Podcasts about nothing thinking

In this episode, Michelle Segar explores why all-or-nothing thinking keeps you from exercising, and why the problem may not be a lack of motivation or willpower. Drawing on groundbreaking new research, she reveals how rigid exercise standards, perfectionism, and the belief that workouts only “count” if they're done a certain way often lead people to do nothing at all. Michelle also discusses the hidden psychology behind sustainable change, the power of flexibility at life's inevitable choice points, and why “a little bit of something is better than a lot of nothing” may be the most important mindset shift for long-term success. You'll gain a new understanding of the limitations of habit formation, the role of behavioral resilience, and how learning to adapt rather than start over can help us build a healthier and more meaningful life. Good Wolf Reminders… A little wisdom, right when you need it. Start receiving free text reminders designed to help you pause, reflect, and take meaningful action. Sign up at oneyoufeed.net/sms. Key Takeaways: Research on sustainable behavior change in physical activity and exercise. The impact of all-or-nothing thinking on exercise habits. The concept of “choice points” in decision-making regarding exercise. The influence of rigid standards and idealized criteria for exercise. The role of motivation and enjoyment in maintaining exercise routines. The prioritization of exercise compared to other daily responsibilities. The unconscious nature of rigid standards and avoidance behaviors. Societal messaging around exercise guidelines and its effects on motivation. Strategies for flexibility and resilience in exercise routines. The idea of a “movement menu” to encourage varied physical activity choices. For full show notes:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this conversation with Michelle Segar, check out these other episodes: Understanding Choice Points for Lasting Changes in Eating and Exercise with Michelle Segar Why Willpower Isn't Enough: The Tiny Habits Method Explained with Dr. BJ Fogg By purchasing products and/or services from our sponsors, you are helping to support The One You Feed, and we greatly appreciate it. Thank you! This episode is sponsored by: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Shopify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ – The commerce platform that helps you build, grow, and manage your business all in one place. Start your $1/month trial at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shopify.com/feed.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠David Protein⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ bars deliver up to 28g of protein for just 150 calories—without sacrificing taste! For a limited time, our listeners can receive this special deal: buy 4 cartons and get the 5th free when you go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.davidprotein.com/FEED⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Alma⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ has a directory of 20,000 therapists with different specialities, life experiences, and identities, and 99% of them take insurance. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠helloalma.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to learn more! ⁠⁠Talkiatry⁠⁠ connects you with licensed psychiatrists for personalized, evidence-based mental health care, all online and covered by most major insurance plans. To get matched with an in-network psychiatrist in just a few minutes, visit ⁠⁠Talkiatry.com/FEED.⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Tiny Health⁠⁠'s at-home gut health test provides science-backed insights into your microbiome, along with personalized recommendations to help you improve your digestion, energy, and overall well-being. Get $50 off your first test kit at⁠⁠ tinyhealth.com/FEED⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Brodo Broth⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: Shop the best broth on the planet with Brodo.  Head to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Brodo.com/TOYF⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for 20% off your first subscription order and use code TOYF for an additional $10 off. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Quince:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Refresh your wardrobe with Quince by going to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Quince.com/feed⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for free shipping and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada, too. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Rocket Money⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Let Rocket Money help you reach your financial goals faster. Join at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠rocketmoney.com/feed⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you've ever caught yourself thinking, "If I can't do it perfectly, why even bother?" — this one's for you, friend. Welcome to the very first episode of a brand-new summer series, where I'm sharing shorter, more unfiltered, off-the-cuff thoughts on the mindset of success — the gaps I'm watching come up again and again for the overachieving women I coach every single week. We're kicking it off with the barrier I see derail more smart women than almost any other, especially this time of year: all-or-nothing thinking. It's the pattern that quietly convinces you to take your foot all the way off the gas the moment your calendar isn't perfect. And here's the part most overachievers never calculate — it's costing you the wins you could be having right now. In this episode, I'll walk you through where this pattern actually comes from, why it feels so convincing, and the one question that can change everything (without requiring A++ effort).   Resources:  Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.burnstressloseweight.com/224 Join my email list: http://burnstressloseweight.com/email

Am I making a difference? Am I fulfilling my purpose? Am I doing the right things? Will this work ever end? If you've asked yourself these questions, you may be experiencing purpose fatigue—the exhaustion that comes from carrying responsibility, striving to make an impact, and wondering if your efforts are enough. You're not alone. Even the prophet Elijah wrestled with burnout, overwhelm, and discouragement. This is Episode 2 of "Taking Care of Mind, Body & Spirit," a five-part series exploring modern wellness challenges through the wisdom of Scripture. Drawing from 1 Kings 19:1-4, 9-14, Rev. Trudy D. Robinson and Sheilah Cameron, LMFT, explore Elijah's experience of burnout and what it can teach us about purpose, rest, and resilience today. Whether you're struggling to find joy in your work, questioning your impact, feeling emotionally exhausted, or sensing that something is off in your calling, this conversation offers practical and spiritual insight. In this episode, we discuss: Why purpose fatigue and burnout happen Warning signs of purpose fatigue, including catastrophizing, all-or-nothing thinking, loss of joy, and struggles with control Practical ways to prevent burnout through self-care, healthy boundaries, and work management strategies The role of gratitude in sustaining hope during difficult seasons How to recognize when your calling or season of service may be shifting About the Series For five weeks, the female pastors of First United Methodist Church of San Diego and Sheilah Cameron, Director of New Life Counseling Center, explore what it means to care for mind, body, and spirit. Together, they discuss information overload, purpose fatigue, mental health, grief, identity, and other challenges through the lens of biblical wisdom and the lives of the prophets. Reflection Questions: What is your purpose and when do you get fatigued in fulfilling it? How do you create boundaries between caring for “your purpose” and caring for yourself? Do you know what it is like to not be able to see the good for being overwhelmed by the bad? Join the Conversation: Whether you're a lifelong Christian, exploring progressive Christianity, deconstructing faith, or simply seeking a deeper spiritual foundation, we invite you to reflect alongside us: Convergence discussion group on Sundays at 12 PM Online Patreon community to connect with other listeners Timestamps: 00:00:00 Introduction to Purpose Fatigue 00:01:02 Prophet Elijah’s Burnout – 1 Kings Chapter 19 00:04:30 Compassion Fatigue, Purpose Fatigue, and Burnout 00:08:27 Can We Ever Do Enough? Catastrophizing & All-or-Nothing Thinking 00:11:11 Caring Too Much vs. Not Caring Enough 00:12:39 God's Response to Elijah — When a Calling Changes 00:14:04 Preventing Purpose Fatigue & Burnout Recovery 00:17:45 What to Do When You’ve Hit the Wall 00:21:24 Gratitude Practice & Finding Joy Again 00:24:15 Closing Reflections & Discussion Questions Topics: Purpose fatigue, compassion fatigue, burnout recovery, Christian mental health, self-care, gratitude, stress management, emotional wellness, healthy boundaries, spiritual growth, biblical wisdom, Elijah, 1 Kings 19, Christian wellness, resilience, calling, vocation, and rest

In this solo episode, I'm diving into one of the most pervasive and underappreciated cognitive patterns I see across ROGD families: black-and-white thinking. It's the tendency to categorize everything in terms of two mutually exclusive extremes — all or nothing, perfect or ruined, success or failure — with no middle ground.I explain how this pattern is a normal feature of adolescent brain development, but becomes significantly amplified in kids with ADHD, autism, OCD, or anxiety — conditions that are highly comorbid with gender identity distress. I walk through real-world examples of how this thinking shows up in everyday family life, from refusing to go on a trip because homework isn't finished, to concluding that body discomfort during puberty means something is fundamentally wrong and must be medically corrected.I also explore how excessive screen use creates a vicious feedback cycle that stunts emotional intelligence and body awareness, leaving teenagers even more stuck in binary thinking. From there, I offer practical tools for parents: thinking out loud to model nuanced reasoning, scaffolding executive functioning through backward planning, and using "parts language" to help teens recognize and hold contradictory feelings simultaneously. I close by connecting all of it back to the gender question — because the same cognitive skill that helps a teen tolerate ambiguity in one area is the skill that can eventually let them hold space for uncertainty about their own identity.This solo episode doubles as a bonus lesson in ROGD Repair. Where this lesson is found in the course, it comes with a companion article, summary, and questions for reflection to help you personalize the material. Get this and 120+ more lessons on parenting gender-confused youth at ROGDrepair.com and use code SOMETHERAPIST2026 to take half off your first month.[00:00:00] Start[00:00:45] What Is Black-and-White Thinking?[00:01:45] Amplified in Neurodivergent and ROGD Kids[00:03:00] Body Discomfort Filtered Through All-or-Nothing Thinking[00:03:30] How Screens Make It Worse[00:06:30] Why Parents Must Restructure Screen Access[00:08:00] Modeling Nuance: Thinking Out Loud[00:11:00] Using Parts Language with Your Teen[00:12:30] How This Pattern Drives Gender Identity Conclusions[00:14:00] Building Tolerance for Ambiguity Over TimeROGD REPAIR Course + Community gives concerned parents instant access to over 120 lessons providing the psychological insights and communication tools you need to get through to your kid. Now featuring 24/7 personalized AI support implementing the tools with RepairBot! Use code SOMETHERAPIST2026 to take 50% off your first month.PODCOURSES: use code SOMETHERAPIST at LisaMustard.com/PodCoursesPRODUCTION: Looking for your own podcast producer? Visit PodsByNick.com and mention my podcast for 20% off your initial services.MUSIC: Thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude & permission. ALL OTHER LINKS HERE. To support this show, please leave a rating & review on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribe, like, comment & share via my YouTube channel. Or recommend this to a friend!Learn more about Do No Harm.Take $200 off your EightSleep Pod Pro Cover with code SOMETHERAPIST at EightSleep.com.Take 20% off all superfood beverages with code SOMETHERAPIST at Organifi.Check out my shop for book recommendations + wellness products.Show notes & transcript provided with the help of SwellAI.Special thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our theme song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude and permission.Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care (our medical ethics documentary, formerly known as Affirmation Generation). Stream the film or purchase a DVD. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. Follow us on X @2022affirmation or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration.Have a question for me? Looking to go deeper and discuss these ideas with other listeners? Join my Locals community! Members get to ask questions I will respond to in exclusive, members-only livestreams, post questions for upcoming guests to answer, plus other perks TBD. ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

“I've got to do this right. I should know how to do it by now.”When it comes to changing any habit all or nothing thinking shows up as striving for nothing less than perfection or throwing in the towel and saying you'll never change.In this episode, I explain how to spot all or nothing thinking, why it doesn't work and what to use instead.If this resonates, I can help you break the pattern and create lasting change. Book a free consultation call with me here: https://tidycal.com/90dayslater/consult

Perfectionism is loud. Invisible labor is constant. And focus can feel impossible when you're carrying it all. In this episode, I'm sitting down with Monica Packer—host of About Progress, certified habits and identity coach, and author of the upcoming book Sticky Habits—to talk about what it really looks like to build habits that support women's lives instead of working against them. Monica shares her own journey from overachieving perfectionist to burnout, depression, and eventually discovering a more sustainable model for growth: progress over perfection. We dive into: why traditional habit advice often doesn't work for women how invisible labor impacts focus, consistency, and energy the connection between perfectionism and all-or-nothing thinking why flexibility—not rigidity—is the key to sustainable habits how “baseline habits” help you stay consistent even on hard days the difference between habits and routines and why habits should support you instead of controlling you One of my favorite parts of this conversation is Monica's redefinition of consistency: doing your best most of the time over time—and letting your best change. This episode is thoughtful, practical, validating, and honestly? A huge exhale for anyone who's tired of feeling like they're failing at habits that were never designed for real life in the first place. Connect with Monica: Podcast: About Progress — https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/about-progress/id1173416233 Website: https://www.aboutprogress.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aboutprogress/ Connect with me: Email: support@plangoalplan.com Facebook Group: Join Here Website: PlanGoalPlan.com LinkedIn: (I post most here!) www.linkedin.com/in/danielle-mcgeough-phd-

An interview with Dr. Michelle Segar, Behavioral Scientist and Health Coach.And then what happens is that when people don't do their full plan and they choose not to do the something instead of nothing, they feel like failures, and oftentimes it only takes one miss to go, Ah, I'm done. I'm just, I'm not athletic enough, I'm not disciplined enough. And it absolutely derails the whole, the whole plan and routine. And that's the opposite of what we need to create a more physically active society.Dr. Michelle SegarDefining all-or-nothing thinkingPrevalence of all-or-nothing thinking in the fitness industryPublic health impact of all-or-nothing thinkingRigid criteria as the foundation of all-or-nothing thinkingReal-world impact of all-or-nothing thinkingTargeting “unsuccessful intenders”Explaining Quitter's Day https://www.movetolivemore.com/https://www.movetolivemore.com/bookhttps://www.linkedin.com/company/move-to-live-more@MovetoLiveMore

Have you ever had a really intense reaction to something... And then, once the emotion came down, looked back at the situation and thought: why did that feel so overwhelming? Why did I react the way I did? Because the situation itself didn't actually match the reaction you had. Here's what I want you to understand: most of us experience emotional distress not because of what's happening around us. We experience it because our thinking becomes extreme, rigid and fixed.  And when that happens, our perception actually narrows. Think of it like this. Imagine walking down the street and being able to see everything in front of you, the full, wide picture. You can see what's coming and you can respond to what's actually there. Now imagine that view narrowing to almost nothing. That's what happens to an untrained mind under stress. The ability you have to see the nuances of the situation disappear. The range of seeing all sides disappears. And you're left with the most extreme version of whatever you're looking at. All good or all bad. Success or failure. Always or never. This is what we call all-or-nothing thinking, and it's one of the most common patterns we work with inside the Cognitive Freedom Method™. In this episode, I walk you through: Why emotional distress rarely comes from external events, and where it actually originates The most common all-or-nothing patterns (and the specific words that signal you're in one) Why extreme thinking intensifies your emotional reactions and makes situations feel more threatening than they are What the "cognitive narrowing effect" is and how to recognize it in yourself What cognitive flexibility actually means and why it's a skill you can train __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Dr. Shyamala Kiru is a former psychotherapist of 20 years and the founder of Kiru Psychotherapy Clinic and the Cognitive Freedom Method™. Through her work in leadership development, practitioner training, and clinical practice (now retired), she teaches a structured framework for understanding and transforming the cognitive patterns that shape how we think, lead, and relate.

I don’t know about you, but sometimes I catch myself making life harder than it needs to be, and I don’t even realize I’m doing it. In this episode, I walk through some very real, everyday habits that quietly add stress, overwhelm, and heaviness to our lives. The good news? We can change them. I’ll show you simple, practical shifts, grounded in truth, that help you move from overthinking to trusting, from striving to peace. If you’re feeling tired, stuck, or stretched thin, this conversation will help you breathe a little easier and take your next step forward. And remember, I'd love to connect more on Instagram, where you'll find me at @donnaajones. And don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss a single episode! Xo, Donna Key Takeaways 00:00:12 – Podcast Purpose: Encouragement for Everyday Faith 00:02:50 – Stop Overthinking and Start Trusting God 00:04:22 – Don’t Wait: Obedience Builds Confidence 00:06:40 – Comparison Is a Distraction from Your Calling 00:19:02 – Making Time for God Changes Everything What We Talk About The hidden habits that quietly make life harder Why overthinking feels productive but isn’t The difference between waiting and obeying How avoiding conversations creates mental clutter Why comparison is more harmful than we think The cost of people-pleasing and overcommitting Letting go of control and embracing trust The importance of basic rhythms like sleep and rest Why asking for help is a strength, not a weakness How time with God changes everything Signature Teaching / Framework 11 Ways We Make Life Harder (and the Better Way Forward) Overthinking → Trust Waiting → Obeying Avoiding → Speaking Truth in Love Comparing → Staying Focused Saying Yes → Setting Boundaries Controlling → Releasing Ignoring Basics → Caring for Yourself Taking Things Personally → Extending Grace All-or-Nothing Thinking → Taking Imperfect Action Seeking Validation → Standing Secure Not Slowing Down / Not Asking for Help Not Spending Time with God → Living Connected Donna’s Resources: Order a copy of my latest book - Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life: A Biblical Guide to Communicating Thoughts, Feelings, and Opinions with Grace, Truth, and Zero Regret. It is available anywhere books are sold– here is the link on Amazon. If you need a helpful resource for someone exploring faith and Christianity or simply want to strengthen your own knowledge, you’ll want a copy of my book, Seek: A Woman’s Guide to Meeting God. It’s a must for seekers, new believers, and those who want to deepen their confidence in their faith. Let’s Connect: Instagram: @donnaajones Website: www.donnajones.org Donna’s speaking schedule: https://donnajones.org/events/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

The women I work with who stick with healthy eating long term don't do it perfectly—they've let go of all-or-nothing thinking and learned a more sustainable way to approach food.In this episode, I explore the common pattern that keeps many women stuck in cycles of starting over and why trying to eat “perfectly” often backfires.I also introduce a more supportive and realistic approach—one that focuses on staying connected to your eating experience rather than following rigid rules.A key part of this approach is understanding that mindful eating happens in degrees. Awareness doesn't have to be there from the beginning. It can occur before, during, or even after eating—and it still counts.This shift removes pressure, builds self-trust, and helps you move from starting over… to staying consistent.If you're ready to develop healthier eating habits that last, this episode will show you how.

As the seasons change, many of us feel a surge of energy, motivation, and excitement. But that same "spring fever" can also bring restlessness, impulsive decisions, and frustration—especially when it comes to our bodies, our habits, and our weight loss goals. In this episode of Love Yourself Thin, Dara explores how the natural shift from winter to spring affects our mindset, our energy, and our relationship with food. Instead of falling into the familiar cycle of all-or-nothing thinking, Dara shares how you can use this seasonal transition to create real, sustainable change—without dieting, overthinking, or criticizing yourself. You'll learn why simply trying harder doesn't solve emotional eating, how childhood patterns still influence your behavior today, and how to build self-trust so you can finally feel peaceful around food. Spring is a season of new growth—and it can be an invitation for your own personal growth too.   In This Episode, You'll Learn: What "spring fever" really is and how it affects motivation and eating habits Why trying harder isn't the solution to emotional eating The problem with all-or-nothing thinking when it comes to weight loss How to recognize "buffering" behaviors like distraction, scrolling, or unnecessary tasks Why your childhood experiences shape your habits as an adult How learning to feel your emotions instead of avoiding them reduces overeating A simple 3-step process to break unhelpful patterns and create lasting change   Featured Event: Quilter's Life Summit Dara also shares details about the upcoming Quilter's Life Summit, a free 3-day event happening April 21–23. You'll learn how to: Finish more creative projects Stop procrastinating Let go of perfectionism Enjoy the creative process without pressure The summit includes incredible instructors and opportunities to connect with other creatives in a supportive environment. Registrations open April 7! Connect With Dara If this episode resonated with you, make sure to subscribe so you never miss a new episode of Love Yourself Thin, where Dara teaches women how to transform their relationship with food, weight, and themselves. If you're ready to quit the yo-yo diets and find a weight loss protocol that works, book a call with Dara to find out if her program is right for you -  https://dara-tomasson-coaching.mykajabi.com/contact Follow Dara on Instagram for more weight loss tips and tricks! @dara_tomasson

Send a textIf you've ever told yourself "I'll start fresh Monday" after one off day — this episode is going to change the way you see yourself.Today we're diving deep into the brain science behind all-or-nothing thinking, and why so many high-achieving women struggle to build consistent habits — not because they lack discipline, but because their biology is working against them.If you're a busy woman, mom, or professional who feels like you're either fully on or completely off with your health — with your workouts, your nutrition, your routines — this one is for you. We're breaking down exactly what's happening in your brain when the all-or-nothing cycle kicks in, and giving you four evidence-based tools to finally break it.IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL LEARN:→ Why perfectionism and all-or-nothing thinking are neurological patterns, not character flaws→ What stress does to your prefrontal cortex (and why your "logical brain" goes offline on hard days)→ The real reason dopamine drives you to quit — and how to flip it→ How identity-based habits create more consistency than willpower ever will→ The minimum effective dose approach: why doing less, more consistently, beats doing everything perfectly→ A 2-breath nervous system reset you can use the moment the spiral starts→ Why women in perimenopause and menopause face unique neurological challenges — and what to do about itRESEARCH REFERENCED IN THIS EPISODE:· Dr. Amy Arnsten (Yale) — stress and prefrontal cortex function· Dr. Andrew Huberman — dopamine, motivation, and the physiological sigh· James Clear — Atomic Habits, "never miss twice," and identity-based habits· Peter Gollwitzer — implementation intentions· Carol Dweck — fixed vs. growth mindset· Brené Brown — shame, resilience, and behavior change· Dr. Stephen Porges — polyvagal theory and nervous system regulation· Deci & Ryan — self-determination theoryEPISODE TIMESTAMPS:[00:00] Cold open — does the Monday restart sound familiar?[02:30] Why this keeps happening (and why it's not your fault)[07:00] The neuroscience: your prefrontal cortex vs. your amygdala[13:00] Dopamine, shame, and how quitting becomes a reward loop[18:00] Tool 1: Redefine what "counts" — the minimum effective dose[21:30] Tool 2: Build an identity, not just a goal[25:00] Tool 3: If-then planning (implementation intentions)[28:30] Tool 4: Regulate your nervous system first[33:00] What life looks like on the other side[35:00] How to take the next stepREADY TO TAKE THIS FURTHER?If you're done white-knuckling restarts and want a personalized, science-backed plan that works with your real life and your hormones — apply for Fit and Fueled, my signature coaching program for women who are ready to go all in on themselves (without the all-or-nothing):→ thestrongherway.com/fitandfueledNot quite ready for coaching? Come hang out with us in our free community — connection, resources, and zero pressure:→ Join The Strong(HER) Way SisterhoodCONNECT + SHARE:If this episode helped you, share it with a friend who needs to hear it. A quick review on Apple Podcasts helps more women find this show — and it genuinely means the world.

Send a textHave you ever had a “Magic Monday” where you're fully committed to getting your life together… only to feel like you've blown it by Tuesday afternoon?If so, you're not alone—and you're definitely not lazy.In this episode, we're unpacking all-or-nothing thinking and how perfectionism can quietly fuel burnout, especially for women navigating the demands of midlife. I share why our brains default to extremes, how self-judgment keeps us stuck, and practical ways to shift toward a more sustainable “middle way.”Instead of swinging between all and nothing, you'll learn how small, consistent actions can help you rebuild self-trust and momentum.In This Episode, We Cover:What all-or-nothing thinking is and how to recognize itWhy this pattern often intensifies in our 40s and 50sThe connection between perfectionism, shame, and burnoutWhy showing up at 60% consistently beats 100% occasionallyHow to use a “low power mode” approach to stay consistent even on hard daysWhy small habits are the key to lasting changeShare Your WinIf this episode resonated with you, I'd love to hear from you! Come share your “level two win” with me:Instagram: @k.a.rivard Facebook: @KortneyRivardWellnessCoaching Website: kortneyrivard.comResourcesEpisode 117: Do it Scared: Lessons Learned from Climbing Half Dome** Work with Me: The Wellness Wakeup **For just $99, you get a 60-minute lifestyle audit session where we find the "trouble spots" that are keeping you from living the you want. We'll come up with a short-term action plan reaching your goals and getting consistent with habits is a no-brainer.  Click HERE for more info. Support the showWant more?For more information about the podcast, visit www.realbraveunstoppable.com. To learn more about your host, Kortney Rivard, visit www.kortneyrivard.comFollow Kortney on Social media:InstagramFacebook

Send a textHi everyone, Today we take a dive into all or nothing thinking. Join us to find out more about what all or nothing thinking is about, and more importantly cool ways to help you put those things out of your mind and your life, starting today.

“Honesty doesn't have to be brutal. Honesty can be compassionate. Honesty can be respectful.” -Dr. Cory NewmanEpisode OverviewIn this episode, host Dr. Jennifer Reid sits down with Dr. Cory Newman, PhD to explore how the core principles of cognitive behavioral therapy can be woven into our everyday communication with partners, friends, family, coworkers, and even ourselves. What begins as a conversation about therapy technique quickly becomes a practical guide to navigating disagreements, setting boundaries, and showing up more compassionately in all our relationships.Throughout the conversation, Dr. Reid draws connections to her book Guilt Free: Reclaiming Your Life from Unreasonable Expectations (Penguin Life, 2026), which examines how guilt—particularly for women—shapes our communication patterns, our willingness to set boundaries, and our capacity for self-compassion.15 Key Takeaways (Dr. Newman had so many life-changing recommendations, we wanted to make sure you could read about them even if you didn't have time to listen!)1. The Three Pillars of CBTDr. Newman describes CBT as resting on three foundational principles: * A supportive therapeutic alliance* A deep understanding of the patient's lived experience (including cultural and sociological factors)* The development of practical coping skills. These skills promote agency and problem-solving rather than hopelessness and helplessness.CBT Connection: The cognitive behavioral model emphasizes that thoughts, behaviors, and emotions are interconnected. By shifting how we think and what we do, we can change how we feel (Beck, 1979).2. Communication Is Both Internal and ExternalWe tend to think of communication as what we say to others, but Dr. Newman emphasizes that internal dialogue matters just as much. CBT helps people talk to themselves more compassionately, constructively, and hopefully. That same skill then translates outward into better interpersonal communication.He also distinguishes between expressive communication (how we speak) and receptive communication (how we listen), both of which are essential to healthy relationships.Guilt Free Connection: In Guilt Free, Dr. Reid explores how harsh internal dialogue, especially the relentless voice of “I should be doing more,” fuels excessive guilt. Learning to communicate with yourself compassionately is the first step toward breaking free from unreasonable expectations.3. Start with IntentEvery meaningful conversation benefits from a clear, positive intent: to boost morale, to connect, to offer something useful, to communicate understanding. Dr. Newman suggests that even outside of therapy, we can adopt the mindset that our goal in any interaction is to leave the other person, and the relationship, in a better state than when we started.CBT Connection: Intentional communication is a behavioral intervention. By deliberately choosing our communicative goals before speaking, we interrupt automatic patterns that often lead to conflict (Beck, 1995).4. Validity + Utility: The Two-Part Test for What We SayDr. Newman introduces a powerful filter: before speaking, ask whether your comment has both validity (is it truthful?) and utility (is it useful?). Truth alone can be harsh. He pushes back on the idea of “brutal honesty.”Guilt Free Connection: The validity-utility framework directly parallels the guilt equation in Guilt Free, where guilt = our expectations (whether fair or not) minus our perceived reality. Often, guilt-driven communication passes the validity test but fails the utility test. For example, we may say things out of obligation that don't help ourselves or others.5. Intent vs. Impact: Naming the MismatchSometimes people don't mean to cause harm, but their words land that way. Dr. Newman recommends naming the gap directly: “I don't think you're trying to put me down, but the message you're sending sounds like a put-down.” This approach acknowledges the other person's good faith while still making room for your experience.CBT Connection: Distinguishing between intent and impact is central to cognitive restructuring. Cognitive distortions like mind-reading and personalization often cause us to assume malicious intent where there is none (Burns, 1980).6. Seek to Understand Before Problem-SolvingWhen someone is in distress, the instinct is often to jump straight to fixing. Dr. Newman advises leading with empathy instead: “If I were thinking the way you're describing, I'd be a nervous wreck too.” Validate first, then gently offer alternative perspectives. Problem-solving is more effective once the person feels heard.Guilt Free Connection: Dr. Reid describes a pattern she sees frequently, which is people, especially women, catastrophizing about situations and layering guilt on top. The compassionate validation Dr. Newman describes is exactly the antidote: honor the feeling, question the expectation.7. Turn Complaints into RequestsAlmost any complaint can be reframed as a request, and requests are far easier to hear. Instead of “You never reply to my voicemail messages,” try: “I'd really appreciate hearing from you, even briefly. It's hard for me when I don't hear from you.”CBT Connection: This reframing technique is a classic behavioral strategy in CBT. Converting complaints into constructive requests shifts the dynamic from blame to collaboration (Gottman & Silver, 1999).Guilt Free Connection: Dr. Reid explores how maladaptive guilt can be manipulative, such as when guilt-tripping replaces genuine requests, and relationships can suffer. Assertive communication (making requests without guilting) is key to breaking that cycle.8. Silence Fills Vacuums with AssumptionsWhen we avoid communication to spare someone's feelings—say, not RSVPing to avoid disappointing a friend—we leave a vacuum that the other person fills with their own assumptions, which are usually worse than reality. Dr. Newman advises speaking the reality, even when it's uncomfortable, because silence invites personalization and catastrophizing.Guilt Free Connection: In Guilt Free, Dr. Reid identifies avoidance as a common guilt-driven behavior: we don't say no because we don't want to disappoint, but the silence itself creates a bigger problem. Communicating honestly, even imperfectly, is almost always better than disappearing.9. Beware All-or-Nothing Thinking in CommunicationDr. Newman applies one of CBT's most foundational concepts, challenging black-and-white thinking, to our communication habits. You don't have to choose between long silences and a 90-minute heart-to-heart. A quick text saying “Thinking of you” is a powerful middle ground. He calls these “random acts of kindness through text,” which are small gestures that send a meta-message of care.CBT Connection: All-or-nothing thinking is one of the most common cognitive distortions identified in CBT. Recognizing and challenging it opens up a range of behavioral options we might not have considered (Beck, 1976).10. Match the Medium to the MessageText messaging is ideal for quick logistics and small kindnesses, but it strips away tone of voice and body language. Dr. Newman shares a vivid example of a patient whose text “I don't care” (meaning “I don't mind”) sparked a major argument with his girlfriend. For emotional or complicated conversations, choose a medium with more cues, such as phone, video, or in person.His rule of thumb: The more emotional and the more complicated the topic, the more cues are needed.11. The Gottman 20-Minute RuleDrawing on research by John and Julie Gottman, Dr. Newman describes how physiological arousal (elevated heart rate, fight-or-flight activation) makes productive conversation impossible. The Gottmans recommend taking a break during heated arguments and not resuming until at least 20 minutes after your heart rate returns to baseline.Dr. Newman applies this to everyday life: if you receive a message that makes you angry, wait until you've calmed down before responding. Otherwise, frustration will leak through even your most careful words.CBT Connection: Self-monitoring of physiological arousal is a core CBT skill. The Gottman research demonstrates that behavioral interventions (taking a break) must precede cognitive interventions (discussing the issue) when the body is in a threat state.12. Resolve to Resolve—Not to WinDr. Newman highlights one of the most destructive communication patterns: trying to win an argument rather than resolve it. He references the devastating scene in the film Marriage Story where two characters escalate insults in an attempt to out-hurt each other. When the goal shifts from understanding to victory, everyone loses.CBT Connection: The belief “I must convince the other person I'm right” is a cognitive distortion that fuels conflict. CBT teaches that making your point respectfully is already a success. Change in the other person may come later, or not at all, and that's okay (Newman, 2014).13. Never Go to Bed Angry? Not So Fast.Both Dr. Reid and Dr. Newman agree that while the spirit of this advice is sound (don't harbor resentment) the literal application can be harmful. Insisting on resolving a conflict when one partner is exhausted is destructive. The person who needs to sleep should be honored. The meta-message is: don't stonewall, but do respect each other's limits. Use a placeholder: “I want to talk this through, but right now I can't yet.”Guilt Free Connection: This scenario is a guilt trap in action. The pressure to resolve everything immediately often comes from guilt (“A good partner wouldn't go to bed angry”). Dr. Reid's framework encourages questioning whether that expectation is fair and giving yourself permission to rest.14. Setting Boundaries Without GuiltWhen repeated attempts at respectful communication are met with resistance, such as the same pressure, the same guilt trips, it's appropriate to set a firm boundary. Dr. Newman advises doing so with care: “I'd like to talk to you, but not under these conditions. When you can show some respect for what I've said, let me know.” You can walk away from that interaction knowing you handled it with integrity.Guilt Free Connection: Dr. Reid identifies “hyper-accountability,”the belief that we can and should control other people's emotional experience, as a major driver of excessive guilt, especially for women. Letting go of the need to make everyone feel okay is essential to healthy boundary-setting.15. Say the Positive Things Out LoudDr. Newman closes with a deceptively simple but powerful reminder: don't keep positive thoughts to yourself. If you have a compliment, give it. If you feel affection, express it. And one of his favorite tips: talk positively about people behind their back. It often gets back to them and can shift the entire tone of your relationships.CBT Connection: Behavioral activation, which involves increasing positive interactions and reinforcement, is a foundational CBT technique for improving mood and strengthening relationships (Lewinsohn, 1974).Thanks for reading A Mind of Her Own! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work.About the GuestDr. Cory Newman, PhD is a professor of psychology in psychiatry and director of the Center for Cognitive Therapy at the University of Pennsylvania. He is also honorary faculty at the Beck Institute for Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, where he completed his postdoctoral training under the mentorship of Dr. Aaron Beck, a founding father of CBT. A founding fellow of the Academy of Cognitive Therapy, Dr. Newman has presented approximately 300 CBT workshops and seminars internationally and published over 100 articles and chapters. He is the author or co-author of six books. Fun connection: Dr. Newman is a highly accomplished pianist and has accompanied Dr. Reid for several of her vocal performances.References & Further ReadingCBT Foundations1. Beck, A. T. (1976). Cognitive Therapy and the Emotional Disorders. International Universities Press.2. Beck, J. S. (1995). Cognitive Behavior Therapy: Basics and Beyond. Guilford Press.3. Burns, D. D. (1980). Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy. William Morrow.Communication & Relationships4. Gottman, J. M. & Silver, N. (1999). The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. Crown.From the Guest6. Newman, C. F. (2014). Core Competencies in Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy. Routledge.From the Host7. Reid, J. (2026). Guilt Free: Reclaiming Your Life from Unreasonable Expectations. Penguin Life.(*Notes created from transcript with assistance from Claude AI and edited by author for clarity and accuracy.)A Mind of Her OwnHosted by Dr. Jennifer Reid, MDBoard-certified psychiatrist, author, and award-winning medical educatorjenniferreidmd.com | A Mind of Her Own on Substack@jenreidmd on Instagram and LinkedIn Also check out Dr. Reid's regular contributions to Psychology Today: Think Like a ShrinkSeeking a mental health provider? Try Psychology TodayNational Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255Dial 988 for mental health crisis supportSAMHSA's National Helpline - 1-800-662-HELP (4357)-a free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders.Disclaimer:The views expressed on this podcast reflect those of the host and guests, and are not associated with any organization or academic site. 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This episode is brought to you by Strong Coffee Company, Supp Co, and WHOOP. In this episode of Ever Forward Radio, psychologist and addiction expert Dr. Adi Jaffe reframes addiction, compulsive behavior, and self-sabotage as intelligent coping strategies rather than personal failures. He explains why labeling people as "addicts" creates shame and traps identity, how early childhood and even preverbal experiences shape adult behavior, and why most habits don't change through awareness alone. Dr. Jaffe introduces his SPARROW Behavioral Loop—stimulus, perception, activation, response, outcome—to show how emotions and bodily sensations, not events themselves, drive behavior. Together, they explore identity, responsibility without blame, growth mindset, emotional regulation, stoicism, belief systems, and why sustainable change comes from reshaping perception and nervous system responses rather than fighting behaviors directly. This conversation offers a compassionate, practical framework for breaking patterns and moving forward—without shame. Follow Adi @dradijaffe Follow Chase @chase_chewning ----- 00:00 – Addiction Is Not Your Identity 02:00 – Why Calling Someone an "Addict" Causes Harm 05:10 – The Thing Is Never the Thing 07:30 – Coping Starts Earlier Than You Remember 10:00 – Attachment, Safety, and Early Nervous System Wiring 14:45 – Resilience vs. Disconnection 17:20 – It's Not Your Fault, But It Is Your Responsibility 19:50 – The Sphere of Control Framework 23:30 – Perception Shapes Reality 25:45 – Introducing the SPARROW Behavioral Loop 29:15 – Why Awareness Alone Doesn't Change Behavior 33:00 – Emotional Menus & Coping Patterns 35:20 – Changing Beliefs to Reduce Triggers 38:40 – Stoicism, Detachment & Emotional Regulation 41:30 – Identity Change Without All-or-Nothing Thinking 44:50 – Becoming Someone Who Can Change 48:05 – Choosing Your Hard 49:30 – How to Know You're on the Right Path ----- Episode resources: 15% off organic coffee and lattes with code CHASE at https://www.StrongCoffeeCompany.com FREE supplement companion app at https://www.Supp.Co/everforward  $30 off physical activity tracker 5.0 at https://www.Join.WHOOP.com/everforward Watch and subscribe on YouTube Learn more at AdiJaffe.com

All-or-nothing thinking is one of the most common — and most damaging — thought patterns I see in autism parenting.If today is hard, it suddenly feels like everything is hard. If your child is struggling, it feels impossible for you to beokay.And over time, hope, joy, and motivation quietly slip away.In this episode, we're diving deep into how all-or-nothing thinking shows up when you're raising an autistic child — not because you're negative or doing something wrong, but because your body has learned to live on high alert.When unpredictability becomes your norm, your nervoussystem adapts. And when the body doesn't feel safe, connection, flexibility, and perspective shut down.In this episode, I share:• Real examples of what all-or-nothing thinking looks like in daily autism parenting• Why this isn't a mindset failure — it's a nervous system response• How chronic stress keeps moms stuck in survival mode• Coaching strategies I use to help moms move out of misery without pretending life is easy• The reframe that changes everything: “Your body didn't break. It adapted.”We are not downplaying how hard this journey is —because it is hard.But you do have a choice not to live your life in misery.I'll also share why I created the RESET Coaching Workshop and how it helps moms regulate their nervous system, extreme thinking, and reconnect with themselves again — without guilt or pressure.

SummaryIn this episode, Chase and Chris talk all about the all-or-nothing mindset—that feeling like if things don't go perfectly, you might as well give up. Sound familiar? You're not alone!They walk through simple and real ways to stop thinking this way and show you how to keep moving forward, even when things don't go exactly as planned. From giving yourself permission to enjoy foods you love, to learning how to reset during the day instead of waiting for Monday, this episode is packed with helpful tips to make progress feel possible again.Whether it's getting back on track after nachos or setting smaller goals that you can hit, you'll walk away feeling more in control and less stressed about being perfect.Chapters(00:00) Intro: The All-or-Nothing Trap(00:52) You're Not Really an All-or-Nothing Person(01:36) How Language Shapes Your Identity(02:40) Why Mindset and Affirmations Matter(03:45) Getting Back on Track After “Going Off Plan”(05:23) Giving Yourself Permission Without Guilt(06:11) Real Coaching Example: Planning for a Meal Out(07:56) Lower the Bar Instead of Quitting(10:09) Start Small: Commit to Just 5 Minutes(13:31) Make It Enjoyable and Stack Habits(13:35) Track Your Food, Even If It's “Messy”(15:07) Using Data Without Guilt(16:59) End the Day with One Good Choice(18:33) Build Trust by Finishing Strong(19:49) Don't Rely on Willpower—Change Your Environment(21:14) Out of Sight, Out of Mind: Real-Life Solutions(24:26) The “Grocery Store Storage Unit” Analogy(24:51) Focus on One Meal or One Day at a Time(26:37) Break the Day Into Thirds(28:04) Stop Negotiating with Yourself(29:21) Plan for Imperfections (and Make Room for the Cookie)(30:14) How Past Dieting Promotes All-or-Nothing Thinking(31:25) Wrapping It Up: You're Already More Consistent Than You ThinkSUBMIT YOUR QUESTIONS to be answered on the show: https://forms.gle/B6bpTBDYnDcbUkeD7How to Connect with Us:Chase's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/changing_chase/Chris' Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/conquer_fitness2021/Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/665770984678334/Interested in 1:1 Coaching: https://conquerfitnessandnutrition.com/1on1-coachingJoin The Fit Fam Collective: https://conquerfitnessandnutrition.com/fit-fam-collective

If you've been feeling like your only options are to stay miserable or burn it all down, this episode is for you.In today's episode, I'm talking about how all-or-nothing thinking shows up in our careers, particularly for high achievers  and why this black-and-white mindset keeps so many capable, talented people feeling stuck, frustrated, and disengaged.I share why this way of thinking actually makes a lot of sense given how you've been rewarded throughout your career, and why shifting from making “forever decisions” to treating your career as a series of experiments can unlock clarity, confidence, and momentum.✨ What You'll Learn in This EpisodeWhy all-or-nothing thinking feels logical, and how it quietly keeps you stuckHow high achievers get trapped by the belief that every career move must be perfect and permanentWhy clarity doesn't come before action, it's created through actionHow to reframe career decisions as experiments instead of life sentencesWhat it really looks like to move forward without having everything figured out

In this episode, I explore the Cycle of Change and how to get motivated for sustainable change in 2026. I hope that you find it helpful.   To find out more about my work:- Harriet's Substack: https://substack.com/@theeatingdisordertherapist My new APP!  Go to my Website Online courses Online 10 Steps to Intuitive Eating - a course to help you heal your relationship with food. Online Breaking Free from Bulimia - a course to help you break free from bulimia nervosa. Eating Disorders Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with eating disorders. Body Image Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with body image issues.  

In this episode of “Mindful Mystics,” Karen, Cheryl, and Chuckie G discuss how to approach 2026 with intention instead of pressure. The conversation unpacks why New Year's resolutions so often fail, how small, repeatable actions create lasting change, and what it really means to detox spiritually — from clearing physical and emotional clutter to releasing habits, beliefs, and self-talk that no longer serve. Along the way, we share personal experiences with goal reframing, motivation, identity shifts, and end-of-year cleansing rituals designed to support sustainable growth in the year ahead. Brought to you by Paranormal Underground Radio Episode Date: 12.20.2025 Hosts: Karen Frazier, Chuckie G, and Cheryl Knight-Wilson Check out our hosts online at: Paranormal Underground magazine: https://paranormalunderground.net/ Author and psychic medium Karen Frazier: https://www.authorkarenfrazier.com/#/ Paranormal Investigator and psychic medium Chuckie G: https://itsmechuckieg.com/ Resources: Listen to our podcast about “The Secrets to Motivation: From Stuck to Inspired”: https://paranormalunderground.podbean.com/e/mindful-mystics-podcast-path-to-motivation-from-stuck-to-inspired/ Show Highlights: [00:30] “Goal Setting and Spiritual Detoxing for 2026” A year-end conversation about setting realistic goals, staying motivated, and clearing out what drains your energy — mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and even physically. [01:51] Why One or Two Goals Beat “A Bazillion” Narrowing focus protects your energy and improves results — because dividing attention across too many goals usually means sacrificing quality and follow-through. [04:40] Why New Year's Resolutions Fail Resolutions often come from guilt or comparison, aim for total transformation, ignore underlying habits, and treat the new year as a “reset” instead of a continuation. [05:58] Big Goals vs. Mini Goals Chuck breaks down why huge goals can trigger discouragement, while small “moment-by-moment” steps build momentum — and let your plan evolve as you evolve. [08:33] Karen's “Eat Less, Move More” Blueprint Karen shares how she started with tiny, doable changes and gradually leveled up — using hiking (pleasure) and health reality (fear) as twin motivators. [19:49] Identity Shift: “I Am Somebody Who…” The real win is when a goal becomes part of who you are — not just something you're trying to do. That's when habits stick. [21:33] All-or-Nothing Thinking and Self-Talk A deep, relatable moment on spiraling after a “bad day,” learning to stop harsh self-judgment, and reframing progress as “five minutes more than yesterday.” [22:53] Cheryl's Goal Reframe: Designing Success Without Pressure Cheryl walks through how she's rewriting goals for 2026 — shifting from rigid outcomes (“lose 20 pounds,” “organize the house by February”) to gentle, repeatable actions such as moving her body regularly, tidying for 10 minutes a day, and stepping outside daily. [30:55] Habit Tracking That Actually Motivates Karen recommends “Streaks” for gamifying habits — and the group talks about pleasing your fitness tracker (and why it works for some personalities). [38:47] What “Spiritual Detoxing” Means Spiritual detox is clearing mental and emotional clutter, releasing draining habits/beliefs/relationships, letting go of resentment and guilt, and choosing progress over perfection. [39:25] Physical Decluttering as Spiritual Decluttering Karen connects cleaning, unsubscribing from inbox chaos, and decluttering to emotional and spiritual clarity — a practical, grounded approach to “detox.” [41:11] Chuck's End-of-Year Cleansing Rituals Breathwork, meditation visuals, Reiki, smudging the home, and intention-setting with candles — building a transition ritual into the new year. [43:39] Seasonal Affective Disorder and the Luminette 3 Karen shares how a light-therapy wearable helped her feel like her “summer self,” plus habits that support circadian rhythm (happy lamp, walking in natural light, melatonin). [48:04] Closing: “Have a Great Start to 2026” A warm send-off with encouragement, plus a reminder to revisit the motivation episode for tools that make follow-through more sustainable.

SummaryIn this episode, Chase and Chris talk all about the mindset struggles around food during the holidays. It's not just about willpower—it's how your brain reacts to feeling like food is limited. That's called a scarcity mindset. The guys explain why holiday foods feel so tempting, why we feel out of control, and how to shift into an abundance mindset instead. They share tips, real client stories, and simple steps to help you enjoy the holidays without going overboard. You'll learn how to feel in control again, not anxious or guilty around food. Whether it's cookies at home or a big holiday dinner, they show you how to keep making progress—without missing out.Chapters(00:00) Why This Episode Matters During the Holidays(01:00) Client Story: Holiday Food, Childhood, and Guilt(02:20) The “Last Supper” Effect and Scarcity Mindset(05:50) Why Skipping Meals Backfires(07:30) All-or-Nothing Thinking and Holiday Overeating(08:45) Grandma's Pie, Dopamine, and Food Obsession(10:00) Flexible Dieting and Improving Food Relationships(11:00) What an Abundance Mindset Really Means(12:30) Examples of Scarcity vs. Abundance Around Food(14:45) Changing Your Environment and Food Habits(17:00) Building Trust Around Trigger Foods(18:35) How to Shift From Scarcity to Abundance(20:00) Planning Ahead and Staying Present(22:30) Reframing Your Thoughts About the Holidays(24:30) Small Wins to Practice During Holiday Meals(26:00) Celebrate the Wins, Even the Tiny Ones(28:00) Remembering What Really Matters(30:00) Creating Food Freedom and Long-Term Mindset Change(33:00) Wrapping Up and Final ThoughtsSUBMIT YOUR QUESTIONS to be answered on the show: https://forms.gle/B6bpTBDYnDcbUkeD7How to Connect with Us:Chase's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/changing_chase/Chris' Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/conquer_fitness2021/Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/665770984678334/Interested in 1:1 Coaching: https://conquerfitnessandnutrition.com/1on1-coachingJoin The Fit Fam Collective: https://conquerfitnessandnutrition.com/fit-fam-collective

In this episode of Lifting, Running, and Living, the hosts Kelly and JK discuss what it means to maintain fitness during busy times. They focus on how they've figured out what 'enough' is to sustain their fitness levels, sharing updates on their personal lives, including Kelly's last day of coaching and her decision to pull back from a January race. The hosts explore topics such as adjusting workout frequencies, cutting back on specific activities like cardio or lifting during busy periods, and how to avoid all-or-nothing thinking. They emphasize the importance of keeping the main priority in focus and adjusting volume rather than frequency to manage their schedules effectively. Tune in for relatable insights and actionable strategies to maintain your fitness when life gets hectic.00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:46 Kelly's Coaching Update03:12 Training Challenges and Adjustments06:36 November Challenge Recap09:57 Strategic Restrictions and Personal Goals14:14 Upcoming Plans and December Challenge21:46 Transitioning from College Athlete to Adult Life27:39 Balancing Fitness with Changing Schedules32:20 Maintaining Fitness Amidst Life Changes32:38 Balancing Running and Lifting During Busy Times35:43 Defining 'Busy' and Its Impact on Training37:51 Adjusting Training for Travel and Work Commitments39:51 Non-Negotiables in Training Schedules45:41 Maintaining Frequency and Volume in Workouts53:06 Avoiding All or Nothing Thinking in Training55:46 Planning Training Around Seasonal Changes01:05:02 Wrapping Up and Listener EngagementFollow the pod at ⁠⁠⁠@liftingrunninglivingpod⁠⁠⁠Email us at ⁠⁠⁠liftingrunninglivingpod@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠Follow JK at ⁠⁠@coachjkmcleod⁠⁠Follow Kelly at ⁠⁠⁠@runningklutz ⁠

This ‘all or nothing' mindset shows up in so many areas of life.  This episode piggy-backs off of episode 81 Busting “All-Or-Nothing” Thinking (from March 2023), and highlights how this is a ‘mindset problem,' which means we need a ‘mindset solution.'  Keep listening as I share how and why this comes up so much during the holidays.  Plus how to break free.  Do you find yourself wrestling with ‘all or nothing' thinking and habits, too?  It's time to come work with me.  Schedule your free consultation at www.bodyyoucrave.com/schedule and I'll help you see the real patterns keeping you stuck + how to break free for good.  Download your free end emotional eating tool here: https://download.bodyyoucrave.com/feelings-wheel-sign-up Come join the afterparty conversation on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jillianscoaching Chapters (00:00:02) - Hungry for Love(00:00:26) - All or Nothing Thinking(00:06:38) - How to Get Out of the Fear Zone(00:12:29) - All-Or-Nothing Thinking(00:19:06) - How to Win a Hard Season(00:20:48) - Let's Be Authentic During the Holidays(00:21:53) - Self-Doubt During Narcissism(00:28:06) - What You Need To Do To Win(00:29:08) - How to Stay Content and Sufficiency(00:33:04) - A Coaching Coach: How to Solve Your Problems(00:39:47) - Binge Eating and Relationship Break the Cycle

Avoid starting over with your weight loss in January with this powerful mindset shift! In this episode, Megan discusses defeating your all or nothing thinking during the holiday season. She uses a DONUT example to explain how to think differently about making progress towards your health goals and taking care of your health during the holidays. It's a powerful mindset shift that applies any time of year! Weight Loss Blind Spots Workshop for Midlife Women 3-Part Video Series + BONUS Video: https://skinnyfitalicious.com/weight-loss-blind-spots-workshop/ Weight Loss Coaching for Midlife Women: https://skinnyfitalicious.com/weight-loss-coaching/ Client Testimonials: https://skinnyfitalicious.com/testimonials/  

The holidays are here—and so are the schedules, the stress, the celebrations, and the chaos that can pull you away from your movement routine. In this episode, Natalie, Nora, and Adrienne break down the myth that movement has to be all or nothing and share 10 simple, realistic, compassion-filled tips to help you stay consistent, grounded, and connected through the next six weeks.Redefining what “counts” as a workout.BYOSH - Bring Your Own Snack & Hydration!We share our go-to staples. They live in our bags, our cars, our backpacks, and occasionally our jacket pockets. (Brands, we see you. We love you. We're ready.)Bobo's Oat BarsChomps Protein Sticks Breath is your secret nervous-system regulator!This episode is your holiday-season pep talk, grounded in movement, mindfulness, and compassion—not pressure. If you want to feel better, move better, and stay connected to yourself through the busiest time of the year, you're in the right place.Send us a textWanna be on the show? Click here to fill out our guest info form or drop us a email at yogachanged@gmail.comFollow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@yogachangedFollow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/yogachanged/For more, go to https://howyogachangedmylife.comThe theme music for this episode, “Cenote Angelita”, was written and produced by Mar Abajo Rio AKA MAR Yoga Music. Dive deeper into this and other original yoga-inspired compositions by visiting bio.site/mcrworks. For the latest updates on upcoming events featuring his live music for yoga and meditation, be sure to follow @maryogamusic on Instagram.

SummaryIn this episode, Chase and Chris talk about something many people struggle with—getting started. They share stories about clients who feel overwhelmed because they think they have to do everything perfectly right away. But guess what? You don't!They break down the idea of “diet brain”—the way people think they have to follow a bunch of strict rules, eat perfectly, and never mess up. The truth is, real progress happens when you focus on the basics and stay consistent, even when life throws curveballs.They also talk about how to stop thinking in an “all or nothing” way and start finding wins in small, simple actions. Whether it's a short walk, eating a balanced meal, or just showing up—it's all progress.This is the perfect episode for anyone who's been waiting for the “right time” to start. Spoiler: there is no perfect time. The best time is now!Join the Holiday Masterclass on 11/17/2025 --> https://conquerfitnessandnutrition.com/masterclass Chapters(00:00) A Change in Topic: The Real Struggle to Get Started(02:25) The Pressure to Go from 0 to 100 Overnight(03:41) Diet Brain: How Past Diets Shape Unrealistic Expectations(05:08) Why Life Will Always Throw Curveballs(07:00) You're Not an All-or-Nothing Person(09:23) Redefining Progress Beyond the Scale(10:01) Rules, Diet Culture, and Why They Don't Work(11:20) The Checklist Mindset and Why It's Not Always Helpful(13:41) You Didn't Fall Off Track—You're on the Rollercoaster(15:18) Measuring Real Progress in Habits, Not Just Weight(17:11) Building a Life You Love Through Small Habits(18:09) The Importance of Being Okay with 70%(20:34) The “On-Ramp” to Sustainable Change(22:08) When You've Been Dipping Your Toes Too Long(23:58) Consistency vs. Intensity: Finding the Balance(27:58) How to Choose What You Can Be Intense With(29:28) Do Something Daily to Keep Moving Forward(31:17) Why Support Is Crucial When Life Gets Hard(33:10) Personalized Coaching Over Cookie Cutter Plans(34:47) Autonomy vs. Rules: Why Meal Plans Don't Work(37:11) The Lighthouse Analogy: Coaching That Guides, Not Controls(39:38) Holiday Curveballs and Why They're the Perfect Time to Start(40:54) Holiday Masterclass Details & Final ThoughtsSUBMIT YOUR QUESTIONS to be answered on the show:https://forms.gle/B6bpTBDYnDcbUkeD7How to Connect with Us:Chase's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/changing_chase/Chris' Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/conquer_fitness2021/Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/665770984678334/Interested in 1:1 Coaching: https://conquerfitnessandnutrition.com/1on1-coachingJoin The Fit Fam Collective: https://conquerfitnessandnutrition.com/fit-fam-collective

Warning: This sleep hypnosis is designed to induce an eyes-closed trance. Do not listen to this audio while driving or doing anything that requires your complete attention.Drift into restorative sleep while your mind gently releases black-and-white thinking. This extended, sleep hypnosis features continuous sleepy rain sounds to wash away rigid thoughts, perfectionism, and stress, installing nuanced, balanced thinking on autopilot while you sleep deeply and wake refreshed.Perfect for bedtime:Fall asleep fast while overcoming all-or-nothing thinkingEnd dichotomous/polarized thinking Reduce nighttime anxiety & overthinkingBuild emotional flexibility & resilience while restingCBT-inspired reframing + mindfulness for sleepSlow progressive relaxation + extended countdown to deep tranceSoothing imagery: painting a black-and-white canvas into full colorDirect unconscious suggestions for permanent flexible thinkingSleepy rain ambiance Positive sleep affirmations: progress over perfection, self-worth, calm confidenceVisit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.adriannehart.com/ ⁠⁠⁠⁠to reach me or join my group hypnosis for deeper transformation this Wellness Wednesday.Sleep hypnosis all or nothing thinking, black and white thinking, sleep meditation, dichotomous thinking relief, flexible mindset sleep hypnosis, perfectionism, sleep hypnosis,rain sounds for sleep, deep sleep hypnosis, cognitive distortion hypnosis, anxiety sleep relief, emotional balance sleep meditation, stop overthinking sleep, rigid thinking hypnosis, mental flexibility sleep, bedtime hypnosisPress play and let sleep take over.#SleepHypnosis #AllOrNothingThinking #RainSoundsForSleep #DeepSleep #MentalFlexibility  

​Warning: This daytime hypnosis is designed to induce an eyes-closed trance. Do not listen to this audio while driving or doing anything that requires your complete attention.Escape black-and-white thinking and embrace the gray areas of life with this soothing 24-minute guided hypnosis session. Featuring gentle rain sounds to wash away rigid thoughts, this meditation helps you release perfectionism, reduce stress, and cultivate nuanced, balanced thinking, automatically and effortlessly.Perfect for:Overcoming all-or-nothing thinkingReducing anxiety from extremesBuilding emotional flexibility & resilienceProgressive deep relaxation with a countdownVivid imagery of painting a black-and-white canvas into full colorDirect suggestions to your unconscious mind for permanent changeGentle rain ambiance to enhance trance and calmPositive affirmations for self-worth, progress over perfection, and inner peaceWhat you'll experience:All or nothing thinking hypnosis, black and white thinking meditation, dichotomous thinking relief, flexible mindset hypnosis, perfectionism hypnosis, rain sounds hypnosis, mindfulness hypnosis, cognitive distortion hypnosis, anxiety relief hypnosis, emotional balance meditation, guided hypnosis for overthinking, stop rigid thinking, shades of gray hypnosis, mental flexibility, calm mind hypnosisListen often for best results.Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.adriannehart.com/⁠⁠⁠to reach me or join my group hypnosis for deeper transformation this Wellness Wednesday.#Hypnosis #AllOrNothingThinking #RainSounds #Mindfulness #MentalFlexibility

Have you ever noticed how motherhood can make everything feel high stakes? One minute you're calm and connected to your teen, and the next, you're spiraling into worry, certain that everything is going south. That's the All or Nothing Trap, and if you've ever found yourself stuck there, you're not alone. As moms of teens and almost empty nesters, we're navigating a season of constant change — where letting go can feel like losing control. And it's no wonder our minds cling to extremes: if our kids are thriving, we feel okay… but if they're struggling, we immediately assume we've failed. In this episode, I unpack why your brain defaults to this kind of thinking — and how it quietly fuels anxiety, perfectionism, and self-doubt. You'll learn how to see these patterns for what they really are — your brain's instinct to protect you — and how to gently retrain your mind to find peace in the gray. I'll share stories from my own life and from moms I coach, showing how all-or-nothing thinking can show up as we raise and launch our big kids. If you're ready to let go of anxiety and feel grounded no matter what's happening around you, this episode will help you find your footing.

Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “If it's not perfect, it's a failure”? I get it. Moms do this all the time, especially when we're building something new. The truth is, that black-and-white, all-or-nothing thinking? It's keeping you stuck.All-or-nothing thinking is that sneaky voice that tells you something either worked or it didn't, that you're either succeeding or failing, with no space for anything in between. This filter feels like clarity, but it's actually shutting down your learning and keeping you frozen at the starting line.Listen in this week to discover how the all-or-nothing mindset trap keeps so many mom entrepreneurs stuck before they even begin, and a simple 3-question framework to turn every experience into valuable data. If you've ever felt like "nothing is working," this episode will completely transform how you view progress in your business.For more information, transcript, and show notes, click here: jenna.coach/74Join me for a free strategy session by clicking here: https://mom.jenna.coach/applyYou're invited to join us every 2nd Thursday for my free Mom Entrepreneurs Circle. Sign up here: https://mom.jenna.coach/circleKeep up with me on LinkedIn here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenna-rykiel and Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/jrykiel3If you enjoy the show, please follow, rate, review, and share the podcast! Your support helps the show reach moms just like you who are ready to quit their 9-to-5 in pursuit of a life and business they love. Click here for instructions on how to leave a review: https://jenna.coach/podcast/podcastlaunch

Is this you? You have a few chips and it spirals into the whole bag, an entire day or whole weekend of overeating. You feel tempted by one-size-fits-all meal plans that you never end up following. You stop tracking your food or planning meals because you didn't do it yesterday which means your 4 day streak is over, so you think, screw it. This episode is for you.In this episode you'll learn:That even though you're not a “perfectionist,” perfectionism is likely derailing youWhy 100% every day is the wrong goalThe mindset shift you need to get out of all or nothing thinkingClick here to join Next Steps Week & book your call Watch Build Momentum Video Series Instagram: @mindful_shape Free Self Coaching Resources Interested in getting coached by me? Go to my website mindfulshape.com

If you've ever found yourself thinking, “I'm so behind… My business isn't working… Today was a waste as I got nothing done,” this episode is for you.In today's solo episode, I dive into how binary thinking, though comforting on the surface, can quietly sabotage your momentum, ESPECIALLY if you're a high-achieving introvert. I share how this pattern shows up in my clients, and how to begin shifting into a more powerful, nuanced mindset that actually supports sustainable success.You'll learn:Why the brain defaults to black-and-white thinking to create certaintyHow to spot all-or-nothing patterns like “success vs. failure,” “productive vs. lazy,” and “ahead vs. behind”The hidden harm of comparing your business journey to a linear curriculumWhat counts as “progress” when the work is invisibleThe trap of misaligned metrics (and what to track instead)A simple mindset shift to move from doubt into trustThis is what you really need to grow a sustainable business - especially when you don't always see the results right away.CONNECT WITH EMMA-LOUISE:

SummaryIn this episode, Chase and Chris talk with Allicia, a mom of two and a client of Chris who has been on a powerful health journey over the past year and a half. Allicia opens up about how her life changed after having her second child, going through a divorce, and still choosing to keep showing up for herself.She shares how she went from feeling lost and overwhelmed to confident and strong—both physically and mentally. Allicia talks about the challenges of emotional eating, building new routines, and learning how to believe in herself. She gives honest insight into how coaching helped her push through some of the hardest times in her life, including her identity shift and learning to take “messy action” instead of striving for perfection.If you've ever felt like life was too busy or messy to take care of your health, Allicia's story is the reminder you need that there is never a “perfect time” to start—only the decision to do it anyway.Chapters(00:00) Meet Allicia – Client, Mom, and Community Success Manager(02:00) Allicia's Background and Life in Colorado(04:40) Life Before Coaching: Struggles, Therapy, and Starting Over(07:30) Why Going to the Gym Was So Intimidating(09:00) Mental Health, Confidence, and Doing More with Her Kids(11:15) Starting from the Basics: Form, Nutrition, and Belief(13:00) The Shift in Belief: From Doubt to “I Can Do This”(14:50) Navigating Divorce Without Quitting on Herself(16:25) Real Lifestyle Change: From Lazy Bones to StairMaster Queen(18:45) Learning to Believe in Herself Through Progress(21:00) Emotional Eating, Sticky Notes, and Mindful Coping(24:30) Gaining Control: Cycle Awareness and Communication(27:00) Celebrating Wins: Water Slides, Hiking, and Personal Growth(30:00) Prepping for the Manitou Incline Again(32:45) Letting Go of All-or-Nothing Thinking(34:45) Why She Didn't Quit—Even in the Hardest Times(36:00) Leaning on Coaching for Support and Direction(40:15) Why Conquer Was Different From Anything She's Tried(43:00) Coach Chris on Allicia's Resilience and Growth(46:00) Rewriting 20+ Years of Beliefs in Just 18 Months(47:30) Allicia's Final Advice: There's Never a Perfect TimeSUBMIT YOUR QUESTIONS to be answered on the show: https://forms.gle/B6bpTBDYnDcbUkeD7How to Connect with Us:Chase's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/changing_chase/Chris' Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/conquer_fitness2021/Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/665770984678334/Interested in 1:1 Coaching: https://conquerfitnessandnutrition.com/1on1-coachingJoin The Fit Fam Collective: https://conquerfitnessandnutrition.com/fit-fam-collective

Feeling the “back to school” energy but low-key dreading the pressure to have it all together overnight? You are SO not alone. If you're already feeling burned out, packed lunches are taking over, and you're wondering where you went wrong, this episode is for you! Here's the truth: you don't need a full-blown reset. You just need a rhythm.In today's episode, I'm breaking down exactly how to gently rebuild your weight loss routine without falling for that all-or-nothing trap. We're skipping the perfectionism and embracing simple, doable rhythms that actually stick—no crazy overhauls or early morning misery required.Whether your kids are back in school or you're just craving structure again, this episode will help you create simple, doable routines that actually stick—so you can feel good in your body without feeling like you're failing.Ready to reset without needing to “get back on track”? Let's swap out the chaos for rituals that feel good and routines that actually fit your life—not someone else's.xoxo,JackieMORE FROM JACKIE: >

Always, Never, Either or. These are words that are often used when we get stuck in "All or Nothing" thinking.  Our brains love to know, to hae clarity and understanding, so it is very easy for quick decisions and judgements to be made. However, sometimes these quick judgments lead to all-or-nothing thinking that isn't correct and allows little room for middle ground or a grey area. In today's podcast, we are going to talk about all-or-nothing thinking.  We are going to discuss some examples of some times I've seen this show up in myself, my coaching, and with family, and how to navigate through this! First, instead of using the more rigid words like always and never, try using more flexible language.   Second, catch yourself when you are using all-or-nothing or black and white talk.  This awareness is a HUGE first step! Another tip, say BOTH! Rath than assume that things have to be either/or, they can be BOTH! We are all awesome and flawed! Ask Questions! "Is this true?" Is always a great place to start! And last, COMPASSION! Talk to yourself like a trusted friend, family member, or the Savior. As you practice these tips even one time a day, this will give you so much leverage and awareness on your thought patterns and expand our all-or-nothing thinking into an approach with room for the middle ground!

We all know the detrimental effects of all or nothing thinking when it comes to health and fitness, so why do we think that way when it comes to our businesses? All or nothing typically ends up being nothing, so if you're starting an online business, it's paramount to take messy action and overcome perfectionism. Expecting perfection from yourself will only lead to burn out and abandonment. By taking immediate action rather than waiting for the perfect moment, you will always find yourself closer to your goals. Progress is always better than perfection.   Get on the waitlist for FBA: https://jillfitfree.com/fba-waitlist/   Jill is a fitness professional and business coach who effectively made the transition from training clients in person and having no time to build anything else to training clients online and actually being more successful. Today, Jill helps other coaches to do the same.   Connect with me! Instagram: @jillfit | @fitbizu Facebook: @jillfit Website: jillfit.com

Ever catch yourself saying, “If I can't do it perfectly, why bother?” or “One mistake means I've failed completely”? That's all-or-nothing thinking—also known as black-and-white thinking or dichotomous thinking—and it's one of the most common thought distortions we experience.In this episode, we explore:What all-or-nothing thinking really is and why it's considered a cognitive distortionEveryday examples of how it shows up in health, work, and relationshipsHow deeper belief systems (schemas and core beliefs) like perfectionism or fear of failure keep us stuck in extremesPractical tools to shift out of black-and-white thinking, including finding the middle ground, celebrating progress, and rewriting unhelpful core beliefsIf you struggle with perfectionism, self-criticism, or swinging between extremes, this episode will help you recognize the pattern and start building more balanced, compassionate ways of thinking.To learn more, visit www.ladyandthecouch.comMake sure to follow us on social media @ladyandthecouchFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ladyandthecouchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ladyandthecouch/

Send us a textAll-or-nothing thinking is a common mental pattern in children that can be frustrating for parents who want to help their kids gain perspective and stay emotionally grounded. We explore what's happening beneath the surface when kids think in extremes, and how we can gently support more balanced and resilient thinking.• Children's brains are still developing, especially in the prefrontal cortex responsible for complex thought and emotional regulation• Binary thinking (black and white, all good or all bad) is a normal developmental stage, not a flaw to be fixed• The emotional centers of a child's brain develop before their reasoning centers, explaining many extreme reactions• Identifying when your child is stuck in all-or-nothing thinking is the first step to helping them• Validate emotions without reinforcing extreme statements - say "losing feels frustrating" instead of "you don't always lose"• Model continuum thinking by verbalizing your own balanced thoughts out loud• Use language that adds nuance like "sometimes" and "a part of me feels..."• Praise effort, courage, and learning rather than just outcomes to build a growth mindset• Recognize that moving from all-or-nothing to nuanced thinking is a developmental journey*Did you know? I'm currently opening a few one-to-one coaching spots for moms who are ready to go deeper and get personalized support as they build their own resilience. If that sounds like something you're craving, just head to LeeGerman.com and click on one-to-one coaching. We'll set up a free call to talk about where you are, where you want to be, and whether coaching is the right next step for you.If you'd like to get the show notes for this episode, head to: https://leighgermann.com

In this episode, Carrie explores how to identify and overcome all-or-nothing thinking, a common challenge for those with OCD. She offers practical strategies for developing flexible thinking to foster peace and recovery.Episode Highlights:How to recognize all-or-nothing thinking in yourself.Mindfulness exercises to help detach from obsessive thoughts.The importance of taking different perspectives to break rigid thinking.How asking "What if it went well?" can shift your mindset.The power of embracing imperfection through trying new things.Creative problem-solving techniques to help expand your thinking options.Free Webinar: Calming the Inner Chaos: Tips for Christians Seeking OCD Treatmenthttps: www.carriebock.com/calm/ Explore the Christians Learning ICBT training: https://carriebock.com/training/ Carrie's services and courses: carriebock.com/services/ carriebock.com/resources/Follow us on Instagram: www.instagram.com/christianfaithandocd/and like our Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/christianfaithandocd for the latest updates and sneak peeks.

In this Episode of Inner Voice, Dr. Foojan Zeine welcomes Judy Belmont — psychotherapist, author, and corporate trainer with 40+ years of experience — for a powerful conversation on mental wellness. Judy shares practical strategies from her latest book: "110 CBT Tips and Tools: Proven Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Strategies for Anxiety, Depression, Stress, Anger, and More." Learn actionable tools to manage your mental health, improve emotional resilience, and lead a more balanced life.

Earlier this week whilst in another country, I was 100% convinced I was about to die in a tsunami. My ADHD brain had already planned the escape route, packed the bags, and decided it was all over.That's the sneaky power of all-or-nothing thinking - one of ADHD's favourite mental habits. In this episode, we'll cover:Why ADHD brains default to extremes and struggle to see the middle groundReal-life examples of how black-and-white thinking shows up in daily lifeThe link between your thoughts, feelings, and actions (and why this way of thinking increases procrastination & paralysis!)My simple NAP tool to shift your thinking and regulate your emotionsIf you've ever caught yourself saying “I always screw up” or “I'll never get this right,” this episode is for you!Get your episode recap (aka the 1 page cheat sheet) right here: www.navigatingadultadhd.com/cheatsheetFor more support & to connect with Xena visit: www.navigatingadultadhd.com

Send us a textDo you find yourself caught in the exhausting cycle of "perfect or disaster" thinking? One missed bedtime routine becomes evidence you're a terrible mom. One imperfect day means you're failing at everything. This all-or-nothing mindset isn't just draining—it's keeping you from seeing the progress you're actually making and modeling rigid thinking for your children. In this episode, discover the science behind why our brains default to extremes, learn five practical strategies to embrace the beautiful gray areas of life, and find out how to teach your kids that growth happens in the middle ground between perfect and catastrophic. It's time to trade the exhausting pursuit of perfection for the peace of "good enough"—and watch both you and your family thrive.If you'd like to get the show notes for this episode, head to: https://leighgermann.com

In Episode 311: How To Restart Your Day with the Next-Five Reset, You Will Discover: How to shift out of all-or-nothing thinking when your ADHD brain says you've ruined the day by not perfectly following your schedule Why time management is extra challenging for ADHD brains and how we can support ourselves through it. A simple but powerful technique that helps you start fresh at any point in your day. Links From The Podcast

In this episode, we explore how all or nothing thinking can hold people back from making real progress, especially in fitness and self-development. We unpack the fear of failure that often comes with this mindset and how it can lead to a cycle of inconsistency. Instead of aiming for perfection, we talk about the importance of small, actionable steps and the power of simply showing up. We dive into why focusing on the process matters more than obsessing over outcomes, and how learning from failure is part of long-term success. If you've ever felt like there's no point in continuing after slipping up, this conversation is for you. Please follow us on Instagram Level Up: https://www.instagram.com/levelup_podcast_/ Sharelle: https://www.instagram.com/sharellegrant/ Dani: https://www.instagram.com/daniantonellos/

If you want to learn how to navigate summer vacations, BBQs, and pool parties without gaining weight, falling off track, or constantly starting over every Monday, this episode is for you. Jess & Melissa break down why all-or-nothing thinking fuels binge eating and sabotages your weight loss progress. They share 4 simple, practical tips to help you enjoy summer while still losing weight and finally break the restrict-and-binge cycle for good. CONNECT WITH JESS & MEL | LUMINU The 5-Day Body Reset: https://stan.store/luminu/p/5day-body-reset 90 Days to a Lighter You [Your Personal Plan for Lasting Weight Loss]: https://luminu.com/elitecoaching/ Join our free LUMINU Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/luminu.wellness Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luminu.wellness/ Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luminu.wellness Check us out on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@luminu.wellness

In this thought-provoking episode, we dive into the internal struggles that emerge when we feel pulled toward paths that seem to contradict our established values or public image.I'm sharing my personal journey with artificial intelligence, from initial resistance to curious exploration and how this evolution challenged me to examine the "all-or-nothing" thinking that often limits our authentic expression.Through vulnerable reflection, I reveal how an influencer's anti-AI stance triggered deep self-doubt about my own path, despite feeling genuinely drawn to explore AI's potential for supporting small businesses and solopreneurs. This experience illuminates the uncomfortable intersection we face when evolving beyond how we've defined ourselves or how others perceive us.BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING TO THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL DISCOVER:How "all-or-nothing" thinking often lurks beneath our resistance to personal evolution.Why being pulled in unexpected directions can create internal conflict with our self-image.The danger of blanket statements that strip away nuance and individual experience.How AI tools can help small business owners focus on their zone of genius without large budgets.The importance of accepting that two seemingly contradictory things can be true simultaneously.Why judging others' choices contradicts true commitment to authenticity.How to recognize when fear of judgment is preventing you from following your authentic path.This episode invites you to examine where black-and-white thinking might be limiting your perspective and blocking your evolution. By embracing nuance and honoring your unique journey, you can move forward with greater self-acceptance and clarity, even when that path seems to contradict previous versions of yourself.And while you're here, follow us on Instagram @creativelyowned for more daily inspiration on effortlessly attracting the most aligned clients without spending hours marketing your business or chasing clients. Also, make sure to tag me in your stories @creativelyowned.Selling the Invisible: Exactly how to articulate the value of your cosmic genius even if your message transcends the typical “10k months” & “Make 6-figures” types of promises. Free on-demand training >>> https://www.creativelyowned.co/watchnow To find out how to own your unique edge, amplify who you truly are (& get paid for it), take your business to cosmic proportions, and have fun doing it, grab it here!! https://www.creativelyowned.com/quizOffer Architect: TURN YOUR ‘INVISIBLE' WISDOM INTO A COMPELLING OFFER THAT WILL SELL WITH A SINGLE EMAIL. >>>https://creativelyowned.com/offer-architect

This episode tackles overcoming the 3 big training pitfalls that silently sabotage lifters: mindless snacking, all-or-nothing thinking, and poor boundaries. Niki Sims and Andrew Jackson break it down with practical tips, real-life stories, and strategies that actually work for strength, longevity, and real-life training.

In this episode of Dieting From the Inside Out, I'm diving deep into the 5 most common struggles middle-aged women face on their weight loss journey—and more importantly, how to overcome them with real solutions.Whether you've battled all-or-nothing thinking, emotional eating, food obsession, body image issues, or the effects of decades of diet culture, this episode is for you. I'm giving you a breakdown of each issue, practical strategies, and the mindset shifts needed to finally get off the diet hamster wheel—for good.Topics we cover:- Why “I blew it on the weekend” thinking is keeping you stuck- How to stop using food to numb your emotions- What food noise really means (and how to silence it)- Navigating body changes with aging and menopause- Unlearning diet culture lies you've believed since you were 12Grab the Food Noise Solution Guide Here: https://inquire.hamiltontrained.com/food-noiseTIMESTAMPS:(00:00) – Intro & Biggest Weight Loss Struggles for Middle-Aged Women(00:45) – Top 5 Weight Loss Struggles from ChatGPT (01:42) – Struggle #1: All-or-Nothing Thinking(07:10) – Struggle #2: Emotional Eating & Food as Comfort(13:20) – Struggle #3: Food Noise & Mental Obsession with Eating(19:20) – Struggle #4: Body Image Issues and Aging Fears(28:25) – Struggle #5: Diet Culture Damage & Decades of Unlearning(33:55) – Final Thoughts & How to Move ForwardMY RESOURCES & SPECIAL OFFERS:‣ Join the Dieting From The Inside Out Collective & get immediate access: bit.ly/DFIOcollective‣ Apply for 1:1 Coaching:Application for Coaching‣ Join my free Facebook group & get all my trainings:Fat Loss Simplified | Facebook‣ Get my [Free] Fat Loss Check-list Course:Never Struggle Losing Weight Ever Again Masterclass‣ Grab my 20 Pound Blueprint to lose your next 20lbs without feeling restricted:The 20 Pound BlueprintFIND ME ON:‣ Instagram:Instagram (@realjaredhamilton)‣ YouTube:Jared Hamilton‣ TikTok:Jared Hamilton on TikTok‣ Email:jared@hamiltontrained.com----© 2025 Jared Hamilton

If you're ready to break free from catastrophic thinking and gain more peace and confidence, this episode is for you! Tune in and learn how to take control of your thoughts and create a healthier, more balanced mindset. ✅ ‌ FREE CLASS! LEARN HOW TO STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK ‌ Don't forget to sign up for our free “How to Stop Caring What People Think” webinar masterclass at https://www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring ‌ ✅‌ GET ACCELERATED RESULTS: Our next-level coaching happens at: http://www.collegeofconfidence.com ✅ STAY CONNECTED.