Podcasts about Adult development

McKay returns today for an extensive exploration into how our responses to life's setbacks shape our journey. Drawing insights from the Harvard Study of Adult Development, he challenges conventional wisdom, arguing that our perspective transforms challenges from daunting "mountains" into manageable "molehills."McKay reveals happiness isn't predicted by wealth or IQ, but by an "adaptive coping style" - learning from failures to create growth, akin to turning "lemons into lemonade." This is exemplified by Bill Graham, who overcame immense hardship through helping others and embracing a positive outlook. The episode utilizes a "halftime" metaphor for life, urging listeners to assess, learn from past "plays," and strategize for moving forward, rather than dwelling on what cannot be changed. As you will hear, avoiding overreaction to minor inconveniences and fostering a positive "frame of reference" with supportive networks enables us to "fail forward."Main Themes:Our response to failure drives happiness.Adaptive coping matters more than wealth or IQ.Learn from mistakes; turn setbacks into chances.Friends and inspiration help overcome challenges.The halftime metaphor: review, adjust, plan ahead.Overreacting to small issues reduces happiness.Positive thoughts anchor our brain's frame of reference.Faith empowers us to overcome obstacles.Release small worries; value missteps for a content life.Top 10 Quotes:"Almost all failures are not mountains but molehills in the valley of life, unless we make them mountains.""It isn't so much what they started with, what mistakes they made, or what happened to them that influenced their happiness in life, it's what they did with what happened to them that mattered.""Learn to live in thankfulness, looking back at what you have had, and what you didn't have, and most of all, what you do have now.""The difference between average people and achieving people is their perception of and their response to failure.""A single event doesn't have to define who we are. Instead, we can consider our life over time and look at who we've become as a result of our cumulative choices.""This positive adaptation to life played a significantly greater role than genetics, wealth, race or other factors in determining how happy people were later in life.""Researchers in the study call this an 'adaptive coping style' and describe it as the capacity to turn lemons into lemonade and not turn molehills into mountains.""When we're in the midst of failure, we need to give our brain a framework based on true principles.""Halftime is perhaps the most important part of the game.""Let go of the small things. Value your small missteps, they make us better. Don't sweat the small stuff."Show Links:Open Your Eyes with McKay Christensen

PURCHASE THIS PODCOURSE! If you are a therapist or counselor looking for continuing education, check out my NBCC Approved $5 Podcourses and other continuing education offerings.Plus, get your first Podcourse half off. In this Podcourse episode, I sit down with Dr. Timothy Davis, a psychologist who has spent his career working with what he calls “challenging boys.” He shares how his background, from academic research to volunteer firefighting, inspired a practical framework that helps parents manage meltdowns, build resilience, and strengthen their connection with their child. Together, we explore how therapists can support parents in creating effective Emergency Plans, identifying skill deficits in emotion regulation and executive functioning, and applying family systems principles to improve family dynamics. Our hope is that you'll walk away with fresh strategies you can integrate into your clinical work right away and you can also earn one NBCC continuing education contact hour by completing this Podcourse.

In this episode, Dr. Robert Waldinger explores why good relationships are the key to living a long and happy life. Drawing from more than 85 years of research, Robert shares why deep, supportive relationships are stronger predictors of health and happiness than wealth, success, or status. He also explains how relationships regulate stress, why loneliness can be as harmful as smoking, and how we can proactively cultivate social fitness. Listeners will walk away with practical ways to strengthen existing relationships, build new ones, and approach connection as an essential practice for well-being.We need your help! We all know ads are part of the podcast world, and we want to improve this experience for you. Please take 2 minutes and complete this survey, it's a quick and easy way to support this podcast. Thank You!Key Takeaways:The significance of relationships for health and happiness.Insights from the Harvard Study of Adult Development on what constitutes a good life.The complexities and challenges of living well despite societal pressures.The impact of loneliness and social isolation on physical and mental health.The critique of cultural messages equating happiness with material success.The importance of self-acceptance and acknowledging both positive and negative aspects of oneself.Strategies for nurturing and maintaining meaningful relationships.The role of curiosity in enhancing social connections and overcoming discomfort.The intersection of scientific research and Zen practice in understanding human well-being.The concept of “social fitness” and the ongoing effort required to cultivate relationships.If you enjoyed this conversation with Robert Waldinger, check out these other episodes:The Midlife Makeover: Redefining Success and Happiness After 40 with Chip ConleyThe Happiness Formula: Using Your Body to Transform Your Mind with Janice KaplanFor full show notes, click here!Connect with the show:Follow us on YouTube: @TheOneYouFeedPodSubscribe on Apple Podcasts or SpotifyFollow us on InstagramThis episode is sponsored by:NOCD If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: https://learn.nocd.com/FEEDGrow Therapy - Whatever challenges you're facing, Grow Therapy is here to help. Sessions average about $21 with insurance, and some pay as little as $0, depending on their plan. (Availability and coverage vary by state and insurance plans. Visit growtherapy.com/feed today!Persona Nutrition delivers science-backed, personalized vitamin packs that make daily wellness simple and convenient. In just minutes, you get a plan tailored to your health goals. No clutter, no guesswork. Just grab-and-go packs designed by experts. Go to PersonaNutrition.com/FEED today to take the free assessment and get your personalized daily vitamin packs for an exclusive offer — get 40% off your first order.BAU, Artist at War opens September 26. Visit BAUmovie.com to watch the trailer and learn more—or sign up your organization for a group screening.LinkedIn: Post your job for free at linkedin.com/1youfeed. Terms and conditions apply.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

My guest for this episode is Carolyn Swinton, who is an Executive Coach and consultant, and who also happens to be one of my former clients. We worked together years ago when she was the Chief Nursing Officer of a large hospital organization. We've stayed in touch over the years, and more than once, after we had a meaningful conversation, I hung up thinking “We should have recorded that for a podcast.” Well, we finally did it!  This conversation touched on a number of themes – everything from making the distinction between knowledge and wisdom to learning to take nothing personally to finding hope when everything seems out of kilter. Carolyn has a way of empowering people to live a purpose driven life, and that was one of the core themes of this conversation. She emphasizes the value of learning to be present, something that is much easier said than done, and yet it becomes very possible when talks about it. Here's more about Carolyn: Carolyn Swinton is an Executive Coach and consultant drawing on her 30+ years' experience as a C- suite executive. Guidance is often needed to unleash the power and potential that lies within us all. Carolyn's purpose is to guide and support individuals and organizations in their journeys to achieve their full potential and live their best lives. She utilizes the proven practices of traditional and directed coaching, powerful questions, reflective practices, and deep empathy to support a deepening self-awareness, effective communication, and the cultivation of meaningful relationships to help clients awaken to their truth.  Carolyn has coached middle and senior leaders in the healthcare and business sectors and is the right fit for clients ready to deepen their self-awareness and master the tools they need to effectively communicate, resolve conflict, and achieve operational and cultural transformation. Most recently, she served as a Chief Nurse Executive for the largest healthcare system in South Carolina. In addition to her executive coaching, she also serves as Affiliate Faculty at the University of South Carolina College of Nursing, and Affiliate Clinical Associate Professor at the Clemson University School of Nursing. Carolyn has coached leaders utilizing the Leadership Circle 360 and Leadership Maturity Assessment Profiles as guides to support leaders in developing an understanding of themselves and others. Coaching in alignment with the principles of vertical development, Carolyn supports leaders in transforming their way of thinking, speaking and being to achieve sustainable change.  Carolyn is a Fellow of the American College of Healthcare Executives, Fellow of the Riley Institute Diversity Leaders Fellowship Program, and an ANCC Board-Certified Nurse Executive. She is a certified Newfield Network Coach for Personal and Professional Mastery, International Coaching Federation Associate Certified Coach, Certified in Leadership Circle 360 and Manager Edition, My World View Practitioner for Adult Development, and is an Everything DiSC Certified Practitioner. Carolyn has a doctorate degree in Nurse Executive Leadership from the University of South Carolina College of Nursing.Carolyn serves on the boards of several state and local nonprofit organizations whose mission is to support the underserved and disadvantaged to gain social and financial stability. She is the author of “Chasing Hope- A Nurse's Reflections on Healing and Hope,” “Reflections of Nursing” and co-editor of “The Untold Stories of Nursing.” For fun Carolyn likes to read, play the guitar, and travel. I know you are going to love this episode with Carolyn Swinton.

Most people retire with a solid income plan but no plan for a life they actually want to live. In this episode, I discuss the five human pillars that make retirement feel meaningful, not just financially viable: Purpose, Identity, Relationships, Structure, and Well-being. Expect punchy stories, research-backed insights, and practical prompts to start building a life worth funding. What you'll learn Why money ≠ meaning in retirement, and how outcomes beat incomes. The Five Pillars framework (Purpose, Identity, Relationships, Structure, Well-being) and how each one stabilises your next chapter. The hidden risk of identity loss after the job title disappears, and two better questions to ask yourself now. Why too much unstructured time can feel like freedom that turns to fog, and simple ways to add rhythm without losing flexibility. The science bits (in plain English): Only 27% of retirees report feeling very fulfilled day-to-day (Stanford Center on Longevity). A strong sense of purpose links to a 15% lower risk of death (JAMA Psychiatry). The Harvard Adult Development Study shows close relationships are the biggest predictor of long-term happiness. 1 in 4 experience mild to moderate depression post-retirement—often due to lost meaning, routine, and social contact (NHS). Challenge of the Week Score yourself 1–10 on each pillar: Purpose, Identity, Relationships, Structure, Well-being. Pick the lowest score and do one tiny action this week to move it up by one point (e.g., book coffee with a friend, start a 15-minute morning walk, schedule a creative hour, message someone to mentor). Small moves → big momentum. Resources & links Mentioned research (as cited in the episode): Stanford Center on Longevity — fulfilment in retirement JAMA Psychiatry (2020) — purpose & mortality risk Harvard Study of Adult Development — relationships & happiness NHS guidance/statistics — mental health in later life Want more? Connect with me on LinkedIn and share your Challenge of the Week answers. Buy my book The Retirement You Didn't See Coming Book a time for us to chat about your retirement plans Next episode “The Skill No One Taught You: Spending Money.” We'll get into guilt, scarcity, freedom, joy, and why many retirees have more than enough yet still struggle to spend with confidence.

Excellence doesn't require obsession—it requires integration. We've all heard the advice: focus on one thing, say no to everything else, single-minded purpose is the path to success. Books like Gary Keller's The One Thing and Greg McKeown's Essentialism make a powerful case for focus. But what happens when that focus becomes obsession? In this episode of Tales from The Lane, Kate unpacks the dark side of a single-minded pursuit—burnout, isolation, and the crushing disappointment of reaching the “top” only to find it lonely. Drawing on insights from Benjamin Hardy, research from the Harvard Study of Adult Development, and real-world examples from Yo-Yo Ma to Venus Williams, Kate makes the case for a different kind of excellence. One rooted in balance, relationships, and impact. You'll learn: Why obsession is not the same as excellence. How even your biggest achievements can feel hollow without integration. The critical role relationships and contribution play in long-term fulfillment. Practical strategies for pursuing excellence without sacrificing everything else. If you've ever felt the pressure to “go all in” on one singular purpose—or if you've achieved success but still feel something's missing—this episode is for you. Tales from The Lane is the podcast for high achievers and successful creatives who want more than just accomplishments—they want a deeply fulfilling life. Links & Resources: Grab my free Quarterly Retreat Planning Guide Follow me on Instagram: @katekayaian My book: Beyond Potential: A Guide for Creatives Who Want to Re-Assess, Re-Define, and Re-Ignite Their Careers – Order here

What if aging wasn't just inevitable—but optional? And what if loneliness was literally shaving years off your life—like smoking 15 cigarettes a day? In this groundbreaking episode of the Uncover Your Eyes podcast, Dr. Meenal Agarwal sits down with aging expert Zora Benhamou—gerontologist and host of Hack My Age—to break down what really drives aging and how we can slow it down.

What if we're going about happiness and longevity all wrong? In our latest episode, Dr. Greg Kelly is joined by Dr. Robert J. Waldinger, a psychiatrist, psychoanalyst, Zen priest, and Director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development. Our conversation centers around one of the world's longest studies of adult life, spanning over 80 years. Over the years, researchers studied the participants' health trajectories and their broader lives, including their achievements and failures in careers and marriage, and the findings produced startling life lessons. Teaser: people's level of satisfaction with their relationships at age 50 was a better predictor of physical health than their cholesterol levels were. Sponsored by Qualia Senolytic: https://qualialife.com/podcastoffer. Use code podcast when you shop Qualia Senolytic for 15% off your order. Get in touch. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/qualialife. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/qualialife. Email: support@qualialife.com.

This message examines how American culture often undervalues family connections in pursuit of career advancement and personal achievement. Drawing from Harvard's Study of Adult Development and research on end-of-life regrets, we discover that deep family relationships—not professional success—lead to lasting happiness and fulfillment. Scripture provides clear guidance on this balance: 1 Timothy 5 shows that caring for family is essential to Christian practice, while Matthew 10 reminds us that our love for God must come first. The concept of 'addition by subtraction' offers practical wisdom for creating space for family by intentionally removing less important activities from our schedules. With powerful illustrations including a jar of marbles representing limited time with loved ones, this message challenges listeners to evaluate their priorities and make intentional choices about how they invest their time and energy. Whether you're struggling with work-life balance, navigating complex family dynamics, or seeking to honor God while maintaining healthy family relationships, this message provides biblical wisdom for establishing proper priorities: God first, family second. Perfect for Christians seeking practical guidance on family relationships, work-life balance, biblical priorities, Christian parenting, spiritual growth, and faith-based decision making.

If you're a high-achieving woman who has built an empire of accomplishments but still feels like an outsider looking in, this episode will revolutionize everything you thought you knew about your relationship with food and your body. Today we're exposing the truth behind the staggering statistic that 91% of women diet to belong, and why your weight obsession is actually a belonging crisis in disguise. You'll discover the research-backed connection between restriction and worthiness, learn why your "disciplined" identity is actually a prison, and walk away with 4 revolutionary strategies to reclaim your power this summer. This isn't just another episode about food freedom—this is your call to revolution. What You'll Discover ✨ Why 91% of women use dieting as a belonging strategy (and why it backfires) ✨ The Harvard research that proves relationships matter 10x more than weight for happiness ✨ How your "disciplined identity" around food is actually keeping you small ✨ Why validation addiction through restriction is sabotaging your authentic connections ✨ The revolutionary truth about weight, worth, and belonging that changes everything ✨ 3 power practices you can implement this week to break free from the cycle Shocking Statistics Revealed The Belonging Crisis Numbers 91% of women surveyed on college campuses had attempted to control their weight through dieting 22% of women diet "often" or "always" (National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders) 95% of people struggling with food restriction report feeling "different" or "misunderstood" (Center for Mindful Eating) The Research That Changes Everything Harvard's Study of Adult Development: Quality of relationships determines happiness and health more than any other factor—not dress size, not workout routine 95% of diets fail long-term, yet women continue the cycle of restriction 85% of eating disorders start as "normal" dieting behavior Key Revelations The Belonging Wound Your obsession with weight has nothing to do with your weight and everything to do with your wounded belief that you don't belong. You've convinced yourself that belonging is conditional—requiring the right size, perfect discipline, most controlled relationship with food. The Identity Prison You've made restriction your religion and your body your altar. The identity keeping you "safe" from rejection is the same identity keeping you small. When you define yourself as "the disciplined one," you're not building strength—you're building a prison with bars made of other people's opinions. The Validation Addiction Every compliment about your discipline gives you a temporary hit, but validation addiction works like any other addiction—the highs get shorter and the lows get deeper. You need more external approval to feel momentarily worthy. Powerful Quotes to Remember "True belonging only happens when we present our authentic, imperfect selves to the world." - Brené Brown "The belonging you're seeking through their approval will never be sustainable because it's not real. Real belonging comes from the inside out, not the outside in." Your Belonging Revolution Toolkit: 3 Power Practices Practice 1: The Belonging Mirror Method Every morning before checking your phone, stand in front of your mirror and say: "I belong here. In this body, in this life, in this world. Not because of what I weigh, but because of who I am." Then name three things you're grateful your body can do. This rewires your brain from criticism to celebration. Practice 2: The Summer Freedom Food Challenge This week, choose one food you've been restricting and eat it mindfully in a social setting. Maybe it's ice cream on a date, bread at dinner with friends. The goal isn't the food—it's practicing belonging while nourishing yourself. Notice how no one cares what you're eating as much as you think they do. Practice 3: The Energy Reclaim Ritual Instead of over-exercising to earn belonging, move your body in ways that make you feel powerful. Dance in your living room. Walk in nature. Stretch on your porch. Ask: "How does my body want to move today?" then honor that answer. Transform movement from obligation to celebration. Bonus Practice: The Validation Redirect When you catch yourself seeking approval about food choices, body, or discipline—pause and ask: "What validation do I need to give myself right now?" Then give it to yourself. Out loud. With conviction. The Summer Revolution Challenge This summer, stage a revolution for your body, not against it. For freedom, not restriction. For your soul, not your size. Ask Yourself: What would it look like to show up to summer gatherings as the woman who belongs because she's claimed it through courage? What would it feel like to order what you want because you want it, not because you've "earned" it? What would it mean to wear the swimsuit because you realize your body was always perfect for living your life? Research Sources Brené Brown's belonging and vulnerability research Harvard Study of Adult Development (relationships and happiness correlation) National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders (dieting statistics) Center for Mindful Eating (restriction and social connection studies) Ready for Your Revolution? If this episode lit a fire in your soul and you're ready to stop earning worth through restriction and start claiming power through presence, it's time to take action. The belonging you're seeking isn't hiding in a smaller dress size or waiting at your goal weight. It's available right now, in this body, in this moment, as you are. Take the Next Step: Fill out a client application at www.herbestself.co to learn about my Breakthrough Experience and Freedom Formula programs. We don't just heal your relationship with food—we revolutionize your relationship with your worth. Your revolution starts now. Let's break the chains together. Connect With Lindsey

**********Ihr hört: Autor und Host: Przemek Żuk Redaktion: Anne Bohlmann, Anne Göbel, Timur Gökce, Yevgeniya Shcherbakova, Christian Schmitt, Lara Lorenz Gesprächspartnerinnen: Schirin und Sahar, Schwestern mit 12 Jahren Altersunterschied, die als Erwachsene eine neue Geschwisterbeziehung entwickelt haben Gesprächspartnerin: Julia Rohrer, Persönlichkeitspsychologin an der Uni Leipzig, hat Daten von mehr als 20.000 Erwachsenen aus Deutschland, den USA und Großbritannien ausgewertet Gesprächspartnerin: Inés Brock-Harder, Psychotherapeutin, Supervisorin, Autorin von Fachbüchern und Artikeln und Hochschullehrerin mit Schwerpunkt Familien und Kinder**********Quellen:Buchanan, A. & Rotkirch, A. [Hrsg.] (2020). Brothers and Sisters. Sibling Relationships Across the Life Course. Palgrave Macmillan Cham.Shepherd, D., Goedeke, S., Landon, J. et al. (2021). The Impact of Sibling Relationships on Later-Life Psychological and Subjective Well-Being. Journal of Adult Development 28, S. 76–86.Gonzales, M. (2022). Sibling Relationships and EI. In: Emotional Intelligence for Students, Parents, Teachers and School Leaders. Springer.Her, Y.-C., Batur, Z.Z., Vergauwen, J. et al. (2021). Siblings' similarities and dissimilarities: A review of theoretical perspectives and empirical insights. Journal of Family Theory & Review 13(4).Rohrer, J.M., Egloff, B. & Schmukle, S.C. (2015). Examining the effects of birth order on personality, Proc. Natl. Acad. Sci. U.S.A. 112 (46) S.14224-14229**********Mehr zum Thema bei Deutschlandfunk Nova:Geschwister: Warum kann die Beziehung zu ihnen so wehtun?Geschwister: Was unsere Beziehung besonders machtBis aufs Blut: Wenn Geschwister konkurrieren**********Den Artikel zum Stück findet ihr hier.**********Ihr könnt uns auch auf diesen Kanälen folgen: TikTok und Instagram .**********Meldet euch!Ihr könnt das Team von Facts & Feelings über Whatsapp erreichen.Uns interessiert: Was beschäftigt euch? Habt ihr ein Thema, über das wir unbedingt in der Sendung und im Podcast sprechen sollen?Schickt uns eine Sprachnachricht oder schreibt uns per 0160-91360852 oder an factsundfeelings@deutschlandradio.de.Wichtig: Wenn ihr diese Nummer speichert und uns eine Nachricht schickt, akzeptiert ihr unsere Regeln zum Datenschutz und bei Whatsapp die Datenschutzrichtlinien von Whatsapp.

Tickets Puras Cosas Maravillosashttps://www.erikadelavega.com/purascosasmaravillosas Mi libro REINVENTADA ya disponible https://www.erikadelavega.com/libro-erikadelavega-reinventada Comienza tu camino de bienestar con Opción Yo https://opcionyo.trb.ai/wa/18zyZN2 De lo único que te vas a arrepentir es no de haber comenzado antes. El evento que estabas esperando!!! Si estás en Miami nos vemos este 28 de septiembre en el Mr.C Hotel junto a mis queridas Doctoras Ana Kausel y Rocío Salas-Whalen en este evento que llamamos: Reinvención Hormonal. Un día donde exploraremos juntas cómo funcionan nuestras hormonas, qué cambios experimenta nuestro cuerpo y cómo podemos tomar decisiones informadas para vivir esta etapa con plenitud. Son cupos limitados así que asegura el tuyo aquí https://tiranube.ticketspice.com/reinvencion-hormonal En este episodio de En Defensa Propia, tuve el honor de conversar con Margarita Tarragona, una experta en psicología positiva y terapia narrativa, para explorar el poder transformador de las relaciones humanas en nuestra felicidad y bienestar. A lo largo de nuestra charla, descubrí que, más allá del trabajo, el propósito o las rutinas de autocuidado, lo que más influye en nuestra felicidad son las relaciones interpersonales de calidad. Margarita me explicó que la psicología tradicional se ha enfocado en estudiar patologías y problemas, pero la psicología positiva viene a equilibrar esta mirada, investigando qué nos hace florecer como personas. Un concepto fundamental que abordamos es la agencia personal, esa sensación de poder influir en nuestra vida, que es antagónica a la desesperanza que se relaciona con la depresión. Entender que puedo actuar y generar cambios, aunque no todo dependa de mí, es un gran paso hacia una vida más plena. Otro punto clave fue la importancia de la narrativa personal, la historia que nos contamos a nosotros mismos sobre quiénes somos y cómo vemos el mundo. Margarita me contó cómo es posible transformar esas narrativas negativas que nos limitan, por medio de la aceptación y la búsqueda consciente de evidencias positivas en nuestra vida, un enfoque que me parece liberador y esperanzador. Uno de los hallazgos que más me impactó fue que, según estudios como el famoso Harvard Study of Adult Development, la calidad de nuestras relaciones es el principal predictor de nuestra felicidad y salud a largo plazo. Esto me hizo reflexionar sobre la importancia de construir relaciones saludables basadas en la risa, la diversión compartida, la amabilidad y la gratitud.También conversamos sobre la vulnerabilidad como un ingrediente esencial para conectar auténticamente, aunque sabemos que abrirse puede implicar riesgos emocionales. Margarita compartió que la terapia es una herramienta valiosa para superar miedos y heridas pasadas que dificultan relacionarnos. Para cerrar, Margarita me dejó tres consejos poderosos para mejorar nuestras relaciones: expresar gratitud, mantener una curiosidad genuina por los demás y compartir momentos que generen emociones positivas. Esta conversación me ha dejado claro que la felicidad no es un estado superficial ni un destino lejano, sino un proceso que se construye día a día, principalmente a través de la calidad de nuestras relaciones y la conexión auténtica con nosotros mismos y con los demás. En En Defensa Propia, seguiré explorando estos temas que nos ayudan a vivir una vida más plena y consciente.

Tickets Puras Cosas Maravillosashttps://www.erikadelavega.com/purascosasmaravillosas Mi libro REINVENTADA ya disponible https://www.erikadelavega.com/libro-erikadelavega-reinventada Comienza tu camino de bienestar con Opción Yo https://opcionyo.trb.ai/wa/18zyZN2 De lo único que te vas a arrepentir es no de haber comenzado antes. El evento que estabas esperando!!! Si estás en Miami nos vemos este 28 de septiembre en el Mr.C Hotel junto a mis queridas Doctoras Ana Kausel y Rocío Salas-Whalen en este evento que llamamos: Reinvención Hormonal. Un día donde exploraremos juntas cómo funcionan nuestras hormonas, qué cambios experimenta nuestro cuerpo y cómo podemos tomar decisiones informadas para vivir esta etapa con plenitud. Son cupos limitados así que asegura el tuyo aquí https://tiranube.ticketspice.com/reinvencion-hormonal En este episodio de En Defensa Propia, tuve el honor de conversar con Margarita Tarragona, una experta en psicología positiva y terapia narrativa, para explorar el poder transformador de las relaciones humanas en nuestra felicidad y bienestar. A lo largo de nuestra charla, descubrí que, más allá del trabajo, el propósito o las rutinas de autocuidado, lo que más influye en nuestra felicidad son las relaciones interpersonales de calidad. Margarita me explicó que la psicología tradicional se ha enfocado en estudiar patologías y problemas, pero la psicología positiva viene a equilibrar esta mirada, investigando qué nos hace florecer como personas. Un concepto fundamental que abordamos es la agencia personal, esa sensación de poder influir en nuestra vida, que es antagónica a la desesperanza que se relaciona con la depresión. Entender que puedo actuar y generar cambios, aunque no todo dependa de mí, es un gran paso hacia una vida más plena. Otro punto clave fue la importancia de la narrativa personal, la historia que nos contamos a nosotros mismos sobre quiénes somos y cómo vemos el mundo. Margarita me contó cómo es posible transformar esas narrativas negativas que nos limitan, por medio de la aceptación y la búsqueda consciente de evidencias positivas en nuestra vida, un enfoque que me parece liberador y esperanzador. Uno de los hallazgos que más me impactó fue que, según estudios como el famoso Harvard Study of Adult Development, la calidad de nuestras relaciones es el principal predictor de nuestra felicidad y salud a largo plazo. Esto me hizo reflexionar sobre la importancia de construir relaciones saludables basadas en la risa, la diversión compartida, la amabilidad y la gratitud.También conversamos sobre la vulnerabilidad como un ingrediente esencial para conectar auténticamente, aunque sabemos que abrirse puede implicar riesgos emocionales. Margarita compartió que la terapia es una herramienta valiosa para superar miedos y heridas pasadas que dificultan relacionarnos. Para cerrar, Margarita me dejó tres consejos poderosos para mejorar nuestras relaciones: expresar gratitud, mantener una curiosidad genuina por los demás y compartir momentos que generen emociones positivas. Esta conversación me ha dejado claro que la felicidad no es un estado superficial ni un destino lejano, sino un proceso que se construye día a día, principalmente a través de la calidad de nuestras relaciones y la conexión auténtica con nosotros mismos y con los demás. En En Defensa Propia, seguiré explorando estos temas que nos ayudan a vivir una vida más plena y consciente.

Chalene Johnson gets real about why female friendships feel harder in midlife—and why they're more important than ever for a woman's health and happiness. In this episode, she opens up about the science-backed benefits of meaningful connection, including lowered risk of depression, boosted mood, and even increased longevity. Chalene shares surprisingly simple strategies she recommends for finding your people even after moving to a new city - no matter your age or stage of life. Watch this Episode on YouTube this Sunday

Our workplaces are full of smart, capable people who are stuck in survival mode. They're overwhelmed, constantly busy, and unsure how to sustain high performance. Meanwhile, organizations continue to default to control-based leadership, even though it's no longer effective in a fast-changing, “loosely coupled” world.Does this mean consistently driving high performance while maintaining personal well-being is impossible today? Not when you have the right tools.In this Happiness Squad Podcast episode, Ashish Kothari sits down with Angus Ridgway, former McKinsey partner & co-founder of Potentialife, to unpack the SHARP framework: a research-backed system that helps leaders and teams flourish through Strengths, Health, Absorption, Relationships, and Purpose.Angus Ridgway is a seasoned leadership expert with a 20-year tenure at McKinsey & Company, where he held senior roles, including leading the Strategy Practice across Europe, the Middle East, and Africa. He co-founded Potentialife with Tal Ben-Shahar to democratize leadership development, making it accessible and impactful at all organizational levels.Things you will learn in this episode:• Strengths: Rediscovering What Makes You Shine• Health: Why The Real Problem Isn't Stress But Lack of Recovery• Absorption: Monotasking Is the New Superpower• Relationships: The Power of Being Positively Authentic• Purpose: The Final Lever for FlourishingIf you're ready to become an up to 10X more effective leader, don't miss this epic episode. Tune in now.Resources:✅• Potentialife: https://www.linkedin.com/company/potentialife/ • Kagan's Theory of Adult Development: https://medium.com/@NataliMorad/how-to-be-an-adult-kegans-theory-of-adult-development-d63f4311b553 • Owning the difference you make to the world | Angus Ridgway | TEDxIEMadrid: https://youtu.be/o-tdmbiQ-yE?si=x9owGL-5QQyNons9 Books:✅• The Joy of Leadership by Angus Ridgway & Tal Ben-Shahar: https://a.co/d/8BFQHGz • 4,000 Weeks by Oliver Burkeman: https://a.co/d/3sAJi0d • Tiny Habits by BJ Fogg: https://a.co/d/6A5Bzur • Hardwired for Happiness by Ashish Kothari: https://a.co/d/asM0o0c

Share your thoughts about our conversation!How do we host ourselves as facilitators – and how do we host others? How do we grow bigger minds to meet the complexity out there, and then rest in it without needing to know the answers?Marco Valente joins me for a big, juicy and mind-opening conversation as we navigate the inner workings of the growing self – and the leader – to better understand the messy, unpredictable complexities of our world. It's about walking up to our mind's balcony in search of self-awareness and inner presence, it's about getting vulnerable in our wrongness, and getting comfortable with the unknown.Marco shares his thoughts, leadership advice and hosting tips with beautiful eloquence and I invite every leader, facilitator and sense-maker to press play to this wonderful episode.Find out about:The mind trap of identity, ego and feedbackThe evolutionary pulls of fear - how much helps or hinders us?Why KPIs can harm the collective, rather than help with long-term growthThe paradox of learning more facilitation methods, in order to detach ourselves from them The balancing act of structure and emergence to accurately address group needsDon't miss the next episode: subscribe to the show with your favourite podcast player.Links:Watch the video recording of this episode on YouTube.Connect to Marco Valente:LinkedInWebsite Support the show✨✨✨Subscribe to our newsletter to receive a free 1-page summary of each upcoming episode directly to your inbox, or explore our eBooks featuring 50-episode compilations for even more facilitation insights. Find out more:https://workshops.work/podcast✨✨✨Did you know? You can search all episodes by keyword to find exactly what you need via our Buzzsprout page!

Dr. Robert Waldinger talks about his new book The Good Life: Lessons From the World's Longest Scientific Study of Happiness, which explores lessons from the longest scientific study of happiness. Dr. Robert Waldinger is a professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School, the director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development at Massachusetts General Hospital, and co-founder of the Lifespan Research Foundation. He is also a Zen master and teaches meditation in New England and around the world. His TED Talk is one of the most viewed of all time, with over 43 million views. He's the co-author, along with Dr. Marc Schulz, of The Good Life.   In this episode we talk about:  What the Harvard Study of Adult Development is and how it got started How much of our happiness is really under our control Why you can't you be happy all the time The concept of “social fitness”  Why you should “never worry alone”  How having best friends at work can make you more productive And why, in his words, it's never too late to be happy   Join Dan's online community here Follow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTok Subscribe to our YouTube Channel  

In this 12-minute episode, I dive into the power and importance of creating safe communities in today's world.We explore what the longest study on happiness (the Harvard Study of Adult Development) reveals about the connection between the quality of our relationships and the quality of our lives.I also share powerful research from Japan highlighting how loneliness isn't just emotional, it's physiological, and why having supportive, intentional relationships is essential for our mental and emotional health.You'll hear reflections on my time in, conversations with new parents, and how modern life has shifted us away from the "village" we all need, and how we can start intentionally rebuilding it.Plus, I share practical ways to be a better friend in adulthood and why surrounding yourself with supportive people is a key part of nervous system regulation, healing, and growth.If you're craving deeper, more meaningful connections, this episode is for you.And if you're interested in joining a safe, nurturing space for sisterhood and self-growth, click here to check out the Tuscany Retreat details.♾ In a fast-paced world like the one we live in, time is one of our most important assets. For a few minutes every episode, I, Tannaz Hosseinpour, will be discussing topics that aim to enhance the quality of your life, by helping you feel empowered to take inspired action on your personal growth journey.Connect with me for daily insights on:FacebookInstagramTikTokMore resources available on : www.minutesongrowth.comThis podcast is for educational purposes only. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein.

Send us your desired health topic or guest suggestionsThis transformative conversation with Tannaz Hosseinpour reveals how our nervous system fundamentally shapes our ability to communicate and connect with others. When we're triggered or stressed, our brain literally goes offline. The prefrontal cortex (responsible for rational thinking and emotional regulation) shuts down while our amygdala (fear center) takes over. Suddenly, we can't find the right words, we lose empathy, and we react from past wounds rather than present reality. This biological reality explains why so many arguments spiral out of control despite our best intentions.Tannaz shares a fascinating insight about relationship patterns: "We end up choosing familiar chaos over unfamiliar peace." If you've ever found yourself attracted to dramatic, unstable relationships while dismissing stable, secure connections as "boring," your nervous system might be the culprit. The good news? These patterns can be rewired through simple, practical tools that anyone can implement.From deep breathing techniques and cold exposure to humming and nature connection, Tannaz offers accessible practices that regulate your nervous system and create the internal safety necessary for authentic connection. These aren't just theoretical concepts—she shares powerful examples of couples who transformed their communication patterns and individuals who released limiting beliefs about their worthiness to find fulfilling relationships.The Harvard Study of Adult Development confirms that the quality of our relationships is the number one predictor of health and happiness. By understanding how to regulate our nervous systems, we create the foundation for the deep, meaningful connections we all crave. Download Tannaz's free resource, "11 Tools for Nervous System Regulation," and start building your personal toolbox for relational wellbeing today.You can find Tannaz Hosseinpour at:Website - https://minutesongrowth.com/ Please Follow and Review this podcast if you would like to support the growth of this show. Thank You! :)If you enjoyed this episode, please consider sharing it with two people you know that might benefit from the information. The more knowledge that people have in their hands, the healthier we can all become. If you would like to see a particular health issue discussed, or know someone who would be a great guest, contact the Open-Minded Healing podcast at openmindedhealing365@gmail.com. Note: By listening to this podcast, you agree not to use this podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition in either yourself or others, including but not limited to patients that you are treating. Consult your own physician for any medical issues that you may be having. This entire disclaimer also applies to any guests or contributors to the podcast. Under no circumstances shall Marla Miller, Open-Minded Healing Podcast, any guests or contributors to the podcast, be responsible for damages arising from use of the podcast.

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2544: Lisa Harrison reflects on the deep emotional value of human connection during a solo road trip, revealing how our relationships, not our bank balances, define a meaningful life. She explores how friendships provide comfort in crisis, how memories outlast material things, and why time spent with loved ones is the most rewarding investment we can make. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://madmoneymonster.com/2018/05/29/why-your-relationships-are-way-more-important-than-money/ Quotes to ponder: "My thoughts automatically drifted to my relationships when given free reign. And it was wonderful." "What matters is that we have enough money to live comfortably and to enjoy each other and everyone else we choose to accept into our lives." "A wad of cash will never comfort you when you have a bad day or experience." Episode references: Harvard Study of Adult Development: https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2017/04/over-nearly-80-years-harvard-study-has-been-showing-how-to-live-a-healthy-and-happy-life/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever had a conversation that made you feel truly seen, understood, and connected?  This week, we're unpacking the art of connection, exploring Arthur Aron's 36 Questions.  References:Harvard Study of Adult Development, 2017Holt-Lunstad, Smith, & Layton, Perspectives on Psychological Science, 2010Mehl et al., Eavesdropping on Happiness, Psychological Science, 2010Aron et al., The Experimental Generation of Interpersonal Closeness, Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 1997)Arthur Aron 36 Questions:1.    Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest? 2.    Would you like to be famous? In what way? 3.    Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why? 4.    What would constitute a "perfect" day for you? 5.    When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else? 6.    If you were able to live to the age of 90 & retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want? 7.    Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die? 8.    Name 3 things you and your partner appear to have in common. 9.    For what in your life do you feel most grateful? 10.If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be? 11.Take four minutes & tell your life story. 12.If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any 1 quality or ability, what would it be?13.If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about your life, the future, or anything else, what would you want to know? 14.Is there something that you've dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven't you done it? 15.What is the greatest accomplishment of your life? 16.What do you value most in a friendship? 17.What is your most treasured memory? 18.“ “ terrible memory?19.If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why? 20.What does friendship mean to you? 21.What roles do love & affection play in your life? 22.Share something you consider a + characteristic of your partner. Share a total of 5 items. 23.How close & warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most people's?24.How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?25.Make 3 true "we" statements each. For instance, "We are both in this room feeling..." 26.Complete this sentence: "I wish I had someone with whom I could share..." 27.If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for them to know. 28.Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest, saying things that you might not say to someone you've just met. 29.Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life. 30.When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself? 31.Tell your partner something that you like about them already. 32.What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?33.If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to speak with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet? 34.Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones & pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any 1 item. What is it? Why? 35.Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why? 36.Share a personal problem & ask your partner's advice. Ask your partner to reflect how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.Let's go, let's get it done. Get more information at: http://projectweightloss.org

In today's Think Thursday episode, we're diving into one of the most powerful, yet often overlooked, tools for behavior change: human connection. We're not just talking about any connections, but deep, meaningful relationships—the kind that profoundly shape our brain, our well-being, and even our relationship with alcohol.We'll explore what I call the “Connection Economy”, where investing in quality relationships provides neurological, emotional, and physical benefits. Unlike the Attention Economy, which constantly pulls us into distraction and stress, the Connection Economy is where we all profit—gaining better mental health, stronger habits, and a more fulfilling life.What You'll Learn in This Episode:✔️ How deep relationships reshape the brain and impact behavior change✔️ Why the Harvard Study of Adult Development proves that quality relationships are the key to long-term health and happiness✔️ The brain chemistry of connection—how oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin create lasting well-being✔️ The dangers of our current connection crisis and why loneliness increases our reliance on alcohol✔️ 5 science-backed strategies to strengthen connections and support lasting behavior changeKey Takeaways:

Cheryl Armon joins me to talk about her work in the field of developmental psychology. After discussing how she developed a passion for moral philosophy, entered the field, and met Lawrence Kohlberg, as well as the important theoretical distinctions between "hard" stages and "soft" stage models which they published about, we dive into the data Armon has amassed over her career on how people's conceptions of "The Good" complexify across the lifespan. 0:00 Introduction3:07 Cheryl's Path to Developmental Studies11:30 Studying Complexification of the True, the Good, and the Beautiful17:15 Meeting Kohlberg22:16 The "Right" vs. the "Good"28:07 Asking People about the Good30:57 Hard Stage Models vs. Other Kinds38:24 Are There Domain-General Stages?Stages of the Good43:16 Stage 1. Egoistic Hedonism47:36 Stage 2. Instrumental Hedonism50:11 Stage 3. Altruistic Mutuality59:17 Stage 4. Individuality 1:10:07 Stage 5. Autonomy/Interdependence1:17:42 The Complexification of Value1:19:47 Doing the Work Right1:23:50 Taking Adult Developmental Reasoning Seriously1:30:37 ConclusionSOURCESCheryl Armon, "Ideals of the Good Life: A Longitudinal/Cross-Sectional Study of Evaluative Reasoning in Children and Adults." PhD Dissertation, Harvard University, 1984.Cheryl Armon, "Ideals of the Good Life and Moral Judgment: Ethical Reasoning across the Lifespan," in Beyond Formal Operations, ed. Michael L. Commons, Francis A. Richards, and Cheryl Armon (New York: Praeger, 1984), 357–380.Cheryl Armon and Theo Linda Dawson, "The Good Life: A Longitudinal Study of Adult Reasoning," in Handbook of Adult Development, ed. Jack Demick and Carrie Andreoletti (New York: Kluwer Academic, 2003), 271–300. To hear more, visit brendangrahamdempsey.substack.com

Send us a textIn this episode of the Psychedelic Therapy Frontiers podcast, Dr. Steve Thayer and Dr. Reid Robison discuss adult development. That's right, folks. Developmental stages aren't just for the kids. Reid and Steve explore different theories on adult development, particularly Ken Wilber's integral theory and Maslow's hierarchy of needs. They talk a bit about their own approaches to personal development and how they help clients on this journey. They also discuss the phenomenon of the so-called midlife crisis, waking up vs growing up, how to zero in on your values and live life accordingly, and much more. *This episode originally aired 11/28/23Learn more about our podcast at https://numinus.com/podcast/Learn more about psychedelic therapy training opportunities at https://numinus.com/training/Learn more about our clinical trials at https://www.numinus.com/clinical-trials Learn more about Numinus at https://numinus.com/Email us at ptfpodcast@numinus.com Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drstevethayer/https://www.instagram.com/innerspacedoctor/https://www.instagram.com/numinushealth/

What's the secret to living a long, happy life? How do relationships influence happiness and longevity? How does social connection impact stress and well-being? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Robert Waldinger, director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development and author of The Good Life, to explore the powerful role of relationships in health and happiness. Dr. Waldinger leads the world's longest-running study on happiness, a ground-breaking project that began in 1938. Drawing from over eight decades of research, Dr. Waldinger offers actionable insights into why relationships are vital and how we can nurture them for a healthier, more fulfilling life. In this interview, you'll learn . . . - Why relationships are the most important predictor of happiness and longevity - The role of “social fitness” in managing stress and improving well-being - How to identify and address signs of loneliness in your life - The secrets to making new friends and deepening existing connections - How family dynamics shape your ability to build relationships And more… So, if you want to understand how relationships can transform your health and happiness, click play and join the conversation. --- Timestamps: (00:00) Intro (05:46) Harvard study overview (08:53) Cultural differences (10:33) Social fitness (13:29) Relationships and longevity (15:24) Signs of poor socializing (21:54) Quality vs. quantity (26:44) Deepening connections (32:57) Childhood's role (35:19) Parenting mistakes (38:42) Attention as love (39:51) Defining high-quality relationships (44:46) Romantic vs. friendships (50:41) Signs of successful couples --- Mentioned on the Show: Triumph The Little Black Book of Workout Motivation Pulse The Good Life: Lessons from the World's Longest Study on Happiness Robert Waldinger

Sahil Bloom is an entrepreneur, investor, and writer known for his insightful takes on personal growth, business, and life. He gained significant attention through his thought-provoking threads on X (formerly Twitter), where he shares wisdom on topics like mental models, productivity, and navigating the challenges of building a successful life and career. With a background in finance and entrepreneurship, Sahil has worked with top-tier companies and has been an advocate for creating meaningful and intentional success. Through his content, he aims to inspire others to think critically, take action, and design a life that aligns with their values. In our conversation, we discuss: (0:56) - Small things become big things(4:02) - Consistency(7:49) - The real race(9:40) - Validation from others(17:11) - The harder path(21:10) - Time billionaire(27:26) - What is enough money(29:31) - Assessing opportunities(32:09) - Tim Cook as Sahil's mentor(36:28) - Permission(38:03) - Reframing Impostor Syndrome(40:46) - Confronting true failure(44:52) - Goal inversion(50:36) - Importance of space(52:11) - Harvard Study of Adult Development(55:50) - Walking the walk(58:20) - View on therapy(1:00:00) - What's a question you ask yourself regularly?(1:04:04) - Your own path Learn more about Sahil:Sahil Bloom's X (formerly Twitter): @Sahil_BloomSahil Bloom's Instagram: @Sahil_BloomBook: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/059372318X?tag=randohouseinc7986-20 Watch full episodes on: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@seankim⁠⁠⁠ Connect on IG: ⁠⁠https://instagram.com/heyseankim

I am an Associate Professor in the Psychology Department of Arizona State University where I teach graduate and undergraduate courses in child development, and conduct original research. I received a Ph.D. from University of Michigan, in Developmental Psychology. I have published approximately 75 articles in peer reviewed scientific psychology journals and books, including research on the effects of divorce on children's health. I have received research grants from the National Institutes of Health, including a 10-year longitudinal study of the role of fathers in adolescent and young adult development. I have testified as an expert witness in approximately two dozen child custody and relocation cases in approximately 15 states. I have been invited to present research findings on parenting time and parent conflict to policy-makers in Japan, Canada, Great Britain, Denmark, Sweden, and Norway. I chaired the committee at the Arizona Legislature that produced a comprehensive reform of the state's child custody statutes to “maximize the child's time with both parents,” which became law in 2013.Support the show

We humans love novelty. We seek it out. While that can be good, it can also get us in trouble. This episode begins by exploring why we seek out new things, places and experiences and what happens after we do. Source: Winifred Gallagher author of the book New (https://amzn.to/3XsAxRb) Did you know that one of the reasons we gesture with our hands when we talk is to help us figure out what to say next? That is just one example of how thinking isn't all about what goes on in the brain, according to my guest Annie Murphy Paul. She is science writer whose work has appeared in the Boston Globe, Scientific American, Slate, Time magazine and she is author of the bestselling book The Extended Mind: The Power of Thinking Outside the Brain (https://amzn.to/3Hp3k3R) Imagine if you followed and studied a group of people for decades and watched how they lived? You would discover a lot about what makes people healthy and happy over time. That's what The Harvard Study of Adult Development is all about. Researchers have followed the lives of two generations of individuals from the same families for more than 80 years. Listen and you will be amazed by what they found. My guest is Robert J. Waldinger, who directs the study and is author of the book, The Good Life: Lessons from the World's Longest Scientific Study of Happiness (https://amzn.to/3HpbFVc) Where are you on the introvert/extrovert scale? Listen as I explain the difference between extroversion and introversion and how to tell which one you are. You will also discover the difference between being shy and being introverted. And it's a big difference. Source: Susan Cain author Quiet (https://amzn.to/3XQUH7d) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

For over eight decades, Robert Waldinger, MD, directed the Harvard Study of Adult Development, taking hundreds of measurements—from brain scans to blood work—with the goal of discovering the secrets to a good life. In this episode, we explore common myths, including the age-old adage “money can't buy happiness.” Learn what the three main categories of happiness are, the importance of good health and relationships, and practical ways to lead a happier and more fulfilling life.This episode originally aired on June 22, 2023.This podcast is supported by: PouriGo to Puori.com/COMMUNE use promo code COMMUNE to save 20% on a one-time purchaseTiaJoin Tia today at AskTia.com and enter promo code COMMUNE25 and get the first 3  months of your annual membership FREE.VivobarefootGo to Vivobarefoot.com/commune where you'll receive  25% offApollo Neuro:Get 20% off your purchase of the Apollo wearable at ApolloNeuro.com/communeLMNTGet a free sample pack with any purchase at DrinkLMNT.com/COMMUNE

Welcome back to another episode of Gratitude Through Hard Times! Today, your host Chris Schembra is joined by the insightful and inspiring Dr. Steve Elias, Dean of the Katz School of Business at Fort Lewis College in Durango, Colorado. Amidst the polar vortex sweeping through New York City, we dive into a heartwarming discussion about mentorship, leadership, and the power of gratitude in shaping our personal and professional journeys. Tune in as we explore how small acts of kindness, mutual respect, and a commitment to connection can create a lasting impact in our lives and communities.In This Episode, You'll Learn:How a simple shoulder tap can change the course of a careerThe importance of mentorship and building reciprocal relationshipsLessons from Governor Gary Carruthers on leadership and respect across differencesWhy celebrating the success of others (Mudita) is key to fulfillmentThe Platinum Rule: Treating others the way they want to be treatedHow small, cumulative actions can create meaningful changePractical ways to express gratitude, even to those who are no longer with usGuest Bio: Dr. Steve Elias is an experienced and approachable leader who knows how to bring people together and create positive change. As the Dean of the Katz School of Business at Fort Lewis College, he has worked hard to improve teamwork, build partnerships, and develop strategies that make a real difference for students, staff, faculty members, and the community. Steve is known for being down-to-earth and easy to talk to, with a leadership style based on open communication, fairness, and collaboration. With a background in applied social psychology and years of experience at Minority Serving Institutions, he understands people's needs and makes them feel included and supported. Steve has a gift for inspiring others, building strong relationships, and finding creative ways to help organizations grow and succeed.Episode Highlights:[00:03:15] Chris introduces Dr. Steve Elias and the story of how they met in Durango, Colorado.[00:07:45] Steve shares his gratitude for Governor Gary Carruthers and the pivotal moment he was "tapped on the shoulder."[00:14:30] The Platinum Rule in leadership: why treating people how they want to be treated matters.[00:21:10] Finding joy in the success of others - the power of Mudita.[00:28:50] Overcoming the challenge of appreciating personal accomplishments without feeling egotistical.[00:35:20] Chris and Steve reflect on the impact of small, everyday acts of gratitude.[00:42:10] Exploring the legacy of Bob Graetz and his contributions to the civil rights movement.[00:49:00] Practical advice for leaders on building a culture of recognition and gratitude in the workplace.Resources Mentioned:ResearchGate profile of Dr. Steve EliasDeviant and Criminal Behavior in the Workplace by Dr. Steve EliasMaria's Bookshop in Durango, ColoradoThe Platinum Rule conceptHarvard Study on Adult Development by Dr. Robert WaldingerA&E Biography of Bob GraetzKey Takeaways:Celebrate the success of others and recognize the role you've played in their journey.Small gestures, like lighting a candle or sending a kind message, have a profound impact.Gratitude should be practiced daily and can help overcome regret and guilt.Leaders should focus on relationship-building and understanding their team's unique needs.Call to Action: If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to subscribe to Gratitude Through Hard Times and share it with someone who could use a little inspiration today. Have thoughts or questions about this episode? We'd love to hear from you! 

Comparing yourself all the time? Tired of feeling like you never quite measure up...no matter how much you accomplish? It's not just YOU! Discover the sneaky specific ways self-comparison shows up for perfectionists, the difference between self-awareness + self-coaching, why self-comparison is not your fault but is your responsibility to change.  On paper, you've got it together— isn't it time you felt like it? Whether it's becoming much more DECISIVE in everything you do, stop playing out worst case scenarios in your head or becoming JOYFULLY PRESENT AMBITIOUS again, Perfectionism Optimized, private 1-1 coaching gives you the life-long skills to *finally feel* as amazing on the inside as your life looks on the outside. Get your stress-free start today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/rewireTIMESTAMPS:00:00-How you can stop comparing yourself to others02:32-The Annoying Problem with Surface-Level Self Comparison Tips03:46-Self Awareness vs. Self Coaching: What's the Difference?05:34-Dangers of DIY Approaches to Rewiring Perfectionism07:25-Why “How To Stop COmparing Yourself To Others” tips backfire for perfectionists12:10-Comparing Insides to Outsides Never Adds Up14:13-Moving the goalposts17:49-Punishment vs. Discipline: Changing Behaviors without Pain19:31-Understanding the Why Behind Your Perfectionistic TendenciesResources Mentioned In Episode 245:Perfect Start Introductory Session Single Coaching SessionBe Proud of Yourself Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 237Chasing Validation Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 236Proving Yourself At Work Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 232Citations/Sources:McCarthy, P. A., Meyer, T., Back, M. D., & Morina, N. (2023). How we compare: A new approach to assess aspects of the comparison process for appearance-based standards and their associations with individual differences in wellbeing and personality measures. PLOS ONE, 18(1), e0280072–e0280072. https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0280072White, J. B., Langer, E. J., Yariv, L., & Welch, J. C. (2006). Frequent Social Comparisons and Destructive Emotions and Behaviors: The Dark Side of Social Comparisons. Journal of Adult Development, 13(1), 36–44. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10804-006-9005-0Zhou, Y., Yang, Y., Jiang, H., & Guo, C. (2025). Self-comparison versus social-comparison: The impact of imperfection on executive function in perfectionists. Personality and Individual Differences, 234, 112965. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.paid.2024.112965‌‌

Send us a textIn this episode of the Resilient by Design series, we dive into practical, research-backed strategies to help you proactively build resilience. Learn how to create a toolkit that strengthens your ability to bounce back from life's challenges and thrive in the face of adversity. We explore the importance of social support, emotional regulation, cognitive tools, problem-solving, spirituality, and self-care. Packed with actionable steps and transformative insights, this episode is your guide to a stronger, more resilient you.Key Takeaways:Social and Relational Support: The single most critical factor for long-term resilience and well-being, supported by research from the Harvard Study of Adult Development.Emotional Skills: Tools like mindfulness, gratitude, and savoring positive memories can help regulate emotions and access positive states.Cognitive Skills: Reframing stress, cultivating self-efficacy, and shifting to a growth mindset are essential for mental resilience.Problem-Solving: Developing small, actionable steps and embracing failure as a learning opportunity builds confidence and resilience.Spirituality: Connecting with something greater provides meaning, emotional comfort, and a sense of community.Self-Care: Practicing self-compassion, proper nutrition, exercise, and restorative sleep replenishes your energy and mental resources.Action Step:Pick one area of your resilience toolkit to start building this week. Take one small step today toward a more resilient you.Learn More:Visit jerryhenderson.org to learn more about Jerry's one-on-one coaching program and set up a free consultation.00:00 - Introduction01:54 - Series Recap and Today's Focus04:07 - What is Resilience06:10 - Overcoming a Deficit in Resilience09:23 - Introducing the Resilience Toolkit10:38 - Tool 1: Social and Relational Support13:19 - Tool 2: Emotional Skills14:20 - Tool 3: Cognitive Skills16:20 - Tool 4: Problem-Solving Skills20:36 - Tool 5: Spirituality and Connection21:54 - Tool 6: Self-CareI am grateful you are here,JerrySetup Your FREE Coaching Call:Schedule Call1:1 Transformational Coaching:Learn More Here!How is your relationship with yourself going?Get your free-self assessment guidePick up your copy of my book:Returning: Meditations and Reflections on Self-Love and HealingWatch On YoutubeWebsite:www.jerryhenderson.orgGet Your Free Weekly Healing Tips!Instagram: @jerryahendersonLinkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/jerryahenderson Disclaimer

Dr. Marc Schulz, the associate director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development, talks about his book, “The Good Life: Lessons from the World's Longest Scientific Study of Happiness.” Then, therapist Dr. Christy Kane discusses digital detox and how hormones like oxytocin, dopamine and serotonin interact with how we balance our use of electronics.

Dr. Robert Waldinger, director of the world's longest-running study on human happiness, joins us to reveal the key factors that lead to a fulfilling and meaningful life. In this episode, we explore the findings from his groundbreaking 85-year Harvard Study of Adult Development, including how relationships, purpose, and self-care play a vital role in well-being. Dr. Waldinger shares personal stories about his own journey, his fascination with psychiatry, and how he applies the study's principles in his life. We discuss surprising insights about what truly matters for happiness and why money and status might not be as important as we think. Join us for a thought-provoking conversation that could change the way you think about happiness, connection, and living a life of purpose. Each week, Tim and Troy will sit down with interesting people to have thoughtful conversations. The guests will range from celebrities, athletes, academics, doctors, authors, and more. As Tim battles his ALS diagnosis, nothing is out of bounds and there will be nothing left unsaid. SPONSORS: ElevenLabs: Thanks to ElevenLabs (https://elevenlabs.io) for supporting this episode and powering Tim's voice. SOCIAL: Website: https://tgnlu.com   Twitter: https://twitter.com/nlutimgreen   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NLUpod  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nlupod/  AUDIO ONLY: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5fhcANt7CSnYvgBlgxpVVa  Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/nothing-left-unsaid/id1734094890   PERSONAL:  Tackle ALS: https://www.tackleals.com   Tim Green Books: https://authortimgreen.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's a new year, and I wanted to focus on something that I believe most people want: to be happier in 2025. Not just short-term happiness or brief moments of joy but a sustained sense of peace and fulfillment.  According to the Harvard Study of Adult Development, the biggest predictor of happiness is the quality of our relationships. So, I'll explore the science of happiness and practice daily gratitude, specifically gratitude journaling.  I'll also introduce you to a concept I call "consciousness conditioning," which is the practice of training your mind and nurturing your emotional well-being to elevate your experience of life. Ultimately, happiness isn't something that happens to us—it's something you create. By focusing on relationships, gratitude, and purpose-driven living, you can make 2025 your happiest year yet. KEY TAKEAWAYS Sustained happiness comes from contentment and nurturing meaningful relationships The quality of your relationships is the single biggest factor in long-term happiness How a daily gratitude practice can significantly improve your well-being by focusing on what's good in life. Living with a clear purpose gives meaning to your life and enhances happiness. How consciousness conditioning, like daily meditation and journaling, helps to maintain a positive mindset. How the S.A.V.E.R.S. helps to condition your consciousness, just like building a muscle Get The Full Show Notes To get full access to today's show notes, including audio, transcript, and links to all the resources mentioned, visit MiracleMorning.com/569 Subscribe, Rate & Review I would love if you could subscribe to the podcast and leave an honest rating & review. This will encourage other people to listen and allow us to grow as a community. The bigger we get as a community, the bigger the impact we can have on the world. To subscribe, rate, and review the podcast on iTunes, visit HalElrod.com/iTunes. Connect with Hal Elrod Facebook Twitter Instagram YouTube   Copyright © 2025 Miracle Morning, LP and International Literary Properties LLC

Super Communicators - how to unlock the secret language of connection with journalist and the author Charles Duhigg. Show Notes Page: https://www.thehowofbusiness.com/550-charles-duhigg-super-communicators/ In this episode, Henry Lopez interviews Charles Duhigg, Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist and bestselling author of The Power of Habit and Super Communicators: How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection. Their conversation explores the science of communication and its transformative impact on relationships and leadership. The Three Types of Conversations Duhigg introduces the three core types of conversations: practical (focused on problem-solving) emotional (centered on empathy social (addressing identity and relationships). He emphasizes the importance of aligning conversational styles to foster meaningful connections, avoid miscommunication, and build trust. These strategies are particularly valuable for leaders and business owners aiming to improve team dynamics and strengthen workplace culture. Actionable Techniques for Better Communication Several actionable techniques are shared, including asking deep, meaningful questions to uncover values and emotions, matching conversational styles for better connection, and using “looping for understanding” to ensure clarity and alignment. Duhigg also discusses how to adapt communication for remote and digital interactions, offering tips to maintain strong connections in these contexts. The Key to Leadership Success A key takeaway from the episode is that effective communication is a skill that can be developed through intentional practice. Duhigg encourages leaders to prioritize listening, empathy, and clarity in conversations, especially when managing difficult situations or delivering constructive feedback. By doing so, they can foster trust, resolve conflicts, and inspire their teams. The Broader Impact of Meaningful Communication The discussion also highlights the broader benefits of communication, including its role in personal happiness and fulfillment. Drawing on insights from the Harvard Study of Adult Development, Duhigg explains that building meaningful relationships through regular, intentional conversations significantly contributes to long-term well-being and success. This episode of The How of Business, the top-rated podcast show for small business owners, provides invaluable insights and practical advice for anyone seeking to enhance their communication skills, build stronger relationships, and lead more effectively. This episode is hosted by Henry Lopez. The How of Business podcast focuses on helping you start, run and grow your small business. The How of Business is a top-rated podcast for small business owners and entrepreneurs. Find the best podcast, small business coaching, resources and trusted service partners for small business owners and entrepreneurs at our website https://TheHowOfBusiness.com

In this episode of the Doctors Building Wealth podcast, Leti and Kenji tackle a topic that resonates with so many of us—how to expand and deepen relationships, even as life becomes busier and more demanding. Drawing from personal experiences and lessons from their community, they share actionable strategies for building meaningful connections that enrich your personal and professional life. Whether it's hosting intentional dinner parties, fostering deeper conversations, or dedicating time to transformational experiences like conferences, Leti and Kenji highlight why nurturing relationships is one of the best investments you can make for your happiness and longevity. They also explore the research-backed connection between strong relationships and health, referencing the Harvard Study of Adult Development, which underscores that quality relationships are a key factor in living a longer, happier life. If you've ever felt your social circle shrinking or found it hard to make new connections, this episode is packed with tips to help you expand your network and strengthen your existing bonds. Excited about building relationships that support your journey to financial and personal freedom? Don't miss the 2025 Fast FIRE to Freedom Virtual Summit! Reserve your spot here to connect with like-minded professionals and learn from industry-leading experts. If you're looking for even more inspiration, you can explore last year's recorded Summit interviews here!   __________________________________________________________ Looking to learn more? Check out some of our most popular content: Join the waitlist for our flagship course, Zero to Freedom Take our quiz and see if real estate is right for you Learn from more great content on our blog Be part of the conversation - follow our general Semi-Retired MD Facebook page and then join our doctors or professionals group!   Semi-Retired M.D. and its owners', presenters', and employees are not in the business of providing personal, financial, tax, legal or investment advice and specifically disclaims any liability, loss or risk, which is incurred as a consequence, either directly or indirectly, by the use of any of the information contained in this podcast. Semi-Retired M.D., this podcast, and any online tools, if any, do NOT provide ANY legal, accounting, securities, investment, tax or other professional services advice and are not intended to be a substitute for meeting with professional advisors. If legal advice or other expert assistance is required, the services of competent, licensed, and certified professionals should be sought. In addition, Semi-Retired M.D. does not endorse ANY specific investments, investment strategies, advisors, or financial service firms.

Welcome! Church Online is a community of people all over the experiencing God and connecting with one another like never before in history. Introduce yourself in the chat and let us know where you're from! Get Connected Check us out on Facebook, YouTube and Instagram Find a Small Group www.southpoint4u.com/groups Find out more at www.southpoint4u.com Notes: What refuels your soul? Refuel – Family/Work/Chores – LIFE Living exhausted and on empty never leads to the life we want INTERNAL FUEL (emotionally) Relaxation Enjoyment Friendship Without the fuel of friendship our souls will stay exhausted HARVARD UNIVERSITY: The Harvard Study of Adult Development found that close friendships, more than money, fame, or even your cholesterol level are connected to keeping people happy and healthy in the long term. Likewise, behavioral economist Arthur Brooks has studied the intersection of happiness, relationships, and purpose. He validates the Harvard study's finding that "taking care of our relationships" is critical, and that "our connections with others are nourishment for body, mind and soul." In May 2023, the U.S. Surgeon General—Dr. Vivek Murthy—issued a report that drew attention to an epidemic that affects 1 out of 2 American adults. Half of us are lonely. - Weill Cornell Medicine Do DIFFERENT not Do More “Come to me, ALL you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and LEARN from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” - Jesus of Nazareth PARADISE AND PERFECTION Then the Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to live alone...” - Genesis 2:18 - SEEN - Authentically known - SUPPORTED - Genuinely cared for - SHARPENED - Truthfully loved He appointed twelve that they might be with him… - Mark 3:14 Jesus took Peter and the two brothers, James and John, and led them up a high mountain to be alone. As the men watched, Jesus' appearance was transformed… - Matthew 17:1-3 …so that his face shone like the sun, and his clothes became as white as light. Suddenly, Moses and Elijah appeared and began talking with Jesus. - Matthew 17:2-3 He took Peter and the two sons of Zebedee along with him, and he began to be sorrowful and troubled. Then he said to them, “My soul is overwhelmed with sorrow to the point of death. Stay here and keep watch with me.” - Matthew 26:37-38 Because of what Jesus said, many of his disciples turned their backs on him and stopped following him. Jesus then asked his twelve disciples if they also were going to leave him. - John 6:66-68 Simon Peter answered, “Lord, there is no one else that we can go to! Your words give eternal life.” - John 6:66-68 Jesus modeled that relational connection is an essential part of being human Friendship refuels our souls and it's not a luxury but a necessity - However, relationships require intentionality and courage

Let's talk about something big today. What does it mean to live a good life? Is it about success, wealth, and finally figuring out how to fold a fitted sheet without losing your sanity?    Today, we're diving into lessons from the longest-running scientific study on happiness ever conducted—the Harvard Study of Adult Development. This study has been running for a whopping 86 years, tracking people's lives in incredible detail.   Timestamps: (01:50) - What Does Living a Good Life Really Look Like? (03:49) - Building the Foundation for a Good Life (05:54) - Practical Steps to Start Living Your Best Life  (12:07) - Alli's Must-Try Recommendations   Recommendations: I'll share what I just learned after 15 years - Voice dictation on a Mac Book = double click the function (FN) key in the bottom left corner. I may be the last one to learn this!   Let's talk about how to get hormone replacement therapy. I used online MidiHealth until I discussed it with my gynecologist, who agreed to write the script. Not all insurance companies will cover MidiHealth. The book Estrogen Matters is a great resource for HRT information. Watch NOW on YouTube Links to great things we discussed:  Estrogen Matters Midi Health Remaining You While Raising Them Little Things Studio   I hope you enjoyed this episode as much as I did!

In this insightful episode of the Positive Leadership Podcast, I am delighted to welcome Marc Schulz, co-author of The Good Life and Associate Director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development—the world's longest scientific study on happiness. Together, we explore the profound impact of relationships on happiness, health, and leadership. Marc shares key findings from the Harvard Study, shedding light on why meaningful connections are the cornerstone of well-being and how leaders can foster stronger relationships in increasingly hybrid and digital workplaces. We also discuss the collaborative journey behind The Good Life, written with Robert Waldinger, and dive into actionable strategies for cultivating positive leadership. Marc's insights will inspire you to rethink how you lead, live, and connect with others. Looking for more inspiration? Check out my conversation with Hannah Ritchie on Data-Driven Optimism for Our Future: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1798971/episodes/15848278-not-the-end-of-the-world-with-hannah-ritchie  Or my episode with Albert Moukheiber on The Neuroscience of Positive Leadership: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1798971/episodes/15768633-fr-savoir-dejouer-les-pieges-de-son-cerveau-avec-albert-moukheiber  Subscribe now to JP's free monthly newsletter "Positive Leadership and You" on LinkedIn to transform your positive impact today: https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/positive-leadership-you-6970390170017669121/

In this exciting episode of the Mob Mentality Show, we sit down with Martin Christensen, a product transformation coach, to explore the pivotal power of mobbing in product discovery. What You'll Learn in This Episode: Mobbing Product Discovery What is Product Discovery? Understand the fundamentals user value, business value, and technical feasibility. Mob Style vs. Solo User Interviews: Learn how mobbing on user interviews enhances insights through diverse perspectives and how it contrasts with traditional solo interviews. The Benefits of Diversity: Discover why the mantra “Mob Anything” unlocks innovation, faster UI/UX iterations, and fewer lines of code while maintaining focus on user experience. Collaboration, Psychological Growth, and Transformation Barriers to New Methods: Dive into the psychological and organizational obstacles that can hinder teams from adopting mobbing or trying new approaches. Adult Development and Teaming: Martin shares insights on how stages of psychological development and life events can break down egocentrism and foster stronger collaboration. The "No Pain, No Gain" Paradox: Can growth happen without trauma? Discover the nuanced relationship between challenges, growth, and maturity in collaborative environments. Impact of Complexity on Happiness: Unpack how the complexity of problems and overall team happiness affect the ability to work effectively as a mob. Why Watch This Episode? If you're passionate about product development, user experience, or team collaboration, this episode is packed with actionable insights and relatable stories. From understanding the power of mobbing in product discovery to overcoming barriers to psychological maturity in teams, this conversation will leave you inspired to experiment and grow.

Jennifer Garvey Berger: Changing on the Job Jennifer Garvey Berger is cofounder and CEO of Cultivating Leadership, a consultancy that serves executives and teams in the private, non-profit, and government sectors. Her clients include Google, Microsoft, Novartis, Wikipedia, and Oxfam International. She is the author of four leadership books, including now in it's second edition, Changing on the Job: How Leaders Become Courageous, Wise, and Steady in an Anxious World*. We often think about feedback as something we give to someone else. What if, in addition to that, feedback is an opportunity for both parties to learn and grow. In this conversation, Jennifer and I explore how this can open a door to some of the best leadership work we do. Key Points If we view feedback as only giving our truth to someone else, we've missed a huge opportunity for growth. Start by separating what happened from the interpretation of what happened. Asking Get curious about your own response: what made you react so strongly? Talk it out. You have to welcome someone else into your thinking if you're going to really learn. Invite in how the other person sees the situation. Consider saying, “I'm really interested in what this looked like from your perspective.” The process of unwinding what you hear is the good work of leadership and some the best work you can do. Build a solution together. Resources Mentioned Changing on the Job: How Leaders Become Courageous, Wise, and Steady in an Anxious World* by Jennifer Garvey Berger Interview Notes Download my interview notes in PDF format (free membership required). Related Episodes Essentials of Adult Development, with Mindy Danna (episode 273) How to Give Feedback, with Russ Laraway (episode 583) How to Lead Better Through Complexity, with Jennifer Garvey Berger (episode 613) Production Credit Coaching for Leaders is edited by Andrew Kroeger. Production support is provided by Sierra Priest. Discover More Activate your free membership for full access to the entire library of interviews since 2011, searchable by topic. To accelerate your learning, uncover more inside Coaching for Leaders Plus.

You can read today's edition of The 7 newsletter here. In the meantime, we're sharing something else for you to listen to heading into this holiday weekend. It's the first “class” from our audio course on making the most of your friendships. This comes from the team at The Washington Post's “Try This” series which is hosted by Cristina Quinn. She learns what it means to be socially fit and why it's never too late to start getting those reps in. Cristina speaks with Bob Waldinger, director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development. It's the longest longitudinal study on human happiness. He explains why friendships matter for our health and what we can do to take stock of our connections. Check out the rest of the episodes in the series about friendship and more audio courses from “Try This” here. Subscribe to The Washington Post here.

Thomas is joined by Dr. Robert Waldinger, a psychiatry professor and the director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development, to explore the secrets to human happiness and thriving. They discuss the profound insights gained from the longest-running study on human happiness, revealing how relationships, stress regulation, and having a strong sense of purpose shape our health and longevity.  Dr. Waldinger shares the factors in our lives that we can adjust to have greater agency over our happiness, and the role of wealth and privilege in wellbeing. The conversation also explores the transformative power of meditation, specifically in the Zen Buddhist tradition, offering wisdom on impermanence and interconnectedness.    ✨ Join Thomas' all-new course, The Ancestral Healing Code. Explore how to work with intergenerational trauma, embody our role as ancestors for future generations, access ancestral wisdom for healing our planet, and tap into the spiritual dimension of our ancestral lineage.  Come together as a global community for 5-months of live, online sessions to engage in real-time process work and intergenerational dialogue with expert guest speakers including Dr. Gabor Maté and Daniel Maté; Vanessa and Giovanna Andreotti, Serene Thin Elk, and more. As a member of the Point of Relation community, you'll receive a $200 discount on the course tuition. Learn more & register with your special discount here:

Host: Mindy McCulley, MS Extension Specialist for Instructional Support, Family and Consumer Sciences Extension, University of Kentucky  Guests: Brittany Thompson, Provider Liaison, Bluegrass Care Navigators and Amy Kostelic, PhD Associate Extension Professor for Adult Development and Aging Season 7, Episode 21 Brittany Thompson, Bluegrass Care Navigator Provider Liaison, and Dr. Amy Kostelic, Associate Extension Professor for Adult Development and Aging return to delve into the often misunderstood world of hospice care, focusing on the challenges and barriers faced by patients and families during this pivotal time. The discussion begins with Brittany addressing common misconceptions about hospice care and the importance of shifting goals toward enhancing quality of life. The conversation highlights the emotional and psychological challenges caregivers face, including the transition to a caregiving role and dealing with anticipatory grief. The episode also explores the financial burdens that families may encounter and the need for proper resources and support. Amy emphasizes the importance of self-care for caregivers and introduces the "Living with Loss" series offered by the Family Consumer Sciences Extension. This series includes vital self-care strategies for caregivers who often struggle to balance their own emotional needs while providing care for loved ones. The episode concludes with a discussion on the comprehensive support offered by hospice care, including 24/7 phone support and the integration of an interdisciplinary team to assist families through their journey. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand the complexities of hospice care and the resources available to support caregivers and families. For more information about Bluegrass Care Navigators: Bluegrass Care Navigators Connect with FCS Extension through any of the links below for more information about any of the topics discussed on Talking FACS. Kentucky Extension Offices UK FCS Extension           Website           Facebook           Instagram           FCS Learning Channel

Host: Mindy McCulley, MS Extension Specialist for Instructional Support, Family and Consumer Sciences Extension, University of Kentucky  Guests: Brittany Thompson, Provider Liaison, Bluegrass Care Navigators and Amy Kostelic, PhD Associate Extension Professor for Adult Development and Aging In this insightful episode of Talking FACS Brittany Thompson, Bluegrass Care Navigators Provider Liaison, and Dr. Amy Kostelic, Associate Extension Professor for Adult Development and Aging, discuss the critical role of hospice care in enhancing quality of life during one's final months. The episode explores the comprehensive services offered by hospice, emphasizing its team-based approach that includes medical, emotional, and spiritual support. Brittany clarifies common misconceptions about hospice, highlighting it as a service rather than a place, and explains how it aims to provide comfort and fulfill the wishes of patients and their families. Listeners will learn about the eligibility criteria for hospice care, the importance of early planning, and the ways hospice supports families even after the passing of a loved one. The conversation also addresses societal challenges in discussing end-of-life transitions and underscores the value of hospice in improving caregiver well-being and reducing depression among the bereaved. This episode is a valuable resource for anyone seeking to understand end-of-life care options and the profound impact of hospice services. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of how hospice care can provide comfort and support during life's most challenging transitions. For more information about Bluegrass Care Navigators: Bluegrass Care Navigators For more information about palliative care resources, listen to Cancer Conversations Understanding Palliative and Supportive Care Connect with FCS Extension through any of the links below for more information about any of the topics discussed on Talking FACS. Kentucky Extension Offices UK FCS Extension           Website           Facebook           Instagram           FCS Learning Channel

Welcome to a captivating episode of Unmistakable Creative, where we delve into the profound insights from the world's longest scientific study on happiness with renowned psychiatrist and professor, Dr. Robert Waldinger. In this thought-provoking conversation, we explore the invaluable lessons learned from the study and gain a deeper understanding of what truly leads to a fulfilling and joyful life.Join us as we embark on a journey with Dr. Robert Waldinger, who shares the findings and revelations from the Harvard Study of Adult Development, a 75-year-long research project tracking the lives of hundreds of individuals. Through this extraordinary study, Waldinger reveals the key factors that contribute to happiness, fulfillment, and meaningful relationships.Throughout this enlightening dialogue, we discover the significance of nurturing strong and meaningful connections with others, the impact of compassion and love, and the surprising truth about what really matters in life. Dr. Waldinger's profound insights challenge societal norms and shed light on the profound power of human relationships.From identifying the factors that promote well-being to understanding the secrets of lasting happiness, this episode provides valuable takeaways for anyone seeking to lead a more fulfilling and purposeful life. Whether you're curious about the science of happiness or eager to deepen your connections with others, this conversation with Dr. Robert Waldinger is sure to leave a lasting impression. Subscribe for ad-free interviews and bonus episodes https://plus.acast.com/s/the-unmistakable-creative-podcast. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we're tackling an often overlooked aspect of health: relationships. We sit down with Dr. Robert Waldinger, Director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development, to explore how your childhood shapes your adult relationships. From romance to friendships to work, we break down how attachment styles affect every connection. We dive into the origins of attachment theory, the latest research, and practical tips to help you move towards a more secure style. Whether you're dating, in a relationship, or just looking to improve your connections, this episode is packed with insights you won't want to miss.Our last episode with Dr. Robert Waldinger: The Most Important Thing You Can Do to Live LongerCheck out Dr. Waldinger's book The Good Life.For weekly episodes, come join the Foodie Fam!https://www.patreon.com/FWNTTCheck out our book:https://read.macmillan.com/lp/food-we-need-to-talk/Chat with us on IG!https://www.instagram.com/foodweneedtotalk/?hl=enBe friends with Juna on IG and Tiktok!https://www.instagram.com/theofficialjuna/https://www.tiktok.com/@junagjata

How would you define a “good” life? Is it being married with kids? Traveling with friends? Basking in fame and fortune? The Harvard Study on Adult Development has spent nearly 90 years examining what makes people happy and healthy over a lifetime. The director of the study, Dr. Robert Waldinger, has shared the findings in his book, “The Good Life: Lessons from the Longest Scientific Study on Happiness.” He tells Dr. Sanjay Gupta why no one should expect to be happy all the time, and how men and women measure happiness differently.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Over a decade ago, I remember reading a story that stuck with me. I think it was connected to the famous Harvard Study on Adult Development that studied a group of men across their lifetimes, but I can no longer find the reference. A much-beloved doctor, upon his retirement, was given a notebook filled with letters of praise and appreciation from his patients. After he received it, he put it up in his attic, and never opened it or read the letters.I've often thought of this story since I first heard it, wondering about what motivated the doctor's behavior, and the larger question of why praise is typically welcomed and makes us feel good, but can also make people feel uncomfortable or embarrassed.In today's episode, I take a stab at answering this question with Christopher Littlefield, a speaker and consultant who specializes in employee appreciation. But first, we talk about the power of recognition, why we can be so stingy in giving compliments, how compliments can go wrong, and how we can offer them more effectively. We then turn to why getting compliments can make you cringe, how people deflect them and how this deflection affects relationships, and how to get better at receiving compliments graciously.Resources Related to the PodcastAoM Article:Why and How to Offer More ComplimentsAoM Article: How to Accept a Compliment With ClassAoM Article: How to Avoid Giving a Backhanded ComplimentSunday Firesides: Compliment Deflection Is Gift DenialSunday Firesides: Give Them the CreamHBR Article: Do Compliments Make You Cringe? Here's Why by Christopher LittlefieldConnect With Christopher LittlefieldBeyond Thank You websiteChris on YouTubeChris on LinkedIn