Podcast appearances and mentions of lara jean

Sosem találod ki mi Samuel L. Jackson kedvenc filmszerepe Igényesférfi.hu     2025-01-22 04:34:34     Film Star Wars Samuel L. Jackson százötvennél is több nagyjátékfilmben szerepelt hosszú karrierje során. Játszott a Star Wars előzménytrilógiájában, a Ponyvaregényben, a Jackie Brownban, az Aljas nyolcasban és az MCU szuperhősfilmjeiben is, ő maga mégsem a felsorolt (máig óriási nimbusz övezte) szerepeire a legbüszkébb. Az 5 legmérgezőbb karakter a Harry Potter-filmekben az emberek szavazatai alapján Joy     2025-01-21 18:01:00     Film Harry Potter Még a valóságban is találkozunk olyan személyekkel életünk során, akik csak nehezítik az előrehaladást, azaz más szóval toxikusak. A Harry Potter világában is számtalan ilyen szereplő ütötte fel a fejét, mégis, szinte senki nem beszél róluk. Válásáról szóló könyvről tárgyalt Meghan Markle NLC     2025-01-21 18:02:58     Bulvár USA Meghan Markle Több mint hatoldalas cikket közölt a sussexi hercegről és feleségéről az amerikai Vanity Fair magazin. A házaspárnak korábban dolgozó civilek végre megszólaltak, és kicsit sem festettek jó képet róluk. Megszólalt A brutalista rendezője az AI-jal kapcsolatos kritikák közepette Mafab     2025-01-21 18:25:02     Film Mesterséges intelligencia Brady Corbet rendező válaszolt a mesterséges intelligencia használatával kapcsolatos kritikákra, konkrétan a színészek, Adrien Brody és Felicity Jones magyar dialektusának megváltoztatására A brutalistában. Szerethető vagy. Elhiszed? – Megnéztük Lilja Ingolfsdottir filmjét WMN     2025-01-21 19:06:00     Film Árvíz A düh nőként alapélményünk, de jól leplezzük, mert réges-rég megtanultuk mederben tartani, hogy aztán időnként mégis szakadjon a gát a legváratlanabb helyzetekben, és magunk se értsük, honnan jön ez a nagy víz, ez az áradás, ami visz magával mindent, azt is, amihez ragaszkodnánk. Itt vannak 2025 Oscar-várományosai 24.hu     2025-01-21 20:45:41     Film USA Drog Vajon a bűnbánó, transznemű drogcézár vagy az emigráns magyar építész rabolja el az Amerikai Filmakadémia tagjainak szívét? Összegyűjtöttük, mely filmekről és alkotókról szólhat a 2025-ös Oscar-szezon. Elhunyt Bertrand Blier Tudás.hu     2025-01-22 05:45:18     Film Humor Gérard Depardieu Nyolcvanöt éves korában elhunyt Bertrand Blier Oscar-díjas francia filmrendező, forgatókönyvíró – közölte családja az AFP hírügynökséggel. A sziporkázó párbeszédeiről, valamint nyers és fekete humoráról ismert filmes elsősorban az 1970-es és 80-as években Gérard Depardieu főszereplésével készült provokatív vígjátékaival vált népszerűvé. Az Elő a zs Végre felkerül streamingre a tavalyi év legbotrányosabb romantikus filmje Player     2025-01-22 10:06:09     Film Párkapcsolat Ezen a héten is összegyűjtöttünk tíz olyan alkotást, amely most kerül be valamelyik streamingszolgáltató kínálatába, és amellyel érdemes lesz tenni egy próbát. Jön például 2024 legnagyobb sikerű romantikus filmje, melynek két sztárja a premier óta oda-vissza szétperelték egymást. Mi várható a Puszi, Kitty harmadik évadában? Ezt tudjuk eddig in.hu     2025-01-21 18:21:03     Film Ha már te is végeztél a Puszi, Kitty legújabb évadával, biztos kíváncsi vagy rá, hogy mikorra várható a folytatás.A Puszi, Kitty A fiúknak, akiket valaha szerettem-univerzum spin-off sorozata, és csak ajánlani tudjuk. Ha rajongó vagy, akkor Kitty Song Covey-t már ismerheted, mint Lara Jean kishúga. Ő az, aki elküldte azokat a leveleket, amelyeket L Fotón Anthony Hopkins szinte sosem látott lánya: Abigail 20 éve nem áll szóba világhírű apjával Blikk     2025-01-22 08:40:54     Film Anthony Hopkins Anthony Hopkins színészlegenda és egyetlen lánya, Abigail Hopkins kapcsolata hosszú évek óta megszakadt: több mint két évtizede nem beszéltek egymással. Abigail korábban mesélt arról, hogy gyermekként évente talán egyszer találkozott az édesapjával, és ez a távolság felnőttkorában is megmaradt. Elmondása szerint e kapcsolat hiánya is hozzájárult az Még soha nem hallottam olyan vegyületet, mint a miénk kultura.hu     2025-01-21 17:30:00     Zene Romhányi Áron már fiatalon országos hírnévre tett szert a United zenekarral, a Loop Doctors formációval pedig 18 éve a digitális és klasszikus hangzású jazz határait feszegeti. Január 24-én a csapat új tagjával, Alemay Fernandezzel mutatják be ötödik albumukat a Turbina körbeülhető színpadán. A zenekar fejlődéséről, az innovatív zenei irányzatokról A további adásainkat keresd a podcast.hirstart.hu oldalunkon.

Sosem találod ki mi Samuel L. Jackson kedvenc filmszerepe Igényesférfi.hu     2025-01-22 04:34:34     Film Star Wars Samuel L. Jackson százötvennél is több nagyjátékfilmben szerepelt hosszú karrierje során. Játszott a Star Wars előzménytrilógiájában, a Ponyvaregényben, a Jackie Brownban, az Aljas nyolcasban és az MCU szuperhősfilmjeiben is, ő maga mégsem a felsorolt (máig óriási nimbusz övezte) szerepeire a legbüszkébb. Az 5 legmérgezőbb karakter a Harry Potter-filmekben az emberek szavazatai alapján Joy     2025-01-21 18:01:00     Film Harry Potter Még a valóságban is találkozunk olyan személyekkel életünk során, akik csak nehezítik az előrehaladást, azaz más szóval toxikusak. A Harry Potter világában is számtalan ilyen szereplő ütötte fel a fejét, mégis, szinte senki nem beszél róluk. Válásáról szóló könyvről tárgyalt Meghan Markle NLC     2025-01-21 18:02:58     Bulvár USA Meghan Markle Több mint hatoldalas cikket közölt a sussexi hercegről és feleségéről az amerikai Vanity Fair magazin. A házaspárnak korábban dolgozó civilek végre megszólaltak, és kicsit sem festettek jó képet róluk. Megszólalt A brutalista rendezője az AI-jal kapcsolatos kritikák közepette Mafab     2025-01-21 18:25:02     Film Mesterséges intelligencia Brady Corbet rendező válaszolt a mesterséges intelligencia használatával kapcsolatos kritikákra, konkrétan a színészek, Adrien Brody és Felicity Jones magyar dialektusának megváltoztatására A brutalistában. Szerethető vagy. Elhiszed? – Megnéztük Lilja Ingolfsdottir filmjét WMN     2025-01-21 19:06:00     Film Árvíz A düh nőként alapélményünk, de jól leplezzük, mert réges-rég megtanultuk mederben tartani, hogy aztán időnként mégis szakadjon a gát a legváratlanabb helyzetekben, és magunk se értsük, honnan jön ez a nagy víz, ez az áradás, ami visz magával mindent, azt is, amihez ragaszkodnánk. Itt vannak 2025 Oscar-várományosai 24.hu     2025-01-21 20:45:41     Film USA Drog Vajon a bűnbánó, transznemű drogcézár vagy az emigráns magyar építész rabolja el az Amerikai Filmakadémia tagjainak szívét? Összegyűjtöttük, mely filmekről és alkotókról szólhat a 2025-ös Oscar-szezon. Elhunyt Bertrand Blier Tudás.hu     2025-01-22 05:45:18     Film Humor Gérard Depardieu Nyolcvanöt éves korában elhunyt Bertrand Blier Oscar-díjas francia filmrendező, forgatókönyvíró – közölte családja az AFP hírügynökséggel. A sziporkázó párbeszédeiről, valamint nyers és fekete humoráról ismert filmes elsősorban az 1970-es és 80-as években Gérard Depardieu főszereplésével készült provokatív vígjátékaival vált népszerűvé. Az Elő a zs Végre felkerül streamingre a tavalyi év legbotrányosabb romantikus filmje Player     2025-01-22 10:06:09     Film Párkapcsolat Ezen a héten is összegyűjtöttünk tíz olyan alkotást, amely most kerül be valamelyik streamingszolgáltató kínálatába, és amellyel érdemes lesz tenni egy próbát. Jön például 2024 legnagyobb sikerű romantikus filmje, melynek két sztárja a premier óta oda-vissza szétperelték egymást. Mi várható a Puszi, Kitty harmadik évadában? Ezt tudjuk eddig in.hu     2025-01-21 18:21:03     Film Ha már te is végeztél a Puszi, Kitty legújabb évadával, biztos kíváncsi vagy rá, hogy mikorra várható a folytatás.A Puszi, Kitty A fiúknak, akiket valaha szerettem-univerzum spin-off sorozata, és csak ajánlani tudjuk. Ha rajongó vagy, akkor Kitty Song Covey-t már ismerheted, mint Lara Jean kishúga. Ő az, aki elküldte azokat a leveleket, amelyeket L Fotón Anthony Hopkins szinte sosem látott lánya: Abigail 20 éve nem áll szóba világhírű apjával Blikk     2025-01-22 08:40:54     Film Anthony Hopkins Anthony Hopkins színészlegenda és egyetlen lánya, Abigail Hopkins kapcsolata hosszú évek óta megszakadt: több mint két évtizede nem beszéltek egymással. Abigail korábban mesélt arról, hogy gyermekként évente talán egyszer találkozott az édesapjával, és ez a távolság felnőttkorában is megmaradt. Elmondása szerint e kapcsolat hiánya is hozzájárult az Még soha nem hallottam olyan vegyületet, mint a miénk kultura.hu     2025-01-21 17:30:00     Zene Romhányi Áron már fiatalon országos hírnévre tett szert a United zenekarral, a Loop Doctors formációval pedig 18 éve a digitális és klasszikus hangzású jazz határait feszegeti. Január 24-én a csapat új tagjával, Alemay Fernandezzel mutatják be ötödik albumukat a Turbina körbeülhető színpadán. A zenekar fejlődéséről, az innovatív zenei irányzatokról A további adásainkat keresd a podcast.hirstart.hu oldalunkon.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE: In this episode, Lindsay Wong (author of Tell Me Pleasant Things About My Immortality), David Norwell (author of A Complex Coast), Lara Jean Okihiro (co-author of Obaasan's Boots), and Andrea Warner (author of Rise Up and Sing!) to reflect on books that have influenced or inspired them. These amazing authors have been part of this years Storied video series. This episode is basically amazing authors recommending great books on topics such as writing about family, combining fact and fiction in novels and short stories, and writing about the environment. Visit BC and Yukon Book Prizes: https://bcyukonbookprizes.com/ Storied videos: https://vimeo.com/showcase/11316134 ABOUT THE AUTHORS: Lindsay Wong is the author of the critically acclaimed, award-winning, and bestselling memoir The Woo-Woo, which was a finalist for Canada Reads 2019. She has written a YA novel entitled My Summer of Love and Misfortune. Wong holds a BFA in creative writing from the University of British Columbia and an MFA in literary nonfiction from Columbia University. She currently teaches creative writing at the University of Winnipeg. David Norwell is an author, illustrator, and world traveller. He holds a BSc in Geography from the University of Victoria, and has worked for six seasons conducting biological and geological surveys In BC, Alberta, and the Yukon. His passion is communicating science in a way that accesses the human heart. David has visited thirty-three countries, sailed across the Atlantic and Indian Ocean, trekked over the Himalayas with a kitten, and hitchhiked over two hundred rides. He is dedicated to understanding the human experience and sharing his findings. When not working on books, he is volunteering at schools, studying Buddhism, and practising meditation. Lara Jean Okihiro is a writer, researcher, and educator of mixed Japanese Canadian heritage living in Toronto. Intrigued by the power and magic of stories, she earned a Master's (Goldsmiths College) and a Doctorate (University of Toronto) in English. Living abroad inspired her to learn about her family's experience of internment. Lara writes about dispossession, hoarding, social justice, and carrying the important lessons of the past into the future. Andrea Warner (she/her) writes and talks. A lot. She's the author of Buffy Sainte-Marie: The Authorized Biography and We Oughta Know: How Four Women Ruled the '90s and Changed Canadian Music. She's the co-writer and associate producer of the 2022 documentary Buffy Sainte-Marie: Carry It On and co-hosts the the weekly feminist pop culture podcast Pop This!. ABOUT MEGAN COLE: Megan Cole the Director of Programming and Communications for the BC and Yukon Book Prizes. She is also a writer based on the territory of the Tla'amin Nation. Megan writes creative nonfiction and has had essays published in Chatelaine, This Magazine, The Puritan, Untethered, and more. She has her MFA in creative nonfiction from the University of King's College and is working her first book. Find out more about Megan at megancolewriter.com ABOUT THE PODCAST: Writing the Coast is recorded and produced on the territory of the Tla'amin Nation. As a settler on these lands, Megan Cole finds opportunities to learn and listen to the stories from those whose land was stolen. Writing the Coast is a recorded series of conversations, readings, and insights into the work of the writers, illustrators, and creators whose books are nominated for the annual BC and Yukon Book Prizes. We'll also check in on people in the writing community who are supporting books, writers and readers every day. The podcast is produced and hosted by Megan Cole.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE: In this episode, host Megan Cole talks to Janis Bridger and Lara Jean Okihiro. Janis and Lara are the authors of Obaasan's Boots, which was a finalist for the 2024 Sheila A. Egoff Children's Literature Prize. In their conversation, Lara and Janis talk about their relationship and how that evolved through the writing of the book. We also talked about why Canadians don't talk about Japanese internment and the role that books play in humanizing it. Visit BC and Yukon Book Prizes: bcyukonbookprizes.com/ About Obaasan's Boots: https://bcyukonbookprizes.com/project/obaasans-boots/ ABOUT THE AUTHORS: Lara Jean Okihiro is a writer, researcher, and educator of mixed Japanese Canadian heritage living in Toronto. Intrigued by the power and magic of stories, she earned a Master's (Goldsmiths College) and a Doctorate (University of Toronto) in English. Living abroad inspired her to learn about her family's experience of internment. Lara writes about dispossession, hoarding, social justice, and carrying the important lessons of the past into the future. Janis Bridger is an educator and writer who has many creative outlets and a love for the outdoors. She lives in Vancouver, Canada, close to where her Japanese Canadian grandparents lived before being interned. Janis earned a diploma in Professional Photography (Langara College), a Bachelor of Education and General Studies (Simon Fraser University) and a Master of Education (University of Alberta), specializing in teacher-librarianship. Social justice, diversity, and kindness are paramount in her life and embedded in her everyday teaching. ABOUT MEGAN COLE: Megan Cole the Director of Programming and Communications for the BC and Yukon Book Prizes. She is also a writer based on the territory of the Tla'amin Nation. Megan writes creative nonfiction and has had essays published in Chatelaine, This Magazine, The Puritan, Untethered, and more. She has her MFA in creative nonfiction from the University of King's College and is working her first book. Find out more about Megan at megancolewriter.com ABOUT THE PODCAST: Writing the Coast is recorded and produced on the territory of the Tla'amin Nation. As a settler on these lands, Megan Cole finds opportunities to learn and listen to the stories from those whose land was stolen. Writing the Coast is a recorded series of conversations, readings, and insights into the work of the writers, illustrators, and creators whose books are nominated for the annual BC and Yukon Book Prizes. We'll also check in on people in the writing community who are supporting books, writers and readers every day. The podcast is produced and hosted by Megan Cole.

ABOUT THIS EPISODE: In this episode, you'll hear from three different authors: Lara Jean Okihiro, Janis Bridger, and Jordan Scott. Lara and Janis wrote the book Obaasan's Boots, and Jordan wrote My Baba's Garden. In the summer, these three authors participated in our Storied video On Writing About Family. These are their reflections on how writing about family can be one of the most complicated things, and how they each approached it in their work. Visit BC and Yukon Book Prizes: bcyukonbookprizes.com/ View the full Storied: On Writing About Family: https://vimeo.com/showcase/11316134?share=copy ABOUT THE AUTHORS: Lara Jean Okihiro is a writer, researcher, and educator of mixed Japanese Canadian heritage living in Toronto. Intrigued by the power and magic of stories, she earned a Master's (Goldsmiths College) and a Doctorate (University of Toronto) in English. Living abroad inspired her to learn about her family's experience of internment. Lara writes about dispossession, hoarding, social justice, and carrying the important lessons of the past into the future. Janis Bridger is an educator and writer who has many creative outlets and a love for the outdoors. She lives in Vancouver, Canada, close to where her Japanese Canadian grandparents lived before being interned. Janis earned a diploma in Professional Photography (Langara College), a Bachelor of Education and General Studies (Simon Fraser University) and a Master of Education (University of Alberta), specializing in teacher-librarianship. Social justice, diversity, and kindness are paramount in her life and embedded in her everyday teaching. Jordan Scott is a poet whose work includes Silt, Blert, DECOMP, and Night & Ox. Blert, which explores the poetics of stuttering, is the subject of two National Film Board of Canada projects, Flub and Utter: a poetic memoir of the mouth and STUTTER. Scott was the recipient of the 2018 Latner Writers' Trust Poetry Prize for his contributions to Canadian poetry. He is the author of I Talk Like a River, winner of the Boston Globe-Horn Book Award. He lives in the Comox Valley on Vancouver Island with his wife and two sons. ABOUT MEGAN COLE: Megan Cole the Director of Programming and Communications for the BC and Yukon Book Prizes. She is also a writer based on the territory of the Tla'amin Nation. Megan writes creative nonfiction and has had essays published in Chatelaine, This Magazine, The Puritan, Untethered, and more. She has her MFA in creative nonfiction from the University of King's College and is working her first book. Find out more about Megan at megancolewriter.com ABOUT THE PODCAST: Writing the Coast is recorded and produced on the territory of the Tla'amin Nation. As a settler on these lands, Megan Cole finds opportunities to learn and listen to the stories from those whose land was stolen. Writing the Coast is a recorded series of conversations, readings, and insights into the work of the writers, illustrators, and creators whose books are nominated for the annual BC and Yukon Book Prizes. We'll also check in on people in the writing community who are supporting books, writers and readers every day. The podcast is produced and hosted by Megan Cole.

Kaley and Taylor discuss Jenny Han's "Always and Forever, Lara Jean," the 3rd book in the "To All The Boys" series, and compare it to its Netflix movie adaptation. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tbwbpodcast/support

To All The Boys I've Loved Before is a 2018 Teen Romantic Comedy directed by Susan Johnson and based on the novel by Jenny Han. To All The Boys is the story of Lara Jean Covey - LJ, played by Lana Condor. Lara Jean writes 5 letters dedicated to all the boys she's ever loved. The letters were never sent, just a way for her to express her emotions… until… somehow… the letters get mailed. Of the 5 letters sent, 3 of them are pretty notable, including one sent to Lara's older sisters ex boyfriend Josh played by Israel Broussard. There is also a letter sent to Kenny, played by Edward Kewin. And finally a letter is sent to Peter Kavinsky played by Noah Centineo.  Also want to mention Anna Cathcart who plays Lara Jean's younger sister Kitty. Janel Parrish plays the older sister Margot. John Corbett plays Dr Covey, Lara Jean's father.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ruby is joined by actors Lara Jean Marshall & Sophie Bennett, a.k.a Lisa and Stevie from The OG Saddle Club, to talk about their collaboration with The Sims 4, the on-set horse drama from back in the day, and how many hands tall they are. The number may shock you, and it also may not! Watch the Sims 4 Saddle Club episode here:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yZyrnSVLqrU  Find us online:https://backpocket.gg/https://twitch.tv/back_pockethttps://www.youtube.com/@BackPocketVids Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We're back with more from the To All the Boys Extended Universe (TAtBEU) talking about Netflix's To All the Boys I've Loved Before, P.S. I Still Love You, and Always and Forever. Kaycee is once again joined by Cousin Kristen (who you've heard in our Christmas Home Alone 2 episode). We ask if it's possible to go back to high school and date a Peter Kavinsky, agree with how much we love the redemption arc for mean girl Gen, and discuss the greatness of John Corbett as a teen movie dad. Plus, as most of Kaycee's conversations do, we end up pissed off about the nonsense that was the Pretty Little Liars series finale. Episode Notes and More  Follow us on Instagram ⁠@toalltheya⁠ Collect YA faves like to All the Boys at ⁠The Book Bundler.⁠ Use code TOALLTHEYA to get 20% off your order. This is a Pink Plaid Media Production. Reading, writing, telling stories. Visit ⁠pinkplaidmedia.com⁠ for more Theme Music by ⁠Slip.stream⁠ - "In And Out Of Love" 

In today's episode, Kaycee crawls out of her Covid hell cave to talk with Ashley about the absolutely delightful To All the Boys I've Loved Before by Jenny Han and another favorite trope Fake Dating. The ladies love Lara Jean's sweet, poetic love letters, have a total hate on for Josh (Peter Kavinsky all the way!), and discuss the evolution of YA Romance. Plus, Kaycee shares a bit about the most embarrassing letter she ever wrote to a boy in high school (while dying a little bit on the inside) and they learn what a cravat is. Episode Notes and More  Follow us on Instagram @toalltheya Collect YA faves like to All the Boys at The Book Bundler. Use code TOALLTHEYA to get 20% off your order. This is a Pink Plaid Media Production. Reading, writing, telling stories. Visit pinkplaidmedia.com for more Theme Music by Slip.stream - "In And Out Of Love"

Part 2 of our XO Kitty episode.  XO Kitty is a brand new Netflix Romantic Comedy Series, it's a spinoff of the To All The Boys Series written by Jenny Han. The original film Trilogy was the story of Lara Jean, this is the story of her younger sister Kitty Song Covey played by Anna Cathcart. Kitty is dating this guy she met in South Korea named Dae. Kitty applies to go to the same school as Dae in South Korea. Kitty gets IN, but not all goes to plan specifically with a classic love triangle/new romance with one of Dae's class mates Yuri.See omny.fm/listener for privacy information.

XO Kitty is a brand new Netflix Romantic Comedy Series… it's a spinoff of the To All The Boys Series written by Jenny Han. The original film Trilogy was the story of Lara Jean… this is the story of her younger sister Kitty Song Covey played by Anna Cathcart. Kitty is dating this guy she met in South Korea named Dae… Kitty applies to go to the same school as Dae in South Korea. Kitty gets IN but not all goes to plan specifically with a classic love triangle SLASH new romance with one of Dae's class mates Yuri.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kitty Song Covey, adik Lara Jean dari To All The Boys I've Loved Before, dapat cerita sendiri. Perjalanan cinta sang remaja ini bikin kita paham akan cara pikir dan gaya pacaran anak Gen Z. Dengan setting multikultural di asrama sekolah Kitty yang berisi warga Amerika Serikat, Eropa, dan Korea Selatan, kita bisa menikmati komedi sekaligus dipersiapkan jadi orang tua muda. Simak solo review Ulil untuk komedi remaja yang segar ini.

Lara Jean Mummert is a dancer who's path has taken many fortuitous turns. She has performed as a contemporary dancer, as a touring musical theater artist, and even as an award-winning actress in horror films with more than 40 credits (look her up on imdb). How did a budding ballerina find so much varied work? She tells you how in this episode.

Join us in this heartwarming episode as we turn the spotlight on our favorite romantic comedies, including the Netflix sensation, 'To All The Boys I've Loved Before'. Uncover the allure of rom-coms, from their irresistible charm to their timeless themes of love and friendship.In our deep-dive, we'll delve into the nuanced storytelling of 'To All The Boys I've Loved Before', exploring its impact on the genre and the ways it has resonated with audiences worldwide. We'll also touch on our favorite romantic comedies, which we think are overrated, and why they continue to captivate viewers across generations.Expect a lively discussion on memorable movie moments, iconic characters like Lara Jean and Peter Kavinsky, the magic of rom-com tropes, and how films like 'To All The Boys I've Loved Before' have redefined the cinematic landscape of love and laughter.Whether you're a die-hard rom-com fan or a casual viewer, there's something in this episode for you. Tune in and let's celebrate the joy and romance these films bring to our screens and our lives.Contact us:Email: djandem2022@gmail.com (we promise we're checking!)Instagram: @_thisthatandchitchatComment on the episode at: yourmomshome.comBeReal: @djbelnap @ecgatesBoard Game Arena: djb242 ecg816Okay love you! Send us your questions, your rants, your recs, your topics, etc!Music by the fabulous Jacob Seely This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.yourmomshome.com

On today's What to Watch: To All the Boys I've Loved Before spinoff series XO, Kitty debuts, centering on Lara Jean's little sister Kitty as she chases down true love. On the season finale of Mrs. Davis, Simone knows what she has to do to destroy the Holy Grail. Meredith is back on the season finale of Grey's Anatomy. Plus, Hollywood trivia, and entertainment headlines, including renewals of Virgin River and Georgia & Ginny, and Jason Momoa to host Discovery's Shark Week. More at ew.com, ew.com/wtw, and @EW on Twitter and @EntertainmentWeekly everywhere else. Host/Writer/Producer: Gerrad Hall (@gerradhall); Producer/Writer: Ashley Boucher (@ashleybreports); Editor: Samee Junio (@it_your_sam); Writer: Calie Schepp; Executive Producer: Chanelle Johnson (@chanelleberlin). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Wrapping up our series on To All The Boys, we look at how psychology and long distances affect the relationships in the films as well as in real life. Erin of course dips into her psychology expertise to talk about the vulnerability cycle in relationships, and how we see this play out especially in Lara Jean and Peter's story. And Rhonda breaks down some of the locations used in the films, from the Pacific Northwest, to Seoul, to NYC, looking at how setting informs the characters and story. Further Reading: The Vulnerability Cycle in human relationships Filming locations in the movies --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/pop-dna-podcast/message

Love letters and romance novels are two of the most prominent genres of writing that inform our cultural ideas about love and romance, and both feature prominently in To All the Boys. Lara Jean is an avid romance reader, and even has fantasies inspired by common romance novel tropes, and of course the entire premise of the first book and movie revolves around Lara Jean's love letters. This week we dive into both of these forms of writing, the history behind them, how society has viewed them (and those who read and write these genres), and how we see these attitudes reflected and subverted in To All the Boys. It's a perfect discussion for Valentine's (or Galentine's) Day! Further reading: History of Love Letters Why we love the fake dating trope Follow us on Instagram for some very well-planned and relevant content. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/pop-dna-podcast/message

Dear Sweet Listeners, we're really happy you joined us this season! And while we dove deep into the books as we read them week by week, the truth is we still have a LOT to discuss. Does Jenny Han's almost decade-old book trilogy stand-up to the test of time? We'd say yes — it hits us with waves of nostalgia, cuteness, romance and fun. But outside of that there's even more to unfold: the characters we love, do Lara Jean and Peter make it after college? What happens to everyone else? And also, what book series are we doing for season 7? Always & Forever, Laura & Meggie

Dear Sweet Listeners, just as quickly as it seems this season started it's already time to finish it up with the final installment of To All the Boys. The book jumps forward and it's now Lara Jean's senior year. Her and Peter are still together and even more lovey-dovey and while all on the surface is great, the reality that college is just a few months away is starting to set in. Lara Jean's mom always said not to go to college with a boyfriend, but does that still apply when you're dating Peter Kavinksy? Always and Forever, Meggie & Laura

Dear Sweet Listeners, it's time for the second installment of To All the Boys and we can't wait to talk about it with you. First things first: Lara Jean and Peter are back on! And for real this time. But all isn't easy-breezy since Peter's ex Gen is still clinging to Peter as much as she can, and Peter isn't exactly setting a boundary (yikes!). What's more is that another suitor, the cute and confident John Ambrose McClaren, responds to Lara Jean's long lost love letter (uh oh!). With her and Peter's relationship on the rocks will John sweep her off her feet? Tune in and find out! Love, Laura & Meggie P.S. don't forget to rate and review us! we'd greatly appreciate it!! 

Dear Sweet Listeners, we love you, we really love you and we want to humbly welcome you to our 6th season where we are reading Jenny Han's To All the Boys Trilogy. Lara Jean, our protagonist is your typical teen who loves to bake and fly under the radar. When someone sends out the 5 love letters she wrote throughout her youth to commemorate her crushes, things quickly change. Now her older sister's ex is talking about his long lost feelings for her and Lara Jean quickly jumps into a fake relationship with heartthrob Peter Kavinsky. How could anything go wrong? Love, Meggie & Laura

Noah Centineo, star of ‘Black Adam' and ‘To All the Boys I've Loved Before' joins us today to talk about everything from chicken nuggets to self belief. So get ready for a varied chat to say the least! Believe it or not, Noah has been working since he was just 8 years old, starting his career on the Disney Channel. Then, in 2018 when the first movie of the ‘To All The Boys I Loved Before' trilogy was released, he became the internet's boyfriend practically overnight. There was so much thirst for the movie, he went from 300,000 Instagram followers to 11 million in seven days! If you haven't watched the movies before, stop right now and run to Netflix. They follow Lara Jean (played by Lana Condor) who's private love letters are exposed to her high school and Noah's character hot jock Peter comes to take her heart, and ours, too. It's pure joy and escapism! Noah is making a childhood dream come true by slipping into his finest superhero outfit and starring in the latest DC universe film, ‘Black Adam'. The movie follows Noah's character Atom Smasher who is called up to join the Justice League along with Hawkman (Aldis Hodge), Dr. Fate (Pierce Brosnan) and Cyclone (Quintessa Swindell) to suss out the mythical superhero, Black Adam who wakes after 5,000 years. Is he good? Is he bad? Well he's played by none other than Dwayne Johnson AKA The Rock - or as Noah calls him DJ - so that's worth watching the movie to find out isn't it! In this episode Noah reveals just how epic The Rock is IRL and just how intense filming the movie was - which involved dislocated joints, so rather him than me! - and how the training to prepare for the movie made him reflect on his body image and his mindset. And don't worry Noah also struggles to get himself in the gym too! Not just us then (relief!) but he does have a little inspirational advice to get your ass up and in that gym. Whilst we also talk about my favourite topic on the planet: chicken nuggets, what I love most about this episode are the words Noah shares about, self-belief, manifestation (he loves a vision board!), putting in the work and refusing to be boxed in. If you have missed any of the episodes of Reign Season six go check them out now - we've been joined by Stranger Things star, Natalia Dyer, iCarly's Miranda Cosgrove, Fate: The Winx Saga, Abigail Cowen, Lena Dunham and MORE! I hope you keep on listening and finding the power to Reign in your own lives. If you love this episode, please get in touch (follow me across social media @joshsmithhosts), I love hearing from you. Love, Josh xxx

Hi, Should-heads! We've got a treat for you today--we're joined by our friend Kendell to share the books you should read based on your sign. We started with our own (Aries, Cancer and Libra) but will end up doing recommendations for every sign.Look for the books mentioned in this episode on Libro.fm by using our affiliate link. When you buy using this link, you are supporting the podcast! AND if you use our code WYSR at checkout you can get your first two books for the price of one.  Check out our recommendations here: https://libro.fm/playlists/2450  Discussion links:Salman RushdieGender Queer removed from school libraryCurrently Reading: Julia: Well Traveled (Jen DeLuca)Kelly:  Widowland (C.J. Carey)Rachael: What a Complete Aisling (Emer McLysaght and Sarah Breen) and I'm Glad My Mom Died (Jennette McCurdy)Recent Acquisitions:Julia: Grown Ups (Marie Aubert) and The Lies That Bind (Emily Giffin)Kelly: A Hundred Other Girls (Iman Hariri-Kia), The Last Beautiful Girl (Nina Laurin), Mary Jane (Jessica Anya Blau), Home Field Advantage (Dahlia Adler), Violet Made of Thorns (Gina Chen), Loveless (Alice Oseman) and the game book How to Get Away With MurderRachael: The Aisling series (Emer McLysaght and Sarah Breen), Mistakes Were Made (Meryl Wilsner), Meredith, Alone (Claire Alexander) and The Lost Ticket (Freya Sampson)Recs By Sign:Aries: When Women Were Dragons (Kelly Barnhill), the Jessica Darling series (Megan McCafferty) and Carrie Soto is Back (Taylor Jenkins Reid)Cancer: the Lara Jean series (Jenny Han), Homegoing (Yaa Gyasi) and Darius the Great is Not Okay (Adib Khorram)Libra: The Post-Birthday World (Lionel Shriver), Emma (Jane Austen) and the Aisling series (Emer McLysaght and Sarah Breen)Our next book club book: Meredith, Alone (Claire Alexander)Follow us:Twitter and Instagram: wysr_podcast

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Summary:  In this episode, we focus on how unresolved trauma undermines and sabotages both our capacity and our inclination to love well.  We explore how unresolved trauma impacts each of the five characteristics of love -- compromising our ability to love in an affective (emotional), affirming, responsive, unitive and steadfast way.  We also dive into how so trauma pulls us to focus inward, and to protect ourselves, undercutting the vulnerability and willingness to engage that are required for deep love and we discuss hope for change.   Lead-in  They say love is blind, but it's trauma that's blind. Love sees what is.“ — Neil Strauss, The Truth: An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships And Neil Strauss is right on that.  Love connects with reality.  With God who is the ultimate realness, the ultimate being, the I AM.   Trauma is blind and it blinds us.  That's what we are talking about today.  Trauma and its impact on live.   Intro: Dear listener, You and I are together in the adventure of this podcast, Interior Integration for Catholics, we are journeying together, and I am thankful to be with you.   I am Dr. Peter Malinoski, clinical psychologist and passionate Catholic and together, Why are we here?  We are here together to bring you the best of psychology and human formation and harmonize it with the perennial truths of the Catholic Faith. So we can have the best of both.  That's why.   Today, we're going to take a broad perspective, a bird's-eye view of trauma's destructive consequences to our capacity to love.  What is the effect of trauma on our capacity and inclination to love?  That is the question for us to explore together today.   So welcome to episode 95,  of Interior Integration for Catholics, titled Trauma's Devastating Impact on our Capacity to Love, released on July 4, 2022, Independency Day in the USA, This podcast, Interior Integration for Catholics is part of our broader outreach, Souls and Hearts bringing the best of psychology grounded in a Catholic worldview to you and the rest of the world through our website soulsandhearts.com.   Review Trauma.  We are in the midst of  whole series of episodes on trauma.  So just a brief thumbnail review.   Started with Episode 88 Trauma: Defining and Understanding the Experience  Really important to understand the inner experience of trauma -- so you can recognize it in your own life and recognize it an empathetic and attuned way in others' loves.  Part of loving them.   Episode 89 Your Trauma, Your Body: Protection vs. Connection --  a current understanding of how large a role our bodies have in our experience of trauma.  Our bodies.   Episode 90:  Your Well-Being: The Secular Experts Speak  we review how philosophers and modern secular psychologists understand mental health and well-being.  In this episode, we look at the attempts to define what make us happy, from the 4th century BC to the present day.  Aristippus, Aristotle, Descartes, Freud, Seligman, Porges, Schwartz, and two diagnostic systems.  We take a special look at how positive psychology and Internal Family Systems see well-being.   Episode 92:  Understanding and Healing your Mind through IPNB  neuropsychiatrist Dr. Dan Siegel's Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) and what IPNB can show us about psychological health.  We review the triangle of well-being, the nature of secure attachments, and the basis for mental health from an IPNB perspective.  We examine the characteristics of a healthy mind and how it functions, and the two signs that reliable indicate all psychological symptoms and mental dysfunction.  We discuss the nine domains of integration Three inner experiential exercises in Episode 93 Episode 94:  The Primacy of Love  In this episode, I discuss the central importance of love as the marker of well-being from a Catholic perspective -- our capacity to live out  the two great commandments.  We explore how love is the distinguishing characteristics of Christians, and we discussed Catholic theologian Bernard Brady's five attributes or characteristics of love -- how love is affective, affirming, responsive, unitive and steadfast.  We discuss what is commonly missing from philosophical and theological approaches to love, and we briefly touch in the death of love and distortions of love.  So check those out if you haven't already.  This    Going to address love in general -- focusing on loving  In future episodes, will review  Tolerating being loved Brady quxote   Ordered self-love   The experience of trauma screws up our loves -- where we go to find good.  It screws up where we are seeking, how we seek to be loved and how we seek to love.   St. Augustine:   He lives in justice and sanctity who is an unprejudiced assessor of the intrinsic value of things.  He is a man who has an ordinate love: he neither loves what should not be loved nor fails to love what should be loved. On Christina Doctrine, I, 27 We need ordered love.  Why -- Bernard Brady put it -- Because we become like what we love.  Whatever we embrace in our love, we become like that person or that thing.   As Augustine considered the dissipation of this youth, he wrote "I loved beautiful things of a lower order, and I was going down to the depths."   Confessions.   So much of the problem with disordered love  comes from misdirected seeking to get your attachment needs meet.  That's the problem. We have legitimate attachment needs  Trauma strips away our sense of  A felt sense of Safety and security Feeling seen, heard, known and understood Feeling comforted, soothed, reassured Feeling cherished, treasured, delighted in Feel the other person wills my highest good.   All from Brown and Elliott 2016, Attachment disturbances in Adults Where do we find our safety and security?  In both the natural and spiritual realms, we find it in attachment security needs being met.  Five primary attachment security needs (Brown and Elliott)  A felt sense of safety and protection, a deep sense of security, felt in my bones It makes it so much easier to love when we feel safe and secure.    "People want to be safe, and comfortable. If safety and comfort is to be found in guns, then they will take up guns—of their own accord, in their own need. And when safety and comfort are found in libraries, then the guns rust.“ — Algis Budrys American writer  Source: Some Will Not Die (1961), Chapter 6 (p. 122)   Feeling seen, heard, known, and understood   I want, by understanding myself, to understand others.“ — Katherine Mansfield New Zealand author 1888 - 1923 Being comforted, soothed, and reassured Feeling valued, cherished, treasured, delighted in You are my sunshine published by Jimmie Davis and Charles Mitchell on January 30, 1940   You are my sunshineMy only sunshineYou make me happyWhen skies are grayYou'll never know, dearHow much I love youPlease don't take my sunshine away Feeling that the other person wills my highest good, the best for me We have to turn inward to find the road to God.   Etienne Gilson explained Augustine's approach to God as "a path leading from the exterior to the interior and from the interior to the superior."  Gilson, The Christian Philosophy of St. Augustine p. 20 Charles Taylor:  Sources of the Self: By going inward, I am drawn upward.  The Making of Modern Identity 134 Turning inward is the route to God, not God.  Brady, 120 Often resisted by Catholics as being selfish.   Edward Vacek:  Love, Human and Divine: The Heart of Christian Ethics.  The steps in loving and being loved.    (1) God affirms us; (2) God receives a; (3) we accept God's love; (4) we affirm God; (5) God forms community with us; (6) we cooperate with God in loving God in the world; and finally (7) we grow in a limited code responsibility with God. p.. 177 1 John 4:19 We love, because he first loved us.     Last episode -- Bernard Brady's description of the five characteristics of Love  Christian Love: How Christians through the Ages have Understood Love.-- drawing heavily from the work of phenomenologists  Jules Toner and Margaret Farley Love is affective, affirming, responsive, unitive and steadfast.  (repeat)  Five characteristics.  Five aspects.  Repeat.   We described and discussed these at length in the last episode, episode 94 of the IIC podcast, The Primacy of Love  We will briefly review each of them And then discuss how trauma impacts each of them, bringing in the effects or the sequelae of trauma from Episode 88 --  Trauma: Defining and Understanding the Experience.   Love is affective  Love is an emotion Love is a movement from your heart, your soul -- a movement from the innermost depths of your being.  From your core self.  St. Thomas Aquinas in the Summa:  Consequently the freezing or hardening of the heart is a disposition incompatible with love: while melting denotes a softening of the heart, whereby the heart shows itself to be ready for the entrance of the beloved.“ Love rejoices in the beloved  Love rejoices in the beloved -- Protestant Theologian R.H. Neibuhr writes in his 1977 book the Purpose of the Church and Its Ministry:  By love, we mean at least these attitudes and actions: rejoicing in the presence of the beloved, gratitude, reverence, and loyalty toward him.  p.35 „After a traumatic experience, the human system of self-preservation seems to go onto permanent alert, as if the danger might return at any moment.“  Judith Herman Brené Brown US writer and professor 1965 Source: The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are  Staying vulnerable is a risk we have to take if we want to experience connection.  Misattributed to Sigmund Freud Out of your vulnerabilities will come your strength. Brady:  Love is the directive and dominant center of emotions.  p. 267  Many emotions are associated with love Delight, Bliss, Happiness  A sense of fulfillment  Warmth  Grief  Sadness  Anxiety  Distress   If there is no emotion, there is no agape, no love.  The heart must be moved for love to be anything like complete.  We cannot love like a Vulcan, like Mr. Spock without emotion.  „Even the most elevated psychological understanding is not a loving understanding.“ — Karl Jaspers German psychiatrist and philosopher 1883 - 1969 Effects of trauma -- from episode 88, Trauma: Defining and Understanding the experience  Emotional and Psychological effects Emotional overwhelm  Shock  Shame as an emotion  Guilt  Irritability, anger, rage   Anxiety, fear, panic attacks, phobia, panic attacks, Fears of trauma repeating Jenny Han, book Always and Forever, Lara Jean  Being vulnerable, letting people in, getting hurt… it's all part of being in love.   Sadness, depression  Mood swings   Hopelessness, despair Emotional constriction, shutting down Difficulty experiencing positive emotions Anhedonia Apathy Brady 273.  Love does not die because of hate but because of apathy.   Cognitive Effects -- impact on sensation, perceptive, higher-order thinking Alexithymia -- inability to recognize or describe one's own emotions -- can't put my feelings into words.   Can't conceptualize your feelings either Feelings in others could be overwhelming -- can't recognize what others are feeling Can't express my feelings well Can't connect affectively, emotionally. That takes vulnerability   Confusion, distraction  Spacing out with dissociation   Physical Effects of trauma -- preoccupation with the body   Behavioral Symptoms Relational apathy  Social withdrawal   Existential Symptoms Despair about humanity -- overgeneralized to the other person  Cynicism  Disillusionment   Identity issues -- shame.   I'm not worth you connecting emotionally with me What could I ever offer you emotionally? I'm such a downer. Strong self-criticism  Fragmentation Love is affirming Love affirms the other  Love says yes to the other person at the same time as love says yes to oneself.   "Agape is the simple yet profound recognition of the worthiness of and goodness in persons."  p. 268  Edward Vacek:  Love is an affective, affirming participation in the goodness of a being (or Being).… Love is an emotional, affirming participation the dynamic tendency of an object to realize its fullness.”  Brene Brown -- Rising Strong  Vulnerability is not winning or losing; it's having the courage to show up and be seen when we have no control over the outcome. Vulnerability is not weakness; it's our greatest measure of courage.“   Affirmation happens at two levels One level is the basic level of human dignity shared by all persons.   Second level of affirmation is the uniqueness of the person.   When you love your neighbor you truly see the other as a person.   Jules Toner, SJ -- "I love you because you are you." We need to affirm at both levels.  The basic dignity of the person and the uniqueness of the person.   Affirmation implies acceptance of the other and knowledge of the other.    This is not an endorsement of the other's vices or bad habits, but a recognition of them and an acceptance of who the person is as an entire being.  Not picking and choosing the attractive bits.  Self-acceptance of the same things. Affirmation requires freedom -- freedom to get outside the self.   Effects of trauma  Emotional and Psychological effects  Turning inward -- self-protection. Connections vs. protection -- Episode 89 Where is the safety?   How can I escape the danger?  Not letting anyone in to love me.   Feeling disconnected or numb or detached -- dorsal vagal response.  Freeze response.  Deer in the headlights Bodily response Emotional Constriction, Shutdown   Shame -- what is my affirmation of you worth?  I'm not worth much, my affirmation isn't worth much.  Feeling very fragile, vulnerable -- not resilient enough --  I can't engage  Irritability, hostility,  Depression -- lethargy  Mood swings -- unpredictability, others can't trust me.   Emotional detachment, disconnection -- in relationships  Helplessness  Difficulty experiencing positive emotions  How can I reach out?  White knuckling. Feels very forced.  Cognitive Effects -- impact on sensation, perceptive, higher-order thinking Racing thoughts -- so distracting, I can attend to you, I can't attune to you, I can't affirm you.  My house is on fire.   Extreme alertness - suspicion of you -- are you a threat?  Will you trigger me?   Physical Effects   Behavioral Symptoms Argumentative behavior  Social withdrawal and relational apathy.  Avoidance   Existential Symptoms Ruminating about evil in the world   Identity issues -- shame If I affirm you I will see myself in a bad light because of my shame  Affirmation involved a positive evaluation -- so tempting to see myself negatively.   Fragmentation  Lack of affirmation from the whole self Toner [Radical love] "is giving self; for it is myself who am in the loved one by my love, not merely by my possessions, or even my thoughts, my wit, my joy, my wisdom, my strength.  It is I myself."   Toner:  Loving someone in depth… Means loving from the lovers most personal self, with sincerity, intensity, endurance… To affectively affirm this unique person in a response informed by full, detailed knowledge, which catches the delicate shadings of his profoundest attitudes, moods, likes, and dislikes, ideals, fears, hopes, capabilities, weaknesses, etc.  The experience of love 160   Love is Responsive  Love is an active response for the well-being of the other.  This is where Brady includes benevolence.  It's about participating in the promotion of the highest good for the other, potential for the other's full humanity. How can I help you to flourish?  How can I help you toward your highest good?   This is where self-sacrifice comes in.   love will call for self-sacrifice.   Responsiveness implies an attunement to the other -- a resonance, and understanding.  The capacity to respond well.  It's not just any responsiveness.  The ability to be aware of and to respond effectively to the needs of my neighbor.  So there is a capacity about this.  It's not just an act of the will.  Attunement can be described as a kind of resonance.  Toner:  Radical love is experience as being in accord with the loved one, vibrating as it were, in harmony with the beloved's act of being and so with the whole melody of the beloved's life.  It is a welcoming of the loved one into the lover's self and his life-world, as fitting there, making a harmony with the lover's being and life.   But there must also be action:  "Let us love, not in word or speech, but in truth and action."  ` John 3:18. Parents "Doing the best they can"  Love bottled up inside.  -- Not expressed.  Then it's not love.  Love that is not shared, that is not relational is not love.   Brene Brown:  Of all the things trauma takes away from us, the worst is our willingness, or even our ability, to be vulnerable. There's a reclaiming that has to happen.  Rising Strong 2015 Madeleine L'Engle Walking on water (1980) When we were children, we used to think that when we were grown-up we would no longer be vulnerable. But to grow up is to accept vulnerability… To be alive is to be vulnerable.  To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken.“ — Clive Staples Lewis, book The Four Loves   The Letter of James 2:45-17.   What does it profit, my brethren, if a man says he has faith but has not works? Can his faith save him? If a brother or sister is ill-clad and in lack of daily food, 16 and one of you says to them, “Go in peace, be warmed and filled,” without giving them the things needed for the body, what does it profit?  So faith by itself, if it has no works, is dead. Responsive to needs  Not just physical needs, but the emotional needs, psychological needs, relational needs   St. Bernard of Clairvaux:  We must remember that love reveals itself, not by words or phrases, but by actions and experience.  It is Love with speaks here, and if anyone wished to understand it, let him first love.   Effects of trauma  Emotional and Psychological effects Overwhelm  Shock  Shame  Irritability, anger, rage  Anxiety, fear, apprehension  Guilt  Sadness, depression, grief  Helplessness, despair  Mood swings -- swept away by our own experience  Anhedonia -- difficulty experiencing positive emotions.  Apathy   Protection vs. connection.  I'm on fire inside, I am frozen inside.  It's chaotic inside Intense self-preoccupation.  Not selfishness.  It's really hard to judge the moral quality of these things accurately.   When we are preoccupied with the intensity of our own experience, it's hard to be responsive to the other person.     Cognitive Effects -- impact on sensation, perceptive, higher-order thinking “When something reminds traumatized people of the past, their right brain reacts as if the traumatic event were happening in the present. But because their left brain is not working very well, they may not be aware that they are re-experiencing and reenacting the past - they are just furious, terrified, enraged, ashamed, or frozen.”  ― Bessel Van Der Kolk Difficulty concentrating, even focusing on the other person.  Confusion.  Others sense the disconnect.  Not attuned.    Guardedness -- protecting against vulnerability Questioning "Why me?" makes it hard to respond to you.     Physical Effects Behavioral Symptoms Startle responses   Argumentative behavior Social withdrawal and relational apathy.  Avoidance Reducing activity levels Existential Symptoms I am permanently damaged.  How could I ever be responsive in love.  Who would want me?  Can be unconscious.   Identity issues -- shame I am permanently damaged.   Fragmentation -- not a consistent, complete, unified response to the other -- partial responses that seem very incomplete, maybe insincere to the other person.  Love requires our whole being Fr. Jules Toner:  in the full concrete experience of love, our whole being, spirit and flesh, is involved: cognitive acts, feelings and affections, freedom, bodily reactions – all these are influencing each other and all are continually fluctuating in such a way as to change the structure and intensity of the experience. The experience of love. P. 65 Love is Unitive Brady:  The fruit of love is unity.  Love unites.  It is in the very nature of love to bring together.  p. 279  Brady:  When you love, you step out of yourself and experience the other.   There is still a separateness.  Not a blending or a fusion or a loss of identity.  But you are no longer just within yourself.  You've entered into the space of another.   And you've allow the other to enter into your space Loving an enemy -- you are like me.  We are similar on a fundamental human level -- No dehumanization.  Agape pulls for unity, even with strangers.   The mystics describe the unity we are called to in God -- Union with God.   Jules Toner: Radical love is not a tendency affection but a being affection by which I am in union with, am present with the loved one.   Effects of trauma -- Protection vs. Connection  Emotional and Psychological effects Emotional instability, inconsistency -- unpredictability.  Makes it hard for the other to trust you.   Preoccupation pulls you inside -- guilt, shame -- self protection. St. Augustine:  "..if [a man] loves himself on his own account, he does not turn himself toward God, but being turned toward himself, he does not care for anything immutable…."  On Christian Doctrine, Book 1, Chapter 22  And the why doesn't matter nearly so much as people think it does.   Evil comes from loving some good thing inordinately -- blog post on this -- check it out.  Dangerous love, from June 22, 2022 That good thing might be the means that parts of us are seeking to try to provide us with a sense of safety and security.   Fear of vulnerability When trust is lost, traumatized people feel that they belong more to the dead than to the living.“ — Judith Herman Trauma and Recovery  Love is a battlefield  -Pat Benatar 1983 -- music video about all the conflict with her father, and with others seeking to use her as a sexual object.   Fear of overwhelming suffering  Shutdown  Alexithymia   Cognitive Effects -- impact on sensation, perceptive, higher-order thinking Distraction, rumination, racing thoughts interfere with capacity to attune, to unite  So much internal stimulation -- so much internal noise -- makes it difficult to resonate with the other person, to really understand the other -- to enter into the other's phenomenological world.   So much of that distraction is around finding safety and protection -- cognitive restlessness  Dissociation and disconnections are experienced as off-putting.  Have you ever been with someone who is spacing out when you are talking with them?   Physical Effects   Behavioral Symptoms Blaming  Discharging anger and aggression -- parts so want to be heard and healed.   Desperation can lead to boundary crossings and boundary violations.   Attempts to use the other person to meet intense needs -- not a conscious effort to exploit the other, but exploitation can happen anyway.   Existential Symptoms Shame -- feeling unworthy of connection  Not knowing who I am -- makes it really complicated to be in relationship.   Identity issues Fragmentation - which part of me is uniting with you right now? What are other parts doing.   The need for disconnects within in order to not be overwhelmed - inevitably leads to disconnects with other people You can't give what you don't have.   I'm not lovable, why would you want to be united with me?   Dissociation Identity alteration: The sense of being markedly different from another part of yourself  Identity confusion: A sense of confusion about who you really are   we will have a lot more to say about dissociation in future episodes, but for now -- disconnection. I need to know who I am and I need to know who you are to know who we are together, in relationship.  Love is steadfast God's love endures.  Psalm 891-2  I will sing of thy steadfast love, O Lord,[a] for ever;     with my mouth I will proclaim thy faithfulness to all generations.For thy steadfast love was established for ever,  It may not always be mutual or reciprocal People want predictability Steadfastness requires resilience, to roll with the punches in the relationship.  Any close relationship will have conflicts and difficulties. The fragility in the system that trauma imposes is a real obstacle to resilience necessary to be steadfast in relationship, to not quit and walk away from loving the other person.   Jules Toner:  "The lover is present to the loved one and has the loved one present to himself."   The experience of love, 117 Effects of trauma  Emotional and Psychological effects Mood swings -- effect of different parts, each with its own intense emotions  Helplessness -- despair -- can be intermittent  Emotional shutdown -- dorsal vagal response.   Being reactivated or triggered emotionally.   Disappointment in the other -- you are not helping me Can lead to frustration and rejection.   Cognitive Effects -- impact on sensation, perceptive, higher-order thinking Intrusive thoughts, intrusive memories.   Dissociation is a mental process of disconnecting from one's thoughts, feelings, body, from memories or sense of identity. This disconnection is automatic and completely out of the person's control. Amnesia: Often described as "gaps" in memory that can range from minutes to years  Depersonalization: Feeling disconnected from your body or thoughts  Derealization: Feeling disconnected from the world around you   Physical Effects Impact of hyperarousal  Impact of hypoarousal   Behavioral Symptoms Withdrawal  Avoidance -- refusal of consistent vulnerability  Alcohol and drug use   „For me, vulnerability led to anxiety, which led to shame, which led to disconnection, which led to Bud Light.“ — Brené Brown US writer and professor 1965 Source: Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead  Switching among parts Existential Symptoms Deep sense of not being loved, not being lovable  There is no love in the world.  At least not for me.  So why unite with anyone.  Loss of meaning and purpose.  Identity issues Fragmentation  Unstable identity makes it hard to be consistent in the loving   The death of love Brady 273.  Love does not die because of hate but because of apathy.  The death of love is often preceded by the denial of the basic dignity of the other.  The death of love happens when we reject instead of affirm the other's special personal and unique goodness.  The death of love is encouraged when we ignore the other's needs and wants while prioritizing our own wants.  The deal of love occurs when we pursue discord, division, disassociation, and distance in the place of unity.   That is sin.   Malice is not necessary for love to die.  Apathy doesn't have malice in it. In apathy, the other does not register in your consciousness.  He or she doesn't matter. He or she doesn't exist for you.   We don't have to active deny the basic dignity of the other.  We just have to not notice it.  Not attend to it We don't have to actively reject the other's special and unique goodness, we just have to not notice it, not attend to it.   We don't have to actively ignore the other's needs and wants -- we just have to be preoccupied with our own trauma and its effects.     Hope Romans 8:28 We know that in everything God works for good[a] with those who love him,[b] who are called according to his purpose.  Julian of Norwich:  And because of the tender love which our good Lord has for all who will be saved, he comforts readily and sweetly, meaning this: it is true that sin is the cause of all this pain, but all will be well, and every kind of thing will be well.   Widow's mite Luke 21:1-4  He looked up and saw rich people putting their gifts into the treasury; 2 he also saw a poor widow put in two small copper coins. 3 He said, “Truly I tell you, this poor widow has put in more than all of them; 4 for all of them have contributed out of their abundance, but she out of her poverty has put in all she had to live on.”  Ratios   Martin Luther King:  Love even for enemies is the key to the solution of the problems of the world.  Strength to Love 47-48  Psychologist Peter Levine:  Trauma is hell on earth. Trauma resolved is a gift from the gods.  Romans 5:20 ..where sin increased, grace abounded all the more,  1 John 3:1  See what love the Father has given us, that we should be called children of God; and so we are. The reason why the world does not know us is that it did not know him.  Romans 8 35-39  Who will separate us from the love of Christ? Will hardship, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword?  As it is written, “For your sake we are being killed all day long; we are accounted as sheep to be slaughtered.” No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. 38 For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor rulers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, 39 nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.   Call to Action Kent Keith The Paradoxical Commandments -- Resilience.  Mother Theresa had pinned this up in one of her convents.    People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered.   Love them anyway.If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.   Do good anyway.Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable.   Be honest and frank anyway.What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight.   Build anyway.People really need help but may attack you if you do help them.   Help people anyway.Give the world the best you have and you'll get kicked in the teeth.   Give the world the best you have anyway.   Where we are going If you want to love, you have to first be loved and know you are loved.   Tolerating being loved -- many people assume that we just want to be loved -- that's not anything like entirely accurate.  1 John 4:19 We love, because he first loved us. Ordered self love.    Check out our blogs -- weekly email reflections  June 15 -- Seven ways to understand sin     Sin as breaking the law    Sin as a burden    Sin as a debt    Sin as “missing the mark”    Sin as a violating your conscience    Sin as breaking or harming relationships    Sin as the failure to love, or the “anti-love” June 22  Dangerous Love -- we really get into St. Augustine's description of sin as a disordered or misdirected love, and I share how when we that misdirected love is oriented toward getting our attachment needs met, it's not only misdirected love, it's a dangerous love.   June 29 Conflicting loves inside you -- we get into how to understand the conflicting loves inside of us -- from a parts perspective -- multiplicity and unity of the self.   Email me crisis@soulsandhearts.com  -- call my cell 317.567.9594 any Tuesday or Thursday from 4:30 PM to 5:30 PM Eastern time for conversation hours.   Let others know about this podcast.  Put the word out.  There's somebody you know dealing with trauma -- get them on board with the rest of us with the IIC podcast.  All the major podcast player -- Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Stitcher, Audible, Podbean, Podchaser, CastBox, Overcast, Podcast Addict, all of them, we're on all of them.  Soulsandhearts.com/iic You have until July 10.  The RCC -- Come with me on an adventure.  Come with me on an adventure of being loved and of loving.  That is what the Resilient Catholic Community is all about.  Check out the Resilient Catholics Community at soulsandhearts.com/RCC  The RCC is all about working through your human formation issues -- the ones that inhibit you from receiving the love you need and from loving God completely, with every fiber of your being, with your body,  with all your parts, with all your emotions, thoughts, all your inner experience with all of you, with no part of you left behind, no part of you left out.   It's all about learning to be gentle but firm with yourself -- it's all about integration.  It's all about resilience.   All about restoration -- recovering from being dominated by shame, fear, anger, sadness, pessimism, whatever your struggle is in the depths of your human formation And we do this work experientially -- so many experiential exercises -- this is not just intellectual knowledge, we're working with all of you. Informed by Internal Family Systems and the best of the rest of psychological and human formation resources  All grounded in a Catholic understanding of the human person  All focused on helping you to better accept love and to love more fully, to carry out the two great commandments of our Lord.   Are you up for the challenge?  Would you like to join me and the rest of the pioneers in this adventure?  Do you want to be a part of the community?   Are you ready to prevail over whatever hinders your human formation -- would you like to no longer be dominated by fear, anger, shame, sadness, pessimism?  And would you like to be with other like-minded Catholics on the journey -- If so join me.  Join all of us in the Resilient Catholics Community.  The RCC We are taking applications throughout until July 10 -- extended the deadline.   for our third cohort, those in that cohort will start their adventure in June and July by taking our Initial Measures Kits and be getting feedback on their parts in a personal Zoom session with me.  It's a great chance for us to get to know each other, really know each other at the level of parts.  You'll get a 5 or 6 page report on your internal system and then be eligible for our weekly company meetings and programming to begin in late August or early September.   Talk with me about it in conversation hours call my cell 317.567.9594 any Tuesday or Thursday from 4:30 PM to 5:30 PM Eastern time for conversation hours.   Patroness and Patron   

To All the Boy I Loved Before + The Dyatlov's Pass Incident = To All the Boys (and Girls) Lost in the Dyatlov's Pass Incident In this weeks episode Vonia covers the utterly charming, sweet, wonderful Rom Com, To All the Boys I Loved Before! You're hearing it here folks… this movie is why Rom Coms must exist! When the secret love letters Lara Jean keeps hidden in her bedroom get mailed out to her crushes, including her sisters ex boyfriend Josh, she and Peter (another letter recipient) embark on a fake relationship to help him make his ex girlfriend jealous and to help her avoid a horrifyingly awkward conversation with Josh. Fake feelings become real feelings and meanwhile we are having ALL the feelings

In der ersten Folge unserer neuen Staffel rund um persönliche Lebensrealitäten wird es eng am Katzentisch. Wir haben gleich drei Gäste eingeladen, die in einer besonderen Beziehung zueinander stehen: Jan, Lara-Jean und Max. Auf die Frage “Was verbindet euch?”, antworten die Drei einstimmig mit dem Wort “Liebe”. Wie kann das sein? Jan ist bisexuell und polyamor und sowohl mit Lara-Jean als auch mit Max zusammen. Das ist aber nur die trockene Kurzfassung. Wie sich die Liebe und die verschiedenen Beziehungen im Laufe der Zeit entwickelt haben, könnt ihr in unserer Podcast-Folge hören. Und das ist definitiv nicht langweilig! In einem unglaublich offenen Gespräch bekommen wir einen tiefen Einblick in die Gefühlswelt der Drei und merken schnell, dass ihre Verbindung eine ganz besondere ist. Natürlich geht es nicht immer nur harmonisch zu, aber die Drei verraten uns wie sie immer wieder zueinander finden und versuchen Probleme gemeinsam zu lösen. Eins können wir schon verraten: Kommunikation ist das A und O.

Hello mga ka-Nerding! This is a continuation of our previous episode. We will now talk about part 2 and 3 of the Netflix original movie, To All The Boys I've Loved Before. Warning lang na maraming spoiler alert ang maririnig niyo kaya we recommend watching the movie first at balik kayo samin. Well, kung okay naman kayo ma-spoil, let's do this! Sama-sama nating himayin kung kakilig kilig ba talaga sina Peter at Lara Jean. Sa episode na ‘to, malalaman natin kung bakit #TeamJosh si Topz, kung totoong nakakakilig at realistic ba yung movie, at kung nagwowork ba talaga ang long distance relationship. But wait, there's more! Wag magpapahuli sa last segment na pinamagatang, To All The Girls I've Loved Before starring the Geeky Husband, Topz. In this episode of Nerding With You: -Is the trilogy of To All The Boys I've Loved Before worth watching?- Did the expat couple experience the “kilig” factor after watching the movie? - Their favorite scenes and characters that they can relate to. - Find out why The Geeky Husband, Topz is #TeamJosh!- What are the challenges that come with a new relationship? Does a long distance relationship really work?- Is the movie To All The Boys I've Loved Before realistic? Affiliates Shopping links:ShopeeLazadaTo listen to our Podcast:BuzzsproutSpotifyApple PodcastGoogle PodcastAmazon Musicor Watch on Youtube!Connect with us here:Facebook PageTwitterInstagramTimestamp:00:00 - Intro02:23 - Welcome to our episode review of To All The Boys I've Loved Before part 2 and 3.08:19 - Did the Clueless Wife, Glendz, experience the “kilig” factor after watching trilogy?09:34 - The Geeky Husband, Topz, talks about his “kilig” experience from the movie.12:10 - Glendz shares her favorite characters and the scenes she can relate to. 16:00 - Topz talks about his favorite characters and what he can relate to. 18:54 - The expat couple explores the challenges of a new relationship. 23:11 - Topz expresses his bias with Josh and Lara Jean. 26:19 - The expat couple observes that Peter is "too good to be true" in the movie. 35:15 - The expat couple discusses Lara Jean's behavior. 39:19 - Topz talks about the part 2 being unrealistic. 41:20 - Rumors about the fourth installment of the movie and the struggles of a long distance relationship. 44:29 - To All the Girls I've Loved Before starring the Geeky Husband, Topz! 51:50 - Final takeaways.

Hello mga ka-Nerding! As part of our Feb-ibig series, sa episode na ‘to ay mapapanood niyo ang aming review sa bagong bagong pero lumang luma na Netlix original romcom movie, “To All the Boys I've Loved Before” na ipinalabas noong 2018.In this episode, we will talk about the “kilig” factor of the movie, our favorite scenes, how we can relate to the movie as a previous teenager and as a parent, and our honest impression if this is worth watching.Wag magpapahuli as we give love advice hindi lang sa mga teenager pati narin sa mga magulang na katulad namin. Watch out as the Clueless Wife, Glendz, interrogate the the Geeky Husband, Topz, about his crush and love experience. In this episode of Nerding With You: Is the movie To All the Boys I've Loved Before worth watching?The expat couple's honest impression of the movie.Lara Jean and Peter's love team and how they are different from others. Glendz describes her experience as similar to Lara Jean.The Clueless Wife, Glendz, interrogated the nervous Geeky Husband, Topz. Love and parenting advice from the expat couple. Affiliates Shopping links:ShopeeLazadaTo listen to our Podcast:BuzzsproutSpotifyApple PodcastGoogle PodcastAmazon Musicor Watch on Youtube!Connect with us here:Facebook PageTwitterInstagramTimestamp:00:00 - Intro01:55 - To All the Boys I've Loved Before – A short intro to today's episode. 07:45 - The Clueless Wife, Glendz, gives her impression of the movie. 09:40 - The Geeky Husband, Topz, provides his review of the film.13:50 - The expat couple talks about the “kilig” factor of the movie.17:50 - The expat couple discusses the conflict between Lara Jean and her sister. 24:12 - Glendz, shares her similar experience with her crushes. 27:00 - Interrogation with Topz about his crushes.29:49 - Love advice from Glendz! 31:00 - How Lara Jean and Peter fell in love with each other. 33:33 - Interrogation with Topz part 2! 36:00 - The Geeky Husband, Topz's favorite scenes, and how he relates with Lara Jean's father. 39:28 - The Clueless Wife, Glendz's favorite scenes. 43:00 - The expat couple's love advice. 44:40 - The expat couple's parenting advice.45:35 - Interrogation with Topz part 3! 

Monique and Ciera sip on some personal faves, decide whether Lara Jean and Peter are #couplegoals, announce this week's Sweetie, and share some behind the scenes fun facts about To All The Boys I've Loved Before.

❤ Special bonus episode for Valentine's Week! ❤ Today we're watching the 2018 Netflix film “To All The Boys I've Loved Before”, featuring Lana Condor and Noah Centineo. There are SO MANY relationships to talk about in this movie, since Lara Jean's secret love letters get mysteriously sent to five of her crushes!

On this week's episode of Story 'n Things, Yajaira and Cheli discuss the FINAL movie adaptation of To All the Boys: Always and Forever which was originally written by Jenny Han. Join them as they discuss Lara Jean, Peter Kavinsky and NYU tearing them apart which is causing our OTP to SINK! 

On this week's episode of Story 'n Things, Yajaira and Cheli discuss the sequel To All the Boys: P.S I Still Love You written by Jenny Han! Join them as they discuss Lara Jean trying to deal with her insecurities in her relationship with Peter Kavinsky and her slight interest in John Ambrose McClaren. 

On this week's episode of Story 'n Things, Yajaira and Cheli discuss the movie adaptation of To All the Boys I've Loved Before which was written by Jenny Han. Join them as they discuss Lara Jean, her love letters and her fake relationship with Peter Kavinsky which is low key...goals?

In this episode, we're joined by Shore Delano, founder of diverse theatre platform 'The Rendition'. We talk about Always and Forever, the final film of the To All The Boys trilogy and spend our time gushing over Lara-Jean and Peter's relationship! We also discuss true love alongside our own experiences of writing love letters. Patricia and I pitch our ultimate PK and LJ storylines and Shore is left to decide the season's winner!Get involved using the hashtag #TWBPOD or send your storylines at thatwouldbangpod@gmail.com for the chance to be featured in our next episode. IG & Twitter: @thetwbpod See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode, we discuss: the Enneagram type 1, “The Reformer”; the MBTI ISTJ, “The Inspector”; and characters that potentially apply to each of the types, such as—Bruce Banner, Elinor Dashwood, Fitzwilliam Darcy, Hermione Granger, Katniss Everdeen, Lara Jean, Leslie Nope, Ned Stark, Ninth Doctor (Christopher Eccelston), Minerva McGonagall, Sailor Mercury, Sailor Neptune and Sailor Pluto, and Severus Snape. Future episodes will go through the rest of the 9 + 16 types as we continue to discuss characters from our favorite fictional properties like Avatar the Last Airbender, Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, Disney, ASOIF/Game of Thrones, Doctor Who, Sailor Moon, the MCU, and so so so much more. Next week we'll be discussing Enneagram type 2 and MBTI ESFJs and ESFPs. Follow TNAT on Instagram (@thenerdsaretyping) and Twitter (@nerdsaretyping); subscribe and review on your favorite podcast platform. Follow Connie @constar24 on Twitter and Instagram, and Delia on Twitter @deliaistyping). Use the hashtags #thenerdsaretyping. New episodes every Tuesday. The Nerds Are Typing is a Black Girls Create production. Recs/Research: Quiet by Susan Cain MBTI: Gifts Differing by Isabel Myers and Katherine Briggs-Myers, www.truity.com, personalitypage.com. Enneagram: enneagraminstitute.com, The Wisdom of the Enneagram: The Complete Guide to Psychological and Spiritual Growth for the Nine Personality Types by Don Riso and Russ Hudson, The Literary Enneagram: Characters from the Inside Out by Judith Searle The theme “Good Vibes” is by LitKidBeats https://youtube.com/c/LitKidBeats The Nerds Are Typing is a Black Girls Create production.

TO ALL THE BOYS: ALWAYS AND FOREVER is a romantic comedy streaming on Netflix. Lara Jean is a high school senior who looks to the future with both fear and excitement for what's to come. However, when Lara Jean doesn't get into Stanford like her boyfriend, she's forced to come to change her expectations for college, both romantically and pragmatically. With graduation looming around the corner, Lara Jean experiences a host of emotions that keep viewers rooting for a happy ending.

This week on the Popcorn Wine Down, Tammy and Eddie discuss the To All The Boys I've Loved movie series focusing mainly on the last one, “Always & Forever” where Lara Jean and Peter have to decide whether going to college 3,000 miles apart is going to kill their relationship or end up being an adventure. Please leave a rating and review on Spotify, Apple Podcast and Google Podcast platforms | Visit us at thepopcornwinedown.com | Email us at thepopocornwinedown@gmail.com | Tweet us at twitter.com/popcornwinedown | Follow us at instagram.com/thepopcornwinedown|

Elle and Kath talk about how much they love Peter K (again), their own experiences of college/university acceptances, Jenny Han's incredible cameo and THE pink sofa scene as they dive into the final To All The Boys book Always and Forever Lara Jean and its Netflix adaptation in ep. 3 of book(ish) podcast. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/bookishpod/message

In this episode Amani and Andrea talk to their friend Amaly as they react to Always and Forever, Lara Jean. Andrea also shares the perfect movie night snack recipe: chocolate covered strawberries! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

"I'm not denying you the right to put food on the table for your family. I just think it's a little odd that a man would want to become a gynecologist." Gaby and Sam are big Noah fans, but all the guys who got letters were fine! Lara Jean knows how to pick some nice men. All good looking and respectful. Peter Kavinsky vs. John Ambrose is a huge upgrade from Edwards vs. Jacob!

In this Valentine's Day Special; for the book club segment your host Amani talks to her friend, Latesha about some of the most swoon-worthy fictional crushes including To All the Boys I've Loved Before, Make Up Break Up, Reaper of the Souls, and We Free the Stars. Stay Tuned for Part Two where Amani and Andrea react to the Always & Forever, Lara Jean movie! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Are you ready for Valentine's Day? Dave Morales and Jon Stenvall get your ready for the holiday with the cast of Netflix's To All the Boys: Always and Forever. In the podcast we are joined by stars Lana Condor, Noah Centineo, Janel Parrish, Anna Cathcart and author Jenny Han to talk about the third (and possibly final) movie in the series. Is this really the last movie in the series? Did the cast ever expect the success of the first two films? We dive deep with your favorite characters: Lara Jean, Peter, Margot & Kitty. Follow Us - BackstageOL | YouTube | | Twitter | Instagram | Facebook | Twitch

We aren't Lara Jean but we've definitely ‘loved' people before. Join us today as we read out some open letters to people we've loved before; from old friends who we've grown apart from to old relationships or the “what could have been?” people. Sometimes things don't turn out the way we want them to, but in the end, we learn hard truths we couldn't have learned any other way. Educate yourself and donate: https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/ (https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/)

Oh no. Ohhhhh, boy. Is it possible that the movie is better than the book? How could this happen? P.S. We still love the book. Join us as we get into the tangled web that is Lara Jean Covey's love life. She's relatably angsty and adorably anxious. Plus, Jordan explains to Emily just how far sisters would go to get revenge for petty incidents.  Check out : The Lizzie Bennet Diaries Episode Drink: Yakult You can find this drink in your local Korean grocery store or potentially even your major supermarket if your city is that cool. For those who like a challenge, check out this recipe from Wiki How to make your own at home! Our Drinking Game for this Story  Take a drink: Every time they call each other by their last names Every time Lara Jean is angsty in the book Every time Kitty has a zinger When Kavinsky and Lara Jean do something that is specified in their dating contract Down your drink when Dad has an awkard sex talk, becuase I felt it Fantastic Reads  Jordan - Circe by Madeline Miller Emily - How We Fight for Our Lives by Saeed Jones A Novel Adaptation was created by Emily Eppley and Jordan Redwine. See more details at www.anoveladaptation.com and see what's coming up next to read along with us. Find us on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and Goodreads to join the conversation. Our artwork is by Kit Bernal. Our music is “Harlequin” by Kevin MacLeod, licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0.

Drink every time I say "you know?" in this podcast... Sorry guys haha! Anyways, Lara Jean isn't the only one with lovers of the past! Quarantine is bringing out some of our subconscious thoughts or thoughts of the past that we may not have allocated the proper time and attention to. With time to ourselves to reflect and introspect, we can truly see that hindsight is 20/20. Everyone's journey to their life partner/spouse (if they choose to not stay single for life) may not look the same, but there are definitely phases we all go through. Today I discuss the importance of each phase and what crucial information it gives us as we piece together exactly who we are looking for to spend the rest of our lives with. From first love to second love through exploration up until the surprise guy (gotta listen to find out!), we dive into the impact each of these experiences has on how we love and who gives us the right love we need. Remember that no person or object embodies love. Love is a spirit within us that never leaves, can be shared, and always there in our hearts. Don't forget to stay updated by following me on Instagram @etc_podcast and @bougeandrouge!

TO ALL THE BOYS I'VE LOVED BEFORE is a romantic comedy about a teenage girl named Lara Jean, who finds out her younger sister has accidentally mailed her secret childhood love notes to five boys that were addressed but never sent. TO ALL THE BOYS I'VE LOVED BEFORE is fun and heartwarming, with appealing characters...Click the following link to read the full review: https://www.movieguide.org/reviews/to-all-the-boys-ive-loved-before.html

We're back rom com enthusiasts!!!! We are rewarding your patience with a deviation from Rotten Tomatoes top 50 rom com list to go over To All The Boys I've Loved Before. We enjoy a hot tub (cocktail), though probably not as much as Lara Jean and Peter. Don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe! Instagram: @toastyromcoms Twitter: @atoasttoromcoms

Sliding in a bit late, but we're still kicking. This episode we discuss the frankly delightful story of Lara Jean and her journey to find love off the pages of letters and romance novels alike. Talking Points: the state of modern romance; the neverending question of if genre readers need to be challenged; gender bending expectations of emotionally blindness; the importance of letting people live in their own stories; if we want to experience the joys of life, we must submit ourselves to the terror of being seen; our emphatic support of the fake-dating subgenre; and, hey, you're a sexy little Rubik's cube.