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Parijat Deshpande is the founder of Ruvelle and a somatic trauma expert who is revolutionizing high-risk pregnancy care through trauma-informed, neurobiological approaches.Through her consulting work with medical clinics and direct support of clients, Parijat helps prevent birth trauma, reduce stress-induced complications, and improve pregnancy outcomes. Her bestselling book "Pregnancy Brain" and popular podcast "Delivering Miracles®" provide resources for those navigating the challenges of high-risk pregnancies.Parijat's journey from experiencing her own high-risk pregnancy and preterm delivery to becoming a thought leader in trauma-informed care demonstrates the power of transforming personal challenges into systemic change. Having identified crucial gaps in both medical and mental health support systems, she's built a company that bridges these divides. Her evolution from primarily serving individual clients to training medical providers and consulting with media companies on accurate representation of birth trauma shows how adaptation and innovation can expand impact in changing times.Here's where to find more:http://www.ruvelle.comhttps://www.facebook.com/theruvellehttps://www.instagram.com/theruvellehttps://www.instagram.com/healthy.highriskpregnancyhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/parijatdeshpande___________________________________________________________Welcome to The Unforget Yourself Show where we use the power of woo and the proof of science to help you identify your blind spots, and get over your own bullshit so that you can do the fucking thing you ACTUALLY want to do!We're Mark and Katie, the founders of Unforget Yourself and the creators of the Unforget Yourself System and on this podcast, we're here to share REAL conversations about what goes on inside the heart and minds of those brave and crazy enough to start their own business. From the accidental entrepreneur to the laser-focused CEO, we find out how they got to where they are today, not by hearing the go-to story of their success, but talking about how we all have our own BS to deal with and it's through facing ourselves that we find a way to do the fucking thing.Along the way, we hope to show you that YOU are the most important asset in your business (and your life - duh!). Being a business owner is tough! With vulnerability and humor, we get to the real story behind their success and show you that you're not alone._____________________Find all our links to all the things like the socials, how to work with us and how to apply to be on the podcast here: https://linktr.ee/unforgetyourself

Are you terrified of trying again after pregnancy loss? Are you scared that this cycle won't work, the next cycle won't work, and that you'll never be a parent? Are you pregnant after loss or after fertility treatments and feel like this is too good to be true – you're just waiting for the other shoe to drop?This journey is full of fear, worry and anxiety. And after a while, we feel like that's just how it is. But today's guest will show you that this isn't something you need to live with. That there are ways to work through the trauma of what you've experienced, and make your life feel lighter & easier in the process.I'm so excited to have Parijat Deshpande on the show. Parijat is the founder of Ruvelle, the only truly trauma-informed company specifically dedicated to improving high-risk pregnancy outcomes, reducing preterm birth, and supporting parents to pass on generational health. She is also the author of the bestselling book, Pregnancy Brain.By the time you finish listening, you'll find out: How the trauma of infertility affects your overall health (and your ability to conceive)What somatic work is and how these practices can help you move through these difficult experiencesPractical & simple exercises you can start doing today to make your TTC journey feel more manageableYou can connect with Parijat via her website, her IG or her podcast - Delivering Miracles.When you finish listening, I'd love to hear your biggest takeaway from today's episode. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, share it to your Instagram stories and tag me, @jen.elementpilatesyoga Free Fertility Yoga Guide: If you're new to Fertility Yoga, Breathwork + Meditation, grab a copy of my Free Fertility Yoga Guide to start synchronizing your hormones, regulating your nervous system & easing the stress of TTC.Begin your Journey to Fertility with the Element Fertility Yoga Course: My comprehensive, complete Fertility Yoga, Breathwork + Meditation Course. This is the ultimate mind-body fertility reset. Use these practices to support your fertility, master your menstrual cycle, optimize your hormones for conception & ease the stress of TTC.

Send us a textIn this conversation, Leah and Parijat Deshpande explore the profound impact of high-risk pregnancies and NICU experiences on parents. Parijat shares her personal journey through a traumatic pregnancy and the lessons learned about intentional living, relationships, and the importance of grieving. They discuss the role of healthcare professionals in supporting NICU families and the need for radical acceptance and mindful presence during such challenging times. The conversation emphasizes the normalization of trauma and the ongoing nature of grief as parents navigate their new realities. In this conversation, Parijat shares her experiences and insights on navigating the emotional landscape of being a parent in the NICU. She emphasizes the importance of understanding and accepting feelings of anxiety and fear as normal reactions to abnormal situations. The discussion highlights the need for empowerment through knowledge, the significance of addressing basic needs during trauma recovery, and the healing potential of trauma informed somatic therapy. Ultimately, the conversation underscores the importance of finding hope amidst uncertainty and the shared journey of NICU families.As always, feel free to send us questions, comments, or suggestions to our email: nicupodcast@gmail.com. You can also contact the show through Instagram or Twitter, @nicupodcast. Or contact Ben and Daphna directly via their Twitter profiles: @drnicu and @doctordaphnamd. The papers discussed in today's episode are listed and timestamped on the webpage linked below. Enjoy!

CW: This episode discusses pregnancy and birth trauma.Join us as we chat with the inspiring Parijat Deshpande, a pioneer in the field of medical trauma healing and founder of Ruvelle, a company that focuses exclusively on helping individuals heal from traumatic pregnancies and revolutionize their health moving forward. Parijat shares her journey from personal experience to becoming a leader in supporting women in having healthier pregnancies.Key TakeawaysBreaking New Ground: Learn about Parijat's courage and determination in developing a groundbreaking approach to healing medical trauma.Leading with Empathy: Discover how Parijat's personal experience fuels her empathetic leadership in supporting her clients.Building a Supportive Community: Understand the importance of creating a supportive community for individuals who have experienced medical trauma.Overcoming Obstacles: Learn about the challenges Parijat has faced and how she has overcome them to become a leader in her field.Inspiring Others: Discover how Parijat's work is inspiring others to advocate for themselves and seek healing.Don't miss this inspiring conversation where Parijat shares her wisdom on leadership, empathy, and making a difference in the world of healthcare.Episode Links:https://ruvelle.com/https://www.facebook.com/theruvellehttps://www.instagram.com/theruvelleConfessions of a Terrible Leader is hosted by Layci Nelson and edited and produced by Fixation Point Productions. Music is by Leif Olsen and Mary Skop from the band The Number of Months.

Parijat Deshpande is a founder and CEO of Ruvelle, the only trauma-informed wellness company specifically dedicated to improving high-risk pregnancy outcomes, reducing preterm birth, and supporting parents on the entire high-risk pregnancy journey. On a mission to end the high-risk pregnancy crisis, she has served and supported thousands of clients through her live events, one-on-one work, Ruvelle's private members' club, her bestselling book, Pregnancy Brain: A Mind-Body Approach to Stress Management During a High-Risk Pregnancy, and the Body Language Journal. Parijat's Website: Ruvelle | Revolutionizing your pregnancy From James: FREE Passive Income Masterclass (profityourknowledge.com)

What if indecisiveness is a result of our birth and NICU trauma? On today's podcast episode, we have speaker and somatic trauma consultant Parijat Deshpande on the podcast and we have an insightful conversation all about indecisiveness how we can identify it as a signal rather than a problem to be fixed.Throughout this episode we talk about:• The different types of “threat state patterns” and a quiz to identify them• How identifying our threat patterns can help us move through indecisiveness• Gentle practices a NICU mom can utilize to make decisions and not feel “stuck”• Encouragement for NICU mamas feeling discouraged by their lack of ability to make quick decisions after birth and NICU traumaOur hope is that NICU mamas listening who are feeling discouraged by feeling like they are in a state of indecisiveness feel empowered and encouraged throughout this episode. You are not alone!For the month of July, members of the Dear NICU Mama community have access to The Ruvelle Experience for 25% off using the code “RUVELLEDNM2024”!To connect with Parijat and her work at Ruvelle: Website | InstagramAbout Parijat:Parijat Deshpande is a founder of Ruvelle, the only truly trauma-informed company specifically dedicated to improving high-risk pregnancy outcomes, reducing preterm birth, and supporting parents on the entire high-risk pregnancy journey. On a mission to end the high-risk pregnancy crisis, she has served and supported thousands of clients through her live events, one-on-one work, Ruvelle's private members' club, her bestselling book, Pregnancy Brain: A Mind-Body Approach to Stress Management During a High-Risk Pregnancy, and the Body Language Journal. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you've struggled to get pregnant, grappled through multiple IVF cycles, experienced a loss, or delivered early, you know first hand that pregnancy is NOT always blissful. Unfortunately for some, the process of building a family can border on traumatic.  If this is the case for you or someone you know, the information and insights from Parijat Deshpande could shed some light on how to work through the anxiety that lives alongside infertility and high-risk pregnancy.  Parijat is founder of Ruvelle, bestselling author, speaker, and high-risk pregnancy consultant. In this episode of Baby or Bust, Dr. Lora Shahine dives deep with Parijat into anxiety before and during a high-risk pregnancy and learning how to calm your nervous system so you can move through the trauma that causes your anxiety. In this episode you'll hear: [3:30] Meet Parijat Deshpande - she's been through it all [8:15] An evolutionary benefit of anxiety in pregnancy  [10:41] Calming your nervous system when you're anxious Learning to acknowledge your feelings Recognizing what's going on in your body [15:19] Tips for “completing the threat cycle” (calming down) [21:33] Dr. Shahine answers a question from a YouTube listener about the HSG procedure [25:00] Learning more about somatic trauma work [30:04] Using somatic therapy to improve pregnancy outcomes [32:50] Parijat's business Ruvelle - support for high-risk pregnancy [35:56] Leaning into hope and ways to connect with Parijat Resources mentioned:  ruvelle.com IG - @healthy.highriskpregnancy Pregnancy Brain by Parijat Deshpande Delivering Miracles Podcast What Women Need to Know About Pregnancy Anxiety episode on Delivering Miracles Podcast Dr. Lora Shahine on Delivering Miracles Podcast | Episode 54 Dr. Lora Shahine on Delivering Miracles Podcast | Episode 69 Stay Up to Date in Fertility News and Events:  Weekly Newsletter Follow @drlorashahine Instagram | YouTube | Tiktok | Her Books  

Hearing the words “high-risk pregnancy” strikes fear in the heart of every parent. Even though we may not understand all the ramifications of that designation, we know it means that an unpredictable journey is ahead. I'm excited to welcome back today's guest and learn more about her work in the field of high-risk pregnancy. Join us! Parijat Deshpande is the founder and CEO of Ruvelle, the only trauma-informed wellness company specifically dedicated to improving high-risk pregnancy outcomes, reducing preterm births, and supporting parents on the entire high-risk pregnancy journey. Parijat is a high-risk pregnancy expert who has a storied history of phenomenal work in this often-overlooked space. Her specialization in this field combines the somatic, mental, and emotional elements of the high-risk pregnancy experience. On a mission to end the high-risk pregnancy crisis, Parijat has served and supported thousands of clients through her live events, one-on-one work, and her bestselling book,  Pregnancy Brain: A Mind-Body Approach to Stress Management During a High-Risk Pregnancy. She has also written the Body Language Journal.  Show Highlights: Understanding the “high-risk pregnancy” designation–and why it does NOT guarantee a horrible outcome! The need for more communication in the healthcare system about the likely reasons for a high-risk pregnancy designation, such as advanced age, recurrent pregnancy loss, asthma, depression, kidney disease, cardiovascular disease, pregnancy with multiples, etc. Empower yourself by asking the right questions! Highlights of Parijat's work with clients who have lived through a bad pregnancy experience The truth: Stress physiology affects reproductive health. It's important to return to baseline after experiencing chronic or traumatic stress. We can learn how to control what we CAN control. Parijat's work with clients to empower them to be seen and heard, find balance, and re-create the narrative in subsequent pregnancies How Ruvelle supports people in their high-risk pregnancy journeys The impacts Parijat has seen in clients through improved health, newfound confidence, and lived experiences of empowerment Resources: Connect with Parijat Deshpande and Ruvelle: Website and Instagram Get Parijat's books:  Pregnancy Brain: A Mind-Body Approach to Stress Management During a High-Risk Pregnancy  and the Body Language Journal Please find resources in English and Spanish at Postpartum Support International, or by phone/text at 1-800-944-4773. There are many free resources, like online support groups, peer mentors, a specialist provider directory, and perinatal mental health training for therapists, physicians, nurses, doulas, and anyone who wants to better support people for whom they provide services.  You can also follow PSI on social media: Instagram, Facebook, and most other platforms Visit www.postpartum.net/professionals/certificate-trainings/ for information on the grief course.   Visit my website, www.wellmindperinatal.com, for more information, resources, and courses you can take today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Parijat Deshpande is the founder and CEO of Ruvelle, the only trauma-informed wellness company specifically dedicated to improving high-risk pregnancy outcomes, reducing preterm birth, and supporting parents on the entire high-risk pregnancy journey. On a mission to end the high-risk pregnancy crisis, she has served and supported thousands of clients through her live events, one-on-one work, her bestselling book, Pregnancy Brain: A Mind-Body Approach to Stress Management During a High-Risk Pregnancy, and the Body Language Journal. I am thrilled to welcome Parijat back to the show as a second-time guest. I have watched her work evolve over the years since she was last on the show and I had a sense that now is just the right time to have her come back - this time to talk about traumatic stress and collective trauma.   Listen in to hear Parijat share: Her path to working in women's health and serving women who are enduring health trauma The significance of trauma-informed medical care and where we are currently going wrong without it What it's like for people with medical trauma to navigate the world without people understanding their experience How the pandemic created a situation of global collective trauma that we are still very much living in What needs to happen for us to heal from collective trauma When we don't have collective safety, how we can find support at any given moment by addressing our own physiological needs  How we have shifted from living in collective trauma to living in a collective functional freeze What trauma-sensitive medical care actually looks like Links mentioned: Connect with Parijat and Ruvelle: www.ruvelle.com Parijat and Ruvelle on IG We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website: https://shamelessmom.com/sponsor Interested in becoming a sponsor of the Shameless Mom Academy? Email our sales team at sales@adalystmedia.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Parijat Deshpande Somatic Trauma Therapist   Disclaimer: The speaker in this interview discusses various therapy options to treat and heal trauma. These views and recommendations are the speaker's own and should not be considered professional medical advice or endorsement.    In this episode: List two things a woman can do to minimize the trauma she might experience during pregnancy, delivery or birth. Describe the somatic trauma therapy cycle   This episode is eligible for CEUs. Visit https://handtohold.org/resources/podcasts/nicu-heroes/ to complete the questionnaire.   Parijat's book: https://parijatdeshpande.lpages.co/pregnancybrain/    Connect with Parijat: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/healthy.highriskpregnancy/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ParijatDesh/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/parijatdesh YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCS-y3p6DfELaZd3Fp7nYtA Website: https://www.parijatdeshpande.com/   The NICU is hard. We're here to help.   Hand to Hold is a national nonprofit dedicated to providing neonatal intensive care unit (NICU) parents with personalized emotional support, educational resources and community before, during and after their baby's NICU stay. NICU support is available at no cost to NICU parents in English and Spanish.   Connect with Hand to Hold: Learn more or get support at handtohold.org   Follow Hand to Hold on social media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/handtohold Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handtohold/   Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/NICUHandtoHold YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/HandtoHold    The following music was used for this media project: Music: Thriving Together [Full version] by MusicLFiles Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/10332-thriving-together-full-version License (CC BY 4.0): https://filmmusic.io/standard-license   Music: Bright Colors Of Life by MusicLFiles Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/7855-bright-colors-of-life License (CC BY 4.0): https://filmmusic.io/standard-license  

Anneke is a Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist from Oregon who is a long-time VBAC Link Podcast listener. During her first pregnancy, she would listen to 5+ hours of episodes commuting back and forth from work! Anneke was more than committed to having a vaginal birth with each of her pregnancies, but what she has learned from her births about advocacy, trust, and defining success are beautiful lessons that have changed her forever.At The VBAC Link, we are here to help you achieve your goals of a vaginal birth. But even more importantly, we are here to advocate for empowered decision-making in the birth space. Anneke is an inspiring example of being educated, strong, and finding healing within circumstances that were out of her control.“Since my first birth, I've asked, ‘Why? Why not me? Why does this keep happening and why can't I just be like so many others on the podcast and so many others across the country? Why can't I just will it into being?' From these questions, I'm starting to believe that my story actually might begin at the end. I've realized that maybe my story isn't about the mechanism of birth at all, but what it birthed in me which was the ability to see my own strength.”Additional LinksThe Lactation Network WebsiteHow to VBAC: The Ultimate Prep Course for ParentsFull Transcript under Episode Details Meagan: Hello, hello. Wherever you are listening from, welcome to The VBAC Link. We have three beautiful stories for you today. They are all unique. They all have certain things along the way that add some unique factors. We have our friend Anneke. I keep questioning that, but it's Anneke and she has had three Cesareans. Her Cesareans really all have been a little bit different and for different reasons. We've got IVF. We've got low fluid and we have breech presentation. I'm excited to share your stories or have you share your stories today, but as always, we love starting our podcast out with a review. Review of the WeekToday's reviewer is from a girl named Megan. It says, “Great resource.” It says, “Such a great resource for VBAC mamas to come and listen to women's stories and get great evidence-based practice information. I do wish these ladies would do a little less interrupting of the storytellers.” Well, I'm so sorry, Megan. We definitely do jump in so hopefully, Anneke, you don't feel too interrupted. But we do like to be a part of your story as well because we want you to share your story, but we are listening and we are listening for the first time. We are reacting as if someone else would react the first time they are listening, right? So yeah. Thank you, Megan, for your review. We do love your reviews as always. Seriously, anywhere you listen– Apple Podcasts or Google. You can email us. Write us on Instagram. Let us know what your review is because we would love to read it on the next podcast. Anneke's StoriesMeagan: Okay, Ms. Anneke. Welcome to the show. Anneke: Thank you. Meagan: Thank you for being here and sharing these stories. I just want to turn the time over to you and have you share away and educate these listeners. Anneke: Awesome, well I am a long-time listener of your podcast actually. I think I found your podcast before I gave birth to my first child. Meagan: Oh really? Anneke: Yeah. I was doing 5-hour drives. I am a pelvic floor physical therapist. Meagan: Oh yes. I wanted to talk about that too by the way at the end. Don't let me forget. Anneke: Well, I was contracted to work where I am actually working now. It was a 5.5-hour drive. I would go down once a month and treat patients so I would listen to 5.5 hours of your podcast. Meagan: You would get through quite a few episodes. Anneke: Yeah. Lots of episodes. I always had this dream that I would be able to come on The VBAC Link with this triumphant VBAC– well, with this triumphant story. I never expected to have a Cesarean. I don't think anybody ever does. But after I had my first, I was like, “Okay. My goal is to someday be on The VBAC Link with this triumphant story.” I'm not here today with the triumphant vaginal birth that I was hoping for, but I really think that my births tell three stories. The first one is about advocacy and then the second one is about trust and then the third one is about defining success. Meagan: Oh, that just gave me the chills. That really did. So let's talk about this. Anneke: So my first pregnancy started after about three and a half years of infertility. We went all the way through to IVF. I'd been having some mental health struggles getting through all of the infertility pieces so I'd been doing counseling and that was amazingly helpful. We get into the pregnancy. Everything is going beautifully and at about 18 weeks, I had some really bad swelling. I told my provider and he was like, “Well, sorry. Sometimes people just get swelling.” I just went with that. A friend of mine who is a pelvic floor PT– I was seeing her because I was doing all of the things. I had prenatal yoga and I was seeing a pelvic floor therapist because I had some pelvic pain and pelvic tension in the past. She took my blood pressure one day and it had always been normal in the OB's office. She was like, “Wow, you're a little elevated.” That was in August at about 20 weeks probably. Baby looked fine and he was growing just fine. I'm just continuing to get more and more swelling. They were like, “Well, shucks.” I probably went into OB triage three times because I had systolic pressures above 150. Meagan: Oh!Anneke: Yeah. The third time I went in, they said, “Stop taking your blood pressure. Stop coming in. You're fine.” Meagan: Did you have protein at all? Anneke: No, so everything was always really clear. I was peeing in a cup every time I went into the OB's office. They would take my blood pressure and they'd say, “You're fine.” I went in sometime in October to get my flu shot and they said, “Oh, your diastolic (bottom number), is a little high.” I had an OB visit two days later and they said, “Just let him know.” He put me on metoprolol, a beta-blocker blood pressure medication, and had me start tracking my blood pressure which was kind of validating because I had been trying to tell them for weeks that my blood pressure was high. So I'm tracking it and the metoprolo was working okay. My blood pressure was elevated, but it wasn't scary. I went to my 32-week visit and I actually did have a little bit of protein in my urine at that visit. So we were living in Salem which is the capital of Oregon so it's a big city. The big research hospital is only an hour away. It's really close. They went and sent me for bloodwork after I had some protein in my urine. They called me later that day and said, “Hey, your numbers are borderline so we want you to come in and get these injections.”Nobody had talked to me about preeclampsia. Nobody had talked to me about, “Hey, we're concerned about this.” They were just like, “Hey, you're probably looking at an induction at 37 weeks.” They said, “You're borderline. We need you to come in for these shots.” I was heading down to Lakeview where I live now to do some contract work. I said, “Well, I'm going out of town this weekend. Can it wait until next week?” I could come tomorrow. The shots are supposed to be 24 hours apart. They said, “Oh yeah, yeah. It's fine.” Now, looking back, in a movie, that's where they would say, “Dun, dun, dun.” They sent me 5.5 hours away to rural Oregon where the only hospital there is a critical access hospital that does not have a NICU. It does not have on-call anesthesia. It has nothing. Although now, having been here, it has a lot more than what we think. So anyway, I go down. I work that day. I woke up the next morning and had all of the preeclampsia symptoms. I bet I had gained 20 pounds overnight. Meagan: Oh man. Anneke: My blood pressure was 180/25. I came down and my mom and my husband were staring at me because I was so swollen. Meagan: You didn't look good. Anneke: Yeah, and because of the attitude I got from triage– my husband had me call triage up in Salem and they said, “You need to go in right away.” But they had sent me home so many times before, so I was like, “Well, I have a hair appointment so I'm going to go to my hair appointment.” My hair looked awesome and I walked into the local ER here. This is where I grew up, so I knew everybody working and they didn't recognize me because I was so swollen. I had gone from borderline preeclamptic on Wednesday to by Saturday morning, severely preeclamptic. I ended up being life-flighted out to Salem. Meagan: Oh my gosh. Anneke: The ER doc that was here said, “If you were one week farther along, I would deliver you.” I was only 33 weeks at that point. They got me up to Salem and they were able to stabilize me. They said, “Okay. We're just going to go week by week. We're going to try to hold you off until 34 and 35 and get you as close as we can.” So Saturday went by. Everything was looking better. Sunday, our game plan was to wait, and then by Sunday evening, I had stopped peeing. I was drinking tons of fluid. That was actually the first time– I mean, I'm a medical provider and that was the first time that I was like, “Okay. Something is wrong.”Meagan: Yeah. My body is not happy right now. Anneke: Yeah. The nurse was like, “Okay, come on. Let's just go pee.” I was like, “Dude. There's nothing in there.” Lo and behold, I had kicked over to near eclampsia. They worked for a couple of hours to try to get my blood pressure down and stabilize me. It wouldn't stabilize. The OB who was at the hospital in Salem came in and said, “I think we are going to induce you tonight and you're going to have 36 hours to deliver or we're going to take you to C-section.” That was really scary for me. I had a doula. I had a doula team that I loved, but my whole birth plan was movement. I really wanted to go medication-free, but they said, “Look, no. We're going to induce you. Cytotec, Pitocin, and you're going to be in bed.” I got really scared and talked to my doula and my husband, and then the OB came back in probably an hour later and said, “Nope. Actually, we're just going to take you to C-section,” then basically turned around and walked off. The poor nurse. I remember just bursting into tears because even though I was scared of not moving, I really didn't want a C-section. That actually– my son was born the next morning at 3:00 AM and they whisked him straight to the NICU then because of all of the magnesium they had me on, I didn't hold him. That was Monday morning. I probably didn't hold him until Tuesday afternoon. I got to see him briefly, but one of the things that stands out to me the most is being in the PACU, the recovery from surgery, and the doc staying with me for about 2.5 hours. Looking back, docs don't stay with you. Meagan: No. Anneke: They are very worried about you if they are by your bedside for 2.5 hours. We were really lucky. We had a very short NICU stay. We had a wonderful NICU team. My recovery was rough, but as soon as I gave birth, the preeclampsia started to fade. I lost all of that water and I felt a lot better. But I walked out of the hospital 10 days later with my baby, looked at my husband and said, “Next time, I am doing a vaginal birth.” He was like, “Pump the brakes for a minute.” Meagan: He's like, “Maybe let's just not even talk about that.” Anneke: Yeah. But I was so committed. I had really severe postpartum anxiety that I probably should have been treated for because if anyone comes out of the NICU, you come out of this gruesome schedule of waking your baby up and pumping and feeding. So for about 6 weeks, I just didn't sleep and had really severe postpartum anxiety. I should have been treated probably, but you're not really in a headspace to think about that. But I remember, thank God for my mom and my husband, screaming at my mom about washing the bottles incorrectly. Thank goodness my mom loves me because she was like, “Okay,” and just supported me. Meagan: Yeah, but those are actually signs of postpartum anxiety where you need things to have to be just so or you're really nervous about a binky falling on the ground. Yeah. It seems super irrational to other people, but it is so real to the person going through it. Anneke: Right. Right. I think it just speaks to the lack of postpartum care that we have. They discharged me. I mean, I found out about 5 years later that I almost died that night. The Cesarean was life-saving. That was absolutely what I needed. They discharged me 5 days later with just, “All right. We'll see you in 6 weeks,” and then at 6 weeks, they're like, “Well, back in the saddle, Sally.” There's no coverage there. No coverage of care for me. Meagan: I know. It's where we're going wrong. Anneke: Right. Meagan: They're going wrong in the postpartum area in a lot of ways. Anneke: Yeah. I had trauma and nervousness. It was probably 6 or 7 months before I finally came out of that postpartum anxiety, probably a year before I felt like myself. After about a year, I mean, I think just like everybody, you're like, “Okay. I could do this again.” You know? I started to get in shape. I started to exercise again, and then I had this weird episode of bleeding. I thought, “Oh, it's just my period coming back and being stupid. It actually ended up being a miscarriage. I had never gotten pregnant before. I had never gotten pregnant on my own before so it was kind of this weird happy/sad experience. Fortunately, we were able to naturally conceive my second child, my first daughter, about two months later. Meagan: That's awesome. Anneke: Yeah, it was amazing. I was so grateful. I found immediately that I had this focus on wanting this vaginal birth. I felt very fortunate because the other podcast I listened to all throughout my pregnancy was one by Parijat Deshpande. She had a podcast– I guess she doesn't record for it anymore– called Delivering Miracles. It was all about high-risk pregnancy and doing all you can to reduce your risks of having a high-risk pregnancy and also recovering. I think I emailed her office person every week for a year because I really wanted to work with her. I finally was able to get in with her right around the time we found out we were pregnant. She does a lot of trauma relief work. It's a lot less of talking out your issues and more using movements and visualizations to help bring down your sympathetic fight and flight nervous system. I worked with her throughout my entire pregnancy. I felt like a rockstar. There was no swelling. I guess in the meantime, the other part of the story is that we had moved down to Lakeview– the really rural, critical-access hospital place. We moved down here in between my first and second child. There are no VBACs here so the closest place is about 3.5 hours away for a supportive VBAC provider. Meagan: That's a long drive. Anneke: It's a long drive. We actually made the decision that we were going to go back to Salem to do a VBAC. I love my provider down here. I actually went with the guy who admitted me to the ER the day I had preeclampsia. He was a totally different personality than I thought was going to be a good fit for me. When he admitted me that day in the ER, he explained exactly what was happening to me. He explained why he wanted me to do the things he wanted me to do. I thought being flown– and he explained, “Look. You could have a seizure. You could have a stroke. This is my very strong recommendation. This is not a prison, but this is a strong recommendation.” I just really liked that approach. I felt like I had a lot of trust there. He had saved my life. I mean, it sounds dramatic, but he had saved my life once. I went with him again and he was very supportive of figuring out how to make the VBAC work and when to go and how to transition, but he also had a backup plan for a Cesarean just in case. At about 28 weeks, they always do a little ultrasound at the visits, and she was breech but everything else looked fine. He was like, “Oh, you have plenty of time.” The weeks go on and she continues to be breech. He's in the back of his head thinking, “Okay, we need to probably start looking at the calendar and thinking about dates.” I'm just in denial at this point. I'm like, “It's going to happen.” Like all of the stories on The VBAC Link, you will it. You positively think. You do the stretches and the walking and the whatever and they're going to turn. Baby is going to turn. We get to 34 weeks and he said, “You know, let's just check you on ultrasound. I just want to make sure,” because my placenta had been anterior. He was like, “I just want to make sure that your placenta is off your scar in case we have to do a Cesarean.” We were excited because of course, it's a really small town. Lakeview is where I live and it is a town of about 2,000 people and a county of about 7,000. You literally know everybody. We're about 100 miles from the closest next hospital. We're very rural. We know the ultrasound tech of course and she was like, “Oh, we're going to do 3D,” so we walked in being very excited. She did the biophysical profile and I had a fluid level that day of– my AFI was a 4.1. Meagan: Oh. What week is this? Anneke: 34. Meagan: 34. That's low. Anneke: That's low. She was like, “You're not leaving today.” I was like, “What?” So thank God, I was working with Parjat Deshpande. We immediately kick into all of the things to help keep my anxiety low and help keep it all out of my body. We were tracking so now I was doing biophysical profiles. I think they started every other day and my fluid numbers started to come back up. Our docs here consult with maternal-fetal medicine out of a town about 3.5 hours away. They said, “Okay, as long as you are trending upward, you are fine.” But at that point, we kind of knew that a VBAC was off the table because with that low of fluid, baby is really unlikely to turn. At that point, I was like, “Okay. Let's just keep her healthy. Whatever we need, whatever we've got to do.” So we are chugging along and at about 35 weeks and a couple of days, my fluid level got all the way down to 2.1. It had come up and then it started to come way back down. The earliest that our hospital can deliver babies is 36 weeks. Meagan: You were a week out. Anneke: I'm a week out, yep. Oh my gosh. There's all of this lore about low amniotic fluid, so I was probably drinking close to 2 gallons of water a day. There is no direct correlation. There is a correlation with hydration and low fluid, but not pathologically low fluid. But there is all of this lore, so I was drinking close to 2 gallons of water a day and also drinking these buttermilk and blueberry smoothies. It was an Indian culture thing to have buttermilk to help with fluids. They are actually weirdly good but I was drinking one of those every day. Meagan: Interesting. I've never even heard of that. Anneke: Yeah. I mean, all of the Google things. We were just doing all of the Google things. We made it to– when I was 36 weeks, both my OB and I breathed a sigh of relief. We're like, “Okay, we made it. Okay, so here we go now. We're going to keep tracking her to 37 and get her to early term or late preterm.” The MFM was like, “Nope, just go for it.” We ended up delivering her at 36+1 via Cesarean. What was so wonderful about that birth is because of my work with Parijat and really trusting in a medical team that was around me, I felt like that birth was not traumatic. It was scary and we were worried, but she came out of me and just started screaming right away. I was able to breastfeed. She came right to me in the OR and we breastfed in the OR. I mean, the one nice thing about having a Cesarean is that the spinal takes a long time to wear off and you have a catheter. I think I did skin-to-skin for 6 hours. My husband did not hold her for 6 hours. That was one of the things that really left me with some trauma from my son. So I just remembered these goldeny, autumn afternoons and she was just on my chest and I just could not have been happier. Even though it wasn't the VBAC and it was preterm, it was still like I just had this incredible team around me that ultimately gave me the experience I wanted even though it wasn't the method. Meagan: Right. That is something that I feel is so important to touch on because sometimes we hear Cesarean stories and we hear trauma. Scary, traumatic. Anneke: Right. Meagan: I don't want to say that Cesareans can't be scary or traumatic or that they're not, but they don't always have to be. They actually can be very healing. Anneke: Right. Meagan: And redemptive. You might think, “Oh, you didn't get a redemption birth because you didn't have a VBAC,” but there are a lot of really amazing beautiful wins that were very redemptive in her birth, right? Anneke: Right. Meagan: That skin-to-skin and being involved and having that team be supportive of the whole team and motivating you, “Okay, we're going to get to 36 weeks.” All of these things are really awesome stuff. Anneke: Yeah. It was incredible. You know, we've had two births now that were– the first one was very scary. The second one was very scary and we almost stopped having kids. I had this dream of having four children. My husband is like, “Well, I wanted two. You wanted four so we compromised on four kids.” That's what he says now, but at the time, he was like, “No. I can't go through this again.” I was actually kind of along, especially for the first year, on the same path. I felt so grateful to have a positive experience. Everybody was healthy. Our family was wonderful. About a year out from her birth, maybe 7 or 8 months out from her birth, I really started feeling like I wanted to pursue our dream of having four kids. My husband really struggled with that so he and I both went to counseling. We went separately to counseling because we both had a lot of trauma actually left over from the first birth, my son's birth. Both of us– he did some EMDR work which was really powerful and I just did some talk therapy which was really good. Ultimately, we decided that we wanted to have a third baby and then eventually go on for a fourth. It took us a little bit longer to get pregnant. At that time, I found out that in my first birth, they were tracking my labs and one of the things they track is sodium. That fluid imbalance, sodium is a very important lab value that we need. I was digging through pages and pages and pages of notes trying to figure out, “Why did they never even give me a chance?” Because even though my daughter's birth was very redemptive, I still had this fire in me for wanting to know what a contraction felt like. In the meantime, I've developed this pelvic floor and OB program at our little local hospital here and I'm a childbirth educator and I'm just touting the virtues of vaginal birth and feeling like we have totally overmedicalized birth. So I'm digging through all of my notes and I find that my sodium had been trending over the 12 hours before even I realized that I wasn't peeding. My sodium had been trending down. By the time they made the call to go to C-section, I was three data points away from being a 50/50 survivor. My sodium had gotten so low. I didn't have 36 hours to try to labor. Meagan: Well, and when sodium gets really, really, really low, can't you actually have a stroke? Anneke: Yeah. Yeah. Meagan: And a major stroke. Anneke: Yeah. Like 50/50 coin flip on survival. It actually gave me a lot of closure to see that. I wish they had explained it to me like that at the moment, but it was like, “Okay, that was the right call.” Meagan: Validation.Anneke: Right. I hate it when you're given platitudes about, “Well, healthy mom and healthy baby.” It's like, “Well, obviously.” I wouldn't wish for something different, but there's also an experience that I'm looking for. So rolling into our third pregnancy, shoot. Being pregnant with two kids is no joke. I kind of had a harder pregnancy. We were able to conceive naturally again. Meagan: Yay!Anneke: Yeah. This time, we started with maternal-fetal medicine. They were tracking us from 16 weeks on. I had monthly visits with them all the way up to 36 weeks. Again, everything is going swimmingly. She looked lovely. My fluid is great. My blood pressure is low. We get to 28 weeks and she's breech. Along with being a pelvic floor PT and a mom of two at the time, I am a varsity volleyball coach and my husband is a wildman firefighter. If you haven't been out west for the last couple of years, it's been insane or I guess living under a rock because it's made national news. So this is during the summer rolling into volleyball season. I've got a breech baby. I've got this whole plan for a VBAC. I'm going to go into labor. We're going to drive 3.5 hours. I'm going to labor in the car with my husband driving like a grandma. We're going to do this. I was back to every day listening to a VBAC Link podcast and just willing it into being. I hit about 33 weeks and I'm doing uterine ligament mobilizations on myself. I bought a Spinning Babies class and was doing close to 2 hours of exercises a day to do inversions and side-lying and all of the rebozo sifting. At about 33 weeks, a friend of mine told me about this postural restoration physical therapist over in Grants Pass which is about 4 hours away from here and I went. I got an appointment with her and drove 4 hours one way to go see her. I got in with an acupuncturist. We did all of the things. Meagan: Literally, yeah. Anneke: Literally all of the things. A little after Labor Day, my husband was home. So firefighters work for 2-3 weeks on and then they get 2-3 days off. Usually, in busy fire burn season, they will turn and burn and go back out. He came home after Labor Day and I was a wreck because I was so stressed out with trying to get her turned. It was the middle of volleyball season. It was a busy fire season. They were supposed to leave the next day to go on another 2-week assignment and I just burst into tears. He was like, “Do you need me to stay?” I'm not very good at asking for help, but I knew that if I didn't leave everything out on the table, I would always wonder if she didn't turn, I would always wonder, “What if?” We made the decision that he was going to stay back from what would have probably been his last fire assignment before she was born anyway and we did, like I said, 2-2.5 hours of exercises daily to try to get her to turn. I drove back and forth to Grants Pass several more times and then finally, I was really nervous about doing a version, but that was something that my OB in Medford had suggested as a possible thought and my OB here was like, “Look, we can't offer you a VBAC here. I don't feel comfortable doing a version here because we just don't have the resources.” So at my 36-week appointment, I said, “Look. I don't know how comfortable I feel with a version. Is that going to be too much?” This is what I love about my OB. He leaned forward and said, “I have never known anyone as committed to wanting a VBAC as you. I think you need to do everything.” We drove over to Medford. We took all of our bags just in case it threw me into labor or something. Meagan: Right, or you had to stay. Anneke: Right. We went over and saw my OB there. He was like, “Okay. You're going to go to the hospital.” He explains the whole procedure. They couldn't give me the uterine relaxing medication because I had a little cardiac event in the pregnancy earlier that was just a one-off but he didn't feel comfortable giving that to me. For anyone who has been through a version, those are really uncomfortable. I mean, it wasn't the worst pain I've ever felt, but it's like being squished, very heavily squished by a full-grown man. You could see it in his face. He gets a hold of my daughter and he turns her 90 degrees and then she slips back. You can see that he's like, “Oh yeah. We've totally got this.” He hooks his hands on again and turns her 90 degrees and she slips back. So he's like, “Okay. Third time's the charm. Third time's the last time. We're not going to do it anymore, but we're going to get her.” He gets a good grip on her and he gets her to 90 degrees and gets her a little bit farther. I felt her jerk and her heart rate dropped to 60. We all just held up our hands and we're like, “Nope. Nope.” I didn't know this guy very well. He came very highly recommended. He was very friendly, but I'd only seen him a couple of times. He was just like, “Okay, well you can drive back to Lakeview and go schedule a C-section. We'll see you later. I have more patients to see.” I really liked him, but I'm starting to get a little sniffly and teary. He was just like, “I'm really sorry,” and left. I think I cried the entire way home and then I cried the whole next day. I told my husband, “I'm not calling my local OB. I'm not calling him.” He was like, “Yeah, but the baby's got to come out at some point.” I did finally see my OB the next week which would have been close to 38 weeks. I mean, the poor guy. I know he felt so bad, so he was like, “Okay, what can we do?” I really wanted to go into labor. I mean, this OB puts up with a lot of my shenanigans, but that was a hard no. He was like, “Absolutely not. You're not going into labor. We're not going to introduce bacteria when we don't need to.”I'd read a lot about a gentle Cesarean where mom gets to pick baby up or baby gets to go straight to her chest. Meagan: Mother-assisted Cesarean. We're seeing it happen. Anneke: I know. I'm very committed to the next one to maybe making this happen. I've got to work on this guy for a little bit, but that was a hard no on this one. One week was not enough time to prepare him, but what we were able to do is I had good friends who were OB nurses. We were able to schedule it on a day that they could be there. Our normal procedure for Cesareans here is that baby is born and then they do the cord clamping and then baby goes to the warmer, but my OB for delayed cord clamping instead of just laying her on my legs, held her out with full arms extended, probably burning to let me see her. She was a big kid. She was almost 9 pounds. That's actually the picture that I sent to go along with it. Then he took her over to the warmer and my friend, the nurse, was right behind him and swooped her up and brought her right to me. It was as close to that immediate skin-to-skin as we could have gotten. My struggle in the week between the version and her birth was that I just felt so broken. I really felt like my body had failed me and that for whatever reason, I wasn't destined to ever feel a contraction or to even try to give birth vaginally. I worked with my therapist over that week and actually did some EMDR myself because I just really felt like what I had done was valuable. I did everything I could to give her a vaginal birth and I under no circumstances wanted that feeling of brokenness to be passed to her even via osmosis. I worked really, really hard to have that open, brave feeling the day of her birth. When she got put on my chest, I didn't want any of my insecurities to get passed on to her. It was difficult after her birth too. I really struggled with feeling like I was worthy and like I had done enough. The other thing too is that I felt like I was going to have difficulty teaching childbirth education. Who am I to teach in this space? Meagan: I get that. When I became a doula, people would say, “Oh, so how was your vaginal birth? Did you go unmedicated?” I'm like, “I had two C-sections.” They're like, “Well, how do you feel qualified to support me through a vaginal birth then?” It's like, “I totally do.” Yeah. It was really something hard to overcome not having ever had a vaginal birth. Anneke: Right. Right. I had one patient. She sticks out to me. She said, “Well, okay. What do contractions feel like?” I had to be like, “Well, people describe them as–”. I wasn't able to tell her and that tore me apart. Since she was born, I've taught two series of childbirth education. I've had a bunch of pregnant patients and I've helped patients labor and helped teach them positioning and counterpressure. I realize looking back, I'm a pelvic floor PT and I threw my entire base of knowledge into my drive and journey to achieving a vaginal birth three times. When that failed, I literally went with blind faith. Anything that the internet or anyone suggested to me, I tried. I prayed and I meditated and I positive-affirmed myself every day and it still didn't happen. So in the end, I've never had that chance to be able to actively tell her or from experience tell my patients what a contraction felt like. Since my first birth, I've really asked, “Why? Why not me? Why does this keep happening and why can't I just be like so many others on the podcast and so many others across the country? Why can't I just will it into being?” So from these questions, I'm starting to believe that my story actually might begin at the end. After my belly has been cut into for the final time after the scar tissue knits back down and I can cough without pain, I've realized that maybe my story isn't about the mechanism of birth at all but what it birthed in me which was the ability to see my own strength and give that to my people who are in a world where victimhood and fragility eat away at our resilience and our grit. I thought that not being able to labor to not meet my children has broken me but I can't be broken. I can't be a broken mother to them. I want my kids to be strong, confident, and powerful. I can't teach them that if I can't model that. So I didn't get a vaginal delivery. I didn't get to experience labor pain and comfort measures and to have my partner doing counterpressure and using a comb and work together to bring my babies through my pelvis. I didn't get to look adoringly at my husband as I pulled my baby onto my chest myself, but what I did was I made the choice to put my child's needs before my own desires and I sacrificed my body in order to protect theirs. My labor was really giving my control and placing trust in my medical team and God to bring my babies into the world. I'm not broken by my births. I really feel like I'd been remade into what a mother is supposed to be. Meagan: Absolutely. I'm just crying over here. That was beautiful. That was absolutely beautiful. You know, I've talked about this before, but the way we give birth doesn't define us. It doesn't say that we are a successful mom for giving birth vaginally or by a Cesarean. It doesn't mean that our children are going to be weak or struggle because they didn't come out vaginally. Anneke: Right. Meagan: Wow. I just love everything. I'm seriously crying here. That was just beautiful. You are beautiful. Anneke: Thank you. Meagan: Every single one of these births is beautiful. You don't have to give birth vaginally to have a beautiful experience and to be a powerful mom. Like you said, “I'm not coming here today to share the vaginal birth that I wanted so badly and that I longed for,” but look at what you have done. Look at how you've grown. Look at how strong you are. I believe that our children– right now, they are little. They probably don't really understand the magnitude of what a Cesarean birth or a vaginal birth even looks like and what that means, but I promise you that no matter what, these babies are going to be grateful for you. Women of Strength, as you are listening, know that the way you give birth does not define you. You are incredible. Anneke: It actually hit me during the last childbirth education series that we taught. We go around and we talk about all of the interventions for birth– epidural, IV meds, Cesarean, or vaginal. So often, we have people who say, “Well, whatever baby needs.” It actually struck me during this last class. I said, “Look, of course, it's whatever baby needs. What you need is to cope. You need to know your strength and what will keep you strong because that is what takes you through this without trauma and takes you through feeling stronger and successful no matter the mechanism, no matter the medications, or the delivery method. It's about how you approach your birth and how you are going to continue to be strong whether you are pushing them or whether you are being brave and being cut open. No matter what it is.” Meagan: No matter what, yeah. Well, thanks for that. That was amazing. Anneke: You're so welcome. Meagan: Sorry for the sniffles, guys. That was beautiful. Congratulations. Anneke: Thank you. Meagan: Huge congratulations to all of your growth. Even through your journey with pelvic floor, you are going to help so many people. And with pelvic floor, tell us a little bit more about what you've learned even both ways with vaginal and Cesarean and how the pelvic floor actually is connected to both, and how even Cesarean mamas need guidance through pelvic floor. Anneke: Yeah, absolutely. I actually see a lot of the same issues post-vaginal and post-Cesarean birth. With vaginal birth, usually what happens is you're pushing a watermelon through a quarter-sized hole so those muscles and your joints are designed to stretch. There are lots of movements and things that can help. It would be like overstretching your hamstring. It just reactively spasms and tightens back down. That's even in the absence of tearing and things like that. Pelvic floor tension is really, really common after a vaginal birth but also after a Cesarean birth. Now you've lost stability from your abdomen. You can't even sneeze for 8 weeks without feeling like you're going to burst open. My nose actually wasn't better for a year after my first son because it was just so fast. Oftentimes, I actually see a reactive spasm of the pelvic floor in women with Cesarean deliveries as well because your pelvic floor is overcompensating through your lack of abdomen support. I actually treat those women a lot of the same and then of course, we do a lot more of scar tissue work with Cesarean. It's a lot more like abdominal training early on in women with vaginal delivery, but yeah. I mean, it's almost identical. The initial recommendations are a little bit different, but by 6 weeks, I'm treating women the same. What I actually love, I wanted to mention this about rural hospitals. People get scared to deliver in rural hospitals, but what's beautiful about our situation is that your OB will also likely be the one to come deliver and will also see you for the 3-day weight and color check, the 2-week visit, the 4-week visit, and the 8-week visit. They'll see you at the 6-week visit for you too. We have so much better follow-up for mom and baby here than I got in a big, fancy hospital in the city. I think I see people way sooner than I would see them in the city. I'm seeing people easily 4 and 6 weeks out where in the city, it might be 6 or 8 months. Meagan: Right. There are so many of us that it's 6 weeks out. That's when we are going in for our first visit and they're like, “Oh, what birth control do you want?” That's what we're asking. We've gone weeks and weeks and weeks with the pelvic pressure and that bulge or the leaking or that disconnect when we could have been doing something. Maybe 2 weeks out, we're not doing the exact same things, but there are things that we can do even through breath with our scar or mobilization for a Cesarean and all of these things that we can do. If you are like the many of us who don't get seen as you have which is the way it should be in my opinion, I think that we should be seeing people 3 days out or 2 weeks out and all of these things because that's when so many things are not caught. Know that it's okay. You can still turn to a pelvic floor specialist and therapist even while you're waiting. Anneke: Yeah. I've started a program at our hospital where I actually try to catch C-section moms in-house. I'll give them laying on your stomach and early abdominal work and how to get out of bed. Nobody teaches you how to get out of bed after a Cesarean. You can really screw up your scar tissue by straining on it too much or just be in a lot of pain for a really long time. The other really great thing about PT and insurance companies now is that you actually don't often have to wait for your doctor to refer you. If you are 2 weeks out and you are still leaking or you have a lot of peeing, you don't have to wait to see your doc. You can actually just call a pelvic floor PT and a lot of insurances will let you self-refer. It's pretty awesome. Meagan: Right. It is awesome. I just think, like you were saying, we just don't talk about pelvic floor after a Cesarean very much because we just don't think about it. We haven't pushed a baby out of our vagina so probably are okay, but the disconnect with our abs– Cesarean birth really is quite intense internally. So yeah. Don't hesitate. Go out. Can you tell everyone where to follow you?Anneke: Yeah, so where I talk most about pelvic floor and PT stuff is actually called @teamgriffith2011 on Instagram. If you are interested in finding a pelvic floor PT near you, if you go to the section on Pelvic Health, just Google that on the internet and there is actually a PT locator. That is how you will be able to find someone close to you. Meagan: Fantastic. Do you suggest people do it even before birth? I know you did with yours, but as a pelvic floor PT, do you suggest people go before?Anneke: Especially if you don't have a program in your hospital where PT tries to snag you before you leave, I would think it would be helpful. I do what I call a labor and delivery biomechanics visit. I'll have people come in. We'll talk about positioning and counterpressure and then I almost always give them vaginal delivery and Cesarean early-stage exercises. That would be something that a PT would be able to tell you what are the very first things you should start doing, when to start doing kegels, or how to get back. A lot of times, it's just teaching you how to diaphragmatically breathe because that will teach you how to coordinate your pelvic floor to the yoga breath. Meagan: Awesome. Well, thank you so much for giving me a good cry today. Anneke: You're so welcome. Meagan: And educating us on pelvic floor. Seriously, it was beautiful, and congratulations to all three of your babies. Anneke: Thank you so much. Meagan: Yep.ClosingWould you like to be a guest on the podcast? Tell us about your experience at thevbaclink.com/share. For more information on all things VBAC including online and in-person VBAC classes, The VBAC Link blog, and Meagan's bio, head over to thevbaclink.com. 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Preterm birth accounts for over 1 in 10 births in the United States. Prematurity is one of leading causes of long term health complications & death in children. Half of all maternal mortality loss can be prevented.My guest today, Parijat Desphande is working to end this high risk pregnancy crisis so families don't meet their child earlier than they should. Parijat is a bestselling author, speaker, consultant, and film producer who is dedicated to improving outcomes and ending preterm birth by adding a trauma-informed, neurobiological lens to prenatal care.  She has served and supported thousands of pregnant people through her live events, one-on-one work, and bestselling book, Pregnancy Brain: A Mind-Body Approach to Stress Management During a High-Risk Pregnancy. In this episode, Parijat documents her roller-coaster journey of becoming a mother without a baby in her arms, her and her son surviving birth at 24 weeks, and navigating viable options to bring a sibling into the world, ultimately through surrogacy. IN THIS EPISODE, WE COVERED...How Parijat saved her son's life by prolonging his premature birthWays to support yourself or someone else through a long NICU stayWhat "somatic capacity" is and how to expand yoursDON'T MISS-Why meditation should be LAST on your listThe work that needs to be done to stop the high risk pregnancy crisis// MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE //Book: BURNOUT: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily Nagoski PhD// CONNECT WITH PARIJAT DESPANDE //ParijatDesphande.comBook: Pregnancy BrainInstagram: @healthy.highriskpregnancy I believe in you + I'm cheering you on.Come say hi!  I'm @parent_wholeheartedly on Insta.Schedule your FREE Consultation: wholeheartedly.as.me/callSupport the show*FREE* MASTERCLASS: Learn how to CONFIDENTLY parent your strong-willed child WITHOUT threats, bribes or giving in altogether so you can BREAK FREE of power struggles + guilt www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/unapologeticwww.parentingwholeheartedly.com

Experiencing a high-risk pregnancy is not something any parent would plan for. It can be lifesaving for families experiencing high-risk pregnancies to receive quality support. Author, Speaker, and Health and Media Consultant Parijat Deshpande provides that kind of quality support! Parijat's trauma-informed work provides strategies, insights, and neurobiological techniques to help pregnant people stack the odds in their favor during a high-risk pregnancy after prematurity or second or third-trimester loss. In this episode, we discuss how doulas, in particular, can best support clients facing high-risk pregnancies.

Parijat Gupta leads online reputation and social media management for Coast Hotels, and in this episode, you'll hear about how a role earlier in her career helped shape how she views communicating with people digitally today. I want you to hear this because we're heading into some of the biggest technology tradeshows in the hospitality industry over the next few weeks, and as we do that I encourage you to think about people and the guest experience first. Follow Parijat Gupta on LinkedInWhat did you think about this episode? Join the Hospitality Daily community on LinkedIn and share your thoughts. If you care about hospitality, check out the Masters of Moments podcast where Jake Wurzak interviews top leaders in hospitality. His conversations with Bashar Wali and Matt Marquis are a great place to start, but also check out his solo episodes such as how he underwrites investment deals and a deep dive into GP fees you know about. Music by Clay Bassford of Bespoke Sound: Music Identity Design for Hospitality Brands

Parijat is a bestselling author of her book 'Pregnancy Brain", speaker, consultant, and film producer who is dedicated to improving outcomes and ending preterm birth by adding a trauma-informed, neurobiological lens to prenatal care. We get into her birthing journey, how she helps woman improve high risk pregnancy outcomes, and overcoming trauma. We go over listener questions you asked, and she shares so much great information about births and tips to parents expecting a high-risk pregnancy. This woman is such a light in this world, enjoy! Connect with Parijat on her website here & Instagram here & her book here Shop my adult sexual products here Join my free Facebook group here MERCH HERE Connect with me on Instagram & Twitter and TikTok please follow/like/subscribe/rate. Thank you for listening to this podcast! ENJOY!! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jenay-leger/support

This episode hits pretty close to home for me and my guest Praijat, who works closely with women are wanting to create a healthier pregnancy journey. We discuss the stigmas that come with premature births and how to support those going through it. Premature births can be overwhelming for all those involved, so it's ok to feel a bit anxious to approach the topic. Praijat does an excellent job breaking down how to navigate it all. Parijat Deshpande is the leading integrative high-risk pregnancy specialist, somatic stress & trauma professional and speaker and author who guides women to improve their pregnancy complications so they can reduce their risk of preterm birth. Her unique neurobiological approach has served hundreds of women to manage pregnancy complications and reclaim a safety and trust in their bodies that they thought was eroded forever. Parijat is the author of bestselling book Pregnancy Brain: A Mind-Body Approach to Stress Management During a High-Risk Pregnancy. She is also the host of the popular podcast Delivering Miracles®️, that discusses the real, raw side of family-building including infertility, loss, high-risk pregnancy, bed rest, prematurity and healing once baby comes home. Parijat professional training is in clinical psychology and she is a Certified Trauma Professional and Certified Clinical Trauma Specialist for individuals. Learn more about Parijat Deshpande and her work at parijatdeshpande.com. Connect with Prajiat: https://www.instagram.com/healthy.highriskpregnancy/ https://www.facebook.com/ParijatDesh/#website www.alysialyons.com   Connect with me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/momsupportcoach/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/momsupportcoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/momsupportcoach/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/momsupportcoach/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/momsupportcoach/support

We have the honor and privilege of welcoming back Parijat Deshpande back to the Dear NICU mama Podcast! And today we have a gentle and trauma informed discussion about high-risk pregnancy after NICU.In this episode we cover:How do we know if we are ready for another pregnancy? What questions can help couples answer this for themselves?What does it mean to have a high-risk pregnancy?Will stress and anxiety during pregnancy cause a mother to go into early labor?Is it possible to have a more “normal” pregnancy?How do we listen to our bodies while at the same time exploring our options when it comes to growing our families after NICU?We hope this episode reminds you that no matter where you are on your family building journey, that you are worthy of the time and space it takes to heal and honor your heart. You are never alone.Parijat Deshpande is author, speaker, and the CEO of a global, boutique company dedicated to reducing pregnancy complications and ending preterm birth. They do this through concierge level private client services focused on trauma-informed, neurobiological approaches to reproductive health. Parijat and her team also offer trauma-sensitive professional trainings for providers and practitioners. They also partner with hospitals, clinics, and maternal health organization to add a missing piece to the puzzle of ending prematurity and improving pregnancy outcomes worldwide.Parijat is the author of bestselling book Pregnancy Brain: A Mind-Body Approach to Stress Management During a High-Risk Pregnancy. And she is the host of the popular podcast Delivering Miracles®️, that discusses the real, raw side of family-building including infertility, loss, high-risk pregnancy, bed rest, prematurity and healing once baby comes home.To get connected with Parijat Deshpande:Website | Instagram | Facebook | Delivering Miracles® PodcastTo get connected with DNM: Website | Private Facebook Group | InstagramThis podcast episode is not an attempt to practice medicine or provide medical advice. All information, content, and material on this website is for informational purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis or treatment. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Shownotes “I would say that this report presents a contradictory picture, which is probably a feature of this report. And this contradiction is about rich Adivasi and poor Adivasi. Rich Adivasi in terms of their world view and cultural practices, but poor Adivasi in terms of the deprivation”  The 78th episode of The Elephant in the Room podcast, is a follow up episode, on the first ‘Status of Adivasi Livelihoods' (SAL) Report by PRADAN. The report based on a survey of around 5000 households from across 16 Adivasi dominated districts of Jharkhand and Odisha, paints a grim picture of Adivasis as one of the most deprived sections of Indian society.  India has several laws and constitutional provisions that recognise the rights of indigenous peoples to land and self-government. The Indian Constitution also provides for positive discrimination in employment, higher education and political representation in the Indian parliament and state assemblies. However, these positive discrimination efforts do not seem to have worked.  The big question is WHY? Who is measuring the impact of development programmes and interventions? Adivasi leaders, activists and academics believe this is because policy makers do not recognise them as different, which in turn does not allow them to define and design their own development agenda.  The main purpose of the Status of Adivasi Livelihoods report is to develop a more nuanced understanding of Adivasi livelihoods and the socio-cultural setting that shape these livelihoods, in order to evolve a better response to improve their plight. As we navigate a deeply divided world on the cusp of climate crisis, it would make sense to learn from the deep knowledge and wisdom of the Adivasis who are not a part of caste society. Adivasis possess a worldview which is different from the non-Adivasis. They do not consider themselves superior to other creatures of nature and do not believe in the accumulation of wealth and exploitation of nature for human purposes. This worldview shapes their relationship with nature and society and influences their practices including livelihoods. “Programmes and schemes for tribal communities need to align with their values of togetherness, living in harmony with nature and non-exploitative livelihood practices. That is the only way to ensure the challenges being faced by the Adivasis are addressed without compromising the Adivasi way of living.” Listen here

We have the honor and privilege of welcoming back Parijat Deshpande back to the Dear NICU mama Podcast! And today we are learning all about trauma in the body, specifically trauma in the body after we come home from the NICU.In this episode we cover:What happens to the brain/body connection as a result of trauma? Why does this happen? What are some ways trauma can show up in our bodies after a traumatic birth and/or NICU experience?Sometimes it feels our trauma is filtering our ability to connect with our loved ones and our baby…which then starts the shame cycle. Can you explain why this happens and what we can do to interrupt the cycle?Is there hope to reclaim “old parts” of our selves? Is it ever too late to fully heal and find safety in our bodies after trauma?We hope this episode offers you gentle yet powerful reminders that you are not broken, your body is not against you, and that healing and hope after NICU is possible. You are never alone on this journey of lifelong healing! This sisterhood believes in you, and most importantly walks with you.Parijat Deshpande is author, speaker, and the CEO of a global, boutique company dedicated to reducing pregnancy complications and ending preterm birth. They do this through concierge level private client services focused on trauma-informed, neurobiological approaches to reproductive health. Parijat and her team also offer trauma-sensitive professional trainings for providers and practitioners. They also partner with hospitals, clinics, and maternal health organization to add a missing piece to the puzzle of ending prematurity and improving pregnancy outcomes worldwide. Parijat is the author of bestselling book Pregnancy Brain: A Mind-Body Approach to Stress Management During a High-Risk Pregnancy. And she is the host of the popular podcast Delivering Miracles®️, that discusses the real, raw side of family-building including infertility, loss, high-risk pregnancy, bed rest, prematurity and healing once baby comes home.To get connected with Parijat Deshpande:Website | Instagram | Facebook | Delivering Miracles® Podcast This podcast episode is not an attempt to practice medicine or provide medical advice. All information, content, and material on this website is for informational purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis or treatment.To get connected with DNM: Website | Private Facebook Group | InstagramSupport the show

And she gives in return, Her organic frequencies, a healing Energy balm for our Human Heart. In this Language of Light transmission, I speak and sing my soul to the Soul of Nature, simply as an intention of gratitude and innocent love. My vocation is for the ones ready to feel. Singing in veneration to Nature reminds us to celebrate life and our interconnectedness. You can speak and sing to Her too. It starts with the intention and the energetic foundation of slowing down, resting and relaxing to receive your own Divinity Guidance, and to feel the Will of Love that Nature, The Mother has in Divine Plan of Communion for all of us, The Humain Soul. When I was a girl, I would sing to the Flowers ( especially to the pink tender peonies and to the one that is fragrantic only at night- the Queens of Night ) to the Animals, to the Stars... this singing would make me happy and in Love with Living. Recorded while listening to the exquisite music of Parijat, Journey to the Center, a Song that always sings me back Home ~ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/transmissionsoflight/message

Shownotes The language we use often reflects the widely accepted socio-cultural values, norms, and beliefs that society holds, including roles men/women and non binary people play. For as long as we know language has been used to undermine people making them seem less competent, confident and places an expectations on what people can aspire too. The constant use of such language reinforces assumptions.   E.g. Assumptions that all members of a category (Director) share a gender or that all members of a gender share a characteristic (women prefer to look after children)  E.g. Using gendered pronouns/nouns when you don't know the gender or using he/him/man as the default  However, language can also be used as powerful tool to help reshape culture and challenge stereotypes. In this episode of The Elephant in the Room podcast I spoke with Parijat Ghosh and Souparno Chatterjee from PRADAN on the journey and learnings from the past 10 months to building a more equitable and inclusive organisation.  I am super proud to have been invited by PRADAN to support the organisations in unravelling the layers and discovering who they are as an organisation and the gap that exists with who they aspire to be. In the last 10 months, I have run numerous workshops, listening exercises, audits, and had people share 100s of examples on how our culture, upbringing, the books we read, the movies we see, our lived experiences colour our usage of language.  We are nearly at the end of the discovery phase, the next phase will be about mindfulness, and putting all the learning into action - in how we use language to engage with our peer group, with teams, with people on the field, the communities we work with, donors, governments, in the manner in which we write our reports. The measure of success is not that everyone will suddenly be inclusive, but that most people are conscious of the impact of their words, are willing to learn and build an inclusive organisation.  And most importantly it is important to remember that language is not static, it changes and evolves every single day; like it has done since the start of spoken language many moons ago.  Want to know more about the why and what of the gender sensitive communications initiative at PRADAN - listen here

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Listening to one of my timeless favorite music from Parijat, Journey to the Center, I formulated this Purifying Prayer in The Language of Light for all people to find their kin. Thank You, Sweet Angels of Pure Love. It is done. It is done. It is done. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/transmissionsoflight/message

On this episode of Fertility Journeys, Dr. Shala Salem, M.D., speaks with Parijat Deshpande, the leading integrative high-risk pregnancy specialist, somatic trauma professional and speaker, and author who guides women to improve their pregnancy complications so they can reduce their risk of preterm birth. Her unique neurobiological approach has served hundreds of women to manage pregnancy complications and reclaim a safety and trust in their bodies that they thought was eroded forever. Parijat is the author of the bestselling book Pregnancy Brain: A Mind-Body Approach to Stress Management During a High-Risk Pregnancy. She is also the host of the popular podcast Delivering Miracles®️, that discusses the real, raw side of family-building including infertility, loss, high-risk pregnancy, bedrest, prematurity, and healing once baby comes home. https://parijatdeshpande.com Instagram: @healthy.highriskpregnancy

Shirishko Phool (शिरीषको फूल, Blue Mimosa), published in 1964, is a Nepali language novel by Parijat. It was the author's first and most successful novel. It was awarded the Madan Puraskar in 1965. Suyog meets Sakambari and her two sisters through Shivaraj. Suyog is a lonely middle-aged man and sees the three sisters with eyes of lust. He views Mujura as the quintessential woman with all the feminine virtues and the most logical choice for a wife. However, he is drawn towards Sakambari who is a rebellious personality who does not adhere to the traditional expectations of how a woman should act or dress. He finds his philosophies strongly at odds with Sakambari's and their acquaintance leads him to reevaluate his past life and actions. He comes to accept his acts such as the rape of three women he committed during the war, which he had previously rationalised as acceptable under the peril of immediate death both he and his victims were under at the time, as criminal. Suyog finds himself unable to continue without love or redemption. Reasoning that either Bari will accept him and he will have happiness or she will hurt or kill him for the transgression giving him redemption, Suyog gets hold of her and kisses her. However, Bari simply looks deeply into him and strides off, vanishing into the house. Suyog is left distraught and confused. Months after the incident, he finds out that Sakambari has died

Theatre Mall in Nepal is enacting famous writer Parijat's novel "Shirish ko Phul" which was released back in 1964. Theatre director Kedar Shrestha says he is excited as audience are starting to roll in first time since the Covid-19 pandemic. Listen to his conversation with Nepal correspondent Sewa Bhattarai. - २०२२ सालमा प्रकाशित साहित्यकार पारिजातको प्रसिद्ध उपन्यास शिरीषको फूललाई थिएटर मलले नाटकका रूपमा प्रदर्शन गर्न थालेको छ। कोभिडको महामारीपछि काठमाण्डूमा अनलाइन नाटक प्रदर्शन सम्बन्धी एकाध प्रयोगहरू भएता पनि भौतिक रूपमा भर्खरै मात्र नाटकहरू प्रदर्शन हुन थालेका हुन्। नेपाल संवाददाता सेवा भट्टराईले थिएटर मलका निर्देशक तथा शिरीषको फूल नाटकका परिकल्पनाकार केदार श्रेष्ठसँग कुराकानी गरेकी छिन्।

Pregnancy After Loss // Learning how to come back to your body // Trauma management Parijat Deshpande is the leading integrative high-risk pregnancy specialist, somatic trauma professional and speaker, and author who guides women to improve their pregnancy complications so they can reduce their risk of preterm birth. Her unique neurobiological approach has served hundreds of women to manage pregnancy complications and reclaim a safety and trust in their bodies that they thought was eroded forever. Parijat is the author of the bestselling book Pregnancy Brain: A Mind-Body Approach to Stress Management During a High-Risk Pregnancy. She is also the host of the popular podcast Delivering Miracles®️, that discusses the real, raw side of family-building including infertility, loss, high-risk pregnancy, bed rest, prematurity, and healing once baby comes home. If you want to understand how to best prepare your mind and body for pregnancy after trauma (or late term loss) this is the conversation for you. Parijat shares how important it is to learn how to come back to your body and listen to what it needs, which in turn will help you manage anxiety in a way that will allow you to get through your pregnancy peacefully. LISTEN TO HEAR: ✨The definition of trauma and how trauma memories can impact you ✨ What you need to understand about your body when experiencing pregnancy after loss ✨Learning to understand what trigger emotions feels like in your body ✨ Parijat's advice on what it means to come home to your back and what to consider when you are #ttc DAY 1 Instagram: @day1fertility | @egetz TikTok: @day1podcast Website: Day 1 Fertility PARIJAT DESHPANDE Instagram: @healthy.highriskpregnancy Website: www.parijatdeshpande.com

Our November virtual event is only a week and a half away! Which is why for this week's podcast episode, we are sharing a replay of an episode from season 3 with Parijat Deshpande! Parijat is the keynote speaker of our November event, and if you are on the fence about registering and long to learn more about Parijat and her practice, this episode is a great episode to do just that.For more information about our upcoming virtual event on November 13th and for tickets, head here!---Have you tried exercising after your trauma but found yourself feeling particularly triggered? If so, you are not alone and you are absolutely not broken. Today we have the one and only Parijat Desphande with Healthy High Risk Pregnancy on the podcast to talk all about exercise and trauma! With swimsuit season soon approaching, we know there is an increased pressure to “get our bodies back”. But for NICU mothers and women who have experienced trauma throughout their family building journey, exercise isn't always that simple.In this episode we cover:Why might exercise trigger a trauma response in our bodies?Why might “getting our body back” not be as simple for NICU mothers?When might a mama know that a form of exercise isn't quite right or isn't honoring her body's stored trauma?What are some gentle forms of exercise that a mama could start with that would nourish her body if she is longing to take care of herself?We hope this episode affirms the mamas in our sisterhood that your body is on your side. Most importantly? You are worthy and loved just as you are.Parijat Deshpande is the leading integrative high-risk pregnancy specialist, somatic trauma professional and speaker and author who guides women to improve their pregnancy complications so they can reduce their risk of preterm birth. Her unique neurobiological approach has served hundreds of women to manage pregnancy complications and reclaim a safety and trust in their bodies that they thought was eroded forever. Parijat is the author of bestselling book Pregnancy Brain: A Mind-Body Approach to Stress Management During a High-Risk Pregnancy. She is also the host of the popular podcast Delivering Miracles®️, that discusses the real, raw side of family-building including infertility, loss, high-risk pregnancy, bed rest, prematurity and healing once baby comes home.To get connected with Parijat Deshpande: Website | Instagram | Facebook | Delivering Miracles® PodcastParijat's Book, Pregnancy Brain - Available on Kindle and paperback on Amazon and Barnes & Noble. - https://parijatdeshpande.lpages.co/pregnancybrain/This podcast episode is not an attempt to practice medicine or provide medical advice. All information, content, and material on this website is for informational purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis or treatment.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/dearnicumama)

Today's episode focuses on high-risk pregnancies. My guest Parijat Deshpande shares specific strategies for coping with the stressful realities of high risk pregnancies to ultimately reduce birth complications and reduce the risk of having a pre-term birth. Parijat Deshpande is the leading integrative high-risk pregnancy specialist, somatic trauma professional and speaker and author who guides women to improve their pregnancy complications so they can reduce their risk of preterm birth. Her unique neurobiological approach has served hundreds of women to manage pregnancy complications and reclaim a safety and trust in their bodies that they thought was eroded forever. Parijat is the author of bestselling book Pregnancy Brain: A Mind-Body Approach to Stress Management During a High-Risk Pregnancy. She is also the host of the popular podcast Delivering Miracles®️, that discusses the real, raw side of family-building including infertility, loss, high-risk pregnancy, bed rest, prematurity and healing once baby comes home. Learn more about Parijat Deshpande and her work at www.parijatdeshpande.com.   Today's episode is sponsored by the Fertility Awareness Mastery Online Self Study Program! Today's episode is sponsored by the Fertility Awareness Mastery Online Self-Study Course. The most in-depth and comprehensive online fertility awareness self-study program available. Click here to join now! Today's episode is also sponsored by Saturee! Liver is one of the most nutrient dense foods available! Liver is rich in folate, choline, vitamin B12, iron, vitamin A, selenium, zinc, coenzyme Q10 and the list goes on, but unless you grew up eating it, you may have a hard time loving the taste. Saturee A+ liver capsules contain 100% Australian grass fed and finished beef liver with no fillers or preservatives. Click here to purchase today and enter coupon code FERTILITYFRIDAY for a 5% discount off your order! [powerpress] Topics discussed in today's episode: What inspired Parijat to begin her work in women's health How her own fertility and pregnancy journey impacted her Identifying what stress really is and how it affects the body Strategies to manage your stress during pregnancy How stress can affect your menstrual cycle Knowing when is the right time to use specific tools (meditation, journaling, etc.) in your stress cycle The importance of getting yourself back to safety post-trauma before getting pregnant again Why it's important to remember we cannot feel joy if we don't feel safe Positive effects of re-regulating your nervous system during pregnancy Connect with Parijat: You can connect with Parijat on her Facebook, Website, and LinkedIn. Resources mentioned: Pregnancy Brain: A Mind-Body Approach to Stress Management During a High-Risk Pregnancy Delivering Miracles®️Podcast The Fifth Vital Sign: Master Your Cycles & Optimize Your Fertility (Book) | Lisa Hendrickson-Jack Fertility Awareness Mastery Charting Workbook Fertility Awareness Mastery Online Self-Study Program Related podcasts & blog posts: FFP 261 | Medical Gaslighting, Feminism, Reproductive Health, and Abortion | Nicole Jardim FFP 248 | Abdominal Therapy for Fertility, Conception, and Emotional Healing | Andrea Thompson [On-Air Client Session] FFP 237 | Demystifying the Cervix | Lisa & Dana FFP 232 | Birth Stories | Planning and Preparing for Birth | Dr. Danielle Miller FFP 133 | Preparing for Pregnancy and Childbirth Naturally | Mama Natural (Genevieve Howland) FFP 117 | What do Midwives Do? | Is it Safe to Have Babies at Home? | Midwifery Care in Canada | Candice Syme R.M. FFP 043 | The Role of Birth and Postpartum Doulas in the Birthing Process | Placenta Encapsulation | Fertility Awareness | Sarah Moloney Join the community! Find us in the Fertility Friday Facebook Group. Subscribe to the Fertility Friday Podcast in Apple Podcasts! Music Credit: Intro/Outro music Produced by J-Gantic A Special Thank You to Our Show Sponsors: Fertility Friday | Fertility Awareness Programs This episode is sponsored by my Fertility Awareness Programs! Master Fertility Awareness and take a deep dive into your cycles and how they relate to your overall health! Click here to apply now! The Fertility Awareness Charting Workbook This episode is sponsored by my new book the Fertility Awareness Mastery Charting. Click here to buy now.

Les dejo un pequeño viaje o meditación para aliviar nuestro corazón. La música que usé es del músico Parijat.

This week's episode is a mini episode all about our upcoming event on November 13th, 2021! If you've had any questions about our event or wondered what to expect when attending the event, we hope this episode answers some of those questions!Our “Be Proud of Who you've Become” event is designed specifically for current and past NICU mamas. Featuring renowned high-risk pregnancy specialist, author, speaker, and NICU mama, Parijat Desphande as our keynote speaker and Anese Barnett, maternal mental health expert and founder of The Breakthrough Mama. This special event will offer the opportunity to learn about trauma after the NICU, meet NICU mamas from around the world, and discover the hope of healing.All registrations will include admission to our live event on November 13, 2021, access to the recording after the event, and a Dear NICU Mama gift box mailed prior to event. (Event registrations must be received by November 1st in order to receive your box by the event date. For attendees outside of the United States, please know that there may be delays, and we will do our best to get it to you on time!)Event Schedule:3:00 PM Pre-Event Reflection with Anese Barnett4:00 PM Welcome4:15 PM Keynote: Parijat Deshpande5:00 PM Q&A with Parijat Desphande5:30 PM BREAK5:40 PM Life After NICU Panel6:25 PM Breakout Session7:30 PM Closing & Post-Event Reflection with Anese Barnett** Need-based scholarships available! If you are interested in requesting a scholarship or funding a scholarship for another mama, please email hello@dearnicumama.com **For previous podcasts episodes with Parijat, head here or here.  For our previous podcast episode with Anese, head here!To register, head to www.dearnicumama.com/events! We'd love to have you join us.To get connected with DNM: Website | Private Facebook Group | InstagramSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/dearnicumama)

Parijat joins me to define stress, and to explain how stress impacts the body, specifically during pregnancy, and how she helps women feel safe in their bodies again after birth/pregnancy trauma. We also discuss stress during parenting. Parijat explains how we can begin to retrain our stress response patterns to both during the pregnancy/childbirth stage and beyond in day to day life. You can find Parijat here: W: parijatdeshpande.com IG: instagram.com/healthy.highriskpregnancy Book: pregnancybrainbook.com Seminar: parijatdeshpande.com/flp (Receive 15% off with code TAYLORK) --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/taylorkulik/support

Awakening Poetry to live yourSelf in honesty, expressing your original heart's voice, beyond conditionings_ let these dissolve by the strenght of your unconditional love. Feel your highest feelings as a path to return to your center. Don't attach to these, but pursue determination to be Limitless Acceptance. Hear the winds calling you home. Change is around the corner. Will you courage to be anewed by the Grace within you? With deep love ○ The beautiful song playing in the background is called Prayer to Love, by Parijat; no copyright intended, just listening to inspiring music, while I tune in, to transmit from the sacred center within. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/languagesoflight/message

Light Coding and Soul Language for transforming worry, recreating an emotional and physical belly that is receptive, relaxed, eased into celebration. We are aligned, even if sometimes don't see or feel this way, we are actually never not aligned with our Destiny. So, breathe deeply in self- assurance, in self- trust. You are your own guide. Follow yourself fully. With love♡ The beautiful song playing in the background is called Ease, by Parijat; no copyright intended, just listening to inspiring music, while I tune in, to transmit from the sacred center within. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/languagesoflight/message

Wind poetry combined with Wind Whispered Light Language - an invocation for a new beginning, plugged in and expressed from the ☆ I am that I am ☆ When our thoughts, feelings, intentions and actions are in the frequency of Teamwork, we are in coherence, we begin to see clearly our Authentic Soul Style... we begin to enchant our own heart and the hearts of others into Harmony, Openness, Playfulness. Enjoy, wind women and men

The music playing in the background is Golden Light, by Parijat, no copyright intended, just inspiring --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/languagesoflight/message

Parijat Deshpande is the author of The Pregnancy Brain: A Mind-Body Approach to Stress Management During a High-Risk Pregnancy. In this episode, Parijat shared her expertise on what it means to have a high-risk pregnancy.   Highlights of the Episode:    What is a high-risk pregnancy?  The importance of acknowledging birth traumatic stress.   Resources:   Connect with Parijat:   Parijat's book: https://amzn.to/3h4biS3 Website: www.parijatdeshpande.com Instagram: @healthy.highriskpregnancy   Connect with Shelly:   Website: www.shellytaftibclc.com Instagram: @shellytaftibclc

○ Music playing in the background: Celestial Return, by Parijat * no copyright intended, just Love --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/languagesoflight/message

Parijat Deshpande returns to the podcast to unpack the topic of trauma and health complications. You may remember Parijat from episode 47 when we talked about managing trauma and grief associated with infertility and loss. Now she's back to dive deeper into the effects that fertility trauma, birth trauma, and postpartum trauma have on our physical bodies. Don't miss this episode of "Me, Myself & Millie!"

There's a reason this podcast caught your eye, likely because you're feeling a bit stressed and want to know how this could affect your pregnancy and baby. While stress is a normal part of life, especially at times of great change, like pregnancy and new parenthood, it could create imbalances in the nervous system, endocrine system, and immune system.  In this episode of Yoga| Birth|Babies, I speak with the leading integrative high-risk pregnancy specialist and author, Parijat Deshpande. Parijat explains what exactly is stress and how our bodies react to stress. She also shares how small simple movements and calling upon your 5 senses can help release stress and come back into your body.  Support Our Sponsors  Lovevery: Get free shipping when you sign up to receive your Play Kits at LoveEvery.com/YBB Unidragon: Go to unidragon.com and use my code: YBB for 10% off your purchase.  Get the most out of each episode by checking out the show notes with links, resources and other related podcasts at: prenatalyogacenter.com  If you love what you've been listening to, please leave a rating and review! Yoga| Birth|Babies To connect with Deb and the PYC Community:  Instagram & Facebook: @prenatalyogacenter Youtube: Prenatal Yoga Center Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to another heart-warming episode of Outgrow the Grind! In today's episode, we are joined by Parijat Desphande. Parijat shares how she's outgrown two different phases of "the grind." Before kids, Parijat was fully booked day-to-day, and she loved it! She was very happy teaching, meeting with clients, being with family, and spending time with friends. It didn't feel like a grind at all. Parijat's pregnancy with her son was high-risk. She was put on bed rest after week 6, and then had her son earlier than planned. She was in the hospital for a while and then nervously had to wait for her son to come home.  After bringing home her son, Parijat was on lockdown, only leaving the house for doctor's appointments. During this time, she noticed that she went from one extreme to the other and realized that neither way nourished her.  

Today have on the author of Pregnancy Brain, Parijat Deshpande. On the show, we talk about two key topics we get questions about all the time, Premie health and High-Risk Pregnancy.  Parijat is an expert when it comes to healthy high-risk pregnancies, and she is also the mom of a micro premie. Through her expertise and experience, she brings a whole new edge to this amazing interview.  Here's what we discuss in today's episode:   - All about Parijat and her story   - What are premature babies? - Reasons babies are born prematurely   - Short term and long term risks for premature births   - Parijat's tips for parents with premature babies   - Her advice for moms who are experiencing rough times due to premature birth   - Her tips for Moms on how to take care of premies   - When do high-risk pregnancies happen?   - How early can a high-risk pregnancy be detected?   - Parijat's advice for moms who are currently experiencing a high-risk pregnancy   - About her book   - Her one tip for moms everywhere   - A quote she lives by   - Her Instagram page   Check out her book: Pregnancy Brain, Instagram, and her website. They are listed out, below.  Website:  https://parijatdeshpande.com/  IG:  @healthy.highriskpregnancy  Parijat's Book, Pregnancy Brain - Available on Kindle and paperback on Amazon and Barnes & Noble.  https://parijatdeshpande.lpages.co/pregnancybrain/  MomTalks with Christa and Mommy Knows Best is committed to providing informational, motivational, and inspiring videos to all moms. Statements in this video are for informational purposes only and are not to be taken as medical advice or recommendation. Any health concern or condition should be brought to the attention of your doctor.  Mommy Knows Best YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/Mommyknowsbest  Join our Private Facebook Group: New Moms - Breastfeeding & More Support Group by Mommy Knows Best: https://bit.ly/3gQIF9z  This episode was sponsored by Mommy Knows Best. Mommy Knows Best is a brand dedicated to empowering all moms on their journey with support, tips, and products to help boost their milk supply.  Visit Mommy Knows Best at www.mommyknowsbest.com or follow us on Instagram @mommyknowsbest  

Have you tried exercising after your trauma but found yourself feeling particularly triggered? If so, you are not alone and you are absolutely not broken. Today we have the one and only Parijat Desphande with Healthy High Risk Pregnancy on the podcast to talk all about exercise and trauma! With swimsuit season soon approaching, we know there is an increased pressure to “get our bodies back”. But for NICU mothers and women who have experienced trauma throughout their family building journey, exercise isn't always that simple.In this episode we cover:Why might exercise trigger a trauma response in our bodies?Why might “getting our body back” not be as simple for NICU mothers?When might a mama know that a form of exercise isn't quite right or isn't honoring her body's stored trauma?What are some gentle forms of exercise that a mama could start with that would nourish her body if she is longing to take care of herself?We hope this episode affirms the mamas in our sisterhood that your body is on your side. Most importantly? You are worthy and loved just as you are.Parijat Deshpande is the leading integrative high-risk pregnancy specialist, somatic trauma professional and speaker and author who guides women to improve their pregnancy complications so they can reduce their risk of preterm birth. Her unique neurobiological approach has served hundreds of women to manage pregnancy complications and reclaim a safety and trust in their bodies that they thought was eroded forever. Parijat is the author of bestselling book Pregnancy Brain: A Mind-Body Approach to Stress Management During a High-Risk Pregnancy. She is also the host of the popular podcast Delivering Miracles®️, that discusses the real, raw side of family-building including infertility, loss, high-risk pregnancy, bed rest, prematurity and healing once baby comes home.To get connected with Parijat Deshpande:Website | Instagram | Facebook | Delivering Miracles® PodcastParijat's Book, Pregnancy Brain - Available on Kindle and paperback on Amazon and Barnes & Noble. - https://parijatdeshpande.lpages.co/pregnancybrain/This podcast episode is not an attempt to practice medicine or provide medical advice. All information, content, and material on this website is for informational purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis or treatment.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/dearnicumama)

Parijat and Cathyann share about ... fighting to have your baby the neuro-endo connection working intimately with clients allowing your body to work the way it was intended to work challenges and fears associated with pregnancy Connect with Parijat | Website | Instagram | Facebook | Book Cathyann's Info: 50 Days of Releasing & Letting Go Membership - Release, Let Go & Get Ready For Baby | VIP Intensive Fertility Coaching Session | Download Eating According To Your Menstrual Cycle Seasons | Facebook | Instagram

Today we talk to Parijat Deshpande, leading high-risk pregnancy specialist, somatic trauma professional, speaker, and author.  She has helped hundreds of women work safely navigate difficult pregnancies, and prevent further complications by healing past trauma with her unique neurobiological approach. She is also the author of the bestselling book Pregnancy Brain: A Mind-Body Approach to Stress Management During a High-Risk Pregnancy. We talk about the chronic structural damage that trauma can do to the brain and how it affects the nervous system in the future. We talk about how that somatic trauma affects pregnancy and how Parijat starts breaking these patterns. We also talk about humans store memory in the body and the way that pregnancy can trigger memories that cause fear and tension. We then talk about what makes a pregnancy "high risk" and some of the factors that can put a pregnancy in that category. We talk about how to prevent the stressful parts of high risk pregnancy from storing as trauma in order to help mitigate future problems. We talk about what can be done in every stage of pregnancy to work on encoded trauma and prevent the storage of future trauma. Finally we discuss the way unresolved trauma affects postpartum anxiety and depression. We talk about how partners and family can be involved with the regulation and release of trauma in pregnancy and postpartum situations. To learn more, visit https://www.parijatdeshpande.com/ For Any Questions, Email Us at media@birthcircle.com

This week, Aditi and Danyelle (www.pilsc.org) are proud to welcome Parijat Deshpande to the Beyond the Loss podcast. Parijat is a clinical therapist, an author, an advocate and high-risk pregnancy specialist. Her book Pregnancy Brain: A Mind-Body Approach to Stress Management During a High-Risk Pregnancy, was named One of the Best Pregnancy Books by Bookauthority. To get more information on Parijat, you can reach her through: - Twitter: @ParijatDesh - Facebook: @ParijatDesh - Instagram: @healthy.highriskpregnancy - Website: https://www.parijatdeshpande.com/ For immediate peer support across each stage of the journey text our national Pregnancy & Infant Loss Helpline at 1-888-910-1551 or chat on our website at www.pilsc.org

Parijat Deshpande is the leading integrative high-risk pregnancy specialist, somatic trauma professional and speaker and author who guides women to improve their pregnancy complications so they can reduce their risk of preterm birth. Her unique neurobiological approach has served hundreds of women to manage pregnancy complications and reclaim a safety and trust in their bodies that they thought was eroded forever. Parijat is the author of bestselling book Pregnancy Brain: A Mind-Body Approach to Stress Management During a High-Risk Pregnancy. She is also the host of the popular podcast Delivering Miracles®️, that discusses the real, raw side of family-building including infertility, loss, high-risk pregnancy, bed rest, prematurity and healing once baby comes home. Learn more at http://parijatdeshpande.com/ (parijatdeshpande.com) IG: @healthy.highriskpregnancy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ParijatDesh/ (https://www.facebook.com/ParijatDesh/) Parijat's Book, Pregnancy Brain - Available on Kindle and paperback on Amazon and Barnes & Noble. https://parijatdeshpande.lpages.co/pregnancybrain/ (https://parijatdeshpande.lpages.co/pregnancybrain/) Listen to the Delivering Miracles®️ podcast - https://www.parijatdeshpande.com/podcast (https://www.parijatdeshpande.com/podcast)

Parijat Deshpande is the leading high-risk pregnancy specialist, somatic trauma professional and speaker and author who guides women to improve their pregnancy complications so they can reduce their risk of preterm birth. Her unique neurobiological approach has served hundreds of women to manage pregnancy complications and reclaim a safety and trust in their bodies that they thought was eroded forever. She's also the author of bestselling book Pregnancy Brain: A Mind-Body Approach to Stress Management During a High-Risk Pregnancy and the host of the popular podcast Delivering Miracles®, discussing the real, raw side of family-building including infertility, loss, high-risk pregnancy, bed rest, prematurity and healing once baby comes home.  In this convo, we cover Parijat's own fertility journey - including life-threatening loss, IVF, bedrest, delivering her son at 25 weeks, working with a gestational carrier to bring her daughter into the world, her work on trauma and traumatic loss healing, how she coped with being on bedrest from six weeks on, what the gestational carrier pregnancy experience was like for her, what it felt like when her book was officially LAUNCHED out into the world, and more. Enjoy! ______________________________ If you enjoyed this episode, safe to say you will LOVE The Naptime Empires Survival Guide - a free email-and-audio series I created to help get you out of overwhelm / hiding in the bathroom and back into aligned, imperfect action. Get started here: http://naptimeempires.com/guide ________________________________ SHOW NOTES: http://naptimeempires.com/074  FB GROUP: http://naptimeempires.com/facebook INSTA: http://instagram.com/nikkielledgebrown MUSIC: "So Far So Close" by Jahzzar is licensed under an Attribution-ShareAlike License.Would you like to deliver your own private podcast feed to your audience? Sign up for a free trial today at Hello Audio.

Parijat's advice: "Trust your body. Your doctor is the medical expert in the room, but they will never be the expert on your body, that's you. So don't ever forget that. Bring your expertise into the room. Make them listen. Explain what's going on as clearly as you can, and if they won't listen, walk away." Today, Parijat Deshpande and I talked about: Parijat's own story of high-risk pregnancy.  She had endometriosis, and needed to use IFV to get pregnant. Ovarian hyperstimulation syndrome is rare but can happen if you doing an egg retrieval and transfer right after. Preterm labor contractions can worsen when when you are in pain, when you are uncomfortable, and when your anxiety is high. Because she was monitored constantly, she could tell that those things caused contractions immediately. So she made sure to get rid of the pain, make herself comfortable, and reduce her anxiety, which gave the baby an extra 15 days, allowing him to have a chance at life. Anxiety that's held in your body, not the mind, is the most dangerous for your reproductive health. This anxiety causes actual physiological stress response in your body. When you control that, you cause chemical changes that help you manage and heal the complications you have. If you lose a pregnancy, the shock will hit 3-5 days after. Get the support you need to go through that. (You can find help in episode 8 - Sunshine Through the Storm) of The Hardy Mom Podcast at HardyMom.com You can find help for postpartum depression here Parijat's superpower: Being able to put somebody else's experience into words when they can't. You can learn more about Parijat Deshpande and her work at www.parijatdeshpande.com Book Link: www.parijatdeshpande.com https://www.facebook.com/ParijatDesh https://twitter.com/parijatdesh/ https://www.instagram.com/parijatdesh https://www.pinterest.com/parijatdesh https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCS-y3p6DfELaZd3Fp7nYtA Thank you for joining me today!  Want more? Go to HardyMom.com and you'll find ways to live well, grow, and enjoy your life again -with any health challenges. I'd love to hear what you think about this episode! Send me a message at HardyMom.com/contact Have a blessed week, Jen   Our music is "A New Day," by Scott Holmes

Parijat Deshpande is the leading high-risk pregnancy expert who educates and guides women on how to manage their stress, anxiety and overall wellness so they can have healthier pregnancies, decrease their risk of preterm birth and give their baby a healthy start to life. Parijat is a clinically trained therapist, a women's wellness expert and an experienced speaker on the impact of stress on health and wellness. She has over 4 years of experience as a Psychology Lecturer UC Berkeley and is the founder of MySahana, a South Asian mental health nonprofit. Parijat is a member of the American College of Lifestyle Medicine and is also a certified wellness coach, a certified stress management coach and a certified marriage educator. Find Parijat online: www.ParijatDeshpande.com Want to continue the conversation? Join us over at the Nurtured Mama Community on Facebook! https://www.facebook.com/groups/nurturedmamacommunity/ Learn more about Eat. Be. Nurture. --The online program that helps moms eat with joy, live in the moment and nurture their inner power. http://thenurturedmama.club/ebn FREE DOWNLOADS Find Peace with Food for the Holidays - A 5 day audio series that lands straight in your inbox! Topics we're covering... -Why the heck is food so tough during the holidays and what can I do about it? -Steps to finding peace with food during the holidays -But, what if I overdo it? -Am I eating emotionally or eating with emotion? -How to know when to say yes and no + cope ahead Sign up here ----> https://thenurturedmama.club/free-holiday-audio-series/ Get your FREE Post-Baby Body Image Booster eBook today! 7 Action Steps - 1 Breathing Exercise - 5 Body and #momlife Affirmations to Save on Your Phone. Get is here--->http://bit.ly/2i21IQG)   Learn more about The Nurtured Mama at www.thenurturedmama.club