Podcasts about shame shame

Neha discusses the complexities of trauma, particularly in the context of Indian culture, where societal narratives around sexuality and gender create challenges for both men and women.

Sunday night 1/19/25 - Tonight's message is titled "No Shame, Shame On Me" - Romans 1:16 - Pastor James Eakins

Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL. If you're ready to fully commit to your personal growth and do the work to get emotionally sober (side effects include an 80 percent reduction in drinking),You'll walk away from our call with a clear understanding of how to get the skills you need to transform your life.   —Want daily updates from me? Find me on TikTok @hangoverwhisperer and IG @thehangoverwhisperer     —Click here to TAKE THE QUIZ: Do you have a drinking problem or a thinking problem? In this powerful and vulnerable episode, we explore how shame, one of the most corrosive human emotions, can shape our lives and fuel destructive behaviors like alcohol use. Colleen explains how shame works like an autoimmune disorder for the soul—turning us against ourselves and making us feel unworthy. She delves into the mental constructs that fuel the shame narrative and teaches us how to shift from self-judgment to self-acceptance. Colleen also shares a deeply personal story from her past to illustrate how shame can linger and how we can process it using a three-step framework for healing. Whether you're struggling with a drinking habit or just want to learn how to heal old emotional wounds, this episode offers actionable tools to help you move forward with dignity and self-respect. Key Topics Covered: The Nature of Shame Shame as an “autoimmune emotion”—turning self against self. How shame leads us to identify ourselves as the problem rather than looking at behaviors or circumstances neutrally. The mental constructs that fuel shame: right vs. wrong, worthy vs. unworthy, acceptable vs. unacceptable. Neutralizing Polarities How viewing things in extremes (good vs. bad) intensifies shame. The importance of accepting situations as they are—without judgment—to process and heal shame. Personal Story: A Shame Wound from the Past Colleen shares a story from her early teaching career where she made a mistake that caused lasting shame. How avoidance, justification, and self-judgment kept the shame active for years. Why acknowledging the full truth, without justifying or minimizing, is essential to healing. Three-Step Framework for Processing Shame: Step 1: It Could Have Been Worse Acknowledge that while the situation wasn't ideal, it could have been more harmful. This perspective helps reduce the emotional charge. Step 2: I Am Innocent Accept that you were doing the best you could with the tools you had at the time. Hold space for conflicting truths—you can make a mistake and still be a good person. Step 3: Be Your Own Advocate Extend dignity and self-respect to yourself. Recognize that your body lives in the present moment and does not deserve punishment for a past story. The Path to Emotional Sobriety Learning to hold space for your whole truth without demonizing or glorifying. Why avoiding or skipping over shame only perpetuates it. How emotional safety with yourself is the foundation for true healing. Actionable Homework: Bring Shame into Consciousness Recall a past experience that still triggers emotional pain. Allow yourself to feel the discomfort without turning away. Apply the Three Steps: It could have been worse. I am innocent; I did the best I could with what I knew. I deserve dignity and self-respect. Practice Self-Compassion Put your hand on your heart and tell yourself: “I see you. I feel you. I'm not going to abandon you.” Quote of the Episode: “The path to healing your shame is not about building a stronger defense. It's about dropping the defense altogether and saying, ‘This is what it is, and I accept the whole truth.'”  

Desperate to shake off a rough few years, Maree opts for a colonic cleanse over scrapbooking, but her experience is far from the rejuvenation she imagined. From a dodgy venue to unexpected “fireworks,” Maree's story is a laugh-out-loud reflection on health fads, menopause, and what it really means to let go. Recorded live at Barefaced Stories on Sept 2024, the theme of the night was Shame Shame. UPCOMING SHOWS & WORKSHOPS:  BOOK HERE Barefaced Stories are told live onstage in Western Australia, and is Australia's leading homegrown live storytelling event. Connect with Us: Facebook: @BarefacedStoriesPerth – Swing by for the latest. Instagram: @BarefacedStories – For all the behind-the-scenes action. Twitter: @BrutallyFranko – Straight-up chat, no fluff. Email: info@barefaced.com.au – drop us a line anytime! Podcast Host & Production Wizard: Andrea Gibbs the voice guiding you through each story, making sure you're always in for a good time. Musical Vibes: Odette Mercy & Her Soul Atomics Pics & Vids: Lewis Martin, whose photography and videography immortalise the raw emotion of live storytelling. Marketing & Social Guru: Leah Sellwood – She's the one spreading the word, getting our stories out there on your feeds. Big Cheers to Our Sponsor: Old Young's Distillery – They craft spirits as bold and unique as our storytellers. So there you have it – the crew behind Barefaced Stories Official Podcast. Tune in, kick back, and enjoy a new story each week!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tim is a self-described peace-loving bloke, more into tea and poetry than bar fights—until one night, an encounter with a carload of bullies pushes him to the edge. With adrenaline and a touch of rage, he finds himself in an unforgettable showdown.  Recorded live at Barefaced Stories, the theme of the night was Shame Shame. NEXT SHOW: The Music Edition, Rechabite Hall Dec 19 BOOK HERE Barefaced Stories are told live onstage in Western Australia, and is Australia's leading homegrown live storytelling event. Connect with Us: Facebook: @BarefacedStoriesPerth – Swing by for the latest. Instagram: @BarefacedStories – For all the behind-the-scenes action. Twitter: @BrutallyFranko – Straight-up chat, no fluff. Email: info@barefaced.com.au – drop us a line anytime! Podcast Host & Production Wizard: Andrea Gibbs the voice guiding you through each story, making sure you're always in for a good time. Musical Vibes: Odette Mercy & Her Soul Atomics Pics & Vids: Lewis Martin, whose photography and videography immortalise the raw emotion of live storytelling. Marketing & Social Guru: Leah Sellwood – She's the one spreading the word, getting our stories out there on your feeds. Big Cheers to Our Sponsor: Old Young's Distillery – They craft spirits as bold and unique as our storytellers. So there you have it – the crew behind Barefaced Stories Official Podcast. Tune in, kick back, and enjoy a new story each week!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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In our third episode on emotions, I dive into anger and shame, exploring how these powerful feelings affect us and how we can effectively manage them. I'll share my personal experiences with anger and shame, including recent situations involving my daughter. I hope this episode helps you better understand how embracing and comprehending these emotions can prevent them from controlling our lives. Anger: Anger is a natural response to perceived wrongs, injustice, and unmet needs. It signals the need for change and can be productive when addressed intentionally. The importance of not holding onto anger. Taking compassion breaks to calm down. Expressing anger through physical movement or creative outlets like writing. Validating anger to remove associated shame. Recognizing anger as a secondary emotion that often masks deeper feelings of fear, sadness, or shame. Shame: Shame is a vulnerable emotion linked to feelings of being flawed or unworthy. The difference between shame (feeling bad about oneself) and guilt (feeling bad about an action). How shame manifests in behaviors like avoidance, aggression, and people-pleasing. The negative consequences of shame and how it leads to undesirable actions. The power of empathy in countering shame. Discussing shame to diminish its power. Managing Anger and Shame: Regulating emotions by anchoring and creating a sense of safety. Building a self-compassion practice to strengthen your relationship with yourself. Speaking to yourself with kindness, as you would to a friend. Developing resilience by understanding your shame triggers. Talking to a trusted person about your feelings. Resources mentioned in this episode:Brene BrownThe Grand Hotel of FeelingsDr. BeckyRage on the PageThe Emotion Code Connect with Brittny:Instagram: @brittnyking_Website: www.brittnyking.comEmail: hello@brittnyking.com

Welcome to another episode of The Story of Rock and Roll Show.  S7E26 went out live from my studio in Benoni on Rebel Rock Radio at 19h00 on 27 June 2024.  It's hard to believe we are halfway through the year already, time flies when you are rockin' out.   On this week's Twisted Triplet, we had three tracks called ‘Animal' and took versions from Pearl Jam, Def Leppard, and Anti-Nowhere League.  They couldn't be more different.        In the evolution of the Foo Fighters, we have the second last release Medicine at Midnight which was recorded during the Covid con and we took a listen to 'Shame Shame'.        Immortals this week came from Accept and a track off Stalingrad titled 'Galley'.    The Diabolical Challenge looked at four bands beginning with the letter ‘B'.  The idea is that we have 4 albums, and you can only pick one.  This week we had: Buckcherry – Time BombThe Black Crowes – Shake Your Money MakerBush – Sixteen StoneBullet for My Valentine – The Poison Bomb Crocodile and Slow Panda's picks of the week were Bruce Springsteen's ‘If I Was The Priest' and Linkin Park's ‘By Myself'.   Artists Featured:  Guns ‘n' Roses, Joel Hoekstra's 13, W.A.S.P., ZZ Top, Candlebox, Extreme, Biters, Dee Snider, Black Sabbath, Megadeth, Wolfmother, Triumph, Pearl Jam, Def Leppard, Anti-Nowhere League, The Rolling Stones, Motörhead, Santana, Grandfunk Railroad, Foo Fighters, Goodbye June, Desolation Angels, Saxon, Iron maiden, The Jam, Accept, Buckcherry, The Black Crowes, Bush, Bullet For My Valentine, Roan Ash, Springbok Nude Girls, The Uninvited, Linkin park, Bruce Springsteen, Tom Petty, Sebastian Bach, Thundermother  The Story of Rock and Roll. TSORR - Your one-stop shop for Rock

AP correspondent Haya Panjwani reports that shouts of 'Shame! Shame!' swept the Arizona House as a fight erupts over the state's newly revived 1864 abortion ban.

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In the thrilling conclusion to our Western Civ I, we tackle shame. Shameless or shameful, shame has a utility. Is it worth examining in the context of romance? You betcha buckaroo. Saddle up while we unpack this particular pair of chaps.

In this episode, we chat about what shame is, how it works, and what we can do as the church to confront it.

In this podcast, Mark walks us through an overview of the impact of shame and how it can work in our lives. This is part 1 of a 4-part series. Thanks for joining us for this teaching! If you benefited from this video, please like it and send it to one friend you know would like it! Remember to subscribe! For more info on counseling, resources, workshops, newsletter, and more go to samaritanswell.com​. Email us questions to cover on the podcast at info@samaritanswell.org. Music from Uppbeat: https://uppbeat.io/t/sky-toes/featherlight License code: GAUXTZHWAYJROEFL Music from Uppbeat: https://uppbeat.io/t/northwestern/all-i-need License code: LQFV9XYEQIWRJLNT Disclaimer: All the information provided by Samaritan's Well on this channel and associated videos are designed to educate the general public on emotional, relational, and spiritual health issues that may affect their daily lives. Nothing in the content or products should be considered or used as a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The information provided by Samaritan's Well and associated videos cannot be used to make a diagnosis or treat any health condition. This channel and website contain general information about conditions and treatments. The medical information on this website is provided “as is” and none of the information provided represents or warrants that any particular service or product is safe, appropriate, or effective for you. Please contact our office to speak with your therapist for further information. If you think you are suffering from a medical condition, please seek immediate attention. Please use this information at your own risk. Samaritan's Well is not responsible directly or indirectly for any issues that may arise from the content shared on this channel.

Shame is heavy and it's real. In this message, Pastor Todd helps us see that when we can identify shame, we can combat it.

You are not a mistake. You are enough. You are loved. You're story is not over and God can and will still use you. In this message, Pastor Alex helps break down the difference between guilt and shame.

SHOW NOTES:John 15:5, Romans 3:10-12, Romans 8:8-11, Galatians 2:20, Philippians 4:13, James 2:24Rule 11: let one who is consoled seek to humble himself and lower himself as much as he can, thinking of how little he is capable in the time of desolation without such grace or consolation. On the contrary, let one who is in desolation think that he can do much with God's sufficient grace to resist all his enemies, taking strength in his Creator and Lord.The Discernment of Spirits: An Ignatian Guide for Everyday Living by Timothy M. OMV Gallagher: https://www.amazon.com/Discernment-Spirits-Ignatian-Everyday-Living/dp/0824522915 St. Charles Borromeo, pray for us!See you in the Eucharist!www.mannafoodforthought.com@mannafoodforthought

This week we confront the many-headed hydra of shame.

Justin Roiland, co-creator of Rick and Morty and other titles, has had a shitstorm of epic proportions fall on his head.  From domestic abuse charges to grooming allegations laced with a liberal helping of homophobic slurs and borderline racist impressions, he isn't looking too good.  Join us this week as we walk through  his current situation with our friend RaeganRageQuit. Check us out at these places: Facebook: The Free Rotation Podcast Twitter: @thefreerotation Instagram: @thefreerotationpodcast YouTube: The Free Rotation Twitch: TheFreeRotation We also have a new Discord! Check it out over at our Twitch channel. Have Amazon Prime and use Twitch? Make sure to link your Amazon Prime account to get one free Twitch subscription a month and feel free to use it on us! #sellout © 2023 Running Joke Media

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Welcome to Passionate Life Church! We are taking a break from our series, Open the Eyes of My Heart this week for our guest speaker Dee Dee Woodman! She is bringing the word, speaking the truth about shame and how we can destroy it! Welcome Home! --------------------------------------------------- Sermon Notes: SHAME Satan's Harassment At My Expense You either destroy Shame or it destroys you. Shame is a prison cell and Satan is your cellmate. John 10:10 NIV 4 Ways Satan comes against us with Shame: Family History In Relationships Past Trauma Hidden Sin When something shameful happens: We cover it up...hide it...pretend it's not there It gets worse...shame fuses to the wound It HURTS...consequences of sin and shame are painful Only the Great Healer can restore us from Shame (sometimes by fire) Psalm 147:3 NIV Isaiah 41:10 NIV "How to pack for camping" Men feel Shame when their competence is questioned. Women are collaborative...men value camaraderie. "He said WHAT?!" Women carry Shame in their bodies...culture, trauma, generational curses all effects us. When is it okay to comment on size or weight? NEVER Ephesians 5:33 NIV Empathy, kindness and vulnerability are powerful antidotes to Shame. Psalm 34:5 NIV Isaiah 61:7 NIV John 4:13-19 NLT John 4:23-30, 39 NLT This is why the enemy wants you trapped in Shame: when you are truly set free from Shame you become an Evangelist...Revival breaks out! GRACE God's Redemption at Christ's Expense Zephaniah 3:17 NIV ------------------------------------------------------------------------- Thanks for listening! If you were positively impacted by this message, please leave us a comment! Be sure to like and subscribe to our channel to stay connected to this house. Join us every Sunday at 9:00am or 10:30am Website: www.passionatelifechurch.com/ Give: www.passionatelifechurch.com/give Spotify: http://bit.ly/passionatelifechurch Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/passionatelifechurch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/passionatelifechurch/ 10393 W Alamo Pl Littleton, CO 80127 Need Prayer? Contact us at passionatelifechurch@gmail.com — ► — Passionate People. Multicultural Environment. Atmosphere to Experience God. You will feel Loved, Refreshed, & Empowered Loved: We have an atmosphere of acceptance and an environment that creates a “come as you are” message. Everyone will feel loved! Refreshed: We serve a God of the Fresh Start! No matter where you've been or what you've done, God wants to refresh you today and every day. Empowered: God wants to grow you into everything He's called you to be and do. We want to give you all of the tools you will need to empower you to live a life fully devoted to Jesus Christ. We are non-denominational & believe that the Bible is truth and fully written by God through man. Need Prayer? Contact us at passionatelifechurch@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/passionatelifechurch/message

What is more reductive than limiting someone to their past mistakes? That is exactly what shame does. This episode we dive into the ways shame belittles us and how we can overcome being reminded of our shortcomings. If you enjoyed this episode please be sure to share this and subscribe for more! Follow me on instagram @shmdlss and @confessionswithaurella

IN THIS EPISODE: ____________ Shame Shame Go Away: FOUR Steps to Stop the Self-Shame Spiral Have you ever felt like you wanted to disappear, embarrassed by your situation, and even pull yourself away from your connections out of SHAME? When you love someone with an addiction, it is common to feel traumatized, flawed, victimized and embarrassed about your situation. IN OTHER WORDS, it's common to feel SHAME. Shame can be defined as a feeling of embarrassment or humiliation that arises in relation to the perception of having done something wrong or failed at something. While it can be easy for some of us to be able to feel and express compassion to others, it's often difficult to extend that same sense of compassion toward our own selves. During these times of SHAME,   But what do I mean by self-compassion? LISTEN IN!!    ____________ Visit the website and click on Podcast to register.  www.savingyouiskillingme.com Connect with the Saving You is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction community here:  https://linktr.ee/SYKM Come JOIN An SYKM Community Meet-Up   The Tap Back Into Your Power Resource, Support, and Network!  Has someone else's problem become your problem? Is loving someone with an addiction leaving you feeling broken, exhausted, and repeatedly disappointed?  It hurts when you love someone who drinks too much or suffers from an addiction. Life is not normal. You may feel alone, but you are not unique in your pain or dilemma. Nor are you isolated in this situation. Saving You Is Killing Me is a helpful guide to light a darkened path. Regardless of the struggle, you are in, loving someone with an addiction is emotionally, psychologically, and physically draining. You must understand that nobody deserves to suffer - you have the right to live a peaceful and fulfilled life that is full of love! You can, and you will find happiness again! Your journey starts by taking back your power and shifting the focus back onto you! With compassion and grace, a positive psychology practitioner and the author of Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone With An Addiction, Andrea Seydel offers support by sharing her personal experiences and the knowledge she used to help navigate the wreckage of her struggle. She exposes the tremendous power of how our relationships can both hurt us and allow us to heal. Trauma is a fact of life, and navigating the turmoil of loving someone with an addiction can be extremely challenging. Saving You Is Killing Me offers new hope for reclaiming your life. Seydel offers insight and learning opportunities for self-healing, recovery, and resilience that foster an empowering way of life. For more support, information, or to share your story of strength, head over to the website:  www.savingyouiskillingme.com Join us in the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/savingyouiskillingme Grab Your Copy of the Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone With an Addiction Book:     

David Eric Grohl was born in Warren, Ohio on January 14, 1969. Mom is teacher Virginia Jean Hanlon and dad was news writer James Harper Grohl. In addition to being an award-winning journalist, Dave's dad had also served as the special assistant to Republican Congressman and US Senator Robert Taft Jr.  When Dave was young, the Grohl family moved to Springfield, Virginia. When he was seven, his parents divorced, and he was raised primarily by his mom. At the age of 12, he began learning to play the guitar. He grew tired of lessons and instead taught himself, eventually playing in bands with friends. He said, "I was going in the direction of faster, louder, darker while my sister, Lisa, three years older, was getting seriously into new wave territory. We'd meet in the middle sometimes with Bowie and Siouxsie and the Banshees." At 13, Grohl and his sister spent the summer at their cousin Tracey's house in Illinois. Cousin Tracey introduced them to punk rock by taking the pair to shows by several different punk bands. His first concert was Naked Raygun at The Cubby Bear in Chicago in 1982. Grohl recalled, "From then on we were totally punk. We went home and bought Maximumrocknroll, (a punk subculture music zine that ran from 1982 to 2019) and tried to figure it all out." In Virginia, he attended Thomas Jefferson High School as a freshman and was shockingly elected class vice-president. He taught himself to play pieces of songs by punk bands like Circle Jerks and Bad Brains and, using his clout as vice president, would play them over the school intercom before his morning announcements. His mother decided he should transfer to Bishop Ireton High School in Alexandria because he was smoking too much weed and it was affecting his grades. He stayed there for two years, one of those repeating his first year.  After his second year, he transferred yet again to Annandale High School. While in high school, he played in several local bands, including a short stint as guitarist in a band called Freak Baby. It was during this period that he thought it was a good idea to switch to learning drums. When Freak Baby kicked out its bass player and reshuffled its lineup, Davel took on the role of drummer and history was made. Show's over, folks! The band then changed their name to “Mission Impossible.” Dave has said he did not take drumming lessons and instead learned by listening to Rush and punk rock bands. Obviously, insanely talented and possible robot and Rush drummer Neil Peart was an early influence: "When I got 2112 when I was eight years old, it fucking changed the direction of my life. I heard the drums. It made me want to become a drummer." During his beginning years as a drummer, Grohl cited John Bonham as his greatest influence, and eventually had Bonham's three-rings symbol tattooed on his right shoulder. Mission Impossible changed their name once again to “Fast” before breaking up, after which Dave joined the hardcore punk band Dain Bramage in December 1985.  Dain Bramage ended in March 1987 when Dave up and quit without warning to join Scream, having produced the I Scream Not Coming Down LP. Many of Dave's early influences were at the 9:30 Club, a music venue in Washington, D.C. He said, "I went to the 9:30 Club hundreds of times. I was always so excited to get there, and I was always bummed when it closed. I spent my teenage years at the club and saw some shows that changed my life." As a teenager in D.C.,Dave briefly thought about joining shock-rocker punk/metal band, GWAR, who were looking for a drummer around this time. At age 17, Dave auditioned with local Washington, D.C. favorites Scream to fill the vacancy left by the departure of drummer Kent Stax. In order to be considered for the position, Dave lied about his age, saying he was 34. I'm kidding but he did say he was older. To Dave's surprise, the band asked him to join and so he pulled a Jay-Z (last week's Icon) and dropped out of high school in his junior year. He has been quoted as saying, "I was 17 and extremely anxious to see the world, so I did it." Over the next four years, Grohl toured extensively with Scream, recording a couple of live albums (their show of May 4, 1990 in Alzey, Germany being released by Tobby Holzinger as Your Choice Live Series Vol.10) and two studio albums, No More Censorship and Fumble, on which Grohl penned and sang vocals on the song "Gods Look Down". During a Toronto stop on their 1987 tour, Grohl played drums for Iggy Pop at a CD release party held at the El Mocambo, which became best known for the 1977 surprise show by The Rolling Stones, which became popular when then Prime Minister Pierre Trudeau's wife, Margaret Trudeau, showed up and partied with the Stones.. In 1990, Scream unexpectedly disbanded mid-tour when bassist Skeeter Thompson left the band. Nirvana (1990–1994) We obviously can't talk about Foo Fighters without discussing Nirvana. They'll definitely have their own episode so we won't get too into them today. While playing in Scream, Grohl became a fan of the Melvins and eventually befriended them. During a 1990 tour stop on the West Coast, Melvins guitarist Buzz Osborne took his friends Kurt Cobain and Krist Novoselic, of future Icons Nirvana, to go see Scream. Grohl called Osborne for advice after Scream disbanded and Osborne informed him that Nirvana was looking for a drummer. He gave Dave the phone numbers of Cobain and Novoselic, who then invited Grohl out to Seattle to audition. Grohl soon joined the band. Novoselic later said, "We knew in two minutes that he was the right drummer." Dave told the U.K. based magazine Q: "I remember being in the same room with them and thinking, 'What? That's Nirvana? Are you kidding?' Because on their record cover they looked like psycho lumberjacks... I was like, 'What, that little dude and that big motherfucker? You're kidding me'." When Dave joined Nirvana, they had already recorded several demos for the follow-up to their debut album Bleach, produced and recorded by Butch Vig. Initially, the plan was to release the album on Sub Pop, but they received a ton of label interest based on their demos. Dave spent the initial months with Nirvana traveling to various labels as the band shopped for a deal, eventually signing with DGC Records. In the spring of 1991, the band entered the infamous Sound City Studios in Los Angeles to record Nevermind as seen in Dave's amazing documentary, Sound City, from 2013. The album Nevermind was released later that year and exceeded all expectations becoming a worldwide commercial success. At the same time, Dave was compiling and recording his own material, which he released on a cassette called Pocketwatch in 1992 on indie label Simple Machines. Rather than using his own name for the project, Dave released the songs under his pseudonym "Late!" In the later years of Nirvana, Dave's songwriting increased. In his first months in Olympia, Washington, Kurt Cobain overheard him working on a song called "Color Pictures of a Marigold", and they wound up working on it together. Dave would later record the song for the Pocketwatch cassette. Dave stated in a 2014 episode of the documentary series, Foo Fighters: Sonic Highways, that Kurt kissed him when he first heard a demo of "Alone + Easy Target" that Dave had recently recorded. According to Dave, "I'd told him I was recording and he said, 'Oh, I wanna hear it, bring it by.' He was sitting in the bath-tub with a walkman on, listening to the song, and when the tape ended, he took the headphones off and kissed me and said, 'Oh, finally, now I don't have to be the only songwriter in the band!' I said, 'No, no, no, I think we're doing just fine with your songs.'" Nirvana would jam Dave's song on soundchecks during their 1991 European tour. Dave reluctantly held back his songs in the beginning. In a 1997 interview he said, "I was in awe of [Kurt Cobain's songs], and [I was] intimidated. I thought it was best that I kept my songs to myself." During the sessions for In Utero, Nirvana's third and final studio album, the band decided to re-record "Color Pictures of a Marigold" and released it as a B-side on the "Heart-Shaped Box" single, with a slight title change; "Marigold". Dave also wrote the main guitar riff for "Scentless Apprentice", another song on In Utero. In a 1993 MTV interview, Kurt had said that, at first, he thought the riff was "kind of boneheaded", but was happy with how the song developed. Part of this development process can be heard  in a demo on the Nirvana box set ``With the Lights Out”, released in 2004. Cobain had said that he was excited at the possibility of having Chris Novoselic and Dave contribute more to the band's songwriting. Before embarking on their 1994 European tour, Nirvana scheduled session time at the popular Robert Lang Studios in Seattle to knock out some demos. The recording session was only 3 days long and Cobain wasn't there for most of it, so Chris and Dave worked on demos of their own songs. They completed several of Dave's songs, including future Foo Fighters songs "Exhausted", "Big Me", "February Stars", and "Butterflies". On the third day, Kurt finally arrived, and the band recorded a demo of a song later Titled "You Know You're Right". It was to be Nirvana's last studio recording.   After the death of Kurt Cobain in 1994, the band known as Nirvana broke up. Dave received numerous offers to work with various artists and there were rumors saying he might join Pearl Jam. Dave almost accepted a position as the drummer for Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers. He later said: "I was supposed to just join another band and be a drummer the rest of my life. I thought that I would rather do what no one expected me to do."  Instead he booked time at Robert Lang Studios in October 1994 and began recording 15 of his own songs. Dave played every instrument and sang every vocal part on the record with the exception of one guitar part on "X-Static", which was played by Greg Dulli of the Afghan Whigs,.  He completed an album's worth of material in only five days and handed out cassette copies of the sessions to his friends for feedback.   Dave hoped to keep his anonymity and release the recordings in a limited run under the title "Foo Fighters", taken from the World War II term "foo fighter", used to refer to unidentified flying objects. "Around the time that I recorded the first FF tape, I was reading a lot of books on UFO's. Not only is it a fascinating subject, but there's a treasure trove of band names in those UFO books!" he said. "So, since I had recorded the first record by myself, playing all the instruments, but I wanted people to think that it was a group, I figured that FOO FIGHTERS might lead people to believe that it was more than just one guy. Silly, huh?" Continuing, Dave contends that a better band name could have been created. "Had I actually considered this to be a career, I probably would have called it something else, because it's the stupidest fucking band name in the world."   The demo tape circulated the music industry, creating serious interest among record labels. This WAS the drummer from arguably the biggest rock band in the world, right?  Dave put together a  band to support the album. He talked to Nirvana bassist Krist Novoselic about joining, but they both decided against it; Dave said it would have felt "really natural" for them to work together, but would have been "weird" for the others and place more pressure on himself.   Having heard about Sunny Day Real Estate breaking up, Dave snagged the group's bass player, Nate Mendel, and their drummer, William Goldsmith. Dave then asked George Ruthenberg to join the band as their second guitarist. George, better known as Pat Smear, played as a touring guitarist for Nirvana after the release of In Utero. Pat was one of the founding members of the iconic punk band, The Germs, and Dave was a huge fan.   Dave then licensed the album to Capitol Records, releasing it on his new record label, Roswell Records. Get it? Roswell. UFO's?   The very first Foo Fighters show happened on February 19th, 1995. They played above a boat house in Seattle in front of friends and family. They made their official live, public debut on February 23rd, 1995 at a gig at the Jambalaya Club in Arcata California. They just happened to be in the area mixing their album when a local promoter asked the cover band, The Unseen, if Foo Fighters could open for them. They agreed.   Dave and his band of Foo Fighters then embarked on their first US tour in April of 1995 in support of The Stooges and Porno For Pyros bass player Mike Watt's solo tour. This tour featured an additional new band called “Hovercraft”, an instrumental outfit featuring Pearl Jam singer, Eddie Vedder. Dave refused to play large venues or even do interviews to promote their debut album. The first single, “This Is A Call”, was released in June of 1995 and the album, “Foo Fighters”, was released in July containing the follow up singles “I'll Stick Around”, “For All the Cows”, and “Big Me”.   Foo Fighters toured for almost an entire year and then jumped right back into the studio. This time it was Bear Creek Studio in Woodinville, Washington with English producer Gil Norton who produced the Pixies, Jimmie Eat World, Counting Crows and so many more.   Dave, of course, wrote the songs but the band had a hand in arrangements. Nearly finished, he took the rough mixes to LA to finish his vocal and guitar parts. As he was listening to the mixes, something just didn't sound right. It wasn't what he envisioned. The drums weren't perfect, not that they were bad. Dave was a drummer. He knew drums. He had a career based on playing the drums and could arguably be considered one of the greatest rock drummers of all time. So, he set up some drums, mic'd them up and re-recorded the drums for the album. All of them.   Dave wanted Goldsmith to remain as their live drummer, but he was rightfully butthurt. Goldsmith quit. He quit what would become one of the biggest rock bands ever. Recently, drummer William Goldsmith has said “It was a pain in the ass. Like, that's the only band that I wish I could just, like, remove that from.” He continued by saying: “It doesn't matter what happened because the Foo Fighters are like Disney. Everyone wants to love Mickey Mouse. Everyone loves Mickey Mouse, so it's a difficult thing, but sometimes Mickey Mouse is a little rough around the edges. It's a no win scenario, so I'd rather remove it. I think the best thing to do is have a one on one conversation with Mickey.” He has gone to say that he has no ill will towards Dave.   Shortly after this, Pat Smear decided to leave, as well, claiming he was exhausted and burnt out. Goldsmith and Smear were replaced by the late, great Taylor Hawkins and former Scream guitarist Franz Stahl, respectively, although Stahl was fired before the recording of the group's third album, There Is Nothing Left to Lose in 1999.    Drummer Taylor Hawkins had played as Alanis Morissette's drummer from June of 1995 until March of 1997 in support of her “Jagged Little Pill” and “Can't Not” tours.   I thought it would be cool to hear Taylor explain how he wound up being Foo Fighters drummer and Dave Grohl's best friend. This is all from interviews Taylor Hawkins and Dave Grohkl did with NME, Entertainment Weekly and Kerrang.   “I'd met Dave at this [US radio station] K-Rock Christmas show because Foo Fighters were on their way up and Alanis Morrissette was through the f***ing stratosphere at that point,”. “Me and Dave just looked like long lost brothers in a weird way.    “We had a similar vibe and I don't know why. I remember my friend playing with the Foo Fighters before I met Dave and watching them goof around backstage. He said to me, ‘That guy could be like your brother.' “And sure enough, when we met, we just thought, ‘We're brothers from another mother!' It was instantaneous – so much so that Alanis Morrisette just said ‘What are you going to do when Dave asks you to be the drummer in the Foo Fighters?'” “I was driving with my girlfriend at the time, and we were listening to KROQ,” “I heard William had departed and they were looking for a new drummer.”   Tylor immediately called Dave. “I said, ‘I heard you guys are looking for a drummer,' and he said, ‘Well, do you know any?' I thought Alanis wanted to go in a more laid-back direction, and it seemed like the right time to jump. Alanis didn't need me! I basically said to Dave, ‘I'll play drums for you,' and we jammed a couple of times.  “I remember I was at home watching Showgirls with my girlfriend, and Dave called to ask if I wanted to join.” Initially, Dave never thought Taylor would leave Morissette and Taylor's allegiance was always with Alanis; that's why he asked Taylor if he knew of any good drummers. When Hawkins agreed to join, all Dave cared about was that he was getting a friend, not a great drummer.  Dave told Entertainment Weekly, “I sent Taylor a tape of one of the new songs. It was ‘Monkey Wrench.' I went over to his little house in Topanga Canyon, he sat down and played for three seconds, and the first time he hit a snare drum, I knew it.”  Dave knew Taylor was the guy. “I swear to God, I was like, ‘That's all I need to f***ing hear. I love you as a person. You've just given me hearing damage for the rest of my life in three seconds. You have to be in the band.” Later, Grohl said Hawkins came into his life like an F5 tornado. “When he joined the band, his drumming was the least important factor – I just thought I want to travel the world with this guy, I want to jump on stage and drink beers with this person. That was my biggest concern,”. Morissette didn't take Hawkins leaving personally. They remained friends over the years. Taylor has said he would have been delivering pizzas if it wasn't for her. She was the first person who gave him a break in the music world. “She gave me a lot of space to do what I wanted. It was probably the biggest album of the year (referencing her debut album “Jagged Little Pill”), and there was a lot of pressure on her. She was having to learn to be this leader on the job, which isn't easy. But it was really one of the most fun times of my life.” The band announced Tylor would be its new drummer on March 18, 1997. His first appearance with the Foo Fighters was in the music video for the 1997 single "Monkey Wrench", although the song was recorded before he joined the band.   Foo Fighter's second album, “The Colour and the Shape” was released on May 20th, 1997 through Capitol and Roswell Records with the legendary singles, “Monkey Wrench”, “Everlong” and “My Hero” blasting through the airwaves. The album charted at number ten on the Billboard 200 and was nominated for a Grammy in 1998 for best rock album. It has sold more than 2 million copies.   The band then traveled to Dave's home state of Virginia in 1998 to record their third album, “There Is Nothing Left To Lose”. Dave and Pat Smear's replacement, Franz Stahl, just couldn't see eye to eye as songwriters. Dave said "in those few weeks it just seemed like the three of us were moving in one direction and Franz wasn't." Franz was Dave's childhood friend and the decision to fire him from the band was a hard one.    Then, shortly after Franz's termination, bassist Nate Mendel called Dave and said he was quitting to rejoin Sunny Day Real Estate, but the next day changed his mind and decided not to leave.    Dave, Taylor and Nate spent the next several months recording their third album at Dave's home studio. “There Is Nothing Left To Lose” spawned mega hits like “Learn To Fly”, “Stacked Actors”, “Generator” and “Break Out”.    “Learn To Fly” was the band's first single to chart on the US Billboard Hot 100.   Right before the album was released, the president of Capitol Records (Foo Fighters record label), Gary Gersh was forced out and with the help of a “key man clause” in their contract, they were allowed to leave Capitol upon Gersh's release. They left Capitol to sign with RCA who then bought the rights to their previous albums from Capitol.   Upon completing the recording of their third album, the band started auditioning guitarists. Foo Fighters selected No Use For A Name and, what I didn't know, Me First and The Gimmie Gimmies guitarist, Chris Shiflett. He was only supposed to come into the fold as the band's touring guitarist, but was hired on full time before they recorded “One By One”, their fourth studio album.   Right around 2001, Dave and Taylor, being diehard fans of the band Queen, established a relationship with the future Icons and Outlaws episode subjects. Dave and Taylor had the distinct pleasure of inducting them into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame that same year and joined them to perform the 1976 classic, Tie Your Mother Down, with Taylor playing drums alongside Roger Taylor. Queen's legendary guitarist Brian May even added a guitar track to Foo Fighters' second cover of Pink Floyd's "Have a Cigar", which was on the soundtrack to Mission: Impossible 2. In 2002, guitarist Brian May contributed guitar work to Tired of You and an outtake called Knucklehead. The bands have performed together on several occasions since, including VH1 Rock Honors and Foo Fighters' headlining gig at Hyde Park in London, England.   At the end of 2001, the boys got together to record their fourth studio record, “One By One. They spent four months in a LA studio and something was off. The spark just wasn't there and the band were having issues, internally. So, Dave stepped away for a while and worked with Queens of the Stone Age, helping them complete their 2002 record, “Songs for the Deaf”. Touring commenced for Foo Fighters and Queens of the Stone Age, but the internal struggles were still there and just as they were about to call it quits, they hit the stage at Coachella. Dave and Taylor wanted to complete the album and the next day, they rocked the festival and agreed to do so.   Almost every part of the album was scrapped and re-recorded at Dave's studio in Virginia, in only ten days. Seven songs from the original recording of One By One eventually leaked, but the full album has never been released. That record has often been referred to as “Million Dollar Demos”.   The band finally released its fourth album, One by One, in 2002. This record had hit singles like “All My Life”, “Have It All”, “Low” and “Times Like These”. This was Chris Shiflett's first recorded appearance as part of the band and where Taylor played all of the drums. “One By One” topped the charts globally and sold a million units in the U.S., bringing home a Grammy for Best Rock Album in 2004.   Supporting One By One by touring for a year and half, Dave wasn't in a hurry to record another Foo Fighters album. He was more interested in doing an acoustic, solo record but it turned into a full band ordeal. They built a new studio in Northridge, Los Angeles, called Studio 606 West and began recording their 5th album, In Your Honor, a two disc set with full blown rock songs on one and the other with acoustic tracks. It was released in 2005 and had the hits, “DOA”, “Resolve” and one of my all time favorites, “Best of You”. The album also had guest performances by Led Zeppelin's John Paul Jones, Queen of the Stone Age's Josh Homme and Norah Jones. It also featured their new keyboardist, Rami Jaffee of the Wallflowers, who wouldn't become a full-time member until 2017.    “In Your Honor” was nominated for five Grammy Awards, hit the number one spot in five countries and number two in the U.S., selling more than a million copies.   Foo Fighters released their first live CD, “Skin and Bones” in November of 2006, with 15 songs recorded at a 3 night performance at the Pantages Theater in Los Angeles. The album featured a violinist, Pat Smear joining in and a three song encore with Dave playing “Best of You”, “Everlong”, and “Friend of a Friend”. The record debuted at number 21 on the Billboard 200, sold 49,000 copies in its first week and over 357,000 total.    Foo Fighters released its sixth album, Echoes, Silence, Patience & Grace, in 2007 and recruited producer Gil Norton, who worked on the band's “The Colour and the Shape”. This was primarily because Dave felt the songs were different from the band's previous input and "had the potential to be something great". So, he considered that instead of doing something like the last three albums, the band had to go out of "our own comfort zone" and "needed someone to push us out of there".   Preparing to record this album was extensive: first Dave started off developing demos with Taylor, but for the first time he tried to input vocals and lyrics early in the writing phase. After finalizing the song's composition with guitarist Chris and bassist Nate, Dave spent two weeks with Gil Norton discussing "arrangements, harmony and melody" and condensing the song ideas. They then spent four weeks rehearsing, and playing "a song a day, from noon to midnight". Taylor stated that "we basically played each of these songs 100 different times, trying every little thing every different way" and that it was the first time since The Colour and the Shape ``that Dave had to deal with someone in the room questioning all his ideas". Dave claimed the choices were for the "most powerful, dramatic songs" and that there was an effort to "make everything sound as natural as possible – just like on the albums we grew up listening to".    On this album's sound, Taylor Hawkins said: "We haven't been ready to write a record like this until now. I know that Dave wouldn't have been comfortable putting violins on a song before. But for whatever reasons, it just felt like the right time to explore those things now. The last record, obviously, was half heavy stuff, half acoustic songs. So it really was like two sides of the coin. It sounds obvious, but this time around we weren't afraid of incorporating everything into one song if it felt right." The first single, “The Pretender”, topped Billboard's modern rock chart for 19 weeks. Other singles from this album were “Long Road to Ruin”, “Let It Die” and “Cheer Up Boys”. It was nominated for five Grammys, winning Best Rock Album and Best Hard Rock Performance and won the Brit Award, (Britain's version of the American Recording Academy) for Best International Album.   Foo Fighters hit the road again in 2007 on a world tour and at the European MTV Music Awards, Pat Smear was confirmed as a returned member of the band.   June 7th, 2008 saw Foo Fighters headline the world renowned Wembley Stadium in London, England. Jimmy Page and John Paul Jones from Led Zeppelin joined them on stage and after rocking out the songs “Rock and Roll” and “Ramble On”, Dave excitedly shouted “Welcome to the greatest fucking day of my whole entire life!”   The attendance at this amazing sold out concert was 85,000.  In August 2010, the band began recording their seventh studio album with the return of producer Butch Vig. The album was recorded in Dave's garage using only analog equipment. The album won five Grammys and was nominated for six.    Planning the seventh album, Dave realized he was bored of the band's typical recording process. Even though the group own 606 Studios, he is still a punk rocker at heart, and found himself yearning for a grittier, wholly analogue approach to recording. One night in his hotel room in Melbourne, while on tour with Them Crooked Vultures (his side project with Josh Homme and John Paul Jones), he hatched a plan to return to recording basics for what was to become Wasting Light. Dave told Sound on Sound.com, "I thought, rather than just record the album in the most expensive studio with the most state‑of‑the‑art equipment, what if Butch and I were to get back together after 20 years and dust off the tape machines and put them in my garage? We've recorded an album somewhere where no‑one has ever recorded before. We've not gone to the studio where Zeppelin made In Through The Out Door, we've gone into my garage. The only person that's recorded in my garage before is me for shitty demos that I've done for the last two records.”   The first single from Wasting Light, "Rope", was released to radio in February 2011. On April 16, 2011, Foo Fighters released an album of covers, Medium Rare, as a limited-edition vinyl for Record Store Day. Wasting Light debuted at number one on the Billboard 200 chart, becoming the band's first album to do so. Other singles for the album were "Walk", "Arlandria", "These Days", and "Bridge Burning". Alongside Wasting Light's release, the band released a rockumentary, directed by Academy Award-winner James Moll. The film, titled Back and Forth, chronicles the band's career. Current and past members, and producer Butch Vig, tell the story of the band through interviews. After debuting on March 15, 2011, at the SXSW festival in Austin, Texas, it was released on DVD three months later.   The first batch of ‘Wasting Light' CDs include pieces of the album's analog tape master Look inside your CD copy of the band's Wasting Light album. If you were one of the first fans to pick one up, chances are it includes a piece of the original analog tape the album was recorded on. After announcing a break after touring in support of Wasting Light, Dave said in 2013 that they were starting to write new material for their 8th studio album, “Sonic Highways”, bringing back Butch Vig. They announced their return to the stage by posting a video of Erik Estrada, one of the main actors from the 70's motorcycle cop show, CHIPS, riding a motorcycle and delivering each member of the band an invitation to play in Mexico.    They announced that their eighth album would be released in November of 2014 and they would commemorate it and their 20th anniversary with an HBO TV series called “Sonic Highways”, directed by Dave, himself.    Eight songs were written and recorded in eight studios in eight different American cities with video capturing the history and feel of each town. Each track features contributions from one or more musicians with ties to that city's musical history.   The album debuted at number two on the Billboard 200, with sales of 190,000 copies in the United States. It has sold over 617,500 copies in the US and had amazing songs like “Something From Nothing”, “The Feast and the Famine”, and “Congregation” featuring country artist, Zac Brown Foo Fighters were the last musical performance on Late Show with David Letterman on May 20th, 2015, as he retired from his 33 year career as a late night show host.   On June 12th, 2015, Dave had the misfortune of falling off the stage in Gothenburg, Sweden and breaking his leg during the second song. The band kept playing while Dave was fixed up by the medical staff and then RETURNED TO THE STAGE to finish the last two hours of their set while sitting in a chair and a medic taking care of his leg. He was flown to London, England after the show and received six metal pins to stabilize the fracture in his leg.   There was speculation that Foo Fighters would drop out of their 20th anniversary, fourth of July bash, after canceling their remaining European dates following Dave's accident. Instead, The band performed for 48,000 people with Dave in a custom-built moving throne which he claimed to have designed himself while on painkillers. They renamed the following tour the “Broken Leg Tour”.   November 25th, 2015 Foo Fighters released a surprise EP named “Saint Cecilia”, available for digital download, and Dave announced an indefinite hiatus. This EP peaked at number 3 on Billboard's mainstream rock songs chart.   Krist Novoselic, who played with Grohl in Nirvana, described Saint Cecilia as Foo Fighters' "statement on how they are the biggest rock band in the world". Novoselic also said that "Saint Cecilia is more straight-ahead rock that is done really well", and went on to say that "I went to the Foo's last gig at the Moda Center in Portland and they rocked a packed house. I love the drummer Matt Sorum (Guns and Roses). However, he is so wrong in his statement about danger and the Foo's somehow lacking it. First off all, I know about danger in rock. I was the bassist in Flipper — and survived! Look at a band like Queen, who totally rocked. They were way more dandy than danger. Queen knows how to rock a stadium. So do the Foo Fighters and you'll hear big rock on Saint Cecilia". Rumors about Foo Fighters breaking up were everywhere so, the band released a mockumentary video in March 2016 portraying Grohl leaving the band to pursue an electronic music career and Nick Lachey (formerly of 98 Degrees) becoming the group's new singer, ending with: "For the millionth time, we're not breaking up. And nobody's going fucking solo!"   Dave announced that the band would spend most of 2017 recording their ninth studio album, “Concrete and Gold”. On June 1, 2017, their new single "Run" was released. Run topped the US Billboard Mainstream Rock Songs chart the following month. On June 20, 2017, the band announced that their new album, Concrete and Gold, would be released in September. On August 23, 2017, The Sky Is a Neighborhood was released as the second single and topped the Mainstream Rock chart. The Line was released in promotion of the album and later as the third single in 2018. Concrete and Gold was officially released on September 15, 2017, produced by Greg Kurstin. Concrete and Gold also features Justin Timberlake on vocals for Make It Right, Shawn Stockman of Boyz II Menon backing vocals for the song Concrete and Gold, and Paul McCartney on the drums for Sunday Rain.   Concrete and Gold has sold over 262,000 units.   In October 2019, the band announced that they were recording their tenth studio album based on Dave's demos. In November 2019, the band began releasing a series of EPs under the umbrella name of the Foo Files, largely consisting of previously released B sides and live performances. By February 2020, Dave  announced that the new album was complete but by May, it was delayed indefinitely because of a little unforeseen event called the COVID-19 pandemic, saying, "We've kind of shelved it for now to figure out exactly when it's going to happen." Starting in November 2020, promotion for the album ramped up. Its title, Medicine at Midnight, and release date, February 5, 2021, were announced. The band released three singles ahead of the album: "Shame Shame", "No Son of Mine", and "Waiting on a War".  On February 10, 2021, Foo Fighters were announced as one of the 2021 Rock and Roll Hall of Fame nominees in their first year of eligibility as their debut album had been released 25 years prior. On May 12, 2021, Foo Fighters were announced as one of 6 performer inductees. For Record Store Day on July 17, 2021, the Foo Fighters released an album of disco covers, Hail Satin, under the name Dee Gees. The album contains four Bee Gees covers, a cover of Andy Gibb's "Shadow Dancing", plus five live versions of Medicine at Midnight tracks.] On February 25, 2022, the band released a comedy horror film, Studio 666, directed by BJ McDonnell. It stars the band members as themselves, alongside Will Forte, Whitney Cummings, Jeff Garlin, and Jenna Ortega. In the movie, the band attempts to record an album in a haunted mansion; Dave is possessed by a demonic spirit and the other members are killed off one by one.  It was filmed in the same mansion in which the band had recorded their most recent album, Medicine at Midnight. Studio 666 is currently available on Amazon Prime Video.    Dave has recently released an EP of songs from the film, Dream Widow, on March 25, 2022. On March 25, 2022, Foo Fighters drummer Taylor Hawkins died in his room at the Casa Medina hotel in Bogotá, Colombia. No cause of death was given. Taylor had suffered chest pain, and had ten substances in his system at the time of his death, including opioids, benzodiazepines, tricyclic antidepressants, and THC. Foo Fighters were scheduled to perform that night at the Estéreo Picnic Festival as part of their ongoing South American tour; the festival stage was turned into a candlelight vigil for Taylor. A few days later, the band canceled all remaining tour dates. According to Sony Music Japan, FOO FIGHTERS sold over 32,000,000 albums worldwide, including 9,065,000 in the United States and 5,260,000 in the United Kingdom. The best-selling album by FOO FIGHTERS is GREATEST HITS, which sold over 2,775,000 copies .

Pastor Justin continues the Overwhelmed series by talking about something that every single one of us has dealt with - shame. This is literally one of the oldest tricks in the book, and Pastor Justin shows how it affected some major players in the Bible. This is how we can be free from shame.

Pastor Justin continues the Overwhelmed series by talking about something that every single one of us has dealt with - shame. This is literally one of the oldest tricks in the book, and Pastor Justin shows how it affected some major players in the Bible. This is how we can be free from shame.

Pastor Justin continues the Overwhelmed series by talking about something that every single one of us has dealt with - shame. This is literally one of the oldest tricks in the book, and Pastor Justin shows how it affected some major players in the Bible. This is how we can be free from shame.

Why do we often default to shame? Tony Overbay, LMFT, often says that in working with individuals trying to overcome addiction or trying to be the very best version of themselves, exactly 0 out of a few thousand people he has worked with have used shame as a tool for recovery. Yet when we stop and let our thoughts take over, they often go back to the "what's wrong with me, I'm a bad person" story. Today Tony identifies the root causes of shame, why it doesn't help, and what to do when you find yourself heading down that path of toxic shame. Tony also shares the metaphor of the unwelcome neighbor, and he references Compassion Focused Therapy https://welldoing.org/types/compassion-focused-therapy http://tonyoverbay.com/workshop to sign up for Tony's “Magnetize Your Marriage” virtual workshop. The cost is only $19, and you'll learn the top 3 things you can do NOW to create a Magnetic Marriage. With the continuing "sheltering" rules spreading across the country, PLEASE do not think you can't continue or begin therapy now. http://betterhelp.com/virtualcouch can put you quickly in touch with licensed mental health professionals who can meet through text, email, or videoconference often as soon as 24-48 hours. And if you use the link http://betterhelp.com/virtualcouch, you will receive 10% off your first month of services. Please make your mental health a priority, http://betterhelp.com/virtualcouch offers affordable counseling, and they even have sliding scale options if your budget is tight. You can learn more about Tony's pornography recovery program, The Path Back, by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com And visit http://tonyoverbay.com and sign up to receive updates on upcoming programs and podcasts. Tony mentioned a product that he used to take out all of the "uh's" and "um's" that, in his words, "must be created by wizards and magic!" because it's that good! To learn more about Descript, click here https://descript.com?lmref=bSWcEQ

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Beau and Elle discuss the struggles and impacts on people shaming us. We get to dive into ways we've changed and developed because of the influence of others shame.   

Amanecemos con la triste noticia del adiós de Taylor Hawkins y mi cabeza rápidamente piensa en su familia y en la dura papeleta que tiene Dave."Taylor es mi hermano de otra madre, mi mejor amigo, recibiría una bala por él" escribía en su libro The Storyteller. Y es que un gran maestro de la radio (Paco Pérez Bryan) me enseñó que lo mejor para estos casos es convocar a amigos y oyentes y así intentar que las penas se marchen hablando de su legado y escuchando el último concierto de la banda en Argentina. Gracias a Jose Aguilar de CDS Radioshow, Miguel de Café con Toftadas, Almudena de Lost in Translation, Camen , J.F. Leon de Rock'n'Roll Animal, Juanjo de Craneón y Dani de Radio 75. Suenan: 1. Times Like These 2. The Pretender 3. Learn to Fly 4. No Son of Mine 5. The Sky Is a Neighborhood 6. Shame Shame 7. Breakout 8. My Hero 9. These Days 10. My Generation + Keyboard Solo + Gonna Make You Sweat + Blitzkrieg Bop 11. Somebody to Love (Queen cover) (Dave on drums, Taylor on vocals) 12. All My Life 13. Run 14. Wheels 15. Best of You 16. Been Caught Stealing (Jane’s Addiction cover con Perry Farrell) 17. Monkey Wrench 18. Everlong Espacio patrocinado por: Macu Chaleka, Laura, Yu Carlitus, Jorge Altarriba, Vicent Martin, Jorge Rico, kevinbazan95, David Molinedo ,Zaca Furinyaki, Infestos, Öki Þeodoroson, Ikr Uri Arte, davidgonsan, Juan Carlos Mazas, 61garage, JJM, Rosa Rivas, Naïa, Bassman Mugre, SrLara, David Meño Manzaneque, Próxima Estación Okinawa, Barullo, Megamazinger, Francisco Javier Indignado Hin, Unai Elordui, carmenlimbostar, Piri, J. Gutiérrez, Miguel Ángel Tinte, Alvaro Perez, Miquel CH, Jon Perez Nubla, screaming, Javi Vela, agui102, Raul Sánchez, Nuria Sonabé, davicin blackmetal, Franc Puerto, Spinda Records, Pere Pasqual, Giulia Governi, Juanmi, JulMorGon, Alexander Castañeda Padilla, Juan Carlos Acero Linares, JM MORENTE, Eduardo Mayordomo Muñoz, Alfonso Moya, Pilar Díez, Rubio Carbón, LaRubiaProducciones, cesmunsal, Carlos Conseglieri, Mr.Kaffe, Marcos, Aytiro Saki, Fernando Masero, jocio, Dani RM, Alejandro Gómez García, baron72, Norberto Blanquer Solar, Eduardo Vaquerizo, VICTORGB, Tolo Sent, Israel, Jordi, LIP, Carmen Ventura y varios oyentes anónimos. GRACIAS 🙏

Shame. We discuss what it is, what it isn't, and what it means for us as believers. You'll leave this conversation empowered to remind the voice of shame who you are and to Whom you belong. Show Links: Father Mike Schmitz: Shame vs. Guilt Catechism of the Catholic Church: “The Vocation To Chastity” Let's Connect: Instagram Wild + Beautiful Website Questions, comments, concerns? Email Lauren and Joanna at wildandbeautifulpodcast@gmail.com

Hi friends. In this week's episode we talk about shame. "Shame - a painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness of wrong or foolish behavior." Biz update - Still no fabric, still actively avoiding social media

In this episode, Vi shares her struggles with shame stemming from sexual abuse and suicide loss. She also shares the effects shame has on everyday decisions. You might need tissue for a minute or two.

Hear Album Digest's host, Phoebe Goodwin, unpack tracks from Dr. Dog's "Shame, Shame"

"Shitty Shitty Shame Shame" with special guest Carrie Pullaro

In today's show Lydia + Sarah discuss shame and guilt. They offer personal stories of how shame and guilt have presented themselves in their own lives and some helpful reflections to get to the root of negative thinking patterns and habits. Next episode will be a follow up to today's and will cover negative thinking patterns. Hang onto your journal reflections because we will use those next episode!! Episode Tool: Journal exploration for Guilt: Guilt may sound like____ Guilt may look like ____ Guilt may feel like ____ **Notice in your life what comes up in each of these categories and use that to help you in the next section What is one thing that you really want in your life right now? How is guilt preventing you from getting that thing? What is one small thing you could do to help you reach this goal? Journal exploration for Shame: Shame may sound like ____ Shame may look like ____ Shame may feel like ____ **Notice in your life what comes up in each of these categories and use that to help you in the next section What is one thing that you really want in your life right now? How is shame preventing you from getting that thing? What is one small thing you could do to help you reach this goal? Negative thinking patterns to be on the lookout for: “I have to do everything perfectly.” “there is no room for error.” “I should have done more, it's all my fault” “I am not lovable” “I am taking up too much space” “I said too much” Follow us on IG: Lydia Kasmoch, LPC, Registered Play Therapist @thrivecounseling.ep Sarah Swafford, LPC, Registered Play Therapist @mindful.wellness.counselingep We'd love to hear your feedback. Please leave us a review and if you have topics you want us to cover on the pod email us your ideas at healingwithpurposepodcast@gmail.com **And remember, the information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. This Podcast should not be considered professional advice or used as a replacement for therapy. Intro music by: The Monocle Twins - The road to life

We all experience shame from time to time. But did you know shame can become toxic? How about the difference between guilt and shame and how they each can help or harm self-worth? Today on Living Freely, listen in as Rachel Ann Dine, LPC defines what shame is, when it becomes toxic, and how to recognize if you are carrying shame around + how to start letting it go. Be empowered to be self-compassionate (because hint: it's the antidote to shame)! Want to learn more about what Norfolk Public Library is offering? Visit their website to see events and other podcast episodes: https://www.norfolkpubliclibrary.org/ Want to connect with our host, Rachel Ann Dine? Connect with her on Instagram for more inspiration and empowerment: www.instagram.com/rachelanndinecounseling To find a mental health provider in your area, visit: www.psychologytoday.com

This solo cast was not planned, it was rather spontaneous in the way it was made clear that I was meant to share with you the shame I've been processing lately.The theme of shame has been popping up in conversations and in my work with clients this week so I thought that I needed to process this with you and share some of my journey with shame.I wanted to really get to the root of this emotion and dive into the many layers and guises that shame takes on.  Shame is an emotion and sticking point for most everyone I know.  In this episode, I dive into my own shame story and how my history and  experience with Christianity  seemed to be the catalyst for the belief system of separation and unworthiness I once found myself operating in.I hope you connect with my story and if you are feeling alone and isolated in your own shame. I want you to know that you aren't alone. There is a way off the hamster wheel of shame and self hatred. There is a community that will love and welcome  you right where you are. We are creating safe spaces for each other! If you are seeking spiritual community you have come to the right place. Please connect with me on my Facebook page and talk to me if this episode spoke to you. Let's normalize talking about our shame so it no longer has the power!!!!!                                                                    Here is how you find my stuff:Galactic Gravy Facebook discussion group: https://www.facebook.com/galacticgravy1111 Galactic Gravy Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/galacticgravyThe Rainbow Collaborative: https://rainbowcollaborative.com/Wellspring Healing Studio: https://www.facebook.com/wellspringhealingstudioLove Shack Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/loveshackdaytonCosmic Creations Art Page: https://www.facebook.com/Cosmic-Creations-111528997338598

Hoy os traemos un podcast del décimo álbum de estudio de la banda de grunge y rock alternativo Foo Fighters que, a lo largo de los años, y más en especial en esta última década, hemos visto como su estilo ha ido variando, y en este caso le dan una nueva vuelta de tuerca. Pero antes, vamos a conocer a la banda en cuestión. Foo Fighters es una banda estadounidense formada en la ciudad de Seattle en 1994 por Dave Grohl, el cual fue exbaterista tanto del grupo de Hardcore-Punk Scream como de la mítica banda de grunge Nirvana. El nombre es una alusión a los ovnis y los diversos fenómenos aéreos reportados por los pilotos de los aviones aliados en la Segunda Guerra Mundial, que se conocían como Foo Fighters. Poco después de que Dave Grohl abandonara el grupo Scream, fue contratado por Nirvana, que en ese momento era un grupo desconocido, y eso fue uno de los factores por los cuales el ‘Nevermind’ fuese todo un éxito. Por otra parte, Dave escribió algunas canciones que no llegó a publicar porque no las veía acorde a la banda, aunque si que grabó una demo por cuenta propia. Editó unas 100 copias que él mismo repartió únicamente entre sus amistades. Tras la muerte de Kurt Cobain y desaparición de Nirvana, Dave decidió seguir adelante con su carrera musical. Volvió al estudio para grabar más temas en solitario, pero esta vez bajo el seudónimo Foo Fighters. Grabó todos los instrumentos a excepción de la guitarra que tocó su amigo Greg Dulli, el cual era guitarrista de Afghan Whigs. Volvió a editar otra demo, pero en esta ocasión recibió muy buenos comentarios, y eso hizo que se decidiera por formar una banda junto a el bajista Nate Mendel, el baterista William Goldsmith, que justo había abandonado la banda de Emo-Rock Sunny Day Real State y el guitarrista que llevaba Nirvana en las giras, Pat Smear. Más tarde este proyecto sería reeditado bajo el nombre de Foo Fighters, como un álbum de estudio completo. Además, formó el sello discográfico Roswell Records que es subsidaría de Capitol Records. Después del lanzamiento de su noveno álbum la banda y de realizar una extensa gira, la banda anuncio otro descanso en octubre de 2018, aunque Dave ya dijo que estaba empezando a trabajar en un nuevo proyecto. La pausa duró menos de un año ya que, en agosto de 2019, el baterista Hawkins ya dijo que Dave había empezado a preparar material para el siguiente disco, y poco después se embarcaron en su grabación. El proyecto fue grabado en una casa antigua de la década del 1940 en una población cercana a Los Ángeles. Se grabó con mucha fluidez algo que Dave atribuyó a que el material se procesaba rápidamente y que estaban sucediendo hechos paranormales en el entorno de grabación, tales como ruidos extraños y micrófonos que se encendían solos. Él mismo ha comparado el sonido de este nuevo álbum con el sonido del ‘Let’s Dance’ de David Bowie y ha dicho que es un disco divertido y lleno de himnos y canciones para cantar. En febrero de 2020 la banda anunció una gira por USA que se iba a realizar entre abril y mayo pero la pandemia obligó a retrasar la gira para octubre y diciembre, y al mismo tiempo eso provocó que este ‘Medicine At Midnight’, que en principio se iba a lanzar en mayo del 2020, se iba a retrasar indefinidamente. Pero finalmente, Dave decidió que había que lanzarlo igualmente, aunque estuviéramos en pandemia, para así poder levantar el ánimo de los fans. En noviembre del año pasado se retomaron las promociones y el 7 de noviembre de 2020 se lanzó el single ‘Shame Shame’, el 1 de enero de 2021 el single ‘No son of Mine’ y el 14 de enero el single ‘Waiting on a War’. El proyecto finalmente apareció este pasado 5 de febrero, y obtuvo críticas diversas tanto por parte de la prensa como de los fans. Datos del vinilo • Título: Medicine At Midnight • Artista: Foo Fighters • Sello discográfico: RCA/Sony • Label Code/Bar Code: 19439-78839-1 • Año: 2021 • Fabricado en: Europa • Edición limitada con vinilo púrpura arremolinado

Dr. Mario Sacasa welcomes Dr. Peter Malinoski from Souls and Hearts to discuss the ins and outs of shame. In this episode, they offer the five elements of shame, seeing when shame is is helpful, and when it becomes problematic. They discuss ways to be aware of how shame manifests in your life and how … Continue reading "065 – Shame Shame Go Away with Dr. Peter Malinoski"

Today on episode _74,  I'm going to talk about how to help your small church, ministry or small group grow.  I'll share from a lesson I did at the Look Up small church leaders conference.  I'll be talking about: How to win the mental battle Dealing with negativity, shame and fear Five habits that growing church leaders practice How to break out of a losing mindset You can reach Rob at https://robskinner.com/   How to Win the Mental Battle   Dealing with self-pity, negativity, shame and fear I've quit the ministry at least ten times.  Four people at 7:00 midweek led to “overnight resignation”   Three things that keep us trapped spiritually Fear When your church is in the tank, it's hard not to think about what “they” are thinking about how bad you are doing.  Who are “they?”  It can be the people you respect, your friends, people in the church or even non-existent people “out there.”  We are conditioned to measure ourselves based on the approval or disapproval of others.  Often the people who most loudly say, “I don't care what people think,” are the ones most carefully monitoring the body language of those around us.  In spite of the fact that most people aren't even thinking about us and even the ones who are assigned to look out for us are thinking about their own situation, we still worry about others' opinions.  This fear keeps us from calling to get help, keeps us isolated and keeps us from pursuing normal relationships.  Ministry offers great independence and freedom of action, the downside is that when your growth is going south, it's easy to cut off communications and relationships with people that can help us. I can think of many times I thought I should call for help, advice or fellowship.  I kept putting it off because I “didn't have anything encouraging to share.” Another reason is that “I knew what ‘they' would say.” My pride prevented me from staying connected relationally.   Self-pity Self-pity is an insidious growth killer.  Symptoms of self-pity include blaming others for your sorry situation, comparing your lack of funding to larger, better-resourced churches and using phrases like, “my situation or field is unique, harder or not like anyone else's.”  The result of self-pity is that we excuse ourselves and let ourselves off the hook for our poor performance.  We become the victim, not the victor and stop trying because unconsciously we feel like people, other churches, or our situation is “keeping us down.”   Shame Shame is a toxic vine that grows well in the lonely, isolated private life of the average small church leader.  Few people know what is going on in the life of a church leader.  He seems cheerful, upbeat to all appearances and endorses a healthy, wholesome lifestyle in his sermons and teaching.  This is a perfect cover for pornography and alcohol addiction, marriage and family conflicts and other private battles.  The primary problem is not the particular sin, but the resulting secrecy, shame and eventual damage done on a personal and church-wide level.  The average church leader has few to compare himself to and so thinks, “I've got this handled,” or “no one would understand.”  This self-justification keeps the sin and shame growing.  The church leader is sapped of vitality and slowly bleeds out spiritually.  The church stops growing and often explodes when the sin is finally exposed by God.    Five habits that growing church leaders are doing regularly   The common denominator of fear, self-pity, shame and other related growth killers is the isolation and lack of connection in a minister's life.  If you want to win the internal battle, it starts with not tolerating isolation in your life any longer.  Church leaders who are leading growing churches not only cultivate a healthy social environment and structure within their church, they also demand and pursue a healthy personal environment in their mind and relationships.   The phone habit The best leaders I know are good with the phone.  They use it and rely on it.  If you want to break out of the plateau you are in, you will need to reject the mantra, “I'm not a ‘phone' person.” Share: Todd Asaad Share: Randy McKean Make the hard call Leave a detailed message   The friendship habit Strong leaders have friendships that they are building and maintaining.  It's too easy to have superficial relationships in the fellowship and then only periodic conference relationships with other leaders. Share:  List of 12 friends Work on adding to your friendship base. Birthday card and gift every year for birthdays “Just because” calls and texts to build the relationship   The accountability habit Share:  Marriage DVD The turning point for me was realizing that my sinful nature was rebelling against placing any type of harness or yoke on it.  When I understood that my flesh was driving my reluctance, things changed quickly. I would ask you, “what is holding you back from absolute purity?”  Do you have a system in place that is keeping you away from sin and holding you accountable?  If you want to grow your church, you will need to remove spiritual roadblocks that are keeping you from being the man you want to be. Internal: Habit Tracker External: Accountable2U     The reading and learning habit You don't know what you don't know.  When you are in a rut spiritually, one of the best things you can do is get around a high-energy, high-faith environment.  Strong leaders are constantly scouring for new ideas to improve the church and keep their spiritual “mojo” growing. Conferences Books (See Appendix) Com   The healthy systems and routines habit A growing leader has systems and routines in place that guide his behavior. They lead to consistent results.  He doesn't wake up wondering what is going on that day.  He has routines that start his day and regular activities that over time lead to good results.           How to break out of a losing mindset   Change your mindset from employee to self-employed Share about planting Ashland alone and unsupported Don't let yourself get trapped by a job or paycheck, keep the fire burning. God has given you meaningful work Do it for the joy of the work “You have to find something that you love enough to be able to take risks, jump over the hurdles and break through the brick walls that are always going to be placed in front of you. “If you don't have that kind of feeling for what it is you are doing, you'll stop at the first giant hurdle.”  George Lucas Small church leaders enjoy the control and autonomy of leading their own church Are you an entrepreneur or a mid-level manager? Identify the person you are:  Manager or MacGyver?   Cross The God Gap Reference Matrix Roof Scene Experiment and get creative Keith Avery:  Songleading Small church leadership is all problem solving You will never have enough money, talent or resources. That gap will never go away, get used to it If you want security, safety and management look at a larger church.   Mentally accept getting fired Everyone feels like quitting at times. Small church leadership is the toughest job there is The skill is to know when to quit and when not to quit When not to quit: Setbacks, lack of growth, negative growth, etc. Don't blame, don't explain, don't give yourself a pass No one is thinking of you. Trust God is working on your behalf Let God do his work on you: Don't ring the bell David Goggins: 40% rule “Retreat! Hell, we're just attacking in a different direction.” Chesty Puller   When to consider quitting or moving on: When you've lost control of the church When you can't change the culture When you've been discredited or moved aside “Team” leadership situations When you and your wife are at odds about the work you are doing When you aren't in a position to overcome the challenge Before relationships have been destroyed

One of the greatest weapons society has over all of us is shame. (And why they have to get puppies involved we'll never know.) It has many raisons d'etre, some good, some bad, but what does it do to fatsos? What are all the extra special ways that we are stifled and held back by the special shaming we receive because of fatphobia? In this episode, Pallavi and Ameya chat about the origins of shame, its psychological consequences, and their personal experiences of shame in their lives.

We are The Weekly What's Up Podcast. Humanoids who criticize all forms of art we find among the filthy Earthlings' collection. Today we'll be tackling a remix of Star Trek: The Next Generation called “Data and Picard” by Pogo, “Nippon Manju” by LADYBABY, and “Shame Shame” by Foo Fighters. Email us at: contacttwwu@gmail.com Tweet at us at: twitter.com/thewhatsupcast Support us on Patreon to take equal blame for this podcast: patreon.com/theweeklywhatsup . . . Today's hosts: Jayden - twitter.com/jayelimaurice Azarion - twitter.com/azarion_firefox William - twitter.com/wilfricc . . . Theme music produced by SteampunkFireflies Productions: https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCOnAyYXocvFrAOy-kCU3QvA https://clockworkk1.bandcamp.com . . . Copyright © 2020 - Album cover art and podcast content by The Weekly What's Up - All rights reserved by the creator. Please seek permission before using this audio or video. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/twwu/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/twwu/support

hey friends, welcome to part 2 of Kayla's episode. we're going deep, y'all. This week we're discussing shame + emotions, such as anger. Hope you enjoy this discussion & you can relate! Resources discussed: The Solace of Open Spaces by Gretel Ehrlich Mary Oliver Poems about nature Follow along on Instagram: @permissiontobeseen

Shame sucks and most people have it and live in it, but you don't have to. As a follower of Jesus you have access to freedom. Join Andrew and Josh as they talk about shame, grace, and finding freedom. Be sure to listen to the very end of this one (or just skip ahead), it is pure gold and very helpful.

In this episode I discuss shame and it's destructive nature. Also how it shows up in our lives. Healing shame through sharing our story with others is how achieve freedom from this awful prison.

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It's hard to feel confident when there are messages everywhere that you're not pretty or thin enough. Jeremy was surprised and unsettled when he read the book Beauty Sick by Renee Engeln. Maeve joins him for a discussion about his male perspective on American beauty standards and how our cultural obsession with perfection makes for an impossible standard for women.