather [39:55] Mark [43:45] Sam and Sam [47:30] Richard and Brittany    Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com

In this episode, Bel Di Lorenzo joins me to talk about how to do Pompoir for better orgasms.   Pompoir is a sex practice where women gain full control over their vaginal muscles to enhance pleasure, increase libido, and supercharge orgasms.   Students of Pompoir can squeeze, pull, tilt, grip, lock, twist, suck and pulse – using only their vaginas. The combination of motions through the different regions of the pelvic floor muscles makes up over 27 unique sex moves.   We talk about The Oh!lympus Program, which is Gohddess' step-by-step course on Pompoir.    This online training teaches you how to master these exercises in a visual, science-backed way through practical animations, printable guides, and active community.   We get into:  [1:25] What Pompoir is [3:05] Where Pompoir originates from and why it was created [5:30] How Bel got into Pompoir  [12:25] Tips to learn how to do this technique  [17:25] Bel's program and what you learn from it [24:00] Does Pompoir make sex slower [37:25] Delaying orgasms with ‘locking'    Connect with Bel Instagram: www.instagram.com/goh.ddess  Website: www.gohddess.com  With the code BACON100 at www.gohddess.com they get $100 off the course   Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In this episode, we're talking about everything related to expressing your sexuality, walks of shame, and some of our most hilarious sex stories.   Can you double dip and sleep with more than one person in a day? Does your outfit mean you're asking for it? Would you ever use a dental dam? We talk all about that and more in this conversation.   We get into:  [1:50] Why the way we dress doesn't mean we're asking for it [7:35] Wearing sexy clothes does not equal wanting to have sex [13:55] Why women have a hard time expressing themselves in general [16:55] Our worst walks of shame [27:00] Does sex with a condom really count as sex? [32:55] Double dipping and sleeping with multiple guys per day [39:05] How you can tap into your sexual energy    Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com   

Can men and women really be friends?    We talked about this in part 1 of our conversation, so for part 2 I wanted to bring on my friend Justin to get a man's perspective.    We get into:  [0:30] Does Justin think men and women can be friends  [2:40] Could he have a friend that's a girl that he wasn't attracted to [23:00] Is it the guy or girl who decides if it stays a friendship? [26:30] Why it's important for energy to align [31:40] Do guys care about getting ready for booty calls? [40:40] Why men and women relationships are useful [51:25] Why guys hate using condoms    Connect with us! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic  Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com