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In This Episode You Will Learn About: Recognizing that hustling harder is a MYTH. Tackling decision fatigue HEAD-ON. Transform self-doubt into UNSTOPPABLE CONFIDENCE and GROWTH by being your authentic self. Your NETWORK is your NET WORTH Why you must take imperfect actions. Resources: Join the InnerFifth Waitlist: https://innerfifth.com/elite-membership/ Listen to the Potential to Powerhouse Podcast LinkedIn: @tracyholland Facebook: @tracy.m.holland.7 Instagram: @tracy_holland_mindset Get 50% off your first box plus free shipping at factormeals.com/confidence50off with code confidence50off. Get 10% off your first Mitopure order at timeline.com/CONFIDENCE. Download the CFO's Guide to AI and Machine Learning at NetSuite.com/MONAHAN Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code CONFIDENCE to get UP TO $300 off today Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/monahan Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster at RocketMoney.com/CONFIDENCE. Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553! Visit heathermonahan.com Reach out to me on Instagram & LinkedIn Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/ Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com If you haven't yet, get my first book, Confidence Creator Show Notes: Are you ready to SHATTER the myth of the endless grind? My conversation with powerhouse entrepreneur Tracy Holland completely flipped the script on success. Hustling harder isn't the answer—REAL POWER comes from stepping back, trusting your intuition, and investing in the future you DESERVE. Tracy's insights on decision fatigue were a game-changer—it's not about getting stuck in the “what ifs,” it's about taking BOLD action, learning as you go, and moving FORWARD with confidence. And if you're craving this kind of NEXT-LEVEL growth, you need to be in the room with us at Inner Fifth's exclusive IRL event on March 7th in Los Angeles. If you're serious about LEVELING UP, apply now at InnerFifth.com/march-7 because 2025 is the year we OWN OUR GREATNESS! If You Liked This Episode, You Might Also Like These Episodes: #425: The Secret To Leaving When You Aren't Valued with Heather! #421: GO For It: Shattering Limits in Life & Business with Heather! #411: From Setbacks to BREAKTHROUGHS: Create Confidence In Any Situation With Heather!
Heather Monahan was at the top of her career when she was blindsided and fired after 14 years as Chief Revenue Officer. Instead of letting it define her, she walked away with her head held high and rebuilt her life on her own terms. Heather turned her setback into a springboard for success, becoming a bestselling author, keynote speaker, and confidence expert. In this episode, Heather shares her three-step BAK process for overcoming villains, strategies for navigating toxic environments, and the power of living “lanelessly.” In this episode, Hala and Heather will discuss: (00:00) Introduction (03:09) Heather's Impact on Hala's Career (04:13) Personal and Professional Challenges (09:59) Living Lanelessly (13:25) Facing Villains and Building Confidence (21:00) The BAK Process for Overcoming Challenges (23:58) The Sandwich Technique for Constructive Feedback (26:31) Overcoming Negative Self-Talk (34:16) Manifestation and Visualization (37:31) The 30-Day Grid for Goal Tracking (39:45) The Power of Music in Achieving Goals (41:30) Grief to Gross Ratio (45:13) The Art of Pitching Yourself (48:41) The Importance of Knowledge and Skills Heather Monahan is a 2x bestselling author, Top 50 Keynote Speaker in the World (2022), entrepreneur, founder of Boss In Heels, and host of the Creating Confidence podcast. Before becoming a top author and speaker, Heather successfully climbed the corporate ladder for nearly 20 years, becoming one of the few women to break the glass ceiling and claim a spot in the C-suite. In 2017, she was named one of the Most Influential Women in Radio. In 2018, Thrive Global named her a Limit Breaking Female Founder, and in 2021, Girls Club honored her as the Thought Leader of the Year. Forbes recognized Heather's first book, Confidence Creator, as one of the five must-have books for women in business in 2021. Her latest book, Overcome Your Villains, was released in November 2021. Connect with Heather: Website: heathermonahan.com Linkedin: linkedin.com/in/theheathermonahan Twitter: twitter.com/_heathermonahan Instagram: instagram.com/heathermonahan Facebook: facebook.com/heathermonahanofficial Sponsored by: OpenPhone - Get 20% off 6 months at openphone.com/PROFITING Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at youngandprofiting.co/shopify Airbnb - Your home might be worth more than you think. Find out how much at airbnb.com/host Rocket Money - Cancel your unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster with Rocket Money. Go to rocketmoney.com/profiting Indeed - Get a $75 job credit at indeed.com/profiting Resources Mentioned: Heather's Books: Confidence Creator: amzn.to/4htDiLK Overcome Your Villains: amzn.to/40KXGTa Heather's TedxTalk: youngandprofiting.co/3Wxxrx7 Heather's Podcast, Creating Confidence: apple.co/3ESsHYL More About Young and Profiting Download Transcripts - youngandprofiting.com/episodes-new Get Sponsorship Deals - youngandprofiting.com/deals Leave a Review - ratethispodcast.com/yap Watch Videos - youtube.com/c/YoungandProfiting Follow Hala Taha LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/htaha Instagram - instagram.com/yapwithhala Twitter - twitter.com/yapwithhala Learn more about YAP Media's Services - yapmedia.com
Empowering Women and Girls: Asha Holland's Journey to Building Confidence and Self-LoveIn this episode of The Powerful Project, we are welcoming Asha Holland, a self-love, body image, and confidence coach for girls. Asha dives into empowering strategies for building self-worth, silencing the inner mean girl, and fostering confidence from the inside out.Whether you're a busy woman looking to boost your own confidence or a mum, teacher, aunt, or role model to young girls, this episode is packed with practical tools and insights to create a positive ripple effect. It's an inspiring listen for anyone shaping the next generation.What You'll Learn:Why non-appearance-based compliments are a game-changer.How to identify and reframe negative self-beliefs.The transformative power of ‘toddler confidence' and how to rediscover it as an adult.The role of parents and guardians in creating positive role models.Practical tools like journaling prompts, affirmations, and reframing perspectives to reclaim self-worth.Asha also opens up about her personal journey and shares how embracing self-love has transformed her approach to body image and confidence coaching.Episode Highlights:00:00 Welcome and Introduction00:31 Why Compliments Matter (Beyond Looks)01:38 Understanding True Self-Worth02:17 Unique Challenges Faced by Girls Today04:17 Asha's Journey to Confidence06:58 The Impact of Body Image on Confidence17:54 Tools to Build Self-Worth and Silence the Inner Critic18:55 Reframing Negative Self-Talk21:47 Navigating Body Positivity in a Complex World25:36 Embracing the Journey of Self-Acceptance26:54 The Effects of Body Comments on Self-Esteem27:46 Handling Tough Conversations About Body Image30:09 Rediscovering Toddler Confidence and Why It Matters34:32 How Parents Shape Confidence in Children45:08 Journaling as a Path to Self-Discovery48:28 Final Takeaways and Asha's Core ValuesThis episode is not just for you, it's for every girl in your life who deserves to feel strong, confident, and worthy. Share it with fellow mums, friends, or anyone who plays a role in raising or mentoring young girls. Together, we can empower the next generation to grow up with a healthier relationship with themselves and their bodies.Tune in now and be part of the change!
Mike “C-Roc” sits down with confidence coach and podcasting veteran Trish Blackwell. Known for her work with Olympic athletes, Ironman champions, CEOs, and high-achieving entrepreneurs, Trish shares her journey of transforming self-doubt into unshakable confidence. Dive into Trish's backstory as a nationally recognized swimmer who learned the hard way how self-limiting beliefs can derail even the most promising paths. Now, as a leading voice in empowering high achievers, Trish offers actionable insights on mastering your mindset, unlocking your potential, and living with clarity and enthusiasm. From her vibrant storytelling to practical strategies for thinking with more power, Trish's energy and wisdom will inspire you to break free from tunnel vision and start building the life of your dreams. Don't miss this candid, high-energy conversation that will leave you motivated to step into your greatness. Website- www.trishblackwell.com Social Media Links/Handles- https://www.facebook.com/trishblackwellcoaching/ https://www.instagram.com/trish_blackwell/?hl=en
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In this episode, we dive into the transformative power of belief and how it shapes your ability to meet your standards and achieve your goals. Beliefs act as silent commands, dictating what you can and cannot do—until you challenge them. Using insights from Roger Bannister's historic four-minute mile to practical tools like visualization, consistent action, and reframing failure, you'll learn how to dismantle limiting beliefs and replace them with unshakable confidence. Whether you borrow belief from others or build it through small wins, this episode equips you to stop sabotaging yourself and start becoming the person you aspire to be. You Got This, Ryan
What if you could overcome every ounce of self-doubt and step into the most confident, most amazing, most successful version of yourself? Join host Matt O'Neill as he sits down with top confidence expert Trish Blackwell to explore how you can raise your level of confidence and courage to achieve your biggest goals. Trish shares practical strategies and personal insights to help you become the person worthy of your dreams. [00:00] Introduction [02:14] Defining confidence and its importance [04:02] How to remain confident despite setbacks [08:03] Practical strategies for building confidence [16:44] The power of journaling and affirmations [22:49] Strategies for effective journaling [28:25] A message to her younger self [29:55] How to dominate without focusing on the competition [33:53] Tips for achieving the kind of success you want [37:42] Believing that impossible goals happen Resources Mentioned: College of Confidence www.trishblackwell.com Instagram: @trish_blackwell Ready to live a life of Conscious Happiness? Get the book: Good Mood Revolution: Igniting the Power of Conscious Happiness at https://a.co/d/2pgzwpU What is your Good Mood Superpower? Take the Good Mood Assessment to learn your positive strengths here: https://mattoneill.com/good-mood-assessment/ About the Guest Trish Blackwell is a top confidence coach and CEO of the College of Confidence, with over 7 million podcast downloads. As a leading expert in helping high-achievers, Olympic athletes, and CEOs overcome self-doubt and reach their full potential, Trish empowers individuals to build unshakable confidence and create lasting change.
Welcome to the Strength Connection Podcast!Founder of Quantum Performance, mental performance coach Kate Allgood joins the show to talk confidence, resilience, and self talk for elite athletic performance.A recognized leader in the field of mental performance, she holds two master's degrees in psychology and is a highly sought after coach. Her first book, "Get Into the Zone", became an Amazon bestseller on the subject.Check out more from Kate at:https://www.qpathlete.com
This episode explores the challenges and rewards of pursuing a path less traveled. It reframes "hard" as a signal of opportunity, highlighting how embracing difficulty can lead to exceptional outcomes. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ryan-kennedy-podcast/support
On Unstoppable Mindset I have rarely met someone who is as outgoing and, yes, as confident as our guest this time, DW Starr. DW's childhood was by no means normal. Within his first six years of life, he suffered a broken leg as well as two traumatic brain injuries that came from automobile-related accidents. He even encountered a third traumatic brain injury at the age of forty, again from being hit by a car. Oh, make no mistake! None of these were the result of carelessness. No matter what, he persevered through all of these challenges. For nearly thirty years as an adult, he worked in sales for companies and was a top performer. Mostly after his last brain injury he began using mnemonics techniques to help remember things that, for him, were easy to forget. He had developed some techniques as a child, but didn't resurrect them until his last accident. He also began learning more about confidence and how to use it in his own life. He also began working a bit as a performer giving shows to children and adults on how they could improve their own confidence and thus become better and stronger people. Now, his performances and talks are a full-time job. He tells us about his shows and gives us insights into what he does while performing. He even discusses some of the memory techniques he uses during his performances and how he teaches them to his audience. DW has visited and performed in forty states in America as well as fifteen countries. He is quite an inspiration we all should value and from whom we can learn much. He discusses, for example, the difference between confidence and arrogance and he discusses the difference between assertiveness and aggression. I think you will gain much from DW's time with us. If you visit his website, www.dwstarr.net you can obtain a PDF copy of one of his books. About the Guest: DW STARR, confidence expert, performer, speaker and author empowers teens and adults to unleash their hidden confidence superpower to be the superhero in their own lives. DW draws from his multiple areas of expertise to help his teen and adult audiences reach peak performance success. He is uniquely qualified: started selling at 9 years old, endured and survived traumatic brain injury (TBI), over 25 years of corporate experience as a million-dollar sales executive excelling with the largest medical information analytics company on the planet, international award-winning U.S. Army movie/tv director, amateur magician, and author of 4 books with two more in the works. Using their favorite movie and his proprietary S.T.A.R.R. formula, DW empowers and connects with his audiences as he performs his audience-interactive one-man show DW LIVE! and through his transformational speaking presentations. They learn to re-direct the inner movie running in their minds. DW has performed and spoken in 15 countries and 40 U.S. States … His “Confidence Matters“ message speaks a universal language that resonates with people and organizations worldwide. He lives in Southern Florida with his wife and his dog. Ways to connect with DW: INSTAGRAM….. DW_STARR FACEBOOK…….. DW STARR YOUTUBE………. @CONFIDENCECRUSADER TIKTOK…………… @CONFIDENCECRUSADER LINKEDIN……….. DW STARR WEBSITE………… WWW.DWSTARR.NET WEBSITE………… WWW.WOWUNOW.COM/DWSTARR https://www.dropbox.com/s/q1x0v88barglevm/Teens%20Need%20Our%20Help.mp4?dl=0 MY MISSION TO HELP TEENS https://www.dropbox.com/s/ffj4d55iyfjwlm4/DW%20Promo%20On%20Site%2034%20seconds.mp4?dl=0 34 second DW Promo About the Host: Michael Hingson is a New York Times best-selling author, international lecturer, and Chief Vision Officer for accessiBe. Michael, blind since birth, survived the 9/11 attacks with the help of his guide dog Roselle. This story is the subject of his best-selling book, Thunder Dog. Michael gives over 100 presentations around the world each year speaking to influential groups such as Exxon Mobile, AT&T, Federal Express, Scripps College, Rutgers University, Children's Hospital, and the American Red Cross just to name a few. He is Ambassador for the National Braille Literacy Campaign for the National Federation of the Blind and also serves as Ambassador for the American Humane Association's 2012 Hero Dog Awards. https://michaelhingson.com https://www.facebook.com/michael.hingson.author.speaker/ https://twitter.com/mhingson https://www.youtube.com/user/mhingson https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelhingson/ accessiBe Links https://accessibe.com/ https://www.youtube.com/c/accessiBe https://www.linkedin.com/company/accessibe/mycompany/ https://www.facebook.com/accessibe/ Thanks for listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. You can subscribe in your favorite podcast app. You can also support our podcast through our tip jar https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/unstoppable-mindset . Leave us an Apple Podcasts review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts. Transcription Notes: Michael Hingson ** 00:00 Access Cast and accessiBe Initiative presents Unstoppable Mindset. The podcast where inclusion, diversity and the unexpected meet. Hi, I'm Michael Hingson, Chief Vision Officer for accessiBe and the author of the number one New York Times bestselling book, Thunder dog, the story of a blind man, his guide dog and the triumph of trust. Thanks for joining me on my podcast as we explore our own blinding fears of inclusion unacceptance and our resistance to change. We will discover the idea that no matter the situation, or the people we encounter, our own fears, and prejudices often are our strongest barriers to moving forward. The unstoppable mindset podcast is sponsored by accessiBe, that's a c c e s s i capital B e. Visit www.accessibe.com to learn how you can make your website accessible for persons with disabilities. And to help make the internet fully inclusive by the year 2025. Glad you dropped by we're happy to meet you and to have you here with us. Michael Hingson ** 01:21 Well, hi everyone, wherever you happen to be, we want to welcome you to unstoppable mindset, once again, unstoppable mindset, where inclusion, diversity and the unexpected meet and unexpected gets to be a fun part of what we get to do today, by any standard. And I'm not going to tell you anymore, because I want it to be unexpected until it happens. We do have a wonderful guest today. I love people who are really animated and engage me in conversation and teach us a lot. And that's true of our guest today. DW Starr, and I'm not going to tell you anymore. I'm just going to say, dw, I want to welcome you to unstoppable mindset. DW Starr ** 01:57 Hi, Michael, how are you? Michael Hingson ** 01:58 I'm doing lovely. And you, DW Starr ** 02:00 I'm doing great. I'm doing great. Did you know that late maybe you, or maybe even your audience? Don't know that Lady Gaga was fired after her first record album, after only three months that Michael Jordan didn't make his high school basketball team, the first time that Taylor Swift was told she was too young for the music industry. Get that and really that JK Rowling, the author the Harry Potter series, was turned down by 12 publishers. Was a single mother, and she was in poverty, and wrote her book in in a in a in a coffee shop. Now the reason I'm telling you that is because all those people figured out how to find the confidence to be the successes they became. Michael Hingson ** 02:57 And it really is about confidence, isn't it? It is confidence matters, and it's not arrogance, it's confidence. And there's a big difference, correct? DW Starr ** 03:06 Absolutely, the difference, to me, is authenticity. When someone is truly confident, they don't need to prove it to anybody, because it's internal, it's it's authentic, it's who they really are, and that comes with the good and the not so good sometimes, and the recognition of those things within ourselves. Good point. Well, how Michael Hingson ** 03:32 did you I'd love to learn more about your story of how you did all that, and maybe you can tell us a little about the early dw and kind of how you evolved over time, as it were, DW Starr ** 03:43 well, how far back to you? What we just Oh, go Michael Hingson ** 03:46 to the beginning. What this early memories you got to tell us about you? DW Starr ** 03:50 I'm two years old. I mean, there you go. I'm two years old. I'm in the backseat of my mother's car, and, damn, I fall out, smash my head on the ground and fracture my skull. Wow, yeah. Michael Hingson ** 04:06 Do you remember that? DW Starr ** 04:07 No, okay, I just know that. People told me what happened, and then I was lucky. I didn't get run over by a car or a truck. So then I'm six years old, I'm riding my bike, playing, follow the leader, my friend goes across the street. I follow my friend on my bike, and bam, I get hit by a truck. I fly 15 feet in the air, smash, smash my leg on the curb and break my femur, and I hit my head on the ground and go unconscious. Brain Injury number two, when I when I wake up, yeah, when I wake up, I don't mean to interrupt you. I No go ahead times. So if I do that, tell me to stop interrupting. Michael Hingson ** 04:56 I was just going to ask if you remember that one. Uh, DW Starr ** 04:58 no. Okay anyway, so you broke your leg, and you hit your head right, and when I woke up my I found out that I had a broken leg, and they had put and then eventually they put me in a cast from my stomach down to both my feet, with a bar in between. So I had a cast on both legs, connected at the stomach area all the way down to my toes, and then a bar in between, so I couldn't even move without being carried around the house as a six year old. Michael Hingson ** 05:33 Why was there a bar? Oh, so DW Starr ** 05:36 that the legs would grow evenly, got it, um, and so that I would and so the two, the two, the two legs would be stabilized, okay, otherwise, what I would have two separate casts. So it was one giant cast right now when they took the cast off with, you know, with a buzzsaw, and they took off the cast. My leg had atrophied because it had been in the cast for so long, both of them, actually, and the strength of my leg, the broken leg was still in a healing process. So I had to, I slept on a cow a mattress in my living room, rolled off the mattress and crawled on my hands and knees into the kitchen and taught myself Pediatric Physical Therapy, because it didn't exist back then, and I taught myself how to walk again. Wow, at six, that wasn't really good for my self confidence. When I was crawling around on my hands and knees, I felt, I do remember feeling a little bit like a loser, you know, because I'm six years old, I'm supposed to be able to run and jump. And here I am crawling in my house, and then I go about living my life and different things. And at 40 years old, yep, it happened one more time. I'm in a car on the way to a Billy Joel concert listening to the music of Billy Joel, and I get hit at 55 miles an hour in a car. My wife breaks three ribs, and I hit my head in the inside of the car, so hard I dent the inside of the car with my head, and I don't know it, because what happened was, after that happened, my wife was complaining about these broken ribs. So what? She didn't know they were broken. She just knew she had pain. And so I crawled over the back seat of the car, went out the passenger side. I didn't realize what I was doing. I was on an adrenaline rush, obviously, and I just told her to sit still and everything be fine. The emergency people came. They took us to the hospital. They asked me if I was okay. I said, Sure, I just have a little cut in my in my leg, on my ankle. They said, well, we'll take care of that the hospital. I said, Sure. Went there. She got tested. She was okay, except for the broken ribs, and the way broken ribs heal is just time. So she was okay. We came home, I went to work the next day, and I was in corporate I was in corporate America, working with one of the largest medical informatics companies on the planet. It's one of the top 1000 companies in the world, and I was in sales management, and so anyway, what happened was, a couple days later, I started screaming at her, and that's not my personality at all. So I thought, something's not right. And so we ended up, I ended up going to a couple doctors, and the neuropsychiatrist said to me, I know what your problem is. I went, Oh, good, good, Doc. Tell me what my problem is. He said, Oh, you've had a traumatic brain injury. I said, That's not possible. He goes, Well, why is that? I said, because I've already had two. He said, Well, now you've had three. Michael Hingson ** 09:14 You know, you just don't know how to keep your head out of the way DW Starr ** 09:17 you think. And people say you should stay away from cars. Michael Hingson ** 09:24 You got to mind your head better is what it is. It is so he told you he had a traumatic brain injury, yeah. And DW Starr ** 09:30 he explained to me that it's a very unique kind of a thing. When you get a traumatic brain injury, you never really know what the long range effects are. He had me read an article about a female steeple jumper, someone who rides a horse and jumps over those, those railings, you know, the steeple jumper, right? And he said she fell off her horse, hit her head, and she had trouble the rest of her life addressing envelopes. Mm. And probably just like you. I said, What? What? What, what, how, what's it doesn't make sense addressing he said, Well, the way it works is that our brain is very, very, very unique, and different pieces do different things, so we never know what your long term effects are going to be. So I was out of work for three months because somebody would say, I want to buy one of these, one of these, and one of these, and I couldn't remember the first thing the person pointed to within, within a split second at the time they pointed to it. So I couldn't work because I couldn't remember. And I was really scared. I was scared that I wasn't going to be able to be a good provider for my family, be a good father to my sons, be a good husband to my wife, and just be okay. But after about three months, things really started to get better, and at that's the time when I remembered, when I was a kid, how I remembered things. Because even as a kid now, remember I had two head injuries by the time I was six. I don't know if the reason I had trouble remembering things when I was six was because of that or not, but I do remember my teacher telling me how to spell arithmetic. I'm doing all the talking here. That's okay, it's funny. It's your story. All right, all right. Michael Hingson ** 11:30 People have heard mine. DW Starr ** 11:32 Okay, cool. I gotcha. All right, so arithmetic, a rat in the house might eat the ice cream, A, R, I T, H, M, E, T, I C, a rat in the house might eat the ice cream. And I I love that as a kid, and I remembered that as an adult. And I said, Wait a minute, maybe I can start remembering things by using that kind of a technique, and that's what I did. I started creating memory hacks for myself in different arenas in my life, and that's how I remember remember things, to the point where even today, I use the some of those memory hacks for my own presentations, my own performances. I use my last name star as a memory hack to remember my own stuff. Yeah, Michael Hingson ** 12:34 how long ago? So you had the last accident at 40? And how many years ago was that? DW Starr ** 12:40 Well, that's going to give away my age. Oh, well, that's up to you. Let's just say I'm somewhere around 60. Okay, Michael Hingson ** 12:51 so it's been a while, and so you've been using the memory hack, if you will, techniques for for quite a while, and you still use them DW Starr ** 12:59 to people too. Sometimes, yeah, yeah. Do you ever forget? Let me ask you a question. Michael, do you? Do you ever forget something that you want to remember when you are going from one place to another? I do okay. Do you? Do you? Um? Do you have things that you always like to carry with you when you go from one place to another, like a phone or a notebook or or something like that. I do so do you ever forget them? Michael Hingson ** 13:33 The things that I carry, typically not. I've gotten into the habit of carrying them and I don't DW Starr ** 13:38 Okay. We find that that many people do forget things like their their glasses or their phone or their or their keys or whatever. So what I did for myself is I created an mnemonic device called, please bring a kazoo guide. Now, a kazoo is that thing that you play, that you humid like that? Yep. So please, I have one. Oh, you have one. I Michael Hingson ** 14:07 do not right here, but I have one. DW Starr ** 14:11 So do I? I got it as a kid? Yeah. So I used to use that in my performances sometimes. So I said, All right, I'll create a mnemonic device. Please bring a kazoo guide, phone, briefcase, attitude, keys and glasses. I never want to forget my good attitude, but I also don't want to forget my phone or my briefcase or my keys or my glasses. So that's the kind of mnemonic device, memory hack that I'm talking about, that I've used for myself to help me be confident and stay confident in my memory portion of my my life. Michael Hingson ** 14:51 And I use mnemonics for some things from time to time or not so much mnemonics, but something I. Um, oftentimes, when I'm creating something that I want to remember, I will convert print characters to Braille dots, and I will create combinations that for whatever reason I remember to help me not forget the things that I don't want to forget when when I do that so I hear what you're saying, and I appreciate it a great deal. And I think that there's a lot of value in everyone finding ways to remember things. One of the things that I've always been good at remembering are phone numbers, and I work really hard, even today, when I have a smartphone that is very accessible that I can put contacts in and do I still want to remember the phone numbers, because I think that keeps me sharper by remembering things. So I remember a lot of phone numbers, and I've made it a conscious effort to do that so that, and it's worked for me specifically to be able to do that. I remember the phone number that we had when I grew up in Palmdale, California, and I even remember the phone number that I had in them in my dorm at UC Irvine and and some of the other phone numbers like that. DW Starr ** 16:26 And any of them start with 213, Michael Hingson ** 16:30 huh? No, mine started with 805, and then 714, because I went to UC Irvine. So it was 714, and I have a friend who, and I still remember it his phone number at UC Irvine, actually, he, yeah, he was a PhD candidate at UC Irvine, but he lived off campus, and his number was 714, Om, war, 1o, H, M, W, A, r1, and I always thought that was a clever way to remember it. Yeah, and I had one, I'm trying to remember. I know the last I've got to think about it. One of the phone numbers that I worked with at UC Irvine ended with jet one, and I don't remember right off. I'll think about it the first three digits, but it's good to have the little acronyms, or not acronyms, but mnemonics and memory devices, and they're very valuable to use, and more people should probably use them, they might remember things better. So DW Starr ** 17:33 what I figured out, Michael is I figured out why we forget some of these things, and that has helped me help people understand more about building their own confidence, and the reason that we forget these things is because we're already where we're going instead of where we are. We're already thinking about getting in the car, walking into the other room, leaving the hotel, getting off an airplane, we're already thinking about those things as if they're already starting to happen, instead of paying attention to where we actually are at the moment. So this, this memory hack, actually creates something that we all call mindfulness, which is pretty wild, because I never knew that was going to be one of the outcomes. But because of that, I'm able to stay in the present a lot more often, and I like that feeling, yeah, and, and it, it's that's all part of about being confident, is being confident with who you are in the moment Michael Hingson ** 18:42 you you asked earlier if I have a phone, and remember my phone and other things I know I've stayed in many hotels, and one of the things, again, it's a discipline that I've developed, is that I never leave A hotel key laying on a table, it stays in the pocket, and my phone will either be in my pocket, or if I'm in a hotel room, I will make sure that it is plugged in by the head of the bed, so that when I get up in the morning, it is one of the first things that I touch, and I'm very deliberate about that. But the hotel key, especially, I just have always developed this habit, this technique of never leave it laying around. And for me, there are several reasons. One, I am too much an out of sight, out of mind kind of guy, and so the bottom line is, not seeing the hotel key, if I put it down somewhere, that's going to be a problem. So the better thing is to keep it in a pocket. DW Starr ** 19:45 Makes sense to me. It works, yep, but, Michael Hingson ** 19:52 but people really do allow their minds to I think you pointed out very well. Uh, move to, um, away from where we are to where we're going to be, and we lose that control, and we never seem to learn from our mistakes. Or we think, Oh, well, I can just see the hotel key so I won't forget it. Yeah, that works really well. DW Starr ** 20:19 Well, if you think of if the people in your audience were to think of people who they have in their life, who they feel are confident and would like to have some of that confidence, or somebody in a movie or TV or in a book they read that has has a really good, solid hold on confidence. They'll see that those characters or those people live in the present moment. And so that's a really important piece of the puzzle of confidence. It's not the only thing. Obviously, there's lots of other pieces of the puzzle, but that, like, I say that's, that's an important piece. So, yeah, it Michael Hingson ** 21:07 is. Well, so you weren't doing any of this coaching, I presume, or hadn't really thought through as much about confidence and so on, before you had your accident at 40, DW Starr ** 21:25 I was dabbling, dabbling. I I, I was inspired through many different people. In fact, I use a mnemonic memory hack, to even remember who inspired me. It's to rise t, w o r, I, instead of an S, it's a Z, Z e, t, w o r, I, z e, to rise to rise above, to rise ahead, and it stands for Tony Robbins, Wayne, Dyer, Oprah Winfrey, Ronald Reagan, Indira Gandhi, zig zigular, and Eleanor Roosevelt. So I use my name like I said. I use these memory hacks all the time, but those those people, along with Nelson Mandela and his life, were an inspiration to me that I decided that I needed to share my message with the world, and I so I studied these people and saw all the different roadblocks and the different the different things that stopped them, that held them back. And I said, if all these different people, I mean, Nelson Mandela was in jail for 20 years, yeah. And he was put there by the country that he eventually became president of, yeah. So if these people could rise above, to rise above their own circumstances. I certainly could teach myself how to do that too. And so that's what I did. And once I did that, then I said, I want to share this message with the world. And so I I did that for many, many years with adults. And then there's this thing that happened called covid. Yeah, all the speakers, right? It just shut down, yep. And during that time, some of the speakers and performers realized they could use this concept called Zoom. And I did a program in Ethiopia on Zoom, and I saw how successful it was. And this program was with college students and their professors. And up until that time, I had only been working with corporate America and adults, you know, big, big fortune, 500 companies that's all on my website, if somebody wants to look me up, and all the different companies I work for, worked with. But anyway, so during covid, and I did that, and I said, You know what, when I come out of this, I want, I want to make an, a really strong effort to make a big focus on teens and young adults, because I figured something out while I was, you know, while we were in this covid coma, almost at times, it felt like is that young adults and teens were going to their older mentors, whether it was their parents or whether it was their boss, and saying, I don't understand this covid thing. Can you please help me understand this? And their boss and their parents and their grandparents had no clue what to tell them, because they didn't know what to do either. Right, yeah. So what happens is all these young people who have these people on a pedestal, the pedestal starts to drop, and this hurts their the teens and young adults self confidence, to the point where you start seeing all kinds of major issues going on with it, with young people, and it's all over the news, and even even the Surgeon General talked about it, depression, higher rates of suicide, anxiety, heavy social anxiety, and on top of that, social media. So the teens and young adults sometimes can't even talk to each other because they only know how to do it on this machine. Michael Hingson ** 25:45 Yeah. Or, or with text, DW Starr ** 25:49 yeah, yeah. Well, that's actually yeah, both computer and text. And like, I'm holding up a phone right now and it says, Bs, Oh, I better tell people what that stands for, or they're going to get freaked out. That reminds me, me, that's my memory hack that stands for belief system. Okay? It says BS, but it stands for belief system. It reminds me that the way I perceive my life is all based on what I believe. If I change my beliefs, I can change my perception, yep. And Michael Hingson ** 26:28 the other part of that is, if you need to change your beliefs, that is, we should always look to grow. We have a belief system. We have what we believe in. And I'm not saying that people need to question what they believe in, but they should always be open to learning new things and letting that augment their belief system. DW Starr ** 26:46 Absolutely. Yeah, so that's designed, that BS is designed every time I pick up my phone to remind me if what I believe is in my best interest, if it's healthy for me, and if it's not, then I need to do something about it, you Michael Hingson ** 27:02 know, during covid. And I'm not trying to brag or sound arrogant or anything, but I know, and I think I can connect it up here. I didn't have a lot of social anxiety. My wife didn't even have a lot of social anxiety. We We went through it, but we also felt we lived in a in a house, the two of us, we live, where we where I live. Now, she passed away in 2022 but, but just she was in a wheelchair. Well, she was in a chair her whole life, and her body just started slowing down. So we lost her in November of 2022 and it's just kind of one of those things, as her physical medicine doctor once told her, you know, the body doesn't come with a lifetime warranty. So it happened, DW Starr ** 27:46 no, no, just get out of here alive. Well, Michael Hingson ** 27:48 not in that sense. And you know, but the thing is that we we felt okay. We got a lockdown, we'll lock down. And we did, but we were much more oriented toward, as you would say, living in the moment and not worrying about all the things that we couldn't control. And I can think about that very intellectually and say that's how we reacted to life. We didn't worry about what we couldn't control. We focused mainly on what we could Oh, occasionally we worried about one thing or another, but mostly we just didn't worry about what we couldn't control and focused on the things that we had control over. And we had control over things mail comes in, spray it with a little bit of Lysol, just to play safe. And neither of us ever got ever got covid, but we we always wore masks when we went out. And I still, when I fly, wear a mask, just because you never know. But I also had a lot of fun with masks, because I've told this story a couple times on on unstoppable mindset. We went to a bank one day, and I went into the bank wearing a mask. I was carrying my white K and I didn't use my guide dog. It was a quick trip, so he stayed home, and I walked. We walked. I walked in. Karen stayed in the car because she also had an autoimmune situation with rheumatoid arthritis, so she drove me to the bank, but she felt she shouldn't go in, and I agreed. Anyway, I went in wearing a mask. Go up to the teller, and they all know me there, but I go up and I say, when we when we greet each other? And I said, Hello. And they said, Hello. And then I said, Don't you think it's funny how today somebody wearing a mask can walk into a bank, and then I held my cane up and say, This is a stick up, right? And the manager came over and he said, you know, we haven't had such a good laugh all day, which is exactly why I did it. But you know, we all have choices to how we deal with things and and how we react to things. And I think so often I heard so many people being so anxious about. Using Zoom Zoom fatigue and everything else. And I realized the fact of the matter is that covid offered and still offers us a great opportunity to deal with a lot of things in a different way, and that, rather than having zoom fatigue, use it to your advantage, and unfortunately, we just don't worry about that, because we are so used to doing it one way, we don't get innovative anymore. DW Starr ** 30:31 Yeah, so it's, if you look at the people, typically, that are most happy in life, it's because they're continually looking for a way to to grow. And it doesn't necessarily have to be financially, it can be spiritually, it can be emotionally, it can be psychologically, it can be financially, it can be educationally, but if that's even a word, educationally, but it works okay today anyway, yeah. But the key I guess, is that if you're continually growing, you're firing this. And trust me, I've studied the brain a lot. You can only imagine after three head injury, Michael Hingson ** 31:15 have you discovered that you do you need to mind your head and keep it out of the way. DW Starr ** 31:20 Absolutely, okay, absolutely away from Michael Hingson ** 31:24 cars, cars. Yeah, please. DW Starr ** 31:28 So, so what happens is, is that we're, we're, we're continually reassessing our ourselves, that those are, seem to be the people who are the most happiest. Michael Hingson ** 31:46 I think there's a lot of truth to that they don't worry about the things that they don't have a lot of control over, because all that's going to do is drive you crazy, exactly, and it does. It just drives too many people way too crazy, which is too bad. DW Starr ** 32:04 I think another thing for me, though that's really important that I want to share, is that that your life doesn't happen by chance. It happens by choice. Yes, and, and, and. So, you know, we, we've all heard this, but, but it's so true that by not making a decision, you're still making a decision. So if you're in a situation, you go, Oh, I don't really know what I want to do about this. Well, you're making the decision not to make a decision. And that, in itself, is a choice. And you always have a choice. Always say, you know, in Viktor frankl's book, A Man's Search for Meaning, which is quite an amazing book, if anyone in your audience hasn't read it and they want to really understand the deep psychological meaning for how people survive the concentration camps, is in his book, he talks, he talks about the the importance of of of recognizing that it's a choice, that it's a choice that they it's your choice to search for meaning. It's, you know, I made a post. I did a post just the other day. I said, it's not what happens to you, it's how you perceive what happens to you. It's not what happens to you, it's what you it's what you feel and think about what happens to you. It's not the actual occurrence itself, it's how you deal with it. And I think that's really important when it comes to confidence, because you can look at failure as failure, or you can look at failure as a stepping stone. I mean, we've all heard this stuff for years, but it's true. That's why we keep hearing it, because it's true, Michael Hingson ** 33:57 September 11 happened, and I believe that we didn't have any control over it happening. I still don't think that, no matter what happened, we for could have foreseen it coming, but it happened, and that's not something we have any control over, but we all have control over how we choose to deal with it, which is exactly what you're saying. DW Starr ** 34:21 Yeah, absolutely. And you know, for me, my parents were very dysfunctional. Okay, so I had a choice. I could, I could use that as an excuse not to be happy, not, you know, to be dysfunctional as a parent when I had kids, although, but, but I, I choose to look at those things as as lessons for me to grow from, to become who I want to be, you know. And that's I, you know, there's one thing I want to make sure I say in this podcast, and that's that, you know, somebody once said to me, well, dw, if I could just like, learn how to do. What you're talking about like in five minutes. Five just five minutes because everybody's in a hurry. Everybody wants to right? So five, I say, Well, here's the key. The key is figure out what you want. Figure out why you want it. Keep showing up. Don't let go of that desire. Don't let go of that dream, and then find somebody either in the real world or in the make believe world, meaning movies, TV, books, whatever, or in the real world, a mother, a father, an uncle, a boss, a librarian that you know a school teacher, whatever, find somebody who has the kind of confidence that you want to strive for, and then let them mentor you. And if you don't have a direct connection to them, use what I call a virtual mentor. And that's what I did. Ronald Reagan, Indira Gandhi, Zig Ziglar, Ellen Ro I didn't have any connection with those people, but what I did was I let them virtually mentor me, and that's what I would suggest the person do, and then for two minutes every morning and every night, imagine yourself being like that person, and then for two minutes during the day. Take a situation in your life, whatever it is, and for two minutes be like that person's confidence would be. Act as if you were that confident for just two minutes. You can do it for two for two minutes in the morning and two minutes in the evening, you just imagine you have that kind of confidence. What would that person do in the situation you're trying to be more confident about and then during the day, for two minutes, simply like, let's say you're nervous about making phone calls as a salesperson a cold call, or, let's say that you don't have the confidence you want to have for playing the guitar in front of five friends for two minutes. Just pretend like you're you have the confidence of that mentor, and just act as if you have it. And that's what I did, and over time, eventually I became DW star. That's not my legal name. That's my professional name. Michael Hingson ** 37:31 I'm curious why Indira Gandhi? Well, DW Starr ** 37:34 if you look at how big that country is and how populated it is and how, how she was one of the first females to be in charge of a I think she might have been the first female to be in charge of a country that big. And her, her, her personality, her her, her, her graciousness, her, her tenderness was an important piece of what I wanted for my life. Yeah, Michael Hingson ** 38:07 yeah. I was just curious, because I figured some people might ask that question if they were here, so I thought it was probably relevant to ask, and I I agree with the answer. Well, so you, you went off and you, you had all these brain injuries. And so was, you were 40. Did you go back to work eventually, for the company that you? DW Starr ** 38:31 Yeah, after three months, I went back to work. And slowly, well, I went back to work. I, if I were, I'm not sure I remember this, but I went back to work, I think, a few days a week, and then eventually I went back to work full time, and I was fortunate enough to be one of the top sales producers in that company for many, many years, And I worked for that company for, wow, about 30 years, Michael Hingson ** 39:04 but then you decided to switch what caused. While I DW Starr ** 39:08 was doing that, I started doing what I'm doing now in a smaller way, and then eventually it just grew and grew to where I was working. So I was selling to some of these corporations, and eventually I ended up doing programs for these corporations through my other act. And oh, by the way, people want to know why I'm dressed like this. You can't see it, but I'm wearing leather pants and leather boots. And that's because, if you go to my website, or you look at the front cover of my book, one of my books, I got, like five books. It's I'm wearing what looks like a movie director's outfit, because I play an old fashioned movie director. And what I do is I help people rewrite the script that's running inside. Their mind that isn't always so positive. So I'm an inner movie director, helping them rewrite the inner script that runs the inner movie in their mind. So I'm dressed as an inner movie director, and that's why I've got the megaphone in the box, Michael Hingson ** 40:16 just gonna say. And hence the megaphone. And if anybody wants to know how I know about it, because DW told me, yeah, DW Starr ** 40:22 yeah, and I, and I, and I use that in my presentation, because my presentation is oftentimes also a performance. Oh, I forgot to tell you this. I was in the US Army for three years. I wrote, produced, directed, acted in commercial. Commercials for the US Army stationed in Korea for one year. Cool. Now that's probably some other things I forgot to tell you, too. That's okay. Amber emulet, you know, Michael Hingson ** 40:54 that's fine, but you so you you became a speaker, you became a performer. You're also a writer. And tell me. Tell me about your books, if you would. Okay, DW Starr ** 41:07 well, I wrote two books on change, and as I what happens is, just like we're talking about recognizing how to be better, how to evolve. I wrote two books on change, and as I was working with corporations and doing some personal coaching and consulting, I realized that the reason people are having so much trouble with change is because they didn't have enough confidence. So I said, Why don't I help them with their confidence? And that way that'll automatically help them change. And so I shifted from change to confidence, and I'm really glad I did that. So the first two books are on change. The third book was written to be a very easy this is, this is the one I was talking about. And by the way, if they go to my website, they can get a free PDF for that book. What's Michael Hingson ** 42:03 your website? By the way? Well, we'll do it again later. But what is, since you've mentioned it so many times, sure, DW Starr ** 42:08 it's D, like dog, W, like wagon, S, T, A, R, r.net, D, W, star, with two R's, dot net. Okay, now what's really crazy, I have to tell you this. I tell this to people, and every time I say it, I think to myself, that's crazy. If you Google me, dw, star, right now, anyone in your audience Googles me, I am fortunate enough to have the entire page with no advertising. It's crazy to me that that that has happened, but it's because I've been able to be prolific in many ways. I mean, I have a song, I have a poem, I have my books, I present I you know, I do some personal coaching consulting. So I'm doing all these different things. So obviously, that's why Google finds all those different things. So anyway about my books? So first two books was change your size and when change means business. This book is be self confident anywhere, anytime and with anyone. It's a 30 page book so that every day, you can be a little more confident in a particular arena of interest in your life, and it lists 30 different ones, and I'll read to you really quickly off the back of the book. In this book, you will learn improve the inner movie and self talk running in your mind. Use actions and thoughts that will propel your success, gain a greater self confidence mindset day by day, and that's what it's designed to do. And like I said, they can get a free PDF copy if they want, if they want to buy the actual book, they can just shoot me an email and we'll take care of that later. It's 10 bucks, and anybody on on your program that they'll get a 20% discount, so we'll send it to him for eight bucks, plus shipping Michael Hingson ** 44:03 if they if they just say that they heard about it here. Yeah. Okay, great. DW Starr ** 44:07 And then another book I recently wrote with the partner is is on memory and AI working with AI, and I'm working on another book with that partner now about imagination and AI. And then I'm also working on a book called Confidence matters. I have about two thirds of that book written now, cool. Michael Hingson ** 44:35 So lots going on. Yeah, DW Starr ** 44:38 I like to stay busy. Michael Hingson ** 44:40 Well, tell us about your show, your one man show, DW live, and maybe tell us a story about it, or something that happened in it, a memory you have of it recently and so on. Sure, DW Starr ** 44:54 sure. Well, you know, I do it with adults, but the ones that really offer. Touch my heart or the younger, yeah, because there are future leaders, and also they're really struggling. I was in, I did, I did a my dwive Live show for the Police Athletic League, and the was Boys and Girls Club after school program at a recreation center here in Florida, in southern Florida, and when I was done, well, like I said, I played old fashioned movie director. I actually teach them very specific techniques that they can do in depth, like what I talked about real quick in the five minutes I go into depth in my program, where they can actually teach themselves how to be more confident, and within 30 days they are. It just happens. If they do it, you have to do the work, but if you're willing to do the work. So I was done with this one presentation, actually was the performance. And people were coming up and getting, you know, the school had the recreation center had bought copies of the books for all the kids. So I was doing some autographing, and one came up to me, and he goes, I really enjoyed that. Well, he didn't say, I really he's I really like that. And I said, Oh, great. And then I always ask people to be more specific so I can know what they like or don't like. And she and he said, I said, So what's, what did you really like about it? And he said, I liked everything. I went, Whoa, that's really cool. And then I said, you want to take a selfie? And he goes, Yeah, yeah. And I said, Okay, give me your phone. And he goes, Mr. DW, I don't have a phone. I don't have a phone. And I said, You, I think I actually was in disbelief. And so I said, Oh, you mean you left it in the class? He goes, No, no, no, I don't own a phone. And I said to myself, that's why I'm here. I'm here to help that son, that of a mother and father who can't financially afford to buy a phone for their son help him still feel like he has value and hope. And so I said, I'll tell you what. We're going to take a selfie with my phone, and then I'm going to make sure the selfie picture gets to your your I think he was called a coach, your coach, and he'll make sure you get to see it. And so they did that. But that was that was an awakening for me, because I knew why. I knew that some of these teenagers, were in situations that weren't ideal, in their family life and in their home life and in their economics and all but it for some reason, it it finally dawned on me that they can't their parents can't even afford to get them a phone when it's so prolific, everywhere, you can forget that. So that was a great that made me feel good, that I was giving back like that well, and that is, that's really cool story. I got plenty more, but, you know, I don't want to inundate people with stories. Michael Hingson ** 48:37 No, that's fine. So, so tell me, what are the key qualities and skills that people need to learn or that you use to help people become engrossed in the STAR method, the STA RR method, and what does STARR stand for? DW Starr ** 49:01 Okay, so S, T, A, R, R stands for something that I can remember by using that memory hack. I figured, yeah, and it does it three different times in my program, it stands for three different things, but I always use the same mnemonic so I can remember it. So let's try this. Michael, what, what's one of your favorite movies? Michael Hingson ** 49:28 Et, perfect. DW Starr ** 49:31 Who is the star in that movie? ET, okay, so the s, the s in Star stands for the star or the superhero of that movie. Okay, now the T stands for Task. What is the task of that character? Michael Hingson ** 49:56 Well, in his case, of course, ultimately, it's to get home. DW Starr ** 49:59 Exactly to get home. Okay? And who is ETS arch villain, the A in Star arch villain, Michael Hingson ** 50:13 the law enforcement, the military. Okay? DW Starr ** 50:17 Now the first R stands for reach coach. Now I could have said mentor, but mentor doesn't fit the formula of S, T, A, R, R, so I had to come up with a word, and I came up with Reach, reach coach. That's clever. Who, who in the movie helps the star attain the task by reaching deep and down, deep down inside themselves and finding the confidence they need to find. Michael Hingson ** 50:44 And I don't remember the actor's name, but the young man, right? You don't need to DW Starr ** 50:48 know the name. You just need to know the character. Perfect, the boy, the little boy, right? And the final r, what was the reason that et wanted to get home. Michael Hingson ** 51:04 Well, he wanted to be back with his people, right, DW Starr ** 51:07 right? He wanted to feel like he was with people he belonged with, right? Or extraterrestrials in this case, right? Well, so, so that's the start, so that's the STARR method, right, right? So what that is, now you take that and you have the audience. I take that and I have the audience take their favorite movie and apply the same formula, so each one of the people in that audience is connected to my concept through something that makes them happy and feel good. Okay? Then I say, Okay, now that you've done that, now what we're going to do is we're going to make your inner movie. We're going to help you rewrite the script to your inner movie. So guess what formula we're going to use, S, T, A, R, R, of course. Yeah, the S stands for star. Well, who's the star they are? What tasks do they want to achieve? So I asked them in the audience, what do they want to have more confidence in? And they and they think about that to themselves, while I have one person up front be the example. And so I bring a student or an adult up front, and I have them be the example and explain their favorite movie, just like I did with you, right? But I'm having the audience do it at the same time. Does that make sense? It does okay. So, so this is an interactive presentation and interactive performance all at the same time. So then the then, who is the arch villain? I have them figure out who the arch villain is in their life. It could be a friend, a so called friend. It could be a brother, it could be a it could be a school teacher. It could be an uncle. It could be, you know, be a number of different people in different roles, but somebody is their arch villain that is holding them back. And if it's themselves, it's the arch villain. And oftentimes I hear that people go, Oh, I'm my own worst enemy, or something like that. I say, okay, but isn't it possible that maybe you heard that from somebody else when you were growing up, that you're no good at you're, you're not a good singer, or you're never going to amount to anything. That's what my father actually said to me, you're never going to amount to anything. That's another story. I don't want to take the time to do that now, but that's part of what I had to overcome, along with the head injuries. Michael Hingson ** 53:55 Did he say that because of the did he say that because of the head injuries? Or no in DW Starr ** 53:59 in addition to the head injury, wow, I had to overcome my father's attitude that I would never amount to anything. And also, just as a sideline, my mom had a stroke when she was 15 years old, and was a very angry person as an adult, so I had to deal with a lot of that junk. But anyway, that's another story. So back to what I'm telling you. A stands for Arch villain, then the R stands for reach coach. Who can you create if you don't have a mentor in your life, who can you make a mentor? Or who can you make a virtual mentor? So if you don't have anybody that you really feel comfortable as a 15 year old making your mentor, you know, maybe it's Superman, or maybe it's Barbie, it somebody who has or something that has a kind of confidence you want to gain more of, and you use that virtually. You. To help. And then I walk them through these steps, step by step, which we don't have time for now, and then the final hours, reason. What's the real reason you want to do this? Why is it a burning desire? And I talk about that earlier in the presentation. The importance of it's not, it's not how to do something that's most important. What's most important is why? Because when you know the why, you'll figure out that how. So that's that. So now I've got all that, but that's just a formula. It's not a strategy. So then I walk them through the strategy, and the strategy is S, T, A, R, R, what a surprise. S stands for self assess. Well, that's what they've just done, they've assessed themselves. T stands for take a risk. What risks do they need to take in order to achieve the results they want? And I talk about some of the risks I had. One of the risks is this stuff, notes. Performers don't use notes typically when they're doing a performance, and I was told, don't use notes. It doesn't look good. I said, Well, I have to. I have no choice, but my memory won't be able to remember all my stuff, and I want to make sure I remember. So a couple of those phrases I said to you throughout this program were written down so I remember to say them. So and then the other risk was, of course, that I was told I wasn't going to amount to anything. So who do I think I am? Yeah, I'm nobody special, so I had to get over that hump. So those are my those are my risks and that so the T and star take a risk. I asked them what their risks are, and then the A stands for act as if. And that's where I have them do, where they're where they're at home. And the two minute thing that I talked about earlier, and I go into more depth about that in the presentation too. And then the first star is reassess. See how it's going after a month, see if there's been some major changes. If there have do the final R, repeat, repeat. But if it's not working, you got to go back to the original S, T, A, R, R, and see if you're really clear on what task you really want to you really want to achieve it, who really is your arch villain? And if you your reason is a burning desire, because it has to be in order for you to make the shift to have the confidence you want to have, right? Does that make sense? It does. It Michael Hingson ** 57:28 makes absolute sense. DW Starr ** 57:29 And the teens are like, Wow, no one's ever taught me this before. Yeah, Michael Hingson ** 57:36 I'm sure that's true. Yeah. DW Starr ** 57:38 And the and the college kids and the adults. There's plenty of adults that go, afterwards, they go, dw, no one's ever like, broken it down like that. So it's like concrete. I can actually follow this step by step. I give them a handout they take with them at the end that they can follow step by step. Wow. Michael Hingson ** 57:59 All right, I have to ask, since we got the star part, what? What is dw? DW Starr ** 58:03 Oh, man, I don't usually put this out on on the airwaves. Okay, well, I guess I will. 58:12 I'll leave it to you. No, no, DW Starr ** 58:14 I'll do it. I'll do it. So when somebody meets me, and they go, Hi, and I go, Hi, I'm dw, and they go, Oh, what's that stand for? And I go, Oh, well, most of my friends call me dw, so you can call me DW too. And that usually works. That's fair, okay, but I'm gonna, I'm gonna say it here. Yeah, I'm gonna say, why not? Okay, so I say, once somebody gets to know me and understand me more, then it'll make more sense what DW stands for. If I tell them right up front, it's weird, okay, but now that people have heard me and they've listened a little bit about my story and how you know my personality and my my attitude about life, it'll make more sense. So Ringo Starr had a great last name. I loved it. So when it was time for me to become a writer at nine years old, because at nine years old, I started writing little short stories, I called myself my legal first name and star as my last name that became my pen name when I got to be an adult and decided I was going to be this character that helps people with their confidence. I said, Okay, I don't even want to use any part of my legal name. I want a completely different professional name. So I said, Okay, well, what is it that I do. I help people weave their dreams into their life on a daily basis. I'm a dream weaver, dw, and so every time I introduce myself to somebody and say, I'm dw, I'm. Myself that that's where my focus is. Yeah, people to do that, yeah. Michael Hingson ** 1:00:06 And I appreciate you telling us that story. And I, I thank you for doing that. Tell me what are some of the common misconceptions about confidence? DW Starr ** 1:00:18 Well, let's look at politics for five seconds. Michael Hingson ** 1:00:21 No, there's confidence or lack of it or something. But anyway, sure, DW Starr ** 1:00:24 I'm not, I'm not going to get specific about anything about politics. Oh, I understand. I'm going to be totally generalized. The reality is that if you are truly confident, you don't need to tell anybody or prove it. So if you see any of that in politics, you'll know that there's a possibility that there's some low self esteem floating underneath Yeah. And that's true not just in politics. That's true when you talk to somebody at a party who is using the most sophisticated words they can come up with to try to prove to you that they are smart, that they know their stuff, the most confident people can explain what they believe like you're Five years old, not talking down, but making it their complicated wisdom in a way that it's understandable to people who don't have that education in that particular arena or training. Einstein even talked about that make it as simple as you can, but not too simple. And that's a paraphrase of one of his Michael Hingson ** 1:01:42 quotes, right? And then there's the common phrase of, keep it simple, stupid, DW Starr ** 1:01:50 but you know Exactly, yeah. So overconfidence is usually a camouflage for low self esteem, yeah? So what true confidence is is, like I said earlier in the show, it's authenticity. It's being who you are with all your good parts and your not so good parts, whether it's your physical nature, whether it's your emotional nature, whether it's your psychological nature, whether it's your educational background, you're if you're truly confident, then you accept it all, and then you build from there. Yeah, that's my belief, that one ain't changing, nope. And I buy it. I Michael Hingson ** 1:02:41 think you're absolutely right. I think that we all too often. I think there's a difference. We all too often just don't project the confidence that that we can we I think there's a lot of difference between a lack of confidence and humility. And there's nothing wrong with being confident. There is something wrong with being arrogant, but, but confidence doesn't mean arrogance. Confidence means that you have convictions, you have things that you know and you're certain about them, which is a fine thing. DW Starr ** 1:03:18 Yeah, absolutely. In fact, some people get confused with aggressive and assertive. It's the same thing. It's that same concept. You want to be assertive. You just don't want to be aggressive, because if you're assertive, it shows your confidence. So if you're in an interview for a job, you want to show that you're assertive in that interview. You don't want to just have that interviewer feel like they're not, that they're not running the whole show, but that the the that you count in the interview, you're just not another number where they're just going checking off the list. You show you show your confidence by being assertive, and it's the same. You know people, you know they get a meal at a restaurant. You see this a lot, in a lack of self confidence. They get a meal at a restaurant, and it's either something they didn't order, period, or it's just not done correctly, and because they lack the confidence, they're not assertive to take a step to correct it, and and that's not aggressive, and that's not a complainer, that's someone who's valuing their their own self worth. So there's these fine lines sometimes that are important to recognize the Michael Hingson ** 1:04:44 aggression comes in. How you if you decide you're going to deal with the incorrectness of the meal, how you deal with it exactly, and, and, and I know I'm I actually had a situation just last week. I went with someone to a restaurant. I. Yeah, and my food came, and it was cold, and it wasn't supposed to be was supposed to be a hot meal. So when the when the server came back, I just said, Hey, this is cold. Touch it and you can see. And she said, No, I won't touch it. I said, I guarantee you, it's cold. If they could heat it up, I'd sure appreciate it. I wouldn't ever be rude to a person and be obnoxious and say, You dummy, you brought me a lousy meal and all that. You know. Well, what happened was that it came back nice and hot, but it also came back being brought back by someone who I think was the manager. He heard that we had sent it back, and he actually had come over and said, What's the problem? And we explained. And then he was the one who actually brought the meal back, and it was, it was nice and hot, and it was so much better. So but I know I have, DW Starr ** 1:05:54 I have something I call personal gratitude program, and I've taught that to in corporate America, and I've taught it to my my now adult sons, and that's that when somebody gives me over the top great service, I recognize it, yep, by going to their boss, either personally, in person or by phone or by email or by a form of some kind, and letting them know that I don't take for granted the exceptional service I got. I do that too. It's, it's, it's such an amazing feeling, because when you do that, I'm sure you know when you do that, it's a win win all across the board. Of course, it is the employee feels good, the person who hired the employee feels good, and the next person that employee sees is going to get some of that good, that good vibes to them. And you feel good Absolutely. Michael Hingson ** 1:07:00 Well, tell me so you do some coaching. You said, in addition to doing the one man show, DW Starr ** 1:07:05 very it's, it's very limited, uh huh, Michael Hingson ** 1:07:09 how do you how do you choose to or who you coach? Or how does that work? DW Starr ** 1:07:14 It works with, working with, with a client that is clear about their why, and they are passionate about their why, and they just need some guardrails or guideposts to help them figure out how they can find the how got it. So it's very it's very limited, and it's, it's at a it's at a very high level, economically and corporately, Michael Hingson ** 1:07:54 but mostly you travel and you do your show, and you've clearly been to a lot of states, and I know that because everyone DW told me about the map behind him. So he's been to a lot of states, and he's been to a number of countries, DW Starr ** 1:08:09 40 states, and I think it's nine countries, Michael Hingson ** 1:08:13 which is cool. No, it's DW Starr ** 1:08:15 15 countries. Okay, sorry, 15, yeah. Michael Hingson ** 1:08:20 Well, you know, I want to thank you for being here. So tell us once again, if people want to reach out, learn more about you, maybe even contact you. How do they do that? DW Starr ** 1:08:31 So there's a there's a few ways. One is then go to my website, which is D, w, s, t, a, r, r.net they can find me on Instagram, on at DW star, on LinkedIn, at DW star, they can find me on YouTube and Tiktok at confidence Crusader, confidence Crusader. And, yeah, I think, I think that's good. I mean, if you want to give my email address out, we'll just use the info at DW star.net, that's cool. Certainly shoot me so they can feel free to follow me, or, you know, get a free copy of my a PDF copy of my book, and they can Google me. Like I said, I'm all over there. That's just still crazy to me, that I, I have the I'm I'm lucky enough to have all of that without any advertising. Michael Hingson ** 1:09:37 It's a great blessing. Well, I want to thank you for being here and being with us, and taking all this time, I've enjoyed it, and I've learned a lot, and I would think and hope that that everyone listening has as well, and that if you, if you like what you heard, let DW know, and I certainly would appreciate it if you'd let us know, you can reach me easily enough by emailing. At Michael M, I, C, H, A, E, L, H, I at accessibe, A, C, C, E, S, S, I, B, e.com, or you can go to our podcast page, which is w, w, w.michaelhingson.com/podcast, and Michael Hinkson is m, I, C, H, A, E, L, H, I N, G, s, O, N, yes. And we're on LinkedIn and Facebook and a number of the social media pages too, but love to get emails, and whenever you are thinking about this, would certainly appreciate it if you give us a five star rating wherever you're listening to us and listening to the podcast, and as DW does the one man show and travels and speaks and so on. So do I, if you ever need to Speaker, would love to hear from you. Speaker@michaelhingson.com we appreciate it. But most of all, once again, I want to thank you, dw, for being here with us today. I think this has been a lot of fun, and we ought to do it again sometime, absolutely, DW Starr ** 1:10:56 you know. And just just a shout out to some of your other your other podcast videos. I had an opportunity to watch you do a fantastic job, Michael, and keep up the good work. Michael Hingson ** 1:11:10 Thank you. I appreciate it. Well, let's let's do it again. Let's do it again, right? Sounds great. DW Starr ** 1:11:16 Take care, buddy. **Michael Hingson ** 1:11:21 You have been listening to the Unstoppable Mindset podcast. Thanks for dropping by. I hope that you'll join us again next week, and in future weeks for upcoming episodes. To subscribe to our podcast and to learn about upcoming episodes, please visit www dot Michael hingson.com slash podcast. Michael Hingson is spelled m i c h a e l h i n g s o n. 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APPLY TO COACH WITH ME! https://elliott247.com/gameplan-yt — What people are lacking in the world today in confidence. Confidence in their ability to win, to do great, to love others and be loved... It's insane. Confidence is needed to sell, persuade, influence, lead...and just be happy and live a rich life! So I'm going to show you 7 things to follow so you can become confident. But not just any normal confidence. Confidence that is UNSHAKBLE, and that no one can take away from you. Grab a pen, grab a piece of paper, and take some notes. – If you don't know who I am, my name is Andy Elliott. I am the founder of The Elliott Group with my wife Jacqueline Elliott who is our CEO. Today, we have a 150 million dollar business, and we're on our way to a billion. If you don't believe you are qualified to have a big life...here is my story. At 18, I got into automotive sales and made a $1,700 commission on my first day. 19 years old, I made 225k in one year. 20 years old, I made my first 500k. The most I ever made before being promoted to a General Manager was 716k selling cars as a W-2 employee. As a GM, the most I made was 2.5 million in one year. In 2019 after 20+ years in the car business, my wife Jacqueline told me she learned to live without me and I decided I was built for more, was tired of settling and being "better than most" in all areas of life. God. Family. Physical. Mental. Business. I went PSYCHO in self development and totally re-created EVERYTHING in my life. Today, I live by example in everything that I do and my number one goal is to build the world's greatest leaders on planet Earth, and teach everyone how to sell, influence, and persuade, because NO money is ever made without sales. I see people everyday that have no idea what true potential is…well I do…And it's UNLIMITED! I am living proof of that! Imagine what your life would look like if you never had to worry about money again and your family was in a such a good place that if something ever happened to you they were taken care of because of the success you achieved and the person you became. If you want to make history and become a legend coaching with me, will make that happen guaranteed! I got your back for life, Andy Elliott
In this moment, elite sport psychologist, Professor Steve Peters discusses the way to overcome low self-esteem. Often low self-esteem manifests itself outwardly in abusive relationships, the wrong career, and impulsive behaviours. Dr Peters says these are ‘maladaptive coping strategies', where you are punishing yourself, thinking that you don't deserve to treat yourself well, as you believe that you fundamentally don't deserve happiness. Dr Peters says the solution can be as simple as getting a blank piece of paper and writing down who you want to be, and what behaviours you want to have. He says that this exercise works, as once you remove the interference of your mind, this person you hope to become is actually you, as you are defining yourself. Listen to the full episode here - Spotify- https://g2ul0.app.link/z1I1IZ8k9Kb Apple - https://g2ul0.app.link/8Mn7QU2k9Kb Watch the Episodes On Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/c/%20TheDiaryOfACEO/videos Professor Steve Peters: https://chimpmanagement.com/professor-steve-peters/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Want to feel more confident and learn how to deal with online negativity? This episode is your guide, featuring the incredible Shelley Horton, who shares her confidence-transforming strategy. Shelley talks about facing harsh online criticism about her appearance, opens up about her journey with body image and how dressing in a way that made her feel good helped her confidence. From overcoming setbacks, like being kept off-air because of her size, to embracing "dopamine dressing," Shelley's story is truly inspiring.Improving how you present yourself can really change things, especially in business. Shelley gives practical tips for building self-confidence based on her experiences and emphasises the importance of being kind to yourself along the way. Whether you're a business owner, professional, or in a trade, Shelley's Speak with Impact Workshop is perfect for sharpening your on-camera skills and communication.Get ready to laugh and be inspired to ignite your confidence. This is an episode you won't want to miss. Speaking of confidence... learn to recreate looks with items you already own and fall in love with your body with my Confidence Cure Course
C-Roc sits down with Emily Jaenson, a dynamic speaker, author, and former sports executive, to explore her incredible journey from extreme shyness to becoming a confident leader. Emily shares her personal growth story, revealing how she transformed from a small-town girl too shy to order pizza into a trailblazing GM of the Chicago Bulls, cold-calling 80 people a day. Emily dives deep into the pivotal moments that shaped her path, emphasizing the importance of building confidence through stepping out of your comfort zone. She discusses her successful podcast, Leadership is Female, where she amplifies the voices of women in sports, an industry with only 25% female representation at the management level. Emily explains how understanding your "why" can drive you to achieve your goals, even in the face of adversity. She offers practical tips for growing your confidence and setting impactful goals. Emily also touches on the societal pressures that label confident women as conceited and how to overcome these stereotypes to celebrate success openly. As she transitions from her GM role to focus on speaking and writing, Emily's passion for empowering others shines through. She discusses her latest book on confidence, her motivational speaking engagements, and her personal achievements, including qualifying for the Boston Marathon. Whether you're looking to boost your confidence, set new goals, or simply be inspired by an incredible journey, this episode is a must-listen. Website-www.emilyjaenson.com https://www.instagram.com/emilyjaenson
Survivor to Thriver Show: Transform Your Fear Into Freedom with Samia Bano
Has self-doubt been holding you back from the bold action you need & want to take in business (or your life)?Listen now to my conversation with Anna Bryne, #ConfidenceCoach, as we explore the crucial role of #selfconfidence, #selflove and #selfbelief in the #entrepreneurialjourney (and life as a whole). We share our personal stories and insights from working with entrepreneurs who faced the brink of despair, battling constant self-doubt and #fearoffailure. Even though they knew #allispossible they didn't believe it was possible for them. Yet they discovered how to reignite their passion and drive, and build #unstoppableconfidence, moving closer to their dreams and goals.✨Discover strategies to #overcomeselfdoubt and reinforce your self-belief.✨Learn practical tips to maintain momentum in your business, even when the going gets tough.✨And much more! Connect with Anna at: linktr.ee/annabyrneehttps://www.facebook.com/anna.lorenc.3#believeinyourself #ditchtheselfdoubt #successstartswithyou #liveyourbestlife #confidencebuilding #confidentwoman #confidentmindset #confidencechangeseverything #confidenceisbeauty _____________________________________ABOUT SAMIA:Samia Bano is the #HappinessExpert, author, speaker, podcaster & coach for coaches and healers. Samia is most known for her book, 'Make Change Fun and Easy' and her #podcast of the same name. With the help of her signature Follow Your Heart Process™, a unique combination of #PositivePsychology and the #spiritual wisdom of our most effective #ChangeMakers, Samia helps you overcome #LimitingBeliefs, your chains of fear, to develop a #PositiveMindset and create the impact and income you desire with fun and ease…Samia's advanced signature programs include the Happiness 101 Class and the Transformative Action Training.Samia is also a Certified #ReikiHealer and Crisis Counselor working to promote #MentalHealthAwareness. Samia models #HeartCenteredLeadership and business that is both #SociallyResponsible and #EnvironmentallyFriendly.Samia is a practicing #Muslim with an inter-spiritual approach. As someone who has a love and appreciation for diversity, she is a #BridgeBuilder between people of different faiths and cultures. Although Samia currently lives in California, USA, she has lived in 3 other countries and speaks Hindi, Urdu, and English fluently. Want to learn even more about Samia? Visit www.academyofthriving.com :)To Book your Free HAPPINESS 101 EXPLORATION CALL with Samia, click: https://my.timetrade.com/book/JX9XJ
Has self-doubt been holding you back from the bold action you need & want to take in business (or your life)?Listen now to my conversation with Anna Bryne, #ConfidenceCoach, as we explore the crucial role of #selfconfidence, #selflove and #selfbelief in the #entrepreneurialjourney (and life as a whole). We share our personal stories and insights from working with entrepreneurs who faced the brink of despair, battling constant self-doubt and #fearoffailure. Even though they knew #allispossible they didn't believe it was possible for them. Yet they discovered how to reignite their passion and drive, and build #unstoppableconfidence, moving closer to their dreams and goals.✨Discover strategies to #overcomeselfdoubt and reinforce your self-belief.✨Learn practical tips to maintain momentum in your business, even when the going gets tough.✨And much more! Connect with Anna at: linktr.ee/annabyrneehttps://www.facebook.com/anna.lorenc.3#believeinyourself #ditchtheselfdoubt #successstartswithyou #liveyourbestlife #confidencebuilding #confidentwoman #confidentmindset #confidencechangeseverything #confidenceisbeauty _____________________________________ABOUT SAMIA:Samia Bano is the #HappinessExpert, author, speaker, podcaster & coach for coaches and healers. Samia is most known for her book, 'Make Change Fun and Easy' and her #podcast of the same name. With the help of her signature Follow Your Heart Process™, a unique combination of #PositivePsychology and the #spiritual wisdom of our most effective #ChangeMakers, Samia helps you overcome #LimitingBeliefs, your chains of fear, to develop a #PositiveMindset and create the impact and income you desire with fun and ease…Samia's advanced signature programs include the Happiness 101 Class and the Transformative Action Training.Samia is also a Certified #ReikiHealer and Crisis Counselor working to promote #MentalHealthAwareness. Samia models #HeartCenteredLeadership and business that is both #SociallyResponsible and #EnvironmentallyFriendly.Samia is a practicing #Muslim with an inter-spiritual approach. As someone who has a love and appreciation for diversity, she is a #BridgeBuilder between people of different faiths and cultures. Although Samia currently lives in California, USA, she has lived in 3 other countries and speaks Hindi, Urdu, and English fluently. Want to learn even more about Samia? Visit www.academyofthriving.com :)To Book your Free HAPPINESS 101 EXPLORATION CALL with Samia, click: https://my.timetrade.com/book/JX9XJ
Hey hey hey!!That's right, we are back and we are kicking it off with a juicy episode on growing your self-confidence. Grab a notebook and a pen because I drop three steps you can begin taking to increase your self confidence and begin LIVING life!! Love you!!Song referenced in podcast is "Go Bravely" by LondrelleGo listen to it! It will light your heart up!!All things Erin: www.erinburr.comIG: @the.erinburrDon't forget to leave a review and or share the podcast with your friends and family!Season 2 Music by: DemiGodDre (That Kid Dre)SpotifyApple Music
What's Eating You Podcast with Psychologist Stephanie Georgiou
Do you ever feel like a fraud or doubt yourself even though you have qualifications? 70% of people experience impostor syndrome at some point in their lives.@0:00.00 Introduction@00:57.77 How It Started@03:33.39 What Is Imposter Syndrome? @04:07.49 Why Do Some People Get It? @14:45.27 How Do You Overcome It? @17:55.06 My Theory For People Who Have Imposter Syndrome are Perfectionist @18:03.18 Are You A Perfectionist?@26:59.07 What Is Confidence According To Google?@27:28.53 So How Do You Build Confidence?@29:59.21 Everybody Starts At Zero@34:11.96 Confidence@37:15.51 SummaryAsk Stephhttps://forms.gle/uMBhmtLW16ancWEc8 To access more of my courses use this linkhttps://stan.store/mindfoodstephWant to build a healthy relationship with food?Book a FREE 1:1 eating evaluation call HEREFREE Resources:**Download my [FREE binge eating tracker tool](https://stan.store/mindfoodsteph/p/get-my-free-binge-eating-tracker-tool-now.)**Experiencing burnout? Free guide herePsychological support:ADHD Assessment enquiryContact:Website: http://www.mindfoodpsychology.comSocial media:TikTokInstagramFacebookHelp lines DISCLAIMER: This is NOT therapy or a substitute for psychological and medical advice.Review the podcast on AppleBy sharing, following, or rating the podcast, you help me reach more people so they can understand the importance of mental health. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In an age where screens and social media are eroding our kids' self-confidence, it's time to rebel. We can't just stand by as their self-esteem and dreams get crushed under the weight of the digital world. The next generation of world-changers deserves better - and we've got to show them how to build the resilience and belief in themselves to make it happen. In this episode of Habits & Hustle, I'm joined by Sonny Caberwal, founder of the game-changing Legends Build Legends app. This visionary entrepreneur is on a mission to build unstoppable confidence in kids from the ground up. After a major health wake-up call made him reevaluate his priorities, Sonny created a brilliant solution to tackle the modern crisis in children's mental health and social skills. We also discuss the unintended impact of overparenting, the dire need for resilience training in Gen Alpha, and how a simple shift in perspective can turn perceived "weaknesses" into superpowers. You'll hear strategies for leveraging technology to personalize learning, foster community engagement, and instill a lifelong practice of positive affirmations. Sonny's taking the lid off alternative education models, predicting how corporate big dogs could revolutionize the industry. Sonny Caberwal is the CEO and founder of Legends Lab, a non-profit focused on supporting the awareness and accessibility of programming and the assessment of confidence in children. The Legends Lab developed an inner fitness system, inspired by confidence routines elite athletes use, that's easy and fun for parents to do with their kids. What we discuss… (00:00) Rethinking education for the next generation (19:08) Building confidence and self-efficacy in Gen Alpha (29:53) Personalized technology in education (41:29) The need to embrace differences for success (50:50) Building resilience and connection through parent-child interactions (01:00:43) The power of self-affirmations (01:23:51) Private education vs. traditional schools, alternative education, and online communication (01:55:45) Corporate involvement in education (02:00:23) Collective efforts towards positive change …and more! Thank you to our sponsors: Therasage: Head over to therasage.com and use code Be Bold for 15% off Find more from Jen: Website: https://www.jennifercohen.com/ Instagram: @therealjencohen Books: https://www.jennifercohen.com/books Speaking: https://www.jennifercohen.com/speaking-engagement Find more from Sonny: Website: https://www.buildlegends.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/build.legends/ Try for Free: https://confidence.buildlegends.com/auth/sign-up
Ready to silence your inner critic and step into your power? Join us on Real Estate Real World with guest Kelly Resendez for "Silencing the Inner Critic: Your Roadmap to Unstoppable Confidence." Kelly's insights are like a warm hug and a kick of motivation all in one!
This empowering episode dives deep into conquering fears and embracing resilience to unlock your true potential.Join us as we unravel the secrets to facing challenges head-on with courage and determination.Are you ready to break free from fear and step into a life filled with resilience? Listen now!
“You grow when you're uncomfortable, you grow when you're out of your comfort zone.”In today's episode, Alex (@alexmortonmindset) emphasizes the vital role of confidence in achieving personal and professional success. Morton outlines eight effective strategies for confidence-building, such as goal setting, self-compassion, embracing failure, competence development, positive affirmations, visualization, improved body language, and taking action. He encourages listeners to foster a strong sense of self-confidence, independent of external validation, to attain significant milestones in life.Welcome to "The Alex Morton Show," where your host, Alex Morton, entrepreneur, best-selling author, and speaker, takes you on a transformative journey. With a track record of massive success from a young age, including earning over 30 million at 30, Alex delves deep into the mindset and strategies that propelled him to triumph. This podcast is not just about financial success; it's about unlocking your potential in all aspects of life. Join us in this masterclass in personal growth and achievement, and all while helping you achieve greatness.Timestamps:(1:31) - The Power of Self-Confidence: Why It's Essential(5:47) - Setting Goals: The Foundation of Confidence(9:02) - Embrace Self-Compassion: Be Your Biggest Cheerleader(11:11) - Learning from Failure: A Key to Confidence(13:46) - Developing Competence: Master Your Craft(16:21) - Positive Affirmations & Visualization: See Your Success(20:49) - Improving Body Language & Appearance: Project Confidence(23:19) - Surround Yourself with Positivity: Environment Matters(26:13) - Taking Action: The Ultimate Confidence BuilderCheck out Alex Morton on:➤ Instagram | YouTube | Telegram | Facebook | Twitter
Today's motivation is all about pushing through adversity. Audio Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GuXPQN03J10 Quote of the Day: “Adversity and resilience make us strong and successful.” - Tony Robbins If you enjoyed today's episode: Leave a review on Apple Podcasts Support via Patreon Check Out My Business Adventures Podcast Join the Upcoming Newsletter --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motiv8/support
In this episode, I share with you how to build an unstoppable confidence using these simple tricks! Go to https://www.erafael.com/ if you want my help, coaching or mentorship :) #SelfImprovement #PersonalDevelopment #Motivation #SelfHelp Subscribe to my YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/rafaeleliassen/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rafaeleliassen/
Angela, a successful woman in her 50s who already struggled with her weight, hit menopause and the scale went "up, up, up without stopping." She had tried many programs to drop the weight, but the pounds always came back. So she was "over" investing because nothing worked for long. Until... she found me online. :) In this episode, Angela shares how she stopped her weight loss struggles and dropped pounds in a sustainable way. But more... on this journey, she let go of feeling unworthy and came to truly love herself for the first time in her life. Listen in as Angela vulnerably shares the pivotal moment when that shift took place. And she explains how my coaching program - that is so very different from others - led her to complete clarity and a transformational shift in her life. WAYS WE CAN CONNECT! Join my FREE community for busy, professional women over 40 where I give research-backed tips, strategies, and free resources to lose weight and manage menopause: https://bit.ly/JoinFreeTotalWellnessGroup Get on my email list: https://bit.ly/GetLoriDsEmails Let's chat about my 12 week Metabolic Resuscitation System: https://bit.ly/TalkWithLoriD Follow me on social media... Lori Doddy Lifestyle: https://bit.ly/LoriDoddyLifestyle Facebook: facebook.com/lori.doddy Website: loridoddy.com YouTube : http://www.youtube.com/@loridoddylifestyle
To learn more about my mindset coaching and speaking services, visit www.theconfidentdancer.com To stay up to date on the latest announcements and blog posts at The Confident Dancer, sign up to be a part of my email newsletter community here: http://eepurl.com/gDmjtz To follow along for daily tips and behind-the-scenes looks at what I'm up to, follow me on Instagram at @kirsten_theconfidentdancer TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 - Intro 1:53 - 1. Self-confidence 2:16 - 2. Having things that ground you in your life outside of dance 2:46 - 3. The ability to manage your expectations 5:46 - 4. Shifting from dancing how you think other people want to how you want 9:38 - 5. Not letting the "lows" define you 11:35 - 6. Lean into what makes you different 13:01 - 7. Allowing injuries to shift your approach to dancing 13:45 - 8. Don't only dance for maladaptive reasons ________________________________________________________________________ WORK WITH ME 1:1! THE CONFIDENT DANCER COACHING PROGRAM: A 1:1 Coaching Program to help you do the inner work to step into a new level of confidence, well-being, and preparedness to accomplish your career goals. Perfect for pre-professional to early professional dancers wanting to master the mental side of optimum performance, so you can overcome the mental blocks that have been holding you back and be the confident dancer you've always wanted to be! Learn more and apply here: https://kirstenkemp.com/confident-dancer-coaching-program#confident-dancer ________________________________________________________________________ SPEAKING & WORKSHOPS: I offer mindset seminars to equip dancers with the inspiration and practical tools to thrive in their well-being and ability to perform their personal best. These 60-90 minute seminars can be a valuable addition to the holistic support and education of your dancers at your next intensive, year-round program, or professional development opportunity for your company dancers. Learn more and inquire here: https://kirstenkemp.com/speaking-and-workshops#speaking-and-workshops ________________________________________________________________________ THE EMPOWERED DANCER MASTERCLASS: The Empowered Dancer Masterclass is a bundle of over 10 hours of video trainings and written exercises designed to give you the practical steps and encouragement to truly approach your ballet training or career with confidence, well-being, and the understanding of how to play the internal game of ballet that it takes in order to thrive and succeed. These in-depth trainings cover topics such as "How to Identify Your Unique Value as a Dancer to Become an Irreplaceable Artist" to "The Keys to Developing Authentic and Unstoppable Confidence", "How to Dance Better with MORE Fun and LESS Effort", and more! To see what each lesson includes and to purchase access to the Empowered Dancer Masterclass for just $77, click here! https://theempowereddancer.thinkific.com/courses/masterclass ________________________________________________________________________ DOWNLOAD MY FREE PDF GUIDE on "How To Find Your Unique Strengths as a Dancer": https://mailchi.mp/7e51450a0a3e/findyourstrengths DOWNLOAD MY FREE PDF GUIDE on "How to Break Through the Feeling of Not Being Good Enough": https://tinyurl.com/redefining-good-enough
Have you ever wondered why you stop performing as well when people start watching you dance? There are reasons for this that may surprise you, so in this video, I wanted to not only share the psychological reasons why you might be holding back or cracking under pressure but also WHAT you can start to do to perform your best in front of an audience. Enjoy! - Kirsten LINKS: Get access to The Confidence Code, my new mini-course designed to teach you the practical tools to build the kind of confidence that feels great and unlocks your ability to perform to your fullest potential ($47 for a limited time): https://theconfidentdancer.mvsite.app To stay up to date on the latest announcements and blog posts at The Confident Dancer, sign up to be a part of my email newsletter community here: http://eepurl.com/gDmjtz To learn more about my mindset coaching and speaking services, visit kirstenkemp.com To follow along for daily tips and behind-the-scenes looks at what I'm up to, follow me on Instagram at @kirsten_theconfidentdancer TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 - Intro 0:48 - 1. You're distracted by seeing yourself through someone else's point of view instead of your own 3:19 - 2. You're in your head instead of in your body 4:43 - 3. You're making assumptions about what the people watching you are thinking 7:45 - 4. You think your mistakes are more visible than they actually are 9:59 - 5. The "have to" mentality 11:20 - 6. You're attached to a specific outcome ________________________________________________________________________ WORK WITH ME 1:1! THE CONFIDENT DANCER COACHING PROGRAM: A 1:1 Coaching Program to help you do the inner work to step into a new level of confidence, well-being, and preparedness to accomplish your career goals. Perfect for pre-professional to early professional dancers wanting to master the mental side of optimum performance, so you can overcome the mental blocks that have been holding you back and be the confident dancer you've always wanted to be! Learn more and apply here: https://kirstenkemp.com/confident-dancer-coaching-program#confident-dancer ________________________________________________________________________ SPEAKING & WORKSHOPS: I offer mindset seminars to equip dancers with the inspiration and practical tools to thrive in their well-being and ability to perform their personal best. These 60-90 minute seminars can be a valuable addition to the holistic support and education of your dancers at your next intensive, year-round program, or professional development opportunity for your company dancers. Learn more and inquire here: https://kirstenkemp.com/speaking-and-workshops#speaking-and-workshops ________________________________________________________________________ THE EMPOWERED DANCER MASTERCLASS: The Empowered Dancer Masterclass is a bundle of over 10 hours of video trainings and written exercises designed to give you the practical steps and encouragement to truly approach your ballet training or career with confidence, well-being, and the understanding of how to play the internal game of ballet that it takes in order to thrive and succeed. These in-depth trainings cover topics such as "How to Identify Your Unique Value as a Dancer to Become an Irreplaceable Artist" to "The Keys to Developing Authentic and Unstoppable Confidence", "How to Dance Better with MORE Fun and LESS Effort", and more! To see what each lesson includes and to purchase access to the Empowered Dancer Masterclass for just $77, click here! https://theempowereddancer.thinkific.com/courses/masterclass ________________________________________________________________________ DOWNLOAD MY FREE PDF GUIDE on "How To Find Your Unique Strengths as a Dancer": https://mailchi.mp/7e51450a0a3e/findyourstrengths DOWNLOAD MY FREE PDF GUIDE on "How to Break Through the Feeling of Not Being Good Enough": https://tinyurl.com/redefining-good-enough
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JJ Velasquez, is a dynamic entrepreneur, fitness/lifestyle coach, and business coach driven by a profound desire to empower other men to reach their highest potential in all areas of life. JJ transformed his own life losing 50+ lbs, and went from living below paycheck to paycheck to now running a successful coaching business helping other men do the same. He's helped transform over 570+ men including celebrities like Tarek El Moussa, been featured on (HGTV,) and crafts unparalleled blueprints that encompass not only nutrition and training but also the habits, disciplines, and mindset, it takes to succeed. JJ is also the host of “The JJ Velasquez Show” a No BS, Raw, Real, and Authentic approach to getting your health and fitness in order, growing your business, developing a winner mindset, and the Personal Development habits & disciplines necessary to help you get 1% BETTER Every Day and succeed In all 3 areas of your life- Family, Fitness & Finances. Connect with JJ on Social Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jjthefitnesscoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/itsjjvelasquez The JJ Velasquez Show on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-jj-velasquez-show/id1697399207 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/jjvelasquez44
Is your confidence in the dumpster. You're not the only one. I've been there. Jonathan O'Halloran has been there. But to an extreme many have never experienced. If your sensitive to the topic of suicide, I give you a fair warning. Jonathan had reached the point of thinking about it... so something had to change immediately! Jonathan thankfully did reach out for help. He was surprised to find vulnerability aided him in fighting back from the edge. Then he found mentors and methods to learn from. I can't do his dramatic story justice here, so listen as he unabashedly reveals every step. When he emerged from the toxic self-talk and mental challenges, there stood a confident authentic Jonathan. He still has bad days like all of us. He just handles it differently. Thats why I labeled this one 'Unstoppable Confidence.' Ups and Downs will come, but now Jonathan has the tools and self-control to mindfully bring himself into the state he desires. THAT is POWERFULL! Today he shares his story, and his wisdom in this wide-ranging discussion. We cover some of these topics: Confidence Fear Isolation Honesty Purpose Authenticity Mental & Physical Fitness Freedom You can contact Jonathan for coaching, questions, & free material at the following: (also known as Johnny Berba) www.johnnyberba.com Youtube Youtube Member's Area with Exclusive Content Like me on Facebook Help -keeping it REAL- by being a supporter of the podcast! Support is as simple as giving whatever you feel the show is worth to you. I will always be dedicated to bringing you value. Please consider returning some value in return! - SUPPORT MONTHLY FOR $1 up to $10! Cancel anytime: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-morris9/support - One-time TIP for support! THANK YOU! - Venmo @ Jay-Scott-Mo - PayPal @ jmgymjunkie Send me an email- contactkeepingitreal@gmail.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jay-morris9/support
If you want to get more listings, you first need to install unstoppable confidence in your mind and your actions. You can't instill it over time; you need to install it today. There is a cycle that creates fearless action EVERY TIME and I've been using it for the past two decades. For all the real estate agents out there who want to generate more listings, make more money, and feel better about themselves, THIS is the way to do it. In this clip from my recent Success Summit, I share with you the steps to install unstoppable confidence and the things you need to do to leverage it into taking more real estate listings. Unstoppable confidence and more transactions start here, so watch or listen now.
This episode is about 5 tips on how to build unstoppable confidence.
What the Natural has that mere mortals don't is this: UNSTOPPABLE CONFIDENCE. They had the ALPHA ATTITUDE at a young enough age that it became ingrained to such an extent they rarely yield to the temptation to doubt their appeal to women. But the Externally Validated Natural who has spent a lifetime leaning on his looks, social connections, or fame to get laid has a dilemma ... the most pathetic thing in the world is a natural who has lost his mojo. The very blessing that makes The Natural an early adopter ladykiller is the curse that hobbles him later in life when challenges arise that introduce cracks to his impenetrable edifice of entitlement.
Do you have an inner critic that causes you to doubt yourself or think you are incapable of doing hard things? So many of us do, but the key is to not let that critic sit in the driver's seat of your life. Learn how to get your inner advocate in control and achieve unstoppable confidence in this must-listen episode with Bedros Keuilian. In this episode of The Determined Society, Bedros Keuilian shares his inspiring story of escaping communism, pursuing the American dream, and what it means to have an “immigrant edge.” He talks about the impact of having both a poor dad and a rich dad, and how his dad's work ethic and gratitude influenced him. Bedros Keuilian is an American Entrepreneur and a believer in the American Dream. He is a serial entrepreneur and investor in over a dozen industry-leading brands and businesses. He's the founder of Fit Body Boot Camp, three times listed in Inc Magazine as well as Entrepreneur Magazine's 100 fastest-growing franchise brands in the world. Bedros is the author of the Wall Street Journal's Best Selling book Man Up – How To Cut The BS and Dominate In Business and In Life. Shawn and Bedros have an engaging conversation about the decline of masculinity, the rise of feminism, and the consequences that has had on modern-day men. Bedros is passionate about helping men embrace their masculinity and understand that there is nothing “toxic” about it. Bedros explains the importance of doing hard things and finding purpose in life to avoid anxiety, depression, and unfulfillment. Tune in for more! Key highlights: The immigrant edge Rich dad vs. poor dad: what Bedros learned from each What Bedros would say to people that want a coach How adversity shapes strong men Giving men permission to be masculine Bedros' experience of a panic attack and what he learned about how to avoid anxiety and depression The importance of finding purpose and doing the hard stuff Inner critic vs. inner advocate Why we shouldn't have unconditional love for ourselves Why we need to give the best version of ourselves to those closest to us Connect with Bedros Keuilian: Instagram: @bedroskeuilian Website: bedroskeuilian.com Connect with Shawn French: Instagram: @theshawnfrench Website: theshawnfrench.com Facebook group: The Determined Society Twitter: @theshawnmfrench YouTube: The Shawn French
In this power-packed episode of UNSTOPPABLE, we're joined by the incredible Henry Ammar, a successful entrepreneur, motivational speaker, and music industry veteran. Henry delves deep into the journey of self-love, overcoming fear, and building unstoppable confidence. Henry provides a unique take on emotional intelligence, underlining how every emotion can lead to greater freedom and healing if properly understood and managed. Don't miss out on his invaluable advice about building a strong support system and establishing morning and evening routines as essential steps toward emotional mastery and confidence. In this episode, we talk about:
Is BOLDNESS your superpower?Welcome to the Revolutionary Freedom Podcast! In this episode, we sit down with Fred Joyel, Co-Founder of 1800 Dentist and recognized published author.Growing up shy, Fred missed out on countless opportunities due to his lack of confidence. However, through his journey, he discovered boldness is a superpower that ANYONE can learn.By emulating the behaviors of bold individuals and figuring out what they did, Fred was able to transform his life and achieve incredible success.Whether you're introverted, shy, or already consider yourself bold, Fred's tools and techniques will help you take your confidence and success to new levels.Play now to break through your own self-imposed limitations and start living a BOLD life.Be true,Adam Kasix-----------------------FOR CLICKABLE TOPIC TIMESTAMPS use the "Chapters" tab just above, next to "Description".-----------------------Links to resources mentioned:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/realfredjoyalWebsite: https://fredjoyal.com/Superbold: The Book https://fredjoyal.com/book/-----------------------Get in Touch with Adam:A gift for you: 7pillars.revolutionaryfreedom.com/Podcast: Revolutionary FreedomSupport the showSupport the showEnd frustration -- Powerful [Free] Breakthrough ToolsDownload the 7 Pillars of Revolutionary Freedom Overviewhttps://7pillars.revolutionaryfreedom.com
Welcome to 5 On The Fly, a series of bite-sized episodes on the Fly Mom, Fly! podcast. In this empowering episode, titled "Unlock Unstoppable Confidence," we dive into quick and practical strategies to boost your self-assurance, empowering you to step into your full potential with unwavering confidence. Tune in for powerful tips, life hacks, and inspiring insights that will leave you feeling empowered and ready to conquer any challenge that comes your way, all in just a few short minutes. Get ready to unleash your inner confidence and soar to new heights in your personal and professional life!Need more? Visit The Inspired Empty Nest#EmptyNestEmpowerment#MidLifeMomentum#NewChapterBeginnings#ReinventingMyself#SecondActSuccess#SelfDiscoveryJourney#FindingMyPassion#EmbracingChange#EmpoweredMidLife#BlossomingAfter40#onthefly#emptynest#emptynestmoms#emptynestsyndromeSupport the showThe Post Nest Plan is out now! Learn more here!I'm only an email away! If you'd like to get in touch, please email bobbi@inspiredemptynest.comBobbi xMore Resources:Book: www.thepostnestplan.comPodcast: www.flymomfly.comChannel: www.emptynestchannel.comWebsite: www.inspiredemptynest.comGroup: www.facebook.com/groups/inspiredemptynestInsta: www.instagram.com/theinspiredemptynestTiktok: www.tiktok.com/@theinspiredemptynest
Learn the Surprising Secret to Success from a Guest Who Reveals Why Being Your Own Best Friend is Key. When discussing player determination in the realm of golf, the name Christian Heavens is most likely to be included. Christian keeps his nose to the grindstone and his eye on the ball in all aspects of his life as a pro golfer and CEO of Tour Line Golf. His tenure in the sport reflects a career-low round of 61, earned in a Florida pro golf tour event, and he's accomplished 25 tournament victories, including the St. Louis Publix Open this past May.Following a standout collegiate career, Christian made his mark professionally as a member of the PGA Tour Canada in 2012. The stealth player recorded his first two victories on the Florida Professional Golf Tour that same year and went on to compete on the Golf Channel's Big Break, ABC's Season 2 of Holey Moley, the Latin America Tour, and on Florida professional tours.An alumnus of the First Tee of Greater St. Lous, Christian represented the organization at the 2006 First Tee Open at Pebble Beach and in 2010 competed in the U.S. Amateur at Chambers Bay. His outstanding academic and golfing skills earned him a First Tee Scholars scholarship to Georgetown College in Kentucky, where he captured the All-American Inaugural Gimmie Golf Professional Invitational in 2018.A two-time, first-team All-Conference member of the Mid-South Conference, as a junior Christian won first place in the final individual standings at the MSC Championships. For his efforts, he was named MSC Golfer of the Year and went on to earn third-team NAIA All-America honors. In each of his final three seasons at Georgetown, he finished in the top 12 of the MSC Championships.MAIN TAKEAWAYS:Christian Heavens isn't your “traditional” golfer. He got into golf at a time when golf for a Black man was not the norm. His grandfather, Levester Heavens, a firefighter, taught him to play golf when he was a little kid. Christian shared his grandfather's love for the game.Not compromising who you are despite the norm is important in maintaining your identity. Christian still loves hip-hop, and R&B and brings pieces of himself to the golf course. You can be you and still enjoy golf and feel welcome at a golf course or country club, he said. Alex tells a story about a joke he made during an interview, that the interviewer said they didn't understand so they didn't select him out of the top three candidates. Alex said he was just being himself and that should never change.Christian said the Black golf community is small and they talk. Code-switching is one obstacle they feel at a professional level. It can be exhausting as there's sometimes pressure to adapt or code-switch in the golf world. Being himself is one of the things that drives them to make golf more accessible. Alex said there's a difference between code-switching and being various versions of yourself. Christian said he has an at-home, chill, country club side that makes him feel comfortable. “You have to learn to go where you are celebrated not tolerated. Just being you, there will be people who rock with you and those who aren't going to rock with you. Even if you put on a persona, it will still be people that like you and those that don't. Be you and find and attract the people who genuinely like you. You can collaborate with your energies.”- Christian HeavensConfidence and building confidence, or faking it until you make it is key. Act as if you belong there and know where you're going. It will get you through many doors. Success breeds confidence.In golf, there are no coaches. On the golf course, the player can be their own worse enemy criticizing their techniques. But we have to speak to ourselves like we would someone else. You have to catch yourself and be aware of it to combat that. Be your own best...
After a successful five year run as a host on VH1 and a successful career as a Broadway actress, Jen Gottlieb co-founded Super Connector Media, an award-winning online education, events and training company that teaches business owners how to build profitable brands.Jen's passion is helping entrepreneurs gain the confidence and skills needed to propel them to the top of their industry. Whether that's getting in the mainstream media, or on the stage of a major event, Jen's teachings and trainings give them the authority needed to skyrocket their careers.In the last two years alone, Jen has helped over 20,000 business owners, experts, doctors, and coaches learn how to grow their businesses and become “The Recognized Expert” in their industry through her sold-out events, online courses and mentorship programs.Jen was recently named one of the “Top 50 Speakers in The World” by Real Leaders Magazine and has spoken alongside celebrities and top thought-leaders such as Gary Vaynerchuck, Snoop Dogg, Emmit Smith, Martha Stewart, Ed Mylett, Daymond John, Jamie Kern Lima, Alex Rodriguez, Marie Forleo and many more.Join The Sisterhoodhttps://www.girlsbuildingempires.com/sisterhoodTRY KAJABI FREE FOR 30 DAYShttps://www.carlymeyers.com/kajabiJoin 'The Ambitious Female Entrepreneur Club' FB Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/powerfulwomeninbusiness/•Follow me on Instagram: @girlsbuildingempires @carlymeyerslifeAnd, if you enjoyed this episode, please leave me a rating and a review. Thank you so much! Love alwaysCarly xx
In this episode, you are getting a brand new definition of confidence.This definition is based on research studies on how confidence is built.Confidence is not what you think it is.It is not a personality trait you're born with, and it's not reserved only for extroverts.Confidence is a skill that anyone can master.And today is the perfect day for you to start.You and I are breaking down the science together, and you're invited to join in as I coach several listeners who are struggling with self-doubt.By the time this episode is done, you will not only have a brand new definition of confidence, but you will also know how to put that definition to use to start building unstoppable confidence in your own life.Confidence is your birthright. You can't lose it; you just lost your connection to it.Let's get that back.If you are willing to get up every day and put one foot in front of the other, you, my friend, will not only be practicing and building confidence, but over time you'll start feeling more confident too.Xo Mel Check out research and other resources at melrobbins.com/podcast.In this episode, you'll learn: 2:00: The question Heather asked about confidence that so many of you have.3:50: Honestly, here's what happens when you have more confidence.6:00: This is a “doing podcast," so here's your first assignment.8:30: This is what you and I were getting wrong about confidence. Until now.8:45: Your new definition of confidence that embodies the research.13:45: Here is one of the simplest and yet profound reasons for my success.14:40: Did you happen to catch my 21-minute panic attack on TEDx?16:50: Neuroscience says it gets easier to feel confident when you do this.21:40: Feeling like an imposter? Great! Here's why.23:30: Alex's question led us to talk about Myth #1 about confidence.24:20: Here's a surprising fact about confidence.25:55: Myth #2 about confidence needs to be laid to rest.27:00: Telling yourself that you lost your confidence? Then listen to Myth #3.28:10: I've loved this TED Talk for years. 29:00: Use tool #1 to interrupt your self-doubt and do what you're afraid of..31:25: Confidence does not come before action; THIS does.31:00: There are two types of people when it comes to action. Which are you?33:30: Rule #2 is fun; research says it's the fastest way to create new habits.35:45: Rule #3 is absolutely essential if you want to build confidence.38:00: Rule #4 is what I tell myself every time I'm about to do something scary.40:50: I don't want to come to the end of my life feeling this.42:45: If you're willing to feel this way, you're guaranteed to keep growing.44:15: Do you like this person you're spending your life with?46:00: Be careful who you give your number one commodity away to.49:30: Ultimately, here's why you're not feeling confident. Now change that.51:00: This is the hard truth about life that you need to hear. Want me to answer your question on the podcast? Submit it here. Sign up for my free 5-day Wake Up Challenge to wake up your confidence. Disclaimer
Are you looking for something new and exciting?Then join us today on 7 Minutes For Yourself as we explore how to transcend your comfort zone and venture into unfamiliar, yet thrilling territories!
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In this gentle practice, Youheum, an emotional healing coach, guides you through a soothing prayer for unstoppable confidence and perseverence. Listen and relax with eyes closed in a meditative posture during prayer to follow along. YouTube Instagram Group Classes & 1:1 Coaching Donate --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/youheum/support
Coach Raja is a Triple threat - Science for the MIND, Karate for the Body, and Music for the Soul. Over the past 3 and half years he has provided FB live coaching on Mindset and personal development and on his #FreedomCoachingLIve and helped thousands. The beta launch of “Mind-SHIFT Mastery” yielded a 100% success rate in guiding clients to face their fears. After 37 years of Tang Soo Do training he discovered a pattern in students going from white belt "MindLOCK" to black belt "MindSHIFT" which he translates into business, life, and relationships. Now he is a Professional speaker who Keynoted TEDxJNJ, recently won the Toastmasters International Speech Competition (Area) twice, won 3rd place at Ultimate Speaker Competition Philadelphia 2022, is in multiple Black Belt Hall of Fame, starred in the martial arts documentary movie "The Martialist", and about to release his new book “UN-Box ME Today.” All of this despite a lifelong stutter which he saved for last to show you that any obstacle can be overcome with the right MIND-SHIFT. Are you ready for YOUR Mind-SHIFT? Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RajaVaidyaSpeaker/ Let's Connect: https://www.instagram.com/jr.spear/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jr.spear.3 CREED CONSULTING : https://www.facebook.com/groups/1750459338428570 Please subscribe, like, and share. I appreciate the support and look forward to serving you further in the future. Semper Fi
Sales are the oxygen of your business, Babe! Today's episode of the Sales & Social Podcast is ENERGY-PACKED I have my former client, friend and fellow entrepreneur, Lauren Glick on the podcast today! We're diving all into CONFIDENCE and the importance of being confident & how it directly affects your sales. - Find your passion(s) - Get out of your comfort zone Join the conversation & slide on into my DMs and let me know what your biggest takeaway was @thejillianmurphy You can follow Lauren over on the 'gram here: @thelaurenglick Make sure you tune into Lauren's podcast, Unstoppable Confidence
In this episode, we talk with Chief Confidence Igniter Meshell Baker about igniting unstoppable confidence and enabling leaders to develop high-performance resilience. Meshell is an Exhilarating Keynote Speaker and a Confident Living Catalyst who offers a unique ability to guide and encourage her audiences and clients to be their best and most authentic selves. Meshell understands that many female founders, women business owners, and women sales leaders struggle with doubt and their inner critics. “The world doesn't tell you who you are. Decide and declare who you are and then go out and demonstrate it.” Get ready for an advice-filled podcast about understanding who you are and how to project that vision to yourself and the outside world. Join Meshell on Saturday, January 14, 2023, for her 9th annual Free Virtual Vision Board Party to jump-start your vision for 2023. Click here to sign up! What to Listen ForMeshell's career decisions - 2:50 Skills needed for career pivot - 5:45 Chief Confidence Ignitor - 8:08 Become your vision - 11:20 Eliminate the word “Should” from your vocabulary – 12:15 Trends in Leadership - 14:30 The power of words - 16:30 The voices you hear - 18:20 Celebrating yourself - 21:30 Igniting Your Confidence - 24:50 Everything is working in your favor - 31:25 Resources mentioned in the podcastMeshell Baker – Linkedin Meshell Baker - Website 9th annual Free Virtual Vision Board Party to jump-start your vision for 2023. Click here to sign up. Check-in with Sweet but FearlessWebsite - sweetbutfearless.com Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/groups/successfulwomensnetwork LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/company/successfulwomensnetwork
How to Overcome Fear and Build Unstoppable Confidence. Is your life filled with fear and worry? Do you feel like a victim of your circumstances? Do you want to know how to build unstoppable confidence and overcome fear and all the negative limiting thoughts that try to hold you back from living a healthy, happy life? On this podcast episode, we have a special guest Deanna Radulescu who will share how she has gone from human trafficking survivor to a widow, and C-Level executive, who now resides in Chicago running an amazing business as Ms. Chicago America Nation 2021. And as always, there will be lots of laughter! Looking to Share Your Story? Be a Guest on the Show --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/chasinghappiness/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/chasinghappiness/support
It pains me to hear when someone wants to be somebody else. Doesn't matter if they are farther along or famous or rich or more popular or a successful entrepreneur...I don't want to be them...I want to be me. I want to be the best version of myself, full stop. I want all of my challenges and flaws and super powers and gifts in this world, not anybody else's. Hope this video lands with you today. You are the best at being you. Embrace that and build unstoppable confidence in yourself.Enjoy The Podcast!-LucasWORK WITH US!
I've carefully designed these 7 steps to address the stages you'll go through—in the exact order they're likely to arrive. And while we all know this process can take an enormous amount of time to put into action, I hope these steps will serve as a compass that will keep you pointed toward your strength (in spite of any distractions the narcissist may try to throw your way). I also hope this video provides you with strength, acceptance, peace, and progress as you finally move on with your life and remember what it feels like to be free from the coercive control of the narcissist in your life. P.S. Even if you're not in this situation, learning these principles in advance may save you a lot of time and grief down the road. And if you are going through this right now? Please know you're not alone. I'm right here with you. --- Create Your Next Chapter with Unstoppable Confidence. Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and join our transformational Virtual Retreat program in November! Get your spot TODAY!