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What would you ask if your uncle was Bernie Madoff? My guest actually sat across from him in prison and the conversation changed the course of her life forever. When I found out that today's guest, Jess Ekstrom, is Bernie Madoff's great niece, I knew we had to start there. Her family didn't just watch one of the biggest financial scandals in history unfold on television. They lived it. They lost nearly everything. Years later, Jess made the decision to visit Bernie Madoff in prison, searching for answers that most people would never have the courage to ask. What he confessed to her during that visit was shocking. He told her that his downfall didn't begin with money or investing. It began as a lonely child trying to buy friendship and approval. That conversation became the foundation for everything Jess teaches today about success, validation, and living a meaningful life. But this episode is about so much more than Bernie Madoff. Jess went on to build an incredible business, sell it for millions, and accomplish goals most entrepreneurs spend a lifetime chasing. Yet after reaching everything she thought would finally make her happy, she realized something almost all high achievers eventually discover. Achievement alone cannot give you fulfillment. We unpack the dangerous "arrival trap" that keeps so many people believing happiness is always waiting on the other side of the next accomplishment. We also dive into the stories we tell ourselves that quietly shape our entire lives. Jess shares how one childhood moment convinced her she wasn't good with numbers, even though she eventually built multiple successful companies. We talk about comparison versus inspiration, why your greatest limitations often begin with a single belief, and how changing your story can completely change your future. This conversation is filled with practical wisdom for anyone who wants to pursue big dreams without sacrificing joy along the way. One of my favorite moments is when Jess shares her incredible framework of becoming a lighthouse instead of a spotlight. That lesson alone is worth listening to this episode. Whether you're building a business, leading a team, raising a family, or simply trying to become the best version of yourself, this conversation will challenge you to stop chasing validation and start building a life rooted in purpose. Key Takeaways: The shocking lesson Jess learned from visiting Bernie Madoff in prison Why the need for approval can quietly shape the direction of your entire life How to avoid the "arrival trap" that keeps high achievers chasing fulfillment The difference between comparison and inspiration and why it changes everything How changing one limiting story can transform your future Why becoming a lighthouse instead of a spotlight will make you a better leader and communicator If you've ever wondered why success doesn't always bring happiness, or you've been chasing a future that never seems to arrive, this conversation will completely change the way you think about ambition, fulfillment, and the life you're building. Listen now and let's Max Out. Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at https://shopify.com/mylett Try QUO for free PLUS get 20% off your first 6 months when you go to quo.com/mylett See how K12 Powered Schools can help unlock your child's full potential! Enroll online today at k12.com/mylett Head to dosedaily.co/MYLETT or enter MYLETT to get 35% off your first subscription.

What if the life you want isn't waiting for luck to find you, but for you to become the person who can attract it? In this mashup episode, I bring together some of my favorite conversations about one of the most misunderstood concepts in personal growth: attraction. I'm not talking about wishful thinking or hoping the universe magically hands you your dreams. I'm talking about becoming the kind of person whose mindset, habits, standards, and energy naturally pull the right opportunities, relationships, and success into your life. Ryan Pineda, Lewis Howes, Jay Shetty, Dan Martell, Tom Bilyeu, and I dive into what it really takes to create a life that reflects your highest potential instead of your biggest fears. Ryan Pineda and I unpack why discomfort is often the greatest advantage you'll ever have. We discuss why success isn't about escaping hard work, but learning to love the process of becoming. Lewis Howes and I explore confidence, intention, and why the promises you keep to yourself ultimately shape the person you become. Jay Shetty reminds us that greatness isn't measured by how many people know your name. It's measured by how many lives you impact through service. Every one of these conversations reinforces the same truth. The person you become is far more important than the things you accumulate. Dan Martell and I talk about becoming "the one" who changes the trajectory of your family and your future. We discuss how the mistakes you're most ashamed of may actually become the greatest qualification you have to help someone else. Tom Bilyeu and I break down why time is one of your greatest assets and how intentionally designing your days allows you to create extraordinary momentum. Throughout these conversations, I also share the three step mental routine that has transformed my own life by helping me focus on what I want instead of what I fear. I truly believe you were born to do something extraordinary with your life. The challenge is that too many people spend their lives operating from old conditioning, fear, and limiting beliefs instead of intention and possibility. When you begin to change your thoughts, raise your standards, and intentionally pursue the emotions and life you truly desire, everything around you begins to change. The opportunities were always there. You simply become the person capable of seeing them. Key Takeaways: • Why your thoughts become the currency you use to purchase your future • Ryan Pineda on embracing discomfort as the foundation for long term success • Lewis Howes on building confidence by keeping the promises you make to yourself • Jay Shetty's reminder that serving others is one of the fastest paths to living a meaningful life • Dan Martell on becoming the person who changes your family's future and why your greatest struggles often become your greatest strengths • Tom Bilyeu's practical strategies for mastering time and creating momentum every single day • Why intention, repetition, and environment shape the life you ultimately attract • How changing who you are on the inside transforms what becomes possible on the outside You are far closer to the life you want than you think. One decision, one new belief, one courageous action, and one more intentional day can completely change your future. I hope this episode reminds you that you were never meant to live an average life. You were born to do something great, and that journey begins with the person you choose to become today.

He played in the big leagues, wore the Red Sox jersey, and had 14 surgeries trying to keep a dream alive. Then the career ended. And in the silence that followed, Ryan Kalish almost didn't make it through.  Ryan is not the kind of guest I typically have on this show. He doesn't have a bestselling book or a company that just crossed a hundred million. What he has is a story that stopped me cold on Instagram months ago. I was scrolling and I saw this guy on a street somewhere in the world, walking up to a man who was homeless, and he bathed him and gave him a haircut and got him some food. I thought: who is that? I looked him up. And I thought, "I have to have him on. "Ryan brings something to this conversation that is rare: the honesty of a man who was at rock bottom and didn't dress it up. He talks about the dark thoughts after his career ended, the substances he used to self-soothe, the spiritual calling that kept finding him even when he ran from it, and the moment sitting by a river in Austin, Texas, where it all clicked. He has now served orphans, refugees, and vulnerable people across Indonesia, Thailand, Uganda, India, Jordan, Tanzania, Egypt, and more, largely on his own dime. His 70-year-old father is his cameraman. I ask Ryan questions I think most people are afraid to ask: what does it actually feel like to do this? Is it lonely? Is it worth it? What did you have to let go of to get here? And I push Ryan on whether the hit he gets from feeding someone who's starving compares to circling the bases after a home run. His answer stops the conversation.    Here's what you'll gain from this episode: What to do When You're Feeling Helpless: The reframe that unlocks everything for anyone sitting in a hard season wondering what to do next. Your Old Identity Has to Die: What Ryan had to pluck out of himself to make room for who he was becoming, and why the most painful part of reinvention is also the most necessary. You Don't Have to Be Qualified: Why the people least likely to think they can make a difference are exactly the ones who should Collective Consciousness: Learn about the only thing that will actually change the world at scale.   This is an episode you will share with everyone you know! If you would like to support Ryan Kalish, visit his fund link HERE. Visit Upwork.com today to post your job for free, and connect with top talent ready to grow your business.

What if the biggest thing standing between you and the life you want isn't your circumstances, but the masks you've been wearing? In this mashup episode, I bring together four extraordinary conversations that all point to one life changing truth. You cannot experience real peace, fulfillment, or freedom until you stop trying to become someone else and start embracing who you truly are. So many of us spend our lives chasing success, approval, achievement, or perfection because we believe those things will finally make us feel worthy. But the truth is, no amount of money, recognition, or accomplishment can heal what we refuse to face inside ourselves. This episode is about dropping the ego, letting go of shame, and finally living from a place of authenticity. Tom Papa and I have an honest conversation about the difference between confidence and ego, and why humility is actually one of the greatest strengths a person can develop. Lewis Howes shares one of the most vulnerable stories ever told on this show, revealing how years of hiding pain behind achievement kept him from experiencing true freedom. His courage reminds us that our greatest breakthroughs often begin the moment we stop pretending we have it all together. These conversations are powerful reminders that vulnerability is not weakness. It is where real strength begins. You'll also hear an incredible conversation with Dr. G as we explore how shame becomes trapped in the body and silently shapes the way we think, react, and experience life. She explains why healing isn't about becoming someone new, but about reconnecting with who you've always been underneath the fear, the pain, and the conditioning. Then LeAnn Rimes opens up about navigating criticism, anxiety, and the pressure of living under the world's expectations while learning to define herself from the inside out instead of through other people's opinions. Her honesty is something every one of us can relate to, no matter where we are in life. I believe one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself is the freedom to stop performing and simply start living as your authentic self. The people who inspire us the most are rarely the ones who appear perfect. They are the ones who have the courage to be real. If you've been carrying shame, chasing approval, or believing that achievement will finally make you enough, this episode is your invitation to let that weight go. The world doesn't need another version of someone else. It needs the person you were created to be. Key Takeaways: Why confidence and ego are completely different and how humility creates lasting success Tom Papa's perspective on balancing ambition with authenticity Lewis Howes' powerful lesson on removing the masks that keep us disconnected from ourselves Why vulnerability is one of the greatest strengths a leader can possess Dr. G's insights on how shame becomes stored in the body and how healing begins How LeAnn Rimes learned to separate her identity from criticism and public opinion Why seeking approval from others will never replace believing in yourself The freedom that comes from embracing your authentic self instead of chasing perfection The greatest version of your life begins the moment you stop trying to earn your worth and start believing you already have it. My hope is that this episode gives you the courage to let go of the masks, trust who you really are, and step fully into the life you were created to live.

You think you know what confidence is. You don't. Not yet. I brought Dr. Nate Zinsser onto this show because what he teaches is unlike anything you have heard in any self-help book or motivational speech. He is the director of West Point's Performance Psychology Program. He has spent 30 years teaching the most elite military leaders, Olympic athletes, and pro sports teams in the world how to build real, unshakable confidence from the inside out. He is the psychologist behind Eli Manning's two Super Bowl victories over my Patriots, and I'll never forgive him for it. But here is what got me. This is not about pumping yourself up. This is about rewiring your brain at the neurological level so that confidence becomes your default. And every single one of you can do it starting today. Here is what you will gain from this episode: The Psychological Bank Account: Learn the exact exercise Dr. Zinsser gives every West Point cadet to build a foundation of confidence from the memories and experiences you already have The Five Minute Daily Practice: Discover the single most powerful mental training habit you can build, three questions at the end of every day that literally rewire your brain for confidence Temporary vs. Permanent: Understand how the most confident people in the world process setbacks differently and how to adopt their framework starting today You Are Not a Failure: Learn the most important distinction in this entire episode. You may have failed at something. That does not make you a failure. Dr. Zinsser explains how to stop letting that one lie destroy your confidence Preparation and Performance: Find out why the psychology of preparation and the psychology of performance are completely different and why confusing them is costing you  You have everything you need to start building your confidence today. No excuses. #Maxout! Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at https://shopify.com/mylett See how K12 Powered Schools can help unlock your child's full potential! Enroll online today at k12.com/mylett Head to dosedaily.co/MYLETT or enter MYLETT to get 35% off your first subscription. Start improving your health with real data from Tiny Health. Get $50 off your first at-home test kit at tinyhealth.com/mylett

What if the greatest upgrade you'll ever make isn't to your business or your body, but to your brain? In this mashup episode, I bring together some of the brightest minds in neuroscience, peak performance, and human potential to answer one of the most important questions you'll ever ask: how do you unlock the best version of yourself? So many people believe they're limited by talent, circumstances, or intelligence. The truth is that your brain is constantly changing, adapting, and responding to what you focus on every single day. When you learn how to direct your attention, strengthen your mindset, and intentionally train your mind, you begin changing your future long before your circumstances change. Jim Kwik joins me to break down how your brain filters the world and why your standards matter even more than your goals. We unpack the incredible power of your reticular activating system and how asking better questions literally changes what opportunities you begin to notice. Dr. Joe Dispenza explains how your personality creates your personal reality and why lasting transformation starts by rewiring the thoughts and beliefs you've been carrying for years. Together, we explore why your mind is far more powerful than you've ever been taught to believe. You'll also hear an incredible conversation with Dr. Amishi Jha about the science of attention and memory. She reveals why attention is the gateway to learning, performance, and lasting memories, and why the ability to stay present has become one of the greatest competitive advantages in today's distracted world. We dive into how every experience is shaping your brain, why focus strengthens memory, and how training your attention can improve every area of your life from business to relationships to personal fulfillment. Throughout this episode, I challenge you to stop believing that your current thinking has to become your permanent reality. The brain is designed to adapt. Your identity can expand. Your focus can improve. Your habits can change. When you begin controlling what you repeatedly think about and where you intentionally place your attention, you start creating a completely different future. Your greatest asset has always been sitting between your ears. The question is whether you're training it with the same intensity you train everything else. Key Takeaways: Why your attention determines the quality of your life and your future Jim Kwik's explanation of how your brain filters opportunities through the reticular activating system Why your standards shape your results more than your goals Dr. Joe Dispenza's insight that your personality becomes your personal reality How changing your thinking creates lasting personal transformation Dr. Amishi Jha's explanation of why attention is the gateway to memory and learning How being more present improves performance, relationships, and decision making Practical ways to retrain your brain to create greater focus, confidence, and success Your brain is the most valuable asset you'll ever own, but most people spend more time upgrading their phone than upgrading the way they think. If you're ready to become more focused, more intentional, and more capable than you've ever been before, this episode will give you the tools to start transforming your life from the inside out.

There are two kinds of leaders. One walks into a room and says: "Here I am." The other walks in and says: "There you are." Everything about the Law of Addition comes down to which one you are.

He came to North America at age 8 from communist Yugoslavia with one suitcase, no connections, and parents who had nothing to give him but opportunity. Robert Herjavec turned that into a $500 million cybersecurity empire. One inch at a time. Robert brings something rare to this conversation: 22 years on Shark Tank, multiple exits, and a front-row seat to what separates businesses that actually scale from ones that just make noise. He's watched thousands of entrepreneurs pitch, fail, succeed, and lie to themselves about which one they're doing. His perspective on where the economy is heading, what AI is actually going to destroy, why most people raise money way too early, and what it genuinely costs to build something lasting is as grounded and unfiltered as anything I've heard from anyone at his level. In this conversation, I push Robert on whether Shark Tank has actually done damage to a generation of entrepreneurs, a question I've asked Damon and Barbara that nobody has answered the way Robert does here. I challenge him on the influencer economy and what it's doing to people's perception of what building a business really looks like. And I get personal with him about faith, fathers, and whether the grind of it all is worth it at this pace.     Here's what you'll gain from this episode: One Inch at a Time: The philosophy Robert has carried since he was 22 years old, and how it connects directly to my "Power of One More" framework - the core of how both Robert and I approach the hardest days in business and in life. What Shark Tank Actually Did to Entrepreneurship: Robert gives the most honest answer I've ever heard from a Shark on whether the show did damage to a generation of entrepreneurs. Hold Your Equity: Why Robert has self-funded every business he's ever built, the advice that shaped that conviction, and a warning about raising money early. Where AI and the Trades Are Heading: Robert's specific read on which industries are about to be wiped out and which are going to double in income. Good Doesn't Mean Weak: The tough lesson both Robert and I learned the hard way and what you should do instead.  This conversation went places neither of us planned, and I think that's what makes it one of my favorites. Learn more about your sleep today. Visit https://sleepdoctor.com.

What if the person holding you back isn't anyone else, but the voice you hear every single day inside your own mind? In this mashup episode, I bring together two of the most powerful conversations I've ever had about identity, self respect, and the stories we tell ourselves. The greatest battle you'll ever fight isn't with your competitors, your circumstances, or even your past. It's with the conversation you're having with yourself every single day. Because the quality of your life will always rise or fall to the quality of that internal dialogue. If you don't believe you're worthy of more, you'll never fight for more. But once you change the way you see yourself, everything around you begins to change. Leila Hormozi shares one of the most profound questions I've ever heard: "Do I respect myself more or less because of this decision?" That simple filter has the power to transform your relationships, your career, your habits, and every choice you make. We talk about why self respect is built through daily actions, not empty affirmations, and why discipline is one of the greatest acts of self love you can give yourself. When you begin making decisions that honor who you want to become, your confidence naturally grows because you're finally keeping the promises you make to yourself. Nick Santonastasso delivers one of the most inspiring stories you'll ever hear. Born without legs and with one arm, Nick refused to let the world define what was possible for his life. His willingness to embrace discomfort, overcome impossible odds, and chase his dream of becoming a varsity wrestler proves that confidence isn't something you're born with. It's a skill you build through courage, action, and relentless belief. His story is a reminder that your circumstances never determine your future. Your decisions do. Throughout this episode, I challenge you to stop waiting for permission, stop believing the old stories you've repeated for years, and start becoming the person you were created to be. You don't need to become someone else to change your life. You need to start having a different conversation with yourself. The moment you begin treating yourself with greater discipline, greater respect, and greater belief, you'll unlock a version of yourself that's been waiting to emerge all along. Key Takeaways: • Why the conversation you have with yourself determines the direction of your life• Leila Hormozi's powerful question that instantly improves your decision making: "Do I respect myself more or less?"• Why self discipline is one of the purest expressions of self love• How keeping promises to yourself builds unshakable confidence• Nick Santonastasso's incredible lesson that confidence is a skill, not a personality trait• Why your circumstances never have the final say over your future• How to replace limiting stories with empowering beliefs that create lasting change• Why becoming your best self is one of the greatest gifts you can give the people you love If you're ready to stop letting fear, doubt, or your past define your future, this episode will challenge you to raise your standards, rewrite your story, and start becoming the person you were always capable of being.

When uncertainty hits, people stop and look around for someone who knows where they're going. The question is whether that person is you.

Can you imagine getting to the end of your life only to realize you pretended the whole way there? Gary Vee looked at me and said: "Almost everyone does." I've wanted to have this conversation for a long time. Gary Vaynerchuk is one of the most visionary, most generous, and most honest voices in the history of entrepreneurship. He didn't just see TikTok before anyone else. He saw Twitter, he saw NFTs, he saw the iPhone. He's been right about the future consistently, and he does it all without asking a dime from the millions of people he's helped along the way. In this conversation, Gary and I go places I don't think either of us expected. We talk about AI and why the window to get ahead of it is closing faster than most people realize. We go deep on self-awareness as the foundation of every success in business and in life, and why most people are gambling instead of building without even knowing it. Gary breaks down the only content strategy that actually works: stop chasing where you think the money is and make content about what you know or love. We also get personal. Really personal. About our parents, about the fuel behind everything we've built, and about what it actually means to live a life that's yours and not a performance for somebody else. This one hit me in a way I didn't see coming. Here's what you'll gain from this powerful episode: Self-Awareness Is the Whole Game: Gary's single most important principle for building anything in business or life, and why most people skip it entirely and pay for it later. AI Won't Kill You. A Human Using AI Will: Why you cannot afford to wait on this technology, and the exact first steps Gary recommends for getting started today no matter what industry you're in. Make Content Around What You Know or Love: Gary's no-BS framework for building a brand that lasts, and why chasing trends or money in your content will quietly destroy everything you're building. Macro Patience, Micro Speed: The mindset that separates people who build real wealth from people who gamble it away, and why Gary talks about patience so much while operating at full speed every single day. The Analog Opportunity in a Digital World: Gary's prediction for where the biggest business opportunities will be as AI takes over: physical, real-life, community-driven experiences that no algorithm can replace. If you've ever wondered what it feels like to truly stop performing and start living, this is the episode. Gary Vee is a force for good, and I'm grateful to share this conversation with you.

What if the biggest thing standing between you and the life you want isn't your circumstances, but the patterns you keep repeating? In this powerful mashup episode, I bring together some of the most transformational conversations I've ever had about breaking free from the habits, beliefs, and emotional patterns that silently shape our lives. So many people think their future is determined by their past, but what you're about to hear will challenge that idea completely. From wealth creation and personal growth to healing and spiritual awareness, these conversations reveal how your life can change the moment you become conscious of the patterns you've been running and decide to create new ones. Tony Robbins shares why most people stay trapped in fear, stress, and survival mode, and how changing your state and physiology can unlock a future far bigger than your current circumstances. He breaks down why a compelling future is essential for success and why the stories we tell ourselves determine the direction of our lives. John Edward adds a powerful perspective on self-awareness and personal responsibility, explaining how recognizing the patterns that drain your energy is often the first step toward meaningful change. Gabby Bernstein opens up about the hidden emotional triggers and protective behaviors that keep so many people stuck. Together, we explore how our past experiences create unconscious reactions that continue to influence our decisions long after the original pain is gone. Dan Martell shares his incredible journey of transformation and reminds us that the very things we believe disqualify us from success are often the exact experiences that qualify us to help others and fulfill our purpose. Throughout this episode, I challenge you to stop making excuses, stop letting fear dictate your future, and start becoming intentional about the emotions, habits, and beliefs that drive your life. The truth is that every breakthrough begins with awareness. Once you recognize the patterns that have been controlling you, they lose their power. That's when real change becomes possible. If you've been feeling stuck, frustrated, or like you're capable of more than you're currently experiencing, this episode will give you the tools and perspective to break free. The life you want isn't waiting for a different version of you. It's waiting for you to finally let go of the patterns that no longer serve you and step into the person you were created to become. Key Takeaways: Why most people unknowingly live their lives through repeating emotional and behavioral patterns Tony Robbins' strategy for breaking out of fear and creating a compelling future How changing your physical state can immediately change your mental and emotional state Why awareness is the first step to eliminating destructive patterns Gabby Bernstein's insights on triggers, emotional wounds, and unconscious protective behaviors How to stop allowing past experiences to dictate future decisions John Edward's perspective on taking ownership of your energy and personal growth Dan Martell's powerful lesson that your greatest struggles may be your greatest qualification Why success requires responsibility, while excuses keep you trapped How to intentionally create new patterns that lead to abundance, peace, and fulfillment

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I have been wanting to do this episode for a long time. This one is personal. I have spent most of my life grinding, building, and pushing myself to the limit. And somewhere along the way I stopped giving myself permission to actually live. My body was there for birthdays, vacations, and bedtimes. My mind was not. This episode is my attempt to fix that. For me and for you. Dr. Guy Winch is one of the world's leading psychologists. His TED talks have over 40 million views. His book, Mind Over Grind, is one of the most important books I have read in years. He is not here to tell you to slow down and smell the roses. He is here to show you that the way you are working right now is quietly costing you everything that actually matters. And he has the science to prove it. Here is what you will gain from this episode: The #1 Deathbed Regret: Find out what people wish most at the end of their lives and why it is not what you think it is Stop Ruminating: Learn the exact process for turning harmful work rumination into productive problem solving so your evenings belong to you again Micro Breaks: Discover the research-backed practice that high performers use to actually perform better by working smarter throughout the day The Transition Ritual: Get a practical step-by-step system for training your brain to clock out from work so you can be truly present at home Challenge vs. Threat Mindset: Understand the single mental shift that separates people who perform under pressure from people who crumble under it Stop kicking the can. The life you keep saying you will enjoy later is happening right now. Do not miss it. Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at https://shopify.com/mylett Head to https://dosedaily.co/ and enter MYLETT to get 35% off your first subscription. Start improving your health with real data from Tiny Health. Get $50 off your first at-home test kit at https://tinyhealth.com/ and use promo code MYLETT

What if the biggest thing standing between you and your dreams isn't your circumstances, but the story you've been telling yourself about what's possible? In this powerful mashup episode, I bring together some of the most important conversations I've had about vision, belief, perseverance, and the incredible power of pursuing a dream that is bigger than your fears. You're going to hear why every person on this planet has a dream inside of them, whether they've acknowledged it or not, and why the quality of your life is often determined by the size of the vision you're willing to embrace. I share some of the most important lessons I've learned about leadership, selling yourself on your future, and developing the courage to pursue what you truly want, even when the path ahead feels uncertain. You'll also hear from Drew Davis, whose story is one of the most inspiring examples of resilience and possibility I've ever encountered. Despite facing challenges that would cause many people to lower their expectations, Drew chose to build something extraordinary. He shares how creating Crippling Hot Sauce gave him purpose, confidence, and a vision that transformed not only his business but his entire life. His perspective on goals, growth, and refusing to let limitations define your future will challenge the way you think about your own potential. Throughout this episode, I dive deep into why people quit on their dreams and what separates those who eventually win from those who don't. The truth is that most people don't fail because they lack talent. They fail because they allow fear, setbacks, criticism, or temporary adversity to become bigger than the dream they're chasing. I share why your vision must be connected to something greater than yourself and why love, purpose, and service create a level of motivation that fear can never overcome. We also unpack the importance of building habits that reinforce your vision every single day. From mentally rehearsing success to touching your dreams before they've become reality, these are the practical disciplines that help you move from wishing to achieving. The people who create extraordinary lives aren't always the smartest or the most talented. They're the ones who continually resell themselves on their vision and refuse to negotiate with their future. If you've been feeling stuck, discouraged, or disconnected from your purpose, this episode is your reminder that your dreams are not accidents. They are possibilities that were placed inside of you for a reason. The question isn't whether your dream is possible. The question is whether you're willing to keep believing in it long enough to make it real. Key Takeaways: Why every person has a dream and how vision gives life meaning The difference between having a dream and actively pursuing one How Drew Davis turned adversity into purpose and built a thriving business Why goals create momentum and help you overcome life's challenges The importance of attaching your dream to something bigger than yourself How to stop negotiating with fear and start committing to your future Practical ways to reinforce belief and build momentum every day Why the people who win are often the people who simply refuse to quit I want you to leave this episode with one conviction: you belong in your dreams. They were not given to you by accident. Stop negotiating with your fears, start reconnecting with your vision, and remember that the life you're capable of creating is often much bigger than the one you've allowed yourself to imagine.

He posted 400 times on Instagram with 50 followers. Most people would have quit. James Dumoulin just kept going.  I've been waiting to have this young man on for a while, and he did not disappoint. At 23 years old, James has built something I genuinely did not think was possible at this age: 21 million followers, 200 million views a month, 70 employees, and 48 billionaire interviews including Tom Cruise, Tom Brady, Will Smith, and Reid Hoffman. He built all of it from scratch, starting as a Chick-fil-A employee who saw TikTok as a marketing engine before anyone else did. James is the co-founder of the School of Hard Knocks, and what he has learned sitting across from the wealthiest people in the world will hit you in the best way possible. In this conversation, we go deep on what it actually takes to build something great when you have no connections, no credibility, and no one betting on you. James breaks down the exact strategy he used to get into rooms most people will never see, including how he cold-approached Mark Cuban at South by Southwest with nothing but nerve and a borrowed title. We talk about what the wealthiest people in the world actually have in common, whether money buys happiness, and why your age, your background, or your starting point is not the obstacle you think it is. James also gets honest about the moments where it almost fell apart, including the day their revenue dropped from $30,000 a month to under $5,000 overnight and what he did to rebuild. This is one of the most practical, fire conversations I've had in a long time, and James is the real deal. Here's what you'll gain from this episode: The Authority Hack: How James borrowed credibility he didn't have yet to get in rooms most people will never see, and how you can do it starting today with what you already have. Billionaires Think in Decades: The single mindset shift James observed in every billionaire he's interviewed, and why your obsession with the short term is the real thing holding you back. Concentration Builds Wealth: Why trying to do too many things too early is the silent killer of most businesses, and what the wealthiest people actually do first. The Rejection Blueprint: Why James says "no" just means "not yet," and how posting 400 times with 50 followers is what actually built a business doing $700,000 a month. Are Billionaires Actually Happy? What James has witnessed behind the scenes with some of the most successful people in the world, and the one thing the happiest ones all have in common.  This is one of those conversations that changes the way you think about what's actually possible. Don't miss this one! Try QUO for free PLUS get 20% off your first 6 months when you go to ⁠https://quo.com/mylett Get your choice of a healthy free protein staple like chicken breast for a year or ground beef in every box for LIFE PLUS $20 off when you go to https://ButcherBox.com/mylett

What if the real reason most people never reach their potential isn't a lack of talent, but the invisible patterns silently working against them every single day? In this mashup episode, I'm bringing together some of the most powerful voices on mindset, performance, and personal growth to expose what's really holding you back and how to break through it. You're going to hear from John Assaraf on how your brain is literally wired to keep you safe instead of successful, and why reprogramming those patterns is the key to unlocking a completely different life. Robin Sharma challenges you to raise your standards and reminds you that greatness is built in the quiet moments when no one is watching. Jen Gottlieb shares what it takes to step into your confidence even when you don't feel ready, and why visibility is the gateway to opportunity. Tom McCarthy takes you inside the mindset of elite performers and what it really means to prepare at a level most people are unwilling to commit to. Rachel Hollis opens up about the internal battles we all face and how comparison and self-doubt can quietly rob you of your joy and momentum if you let them. And Lewis Howes brings it all together with powerful insights on overcoming fear, building belief, and stepping into the version of yourself that you know you're capable of becoming. Throughout this episode, I'm also sharing my perspective on the hidden forces that derail people. Things like discouragement, fear, and the need for approval that slowly chip away at your confidence and pull you off your path if you're not aware of them. The truth is, most people don't lose because they fail. They lose because they let these small internal battles win over time. But once you see them, you can take your power back. This conversation is about waking up. It's about becoming aware of what's been running your life and making a decision to take control again. You don't need a new dream. You need a new level of awareness, discipline, and belief. Because the version of you that you're chasing is already inside you. The question is whether you're willing to do the work to become them. Key Takeaways: Why your brain is designed for survival, not success, and how to rewire it The hidden cost of comparison and how it quietly destroys your happiness and momentum How elite performers prepare differently and why preparation builds real confidence The truth about fear and why it's often a signal you're on the right path How to build self-belief even when you don't feel ready The internal “dream killers” that stop most people and how to overcome them I want you to walk away from this episode with one thing: awareness. Because once you see what's been holding you back, it loses its power over you. And when that happens, everything in your life can start to change.

What if the hardest season of your life is actually the doorway to becoming the strongest version of yourself you've ever met? In this conversation with Ken Rideout, I sat across from a man who has lived more lives than most people ever will. From growing up in chaos and addiction, to becoming a Wall Street trader, to falling deep into opioid addiction, and then rebuilding himself into one of the fastest marathon runners in the world over 50 years old. His story is not just about winning races. It is about becoming someone you can respect when no one else is watching. We got real about what it actually feels like to win. Not the highlight reel version, but the truth. Ken said something that stopped me in my tracks. Winning is not the explosion of joy people expect. It is relief. It is the quiet moment where you realize you endured something most people would have quit on. That hit me because it is exactly how success has felt in my own life too. We also went deep into identity. How do you build belief in yourself when you were not raised with it? Ken opened up about going from confidence as a kid, to losing himself in addiction, to rebuilding his identity through effort. Not talent. Not luck. Effort. He made it clear that the biggest lie people believe is that they have limits. That belief alone is what keeps most people stuck living a life far below what they are capable of. One of the most powerful parts of this conversation is how his entire life changed from one decision. Getting sober. That single decision led him to running, which led him to discovering a level of greatness he never knew existed inside him. It is a reminder that you are one decision away from a completely different life. You do not need the whole plan. You just need to start. This episode is for you if you feel stuck, if you are battling something internally, or if you know deep down you are capable of more but have not tapped into it yet. Ken Rideout is living proof that your past does not define you. Your decisions do. Key Takeaways: Why winning rarely feels the way you expect and why relief is often the real reward The lie most people believe about their limitations and how it keeps them stuck How one decision can completely redirect the trajectory of your life Why effort will always outperform talent when sustained over time The difference between quitting and pushing through and how to know which is which How to rebuild your identity when you have lost belief in yourself Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at https://shopify.com/mylett

You have that one person in your life. You know exactly who I am talking about. The one who knows how to pull you in every single time. And every time they do, you end up in a conversation you regret, feeling emotions you did not choose, acting like a version of yourself you do not even recognize. I have been there more times than I want to admit. And this episode is about how we stop doing that. I brought in Jefferson Fisher, one of the most practical communication minds I have come across in a long time. He is not going to give you philosophy. He is going to give you the exact words to use when someone is being passive aggressive, when the conversation is going sideways, when you feel yourself being pushed around. Real phrases. Real situations. Stuff you can use today. Charles Duhigg comes in and breaks down why communication is one of the most underrated skills in your life and your business, and what the science actually says about how to do it better. Emmanuel Acho challenges you to stop avoiding the hard conversations, because real connection only ever lives on the other side of honesty. And Chuck Weisner teaches the art of listening so well that people will feel more understood by you than they have ever felt before. Then I close it out with something that has been on my mind for a long time. Emotional maturity. The invisible choice you are making every single time you let someone else drag you into their world. I call it living in someone else's house. And once you hear it that way, I promise you, you will never look at your most difficult relationships the same way again. Here is what you are going to take away from this one: Your Emotional Home: Why choosing to enter someone else's emotional chaos is always your decision, not theirs, and how to stop making that choice The Race to the Bottom: Why getting angrier, meaner, or more reactive with difficult people is the one move that guarantees you lose every single time Jefferson Fisher's Exact Phrases: The specific words to use in real time when someone is being passive aggressive, disrespectful, or trying to dominate the conversation What Did You Hear: The single most powerful question you can ask in any argument to immediately bring the temperature down and make the other person feel understood The Uncomfortable Conversation: Why Emmanuel Acho believes the conversations you keep avoiding are the exact ones that will finally set you free The Art of Listening: The match and mirror method and why the people who listen best are almost always the most liked and the most influential people in any room The most intelligent version of you is also the calmest version of you. This episode is going to help you get there. ⁠

What if the life you're chasing is costing you the life you're living right now? In this conversation with Priscilla Shirer, I experienced something rare. This wasn't just a discussion about success or productivity. It was a masterclass in rhythm, presence, and faith. From the moment we started, I could feel the depth of her wisdom and the peace she operates with. And trust me, it challenged me. Because like many of you, I've spent years chasing momentum, saying yes, and filling every gap in my calendar. What Priscilla shared flipped that thinking on its head. She broke down the power of saying no in a way I've never heard before. Not as rejection, but as alignment. Every no creates space for the right yes. She talked about how saying yes out of guilt or fear always leads to regret, and how protecting your time is actually a way of honoring your priorities. What really hit me was her perspective that when we refuse to step back, we might be blocking someone else's opportunity to step forward. That level of humility and awareness is rare, and it made me reflect on how I've been showing up in my own life. We also went deep on something I think everyone struggles with, trusting God in the middle of uncertainty. Not just saying it, but actually living it. Priscilla made it simple and powerful. Do your part fully, and release the outcome. Stop trying to do God's job. That idea of creating margin in your life, real space to breathe, think, connect, and even be interrupted, was one of the most impactful parts of this entire conversation. She made me realize that a packed calendar isn't a badge of honor. It's often a barrier to the very life we're trying to build. One of the most emotional moments we shared was around the idea of delaying your life. Waiting for the perfect moment, the perfect conditions, the “someday” that may never come. Priscilla shared how easy it is to miss the treasures in the season you're currently in because you're so focused on the next one. That hit me hard. Because the truth is, this is the moment. This is your life. Not someday. Not later. Right now. This episode is about priorities, faith, family, and learning to live with intention. It's about choosing presence over pressure and purpose over popularity. If you've been feeling overwhelmed, stretched thin, or disconnected from what really matters, this conversation is going to bring you back to center in a powerful way. Key Takeaways: Why saying no is one of the most powerful tools for protecting your purpose How margin creates space for peace, creativity, and meaningful connection The danger of chasing momentum at the expense of your priorities What it really looks like to trust God with your life and outcomes Why the season you're in right now holds the keys to your future How intentional living shapes your family, your faith, and your legacy

What if the real breakthrough in your life isn't about doing more, but finally letting go of what's been holding you back from becoming who you already are? In this mashup episode, I brought together some of the most insightful minds I know to talk about something deeper than success. We're talking about transformation at the identity level. Dr. Caroline Leaf breaks down how your thoughts are literally shaping your brain and your future, and how taking control of your mind is the first step toward taking control of your life. Jim Kwik reinforces that by showing you how upgrading your thinking patterns and mental habits can unlock levels of performance you didn't even know were available to you. This isn't surface level motivation. This is about rewiring who you believe you are. But it doesn't stop there. Brooks Laich and Julianne Hough open up about the internal battles we all face when we're chasing growth while still trying to heal. They share what it really looks like to confront your past, embrace vulnerability, and step into a more authentic version of yourself. Because the truth is, you can't build a great life on top of a version of you that you haven't made peace with yet. Real strength comes from doing that inner work, even when it's uncomfortable. Then you'll hear from Jamie Kern Lima and Stephen Scoggins, who both share powerful stories about overcoming self-doubt and finally believing they were worthy of success. That voice in your head telling you that you're not enough is not the truth. It's conditioning. And once you learn to challenge it, everything in your life begins to change. Awareness is the first step to taking your power back and removing the obstacles that have been quietly stealing your dreams. And what I love about this entire conversation is how Erwin McManus ties it all together. He reminds us that your life is not meant to be lived small or safe. You were created to become something extraordinary, but that requires courage. It requires stepping into uncertainty and choosing growth over comfort again and again. The gap between where you are and where you want to be is not talent. It's the willingness to evolve. This episode is about identity, healing, and stepping into your true potential. If you've been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or like you're capable of more but not sure how to get there, this is the conversation you need right now. You don't need to become someone new. You need to remove what's been holding you back from being who you already are. Key Takeaways: How your thoughts are shaping your brain and your future, and how to take control of them Why upgrading your mindset is the fastest path to unlocking higher performance The role vulnerability plays in healing and building deeper connections How to break free from self-doubt and finally believe in your worth The hidden obstacles that silently hold you back from your dreams Why becoming your best self requires courage, growth, and stepping into uncertainty How to stop chasing external validation and start building internal confidence

What if the version of you that you're chasing is still playing way too small? In this conversation with Andy Frisella, we went deep on something most people don't want to hear but desperately need to understand. Success is not something you arrive at. It is something you chase for the rest of your life. Andy broke down why he genuinely does not feel like he has made it, even after building multiple massive companies, and why that mindset is exactly what keeps him growing. For him, success is the pursuit of your true potential, knowing you will never fully reach it, but choosing to go all in anyway. We talked about what it really takes to win at the highest level, and I can tell you this is not the version of entrepreneurship you see on social media. There is nothing casual about winning. Andy and I both agreed that intensity is not optional. It is required. Most people underestimate the level of urgency and commitment needed to build something meaningful. If you are not willing to bring everything you have, someone else will, and they will pass you. Andy also shared one of the most powerful frameworks I have heard in a long time. He calls it a zero options mentality. Even when you have success, even when you have resources, you operate like you have no backup plan. That mindset forces you to stay sharp, stay hungry, and keep executing. It is not about fear. It is about discipline and ownership. And when you combine that with real mental toughness, you create separation that most people will never close. We also went deep on where the world is going, especially with AI and business. Andy believes the winners will be the ones who use AI to become more efficient behind the scenes, while doubling down on human connection out front. Relationships, culture, and leadership still matter. In fact, they matter more than ever. Ethical entrepreneurs who build great people and great cultures are the ones who will shape the future. This episode is a real look behind the curtain. No hype. No shortcuts. Just the truth about what it takes to build something great, sustain it, and continue to evolve long after most people would have settled. Key Takeaways: Why success is not an endpoint but a lifelong pursuit of your true potential The real level of intensity required to win and why most people fall short What a zero options mentality is and how it keeps you performing at a high level Why mental toughness is the foundation of all success and how to build it How to use AI the right way without losing the human advantage in business The role of ethical entrepreneurship in shaping culture, communities, and the future Click Here to join the Arete Sydicate with Ed and Andy Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at ⁠shopify.com/mylett⁠ For a limited time, check out Rho's Liposomal NAD+ at ⁠https://www.rhonutrition.com/discount/mylett⁠ and use code MYLETT for 20% off sitewide. Try QUO for free PLUS get 20% off your first 6 months when you go to ⁠https://quo.com/mylett⁠ Start paying bills the smart way, not the hard way at ⁠https://QuickBooks.com/billpay⁠. Terms apply. Money movement services are provided by Intuit Payments Inc., licensed as a Money Transmitter by the New York State Department of Financial Services

What if the biggest thing holding you back right now isn't your circumstances… but the version of you that you've been unconsciously choosing every single day? In this mashup episode, I brought together Garrain Jones, Marie Forleo, James Clear, Rob Dyrdek, Bert Kreischer, Gary John Bishop, and Robin Sharma to have one of the most honest conversations we've ever had about identity, habits, and the hidden forces shaping your life. I can tell you this right now, success is not random. It is built. And most people are building the wrong version of themselves without even realizing it. One of the biggest breakthroughs you're going to hear in this episode is the power of awareness. I say it all the time because it is true. The moment you become aware of your patterns, you take your power back. Awareness is not a finish line, it is something you practice daily, and even catching yourself once can change your life's trajectory in that moment. Gary John Bishop and I go deep on this idea of stepping back from your automatic responses and realizing you are not your thoughts, you are the one choosing what to do with them. James Clear brings a game changing perspective on habits that I know is going to hit you. Every action you take is casting a vote for the type of person you are becoming. That means your future is not decided in one big moment. It is decided in the small decisions you make every single day. Rob Dyrdek reinforces this idea through the relentless pursuit of becoming your best self, while Marie Forleo reminds you that clarity does not come from thinking, it comes from doing. You cannot wait your way into a better life. We also tackle something that is quietly destroying people's potential right now, and that is distraction and comparison. Robin Sharma shares how distraction is the death of creative production and how presence is one of the greatest gifts you can give to others and to your own life. And I open up about the battle between your higher self and your lower self, and how comparison, if left unchecked, will rob you of your happiness. The truth is, you cannot build a world class life if you are constantly looking at everyone else's. Here is what I want you to take from this episode. You do not need a new life. You need a new standard. You need a new identity. You need to start telling a different story about who you are and then back it up with actions every single day. This is not about perfection. It is about alignment. When your habits, your identity, and your standards finally line up, everything in your life begins to change. Key Takeaways: Why awareness is the first and most powerful step to changing your life How small daily habits compound into massive identity shifts over time James Clear's concept of casting votes for the person you want to become Why distraction and comparison are silently killing your potential How to separate from your old story and create a new identity The difference between your higher self and lower self and how to live in alignment Why clarity comes from action, not overthinking I want you to listen to this episode with one question in mind. Who am I becoming with the choices I am making today? Because the answer to that question is your future.

Get your choice of a healthy free protein staple like chicken breast for a year or ground beef in every box for LIFE PLUS $20 off when you go to ButcherBox.com/mylett What happens when your identity ends but your purpose doesn't? In this conversation, I sat down with Candace Cameron Bure, and I've got to tell you, this one hit me in a different way. So many of you are in a season where something in your life has ended. A career, a relationship, a chapter you thought defined you. And now you're asking what's next. Candace has lived that at the highest level. From global fame on Full House to stepping away for a decade to raise her family, and then rebuilding her career all over again. What she shared about reinvention, identity, and having the courage to start over is something every one of you needs to hear. We got real about confidence, or the lack of it. She opened up about being nervous, doubting herself, and still showing up anyway. That idea of fake it until you make it is not about being inauthentic. It is about choosing courage in moments where fear is loud. And I think that is something so many people miss. You do not need to feel ready. You just need to move. Candace's drive, what she calls her little engine that could mentality, is a masterclass in perseverance and faith in action. We also went deep on faith. And I mean really deep. This was not surface level. Candace shared what it has cost her to be bold about what she believes. Opportunities lost. Criticism. Being labeled in ways that do not reflect who she really is. But what stood out to me is that her identity is not conditional. It is not based on what people think, how her career is going, or whether life feels easy in the moment. That kind of conviction is rare. And it is powerful. We talked about fame, success, and what people get wrong about both. The influence that comes with it, but also the loss of privacy and control. We talked about marriage, priorities, and what it takes to keep a relationship strong for decades. And I loved hearing how intentional she is about protecting what matters most. Her family, her faith, and the life she is building behind the scenes, not just what the world sees. At the end, I asked her a simple but powerful question. If someone wants to run their race well, where do they start? And her answer was not complicated. It starts in your heart. It starts with a conversation with God. That moment alone is worth listening to this entire episode. This is one of those conversations that can truly shift your perspective on who you are and where you are going. Key Takeaways: Why your identity cannot be tied to a single chapter of your life How to rebuild confidence even when you feel unqualified or afraid The real cost and reward of standing firm in your beliefs What fame really gives you and what it quietly takes away How to prioritize marriage, faith, and purpose in a busy life Where to begin if you want to live with more intention and conviction

What if the thing that's holding you back isn't a lack of talent… but a lack of relentless standards, awareness, and the willingness to push just one more time? In this mashup, I brought together some of the most driven, disciplined, and mentally tough performers I've ever sat down with, and we go deep on what really separates winners from everyone else. You're going to hear from people like Eric Thomas, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Alan Stein Jr., and Ryan Hawk, and every one of them brings a different angle on the same truth: success is not an accident. It's a decision backed by habits, standards, and daily discipline. We talk about the hidden “dream killers” that quietly derail your future before you even realize what's happening. Things like discouragement, comparison, and the voices that cause you to question your worth and your direction. I share how awareness alone can strip these obstacles of their power, because once you can identify what's working against you, you can finally start to take control of it. Eric Thomas brings the intensity and reminds you what it means to go all in when nobody is watching. Grant Cardone challenges you to think bigger and operate at a level where average simply is not an option. Lewis Howes opens up about overcoming internal barriers and aligning your life with purpose. Alan Stein Jr. and Ryan Hawk break down what elite performers do differently, and it always comes back to preparation, consistency, and standards that most people are not willing to live by. And I want you to really hear this part. The difference between you and the person you want to become is not some massive leap. It is the willingness to do one more. One more call. One more rep. One more hour. That mindset compounds over time and becomes your identity. It builds confidence, because confidence comes from keeping the promises you make to yourself. This episode is not just about getting motivated. It is about getting honest with yourself. Are you operating at your true standard, or are you negotiating with your potential? Because the truth is, you were not born to live an average life. You were born to max out. And the sooner you start acting like it, the sooner everything in your life begins to change. Key Takeaways: Awareness is power. When you identify the obstacles holding you back, they lose their grip on you Discouragement and comparison are silent dream killers that must be confronted head on Elite performers train to a higher standard, not just their current competition Confidence is built by keeping promises to yourself, not by waiting to feel ready The habit of “one more” is the ultimate separator between average and extraordinary Success is not about talent. It is about consistency, preparation, and discipline over time

Download the Whatnot app today and get free shipping on your first order. Just search Whatnot and start scoring amazing deals. Start paying bills the smart way, not the hard way at QuickBooks.com/billpay. Terms apply. Money movement services are provided by Intuit Payments Inc., licensed as a Money Transmitter by the New York State Department of Financial Services What if the O. J. Simpson murder case still has explosive evidence the world has never fully seen? Today's episode is one of the most shocking and controversial conversations we've ever had on this show. I sat down with Chris Todd, a veteran private investigator who has spent years digging into the O. J. Simpson case, and what he shares will challenge everything you think you know about it. This is not just another recap of a famous trial. This is a deep dive into potential new evidence, overlooked details, and a theory that could completely change the narrative of what happened that night. Chris lays out a case that goes far beyond what most people heard during the trial. He believes there is compelling evidence that suggests multiple people may have been involved and that critical pieces of information were never fully explored or presented. We get into details about additional blood evidence, multiple footprints, and inconsistencies that raise serious questions about how the case was investigated and ultimately presented to the public. If even part of what he is saying is accurate, it could reshape how this entire case is viewed. We walk through the timeline step by step, from the moments leading up to the crime to what may have happened immediately after. I pressed him on the details, the logic, and the gaps, because I know you're going to be asking those same questions. And what you'll hear is a perspective that is both unsettling and incredibly thought-provoking. Whether you agree with his conclusions or not, there is no denying that some of the evidence he discusses deserves a closer look. This episode is not about telling you what to believe. It's about confronting the possibility that one of the most high-profile cases in American history may still have layers we don't fully understand. If you thought this story was settled, this conversation might make you rethink that. Listen with an open mind. Question everything. And decide for yourself what you believe really happened in the O. J. Simpson case. Key Takeaways: The potential new evidence that suggests the O. J. Simpson case may not be as clear-cut as many believe Why some forensic details like blood evidence and footprints raise new questions The theory that more than one person may have been involved How parts of the investigation and trial may have overlooked key information Why this case still sparks debate and controversy decades later

What if the reason you're not winning isn't a lack of motivation… but the habits, standards, and stories you've been living by every single day? In this mashup, I brought together three of the most powerful minds on performance and personal growth: Eric Thomas, James Clear, and Jesse Itzler. And let me tell you something, this conversation is not about hype. It is about the real work. The kind of work that separates people who talk about winning from the ones who actually do it. You are going to hear how your habits, your standards, and your willingness to push past average are shaping every result in your life right now. James Clear breaks down why small, daily habits are not small at all. They are everything. He shows you how the systems you build either quietly move you toward your goals or slowly pull you away from them. Eric Thomas brings the intensity and reminds you what it really means to want something bad enough. Not kind of want it. Not when it is convenient. But when it costs you something. When you are tired. When nobody is watching. And Jesse Itzler gives you a completely different perspective on discomfort, showing you how leaning into hard things is actually the fastest way to expand your life. I also share with you the truth that most people do not want to hear. Your life is not changing because you are negotiating with your standards. You are negotiating with your effort. You are negotiating with your identity. The gap between where you are and where you want to be is not as complicated as you think. It is built in the decisions you make when it is easier not to. It is built in whether you choose to do one more, push one more, and become one more version of yourself every single day . This episode is going to challenge you. It is going to confront you. And if you let it, it is going to change you. Because the truth is, you do not need more information. You need more execution. You need more consistency. And you need to start living like the person you say you want to become. Key Takeaways: - Why your daily habits are either building your future or quietly destroying it - The real meaning of “wanting it bad enough” and how to raise your standards - How doing one more rep, one more call, one more action separates winners from everyone else - Jesse Itzler's approach to using discomfort as a tool for growth - Why your identity determines your outcomes more than your goals do - How to stop negotiating with yourself and start executing at a higher level I want you to walk away from this episode with one simple question in your mind. Are you really doing what it takes, or are you just telling yourself that you are? Because your results already have the answer.

What if the story you're stuck in isn't who you are… it's just who you've been? In this conversation, I sit down with Jordan Belfort "The Real Wolf of Wall St", and I'll tell you right now, this is not the interview you're expecting. Most people know Jordan for one chapter of his life, but today we go way deeper. We talk about identity, values, and what it really takes to rewrite your story when the world keeps trying to define you by your past. And what hit me the most is this. He didn't have to become someone new. He had to rediscover who he was before everything went off track. That is a powerful lesson for every single one of us. We also get into the truth about money, success, and the tradeoffs nobody talks about. There is a point in your life where chasing the next level has a cost, and you better start asking yourself if it is worth it. Jordan opens up about choosing ethics over easy money, even when it cost him millions. That kind of discipline and clarity is rare. We talk about building a life that is not just successful on paper, but one that actually feels right when you wake up every day. Then we shift into something every entrepreneur and salesperson needs to hear. This is a masterclass in communication and persuasion. Jordan breaks down what really makes someone influential. It is not manipulation. It is understanding people, asking better questions, mastering tonality, and building real trust. If you have ever wondered why some people instantly connect and others don't, this part of the conversation alone is worth listening to twice. And we go into the future. AI, business, and what is coming next. Jordan is deep in the AI world right now, and what he shares about where things are headed will open your eyes. Some jobs will disappear. New ones will be created. But the people who win are the ones who adapt, who learn, and who stay ahead of the curve. The lesson is simple. If you do not disrupt yourself, someone else will. This episode is about ownership. Ownership of your story, your skills, your future, and your standards. If you are ready to stop living in your past and start building what is next, this one is for you. Key Takeaways: Why your past does not define you and how to rewrite your identity The difference between chasing money and building a meaningful life The real truth about ethical selling and influencing people the right way How tonality, presence, and communication determine your success Why becoming an expert is a decision, not a timeline The future of AI and what it means for sales, business, and entrepreneurship Why you must disrupt yourself before the world does it for you

What if the real reason you're not where you want to be isn't a lack of talent… but the habits, thoughts, and standards you've been tolerating? In this mashup episode, I'm bringing together some of the most powerful minds in personal development and performance to challenge the way you think about growth, discipline, and what it actually takes to win in your life. You're going to hear from Eric Thomas, James Clear, Jim Kwik, Alan Stein Jr., David A. Arnold, and Jay Shetty as we break down the hidden patterns that either elevate you or quietly destroy your potential. Eric Thomas brings the fire and reminds you that average effort will always produce average results, and that your level of commitment is the ultimate separator. James Clear simplifies success in a way that will change how you approach your daily habits and routines. Jim Kwik shows you how your brain is your greatest asset and how unlocking it can accelerate everything in your life. And Alan Stein Jr. gives you the discipline and standards required to perform at an elite level when it matters most. But this episode is not just about performance. David A. Arnold and Jay Shetty take us deeper into the human side of growth. They talk about self-awareness, identity, and the internal conversations that shape your reality. Because the truth is, your external results will never outperform your internal belief system. If you don't fix what's going on inside, nothing outside will ever fully work. Throughout this entire conversation, I keep coming back to one principle that I believe with everything in me. Awareness is power. Once you become aware of what's holding you back, whether it's your habits, your mindset, or the standards you're accepting, you can finally take control and start making changes that actually stick . This is about raising your identity, raising your standards, and becoming the person your dreams require. Key Takeaways: Why your daily habits are either building your dream or silently destroying it The difference between being interested and being truly committed to your goals How to reprogram your mind to work for you instead of against you Why discipline and standards matter more than motivation The hidden role self-awareness plays in long term success How your identity shapes every result you get in life The simple shifts that separate high performers from everyone else I want you to walk away from this episode with one question in your mind. Are your current habits, thoughts, and actions aligned with the life you say you want? If the answer is no, then today is your opportunity to change that. You don't need more time. You need more intention. Let's get to work.

Start paying bills the smart way, not the hard way at QuickBooks.com/billpay. Terms apply. Money movement services are provided by Intuit Payments Inc., licensed as a Money Transmitter by the New York State Department of Financial Services Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at https://shopify.com/mylett What if the reason you feel unfulfilled isn't because you're failing… but because you've been chasing the wrong definition of success? In this conversation with Arthur Brooks, we go deep on something that hits every single one of us at some point in our lives. I told Arthur right at the beginning that when he was last on the show, even my closest friends called me about it and that never happens. That tells you the level this conversation is about to hit. This time, we go even further. We talk about the quiet feeling so many people have right now that something is off, even when life looks good on the outside. Arthur calls it a meaning crisis, and once you hear it explained, you are going to recognize it immediately in your own life. One of the most powerful parts of this episode is when Arthur breaks down the three components of meaning. He explains that if you do not have coherence, purpose, and significance, you will feel lost no matter how successful you become. I opened up about how even with achievement, wealth, and a great family, there are still moments where you ask yourself if any of it really matters. That is the gap so many high performers are living in right now. We also get real about why external success can actually make you more unhappy if you have not done the internal work. That part is going to hit a lot of you hard because you know it is true. We also go into something that honestly changed the way I think about pain. Arthur shares that suffering is not something to avoid, it is something to learn from. He explains that the problem is not the pain itself, it is our resistance to it. When you stop resisting and start learning, suffering becomes one of the greatest teachers in your life. We talk about faith, we talk about growth, and we talk about how the hardest seasons of your life may actually be the ones that give your life the most meaning. Then we shift into the world we are all living in right now and this part is eye opening. Arthur breaks down how we are living in what is essentially a modern version of a simulation, constantly on our devices, stuck in the wrong part of our brain, disconnected from real relationships and real meaning. We talk about why busyness is often just a distraction from doing the deeper work and how boredom, silence, and reflection are actually required if you want to find clarity in your life. This is not theory. This is practical, actionable truth that you can start applying immediately. This episode is about doing the work. It is about getting honest with yourself, stepping out of the noise, and reconnecting with what actually matters. If you have been feeling stuck, restless, or like something is missing, this conversation is going to give you language for it and more importantly, a path forward. Arthur said it best. The meaning of life is not something you find by accident. It is something you build through how you live, who you serve, and how you love. Key Takeaways: The three essential components of meaning and why most people are missing at least one Why external success without internal work leads to emptiness How suffering can become your greatest teacher if you stop resisting it The hidden danger of living in a digital, simulated world and how it disconnects you from meaning Why service and deep relationships are the fastest path to fulfillment How busyness is often masking a lack of self reflection and what to do about it Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Upgrade your denim game with rag & bone! Get 20% off sitewide with code MYLETT at www.rag-bone.com #ragandbonepod What if the real reason you're stuck isn't a lack of talent… but the invisible patterns controlling your decisions, your confidence, and your ability to take action? In this mashup episode, I'm bringing together some of the most powerful minds on behavior, influence, discipline, and self-awareness to help you break through what's really been holding you back. You're going to hear from Zoe Chance, Trent Shelton, Alex Hormozi, and Dean Graziosi as we unpack the hidden forces that shape your life. And I'll tell you this right now, most people are not losing because they don't know what to do. They're losing because something internal is quietly sabotaging their execution. Zoe Chance breaks down the psychology of influence and why so many of us struggle to ask for what we want, whether that's in business, relationships, or life. Trent Shelton brings the truth about self-worth and discipline, reminding you that your standards determine your results. Alex Hormozi gets tactical and real about what it actually takes to win, why excuses are costing you everything, and how to build leverage through action. And Dean Graziosi shares how shifting your mindset and identity can unlock opportunities that have been sitting right in front of you the entire time. One of the biggest themes in this episode is awareness. Because once you become aware of what's holding you back, it begins to lose its power over you . Whether it's discouragement, fear, comparison, or the need for approval, these silent killers are showing up in your life every single day. And if you don't identify them, they will keep you stuck in the same patterns, the same results, and the same frustration. But the moment you see them clearly, you can start to take your power back. We also dive into the dangerous habits that rob you of happiness and momentum, especially comparison. When you compare your life to others or even to your past, you create unnecessary dissatisfaction and stall your growth . The truth is, your path is your path. And the faster you own it, the faster you can build something meaningful, impactful, and truly yours. This episode is about taking control again. It's about raising your standards, getting honest about where you are, and deciding that you are no longer going to let these hidden forces run your life. You don't need more information. You need more awareness, more discipline, and more intentional action. That's how you separate. That's how you win. Key Takeaways: Why awareness is the first step to breaking any limiting pattern in your life How discouragement, fear, and doubt quietly steal your dreams if left unchecked Zoe Chance's insight on why asking boldly is a skill that changes everything Trent Shelton's truth about discipline and raising your personal standards Alex Hormozi's no-excuses framework for executing at a high level Dean Graziosi's mindset shifts that unlock opportunity and growth How comparison creates unhappiness and slows your momentum The importance of taking ownership and controlling your internal state Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Start paying bills the smart way, not the hard way at https://QuickBooks.com/billpay. Terms apply. Money movement services are provided by Intuit Payments Inc., licensed as a Money Transmitter by the New York State Department of Financial Services What if the biggest thing holding you back right now isn't failure… but the quiet ways you're letting yourself play small? In this mashup episode, I brought together some incredibly powerful voices to challenge the way you think about your mindset, your habits, and ultimately your life. You're going to hear from Stephen Scoggins, Jon Gordon, Titus O'Neil, Rich Diviney, and Scott Galloway, and every one of them delivers a different angle on what it really takes to break through and become the person you were meant to be. This is not surface-level motivation. This is about confronting the truth of where you are and deciding to rise anyway. Stephen Scoggins shares how your past does not disqualify you, but it can trap you if you let it define your identity. Jon Gordon brings the energy and reminds you that positivity is not naive, it is a competitive advantage. Titus O'Neil opens up about pain, adversity, and choosing to turn your struggles into purpose. Rich Diviney breaks down the idea that elite performance is built through preparation and discipline long before the moment arrives. And Scott Galloway gives you a real-world perspective on discipline, choices, and the trade-offs required to build a meaningful life. Every conversation points back to one thing. You have more control than you think, but you have to take it. I also get real with you in this episode about the internal battles that most people never talk about. The comparison game, the need for approval, and the subtle ways we sabotage our own happiness and progress. If you are constantly measuring yourself against others, you are draining your energy and robbing yourself of fulfillment. That is one of the most dangerous weapons you can use against yourself, and most people don't even realize they are doing it. We also dig into the truth about what actually kills dreams. It is not a lack of talent. It is not even failure. It is discouragement, distraction, and the slow drift away from your purpose. When you become aware of those forces, they begin to lose their power over you. That awareness is where your breakthrough starts. That is where you take your life back. This episode is a wake-up call. You were not born to live average. You were not meant to play small or sit on the sidelines of your own life. You are in a race to become the best version of yourself, and every decision you make is either moving you closer or further away. It is time to get intentional. It is time to raise your standard. It is time to max out. Key Takeaways: Why your past only has power if you attach your identity to it How positivity and energy can become your greatest competitive edge The hidden danger of comparison and how it steals your happiness The real reason most people fall short of their potential How elite performers build confidence through preparation and discipline Why awareness is the first step to breaking negative patterns The importance of taking control of your life instead of drifting through it

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What if the biggest things holding you back aren't outside forces… but the subtle patterns, beliefs, and habits quietly working against you every single day? In this mashup episode, I'm bringing together powerful conversations with Tom Patterson, Dr. Taryn Marie, and Jay Shetty to expose what's really standing between you and the life you're capable of living. This is not about surface-level motivation. This is about identifying the hidden forces that are stealing your confidence, your peace, and ultimately your potential. Tom Patterson shares what it takes to keep going when life tests you at the highest level. His journey is a masterclass in resilience and perspective, reminding you that adversity is not the end of your story. It is often the very thing shaping you into who you are meant to become. Dr. Taryn Marie brings a deeper emotional and psychological lens, helping you understand how your internal world, your thoughts, your self-talk, and your patterns are either empowering you or quietly sabotaging you. And Jay Shetty breaks down something we all struggle with but rarely address honestly. The way we compare ourselves, the way we judge our progress, and the way we define success can either fuel fulfillment or create constant dissatisfaction. When you start to understand these patterns, you begin to take back control of your life instead of reacting to it. Throughout this episode, I'm challenging you to raise your awareness. Because once you become aware of what's holding you back, it loses its power over you. Whether it is discouragement, comparison, or limiting beliefs, these are not permanent conditions. They are patterns that can be broken. And when you break them, everything changes. This is about becoming intentional. It is about stepping into ownership of your thoughts, your energy, and your actions. Because the truth is, the life you want is not as far away as you think. You just need to remove what is standing in the way. Key Takeaways: Why awareness is the first step to breaking the patterns that hold you back How discouragement quietly robs you of confidence and momentum The hidden danger of comparison and how it creates unnecessary unhappiness Why your internal dialogue shapes your external results How resilience is built through adversity, not comfort The importance of taking control of your emotional and mental state Why fulfillment comes from alignment, not constant achievement I want you to walk away from this episode with a new level of awareness. Because once you see what's been holding you back, you can't unsee it. And that is where your power begins.

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What if the real reason you're not winning yet isn't a lack of talent… but a refusal to raise your standard? In this mashup, I'm bringing you some of the most powerful voices in personal development to confront a question most people avoid asking themselves. Am I really doing everything it takes to reach my dreams, or am I just staying comfortable? I sit down with Tom Bilyeu, Jesse Itzler, Eric Thomas, and Brendon Burchard to break down what actually separates people who talk about success from those who live it. One of the biggest truths we uncover is that success is not about who you are today. It's about who you are willing to become. I share openly how I had to rebuild my confidence from nothing by keeping small promises to myself and stacking wins day by day. Brendon Burchard breaks down why accountability is the missing link for most people and how fear of judgment keeps you stuck playing small. And Eric Thomas brings the fire with a message most people need to hear. Either raise your standards or lower your expectations, but stop lying to yourself about the gap. You're also going to hear something that could completely change how you view your life. From Jesse Itzler, we talk about stepping into rooms you are not prepared for and figuring it out later. That willingness to act before you feel ready is what creates opportunity. Too many people sit on the sidelines waiting to feel confident first, when in reality confidence is built through action, not before it. And then there's the truth that might hit you the hardest. You already know what you're not doing. There is something in your life right now that you know would change everything if you leaned into it. The problem is not awareness. The problem is action. I break down why your life is a direct reflection of your standards, not your goals, and why doing one more is the habit that changes everything. This episode is a wake up call. Not to inspire you for a moment, but to challenge you to raise the level you are operating at every single day. Because the difference between average and extraordinary is not talent. It is the willingness to do what others will not do consistently. Key Takeaways: Why your standards determine your life more than your goals How keeping small promises to yourself builds real confidence The hidden reason people avoid accountability and stay stuck Why stepping into rooms unprepared is the fastest way to grow Eric Thomas' truth about raising your game or lowering your expectations The power of doing “one more” and how it compounds over time Why awareness without action is the trap keeping most people average I want you to walk away from this episode with one question in your mind. Not what you want out of life, but what you are willing to do to earn it. Because once your standards change, everything else in your life will follow.

What if the biggest thing holding your business back… is something you've never even questioned? In this conversation, I sit down with Jon McNeill, former President of Tesla and CEO of Lyft, and I've got to tell you… this one hit me differently. I've read thousands of books and interviewed some of the greatest minds in the world, but what Jon lays out here is a true operating system for winning in business and life. We're not just talking theory. We're talking about how Tesla went from 2 billion to 20 billion in revenue in just 30 months, and the exact framework they used to do it. Jon breaks down what he calls “The Algorithm,” a five step framework that challenges everything you think you know about how businesses should operate. And I mean everything. From questioning every assumption you've ever accepted, to building systems that prioritize speed, efficiency, and real innovation, this is the kind of thinking that separates the elite from everyone else. What really hit me is this… most of us are not losing because we lack effort. We're losing because we're solving the wrong problems or following outdated rules. We get into some unbelievable stories from inside Tesla that prove this works in the real world. One of them completely blew my mind. Faced with a challenge to cut production costs by 50 percent, Jon and his team didn't tweak the system… they reinvented it. What started as a simple idea inspired by a toy car led to a manufacturing breakthrough that changed the entire auto industry. That's what happens when you stop accepting “the way it's always been done” and start thinking differently. But this conversation goes deeper than business tactics. We talk about leadership, culture, and what it really takes to build something meaningful. Jon shares why the best leaders “eat their own dog food,” how to identify the one or two things that truly matter in your company, and why humility combined with confidence is the ultimate competitive advantage. He also opens up about the personal cost of operating at that level, and the importance of knowing when something is no longer aligned with who you are. This episode is for anyone who wants to think bigger, move faster, and stop playing by rules that no longer apply. If you've been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or like you're working hard but not breaking through, this is the reset you've been waiting for. Jon doesn't just give you ideas… he gives you a blueprint. Key Takeaways: Why “question everything” is the first step to breakthrough innovation The 5 step Algorithm that drives speed, efficiency, and massive growth How Tesla cut production costs by rethinking the entire system The danger of following legacy thinking in your business Why great leaders focus on only one or two truly critical priorities The balance of humility and confidence that defines elite performers What the future of business and AI really looks like and why opportunity is still massive ⁠

Are You Actually Doing Enough… or Just Telling Yourself You Are? In this mashup, I'm bringing you into one of the most honest conversations you'll ever have with yourself. Because the truth is, most people say they want more out of life, but very few are willing to do what it actually takes to get there. I break down the real separator between those who win and those who stay stuck, and it comes down to a simple but powerful principle that has changed my entire life: one more. You're going to hear from Jay Shetty, Jim Kwik, and Ryan Hawk as we unpack what it really means to maximize your potential. Jay shares the importance of intention and alignment, and how your habits either move you closer to your purpose or quietly pull you away from it. Jim Kwik dives into the power of upgrading your mind and removing the limits you've accepted about your own capabilities. And Ryan Hawk brings the leadership perspective, showing you how discipline, consistency, and daily standards separate elite performers from everyone else. I also get real with you about something most people avoid. Hard work is no longer the separator. Everybody works hard. The difference is who is willing to do a little extra when it's inconvenient, when they're tired, when nobody is watching. That extra rep, that extra call, that extra minute. That is where your identity starts to shift. That is where you begin to believe you deserve the life you say you want. What I want you to feel after this episode is a level of accountability that excites you. Not guilt, not pressure, but clarity. Because when you understand that doing one more compounds over time, you realize you are much closer than you think. The gap between where you are and where you want to be might just be a few more reps, a few more intentional days, a few more moments where you choose growth over comfort. Key Takeaways: Why “one more” is the ultimate separator between average and elite performers How small extra efforts compound into massive long term results Jay Shetty's insight on aligning your habits with your purpose Jim Kwik's strategies for breaking mental limits and upgrading your thinking Ryan Hawk's perspective on discipline, leadership, and daily standards How doing more reps builds confidence, identity, and belief in yourself Why working hard is no longer enough and what actually sets you apart This episode is your wake up call and your roadmap. If you've been questioning whether you're doing enough, I'm going to help you answer that honestly. And more importantly, I'm going to show you exactly how to close that gap and start living at your maxed out level. ⁠

What If the Biggest Myths About Money, Entrepreneurship, and the Future Are Completely Wrong? In this conversation, I sat down with my friend Daymond John, and we went deep on the real truths about entrepreneurship, rejection, money, and where the world is heading next. Most people know Daymond from building FUBU and as a Shark on Shark Tank, but what you're going to hear in this episode is the mindset that actually built his success. Not the highlight reel. The real lessons. The failures. The hard-earned wisdom that only comes after decades in the arena. Daymond and I talked about something that might surprise a lot of people. Not everyone should be an entrepreneur. In fact, Daymond believes some of the most successful businesses are built when visionaries surround themselves with incredible operators. Every Batman needs a Robin. Every Captain Kirk needs a Spock. Entrepreneurship is not about doing everything yourself. It is about building the right team, embracing rejection, and continuing to move forward even when the world keeps telling you no. We also got real about the myths surrounding money. Daymond shared how early in his career he believed you needed money to make money. Then later he discovered the opposite problem. When he finally had money, he thought throwing capital at problems would solve them. It did not. The truth is that money does not build businesses. People do. Work ethic does. And your reputation matters more than almost anything because it takes years to build and seconds to destroy. One of the most fascinating parts of this conversation was where the world is going next. Daymond has been studying AI, biohacking, and live selling intensely over the last few years because he believes we are entering a period of massive disruption. Entire industries are going to change. Jobs will evolve. And the people who thrive will be the ones who adapt quickly, stay curious, and position themselves on the right side of innovation. This conversation is not just about business today. It is about preparing for the future that is coming faster than most people realize. We also talked about something I believe every listener needs to hear. Your personal brand matters now more than ever. Whether you are a CEO, an entrepreneur, or just starting out in your career, people are forming opinions about you before they ever meet you. Your brand walks into the room before you do. The question is whether you are defining it or leaving it up to someone else. This episode is one of the most honest entrepreneurial conversations I have had in a long time. If you care about building something meaningful, navigating rejection, and staying ahead of the massive changes coming in business and technology, you are going to love this one. Key Takeaways Why not everyone is built to be an entrepreneur and why that is okay The myth that you need money to make money and the real drivers of success How to develop the rejection muscle required to win in business Why your reputation and personal brand are your most valuable assets The massive impact AI and technological disruption will have on careers and industries How entrepreneurs should prepare themselves for the next decade of change Listen now and get ready to rethink what it really takes to win in business and life.

What do you do when life knocks you down so hard that everything feels broken? The truth is that some of the greatest comebacks in the world are built in those exact moments. In this mashup episode, I bring together powerful conversations with people who have stared adversity straight in the face and found a way to rise again. If you've ever felt like life dealt you a hand that was impossible to play, this episode will remind you that your story is far from over. Sometimes the very thing that breaks you is the same thing that rebuilds you stronger than you've ever been before. You're going to hear from people who have lived through moments most of us can't even imagine. Damar Hamlin opens up about surviving one of the most shocking moments in sports history and how gratitude and purpose helped redefine his life after nearly losing it. Rich Diviney shares the difference between skills and attributes, and why the traits that carry us through the darkest seasons are often the ones forged in hardship. Robert O'Neill talks about operating under unimaginable pressure and how discipline and clarity help you keep moving forward even when everything around you feels chaotic. David Meltzer brings his powerful perspective on finding meaning in pain and how gratitude can shift the entire trajectory of your life. Sean Casey shares lessons from the world of professional baseball about failure, resilience, and why the setbacks you experience are often preparing you for your greatest breakthroughs. And Nick Santonastasso delivers one of the most inspiring reminders you will ever hear about refusing to let circumstances define what's possible for your life. As I prepared this episode, I kept coming back to a simple but profound truth. Your life is a miracle. Thousands of generations had to exist just to get to you, and that alone should remind you how precious your opportunity is to live fully and intentionally. When life feels heavy and the challenges feel overwhelming, perspective can change everything. You have the power to rebuild, to reset, and to become the one who changes the trajectory of your family's future. If you're walking through a difficult season right now, this episode is for you. These conversations will remind you that broken moments are not the end of your story. They are often the beginning of your transformation. Key Takeaways Why the most difficult moments in life often become the foundation for your greatest growth Damar Hamlin's perspective on gratitude and purpose after surviving a life changing moment Rich Diviney's insight on the attributes that help people perform under extreme adversity Robert O'Neill's lessons on staying focused and composed in high pressure situations David Meltzer's framework for transforming pain into purpose and opportunity Sean Casey's reminder that failure is often the greatest teacher on the road to success Nick Santonastasso's powerful example of refusing to let circumstances define your potential How perspective can completely change how you experience challenges in your life

What If Everything You've Achieved Still Isn't Enough to Make You Happy? Today's conversation with Mike Posner is one of the deepest and most powerful discussions I've ever had on this show. You probably know Mike from his massive hits like Cooler Than Me and I Took a Pill in Ibiza. But the man sitting across from me today isn't just a Grammy nominated artist. He's climbed Mount Everest, walked more than 2,900 miles across America, survived a rattlesnake bite, and gone through a profound spiritual and emotional transformation that completely changed his life. Mike shared something that stopped me in my tracks early in this conversation. He said that despite all the success, the money, the recognition, and the adventure, his greatest achievement wasn't any of those things. It was changing his emotional set point from depression and negativity to joy, faith, and love. That shift didn't happen because of fame or accomplishments. It happened when he finally stopped lying to himself about the fears and stories that were running his life. We talked about something so many people struggle with but rarely admit. The pursuit of recognition and significance. Mike was honest about how much of his early career was fueled by the desire to be liked and validated by others. And if we're honest, most of us do the same thing in our own lives. What makes this conversation so powerful is how Mike explains the transformation from chasing significance to living a life of service, contribution, and authentic connection. One of the most powerful moments came when Mike shared the four questions that helped him turn his life around. Questions that forced him to stop drifting and start living intentionally. Questions like “Do you actually want to live?” and “What do you truly want?” These questions sound simple, but they have the power to completely change the direction of your life if you answer them honestly. What I love about Mike's story is that he's proof that external success does not guarantee internal peace. But he's also proof that you can change your internal state, rewrite the story you're telling yourself, and build a life that is rich both internally and externally. This conversation is about awakening. It's about purpose. And it's about learning how to live a life that truly feels worth living. Key Takeaways • Why changing your emotional set point may be the most important achievement of your life • The dangerous trap of chasing recognition and significance instead of real love • How the stories you tell yourself quietly shape your entire reality • The four life changing questions that can help you rediscover purpose and direction • Why success without inner fulfillment still leaves you feeling empty • How shifting from seeking validation to serving others transforms your life

What if the biggest obstacle between you and your goals isn't your talent, your resources, or your circumstances… but the identity you believe about yourself? In this mashup episode, I bring together four incredible minds who understand what it really takes to achieve meaningful goals and create lasting success. You're going to hear powerful insights from Mel Robbins, David Nurse, Constance Schwartz-Morini, and Amy Porterfield about the mindset shifts that separate people who dream from people who actually execute. This conversation is about one core truth: the results you get in your life will never consistently exceed the identity you believe you deserve. Mel Robbins and I go deep into the power of intentional living and why the decisions we make daily shape the trajectory of our lives. We talk about how your story does not disqualify you from achieving something great. In fact, your life experiences and your humanity are often the very things that qualify you to make an impact. I share the deeply personal story of my father's transformation and how the idea of “one more” attempt can change the entire course of a life. You're also going to hear David Nurse break down how small pivots in your mindset can unlock massive changes in your performance and results. We talk about practical strategies that help people shift from being stuck to taking decisive action. Amy Porterfield shares one of the biggest traps that keeps people from pursuing their dreams. Too many people wait until everything is perfect before they start. The truth is that clarity often comes from taking action, not from waiting for the perfect plan. And finally, Constance Schwartz-Morini pulls back the curtain on what it takes to build world class businesses and brands behind the scenes. Her journey reminds us that massive success rarely starts with perfect certainty. It begins with belief, vision, and the willingness to take the first step before you have the entire path mapped out. If there is one idea that runs through every conversation in this episode, it is this: your identity drives your effort, your effort drives your results, and your results reinforce the identity you believe about yourself. When you upgrade that identity and start writing a new story about who you are becoming, everything in your life can change. This episode will challenge the way you think about your goals and help you realize something powerful. You are far closer to your next level than you think. Key Takeaways Why the identity you believe about yourself determines the results you create in life The power of “one more” effort and how persistence compounds over time Why waiting for perfect clarity often prevents people from ever starting How small mindset pivots can unlock massive performance breakthroughs The importance of intentional living and taking ownership of your story Why taking action before you feel ready is often the key to achieving big goals How upgrading your identity can transform your effort, confidence, and results

What If Losing Everything Is the Very Thing That Leads You to Your Real Life? In this conversation with Sage Steele, I sit down with a woman who had her entire world flipped upside down in real time. Sixteen years at ESPN. A respected career. A single mom carrying the financial weight of her family. And then one moment on a podcast where she spoke her mind, and it all changed. What followed was suspension, public backlash, legal battles with The Walt Disney Company, and the kind of pressure most people only pray they never experience. But this episode is not about politics. It is about courage. It is about what happens when you are forced to choose between comfort and conviction. Sage opens up about the fear of losing everything, the weight of being the breadwinner for her kids, and the internal battle of standing up for herself after years of staying quiet. She shares what it felt like to be publicly attacked, to receive threats, to question herself in the darkest moments, and then to make a decision that changed the trajectory of her life. What moved me most was not just her resilience, but the legacy behind it. The story of her father, a West Point graduate who broke barriers and chose the “harder right” in the face of racism and rejection, will stay with you. That foundation shaped Sage more than she realized. And when she finally stood up for herself, her son looked at her and said, “Mom, it's about time you stood up for yourself.” That moment alone is worth listening to this entire episode. And here is the part I want you to hear if you are going through your own blow up right now. Sage lost her job. She walked away from the only career she had known for decades. She had no clear next step. But she surrendered control. She leaned into faith. She built her own platform. And in the middle of the uncertainty, she met the man who is now her husband in a moment that only God could orchestrate. The same pain that felt like devastation became the doorway to a new life. If you are afraid to speak up, afraid to make the change, afraid to lose what feels secure, this conversation will challenge you. Sometimes the thing you are clinging to is the very thing holding you back from the life you were meant to live. Key Takeaways: Why standing on principle can cost you everything, and still be worth it How to function and perform at a high level while your world feels like it is collapsing The difference between controlling outcomes and surrendering them How your children learn more from what you model than what you preach Why the hardest seasons of your life often become the most defining This one is about faith. It is about courage. It is about choosing the harder right. And it might just be the reminder you need that your setback is not the end of your story. Max Out. Also don't miss out on MAXOUT2026: Once a year, I open my home for an intimate one-day experience unlike anything else I do. This year, I'm making it even smaller, just 15 to 18 people. Together, we'll dive deep into the exact strategies I use to plan, visualize, and design the best year of my life and yours. If you're ready to Max Out your future, join me at Maxout2026.com (https://maxout2026.com/) for a life-changing day you'll never forget.

The Real Test of Your Character Is Not in Calm Moments, It Is in Conflict. In this mashup episode, I bring together three of the most powerful voices on communication and human behavior I have ever had on the show: Jefferson Fisher, Chuck Wisner, and Charles Duhigg. What we unpack in this conversation can literally change your marriage, your leadership, your parenting, and your business. Because the truth is this: most people do not lose opportunities because they lack talent. They lose them because they lose control in crucial conversations. Jefferson breaks down why trying to win an argument often means losing something far more valuable. He shares practical language you can use in heated moments to de-escalate tension and maintain your authority without overpowering someone else. Chuck goes deeper into the emotional layers of conflict and explains how most disagreements are not about the surface issue at all. They are about identity, safety, and being heard. When you understand that, you stop reacting and start leading. Charles Duhigg takes us into the science of conversations. He explains how high conflict exchanges are often driven by unseen scripts running in the background of our minds. When you learn to identify those patterns, you gain leverage. You stop being hijacked by emotion and start asking better questions. And when you ask better questions, you get better outcomes. What I love about this mashup is that it is not theory. It is tactical. You are going to hear exact phrases, exact strategies, and exact mindset shifts that allow you to stay calm when someone else is not. If you want to become more influential, more respected, and more effective in every area of your life, you must master the ability to handle high conflict conversations without losing yourself in the process. This is about control. Not controlling other people. Controlling you. Key Takeaways: Why trying to win an argument usually costs you influence The power of saying less and listening more in heated moments How to respond without escalating tension The hidden emotional drivers underneath most conflicts Practical phrases that instantly lower defensiveness How to maintain authority without overpowering someone Why calm energy is the ultimate competitive advantage in communication If you can stay composed when others lose control, you separate yourself instantly. The world is full of loud voices. The leaders are the ones who remain steady. Also don't miss out on MAXOUT2026: Once a year, I open my home for an intimate one-day experience unlike anything else I do. This year, I'm making it even smaller, just 15 to 18 people. Together, we'll dive deep into the exact strategies I use to plan, visualize, and design the best year of my life and yours. If you're ready to Max Out your future, join me at ⁠Maxout2026.com⁠ for a life-changing day you'll never forget. ⁠