Podcasts about biid

Warnung: In dieser Folge hatten wir ein bis zwei kurze Tonprobleme! Diese Folge ist nichts für schwache Nerven – aber genau das macht sie so spannend. Willkommen in Folge 12 von Hotel Anonym, dem Safe Space für alle, die keine Schubladen mögen und dafür umso mehr Dirty Talk mit Tiefgang. Wir reden über das Münchhausen-Syndrom (Fake-Krank deluxe), Stockholm-Syndrom, Amelotatismus (Amputationsfetisch – yes, it's a thing), BIID und absurde Fantasien wie „Nationalgericht + Ejakulat = Love Dinner“. Ihr dachtet, ihr habt schon alles gehört? Wait for it. Dazu kommt: Kritik an CSDs und dem Wunsch wieder alles auf Anfang zu setzen. Let's discuss. Aber auch: Emotionale Bekenntnisse über Versagensangst, Gigs mit drei Leuten und die Kunst, Kritik nicht zu Herzen zu nehmen. Ihr wolltet es, ihr kriegt es. Ein Erfahrungsbericht aus der Community, der uns zerstört hat. „Get ready Pills“ und was passiert, wenn der Viererbob ungebremst durch den Darm rauscht. Und ob Berry nur ein ganz bisschen im Gaga Wahn steckt? Hört rein. Denn heute gibt's volle Sahne Pop Kultur. Diese Folge ist wie ein CSD im Darkroom: laut, wild, grenzüberschreitend – und einfach unvergesslich. Also: Hört rein, teilt uns, liebt uns oder cancelt uns – aber verpasst diese Folge nicht. Wir lieben euch! Eure anonymen Nachrichten hier: https://tellonym.me/hollywoodtramp/ Playlist: https://shorturl.at/fchDM Party Dates & Tickets: https://hollywoodtramp-shop.de/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/hollywoodtramp https://instagram.com/schoscholade #HotelAnonym #PodcastLiebe #Hollywoodtramp

The docs have covered a lot of disorders of the brain that lead people to harm others, but this time the injurious behavior turns inward. Today they explore the behaviors and etiology of Body Integrity Identity Disorder and discuss the associated ethics behind the treating the condition, before covering two cases involving drastic measures to live as a person with disabilities. Jewel Shuping videoChloe Jennings-White videoJoin our Patreon family! You can find all of our resources on our website: https://www.la-not-so-confidential.com/  L.A. Not So Confidential is proud to be part of the Crawlspace Media Network

In this very sensual episode of BFGE, the ladies watch nepo baby Jennifer Lynch's 1993 box office dumpster fire, Boxing Helena: a film about a wealthy surgeon (Julian Sands) who becomes obsessed with a seductive woman (Sherilyn Fenn) with whom he once had an affair.  Refusing to accept that she has zero romantic interest in him, he lovingly amputates her limbs and holds her captive in his stately mansion.In this episode:The ladies debate how much simping is too much simping.Sarah discusses the Boxing Helena lawsuit that bankrupted Kim Basinger.Emma comes to terms with the fact that she is a mere facsimile of a woman because she owns neither a candelabra nor lime cordial.Emma rebuffs Sarah's hypothesis about body integrity identity disorder (BIID), a rare mental health condition where individuals feel that a healthy limb or body part should not be part of their body. The ladies consider taking a note from the Snapewives and wedding the spirit of Julian Sands (RIP king) on the astral plane.  Ditch your limbs and listen along with us!Follow us on instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/brutalfilmgirlpod/

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In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, join me as Kipp and I navigate the complexities of social dynamics and personal responsibility, covering everything from the art of making plans to the nuances of gender roles. We ponder the paradox women face when preferring men to initiate contact, as well as the thorny issue of toxic feminism and its impact on society. We dissect the idea of body identity integrity disorder (BIID), delve into the psychological ramifications of affirming unrealistic beliefs, and the significance of men and women in our communities.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:50) Issue of Transgender Medicine Controversy (14:57) Toxic Feminism and Misandry Implementation (20:57) Taking Action to Manage Anxiety (32:59) Building Strong Partnerships in Life (40:30) Effective Use of T-Shirts and Jiu-Jitsu (49:35) Self-Defense and Jiu Jitsu Training Tips (55:58) Balancing Responsibilities in Life (01:07:31) Online Business via Social Media (01:12:59) Tools for Becoming a Better Man   Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's latest book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

The British Institute of Interior Design (BIID) is the only professional institute for interior designers in the UK. Our growing membership represents both the commercial and residential sectors, from heritage to cutting edge. In addition to rigorous entry requirements which assess training, experience and professionalism, they require our members to continue their professional development throughout their career to ensure their continued expertise in design process, practice and regulatory matters. For those wishing to find an interior designer or to confirm the credibility of a potential interior designer they offer a directory of our Registered Interior Designers.Each year BIID celebrates the very best of British interior design through its awards program. The BIID Interior Design Awards showcase the best interior design projects completed across the UK.Winners are awarded across 7 regional categories ranging from the largest commercial project to the smallest residential dwelling. In addition, there are two landmark prices – the Interior of the Year Prize, which is awarded to the best interior design project in the UK and the Anna Whitehead Prize, which is awarded to the best achievement in sustainable interior design. 9 awards will be given out in total, along with acknowledgements of Highly Commended projects.In this podcast, we are joined by two previous award winners and one of the judges of this year's awards to discuss the value of the awards programme. If you are reading this on an RSS feed, try and visit https://journalofbiophilicdesign.com/podcasts-journal-of-biophilic-design to view the visuals from these brilliant projects.James Gavigan is co-founder of House of Kin (houseofkin.com) who were the Greater London winners for 2023 with their Riverside project. The Riverside is a unique nursery that preserves the character of the original church building, whilst combining clean aesthetics, soft colours, and simple lines with homely and interactive touches. The judges praised its harmonious and child-friendly design, emphasizing sustainability with cork-clad walls, wood waste flooring, and recycled plastic bottle tiles. The space is imaginative, thoughtful, and perfect for children's learning and growth. Susie Pfeiffer founded Pfeiffer design who won the Anna Whitehead Prize in 2022 for their design studio. The studio was designed with sustainability at the forefront; it uses a wide range of the latest sustainable technologies, sourced locally and is an inspiration to others looking to use similar sustainable elements within their own homes and offices.Asif Din is one of the judges for the 2024 awards. He is the Sustainability Director at Perkins & Will. He has worked across the world as an architect and is a keen advocate of Zero Carbon design projects and the use of circularity in design.Susie and James explain the importance to them, as past winners, of the BIID awards. How, the bring kudos and opportunity to their businesses but also how they bring the design community together and elevate design standards, especially when talking about sustainability and fostering creativity so that design doesn't become bland.From a judge's perspective, Asif comments on how it is often clear that biophilic aspects such as sustainability and environmental factors have been considered from the start as clear elements in any project. Such projects stand out and are key to achieving success at the awards.Throughout the discussion it is clear that just adding sustainable materials to a design doesn't make the overall design sustainable. Consideration has to be given to materials being appropriate for the design; the design can't simply include “box-ticking” elements.Durability is mentioned as a major factor in materials choice for many sustainable designs.The participants are all clear that a sustainable design doesn't involve a compromise on aesthetics. Indeed, taking a biophilic approach to design can enhance the look and feel of a space and contribute to a deeper, more meaningful aesthetic that resonates with the principles of balance with nature.Overall, the conversation brings to the fore the joy and inspiration that great design that fully embraces biophilia brings to those who use the spaces created. Oh, and you might also win kudos and recognition in the form of a BIID award! https://biid.org.uk/biid-interior-design-awardshttps://biid.org.uk/winners-23https://biid.org.uk/judgesChapel Barn: https://www.pfeifferdesign.co.uk/our-approach/sustainability/Riverside: https://biid.org.uk/design-practice-house-kin

This week on Eavesdroppin' comedy podcast… Michelle gets the ick as Geordie discusses Incorrupted Bodies, ie, dead bodies that are buried but never decay! Why does this happen only to saints? And how come they never decompose or get eaten by worms? Listen to find out! Michelle then looks at auto-cannibalism and Body Integrity Identity Disorder... Is picking a scab and eating it considered a mental-health condition? Would you ever willingly eat your own leg? Or cut off a limb? Some people do... So pop on your headphones, grab a brown lemonade and join Geordie & Michelle for this week's episode, plus chitchat about whether robes are sexy, Rick Stein's crazy intro music, Theraguns, Mickey Rooney and more, only on Eavesdroppin' podcast. And remember, wherever you are, whatever you do, just keep Eavesdroppin'!*Disclaimer: We don't claim to have any factual info about anything ever and our opinions are just opinions not fact, sooorrrryyy! Don't sue us!Please rate, review, share and subscribe in all the usual places – we love it when you do!Support us on Patreon

Hello and welcome to 2 Idiots 1 Podcast, today Taylor and Bailey talk about Apotemnophilia or BIID. During the episode Taylor and Bailey attempt to discuss the psychology behind Apotemnophilia! If you have theories, opinions, or thoughts on Apotemnophilia, or just want to tell us about your favorite disorder please email us for a chance to be read on the next episode. Thank you for listening and have a great day! Check out our link tree to see our Instagram, Twitter, YouTube Channel, or join the Facebook group at https://linktr.ee/2idiots1podcast Please feel free to email questions, comments, or anything else to 2idiots1podcast2022@gmail.com.

Rekordfart direkt när glädjetåget dundrar iväg från perrongen den här veckan! Niclas har golvats av att man nyligen hade ”öppet hus” för barnfamiljer på krematoriet i Borås. Vilka är ungjävlarna som föredrar info om den stundande uppbränningen av mormor framför en späckad lördag på ett lekland? Det blir även en rejäl dissekering av vilka tilltugg och drycker Sveriges partiledare väljer när det vankas TV-kväll. Vem somnar i soffan efter att ha tömt en låda rödtjut – och vem försöker locka röster genom lättsaltade chips? Vi djupdyker dessutom i diagnosen BIID som innebär att man har en vrålstark önskan, eller ett skrikande behov, av att ha en fysisk funktionsnedsättning. En dåre har tagit till avloppsrengörning för att kunna bli blind och en annan vill betala 250 000 kr för att få bli förlamad. Det hela landar i en urspårad diskussion om vad man kan identifiera sig som år 2023. Hjärndött och irrelevant! Häng med!

Today's show explores living in the “ad absurdum,” or at the end of slippery slopes by discussing the acceptance of men who abuse women as long as they wear a dress, eating bugs to address climate change even though we cannot predict the weekend weather, and the psychiatric condition of “Body Integrity Identity Disorder” or BIID, and its evolved advocacy term “transablism,” which enables physically healthy people to engage in self-mutilation.

In this episode Stephen A Smith is joined by Chris "Mad Dog" Russo and Tim Legler to talk about the headline NBA matchup last night between the Celtics and Sixers. What did this game say about the MVP race? Plus is this title or bust for the Lakers this season? And Michael Collins joins the show to talk about the Masters and who he believes will win it all. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if, for as long as you can remember, you've strongly felt as though one of your healthy limbs just doesn't belong? You've always wished it could be amputated. You aren't the only person with this feeling, but you would be one of fewer than 400 documented cases of body integrity dysphoria (BID) or body integrity identity disorder (BIID) in the world. Meet a man with BID, who, after years of struggling with his bodily identity, traveled to Asia to have his left leg under the knee amputated. Hear how he's felt since the surgery, and meet a bioethicist and moral philosopher who has pondered the origin and ethics of this rare condition. GUESTS:  Dr. Richard B. Gibson: A bioethicist and moral philosopher currently at the University of Texas Medical Branch. His thesis was about the ethics of elective amputations, specifically for body integrity identity disorder (BIID) Dan: A Wyoming man with BIID who had his left leg amputated below the knee in 2009, and started the BIID support group, “Fighting It” Support the show: https://www.wnpr.org/donateSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this week's Talking Health Feature, Barney explains the weird world of BIID, and how difficult it is to develop an understanding of.

Que una persona manifieste sentirse identificado con otro género, no es una noticia, pero que una persona transgénero se auto identifique como una mujer con discapacidad en silla de ruedas, aunque no tenga ningún impedimentos físico para caminar, sí es noticia, y controvertida, sobre todo por cómo salta la información y cómo se manejó. Esto ha sucedido en Noruega, hace un par de semanas, ocurrió en el programa de tv Guten Morgen Norge, cuando Jørund Viktoria Alme, de 53 años, declaró que siempre había deseado haber nacido mujer y paralizada de la cintura para abajo. ¿Asombrosa la información?? Sí, la noticia se viralizó desde su aparición en el programa de televisión cuando una pareja compuesta por una persona transgénero, Jørund Viktoria Alme, y su esposa Agnes Mjåseth aparecieron ante las cámaras para contar su historia. Se conocieron siendo Jørund un hombre y no estaba en silla de ruedas. Desde entonces hasta hoy, se han dado muchos cambios en la pareja y a pesar de ellos, continúan juntos después de 31 años de matrimonio. Al tratar estos temas de identidad de género, la prudencia debe ser cuando menos, una premisa, máxime si nos falta información y detalle en los relatos, que llevan a confusión o malas interpretaciones y de ahí a posturas radicales, desviando el foco en lo mollar, la protección del colectivo LGTBI+ y la defensa de sus derechos. Así con esa información tan…. ¡Sensacional!, saltaron las voces críticas; por un lado las de los grupos de personas discapacitadas, y ciertamente obligadas a necesitar una silla LGTBI+ en defensa de sus derechos de identidad. El asunto fue de tal calibre que las redes sociales ardieron manteniendo un nivel de confrontación incansable durante días. Una semana más tarde, Alme fue invitado de nuevo a otra entrevista, esta vez era con un comunicador que sí va en silla de ruedas por necesidad. Alme fue confrontada por este personaje quien le manifestaba no entender el por qué alguien pudiendo caminar, decide voluntariamente limitar su movilidad a una silla de ruedas. Alme despejó las dudas cuando manifestó que su identidad de género es independiente y que nada tiene que ver con un trastorno que padece desde su infancia: El trastorno de identidad de la integridad corporal o BIID (siglas en inglés, de Body Integrity Identity Disorder) Este tipo de trastorno le obliga a estar sentado en una silla de ruedas porque de ese modo es como su aflicción se atenúa lo suficiente, como para poder vivir sin ese sufrimiento. Esta condición hace que los individuos que lo sufren sientan un intenso deseo de poseer una discapacidad, como la parálisis o incluso la amputación de una o más extremidades. En cualquier caso, estos son trastornos que trata la psicología y psiquiatría y que requieren de una gran disposición por parte de las personas que rodean el entorno del paciente. Este era realmente el asunto original de la entrevista, pero el impacto provocó una ola de diferentes manifestaciones a favor, en contra y en todas direcciones. A veces, cuando no entendemos algo tendemos a protegernos levantando muros de rechazo… Lejos de que haya personas que verdaderamente sean unos frikis, y que tienen un deseo exacerbado de protagonismo, que parece no era el caso de este matrimonio, o sí, al mostrarse públicamente en un medio masivos, vosotros juzgareis, lo que es cierto es que esta persona sufre durante toda su vida de un trastorno severo. Lo criticable bajo mi punto de vista, es que la información tal y como se manejó, presenta algunos sesgos que inevitablemente pueden llevar asociada la duda de si en otros casos de transgénero no se esconden algunas patologías y ahí es donde tiene mayor oposición la propuesta de ley trans que se debate en el congreso, pudiendo hacer peligrar la esencia del proyecto, según manifestaba la Ministra de Igualdad Irene Montero Esta propuesta establece sobre todo, el derecho a la libre determinación de la identidad de género y su despatologización: En general la propuesta pretende establecer modos de actuación para agilizar procesos y protecciones del colectivo. En resumen la propuesta busca el reconociendo a las personas trans y su derecho a ser quienes son, (pero aquí viene lo más complejo), sin que medien testigos, ni la obligación de hormonación durante 2 años y sin ningún informe médico que tenga que decir que son personas enfermas". Las críticas en este punto, son respecto a la reducción a puro trámite burocrático. Por otro lado los mismos se preguntan si la edad que se establece, no es en exceso temprana. Pues se reducen los tiempos a un máximo de 4 meses para los mayores de edad, y para los que tengan entre 16 y 18 años. Y los que estén entre 14 y 16 necesitarán la autorización paterna o materna y, para quienes estén entre los 12 y los 14 años, el procedimiento se podrá realizar a través de un expediente de jurisdicción voluntaria. Por último, en cuanto al cambio de nombre, también los menores de 12 años podrán hacerlo en el Documento Nacional de Identidad (DNI). La ley también pretende proteger el derecho a las personas trans migrantes que podrán cambiar los documentos expedidos en España si en su país de origen no tienen garantizados sus derechos. Respecto a los niños y niñas intersex, no se podrán realizar cirugías de modificación genital. También se ampliará el plazo para que sus familias registren su sexo. Entre los dos socios de gobierno parece que no llegan a un acuerdo y el PSOE ha registrado algunas enmiendas a la ley que según el colectivo afectado y la propia ministra, consideran que atenta contra el corazón mismo de la ley, En concreto, los socialistas quieren endurecer la autodeterminación de género en menores de 16 años y también el proceso, en caso de reversión del cambio de género. Para unos es limitar de forma inaceptable y en contra de sus derechos y para otros, es una cautela obligada. Hay que recordar que actualmente, la legislación española exige un diagnóstico médico de disforia de género y un tratamiento hormonal de dos años para que una persona transexual pueda cambiar su sexo en el registro pese a que la Organización Mundial de la Salud dejó de considerar la transexualidad como un trastorno en 2018, la "despatologizó". Sea como fuere, un cambio de ley en este sentido es un gran avance en muy pocos años, si tenemos en cuenta que por ejemplo, la homosexualidad se despenalizó hace tan solo 44 años en España. Desde allí hasta ahora, ha habido muchos cambios que hay que seguir revisando y actualizando, también en nuestra forma de ver el mundo y su diversidad y actuar en la protección a grupos tan vulnerables. Por supuesto que los avances en este sentido, chocan duramente con las opiniones más inmovilistas que suelen de carácter religioso, o de grupos más radicales como el movimiento global anti género, y también las sociales y culturales. He escuchado algunas dignas de vergüenza ajena… Por qué deben usar el baño público de mujeres?? ¿O por qué debo pagar en relación a la asistencia pública y gratuita el capricho de una persona??? Para entender la ley. A partir de ahora Las personas pueden comparecer en cualquier oficina del registro civil e informar de su disconformidad con el sexo asignado. 2 Las personas trans dejan de ser consideradas como personas con una patología. Para el cambio de sexo no se necesitará la hormonación durante 2 años ni examen psicológico. 3 Los menores pueden decidir Y a partir de los 16 años, pueden acudir al registro civil entre los 14 y los 16 con consentimiento de sus representantes legales y entre los 12 y los 14 mediante autorización judicial. Los menores de 12 años podrán cambiar de nombre sin prueba testifical. 4 Otras, La prohibición de las terapias de conversión, el acceso a la técnicas de reproducción asistida para personas que puedan gestar o la filiación de los bebés, nacidos de mujeres no casadas. Y por primera vez se legislan en nuestro país los derechos de las personas intrasexuales. Hoy, para poder entender mejor algunas cosas, tengo el gusto de presentaros al Dr. Fernando Espí, que es un psiquiatra español que trabaja ni más ni menos, que en el departamento de psiquiatría en Massachuset General Hospital en Harvard y que muy amablemente he invitado y como siempre, nos regala unos minutos de su preciado tiempo. Fernando además es otro podcaster de gran éxito y a quien os recomiendo, El Último Humanista, además es autor de varios libros en su materia y colabora en muchos programas de radio donde siempre su punto de vista es muy valorado gracias a su gran nivel clínico en su especialidad. Escucha el resto de la entrevista. Puedes visitar mi web para ver fuentes y documentación www.ppaulhabla.com Foto: TV2 Norge Música: Alaska, A quién le importa Fernando Espí, Podcast: "El último humanista" Escucha el episodio completo en la app de iVoox, o descubre todo el catálogo de iVoox Originals

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Summary:  In this episode, we review the many ways we fail to love ourselves, through self-hatred and through indifference toward ourselves.  We discuss the ways that unlove for self manifests itself, contrasting a lack of love with ordered self-love through the lens of Bernard Brady's five characteristics of love.  We discuss the impact of a lack of self-love on your body.  I then invite you into an experiential exercise to get to know a part of you that is not loving either another part of you or your body.   Lead-In “Mourn not the dead that in the cool earth lie--Dust unto dust--The calm, sweet earth that mothers all who dieAs all men must; Mourn not your captive comrades who must dwell--Too strong to strive--Within each steel-bound coffin of a cell,Buried alive; But rather mourn the apathetic throng--The cowed and the meek--Who see the world's great anguish and its wrongAnd dare not speak!”― Ralph Chaplin, Bars And Shadows Intro I am Dr. Peter Malinoski, clinical psychologist and passionate Catholic and this is the Interior Integration for Catholics Podcasts, coming to you from the Souls and Hearts Studio in Indianapolis, Indiana.   This podcast is all about bringing you the best of psychology and human formation and harmonizing it with the perennial truths of the Catholic Faith.  In this Interior Integration for Catholics podcast, we take the most important human formation issues head on, without trepidation, without hesitation -- we don't mince words as we directly address with the most important concerns in the natural realm, the absolute central issues that we need to address with all of our energy and all of our resources.   We have been working through a series on trauma and well-being -- starting with episode 88.  In the last episode, episode 96, I Am a Rock: How Trauma Hardens us Against Being Loved -- we discussed the impact of trauma on us accepting love from others, including God.   In this episode, we're addressing how trauma sets us up to refuse to love ourselves.  Welcome to Episode 97 of Interior Integration for Catholics, titled "Unlove of Self:  How Trauma Predisposes You to Self-Hatred and Indifference"  It's released on September 5, 2022.   It is so good to be with you, thank you for listening in and for being together with me once again.  I'm glad we are here and that we are exploring the great unlove of self.   The great unlove for self -- like the uncola ads from 7-UP in the late 60s throughout the 70s and 80, even into the late 90s. What does unlove of self mean -- OK, I get it that it's refusing to love myself -- but what does that mean?   You might tell me that if I don't love myself, then I am hating myself.   All right.  Let's go with that.  Let's explore self-hatred and self-loathing  Define self-hatred Self-hatred is hatred directed toward oneself rather than toward others  Verywellmind.com article titled "Self-loathing" by Jodi Clarke, a licensed professional counselor  Self-loathing, or self-hatred, is extreme criticism of oneself. It may feel as though nothing you do is good enough or that you are unworthy or undeserving of good things in life. Self-hate can feel like having a person following you around, all day every day, criticizing you and pointing out every flaw, or shaming you for every mistake.   Brennan Manning  In my experience, self-hatred is the dominant malaise crippling Christians and stifling their growth in the Holy Spirit. Not sure I agree with that -- depends on the definitions.  Shame and the fear of shame overwhelming the self are such drivers of self hatred.   Angel Ploetner, Who Am I? Dissociative Identity Disorder Survivor “Shame plays a huge part in why you hate who you are.” Shame is so central  Check out episodes 37 to 49 of this podcast for a whole series on shame.    Eric Hoffer It is not love of self but hatred of self which is at the root of the troubles that afflict our world. Basil W. Maturin  We never get to love by hate, least of all by self-hatred.  Lori Deschene  “We can't hate ourselves into a version of ourselves we can love.” The primary way we hate ourselves -- for parts of you to hate other parts of you.  I am talking about intra-psychic hatred.  Hatred within you, for you, by you.   IFS description of the self Reference Episode 71: A New and Better Way of Understanding Myself and Others  Definition of Parts:  Parts are like separate, independently operating personalities within you, each with own unique prominent needs, roles in your life, emotions, body sensations, guiding beliefs and assumptions, typical thoughts, intentions, desires, attitudes, impulses, interpersonal style, and world view.  Each part also has a different attitude or position toward other parts of you and different beliefs and assumptions about your body.  Robert Falconer calls these parts insiders.   Like in the movie Inside Out.  Your parts have different roles within your self-system.   Your parts have a very narrow, limited vision when they are not in right relationship with your innermost self.  Each of your parts usually has a strong agenda, something that they trying to accomplish, some good that that part is seeking for you.    Polarizations  Examples of polarizations in the most recent weekly reflection -- The Counterfeits of Self-Giving from August 31,2022.  How parts get polarized around the idea of giving of self Compliant surrenderer vs. feisty protector  Self-sacrificer vs. rebel  Check that out.   Bessel van der Kolk, in his excellent book "The Body Keeps the Score" devotes all of chapter 17 to Internal Family Systems.  Very accessible book, I've recommended it before to many non-clinicians.  There's a reason it has been the top selling book on trauma for the last seven years running.  A book like that comes around once in a generation.  In 1992, It was Judith Herman's seminal book Trauma and Recovery.  23 years later, it was The Body Keeps the Score.   To examine Unlove, we are going to contrast unloving with loving.  Let's review the five general characteristics of love -- from Bernard Brady, his 2003 Christian Love: How Christians through the Ages have Understood Love.-- drawing heavily from the work of Christian phenomenologists.  I introduced his five characteristics of in Episode 94, The Primacy of Love and I expanded on them in Episode 95 Trauma's Devastating Impact on our Capacity to Love.  Love is affective, love is affirming, love is responsive, love is unitive, love is steadfast.  Those are the five characteristics of love that Bernard Brady distilled from his historical review of how Christians have seen love through the ages.  Love is affective, love is affirming, love is responsive, love is unitive, love is steadfast.  So let's break down what happens when one part of you is hating another part of you.   Love is affective -- love is emotional Love rejoices in the beloved -- Protestant Theologian R.H. Neibuhr writes in his 1977  By love, we mean at least these attitudes and actions: rejoicing in the presence of the beloved, gratitude, reverence, and loyalty toward him.  p.35   Many positive emotions are associated with love Delight, Bliss, Happiness  A sense of fulfillment  Warmth, appreciation   What does hatred or loathing for another part look like?  How do parts hate each other? Self hatred is also affective -- it's also emotional.  But in a very different way that ordered self-love is.   Disgust regarding the another part  Anger toward another part  Contempt for the body -- anger + disgust = contempt  Example:  Let's say there is a fearful part of you that is very frightened of public speaking – of making presentations in front of other people. And now, for your work, you are required to make an important presentation in front of your supervisors and more senior executives within your company. Another part of you, your perfectionistic part, has led you to rehearse your presentation, to the point where you almost have it memorized. Your last performance in front of your bedroom mirror was so good. But now, in front of your audience, your fearful part locks you up. You find yourself stuttering, stammering, and your inner critic is a railing in hatred against your fearful part. That inner critic is saying things like, "Why are you such a sniveling frightened little coward? It's just a simple presentation, dumb ass, we've practiced it over and over, we have it down.  Get yourself together, this is really important, and you are screwing it up and making us all look bad.  Who knows what will happen if we can't pull this off." The more intense your inner critic gets in its hateful attack on your fearful part, the more the fearful part freezes.  After the presentation ends, the inner critic continues to bash the fearful part, ruminating about how poor the presentation was.   Love is affirming Love says yes to the other at the same time as love says yes to oneself.  In parts thinking, there is a open-hearted yes to all the parts.  Not just some parts, not just the "acceptable" parts of us.  All part are welcome to the table.   In self-hatred, one or more parts attack the unloved part -- not just superficially, but they hating parts go after the identity of the unloved part the self-hating parts want to destroy the hated part, or at least banish the hated part from having a voice, from having a seat at the table  In our example, you can see how the inner critic is trying to get rid of the fearful part, trying to suppress that part with its fear.    From Jodi Clarke's Verywellmind.com article:  Typical self-hating thoughts may include:     "I knew we would fail."       "Why do I even try?"     "I'm a loser."     "No one wants to be around me."     "Look at me screwing up again."     "Can't I just be normal?"     "I hate myself." Richard Bach   The worst lies are the lies we tell ourselves. We live in denial of what we do, even what we think. We do this because we're afraid.  When other people affirm the person who is dominated by a self-hating part, the affirmation doesn't really sink in.  It doesn't work.  The person all caught up in self hatred can't hear the affirmation, can't take the affirmation in.  Richey Edwards  “People say to the mentally ill, ‘You know so many people think the world of you.' But when they don't like themselves they don't notice anything. They don't care about what people think of them. When you hate yourself, whatever people say it doesn't make sense. ‘Why do they like me? Why do they care about me?' Because you don't care about yourself at all.”   Love is responsive:  Love is an active response for the well-being of the other.  It's about participating in the promotion of the highest good for the other, potential for the other How can I help you to flourish?  How can I help you toward your highest good?   In self-hatred one or more parts tear down the hated part.  There is a response to the hated part, but it's not a positive one.   Rather than attuning to the hated part, the hating parts seek to silence it and suppress it without really getting to know the hated part.  Not interested in the hated part's experience -- why the hated part thinks, feels or assumes what it does.   In our example, the inner critic is responsive to the fear of the fearful part, but in hateful way -- seeing the fearful part as counterproductive and threatening the wellbeing of the whole person, and thus feels justified in the bullying, heavy-handed approach taken.   Love is unitive  Bernard Brady:  The fruit of love is unity.  Love unites.  It is in the very nature of love to bring together.  p. 279 Hatred divides.  It polarizes within.  The fearful part and the inner critic have no common ground because of the hatred.   Hatred fragments within.  It shatters the self.  Order self love helps to integrate all the parts, providing space for all parts to be seen, heard known, and loved. Love integrates parts, inviting them into a collaborative, cooperative relationship with the innermost self and with all the other parts.  We give this internal unity a special name -- interior integration.  That is what this podcast is all about.  Interior integration for Catholics.   Love is steadfast Steadfastness in self-love requires acceptance of all parts for there to be resilience.  Hatred contributes to the inner system of the self being brittle and fragile.     Hatred doesn't generally come from our innermost selves  Self:  The natural core of the person, the center of the person in the natural realm.  This is who we sense ourselves to be in our best moments, and when our self is free, and unblended with any of our parts, it governs our whole being as an active, compassionate leader.  Unharmed by trauma, by attachment injuries, by relational wounds, by negative life experiences.   Catholics don't believe in John Calvin's concept of total depravity, that we are sinful and morally corrupt through and through.  Catholics don't believe we are snow-covered dung heaps, like Martin Luther taught.  We are still ontologically good, still made in the image and likeness of God.   We want to be recollected, we want the self governing all of our parts Like the conductor -- leading the musicians in an orchestra Like the captain -- leading and governing all the sailors on a ship.   When we are recollected, in self, 8 C's Calm  Curiosity  Compassion  Confidence  Courage  Clarity  Connectedness  Creativity   We also have the capacity for kindness The only exception:  unless we've committed the unforgivable sin, blaspheming against the Holy Spirit  CCC 1864:  “There are no limits to the mercy of God, but anyone who deliberately refuses to accept his mercy by repenting, rejects the forgiveness of his sins and the salvation offered by the Holy Spirit. Such hardness of heart can lead to final impenitence and eternal loss” (No. 1864). Repudiating life, love, truth, mercy, forgiveness -- irrevocably, through hardness of heart.  That is possible, or Jesus would not have warned against it.  Walking dead.   What does self-hatred mean for our relationships with our body? We are body and soul composites.  We are embodied beings.   Bessel van der Kolk:  The Body Keeps the Score -- groundbreaking work summarizing how much trauma becomes embodied  Another way for you to hate yourself  -- or more specifically, for a part of you to hate your body.   Examples of actively hating the body  Active examples 4 Extreme cases -- starting with extreme cases -- Suicidal Acts, Body Dysmporphic Disorder, Body Integrity Identity Disorder, Self-Harm (aka Self-mutilation).   Suicidal acts -- I did a whole series on suicide in this Interior Integration for Catholics podcast.  Episodes 76-80 Suicidal part -- desperately seeking relief from intense pain and distress   Other Reason -- these are the core reasons. -- review them in episode 76 and got into how parts are active around suicide in episode 78 The Desperate Inner Experience of Suicidality  Attachment needs not met -- Episode 62 A felt sense of safety and protection, deep sense of security felt in the bones  Feeling seen and known heard and understood -- felt attunement  Felt comfort, reassurance  Feeling valued, delighted in, cherished by the attachment figure  Felt support for the best self   Integrity Needs not met All of the above.  Each one of us needs help to develop our sense of self, our identity  I exist  my existence is separate from others --  I exist in my own right, a separate personIs bounded, has boundaries  My identity is stable over time and across different situations -- there is a continuity  I can regulate myself -- I have some self-control.   Is integrated -- coherent interconnections inside between aspects of experience -- self-cohesion  Is active, with agency, can effectively function in the world  Is morally good -- ontologically or essentially good and thus has intrinsic value and worth, apart from others' opinions.   I can make sense of my experience and the world around me  Mission and Purpose in life  We also need to make good choices -- seek what is good, true and beautiful in life   Body dysmorphic disorder   Appearance preoccupations: The individual must be preoccupied with one or more nonexistent or slight defects or flaws in their physical appearance. Verbally abusing the body Body shaming yourself -- a part of you calling your body fat, ugly, physically unattractive, calling your body out on the perceived unattractive features -- my eyes are too far apart, my lips are too thin, my skin is too bumpy, and what about that zit that just appeared.   Repetitive behaviors: The individual must perform repetitive, compulsive behaviors in response to the appearance concerns.  Behaviors: mirror checking, excessive grooming, skin picking, reassurance seeking, or clothes changing.  mental acts such as a part of you comparing one's appearance with that of other people.   -- getting on tiktok and saying, that person's body is so gorgeous and I'm a just a pig.  Ruminating about what others have said about your body or what they might say about your body.  Sometimes it's all just in the realm of fantasy.   Differentiation from an eating disorder: Body Integrity Identity Disorder (BIID) is a rare, infrequently studied and highly secretive condition in which there is a mismatch between the mental body image and the physical body. Subjects suffering from BIID have an intense desire to amputate a major limb or severe the spinal cord in order to become paralyzed or to become blind or deaf. Self-harm  or self-mutilation, sometimes called cutting Really not understood well by most people -- dismissed as something only a crazy person would do.   It's a symptom.   Forms include Cutting  Burning or branding, scalding with hot water  Picking at the skin, reopening wounds or severe scratching  Carving the skin  Trichotillomania   Head banging Hitting oneself Biting oneself Self-poisoning Self-starvation (deliberate) Getting into fights Reasons for Self Harm  The Punished Self, the Unknown Self, and the Harmed Self – Toward a More Nuanced Understanding of Self-Harm Among Adolescent Girls -- August 2021 Frontiers in Psychology Norwegian researcher Line Indrevoll Stänicke1 -- Qualitative Study of 19 adolescent girls  Superordinate themes “I deserve pain,”  “I don't want to feel anything,”  “I'm harmed, and no one cares.”  “I deserve pain,”  “I don't want to feel anything,”  “I'm harmed, and no one cares.”  8 Reasons for Self-harm Desire to release unbearable tension or providing relief from overwhelming emotions  At times [self-harm] also silenced the chaos in my head, briefly pausing the repetitive flashbacks and body memories."  Desire to regain control  Fighting depersonalization -- "Self-harm proved to me I was real, I was alive.  (mind.org.uk)   Numbness can feel like death -- need to feel anything at all.   Self-hatred  Feeling the need to self-punish "I hated my body and blamed it for what I'd been through, so felt it needed punishing. (mind.org.uk) Marya Hornbacher, Wasted: A Memoir of Anorexia and Bulimia   “I wanted to kill the me underneath. That fact haunted my days and nights. When you realize you hate yourself so much, when you realize that you cannot stand who you are, and this deep spite has been the motivation behind your behavior for many years, your brain can't quite deal with it. It will try very hard to avoid that realization; it will try, in a last-ditch effort to keep your remaining parts alive, to remake the rest of you. This is, I believe, different from the suicidal wish of those who are in so much pain that death feels like relief, different from the suicide I would later attempt, trying to escape that pain. This is a wish to murder yourself; the connotation of kill is too mild. This is a belief that you deserve slow torture, violent death.”  Blaming your body for others' actions romantic partner breaking up with you -- not attractive enough  Being raped -- hating body because it attracted unwanted attention of the rapist.   To express pain, communicate or share the internal experience to others, to make visible what is felt within.   A way to distract from some worse experience, e.g. intrusive thoughts.   Association with others who self-harm -- peer group.   Five general characteristics of love from Bernard Brady -- looking at how they contrast with parts' hatred for the body.  Love is affective -- love is emotional Hatred regarding the body  Disgust regarding the body  Anger toward the body  Fear of the body  Contempt for the body -- anger + disgust = contempt  Fueled by envy of other people's bodies.   Love is affirming  Devaluing the body -- Body Shaming Seeing the body as evil   De-facto Manicheanism All matter are seen as evil -- including our bodies  St. Augustine adhered to Manicheanism for a while before his conversion, and then strongly refuted it.   Hatred of the body.   Love is responsive And love is responsive to the body's legitimate needs.   or ignored.  In self-hatred toward the body, those needs are condemned  Love is unitive Can be a kind of separation of the body from the self.  I am not my body.  This is not by body.   Love is steadfast   So that is self-hatred.  But self-hatred isn't actually the most common or important form of failing to love the self.   What is the most common and most important failure to love the self?  The great sin against the self, if you will? Indifference.  The opposite of love is not hate, it is indifference.  “The Beloved Ego: Foundations of the New Study of the Psyche” by prominent Austrian psychologist Wilhelm Stekel. The text was translated from German into English by Rosalie Gabler and published in 1921.  The quote was expanded and made famous by Nobel Laureate Elie Wiesel in a 1986 US News and World Report article The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it's indifference. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it's indifference. And the opposite of life is not death, it's indifference.   Indifference is so, so common.  We can be so indifferent to ourselves and to others. ― David Mitchell  “The world's default mode is basic indifference. It'd like to care, but it's just got too much on at the moment.”  Aristotle “Tolerance and apathy are the last virtues of a dying society.”     W. Somerset Maugham British playwright, novelist, short story writer The tragedy of love is indifference Catholic philosopher Peter Kreeft wrote in his book Prayer for Beginners that Indifference is more truly the opposite of love than hate is, for we can both love and hate the same person at the same time, but we cannot both love and be indifferent to the same person at the same time What does indifference to the self mean to the parts The biggest form of unlove -- indifference.   Define indifference --  an absence of interest in or concern about emotional, social, spiritual, philosophical, virtual, or physical life.   and the world. not caring about oneself.  Disregarding oneself, Abandoning oneself, not caring about oneself. Wait a minute, Dr. Peter -- I thought that was what we Catholics were called to do.  Being dead or numb to oneself  Evil is the absence of good (privatio boni) -- privation theory of evil --  this idea was implicit in some of Plato's writings, but he never stated it implicitly   Plotinus further developed the idea And St. Augustine really refined it.  City of God:  For evil has no positive nature; but the loss of good has received the name “evil.” Examples of indifference to the parts  Lack of awareness Parts disconnected from the self or fused with the self have very partial vision      Lack of caring Make up some examples here.   Five general characteristics of love -- from Bernard Brady Love is affective, love is affirming, love is responsive, love is unitive, love is steadfast.   Love is affective -- love is emotional Apathy toward the parts.  Not caring about them, not interested.  Parts pursuing their own agendas inside with little regard for the wellbeing of others parts.   Trauma begins in terror but ends in apathy.”  ― Brian W. Becker ― Khang Kijarro Nguyen  “Apathy is as dangerous, invisible, and contagious as an asymptomatic virus carrier.” “Apathy is a silent killer.” ― Frank Sonnenberg,     Love is affirming “The stronger you cling to your armor of indifference, the more it strips you of your humanity.” ― Abhijit Naskar, No Foreigner Only Family    Love is responsive “there are people capable of eating popcorn at the movie of your agony”― StephanieR oberts, Rushes from the River Disappointment   Nina MacLaughlin, Wake, Siren: Ovid Resung  “His eyes they held the most dangerous thing, they held the top of the sins. Indifference. Indifference. A vacancy where human care should be."  “We may not choose apathy, but when we choose anything other than love and empathetic justice, we get apathy by default.”― Ken Wytsma,  Love is unitive Love is never fragmented; it's an inseparable whole which does not delight in bits and pieces. John A. Andrews  Love is steadfast Polarizations lead to tension inside and instability   What does indifference to the self mean to the body Bessel van der Kolk:  … traumatized people chronically feel unsafe inside their bodies: the past is alive in the form of annoying interior discomforts. Their bodies are constantly bombarded by visceral warning signs, and in an attempt to control these processes, the often become expert at ignoring their gut feelings in a numbing awareness of what is played out inside. They learn to hide from themselves.   Examples of indifference to the body  Lack of awareness Parts disconnected from the self or fused with the self have very partial vision   Less extreme, passive examples of indifference to the body -- we've all done at least some of these.   Problematic eating or drinking Too much caffeine (hooked on energy drinks or coffee)  Misuse of alcohol  Overeating  Too much sugar  Too much junk food  Eating to soothe oneself when upset, sometimes called emotional eating  Eating when bored  Skipping meals   Smoking Not exercising at all -- too little physical activity -- or too much exercise Poor ergonomics Overdoing the screen time -- 10 hours a day on the computer is hard on the eyes Low activity levels  9.3 hours of sitting per day, more than 7.7 hours of sleeping today Not going outside Allowing yourself to get really sunburned or dehydrated or exhausted Not using the bathroom when you need to Poor clothing choices -- not bundling up in winter -- the man in the hoodie when it's 15 degrees out in wintertime, woman wearing high heels when it's not a good choice,  Misuse of the smartphone -- using your smartphone in bed Poor sleep habits, going to bed too late Misuse of sex -- not caring for your body in sexual situations.   Not getting medical or dental care for your body that would be good and right ignoring a treatable condition  Ignoring symptoms   Poor hygiene Five general characteristics of love -- from Bernard Brady Love is affective, love is affirming, love is responsive, love is unitive, love is steadfast.   Love is affective -- love is emotional Indifference to the body.  Just not caring about the body, apathy toward the body.  Looking at only the utilitarian functionality of the body.  The body as a container or vessel for your mind or soul or psyche.     Love is affirming -- indifference to the body can mimic detachment or poverty Love is responsive -- Lack of awareness about the body.  Very disconnected.   La belle indifference:  The term “la belle indifference” is a French term, which translates to “beautiful ignorance.”[1] La belle indifference is defined as a paradoxical absence of psychological distress despite having a serious medical illness or symptoms related to a health condition. Not being interested in your body.  Love is unitive Not seeing your body is part of you, disconnecting from your body Love is steadfast 1 Cor 3:16-17.   Do you not know that you are God's temple and that God's Spirit dwells in you? If any one destroys God's temple, God will destroy him. For God's temple is holy, and that temple you are.   Experiential Exercise on Unlove -- the failure to love  Cautions difficult material -- how and why we don't love ourselves.   window of tolerance Upside -- Fight or flight, sympathetic activation  Downside -- Free response -- dorsal vagal activation, shutting down, numbing out,  don't have to do this exercise, can stop at any time, reground yourself  no steamrolling parts  Good to do this exercise when you have the time and space and privacy -- not while driving or engaging in other activities that would require you to divide your attention.   Options Take what is useful to you  Feel free to go your own direction if that seems what's best  Feel free to pause the audio and really settle in and do extended work inside if that seems best  Can have pens, pencils and paper to write down things that are helpful -- like a journal -- or to map out things, draw if that's helpful.  Can pause the recording at points where you would like to have more time to do your internal work.   A lot of gentleness with and for yourself.  Moment here for your to really care for yourself.   Luke 10:27 Love your neighbor as yourself -- we are supposed to love ourselves in an ordered way And that means loving the parts of ourself that are in need.  With care and compassion If you get distracted, that's ok, that's common.  You can just refocus, or if that's not possible, then focus in on that distraction -- get curious about why a part of you needs to distract you.   Body scan -- locating -- finding. -- Call that a trailhead Tension in muscles  Stomach pain or gastrointestinal distress  Headaches  Fatigue   Could be other trailheads Images or dreams that come back to mind  Memories, sounds, beliefs or assumptions   Focus in on that one sensation or inner experience that reflects some kind of distress or agitation about you not loving you.   That experience will lead you to a part -- we will call the part you are focusing on, your target part.  A part that is not loving some other part of you in some way Your target part Might be hating another part of you  Your target part Might just not be caring about another part of you.   Your target part Might be trying to suppress or silence that other part.   Listen in to what that experience, that body sensation or that impulse or desire or image or memory or belief. Really notice that target part.  How do you experience it?  Let's see if we can work with one part at a time.  You can do this reflection and guided exercise over again with multiple parts if you'd like.  But see if your parts inside can agree to let you work with one part.   We are going to ask that one part not to flood you with its intensity.  That's a safety thing.  We are asking that part not to overwhelm you with its distress.  We want to be separate but near, so that you as the self can have a relationship with that part.  If your target part fuses with you or blends with you, you can't have a relationship.  See if that part will agree not to overwhelm.  Just ask it.  See what the response is.  If it agrees, then  Really sense that part.  See that part or sense that part, however that part is becoming more apparent to you.  How old is that part?  Some parts of us are very, very young.  Even preverbal.   Really listen to what that target parts wants to share with you, what it wants you to know.   How is that target part trying to help you?  What is that target part's good intentions.   How are you feeling toward that part, toward that experience Compassion  Connection  Curiosity -- genuine interest  Calm   If feeling negative, can we get concerned protector parts to soften, to relax back so that you, as the self, can connect with your distressed target part?  If not, focus on the concerned protector part.  Really get interested about why that part is not ready to let you connect with your target part.  There's a reason.  Parts always have good intentions for us.   Let your target part tell you all about what its experiencing with the other part -- the unloved part.   Emotions Anxiety  Sorrow -- deep emotional pain  Anger  Numbness   Thinking -- assumptions, beliefs Really be open to these beliefs, asking protectors not to censor them if possible.  Concentration issues.   Behaviors -- why does the part do what it does? What does this conflict connect back to for your part -- when did the part feel the same way in your history?  Checking to see if there's a concerned protector part trying to speak for your target part -- like a spokespart who wants to interpret the parts experience.  See if that concerned protector part can soften and relax back and let the target part speak for itself.   How is that part doing now?  Changes in your body?   Can the part feel love from you?  xWhere are you with: Compassion  Connectedness  Curiosity  Calm   Winding up Can write down what you learned, what was helpful, what came to you -- giving your parts a voice on paper.   Can do this exercise again with a different part  Gratitude for all your parts -- all have good intentions are trying to help  This doesn't have to be the end of connecting with your target part -- doesn't have to be a one-off experience, can check in with that part again.  Action Plan Looking ahead: next episode, number 98 -- ordered self-love -- now that we've covered all the ways that we can fail to love ourselves, we will be learning what it means for us to be loving ourselves in an ordered way.   Fr. Jacques Philippe -- 2008 Book Called to Life:  This self-love is good and necessary, not egoism that refers everything to "me," but the grace to live in peace with one's self, consent to be what one is, with one's talents and limitations. Love of God, love of neighbor, and love of self grow together and sustain one another as they grow. If one is absent or neglected, the other to suffer. Like the legs of a tripod, all three are needed in order to stand in each leans on the others. St. Thomas Aquinas  -- bringing in some of the work of Dr. Mary Julian Ekman, Religious Sister of Mercy. Self-love is the ground of human action, where the conscious choice to love self transforms self- love into self-friendship.  Proper self-love (amor sui ordinatus) is indispensable for perfecting the human person by making the soul more like God, who knows and loves himself by his very essence.    This movement toward self-perfection is hindered by improper self-love (amor sui inordinatus)   St. Augustine will also help us, as we explore how disordered self-love regards the self as an end, but ordered self-love sees the self as a means to the proper end of love.   Promotions  Ann-Marie Klobe -- Ready for Love: An online retreat for single Catholic women over 35 who are ready to connect deeper with their Faith, the Saints, and find a Godly relationship.  The Ready for Love retreat airs October 3-17, 2022  So many single Catholics are operating from a place of disconnection, and my goal is to restore their trust in God's plan for their life, help them feel like they have a purpose in this world, and provide training on topics such as the Saints, forgiveness, beauty, and trusting in God.  Anne-Marie did an extended experiential exercise with me as part of this retreat.  She discovered and explored some hidden reasons that could be obstacles in romantic intimacy.  She did some beautiful work that she will share with the women who attend the retreat.   Anne Marie and I are also planning for me to do a 60-minute live Q&A for the Ready for Love retreat -- where the women on the retreat can bring their questions to me about the ways that they reject ourselves as persons, the ways in which they refuse to love themselves, what it would mean to be married, and about discovering their primary identity as a beloved daughter of God.   The website for the retreat was not quite up yet at recording time.   You can go to Anne Marie Klobe's website -- https://www.anne-marieklobe.com  I will be letting you know more about it and provide links in the weekly reflections that I email out on September 14 and 21-- if you haven't been getting the weekly email reflections, sign up for them, and have them delivered to your email inbox every Wednesday.  Go to Souls and Hearts.com and click  the box that says "Get Dr. Peter's weekly reflection in your email inbox each Wednesday. Those weekly reflections are deep dives that I write each week about critical human formation topics -- those weekly reflections are the written companions to this podcast.   The Resilient Catholics Community.  The RCC.  I am inviting you on an adventure of being loved and of loving.  That is what the Resilient Catholic Community is all about.  Check it out at soulsandhearts.com/RCC   The RCC is all about working through your human formation issues -- the ones that lead to all the unlove you have for yourself.  The self-hatred and the indifference to self, the failures to love yourself in an ordered way, so that you can love got with all of your being -- with your whole heart, your whole soul, your whole mind and all your strength, with every fiber of your being.   It's all about learning to be gentle but firm with yourself -- it's all about integration.  It's all about resilience.   All about restoration -- recovering from being dominated by shame, fear, anger, sadness, pessimism, whatever your struggle is in the depths of your human formation We do this work experientially -- so many experiential exercises -- so we work not just in your head, and not just in your soul, but also in your heart.   And we do the work step by step -- in a very clear program.   Check it out at soulsandhearts.com/rcc -- we open registration for new members every June and December.   I'm inviting you to join me and more than 100 other faithful Catholics on this pilgrimage to much better human formation.  Get on the waiting list for the cohort that begins in December 2022.  soulsandhearts.com/rcc Talk with me about it in conversation hours call my cell 317.567.9594 any Tuesday or Thursday from 4:30 PM to 5:30 PM Eastern time for conversation hours.    

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Interior designers are well respected for their creativity, but much less so for their business practices. Most design studios are micro businesses whose owners are often too busy designing to pay sufficient attention to contracts and other key project documents. So, what do designers need to do to tighten up their business practices in order to be seen as true professionals? And where can they turn to for advice? The British Institute of Interior Design in partnership with the Royal Institute of British Architects has commissioned a new, comprehensive guide to professional practice for interior designers, called ‘The BIID Project Book. The author of this publication, none other than podcast co-host, Susie Rumbold, a Past President of the BIID and Creative Director of London firm, Tessuto Interiors, joins us on the show to explain more about the project and tell us what we can find inside 'The BIID Project Book'.

Is every part of your body truly your own? Most would say yes, but those suffering from Body Integrity Identity Disorder would say no, adamantly. Today I am digging into this rare and remarkable disorder which you've probably never heard of. What exactly is Body Integrity Identity Disorder (BIID)?  Is it a physiological disorder, a neurological disorder, or simply a psychological disorder, if it is a true disorder at all?  If someone has BIID, how ethical or unethical is it for a surgeon to amputate a perfectly healthy part of their body, at their request and with their profuse thanks? Does “do no harm” in such a case mean preserving the integrity of the person's physical body, or does it mean soothing the person's mind by altering their physical body in what most would say is a completely unnecessary way?  I take a stab at these questions, some of which are far easier to answer than others, and throw in a quick walk-through of the amputation process just for perspective. I'm also bringing back a proper fairy tale straight from the Brothers Grimm for story time.  Take a listen, and find out why there are some people out there desperately hoping to find a relatively safe way of removing one (or more) of their perfectly healthy, functioning limbs. See visuals for this episode on https://www.instagram.com/carolinesayang/ (Instagram)! Become a https://www.patreon.com/creeptastic (Patreon) of Creeptastic to access bonus weekly and monthly content! Contact me and find links to social media at https://creeptastic.com/ (Creeptastic.com)!

My guest this week is Dee Gibson, a London based, residential interior designer with nearly 20 years of experience working with private, residential clients and focusing on whole house refurbishments and extensions. In 2018, Dee opened Kalukanda House, a boutique hotel in Sri Lanka which she designed and built. But life wasn't always how she designed it to be.Dee started out doing engineering followed by accountancy, but it wasn't where her heart was, and after the accountancy firm she worked for (a top 5 global practice over 100 years old) went under, and friend died, she decided to do a life makeover.She retrained in Interior design and found what she was looking for. This is what she was meant to be doing. She built her practice and developed her style. She kept this message at the centre of her work “ How can I make people happy, add value and leave a positive impact?”  She thinks about a space differently, sources ethically, the longevity of a scheme, and how it can benefit communities. She joined the BIID sustainability committee in order to help drive thinking and build sustainable policies, & business contributes to a charity in Sri Lanka empowering abused women and girls through safe housing and education. It is in her homeland of Sri Lanka that she also built another dream: Kalukanda House, a boutique hotel that reflected her values of design and ecological responsibility. They encourage conscious travellers with an adventurous spirit, creatives who are looking for rest and inspiration and anybody looking for a place to entirely unhook and enjoy time feeling empowered in nature.Hip Hotel Member - also featured in top 5 "slow travel destinations" for 2020. Finalist in the "Best New Business" category of the UK wide Best Women in Business Awards 2019. They have have hosted retreats, writers crafting TV shows, entrepreneurs launching businesses and families enjoying time together amongst others. And back in UK she has co-founded Hera Leadership with programmes for working women to action career change with a focus on mind, body & business.Thanks so much Dee for helping us to understand how we too can be more creative in the way we design our lives and the environment we build around us. Thanks also for showing us we can change direction when it no longer serves us, and create a more sustainable life for ourselves and the communities we are part of. You can find out more about Dee's work on https://velvetorange.co.uk/ and follow her on Linkedin @DeeGibsonJoin Lou on Linkedin, or sign up to her mailing list for her newsletter and a free podcast guesting mini-guide. Her online course READY, SET, PITCH to PODCASTS is available at www.silk-studios.co.uk/pitch-to-podcastsFollow her @brave_newgirl on Instagram and get her books Brave New Girl- How to be Fearless, FEAR LESS and her Internationally Bestselling book DARE TO SHARE on Amazon or Waterstones or Barnes & Noble. UK & US versions available.Lou is the founder of Silk Studios - the Podcast Guest Agency a podcast guest booking service https://silk-studios.co.ukMusic by Melody LoopsSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/biz/fund?id=S7WVQQ2YC26RN)Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/biz/fund?id=S7WVQQ2YC26RN)

Last week, we took a closer look at the new report about what the Pentagon knows about the affects of UFO and Alien encounters on humans. Today, we take a closer look at three of the neurological disorders that have been linked to these types of occurrences. Be sure to like and share this episode! Subscribe to never miss a new episode! Tune into MINUTE MAN REPORT, hosted by Robert Hensley, live on Mondays at 3P PT/6P ET, and check out TRUTH BE TOLD TRANSFORMATION hosted by Bonnie Burkert, live on Wednesdays at 3P PT/6P ET and Tony Sweet with the original TRUTH BE TOLD on Fridays Live at 3P PT/6P ET!Learn more about TRUTH BE TOLD online at www.truthbetoldworldwide.comBe sure to stop by the SHOP page to get official TRUTH BE TOLD merchandise!

Hey Campers, get away from that exploding Mount Saint Helens and over to the fire, we got some stories to tell. This week we tell you about the strange disorder known as BIID (body integrity identity disorder) and some stories involving someone jamming their leg into a wood splitter because he didn't believe it was his leg…I'm sure a doctor can explain it better. We also tell you about another legendary cryptid who was released into the world during the 1980 eruption of Mount Saint Helens in Washington State, a creature you may know only as Batsquatch.

BIID is an extremely rare condition where an individual has a deep seated desire to remove their own body parts or become paralyzed. Creepy? Yes. Horrifying? Also yes. Let's deep dive into the minds of those suffering this condition. 

Scientists and philosophers have been perplexed by our sense of the self for millennia. Now, by investigating neurological conditions which disrupt the self—such as body identity disorder, schizophrenia, and the doppelganger effect—neuroscience is finding new clues.

Scientists and philosophers have been perplexed by our sense of the self for millennia. Now, by investigating neurological conditions which disrupt the self—such as body identity disorder, schizophrenia, and the doppelganger effect—neuroscience is finding new clues.

In this episode I'm joined by my fiance', Grey, and our good friend Amanda - and we will be discussing a rare disorder called Body Integrity Identity Disorder, or BIID.People who suffer from BIID have an obsessive desire to amputate a healthy limb or become paraplegic. Having all of their limbs or being able-bodied causes them a great amount of distress. So much distress, in fact, that some are willing to try to remove body parts themselves in order to gain some relief from the severe dysphoria that they feel.This is a deep topic with SO MANY layers - It was super interesting to talk about, and I hope you enjoy listening to it as much as we enjoyed recording it!My info resource for this episode was an article written by two psychiatrists that you can find HERE. As always, if you have any strange topic ideas you'd like me to explore, or if you just want to say hello, you can reach out to me via email at strange.Ish.podcast@gmail.comYou can also find me on Instagram - @strange.ish.podcast

Amanda and Sarah get clinical for an episode on strange, rare psychological conditions. Sarah delves into Cotard's syndrome, a disturbing mental disorder that causes the afflicted to think they are dead or purifying, as well as a quick look into various doppelganger-type syndromes. Amanda tackles body integrity identity disorder (BIID), where patients obsess over amputating healthy limbs, believing it will improve their lives. Other subjects covered include a candid mental health discussion and bankrolling the revolution.  Recommendations: Amanda recommends the found footage film Exhibit A and the podcast All Killa No Filla.  Sources: New York Post (The strange condition that has people hacking off healthy limbs) US National Library of Medicine National Institutes of Health (Apotemnophilia, body integrity identity disorder or xenomelia? Psychiatric and neurologic etiologies face each other)   CNN (Understanding the rare condition that makes people want to amputate their own limbs)   Wikipedia/BID For updates on future episodes and other fun stuff, follow us on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.

I struggled through a part of a biid video, read an article quoting disabled "dos and don'ts", and go back and forth between hating and feeling bad. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/laughingatbirds/support

Was ist Männlichkeit? Die meisten Deutschen (Männer wie Frauen) beantworten diese Frage noch immer sehr traditionell: die Familie versorgen, berufliche Kompetenz, mit technischen Geräten umgehen können, Durchsetzungsvermögen, Disziplin. Sind wir immer noch nicht weiter? Wollen wir überhaupt weiter? Eine Suche nach dem menschlichen Mann in uns allen. Edit: Wenn der Ringfinger länger ist als der Zeigefinger ist das ein Hinweis darauf, dass es im Mutterleib mehr Testosteron gegeben haben könnte. Leon: Freue mich sehr, wenn ihr bei „In Extremen Köpfen“ vorbeihört. Findet ihr hier exklusiv: https://podimo.com/de/shows/084c5076-6219-4786-9aaa-5845c759507c. Die ersten 4 Folgen gibt’s aber auch bei Spotify, iTunes und Co. Die Störung von Daniel heißt BID (früher BIID, besser hiernach googeln). Hier findet ihr die Statistiken zur Männlichkeit in Deutschland (viel Text, aber spannend): Männer-Perspektiven – www.bmfsfj.de/bmfsfj/service/publikationen/maenner-perspektiven/115582. In der Geo lest ihr eine einfache Zusammenfassung zu Hormon- und Hirnunterschieden: Wie sich Frau und Mann unterscheiden: Verblüffende Erkenntnisse der neuen Forschung – www.geo.de/wissen/22301-rtkl-geschlechterforschung-wie-sich-frau-und-mann-unterscheiden-verblueffende. Die Statistiken von PornHub gibt’s (auf Englisch) hier: https://www.pornhub.com/insights/2019-year-in-review (Achtung, Pornhub bleibt auch bei Statistiken natürlich eine Pornoseite – have fun!) Fühlt euch gut betreut Leon & Atze

Escuchas, vayan a llenar su taza con café y acompáñennos mientras contamos la segunda y última parte de "Óbice" escrito por Ivette Padilla y narrado por Efrén Cabañas.De Guadalajara para el Internet, Ivette Padilla y Efrén Cabañas. Detrás de micrófonos, Matt Sepúlveda.

Escuchas, vayan a llenar su taza con café y acomáñennos mientras contamos "Óbice" de Ivette Padilla.De Guadalajara para el Internet, Ivette Padilla y Efrén Cabañas. Detrás de micrófonos, Matt Sepúlveda.

In this special episode, we look at the unethical practice of kick-backs in interior design on the day that the British Institute of Interior Design (BIID) launches its Kick Out the Kick-Backs campaign. Susie and Jeff are joined by Katherine Elworthy, COO of the BIID, to find out more about the potential issues that can arise for interior designers and how the Kick Out The Kick-Backs campaign can help. Recorded in the Experience Centre of BIID Industry Partner, Lutron, this episode is released to coincide with International Anti-Corruption Day 2019.

In this special episode, we look at the unethical practice of kick-backs in interior design on the day that the British Institute of Interior Design (BIID) launches its Kick Out the Kick-Backs campaign. Susie and Jeff are joined by Katherine Elworthy, COO of the BIID, to find out more about the potential issues that can arise for interior designers and how the Kick Out The Kick-Backs campaign can help. Recorded in the Experience Centre of BIID Industry Partner, Lutron, this episode is released to coincide with International Anti-Corruption Day 2019.

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The guys talk about the incredible world of BIID, ball cringing talent, points of personal privilege, use of the word "guys", thoughts about getting tax free property, church bank accounts, decades of music, and a mock ad for spunk lube. Kill the Six -  https://twitter.com/killthesix https://Instagram.com/killthesix Kiel -  https://twitter.com/SidlerKiel  https://Instagram.com/pnwbrewdogs Tielyr -  https://twitter.com/tielyrr69  https://instagram.com/tirit88 Grady -  https://twitter.com/gradyv_  https://instagram.com/gradyv_

Welcome to the 145th episode of the DeanBlundell.com Podcast with Graham Kritzer and Jason Gonsalves. Graham went to the cottage and got destroyed on the first night. Speaking of getting destroyed, let's dive into the 3-0 Buffalo Bills and Bills Mafia. Graham covered Bills tailgates for two seasons, so some would say he is an expert at this stuff. Dean shows a video of Bills fan who blows his face off with fireworks. Graham reflects on the insane fans that Buffalo has and gives us a few of his best stories. Dean wants uglier people to deliver the news, CNN, TSN, and Sportsnet seem to only hire hot anchors. Here at DeanBlundell.com we only hire ugly people. Kim Kardashian and Kendal Jenner got laughed off the Emmy stage last night after presenting an award. We play that audio. Dean talks about BIID. We play audio of a man who suffers from it. You won't believe what it is. We explore Antonio Brown getting cut by the Patriots and quitting football. The saga continues. We also play audio of him farting in a doctors face. Dean shares an embarrassing story for farting in front of his girlfriends family. We close with a story of WWE wrestler Lacy Evans hating Canada for getting a ticket. The video is the best. We close with taking a swim in the comments section of our website and show you the bum bum song. Enjoy! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Episode in which I read some reader emails, advocate for regulating the regulators, delve into the logic of BIID, go after someone for launching a future, theoretical, gender-assumed protest, and generally advocate for consistent rationale. I also may or may not refer to the American revolution as “a startup kerfuffle.”

What if your brain and your body didn't jive? What if the only cure for your disorder was amputation? What if you had to do it yourself?

For a fraction of the population, their greatest wish is to remove a body part. It’s not quite known what causes the phenomenon known as Body Integrity Identity Disorder, but one theory is that it’s caused by the same part of the brain that is responsible for phantom limbs. But people with BIID are seen […]

Good morning and good evening! This week on So...Talk to Me we discuss America's favorite skinned-pig passtime: football. Or at least, the spectacle that was "football" this past Sunday. After that we jump into 2 Corinthians 6, The Religious Affections by Jonathan Edwards, a startling case of BIID, and a fun few weeks of sickness. Plus, if you stick around til the end, Sam sings a few lines from Bohemian Rhapsody. The original video/article on Jewel Shuping: http://www.barcroft.tv/body-Integrity-identity-disorder-woman-makes-herself-blind-drain-cleaner And these come highly recommended: The Reformed Gamers: https://thereformedgamers.wordpress.com/ Tortillini Soup: https://www.google.com/search?source=hp&q=tortellini+soup+recipe&oq=tortellini+soup+recipe

sowhutchusayin@gmail.com Keith and Woodrow talk about Aliens, kids outside, carnivals, Cruises, BIID, obesity, pyramid schemes, Eiffel Tower, EPMD, black and white, michael Jackson --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sowhutchusayin/support