Mental strength is the key to improving your mental health and living your best life. When you grow mentally stronger, you'll be able to overcome self-doubt, manage your emotions, and feel confident in your ability to reach your goals. Join host Amy Morin, a psychotherapist and international best-selling author to learn the tools, tips, and strategies that will help you think, feel, and do your best in life. On Mondays, she interviews experts, authors, entrepreneurs, athletes, musicians, and celebrities about the strategies they use to overcome the biggest battle we all face — the battle within our own minds. She then breaks down their strategies in "The Therapist's Take" section of the episode so you can apply their strategies to your own life. Every Friday, she shares "The Friday Fix," a weekly segment offering quick exercises straight from her therapy office that can help you grow mentally stronger today. Whether you're struggling with your mental health or you want to take your life to the next level, this show is for you! Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium- Get bonus episodes and exclusive content while also supporting the show.
The Mentally Stronger with Therapist Amy Morin podcast has been absolutely life-changing for me. I cannot express enough how much it has helped save my head and heart. The episodes I have listened to have resonated with me on such a personal level, almost as if someone has been documenting my own experiences and feeding them to Amy. Despite facing major challenges in my life, including losing my job and a close friend tarnishing my reputation, this podcast has provided me with the tools and advice I need to navigate these difficult times. As someone who battles with mental health issues like major depressive disorder, anxiety, and insomnia, this podcast has been a lifeline for me. The advice given has truly been life-changing, and I am grateful for Amy's guidance.
One of the best aspects of this podcast is its ability to provide concise and practical advice. Each episode is packed with helpful information and tips that are easy to understand and apply in real life. The quick tips and explanations make it easy for listeners to grasp concepts and implement new perspectives in their own lives. Additionally, the podcast poses thought-provoking questions that encourage listeners to evaluate themselves and their situations more deeply.
One potential downside of this podcast is that it may not address every specific issue or situation that listeners may be facing. While the advice given is applicable to a wide range of mental health struggles, it may not cover every individual circumstance. However, even if the examples given in the episodes don't directly align with a listener's experience, they can still find ways to apply the feedback and strategies discussed in their own lives.
In conclusion, The Mentally Stronger with Therapist Amy Morin podcast is a valuable resource for anyone on a mental health journey or looking for ways to improve their well-being. It provides informative and insightful content that helps listeners navigate their own challenges while offering practical solutions for everyday life. Thanks to this podcast, I have found hope, strategies, and a renewed sense of strength. I highly recommend it to anyone seeking guidance and support in their own mental health journey.
Want more mental strength plays? Pick up a copy of The Mental Strength Playbook. Have you ever had a big moment coming up, like a presentation or an interview, and spent the final few minutes frantically cramming? We often tell ourselves if we just review our notes one more time, we'll feel confident when we walk in. But research shows that last-minute cramming is probably making you perform worse, not better. And if you're a crammer like I am, I have good news—there's a much better way to spend those final few minutes before a high-pressure moment. Some of the things I talk about are: Why cramming before a big moment quietly raises your anxiety instead of lowering it—and the interview that taught me this the hard way. The play that works for athletes at the foul line and for the rest of us before a sales call, a performance review, or dinner with the in-laws. The three science-backed reasons a simple ritual calms your nerves and sharpens your focus (no lucky socks or magical thinking required). My own two-step pregame ritual—and how I leaned on it when Good Morning America gave me less than an hour's notice to go live on national TV. The three pieces of a ritual that actually works The one mistake that makes most people make Related Episodes 278 — The 3 Mindset Shifts You Will Help You Grow Mentally Stronger This Year 318 — How to Turn Anxiety Into a Competitive Advantage With a 2-Minute Play That Tricks Your Brain Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Sign Up for My Newsletter — https://amymorinlcsw.com/newsletter Sponsors Helix Sleep —Go to helixsleep.com/STRONGER to get 20% off sitewide AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! Flamingo — Get a $7 starter set at ShopFlamingo.com/STRONGER Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Have you ever told someone, "I'm not an optimist, I'm a realist" because the whole "good vibes only" thing seems irritating, and you don't want to set yourself up for disappointment? A lot of us brace for the worst on purpose. We think if we expect the worst, we'll either be right or pleasantly surprised. But bracing for disaster can be bad for your health. My guest today is Dr. Deepika Chopra — a clinical health psychologist known as The Optimism Doctor® and the author of The Power of Real Optimism. Some of the things we discuss are: What real optimism actually looks like in the middle of grief, stress, or a bad diagnosis The difference between real optimism and toxic positivity — and why "just think positive" can make people feel worse The question that opens the door to a different outcome without forcing you to fake a feeling The surprising physical health benefits of optimism Why optimism is a learnable skill The a one-minute end-of-day practice that rewires your brain to become more optimistic Why awe is even more powerful than gratitude for shrinking anxiety My top three strategies for becoming a real optimist starting today Related Episodes 259 - Feel Hopeless? 5 Habits That Bring Hope Back Fast with Dr. Julia Garcia 306 — You Don't Need to Feel Strong to Be Strong Links & Resources The Power of Real Optimism Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Helix Sleep —Go to helixsleep.com/STRONGER to get 20% off sitewide AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! Flamingo — Get a $7 starter set at ShopFlamingo.com/STRONGER Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Want more mental strength plays? Pick up a copy of The Mental Strength Playbook. Do you procrastinate more than you'd like to admit? You've probably told yourself the problem is willpower, motivation, or self-discipline. But, procrastination usually has nothing to do with those things. It has to do with trying to avoid an uncomfortable feeling. Fortunately, there's a simple mental strength play that can help you start taking action fast. And the best news is, in less than a minute you can get yourself working on that project. It's backed by science and it can help you get moving on those tasks you dread. Some of the things I talk about are: Why calling yourself "lazy" or "undisciplined" is the exact story that keeps you stuck—and what's really driving your procrastination. How dread quietly turns a small task into a huge source of dread. Why procrastination thrives in isolation. The "Text a Motivation Buddy" play—and how I used it to finally edit the section of my book I'd been avoiding for weeks. The three science-backed reasons a single text message can do what willpower can't. How to run the play in five steps, including the specific way to word your text so it actually works. The buddy you should never pick (the lovable friend who'll talk you into lunch instead). The simple "time swap" variation that gets you and a friend both unstuck at once. Related Episodes 118 — How to Do Something You Hate 244 — The Science of Motivation: How to Get Things Done When You Feel Stuck Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Sign Up for My Newsletter — https://amymorinlcsw.com/newsletter Sponsors Helix Sleep —Go to helixsleep.com/STRONGER to get 20% off sitewide AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! Flamingo — Get a $7 starter set at ShopFlamingo.com/STRONGER Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week we're sharing a special episode from our friends at How To!, the 2026 Ambie Award-nominated “Best Personal Growth Podcast” that's back with a new host and new topics to fuel your curiosity. Each week on How To!, award-winning journalist Mike Pesca tackles a listener's question – on topics ranging from travel and finance to health and relationships – with help from world-class experts who actually know what they're talking about. Think of it as eavesdropping on someone else's therapy session, without the co-pay or awkward silence. And today, we're sharing their recent episode “How To Manage Your Anger” where Mike interviews psychologist Dr. Ryan Martin, known as the Anger Professor, who helps Tyler, a science teacher and dad to a blended family, understand the core principles that spark Tyler's frustration. Tyler holds himself to high expectations, placing a deep value on self-sufficiency and the social contract. However, he gets incredibly frustrated when others do not hold themselves to those same standards. I'm excited about this one - it's not something we've covered on the show before. And for more interviews like this, make sure to follow How To! on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. And tell them we sent you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Have you ever scrolled Netflix for 25 minutes, finally picked something—and then couldn't enjoy it because you kept wondering if there was something better? Or told yourself that if you just had more time, more space, or more freedom, you'd finally write the book, start the business, or get serious about the creative work you keep putting off? We've been sold the idea that more options and more freedom make us happier and more creative. But what if the opposite is true—what if all that freedom is actually making you stay stuck? My guest is David Epstein, a New York Times bestselling author whose TED talk has been viewed more than eight million times. His new book, Inside the Box, makes the case that the limits we resent might be the very thing standing between us and our best work. Some of the things we discuss are: Why "think outside the box" is actually terrible advice—and what your brain does instead when you hand it a blank page. The reason too much freedom raises your anxiety. The jazz pianist who turned a near-disaster into the best-selling solo piano album of all time. The "satisficing" rule a Nobel Prize winner used to free up his mind—and why he owned only three sets of clothes. Why "maximizers" who hunt for the best option end up less satisfied, more regretful, and unhappier with their lives. David's simple three-letter framework (BCS) for putting useful constraints into your work and your day. The almost embarrassingly simple trick David uses to become a morning person and never skip a workout. The Therapist's Take: my three favorite strategies for using constraints to think more creatively, make faster decisions, and grow mentally stronger. Related Episodes 126 — Overcome Choice Overload to Make Smarter, Faster Decisions without Regret 316 — How Talking to a Duck Will Solve Any Problem Fast (And Why Thinking Harder Fire Backfires) Links & Resources Inside the Box Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Helix Sleep —Go to helixsleep.com/STRONGER to get 20% off sitewide AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! Flamingo — Get a $7 starter set at ShopFlamingo.com/STRONGER Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Want more plays to help you stay mentally strong? PIck up a copy of The Mental Strength Playbook. Have you ever wasted a whole day dreading a one-hour meeting? Or braced yourself for a family gathering because you dreaded seeing the family member who makes inconsiderate comments? The interaction with difficult people usually don't wear you out. It's the anticipation of seeing them that is draining. A meeting might only last an hour, but you can lose six hours dreading it. Fortunately, a simple mental strength play can turn everything around. If you run it well, and the people who used to drain you might actually start to feel a little entertaining. Some of the things I talk about are: Why my therapist sister and I started playing Behavior Bingo at family gatherings. Why dread is so exhausting, and what your nervous system is actually doing while you brace for impact. How shifting from being a participant in a stressful situation to being an observer of it changes the way your brain processes the whole thing. The surprising reason the people who get under your skin are also the most predictable people on the planet. The four steps to building and running your own Behavior Bingo game. The four pitfalls that can make this play backfire (including the one mistake that turns emotional distance into office drama). When Behavior Bingo is the wrong play—and the harder conversation to have instead. Related Episodes 298 — The Gray Rock Strategy: How to Handle Toxic People Without Losing Your Mind 89 — Dealing With a Narcissist? How to Empower Yourself with Dr. Ramani Durvasula Connect With the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors MUDWTR — Get up to 43% off your entire order, plus free shipping and a free rechargeable frother when you use code STRONGER at Mudwtr.com. AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders First Day — Get up to 57% off and a free gift with code stronger at FirstDay.com Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! Flamingo — Get a $7 starter set at ShopFlamingo.com/STRONGER Cozy Earth — Head to cozyearth.com and use code STRONGER20 to get 20% off your order. Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Most of us don't think about brain health until something goes wrong. We think it's normal to experience brain fog or we just accept cognitive decline is inevitable as we age. Science shows you can physically change your brain at any age. You can grow new neurons, build stronger connections, and even shrink your risk of Alzheimer's — and it doesn't require anything mysterious or extreme. My guest is Dr. Majid Fotuhi, a renowned neurologist and one of the world's leading experts in brain health. He received his MD from Harvard Medical School and his PhD in Neuroscience from Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine, where he now serves as an adjunct professor at the Mind/Brain Institute. He's also the author of the new book The Invincible Brain. Some of the things we discuss are: Why your brain is an organ you can care for like your teeth or your heart — not a mysterious black box you're stuck with The 12-week brain fitness study that showed older adults physically grew their brains by 1–3%, making them up to three years younger on an MRI Why genetics play a surprisingly small role in late-life Alzheimer's — and how exercise can cancel out the effects of the highest-risk gene The exact amount of exercise that strengthens your brain (and why doing more than this won't help) Why sleep is an active brain-cleaning process — and what 20+ years of insomnia does to the memory center of your brain The one rule about food Dr. Fotuhi cares about more than keto vs. Mediterranean vs. vegetarian How chronic stress physically shrinks your brain, plus the perspective shift his daughter learned that keeps her calm under pressure Simple daily ways to challenge your brain — from memorizing names to license plates in traffic The Therapist's Take: My top three strategies for building a physically stronger, younger brain starting today Related Episodes 91 — The Biggest Threats to Your Brain Health and the Lifestyle Changes You Should Make Today to Stay Sharp with Dr. Austin Perlmutter 212 — What Are You Feeding Your Brain? Here's What You Need to Know About Your Mental Diet Links & Resources The Invincible Brain Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors MUDWTR — Get up to 43% off your entire order, plus free shipping and a free rechargeable frother when you use code STRONGER at Mudwtr.com. AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders First Day — Get up to 57% off and a free gift with code stronger at FirstDay.com Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! Flamingo — Get a $7 starter set at ShopFlamingo.com/STRONGER Cozy Earth — Head to cozyearth.com and use code STRONGER20 to get 20% off your order. Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Want strategies to help you stay mentally strong right now? Pick up a copy of The Mental Strength Playbook. Have you ever been about to walk into something important — a big presentation, a tough call, a conversation you've been dreading — and your body just completely betrays you? Your heart is pounding, your palms are sweaty, your stomach is in knots. And no matter how many times you tell yourself to just calm down, it doesn't work? When they physical symptoms of anxiety spike, telling yourself to calm down is usually the worst thing you can do. So today I'm sharing a play that does the opposite of what your instinct tells you to do. Some of the things I talk about are: What was really happening backstage at my TEDx talk — and why I deliberately didn't try to calm down Why "just calm down" backfires when your anxiety is giving you physical symptoms, like a racing heart Why the label your brain puts on your physiological symptoms matters and how to assign it a different label How a threat mindset quietly sabotages your performance, and what flips you into an opportunity mindset instead The story of an NBA player whose game-day jitters were wrecking his performance — and the small change that turned his nerves into fuel The four steps to run the play so you can calm down fast The two mistakes that wreck this play ( including the subtle one almost everyone gets wrong) Why your racing heart isn't proof that something's wrong or that you're not ready Related Episodes 208 — Coping With Anxiety: An Anxiety Toolkit for Fast Relief 73 — Calm Intense Anxiety in 30 Seconds Connect With the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors MUDWTR — Get up to 43% off your entire order, plus free shipping and a free rechargeable frother when you use code STRONGER at Mudwtr.com. AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders First Day — Get up to 57% off and a free gift with code stronger at FirstDay.com Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! Flamingo — Get a $7 starter set at ShopFlamingo.com/STRONGER Cozy Earth — Head to cozyearth.com and use code STRONGER20 to get 20% off your order. Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Pick up a copy of The Mental Strength Playbook. Do you ever set a goal you genuinely cared about — get healthier, write the book, finally save money — and two weeks later you can't make yourself take any action? Even when you have motivation and a good plan, sometimes, the action doesn't happen. Closing the gap between what you intend to do and what you actually do has far less to do with trying harder than you'd expect, and far more to do with a smarter approach. My guest today is Chris Bailey, a productivity expert and the bestselling author of Intentional. He draws on years of research — and conversations with Buddhist monks — to explain what actually moves us from intention to action, and why forcing yourself is the least effective tool you have. Some of the things we discuss are: The reason your goal keeps turning into disappointment and the one word Chris uses to describe what a goal actually is The simple subtraction problem happening in your brain every time you choose the couch over the goal How to conduct an "aversion audit" The five things that make a task feel impossible to start and why naming them is half the battle Why the early-rising, tea-drinking version of you in your head is sabotaging you and what the research says about whether 5am people are actually more successful The 12 values and how to instantly tell if a goal is even yours What it means when you can't connect a goal to anything you value — and the uncomfortable truth about whose goal it might be Why guilt isn't the enemy and what it's actually trying to tell you My three favorite strategies that will help you start to get more intentional today Related Episodes 194 — The Science of Small Wins: Why They Matter More Than Big Goals 112 — These 7 Tiny Changes That Lead to Big Results When You're Working on Your Goals Links & Resources Intentional Take the Values Test Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors MUDWTR — Get up to 43% off your entire order, plus free shipping and a free rechargeable frother when you use code STRONGER at Mudwtr.com. AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders First Day — Get up to 57% off and a free gift with code stronger at FirstDay.com Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! Flamingo — Get a $7 starter set at ShopFlamingo.com/STRONGER Cozy Earth — Head to cozyearth.com and use code STRONGER20 to get 20% off your order. Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Buy a copy of The Mental Strength Playbook. Whether you're trying to figure out how to address a problem with a friend or you're struggling to make a decision about what to do next week, thinking about a problem can be exhausting. And the more you think about solutions, the more you struggle to find an answer. Fortunately, there's a simple strategy that can help you uncover the solution fast. Not only is it backed by science, but it's also used by engineers at companies like Amazon and Toyota. Today, I'm walking you through exactly how to run this play. Some of the things I talk about are: Why thinking harder actually keeps you stuck — and the surprising shift that breaks the loop fast. The community college student who walked into class with a brightly colored rubber duck — and what happened to her grades after that. Why engineers swear by this exact strategy when they hit a wall on a tough problem. The cognitive psychology behind the "self-explanation effect" — and three specific things that happen in your brain the moment you start talking out loud. How I used this play while writing The Mental Strength Playbook — when I'd been stuck on the structure for weeks. The four-step play you can run anywhere, with any object, anytime your brain locks up. Why this strategy works just as well for tough boundary conversations and tangled family decisions as it does for work problems. The two mistakes that wreck this play — plus one pro tip for when you can't talk out loud in a shared space. Related Episodes 106 — Get Instant Stress Relief by Gaining Psychological Distance from Your Problems 258 - 7 Sneaky Mindset Traps Draining Your Mental Strength (And How to Stop Them) Connect With the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors MUDWTR — Get up to 43% off your entire order, plus free shipping and a free rechargeable frother when you use code STRONGER at Mudwtr.com. AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders First Day — Get up to 57% off and a free gift with code stronger at FirstDay.com Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! Flamingo — Get a $7 starter set at ShopFlamingo.com/STRONGER Cozy Earth — Head to cozyearth.com and use code STRONGER20 to get 20% off your order. Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Want to be mentally stronger today? Buy The Mental Strength Playbook. Take a quick look around your home. How many piles of mail are sitting on the counter? How many clothes are in your closet that you haven't worn in two years? How much stuff is shoved in the garage, the spare room, or the storage unit you're still paying $200 a month for? Most of us are drowning in stuff, and it's costing us more than we realize. The research is clear that clutter drains your energy, fragments your attention, and quietly raises your stress levels every single day. But it doesn't stop there. Clutter eats up your weekends, strains your relationships, and keeps you tethered to a version of yourself you've already outgrown. And the worst part is that buying more bins or spending another Saturday cleaning rarely fixes it. My guest today is Faith Roberson, an organizing expert and author of What Stays and What Goes. She believes clutter isn't actually a discipline problem at all. It's an emotional one. And once you understand what's really keeping you stuck, letting go gets a whole lot easier. Some of the things we discuss are: Why clutter is almost never about laziness or discipline (and what it actually is) The "emotional tagging" exercise that reveals what your stuff is really doing to you How holding on to old belongings keeps you stuck in an identity you've outgrown Why "does it spark joy?" isn't enough, and the better question to ask The myth that selling your stuff is worth the time it takes How to handle sentimental items without feeling like you're betraying someone you love The three types of boundaries that determine whether your home actually feels like home Why your stuff is probably worth a lot less than you think (and why that's good news) The simple question to ask before keeping anything: can I actually care for this? How clearing your space creates room for the person you're becoming next Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 104 — What Your Sentimental Keepsakes Reveal About Your Self-Worth 40 — The Minimalists: Why You Should Declutter Your Life with Joshua Fields Millburn Links & Resources What Stays and What Goes Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders MUDWTR - Get up to 43% off your entire order, plus free shipping and a free rechargeable frother when you use code STRONGER at Mudwtr.com. Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Pre-order a copy of The Mental Strength Playbook. Have you ever rewritten an email five times before hitting send because you keep telling yourself it's not quite right? Or beaten yourself up over something you said and convinced yourself you've ruined everything? That's your inner critic . We all have one—and while that little voice is meant to protect you, it can easily get in the way of thinking, feeling, and doing your best. Fortunately, you don't have to silence it. There's a simpler play that takes the power out of that voice almost instantly. Some of the things I talk about are: The story of how my inner critic almost talked me out of doing something important this past week Why your inner critic isn't actually trying to ruin your life (and what's really going on) The fascinating research on writers with imposter syndrome who became more productive simply by naming the voice in their head The psychological concept of "self-distancing" and why it helps you make better decisions, regulate emotions, and take action even when you're scared A 3-step play for naming your inner critic The critical pitfall to avoid when naming your inner critic Why the goal isn't to eliminate that voice—it's to stop letting it run your life Related Episodes 128 — 5 Ways to Deal with Negative Thoughts So You Can Train Your Brain to Become Mentally Stronger 284 — Overthinking? Here's the 3-Word Fix You Need to Stop the Spiral Connect With the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors MUDWTR - Get up to 43% off your entire order, plus free shipping and a free rechargeable frother when you use code STRONGER at Mudwtr.com. AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders First Day - Get up to 57% off and a free gift with code stronger at FirstDay.com Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The Mental Strength Playbook is out now. Order your copy today. Do you have someone in your life who only calls when they need something? Maybe it's the relative who always goes from one crisis to the next, the friend who vents for an hour and never asks how you're doing, or the coworker who treats you like their personal therapist. You care about them but you feel drained by them too. Fortunately, you can show real empathy while also setting boundaries. And this might be the best thing for both you and the other person. My guest today is Dr. D. Ivan Young, a master certified coach and empathy expert. His new book is Leading from the Heart, and in this conversation he breaks down how to show up for the people you love without losing yourself in the process. Some of the things we discuss are: Why "putting on a brave face" is actually a performance — and what it's costing you The drowning analogy that finally makes the difference between sympathy and empathy make sense How to call out the elephant in the room before a tense meeting (and why it instantly changes the dynamic) The "come alongside" rule that can help you start a conversation without triggering a fight What to say to a friend going through something you've never experienced yourself Why open-ended questions are more powerful than any advice you could give The "cupcake and a candle" ritual for when you need to feel your feelings and move on How to tell if you're empowering someone or quietly enabling them What to do (and not say) when a neighbor or coworker is grieving The uncomfortable truth about why the same kind of person keeps showing up in your life Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 286 — 3 Sentences That Will Turn Any Argument Into a Productive Conversation 218 — 3 Steps to Building Boundaries That Stick So You Can Reclaim Your Time and Energy Links & Resources Leading From the Heart Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders First Day - Use code STRONGER to get up to 57% Off at FirstDay.com MUDWTR - Get up to 43% off your entire order, plus free shipping and a free rechargeable frother when you use code STRONGER at Mudwtr.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Pick up a copy of The Mental Strength Playbook. Have you ever rehearsed an uncomfortable conversation in your head over and over again? Maybe you want to ask for a raise, address something that hurt your feelings, or share bad news—but you keep running the words on a loop, hunting for the perfect way to say it. While we like to practice, rehearsing isn't actually helping. It's worrying in disguise. Today, I'm sharing three plays that work a lot better, so you can stop dreading the conversation and find the courage to actually have it. Some of the things I talk about are: The webinar I almost got roped into—and how I finally spoke up after weeks of staying quiet. Why rehearsing a conversation in advance often backfires and keeps you stuck. How "Flip the Script" stops your brain from treating the worst-case scenario like a prediction. Why generic affirmations like "you'll do great" don't work—and what to use instead. How to create a statement that works for you when the pressure is on. The play that takes the hardest part of a tough conversation and moves it to your prep phase. What to do when you've waited too long to raise an issue and it feels too late to speak up. Why you don't have to feel 100% ready to walk into the room. Related Episodes 308 — Pause. Pick. Play. The Formula for Getting Through Any Hard Moment 168 — Navigate Uncomfortable Conversations with Confidence Connect With the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors MUDWTR - Get up to 43% off your entire order, plus free shipping and a free rechargeable frother when you use code STRONGER at Mudwtr.com. AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders First Day - Get up to 57% off and a free gift with code stronger at FirstDay.com Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Pre-order The Mental Strength Playbook now and get access to pre-order bonuses! What if cleaning your kitchen counter could actually help with depression? What if rearranging your living room could improve your relationships? Or moving your fruit bowl could make you healthier? We tend to think change is all about what's happening inside us — our mindset, our habits, our willpower. But what if the secret to a better life isn't just about what you do, but where you do it? My guest today is Leidy Klotz, a professor at the University of Virginia, behavioral scientist, and author of the fascinating new book In a Good Place. Leidy explains that every human has three basic psychological needs — agency, growth, and connection — and once you understand them, you can intentionally design your spaces to meet them. Some of the things we discuss in this episode are: The 3 basic psychological needs your environment should be giving you — and what to evaluate before you ever look at the kitchen backsplash. Why a psychologist's prescription for depression might be to organize your kitchen — and the surprising reason it works. The "Memorial Gym" effect — how you walk past life-changing opportunities every single day without ever noticing them. Why your sight is so dominant that it's robbing you of the most powerful sensory experiences your space has to offer. The bizarre way returning to an old space can rewind your habits 11 years in an instant. Why "screen-free rooms" are the wrong approach — and the simple flip Leidy recommends instead. The fire extinguisher study that reveals just how much you're missing in your own environment. The tension between novelty and nostalgia — and how to know when a renovation is actually a mistake. The story of Josie's Way — a profoundly moving lesson on how physical spaces can carry someone's spirit forward. The fascinating brain science behind why we describe relationships using the language of space ("close to," "distant from") — and what it reveals about how we connect. If you've ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or like you're working against yourself to build better habits, this conversation will completely change how you think about the rooms you live in. Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 222 — 5 Areas of Your Life to Declutter So You Feel Less Overwhelmed 232 — 5 Daily Habits To Build Unstoppable Mental Strength Links & Resources In a Good Place Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders First Day - Use code STRONGER to get up to 57% Off at FirstDay.com MUDWTR - Get up to 43% off your entire order, plus free shipping and a free rechargeable frother when you use code STRONGER at Mudwtr.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Pre-order The Mental Strength Playbook and get your pre-order bonuses. Get a signed copy at Books & Books delivered to you. Can't stop replaying that awkward conversation from yesterday? Still anxious about something that might happen next week? If your brain keeps dragging you back to the same worries over and over, telling yourself to "just stop thinking about it" isn't going to work. In fact, research shows trying to suppress thoughts makes the worry come back even harder. But there's a science-backed play that can contain your worrying to a small window of time, and it works fast. Today, I'm walking you through exactly how to run it. Some of the things I talk about are: Why your brain treats unresolved problems like threats — and keeps sounding the alarm even when there's nothing you can do The "white bear effect" and why suppressing a worry guarantees it comes back stronger How worrying can cut your productivity in half The 5-step formula for scheduling time to worry — and why it works within days, not weeks How I used this exact play to manage my own anxiety about an issue I faced just this week The difference between problem-solving and worrying — and why confusing the two keeps you stuck Three mistakes that will make this play backfire Why giving your brain permission to worry is more powerful than trying to shut it down Related Episodes 208 — Coping With Anxiety: An Anxiety Toolkit for Fast Relief 296 — 5 Ways to Build Emotional Strength When Life Keeps Knocking You Down Connect With the Show Get a signed copy of The Mental Strength Playbook Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors MUDWTR - Get up to 43% off your entire order, plus free shipping and a free rechargeable frother when you use code STRONGER at Mudwtr.com. AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Want more plays to choose from? Pre-order The Mental Strength Playbook before April 28th and get exclusive bonuses delivered instantly — including a mental strength audit and the book's introduction. Have you ever wondered why an unanswered text can send you into a spiral? Or why you keep having the same fight with your partner over and over again? It might be your attachment style. And the good news is, you can actually rewire your brain to feel more secure in your relationships. My guest today is Dr. Amir Levine, psychiatrist, molecular neuroscientist, and the bestselling author of Attached. He's back with a brand new book called Secure, where he shares how the small, everyday moments of connection can change your brain on a molecular level. Some of the things we discuss in this episode are: Why you can be securely attached to one person in your life and anxiously attached to another — and what that reveals about you. The "cyberball effect" and the surprising reason your brain reacts to being left off a group text the same way it reacts to physical pain. The shocking experiment that proved exclusion hurts even when the people excluding you aren't good people. The 5 pillars of a secure connection — and the simple acronym (CARP) you can use to evaluate every relationship in your life. Why even a nod from a stranger in an elevator matters more to your brain than you think. The "CARP intervention" — what to do when someone in your life isn't showing up for you. Why you don't need years of therapy or a massive breakthrough to become more secure. The fascinating science of why some people are wired for closeness and others aren't — and what a microscopic worm can teach us about it. How to "reshuffle your social media" (the people in your life, not the apps) to create a secure bubble around yourself. The reason recalling childhood memories in a secure environment can actually edit those memories — and heal them. If you've ever felt like you're too needy, too distant, or just bad at relationships, this conversation will change how you think about connection — and give you the tools to start feeling more secure today. Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 290 — Feeling Disconnected? Do These 5 Things With Your Partner This Weekend to Develop a Stronger Relationship 261 - The Small Social Risks That Spark New Connections and Deepen Your Relationships With Ben SwireLinks & Resources LInks & Resources Secure Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors MUDWTR - Get up to 43% off your entire order, plus free shipping and a free rechargeable frother when you use code STRONGER at Mudwtr.com. AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Fast Growing Trees — Get an additional twenty percent off better plants at FastGrowingTrees.com using the code STRONGER at checkout Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Want more plays to choose from? Pre-order The Mental Strength Playbook before April 28th and get exclusive bonuses delivered instantly — including a mental strength audit and the book's introduction. Imagine being a therapist from small-town Maine who has never spoken in front of more than 20 people — and suddenly finding yourself backstage at a massive conference, about to share a stage with Gary Vee. That's exactly what happened to me. And instead of running for the exit, I ran a play. Here's what that means — and how you can run a play to solve any situation or uncomfortable emotional experience you find yourself in. Some of the things I talk about are: The story of my very first big speaking gig — sharing a stage with Gary Vaynerchuk as a therapist from Maine with zero experience on stages like that one. The "Act As If" play — what it is, why it works, and how cognitive dissonance and behavioral activation explain the science behind it. Why "Act As If" isn't the same as toxic positivity or fake-it-till-you-make-it. A completely different situation that called for a completely different play — and how the If/Then Plan saved a 3-hour workshop. The 3Ps framework — Pause, Pick, Play — and how to use it to find the right play for any situation you face. How to figure out whether your thinking, your emotions, or your actions need support — because those are three different problems that call for three different plays. Why an imperfect play you actually run beats a perfect play you never do. Related Episodes 206 — Why You're Stronger Than You Think (and How to See Proof of That Today) 232 — 5 Daily Habits To Build Unstoppable Mental StrengthConnect with the Show Connect With the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors MUDWTR - Get up to 43% off your entire order, plus free shipping and a free rechargeable frother when you use code STRONGER at Mudwtr.com. AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Fast Growing Trees — Get an additional twenty percent off better plants at FastGrowingTrees.com using the code STRONGER at checkout Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Pre-order The Mental Strength Playbook now and get access to pre-order bonuses! What if the ultimate strategy to calm your brain, fight burnout, and boost your happiness doesn't come from a pharmacy but instead, comes from nature? Most of us spend our days glued to screens, sitting underneath artificial lights, and spending up to 93% of our time indoors. The "indoor epidemic" may be costing us our mental and physical health. Fortunately, a few simple changes could turn things around. My guest today is Dr. John La Puma, a board-certified physician, a pioneer in the field of Eco Medicine, and the author of the new book Indoor Epidemic. He has spent years studying how the natural world directly impacts our biology and mental health. Today, he breaks down the fascinating science of nature and shares the actionable steps you can take to heal your mind and body using the great outdoors. Some of the things we discuss in this episode are: The number one thing you should do within 60 minutes of waking up to boost your mood and energy. Why our modern "indoor epidemic" is quietly causing insomnia, brain fog, and chronic inflammation. The fascinating 1984 hospital study that proved just looking at a tree can speed up physical healing. The exact "minimum effective dose" of nature you need each week to increase your longevity. Why watching the sunset acts as a biological safety signal that guarantees deeper, more restorative sleep. How to get the powerful benefits of "Eco Medicine" even if you live in a concrete jungle. Simple ways to bring the outdoors inside to lower your cortisol and calm your nervous system. Why engaging your senses in nature is a highly effective way to ground yourself and build lasting mental strength. Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 136 — This Journaling Exercise Will Change Your Brain in 4 Days 213 — 5 Signs of High Functioning Depression and What to Do About It with Dr. Judith Joseph Links & Resources Indoor Epidemic Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors MUDWTR - Get up to 43% off your entire order, plus free shipping and a free rechargeable frother when you use code STRONGER at Mudwtr.com. AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Fast Growing Trees — Get an additional twenty percent off better plants at FastGrowingTrees.com using the code STRONGER at checkout Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Want to know how to run the plays that will help you stay mentally strong? Pre-order The Mental Strength Playbook. Have you ever had to show up to do something when you felt like you had nothing to give? Or have you doubted your ability to handle a challenge because you didn't feel strong enough? Fortunately, you don't have to feel strong to be strong. And today, I'm sharing why. Some of the things I talk about are: The hardest thing I've ever had to do—and how it redefined my understanding of strength. Why your feelings of fear, doubt, or anxiety aren't proof that you're weak. The two biggest myths about mental strength—and how they might be holding you back. A simple 3-step formula—"Pause, Pick, Play"—that can help you take action when you aren't feeling strong. How to stop running plays that give you short-term relief but make long-term challenges harder. Why mental strength isn't about denying pain or glorifying suffering. It's about taking action, even when it's hard. How to identify and run plays that actually move you forward. A funny update to my "Victory Vault" story that proves rejection isn't the end of the road. Related Episodes 206 — Why You're Stronger Than You Think (and How to See Proof of That Today) 304 — Got Rejected? Here's the One Thing You Need to Do to Get Your Confidence Back Fast Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Fast Growing Trees — Get an additional twenty percent off better plants at FastGrowingTrees.com using the code STRONGER at checkout Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Pre-order The Mental Strength Playbook and get access to exclusive pre-order bonuses! What if everything you believe about making big changes in your life is wrong? What if rather than a huge transformation, you're better of taking a series of small steps toward a new life? My guest today is Eric Zimmer, a behavior change expert, host of the award-winning podcast The One You Feed, and author of the new book How a Little Becomes a Lot. Some of the things we discuss in this episode are: Eric's story of change and what helped him along the way. The number one thing you should do when you get off track with your goals. Why treating change as a character flaw guarantees failure—and how to treat it as a learnable skill instead. The powerful parable of two wolves and how it dictates your daily choices. How to use the "80% rule" to extract maximum benefit from your new habits. Why planning for the exact moments your routine will break is crucial for your success. How to take action even when the voice of self-doubt is screaming in your ear. The exact approach to use when there isn't a clear roadmap for improving your mental health. Why committing to just three minutes of daily practice is far better than aiming for thirty. Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 226 — Why Life Feels Out of Control (And 5 Steps to Take Charge) 134 — How to Change Your Life in 30 Days Links & Resources How a Little Becomes a Lot Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! OneSkin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Fast Growing Trees — Get an additional twenty percent off better plants at FastGrowingTrees.com using the code STRONGER at checkout Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Pre-order a copy of The Mental Strength Playbook. Don't you hate that sting of rejection? Whether you got turned down for a job or you got ghosted by friend, feeling rejected hurts. But you don't have to let it take a toll on your confidence. You can actually use those painful moments as a powerful opportunity to grow mentally stronger. Today, I am sharing my absolute favorite strategy to help you deal with the sting of rejection so you can feel better about yourself even in the face of deep self-doubt. Some of the things I talk about are: How being rejected from grad school turned into an unexpected full-circle victory for me. Your brain's secret filing system—and why you replay every failure but totally forget your own wins. The wild trick negativity bias plays on you and how to beat it. Five practical steps to build your own “Victory Vault”—a powerful tool that can flip your confidence switch in seconds. The concrete method that proves to yourself, once and for all, that you are more capable than you think—no matter what anyone else says. Related Episodes 87 — Memory and Mental Health: How Your Emotions Impact What You Remember with Dr. Charan Ranganath 198 —When Life Hits Hard: Build Resilience and Come Back Stronger Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Fast Growing Trees — Get an additional twenty percent off better plants at FastGrowingTrees.com using the code STRONGER at checkout Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Pre-order The Mental Strength Playbook now and get access to pre-order bonuses! What if trying to fix other people's problems is actually making things worse? When a loved one comes to us with a problem, our first instinct is often to jump in and solve it. But what if the best way to support them isn't about fixing anything at all? My guest today is Nidhi Tewari, a licensed clinical social worker and expert in the power of attunement. She's the author of the new book Working Well and today she's talking about how to connect more deeply with the people—both at work and in our personal lives. Some of the things we discuss in this episode are: Why trying to fix someone's problems often backfires. How to manage your own discomfort when a loved one is struggling. What attunement is and how it builds deeper connections. The neurobiological magic that happens when we truly connect with others. Why asking “What do you need?” is more powerful than assuming. How to repair a relationship when you've said the wrong thing. Why “I'm here for you” isn't always enough—and what to say instead. How to recognize when you're overstepping or pushing your own agenda. The four key skills to master attunement in your relationships. Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 49 — 7 Boundary Mistakes That Damage Relationships 67 — Stop Trying to Fix Your Partner and Focus on Yourself Links & Resources Working Well Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Warby Parker — Get 15% off + Free Shipping when they buy 2 or more pairs of prescription glasses at WarbyParker.com/AMY Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Visit functionhealth.com/stronger or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership. One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Rula — Go to Rula.com/STRONGER for quality therapy that's covered by insurance Fast Growing Trees — Get an additional twenty percent off better plants at FastGrowingTrees.com using the code STRONGER at checkout Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Pre-order The Mental Strength Playbook now and get access to pre-order bonuses! Have you ever found yourself in a relationship that felt eerily similar to a past one that ended badly? Or maybe you finally achieved a goal you worked so hard for, but instead of celebrating, you found a way to completely mess it up? You might think you are just unlucky or destined to struggle. But the truth is, your brain simply loves what is familiar—even if what is familiar is painful. Your comfort zone isn't necessarily what's comfortable. It's what feels familiar, even when those things aren't good for you. Fortunately, you can learn to change what feels comfortable to you. Some of the things I talk about are: Why your nervous system might prefer chaos over peace and how it tricks you into stirring up trouble. The fascinating reason why we are often drawn to people and situations that validate our lowest self-worth. Three actionable strategies to rewire your brain and stop repeating the same painful mistakes. Why feeling awkward, anxious, or guilty is actually the ultimate sign that you are making real progress. How to update your brain's "safety manual" so you can finally tolerate success and healthy relationships without self-sabotaging. Related Episodes 300 — Why Your Nervous System Feels Broken and How to Reset It Without the Woo-Woo 129 — Stop Letting Your Comfort Zone Kill You and Embrace Growth with Neuroscientist Paul Taylor Links & Resources 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Workbook Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Warby Parker — Get 15% off + Free Shipping when they buy 2 or more pairs of prescription glasses at WarbyParker.com/AMY Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Visit functionhealth.com/stronger or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership. One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Rula — Go to Rula.com/STRONGER for quality therapy that's covered by insurance Fast Growing Trees — Get an additional twenty percent off better plants at FastGrowingTrees.com using the code STRONGER at checkout Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Have you ever had to show up at work and get things done even when your personal life was a complete dumpster fire? I have. In fact, most of us have. But no one ever talks about how to do it. We are going to change that. You are invited to my upcoming live virtual event on April 6th at 7 PM ET! If you can't attend live, we will send you the recording. I'm sharing the science-backed strategies that helped me keep showing up on my hardest days. They are the same strategies that helped me create the dream life I have now. And I'll be answering your questions as well. It's my way of saying thank you for early bird pre-orders of The Mental Strength Playbook. Here is how to reserve your spot: 1. Pre-order from any retailer (if you haven't already) 2. Reserve your spot in the webinar Want to learn more about The Mental Strength Playbook and other pre-order bonuses? Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What if the amount of information share—or don't share—is affecting your life more than you think? We live in a world where oversharing gets a bad rap, but undersharing can be just as problematic. Striking the right balance between too much information (TMI) and too little information (TLI) is a skill that can improve your relationships and even help you grow mentally stronger. My guest today is Leslie John, a behavioral scientist, Harvard Business School professor, and author of the new book Revealing. Leslie shares her insights on the science and art of sharing, and how revealing just a little more can strengthen your connections and mental health. Some of the things we discuss in this episode include: Why undersharing might be a bigger problem than oversharing. The surprising benefits of taking small social risks and sharing more. How to identify opportunities to share meaningfully without crossing into TMI territory. The role of emotional literacy in understanding and communicating your feelings. Why silence isn't always the safest option—and how it can hold you back. How to handle the tension of “Should I speak up or stay silent?” Why we're more likely to share secrets with strangers than close friends. The surprising power of sharing your feelings—even at work. How to recover when you feel like you've shared too much. Why revealing something personal can actually make people like you more. Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 62 – How to Be Authentic Without Oversharing with Dr. Nick Morgan 261 - The Small Social Risks That Spark New Connections and Deepen Your Relationships With Ben SwireLinks & Resources Links & Resources Revealing Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Warby Parker — Get 15% off + Free Shipping when they buy 2 or more pairs of prescription glasses at WarbyParker.com/AMY Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Visit functionhealth.com/stronger or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership. One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Rula — Go to Rula.com/STRONGER for quality therapy that's covered by insurance Fast Growing Trees — Get an additional twenty percent off better plants at FastGrowingTrees.com using the code STRONGER at checkout Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Pre-order The Mental Strength Playbook and enjoy exclusive bonuses today! Have you ever felt like your stress levels are stuck in overdrive, leaving you constantly on edge, jumpy, or exhausted? You might think that fixing your nervous system requires some magical reset or elaborate healing ritual. But the truth is, regulating your nervous system doesn't have to be complicated—or involve any of the “woo woo” advice flooding social media. In today's episode of Mentally Stronger, I'm separating fact from fiction when it comes to nervous system regulation. I'll share science-backed strategies that actually work to help you calm your body, reset your mind, and find relief from chronic stress—without the gimmicks. Some of the things I talk about are: The real role of your nervous system and why it might feel “stuck in survival mode.” Why your stress response isn't “broken” and doesn't need a magical fix. Five practical, science-backed strategies to regulate your nervous system (including my favorite breathing exercise, “smell the pizza”). How slowing down your actions can instantly calm your brain and body. Why regular practice—not a one-time reset—is the key to lasting relief. If you're ready to stop living in overdrive and start feeling calm, grounded, and in control, this episode is for you. Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 145 — Calm Your Nervous System With Therapist Liz Kelly 216 — 7 Ways to Heal Trauma Without Going to Therapy Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Warby Parker — Get 15% off + Free Shipping when they buy 2 or more pairs of prescription glasses at WarbyParker.com/AMY Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Visit functionhealth.com/stronger or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership. One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Rula — Go to Rula.com/STRONGER for quality therapy that's covered by insurance Fast Growing Trees — Get an additional twenty percent off better plants at FastGrowingTrees.com using the code STRONGER at checkout Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The Mental Strength Playbook is Now Available for Pre-Order! After writing six books about what not to do, it's finally time to share what to do. And since work is where our mental strength is tested the most, it's also where we have the greatest opportunities to grow. In The Mental Strength Playbook, you'll find 50 science-backed strategies to help you: Instantly calm your anxiety Boost your performance and productivity Thrive under pressure—even when your personal life feels overwhelming Pre-order now to get exclusive bonuses that will help you start building mental strength right away: The Mental Strength Audit: Identify your strengths and areas for growth The Negotiation Playbook: Learn psychological strategies to advocate for yourself A Sneak Peek at the Book: Read the full introduction before it hits shelves The Mental Strength Playbook launches on April 28th, but these bonuses disappear after that date. Pre-order your copy today from any retailer at amymorinlcsw.com. Then, enter your order number to claim your bonuses. Want a signed copy? Order through Books & Books in Key West—the only store offering signed editions! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What if the things you believe about yourself and your capabilities aren't accurate? What if you're much more competent than you think you are? We all have mental barriers that shape how we view ourselves and the world. But your beliefs do not have to define you forever. You have the power to rewrite those stories. My guest today is Nir Eyal, a behavioral design expert, international speaker, and the bestselling author. His new book, Beyond Belief, and teaches us how to replace the mental labels that keep us stuck with accurate, empowering beliefs about what we can truly achieve. Some of the things we discuss in this episode include: Why the stories you tell yourself aren't always facts (and how to rewrite them). Nir's personal battle with his weight and how letting go of the "one true diet" myth changed his life. The dangerous power of the "nocebo effect" and how expecting a negative outcome often guarantees it. Why your brain acts as a "prediction machine" designed to keep you stuck in your comfort zone. How to tell the difference between an objective fact and a self-imposed label. The incredible link between your beliefs and physical suffering Actionable strategies to break bad mental habits, including Nir's highly effective "10-minute rule." The Therapist's Take: My top three practical strategies for challenging your beliefs and changing your behavior today. Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 33 — Friday Fix: Uncover and Change Your Self-Limiting Beliefs So You Can Reach Your Greatest Potential 210 — Reverse Aging with These Scientifically-Proven Mental Strategies Links & Resources Beyond Belief Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Warby Parker — Get 15% off + Free Shipping when they buy 2 or more pairs of prescription glasses at WarbyParker.com/AMY Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Visit functionhealth.com/stronger or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership. One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Rula — Go to Rula.com/STRONGER for quality therapy that's covered by insurance Fast Growing Trees — Get an additional twenty percent off better plants at FastGrowingTrees.com using the code STRONGER at checkout Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Pre-order The Mental Strength Playbook and enjoy exclusive bonuses today! Have you ever dealt with someone who thrives on drama and leaves you feeling completely exhausted? You might think that keeping your power means you have to speak up, tell the truth, and share your opinion. But true mental strength isn't always about being the loudest person in the room. Sometimes, the most powerful thing you can do is refuse to engage in the battle altogether. Fortunately, there is a simple way to protect your peace and starve toxic people of the reactions they're trying to get. Today, I'm sharing a powerful tool called the "Gray Rock Strategy" that will help you handle manipulative people without losing your mind—or giving away your power. Some of the things I talk about are: Why becoming as boring and uninteresting as a "gray rock" is your best defense against drama. The psychology behind why toxic people crave your emotional reactions (and how to cut off their supply). Practical, everyday tips to keep your responses brief, factual, and completely neutral. The crucial difference between using the "Gray Rock Strategy" and stonewalling someone. How to set powerful, invisible emotional boundaries to protect your mental energy in real life and online. Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 59 — 3 Ways to Take Back Your Power When Negative People Try to Drag You Down 218 — 3 Steps to Building Boundaries That Stick So You Can Reclaim Your Time and Energy Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Visit functionhealth.com/stronger or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership. One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Rula — Go to Rula.com/STRONGER for quality therapy that's covered by insurance Fast Growing Trees — Get an additional twenty percent off better plants at FastGrowingTrees.com using the code STRONGER at checkout Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Do you ever go through the motions and checking off tasks but feeling like something is missing? Do achievements leave you feeling emptier than you expected? Society often confuses flourishing with productivity and success. My guest, bestselling author Daniel Coyle explains that true flourishing is about creating environments where we can thrive together. He says a few small changes can create a life of joy and meaning. Some of the things we discuss are: The true definition of flourishing (it's not what you think). Why shared improvement, not self-improvement, is the key to a fulfilling life. How to spark connection in your community with one simple shift from answers to questions. The difference between habits that automate your life and rituals that animate it. The "4 H's" exercise that can build deep relationships in just 10 minutes. Why looking for "yellow doors" can lead to unexpected and meaningful connections. How to turn obstacles into gifts that guide you toward growth. Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 283 — How to Stop Feeling Invisible and Start Feeling Like You Matter with Journalist Jennifer Wallace 289 — How to Create a Meaningful Life Without Starting Over with Stanford Lecturer Dave Evans Links & Resources Flourish Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Visit functionhealth.com/stronger or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership. One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Rula — Go to Rula.com/STRONGER for quality therapy that's covered by insurance Fast Growing Trees — Get an additional twenty percent off better plants at FastGrowingTrees.com using the code STRONGER at checkout Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
You can't control everything that happens to you. But you can control how much emotional strength you have to respond. When you're feeling emotionally strong, you're ready to tackle whatever challenges you face and have the ability to rise to your greatest potential. Fortunately, building emotional strength is a skill you can develop with practice. Today, I'm sharing five essential steps that will help you build emotional strength even when life keeps knocking you down. Some of the things I talk about are: Why emotional strength isn't about suppressing your feelings but understanding them. The simple act of "affect labeling" and how it can instantly reduce an emotion's intensity. How to determine if an emotion is your "friend" or "enemy" in any given moment. The game-changing question that helps you decide how to tackle an uncomfortable feeling. Why facing uncomfortable feelings can be key to a healthier, stronger life. A 5-step strategy to move from emotional avoidance to empowered action. Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 5 — Friday Fix: Get Instant Relief From an Uncomfortable Emotion 25 — Friday Fix: How to Stop Letting Emotions Screw Up Your Decisions 224 - 8 Myths About Feelings That Can Sabotage Your Emotional Intelligence Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Visit functionhealth.com/stronger or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership. One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Rula — Go to Rula.com/STRONGER for quality therapy that's covered by insurance Fast Growing Trees — Get an additional twenty percent off better plants at FastGrowingTrees.com using the code STRONGER at checkout Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Do you ever feel like work has taken over your life? Or maybe you've tried to find "work-life balance,” but it feels impossible? If your job has you feeling stressed out and overwhelmed, this episode is for you. My guest is psychologist and author Guy Winch, whose latest book, Mind Over Grind, offers practical strategies to help you reclaim your time, energy, and mental well-being no matter how high-status or high-stress your job is. Some of the things we discuss are: Why work-life balance starts in your head—not your schedule The hidden costs of saying “yes” too often and how to set boundaries How to take micro-breaks that actually leave you feeling restored The power of rituals to transition from work mode to life mode How to triple-dip your vacations for maximum joy and recovery Why shifting your mindset about work can make you mentally stronger If you've ever felt like you're stuck in a never-ending cycle of work and stress, Guy's advice will help you break free and find more joy in your day-to-day life. Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 267 — The Surprising Truth About Stress and Why Trying to Relax Is Making You Feel Worse with Dr. Rebecca Heiss 155 — How to Survive a Toxic Workplace Without Losing Your Mind with Dr. Jessica Kriegel Links & Resources Mind Over Grind Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Visit functionhealth.com/stronger or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership. One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Rula — Go to Rula.com/STRONGER for quality therapy that's covered by insurance Fast Growing Trees — Get an additional twenty percent off better plants at FastGrowingTrees.com using the code STRONGER at checkout Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
How often do you find yourself dreading something so much that it's hard to think about anything else? Maybe you've avoided doing something important—like applying for a new job—because the thought of waiting for a rejection letter felt unbearable. You are not alone. Dread is a powerful emotion that can hijack your decisions. But you don't have to let dread control your life. In today's episode, I'm diving into the science of "dread aversion" and sharing how to stop letting the fear of waiting sabotage your success. Some of the things I talk about are: Why waiting often feels worse than getting bad news The surprising ways dread can trick you into making bad decisions A fascinating study that reveals why your brain weighs future pain more heavily than future pleasure How dread and procrastination go hand-in-hand—and what to do about it The science behind why people would rather face pain now than wait for the unknown How to use counterfactual thinking to stop catastrophic "what-if" thoughts A 4-step "What-If Workout" to break free from the dread spiral Why taking action is the ultimate antidote to dread How to reframe uncertainty so it doesn't feel so overwhelming Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 144 — 7 Surprising Strategies That Fix Anxiety (Even Though We Fear These Things Will Make Anxiety Worse) 118 — How to Do Something You Hate Connect with the Show Pre-order The Mental Strength Playbook Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Visit functionhealth.com/stronger or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership. One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get 15% off using code STRONGER Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Are you tired of battling with your kids over homework, chores, or screen time? Or maybe you've tried every reward chart and consequence system out there, but nothing seems to work? If you're ready for a new approach to parenting, this episode is for you. My guest is Dr. Ross Greene, a clinical psychologist and the author of The Explosive Child and Raising Human Beings. His new book is called The Kids Who Aren't Okay. He's here to share why traditional discipline methods often fail — and how collaborative problem-solving can transform your relationship with your child. Some of the things we discuss are: How to better understand challenging behavior The problem with focusing on behavior instead of the underlying issue Why non-compliance can actually be a good thing How to identify the “unsolved problems” that are causing your child's struggles The two criteria for creating solutions that actually work Why teaching kids problem-solving skills is the best way to prepare them for the real world Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 282 — 5 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don't Do in Today's World 75 — How to Raise Mentally Strong Kids Links & Resources The Kids Who Aren't Okay Lives in the Balance Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Visit functionhealth.com/stronger or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership. One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Is it important for you to be liked by everyone? Do you ever hold back on an idea because you're terrified of what someone else might say? Or have you made a major life decision — like what career to pursue or who to date — based on what others thought you should do, rather than what you actually wanted to do? If any of this sounds familiar, today's episode is for you. If your self-worth depends on an opinion poll, you'll always feel unstable. Fortunately, you don't have to let other people's opinions control your life. Some of the things I talk about are: Why your brain is wired to fear rejection and how it impacts your self-esteem The science behind why external validation creates stress and lowers autonomy How to build self-worth on a foundation you control A mental trick called "The Permission Slip" that frees you from needing others' approval Why setting boundaries feels awkward at first — and how to survive the discomfort A simple challenge to help you take back control of your life this week Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 251 — How to Stop Being a People-Pleaser With Psychotherapist Meg Josephson 120 — How to Stop Being a People-Pleaser and Start Gaining the Confidence to Be Yourself Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Visit functionhealth.com/stronger or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership. One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get 15% off using code STRONGER Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Do you ever feel like you're living according to someone else's rules? How do you find the courage to be yourself when you know not everyone is going to be on board? My guest is David Archuleta, platinum-selling singer-songwriter, former American Idol runner-up, and author of the new memoir Devout. In this episode, David gets real about the intense pressure to please his family, his church, and his fans—and what it took to finally trust his own voice and make choices that align with who he really is. Some of the things we discuss are: How toxic family dynamics and the pressure to please can strip away your self-trust The terrifying reality of living a double life to meet religious and societal expectations Why setting boundaries—even with family—is essential for your mental health The moment David realized he had to stop waiting for permission to be himself How making mistakes is actually a gift, not a failure Why breaking free from control can feel lonely at first, but is the only path to true freedom How to start trusting your own decisions, even when you're terrified of the outcome Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 279 — How to Rebuild Your Life After Hitting Rock Bottom with Best-Selling Author Jen Hatmaker 245 — Christine Brown Woolley on Redefining Strength, Leaving a 25-Year Marriage, and Finding the Courage to Start Over Links & Resources Devout Follow David on Instagram - @DavidArchuleta Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Visit functionhealth.com/stronger or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership. One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Do you feel like you and your partner have lost a bit of your spark? If so, you might be tempted to plan something big to turn things around. But, it's often the little things in relationships that make a big difference. And weekends are the perfect time to reconnect and deepen your bond. Today, I'm sharing five simple habits mentally strong couples practice on the weekends. These aren't complicated or time-consuming but they could make a big difference in your ability to grow stronger together. Some of the things I talk about are: Why spending intentional time apart can actually bring you closer. The counterintuitive reason that independence builds security in a relationship. How creating small, consistent rituals provides stability and a sense of belonging. The importance of making it safe to talk about your feelings—both good and bad. The difference between being in the same room and creating true quality time. One simple, two-second habit that can transform your entire relationship dynamic. Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 186 — What Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do During a Fight 176 — Healing Anxious Attachment and Finding Secure Love with Therapist Jessica Baum Connect with the Show Pickup a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Visit functionhealth.com/stronger or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership. One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Do you ever feel like life is just a series of to-do lists? Do you sometimes wonder, “Is this all there is?” Or maybe you've been told to “find your purpose,” but the idea feels overwhelming or out of reach. If you've ever struggled to find meaning in your day-to-day life, this episode is for you. My guest is Stanford Professor Dave Evans. He's the co-author of How to Have a Meaningful Life. Dave shares his insights on how to create a life filled with meaning—without needing to quit your job, move across the world, or completely reinvent yourself. Some of the things we discuss are: Why chasing impact or fulfillment alone can leave you feeling empty The myth of “finding your one true purpose” and what to do instead How to experience more meaning in your daily routine without adding more to your plate The difference between the “transactional world” and the “flow world” and how to access both How to align who you are, what you believe, and what you do for a more coherent life The power of asking deeper questions to build formative communities that help you grow If you've ever felt stuck in the grind or wondered how to make your life feel more meaningful, this episode will give you actionable tools and a fresh perspective to start living fully right now. Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 191 — Are You Living a Psychologically Rich Life? Here's How to Find Out with Dr. Shigehiro Oishi 283 — How to Stop Feeling Invisible and Start Feeling Like You Matter with Journalist Jennifer Wallace Links & Resources How to Live a Meaningful Life Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Visit functionhealth.com/stronger or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership. One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What if your pursuit of happiness is the very thing making you miserable? It sounds counterintuitive, right? We live in a world obsessed with happiness. But chasing happiness is a trap. On today's episode, I'm breaking down why the pursuit of happiness often backfires and what you can do instead to build a life that feels truly fulfilling. Some of the things I talk about are: Why treating happiness like a goal sets you up for disappointment The science behind the "happiness trap" and how it makes you lonelier How hedonic adaptation keeps you chasing the next thing Why embracing all your emotions—even the uncomfortable ones—leads to a richer life Four things you can do to stop chasing happiness and start living meaningfully Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 164 — 7 Science-Backed Ways to Boost Your Happiness 138 — 7 Things to Spend Money On if You Want to Be a Happier Person Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Visit functionhealth.com/stronger or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership. One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Do you feel like you're constantly failing at work-life balance? Or maybe you're tired of advice that tells you to optimize every second of your day and track every single habit? If you want a fresh, unconventional approach to building a life you love, this episode is for you. My guest is Jonathan Goodman, the author of Unhinged Habits. He's a fitness industry veteran who challenges the idea that slow and steady always wins the race. Instead, he explains why periods of intensity — followed by rest — are actually the key to transforming your life. Some of the things we discuss are: Why you should stop trying to balance money, health, and relationships simultaneously The problem with trying to get "1% better every day" How to use "seasons" of intensity to level up your life The simple "Hats vs. Tattoos" rule for making faster decisions without regret Why having fewer friends might actually make you happier and less lonely How to create an "off-season checklist" so you don't feel guilty about the things you aren't focusing on right now How to launch a "micro-season" to tackle your biggest goals in just 30 days Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 276 — The 3 Habits That Will Make You Mentally Stronger in 2026 260 - Temptation Bundling: The Science-Backed Trick to Make Habits Stick Links & Resources Unhinged Habits Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Visit functionhealth.com/stronger or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership. One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
How often do you walk away from an argument feeling exhausted and misunderstood? Most of us go into an argument wanting to win. But trying to convince someone that you are right and they are wrong will leave you feeling drained. It will likely damage your relationship. Fortunately, you can turn a battle into a productive conversation with just a few phrases. Today, I'm sharing three simple sentences that can stop a conflict in its tracks. Whether you're arguing with your spouse, or you're sensing the tension at work, these three sentences can de-escalate things while also preserving your relationship. Some of the things I talk about are: What "emotional flooding" is and why it shuts down the logical part of your brain How your brain's "angry memories" can derail a conversation The first sentence that forces you to pause and truly listen Why validating someone's feelings doesn't mean you agree with them The science behind how feeling understood calms the nervous system One courageous sentence that breaks the blame game and invites accountability How to use these three sentences together to turn conflict into resolution Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 195 — Stop Avoiding Conflict: The Secret to Building Stronger Relationships and a Stronger You with Dr. John Eliot 67 — Stop Trying to Fix Your Partner and Focus on Yourself Links & Resources Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! Shopify — Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at Shopify.com/mentallystronger Lola Blankets — Get 35% off your entire order at Lolablankets.com by using code STRONGER at checkout. Experience the world's #1 blanket with Lola Blankets. AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Go to FunctionHealth.com/stronger or or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Do you feel like you're just going through the motions? Or do you think you don't the time or energy to excel at anything? If you want to find more meaning and fulfillment without doing a cold plunge at 3 a.m., this episode is for you. My guest is Brad Stulberg, a best-selling author and human performance expert. He explains that real excellence isn't about hustle culture or becoming the best in the world. Instead, it's about engaging in something worthwhile that aligns with your values. Some of the things we discuss are: The difference between real excellence and hustle culture Why pursuing excellence leads to greater life satisfaction, not burnout How to find something you're passionate about, even if you feel lost The importance of connecting your goals to your core values Why the things you work on also work on you The role community plays in achieving your goals How to stay motivated when you hit a plateau and stop seeing progress Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 167 — Mindset Hacks for Peak Performance with Performance Psychiatrist Dr. Brook Choulet 178 — 3 Simple Strategies for a Stronger Mindset Links & Resources BradStulberg.com The Way of Excellence Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! Shopify — Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at Shopify.com/mentallystronger Lola Blankets — Get 35% off your entire order at Lolablankets.com by using code STRONGER at checkout. Experience the world's #1 blanket with Lola Blankets. AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Visit functionhealth.com/stronger or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership. One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
How often do you find yourself replaying a conversation in your head over and over? Or maybe you get caught in a spiral of imagining every possible worst-case scenario. You are definitely not alone—we all ruminate sometimes. But overthinking wastes your time and drains your mental strength. Fortunately, you don't have to let your brain keep spiraling down an unhelpful path. Today, I'm sharing three simple words that will empower you to break the mental spiral so you don't stay stuck in your head. Some of the things I talk about are: Why thinking longer and harder about a problem actually creates tunnel vision The real root cause of overthinking (it boils down to one specific feeling) The exact 3-word phrase that stops a mental spiral in its tracks How to use the "Choose Your Adventure" mindset to take control of your life Why talking to yourself in the second person leads to better decisions A simple 3-step strategy to move from autopilot to action today Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 9 — How to Stop Overthinking 78 — How to Stop Ruminating on Negative Things and Start Enjoying Life Links & Resources Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! Shopify — Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at Shopify.com/mentallystronger Lola Blankets — Get 35% off your entire order at Lolablankets.com by using code STRONGER at checkout. Experience the world's #1 blanket with Lola Blankets. AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Go to FunctionHealth.com/stronger or or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Do you ever feel like you don't have a reason to get out of bed? Or maybe you feel lonely, even when you're in a room full of people? If you've ever wondered what it truly means to feel valued and important, this episode is for you. My guest is Jennifer Wallace, a journalist and the author of Mattering. She explains that mattering is a fundamental human need that comes right after food and shelter. When we feel like we matter, we thrive. But when that need goes unmet, we can become anxious, depressed, or angry. Fortunately, we can all do things that remind us that we matter. Some of the things we discuss are: The difference between mattering, belonging, and purpose Why being needed isn't the same as mattering How to feel like you matter without chasing achievement and recognition The one question to ask yourself every morning to prove to yourself that you matter How to rebuild your sense of mattering after a major life transition like a divorce, job loss, or relocation A simple formula for finding a sense of mattering by adding value to the world How to handle people who act out because they feel like they don't matter Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 32 — Help Kids Build Self-Worth amid a Toxic Achievement Culture with Author Jennifer Wallace 119 — Turning Your Pain Into Purpose With Juice WRLD's Mother Carmela Wallace Links & Resources JenniferBWallace.com Mattering Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! Shopify — Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at Shopify.com/mentallystronger Lola Blankets — Get 35% off your entire order at Lolablankets.com by using code STRONGER at checkout. Experience the world's #1 blanket with Lola Blankets. AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Visit functionhealth.com/stronger or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership. One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Are you raising your kids to become mentally strong adults? It's tough to do in today's world for so many reasons. But we owe it to kids to give them the skills they need to manage their emotions, think rationally, and take the productive action they need to live their best lives. Unfortunately, many of today's most common parenting practices are robbing kids of the mental strength they need to thrive. Today, I'm breaking down the things you're going to want to stop doing if you want to raise strong kids. Some of the things I talk about are: The 5 parenting habits that rob kids of mental strength Why it's crucial not to condone a victim mentality in your children How teaching kids to avoid risks can actually increase their anxiety The connection between chores and raising responsible adults Why you shouldn't try to regulate your child's emotions for them The importance of letting kids fail and make mistakes in a supportive environment Actionable steps to help your kids build problem-solving and coping skills Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 75 — How to Raise Mentally Strong Kids 121 — Empowering Kids to Thrive with Dr. Michele Borba Links & Resources Buy 13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don't Do Listen to 13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don't Do on Spotify Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! Shopify — Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at Shopify.com/mentallystronger Lola Blankets — Get 35% off your entire order at Lolablankets.com by using code STRONGER at checkout. Experience the world's #1 blanket with Lola Blankets. AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Go to FunctionHealth.com/stronger or or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Do you ever feel like you're drowning in guilt? That feeling that no matter what you do, you're not doing enough? As a parent, a partner, a friend, or a professional? We often think guilt is a sign we've done something wrong, but what if it's just a symptom of something deeper? What if the constant feeling of "I should have..." is actually holding you back from living a happier, more fulfilling life? Learning how to manage guilt isn't about ignoring your feelings; it's about reclaiming your energy and making choices that truly serve you. My guest is Dr. Jennifer Reid, a therapist and author who specializes in helping women overcome the crushing weight of guilt. Some of the things we discuss are: The difference between healthy guilt and the maladaptive guilt that keeps you stuck. Why women, in particular, struggle with feelings of guilt. The "Guilt Equation" and how it can help you understand and frame your feelings. The four "furies" of expectations that fuel guilt and how to push back against them. Why we sometimes feel guilty for being happy and how it substitutes for other, more authentic emotions. Practical, step-by-step strategies to manage guilt without just "sitting in it." How to handle guilt about past events you can't change. What to do when someone tries to use a guilt trip to manipulate you. Why freeing yourself from the cycle of guilt is one of the most powerful things you can do to become mentally stronger. Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 245 — Christine Brown Woolley on Redefining Strength, Leaving a 25-Year Marriage, and Finding the Courage to Start Over 202 — 10 Ways to Improve Mental Health Without Therapy Links & Resources JenniferReidMD.com Guilt Free Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! Shopify — Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at Shopify.com/mentallystronger Lola Blankets — Get 35% off your entire order at Lolablankets.com by using code STRONGER at checkout. Experience the world's #1 blanket with Lola Blankets. AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Visit functionhealth.com/stronger or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership. One Skin — Go to oneskin.co/STRONGER and use code stronger to get up to 30% off your first 3 subscription orders Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
You can't control everything that happens to you this year. But you can control how you respond to your circumstances. And if you're sabotaging your own efforts, you'll never reach your greatest potential. Fortunately, recognizing the ways you get in your own way can change everything. Today, I'm sharing a step-by-step guide to help you identify your self-sabotaging habits so you can get out of your own way and achieve your goals in 2026. Some of the things I talk about are: Why we sometimes create goals only to ensure we don't reach them The surprising reason we would rather have a built-in excuse than risk failure The number one fear that causes self-sabotage How to identify your specific self-sabotaging behaviors How to reframe the thoughts that contribute to self-sabotage How to start changing the way you see yourself The 4 steps to getting out of your own way Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 124 — Stop Self-Sabotage: 7 Reasons You Are Holding Yourself Back and How to Stop Once and For All 69 — A Simple Trick That Increases the Chances You'll Stick to Any Goal You Set for YourselfConnect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! Shopify — Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at Shopify.com/mentallystronger Lola Blankets — Get 35% off your entire order at Lolablankets.com by using code STRONGER at checkout. Experience the world's #1 blanket with Lola Blankets. AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Do you ever wish you could reinvent yourself or that you had the courage to let go of a life that no longer fits? Do you struggle to trust your intuition or worry that it's too late to start over? If so, today's episode is for you. My guest is Jen Hatmaker, a New York Times bestselling author with millions of social media followers. After 26 years of marriage, she discovered her husband was cheating. That moment forced her to confront her deepest fears, question her beliefs, and rebuild her life from the ground up. Some of the things we discuss are: Why we cling to stories that no longer serve us How to rebuild your life after everything falls apart Why grief and growth often happen at the same time The importance of trusting your intuition and never abandoning yourself How to prepare for life's curveballs before they hit Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 245 — Christine Brown Woolley on Redefining Strength, Leaving a 25-Year Marriage, and Finding the Courage to Start Over 202 — 10 Ways to Improve Mental Health Without Therapy Links & Resources JenHatmaker.com Awake Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! Shopify — Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at Shopify.com/mentallystronger Lola Blankets — Get 35% off your entire order at Lolablankets.com by using code STRONGER at checkout. Experience the world's #1 blanket with Lola Blankets. AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Function Health — Visit functionhealth.com/stronger or use gift code STRONGER25 for a $25 credit toward your membership. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
You can't control everything that happens to you this year. But you can control your mindset. With a healthy mindset, you'll be able to tackle whatever challenges you face and you'll also have the ability to rise to your greatest potential. Fortunately, changing the lens through which you see the world can change everything. Today, I'm sharing three essential mindset shifts that will help you tackle challenges with a completely different perspective so you can grow stronger this year. Some of the things I talk about are: Why behavior changes like diet and exercise won't stick without the right mindset The three types of unhelpful beliefs that keep you stuck in helplessness or worthlessness How to silence your inner critic by asking yourself one simple question Why failing is actually a necessary step on the path to success The 5-minute strategy that moves you from avoidance to action How changing your perspective helps you tackle challenges you didn't think you could handle Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Related Episodes 258 - 7 Sneaky Mindset Traps Draining Your Mental Strength (And How to Stop Them) 178 - 3 Simple Habits for a Stronger Mindset Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! Shopify — Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at Shopify.com/mentallystronger Lola Blankets — Get 35% off your entire order at Lolablankets.com by using code STRONGER at checkout. Experience the world's #1 blanket with Lola Blankets. AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
As we close out 2025, I'm reflecting on the biggest lessons we've learned about building mental strength this year. I reviewed reviewed the most listened-to episodes of the year—from conversations with neuroscientists to inspiring stories from musicians—to bring you the top 10 takeaways that resonated most with you. Today, I'm breaking down the most powerful, science-backed strategies and insights from this year's most popular episodes to help you make 2026 your strongest year yet. Some of the things I talk about are: The #1 lesson from our most popular episode on healing anxiety How to "dose stack" your brain chemicals for a powerful boost to your mental health Why you don't need therapy to improve your mental health (and what may be more helpful) The surprising connection between lifting weights, confidence, and PTSD How to influence someone to change Why the belief "I am enough" is the foundation of a healthy money mindset The childhood beliefs that might still be holding you back as an adult Why joy is found in the journey, not the destination (and how to embrace it) Featured Episodes 211 — 5 Ways to Add More Joy to Your Life with Dr. Tiffany Moon 176 — 10 Childhood Beliefs Holding You Back and How to Break Free 181 — The Money Mindset Makeover to Help You Cope with Financial Anxiety with Elizabeth Husserl 174 — How to Influence People to Change Without Overstepping Your Bounds 179 — The Power of Persistence and Positivity with Singer/Songwriter Niko Moon 180 — Stronger Mind, Stronger Body: The Science of Building Both 202 — 10 Ways to Improve Mental Health Without Therapy 187 — The Ultimate Guide to Hacking Your Brain Chemicals with Neuroscientist TJ Power 204 — 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do in Today's World Connect with the Show 183 — How to Permanently Heal Your Anxiety by Addressing the Root Cause with Dr. Nicole Cain Resources Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors OneSkin — Get 15% off OneSkin with the code STRONGER at https://www.oneskin.co/ Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! Hollow Socks — Buy 2, get 2 free at hollowsocks.com BetterHelp — This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try and get 10% off at betterhelp.com/mentallystrong Shopify — Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at Shopify.com/mentallystronger Lola Blankets — Get 35% off your entire order at Lolablankets.com by using code STRONGER at checkout. Experience the world's #1 blanket with Lola Blankets. AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Uncommon Goods — Go to UncommonGoods.com/Stronger for 15% off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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