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Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Top 10 Reasons NOT to Join Your Local Community-S05E23

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2024 109:16


Recorded: Feb 18th, 2024 / Published: March 24th, 2024- Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  - In this episode, Mayfair and I are talking about the somewhat controversial topic of not joining or being involved with your local BDSM scene.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Top 10 Reasons NOT to Join Your Local Community-S05E23?”We realize that all communities have their own ups and downs and overall cultures. We are not saying that all communities have all, some, or any of these issues. We are speaking generally.10: Bad vibes: Pay attention to your intuition (Ben)9: Unsavory activities: Drugs/drinking (Ben)8: People not taking no for an answer: (Jon)7: Lack of education (Jon)6: A culture of pressuring people to go further than they are comfortable or want. (Ben)6A: Culture of “breaking slaves and subs”5: Lack of education by partner (Daddy's Princess)4: Partner's feelings about the safety of your relationship (Daddy's Princess)3: Predators and the protection of predators by the community2: Relationship issues1: People are crazyImportant Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/522National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN      37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and Maria- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Meg, Astridinchains, littlebear22, and TeaVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
The New Predator Part 3 Histrionic Personality Disorder-S05E22

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2024 96:52


Recorded: February 4, 2024 / Published: March 19, 2024- Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  - In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com) Safe, sane, consensual, and informed KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “The New Predator Part 3: Histrionic Personality Disorder-S05E22”https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disorders.https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9743-histrionic-personality-disorder https://www.psychdb.com/personality/histrionic#:~:text=DSM%2D5%20Diagnostic%20Criteria&text=Interaction%20with%20others%20is%20often,to%20draw%20attention%20to%20self Histrionic personality disorder (HPD) is a mental health condition marked by intense, unstable emotions and a distorted self-image. The word “histrionic” means “dramatic or theatrical.”“5 Signs You Might Be a Drama Queen” by Claire Jack Ph.D.Cleveland ClinicHistrionic Personality Disorder (HPD)For people with histrionic personality disorder, their self-esteem depends on the approval of others and doesn't come from a true feeling of self-worth. They have an overwhelming desire to be noticed and often behave dramatically or inappropriately to get attention.People with histrionic personality disorder often don't realize their behavior and way of thinking may be problematic.A pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by 5 or more of the following (Diagnosis Criteria):Is uncomfortable in situations in which he or she is not the center of attention Interaction with others is often characterized by inappropriate sexually seductive or provocative behavior Displays rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotionsConsistently uses physical appearance to draw attention to selfHas a style of speech that is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detailShows self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion Is suggestible (i.e. - easily influenced by others or circumstances) Considers relationships to be more intimate than they actually areWhat are the signs and symptoms of histrionic personality disorder?Personality disorders, including histrionic personality disorder, are among the least understood mental health conditions.Studies that have been done about histrionic and other personality disorders have identified several factors that may lead to the development of histrionic or other personality disorders:Genetics: Histrionic personality disorder tends to run in families, so scientists think there may be a genetic (inherited) link.Childhood trauma: Children may cope with trauma, such as child abuse or the death of a family member, that later as an adult may be disruptive or problematic in their life and become part of a personality disorder.Parenting styles: Children who experience parenting styles that lack boundaries, are over-indulgent or inconsistent may be more likely to develop histrionic personality disorder. In addition, parents who display dramatic, erratic, volatile or inappropriate sexual behavior put their children at risk for developing this condition. Some researchers think that problems in parent-child relationships lead to the characteristic low self-esteem in people with HPD.How is histrionic personality disorder diagnosed?Past history.RelationshipsPrevious work history.Reality testing.Impulse control.Personality continues to evolve throughout child and adolescent development. Because of this, healthcare providers don't typically diagnose someone with histrionic personality disorder until after the age of 18.Personality disorders, including histrionic personality disorder, can be difficult to diagnose since most people with a personality disorder don't think there's a problem with their behavior or way of thinking.When they do seek help, it's often due to conditions such as anxiety or depression due to the problems created by their personality disorder, such as divorce or lost relationships, and not the disorder itself.When a mental health professional, such as a psychologist or psychiatrist, suspects someone might have histrionic personality disorder, they often ask broad, general questions that won't create a defensive response or hostile environment. They ask questions that will shed light on:Because a person suspected of having histrionic personality disorder may lack awareness of their behaviors, mental health professionals might ask to collect information from the person's family and friends.Mental health providers base a diagnosis of histrionic personality disorder on the criteria for the condition in the American Psychiatric Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders.To learn about “Management and Treatment, “Prevention”, “Outlook / Prognosis / Complications” visit Cleveland Clinics website:: https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9743-histrionic-personality-disorder Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/522National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN      37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, Maria, and Miss Troi- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Meg, Astridinchains, littlebear22, and TeaVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Professional BDSM Domination Mistress Mia Darque-S05E21

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2024 116:08


Recorded: January 21, 2024 / Published: March 10, 2024 - Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  - In this episode, we are talking to Oklahoma's own 6'3" Ebony Amazon and Professional Domme, Mistress Mia Darque.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Professional BDSM Domination: Mistress Mia Darque-S05E21”https://www.justsayred.com/ Quote: "... if for any reason you were unsatisfied with your D/s experience please feel free to complain to the domme that you chose to scene with, but if this domme was wearing a pretty flogger on her hip and kept asking if she's hurting you, WELL... ya just got your monies worth..." -M.M.D.How long?Pro only or pro and lifestyle?Do you switch?Most unusual request?Your style of domination?What are your thoughts on BDSM education and do you teach?Within the lifestyle, what is your passion to talk to others about?What advice to give to people asking you how to get into the pro set?Do you mentor others? If so, is there a fee?What do you have coming up? Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/521National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN      37701 - Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and Maria- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Meg, Astridinchains, littlebear22, and TeaVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
The New Predator Part 2: Borderline Personality DIsorder-S05E20

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2024 93:44


Recorded: January 7, 2024 / Published:February 25, 2024 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungDisclaimer: Mayfair and I are not medical professionals and we are only giving our interpretation of the information. Because our advice is to talk to a professional, if you choose to make any decisions because of something we say, you are making those decisions against our advised and are solely responsible for all outcomes of your decisions.“From a message: How can you call someone with a mental illness a predator?”Answer: Thank you for the question, especially an easy one when someone isn't emotionally attached to the topic. First, because all predators have some degree of mental illness or they wouldn't prey on people. Second, People with BPD tend to use the diagnosis as an excuse for their behavior. It is an explanation NOT an excuse.- “Drama Queens: The New Predator Part 2: Borderline Personality DIsorder-S05E20”https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disorders.https://neurodivergentinsights.com/blog/dsm-5-criteria-for-borderline-personality-disorderPBD is a personality disorder characterized by a pervasive pattern of instability. More specifically, Borderline Personality Disorder is characterized by instability in relationships, self-image, emotions, and behavior (impulsivity).Criteria for diagnosis:1. Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment.2. A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation.3. Identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.4. Impulsivity in at least two potentially self-damaging areas (e.g., spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating).5. Recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures or threats, or self-mutilating behavior.6. Affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and rarely more than a few days).7. Chronic feelings of emptiness.8. Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights).9. Transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms.PBD is a most commonly a trauma/PTSD based disorder.Another cause of BPD is learned behavior from having a parent with BPD or other serious mental health disorder such as bipolar disorder or substance abuse.About 70% of diagnosed patients are female. 6.2% female and 5.6% male.People with BPD tend to use the diagnosis as an excuse for their behavior. It is an explanation NOT an excuse.Relationship push and pull (Hot and cold)Views the world in extremes (Black or white thinking)Everyone feels they must walk on eggshells around someone with BPD because they are prone to explosiveness.They tend to manipulate othersCommon self harming behaviors: cutting, scratching, substance abuse, dangerous sex, dangerous sexual situations, starting verbal and physical altercations,Uncommon self harming behaviors: Pulling out their own hair (Trichotillomania)Medication can assist with symptoms such as depression and anxiety but do nothing for the behavioral symptoms of the disorder.Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) (Recognized as the best treatment for BPD):the core principles of DBT – dialectical thinking, mindfulness, emotional regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness – provide a comprehensive framework for helping individuals achieve emotional balance, develop meaningful relationships, and navigate life's challenges with resilience.“5 Signs You Might Be a Drama Queen” by Claire Jack Ph.D.Borderline Personality DIsorder (BPD):What to know about people with BPD:Treatment Options:Dialectical thinking is the ability to view issues from multiple perspectives and to arrive at the most economical and reasonable reconciliation of seemingly contradictory information and postures.The Fours Steps of DBT: (Completion takes a minimum of six months to one year and often takes about two years.)Stage 1: Foundational DBT Skills: ‍This stage focuses on developing the foundational skills needed for managing emotions, improving relationships, and reducing impulsive behavior.Stage 2: Addressing the Issue: ‍This stage focuses on addressing trauma and other underlying issues contributing to emotional dysregulation.Stage 3: Greater Sense of Self-Respect: This stage focuses on achieving a greater sense of self-respect and self-esteem and developing a stronger sense of self-identity.Stage 4: Meaning & Purpose: This stage focuses on achieving a sense of meaning and purpose in life and developing a greater understanding of spiritual connection.Cognative Behavioral Therapy (CBT)A form of talk therapy that focuses on changing a persons internal dialog.Resources:Book: “I Hate You-Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality” by Jerold J. Kreisman and Hal Straus https://www.amazon.com/Hate-You-Dont-Leave-Understanding-Personality/dp/0399536213Book “Emotional Sobriety: From Relationship Trauma to Resilience and Balance” by Tian Dayton https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Sobriety-Relationship-Resilience-Balance/dp/0757306098Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/520National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.orghttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month):- Pro Producer ($100/month):- Master Producer ($50/month):- Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti &

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Drama Queens The New Predator Part 1-S05E19

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2024 100:59


Recorded: December 17, 2023 / Published: Feb 17, 2024 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this first episode of a three part series we are deep diving into the most controversial topic we have address on the podcast: the predatory drama queen.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Drama Queens: The New Predator Part 1-S05E19”https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disorders.is a personality disorder characterized by a pervasive pattern of instability. More specifically, Borderline Personality Disorder is characterized by instability in relationships, self-image, emotions, and behavior (impulsivity).Criteria for diagnosis:1. Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment. 2. A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation. 3. Identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self. 4. Impulsivity in at least two potentially self-damaging areas (e.g., spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating). 5. Recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures or threats, or self-mutilating behavior. 6. Affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and rarely more than a few days). 7. Chronic feelings of emptiness. 8. Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights). 9. Transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms. A pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by 5 (or more) of the following:1. Is uncomfortable in situations in which he or she is not the center of attention2. Interaction with others is often characterized by inappropriate sexually seductive or provocative behavior3. Displays rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotions4. Consistently uses physical appearance to draw attention to self5. Has a style of speech that is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detail6. Shows self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion7. Is suggestible (i.e. - easily influenced by others or circumstances)8. Considers relationships to be more intimate than they actually are“5 Signs You Might Be a Drama Queen” by Claire Jack Ph.D.Borderline Personality DIsorder (BPD):Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD)Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/519National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and Maria- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Meg, Astridinchains, littlebear22, and TeaVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Human Furniture What, Why, and How-S05E18

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2024 74:12


Recorded: Nov 3rd, 2023 / Published: Fed 4th, 2024- Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Human Furniture: What, Why, and How?-S05E18”Human furniture refers to a practice within the BDSM community where a person acts as an object or piece of furniture for another individual's use or pleasure. This practice involves a consensual and negotiated power exchange dynamic where one person willingly takes on the role of being used as an object or piece of furniture by another person or group. The person might be positioned or manipulated to resemble furniture, such as becoming a footstool, table, chair, or any other household item. The submissive might be required to hold a specific pose or position for a certain period, providing physical support or serving as a surface for the dominant person's comfort or convenience.Participation in human furniture kink, like many other activities within BDSM or fetish communities, can be motivated by a variety of psychological factors and individual desires. Here are a few potential reasons:Power Dynamics: For some, assuming the role of human furniture can be a way to explore power dynamics. Both the person taking on the role of furniture and the person using them may find pleasure in the exchange of power and control.Sensory Stimulation: Engaging in this kink might provide intense sensory experiences. For some individuals, being in a static position or role could create physical sensations or mental states that are stimulating or arousing.Role-Playing and Fantasy: Like many BDSM activities, human furniture play can involve role-playing and fulfilling specific fantasies. It could be a form of escapism or a way to explore desires that are not easily expressed in everyday life.Exploration and Experimentation: Engaging in unconventional or taboo activities like this can be a way for some to explore their own boundaries, desires, and limits within a safe and consensual context.Connection and Intimacy: It might also serve as a means of connection and intimacy between partners. Trust and communication are crucial in these scenarios, and the level of intimacy can deepen as participants engage in a vulnerable yet controlled environment.Crafting a human furniture scene: Like all scenes, there are eight basic steps to follow to help mitigate risks and increase rewards. A few of the most important things to remember are to communicate thoroughly, go slow, and don't expect yourself or someone else to be a table for hours on end at the start. Like kneeling, impact play, bondage, and most other types of play, a person needs to build stamina through practice.Communication and Consent: Start by discussing interests, desires, and limits with your partner(s). Clearly express what you're comfortable with and what you're interested in exploring. This includes the roles, positions, intensity of the play, medical conditions, medications, and psychological issues and needs.Establish Safe Words and Signals: Agree upon a safe word or signal that anyone involved can use to pause or stop the role play if they feel uncomfortable or need a break. Safety and consent are paramount.Define Roles and Scenarios: Decide who will take on the role of the human furniture and who will be the user. Discuss the specifics of the scene, including the type of furniture the submissive person will portray and the expectations regarding behavior and interaction.Set Up a Safe Space: Choose a safe and comfortable space for the role play. Ensure the area is free of potential hazards, and have any necessary equipment or padding to ensure the comfort and safety of the human furniture.Agree on Boundaries and Limits: Clearly establish boundaries and limits for the scene. Discuss what is acceptable and what is not, and ensure everyone involved understands and respects these boundaries.Consent to Physical Contact: Define the level of physical contact allowed during the role play. Some scenarios may involve touch or manipulation to position the human furniture, so make sure everyone consents to and is comfortable with the agreed-upon physical contact.Engage in the Role Play: Once everything is discussed and agreed upon, start the role play. Maintain open communication throughout the scene and regularly check in with each other to ensure everyone is comfortable and enjoying themselves.Aftercare: After the role play, engage in aftercare. This involves providing emotional support, reassurance, and comfort to each other. It's a crucial part of the experience, allowing participants to decompress and reconnect after intense or vulnerable moments.It's important to note that the motivations behind participating in human furniture kink, or any other BDSM-related activity, vary widely among individuals. Each person's preferences, desires, and reasons for engaging in such activities can differ significantly, and there is no single explanation that applies to everyone. The key aspect in these scenarios is mutual consent, communication, and respect for boundaries.What is human furniture?Why?Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/518National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.orghttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month):- Pro Producer ($100/month):- Master Producer ($50/month):- Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and Maria- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Meg, Astridinchains, littlebear22, and TeaVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/15927

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
BDSM Saved my Marriage and Life-S05E17

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2024 97:48


Recorded: November 5, 2023 / Published: , 2023 - Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode, we are talking to long-time Krypt Producer BuffaloMax about his introduction into BDSM and it saved his marriage and life.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “BDSM Saved my Marriage and Life-S05E17”Introduction: Buffalo_Max92 https://fetlife.com/users/12215665Ten Licks:How long have been into Kink?Top, bottom, or switch?Relationship Status?Favorite Position?Favorite Implement?Favorite Roleplay?Favorite kink or fetish?Favorite place for kink?Strangest Place you've had sex?Something you want to try?Marriage?Life?Advice to others?Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/517National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Study Reveals 68% Abuse Rate in BDSM-S05E16

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2023 83:16


Recorded: November 5, 2023 / Published: Dec 31, 2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, we are talking about a new study performed by the makers of the KinkD BDSM app that shows 68% of women who try BDSM through online meetups are assaulted.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Study Reveals 68% Abuse Rate in BDSM-S05E16”“68% of women have had a non-consensual experience trying BDSM” by Emilie Lavinia / Wed, 1 November 2023https://uk.news.yahoo.com/68-women-had-non-consensual-143800598.html?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAAEe7ATbsKgO0pty6e4qxTl1ehc0fP1U7B7LOJ6PUXD52kER9UTWkRS3kf4PVHMrYtFQt-FHvg9wiuZB0IGKnunZkdBZO9jH0XhPfyig5KZjhwQ7kADroYigntXg5WYfsi3NCj-PM3G7b42TSk8nHtttimTjq3O1Se9xfuL28E0XJA new piece of research has revealed that a staggeringly high number of women have had a non-consensual sexual experience while experimenting with a partner.The research, carried out by KinkD – a dating app for BDSM and kink enthusiasts, showed that 68% of female respondents claimed to have had a non-consensual kinky experience with people they'd met online who claimed to be into BDSM.Of more than 3,000 women who use online dating apps, more than half said they had experienced a violent or degrading act that hadn't been agreed upon with prior consent.As BDSM grows in popularity thanks to kinky dating apps, sex clubs and movies like Fifty Shades hitting the mainstream, knowing how to practice kink safely is more important than ever. According to Bedbible, ownership of BDSM equipment, such as ropes and whips, has increased, with 23% having used some form in 2023 compared to only 14% in 2017. So, if you're planning to allow someone to tie you up because it turns you on, it's vital that you feel safe.Kink, arguably, is not something that should be practiced with a stranger as it requires a level of trust and a clear understanding of your partner's interests, intentions and boundaries. However, the internet is a great place to connect with like-minded people who might be into the same stuff as you or have the same sexual fantasies, and that's why kinky dating apps work so well."In the diverse landscape of alternative relationship dating, these statistics underscore the importance of constant evolution and vigilant safety measures,” says John Martinuk, the founder of KinkD. “Our commitment isn't just to connect individuals with shared interests but to ensure that their interactions remain consensual and secure."The kink community is serious about safety, but if you're new to it, how are you supposed to know who is a safe person to hook up with and who isn't, and whether someone is being honest about their level of experience?If you're looking to broaden your horizons and you're curious about BDSM or trying new kinks or rough sex, there are several things you need to bear in mind before you dive in. This checklist isn't just about personal responsibility, it's about ensuring your partner knows the importance of personal respect, safety and boundaries, and the consequences of ignoring these things too.Always have a conversation with your partner before a “scene”, especially if you're meeting them for the first time. Discuss what you would like to happen, step by step and that any deviations from the plan that haven't been discussed will require consent before they happen.Agree on a safeword and agree that you'll use the traffic light system during the session. If something traumatic is happening to you, a common response is to freeze, which makes using your words a challenge. So make sure your partner knows your hand signals too.It's also important to state before anything happens that you expect the other person to respect you and your boundaries, and if they don't or if they intend to hurt you, that person will be responsible. Ask them if they're aware of the laws around consent and if they're happy to proceed.68% is a shocking number and with BDSM and kink on the rise in the bedroom – and why not, it can be very fun when practiced properly – it's up to everyone taking part to have a conversation about consent before, during and after sex.If you've been impacted by the information in this article or think you've been the victim of sexual assault or rape, in the U.S. you can contact National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-4673 if you live in the U.K. contact the 24/7 Rape & Sexual Abuse Support Line 24 hours a day on 0808 500 2222 or visit the website to start a free online chat.Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/516National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.orghttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month):- Pro Producer ($100/month):- Master Producer ($50/month):- Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon:

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Sex Fantasies by Your Zodiac Sign-S05E15

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2023 62:45


Recorded: October 15, 2023 / Published: Dec 20, 2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, we are talking about the hidden sexual fantasies associated with each Zodiac sign.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Your secret sexual fantasy, according to your zodiac sign”By Reda Wigle Published Aug. 30, 2023 / Updated Aug. 30, 2023https://nypost.com/2023/08/30/zodiac-signs-secret-sex-fantasy/1: ARIES (March 21 – April 19): Rough sex2: TAURUS (April 20 – May 20): Sex in the woods3: GEMINI (May 21 – June 20): Quickie in public4: CANCER (June 21 – July 22): Rope play5:LEO (July 23 – August 22): Voyeurism6: VIRGO (August 23 – September 22): Workplace fantasy7: LIBRA (September 23 – October 22): BDSMS8: SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21): Erotic asphyxiation9: SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21): Mile High Club10: CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19): Getting paid for sex11: AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18): Alien role play12: PISCES (February 19 – March 20): OrgyImportant Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/515National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.orghttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month):- Pro Producer ($100/month):- Master Producer ($50/month):- Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
How to Navigate BDSM and Trauma-S05E14

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2023 91:59


Recorded: September 17, 2023 / Published: , 2023 - Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, we are talking about where trauma and BDSM connect.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “How to Navigate BDSM and Trauma-S05E14”“Navigating The Delicate Yet Dynamic Universe Of BDSM And Kink With Trauma” by Tanisha RK / Sept. 25, 2023https://elle.in/navigating-bsdm-and-kink-with-trauma/1: Understanding Trauma2: Navigating BDSM3: Where Kink and Trauma Connect4: Realizing The Role Kink Plays In Trauma RecoveryImportant Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/514National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
What is BDSM Depth Play-S05E13

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2023 77:42


Recorded: September 17, 2023 / Published: Nov 30, 2023 - - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com.- - In this episode, we are all learning together as this was something I never heard of until last night. Depth Play?!?!?!- - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com) - 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed - 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity - 3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- - “What is BDSM Depth Play?-S05E13” - “What Is Depth Play: The Ultimate Guide” - by J Station X: Sports, Video Games and More - https://jstationx.com/what-is-depth-play/Exploring the world of BDSM can be an exciting and fulfilling journey for individuals who are open to exploring their deepest desires. Within the realm of BDSM, there are numerous activities and practices that cater to various interests, one of which is depth play. In this article, we will delve into the concept of depth play, its purpose, and common FAQs associated with it.What Is Depth Play?Depth play is a term used to describe a specific type of BDSM activity that focuses on exploring intense psychological and emotional experiences. It involves delving into the depths of one's mind and emotions to create intense connections and sensations. Depth play can encompass a wide range of activities, such as intense role-playing scenarios, mind games, sensory deprivation, and more.The Purpose of Depth Play:The primary purpose of depth play is to challenge and explore the psychological and emotional aspects of BDSM. It allows participants to push their boundaries, experience intense emotions, and develop a deeper understanding of themselves and their partners. Depth play can create a strong sense of vulnerability, trust, and connection between individuals involved.Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs):- Is depth play only for experienced BDSM practitioners? No, depth play can be enjoyed by individuals at any level of experience. However, it is crucial to have open and honest communication with your partner(s) and establish clear boundaries before engaging in any depth play activities.- Is depth play safe? Like any BDSM activity, safety is paramount. It is crucial to engage in depth play with a trusted partner(s) who respects your limits and consent. Establishing a safe word and practicing aftercare are essential aspects of ensuring a safe and consensual experience.- Are there any risks associated with depth play? While depth play can be emotionally intense, it is essential to engage in activities that are within your emotional and psychological limits. Pushing boundaries is encouraged, but it should be done gradually and with the utmost care, ensuring the well-being of all involved parties.- Can depth play be done in a long-distance relationship? Yes, depth play can be adapted to long-distance relationships through various means such as virtual role-playing, intense messaging, or webcam sessions. However, it is crucial to establish clear communication channels and ensure the emotional well-being of all parties involved.- What are some common activities involved in depth play? Common activities may include intense role-playing scenarios, psychological mind games, sensory deprivation, humiliation play, consensual non-consent, and more. The possibilities are extensive and depend on the interests and boundaries of the participants.- How can one prepare for depth play? Preparation for depth play involves open communication, establishing boundaries, and discussing desires, limits, and potential triggers with your partner(s). Engaging in aftercare activities, such as emotional support and debriefing, is also crucial for a positive experience.- Can depth play be therapeutic? For some individuals, depth play can be therapeutic, as it allows them to explore and process deep-seated emotions and desires in a safe and consensual environment. However, it is important to approach depth play with the understanding that it is not a substitute for professional therapy.- How can one ensure the emotional well-being of all parties involved? Open communication, consent, and aftercare are key to ensuring the emotional well-being of all parties involved. Regular check-ins, creating a safe and non-judgmental space, and establishing trust are crucial aspects of engaging in healthy depth play.- Can depth play be combined with other BDSM practices? Yes, depth play can be combined with a wide range of other BDSM practices, such as bondage, impact play, or sensory play. The key is to communicate and negotiate boundaries and desires with your partner(s) to create a mutually satisfying experience.- Are there any resources available for learning more about depth play? Yes, there are numerous resources available, including books, online forums, and educational workshops that delve into the concept of depth play. It is important to research and educate yourself before engaging in any new BDSM activity.- Can depth play be enjoyed by individuals who are not interested in pain or physical sensations? Yes, depth play is not solely focused on pain or physical sensations. It primarily focuses on exploring intense psychological and emotional experiences. It can be tailored to suit the interests and boundaries of all individuals involved.- Is depth play only for romantic partners? No, depth play can be enjoyed any individuals who have established trust and consent. It is not limited to romantic partners and can be experienced with friends or other trusted individuals.- Can depth play lead to long-term psychological effects? When practiced responsibly, depth play should not lead to long-term psychological effects. However, it is essential to be aware of personal limits, communicate openly, and prioritize self-care and emotional well-being during and after engaging in depth play activities.In conclusion, depth play is a captivating and intense form of BDSM that focuses on exploring psychological and emotional experiences. It can be enjoyed by individuals at any level of experience, as long as there is open communication, consent, and a focus on personal and emotional well-being. Engaging in depth play can create profound connections, trust, and self-discovery, making it a powerful and fulfilling aspect of the BDSM world.Important Links:- Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/513- National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255- NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):Become a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/PatreonMake a one-time donation: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- - Benefactor ($2,000/month):- - Pro Producer ($100/month):- - Master Producer ($50/month):- - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer- - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22- - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)- - http://bdsmcontracts.org/ Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.Contact info:- Email: mailto:MasterKuldrin@gmail.com- Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
I'm Ashamed of My Kink-S05E12

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2023 108:40


Recorded: Aug 20, 2023 / Published: Nov 16, 2023 - Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode, we are diving into the why, what, when, where, and how of people being ashamed of their own kinks.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “I'm Ashamed of My Kink-S05E12”Why do people feel shame?SocietyFamilyFriendsReligionSelf-esteemSelf judgementOutedWhat exactly do people feel?ShameDisgracePersecution When do people feel ashamed?When they fantasize.When they perform.When it's been done.When others talk about it.Where do people feel shame?HomeWorkChurchLifeHow do people feel shame?MentallyPhysicallyFinanciallyRelationships / SociallyHow does a person conquer their shame?It depends on the person and their reason for feeling ashamed.A better understanding of themselves.A better understanding of their kinks.A better understanding of their religion.TherapyImportant Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/512National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

The TheatreArtLife Podcast
Episode 194: Integrating Theater Technologies at Sea with Jon Shaw

The TheatreArtLife Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2023 35:23


Jon, originally from England, grew up in Australia and Zambia due to his father's engineering career. After studying Maths and Engineering, he discovered a passion for theatre and began with RCI in 1996. Recognized for his talent in automation, Jon quickly rose to Production Manager, assisting in world-renowned ship builds, such as Voyager and Oasis of the Seas. Over the years, he has collaborated on major productions and recently worked on pioneering cruise projects in India and Italy. Jon is now a freelance Automation Tech and working with SPARK as a consultant. Offstage, he enjoys motorcycles and scuba diving.   @theatreartlife Thank you to our sponsor @clear-com The TheatreArtLife Podcast is a branch of our larger TheatreArtLife Community. Come visit us at www.theatreartlife.com

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
So, You're Not Kinky, Now What-S05E11

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2023 77:40


Recorded: August 20, 2023 / Published: Oct. 18, 2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, we are talking about the current push to be kinky.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “So, You're Not Kinky, What Now?-S05E11”https://hellogiggles.com/i-tried-being-kinky/ By Katka Lapelosova April 16, 2023When it comes to sex, I am always interested in exploring new experiences and pushing the boundaries of what is considered normal. But as someone who has dedicated a majority of my adult life to researching and writing about and sex and relationships, I'm surprisingly not kinky.I've had hundreds of sex partners, yet I've always been a bit hesitant about venturing into the world of fetishes. A lot of my sexually liberated friends think you're not really good at sex until you've tried everything in the book: sex parties, swinging, furries, pony play, wax play… the list goes on and on.But sometimes I get overwhelmed just visiting a sex shop. Will a latex bodysuit chafe my nipples? How many calories are in edible panties? Does a leather whip really need a bluetooth speaker?And then there's the question of why even bother with all this off-the-wall stuff when the simple act itself is pretty damn good. My therapist once told me kink is always rooted in something much deeper than the act of sex itself.“It's why all these CEOs are into dominatrixes and humiliation,” she explained. “They spend their days screaming at lower level employees and manipulating people into doing what they need to build their business. They want to be dommed because they want someone else to make the decisions for once.”I certainly am not looking to sex to alleviate work-related imbalances. But I did wonder, am I really not sexually adventurous if I'm kink-averse? Am I missing out? I decided to explore it more, and this is what I learned.Apparently, butt stuff isn't kinkyBDSM is such a head tripCostumes are expensive.And then there are some things I just flat out won't doI Stop telling me I'll “find my kink” eventuallyImportant Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/511National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Kinks Don't Match End It!-S05E10

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2023 82:07


Recorded: July 16, 2023 / Published: Oct 4, 2023 Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Kinks Don't Match? End It!-S05E10”https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/jun/23/i-am-kinky-but-my-partner-is-not-should-i-end-our-secure-loving-relationship“Every relationship involves sacrifices, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. But yours might not be as fulfilling as you think – for either partyTalk about Stephen Ing's “Your magic sex number” and personal experiences to intro the topic.“I am kinky but my partner is not. Should I end our secure, loving relationship?” by Eleanor Gordon-Smith Thu 22 Jun 2023I have been in a loving relationship for three years. When I first met him, I told a close friend that I thought I'd met the love of my life. That initial infatuation gave way to a more realistic affection, but he's smart, handsome and caring. I enjoy our time together and feel secure and trusting.Sexually, things were enjoyable at the beginning. That calmed down into a less frantic dynamic but we still have sex once per week.I am kinky and he is not. We have discussed this and he doesn't feel comfortable doing the things that I enjoy.Initially, I thought this would be OK – relationships always have compromise – but as time has gone on I am not sure it is something I can forgo. He has made clear that an open relationship would not be acceptable to him.I have an anonymous online profile on a kink dating site. I started talking with someone who shared my interests. We met, and the sexual encounter was satisfying to a level I have never experienced before. We have continued to meet on a weekly basis for six months. Neither party knows about the other.I do not want to end my relationship, but I cannot live without this aspect of my sexuality. I feel guilt about being unfaithful but exploring in this way has enabled me to stay in the relationship.Should I leave my partner because of the gap between our sexual tastes? Should I give up my kink desires for what is otherwise a relationship I would have no reason to leave?My boyfriend's aggressive dog has stalled our plans to move in together. How can we move forward?Eleanor says: Listen, it's fine to feel that this part of your sexuality is something you can't live without. It's also fine to decide that a relationship isn't going to work because of that. We get to leave relationships when staying would mean being bereft over missing out on something. That doesn't get less true just because the thing in question is sexual. You could leave if you wanted kids and your partner didn't; if you wanted to live in a particular country and your partner didn't. Continuing a relationship isn't just a question of whether you like this person, it's a question of whether your lives can really dovetail.But what's never going to be fine is continually deceiving your partner into staying in a relationship that isn't the way they think it is or the way they want it to be. You say your partner has been clear that he wouldn't be alright with an open relationship. Unbeknown to him, though, he's already been in one, and continuing these meetups is continuing to keep him in an arrangement you know he wouldn't be OK with.Your partner will be making sacrifices to be in this relationship. They might differ from the sacrifices you make in their content and exact contours, but all of us change our lives and reorder our priorities to be in a relationship. So far as I can tell, you're accepting this person's sacrifices – monogamy, commitment, support, cooperation, friendship. He's making considerable alterations to his life in order to have a certain kind of relationship with you, which, in fact, he isn't getting.It is not deviant or selfish to decide that you have to have this part of yourself satisfied. For many of us, sexuality isn't an optional extra to a life well-lived, it's just as crucial an ingredient in wellbeing as friends or exercise or time with family. The fact that it's called “kink” and gets relegated to the sidelines of subculture doesn't mean you have to relegate it to the sidelines of your life.But it's just never going to be the case that the best thing to do would be to carry on deceiving someone who you respect. Quite aside from the obvious unfairness, it also won't get you what you want – not really. You want to feel electric. You don't want to keep this part of yourself separate from the rest of your life forever, so that it's always wrapped up with splintering; with concealment.You said that, this aside, you'd have no reason to leave. As I see it, though, you do have a reason to leave: the fact that if you stay, you'll be deciding your partner should remain in a relationship of significant deceit instead of finding someone whose preferences about sex and monogamy really do align with his. Whether to end this relationship isn't just a question of, as you put it, what you want.”Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/510National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.orghttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month):- Pro Producer ($100/month):- Master Producer ($50/month):- Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, clk124, gentleman_sadist- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, XxLilyXxX, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, A.U., Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, and Valfreyja- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dark Diamonte, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
A Guide to Edging-S05E08

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2023 63:34


Recorded: July 2, 2023 / Published: August 10, 2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, we are talking about one of my favorite things-edging.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “A Guide to Edging-S05E08”Delayed gratification: Building up to orgasm and repeatedly backing off builds up the physical, mental, and emotional anticipation typically resulting in harder, longer, and more fulfilling orgasms.Control: It is very common in BDSM play for the Dom(me) to deny or edge a submissive. Denial of a basic animalistic urge can be an extremely intoxicating type of controlAwareness: Edging tends to make people more self-aware of their bodies and minds involving their orgasmic state and how things like breathing and internal thoughts add to or take away from their orgasms. They can then apply that knowledge to other sexual experiences when not edging to provide similar results.According to Anne Russo, LCSW, “edging involves building up to orgasm and then slowing down or taking breaks before you or your partner reach climax. The process, sometimes called “surfing” or “peaking,” can increase blood flow to the genitals to enhance arousal. This can create a lot of sexual tension and excitement, which can lead to a really intense and pleasurable orgasm. It's like a rollercoaster ride for your body.”The prolonged release of dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, testosterone, and estrogen can provide a much deeper and longer-lasting euphoric state.Addiction: due to the release of neurotransmitters and hormones it is an easily addictive behavior.Loss of orgasm: This can happen once (common), often (common), or permanently (rare). There is a fine line between an edging, a denied, and a ruined orgasm. Many people if edged too long can become so mentally frustrated that it gets in the way of the physical release.Some people start requiring longer and longer “rollercoaster rides” to get the same level of chemical release. If this is constantly being fed, the mind and body will become programmed through classic conditioning and won't be able to get enough to complete the release. You will easily recognize this happening and you know to take a few weeks or even a few months from all sexual activity to allow for a reset. It's also advised to seek help from a professional therapist or psychologist who specializes in sexual addictions and dysfunctions.Diminished or loss of genital sensitivity: On average it takes women 20 minutes to climax and men 2-10 minutes. Think about the amount of stimulation that it takes for an hour, two-hour, or ten-hour “rollercoaster ride” of edging! Now, multiply that by the average number of times a person masturbates and has sex a week. I don't have those figures but that's got to be a metric shit-ton. The nerves are so sensitive that prolonged, intense stimulation can cause them to dull. This can make it difficult, hard, or even impossible to orgasm.The numbers game: rating the pleasure intensity on a scale from 0-10 and picking numbers or rolling dice for pleasure peaks and valleys.How close can you get? Pushing for the exact edge of climax without going over.Ejaculating without orgasm: Running a man to edge of climax and then removing all stimulation can cause men to ejaculate without the full body orgasm. This often means no loss of erection and further build-ups to finally achieve climax is possible.A great article on edging by Tianna Soto: https://stylecaster.com/lifestyle/love-sex/1388127/what-is-edging/What is edging? Edging, peaking, or surfing is a sexual technique whereby an orgasm is controlled for the purpose of prolonged pleasure and/or agony, It can be performed alone or with a partner and involves the maintenance of a high level of sexual arousal for an extended period without reaching climax.Why?How does it work?Who's it for? Everyone, right?!?! Well, no. I haven't been able to find any statistics I trust so basing it only on my personal experiences, I'd say half or most people have stronger, longer-lasting orgasms from edging, around 20% have mixed results, and 20% have consistently diminished orgasmic experiences.Risks?How? Easy! First, if doing this with a partner, talk about it thoroughly and openly. Make sure everyone is on board, consent is agreed upon, and an easy safe word is known. Bring yourself or your partner to the brink of orgasm and slow down, stop, or move the focal point of stimulation to another part of the body. Do this as many times as desired or until a safe word is called. Be sure to talk about what that safe word means. Does it mean all sexual contact must stop? Is it a way to say “I can't take it anymore! I need to cum NOW!” or does it indicate a need to check in and see which one the person wants. I prefer that “yellow” means “check in with me”, “May I PLEASE cum, Sir” tells me she's had enough and want to be finished off, and “red” means all activity stops, I check on their physical, mental, and emotional safety, provide any medical attention, support, food, drink, or space needed, and enter in to aftercare. It is not the time for 20 questions of “Why did you call red?!?!?!” They will get to that. It is time to make sure your partner feels and is safe.Games:Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/508National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.orghttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month):- Pro Producer ($100/month):- Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, Maxi, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, clk124, gentleman_sadist- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, XxLilyXxX, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, A.U., Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, and Valfreyja- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dark Diamonte, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Most Things to Know About BDSM Brats-S05E07

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2023 74:49


Recorded: June 18, 2023 / Published: Sept. 2, 2023 - Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode, Mayfair and I discuss most of the things to know about BDSM brats.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Most Things to Know About BDSM Brats-S05E07”“A beginner's guide to being a 'brat' in BDSM”By: Gigi Engle on April 20,, 2023https://mashable.com/article/bdsm-brats-explained -What is a brat?“Make me.” According to the Fetlife Kinktionairy, a brat is defined as “A person who likes to exhibit one or more of the following behaviors: teasing, playful, sneaky, mischievous, stubborn, rebellious, disrespectful, or disobedient. This behavior may be a component of their power exchange relationship and should be consented to beforehand”Emerson Karsh, a kink educator, said “A "brat" is a delightfully disobedient sub within the Dom/sub dynamic in BDSM. "Brats enjoy questioning dominance, as well as like for dominance to be proven to them."- Why would you want to be a brat during play or sex? Why wouldn't you? Being cheeky, disobedient, snarky, and naughty can be fun. It creates a sense of playfulness that is often missing in sex. Being a brat is a very fun way to engage with your submissive side, without being a stereotypical sub. Brats are mouthy, badly behaved, and keen on punishment."Brats get great enjoyment from playing [a game of] cat and mouse, defying authority, and in turn receiving a ‘punishment' from their Brat Tamer," explains Julieta Chiaramonte, another kink instructor and sex expert.If you're turned on by disobedience, this might be something you want to explore.-What it means to be a 'brat.'The brat can be a very fun submissive persona. A brat intentionally misbehaves in order to get a rise out of their Dom, often eliciting "punishments." The brat enjoys driving the Dom a bit mad with their naughtiness. It's all centered around defying authority, which can be very hot.A brat will taunt, push boundaries, and test their Dom's limits and patience in hopes of causing a reaction. The Brat Tamer/brat dynamic is typically very playful and easily adjusted for nearly any consenting dynamic. -How is this submission?Brats offer their submission in a way that is amusing, consensual, and done for a reaction. You're not being obedient in the traditional D/s way, but a brat will submit when their Dom decides to punish them.-The Dom is the 'brat tamer.'They may choose to go by a different name like Sir, Daddy, Mommy,or whatever but the brat tamer is their style of Domination.Their 'role' is to put their brat in their place, remind them of the rules, and enforce punishments and order that was negotiated. While it may not appear like it to some Brat Tamer is an authoritative and patient role that one must be comfortable and confident with accepting.Brat Tamer is not a soft roll. You can not be afraid to put your foot down. It takes a lot of skill and development. You have to hone your skills in giving your brat space to be a brat and maintain a healthy power exchange. It could be through punishments, orders, ignoring the brat or the behavior, or something else.-How brats act out and how they get punished.Ask a thousand people and get a thousand answers. However, here are a few common examples for each:Verbally:Make me.That's all?You can do better than that.You can't make me.Oh, yeah? What's the worst that can happen?Prove it.BehaviorallyThrowing thingsSitting down when told to “come here”Punishments Spankings.Orgasm denial.Forced silence.Getting walked like a puppy.Forced orgasm.Bondage.Tickling.Being put in a cage.-How to engage in brat play in a safe way.Do your research.Communication and consent.Pick a safe word.Start Low Go SlowDon't be afraid to get creative. Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/507National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701 - Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, Maxi, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and clk124- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, XxLilyXxX, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, A.U., Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, and Valfreyja- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dark Diamonte, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
New Consent Laws for BDSM-S05E06

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2023 58:02


Recorded: May 21st, 2023 / Published: August 19th, 2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, Mayfair and I are diving deep into the new legal standards involving BDSM.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “New Consent Laws for BDSM-S05E06”“Criminal Charges and Consensual Kink New guidelines may help consenting adults avoid being charged.” Posted June 2, 2023 by: David J. Ley, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist and the author of “Insatiable Wives, Women Who Stray and The Men Who Love Them.”https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/202306/criminal-charges-and-consensual-kink KEY POINTSBDSM and kinky sexual practices are increasingly seen as forms of normal sexual diversity.BDSM and kinky sex can result in criminal charges, even when such behaviors are completely consensual.New guidelines, known as Explicit Prior Permission (EPP), may offer protection from prosecution.EPP requires explicit informed consent, no extreme behaviors, and an ability to end activities.There is increasing evidence that human sexuality involves far more diverse flavors and interests than historically acknowledged. When von Kafft-Ebing first began labeling various paraphilic sexual interests, they were believed to be generally rare. But research by Joyal and Carpentier reports that nearly 50 percent of a non-clinical, random sample disclosed being interested in at least one sexual behavior historically deemed unusual or anomalous.Criminal Conflict With BDSMEPP: Explicit Prior PermissionImportant Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/506National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, Maxi, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and clk124- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, XxLilyXxX, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, A.U., Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, and Valfreyja- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dark Diamonte, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Let's Talk about Rough Sex-S05E05

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2023 91:10


Recorded: May 21, 2023 / Published: August 12, 2023 - Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, Mayfair and I are talking about the somewhat controversial topic of blood play.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Let's Talk about Rough Sex-S05E05”“Kinktok, BDSM and manhandling: never mind the so-called "sex recession", here's what horny young people are getting up to in the bedroom.” LIFE Words: by Brit Dawson / 16th May 2023https://theface.com/life/why-is-everyone-so-into-rough-sex-right-now-dating-relationships-adviceWhether you're single and sleeping around or shacked up and living vicariously through your mates' wild dating lives, you'll have likely heard that sex is going through a rough patch right now.Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/505National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701 - Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, Maxi, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and clk124- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, XxLilyXxX, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, A.U., Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, and Valfreyja- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dark Diamonte, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
BDSM Blood Play-S05E04

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2023 61:29


Recorded: May 7, 2023 / Published: August 5, 2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, Mayfair and I are talking about the somewhat controversial topic of blood play.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “BDSM Blood Play-S05E04”Playing to the point of bloodlettingBlood bathingBlood consumptionMenstrual bloodCombining the erotic and the spiritualThe connection with the person or people involvedImpact PlaySharpsScratchesBitingSyringe DrawsLancettes for diabetic testingConsumption: In very small amounts (say, a few teaspoons), and if the blood is free from pathogens (such as the many blood-borne diseases), blood might not harm you. Beyond that, watch out. The strange fact is, blood, when drank, is toxic. Sourced from “7 strange ways that people act like vampires” YouTube does not allow this link. For uncensored show notes visit: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/504Testing for fluid/blood bondingIf biting, help mitigate risks by rinsing with an alcohol-based mouthwash.Standard Precautions Vs Universal PrecautionsUniversal precautions are applicable to all patients, while standard precautions provide an additional layer of protection for those at higher risk of transmitting certain infections. Together, they create a comprehensive and effective strategy for reducing the risk of healthcare-associated diseases.PPEgloves, gowns, masks, protective eyewear, splatter protection,...Wound careDisinfect with antiseptic. Do not use peroxide.Apply wound care ointment.Cover with sterile bandages.Keep clean and change dressing regularly.Disclaimer: We are not doctors. We are not providing 100% of all information on the topic of blood play. While we enjoy it, for safety purposes we do not endorse anyone participating in blood play activities. If you choose to participate in this behavior, you are doing so at your own risk and with the understanding that you are responsible for further information, education, risks, harms, and deaths resulting from this activity.What is blood play?Why?How?Precautions?Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/504National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.orghttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month):- Pro Producer ($100/month):- Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, Maxi, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and clk124- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, XxLilyXxX, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, A.U., Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, and Valfreyja- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dark Diamonte, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist- Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
"Red and Black" Movie Interview w Bueller-S05E09

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2023 93:06


Recorded: July 16, 2023 / Published: July 21, 2023 - Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode, we are talking to Bueller, the mind behind “Red and Black” which is a new heist movie featuring a femme fatal Dominatrix, BDSM, and a rollercoaster of fun.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “"Red and Black" Movie Interview w/ Bueller-S05E09”Bueller is a member of the Utah kink community and the Utah indie film industry. He's made over 50 short films (several of which have won awards) and is currently making his first feature film. In his spare time, he likes to read comic books.Bueller's social media: https://AllMyLinks.com/RedAndBlackMovieIndieGoGo: https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/red-and-black-heist-movie/x/33237469 Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/509National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, Maxi, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, clk124, gentleman_sadist- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, XxLilyXxX, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, A.U., Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, and Valfreyja- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dark Diamonte, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Primal Play Roundtable with AcroDag-S05E03

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2023 99:47


Recorded: April 16, 2023 / Published: July 3, 2023 - Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode, Mayfair and I are joined by Arc_Ulfgrim and AcrDag to talk about everything primal.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Primal Play with AcroDag-S05E03”AcroDag: Bio :Acrodag (He/Him) is a demi-queer sadistic werewolf and national presenter who seeks to share the knowledge they've gained as well as highlight diverse experiences and voices in our community. They host a weekly kink education podcast, ‘Topside Talk' and they are the Education Director for Denver Sanctuary. With 10+ years in the kink community, they have a passion for all levels of kink education, but specialize in topics they've researched extensively, surrounding negotiation, pain/impact, primal play, and interrogation scenes.Top Side Talk Podcast: https://spotify.link/797L0oCc8xb What is Primal Play?What is a primal power exchange/dynamic like?How to negotiate a primal scene.Safety concerns?Techniques?Primal gamesImportant Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/503National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701 - Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, Maxi, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and OnceUponATime81- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and clk124- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, XxLilyXxX, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, A.U., Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, and Valfreyja- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dark Diamonte, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Kinky isn't just Normal it's Typical-S05E02

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2023 83:39


Recorded: April 2, 2023 / Published: June 27, 2023 You can text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode, we are helping everyone feel more comfortable in their own skin by explaining why being kinky is not only normal but typical.Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young“Kinky isn't just Normal it's Typical-S05E02”“Why You May Not Be as Kinky As You Think”04/03/2023 by Justin Lehmillerhttps://areomagazine.com/2023/03/04/why-you-may-not-be-as-kinky-as-you-think/Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/502National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.orghttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701Benefactor ($2,000/month):- Pro Producer ($100/month):- Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Saviy, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and DarkDiamond- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Katie, Kitten399, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Neon, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, Finn, Unassuming_dude, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyJay, Daddy's Princess- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black as Blood, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist- Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Things Only submissives Know-S05E01

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2023 72:09


Recorded: March 19, 2023 / Published: June 21, 2023 - Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Mayfair. Kuldrin is still out recovering from surgery. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and Kuldrin's 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. -In this episode, while Master Kuldrin is still recovering from his surgery Mayfair and Junicornsangel will be taking over. We asked our Discord Group group what questions they have for a submissives-only show. So chat room, get your question ready for Juni and me! Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young-“Things Only submissives Know-S05E01”Mayfair Intro,Juni Intro Update on Kuldrin's Recovery As we ask questions of each other, we invite the chat room to participate with their answers, and any questions they want to ask, as well!Favorite scene with KuldrinMayfair's- 1st scene together, possibly the closest I was to frenzy, I was so caught up in the moment I didn't want it to end. Juni's- 1st scene - discovery of my Primal side or Humiliation scene that led to my understanding of why I like that kind of play.Funniest or most awkward moment in mid scene Mayfair's- While it wasn't a scene, the day I got my nipples pierced, the piercing lady told me “Good Girl” after she completed the 2nd one. I immediately looked at Kuldrin, I know my face asked was she allowed to say that?! He laughed and said well she did just top you so to speak its ok and you were a Good Girl. Juni's- snot bubbles! Tears, drool, sweat, all okay, but trying to keep the nose from dripping! ( And arousal.. Awkward for me!)We asked our fellow Kryptors for suggestions about what they'd like us to talk about, & here were some of the suggestions: How would you like to be approached on FL? Neither one of us receives that many messages, but what would the right approach be for you? Frenzy; crazy things we've seen while people are in frenzy (side note: this was presented as “sub”frenzy, and I have some thoughts on that!) Favorite things (songs on your kink playlist, favorite kink furniture, favorite kink implement, something unexpected about kinksters that you've learned, Favorite Kuldrin's Krypt episode - chat room participation would be great for all of these!) Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/501National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Saviy, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and DarkDiamond- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Katie, Kitten399, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Neon, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, Finn, Unassuming_dude, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyJay, Daddy's Princess- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black as Blood, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

How To Tickle Yourself
How Many Guitarists Can One Man Be?

How To Tickle Yourself

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2023 43:09


Longtime listeners will know we love musicians on this podcast. We particularly love musicians whose music we love listening to. That's why it's such a thrill to welcome guitarist Scott Metzger to the show this week. Because he's in four of our favorite bands. In addition to being a founding member of the Grateful Dead revivalist outfit Joe Russo's Almost Dead, Scott is part of the “Telecaster rock trio” WOLF! (along with Jon Shaw and Talor Floreth), and the trio LaMP (with Trey Anastasio band members Russ Lawton and Ray Paczkowski). He also recently released Too Close to Reason, the first solo album of his 20+-year career. The label? Our friends at Royal Potato Family, who also released the latest from WOLF!, an EP called Adult Entertainment. Check out any or all of these incarnations of Scott Metzger on Spotify. They will not disappoint.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Submissive's Roundtable #2-S04E52

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2023 95:41


Recorded: Feb. 19, 2023 / Published: June 16, 2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode, I am fading off to the background as Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast takes over as moderator for a submissives roundtable with Mayfair, junicornangel, and sub_x13.. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Submissive Roundtable #2-S04E52”Mayfair85 (https://fetlife.com/users/5147394)junicornsAngel (https://fetlife.com/users/8828974)Sub_X13 (https://fetlife.com/users/10968318)Moderated by Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast https://www.eroticawakening.com/ Panel Members:Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/452National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Saviy, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and DarkDiamond- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Katie, Kitten399, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Neon, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, Finn, Unassuming_dude, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyJay, Daddy's Princess- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black as Blood, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Catching the Feels for a Playpartner-S04E51

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2023 83:15


Recorded: Feb 5, 2023 / Published: June 10, 2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode Mayfair and I are addressing a listener question about what to do when you catch the feels for a play partner.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Catching the Feels for a Playpartner-S04E51”Anonymous writes:Hello Kuldrin!First, let me say that your podcast is a treasure trove! I just recently entered the BDSM community, and your podcast has been an amazing help!Question: Have you done an episode on catching the feels for play partners? I am in a monogamous marriage but we just started playing with others. I have kind of become infatuated with my first and so far only "extramarital" play partner. Lucky for me he lives 3 hours away and all signs point to the feelings not being mutual.We plan on seeing him again and probably playing with them.I don't like how easily I developed the feels for him. First time I've had this experience in over 20 years and I'm not sure how to process it. We barely spent any time with them, so it isn't any deeper than sexual attraction, I think.So long story short, do you have an episode that addresses this?Thanks!My response:Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/451National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.orghttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month):- Pro Producer ($100/month):- Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Saviy, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and DarkDiamond- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Katie, Kitten399, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Neon, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, Finn, Unassuming_dude, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyJay, Daddy's Princess- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black as Blood, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist- Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Off The Blocks Swimming Podcast
The Shannon Rollason Podcast Episode 30 - Transitioning Programs From Age To Open Part 1 (Special Guest Jon Shaw)

Off The Blocks Swimming Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2023 74:06


Welcome to The Shannon Rollason Podcast, a swimming podcast like no other. The Shannon Rollason Podcast is back in 2023 and on a new home here on the Off The Blocks Swimming Podcast network. This week Shannon and I discuss the Rugby League State of Origin NSW v QLD and things we can learn and adapt to swimming as coaches.  We discuss transitioning from a successful age group program into a successful open squad program and how you go about it, things to look at and knowing when your program isn't suitable for open athletes We are also joined by a very special guest NSW Swimming Coaching Director Jon Shaw. Jon joins us to discuss the Blues loss, and gives us his thoughts on transitioning our NSW swimmers from top Age group swimmers to top Open level swimmers, and what the future looks like.

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Contracts, Kink Tok, & More with Master Gabriel-S04E50

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2023 107:49


Recorded: January 15, 2023 / Published: June 2, 2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week's episode Master Gabriel is back for a visit to talk about some listener questions regarding contracts, KinkTok, and a few other things.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Contracts, Kink Tok, and More w/ Master Gabriel-S04E50”Trinityfae: (A) Revising and revisiting. (B) Building up and growing a smaller community.Trouble113: What's the best/safest way to get back into BDSM if you have been out for a long time? And what to avoid.Ariel: "Is he going to be restarting The event called Gentleman in Charge (I think it's called)? I had heard great things about it, but never got to participate in it because of Covid."babylove: kink-tok- has he seen an increase in new people because of kink-tok/pandemic kink?Trinityfae: That's a good one! How he feels about it in general. Are there creators he feels are actually decent?House Standards Topics:What is the difference between Discipline and Punishment. When is it appropriate to discipline? When is it appropriate to punish?What are "Honorifics" and "Titles" are. When are each commonly used in the community?What is the difference between communication during a scene and "Topping from the bottom."Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/450National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701 - Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81(Special shout-out: I heard you got your shit and was wearing it with pride to the Dungeon!)- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Saviy, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and DarkDiamond- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Katie, Kitten399, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Neon, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, Finn, Unassuming_dude, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyJay, Daddy's Princess- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black as Blood, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Dark Communities, Yucking Yums, & Sensualists-S04E49

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2023 83:59


Recorded: Dec 18, 2022 / Published: May 28, 2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this week's episode we are talking about Dark Communities, Yucking Yums, & Sensualists. Plus, there will be a bonus conversation about D/s and M/s communication that comes from a listener question.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Dark Communities, Yucking Yums, & Sensualists-S04E49”A shout-out to Matt for asking me about these things!What are “Dark Communities”?What is up with the saying “don't yuck someone else's yum”?Since nearly everything we do in the world of BDSM makes a person feel something either physically, mentally, emotionally, or any combination of them, what is a sensualist?Bonus Topic:I've gone back to the very beginning of the podcast and started from episode one.The one question I have about communicating in an M/s dynamic when speaking is restricted is about emergency situations. If the slave gets burned or cut in the kitchen making dinner or out doing yard work can they ask for help by yelling that they've been hurt and need assistance? Or will they get in trouble for not following protocol despite the injury?Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/449National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.orghttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month):- Pro Producer ($100/month):- Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81(Special shout-out: I heard you got your shit and was wearing it with pride to the Dungeon!)- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Saviy, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, and Iamar Kinhawk- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Katie, Kitten399, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Neon, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, Finn, Unassuming_dude, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyJay, Daddy's Princess- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, and Black as BloodVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Coercive Control with Shadow Weavers EDU-S04E48

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2023 98:10


Recorded: 12/04/2022 / Published: May/20/2023- Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this week's episode we are joined by _Rhiannon_ of ShadowWeaversEDU to talk about Coercive Control.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Coercive Control with Shadow Weavers EDU-S04E48”Rhiannon is a 31 year old Indigenous woman living in Upstate New York with her Master and two cats. She has been a 24/7 slave in the BDSM community since 2015. While serving she also worked as a Pro-Domme online and in person for the same amount of time. In 2021 Rhiannon took over as Co-Director of MAst Rochester- a chapter of the international organization, Masters and slaves together. This organization historically was founded by members of the gay leather community and seeks to help those who are interested in learning more about power-exchange within the lifestyle and authority based relationships. Rhiannon has been leading workshops and BDSM 101 presentations for about 3 years now. She has filled many roles within her submission from babygirl, to slave, to human house pet and identifies as a divine concubine to honor her sacred sexuality within her current dynamic.In addition to her lifestyle experience, Rhiannon has worked with adults who have severe and persistent mental illness for 8 years. She has served that community in many positions from residential and peer counseling, to apartment programs that seek to help those with mental illness maintain their independence. Rhiannon has worked with a variety of individuals living with mental illness from schizophrenia, borderline personality disorder, PTSD and substance use disorder as well as those with neurodivergence and those fleeing domestic violence. She hopes to serve as an example of a person with mental illness successfully engaging in BDSM to those in the community seeking acceptance and fighting the stigma, as she also lives with bipolar disorder and PTSD. Aside from her professional background, Rhiannon also is a survivor of domestic violence and of coercive control. That being said, she is NOT a licensed clinician or therapist or a substitute for professional services.To hear more about her services and groups: https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2022-archive/459---rhiannon-shadow-weave.htmlShadowWeaversEDU Bio and History:Shadow-Weavers Coaching and Lifestyle Education is a freelance Kinky Education Academy. Here you can sign up for online workshops, join a book club committed to studying the lifestyle, and get connected with a community of individuals who are passionate about BDSM.Shadow Weaver's offers individual coaching sessions for those who need advice, support, or help leaving and healing after a difficult dynamic. Her services are geared toward the following issues:-D/s dynamic struggles and advice-Submissive Support-Mentoring-Coping with a difficult D/s-Resolving Conflict within D/s-Identifying your unique roles and interests-Recovery Support from Coercive Control and Personality Cults-Vetting Support and Negotiations-Drop or Frenzy Support-Gender/sexual orientation and the lifestyle-Mental Illness and the lifestyleCoercive Control Defined:Domestic abuse isn't always physical. Coercive control is an act or a pattern of acts of assault, threats, humiliation and intimidation or other abuse that is used to harm, punish, or frighten their victim. This controlling behavior is designed to make a person dependent by isolating them from support, exploiting them, depriving them of independence and regulating their everyday behavior. Coercive control creates invisible chains and a sense of fear that pervades all elements of a victim's life. It works to limit their human rights by depriving them of their liberty and reducing their ability for action. Experts like Evan Stark liken coercive control to being taken hostage. As he says: “the victim becomes captive in an unreal world created by the abuser, entrapped in a world of confusion, contradiction and fear.”Source: https://www.womensaid.org.uk/information-support/what-is-domestic-abuse/coercive-control/Examples and how to recognize it:Behavior ControlInformation ControlThought ControlEmotional ControlImportant Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/448National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, and Iamar Kinhawk- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Katie, Kitten399, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, Finn, Unassuming_dude, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyJay, Daddy's Princess- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, and MegVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop) Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Two Doms One sub: Serving Multiple Doms-S04E47

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2023 95:17


Recorded: 11/20/2022 / Published: May/17/2023- Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week's episode husband and wife TRexTies and Babylove who also have a D/s dynamic are joining us along with her other Dominant, Dan who you will know from Erotic Awakening Podcast, to talk about the ups and downs of serving multiple Dominants.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Two Doms One sub: Serving Multiple Doms-S04E47”Due to privacy and a current lack of permission, I am unable to share the show notes provided by Babylove. She has not refused permission, I have not yet been able to speak with her about it. When I am able to do so and she approves it, I will edit this with the approved notes. Check back once a week.Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/447National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701 - Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) Master Gabriel, ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, Atsila, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, and Iamar Kinhawk- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Frozen Moron, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Katie, Kitten399, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, Finn, Unassuming_dude, Arden Solace, Pepa, and KinkyJay- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, and MegVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Eight Things Every Kinkster Needs to Know w JunicornsAngel-S04E46

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2023 67:54


Recorded: 11/06/2022 / Published: 5/4/2023- Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week's episode I am talking to JunicornsAngel about her list of eight things every kinkster needs to know. Correction from the last episode. I started the show in 2016, not 2017, so this will be my 6-year anniversary on November 6, 2022. Also, the 200th episode was a couple back, S04E43, an interview we did with Brittany from the Dungeon Store and Split Peaches.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Eight Things Every Kinkster Needs to Know w/ Junicorn's Angel-S04E46”Ten Licks:1: How long have been into Kink?2: Top, bottom, or switch?3: Relationship Status?4: Favorite Position?5: Favorite Implement?6: Favorite Roleplay?7: Favorite kink or fetish?8: Favorite place for kink?9: Strangest Place you've had sex?10: Something you want to try?Newbies:1. Safety2. Communication/Honesty3. Community4. Responsibility 5. BraveryEveryone:1. FUN is not just for newbies2. Breathe!Safety: things I still do to stay saferCommunication/Honesty: (self-honesty) What do you really like? What do you not? Community: not for everyone, but reasons I like to participate Responsibility: being new isn't an excuse for personal responsibility Bravery: how taking advantage of those few seconds of bravery (thanks Savvy) can change everythingImportant Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/446National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701 - Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, PerfectlyThick, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, Thorn, and Iamar Kinhawk- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, Unassuming_dude, and KinkyJay- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and MegVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)- Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeaches Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
How to not embarrass yourself when trying BDSM-S04E45

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2023 63:33


Recorded: 10/16/2022 / Published: 4/21/2023- Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this week's episode we are diving into another question I frequently get: “I'm new and one of my biggest fears is that I'll do something to embarrass myself. What can I do to prevent this?”Correction from the last episode. I started the show in 2016, not 2017, so this will be my 6-year anniversary on November 6, 2022. Also, the 200th episode was a couple back, S04E43, an interview we did with Brittany from the Dungeon Store and Split Peaches.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “How to not embarrass yourself when trying BDSM-S04E45”“How to Not Embarrass Yourself When Trying Kink Play” By Gigi Fong / Sep 9, 2022https://hypebae.com/2022/9/fifty-shades-of-grey-what-is-kink-sex-tips“Kink and BDSM make sexual pleasure all the more fun — if you understand the rules. It takes a certain level of maturity to practice, while also holding a safe space for yourself and your partner(s) during sex.So, if you'd like to avoid embarrassing yourself, keep reading.Following toxic pop culture. As much as it made for great discussions, Fifty Shades is not an accurate representation of a consensual kink relationship. Opt for more boundary setting, communication and comprehension, and most importantly, respect.Unclear Boundaries. Not being sure on what you're okay with versus not, can leave you feeling violated and sexually unsatisfied. Neutral environments, like a coffee shop or beach date, are best for having that initial boundary-setting conversation. Make sure you do this before trying something sexually new.Relying on safe words too much. Safe words are important, but if you find yourself blurting them out more often than not, you're probably not mentally or sexually ready for this new adventure. It may be best to do more research and communicate, then revisit — or not.Be prepared to laugh. Just as with life, nothing ever rarely goes as planned — but you have your tools. For example, the gym for stress relief when something goes left. Kink play is the same. You might get caught off guard at some points and let out a nervous laugh. That's okay. As long as you feel safe and respected.”Mayfair's List:Manage expectations: you aren't likely to be ready for a thirty-minute whip scene right awayYou aren't the only ones playing, prepare to hear others and to not be too disruptive. (ball gags can help)Arousal can happen, if it wasn't pre-discussed leave it alone for now.Kuldrin's List:Properly preparing for play: education, practice, “clean out”, …Become comfortable with the grunts, groans, moans, squeals, and “bodily noises”...they're all going to happenFrenzy can be embarrassing. Especially when everyone else sees you in the midst of it and you don't recognize it.Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/445National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month):- Pro Producer ($100/month):- Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, PerfectlyThick, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, Thorn, and Iamar Kinhawk- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, and Unassuming_dude- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and MegVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist- Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)- Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeachesContact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Split Peaches and The Dungeon Stores Brittany-S04E43

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2023 46:46


Recorded: 9/04/2022 / Published: 4/6/2023 - You can text in your question at 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this week's episode we are talking about erotic blueprints and the ups and downs of each one of them.. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Split Peaches and The Dungeon Stores Brittany-S04E43”https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeacheshttps://thedungeonstore.com/ Ten Licks:How long have been into Kink?Top, bottom, or switch?Relationship Status?Favorite Position?Favorite Implement?Favorite Roleplay?Favorite kink or fetish?Favorite place for kink?Strangest Place you've had sex?Something you want to try?What is the Dungeon Store?What is Split Peaches?Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/443National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers: Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, and Thorn- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, CivlDisobedience, Officer Davis, and Unassuming_dude.- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and Meg,Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)- Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeaches Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Dom and Top Guilt-S04E44

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2023 85:06


Recorded: 10/02/2022 / Published: //2023- Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this week's episode we are talking about Top Guilt and how it affects Dom/Top Drop- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Top Guilt and how it affects Dom Drop-S04E44”Red guilt:Marking guilt:Accident guilt: Newbie guilt:Religious guilt:Madonna/whore guilt:General guilt:Educating yourself as much can help prevent landmines.Self-exploration:Partnered Exploration:Negotiation:Communication, starting low and going slow:Dom/Top Guilt Defined: feelings of remorse, regret, and/or empathy felt by Doms and Tops after a scene due to the effects of the scene, whether positive or negative, on the submissive or bottom. It can also be caused by intentional or unintentional shaming. (i.e. you could have hit harder (unintentional), I thought you were a Dominant (intentional), etc)Who experiences Dom/Top guilt?:Why does Dom/Top guilt occur?:Types of Dom/Top guilt:Dealing with Dom/Top guilt:Preventing Dom/Top Guilt:Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/444National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers: Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift: Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month):- Pro Producer ($100/month):- Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, PerfectlyThick, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, Thorn, and Iamar Kinhawk- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon,Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Officer Davis, and Unassuming_dude- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and MegVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)- Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeaches Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Your Erotic Blueprint-S04E42

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2023 62:02


Recorded: 9/04/2022 / Published: 2/18/2023Text in your question at 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.In this week's episode we are talking about erotic blueprints and the ups and downs of each one of them..Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Your Erotic Blueprint-S04E42”https://camillestyles.com/wellness/erotic-blueprint/What is an Erotic Blueprint?Conceptualized and trademarked by Miss Jaiya (https://missjaiya.com/), it is a method that helps explain your sexual preferences, needs, and desires. Together, the Five Erotic Blueprints™ give couples and singles a menu of how turn-on works in your body, how you can please your partner and ask for what you want, and how to expand your definition of “sex” into a whole new world of play and erotic possibilities.What is a shadow? What are the shadow sides of each type?What are the types and what are their shadows?Energetic TypesEnergetic Types Shadow:Sensual TypesSensual Types Shadow:Sexual TypesSexual Types Shadow:Kinky TypesKinky Types Shadow:Shapeshifter TypesShapeshifter Types Shadow: How can you learn your erotic blueprint?Take the quiz! https://bit.ly/yesannemore_Quiz Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/442National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, DarlingTN and Sarge, and OnceUponATime81- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, and Thorn- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, CivlDisobedience, Officer Davis, and Unassuming_dude.- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and Meg,Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
BDSM Rituals with Erotic Awakening Podcast-S04E40

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2023 99:40


Recorded: 7/17/2022 / Published: 2/13/2023 Text questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this week's episode we are having some fun and talking about the joined by Dan and Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast to learn about BDSM rituals. Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young“BDSM Rituals with Erotic Awakening Podcast-S04E40”https://www.eroticawakening.com/Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/440National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701 - Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, and DarlingTN and Sarge- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, and Thorn- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, CivlDisobedience, Officer Davis and Unassuming_dude.- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and Meg,Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)- Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeaches Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
The Nasty Parts of Sex-S04E39

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2023 87:56


Recorded: 7/17/2022 / Published: 02/03/2023Text questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week's episode we are having some fun and talking about the weird, bizarre, and nasty things that happen during sex. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “The Nasty Parts of Sex-S04E39”https://www.buzzfeed.com/daniellaemanuel/terrible-parts-sex?fbclid=IwAR2u8kbBY7AmQ45AMtQmw2N9jCAGQ0z3otnK1Umi6cJoHo7fGsnMfw3HbUEhttps://www.buzzfeed.com/daniellaemanuel/people-awful-sex?d_id=4742279&ref=bffbsoml&utm_source=dynamic&utm_campaign=bffbsoml&fbclid=IwAR1LvTjjmi0kNstqOKewdZmP7tUHLaTilIFjIncrZPBvLqwAbWY9H3fxT0Y Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/439National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, and DarlingTN and Sarge- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, and Thorn- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, CivlDisobedience, Officer Davis and Unassuming_dude.- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and Meg,Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)- Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeaches Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Praise Kinks and Breeding Fetishes-S04E38

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2023 83:15


Recorded: 7/17/2022 / Published: 01/25/2023Text questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.In this week's episode we are talking about Praise Kinks and Breeding Fetishes.Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “How to Explore a Praise Kink, According to Sex Experts-S04E38”By: Hendy Phillips, June 21, 2022https://www.popsugar.com/love/praise-kink-48857696“What is a Praise Kink:ll, student, daddy, baby, teacher, pet, term of endearment, sub, dom, etc.].- You're so good at [insert skill].- I'm so lucky to have you. I know everyone wants a _______ just like you.- You look so hot when you [insert activity].- I can't wait to show you off.- You look so good in that [insert item of clothing/fetish wear].- Your [insert body part] is irresistible.- You taste so good. I can't get enough of you.- You're doing amazing — I'm so proud of you.- Praise Kink Tips:Breeding Kink…WTF?https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-news/elon-musk-nick-cannon-breeding-kink-1382676/amp/?fbclid=IwAR1Cuyfoyfb_KOA6agVNMG_a3BJRqfGVEuKFwfrST-llixaolz3xc7dJe4g“A breeding kink is a sexual desire to impregnate as many people as possible for reasons related to power, control, or even in some cases eugenics; an impulse shared by such illustrious luminaries as Jeffrey Epstein and Donald Cline, the Indianapolis fertility doctor featured in Netflix's Our Father who inseminated dozens of women without their consent over the course of decades. (He later pleaded guilty to two felony counts of obstruction of justice related to the investigation, receiving a one-year suspended sentence.)”Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/438National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers: Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month):- Pro Producer ($100/month):- Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, and DarlingTN and Sarge- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, SirSilverWolf, and Thorn- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, CivlDisobedience, Officer Davis and Unassuming_dude.- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and Meg,Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist- Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
New Relationship Energy-S04E37

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2023 71:55


Recorded: 7/3/2022 / Published: 01/18/2023 Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this week's episode, we are talking about new relationship energy. Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young“New Relationship Energy-S04E37”What is NRE?the strong emotional, physical, and sexual response you have towards someone when you are in a new relationship with them. NRE is most often thought about with a new partner. However, NRE can be the result of a new friendship, job, vehicle, video game, pet, or basically anything new that enters into a person's life. How long does it last?It starts from the initial attraction and can last anywhere from three months to two years.What causes NRE?The new relationship causes changes in brain signals that cause an immense rush of hormones, particularly adrenaline and oxytocin. After an unknown time period, habituation kicks in and our brain chemistry will return to what it was prior to the hormone rush.Is it dangerous?In short, yes. First, it causes a person to act in a way they normally would not act. Often this is compared to the way addicts behave. Second, when it is a bad case of NRE, it tends to create exceptionally unhealthy and very codependent relationships.Finally, a large number of people become addicted to NRE and will constantly jump from one relationship to another. Often this is not done with ethics and people are hurt in the process.Can it be avoided?No. However, the level of NRE a person gives into can absolutely be minimized through communication with loved ones, self-awareness, not rushing things, not forgetting about other things you love, forcing yourself to maintain your hobbies, and setting boundaries within the new and preexisting relationships. Dealing with the aftermath:There are two groups of people that have to deal with NRE aftermath the person that experienced it and the people they've hurt.The person that experienced NRE:Accept responsibility for your actions.Atone within reason. (While you may have hurt people spending the rest of your life making up for it is typically not the way to go for anyone involved. Sometimes, people are unable to get over being hurt. When this is the case, a mature and friendly conversation about ending the relationship is typically best for all involved. With this said, this is not a decision that should be made quickly. I believe that people should work together to either improve their relationship or earn their way out by doing everything possible to make it work and reach a place of forgiveness and health. Therapy, including relationship therapy, is typically part of that process.The people caught in the wake of NRE:Try your best to be understanding toward the situation while also being true to yourself. If you have done the work and you know that forgiveness and moving forward is not a possibility then don't punish yourself by punishing them. Have that mature and friendly conversation about how to end the relationship.Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/437National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701 - Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, and DarlingTN and Sarge- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, AK-47, SirSilverWolf, and Thorn- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, CivlDisobedience, and Officer Davis- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, Meg, and Unassuming_dudeVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)- Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeaches Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Moving to a New Community? Playing with a Friend?-S04E36

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2023 75:32


Recorded: 6/5/2022 / Published: 1/10/2023Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this week's episode, we are talking about moving to a new community and how to deal with the kink politic of the new community and stay to the end because there are going to be big changes coming to the podcast…so, we are going to talk about those. Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young“Moving to a New Community? Playing with a friend?-S04E36”If possible, prepare early by visiting before you move. At least watch the groups in the area to see which ones are active and what the mood and tone of the groups are. After you have a pretty good idea about which ones you'd like to get involved with reach out to the leaders or active members and let them know you are moving to the area, ask about their vetting processes, and simply gather information. Just don't send them a book of questions. Be respectful of their time.No matter how well known or respected you are in the old community, chances are the new one won't care and will be wary of you. Don't be offended, they are being protective of their group.Rule #1A: Be respectfulRule #1B: Be honestRule #2: Do not frenzy Rule #3: Do not name drop. Offer to give ways to vette you but DO NOT name names until asked unless you enjoy making yourself look like an arrogant and pompous ass…especially if your inner circle are truly well-known people within the greater BDSM community. …And on that, as one of those decently well know people, most of us absolutely respond to messages about vetting someone. I have personally had name-dropped several times by people I've never heard of. I'm flattered that someone would think that doing that would get them an auto pass but absolutely does not. BE HONEST!Rule #4 Be yourself. Putting on a front is a huge turn off and only a narcissist would believe they could keep the front up forever. If you're a nerd, a geek, a “little off”, strange, weird, or whatever just be you. I have troubles because I have a really off sense of humor. Most see it as sarcasm, arrogance, cockiness, or that I'm simply just an asshole or dick. Those that get to know me understand that I am just “a little different”.The ones that take the time to get to know me become my tribe and everyone else just isn't for me…and that is OK! Not everyone likes you!Rule #5: Do not be too quick to judge…about anything. Playing with someone new that you're friends with.Since you already know the person you may feel more or less nervous about asking for a scene. You may think that maybe you won't need to talk through as many negotiations since you know their style already but really it will be just as important, if not more important, with someone you already know since you may assume they know things but they don't. Things to consider:What does your partner (if you have one or more) think about the idea of you playing with the friendDo they have other partners who might need to be contacted first?Are they someone whose friendship is strong enough to stand if something goes wrong? Things happen sometimes no matter how prepared we are and if the friendship bond isn't strong you could lose a friend. Is their style one you enjoy from what you have observed? (Do they like more stingy things than you do, are they more about sensual play than you, etc.)Sex. Is it on the table in any manner? It can change friendships dramatically. Even if it is sexual touching or energy it can make things weird between friends if not planned or at least discussed.Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/436National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month): Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, and DarlingTN and SargeSr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, and AK-47Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Art Kitten, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily, SirBNice, Neil, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ RecifeJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo, Ashley, and MegVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
What is Relationship Anarchy-S04E35

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2023 51:46


Recorded: 6/5/2022 / Published: 1/03/2023 Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.In this week's episode, we are examining relationship anarchy.Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young“What is Relationship Anarchy-S04E35”“What Is Relationship Anarchy?: This Modern Dating Approach Is All About Freedom” by Rebecca Strong / May 31, 2022https://www.askmen.com/dating/dating_advice/what-is-relationship-anarchy-this-modern-dating-approach-is-all-about-freedom.htmlOver the last 40 years, the way people date has changed drastically. Rather than there being one model for your love life, there are several.These days, some people are dating multiple people at the same time. Some are waiting longer to get married. Some are opting to never get married at all, having kids before they tie the knot, or getting hitched but never moving in together. Others are choosing no-strings casual encounters over committed bonds.The point is, one by one, many of the unspoken “rules” of dating have been thrown out the window. And no one embraces this more than relationship anarchists. As the name suggests, relationship anarchy (RA) means rejecting any of society's expectations when it comes to love. A 2017 study found that at least one in five people has engaged in some form of “consensual non-monogamy” before — including RA. But it's certainly not for everyone. So, what exactly does relationship anarchy look like, and is it right for you? We talked to dating and relationship experts to find out.- What Is Relationship Anarchy?- Examples of Relationship Anarchy- Relationship Anarchy vs. Polyamory- Is Relationship Anarchy Right for You?Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/435National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers: Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail donations and gifts:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, and DarlingTN and Sarge- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, and AK-47- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Art Kitten, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Gator & Gizmo, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily, SirBNice, Neil, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Gator & Gizmo Ashley, and MegVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Chronic Pain Management thru BDSM-S04E34

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2022 46:57


Recorded: 5/29/2022 / Published: 12/10/2022- Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week's episode of The Krypt we are talking about managing our pain with BDSM.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Chronic Pain Management thru BDSM-S04E34”“Why Chronic Pain Sufferers Are Turning to BDSM” by Emma Madden, September 25, 2019For some folks, pain is the default setting. BDSM offers them a way to control the volume.“No pain, no gain” is a rallying slogan employed at both the beauty parlor and at the gym. Sometimes after a workout, you might even get a massage, which is quite literally the act of inflicting pain to the point of relaxation.Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/434National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, and DarlingTN and Sarge- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, and AK-47- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Art Kitten, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Gator & Gizmo, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily ,SirBNice, Neil, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Ashley, and MegVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
BDSM Humiliation Play-S04E33

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2022 72:46


Recorded: 5/15/2022 / Published: 11/30/2022Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this week's episode of The Krypt we are diving deep into humiliation play. Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young“BDSM Humiliation Play-S04E33”“What's a humiliation kink? Here's why it's hot & how to get started” by Stella Harris / May 10, 2022https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/what-is-humiliation-kink - What Is A Humiliation Kink?- What's Hot About Being Humiliated?- Kink Can Be Therapeutic, But It's Not Therapy- What Should You Consider Before Playing With Humiliation?- How To Make Humiliation Hot- How To Make Humiliation Safe- How To Play With Humiliation For The First TimeExperts: Midori, Sexologist, Kink Educator, author of Wild Side SexSunny Megatron, Certified Sexuality Educator and host of American Sex PodcastRebecca Jay, LMSWImportant Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/433National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood ST. #168Alcoa, TN      37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, and AK-47- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Art Kitten, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Gator & Gizmo,  Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily ,SirBNice, Neil, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Ashley, and MegVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)- Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeachesContact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Ecofetishism: Blending Nature and BDSM-S04E32

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2022 58:20


Recorded: 5/01/2022 / Published: 11/24/2022- Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week's episode of The Krypt we are talking about ecofetishism-combining kink and nature.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Ecofetishism: Blending Nature and BDSM-S04E32”https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a39762463/sacred-sadism-ecofetishism-interview/?fbclid=IwAR0JRcFQwviQaj6tsCCUZDXYRqh4-Xuc4dOvqIzekV1W7-Dskjpb7fx9taQ Why is nettle painful? Stinging nettle has fine hairs on the leaves and stems that contain irritating chemicals, which are released when the plant comes in contact with the skin. The hairs or spines of the stinging nettle are normally very painful to the touch.Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/432National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, and AK-47- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Art Kitten, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Gator & Gizmo, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily,SirBNice, Neil, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, and Black Angel- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Ashley, and MegSir Rj Recife IDK what levelVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)- Split Peaches https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/splitpeaches Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Submissive Roundtable on Sensations of Play-S04E31

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2022 106:12


Recorded: 4/03/2022 / Published: 11/16/2022- Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week's episode of The Krypt we are joined by JunicornsAngel, Subx13, and SortOutTheKinks for a submissive's roundtable about sensations during play.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Sub Roundtable on Sensations of Play-S04E31”This episode is dedicated to ArtimisJunicornsangel https://fetlife.com/users/8828974SortOutTheKinks https://fetlife.com/users/6224000 Sub_X13 https://fetlife.com/users/10968318 Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/431National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae and AK-47- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Art Kitten, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Gator & Gizmo, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily,SirBNice, Neil, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, and Black Angel- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Ashley, and MegVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)- Split PeachesContact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Orgasm Control, Forced Orgasm, and On Demand-S04E30

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2022 84:28


Recorded: 4/03/2022 / Published: 11/07/2022- Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week's episode of The Krypt we are getting in to a topic that myself and Mayfair both love and rarely talk about Body Mods as BDSM and Kink Fetishes.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Orgasm Control, Forced Orgasm, and On Demand-S04E30”This episode is dedicated to BonzoSlave arcane currently resides just outside Columbus, Ohio with his Master, Ms. Brenda. He has lived in a collar for more than two decades. He was honored to carry the titles: GLLA Ohio slave for 2014 (and 2015), GLLA slave 2014 and Mr. Classic Leather 2018! He has been one of the moderators for the AIS submissive roundtable, and is co-director of MAsT: Columbus. He and Ms. Brenda are passionate about setting a realistic example of what a 24/7 Female Master / male slave relationship can be. They have presented across the country on a range of topics from M/s dynamics to chastity, including a historical overview of female domination as portrayed in literature and the arts. When not making, vending or teaching about floggers, he is probably making sawdust in the woodshop, or tinkering with his motorcycle.Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/430National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae and AK-47- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Art Kitten, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Gator & Gizmo, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, and Lily- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Ashley, and MegVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)- Split PeachesContact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Body Mods and Bimbofication as BDSM and Kink Fetishes-S04E29

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2022 71:05


Recorded: 4/03/2022 / Published: 11/02/2022- Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week's episode of The Krypt we are getting into a topic that Mayfair and I both love and rarely talk about - Body Mods as BDSM and Kink Fetishes.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Dom sub Body Mods as BDSM and Kink Fetishes-S04E29”“BDSM, Bimbos and Branding: The extreme World of Body Modification Fetishes” by Sophie Wilson March 29, 2022https://www.dazeddigital.com/beauty/body/article/55792/1/bdsm-bimbos-and-branding-the-extreme-world-of-body-modification.PERMANENT BODY MODS CHANGE THE RECIPIENT'S APPEARANCE FOREVER, TAKING SEXUAL KINKS OUTSIDE THE BEDROOM AND MAKING THEM A 24/7 LIFESTYLEWhen Kim Kardashian went on The Ellen DeGeneres Show this month, she revealed that Pete Davidson has had her name branded on his chest. Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/428National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, SirBNice, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, and Lily- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, Ashley, and MegVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)- Split PeachesContact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Dominant submissive Power Exchange with Erotic Awakening Podcast-S04E28

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2022 91:51


Recorded: 3/27/2022 / Published: 10/24/2022-Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week's episode of The Krypt we are joined by Dan and Dawn from the Erotic Awakening Podcast to talk about power exchange dynamics.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Dominant submissive Power Exchange with Erotic Awakening Podcast-S04E28”Important “Dan and Dawn” Links:All things Erotic Awakening: https://www.eroticawakening.com/ Podcast: https://www.eroticawakening.com/podcast/ Books: https://blossomtradingcompany.ecwid.com/ The new book “Hearts & Collars”: https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/hearts-collars#/ Ten Licks:How long have you been into Kink?Top, bottom, or switch?Relationship Status?Favorite Position?Favorite Implement?Favorite Roleplay?Favorite kink or fetish?Favorite place for kink?Strangest Place you've had sex?Something you want to try?About Erotic Awakening Podcast:Welcome to the Erotic Awakening Podcast! Since 2009, we've brought you this informative and entertaining exploration of all things erotic. From sacred sexuality to fetishes, Power Exchange and polyamory, BDSM to erotic spirituality, nonstandard relationships to alternative love styles, as well as simply fun kink.Over the years we've grown to be a community-supported and focused podcast for people like us – those who seek an alternative expression for intimacy, authentic growth, and well-being.Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/428National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Anomalous Mats- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, SirBNice, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, and Lily- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, Ashley, and MegVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)- Split PeachesContact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt