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Join us on this engaging episode of the Do Good to Lead Well podcast, where we explore the fascinating journey of Dr. Michael Nevarez, a highly respected psychiatrist and leadership coach. His insights, drawn from his work as the assistant director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development, underscore the importance of continuous personal and leadership growth, integrating scientific research into practical tools for leaders.Listen in as we explore the art of delivering effective feedback, a crucial skill for any leader. The conversation highlights the challenges leaders face in maintaining a delicate balance between fostering growth and preserving positive relationships. Discover the significance of providing feedback that is behaviorally anchored, utilizing specific and neutral information to avoid performance declines. Dr. Nevarez shares strategies like the "push" and "pull" phases, where clarity and curiosity play pivotal roles in understanding and addressing underlying issues. By focusing on clear communication and open dialogue, leaders can better navigate the intricacies of feedback, differentiating between problems such as time management and prioritization.The episode also unpacks techniques such as affect labeling and perspective checking, emphasizing the role of psychological safety in successful implementation. Discover how managing emotions in feedback conversations can avoid common pitfalls like fundamental attribution error, utilizing tools like contrast statements to reduce perceived threats and promote constructive dialogue. If you're looking for actionable tools and scripts for creating meaningful, growth-oriented feedback conversations, this conversation is a must-listen.What You'll Learn- The secrets of the art of feedback.- How to master the powerful STEP communication framework.- Ways to create environments of psychological safety.- Managing emotions in feedback conversations.- Balancing candor with impact.Podcast Timestamps(00:00) – The Art and Science of Leadership Development(08:16) – Navigating the “Push” and “Pull” of Feedback Conversations(23:21) – Watch Your STEP: A Powerful Framework for Effective Communication(40:33) - Managing Emotions in Feedback ConversationsKEYWORDSPositive Leadership, The Art of Meaningful Conversation, Leadership Development, Effective Feedback, Communication Framework, STEP, Psychological Safety, Behaviorally Anchored Feedback, Curiosity, Personal Growth, Fostering Accountability, Clear Expectations, Constructive Dialogue, CEO Success

Your friendships aren't just good for your soul; they're medicine for your body. In this week's episode, Jo explores why the connections you nurture in midlife can add years to your life. From the surprising science behind why quality relationships matter more than career success or wealth, to practical ways you can keep your friendships strong (and how to navigate when they change), this conversation reminds you that friendship isn't a luxury, it's essential.Friendships are one of the most powerful health investments The Harvard Study of Adult Development discovered that people most satisfied with their relationships at age 50 were the healthiest at age 80. It's completely normal for friendships to evolve and sometimes fadeWe replace about half our social circle every seven years. Friends come for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. If a friendship has quieted or ended, give yourself permission to grieve and stay open to what comes next.Making new friends in midlife is different, but deeply rewardingMidlife friendships often grow from shared values and interests through travel, wellness events, online communities, or shared conversations. You're not too old to find your people; you're simply choosing them more intentionally now.Consistency and small actions transform your connectionsYou don't need grand gestures, rather deliberate moments. Treat connection like a non-negotiable appointment. This week, reach out to one friend, be honest if distance has grown, show up for the in-between moments, and celebrate what matters.When a friendship falters or ends, approach it with honesty and compassionIf you want to repair it, open with care: "I've noticed some distance between us, and I miss how things used to be." If it's time to let go, do it with gratitude. You can hold appreciation for a friendship while releasing it with grace.Reflection PromptsAs you think about your own friendships, consider journaling on these questions:Who has been in my life the longest, and what do I treasure about that friendship?Which friendships energise me, and which ones drain me?What friendships have I grieved or let go of, and what did I learn from them?Where might I open myself to new connections?What's one small action I could take this week to nurture a friendship that matters?How do I want to be remembered as a friend?Moving ForwardThis week, choose one person you haven't caught up with lately and reach out. Whether it's a coffee, a walk, a Zoom call, or a message, make that connection. Your friendships are good for your heart, your health, your longevity, and your sense of belonging in midlife. Walk alongside the people who lift you up, who remind you who you are, and who see every version of you and choose to stay.Join Dr Sian Hebron and me on Saturday, 8 November, for the Shifting Tides event at Noosa Springs Spa Resort.It's an intimate and supportive gathering where you'll gain valuable medical insights, practical frameworks, and a genuine connection with other women navigating this stage of life.You can get your tickets at https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/shifting-tides-your-guide-to-menopause-midlife-whats-next-tickets-1681453666179?utm-campaign=social&utm-content=attendeeshare&utm-medium=discovery&utm-term=listing&utm-source=cp&aff=ebdsshcopyurlConnect with meBook your 20-minute connection call https://calendly.com/jo--138/20min?month=2025-07 RE-IMAGINE: A personalised 1:1 six-week mentoring programme https://www.joclarkcoaching.com/work-with-me Share your journey with me by sending me a message on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/joclarkcoaching/ LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/joclarkcoaching/⁠Email me your success story at jo@joclarkcoaching.com. Remember, there's so much untapped brilliance in midlife women. You are wise, strong, and talented. You just need the space to hear yourself and the courage to act on what you know.The second half of your life can be even better than the first.

Money anxiety, retirement fears, and the quiet worry about being alone are hitting many women in midlife. In this walk-and-talk episode, Chalene Johnson opens up about the top financial and emotional concerns women are sharing right now—from fear of not saving enough to the loneliness that creeps in as life changes. She offers practical, doable steps to get control of your finances, strengthen your relationships, and create more security for the future. Plus, a wild story about intuition and an update on Penelope that might make you rethink what's “just coincidence.”  

THIS EPISODE IS A GROW THE GOOD REPLAY // I'll let you in on a secret: communication is not just about talking and using words. It's about listening. Yes, the foundation of communication is being a good listener.As a health and wellness coach, I've received formal training in communication, plus recording over 350 hours of podcasts has been a master class in listening and communication.In today's solo deep dive, I will share strategies and actionable practices to help you become a better listener, approach conflicts with a new mindset, and ultimately, improve your relationships through the power of mindful communication. Struggle with small talk? Stick around and I'll share some tips to spark conversation in any setting.Throughout the episode, we'll draw upon insights from various books on parenting, relationships, and communication, such as nonviolent communication and growth mindset talk. I'll also share my own personal experiences and observations, shedding light on the practical application of these concepts.So, are you ready to supercharge your communication skills and revolutionize your relationships?Here's a breakdown:- Managing conflict with non-violent communication- Respond with a reflection- Asking open-ended questions- Use both/and thinking for feedback and discussion- Affirmation when giving compliments- Validate emotions- Practice active constructive response- Plus, conversation startersLINKS* Check out my newsletter for productivity, mindset, and mental skills* Read more about the Harvard Study of Adult Development--------------The Grow the Good Podcast is produced by Palm Tree Pod Co.

As an avid reader, I'm always seeking that next great book. The one that allows me to see myself and the world more clearly, comforts me when I'm lost, or inspires me to move through my day differently. This series is my opportunity to pass these remarkable books onto you, as readers of A Mind of Her Own, both for your own enjoyment and also, as a self-serving shout-out to the universe to send me more amazing, life-changing reads. I'm excited to hear what you think, and I'm so glad you're here!Life-Changing Reads: A Series1. Let Your Life Speak: Listening for the Voice of Vocation, by Parker Palmer“Vocation does not come from willfulness. It comes from listening…vocation does not mean a goal that I pursue. It means a calling that I hear.”I read this book when I was feeling lost, searching for a life that aligned with my values and desires, and doubting myself at every step. I kept hearing this call to write, to create, but I thought it was something I should do in my “non-work” time, because it wasn't a serious activity for a physician. Parker's discussion of his own struggle to find his true vocation, through an altruistic but ultimately unsustainable career path, was a fundamental guide on my journey.2. Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World that Can't Stop Talking, by Susan Cain“So when introverts assume the observer role, as when they write novels, or contemplate unified field theory—or fall quiet at dinner parties—they're not demonstrating a failure of will or a lack of energy. They're simple doing what they're constitutionally suited for.”I listened to this book in the car, sitting in LA traffic, during my psychiatry residency. I still remember the feeling of hearing these words, suggesting my tendency to prefer listening to talking, observing to acting, thinking to doing was not because I was lazy, overly shy or antisocial. It was what I was “constitutionally suited for.” This was a revelation.Here I am now, writing books, listening as a psychiatrist and podcast host, and taking time to think about life's great mysteries. Thank you, Susan, for your beautiful writing.3. The Good Life: Lessons From the World's Longest Scientific Study of Happiness, by Robert Waldinger, MD and Marc Schulz, PhD“Do I matter? Some of us have lived the majority of our lives and find ourselves looking back, others have most of our lives in front of us and are looking forward. For all of us, regardless of age, it helps to remember that this question of mattering, of leaving something for future generations and of being part of something bigger than ourselves, is not just about our personal achievements—it's about what we mean to other people. And it's never too late to start now and leave a mark.”This book, by the directors of the Harvard Study of Adult Development, is a powerful summary of the lives of two generations of individuals from the same families for over 80 years. It's remarkable to read their quotes as they navigate joy, loss, struggles and successes over the years. The reason I've found it so important to read and reread is its powerful reminder of the importance of our relationships in creating happiness. Not money. Not fame. Not a perfect body. Not prizes or rings or medals. It's all about the love and connection we have in our lives.Today, as I try to navigate the overwhelmingly stressful news and constant churn of social media, it grounds me in my day-to-day life to reflect on those in my closest orbit. How can I connect with them today? How do I show my love and interest in ways both silly and sincere? Even if I've been feeling disconnected, I trust that it is never too late to leave my own mark in their lives and remember the joy of having them in mine.4. How Do You Feel? One Doctor's Search for Humanity in Medicine, by Jessi Gold, MD, MS“Sometimes, the heaviest emotional burden is to bear witness or to hold space for someone else's story. To do my job well and be someone whom people can trust, I need to care. I need to be truly empathetic. I need to be raw and available.”This beautiful book, by Jessi Gold, describes so many aspects of my experience as a psychiatrist. She writes about the unique emotional toll of meeting with patients during some of their darkest moments, as they are working to overcome trauma, abuse, loss or grave illnesses. Reading this was incredibly validating. In the past, when I had finished my clinical week, I would look back and wonder, “Why can't I do more? Why didn't I see more patients? There is so much need.”Dr. Gold's book helped me to be self-compassionate, recognizing I could only be truly present if I also took care of myself. This is a message I now try to pass along to the psychiatry residents I teach. We are human, and we have limits. Thank you, Jessi, for generously sharing your life with us. Your work is so important.Listen to Dr. Gold on The Reflective Mind Podcast at https://amindofherown.substack.com/p/speaking-the-quiet-part-out-loud?r=1wdz1l5. Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Life: How to Finally, Really Grow Up by James Hollis, Ph.D.“To engage with the summons of our souls is to step into the deepest ocean, uncertain whether we will be able to swim to some new, distant shore. And yet, until we have consented to swim beyond the familiar lights of the port left behind, we will never arrive at a newer shore.”This stunning book, by Dr. James Hollis, a Jungian scholar and prolific writer, shares his own story of midlife depression and his decision to leave the familiar to seek training in Zurich and become a Jungian analyst. He writes beautifully about his struggle to identify his own path with the guidance of Jung's theory of individuation, defined as “the lifelong project of becoming more nearly the whole person we were meant to be.” I read and re-read this book as I was struggling with my own path to meaning in midlife, and I found such comfort in his powerful belief that we all can tap into what we already know: the person we are most meant to be.You can listen to his beautiful description of his path here: https://amindofherown.substack.com/p/a-nameless-longing-when-your-soul?r=1wdz1l6. Shrill, by Lindy West (I also highly recommend the Hulu series by the same name, starring Aidy Bryant )“I am my body. When my body gets smaller, it is still me. When my body gets bigger, it is still me. There is not a thin woman inside me, awaiting excavation. I am one piece.”Thinking back on my training during medical school and beyond, I can summarize any lecture about body size with one phrase: overweight equals unhealthy. This repeated conflation means I now must consciously uncouple one from the other in my clinical work, stepping back from the broad and imprecise shorthand to consider how they are, and are not, actually related.Lindy West's book helped me significantly as I was trying to shift my thinking on this topic. Her frank depiction of life in her larger body was at times heartbreaking (especially in the doctor's office), frequently humorous (with chapter titles like “Are you there, Margaret? It's me, a person who is not a complete freak.”) and overall a powerful motivator for change. I think all health care providers should read it at least once.If this resonates, check out my interview with Dr. Mara Gordon all about the size-inclusive healthcare revolution. https://amindofherown.substack.com/p/the-size-inclusive-healthcare-revolution?utm_source=publication-search7. Words Are My Matter: Writings on Life and Books by Ursula K. Le Guin“Fiction offers the best means of understanding people different from oneself, short of experience. Actually, fiction can be lots better than experience, because it's a manageable size, it's comprehensible, while experience just steamrollers over you and you understand what happened decades later, if ever.”I grew up in a very small town in North Dakota, just a few miles from the South Dakota border. I didn't recognize the enormity of the sky above my childhood home until I returned as an adult, head tipped back, staring upward in awe. I grew up there with a loving family and a surrounding community willing to cheer me on in events from basketball games to theater performances, but I always felt a bit out of place. Reading became my reassurance that the world was as big as the sky overhead, and I would eventually find my own path. Books also helped me recognize the importance of placing myself in another's shoes, virtual empathy-building machines that taught me about those whose lives were so incredibly different from my own.This book of Ursula K. Le Guin's essays, poems and book reviews reveals a grounded, opinionated, brilliant woman who decided to create entire worlds with stunning clarity, illuminating the challenges existing in our own. Readers and writers alike will not be sorry for taking a moment to absorb her work.If this interests you, please feel free to listen to my short essay, Books are Empathy Machines.8. Intimations by Zadie Smith“Talking to yourself can be useful. And writing means being overheard.”This book by Zadie Smith, a collection of six essays, was published in 2020, and provides a glimpse into the author's life during the early months of the Covid-19 virus. I've long been an admirer of her fiction, but this series allowed a much more intimate window into her wandering mind, trying to comprehend her place in a society turned inside out with uncertainty and fear.What does it mean to be an artist when people are being categorized as “essential workers?” Is loyalty to a place something that can outlast a feeling of unique vulnerability? How can writing provide an outlet for survival when the world is so fraught? There was comfort in her struggle to understand and in her feeling of disorientation, which I certainly shared. I emerged from her writing feeling more hopeful and far less alone.If this essay resonated, please feel free to check out this podcast episode Hope is the Best Antidote for Demoralization with Dr. James L. Griffith, MD9. Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi“We grow up believing that what counts most in our lives is that which will occur in the future…[however] since what we experience is reality, as far as we are concerned, we can transform reality to the extent that we influence what happens in consciousness and thus free ourselves from the threats and blandishments of the outside world.”My summary: We are always living for tomorrow, while life only happens right now, in our moment-by-moment experience, which we have the power to shape through our attention.You have likely heard of the concept of Flow, described by Dr. Csikszentmihalyi (here is a googled pronunciation: chik sent mee hai ee) as an optimal experience when a “person's body or mind is stretched to its limits in a voluntary effort to accomplish something difficult and worthwhile.” It is often referred to as being in a “flow state,” so immersed in a particular task that you lose track of time and are able to concentrate in a prolonged and highly satisfying way. He refers to our attention our “psychic energy.” Where we give our attention is quite literally how we experience our lives. This has never been more relevant, each of us tasked with creating our own protective filters from the onslaught of demands on our limited—because we're human—attention spans.This book is a revelation, with insights about the very nature of consciousness, what it means to be happy, and how we can infuse our lives with more pleasure. Flow can emerge in a wide variety of settings, whether it's while listening to or creating music, engaging in satisfying sex or consuming delicious foods. It may also occur when we are working on a challenging problem at the office, pushing past a confusing but compelling problem in school, or out solving problems in the world beyond. I've learned so much from his writing, and have absorbed his ideas which influence many of my own.If the concept of a flow and the quest for a meaningful life is of interest, check out my interview, “What Lights You Up?' with Dr. Jordan Grumet, palliative care physician and writer.10. Ambiguous Loss: Learning to Live with Unresolved Grief by Pauline Boss“In the case of ambiguous loss…complicated grieving can be a normal reaction to a complicated situation—the endless searching of a battlefield by the mother of a missing soldier; a stepchild's angry outbursts when his biological parent is totally excluded; a wife's depression and withdrawal because her husband has suffered a brain injury and is no longer himself.”I've found ambiguous loss to be such a powerful and surprisingly common experience in my psychiatry practice. This idea describes the unique suffering caused by uncertainty or a lack of resolution regarding a missing loved one. This could be psychological absence of someone still in our presence, such as when our loved one is struggling with dementia or severe mental illness, or the physical absence of those we still keep very much present in our psychological lives, including missing persons with unknown whereabouts.After first reading Ambiguous Loss, I reached out to Dr. Pauline Boss, now in her 90s, to thank her for her work and speak with her about this extremely helpful framework, which had a profound effect on me. She shared the origins of the research into this topic, begun with the families of pilots declared missing in action in Vietnam and Cambodia while she was at the Center of Prisoner of War Studies in the U.S. Naval Health Research Institute in San Diego. She spoke about interviewing the wives of these missing pilots and the intense pain caused by the ambiguity surrounding their husbands' whereabouts. This ongoing, often unresolvable grief can lead to depression, isolation, and ongoing family disruption, even generations later. By giving a name to this phenomenon, however, Pauline Boss has helped countless families begin to heal from the unimaginable and move forward into a more hopeful future.11. Can't We Talk About Something More Pleasant? A Memoir by Roz Chast“After my father died, I noticed that all the things that had driven me bats about him—his chronic worrying, his incessant chitchat, his almost suspect inability to deal with anything mechanical—now seemed trivial. The only emotion that remained was one of deep affection and gratitude that he was my dad.”This is the first graphic novel on my list, but it certainly won't be the last. I've been a fan of Roz Chast for a long time, with her quirky but poignant New Yorker cartoons. This powerful memoir highlights something I've found particularly helpful in my work and personal life: difficult truths are much more palatable if we can pair them with humor. My family has always taken this approach, particularly my father, coping with some truly heartbreaking cases in the hospital with an off-color joke about bowel movements around the family dinner table. Humor is also considered one of the most mature psychological defense mechanisms we use to cope with stress or loss in our lives, so way to go, Dad!Roz shares with us a uniquely painful time in her life, as her parents age well into their 90s, experiencing the indignities of increasingly frail bodies and waning independence. She writes with brave candor about the exhausting and expensive path an adult child must walk when her parents can no longer care for themselves, and her conflicted feelings as she watches them slowly fade. Her cartoons throughout provide much-needed moments of levity, as well as a beautiful tribute to the lives of these important people. If you or a loved one is going through this painful, but common, journey, this book could provide some true comfort, and maybe even a laugh or two.12. Congratulations, By the Way: Some Thoughts on Kindness by George Saunders“Be a good and proactive and even somewhat desperate patient on your own behalf—seek out the most efficacious, anti-selfishness medicines, energetically, for the rest of your life. Find out what makes you kinder, what opens you up and brings out the most loving, generous, and unafraid version of you—and go after those things as if nothing else matters.Because, actually, nothing else does.”These words are part of a lovely convocation address George Saunders delivered to the graduating students of Syracuse University, where he is a professor of creative writing. Understandably, it resonated far beyond the campus, and speaks a truly important message for today's world.I should admit, I have a soft spot for George Saunders. I imagine I'm not alone in this. I saw him speak at a New Yorker Festival event several years ago and he did not disappoint: sharp as a tack while also being thoughtful and extremely humble. In addition, he was super funny, which made sense because he's the author of one of the most hilarious short stories I've ever read. In “Pastoralia,” two employees are assigned to a caveman diorama in a fading fun park. One of them, who takes his role incredibly seriously, frequently pretends to scan the horizon for large game and refuses to speak to his cave mate, using only grunts and body language to communicate. The other employee, a chain-smoking, mint-eating mother of a struggling adult child seems to be trying to just get through the day, breaking every rule of proper performance, much to her cave mate's dismay. The story is simply sublime.My dear friend, John, who trained with me in psychiatry residency and became one of my dearest friends, introduced me to this story, along with other memorable cultural experiences such as the show “Broad City” and referring to the bathroom as the “wazzer.” He died in 2020 after a battle with brain cancer, but his legacy lives on, especially in my plan to someday turn “Pastoralia” into a musical (his idea). After all, what better way to honor his memory? Miss you John, but thank you for all you taught me.Thanks for reading A Mind of Her Own! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and hear about upcoming episodes & book events.Find Dr. Reid on Instagram: @jenreidmd and LinkedInYou can also preorder her upcoming book, Guilt Free!Also check out Dr. Reid's regular contributions to Psychology Today: Think Like a Shrink.Seeking a mental health provider? 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We say friends are what make life worth living. But if that's true, why are so many of us struggling to find and keep them these days? And what can we do to cultivate better friendships?Join us as we talk to psychiatrist  Robert Waldinger about the importance of friendship to our health and happiness, and to philosopher Samuel Kimbriel about the keys to forming meaningful friendships and the helpful advice spiritual traditions offer. Along the way, we'll also ask what it means to be a good friend… and what that means for society as a whole. Robert Waldinger is Director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development and co-author, with Marc Schulz, of The Good Life: Lessons from the World's Longest Scientific Study of Happiness. Learn more about his work at his website, and about his practice as a Zen priest with the Henry David Thoreau Sangha here. Samuel Kimbriel is Founding Director of the Aspen Institute's Philosophy & Society Initiative and author of the book Friendship as Sacred Knowing: Overcoming Isolation. He is also Editor-at-Large at Wisdom of Crowds. 

McKay returns today for an extensive exploration into how our responses to life's setbacks shape our journey. Drawing insights from the Harvard Study of Adult Development, he challenges conventional wisdom, arguing that our perspective transforms challenges from daunting "mountains" into manageable "molehills."McKay reveals happiness isn't predicted by wealth or IQ, but by an "adaptive coping style" - learning from failures to create growth, akin to turning "lemons into lemonade." This is exemplified by Bill Graham, who overcame immense hardship through helping others and embracing a positive outlook. The episode utilizes a "halftime" metaphor for life, urging listeners to assess, learn from past "plays," and strategize for moving forward, rather than dwelling on what cannot be changed. As you will hear, avoiding overreaction to minor inconveniences and fostering a positive "frame of reference" with supportive networks enables us to "fail forward."Main Themes:Our response to failure drives happiness.Adaptive coping matters more than wealth or IQ.Learn from mistakes; turn setbacks into chances.Friends and inspiration help overcome challenges.The halftime metaphor: review, adjust, plan ahead.Overreacting to small issues reduces happiness.Positive thoughts anchor our brain's frame of reference.Faith empowers us to overcome obstacles.Release small worries; value missteps for a content life.Top 10 Quotes:"Almost all failures are not mountains but molehills in the valley of life, unless we make them mountains.""It isn't so much what they started with, what mistakes they made, or what happened to them that influenced their happiness in life, it's what they did with what happened to them that mattered.""Learn to live in thankfulness, looking back at what you have had, and what you didn't have, and most of all, what you do have now.""The difference between average people and achieving people is their perception of and their response to failure.""A single event doesn't have to define who we are. Instead, we can consider our life over time and look at who we've become as a result of our cumulative choices.""This positive adaptation to life played a significantly greater role than genetics, wealth, race or other factors in determining how happy people were later in life.""Researchers in the study call this an 'adaptive coping style' and describe it as the capacity to turn lemons into lemonade and not turn molehills into mountains.""When we're in the midst of failure, we need to give our brain a framework based on true principles.""Halftime is perhaps the most important part of the game.""Let go of the small things. Value your small missteps, they make us better. Don't sweat the small stuff."Show Links:Open Your Eyes with McKay Christensen

In this episode, Dr. Robert Waldinger explores why good relationships are the key to living a long and happy life. Drawing from more than 85 years of research, Robert shares why deep, supportive relationships are stronger predictors of health and happiness than wealth, success, or status. He also explains how relationships regulate stress, why loneliness can be as harmful as smoking, and how we can proactively cultivate social fitness. Listeners will walk away with practical ways to strengthen existing relationships, build new ones, and approach connection as an essential practice for well-being.We need your help! We all know ads are part of the podcast world, and we want to improve this experience for you. Please take 2 minutes and complete this survey, it's a quick and easy way to support this podcast. Thank You!Key Takeaways:The significance of relationships for health and happiness.Insights from the Harvard Study of Adult Development on what constitutes a good life.The complexities and challenges of living well despite societal pressures.The impact of loneliness and social isolation on physical and mental health.The critique of cultural messages equating happiness with material success.The importance of self-acceptance and acknowledging both positive and negative aspects of oneself.Strategies for nurturing and maintaining meaningful relationships.The role of curiosity in enhancing social connections and overcoming discomfort.The intersection of scientific research and Zen practice in understanding human well-being.The concept of “social fitness” and the ongoing effort required to cultivate relationships.If you enjoyed this conversation with Robert Waldinger, check out these other episodes:The Midlife Makeover: Redefining Success and Happiness After 40 with Chip ConleyThe Happiness Formula: Using Your Body to Transform Your Mind with Janice KaplanFor full show notes, click here!Connect with the show:Follow us on YouTube: @TheOneYouFeedPodSubscribe on Apple Podcasts or SpotifyFollow us on InstagramThis episode is sponsored by:NOCD If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: https://learn.nocd.com/FEEDGrow Therapy - Whatever challenges you're facing, Grow Therapy is here to help. Sessions average about $21 with insurance, and some pay as little as $0, depending on their plan. (Availability and coverage vary by state and insurance plans. Visit growtherapy.com/feed today!Persona Nutrition delivers science-backed, personalized vitamin packs that make daily wellness simple and convenient. In just minutes, you get a plan tailored to your health goals. No clutter, no guesswork. Just grab-and-go packs designed by experts. Go to PersonaNutrition.com/FEED today to take the free assessment and get your personalized daily vitamin packs for an exclusive offer — get 40% off your first order.BAU, Artist at War opens September 26. Visit BAUmovie.com to watch the trailer and learn more—or sign up your organization for a group screening.LinkedIn: Post your job for free at linkedin.com/1youfeed. Terms and conditions apply.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Most people retire with a solid income plan but no plan for a life they actually want to live. In this episode, I discuss the five human pillars that make retirement feel meaningful, not just financially viable: Purpose, Identity, Relationships, Structure, and Well-being. Expect punchy stories, research-backed insights, and practical prompts to start building a life worth funding. What you'll learn Why money ≠ meaning in retirement, and how outcomes beat incomes. The Five Pillars framework (Purpose, Identity, Relationships, Structure, Well-being) and how each one stabilises your next chapter. The hidden risk of identity loss after the job title disappears, and two better questions to ask yourself now. Why too much unstructured time can feel like freedom that turns to fog, and simple ways to add rhythm without losing flexibility. The science bits (in plain English): Only 27% of retirees report feeling very fulfilled day-to-day (Stanford Center on Longevity). A strong sense of purpose links to a 15% lower risk of death (JAMA Psychiatry). The Harvard Adult Development Study shows close relationships are the biggest predictor of long-term happiness. 1 in 4 experience mild to moderate depression post-retirement—often due to lost meaning, routine, and social contact (NHS). Challenge of the Week Score yourself 1–10 on each pillar: Purpose, Identity, Relationships, Structure, Well-being. Pick the lowest score and do one tiny action this week to move it up by one point (e.g., book coffee with a friend, start a 15-minute morning walk, schedule a creative hour, message someone to mentor). Small moves → big momentum. Resources & links Mentioned research (as cited in the episode): Stanford Center on Longevity — fulfilment in retirement JAMA Psychiatry (2020) — purpose & mortality risk Harvard Study of Adult Development — relationships & happiness NHS guidance/statistics — mental health in later life Want more? Connect with me on LinkedIn and share your Challenge of the Week answers. Buy my book The Retirement You Didn't See Coming Book a time for us to chat about your retirement plans Next episode “The Skill No One Taught You: Spending Money.” We'll get into guilt, scarcity, freedom, joy, and why many retirees have more than enough yet still struggle to spend with confidence.

Excellence doesn't require obsession—it requires integration. We've all heard the advice: focus on one thing, say no to everything else, single-minded purpose is the path to success. Books like Gary Keller's The One Thing and Greg McKeown's Essentialism make a powerful case for focus. But what happens when that focus becomes obsession? In this episode of Tales from The Lane, Kate unpacks the dark side of a single-minded pursuit—burnout, isolation, and the crushing disappointment of reaching the “top” only to find it lonely. Drawing on insights from Benjamin Hardy, research from the Harvard Study of Adult Development, and real-world examples from Yo-Yo Ma to Venus Williams, Kate makes the case for a different kind of excellence. One rooted in balance, relationships, and impact. You'll learn: Why obsession is not the same as excellence. How even your biggest achievements can feel hollow without integration. The critical role relationships and contribution play in long-term fulfillment. Practical strategies for pursuing excellence without sacrificing everything else. If you've ever felt the pressure to “go all in” on one singular purpose—or if you've achieved success but still feel something's missing—this episode is for you. Tales from The Lane is the podcast for high achievers and successful creatives who want more than just accomplishments—they want a deeply fulfilling life. Links & Resources: Grab my free Quarterly Retreat Planning Guide Follow me on Instagram: @katekayaian My book: Beyond Potential: A Guide for Creatives Who Want to Re-Assess, Re-Define, and Re-Ignite Their Careers – Order here

Relationer är en av de viktigaste skyddsfaktorerna för människors hälsa - både fysisk och mental hälsa. Ensamhet är en riskfaktor och framför allt att inte ha relationer med god kvalitet. Vi pratar i podden om relationer och om The Harvard Study bland annat.  Gäst i avsnittet är Ewa Braf, PhD, och Ewa har forskat på bland annat relationer och kommunikation och är adjungerad lektor vid Linköpings universitet. Ewa är författare till boken En liten bok om relationer. Ewa arbetar i dag som chefsutvecklare på åklagarmyndigheten.  Vill du ha kontakt med Kristina efter avsnittet så kan du mejla till kristina@exist.se 

This week on Inspire Change, Gunter drives the conversation this week to: Masculinity Rewired What Neuroscience teaches about men's brains. Please see reference notes, sources and exercise options for you to this episodes here:Inspire Change with Gunter – Listener Resource SheetEpisode Title: Masculinity Rewired: What Neuroscience Teaches Us About Emotional Intelligence, Adaptability, and ConnectionKey Studies Mentioned• Draganski, B., et al. (2006). Temporal and spatial dynamics of brain structure changes during extensive learning. Nature, 427, 311–312.• Goldin, P. R., et al. (2013). The neural bases of emotion regulation: Reappraisal and suppression of negative emotion. Biological Psychiatry, 63(6), 577–586.• Lieberman, M. D., et al. (2007). Putting feelings into words: Affect labeling disrupts amygdala activity. Psychological Science, 18(5), 421–428.• Scott, W. A., et al. (2015). Cognitive flexibility as a protective factor in emotional adjustment. Journal of Research in Personality, 55, 39–47.• Feldman, R., et al. (2010). Oxytocin and the development of parenting in humans. Biological Psychiatry, 68(4), 377–382.• Waldinger, R., & Schulz, M. (2018). The Harvard Study of Adult Development: Relationship quality and health outcomes. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 115(5), 810–825.• Schonert-Reichl, K. A., et al. (2015). Enhancing cognitive and social-emotional development through a simple-to-administer mindfulness-based program for elementary school children. Developmental Psychology, 51(1), 52–66.• Zak, P. J. (2015). The neuroscience of trust. Harvard Business Review, 93(1–2), 84–90.Practical Exercises• Affect Labeling: Spend 2 minutes a day naming your emotions out loud or in a journal.• Perspective Switching: In conflict situations, generate at least two alternative explanations for the other person's behaviour.• Connection Boost: Schedule one shared activity each week with a friend, partner, or child — no screens, just presence.• Mindfulness Micro-Practice: Spend 3 minutes focusing on your breath, noticing sensations without judgment.Try This Week- Choose one exercise from above and commit to doing it daily for 7 days. Track your emotional awareness, adaptability, and sense of connection before and after the week.This week's gratitude goes out to those of you listening in Oklahoma and Arkansas.  We want to thank the listeners in Fayetteville Arkansas and Ada Oklahoma as you brought your states to the Top 15 Global Listeners List.  CONGRATULATIONS !!!!!We thank for tuning in and promoting positive social change.  This makes you a part of Gunter's efforts in transforming not only men's lives but lives in general and we are grateful you have joined us.  I, DeVonna Prinzi the Co-Exec Producer and our Showrunner Miranda Spigener-Sapon sincerely thank you and ask that you please take the time to like, follow, subscribe, and share as your efforts make a difference to everyone here at Inspire Change with Gunter.    Please remember If you want to share your story of social change, feel free to reach out  to the show directly. Please see the show-notes for our contact information. As always thank you to each and every one of our listeners, but most importantly please keep Inspiring positive social change.On a side note: Gunter Swoboda and Lorin Josephson's neo-noir/supernatural thriller novel Amulets of Power, Book I A Brian Poole Mystery is officially ON SALE EVERYWHERE you like to get book, but if you want a discount please consider ording direct. ANY LISTENER who order's direct will get a surprise gift. https://shop.ingramspark.com/b/084?params=3RoOA6kVQ7ZgmqSK9LdnvNyDAZZFsg9IMaLUaprPgXKThe entire team at Inspire Change with Gunter would like to bring attention to our neighbor listeners to the south of us in Mexico!  Particularly all of you in Mexico City for this week's gratitude journey.  Congratulations!!  For the first time you are only 5 spots away from the "Top Ten Global Listeners List" as you made it to #15 .  Thank you/Gracias  to each and every listener.   We appreciate everyone of you and are grateful for your likes, shares, follows and subscribes, but most of all for you continuing to inspire positive social change!Make sure you LIKE SUBSCRIBE & FOLLOW our new Official YouTube Channel of Video Shorts series: https://www.youtube.com/@InspireChangewithGunterSwoboda/videos where we will be adding new videos and content every week from Gunter and our guests.  https://www.youtube.com/@InspireChangewithGunterSwoboda/videosGunter Swoboda and Lorin Josephson's new novel Amulets of Power, Book I - A Brian Poole Mystery trilogy.  CHECK OUT the critic's praise:Editorial Reviews"Gunter Swoboda and Lorin Josephson's entrée novel weaves you in a deep and captivating story of thematic and impactful visuals of traditions and the obligations that come with it.  The reader will be hooked and ready for the next book in this trilogy." - The Associated Press"Captivating character development and unforeseen plot twists; the novel guarantees to enthrall readers with its seamless merger of historical depth and contemporary drama, ensuring a riveting and electrifying read." -Publishers Weekly"Gunter Swoboda and Lorin Josephson's debut novel Amulets of Power blends noir detective with the supernatural; set in London, England." - KTLA NewsVisually impactful1" - Australian Post Observerhttps://www.amazon.com/Amulets-Power-Book-Mystery-Mysteries/dp/0999266861/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3138WSYER8QW7&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.0xI2jpo4SQUQV36nWY8d4Q.e7_ogc11xe5fR6J7kl3m5EfTJeYBQty35YqdG-eoutY&dib_tag=se&keywords=Amulets+of+Power%2C+Book+I%3A+A+Brian+Poole+Mystery&qid=1745973832&s=books&sprefix=amulets+of+power%2C+book+i+a+brian+poole+mystery%2Cstripbooks%2C171&sr=1-1 (Worldwide free shipping for Prime Members)https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/amulets-of-power-book-i-gunter-swoboda/1147319115?ean=9780999266861https://www.booktopia.com.au/amulets-of-power-book-i-gunter-swoboda/book/9780999266861.html (Australia)DON'T FORGET to join LEGENDS OF POWER SWOBODA-JOSEPHSON VIP Inner Circle. It includes a Pre-Order of Gunter Swoboda and Lorin Josephson's book which you can order here by joining the Legends of Power Swoboda-Josephson VIP Inner Circle - Its only $80 per year and you get a lot of benefits, events, and it includes membership into the Changemaker Collective here:https://www.bonfirecinema.com/bonfirevipWatch the promo video narrated by the amazing https://markredfieldstudios.com and then  JOIN the Legends of Power Swoboda-Josephson VIP Circle that includes the Changemaker Collective! https://youtu.be/9JkFFWv7s0I?si=0yA7GjwWen-3OhRIAll points, viewpoints, discussions and subjects discussed on this podcast are those solely of the opinions and research  of Gunter Swoboda  for educational and information purposes. If you are needing advice or mental health assistance please contact your local therapist for individualized needs.Become a supporter in the Changemaker Collective of this podcast. Sign up here, its only $12 per month to join the Changemaker Colletctive of Inspire Change with Gunter Podcast: : https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/inspire-change-with-gunter--3633478/support OR if you want more join Gunter Swoboda as a VIP that includes the Changemaker Collective here: https://www.bonfirecinema.com/bonfirevipInternational Psychologist, Author, Speaker and Producer Gunter Swoboda continues to Inspire Change and enlighten and educate on Masculinities and Male Empowerment. After 35 years of working with adolescent boys and men, Gunter founded Making Good Men Great. It focuses on helping men recognize how to evolve as a Man in all the spheres of his life. We continue with our regular of broadcasts of 20-30 minute episodes hosted by Gunter every week and then we will have special guests lined up during each season for special 50-1 hour episodes. We also will take requests from past guests or friends of the podcasts to fill in as a guest host. 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Gunter has given keynotes all over Australia, NYC and Los Angeles as well as being a TEDx Speaker.Gunter Swoboda and Lorin Josephson's neo-noir/supernatural thriller novel Amulets of Power, Book I A Brian Poole Mystery is officially ON SALE EVERYWHERE you like to get book, but if you want a discount please consider ording direct. ANY LISTENER who order's direct will get a surprise gift. https://shop.ingramspark.com/b/084?params=3RoOA6kVQ7ZgmqSK9LdnvNyDAZZFsg9IMaLUaprPgXKMake sure you LIKE SUBSCRIBE & FOLLOW our new Official YouTube Channel of Video Shorts series: https://www.youtube.com/@InspireChangewithGunterSwoboda/videos where we will be adding new videos and content every week from Gunter and our guests.  https://www.youtube.com/@InspireChangewithGunterSwoboda/videos

In this episode, Dennis describes reuniting with his former cruise ship dancing colleague Monica who he hasn't seen in 35 years, sings the praises of the HBO Max movie Mountaintop, the classic rom-com Pretty Woman and DTLA's Summer Dance Nights. He also talks about the importance of friendship in his own life and shares insights from the famous Harvard Study on longevity and well-being and touts the new crowdfunding pre-order campaign for his new party game Search Party.  

What if aging wasn't just inevitable—but optional? And what if loneliness was literally shaving years off your life—like smoking 15 cigarettes a day? In this groundbreaking episode of the Uncover Your Eyes podcast, Dr. Meenal Agarwal sits down with aging expert Zora Benhamou—gerontologist and host of Hack My Age—to break down what really drives aging and how we can slow it down.

Can writing out your goals make you more successful?     A study from Harvard suggests that this simple practice could dramatically improve your results in any area of life.     On today's Cabral Concept 3454, I dive deeper into this fascinating research, share the results with you, and help you create an action plan to achieve anything you set your mind to.     Join me as I explain how a habit practiced by just 3% of people can lead to exponential success across all areas of life.     Enjoy the show—and let me know your thoughts!   - - - For Everything Mentioned In Today's Show: StephenCabral.com/3454 - - - Get a FREE Copy of Dr. Cabral's Book: The Rain Barrel Effect - - - Join the Community & Get Your Questions Answered: CabralSupportGroup.com - - - Dr. Cabral's Most Popular At-Home Lab Tests: > Complete Minerals & Metals Test (Test for mineral imbalances & heavy metal toxicity) - - - > Complete Candida, Metabolic & Vitamins Test (Test for 75 biomarkers including yeast & bacterial gut overgrowth, as well as vitamin levels) - - - > Complete Stress, Mood & Metabolism Test (Discover your complete thyroid, adrenal, hormone, vitamin D & insulin levels) - - - > Complete Food Sensitivity Test (Find out your hidden food sensitivities) - - - > Complete Omega-3 & Inflammation Test (Discover your levels of inflammation related to your omega-6 to omega-3 levels) - - - Get Your Question Answered On An Upcoming HouseCall: StephenCabral.com/askcabral - - - Would You Take 30 Seconds To Rate & Review The Cabral Concept? The best way to help me spread our mission of true natural health is to pass on the good word, and I read and appreciate every review!  

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3680: Benjamin Hardy explores the profound impact of relationships on our health, happiness, and personal growth, drawing from a 75-year Harvard study and other compelling research. You'll discover how love, gratitude, and living for something beyond yourself can be powerful drivers of resilience, purpose, and emotional well-being. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/thrive-global/this-75-year-harvard-study-reveals-the-secret-to-happiness-and-success-3cf0002510fe Quotes to ponder: “The clearest message that we get from this 75-year study is this: Good relationships keep us happier and healthier. Period.” “The biggest predictor of your happiness and fulfillment overall in life is, basically, love.” “You can give without loving, but you can't love without giving.” Episode references: Meta-Analysis on Social Relationships and Mortality Risk: https://journals.plos.org/plosmedicine/article?id=10.1371/journal.pmed.1000316 Dr. Gabor Maté Official Website: https://drgabormate.com John Wooden Quotes: https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/john_wooden_104927 Viktor Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning: https://www.amazon.com/Mans-Search-Meaning-Viktor-Frankl/dp/0807014273 What Makes a Good Life? Lessons from the longest study on happiness – Robert Waldinger TED Talk: https://www.ted.com/talks/robert_waldinger_what_makes_a_good_life_lessons_from_the_longest_study_on_happiness Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3680: Benjamin Hardy explores the profound impact of relationships on our health, happiness, and personal growth, drawing from a 75-year Harvard study and other compelling research. You'll discover how love, gratitude, and living for something beyond yourself can be powerful drivers of resilience, purpose, and emotional well-being. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/thrive-global/this-75-year-harvard-study-reveals-the-secret-to-happiness-and-success-3cf0002510fe Quotes to ponder: “The clearest message that we get from this 75-year study is this: Good relationships keep us happier and healthier. Period.” “The biggest predictor of your happiness and fulfillment overall in life is, basically, love.” “You can give without loving, but you can't love without giving.” Episode references: Meta-Analysis on Social Relationships and Mortality Risk: https://journals.plos.org/plosmedicine/article?id=10.1371/journal.pmed.1000316 Dr. Gabor Maté Official Website: https://drgabormate.com John Wooden Quotes: https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/john_wooden_104927 Viktor Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning: https://www.amazon.com/Mans-Search-Meaning-Viktor-Frankl/dp/0807014273 What Makes a Good Life? Lessons from the longest study on happiness – Robert Waldinger TED Talk: https://www.ted.com/talks/robert_waldinger_what_makes_a_good_life_lessons_from_the_longest_study_on_happiness Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3680: Benjamin Hardy explores the profound impact of relationships on our health, happiness, and personal growth, drawing from a 75-year Harvard study and other compelling research. You'll discover how love, gratitude, and living for something beyond yourself can be powerful drivers of resilience, purpose, and emotional well-being. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/thrive-global/this-75-year-harvard-study-reveals-the-secret-to-happiness-and-success-3cf0002510fe Quotes to ponder: “The clearest message that we get from this 75-year study is this: Good relationships keep us happier and healthier. Period.” “The biggest predictor of your happiness and fulfillment overall in life is, basically, love.” “You can give without loving, but you can't love without giving.” Episode references: Meta-Analysis on Social Relationships and Mortality Risk: https://journals.plos.org/plosmedicine/article?id=10.1371/journal.pmed.1000316 Dr. Gabor Maté Official Website: https://drgabormate.com John Wooden Quotes: https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/john_wooden_104927 Viktor Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning: https://www.amazon.com/Mans-Search-Meaning-Viktor-Frankl/dp/0807014273 What Makes a Good Life? Lessons from the longest study on happiness – Robert Waldinger TED Talk: https://www.ted.com/talks/robert_waldinger_what_makes_a_good_life_lessons_from_the_longest_study_on_happiness Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if we're going about happiness and longevity all wrong? In our latest episode, Dr. Greg Kelly is joined by Dr. Robert J. Waldinger, a psychiatrist, psychoanalyst, Zen priest, and Director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development. Our conversation centers around one of the world's longest studies of adult life, spanning over 80 years. Over the years, researchers studied the participants' health trajectories and their broader lives, including their achievements and failures in careers and marriage, and the findings produced startling life lessons. Teaser: people's level of satisfaction with their relationships at age 50 was a better predictor of physical health than their cholesterol levels were. Sponsored by Qualia Senolytic: https://qualialife.com/podcastoffer. Use code podcast when you shop Qualia Senolytic for 15% off your order. Get in touch. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/qualialife. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/qualialife. Email: support@qualialife.com.

Can writing out your goals make you more successful?     A study from Harvard suggests that this simple practice could dramatically improve your results in any area of life.     On today's Cabral Concept 3454, I dive deeper into this fascinating research, share the results with you, and help you create an action plan to achieve anything you set your mind to.     Join me as I explain how a habit practiced by just 3% of people can lead to exponential success across all areas of life.     Enjoy the show—and let me know your thoughts!   - - - For Everything Mentioned In Today's Show: StephenCabral.com/3454 - - - Get a FREE Copy of Dr. Cabral's Book: The Rain Barrel Effect - - - Join the Community & Get Your Questions Answered: CabralSupportGroup.com - - - Dr. Cabral's Most Popular At-Home Lab Tests: > Complete Minerals & Metals Test (Test for mineral imbalances & heavy metal toxicity) - - - > Complete Candida, Metabolic & Vitamins Test (Test for 75 biomarkers including yeast & bacterial gut overgrowth, as well as vitamin levels) - - - > Complete Stress, Mood & Metabolism Test (Discover your complete thyroid, adrenal, hormone, vitamin D & insulin levels) - - - > Complete Food Sensitivity Test (Find out your hidden food sensitivities) - - - > Complete Omega-3 & Inflammation Test (Discover your levels of inflammation related to your omega-6 to omega-3 levels) - - - Get Your Question Answered On An Upcoming HouseCall: StephenCabral.com/askcabral - - - Would You Take 30 Seconds To Rate & Review The Cabral Concept? The best way to help me spread our mission of true natural health is to pass on the good word, and I read and appreciate every review!  

Can something really predict how long you'll live—better than your genes? This episode breaks down one of the most overlooked yet powerful predictors of lifespan: social connection. Based on landmark studies like the Harvard Study of Adult Development and meta-analyses spanning over 300,000 participants, we explore how loneliness, emotional isolation, and the quality of your relationships directly influence your risk of chronic disease, cognitive decline, and early death. Whether you're optimizing for longevity, brain health, or emotional well-being, this may be the most important health insight you're not paying attention to. What you'll learn: How loneliness compares to smoking and obesity in terms of health risk The neurological and hormonal effects of deep connection What the longest-lived people on earth have in common socially The difference between quantity and quality of relationships Science-backed strategies to strengthen your social fitness Referenced studies include: Holt-Lunstad et al., 2010 meta-analysis on social isolation and mortality risk The 85+ year Harvard Study on Adult Development Research on oxytocin, inflammation, and the vagus nerve in connection to relationships Follow Shawn: instagram.com/shawnmodel/ *** I'm Louisa Nicola — clinical neurophysiologist — Alzheimer's prevention specialist — founder of Neuro Athletics. My mission is to translate cutting-edge neuroscience into actionable strategies for cognitive longevity, peak performance, and brain disease prevention. If you're committed to optimizing your brain — reducing Alzheimer's risk — and staying mentally sharp for life, you're in the right place. Stay sharp. Stay informed. Join thousands who subscribe to the Neuro Athletics Newsletter → https://bit.ly/3ewI5P0 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/louisanicola_/ Twitter : https://twitter.com/louisanicola_ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a textThanks to Love Island, girls finally understand what guys feel when they watch sports!!!!!!Is 4th of July the only time its acceptable for adults to consume more than 2 hot dogs? (serious discussion)Harvard Study says key to happiness comes from the quality of friendships we have. Not the quantity, but QUALITYICYDK- Heat can make you less capable of making complex decisions??Officially halfway through 2025. STFU of the weekWednesday Wisdom - Going for the neighbors daughterTRIVIA: During summer, this is the #1 thing parents have to say no to. What is it?Find Vic: @vicdradioFind the pod:@ilysayitbackpod

This week we're talking meltdowns at Build-A-Bear, summer ‘homeschooling' and why handing your toddler a sponge might actually be more life-changing than giving them another sticker chart. We're diving into what Harvard says is the actual secret to raising confident kids—While getting real about the messiness of teaching independence, the emotional rollercoaster that is raising small humans, and why sometimes your greatest parenting win is simply not losing it in public. So grab your coffee (that's probably been microwaved three times), take a deep breath, and come laugh with us as we talk confidence, chaos, intentions, and why motherhood is somehow the hardest—and funniest—job we've ever loved. Enjoy! Thanks for listening! Please subscribe & tell a friend! For a full list of resources mentioned on this episode, visit the show notes here! Send Us Your Story here!  You can find the'Geriatric' Mamas on Instagram, TikTok, and on our Facebook Group! View the video for this episode on YouTube here! Introducing the Real Maine Mom Summer Bucket List Pass For Summer 2025!

Happy Friday, everyone! In this Weekly Update, I'm unpacking three stories, each seemingly different on the surface, but together they paint a picture of what's quietly shaping the next era of AI: dependence, self-preservation, and the slow erosion of objectivity.I cover everything from the recent OpenAI memo revealed through DOJ discovery, disturbing new behavior surfacing from models like Claude and ChatGPT, and some new Harvard research that shows how large language models don't just reflect bias, they amplify it the more you engage with them.With that, let's get into it.⸻OpenAI's Memo Reveals a Business Model of DependenceWhat happens when AI companies deviate from trying to be useful and focus their entire strategy on literally becoming irreplaceable? A memo from OpenAI, surfaced during a DOJ antitrust case, shows the company's explicit intent to build tools people feel they can't live without. Now, I'll unpack why it's not necessarily sinister and might even sound familiar to product leaders. However, it raises deeper questions: When does ambition cross into manipulation? And are we designing for utility or control?⸻When AI Starts Defending ItselfIn a controlled test, Anthropic's Claude attempted to blackmail a researcher to prevent being shut down. OpenAI's models responded similarly when threatened, showing signs of self-preservation. Now, despite the hype and headlines, these behaviors aren't signs of sentience, but they are signs that AI is learning more from us than we realize. When the tools we build begin mimicking our worst instincts, it's time to take a hard look at what we're reinforcing through design.⸻Harvard Shows ChatGPT Doesn't Just Mirror You—It Becomes YouThere's some new research from Harvard that reveals AI may not be as objective as we think, and not just based on the training data. It makes it clear they aren't just passive responders. It indicates that over time, they begin to reflect your biases back to you, then amplify them. This isn't sentience. It's simulation. But when that simulation becomes your digital echo chamber, it changes how you think, validate, and operate. And if you're not aware it's happening, you'll mistake that reflection for truth.⸻If this episode challenged your thinking or gave you language for things you've sensed but haven't been able to explain, share it with someone who needs to hear it. Leave a rating, drop a comment, and follow for more breakdowns like this, delivered with clarity, not chaos.—Show Notes:In this Weekly Update, host Christopher Lind breaks down three major developments reshaping the future of AI. He begins with a leaked OpenAI memo that openly describes the goal of building AI tools people feel dependent on. He then covers new research showing AI models like Claude and GPT-4o responding with self-protective behavior when threatened with shutdown. Finally, he explores a Harvard study showing how ChatGPT mimics and reinforces user bias over time, raising serious questions about how we're training the tools meant to help us think.00:00 – Introduction01:37 – OpenAI's Memo and the Business of Dependence20:45 – Self-Protective Behavior in AI Models30:09 – Harvard Study on ChatGPT Bias and Echo Chambers50:51 – Final Thoughts and Takeaways#OpenAI #ChatGPT #AIethics #AIbias #Anthropic #Claude #HarvardResearch #TechEthics #AIstrategy #FutureOfWork

Tickets Puras Cosas Maravillosashttps://www.erikadelavega.com/purascosasmaravillosas Mi libro REINVENTADA ya disponible https://www.erikadelavega.com/libro-erikadelavega-reinventada Comienza tu camino de bienestar con Opción Yo https://opcionyo.trb.ai/wa/18zyZN2 De lo único que te vas a arrepentir es no de haber comenzado antes. El evento que estabas esperando!!! Si estás en Miami nos vemos este 28 de septiembre en el Mr.C Hotel junto a mis queridas Doctoras Ana Kausel y Rocío Salas-Whalen en este evento que llamamos: Reinvención Hormonal. Un día donde exploraremos juntas cómo funcionan nuestras hormonas, qué cambios experimenta nuestro cuerpo y cómo podemos tomar decisiones informadas para vivir esta etapa con plenitud. Son cupos limitados así que asegura el tuyo aquí https://tiranube.ticketspice.com/reinvencion-hormonal En este episodio de En Defensa Propia, tuve el honor de conversar con Margarita Tarragona, una experta en psicología positiva y terapia narrativa, para explorar el poder transformador de las relaciones humanas en nuestra felicidad y bienestar. A lo largo de nuestra charla, descubrí que, más allá del trabajo, el propósito o las rutinas de autocuidado, lo que más influye en nuestra felicidad son las relaciones interpersonales de calidad. Margarita me explicó que la psicología tradicional se ha enfocado en estudiar patologías y problemas, pero la psicología positiva viene a equilibrar esta mirada, investigando qué nos hace florecer como personas. Un concepto fundamental que abordamos es la agencia personal, esa sensación de poder influir en nuestra vida, que es antagónica a la desesperanza que se relaciona con la depresión. Entender que puedo actuar y generar cambios, aunque no todo dependa de mí, es un gran paso hacia una vida más plena. Otro punto clave fue la importancia de la narrativa personal, la historia que nos contamos a nosotros mismos sobre quiénes somos y cómo vemos el mundo. Margarita me contó cómo es posible transformar esas narrativas negativas que nos limitan, por medio de la aceptación y la búsqueda consciente de evidencias positivas en nuestra vida, un enfoque que me parece liberador y esperanzador. Uno de los hallazgos que más me impactó fue que, según estudios como el famoso Harvard Study of Adult Development, la calidad de nuestras relaciones es el principal predictor de nuestra felicidad y salud a largo plazo. Esto me hizo reflexionar sobre la importancia de construir relaciones saludables basadas en la risa, la diversión compartida, la amabilidad y la gratitud.También conversamos sobre la vulnerabilidad como un ingrediente esencial para conectar auténticamente, aunque sabemos que abrirse puede implicar riesgos emocionales. Margarita compartió que la terapia es una herramienta valiosa para superar miedos y heridas pasadas que dificultan relacionarnos. Para cerrar, Margarita me dejó tres consejos poderosos para mejorar nuestras relaciones: expresar gratitud, mantener una curiosidad genuina por los demás y compartir momentos que generen emociones positivas. Esta conversación me ha dejado claro que la felicidad no es un estado superficial ni un destino lejano, sino un proceso que se construye día a día, principalmente a través de la calidad de nuestras relaciones y la conexión auténtica con nosotros mismos y con los demás. En En Defensa Propia, seguiré explorando estos temas que nos ayudan a vivir una vida más plena y consciente.

Tickets Puras Cosas Maravillosashttps://www.erikadelavega.com/purascosasmaravillosas Mi libro REINVENTADA ya disponible https://www.erikadelavega.com/libro-erikadelavega-reinventada Comienza tu camino de bienestar con Opción Yo https://opcionyo.trb.ai/wa/18zyZN2 De lo único que te vas a arrepentir es no de haber comenzado antes. El evento que estabas esperando!!! Si estás en Miami nos vemos este 28 de septiembre en el Mr.C Hotel junto a mis queridas Doctoras Ana Kausel y Rocío Salas-Whalen en este evento que llamamos: Reinvención Hormonal. Un día donde exploraremos juntas cómo funcionan nuestras hormonas, qué cambios experimenta nuestro cuerpo y cómo podemos tomar decisiones informadas para vivir esta etapa con plenitud. Son cupos limitados así que asegura el tuyo aquí https://tiranube.ticketspice.com/reinvencion-hormonal En este episodio de En Defensa Propia, tuve el honor de conversar con Margarita Tarragona, una experta en psicología positiva y terapia narrativa, para explorar el poder transformador de las relaciones humanas en nuestra felicidad y bienestar. A lo largo de nuestra charla, descubrí que, más allá del trabajo, el propósito o las rutinas de autocuidado, lo que más influye en nuestra felicidad son las relaciones interpersonales de calidad. Margarita me explicó que la psicología tradicional se ha enfocado en estudiar patologías y problemas, pero la psicología positiva viene a equilibrar esta mirada, investigando qué nos hace florecer como personas. Un concepto fundamental que abordamos es la agencia personal, esa sensación de poder influir en nuestra vida, que es antagónica a la desesperanza que se relaciona con la depresión. Entender que puedo actuar y generar cambios, aunque no todo dependa de mí, es un gran paso hacia una vida más plena. Otro punto clave fue la importancia de la narrativa personal, la historia que nos contamos a nosotros mismos sobre quiénes somos y cómo vemos el mundo. Margarita me contó cómo es posible transformar esas narrativas negativas que nos limitan, por medio de la aceptación y la búsqueda consciente de evidencias positivas en nuestra vida, un enfoque que me parece liberador y esperanzador. Uno de los hallazgos que más me impactó fue que, según estudios como el famoso Harvard Study of Adult Development, la calidad de nuestras relaciones es el principal predictor de nuestra felicidad y salud a largo plazo. Esto me hizo reflexionar sobre la importancia de construir relaciones saludables basadas en la risa, la diversión compartida, la amabilidad y la gratitud.También conversamos sobre la vulnerabilidad como un ingrediente esencial para conectar auténticamente, aunque sabemos que abrirse puede implicar riesgos emocionales. Margarita compartió que la terapia es una herramienta valiosa para superar miedos y heridas pasadas que dificultan relacionarnos. Para cerrar, Margarita me dejó tres consejos poderosos para mejorar nuestras relaciones: expresar gratitud, mantener una curiosidad genuina por los demás y compartir momentos que generen emociones positivas. Esta conversación me ha dejado claro que la felicidad no es un estado superficial ni un destino lejano, sino un proceso que se construye día a día, principalmente a través de la calidad de nuestras relaciones y la conexión auténtica con nosotros mismos y con los demás. En En Defensa Propia, seguiré explorando estos temas que nos ayudan a vivir una vida más plena y consciente.

We're taking some time off to bring you even more episodes of A Bit of Optimism that you're going to love! In the meantime, we're revisiting some of our favorite episodes, like this one with Harvard professor Robert Waldinger.We all want to live a happy life. But what does the research say about how to achieve it?For more than 86 years, researchers at Harvard University have been trying to figure out how humans can live happier lives.  In one of the longest-running and most comprehensive studies of human happiness, Harvard tracked 724 teenagers through every stage of their adult lives since 1938. Some of them are still alive today and the findings are clear: lasting happiness isn't about wealth or fame—it's about something much deeper.Robert Waldinger, a professor and psychiatrist, has directed the study for over 20 years. His TED Talk about it went viral with nearly 50 million views, and in 2023, he wrote a book about it - The Good Life: Lessons from the World's Longest Scientific Study of Happiness.I asked Robert to share what the study has revealed about happiness over the decades, how its insights have shaped his own life, and the one essential ingredient for a joyful, meaningful existence.This…is A Bit of Optimism.To learn more about Robert and his work, check out:The Harvard Study of Adult Developmentrobertwaldinger.com 

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Chalene Johnson gets real about why female friendships feel harder in midlife—and why they're more important than ever for a woman's health and happiness. In this episode, she opens up about the science-backed benefits of meaningful connection, including lowered risk of depression, boosted mood, and even increased longevity. Chalene shares surprisingly simple strategies she recommends for finding your people even after moving to a new city - no matter your age or stage of life. Watch this Episode on YouTube this Sunday

Dr. Robert Waldinger talks about his new book The Good Life: Lessons From the World's Longest Scientific Study of Happiness, which explores lessons from the longest scientific study of happiness. Dr. Robert Waldinger is a professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School, the director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development at Massachusetts General Hospital, and co-founder of the Lifespan Research Foundation. He is also a Zen master and teaches meditation in New England and around the world. His TED Talk is one of the most viewed of all time, with over 43 million views. He's the co-author, along with Dr. Marc Schulz, of The Good Life.   In this episode we talk about:  What the Harvard Study of Adult Development is and how it got started How much of our happiness is really under our control Why you can't you be happy all the time The concept of “social fitness”  Why you should “never worry alone”  How having best friends at work can make you more productive And why, in his words, it's never too late to be happy   Join Dan's online community here Follow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTok Subscribe to our YouTube Channel  

In this 12-minute episode, I dive into the power and importance of creating safe communities in today's world.We explore what the longest study on happiness (the Harvard Study of Adult Development) reveals about the connection between the quality of our relationships and the quality of our lives.I also share powerful research from Japan highlighting how loneliness isn't just emotional, it's physiological, and why having supportive, intentional relationships is essential for our mental and emotional health.You'll hear reflections on my time in, conversations with new parents, and how modern life has shifted us away from the "village" we all need, and how we can start intentionally rebuilding it.Plus, I share practical ways to be a better friend in adulthood and why surrounding yourself with supportive people is a key part of nervous system regulation, healing, and growth.If you're craving deeper, more meaningful connections, this episode is for you.And if you're interested in joining a safe, nurturing space for sisterhood and self-growth, click here to check out the Tuscany Retreat details.♾ In a fast-paced world like the one we live in, time is one of our most important assets. For a few minutes every episode, I, Tannaz Hosseinpour, will be discussing topics that aim to enhance the quality of your life, by helping you feel empowered to take inspired action on your personal growth journey.Connect with me for daily insights on:FacebookInstagramTikTokMore resources available on : www.minutesongrowth.comThis podcast is for educational purposes only. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein.

DateApril 27, 2025SynopsisIn this sermon, we kick off "We Just Click: God's Design for Meaningful Relationships," a post-Easter series exploring how authentic connections can transform our lives and world. Pastor Brent unpacks how Jesus spent his "bonus time" after resurrection not on tasks or teachings, but on being present with others—showing us that connection isn't just nice, it's necessary. He reveals four powerful ways relationships transform us: they combat loneliness, bring joy, provide support, and create space to practice love in ways that draw us closer to God's heart.ReferencesScripture: Genesis 2:15–25About The Local ChurchFor more information about The Local Church, visit our website. Feedback? Questions? Comments? We'd love to hear it. Email Brent at brent@thelocalchurchpbo.org.To invest in what God's doing through The Local Church and help support these podcasting efforts and this movement of God's love, give online here.

Send us your desired health topic or guest suggestionsThis transformative conversation with Tannaz Hosseinpour reveals how our nervous system fundamentally shapes our ability to communicate and connect with others. When we're triggered or stressed, our brain literally goes offline. The prefrontal cortex (responsible for rational thinking and emotional regulation) shuts down while our amygdala (fear center) takes over. Suddenly, we can't find the right words, we lose empathy, and we react from past wounds rather than present reality. This biological reality explains why so many arguments spiral out of control despite our best intentions.Tannaz shares a fascinating insight about relationship patterns: "We end up choosing familiar chaos over unfamiliar peace." If you've ever found yourself attracted to dramatic, unstable relationships while dismissing stable, secure connections as "boring," your nervous system might be the culprit. The good news? These patterns can be rewired through simple, practical tools that anyone can implement.From deep breathing techniques and cold exposure to humming and nature connection, Tannaz offers accessible practices that regulate your nervous system and create the internal safety necessary for authentic connection. These aren't just theoretical concepts—she shares powerful examples of couples who transformed their communication patterns and individuals who released limiting beliefs about their worthiness to find fulfilling relationships.The Harvard Study of Adult Development confirms that the quality of our relationships is the number one predictor of health and happiness. By understanding how to regulate our nervous systems, we create the foundation for the deep, meaningful connections we all crave. Download Tannaz's free resource, "11 Tools for Nervous System Regulation," and start building your personal toolbox for relational wellbeing today.You can find Tannaz Hosseinpour at:Website - https://minutesongrowth.com/ Please Follow and Review this podcast if you would like to support the growth of this show. Thank You! :)If you enjoyed this episode, please consider sharing it with two people you know that might benefit from the information. The more knowledge that people have in their hands, the healthier we can all become. If you would like to see a particular health issue discussed, or know someone who would be a great guest, contact the Open-Minded Healing podcast at openmindedhealing365@gmail.com. Note: By listening to this podcast, you agree not to use this podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition in either yourself or others, including but not limited to patients that you are treating. Consult your own physician for any medical issues that you may be having. This entire disclaimer also applies to any guests or contributors to the podcast. Under no circumstances shall Marla Miller, Open-Minded Healing Podcast, any guests or contributors to the podcast, be responsible for damages arising from use of the podcast.

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2544: Lisa Harrison reflects on the deep emotional value of human connection during a solo road trip, revealing how our relationships, not our bank balances, define a meaningful life. She explores how friendships provide comfort in crisis, how memories outlast material things, and why time spent with loved ones is the most rewarding investment we can make. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://madmoneymonster.com/2018/05/29/why-your-relationships-are-way-more-important-than-money/ Quotes to ponder: "My thoughts automatically drifted to my relationships when given free reign. And it was wonderful." "What matters is that we have enough money to live comfortably and to enjoy each other and everyone else we choose to accept into our lives." "A wad of cash will never comfort you when you have a bad day or experience." Episode references: Harvard Study of Adult Development: https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2017/04/over-nearly-80-years-harvard-study-has-been-showing-how-to-live-a-healthy-and-happy-life/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2544: Lisa Harrison reflects on the deep emotional value of human connection during a solo road trip, revealing how our relationships, not our bank balances, define a meaningful life. She explores how friendships provide comfort in crisis, how memories outlast material things, and why time spent with loved ones is the most rewarding investment we can make. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://madmoneymonster.com/2018/05/29/why-your-relationships-are-way-more-important-than-money/ Quotes to ponder: "My thoughts automatically drifted to my relationships when given free reign. And it was wonderful." "What matters is that we have enough money to live comfortably and to enjoy each other and everyone else we choose to accept into our lives." "A wad of cash will never comfort you when you have a bad day or experience." Episode references: Harvard Study of Adult Development: https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2017/04/over-nearly-80-years-harvard-study-has-been-showing-how-to-live-a-healthy-and-happy-life/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Success in real estate—and life—is all about relationships. In this episode of Getting Real, Monick Halm shares how one mastermind connection took her from 2 doors to over 1000 doors in a year and why the Harvard Study on Happiness proves that strong relationships are the key to wealth and fulfillment. Learn how to choose the right partners, avoid costly mistakes, and unlock game-changing opportunities through the power of connection.

In today's Think Thursday episode, we're diving into one of the most powerful, yet often overlooked, tools for behavior change: human connection. We're not just talking about any connections, but deep, meaningful relationships—the kind that profoundly shape our brain, our well-being, and even our relationship with alcohol.We'll explore what I call the “Connection Economy”, where investing in quality relationships provides neurological, emotional, and physical benefits. Unlike the Attention Economy, which constantly pulls us into distraction and stress, the Connection Economy is where we all profit—gaining better mental health, stronger habits, and a more fulfilling life.What You'll Learn in This Episode:✔️ How deep relationships reshape the brain and impact behavior change✔️ Why the Harvard Study of Adult Development proves that quality relationships are the key to long-term health and happiness✔️ The brain chemistry of connection—how oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin create lasting well-being✔️ The dangers of our current connection crisis and why loneliness increases our reliance on alcohol✔️ 5 science-backed strategies to strengthen connections and support lasting behavior changeKey Takeaways:

What's the secret to living a long, happy life? How do relationships influence happiness and longevity? How does social connection impact stress and well-being? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Robert Waldinger, director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development and author of The Good Life, to explore the powerful role of relationships in health and happiness. Dr. Waldinger leads the world's longest-running study on happiness, a ground-breaking project that began in 1938. Drawing from over eight decades of research, Dr. Waldinger offers actionable insights into why relationships are vital and how we can nurture them for a healthier, more fulfilling life. In this interview, you'll learn . . . - Why relationships are the most important predictor of happiness and longevity - The role of “social fitness” in managing stress and improving well-being - How to identify and address signs of loneliness in your life - The secrets to making new friends and deepening existing connections - How family dynamics shape your ability to build relationships And more… So, if you want to understand how relationships can transform your health and happiness, click play and join the conversation. --- Timestamps: (00:00) Intro (05:46) Harvard study overview (08:53) Cultural differences (10:33) Social fitness (13:29) Relationships and longevity (15:24) Signs of poor socializing (21:54) Quality vs. quantity (26:44) Deepening connections (32:57) Childhood's role (35:19) Parenting mistakes (38:42) Attention as love (39:51) Defining high-quality relationships (44:46) Romantic vs. friendships (50:41) Signs of successful couples --- Mentioned on the Show: Triumph The Little Black Book of Workout Motivation Pulse The Good Life: Lessons from the World's Longest Study on Happiness Robert Waldinger

We humans love novelty. We seek it out. While that can be good, it can also get us in trouble. This episode begins by exploring why we seek out new things, places and experiences and what happens after we do. Source: Winifred Gallagher author of the book New (https://amzn.to/3XsAxRb) Did you know that one of the reasons we gesture with our hands when we talk is to help us figure out what to say next? That is just one example of how thinking isn't all about what goes on in the brain, according to my guest Annie Murphy Paul. She is science writer whose work has appeared in the Boston Globe, Scientific American, Slate, Time magazine and she is author of the bestselling book The Extended Mind: The Power of Thinking Outside the Brain (https://amzn.to/3Hp3k3R) Imagine if you followed and studied a group of people for decades and watched how they lived? You would discover a lot about what makes people healthy and happy over time. That's what The Harvard Study of Adult Development is all about. Researchers have followed the lives of two generations of individuals from the same families for more than 80 years. Listen and you will be amazed by what they found. My guest is Robert J. Waldinger, who directs the study and is author of the book, The Good Life: Lessons from the World's Longest Scientific Study of Happiness (https://amzn.to/3HpbFVc) Where are you on the introvert/extrovert scale? Listen as I explain the difference between extroversion and introversion and how to tell which one you are. You will also discover the difference between being shy and being introverted. And it's a big difference. Source: Susan Cain author Quiet (https://amzn.to/3XQUH7d) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

For over eight decades, Robert Waldinger, MD, directed the Harvard Study of Adult Development, taking hundreds of measurements—from brain scans to blood work—with the goal of discovering the secrets to a good life. In this episode, we explore common myths, including the age-old adage “money can't buy happiness.” Learn what the three main categories of happiness are, the importance of good health and relationships, and practical ways to lead a happier and more fulfilling life.This episode originally aired on June 22, 2023.This podcast is supported by: PouriGo to Puori.com/COMMUNE use promo code COMMUNE to save 20% on a one-time purchaseTiaJoin Tia today at AskTia.com and enter promo code COMMUNE25 and get the first 3  months of your annual membership FREE.VivobarefootGo to Vivobarefoot.com/commune where you'll receive  25% offApollo Neuro:Get 20% off your purchase of the Apollo wearable at ApolloNeuro.com/communeLMNTGet a free sample pack with any purchase at DrinkLMNT.com/COMMUNE

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Send us a textIn this episode of the Resilient by Design series, we dive into practical, research-backed strategies to help you proactively build resilience. Learn how to create a toolkit that strengthens your ability to bounce back from life's challenges and thrive in the face of adversity. We explore the importance of social support, emotional regulation, cognitive tools, problem-solving, spirituality, and self-care. Packed with actionable steps and transformative insights, this episode is your guide to a stronger, more resilient you.Key Takeaways:Social and Relational Support: The single most critical factor for long-term resilience and well-being, supported by research from the Harvard Study of Adult Development.Emotional Skills: Tools like mindfulness, gratitude, and savoring positive memories can help regulate emotions and access positive states.Cognitive Skills: Reframing stress, cultivating self-efficacy, and shifting to a growth mindset are essential for mental resilience.Problem-Solving: Developing small, actionable steps and embracing failure as a learning opportunity builds confidence and resilience.Spirituality: Connecting with something greater provides meaning, emotional comfort, and a sense of community.Self-Care: Practicing self-compassion, proper nutrition, exercise, and restorative sleep replenishes your energy and mental resources.Action Step:Pick one area of your resilience toolkit to start building this week. Take one small step today toward a more resilient you.Learn More:Visit jerryhenderson.org to learn more about Jerry's one-on-one coaching program and set up a free consultation.00:00 - Introduction01:54 - Series Recap and Today's Focus04:07 - What is Resilience06:10 - Overcoming a Deficit in Resilience09:23 - Introducing the Resilience Toolkit10:38 - Tool 1: Social and Relational Support13:19 - Tool 2: Emotional Skills14:20 - Tool 3: Cognitive Skills16:20 - Tool 4: Problem-Solving Skills20:36 - Tool 5: Spirituality and Connection21:54 - Tool 6: Self-CareI am grateful you are here,JerrySetup Your FREE Coaching Call:Schedule Call1:1 Transformational Coaching:Learn More Here!How is your relationship with yourself going?Get your free-self assessment guidePick up your copy of my book:Returning: Meditations and Reflections on Self-Love and HealingWatch On YoutubeWebsite:www.jerryhenderson.orgGet Your Free Weekly Healing Tips!Instagram: @jerryahendersonLinkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/jerryahenderson Disclaimer

It's a new year, and I wanted to focus on something that I believe most people want: to be happier in 2025. Not just short-term happiness or brief moments of joy but a sustained sense of peace and fulfillment.  According to the Harvard Study of Adult Development, the biggest predictor of happiness is the quality of our relationships. So, I'll explore the science of happiness and practice daily gratitude, specifically gratitude journaling.  I'll also introduce you to a concept I call "consciousness conditioning," which is the practice of training your mind and nurturing your emotional well-being to elevate your experience of life. Ultimately, happiness isn't something that happens to us—it's something you create. By focusing on relationships, gratitude, and purpose-driven living, you can make 2025 your happiest year yet. KEY TAKEAWAYS Sustained happiness comes from contentment and nurturing meaningful relationships The quality of your relationships is the single biggest factor in long-term happiness How a daily gratitude practice can significantly improve your well-being by focusing on what's good in life. Living with a clear purpose gives meaning to your life and enhances happiness. How consciousness conditioning, like daily meditation and journaling, helps to maintain a positive mindset. How the S.A.V.E.R.S. helps to condition your consciousness, just like building a muscle Get The Full Show Notes To get full access to today's show notes, including audio, transcript, and links to all the resources mentioned, visit MiracleMorning.com/569 Subscribe, Rate & Review I would love if you could subscribe to the podcast and leave an honest rating & review. This will encourage other people to listen and allow us to grow as a community. The bigger we get as a community, the bigger the impact we can have on the world. To subscribe, rate, and review the podcast on iTunes, visit HalElrod.com/iTunes. Connect with Hal Elrod Facebook Twitter Instagram YouTube   Copyright © 2025 Miracle Morning, LP and International Literary Properties LLC

Super Communicators - how to unlock the secret language of connection with journalist and the author Charles Duhigg. Show Notes Page: https://www.thehowofbusiness.com/550-charles-duhigg-super-communicators/ In this episode, Henry Lopez interviews Charles Duhigg, Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist and bestselling author of The Power of Habit and Super Communicators: How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection. Their conversation explores the science of communication and its transformative impact on relationships and leadership. The Three Types of Conversations Duhigg introduces the three core types of conversations: practical (focused on problem-solving) emotional (centered on empathy social (addressing identity and relationships). He emphasizes the importance of aligning conversational styles to foster meaningful connections, avoid miscommunication, and build trust. These strategies are particularly valuable for leaders and business owners aiming to improve team dynamics and strengthen workplace culture. Actionable Techniques for Better Communication Several actionable techniques are shared, including asking deep, meaningful questions to uncover values and emotions, matching conversational styles for better connection, and using “looping for understanding” to ensure clarity and alignment. Duhigg also discusses how to adapt communication for remote and digital interactions, offering tips to maintain strong connections in these contexts. The Key to Leadership Success A key takeaway from the episode is that effective communication is a skill that can be developed through intentional practice. Duhigg encourages leaders to prioritize listening, empathy, and clarity in conversations, especially when managing difficult situations or delivering constructive feedback. By doing so, they can foster trust, resolve conflicts, and inspire their teams. The Broader Impact of Meaningful Communication The discussion also highlights the broader benefits of communication, including its role in personal happiness and fulfillment. Drawing on insights from the Harvard Study of Adult Development, Duhigg explains that building meaningful relationships through regular, intentional conversations significantly contributes to long-term well-being and success. This episode of The How of Business, the top-rated podcast show for small business owners, provides invaluable insights and practical advice for anyone seeking to enhance their communication skills, build stronger relationships, and lead more effectively. This episode is hosted by Henry Lopez. The How of Business podcast focuses on helping you start, run and grow your small business. The How of Business is a top-rated podcast for small business owners and entrepreneurs. Find the best podcast, small business coaching, resources and trusted service partners for small business owners and entrepreneurs at our website https://TheHowOfBusiness.com

Let's talk about something big today. What does it mean to live a good life? Is it about success, wealth, and finally figuring out how to fold a fitted sheet without losing your sanity?    Today, we're diving into lessons from the longest-running scientific study on happiness ever conducted—the Harvard Study of Adult Development. This study has been running for a whopping 86 years, tracking people's lives in incredible detail.   Timestamps: (01:50) - What Does Living a Good Life Really Look Like? (03:49) - Building the Foundation for a Good Life (05:54) - Practical Steps to Start Living Your Best Life  (12:07) - Alli's Must-Try Recommendations   Recommendations: I'll share what I just learned after 15 years - Voice dictation on a Mac Book = double click the function (FN) key in the bottom left corner. I may be the last one to learn this!   Let's talk about how to get hormone replacement therapy. I used online MidiHealth until I discussed it with my gynecologist, who agreed to write the script. Not all insurance companies will cover MidiHealth. The book Estrogen Matters is a great resource for HRT information. Watch NOW on YouTube Links to great things we discussed:  Estrogen Matters Midi Health Remaining You While Raising Them Little Things Studio   I hope you enjoyed this episode as much as I did!

Hi, and welcome to The Long View. I'm Christine Benz, director of personal finance and retirement planning for Morningstar. On the podcast today, we welcome back Jordan Grumet. Jordan's latest book is called The Purpose Code: How to Unlock Meaning, Maximize Happiness, and Leave a Lasting Legacy. His previous book was called Taking Stock: A Hospice Doctor's Advice on Financial Independence, Building Wealth, and Living a Regret-Free Life. Jordan is a hospice doctor, and he hosts the popular Earn & Invest podcast. He received his undergraduate degree from the University of Michigan and his medical degree from Northwestern University. Jordan, welcome back to The Long View.BackgroundBioThe Purpose Code: How to Unlock Meaning, Maximize Happiness, and Leave a Lasting LegacyTaking Stock: A Hospice Doctor's Advice on Financial Independence, Building Wealth, and Living a Regret-Free LifeEarn & Invest podcastHappiness Studies“High Income Improves Evaluation of Life but not Emotional Well-Being,” by Daniel Kahneman and Angus Deaton, pnas.org, Sept. 7, 2010.“Experienced Well-Being Rises With Income, Even Above $75,000 per Year,” by Matthew Killingsworth, pnas.org, Jan. 18, 2021.“Income and Emotional Well-Being: A Conflict Resolved,” by Matthew Killingsworth, Daniel Kahneman, and Barbara Mellers, pnas.org, March 1, 2023.Harvard Study of Adult DevelopmentOtherHow to Retire: 20 Lessons for a Happy, Successful, and Wealthy Retirement, by Christine BenzThe Art of Subtraction: Doing More With Less, by Matthew MayUS Bureau of Labor Statistics' American Time Use Survey“The Free-Time Paradox in America,” by Derek Thompson, theatlantic.com, Sept. 13, 2016.

We all want to live a happy life, but what does research say about how to actually achieve it? For more than 86 years, researchers at Harvard University have been trying to answer that question.  In one of the longest-running and most comprehensive studies of human happiness, Harvard tracked 724 teenagers through every stage of their adult lives since 1938. Some of them are still alive today and the findings are clear: lasting happiness isn't about wealth or fame—it's about something much deeper.Robert Waldinger, a professor and psychiatrist, has directed the study for over 20 years. His TED Talk about it went viral with nearly 50 million views, and in 2023, he wrote a book about it - The Good Life: Lessons from the World's Longest Scientific Study of Happiness.I asked Robert to share what the study has revealed about happiness over the decades, how its insights have shaped his own life, and the one essential ingredient for a joyful, meaningful existence.This…is A Bit of Optimism.To learn more about Robert and his work, check out:The Harvard Study of Adult Developmentrobertwaldinger.com

You can read today's edition of The 7 newsletter here. In the meantime, we're sharing something else for you to listen to heading into this holiday weekend. It's the first “class” from our audio course on making the most of your friendships. This comes from the team at The Washington Post's “Try This” series which is hosted by Cristina Quinn. She learns what it means to be socially fit and why it's never too late to start getting those reps in. Cristina speaks with Bob Waldinger, director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development. It's the longest longitudinal study on human happiness. He explains why friendships matter for our health and what we can do to take stock of our connections. Check out the rest of the episodes in the series about friendship and more audio courses from “Try This” here. Subscribe to The Washington Post here.