Podcasts about art of charm

In this minisode, Ali guides you on a mini mapping experience to explore your heart/sexuality split - or un-split!Using her method, Personal Geometry® (explored in Episode 31 with Lauren Gleason) in mere minutes you will gain insights into what your present stance is in relation to your romantic heart and your sexuality - in relation to anyone or anything that is currently an issue for you.Find out what your body knows about it!In minutes, you'll see-feel what could help you understand, and live, a more harmonious relationship between these essential aspects of being - whether in relationship to someone else and/or yourself.MORE ALI MEZEY:Website:  https://www.alimezey.comPersonal Geometry® and the Magic of Mat Work Course information:https://www.alimezey.com/personal-geometry-foundationsTo book a session, email Ali at ali@alimezey.com

NEXT COHORT STARTS TOMORROW February 8th - Jump In!Personal Geometry® is a somatic and spatial practice that taps into the body's innate, felt-sense understanding of spatial relationships. This work can do so much so quickly. It's an amazing way to get you, your clients, your partner, other participants, to see and feel the body-truth of things in minutes. We are excited to share Personal Geometry Foundations with you as a practitioner discover how you can best tailor it to the disciplines you are already, or will be, practicing. This non-verbal, embodied approach provides a clear and immediate visual and visceral representation of a person's inner world, making it an invaluable tool for therapists, facilitators, and anyone seeking profound transformation.  A seven-week online class - perfect for therapists, sexologists, coaches, and healing practitioners. Foundations is the prerequisite for advanced classes on Sexuality and Addiction, and individuals seeking personal healing are welcome too!  PERSONAL GEOMETRY TRAININGSJoin the Next Personal Geometry® Foundations Class  (online over Zoom)Now enrolling - click here for more details. Next cohort starts February 8th, 2025.Our audience gets $250 off - just mention the show when contacting Ali. MORE ALI MEZEY:Website:  https://www.alimezey.comPersonal Geometry® and the Magic of Mat Work Course information:https://www.alimezey.com/personal-geometry-foundationsTransgenerational Healing Films: https://constellationarts.com/If you have any questions, email Ali at: ali@alimezey.com

In today's episode, we are bringing you a compilation of moments from the best interviews of 2024, covering everything from emotional mastery to productivity, building relationships, leadership, overcoming challenges, and living with purpose. Join us for a dynamic journey through some of the most impactful conversations from the past year, featuring insights from world-class experts across business, psychology, and personal development. How can understanding emotions transform your relationships? Why is slow productivity the key to long-term success? What role does empathy play in navigating workplace dynamics? In this special episode, we unpack these themes and more, and our hosts, Johnny Dzubak and AJ Harbinger, tie it all together with actionable takeaways to inspire, motivate, and transform your life. Don't miss this opportunity to reflect on the hidden forces shaping your behavior and uncover strategies to elevate your relationships, career, and purpose. What to Listen For Introduction – 00:00:00 Why is this episode a must-listen for those seeking personal and professional growth? Emotional Mastery and Relationships – 00:02:16 Why is emotional vocabulary essential for self-awareness and deeper connections, according to Karla McLaren? How does labeling emotions help regulate them and improve relationships? What role does jealousy play as a “relational radar,” and how can it guide your behavior? Workplace Dynamics and Empathy – 00:14:26 How does empathy shape team dynamics, as explained by Dr. Tessa West? Why are networking and understanding workplace hierarchies critical for career success? What common missteps do professionals make when navigating workplace relationships? Redefining Productivity – 00:16:18 What is Cal Newport's concept of slow productivity, and how does it challenge traditional workplace norms? How can focusing on quality over activity help you avoid burnout and achieve more meaningful results? Why does pseudo-productivity dominate knowledge work, and how can you break free? Habits and Communication – 00:24:41 How can small preparatory actions, like setting intentions, drastically reduce workplace conflict? Why is self-awareness essential for creating effective communication habits? Winning the Work vs. Doing the Work – 00:28:27 What's the difference between delivering work and developing business relationships, according to Mo Bunnell? Why do skills that make you an expert often conflict with those needed to grow professionally? How can you master the shift to winning work while maintaining your technical expertise? High Performance and Resilience – 00:30:22 What are the key principles of performance psychology shared by Eric Potterat, inspired by Navy SEALs? Why is adaptability just as important as grit, according to Ross White? How can psychological flexibility help you navigate life's challenges and enhance performance? Overcoming Inner Challenges – 00:38:59 How does understanding personal baggage influence relationships and decision-making? Why is self-awareness crucial for achieving personal growth and happiness? Living with Purpose – 00:41:57 How does Jodi Wellman encourage us to confront mortality as a motivator for living fully? How can reflecting on your limited time inspire you to take action today? Unlocking the Unsaid – 00:45:54 Why do people often withhold valuable insights in relationships, according to Jeff Witzler? How can asking better questions deepen your connections and uncover hidden truths? What are the fears and barriers that prevent open communication, and how can you overcome them? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Johnny Dzubak and AJ Harbinger, creators of The Art of Charm podcast, share how their podcast—and their subsequent training services—help people open up lines of communication and influence. They explain how positive feedback loops and other trained behaviours can make you more persuasive and discuss the skills that can help build trust and relationships. Johnny and AJ also describe how their work with Special Forces allowed them to communicate with other cultures to build valuable rapport.

In today's episode, we cover the art of decision making with Shane Parrish. Shane is an expert on mental models and frameworks for effective decision-making, a former intelligence officer, founder of Farnam Street (the world's most read blog on clear thinking), and the author of Clear Thinking: Turning Ordinary Moments into Extraordinary Results. Every day is filled with countless decisions you don't think twice about, but those little decisions have a larger impact than the “life-changing” decisions you spend days, weeks, or months contemplating, so what is the secret to ensure those everyday decisions you make are not pulling you away from the life you want, what 4 psychological traps must you avoid to make the best decisions, and what rituals can you put into place to propel you toward the life you want? What to Listen For Introduction – 0:00 How to use the small everyday decisions to get ahead of everyone worrying about the big “life-changing” decisions? What is more important than doing your best? Rules for success that 90% of people never follow – 15:05 How do you ensure you only make the best decisions in stressful or high pressure situations? How to love doing something you hate – 27:47 What systematic routine can you implement to turn any task into one you look forward to and excel at? What mental trick can you use to achieve any goal you set for yourself? Are you chasing the right goals? – 39:51 How can you know if you're chasing the goals YOU want for yourself or if you're chasing the goals OTHERs want for you that you have internalized as your goals that you will later regret wasting your life in pursuit of? What proven template can you use to learn from every mistake you make and have made? Planet Money is a different kind of world where the complex economy actually makes sense; where human stories supersede abstract theories. Listeners can learn, laugh, and be entertained. It's economics, down to earth. Tune in to Planet Money every week for entertaining stories and insights about how money shapes our world. Stories that can't be found anywhere else. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today's episode, we cover how to make friends with AJ, Johnny, and Coach Michael Herold.  It is an unfortunate statistic that we lose friends as we get older, but why does that happen, what can you do to make and maintain friendships that last a lifetime, what are the 3 traits you need to be the friend everyone wants, and proven system can you implement tomorrow to attract dynamic high value people into your life?  What to Listen For Introduction – 0:00 Why do you have fewer friends today than you did 10 or 20 years ago and what can you do to rebuild friendships you've lost? Make dynamic high value friends that turbocharge your life – 10:05 What can you do to find and build friendships with high value people who share your values and interests? 3 steps to be the rock star of your social circle – 20:38 What 3 traits do you need to master to be the guy (or girl) everyone wants to be around? How do you pinpoint the valuable social capital you bring to friendships so you can leverage it to accelerate the building of future friendships? Build rock solid friendships effectively and efficiently – 38:46 How many hours does it take to build friendships that last a lifetime? What is the most effective AND efficient strategy to funnel the best prospects for friendship into your life so you don't waste time getting to know people who don't meet your standards? Planet Money is a different kind of world where the complex economy actually makes sense; where human stories supersede abstract theories. Listeners can learn, laugh, and be entertained. It's economics, down to earth. Tune in to Planet Money every week for entertaining stories and insights about how money shapes our world. Stories that can't be found anywhere else. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

AJ Harbinger and Johnny Dzubak created the immensely popular Art of Charm podcast. When they met years ago they realized they could combine AJ's work in a University of Michigan cancer research lab and Johnny's observations tending bar out East to transform the mysteries of influence into hard science. Now they've developed a coaching program that helps clients handle every sticky social situation from getting a date to impressing your boss to working a room. A fascinating, fast-paced and fun episode.The keys to “Unlocking the Power of Relationships and Communication” include the value of vulnerability in breaking the ice, the importance of peer pressure, and how to change the signals we send out to elicit the responses we want.  They now work with organizations from universities to corporations to the military, one of their biggest clients. When you listen to this episode, you'll understand why. About our Guests:Website: https://theartofcharm.comPodcast: https://theartofcharm.com/podcast/Facebook Community: Facebook About our Host:For info about the book or this podcast please visit our website:http://www.letthemleadbybacon.comhttp://www.johnubacon.comYou can connect with John via these platforms:https://www.facebook.com/johnubaconhttps://twitter.com/Johnubacon

Johnny Dzubak is a former musician and currently one of the hosts and coaches for The Art of Charm Podcast.  @ArtofCharmTV  ——————————————————— Michael's Men of Action program is a Master's course dedicated to helping people elevate their social lives by building elite social circles and becoming higher status. Click the link below to learn more: https://m.moamentoring.com/podcast Join Michael's free MOA group on Skool: https://www.skool.com/men-of-action-free  ———————————————————— Become an affiliate for MOA Mentoring: https://www.moamentoring.com/earn Subscribe on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/user/MichaelSartain Listen on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-michael-sartain-podcast/id1579791157 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2faAYwvDD9Bvkpwv6umlPO?si=8Q3ak9HnSlKjuChsTXr6YQ&dl_branch=1 Filmed at Sticky Paws Studios: https://m.youtube.com/channel/UComrBVcqGLDs3Ue-yWAft8w  0:00 Intro 0:55 The idea for the podcast 4:03 “The Game” and Neil Strauss 5:07 Growing the podcast 7:26 Crafting the coaching program 12:09 Not having “what if's” in his life 13:15 Bootcamps were fun and legitimately helpful 13:44 Running the program in New York 14:48 Beginnings of social media and making noise 17:23 Archives of old podcasts with Mystery 18:55 Changing the name to “The Art of Charm” 20:08 Moving to LA 20:55 Pivoting from the pick-up brand 23:53 ***Psychology and self-improvement are not part of pick-up 26:25 *How many times has a woman been approached from puberty to 21 27:11 Women can better sniff out hierarchies 27:48 Sex differences 28:21 *Women also get a vote in the pick-up game 29:21 The nerdy guys didn't want to hang out with the alpha guys 30:18 ****Having female friends introduce you to other women 34:01 Being friends and sleeping with a woman are mutually exclusive 35:47 **Getting over the friend zone fear 37:02 Girls get you into the VIP 37:48 ****Logistics and the willingness to move 41:10 The podcast becomes popular and mainstream 42:16 **Having Kobe Bryant on the podcast 47:12 Having Neil deGrasse Tyson on the podcast 49:56 ***Nobody looks up the data and the science 53:48 ***Men with higher IQs are less likely to have sex 1:02:25 Having David Goggins on the podcast 1:10:38 **Men need challenges 1:13:08 *As men, the world tells us “no” 1:16:27 Helicopter parents 1:18:22 Messaging people on IG 1:21:08 The Text Book and emojis 1:25:42 Men frustrated by women not rewarding their intellect 1:27:18 How to create an emotional state 1:28:06 The attraction-comfort dichotomy 1:28:38 ***How not to get stuck in the friend zone 1:34:38 Women thinking they're immune to pre-selection 1:35:39 Quantum Mechanics and body healing 1:37:14 Feminine and masculine energy 1:38:50 **Metabolic health 1:42:30 **Deepening relationships, networking, and friendships 1:46:42 *Networking is an evolutionary adaptation 1:49:55 Sussing out sociopaths 1:52:12 Reading body language 1:54:26 Women sleep with you because of your value, not your intent 1:57:15 Writing to high vs low-status people 1:59:12 **Abundance 2:02:11 The beer goggles study 2:03:04 **Monogamy 2:07:43 ***Polyamory 2:09:47 *Surplus men 2:12:15 Men need to learn to compete 2:13:00 Social media 2:15:44 Challenging your own ideas

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In today's episode, we cover negotiation with Barry Nalebuff. Barry is a Professor at Yale where he has taught negotiation, innovation, strategy, and game theory for thirty years, and recently authored Split the Pie: A Radical New Way to Negotiate, which is based on his negotiation course.Negotiating can be intimidating if you don't do it on a regular basis, so what simple tips can you remember to make your next negotiation a win, how do you negotiate with people who are clearly more experienced than you, and what is the best question to ask when negotiating your salary?What to Listen ForIntroduction – 0:00What's the difference between Split the Pie and Never Split the Difference?How to negotiate with unfair people – 10:55 What can you do to negotiate with people who don't care about fairness?How can you “be ready to walk away” from a once-in-a-lifetime deal?Dealing with people who don't see the win-win outcome – 21:10 How do we use empathy to get the other person's perspective and come up with a deal that satisfies both parties?How much information should you disclose in a negotiation if you're worried the information might be used against you?How to build your negotiation skills – 35:30 What can you do to develop your negotiation skills?How can you get the other party to see the pie you're negotiating over?What advice should you avoid when negotiating?Negotiate the salary you deserve – 44:08What questions can you ask so you know how to ask for the best compensation package without losing the offer?It is important to remember that the goal of any negotiation should be a mutually beneficial agreement, aka the pie. Both parties need to feel like they've won something and achieved their goals in order for negotiations to be successful. If you can walk into a negotiation with empathy and an understanding of the other person's perspective, you're already on your way to building better skills. What have been your biggest challenges when negotiating? Let us know in the comments below. We would love to help!A Word From Our SponsorsDo you LOVE the toolbox episodes? Did you know that every week we give a LIVE mini-toolbox lesson inside our Private Facebook Group? Best of all it is FREE to join. Join today and get access to all of our live training and level up your communication, leadership, influence and persuasion skills. With 14,000 members it's a great place to network, learn and overcome any obstacle that's in your way.Did you know that you can get the whole Art of Charm catalog when you subscribe to Stitcher Premium using our link? That's 15 years of podcasts featuring expert guests and toolbox episodes! Sign up today and use Code “CHARM” to get a free month!Running out of things to say in conversation… and still struggling to get people interested in you? That's an uncomfortable position to be in. Don't want to risk getting tongue-tied and screwing things up the next time you meet someone? Check out Conversation Magic now to make sure you don't crash and burn. With our bulletproof formula, you'll be flirting up a storm, sparking fun and engaging conversations, and making high-value friends anywhere!Resources from this EpisodeSplit the Pie by Barry NalebuffCo-Opetition by Barry NalebuffCheck in with AJ and Johnny!AJ on InstagramJohnny on InstagramThe Art of Charm on InstagramThe Art of Charm on YouTube

The path to success is almost never linear. AJ Harbinger and Johnny Dzubak started The Art of Charm over a decade ago and really had no idea of what it would become. 250 million downloads later, they...Read the whole entry... »

We could all stand to add a dash of charisma to our social encounters. Hosts of the hit podcast The Art of Charm join Keep Connected to discuss one of the most elusive aspects of socializing: how to charm others. Learn why AJ Harbinger and Johnny Dzubak  think charm is a skill rather than a personality trait and how friendships mark the difference between existing and thriving. For more details on this and other episodes, visit: http://www.meetup.com/blog/category/keep-connected-podcast/We hope you'll keep connected with us. Drop us a line at podcast@meetup.com. If you like the podcast, be sure to subscribe and leave us a rating!

Have you been a little awkward in your first attempts to be social post-vaxx? If you have, don't feel bad. We're all off of our game right now and figuring out what to say, how to safely socialize, and how to regain social momentum is one of the biggest challenges we face right now. But, we called in the perfect guests to help with that problem.  In today's episode, AJ Harbinger and Johnny Dzubak from The Art of Charm, share their secrets, backed by science, on how to be social in 2021. Their hit podcast and coaching company are all about becoming more comfortable, showing how building stronger connections with people and expressing yourself are indeed an art form, and they'll share their strategies with us.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Art of Charm is where self-motivated guys and gals, just like you, come to learn from a diverse mix of experienced mentors, including the world's best professional and academic minds, scientists, relationship experts, entrepreneurs, bestselling authors, and other badasses. This show will make you a better networker, better connector, and -- most important -- a better thinker.Let's get to know the founders of The Art of CharmAJ Harbinger was on the fast track, pursuing his Ph.D. in Cancer Biology at the University of Michigan and working in the high pressure environment of a research lab. He would learn that performing well at your job isn't always enough as he was passed over for opportunities and even having some of his proudest contributions overlooked. Something was missing.His desire to figure it out was the inspiration for starting the Art of Charm Podcast over a decade ago. It was an opportunity to talk to world-class experts and high achievers and learn how they found success in all areas of their lives. It was the scientist in him - have a problem, study it, and break down what's going on.Johnny Dzubak's first love was rock ‘n roll. Being an international rockstar was always in the cards.But when the music stopped though, something became abundantly clear to him. The life of a rockstar can sometimes be lonely and would leave him wanting more in his personal life. Connection and deeper relationships.Stepping away from music, he dedicated himself to learning everything about what makes us tick and how relationships work. That's when he found his second love, helping others develop meaningful relationships that make life worthwhile. Connect with them:Email: help@theartofcharm.comWebsite: https://theartofcharm.com/Twitter: @TheArtOfCharmFacebook: @TheArtofCharm Instagram: @theartofcharm Youtube: Art of Charm TVPodcast: The Art of Charm  

Ep #94 - This week on the podcast, I'm joined by the co-creators of the Art of Charm podcast and the X-Factor Accelerator coaching program, AJ Harbinger and Johnny Dzubak. AJ and Johnny help people easily connect and captivate anyone they meet. Through their podcast and coaching programs, they have helped celebrities, Olympic athletes, and Fortune 500 CEOs create deeper connections, improve persuasion, and ultimately increase their influence. In today's episode, we will discuss the tactics and principles from their programs, and how they apply to the business world. You'll hear discussions on networking, the power of influence, and how to be a better communicator - even if you're an introvert. Enjoy! Learn More About Johnny, AJ, and The Art of Charm: Visit the Art of Charm website at: https://theartofcharm.com/ Follow the Art of Charm on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/theartofcharm/ Also, please remember to subscribe, rate, and leave a written review for the show if you find value in it. Your reviews help this show to reach a wider audience and I appreciate everyone that has been leaving them.   FOLLOW CHARLES GAUDET ON SOCIAL MEDIA: Follow Charles Gaudet on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charlesgaudet Follow Charles Gaudet on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charlesgaudet Follow Charles Gaudet on Twitter: https://twitter.com/charlesgaudet   VISIT THE PREDICTABLE PROFITS WEBSITE: https://PredictableProfits.com

I wanted to bring my friend Johnny on today to talk like we have before about socializing, especially in the post pandemic world. Johnny is an expert on communication and social skills and you'll love his takes on confidence, getting to good conversation with anyone, and more! 2:31 Reflections on the last year. 10:04 The limits of interpersonal communication through technology and the results of anxiety/depression. 19:28 Mass marketing and fear. Are we entering the next golden age? 32:41 Using the FORD acronym to talk to anyone! 41:39 Listen to listen, not to respond.

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Johnny Dzuback is the co-host of the Art of Charm podcast, and a podcasting legend. He has been developing his own wisdom on all things self-development, personal growth and connection for a couple of decades. Originally in the music industry, Johnny is now a personal development expert who teaches men the "art of charm" and interpersonal connection. This episode covers a lot, including: How the Art of Charm podcast is still around after all these yearsHow he got to his personal development path and discovered his passion for human connectionThe importance of self-connection when connecting with othersWhy losing yourself is a good thingHow confidence comes from knowing who you areHow you don't need to be confident to be authentic3 Levels of Vulnerability and appropriate disclosureThe power in self-expressionThe soul, fulfillment and more. To find Johnny & AJ and their work, head to www.theartofcharm.com. You can also follow them on all the social media channels. Simply search Art of Charm. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Today's guest is Jordan Harbinger. He's an American Podcaster, Radio Personality, and sought-after speaker. He has the top 10 podcasts in the world, and in 2018, won the award for best of Apple Podcast. He's a relationship expert who has 11 million monthly downloads. Talk about the real deal! The movie Hitch, with Will Smith, was based on his life story. But why I'm such a fan of Jordan is because I can hear his heart on his podcast. When he speaks, you can tell he genuinely cares about others. He believes in giving without gain. If you're looking to build relationships or find a relationship, then this episode is for you.Jordan Harbinger is a former Wall Street lawyer who learned how to effectively network and build relationships to survive in a competitive industry. Jordan gave up law to do something that he loved podcasting. He started a podcast back in 2006 called "The ART of the Charm," which was pre-online dating when no one even knew what podcasting was. Years and millions of downloads later, he now uses these skills to interview guests on his podcast, the Jordan Harbinger Show, giving listeners insight into becoming a better version of themselves. Forbes named Jordan one of the 50 Best Relationship Builders worldwide. Jordan believes your network is your net worth.Not only is Jordan super nice, but he's also insanely interesting. He speaks five languages and has been kidnapped twice on two different continents. Jordan even gave tours in North Korea for fun. His relationship and interpersonal relationship skills are so sharp, he's one of the best interviewers globally. Today Jordan will share everything he knows about networking and relationships.Kerry Brett and Jordan Harbinger cover a lot of ground topics include:If you act, more confident people will change the way they treat you.The importance of revision and review. Work on skills your not good at as well as the ones you are good at.You can act into a newly confident person.Give without gain, be a giver.The secret of success is to give without the attachment of getting something in return.It’s important to figure out the types of things a person is interested in professionally or personally, find a common ground.How adding value with make a huge difference in connecting with others.If you are heartbroken, knocked down or need to rebuild or start over don’t skip a beat, do everything you can to get back on your feet. Action ends suffering.Build a network before you need it.Never act like anyone owes you a thing. If you act entitled, you will get written off as a “taker”.Don’t get discouraged. Sometimes you’ll swing and miss but you can always try again later.If you would like to find out more about Jordan Harbinger, you can listen to his podcast the Jordan Harbinger Show or go to www.jordanharbinger.comand download his free 6 minute networking course.

This episode is about giving thanks and how a ‘Salty Breakup’ lead to more solo success. Jordan Harbinger is a former Wall Street Lawyer turned podcast interviewer. His approachable style and knack for securing high profile guests has led to him being called the “Larry King of Podcasting”. His podcast the Jordan Harbinger Show was voted Apple’s best of 2018. You may have also heard of him from his previous podcast, The Art Of Charm which he co-founded and then left in 2018. In his own words: ‘In addition to my podcast I teach relationship development or networking, but I don’t like that term because it’s a dirty word! I teach relationship development to everyone from sales teams, google, facebook, all the way to secret service and the CIA’ The #1 Personal Leadership Podcast For Tales & Tactics To Thrive! Watch Adam's "Awaken Your Alpha" TEDx Talk here: www.bit.ly/TEDxALW This quest takes us across the globe to interview the world's most successful minds and share our own insights along the way. As we continue to learn and implement the “Hacks” to life, we share the best through the podcasts and in the Facebook community "Awaken Your Alpha Network" Search & Join us in the pursuit of high performance. The podcast also has a bestselling book! TALES & TACTICS TO THRIVE www.AYAlpha.com/book Get all the resources from each shows spotlighted guest, get your support and your questions answered. Connect across social media @AwakenYourAlpha @AdamLewisWalker to join the conversation.

I am thrilled to share the interview I did with the guys behind the Art of Charm podcast! AJ Harbinger and Johnny Dzubak have been in the game of helping people enhancing their social skills for suceeding with life, business and love. They got a big heart for helping people improving and releasing the X-factor! Check them out at www.theartofcharm.com Enjoy!

People are reporting higher rates of loneliness and dissatisfaction with their social lives more than ever in our technology-inundated world. But more meaningful, authentic, and relatable relationships that will fuel all of your life goals are achievable with the right tools! Our social interactions impact our lives in a profound ways across the board, some of which you might not even realize. Today, our social skills are being tested during quick run-ins with people at the gas station to life’s bigger moments like job negotiations and securing a fulfilling romantic relationship. It takes 14 subsequent events to change one’s first impression – are you presenting the best and most authentic version of yourself each and every time?   This episode is jam packed with tools to hone your social skills which are at an all-time premium in this current time. Johnny and AJ break down their tried-and-true strategies that you can start using today to Supercharge your confidence and social interactions. No matter who you are, what your personality type is, and where you believe your social skills are at right now, these techniques will empower you to get the most out of life by working on the most important soft skill we have access to as human beings. Learn how self-identified introverts AJ and Johnny transformed their own lives and so many others with their patented Art of Charm programs, and their commitment to assessment, practice, and adding value through everyday interactions. Delve into the multiple levels of listening, paying attention to emotional bids, the best follow-up questions to add value to conversations, and how to use the Three As (attention, appreciation, and acceptance) to build social capital practically and mindfully with family members, colleagues, and friends.    In this episode, we discuss:  Myths of Introverts (1:30)  Social Skills: Innate or Learned? (5:20) Johnny and AJ’s groundbreaking self-assessment exercise (8:15) The Art of Charm Boot Camp and why it’s revolutionary (14:00)  Shyness and the self-fulfilling prophecy (19:25)  The stickiness of first impressions (24:15)  Dr. Judy’s own embarrassing and awkward stories about dating (30:00)  (24:28) The secret to clearing any roadblock in your life (36:00) Supercharged Tip of the Day (40:35) Drjudyho.com Instagram.com/drjudyho Twitter.com/drjudyho             Facebook.com/doctorjudyho Instagram.com/stage29podcasts Twitter.com/stage29podcasts Facebook.com/Stage29Podcasts Theartofcharm.com Instagram.com/theartofcharm Twitter.com/theartofcharm Youtube.com/c/artofcharmtv Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you've ever struggled with feeling awkward at a social gathering, hating small talk, or feeling like an imposter in your own body, then this episode is for you. AJ Harbinger and Johnny Dzubak from The Art of Charm, Inc. share their secrets, backed by science, on how to become more comfortable, showing how building stronger connections with people and expressing yourself are indeed an art form. They talk about their separate histories, AJ being in science and Johnny in music, and how it eventually brought them together to form The Art of Charm. Together, they share about the things most people are struggling with, along with the importance of body language. Through their years of coaching experience, AJ and Johnny help everyday people learn how to become higher performers, better spouses, partners, and co-workers. Join them as they dig deep into human behavior, the science behind it, and figure out what we do and why we do it.Wanna Host Your Own Podcast?Click here to see how my friends at Brandcasting You can helpGet your FREE Sneak Peek of John's new book Better Selling Through Storytellinghttp://sellingsecretsforfunding.us9.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=655c123123cd21ff7a24d914e&id=6f12bc74af John Livesay, The Pitch WhispererShare The ShowDid you enjoy the show? I'd love it if you subscribed today and left us a 5-star review!Click this linkClick on the ‘Subscribe' button below the artworkGo to the ‘Ratings and Reviews' sectionClick on ‘Write a Review'Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share!Here's How »Join The Successful Pitch community today:JohnLivesay.comJohn Livesay FacebookJohn Livesay TwitterJohn Livesay LinkedInJohn Livesay YouTube

Specializing in human behavior, relationships, and human connection for over 14 years, Johnny and AJ are the men behind the widely successful podcast "The Art of Charm," which they've been producing for several years. On this episode, Johnny, AJ, and Coach Megan bring the heat in this timely episode unveiling specific, actionable steps to operating in a greater sphere of mental health, self confidence, and embodying the "It Factor." With their thousands of listeners, life changing coaching methods, and over a decade of study, Coach Megan is honored to have such legends share on the podcast today.  You can reach Johnny and AJ at www.theartofcharm.com and subscribe to their podcast "The Art of Charm" on all major podcast platforms. FOLLOW US HERE @powerhousepodcast_ -- Are you in The #1 FB Group for Pageant Winner Secrets? We only accept 10 women per week! It's FREE! Over 10 Hours of Coaching & Instant Access, Click Below! www.facebook.com/group/pageantwinner    FOLLOW US: www.instagram.com/powerhousepageantry www.Instagram.com/megan_swanson  www.instagram.com/alliemancuso 

Finding your voice as an individual is vital to realizing your potential and building a life that allows you to be the best version of yourself, but what does it mean to find your voice, what steps can you take today to discover it, and why will most people die before ever finding their voice?What to Listen ForHow do you define a successful networking event and what can you do to make your next networking event a success?Why is it important to discover your voice and use it to express your thoughts on a regular basis?What can you do to find your voice in a world where most people die without ever finding theirs?How do you deal with the blowback that comes from voicing your opinions and beliefs that some people inevitably won't agree with?What hurdles do women face in social situations inside and outside of work and what can you do as a woman to overcome those hurdles so you don't miss out on countless opportunities?How do you handle the gender dynamic as a woman in a leadership/management position when you want to command respect and authority?The more comfortable you become with who you really are and what you believe, the more likely you are to ruffle feathers and offend people. As your work on realizing your potential, your focus should not be on making sure as many people as possible like you or even agree with your ideas. Your focus should be on nourishing the relationships with those around you who value you as an individual for being who you are and standing firm in your beliefs and values.A Word From Our SponsorsShare your vulnerabilities, victories, and questions in our 17,000-member private Facebook group at theartofcharm.com/challenge. This is a unique opportunity where everyone — both men and women — celebrate your accountability on the way to becoming the best version of yourself. Register today here!MyBookie is THE place to bet on football every weekend - they have live, in-game betting on every NFL game. They've got the most rewarding player perks in the business and for you fantasy guys out there, you can even bet the over/under on how many fantasy points a player will score each game. Go to MyBookie.ag and double your first deposit using promo code CHARM to activate the offer.Resources from this Episode773: Eric Weinstein Meets The Art Of CharmCheck in with AJ and Johnny!AJ on InstagramJohnny on InstagramThe Art of Charm on InstagramThe Art of Charm on YouTube

Technology has an increasing influence on our lives, but did you know even small concentrated doses, such as working all day on a computer (aka a “tech coma”), can have a significant impact on your ability to interact with other people in healthy?What to Listen ForWhat is Eric Weinstein trying to do with his new podcast and why should you listen to it?What does the world of professional wrestling know about psychology that most psychology professors and researchers don't?What is the Intellectual Dark Web (IDW) and what can you learn from about how to have a constructive conversation with people you disagree with?How do you break through disinformation when you're constantly surrounded by “fake news”?How do you draw a boundary with your personal life if you have a life in the public eye?How is immigration being used to transfer wealth from one group to another and why should we restrict it?How do you take a platform's algorithm into account when deciding where to get your news and information?How can you become a critical consumer of information in an era driven by narratives and algorithms?Are you defenseless in today's day and age of corporations tasking incredibly smart individuals to do just about anything to get your attention, even if it means complete fabrication of events?How do you approach conversations when you know you're going to disagree with the other person?What is bad diversity and how does it distract us from having otherwise constructive conversations?What is a tech coma, how do you know if you are in one, and how does it cause atrophy of your social muscles?How can perfectionism hurt the pursuit of your goals and what can you do if you feel you are a perfectionist?As technology continues to permeate our everyday existence, it can be easy to let slip the skills that really matter when it comes to living healthy and happy lives. Humans are social creatures, and we rely on social interaction to bring us some of the most meaningful experiences and emotions while we're alive. Unfortunately, with the way we have developed various technological systems, we are building walls between each of us while claiming the screens on those walls make us more connected than ever. A Word From Our SponsorsShare your vulnerabilities, victories, and questions in our 17,000-member private Facebook group at theartofcharm.com/challenge. This is a unique opportunity where everyone — both men and women — celebrate your accountability on the way to becoming the best version of yourself. Register today here!Hiring used to be hard. Multiple job sites, stacks of resumes, a confusing review process. But today, hiring can be easy and you only have to go to one place to get it done: ziprecruiter.com/charm. ZipRecruiter is so effective that 4 out of 5 of employers who post on ZipRecruiter get a quality candidate through the site within the first day.Clearbanc is changing the way entrepreneurs raise money with equity-free capital. They charge a small flat fee for the capital, and you pay them back using a win-win rev share. If you are doing over ten thousand a month in revenue, find out how you can receive Clearbanc capital by getting your 20-minute term sheet at clearbanc.com/CHARM.Resources from this EpisodeThe Portal - a podcast by Eric WeinsteinEric Weinstein on TwitterEric Weinstein on YouTubeNews Diffs - Tracking Online News Over TimeEpisode 772: Dan Ariely: How to Defeat Indecision and RegretSave the Cat! The Last Book on Screenwriting You'll Ever NeedCheck in with AJ and Johnny!AJ on InstagramJohnny on InstagramThe Art of Charm on InstagramThe Art of Charm on YouTube

This week I was interviewed by the guys over at The Art of Charm Podcast and had a great time talking with them. We discussed things like how to get over social anxiety, first impressions and using your opportunities to your advantage to create things for yourself. Thanks to AJ & Johnny for having me on and go check out their podcast below! The Art of Charm Podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/art-charm-confidence-relationship/id212382281?mt=2&ign-mpt=uo%3D4 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week's Q&A Episode features actor, comedian, and magician Chris Williams.His resume is as diverse as his performance credits. You may know him as Hoover from Silicon Valley, Krazee Eyez Killa from Curb Your Enthusiasm, or Dwight from Dodgeball. He also just happens to be related to former Miss America and actress Vanessa Williams.Regardless of where you may recognize him, after two and half decades in the industry, he has become a natural at gaining people's interest and getting noticed. In our conversation, Chris shares what he's learned about breaking the ice, making powerful impressions, how to handle rejection, and more. He also helps Johnny & AJ answer questions from our audience. “Own who you are as you enter a room, what you can contribute and what you bring to the table.” – Chris Williams CHEAT SHEETRemember! If you have a question you would like Johnny & AJ to answer you can reach them at 1-855-ART-OF-CHARM. Calling not your style? Tweet us or send a DM on Instagram to @theartofcharm. You'll learn about Chris… How his sibling rivalry inspired pride and drive to carve his own path.Why acting (and life) is like surfing - and why enjoying the wait for the perfect wave is not wasted time.How to use door frames to actually “frame” your first impression, and other techniques to make a powerful first impression learned from the auditioningWhat Toblerone chocolates and the power of acknowledgment have in common. And Chris helps Johnny & AJ tackle YOUR Questions: “What's the smoothest ice-breaking technique you can come up with? - Ben“Any good tricks for getting people to put down their phones and start talking?” - Matthew“What is the easiest way to eject out of a low-value conversation, that you realize you are not interested in talking to?” - Bruno“What are the signs to look for when someone finds a question uninteresting?” - Jeff“How do you identify if eye contact is meaningful or awkward?” - Trent There is no magical combination of words. In reality, it's taking an interest in the other person - AJ We weren't all born as confident and charismatic as Chris Williams. You'll hear in the episode, even he had to learn how to have faith in himself in his early career. From July 22 to July 28, we are hosting a 7-Day Sprint to Confidence Challenge. You can join by CLICKING HERE. You'll be surrounded by fellow confidence seekers and supported by our AoC Coaching Staff.BAKblade 2.0 – a DIY back shaver includes a curved ergonomic handle to reach all those hard-to-reach areas. Use discount code CHARM20 for 20% on all orders over $30.Art of Charm listeners can get ANY PREMIUM INDOCHINO suit for just $379 + FREE Shipping when entering “CHARM” at checkout. This is 50% off the regular price for a made-to-measure premium suit. Incredible deal for a suit that will fit you better than anything off-the-rack ever could. Resource LinksListen to other episodes in the Breaking the Ice Series:Episode 710: The Art of Breaking the IceEpisode 711: The Art of Talking to StrangersEpisode 712: The Like Switch with Dr. Jack SchaferStay connected to Chris Williams: Instagram | Twitter Keep up with The Art of CharmShare even your smallest victories with us! We love to celebrate the Art of Charm community at the end of every episode. Send us a message or tag us on your favorite social media platform - @theartofcharm on Instagram | Twitter | FacebookOther AoC Resources: The Art of Charm - 7 Day Sprint to ConfidenceThe Art of Charm ChallengeThe Art of Charm InsidersThe Art of Charm BootcampBest of The Art of Charm Podcast What do you love about Shownotes? The article-like recap? Key Questions? Quotes? Let us know what your perfect episode recap looks like here. Enjoying what you hear? Your reviews are so valuable to us and to those who haven't discovered The Art of Charm podcast yet. Click here to share your Art of Charm experience. A big thank you to Chris. We're grateful he was able to make the time to help us figure out how to break the ice and gain people's interest - which he practices daily as a working actor. AND for inspiring us to eat fermented shark while in Iceland… a memory we won't soon forget!

This episode kicks off The Art of Charm's series on Breaking the Ice. After learning The Art of the First Impression - it's time to dig into how to start engaging conversations that genuinely capture the other person's interest.AJ and Johnny walk us through how to devise a strategic plan to break the ice that we can practice and quiet self-doubt and anxious thoughts.Beyond the social science, you'll get to hear how AJ broke the ice with his girlfriend Amy, and how Johnny's father broke the ice with unsuspecting hikers on the trail. Cheat SheetBreak the ice with banter - and no, we don't mean a corny one linerLearn how to ask a better question Understand the importance of listening - and not just hearing Take away a simple “Conversation Formula” And more!If you find yourself with questions, reach out! Tag us on social media @theartofcharm or leave us a voicemail at 1-855-ART-OF-CHARM. At the end of the month, we'll be answering your questions on air with guest Chris Williams.PLEASE SCROLL DOWN FOR FULL SHOW NOTES AND FEATURED RESOURCES!Full show notes at https://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/art-of-charm-podcast-the-art-of-breaking-the-ice-episode-710If you want to be first to know what's coming beyond the podcast - go to TheArtofCharm.com/Insiders to become an AoC Insider. Any new programs, events, challenges and even give-a-ways will go to our AoC Insiders first. SPOILER ALERT: We're just weeks away from our first big announcement! Acuity Scheduling is your online assistant, working 24/7 to keep your schedule straight. The AoC Family can go to AcuityScheduling.com/AOC to get 45-days free — that's over three times longer than the standard trial.

Aaron Walker (@VFTCoach) has almost four decades of successful entrepreneurship under his belt; he rejoins us to talk about his new book, View From the Top: Living a Life of Significance. "I'm always looking for a way to make it happen, not excuses why it won't work." -Aaron Walker The Cheat Sheet: Aaron grew up with nothing; discover what significant mindset shifts along the way changed his own results. Understand why we should fear missing opportunity more than we should fear failure. The importance of living proactively instead of reactively. The value of participating in a mastermind group. How a personal tragedy led to an entirely new way of thinking for Aaron. And so much more... Show notes at https://theartofcharm.com/631/ Find out more about the team who makes The Art of Charm podcast here! SmartMouth is the only activated oral rinse clinically proven to eliminate existing bad breath and prevent it from returning for a full twelve hours per rinse. Visit SmartMouth.com to get an in-depth, scientific analysis of how SmartMouth is able to deliver such incredible results! Distinctive style meets unique spirit in the all-new crossover Toyota C-HR. Check out Toyota.com/C-HR to learn more! With pain-free invoicing, FreshBooks helps entrepreneurs and freelancers save time and avoid a lot of the stress that comes with running a small business. Try a month of unrestricted use for free here (no credit card required)! Enter "ART OF CHARM" in the how you heard about us section. DesignCrowd helps startups and small businesses crowdsource custom graphics, logos, Web design -- even tattoo designs! Check out DesignCrowd.com/Charm for a special $100 VIP offer for our listeners or enter the discount code CHARM when posting a project. Does your business have an Internet presence? Now save a whopping 50% on new webhosting packages here with HostGator by using coupon code CHARM! Free yourself from typing notes, reports, and documents by going with the transcriptionists we trust here at AoC: TranscriptionOutsourcing.net -- 99% or higher accuracy guaranteed! HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

Jordan Harbinger is the host of The Art of Charm podcast and joins me to talk about how to win more business by building and strengthening relationships of trust with anyone.  In episode 113 you'll hear Jordan share some hands-on and practical ways to meet more people, build meaningful relationships with them - and more importantly, how that ties into winning more business. Loving the DPB? Thank you so much for joining me - I'm honored! I would LOVE LOVE LOVE if you'd share the show with anyone that you think would benefit. They will thank you forever!  DOMINATE! MC

The Real Deal with Jason Silverman featuring Jordan Harbinger – The Art of Charm Welcome to this edition of THE REAL DEAL with Jason Silverman! Jason Silverman got a chance to catch up with Art of Charm podcast host for a fun and truly eye opening conversation on how to be an effective and persuasive communicator. If you're… The post The Art of Charm with Jordan Harbinger appeared first on Jason M. Silverman.

The Real Deal with Jason Silverman featuring Jordan Harbinger – The Art of Charm Welcome to this edition of THE REAL DEAL with Jason Silverman! Jason Silverman got a chance to catch up with Art of Charm podcast host for a fun and truly eye opening conversation on how to be an effective and persuasive communicator. If you're… The post The Art of Charm with Jordan Harbinger appeared first on Jason M. Silverman.

Jordan Harbinger shares lessons learned while on Wall Street and how they informed the evolution of his business and extremely popular podcast, "The Art of Charm." Hear about soft-skills, non-verbal communication and what you should do when you walk through a doorway.

James Clear (@james_clear) experiments with and writes about behavioral psychology, habit formation, and performance improvement through mental models. The Cheat Sheet: Why is decision-making such a fallible process? What are mental models, and how can they help us make better decisions? Why should we collect mental models rather than relying on one as a default to solve all problems? How can we ruthlessly eliminate mediocre results? Where is the Zone of Good Luck and how can we live there? And so much more... With pain-free invoicing, FreshBooks helps entrepreneurs and freelancers save time and avoid a lot of the stress that comes with running a small business. Try a month of unrestricted use for free here (no credit card required)! Enter "ART OF CHARM" in the how you heard about us section. Does your business have an Internet presence? Now save a whopping 50% on new webhosting packages here with HostGator by using coupon code CHARM! Hate grocery shopping but you love to cook? Blue Apron delivers recipes and farm fresh ingredients to you. As an Art of Charm listener, you get your first two meals free here! Find out more about the team who makes The Art of Charm podcast here! Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/592/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

Steven Kotler (@steven_kotler) revisits the show to discuss his latest book, Stealing Fire: How Silicon Valley, the Navy SEALs, and Maverick Scientists Are Revolutionizing the Way We Live and Work. The Cheat Sheet: Why did psychology take a hundred-year detour around the therapeutic benefits of non-ordinary states of consciousness (NOSC)? Learn about ecstasis -- a specific range of NOSC sought by high performers like Navy SEALs and the elites in Silicon Valley. Compare the speed of conscious thought versus the speed of unconscious thought. What's the difference between ecstasis and flow? How MDMA-assisted psychotherapy significantly outperforms traditional talk therapy and medication in treating PTSD -- sometimes curing it completely. And so much more... Learn over 500 subjects (no tests or homework!) at The Great Courses Plus -- The Art of Charm listeners get one month free here! With pain-free invoicing, FreshBooks helps entrepreneurs and freelancers save time and avoid a lot of the stress that comes with running a small business. Try a month of unrestricted use for free here (no credit card required)! Enter "ART OF CHARM" in the how you heard about us section. Does your business have an Internet presence? Now save a whopping 50% on new webhosting packages here with HostGator by using coupon code CHARM! DesignCrowd helps startups and small businesses crowdsource custom graphics, logos, Web design -- even tattoo designs! Check out DesignCrowd.com/Charm for a special $100 VIP offer for our listeners or enter the discount code CHARM when posting a project. Find out more about the team who makes The Art of Charm podcast here! Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/590/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

Breakup Triage: The Cure for Heartache author Susan Winter rejoins us to answer a couple of questions that were addressed to her and help with our usual assortment of email in this Fan Mail Friday. Let's get to it! In this episode: Should a broken relationship be mended when the primary glue is guilt? It says more about the people who have cheated on you in multiple relationships than it does about you when you're always faithful and loving. But maybe you should review your selection process. Is there help for an attention craver who knowingly jeopardizes relationships by habitually flirting with strangers? Let's unpack the relationship exit strategy idea we talked about in Susan's episode and never got around to finishing (sorry)! How do you get over the jealousy you feel when your partner brings up past sexual exploits with other people? Is it possible to set new boundaries in a relationship (especially a marriage) once old ones have been established? Quick shoutouts to psychologist Linda and Lyft driver Simon! Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@theartofcharm.com! With pain-free invoicing, FreshBooks helps entrepreneurs and freelancers save time and avoid a lot of the stress that comes with running a small business. Try a month of unrestricted use for free here (no credit card required)! Enter "ART OF CHARM" in the how you heard about us section. Does your business have an Internet presence? Now save a whopping 50% on new webhosting packages here with HostGator by using coupon code CHARM! Find out more about the team who makes The Art of Charm podcast here! Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/fmf100/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

Jocelyn K. Glei (@jkglei) is a writer who is obsessed with how we can find more creativity and meaning in our daily work. Her latest book is Unsubscribe: How to Kill Email Anxiety, Avoid Distractions, and Get Real Work Done. The Cheat Sheet: Do you spend 30-40 percent of your work week managing email? Learn why email is a random rewards system and why it's so addictive. Understand why checking email feels so productive when you're not actually doing anything useful. How does email act as a weird form of kryptonite when it comes to social interactions? Discover why we need to let go of the idea of inbox zero. And so much more... Does your business have an Internet presence? Now save a whopping 50% on new webhosting packages here with HostGator by using coupon code CHARM! Whether you're a lady or a gent, you don't need to know what MicroModal fabric is to enjoy the comfort of MeUndies; you just need to wear them -- support this show (and yourself) with MeUndies here for 20% off! With pain-free invoicing, FreshBooks helps entrepreneurs and freelancers save time and avoid a lot of the stress that comes with running a small business. Try a month of unrestricted use for free here (no credit card required)! Enter "ART OF CHARM" in the how you heard about us section. Want three free rides up to $10 each? Download the free Lyft app today and enter promo code AOCPODCAST in the payment section! Find out more about the team who makes The Art of Charm podcast here! Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/586/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

Time for Fan Mail Friday, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. Let's cut to it! In this episode: What is Jordan's background in law enforcement? Some listener feedback for Troubled in Tennessee from Fan Mail Friday #94 by someone who's been there before. Why don't we cover business and fitness topics more often? How do we offer grief support to others in a way that serves them best? (Thanks to the LifeProTips subreddit for help with this one.) A listener of shorter stature worries that he's taken on a small personality. A couple of questions about cultural identity in the United States. Quick shoutouts to PJ and Jameel Kassouri! Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@theartofcharm.com! With pain-free invoicing, FreshBooks helps entrepreneurs and freelancers save time and avoid a lot of the stress that comes with running a small business. Try a month of unrestricted use for free here (no credit card required)! Enter "ART OF CHARM" in the how you heard about us section. Does your business have an Internet presence? Now save a whopping 50% on new webhosting packages here with HostGator by using coupon code CHARM! Find out more about the team who makes The Art of Charm podcast here! Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/fmf97/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

Linda Carroll (@Lovecycleslinda) rejoins the show to discuss how we often label the other person in a relationship as "the crazy one" and why we need to examine where we land on the narcissistic continuum. Linda is a therapist and author of Love Cycles: The Five Essential Stages of Lasting Love. The Cheat Sheet: After a painful breakup, have you ever casually referred to the estranged party as your "crazy ex?" It's common to chalk up the strains of complex human dynamics as the results of someone else's mental disorder when we want to avoid taking personal responsibility for them -- and this is dangerous. While a real narcissist is hard to find, we all land somewhere on the narcissistic continuum. Learn what we can do if we think we or someone we know and love might be in a relationship with a narcissist -- or even be one. Understand the difference between being a true narcissist and exhibiting narcissistic qualities. And so much more... Are you trying to hire the right person for your business, but the best candidates keep slipping away? Let ZipRecruiter -- the fastest way to hire great people -- help you screen only the best here! Hate grocery shopping but you love to cook? Blue Apron delivers recipes and farm fresh ingredients to you. As an Art of Charm listener, you get your first two meals free here! With pain-free invoicing, FreshBooks helps entrepreneurs and freelancers save time and avoid a lot of the stress that comes with running a small business. Try a month of unrestricted use for free here (no credit card required)! Enter "ART OF CHARM" in the how you heard about us section. Does your business have an Internet presence? Now save a whopping 50% on new webhosting packages here with HostGator by using coupon code CHARM! Find out more about the team who makes The Art of Charm podcast here! Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/580/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

Jordan Harbinger has always had an affinity for social influence, interpersonal dynamics, and social engineering, helping private companies test the security of their communications systems and working with law enforcement agencies before he was even old enough to drive. Forbes named him one of the 50 best relationship-builders anywhere and Inc. Magazine calls him “the Charlie Rose of Podcasting.” Jordan has spent several years abroad in Europe and the developing world, including South America, Eastern Europe, and the Middle East, and speaks five languages. He has also worked for various governments and NGOs overseas, traveled through war zones, and been kidnapped — twice. In this episode we talk about: Jordan Harbinger putting extra energy on the show The Art of Charm getting 2 million downloads a month Jordan Harbinger being an artist/maker Jordan being kidnapped twice Mind vs. body communication About box breathing

“Authenticity is hard because it requires us knowing who we are before we can be ‘authentic.' Develop the hell out of yourself so that you know what you want and what you don't want.” On this episode of The Impact Entrepreneur Show we have Jordan Harbinger, founder of http://theartofcharm.com (The Art of Charm), an iTunes Top 50 podcast, and advanced social skills training program for top performers.   If you could pick any superpower, what would it be and how would you use it? Freeze time. This has so many applications. You decide, “Oh man, I'm not getting enough stuff done!” No problem; freeze time, go to sleep, wake up fully rested, keep outworking everybody.   What are you most excited about? I'm excited about is moving the show [The Art of Charm Podcast] forward, and getting better at the craft of talking to other people and creating the show. So feasibly, my goal is to become one of the best interviewers in the world where it becomes a right of passage to come on the show.   How do you decide what opportunities to pursue and what to pass on? The way that I started promoting the show was “I'm going to do every podcast, I'm going to say yes to everything”. What I found was, after a while I got sick of being interviewed poorly. So I created a focused filter of things that make me happy and things that move my business forward. I choose my opportunities like I choose my tools   How have you evolved and remained true to your vision over the years? I don't know if we have. We're constantly evolving what we teach and what we do. The intent is being helpful to other people and not be spammy internet marketers. We always knew that we couldn't sleep well at night creating a crappy business and it had to be something that had longevity. We're playing long game and so a lot of our decisions have been made in that way.   How did you overcome the obstacles you've faced? A lot of what we have that's worked for us is delusional confidence in the product, as in “This is gonna work even if we have to change it a thousand times we're probably not going to go out of business because this is so good. We have the idea. We have the technology. It's gonna work. We're smart. We can figure this out.” That kind of confidence.   How do you go about changing one's mindset it 6 day span after a lifetime of bad habits? The way that we change habits in that super short amount of time is that we don't change your habits in that short amount of time. We give you 6 months of prep before your program. You have a lot of drills and exercises. There's pre-calls with the coach before the program. Then you come in for the week-long live component. After the program, we have an alumni network, and a follow up program. It's just the live component part of the program that's a week.   How will you measure your life? I really want to put as much knowledge, information, and practical stuff out there as I can. It's like, have I really left it all out on the table? The real way I would probably measure my life is whether my kids are great productive members of society or whether they're crappy.   Parting words of wisdom: “Legacy is greater than currency” helps you make decisions better than you normally would.   Show Links: Art of Charm: http://theartofcharm.com/ (ArtofCharm.com) Twitter: https://twitter.com/theartofcharm (@theartofcharm) Email: jordan@theartofcharm.com

Jason is back to talk about what's changed since the last time he was on - location, job and most importantly to this show - gear! New gear is always fun to talk about.

Jordan Harbinger is the co-founder of The Art of Charm, which he calls “Harvard of Social Dynamics.” Jordan ditched a career in law once he discovered the power that social dynamics command in business and life. He discovered that the key differentiator that sets successful people apart – in almost any endeavor – comes down […]

Episode #27: The Art of Charm Podcast with Jordan Harbinger   Podcast gangster 7:50 Sirius XM 10:00 iPhone Podcast help 11:30 Apple is cool 15:00 Getting guests 17:50 The podcast future 18:20 The Art of Charm 21:00 Stop thinking negative 22:45 San Fransisco 26:40 Rewinding 12 months 27:00 Calendars 29:00 Being stuck in a job 32:00 Scared of UK winter 33:00 What is playing in Jordan's head 34:00 http://theartofcharm.com   http://andymurphy.biz/free-focus-session

"When it comes to setting a date, just take the lead and guide the interaction. You'll have a lot better first dates and help yourself out with the Attraction Process." - Justin Jensen The Cheat Sheet: What's a social sales funnel and how do you use it in dating? Photoshopping your Tinder pics: how, when and why. How to showcase your personality on Tinder and stand out. What's the first goal on Tinder? Why it's good to give her your phone number. How to strike while the Tinder iron is hot. And so much more... Unless you've just emerged from living under a rock, you probably know what Tinder is. It's a dating app available on smart phones that allows men and women to meet. Tinder works by allowing you to post a quick profile, using your basic information (location, age, gender) and it posts a few photos of your choice from your Facebook account. There's room to write a short bio and then you simply see pictures of women in your area. You swipe right if you like them and want to connect, left if you don't. There are some keys to standing out among the Tinder crowd and setting yourself apart from the rest of the guys on there. Giving us the details on how to do just that are Justin Jensen of The Art of Charm and Byron, an AOC graduate. We talk about how to best showcase your personality through your photos and also how to establish rapport and connection with the ladies you want to meet. Join us to hear all of that and more on this episode. More About This Show: Like so many other dating opportunities out there, Tinder offers a way to meet people you might not come across during your normal daily routine. And also like other dating outlets, there are ways to stand out on Tinder that will make plenty of women notice you and want to meet you. Two guys who have Tinder on lock, Justin and Byron, tell us a few ways you can showcase yourself as an extraordinary guy. The first thing they recommend is creating some interesting and engaging photos. This doesn't mean get Photoshop and make yourself into a male model (although that might work for a little while). It means taking photos of you being you, and then maybe adding a silly message or a tongue-in-cheek phrase at the bottom to grab her interest. Doing so also gives her a talking point when you message her. You want to create as much opportunity for banter as possible when you two connect on Tinder. Once your photos are up and she swipes right to say she's interested, it's up to you to open up that line of communication for the banter to begin. Don't wait for her, you've got to initiate. Most of the women on Tinder receive plenty of messages, and that's where your witty banter and personality-based photos will help you stand out from the crowd. Once conversation has been opened, you two are communicating and bantering has been happening, then you'll want to move it along to the actual offline date. If the banter vibe is working, strike while the iron is hot and give her your number. After she texts you, text her back to tell her you'll call to set up a date later. And then actually call her. Very few men on Tinder are actually calling the women they meet, so right there you're already a leg up. When you call, give her a couple of different days when you are available for your date. Be sure to take the lead: set the date, pick the venue and let her know you're in the lead. You'll establish yourself as confident in her eyes. And if you mix in some humor, you've got the top two things most women are looking for in a man (confidence followed by sense of humor). Those are just some of the tips and techniques Justin and Byron give us for mastering Tinder. Whether you're looking for first dates to hone your skills or you want to find your ideal match, they lay it all out here in this interview. Have a listen and then get to Tindering! Resources from this episode: Free ebook about using Tinder (from The Art of Charm) You'll also like: -The Art of Charm Toolbox -Best of The Art of Charm Podcast HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dug this episode, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from all the fluff out there. FEEDBACK + PROMOTION Hit us up with your comments and guest suggestions. We read EVERYTHING. Email jordanh@theartofcharm.com Give us a call at 888.413.7177 Stay Charming!

Jordan Harbinger is a world traveler, lifestyle coach, and the man behind The Art of Charm podcast and blog of the same name. Jordan and his team of coaches teach men to get and "keep the girl" by overcoming insecurities, building confidence, and challenging old beliefs. What does all this have to do with healthy living? Listen up to find out! A Few Announcements and Events We're on the verge of launching a project I've been working on for the last few months. It's our brand-new online community, The Fat Burning Tribe! If you're stuck, have specific questions, or need extra help to reach your fat loss goals, improve your health, and accelerate your results, along with access to some delicious recipe ideas that will have you eat like a King, then the tribe may be just what you need! We're talking Q&A opportunities, exclusive coaching sessions, and much more! Here are some of the questions we will be answering "inside the Tribe"... "What's the best way to lose the last stubborn 10 pounds around the belly? I feel like I have hit a plateau." "Do you have any specific tips or tricks on how to eat healthy without spending a small fortune?" "What supplements or diet changes will boost my energy and still allow me to burn fat?" "How can I sustain a healthy, fat-burning lifestyle when I don't have any extra time for cooking or exercise?" "What are the top 5 fat-burning foods that you recommend for a busy lifestyle?" And so much more! I'm about to record our first webinar specific tactics about how you can break through your fat loss plateau. If you're interested in learning more, please come join the fun at FatBurningTribe.com. Also, coming up is PaeloFX, one of America's largest symposium that promotes the ancestral approach to eating and health. This convention jam-packed with speakers and experts, like Robb Wolf, Chris Kresser, Mark Sisson, Dr. Terry Wahls, Jonathan Bailor, Ben Greenfield, Dave Asprey, Stefani Ruper, George Bryant, and so many more! And yes, yours truly will be among the guest speakers! So check out PaleoFX conference in Austin, which is taking place this April 11-13, and hopefully I get to see you there! If you're attending, make sure to stop by say "hello" while you're there. I'd love to meet you! Today's Show With Jordan Harbinger This show might ruffle some feathers. We talk about body image, sex differences, and are quite transparent about the way that a lot of young single men see the world (and what that means for women). If you'd like to speak your mind, let us know what you think what you think in the comments below. We'd love to hear from you! By the way, I was also interviewed by Jordan on the Pick Up Podcast, so head on over to his site and listen to my interview with Jordan, too! On today's Fat Burning Man show, Jordan discusses... Why charm, charisma, and confidence are learned skills (and how you can increase them)... Surprisingly, how the perfect body often isn't actually what most people want... What women should know about men when it comes to attraction (it's not what you think!)... And much more! So go ahead and listen to the show! As always, Fat-Burning Man is listener-supported, which means your reviews and spreading the word to the people you care about makes a big different. Please take a moment to leave a review on iTunes or tell a friend if you haven't already. Thank you, you are awesome! [powerpress channel="podcast"]   [ois skin="Postage"]

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