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In this episode of Lifting, Running, and Living, the hosts Kelly and JK discuss what it means to maintain fitness during busy times. They focus on how they've figured out what 'enough' is to sustain their fitness levels, sharing updates on their personal lives, including Kelly's last day of coaching and her decision to pull back from a January race. The hosts explore topics such as adjusting workout frequencies, cutting back on specific activities like cardio or lifting during busy periods, and how to avoid all-or-nothing thinking. They emphasize the importance of keeping the main priority in focus and adjusting volume rather than frequency to manage their schedules effectively. Tune in for relatable insights and actionable strategies to maintain your fitness when life gets hectic.00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:46 Kelly's Coaching Update03:12 Training Challenges and Adjustments06:36 November Challenge Recap09:57 Strategic Restrictions and Personal Goals14:14 Upcoming Plans and December Challenge21:46 Transitioning from College Athlete to Adult Life27:39 Balancing Fitness with Changing Schedules32:20 Maintaining Fitness Amidst Life Changes32:38 Balancing Running and Lifting During Busy Times35:43 Defining 'Busy' and Its Impact on Training37:51 Adjusting Training for Travel and Work Commitments39:51 Non-Negotiables in Training Schedules45:41 Maintaining Frequency and Volume in Workouts53:06 Avoiding All or Nothing Thinking in Training55:46 Planning Training Around Seasonal Changes01:05:02 Wrapping Up and Listener EngagementFollow the pod at @liftingrunninglivingpodEmail us at liftingrunninglivingpod@gmail.comFollow JK at @coachjkmcleodFollow Kelly at @runningklutz
This ‘all or nothing' mindset shows up in so many areas of life. This episode piggy-backs off of episode 81 Busting “All-Or-Nothing” Thinking (from March 2023), and highlights how this is a ‘mindset problem,' which means we need a ‘mindset solution.' Keep listening as I share how and why this comes up so much during the holidays. Plus how to break free. Do you find yourself wrestling with ‘all or nothing' thinking and habits, too? It's time to come work with me. Schedule your free consultation at www.bodyyoucrave.com/schedule and I'll help you see the real patterns keeping you stuck + how to break free for good. Download your free end emotional eating tool here: https://download.bodyyoucrave.com/feelings-wheel-sign-up Come join the afterparty conversation on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jillianscoaching Chapters (00:00:02) - Hungry for Love(00:00:26) - All or Nothing Thinking(00:06:38) - How to Get Out of the Fear Zone(00:12:29) - All-Or-Nothing Thinking(00:19:06) - How to Win a Hard Season(00:20:48) - Let's Be Authentic During the Holidays(00:21:53) - Self-Doubt During Narcissism(00:28:06) - What You Need To Do To Win(00:29:08) - How to Stay Content and Sufficiency(00:33:04) - A Coaching Coach: How to Solve Your Problems(00:39:47) - Binge Eating and Relationship Break the Cycle
Avoid starting over with your weight loss in January with this powerful mindset shift! In this episode, Megan discusses defeating your all or nothing thinking during the holiday season. She uses a DONUT example to explain how to think differently about making progress towards your health goals and taking care of your health during the holidays. It's a powerful mindset shift that applies any time of year! Weight Loss Blind Spots Workshop for Midlife Women 3-Part Video Series + BONUS Video: https://skinnyfitalicious.com/weight-loss-blind-spots-workshop/ Weight Loss Coaching for Midlife Women: https://skinnyfitalicious.com/weight-loss-coaching/ Client Testimonials: https://skinnyfitalicious.com/testimonials/
The holidays are here—and so are the schedules, the stress, the celebrations, and the chaos that can pull you away from your movement routine. In this episode, Natalie, Nora, and Adrienne break down the myth that movement has to be all or nothing and share 10 simple, realistic, compassion-filled tips to help you stay consistent, grounded, and connected through the next six weeks.Redefining what “counts” as a workout.BYOSH - Bring Your Own Snack & Hydration!We share our go-to staples. They live in our bags, our cars, our backpacks, and occasionally our jacket pockets. (Brands, we see you. We love you. We're ready.)Bobo's Oat BarsChomps Protein Sticks Breath is your secret nervous-system regulator!This episode is your holiday-season pep talk, grounded in movement, mindfulness, and compassion—not pressure. If you want to feel better, move better, and stay connected to yourself through the busiest time of the year, you're in the right place.Send us a textWanna be on the show? Click here to fill out our guest info form or drop us a email at yogachanged@gmail.comFollow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@yogachangedFollow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/yogachanged/For more, go to https://howyogachangedmylife.comThe theme music for this episode, “Cenote Angelita”, was written and produced by Mar Abajo Rio AKA MAR Yoga Music. Dive deeper into this and other original yoga-inspired compositions by visiting bio.site/mcrworks. For the latest updates on upcoming events featuring his live music for yoga and meditation, be sure to follow @maryogamusic on Instagram.
SummaryIn this episode, Chase and Chris talk about something many people struggle with—getting started. They share stories about clients who feel overwhelmed because they think they have to do everything perfectly right away. But guess what? You don't!They break down the idea of “diet brain”—the way people think they have to follow a bunch of strict rules, eat perfectly, and never mess up. The truth is, real progress happens when you focus on the basics and stay consistent, even when life throws curveballs.They also talk about how to stop thinking in an “all or nothing” way and start finding wins in small, simple actions. Whether it's a short walk, eating a balanced meal, or just showing up—it's all progress.This is the perfect episode for anyone who's been waiting for the “right time” to start. Spoiler: there is no perfect time. The best time is now!Join the Holiday Masterclass on 11/17/2025 --> https://conquerfitnessandnutrition.com/masterclass Chapters(00:00) A Change in Topic: The Real Struggle to Get Started(02:25) The Pressure to Go from 0 to 100 Overnight(03:41) Diet Brain: How Past Diets Shape Unrealistic Expectations(05:08) Why Life Will Always Throw Curveballs(07:00) You're Not an All-or-Nothing Person(09:23) Redefining Progress Beyond the Scale(10:01) Rules, Diet Culture, and Why They Don't Work(11:20) The Checklist Mindset and Why It's Not Always Helpful(13:41) You Didn't Fall Off Track—You're on the Rollercoaster(15:18) Measuring Real Progress in Habits, Not Just Weight(17:11) Building a Life You Love Through Small Habits(18:09) The Importance of Being Okay with 70%(20:34) The “On-Ramp” to Sustainable Change(22:08) When You've Been Dipping Your Toes Too Long(23:58) Consistency vs. Intensity: Finding the Balance(27:58) How to Choose What You Can Be Intense With(29:28) Do Something Daily to Keep Moving Forward(31:17) Why Support Is Crucial When Life Gets Hard(33:10) Personalized Coaching Over Cookie Cutter Plans(34:47) Autonomy vs. Rules: Why Meal Plans Don't Work(37:11) The Lighthouse Analogy: Coaching That Guides, Not Controls(39:38) Holiday Curveballs and Why They're the Perfect Time to Start(40:54) Holiday Masterclass Details & Final ThoughtsSUBMIT YOUR QUESTIONS to be answered on the show:https://forms.gle/B6bpTBDYnDcbUkeD7How to Connect with Us:Chase's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/changing_chase/Chris' Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/conquer_fitness2021/Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/665770984678334/Interested in 1:1 Coaching: https://conquerfitnessandnutrition.com/1on1-coachingJoin The Fit Fam Collective: https://conquerfitnessandnutrition.com/fit-fam-collective
Warning: This sleep hypnosis is designed to induce an eyes-closed trance. Do not listen to this audio while driving or doing anything that requires your complete attention.Drift into restorative sleep while your mind gently releases black-and-white thinking. This extended, sleep hypnosis features continuous sleepy rain sounds to wash away rigid thoughts, perfectionism, and stress, installing nuanced, balanced thinking on autopilot while you sleep deeply and wake refreshed.Perfect for bedtime:Fall asleep fast while overcoming all-or-nothing thinkingEnd dichotomous/polarized thinking Reduce nighttime anxiety & overthinkingBuild emotional flexibility & resilience while restingCBT-inspired reframing + mindfulness for sleepSlow progressive relaxation + extended countdown to deep tranceSoothing imagery: painting a black-and-white canvas into full colorDirect unconscious suggestions for permanent flexible thinkingSleepy rain ambiance Positive sleep affirmations: progress over perfection, self-worth, calm confidenceVisit https://www.adriannehart.com/ to reach me or join my group hypnosis for deeper transformation this Wellness Wednesday.Sleep hypnosis all or nothing thinking, black and white thinking, sleep meditation, dichotomous thinking relief, flexible mindset sleep hypnosis, perfectionism, sleep hypnosis,rain sounds for sleep, deep sleep hypnosis, cognitive distortion hypnosis, anxiety sleep relief, emotional balance sleep meditation, stop overthinking sleep, rigid thinking hypnosis, mental flexibility sleep, bedtime hypnosisPress play and let sleep take over.#SleepHypnosis #AllOrNothingThinking #RainSoundsForSleep #DeepSleep #MentalFlexibility
Warning: This daytime hypnosis is designed to induce an eyes-closed trance. Do not listen to this audio while driving or doing anything that requires your complete attention.Escape black-and-white thinking and embrace the gray areas of life with this soothing 24-minute guided hypnosis session. Featuring gentle rain sounds to wash away rigid thoughts, this meditation helps you release perfectionism, reduce stress, and cultivate nuanced, balanced thinking, automatically and effortlessly.Perfect for:Overcoming all-or-nothing thinkingReducing anxiety from extremesBuilding emotional flexibility & resilienceProgressive deep relaxation with a countdownVivid imagery of painting a black-and-white canvas into full colorDirect suggestions to your unconscious mind for permanent changeGentle rain ambiance to enhance trance and calmPositive affirmations for self-worth, progress over perfection, and inner peaceWhat you'll experience:All or nothing thinking hypnosis, black and white thinking meditation, dichotomous thinking relief, flexible mindset hypnosis, perfectionism hypnosis, rain sounds hypnosis, mindfulness hypnosis, cognitive distortion hypnosis, anxiety relief hypnosis, emotional balance meditation, guided hypnosis for overthinking, stop rigid thinking, shades of gray hypnosis, mental flexibility, calm mind hypnosisListen often for best results.Visit https://www.adriannehart.com/to reach me or join my group hypnosis for deeper transformation this Wellness Wednesday.#Hypnosis #AllOrNothingThinking #RainSounds #Mindfulness #MentalFlexibility
Have you ever noticed how motherhood can make everything feel high stakes? One minute you're calm and connected to your teen, and the next, you're spiraling into worry, certain that everything is going south. That's the All or Nothing Trap, and if you've ever found yourself stuck there, you're not alone. As moms of teens and almost empty nesters, we're navigating a season of constant change — where letting go can feel like losing control. And it's no wonder our minds cling to extremes: if our kids are thriving, we feel okay… but if they're struggling, we immediately assume we've failed. In this episode, I unpack why your brain defaults to this kind of thinking — and how it quietly fuels anxiety, perfectionism, and self-doubt. You'll learn how to see these patterns for what they really are — your brain's instinct to protect you — and how to gently retrain your mind to find peace in the gray. I'll share stories from my own life and from moms I coach, showing how all-or-nothing thinking can show up as we raise and launch our big kids. If you're ready to let go of anxiety and feel grounded no matter what's happening around you, this episode will help you find your footing.
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Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “If it's not perfect, it's a failure”? I get it. Moms do this all the time, especially when we're building something new. The truth is, that black-and-white, all-or-nothing thinking? It's keeping you stuck.All-or-nothing thinking is that sneaky voice that tells you something either worked or it didn't, that you're either succeeding or failing, with no space for anything in between. This filter feels like clarity, but it's actually shutting down your learning and keeping you frozen at the starting line.Listen in this week to discover how the all-or-nothing mindset trap keeps so many mom entrepreneurs stuck before they even begin, and a simple 3-question framework to turn every experience into valuable data. If you've ever felt like "nothing is working," this episode will completely transform how you view progress in your business.For more information, transcript, and show notes, click here: jenna.coach/74Join me for a free strategy session by clicking here: https://mom.jenna.coach/applyYou're invited to join us every 2nd Thursday for my free Mom Entrepreneurs Circle. Sign up here: https://mom.jenna.coach/circleKeep up with me on LinkedIn here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenna-rykiel and Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/jrykiel3If you enjoy the show, please follow, rate, review, and share the podcast! Your support helps the show reach moms just like you who are ready to quit their 9-to-5 in pursuit of a life and business they love. Click here for instructions on how to leave a review: https://jenna.coach/podcast/podcastlaunch
Is this you? You have a few chips and it spirals into the whole bag, an entire day or whole weekend of overeating. You feel tempted by one-size-fits-all meal plans that you never end up following. You stop tracking your food or planning meals because you didn't do it yesterday which means your 4 day streak is over, so you think, screw it. This episode is for you.In this episode you'll learn:That even though you're not a “perfectionist,” perfectionism is likely derailing youWhy 100% every day is the wrong goalThe mindset shift you need to get out of all or nothing thinkingClick here to join Next Steps Week & book your call Watch Build Momentum Video Series Instagram: @mindful_shape Free Self Coaching Resources Interested in getting coached by me? Go to my website mindfulshape.com
In this episode of SUGTalks, Craig welcomes back Simon Nichols, Founder and CEO of Thrive, to explore “all or nothing thinking” and how it impacts our daily lives.They discuss cognitive distortions, perfectionism, and why our brains often default to black-and-white thinking. Simon shares practical strategies to regulate thought processes, find balance, and reframe situations in healthier ways. From workplace conversations to personal wellbeing, this episode offers valuable insights for recognising and breaking free from unhelpful thinking traps. To see upcoming UKISUG wellbeing sessions click here: https://www.sapusers.org/event-calendar.html?type=wellbeing-session&sort=date&order=ascYou can learn more about Thrive here: https://itstime2thrive.co.uk/To learn more about the UKISUG referral scheme, visit: https://www.sapusers.org/community-referral-scheme
If you've ever found yourself thinking, “I'm so behind… My business isn't working… Today was a waste as I got nothing done,” this episode is for you.In today's solo episode, I dive into how binary thinking, though comforting on the surface, can quietly sabotage your momentum, ESPECIALLY if you're a high-achieving introvert. I share how this pattern shows up in my clients, and how to begin shifting into a more powerful, nuanced mindset that actually supports sustainable success.You'll learn:Why the brain defaults to black-and-white thinking to create certaintyHow to spot all-or-nothing patterns like “success vs. failure,” “productive vs. lazy,” and “ahead vs. behind”The hidden harm of comparing your business journey to a linear curriculumWhat counts as “progress” when the work is invisibleThe trap of misaligned metrics (and what to track instead)A simple mindset shift to move from doubt into trustThis is what you really need to grow a sustainable business - especially when you don't always see the results right away.CONNECT WITH EMMA-LOUISE:
SummaryIn this episode, Chase and Chris talk with Allicia, a mom of two and a client of Chris who has been on a powerful health journey over the past year and a half. Allicia opens up about how her life changed after having her second child, going through a divorce, and still choosing to keep showing up for herself.She shares how she went from feeling lost and overwhelmed to confident and strong—both physically and mentally. Allicia talks about the challenges of emotional eating, building new routines, and learning how to believe in herself. She gives honest insight into how coaching helped her push through some of the hardest times in her life, including her identity shift and learning to take “messy action” instead of striving for perfection.If you've ever felt like life was too busy or messy to take care of your health, Allicia's story is the reminder you need that there is never a “perfect time” to start—only the decision to do it anyway.Chapters(00:00) Meet Allicia – Client, Mom, and Community Success Manager(02:00) Allicia's Background and Life in Colorado(04:40) Life Before Coaching: Struggles, Therapy, and Starting Over(07:30) Why Going to the Gym Was So Intimidating(09:00) Mental Health, Confidence, and Doing More with Her Kids(11:15) Starting from the Basics: Form, Nutrition, and Belief(13:00) The Shift in Belief: From Doubt to “I Can Do This”(14:50) Navigating Divorce Without Quitting on Herself(16:25) Real Lifestyle Change: From Lazy Bones to StairMaster Queen(18:45) Learning to Believe in Herself Through Progress(21:00) Emotional Eating, Sticky Notes, and Mindful Coping(24:30) Gaining Control: Cycle Awareness and Communication(27:00) Celebrating Wins: Water Slides, Hiking, and Personal Growth(30:00) Prepping for the Manitou Incline Again(32:45) Letting Go of All-or-Nothing Thinking(34:45) Why She Didn't Quit—Even in the Hardest Times(36:00) Leaning on Coaching for Support and Direction(40:15) Why Conquer Was Different From Anything She's Tried(43:00) Coach Chris on Allicia's Resilience and Growth(46:00) Rewriting 20+ Years of Beliefs in Just 18 Months(47:30) Allicia's Final Advice: There's Never a Perfect TimeSUBMIT YOUR QUESTIONS to be answered on the show: https://forms.gle/B6bpTBDYnDcbUkeD7How to Connect with Us:Chase's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/changing_chase/Chris' Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/conquer_fitness2021/Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/665770984678334/Interested in 1:1 Coaching: https://conquerfitnessandnutrition.com/1on1-coachingJoin The Fit Fam Collective: https://conquerfitnessandnutrition.com/fit-fam-collective
In episode 215 of The Alcohol ReThink Podcast, Patrick explores the trap of all or nothing thinking, the mindset that tells us we 'always' do this or 'never' do that.From 'I've had one, I may as well keep going' to 'If I can't moderate, what's the point?', these absolutes feel like facts in the moment, but often they just cloud our judgment and keep us stuck in the cycle.Patrick breaks down what all or nothing thinking actually is, how it shows up around alcohol (and in other parts of life), and why it can sometimes be helpful, but only if you recognise it as a choice. He shares real-world examples from his own journey and his clients, and shows how to step into the middle ground where real progress is made.Key takeaways from this episode:What all or nothing thinking really is and how to recognise it.How 'always' and 'never' statements shape your mindset.Why all or nothing thinking sometimes helps, but often holds you back.The power of finding the middle ground when it comes to change.Real-life examples of shifting from extremes to progress.If you've ever felt like one slip wipes out all your progress, this episode will help you see things differently and give yourself permission to keep moving forward.Work with Patrick:Get 1-1 coaching, quit drinking and start showing up like the man you want to be in life.
Feeling the “back to school” energy but low-key dreading the pressure to have it all together overnight? You are SO not alone. If you're already feeling burned out, packed lunches are taking over, and you're wondering where you went wrong, this episode is for you! Here's the truth: you don't need a full-blown reset. You just need a rhythm.In today's episode, I'm breaking down exactly how to gently rebuild your weight loss routine without falling for that all-or-nothing trap. We're skipping the perfectionism and embracing simple, doable rhythms that actually stick—no crazy overhauls or early morning misery required.Whether your kids are back in school or you're just craving structure again, this episode will help you create simple, doable routines that actually stick—so you can feel good in your body without feeling like you're failing.Ready to reset without needing to “get back on track”? Let's swap out the chaos for rituals that feel good and routines that actually fit your life—not someone else's.xoxo,JackieMORE FROM JACKIE: >
Always, Never, Either or. These are words that are often used when we get stuck in "All or Nothing" thinking. Our brains love to know, to hae clarity and understanding, so it is very easy for quick decisions and judgements to be made. However, sometimes these quick judgments lead to all-or-nothing thinking that isn't correct and allows little room for middle ground or a grey area. In today's podcast, we are going to talk about all-or-nothing thinking. We are going to discuss some examples of some times I've seen this show up in myself, my coaching, and with family, and how to navigate through this! First, instead of using the more rigid words like always and never, try using more flexible language. Second, catch yourself when you are using all-or-nothing or black and white talk. This awareness is a HUGE first step! Another tip, say BOTH! Rath than assume that things have to be either/or, they can be BOTH! We are all awesome and flawed! Ask Questions! "Is this true?" Is always a great place to start! And last, COMPASSION! Talk to yourself like a trusted friend, family member, or the Savior. As you practice these tips even one time a day, this will give you so much leverage and awareness on your thought patterns and expand our all-or-nothing thinking into an approach with room for the middle ground!
We all know the detrimental effects of all or nothing thinking when it comes to health and fitness, so why do we think that way when it comes to our businesses? All or nothing typically ends up being nothing, so if you're starting an online business, it's paramount to take messy action and overcome perfectionism. Expecting perfection from yourself will only lead to burn out and abandonment. By taking immediate action rather than waiting for the perfect moment, you will always find yourself closer to your goals. Progress is always better than perfection. Get on the waitlist for FBA: https://jillfitfree.com/fba-waitlist/ Jill is a fitness professional and business coach who effectively made the transition from training clients in person and having no time to build anything else to training clients online and actually being more successful. Today, Jill helps other coaches to do the same. Connect with me! Instagram: @jillfit | @fitbizu Facebook: @jillfit Website: jillfit.com
Ever catch yourself saying, “If I can't do it perfectly, why bother?” or “One mistake means I've failed completely”? That's all-or-nothing thinking—also known as black-and-white thinking or dichotomous thinking—and it's one of the most common thought distortions we experience.In this episode, we explore:What all-or-nothing thinking really is and why it's considered a cognitive distortionEveryday examples of how it shows up in health, work, and relationshipsHow deeper belief systems (schemas and core beliefs) like perfectionism or fear of failure keep us stuck in extremesPractical tools to shift out of black-and-white thinking, including finding the middle ground, celebrating progress, and rewriting unhelpful core beliefsIf you struggle with perfectionism, self-criticism, or swinging between extremes, this episode will help you recognize the pattern and start building more balanced, compassionate ways of thinking.To learn more, visit www.ladyandthecouch.comMake sure to follow us on social media @ladyandthecouchFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ladyandthecouchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ladyandthecouch/
Send us a textAll-or-nothing thinking is a common mental pattern in children that can be frustrating for parents who want to help their kids gain perspective and stay emotionally grounded. We explore what's happening beneath the surface when kids think in extremes, and how we can gently support more balanced and resilient thinking.• Children's brains are still developing, especially in the prefrontal cortex responsible for complex thought and emotional regulation• Binary thinking (black and white, all good or all bad) is a normal developmental stage, not a flaw to be fixed• The emotional centers of a child's brain develop before their reasoning centers, explaining many extreme reactions• Identifying when your child is stuck in all-or-nothing thinking is the first step to helping them• Validate emotions without reinforcing extreme statements - say "losing feels frustrating" instead of "you don't always lose"• Model continuum thinking by verbalizing your own balanced thoughts out loud• Use language that adds nuance like "sometimes" and "a part of me feels..."• Praise effort, courage, and learning rather than just outcomes to build a growth mindset• Recognize that moving from all-or-nothing to nuanced thinking is a developmental journey*Did you know? I'm currently opening a few one-to-one coaching spots for moms who are ready to go deeper and get personalized support as they build their own resilience. If that sounds like something you're craving, just head to LeeGerman.com and click on one-to-one coaching. We'll set up a free call to talk about where you are, where you want to be, and whether coaching is the right next step for you.If you'd like to get the show notes for this episode, head to: https://leighgermann.com
In this episode, Carrie explores how to identify and overcome all-or-nothing thinking, a common challenge for those with OCD. She offers practical strategies for developing flexible thinking to foster peace and recovery.Episode Highlights:How to recognize all-or-nothing thinking in yourself.Mindfulness exercises to help detach from obsessive thoughts.The importance of taking different perspectives to break rigid thinking.How asking "What if it went well?" can shift your mindset.The power of embracing imperfection through trying new things.Creative problem-solving techniques to help expand your thinking options.Free Webinar: Calming the Inner Chaos: Tips for Christians Seeking OCD Treatmenthttps: www.carriebock.com/calm/ Explore the Christians Learning ICBT training: https://carriebock.com/training/ Carrie's services and courses: carriebock.com/services/ carriebock.com/resources/Follow us on Instagram: www.instagram.com/christianfaithandocd/and like our Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/christianfaithandocd for the latest updates and sneak peeks.
In this Episode of Inner Voice, Dr. Foojan Zeine welcomes Judy Belmont — psychotherapist, author, and corporate trainer with 40+ years of experience — for a powerful conversation on mental wellness. Judy shares practical strategies from her latest book: "110 CBT Tips and Tools: Proven Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Strategies for Anxiety, Depression, Stress, Anger, and More." Learn actionable tools to manage your mental health, improve emotional resilience, and lead a more balanced life.
Earlier this week whilst in another country, I was 100% convinced I was about to die in a tsunami. My ADHD brain had already planned the escape route, packed the bags, and decided it was all over.That's the sneaky power of all-or-nothing thinking - one of ADHD's favourite mental habits. In this episode, we'll cover:Why ADHD brains default to extremes and struggle to see the middle groundReal-life examples of how black-and-white thinking shows up in daily lifeThe link between your thoughts, feelings, and actions (and why this way of thinking increases procrastination & paralysis!)My simple NAP tool to shift your thinking and regulate your emotionsIf you've ever caught yourself saying “I always screw up” or “I'll never get this right,” this episode is for you!Get your episode recap (aka the 1 page cheat sheet) right here: www.navigatingadultadhd.com/cheatsheetFor more support & to connect with Xena visit: www.navigatingadultadhd.com
Hello, welcome to the Safety Culture Excellence podcast, hosted by Shawn Galloway, CEO of ProAct Safety. This week's podcast is about "SIF All or Nothing Thinking." Are your Pareto analysis top precautions the same between all data and SIF data? https://proactsafety.com/solutions/consulting/transformational-pareto-analysis I hope you enjoy the podcast. Have a great week! Shawn M. Galloway All of our books are available in all formats on Amazon.
Send us a textDo you find yourself caught in the exhausting cycle of "perfect or disaster" thinking? One missed bedtime routine becomes evidence you're a terrible mom. One imperfect day means you're failing at everything. This all-or-nothing mindset isn't just draining—it's keeping you from seeing the progress you're actually making and modeling rigid thinking for your children. In this episode, discover the science behind why our brains default to extremes, learn five practical strategies to embrace the beautiful gray areas of life, and find out how to teach your kids that growth happens in the middle ground between perfect and catastrophic. It's time to trade the exhausting pursuit of perfection for the peace of "good enough"—and watch both you and your family thrive.If you'd like to get the show notes for this episode, head to: https://leighgermann.com
In Episode 311: How To Restart Your Day with the Next-Five Reset, You Will Discover: How to shift out of all-or-nothing thinking when your ADHD brain says you've ruined the day by not perfectly following your schedule Why time management is extra challenging for ADHD brains and how we can support ourselves through it. A simple but powerful technique that helps you start fresh at any point in your day. Links From The Podcast
In this episode, we explore how all or nothing thinking can hold people back from making real progress, especially in fitness and self-development. We unpack the fear of failure that often comes with this mindset and how it can lead to a cycle of inconsistency. Instead of aiming for perfection, we talk about the importance of small, actionable steps and the power of simply showing up. We dive into why focusing on the process matters more than obsessing over outcomes, and how learning from failure is part of long-term success. If you've ever felt like there's no point in continuing after slipping up, this conversation is for you. Please follow us on Instagram Level Up: https://www.instagram.com/levelup_podcast_/ Sharelle: https://www.instagram.com/sharellegrant/ Dani: https://www.instagram.com/daniantonellos/
Ever feel like your brain just won't quit, and traditional meditation only makes it worse? Thinkydoers host Sara Lobkovich gets it. She lives mostly in her head, and practices like meditation or breathwork have often felt out of reach. They seemed like they were designed for people who are naturally calm and centered — not her.But this conversation with Chauna Bryant shifted everything. Chauna is a trauma-informed breathwork professional, and founder of Breath Liberation Society. She also describes herself as “probably the least chill meditation teacher you'll ever meet.”Together, they explore how breathwork can offer a more accessible entry point for overthinkers and busy brains. Instead of forcing stillness, breathwork gives the mind something active to focus on — what Chauna compares to “giving your brain an iPad” to occupy it — while the body does its own work.They also talk about how breathwork differs from traditional meditation, why it's particularly helpful for people with trauma histories, and how starting small (even just two breaths or two minutes) can be helpful.If mindfulness has ever felt like it wasn't made for your kind of mind, this episode is for you.Episode Highlights:Why breathwork succeeds where traditional meditation fails for many peopleThe difference between activating and calming breathwork techniquesHow to start a somatic practice when you're resistant to body-based workTrauma-informed approaches to breathwork and nervous system regulationThe power of "titration" - starting with just 2 minutes instead of diving inWhy consent and agency are crucial in breathwork practiceUnderstanding breathwork as "nervous system pushups" for stress resilienceKey Concepts Explored:Conscious connected breathing and three-part breath techniquesThe origins and cultural lineages of breathwork practicesHow breathwork allows nonverbal processing of emotions and traumaThe importance of finding trauma-informed, skilled practitionersWhy patience becomes "your first form of body connection"Common Questions Answered:What exactly is breathwork and how is it different from meditation?How can I start if I'm resistant to body-based practices?Is breathwork safe for people with trauma history?What should I expect from my first breathwork experience?Notable Quotes: “Breathwork gives the brain something to do. It's just weird enough that it helps the body start to process what we've shelved or ignored.” — Chauna Bryant [00:04:00]“Whatever you're doing, try like a minute. Try two minutes. Give it two minutes and then get out. That's the way to start to build that body connection.” — Chauna Bryant [00:14:00]“For a lot of us with busy brains, patience is going to be our first form of body connection.” — Chauna Bryant [00:16:00]“Just let the experience exist without having to slap words on it.” — Chauna Bryant [00:31:00]“In breathwork, you get to choose as much or as little as you do—and whatever you choose, you'll be cheered on fiercely.” — Chauna Bryant [00:34:00]Chapters:[00:00:00] Introduction: Welcome to Thinkydoers and Meet Chauna Bryant[00:02:00] What is Breathwork? Active Meditation for Busy Brains[00:05:00] Origins and Cultural Lineages of Breathwork Practices[00:06:00] From Brain-Centered to Body-Aware: Sara and Chauna's Common Ground[00:08:00] Chauna's Journey: From Gymnast to "Least Chill Meditation Teacher"[00:11:00] The Meditation Failure and Discovering Breathwork[00:12:00] Getting Started: Overcoming Resistance to Somatic Practices[00:15:00] Perfectionism and All-or-Nothing Thinking in Body
If you want to learn how to navigate summer vacations, BBQs, and pool parties without gaining weight, falling off track, or constantly starting over every Monday, this episode is for you. Jess & Melissa break down why all-or-nothing thinking fuels binge eating and sabotages your weight loss progress. They share 4 simple, practical tips to help you enjoy summer while still losing weight and finally break the restrict-and-binge cycle for good. CONNECT WITH JESS & MEL | LUMINU The 5-Day Body Reset: https://stan.store/luminu/p/5day-body-reset 90 Days to a Lighter You [Your Personal Plan for Lasting Weight Loss]: https://luminu.com/elitecoaching/ Join our free LUMINU Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/luminu.wellness Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luminu.wellness/ Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luminu.wellness Check us out on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@luminu.wellness
In this thought-provoking episode, we dive into the internal struggles that emerge when we feel pulled toward paths that seem to contradict our established values or public image.I'm sharing my personal journey with artificial intelligence, from initial resistance to curious exploration and how this evolution challenged me to examine the "all-or-nothing" thinking that often limits our authentic expression.Through vulnerable reflection, I reveal how an influencer's anti-AI stance triggered deep self-doubt about my own path, despite feeling genuinely drawn to explore AI's potential for supporting small businesses and solopreneurs. This experience illuminates the uncomfortable intersection we face when evolving beyond how we've defined ourselves or how others perceive us.BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING TO THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL DISCOVER:How "all-or-nothing" thinking often lurks beneath our resistance to personal evolution.Why being pulled in unexpected directions can create internal conflict with our self-image.The danger of blanket statements that strip away nuance and individual experience.How AI tools can help small business owners focus on their zone of genius without large budgets.The importance of accepting that two seemingly contradictory things can be true simultaneously.Why judging others' choices contradicts true commitment to authenticity.How to recognize when fear of judgment is preventing you from following your authentic path.This episode invites you to examine where black-and-white thinking might be limiting your perspective and blocking your evolution. By embracing nuance and honoring your unique journey, you can move forward with greater self-acceptance and clarity, even when that path seems to contradict previous versions of yourself.And while you're here, follow us on Instagram @creativelyowned for more daily inspiration on effortlessly attracting the most aligned clients without spending hours marketing your business or chasing clients. Also, make sure to tag me in your stories @creativelyowned.Selling the Invisible: Exactly how to articulate the value of your cosmic genius even if your message transcends the typical “10k months” & “Make 6-figures” types of promises. Free on-demand training >>> https://www.creativelyowned.co/watchnow To find out how to own your unique edge, amplify who you truly are (& get paid for it), take your business to cosmic proportions, and have fun doing it, grab it here!! https://www.creativelyowned.com/quizOffer Architect: TURN YOUR ‘INVISIBLE' WISDOM INTO A COMPELLING OFFER THAT WILL SELL WITH A SINGLE EMAIL. >>>https://creativelyowned.com/offer-architect
This episode tackles overcoming the 3 big training pitfalls that silently sabotage lifters: mindless snacking, all-or-nothing thinking, and poor boundaries. Niki Sims and Andrew Jackson break it down with practical tips, real-life stories, and strategies that actually work for strength, longevity, and real-life training.
Since getting sober, do you notice that you're very "all or nothing" in other aspects of your life? Maybe you notice some habits around food, coffee, spending money, work, etc. where you struggle to find balance. It's very common for us to get sober and to notice these patterns in other areas of our lives, and this week I'm chatting all about letting go of all or nothing thinking and finding balance in our lives! Join me on my sober trip to Portugal! Join my community, the Happiest Sober Hub Subscribe to my newsletter for sober tips & inspo Watch my sober vlogs Shop my sober mugs Follow me on Instagram Shop my Amazon storefront ShopMy favourite things If my content has helped you on your sober journey and you'd like to support my work, you can buy me a coffee! Thanks for supporting my podcast by supporting my sponsors - you can view my list of current sponsors here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Since getting sober, do you notice that you're very "all or nothing" in other aspects of your life? Maybe you notice some habits around food, coffee, spending money, work, etc. where you struggle to find balance. It's very common for us to get sober and to notice these patterns in other areas of our lives, and this week I'm chatting all about letting go of all or nothing thinking and finding balance in our lives! Join me on my sober trip to Portugal! Join my community, the Happiest Sober Hub Subscribe to my newsletter for sober tips & inspo Watch my sober vlogs Shop my sober mugs Follow me on Instagram Shop my Amazon storefront ShopMy favourite things If my content has helped you on your sober journey and you'd like to support my work, you can buy me a coffee! Thanks for supporting my podcast by supporting my sponsors - you can view my list of current sponsors here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this episode of Dieting From the Inside Out, I'm diving deep into the 5 most common struggles middle-aged women face on their weight loss journey—and more importantly, how to overcome them with real solutions.Whether you've battled all-or-nothing thinking, emotional eating, food obsession, body image issues, or the effects of decades of diet culture, this episode is for you. I'm giving you a breakdown of each issue, practical strategies, and the mindset shifts needed to finally get off the diet hamster wheel—for good.Topics we cover:- Why “I blew it on the weekend” thinking is keeping you stuck- How to stop using food to numb your emotions- What food noise really means (and how to silence it)- Navigating body changes with aging and menopause- Unlearning diet culture lies you've believed since you were 12Grab the Food Noise Solution Guide Here: https://inquire.hamiltontrained.com/food-noiseTIMESTAMPS:(00:00) – Intro & Biggest Weight Loss Struggles for Middle-Aged Women(00:45) – Top 5 Weight Loss Struggles from ChatGPT (01:42) – Struggle #1: All-or-Nothing Thinking(07:10) – Struggle #2: Emotional Eating & Food as Comfort(13:20) – Struggle #3: Food Noise & Mental Obsession with Eating(19:20) – Struggle #4: Body Image Issues and Aging Fears(28:25) – Struggle #5: Diet Culture Damage & Decades of Unlearning(33:55) – Final Thoughts & How to Move ForwardMY RESOURCES & SPECIAL OFFERS:‣ Join the Dieting From The Inside Out Collective & get immediate access: bit.ly/DFIOcollective‣ Apply for 1:1 Coaching:Application for Coaching‣ Join my free Facebook group & get all my trainings:Fat Loss Simplified | Facebook‣ Get my [Free] Fat Loss Check-list Course:Never Struggle Losing Weight Ever Again Masterclass‣ Grab my 20 Pound Blueprint to lose your next 20lbs without feeling restricted:The 20 Pound BlueprintFIND ME ON:‣ Instagram:Instagram (@realjaredhamilton)‣ YouTube:Jared Hamilton‣ TikTok:Jared Hamilton on TikTok‣ Email:jared@hamiltontrained.com----© 2025 Jared Hamilton
Stuck in the diet trap of “all or nothing”? You're not alone—and midlife women feel it the most. In this special 600th episode of Candidly with Coffee, we're getting real about the all or nothing mindset and how it's holding you back from real, lasting results—especially in midlife. If you constantly feel like you've “ruined” your progress after one treat or keep waiting for Monday to start over, this episode will change everything.
Today we discuss all things polarized thinking and how to be okay with moderate success. I hope to encourage you to take agency over your situations and accept all strides in a positive direction!
Do you ever feel like if you can’t do it all—and do it perfectly—it’s not even worth starting? That’s the trap of all-or-nothing thinking. It quietly fuels shame, burnout, and discouragement—keeping you stuck and unsure how to move forward.In this episode, Bonnie shares a heartfelt (and slightly nerdy!) story about her love for sci-fi and how it reveals a deeper truth about the spiritual journey: God never asks us to grow at warp speed. Instead, He invites us to take small, grace-filled steps at His pace of peace.You’ll learn 3 truths from scripture and the “Law of the Harvest” to help you release pressure, overcome perfectionism, and step confidently into what God is calling you to do—with emotional wellness and peace leading the way.Tune into this episode to stop waiting for the perfect moment—and start walking in your God-inspired purpose with peace and clarity. Key Takeaways:- Why all-or-nothing thinking keeps you from peace, purpose, and progress- How to reframe growth as a slow, soul-nourishing journey with God- 3 biblical truths to break free from pressure and procrastination- A science-backed soul care practice to calm your nervous system and spark motivationHow to feel emotionally safe to take your next brave step with GodBreath Prayer:(inhale) The nearness of God is my good…(exhale) I am safe in His love.Scripture: Psalm 73:28 — “But as for me, the nearness of God is my good; I have made the Lord GOD my refuge, that I may tell of all Your works.” If you’re ready to stop living under pressure—and start walking in God’s peace-filled purpose—join me for the Lent Wellness Study at mysoulcareschool.com.Together, we’ll journey through 6 weeks of prayer, scripture, and soul care practices designed to restore your emotional wellness and deepen your connection with Jesus.You don’t have to do it all. Just take one grace-filled step at a time. Sign up today and let’s walk this healing path together.LINKS & RESOURCES- Sign Up for NEW 6-Week "Lent Wellness Study! https://thebonniegray.com/soulcareschool/- Take my FREE Soul Care Quiz at soulcarequiz.com – your wellness assessment!- Get Bonnie's Bestselling book "Breathe: 21 Days to Stress Less" https://amzn.to/4azae1K- Subscribe to FREE Breathe Newsletter for Fall Quarter Soul Care! https://thebonniegray.com/subscribe/- Follow Bonnie at www.instagram.com/thebonniegray & www.facebook.com/thebonniegray Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
Send us a text! (add your email to get a response)We all know those moments—when everything feels either perfect or disastrous, when someone is either completely trustworthy or utterly toxic. "All-or-nothing," "black-and-white," or dichotomous thinking, shapes our relationships, political views, and self-perception in profound ways. But where does this all-or-nothing approach come from, and why is it so hard to escape?In this episode, we dive deep into the surprising evolutionary purpose behind rigid thinking patterns. Far from simply being a cognitive flaw, black and white thinking often emerges as a survival mechanism for those who've experienced trauma or instability. The problem arises when we carry these protective patterns into everyday life, relationships, and social media interactions where complexity is essential.We explore how dichotomous thinking manifests differently across various conditions—from personality disorders where it permeates every interaction to PTSD where it might remain confined to specific triggers. We share personal examples, research findings, and practical strategies for recognizing when you've fallen into extreme thinking. Then, we outline the evidence-based strategies for breaking free of the extremes of dichotomous thinking.Whether you're dealing with a loved one who sees the world in absolutes or noticing this pattern in yourself, we understand why our brains crave certainty and how embracing the gray areas might be the key to deeper connections and better mental health. We offer both compassion for why we develop these patterns and concrete tools for finding your way back to nuance.Resources:Bonfá‐Araujo, B., Oshio, A., & Hauck‐Filho, N. (2022). Seeing Things in Black‐and‐White: A Scoping Review on Dichotomous Thinking Style1. Japanese Psychological Research, 64(4), 461-472.Jonason, P. K., Oshio, A., Shimotsukasa, T., Mieda, T., Csathó, Á., & Sitnikova, M. (2018). Seeing the world in black or white: The Dark Triad traits and dichotomous thinking. Personality and Individual Differences, 120, 102-106.Support the showIf you have a loved one with mental or emotional problems, join KulaMind, our community and support platform. In KulaMind, work one on one with Dr. Kibby on learning how to set healthy boundaries, advocate for yourself, and support your loved one. *We only have a few spots left, so apply here if you're interested. Follow @kulamind on Instagram for science-backed insights on staying sane while loving someone emotionally explosive. For more info about this podcast, check out: www.alittlehelpforourfriends.com Follow us on Instagram: @ALittleHelpForOurFriends
In this episode, I talk about how all-or-nothing thinking might be the sneaky way you've been sabotaging your efforts toward you want. If you like my thoughts and insights follow me on my socials below for more! To be clear, I am not a therapist! I am just very interested in and passionate about self-awareness and personal growth :)Book a 1:1 session ☕️
Karen spent years jumping from diet to diet—trying everything under the sun, only to end up back where she started. In this episode, she shares how she finally broke free from self-sabotage, emotional eating, and scale obsession by shifting her mindset and focusing on the inner game of weight loss.What You'll Learn in This Episode:✅ Why diets keep failing you (and what actually works)✅ How Karen overcame the "all or nothing" mindset✅ The identity shift that made weight loss effortless✅ Why the scale doesn't define success✅ The secret to breaking free from food guilt & emotional eatingKaren's story proves that lasting weight loss isn't just about food and workouts—it's about changing who you are at the core. If you've been stuck in a cycle of losing and regaining weight, this episode will be perfect for you.TIMESTAMPS:(00:00) - Intro(02:25) - Where It All Started: Karen's Struggle With Dieting(06:08) - The “Dieting from the Inside Out” Approach to Dieting Explained(15:30) - The Identity Shifts That Helped Karen Make Lasting Change(24:28) - Why Breaking Old Habits Feels So Hard(27:20) - The Truth About Fast vs. Slow Weight Loss(29:25) - Working Through All or Nothing Thinking(35:22) - Why Karen Doesn't Care About the Scale Anymore(41:03) - What Finally Made Karen Take the Leap(50:10) - How to Move Forward Without Getting Stuck in the Past(53:02) - Karen's Advice to Anyone on the Fence About Joining(59:25) - Final ThoughtsMY RESOURCES & SPECIAL OFFERS:‣ Join the Dieting From The Inside Out Collective & get immediate access: bit.ly/DFIOcollective‣ Apply for 1:1 Coaching:Application for Coaching‣ Join my free Facebook group & get all my trainings:Fat Loss Simplified | Facebook‣ Get my [Free] Fat Loss Check-list Course:Never Struggle Losing Weight Ever Again Masterclass‣ Grab my 20 Pound Blueprint to lose your next 20lbs without feeling restricted:The 20 Pound BlueprintFIND ME ON:‣ Instagram:Instagram (@realjaredhamilton)‣ YouTube:Jared Hamilton‣ TikTok:Jared Hamilton on TikTok‣ Email:jared@hamiltontrained.com----© 2025 Jared Hamilton
How many times have you thought to yourself that it had to be all or nothing? Thinking like this can often hold you back from accomplishing what you want in your life. It can keep you from creating new beliefs about your future. Sure, all-or-nothing thinking makes it easy on us because there aren't any grey areas, but it also leaves us thinking everything is one way or another. It doesn't give us the opportunity to dig deeper to see if there could be a possibility of having something in between that all-or-nothing thinking. It doesn't give you that opportunity for growth. Ready to learn more about how all-or-nothing thinking is holding you back? Let's dive in… I'm inviting you to sign up for the free private podcast where I do a deeper dive into this topic on the Mastering Your Mindset Moments podcast for high-stress professionals: https://www.financialadventure.com/private Schedule your Complimentary Stress Audit and Clarity Session, where we'll work together to create a clear and focused plan for you to move forward so you'll immediately start enjoying your life with less stress, increased productivity, and more time to spend doing what you love with the people you care about: https://www.financialadventure.com/work-with-me Accountants, CPAs, Bookkeepers, Tax Preparers & Financial Professionals, sign up here to get updates on upcoming opportunities & grab the Audit Of Your Well-Being & Balance Guide here: https://www.financialadventure.com/accountant Ready to set up your business? I have a program to help you get your business set up so that you can start making money. Sign up for this program here: https://www.financialadventure.com/start Are you ready to try coaching? Schedule an Introductory Coaching Session today. You'll have the opportunity to see how you like coaching with an Introductory Coaching Session: https://www.financialadventure.com/intro Join us in the Mastering Your Small Business Finances PROFIT LAB if you are ready to take control of your business finances and create the profitable business you are striving for. Are you ready to generate revenues and increase the profit in your business: https://www.financialadventure.com/profit If You Are Ready To Choose, Start Or Grow Your Side Hustle, Get Your Free Checklist And Assessment Here: https://www.financialadventure.com/sidehustle Grab Your FREE guide: 5 Essential Strategies For Stress-Free Bookkeeping: https://www.financialadventure.com/5essentials Your FREE Online Virtual Bookkeeping Business Starter Guide & Success Path Is Waiting For You: https://www.financialadventure.com/starterguide Join Our Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/womenbusinessownersultimatediybookkeepingboutique The Strategic Bookkeeping Academy, including Bookkeeping Basics, is open for registration! You can learn more and sign up here: https://www.financialadventure.com/sba Looking for a payroll solution for your business? You can get an exclusive 15% discount on your payroll services when you sign up here: https://www.financialadventure.com/adp QuickBooks Online - Save 30% Your First 6 Months: https://www.financialadventure.com/quickbooks Sign up for a virtual coffee chat to see if starting a Bookkeeping Business is right for you: https://www.financialadventure.com/discovery Show Notes: https://www.financialadventure.com This podcast is sponsored by Financial Adventure, LLC ~ visit https://www.financialadventure.com for additional information and free resources.
In this episode of the Help Me Understand podcast, JK reflects on the journey of the podcast over the past five years, celebrating milestones and discussing the concept of all or nothing thinking. He challenges listeners to rethink this mindset, suggesting that it may not be a binary choice but rather a range of options. JK shares his view on the importance of understanding the 'something else' that occurs when plans are not followed and encourages listeners to consider the mood required to execute their plans effectively.----Kids Talk Sports hoodies available HERE(available in both adult and kids sizes on website)----Have a question or topic you'd like JK to talk about in a future episode? Submit it HEREConnect with JK on Instagram: @coachjkmcleodEmail JK: jk@themusclefeed.comSubscribe on YouTube:@CoachJKMcLeodJoin JK's weekly email list: subscribe hereCheck out Feed Your Habits* apparel here(code: JKFYH for 10% off)*available in the US only at this time-----00:00 Introduction and Milestones08:16 Understanding All or Nothing Thinking19:37 Reframing All or Nothing Thinking26:04 Closing Thoughts and Key Takeaways
In Episode 290: How To Take Small Steps To Escape All-or-Nothing Thinking, You Will Discover: Why all-or-nothing thinking feels so convincing—and how small steps can help you break free from it. How tiny actions spark momentum, build confidence, and help redefine the way you see yourself. Simple, practical strategies to embrace small steps and make habits stick—no matter how busy life gets. Links From The Podcast Learn more about private coaching Learn more about We're Busy Being Awesome small group coaching Get the top 10 tips to work with your ADHD brain (free ebook!) Discover my favorite ADHD resources here Get the I'm Busy Being Awesome Planning System here Get the Podcast Roadmap here Get the ADHD Routine Revamp here This post contains affiliate links, meaning I may earn a small commission if you make a purchase through my links, at no extra cost to you. Disclosure info here. Leave IBBA A Rating & Review! If you enjoy the podcast, would you be a rockstar and leave a review? Doing so helps others find the show and spreads these tools to even more people. Go to Apple Podcasts Click on the I'm Busy Being Awesome podcast Scroll down to the bottom of the page, where you see the reviews. Simply tap five stars; that's it! Bonus points if you're willing to leave a few sentences sharing what you enjoy about the podcast or a key takeaway from the episode you just heard. Thanks, friend!
In this episode, Molly dives into a topic that resonates deeply with anyone struggling to build a peaceful relationship with alcohol: perfectionist or all-or-nothing thinking. Often disguised in subtle ways, this mindset can block progress and contribute to cycles of shame and guilt. Molly uncovers how this cognitive distortion manifests in our drinking habits, why it keeps us stuck, and how to break free by understanding our mind's powerful role in shaping behavior.What is All-or-Nothing Thinking? Understanding how perfectionism leads to feelings of failure when plans don't go perfectly.The Vicious Cycle of Shame and Off-Plan Drinking: How small setbacks can snowball due to mental distortions and negative self-talk.The Cognitive Distortions That Trick Our Brains:Mental filtering – focusing on failures while ignoring successes.Disqualifying the positive – dismissing progress due to minor missteps.Why Being at Peace with Alcohol Doesn't Mean It's Always Easy: Learn how peace is rooted in mindset shifts, not perfection.Rewiring the Brain for Sustainable Change: Molly discusses why progress isn't erased by one mistake and how small consistent efforts build resilience.Challenging AA's “Day One” Mentality: Explore the science-backed benefits of avoiding the punitive “start over” mindset.Key Takeaways:Progress isn't linear: One setback doesn't erase the steps you've already taken.Curiosity and compassion: Treat off-plan drinking as an opportunity to learn, not a failure.Replace rigid rules with flexible strategies: The key to long-term success is a mindset shift, not perfect adherence to plans.Mentioned in This Episode:Cognitive distortions like mental filtering and disqualifying the positive.The role of neural pathways in forming and breaking habits.The behavior map-results cycle for effective habit change.Resources & Links:Join the Alcohol Minimalist Facebook Group for support and connection.Molly's Book: Breaking the Bottle Legacy – Learn more about shifting your relationship with alcohol.Connect with Molly:mollywatts.comWebsite: Instagram: @alcoholminimalistEmail: molly@mollywatts.com ★ Support this podcast ★
Have you ever felt overwhelmed, even when you're trying your best to stay faithful and push through the stress? You're not alone. In this episode, Bonnie explores how we can overcome feelings of overwhelm by focusing on the small beginnings that God delights in. As we step into February, a month filled with love and new beginnings, Bonnie reminds us that it's never too late to experience God's peace and joy, no matter how small the steps may seem. Learn to let go of the "all-or-nothing" mindset and embrace the small, intentional actions that can rewire your brain and bring lasting peace to your life. Tune into this episode to discover how to reframe your thoughts, use the power of "but" to combat discouragement, and lean into God's grace as you take small steps toward new growth.Key Takeaways:- Small steps matter: God rejoices when we take even the smallest steps toward our goals.- Overcoming all-or-nothing thinking: Learn how reframing your thoughts can help you stay motivated, even when progress feels slow.- The power of "but": Use this simple word to replace negative thoughts with God’s perspective.- Science + Scripture: Understand how small, intentional steps not only improve emotional wellness but also align with God's calling in our lives. Breathe Prayer: Inhale: "Do not despise these small beginnings "Exhale: "For the Lord rejoices to see the work begin" Scripture: "Do not despise these small beginnings for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin." Zechariah 4:10 Soul Care Tip: 3 Action Steps to Beat All-Or-Nothing ThingLINKS & RESOURCES- Sign Up for the NEW "Walking In Wellness with Jesus" Study! https://thebonniegray.com/soulcareschool/- Take my FREE Soul Care Quiz at soulcarequiz.com – your wellness assessment!- Get Bonnie's Bestselling book "Breathe: 21 Days to Stress Less" https://amzn.to/4azae1K- Subscribe to FREE Breathe Newsletter for Fall Quarter Soul Care! https://thebonniegray.com/subscribe/- Follow Bonnie at www.instagram.com/thebonniegray & www.facebook.com/thebonniegrayDon’t let discouragement stop you—God is with you every step of the way. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
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Are you caught in the "all or nothing" loop? Do you find yourself either giving 110% to your goals or doing absolutely nothing when life gets in the way? In this episode, we're diving into how the "all or nothing" mindset is keeping you stuck and why the middle ground—the power of "and"—is where true transformation happens. We'll explore how this shift can impact key areas of your life, including nutrition, exercise, career, social life, and personal goals. Plus, we'll talk about why it's not your fault, how societal pressures have shaped this mindset, and how to embrace a more sustainable and fulfilling approach to growth. What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why "all or nothing" thinking keeps you stuck in cycles of burnout and inaction. How the power of "and" can create balance and sustainable progress. The role of force energy and perfectionism in triggering fear and procrastination. Why it's not your fault: understanding the cultural roots of the "work harder" mindset. The importance of slowing down, resting, and recognizing what's already in front of you. Practical examples of applying the "and" mindset to nutrition, exercise, career, social life, and goal setting. How to shift from force to flow and embrace compassionate accountability. Key Takeaways: Progress over perfection: If you can't give it all, then some will do. Small, consistent actions add up to big changes over time. Balance beats burnout: Rest and self-compassion are just as important as effort in achieving your goals. Change your lens: Stop seeing setbacks as failures and start viewing them as opportunities to adjust and grow. Break free from extremes: Learn to thrive in the middle ground, where flexibility and resilience create lasting success. Here is the link to the Healthy Habit Journal I mention in the episode. AMAZON Ready to join the Balanced, Fit & Free Society?? Check it out here: BFF Society Remember you get 50% off your first month as a loyal listener! Use Coupon Code: BFF50 Remember to rate, review, and subscribe to the podcast! Thank you! Join my FREE FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/balancedfitfreelife Instagram: @raeannemullins Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rae.a.mullins Website: www.raeannemullins.com
In this episode, a therapist and a certified coach delve into the intricacies of 12-step programs, focusing on Overeaters Anonymous (OA) and its newer counterpart, Food Addicts Anonymous (FA). They discuss the challenges and potential benefits of these programs for those struggling with food issues, citing personal experiences and client stories. Key topics include the principles of abstinence, the impact of restrictive eating, the role of sponsors, and the delicate balance between support and control. They also touch on the cultural and psychological implications of these programs, often questioning their long-term efficacy and potential for fostering restrictive eating d1sord3rs. For deeper insights, they reference previous episodes on related topics like "All In vs. All or Nothing Thinking" and "Can Cutting Out Some Foods Help My Eating?" Stefanie's Somatic Experiencing and Nervous System Regulation Course is enrolling now! Use code: LADLISTENS for a discount at checkout. This course is for beginners looking to gain a broader insight into the role of the nervous system in symptoms of stress, anxiety, erratic moods, body image distress, and food issues. Join our growing support community. This community is for you if you want a safe space to work through your daily struggles with food and body image. Community membership includes livestream episode recordings (online), monthly Zoom support meetings, a private Facebook group and member-only Q&A episodes. For more information go to: https://www.patreon.com/lifeafterdiets Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/lifeafterdietspodcast Email – hello@lifeafterdietspod.com Connect with Stefanie Michele, Recovery Coach, Somatic Therapist IT Stef's Binge Recovery Course -- www.iamstefaniemichele.com/iamstefaniemichelecourse Website – www.iamstefaniemichele.com Instagram – www.instagram.com/iamstefaniemichele Connect with Sarah Dosanjh, Author & Psychotherapist Website – www.thebingeeatingtherapist.com Instagram – www.instagram.com/the_binge_eating_therapist YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBingeEatingTherapist Sarah's book I Can't Stop Eating is available on Amazon If you find this episode helpful, you can subscribe to the Life After Diets podcast, leave us a review, and share your thoughts with us on Instagram and YouTube (@lifeafterdietspodcast). Your feedback helps us create content that matters to you.
Ask David With Special Guest Expert, Dr. Matthew May Daily Mood Log: Does it have to be done perfectly? Somatic Complaints: How does TEAM Help? Passive Aggression: What distortions cause it? Roger, from Australia, asks: Do daily mood logs still work if you complete them ‘imperfectly'? Roger also asks: Based on your clinical experience, what causes a reduction or complete elimination of in symptoms for people who present with somatic complaints or chronic pain? TOZ asks: Does passive aggressive behavior result from All-or-Nothing Thinking? The answers below were written prior to the show, based on correspondence with those who asked the questions. The live answers on the show will be different in many cases. 1, Roger, from Australia, asks: Do daily mood logs still work if you complete them ‘imperfectly'? 2. Roger also asks: Based on your clinical experience, what causes a reduction or complete elimination of symptoms for people who present with somatic complaints or chronic pain? Dear David, Sure, I would love to have my questions be on an Ask David! It would be okay for you to use my real name and my location as being in Australia for the podcast and show notes. I've reworded the questions so that they get across what I was actually trying to ask in my previous email. You might now have a slightly different response based on the new questions. I have to apologise as my wording in my previous email was confusing, even for me. Here's a shorter version of the first question: “Dear David, I've got a question about doing daily mood logs as part of my psychotherapy homework. I tend to start a lot of new daily mood logs where I write my negative emotions and thoughts, as well as do positive reframing, but then get stuck when it comes to doing methods for challenging my negative thoughts, as I get caught up on trying to do the exercise perfectly. I get worried that I won't see as much benefit from the exercise if I don't do the steps perfectly or in order. Did you see improvements in patients who filled out their daily mood logs imperfectly? Perhaps they may have skipped steps or maybe they couldn't crush their negative thoughts completely, but continued to move on to working with new thoughts and seeing if they could crush those.” An even shorter version of the question would be: “Do daily mood logs still work if you complete them ‘imperfectly'?” A shorter version of the question about somatic complaints and pain is: “I've also got a question on treating somatic symptoms and chronic pain. Some clinicians have seen people improve by doing journalling or expressive writing about life stressors such as past stressors, current stressors, and self-limiting behaviours or beliefs. Other activities which seem to be useful include writing unsent letters to people who've hurt you, or doing behavioural changes for self-limiting beliefs like learning how to designate free time for yourself if you have a tendency to take on too much or feel guilty about spending time relaxing and not doing work. I was wondering what you've seen in your clinical experience and what you've seen patients do which helps them reduce or eliminate their somatic symptoms and chronic pain?" An even shorter version of that question would be: “Based on your clinical experience, what causes a reduction or complete elimination of in symptoms for people who present with somatic complaints or chronic pain?" Regards, Roger He David's reply Thanks, these short versions are a big improvement. Here are the quick answers: The critical thing is to come up with one or more positive thoughts that are 100% true, and that reduce your belief in the negative thought. If you send a specific example, it would help. There are several rules about getting workable negative thoughts as well. Perfection is never possible in the universe of daily mood logs, but excellence certainly is. A change in belief in neg thoughts is the goal. In my experience, somatic complaints, such as undiagnosed pain, dizziness, fatigue, and more, are often created or magnified by (or the expression of) negative emotions, as well as hidden emotions / problems. The average reduction of pain, for example, will be 50% if there is a dramatic reduction in negative feelings, or if the patient identifies and tackles some unexpressed problem, like anger, or unexpressed grief, or loneliness when the kids go off to college, and so forth. An average of 50% means that some people will experience a complete elimination of the negative symptoms, like pain. Some will experience no improvement. And some will experience some improvement. With regard to how or why this works, I don't really know, and don't think that anyone knows. But it seems like negative feelings, like depression, anxiety, anger and so forth have a magnifying effect on negative feelings. On the podcast, I can give a personal example of when I was in the Stanford emergency room, screaming in pain from a broken jaw. I can also give an example of what happens to my low back pain when I am in an especially good mood and I am out jogging. Best, David 3. TOZ asks: Does passive aggressive behavior result from All-or-Nothing Thinking? Hi David, I thought my therapist will tell me once he gets to know me that I'm passive aggressive and therefore I do things particularly anxiety disease as all or nothing black or white. I was wondering for you not to answer my case but in general does passive aggressive attitudes or approaches result from all or nothing thinking? Thanks, Toz David's reply. Thanks, Toz. Great question! To find out, you would have to do what I have recommended for nearly 50 years. Write down your negative thought on a piece of paper (can you do that?) and identify the distortions in it, using my lit of ten cognitive distortions. Let me know if you've done this. Most people refuse to do it! Warmly, david Toz replies: So I did your exercise. My thoughts were: I'm crashing. Help I'm scared. I'm going to die. Help me laud. Help me laud. Distortions: predicting the future. Magnification How is that? I looked up. Saw that was fine. Felt better. Then I checked my pulse. Not too fast so okay. Toz. David's reply to Toz, That, Toz, is totally cool! Way to go! Could also add: Emotional Reasoning. You identified two super important distortions that are always present in fear, paranoia and anxiety. Cool, cool, cool! David's comment: This is why I ask for specific examples when people ask general questions. As you can see, Toz asked about passive aggression, but his specific example turned out to be all about something entirely different: anxiety and panic. He did a great job of testing his negative thoughts with the Experimental Technique. Warmly, Rhonda, Matt, and David
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